since philosophy is the human kind of thought, it is the only kind proper for normal humans which are thinking animals, not only the kind of animal known as academics.
Main Point: The discussion of "the mean" (middle way) must be understood within its proper place in Aristotle's systematic argument.
The Full Argumentative Chain:
1. Ultimate Goal: Happiness (eudaimonia) - the one thing desired for its own sake
2. Nature of Happiness: Being the best kind of human; doing what humans should do well
3. Means to Happiness: Living according to virtue (excellence/perfection)
4. Types of Virtue: Focus on character virtues (as opposed to intellectual virtues)
5. What Character Virtue Is: A habit/disposition (*hexis*, *kinyan*) involving action, feeling, and judgment
6. CURRENT QUESTION: *Which* habits are the good ones? What distinguishes good habits from bad?
The Mean as Answer: The concept of "the mean" enters precisely here - as the *specific difference* that distinguishes good habits from bad habits.
Logical Structure of Definitions:
- Genus (*sug*): The broader category (e.g., "animal" for humans)
- Specific Difference (*hevdel*): What distinguishes within that category
- Species (*min*): The particular type defined by the difference (e.g., "rational" makes humans "rational animals")
Application to Virtue:
- Genus: Habits/dispositions (*kinyanim*)
- Specific Difference: Being "intermediate" or "mean"
- Species: Good habits (virtues)
Key Insight: The definition "virtue is a mean" functions like "human is a rational animal" - it identifies the essential distinguishing feature, not a comprehensive description.
Important Qualification: Definitions are not meant to be highly informative; they identify essence, not provide detailed knowledge.
Example: "Human is a rational animal" tells you:
- How to distinguish humans from other animals
- What is most essential about humans
- But NOT much practical information about human life
Parallel: "Virtue is a mean" tells you:
- How to distinguish good habits from bad
- What is essential about good character
- But NOT detailed guidance for every situation
The Diogenes Story [DIGRESSION]:
- Plato's Academy defined humans as "featherless bipeds"
- Diogenes brought a plucked chicken: "Here's your man"
- Point: Even correct definitions can seem useless; wrong definitions are worse
- Definitions don't give much information even when right
Plato's Distinction:
- Way Up (Bottom-Up): From particulars to principles (collection/induction)
- Way Down (Top-Down): From principles to particulars (division/deduction)
Ontological Priority: Principles/forms/definitions are primary in reality, even if not in learning.
Rambam's Approach:
- Starts with general definitions and principles
- Proceeds logically from first principles to details
- Example: *Mishneh Torah* structured from *Sefer HaMada* (metaphysics) to *Sefer Shoftim* (practical law)
- In *Hilchos De'os*: Begins with the definition "the middle way is correct"
Advantage: Logically correct, mirrors the structure of reality
Disadvantage: Difficult for learning; requires prior understanding to grasp the definitions
Mishnah's Approach:
- Presents details and cases first
- Offers general principles (*klalim*) only after particulars
- Formula: "*zeh haklal*" (this is the general rule) comes at the end
Why This Is More Philosophical:
- Philosophy is the *process* of ascending to principles
- Rambam gives the *results* of philosophy
- Mishnah/Gemara show the *philosophical activity* itself
- Learning requires starting from ignorance and ascending
Crucial Claim: "Chazal are more philosophical than the Rambam"
- Not because they discuss theology more
- But because they demonstrate philosophical method
- They show the dialectical process, not just conclusions
The Rosh's Argument:
- Quote from "a great man in Barcelona": Understanding Rambam requires knowing Gemara
- Where one knows the Talmudic background, one understands Rambam
- Where one lacks it (e.g., *Kodshim*), Rambam remains opaque
Why: Rambam's definitions only make sense after working through the details; without that background, they appear dogmatic rather than dialectical.
Return to Main Point: This explains why "virtue is a mean" seems unhelpful when presented first - it's the conclusion of an investigation, not the starting point.
Primary Purpose: The mean provides a *general definition* applicable to all virtues, not detailed guidance.
What It Accomplishes:
- Identifies the common structure of all character virtues
- Distinguishes good habits from bad habits
- Provides a framework for understanding virtue
What It Doesn't Accomplish:
- Detailed specification of each virtue
- Practical guidance for particular situations
- Complete understanding of virtuous action
Common Recognition: Courage is a virtue (good thing)
Two Obvious Extremes:
- Cowardice: Running from all danger/fear (too little)
- Rashness/Stupidity: Jumping into every danger (too much)
Courage: Something between these extremes
Critical Insight: Courage is NOT about finding a middle amount of danger-facing.
The Problem: If courage were simply "facing danger," then more would be better - but it's not.
The Question: What's the difference between courage and stupidity?
Answer: Courage means facing the *right* dangers for the *right* reasons in the *right* way.
What "Middle" Really Means:
- Not a quantitative midpoint on a spectrum
- Rather: the *correct* response (neither deficient nor excessive)
- Involves multiple dimensions: which dangers, why, how, when, for whom
Examples of Relevant Factors:
- Courage for your country in great danger: virtuous
- Courage for a lollipop: not virtuous
- Context, reason, manner, amount all matter
Key Point: What makes courage good is NOT that it's "courageous" (faces danger).
Rather: What makes it good is that it's the *correct kind* of response to danger.
Implication: The virtue consists in correctness, not in position on a spectrum.
Greek Context: *Sophrosyne* - one of the four cardinal virtues in Athens
Translation Issues:
- English: "temperance" or "moderation"
- Hebrew: No good equivalent
- *Prishus* (פרישות): Suggests extreme asceticism
- *Zehirus* (זהירות): Rambam's translation, usually means "carefulness"
- *Yiras chet* (יראת חטא): "Fear of sin" - also Rambam's translation
Basic Meaning: Moderation regarding pleasures, especially bodily pleasures
Excess: Being a *baal taavah* (בעל תאוה) - excessive pleasure-seeker, glutton (*fresse*)
Deficiency: Being insensitive to pleasure, taking no pleasure in life
Temperance: The middle - appropriate
Instructor: Okay, I hope my mic is connected. The story is, what did I say last week that we have to talk about? I know what I have to talk about, I just don't know the answer to the question. Or I know a little bit of it. What we said is that we talked about a lot of different things last week. Which were? The main point was that the side point which ended up taking a lot of time was that *midos* [middot: character traits] is based on the actions that you do. So like the sum of the actions that you do and not some internal measurement of your temperature. Something like that. But then you're saying that the middle means the right, it's just the right action. I'm trying to figure out exactly how is it even a middle. Meaning, you can have courage. The middle is to have courage. The things that are not... So what we talked about, which were the things that we're not talking about, is that there's a whole bunch. Let's go back, okay?
Instructor: There is a question that goes like this. We already know that we want to be happy. I'll give you the whole *chazara* [review] and *shevet* [sitting/session]. We already know that you want to be happy, which is the highest, the best thing. The best thing is to be happy, because that's what people want to be for no reason. Right? That's the goal. *Nachon* [correct]? Remember? The one thing that you don't give a reason for is being happy. Which means being the best kind of you. It doesn't mean feeling happiness, but that's another whole *derushe* [discourse/sermon]. And the being happy is about doing what you are well, doing what you should be doing well. That's what makes you happy.
Instructor: Which is why the human happiness or the human perfection consists in living according with virtue. Virtue is just another word for excellence or perfection. Like in everything we say, something like the good and the doing well are the same for everything. The camera-ing well is the same thing as being a good camera. So human-ing well is the same thing as being a good human. Right? So therefore, being a good human and a happy human means acting in accordance with virtue. Right?
Instructor: There are a few kinds of virtue which we're not very much concerned with right now, the distinctions of them. Mostly distinguished into what's called character virtue. I don't like how the camera looks. We have to lower the whole thing. Put the whole thing lower, not that. I have to not wear a white shirt, that's another issue. Take the whole thing and put it down. This stick, this big stick in the middle, turn the thing and put it down a bunch. Probably that way. Yeah, and then make the camera straight instead of pointing down. So it should actually go on my face mostly. There's one other thing that you turn somewhere that does it, I don't know which. I don't know, I don't want to mess up.
Student: You're not going to mess anything up, don't worry. Have some courage.
Instructor: No, it doesn't look like it's that one. It doesn't turn by itself, you have to loosen it and then turn it, right? Oh, that was not good. That was the one, now you know which one it is.
Student: Yeah. See? Very basic thing to find out how things work. You break them and you see which part breaks.
Instructor: True. Basic rule of debugging. Yeah, that's good, right? Very good. No, better. Color is still off, but that's my fault.
Okay. *B'kitzur* [in short], remember, there's a few kinds of being good, which have to do with a few parts of the soul and all of that. And *b'kitzur*, now we're discussing specifically what we call character virtues, things that have to do with feeling and action, not with knowledge and things like that, although they're not disconnected from knowledge because everything needs a kind of knowledge. We went through this a little bit already. Right?
Instructor: Now, being a good person means doing good things. Right? Is that what it means? Liking to do them, wanting to do them. But, right, there's this but, which we will elaborate later at length in the discussion of self-control versus being virtuous or having not self-control but liking it. But in short, nobody calls someone good if they're against doing good things, if it hurts them, if it pains them, if they don't find pleasure in it, which is why pleasure is a very important thing to talk about, what you like, liking. Right? Which is why being good consists of being a good human, especially a happy human, because also one of the things that you won't be if you're fighting with yourself all the time is happy. This is also something that has to do with the whole thing boiling down to happiness, which is one of the reasons why we're always after liking what we do instead of forcing ourselves to do the right thing. Right?
Instructor: This is why people like Immanuel Kant were explicitly against Eudaimonian ethics or ethics based on happiness. Also have the definition of ethics as doing something that you don't like or acting out of duty, out of the motive of duty, instead of out of the motive of what is best for me or subjectively best. But in any case, that's another whole *drush* [discourse].
Instructor: And now we're in the part where, so there are good things, but it still consists of doing good things and liking to do them, right? And having whatever it means that you like to do the good things. Okay? That's the kind of thing that being good is. But we still don't know what kind of thing or what kind of things are the good things to do. Right? Specifically the kind of good things which we call as pertaining to character, because there are other kinds of good things which are higher perfections really, which has to do with knowledge and understanding, which we're leaving on the side for now, although those are the best things and there's a whole other discussion about the life of thought, right? Life of contemplation. Now we're still talking about something like a social life, a political life, an active life.
Instructor: Now, so this is the question. Do you understand how I got you to this question? In other words, we already know what kind of thing virtue is. Why virtue? We already discussed and so on. What kind of thing virtue is or being a virtuous person is? We already know. It's a kind of having a kind of something we call like a habit or a habit together with a liking, or a habit together with a liking together with a kind of judgment that allows you to see what is good and so on. That's what kind of thing. But what is it? Right? Or we could say, which sort of this kind of thing is it? Someone's at the door. Is it that makes things good? We still don't, that makes actions good and therefore the habits or the character traits that make you want them good. We still don't know that. Right? No? That's where we are in the course of the book.
Instructor: And that is where the answer of the middle thing comes in. This is very important to realize, to realize, at least in the source in Aristotle, where this idea of a mean even enters into the discussion. The place where it even entered into the discussion was, and this is how we organized it, precisely this place, after we know what he says, we know the genus, we know what kind of thing virtue is, but we don't know which of it it is. Right? In other words, there's many habits, there's many, people can do many different things, and therefore they can have many different, what we call the *midda* [character trait], not really a good word. We should call it the trait, the character trait, the habit is maybe a better word. Even that is not a good word. Aristotle just calls it a hexis [Greek: disposition/state].
Instructor: Now, you have a Greek word to put in place of that, which we don't know what it means, but some kind of condition, right? Some kind of state of the soul, or habit is the Latin translation, habitus, which gives us in Hebrew things like second nature, which is kind of a nature, right? Or how did the *Rambam* [Maimonides] call it? A kind of *kinyan* [acquisition/possession].
And I said a wrong *pshat* [interpretation] on that last time, I looked it up. *Kinyan*, the reason it's called *kinyan* is not because it's something you buy, although that's in some sense true, it's because it's something that belongs to you. And it's translated by the Arabic, this Ibn Tibbon, I'm confusing you now, right? Any case, Ibn Tibbon back-translated this from Arabic, because in Arabic, what Aristotle called hexis, usually there's some other words, and in Latin it's translated as habitus, is what's translated as something like *malakat*, which is something the same as *melech* [king/ownership] in Hebrew, like originally, something like leadership, or ownership, or belonging. They say it about you could own anything, and it's like something that you own. That's how we got the word *kinyan* for this. And of course, I think he's thinking of the *Mishna* that says things like *kinyan Torah* [acquisition of Torah], and things like that, and he interprets it that way, but he explicitly says in *Be'er Sheva* [commentary on Mishnah Zeraim], that that's how he got the word *kinyan* for these kinds of things. And he says that it means something like nature, nature and what makes a thing do what it does.
Instructor: So, anyway, this thing, just to get back to where I am, we know what this is, hopefully we know what this is, because that's what we spend a lot of time figuring out what that is. But there are many of those, right? You could be good ones and bad ones, right? So we need some word which will distinguish the good ones from the bad ones.
Instructor: They say it about you could own anything, and it's like something that you own. That's how we get the word *kinyanim* [acquisitions/possessions] for this. And, of course, I think he's thinking of the Mishnah that says things like *kinyan Torah* [acquisition of Torah], and things like that, and he interprets it that way, but he explicitly says in *Bepeirush l'mishnayos l'zeraim* [in his commentary on Mishnah Zeraim] that's how he got the word *kinyan* for these kinds of things, and he says that it means something like a nature, a nature, what makes a thing do what it does.
So, anyway, this thing, now just to get back to where I am, we know what this is, hopefully we know what this is, because that's what we spend a lot of time figuring out what that is. But there are many of those, right? You could be good ones and bad ones, right? So we need some word which will distinguish the good ones from the bad ones, right?
If you know Aristotelian logic, you know that this is called looking for the specific difference, or the species instead of the genus. Remember this? In an example of if we ask what a human being is, first we ask of what kind of thing he is, right? What sort of thing he is? If we say a human being is an animal, then we say, but which kind of animal? And we say he's a rational animal. So that's the difference between humans, and in Hebrew it's translated as a *hevdel* [difference], the difference between a human and a different animal, which is, which kind of animal is he, right?
So first, two ways of saying the word kind, right? The same thing—what thing is, what is he, which kind of thing is he, is an animal, that's the bigger group that he belongs to, and which group does he belong to in that, that's what we call the species, usually, that's the Hebrew translation for these things. So *sug* [genus/type] is the bigger one, and *min* [species] is the smaller one, and that's what's defined by the specific difference.
In the same exact way, we know what kind of thing good *middos* [character traits] are, or virtues are, right? They are habits, but we don't know which of those they are, right? So what's the specific difference that makes a habit into a good habit? And for this, Aristotle gives us the answer of the middle way. So now we know what this whole middle way is for, why it exists.
And, of course, this is what we call the definition, right? The definition, usually, is this, is both of these things. The definition in Aristotelianism is *geder* [definition], okay? If you ever went to yeshiva, you heard the word *geder*. *Geder* is a word that Jewish Aristotelians made up, also, probably through Arabic or something, to translate the word, Aristotelian word, definition, and it doesn't have the exact meaning of definition in English.
Definition has this very precise meaning in Aristotelianism. Definition means giving the genus and the kind and the species of a thing. The definition of a human being is a rational animal. The definition of a *kinyan* is a *ma'aseh shemechayev et hachoshech* [an act that obligates the darkness], and so on, right? The definition of the good activities, or the good human being, is having *middos* which are intermediate. That's how we get to this definition.
That's why whenever someone is going to present to you the theory, he's going to give you the most general definition, always. That's just how science is supposed to work. That's why we usually get this, but it's important to realize that that's all it's trying to answer. It's trying to answer the exact kind of thing that good things are.
But remember that we're still talking about a kind, right? Remember that this definition, telling that a human being is a rational animal, doesn't tell you very much about a human being. It's telling you, at most, something like, OK, I see there's animals, and I sort of... Animals are things that move under their own volition, or some kind of... That's also a definition. And there are things that move under... You notice, right? Animals are things, or maybe I should say living things, that move by themselves. I give you what kind of thing it is, and which one of that kind it is, right?
You'll notice that, naturally, we also give definitions always in this way, but they define it very precisely. In the same way, but that doesn't tell you much about a human being. All it tells you is how to distinguish a human being from other animals. And therefore, we say this is what is most... Human being of human being mostly is, is most, right? Because that's what defines him. But that doesn't give you a lot of information. All it gives you is... His science is about looking for the most general definitions always of everything. And then we can drill down and drill down and drill down and drill down.
There's a very famous Porphyry's tree [a diagram showing hierarchical classification from genus to species], which shows you how you can drill down from body all the way to some very specific thing. If you haven't seen the picture, it's a nice picture. You can look it up.
But the reason I'm telling you all of this is just so you understand how this language works and how saying that the definition of good actions is the middle is not supposed to give you much more than that. Make sense? Is that helpful? And it's not supposed to give you a lot more than saying a human being is a rational animal.
Famously, the guy, you know, the famous guy that made a joke. What was the... Diogenes or someone came into the Platonic Academy and said he has a man because one day they were playing with definitions and they said that human beings are featherless bipeds and they brought a chicken, or something like that. Right? A plucked chicken. They plucked the chicken and said, here's your man. Right?
And that's a joke that's trying to express... Of course, that's not the correct definition of a man anyways. But it's a good joke that shows you how useless definitions sometimes are, especially if you get the wrong ones. But even if you get the right ones, they don't give you a lot of information. And you might... In the same way, this definition of good things as the middle things doesn't give us a lot. Or if you want to work backwards and it doesn't...
Student: To prove that the species is incorrect, because it's not differentiated, right?
Instructor: Right. Then that was wrong. Exactly. He found an exception which shows that it's not the correct definition, of course. But it's still not extremely informative. I can't tell you a whole lot about a human being. Even the rational animal thing doesn't tell you a whole lot. Unless it's worked backwards, right?
Just to understand, this is what caused... And you remember that this is really because, as we keep on discussing, the Rambam always presents things backwards. Or really in the correct way, but in the wrong way for learning, right? Remember that Plato told us several times that there's an up... Remember, right? There's a top-down way of learning and a bottom-up way of learning, right? The way up is the way down. But they're different, right? The way up is collection and the way down is division.
When you learn from the principles to their particulars, or from the particulars to the principles, right? Or sometimes you call it induction and deduction. It's not exactly the same thing.
In other words, if I start from a general definition, and then I tell you this is a case of that, usually this is the correct way of things, right? Because reality has primarily, even Aristotle thinks this, that the rules, the classes of things, the forms of things, the definitions of things, are primary ontologically to their cases, right? This is why the Rambam tries always to teach this way, and it also strikes us as a logical way to teach. If you read the halacha, also the Rambam tries to give you the *klal* [general principle] before the *prat* [particular detail].
Of course, you'll notice that the Mishna doesn't do this. And people say this is because the Rambam is more philosophical than the Mishna. It's precisely the opposite.
I'm going back to my same hack as I say always, but I never said it in this way. You have to understand something. The Rambam is less philosophical than the Mishna. This is just because I remind myself of someone saying this week again, the same *shtus* [nonsense] that *Chazal* [the Sages] are not philosophers. They are much more philosophical than the Rambam, that's for sure.
Why? Because the Rambam gives you the result of philosophy, which is the correct way, right? He starts the tree from the top, like the Rambam starts with the first principle, you know, you saw this, and you go all the way down to *hilchos Sanhedrin* [laws of the Sanhedrin], you know, you realize, right? The Rambam, *Sefer Hamada* [Book of Knowledge], all the way to *Sefer Shoftim* [Book of Judges].
The worst, the last thing in the order of reality, is that there is halacha that you have to follow the judges, you know, like *Sefer Shoftim*. It is, because that's how the world looks. It's just about managing people down here and having conflict and stuff. The last thing is that *mashiach* [messiah], you know, the smallest thing. You have to do everything else before you have *mashiach*, right? We work the opposite. We work the opposite.
Now, like Aristotle Plato used to say, are we going to the principles or coming from them? Generally, philosophy is supposed to be going to the principles, not coming from them. The goal of philosophy is to get from the principles back down, right? But what we usually identify as philosophy is actually learning, which is we find ourselves in ignorance in this world, we find ourselves in ignorance in this world, we're starting to think we can see and then we try to ascend to the principles, right?
Now, the Rambam, for example, this is a very good example of the Rambam doing it backwards, right? Actually, in *Hilchos De'os* [Laws of Character Traits], he starts a little bit with the details. But, for example, here in *Hilchos De'os*, where he just started and gave you this definition, it says, let me give you the final result, because he's making things short and easy for you, supposedly. He doesn't want to burden you with all the dialectic of how we get to this. He just tells you, well, the middle way is the correct path. Thank you very much.
But the problem is that since we don't even know how to deduce this, we don't know how did he get to this. People have very wrong opinions of how they got to this. They just imagine things, which are not in the text or not anywhere. And, therefore, the only way to read the Rambam is dogmatically most of the time instead of philosophically or dialectically.
Versus the Mishna, for example, I'm just saying this because I have to finish my thought about that, and it's very important. Versus the Mishna that, for example, always, even when the Mishna gives a *klal* or a general form or a general definition, it's always posterior, it's always after the details, right? The Mishna will always give you a long list, and they say, *zeh haklal* [this is the general principle]. The Gemara will say, *zeh haklal she'omru* [this is the general principle they stated], find one more detail, because what is that *klal*? Is that a *klal*? It's because it's a *klal*. No, who cares about *klal*, right? No, of course, there's a *klal*. There's always a *klal*. But the *klal* is always after the details.
And it's true. Even if you read the Rambam and you start something with the definition, you're going to understand what he's saying. Only if you're coming to it after the Gemara, and you know, oh, so this is the general definition that makes sense of everything. Right?
In the same way, that's why I think that the Gemara and the Mishna are actually a lot more philosophical than the Rambam. Of course, they don't discuss theology too much, but even when they do, they're more philosophical than the Rambam is.
Student: Good *pshat* [interpretation], right?
Instructor: People always think that the Rambam is logical and the Mishna is illogical. It's just the opposite. The Rambam gives you the results of a certain logic, and that's why the Rosh [Rabbeinu Asher ben Yechiel], and I said it, actually, last Thursday, I think that he's right now. The Rosh [transcript ends mid-sentence]
Instructor: In the same way, that's why I think that the *Gemara* and the *Mishna* are actually a lot more philosophical than the *Rambam*. Of course, they don't discuss theology too much, but even when they do, they're more philosophical than the *Rambam* is. Good *pshat* [interpretation/explanation], right?
People always think that the *Rambam* is logical and the *Mishna* is illogical. It's just the opposite. The *Rambam* gives you the results of a certain logic, and that's why the *Rosh* [Rabbi Asher ben Yechiel, major Talmudic authority], and I said it, actually, last Thursday, I think that he's right now.
The *Rosh* quotes a great man in Barcelona that said that we don't understand the *Rambam* if we don't learn *Gemara* [Talmud]. Remember? Very famous statement, because there are some people that say that we have to pass *halacha* [Jewish law] from the *Rambam*. The *Rambam* told us we don't have to read *Talmud* anymore.
And the *Rosh*, arguing with this, said that it's all... Firstly, he disagrees that the *Rambam* is an authority, so he thinks that he can say it just like the *Rambam* could. But he says that even if the *Rambam* would be an authority, he doesn't think that the people that read the *Rambam* understand the *Rambam*.
And he quotes a great man in Barcelona that told him that the parts of the *Rambam* where he learned the *Talmud* for it, he understands the *Rambam*, and the parts where he didn't learn, like *Kodshim* [the order of the Mishnah dealing with sacrifices], things like the subject of the little reading *yeshiva* [Torah academy] over there. So he doesn't know the *Gemara*, he doesn't understand the *Rambam*.
This is also somewhat of an indictment of the *Rambam's* project, which tries to make the *Gemara* unnecessary and turns out to not actually succeed.
But I think more significantly, it's a really true point, that you don't really get... If I tell you a man is a rational animal, you're like, OK, what do you want from my life?
If you notice, wait, we've been going through all the things that men do, and then we're trying to think what is the essence, what's the one thing that includes all of these things, and I get to this, then you understand that I helped you somewhat, I'm giving you something. But if I didn't go through all the details, and I just started with this, you realize that it's somewhat of an empty... it doesn't have much meaning.
So *kitzurim* [summaries] and *klalim* [general rules] are very good after the details, not before. There are problems with this, of course. There's also pedagogical problems, it's very hard, and most people don't ever get to the rules. That's why the *Sifri* [halakhic midrash on Numbers and Deuteronomy] says you should learn Torah, *klalim*, and...
But anyways, the *Rambam* follows that advice of the *Sifri*. But it's a good way, that's why we learn *Mishnayos* [plural of Mishnah], teach *Mishnayos* to kids and so on. But even the *Mishna* is not really that kind of... OK, in any case, I'm getting lost in this discussion.
My point is just that in the same way here, we have to understand that I think that the first thing that the middle thing, the word middle is doing, is to give us a general definition for all the good things. That's the important thing, the important work that it does.
Of course, this helps us somewhat. Of course, if you find an exception, it will be a problem with our definition. I'm not saying that it's not supposed to include everything and it's supposed to be the correct definition. But it's not supposed to be the most informative definition at all. It's not looking to be informative, it's looking to be something like the opposite of informative. It's looking to find the essence of it.
Now, of course, we have to explain why we think that this is a good candidate for being the essence. And there would be several ways of going about this. Several ways of explaining why we think that the essence of the good habits and the good activities consist of them being a mean. And what I even mean. That's why I discuss them. We also have to understand what I even mean by saying this.
So the first thing, I will tell you. Should I say that first or should I say first the other thing? Do you understand my point? That's one point that I'm making.
Student: You're saying that we should first say what the habits are?
Instructor: Really, we should first. In some sense, yes. That's not what Aristotle does, so I can't say that's the correct method because it's not what anyone really does. He does do it a little bit. In other words, even *Rambam* did it a little bit.
In other words, there's like four. If you look in his book, in the Ethics, I wrote down exactly where he does this, but I don't have my chapter numbers and stuff here. But if you look here, you'll see that he does three or four different explanations of why he thinks that virtue is a mean. He always uses also examples, just to be clear. You can't do this without examples. Which means that we always assume that you already know something.
If I tell you, for example, right? If I tell you some parts of something, he tried to take always the first two virtues that we talk about are temperance and courage, right? And if I show you that it's obvious to everyone, if I show you, for example, he doesn't exactly do this because I don't think this is enough to show you that virtue is a mean. But it right away shows you, if I told you, look, courage, which you think is a good thing already, of course, if you don't think that courage is a good thing, like most people in Lakewood think courage is a bad thing, then you're totally out of the discussion.
But if you think courage is a good thing, you could also see that there's, that means that being a coward is a bad thing, but also that being rash is a bad thing. Being something like too courageous or being irresponsible, right? That's not the same thing as courage. You could see that it's not the same thing and I could show you how, therefore, my best guess, my best bet as getting something that actually explains what kind of a thing courage is is to say that it's the middle of this subject of courage.
Or the same thing with temperance. You have to assume that you already understand. You might have not noticed it, but I have to show you.
I think courage is actually a very good example. Temperance is a more complicated example. There's no spectrum of courage. I mean, you could have a spectrum whether you personally have it or not. Courage itself does not have a spectrum. Courage is courage.
The other way to understand it is spectrum. That's for sure not what we're trying to get at, that there's a spectrum and you should be in the middle. That's what we already went through. There are some mistakes that people have about it. The reason they have these mistakes is because they don't actually realize how we got to this, why we did it. There are other reasons why people get to ideas like golden means. And the golden means is not what I was talking about. I don't know if I gave that to *shiur* [class/lesson] here yet. I did talk about it last week. So I don't keep track. I don't know the golden means.
But yes, you can see that, for example, we praise courage. Courage is a virtue. And we can also see that running away from everything or not facing any fears, not facing any, I guess fear is the thing that courage is against, or danger maybe, is not courage. We have even a word for it. We call it being a coward.
And we could also see that that doesn't mean that courage is the most of that. This is an important thing. I think that this is intuitive to most people when you talk about courage. You could also see that therefore I should just be the one that jumps into every, that always volunteers to go first in the war. Well, no, you shouldn't always volunteer. Sometimes you're just being stupid.
And then I ask, okay, so therefore what the virtue consists of is not, and we could show that this works in a similar structure for everything. So this would give me a structure for everything. But I could show you that what the virtue of courage consists of is not jumping into facing dangers with equanimity or something like that. That's not what it consists of because if it consisted of that, then you would have to always want the most of it.
It's sort of the opposite. The reason why we get this idea of the middle, of the mean as being the correct, is because we assume that you want to be the best. Just the opposite than other people, right? And if what defines courage as a good thing is the courage-ness of it or something like that, then you would want, or in other words, is the facing danger, dangerous-ness of it, then you would always have to be facing the most danger. But you see that it's not correct.
So I could show you very easily, so I ask you, what's the difference between courage and stupidity? And you say, well, stupidity is just too much courage. Well, that sounds, in some sense you could say that. If there's a spectrum of facing danger, then too little is cowardness and too much is rashness or stupidity. I like the word stupidity for this actually. And courage is something in between.
But you understand that this in between is something like a *moshol* [parable/analogy]. It's an analogy. It's not the point that you're in between. The point is that I'm showing you that courage doesn't mean jumping into the most dangerous. Courage means jumping into the correct dangers for the correct reasons, right?
Being courageous for your country maybe when it's in a great danger is a good thing, but being courageous for your lollipop is not a good thing. So it's not about, there's always all of these becauses and whys and hows and amounts, in other words, measures, that make it into a good thing.
So therefore, what makes courage good is not that it's courageous, that it faces danger, that it's not afraid of danger. What makes it good is that it's the correct kind. Of course, there are many kinds of correctness. Of course, you have courage and temperance and all the rest of the virtues. Because they have specific subjects and there might be, like we discussed last week, there might be specific sciences and specific habits and specific trainings for each of them.
It doesn't mean that just having one of them will give you all of them, although in the most general sense, they are all the same kind of thing. But what it shows you is that this is the kind of thing that it is. Does that make sense? This is, I think, in this sense, this is the first sense in which it is useful, right? In other words, it is a definition that you can understand.
Once I gave you this example, I can show you the same thing with temperance. Say something like temperance is something like, not, what is temperance? Temperance is something that we don't really, especially in Hebrew also, courage I discussed enough, but temperance is the opposite, right? Courage is a noun from virtue. It's a *goyish* [non-Jewish] virtue.
Somebody would even say, read Aristotle and say, the first thing he talks about is courage, where this guy didn't read the same Bible as me. By the way, in the Bible, courage is praised many times. In *Chazal* [the Sages of the Talmud], much less. Or none in the same way. Or at least we don't remember how to read it that way. In *mussar sforim* [ethical/moral literature], there is never a *tzaddik ometz* [righteous courage], is there?
Doesn't *Shlomo* [King Solomon] talk about having enough courage? Actually, the *Shulchan Aruch* [Code of Jewish Law] of *Rav Yosef Karo* starts with the virtue of courage, if you noticed. People don't realize, they think it's about fighting yourself only. They are taught really, right?
That's what *Yehuda ben Teima* says, the first thing he talks about is courage. *הוי עז כנמר וקל כנשר ורץ כצבי וגיבור כארי לעשות רצון אביך שבשמים* [Be bold as a leopard, light as an eagle, swift as a deer, and strong as a lion to do the will of your Father in Heaven]. *Az kanomer* [bold as a leopard] is courage.
And it says in the *Shulchan Aruch*, *לא יבוש מפני המלעיגים בו* [He should not be embarrassed before those who mock him]. That's the virtue of courage. Actually, a very important virtue, but people don't really talk about it enough. Or if they talk about it, they talk about it in funny ways. So courage—
Instructor: People don't realize, they think it's about fighting yourself only. The Torah really, right? That's what Yehuda Ben Teima says, *hevei az kanemer v'kal kaneshera* [be bold as a leopard and light as an eagle]. *Az kanemer* is courage, right? And it says in *Shemonah Perakim* [Eight Chapters - Rambam's ethical treatise], *v'aizehu gibor hakoveish et yitzro* [who is mighty? He who conquers his inclination] - that's the virtue of courage. Actually a very important virtue, but people don't really talk about it enough, or if they talk about it, they talk about it in funny ways. So courage is a great virtue.
And temperance, we think is like a *frum* [religious/observant] virtue, and we think that it means also an extreme. The Rambam is going to go on and on and on about this.
Student: Well, that's why you might not want to talk about it in certain situations. People might take it to mean a messed up idea.
Instructor: No, no, I just need to take another example so we see that it's a general rule, right?
But in the olden times in Greece, in Athens, everyone knew that there's four virtues. And two of them are courage and temperance, right? And temperance means something like... By the way, the word temperance, it's sometimes translated as moderation, right? Or in Greek it's *sophrosyne* [σωφροσύνη - Greek term for temperance/moderation], which I don't know what it translates to exactly.
Student: It's a Greek word.
Instructor: *Sophrosyne* or something like that.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: And sometimes you see it written like that in English also. Or moderation, right? Moderation relative to pleasures, specifically. But we can see from that, the way it's taken, anyone in Athens at least would understand that when you say that, you don't mean someone who has no pleasure in his life. What it means is he's moderate relative to pleasure. He's not taking more pleasure all the time. He's not some kind of... How do you call it? I don't know. *Nintan b'ivrit* [it's said in Hebrew], I say. How do you say it in English? Pleasure seeker, too much of a pleasure seeker.
Student: What is that, a hedonist? But we don't really mean that.
Instructor: Yeah, but hedonist is not a good definition. That's why I don't want to use that, because that's really a philosophical stance. Right?
And we say that, but everyone understands in the same way. I could show you very simply that... I don't mean... Aristotle himself notes that this is something that he has to explain here right away, and you'll see the Rambam also quotes it the same way, or literally the same way. I don't know if I showed you that.
But we don't really realize this so easily, because when I tell you you should be temperate, you should be less of a *baal taavah* [person driven by desires], right? Less of a *freisa* [glutton/excessive eater]. Then you think that what I mean to say is that the virtue is not to be a *baal taavah* at all. And people make this mistake, and there's a reason why they make this mistake, and that's because almost nobody has the problem of being too little *baal taavah*. Even the people that pretend, usually.
Almost nobody has that problem, so it's not like we really have to get people to have more pleasure in life. Actually, I think that nobody does. I think that some people pretend that they have this problem, but it's just a question of ideology, not a real question. And we're not talking about ideology.
Student: You know, I don't know if it's relevant to you at this point. Okay.
Instructor: I have a bunch of friends going around that, you know, the teaching in yeshiva that you shouldn't enjoy life, and gosh, but really you should. And I'm looking at this guy, do you know anyone in yeshiva that doesn't enjoy life? Why are you giving me this *drasha* [sermon]? It's just a question of ideology. Who cares about ideology? Ideology is fake anyways. That's what Marx said, right?
Student: In practice. What I mean to say.
Instructor: What I mean to say is that it's very simple, that all the people going around and saying that, you know, the world is good, you should enjoy your body and your life, and unlike the *frum*, supposed *frum* people who are against this. Do you know any *frum* people that don't actually enjoy their life?
Student: No. People who are just tortured souls regardless.
Instructor: They would find a way to be tortured in every society.
Student: No, that's what I'm saying. They blame it on that, it's not... Yeah. No, but it's not like people like the yeshivish *chinuch* [education] is against enjoying life or like Chasidish *chinuch*.
Instructor: Well, it's true that we talk that way. It's true that we talk against *taavos* [desires/pleasures], but guess what? I have a teacher who's very *frum* and very precious, and he told me he doesn't understand people that give like, you have to give a *drasha* to the Chassidim that they should enjoy themselves more. Like seriously, the *yetzer hara* [evil inclination] does a very good job of teaching everyone to have *taavah* [desire]. He doesn't think he needs help. If you need help, you need help for the moderation part. Like, okay, don't overdo it. Keep your mind with you in some sense.
Like, I meet people that seem to think that really nobody's enjoying life. But I think that the reason is because people over-index on ideology, saying like, we hold that *Olam Hazeh* [this world] is not good. Okay, who cares what you hold? Holding is... it doesn't make any difference what you hold.
Student: Maybe you're saying, some people get tortured about it. But really, how many people really take these things seriously? Like five?
Instructor: I was in yeshiva, in a very *frum* yeshiva. Nobody... everyone enjoyed. Okay, so they have... who cares? So they enjoy their pizza instead of enjoying some fancy restaurant. That's not a big difference.
Student: So what about the literal version of the guys you're talking about? And they're always like, oh, so you took it seriously? Literally? That's weird. Like no one else did.
Instructor: Yeah, like some OTD [Off The Derech - people who left religious observance] people. But they're also pretending, because even their rebbe... I know the guy. I'm talking to this guy that told me this *drasha*. It's very funny. He had to give you a fight against this literature, *Chassanim* [grooms] and other people they teach. And *l'maaseh* [in practice], I know exactly what food he likes and he makes sure to buy it for Shabbos and even for the weekdays. It's not like he's not enjoying his life. Of course, he's trying to control himself. But who is against self-control?
It becomes very funny, and I think that people are over-indexed, and that's why I said over-index on ideology. Like, we hold. Okay, so you hold. That's why even Aristotle says, we don't really need to talk about this problem. We don't even have a name for that person. He makes up a name. He says, let's call him insensitive, but insensitive doesn't really mean this. He's making up a name just so his structure should work, that we have the too much and the too little.
Student: Some people are sterilized to certain indulgences.
Instructor: Oh, yeah. Some people are asexual also, supposedly. I don't believe them. Anyways. Maybe they are. Who knows? No, I mean, certain people just... But not because of the *mashgiach* [spiritual supervisor in yeshiva]. Some of them are like that.
Student: Wait. Yeah, but I know certain people that just aren't moved by certain, like...
Instructor: Okay. What's wrong with that? I mean, like... By what? By why they're not moved? I actually don't know those people. I mean, there's some people that are not... They don't have enough... They don't have a very developed emotional life or imaginative life or something. They don't enjoy films or something. Okay.
Student: I don't know. I think my grandfather doesn't enjoy life enough.
Instructor: Doesn't enjoy life enough?
Student: No, he won't turn on the heat in the... But it's funny... Wait, is he a Holocaust survivor? It's funny. He'll literally eat whatever's on sale. That's it.
Instructor: Okay, well, what's the problem with that?
Student: The problem with that is that... Yeah, I don't think it's the same thing. The problem with that... By the way, there is a problem with that. I don't think... That's a different medium. They're annoying to us. That's a separate medium. I don't think it has the same meaning. Probably has to do with poverty and things like that.
Student: No, he gives $5,000 checks to every grandkid on Chanukah. He's very generous.
Instructor: Yeah, but maybe he was brought up... I don't know. I don't remember anything. Let's see. Because he was brought up. It doesn't matter.
Student: No, I think it's an over... It's like a stinginess, no?
Instructor: No. No, he's very generous. He's not being stingy with himself. I think also he's just totally unprioritized at all. And he doesn't realize it, but maybe your grandkids don't want to come over because you just don't turn on the heat. Like, at this point...
Student: No, I know what you mean, but I don't think it's... I don't know. I don't think we could call it over temperance. It's something... Maybe it is, actually. Maybe it is. Okay, but I think usually these kinds of people who had a hard childhood and grew up in poverty and they got used to that you don't really turn on the heat because it costs too much money or something like that.
Student: No, he just... I don't know. Even if that's why. You're just telling me the story of why.
Instructor: Yeah, I'm saying it's not... He's still doing it, I have to tell you. It's complicated reasons for why I get angry. It's not really anger. It's just insufficiency. I get it. It's an action or it's a way of... Could we say that that's bad? You think it's bad?
Student: His grandkids won't come over, so... That's a different problem. That's lack of empathy or something. Okay, maybe you don't turn on the heat, but maybe the other guy needs to do it.
Student: No, he knows you're uncomfortable immediately. He thinks you like it just as much as he does. Why wouldn't you enjoy wearing your winter coat in the house?
Instructor: I'm not sure. I remember there was a *tzaddik* [righteous person] that was like this. He was like, he didn't give out cold drinks. There was a guy that I used to invite *bochurim* [yeshiva students] on Shabbos in Yerushalayim and he didn't give cold drinks in the summer because it's *taavos* [desires/pleasures]. He didn't have air conditioning either. So you could have a tea if you wanted.
Student: No, that's not... That's different, right? I'm like, you're a good guy. I'm not sure. He was training us not to have *taavah* [desire]. I'm not sure what was the idea. Not like he drank. He also didn't drink. It's fine. That kind of... Even that person. He didn't enjoy... I don't know. Weird masochism or something.
Student: What would it look like? We're also saying everything is relative. What would it look like for someone not to enjoy life? What would it look like for someone to underindulge?
Instructor: No, but we could understand that that kind of person maybe is not... I don't really know. It depends on your picture of the ideal human being. To me, that's not ideal. Maybe I'm wrong. Is there no *kitzvah acharon* [extreme end]? Meaning, is there no harmful degree of this?
Student: Yeah, yeah. Well, harmful degree of insensitivity? Of not enjoying life? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's what we're talking about. What would that look like? Maybe these people that we're discussing are actually in that sense. They seem to be missing a certain human... Experience, yeah. A certain part of being human. They seem to be missing... Yeah, they seem to be missing something.
Instructor: Maybe Aristotle would agree with that. Not only Aristotle. Maybe even a Platonist. Even an extreme virtue person, extreme ascetic person could say that they're missing something. Because part of being human is to get that people like... But based on what is this? I'm just making this up because that's what I like. I don't know. I can say about what I like. I think that it's normal to like certain... There's something, I think... There's something... It's not about normal. Something in a conversation with someone who doesn't... You could say it's something rich. Like we talked about someone that has a rich life. Like something like you know the difference between salt and pepper. I don't know, like an extreme example, right?
Student: Yeah. They're both the same, right? They're both sort of sharp and that neighborhood... Yeah, but it's not even one habit. Is that... Specifically either. I find that people who are like this... Sure. First of all, they're not turning on the heat. Second of all, they're reheating the same food for three weeks in a row. And yeah, it's fine. Beef and peas. Yeah, it's all the same habits. I get it. I don't know... I don't know what's so bad about it though.
Student: It's abundance at a table. There's so much beef. It doesn't taste like anything. You're not participating in a pleasurable human experience. Right?
Student: Yeah, it's all the same habits. I get it. I don't know what's so bad about it though. It's abundance at the table. There's so much beef.
Instructor: It doesn't taste like anything. You're not participating in a pleasurable human experience.
Student: I just think it seems like a different *mida* [middah: character trait] that you're discussing, not temperance.
Instructor: Why?
Student: It's the exact opposite of a *fresse* [glutton]. We are talking about, I think, yeah exactly. It's someone that, if the *gefilte fish* [traditional Jewish fish dish] isn't—it's too much cooked or too little cooked—and he's not going to eat it at all. He's overdoing it. And someone that, it could be, you know, all these stories that the wife put the tissues instead of the fish in the oven and he ate the tissues. Whatever. Yeah, that's something is wrong with you.
Instructor: Okay, maybe he's—I can understand those stories as a beautiful thing in the sense of the life of the mind. You're so in your mind, you're not living in this world.
Student: Yeah, because it's not your life.
Instructor: Okay, *beseder* [alright]. But as long as you are living in this world, which maybe you shouldn't be—that's a different discussion, right? That's why I think, for example, what I personally think, but this is just my personal opinion, I don't know if it means anything. I would say something like this: if a *Yid* [Jew] is like these stories, he was learning all day and he forgot to put on his shoes or whatever. Okay, so he has a much more pleasurable life because he's contemplating and he doesn't really care about his body. *Beseder*.
That has to do with the questions of contemplative life and so on. But there are some people that don't even do that. He's not contemplating, he's not doing anything. It's not like he's so into Shabbos and he doesn't care if there's food. Okay. He just doesn't care about the food. So then in that sense, on that level, there might be something weird, something wrong with that. But it's hard to say what's wrong with it.
Student: I think you can figure it out. Is it as bad as the two other practices?
Instructor: The reason why the grandkids don't want to come over is not because they think that they're insensitive, it's just dementia. They feel judged.
Student: No, first of all that. If you get *chas v'shalom* [God forbid], you get takeout, what are you even doing? Why would someone want to do that? They don't understand why someone would want to do that.
Instructor: Yeah, it's abundance.
Student: And the other thing is, yeah, in some sense I think they just don't realize that this is a part of being a human being. To them it's like they don't even understand why. They're sensitive to things that they understand. They're very sensitive people. They're very sensitive to things that you understand, they can understand are worth being sensitive about. This just doesn't occur to them that pleasurable things might be something that you even want or gravitate towards or at least avoid its reduction to a minimum.
Instructor: So you think he doesn't enjoy his beef?
Student: No, he does, but he should be enjoying more.
Instructor: Yeah, if he enjoys it very minimally. Let's put it this way: that beef could look like many things and he doesn't seem to be moved by those changes. But usually these things are very relative, meaning the person who has much more simple food enjoys them, seems the same amount.
Student: Yeah, could be. Would you say that that person would enjoy it—would you say something's interesting if that person enjoys it equally if it's too salty and not salted enough?
Instructor: No, you're not, you're not, right, yeah, I'm saying. You're talking about too salty and not salty enough, and the person's unmoved.
Student: No, no, I'm saying less options essentially, you're saying...
Instructor: No, no, no.
Student: Yeah, a way of saying this would be something like, I saw someone, someone said, there was a *machlokes* [dispute] between two Chassidishe Rebbes or something, if you should put salt on your food or something like that. And I think Rabbi Nachman said that he thinks that someone who doesn't put salt on his food is just like an animal. So cows don't salt their food. You're not being a bigger *tzaddik* [righteous person], you're just being more cow.
That's a way of saying this. Humans are people that do have some judgment about which food is good. Now, if you overdo that, then you're a *fresse*, but if you underdo it, you're a *chamar* [donkey], you're a *chamar*. Just a *chamar*, when you say a *chamar* is a grass—but also a *chamar* is a big food, he eats grass every day, the same grass, right?
Instructor: So how do we know the difference? There's this guy in Lakewood who is not alive. He had a whole speech against ketchup. Ketchup's *stam* [just], you don't need it, it's just *stam* for pleasure. Ketchup is *gayva* [pride], go to *gehenom* [hell] if you eat ketchup. Right.
Student: Well, we could also say that ketchup is vulgar, it's this American replacement of whatever. I'm saying you could make such a case.
Instructor: It's an absolute flavor bomb. Whatever you're eating it with, it's just gonna nuke it.
Student: Right, that's a different—that would be a different argument. That would be, but also you could say that's too much, who cares, it tastes good, who cares.
Instructor: Right, you're being too refined already.
Instructor: Okay, so I don't know, it's still true for the most part, again, but really, how many of those people are there? Very rare, I've only seen it once. You see, there's lots of people, but usually it's not. And also I think even those people usually have material conditions that cause this. I don't know many people that are—I don't know many people in my generation that are like this. Yeah, yeah. Do you?
Student: It's only one person I know from all the people I've ever met that suffers from under-indulgence. I know people that try to aim at that. Okay, I'm pro-aiming at that, because we're mostly too big *fressers*. That's what I'm trying to get at, but if you would get to that level, okay, then we'll worry about turning it back or something. Right.
Instructor: I've seen this.
Student: What?
Instructor: I've seen this. Yeah. It happens to be Jews that will have a hard time doing this, because we all have a lot of *seudos* [festive meals]. That's just a great way to just sit around and enjoy the food. It really does the job of making sure that it's better.
Student: So we're all managing to be big enough *fressers*. We shall have too big *fressers*, but we're not too small *fressers*.
Instructor: I think so, yeah. Okay. Yeah, if you go to rural America, I think you could maybe find some of this. Or people that just don't have good food in their whole *shtut* [area]. Yeah. There's no good restaurant in 300 miles. Yeah, and not because they're doing anything better with their lives. They just spend a lot of time being disinterested in food.
Student: I hear. In other words, a lot of people like that are very big *fressers*, because they eat just little garbage.
Instructor: Maybe in some sense it's just some kind of depression or something.
Student: Maybe, yeah. It's depression. It seems like the downside is somewhere else. It seems like the downside would be somewhere else. And then we're... I can understand. Maybe it's empathy, maybe it's some sort of depression.
Instructor: No, but we're trying to get a—again, remember, what I'm trying to show you, I'm just—this is where I am. I'm just trying to show you that we have this virtue called temperance. We know what it is: moderation. And we don't have a good Yiddish word for it, because Yiddish word for it tends to be the extreme word, like *prishus* [asceticism]. And that you try to translate this as *prishus*, people don't understand.
Or sometimes translated as *zehirus* [carefulness], by the way. *Zehirus* is the Rambam's translation. The Rambam himself translated as *zehirus*. Sometimes *zehirus*, sometimes *yiras chet* [fear of sin]. Weirdly. Temperance is *yiras chet*. *Yiras chet* doesn't mean being afraid of doing an *aveira* [sin]. It means not being too big *fresse*. There's a Rambam himself translated this way.
So we have these three Hebrew words that correspond to the virtue of temperance sometimes in our sources. That it should have been totally misunderstood. Until *zehirus* means being careful. I think that that's wrong. At least in the Rambam, in the Mishnah, I don't know. The *middos* [character traits] of *zehirus* means temperance.
Instructor: And it seems to be easy to understand that temperance is a limit to not being too much of a—taking too much pleasure. Or something about having the correct amount of pleasure. That's how we're trying to get at. And you could see that person that we're describing now who just doesn't get it. He doesn't get that there's such a thing as being in a comfortable temperature. He seems to not get it. That's not what we're talking about.
People would say something else. He doesn't have an *asan* [foundation/nature]. He's just born without—he's a *suras* [eunuch]. He doesn't have a feeling for that kind of pleasure. But I don't think that's the idea. We would say something like he's not having the correct amount of pleasure. He's having too little pleasure. Just that usually we don't really have this problem. And most people don't have this problem. Most people don't have this problem.
Therefore I think it's overrated to talk about it. The Rambam talks about it a lot. But also for different reasons. It's another question. Why does the Rambam talk so much about—against this *prishus*? How many people did the Rambam know that were over *prishus*? I have no idea. You should be very worried about it. Don't be... How many people are fasting too much? Seriously. Who is this person? Three weirdos. The Essenes.
Student: What?
Instructor: Yeah. The Rambam says Christian priests. But also how many priests are there? There are thousands of Christians and a few of them become priests. It's a big thing.
Student: No, there is this thing of the ideology part, right? You think that that's what the ideal is and everyone is falling short.
Instructor: Maybe they have an outsized influence, those people. And whatever downside there is, they don't get those *mailos* [virtues/advantages]. Meaning—the other people also don't? And as much as the ideal people don't get *mailos*, it affects all of them, yes. But the point is if your ideal people are *prushim* [ascetics], they're going to be missing something, right? Because they're not...
Student: People sometimes make this case. For example, anti-Christian polemics or Jews who are having polemics with Christians make a case something like this. So Christians traditionally, Paul almost explicitly says this, say that the best thing to be is celibate. But we'll give a concession to the normal people and let them be married. And then when they're married they should act with chastity and the correct ways. But they're really—make it afterwards.
Instructor: What?
Student: Make it afterwards. Afterwards, before, whatever. So—but he still has this idea that really you should be totally celibate. And people would make the claim—it's not—I don't know if it's true. People could make a claim like the claim that you're trying to make. That's something like that because of this, there isn't a good Christian ideal of being happily married or being temperately married.
Let's talk about to talk specifically about this thing, because you're—ideal people are not married. And sometimes people say if you go to the priest for advice on marriage, he has no advice to give you. There's actually I saw a priest says the opposite because people—he says people come to you with problems, their girlfriends. Such nonsense. You see right through it. You just guy is never stuck in this nonsense. But I'm not. I'm just get over it, move on.
So it's not entirely always true that if you're out of it, you don't have good advice. But people sometimes say this. *Birchas Shmuel* [Rabbi Baruch Ber Leibowitz's work] was—he's the one. No he's not the same one. He had the similar opinions of I think he was on the side of being moderately pleasures in life. And he said that he doesn't understand the importance of—
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Instructor: Such nonsense. You see right through it. The guy is stuck in this nonsense, but I'm not. I'm just, get over it, move on. So it's not entirely always true that if you're out of it, you don't have good advice, but people sometimes say this.
Reb Pinchus Kuritzer was also—he's the one, no, he's not the same one, but he had similar opinions of, I think he was on the side of being moderate in pleasures in life. And he said that he doesn't understand why people go to the Mezritcher Maggid. The Mezritcher Maggid is a *parush* [פרוש: an ascetic], he's celibate, and you can't talk with such a person. How are you gonna talk to the guy? He's not living in the same world as you.
Student: That's why Shlomo Maimon got divorced.
Instructor: No, no, that's not why. Different reasons. There is such an argument. I don't know how true this is, but people say nowadays maybe something like this, but that's a much broader thing. To talk specifically about this thing of moderation and pleasures, you don't have a mouth for that, and therefore you end up going to the other extreme. I don't know how true this is.
Student: Why wasn't there more? You would imagine that *midos* [מידות: character traits] all affect each other, so it would affect some other thing, and you lose somewhere in other places as well.
Instructor: What do you mean? What do you lose?
Student: Ultimately, it should be that you're going to be lacking in your knowledge as well.
Instructor: Like you were saying before, that if someone eats too little or doesn't know the difference between good food and bad food, then when he does *hachnosas orchim* [הכנסת אורחים: hospitality], he's not going to be a good *machnis oreach* [מכניס אורח: host] either. Something like that. This is the story that we're talking about. Is that what you mean to say?
But that's back to the problem of living in this world, and then you say it's true. So living as a human being in the fleshy world, maybe you want to be a Buddhist, then you should never come out of your monastery. But if you ever come out, then you have to learn what good food and so on is, because otherwise you're going to not be able to deal with people correctly. There's such an argument to be made.
Student: Someone could say something like, if you're an ascetic, then you shouldn't ever be a *dayan* [דיין: judge], because you don't realize how important money is.
Student: Maybe there's something universal that you're missing. Maybe there's something more universal that you're missing.
Instructor: Like what?
Student: I don't know, you won't really understand a human and an animal. There's something universal about a human that you just won't understand, because you don't partake in the human action the way you should.
Instructor: I'm not in that, it's hard for me to say, but it's exactly what you're saying. I don't know, the way a human eats... But this is the question, is the person that we're imagining in some flyover country, *chas v'shalom* [חס ושלום: God forbid], who has never had a good restaurant or anything, is he a better person in any sense?
I'll tell you the opposite argument. The opposite argument is something like this. What's the difference between romance and porn, right? Romance is just a higher level version of the same thing. And there's an argument that the Rambam [Maimonides] himself makes in *Shemona Perakim* [שמונה פרקים: Eight Chapters], and he says that he thinks that people who write poetry about sex are worse than people who just have sex. Because if he'd have had a cushion, he'd have... You know the Rambam? It's just dressing up this very bad thing in some fancy way.
But the opposite argument is no, that if you just have sex, then you're just being an animal. If you give it words, you write some poetry about it, then you're having some kind of human level of it. The same thing can be said for food and for all these things.
Instructor: And that's where we get this idea that it's not actually... When we talk about temperance or moderation, we're not talking about... We don't think of someone getting as far away from pleasure as possible. We think of someone having pleasure in the right way and not in the wrong way.
And this is what leads us to see... Okay, I'm going to stop here. I don't know what the *halacha* [הלכה: Jewish law] is about all these things. We do see from this very simply... I think if we agree on some level that that's bad, we can see in some sense right away that the virtue of moderation doesn't consist in an extreme in the sense of pleasure. Therefore we have to give it a more abstract definition, right?
And this more abstract definition is going to be shared with the other virtues. Because all virtues are a kind of knowing the correct one between options which are more and less. But we also see from this that the more and less is something like an analogy or something... It's not... We're not saying... It's very clear. We see very clearly that we're not trying to find the correct amount of pleasure and say it's the middle amount. We're trying to understand what moderation is. And we say, I can show you that there's a too much and a too little in that. And therefore you can see that whatever moderation is and therefore whatever most other virtues at least would be, would consist of knowing the correct amount. That's all.
Instructor: That's enough for today. There's a moderation in how long a *shiur* [שיעור: lesson] should be.
I already told you last week that Aristotle explicitly and the Rambam don't believe in moderation in the intellectual virtues. But it's not that we don't act in moderation in them. And I read more than one person saying, and already early people saying that in reality if you see the way we discussed already how Aristotle uses authority versus questioning in general, he does seem to always try to be in the middle even intellectually.
And there's even Aristotle in the beginning of this book says that even how much to learn is something that ethics has to tell you. That politics has to tell you. Which is the same thing as ethics, right? Because the politician, the king will decide—this goes back to our discussion earlier and this is a weird thing that he says if you think that the contemplative life is the highest thing. He says the king will have to decide how many philosophers there's gonna be. It says in the ethics and I think that the Rambam would also agree with that in some sense. It doesn't mean that it's higher to be a king than to be a philosopher but it does seem to mean that in reality in the city the king is going to decide who should be a philosopher or how many philosophers he needs and maybe there's too much and too little in that also. Okay. That's the story.
And also I have to finish... What's his name? Rav Levy ben Avraham. But therefore there's two extremes you can be only a philosopher and only a *ma'amin* [מאמין: believer] and the answer should be in between. That's why you should be more like a philosopher who also is a believer.
Okay. Can I shut up?
Student: Yeah.
Main Point: The discussion of "the mean" (middle way) must be understood within its proper place in Aristotle's systematic argument.
The Full Argumentative Chain:
1. Ultimate Goal: Happiness (eudaimonia) - the one thing desired for its own sake
2. Nature of Happiness: Being the best kind of human; doing what humans should do well
3. Means to Happiness: Living according to virtue (excellence/perfection)
4. Types of Virtue: Focus on character virtues (as opposed to intellectual virtues)
5. What Character Virtue Is: A habit/disposition (*hexis*, *kinyan*) involving action, feeling, and judgment
6. CURRENT QUESTION: *Which* habits are the good ones? What distinguishes good habits from bad?
The Mean as Answer: The concept of "the mean" enters precisely here - as the *specific difference* that distinguishes good habits from bad habits.
Logical Structure of Definitions:
- Genus (*sug*): The broader category (e.g., "animal" for humans)
- Specific Difference (*hevdel*): What distinguishes within that category
- Species (*min*): The particular type defined by the difference (e.g., "rational" makes humans "rational animals")
Application to Virtue:
- Genus: Habits/dispositions (*kinyanim*)
- Specific Difference: Being "intermediate" or "mean"
- Species: Good habits (virtues)
Key Insight: The definition "virtue is a mean" functions like "human is a rational animal" - it identifies the essential distinguishing feature, not a comprehensive description.
Important Qualification: Definitions are not meant to be highly informative; they identify essence, not provide detailed knowledge.
Example: "Human is a rational animal" tells you:
- How to distinguish humans from other animals
- What is most essential about humans
- But NOT much practical information about human life
Parallel: "Virtue is a mean" tells you:
- How to distinguish good habits from bad
- What is essential about good character
- But NOT detailed guidance for every situation
The Diogenes Story [DIGRESSION]:
- Plato's Academy defined humans as "featherless bipeds"
- Diogenes brought a plucked chicken: "Here's your man"
- Point: Even correct definitions can seem useless; wrong definitions are worse
- Definitions don't give much information even when right
Plato's Distinction:
- Way Up (Bottom-Up): From particulars to principles (collection/induction)
- Way Down (Top-Down): From principles to particulars (division/deduction)
Ontological Priority: Principles/forms/definitions are primary in reality, even if not in learning.
Rambam's Approach:
- Starts with general definitions and principles
- Proceeds logically from first principles to details
- Example: *Mishneh Torah* structured from *Sefer HaMada* (metaphysics) to *Sefer Shoftim* (practical law)
- In *Hilchos De'os*: Begins with the definition "the middle way is correct"
Advantage: Logically correct, mirrors the structure of reality
Disadvantage: Difficult for learning; requires prior understanding to grasp the definitions
Mishnah's Approach:
- Presents details and cases first
- Offers general principles (*klalim*) only after particulars
- Formula: "*zeh haklal*" (this is the general rule) comes at the end
Why This Is More Philosophical:
- Philosophy is the *process* of ascending to principles
- Rambam gives the *results* of philosophy
- Mishnah/Gemara show the *philosophical activity* itself
- Learning requires starting from ignorance and ascending
Crucial Claim: "Chazal are more philosophical than the Rambam"
- Not because they discuss theology more
- But because they demonstrate philosophical method
- They show the dialectical process, not just conclusions
The Rosh's Argument:
- Quote from "a great man in Barcelona": Understanding Rambam requires knowing Gemara
- Where one knows the Talmudic background, one understands Rambam
- Where one lacks it (e.g., *Kodshim*), Rambam remains opaque
Why: Rambam's definitions only make sense after working through the details; without that background, they appear dogmatic rather than dialectical.
Return to Main Point: This explains why "virtue is a mean" seems unhelpful when presented first - it's the conclusion of an investigation, not the starting point.
Primary Purpose: The mean provides a *general definition* applicable to all virtues, not detailed guidance.
What It Accomplishes:
- Identifies the common structure of all character virtues
- Distinguishes good habits from bad habits
- Provides a framework for understanding virtue
What It Doesn't Accomplish:
- Detailed specification of each virtue
- Practical guidance for particular situations
- Complete understanding of virtuous action
Common Recognition: Courage is a virtue (good thing)
Two Obvious Extremes:
- Cowardice: Running from all danger/fear (too little)
- Rashness/Stupidity: Jumping into every danger (too much)
Courage: Something between these extremes
Critical Insight: Courage is NOT about finding a middle amount of danger-facing.
The Problem: If courage were simply "facing danger," then more would be better - but it's not.
The Question: What's the difference between courage and stupidity?
Answer: Courage means facing the *right* dangers for the *right* reasons in the *right* way.
What "Middle" Really Means:
- Not a quantitative midpoint on a spectrum
- Rather: the *correct* response (neither deficient nor excessive)
- Involves multiple dimensions: which dangers, why, how, when, for whom
Examples of Relevant Factors:
- Courage for your country in great danger: virtuous
- Courage for a lollipop: not virtuous
- Context, reason, manner, amount all matter
Key Point: What makes courage good is NOT that it's "courageous" (faces danger).
Rather: What makes it good is that it's the *correct kind* of response to danger.
Implication: The virtue consists in correctness, not in position on a spectrum.
Greek Context: *Sophrosyne* - one of the four cardinal virtues in Athens
Translation Issues:
- English: "temperance" or "moderation"
- Hebrew: No good equivalent
- *Prishus* (פרישות): Suggests extreme asceticism
- *Zehirus* (זהירות): Rambam's translation, usually means "carefulness"
- *Yiras chet* (יראת חטא): "Fear of sin" - also Rambam's translation
Basic Meaning: Moderation regarding pleasures, especially bodily pleasures
Excess: Being a *baal taavah* (בעל תאוה) - excessive pleasure-seeker, glutton (*fresse*)
Deficiency: Being insensitive to pleasure, taking no pleasure in life
Temperance: The middle - appropriate
Instructor: Okay, I hope my mic is connected. The story is, what did I say last week that we have to talk about? I know what I have to talk about, I just don't know the answer to the question. Or I know a little bit of it. What we said is that we talked about a lot of different things last week. Which were? The main point was that the side point which ended up taking a lot of time was that *midos* [middot: character traits] is based on the actions that you do. So like the sum of the actions that you do and not some internal measurement of your temperature. Something like that. But then you're saying that the middle means the right, it's just the right action. I'm trying to figure out exactly how is it even a middle. Meaning, you can have courage. The middle is to have courage. The things that are not... So what we talked about, which were the things that we're not talking about, is that there's a whole bunch. Let's go back, okay?
Instructor: There is a question that goes like this. We already know that we want to be happy. I'll give you the whole *chazara* [review] and *shevet* [sitting/session]. We already know that you want to be happy, which is the highest, the best thing. The best thing is to be happy, because that's what people want to be for no reason. Right? That's the goal. *Nachon* [correct]? Remember? The one thing that you don't give a reason for is being happy. Which means being the best kind of you. It doesn't mean feeling happiness, but that's another whole *derushe* [discourse/sermon]. And the being happy is about doing what you are well, doing what you should be doing well. That's what makes you happy.
Instructor: Which is why the human happiness or the human perfection consists in living according with virtue. Virtue is just another word for excellence or perfection. Like in everything we say, something like the good and the doing well are the same for everything. The camera-ing well is the same thing as being a good camera. So human-ing well is the same thing as being a good human. Right? So therefore, being a good human and a happy human means acting in accordance with virtue. Right?
Instructor: There are a few kinds of virtue which we're not very much concerned with right now, the distinctions of them. Mostly distinguished into what's called character virtue. I don't like how the camera looks. We have to lower the whole thing. Put the whole thing lower, not that. I have to not wear a white shirt, that's another issue. Take the whole thing and put it down. This stick, this big stick in the middle, turn the thing and put it down a bunch. Probably that way. Yeah, and then make the camera straight instead of pointing down. So it should actually go on my face mostly. There's one other thing that you turn somewhere that does it, I don't know which. I don't know, I don't want to mess up.
Student: You're not going to mess anything up, don't worry. Have some courage.
Instructor: No, it doesn't look like it's that one. It doesn't turn by itself, you have to loosen it and then turn it, right? Oh, that was not good. That was the one, now you know which one it is.
Student: Yeah. See? Very basic thing to find out how things work. You break them and you see which part breaks.
Instructor: True. Basic rule of debugging. Yeah, that's good, right? Very good. No, better. Color is still off, but that's my fault.
Okay. *B'kitzur* [in short], remember, there's a few kinds of being good, which have to do with a few parts of the soul and all of that. And *b'kitzur*, now we're discussing specifically what we call character virtues, things that have to do with feeling and action, not with knowledge and things like that, although they're not disconnected from knowledge because everything needs a kind of knowledge. We went through this a little bit already. Right?
Instructor: Now, being a good person means doing good things. Right? Is that what it means? Liking to do them, wanting to do them. But, right, there's this but, which we will elaborate later at length in the discussion of self-control versus being virtuous or having not self-control but liking it. But in short, nobody calls someone good if they're against doing good things, if it hurts them, if it pains them, if they don't find pleasure in it, which is why pleasure is a very important thing to talk about, what you like, liking. Right? Which is why being good consists of being a good human, especially a happy human, because also one of the things that you won't be if you're fighting with yourself all the time is happy. This is also something that has to do with the whole thing boiling down to happiness, which is one of the reasons why we're always after liking what we do instead of forcing ourselves to do the right thing. Right?
Instructor: This is why people like Immanuel Kant were explicitly against Eudaimonian ethics or ethics based on happiness. Also have the definition of ethics as doing something that you don't like or acting out of duty, out of the motive of duty, instead of out of the motive of what is best for me or subjectively best. But in any case, that's another whole *drush* [discourse].
Instructor: And now we're in the part where, so there are good things, but it still consists of doing good things and liking to do them, right? And having whatever it means that you like to do the good things. Okay? That's the kind of thing that being good is. But we still don't know what kind of thing or what kind of things are the good things to do. Right? Specifically the kind of good things which we call as pertaining to character, because there are other kinds of good things which are higher perfections really, which has to do with knowledge and understanding, which we're leaving on the side for now, although those are the best things and there's a whole other discussion about the life of thought, right? Life of contemplation. Now we're still talking about something like a social life, a political life, an active life.
Instructor: Now, so this is the question. Do you understand how I got you to this question? In other words, we already know what kind of thing virtue is. Why virtue? We already discussed and so on. What kind of thing virtue is or being a virtuous person is? We already know. It's a kind of having a kind of something we call like a habit or a habit together with a liking, or a habit together with a liking together with a kind of judgment that allows you to see what is good and so on. That's what kind of thing. But what is it? Right? Or we could say, which sort of this kind of thing is it? Someone's at the door. Is it that makes things good? We still don't, that makes actions good and therefore the habits or the character traits that make you want them good. We still don't know that. Right? No? That's where we are in the course of the book.
Instructor: And that is where the answer of the middle thing comes in. This is very important to realize, to realize, at least in the source in Aristotle, where this idea of a mean even enters into the discussion. The place where it even entered into the discussion was, and this is how we organized it, precisely this place, after we know what he says, we know the genus, we know what kind of thing virtue is, but we don't know which of it it is. Right? In other words, there's many habits, there's many, people can do many different things, and therefore they can have many different, what we call the *midda* [character trait], not really a good word. We should call it the trait, the character trait, the habit is maybe a better word. Even that is not a good word. Aristotle just calls it a hexis [Greek: disposition/state].
Instructor: Now, you have a Greek word to put in place of that, which we don't know what it means, but some kind of condition, right? Some kind of state of the soul, or habit is the Latin translation, habitus, which gives us in Hebrew things like second nature, which is kind of a nature, right? Or how did the *Rambam* [Maimonides] call it? A kind of *kinyan* [acquisition/possession].
And I said a wrong *pshat* [interpretation] on that last time, I looked it up. *Kinyan*, the reason it's called *kinyan* is not because it's something you buy, although that's in some sense true, it's because it's something that belongs to you. And it's translated by the Arabic, this Ibn Tibbon, I'm confusing you now, right? Any case, Ibn Tibbon back-translated this from Arabic, because in Arabic, what Aristotle called hexis, usually there's some other words, and in Latin it's translated as habitus, is what's translated as something like *malakat*, which is something the same as *melech* [king/ownership] in Hebrew, like originally, something like leadership, or ownership, or belonging. They say it about you could own anything, and it's like something that you own. That's how we got the word *kinyan* for this. And of course, I think he's thinking of the *Mishna* that says things like *kinyan Torah* [acquisition of Torah], and things like that, and he interprets it that way, but he explicitly says in *Be'er Sheva* [commentary on Mishnah Zeraim], that that's how he got the word *kinyan* for these kinds of things. And he says that it means something like nature, nature and what makes a thing do what it does.
Instructor: So, anyway, this thing, just to get back to where I am, we know what this is, hopefully we know what this is, because that's what we spend a lot of time figuring out what that is. But there are many of those, right? You could be good ones and bad ones, right? So we need some word which will distinguish the good ones from the bad ones.
Instructor: They say it about you could own anything, and it's like something that you own. That's how we get the word *kinyanim* [acquisitions/possessions] for this. And, of course, I think he's thinking of the Mishnah that says things like *kinyan Torah* [acquisition of Torah], and things like that, and he interprets it that way, but he explicitly says in *Bepeirush l'mishnayos l'zeraim* [in his commentary on Mishnah Zeraim] that's how he got the word *kinyan* for these kinds of things, and he says that it means something like a nature, a nature, what makes a thing do what it does.
So, anyway, this thing, now just to get back to where I am, we know what this is, hopefully we know what this is, because that's what we spend a lot of time figuring out what that is. But there are many of those, right? You could be good ones and bad ones, right? So we need some word which will distinguish the good ones from the bad ones, right?
If you know Aristotelian logic, you know that this is called looking for the specific difference, or the species instead of the genus. Remember this? In an example of if we ask what a human being is, first we ask of what kind of thing he is, right? What sort of thing he is? If we say a human being is an animal, then we say, but which kind of animal? And we say he's a rational animal. So that's the difference between humans, and in Hebrew it's translated as a *hevdel* [difference], the difference between a human and a different animal, which is, which kind of animal is he, right?
So first, two ways of saying the word kind, right? The same thing—what thing is, what is he, which kind of thing is he, is an animal, that's the bigger group that he belongs to, and which group does he belong to in that, that's what we call the species, usually, that's the Hebrew translation for these things. So *sug* [genus/type] is the bigger one, and *min* [species] is the smaller one, and that's what's defined by the specific difference.
In the same exact way, we know what kind of thing good *middos* [character traits] are, or virtues are, right? They are habits, but we don't know which of those they are, right? So what's the specific difference that makes a habit into a good habit? And for this, Aristotle gives us the answer of the middle way. So now we know what this whole middle way is for, why it exists.
And, of course, this is what we call the definition, right? The definition, usually, is this, is both of these things. The definition in Aristotelianism is *geder* [definition], okay? If you ever went to yeshiva, you heard the word *geder*. *Geder* is a word that Jewish Aristotelians made up, also, probably through Arabic or something, to translate the word, Aristotelian word, definition, and it doesn't have the exact meaning of definition in English.
Definition has this very precise meaning in Aristotelianism. Definition means giving the genus and the kind and the species of a thing. The definition of a human being is a rational animal. The definition of a *kinyan* is a *ma'aseh shemechayev et hachoshech* [an act that obligates the darkness], and so on, right? The definition of the good activities, or the good human being, is having *middos* which are intermediate. That's how we get to this definition.
That's why whenever someone is going to present to you the theory, he's going to give you the most general definition, always. That's just how science is supposed to work. That's why we usually get this, but it's important to realize that that's all it's trying to answer. It's trying to answer the exact kind of thing that good things are.
But remember that we're still talking about a kind, right? Remember that this definition, telling that a human being is a rational animal, doesn't tell you very much about a human being. It's telling you, at most, something like, OK, I see there's animals, and I sort of... Animals are things that move under their own volition, or some kind of... That's also a definition. And there are things that move under... You notice, right? Animals are things, or maybe I should say living things, that move by themselves. I give you what kind of thing it is, and which one of that kind it is, right?
You'll notice that, naturally, we also give definitions always in this way, but they define it very precisely. In the same way, but that doesn't tell you much about a human being. All it tells you is how to distinguish a human being from other animals. And therefore, we say this is what is most... Human being of human being mostly is, is most, right? Because that's what defines him. But that doesn't give you a lot of information. All it gives you is... His science is about looking for the most general definitions always of everything. And then we can drill down and drill down and drill down and drill down.
There's a very famous Porphyry's tree [a diagram showing hierarchical classification from genus to species], which shows you how you can drill down from body all the way to some very specific thing. If you haven't seen the picture, it's a nice picture. You can look it up.
But the reason I'm telling you all of this is just so you understand how this language works and how saying that the definition of good actions is the middle is not supposed to give you much more than that. Make sense? Is that helpful? And it's not supposed to give you a lot more than saying a human being is a rational animal.
Famously, the guy, you know, the famous guy that made a joke. What was the... Diogenes or someone came into the Platonic Academy and said he has a man because one day they were playing with definitions and they said that human beings are featherless bipeds and they brought a chicken, or something like that. Right? A plucked chicken. They plucked the chicken and said, here's your man. Right?
And that's a joke that's trying to express... Of course, that's not the correct definition of a man anyways. But it's a good joke that shows you how useless definitions sometimes are, especially if you get the wrong ones. But even if you get the right ones, they don't give you a lot of information. And you might... In the same way, this definition of good things as the middle things doesn't give us a lot. Or if you want to work backwards and it doesn't...
Student: To prove that the species is incorrect, because it's not differentiated, right?
Instructor: Right. Then that was wrong. Exactly. He found an exception which shows that it's not the correct definition, of course. But it's still not extremely informative. I can't tell you a whole lot about a human being. Even the rational animal thing doesn't tell you a whole lot. Unless it's worked backwards, right?
Just to understand, this is what caused... And you remember that this is really because, as we keep on discussing, the Rambam always presents things backwards. Or really in the correct way, but in the wrong way for learning, right? Remember that Plato told us several times that there's an up... Remember, right? There's a top-down way of learning and a bottom-up way of learning, right? The way up is the way down. But they're different, right? The way up is collection and the way down is division.
When you learn from the principles to their particulars, or from the particulars to the principles, right? Or sometimes you call it induction and deduction. It's not exactly the same thing.
In other words, if I start from a general definition, and then I tell you this is a case of that, usually this is the correct way of things, right? Because reality has primarily, even Aristotle thinks this, that the rules, the classes of things, the forms of things, the definitions of things, are primary ontologically to their cases, right? This is why the Rambam tries always to teach this way, and it also strikes us as a logical way to teach. If you read the halacha, also the Rambam tries to give you the *klal* [general principle] before the *prat* [particular detail].
Of course, you'll notice that the Mishna doesn't do this. And people say this is because the Rambam is more philosophical than the Mishna. It's precisely the opposite.
I'm going back to my same hack as I say always, but I never said it in this way. You have to understand something. The Rambam is less philosophical than the Mishna. This is just because I remind myself of someone saying this week again, the same *shtus* [nonsense] that *Chazal* [the Sages] are not philosophers. They are much more philosophical than the Rambam, that's for sure.
Why? Because the Rambam gives you the result of philosophy, which is the correct way, right? He starts the tree from the top, like the Rambam starts with the first principle, you know, you saw this, and you go all the way down to *hilchos Sanhedrin* [laws of the Sanhedrin], you know, you realize, right? The Rambam, *Sefer Hamada* [Book of Knowledge], all the way to *Sefer Shoftim* [Book of Judges].
The worst, the last thing in the order of reality, is that there is halacha that you have to follow the judges, you know, like *Sefer Shoftim*. It is, because that's how the world looks. It's just about managing people down here and having conflict and stuff. The last thing is that *mashiach* [messiah], you know, the smallest thing. You have to do everything else before you have *mashiach*, right? We work the opposite. We work the opposite.
Now, like Aristotle Plato used to say, are we going to the principles or coming from them? Generally, philosophy is supposed to be going to the principles, not coming from them. The goal of philosophy is to get from the principles back down, right? But what we usually identify as philosophy is actually learning, which is we find ourselves in ignorance in this world, we find ourselves in ignorance in this world, we're starting to think we can see and then we try to ascend to the principles, right?
Now, the Rambam, for example, this is a very good example of the Rambam doing it backwards, right? Actually, in *Hilchos De'os* [Laws of Character Traits], he starts a little bit with the details. But, for example, here in *Hilchos De'os*, where he just started and gave you this definition, it says, let me give you the final result, because he's making things short and easy for you, supposedly. He doesn't want to burden you with all the dialectic of how we get to this. He just tells you, well, the middle way is the correct path. Thank you very much.
But the problem is that since we don't even know how to deduce this, we don't know how did he get to this. People have very wrong opinions of how they got to this. They just imagine things, which are not in the text or not anywhere. And, therefore, the only way to read the Rambam is dogmatically most of the time instead of philosophically or dialectically.
Versus the Mishna, for example, I'm just saying this because I have to finish my thought about that, and it's very important. Versus the Mishna that, for example, always, even when the Mishna gives a *klal* or a general form or a general definition, it's always posterior, it's always after the details, right? The Mishna will always give you a long list, and they say, *zeh haklal* [this is the general principle]. The Gemara will say, *zeh haklal she'omru* [this is the general principle they stated], find one more detail, because what is that *klal*? Is that a *klal*? It's because it's a *klal*. No, who cares about *klal*, right? No, of course, there's a *klal*. There's always a *klal*. But the *klal* is always after the details.
And it's true. Even if you read the Rambam and you start something with the definition, you're going to understand what he's saying. Only if you're coming to it after the Gemara, and you know, oh, so this is the general definition that makes sense of everything. Right?
In the same way, that's why I think that the Gemara and the Mishna are actually a lot more philosophical than the Rambam. Of course, they don't discuss theology too much, but even when they do, they're more philosophical than the Rambam is.
Student: Good *pshat* [interpretation], right?
Instructor: People always think that the Rambam is logical and the Mishna is illogical. It's just the opposite. The Rambam gives you the results of a certain logic, and that's why the Rosh [Rabbeinu Asher ben Yechiel], and I said it, actually, last Thursday, I think that he's right now. The Rosh [transcript ends mid-sentence]
Instructor: In the same way, that's why I think that the *Gemara* and the *Mishna* are actually a lot more philosophical than the *Rambam*. Of course, they don't discuss theology too much, but even when they do, they're more philosophical than the *Rambam* is. Good *pshat* [interpretation/explanation], right?
People always think that the *Rambam* is logical and the *Mishna* is illogical. It's just the opposite. The *Rambam* gives you the results of a certain logic, and that's why the *Rosh* [Rabbi Asher ben Yechiel, major Talmudic authority], and I said it, actually, last Thursday, I think that he's right now.
The *Rosh* quotes a great man in Barcelona that said that we don't understand the *Rambam* if we don't learn *Gemara* [Talmud]. Remember? Very famous statement, because there are some people that say that we have to pass *halacha* [Jewish law] from the *Rambam*. The *Rambam* told us we don't have to read *Talmud* anymore.
And the *Rosh*, arguing with this, said that it's all... Firstly, he disagrees that the *Rambam* is an authority, so he thinks that he can say it just like the *Rambam* could. But he says that even if the *Rambam* would be an authority, he doesn't think that the people that read the *Rambam* understand the *Rambam*.
And he quotes a great man in Barcelona that told him that the parts of the *Rambam* where he learned the *Talmud* for it, he understands the *Rambam*, and the parts where he didn't learn, like *Kodshim* [the order of the Mishnah dealing with sacrifices], things like the subject of the little reading *yeshiva* [Torah academy] over there. So he doesn't know the *Gemara*, he doesn't understand the *Rambam*.
This is also somewhat of an indictment of the *Rambam's* project, which tries to make the *Gemara* unnecessary and turns out to not actually succeed.
But I think more significantly, it's a really true point, that you don't really get... If I tell you a man is a rational animal, you're like, OK, what do you want from my life?
If you notice, wait, we've been going through all the things that men do, and then we're trying to think what is the essence, what's the one thing that includes all of these things, and I get to this, then you understand that I helped you somewhat, I'm giving you something. But if I didn't go through all the details, and I just started with this, you realize that it's somewhat of an empty... it doesn't have much meaning.
So *kitzurim* [summaries] and *klalim* [general rules] are very good after the details, not before. There are problems with this, of course. There's also pedagogical problems, it's very hard, and most people don't ever get to the rules. That's why the *Sifri* [halakhic midrash on Numbers and Deuteronomy] says you should learn Torah, *klalim*, and...
But anyways, the *Rambam* follows that advice of the *Sifri*. But it's a good way, that's why we learn *Mishnayos* [plural of Mishnah], teach *Mishnayos* to kids and so on. But even the *Mishna* is not really that kind of... OK, in any case, I'm getting lost in this discussion.
My point is just that in the same way here, we have to understand that I think that the first thing that the middle thing, the word middle is doing, is to give us a general definition for all the good things. That's the important thing, the important work that it does.
Of course, this helps us somewhat. Of course, if you find an exception, it will be a problem with our definition. I'm not saying that it's not supposed to include everything and it's supposed to be the correct definition. But it's not supposed to be the most informative definition at all. It's not looking to be informative, it's looking to be something like the opposite of informative. It's looking to find the essence of it.
Now, of course, we have to explain why we think that this is a good candidate for being the essence. And there would be several ways of going about this. Several ways of explaining why we think that the essence of the good habits and the good activities consist of them being a mean. And what I even mean. That's why I discuss them. We also have to understand what I even mean by saying this.
So the first thing, I will tell you. Should I say that first or should I say first the other thing? Do you understand my point? That's one point that I'm making.
Student: You're saying that we should first say what the habits are?
Instructor: Really, we should first. In some sense, yes. That's not what Aristotle does, so I can't say that's the correct method because it's not what anyone really does. He does do it a little bit. In other words, even *Rambam* did it a little bit.
In other words, there's like four. If you look in his book, in the Ethics, I wrote down exactly where he does this, but I don't have my chapter numbers and stuff here. But if you look here, you'll see that he does three or four different explanations of why he thinks that virtue is a mean. He always uses also examples, just to be clear. You can't do this without examples. Which means that we always assume that you already know something.
If I tell you, for example, right? If I tell you some parts of something, he tried to take always the first two virtues that we talk about are temperance and courage, right? And if I show you that it's obvious to everyone, if I show you, for example, he doesn't exactly do this because I don't think this is enough to show you that virtue is a mean. But it right away shows you, if I told you, look, courage, which you think is a good thing already, of course, if you don't think that courage is a good thing, like most people in Lakewood think courage is a bad thing, then you're totally out of the discussion.
But if you think courage is a good thing, you could also see that there's, that means that being a coward is a bad thing, but also that being rash is a bad thing. Being something like too courageous or being irresponsible, right? That's not the same thing as courage. You could see that it's not the same thing and I could show you how, therefore, my best guess, my best bet as getting something that actually explains what kind of a thing courage is is to say that it's the middle of this subject of courage.
Or the same thing with temperance. You have to assume that you already understand. You might have not noticed it, but I have to show you.
I think courage is actually a very good example. Temperance is a more complicated example. There's no spectrum of courage. I mean, you could have a spectrum whether you personally have it or not. Courage itself does not have a spectrum. Courage is courage.
The other way to understand it is spectrum. That's for sure not what we're trying to get at, that there's a spectrum and you should be in the middle. That's what we already went through. There are some mistakes that people have about it. The reason they have these mistakes is because they don't actually realize how we got to this, why we did it. There are other reasons why people get to ideas like golden means. And the golden means is not what I was talking about. I don't know if I gave that to *shiur* [class/lesson] here yet. I did talk about it last week. So I don't keep track. I don't know the golden means.
But yes, you can see that, for example, we praise courage. Courage is a virtue. And we can also see that running away from everything or not facing any fears, not facing any, I guess fear is the thing that courage is against, or danger maybe, is not courage. We have even a word for it. We call it being a coward.
And we could also see that that doesn't mean that courage is the most of that. This is an important thing. I think that this is intuitive to most people when you talk about courage. You could also see that therefore I should just be the one that jumps into every, that always volunteers to go first in the war. Well, no, you shouldn't always volunteer. Sometimes you're just being stupid.
And then I ask, okay, so therefore what the virtue consists of is not, and we could show that this works in a similar structure for everything. So this would give me a structure for everything. But I could show you that what the virtue of courage consists of is not jumping into facing dangers with equanimity or something like that. That's not what it consists of because if it consisted of that, then you would have to always want the most of it.
It's sort of the opposite. The reason why we get this idea of the middle, of the mean as being the correct, is because we assume that you want to be the best. Just the opposite than other people, right? And if what defines courage as a good thing is the courage-ness of it or something like that, then you would want, or in other words, is the facing danger, dangerous-ness of it, then you would always have to be facing the most danger. But you see that it's not correct.
So I could show you very easily, so I ask you, what's the difference between courage and stupidity? And you say, well, stupidity is just too much courage. Well, that sounds, in some sense you could say that. If there's a spectrum of facing danger, then too little is cowardness and too much is rashness or stupidity. I like the word stupidity for this actually. And courage is something in between.
But you understand that this in between is something like a *moshol* [parable/analogy]. It's an analogy. It's not the point that you're in between. The point is that I'm showing you that courage doesn't mean jumping into the most dangerous. Courage means jumping into the correct dangers for the correct reasons, right?
Being courageous for your country maybe when it's in a great danger is a good thing, but being courageous for your lollipop is not a good thing. So it's not about, there's always all of these becauses and whys and hows and amounts, in other words, measures, that make it into a good thing.
So therefore, what makes courage good is not that it's courageous, that it faces danger, that it's not afraid of danger. What makes it good is that it's the correct kind. Of course, there are many kinds of correctness. Of course, you have courage and temperance and all the rest of the virtues. Because they have specific subjects and there might be, like we discussed last week, there might be specific sciences and specific habits and specific trainings for each of them.
It doesn't mean that just having one of them will give you all of them, although in the most general sense, they are all the same kind of thing. But what it shows you is that this is the kind of thing that it is. Does that make sense? This is, I think, in this sense, this is the first sense in which it is useful, right? In other words, it is a definition that you can understand.
Once I gave you this example, I can show you the same thing with temperance. Say something like temperance is something like, not, what is temperance? Temperance is something that we don't really, especially in Hebrew also, courage I discussed enough, but temperance is the opposite, right? Courage is a noun from virtue. It's a *goyish* [non-Jewish] virtue.
Somebody would even say, read Aristotle and say, the first thing he talks about is courage, where this guy didn't read the same Bible as me. By the way, in the Bible, courage is praised many times. In *Chazal* [the Sages of the Talmud], much less. Or none in the same way. Or at least we don't remember how to read it that way. In *mussar sforim* [ethical/moral literature], there is never a *tzaddik ometz* [righteous courage], is there?
Doesn't *Shlomo* [King Solomon] talk about having enough courage? Actually, the *Shulchan Aruch* [Code of Jewish Law] of *Rav Yosef Karo* starts with the virtue of courage, if you noticed. People don't realize, they think it's about fighting yourself only. They are taught really, right?
That's what *Yehuda ben Teima* says, the first thing he talks about is courage. *הוי עז כנמר וקל כנשר ורץ כצבי וגיבור כארי לעשות רצון אביך שבשמים* [Be bold as a leopard, light as an eagle, swift as a deer, and strong as a lion to do the will of your Father in Heaven]. *Az kanomer* [bold as a leopard] is courage.
And it says in the *Shulchan Aruch*, *לא יבוש מפני המלעיגים בו* [He should not be embarrassed before those who mock him]. That's the virtue of courage. Actually, a very important virtue, but people don't really talk about it enough. Or if they talk about it, they talk about it in funny ways. So courage—
Instructor: People don't realize, they think it's about fighting yourself only. The Torah really, right? That's what Yehuda Ben Teima says, *hevei az kanemer v'kal kaneshera* [be bold as a leopard and light as an eagle]. *Az kanemer* is courage, right? And it says in *Shemonah Perakim* [Eight Chapters - Rambam's ethical treatise], *v'aizehu gibor hakoveish et yitzro* [who is mighty? He who conquers his inclination] - that's the virtue of courage. Actually a very important virtue, but people don't really talk about it enough, or if they talk about it, they talk about it in funny ways. So courage is a great virtue.
And temperance, we think is like a *frum* [religious/observant] virtue, and we think that it means also an extreme. The Rambam is going to go on and on and on about this.
Student: Well, that's why you might not want to talk about it in certain situations. People might take it to mean a messed up idea.
Instructor: No, no, I just need to take another example so we see that it's a general rule, right?
But in the olden times in Greece, in Athens, everyone knew that there's four virtues. And two of them are courage and temperance, right? And temperance means something like... By the way, the word temperance, it's sometimes translated as moderation, right? Or in Greek it's *sophrosyne* [σωφροσύνη - Greek term for temperance/moderation], which I don't know what it translates to exactly.
Student: It's a Greek word.
Instructor: *Sophrosyne* or something like that.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: And sometimes you see it written like that in English also. Or moderation, right? Moderation relative to pleasures, specifically. But we can see from that, the way it's taken, anyone in Athens at least would understand that when you say that, you don't mean someone who has no pleasure in his life. What it means is he's moderate relative to pleasure. He's not taking more pleasure all the time. He's not some kind of... How do you call it? I don't know. *Nintan b'ivrit* [it's said in Hebrew], I say. How do you say it in English? Pleasure seeker, too much of a pleasure seeker.
Student: What is that, a hedonist? But we don't really mean that.
Instructor: Yeah, but hedonist is not a good definition. That's why I don't want to use that, because that's really a philosophical stance. Right?
And we say that, but everyone understands in the same way. I could show you very simply that... I don't mean... Aristotle himself notes that this is something that he has to explain here right away, and you'll see the Rambam also quotes it the same way, or literally the same way. I don't know if I showed you that.
But we don't really realize this so easily, because when I tell you you should be temperate, you should be less of a *baal taavah* [person driven by desires], right? Less of a *freisa* [glutton/excessive eater]. Then you think that what I mean to say is that the virtue is not to be a *baal taavah* at all. And people make this mistake, and there's a reason why they make this mistake, and that's because almost nobody has the problem of being too little *baal taavah*. Even the people that pretend, usually.
Almost nobody has that problem, so it's not like we really have to get people to have more pleasure in life. Actually, I think that nobody does. I think that some people pretend that they have this problem, but it's just a question of ideology, not a real question. And we're not talking about ideology.
Student: You know, I don't know if it's relevant to you at this point. Okay.
Instructor: I have a bunch of friends going around that, you know, the teaching in yeshiva that you shouldn't enjoy life, and gosh, but really you should. And I'm looking at this guy, do you know anyone in yeshiva that doesn't enjoy life? Why are you giving me this *drasha* [sermon]? It's just a question of ideology. Who cares about ideology? Ideology is fake anyways. That's what Marx said, right?
Student: In practice. What I mean to say.
Instructor: What I mean to say is that it's very simple, that all the people going around and saying that, you know, the world is good, you should enjoy your body and your life, and unlike the *frum*, supposed *frum* people who are against this. Do you know any *frum* people that don't actually enjoy their life?
Student: No. People who are just tortured souls regardless.
Instructor: They would find a way to be tortured in every society.
Student: No, that's what I'm saying. They blame it on that, it's not... Yeah. No, but it's not like people like the yeshivish *chinuch* [education] is against enjoying life or like Chasidish *chinuch*.
Instructor: Well, it's true that we talk that way. It's true that we talk against *taavos* [desires/pleasures], but guess what? I have a teacher who's very *frum* and very precious, and he told me he doesn't understand people that give like, you have to give a *drasha* to the Chassidim that they should enjoy themselves more. Like seriously, the *yetzer hara* [evil inclination] does a very good job of teaching everyone to have *taavah* [desire]. He doesn't think he needs help. If you need help, you need help for the moderation part. Like, okay, don't overdo it. Keep your mind with you in some sense.
Like, I meet people that seem to think that really nobody's enjoying life. But I think that the reason is because people over-index on ideology, saying like, we hold that *Olam Hazeh* [this world] is not good. Okay, who cares what you hold? Holding is... it doesn't make any difference what you hold.
Student: Maybe you're saying, some people get tortured about it. But really, how many people really take these things seriously? Like five?
Instructor: I was in yeshiva, in a very *frum* yeshiva. Nobody... everyone enjoyed. Okay, so they have... who cares? So they enjoy their pizza instead of enjoying some fancy restaurant. That's not a big difference.
Student: So what about the literal version of the guys you're talking about? And they're always like, oh, so you took it seriously? Literally? That's weird. Like no one else did.
Instructor: Yeah, like some OTD [Off The Derech - people who left religious observance] people. But they're also pretending, because even their rebbe... I know the guy. I'm talking to this guy that told me this *drasha*. It's very funny. He had to give you a fight against this literature, *Chassanim* [grooms] and other people they teach. And *l'maaseh* [in practice], I know exactly what food he likes and he makes sure to buy it for Shabbos and even for the weekdays. It's not like he's not enjoying his life. Of course, he's trying to control himself. But who is against self-control?
It becomes very funny, and I think that people are over-indexed, and that's why I said over-index on ideology. Like, we hold. Okay, so you hold. That's why even Aristotle says, we don't really need to talk about this problem. We don't even have a name for that person. He makes up a name. He says, let's call him insensitive, but insensitive doesn't really mean this. He's making up a name just so his structure should work, that we have the too much and the too little.
Student: Some people are sterilized to certain indulgences.
Instructor: Oh, yeah. Some people are asexual also, supposedly. I don't believe them. Anyways. Maybe they are. Who knows? No, I mean, certain people just... But not because of the *mashgiach* [spiritual supervisor in yeshiva]. Some of them are like that.
Student: Wait. Yeah, but I know certain people that just aren't moved by certain, like...
Instructor: Okay. What's wrong with that? I mean, like... By what? By why they're not moved? I actually don't know those people. I mean, there's some people that are not... They don't have enough... They don't have a very developed emotional life or imaginative life or something. They don't enjoy films or something. Okay.
Student: I don't know. I think my grandfather doesn't enjoy life enough.
Instructor: Doesn't enjoy life enough?
Student: No, he won't turn on the heat in the... But it's funny... Wait, is he a Holocaust survivor? It's funny. He'll literally eat whatever's on sale. That's it.
Instructor: Okay, well, what's the problem with that?
Student: The problem with that is that... Yeah, I don't think it's the same thing. The problem with that... By the way, there is a problem with that. I don't think... That's a different medium. They're annoying to us. That's a separate medium. I don't think it has the same meaning. Probably has to do with poverty and things like that.
Student: No, he gives $5,000 checks to every grandkid on Chanukah. He's very generous.
Instructor: Yeah, but maybe he was brought up... I don't know. I don't remember anything. Let's see. Because he was brought up. It doesn't matter.
Student: No, I think it's an over... It's like a stinginess, no?
Instructor: No. No, he's very generous. He's not being stingy with himself. I think also he's just totally unprioritized at all. And he doesn't realize it, but maybe your grandkids don't want to come over because you just don't turn on the heat. Like, at this point...
Student: No, I know what you mean, but I don't think it's... I don't know. I don't think we could call it over temperance. It's something... Maybe it is, actually. Maybe it is. Okay, but I think usually these kinds of people who had a hard childhood and grew up in poverty and they got used to that you don't really turn on the heat because it costs too much money or something like that.
Student: No, he just... I don't know. Even if that's why. You're just telling me the story of why.
Instructor: Yeah, I'm saying it's not... He's still doing it, I have to tell you. It's complicated reasons for why I get angry. It's not really anger. It's just insufficiency. I get it. It's an action or it's a way of... Could we say that that's bad? You think it's bad?
Student: His grandkids won't come over, so... That's a different problem. That's lack of empathy or something. Okay, maybe you don't turn on the heat, but maybe the other guy needs to do it.
Student: No, he knows you're uncomfortable immediately. He thinks you like it just as much as he does. Why wouldn't you enjoy wearing your winter coat in the house?
Instructor: I'm not sure. I remember there was a *tzaddik* [righteous person] that was like this. He was like, he didn't give out cold drinks. There was a guy that I used to invite *bochurim* [yeshiva students] on Shabbos in Yerushalayim and he didn't give cold drinks in the summer because it's *taavos* [desires/pleasures]. He didn't have air conditioning either. So you could have a tea if you wanted.
Student: No, that's not... That's different, right? I'm like, you're a good guy. I'm not sure. He was training us not to have *taavah* [desire]. I'm not sure what was the idea. Not like he drank. He also didn't drink. It's fine. That kind of... Even that person. He didn't enjoy... I don't know. Weird masochism or something.
Student: What would it look like? We're also saying everything is relative. What would it look like for someone not to enjoy life? What would it look like for someone to underindulge?
Instructor: No, but we could understand that that kind of person maybe is not... I don't really know. It depends on your picture of the ideal human being. To me, that's not ideal. Maybe I'm wrong. Is there no *kitzvah acharon* [extreme end]? Meaning, is there no harmful degree of this?
Student: Yeah, yeah. Well, harmful degree of insensitivity? Of not enjoying life? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's what we're talking about. What would that look like? Maybe these people that we're discussing are actually in that sense. They seem to be missing a certain human... Experience, yeah. A certain part of being human. They seem to be missing... Yeah, they seem to be missing something.
Instructor: Maybe Aristotle would agree with that. Not only Aristotle. Maybe even a Platonist. Even an extreme virtue person, extreme ascetic person could say that they're missing something. Because part of being human is to get that people like... But based on what is this? I'm just making this up because that's what I like. I don't know. I can say about what I like. I think that it's normal to like certain... There's something, I think... There's something... It's not about normal. Something in a conversation with someone who doesn't... You could say it's something rich. Like we talked about someone that has a rich life. Like something like you know the difference between salt and pepper. I don't know, like an extreme example, right?
Student: Yeah. They're both the same, right? They're both sort of sharp and that neighborhood... Yeah, but it's not even one habit. Is that... Specifically either. I find that people who are like this... Sure. First of all, they're not turning on the heat. Second of all, they're reheating the same food for three weeks in a row. And yeah, it's fine. Beef and peas. Yeah, it's all the same habits. I get it. I don't know... I don't know what's so bad about it though.
Student: It's abundance at a table. There's so much beef. It doesn't taste like anything. You're not participating in a pleasurable human experience. Right?
Student: Yeah, it's all the same habits. I get it. I don't know what's so bad about it though. It's abundance at the table. There's so much beef.
Instructor: It doesn't taste like anything. You're not participating in a pleasurable human experience.
Student: I just think it seems like a different *mida* [middah: character trait] that you're discussing, not temperance.
Instructor: Why?
Student: It's the exact opposite of a *fresse* [glutton]. We are talking about, I think, yeah exactly. It's someone that, if the *gefilte fish* [traditional Jewish fish dish] isn't—it's too much cooked or too little cooked—and he's not going to eat it at all. He's overdoing it. And someone that, it could be, you know, all these stories that the wife put the tissues instead of the fish in the oven and he ate the tissues. Whatever. Yeah, that's something is wrong with you.
Instructor: Okay, maybe he's—I can understand those stories as a beautiful thing in the sense of the life of the mind. You're so in your mind, you're not living in this world.
Student: Yeah, because it's not your life.
Instructor: Okay, *beseder* [alright]. But as long as you are living in this world, which maybe you shouldn't be—that's a different discussion, right? That's why I think, for example, what I personally think, but this is just my personal opinion, I don't know if it means anything. I would say something like this: if a *Yid* [Jew] is like these stories, he was learning all day and he forgot to put on his shoes or whatever. Okay, so he has a much more pleasurable life because he's contemplating and he doesn't really care about his body. *Beseder*.
That has to do with the questions of contemplative life and so on. But there are some people that don't even do that. He's not contemplating, he's not doing anything. It's not like he's so into Shabbos and he doesn't care if there's food. Okay. He just doesn't care about the food. So then in that sense, on that level, there might be something weird, something wrong with that. But it's hard to say what's wrong with it.
Student: I think you can figure it out. Is it as bad as the two other practices?
Instructor: The reason why the grandkids don't want to come over is not because they think that they're insensitive, it's just dementia. They feel judged.
Student: No, first of all that. If you get *chas v'shalom* [God forbid], you get takeout, what are you even doing? Why would someone want to do that? They don't understand why someone would want to do that.
Instructor: Yeah, it's abundance.
Student: And the other thing is, yeah, in some sense I think they just don't realize that this is a part of being a human being. To them it's like they don't even understand why. They're sensitive to things that they understand. They're very sensitive people. They're very sensitive to things that you understand, they can understand are worth being sensitive about. This just doesn't occur to them that pleasurable things might be something that you even want or gravitate towards or at least avoid its reduction to a minimum.
Instructor: So you think he doesn't enjoy his beef?
Student: No, he does, but he should be enjoying more.
Instructor: Yeah, if he enjoys it very minimally. Let's put it this way: that beef could look like many things and he doesn't seem to be moved by those changes. But usually these things are very relative, meaning the person who has much more simple food enjoys them, seems the same amount.
Student: Yeah, could be. Would you say that that person would enjoy it—would you say something's interesting if that person enjoys it equally if it's too salty and not salted enough?
Instructor: No, you're not, you're not, right, yeah, I'm saying. You're talking about too salty and not salty enough, and the person's unmoved.
Student: No, no, I'm saying less options essentially, you're saying...
Instructor: No, no, no.
Student: Yeah, a way of saying this would be something like, I saw someone, someone said, there was a *machlokes* [dispute] between two Chassidishe Rebbes or something, if you should put salt on your food or something like that. And I think Rabbi Nachman said that he thinks that someone who doesn't put salt on his food is just like an animal. So cows don't salt their food. You're not being a bigger *tzaddik* [righteous person], you're just being more cow.
That's a way of saying this. Humans are people that do have some judgment about which food is good. Now, if you overdo that, then you're a *fresse*, but if you underdo it, you're a *chamar* [donkey], you're a *chamar*. Just a *chamar*, when you say a *chamar* is a grass—but also a *chamar* is a big food, he eats grass every day, the same grass, right?
Instructor: So how do we know the difference? There's this guy in Lakewood who is not alive. He had a whole speech against ketchup. Ketchup's *stam* [just], you don't need it, it's just *stam* for pleasure. Ketchup is *gayva* [pride], go to *gehenom* [hell] if you eat ketchup. Right.
Student: Well, we could also say that ketchup is vulgar, it's this American replacement of whatever. I'm saying you could make such a case.
Instructor: It's an absolute flavor bomb. Whatever you're eating it with, it's just gonna nuke it.
Student: Right, that's a different—that would be a different argument. That would be, but also you could say that's too much, who cares, it tastes good, who cares.
Instructor: Right, you're being too refined already.
Instructor: Okay, so I don't know, it's still true for the most part, again, but really, how many of those people are there? Very rare, I've only seen it once. You see, there's lots of people, but usually it's not. And also I think even those people usually have material conditions that cause this. I don't know many people that are—I don't know many people in my generation that are like this. Yeah, yeah. Do you?
Student: It's only one person I know from all the people I've ever met that suffers from under-indulgence. I know people that try to aim at that. Okay, I'm pro-aiming at that, because we're mostly too big *fressers*. That's what I'm trying to get at, but if you would get to that level, okay, then we'll worry about turning it back or something. Right.
Instructor: I've seen this.
Student: What?
Instructor: I've seen this. Yeah. It happens to be Jews that will have a hard time doing this, because we all have a lot of *seudos* [festive meals]. That's just a great way to just sit around and enjoy the food. It really does the job of making sure that it's better.
Student: So we're all managing to be big enough *fressers*. We shall have too big *fressers*, but we're not too small *fressers*.
Instructor: I think so, yeah. Okay. Yeah, if you go to rural America, I think you could maybe find some of this. Or people that just don't have good food in their whole *shtut* [area]. Yeah. There's no good restaurant in 300 miles. Yeah, and not because they're doing anything better with their lives. They just spend a lot of time being disinterested in food.
Student: I hear. In other words, a lot of people like that are very big *fressers*, because they eat just little garbage.
Instructor: Maybe in some sense it's just some kind of depression or something.
Student: Maybe, yeah. It's depression. It seems like the downside is somewhere else. It seems like the downside would be somewhere else. And then we're... I can understand. Maybe it's empathy, maybe it's some sort of depression.
Instructor: No, but we're trying to get a—again, remember, what I'm trying to show you, I'm just—this is where I am. I'm just trying to show you that we have this virtue called temperance. We know what it is: moderation. And we don't have a good Yiddish word for it, because Yiddish word for it tends to be the extreme word, like *prishus* [asceticism]. And that you try to translate this as *prishus*, people don't understand.
Or sometimes translated as *zehirus* [carefulness], by the way. *Zehirus* is the Rambam's translation. The Rambam himself translated as *zehirus*. Sometimes *zehirus*, sometimes *yiras chet* [fear of sin]. Weirdly. Temperance is *yiras chet*. *Yiras chet* doesn't mean being afraid of doing an *aveira* [sin]. It means not being too big *fresse*. There's a Rambam himself translated this way.
So we have these three Hebrew words that correspond to the virtue of temperance sometimes in our sources. That it should have been totally misunderstood. Until *zehirus* means being careful. I think that that's wrong. At least in the Rambam, in the Mishnah, I don't know. The *middos* [character traits] of *zehirus* means temperance.
Instructor: And it seems to be easy to understand that temperance is a limit to not being too much of a—taking too much pleasure. Or something about having the correct amount of pleasure. That's how we're trying to get at. And you could see that person that we're describing now who just doesn't get it. He doesn't get that there's such a thing as being in a comfortable temperature. He seems to not get it. That's not what we're talking about.
People would say something else. He doesn't have an *asan* [foundation/nature]. He's just born without—he's a *suras* [eunuch]. He doesn't have a feeling for that kind of pleasure. But I don't think that's the idea. We would say something like he's not having the correct amount of pleasure. He's having too little pleasure. Just that usually we don't really have this problem. And most people don't have this problem. Most people don't have this problem.
Therefore I think it's overrated to talk about it. The Rambam talks about it a lot. But also for different reasons. It's another question. Why does the Rambam talk so much about—against this *prishus*? How many people did the Rambam know that were over *prishus*? I have no idea. You should be very worried about it. Don't be... How many people are fasting too much? Seriously. Who is this person? Three weirdos. The Essenes.
Student: What?
Instructor: Yeah. The Rambam says Christian priests. But also how many priests are there? There are thousands of Christians and a few of them become priests. It's a big thing.
Student: No, there is this thing of the ideology part, right? You think that that's what the ideal is and everyone is falling short.
Instructor: Maybe they have an outsized influence, those people. And whatever downside there is, they don't get those *mailos* [virtues/advantages]. Meaning—the other people also don't? And as much as the ideal people don't get *mailos*, it affects all of them, yes. But the point is if your ideal people are *prushim* [ascetics], they're going to be missing something, right? Because they're not...
Student: People sometimes make this case. For example, anti-Christian polemics or Jews who are having polemics with Christians make a case something like this. So Christians traditionally, Paul almost explicitly says this, say that the best thing to be is celibate. But we'll give a concession to the normal people and let them be married. And then when they're married they should act with chastity and the correct ways. But they're really—make it afterwards.
Instructor: What?
Student: Make it afterwards. Afterwards, before, whatever. So—but he still has this idea that really you should be totally celibate. And people would make the claim—it's not—I don't know if it's true. People could make a claim like the claim that you're trying to make. That's something like that because of this, there isn't a good Christian ideal of being happily married or being temperately married.
Let's talk about to talk specifically about this thing, because you're—ideal people are not married. And sometimes people say if you go to the priest for advice on marriage, he has no advice to give you. There's actually I saw a priest says the opposite because people—he says people come to you with problems, their girlfriends. Such nonsense. You see right through it. You just guy is never stuck in this nonsense. But I'm not. I'm just get over it, move on.
So it's not entirely always true that if you're out of it, you don't have good advice. But people sometimes say this. *Birchas Shmuel* [Rabbi Baruch Ber Leibowitz's work] was—he's the one. No he's not the same one. He had the similar opinions of I think he was on the side of being moderately pleasures in life. And he said that he doesn't understand the importance of—
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Instructor: Such nonsense. You see right through it. The guy is stuck in this nonsense, but I'm not. I'm just, get over it, move on. So it's not entirely always true that if you're out of it, you don't have good advice, but people sometimes say this.
Reb Pinchus Kuritzer was also—he's the one, no, he's not the same one, but he had similar opinions of, I think he was on the side of being moderate in pleasures in life. And he said that he doesn't understand why people go to the Mezritcher Maggid. The Mezritcher Maggid is a *parush* [פרוש: an ascetic], he's celibate, and you can't talk with such a person. How are you gonna talk to the guy? He's not living in the same world as you.
Student: That's why Shlomo Maimon got divorced.
Instructor: No, no, that's not why. Different reasons. There is such an argument. I don't know how true this is, but people say nowadays maybe something like this, but that's a much broader thing. To talk specifically about this thing of moderation and pleasures, you don't have a mouth for that, and therefore you end up going to the other extreme. I don't know how true this is.
Student: Why wasn't there more? You would imagine that *midos* [מידות: character traits] all affect each other, so it would affect some other thing, and you lose somewhere in other places as well.
Instructor: What do you mean? What do you lose?
Student: Ultimately, it should be that you're going to be lacking in your knowledge as well.
Instructor: Like you were saying before, that if someone eats too little or doesn't know the difference between good food and bad food, then when he does *hachnosas orchim* [הכנסת אורחים: hospitality], he's not going to be a good *machnis oreach* [מכניס אורח: host] either. Something like that. This is the story that we're talking about. Is that what you mean to say?
But that's back to the problem of living in this world, and then you say it's true. So living as a human being in the fleshy world, maybe you want to be a Buddhist, then you should never come out of your monastery. But if you ever come out, then you have to learn what good food and so on is, because otherwise you're going to not be able to deal with people correctly. There's such an argument to be made.
Student: Someone could say something like, if you're an ascetic, then you shouldn't ever be a *dayan* [דיין: judge], because you don't realize how important money is.
Student: Maybe there's something universal that you're missing. Maybe there's something more universal that you're missing.
Instructor: Like what?
Student: I don't know, you won't really understand a human and an animal. There's something universal about a human that you just won't understand, because you don't partake in the human action the way you should.
Instructor: I'm not in that, it's hard for me to say, but it's exactly what you're saying. I don't know, the way a human eats... But this is the question, is the person that we're imagining in some flyover country, *chas v'shalom* [חס ושלום: God forbid], who has never had a good restaurant or anything, is he a better person in any sense?
I'll tell you the opposite argument. The opposite argument is something like this. What's the difference between romance and porn, right? Romance is just a higher level version of the same thing. And there's an argument that the Rambam [Maimonides] himself makes in *Shemona Perakim* [שמונה פרקים: Eight Chapters], and he says that he thinks that people who write poetry about sex are worse than people who just have sex. Because if he'd have had a cushion, he'd have... You know the Rambam? It's just dressing up this very bad thing in some fancy way.
But the opposite argument is no, that if you just have sex, then you're just being an animal. If you give it words, you write some poetry about it, then you're having some kind of human level of it. The same thing can be said for food and for all these things.
Instructor: And that's where we get this idea that it's not actually... When we talk about temperance or moderation, we're not talking about... We don't think of someone getting as far away from pleasure as possible. We think of someone having pleasure in the right way and not in the wrong way.
And this is what leads us to see... Okay, I'm going to stop here. I don't know what the *halacha* [הלכה: Jewish law] is about all these things. We do see from this very simply... I think if we agree on some level that that's bad, we can see in some sense right away that the virtue of moderation doesn't consist in an extreme in the sense of pleasure. Therefore we have to give it a more abstract definition, right?
And this more abstract definition is going to be shared with the other virtues. Because all virtues are a kind of knowing the correct one between options which are more and less. But we also see from this that the more and less is something like an analogy or something... It's not... We're not saying... It's very clear. We see very clearly that we're not trying to find the correct amount of pleasure and say it's the middle amount. We're trying to understand what moderation is. And we say, I can show you that there's a too much and a too little in that. And therefore you can see that whatever moderation is and therefore whatever most other virtues at least would be, would consist of knowing the correct amount. That's all.
Instructor: That's enough for today. There's a moderation in how long a *shiur* [שיעור: lesson] should be.
I already told you last week that Aristotle explicitly and the Rambam don't believe in moderation in the intellectual virtues. But it's not that we don't act in moderation in them. And I read more than one person saying, and already early people saying that in reality if you see the way we discussed already how Aristotle uses authority versus questioning in general, he does seem to always try to be in the middle even intellectually.
And there's even Aristotle in the beginning of this book says that even how much to learn is something that ethics has to tell you. That politics has to tell you. Which is the same thing as ethics, right? Because the politician, the king will decide—this goes back to our discussion earlier and this is a weird thing that he says if you think that the contemplative life is the highest thing. He says the king will have to decide how many philosophers there's gonna be. It says in the ethics and I think that the Rambam would also agree with that in some sense. It doesn't mean that it's higher to be a king than to be a philosopher but it does seem to mean that in reality in the city the king is going to decide who should be a philosopher or how many philosophers he needs and maybe there's too much and too little in that also. Okay. That's the story.
And also I have to finish... What's his name? Rav Levy ben Avraham. But therefore there's two extremes you can be only a philosopher and only a *ma'amin* [מאמין: believer] and the answer should be in between. That's why you should be more like a philosopher who also is a believer.
Okay. Can I shut up?
Student: Yeah.
- Subject: Chanukah shiur discussing the Yevanim (Greeks)
- Side note: Some have a minhag to discuss the Greek language in this context (the speaker does not follow this minhag)
- Key claim: Rabban Gamliel (a great Tanna) stated that Greek is the only language (besides Hebrew) in which the Torah may be written
- Scriptural basis: There is a pasuk supporting this (not specified in detail)
- Background: The story of Talmai HaMelech (Ptolemy) who ordered the Torah translated into Greek
- Connection: This relates to the broader question of permissible languages for Torah
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- Claim: The Torah can be written in any language
- Implication: A Sefer Torah in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, etc. would have the same kedushah
- Even in another language, all halachot of Sefer Torah apply (written on klaf, proper brachot, etc.)
- Distinction: Unlike Sefer Torah, Tefillin and Mezuzah must be in Lashon HaKodesh
- Reason offered (tentatively): They function like a kemiya (amulet)
- Speaker's caveat: "I don't know why. I'm just making it up."
- Only Greek (not every language) is permitted for Torah
- Dispute whether Megillah can be written in Greek
- This is where the Talmai HaMelech story appears in Masechet Megillah
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- Rabbi Yochanan rules like the permissive opinion (any language)
- Pasuk: "Yaft Elokim l'Yefet v'yishkon b'ahalei Shem"
- Drash: "Yafyuto shel Yefet" - the beauty of Yefet (Greek/aesthetic culture) may dwell in the tents of Shem
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- "Kol haTorah kulah b'chol lashon ne'emrah" - The entire Torah was given in all languages
- When Hashem gave the Torah to Moshe, it was not in one specific language
- Common view (attributed to "the heilige Ramban"): Lashon HaKodesh is holy because Hashem gave the Torah in it
- Counter-claim: According to this Gemara and Mishnah, this is not true
- Hashem gave the Torah in all languages simultaneously
- We kept the Hebrew version because we speak Hebrew
- A Greek speaker would have the Greek Torah, Aramaic speaker the Aramaic Torah, etc.
- "Torah" does not mean: The specific words in specific letters of a specific language
- "Torah" means: The meaning/content
- Implication: If you can write the meaning accurately in any language, it's kosher
- The Mishnah lists other ritual sayings that can be said in any language
- Examples: Shema, Tefillah can be said in any language
- Some things cannot (speaker admits no clear theory for the distinctions)
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- If Torah can be in any language, which English translation is halachically correct?
- Multiple English versions exist, each different
- Translation can never be 100% accurate
- Even the original has the same problem if you don't understand it
- A messed-up translation means your understanding of the original is also messed up
- Translation adds another layer of potential error
- At minimum, with the original, you have the actual letters Moshe wrote
- If the "Torah b'chol lashon" theory were literally true (70 versions given simultaneously), there would be no translation problem
- But since we don't have those original versions, we face the translation problem
- The Gemara validates writing Torah in Targum (Aramaic)
- We have this Aramaic Torah (Targum)
- It's "more or less accurate" but parts are debatable or not exact
- Many people heard Torah in this translation for years without understanding Hebrew
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- If you don't understand the text, do you "have" the Torah?
- With Hebrew: even without understanding, at least you have the original text
- With translation: you should understand it, but is it really the Torah?
- Lashon HaKodesh (Hebrew): Even without understanding, you "still have it" - the text itself has value
- Other languages (e.g., English): Understanding is required for proper fulfillment; without it, you lack proper fulfillment
- Writing/having Torah might be like a mitzvah ma'asit (action-based mitzvah)
- Like putting on Tefillin - the act itself is the mitzvah regardless of meaning
- "I wrote it and it's kosher" - a mitzvah doesn't require understanding
- Torah learning is different - if you don't understand the words, how can you fulfill the Torah?
- Concession: Some things (like "this and that" references) we don't understand anyway
- The tension between "having" Torah (possession of text) vs. "having" Torah (understanding meaning) remains partially unresolved
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The Tanna who permitted translation must have assumed either:
1. An accurate (or accurate enough) translation is possible, OR
2. Perfect accuracy isn't important - "more or less" conveying the point suffices
Speaker's assessment: Probably the second option, since the first is "unrealistic or naive"
- The Mishnah's author may have had complete confidence in their understanding of Torah
- They believed they could write an accurate translation in any language
- Rav Yosef said without Targum Onkelos, he wouldn't understand certain pesukim
- This implies he couldn't have written the Targum himself
- Contrast: The Mishnah's author claimed ability to translate into any language because they understood Torah fully
- Student suggestion: If you used the historically correct Targum Onkelos, it would be valid
- Speaker's agreement: Yes, but the key point remains - this Tanna held there's nothing special about the Torah's language itself
- All laws of Torah would apply identically in any language
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- Even if God Himself provided an "authorized" perfect translation with correct meaning
- It still wouldn't be the "exact same thing"
- Reason: A text inherently changes in translation
- Connotations
- Cultural associations
- Names and terminology (e.g., "ganav" vs. "thief," "tzaddik" vs. "righteous person")
- The "material" and "structure" of language beyond mere meaning
- Conclusion: This Tanna held that none of these losses matter
- Core principle: "The Torah is thoughts, not words"
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- "The Torah writes the ideas and not the words"
- This explains why the same story appears twice with different wording
- When Eliezer experiences the story vs. when he retells it - different words, same meaning
- Ibn Ezra says: Don't worry about the verbal differences; they mean the same thing
- One could theoretically "translate" Torah into simplified modern Hebrew
- Replace complex biblical terms with simpler ones
- It would still be valid because "the Torah is ideas"
- Analogy: Like editing within the same story
- This is "a pretty defensible opinion"
- The Tanna didn't worry about accuracy because "the thought is what's holy, what's important"
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- Don't the ideas people derive from translations affect reality?
- Yes, but these authorities had enough confidence in what the "real idea" was that they weren't worried
- Translations were made for communities who would only ever hear Torah through translation
- The Chachamim didn't say "read Hebrew or become a goy"
- They accepted translations as valid - "good enough," "accurate enough" for their purposes
- Condition: The translation had to be "authorized"
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- People are confused about this issue
- The view that sacred text must remain in original language is NOT the Jewish position (according to this Tanna)
- The Bible is the same in every language
- Translation preserves holiness
- The Quran is only holy in Arabic
- Has no meaning in other languages
- Translations are called "interpretations," never "translations"
- One should read Arabic even without understanding it
- Understanding isn't the point
- "There's nothing to understand there"
- Characterized as "a long list of 'you should be good, otherwise you'll burn in hell'"
- Repeated throughout ~150 chapters
- Speaker's theory: Since content is simple and repetitive, the only claimed value is in the "supposed poetry of the Arabic"
- Acknowledges this is a "conspiracy theory" explanation
- Muslims claim the Quran's eloquence proves its divine origin
- The Kuzari king responds: "I can't judge that because I don't understand Arabic"
- The deeper argument: A true divine religion should provide evidence accessible to everyone
- Speaker's note: This is ironic/funny coming from the Kuzari (since the author, Yehuda HaLevi, did read Arabic)
Position A (The Muslim view, as example):
- The text itself is holy, not just the meaning
- Text is "at least as holy as the meaning"
- Therefore: Original words required, not just original meaning
Position B (This Tanna's view):
- The meaning/thought is what's holy
- The specific words/language are not essential
- Translation is fully valid for all purposes
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- Rabban Shimon Gamliel held that Sefer Torah can only be written in Greek (among non-Hebrew languages)
- This is about a specific authorized translation, probably the Septuagint we have today
- The Greek translation we have is probably the same one (or a version of it) that ancient Jews used
- Some quoted passages don't appear in our version, which is "problematic"
- But there's little reason to think it's a totally different translation
- The Gemara presents Rabban Shimon Gamliel as a "Greek chauvinist" (as well as Jewish chauvinist)
- He believed most languages are not good enough for Torah
- Greek is exceptional because it is highly expressive
- There's a Midrash (location forgotten) stating each language is suited for different purposes
- Latin is for something specific (possibly wars or love - speaker uncertain)
- Speaker cannot locate the source quickly
- Key text: "Badku" - "They checked" which language could properly translate Torah
- Conclusion: Only Greek (Yevanit) can translate Torah adequately
- This contradicts typical Chanukah narratives portraying Greek as entirely negative
- There's discussion about whether Aramaic could work (derived from Greek?)
- This connects to debates about Targum Onkelos and Aquila
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- Greek's conceptual structure and grammar align well with Torah
- "The Greek of Homer" - Greek with all its built-in philosophical/cultural systems works for Torah
- This likely has linguistic explanations (speaker defers to linguistics experts)
- Speaker's response: No, length doesn't matter
- Having to use three words instead of one is irrelevant
- The issue is whether you can express the concept at all
- Speaker's response: That's not Rabban Gamliel's concern
- Rabban Gamliel knew what the Torah means and sought the best way to express it in translation
- He wasn't questioning Hebrew's adequacy
- Speaker's response: Rabban Gamliel didn't hold the "literary theorist" view that texts have indeterminate meaning
- He believed Torah has definite meaning
- If one Hebrew word means two different things in two places, you simply use two different words in translation - "even clearer than the original"
- The Chachamim thought they knew what Torah means, so translation was straightforward
- Not about length or using multiple paragraphs
- The actual problem: Some languages lack words entirely, or lack the correct formulas to express certain concepts
- Yiddish lacks sufficient vocabulary for complex expression
- Personal anecdote: In the speaker's shiur, attempting to say complicated things in Yiddish results in speaking English
- English also borrows Yiddish words
- This illustrates what makes a language inadequate for Torah translation
- "Carrying the meaning" is what matters - not tricks, puns, or wordplay
- "Nobody needs the pun" - if you think you need the pun, that's a misunderstanding
- The Chachamim evaluated languages based on their capacity to carry Torah's meaning
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- Political dimension: It's "not woke" to claim some languages are better than others
- Speaker's position: Anti-woke linguists he's read say it's "nonsense" to deny language quality differences
- Languages can be:
- More complex
- More expressive
- Better suited for certain areas/purposes
- Rhetorical question: "What's so difficult to understand?"
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- Key point: The superiority of Greek is NOT about preserving puns
- Puns are universally untranslatable - this is accepted
- Onkelos (which the Chachamim approved) simply ignores every word-play in Torah
- Converts poetry to prose through literal translation
- Implication: Onkelos didn't consider poetic beauty important
- What mattered was meaning - that was the "kedushas haTorah" for him
- The Greek translation probably does something similar (speaker notes he should check this)
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- Example: If "emunah" in Torah becomes "pistis" in Greek, then pistis is a good translation of the concept
- This contradicts those who say "Greek doesn't have a concept of emunah"
- Rabban Shimon Gamliel held Greek has equivalents for every Torah concept
- For those who don't understand Hebrew well, looking at the Greek can help understand concepts better
- This is advice derived from Rabban Shimon Gamliel for connecting to the "real meaning"
- Words are concepts - Greek captures those concepts
- Speaker enjoys English, calls it "a very good language"
- But doesn't claim English has the same status as Greek for Torah translation
- Uses "emunah" as example of a word Christians discuss frequently that's hard to translate
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- Found in "Yefei Sas Sofer" (unclear reference)
- Rebbe Yehuda says Greek was only permitted "mishum ma'aseh shehayah" (because of what happened)
- The Septuagint story (Talmai HaMelech forcing the translation) was a coerced situation
- The Greek Torah exists only b'dieved (after the fact, not ideal)
- It's "grandfathered in" - we can use this existing Torah
- But: Cannot make new translations, even of other Tanach books into Greek
- No general "hetter" (permission) for Greek translation
- Rebbe Yehuda does NOT hold Greek is inherently great
- Completely different reading of the Septuagint story
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- Maseches Sofrim, Perek Aleph
- Speaker clarifies: "Maseches Sofrim is not a real masechta"
- Written in Geonic period - "who knows when, very late"
- Contains "a bunch of minhagim"
- Students suggest "Megillas Taanis" as source
- Speaker corrects: The negative view is from Maseches Sofrim, not Megillas Taanis
- Megillas Taanis is a list of happy days, not fasts
- The fast mentioned is probably a later addition ("myosef") to Megillas Taanis
- References Vered Noam's book on Megillas Taanis for further study
- Key point: "There is no such Gemara in Taanis" - this was invented later
- Different girsa (version): "Ma'aseh b'chamisha z'keinim" (story of five elders)
- States explicitly: "We don't write Torah b'chol lashon" (in any language)
- Even more machmir than Rabban Gamliel - doesn't even permit Greek
- This follows neither Tanna Kamma nor Rabban Gamliel
- The day the Torah was written for Talmai was "kasheh l'Yisrael k'yom she'na'aseh ha'eigel" (as bad as the day the Golden Calf was made)
- Reason: "shelo haytah haTorah yecholah l'hitargem kol tzarkah" (the Torah could not be translated adequately)
- The phrase "kol tzarkah" (adequately) appears in BOTH sources
- Yerushalmi: They checked and found Torah COULD be translated "kol tzarkah" only in Greek
- Maseches Sofrim: Uses same phrase to say it COULD NOT be translated "kol tzarkah"
- Same language, opposite conclusions
- Principle stated: "If there's a machlokes Maseches Sofrim v'Yerushalmi, of course the Yerushalmi is right"
- The Yerushalmi has greater authority than this later text
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1. Practical impossibility: Based on all the changes the Gemara in Megillah lists (political/interpretive changes needed)
2. Theological impossibility: Following the "Muslim shittah" that Torah's holiness is in its words - therefore translation is by definition impossible
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- Examples from Gemara in Megillah:
- "Bereishis bara Elokim" instead of "Elokim bara Bereishis" - same meaning, removes potential misreading
- "Arneves" translated as "tziras reglaiyim" - different words for same animal
- Despite all these changes, the Chachamim still "mesader this shtar" (authorized this document)
- The changes preserve meaning while avoiding misinterpretation
- These aren't really "mistranslations" in a problematic sense
- Rhetorical question: "So you think that's how much the meaning means, that you could literally mistranslate it?"
- Answer: "Obviously. And it's fine."
- Targum Onkelos does this constantly
- This exemplifies the approach to translation being discussed throughout
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- Main thesis: In principle, the Torah can be translated
- This means all concepts of the Torah can be expressed in every language
- Corollary: Thoughts do not belong to any specific language
- We still need *some* language to think (humans aren't abstract intellects)
- Not claiming you can say anything however you want
- There are still correct and incorrect concepts
- There is no specific material alphabet that "created the world"
- "Nobody really thinks that" - those who do are "confused"
- A mekubal explained secrets in the large *daled* of "echad" and large *ayin* of "shema"
- Reb Bunim challenged: Since *krias shema* can be said in any language (*b'chol lashon*), explain this in Polish
- If you can't, you don't understand what you're talking about - it contradicts the halacha
- The speaker acknowledges the mekubal wouldn't necessarily need to know Polish well enough
- Translation between languages is genuinely difficult
- But the basic point stands
- Some claim you must pronounce Hebrew perfectly
- Speaker dismisses this as "nonsense" and "way over OCD"
- Proof: Shevet Ephraim couldn't pronounce *shin* - they weren't disqualified
- The Mishnah says *kara v'lo dikdek b'osiyoseha yatza* - imprecise pronunciation is valid *bedieved*
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- "It's possible that Hebrew is not a very good language" - this must remain a possibility
- We would have extreme difficulty expressing ourselves in Biblical Hebrew
- Key proof: No book since the Bible was written in Biblical Hebrew
- This isn't because people didn't know it - they read Torah weekly
- Rather, "you can't really say what you want to say in it"
- Even the Mishnah used Mishnaic Hebrew (with Greek loan words)
- The Bible itself has loan words from other languages
- Speaker believes most things *can* be expressed in Mishnaic Hebrew today
- Example: Shai Agnon wrote in something like Mishnaic Hebrew successfully
- Later versions of Hebrew work too - these are "stylistic things"
- But Biblical Hebrew specifically cannot be used for clear expression
- Conclusion: We must translate the Torah into a different language to understand it
- The original language itself has problems
- "You could say we're *yotzei*, but we're not trying to just be *yotzei*, we're trying to understand it"
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- This is explicitly a "pro-Yevanish drasha" (pro-Greek sermon)
- Contrary to typical anti-Greek Chanukah themes
- Ancient Greek is "a little bit more accessible" than Ancient Hebrew
- Reason: English is somewhat descended from Greek (or shares family connections)
- Hebrew has very little connection to English
- We stopped actively using Hebrew (as a living language)
- We have the Septuagint - authorized by Rabban Shimon Gamliel, made by 70 sages
- Greek concepts used in translation can help identify Torah concepts
- "The Greeks were much better at explaining their concepts to us than the Torah was"
- Greek philosophers don't "make up concepts"
- They explain concepts existing in their language more clearly
- Meanwhile, "the people that we have that are doing the Torah are pretty bad at explaining the basic concepts"
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- The best way to understand Torah is to do what Rambam did
- Read Greek texts (translated into Arabic - "complicated")
- Read Torah "through their eyes"
- This is authorized by Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel, not invented by Rambam
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- The Sages (*Chachameinu Zichronam Livracha*) lived in Hellenic period
- They lived in Rome and Hellenic Palestine
- "These people are thinking in Greek, many of them, at least the ones that are sophisticated"
- This doesn't mean they read Greek philosophy
- The argument about whether they read philosophy "doesn't make a difference"
- They're thinking in Greek conceptual frameworks
- Whenever they want to express something complicated, they say it in Greek
- Even counting: they say alpha, beta, gamma - not alef, beis, gimmel
- In the Holy Temple itself, there were three containers (*krenos*) for *trumas hashkolim*
- They were labeled alpha, beta, gamma
- The Binyan Yehoshua asks: why not alef, beis, gimmel? (They're literally the same/descended letters)
- His answer: alef-beis is too holy for mere counting
- Speaker's interpretation: The truth is simpler - they just counted in Greek
- "It's like we count in English"
- Counting reveals native language because it's automatic
- Even when Sages explain things in Hebrew
- Even when they conjugate Biblical terms into new concepts
- "They're probably thinking in Greek ways"
- "Greek ways doesn't mean Greek ways" - there's no such thing as inherently "Greek ways"
- Greek is simply expressive and allows better Torah explanation
- They are NOT *chas v'shalom* taking Greek concepts
- Because: Concepts are beyond language (as established)
- We need language to think (we're humans, not angels/abstract intellects)
- But the concepts themselves transcend any particular language
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- Claim: Reading Greek language/thought and comparing it to how the chachamim thought is "extremely helpful"
- This illuminates "both sides of the story" - which are really the same, just explaining the same things
- Qualification: Greek sages were "just much better at explaining themselves" - not infinitely better, probably worse in some areas
- Key point: We don't have the Jewish tradition as clearly written down or transmitted as the Greek wisdom tradition
- The Greek philosophical tradition is better preserved/documented than parallel Jewish intellectual traditions
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- Myth reference: Some accounts say early Greeks literally studied from "eastern sages" - meaning the same people Jews studied with/from
- Speaker's assessment: The expanded versions are mythologized, but "not crazy and not wrong in the broadest sense"
- These traditions are "part of the same tradition"
- When you read Greek texts, "you see that they think in the same way"
- Qualification: People everywhere (China, etc.) think similarly because humans think in certain ways - "maybe there's still subtle differences"
- But Greek thought is "closer to us probably"
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- The Tibbons were the most famous translators of Arabic into Hebrew
- Current study reference: The speaker is studying the fourth chapter of Moreh Nevuchim (Guide for the Perplexed)
- Rav Shmuel ibn Tibbon explicitly states his methodology
- Dual goal:
1. Give correct words so readers understand what Rambam means (translating from Arabic, which was translated from Greek, etc.)
2. Put concepts back into the context of the language of the Mishnah/chachamim who lived in Israel
- Sometimes probably successful
- Sometimes may have guessed wrong - "we don't have a very good understanding of how their words worked"
- Sometimes does guess correctly
- Reference to previous discussion: "zehirus and so on" - they sometimes do say things that are correct
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- Mishnah quote: היום קצר והמלאכה מרובה ("The day is short and the work is great")
- Claim: Hippocrates said this - "Life is short and art is long"
- Described as "literally word for word" - "It can't be more word for word than that"
- Greek word: "techne" (τέχνη)
- Hippocrates was thinking of medical art (he was a doctor)
- Translation point: "melacha" means "art" in the sense of techne
- Art = craft/skill (as in "artisan," "fach," "meleches machsheves")
- NOT "fine arts" in the modern English sense
- "It doesn't matter, it's the same" - the translation works
- What your specific "art" is depends on your job/focus
- Claim: There are "thousands of such examples"
- Speaker has personally noted examples while translating Plato
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- Someone asks about "stealing" (presumably whether one tradition took from another)
- "How do you steal it? Steal what?"
- "You can't steal it" - ideas aren't property that can be stolen
- Dismisses the framing: "There's no reason to think otherwise"
- Deferred: Details and differentiation reserved for future shiurim
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Premise 1: Torah can be translated (established through Mishnah, Gemara, and Rabban Shimon Gamliel)
→ Conclusion 1: Concepts transcend language; Torah is ideas, not words
Premise 2: Biblical Hebrew is actually quite limited for expression
→ Evidence: No post-Biblical book uses it; Mishnah doesn't use it
→ Conclusion 2: We need translation even to understand Torah properly
Premise 3: Greek is authorized (Rabban Shimon Gamliel) and more accessible
Premise 4: Greeks explained their concepts better than Torah commentators explained Torah concepts
→ Conclusion 3: Using Greek conceptual frameworks (like Rambam did) is the best method
Premise 5: The Sages themselves thought in Greek
→ Evidence: They counted in Greek, expressed complex ideas in Greek
→ Conclusion 4: This approach has precedent in the tradition itself
Final synthesis: This is a "pro-Greek" Chanukah message - Greek language/concepts are tools for Torah understanding, not threats to it. The shared intellectual tradition between Greek and Jewish thought makes comparative study not only permissible but optimal for understanding Torah.
Instructor:
This is the shiur on Chanukah where we talk about the Yevanim [Greeks], and some people have a minhag—not me, but some people have a minhag—to talk about the Greek language. Because Rav Gamliel [Rabban Gamliel], who was a great Tanna [early rabbinic sage from the Mishnaic period], said that the only language in which you could say the Torah is in Greek.
Remember? That's what he said? They said there is a pasuk [biblical verse] about this, yeah. Who said it? Right? That's the shiur of Tameh [unclear reference]. And that's the famous story of the Talmai Melech [King Ptolemy], who was supposedly the one who ordered the Torah to be written into Greek, known as the Targum Hashivim [Septuagint - the Greek translation of the Torah].
Instructor:
What is the Targum Hashivim? How is it related to the question of the languages? The Tanna Kamma [first anonymous opinion in the Mishnah] said that all Torahs are written in the Talmud—or at least that's how the Gemara [Talmud] formalizes it. Right, that you could write the Torah in every language.
Why? Remember why? How could you write the Torah in every language? There's something very important here. I have to talk about this. I didn't mean to talk about this Mishnah, but you should know the Mishnah.
Student:
The Mishnah is a language that we all know, right? What is the Mishnah in? The Mishnah that I'm quoting now. Where is it? What is it? Is it a very different language? From the Mishnah? Hello.
Instructor:
It's the Mishnah in Megillah [tractate of the Talmud dealing with the reading of the Megillah/Book of Esther]. Okay, the Mishnah in Megillah. The first part of that... There's a more insight about it. But the Mishnah is the Mishnah in Megillah.
It says, it says—and there's something called Tefillin [phylacteries] and there's something called Mezuzah [parchment scroll affixed to doorposts], which are specific parts of the Torah that we write on our hands and our doors. The Mishnah says they're both the same thing, they both have the same condition, the halachot [Jewish laws] are the same. But there's one difference—there's the Tanna Kamma says it there—there's one difference: for them [Tefillin and Mezuzah] we have to write in Lashon HaKodesh [the Holy Language/Hebrew]. We could write [Sefer Torah] in any language.
In other words, when you go to shul [synagogue], I take up the Sefer Torah [Torah scroll], and they make a whole community entire ritual, and they take out the whole Sefer Torah from the Aron HaKodesh [Holy Ark], and they kiss it. This Torah, you could write in English or in French, or in Spanish, or in Chinese. It doesn't matter. It's the same kodesh [holiness].
And then you say, "Vayehi binsoa ha'aron" [biblical verse recited when the Torah is taken out], and "Bereishit bara Elokim" [In the beginning God created], "Vayered Mitzrayim Yaakov" [And Jacob went down to Egypt], "Vanochem Anochi" [And I will comfort]. Or you say it in Greek, which I don't know how to say even. And the Torah, when you write it in Greek, you also have to write it with the halachot. You have to write it on a klaf [parchment] with all the hilchot Sefer Torah [laws of writing a Torah scroll], and you read it, and you say a bracha [blessing], and so on. Right?
But Tefillin and Mezuzah, you can't, because Tefillin and Mezuzah is like a kemiya [amulet], basically, for a man to wear. I don't know why. I'm just making it up.
So it has to be written in Lashon HaKodesh, in the Jewish language, in Lashon HaKodesh, really. And he said, no, not every language you could write it, only Greek.
Instructor:
There's a dispute. I'm not going to go into who is that, who holds like that. I'm just telling you what the Gemara says on this. You could look in there and the Gemara will say, see what the Talmud Bavli [Babylonian Talmud] says about this, and so on.
The Megillat Esther [Book of Esther], it seems like—some people say you could write the Megillah in Yevanit [Greek]. Some people say no. And that's where we get the story of Talmai Melech in Masechet Megillah [tractate Megillah]. Okay?
But what's the important thing? What's the important thing? And of course, Rabbi Yochanan said that there's a... Ah, Rabbi Yochanan said the halacha is like the Tanna Kamma. That's where we get our halacha. And Rabbi Yochanan also brought a proof for the Tanna Kamma from a pasuk: "Yaft Elokim l'Yefet v'yishkon b'ahalei Shem" [May God enlarge Yefet, and may he dwell in the tents of Shem - Genesis 9:27].
And the drash [homiletical interpretation]: "Yafyuto shel Yefet" [the beauty of Yefet] means the most beautiful part of Yefet, right? In other words, I don't know what anyone will tell you. Say, the Tanna Kamma says, in conclusion, that the Torah doesn't have a language.
Instructor:
You could write the Torah in any language and it's kosher. Why? This is how the Gemara—I mean, the Gemara, I like this phrasing, although the Gemara in the end says that we can't have a ra'ayah [proof] from animals like this—but the Gemara in Masechet Megillah, in a different place, in Masechet Berachot, in a different place, regarding Tefillah [prayer], it's a machlokes [dispute] whether you could say it in any language. And it says the lashon [language/formulation]: "L'man savar Rabbi, or savar Rabbanan, she'kol haTorah kulah b'chol lashon ne'emrah" [According to the opinion of Rabbi/the Rabbis, that the entire Torah was given in all languages]. Right?
When the Ribbono Shel Olam [Master of the Universe/God] gave the Torah to Moshe Rabbeinu [Moses our teacher], He didn't give it in one language. If someone tells us that Lashon HaKodesh is holy because Hashem [God] gave the Torah to Moshe Rabbeinu in Lashon HaKodesh—who says this? The heilige Ramban [the holy Ramban/Nachmanides]? This is not true, according to this Gemara and according to this Mishnah.
Hashem gave the Torah in all the languages. Why do we have only the Hebrew one? Because we speak Hebrew, so that's the one we kept. But if you'd be a guy that speaks Greek, you would have the Greek Torah. And if you'd be speaking Aramaic, you'd have the Aramaic Torah. And if you'd be speaking Spanish, you'd have the Spanish Torah. Or Latin, you'd have the Latin Torah, and so on. Like in those, right? It's maskana [conclusion].
If you're not asking me, tell me. I need you to tell me. I don't know which Rav says this. A lot of Torahs fall away from this. So that's the broadest shiur.
Instructor:
The broadest shiur is that the Torah—in other words, when we say "Torah," we don't mean the words. The words in this language, in these letters. Because we could say the same words in a different language. We mean the meaning. And if you could write the meaning in any language, it's kosher.
And of course there's a whole longer list in the Mishnah of which sayings, which ritual sayings can be said in any language. Many of them could be, according to the Tanna Kamma, and so on. Which means that you could say Shema [the central prayer declaring God's unity] in every language and you could say Tefillah in every language and so on.
Some things you can't, and go figure out why which is which. I don't have a clear theory, but that's the story, right?
Instructor:
What do we learn from this? That the Torah is, according to the Tanna Kamma, in every language. What's with the problem of accuracy of translation? Very old, famous problem. What about that problem? What about the problem of translation? What about that problem? What does it mean "the Torah b'chol lashon" [Torah in every language]?
If I take a Torah and I write the English version—I have on my shelf two or three or five, I don't know how many English versions of the Torah, each one with a different translation—so which one is the halachically correct one? Basic question.
Student:
Yeah, but the original one has that same problem also, if you don't know what it means.
Instructor:
No, I'm not... Meaning, if your translation is messed up, then your original is also messed up. But at least we have the...
Student:
Translation is another layer.
Instructor:
So, wait. I like what you're saying. So, there's a basic problem. What does it mean, "Torah b'chol lashon"? Okay, but who says this is the Torah? Maybe this is your shot [attempt] of the Torah, your translation of the Torah, which is not going to be perfect. It's not possible to translate 100% accurately. Impossible, as it says in Masechet Megillah. We'll see if you want, if we'll get to that.
And therefore there's a problem here, right? How could we translate? How could you say that the Torah—maybe it's not the Torah?
Student:
So I said, as I am different—for those of you who don't know what it means also, you don't—maybe you don't have the Torah.
Instructor:
What would be the answer to that question? Of course, maybe I don't know what it means, but the actual letters that Moshe Rabbeinu wrote, or whatever, makes the Torah kosher, are there. So at least let's not call this—you don't have to—this is actually how the halacha works.
This thing I'm making, the chiddush [novel insight], that I'm making in the halacha, all right? How do you want to see the difference? I believe in this little—even below you—to back all the big water everyone is, you know, it's a wish not courage them again, all right?
Even if you don't understand—if we would have, if my theory that I just gave you, if I've called it "kol haTorah kulah b'chol lashon," is that literally—this is of course not history, but if theoretically, if my theory, my story would be true literally, and you would literally have 70 versions of the Torah, or as many languages that there are, and you would literally have that one, then you wouldn't have this problem, of course.
But since we don't have it, and therefore it's written in one language, and just to be clear, when the Mishnah says "b'chol lashon" [in every language], it doesn't mean that—right, I mean, some guy went and wrote a version of the Torah in Targum, in English, in Aramaic, right? Like the kosher Targum [proper Aramaic translation].
The Gemara says it's kosher. The Gemara says this example of kosher Targum, right? I write the Torah in Aramaic. We have that Torah. We have it. It's more or less an accurate translation, but of course there's many parts that are not, or that are debatable, right? And of course many people listened to the Torah in that translation for many years that didn't understand a word of the Hebrew.
But in any case, you could say there were only a few when they were—but they did read the Hebrew also, there we go to—then they understood. But if we say—and what's my problem? I'm saying that if you don't understand the text, and some would say, at least there's a Torah—you don't understand it, at least you have it. When it's in English, it's a mockery of that. You should understand, because otherwise you don't have the Torah. If it's—even if you don't understand it, you still have it.
Student:
It was—I have—do I have it? It's written there.
Instructor:
No, the question means—I feel like we're talking about two things.
Student:
I wrote it anyway, like I wrote it, like it's like I put on Tefillin, right? And you're—it's like—nothing to do with meaning, it's just I wrote it and it's kosher. It's like I made a mitzvah. It doesn't have to have a meaning, it's just a mitzvah, like a mitzvah ma'aseh [action-based commandment].
Instructor:
No, I swear I'm not going to do that.
Instructor: And of course many people listened to the Torah in that translation for many years, but didn't understand the word of the Hebrew. But in any case, you could say they were only yotzei [fulfilled their obligation] when they—but they did read the Hebrew also, they were yotzei then, and then just understood.
But if we say, what's my problem? I'm saying that if you don't understand the text, and some would say, at least Lashon HaKodesh [the Holy Language, Hebrew], you don't have to understand it, at least you have it. When it's in English, it's a ma'akif [required] that you should understand, because otherwise you don't have the ta'ira b'khala [proper fulfillment]. If it's in Lashon HaKodesh, then even if you don't understand it, you still have it. Do I have it? It's written there.
Student: Begash me [excuse me]. I feel like we're talking about two separate things. I wrote it as a ta'ira [tefillin]. I wrote it as a ta'ira. It's like I put on a ma'akif [sukkah]. It's like nothing to do with meaning. It's just I wrote it as a ta'ira and it's kushim [valid]. It's like I made a ma'akif on my gag [roof]. It doesn't have to have a meaning. It's just a mitzvah like a mitzvah ma'aseh [action-based commandment].
Instructor: No, we can write it in khallush [?]. Which are you talking about? The idea is to learn the Torah. So that if I don't have a—if I don't have an understanding of these words, then I'm supposed to do the Torah. You're a mazalit [?]. You're a mazalit. I live on so it's like I see it.
By the way, what other nafka minna [practical difference] is there? I mean it's not actually—I see that it's not—and what does [unclear] even mean? Sometimes I say, it's [unclear] and it's [unclear] with it, things like that. What else does it mean?
Student: You're right, we don't understand that anyways, that doesn't help.
Instructor: But I'm saying so, but now back to my question. If your translation of your written is inaccurate, does that mean that becomes [invalid] Torah? Very important question. Very important question.
It seems like, I don't know the answer, right? It seems like whoever said this Mishnah that said [the law about translation], and said that all of these things, assumed either one of the two things: either that there can be an accurate translation, or accurate enough for any purpose, or that it's not important. As long as you more or less say that point—right, one of these two things. And probably the second thing is the [correct one]. The first one is just very unrealistic or very naive, right?
Or another way of saying this would be that this earlier Mishnah was written by someone who had enough confidence they understand the Torah—I don't know why I'm saying it earlier, the comment on the [Mishnah]—they had enough confidence that they understand the Torah. Therefore if they would write a translation of it, it would be a hundred percent what it means.
Talking English, we know that some [scholar] said, or Rav Yosef said about Targum Onkelos [Aramaic translation by Onkelos], that if not of the Targum, he wouldn't understand the pasuk [verse]. Meaning that he couldn't have written the Targum, right? Because he doesn't know what the pasuk can mean.
But whoever wrote this Mishnah said, I could write a Targum in any language, because I understand the Torah. Just explain me the language and I'll explain you how to say the Torah in that language.
Student: If you took the Targum Onkelos, the correct one, the historically correct one from Onkelos, and you wrote it, then it would be considered...
Instructor: Exactly.
But the point is, the point is, however you understand it, the point is that according to this Tanna, there's nothing special about the language of the Torah, nothing. All hilchot Torah [laws of Torah] would be the exact same in any language, even if there's a problem with translation.
The answer is that he doesn't even think—I'll just be very clear, even if there's an accurate translation, even if it has the correct meaning, meaning, let's say that, like you said, let's say the Tanna Onkelos is from Hashem [God] Himself, Adrabba [on the contrary], Kadosh Baruch Hu [the Holy One, Blessed be He] and so on, and gave us a correct authorized translation of the text—just to be clear, even then it wouldn't be the same exact, right? Everyone knows this, right? Everyone knows that a text still changes in translation.
It would have the same meaning, it might have the same meaning, but even that is not entirely accurate. Right? There would be a lot of connotations and a lot of, let's say, cultural things that would change, right?
We call things the names of the Torah because we read the Torah, and therefore, you know, if you're a ganav [thief], you call it a Lavan Rami [Laban the Deceiver], and if you're a tzaddik [righteous person], an Eisav [Esau], and so on. And if they would be called Lavan Ramis, it's a name, not really translatable, but if the guy would be called something else, we would call it different something else.
There's a lot of things, I'm not going to go at this at length, but it's known to everyone, but there's many things in a language, in the material of the language, in the structure of the language, besides for the meaning, and you do lose them when you translate, even in the theoretical impossible 100% accurate translation, right?
So what we learn from this Mishnah is that the Rav Tanna Kamma [the first Tanna] held that that doesn't matter. The Torah is thoughts, not words.
The extreme version of this would be what Ibn Ezra [Abraham ibn Ezra, medieval biblical commentator] said, right? Remember what Ibn Ezra—Ibn Ezra said, the Torah writes the ideas and not the words. And this is why he said in the Torah, there's sometimes the same story twice.
Famously, [he] says it's [about] the [Eliezer story], but he talks about other examples too. And it has different words, and that makes no difference, because that means the same thing. For example, that's one example, but there's other examples.
He's against people that take the language literally. He says that I could show you in the Chumash [the Five Books of Moses] itself—he has those different examples. I love [the example where] Eliezer tells—says one thing, and when he says the story, and then another thing when he tells the story over, and it means the same thing. It's just a different phrase.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: And so on. And what's going on? Ibn Ezra says no, this means the same thing and don't worry about it. We don't care about the words.
In other words, you could translate it into Hebrew too and it would be the same [valid]. But the words are not important. If someone goes and he says, the Torah is [written in] very complicated language, I'm gonna simplify it, like Tanakh Lam [simplified Bible], whatever. I'm gonna simplify it. I'm gonna write instead of "the miketz [at the end of] Shmoneh Esrei [eighteen]," "the softness," I'm—you know, because nobody knows what miketz means anymore. Still has the same [validity] because who cares? The Torah is ideas.
It's like editing, like this internal [editing] clearly within the same story, right? So that seems to be the shittah [position] of the Tanna. I think it's a pretty defensible opinion. And that's why he didn't even have the problem of accuracy. All these things, the Torah itself doesn't care about that level of material accuracy, because the thought is what's holy, what's important.
Student: [But don't] the ideas that people get from them [affect the reality]?
Instructor: The reality is that it does. But these people, they had enough confidence in what they thought the idea really was, that it wasn't—that they didn't. That's the fact. It has to be like this. Okay?
Anyone, if [they made] a translation and said everyone's going to read the Torah and hear this translation and not going to know the original text, and everyone was fine with this, right? Right? Everyone was fine with this, right?
The Chachamim [Sages] didn't say this is not [acceptable]—either you read Hebrew or you become a goy [non-Jew], because what's [with] these people that not gonna ever hear the Torah, only through some translation? They said no, it's good, right? It's fine with us as long as it's authorized, as long as it's good enough for our purposes, accurate enough for our purposes, right? Okay?
I'm showing [this is a] very important point and people are very confused about this.
People think—I think this is a Muslim thing, I don't know who made it up. It's not a Christian thing. The Christians hold like this, that's [their position on] the Bible. [They hold] the same position [as this Tanna]: every language.
Christian and Muslims—very famously [Muslims] hold that the Quran is only holy, or holy in Arabic, and it doesn't even have any meaning in any other language. They don't even call their translations "translation." They call them "interpretations."
If you buy a Quran, it never says "translation of the Quran." If it's a religious one, no. It's connected to [their theology]. It's connected to this modern [concept]—the work in particular [that] calls it—where it talks about [something]—I'm [thinking] about where it talks about the God's Word, the logos, whatever. It's not going—it has to do with this. In any case, it's—but it's not getting into this. That's time for [another discussion].
The point is they hold that the text, the words, are holy, not the meaning of them. And therefore you have to learn the Arabic. If you don't read in Arabic, you don't understand [it]. Your [obligation is to read it]. This [is their position]. Like I said, if you buy a religious Quran, it's always gonna say "interpretation of the Quran," and it's gonna tell you [you] should read in Arabic, even if you don't understand.
Of course, the Arabic—like it is to say it—because then the [understanding] isn't the point anyways.
By the way, it's nothing to understand there. Don't tell anyone. Anyways, just a long list of, "you should be good, otherwise you'll burn in hell again." And that's what it says, like, over, throughout 150 chapters or whatever it is. That's basically what it says.
So, a very simplified version, but more or less, that's what it says. So, it makes sense that there's only—if you're saying simple stuff and just repeating them, of course, the only value is in, like, supposed poetry of the Arabic and so on, because it doesn't really say anything.
But anyways, maybe that's the conspiracy theory of why they made up this shittah [position].
The Kuzari [Sefer HaKuzari by Rabbi Yehuda HaLevi] famously says that the Muslims say that the Quran is eloquence, is evidence of its godliness. And he says, well, sadly, I can't judge that because I don't listen to [understand] Arabic.
He has the Kuzari king say that because, of course, he [Rabbi Yehuda HaLevi] did read Arabic. This is supposed to be an argument against Islam, because if you really have a religion that's supposed to show evidence of its divine origin, it should be accessible to everyone. That's the argument. Very funny argument for the Kuzari to say.
But anyways, this is one of the hidden problems in the Kuzari. And [the] point [is], this is not the [Jewish position].
There was a [view]—like it [exists in Islam]—so [regarding] vows and the [unclear], I'm done [with that topic]. Actions and [unclear]. I can't stop reading the [unclear] interesting anyways.
Anyways, so the important thing is that there's a different, there's a shittah, and for example the Muslims have it on their holy book, which says that the text is what's heilig [holy] and not the meaning, or at least as heilig as the meaning. And according to that, you have to of course have the original text and the original words, not only the original [meaning].
That is not the shittah of the heilig Tanna Kamma [the holy first Tanna].
Instructor: Even according to Rishonim Gimelim, I'm going to talk about it in a second. It says *Belusha Kodesh* [in the Holy Language] and maybe it also doesn't hold its exact words, it's just for some reason these languages. I'm going to talk about it in a second. This is an important theory of the *Kedushat HaTorah* [holiness of the Torah], of the Holy Mishnah, and you should remember it. Because this is also behind whoever said that Midrash of *Beheret* of the *Shiv'im* [Seventy], of course.
To assume that the Torah should be accessible, everyone should be able to understand it because it's very simple and very good and very clear. And maybe it's true that we'll lose some nuance of cultural references. It doesn't matter because that's not the point of the Torah. The point is whatever basic message it has or messages or thousands of *chachmas* [wisdoms] and so on. And you can have that in every language. And therefore, the Torah is holy in any language. It's very universalistic or philosophical understanding of it, unlike many people who seem to think that the whole point of the Torah is that it's a certain language.
Rav Shimon Gamliel had a different *shita* [approach/opinion]. He said like this: even the *Sforim* [books], *Tzohot* [?], *Tziml Mezeh Zizmoideh* [?], of course you can't write in *Yevonit* [Greek] in different language, but even the Sefer Torah you can only write in *Yevonit*. Now why?
So there's really two theories of this and I think that both theories differ by different people. Of course, talking about the Torah in Greek is talking about a specific translation, which is probably the one that we have, the Greek translation, although some people have argued that it's not the same one. Probably changed somewhat, but there's very probably, yeah. There's probably little reason to think that we have a totally different one. Of course, the things that we would have quotes from it are not really there, so it's problematic. Or not all of them there. But it's probably the same one, or some version of the same one. Why should you think differently? I don't know.
In any case, the important thing is, and the Jews that had the tradition of reading the Torah in *Yevonit*, they had this one. It's not like they had the same story or version of the same story. There's two, so he's talking about a certain Torah that's written, right? He said this is the authorized translation and not all the ones.
So what's the *pshat* [simple meaning]? How do we understand it? What the [Gemara] is apparently saying is that Rav Shimon Gamliel, he thought he was a Greek chauvinist. He was a Jewish chauvinist, of course, because he was Jewish. But he also was a Greek chauvinist. He said, and we know that on Rav Shimon Gamliel's day he studied Greek. Everyone knows. He said, look, I don't think the Torah would be good in any language. It's not true. Most languages are not very good. Latin, he probably knew some Latin. Latin is a language for, what does it say in the Yerushalmi? Latin is good for something else, remember?
Student: Oh, each one is good for something else.
Instructor: Yeah, there's a Midrash, I saw the Midrash once, each one for poetry, for this, for that. What's Latin there for? There's some for like love, I think Latin is for love, like one of these things, it's a Midrash, I saw this one. Anyway, it says this in *Petish* [?] somewhere, I forget where. Rav Shimon Gamliel said that...
Student: What's Latin for?
Instructor: I forget. I forget. I think it's the *visas* [?].
Student: What are you looking for?
Instructor: I know, this is dumb. I don't know. I'm not finding it in a second. I know where to find it, but it's going to take me too much time.
Student: So no, he's just making stuff up, this guy, the kids here.
Instructor: Not always. I think he doesn't know. Now listen, so I know you have to look also in, what should we call it, in the book, but to get to it, it's going to take me too long to search things now.
But it was like this, right? It could have two meanings. What it means is that, like I'm saying, that Greek was the best translation, the best language in general and therefore the Torah works in Greek. He doesn't think it would work in any other language because other languages are less expressive and therefore they can have a worse *pshat* [understanding] of the Torah. So Greek, the Greek language is the best language of the *Yefet* [Japheth], and *Yavan* [Greece] is of course one of the children of *Yefet*, and therefore is what? Therefore the Greek Torah is the best one.
This is very unlike what you'll hear in any Chanukah tradition, that the Greek is the worst thing. No, Rishon HaGadol [a great early authority] said the Torah can be written only in Greek. He doesn't believe it can be written in other languages, but in Greek it can be written because Greeks have a good language. You can express the Torah perfectly in Greek. Alright? Perfect. *Stimmt* [correct]? That's all. I didn't make this up.
The Yerushalmi says like this on this Mishnah in Megillah: *"Badku mati shel'ayna tori choli li targim"* [They checked which language our Torah can be translated into]. Here, right? *"Badku mati shel'ayna tori choli li targim kol tzarka ele Yevonit"* [They checked which language our Torah can be translated into; they found only Greek]. They checked. They checked with the language. They say *Yevonit* is the language that can be translated Torah.
Of course, then it talks about Aramaic, that maybe you could have an Aramaic out of *Yevonit*. This is where there's different *Rishonim* [early authorities], this is where we get *Targum Onkelos* or not, or it's Aquila and so on, stories. Point is that he held that *Yevonit* is a great language, because Greek is very expressive for some reason. Probably there's a lot of people that do, how do you call it, linguistics, that explain to you why he thinks this. I don't think it's entirely made up. It's true that Greek is a pretty expressive language, at least for the Torah, and it's translatable. *Stimmt*?
Therefore, if you don't understand the word in the Torah, you should look in the Greek, because it has *askim* [authorization] from Rabban Gamliel. And from *shiv'im zekayin* [seventy elders], and whoever those were, but we don't know their names. From Rabban Gamliel we know. He gave *askim*, he said this is the best way to translate the Torah.
But he's saying something deeper than that, right? He's saying, because again, you remember, every language has its conceptual structure and its grammar and everything, and he's saying that Greek is a good fit for the Torah, right? They *badku* [checked], they checked the Greek is a good fit for the Torah. It works very well in Greek. Greek with the Greek of Homer, right? The Greek with all the systems that the Greeks believe in which are built into their language, in that language the Torah works very well.
Student: As in the amount of words?
Instructor: I don't know if the amount of words, for one word you don't have to use three like with, let's say, English you would...
Student: No, probably not, because who cares about that?
Instructor: So then what, what exactly? English is also a very expressive language.
Student: English is probably the best language now.
Instructor: No, no, I don't think that would be a problem. They're saying that in some languages, who cares it's going to be longer? So it's going to be longer, that's not a problem. That's because it's the opposite.
Student: So Greek is a better language than Hebrew?
Instructor: You don't know. Again, we read this. *Gam* [also] that they have. Rabban Gamliel didn't think, he doesn't understand, might think this. Rav Shmuel thought he knows what the Torah means. He's just looking for a good way to express it to a translator in a different language, right? You have a problem. You're not going to know the translation. That's your problem. He does know.
Student: That means something inclusive...
Instructor: No, that's not true. That's not what he thinks. He thinks obviously the Torah means—that's a nice theory of some literary theorist who thinks that the text of the Torah is *chol* [ambiguous/open], *haylik* [?]. This is not what Rav Shmuel said in the *Chillik* [?] on *Eriak* [?] line. Why do I have to go there? Listen to me.
Student: Why can't I just talk about the actual...
Instructor: Because he's not saying this. Because Rabban Gamliel said that the Torah is written in every language. Or the *Peshawar* [?] said it can be written in Greek because it's the best language. There's no such a thing as two languages where all the words that have the same range of meaning are translatable one for one. That's impossible. And I don't think that the *Chachamim* [Sages] ever had this problem. They thought the opposite. They thought that they knew what the Torah means and therefore they could translate it.
If the same word means in two different places two different things, so I'll write a different word in both places and it'll be even clearer than the original Torah. Very good, no problem.
Student: You think that sometimes it means both in one place?
Instructor: He obviously didn't think that. He thought that it has a meaning and a definite meaning and it could be retranslated. They checked all the languages, they tried that you say the same thing in three languages, they see that it works better in a certain language. That's the *b'aya* [problem], they give, carries the meaning better. What else could it mean? It carries the meaning better. Not the tricks, not the jokes, the puns. Nobody needs the pun. If you need the pun, then...
Student: No, but I'm saying in every language, if you really understand it, you could use, okay, so you'll end up using three paragraphs, who cares?
Instructor: That's not the problem. The problem is the opposite. You don't have words at all, or you don't have the correct formula to express a certain thing. You can't say in Yiddish, you know that in Yiddish you can't say most things?
Student: No, no, that's a good example.
Instructor: Because it's a bad language, it has not enough words. If you try to say something, anything complicated in Yiddish, you end up speaking English. That's a true story, it happened to me every week in my *shiur* [class].
Student: Okay, so, and in English also say a lot of Yiddish words.
Instructor: Okay, just ask, but you, I can't, you can't. And that's a good [example], and they thought of this, they thought, and this by the way...
Instructor: The problem is the opposite. You don't have words at all or you don't have the correct formula to express a certain thing. You can't say in Yiddish. You know that in Yiddish you can't say most things?
Student: No, no.
Instructor: That's a good example. Because it's a bad language. It has not enough words. If you try to say something, anything complicated in Yiddish, you end up speaking English. That's a true story. Happened to me every week in my shiur [Torah class]. So, in English you also say a lot of Yiddish words. Okay, just ads. But you can't. And that's a good example.
Instructor: And they thought of, by the way, linguistics has a whole debate about this. If you're allowed to say that there are better or worse languages, of course, it's not woke to say. But I read a few, all the anti-woke linguists that I read about this, they all say that it's nonsense. Of course, there's languages that are more complex and more expressive and for certain things. Some languages are better for certain areas and so on. This is a different politic. But the point is that, of course, there's languages that are better and better for certain things than others. What's so difficult to understand?
Instructor: Not because of the puns. It's very clear not because of the puns. Puns are never translatable. For example, you can see example of this in the translations the Targum [Aramaic translation]. I don't know what this Targum machine does, but Targum Onkelos [Aramaic translation of the Torah by Onkelos], for example, which the Chachamim [Sages] very much like, just ignores every word play in the Torah. It just does a literal translation of everything, even poetry. Just tries and puts it back in the prose.
And this is because he thought—he obviously didn't think that is even important to get the beauty of the poetry. That was not important to him. It was more important to him to get the meaning. And that's all. That was the *kedushas haTorah* [holiness of the Torah]. And I think that the Greek does something similar. I'm not sure, you have to check how the Greek treats things like this. Good question, I'll find out later. But I know that we should find out later. But the point is that this is definitely how Onkelos thought of it. And he thought that Greek was the best language and therefore the Torah is very well expressed in Greek.
Instructor: This means that if in the *emunah* [faith/belief] or if it is in the Torah one thing and the Greek it's *pistis* [Greek: faith], then *pistis* is a very good translation for the concept of *emunah*. Unlike anyone would say, "No, he doesn't have a concept of *emunah*." No, he does. Hashem [God] will set every concept in Greek, maybe not in English. English is very good. And so on. I just said a random word that the Christians like to talk about very much. And so on, right? Every word is all kinds of words that are hard to translate. He has a translation for all of them in Greek.
And this means that us, that we don't understand Hebrew, we could look in the Greek and understand things better, sometimes. That's what advice from Rabban Shimon Gamliel [is]—to understand the Torah, or to connect, to get the real meaning, the real word that we're looking for, the concept that we're looking for. Words are all concepts. There's the *shita* [approach/position] of Rabban Shimon Gamliel.
Instructor: There's a different *shita*, different *shita*, that's if you say *Yefei Sas Sofer* [uncertain reference]. There's a different *shita* in Rabban Shimon Gamliel, which is the *shita* of—no? There's a different *shita* of Rabban Shimon Gamliel, which is the *shita* of—no? A different *shita* of Rebbe Yehuda says that they were not *mutter* [permitted] only Torah *b'lashon* [in the language of]—*mishum ma'aseh shehayah* [because of what happened]. That sounds like a different *shita*. He sounds not to say that the *Yevonit* [Greek] is so great like Rabban Shimon Gamliel. And there's some *Gedolim* [great scholars] seems to say here.
Instructor: But that about that it's just that there was a story, like the story that said that Talmai HaMelech [King Ptolemy] forced us to translate the Torah. So it's like with the effort because we had to—we had to—we have to keep it safe with him. So we have a *Yevonit Yisrael Torah* [Greek Torah for Israel] and it's like *b'dieved* [after the fact, not ideal], it's *mutter* [permitted]. Okay, we're *mutter b'dieved* [permitted after the fact], but that's all. That's just a *hetter* [permission] for *b'dieved* for the time that was needed.
And maybe it's therefore, it's like grandfathered in. We could use this Torah always, but we can't do any other translations, even of other texts, right? We can't even translate the Tanach [Hebrew Bible] in the Greek. It's not going to work because there's not that *hetter* [permission]. That's a different chapter, totally different reading of the story of the *Targum Hashivim* [Septuagint/Translation of the Seventy], right? Remember?
Student: Very good.
Instructor: You probably also know that there's a totally different *shita* of the story, right? Which is from the—who said that *shita*? Who said that *shita*?
Student: Hmm.
Instructor: You know I'm talking about, right? Who?
Student: No, you don't know?
Instructor: The *Megillas Taanis* [Scroll of Fasts], right? Who said *Adepshat* [uncertain term]?
Student: Yeah, who said *Adepshat*?
Instructor: There you go, that's from *Megillas Taanis*, right? Is that where it's from?
Student: I think so.
Instructor: So someone, not the [unclear], but [unclear], it's really [unclear], which is, these are much later texts, a long time after the—where is the source? It's very interesting, you have to see something, you have to see this, okay? [Unclear], it says, like this, okay? [Unclear], very different [unclear].
*Maseches Sofrim* [Tractate of Scribes] is not a real *masechta* [tractate], it was written in the times of the *Gaonim* [post-Talmudic rabbinic authorities], who knows when, very late. It's a lot of *minhagim* [customs]. *Maseches Sofrim*, it says, by the way, it says, we don't write the Torah *b'chol lashon* [in any language]. *Asot eksiv ha-shiris* [uncertain phrase], right? *Keshitas*, not *keshitas haTanach* [uncertain phrase], right? Or *keshitas ra-mabdil* [uncertain phrase]. *Mechilik ha-netanohim* [uncertain phrase], right? Why, because it doesn't say Greek either, right?
He doesn't write, not Greek. It's not even in the right. He's more *machmir* [stringent], even though he says we can't write—he literally says he can't write the Torah in any language, right?
Instructor: And there's a story behind the *Chachamim* [Sages] that wrote the Torah to the king of the king, in *Yevonit* [Greek]. And he said to the king of the king, that he said the Torah can be translated into any language. This is very weird, because this is literally the language from the Yerushalmi [Jerusalem Talmud] that said that they checked and they found that we can only be *metagim* [translate] in the Torah *kol tzarkah* [adequately] in Greek, right? And here it says that it was as bad as *yom b'shenasah b'ya'eigel* [the day the Golden Calf was made], that's the *shita* [position] of the *Maseches Sofrim*. And why is that? Because it was not—they could not translate it.
Instructor: In other words, this person who wrote—who was a much later person than the *Tanaim* [Mishnaic sages], and not that I care about that, but just showing you that there's something different—he held that theoretically maybe it would be nice to translate it, but it's impossible. Impossible. Why is it impossible? Possible maybe because of all these things that he shows, all these things that he shows about all the things that he shows about the differences that they have to change, like this whole thing.
Student: No, where to say which Gemara [Talmud]?
Instructor: There's no such Gemara, Tzadik [righteous one/term of address]. There is not a Gemara in the sixth of *Taanis* [Tractate of Fasts]. There's not such a Gemara. The *Taanis* was made up by someone a long time after the Gemara. That's not how it's done. No, that's not the Gemara. That's not the Gemara. That's what I was thinking. That's what I was thinking. Okay?
There was not a *ta'anis* [fast] on that in the Gemara. There was a *ta'anis* on that in some other book called what? *Maseches Sofrim*, that's what you're saying. *Maseches Sofrim* says that it was very bad because the *Maseches Sofrim* is in the *machloket* [dispute] with the Yerushalmi. If there's a *Maseches Sofrim* in the Yerushalmi, of course the Yerushalmi is right. It's *machmir* [stringent] *tzoi* [uncertain term].
Instructor: *Megillas Taanis* says that you should fast. *Megillas Taanis*, it's not really *Megillas Taanis*. It's probably a later part. Even *Megillas Taanis* has a lot of levels, because you have to look in the [unclear]. [It] says that you should fast on [unclear], and that the world was dark for three days, and therefore people used to fast [unclear]. That's what it says in [unclear]. But not really this. I don't think this is the real [unclear]. I'm pretty sure that this is a list of [unclear]. [Unclear] is a list of happy days. So it's not the same thing. We could look up in whoever wrote about [unclear] and you'll see that book. You could see what's going on about that, okay? Let's push it.
Instructor: In any case, whatever you're saying, that's all. Now, what am I saying? This person, whoever wrote [unclear], who explains this, he thinks that either you can't, or he thought like the other, like the Muslim [shita], that the Torah is holy because of its words. By definition impossible to translate because you can't translate a language. It's just a language, it's what it is. Make sense?
It doesn't say anywhere in the Gemara that there's a *ta'anis* [fast] on this, Tzadik. I'm not that kind of person. There's some later in the book. There's a lot of things that it says. *Machazoi* [uncertain term]. There's a lot of places, but it doesn't say in the Gemara. There's no... It was fine. Of course not.
Instructor: In any case, even in *Maseches Sofrim*, it doesn't really say that. Maybe this is just an over-interpretation. He just says that it couldn't have been translated and probably because of all these—probably with these means all these things that they were in *Megillah* [Tractate Megillah]. [It] brings all these—but I said they had to change for basically political reasons, right? For basically so [it] can't be misinterpreted and so on.
And it's weird because the *Gedolim* [great scholars], he realized that in the Gemara, even though they made all these changes, that still has to this stuff there because it's because that's what it means, right? But it says *Bereishis bara Elokim* [In the beginning God created]—there might be a reason why it says *Bereishis bara Elokim*, but *Elokim bara Bereishis* [God created in the beginning] means the same thing, right? It just took away one mistake. [Unclear] means [unclear]. It's still the same thing. It's just different words for the same animal, right?
Instructor: So there's nothing wrong with these mistranslations. It's not really clear what things. So you think that's how much the meaning means, that you could literally mistranslate it? Obviously. And it's fine. The *Targum Onkelos* does this all the time. And this is, again, an example of a translation that we'll be thinking of.
Instructor: They're as literal as can be. But they're still a translation, and they still do all these kind of things. They still fix a lot of things. And sometimes they'll say, okay, maybe I had a different case.
So what do we learn from all of this? We learn from all of this a very important thing. In principle, at least—this is the principle that I'm working with that I last year worked with and I brought you a book on the times a Mishnah that says this—in principle, the Torah can be translated, which means that all the concepts of the Torah can be said in every language, in principle.
It's not true that thoughts belong to a language. Not true. We need to think in a language. Nobody thought without a language. Which means that there isn't one language that one... And there also isn't one correct language that created the world. That's another way of saying it.
There is one, but it's not an alphabet. There are certain correct concepts and wrong concepts. It's not that you can say whatever you want or you can say everything however you want. There isn't a specific alphabet that created the world, of course. Alphabet in the sense of the material alphabet, of course. Nobody really thinks that. Everyone thinks that it's just confused.
Instructor: I told you the Haile Ge'ech [the Gaon] and the Rebbe Reb Bunim. The Rebbe Reb Bunim said that he found a Mekubal [kabbalist], and the Mekubal told him that there's a lot of secrets in the... There's a big [daled in "echad" and ayin in "shema"]. So the Rebbe Reb Bunim told them, that's very cute, but I have a question for you. So could you explain to me in Polish this thought that you just told me? And if not, obviously they don't understand what you're talking about, because it doesn't stand with *b'chol lashon* [in any language—referring to the halacha that Krias Shema can be recited in any language].
Now, of course, it's not necessarily true that that person had to be able to explain in Polish, because you have to know Polish very well and the Polish philosophical concepts and the way in which to translate—it's very hard to translate accurately from one language to another. It's not a simple thing to do, right?
Student: Yeah, that's just for the... That's not real. I know people say that much advanced enough people say that that's this time you don't need that, that it's nonsense. That's just over. That's way over. That's way over, that's way over, over OCD. It's not... He doesn't end up there.
Instructor: Yeah, but the *kasha* [question/difficulty] doesn't begin. It's not real. The *kasha* doesn't begin. You're saying just access and language is not enough.
Student: Yeah, there were people in the Shevet Efraim [tribe of Ephraim] that didn't know how to say the *shin* [the Hebrew letter shin].
Instructor: Well, therefore what? It doesn't mean that they were not... I mean, the Mishnah says that there's a problem, whatever, because they want to say it correctly, but you're *yotzei* [fulfilled the obligation]. If you don't say it correctly, it's a *bedieved* [after the fact, acceptable though not ideal], not at all wrong. *Kara v'lo dikdek b'osiyoseha yatza* [if one read but was not precise in the letters, he fulfilled his obligation]—that's what it means.
Instructor: So this is very important, that you could, in principle, say everything in every language. And there's problems with some languages and with some people. Some languages are just not very good.
Of course, it's possible that Hebrew is not a very good language. I want to say this because it has to be a possibility. It's possible. We know that we would have a very hard time expressing ourselves in Biblical Hebrew, or probably would be impossible. You know how we know this? No book since the Bible was written in Biblical Hebrew. And not because nobody knew it—they read the Torah every week. That's because you can't really say what you want to say in it, right?
Even the Mishnah wasn't written in Biblical Hebrew, right? It was written in Mishnaic Hebrew, which is maybe a version of Biblical Hebrew, or maybe a later stage of it, or whatever you want to say, but it was able to express itself only in that, and it has a bunch of Greek loan words and so on. Of course, the Bible also has loan words from other languages.
Instructor: And later, people can't even write... Actually, I do think... It's very interesting. I actually think, for example, that you could express most things in Mishnaic Hebrew still to this day. Most people don't actually write in the language of the Mishnah, but it's not very hard to express yourself in that language if you know how it works.
Now, people have done that, right? So Agnon does that, more or less. And he's pretty good at getting across whatever he's trying to get across. So it is possible. It's also possible to do it in later versions of Hebrew, but those are just stylistic things.
But nobody can do it in the biblical language. Or at least you could do it, but nobody would understand what you're saying. You would not be very successful at expressing yourself. You could probably do it in the way that the Torah is translated into English or into Greek or into any other language you know.
Instructor: English is a very good language because it has a lot of words. You can't do it in Hebrew in the language of the *Lashon Kodesh* [Holy Language] and the *Kodesh* of the *Chumash* [the holiness of the Five Books of Moses]. And therefore, we have to translate the Torah into a different language in order to understand it. Because like we said, there's a problem with the original language also. You could say, we're *yotzei*, but we're not trying to just be able to understand it.
Instructor: So, therefore, this is a counter-Chanukah drasha, counter-anti-Yevanish drasha [counter to anti-Greek sermon]. This is a pro-Yevanish drasha. This is saying that if we translate it into Yevanish [Greek]... Of course, Ancient Greek is not very accessible to us either. It's a little bit more accessible to us than Ancient Hebrew. You know why, right? You don't know why?
Because we speak a language that's somewhat descended from it—not entirely, but somewhat, or at least has a lot of... A lot of what?
Student: We stopped using the language.
Instructor: Which language?
Student: Hebrew.
Instructor: Well, we don't... We know Hebrew. We know a lot about Hebrew. But English has very little to do with Hebrew. It has more to do with Greek—not a lot to do with Greek either, but a little to do with Greek. It belongs to the same family in very wide senses and so on.
Instructor: So, it's better. And we also have a translation, an authorized translation by Rabban Shimon Gamliel of all the 70 sages of the Torah into Greek, which means that also we could use every concept they translated into Greek to identify the Greek concepts.
And the Greeks were much better at explaining their concepts to us than the Torah was, that's for sure. And, of course, people have this funny idea that the Greek philosophers just make up concepts, but they don't. They're just explaining concepts that exist in their language and making it better and clearer.
But the people that we have that are doing the Torah are pretty bad at explaining the basic concepts of the Torah, and the Greeks are doing a much better job at explaining their concepts. And since Rabban Shimon Gamliel said that this is the best language, and it's the best language to express the Torah in, so the best way to understand the Torah is to do what the Holy Rambam [Maimonides] did and read the Greek text—of course translated into Arabic, complicated—and read the Torah through their eyes, because they're saying... Rabban Shimon Gamliel said that they should do this, not that Rambam... And I'm pretty sure... I'm pretty sure... Why? No, those are just... No, thanks.
Instructor: Therefore, and not only that, I also think another thing. Since the *Chachamim* [Sages] thought this, or at least some of them thought this, it's probable that a lot of what they're doing is translating into Greek.
And you'll notice that the people that we call *Chachamim*—which are really only one part of the ones that lived in Hellenic period and later in other periods and so on—people living in Rome and Hellenic Palestine and these people are thinking in Greek, many of them, at least the ones that are sophisticated. That doesn't mean that they read Greek philosophy. It doesn't make a difference. Like there's a whole argument about that. But it does mean that they're thinking in Greek often.
Instructor: And you know how I know that, right? Because whenever they want to express themselves something that's complicated, they just say it in Greek. Very often. Right?
Even when they count, they count in Greek. They just say alpha, beta, gamma, and they don't say alef, beis, gimmel.
Instructor: Even in the *Beis Hamikdash* [Holy Temple], in the Holy *Beis Hamikdash*, there were three *krenos* [Greek: containers] of *Trumas Hashkolim* [the half-shekel Temple tax], and there was... and they were labeled alpha, beta, gamma.
And there's like a *shaila* [question]... The *Binyan Yehoshua* [a commentary] says, why did they write alpha, beta, gamma? Alpha, beta, gamma is just alef, beis, gimmel. Like, seriously, it's literally the same letters, or descended from the same letters. Why can't they write alef, beis, gimmel? Because alef, beis, gimmel is so holy, they don't want to use it just for counting.
But this is a nice piece of information. The truth is that they just counted in Greek. It's like we count in English. None of you... One of the signs of what your native language is thinking is how you count in it, right? Because counting is like something we do very automatically.
So, the people in the *Beis Hamikdash* just counted in Greek, and many other things that they explained in Greek. And even when they explain things in Hebrew, which they used, they borrowed... They either... How do you call it? They conjugate Biblical terms into new kinds of words, concepts. They're probably thinking in Greek ways.
Instructor: The Greek way is... Nothing in Greek way. There's no such thing as Greek ways. It just means that this language is very expressive and the kind of words that it gives you is expressive, and it allows you to explain the Torah better.
Doesn't mean that it's Greek. It's not *chas v'shalom* [God forbid] that they're taking Greek concepts, right? Because the concepts that we said, the Torah *b'chol lashon* [in every language]—the concepts are beyond language. You can't think them without any language because we're humans, we're not angels or whatever, abstract intellects that think without language. But...
Instructor: We just said Greek ways doesn't mean Greek ways. There's no such thing as Greek ways. It just means that this language is very expressive and the kind of words that it gives you is expressive and it allows you to explain the Torah better. Doesn't mean that it's Greek. It's not *chazashon* [their language/their way] that they're taking Greek concepts. Right? Because the concepts that we said, the Torah of *Chazal* [the Sages], the concepts are beyond language.
You can't think them without any language because we're humans, we're not angels or whatever. Abstract intellect, I think, without language. But what we're thinking is not the language, what we're thinking is the thoughts. But we do need good tools to do that for which languages are good, and for which the Greek language is one of the best.
And therefore, it seems to me that reading Greek language, and specifically the language, and comparing it to how the *chachamim* [sages] thought, to how the *chachamim* of all generations, and how the Torah itself—but the Torah itself was not in that context, so it's not going to help us much—is extremely helpful to understand both sides of the story which are really the same. They're just trying to explain the same things.
And like I said, the Greek sages were just very much better at explaining themselves. They're not infinitely better, just to be clear. There's some things in which they're worse probably. But for us, mainly because we have the tradition—we don't really have a Jewish tradition or we don't have it as clearly written down or transmitted as we have the Greek wisdom tradition, which is, of course, not so different from the parts of it are just the same.
I don't think the first Greeks—there's some myths, of course, how they literally studied from the Eastern Sages, which basically means the same people that we studied with or from or are. It's not—of course, there's big expanded versions of this myth, but it's not crazy and it's not wrong in the most Protestant where there's like one part of the same tradition. They think you could, if you start reading it, you see that they think in the same way.
Of course, people in China and all over think in similar ways, just because human beings think in certain ways. Maybe there's still kind of subtle differences, but these are the ones that are closer to us, probably.
And therefore, it's very important, and you'll read, and I have a whole sheet to talk about this, the people that—now we have a tradition of translators, like the Tibbons were the greatest translators, were the most famous, at least, translators of Arabic into Hebrew.
And a lot of what they're doing when they're good, and I have to show you in the fourth chapter of *Shemoneh Perakim* [Eight Chapters] that we're studying now, Rav Shmuel ibn Tibbon explicitly writes this. I read a little later, further today, and he explicitly says this. It's not—I mean, it's also more or less explicitly in other places. But he explicitly has as this project to not only to give you the correct words, like to show you should understand what the Rambam [Maimonides] is meaning when he's translating from Arabic, Arabic, which is translated from Greek, which is so on.
But he also tries to give you, put it back into the context of the language of the Mishnah, of the *chachamim* who lived in *Al-Anik* [possibly: Eretz Yisrael/the Land of Israel], Israel. And he does, sometimes he's probably successful at it, sometimes he might have guessed wrong, because we don't have a very good understanding of how their words work. But *pinti* [possibly: in any case] sometimes does guess correctly. And like we talked about *zehirus* [carefulness/vigilance] and so on, they sometimes do thing to say things that are correct.
And there's sometimes even literally the same aphorisms or aphorisms from Greek sages and from Jewish sages, and there's no reason to think that these are not literally the same thing. Whether they said it because they stole it from one another or they said it because they thought the same thing doesn't make a big difference.
Remember it says in the Mishnah, *hayom katzar v'hamelacha merubah* [the day is short and the work is great]. You know who said that? Hippocrates. Very famous statement. Literally word for word. Life is long and art is short—life is short and art is long, it can't be more word for word than that, and things like that.
Student: What's the Greek word for art?
Instructor: I forgot, it's the same word, it's not *melocha* [work/craft], *melocha* isn't here. What does it tell us? He's talking about art in the sense of *techne* [τέχνη: craft/skill], by the way, *techne* is the word, and he's thinking of the like medical art because he was a doctor. So I'm not knowing how to be a doctor, that's what he's thinking of. But you see what just happened—it doesn't matter, it's the same.
Student: Narrower than—
Instructor: No, no, no, the translation of the word is art. That's what means. What your art is whatever that depends on what your—what your job is or what you think your—
Student: Doesn't *fach* or artisan—
Instructor: Yes, yes, no, no, I'm not art English. Do you want to say art? I mean the way the Greeks mean it. Not the way the English people mean it. Art not as in fine arts. That's what I meant to say.
Student: What do the Greeks call it?
Instructor: Yes, yes, yes. That's what I meant. That's an example. There are thousands of such examples. I myself noted some examples of this. Because I think we just translated Plato.
Student: What do you mean by stealing? How do you steal it? Steal what?
Instructor: No, it's not stealing. You can't steal it. You're saying it.
Student: Yeah, it's nothing. I'm just saying.
Instructor: There's no reason to think otherwise. And showing that's and we could see details of this and differentiate *shiurim* [classes/lessons].
- Subject: Chanukah shiur discussing the Yevanim (Greeks)
- Side note: Some have a minhag to discuss the Greek language in this context (the speaker does not follow this minhag)
- Key claim: Rabban Gamliel (a great Tanna) stated that Greek is the only language (besides Hebrew) in which the Torah may be written
- Scriptural basis: There is a pasuk supporting this (not specified in detail)
- Background: The story of Talmai HaMelech (Ptolemy) who ordered the Torah translated into Greek
- Connection: This relates to the broader question of permissible languages for Torah
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- Claim: The Torah can be written in any language
- Implication: A Sefer Torah in English, French, Spanish, Chinese, etc. would have the same kedushah
- Even in another language, all halachot of Sefer Torah apply (written on klaf, proper brachot, etc.)
- Distinction: Unlike Sefer Torah, Tefillin and Mezuzah must be in Lashon HaKodesh
- Reason offered (tentatively): They function like a kemiya (amulet)
- Speaker's caveat: "I don't know why. I'm just making it up."
- Only Greek (not every language) is permitted for Torah
- Dispute whether Megillah can be written in Greek
- This is where the Talmai HaMelech story appears in Masechet Megillah
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- Rabbi Yochanan rules like the permissive opinion (any language)
- Pasuk: "Yaft Elokim l'Yefet v'yishkon b'ahalei Shem"
- Drash: "Yafyuto shel Yefet" - the beauty of Yefet (Greek/aesthetic culture) may dwell in the tents of Shem
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- "Kol haTorah kulah b'chol lashon ne'emrah" - The entire Torah was given in all languages
- When Hashem gave the Torah to Moshe, it was not in one specific language
- Common view (attributed to "the heilige Ramban"): Lashon HaKodesh is holy because Hashem gave the Torah in it
- Counter-claim: According to this Gemara and Mishnah, this is not true
- Hashem gave the Torah in all languages simultaneously
- We kept the Hebrew version because we speak Hebrew
- A Greek speaker would have the Greek Torah, Aramaic speaker the Aramaic Torah, etc.
- "Torah" does not mean: The specific words in specific letters of a specific language
- "Torah" means: The meaning/content
- Implication: If you can write the meaning accurately in any language, it's kosher
- The Mishnah lists other ritual sayings that can be said in any language
- Examples: Shema, Tefillah can be said in any language
- Some things cannot (speaker admits no clear theory for the distinctions)
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- If Torah can be in any language, which English translation is halachically correct?
- Multiple English versions exist, each different
- Translation can never be 100% accurate
- Even the original has the same problem if you don't understand it
- A messed-up translation means your understanding of the original is also messed up
- Translation adds another layer of potential error
- At minimum, with the original, you have the actual letters Moshe wrote
- If the "Torah b'chol lashon" theory were literally true (70 versions given simultaneously), there would be no translation problem
- But since we don't have those original versions, we face the translation problem
- The Gemara validates writing Torah in Targum (Aramaic)
- We have this Aramaic Torah (Targum)
- It's "more or less accurate" but parts are debatable or not exact
- Many people heard Torah in this translation for years without understanding Hebrew
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- If you don't understand the text, do you "have" the Torah?
- With Hebrew: even without understanding, at least you have the original text
- With translation: you should understand it, but is it really the Torah?
- Lashon HaKodesh (Hebrew): Even without understanding, you "still have it" - the text itself has value
- Other languages (e.g., English): Understanding is required for proper fulfillment; without it, you lack proper fulfillment
- Writing/having Torah might be like a mitzvah ma'asit (action-based mitzvah)
- Like putting on Tefillin - the act itself is the mitzvah regardless of meaning
- "I wrote it and it's kosher" - a mitzvah doesn't require understanding
- Torah learning is different - if you don't understand the words, how can you fulfill the Torah?
- Concession: Some things (like "this and that" references) we don't understand anyway
- The tension between "having" Torah (possession of text) vs. "having" Torah (understanding meaning) remains partially unresolved
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The Tanna who permitted translation must have assumed either:
1. An accurate (or accurate enough) translation is possible, OR
2. Perfect accuracy isn't important - "more or less" conveying the point suffices
Speaker's assessment: Probably the second option, since the first is "unrealistic or naive"
- The Mishnah's author may have had complete confidence in their understanding of Torah
- They believed they could write an accurate translation in any language
- Rav Yosef said without Targum Onkelos, he wouldn't understand certain pesukim
- This implies he couldn't have written the Targum himself
- Contrast: The Mishnah's author claimed ability to translate into any language because they understood Torah fully
- Student suggestion: If you used the historically correct Targum Onkelos, it would be valid
- Speaker's agreement: Yes, but the key point remains - this Tanna held there's nothing special about the Torah's language itself
- All laws of Torah would apply identically in any language
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- Even if God Himself provided an "authorized" perfect translation with correct meaning
- It still wouldn't be the "exact same thing"
- Reason: A text inherently changes in translation
- Connotations
- Cultural associations
- Names and terminology (e.g., "ganav" vs. "thief," "tzaddik" vs. "righteous person")
- The "material" and "structure" of language beyond mere meaning
- Conclusion: This Tanna held that none of these losses matter
- Core principle: "The Torah is thoughts, not words"
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- "The Torah writes the ideas and not the words"
- This explains why the same story appears twice with different wording
- When Eliezer experiences the story vs. when he retells it - different words, same meaning
- Ibn Ezra says: Don't worry about the verbal differences; they mean the same thing
- One could theoretically "translate" Torah into simplified modern Hebrew
- Replace complex biblical terms with simpler ones
- It would still be valid because "the Torah is ideas"
- Analogy: Like editing within the same story
- This is "a pretty defensible opinion"
- The Tanna didn't worry about accuracy because "the thought is what's holy, what's important"
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- Don't the ideas people derive from translations affect reality?
- Yes, but these authorities had enough confidence in what the "real idea" was that they weren't worried
- Translations were made for communities who would only ever hear Torah through translation
- The Chachamim didn't say "read Hebrew or become a goy"
- They accepted translations as valid - "good enough," "accurate enough" for their purposes
- Condition: The translation had to be "authorized"
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- People are confused about this issue
- The view that sacred text must remain in original language is NOT the Jewish position (according to this Tanna)
- The Bible is the same in every language
- Translation preserves holiness
- The Quran is only holy in Arabic
- Has no meaning in other languages
- Translations are called "interpretations," never "translations"
- One should read Arabic even without understanding it
- Understanding isn't the point
- "There's nothing to understand there"
- Characterized as "a long list of 'you should be good, otherwise you'll burn in hell'"
- Repeated throughout ~150 chapters
- Speaker's theory: Since content is simple and repetitive, the only claimed value is in the "supposed poetry of the Arabic"
- Acknowledges this is a "conspiracy theory" explanation
- Muslims claim the Quran's eloquence proves its divine origin
- The Kuzari king responds: "I can't judge that because I don't understand Arabic"
- The deeper argument: A true divine religion should provide evidence accessible to everyone
- Speaker's note: This is ironic/funny coming from the Kuzari (since the author, Yehuda HaLevi, did read Arabic)
Position A (The Muslim view, as example):
- The text itself is holy, not just the meaning
- Text is "at least as holy as the meaning"
- Therefore: Original words required, not just original meaning
Position B (This Tanna's view):
- The meaning/thought is what's holy
- The specific words/language are not essential
- Translation is fully valid for all purposes
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- Rabban Shimon Gamliel held that Sefer Torah can only be written in Greek (among non-Hebrew languages)
- This is about a specific authorized translation, probably the Septuagint we have today
- The Greek translation we have is probably the same one (or a version of it) that ancient Jews used
- Some quoted passages don't appear in our version, which is "problematic"
- But there's little reason to think it's a totally different translation
- The Gemara presents Rabban Shimon Gamliel as a "Greek chauvinist" (as well as Jewish chauvinist)
- He believed most languages are not good enough for Torah
- Greek is exceptional because it is highly expressive
- There's a Midrash (location forgotten) stating each language is suited for different purposes
- Latin is for something specific (possibly wars or love - speaker uncertain)
- Speaker cannot locate the source quickly
- Key text: "Badku" - "They checked" which language could properly translate Torah
- Conclusion: Only Greek (Yevanit) can translate Torah adequately
- This contradicts typical Chanukah narratives portraying Greek as entirely negative
- There's discussion about whether Aramaic could work (derived from Greek?)
- This connects to debates about Targum Onkelos and Aquila
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- Greek's conceptual structure and grammar align well with Torah
- "The Greek of Homer" - Greek with all its built-in philosophical/cultural systems works for Torah
- This likely has linguistic explanations (speaker defers to linguistics experts)
- Speaker's response: No, length doesn't matter
- Having to use three words instead of one is irrelevant
- The issue is whether you can express the concept at all
- Speaker's response: That's not Rabban Gamliel's concern
- Rabban Gamliel knew what the Torah means and sought the best way to express it in translation
- He wasn't questioning Hebrew's adequacy
- Speaker's response: Rabban Gamliel didn't hold the "literary theorist" view that texts have indeterminate meaning
- He believed Torah has definite meaning
- If one Hebrew word means two different things in two places, you simply use two different words in translation - "even clearer than the original"
- The Chachamim thought they knew what Torah means, so translation was straightforward
- Not about length or using multiple paragraphs
- The actual problem: Some languages lack words entirely, or lack the correct formulas to express certain concepts
- Yiddish lacks sufficient vocabulary for complex expression
- Personal anecdote: In the speaker's shiur, attempting to say complicated things in Yiddish results in speaking English
- English also borrows Yiddish words
- This illustrates what makes a language inadequate for Torah translation
- "Carrying the meaning" is what matters - not tricks, puns, or wordplay
- "Nobody needs the pun" - if you think you need the pun, that's a misunderstanding
- The Chachamim evaluated languages based on their capacity to carry Torah's meaning
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- Political dimension: It's "not woke" to claim some languages are better than others
- Speaker's position: Anti-woke linguists he's read say it's "nonsense" to deny language quality differences
- Languages can be:
- More complex
- More expressive
- Better suited for certain areas/purposes
- Rhetorical question: "What's so difficult to understand?"
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- Key point: The superiority of Greek is NOT about preserving puns
- Puns are universally untranslatable - this is accepted
- Onkelos (which the Chachamim approved) simply ignores every word-play in Torah
- Converts poetry to prose through literal translation
- Implication: Onkelos didn't consider poetic beauty important
- What mattered was meaning - that was the "kedushas haTorah" for him
- The Greek translation probably does something similar (speaker notes he should check this)
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- Example: If "emunah" in Torah becomes "pistis" in Greek, then pistis is a good translation of the concept
- This contradicts those who say "Greek doesn't have a concept of emunah"
- Rabban Shimon Gamliel held Greek has equivalents for every Torah concept
- For those who don't understand Hebrew well, looking at the Greek can help understand concepts better
- This is advice derived from Rabban Shimon Gamliel for connecting to the "real meaning"
- Words are concepts - Greek captures those concepts
- Speaker enjoys English, calls it "a very good language"
- But doesn't claim English has the same status as Greek for Torah translation
- Uses "emunah" as example of a word Christians discuss frequently that's hard to translate
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- Found in "Yefei Sas Sofer" (unclear reference)
- Rebbe Yehuda says Greek was only permitted "mishum ma'aseh shehayah" (because of what happened)
- The Septuagint story (Talmai HaMelech forcing the translation) was a coerced situation
- The Greek Torah exists only b'dieved (after the fact, not ideal)
- It's "grandfathered in" - we can use this existing Torah
- But: Cannot make new translations, even of other Tanach books into Greek
- No general "hetter" (permission) for Greek translation
- Rebbe Yehuda does NOT hold Greek is inherently great
- Completely different reading of the Septuagint story
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- Maseches Sofrim, Perek Aleph
- Speaker clarifies: "Maseches Sofrim is not a real masechta"
- Written in Geonic period - "who knows when, very late"
- Contains "a bunch of minhagim"
- Students suggest "Megillas Taanis" as source
- Speaker corrects: The negative view is from Maseches Sofrim, not Megillas Taanis
- Megillas Taanis is a list of happy days, not fasts
- The fast mentioned is probably a later addition ("myosef") to Megillas Taanis
- References Vered Noam's book on Megillas Taanis for further study
- Key point: "There is no such Gemara in Taanis" - this was invented later
- Different girsa (version): "Ma'aseh b'chamisha z'keinim" (story of five elders)
- States explicitly: "We don't write Torah b'chol lashon" (in any language)
- Even more machmir than Rabban Gamliel - doesn't even permit Greek
- This follows neither Tanna Kamma nor Rabban Gamliel
- The day the Torah was written for Talmai was "kasheh l'Yisrael k'yom she'na'aseh ha'eigel" (as bad as the day the Golden Calf was made)
- Reason: "shelo haytah haTorah yecholah l'hitargem kol tzarkah" (the Torah could not be translated adequately)
- The phrase "kol tzarkah" (adequately) appears in BOTH sources
- Yerushalmi: They checked and found Torah COULD be translated "kol tzarkah" only in Greek
- Maseches Sofrim: Uses same phrase to say it COULD NOT be translated "kol tzarkah"
- Same language, opposite conclusions
- Principle stated: "If there's a machlokes Maseches Sofrim v'Yerushalmi, of course the Yerushalmi is right"
- The Yerushalmi has greater authority than this later text
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1. Practical impossibility: Based on all the changes the Gemara in Megillah lists (political/interpretive changes needed)
2. Theological impossibility: Following the "Muslim shittah" that Torah's holiness is in its words - therefore translation is by definition impossible
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- Examples from Gemara in Megillah:
- "Bereishis bara Elokim" instead of "Elokim bara Bereishis" - same meaning, removes potential misreading
- "Arneves" translated as "tziras reglaiyim" - different words for same animal
- Despite all these changes, the Chachamim still "mesader this shtar" (authorized this document)
- The changes preserve meaning while avoiding misinterpretation
- These aren't really "mistranslations" in a problematic sense
- Rhetorical question: "So you think that's how much the meaning means, that you could literally mistranslate it?"
- Answer: "Obviously. And it's fine."
- Targum Onkelos does this constantly
- This exemplifies the approach to translation being discussed throughout
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- Main thesis: In principle, the Torah can be translated
- This means all concepts of the Torah can be expressed in every language
- Corollary: Thoughts do not belong to any specific language
- We still need *some* language to think (humans aren't abstract intellects)
- Not claiming you can say anything however you want
- There are still correct and incorrect concepts
- There is no specific material alphabet that "created the world"
- "Nobody really thinks that" - those who do are "confused"
- A mekubal explained secrets in the large *daled* of "echad" and large *ayin* of "shema"
- Reb Bunim challenged: Since *krias shema* can be said in any language (*b'chol lashon*), explain this in Polish
- If you can't, you don't understand what you're talking about - it contradicts the halacha
- The speaker acknowledges the mekubal wouldn't necessarily need to know Polish well enough
- Translation between languages is genuinely difficult
- But the basic point stands
- Some claim you must pronounce Hebrew perfectly
- Speaker dismisses this as "nonsense" and "way over OCD"
- Proof: Shevet Ephraim couldn't pronounce *shin* - they weren't disqualified
- The Mishnah says *kara v'lo dikdek b'osiyoseha yatza* - imprecise pronunciation is valid *bedieved*
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- "It's possible that Hebrew is not a very good language" - this must remain a possibility
- We would have extreme difficulty expressing ourselves in Biblical Hebrew
- Key proof: No book since the Bible was written in Biblical Hebrew
- This isn't because people didn't know it - they read Torah weekly
- Rather, "you can't really say what you want to say in it"
- Even the Mishnah used Mishnaic Hebrew (with Greek loan words)
- The Bible itself has loan words from other languages
- Speaker believes most things *can* be expressed in Mishnaic Hebrew today
- Example: Shai Agnon wrote in something like Mishnaic Hebrew successfully
- Later versions of Hebrew work too - these are "stylistic things"
- But Biblical Hebrew specifically cannot be used for clear expression
- Conclusion: We must translate the Torah into a different language to understand it
- The original language itself has problems
- "You could say we're *yotzei*, but we're not trying to just be *yotzei*, we're trying to understand it"
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- This is explicitly a "pro-Yevanish drasha" (pro-Greek sermon)
- Contrary to typical anti-Greek Chanukah themes
- Ancient Greek is "a little bit more accessible" than Ancient Hebrew
- Reason: English is somewhat descended from Greek (or shares family connections)
- Hebrew has very little connection to English
- We stopped actively using Hebrew (as a living language)
- We have the Septuagint - authorized by Rabban Shimon Gamliel, made by 70 sages
- Greek concepts used in translation can help identify Torah concepts
- "The Greeks were much better at explaining their concepts to us than the Torah was"
- Greek philosophers don't "make up concepts"
- They explain concepts existing in their language more clearly
- Meanwhile, "the people that we have that are doing the Torah are pretty bad at explaining the basic concepts"
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- The best way to understand Torah is to do what Rambam did
- Read Greek texts (translated into Arabic - "complicated")
- Read Torah "through their eyes"
- This is authorized by Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel, not invented by Rambam
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- The Sages (*Chachameinu Zichronam Livracha*) lived in Hellenic period
- They lived in Rome and Hellenic Palestine
- "These people are thinking in Greek, many of them, at least the ones that are sophisticated"
- This doesn't mean they read Greek philosophy
- The argument about whether they read philosophy "doesn't make a difference"
- They're thinking in Greek conceptual frameworks
- Whenever they want to express something complicated, they say it in Greek
- Even counting: they say alpha, beta, gamma - not alef, beis, gimmel
- In the Holy Temple itself, there were three containers (*krenos*) for *trumas hashkolim*
- They were labeled alpha, beta, gamma
- The Binyan Yehoshua asks: why not alef, beis, gimmel? (They're literally the same/descended letters)
- His answer: alef-beis is too holy for mere counting
- Speaker's interpretation: The truth is simpler - they just counted in Greek
- "It's like we count in English"
- Counting reveals native language because it's automatic
- Even when Sages explain things in Hebrew
- Even when they conjugate Biblical terms into new concepts
- "They're probably thinking in Greek ways"
- "Greek ways doesn't mean Greek ways" - there's no such thing as inherently "Greek ways"
- Greek is simply expressive and allows better Torah explanation
- They are NOT *chas v'shalom* taking Greek concepts
- Because: Concepts are beyond language (as established)
- We need language to think (we're humans, not angels/abstract intellects)
- But the concepts themselves transcend any particular language
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- Claim: Reading Greek language/thought and comparing it to how the chachamim thought is "extremely helpful"
- This illuminates "both sides of the story" - which are really the same, just explaining the same things
- Qualification: Greek sages were "just much better at explaining themselves" - not infinitely better, probably worse in some areas
- Key point: We don't have the Jewish tradition as clearly written down or transmitted as the Greek wisdom tradition
- The Greek philosophical tradition is better preserved/documented than parallel Jewish intellectual traditions
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- Myth reference: Some accounts say early Greeks literally studied from "eastern sages" - meaning the same people Jews studied with/from
- Speaker's assessment: The expanded versions are mythologized, but "not crazy and not wrong in the broadest sense"
- These traditions are "part of the same tradition"
- When you read Greek texts, "you see that they think in the same way"
- Qualification: People everywhere (China, etc.) think similarly because humans think in certain ways - "maybe there's still subtle differences"
- But Greek thought is "closer to us probably"
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- The Tibbons were the most famous translators of Arabic into Hebrew
- Current study reference: The speaker is studying the fourth chapter of Moreh Nevuchim (Guide for the Perplexed)
- Rav Shmuel ibn Tibbon explicitly states his methodology
- Dual goal:
1. Give correct words so readers understand what Rambam means (translating from Arabic, which was translated from Greek, etc.)
2. Put concepts back into the context of the language of the Mishnah/chachamim who lived in Israel
- Sometimes probably successful
- Sometimes may have guessed wrong - "we don't have a very good understanding of how their words worked"
- Sometimes does guess correctly
- Reference to previous discussion: "zehirus and so on" - they sometimes do say things that are correct
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- Mishnah quote: היום קצר והמלאכה מרובה ("The day is short and the work is great")
- Claim: Hippocrates said this - "Life is short and art is long"
- Described as "literally word for word" - "It can't be more word for word than that"
- Greek word: "techne" (τέχνη)
- Hippocrates was thinking of medical art (he was a doctor)
- Translation point: "melacha" means "art" in the sense of techne
- Art = craft/skill (as in "artisan," "fach," "meleches machsheves")
- NOT "fine arts" in the modern English sense
- "It doesn't matter, it's the same" - the translation works
- What your specific "art" is depends on your job/focus
- Claim: There are "thousands of such examples"
- Speaker has personally noted examples while translating Plato
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- Someone asks about "stealing" (presumably whether one tradition took from another)
- "How do you steal it? Steal what?"
- "You can't steal it" - ideas aren't property that can be stolen
- Dismisses the framing: "There's no reason to think otherwise"
- Deferred: Details and differentiation reserved for future shiurim
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Premise 1: Torah can be translated (established through Mishnah, Gemara, and Rabban Shimon Gamliel)
→ Conclusion 1: Concepts transcend language; Torah is ideas, not words
Premise 2: Biblical Hebrew is actually quite limited for expression
→ Evidence: No post-Biblical book uses it; Mishnah doesn't use it
→ Conclusion 2: We need translation even to understand Torah properly
Premise 3: Greek is authorized (Rabban Shimon Gamliel) and more accessible
Premise 4: Greeks explained their concepts better than Torah commentators explained Torah concepts
→ Conclusion 3: Using Greek conceptual frameworks (like Rambam did) is the best method
Premise 5: The Sages themselves thought in Greek
→ Evidence: They counted in Greek, expressed complex ideas in Greek
→ Conclusion 4: This approach has precedent in the tradition itself
Final synthesis: This is a "pro-Greek" Chanukah message - Greek language/concepts are tools for Torah understanding, not threats to it. The shared intellectual tradition between Greek and Jewish thought makes comparative study not only permissible but optimal for understanding Torah.
Instructor:
This is the shiur on Chanukah where we talk about the Yevanim [Greeks], and some people have a minhag—not me, but some people have a minhag—to talk about the Greek language. Because Rav Gamliel [Rabban Gamliel], who was a great Tanna [early rabbinic sage from the Mishnaic period], said that the only language in which you could say the Torah is in Greek.
Remember? That's what he said? They said there is a pasuk [biblical verse] about this, yeah. Who said it? Right? That's the shiur of Tameh [unclear reference]. And that's the famous story of the Talmai Melech [King Ptolemy], who was supposedly the one who ordered the Torah to be written into Greek, known as the Targum Hashivim [Septuagint - the Greek translation of the Torah].
Instructor:
What is the Targum Hashivim? How is it related to the question of the languages? The Tanna Kamma [first anonymous opinion in the Mishnah] said that all Torahs are written in the Talmud—or at least that's how the Gemara [Talmud] formalizes it. Right, that you could write the Torah in every language.
Why? Remember why? How could you write the Torah in every language? There's something very important here. I have to talk about this. I didn't mean to talk about this Mishnah, but you should know the Mishnah.
Student:
The Mishnah is a language that we all know, right? What is the Mishnah in? The Mishnah that I'm quoting now. Where is it? What is it? Is it a very different language? From the Mishnah? Hello.
Instructor:
It's the Mishnah in Megillah [tractate of the Talmud dealing with the reading of the Megillah/Book of Esther]. Okay, the Mishnah in Megillah. The first part of that... There's a more insight about it. But the Mishnah is the Mishnah in Megillah.
It says, it says—and there's something called Tefillin [phylacteries] and there's something called Mezuzah [parchment scroll affixed to doorposts], which are specific parts of the Torah that we write on our hands and our doors. The Mishnah says they're both the same thing, they both have the same condition, the halachot [Jewish laws] are the same. But there's one difference—there's the Tanna Kamma says it there—there's one difference: for them [Tefillin and Mezuzah] we have to write in Lashon HaKodesh [the Holy Language/Hebrew]. We could write [Sefer Torah] in any language.
In other words, when you go to shul [synagogue], I take up the Sefer Torah [Torah scroll], and they make a whole community entire ritual, and they take out the whole Sefer Torah from the Aron HaKodesh [Holy Ark], and they kiss it. This Torah, you could write in English or in French, or in Spanish, or in Chinese. It doesn't matter. It's the same kodesh [holiness].
And then you say, "Vayehi binsoa ha'aron" [biblical verse recited when the Torah is taken out], and "Bereishit bara Elokim" [In the beginning God created], "Vayered Mitzrayim Yaakov" [And Jacob went down to Egypt], "Vanochem Anochi" [And I will comfort]. Or you say it in Greek, which I don't know how to say even. And the Torah, when you write it in Greek, you also have to write it with the halachot. You have to write it on a klaf [parchment] with all the hilchot Sefer Torah [laws of writing a Torah scroll], and you read it, and you say a bracha [blessing], and so on. Right?
But Tefillin and Mezuzah, you can't, because Tefillin and Mezuzah is like a kemiya [amulet], basically, for a man to wear. I don't know why. I'm just making it up.
So it has to be written in Lashon HaKodesh, in the Jewish language, in Lashon HaKodesh, really. And he said, no, not every language you could write it, only Greek.
Instructor:
There's a dispute. I'm not going to go into who is that, who holds like that. I'm just telling you what the Gemara says on this. You could look in there and the Gemara will say, see what the Talmud Bavli [Babylonian Talmud] says about this, and so on.
The Megillat Esther [Book of Esther], it seems like—some people say you could write the Megillah in Yevanit [Greek]. Some people say no. And that's where we get the story of Talmai Melech in Masechet Megillah [tractate Megillah]. Okay?
But what's the important thing? What's the important thing? And of course, Rabbi Yochanan said that there's a... Ah, Rabbi Yochanan said the halacha is like the Tanna Kamma. That's where we get our halacha. And Rabbi Yochanan also brought a proof for the Tanna Kamma from a pasuk: "Yaft Elokim l'Yefet v'yishkon b'ahalei Shem" [May God enlarge Yefet, and may he dwell in the tents of Shem - Genesis 9:27].
And the drash [homiletical interpretation]: "Yafyuto shel Yefet" [the beauty of Yefet] means the most beautiful part of Yefet, right? In other words, I don't know what anyone will tell you. Say, the Tanna Kamma says, in conclusion, that the Torah doesn't have a language.
Instructor:
You could write the Torah in any language and it's kosher. Why? This is how the Gemara—I mean, the Gemara, I like this phrasing, although the Gemara in the end says that we can't have a ra'ayah [proof] from animals like this—but the Gemara in Masechet Megillah, in a different place, in Masechet Berachot, in a different place, regarding Tefillah [prayer], it's a machlokes [dispute] whether you could say it in any language. And it says the lashon [language/formulation]: "L'man savar Rabbi, or savar Rabbanan, she'kol haTorah kulah b'chol lashon ne'emrah" [According to the opinion of Rabbi/the Rabbis, that the entire Torah was given in all languages]. Right?
When the Ribbono Shel Olam [Master of the Universe/God] gave the Torah to Moshe Rabbeinu [Moses our teacher], He didn't give it in one language. If someone tells us that Lashon HaKodesh is holy because Hashem [God] gave the Torah to Moshe Rabbeinu in Lashon HaKodesh—who says this? The heilige Ramban [the holy Ramban/Nachmanides]? This is not true, according to this Gemara and according to this Mishnah.
Hashem gave the Torah in all the languages. Why do we have only the Hebrew one? Because we speak Hebrew, so that's the one we kept. But if you'd be a guy that speaks Greek, you would have the Greek Torah. And if you'd be speaking Aramaic, you'd have the Aramaic Torah. And if you'd be speaking Spanish, you'd have the Spanish Torah. Or Latin, you'd have the Latin Torah, and so on. Like in those, right? It's maskana [conclusion].
If you're not asking me, tell me. I need you to tell me. I don't know which Rav says this. A lot of Torahs fall away from this. So that's the broadest shiur.
Instructor:
The broadest shiur is that the Torah—in other words, when we say "Torah," we don't mean the words. The words in this language, in these letters. Because we could say the same words in a different language. We mean the meaning. And if you could write the meaning in any language, it's kosher.
And of course there's a whole longer list in the Mishnah of which sayings, which ritual sayings can be said in any language. Many of them could be, according to the Tanna Kamma, and so on. Which means that you could say Shema [the central prayer declaring God's unity] in every language and you could say Tefillah in every language and so on.
Some things you can't, and go figure out why which is which. I don't have a clear theory, but that's the story, right?
Instructor:
What do we learn from this? That the Torah is, according to the Tanna Kamma, in every language. What's with the problem of accuracy of translation? Very old, famous problem. What about that problem? What about the problem of translation? What about that problem? What does it mean "the Torah b'chol lashon" [Torah in every language]?
If I take a Torah and I write the English version—I have on my shelf two or three or five, I don't know how many English versions of the Torah, each one with a different translation—so which one is the halachically correct one? Basic question.
Student:
Yeah, but the original one has that same problem also, if you don't know what it means.
Instructor:
No, I'm not... Meaning, if your translation is messed up, then your original is also messed up. But at least we have the...
Student:
Translation is another layer.
Instructor:
So, wait. I like what you're saying. So, there's a basic problem. What does it mean, "Torah b'chol lashon"? Okay, but who says this is the Torah? Maybe this is your shot [attempt] of the Torah, your translation of the Torah, which is not going to be perfect. It's not possible to translate 100% accurately. Impossible, as it says in Masechet Megillah. We'll see if you want, if we'll get to that.
And therefore there's a problem here, right? How could we translate? How could you say that the Torah—maybe it's not the Torah?
Student:
So I said, as I am different—for those of you who don't know what it means also, you don't—maybe you don't have the Torah.
Instructor:
What would be the answer to that question? Of course, maybe I don't know what it means, but the actual letters that Moshe Rabbeinu wrote, or whatever, makes the Torah kosher, are there. So at least let's not call this—you don't have to—this is actually how the halacha works.
This thing I'm making, the chiddush [novel insight], that I'm making in the halacha, all right? How do you want to see the difference? I believe in this little—even below you—to back all the big water everyone is, you know, it's a wish not courage them again, all right?
Even if you don't understand—if we would have, if my theory that I just gave you, if I've called it "kol haTorah kulah b'chol lashon," is that literally—this is of course not history, but if theoretically, if my theory, my story would be true literally, and you would literally have 70 versions of the Torah, or as many languages that there are, and you would literally have that one, then you wouldn't have this problem, of course.
But since we don't have it, and therefore it's written in one language, and just to be clear, when the Mishnah says "b'chol lashon" [in every language], it doesn't mean that—right, I mean, some guy went and wrote a version of the Torah in Targum, in English, in Aramaic, right? Like the kosher Targum [proper Aramaic translation].
The Gemara says it's kosher. The Gemara says this example of kosher Targum, right? I write the Torah in Aramaic. We have that Torah. We have it. It's more or less an accurate translation, but of course there's many parts that are not, or that are debatable, right? And of course many people listened to the Torah in that translation for many years that didn't understand a word of the Hebrew.
But in any case, you could say there were only a few when they were—but they did read the Hebrew also, there we go to—then they understood. But if we say—and what's my problem? I'm saying that if you don't understand the text, and some would say, at least there's a Torah—you don't understand it, at least you have it. When it's in English, it's a mockery of that. You should understand, because otherwise you don't have the Torah. If it's—even if you don't understand it, you still have it.
Student:
It was—I have—do I have it? It's written there.
Instructor:
No, the question means—I feel like we're talking about two things.
Student:
I wrote it anyway, like I wrote it, like it's like I put on Tefillin, right? And you're—it's like—nothing to do with meaning, it's just I wrote it and it's kosher. It's like I made a mitzvah. It doesn't have to have a meaning, it's just a mitzvah, like a mitzvah ma'aseh [action-based commandment].
Instructor:
No, I swear I'm not going to do that.
Instructor: And of course many people listened to the Torah in that translation for many years, but didn't understand the word of the Hebrew. But in any case, you could say they were only yotzei [fulfilled their obligation] when they—but they did read the Hebrew also, they were yotzei then, and then just understood.
But if we say, what's my problem? I'm saying that if you don't understand the text, and some would say, at least Lashon HaKodesh [the Holy Language, Hebrew], you don't have to understand it, at least you have it. When it's in English, it's a ma'akif [required] that you should understand, because otherwise you don't have the ta'ira b'khala [proper fulfillment]. If it's in Lashon HaKodesh, then even if you don't understand it, you still have it. Do I have it? It's written there.
Student: Begash me [excuse me]. I feel like we're talking about two separate things. I wrote it as a ta'ira [tefillin]. I wrote it as a ta'ira. It's like I put on a ma'akif [sukkah]. It's like nothing to do with meaning. It's just I wrote it as a ta'ira and it's kushim [valid]. It's like I made a ma'akif on my gag [roof]. It doesn't have to have a meaning. It's just a mitzvah like a mitzvah ma'aseh [action-based commandment].
Instructor: No, we can write it in khallush [?]. Which are you talking about? The idea is to learn the Torah. So that if I don't have a—if I don't have an understanding of these words, then I'm supposed to do the Torah. You're a mazalit [?]. You're a mazalit. I live on so it's like I see it.
By the way, what other nafka minna [practical difference] is there? I mean it's not actually—I see that it's not—and what does [unclear] even mean? Sometimes I say, it's [unclear] and it's [unclear] with it, things like that. What else does it mean?
Student: You're right, we don't understand that anyways, that doesn't help.
Instructor: But I'm saying so, but now back to my question. If your translation of your written is inaccurate, does that mean that becomes [invalid] Torah? Very important question. Very important question.
It seems like, I don't know the answer, right? It seems like whoever said this Mishnah that said [the law about translation], and said that all of these things, assumed either one of the two things: either that there can be an accurate translation, or accurate enough for any purpose, or that it's not important. As long as you more or less say that point—right, one of these two things. And probably the second thing is the [correct one]. The first one is just very unrealistic or very naive, right?
Or another way of saying this would be that this earlier Mishnah was written by someone who had enough confidence they understand the Torah—I don't know why I'm saying it earlier, the comment on the [Mishnah]—they had enough confidence that they understand the Torah. Therefore if they would write a translation of it, it would be a hundred percent what it means.
Talking English, we know that some [scholar] said, or Rav Yosef said about Targum Onkelos [Aramaic translation by Onkelos], that if not of the Targum, he wouldn't understand the pasuk [verse]. Meaning that he couldn't have written the Targum, right? Because he doesn't know what the pasuk can mean.
But whoever wrote this Mishnah said, I could write a Targum in any language, because I understand the Torah. Just explain me the language and I'll explain you how to say the Torah in that language.
Student: If you took the Targum Onkelos, the correct one, the historically correct one from Onkelos, and you wrote it, then it would be considered...
Instructor: Exactly.
But the point is, the point is, however you understand it, the point is that according to this Tanna, there's nothing special about the language of the Torah, nothing. All hilchot Torah [laws of Torah] would be the exact same in any language, even if there's a problem with translation.
The answer is that he doesn't even think—I'll just be very clear, even if there's an accurate translation, even if it has the correct meaning, meaning, let's say that, like you said, let's say the Tanna Onkelos is from Hashem [God] Himself, Adrabba [on the contrary], Kadosh Baruch Hu [the Holy One, Blessed be He] and so on, and gave us a correct authorized translation of the text—just to be clear, even then it wouldn't be the same exact, right? Everyone knows this, right? Everyone knows that a text still changes in translation.
It would have the same meaning, it might have the same meaning, but even that is not entirely accurate. Right? There would be a lot of connotations and a lot of, let's say, cultural things that would change, right?
We call things the names of the Torah because we read the Torah, and therefore, you know, if you're a ganav [thief], you call it a Lavan Rami [Laban the Deceiver], and if you're a tzaddik [righteous person], an Eisav [Esau], and so on. And if they would be called Lavan Ramis, it's a name, not really translatable, but if the guy would be called something else, we would call it different something else.
There's a lot of things, I'm not going to go at this at length, but it's known to everyone, but there's many things in a language, in the material of the language, in the structure of the language, besides for the meaning, and you do lose them when you translate, even in the theoretical impossible 100% accurate translation, right?
So what we learn from this Mishnah is that the Rav Tanna Kamma [the first Tanna] held that that doesn't matter. The Torah is thoughts, not words.
The extreme version of this would be what Ibn Ezra [Abraham ibn Ezra, medieval biblical commentator] said, right? Remember what Ibn Ezra—Ibn Ezra said, the Torah writes the ideas and not the words. And this is why he said in the Torah, there's sometimes the same story twice.
Famously, [he] says it's [about] the [Eliezer story], but he talks about other examples too. And it has different words, and that makes no difference, because that means the same thing. For example, that's one example, but there's other examples.
He's against people that take the language literally. He says that I could show you in the Chumash [the Five Books of Moses] itself—he has those different examples. I love [the example where] Eliezer tells—says one thing, and when he says the story, and then another thing when he tells the story over, and it means the same thing. It's just a different phrase.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: And so on. And what's going on? Ibn Ezra says no, this means the same thing and don't worry about it. We don't care about the words.
In other words, you could translate it into Hebrew too and it would be the same [valid]. But the words are not important. If someone goes and he says, the Torah is [written in] very complicated language, I'm gonna simplify it, like Tanakh Lam [simplified Bible], whatever. I'm gonna simplify it. I'm gonna write instead of "the miketz [at the end of] Shmoneh Esrei [eighteen]," "the softness," I'm—you know, because nobody knows what miketz means anymore. Still has the same [validity] because who cares? The Torah is ideas.
It's like editing, like this internal [editing] clearly within the same story, right? So that seems to be the shittah [position] of the Tanna. I think it's a pretty defensible opinion. And that's why he didn't even have the problem of accuracy. All these things, the Torah itself doesn't care about that level of material accuracy, because the thought is what's holy, what's important.
Student: [But don't] the ideas that people get from them [affect the reality]?
Instructor: The reality is that it does. But these people, they had enough confidence in what they thought the idea really was, that it wasn't—that they didn't. That's the fact. It has to be like this. Okay?
Anyone, if [they made] a translation and said everyone's going to read the Torah and hear this translation and not going to know the original text, and everyone was fine with this, right? Right? Everyone was fine with this, right?
The Chachamim [Sages] didn't say this is not [acceptable]—either you read Hebrew or you become a goy [non-Jew], because what's [with] these people that not gonna ever hear the Torah, only through some translation? They said no, it's good, right? It's fine with us as long as it's authorized, as long as it's good enough for our purposes, accurate enough for our purposes, right? Okay?
I'm showing [this is a] very important point and people are very confused about this.
People think—I think this is a Muslim thing, I don't know who made it up. It's not a Christian thing. The Christians hold like this, that's [their position on] the Bible. [They hold] the same position [as this Tanna]: every language.
Christian and Muslims—very famously [Muslims] hold that the Quran is only holy, or holy in Arabic, and it doesn't even have any meaning in any other language. They don't even call their translations "translation." They call them "interpretations."
If you buy a Quran, it never says "translation of the Quran." If it's a religious one, no. It's connected to [their theology]. It's connected to this modern [concept]—the work in particular [that] calls it—where it talks about [something]—I'm [thinking] about where it talks about the God's Word, the logos, whatever. It's not going—it has to do with this. In any case, it's—but it's not getting into this. That's time for [another discussion].
The point is they hold that the text, the words, are holy, not the meaning of them. And therefore you have to learn the Arabic. If you don't read in Arabic, you don't understand [it]. Your [obligation is to read it]. This [is their position]. Like I said, if you buy a religious Quran, it's always gonna say "interpretation of the Quran," and it's gonna tell you [you] should read in Arabic, even if you don't understand.
Of course, the Arabic—like it is to say it—because then the [understanding] isn't the point anyways.
By the way, it's nothing to understand there. Don't tell anyone. Anyways, just a long list of, "you should be good, otherwise you'll burn in hell again." And that's what it says, like, over, throughout 150 chapters or whatever it is. That's basically what it says.
So, a very simplified version, but more or less, that's what it says. So, it makes sense that there's only—if you're saying simple stuff and just repeating them, of course, the only value is in, like, supposed poetry of the Arabic and so on, because it doesn't really say anything.
But anyways, maybe that's the conspiracy theory of why they made up this shittah [position].
The Kuzari [Sefer HaKuzari by Rabbi Yehuda HaLevi] famously says that the Muslims say that the Quran is eloquence, is evidence of its godliness. And he says, well, sadly, I can't judge that because I don't listen to [understand] Arabic.
He has the Kuzari king say that because, of course, he [Rabbi Yehuda HaLevi] did read Arabic. This is supposed to be an argument against Islam, because if you really have a religion that's supposed to show evidence of its divine origin, it should be accessible to everyone. That's the argument. Very funny argument for the Kuzari to say.
But anyways, this is one of the hidden problems in the Kuzari. And [the] point [is], this is not the [Jewish position].
There was a [view]—like it [exists in Islam]—so [regarding] vows and the [unclear], I'm done [with that topic]. Actions and [unclear]. I can't stop reading the [unclear] interesting anyways.
Anyways, so the important thing is that there's a different, there's a shittah, and for example the Muslims have it on their holy book, which says that the text is what's heilig [holy] and not the meaning, or at least as heilig as the meaning. And according to that, you have to of course have the original text and the original words, not only the original [meaning].
That is not the shittah of the heilig Tanna Kamma [the holy first Tanna].
Instructor: Even according to Rishonim Gimelim, I'm going to talk about it in a second. It says *Belusha Kodesh* [in the Holy Language] and maybe it also doesn't hold its exact words, it's just for some reason these languages. I'm going to talk about it in a second. This is an important theory of the *Kedushat HaTorah* [holiness of the Torah], of the Holy Mishnah, and you should remember it. Because this is also behind whoever said that Midrash of *Beheret* of the *Shiv'im* [Seventy], of course.
To assume that the Torah should be accessible, everyone should be able to understand it because it's very simple and very good and very clear. And maybe it's true that we'll lose some nuance of cultural references. It doesn't matter because that's not the point of the Torah. The point is whatever basic message it has or messages or thousands of *chachmas* [wisdoms] and so on. And you can have that in every language. And therefore, the Torah is holy in any language. It's very universalistic or philosophical understanding of it, unlike many people who seem to think that the whole point of the Torah is that it's a certain language.
Rav Shimon Gamliel had a different *shita* [approach/opinion]. He said like this: even the *Sforim* [books], *Tzohot* [?], *Tziml Mezeh Zizmoideh* [?], of course you can't write in *Yevonit* [Greek] in different language, but even the Sefer Torah you can only write in *Yevonit*. Now why?
So there's really two theories of this and I think that both theories differ by different people. Of course, talking about the Torah in Greek is talking about a specific translation, which is probably the one that we have, the Greek translation, although some people have argued that it's not the same one. Probably changed somewhat, but there's very probably, yeah. There's probably little reason to think that we have a totally different one. Of course, the things that we would have quotes from it are not really there, so it's problematic. Or not all of them there. But it's probably the same one, or some version of the same one. Why should you think differently? I don't know.
In any case, the important thing is, and the Jews that had the tradition of reading the Torah in *Yevonit*, they had this one. It's not like they had the same story or version of the same story. There's two, so he's talking about a certain Torah that's written, right? He said this is the authorized translation and not all the ones.
So what's the *pshat* [simple meaning]? How do we understand it? What the [Gemara] is apparently saying is that Rav Shimon Gamliel, he thought he was a Greek chauvinist. He was a Jewish chauvinist, of course, because he was Jewish. But he also was a Greek chauvinist. He said, and we know that on Rav Shimon Gamliel's day he studied Greek. Everyone knows. He said, look, I don't think the Torah would be good in any language. It's not true. Most languages are not very good. Latin, he probably knew some Latin. Latin is a language for, what does it say in the Yerushalmi? Latin is good for something else, remember?
Student: Oh, each one is good for something else.
Instructor: Yeah, there's a Midrash, I saw the Midrash once, each one for poetry, for this, for that. What's Latin there for? There's some for like love, I think Latin is for love, like one of these things, it's a Midrash, I saw this one. Anyway, it says this in *Petish* [?] somewhere, I forget where. Rav Shimon Gamliel said that...
Student: What's Latin for?
Instructor: I forget. I forget. I think it's the *visas* [?].
Student: What are you looking for?
Instructor: I know, this is dumb. I don't know. I'm not finding it in a second. I know where to find it, but it's going to take me too much time.
Student: So no, he's just making stuff up, this guy, the kids here.
Instructor: Not always. I think he doesn't know. Now listen, so I know you have to look also in, what should we call it, in the book, but to get to it, it's going to take me too long to search things now.
But it was like this, right? It could have two meanings. What it means is that, like I'm saying, that Greek was the best translation, the best language in general and therefore the Torah works in Greek. He doesn't think it would work in any other language because other languages are less expressive and therefore they can have a worse *pshat* [understanding] of the Torah. So Greek, the Greek language is the best language of the *Yefet* [Japheth], and *Yavan* [Greece] is of course one of the children of *Yefet*, and therefore is what? Therefore the Greek Torah is the best one.
This is very unlike what you'll hear in any Chanukah tradition, that the Greek is the worst thing. No, Rishon HaGadol [a great early authority] said the Torah can be written only in Greek. He doesn't believe it can be written in other languages, but in Greek it can be written because Greeks have a good language. You can express the Torah perfectly in Greek. Alright? Perfect. *Stimmt* [correct]? That's all. I didn't make this up.
The Yerushalmi says like this on this Mishnah in Megillah: *"Badku mati shel'ayna tori choli li targim"* [They checked which language our Torah can be translated into]. Here, right? *"Badku mati shel'ayna tori choli li targim kol tzarka ele Yevonit"* [They checked which language our Torah can be translated into; they found only Greek]. They checked. They checked with the language. They say *Yevonit* is the language that can be translated Torah.
Of course, then it talks about Aramaic, that maybe you could have an Aramaic out of *Yevonit*. This is where there's different *Rishonim* [early authorities], this is where we get *Targum Onkelos* or not, or it's Aquila and so on, stories. Point is that he held that *Yevonit* is a great language, because Greek is very expressive for some reason. Probably there's a lot of people that do, how do you call it, linguistics, that explain to you why he thinks this. I don't think it's entirely made up. It's true that Greek is a pretty expressive language, at least for the Torah, and it's translatable. *Stimmt*?
Therefore, if you don't understand the word in the Torah, you should look in the Greek, because it has *askim* [authorization] from Rabban Gamliel. And from *shiv'im zekayin* [seventy elders], and whoever those were, but we don't know their names. From Rabban Gamliel we know. He gave *askim*, he said this is the best way to translate the Torah.
But he's saying something deeper than that, right? He's saying, because again, you remember, every language has its conceptual structure and its grammar and everything, and he's saying that Greek is a good fit for the Torah, right? They *badku* [checked], they checked the Greek is a good fit for the Torah. It works very well in Greek. Greek with the Greek of Homer, right? The Greek with all the systems that the Greeks believe in which are built into their language, in that language the Torah works very well.
Student: As in the amount of words?
Instructor: I don't know if the amount of words, for one word you don't have to use three like with, let's say, English you would...
Student: No, probably not, because who cares about that?
Instructor: So then what, what exactly? English is also a very expressive language.
Student: English is probably the best language now.
Instructor: No, no, I don't think that would be a problem. They're saying that in some languages, who cares it's going to be longer? So it's going to be longer, that's not a problem. That's because it's the opposite.
Student: So Greek is a better language than Hebrew?
Instructor: You don't know. Again, we read this. *Gam* [also] that they have. Rabban Gamliel didn't think, he doesn't understand, might think this. Rav Shmuel thought he knows what the Torah means. He's just looking for a good way to express it to a translator in a different language, right? You have a problem. You're not going to know the translation. That's your problem. He does know.
Student: That means something inclusive...
Instructor: No, that's not true. That's not what he thinks. He thinks obviously the Torah means—that's a nice theory of some literary theorist who thinks that the text of the Torah is *chol* [ambiguous/open], *haylik* [?]. This is not what Rav Shmuel said in the *Chillik* [?] on *Eriak* [?] line. Why do I have to go there? Listen to me.
Student: Why can't I just talk about the actual...
Instructor: Because he's not saying this. Because Rabban Gamliel said that the Torah is written in every language. Or the *Peshawar* [?] said it can be written in Greek because it's the best language. There's no such a thing as two languages where all the words that have the same range of meaning are translatable one for one. That's impossible. And I don't think that the *Chachamim* [Sages] ever had this problem. They thought the opposite. They thought that they knew what the Torah means and therefore they could translate it.
If the same word means in two different places two different things, so I'll write a different word in both places and it'll be even clearer than the original Torah. Very good, no problem.
Student: You think that sometimes it means both in one place?
Instructor: He obviously didn't think that. He thought that it has a meaning and a definite meaning and it could be retranslated. They checked all the languages, they tried that you say the same thing in three languages, they see that it works better in a certain language. That's the *b'aya* [problem], they give, carries the meaning better. What else could it mean? It carries the meaning better. Not the tricks, not the jokes, the puns. Nobody needs the pun. If you need the pun, then...
Student: No, but I'm saying in every language, if you really understand it, you could use, okay, so you'll end up using three paragraphs, who cares?
Instructor: That's not the problem. The problem is the opposite. You don't have words at all, or you don't have the correct formula to express a certain thing. You can't say in Yiddish, you know that in Yiddish you can't say most things?
Student: No, no, that's a good example.
Instructor: Because it's a bad language, it has not enough words. If you try to say something, anything complicated in Yiddish, you end up speaking English. That's a true story, it happened to me every week in my *shiur* [class].
Student: Okay, so, and in English also say a lot of Yiddish words.
Instructor: Okay, just ask, but you, I can't, you can't. And that's a good [example], and they thought of this, they thought, and this by the way...
Instructor: The problem is the opposite. You don't have words at all or you don't have the correct formula to express a certain thing. You can't say in Yiddish. You know that in Yiddish you can't say most things?
Student: No, no.
Instructor: That's a good example. Because it's a bad language. It has not enough words. If you try to say something, anything complicated in Yiddish, you end up speaking English. That's a true story. Happened to me every week in my shiur [Torah class]. So, in English you also say a lot of Yiddish words. Okay, just ads. But you can't. And that's a good example.
Instructor: And they thought of, by the way, linguistics has a whole debate about this. If you're allowed to say that there are better or worse languages, of course, it's not woke to say. But I read a few, all the anti-woke linguists that I read about this, they all say that it's nonsense. Of course, there's languages that are more complex and more expressive and for certain things. Some languages are better for certain areas and so on. This is a different politic. But the point is that, of course, there's languages that are better and better for certain things than others. What's so difficult to understand?
Instructor: Not because of the puns. It's very clear not because of the puns. Puns are never translatable. For example, you can see example of this in the translations the Targum [Aramaic translation]. I don't know what this Targum machine does, but Targum Onkelos [Aramaic translation of the Torah by Onkelos], for example, which the Chachamim [Sages] very much like, just ignores every word play in the Torah. It just does a literal translation of everything, even poetry. Just tries and puts it back in the prose.
And this is because he thought—he obviously didn't think that is even important to get the beauty of the poetry. That was not important to him. It was more important to him to get the meaning. And that's all. That was the *kedushas haTorah* [holiness of the Torah]. And I think that the Greek does something similar. I'm not sure, you have to check how the Greek treats things like this. Good question, I'll find out later. But I know that we should find out later. But the point is that this is definitely how Onkelos thought of it. And he thought that Greek was the best language and therefore the Torah is very well expressed in Greek.
Instructor: This means that if in the *emunah* [faith/belief] or if it is in the Torah one thing and the Greek it's *pistis* [Greek: faith], then *pistis* is a very good translation for the concept of *emunah*. Unlike anyone would say, "No, he doesn't have a concept of *emunah*." No, he does. Hashem [God] will set every concept in Greek, maybe not in English. English is very good. And so on. I just said a random word that the Christians like to talk about very much. And so on, right? Every word is all kinds of words that are hard to translate. He has a translation for all of them in Greek.
And this means that us, that we don't understand Hebrew, we could look in the Greek and understand things better, sometimes. That's what advice from Rabban Shimon Gamliel [is]—to understand the Torah, or to connect, to get the real meaning, the real word that we're looking for, the concept that we're looking for. Words are all concepts. There's the *shita* [approach/position] of Rabban Shimon Gamliel.
Instructor: There's a different *shita*, different *shita*, that's if you say *Yefei Sas Sofer* [uncertain reference]. There's a different *shita* in Rabban Shimon Gamliel, which is the *shita* of—no? There's a different *shita* of Rabban Shimon Gamliel, which is the *shita* of—no? A different *shita* of Rebbe Yehuda says that they were not *mutter* [permitted] only Torah *b'lashon* [in the language of]—*mishum ma'aseh shehayah* [because of what happened]. That sounds like a different *shita*. He sounds not to say that the *Yevonit* [Greek] is so great like Rabban Shimon Gamliel. And there's some *Gedolim* [great scholars] seems to say here.
Instructor: But that about that it's just that there was a story, like the story that said that Talmai HaMelech [King Ptolemy] forced us to translate the Torah. So it's like with the effort because we had to—we had to—we have to keep it safe with him. So we have a *Yevonit Yisrael Torah* [Greek Torah for Israel] and it's like *b'dieved* [after the fact, not ideal], it's *mutter* [permitted]. Okay, we're *mutter b'dieved* [permitted after the fact], but that's all. That's just a *hetter* [permission] for *b'dieved* for the time that was needed.
And maybe it's therefore, it's like grandfathered in. We could use this Torah always, but we can't do any other translations, even of other texts, right? We can't even translate the Tanach [Hebrew Bible] in the Greek. It's not going to work because there's not that *hetter* [permission]. That's a different chapter, totally different reading of the story of the *Targum Hashivim* [Septuagint/Translation of the Seventy], right? Remember?
Student: Very good.
Instructor: You probably also know that there's a totally different *shita* of the story, right? Which is from the—who said that *shita*? Who said that *shita*?
Student: Hmm.
Instructor: You know I'm talking about, right? Who?
Student: No, you don't know?
Instructor: The *Megillas Taanis* [Scroll of Fasts], right? Who said *Adepshat* [uncertain term]?
Student: Yeah, who said *Adepshat*?
Instructor: There you go, that's from *Megillas Taanis*, right? Is that where it's from?
Student: I think so.
Instructor: So someone, not the [unclear], but [unclear], it's really [unclear], which is, these are much later texts, a long time after the—where is the source? It's very interesting, you have to see something, you have to see this, okay? [Unclear], it says, like this, okay? [Unclear], very different [unclear].
*Maseches Sofrim* [Tractate of Scribes] is not a real *masechta* [tractate], it was written in the times of the *Gaonim* [post-Talmudic rabbinic authorities], who knows when, very late. It's a lot of *minhagim* [customs]. *Maseches Sofrim*, it says, by the way, it says, we don't write the Torah *b'chol lashon* [in any language]. *Asot eksiv ha-shiris* [uncertain phrase], right? *Keshitas*, not *keshitas haTanach* [uncertain phrase], right? Or *keshitas ra-mabdil* [uncertain phrase]. *Mechilik ha-netanohim* [uncertain phrase], right? Why, because it doesn't say Greek either, right?
He doesn't write, not Greek. It's not even in the right. He's more *machmir* [stringent], even though he says we can't write—he literally says he can't write the Torah in any language, right?
Instructor: And there's a story behind the *Chachamim* [Sages] that wrote the Torah to the king of the king, in *Yevonit* [Greek]. And he said to the king of the king, that he said the Torah can be translated into any language. This is very weird, because this is literally the language from the Yerushalmi [Jerusalem Talmud] that said that they checked and they found that we can only be *metagim* [translate] in the Torah *kol tzarkah* [adequately] in Greek, right? And here it says that it was as bad as *yom b'shenasah b'ya'eigel* [the day the Golden Calf was made], that's the *shita* [position] of the *Maseches Sofrim*. And why is that? Because it was not—they could not translate it.
Instructor: In other words, this person who wrote—who was a much later person than the *Tanaim* [Mishnaic sages], and not that I care about that, but just showing you that there's something different—he held that theoretically maybe it would be nice to translate it, but it's impossible. Impossible. Why is it impossible? Possible maybe because of all these things that he shows, all these things that he shows about all the things that he shows about the differences that they have to change, like this whole thing.
Student: No, where to say which Gemara [Talmud]?
Instructor: There's no such Gemara, Tzadik [righteous one/term of address]. There is not a Gemara in the sixth of *Taanis* [Tractate of Fasts]. There's not such a Gemara. The *Taanis* was made up by someone a long time after the Gemara. That's not how it's done. No, that's not the Gemara. That's not the Gemara. That's what I was thinking. That's what I was thinking. Okay?
There was not a *ta'anis* [fast] on that in the Gemara. There was a *ta'anis* on that in some other book called what? *Maseches Sofrim*, that's what you're saying. *Maseches Sofrim* says that it was very bad because the *Maseches Sofrim* is in the *machloket* [dispute] with the Yerushalmi. If there's a *Maseches Sofrim* in the Yerushalmi, of course the Yerushalmi is right. It's *machmir* [stringent] *tzoi* [uncertain term].
Instructor: *Megillas Taanis* says that you should fast. *Megillas Taanis*, it's not really *Megillas Taanis*. It's probably a later part. Even *Megillas Taanis* has a lot of levels, because you have to look in the [unclear]. [It] says that you should fast on [unclear], and that the world was dark for three days, and therefore people used to fast [unclear]. That's what it says in [unclear]. But not really this. I don't think this is the real [unclear]. I'm pretty sure that this is a list of [unclear]. [Unclear] is a list of happy days. So it's not the same thing. We could look up in whoever wrote about [unclear] and you'll see that book. You could see what's going on about that, okay? Let's push it.
Instructor: In any case, whatever you're saying, that's all. Now, what am I saying? This person, whoever wrote [unclear], who explains this, he thinks that either you can't, or he thought like the other, like the Muslim [shita], that the Torah is holy because of its words. By definition impossible to translate because you can't translate a language. It's just a language, it's what it is. Make sense?
It doesn't say anywhere in the Gemara that there's a *ta'anis* [fast] on this, Tzadik. I'm not that kind of person. There's some later in the book. There's a lot of things that it says. *Machazoi* [uncertain term]. There's a lot of places, but it doesn't say in the Gemara. There's no... It was fine. Of course not.
Instructor: In any case, even in *Maseches Sofrim*, it doesn't really say that. Maybe this is just an over-interpretation. He just says that it couldn't have been translated and probably because of all these—probably with these means all these things that they were in *Megillah* [Tractate Megillah]. [It] brings all these—but I said they had to change for basically political reasons, right? For basically so [it] can't be misinterpreted and so on.
And it's weird because the *Gedolim* [great scholars], he realized that in the Gemara, even though they made all these changes, that still has to this stuff there because it's because that's what it means, right? But it says *Bereishis bara Elokim* [In the beginning God created]—there might be a reason why it says *Bereishis bara Elokim*, but *Elokim bara Bereishis* [God created in the beginning] means the same thing, right? It just took away one mistake. [Unclear] means [unclear]. It's still the same thing. It's just different words for the same animal, right?
Instructor: So there's nothing wrong with these mistranslations. It's not really clear what things. So you think that's how much the meaning means, that you could literally mistranslate it? Obviously. And it's fine. The *Targum Onkelos* does this all the time. And this is, again, an example of a translation that we'll be thinking of.
Instructor: They're as literal as can be. But they're still a translation, and they still do all these kind of things. They still fix a lot of things. And sometimes they'll say, okay, maybe I had a different case.
So what do we learn from all of this? We learn from all of this a very important thing. In principle, at least—this is the principle that I'm working with that I last year worked with and I brought you a book on the times a Mishnah that says this—in principle, the Torah can be translated, which means that all the concepts of the Torah can be said in every language, in principle.
It's not true that thoughts belong to a language. Not true. We need to think in a language. Nobody thought without a language. Which means that there isn't one language that one... And there also isn't one correct language that created the world. That's another way of saying it.
There is one, but it's not an alphabet. There are certain correct concepts and wrong concepts. It's not that you can say whatever you want or you can say everything however you want. There isn't a specific alphabet that created the world, of course. Alphabet in the sense of the material alphabet, of course. Nobody really thinks that. Everyone thinks that it's just confused.
Instructor: I told you the Haile Ge'ech [the Gaon] and the Rebbe Reb Bunim. The Rebbe Reb Bunim said that he found a Mekubal [kabbalist], and the Mekubal told him that there's a lot of secrets in the... There's a big [daled in "echad" and ayin in "shema"]. So the Rebbe Reb Bunim told them, that's very cute, but I have a question for you. So could you explain to me in Polish this thought that you just told me? And if not, obviously they don't understand what you're talking about, because it doesn't stand with *b'chol lashon* [in any language—referring to the halacha that Krias Shema can be recited in any language].
Now, of course, it's not necessarily true that that person had to be able to explain in Polish, because you have to know Polish very well and the Polish philosophical concepts and the way in which to translate—it's very hard to translate accurately from one language to another. It's not a simple thing to do, right?
Student: Yeah, that's just for the... That's not real. I know people say that much advanced enough people say that that's this time you don't need that, that it's nonsense. That's just over. That's way over. That's way over, that's way over, over OCD. It's not... He doesn't end up there.
Instructor: Yeah, but the *kasha* [question/difficulty] doesn't begin. It's not real. The *kasha* doesn't begin. You're saying just access and language is not enough.
Student: Yeah, there were people in the Shevet Efraim [tribe of Ephraim] that didn't know how to say the *shin* [the Hebrew letter shin].
Instructor: Well, therefore what? It doesn't mean that they were not... I mean, the Mishnah says that there's a problem, whatever, because they want to say it correctly, but you're *yotzei* [fulfilled the obligation]. If you don't say it correctly, it's a *bedieved* [after the fact, acceptable though not ideal], not at all wrong. *Kara v'lo dikdek b'osiyoseha yatza* [if one read but was not precise in the letters, he fulfilled his obligation]—that's what it means.
Instructor: So this is very important, that you could, in principle, say everything in every language. And there's problems with some languages and with some people. Some languages are just not very good.
Of course, it's possible that Hebrew is not a very good language. I want to say this because it has to be a possibility. It's possible. We know that we would have a very hard time expressing ourselves in Biblical Hebrew, or probably would be impossible. You know how we know this? No book since the Bible was written in Biblical Hebrew. And not because nobody knew it—they read the Torah every week. That's because you can't really say what you want to say in it, right?
Even the Mishnah wasn't written in Biblical Hebrew, right? It was written in Mishnaic Hebrew, which is maybe a version of Biblical Hebrew, or maybe a later stage of it, or whatever you want to say, but it was able to express itself only in that, and it has a bunch of Greek loan words and so on. Of course, the Bible also has loan words from other languages.
Instructor: And later, people can't even write... Actually, I do think... It's very interesting. I actually think, for example, that you could express most things in Mishnaic Hebrew still to this day. Most people don't actually write in the language of the Mishnah, but it's not very hard to express yourself in that language if you know how it works.
Now, people have done that, right? So Agnon does that, more or less. And he's pretty good at getting across whatever he's trying to get across. So it is possible. It's also possible to do it in later versions of Hebrew, but those are just stylistic things.
But nobody can do it in the biblical language. Or at least you could do it, but nobody would understand what you're saying. You would not be very successful at expressing yourself. You could probably do it in the way that the Torah is translated into English or into Greek or into any other language you know.
Instructor: English is a very good language because it has a lot of words. You can't do it in Hebrew in the language of the *Lashon Kodesh* [Holy Language] and the *Kodesh* of the *Chumash* [the holiness of the Five Books of Moses]. And therefore, we have to translate the Torah into a different language in order to understand it. Because like we said, there's a problem with the original language also. You could say, we're *yotzei*, but we're not trying to just be able to understand it.
Instructor: So, therefore, this is a counter-Chanukah drasha, counter-anti-Yevanish drasha [counter to anti-Greek sermon]. This is a pro-Yevanish drasha. This is saying that if we translate it into Yevanish [Greek]... Of course, Ancient Greek is not very accessible to us either. It's a little bit more accessible to us than Ancient Hebrew. You know why, right? You don't know why?
Because we speak a language that's somewhat descended from it—not entirely, but somewhat, or at least has a lot of... A lot of what?
Student: We stopped using the language.
Instructor: Which language?
Student: Hebrew.
Instructor: Well, we don't... We know Hebrew. We know a lot about Hebrew. But English has very little to do with Hebrew. It has more to do with Greek—not a lot to do with Greek either, but a little to do with Greek. It belongs to the same family in very wide senses and so on.
Instructor: So, it's better. And we also have a translation, an authorized translation by Rabban Shimon Gamliel of all the 70 sages of the Torah into Greek, which means that also we could use every concept they translated into Greek to identify the Greek concepts.
And the Greeks were much better at explaining their concepts to us than the Torah was, that's for sure. And, of course, people have this funny idea that the Greek philosophers just make up concepts, but they don't. They're just explaining concepts that exist in their language and making it better and clearer.
But the people that we have that are doing the Torah are pretty bad at explaining the basic concepts of the Torah, and the Greeks are doing a much better job at explaining their concepts. And since Rabban Shimon Gamliel said that this is the best language, and it's the best language to express the Torah in, so the best way to understand the Torah is to do what the Holy Rambam [Maimonides] did and read the Greek text—of course translated into Arabic, complicated—and read the Torah through their eyes, because they're saying... Rabban Shimon Gamliel said that they should do this, not that Rambam... And I'm pretty sure... I'm pretty sure... Why? No, those are just... No, thanks.
Instructor: Therefore, and not only that, I also think another thing. Since the *Chachamim* [Sages] thought this, or at least some of them thought this, it's probable that a lot of what they're doing is translating into Greek.
And you'll notice that the people that we call *Chachamim*—which are really only one part of the ones that lived in Hellenic period and later in other periods and so on—people living in Rome and Hellenic Palestine and these people are thinking in Greek, many of them, at least the ones that are sophisticated. That doesn't mean that they read Greek philosophy. It doesn't make a difference. Like there's a whole argument about that. But it does mean that they're thinking in Greek often.
Instructor: And you know how I know that, right? Because whenever they want to express themselves something that's complicated, they just say it in Greek. Very often. Right?
Even when they count, they count in Greek. They just say alpha, beta, gamma, and they don't say alef, beis, gimmel.
Instructor: Even in the *Beis Hamikdash* [Holy Temple], in the Holy *Beis Hamikdash*, there were three *krenos* [Greek: containers] of *Trumas Hashkolim* [the half-shekel Temple tax], and there was... and they were labeled alpha, beta, gamma.
And there's like a *shaila* [question]... The *Binyan Yehoshua* [a commentary] says, why did they write alpha, beta, gamma? Alpha, beta, gamma is just alef, beis, gimmel. Like, seriously, it's literally the same letters, or descended from the same letters. Why can't they write alef, beis, gimmel? Because alef, beis, gimmel is so holy, they don't want to use it just for counting.
But this is a nice piece of information. The truth is that they just counted in Greek. It's like we count in English. None of you... One of the signs of what your native language is thinking is how you count in it, right? Because counting is like something we do very automatically.
So, the people in the *Beis Hamikdash* just counted in Greek, and many other things that they explained in Greek. And even when they explain things in Hebrew, which they used, they borrowed... They either... How do you call it? They conjugate Biblical terms into new kinds of words, concepts. They're probably thinking in Greek ways.
Instructor: The Greek way is... Nothing in Greek way. There's no such thing as Greek ways. It just means that this language is very expressive and the kind of words that it gives you is expressive, and it allows you to explain the Torah better.
Doesn't mean that it's Greek. It's not *chas v'shalom* [God forbid] that they're taking Greek concepts, right? Because the concepts that we said, the Torah *b'chol lashon* [in every language]—the concepts are beyond language. You can't think them without any language because we're humans, we're not angels or whatever, abstract intellects that think without language. But...
Instructor: We just said Greek ways doesn't mean Greek ways. There's no such thing as Greek ways. It just means that this language is very expressive and the kind of words that it gives you is expressive and it allows you to explain the Torah better. Doesn't mean that it's Greek. It's not *chazashon* [their language/their way] that they're taking Greek concepts. Right? Because the concepts that we said, the Torah of *Chazal* [the Sages], the concepts are beyond language.
You can't think them without any language because we're humans, we're not angels or whatever. Abstract intellect, I think, without language. But what we're thinking is not the language, what we're thinking is the thoughts. But we do need good tools to do that for which languages are good, and for which the Greek language is one of the best.
And therefore, it seems to me that reading Greek language, and specifically the language, and comparing it to how the *chachamim* [sages] thought, to how the *chachamim* of all generations, and how the Torah itself—but the Torah itself was not in that context, so it's not going to help us much—is extremely helpful to understand both sides of the story which are really the same. They're just trying to explain the same things.
And like I said, the Greek sages were just very much better at explaining themselves. They're not infinitely better, just to be clear. There's some things in which they're worse probably. But for us, mainly because we have the tradition—we don't really have a Jewish tradition or we don't have it as clearly written down or transmitted as we have the Greek wisdom tradition, which is, of course, not so different from the parts of it are just the same.
I don't think the first Greeks—there's some myths, of course, how they literally studied from the Eastern Sages, which basically means the same people that we studied with or from or are. It's not—of course, there's big expanded versions of this myth, but it's not crazy and it's not wrong in the most Protestant where there's like one part of the same tradition. They think you could, if you start reading it, you see that they think in the same way.
Of course, people in China and all over think in similar ways, just because human beings think in certain ways. Maybe there's still kind of subtle differences, but these are the ones that are closer to us, probably.
And therefore, it's very important, and you'll read, and I have a whole sheet to talk about this, the people that—now we have a tradition of translators, like the Tibbons were the greatest translators, were the most famous, at least, translators of Arabic into Hebrew.
And a lot of what they're doing when they're good, and I have to show you in the fourth chapter of *Shemoneh Perakim* [Eight Chapters] that we're studying now, Rav Shmuel ibn Tibbon explicitly writes this. I read a little later, further today, and he explicitly says this. It's not—I mean, it's also more or less explicitly in other places. But he explicitly has as this project to not only to give you the correct words, like to show you should understand what the Rambam [Maimonides] is meaning when he's translating from Arabic, Arabic, which is translated from Greek, which is so on.
But he also tries to give you, put it back into the context of the language of the Mishnah, of the *chachamim* who lived in *Al-Anik* [possibly: Eretz Yisrael/the Land of Israel], Israel. And he does, sometimes he's probably successful at it, sometimes he might have guessed wrong, because we don't have a very good understanding of how their words work. But *pinti* [possibly: in any case] sometimes does guess correctly. And like we talked about *zehirus* [carefulness/vigilance] and so on, they sometimes do thing to say things that are correct.
And there's sometimes even literally the same aphorisms or aphorisms from Greek sages and from Jewish sages, and there's no reason to think that these are not literally the same thing. Whether they said it because they stole it from one another or they said it because they thought the same thing doesn't make a big difference.
Remember it says in the Mishnah, *hayom katzar v'hamelacha merubah* [the day is short and the work is great]. You know who said that? Hippocrates. Very famous statement. Literally word for word. Life is long and art is short—life is short and art is long, it can't be more word for word than that, and things like that.
Student: What's the Greek word for art?
Instructor: I forgot, it's the same word, it's not *melocha* [work/craft], *melocha* isn't here. What does it tell us? He's talking about art in the sense of *techne* [τέχνη: craft/skill], by the way, *techne* is the word, and he's thinking of the like medical art because he was a doctor. So I'm not knowing how to be a doctor, that's what he's thinking of. But you see what just happened—it doesn't matter, it's the same.
Student: Narrower than—
Instructor: No, no, no, the translation of the word is art. That's what means. What your art is whatever that depends on what your—what your job is or what you think your—
Student: Doesn't *fach* or artisan—
Instructor: Yes, yes, no, no, I'm not art English. Do you want to say art? I mean the way the Greeks mean it. Not the way the English people mean it. Art not as in fine arts. That's what I meant to say.
Student: What do the Greeks call it?
Instructor: Yes, yes, yes. That's what I meant. That's an example. There are thousands of such examples. I myself noted some examples of this. Because I think we just translated Plato.
Student: What do you mean by stealing? How do you steal it? Steal what?
Instructor: No, it's not stealing. You can't steal it. You're saying it.
Student: Yeah, it's nothing. I'm just saying.
Instructor: There's no reason to think otherwise. And showing that's and we could see details of this and differentiate *shiurim* [classes/lessons].
- Speaker A mentions wanting to learn Rambam on Aristotle
- Side digression: Wife wants to travel to Italy; son jokes that father prefers traveling through time via studying Rambam and Aristotle over tourist destinations
- Sets up theme: intellectual/spiritual engagement vs. physical experience
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Side digression - Story about friendship:
- Someone complained about not having friends
- Speaker A claims seforim (books/authors) as friends
- The Shaagas Aryeh maaseh (story):
- Shaagas Aryeh was a sharp, contentious scholar who argued with many authorities
- A bookshelf fell on him; he interpreted this as "revenge" from the authors he disputed
- He asked mechilah (forgiveness) from all; all forgave except two achronim (later authorities)
- Those two remained "kabdonim" (holding grudges)
Transition point: Most deceased scholars forgive in olam ha'emes (the world of truth/afterlife)
Supporting story for the "forgiveness in olam ha'emes" principle:
- Famous disputants in life
- Story: When R. Yaakov Emden died, only available burial spot was near R. Yonasan Eibeshitz
- The Nadvorna Rebbe was consulted
- His ruling: "In shamayim (heaven) they already made peace" - so burial together is permitted
Key observation: These are "legends" about what happens in olam ha'emes
- Speaker notes: The Rambam "loves these legends"
- Critical point raised: Nobody actually went there and came back to verify
- Rabbi Chananya ben Gamliel's position: All those liable for kares (spiritual excision) who received malkos (lashes) are exempt from their kares
- Proof text: "V'niklah achicha l'einecha" - once he is lashed, he is "your brother" again, exempt from kares
- Rav's ruling: Halacha follows Rabbi Chananya ben Gamliel
- "מן סליק לעילא ואתא ואמר?" - "Who went up to heaven and came back to tell us?"
- The philosophical problem: Kares is a heavenly punishment. How can any human authority declare what the "halacha" is regarding heavenly court proceedings?
- This is unknowable through normal legal methods
- Cites Rabbi Shimon Levi who listed three things where beis din shel maalah (heavenly court) and beis din shel matah (earthly court) agreed
- Problem with this answer (noted but not fully developed): How did R. Shimon Levi know either?
- "אלא קרא קדרשינן" - "Rather, we are expounding a verse"
- When Rav says "halacha," he means: the pasuk (verse) seems to support this position
- We're not claiming empirical knowledge of heavenly proceedings
- We're claiming this is the correct interpretation of the Torah's teaching
- All Chassidishe stories about what happens in shamayim are not empirical reports
- They are expressions of what we believe the Torah teaches is true
Story A - The Vilna Gaon in Shamayim (Misnagdish/rationalist version):
- Vilna Gaon arrives in heaven; they want to put him in Gehennom for being a Misnaged
- The Torah wraps itself around him, protecting him because he learned so much Torah
- Saved from punishment for "the aveira of misnagedus"
Story B - Reb Noson's Shver (Chassidish version):
- Reb Noson of Breslov's father-in-law was a Misnaged/Litvak rabbi
- Reb Nachman told Reb Noson: Your shver is a tzaddik
- Reb Noson was surprised (a Litvak, a tzaddik?)
- Reb Nachman's response: Being a Misnaged is one aveira; he'll get one extra "patch" in Gehennom
- Key principle: Every tzaddik sins; one more sin doesn't disqualify someone as a tzaddik
Speaker A becomes serious:
- The Vilna Gaon issued a cherem (ban) on Chassidim
- Prohibited marrying them
- Prohibited doing business with them
- "Hiter dumam" (permitted their blood) - as the Baal HaTanya characterizes it
Speaker A's position: This was a serious aveira (sin)
- Even if the Vilna Gaon had valid criticisms, issuing such a cherem is forbidden
- Comparison to: Yerovam ben Nevat, the brothers selling Yosef, sinas chinam (baseless hatred)
- Same category as the problem of Ezra and the Prushim
The Problem:
- How did storytellers know what happened in shamayim?
- Example: Reb Chaim Elazar Shapiro attributes a story to the Bat Ayin
- But who told the Bat Ayin? The chain doesn't solve the epistemological problem
The Resolution (returning to the Gemara):
- "מאן סליק לעילא? אלא קרא קדרשינן"
- These stories are not empirical reports
- They are interpretations of what Torah teaches is ultimately true
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- "Chayav b'dinei adam" (liable in human court) = practical consequence (court takes money from your account)
- "Chayav b'dinei shamayim" (liable in heavenly court) = what does this mean practically?
- Common misconception: Dinei shamayim is more mysterious/unknowable than dinei adam
- Speaker A's position: It's the opposite
- Dinei adam is limited by Torah's procedural rules, legal technicalities, evidentiary requirements
- Dinei shamayim = "what we think is the real truth" = human reason unconstrained by procedural limitations
- It means: "If you ask me, you really should pay"
Practical application mentioned (by Speaker B):
- This concept does "great work in torts"
- Handles cases of grama (indirect causation) where technical liability doesn't match moral responsibility
- "Yotzei dinei shamayim" = if you're an ehrliche Yid (honest Jew), you should pay even without technical obligation
- "Shamayim" is a word for what we think is the real truth
- In olam hazeh: we're limited, sometimes must do suboptimal things due to constraints
- In shamayim: no such limitations - represents the ideal/true judgment
- Core problem: In Olam HaZeh, you can't really punish Tzadikim
- Hashem can only punish Tzadikim "by themselves" (privately/differently)
- For a Talmid Chacham who sins, we don't give niddui (excommunication) because we must protect the Talmid Chacham's honor
- Distinction: We say "to Allah" (euphemism?) we don't make niddui against you - only applies to Talmid Chacham status
Side note: Speaker mentions having a theory about this, thought of it today, will send it out
Side digression: Chad Gadya reference
- Dubner Magid's explanation: Why do we say Chad Gadya after the Seder? "The kids are a mess" (keeping them engaged)
- All these stories/myths about someone going to "Himmel" (Heaven) and seeing things
- Interpretation: These stories mean that in *this world* we can't say certain things openly
- We must respect Rabbanan and Geonim outwardly
- But "really it deserves patch" (criticism/correction)
- Practical reality: Being a Talmid Chacham is real and provides protection
- Key claim: Often the Beit Din shel Matah does things the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does NOT agree with
- Speaker claims to know many such cases
- Two categories:
1. Things Beit Din shel Matah shouldn't have done at all
2. Things they should do, but Beit Din shel Ma'alah doesn't agree
- Any time you punish someone between ages 13-20, Beit Din shel Ma'alah says "Are you crazy? The guy's a little baby"
- Beit Din shel Ma'alah only punishes from age 20
- Earthly perspective: "Your Rebbe, the guy came out of his pampers yesterday. Doesn't know anything. Tried to teach him something, maybe."
- Earthly justification: Maybe that's chinuch (education), maybe there's legal responsibility from 13
- Speaker: "It seems unreasonable to me"
- Not in ALL senses - "everyone knows that"
- Example: "Elim k'man d'lesvhu" - In Choshen Mishpat, we don't actually consider 13 to be of age
- But the general framework applies
- When speaker says "what's in Shamayim," he means the truth
- But "l'idach" (on the other hand), in this world people are limited
- "We can't have both, because sometimes we're stuck"
- "Good kind of shochad": We have to take certain biases/considerations
- Example: "I have to respect you because l'ma'aseh you're still my father"
- Various social obligations that constrain truth-telling
- People say "in Shamayim they would make sure" (justice would be done)
- Or: "If the Rebbe would have seen now, of course he would be modeh (admit/agree)"
- Speaker's response: "He would NOT be modeh"
- Why?: "Because he would be wrong" - but paradoxically "the real Rebbe is right"
- Resolution: "In Shamayim, if you're so sure about the truth - yeah, it's really like that"
- The heavenly version of the Rebbe agrees; the earthly version is limited
- Is the speaker saying malkus is the type of thing that *should* get rid of kares, "just like b'emes"?
- Rambam reframes these questions as questions of belief
- Then different question: Can we use "machria" (decisive ruling) on questions of belief?
- Clarification: Nobody ever expected everyone to drop dead at whatever age kares is supposed to kill you
- "That's not how it really works, ever"
- Rambam in Moreh Nevuchim on levels of punishment:
- "Averah she'esh v'kares" means: it's an averah AND we believe it's a "really really really big averah"
- Speaker's sardonic reading: "You deserve kares. I'm not doing anything to you... It throws you over the roof. It says you're a really really really evil guy... out of our community, however you want to call it. And that's all. And then they move on."
- But they give you malkus
- If they give you malkus, that cancels out the kares
- "There's a whole logic to it, but that's more like a different shitah"
- Answer: The only real difference (nafka mina l'ma'aseh) of kares is that it's "really, really bad"
- Student pushes: The really bad one gets malkus AND the not-so-bad one also gets malkus?
- Response: "Exactly. One deserves kares and if he wouldn't get malkus he would get kares. He actually would."
- Correction: "I think that he should. I don't know if he would but he should."
- "Maybe the Aibishter - that's his zechut"
Side remark: Teaching Daughters Torah
- "That's why you have to teach your daughter Torah, because otherwise she's going to realize that it doesn't really work"
- You have to know that "it's his zechut" (merit that saves him)
- "But the ma'aseh - you deserve it. For this thing, you deserve it."
- Can you actually die? "Got's es cheshboinos" (God has His calculations)
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- Every Yid has to have a Rebbe
- Every Yid has a LOT of Rebbes
- Universal problem: All of us have problems with our Rebbes - they don't agree with everything we say
- "Unfortunately"
- Reason: "That's because they're in Olam HaZeh. They're limited."
- Resolution: "But really, the Rebbe in Olam HaBa was modeh"
- Speaker had a Rebbe who came to him in a dream
- Asked him about something the Rebbe "hacks against very much" (strongly opposes)
- Dream-Rebbe said: "What are you crazy? Of course you should do it!"
- Speaker "really yelled like that"
- Conclusion: "It doesn't matter. He doesn't have the lefish (capacity) to understand"
Meta-moment: Speaker loses his train of thought
- "I don't remember why I wanted to talk about this"
- Was supposed to lead into a kasha (question)
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- "Very important kasha on reality"
- If someone has a teretz (answer), they should tell him
- The kasha is "like a whole shitah explaining the kasha"
- "Why is nobody normal without being meshuga?"
- Trying to say it without too many names (to avoid lashon hara)
- "Everyone is modeh that the teretz is somewhat in the kasha"
- Everyone admits the world is meshuga - in various ways, but everyone admits it somehow
- Claim: "The default is not to be a normal person"
- Student: "There is a gestalt of a well-adjusted person"
- Speaker: "That's noch a shigaon" (that's also a craziness)
- Clarification: "Whatever your definition of normal is, nobody is normal"
- Most people nowadays are "extremely relativists"
- They think the definition of good/healthy (mentally, spiritually) is:
- Whatever you think
- Whatever you like
- Whatever your neighbors like
- This "goes back to people's arbitrary preferences"
- "That's what most people actually think"
- "Some people have a God who is also one of the people that like things"
- Speaker's assessment: "That doesn't save them from their main problem"
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- Core claim: Most people think "good" means "whatever I want"
- Religious version: Some add that there's also a God who wants things, so good = what He wants (or also what He wants, depending on how frum)
- Speaker's verdict: This is "shiguan" (insanity) - everyone treats this as the default position
- Common phrase "whatever floats your boat" is false
- Counter-argument: Even boats don't float arbitrarily - there are good boats and bad boats
- You have to make a good boat; not just anything works
- This is "meshigas gomar" (complete craziness)
- A few people do live as if there are objectively good and bad things
- Disturbing observation: Most of these people turn out to be neo-Nazis or actual Nazis
- Speaker's personal experience: Finds thinkers who help understand Rambam and the tzadikim, validate Aristotle and Plato, then discovers they're literal Nazis
- Key concept: "Goy she-Litvak" (a gentile who follows tradition like a Litvak follows halacha)
- The Litvak follows halacha; the traditional goy follows his mesorah
- Problem: The goy's mesorah includes "Esav soneh l'Yaakov" (Esau hates Jacob)
- So the traditional goy who takes his tradition seriously becomes a real anti-Semite
- Clarification: "Litvak" here is a type, not about actual Litvaks
Side digression: Definition of Anti-Semite
- Joke cited: "An anti-Semite is someone who hates Jews more than is appropriate"
- Maybe from a goy's perspective, there's a "correct measure" of hating Jews
- All ethics is about correct measure - perhaps there's a permissible amount
- Personal observation: Every time speaker finds someone impressive, they also have serious problems
- This will happen to listeners with the speaker too
- Example cited: Someone said speaker has good pshat in Torah but also "a lot of craziness"
- Reality: Every thinker has "meshigasen, nonsense, nuttiness"
- Speaker finds someone who:
- Explains himself well and clearly
- Doesn't beat around the bush or bluff
- Correctly notes Torah doesn't require "heimishe hechsher" - just kosher
- But then: Same person talks about going to Uman for Rosh Hashanah as if it's obvious/required
- Claims "the holy Rebbe said if you don't go to Uman you don't have a tikkun"
- Speaker's objection: Where does Torah say this? This contradicts the person's own stated methodology
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- Speaker attended a fundraising conference ("how to get money from wrong pockets to right pockets")
- Describes it as teaching "capital allocation" - an important societal function
- Compares to self-help conferences generally
- Central critique: These conferences are about means, not ends
- They teach efficiency, goals, SMART goals, achievement
- But: This is "the logic of the reshoim" (wicked people)
- They never address what your goals *should* be
- Conference subtext (sometimes explicit): "I don't care if you're raising for Lefkowitz, Schwarz, Satmar, or Tzahal - same rules apply"
- Speaker's objection: What if someone is raising for Al-Qaeda? Shouldn't we throw them out?
- The "tricks" and ethics of efficiency are morally neutral in a dangerous way
- A person trained to be "efficient" can become like Eichmann
- Eichmann was extremely efficient - followed all principles of modern management
- Being an efficient Holocaust organizer still means "doing your job"
- Point: Efficiency itself is not a virtue without good ends
- Hypothetical: In olden days, powerful skills would be restricted
- If you knew how to "get anything out of anyone" (like Dale Carnegie)
- The Sanhedrin would make a cherem (ban)
- Only teach to people 35+ years old with three character witnesses
- Must verify they won't use for bad purposes
- These are powerful manipulation/sales tools
- We should have a "board" or control over who learns them
- Should only teach to "vetted people that already know they have good ends"
- Current reality: No such restrictions exist
- "Anything measured becomes a target"
- The medium becomes the message - always
- Critique: The course speaker attended doesn't cover this principle
- Key principle: "You become what you do, not what you believe in"
- Exception: Belief can be a kind of doing (like saying Shema twice daily)
- Final point: If you work on means all day, you become efficient, not good
- The practice of efficiency-focused work shapes character toward efficiency, not goodness
- Manipulation = trying to get something from someone that:
- Is not the good thing itself
- Is not really good for them
- Is good for me or some third purpose
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- Third-hand knowledge of someone who stole a million dollars from a Yid
- Method: Deposited a check twice; plain theft
- The thief justified it with a "shtickel Torah" (tofes l'baal chov b'makom shechav l'acherim)
- His defense: "I went to this course. They taught me how to be very efficient."
- Speaker's conclusion: The course made him a worse ganav, or at least enabled it
- People pursuing efficiency don't have to confront that they're learning to be a ganav
- Analogy: Teaching lockpicking
- Will you use it to rob a bank or help your bubbe when she's locked out?
- The teacher says "I don't care"—this is amoral teaching
- The amorality allows "80% evil" to sneak in unnoticed
Side Digression: Objection and Response
- Objection raised: "This applies to everything—don't sell lighters, don't let anyone drive..."
- Speaker's response: "This is part of the brainwashing you got from capitalism"
- Claim: You can't be a mashgiach without being moral; can't be a menahel without a mashgiach
- In Plato's ideal educational society, such tools would be hidden
- Analogy to nuclear weapons: Some tools we have enough sechel to restrict to proven-good people
- Applies to: Management, human management, becoming a good Rebbe
- Being "good" in the sense of efficient/effective is dangerous
- Should only be taught to people proven to be morally good first
- Historical precedent: Sodot ha-Torah, secret societies—"there's a reason for that. It's not crazy."
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- Claim: If you have a neshama, efficiency-based living doesn't work (baruch Hashem)
- Speaker knows ~100 people; none of the good ones manage their life this way
- Some manage their business this way, but more sporadically than they think
Side Digression: Vort on Nistar and Nigleh
- Quote: "Hanistrot l'Hashem Elokeinu v'hanigalot lanu ul'vaneinu"
- Interpretation offered: Everything in between (nistar and nigleh) is just "l'cha"—for you alone, don't share with others
- Challenge: Every self-help book says have a goal, make resolutions
- Speaker's question: Do you know anyone who actually succeeded with their New Year's resolution?
- "I don't know anyone that it worked for. It doesn't work for me."
- Provocative claim: "If there's someone that it works for him, I think you should stay away from him because they're a psychopath."
- Human beings are not machines; not "efficient causes"
- Definition: Machine = efficient cause = thing that only does ends (goals)
- What meaning actually is: Doing something that has a real goal/end, not a fake goal
- A "goal" in the problematic sense = something not itself good, but leads to something good
- Even then, what you're doing is the goodness of that thing
- Gemara principle: "Do things for themselves" (lishmah)
- If what you do is only leading to something good (not good itself), you won't succeed unless you turn yourself into a machine
- Most people can't turn themselves into machines
- Those who succeed at this become CEOs
- Key distinction: Someone in service of capitalism vs. someone providing for wife and children
- Providing for family = a very good end (though not the final end)
- Rambam cited: You don't go to Gan Eden for providing; only for what you do with that
- Getting a job, doing it well—all part of being a good father, husband, member of society
- The moment it separates from that: Definition of evil, becoming a machine
- A machine has no goal—"that's what evil is, that's a shin dalet"
- Modern complaint: "I have no meaning in my job"
- Zaida's confusion: "You gotta have a job"—he doesn't understand the complaint
- Zaida had meaning: his story was coming home to his wife with a check
- Definition of meaning: "There's a story that ends somewhere"
- Meaning is not a fancy feeling
- Jobs are set up so you can't do them if you care about coming home to your wife
- The language and concepts in the workplace are "machine concepts, not human concepts"
- To succeed, you must speak their language and work on their concepts
- Result: Very hard for someone with a neshama to live in that world
Question from class: What do you mean by neshama?
Answer:
- A neshama = a person who is a human being
- Some people forgot they're human beings and became machines
- A machine doesn't have a neshama
- Some people don't have a neshama—they're happy being machines
- Assumption about audience: "Nobody that listens to my shiur is happy with that"
- Direct statement: "I'm telling you, nobody can live like this"
- "If you manage to live for a long time like that, I don't want to know about you"
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- Blunt declaration: "I don't want to be your friend" if you're the type who lives by daily goals, monthly goals, KPIs, BCGs, etc.
- Claims none of his actual friends live this way
- Parallel claim: "Learn five blatt every day" approach never produced a lamdan (Torah scholar)
- Clarification: Not saying don't learn five blatt—saying if metrics become your "engine," your "gas," you're "nuts"
Side Digression: Neurodivergence Discussion
- Student raises neurodivergence as possible explanation
- Speaker's response: That's different—neurodivergent person has genuine *taanug* (pleasure) in lists and checkmarks
- Compares it to mathematical beauty, "the boxiness of the world"
- Key distinction: Someone who genuinely loves the aesthetic of organization ≠ someone forcing themselves into metrics-driven life
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- At the conference, felt uncomfortable with all the "tools" being offered
- Self-description: "I consider myself a good person allowed to use tools"
- Core problem: "I can't use them if I don't believe in them"
- Definition offered: Having a neshama = having a very hard time submitting to things you don't believe in
- Sometimes calls it "ego" but insists it's really the neshama
- Example: If told to grovel before someone for a favor, can't do it unless convinced that person deserves it or there's virtue in the act
Side Reference: Sales Book
- Mentions a sales book where Chapter 1 = why you must believe in what you sell
- Chapter 2 = how to make yourself believe if you don't
- Implication: Most people don't believe, and without belief, you won't succeed
- "We have a neshama, therefore I can't work" — Speaker rejects this as nonsense
- Core belief/hope: There IS a way to work and succeed without corrupting yourself
- "We don't have to be oifgevafn (given up) and not get anything done"
- Strong claim: People who CAN'T do the corrupt things are the good people
- Those who CAN do it are "corrupted"
- Outrage: "It's not normal that everyone has to become oys a human being (cease being human) in order to be successful"
- "The only reason I want to be successful is because I want to be a successful HUMAN BEING"
- As a "rebellious" or "oiver chochom" bochur, had complaints about yeshiva (too slow, too fast, etc.)
- Went to rebbes and mashpi'im with these complaints
- Their response pattern: "You're right, BUT..."
- "You're a bochur, submit to the yeshiva until you get married"
- "You're in kollel, submit until [next stage]"
- Never actually arrives at the point where you can "actually live"
- Thanked them for advice, then didn't follow it
- "I wanted to do it, it just didn't work because I have a neshama and I can't"
- Two types of advisors:
1. Manipulators (dumb ones) - just say "the system is corrupt but play to win" — this morally corrupts the person
2. Sincere ones who are "stuck in the same place"
- Better manipulation would be: Try to convince him the system is actually correct
- But maybe they know there are no good arguments
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- At the conference, one person gave a drusha (speech) that actually resonated
- Core message: "Shnorren (fundraising/collecting) is a mitzvah"
- It's NOT a mitzvah to make lots of money
- It's NOT a mitzvah to impress the wealthy
- The mitzvah is simply to DO the act — knock on doors, ask for money
- Success or failure doesn't matter
- Wake up, say "הנני מוכן ומזומן" (I am ready and prepared), go do your mitzvah
- Speaker's self-knowledge: "I know how to do mitzvos. I know how to do correct things."
- Can handle: "It's hard to do the good thing" — that's workable
- Cannot handle: "You just have to win" — doesn't know how to live with that
- The difference: One is about virtue, the other is about submission to meaningless success
- Others say: "Work on yourself to not take yourself seriously, to be a better slave"
- Speaker: "What? I don't know how that looks"
- Will do degrading work if forced (mortgage, rent) but won't accept that as an ideal
- Problem identified: It's also "nuts" to do things without a goal
- The drusha guy is "living without a goal" in some sense — "just doing things"
- The weird claim: Your job is to knock on doors and get thrown out, not to actually raise money
- "Hashem will send you money" — "Ask him what's his post office address"
- "I don't know anyone that Hashem sent money yet in my life"
- Someone filled cart with no money, borrowed at register
- Said "der Oybershter hot geholfen" (God helped)
- Speaker's response: "Some yid gave you the money. The Oybershter didn't give you nothing."
- If "Hashem shikst altz" (God sends everything), why go to the grocery at all?
- Why not sit home and wait for the fridge to fill up?
- "Who are you fooling?"
- Accusation: "Your picture of reality is totally not in sync with how God actually is"
- Belief in "a-causal world where things have nothing to do with their effects" — but of course they do
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- Context: Continuing discussion of the story where someone tells a shnorrer to trust in Hashem
- The person giving religious advice is "actually doing a mitzvah" - not just mooching
- Distinction made:
- The moocher's problem is *bein adam l'chaveiro* (interpersonal)
- The person with a job/mission has a *bein adam l'Hashem* (God-related) framework
- Sharp criticism: "Your words don't make any sense. You're saying words that you yourself don't know what they mean"
- "Hashem's gonna help" - what does this actually mean?
- Provocative claim: Religious people say these phrases constantly *because they don't really believe in Hashem*
- The constant invocation ("I'm doing it for Hashem") masks lack of genuine belief
- References Chovos Halevavos on internal states as potential deeper explanation
- Central puzzle: Why can't there be a "normal person" who gives the same practical advice but frames it correctly?
- Only the "toyne" (critic/questioner) said something sensible in the story
- Practical virtue: A shnorrer should brush his shoes and dress properly
- Reason: It's disrespectful to approach someone for money while looking disheveled
- Character trait (middos toivos): There's a proper *karakter middah* for how to be a shnorrer
- Alternative presentation: "The gvir doesn't like chnyokus (slobs). Dress well, you'll make more money."
- Key insight: Same exact practical advice can be given either:
1. As a mitzvah/virtue (proper self-presentation is inherently good)
2. As manipulation (dress well to extract more money)
- Even the virtuous framing isn't the "final good"
- Chain: Proper presentation → More donations → Money to yeshiva → Eventually becomes Torah
- The puzzle restated: Why is the only "normal" person (giving sensible advice) presented as a nutcase?
- Wrong way: Impress people through fakery
- Right way: Impress through correct preparation, proper setting, etc.
- "My job is not to impress people. I mean, it's to impress people, but that's just what it is"
- Impressing correctly is part of doing the job right
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- Claim: Every teenager spending "seventy years" watching TikTok is contemporary avodah zarah
- Two versions of the "religious" response:
1. TikTok was created directly by evil forces
2. The whole internet was created by the Sitra Achra (evil side) to test bnei yeshiva
- Practical advice everyone agrees with: Put filters on kids' phones/computers
- People who don't do this are either "nuts, don't have a choice, or their society is nuts"
- But: The only "normal" person is still somehow strange
- Context: Speech given ~20 years ago, people laughed at him
- Content (from Zohar):
- What's the difference between a mensch and a beheima (animal)?
- A mensch has ne'emana (uprightness/faith)
- A beheima walks bent over; a mensch walks upright
- If you walk around hunched (over your phone), you're a beheima
- Assessment: "He said the most normal thing" - but then what? The practical implications remain unclear
- People think being "well-adjusted" means moderate positions
- Example: "If you say no social media at all, you must be crazy. Thirty minutes a day is fine."
- This isn't thinking the problem through
- It's a "getchke" (idol/fetish) of well-adjustment
- The fantasy: "I can engage with everything on perfect terms and craft a perfect human experience that doesn't fall apart"
- This is another form of meshugas (craziness)
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- Modern Orthodox meshugas: They don't believe in the yetzer hara (evil inclination)
- Haredi meshugas: They don't believe in the yetzer tov (good inclination)
- Speaker re-read discussion with Modern Orthodox author about "correct sex education"
- Her approach: Sex is holy, do it correctly, don't be puritan, don't make kids hate their bodies
- Speaker's critique: She "totally missed the boat"
- No respect for the yetzer hara as a "really powerful destructive force"
- "It can make a mabul (flood)" - she doesn't recognize this
- Lives in "fantasy universe" that maybe exists in "three blocks of Teaneck for people between thirty and forty"
- Speaker agrees with her conclusions
- She's "a bit normal, very good"
- The other side (Haredi) is crazy because:
- Their solutions don't actually solve problems
- They don't believe in yetzer tov
- They don't believe in *derech hamitzvah* (the way of the commandment)
- Same kasha everywhere: You meet someone sensible, want to follow them, then discover they've "missed the boat" in some other way
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- This is how the discussion started: Nachman's critique of the chochom (wise man)
- The chochom is "retarded" - why can't he just give the same good advice properly?
- The teretz: The *derech ha'emesa* (way of truth) exists
- Qualification: "It's a better question than an answer"
- More of a "request" than a question
- Tentative claim: There IS a way to do all this correctly, at least to some extent
- Concession: "You have to be meshuge in reality, unfortunately"
- Retraction: "I don't think you have to be meshuge. I don't think we should say this drasha shouldn't be meshuge"
- Core insight: In this world, it's very hard for one person to "make anything, write anything without tipping over the boat"
- Possibly easier as a tzibur (community) than as an individual
- Implication: Any articulated position tends to become unbalanced
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- Core claim: Going against societal reality is extremely difficult without strong support
- Requires either:
- A "very strong backbone"
- Alternative social infrastructure (though "nobody actually has that")
- Archimedes' lever metaphor: You need something to take you out of the default position
- Key insight: That thing is "by definition meshuga" (crazy)
- Reference: Rambam's discussion of becoming a "desert father/mother" and leaving society
- Rambam is against it as an ideal but acknowledges it's sometimes necessary
- Crucial framing: Leaving society is actually an aveira (sin)
- Why? Because the correct way of being human is to live within society
- More specifically: to live within *your* society
- This is how God made people - the nature of humans is to stay where they are
- "Lech-lecha" (Abraham's departure) is a "nice romantic drasha" but not human nature
- Strong claim: If you're in a bad society, you WILL be bad
- Anyone claiming they can be good in a bad society is speaking "nonsense"
- Distinction:
- You can be a "good person" according to what that society defines as good
- But you cannot be a *really* good person if that society's definition is incomplete
- Identified as "main contention of modern orthodoxy": the belief you can be good while fully integrated
- American "good person" ideal (used to include church/synagogue attendance)
- Modern Orthodox person = "very good American Jew" - no problem with that
- But: If you believe the Torah's claim that being the best American is "still not good enough," you have a problem
- Personal belief expressed: In 2025, America doesn't have an ideal of good people
- "There are no good people in America as Americans"
- Therefore: You must go against your society
- This is framed as: "a very big bad thing" and "a huge sin" - but necessary
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- Going against society makes you meshuga by definition
- The "good ways" of doing this:
- Claiming "I have a Rebbe, I have a Torah, this absolute truth"
- Response to objection that this is "olam hadimyon" (fantasy world): "This is what you have to say"
- Extreme formulation: "We are the only people in history to know the truth"
- The 30 people in Lakewood have the complete, pure, distilled truth
- Not the Hasidim in Boro Park, not Five Towns, not Freehold
- "100 percent mizukak" (purified)
- Includes everything down to "how to tie your shoelaces"
- Method: Teach only this, nothing else, for 10-15 years (a generation)
- Result: People with "an anchor outside of America"
- Clarification: This anchor-creation is not itself the "actual good thing"
- Most people are still messed up
- But it creates a "separate pole" - like a "multipolar world"
- Without another pole, even your Yiddishkeit is "according to the sar (angel/prince) of America"
Side Digression: The Sar of America
- Reference to "shiv'im sarim" (70 angelic princes of nations)
- The sar of America "conquered like 15 sarim"
- "All my pshatim are from him" if you don't have an anchor outside
- Golus = living within a bad society
- To not be in golus, you need a really strong anchor
- Archimedes again: "You need a lever long enough to stand outside the world"
- Conclusion: "You have to be meshuga. I don't know of anyone that succeeds without being meshuga."
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- Anecdote: Friend became a Bianer Chassid (not his family's tradition)
- Speaker asked: Why Biana specifically? Could have been Breslov, Chabad
- Friend's answer: "In Biana there's the least Chassidus"
- Needs a Chassidus for practical reasons (children, shul, community)
- Looked for where you "have to do the least"
- Biana requirements: Come to Yerushalayim every Rosh Hashanah, wear the bekeshe
- No clothing requirements otherwise, minimal obligations
- Principle: Since we have to be meshuga, find the *least* meshuga thing that can take you out of reality
- The trick is finding something "less destructive"
- Amish reference: "It's not actually necessary to be entirely meshuga"
- You only need ONE anchoring point outside
- It must be real and somewhere else - "can't be the American version of Judaism"
- One thing where "we think entirely different than everyone"
- Belief that "everyone is just brainwashed, nebech, there's nobody to talk to"
- Framing: "Avraham HaIvri is not in a lechatchila situation" - this is b'dieved (after the fact) necessity
- "Everyone has to choose their poison"
- "Not such a bad poison"
- One separating belief: "I think that this is Moshiach"
- That's enough to create separation
- "Has too many meshugaim, but they don't need most of them"
- One or two crazy beliefs is enough
- Result: "This allows them to do a lot of things because they're free"
- Freedom comes from having that external anchor
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- Personal view: "Just being Jewish is more than enough"
- This is what he really thinks
- Only works for people who "realize how crazy it is to be Jewish"
- Problem: If you only talk with Jews your whole life seriously, you don't realize this
- Solution: Talk about "the true things" (God, etc.) with non-Jews
- Then you realize: "Just being a Jew... this is meshuga"
- "We are the Parah Adumah people"
- Why do we have Parah Adumah? Because it has no ta'am (reason/taste)
- It's "keeping your head above the water"
- "It's going to purify us from all the shtussim (nonsense)"
- The irrational commandment saves us precisely because it's irrational
Final Jab at Litvaks
- Objection raised: But a Litvak doesn't wear Rabbeinu Tam's tefillin (the second pair)
- Response: "At that point Litvak nebech thinks that that's true"
- Implication: Litvaks have rationalized away the meshuga element and thus lost their anchor
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- Central claim: The solution to needing an external reference point is embracing being a "poshut'e yid" (simple Jew)
- This identity serves as "keeping your head above the water"
- It "purifies us from all the shtusim (nonsense)"
- Key feature: Practices like tefillin work precisely because they don't have a rational "ta'am" (reason)
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- Explicit admission: What's being proposed is a "chet" (sin), 100% an aveirah
- "You're not allowed to do it"
- Conditional justification:
- If the world were good, this would be forbidden
- It makes you "a bad person" - specifically an "unbalanced person, which is the definition of bad"
- But: When trying to bring in truth or establish "a base of reality that is not in this one," you need something to extract yourself from society
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- Conventional wisdom reversed: People think America is easy for Jews, Russia was hard
- Actual claim: Russia made it EASY to be a Jew
- Just make a bris = anti-communism, anti-atheism = you're a Jew
- You become "kol ha'olam kulo me'ever echad" (the whole world on one side, you on the other)
- The subsumption problem: Liberalism says "we're all crazy, let's be crazy that way, no problem"
- In America: "You make a bris, so everyone has their meshugaas, you have your meshugaas"
- Result: You're NOT set apart - you're just one flavor of acceptable craziness
- Requirement: "In your mind there has to be something: No, not really. This is the cause, this is the reality"
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- Everyone agrees it's crazy to rent a $30,000 hall for a 17-18 year old son
- "He didn't do nothing. He didn't even meet his kallah yet"
- Crucial observation: It costs NOTHING to not do it - you actually save money
- Provocative claim: "Most social pressure is imagined"
- Speaker claims personal experience: "I've tried it out, I'm telling you"
- COVID proved it - people made simple weddings, "it was so easy"
- Only need two mechutanim (in-laws) to agree
- The empirical observation: "The only guy that actually does it is a meshugene that believes he worships a dead grave in Ukraine"
- Why it works for them: "I'm not one of these people. My religion is a different religion. What makes me tick is something else."
- They have something "in the name of which" to go against society
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- "When people say it's society, it's not society - it's their God"
- Legitimate delegation: Most things you correctly delegate to society
- Example: "How do you know how a wedding looks?"
- You won't find it in Hilchos Ishus
- Minhag = "whatever people do because it's Jewish"
- "You have no other God. You have no God but what everyone else does"
- You can complain against your God - "everyone complains against their God, that's why he's a God"
- Core logic: "The only way to act in the name of something else is to actually have something else"
- "The only God that actually does something different is the guy with a different God"
- Examples of resistance that require a "different god":
- Resisting the internet
- Resisting certain chassidish practices
- Resisting birth control
- These only work for "people that believe that God himself told them" specifically
- "God never said that by the way, but it has to be something"
- "You have to have something in the name of something to live"
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- Rambam's advice to "go to the midbar" is meant literally
- Chazon Ish to Satmar Rebbe reference: Jews (Haredi Jews specifically) have made this collective choice
- "The literal desert doesn't make a difference" - they created separation
- It's a "big sin": "It makes them crazy. They're all nuts"
- "They're all evil in some sense because of that"
- Mechanism: "When you're unbalanced, everything is open in some sense"
- Additional problem: Within that world, "you don't have a view from anywhere else"
Student Challenge
- "Then you need to be a little frei" to have perspective
- Speaker: "You're not answering the question"
- Response: "I'm diagnosing the problem... I'm not answering the empirical question"
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- Diagnosis: If something is "normal" it won't want to be separate, because "normal means evil"
- Therefore: "You have to be evil a little bit"
- Proposal: "Find the least destructive meshugaas to save you"
- "We should just be Jewish and it's more than enough meshugaas"
- "We don't realize how meshuga it is"
- "It's more than enough meshugaas to just not eat pork"
- Critical reframe: "It's not a dietary preference to eat kosher. It's a meshugaas"
- Chabadniks articulate this well: "We don't have a dietary preference, it's a meshugaas"
- The honest formulation: "We believe that our God came 5000 years ago to a mountain and told us please my dear Jews don't eat pork. Don't ask me why. It doesn't make any sense. I promise you it makes no sense. If anyone tells you it makes sense, he's lying."
- "Now you could be friends with a goy, you could do everything"
- "Not gonna hurt you because you're already totally out of it"
- Flexibility: "Everyone should find some other thing that personally works"
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- Objection: "It's so crazy it's actually hard to be friends with a goy then"
- Response: You can't be two-faced - you can't pretend you don't put on tefillin
- "Being the person who puts on tefillin in the morning, you just can't say it"
- Proposed ideal: "Everyone has their weird things and we have this weird thing"
- Problem: "We have too many"
- Not eating at meals
- Going out to daven mincha
- Multiple visible practices
- Speaker's workplace experience: 80% secular workplace
- "There's nothing weirder than mincha"
- The scene: "People literally on their computers 10 feet away, on their feet zusammen, whispering to the wall for 10 minutes and come out like nothing happened"
- Speaker admits: "I don't daven mincha" (in that context)
- His mincha is in a frum place with frum partners - "much less of an aveirah"
- Observation: If they were actually talking to God, that would be one thing
- "But they're not even talking to God, they're just davening mincha"
- Davening b'yechidus (alone): Would be more normal - "very normal to whisper a prayer in the corner"
- But the chazarah (repetition): Makes it maximally strange
- Aloud, everybody, shh quiet
- Not even going slow
- "Doesn't look like we're taking it seriously at all"
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- Practical point: Davening b'yechidus (praying alone) loses the social dimension
- Whispering a prayer privately is "very normal" and doesn't mark you as different
- Communal prayer creates visible distinctiveness that private prayer lacks
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- Central claim: Being outside of society is "really the root of all evil"
- Reasoning: All character virtues (maalos hamiddos) exist to create a functioning society
- Society is the means; it "has to do something" beyond just existing
- Strong statement: "Cutting yourself off society is the worst thing you could do. You deserve death for that."
- Describes people who come to daven without caring about social perception
- "They don't feel the eyes looking at them"
- These individuals "have nothing to gain from it"
- Personal admission: "I've been a freak... I'm whispering to the wall"
- This is presented as the necessary meshugaas - doing something that looks crazy but works
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- Zionists had "the fantasy of creating society"
- Problem identified: Their society became "a likkut (collection) of all the messed-upness" from Russia, America, England
- Once somewhat successful, "all the leeches come" - people selling soda cans in Tel Aviv rather than building
- Claim: "Just to be a Zionist is crazy... it still is"
- Work went into normalizing the idea but "never really managed to become a normal idea"
- Unique historical claim: "There's actually no successful people that actually just picked themselves up from one place and went to the other place and claiming that it's their homeland"
- Jews are "the only people that ever did that"
- Distinction: "It's normal when it just is that way, but it's not normal to make it be that way"
- Interesting claim cited: "The fact that people are not Zionist in Israel is the biggest success of Zionism"
- Young Israelis now feel native - "my father was here, my grandfather was here"
- "Oh, we finally became natives!" - the meshugaas succeeded by becoming invisible
- The ideal of "making your full society and take responsibility for everything also seems a little meshuga"
- Key principle: "You can't have moral autarky, it's not going to work either"
- Conclusion: "We're back to this picking our poison of where we want to be meshuga"
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- Seven different levels of Amish exist
- Counterintuitive finding: "The more frum ones are actually more frei"
- Modern Amish have more chumros (stringencies) about technology
- Because modernizers came and added restrictions, "now they're struggling more"
- "There's a lot of kullas (leniencies) from being a chassidishe yeshiva also"
- Being a "kat" (sect) is not just being machmir - "it lets you do more things underneath it"
- Trade-off principle: "You gotta pay a certain thing and..."
- "A yarmulke is more than enough crazy"
- Adding hat, tzitzit visible, etc. is "overdone"
- But you need something "strong enough" as a marker
Side Digression: Techelet and Ancestral Practice
- Frummest people do things their "alte zeides" (ancestors) did even without Shulchan Aruch basis
- Mitzvah tanz example - "a shtikel fritzus" done because ancestors did it
- Ironic observation: Those who dress like their ancestors also "like to do the same aveiros as their babe"
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- Key claim: "It's not correct that the more things you add, the more separated you become from society"
- "In certain ways the Satmar people are the most Americanized people there are around"
- "Not Satmar people are the most Yiddish people there are around"
- Non-Satmar shuls are "hamshach (continuation) of the shul in Europe"
- Satmar created "actual modern-style American shuls"
- New Satmar shul has modern fixtures - "no modern Orthodox shul would do that... not with such courage, not with such familiarity"
- Reason: "There's other things making them meshuga" so they can be modern elsewhere
- "Everyone chooses where to be meshuga... everyone choosing where to be not assimilated"
Side Digression: The Old Shul Example
- Reference to an old shul that modernized "one fixture" and "you can feel the dissonance for miles"
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Side Digression: The Old Shul Example
- Reference to an old shul that modernized "one fixture" and "you can feel the dissonance for miles"
- No Lakewood shul has old-style wall panels anymore - "everyone is modern"
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- Final formulation: "Everyone should try to do meshuga, but not too much meshuga"
- This captures the entire lecture's thesis: You need external markers of distinctiveness to escape social reality, but calibration matters
- The goal is strategic meshugaas - enough to maintain identity, not so much as to become dysfunctional
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1. Epistemological Foundation (Parts I-II): Stories about what happens in shamayim are not empirical reports but Torah-based reasoning about ultimate truth. "Dinei shamayim" represents unconstrained moral truth, while "dinei adam" represents constrained practical law.
2. The Rebbe Framework (Part III): Every Jew needs a Rebbe, but all Rebbes are limited by Olam HaZeh. The "heavenly version" of the Rebbe represents what they would say if unconstrained by earthly limitations.
3. The Central Kasha (Parts IV-V): Why is nobody normal without being meshuga? The default modern position of moral subjectivism is itself insane, yet those who believe in objective good often turn out to be problematic (e.g., Nazis).
4. Critique of Efficiency Culture (Parts VI-IX): Modern efficiency-focused education teaches means without ends, which is "the logic of the reshoim." Dangerous knowledge should be restricted. Humans are not machines, and efficiency-based living doesn't work for people with a neshama.
5. The Neshama Problem (Parts X-XI): Having a neshama means having difficulty submitting to things you don't believe in. This creates tension with corrupt systems. The "mitzvah framing" of work provides psychological relief but has its own problems.
6. Critique of Empty Religious Language (Parts XII-XIV): Religious phrases like "Hashem will help" often mask lack of genuine belief. Both Modern Orthodox (ignoring yetzer hara) and Haredi (ignoring yetzer tov) approaches are imbalanced.
7. The Necessity of Meshugaas (Parts XV-XIX): Going against society requires an external anchor, which by definition appears "meshuga." The Rambam acknowledges leaving society is sometimes necessary despite being an aveira. Various communities (Lakewood, Breslov, Chabad) create this anchor through different "crazy" beliefs.
8. Just Being Jewish (Parts XIX-XXI): The speaker's actual position is that simply being Jewish - properly understood as irrational - provides sufficient separation. Practices like kashrut and tefillin work precisely because they have no rational ta'am.
9. The Liberalism Problem (Parts XXII-XXIV): American liberalism is uniquely dangerous because it subsumes Jewish distinctiveness as just another acceptable "meshugaas." Russia paradoxically made it easier to be Jewish because opposition was clear.
10. Society as God (Parts XXIV-XXV): Social conformity functions theologically - society IS most people's god. Only those with a "different god" can actually resist social pressure. The Haredi solution creates separation but at the cost of becoming unbalanced.
11. Practical Applications (Parts XXVI-XXXII): Find the "least destructive meshugaas" that can anchor you outside society. A yarmulke is sufficient; more isn't necessarily better. Counterintuitively, more chumros don't equal less assimilation - Satmar is in some ways more Americanized than non-Satmar communities.
12. Final Principle (Part XXXIII): "Everyone should try to do meshuga, but not too much meshuga" - strategic distinctiveness calibrated to maintain identity without becoming dysfunctional.
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1. The impossibility of articulation: Any clear position tends to "tip over the boat" - truth may be more achievable communally than individually.
2. The aveirah l'shma paradox: The necessary separation from society is itself a sin that makes you unbalanced.
3. The empirical question: How does one actually live with a neshama in a corrupt system without either becoming corrupt or becoming dysfunctional?
4. The visibility problem: Jewish practice is too visible and too frequent to easily normalize, yet communal prayer loses something essential when done privately.
5. The social necessity: Cutting yourself off from society is "the root of all evil," yet remaining fully integrated in a bad society guarantees you will be bad.
Instructor:
If anyone knows the tarot, they can tell me, but then we'll try to learn a little bit about Aristotle. Today, an interesting thing happened. I was discussing, my wife wants to go on a trip somewhere for an event. And I was saying that I don't have the courage to go to Italy or wherever she wants to go. And my son said, yeah, Tati just wants to take a Rambam [Maimonides] on Aristotle and he's happy. So, it's a good trip.
You know where Aristotle is? 3,000 years ago. A lot more interesting than Italy with a bunch of tourist traps. So, it's very interesting, right? If you want to go to the Colosseum, there should be one more selfie. Make an AI selfie, I'm sure. That's a different Rishir [matter/topic], right? You know that Rishir already, about the past.
Instructor:
Who was here complaining that they don't have friends? Ah, someone's upset with your shop, company they love my friends. I tell, look, I have a lot of friends—not all of them are my friends, but some of them.
You know the story with the Shaagas Aryeh [Rabbi Aryeh Leib ben Asher, 1695-1785, author of *Sha'agas Aryeh*] that the swim shank [bookshelf] fell on him and he said that two people were not michelin [forgiving]. I don't remember the details. Shaagas Aryeh was a sharp lead [sharp scholar], right? He was good like on everyone. He didn't have a problem with making his own chat [arguments/disputes].
And once he was learning at night and the swim shank fell on him, and he said, why did they fall on him? Because he's speaking with all of them. Like one day they got there and they're coming. So he said, he tried to ask them all of them were moichel [forgiving] in his heart for two. And he said, which two are still mad at him? And that's why he still has that—he didn't ever finish a line from that zet [sitting/session] because they're kabdun [holding grudges] of those people.
So anyways, b'goshem [with the Name/thank God], all of our people are moichel. Even if they're not moichel, then b'olem [in the world/in truth] they're moichel, like in all the masses. You have to believe this. Nobody here has a Rebbe that there is a krik [complaint/grudge] to us.
Instructor:
You know there is like a Masa [story], this is Tafsir al-Jatayris [unclear reference], there is a Masa with—there are a lot of such stories, like there was a B'yakefem [Rabbi Yaakov Emden], Narben Snaev [Rabbi Yonasan Eibeshitz], just like buried close to each other or something, or someone put them close to each other on the shelf and he said that with each other.
Where did that come from? Where? Apparently, I heard a story that, basically, Rakhwan Magad [the Nadvorna Rebbe], and the only spot to bury him was near Ben Zahim's ship [Rabbi Yonasan Eibeshitz's grave]. And many of you in the town were close enough to ask him what they should do. He said, we can't bury them next to each other. He said, I heard, it was like a legend that goes around, he said, Shah Mubarak [in heaven] is the one who died. Ah, most of them are children. Shall I bury them together?
Really, the point is that it's just a burial fight. That's the point. Interesting.
Okay, this thing was good to me. And then, okay, but there's such legends. There's many more such legends of people that—like, but the name of these legends, like all the legends about—everyone knows that nobody was actually here and came back, like the right?
Student:
Right.
Instructor:
Someone said, whoever said—and the psalm writer said, what do you mean? You went to him only. You thought they're asking that there's no churis [disputes/arguments]? What are you talking about? He said, what do you mean?
Instructor:
So what does this mean? You ever heard from me this gemurah [Gemara: Talmudic text]? Now I have a gemurah I could talk to you. That's this night you finish the gemurah. Very important.
This year there was someone who was by Mishav [unclear] and he said, ah, so you have a pshat [interpretation] in the Torah that makes sense. Why don't you tell it to everyone? So maybe I should try. Everyone thinks it doesn't make sense.
So, it's written in the Gemurah. So, it's written in the Gemurah. So, it's written in the Gemurah. So, Umar Rav [Rav said], Rav was a sheep [sharp scholar], right? Umar Rav, Rav, Rav, Rav, Rav—this is the Rambam about this, right? You know.
Rav Yosef doesn't understand Rav. Rav said that—or I mean, how do you know that Kudus [holiness/the matter] is something that—Rav Yosef means that—no, there's a Rambam here in Makkas [Tractate Makkot] and in Saiten [Sanhedrin] another place that says that we don't call any and Sanhedrin where Paskin's [where they rule on] all the things you have to believe, but that's a different Shemis [matter/topic].
So you understand the question—how do—Rav Yosef had a good question: how do you tell me what to look at? Does whatever they want, or maybe they have—but how do you know?
Instructor:
And Abai [Abaye] told him—as Abai was the answer of Yosef Skarsgård [Rav Yosef's student]—told him, so Abai said, wow, this is the first time we know what's going on in Himmel [heaven/shamayim].
Rav Shimon Lavi said there were three things that Ben Shilmata [Beis Din shel Maalah: the Heavenly Court] did, and Ben Shilmata were masking [agreeing with]—famous Rav Shimon Lavi actually Rav Shimon Lavi went to the Himmel, so it's Nishkanai [it's a problem/difficulty].
But Abai didn't think of this problem. Maybe he understood that if she would have walked in him all the same way, he said, we have a—we have a—in other words when I say, I just mean to say that I think that he's correct. The Pusik [pasuk: verse] seems to agree with him.
Instructor:
So what do we learn from this? Very important, very important, important result. And there's also a piece of this, but I'm going to tell you a piece shot [interpretation], for the rationalists to agree.
Everything that we—there's all kinds of stories, the Hasidic stories, you know, the Vilna Goan [Vilna Gaon], you know, the Ming Chiruf [Reb Chaim Elazar Shapiro] said a story: When the Vilna Goan came to Shemayim [heaven], they wanted to put him in Ghanim [Gehinnom: purgatory/hell], because he was a misnagit [opponent of Chassidism]. Ming Chiruf said this story. He was a loser, he was a very rationalist guy.
Until the Torah came, and wrapped itself around him, and said he learned about the Torah, we don't let him put him in Gehenem [Gehinnom]. And that's how he was saved from Gehenem. Because Baruch Hashem [thank God], the building was done. And that saved him for Zavaira [the aveira: sin] of his nagdis [opposition/being a misnaged].
Instructor:
And, I mean, you know, the Chassidim, the, you know, the Reb Nusn [Reb Noson] had a—Reb Nusn Yusuf [Reb Noson of Breslov] from Breslev. Reb Nusn, yeah? You know? What's the funny?
Ram Nusn said, Ram Nusn had a shver [father-in-law], I forgot his name, Rabbi Chil, I don't know, I don't know his name. Do you know his name? This guy is a snook, I don't know his name. Ram Nusn's shver was a roof [rav: rabbi]. It was a very famous roof. It was a besnaged [misnaged] Litvak.
And the Reb Nachman [Rebbe Nachman of Breslov] told Ram Nusn, you know that your shver is a tzaddik [righteous person]? And he looked at him like, a tzaddik? It's a Litvak. He said, okay, yeah, he does one of Aira [aveira: sin], so he has a besnaged. So he'll get one more patch and get him and more than the other tzaddikim [righteous people]. Like, what's a tzaddik? A tzaddik doesn't get pet [patches/punishments]. A tzaddik also does a virus [aveiros: sins]. So he has one more virus. It doesn't become a tzaddik.
So there's a lot of stories in that story. In any case, one of the stories that's been going on in the 90s is that we see that it's a virus to be a litvak. But, come on, every tzaddik does a virus. It doesn't hassle you. What's so funny?
Instructor:
Me, so the same way the villain going to the big provider, you know, like the brother sold Yosef [Joseph], at least that's because of the lighter. While you're laughing at me, you know, made a item [cherem: ban/excommunication]. You know the villain [Vilna Gaon] literally signed a item on a bunch of Jews that you shouldn't marry them, you shouldn't do business with them, hit their dumb mom [hiter dumam: permitted their blood]—like the Baltani [Baal HaTanya: Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi] says it's not a serious provider.
I'm serious now. I'll let her do that. Even if he was right, he had good criticism—not saying all Shabbat shiva [Shabbos teshuvah/unclear], you know—say, tell your shal shida [unclear] that it's the other way around. What's the difference? Make a chayrim [cherem], it's not a moment. Don't let it do such things, to lose a vayre [aveira].
This is the same vayre as Rabban Baravot [Yerovam ben Nevat], the same vayre as Yosef and his brothers, old problems. That's what it's talking about, nothing new. Same problem of Ezra, of the Prishin [Perushim: Pharisees], a lot of people.
Now, whatever—oh, this is going to get us to your shal [question]. Anyways, wait, just wait.
Instructor:
So anyways, back to the story. So I'm trying to explain you something. So what was the point of these stories, all these stories? How did he know? Like if you're a Litvak, like very cute, Khamelos de Shapiro [Reb Chaim Elazar Shapiro] made up a story, like we told him. Oh, he said that about Echeverov's head [Bat Ayin]. Okay, and then we told about Echeverov. It doesn't solve anything.
Let's do a towel over there. Might help. Thank you. That is like this.
In other words, what does it mean? Like just like when it says in the Gemurah, what does—who cares? I understand it means the business is going to come to your bank account and take out the money. Means what?
Instructor:
Means that we think that really, really you're at fault. It's the opposite that people think. Means human reason, even more than, because you know we're limited by procedural considerations, all kind of legal things. But if you ask—if you ask me, you should pay.
Student:
It does great work in torts, by the way.
Instructor:
What?
Student:
It does very good work in torts. That.
Instructor:
Chayav Adin Hashemayim [liable in the judgment of Heaven].
Student:
Oh, because of all the grommas [indirect causation].
Instructor:
You have to draw these lines.
Student:
Yeah.
Instructor:
Second of all, either something over-complicates for it or just under for that. Because it doesn't have this idea of just like—but really, you should.
Student:
So if you want to be Yoitz Yidei Hashemayim [fulfill the judgment of Heaven], you should pay.
Instructor:
Right. Right? If you're El Echid [an ehrliche Yid: an honest Jew], you Chayav Adin Hashemayim. So, right? Rechayav v'din shemayim [liable in the judgment of Heaven]. Very serious thing.
Instructor:
So how do we know that's dina shemayim [the law of Heaven]? Because shemayim is just a word for what we think is the real truth. In the Olam HaZeh [this world] we're limited. Even if there's a truth, you can't always do it. Sometimes you have to do bad things because they're worth it and so on. But in shemayim, that's where they don't have these problems. They could give you...
Instructor: The Olam HaZeh [Olam HaZeh: this world, the physical realm] have a problem. You can't really punish tzaddikim [tzaddikim: righteous people]. Hashem [Hashem: God, lit. "The Name"] can only punish the tzaddikim by themselves, but that's a different story.
But we have a problem. If you're a tzaddik [tzaddik: righteous person], you can't—for Talmid Chacham [Talmid Chacham: Torah scholar, lit. "student of a wise person"] sins, we don't give them a niddui [niddui: excommunication, rabbinic ban], because we have to protect the Talmid Chacham and so on. Right?
But we say to Allah [unclear reference, possibly euphemistic], we don't make a niddui against you. It's only making a niddui on Talmid Chacham, but that's different. If you're a Baal HaBayis [Baal HaBayis: householder, layperson], we don't—
I have a theory, I was thinking about this today, that's why—I have a theory about that, why it is. I realize that there's a reason. So if you all get it, I'll send it to you. It's a nice table, this big table.
Instructor: So the Kiddush [Kiddush: sanctification, possibly referring to ritual or ceremony]—this is a laugh. It's kind of—the kids, you don't know. The officer who said, why do we say—why do we say after the Seder [Seder: Passover ritual meal] so the kids are a mess? So how do we know what was in him?
All these stories, all these fantasies, all these myths about someone went to the Himmel [Himmel: heaven, Yiddish] and he saw and so on. What it means to say is that, yeah, in this world we can't say these things. And of course we have to respect the Baal HaGaon [Baal HaGaon: the great Torah scholar, the Gaon] and so on. But really it deserves patch [patch: criticism, correction].
But l'ma'aseh [l'ma'aseh: in practice, actually] it's Talmid Chacham. And that's a true thing. Being a Talmid Chacham is a real thing—it protects you also.
Instructor: How do you say it in Shamayim [Shamayim: heaven]? Same thing when they get murdered. This is a normal thing. All these things that we say—the Beit Din shel Matah [Beit Din shel Matah: the earthly court], the Beit Din shel Ma'alah [Beit Din shel Ma'alah: the heavenly court]. What does it mean, the Beit Din shel Ma'alah?
Sometimes the Beit Din shel Ma'alah—many, often—the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does things that the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does not agree with him [sic: likely means "the Beit Din shel Matah does things the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does not agree with"]. I know many of them. Not only—even the things that something the Beit Din shel Ma'alah shouldn't have done at all. Something they should do, but Beit Din shel Ma'alah does not agree with him.
Instructor: Just like, for example, any time—very important—any time you punish a kid that's between 13 and 20, Beit Din shel Ma'alah says, "Are you crazy? The guy's a little baby." Beit Din shel Ma'alah's only man is from 20.
What does that mean? What does that mean? Does that be real? Well, your Rebbe [Rebbe: rabbi, teacher], the guy came out of his pampers yesterday. Doesn't know anything. Tried to teach him something, maybe.
But in Beit Din shel Ma'alah, maybe that's chinuch [chinuch: education, child-rearing]. Maybe we have some level of legal responsibility from when you're 13. It seems unreasonable to me. But in any case, going to the Jewish law, it's like that in some sense. I'm pretty sure not in all senses, of course, but in some senses.
Everyone knows that it's not all senses, right? Elim k'man d'lesvhu [Aramaic phrase, possibly: "they are like those who are not of sound mind"]. In Choshen Mishpat [Choshen Mishpat: section of Jewish law dealing with civil matters], we don't actually consider 13 to be of age. But in any case, that's another idea of the same idea, right?
Instructor: So in the same thing, when I tell you that what's in Himmel, I mean to say the truth. But l'idach [l'idach: on the other hand], in this world, people are limited by all kinds of limitations. And we can't have both, because sometimes we're stuck, and then we have to take shochad [shochad: bribery, bias]. Shochad meaning the good kind of shochad, right?
I have to respect you, because l'ma'aseh you're still my father, or whatever. All kinds of things like that.
Instructor: So in the same way, when people say, you know, in Himmel they would make sure. Right? So if someone—or other times, sometimes people, even when people are still alive, or even without the Himmel, they say, you know, if the Rebbe would have seen now, of course he would be modeh [modeh: admit, agree].
He would NOT be modeh. But why wouldn't he be modeh? Because he would be wrong. But of course the Rebbe really is right. The real Rebbe is right. So in Himmel, if you're so sure about the truth—yeah, it's really like that, of course. It wasn't a surprise.
Student: Right, very good. So he's saying—just quickly to push a shot on this—is he saying that he thinks that malkus [malkus: lashes, corporal punishment] is the type of thing that should get rid of karet [karet: spiritual excision, divine punishment], just like b'emes [b'emes: in truth]? That's what it should be?
Instructor: What am I trying to say in this particular remark?
Student: Yeah, it's a question of belief, right?
Instructor: Like, Rambam [Rambam: Maimonides, Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 1138-1204] reframes all these questions in questions of belief. And then he has a different question: if we use machria [machria: decisive ruling] in questions of belief, maybe you'll add whatever you want. But the question is, what does it mean to say that—what does it mean to say that you're going to—
Just to be clear, nobody ever expected everyone to drop dead at whichever age karet is supposed to kill you. That's not how it really works, ever. So what does it mean?
It means that we believe that—Rambam says this in Moreh Nevuchim [Moreh Nevuchim: Guide for the Perplexed, Maimonides' philosophical work]. He talks about the levels of anashim [anashim: people]. It says that averah she'esh v'karet [averah she'esh v'karet: a sin that carries the punishment of karet] means it's an averah [averah: sin, transgression] and we also believe that it's really, really, really big averah. That's what it says.
I'm sorry, it's reading cynical, but if you don't believe me you can bring a Gemara [Gemara: Talmud] and then you'll see. It means it's really bad. This is—you really deserve karet for this. You deserve it. You deserve karet. I'm not doing anything to you, right? It's really funny. It throws you over the roof. It says you're a really, really, really evil guy—not evil, I don't know, out of our community, however you want to call it. And that's all. And then they move on.
But they give you malkus. Now, R' Chananiah [R' Chananiah: Rabbi Chananiah, Talmudic sage] says, if they give you malkus, they give you malkus. And R' Chananiah says, now that they have malkus, that cancels out the karet. There's a whole logic to it, but that's more like a different shitah [shitah: approach, opinion]. As the Mitzvah Shetl [unclear reference] was about this.
Student: How does that equate to, let's say, an averah that you do get malkus for?
Instructor: No, you get—this averah that have malkus without karet.
Student: No, no, no, right, exactly. Because we don't say that you have karet. The only real difference—that the whole nafka mina l'ma'aseh [nafka mina l'ma'aseh: practical difference] of karet is that it's really, really bad.
Instructor: You're exactly—you deserve karet.
Student: No, but I think we're asking—so the really, really bad one gets malkus, and the really, really not so bad one also gets malkus?
Instructor: Exactly. One deserves karet, and if he wouldn't get malkus he would get karet. He actually would.
Student: What he—
Instructor: I think that he should. I don't know if he would, but he should. Maybe the Aibishter [Aibishter: the Almighty, God, Yiddish]—that's his zechut [zechut: merit], right? That's why you have to teach your daughter Torah, because otherwise she's going to realize that it doesn't really work. You have to know that it's his zechut.
But the ma'aseh [ma'aseh: deed, reality], right? The ma'aseh—you deserve it. For this thing, you deserve it. You can actually die? God has his cheshbonot [cheshbonot: calculations, reckonings]. Like he says, da'at ish l'tumam da'is [da'at ish l'tumam da'is: a person's knowledge is according to their simplicity/integrity, possibly Aramaic phrase].
Instructor: Yeah. So, l'inyan al l'inyan achar [l'inyan al l'inyan achar: from topic to topic, tangentially related] is that the same thing. Every Yid [Yid: Jew] has to have a Rebbe. Every Yid has a lot of Rebbes. Now, all of us have problems with our Rebbes that they don't agree with everything we say. Unfortunately.
That's because they're in Olam HaZeh [Olam HaZeh: this world]. They're limited. But really, the Rebbe in Olam HaBa [Olam HaBa: the World to Come, the afterlife] was modeh.
Instructor: How did I start saying this? This is full circle, no?
Student: Yeah, but I was saying something about the—I was saying something about something.
Instructor: You don't remember. This was supposed to lead into the question you were saying. The question of?
Student: Okay, this is a ma'aseh [ma'aseh: story, incident].
Instructor: So everyone has to have a Rebbe, and then a little bit of—l'ma'aseh the Rebbe's modeh. I already told you the ma'aseh—I had a Rebbe that came to him in a dream. I asked him something that he hacks against very much, and I do. And he said, "What are you crazy? Of course you should do it."
So I really yelled like that. It doesn't matter. He doesn't have the koach [koach: strength, capacity] to understand.
Student: So, now, a lot of you learned from this.
Instructor: I don't know, I want to say something. Getting to the kasha [kasha: question, difficulty]?
Student: No, you said in the middle you said it's going to be the kasha.
Instructor: I have a question, but why did I—I'm trying to remind myself of a story.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: So, now, I have a big kasha that has important kasha, very important kasha on reality. And if someone—when I was a teretz [teretz: answer, resolution], they could tell me. My kasha—I like all my kashas, it's like a whole shitah [shitah: systematic approach] explaining the kasha, really.
But my kasha is basically: why is nobody normal without being meshuga [meshuga: crazy, Yiddish]? Very simple kasha. I'm going to try to say it without too many names, so it's going to be too much to show now.
In other words, everyone is modeh that the teretz is somewhat in the kasha, if I explain it this way. Everyone is modeh that the world is meshuga, right? Everyone is modeh. In all kinds of ways, but everyone is modeh in some way or another. Anyone, the default is not to be a normal person. Maskeh [maskeh: agreed, understood]? Anyone is maskeh?
Student: Mushul [mushul: parable, example]?
Instructor: No, there is a gestalt of a well-adjusted person.
Student: Yeah, yeah, that's—
Instructor: No, no, we don't have to define—oh gosh, no, we don't. Because I said, whatever your definition of normal is, nobody is normal.
Student: But to have me in headphones is part of this well-adjusted, maybe you're not going to find—
Instructor: I don't mean that that feels the whole world normal, no. Give me an example of what you mean, please. Give me an example.
Student: One example is that everyone thinks that you should be well-adjusted. The definition of meshuga is whatever everyone else says. That's one example.
Instructor: Very good example. Most people nowadays think—are extremely relativists, and think that the definition of good, of healthy—for example, mentally healthy, spiritually healthy—is whatever you think, whatever you like, or whatever your neighbors like, which still goes back to people's arbitrary preferences. That's what most people actually think.
Some people have a God who is also one of the people that like things. That doesn't save them from their main problem, right?
Student: Thank you.
Instructor: That doesn't save them from the main problem, right? Can you write an article about this?
Student: Yeah, about the one part of it. Just the ethics part, right?
Instructor: Yeah, but the Maskim [those who agree/modern people] think that good means whatever I want. And some people are very religious, so they think that it's not only them, there's also a Gechka [entity/being] called a god that wants things, and good is whatever he wants, or at least also whatever he wants, depends on how frum [religiously observant] he is. Right? That's a shigaon [insanity]. It's crazy. Everyone just thinks that this is the default.
Some weirdos think that there's beauty in the world. There's really objective beauty. Or objective goodness. Or objective health or anything. But everyone agrees: whatever floats your boat.
Instructor: Even boats don't just float arbitrarily. There's good boats and bad boats. But I don't know what this mashul [parable/analogy] is supposed to say. Okay. This is a shigaon gomer [complete insanity]. Whatever floats your boat, it's not true. A lot of things float your boat, but not anything. Float the boat is an exciting question. You gotta make a good boat, man. There's good boats and bad boats. Maskim [agreed], that's one mishigas [craziness].
Okay, another mishigas is that... I'll tell you much... I mean, the other mishigas. Okay, now I'm not going to give you a few... I have a rule that we're not going to give examples because we only end up talking about the examples. We should only talk about examples, but that's another shmiz [nonsense/issue]. Now, wait, I'm going way too fast.
Instructor: So listen, listen, I have a kasha [question/difficulty]. Why is nobody in the ma'al [world] without being meshigah [crazy]? So the mashul, there's a few people, like I mentioned before, last week I gave a different mashul. There's a few people that are not against meshigah. They do think that they somehow live as if there are good things and bad things in the world for real. There are such people. Those people are neo-Nazis, most of them.
Instructor: I know them. Almost all of them think, like, you know, that my Torah is about the Goyim Chasidim [righteous gentiles], right? I have a big problem, that I like a lot of thinkers, a bunch of people that try to explain all kinds of nice things, like, to help me understand the Rambam [Maimonides] and all the tzaddikim [righteous people], because they tell us that Aristotle and Plato weren't totally crazy, they had some points, and then a few weeks later I found out that the guy is literally a Nazi, not even a neo-Nazi. Why? Because he got into the mesorah [tradition] with the mesorah of the goy [gentile].
Instructor: What's wrong with the guy Litvak? Because Litvak goes with the halacha [Jewish law]. The halacha says, "Esav soneh l'Yaakov" [Esau hates Jacob]. So you have to follow the halacha. I said, yeah, I saw the halacha. Right? Traditional guys, the problem, I'm not saying that the not-traditional goyim is not a different problem. He has a different excuse. I'm just saying that there's a problem here, right? This guy is ready to go. He's a new tyrant now. Goyish and Litvaks.
Student: Goyish and Litvaks.
Instructor: Goyish and Litvaks is definitely universal.
Student: Exactly. Litvaks is a type. It's not a... I'm not talking about any Litvaks.
Instructor: Who's a Litvash goyim?
Student: No, I'm talking about a trad goyim [traditional gentile], really.
Instructor: Traditional goyim are mostly real anti-Semites.
Instructor: The only thing is, like a different trad guy said that a Yid [Jew] said, what's the definition of anti-Semite? Someone that hates Jews more than is appropriate. Maybe from a dad [their perspective]. So if the guy hates Jews but not more than he needs, then he's not, then I'm out of God, no problem. I can deal with him. It's part of, part of, right? All of ethics is about measure, correct measure. Maybe there's a correct measure of hating Jews. Most Jews are hating them too much, right? But a guy has to do a little less. But the kid said that's the problem.
Instructor: So you understand the problem? And this happens to me every time. Like, I have a lot of criticism of a lot of things. It's going to happen to you with me too. Don't worry. You think that all, like that guy I told you, said that I have a good pshat [interpretation] in the Torah and why not tell it to anyone? Turns out that I also have a lot of craziness. At least according to him, I think that I'm right, probably. But a lot of problems, a lot of mishigasen [craziness], a lot of nonsense, a lot of naughtiness. That's the reality.
Instructor: Every time I find someone, I'm like, wow, this guy, he sent me a video clip, and you see, he's explaining himself well, and he's clear, and he's not beating around the bush, and he's not bluffing us, like some people think it's a big mitzvah [commandment/good deed] to bluff all day, he's not doing a bluffing thing. Very nice, and then I look at his next video, and he's talking about going to Uman for Rosh Hashanah [Jewish New Year], like, sheikh [look], it's a normal event, you have to go to Uman.
You already explained me that let's be real and the Torah doesn't say anything about not eating the heimishe hechsher [traditional/Hasidic kosher certification]. The Torah says you should eat kosher. Pretty sure if you eat kosher you're about to eat. It doesn't say anything about heimishe hechsher. I know that you're pro heimishe hechsher for a different mitzvah, but nish mitzvah kashres [not the commandment of keeping kosher].
And then the next video is like, the heilige Rebbe [holy Rebbe] said if you don't go to Uman you don't have a tikkun [spiritual rectification]. And I'm like, hello, does that say in the Torah? Where do you find that? Actually I know there's more than one person that this applies to. This is very weird. What's going on?
Student: I think your example last week was very good. I don't know if you want to say it. It was very historic from last week.
Instructor: I hate the past.
Student: I think it brought to the point a very good point.
Instructor: I'll tell you the mashul that Eli says, or you can tell it.
Student: Last week I was in a [discussion] about people that are business understand the mashul.
Instructor: Oh, everyone's a business here. Everyone in my shiur [class] has been business. Otherwise, come with the rabbit to me. I'm not a business. Don't worry. Try.
Instructor: So, last week I said a ma'aseh [story/incident] by the unrecorded shiur that I went to a conference for teaching us how to steal money from rich people, chas v'shalom [God forbid]. You know the Rav [rabbi] said there is good news and bad news. Good news is that there is enough money for all the kimcha d'Pischa [Passover wheat fund/charity]. The bad news is that it's in the wrong people's pockets.
So I was by this conference for all the people whose job it is to get their money from one pocket to the right pocket, from the wrong pocket to the right pocket. And it's an important job. You have to do a correct allocation of capital, you know, one of the important functions of society. But I'm being very vague, right?
Student: Snotting. Fundraising.
Instructor: Okay.
Instructor: So, now, what's the problem with this conference? Like many self-help conferences or whatever you want called they're going to and others what's the big problem with them that they're all evil. Why are they evil? Because they're about means and not about ends, right? Why are they evil? Because, right, you know, this is about social engineering and about social science and about business consulting and all of that, all of these, all of like if you go to this is I told you about goals I talked about goals any self-help person that you go to is going to explain you that there's a way to be efficient you got to have goals and you got to follow them and all of that and you have to achieve your goals and count and smart the stave is smart.
But the note that I've come in of the whole of this is that this is the logic of the reshoim [wicked people]. What I mean is that it's all about how to achieve your goal. It doesn't tell you anything about what your goals should be, right?
Instructor: So come to kamtoz [for example] and like very explicitly, everyone, the guy that stood up for example by that camera, the guy stood up, look, I don't care if you're raising money for Lefkowitz, or for Schwarz, or for Satmar, or for Tzahal [IDF], the same rules apply to everyone, right? Wait, what's going on here? Seriously? Nobody actually said that, but there's a subtext that says all of this, right?
What do you mean you don't care? If someone's here raising money for Al-Qaeda, we should throw them out, we shouldn't even teach them the tricks, because it's really evil. What's going on?
Instructor: But there's a real problem because the tricks, not only the tricks, the ethics, the kind of person that you become, a person that teaches you how to be efficient, I'm an efficient person, then like Hannah Arendt, you can be like Eichmann. He's a pretty efficient guy, extremely efficient. Maybe there's some virtue in that itself, but it's, you can be a very efficient Holocaust organizer and you'll be doing your job, you'll be following all Taylor's principles of modern management. I don't understand what the problem is.
Student: You're just in the wrong, you're at the wrong event.
Instructor: I have news for you. There isn't another event.
Student: That's your fault. It's not my fault.
Instructor: No, but you see, there's something evil about this.
Instructor: You have to imagine that in the olden days, people that actually knew such a skill, if I know this skill, I know a skill, I'm Dale Carnegie, I know this skill, how to get anything out of anyone, the Sanhedrin [ancient Jewish high court] would make a big cherem [excommunication/ban] and only teach this secret to people that are 35 years old and we bring three character witnesses that you're not going to use for bad purposes, right?
Right? Isn't that obvious? These are really powerful tools, right? Manipulation tools, right? You can convince anyone of anything. You're a salesperson, right? We should not allow anyone to become a salesperson. There should be a board, like some kind of control over this. We should teach it only to the really good people, like to the really vetted people that already know that they have good ends, because otherwise, what's going on, right?
Instructor: And just to be clear, every time, of course everyone says this, right? We said learning tools. It's not really true. It becomes, just like everyone knows about the Goodhart Principle, right? There's something called the Goodhart Principle. Anything measured becomes a target. Right?
Student: Wow, he doesn't talk about it in his course?
Instructor: I don't think he does. He's missing a very important thing, right? Everyone knows. Anything measured becomes the target. The medium becomes the message. Always, right? This is the reality, because like Aristotle taught us, you become what you do.
Instructor: You don't become what you believe in, unless belief is a kind of doing, like you say Shema [the central Jewish prayer] twice a day. But you become what you do. If you work on means all day, you're going to become efficient. You're not going to become good.
Instructor: I don't think he does. It's missing a very important thing, right? Everyone knows, anything measured becomes the target. The medium becomes the message. Always, right? This is the reality, because like Aristotle taught us, you become what you do. You don't become what you believe in. Unless belief is a kind of doing, like you say Shema [the central Jewish prayer declaring God's oneness] stole twice a day. But you become what you do, right?
If you work on means all day, working on becoming efficient, you're going to become efficient. You're not going to become good. And you're all day talking about this and you're never talking about becoming good. You're not going to become good.
Actually, they become manipulative and the definition of manipulation is I'm trying to get something from you which is not the good thing itself, is not good and it's not really good for you, right? That's good for me or it's good for some third purpose. That's the definition. It becomes—it's a big problem. This I think it's a really big problem. That's one problem.
There's a bigger problem. I didn't ask him that this is the problem. There's something else. He's not masking. Ah, he's not masking.
Student: No, no, I get it now.
Instructor: Ah, he's not masking. This is a real problem. I really think that it's—that's the problem, too.
Instructor: I actually know someone. I have news for you. I know someone. I have dealt in a third-hand way with someone that went to a certain course, the same course that you went to. And mazeh Shai [behold], he stole a million dollars from a Yid [Jew], playing a gambit on a young dollar. I know exactly how. There was a trick, an excuse. He came in and told you, he said, it's a trick—I got to stick a tofes l'baal chov b'makom shechav l'acherim [a legal principle about seizing collateral]. Again, I don't know. I heard once out of the story. Maybe he's not. But sounds like that to me. And just deposited. The guy gave him a check. He deposited it twice. Whatever. Plain. What he did was for sure organized. Maybe he didn't get it. He didn't owe him. He owes him a million dollars. I don't know. The mazeh, that's what happened.
So, and that he, they said, they came to him and said, what do you mean? I went to this course. They taught me how to be very efficient. And he was very into it, like, I'm very good at this, and so on. And if not for that course, it would be less of a ganav [thief]. I hope. Maybe it didn't make a difference. Because all these things turn out to be some horrible people. And it's by design, like, there's a real problem. That's one thing.
Another thing is that people that have luck do not really be able to—it also lets you pursue it, and not in the pursuit of evil. And not to pursue being a ganav, like you're just pursuing being efficient, right? And having to steal along the way.
Student: I mean he doesn't realize that he's a ganav. He doesn't have to—he doesn't have to confront the fact that he's learning how to be a ganav.
Instructor: Yeah, you're not teaching how to be a ganav. You're teaching you something—a tool. You're teaching you how to pick locks. It's like teaching how to pick locks. I teach you how to pick locks. Are you going to use it to pick the bank or are you going to use it to pick your bubbe's [grandmother's] house when she gets locked out? I don't care. I don't care. I'm not about anything.
Student: Isn't that the worst thing though?
Instructor: What?
Student: Because then—
Instructor: I'm saying exactly. You're an immoral person. So this teaching is an immoral teaching. It really is. I think it's a real problem.
I really think that in some kind of ideal universe, with the correct structure—but the immorality can sneak the 80% evil right into God's noses. I really think that it would be like a really good Plato's, you know, fantasies of—
Student: But this really applies to everything in the whole world.
Instructor: No, wait, wait, wait.
Student: No, one second. Don't sell lighters because if someone's going to come out—
Instructor: No, no, no, no. Wait, wait, this is a nice—no, no, no, don't let anyone drive to the—wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, let's get, let's, let's move it, let's, let's, let's, wait, wait, um, this is all emotional for my kashya [question]. You have to remember, these are all things that everyone here is supposed to agree with.
Student: Yeah, I hear your question, and it's part of the brainwashing that you got from capitalism.
Instructor: Now, um, wait, but you have to remember that, um, you know, let's try to focus, right, I'm trying to get somewhere. If you're not asking what part of that is, you have to talk about that at a different time, because all these things, everyone here agrees with, already. Just giving you guys an example, at least I should tell you an example of, uh, something.
Instructor: So this is one of the examples of how you can't be a mashgiach [supervisor/spiritual guide] without being a ba'al middos [person of good character], how you can't be a menahel [administrator] without a mashgiach. Okay, this is evil.
And in Plato's ideal educational society, all of these tools would be hidden, just like lockpicking. I mean, nowadays also you can learn lockpicking on the internet. But just like creating nuclear weapons, for some tools we have enough sechel [intelligence/common sense] to keep them locked up only for people that we think are already good, right?
This is true, definitely true for management, for human management. Becoming a good rabbi, becoming a good anything. If it's just a good, in the sense of being efficient, of being a good tool, it's really dangerous and should only be taught to people that are very proven themselves to be good. Even after that, many of them are going to use it for evil, but you know, this is why we have all these secrets, all these ideas of secret societies, there's a reason for that. It's not crazy.
Instructor: Now, second problem is, a deeper problem is, that it also doesn't work, in my opinion. It doesn't work. At least if you have a neshama [soul], it doesn't work, baruch Hashem [thank God]. Any that was born with a neshama, in my opinion, doesn't actually—I don't know anyone, it's kind of cute. I know many people, not a lot, not enough, but maybe I know a hundred people. I don't really know any of them that manages their life that way. Any of the good people that I know. I know some people that manage to manage their business that way, also in a much more sporadic way than you think. But I don't know anyone that manages life that way.
It reminded me of—I don't know anyone—a vet someone told me that it says "Hanistrot l'Hashem Elokeinu v'hanigalot lanu ul'vaneinu" [The hidden things belong to the Lord our God, but the revealed things are for us and our children—Deuteronomy 29:28]. And everything in between, it's just l'cha [for you], not the v'necha [and your children], which in between—the Negev [the hidden]—it's not nistar [hidden] and it's not nigleh [revealed], it's probably just for you, don't talk with anybody else.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: So I have what I'm saying. Do you know anyone that actually—I have a real question. Every self-help book in the world says have a goal and make a New Year—is doing New Year's, make a New Year's resolution. Do you know anyone that actually succeeded with his New Year's resolution? With his goal?
Student: Smart one?
Instructor: Ask Marabai [the Rebbe] what's his name if he knows anyone. I'm sort of very suspicious of this.
Student: No, I'll explain to you why.
Instructor: I don't know anyone that it worked for. It doesn't work for me in that way. In some way, it does work in my opinion. I don't know anyone. If there's someone that it works for him, I think you should stay away from him because they're a psychopath.
Instructor: Now, why doesn't it work? Because human beings—things aren't actually the kind of thing, and we're not actually machines, we're not actually efficient causes. Machine and efficient causes, the same definition, literally, metaphysically, are things that only do ends. That's the idea of a human being.
A human being, for anything to make sense, people talk about meaning, you know what meaning is? Meaning means doing something that has a goal. Not a goal, a fake goal, a real goal, right, the end. You call them the same, they're the same word, there's no real difference in the words.
When I say a goal, I mean something that in some sense isn't itself good. But at least you very clearly see how it leads to something that is really good. But even then, what you're going to be doing is the goodness of that thing. So maybe it's secondarily good, I don't think everything is finally good. Even if it's secondarily good, what you're doing is that thing and not something else.
Like it says in the Gemara [Talmud], do things for themselves [lishmah]. If what you do is not good, it's only leading to something good, you, as a human being, will not succeed to do it unless you turn yourself into a machine. Most of us have a hard time turning ourselves into machines. Some people are successful at that, and those are the CEOs. But besides for that, most people have a really hard time.
Instructor: And even the people that do it well, it's because, for example, there's a very big difference between someone who is in service of capitalism and someone who is in service of providing for his wife and children.
Providing for your wife and children is a very good end. It's not the final end. You don't go to Gan Eden [the Garden of Eden/Paradise] for that. You only go to Gan Eden for what you do with that. But, according to the holy Rambam [Maimonides] at least. But, it's a good thing. In order to do that, I have to get a job, I have to do my job well. No problem. You're doing all this well, it's all part of being a person that's providing for his family, a good father, a good husband, a good part of society. I want to provide a mikvah [ritual bath] for my beis medrash [study hall], whatever it is that you're providing. You're part of that.
The moment that it's separated from that, I think that that's like the definition of evil, definition of becoming a machine, which doesn't have a goal and that's just what evil is, that's a shin dalet [the Hebrew letters that spell "demon/devil"], right?
So—meaning the moment that you're not providing and you're what? That you're picking your story, what your story is not, it's not embedded into a bigger story that I'm a good person and I'm providing for my family, for example. I'm just running this system as efficiently as possible. That's what I think.
And therefore I think that people—that's why people complain that they have no meaning. And your zaida [grandfather] doesn't understand what you mean when you say I don't have meaning in my job. You gotta have a job. He does have meaning in his job. His meaning is to come home to his wife and bring her a check. That's a great meaning.
Meaning just means there's a story that ends somewhere. Meaning is not some fancy feeling. I don't know what people think meaning means. But you don't have meaning because your job is set up in a way that you can't really do it if you care about coming home to your wife at night. Many jobs are sort of set up in that way. At least it's very hard.
You have to very—now you can understand why you have to be a meshugah [crazy person]. It's very hard to be a good whatever it is. Yeah, most people in New York City or whatever in the workplace are not—that's not their story of themselves. Many of—most of them—I'm not talking about the high machine, the high legate—and I'm talking about the baal habayis [ordinary working person]. Most of them are not like that and it's set up for people like the language that they talk and the way to, you know, to become successful within any society is to talk their language and to work on their concepts.
Their concepts are machine concepts, not human concepts. And that's why it's very hard to do it for a fewer human being. If you have a neshama left, it's very hard for you to live in that world. And now, this is the mishigas [craziness], the maskim [those who agree].
Instructor: Ah, so what was I saying?
Student: When you say neshama, what are you referring to?
Instructor: I don't know. Now, I do know, but I'm far enough off my track. So, a neshama is a person that is a human being. That's what a neshama is. He didn't forget. Some people forgot that they're human beings and became machines. That's the difference. A machine doesn't have a neshama either. I mentioned a neshama. And some people don't have a neshama. They're very happy being machines.
I'm pretty sure that nobody that listens to my shiur [Torah class] is happy with that, so I don't have to talk about that person.
Instructor: So this is a problem. I want to tell you, you can't live like this. I'm telling you, nobody can live like this. If you manage to live for a long time like that, I don't want to know about you.
Instructor: There's people that—no, what you're talking about is not that, I don't think. I'm talking about normal people. If you're neurodivergent, then... I think that's not a large part of it. Maybe. I'm not sure. I think that that's a different thing, because I understand that. That's different. That's a person that has a taanug [ta'anug: pleasure, delight], and it's making lists and checkmarks. Different. Someone doesn't like that, right? And then that guy is virtual, making checks, Excel sheets, he really loves it. Okay, it's a different thing. He likes—he's like, some beauty in it. No, I'm serious, there is some beauty in it, like math, like whatever it is, like the boxiness of the world. The world is pretty boxsy. Not true that—I'm not saying you shouldn't be boxsy, you should only be around, that's not the point. But what I'm saying is that this is a problem, and you can't live like this.
No, I forgot—yeah, I'm getting to that part, don't worry. But there's too many people have a lot of questions.
In that conference, I was sitting there, and I don't feel comfortable. I need all these tools. I consider myself a good person that's allowed to use all the tools. Maybe I'm wrong. I consider myself that way. But also I feel I don't know how to—I can't use them if I don't believe in them.
See, that's what I mean when I say I have a neshama [neshamah: soul]. A neshama means that me, I have a very hard time submitting to things that I don't believe in. Sometimes I just call it ego, but it's not ego, it's really having a neshama. If you go to someone and this guy says, you know, you have to beg this person, you have to pretend to be below him, because that's how he'll do you a favor—unless you can explain to me how that person really deserves it, or how and somehow there's some virtue in doing this, otherwise I'm just not going to do it.
Love it. In his book on sales, in the beginning of the book, he basically says, like, chapter one is basically explaining why you have to believe in what you sell, and the two is, let's say you don't believe, how to believe? Okay, yeah, many, most people don't believe. For the matter, then you're not going to get what you want to get.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Ultimate nut story. We can down the showman, so go on and down the egg. Ah, I know. You see, you see this, but you realize there's something crazy here. We have to solve this problem. My biggest belief is that we could solve this problem. There are nuts. We don't have to be stuck. We don't have to be oifgevafn [given up] and not get anything done because of this. "I have a neshama, therefore I can't work." No, nonsense. You could work, of course. You have to figure out how to, how it's going to work. There is a way. That's my biggest belief, my biggest hope. And I think it's true. There's a way. There's a way. But we have to understand what the way is.
Now, I am very uncomfortable. I can't do that. It's very hard. I just can't do it. In reality, I can't do it. And to the extent I could do it, it's because I'm corrupted. But I think that people that can do it are the good people. That's my opinion.
Now, at that thing, I'm telling you a story. Now we have to find a way. This is niche normal. It's not normal that everyone has to become oys a mentsh [cease being a human being] in order to be successful. That's crazy. The only reason I want to be successful is because I want to be a successful human being. Tell me no, be mevater [give up, forgo] for your whole life, right? Just to be clear, for your whole life be mevater on being a human being because let's be real.
Yeah, I know. Like, you go—okay, I was a rebellious, I don't know if you call it rebellious, but like, and I used to have, you know, they learn in yeshiva, it learns too slow, too fast, too low, too high, whatever it is, and I used to go to my rabbis, like, what kind of—and none of them ever said anything different. I mean, depending on their mood. But for the most part, you go to people and they understand. They say, look, yeah, you're right.
Some of them are just lying. They don't think I'm right. It's not—hello, get out of my life, you're a liar. But some of them really think that. And then he says, but look. How does it go? There's always a push-off. Like, you know, you're a bachur [yeshiva student], you're in yeshiva. You have to start with yeshiva until you get married and you'll go on kollel [married men's Torah study program] and you'll be able to do whatever you want. So then you go on kollel and they tell you the same thing until I don't know when you're able to actually live. True story.
Now, I always told them thank you so much for your advice and then I woke up in the morning and I didn't do it. I wanted to do it, it just didn't work because I have a neshama and I can't.
If you would try to convince me how this—they're so stupid these people, they think—even the ones that are really like this, okay, they're stuck in the same place. The ones that are just manipulators are really dumb because, again, maybe they're manipulators because they know that this is the best manipulation, but if someone comes to you and says, look, yeah, the system is corrupt. I know the system is corrupt, but look, you want to win, right? Try to win the system. You just corrupted a guy morally. You did the worst thing. There's one guy that at least is not corrupt. He doesn't just want to succeed. He doesn't just want to win anything. No, let's just win. What do you mean?
If you would be sincere, you would say, no, even a better manipulator would try to convince me that the system is correct. Then you should believe in it, okay? Then I can understand. Of course, maybe he knows that there's no good arguments so there's no—he has no way to explain it to me. Then he's stuck. But this is a big problem. Mask him, it doesn't work.
So the kid said there was one yid [Jew] over there that said a drusha [homiletical discourse] that I understood that made sense to me. The only problem is that his drusha was toyt meshuge [completely crazy].
That's why one yid stood up over there and besides all the eitzos [advice, strategies] that he said, he also said you should know that it's a mitzvah—it's not a mitzvah to make a lot of money. It's not a mitzvah to fal far di gevirim [fall before the wealthy]. It's not a mitzvah to nothing. A mitzvah is to do it. If this is your job, whatever, whoever you decide that if you're a mitzvah. It's not a mitzvah. Therefore, if you don't make money, if you do make money, if you do succeed, if you don't succeed, it doesn't matter. You should wake up every day, say hineni muchan umzuman [I am ready and prepared], and go do your mitzvah. That's what this guy said.
Now, I'm telling you the reality. This guy, I felt goodbye to drusha. Because I know how to do things like that. I know how to do mitzvos [commandments]. By mitzvos, I mean things that are good. Correct things. I know how to correct things. It's hard? Yeah, I know that. Sometimes it's hard to do the good thing. I could work with that. It's difficult. It's hard to do the good thing. We'll work on it. Sometimes we'll succeed. Sometimes we won't succeed. Sometimes we'll be frustrated. But I know how to live with that.
Everyone else says, you just have to win. I don't know how to live with that. And they also say it's hard, right? But you have to be mezakeh [purify oneself, work on oneself]. But what does that even mean? I don't know how that looks. Work on yourself to not take yourself seriously, to be a better slave for something else. Like, what? You know, if you freely force me, I'll be forced. No problem. I want to have money. I want a mortgage or whatever. I want to have rent. Pay the rent. I'll go do something for that. I'm nothing. I'm above that. But you're really giving me chizuk [encouragement, strengthening] like to be that? That doesn't make any sense to me.
So this guy is the only drusha that actually made sense. He was talking about a certain virtue. You're a schnorrer [fundraiser, collector]. Go and be a good schnorrer. Believe in... It's not about believing in it. I don't even believe in it. Just do it. It's a mitzvah. It's a mitzvah. It's a mitzvah. Whatever mitzvah it is. Enjoy.
It's not shiny. You must understand that this guy is only a normal drusha. You understand this? Everyone knows how to do that. Everyone knows. Do the correct thing. Who told you this is your tafkid [role, mission]? Maybe someone else. No problem. Today you're doing this.
Now I'm such a—and this guy's drusha was whacked, like seriously. What do you mean my job is to make money? It's not to knock on people's doors and get thrown out. Like, that's not the mitzvah. It's such a weird—it's also nuts, right? It's nuts to do things that don't have a goal. He's also in some way living without a goal, right? Because like, I'm just doing things. What do you mean just doing things? There's—you want to win, right?
And then, oh, Hashem [God] will send you the money. No, Hashem doesn't send nobody money. I don't know anyone that Hashem sent money. I told you the drusha already, right? I want to tell the drusha: you should rely on Hashem sending you money? Ask him how he's going to send it. What's his post office address? Because I don't know anyone that Hashem sent money yet in my life.
I know so many people that go around—I listened to last week someone, you know, yeah, I was in the grocery. I went to the grocery. I filled up my cart. I had no idea how to pay and I borrowed money around the register. You could have thought of that before. It's just a low life. Like, oh, der Oybershter hot geholfen [the Almighty helped]. He said, you really don't have what to pay? Okay, and he gave me the money. Because some yid gave you the money. Der Oybershter didn't give you nothing. Der Oybershter didn't give you this. Der Oybershter didn't give you that. No difference.
What do you mean der Oybershter didn't give you money? He's just drying me a cup. What's it got to do? You have a lot of picture. Your picture of the reality is totally not in sync with how God actually is. Right? You believe in some a-causal world where things have nothing to do with their effects. Of course they do.
Why did you go to the grocery store? Why did you fill up your cart? Why didn't you just sit home and wait for the fridge to fill up? What's going on? Who are you fooling over here? Oh, you have to do that. Okay, you also have to go work. Or maybe your plan is to borrow money from people. No problem. Mucho of people say my life—I like the mucho of people and so on and I don't have patience to work. I'll just say it, tell him all day, wait for people to give me money. No problem. That's your plan for life. Your plan is not Hashem. Hashem can't do it. Not only you're talking nonsense—like, what do you mean Hashem? How is this more Hashem than—
Instructor: Everyone knows that everything is Hashem [God]. People, I think the reason people say it all the time is because they don't really believe in Hashem. So they have to say it all the time. It's like, "I'm doing it for Hashem." What does that even mean?
Because everyone understands what this guy said was total nonsense. That's the only reason they said something normal.
So now here's my kasha [question]: Why can't there be a normal person that can explain to you the virtues of a shnorrer [beggar]? A shnorrer has to—I'll tell you one of the virtues of a shnorrer. Not because it happens to be that it helps you make money also.
If you're a shnorrer, you should brush your shoes. You know why? Because it's not respectful. You go to a person, you ask for money, and you're like, "I'm a shnorrer, so I'm allowed to have ripped shoes." It's not nice, right? People don't like it. It's a small action. That's the virtue of a shnorrer. A shnorrer has to dress the part. You're asking him for tzedakah [charity].
That would be a very reasonable drasha [sermon]. Part of a middos toivos [good character traits]—if there's a correct middah [character trait], a shnorrer has to wear a normal rekel [coat] and he has to make his payos [sidelocks] and comb his beard. Otherwise you come to someone, a guy is just giving you money to get you out of his face because you're ugly. True story, right?
So now, this is the same actual factual advice as the other guy that says, "Look, you're going to go to the gvir [wealthy person]. Look, you have stuff in your phyllin [phylacteries]. You have a special man. He doesn't like people that are chnyokish [slovenly]. Some people do like that's chnyokish, okay, so dress up chnyokish. But go be a normal person, figure it out. It's going to cost money to buy a new rekel, but you're going to make more money, it's worth it." No problem.
That's the manipulative way of saying the drasha. You can say the same as the drasha, as if it's a mitzvah [commandment]. And it's not a mitzvah. Because this is a good—now, is this the final good? No. The end is to give money, and then you've got money to go to yeshiva [Torah academy], and then someone in the yeshiva is going to—somehow it's going to end up in Torah, this money, I don't know how.
But you understand my point? Why is the only normal guy a nutcase?
Student: You don't like speaking well. It's like, one way is to speak well, manipulatively, and one is to speak well because you should present yourself well.
Instructor: Right, exactly.
Instructor: My job is to be a maggid shiur [Torah lecturer], and everyone has to do their ma'aseh b'emunah [act of faith]. My ma'aseh b'emunah is to prepare a shiur [Torah lesson], and I don't have to follow the shiur. I don't hold that you have to follow the... but I did prepare a shiur today. It's over here. If you don't believe me, I even have notes. It's not what I said, but you have to appear. It's ma'aseh b'emunah, right?
"Oh no, you have to prepare so people should be impressed." My job is not to impress people. I mean, it's to impress people, but that's just what it is. It's not just, right? If I can impress you in a fake way, I'm doing my job wrongly. If I impress you in the correct way because I did the correct preparation and I got a nice room to impress you, all of that, no problem. That's part of the job, doing it correctly.
Now, why are the only people that even go out of this totally manipulative frame the ones that tell you that God somehow is doing it directly? Do you understand the kasha? It's a very good example of the kasha, and there's many hundreds of other examples. Do you understand the kasha?
Instructor: All the way down to the kasha, why—everyone in ma'aseh [deed/action] is talking about it. What's my other example? Something with the Rebbes. What about the Rebbes? No, the same thing. Is it normal to—this is a good example. That one I a little bit understand. It's easier to explain why.
But is it normal that every person that already understands that you don't have to worship whoever was the idol of the—whoever first guy that was the idol of another guy—is also believing some dead guy in Ukraine? Most of them do. Like Sharikas [reference to Rebbe Nachman of Breslov]. Of course, that's easier to explain.
But is it normal that every teenager has spent like seventy years of their life watching TikTok? Because that's contemporary avodah zarah [idolatry]. The other avodah zarah is that TikTok was created directly, but that's actually true. But the other avodah zarah is that the whole internet was created directly by the Sitra Achra [the Other Side/evil forces], so that we should have nisyonos [tests], bnei yeshivas [yeshiva students], or something.
Now, this guy's a little normal. You have kids, you should put a filter on their phone. No question, on their whatever. Nobody ever argues—I mean, people don't live like that, but that's because they're nuts or they don't have a choice, whatever it is. But their society is nuts.
And the only guy that's normal is like what? You know that the Sklenener Rebbe gave the best drasha by Cedrifield and everyone was laughing at him? Sklenener Rebbe got up—and this was it, twenty years ago almost—got up and said—this is a beautiful thing that he said—"Amen. Amen." He doesn't say "Amen." Amen literally says this so you get your neshama [soul]. Amen. A ba'al hayim [animal] walks bent over. Amen walks upright. So if you walk around like this, you're a ba'al hayim.
Now he said the most normal thing, but what does it mean? Therefore... Hello. You got my problem? Why is it only normal people in this way?
Student: No, but people also do think that there's—back to this well-adjusted thing. I think people do very often think that, okay, so like, you know, well-adjusted person—obviously if you say you shouldn't go on social media at all, you must be—taking thirty minutes a day is when you can do that.
Instructor: No, but that's not really thinking the problem. I think that's a getchke [idol/fetish] of well-adjusted.
Student: Yeah, yeah, like of course, like yeah, exactly, exactly. Everything like I can engage with on perfect terms and like, of course, we can like craft this like perfect human experience that doesn't fall—
Instructor: I agree, I agree with that. That's another mishigas [craziness], right? That's another thing.
Instructor: The normal people—you're mad at Modern Orthodox people. Modern Orthodox people are—there's one, but both sides are mishigas. That's what I'm trying to get at. Modern Orthodox people have a different mishigas. They just don't believe in the yetzer hara [evil inclination]. They just don't believe in him. The Haredi people don't believe in the yetzer tov [good inclination]. But both of them are mishigas.
Like you go to—I just re-read because of this thing that I did last week. I re-read some discussion that I had with a lady that wrote a whole book about the correct sex education that we should give our kids. And she basically told him it's the both. It's like, you know, this is a really powerful destructive force, also for good. But she's like, "No, it's like holy and if you do it correctly," yeah, thank you very much. You just missed the problem, right?
This is a thing that is really, really worth—you should respect this shit. Just doesn't have any respect for this yetzer hara. No respect. Like it's really, it could make a whole—it could make a mabul [flood]. No. Chazal v'Shalom [God forbid], we shouldn't be Puritan, we shouldn't teach our kids because then they're going to hate their body, so we should teach them that there's a right—I agreed with the conclusion, but there's just like a certain disconnect with reality. Chazal v'Shalom, whatever. I'm not going to get into the details of this.
But you're right, that's another—she's right in a certain sense. These people are right. He's like normal, very good. The other people are crazy because their solutions don't actually—their solutions don't actually solve the problems. And also they're crazy because they don't believe in the yetzer tov. They don't believe in any kind of derech hamitzvos [the way of the commandments] and all kinds of mishigas that we said last week and so on.
But the other people are also crazy. They're just living in a fantasy universe which is like, maybe it's true in like three blocks of Teaneck for people between thirty and forty or something, but other than that it's not the real world, right?
So what's going on? Why is everyone meshuge? Same question. So you like—the same thing. You meet this guy like, "Yeah, he says that we should go to his—we should become a chossid [follower]." Then you see that the guy is—no, another some other way he's totally missed the boat. I think that started—I'll miss the boat is in that's a good amount of business.
Instructor: This thing against—against the chochom [wise man] is fucking retarded. Why can you just say it's the same thing? It's the same thing. It's just a formulation. It's true by the theory that I said today, but it's a better question than an answer. In other words, it's not a question, it's like a request more of a request than a question.
Instructor: I think that there is a way to do all of this, at least to some extent. I also do think that you have to be meshuge in reality, unfortunately. Why? Actually, I don't think you have to be meshuge. I don't think we should say that's true—it shouldn't be meshuge.
But I think that there's a reason why everyone that's normal a little is meshuge. And the reason is that in this world, it's very, very hard, at least for one person—maybe, you know, but for one person—it's very hard to make anything, to write anything without tipping over the boat, right?
So, for example, if we're—I mean, I could talk about mass education as one way in which this happens. I think it happens with people by themselves.
So, for example, if we're, I mean, I could talk about like mass education as one way in which this happens. I think it has happened with people by themselves. Myself, if you have to go against the reality, like against the reality of society, it seems to me that it's very hard to do that without some very strong backbone, without some very strong support. And for this reason, I think that... Or alternative social infrastructure. And full social infrastructure, but nobody actually has that. I mean, nobody that I know.
I think that you need like Archimedes' pole. You need something to actually take you out of the default. And that thing is by definition meshuga [crazy/insane].
This is really with the discussion of the Rambam [Maimonides]. This is really my response to this. The Rambam has the discussion of going in the desert and becoming a desert father or mother and leaving society. And the Rambam is very against it. He says this is not ideal. But he also agrees that it's sometimes needed.
And we have to understand that going to the desert is an aveira [sin]. It's not like the Rambam explicitly expresses it this way. Leaving society is a sin. Why is it a sin? Because the correct way of being a human being is to live within a society. And even more than that, the correct way of living as a human being is to live within your society. That is the correct way, you could say healthy way. But that's the correct way. That's how God made people. That's the nature of humans.
The nature of humans is not to do lech lecha [go forth - Abraham's departure]. That's a very nice romantic drasha [sermon]. The nature of humans is to stay where they are. I don't know, stay where they are. The nature of humans is to live within the society you are. That's the nature of humans.
Now, this also means that if they're in a bad society, you're going to be bad. You are going to be bad. If anyone tells you they're going to be good in a bad society, like this is the main contention of modern orthodoxy, that's nonsense.
You could be the good person of that society. Every society has an ideal of a good person. You could be a good person relative to that society or not relative, like according to what that society defines as a good person. But you can't be a good person, a really good person. If you agree that whatever the definition of this society for a good person is incomplete at least, you can't really be more than that. You can't. You can't be that.
In America, there's something called being a good person. By the way, that includes going to church, so you could switch synagogue for church. It doesn't make a big difference. At least it used to include. I don't know if it still does.
And a modern Orthodox, or a modern anything guy, it doesn't matter, is a guy that does that. No problem. You're a very good American Jew. No problem.
But if you think that being a Jew, the claim of being a Jew is that the whole shtikl Torah [the entire Torah], kol zeh achnes [all this is nothing], being an American good guy, the best guy in America is still not good enough, if you believe that. I don't know if you believe that. I think that as a Jew you have to believe that. You have to, enough to nothing. But you should.
Then, or especially if you believe that, like I seem to believe based on whatever nonsense I read on the Internet. But if you believe that in 2025 there is no such a thing as being a good person in America. America doesn't have an ideal of good people and there are no good people in America. As Americans there are good people. Then you have to believe that, you have to go out of that and then you have to say you have to do a very big bad thing.
Let's just be against your society. It's a big huge sin. I'm just doing that makes you meshuga. Or there's like good ways of doing it. Not like saying like I have a Rebbe, I have a Torah, this absolute truth. What are you talking about? Since there's no such a thing, you're living on olam hadimyon [fantasy world].
No, this is what you have to say. You have to say look, we are the only people in history to know the truth. In Lakewood, the 30 people that live here, we are the only ones. It was given to us. I don't even know how we discovered it. And just to be clear, not to the Hasidim in Boro Park, not to the guys in Five Towns, not to the guys in Freehold. We got, we try to teach them but it was given to us. The whole complete full truth, 100 percent mezukak [purified], distilled, pure distilled.
Now, that is it. Anything else is nonsense. Even the people that try to go there, they realize themselves that it's nonsense. And because we have one meshuga that came back and said that it's nonsense and it proves to us. And this is the one that we're going to create a whole thing. We're going to teach basically only this. We're not going to teach anything else. We're not going to teach nothing. We're going to teach this. One thing.
We have received for free the extreme absolute truth, including how to tie your shoelaces. It's as true as the existence of God. Everything is absolute truth. And this is going to be what we do. This is all we do. We spend our days and nights saying this. And then if you do that for 70 years, no, if you that whatever, for as long as it takes, the race generation, then less than seven years, only like 10, 15 years, then you end up with people that have a, how do we call it? Like an anchor outside of America.
This is what is needed. This is just the creating of the anchor. It's not the actual good thing, in my opinion, because most people are messed up. It's not the actual good thing. But this is all creating like a separate pole, like the multipolar role that some people are about. Like, you have to have another pole. Otherwise, everything you do, even the Yiddishkeit [Judaism] that you do, is according to the sar [angelic prince] of America.
Remember, there's shiv'im sarim [seventy angelic princes], there's the sar of America. He actually conquered like 15 sarim, and he's 15 of them. And, you know, right? You know their names are also anyways. And the sar of America, he's telling me, oh my pshatim [interpretations] is from him.
If you want to be a little bit outside of that, like not in golus [exile], right? You want, because this golus means you're living within a bad society. You want to not be in golus, you have to have, you have to have a really strong anchor. You have to something to actually give you, you need some place to stand outside of it. How do you stand outside the world? You need a lever long enough, right, to stand outside the world. How do you do that? You have to be meshuga.
I don't know of anyone that succeeds without being meshuga.
Therefore, I had a friend that told me that he became a Bianer Chassid [Hasid of the Biana dynasty]. I don't think his family is Biana. He became a Bianer Chassid. So I asked him, I believe him, like, what do you see in the holy Biana that this is like the thing? He'd become a Breslov, a Chabad. I see this guy, he was in all the places. He became a Biana.
So he told me, look, I don't know if this was an excuse, but this is what he said, and it's just a good idea. He said, I looked in Biana, he has some family, of course he's like close to it socially somehow, that's why he's able. He said, look, in Biana there's the least Chassidus. I need a Chassidus, I want to be a Chassidus. I need a place for my children, I need a shul to daven in, a Chassidus shul, and so on. I need to be Chassidus.
I looked around all the Chassidus, where do you have to do the least? In Biana, you have to come every time, every time you have to come to Yerushalayim [Jerusalem], to the Rebbe. I don't think you have to do anything else basically. They don't have what clothes you wear, nothing. Perfect. It's how hard it is for me to travel two days a week a year. I'll travel. I wear the, I get into, what's the name, since we have to be, we should try to, to find the least meshuga thing that can take us out of reality, right?
So the trick is to find something that's less destructive, right? If you're like, I'm meshuga, I'm going to be in a cult, like I'm going to, we're going to talk all, do everything, whatever. But it's not necessary. I was reading a whole thing about the Amish yesterday. It's not actually necessary to be entirely meshuga. Don't read, because you only need one thing outside. Like you need one point, some anchoring point. You need, exactly, you need some, but it has to be real and somewhere else. It can't be the American version of Judaism, because then it's not anything.
You need something to say: In this, we think entirely different than everyone. And everyone is just brainwashed, nebuch [unfortunately], there's nobody to talk to, it's totally messed up. You need one thing. You need one, for now, Avraham HaIvri [Abraham the Hebrew] is not in a lechatchila [ideal] situation, but since we're in the world of Moshiach [Messiah], you need one thing that is really crazy.
So everyone has to choose their poison, I think. I don't know if this is really a choice that you could make because that's the real, but my ideal would be you have to choose it.
That's why Lemush [?], a lot of like these, for example, it's not such a bad poison. I mean sometimes it is, but like, okay I have this one thing, this is what really separates me from everyone. I think that this is Moshiach, that's it.
Something with Lubavitch. Lubavitch has too many meshugaim [crazy people], but they don't need most of them. One or two of them is enough. And this allows them to do a lot of things because they're free. Now you're free. Now maybe I'll decide to do most of the things like everyone else, but I'm free, right?
Student: What about, what did he say?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, in a very messed up way. It's very the opposite of that. But we have to have something that's different. Something very far. And then we can hold on to that.
I think that just being Jewish is more than enough. That's really what I think. But that only works, that only works for people that realize how crazy it is to be Jewish. If you only talk with Jews your whole life in a serious way, I'm not saying everyone talks with goyim [non-Jews], but like seriously, like if you don't talk about God with Jews, then you don't realize how crazy Jews are. You got to talk about the true things with other people if you could. And then you realize that just being a Jew, like I'm committed to Judaism, this is meshuga. I don't care.
We are the guys that put on the tefillin [phylacteries] twice, two tefillin, twice a day, or whatever, once a day. That's where we are. Why? We're the Parah Adumah [Red Heifer] people. That's all. That's who we are. Now, everything else could make sense. That's why we have that Parah Adumah, because that's like keeping your head above the water. There's still a Parah Adumah. It's saving us. It's going to purify us from all the shtussim [nonsense]. That's the thing.
Student: And he put on, so it doesn't have a ta'am [reason/taste], it can't be a Litvak [Lithuanian-style Jew] though.
Instructor: He doesn't wear the...
Student: Yeah no, at that point Litvak nebuch thinks that that's true.
Instructor: The film, twice, two films, twice a day, or whatever, once a day. That's where we are. Why? We're the Poshut'e Yid [simple Jew] people. That's all. That's who we are. Now, everything else could make sense. That's why we have to have Poshut'e Yid. Because that's like keeping your head above the water. There's still a Poshut'e Yid. It's saving us. It's going to purify us from all the shtusim [nonsense]. That's the thing.
And the problem is that it doesn't have a ta'am [reason/rationale]. It can't be a Litvak, though, because it doesn't wear the veil that comes with it.
Student: Yeah, no, that's not the point. Litvak nebuch [poor thing] thinks that that's true. If you think that it's true, then...
Instructor: No, but he's meshuga [crazy] for that. It's, again, too much meshuga. You started off that you were going to go on vacation and the masa u'matan [give and take] is an aveirah [sin] and it's multiple days.
Student: Yeah, the main thing is that this is what I think.
Instructor: You can go much further when you have that... You have to understand that it's wrong. This is all wrong. We shouldn't be meshuga. Even just... Like a masser [informer], like a mesira [informing].
Student: Yeah, even just... Exactly.
Instructor: By the way, it's a great thing. I've tried this thing. I know people have tried this and I've tried this myself in certain things. It's very important. It's a chet [sin]. It's a chet. It's 100% a chet. You're not allowed to do it. If the world would be good or to the extent that the world is good, you're not allowed to. It makes you a bad person. At least in the sense of an unbalanced person which is the definition of bad. It makes you a bad person.
But if you are in a situation where you're trying to bring in some kind of truth, some kind of pole, like a base of reality that is not in this one, you're going to have to do something to get yourself out.
How do you get yourself out of society? It's very hard. In America it's extremely hard because it's such a free society. In Russia it was easy to be a yid [Jew]. People think in America it's hard to be a yid, in Russia it's easy. People think in America it's easy to be a yid, but in Russia it's hard. It's the opposite.
In Russia you just have to make a bris [circumcision] for your son and you're a yid. Because this is like anti-communism, anti-whatever the communist ideal of atheism. In America, no, you make a bris. Everyone has their mishigas [craziness], you have your mishigas. Then you're not a yid.
Student: You're not.
Instructor: Everyone is crazy, we're crazy in this way. You have to have some point that's outside of that. This is why liberalism is like some people said the most dangerous thing for religion that subsumes it. Look we're all crazy, well let's be crazy that way, no problem. Maybe in part of Israel, but in some sense in your mind there has to be something: No, not really. And this is because we need... this is the reality.
I think this is an empirical explanation. This is why the only people that actually have the courage... like for example, okay, everyone agrees—I don't know if everyone agrees, I don't agree—but most people that I spoke to agree that doesn't make any sense to rent a hall for $30,000 and make a wedding for your son that's 17 or 18, makes no sense. It doesn't deserve it. Then do nothing and didn't even meet his kallah [bride]. That's like why would he get a $30,000 wedding? Everyone agrees. No, just the hall. Otherwise everyone agrees that this is crazy.
It's interesting that the only guy that actually just... you know that it doesn't cost anything to not do it. Actually, you save a lot of money. Nobody's like... it's crazy how little, not even social pressure. People, most social pressure is imagined. I've tried it out, I'm telling you. You could do, you could just do it. Instead of renting a hall, call everyone here and make your wedding. Nobody, people did it in COVID, remember, it was so easy? It just happened. Look, there's no social pressure. The social pressure is overrated. You could just do it. It's your choice.
Student: You're the guy, there's two people left, that's okay. Two mechutanim [in-laws] have to be on the same page. It's so hard to find one more.
Instructor: Everyone agrees that it's meshuga, right? I promise you you can do it. All of these things together are not worth anything.
The reason people, the reason people don't do it, I'm telling you the truth, the only guy that actually does it is a meshugene [crazy person] that worships a dead grave in Ukraine [reference to certain Chassidic practices]. How does it work? Why? Because he actually has something to tell them: I'm not one of these people. I'm really, really, my religion is a different religion. Know that we're whatever. Chassidish doesn't say that, but like really, really, what makes me tick is something else.
Okay, now maybe he also is more than sometimes. He's good. The kallah is making a problem. I'm not saying he's not gonna understand everyone else. I have to understand the reason everyone's does not because they have no... Nothing in the name of which to really go against. You have to remember that society, when people say society, it's not with society. It's their God.
Right? If you say how do I decide how to do anything? How does anyone by the way? It's very hard. Most of the things you delegate to society and you're correct for doing that. That's how the world should work. How do you know how a wedding looks? Oh let's sit down and learn, let's learn and find out. You're crazy. You're not going to find anything out there, right? It sort of says that, yeah that's long, this is red. You're turning me back. But you can't do that.
So what are you going to do, right? You don't really have... or you could say I'm sitting down myself. I think it should be cheaper. By the way, I think it's wrong. I think a wedding should be expensive. I don't think it should be cheap. I'm asking with this whole shtus [nonsense]. But that's a different thing.
But now you understand that there's a real issue because you have no other god. You have no god but what everyone else does. You could complain against your god. Everyone complains against their god. Nobody is happy with their god. That's why he's a god, so he should be able to be against you. Otherwise he'll just be you.
But that's why, if the only way that... if it's true, assuming that it's true that it's crazy, the only way to act in the name of something else is to actually have something else. And you really have to have something else. How would you act in the name of something else if you don't have something else?
This is the basic empirical reason why the only God that actually does something different is the guy with a different God.
Student: Chassidish for me doesn't have a different God, yeah, and he's not my moshel [parable/example].
Instructor: A different middle God, at least.
Student: Yeah, a different malach [angel]. A different tzar [trouble].
Instructor: Chassidish for me is the Chazon [Chazon Ish], and the same for everything. The only people that could resist the internet, or could resist Chassidish because they resist birth control are the people that believe that God himself told them to have a bunch of babies. It doesn't matter. It has to be something different. God never said that, by the way. But it has to be something. Otherwise, you're just going to... You're not going to have what in the name of who to be to be misnaged [opponent]. You have to have something in the name of something to live. And it's the real problem.
And the real yeshua [salvation] is going to be when we make our own everything. But whatever. That's just a fantasy from a shiach [conversation]. But that would be... it's important to have that ideal to realize that it's not an ideal situation to be against society because it's very destructive if you become a sheigetz [non-Jewish boy/derogatory] and also you become even more of a sheigetz because of that because then you lose everything and it's a problem.
Student: Just to be clear, when the Rambam [Maimonides] says you should go to the midbar [desert], it means this moshel that you're talking about?
Instructor: The Rambam means literally going to the midbar.
Student: No but it doesn't mean this moshel that you're saying.
Instructor: The Rambam literally means going to the midbar.
Student: Become this like a little weird...
Instructor: No, no, not a weirdo. All Jews have... like the Chazon Ish famously told us about whatever he was understanding, right? Jews have made this collective... not Jews, what's called Orthodox, whatever you want to call them. Haredi [ultra-Orthodox] Jews have made this choice to go in the midbar. The literal desert doesn't make a difference. They actually did this. And it's a big sin that makes them crazy. They're all nuts and they're all evil in some sense because of that. Because you get unbalanced, and when you're unbalanced, a lot of things, everything is open in some sense. But also in that world you don't have a view from anywhere else, right?
Student: Yeah, that's... then it's not even... then it's the opposite, right? You need to have... you need to be a little frei [free/secular]...
Instructor: You're not answering the question.
Student: No, I'm diagnosing the problem.
Instructor: I don't have... the answer is an empirical question. I asked why I can't find any normal Rebbe [rabbi/teacher]. So the Torah says that if it would be normal I wouldn't want to be my Rebbe because normal means evil. So therefore you have to be evil a little bit.
And my solution, my halfway joke solution for today is that you should try to find the least destructive mishigas to save you.
And my proposal is... My proposal is that we should just be Jewish and it's more than enough meshuga. We don't realize how meshuga it is. It's connected to last week's thing. It's more than enough meshuga to just not eat pork. That's meshuga enough. But you should realize that it's meshuga. It's not normal.
Like everyone has their dietary preferences and I have the kosher preference. No. It's not our dietary preference to eat kosher. Okay? It's a meshuga. The Chabadniks [Chabad Chassidim] are good at saying this, right? We don't have... No dietary preference. It's a meshuga.
We believe that our God came 5,000 years ago and ever to a mountain and told us: Please my dear Jews, don't eat pork. Don't ask me why. It doesn't make any sense. I promise you it makes no sense. If anyone tells you that it makes sense, he's lying.
That's what you have to believe. And that's more than enough to be meshuga. Now you could be friends with a goy [non-Jew]. You could do everything. It doesn't matter. It's not going to hurt you because you're already totally out of it. Understand?
Or since in reality maybe it's not enough, so everyone should find some other thing personally that works. But I think that this would be a proposal.
Student: It's so crazy it's actually hard to be friends with a goy.
Instructor: Well because you're meshuga.
Student: Even someone honest with yourself, either can be two-faced because you pretend you don't put on tefillin [phylacteries] in the morning. That's one option. You can't do it. Like being the person who puts on tefillin in the morning, you just can't say it.
Instructor: No, I think the ideal way of saying it is this: like where everyone has their weird things and they have this weird thing. We have too many. You also sit in the room and you also go out. You don't tell them... Oh that's a problem because it's discrimination if only they didn't...
Student: No, no, you can't say it because it's so crazy. I didn't even know at the beginning.
Instructor: What's crazy about davening mincha [afternoon prayer]?
Student: It's pretty, it's pretty...
Instructor: No, it's, it's, it's... nobody does this. We have, we have, I work in a, I work in an entirely, pretty much 80% secular workplace. There's nothing weirder than mincha. Right. That, by the way, if you want to know my... literally you see a bunch of people coming into the conference room. You think it's weird, right?
Let's do it this way, these people literally on their computers, 10 feet away, amud [standing], feet to zeman [time], whispering to the wall, 10 minutes, and come out like nothing happened, nothing happened.
Student: My mincha is in a frum [religiously observant] firm, the partners are frum guys, it's much less of an aveirah [sin].
Instructor: Partners are also frum guys.
Student: No, no, no, but there's not so many going around.
Instructor: It's even worse. You would say if they would believe that they're talking to God, there's one thing, but they're not even talking to God. They're just talking to mincha.
Oh, by the way, if you talk to your kids, this whole thing gets lost. It's very normal to whisper a prayer in the corner. We're not even going slow. It doesn't look like we're taking it seriously at all. We're not even going slow. Out loud everybody. Oh, quiet.
What was that?
Instructor: You would say, if they would believe that they're talking to God, there's one thing, but they're not even talking to God, they're just davening milche [davening: praying; milche: Yiddish for "dairy," here meaning superficially/without substance]!
By the way, see, if you daven b'yechidus [b'yechidus: in private/alone] this whole thing gets lost. It's very normal to whisper a prayer in the corner. When you go into the Kesubah [Kesubah: likely referring to a specific prayer or section], we're not even going slow. We're not even—it doesn't look like we're taking it seriously at all. Out loud everybody! Oh, quiet.
But today I'm speaking about this specific kind of ketanus [ketanus: smallness/narrowness] about being outside of society, which is really the root of all evil, because you remember that Shulchan [Shulchan: likely Shulchan Aruch, the Code of Jewish Law], all the maalos hamiddos [maalos hamiddos: character virtues], all the character virtues are really about creating a society that works. That's their end. Then that society has to do something. But that's what it's all about.
Cutting yourself off and calling yourself off society is the worst thing you could do. You deserve death for that.
Like Zionists have the fantasy of creating society. Problem with their society is it's just a likkut [likkut: collection/gathering] of all the messed-upness that you could find in Russia and in America and in England.
The two, three guys that are really hardcore that come in that don't care at all, right? They don't feel the eyes looking at them and they're doing it anyway, right? These guys have nothing to gain from it. They come in because—if you think that it's normal. And he doesn't understand. He looks like a freak. Me? I go every day. I know. I've been a freak. Yeah, too bad. I'm here. I'm whispering to the wall. You don't like it. I don't know. Yeah, I'm out of my mind. Yeah, it works.
They made some society, and then once they're somewhat successful, all the leeches come and start selling soda cans in Tel Aviv. Like there was a billion soda cans selling in Tel Aviv, hocking whatever. Like, so all the racist things come to mind. It's because like, no, we're trying to make a good society.
Student: Yeah, yeah, no, no, I agree.
Instructor: In other words, but the reality is, firstly just to be a Zionist is crazy. I don't know if you know that. It still is, I think. Maybe people were reminded that it's a bit meshuga [meshuga: crazy].
Student: Why it's meshuga?
Instructor: I don't know. Because the—I don't care why it's meshuga.
Student: No, ask it. I think it's critical to live in America, be a Zionist. I think that's—
Instructor: No, it's meshuga. I'm not saying it's outside—because there was all this work that went in to try to make it a normal idea, but never really managed to become a normal idea. Like every nation has its place, and you have to go to some Palestinians like, hello. This is weird. Nobody ever did this. It's normal what it is.
I mean, it's only not meshuga like the Free African State. It's not really normal. There's actually no successful people that actually just picked themselves up from one place and went to the other place and claiming that it's their homeland and made a homeland there. Nobody ever did that besides for the Jews.
I'm not saying they're wrong for doing it, I'm just saying they're the only people that ever did that. It's normal when it just is that way, but it's not normal to make it be that way.
Student: Yeah, no, very good.
Instructor: As part of the project, that's why there's a Yid [Yid: Jew], I have to stop my video, but there's a Yid that claims that the fact that people are not Zionist in Israel is the biggest success of Zionism. Because we're just here. What do you mean, why are we here? I don't know. My father was here. My grandfather was here. My great-grandfather—I'm not sure. I don't know. I don't remember anymore. But that's it. Zeh ma yesh [Zeh ma yesh: Hebrew for "that's what there is/that's all there is"].
I feel just like the Palestinians—their great-grandfathers, they don't know where they're from. So he says he met the young people, they feel like that, many of them. Just like, he said, oh, we finally became natives. Like, ah, Mazel Tov [Mazel Tov: congratulations]. That's whatever. That's a different tradition.
But yeah, if you want to become—yeah, but it's true. But that's—I don't know, it does seem to me that, I mean, like this ideal of making your full society and take responsibility for everything also seems a little meshuga to me. I don't think that's the correct ideal either. You know what I'm saying? Like you can't be autarky. You can't have moral autarky. It's not going to work either.
Student: Very good.
Instructor: So we're back to this picking our poison of where we want to be meshuga. Make sense?
I was reading this thing yesterday that the Amish—there's like seven different levels, seven different levels of Amish. And the more frum [frum: religiously observant] ones are actually more frei [frei: secular/non-observant]. Very interesting. Because it's after the modern ones that have more chumros [chumros: stringencies] about driving certain things, not driving cars, certain things. And because then a bunch of modern people came and they said, look, we can't do this, this is crazy, everyone has to believe in God or whatever. And therefore they asked for a bunch of things. And now they're struggling more.
Student: Like in our society, in some sense.
Instructor: Yeah, there's a lot of kullas [kullas: leniencies] from being a chassidishe [chassidishe: Hasidic] yeshiva also. It's not only in chumros. People don't realize that the amount of people think that being a kat [kat: sect] is being machmir [machmir: stringent]. It's not really, right? It lets you do more things underneath it. It lets you—yeah, exactly. You gotta pay a certain thing and—
But that's enough. By the way, it's also too much. A yarmulke [yarmulke: skullcap] is more than enough crazy. You have to wear a yarmulke and a hat and everything. This is just overdone. But you do have to—you understand what I'm saying? Because as long as there's something strong enough—
Where are the people that don't wear techeles [techeles: ritual blue thread on tzitzit]? It's not a good example, the Jewish context. Where are the people that do? You know who are the frummest people in Yiddishkeit [Yiddishkeit: Judaism/Jewish practice]? They do a chusn mol [chusn mol: unclear term, possibly related to wedding customs]. They don't do it correctly anyways. They do a mitzvah tanz [mitzvah tanz: traditional Hasidic wedding dance], okay. Everyone knows what that is. They do a mitzvah tanz because their elders did it and they don't know what it is. Oh, it doesn't make sense. I don't know, my Baba [Baba: grandmother/ancestor] did that, I'm going to do it too.
And there's people, right, because they wear the same socks as their Baba, they also like to do the same aveiros [aveiros: sins] as their Baba. If you wear different socks, then okay, then you have to do the mitzvah.
My point is just that it's not correct that the more things you add, the more separated you become from society. It's not actually true in certain ways.
By the way, I've noticed—there's another drasha [drasha: sermon/lecture], but many of the—I'm making a close-up of Not Satmar people—but in certain ways the Satmar people are the most Americanized people there are around. And Not Satmar people are the most Yiddish people there are around. Because Not Satmar shul in some sense is just the hamshach [hamshach: continuation] of the shul in Europe from 10,000 years ago, whatever, however many years ago. And the Yiddish shul is totally American shul.
Satmar is probably like the first one to create actual modern-style American shuls in Lakewood. Okay, go to Satmar Shul 9, the new one. You'll see that they basically bought modern fixtures like this one for their shul.
Student: What's going on with you?
Instructor: No modern Orthodox shul would do that. If they would do that, it would be in a messed-up, a different way. Not in the same way, not with such courage, not like with such familiarity. It's reality.
And that is because there's not anything else—because there's other things making them meshuga. So everyone chooses where to be meshuga. It's not entirely true that the more frum are less—least are less assimilated. Just everyone choosing where to be not assimilated. This dichotomy—
Student: I cover what you're saying.
Instructor: Yeah, this dichotomy used to live in—what's that shul by that weird massive intersection that's a hundred streets coming into it?
Student: The old shul?
Instructor: Yeah, that. Exactly. Now there's nobody there anymore. They modernized like one fixture and you can feel the dissonance for miles.
Student: Yeah, you could see, right?
Instructor: There's no—it's slim. There's no shul in Lakewood that has like the panels on the walls still from how they used to make shuls in the olden times. Everyone is modern. We have chairs and tables that look like this.
So that's the nekudah [nekudah: point]. But kids, what I'm trying to say is that everyone should try to do meshuga, but not too much meshuga.
Student: That's right.
- Speaker A mentions wanting to learn Rambam on Aristotle
- Side digression: Wife wants to travel to Italy; son jokes that father prefers traveling through time via studying Rambam and Aristotle over tourist destinations
- Sets up theme: intellectual/spiritual engagement vs. physical experience
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Side digression - Story about friendship:
- Someone complained about not having friends
- Speaker A claims seforim (books/authors) as friends
- The Shaagas Aryeh maaseh (story):
- Shaagas Aryeh was a sharp, contentious scholar who argued with many authorities
- A bookshelf fell on him; he interpreted this as "revenge" from the authors he disputed
- He asked mechilah (forgiveness) from all; all forgave except two achronim (later authorities)
- Those two remained "kabdonim" (holding grudges)
Transition point: Most deceased scholars forgive in olam ha'emes (the world of truth/afterlife)
Supporting story for the "forgiveness in olam ha'emes" principle:
- Famous disputants in life
- Story: When R. Yaakov Emden died, only available burial spot was near R. Yonasan Eibeshitz
- The Nadvorna Rebbe was consulted
- His ruling: "In shamayim (heaven) they already made peace" - so burial together is permitted
Key observation: These are "legends" about what happens in olam ha'emes
- Speaker notes: The Rambam "loves these legends"
- Critical point raised: Nobody actually went there and came back to verify
- Rabbi Chananya ben Gamliel's position: All those liable for kares (spiritual excision) who received malkos (lashes) are exempt from their kares
- Proof text: "V'niklah achicha l'einecha" - once he is lashed, he is "your brother" again, exempt from kares
- Rav's ruling: Halacha follows Rabbi Chananya ben Gamliel
- "מן סליק לעילא ואתא ואמר?" - "Who went up to heaven and came back to tell us?"
- The philosophical problem: Kares is a heavenly punishment. How can any human authority declare what the "halacha" is regarding heavenly court proceedings?
- This is unknowable through normal legal methods
- Cites Rabbi Shimon Levi who listed three things where beis din shel maalah (heavenly court) and beis din shel matah (earthly court) agreed
- Problem with this answer (noted but not fully developed): How did R. Shimon Levi know either?
- "אלא קרא קדרשינן" - "Rather, we are expounding a verse"
- When Rav says "halacha," he means: the pasuk (verse) seems to support this position
- We're not claiming empirical knowledge of heavenly proceedings
- We're claiming this is the correct interpretation of the Torah's teaching
- All Chassidishe stories about what happens in shamayim are not empirical reports
- They are expressions of what we believe the Torah teaches is true
Story A - The Vilna Gaon in Shamayim (Misnagdish/rationalist version):
- Vilna Gaon arrives in heaven; they want to put him in Gehennom for being a Misnaged
- The Torah wraps itself around him, protecting him because he learned so much Torah
- Saved from punishment for "the aveira of misnagedus"
Story B - Reb Noson's Shver (Chassidish version):
- Reb Noson of Breslov's father-in-law was a Misnaged/Litvak rabbi
- Reb Nachman told Reb Noson: Your shver is a tzaddik
- Reb Noson was surprised (a Litvak, a tzaddik?)
- Reb Nachman's response: Being a Misnaged is one aveira; he'll get one extra "patch" in Gehennom
- Key principle: Every tzaddik sins; one more sin doesn't disqualify someone as a tzaddik
Speaker A becomes serious:
- The Vilna Gaon issued a cherem (ban) on Chassidim
- Prohibited marrying them
- Prohibited doing business with them
- "Hiter dumam" (permitted their blood) - as the Baal HaTanya characterizes it
Speaker A's position: This was a serious aveira (sin)
- Even if the Vilna Gaon had valid criticisms, issuing such a cherem is forbidden
- Comparison to: Yerovam ben Nevat, the brothers selling Yosef, sinas chinam (baseless hatred)
- Same category as the problem of Ezra and the Prushim
The Problem:
- How did storytellers know what happened in shamayim?
- Example: Reb Chaim Elazar Shapiro attributes a story to the Bat Ayin
- But who told the Bat Ayin? The chain doesn't solve the epistemological problem
The Resolution (returning to the Gemara):
- "מאן סליק לעילא? אלא קרא קדרשינן"
- These stories are not empirical reports
- They are interpretations of what Torah teaches is ultimately true
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- "Chayav b'dinei adam" (liable in human court) = practical consequence (court takes money from your account)
- "Chayav b'dinei shamayim" (liable in heavenly court) = what does this mean practically?
- Common misconception: Dinei shamayim is more mysterious/unknowable than dinei adam
- Speaker A's position: It's the opposite
- Dinei adam is limited by Torah's procedural rules, legal technicalities, evidentiary requirements
- Dinei shamayim = "what we think is the real truth" = human reason unconstrained by procedural limitations
- It means: "If you ask me, you really should pay"
Practical application mentioned (by Speaker B):
- This concept does "great work in torts"
- Handles cases of grama (indirect causation) where technical liability doesn't match moral responsibility
- "Yotzei dinei shamayim" = if you're an ehrliche Yid (honest Jew), you should pay even without technical obligation
- "Shamayim" is a word for what we think is the real truth
- In olam hazeh: we're limited, sometimes must do suboptimal things due to constraints
- In shamayim: no such limitations - represents the ideal/true judgment
- Core problem: In Olam HaZeh, you can't really punish Tzadikim
- Hashem can only punish Tzadikim "by themselves" (privately/differently)
- For a Talmid Chacham who sins, we don't give niddui (excommunication) because we must protect the Talmid Chacham's honor
- Distinction: We say "to Allah" (euphemism?) we don't make niddui against you - only applies to Talmid Chacham status
Side note: Speaker mentions having a theory about this, thought of it today, will send it out
Side digression: Chad Gadya reference
- Dubner Magid's explanation: Why do we say Chad Gadya after the Seder? "The kids are a mess" (keeping them engaged)
- All these stories/myths about someone going to "Himmel" (Heaven) and seeing things
- Interpretation: These stories mean that in *this world* we can't say certain things openly
- We must respect Rabbanan and Geonim outwardly
- But "really it deserves patch" (criticism/correction)
- Practical reality: Being a Talmid Chacham is real and provides protection
- Key claim: Often the Beit Din shel Matah does things the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does NOT agree with
- Speaker claims to know many such cases
- Two categories:
1. Things Beit Din shel Matah shouldn't have done at all
2. Things they should do, but Beit Din shel Ma'alah doesn't agree
- Any time you punish someone between ages 13-20, Beit Din shel Ma'alah says "Are you crazy? The guy's a little baby"
- Beit Din shel Ma'alah only punishes from age 20
- Earthly perspective: "Your Rebbe, the guy came out of his pampers yesterday. Doesn't know anything. Tried to teach him something, maybe."
- Earthly justification: Maybe that's chinuch (education), maybe there's legal responsibility from 13
- Speaker: "It seems unreasonable to me"
- Not in ALL senses - "everyone knows that"
- Example: "Elim k'man d'lesvhu" - In Choshen Mishpat, we don't actually consider 13 to be of age
- But the general framework applies
- When speaker says "what's in Shamayim," he means the truth
- But "l'idach" (on the other hand), in this world people are limited
- "We can't have both, because sometimes we're stuck"
- "Good kind of shochad": We have to take certain biases/considerations
- Example: "I have to respect you because l'ma'aseh you're still my father"
- Various social obligations that constrain truth-telling
- People say "in Shamayim they would make sure" (justice would be done)
- Or: "If the Rebbe would have seen now, of course he would be modeh (admit/agree)"
- Speaker's response: "He would NOT be modeh"
- Why?: "Because he would be wrong" - but paradoxically "the real Rebbe is right"
- Resolution: "In Shamayim, if you're so sure about the truth - yeah, it's really like that"
- The heavenly version of the Rebbe agrees; the earthly version is limited
- Is the speaker saying malkus is the type of thing that *should* get rid of kares, "just like b'emes"?
- Rambam reframes these questions as questions of belief
- Then different question: Can we use "machria" (decisive ruling) on questions of belief?
- Clarification: Nobody ever expected everyone to drop dead at whatever age kares is supposed to kill you
- "That's not how it really works, ever"
- Rambam in Moreh Nevuchim on levels of punishment:
- "Averah she'esh v'kares" means: it's an averah AND we believe it's a "really really really big averah"
- Speaker's sardonic reading: "You deserve kares. I'm not doing anything to you... It throws you over the roof. It says you're a really really really evil guy... out of our community, however you want to call it. And that's all. And then they move on."
- But they give you malkus
- If they give you malkus, that cancels out the kares
- "There's a whole logic to it, but that's more like a different shitah"
- Answer: The only real difference (nafka mina l'ma'aseh) of kares is that it's "really, really bad"
- Student pushes: The really bad one gets malkus AND the not-so-bad one also gets malkus?
- Response: "Exactly. One deserves kares and if he wouldn't get malkus he would get kares. He actually would."
- Correction: "I think that he should. I don't know if he would but he should."
- "Maybe the Aibishter - that's his zechut"
Side remark: Teaching Daughters Torah
- "That's why you have to teach your daughter Torah, because otherwise she's going to realize that it doesn't really work"
- You have to know that "it's his zechut" (merit that saves him)
- "But the ma'aseh - you deserve it. For this thing, you deserve it."
- Can you actually die? "Got's es cheshboinos" (God has His calculations)
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- Every Yid has to have a Rebbe
- Every Yid has a LOT of Rebbes
- Universal problem: All of us have problems with our Rebbes - they don't agree with everything we say
- "Unfortunately"
- Reason: "That's because they're in Olam HaZeh. They're limited."
- Resolution: "But really, the Rebbe in Olam HaBa was modeh"
- Speaker had a Rebbe who came to him in a dream
- Asked him about something the Rebbe "hacks against very much" (strongly opposes)
- Dream-Rebbe said: "What are you crazy? Of course you should do it!"
- Speaker "really yelled like that"
- Conclusion: "It doesn't matter. He doesn't have the lefish (capacity) to understand"
Meta-moment: Speaker loses his train of thought
- "I don't remember why I wanted to talk about this"
- Was supposed to lead into a kasha (question)
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- "Very important kasha on reality"
- If someone has a teretz (answer), they should tell him
- The kasha is "like a whole shitah explaining the kasha"
- "Why is nobody normal without being meshuga?"
- Trying to say it without too many names (to avoid lashon hara)
- "Everyone is modeh that the teretz is somewhat in the kasha"
- Everyone admits the world is meshuga - in various ways, but everyone admits it somehow
- Claim: "The default is not to be a normal person"
- Student: "There is a gestalt of a well-adjusted person"
- Speaker: "That's noch a shigaon" (that's also a craziness)
- Clarification: "Whatever your definition of normal is, nobody is normal"
- Most people nowadays are "extremely relativists"
- They think the definition of good/healthy (mentally, spiritually) is:
- Whatever you think
- Whatever you like
- Whatever your neighbors like
- This "goes back to people's arbitrary preferences"
- "That's what most people actually think"
- "Some people have a God who is also one of the people that like things"
- Speaker's assessment: "That doesn't save them from their main problem"
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- Core claim: Most people think "good" means "whatever I want"
- Religious version: Some add that there's also a God who wants things, so good = what He wants (or also what He wants, depending on how frum)
- Speaker's verdict: This is "shiguan" (insanity) - everyone treats this as the default position
- Common phrase "whatever floats your boat" is false
- Counter-argument: Even boats don't float arbitrarily - there are good boats and bad boats
- You have to make a good boat; not just anything works
- This is "meshigas gomar" (complete craziness)
- A few people do live as if there are objectively good and bad things
- Disturbing observation: Most of these people turn out to be neo-Nazis or actual Nazis
- Speaker's personal experience: Finds thinkers who help understand Rambam and the tzadikim, validate Aristotle and Plato, then discovers they're literal Nazis
- Key concept: "Goy she-Litvak" (a gentile who follows tradition like a Litvak follows halacha)
- The Litvak follows halacha; the traditional goy follows his mesorah
- Problem: The goy's mesorah includes "Esav soneh l'Yaakov" (Esau hates Jacob)
- So the traditional goy who takes his tradition seriously becomes a real anti-Semite
- Clarification: "Litvak" here is a type, not about actual Litvaks
Side digression: Definition of Anti-Semite
- Joke cited: "An anti-Semite is someone who hates Jews more than is appropriate"
- Maybe from a goy's perspective, there's a "correct measure" of hating Jews
- All ethics is about correct measure - perhaps there's a permissible amount
- Personal observation: Every time speaker finds someone impressive, they also have serious problems
- This will happen to listeners with the speaker too
- Example cited: Someone said speaker has good pshat in Torah but also "a lot of craziness"
- Reality: Every thinker has "meshigasen, nonsense, nuttiness"
- Speaker finds someone who:
- Explains himself well and clearly
- Doesn't beat around the bush or bluff
- Correctly notes Torah doesn't require "heimishe hechsher" - just kosher
- But then: Same person talks about going to Uman for Rosh Hashanah as if it's obvious/required
- Claims "the holy Rebbe said if you don't go to Uman you don't have a tikkun"
- Speaker's objection: Where does Torah say this? This contradicts the person's own stated methodology
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- Speaker attended a fundraising conference ("how to get money from wrong pockets to right pockets")
- Describes it as teaching "capital allocation" - an important societal function
- Compares to self-help conferences generally
- Central critique: These conferences are about means, not ends
- They teach efficiency, goals, SMART goals, achievement
- But: This is "the logic of the reshoim" (wicked people)
- They never address what your goals *should* be
- Conference subtext (sometimes explicit): "I don't care if you're raising for Lefkowitz, Schwarz, Satmar, or Tzahal - same rules apply"
- Speaker's objection: What if someone is raising for Al-Qaeda? Shouldn't we throw them out?
- The "tricks" and ethics of efficiency are morally neutral in a dangerous way
- A person trained to be "efficient" can become like Eichmann
- Eichmann was extremely efficient - followed all principles of modern management
- Being an efficient Holocaust organizer still means "doing your job"
- Point: Efficiency itself is not a virtue without good ends
- Hypothetical: In olden days, powerful skills would be restricted
- If you knew how to "get anything out of anyone" (like Dale Carnegie)
- The Sanhedrin would make a cherem (ban)
- Only teach to people 35+ years old with three character witnesses
- Must verify they won't use for bad purposes
- These are powerful manipulation/sales tools
- We should have a "board" or control over who learns them
- Should only teach to "vetted people that already know they have good ends"
- Current reality: No such restrictions exist
- "Anything measured becomes a target"
- The medium becomes the message - always
- Critique: The course speaker attended doesn't cover this principle
- Key principle: "You become what you do, not what you believe in"
- Exception: Belief can be a kind of doing (like saying Shema twice daily)
- Final point: If you work on means all day, you become efficient, not good
- The practice of efficiency-focused work shapes character toward efficiency, not goodness
- Manipulation = trying to get something from someone that:
- Is not the good thing itself
- Is not really good for them
- Is good for me or some third purpose
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- Third-hand knowledge of someone who stole a million dollars from a Yid
- Method: Deposited a check twice; plain theft
- The thief justified it with a "shtickel Torah" (tofes l'baal chov b'makom shechav l'acherim)
- His defense: "I went to this course. They taught me how to be very efficient."
- Speaker's conclusion: The course made him a worse ganav, or at least enabled it
- People pursuing efficiency don't have to confront that they're learning to be a ganav
- Analogy: Teaching lockpicking
- Will you use it to rob a bank or help your bubbe when she's locked out?
- The teacher says "I don't care"—this is amoral teaching
- The amorality allows "80% evil" to sneak in unnoticed
Side Digression: Objection and Response
- Objection raised: "This applies to everything—don't sell lighters, don't let anyone drive..."
- Speaker's response: "This is part of the brainwashing you got from capitalism"
- Claim: You can't be a mashgiach without being moral; can't be a menahel without a mashgiach
- In Plato's ideal educational society, such tools would be hidden
- Analogy to nuclear weapons: Some tools we have enough sechel to restrict to proven-good people
- Applies to: Management, human management, becoming a good Rebbe
- Being "good" in the sense of efficient/effective is dangerous
- Should only be taught to people proven to be morally good first
- Historical precedent: Sodot ha-Torah, secret societies—"there's a reason for that. It's not crazy."
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- Claim: If you have a neshama, efficiency-based living doesn't work (baruch Hashem)
- Speaker knows ~100 people; none of the good ones manage their life this way
- Some manage their business this way, but more sporadically than they think
Side Digression: Vort on Nistar and Nigleh
- Quote: "Hanistrot l'Hashem Elokeinu v'hanigalot lanu ul'vaneinu"
- Interpretation offered: Everything in between (nistar and nigleh) is just "l'cha"—for you alone, don't share with others
- Challenge: Every self-help book says have a goal, make resolutions
- Speaker's question: Do you know anyone who actually succeeded with their New Year's resolution?
- "I don't know anyone that it worked for. It doesn't work for me."
- Provocative claim: "If there's someone that it works for him, I think you should stay away from him because they're a psychopath."
- Human beings are not machines; not "efficient causes"
- Definition: Machine = efficient cause = thing that only does ends (goals)
- What meaning actually is: Doing something that has a real goal/end, not a fake goal
- A "goal" in the problematic sense = something not itself good, but leads to something good
- Even then, what you're doing is the goodness of that thing
- Gemara principle: "Do things for themselves" (lishmah)
- If what you do is only leading to something good (not good itself), you won't succeed unless you turn yourself into a machine
- Most people can't turn themselves into machines
- Those who succeed at this become CEOs
- Key distinction: Someone in service of capitalism vs. someone providing for wife and children
- Providing for family = a very good end (though not the final end)
- Rambam cited: You don't go to Gan Eden for providing; only for what you do with that
- Getting a job, doing it well—all part of being a good father, husband, member of society
- The moment it separates from that: Definition of evil, becoming a machine
- A machine has no goal—"that's what evil is, that's a shin dalet"
- Modern complaint: "I have no meaning in my job"
- Zaida's confusion: "You gotta have a job"—he doesn't understand the complaint
- Zaida had meaning: his story was coming home to his wife with a check
- Definition of meaning: "There's a story that ends somewhere"
- Meaning is not a fancy feeling
- Jobs are set up so you can't do them if you care about coming home to your wife
- The language and concepts in the workplace are "machine concepts, not human concepts"
- To succeed, you must speak their language and work on their concepts
- Result: Very hard for someone with a neshama to live in that world
Question from class: What do you mean by neshama?
Answer:
- A neshama = a person who is a human being
- Some people forgot they're human beings and became machines
- A machine doesn't have a neshama
- Some people don't have a neshama—they're happy being machines
- Assumption about audience: "Nobody that listens to my shiur is happy with that"
- Direct statement: "I'm telling you, nobody can live like this"
- "If you manage to live for a long time like that, I don't want to know about you"
---
- Blunt declaration: "I don't want to be your friend" if you're the type who lives by daily goals, monthly goals, KPIs, BCGs, etc.
- Claims none of his actual friends live this way
- Parallel claim: "Learn five blatt every day" approach never produced a lamdan (Torah scholar)
- Clarification: Not saying don't learn five blatt—saying if metrics become your "engine," your "gas," you're "nuts"
Side Digression: Neurodivergence Discussion
- Student raises neurodivergence as possible explanation
- Speaker's response: That's different—neurodivergent person has genuine *taanug* (pleasure) in lists and checkmarks
- Compares it to mathematical beauty, "the boxiness of the world"
- Key distinction: Someone who genuinely loves the aesthetic of organization ≠ someone forcing themselves into metrics-driven life
---
- At the conference, felt uncomfortable with all the "tools" being offered
- Self-description: "I consider myself a good person allowed to use tools"
- Core problem: "I can't use them if I don't believe in them"
- Definition offered: Having a neshama = having a very hard time submitting to things you don't believe in
- Sometimes calls it "ego" but insists it's really the neshama
- Example: If told to grovel before someone for a favor, can't do it unless convinced that person deserves it or there's virtue in the act
Side Reference: Sales Book
- Mentions a sales book where Chapter 1 = why you must believe in what you sell
- Chapter 2 = how to make yourself believe if you don't
- Implication: Most people don't believe, and without belief, you won't succeed
- "We have a neshama, therefore I can't work" — Speaker rejects this as nonsense
- Core belief/hope: There IS a way to work and succeed without corrupting yourself
- "We don't have to be oifgevafn (given up) and not get anything done"
- Strong claim: People who CAN'T do the corrupt things are the good people
- Those who CAN do it are "corrupted"
- Outrage: "It's not normal that everyone has to become oys a human being (cease being human) in order to be successful"
- "The only reason I want to be successful is because I want to be a successful HUMAN BEING"
- As a "rebellious" or "oiver chochom" bochur, had complaints about yeshiva (too slow, too fast, etc.)
- Went to rebbes and mashpi'im with these complaints
- Their response pattern: "You're right, BUT..."
- "You're a bochur, submit to the yeshiva until you get married"
- "You're in kollel, submit until [next stage]"
- Never actually arrives at the point where you can "actually live"
- Thanked them for advice, then didn't follow it
- "I wanted to do it, it just didn't work because I have a neshama and I can't"
- Two types of advisors:
1. Manipulators (dumb ones) - just say "the system is corrupt but play to win" — this morally corrupts the person
2. Sincere ones who are "stuck in the same place"
- Better manipulation would be: Try to convince him the system is actually correct
- But maybe they know there are no good arguments
---
- At the conference, one person gave a drusha (speech) that actually resonated
- Core message: "Shnorren (fundraising/collecting) is a mitzvah"
- It's NOT a mitzvah to make lots of money
- It's NOT a mitzvah to impress the wealthy
- The mitzvah is simply to DO the act — knock on doors, ask for money
- Success or failure doesn't matter
- Wake up, say "הנני מוכן ומזומן" (I am ready and prepared), go do your mitzvah
- Speaker's self-knowledge: "I know how to do mitzvos. I know how to do correct things."
- Can handle: "It's hard to do the good thing" — that's workable
- Cannot handle: "You just have to win" — doesn't know how to live with that
- The difference: One is about virtue, the other is about submission to meaningless success
- Others say: "Work on yourself to not take yourself seriously, to be a better slave"
- Speaker: "What? I don't know how that looks"
- Will do degrading work if forced (mortgage, rent) but won't accept that as an ideal
- Problem identified: It's also "nuts" to do things without a goal
- The drusha guy is "living without a goal" in some sense — "just doing things"
- The weird claim: Your job is to knock on doors and get thrown out, not to actually raise money
- "Hashem will send you money" — "Ask him what's his post office address"
- "I don't know anyone that Hashem sent money yet in my life"
- Someone filled cart with no money, borrowed at register
- Said "der Oybershter hot geholfen" (God helped)
- Speaker's response: "Some yid gave you the money. The Oybershter didn't give you nothing."
- If "Hashem shikst altz" (God sends everything), why go to the grocery at all?
- Why not sit home and wait for the fridge to fill up?
- "Who are you fooling?"
- Accusation: "Your picture of reality is totally not in sync with how God actually is"
- Belief in "a-causal world where things have nothing to do with their effects" — but of course they do
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- Context: Continuing discussion of the story where someone tells a shnorrer to trust in Hashem
- The person giving religious advice is "actually doing a mitzvah" - not just mooching
- Distinction made:
- The moocher's problem is *bein adam l'chaveiro* (interpersonal)
- The person with a job/mission has a *bein adam l'Hashem* (God-related) framework
- Sharp criticism: "Your words don't make any sense. You're saying words that you yourself don't know what they mean"
- "Hashem's gonna help" - what does this actually mean?
- Provocative claim: Religious people say these phrases constantly *because they don't really believe in Hashem*
- The constant invocation ("I'm doing it for Hashem") masks lack of genuine belief
- References Chovos Halevavos on internal states as potential deeper explanation
- Central puzzle: Why can't there be a "normal person" who gives the same practical advice but frames it correctly?
- Only the "toyne" (critic/questioner) said something sensible in the story
- Practical virtue: A shnorrer should brush his shoes and dress properly
- Reason: It's disrespectful to approach someone for money while looking disheveled
- Character trait (middos toivos): There's a proper *karakter middah* for how to be a shnorrer
- Alternative presentation: "The gvir doesn't like chnyokus (slobs). Dress well, you'll make more money."
- Key insight: Same exact practical advice can be given either:
1. As a mitzvah/virtue (proper self-presentation is inherently good)
2. As manipulation (dress well to extract more money)
- Even the virtuous framing isn't the "final good"
- Chain: Proper presentation → More donations → Money to yeshiva → Eventually becomes Torah
- The puzzle restated: Why is the only "normal" person (giving sensible advice) presented as a nutcase?
- Wrong way: Impress people through fakery
- Right way: Impress through correct preparation, proper setting, etc.
- "My job is not to impress people. I mean, it's to impress people, but that's just what it is"
- Impressing correctly is part of doing the job right
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- Claim: Every teenager spending "seventy years" watching TikTok is contemporary avodah zarah
- Two versions of the "religious" response:
1. TikTok was created directly by evil forces
2. The whole internet was created by the Sitra Achra (evil side) to test bnei yeshiva
- Practical advice everyone agrees with: Put filters on kids' phones/computers
- People who don't do this are either "nuts, don't have a choice, or their society is nuts"
- But: The only "normal" person is still somehow strange
- Context: Speech given ~20 years ago, people laughed at him
- Content (from Zohar):
- What's the difference between a mensch and a beheima (animal)?
- A mensch has ne'emana (uprightness/faith)
- A beheima walks bent over; a mensch walks upright
- If you walk around hunched (over your phone), you're a beheima
- Assessment: "He said the most normal thing" - but then what? The practical implications remain unclear
- People think being "well-adjusted" means moderate positions
- Example: "If you say no social media at all, you must be crazy. Thirty minutes a day is fine."
- This isn't thinking the problem through
- It's a "getchke" (idol/fetish) of well-adjustment
- The fantasy: "I can engage with everything on perfect terms and craft a perfect human experience that doesn't fall apart"
- This is another form of meshugas (craziness)
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- Modern Orthodox meshugas: They don't believe in the yetzer hara (evil inclination)
- Haredi meshugas: They don't believe in the yetzer tov (good inclination)
- Speaker re-read discussion with Modern Orthodox author about "correct sex education"
- Her approach: Sex is holy, do it correctly, don't be puritan, don't make kids hate their bodies
- Speaker's critique: She "totally missed the boat"
- No respect for the yetzer hara as a "really powerful destructive force"
- "It can make a mabul (flood)" - she doesn't recognize this
- Lives in "fantasy universe" that maybe exists in "three blocks of Teaneck for people between thirty and forty"
- Speaker agrees with her conclusions
- She's "a bit normal, very good"
- The other side (Haredi) is crazy because:
- Their solutions don't actually solve problems
- They don't believe in yetzer tov
- They don't believe in *derech hamitzvah* (the way of the commandment)
- Same kasha everywhere: You meet someone sensible, want to follow them, then discover they've "missed the boat" in some other way
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- This is how the discussion started: Nachman's critique of the chochom (wise man)
- The chochom is "retarded" - why can't he just give the same good advice properly?
- The teretz: The *derech ha'emesa* (way of truth) exists
- Qualification: "It's a better question than an answer"
- More of a "request" than a question
- Tentative claim: There IS a way to do all this correctly, at least to some extent
- Concession: "You have to be meshuge in reality, unfortunately"
- Retraction: "I don't think you have to be meshuge. I don't think we should say this drasha shouldn't be meshuge"
- Core insight: In this world, it's very hard for one person to "make anything, write anything without tipping over the boat"
- Possibly easier as a tzibur (community) than as an individual
- Implication: Any articulated position tends to become unbalanced
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- Core claim: Going against societal reality is extremely difficult without strong support
- Requires either:
- A "very strong backbone"
- Alternative social infrastructure (though "nobody actually has that")
- Archimedes' lever metaphor: You need something to take you out of the default position
- Key insight: That thing is "by definition meshuga" (crazy)
- Reference: Rambam's discussion of becoming a "desert father/mother" and leaving society
- Rambam is against it as an ideal but acknowledges it's sometimes necessary
- Crucial framing: Leaving society is actually an aveira (sin)
- Why? Because the correct way of being human is to live within society
- More specifically: to live within *your* society
- This is how God made people - the nature of humans is to stay where they are
- "Lech-lecha" (Abraham's departure) is a "nice romantic drasha" but not human nature
- Strong claim: If you're in a bad society, you WILL be bad
- Anyone claiming they can be good in a bad society is speaking "nonsense"
- Distinction:
- You can be a "good person" according to what that society defines as good
- But you cannot be a *really* good person if that society's definition is incomplete
- Identified as "main contention of modern orthodoxy": the belief you can be good while fully integrated
- American "good person" ideal (used to include church/synagogue attendance)
- Modern Orthodox person = "very good American Jew" - no problem with that
- But: If you believe the Torah's claim that being the best American is "still not good enough," you have a problem
- Personal belief expressed: In 2025, America doesn't have an ideal of good people
- "There are no good people in America as Americans"
- Therefore: You must go against your society
- This is framed as: "a very big bad thing" and "a huge sin" - but necessary
---
- Going against society makes you meshuga by definition
- The "good ways" of doing this:
- Claiming "I have a Rebbe, I have a Torah, this absolute truth"
- Response to objection that this is "olam hadimyon" (fantasy world): "This is what you have to say"
- Extreme formulation: "We are the only people in history to know the truth"
- The 30 people in Lakewood have the complete, pure, distilled truth
- Not the Hasidim in Boro Park, not Five Towns, not Freehold
- "100 percent mizukak" (purified)
- Includes everything down to "how to tie your shoelaces"
- Method: Teach only this, nothing else, for 10-15 years (a generation)
- Result: People with "an anchor outside of America"
- Clarification: This anchor-creation is not itself the "actual good thing"
- Most people are still messed up
- But it creates a "separate pole" - like a "multipolar world"
- Without another pole, even your Yiddishkeit is "according to the sar (angel/prince) of America"
Side Digression: The Sar of America
- Reference to "shiv'im sarim" (70 angelic princes of nations)
- The sar of America "conquered like 15 sarim"
- "All my pshatim are from him" if you don't have an anchor outside
- Golus = living within a bad society
- To not be in golus, you need a really strong anchor
- Archimedes again: "You need a lever long enough to stand outside the world"
- Conclusion: "You have to be meshuga. I don't know of anyone that succeeds without being meshuga."
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- Anecdote: Friend became a Bianer Chassid (not his family's tradition)
- Speaker asked: Why Biana specifically? Could have been Breslov, Chabad
- Friend's answer: "In Biana there's the least Chassidus"
- Needs a Chassidus for practical reasons (children, shul, community)
- Looked for where you "have to do the least"
- Biana requirements: Come to Yerushalayim every Rosh Hashanah, wear the bekeshe
- No clothing requirements otherwise, minimal obligations
- Principle: Since we have to be meshuga, find the *least* meshuga thing that can take you out of reality
- The trick is finding something "less destructive"
- Amish reference: "It's not actually necessary to be entirely meshuga"
- You only need ONE anchoring point outside
- It must be real and somewhere else - "can't be the American version of Judaism"
- One thing where "we think entirely different than everyone"
- Belief that "everyone is just brainwashed, nebech, there's nobody to talk to"
- Framing: "Avraham HaIvri is not in a lechatchila situation" - this is b'dieved (after the fact) necessity
- "Everyone has to choose their poison"
- "Not such a bad poison"
- One separating belief: "I think that this is Moshiach"
- That's enough to create separation
- "Has too many meshugaim, but they don't need most of them"
- One or two crazy beliefs is enough
- Result: "This allows them to do a lot of things because they're free"
- Freedom comes from having that external anchor
---
- Personal view: "Just being Jewish is more than enough"
- This is what he really thinks
- Only works for people who "realize how crazy it is to be Jewish"
- Problem: If you only talk with Jews your whole life seriously, you don't realize this
- Solution: Talk about "the true things" (God, etc.) with non-Jews
- Then you realize: "Just being a Jew... this is meshuga"
- "We are the Parah Adumah people"
- Why do we have Parah Adumah? Because it has no ta'am (reason/taste)
- It's "keeping your head above the water"
- "It's going to purify us from all the shtussim (nonsense)"
- The irrational commandment saves us precisely because it's irrational
Final Jab at Litvaks
- Objection raised: But a Litvak doesn't wear Rabbeinu Tam's tefillin (the second pair)
- Response: "At that point Litvak nebech thinks that that's true"
- Implication: Litvaks have rationalized away the meshuga element and thus lost their anchor
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- Central claim: The solution to needing an external reference point is embracing being a "poshut'e yid" (simple Jew)
- This identity serves as "keeping your head above the water"
- It "purifies us from all the shtusim (nonsense)"
- Key feature: Practices like tefillin work precisely because they don't have a rational "ta'am" (reason)
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- Explicit admission: What's being proposed is a "chet" (sin), 100% an aveirah
- "You're not allowed to do it"
- Conditional justification:
- If the world were good, this would be forbidden
- It makes you "a bad person" - specifically an "unbalanced person, which is the definition of bad"
- But: When trying to bring in truth or establish "a base of reality that is not in this one," you need something to extract yourself from society
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- Conventional wisdom reversed: People think America is easy for Jews, Russia was hard
- Actual claim: Russia made it EASY to be a Jew
- Just make a bris = anti-communism, anti-atheism = you're a Jew
- You become "kol ha'olam kulo me'ever echad" (the whole world on one side, you on the other)
- The subsumption problem: Liberalism says "we're all crazy, let's be crazy that way, no problem"
- In America: "You make a bris, so everyone has their meshugaas, you have your meshugaas"
- Result: You're NOT set apart - you're just one flavor of acceptable craziness
- Requirement: "In your mind there has to be something: No, not really. This is the cause, this is the reality"
---
- Everyone agrees it's crazy to rent a $30,000 hall for a 17-18 year old son
- "He didn't do nothing. He didn't even meet his kallah yet"
- Crucial observation: It costs NOTHING to not do it - you actually save money
- Provocative claim: "Most social pressure is imagined"
- Speaker claims personal experience: "I've tried it out, I'm telling you"
- COVID proved it - people made simple weddings, "it was so easy"
- Only need two mechutanim (in-laws) to agree
- The empirical observation: "The only guy that actually does it is a meshugene that believes he worships a dead grave in Ukraine"
- Why it works for them: "I'm not one of these people. My religion is a different religion. What makes me tick is something else."
- They have something "in the name of which" to go against society
---
- "When people say it's society, it's not society - it's their God"
- Legitimate delegation: Most things you correctly delegate to society
- Example: "How do you know how a wedding looks?"
- You won't find it in Hilchos Ishus
- Minhag = "whatever people do because it's Jewish"
- "You have no other God. You have no God but what everyone else does"
- You can complain against your God - "everyone complains against their God, that's why he's a God"
- Core logic: "The only way to act in the name of something else is to actually have something else"
- "The only God that actually does something different is the guy with a different God"
- Examples of resistance that require a "different god":
- Resisting the internet
- Resisting certain chassidish practices
- Resisting birth control
- These only work for "people that believe that God himself told them" specifically
- "God never said that by the way, but it has to be something"
- "You have to have something in the name of something to live"
---
- Rambam's advice to "go to the midbar" is meant literally
- Chazon Ish to Satmar Rebbe reference: Jews (Haredi Jews specifically) have made this collective choice
- "The literal desert doesn't make a difference" - they created separation
- It's a "big sin": "It makes them crazy. They're all nuts"
- "They're all evil in some sense because of that"
- Mechanism: "When you're unbalanced, everything is open in some sense"
- Additional problem: Within that world, "you don't have a view from anywhere else"
Student Challenge
- "Then you need to be a little frei" to have perspective
- Speaker: "You're not answering the question"
- Response: "I'm diagnosing the problem... I'm not answering the empirical question"
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- Diagnosis: If something is "normal" it won't want to be separate, because "normal means evil"
- Therefore: "You have to be evil a little bit"
- Proposal: "Find the least destructive meshugaas to save you"
- "We should just be Jewish and it's more than enough meshugaas"
- "We don't realize how meshuga it is"
- "It's more than enough meshugaas to just not eat pork"
- Critical reframe: "It's not a dietary preference to eat kosher. It's a meshugaas"
- Chabadniks articulate this well: "We don't have a dietary preference, it's a meshugaas"
- The honest formulation: "We believe that our God came 5000 years ago to a mountain and told us please my dear Jews don't eat pork. Don't ask me why. It doesn't make any sense. I promise you it makes no sense. If anyone tells you it makes sense, he's lying."
- "Now you could be friends with a goy, you could do everything"
- "Not gonna hurt you because you're already totally out of it"
- Flexibility: "Everyone should find some other thing that personally works"
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- Objection: "It's so crazy it's actually hard to be friends with a goy then"
- Response: You can't be two-faced - you can't pretend you don't put on tefillin
- "Being the person who puts on tefillin in the morning, you just can't say it"
- Proposed ideal: "Everyone has their weird things and we have this weird thing"
- Problem: "We have too many"
- Not eating at meals
- Going out to daven mincha
- Multiple visible practices
- Speaker's workplace experience: 80% secular workplace
- "There's nothing weirder than mincha"
- The scene: "People literally on their computers 10 feet away, on their feet zusammen, whispering to the wall for 10 minutes and come out like nothing happened"
- Speaker admits: "I don't daven mincha" (in that context)
- His mincha is in a frum place with frum partners - "much less of an aveirah"
- Observation: If they were actually talking to God, that would be one thing
- "But they're not even talking to God, they're just davening mincha"
- Davening b'yechidus (alone): Would be more normal - "very normal to whisper a prayer in the corner"
- But the chazarah (repetition): Makes it maximally strange
- Aloud, everybody, shh quiet
- Not even going slow
- "Doesn't look like we're taking it seriously at all"
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- Practical point: Davening b'yechidus (praying alone) loses the social dimension
- Whispering a prayer privately is "very normal" and doesn't mark you as different
- Communal prayer creates visible distinctiveness that private prayer lacks
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- Central claim: Being outside of society is "really the root of all evil"
- Reasoning: All character virtues (maalos hamiddos) exist to create a functioning society
- Society is the means; it "has to do something" beyond just existing
- Strong statement: "Cutting yourself off society is the worst thing you could do. You deserve death for that."
- Describes people who come to daven without caring about social perception
- "They don't feel the eyes looking at them"
- These individuals "have nothing to gain from it"
- Personal admission: "I've been a freak... I'm whispering to the wall"
- This is presented as the necessary meshugaas - doing something that looks crazy but works
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- Zionists had "the fantasy of creating society"
- Problem identified: Their society became "a likkut (collection) of all the messed-upness" from Russia, America, England
- Once somewhat successful, "all the leeches come" - people selling soda cans in Tel Aviv rather than building
- Claim: "Just to be a Zionist is crazy... it still is"
- Work went into normalizing the idea but "never really managed to become a normal idea"
- Unique historical claim: "There's actually no successful people that actually just picked themselves up from one place and went to the other place and claiming that it's their homeland"
- Jews are "the only people that ever did that"
- Distinction: "It's normal when it just is that way, but it's not normal to make it be that way"
- Interesting claim cited: "The fact that people are not Zionist in Israel is the biggest success of Zionism"
- Young Israelis now feel native - "my father was here, my grandfather was here"
- "Oh, we finally became natives!" - the meshugaas succeeded by becoming invisible
- The ideal of "making your full society and take responsibility for everything also seems a little meshuga"
- Key principle: "You can't have moral autarky, it's not going to work either"
- Conclusion: "We're back to this picking our poison of where we want to be meshuga"
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- Seven different levels of Amish exist
- Counterintuitive finding: "The more frum ones are actually more frei"
- Modern Amish have more chumros (stringencies) about technology
- Because modernizers came and added restrictions, "now they're struggling more"
- "There's a lot of kullas (leniencies) from being a chassidishe yeshiva also"
- Being a "kat" (sect) is not just being machmir - "it lets you do more things underneath it"
- Trade-off principle: "You gotta pay a certain thing and..."
- "A yarmulke is more than enough crazy"
- Adding hat, tzitzit visible, etc. is "overdone"
- But you need something "strong enough" as a marker
Side Digression: Techelet and Ancestral Practice
- Frummest people do things their "alte zeides" (ancestors) did even without Shulchan Aruch basis
- Mitzvah tanz example - "a shtikel fritzus" done because ancestors did it
- Ironic observation: Those who dress like their ancestors also "like to do the same aveiros as their babe"
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- Key claim: "It's not correct that the more things you add, the more separated you become from society"
- "In certain ways the Satmar people are the most Americanized people there are around"
- "Not Satmar people are the most Yiddish people there are around"
- Non-Satmar shuls are "hamshach (continuation) of the shul in Europe"
- Satmar created "actual modern-style American shuls"
- New Satmar shul has modern fixtures - "no modern Orthodox shul would do that... not with such courage, not with such familiarity"
- Reason: "There's other things making them meshuga" so they can be modern elsewhere
- "Everyone chooses where to be meshuga... everyone choosing where to be not assimilated"
Side Digression: The Old Shul Example
- Reference to an old shul that modernized "one fixture" and "you can feel the dissonance for miles"
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Side Digression: The Old Shul Example
- Reference to an old shul that modernized "one fixture" and "you can feel the dissonance for miles"
- No Lakewood shul has old-style wall panels anymore - "everyone is modern"
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- Final formulation: "Everyone should try to do meshuga, but not too much meshuga"
- This captures the entire lecture's thesis: You need external markers of distinctiveness to escape social reality, but calibration matters
- The goal is strategic meshugaas - enough to maintain identity, not so much as to become dysfunctional
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1. Epistemological Foundation (Parts I-II): Stories about what happens in shamayim are not empirical reports but Torah-based reasoning about ultimate truth. "Dinei shamayim" represents unconstrained moral truth, while "dinei adam" represents constrained practical law.
2. The Rebbe Framework (Part III): Every Jew needs a Rebbe, but all Rebbes are limited by Olam HaZeh. The "heavenly version" of the Rebbe represents what they would say if unconstrained by earthly limitations.
3. The Central Kasha (Parts IV-V): Why is nobody normal without being meshuga? The default modern position of moral subjectivism is itself insane, yet those who believe in objective good often turn out to be problematic (e.g., Nazis).
4. Critique of Efficiency Culture (Parts VI-IX): Modern efficiency-focused education teaches means without ends, which is "the logic of the reshoim." Dangerous knowledge should be restricted. Humans are not machines, and efficiency-based living doesn't work for people with a neshama.
5. The Neshama Problem (Parts X-XI): Having a neshama means having difficulty submitting to things you don't believe in. This creates tension with corrupt systems. The "mitzvah framing" of work provides psychological relief but has its own problems.
6. Critique of Empty Religious Language (Parts XII-XIV): Religious phrases like "Hashem will help" often mask lack of genuine belief. Both Modern Orthodox (ignoring yetzer hara) and Haredi (ignoring yetzer tov) approaches are imbalanced.
7. The Necessity of Meshugaas (Parts XV-XIX): Going against society requires an external anchor, which by definition appears "meshuga." The Rambam acknowledges leaving society is sometimes necessary despite being an aveira. Various communities (Lakewood, Breslov, Chabad) create this anchor through different "crazy" beliefs.
8. Just Being Jewish (Parts XIX-XXI): The speaker's actual position is that simply being Jewish - properly understood as irrational - provides sufficient separation. Practices like kashrut and tefillin work precisely because they have no rational ta'am.
9. The Liberalism Problem (Parts XXII-XXIV): American liberalism is uniquely dangerous because it subsumes Jewish distinctiveness as just another acceptable "meshugaas." Russia paradoxically made it easier to be Jewish because opposition was clear.
10. Society as God (Parts XXIV-XXV): Social conformity functions theologically - society IS most people's god. Only those with a "different god" can actually resist social pressure. The Haredi solution creates separation but at the cost of becoming unbalanced.
11. Practical Applications (Parts XXVI-XXXII): Find the "least destructive meshugaas" that can anchor you outside society. A yarmulke is sufficient; more isn't necessarily better. Counterintuitively, more chumros don't equal less assimilation - Satmar is in some ways more Americanized than non-Satmar communities.
12. Final Principle (Part XXXIII): "Everyone should try to do meshuga, but not too much meshuga" - strategic distinctiveness calibrated to maintain identity without becoming dysfunctional.
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1. The impossibility of articulation: Any clear position tends to "tip over the boat" - truth may be more achievable communally than individually.
2. The aveirah l'shma paradox: The necessary separation from society is itself a sin that makes you unbalanced.
3. The empirical question: How does one actually live with a neshama in a corrupt system without either becoming corrupt or becoming dysfunctional?
4. The visibility problem: Jewish practice is too visible and too frequent to easily normalize, yet communal prayer loses something essential when done privately.
5. The social necessity: Cutting yourself off from society is "the root of all evil," yet remaining fully integrated in a bad society guarantees you will be bad.
Instructor:
If anyone knows the tarot, they can tell me, but then we'll try to learn a little bit about Aristotle. Today, an interesting thing happened. I was discussing, my wife wants to go on a trip somewhere for an event. And I was saying that I don't have the courage to go to Italy or wherever she wants to go. And my son said, yeah, Tati just wants to take a Rambam [Maimonides] on Aristotle and he's happy. So, it's a good trip.
You know where Aristotle is? 3,000 years ago. A lot more interesting than Italy with a bunch of tourist traps. So, it's very interesting, right? If you want to go to the Colosseum, there should be one more selfie. Make an AI selfie, I'm sure. That's a different Rishir [matter/topic], right? You know that Rishir already, about the past.
Instructor:
Who was here complaining that they don't have friends? Ah, someone's upset with your shop, company they love my friends. I tell, look, I have a lot of friends—not all of them are my friends, but some of them.
You know the story with the Shaagas Aryeh [Rabbi Aryeh Leib ben Asher, 1695-1785, author of *Sha'agas Aryeh*] that the swim shank [bookshelf] fell on him and he said that two people were not michelin [forgiving]. I don't remember the details. Shaagas Aryeh was a sharp lead [sharp scholar], right? He was good like on everyone. He didn't have a problem with making his own chat [arguments/disputes].
And once he was learning at night and the swim shank fell on him, and he said, why did they fall on him? Because he's speaking with all of them. Like one day they got there and they're coming. So he said, he tried to ask them all of them were moichel [forgiving] in his heart for two. And he said, which two are still mad at him? And that's why he still has that—he didn't ever finish a line from that zet [sitting/session] because they're kabdun [holding grudges] of those people.
So anyways, b'goshem [with the Name/thank God], all of our people are moichel. Even if they're not moichel, then b'olem [in the world/in truth] they're moichel, like in all the masses. You have to believe this. Nobody here has a Rebbe that there is a krik [complaint/grudge] to us.
Instructor:
You know there is like a Masa [story], this is Tafsir al-Jatayris [unclear reference], there is a Masa with—there are a lot of such stories, like there was a B'yakefem [Rabbi Yaakov Emden], Narben Snaev [Rabbi Yonasan Eibeshitz], just like buried close to each other or something, or someone put them close to each other on the shelf and he said that with each other.
Where did that come from? Where? Apparently, I heard a story that, basically, Rakhwan Magad [the Nadvorna Rebbe], and the only spot to bury him was near Ben Zahim's ship [Rabbi Yonasan Eibeshitz's grave]. And many of you in the town were close enough to ask him what they should do. He said, we can't bury them next to each other. He said, I heard, it was like a legend that goes around, he said, Shah Mubarak [in heaven] is the one who died. Ah, most of them are children. Shall I bury them together?
Really, the point is that it's just a burial fight. That's the point. Interesting.
Okay, this thing was good to me. And then, okay, but there's such legends. There's many more such legends of people that—like, but the name of these legends, like all the legends about—everyone knows that nobody was actually here and came back, like the right?
Student:
Right.
Instructor:
Someone said, whoever said—and the psalm writer said, what do you mean? You went to him only. You thought they're asking that there's no churis [disputes/arguments]? What are you talking about? He said, what do you mean?
Instructor:
So what does this mean? You ever heard from me this gemurah [Gemara: Talmudic text]? Now I have a gemurah I could talk to you. That's this night you finish the gemurah. Very important.
This year there was someone who was by Mishav [unclear] and he said, ah, so you have a pshat [interpretation] in the Torah that makes sense. Why don't you tell it to everyone? So maybe I should try. Everyone thinks it doesn't make sense.
So, it's written in the Gemurah. So, it's written in the Gemurah. So, it's written in the Gemurah. So, Umar Rav [Rav said], Rav was a sheep [sharp scholar], right? Umar Rav, Rav, Rav, Rav, Rav—this is the Rambam about this, right? You know.
Rav Yosef doesn't understand Rav. Rav said that—or I mean, how do you know that Kudus [holiness/the matter] is something that—Rav Yosef means that—no, there's a Rambam here in Makkas [Tractate Makkot] and in Saiten [Sanhedrin] another place that says that we don't call any and Sanhedrin where Paskin's [where they rule on] all the things you have to believe, but that's a different Shemis [matter/topic].
So you understand the question—how do—Rav Yosef had a good question: how do you tell me what to look at? Does whatever they want, or maybe they have—but how do you know?
Instructor:
And Abai [Abaye] told him—as Abai was the answer of Yosef Skarsgård [Rav Yosef's student]—told him, so Abai said, wow, this is the first time we know what's going on in Himmel [heaven/shamayim].
Rav Shimon Lavi said there were three things that Ben Shilmata [Beis Din shel Maalah: the Heavenly Court] did, and Ben Shilmata were masking [agreeing with]—famous Rav Shimon Lavi actually Rav Shimon Lavi went to the Himmel, so it's Nishkanai [it's a problem/difficulty].
But Abai didn't think of this problem. Maybe he understood that if she would have walked in him all the same way, he said, we have a—we have a—in other words when I say, I just mean to say that I think that he's correct. The Pusik [pasuk: verse] seems to agree with him.
Instructor:
So what do we learn from this? Very important, very important, important result. And there's also a piece of this, but I'm going to tell you a piece shot [interpretation], for the rationalists to agree.
Everything that we—there's all kinds of stories, the Hasidic stories, you know, the Vilna Goan [Vilna Gaon], you know, the Ming Chiruf [Reb Chaim Elazar Shapiro] said a story: When the Vilna Goan came to Shemayim [heaven], they wanted to put him in Ghanim [Gehinnom: purgatory/hell], because he was a misnagit [opponent of Chassidism]. Ming Chiruf said this story. He was a loser, he was a very rationalist guy.
Until the Torah came, and wrapped itself around him, and said he learned about the Torah, we don't let him put him in Gehenem [Gehinnom]. And that's how he was saved from Gehenem. Because Baruch Hashem [thank God], the building was done. And that saved him for Zavaira [the aveira: sin] of his nagdis [opposition/being a misnaged].
Instructor:
And, I mean, you know, the Chassidim, the, you know, the Reb Nusn [Reb Noson] had a—Reb Nusn Yusuf [Reb Noson of Breslov] from Breslev. Reb Nusn, yeah? You know? What's the funny?
Ram Nusn said, Ram Nusn had a shver [father-in-law], I forgot his name, Rabbi Chil, I don't know, I don't know his name. Do you know his name? This guy is a snook, I don't know his name. Ram Nusn's shver was a roof [rav: rabbi]. It was a very famous roof. It was a besnaged [misnaged] Litvak.
And the Reb Nachman [Rebbe Nachman of Breslov] told Ram Nusn, you know that your shver is a tzaddik [righteous person]? And he looked at him like, a tzaddik? It's a Litvak. He said, okay, yeah, he does one of Aira [aveira: sin], so he has a besnaged. So he'll get one more patch and get him and more than the other tzaddikim [righteous people]. Like, what's a tzaddik? A tzaddik doesn't get pet [patches/punishments]. A tzaddik also does a virus [aveiros: sins]. So he has one more virus. It doesn't become a tzaddik.
So there's a lot of stories in that story. In any case, one of the stories that's been going on in the 90s is that we see that it's a virus to be a litvak. But, come on, every tzaddik does a virus. It doesn't hassle you. What's so funny?
Instructor:
Me, so the same way the villain going to the big provider, you know, like the brother sold Yosef [Joseph], at least that's because of the lighter. While you're laughing at me, you know, made a item [cherem: ban/excommunication]. You know the villain [Vilna Gaon] literally signed a item on a bunch of Jews that you shouldn't marry them, you shouldn't do business with them, hit their dumb mom [hiter dumam: permitted their blood]—like the Baltani [Baal HaTanya: Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi] says it's not a serious provider.
I'm serious now. I'll let her do that. Even if he was right, he had good criticism—not saying all Shabbat shiva [Shabbos teshuvah/unclear], you know—say, tell your shal shida [unclear] that it's the other way around. What's the difference? Make a chayrim [cherem], it's not a moment. Don't let it do such things, to lose a vayre [aveira].
This is the same vayre as Rabban Baravot [Yerovam ben Nevat], the same vayre as Yosef and his brothers, old problems. That's what it's talking about, nothing new. Same problem of Ezra, of the Prishin [Perushim: Pharisees], a lot of people.
Now, whatever—oh, this is going to get us to your shal [question]. Anyways, wait, just wait.
Instructor:
So anyways, back to the story. So I'm trying to explain you something. So what was the point of these stories, all these stories? How did he know? Like if you're a Litvak, like very cute, Khamelos de Shapiro [Reb Chaim Elazar Shapiro] made up a story, like we told him. Oh, he said that about Echeverov's head [Bat Ayin]. Okay, and then we told about Echeverov. It doesn't solve anything.
Let's do a towel over there. Might help. Thank you. That is like this.
In other words, what does it mean? Like just like when it says in the Gemurah, what does—who cares? I understand it means the business is going to come to your bank account and take out the money. Means what?
Instructor:
Means that we think that really, really you're at fault. It's the opposite that people think. Means human reason, even more than, because you know we're limited by procedural considerations, all kind of legal things. But if you ask—if you ask me, you should pay.
Student:
It does great work in torts, by the way.
Instructor:
What?
Student:
It does very good work in torts. That.
Instructor:
Chayav Adin Hashemayim [liable in the judgment of Heaven].
Student:
Oh, because of all the grommas [indirect causation].
Instructor:
You have to draw these lines.
Student:
Yeah.
Instructor:
Second of all, either something over-complicates for it or just under for that. Because it doesn't have this idea of just like—but really, you should.
Student:
So if you want to be Yoitz Yidei Hashemayim [fulfill the judgment of Heaven], you should pay.
Instructor:
Right. Right? If you're El Echid [an ehrliche Yid: an honest Jew], you Chayav Adin Hashemayim. So, right? Rechayav v'din shemayim [liable in the judgment of Heaven]. Very serious thing.
Instructor:
So how do we know that's dina shemayim [the law of Heaven]? Because shemayim is just a word for what we think is the real truth. In the Olam HaZeh [this world] we're limited. Even if there's a truth, you can't always do it. Sometimes you have to do bad things because they're worth it and so on. But in shemayim, that's where they don't have these problems. They could give you...
Instructor: The Olam HaZeh [Olam HaZeh: this world, the physical realm] have a problem. You can't really punish tzaddikim [tzaddikim: righteous people]. Hashem [Hashem: God, lit. "The Name"] can only punish the tzaddikim by themselves, but that's a different story.
But we have a problem. If you're a tzaddik [tzaddik: righteous person], you can't—for Talmid Chacham [Talmid Chacham: Torah scholar, lit. "student of a wise person"] sins, we don't give them a niddui [niddui: excommunication, rabbinic ban], because we have to protect the Talmid Chacham and so on. Right?
But we say to Allah [unclear reference, possibly euphemistic], we don't make a niddui against you. It's only making a niddui on Talmid Chacham, but that's different. If you're a Baal HaBayis [Baal HaBayis: householder, layperson], we don't—
I have a theory, I was thinking about this today, that's why—I have a theory about that, why it is. I realize that there's a reason. So if you all get it, I'll send it to you. It's a nice table, this big table.
Instructor: So the Kiddush [Kiddush: sanctification, possibly referring to ritual or ceremony]—this is a laugh. It's kind of—the kids, you don't know. The officer who said, why do we say—why do we say after the Seder [Seder: Passover ritual meal] so the kids are a mess? So how do we know what was in him?
All these stories, all these fantasies, all these myths about someone went to the Himmel [Himmel: heaven, Yiddish] and he saw and so on. What it means to say is that, yeah, in this world we can't say these things. And of course we have to respect the Baal HaGaon [Baal HaGaon: the great Torah scholar, the Gaon] and so on. But really it deserves patch [patch: criticism, correction].
But l'ma'aseh [l'ma'aseh: in practice, actually] it's Talmid Chacham. And that's a true thing. Being a Talmid Chacham is a real thing—it protects you also.
Instructor: How do you say it in Shamayim [Shamayim: heaven]? Same thing when they get murdered. This is a normal thing. All these things that we say—the Beit Din shel Matah [Beit Din shel Matah: the earthly court], the Beit Din shel Ma'alah [Beit Din shel Ma'alah: the heavenly court]. What does it mean, the Beit Din shel Ma'alah?
Sometimes the Beit Din shel Ma'alah—many, often—the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does things that the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does not agree with him [sic: likely means "the Beit Din shel Matah does things the Beit Din shel Ma'alah does not agree with"]. I know many of them. Not only—even the things that something the Beit Din shel Ma'alah shouldn't have done at all. Something they should do, but Beit Din shel Ma'alah does not agree with him.
Instructor: Just like, for example, any time—very important—any time you punish a kid that's between 13 and 20, Beit Din shel Ma'alah says, "Are you crazy? The guy's a little baby." Beit Din shel Ma'alah's only man is from 20.
What does that mean? What does that mean? Does that be real? Well, your Rebbe [Rebbe: rabbi, teacher], the guy came out of his pampers yesterday. Doesn't know anything. Tried to teach him something, maybe.
But in Beit Din shel Ma'alah, maybe that's chinuch [chinuch: education, child-rearing]. Maybe we have some level of legal responsibility from when you're 13. It seems unreasonable to me. But in any case, going to the Jewish law, it's like that in some sense. I'm pretty sure not in all senses, of course, but in some senses.
Everyone knows that it's not all senses, right? Elim k'man d'lesvhu [Aramaic phrase, possibly: "they are like those who are not of sound mind"]. In Choshen Mishpat [Choshen Mishpat: section of Jewish law dealing with civil matters], we don't actually consider 13 to be of age. But in any case, that's another idea of the same idea, right?
Instructor: So in the same thing, when I tell you that what's in Himmel, I mean to say the truth. But l'idach [l'idach: on the other hand], in this world, people are limited by all kinds of limitations. And we can't have both, because sometimes we're stuck, and then we have to take shochad [shochad: bribery, bias]. Shochad meaning the good kind of shochad, right?
I have to respect you, because l'ma'aseh you're still my father, or whatever. All kinds of things like that.
Instructor: So in the same way, when people say, you know, in Himmel they would make sure. Right? So if someone—or other times, sometimes people, even when people are still alive, or even without the Himmel, they say, you know, if the Rebbe would have seen now, of course he would be modeh [modeh: admit, agree].
He would NOT be modeh. But why wouldn't he be modeh? Because he would be wrong. But of course the Rebbe really is right. The real Rebbe is right. So in Himmel, if you're so sure about the truth—yeah, it's really like that, of course. It wasn't a surprise.
Student: Right, very good. So he's saying—just quickly to push a shot on this—is he saying that he thinks that malkus [malkus: lashes, corporal punishment] is the type of thing that should get rid of karet [karet: spiritual excision, divine punishment], just like b'emes [b'emes: in truth]? That's what it should be?
Instructor: What am I trying to say in this particular remark?
Student: Yeah, it's a question of belief, right?
Instructor: Like, Rambam [Rambam: Maimonides, Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, 1138-1204] reframes all these questions in questions of belief. And then he has a different question: if we use machria [machria: decisive ruling] in questions of belief, maybe you'll add whatever you want. But the question is, what does it mean to say that—what does it mean to say that you're going to—
Just to be clear, nobody ever expected everyone to drop dead at whichever age karet is supposed to kill you. That's not how it really works, ever. So what does it mean?
It means that we believe that—Rambam says this in Moreh Nevuchim [Moreh Nevuchim: Guide for the Perplexed, Maimonides' philosophical work]. He talks about the levels of anashim [anashim: people]. It says that averah she'esh v'karet [averah she'esh v'karet: a sin that carries the punishment of karet] means it's an averah [averah: sin, transgression] and we also believe that it's really, really, really big averah. That's what it says.
I'm sorry, it's reading cynical, but if you don't believe me you can bring a Gemara [Gemara: Talmud] and then you'll see. It means it's really bad. This is—you really deserve karet for this. You deserve it. You deserve karet. I'm not doing anything to you, right? It's really funny. It throws you over the roof. It says you're a really, really, really evil guy—not evil, I don't know, out of our community, however you want to call it. And that's all. And then they move on.
But they give you malkus. Now, R' Chananiah [R' Chananiah: Rabbi Chananiah, Talmudic sage] says, if they give you malkus, they give you malkus. And R' Chananiah says, now that they have malkus, that cancels out the karet. There's a whole logic to it, but that's more like a different shitah [shitah: approach, opinion]. As the Mitzvah Shetl [unclear reference] was about this.
Student: How does that equate to, let's say, an averah that you do get malkus for?
Instructor: No, you get—this averah that have malkus without karet.
Student: No, no, no, right, exactly. Because we don't say that you have karet. The only real difference—that the whole nafka mina l'ma'aseh [nafka mina l'ma'aseh: practical difference] of karet is that it's really, really bad.
Instructor: You're exactly—you deserve karet.
Student: No, but I think we're asking—so the really, really bad one gets malkus, and the really, really not so bad one also gets malkus?
Instructor: Exactly. One deserves karet, and if he wouldn't get malkus he would get karet. He actually would.
Student: What he—
Instructor: I think that he should. I don't know if he would, but he should. Maybe the Aibishter [Aibishter: the Almighty, God, Yiddish]—that's his zechut [zechut: merit], right? That's why you have to teach your daughter Torah, because otherwise she's going to realize that it doesn't really work. You have to know that it's his zechut.
But the ma'aseh [ma'aseh: deed, reality], right? The ma'aseh—you deserve it. For this thing, you deserve it. You can actually die? God has his cheshbonot [cheshbonot: calculations, reckonings]. Like he says, da'at ish l'tumam da'is [da'at ish l'tumam da'is: a person's knowledge is according to their simplicity/integrity, possibly Aramaic phrase].
Instructor: Yeah. So, l'inyan al l'inyan achar [l'inyan al l'inyan achar: from topic to topic, tangentially related] is that the same thing. Every Yid [Yid: Jew] has to have a Rebbe. Every Yid has a lot of Rebbes. Now, all of us have problems with our Rebbes that they don't agree with everything we say. Unfortunately.
That's because they're in Olam HaZeh [Olam HaZeh: this world]. They're limited. But really, the Rebbe in Olam HaBa [Olam HaBa: the World to Come, the afterlife] was modeh.
Instructor: How did I start saying this? This is full circle, no?
Student: Yeah, but I was saying something about the—I was saying something about something.
Instructor: You don't remember. This was supposed to lead into the question you were saying. The question of?
Student: Okay, this is a ma'aseh [ma'aseh: story, incident].
Instructor: So everyone has to have a Rebbe, and then a little bit of—l'ma'aseh the Rebbe's modeh. I already told you the ma'aseh—I had a Rebbe that came to him in a dream. I asked him something that he hacks against very much, and I do. And he said, "What are you crazy? Of course you should do it."
So I really yelled like that. It doesn't matter. He doesn't have the koach [koach: strength, capacity] to understand.
Student: So, now, a lot of you learned from this.
Instructor: I don't know, I want to say something. Getting to the kasha [kasha: question, difficulty]?
Student: No, you said in the middle you said it's going to be the kasha.
Instructor: I have a question, but why did I—I'm trying to remind myself of a story.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: So, now, I have a big kasha that has important kasha, very important kasha on reality. And if someone—when I was a teretz [teretz: answer, resolution], they could tell me. My kasha—I like all my kashas, it's like a whole shitah [shitah: systematic approach] explaining the kasha, really.
But my kasha is basically: why is nobody normal without being meshuga [meshuga: crazy, Yiddish]? Very simple kasha. I'm going to try to say it without too many names, so it's going to be too much to show now.
In other words, everyone is modeh that the teretz is somewhat in the kasha, if I explain it this way. Everyone is modeh that the world is meshuga, right? Everyone is modeh. In all kinds of ways, but everyone is modeh in some way or another. Anyone, the default is not to be a normal person. Maskeh [maskeh: agreed, understood]? Anyone is maskeh?
Student: Mushul [mushul: parable, example]?
Instructor: No, there is a gestalt of a well-adjusted person.
Student: Yeah, yeah, that's—
Instructor: No, no, we don't have to define—oh gosh, no, we don't. Because I said, whatever your definition of normal is, nobody is normal.
Student: But to have me in headphones is part of this well-adjusted, maybe you're not going to find—
Instructor: I don't mean that that feels the whole world normal, no. Give me an example of what you mean, please. Give me an example.
Student: One example is that everyone thinks that you should be well-adjusted. The definition of meshuga is whatever everyone else says. That's one example.
Instructor: Very good example. Most people nowadays think—are extremely relativists, and think that the definition of good, of healthy—for example, mentally healthy, spiritually healthy—is whatever you think, whatever you like, or whatever your neighbors like, which still goes back to people's arbitrary preferences. That's what most people actually think.
Some people have a God who is also one of the people that like things. That doesn't save them from their main problem, right?
Student: Thank you.
Instructor: That doesn't save them from the main problem, right? Can you write an article about this?
Student: Yeah, about the one part of it. Just the ethics part, right?
Instructor: Yeah, but the Maskim [those who agree/modern people] think that good means whatever I want. And some people are very religious, so they think that it's not only them, there's also a Gechka [entity/being] called a god that wants things, and good is whatever he wants, or at least also whatever he wants, depends on how frum [religiously observant] he is. Right? That's a shigaon [insanity]. It's crazy. Everyone just thinks that this is the default.
Some weirdos think that there's beauty in the world. There's really objective beauty. Or objective goodness. Or objective health or anything. But everyone agrees: whatever floats your boat.
Instructor: Even boats don't just float arbitrarily. There's good boats and bad boats. But I don't know what this mashul [parable/analogy] is supposed to say. Okay. This is a shigaon gomer [complete insanity]. Whatever floats your boat, it's not true. A lot of things float your boat, but not anything. Float the boat is an exciting question. You gotta make a good boat, man. There's good boats and bad boats. Maskim [agreed], that's one mishigas [craziness].
Okay, another mishigas is that... I'll tell you much... I mean, the other mishigas. Okay, now I'm not going to give you a few... I have a rule that we're not going to give examples because we only end up talking about the examples. We should only talk about examples, but that's another shmiz [nonsense/issue]. Now, wait, I'm going way too fast.
Instructor: So listen, listen, I have a kasha [question/difficulty]. Why is nobody in the ma'al [world] without being meshigah [crazy]? So the mashul, there's a few people, like I mentioned before, last week I gave a different mashul. There's a few people that are not against meshigah. They do think that they somehow live as if there are good things and bad things in the world for real. There are such people. Those people are neo-Nazis, most of them.
Instructor: I know them. Almost all of them think, like, you know, that my Torah is about the Goyim Chasidim [righteous gentiles], right? I have a big problem, that I like a lot of thinkers, a bunch of people that try to explain all kinds of nice things, like, to help me understand the Rambam [Maimonides] and all the tzaddikim [righteous people], because they tell us that Aristotle and Plato weren't totally crazy, they had some points, and then a few weeks later I found out that the guy is literally a Nazi, not even a neo-Nazi. Why? Because he got into the mesorah [tradition] with the mesorah of the goy [gentile].
Instructor: What's wrong with the guy Litvak? Because Litvak goes with the halacha [Jewish law]. The halacha says, "Esav soneh l'Yaakov" [Esau hates Jacob]. So you have to follow the halacha. I said, yeah, I saw the halacha. Right? Traditional guys, the problem, I'm not saying that the not-traditional goyim is not a different problem. He has a different excuse. I'm just saying that there's a problem here, right? This guy is ready to go. He's a new tyrant now. Goyish and Litvaks.
Student: Goyish and Litvaks.
Instructor: Goyish and Litvaks is definitely universal.
Student: Exactly. Litvaks is a type. It's not a... I'm not talking about any Litvaks.
Instructor: Who's a Litvash goyim?
Student: No, I'm talking about a trad goyim [traditional gentile], really.
Instructor: Traditional goyim are mostly real anti-Semites.
Instructor: The only thing is, like a different trad guy said that a Yid [Jew] said, what's the definition of anti-Semite? Someone that hates Jews more than is appropriate. Maybe from a dad [their perspective]. So if the guy hates Jews but not more than he needs, then he's not, then I'm out of God, no problem. I can deal with him. It's part of, part of, right? All of ethics is about measure, correct measure. Maybe there's a correct measure of hating Jews. Most Jews are hating them too much, right? But a guy has to do a little less. But the kid said that's the problem.
Instructor: So you understand the problem? And this happens to me every time. Like, I have a lot of criticism of a lot of things. It's going to happen to you with me too. Don't worry. You think that all, like that guy I told you, said that I have a good pshat [interpretation] in the Torah and why not tell it to anyone? Turns out that I also have a lot of craziness. At least according to him, I think that I'm right, probably. But a lot of problems, a lot of mishigasen [craziness], a lot of nonsense, a lot of naughtiness. That's the reality.
Instructor: Every time I find someone, I'm like, wow, this guy, he sent me a video clip, and you see, he's explaining himself well, and he's clear, and he's not beating around the bush, and he's not bluffing us, like some people think it's a big mitzvah [commandment/good deed] to bluff all day, he's not doing a bluffing thing. Very nice, and then I look at his next video, and he's talking about going to Uman for Rosh Hashanah [Jewish New Year], like, sheikh [look], it's a normal event, you have to go to Uman.
You already explained me that let's be real and the Torah doesn't say anything about not eating the heimishe hechsher [traditional/Hasidic kosher certification]. The Torah says you should eat kosher. Pretty sure if you eat kosher you're about to eat. It doesn't say anything about heimishe hechsher. I know that you're pro heimishe hechsher for a different mitzvah, but nish mitzvah kashres [not the commandment of keeping kosher].
And then the next video is like, the heilige Rebbe [holy Rebbe] said if you don't go to Uman you don't have a tikkun [spiritual rectification]. And I'm like, hello, does that say in the Torah? Where do you find that? Actually I know there's more than one person that this applies to. This is very weird. What's going on?
Student: I think your example last week was very good. I don't know if you want to say it. It was very historic from last week.
Instructor: I hate the past.
Student: I think it brought to the point a very good point.
Instructor: I'll tell you the mashul that Eli says, or you can tell it.
Student: Last week I was in a [discussion] about people that are business understand the mashul.
Instructor: Oh, everyone's a business here. Everyone in my shiur [class] has been business. Otherwise, come with the rabbit to me. I'm not a business. Don't worry. Try.
Instructor: So, last week I said a ma'aseh [story/incident] by the unrecorded shiur that I went to a conference for teaching us how to steal money from rich people, chas v'shalom [God forbid]. You know the Rav [rabbi] said there is good news and bad news. Good news is that there is enough money for all the kimcha d'Pischa [Passover wheat fund/charity]. The bad news is that it's in the wrong people's pockets.
So I was by this conference for all the people whose job it is to get their money from one pocket to the right pocket, from the wrong pocket to the right pocket. And it's an important job. You have to do a correct allocation of capital, you know, one of the important functions of society. But I'm being very vague, right?
Student: Snotting. Fundraising.
Instructor: Okay.
Instructor: So, now, what's the problem with this conference? Like many self-help conferences or whatever you want called they're going to and others what's the big problem with them that they're all evil. Why are they evil? Because they're about means and not about ends, right? Why are they evil? Because, right, you know, this is about social engineering and about social science and about business consulting and all of that, all of these, all of like if you go to this is I told you about goals I talked about goals any self-help person that you go to is going to explain you that there's a way to be efficient you got to have goals and you got to follow them and all of that and you have to achieve your goals and count and smart the stave is smart.
But the note that I've come in of the whole of this is that this is the logic of the reshoim [wicked people]. What I mean is that it's all about how to achieve your goal. It doesn't tell you anything about what your goals should be, right?
Instructor: So come to kamtoz [for example] and like very explicitly, everyone, the guy that stood up for example by that camera, the guy stood up, look, I don't care if you're raising money for Lefkowitz, or for Schwarz, or for Satmar, or for Tzahal [IDF], the same rules apply to everyone, right? Wait, what's going on here? Seriously? Nobody actually said that, but there's a subtext that says all of this, right?
What do you mean you don't care? If someone's here raising money for Al-Qaeda, we should throw them out, we shouldn't even teach them the tricks, because it's really evil. What's going on?
Instructor: But there's a real problem because the tricks, not only the tricks, the ethics, the kind of person that you become, a person that teaches you how to be efficient, I'm an efficient person, then like Hannah Arendt, you can be like Eichmann. He's a pretty efficient guy, extremely efficient. Maybe there's some virtue in that itself, but it's, you can be a very efficient Holocaust organizer and you'll be doing your job, you'll be following all Taylor's principles of modern management. I don't understand what the problem is.
Student: You're just in the wrong, you're at the wrong event.
Instructor: I have news for you. There isn't another event.
Student: That's your fault. It's not my fault.
Instructor: No, but you see, there's something evil about this.
Instructor: You have to imagine that in the olden days, people that actually knew such a skill, if I know this skill, I know a skill, I'm Dale Carnegie, I know this skill, how to get anything out of anyone, the Sanhedrin [ancient Jewish high court] would make a big cherem [excommunication/ban] and only teach this secret to people that are 35 years old and we bring three character witnesses that you're not going to use for bad purposes, right?
Right? Isn't that obvious? These are really powerful tools, right? Manipulation tools, right? You can convince anyone of anything. You're a salesperson, right? We should not allow anyone to become a salesperson. There should be a board, like some kind of control over this. We should teach it only to the really good people, like to the really vetted people that already know that they have good ends, because otherwise, what's going on, right?
Instructor: And just to be clear, every time, of course everyone says this, right? We said learning tools. It's not really true. It becomes, just like everyone knows about the Goodhart Principle, right? There's something called the Goodhart Principle. Anything measured becomes a target. Right?
Student: Wow, he doesn't talk about it in his course?
Instructor: I don't think he does. He's missing a very important thing, right? Everyone knows. Anything measured becomes the target. The medium becomes the message. Always, right? This is the reality, because like Aristotle taught us, you become what you do.
Instructor: You don't become what you believe in, unless belief is a kind of doing, like you say Shema [the central Jewish prayer] twice a day. But you become what you do. If you work on means all day, you're going to become efficient. You're not going to become good.
Instructor: I don't think he does. It's missing a very important thing, right? Everyone knows, anything measured becomes the target. The medium becomes the message. Always, right? This is the reality, because like Aristotle taught us, you become what you do. You don't become what you believe in. Unless belief is a kind of doing, like you say Shema [the central Jewish prayer declaring God's oneness] stole twice a day. But you become what you do, right?
If you work on means all day, working on becoming efficient, you're going to become efficient. You're not going to become good. And you're all day talking about this and you're never talking about becoming good. You're not going to become good.
Actually, they become manipulative and the definition of manipulation is I'm trying to get something from you which is not the good thing itself, is not good and it's not really good for you, right? That's good for me or it's good for some third purpose. That's the definition. It becomes—it's a big problem. This I think it's a really big problem. That's one problem.
There's a bigger problem. I didn't ask him that this is the problem. There's something else. He's not masking. Ah, he's not masking.
Student: No, no, I get it now.
Instructor: Ah, he's not masking. This is a real problem. I really think that it's—that's the problem, too.
Instructor: I actually know someone. I have news for you. I know someone. I have dealt in a third-hand way with someone that went to a certain course, the same course that you went to. And mazeh Shai [behold], he stole a million dollars from a Yid [Jew], playing a gambit on a young dollar. I know exactly how. There was a trick, an excuse. He came in and told you, he said, it's a trick—I got to stick a tofes l'baal chov b'makom shechav l'acherim [a legal principle about seizing collateral]. Again, I don't know. I heard once out of the story. Maybe he's not. But sounds like that to me. And just deposited. The guy gave him a check. He deposited it twice. Whatever. Plain. What he did was for sure organized. Maybe he didn't get it. He didn't owe him. He owes him a million dollars. I don't know. The mazeh, that's what happened.
So, and that he, they said, they came to him and said, what do you mean? I went to this course. They taught me how to be very efficient. And he was very into it, like, I'm very good at this, and so on. And if not for that course, it would be less of a ganav [thief]. I hope. Maybe it didn't make a difference. Because all these things turn out to be some horrible people. And it's by design, like, there's a real problem. That's one thing.
Another thing is that people that have luck do not really be able to—it also lets you pursue it, and not in the pursuit of evil. And not to pursue being a ganav, like you're just pursuing being efficient, right? And having to steal along the way.
Student: I mean he doesn't realize that he's a ganav. He doesn't have to—he doesn't have to confront the fact that he's learning how to be a ganav.
Instructor: Yeah, you're not teaching how to be a ganav. You're teaching you something—a tool. You're teaching you how to pick locks. It's like teaching how to pick locks. I teach you how to pick locks. Are you going to use it to pick the bank or are you going to use it to pick your bubbe's [grandmother's] house when she gets locked out? I don't care. I don't care. I'm not about anything.
Student: Isn't that the worst thing though?
Instructor: What?
Student: Because then—
Instructor: I'm saying exactly. You're an immoral person. So this teaching is an immoral teaching. It really is. I think it's a real problem.
I really think that in some kind of ideal universe, with the correct structure—but the immorality can sneak the 80% evil right into God's noses. I really think that it would be like a really good Plato's, you know, fantasies of—
Student: But this really applies to everything in the whole world.
Instructor: No, wait, wait, wait.
Student: No, one second. Don't sell lighters because if someone's going to come out—
Instructor: No, no, no, no. Wait, wait, this is a nice—no, no, no, don't let anyone drive to the—wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, let's get, let's, let's move it, let's, let's, let's, wait, wait, um, this is all emotional for my kashya [question]. You have to remember, these are all things that everyone here is supposed to agree with.
Student: Yeah, I hear your question, and it's part of the brainwashing that you got from capitalism.
Instructor: Now, um, wait, but you have to remember that, um, you know, let's try to focus, right, I'm trying to get somewhere. If you're not asking what part of that is, you have to talk about that at a different time, because all these things, everyone here agrees with, already. Just giving you guys an example, at least I should tell you an example of, uh, something.
Instructor: So this is one of the examples of how you can't be a mashgiach [supervisor/spiritual guide] without being a ba'al middos [person of good character], how you can't be a menahel [administrator] without a mashgiach. Okay, this is evil.
And in Plato's ideal educational society, all of these tools would be hidden, just like lockpicking. I mean, nowadays also you can learn lockpicking on the internet. But just like creating nuclear weapons, for some tools we have enough sechel [intelligence/common sense] to keep them locked up only for people that we think are already good, right?
This is true, definitely true for management, for human management. Becoming a good rabbi, becoming a good anything. If it's just a good, in the sense of being efficient, of being a good tool, it's really dangerous and should only be taught to people that are very proven themselves to be good. Even after that, many of them are going to use it for evil, but you know, this is why we have all these secrets, all these ideas of secret societies, there's a reason for that. It's not crazy.
Instructor: Now, second problem is, a deeper problem is, that it also doesn't work, in my opinion. It doesn't work. At least if you have a neshama [soul], it doesn't work, baruch Hashem [thank God]. Any that was born with a neshama, in my opinion, doesn't actually—I don't know anyone, it's kind of cute. I know many people, not a lot, not enough, but maybe I know a hundred people. I don't really know any of them that manages their life that way. Any of the good people that I know. I know some people that manage to manage their business that way, also in a much more sporadic way than you think. But I don't know anyone that manages life that way.
It reminded me of—I don't know anyone—a vet someone told me that it says "Hanistrot l'Hashem Elokeinu v'hanigalot lanu ul'vaneinu" [The hidden things belong to the Lord our God, but the revealed things are for us and our children—Deuteronomy 29:28]. And everything in between, it's just l'cha [for you], not the v'necha [and your children], which in between—the Negev [the hidden]—it's not nistar [hidden] and it's not nigleh [revealed], it's probably just for you, don't talk with anybody else.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: So I have what I'm saying. Do you know anyone that actually—I have a real question. Every self-help book in the world says have a goal and make a New Year—is doing New Year's, make a New Year's resolution. Do you know anyone that actually succeeded with his New Year's resolution? With his goal?
Student: Smart one?
Instructor: Ask Marabai [the Rebbe] what's his name if he knows anyone. I'm sort of very suspicious of this.
Student: No, I'll explain to you why.
Instructor: I don't know anyone that it worked for. It doesn't work for me in that way. In some way, it does work in my opinion. I don't know anyone. If there's someone that it works for him, I think you should stay away from him because they're a psychopath.
Instructor: Now, why doesn't it work? Because human beings—things aren't actually the kind of thing, and we're not actually machines, we're not actually efficient causes. Machine and efficient causes, the same definition, literally, metaphysically, are things that only do ends. That's the idea of a human being.
A human being, for anything to make sense, people talk about meaning, you know what meaning is? Meaning means doing something that has a goal. Not a goal, a fake goal, a real goal, right, the end. You call them the same, they're the same word, there's no real difference in the words.
When I say a goal, I mean something that in some sense isn't itself good. But at least you very clearly see how it leads to something that is really good. But even then, what you're going to be doing is the goodness of that thing. So maybe it's secondarily good, I don't think everything is finally good. Even if it's secondarily good, what you're doing is that thing and not something else.
Like it says in the Gemara [Talmud], do things for themselves [lishmah]. If what you do is not good, it's only leading to something good, you, as a human being, will not succeed to do it unless you turn yourself into a machine. Most of us have a hard time turning ourselves into machines. Some people are successful at that, and those are the CEOs. But besides for that, most people have a really hard time.
Instructor: And even the people that do it well, it's because, for example, there's a very big difference between someone who is in service of capitalism and someone who is in service of providing for his wife and children.
Providing for your wife and children is a very good end. It's not the final end. You don't go to Gan Eden [the Garden of Eden/Paradise] for that. You only go to Gan Eden for what you do with that. But, according to the holy Rambam [Maimonides] at least. But, it's a good thing. In order to do that, I have to get a job, I have to do my job well. No problem. You're doing all this well, it's all part of being a person that's providing for his family, a good father, a good husband, a good part of society. I want to provide a mikvah [ritual bath] for my beis medrash [study hall], whatever it is that you're providing. You're part of that.
The moment that it's separated from that, I think that that's like the definition of evil, definition of becoming a machine, which doesn't have a goal and that's just what evil is, that's a shin dalet [the Hebrew letters that spell "demon/devil"], right?
So—meaning the moment that you're not providing and you're what? That you're picking your story, what your story is not, it's not embedded into a bigger story that I'm a good person and I'm providing for my family, for example. I'm just running this system as efficiently as possible. That's what I think.
And therefore I think that people—that's why people complain that they have no meaning. And your zaida [grandfather] doesn't understand what you mean when you say I don't have meaning in my job. You gotta have a job. He does have meaning in his job. His meaning is to come home to his wife and bring her a check. That's a great meaning.
Meaning just means there's a story that ends somewhere. Meaning is not some fancy feeling. I don't know what people think meaning means. But you don't have meaning because your job is set up in a way that you can't really do it if you care about coming home to your wife at night. Many jobs are sort of set up in that way. At least it's very hard.
You have to very—now you can understand why you have to be a meshugah [crazy person]. It's very hard to be a good whatever it is. Yeah, most people in New York City or whatever in the workplace are not—that's not their story of themselves. Many of—most of them—I'm not talking about the high machine, the high legate—and I'm talking about the baal habayis [ordinary working person]. Most of them are not like that and it's set up for people like the language that they talk and the way to, you know, to become successful within any society is to talk their language and to work on their concepts.
Their concepts are machine concepts, not human concepts. And that's why it's very hard to do it for a fewer human being. If you have a neshama left, it's very hard for you to live in that world. And now, this is the mishigas [craziness], the maskim [those who agree].
Instructor: Ah, so what was I saying?
Student: When you say neshama, what are you referring to?
Instructor: I don't know. Now, I do know, but I'm far enough off my track. So, a neshama is a person that is a human being. That's what a neshama is. He didn't forget. Some people forgot that they're human beings and became machines. That's the difference. A machine doesn't have a neshama either. I mentioned a neshama. And some people don't have a neshama. They're very happy being machines.
I'm pretty sure that nobody that listens to my shiur [Torah class] is happy with that, so I don't have to talk about that person.
Instructor: So this is a problem. I want to tell you, you can't live like this. I'm telling you, nobody can live like this. If you manage to live for a long time like that, I don't want to know about you.
Instructor: There's people that—no, what you're talking about is not that, I don't think. I'm talking about normal people. If you're neurodivergent, then... I think that's not a large part of it. Maybe. I'm not sure. I think that that's a different thing, because I understand that. That's different. That's a person that has a taanug [ta'anug: pleasure, delight], and it's making lists and checkmarks. Different. Someone doesn't like that, right? And then that guy is virtual, making checks, Excel sheets, he really loves it. Okay, it's a different thing. He likes—he's like, some beauty in it. No, I'm serious, there is some beauty in it, like math, like whatever it is, like the boxiness of the world. The world is pretty boxsy. Not true that—I'm not saying you shouldn't be boxsy, you should only be around, that's not the point. But what I'm saying is that this is a problem, and you can't live like this.
No, I forgot—yeah, I'm getting to that part, don't worry. But there's too many people have a lot of questions.
In that conference, I was sitting there, and I don't feel comfortable. I need all these tools. I consider myself a good person that's allowed to use all the tools. Maybe I'm wrong. I consider myself that way. But also I feel I don't know how to—I can't use them if I don't believe in them.
See, that's what I mean when I say I have a neshama [neshamah: soul]. A neshama means that me, I have a very hard time submitting to things that I don't believe in. Sometimes I just call it ego, but it's not ego, it's really having a neshama. If you go to someone and this guy says, you know, you have to beg this person, you have to pretend to be below him, because that's how he'll do you a favor—unless you can explain to me how that person really deserves it, or how and somehow there's some virtue in doing this, otherwise I'm just not going to do it.
Love it. In his book on sales, in the beginning of the book, he basically says, like, chapter one is basically explaining why you have to believe in what you sell, and the two is, let's say you don't believe, how to believe? Okay, yeah, many, most people don't believe. For the matter, then you're not going to get what you want to get.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Ultimate nut story. We can down the showman, so go on and down the egg. Ah, I know. You see, you see this, but you realize there's something crazy here. We have to solve this problem. My biggest belief is that we could solve this problem. There are nuts. We don't have to be stuck. We don't have to be oifgevafn [given up] and not get anything done because of this. "I have a neshama, therefore I can't work." No, nonsense. You could work, of course. You have to figure out how to, how it's going to work. There is a way. That's my biggest belief, my biggest hope. And I think it's true. There's a way. There's a way. But we have to understand what the way is.
Now, I am very uncomfortable. I can't do that. It's very hard. I just can't do it. In reality, I can't do it. And to the extent I could do it, it's because I'm corrupted. But I think that people that can do it are the good people. That's my opinion.
Now, at that thing, I'm telling you a story. Now we have to find a way. This is niche normal. It's not normal that everyone has to become oys a mentsh [cease being a human being] in order to be successful. That's crazy. The only reason I want to be successful is because I want to be a successful human being. Tell me no, be mevater [give up, forgo] for your whole life, right? Just to be clear, for your whole life be mevater on being a human being because let's be real.
Yeah, I know. Like, you go—okay, I was a rebellious, I don't know if you call it rebellious, but like, and I used to have, you know, they learn in yeshiva, it learns too slow, too fast, too low, too high, whatever it is, and I used to go to my rabbis, like, what kind of—and none of them ever said anything different. I mean, depending on their mood. But for the most part, you go to people and they understand. They say, look, yeah, you're right.
Some of them are just lying. They don't think I'm right. It's not—hello, get out of my life, you're a liar. But some of them really think that. And then he says, but look. How does it go? There's always a push-off. Like, you know, you're a bachur [yeshiva student], you're in yeshiva. You have to start with yeshiva until you get married and you'll go on kollel [married men's Torah study program] and you'll be able to do whatever you want. So then you go on kollel and they tell you the same thing until I don't know when you're able to actually live. True story.
Now, I always told them thank you so much for your advice and then I woke up in the morning and I didn't do it. I wanted to do it, it just didn't work because I have a neshama and I can't.
If you would try to convince me how this—they're so stupid these people, they think—even the ones that are really like this, okay, they're stuck in the same place. The ones that are just manipulators are really dumb because, again, maybe they're manipulators because they know that this is the best manipulation, but if someone comes to you and says, look, yeah, the system is corrupt. I know the system is corrupt, but look, you want to win, right? Try to win the system. You just corrupted a guy morally. You did the worst thing. There's one guy that at least is not corrupt. He doesn't just want to succeed. He doesn't just want to win anything. No, let's just win. What do you mean?
If you would be sincere, you would say, no, even a better manipulator would try to convince me that the system is correct. Then you should believe in it, okay? Then I can understand. Of course, maybe he knows that there's no good arguments so there's no—he has no way to explain it to me. Then he's stuck. But this is a big problem. Mask him, it doesn't work.
So the kid said there was one yid [Jew] over there that said a drusha [homiletical discourse] that I understood that made sense to me. The only problem is that his drusha was toyt meshuge [completely crazy].
That's why one yid stood up over there and besides all the eitzos [advice, strategies] that he said, he also said you should know that it's a mitzvah—it's not a mitzvah to make a lot of money. It's not a mitzvah to fal far di gevirim [fall before the wealthy]. It's not a mitzvah to nothing. A mitzvah is to do it. If this is your job, whatever, whoever you decide that if you're a mitzvah. It's not a mitzvah. Therefore, if you don't make money, if you do make money, if you do succeed, if you don't succeed, it doesn't matter. You should wake up every day, say hineni muchan umzuman [I am ready and prepared], and go do your mitzvah. That's what this guy said.
Now, I'm telling you the reality. This guy, I felt goodbye to drusha. Because I know how to do things like that. I know how to do mitzvos [commandments]. By mitzvos, I mean things that are good. Correct things. I know how to correct things. It's hard? Yeah, I know that. Sometimes it's hard to do the good thing. I could work with that. It's difficult. It's hard to do the good thing. We'll work on it. Sometimes we'll succeed. Sometimes we won't succeed. Sometimes we'll be frustrated. But I know how to live with that.
Everyone else says, you just have to win. I don't know how to live with that. And they also say it's hard, right? But you have to be mezakeh [purify oneself, work on oneself]. But what does that even mean? I don't know how that looks. Work on yourself to not take yourself seriously, to be a better slave for something else. Like, what? You know, if you freely force me, I'll be forced. No problem. I want to have money. I want a mortgage or whatever. I want to have rent. Pay the rent. I'll go do something for that. I'm nothing. I'm above that. But you're really giving me chizuk [encouragement, strengthening] like to be that? That doesn't make any sense to me.
So this guy is the only drusha that actually made sense. He was talking about a certain virtue. You're a schnorrer [fundraiser, collector]. Go and be a good schnorrer. Believe in... It's not about believing in it. I don't even believe in it. Just do it. It's a mitzvah. It's a mitzvah. It's a mitzvah. Whatever mitzvah it is. Enjoy.
It's not shiny. You must understand that this guy is only a normal drusha. You understand this? Everyone knows how to do that. Everyone knows. Do the correct thing. Who told you this is your tafkid [role, mission]? Maybe someone else. No problem. Today you're doing this.
Now I'm such a—and this guy's drusha was whacked, like seriously. What do you mean my job is to make money? It's not to knock on people's doors and get thrown out. Like, that's not the mitzvah. It's such a weird—it's also nuts, right? It's nuts to do things that don't have a goal. He's also in some way living without a goal, right? Because like, I'm just doing things. What do you mean just doing things? There's—you want to win, right?
And then, oh, Hashem [God] will send you the money. No, Hashem doesn't send nobody money. I don't know anyone that Hashem sent money. I told you the drusha already, right? I want to tell the drusha: you should rely on Hashem sending you money? Ask him how he's going to send it. What's his post office address? Because I don't know anyone that Hashem sent money yet in my life.
I know so many people that go around—I listened to last week someone, you know, yeah, I was in the grocery. I went to the grocery. I filled up my cart. I had no idea how to pay and I borrowed money around the register. You could have thought of that before. It's just a low life. Like, oh, der Oybershter hot geholfen [the Almighty helped]. He said, you really don't have what to pay? Okay, and he gave me the money. Because some yid gave you the money. Der Oybershter didn't give you nothing. Der Oybershter didn't give you this. Der Oybershter didn't give you that. No difference.
What do you mean der Oybershter didn't give you money? He's just drying me a cup. What's it got to do? You have a lot of picture. Your picture of the reality is totally not in sync with how God actually is. Right? You believe in some a-causal world where things have nothing to do with their effects. Of course they do.
Why did you go to the grocery store? Why did you fill up your cart? Why didn't you just sit home and wait for the fridge to fill up? What's going on? Who are you fooling over here? Oh, you have to do that. Okay, you also have to go work. Or maybe your plan is to borrow money from people. No problem. Mucho of people say my life—I like the mucho of people and so on and I don't have patience to work. I'll just say it, tell him all day, wait for people to give me money. No problem. That's your plan for life. Your plan is not Hashem. Hashem can't do it. Not only you're talking nonsense—like, what do you mean Hashem? How is this more Hashem than—
Instructor: Everyone knows that everything is Hashem [God]. People, I think the reason people say it all the time is because they don't really believe in Hashem. So they have to say it all the time. It's like, "I'm doing it for Hashem." What does that even mean?
Because everyone understands what this guy said was total nonsense. That's the only reason they said something normal.
So now here's my kasha [question]: Why can't there be a normal person that can explain to you the virtues of a shnorrer [beggar]? A shnorrer has to—I'll tell you one of the virtues of a shnorrer. Not because it happens to be that it helps you make money also.
If you're a shnorrer, you should brush your shoes. You know why? Because it's not respectful. You go to a person, you ask for money, and you're like, "I'm a shnorrer, so I'm allowed to have ripped shoes." It's not nice, right? People don't like it. It's a small action. That's the virtue of a shnorrer. A shnorrer has to dress the part. You're asking him for tzedakah [charity].
That would be a very reasonable drasha [sermon]. Part of a middos toivos [good character traits]—if there's a correct middah [character trait], a shnorrer has to wear a normal rekel [coat] and he has to make his payos [sidelocks] and comb his beard. Otherwise you come to someone, a guy is just giving you money to get you out of his face because you're ugly. True story, right?
So now, this is the same actual factual advice as the other guy that says, "Look, you're going to go to the gvir [wealthy person]. Look, you have stuff in your phyllin [phylacteries]. You have a special man. He doesn't like people that are chnyokish [slovenly]. Some people do like that's chnyokish, okay, so dress up chnyokish. But go be a normal person, figure it out. It's going to cost money to buy a new rekel, but you're going to make more money, it's worth it." No problem.
That's the manipulative way of saying the drasha. You can say the same as the drasha, as if it's a mitzvah [commandment]. And it's not a mitzvah. Because this is a good—now, is this the final good? No. The end is to give money, and then you've got money to go to yeshiva [Torah academy], and then someone in the yeshiva is going to—somehow it's going to end up in Torah, this money, I don't know how.
But you understand my point? Why is the only normal guy a nutcase?
Student: You don't like speaking well. It's like, one way is to speak well, manipulatively, and one is to speak well because you should present yourself well.
Instructor: Right, exactly.
Instructor: My job is to be a maggid shiur [Torah lecturer], and everyone has to do their ma'aseh b'emunah [act of faith]. My ma'aseh b'emunah is to prepare a shiur [Torah lesson], and I don't have to follow the shiur. I don't hold that you have to follow the... but I did prepare a shiur today. It's over here. If you don't believe me, I even have notes. It's not what I said, but you have to appear. It's ma'aseh b'emunah, right?
"Oh no, you have to prepare so people should be impressed." My job is not to impress people. I mean, it's to impress people, but that's just what it is. It's not just, right? If I can impress you in a fake way, I'm doing my job wrongly. If I impress you in the correct way because I did the correct preparation and I got a nice room to impress you, all of that, no problem. That's part of the job, doing it correctly.
Now, why are the only people that even go out of this totally manipulative frame the ones that tell you that God somehow is doing it directly? Do you understand the kasha? It's a very good example of the kasha, and there's many hundreds of other examples. Do you understand the kasha?
Instructor: All the way down to the kasha, why—everyone in ma'aseh [deed/action] is talking about it. What's my other example? Something with the Rebbes. What about the Rebbes? No, the same thing. Is it normal to—this is a good example. That one I a little bit understand. It's easier to explain why.
But is it normal that every person that already understands that you don't have to worship whoever was the idol of the—whoever first guy that was the idol of another guy—is also believing some dead guy in Ukraine? Most of them do. Like Sharikas [reference to Rebbe Nachman of Breslov]. Of course, that's easier to explain.
But is it normal that every teenager has spent like seventy years of their life watching TikTok? Because that's contemporary avodah zarah [idolatry]. The other avodah zarah is that TikTok was created directly, but that's actually true. But the other avodah zarah is that the whole internet was created directly by the Sitra Achra [the Other Side/evil forces], so that we should have nisyonos [tests], bnei yeshivas [yeshiva students], or something.
Now, this guy's a little normal. You have kids, you should put a filter on their phone. No question, on their whatever. Nobody ever argues—I mean, people don't live like that, but that's because they're nuts or they don't have a choice, whatever it is. But their society is nuts.
And the only guy that's normal is like what? You know that the Sklenener Rebbe gave the best drasha by Cedrifield and everyone was laughing at him? Sklenener Rebbe got up—and this was it, twenty years ago almost—got up and said—this is a beautiful thing that he said—"Amen. Amen." He doesn't say "Amen." Amen literally says this so you get your neshama [soul]. Amen. A ba'al hayim [animal] walks bent over. Amen walks upright. So if you walk around like this, you're a ba'al hayim.
Now he said the most normal thing, but what does it mean? Therefore... Hello. You got my problem? Why is it only normal people in this way?
Student: No, but people also do think that there's—back to this well-adjusted thing. I think people do very often think that, okay, so like, you know, well-adjusted person—obviously if you say you shouldn't go on social media at all, you must be—taking thirty minutes a day is when you can do that.
Instructor: No, but that's not really thinking the problem. I think that's a getchke [idol/fetish] of well-adjusted.
Student: Yeah, yeah, like of course, like yeah, exactly, exactly. Everything like I can engage with on perfect terms and like, of course, we can like craft this like perfect human experience that doesn't fall—
Instructor: I agree, I agree with that. That's another mishigas [craziness], right? That's another thing.
Instructor: The normal people—you're mad at Modern Orthodox people. Modern Orthodox people are—there's one, but both sides are mishigas. That's what I'm trying to get at. Modern Orthodox people have a different mishigas. They just don't believe in the yetzer hara [evil inclination]. They just don't believe in him. The Haredi people don't believe in the yetzer tov [good inclination]. But both of them are mishigas.
Like you go to—I just re-read because of this thing that I did last week. I re-read some discussion that I had with a lady that wrote a whole book about the correct sex education that we should give our kids. And she basically told him it's the both. It's like, you know, this is a really powerful destructive force, also for good. But she's like, "No, it's like holy and if you do it correctly," yeah, thank you very much. You just missed the problem, right?
This is a thing that is really, really worth—you should respect this shit. Just doesn't have any respect for this yetzer hara. No respect. Like it's really, it could make a whole—it could make a mabul [flood]. No. Chazal v'Shalom [God forbid], we shouldn't be Puritan, we shouldn't teach our kids because then they're going to hate their body, so we should teach them that there's a right—I agreed with the conclusion, but there's just like a certain disconnect with reality. Chazal v'Shalom, whatever. I'm not going to get into the details of this.
But you're right, that's another—she's right in a certain sense. These people are right. He's like normal, very good. The other people are crazy because their solutions don't actually—their solutions don't actually solve the problems. And also they're crazy because they don't believe in the yetzer tov. They don't believe in any kind of derech hamitzvos [the way of the commandments] and all kinds of mishigas that we said last week and so on.
But the other people are also crazy. They're just living in a fantasy universe which is like, maybe it's true in like three blocks of Teaneck for people between thirty and forty or something, but other than that it's not the real world, right?
So what's going on? Why is everyone meshuge? Same question. So you like—the same thing. You meet this guy like, "Yeah, he says that we should go to his—we should become a chossid [follower]." Then you see that the guy is—no, another some other way he's totally missed the boat. I think that started—I'll miss the boat is in that's a good amount of business.
Instructor: This thing against—against the chochom [wise man] is fucking retarded. Why can you just say it's the same thing? It's the same thing. It's just a formulation. It's true by the theory that I said today, but it's a better question than an answer. In other words, it's not a question, it's like a request more of a request than a question.
Instructor: I think that there is a way to do all of this, at least to some extent. I also do think that you have to be meshuge in reality, unfortunately. Why? Actually, I don't think you have to be meshuge. I don't think we should say that's true—it shouldn't be meshuge.
But I think that there's a reason why everyone that's normal a little is meshuge. And the reason is that in this world, it's very, very hard, at least for one person—maybe, you know, but for one person—it's very hard to make anything, to write anything without tipping over the boat, right?
So, for example, if we're—I mean, I could talk about mass education as one way in which this happens. I think it happens with people by themselves.
So, for example, if we're, I mean, I could talk about like mass education as one way in which this happens. I think it has happened with people by themselves. Myself, if you have to go against the reality, like against the reality of society, it seems to me that it's very hard to do that without some very strong backbone, without some very strong support. And for this reason, I think that... Or alternative social infrastructure. And full social infrastructure, but nobody actually has that. I mean, nobody that I know.
I think that you need like Archimedes' pole. You need something to actually take you out of the default. And that thing is by definition meshuga [crazy/insane].
This is really with the discussion of the Rambam [Maimonides]. This is really my response to this. The Rambam has the discussion of going in the desert and becoming a desert father or mother and leaving society. And the Rambam is very against it. He says this is not ideal. But he also agrees that it's sometimes needed.
And we have to understand that going to the desert is an aveira [sin]. It's not like the Rambam explicitly expresses it this way. Leaving society is a sin. Why is it a sin? Because the correct way of being a human being is to live within a society. And even more than that, the correct way of living as a human being is to live within your society. That is the correct way, you could say healthy way. But that's the correct way. That's how God made people. That's the nature of humans.
The nature of humans is not to do lech lecha [go forth - Abraham's departure]. That's a very nice romantic drasha [sermon]. The nature of humans is to stay where they are. I don't know, stay where they are. The nature of humans is to live within the society you are. That's the nature of humans.
Now, this also means that if they're in a bad society, you're going to be bad. You are going to be bad. If anyone tells you they're going to be good in a bad society, like this is the main contention of modern orthodoxy, that's nonsense.
You could be the good person of that society. Every society has an ideal of a good person. You could be a good person relative to that society or not relative, like according to what that society defines as a good person. But you can't be a good person, a really good person. If you agree that whatever the definition of this society for a good person is incomplete at least, you can't really be more than that. You can't. You can't be that.
In America, there's something called being a good person. By the way, that includes going to church, so you could switch synagogue for church. It doesn't make a big difference. At least it used to include. I don't know if it still does.
And a modern Orthodox, or a modern anything guy, it doesn't matter, is a guy that does that. No problem. You're a very good American Jew. No problem.
But if you think that being a Jew, the claim of being a Jew is that the whole shtikl Torah [the entire Torah], kol zeh achnes [all this is nothing], being an American good guy, the best guy in America is still not good enough, if you believe that. I don't know if you believe that. I think that as a Jew you have to believe that. You have to, enough to nothing. But you should.
Then, or especially if you believe that, like I seem to believe based on whatever nonsense I read on the Internet. But if you believe that in 2025 there is no such a thing as being a good person in America. America doesn't have an ideal of good people and there are no good people in America. As Americans there are good people. Then you have to believe that, you have to go out of that and then you have to say you have to do a very big bad thing.
Let's just be against your society. It's a big huge sin. I'm just doing that makes you meshuga. Or there's like good ways of doing it. Not like saying like I have a Rebbe, I have a Torah, this absolute truth. What are you talking about? Since there's no such a thing, you're living on olam hadimyon [fantasy world].
No, this is what you have to say. You have to say look, we are the only people in history to know the truth. In Lakewood, the 30 people that live here, we are the only ones. It was given to us. I don't even know how we discovered it. And just to be clear, not to the Hasidim in Boro Park, not to the guys in Five Towns, not to the guys in Freehold. We got, we try to teach them but it was given to us. The whole complete full truth, 100 percent mezukak [purified], distilled, pure distilled.
Now, that is it. Anything else is nonsense. Even the people that try to go there, they realize themselves that it's nonsense. And because we have one meshuga that came back and said that it's nonsense and it proves to us. And this is the one that we're going to create a whole thing. We're going to teach basically only this. We're not going to teach anything else. We're not going to teach nothing. We're going to teach this. One thing.
We have received for free the extreme absolute truth, including how to tie your shoelaces. It's as true as the existence of God. Everything is absolute truth. And this is going to be what we do. This is all we do. We spend our days and nights saying this. And then if you do that for 70 years, no, if you that whatever, for as long as it takes, the race generation, then less than seven years, only like 10, 15 years, then you end up with people that have a, how do we call it? Like an anchor outside of America.
This is what is needed. This is just the creating of the anchor. It's not the actual good thing, in my opinion, because most people are messed up. It's not the actual good thing. But this is all creating like a separate pole, like the multipolar role that some people are about. Like, you have to have another pole. Otherwise, everything you do, even the Yiddishkeit [Judaism] that you do, is according to the sar [angelic prince] of America.
Remember, there's shiv'im sarim [seventy angelic princes], there's the sar of America. He actually conquered like 15 sarim, and he's 15 of them. And, you know, right? You know their names are also anyways. And the sar of America, he's telling me, oh my pshatim [interpretations] is from him.
If you want to be a little bit outside of that, like not in golus [exile], right? You want, because this golus means you're living within a bad society. You want to not be in golus, you have to have, you have to have a really strong anchor. You have to something to actually give you, you need some place to stand outside of it. How do you stand outside the world? You need a lever long enough, right, to stand outside the world. How do you do that? You have to be meshuga.
I don't know of anyone that succeeds without being meshuga.
Therefore, I had a friend that told me that he became a Bianer Chassid [Hasid of the Biana dynasty]. I don't think his family is Biana. He became a Bianer Chassid. So I asked him, I believe him, like, what do you see in the holy Biana that this is like the thing? He'd become a Breslov, a Chabad. I see this guy, he was in all the places. He became a Biana.
So he told me, look, I don't know if this was an excuse, but this is what he said, and it's just a good idea. He said, I looked in Biana, he has some family, of course he's like close to it socially somehow, that's why he's able. He said, look, in Biana there's the least Chassidus. I need a Chassidus, I want to be a Chassidus. I need a place for my children, I need a shul to daven in, a Chassidus shul, and so on. I need to be Chassidus.
I looked around all the Chassidus, where do you have to do the least? In Biana, you have to come every time, every time you have to come to Yerushalayim [Jerusalem], to the Rebbe. I don't think you have to do anything else basically. They don't have what clothes you wear, nothing. Perfect. It's how hard it is for me to travel two days a week a year. I'll travel. I wear the, I get into, what's the name, since we have to be, we should try to, to find the least meshuga thing that can take us out of reality, right?
So the trick is to find something that's less destructive, right? If you're like, I'm meshuga, I'm going to be in a cult, like I'm going to, we're going to talk all, do everything, whatever. But it's not necessary. I was reading a whole thing about the Amish yesterday. It's not actually necessary to be entirely meshuga. Don't read, because you only need one thing outside. Like you need one point, some anchoring point. You need, exactly, you need some, but it has to be real and somewhere else. It can't be the American version of Judaism, because then it's not anything.
You need something to say: In this, we think entirely different than everyone. And everyone is just brainwashed, nebuch [unfortunately], there's nobody to talk to, it's totally messed up. You need one thing. You need one, for now, Avraham HaIvri [Abraham the Hebrew] is not in a lechatchila [ideal] situation, but since we're in the world of Moshiach [Messiah], you need one thing that is really crazy.
So everyone has to choose their poison, I think. I don't know if this is really a choice that you could make because that's the real, but my ideal would be you have to choose it.
That's why Lemush [?], a lot of like these, for example, it's not such a bad poison. I mean sometimes it is, but like, okay I have this one thing, this is what really separates me from everyone. I think that this is Moshiach, that's it.
Something with Lubavitch. Lubavitch has too many meshugaim [crazy people], but they don't need most of them. One or two of them is enough. And this allows them to do a lot of things because they're free. Now you're free. Now maybe I'll decide to do most of the things like everyone else, but I'm free, right?
Student: What about, what did he say?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, in a very messed up way. It's very the opposite of that. But we have to have something that's different. Something very far. And then we can hold on to that.
I think that just being Jewish is more than enough. That's really what I think. But that only works, that only works for people that realize how crazy it is to be Jewish. If you only talk with Jews your whole life in a serious way, I'm not saying everyone talks with goyim [non-Jews], but like seriously, like if you don't talk about God with Jews, then you don't realize how crazy Jews are. You got to talk about the true things with other people if you could. And then you realize that just being a Jew, like I'm committed to Judaism, this is meshuga. I don't care.
We are the guys that put on the tefillin [phylacteries] twice, two tefillin, twice a day, or whatever, once a day. That's where we are. Why? We're the Parah Adumah [Red Heifer] people. That's all. That's who we are. Now, everything else could make sense. That's why we have that Parah Adumah, because that's like keeping your head above the water. There's still a Parah Adumah. It's saving us. It's going to purify us from all the shtussim [nonsense]. That's the thing.
Student: And he put on, so it doesn't have a ta'am [reason/taste], it can't be a Litvak [Lithuanian-style Jew] though.
Instructor: He doesn't wear the...
Student: Yeah no, at that point Litvak nebuch thinks that that's true.
Instructor: The film, twice, two films, twice a day, or whatever, once a day. That's where we are. Why? We're the Poshut'e Yid [simple Jew] people. That's all. That's who we are. Now, everything else could make sense. That's why we have to have Poshut'e Yid. Because that's like keeping your head above the water. There's still a Poshut'e Yid. It's saving us. It's going to purify us from all the shtusim [nonsense]. That's the thing.
And the problem is that it doesn't have a ta'am [reason/rationale]. It can't be a Litvak, though, because it doesn't wear the veil that comes with it.
Student: Yeah, no, that's not the point. Litvak nebuch [poor thing] thinks that that's true. If you think that it's true, then...
Instructor: No, but he's meshuga [crazy] for that. It's, again, too much meshuga. You started off that you were going to go on vacation and the masa u'matan [give and take] is an aveirah [sin] and it's multiple days.
Student: Yeah, the main thing is that this is what I think.
Instructor: You can go much further when you have that... You have to understand that it's wrong. This is all wrong. We shouldn't be meshuga. Even just... Like a masser [informer], like a mesira [informing].
Student: Yeah, even just... Exactly.
Instructor: By the way, it's a great thing. I've tried this thing. I know people have tried this and I've tried this myself in certain things. It's very important. It's a chet [sin]. It's a chet. It's 100% a chet. You're not allowed to do it. If the world would be good or to the extent that the world is good, you're not allowed to. It makes you a bad person. At least in the sense of an unbalanced person which is the definition of bad. It makes you a bad person.
But if you are in a situation where you're trying to bring in some kind of truth, some kind of pole, like a base of reality that is not in this one, you're going to have to do something to get yourself out.
How do you get yourself out of society? It's very hard. In America it's extremely hard because it's such a free society. In Russia it was easy to be a yid [Jew]. People think in America it's hard to be a yid, in Russia it's easy. People think in America it's easy to be a yid, but in Russia it's hard. It's the opposite.
In Russia you just have to make a bris [circumcision] for your son and you're a yid. Because this is like anti-communism, anti-whatever the communist ideal of atheism. In America, no, you make a bris. Everyone has their mishigas [craziness], you have your mishigas. Then you're not a yid.
Student: You're not.
Instructor: Everyone is crazy, we're crazy in this way. You have to have some point that's outside of that. This is why liberalism is like some people said the most dangerous thing for religion that subsumes it. Look we're all crazy, well let's be crazy that way, no problem. Maybe in part of Israel, but in some sense in your mind there has to be something: No, not really. And this is because we need... this is the reality.
I think this is an empirical explanation. This is why the only people that actually have the courage... like for example, okay, everyone agrees—I don't know if everyone agrees, I don't agree—but most people that I spoke to agree that doesn't make any sense to rent a hall for $30,000 and make a wedding for your son that's 17 or 18, makes no sense. It doesn't deserve it. Then do nothing and didn't even meet his kallah [bride]. That's like why would he get a $30,000 wedding? Everyone agrees. No, just the hall. Otherwise everyone agrees that this is crazy.
It's interesting that the only guy that actually just... you know that it doesn't cost anything to not do it. Actually, you save a lot of money. Nobody's like... it's crazy how little, not even social pressure. People, most social pressure is imagined. I've tried it out, I'm telling you. You could do, you could just do it. Instead of renting a hall, call everyone here and make your wedding. Nobody, people did it in COVID, remember, it was so easy? It just happened. Look, there's no social pressure. The social pressure is overrated. You could just do it. It's your choice.
Student: You're the guy, there's two people left, that's okay. Two mechutanim [in-laws] have to be on the same page. It's so hard to find one more.
Instructor: Everyone agrees that it's meshuga, right? I promise you you can do it. All of these things together are not worth anything.
The reason people, the reason people don't do it, I'm telling you the truth, the only guy that actually does it is a meshugene [crazy person] that worships a dead grave in Ukraine [reference to certain Chassidic practices]. How does it work? Why? Because he actually has something to tell them: I'm not one of these people. I'm really, really, my religion is a different religion. Know that we're whatever. Chassidish doesn't say that, but like really, really, what makes me tick is something else.
Okay, now maybe he also is more than sometimes. He's good. The kallah is making a problem. I'm not saying he's not gonna understand everyone else. I have to understand the reason everyone's does not because they have no... Nothing in the name of which to really go against. You have to remember that society, when people say society, it's not with society. It's their God.
Right? If you say how do I decide how to do anything? How does anyone by the way? It's very hard. Most of the things you delegate to society and you're correct for doing that. That's how the world should work. How do you know how a wedding looks? Oh let's sit down and learn, let's learn and find out. You're crazy. You're not going to find anything out there, right? It sort of says that, yeah that's long, this is red. You're turning me back. But you can't do that.
So what are you going to do, right? You don't really have... or you could say I'm sitting down myself. I think it should be cheaper. By the way, I think it's wrong. I think a wedding should be expensive. I don't think it should be cheap. I'm asking with this whole shtus [nonsense]. But that's a different thing.
But now you understand that there's a real issue because you have no other god. You have no god but what everyone else does. You could complain against your god. Everyone complains against their god. Nobody is happy with their god. That's why he's a god, so he should be able to be against you. Otherwise he'll just be you.
But that's why, if the only way that... if it's true, assuming that it's true that it's crazy, the only way to act in the name of something else is to actually have something else. And you really have to have something else. How would you act in the name of something else if you don't have something else?
This is the basic empirical reason why the only God that actually does something different is the guy with a different God.
Student: Chassidish for me doesn't have a different God, yeah, and he's not my moshel [parable/example].
Instructor: A different middle God, at least.
Student: Yeah, a different malach [angel]. A different tzar [trouble].
Instructor: Chassidish for me is the Chazon [Chazon Ish], and the same for everything. The only people that could resist the internet, or could resist Chassidish because they resist birth control are the people that believe that God himself told them to have a bunch of babies. It doesn't matter. It has to be something different. God never said that, by the way. But it has to be something. Otherwise, you're just going to... You're not going to have what in the name of who to be to be misnaged [opponent]. You have to have something in the name of something to live. And it's the real problem.
And the real yeshua [salvation] is going to be when we make our own everything. But whatever. That's just a fantasy from a shiach [conversation]. But that would be... it's important to have that ideal to realize that it's not an ideal situation to be against society because it's very destructive if you become a sheigetz [non-Jewish boy/derogatory] and also you become even more of a sheigetz because of that because then you lose everything and it's a problem.
Student: Just to be clear, when the Rambam [Maimonides] says you should go to the midbar [desert], it means this moshel that you're talking about?
Instructor: The Rambam means literally going to the midbar.
Student: No but it doesn't mean this moshel that you're saying.
Instructor: The Rambam literally means going to the midbar.
Student: Become this like a little weird...
Instructor: No, no, not a weirdo. All Jews have... like the Chazon Ish famously told us about whatever he was understanding, right? Jews have made this collective... not Jews, what's called Orthodox, whatever you want to call them. Haredi [ultra-Orthodox] Jews have made this choice to go in the midbar. The literal desert doesn't make a difference. They actually did this. And it's a big sin that makes them crazy. They're all nuts and they're all evil in some sense because of that. Because you get unbalanced, and when you're unbalanced, a lot of things, everything is open in some sense. But also in that world you don't have a view from anywhere else, right?
Student: Yeah, that's... then it's not even... then it's the opposite, right? You need to have... you need to be a little frei [free/secular]...
Instructor: You're not answering the question.
Student: No, I'm diagnosing the problem.
Instructor: I don't have... the answer is an empirical question. I asked why I can't find any normal Rebbe [rabbi/teacher]. So the Torah says that if it would be normal I wouldn't want to be my Rebbe because normal means evil. So therefore you have to be evil a little bit.
And my solution, my halfway joke solution for today is that you should try to find the least destructive mishigas to save you.
And my proposal is... My proposal is that we should just be Jewish and it's more than enough meshuga. We don't realize how meshuga it is. It's connected to last week's thing. It's more than enough meshuga to just not eat pork. That's meshuga enough. But you should realize that it's meshuga. It's not normal.
Like everyone has their dietary preferences and I have the kosher preference. No. It's not our dietary preference to eat kosher. Okay? It's a meshuga. The Chabadniks [Chabad Chassidim] are good at saying this, right? We don't have... No dietary preference. It's a meshuga.
We believe that our God came 5,000 years ago and ever to a mountain and told us: Please my dear Jews, don't eat pork. Don't ask me why. It doesn't make any sense. I promise you it makes no sense. If anyone tells you that it makes sense, he's lying.
That's what you have to believe. And that's more than enough to be meshuga. Now you could be friends with a goy [non-Jew]. You could do everything. It doesn't matter. It's not going to hurt you because you're already totally out of it. Understand?
Or since in reality maybe it's not enough, so everyone should find some other thing personally that works. But I think that this would be a proposal.
Student: It's so crazy it's actually hard to be friends with a goy.
Instructor: Well because you're meshuga.
Student: Even someone honest with yourself, either can be two-faced because you pretend you don't put on tefillin [phylacteries] in the morning. That's one option. You can't do it. Like being the person who puts on tefillin in the morning, you just can't say it.
Instructor: No, I think the ideal way of saying it is this: like where everyone has their weird things and they have this weird thing. We have too many. You also sit in the room and you also go out. You don't tell them... Oh that's a problem because it's discrimination if only they didn't...
Student: No, no, you can't say it because it's so crazy. I didn't even know at the beginning.
Instructor: What's crazy about davening mincha [afternoon prayer]?
Student: It's pretty, it's pretty...
Instructor: No, it's, it's, it's... nobody does this. We have, we have, I work in a, I work in an entirely, pretty much 80% secular workplace. There's nothing weirder than mincha. Right. That, by the way, if you want to know my... literally you see a bunch of people coming into the conference room. You think it's weird, right?
Let's do it this way, these people literally on their computers, 10 feet away, amud [standing], feet to zeman [time], whispering to the wall, 10 minutes, and come out like nothing happened, nothing happened.
Student: My mincha is in a frum [religiously observant] firm, the partners are frum guys, it's much less of an aveirah [sin].
Instructor: Partners are also frum guys.
Student: No, no, no, but there's not so many going around.
Instructor: It's even worse. You would say if they would believe that they're talking to God, there's one thing, but they're not even talking to God. They're just talking to mincha.
Oh, by the way, if you talk to your kids, this whole thing gets lost. It's very normal to whisper a prayer in the corner. We're not even going slow. It doesn't look like we're taking it seriously at all. We're not even going slow. Out loud everybody. Oh, quiet.
What was that?
Instructor: You would say, if they would believe that they're talking to God, there's one thing, but they're not even talking to God, they're just davening milche [davening: praying; milche: Yiddish for "dairy," here meaning superficially/without substance]!
By the way, see, if you daven b'yechidus [b'yechidus: in private/alone] this whole thing gets lost. It's very normal to whisper a prayer in the corner. When you go into the Kesubah [Kesubah: likely referring to a specific prayer or section], we're not even going slow. We're not even—it doesn't look like we're taking it seriously at all. Out loud everybody! Oh, quiet.
But today I'm speaking about this specific kind of ketanus [ketanus: smallness/narrowness] about being outside of society, which is really the root of all evil, because you remember that Shulchan [Shulchan: likely Shulchan Aruch, the Code of Jewish Law], all the maalos hamiddos [maalos hamiddos: character virtues], all the character virtues are really about creating a society that works. That's their end. Then that society has to do something. But that's what it's all about.
Cutting yourself off and calling yourself off society is the worst thing you could do. You deserve death for that.
Like Zionists have the fantasy of creating society. Problem with their society is it's just a likkut [likkut: collection/gathering] of all the messed-upness that you could find in Russia and in America and in England.
The two, three guys that are really hardcore that come in that don't care at all, right? They don't feel the eyes looking at them and they're doing it anyway, right? These guys have nothing to gain from it. They come in because—if you think that it's normal. And he doesn't understand. He looks like a freak. Me? I go every day. I know. I've been a freak. Yeah, too bad. I'm here. I'm whispering to the wall. You don't like it. I don't know. Yeah, I'm out of my mind. Yeah, it works.
They made some society, and then once they're somewhat successful, all the leeches come and start selling soda cans in Tel Aviv. Like there was a billion soda cans selling in Tel Aviv, hocking whatever. Like, so all the racist things come to mind. It's because like, no, we're trying to make a good society.
Student: Yeah, yeah, no, no, I agree.
Instructor: In other words, but the reality is, firstly just to be a Zionist is crazy. I don't know if you know that. It still is, I think. Maybe people were reminded that it's a bit meshuga [meshuga: crazy].
Student: Why it's meshuga?
Instructor: I don't know. Because the—I don't care why it's meshuga.
Student: No, ask it. I think it's critical to live in America, be a Zionist. I think that's—
Instructor: No, it's meshuga. I'm not saying it's outside—because there was all this work that went in to try to make it a normal idea, but never really managed to become a normal idea. Like every nation has its place, and you have to go to some Palestinians like, hello. This is weird. Nobody ever did this. It's normal what it is.
I mean, it's only not meshuga like the Free African State. It's not really normal. There's actually no successful people that actually just picked themselves up from one place and went to the other place and claiming that it's their homeland and made a homeland there. Nobody ever did that besides for the Jews.
I'm not saying they're wrong for doing it, I'm just saying they're the only people that ever did that. It's normal when it just is that way, but it's not normal to make it be that way.
Student: Yeah, no, very good.
Instructor: As part of the project, that's why there's a Yid [Yid: Jew], I have to stop my video, but there's a Yid that claims that the fact that people are not Zionist in Israel is the biggest success of Zionism. Because we're just here. What do you mean, why are we here? I don't know. My father was here. My grandfather was here. My great-grandfather—I'm not sure. I don't know. I don't remember anymore. But that's it. Zeh ma yesh [Zeh ma yesh: Hebrew for "that's what there is/that's all there is"].
I feel just like the Palestinians—their great-grandfathers, they don't know where they're from. So he says he met the young people, they feel like that, many of them. Just like, he said, oh, we finally became natives. Like, ah, Mazel Tov [Mazel Tov: congratulations]. That's whatever. That's a different tradition.
But yeah, if you want to become—yeah, but it's true. But that's—I don't know, it does seem to me that, I mean, like this ideal of making your full society and take responsibility for everything also seems a little meshuga to me. I don't think that's the correct ideal either. You know what I'm saying? Like you can't be autarky. You can't have moral autarky. It's not going to work either.
Student: Very good.
Instructor: So we're back to this picking our poison of where we want to be meshuga. Make sense?
I was reading this thing yesterday that the Amish—there's like seven different levels, seven different levels of Amish. And the more frum [frum: religiously observant] ones are actually more frei [frei: secular/non-observant]. Very interesting. Because it's after the modern ones that have more chumros [chumros: stringencies] about driving certain things, not driving cars, certain things. And because then a bunch of modern people came and they said, look, we can't do this, this is crazy, everyone has to believe in God or whatever. And therefore they asked for a bunch of things. And now they're struggling more.
Student: Like in our society, in some sense.
Instructor: Yeah, there's a lot of kullas [kullas: leniencies] from being a chassidishe [chassidishe: Hasidic] yeshiva also. It's not only in chumros. People don't realize that the amount of people think that being a kat [kat: sect] is being machmir [machmir: stringent]. It's not really, right? It lets you do more things underneath it. It lets you—yeah, exactly. You gotta pay a certain thing and—
But that's enough. By the way, it's also too much. A yarmulke [yarmulke: skullcap] is more than enough crazy. You have to wear a yarmulke and a hat and everything. This is just overdone. But you do have to—you understand what I'm saying? Because as long as there's something strong enough—
Where are the people that don't wear techeles [techeles: ritual blue thread on tzitzit]? It's not a good example, the Jewish context. Where are the people that do? You know who are the frummest people in Yiddishkeit [Yiddishkeit: Judaism/Jewish practice]? They do a chusn mol [chusn mol: unclear term, possibly related to wedding customs]. They don't do it correctly anyways. They do a mitzvah tanz [mitzvah tanz: traditional Hasidic wedding dance], okay. Everyone knows what that is. They do a mitzvah tanz because their elders did it and they don't know what it is. Oh, it doesn't make sense. I don't know, my Baba [Baba: grandmother/ancestor] did that, I'm going to do it too.
And there's people, right, because they wear the same socks as their Baba, they also like to do the same aveiros [aveiros: sins] as their Baba. If you wear different socks, then okay, then you have to do the mitzvah.
My point is just that it's not correct that the more things you add, the more separated you become from society. It's not actually true in certain ways.
By the way, I've noticed—there's another drasha [drasha: sermon/lecture], but many of the—I'm making a close-up of Not Satmar people—but in certain ways the Satmar people are the most Americanized people there are around. And Not Satmar people are the most Yiddish people there are around. Because Not Satmar shul in some sense is just the hamshach [hamshach: continuation] of the shul in Europe from 10,000 years ago, whatever, however many years ago. And the Yiddish shul is totally American shul.
Satmar is probably like the first one to create actual modern-style American shuls in Lakewood. Okay, go to Satmar Shul 9, the new one. You'll see that they basically bought modern fixtures like this one for their shul.
Student: What's going on with you?
Instructor: No modern Orthodox shul would do that. If they would do that, it would be in a messed-up, a different way. Not in the same way, not with such courage, not like with such familiarity. It's reality.
And that is because there's not anything else—because there's other things making them meshuga. So everyone chooses where to be meshuga. It's not entirely true that the more frum are less—least are less assimilated. Just everyone choosing where to be not assimilated. This dichotomy—
Student: I cover what you're saying.
Instructor: Yeah, this dichotomy used to live in—what's that shul by that weird massive intersection that's a hundred streets coming into it?
Student: The old shul?
Instructor: Yeah, that. Exactly. Now there's nobody there anymore. They modernized like one fixture and you can feel the dissonance for miles.
Student: Yeah, you could see, right?
Instructor: There's no—it's slim. There's no shul in Lakewood that has like the panels on the walls still from how they used to make shuls in the olden times. Everyone is modern. We have chairs and tables that look like this.
So that's the nekudah [nekudah: point]. But kids, what I'm trying to say is that everyone should try to do meshuga, but not too much meshuga.
Student: That's right.
- Discussion about choice (also called free choice/free will)
- Context: Part of a course on ethics (how to become a better human being)
- Speaker notes there's a question about why "becoming a better person" is called "ethics"
- Mentions Aristotle has a teaching (*shtikel Torah*) on the etymology
- Class will NOT focus on this etymology question
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- The word "human" is crucial to understanding the style of ethics being studied
- Could list 13 ways this matters (not enumerated)
- Claim: The ENTIRE tradition of ethics until recently (hyperbolic "last week") shares this definition
- Definition: Ethics = what is good for / the good of a human being = "a human kind of good"
- Good = perfection of a thing
- For anything: "good" means how it is good / what is good for it
- Clarification: "good OF it" preferred over "good FOR it" (to avoid confusion with subjective perception of good vs. real good)
- Good is always relative to something—perfection of that thing, the "best version," the "ideal version"
- Human good (ethics) = study of what perfects a human being as human
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- Not that it makes life easier, but makes discussion clearer
- Many common discussions of "how to live" start from something beyond or other than the human good
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- When asked "what is the good life?", people typically answer:
- *Avodas Hashem* (serving God)
- *Mitzvos* (commandments)
- Doing God's will
- Question: What does serving God have to do with MY good?
- This makes "what is good for me" = "being good for someone/something else"
- Analogy: A good child serves parents; a good slave serves master
- BUT: This only describes perfection of a relation, not the whole person
- IF a human being exists as something besides their relation to God (their "slavery")
- THEN serving God cannot exhaust everything good about them
- Serving God = perfection of one's relation to what is greater than oneself
- This is something, but not everything about being a good human
1. You could reject the basic definition of good as perfection
2. You could deny that "human" exists as a real category
- Reductio: This would mean *naaseh adam* ("let us make man" in Torah) is false—God only created a relation to Himself
- Speaker notes: "People say this"—he's just clarifying what it entails
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- Chasidish critique of Litvaks: "Litvaks pursue their own perfection (like Rambam)—that's *gashmius* (materialism), that's selfish"
- Chasidish self-description: "We serve God, we're about someone else's perfection"
- Speaker questions: Are Chasidim perfecting God? The Besht?
- Joke about perfecting benches
- Reference to Chabad approach: "They perfect everything else except themselves"
- Claim: Learning Torah perfects the bench (makes it "something new")
- Speaker's response: Doesn't see how this avoids the critique
- Notes this was presented as "non-selfishness"
- Defers: "This is not a class about selfishness"
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- One approach seeks to be "fully aesthetic" or disconnected from mundane/worldly things
- Goal: escape from what you are toward something beyond
- Characterized by "heroic perfections"
- Key concept: *Mesirut nefesh* (self-sacrifice) becomes the basic value
- Described as "destroying what you are in service of something greater"
- Speaker notes this is an accurate description of *Chabad* theology
- Core argument: The *Tanya*'s concept of a "divine soul" (*nefesh elokit*) exists precisely because they're still working within the framework that "the good is the good of you"
- If the good is something exalted, they need to make the "you" equally exalted
- Otherwise, why not just give commands without the divine soul concept?
- Speaker's claim: There's no coherent "have to do" without reference to what you ARE
- "You have to perfect what you are" - accepted by everyone including the *Tanya*
- Question of whether "beyond you" can become "part of you"
- Analogy: Does fatherhood belong to the father or sonhood to the son?
- Speaker jokes this depends on whether you're Platonist or Aristotelian
- Self-deprecating aside: "fancy words for people to think that I'm smart"
- Claim: When *Tanya* talks about *bitul* (self-nullification/giving away what you are), it's not a coherent theory
- It's "more of an aspirational thing" rather than technically/scientifically accurate
- Speaker B agrees: "I don't think it's going away from this. I think everyone is based on this."
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- This path could mean "becoming God" or becoming an angel
- If interested in specifically HUMAN good, this isn't the target
- One CAN be interested in this higher path legitimately
- Aristotle's position: "Humans are not the best thing"
- If seeking the best thing, human good isn't the goal
- On knowledge: Knowledge of what is good for people is NOT the best knowledge
- The best knowledge is knowledge of "the fine things"
- This leads to what's called "intellectual perfection of the human being"
- Intellectual perfection "touches the space between" human and beyond-human
- Can be described as:
- "What's truly human about you" (in a weird way)
- "What is divine in you"
- "What is potentially divine"
- Key distinction: "Truly human" ≠ "human in normal speak/normal people's language"
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- Animals live according to nature; humans don't necessarily
- This is possible because humans have intellect
- We think intellect is "separate from nature" (e.g., we drive cars)
- But: The nature vs. intellect dichotomy doesn't really work
- Better framing: "What KIND of nature do you have?"
- Different beings have different criteria for perfection based on what they are
- Example: An animal doesn't need to drive a car to be perfect; a human might
- Speaker B's question: Is a car part of nature since humans had potential to develop it?
- Speaker A's answer (referencing earlier class in series):
- Technology IS natural in the broad sense
- Society is natural according to Aristotle
- "A human is meant for a city"
- Tool use and elaborate systems are part of human nature
- However: Technology is "unnatural" in that it derives purpose from something else
- A car taken by itself is an "artifact" - created for someone else
- It's "a real slave" - its good lives in someone else
- Contrast: Natural things (including humans) have "some kind of standard of their own good in themselves"
- Speaker B suggests human creativity involves an "is-ought divide"
- Animals suffer but don't imagine new possibilities
- Calls this a "*das Torah*" (authoritative teaching)
- Speaker A's response: Doesn't like the is-ought distinction "precisely because of this"
- Promises to address later with "something more useful"
- Explicitly defers to stay on plan
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- Striving for something beyond human IS a good thing
- This begins to solve problems in *Rambam* and in life generally
- But: Primary interest here is HUMAN good = ethics = character
- Specifically: "the part of you that is most human about you"
- There IS goodness beyond this
- This would require "a whole series of classes"
- References classes with Antonio Vargas for "500 different *pilpulim*" on this topic
- Key point from *Rambam* and Aquinas:
- Aristotle discusses perfection of human beings "in this world"
- Religion starts with perfecting human beings so they can achieve something beyond
- Clarification: Chapter 4 of Shemonah Perakim explicitly discusses perfection that exists *in this world* - the human kind
- A human who "lives forever" is not what we mean by "human" in this discussion
- Some might argue that's the "true human," but speaker sets this aside as clarification
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- Animal things
- Plant things
- *Domem* (inanimate/silent/unmoving things)
- Body/material things
- Related to *dom* (silent) or unmoving
- English translation "inanimate" is noted as negative/inadequate
- Chapter 2 (previously studied for ~2 months) addresses how humans are complex beings with many parts
- Humans contain non-human perfections within them
- Material perfections: heaviness, strength (in material sense, not biological)
- Examples: metal hardness, bone hardness
- Practical uses: Being heavy is useful (e.g., blocking a door, being a bouncer)
- Key point: These could be accomplished by a rock - humans just happen to be "somewhat made out of rocks"
- This causes confusion when people see someone large/heavy and mistake it for human perfection
- Biggest ≠ perfect (easy to see why perfection is always a mean)
- "Perfect size human" is already human-relative (relative to what a good human is)
- Jumping highest or being best as a "door block" = lower than human perfection
- Health, strength, tallness = less than human perfections
- NOT what ethics is about
- Important caveat: These are still important - even "more important" in a sense because they're more basic
- Can't start anything without health
- Can't start anything without being the right size
- But they are not *human* perfections
- Q: "So you're saying the material structure of humans is not human?"
- A: It's *necessary* for humans, like minerals and chemistry are necessary
- Even chemistry (chemical balance) is below animal level
- Lower things are a *base* - you're built up of them
- But perfection in these aspects doesn't make you a good person
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- Human goods/virtues = the kinds of things people say at eulogies (*hesped*)
- Whatever we praise people for at death = human values/virtues/goods
- Trying to describe "a life well-lived"
- "He was so heavy"
- "He was so in shape" (unless meaning the *virtue* of self-control - going to gym every day)
- "He always won fights"
- Having a lot of money (praised in life, but usually not at death)
- Being a good parent
- Being a good friend
- Being a good son
- *Kibbud av* (honoring parents) - noted as rare in practice
- Student raises: What about praising someone as a "good servant of God"?
- Speaker acknowledges this is the "beyond human" category - a different issue
- Speaker's resolution: People who say this ultimately think that's what a good human being *is*, even if they don't frame it that way
- They might make mistakes because they don't understand it properly
- Speaker is "not so worried" about this
- In America, eulogies often mention passion for sports
- At most, people think this is *part* of being a good human being
- Some things we praise people for when alive, we're not sure we really mean
- It's more like *flattery* than genuine praise
- Everyone understands this difference intuitively
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- Just as there are human virtues (praise), there are human evils (criticism/blame/damnation)
- Things we criticize people for in the human sense
- Q: When do we declare human vices?
- A: "On Twitter, I guess" - where we say who's bad
- Being too tall or too thin
- Physical appearance generally
- When people do criticize physical appearance, we recognize it as:
- "Below the belt"
- "Not my fault"
- "Fighting dirty"
- Like "just kicking me" - not a real criticism
- Student raises: Two categories - appearance you're responsible for vs. not
- How you dress = human thing (involves choice)
- Being overweight/underweight = criticizing lack of discipline (a human failing)
- People haven't forgotten these distinctions
- We clearly understand the difference between:
- Human kind of blaming
- Below-human kind of blaming
- Transition: Aristotle talks about who we blame and who we praise
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- Example: Hagiography of great tzaddik who slept two minutes a day, ate two drops of lemon water weekly, spent all time studying and helping people
- Our reaction: Impressed, but recognize "nobody's going to emulate this"
- "Not something you should try at home"
- If a child tries to sleep two hours a night like the Vilna Gaon - this is not aspirational
1. Human praise: Implies "do this" - connected to ethics and action
2. Divine praise (praising God): Description of a great being, good to contemplate, but "nothing to do with ethics"
- Not about what you should do
- The practical lesson becomes something simpler, implementable
- Student contribution: "He slept two hours, at least don't oversleep until 3pm"
- Same structure/form but not the same thing
- Example: "God feeds everything in the universe" → "at least feed your son when he asks"
- These are "the same kind of thing, but not the same thing"
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- Some acts are so bad they stop functioning as moral criticism
- They become "description of a monster"
- Example given: Serial killer who hunts people and eats them
- "We're against that guy, but we're not really against him even"
- "He's not a good guy. But is he a bad guy?"
- Key observation: We call such people "sick"
- Not actually sick (speaker references book/podcast claiming serial killers caused by air pollution - dismisses this: "a thousand people in that city, not all are serial killers")
- "Sick" or "monster" = words for something not human
- Not motivated by normal passion (e.g., "I hate this guy, I'm going to kill him")
- You can't imagine yourself doing it
- Speaker mentions "Nazi" is used this way (to denote subhuman evil)
- Didn't want to use the example because:
- "Gemini refuses to edit my video" when that word appears
- "Destroys the discussion usually when you say that"
- Also mentions calling such people "animals"
- When we blame such a person, it doesn't function as "don't be like that"
- It's "description of some subhuman kind of thing"
- More like "be careful of him"
- Absurd mussar example: "That guy killed 6 million Jews, at least don't bother your sister" - "doesn't connect very well"
- "It's not mussar" - becomes description of weird things
- You might tell someone "don't do this because it's the same kind of thing that this person did"
- But this shows "how far it is from being a human kind of blame"
---
- Both the great tzaddik "flying in heaven all day" and the serial killer are "not one of us"
- Neither belongs in a city/society
- "If you go in the desert you meet two kinds of people: bandits and Breslovers"
- "Monastic lives in the same place where the bandits live because they're both not human"
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- What is the criteria for what gets praised/blamed "in a human way"?
- What definition excludes both ends of the spectrum (beyond-human good and beyond-human evil)?
- "Fundamentally human"
- "Deliberated action"
- "Pre-meditated action"
- "Chosen"
- Key ingredient: Choice, intention, deliberate action, pre-meditation
- These non-human extremes seem beyond choice:
- Being the Vilna Gaon doesn't seem like a choice (maybe born that way, or after a thousand choices that possibility opens)
- "I don't have a choice to be a serial killer"
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- Why don't we blame someone for a deformed nose? Because they didn't choose it
- Physical appearance is "mostly entirely" not a choice for most people
- Therefore not subject to human praise (morally)
- We do praise people as beautiful and think it's "somewhat good"
- "We have to explain that"
- But morally: "there's nothing wrong with being ugly"
- "Is it evil to be ugly?" - No
- Student mentions: Nietzsche criticized Socrates for being ugly
- Clarification: Not because ugliness itself was bad, but claimed it "affected his thought" (compensating)
- Speaker: "Which is a different fault"
- Brief confusing exchange about Breslov and Chabad
- Speaker: "This is a shiur criticizing Breslov and Chabad"
- Student confused
- Speaker: "If we'll get to the end you'll see why he was so confused"
- Left unexplained for now
---
- Speaker acknowledges leading through the whole discussion to arrive at the concept of choice
- Proposed alternatives: "deliberate action," "decided action," "planned," "thought out"
- Speaker expresses discomfort with "could have done otherwise" as a definition (promises to explain why)
- Student raises: animals have plans (e.g., collecting acorns)
- Speaker's methodological point: Reading modern animal science books is "a very bad way" to figure out what is human
- Acknowledges needing to understand *why* it seems wrong, but sets it aside
- Praising someone for beauty = praising nature/God for making beautiful things
- Praising someone for beautiful *deeds* = praising them as a good human
- Key point: This distinction is sufficient without getting into "funny complications" about whether monkeys have laws, etc.
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- Central claim: To discuss human goods, ethics, virtue - the criterion is that it must be "humanly chosen"
- This is what makes something *human* (at minimum, "part of" what makes it human)
- Alternative formulation: "at least willed"
- Seeks class agreement on this framework
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- Speaker notes he *never* gives shiurim on free will
- Reason: The free will discussion is "the most useless loop you can think about"
- Characterizes it as a discussion "teenagers like to have"
- Free will vs. Determinism (actions necessitated by circumstances)
- Common concerns: responsibility, punishment, reward
- Speaker's challenge: What difference does it make either way? Does thinking about it help understand anything?
- If everything is determined, then believing in free will was also determined
- Punishment problem: Whatever determines sin also determines the judge's punishment
- "There's nothing to discuss"
- If free will exists, people can "just choose to believe arguments or not"
- Makes discussions meaningless - "everyone's just choosing everything by some magic thing"
- Example of absurd application: "God doesn't prove His existence because that would violate free will"
- Speaker mocks this: as if proof would remove choice
- Dilemma posed: Either arguments prove something to everyone (you just have to learn them), OR free will allows negating any argument
- If free will is "yesh me'ayin" (creation from nothing) - unclear how arguments work
- If it's *not* yesh me'ayin - then there's still "free choice somehow" even with arguments
- Either way, the framework seems incoherent
- No one disagreed that free will discussion is weird
- Speaker jokes: "There is no free will, because if you would have had free will, some of you would have said no, it's a good discussion"
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- Rav Dessler "was a good observer of reality"
- He noticed "nobody has free will" (descriptively)
- Speaker's critique: Rav Dessler lacked resources to discuss it properly due to "300 years of the destruction of normal philosophy"
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- Choice: What speaker cares about; necessary for human good/ethics
- Free will: The metaphysical debate that goes nowhere
- "I want to show you how far choice is from free will"
1. Stuck in a loop: Both positions seem self-contradictory
2. No progress: As Alistair MacIntyre noted, philosophy makes no progress on this - just "endless word games"
3. Parties don't even understand each other better
---
- Speaker notes the Rambam *does* seem very concerned with "bechirah" (in Hilchos Teshuva and Shemonah Perakim Chapter 8)
- Uncertainty: Does Rambam's "bechirah" mean "free will" in the problematic sense?
- Speaker: "I'm not sure. I think sometimes it does, and if it doesn't, we'll have to get into that another time"
- Observation: People read Rambam's position both ways (free will vs. choice)
- Rambam was interested in free will *ethically* - believed it important for ethics and Teshuva to work
- Speaker's interpretation: Rambam is trying to explain *what a human is*, not positing a special metaphysical entity
- Some people treat free will as a "special thing" with "different rules" that "acts differently than anything else"
- Analogy to miracles: Some worry about believing in miracles, but why would free will be different from anything else in the world?
- Free will is "just a description of something important" - doesn't act differently than other existing things
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- Claim: Studies show not believing in free will reduces discipline
- Counter-point raised: If free will doesn't exist, that reduced discipline is also determined
- "I don't believe in any such studies anyway"
- Psychology studies = "some guy sent out a questionnaire to 30 bored college students"
- References Mechanical Turk and paid online survey services
- Mentions "happiness survey" - acknowledges claim might be true but "a study is not helping me much"
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- Hilchos Teshuva explicitly calls it "an important principle and foundation of the Torah"
- Yet not listed among required beliefs
- Now it's treated as something you must believe
- Principle: "Anything that someone says you must believe, that means it's not true"
- Means the person suspects it's not true
- Definition of truth: "Things that stay true even when you stop believing in them"
- Examples: Getting tired, bumping into walls - these happen regardless of belief
- When someone insists you *must* believe something, they're revealing doubt
---
- "Did you ever experience free will? Did anyone ever experience free will?"
- Speaker's confession: "I have never experienced free will"
- Free will as derived from God's justice: "God is just, therefore couldn't punish you if you had no choice"
- Response: "Do we understand God?" - Maybe there's no punishment, maybe Baal Shem Tov/Rebbe of Izhbitza was right
- "Surprise, straight to Gan Eden" or Gehennom regardless of free will
- We can't be certain about these theological deductions
---
- A person worried about free will, examined himself
- Found free will exists at small decision points (e.g., "the 14th cigarette of the day")
- Built entire theory of free will on that kind of choice
- "I think that he was mistaken about even that"
- "That's not what free will is"
---
- Free will = "abstract, free floating, disconnected act of the will"
- "Not because of anything" - uncaused
- Key opposition: "Because and free will are the opposites"
- Causes are chains; Seder Hishtalshelus = "chaining of the world," "chain of being"
- Free will would be "unchained" - choosing without any reason
- "If someone would have such moments, I would say he's a sick person, he's not human"
- "I've never had such a moment in my life"
- "A very weird thing" - "now I'm just choosing freely"
- "Could you be a goy now?" - Obviously not, or only "theoretically" (disconnected from experience)
- "Could you have not come to shiur?" - Yes, through laziness, but laziness isn't free will, it's an excuse
- Coming to shiur also wasn't free will - it was "because of something" (e.g., "the best shiur in Lakewood")
- Conclusion: "Nobody ever experiences free will in the way that people believe it exists"
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- "You see how useless this free will is? It's just a joke you can put anywhere"
- "It's not even a good joke. Good jokes are the ones you can put anywhere"
- Student mentions determinism as "conflict of choice"
- Response: "A nice weird puzzle for weird people to puzzle about. Who cares? I'm interested in things that are real"
---
- Free will: "nobody ever experiences"
- What we *do* experience: blaming people, judging people, and experiencing this in ourselves
- Some actions feel "more pertaining to us, more coming from me, from what I am"
- Paradox: This is precisely what people would *not* call free will
- It's what people call "just your habit"
- Yet these are the things that "represent what you are, represent who you are"
- "What do you want people to talk about by your levaya?"
- The things that represent what kind of human being you are
- Not just good things - you want a "correct narrative of what you are"
- This narrative "would include a lot of things people say are not free will"
- And "will not include a lot of things that are free will"
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- Thesis: The actions that matter ethically are NOT the "freely chosen" ones
- The actions that count are: "ones I have chosen, ones that have something to do with what I am, based on what I think I should be or based on what I already am"
- "They're precisely NOT the ones that I choose freely - they're almost the opposite"
- Person who drinks/smokes, then one time doesn't drink
- If "free will means easy" (as Rav Dessler seems to think), then speaker agrees this exists
- Example: Drinking or not drinking seltzer - "nothing is stopping me," no major fight
- "That's free will" in Dessler's sense
- "That's really something less than free will, something less than choice"
- "It's not even choice"
- Contrast with real choice: "If I sat down and made myself a plan, I want to reduce my intake of seltzer, therefore I'm going to every night drink one..."
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- Key inversion: What Rav Dessler calls "not free will" (habits, plans, training) is actually what matters most
- The act of taking/not taking a cup follows automatically from prior formation
- The crucial insight: What makes an action "human" and "about me" is precisely what comes *before* the supposed moment of free choice
- This includes: deliberation, habit formation, self-creation into a certain kind of person
- "I'm doing it because I'm that kind of person, because I chose to be that kind of person"
- Choice means: What represents who you are, what comes from you as a person
- Choice is NOT: A moment in time
- If an action takes less than a second, it's carelessness, not choice
- Choice is a long-term process
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1. Ones (coercion) - Complete non-representation
- Example: Being thrown like a rock at someone
- "That's not me... it says something about that guy, nothing about me"
2. Accidents - Partial representation
- May indicate carelessness
- "Doesn't represent me in the most important sense"
3. Unthinking actions (misasek in halacha)
- Done without thought
- Example: Eating three candies instead of two without intention
- "Not saying anything about me because I didn't choose it"
- Exception: If repeated daily, becomes habit → becomes "something about me"
4. Trained/deliberated actions - Primary representation of self
- What we thought about or trained ourselves to be
- This is what "represents what the person is"
---
- We praise someone who trains well and wins
- We do NOT say: "You don't deserve it, you just trained well, and winning followed automatically"
- That automatic following from training is *exactly what we're looking for*
- "Not enough human choice in that"
- Using mechanical means bypasses the human element
- Olympics rewards "human endurance, human training"
- Even if possible, would be disqualified
- "This is not a game about people that use their free will"
- It's about becoming "the kind of person that's an athlete"
---
- Modern free will view (including Tanya): You get sechar only for moments of overcoming, not habituated actions
- Tanya's position: "mi-pa'am echad" - reward for the one additional time beyond habit
- Aristotelian/normal view: You get the MOST praise/sechar for things you already do habitually
- "That's what you are" - no need to choose yourself anew each day
- The person with good character who does good naturally
- The great thinker or helper who has already chosen and formed themselves
- Hesped (eulogy) argument: We eulogize someone for who they were, not for momentary choices
- Absurd alternative: "Usually he was good, but that was just habit. The one time he bothered someone → Gehinnom forever"
- Mistakes are "less willing" - disqualified from representing character
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- Hachlatos/Kabbalos (resolutions): "That's just not how human beings function"
- Nobody becomes good by deciding on Yom Kippur to be good
- "Lo avad" (doesn't work)
- Evidence: "So many books written about how to do it well" - proves decisions alone fail
- Creating habits
- Starting from simple, easy things
- NOT from momentary decisions
- Decisions "in the momentary sense are totally overrated"
- May apply in emergency cases but not normal functioning
---
- "I chose to go to this yeshiva and therefore I became a talmid chacham"
- Involved many conversations, deliberation
- Then execution and the whole long-term process
- "That's the kind of guy he is" - chosen identity
- "Even if your father forced you to go there, it still... that's what formed your character"
- More "chosen" than momentary decisions that pass
- What matters is character formation, not the moment of decision
---
- Student observation: The speaker's thesis sounds like Rambam's doctrine of the middle ground
- The middle ground only comes through training
- Complication raised: Someone could be born with certain dispositions (e.g., always giving)
- Training is not merely an "aggregation of decisions" - it's more complicated
- Student raises Tanya's position: The opposite view - it's not what you always do that matters, but what you do *once*
- Speaker's response: The things you always do ARE the things you choose because they have more *kavana* (intention)
- Key distinction: Long-term kavana vs. momentary kavana
- Speaker acknowledges: "There's some inertia in that" but doesn't see it as problematic
- Student asks: Does the process start from something like a nekuda t'hora (pure starting point)?
- Disputed claim: Whether Rambam says people can be born as totally giving persons
- Uncertainty: Speaker and students unsure if Rambam holds all dispositions are acquired
- Agreement reached: The middle ground requires *being a kind of person* who knows how to act correctly - not something achievable without formation
---
- Student's core stuck point: Even to embark on habit-forming requires deliberation/choice
- "Even to decide to know is not to decide to know" - starting to know seems to require its own prior choice
- Speaker acknowledges: This is a regression problem, same kind Rambam explains
- Rambam is "very happy" with the circularity
- The cycle: You choose because of what you are → You are what you are because of actions → Actions make you what you are
- Conclusion: Education/training determines what kind of person you become - "there's no way out of that"
- Both Plato and Aristotle affirm this
- The question: Who was the first good person? How did the great-great-grandfather start good/bad education?
- Proposed answer: This is why we need prophecy
- Seforno's explanation: Prophecy exists to start the cycle of moral formation
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- Speaker's claim: This is a "true argument for Torah lishmah" (Torah from heaven)
- Revelation serves as the necessary jump-start for moral education
- Rav Saadia's position:
- We could arrive at moral truth through reason
- Believes in moral intuition that shows us the good
- Prophecy is *useful* but not strictly necessary
- Coined the term "mitzvot sichliyot" (rational commandments)
- Rambam's position (explicitly disagrees in Perek Vav and Shemonah Perakim):
- Does NOT believe in reliable moral intuition
- There may be ways to find truth, but fewer ways to find the good
- Prophecy is *needed*, not merely useful
- Criticizes Rav Saadia: Things called "mitzvot sichliyot" are not actually rational/demonstrable
- The good (especially political good) is not provable by demonstration
- Even basic morals (not killing, etc.) are not strictly demonstrable
- Observation: Every culture has stories of the first lawgiver
- Solon for Athens
- Moses for Jews
- [Unnamed] for Romans
- Why: Cultures recognize it's "at least very hard for a human being to discover the good"
- The deeper problem: "You need to be good already to discover the good"
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- Socrates' view: You can discover the good by inquiry
- Theoretical possibility: If there's a good argument for teleology, you could make bad people good through argument
- The Meno example: Even a slave can recognize geometric arguments (but this proves the soul already has knowledge)
- All the talk about need for education suggests teaching the good doesn't work "at least not in practice"
- Even if teachable: You might need to be good already to be taught
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- Student question: Is conscience purely subjective or somewhat reliable?
- Rambam's view: Much more on the side that conscience is conditioned (by education/culture)
- Even if knowing truth of what you are would reveal the good...
- You can't know what you are without starting the educational cycle
- This requires education, returning to the regression problem
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- Rambam's position: Political good is not knowable/provable in the same way as science and philosophy
- Not achievable by demonstration
- Tension noted: This contradicts places where Aristotle gives arguments (like the function argument)
- Different explanations exist for Torat Moshe
- Rambam in the Guide discusses different reasons for mitzvot
- Sefer HaChinuch also addresses this
- [Class ends mid-thought]
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1. Definition of ethics as the study of human good (perfection of a human being as human)
2. Critique of "serving God" as exhaustive definition of human good - it's something but not everything
3. The eulogy criterion for identifying human virtues vs. below-human or beyond-human goods
4. Central distinction between "choice" and "free will" - choice is what matters for ethics; free will debate is a useless loop
5. Inversion of common view: Habituated actions represent us MORE than "freely chosen" moments
6. The regression/bootstrapping problem as fundamental difficulty in moral formation
7. Revelation/prophecy as solution to the "first educator" problem
8. Rav Saadia vs. Rambam dispute on moral intuition and mitzvot sichliyot
9. Political good as non-demonstrable (unlike theoretical truth)
Instructor: I want to do something like this, which is to have a discussion about choice, which some people call free choice or free will. That is what I want to do. Why do I want to do this? Because we are studying this subject of how to become a better good human being, known as ethics. For some reason—you know the reason, I don't know either—so the class is not gonna be about that, the etymology of the word ethics, or why becoming a better person is under the same label as ethics. Well, that's the other way around, right?
Aristotle has a particular [teaching] about the etymology of ethics. I thought you would know it.
Student: Oh no.
Instructor: Okay, okay, so I guess not.
Instructor: In any case, this is what we're studying. Now, one of the important points to understand the kind, the style of ethics that we're trying to do, right, is that there's a specific focus on this word "human," right? It's very important. We could list 13 different ways in which this makes a difference for what ethics is.
But the description of ethics that we're working from is—and not only, we're working from the description of ethics that the entire tradition of ethics until last week is working from, including every [scholar] that they've ever heard of, even though notwithstanding the great debates between them—has its definition as what is good for, or the good of a human being. Or we could say a human kind of good. Human kind of good.
This works within a very general theory of what good means. Good is the perfection of a thing. For anything, to talk about what is good is to talk about how it is good or what is good for it, although that formulation is a little tricky because it might mean what you think is good, but what is really good for it. That's why I say the good of it instead of what is good for it, but anyways you understand the difference.
But anyways, if good is always good of something, perfect—which we could call perfection of something—the way in which that thing is most fully that thing, or the best version of that thing, the ideal version of that thing, then it follows obviously that the human good, which let's say we call this ethics, study of the human good—although that's not what the word ethics, that's what it means, but we could get back to that if you want—is the study of the human good. Make sense?
What this does for one is it makes life easier for us. No, it makes life easier. It makes the discussion clearer for us, right? Because number one, many of the discussions of how to live, of how is a good way for human beings to live, especially the ones we're used to—which is why the way in which this is useful for us—this starts from something beyond or other than the human good, other than what is good for humans.
Instructor: Very often people will say things like, "What is good? What is the good life about according to *Yiddishkeit* [Jewish tradition]?" What do people usually say?
Student: To serve God.
Student: To do *mitzvos* [commandments].
Student: To do God's will.
Instructor: Okay. And what's that got to do with me?
Usually it often leads people to serve God. So what is good for me is that I should be good for someone else, for something else. I mean, that's maybe the good of a certain relation that I have, right? Someone could say like the good—a good child is one who serves his parents correctly. A good slave is one who serves his master correctly. But that is not, as long—assuming that the slave as a human being has some existence besides for his slavery—that can't exhaust everything that it's good about, can be good about him.
So if a human being is something besides serving God—which maybe people will deny, but assuming that there's such a thing as a human being—then serving something greater than you might be a good thing because you have a relation to God. You have some kind of relation to things greater than you. And the correct way, the perfection of that relation, is to serve God correctly. Very nice. But that's not everything that there is to be a good human being, if that makes sense.
That's one kind of mistake. There would be answers to this. I'm not here to say that you shouldn't serve God. I'm just saying that this can't be like the final definition towards what it offers. If we agree—if we agree to this seemingly very clear and basic understanding of what good is—then you can't stay there.
Student: You could just disagree with that. You could just not—disagree what a human is, to say that, you know, that even doesn't exist.
Instructor: Yeah, right. God didn't create anything when it says in the third [day], "I saw them." That's a lie. He just created a relation to himself. People say this. I'm just clarifying what that would entail.
Student: You could say that.
Instructor: You could also say that. But it also leads to a chase after kinds of good which are not human.
Instructor: So another thing—and this has to do with the previous point—when people say, "Okay, whoever told you that you should, you're here for your perfection?" Like that's what a *Litvak* [Lithuanian-style Torah scholar] says, right? *Avodas Hashem* [serving God].
I've heard this literal *drusha* [sermon] from Chasidic people: "Litvaks are after their own perfection, like the Rambam [Maimonides]. That's *gashmius* [materialism/physicality], yeah. That's selfish. But Chasidim are about serving God. So they're about someone else's perfection or something."
Are they perfecting God? What? The benches?
Student: The bench, yeah. If you want to buy a bench, I'll say, oh, you need to perfect the bench.
Instructor: Are they a Jewish person?
Student: No, they need a perfect bench?
Instructor: No, they need to perfect the bench. They also perfect benches. There's the opposite. We're saying that the Chabad-niks don't perfect people.
Student: No, they perfect everything else.
Instructor: That's it. Except themselves.
I'm sorry, I really heard this. You're selfish. We learn from the bench and then make the bench something new.
Student: I get that, I get that. But I don't see how that's—
Instructor: I heard it in this context. I feel like that's—
Okay, let's try to—I'm not getting into if you can perfect a bench by sitting and learning. I'm not trying to—I'm trying to say that the idea is to basically do everything—
Student: Non-selfishness.
Instructor: Okay, this is not a class about selfishness.
Instructor: But the important thing that I'm saying is—what?
Student: You should have one [another sheet].
Instructor: Now, where is going to be a sheet about—this is going to be a sheet about choice. This whole *shtickl Torah* [piece of Torah learning] is a *hakdama* [introduction] to explain why I care about choice in this context. And if we won't get to it, I mean, it's—no, it's—
Yeah, you can all come in. Hi, hello, hello, welcome. Is Ari coming? We're gonna get more chairs if he comes. Okay, sit down, don't worry.
Instructor: We're saying that we're looking for the human kind of perfection, of the human good, which is the [true] perfection. Some other people are looking—just don't think in those terms—and they think about some beyond-human, higher, greater-than-human perfection, sometimes called serving God, which is, as we said first, really the perfection of a relation you have with what is greater than you, which is something, but not everything.
And then we said that that also sometimes leads to—I wonder why—but it leads to, or it's connected with, another kind of beyond-human perfection, where, let's say, let's try it out by saying it like this: if the entirety of the human good is exhausted by serving God, that seems to mean that most of the kinds of perfections that humans have or care about are not real, right? Because we said perfection is of the thing. Those things are not real. What is real is whatever pertains to this relationship with what is beyond you, with what is greater than you. And that means that the kinds of things that you're going to be trying to do or the kinds of perfection—
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Instructor: So we talk about very heroic perfections, or very, like, *Mesirut nefesh* [self-sacrifice; literally "giving over the soul"] becomes the basic value. *Mesirut nefesh*, and this is a correct description of Chabad theology, for example, *mesirut nefesh* as a term for killing yourself, or not even literally killing yourself, but destroying what you are in service of something greater. *Mesirut nefesh*, literally, becomes a very basic formulation for this kind of work, for this kind of life.
Do these things make sense? It can be argued with, because my connection with these two kinds of ways of going beyond the human good are not entirely accurate. And there's correct ways of saying all of this.
Just to be very clear, unlike or somewhat unlike what Chabad would have you think, the reason, for example, the reason people like the *Tanya* [foundational Chabad text by Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi] even have the concept of a divine soul as a basic concept in their theory of what it is to be a good human being is only because they're really working within the framework that says that the good is the good of you, of something. And if their good is something very exalted, very high, they need to make the you something very high, very exalted. Otherwise, you could have just said...
Student: So that it's relevant?
Instructor: What?
Student: So that it's relevant?
Instructor: So that it's a good thing for you. All right, so it's relevant to you. Yeah, the word relevant is funny, but yeah.
Student: What this word, they're trying to make the beyond you part of you?
Instructor: Yeah, it entails that really, because there isn't really a way to... I mean, there is a way, but it's in some way going to become part of you. Like we say, your relation to something is still you or yours in some sense. You could, we could argue about who the relation belongs to—a relationship that doesn't belong to anything. It's like who does the fatherhood of the father or the sonhood of the son belong to? Is it more on the part of the father, more on the part of the son? That depends if you're a Platonist or an Aristotelian. But in any case, that's just fancy words for people to think that I'm smart.
But in any case, you need to have something like that being what you are in order for you to be able to even talk about this, be able to do this, for it to be good for you. Otherwise—and I've met actually other people who said didn't understand this—okay, why do we need to talk about someone having a divine soul? Why just tell you I have to do this and this and this? Because there's nothing as "you have to do." You have to do what you are. You have to perfect what you are. This is accepted by everyone, including the *Tanya*.
Therefore, when the *Tanya* talks about *bitul* [self-nullification], about giving away what you are, that's not a really coherent theory. It's something, it's more of an aspirational thing. I don't think it's a really, I don't think technically, scientifically, what he thinks, what he's thinking of is really that.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think 100%. I don't think it's going away from this. I think that we need that. I think everyone is based on this.
Instructor: Okay, now, but the more important thing is that there's, this would be a kind of beyond human perfection, kind of beyond human aspiration, and for that reason, in some sense, you could say it entails becoming God, or whatever the source, whatever the higher thing that humans are, becoming an angel or something like that.
And if what you look, what we're interested in is the human kind of good, then that's not what we're interested in. You could of course be interested in that. You could say, and Aristotle even says this when he gets to the next level, Aristotle says this: humans are not the best. Humans are not the best thing. So if you're looking for the best thing, then the human kind of good is not what you should be after.
And the way he speaks about it is speaking of knowledge. Knowledge is about knowing the best things. Knowing what is good for people is not the best knowledge. Therefore, knowledge of the human good is not the best knowledge. Therefore, everything pertaining to humans is not the best thing. And what a really good person or someone that has really good knowledge wants to know is the fine things.
That is the step towards the, what we call in our language, the intellectual perfection of the human being. Intellectual perfection of the human being is still considered to be... It's not perfecting what's human about you. It's something that touches the space between these two things. It's perfecting what is, we could sometimes say, this is what's truly human about you in some weird way, but it's perfecting, you could say, what is divine in you, or what is potentially divine, or what is truly human, things like that. Not what is human in normal speak, in normal people's language. There's a big difference between when we say that and when we say this.
Student: Well, we tend to think animals live according to nature, and humans don't necessarily live according to nature. And how is that possible? Because they have the intellect. So we think the intellect is something separate from nature. We drive cars. That's because of the intellect.
Instructor: Humans are, in this paradigm, humans are not... Humans have a kind of nature whose perfection works in very much more complex ways than animals, one of them known as intellect. But in a very basic sense, if you, it's not like, I don't think this, like the economy of nature versus intellect, where it really works. It's more that the question is what kind of nature you have.
An animal can be perfect and non-perfect. Human can be perfect and non-perfect. And these are different criteria for what they are, based on what they are. An animal to be a perfect animal doesn't need to drive a car. A human being might need to drive a car to be a perfect human being. Different discussion, if he does or don't, but...
Student: So is a car a part of nature?
Instructor: Yeah. Because the human had the potential to develop it. We had a class about this. There's one of the first class in this series was describing how technology is a natural thing, in the very broad sense of nature. Society is natural, according to Aristotle. A city, a city, a human is meant for a city. A human is a city, natural. And different technology is also natural. It's the human nature to use tools and to build up all these elaborate systems and so on.
Student: Yeah, so, so wait, so this is the important, because...
Instructor: But it's unnatural in the sense that it derives its purpose from not from itself, right? Taken by itself, a car doesn't have a, isn't the natural, is an artificial thing. It's an artifact, meaning it's created for someone else. It's a real slave. It doesn't have, its good lives in someone else, or it's for, it's really serving something else. But a human being or all natural things have some kind of standard of their own good in themselves or somehow.
Student: I think I interpret it like it's a *das Torah* [authoritative teaching], right? I think human creativity is that they have a is and a ought divide, that an animal may suffer, but it doesn't think of a new possibility. It just goes along with it, or it goes...
Instructor: Okay, wait, wait, we're going to get to all of this a little bit. I have to try, I have to try to get the move forward according to my plan, so I'm not going to argue with that, but I'll get to something, something about this in a little bit. I don't like the is-ought distinction precisely because of this, because that's also how humans, we'll try to get to something more useful than that for right now. Yeah.
Instructor: So that's just one way in which striving for something or looking for something beyond human is a very good thing. And this is a beginning of a solution for a lot of problems that you might have had, including in the Rambam [Maimonides] and including in life and so on.
But we're primarily interested in human good, which is known as ethics or character. Ethics is just character. And precisely the kind of character which is human, the part of you that is most human about you. Okay, that's the thing that we're talking about.
There might be goodness, there's nothing, it's important to remember that there is goodness beyond this. And in a certain sense, and I'm going to just make a sentence of this and move on past that, because that would be a whole series of classes. And if you listen to my classes with Antonio Vargas, you'll learn 500 different *chilukim* [distinctions/arguments] about this.
But the main point is, sometimes what we call religious perfection and so on often starts beyond that. Like the Rambam would tell you something like, and Aquinas makes this comment often when he reads the ethics, like yeah, Aristotle says this because he's thinking of the perfection of human being in this world. Religion starts with perfecting human beings so...
Instructor: And there are also non-human perfections, non-human things in a human being. In the sense of, for example, even below that, you could talk about heaviness, or strength, or strength in the material sense, not in the biological sense, right? Like there are strong things like metal, or bones. And human beings have some of that perfection. We need to have—your bone has to be hard in order to live and things like that.
But all of that—or you could be heavy and heaviness has some use, you know, if you want to block a door or something you need the heaviest guy to be the bouncer—and those are not human perfections. Those are things that you could have used a rock for. It happens to be that humans are somewhat made out of rocks, which is what confuses people sometimes. They see someone that's just very heavy and very big and very large, or very small, whatever perfection is.
This goes back to our discussion of the middle, right? The biggest thing wouldn't be perfect either. It's very easy to see why perfection is always—I mean, right? But the perfect size human—well, there's already something human because it's going to be relative to what a good human is. But as someone that can, you know, jump the highest or can be the best used as a door post or a door block or something like that, that is not—that is a lower than human perfection, right?
And almost in the same way, most bodily—what we call bodily perfections—are like that, right? Being even being healthy or being strong, like I said, being tall—all of those things are less than human perfection. They're also not what ethics is about.
That's not to say that they're not important, because they're even in some sense more important because they're more basic. You can't start anything if you're not healthy. You can't start anything if you're not the right size and so on. But they're not the human perfections. Does that make sense?
Student: So you're saying the material structure of humans is not human?
Instructor: Now, what decided it to be human—that's not a discussion. But anyways, so this is another thing. And people make this mistake. If the religious people tend to try to be too much over-human, then the materialist secularist people often try to be too much below human, right? And there's the lowest common denominator and things like that. Like, society should at least have everyone be healthy and happy in a material sense, which is—yeah, it's necessary for humans, just like necessary to have—or even lower than animal, like I said. You need minerals and stuff. They have to have the correct ratio and things like chemistry. Chemistry is not yet the animals, right? Although humans need chemistry and your chemical balance or whatever—that is, it's the lower things are a basis. Yeah, they're basically there. You're built up of them. But being perfect in those aspects doesn't really make you a good person.
Instructor: Now, just to give a simple definition of what we mean when we say a human good, something humanly good, someone that—I have a simple way that still works, although some people are weirdos even nowadays, especially nowadays. But in general, even nowadays, the kind of things that people say at eulogies [*hesped*: Jewish funeral eulogy]. If you go to a *hesped* and they praise someone or whatever, the kind of things we praise people for—those are the human values, the human virtues, okay? The human goods. Is that a good criteria?
Student: Yeah, well it's trying to describe a life well-lived.
Instructor: Yeah, for the most part. Nobody says he was so heavy, he was so in shape. Even if they say in shape, they mean to say he had the virtue of self-control—he went to the gym every day. Nobody's going to say, well, the guy was like—when he got into a fight he always won. Almost nobody, right?
Student: Even if—yes, it's not—it's meant in the most human way.
Instructor: Yeah, okay, we could say that, but it sounds—but really they're saying—yeah, those things are complicated. I'm saying in general, in general people still understand what things people are really praised for, although we sometimes praise people for other things. I could praise you for having a lot of money in life, but when you're dead usually you don't get praised for that.
Student: Despite a lot of times they talk about people's passion for sports—
Instructor: Well, it must be because they think that that's part of being a good human being. Now, just like you said—like I said—people who say that ultimately think that that's what a good human being is, even if they don't frame it in this way. And therefore they might make mistakes because they don't understand it that way. I think that ultimately that's what they must be thinking, and that's why I'm not so worried about that, really. People might have weird things to say because they have weird ideas of what a good human being is.
Student: I mean, yeah.
Instructor: Yeah, we could say these things, but everyone understands the difference. There are some things that we praise people when they're alive for, or we don't know if we really mean to praise them—it's more like we flatter them.
Student: What about *eved Hashem* [servant of God]?
Instructor: Yeah, for sure, for sure. Maybe the parent, a good friend—things like that, those are canonical human virtues. A good son—unless nobody's a good son. People are more good parents than good sons. But, you know, you can see how that changed, right? Unless you go like *kibbud av* [honoring one's father/parents]—very few people actually have that.
In any case, so these are what human virtues are—things that people get praised for as people. Of course, I can praise you—I could talk about how great it is to be tall. You could reach the higher shelf. It's useful, but that's not a human virtue. It's something of an animal part of human virtue, or useful part, because I need you to reach the highest shelf. But not a human virtue.
Instructor: And now, if you think about something very—one of the things that are basic to this kind of praise—and here's where I get to where I wanted to get—if you will get to something that is basic to this kind of praise or judgment, right? Just a clear damnation or the opposite of praise—the criticism or true damnation or something—would be the kind of human evils, right? Things that we criticize people for in the human sense.
I don't have a good case—when do we do exactly this? On Twitter, I guess, we see who's bad. And I get—this is when we declare our human virtues. When do we declare our human vices? On Twitter.
Student: Someone else's, yeah.
Instructor: Blame—when do we blame people? We do it all the time, right?
Student: Yeah, but sometimes—
Instructor: So I'm looking for a situation where it's obvious that we don't blame you for being too tall or too thin or something like that. We do blame you for human failings, right? We do that all the time, right?
Student: What, yeah.
Instructor: We don't have to wait for the guy's eulogy for this.
Student: Funny.
Instructor: Anyways, yeah. But we understand that very good. But people do that. We say, oh, that's below—that's just not being nice. That's kicking me, right? If you criticize my physical appearance, now I tell you, well, that's below the belt. That's—it's not my fault, right? People do that, but we understand that to not be correct. There's nothing real in that. You're just fighting dirty. Just like you push me, okay? You embarrass me by saying I'm small, I'm ugly, things like that.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Make sense?
Student: Yeah. I guess there's two categories. There's physical appearance that you're not responsible for, and there's physical appearance that you are.
Instructor: Yeah, okay, yeah.
Student: And if somebody falls into the physical appearance that you are responsible for, then to the extent that they're—
Instructor: Right, so then they're criticizing your lack of discipline.
Student: How you dress is a human thing.
Instructor: How you dress is a human thing, yeah, let's say. I'm talking about the appearance—you're overweight or underweight or—I don't know.
Student: Yeah, so then we're criticizing your lack of discipline or something like that.
Instructor: But we do understand very clearly the difference. We don't need to say that people forgot about this. People didn't actually forget any of the things. We do know the difference between a human kind of blaming and a non-human kind of blaming, a below-human kind of blaming.
By the way, we could also, if we're using—Aristotle talks about who we blame and who we praise.
Those are not the same kind of thing. They're the same kind of thing, but they're not the same thing. Something like that. It works for the opposite also, right? This is another interesting point. You could think in certain contexts that I'm not going to get into. But we also blame or criticize people sometimes for things that are so bad that they stop functioning as a moral blame. They start becoming the description of a monster, right? Without giving you an example. There's a big *makhloket* [מחלוקת: dispute/controversy] about this, and a lot of things. There's also *makhloket* about the previous thing.
You call certain evil people a monster.
Student: Or if that's worse, because then you're exiting the human realm.
Instructor: Yeah, this is not all *makhloket* on the internet. This is all *makhloket*.
Student: Can you give an example?
Instructor: Yeah, I'll give you an example. Someone that, someone that's like a serial killer who hunts people and eats them. We're against that guy, right? But we're not really against him even, right? He's not a good guy. But is he a bad guy? No, and you call somebody like that sick. You could notice that he's not even a bad guy. We say he's sick. We have this new word. We call him sick, right? But he's not really sick. He's just really evil.
It's not like maybe you could always find, I read a book, I've listened to a podcast about someone that wrote a book to claim that serial killers are just because the air pollution in their city or whatever. But seriously, there were a thousand people in that city, not all of them are serial killers, right? So it has to be something else going on.
You could see that we could, we have this word sick or monster is another word, or you're referring to the person as an animal.
Student: Well, meaning not human.
Instructor: Yeah, this is lower than human, not even a human evil.
Student: Yeah, exactly. It's not even human evil, exactly, because it doesn't seem to be motivated by a normal passion.
Instructor: Exactly. You know, like, I hate this guy, I'm going to kill him.
Student: I think the word Nazi is used that way.
Instructor: Yeah, exactly. That's the example I didn't want to talk about because whenever you say that word, whenever you say that word, Gemini refuses to edit my video. Anyways.
Student: Gemini, I'm not Jewish.
Instructor: They're very from these kind of things.
Student: Which word, Kenji?
Instructor: This box. I don't know, we could try, but I was like, no, I was criticizing them. No, oh no.
Anyways, well seriously, it's also used, also destroys the discussion usually when you say that. But what, right, we said they're animals and things like that, and these are all, sometimes it's not sure that the guy's animal is just the evil person, but at least we understand that we have this category of people that we blame, we say that they're bad, but you can't imagine yourself doing something like that. So again, when we blame that person, it's not functioning as don't be like that. It's more like, this is a description of some subhuman kind of thing. Of course, don't be like that. It's more like be careful of him.
And we could, again, also if we do a Mr. *Haskel* [mussar lesson], it becomes very weird. Don't be like him. That guy killed 6 million Jews, at least you don't bother your sister. It doesn't really connect very well. Basically, it's not realistic, it's not *mussar*, it's not *mussar*. It becomes description of weird things.
Student: So those are very good examples of the inverse still has the same function. You might tell somebody don't do this because this is the same kind of thing that this person—
Instructor: Yeah, exactly, exactly. It could work in the same structural way.
Student: Yeah, we see how far it is—
Instructor: Yeah, you see how far it is from being a human kind of blame or human kind of praise.
Another way, we could say this in another way by saying something like, both of these extremes don't belong in a city, are not part of society. The great *tzaddik* [צדיק: righteous person] who's totally flying in the heaven all day, in his mind, is not living with us, not one of us, in the same way as the serial killer is not one of us, he's not living. So both, that's why if you go in the desert you meet two kinds of people: bandits and Breslovers.
Okay, now yeah, monastic lives in the same place where the bandits live because they're both not human, right? Anyways, this is another discussion now.
But when we talk about blame and praise, you could see very easily that the things, now fast you like what, so what is this thing? What is the criteria for what gets praised in a human way? Specifically in a human way, because that's why I need this word, in a human way. That's why I gave this whole introduction. And what is the thing that is not blamed in a human way? How do we define it? What's one definition that excludes both ends of this spectrum? What is it?
Student: What was fundamentally human?
Instructor: Yeah, what is it that makes the kind of things that we praise as human into human praise? And so on, and vice versa.
Student: Is it the platonic form of human?
Instructor: Well, no, the platonic form, no, part of, an important ingredient at least, I don't know if that's the form, at least, I don't know if it's enough, it's not enough, maybe, but at least one of the important ingredients for a good to be a human good, or an evil to be a human evil, is?
Student: Deliberated action, I would say, I don't know. Pre-meditated action.
Instructor: Right? Or chosen?
Student: Very good.
Instructor: Some of these things. Right? Do you agree? If you disagree, you can make your own choice. Something like choice, intention, deliberate action, which is a long word for intention, I think. Pre-meditation.
Student: Pre-meditation, yeah.
Instructor: Right? Whereas these non-human people, if it wasn't choices...
Yeah, at least we don't understand that being the Vilna Gaon has a choice. Maybe he was born that way, maybe after doing a thousand choices that possibility opens up. It's not a normal choice, right? In the same way, I don't have a choice to be a serial killer. It's not something that I choose. It's beyond choice, right?
Or in the same way, that's not the best example of this. Really, when we say something like, when I say you don't blame someone for having a deformed nose, it's why? Because you didn't choose it.
Student: Well, someone chose it.
Instructor: Wait, wait, this is a *shiur* [שיעור: class/lesson] criticizing of this, isn't the same thing, explain. But I don't have patience together that just explain why he was so confused now. But if we'll get to the end you'll see why he was so confused.
There's things, yeah, but forget about for some people, mostly for all people, right? For all people their physical appearance is mostly entirely, we said, but for mostly it's not a choice. Therefore it's not human praise to praise someone as beautiful, although there's a problem, we do praise people as beautiful and we think that that's somewhat good. But we have to explain that. But at least morally we understand that there's nothing wrong with being ugly, right? Is it evil to be ugly? Someone that looks ugly is evil?
Student: I mean he's making everyone uncomfortable by walking into the room.
Instructor: Who?
Student: Yeah but what does he want?
Instructor: But he said—
Student: Not because it was ugly, but that it affected his thought.
Instructor: Oh, okay. Well, that's why he claims that it was compensating. Which is a different fault.
Okay, so we understand this point.
Student: Is it evil to be ugly? Someone that looks ugly is evil? I mean, he's making everyone uncomfortable by walking into the room.
Student: He criticized Socrates for being ugly.
Student: Who?
Student: Nietzsche criticized Socrates.
Student: Yeah, but what was he on?
Student: He criticized Socrates for being ugly.
Instructor: Well, he said that not because he was ugly, but that it affected his thought.
Student: Oh, okay.
Instructor: Well, that's why he claims that he's compensating.
Student: Which is a different fault.
Instructor: Fault, okay.
So we understand this point that things on shows. Now this is something important because I led you through this whole story to get to the point where we discuss choice, right? And I think that probably a better word than choice is something like you said—deliberate action or decided action, something like that. Something that you decided or wanted, maybe could have done—and other, I don't like that definition so much. You'll see in a second why.
Student: Planned.
Instructor: Planned, yeah. Thought out, or something like that.
Now, why... Animals maybe have plans, but they're instinctual plans, no? Like, I'll collect my acorns and...
Yeah, I'm not so worried about animals at this moment. Like, whenever we talk about what is human, I feel like a very bad way to figure that out is to read animal science books, at least the modern ones. Because it's not really—but I have to understand why it seems to be wrong.
But when I talk—give you two examples of human praise and what we don't praise humans—you understand, like if I praise you for being beautiful, I'm praising nature for making beautiful things. I'm not praising you as a human being. That's enough for me. And you can ask, forget about peacocks—you know they're also beautiful, no problem.
So who do you praise when you praise a peacock?
Student: Nature.
Instructor: Whoever it is, God who created beautiful peacocks. Not—he doesn't get praised as a "you're a really good peacock," right?
When we praise a human for doing beautiful deeds and we say "you're a really good human," right, you could see the difference without getting into funny complications about do monkeys have laws or things like that.
Now we get to the point that a very important ingredient—if we want to talk about human goods, ethics, virtue—we need one important criteria for this: that it should be something humanly chosen. That's what makes it human, almost. I don't know if this is enough, but—so, like I said, this is part of what makes it human, is that it be something we call chosen, or at least willed.
We could think of a different way to get into this. Does this agree? Does this make sense?
Now, I want to make a very important point, and we'll see if you agree with this, and if not, that's because you didn't come to enough classes yet. No, I'm just saying, if not, then we call it as human, it's ethical, right?
So, now, there's something very important. You probably remember that we have—you've probably in other classes, not in this one, heard about something called, which people nowadays call *bechirah* [free will], or in English, free will. Have you heard of that thing?
Yeah, people have heard of this. I never talk about it, and for a good reason. You've never heard me giving a shit about it. And usually people talk about it, and why do I never talk about it?
Student: Because I don't have *bechirah*, why would I talk about it?
Instructor: No.
Student: You have to choose to talk about it before you talk about it.
Instructor: No.
Because people—usually we talk about that in conflict, and the opposite of that would be something like being—what's the opposite of free will?
Student: Determinants.
Instructor: Determinism, yes. But we have this like noun called determinism, or saying you are forced by your necessity, everything, all your actions are necessitated by your circumstances, by whatever it is, you don't have free will, right? And people usually say that—well, what do people say? Why do people care about that? I don't understand why anyone cares about that. Seems to be the most useless loop you can think about in the world. Do you agree with me? If you don't, then why not?
Free will seems to be the most unnecessary conversation to have about the ones that people have, that teenagers like to have. Like, do I have free will? Kind of. If you do and if you don't, what was wrong here? Whatever. It doesn't make—understand something better by thinking about it. Do you understand the truth?
Student: It seems self-refuting.
Instructor: Self—not self-refuting. It doesn't refute itself whichever side you pick. It seems to self-negate the discussion. Like in any case, this seems to be a very confusing discussion that I don't know how to have.
Like you said, if I don't have free will, do I have free will to have this discussion? Free will discussion is impossible to have because once you examine the nature of the mind, you change it. It's impossible. It shifts while you look at it.
Student: That would be another problem.
Instructor: But it's part of the loopiness of it. It seems to be very useless.
People usually like to have it either for like theological reasons—like if humans have no free will, why could God punish them? Okay, I don't know. Maybe God doesn't punish them. Like where did—like it's all predetermined. I don't know why—why do people do bad things? For the same reason they get punished. I don't—I never understand why people—anyone would care about this question. And people seem to care about it. It's like talking about it and like, "Ah, but does God know what you will do?" So there's predestination before that. But okay, nice, also like a problem that I don't understand why I don't care about.
So there's something wrong with that. Oh, everyone agrees with me that it's a weird discussion to have.
Now, it's interesting. There is no free will, because if you would have had free will, some of you would have said, "No, it's a good discussion." Now, you could have just chosen to say that, right?
Student: Yeah, free will.
Instructor: That's another weird thing with the free will discussions, that it conflicts reality.
This is what Rav Dessler was worried about, and his question is correct. Like he was a good observer of reality. He was never—he had to like 300 years of the destruction of normal philosophy, so he didn't have any resources to talk about it normally. But like notice that nobody has free will.
This is not the one question I want. I want to distinguish what I care about—choice—and I led you through a half hour of discussion about the human good to see why choice is very important. And now wait, very good. Now what I want to show you is this: how far choice is from free will.
Choice—I'm just going to give these two things, these two names, and try to stick with it, stable at least for tonight, because the words are not the main thing. But let's call this "choice" and that "free will."
Choice is very important. If something you don't have a choice about, we all agree, is either beyond or below human—it's not interesting to talk about.
But free will is not that.
And I want to give some reasons for why the free will discussion is a waste of time. The first one is what I just said: that it seems to be stuck in its own loop forever, and it seems to be like you might have arguments for both of them, but whichever—both of them seem to be self-contradictory, right?
If I do—just to be very clear, both of them, not only the determinism side is in a loop, also the free will side is in a loop, right? By this very simple way that you said: if everything is determined, then it was already determined if I agree. If I believe that I have free will and the problem of punishment are also things like that—like, am I responsible for myself? Do I deserve anything? Any reward or punishment? It also calls the *achnesha* [?]. It's all part of the same loop. Whoever determines, whatever determines that I sin, determines that the judge gives me a punishment. There's nothing to discuss.
There's the problem the other way around. You'll notice how weird free will is now. What people think free will is. Because if there's free will, then I can also just choose to believe the arguments or not. And at every level, like, I don't know, everyone's just choosing everything.
Think—everyone is just deciding everything by some magic thing called free will. Then discussions don't make any sense. People really think this, by the way. People like, "I can't prove you anything because that would be going against your free will." That's why God doesn't prove that He exists. Anyone could—that would be going—that's real. Didn't hear this trickle-toed from anyone ever? Why didn't God leave any good proof for His existence anywhere? Because that would be going against free will.
As if you would have it. I don't know. I don't know. I'm just showing you something weird right now. Because the—because like argument—there's—it either arguments prove something to everyone, but you still have to learn them, or they—or you have free will to negate.
If the—if free will is the kind of thing that arguments are—know that if it's *yesh me'ayin* [creation from nothing], then it—this doesn't—this is still not a problem, right? What you think free will is, there's not a problem. You could have an argument and not believe it. Let's just move on.
People seem to think this: you can have an argument and not believe in it. But if it is *yesh ma'ayin*—if it's not *yesh me'ayin*, then it's not a problem at all. And there's still free choice somehow, although I have an argument, right?
So both sides—that that whole—that way of justifying—wait, but so that whole way of describing free will is based on this very weird—so that's just to finish. I'm—I'm not going to get into that. Maybe I'm wrong about this, the little thing that I got to know. But the important thing is that kind of free will seems to be an inner side you pick, stuck in a very big loop. And therefore it makes no difference. I don't even have a way to like start, open up the discussion.
And it seems to be—we can have like—we can like put down these two statements: "you have free will," "determinism," and talk about them endlessly, but no progress seems to be ever made. As, uh, by, um, what's his name—all right, let's run by, uh, uh, no, the lead that was *nifter* [passed away]—no, yeah. I said this is one of the frustrating things about philosophy. It's definitely not a—yes. So as Alistair MacIntyre and other people have noticed, that this is one of the kind of things in which philosophy makes no progress. You don't even seem to understand each other better. Like there's free will people, there's determinist people, and they're just having endless word games. And it seems to be—there seems to be something weird.
Okay.
Now, um, another thing—another very important thing, and this is the more important thing for me—is that it seems to me that—so we'll say—so it's practically relevant, right? For example, that I don't seem to be very interested in something he calls *bechirah*, which people think means free will. I'm not sure. I think sometimes it does, and if it doesn't, we'll have to get into that another time.
But the Rambam seems to be very worried. The Rambam in *Hilchos Teshuvah* [Laws of Repentance] goes on at length about *teshuvah* [repentance], about *bechirah*, and the same thing in *Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah* [Laws of the Foundations of the Torah] and *Perek Ches* [Chapter Eight, referring to *Shemonah Perakim*/Eight Chapters].
Student: So that means what? So that means it's not free will, it's a choice.
Instructor: Well, we can see. People read that in both ways. But now, Adam, for example, was interested ethically. He thought that free will is an important thing to believe for ethics to work, for teshuva [repentance] to work, right? I think he's trying to explain what a human is. I think he has, like, there are some people who seem to have this idea, like, maybe it gets back to what you were saying before, like, there's this special thing called free will. It's something, whatever, and it must be true and has different rules. It actually plays with different rules. It's like a belief. Like, you have a question that you can believe in miracles, but God, Hashem [God], how can you call it a miracle and believe it and all that? He doesn't do that. Like, why would it be different than anything else in the world? The realm is just, it's just a description of something that's important, because maybe there's, it's a good way to describe something. But it doesn't act any differently than anything else that exists.
Instructor: Okay, so let me...
Student: There have been studies that not believing in free will will reduce your discipline. But if free will doesn't exist, then that's awful. You just decided for you by something else, right?
Instructor: I get it. I mean, is there... By the way, are there such studies? I don't believe in any such studies anyway. Don't worry. It's like psychology studies means that some guy sent out a questionnaire to 30 bored college students. It doesn't. Nowadays, you just go on... I don't know. Does this still exist? Mechanical surveys. Is Mechanical Turk still a thing? You know Mechanical Turk? We used to do service online, pay a dollar. I don't know if it still works. Many of these services, Google had a service, and Amazon, you could buy a service. But it makes sense in two ways. I'm trying to explain, for instance, do you know this happiness service?
Student: Yeah, I get what you're saying. I get it.
Instructor: I don't say it's not true. Maybe it is true. I'm just saying a study is not helping me much. But I'm trying to understand how is this an important thing?
Now, I want to define something very simple. The kind of free will that you get told, like some people have even asked on the Rambam [Maimonides], why didn't he count it as the 14th Ikkar [fundamental principle of faith] to believe in free will? It seems to me very important. It says explicitly in the Hilchos Teshuva [Laws of Repentance], it's an important principle and it's the foundation of the Torah. It's explicitly in the language of the Hilchos Teshuva, but he didn't count it as one of the things you must believe. And now it's treated as something you must believe, because obviously...
Now, why is it something I must believe? I have a rule, right? You know me. Anything that someone says you must believe, that means it's not true. That means he believes that it's not true, right? Because the truth doesn't have to be believed in. Remember, truth is the things that stay true even when you stop believing in them. I don't believe I'm going to get tired. I get tired anyways. So that's nature. That's reality. I don't believe I'll bump into a wall if I walk straight there. I will anyways. That's called truth. And when someone says you must believe in something, usually it means to say there's something I don't think that's as true as you think. Okay.
Of course life is more complicated than this but that's my joke. Now therefore whenever people say you must believe in free will like what do you mean you don't believe in free will I'm like I don't know, look at yourself, do you have free will? Did you ever experience free will? Did anyone ever experience free will? I have never experienced free will.
Student: Yeah, just because I free will I can do it.
Instructor: Well, even if you do do that, it comes... This is something very weird. Nobody ever except... Where does this belief in free will, like what does it even mean? Okay, free will is like an ex-principle. God is just and therefore he couldn't have punished you if it were. No problem. You know something? How do I know? I don't even know how I want to know this. God, do we understand God? Just is like, maybe he doesn't punish you. Maybe you come to heaven and like, surprise, there was no bechira [free choice]. The Baal Shem Tov was right. Whoever, let's say, people say that. Like whoever, whoever is the guy that said that. Surprise, straight to Gan Eden [Paradise], then you go, or to Gehennom [Hell], because it's not free will. Who cares? Whatever. Like you were wasting your time worrying about being good, you know, like maybe, you know, how do we know any of like why do people so sure about things? But that's not it anyways.
The important thing is what? So okay, she believe in it, you don't believe in it, that's very cute, but like who did anyone ever experience it? Do you, like what would it mean for free will to actually exist? There was a Rebbe [rabbi/teacher] that was worried about this and it was looking and he realized that he has this free will at the 14th cigarette of the day, if he should smoke it or not, something like that. And then came up with this whole theory to base everything we call free will on that kind of choice. But I think that he was mistaken about even that. Because that's not what free will is.
So let's go back, let's go back up to where we came from, right? So we established, everyone agrees that free will in the sense, let me just say it, in the sense of some kind of very abstract, very free, free in the sense of free floating, right? Disconnected kind of act of the will, like a magic thing that, not because, right? Not because of anything, and it's not free. Because and free will are the opposites, right? Causes are chains. Seder [order] is the chaining of the world, right? Seder is literally a chain of being. No, unchained, right? The free, like, just choosing to do this or that.
Now, I don't know any human being, if someone would have such moments, I would say that he's not... he's a sick person, he's not human. I think I've never had such a moment in my life and I wonder if anyone ever did. Seems to be like a very weird thing. Like okay, now I'm just choosing freely. I don't have any moments of choosing freely and this is what causes all people like do you have bechira?
Okay, so could you be a goy [non-Jew] now? Could you? Obviously not, or maybe theoretically. So we're back in theory world. Theoretically means I could say things not connected with any experience or any reality. But do you have free will to not come to my shiur [class/lecture] today? You could have been lazy and not came, but that wouldn't be an act of free will, that would just be laziness. That's not the same thing, right? That's already an excuse, some slightly less free will at least, right? You could have decided to come. That also wasn't free will, it was because of something, right? Because it's the best shiur in Lakewood, you have to come. You have to, right? Well, it doesn't force you, that's another question, but that's still not free, right?
It seems like nobody ever experiences free will in the way that people believe that it exists. Therefore, unless I'm a tzaddik [righteous person] of this list theory that that's what happens at one moment of choice... I think that that's even that is wrong, but I could talk about that separately, but in general it's not a normal human experience.
Student: Yeah, because, we'll get to that. I'll try to get that in there. And if I don't, that's because I don't have free will.
Instructor: Now, you see how useless this free will is? It's just a joke that you can put anywhere. It's not even a good joke. Good jokes are the ones that you can put anywhere.
Student: Yeah, determinism is still a conflict of choice, right?
Instructor: Yeah, but that's a nice, weird puzzle for weird people to puzzle about. Who cares? I'm interested in things that are real.
Student: I think both of those sides have some degree of relevance.
Instructor: They're relevant, of course.
Now, let's go back to where I came from. You remember that we came here, we arrived at this discussion of choice because of something very basic, which we all agree on, which we do experience. Unlike free will, which nobody ever experiences, this is something we do experience. We experience when we blame people, when we judge people, which, okay, you could say maybe we're just judging them based on our thing. But we also experience them in ourselves. We experience some of the things we do as being more pertaining to us, more coming from me, from what I am.
You'll notice that that's already something most people will not call free will. It's precisely the thing people call just your habit or something. But when you tell me some things you've done represent what you are, represent who you are, right? They come from who you are. Representation might not be the correct word, but some things, the things that are mostly me, right?
What do you want people to talk about by your levaya [funeral]? The things that represent what you are. You might be a stickler that does those things only once a week. Doesn't matter, still the things that you think represent what kind of human being you are. You know, be deluding yourself and so on, but that's what you think at least, right? And not only what's good, of course. You don't want to do the bad things, but ideally, none in your levaya or whatever. You still want to have a correct narrative of what you are. And that would not include... it would include a lot of the things that people say are not free will and will not include a lot of things that are free will, right?
So for example, right, when we said that, you'll notice that this is what's important for us ethically. I'm making a point based on every human being's experience in the free world, in the free will world, that's still which two minutes of light to sleep two minutes a night in the free will world is possible, possibly, possibly possible. But when I'm saying that I praise myself, when I talk about actions that represent myself, that come from me, that are really about me, that I'm trying to become a person like that, right? That's what ethics is about, aiming to become a good person. Though the actions that we, that include in that, the actions that count for that, are the ones that I have chosen, the ones that have something to do with what I am, based on what I think I should be or based on what I already am. They're precisely not the ones that I choose freely. They're almost the opposite. Do you understand what I'm saying? Because I'm drunk around...
Like, things that I just... Just so, like, take even Rav Dessler's example, okay? Let's say I'm a guy that eats and drinks and smokes and things like that, and then one time I didn't drink. Everyone agrees that that's easy, in the sense of free will. If free will means easy, like Rav Dessler seems to have thought, then I agree with him. I have that experience too. Like, nothing is stopping me from drinking this seltzer or not drinking it. There's no major, I don't even have a big fight about it. Like, should I drink it, should I not drink it? That's already a complicated case. I just put it down to pick it up. No problem. That's free will. We get called that free will, but that's really something less than free will, something less than choice, right? It's not even choice.
If I sat down and I made myself a plan, I want to reduce my intake of seltzer, therefore I'm going to every night drink one...
Instructor: That's something that is about me. About me in the sense of what it talks about represents what I am, who I am. And that's precisely what Rav Dessler calls, unfortunately, not free will. Because that's just some habit that you have or some plan that you made or something like that. The act of me taking the cup or not taking the cup that follows from that—what makes that an important thing to me, a human thing to me, is precisely what comes before the moment that he called the moment of free choice. It's precisely the thing where I thought about it, I deliberated about it, I maybe even created myself a habit to do that way. I made myself into the person that does that, and now I'm doing it because I'm that kind of person, because I chose to be that kind of person. That's what choice means.
That's what the kind of things that count for telling you who you are, which is what we're interested in here now, are those things. Does this make sense? Understand what I'm saying?
What I'm trying to say is that if we forget about free will in the abstract sense—justifying God or anything—and we talk about why is it important to us ethically to talk about something like choice, we understand it very obviously. Because, for example, *ones* [coercion] is the biggest example. If someone just used you as a rack and threw you onto someone else, you didn't do that at all. You were functioning as a tool of someone else. That's not me. It doesn't say anything about me, right? It says something about that guy. It says nothing about me, right?
And then there are more complicated cases where I made an accident, and that represents something about me—more like that I'm not a careful person, if the accident was somewhat my fault. But it still doesn't represent me in the most important sense, right?
And then I can talk about something that I do just out of unthinking. Something like I just passed by, I just did it. I think that professor's example is really that. From what I did, in *halacha* [Jewish law] it's called something like *misasek* [an action performed without intention]—I just did it without thinking. People do things without thinking all day, right? I ate three candies, not two candies, not because I have a diet that says we eat three candies. That's not saying anything about me. Why is it not saying anything about me? Because I didn't choose it. It wasn't premeditated. It's not something about me.
In some sense you could say, "He every day eats three candies." Then it becomes something about me, because there's some habit they have, some character that eats a lot of candies. That's something about me. But if it's something done just carelessly, that's not something about me.
What's the primary case of something that says something about me, which is what we care about when we say "choice"? We don't care about some abstractions. We care about what represents what the person is, what is about, what comes from him. It's precisely those things which we've thought about or which we've trained ourselves to be.
Someone, just in the physical case, someone who trains himself to be a good runner, and now he's a good runner, we praise him for that. Forget about my previous ethical problems, I'm just using this as an example because it's easy to see. We praise him for being a good runner, right? He wins the Olympics as our champion. And why does he win the Olympics? Obviously we don't say, "Well, you don't deserve it. You just trained well. Now when you're running, you're winning the race. That just follows automatically from you training well."
Well, that's exactly what we're looking for—someone that trains well. It's opposite someone that just takes drugs and doesn't train well. We say, "Yeah, that doesn't count. There was not enough human choice in that. You just took a drug. You used the mechanical way to get yourself to win. You cheated," right?
Why is that cheating? What's wrong with cheating? Very nice. If the game would be about—we, everyone agrees for some reason that drugging at the games is bad. Unless someone already invented new Olympics which is just the drugging Olympics, but that would be a different Olympics. But the regular Olympics, the one where we reward a kind of human endurance, human training, right? And nobody says, "Well, he just trained that way." Yeah, that's the opposite.
Someone who didn't train—if someone comes and says, "How did you win?" "I used my free will." Even if that would be possible, which it's not, we would still disqualify him. Because we say, "Well, this is not a game of people that use their free will. This is a game of people that actually train and become the kind of person that are an athlete that can win at the Olympic Games."
So you understand something very simple and very obvious, although it's not obvious to you before you came to my class, that there's a case where the Aristotelian or normal people way of thinking is in precise contradiction to what the nowadays free will people say. Because really people say—*Nefesh HaChaim* [a major work of Jewish ethics] says this explicitly, and *Tanya* [foundational text of Chabad Chassidus] says it also actually, and he's also confused, and this is part of his whole community—what do you get *sechar* [reward] on, right?
What you get *sechar* on is, as we discussed last time we had a class, not at this *shiur* [lesson], about what goes on in heaven—that's really about human judgments of the good, right? What do you get *sechar* for? So there's many contemporary books that say you don't get *sechar* for things you do out of habit, because that's just a habit doing it. You only get *sechar* for the moment of overcoming. For the one more time that you learned that you were not habituated to, that's what you get *sechar* for. That is what the conclusion of the free will, the non-existent free will gives you. Or the *mi-pa'am echad* [from one time] theory—we won't get into that. It's connected, those two things. We'll get to chapter 6 and discuss that in that context.
What Aristotle, what a normal person says is precisely the opposite. What you get the most praise for, the most *kavod* [honor] for, is the thing that you already do, because that's what you are. You don't have to choose yourself every day. You don't have to free will yourself into—if there's even such a thing as free will, which there isn't in that sense.
The person we praise as being a great thinker or a great helper is precisely the person who has chosen. Of course, it starts from choice somewhere, and this gets us into the discussion of where we are. This is really why it's an introduction to where we are, which is how you get into, how you become a good person, how you get a good character. That doesn't happen by itself either.
But the person that we praise mostly is the person who does have that good character. And of course it's not just because he started once to have the good character. He gets chosen. The thing that we praise, the thing that gets *kavod*, is precisely to be a good person who is the kind of person that's chosen. That's the kind of actions that we ascribe mostly to the human *Shabbat* [unclear term—possibly *shayachut*/belonging], to the person doing that as the kind of human being that either represents who we are. That's what we give him a *hesped* [eulogy] for.
We don't give a *hesped*—you know, by the way, if it would be such a hassle, then most people would be very bad. You know, "Usually he was a good guy, but really we shouldn't talk about that. That was just his habit. The one time he really bothered someone, and therefore he goes to *Gehinnom* [hell] forever." That follows also. No, that doesn't work like that, right? Because that's a mistake. A mistake is less willing, right? Maybe he should have not made that mistake, so he'll get some *onesh* [punishment]. But that's just a mistake. We disqualify mistakes from what represents character, right?
So this is the very important conclusion: Choice means this—choice just means what a person, what comes from you as the you, as the person. Choice is not a moment in time. Choice—I mean, the action from choices wasn't in something for a moment in time, but the choice is something that takes more than a second. Opposite: choice is something that has to—if it takes less than a second, then it's not choice. Then it's carelessness.
Of course, many actions take less than a second, and therefore they come automatically from your habit, or just carelessly, or from some *teva* [nature] that you had, and things like that. There's many reasons why people do actions that take a second. But choice is precisely the thing that it's a long-term process.
Now, how actually—since we don't live in long term, we have to get into how it actually works and all the levels, all the stages of that process. But when we praise someone and we say the things we praise are the things that were chosen, we don't mean the things that he sat now and chose, because that's not thinking. That something happens.
What does happen is that you decide to do a long-term thing. And you don't decide—it's not something, by the way, it's also not something inside. That's why the *ba'alei mussar* [practitioners of the Mussar ethical movement] are totally confused, for example, when they talk about *hachlatos* [resolutions] or *kabbalos* [acceptances], right? That's just not how human beings function. Nobody—I mean, again, this just goes back to my discussion last time about goals. Human beings don't function like, "I came by and kept around, they decided I'm gonna be good, and I became good." It's *lo avad* [it doesn't work]. You got to do something different than that.
Never works. How do I know it never works? There's so many books written about how to do it well. And this doesn't work.
What works? Creating habits. Those are things that work. How do you create habits? Yes, from very simple things that are easy. I didn't say that that's not how it works, but not from decisions. Decisions are, in the sense of the momentary sense, are totally overrated. They might sometimes happen in emergency cases, but they're not how things work.
Choice means I chose to go to this yeshiva, and that's a primary example of choice. Would be something like, "I chose to go to this yeshiva, and therefore I became a *talmid chacham* [Torah scholar]." What we're praising is not the moment that he sat—he had maybe a lot of conversations deciding where to go and what to do, but then he did it, and then he did the whole thing out of choice. And that's why he's, you know, he's a student of that yeshiva. That's the kind of guy he is. That's a chosen thing.
It's not like, "Well, you went to yeshiva." "Yeah, but I chose to go to this yeshiva." It's not like someone forced you. It doesn't make a big difference, by the way. Even if your father forced you to go there, still that's who formed your character, and that's what you are. It's more of a chosen thing than the thing that you'd choose in a moment, and it just moves on.
Does that make sense? More helpful? That's my main—
Student: I'm just wondering why the word "choice." I don't know what's being added over things that you spoke on previously. That's the word "choice." I don't know what's adding.
Instructor: That's the actual—there were choices. There's more things to add, but this is the one thing. I'm saying—
Student: Yeah, I hear it. Well, we added the negation. I hear the distinction from this on what people consider free will. I hear that. This is just things we've discussed before.
Instructor: Okay, so you're not more convinced. There's more to talk about what choice is precisely, but I have to finish it within one hour.
Student: [Inaudible question about Rambam and the middle ground through training versus being born with natural dispositions]
Student: Well, it somewhat is, but that's the practical way of how to get it. What we call chasing that. It's more complicated. I have to talk more about this. The inertia is what I don't understand. The way he says that, it's the opposite. It's not the thing that you always do, right? It's the thing that you do once.
Instructor: All right, I said the opposite. The thing that you always do is the things you choose. Right, so that is... Because you have more *kavana* [intention] on those things. A long-term *kavana*. Right. Not a momentary *kavana*.
Student: This is also inertia there's some inertia in that but what why is that a problem why can't it could work with the middle ground maybe says right a person can be born being totally giving person all the time right you could be born like that so he's always like that right well you people are born in extremes right yeah I don't know if that's that's what he said.
Instructor: No no I know what you mean I'm not sure I don't I don't think it's true that that's something I don't I I know you mean I'm not sure why yeah there's a different problem yeah I know it's the brown but I don't know yeah it is true that it's the middle ground the middle way requires being the kind of the kind of person I agree with that yeah it's It requires being a kind of person that knows how to act in a certain, relative to a certain area in a certain, the correct way. It's not something that you can do. I agree with that. Yeah. And what you said about being born, I don't agree with, but I agree with it. I mean, it's more complicated. That trajectory, right? Yeah. Which is a... I know what you mean. I know the language. I understand what you're talking about, but I'm not going to solve it by looking at the language. There's more problems about this. Yeah. Yeah.
Student: But to embark on such a habit-forming process or something like that, right? How does that begin?
Instructor: Yeah, it must also begin by the same kind of deliberation. We have to talk more, like Ali says, Lozi is a guy, whatever you want to call him, about precisely what choice is. What I gave you was just why character is what we call choice. More of what we call choice than the momentary kind of choice that people identify with free will. That is very important. I think it's a clarification that I didn't know before I made this share, so I don't know how you would have known it. Maybe you did. Because I was implied in other ones. That's the whole use of it. That choice, what makes, is more, character is closer to choice than the momentary choice that people identify with free will. And that's the kind of choice that actually exists.
And if you want to get into a bunch of things like how do we actually gain character, how do we actually get a certain character, we're exactly the choice in that. That's something we have to clarify more about the process of it. Also things that we know already, but we can clarify them more. And we're exactly what we call choice, and Aristotle distinguishes between choice and wish and will and a whole bunch of other things, opinion. All these things are different.
Student: I understand this distinction of choice as being something that represents your humanity but even embarking on that that's still where I'm stuck and it's where I'm stuck not even just in thought but even in action there's all sorts of things I think that we want to do that I'd like to do or that I think I'd like to do I'd pretend I'd like to do you wish to be that way but you don't do want right right I don't have those habits it's habits that I want to have right alright those are wishes right maybe what's between me and that is knowing but even even to decide to know is not to decide to know even just to begin knowing seems to be its own choice.
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: So has it was the same kind of regression problem.
Instructor: Yeah there's a regression problem in the whole theory and he's very happy with it like it's a circular and that's how it's supposed to be you choose because of what you are and what you are because of the actions that makes you what you are and there's a whole cycle and therefore like one of the conclusions here is that training that education is what determines what kind of person you'll be and there's no way out of that.
Aristotle quotes Plato like Plato and Aristotle both say things like this that the conclusion from this is that there's no fix for someone who had a bad education, or at least no very good fix, because that's where things start.
Now, who was the first guy? That's a good question. How did your great-great-great-great-great-grandfather start his good or bad education?
Instructor: That's why we need prophecy. This is for Schneir Berton to explain. Why do we need prophecy? To start the cycle of, like, how did anyone decide to be a good person? This is a true argument for *Torah min HaShamayim* [Torah from Heaven]. I'm not serious. I'm serious about this, by the way.
Instructor: Rav Saadia kind of says it's a jump start well no Rav Saadia has no Rav Saadia says I'm making it even worse Rav Saadia says that we could have arrived at the truth because Rav Saadia is unlike the Rambam for example if this Rambam disagrees with him and Rav Saadia believes in some kind of moral intuition which just shows us what the good is.
Instructor: It's not clear Aristotle or the Rambam believe in that they believe that there might be ways to find out truth but there are probably less ways to find out the good. And therefore, we need prophecy. So, not like prophecy is the use, that's like, which says this is what prophecy is useful for. What I was saying is that that's what it's needed for.
This is still not right. You don't have to have the word prophecy, some kind of like, jump, like, beginning point of revelation.
Student: Well, if prophecy is part of the nature, then it works. It works better.
Instructor: It doesn't matter. There still needs to be some beginning point. If we agree that our beginning point is usually our education, and then this has to go back to the first educator and that and this is why just forget about the argument this is why cultures have stories of the first lawgiver every culture has that yeah so long give lost Athens and Moses gave a loss to the Jews and some other guy gave the loss to the I don't know to the Romans whatever I forgot his name and there and so on right and why do we say this because we believe that it's at least very hard it stopped record it's it's at least very hard for a human being to discover the good. It needs to start somewhere. You need to be good already to get discovered. Yeah, right.
For truth, there might be ways out, but for good, it seems very difficult. Unless you're a Socratic, that's at least that, that you could discover the good by inquiry somehow.
Student: That's back to the question. Is conscience a purely...
Instructor: I just said this.
Student: Or is it somewhat reliable?
Instructor: Yeah, the Rambam is a lot more on the side that it's conditioned. You need education to go this way, even though you can figure out... But this is not the question problem that you have. This is just random. The question problem, no, but it solves a separate study that we had about the ability to know the good from knowing what something is and the requirements for moral education as a prerequisite for that.
Student: Well, because you don't know what you are, either.
Instructor: Right, but I'm saying if I would understand the truth of what I am, then I would know the good, right? The problem is for me to know the truth of what I am I need to be I need to start this cycle somewhere which requires education right well maybe no this is that's a problem what you're raising is a problem I think.
Student: In other words if this solves the problem if there's a good argument.
Instructor: No if there's a really good argument for ethics yeah if teleology whatever it would be a really good argument then you can make bad people good by the argument this is what Socrates believes this is the question if if the good can can be taught but seems to be very it seems like all that talk about the need for education is saying that this is not really correct at least not a practice you might need to be good in order to in order to be taught.
Student: No because the poet everyone could recognize arguments even the slave in the in the in the amino everyone could recognize arguments the statement with all geometry thing.
Instructor: Well that's not that's an argument for what your soul already has. So it's opposite. But I mean, does that mean that *Mitzvot She'asei Chumachayev* [rational commandments] implies that you don't need it?
Instructor: That's what Rav Saadia holds. Rav Saadia holds that. Rambam doesn't agree. Yeah?
Student: Rambam doesn't use that language?
Instructor: No. Who else uses this language? Rav Saadia, sorry, Rambam. Very common phrase, no? *Mitzvot She'asei*, it's Rav Saadia. Rav Saadia came up with it. And Rambam explicitly criticized him for this. And because, yeah.
Student: Who? The mayor? Where is he?
Instructor: Also here. Not in this chapter and later this is only the fourth chapter he explicitly criticizes him for this he said the reason for his where's the full one the reason for his criticism is because he thinks that the things that the society calls are not they're something of which there's no cycle really they're good they're about the good and many times works with the assumption.
Student: A political good, meaning?
Instructor: Yeah, a political good is not knowable and not knowable in the same way as, it's not provable in the same way as like science and philosophy. It's not a demonstration. Because even not killing and so on, like basic morals, are not really, according to the Rambam, are not strictly demonstrable. There's no demonstration for that. This is something that Aristotle says sometimes also and it contradicts the point where there are arguments like like the function argument, and things like that. And this is a problem. OK, anyways, I've just...
- Discussion about choice (also called free choice/free will)
- Context: Part of a course on ethics (how to become a better human being)
- Speaker notes there's a question about why "becoming a better person" is called "ethics"
- Mentions Aristotle has a teaching (*shtikel Torah*) on the etymology
- Class will NOT focus on this etymology question
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- The word "human" is crucial to understanding the style of ethics being studied
- Could list 13 ways this matters (not enumerated)
- Claim: The ENTIRE tradition of ethics until recently (hyperbolic "last week") shares this definition
- Definition: Ethics = what is good for / the good of a human being = "a human kind of good"
- Good = perfection of a thing
- For anything: "good" means how it is good / what is good for it
- Clarification: "good OF it" preferred over "good FOR it" (to avoid confusion with subjective perception of good vs. real good)
- Good is always relative to something—perfection of that thing, the "best version," the "ideal version"
- Human good (ethics) = study of what perfects a human being as human
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- Not that it makes life easier, but makes discussion clearer
- Many common discussions of "how to live" start from something beyond or other than the human good
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- When asked "what is the good life?", people typically answer:
- *Avodas Hashem* (serving God)
- *Mitzvos* (commandments)
- Doing God's will
- Question: What does serving God have to do with MY good?
- This makes "what is good for me" = "being good for someone/something else"
- Analogy: A good child serves parents; a good slave serves master
- BUT: This only describes perfection of a relation, not the whole person
- IF a human being exists as something besides their relation to God (their "slavery")
- THEN serving God cannot exhaust everything good about them
- Serving God = perfection of one's relation to what is greater than oneself
- This is something, but not everything about being a good human
1. You could reject the basic definition of good as perfection
2. You could deny that "human" exists as a real category
- Reductio: This would mean *naaseh adam* ("let us make man" in Torah) is false—God only created a relation to Himself
- Speaker notes: "People say this"—he's just clarifying what it entails
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- Chasidish critique of Litvaks: "Litvaks pursue their own perfection (like Rambam)—that's *gashmius* (materialism), that's selfish"
- Chasidish self-description: "We serve God, we're about someone else's perfection"
- Speaker questions: Are Chasidim perfecting God? The Besht?
- Joke about perfecting benches
- Reference to Chabad approach: "They perfect everything else except themselves"
- Claim: Learning Torah perfects the bench (makes it "something new")
- Speaker's response: Doesn't see how this avoids the critique
- Notes this was presented as "non-selfishness"
- Defers: "This is not a class about selfishness"
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- One approach seeks to be "fully aesthetic" or disconnected from mundane/worldly things
- Goal: escape from what you are toward something beyond
- Characterized by "heroic perfections"
- Key concept: *Mesirut nefesh* (self-sacrifice) becomes the basic value
- Described as "destroying what you are in service of something greater"
- Speaker notes this is an accurate description of *Chabad* theology
- Core argument: The *Tanya*'s concept of a "divine soul" (*nefesh elokit*) exists precisely because they're still working within the framework that "the good is the good of you"
- If the good is something exalted, they need to make the "you" equally exalted
- Otherwise, why not just give commands without the divine soul concept?
- Speaker's claim: There's no coherent "have to do" without reference to what you ARE
- "You have to perfect what you are" - accepted by everyone including the *Tanya*
- Question of whether "beyond you" can become "part of you"
- Analogy: Does fatherhood belong to the father or sonhood to the son?
- Speaker jokes this depends on whether you're Platonist or Aristotelian
- Self-deprecating aside: "fancy words for people to think that I'm smart"
- Claim: When *Tanya* talks about *bitul* (self-nullification/giving away what you are), it's not a coherent theory
- It's "more of an aspirational thing" rather than technically/scientifically accurate
- Speaker B agrees: "I don't think it's going away from this. I think everyone is based on this."
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- This path could mean "becoming God" or becoming an angel
- If interested in specifically HUMAN good, this isn't the target
- One CAN be interested in this higher path legitimately
- Aristotle's position: "Humans are not the best thing"
- If seeking the best thing, human good isn't the goal
- On knowledge: Knowledge of what is good for people is NOT the best knowledge
- The best knowledge is knowledge of "the fine things"
- This leads to what's called "intellectual perfection of the human being"
- Intellectual perfection "touches the space between" human and beyond-human
- Can be described as:
- "What's truly human about you" (in a weird way)
- "What is divine in you"
- "What is potentially divine"
- Key distinction: "Truly human" ≠ "human in normal speak/normal people's language"
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- Animals live according to nature; humans don't necessarily
- This is possible because humans have intellect
- We think intellect is "separate from nature" (e.g., we drive cars)
- But: The nature vs. intellect dichotomy doesn't really work
- Better framing: "What KIND of nature do you have?"
- Different beings have different criteria for perfection based on what they are
- Example: An animal doesn't need to drive a car to be perfect; a human might
- Speaker B's question: Is a car part of nature since humans had potential to develop it?
- Speaker A's answer (referencing earlier class in series):
- Technology IS natural in the broad sense
- Society is natural according to Aristotle
- "A human is meant for a city"
- Tool use and elaborate systems are part of human nature
- However: Technology is "unnatural" in that it derives purpose from something else
- A car taken by itself is an "artifact" - created for someone else
- It's "a real slave" - its good lives in someone else
- Contrast: Natural things (including humans) have "some kind of standard of their own good in themselves"
- Speaker B suggests human creativity involves an "is-ought divide"
- Animals suffer but don't imagine new possibilities
- Calls this a "*das Torah*" (authoritative teaching)
- Speaker A's response: Doesn't like the is-ought distinction "precisely because of this"
- Promises to address later with "something more useful"
- Explicitly defers to stay on plan
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- Striving for something beyond human IS a good thing
- This begins to solve problems in *Rambam* and in life generally
- But: Primary interest here is HUMAN good = ethics = character
- Specifically: "the part of you that is most human about you"
- There IS goodness beyond this
- This would require "a whole series of classes"
- References classes with Antonio Vargas for "500 different *pilpulim*" on this topic
- Key point from *Rambam* and Aquinas:
- Aristotle discusses perfection of human beings "in this world"
- Religion starts with perfecting human beings so they can achieve something beyond
- Clarification: Chapter 4 of Shemonah Perakim explicitly discusses perfection that exists *in this world* - the human kind
- A human who "lives forever" is not what we mean by "human" in this discussion
- Some might argue that's the "true human," but speaker sets this aside as clarification
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- Animal things
- Plant things
- *Domem* (inanimate/silent/unmoving things)
- Body/material things
- Related to *dom* (silent) or unmoving
- English translation "inanimate" is noted as negative/inadequate
- Chapter 2 (previously studied for ~2 months) addresses how humans are complex beings with many parts
- Humans contain non-human perfections within them
- Material perfections: heaviness, strength (in material sense, not biological)
- Examples: metal hardness, bone hardness
- Practical uses: Being heavy is useful (e.g., blocking a door, being a bouncer)
- Key point: These could be accomplished by a rock - humans just happen to be "somewhat made out of rocks"
- This causes confusion when people see someone large/heavy and mistake it for human perfection
- Biggest ≠ perfect (easy to see why perfection is always a mean)
- "Perfect size human" is already human-relative (relative to what a good human is)
- Jumping highest or being best as a "door block" = lower than human perfection
- Health, strength, tallness = less than human perfections
- NOT what ethics is about
- Important caveat: These are still important - even "more important" in a sense because they're more basic
- Can't start anything without health
- Can't start anything without being the right size
- But they are not *human* perfections
- Q: "So you're saying the material structure of humans is not human?"
- A: It's *necessary* for humans, like minerals and chemistry are necessary
- Even chemistry (chemical balance) is below animal level
- Lower things are a *base* - you're built up of them
- But perfection in these aspects doesn't make you a good person
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- Human goods/virtues = the kinds of things people say at eulogies (*hesped*)
- Whatever we praise people for at death = human values/virtues/goods
- Trying to describe "a life well-lived"
- "He was so heavy"
- "He was so in shape" (unless meaning the *virtue* of self-control - going to gym every day)
- "He always won fights"
- Having a lot of money (praised in life, but usually not at death)
- Being a good parent
- Being a good friend
- Being a good son
- *Kibbud av* (honoring parents) - noted as rare in practice
- Student raises: What about praising someone as a "good servant of God"?
- Speaker acknowledges this is the "beyond human" category - a different issue
- Speaker's resolution: People who say this ultimately think that's what a good human being *is*, even if they don't frame it that way
- They might make mistakes because they don't understand it properly
- Speaker is "not so worried" about this
- In America, eulogies often mention passion for sports
- At most, people think this is *part* of being a good human being
- Some things we praise people for when alive, we're not sure we really mean
- It's more like *flattery* than genuine praise
- Everyone understands this difference intuitively
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- Just as there are human virtues (praise), there are human evils (criticism/blame/damnation)
- Things we criticize people for in the human sense
- Q: When do we declare human vices?
- A: "On Twitter, I guess" - where we say who's bad
- Being too tall or too thin
- Physical appearance generally
- When people do criticize physical appearance, we recognize it as:
- "Below the belt"
- "Not my fault"
- "Fighting dirty"
- Like "just kicking me" - not a real criticism
- Student raises: Two categories - appearance you're responsible for vs. not
- How you dress = human thing (involves choice)
- Being overweight/underweight = criticizing lack of discipline (a human failing)
- People haven't forgotten these distinctions
- We clearly understand the difference between:
- Human kind of blaming
- Below-human kind of blaming
- Transition: Aristotle talks about who we blame and who we praise
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- Example: Hagiography of great tzaddik who slept two minutes a day, ate two drops of lemon water weekly, spent all time studying and helping people
- Our reaction: Impressed, but recognize "nobody's going to emulate this"
- "Not something you should try at home"
- If a child tries to sleep two hours a night like the Vilna Gaon - this is not aspirational
1. Human praise: Implies "do this" - connected to ethics and action
2. Divine praise (praising God): Description of a great being, good to contemplate, but "nothing to do with ethics"
- Not about what you should do
- The practical lesson becomes something simpler, implementable
- Student contribution: "He slept two hours, at least don't oversleep until 3pm"
- Same structure/form but not the same thing
- Example: "God feeds everything in the universe" → "at least feed your son when he asks"
- These are "the same kind of thing, but not the same thing"
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- Some acts are so bad they stop functioning as moral criticism
- They become "description of a monster"
- Example given: Serial killer who hunts people and eats them
- "We're against that guy, but we're not really against him even"
- "He's not a good guy. But is he a bad guy?"
- Key observation: We call such people "sick"
- Not actually sick (speaker references book/podcast claiming serial killers caused by air pollution - dismisses this: "a thousand people in that city, not all are serial killers")
- "Sick" or "monster" = words for something not human
- Not motivated by normal passion (e.g., "I hate this guy, I'm going to kill him")
- You can't imagine yourself doing it
- Speaker mentions "Nazi" is used this way (to denote subhuman evil)
- Didn't want to use the example because:
- "Gemini refuses to edit my video" when that word appears
- "Destroys the discussion usually when you say that"
- Also mentions calling such people "animals"
- When we blame such a person, it doesn't function as "don't be like that"
- It's "description of some subhuman kind of thing"
- More like "be careful of him"
- Absurd mussar example: "That guy killed 6 million Jews, at least don't bother your sister" - "doesn't connect very well"
- "It's not mussar" - becomes description of weird things
- You might tell someone "don't do this because it's the same kind of thing that this person did"
- But this shows "how far it is from being a human kind of blame"
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- Both the great tzaddik "flying in heaven all day" and the serial killer are "not one of us"
- Neither belongs in a city/society
- "If you go in the desert you meet two kinds of people: bandits and Breslovers"
- "Monastic lives in the same place where the bandits live because they're both not human"
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- What is the criteria for what gets praised/blamed "in a human way"?
- What definition excludes both ends of the spectrum (beyond-human good and beyond-human evil)?
- "Fundamentally human"
- "Deliberated action"
- "Pre-meditated action"
- "Chosen"
- Key ingredient: Choice, intention, deliberate action, pre-meditation
- These non-human extremes seem beyond choice:
- Being the Vilna Gaon doesn't seem like a choice (maybe born that way, or after a thousand choices that possibility opens)
- "I don't have a choice to be a serial killer"
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- Why don't we blame someone for a deformed nose? Because they didn't choose it
- Physical appearance is "mostly entirely" not a choice for most people
- Therefore not subject to human praise (morally)
- We do praise people as beautiful and think it's "somewhat good"
- "We have to explain that"
- But morally: "there's nothing wrong with being ugly"
- "Is it evil to be ugly?" - No
- Student mentions: Nietzsche criticized Socrates for being ugly
- Clarification: Not because ugliness itself was bad, but claimed it "affected his thought" (compensating)
- Speaker: "Which is a different fault"
- Brief confusing exchange about Breslov and Chabad
- Speaker: "This is a shiur criticizing Breslov and Chabad"
- Student confused
- Speaker: "If we'll get to the end you'll see why he was so confused"
- Left unexplained for now
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- Speaker acknowledges leading through the whole discussion to arrive at the concept of choice
- Proposed alternatives: "deliberate action," "decided action," "planned," "thought out"
- Speaker expresses discomfort with "could have done otherwise" as a definition (promises to explain why)
- Student raises: animals have plans (e.g., collecting acorns)
- Speaker's methodological point: Reading modern animal science books is "a very bad way" to figure out what is human
- Acknowledges needing to understand *why* it seems wrong, but sets it aside
- Praising someone for beauty = praising nature/God for making beautiful things
- Praising someone for beautiful *deeds* = praising them as a good human
- Key point: This distinction is sufficient without getting into "funny complications" about whether monkeys have laws, etc.
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- Central claim: To discuss human goods, ethics, virtue - the criterion is that it must be "humanly chosen"
- This is what makes something *human* (at minimum, "part of" what makes it human)
- Alternative formulation: "at least willed"
- Seeks class agreement on this framework
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- Speaker notes he *never* gives shiurim on free will
- Reason: The free will discussion is "the most useless loop you can think about"
- Characterizes it as a discussion "teenagers like to have"
- Free will vs. Determinism (actions necessitated by circumstances)
- Common concerns: responsibility, punishment, reward
- Speaker's challenge: What difference does it make either way? Does thinking about it help understand anything?
- If everything is determined, then believing in free will was also determined
- Punishment problem: Whatever determines sin also determines the judge's punishment
- "There's nothing to discuss"
- If free will exists, people can "just choose to believe arguments or not"
- Makes discussions meaningless - "everyone's just choosing everything by some magic thing"
- Example of absurd application: "God doesn't prove His existence because that would violate free will"
- Speaker mocks this: as if proof would remove choice
- Dilemma posed: Either arguments prove something to everyone (you just have to learn them), OR free will allows negating any argument
- If free will is "yesh me'ayin" (creation from nothing) - unclear how arguments work
- If it's *not* yesh me'ayin - then there's still "free choice somehow" even with arguments
- Either way, the framework seems incoherent
- No one disagreed that free will discussion is weird
- Speaker jokes: "There is no free will, because if you would have had free will, some of you would have said no, it's a good discussion"
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- Rav Dessler "was a good observer of reality"
- He noticed "nobody has free will" (descriptively)
- Speaker's critique: Rav Dessler lacked resources to discuss it properly due to "300 years of the destruction of normal philosophy"
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- Choice: What speaker cares about; necessary for human good/ethics
- Free will: The metaphysical debate that goes nowhere
- "I want to show you how far choice is from free will"
1. Stuck in a loop: Both positions seem self-contradictory
2. No progress: As Alistair MacIntyre noted, philosophy makes no progress on this - just "endless word games"
3. Parties don't even understand each other better
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- Speaker notes the Rambam *does* seem very concerned with "bechirah" (in Hilchos Teshuva and Shemonah Perakim Chapter 8)
- Uncertainty: Does Rambam's "bechirah" mean "free will" in the problematic sense?
- Speaker: "I'm not sure. I think sometimes it does, and if it doesn't, we'll have to get into that another time"
- Observation: People read Rambam's position both ways (free will vs. choice)
- Rambam was interested in free will *ethically* - believed it important for ethics and Teshuva to work
- Speaker's interpretation: Rambam is trying to explain *what a human is*, not positing a special metaphysical entity
- Some people treat free will as a "special thing" with "different rules" that "acts differently than anything else"
- Analogy to miracles: Some worry about believing in miracles, but why would free will be different from anything else in the world?
- Free will is "just a description of something important" - doesn't act differently than other existing things
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- Claim: Studies show not believing in free will reduces discipline
- Counter-point raised: If free will doesn't exist, that reduced discipline is also determined
- "I don't believe in any such studies anyway"
- Psychology studies = "some guy sent out a questionnaire to 30 bored college students"
- References Mechanical Turk and paid online survey services
- Mentions "happiness survey" - acknowledges claim might be true but "a study is not helping me much"
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- Hilchos Teshuva explicitly calls it "an important principle and foundation of the Torah"
- Yet not listed among required beliefs
- Now it's treated as something you must believe
- Principle: "Anything that someone says you must believe, that means it's not true"
- Means the person suspects it's not true
- Definition of truth: "Things that stay true even when you stop believing in them"
- Examples: Getting tired, bumping into walls - these happen regardless of belief
- When someone insists you *must* believe something, they're revealing doubt
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- "Did you ever experience free will? Did anyone ever experience free will?"
- Speaker's confession: "I have never experienced free will"
- Free will as derived from God's justice: "God is just, therefore couldn't punish you if you had no choice"
- Response: "Do we understand God?" - Maybe there's no punishment, maybe Baal Shem Tov/Rebbe of Izhbitza was right
- "Surprise, straight to Gan Eden" or Gehennom regardless of free will
- We can't be certain about these theological deductions
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- A person worried about free will, examined himself
- Found free will exists at small decision points (e.g., "the 14th cigarette of the day")
- Built entire theory of free will on that kind of choice
- "I think that he was mistaken about even that"
- "That's not what free will is"
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- Free will = "abstract, free floating, disconnected act of the will"
- "Not because of anything" - uncaused
- Key opposition: "Because and free will are the opposites"
- Causes are chains; Seder Hishtalshelus = "chaining of the world," "chain of being"
- Free will would be "unchained" - choosing without any reason
- "If someone would have such moments, I would say he's a sick person, he's not human"
- "I've never had such a moment in my life"
- "A very weird thing" - "now I'm just choosing freely"
- "Could you be a goy now?" - Obviously not, or only "theoretically" (disconnected from experience)
- "Could you have not come to shiur?" - Yes, through laziness, but laziness isn't free will, it's an excuse
- Coming to shiur also wasn't free will - it was "because of something" (e.g., "the best shiur in Lakewood")
- Conclusion: "Nobody ever experiences free will in the way that people believe it exists"
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- "You see how useless this free will is? It's just a joke you can put anywhere"
- "It's not even a good joke. Good jokes are the ones you can put anywhere"
- Student mentions determinism as "conflict of choice"
- Response: "A nice weird puzzle for weird people to puzzle about. Who cares? I'm interested in things that are real"
---
- Free will: "nobody ever experiences"
- What we *do* experience: blaming people, judging people, and experiencing this in ourselves
- Some actions feel "more pertaining to us, more coming from me, from what I am"
- Paradox: This is precisely what people would *not* call free will
- It's what people call "just your habit"
- Yet these are the things that "represent what you are, represent who you are"
- "What do you want people to talk about by your levaya?"
- The things that represent what kind of human being you are
- Not just good things - you want a "correct narrative of what you are"
- This narrative "would include a lot of things people say are not free will"
- And "will not include a lot of things that are free will"
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- Thesis: The actions that matter ethically are NOT the "freely chosen" ones
- The actions that count are: "ones I have chosen, ones that have something to do with what I am, based on what I think I should be or based on what I already am"
- "They're precisely NOT the ones that I choose freely - they're almost the opposite"
- Person who drinks/smokes, then one time doesn't drink
- If "free will means easy" (as Rav Dessler seems to think), then speaker agrees this exists
- Example: Drinking or not drinking seltzer - "nothing is stopping me," no major fight
- "That's free will" in Dessler's sense
- "That's really something less than free will, something less than choice"
- "It's not even choice"
- Contrast with real choice: "If I sat down and made myself a plan, I want to reduce my intake of seltzer, therefore I'm going to every night drink one..."
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- Key inversion: What Rav Dessler calls "not free will" (habits, plans, training) is actually what matters most
- The act of taking/not taking a cup follows automatically from prior formation
- The crucial insight: What makes an action "human" and "about me" is precisely what comes *before* the supposed moment of free choice
- This includes: deliberation, habit formation, self-creation into a certain kind of person
- "I'm doing it because I'm that kind of person, because I chose to be that kind of person"
- Choice means: What represents who you are, what comes from you as a person
- Choice is NOT: A moment in time
- If an action takes less than a second, it's carelessness, not choice
- Choice is a long-term process
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1. Ones (coercion) - Complete non-representation
- Example: Being thrown like a rock at someone
- "That's not me... it says something about that guy, nothing about me"
2. Accidents - Partial representation
- May indicate carelessness
- "Doesn't represent me in the most important sense"
3. Unthinking actions (misasek in halacha)
- Done without thought
- Example: Eating three candies instead of two without intention
- "Not saying anything about me because I didn't choose it"
- Exception: If repeated daily, becomes habit → becomes "something about me"
4. Trained/deliberated actions - Primary representation of self
- What we thought about or trained ourselves to be
- This is what "represents what the person is"
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- We praise someone who trains well and wins
- We do NOT say: "You don't deserve it, you just trained well, and winning followed automatically"
- That automatic following from training is *exactly what we're looking for*
- "Not enough human choice in that"
- Using mechanical means bypasses the human element
- Olympics rewards "human endurance, human training"
- Even if possible, would be disqualified
- "This is not a game about people that use their free will"
- It's about becoming "the kind of person that's an athlete"
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- Modern free will view (including Tanya): You get sechar only for moments of overcoming, not habituated actions
- Tanya's position: "mi-pa'am echad" - reward for the one additional time beyond habit
- Aristotelian/normal view: You get the MOST praise/sechar for things you already do habitually
- "That's what you are" - no need to choose yourself anew each day
- The person with good character who does good naturally
- The great thinker or helper who has already chosen and formed themselves
- Hesped (eulogy) argument: We eulogize someone for who they were, not for momentary choices
- Absurd alternative: "Usually he was good, but that was just habit. The one time he bothered someone → Gehinnom forever"
- Mistakes are "less willing" - disqualified from representing character
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- Hachlatos/Kabbalos (resolutions): "That's just not how human beings function"
- Nobody becomes good by deciding on Yom Kippur to be good
- "Lo avad" (doesn't work)
- Evidence: "So many books written about how to do it well" - proves decisions alone fail
- Creating habits
- Starting from simple, easy things
- NOT from momentary decisions
- Decisions "in the momentary sense are totally overrated"
- May apply in emergency cases but not normal functioning
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- "I chose to go to this yeshiva and therefore I became a talmid chacham"
- Involved many conversations, deliberation
- Then execution and the whole long-term process
- "That's the kind of guy he is" - chosen identity
- "Even if your father forced you to go there, it still... that's what formed your character"
- More "chosen" than momentary decisions that pass
- What matters is character formation, not the moment of decision
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- Student observation: The speaker's thesis sounds like Rambam's doctrine of the middle ground
- The middle ground only comes through training
- Complication raised: Someone could be born with certain dispositions (e.g., always giving)
- Training is not merely an "aggregation of decisions" - it's more complicated
- Student raises Tanya's position: The opposite view - it's not what you always do that matters, but what you do *once*
- Speaker's response: The things you always do ARE the things you choose because they have more *kavana* (intention)
- Key distinction: Long-term kavana vs. momentary kavana
- Speaker acknowledges: "There's some inertia in that" but doesn't see it as problematic
- Student asks: Does the process start from something like a nekuda t'hora (pure starting point)?
- Disputed claim: Whether Rambam says people can be born as totally giving persons
- Uncertainty: Speaker and students unsure if Rambam holds all dispositions are acquired
- Agreement reached: The middle ground requires *being a kind of person* who knows how to act correctly - not something achievable without formation
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- Student's core stuck point: Even to embark on habit-forming requires deliberation/choice
- "Even to decide to know is not to decide to know" - starting to know seems to require its own prior choice
- Speaker acknowledges: This is a regression problem, same kind Rambam explains
- Rambam is "very happy" with the circularity
- The cycle: You choose because of what you are → You are what you are because of actions → Actions make you what you are
- Conclusion: Education/training determines what kind of person you become - "there's no way out of that"
- Both Plato and Aristotle affirm this
- The question: Who was the first good person? How did the great-great-grandfather start good/bad education?
- Proposed answer: This is why we need prophecy
- Seforno's explanation: Prophecy exists to start the cycle of moral formation
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- Speaker's claim: This is a "true argument for Torah lishmah" (Torah from heaven)
- Revelation serves as the necessary jump-start for moral education
- Rav Saadia's position:
- We could arrive at moral truth through reason
- Believes in moral intuition that shows us the good
- Prophecy is *useful* but not strictly necessary
- Coined the term "mitzvot sichliyot" (rational commandments)
- Rambam's position (explicitly disagrees in Perek Vav and Shemonah Perakim):
- Does NOT believe in reliable moral intuition
- There may be ways to find truth, but fewer ways to find the good
- Prophecy is *needed*, not merely useful
- Criticizes Rav Saadia: Things called "mitzvot sichliyot" are not actually rational/demonstrable
- The good (especially political good) is not provable by demonstration
- Even basic morals (not killing, etc.) are not strictly demonstrable
- Observation: Every culture has stories of the first lawgiver
- Solon for Athens
- Moses for Jews
- [Unnamed] for Romans
- Why: Cultures recognize it's "at least very hard for a human being to discover the good"
- The deeper problem: "You need to be good already to discover the good"
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- Socrates' view: You can discover the good by inquiry
- Theoretical possibility: If there's a good argument for teleology, you could make bad people good through argument
- The Meno example: Even a slave can recognize geometric arguments (but this proves the soul already has knowledge)
- All the talk about need for education suggests teaching the good doesn't work "at least not in practice"
- Even if teachable: You might need to be good already to be taught
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- Student question: Is conscience purely subjective or somewhat reliable?
- Rambam's view: Much more on the side that conscience is conditioned (by education/culture)
- Even if knowing truth of what you are would reveal the good...
- You can't know what you are without starting the educational cycle
- This requires education, returning to the regression problem
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- Rambam's position: Political good is not knowable/provable in the same way as science and philosophy
- Not achievable by demonstration
- Tension noted: This contradicts places where Aristotle gives arguments (like the function argument)
- Different explanations exist for Torat Moshe
- Rambam in the Guide discusses different reasons for mitzvot
- Sefer HaChinuch also addresses this
- [Class ends mid-thought]
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1. Definition of ethics as the study of human good (perfection of a human being as human)
2. Critique of "serving God" as exhaustive definition of human good - it's something but not everything
3. The eulogy criterion for identifying human virtues vs. below-human or beyond-human goods
4. Central distinction between "choice" and "free will" - choice is what matters for ethics; free will debate is a useless loop
5. Inversion of common view: Habituated actions represent us MORE than "freely chosen" moments
6. The regression/bootstrapping problem as fundamental difficulty in moral formation
7. Revelation/prophecy as solution to the "first educator" problem
8. Rav Saadia vs. Rambam dispute on moral intuition and mitzvot sichliyot
9. Political good as non-demonstrable (unlike theoretical truth)
Instructor: I want to do something like this, which is to have a discussion about choice, which some people call free choice or free will. That is what I want to do. Why do I want to do this? Because we are studying this subject of how to become a better good human being, known as ethics. For some reason—you know the reason, I don't know either—so the class is not gonna be about that, the etymology of the word ethics, or why becoming a better person is under the same label as ethics. Well, that's the other way around, right?
Aristotle has a particular [teaching] about the etymology of ethics. I thought you would know it.
Student: Oh no.
Instructor: Okay, okay, so I guess not.
Instructor: In any case, this is what we're studying. Now, one of the important points to understand the kind, the style of ethics that we're trying to do, right, is that there's a specific focus on this word "human," right? It's very important. We could list 13 different ways in which this makes a difference for what ethics is.
But the description of ethics that we're working from is—and not only, we're working from the description of ethics that the entire tradition of ethics until last week is working from, including every [scholar] that they've ever heard of, even though notwithstanding the great debates between them—has its definition as what is good for, or the good of a human being. Or we could say a human kind of good. Human kind of good.
This works within a very general theory of what good means. Good is the perfection of a thing. For anything, to talk about what is good is to talk about how it is good or what is good for it, although that formulation is a little tricky because it might mean what you think is good, but what is really good for it. That's why I say the good of it instead of what is good for it, but anyways you understand the difference.
But anyways, if good is always good of something, perfect—which we could call perfection of something—the way in which that thing is most fully that thing, or the best version of that thing, the ideal version of that thing, then it follows obviously that the human good, which let's say we call this ethics, study of the human good—although that's not what the word ethics, that's what it means, but we could get back to that if you want—is the study of the human good. Make sense?
What this does for one is it makes life easier for us. No, it makes life easier. It makes the discussion clearer for us, right? Because number one, many of the discussions of how to live, of how is a good way for human beings to live, especially the ones we're used to—which is why the way in which this is useful for us—this starts from something beyond or other than the human good, other than what is good for humans.
Instructor: Very often people will say things like, "What is good? What is the good life about according to *Yiddishkeit* [Jewish tradition]?" What do people usually say?
Student: To serve God.
Student: To do *mitzvos* [commandments].
Student: To do God's will.
Instructor: Okay. And what's that got to do with me?
Usually it often leads people to serve God. So what is good for me is that I should be good for someone else, for something else. I mean, that's maybe the good of a certain relation that I have, right? Someone could say like the good—a good child is one who serves his parents correctly. A good slave is one who serves his master correctly. But that is not, as long—assuming that the slave as a human being has some existence besides for his slavery—that can't exhaust everything that it's good about, can be good about him.
So if a human being is something besides serving God—which maybe people will deny, but assuming that there's such a thing as a human being—then serving something greater than you might be a good thing because you have a relation to God. You have some kind of relation to things greater than you. And the correct way, the perfection of that relation, is to serve God correctly. Very nice. But that's not everything that there is to be a good human being, if that makes sense.
That's one kind of mistake. There would be answers to this. I'm not here to say that you shouldn't serve God. I'm just saying that this can't be like the final definition towards what it offers. If we agree—if we agree to this seemingly very clear and basic understanding of what good is—then you can't stay there.
Student: You could just disagree with that. You could just not—disagree what a human is, to say that, you know, that even doesn't exist.
Instructor: Yeah, right. God didn't create anything when it says in the third [day], "I saw them." That's a lie. He just created a relation to himself. People say this. I'm just clarifying what that would entail.
Student: You could say that.
Instructor: You could also say that. But it also leads to a chase after kinds of good which are not human.
Instructor: So another thing—and this has to do with the previous point—when people say, "Okay, whoever told you that you should, you're here for your perfection?" Like that's what a *Litvak* [Lithuanian-style Torah scholar] says, right? *Avodas Hashem* [serving God].
I've heard this literal *drusha* [sermon] from Chasidic people: "Litvaks are after their own perfection, like the Rambam [Maimonides]. That's *gashmius* [materialism/physicality], yeah. That's selfish. But Chasidim are about serving God. So they're about someone else's perfection or something."
Are they perfecting God? What? The benches?
Student: The bench, yeah. If you want to buy a bench, I'll say, oh, you need to perfect the bench.
Instructor: Are they a Jewish person?
Student: No, they need a perfect bench?
Instructor: No, they need to perfect the bench. They also perfect benches. There's the opposite. We're saying that the Chabad-niks don't perfect people.
Student: No, they perfect everything else.
Instructor: That's it. Except themselves.
I'm sorry, I really heard this. You're selfish. We learn from the bench and then make the bench something new.
Student: I get that, I get that. But I don't see how that's—
Instructor: I heard it in this context. I feel like that's—
Okay, let's try to—I'm not getting into if you can perfect a bench by sitting and learning. I'm not trying to—I'm trying to say that the idea is to basically do everything—
Student: Non-selfishness.
Instructor: Okay, this is not a class about selfishness.
Instructor: But the important thing that I'm saying is—what?
Student: You should have one [another sheet].
Instructor: Now, where is going to be a sheet about—this is going to be a sheet about choice. This whole *shtickl Torah* [piece of Torah learning] is a *hakdama* [introduction] to explain why I care about choice in this context. And if we won't get to it, I mean, it's—no, it's—
Yeah, you can all come in. Hi, hello, hello, welcome. Is Ari coming? We're gonna get more chairs if he comes. Okay, sit down, don't worry.
Instructor: We're saying that we're looking for the human kind of perfection, of the human good, which is the [true] perfection. Some other people are looking—just don't think in those terms—and they think about some beyond-human, higher, greater-than-human perfection, sometimes called serving God, which is, as we said first, really the perfection of a relation you have with what is greater than you, which is something, but not everything.
And then we said that that also sometimes leads to—I wonder why—but it leads to, or it's connected with, another kind of beyond-human perfection, where, let's say, let's try it out by saying it like this: if the entirety of the human good is exhausted by serving God, that seems to mean that most of the kinds of perfections that humans have or care about are not real, right? Because we said perfection is of the thing. Those things are not real. What is real is whatever pertains to this relationship with what is beyond you, with what is greater than you. And that means that the kinds of things that you're going to be trying to do or the kinds of perfection—
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Instructor: So we talk about very heroic perfections, or very, like, *Mesirut nefesh* [self-sacrifice; literally "giving over the soul"] becomes the basic value. *Mesirut nefesh*, and this is a correct description of Chabad theology, for example, *mesirut nefesh* as a term for killing yourself, or not even literally killing yourself, but destroying what you are in service of something greater. *Mesirut nefesh*, literally, becomes a very basic formulation for this kind of work, for this kind of life.
Do these things make sense? It can be argued with, because my connection with these two kinds of ways of going beyond the human good are not entirely accurate. And there's correct ways of saying all of this.
Just to be very clear, unlike or somewhat unlike what Chabad would have you think, the reason, for example, the reason people like the *Tanya* [foundational Chabad text by Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi] even have the concept of a divine soul as a basic concept in their theory of what it is to be a good human being is only because they're really working within the framework that says that the good is the good of you, of something. And if their good is something very exalted, very high, they need to make the you something very high, very exalted. Otherwise, you could have just said...
Student: So that it's relevant?
Instructor: What?
Student: So that it's relevant?
Instructor: So that it's a good thing for you. All right, so it's relevant to you. Yeah, the word relevant is funny, but yeah.
Student: What this word, they're trying to make the beyond you part of you?
Instructor: Yeah, it entails that really, because there isn't really a way to... I mean, there is a way, but it's in some way going to become part of you. Like we say, your relation to something is still you or yours in some sense. You could, we could argue about who the relation belongs to—a relationship that doesn't belong to anything. It's like who does the fatherhood of the father or the sonhood of the son belong to? Is it more on the part of the father, more on the part of the son? That depends if you're a Platonist or an Aristotelian. But in any case, that's just fancy words for people to think that I'm smart.
But in any case, you need to have something like that being what you are in order for you to be able to even talk about this, be able to do this, for it to be good for you. Otherwise—and I've met actually other people who said didn't understand this—okay, why do we need to talk about someone having a divine soul? Why just tell you I have to do this and this and this? Because there's nothing as "you have to do." You have to do what you are. You have to perfect what you are. This is accepted by everyone, including the *Tanya*.
Therefore, when the *Tanya* talks about *bitul* [self-nullification], about giving away what you are, that's not a really coherent theory. It's something, it's more of an aspirational thing. I don't think it's a really, I don't think technically, scientifically, what he thinks, what he's thinking of is really that.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think 100%. I don't think it's going away from this. I think that we need that. I think everyone is based on this.
Instructor: Okay, now, but the more important thing is that there's, this would be a kind of beyond human perfection, kind of beyond human aspiration, and for that reason, in some sense, you could say it entails becoming God, or whatever the source, whatever the higher thing that humans are, becoming an angel or something like that.
And if what you look, what we're interested in is the human kind of good, then that's not what we're interested in. You could of course be interested in that. You could say, and Aristotle even says this when he gets to the next level, Aristotle says this: humans are not the best. Humans are not the best thing. So if you're looking for the best thing, then the human kind of good is not what you should be after.
And the way he speaks about it is speaking of knowledge. Knowledge is about knowing the best things. Knowing what is good for people is not the best knowledge. Therefore, knowledge of the human good is not the best knowledge. Therefore, everything pertaining to humans is not the best thing. And what a really good person or someone that has really good knowledge wants to know is the fine things.
That is the step towards the, what we call in our language, the intellectual perfection of the human being. Intellectual perfection of the human being is still considered to be... It's not perfecting what's human about you. It's something that touches the space between these two things. It's perfecting what is, we could sometimes say, this is what's truly human about you in some weird way, but it's perfecting, you could say, what is divine in you, or what is potentially divine, or what is truly human, things like that. Not what is human in normal speak, in normal people's language. There's a big difference between when we say that and when we say this.
Student: Well, we tend to think animals live according to nature, and humans don't necessarily live according to nature. And how is that possible? Because they have the intellect. So we think the intellect is something separate from nature. We drive cars. That's because of the intellect.
Instructor: Humans are, in this paradigm, humans are not... Humans have a kind of nature whose perfection works in very much more complex ways than animals, one of them known as intellect. But in a very basic sense, if you, it's not like, I don't think this, like the economy of nature versus intellect, where it really works. It's more that the question is what kind of nature you have.
An animal can be perfect and non-perfect. Human can be perfect and non-perfect. And these are different criteria for what they are, based on what they are. An animal to be a perfect animal doesn't need to drive a car. A human being might need to drive a car to be a perfect human being. Different discussion, if he does or don't, but...
Student: So is a car a part of nature?
Instructor: Yeah. Because the human had the potential to develop it. We had a class about this. There's one of the first class in this series was describing how technology is a natural thing, in the very broad sense of nature. Society is natural, according to Aristotle. A city, a city, a human is meant for a city. A human is a city, natural. And different technology is also natural. It's the human nature to use tools and to build up all these elaborate systems and so on.
Student: Yeah, so, so wait, so this is the important, because...
Instructor: But it's unnatural in the sense that it derives its purpose from not from itself, right? Taken by itself, a car doesn't have a, isn't the natural, is an artificial thing. It's an artifact, meaning it's created for someone else. It's a real slave. It doesn't have, its good lives in someone else, or it's for, it's really serving something else. But a human being or all natural things have some kind of standard of their own good in themselves or somehow.
Student: I think I interpret it like it's a *das Torah* [authoritative teaching], right? I think human creativity is that they have a is and a ought divide, that an animal may suffer, but it doesn't think of a new possibility. It just goes along with it, or it goes...
Instructor: Okay, wait, wait, we're going to get to all of this a little bit. I have to try, I have to try to get the move forward according to my plan, so I'm not going to argue with that, but I'll get to something, something about this in a little bit. I don't like the is-ought distinction precisely because of this, because that's also how humans, we'll try to get to something more useful than that for right now. Yeah.
Instructor: So that's just one way in which striving for something or looking for something beyond human is a very good thing. And this is a beginning of a solution for a lot of problems that you might have had, including in the Rambam [Maimonides] and including in life and so on.
But we're primarily interested in human good, which is known as ethics or character. Ethics is just character. And precisely the kind of character which is human, the part of you that is most human about you. Okay, that's the thing that we're talking about.
There might be goodness, there's nothing, it's important to remember that there is goodness beyond this. And in a certain sense, and I'm going to just make a sentence of this and move on past that, because that would be a whole series of classes. And if you listen to my classes with Antonio Vargas, you'll learn 500 different *chilukim* [distinctions/arguments] about this.
But the main point is, sometimes what we call religious perfection and so on often starts beyond that. Like the Rambam would tell you something like, and Aquinas makes this comment often when he reads the ethics, like yeah, Aristotle says this because he's thinking of the perfection of human being in this world. Religion starts with perfecting human beings so...
Instructor: And there are also non-human perfections, non-human things in a human being. In the sense of, for example, even below that, you could talk about heaviness, or strength, or strength in the material sense, not in the biological sense, right? Like there are strong things like metal, or bones. And human beings have some of that perfection. We need to have—your bone has to be hard in order to live and things like that.
But all of that—or you could be heavy and heaviness has some use, you know, if you want to block a door or something you need the heaviest guy to be the bouncer—and those are not human perfections. Those are things that you could have used a rock for. It happens to be that humans are somewhat made out of rocks, which is what confuses people sometimes. They see someone that's just very heavy and very big and very large, or very small, whatever perfection is.
This goes back to our discussion of the middle, right? The biggest thing wouldn't be perfect either. It's very easy to see why perfection is always—I mean, right? But the perfect size human—well, there's already something human because it's going to be relative to what a good human is. But as someone that can, you know, jump the highest or can be the best used as a door post or a door block or something like that, that is not—that is a lower than human perfection, right?
And almost in the same way, most bodily—what we call bodily perfections—are like that, right? Being even being healthy or being strong, like I said, being tall—all of those things are less than human perfection. They're also not what ethics is about.
That's not to say that they're not important, because they're even in some sense more important because they're more basic. You can't start anything if you're not healthy. You can't start anything if you're not the right size and so on. But they're not the human perfections. Does that make sense?
Student: So you're saying the material structure of humans is not human?
Instructor: Now, what decided it to be human—that's not a discussion. But anyways, so this is another thing. And people make this mistake. If the religious people tend to try to be too much over-human, then the materialist secularist people often try to be too much below human, right? And there's the lowest common denominator and things like that. Like, society should at least have everyone be healthy and happy in a material sense, which is—yeah, it's necessary for humans, just like necessary to have—or even lower than animal, like I said. You need minerals and stuff. They have to have the correct ratio and things like chemistry. Chemistry is not yet the animals, right? Although humans need chemistry and your chemical balance or whatever—that is, it's the lower things are a basis. Yeah, they're basically there. You're built up of them. But being perfect in those aspects doesn't really make you a good person.
Instructor: Now, just to give a simple definition of what we mean when we say a human good, something humanly good, someone that—I have a simple way that still works, although some people are weirdos even nowadays, especially nowadays. But in general, even nowadays, the kind of things that people say at eulogies [*hesped*: Jewish funeral eulogy]. If you go to a *hesped* and they praise someone or whatever, the kind of things we praise people for—those are the human values, the human virtues, okay? The human goods. Is that a good criteria?
Student: Yeah, well it's trying to describe a life well-lived.
Instructor: Yeah, for the most part. Nobody says he was so heavy, he was so in shape. Even if they say in shape, they mean to say he had the virtue of self-control—he went to the gym every day. Nobody's going to say, well, the guy was like—when he got into a fight he always won. Almost nobody, right?
Student: Even if—yes, it's not—it's meant in the most human way.
Instructor: Yeah, okay, we could say that, but it sounds—but really they're saying—yeah, those things are complicated. I'm saying in general, in general people still understand what things people are really praised for, although we sometimes praise people for other things. I could praise you for having a lot of money in life, but when you're dead usually you don't get praised for that.
Student: Despite a lot of times they talk about people's passion for sports—
Instructor: Well, it must be because they think that that's part of being a good human being. Now, just like you said—like I said—people who say that ultimately think that that's what a good human being is, even if they don't frame it in this way. And therefore they might make mistakes because they don't understand it that way. I think that ultimately that's what they must be thinking, and that's why I'm not so worried about that, really. People might have weird things to say because they have weird ideas of what a good human being is.
Student: I mean, yeah.
Instructor: Yeah, we could say these things, but everyone understands the difference. There are some things that we praise people when they're alive for, or we don't know if we really mean to praise them—it's more like we flatter them.
Student: What about *eved Hashem* [servant of God]?
Instructor: Yeah, for sure, for sure. Maybe the parent, a good friend—things like that, those are canonical human virtues. A good son—unless nobody's a good son. People are more good parents than good sons. But, you know, you can see how that changed, right? Unless you go like *kibbud av* [honoring one's father/parents]—very few people actually have that.
In any case, so these are what human virtues are—things that people get praised for as people. Of course, I can praise you—I could talk about how great it is to be tall. You could reach the higher shelf. It's useful, but that's not a human virtue. It's something of an animal part of human virtue, or useful part, because I need you to reach the highest shelf. But not a human virtue.
Instructor: And now, if you think about something very—one of the things that are basic to this kind of praise—and here's where I get to where I wanted to get—if you will get to something that is basic to this kind of praise or judgment, right? Just a clear damnation or the opposite of praise—the criticism or true damnation or something—would be the kind of human evils, right? Things that we criticize people for in the human sense.
I don't have a good case—when do we do exactly this? On Twitter, I guess, we see who's bad. And I get—this is when we declare our human virtues. When do we declare our human vices? On Twitter.
Student: Someone else's, yeah.
Instructor: Blame—when do we blame people? We do it all the time, right?
Student: Yeah, but sometimes—
Instructor: So I'm looking for a situation where it's obvious that we don't blame you for being too tall or too thin or something like that. We do blame you for human failings, right? We do that all the time, right?
Student: What, yeah.
Instructor: We don't have to wait for the guy's eulogy for this.
Student: Funny.
Instructor: Anyways, yeah. But we understand that very good. But people do that. We say, oh, that's below—that's just not being nice. That's kicking me, right? If you criticize my physical appearance, now I tell you, well, that's below the belt. That's—it's not my fault, right? People do that, but we understand that to not be correct. There's nothing real in that. You're just fighting dirty. Just like you push me, okay? You embarrass me by saying I'm small, I'm ugly, things like that.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Make sense?
Student: Yeah. I guess there's two categories. There's physical appearance that you're not responsible for, and there's physical appearance that you are.
Instructor: Yeah, okay, yeah.
Student: And if somebody falls into the physical appearance that you are responsible for, then to the extent that they're—
Instructor: Right, so then they're criticizing your lack of discipline.
Student: How you dress is a human thing.
Instructor: How you dress is a human thing, yeah, let's say. I'm talking about the appearance—you're overweight or underweight or—I don't know.
Student: Yeah, so then we're criticizing your lack of discipline or something like that.
Instructor: But we do understand very clearly the difference. We don't need to say that people forgot about this. People didn't actually forget any of the things. We do know the difference between a human kind of blaming and a non-human kind of blaming, a below-human kind of blaming.
By the way, we could also, if we're using—Aristotle talks about who we blame and who we praise.
Those are not the same kind of thing. They're the same kind of thing, but they're not the same thing. Something like that. It works for the opposite also, right? This is another interesting point. You could think in certain contexts that I'm not going to get into. But we also blame or criticize people sometimes for things that are so bad that they stop functioning as a moral blame. They start becoming the description of a monster, right? Without giving you an example. There's a big *makhloket* [מחלוקת: dispute/controversy] about this, and a lot of things. There's also *makhloket* about the previous thing.
You call certain evil people a monster.
Student: Or if that's worse, because then you're exiting the human realm.
Instructor: Yeah, this is not all *makhloket* on the internet. This is all *makhloket*.
Student: Can you give an example?
Instructor: Yeah, I'll give you an example. Someone that, someone that's like a serial killer who hunts people and eats them. We're against that guy, right? But we're not really against him even, right? He's not a good guy. But is he a bad guy? No, and you call somebody like that sick. You could notice that he's not even a bad guy. We say he's sick. We have this new word. We call him sick, right? But he's not really sick. He's just really evil.
It's not like maybe you could always find, I read a book, I've listened to a podcast about someone that wrote a book to claim that serial killers are just because the air pollution in their city or whatever. But seriously, there were a thousand people in that city, not all of them are serial killers, right? So it has to be something else going on.
You could see that we could, we have this word sick or monster is another word, or you're referring to the person as an animal.
Student: Well, meaning not human.
Instructor: Yeah, this is lower than human, not even a human evil.
Student: Yeah, exactly. It's not even human evil, exactly, because it doesn't seem to be motivated by a normal passion.
Instructor: Exactly. You know, like, I hate this guy, I'm going to kill him.
Student: I think the word Nazi is used that way.
Instructor: Yeah, exactly. That's the example I didn't want to talk about because whenever you say that word, whenever you say that word, Gemini refuses to edit my video. Anyways.
Student: Gemini, I'm not Jewish.
Instructor: They're very from these kind of things.
Student: Which word, Kenji?
Instructor: This box. I don't know, we could try, but I was like, no, I was criticizing them. No, oh no.
Anyways, well seriously, it's also used, also destroys the discussion usually when you say that. But what, right, we said they're animals and things like that, and these are all, sometimes it's not sure that the guy's animal is just the evil person, but at least we understand that we have this category of people that we blame, we say that they're bad, but you can't imagine yourself doing something like that. So again, when we blame that person, it's not functioning as don't be like that. It's more like, this is a description of some subhuman kind of thing. Of course, don't be like that. It's more like be careful of him.
And we could, again, also if we do a Mr. *Haskel* [mussar lesson], it becomes very weird. Don't be like him. That guy killed 6 million Jews, at least you don't bother your sister. It doesn't really connect very well. Basically, it's not realistic, it's not *mussar*, it's not *mussar*. It becomes description of weird things.
Student: So those are very good examples of the inverse still has the same function. You might tell somebody don't do this because this is the same kind of thing that this person—
Instructor: Yeah, exactly, exactly. It could work in the same structural way.
Student: Yeah, we see how far it is—
Instructor: Yeah, you see how far it is from being a human kind of blame or human kind of praise.
Another way, we could say this in another way by saying something like, both of these extremes don't belong in a city, are not part of society. The great *tzaddik* [צדיק: righteous person] who's totally flying in the heaven all day, in his mind, is not living with us, not one of us, in the same way as the serial killer is not one of us, he's not living. So both, that's why if you go in the desert you meet two kinds of people: bandits and Breslovers.
Okay, now yeah, monastic lives in the same place where the bandits live because they're both not human, right? Anyways, this is another discussion now.
But when we talk about blame and praise, you could see very easily that the things, now fast you like what, so what is this thing? What is the criteria for what gets praised in a human way? Specifically in a human way, because that's why I need this word, in a human way. That's why I gave this whole introduction. And what is the thing that is not blamed in a human way? How do we define it? What's one definition that excludes both ends of this spectrum? What is it?
Student: What was fundamentally human?
Instructor: Yeah, what is it that makes the kind of things that we praise as human into human praise? And so on, and vice versa.
Student: Is it the platonic form of human?
Instructor: Well, no, the platonic form, no, part of, an important ingredient at least, I don't know if that's the form, at least, I don't know if it's enough, it's not enough, maybe, but at least one of the important ingredients for a good to be a human good, or an evil to be a human evil, is?
Student: Deliberated action, I would say, I don't know. Pre-meditated action.
Instructor: Right? Or chosen?
Student: Very good.
Instructor: Some of these things. Right? Do you agree? If you disagree, you can make your own choice. Something like choice, intention, deliberate action, which is a long word for intention, I think. Pre-meditation.
Student: Pre-meditation, yeah.
Instructor: Right? Whereas these non-human people, if it wasn't choices...
Yeah, at least we don't understand that being the Vilna Gaon has a choice. Maybe he was born that way, maybe after doing a thousand choices that possibility opens up. It's not a normal choice, right? In the same way, I don't have a choice to be a serial killer. It's not something that I choose. It's beyond choice, right?
Or in the same way, that's not the best example of this. Really, when we say something like, when I say you don't blame someone for having a deformed nose, it's why? Because you didn't choose it.
Student: Well, someone chose it.
Instructor: Wait, wait, this is a *shiur* [שיעור: class/lesson] criticizing of this, isn't the same thing, explain. But I don't have patience together that just explain why he was so confused now. But if we'll get to the end you'll see why he was so confused.
There's things, yeah, but forget about for some people, mostly for all people, right? For all people their physical appearance is mostly entirely, we said, but for mostly it's not a choice. Therefore it's not human praise to praise someone as beautiful, although there's a problem, we do praise people as beautiful and we think that that's somewhat good. But we have to explain that. But at least morally we understand that there's nothing wrong with being ugly, right? Is it evil to be ugly? Someone that looks ugly is evil?
Student: I mean he's making everyone uncomfortable by walking into the room.
Instructor: Who?
Student: Yeah but what does he want?
Instructor: But he said—
Student: Not because it was ugly, but that it affected his thought.
Instructor: Oh, okay. Well, that's why he claims that it was compensating. Which is a different fault.
Okay, so we understand this point.
Student: Is it evil to be ugly? Someone that looks ugly is evil? I mean, he's making everyone uncomfortable by walking into the room.
Student: He criticized Socrates for being ugly.
Student: Who?
Student: Nietzsche criticized Socrates.
Student: Yeah, but what was he on?
Student: He criticized Socrates for being ugly.
Instructor: Well, he said that not because he was ugly, but that it affected his thought.
Student: Oh, okay.
Instructor: Well, that's why he claims that he's compensating.
Student: Which is a different fault.
Instructor: Fault, okay.
So we understand this point that things on shows. Now this is something important because I led you through this whole story to get to the point where we discuss choice, right? And I think that probably a better word than choice is something like you said—deliberate action or decided action, something like that. Something that you decided or wanted, maybe could have done—and other, I don't like that definition so much. You'll see in a second why.
Student: Planned.
Instructor: Planned, yeah. Thought out, or something like that.
Now, why... Animals maybe have plans, but they're instinctual plans, no? Like, I'll collect my acorns and...
Yeah, I'm not so worried about animals at this moment. Like, whenever we talk about what is human, I feel like a very bad way to figure that out is to read animal science books, at least the modern ones. Because it's not really—but I have to understand why it seems to be wrong.
But when I talk—give you two examples of human praise and what we don't praise humans—you understand, like if I praise you for being beautiful, I'm praising nature for making beautiful things. I'm not praising you as a human being. That's enough for me. And you can ask, forget about peacocks—you know they're also beautiful, no problem.
So who do you praise when you praise a peacock?
Student: Nature.
Instructor: Whoever it is, God who created beautiful peacocks. Not—he doesn't get praised as a "you're a really good peacock," right?
When we praise a human for doing beautiful deeds and we say "you're a really good human," right, you could see the difference without getting into funny complications about do monkeys have laws or things like that.
Now we get to the point that a very important ingredient—if we want to talk about human goods, ethics, virtue—we need one important criteria for this: that it should be something humanly chosen. That's what makes it human, almost. I don't know if this is enough, but—so, like I said, this is part of what makes it human, is that it be something we call chosen, or at least willed.
We could think of a different way to get into this. Does this agree? Does this make sense?
Now, I want to make a very important point, and we'll see if you agree with this, and if not, that's because you didn't come to enough classes yet. No, I'm just saying, if not, then we call it as human, it's ethical, right?
So, now, there's something very important. You probably remember that we have—you've probably in other classes, not in this one, heard about something called, which people nowadays call *bechirah* [free will], or in English, free will. Have you heard of that thing?
Yeah, people have heard of this. I never talk about it, and for a good reason. You've never heard me giving a shit about it. And usually people talk about it, and why do I never talk about it?
Student: Because I don't have *bechirah*, why would I talk about it?
Instructor: No.
Student: You have to choose to talk about it before you talk about it.
Instructor: No.
Because people—usually we talk about that in conflict, and the opposite of that would be something like being—what's the opposite of free will?
Student: Determinants.
Instructor: Determinism, yes. But we have this like noun called determinism, or saying you are forced by your necessity, everything, all your actions are necessitated by your circumstances, by whatever it is, you don't have free will, right? And people usually say that—well, what do people say? Why do people care about that? I don't understand why anyone cares about that. Seems to be the most useless loop you can think about in the world. Do you agree with me? If you don't, then why not?
Free will seems to be the most unnecessary conversation to have about the ones that people have, that teenagers like to have. Like, do I have free will? Kind of. If you do and if you don't, what was wrong here? Whatever. It doesn't make—understand something better by thinking about it. Do you understand the truth?
Student: It seems self-refuting.
Instructor: Self—not self-refuting. It doesn't refute itself whichever side you pick. It seems to self-negate the discussion. Like in any case, this seems to be a very confusing discussion that I don't know how to have.
Like you said, if I don't have free will, do I have free will to have this discussion? Free will discussion is impossible to have because once you examine the nature of the mind, you change it. It's impossible. It shifts while you look at it.
Student: That would be another problem.
Instructor: But it's part of the loopiness of it. It seems to be very useless.
People usually like to have it either for like theological reasons—like if humans have no free will, why could God punish them? Okay, I don't know. Maybe God doesn't punish them. Like where did—like it's all predetermined. I don't know why—why do people do bad things? For the same reason they get punished. I don't—I never understand why people—anyone would care about this question. And people seem to care about it. It's like talking about it and like, "Ah, but does God know what you will do?" So there's predestination before that. But okay, nice, also like a problem that I don't understand why I don't care about.
So there's something wrong with that. Oh, everyone agrees with me that it's a weird discussion to have.
Now, it's interesting. There is no free will, because if you would have had free will, some of you would have said, "No, it's a good discussion." Now, you could have just chosen to say that, right?
Student: Yeah, free will.
Instructor: That's another weird thing with the free will discussions, that it conflicts reality.
This is what Rav Dessler was worried about, and his question is correct. Like he was a good observer of reality. He was never—he had to like 300 years of the destruction of normal philosophy, so he didn't have any resources to talk about it normally. But like notice that nobody has free will.
This is not the one question I want. I want to distinguish what I care about—choice—and I led you through a half hour of discussion about the human good to see why choice is very important. And now wait, very good. Now what I want to show you is this: how far choice is from free will.
Choice—I'm just going to give these two things, these two names, and try to stick with it, stable at least for tonight, because the words are not the main thing. But let's call this "choice" and that "free will."
Choice is very important. If something you don't have a choice about, we all agree, is either beyond or below human—it's not interesting to talk about.
But free will is not that.
And I want to give some reasons for why the free will discussion is a waste of time. The first one is what I just said: that it seems to be stuck in its own loop forever, and it seems to be like you might have arguments for both of them, but whichever—both of them seem to be self-contradictory, right?
If I do—just to be very clear, both of them, not only the determinism side is in a loop, also the free will side is in a loop, right? By this very simple way that you said: if everything is determined, then it was already determined if I agree. If I believe that I have free will and the problem of punishment are also things like that—like, am I responsible for myself? Do I deserve anything? Any reward or punishment? It also calls the *achnesha* [?]. It's all part of the same loop. Whoever determines, whatever determines that I sin, determines that the judge gives me a punishment. There's nothing to discuss.
There's the problem the other way around. You'll notice how weird free will is now. What people think free will is. Because if there's free will, then I can also just choose to believe the arguments or not. And at every level, like, I don't know, everyone's just choosing everything.
Think—everyone is just deciding everything by some magic thing called free will. Then discussions don't make any sense. People really think this, by the way. People like, "I can't prove you anything because that would be going against your free will." That's why God doesn't prove that He exists. Anyone could—that would be going—that's real. Didn't hear this trickle-toed from anyone ever? Why didn't God leave any good proof for His existence anywhere? Because that would be going against free will.
As if you would have it. I don't know. I don't know. I'm just showing you something weird right now. Because the—because like argument—there's—it either arguments prove something to everyone, but you still have to learn them, or they—or you have free will to negate.
If the—if free will is the kind of thing that arguments are—know that if it's *yesh me'ayin* [creation from nothing], then it—this doesn't—this is still not a problem, right? What you think free will is, there's not a problem. You could have an argument and not believe it. Let's just move on.
People seem to think this: you can have an argument and not believe in it. But if it is *yesh ma'ayin*—if it's not *yesh me'ayin*, then it's not a problem at all. And there's still free choice somehow, although I have an argument, right?
So both sides—that that whole—that way of justifying—wait, but so that whole way of describing free will is based on this very weird—so that's just to finish. I'm—I'm not going to get into that. Maybe I'm wrong about this, the little thing that I got to know. But the important thing is that kind of free will seems to be an inner side you pick, stuck in a very big loop. And therefore it makes no difference. I don't even have a way to like start, open up the discussion.
And it seems to be—we can have like—we can like put down these two statements: "you have free will," "determinism," and talk about them endlessly, but no progress seems to be ever made. As, uh, by, um, what's his name—all right, let's run by, uh, uh, no, the lead that was *nifter* [passed away]—no, yeah. I said this is one of the frustrating things about philosophy. It's definitely not a—yes. So as Alistair MacIntyre and other people have noticed, that this is one of the kind of things in which philosophy makes no progress. You don't even seem to understand each other better. Like there's free will people, there's determinist people, and they're just having endless word games. And it seems to be—there seems to be something weird.
Okay.
Now, um, another thing—another very important thing, and this is the more important thing for me—is that it seems to me that—so we'll say—so it's practically relevant, right? For example, that I don't seem to be very interested in something he calls *bechirah*, which people think means free will. I'm not sure. I think sometimes it does, and if it doesn't, we'll have to get into that another time.
But the Rambam seems to be very worried. The Rambam in *Hilchos Teshuvah* [Laws of Repentance] goes on at length about *teshuvah* [repentance], about *bechirah*, and the same thing in *Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah* [Laws of the Foundations of the Torah] and *Perek Ches* [Chapter Eight, referring to *Shemonah Perakim*/Eight Chapters].
Student: So that means what? So that means it's not free will, it's a choice.
Instructor: Well, we can see. People read that in both ways. But now, Adam, for example, was interested ethically. He thought that free will is an important thing to believe for ethics to work, for teshuva [repentance] to work, right? I think he's trying to explain what a human is. I think he has, like, there are some people who seem to have this idea, like, maybe it gets back to what you were saying before, like, there's this special thing called free will. It's something, whatever, and it must be true and has different rules. It actually plays with different rules. It's like a belief. Like, you have a question that you can believe in miracles, but God, Hashem [God], how can you call it a miracle and believe it and all that? He doesn't do that. Like, why would it be different than anything else in the world? The realm is just, it's just a description of something that's important, because maybe there's, it's a good way to describe something. But it doesn't act any differently than anything else that exists.
Instructor: Okay, so let me...
Student: There have been studies that not believing in free will will reduce your discipline. But if free will doesn't exist, then that's awful. You just decided for you by something else, right?
Instructor: I get it. I mean, is there... By the way, are there such studies? I don't believe in any such studies anyway. Don't worry. It's like psychology studies means that some guy sent out a questionnaire to 30 bored college students. It doesn't. Nowadays, you just go on... I don't know. Does this still exist? Mechanical surveys. Is Mechanical Turk still a thing? You know Mechanical Turk? We used to do service online, pay a dollar. I don't know if it still works. Many of these services, Google had a service, and Amazon, you could buy a service. But it makes sense in two ways. I'm trying to explain, for instance, do you know this happiness service?
Student: Yeah, I get what you're saying. I get it.
Instructor: I don't say it's not true. Maybe it is true. I'm just saying a study is not helping me much. But I'm trying to understand how is this an important thing?
Now, I want to define something very simple. The kind of free will that you get told, like some people have even asked on the Rambam [Maimonides], why didn't he count it as the 14th Ikkar [fundamental principle of faith] to believe in free will? It seems to me very important. It says explicitly in the Hilchos Teshuva [Laws of Repentance], it's an important principle and it's the foundation of the Torah. It's explicitly in the language of the Hilchos Teshuva, but he didn't count it as one of the things you must believe. And now it's treated as something you must believe, because obviously...
Now, why is it something I must believe? I have a rule, right? You know me. Anything that someone says you must believe, that means it's not true. That means he believes that it's not true, right? Because the truth doesn't have to be believed in. Remember, truth is the things that stay true even when you stop believing in them. I don't believe I'm going to get tired. I get tired anyways. So that's nature. That's reality. I don't believe I'll bump into a wall if I walk straight there. I will anyways. That's called truth. And when someone says you must believe in something, usually it means to say there's something I don't think that's as true as you think. Okay.
Of course life is more complicated than this but that's my joke. Now therefore whenever people say you must believe in free will like what do you mean you don't believe in free will I'm like I don't know, look at yourself, do you have free will? Did you ever experience free will? Did anyone ever experience free will? I have never experienced free will.
Student: Yeah, just because I free will I can do it.
Instructor: Well, even if you do do that, it comes... This is something very weird. Nobody ever except... Where does this belief in free will, like what does it even mean? Okay, free will is like an ex-principle. God is just and therefore he couldn't have punished you if it were. No problem. You know something? How do I know? I don't even know how I want to know this. God, do we understand God? Just is like, maybe he doesn't punish you. Maybe you come to heaven and like, surprise, there was no bechira [free choice]. The Baal Shem Tov was right. Whoever, let's say, people say that. Like whoever, whoever is the guy that said that. Surprise, straight to Gan Eden [Paradise], then you go, or to Gehennom [Hell], because it's not free will. Who cares? Whatever. Like you were wasting your time worrying about being good, you know, like maybe, you know, how do we know any of like why do people so sure about things? But that's not it anyways.
The important thing is what? So okay, she believe in it, you don't believe in it, that's very cute, but like who did anyone ever experience it? Do you, like what would it mean for free will to actually exist? There was a Rebbe [rabbi/teacher] that was worried about this and it was looking and he realized that he has this free will at the 14th cigarette of the day, if he should smoke it or not, something like that. And then came up with this whole theory to base everything we call free will on that kind of choice. But I think that he was mistaken about even that. Because that's not what free will is.
So let's go back, let's go back up to where we came from, right? So we established, everyone agrees that free will in the sense, let me just say it, in the sense of some kind of very abstract, very free, free in the sense of free floating, right? Disconnected kind of act of the will, like a magic thing that, not because, right? Not because of anything, and it's not free. Because and free will are the opposites, right? Causes are chains. Seder [order] is the chaining of the world, right? Seder is literally a chain of being. No, unchained, right? The free, like, just choosing to do this or that.
Now, I don't know any human being, if someone would have such moments, I would say that he's not... he's a sick person, he's not human. I think I've never had such a moment in my life and I wonder if anyone ever did. Seems to be like a very weird thing. Like okay, now I'm just choosing freely. I don't have any moments of choosing freely and this is what causes all people like do you have bechira?
Okay, so could you be a goy [non-Jew] now? Could you? Obviously not, or maybe theoretically. So we're back in theory world. Theoretically means I could say things not connected with any experience or any reality. But do you have free will to not come to my shiur [class/lecture] today? You could have been lazy and not came, but that wouldn't be an act of free will, that would just be laziness. That's not the same thing, right? That's already an excuse, some slightly less free will at least, right? You could have decided to come. That also wasn't free will, it was because of something, right? Because it's the best shiur in Lakewood, you have to come. You have to, right? Well, it doesn't force you, that's another question, but that's still not free, right?
It seems like nobody ever experiences free will in the way that people believe that it exists. Therefore, unless I'm a tzaddik [righteous person] of this list theory that that's what happens at one moment of choice... I think that that's even that is wrong, but I could talk about that separately, but in general it's not a normal human experience.
Student: Yeah, because, we'll get to that. I'll try to get that in there. And if I don't, that's because I don't have free will.
Instructor: Now, you see how useless this free will is? It's just a joke that you can put anywhere. It's not even a good joke. Good jokes are the ones that you can put anywhere.
Student: Yeah, determinism is still a conflict of choice, right?
Instructor: Yeah, but that's a nice, weird puzzle for weird people to puzzle about. Who cares? I'm interested in things that are real.
Student: I think both of those sides have some degree of relevance.
Instructor: They're relevant, of course.
Now, let's go back to where I came from. You remember that we came here, we arrived at this discussion of choice because of something very basic, which we all agree on, which we do experience. Unlike free will, which nobody ever experiences, this is something we do experience. We experience when we blame people, when we judge people, which, okay, you could say maybe we're just judging them based on our thing. But we also experience them in ourselves. We experience some of the things we do as being more pertaining to us, more coming from me, from what I am.
You'll notice that that's already something most people will not call free will. It's precisely the thing people call just your habit or something. But when you tell me some things you've done represent what you are, represent who you are, right? They come from who you are. Representation might not be the correct word, but some things, the things that are mostly me, right?
What do you want people to talk about by your levaya [funeral]? The things that represent what you are. You might be a stickler that does those things only once a week. Doesn't matter, still the things that you think represent what kind of human being you are. You know, be deluding yourself and so on, but that's what you think at least, right? And not only what's good, of course. You don't want to do the bad things, but ideally, none in your levaya or whatever. You still want to have a correct narrative of what you are. And that would not include... it would include a lot of the things that people say are not free will and will not include a lot of things that are free will, right?
So for example, right, when we said that, you'll notice that this is what's important for us ethically. I'm making a point based on every human being's experience in the free world, in the free will world, that's still which two minutes of light to sleep two minutes a night in the free will world is possible, possibly, possibly possible. But when I'm saying that I praise myself, when I talk about actions that represent myself, that come from me, that are really about me, that I'm trying to become a person like that, right? That's what ethics is about, aiming to become a good person. Though the actions that we, that include in that, the actions that count for that, are the ones that I have chosen, the ones that have something to do with what I am, based on what I think I should be or based on what I already am. They're precisely not the ones that I choose freely. They're almost the opposite. Do you understand what I'm saying? Because I'm drunk around...
Like, things that I just... Just so, like, take even Rav Dessler's example, okay? Let's say I'm a guy that eats and drinks and smokes and things like that, and then one time I didn't drink. Everyone agrees that that's easy, in the sense of free will. If free will means easy, like Rav Dessler seems to have thought, then I agree with him. I have that experience too. Like, nothing is stopping me from drinking this seltzer or not drinking it. There's no major, I don't even have a big fight about it. Like, should I drink it, should I not drink it? That's already a complicated case. I just put it down to pick it up. No problem. That's free will. We get called that free will, but that's really something less than free will, something less than choice, right? It's not even choice.
If I sat down and I made myself a plan, I want to reduce my intake of seltzer, therefore I'm going to every night drink one...
Instructor: That's something that is about me. About me in the sense of what it talks about represents what I am, who I am. And that's precisely what Rav Dessler calls, unfortunately, not free will. Because that's just some habit that you have or some plan that you made or something like that. The act of me taking the cup or not taking the cup that follows from that—what makes that an important thing to me, a human thing to me, is precisely what comes before the moment that he called the moment of free choice. It's precisely the thing where I thought about it, I deliberated about it, I maybe even created myself a habit to do that way. I made myself into the person that does that, and now I'm doing it because I'm that kind of person, because I chose to be that kind of person. That's what choice means.
That's what the kind of things that count for telling you who you are, which is what we're interested in here now, are those things. Does this make sense? Understand what I'm saying?
What I'm trying to say is that if we forget about free will in the abstract sense—justifying God or anything—and we talk about why is it important to us ethically to talk about something like choice, we understand it very obviously. Because, for example, *ones* [coercion] is the biggest example. If someone just used you as a rack and threw you onto someone else, you didn't do that at all. You were functioning as a tool of someone else. That's not me. It doesn't say anything about me, right? It says something about that guy. It says nothing about me, right?
And then there are more complicated cases where I made an accident, and that represents something about me—more like that I'm not a careful person, if the accident was somewhat my fault. But it still doesn't represent me in the most important sense, right?
And then I can talk about something that I do just out of unthinking. Something like I just passed by, I just did it. I think that professor's example is really that. From what I did, in *halacha* [Jewish law] it's called something like *misasek* [an action performed without intention]—I just did it without thinking. People do things without thinking all day, right? I ate three candies, not two candies, not because I have a diet that says we eat three candies. That's not saying anything about me. Why is it not saying anything about me? Because I didn't choose it. It wasn't premeditated. It's not something about me.
In some sense you could say, "He every day eats three candies." Then it becomes something about me, because there's some habit they have, some character that eats a lot of candies. That's something about me. But if it's something done just carelessly, that's not something about me.
What's the primary case of something that says something about me, which is what we care about when we say "choice"? We don't care about some abstractions. We care about what represents what the person is, what is about, what comes from him. It's precisely those things which we've thought about or which we've trained ourselves to be.
Someone, just in the physical case, someone who trains himself to be a good runner, and now he's a good runner, we praise him for that. Forget about my previous ethical problems, I'm just using this as an example because it's easy to see. We praise him for being a good runner, right? He wins the Olympics as our champion. And why does he win the Olympics? Obviously we don't say, "Well, you don't deserve it. You just trained well. Now when you're running, you're winning the race. That just follows automatically from you training well."
Well, that's exactly what we're looking for—someone that trains well. It's opposite someone that just takes drugs and doesn't train well. We say, "Yeah, that doesn't count. There was not enough human choice in that. You just took a drug. You used the mechanical way to get yourself to win. You cheated," right?
Why is that cheating? What's wrong with cheating? Very nice. If the game would be about—we, everyone agrees for some reason that drugging at the games is bad. Unless someone already invented new Olympics which is just the drugging Olympics, but that would be a different Olympics. But the regular Olympics, the one where we reward a kind of human endurance, human training, right? And nobody says, "Well, he just trained that way." Yeah, that's the opposite.
Someone who didn't train—if someone comes and says, "How did you win?" "I used my free will." Even if that would be possible, which it's not, we would still disqualify him. Because we say, "Well, this is not a game of people that use their free will. This is a game of people that actually train and become the kind of person that are an athlete that can win at the Olympic Games."
So you understand something very simple and very obvious, although it's not obvious to you before you came to my class, that there's a case where the Aristotelian or normal people way of thinking is in precise contradiction to what the nowadays free will people say. Because really people say—*Nefesh HaChaim* [a major work of Jewish ethics] says this explicitly, and *Tanya* [foundational text of Chabad Chassidus] says it also actually, and he's also confused, and this is part of his whole community—what do you get *sechar* [reward] on, right?
What you get *sechar* on is, as we discussed last time we had a class, not at this *shiur* [lesson], about what goes on in heaven—that's really about human judgments of the good, right? What do you get *sechar* for? So there's many contemporary books that say you don't get *sechar* for things you do out of habit, because that's just a habit doing it. You only get *sechar* for the moment of overcoming. For the one more time that you learned that you were not habituated to, that's what you get *sechar* for. That is what the conclusion of the free will, the non-existent free will gives you. Or the *mi-pa'am echad* [from one time] theory—we won't get into that. It's connected, those two things. We'll get to chapter 6 and discuss that in that context.
What Aristotle, what a normal person says is precisely the opposite. What you get the most praise for, the most *kavod* [honor] for, is the thing that you already do, because that's what you are. You don't have to choose yourself every day. You don't have to free will yourself into—if there's even such a thing as free will, which there isn't in that sense.
The person we praise as being a great thinker or a great helper is precisely the person who has chosen. Of course, it starts from choice somewhere, and this gets us into the discussion of where we are. This is really why it's an introduction to where we are, which is how you get into, how you become a good person, how you get a good character. That doesn't happen by itself either.
But the person that we praise mostly is the person who does have that good character. And of course it's not just because he started once to have the good character. He gets chosen. The thing that we praise, the thing that gets *kavod*, is precisely to be a good person who is the kind of person that's chosen. That's the kind of actions that we ascribe mostly to the human *Shabbat* [unclear term—possibly *shayachut*/belonging], to the person doing that as the kind of human being that either represents who we are. That's what we give him a *hesped* [eulogy] for.
We don't give a *hesped*—you know, by the way, if it would be such a hassle, then most people would be very bad. You know, "Usually he was a good guy, but really we shouldn't talk about that. That was just his habit. The one time he really bothered someone, and therefore he goes to *Gehinnom* [hell] forever." That follows also. No, that doesn't work like that, right? Because that's a mistake. A mistake is less willing, right? Maybe he should have not made that mistake, so he'll get some *onesh* [punishment]. But that's just a mistake. We disqualify mistakes from what represents character, right?
So this is the very important conclusion: Choice means this—choice just means what a person, what comes from you as the you, as the person. Choice is not a moment in time. Choice—I mean, the action from choices wasn't in something for a moment in time, but the choice is something that takes more than a second. Opposite: choice is something that has to—if it takes less than a second, then it's not choice. Then it's carelessness.
Of course, many actions take less than a second, and therefore they come automatically from your habit, or just carelessly, or from some *teva* [nature] that you had, and things like that. There's many reasons why people do actions that take a second. But choice is precisely the thing that it's a long-term process.
Now, how actually—since we don't live in long term, we have to get into how it actually works and all the levels, all the stages of that process. But when we praise someone and we say the things we praise are the things that were chosen, we don't mean the things that he sat now and chose, because that's not thinking. That something happens.
What does happen is that you decide to do a long-term thing. And you don't decide—it's not something, by the way, it's also not something inside. That's why the *ba'alei mussar* [practitioners of the Mussar ethical movement] are totally confused, for example, when they talk about *hachlatos* [resolutions] or *kabbalos* [acceptances], right? That's just not how human beings function. Nobody—I mean, again, this just goes back to my discussion last time about goals. Human beings don't function like, "I came by and kept around, they decided I'm gonna be good, and I became good." It's *lo avad* [it doesn't work]. You got to do something different than that.
Never works. How do I know it never works? There's so many books written about how to do it well. And this doesn't work.
What works? Creating habits. Those are things that work. How do you create habits? Yes, from very simple things that are easy. I didn't say that that's not how it works, but not from decisions. Decisions are, in the sense of the momentary sense, are totally overrated. They might sometimes happen in emergency cases, but they're not how things work.
Choice means I chose to go to this yeshiva, and that's a primary example of choice. Would be something like, "I chose to go to this yeshiva, and therefore I became a *talmid chacham* [Torah scholar]." What we're praising is not the moment that he sat—he had maybe a lot of conversations deciding where to go and what to do, but then he did it, and then he did the whole thing out of choice. And that's why he's, you know, he's a student of that yeshiva. That's the kind of guy he is. That's a chosen thing.
It's not like, "Well, you went to yeshiva." "Yeah, but I chose to go to this yeshiva." It's not like someone forced you. It doesn't make a big difference, by the way. Even if your father forced you to go there, still that's who formed your character, and that's what you are. It's more of a chosen thing than the thing that you'd choose in a moment, and it just moves on.
Does that make sense? More helpful? That's my main—
Student: I'm just wondering why the word "choice." I don't know what's being added over things that you spoke on previously. That's the word "choice." I don't know what's adding.
Instructor: That's the actual—there were choices. There's more things to add, but this is the one thing. I'm saying—
Student: Yeah, I hear it. Well, we added the negation. I hear the distinction from this on what people consider free will. I hear that. This is just things we've discussed before.
Instructor: Okay, so you're not more convinced. There's more to talk about what choice is precisely, but I have to finish it within one hour.
Student: [Inaudible question about Rambam and the middle ground through training versus being born with natural dispositions]
Student: Well, it somewhat is, but that's the practical way of how to get it. What we call chasing that. It's more complicated. I have to talk more about this. The inertia is what I don't understand. The way he says that, it's the opposite. It's not the thing that you always do, right? It's the thing that you do once.
Instructor: All right, I said the opposite. The thing that you always do is the things you choose. Right, so that is... Because you have more *kavana* [intention] on those things. A long-term *kavana*. Right. Not a momentary *kavana*.
Student: This is also inertia there's some inertia in that but what why is that a problem why can't it could work with the middle ground maybe says right a person can be born being totally giving person all the time right you could be born like that so he's always like that right well you people are born in extremes right yeah I don't know if that's that's what he said.
Instructor: No no I know what you mean I'm not sure I don't I don't think it's true that that's something I don't I I know you mean I'm not sure why yeah there's a different problem yeah I know it's the brown but I don't know yeah it is true that it's the middle ground the middle way requires being the kind of the kind of person I agree with that yeah it's It requires being a kind of person that knows how to act in a certain, relative to a certain area in a certain, the correct way. It's not something that you can do. I agree with that. Yeah. And what you said about being born, I don't agree with, but I agree with it. I mean, it's more complicated. That trajectory, right? Yeah. Which is a... I know what you mean. I know the language. I understand what you're talking about, but I'm not going to solve it by looking at the language. There's more problems about this. Yeah. Yeah.
Student: But to embark on such a habit-forming process or something like that, right? How does that begin?
Instructor: Yeah, it must also begin by the same kind of deliberation. We have to talk more, like Ali says, Lozi is a guy, whatever you want to call him, about precisely what choice is. What I gave you was just why character is what we call choice. More of what we call choice than the momentary kind of choice that people identify with free will. That is very important. I think it's a clarification that I didn't know before I made this share, so I don't know how you would have known it. Maybe you did. Because I was implied in other ones. That's the whole use of it. That choice, what makes, is more, character is closer to choice than the momentary choice that people identify with free will. And that's the kind of choice that actually exists.
And if you want to get into a bunch of things like how do we actually gain character, how do we actually get a certain character, we're exactly the choice in that. That's something we have to clarify more about the process of it. Also things that we know already, but we can clarify them more. And we're exactly what we call choice, and Aristotle distinguishes between choice and wish and will and a whole bunch of other things, opinion. All these things are different.
Student: I understand this distinction of choice as being something that represents your humanity but even embarking on that that's still where I'm stuck and it's where I'm stuck not even just in thought but even in action there's all sorts of things I think that we want to do that I'd like to do or that I think I'd like to do I'd pretend I'd like to do you wish to be that way but you don't do want right right I don't have those habits it's habits that I want to have right alright those are wishes right maybe what's between me and that is knowing but even even to decide to know is not to decide to know even just to begin knowing seems to be its own choice.
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: So has it was the same kind of regression problem.
Instructor: Yeah there's a regression problem in the whole theory and he's very happy with it like it's a circular and that's how it's supposed to be you choose because of what you are and what you are because of the actions that makes you what you are and there's a whole cycle and therefore like one of the conclusions here is that training that education is what determines what kind of person you'll be and there's no way out of that.
Aristotle quotes Plato like Plato and Aristotle both say things like this that the conclusion from this is that there's no fix for someone who had a bad education, or at least no very good fix, because that's where things start.
Now, who was the first guy? That's a good question. How did your great-great-great-great-great-grandfather start his good or bad education?
Instructor: That's why we need prophecy. This is for Schneir Berton to explain. Why do we need prophecy? To start the cycle of, like, how did anyone decide to be a good person? This is a true argument for *Torah min HaShamayim* [Torah from Heaven]. I'm not serious. I'm serious about this, by the way.
Instructor: Rav Saadia kind of says it's a jump start well no Rav Saadia has no Rav Saadia says I'm making it even worse Rav Saadia says that we could have arrived at the truth because Rav Saadia is unlike the Rambam for example if this Rambam disagrees with him and Rav Saadia believes in some kind of moral intuition which just shows us what the good is.
Instructor: It's not clear Aristotle or the Rambam believe in that they believe that there might be ways to find out truth but there are probably less ways to find out the good. And therefore, we need prophecy. So, not like prophecy is the use, that's like, which says this is what prophecy is useful for. What I was saying is that that's what it's needed for.
This is still not right. You don't have to have the word prophecy, some kind of like, jump, like, beginning point of revelation.
Student: Well, if prophecy is part of the nature, then it works. It works better.
Instructor: It doesn't matter. There still needs to be some beginning point. If we agree that our beginning point is usually our education, and then this has to go back to the first educator and that and this is why just forget about the argument this is why cultures have stories of the first lawgiver every culture has that yeah so long give lost Athens and Moses gave a loss to the Jews and some other guy gave the loss to the I don't know to the Romans whatever I forgot his name and there and so on right and why do we say this because we believe that it's at least very hard it stopped record it's it's at least very hard for a human being to discover the good. It needs to start somewhere. You need to be good already to get discovered. Yeah, right.
For truth, there might be ways out, but for good, it seems very difficult. Unless you're a Socratic, that's at least that, that you could discover the good by inquiry somehow.
Student: That's back to the question. Is conscience a purely...
Instructor: I just said this.
Student: Or is it somewhat reliable?
Instructor: Yeah, the Rambam is a lot more on the side that it's conditioned. You need education to go this way, even though you can figure out... But this is not the question problem that you have. This is just random. The question problem, no, but it solves a separate study that we had about the ability to know the good from knowing what something is and the requirements for moral education as a prerequisite for that.
Student: Well, because you don't know what you are, either.
Instructor: Right, but I'm saying if I would understand the truth of what I am, then I would know the good, right? The problem is for me to know the truth of what I am I need to be I need to start this cycle somewhere which requires education right well maybe no this is that's a problem what you're raising is a problem I think.
Student: In other words if this solves the problem if there's a good argument.
Instructor: No if there's a really good argument for ethics yeah if teleology whatever it would be a really good argument then you can make bad people good by the argument this is what Socrates believes this is the question if if the good can can be taught but seems to be very it seems like all that talk about the need for education is saying that this is not really correct at least not a practice you might need to be good in order to in order to be taught.
Student: No because the poet everyone could recognize arguments even the slave in the in the in the amino everyone could recognize arguments the statement with all geometry thing.
Instructor: Well that's not that's an argument for what your soul already has. So it's opposite. But I mean, does that mean that *Mitzvot She'asei Chumachayev* [rational commandments] implies that you don't need it?
Instructor: That's what Rav Saadia holds. Rav Saadia holds that. Rambam doesn't agree. Yeah?
Student: Rambam doesn't use that language?
Instructor: No. Who else uses this language? Rav Saadia, sorry, Rambam. Very common phrase, no? *Mitzvot She'asei*, it's Rav Saadia. Rav Saadia came up with it. And Rambam explicitly criticized him for this. And because, yeah.
Student: Who? The mayor? Where is he?
Instructor: Also here. Not in this chapter and later this is only the fourth chapter he explicitly criticizes him for this he said the reason for his where's the full one the reason for his criticism is because he thinks that the things that the society calls are not they're something of which there's no cycle really they're good they're about the good and many times works with the assumption.
Student: A political good, meaning?
Instructor: Yeah, a political good is not knowable and not knowable in the same way as, it's not provable in the same way as like science and philosophy. It's not a demonstration. Because even not killing and so on, like basic morals, are not really, according to the Rambam, are not strictly demonstrable. There's no demonstration for that. This is something that Aristotle says sometimes also and it contradicts the point where there are arguments like like the function argument, and things like that. And this is a problem. OK, anyways, I've just...
– Speaker jokes about needing a formal *shiur* (lesson) as a pretext for people to gather and share Hasidic stories
– Establishes this is continuing discussion of *Shemona Perakim*, Chapter 8
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– Central project: Understanding the framework of becoming a good person through training character virtues (*middot tovot*)
– These virtues lead to correct actions by being “intermediate” (the mean between extremes)
The speaker distinguishes two different questions that fall under “choice”:
1. The theological/theoretical free will problem
2. The practical problem of controlling character change
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– Any ethical system with exhortations to be good + reward/punishment seems to require free will
– Without responsibility, there should be no reward/punishment
– Without free will, there’s no point in ethics or calls to improvement (“either I’m good or bad”)
1. Against Determinism objection: Even the person giving the exhortation wouldn’t have free will to change anything, so the objection is self-undermining
2. Against Libertarian Free Will:
– If actions have “no reason” (required for absolute free will), you can’t truly *be* a good person
– You could only randomly choose things that happen to be good
– A good person’s goodness must “make sense”
– Key paradox: You can’t give exhortations if free will is absolute, because giving reasons/causes would undermine the free choice — and if exhortation works, that itself removes free will
– Speaker suspects Rambam in Chapter 8 addresses fatalism/astrological theories, not the free will vs. determinism debate
– Defers this discussion (admits insufficient knowledge)
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– Good person = has good *middot* (character traits/virtues)
– This is internal: likes/loves/enjoys doing good actions
– Must be stable — a disposition, not random wishes
– Critical distinction:
– Actions are primary for *identifying* what’s good
– But goodness of the person consists in the internal disposition, not the actions themselves
– Virtues = excellences of the part of the soul that produces these actions
– External actions seem controllable: Learn 3 pages of Gemara daily, attend prayers, keep *mitzvot* — people can decide to do these
– Internal dispositions seem uncontrollable: Being told you must *like* learning, *be the kind of person* who is good to others
– Common responses: “I was born this way” / “This seems very hard” / “How do you choose to become a kind of person?”
– People already struggle with commandments about feelings (love God, love neighbor, don’t hate)
– Speaker’s response to that easier problem:
– You have more control over your heart than you think
– These commandments often mean something behavioral
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– Common objection: How can we be commanded about internal states we can’t control?
– Speaker’s response: This is a “small problem” compared to the main question
– Proper reading of the verse: Not about suppressing feelings, but about hypocrisy
– “Echad b’peh v’echad b’lev” – being one way outwardly, another inwardly
– Means: Don’t smile at someone while planning their downfall
– This IS controllable – it’s about planning, not raw feeling
– Rambam’s solution: Go directly to the person and address the problem
– Practically means something like: “Don’t hate God, but come to shul anyway”
– These mitzvos address specific problems (hypocrisy) with controllable solutions
– Distinction made: These mitzvos don’t make explicit demands about *what kind of person you are*
– The speaker’s question is more demanding: becoming someone who *likes* being good to others
– Key point: You can’t have a *midda* (character trait) once or in one day
– Must *become* a certain kind of person
– One who loves right things, hates right things, gets angry in right amounts, for right reasons, at right times
– The deeper problem: This seems less controllable than atomic actions
– “I have control over my hand, but do I have control over what I am, over the type of guy I am?”
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– How does one actually become this kind of person?
– The “secret answer” (which audience already knows): By doing the action repeatedly
– Example: How do you become a masmid (diligent learner)? By learning.
– “You learn enough until you become a masmid”
– Then it becomes somewhat “automatic”
– Even with the practical recipe, a deeper problem emerges
– The automaticity problem: If the virtuous person acts “automatically,” how is that chosen?
– Formulation of the paradox:
– You make choices (learn 5 minutes daily) → become someone who likes learning
– But then: In what way are you being a good person at that second stage?
– Goodness requires choice as a necessary condition
– Anything forced or not by choice “doesn’t count towards being a good person”
– Student question/clarification: Is there any difference between:
1. Being born with good traits (genetic)
2. Practicing until you got there
– Speaker’s answer: At the endpoint, it’s the same problem
– “Maybe he gets credit for yesterday, but for today he doesn’t get any credit”
– This seems weird because the *sugya* (discussion) established that being virtuous IS the ideal state
– Not the state of *getting there* (which would prioritize the moshel b’nafsho – self-control person)
– Claim: Everyone actually thinks being a good person = liking the good
– We praise people for *liking* the right things, not just doing them
– Example referenced: Story of Moshe being a “gomer rasha” (completing/finishing the wicked)
– “We don’t really believe in that story”
– Everyone believes it’s better to be good than to be a bad person who does good things
– Story: Shuberman walked into Beis Medrash on a long zman Shabbos and said “don’t look at his schar (reward)”
– Raises the question: “Why not?”
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– To answer the question, must ask: What IS choice?
– What are we looking for when we seek something “by choice”?
– Need to understand choice as “the thing that makes human activities ethically relevant”
– If we can show that being virtuous is MORE choice-like than other states, the problem dissolves
– Student suggestion: Tosfos says the Avos (Patriarchs) didn’t have the yetzer hara (evil inclination)
– They worked themselves up to a stage where they no longer had it
– Implication: More schar (reward) comes with overcoming more yetzer hara
– Speaker’s rejection: “I’m not happy with that answer”
– It doesn’t fully solve the problem (may be the same problem restated)
– “I don’t know anything about the Avos. I’m trying to talk about the thing.”
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– Ones (force): Actions done to you by someone else, not by you
– Extreme example: Someone pushes you into another person causing harm – “I didn’t do it at all”
– More complicated cases exist where responsibility is partially shared
– Shogeg (ignorance): Another form of lacking will
– Type 1: Didn’t know the nature of the object (e.g., thought rock was lighter than it was)
– Type 2: Didn’t know the law (Aristotle rejects this as valid excuse; modern law agrees)
– Type 3: Forgot relevant circumstances (e.g., forgot it was Shabbos)
– Objection raised: Shogeg still requires a chatas (sin offering), implying some responsibility
– Response: The shogeg requiring chatas is specifically when you *should have known*
– Meta-responsibility: You could have been more careful
– When you truly *couldn’t* have known → that’s actually classified as ones
– Example: A Jew “shouldn’t forget” it’s Shabbos, so forgetting carries responsibility
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– Key claim: For ethical relevance, we need *choice* (bechira), which is something *beyond* mere willing
– Will vs. Ones is not sufficient for ethical evaluation
– Children clearly do things willingly – no one is forcing them
– Yet no legal system punishes children below a certain age
– Their actions don’t “count” legally or ethically
– Implication: Will is present but something else is missing
– Actions done “in the spur of the moment” or reflexively
– Not the same as forced actions – you did them, no one made you
– Scenario 1: “Why is this chandelier here?” → “I chose it” (sounds normal)
– Scenario 2: “Why is that paper positioned vertically?” → “I chose it” (sounds weird)
– Both actions were done willingly, neither was forced
– The difference: Choice implies something more
1. Purpose/Intention: Directed toward something, has a goal
2. Deliberation: Considered alternatives (looked at 30 chandeliers at Home Depot)
3. Reasons: Can give an account of why (not proof, but reasons)
4. Consultation: May have discussed with others before deciding
– The distinction between premeditated and non-premeditated actions reflects this
– “I wasn’t thinking” might reduce culpability but doesn’t eliminate it
– Definitely not the same as *choice*
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– Recall: Same action can be done by good person or bad person
– Beinoni and Tzaddik (Tanya terminology) do the exact same external actions
– One is a good person; the other merely does good activities
– Self-controlled person: Does good because he thinks it’s good + exercises self-control
– Good person: Does good because it’s *expressive of who he is*
– “I’m the kind of person that does these kinds of things”
– When you say “I chose this,” you reveal something about *the kind of person you are*
– Choice expresses your idea of beauty, purpose, values
– Key insight: Choice-based actions are revelatory of character in a way that merely willing actions are not
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– Actions that are arbitrary (like placing paper sideways on desk) don’t express anything about the person
– Even if not forced by another, arbitrary actions lack moral significance
– Key distinction: Not being forced ≠ genuine choice
– Unless it connects to a character trait (e.g., “I’m messy”), the action says nothing particular about the agent
– Not merely: Absence of external force
– Not merely: Solving the determinism problem (where no one is ever the “beginning” of their action)
– What we need: A specific way in which an activity is *mine* – “ba’alus” (ownership/responsibility)
– Choice means the action comes out of “the kind of thing he is, the kind of person he is”
– Explains why premeditation matters in law
– Explains why intention and planning are morally relevant
– Explains character witnesses – they show what kind of person would have planned something
– Why crimes of passion are “less bad”: They don’t emerge from what the person fundamentally is
– Actions done “for a reason” where part of the reason is “what you are” = actions that show what you are
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– “This sounds circular – actions make me a person, but you’re saying actions reveal what kind of person I am”
– “Chicken or egg” problem – where does it start?
– Acknowledges the circularity but says “that’s not the problem”
– Clarifies: Discussing the ideal – where you’re already a kind of person doing good things *because* you’re that kind of person
– Three stages exist in every practical sense (not fully elaborated)
– It IS possible to do things against your own choice
– It IS possible to act against what you think/feel is good
– Practice works this way: Doing things not yet aligned with what you are
– Actions done against your nature = “less chosen” or “less connected to your choice”
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– Not “force powers”
– Not “energies that force you to do things”
– Not automatic mechanisms
– “Something choosy” – having the attribute of choice
– “Almost a choice” – choice plus actually liking it
– Liking aligned with choice
– Not habit in an automatic way
– Common misunderstanding: Good person = does things without thinking (automatically)
– Correct understanding: “Almost the opposite – he does everything with thinking”
– This is where intentionality comes in
– Intention = doing something for a reason
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– “I did it, not someone else”
– “I did it because of me”
– Because of me understanding this to be good
– Because this is the kind of person I am
– “I see the good in certain things”
– “I’m trained to understand how to act in certain cases”
– “Doing it because it’s what I do” = “doing it because I chose it”
– This is what choice consists of
– Choice is NOT contrary to doing things habitually
– The understanding of habit here is NOT doing things automatically
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– The kinds of thoughts/reasons people have are MORE expressive of what they are than:
– Choices without good reasons
– Choices where they don’t like what they’re doing
– Planned murder where “murder seems good to him” = worse action, worse person
– Murder from momentary anger or “for no reason” = less expressive of character
– Key point: “The kind of reasons people have is precisely expressed through what kind of people they are”
– There aren’t two separate things: “giving reasons” and “being a kind of person” – they’re unified
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– Wants habit that isn’t “just automatic”
– Example: Going for cigarette at same time every day without thinking
– Automatic, unthinking actions = precisely NOT what we call choice
– Like the paper placed sideways – not a choice even if habitual
– “I don’t think we have to judge activity one by one”
– When judging a person as “the kind of person he is” – tell whole life story, at least a long story
– Asking about every individual action = “wrong framing”
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– That I “could have not bought it” (mere counterfactual freedom)
– This is “obviously true” but not the point
– “I checked into it, I looked into it, I found the right one, I have my reasons”
– The whole story of deliberation and reasoning
– This makes choice “interesting in a human way”
– Choice as “expressive” or “having something to do with” who the person is
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– Common misconception: People think choice means “I decided now” or “I could have done otherwise”
– Rambam’s position is nearly the opposite: True choice means you almost *couldn’t* have done otherwise
– If I have correct understanding (aesthetic or ethical), my choice flows necessarily from that understanding
– “If I would do differently, it would be not by choice because my choice is precisely what comes out of my understanding of how things should be”
– If someone with good aesthetic judgment buys an ugly chandelier, we’d say “he didn’t choose it”
– Example: “I didn’t choose that ugly thing – the air conditioner was there before, we couldn’t move it”
– This excuse (“I didn’t choose it”) absolves because it disconnects the action from expressing the person’s judgment
– Key insight: Choice is a “very positive thing” – it’s about what flows from your understanding, not about arbitrary freedom
– These concepts (choice and necessity) remain “closely connected” but distinguishable
– What matters: “What takes place has to follow by virtue of your human participation, human kind of decision, which is by reasons and by understanding of what is good”
– When you develop a *middah* (character trait), your actions reflect choice precisely because they flow from that developed understanding
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– Not “energies that push you to do things” – “There’s no inkling of that”
– Not like a “boiler of anger calibrated correctly in his soul”
– Strong polemic: “That whole story is a fantasy that you were taught by Disney, I don’t know who. It doesn’t exist.”
– Speaker expresses frustration: “People keep on going back to that for some reason. I don’t know why people like that image”
– Central thesis: All *middot* require *phronesis* (practical wisdom/judgment)
– Having a correct *middah* = “having a good aesthetic judgment”
– “I have an eye for the correct activity, the correct action”
– Example: A person who “only gets mad in the right times” = someone with “a good eye for identifying the times in which you should be getting angry”
– It does NOT mean his anger mechanism is properly calibrated
– Good judgment is trained, not innate (“maybe not necessarily born with”)
– Training involves “making a bunch of judgments and accepting criticism”
– But crucially: “It’s not the eye that he has sort of pushing him to have that judgment. It’s a judgment that he has right now.”
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– “This word habit is extremely confusing for the correct understanding”
– Habits in ethics are “actively repeated, not passively repeated”
– “They follow from an ethical understanding, or a perception”
– A skilled painter can “habitually paint beautiful art” without thinking
– “I just come in the morning to the studio and I take out a paint and it’s painted in five minutes”
– Key point: “Nobody would say that that means it wasn’t done with skill”
– “Nobody would say, well he’s not really doing it. It’s just his habit doing it. It doesn’t even make sense.”
– The more habitual, the better: “The more he has the habit, the better artist he is, not the worse artist he is”
– Challenging cases allow for “even more” expression of art/knowledge
– “Now there’s a complicated case. He has to express more of his knowledge”
– But even routine work “is never automatic in the sense that you’re imagining”
– “There’s no way it’s going to be looking like a three-year-old’s mischief”
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– “Where did you get the idea that people have automatic *middot*? Why? What are you people even talking about?”
– Demands concrete examples: “You really have an example of one that’s automatic in any real way?”
– Truly automatic (non-ethical): “I have a certain tick, like whenever I wake up, I push my ear that way”
– Such things have “no thought” and “no good or bad in that”
– Ethical actions: Cannot be automatic in any meaningful sense
– Example challenged: “He’s a *masmid* [diligent learner], they learned everything. Okay, well in what sense is that automatic?”
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– Can something be done “without it going through his clear… *middas ha-modeh ha-emes*” (trait of acknowledging truth)?
– Can actions “bypass his so-called faculty of choice”?
– *Modeh ha-emes* doesn’t mean “I’m like a machine, you press a button and I tell you everything I’m thinking”
– “There’s no *middah* that’s like that”
– Side note: “This has to do with *derech mitzvah*” (the way of commandments)
– Student suggests there are “levels of intentionality” even for intermediate traits
– Actions “not governed by the rationality of the thing itself but by something else”
– Example: “Someone tells me every morning when you come in, do this”
– “That’s not an ethical habit. There’s nothing intermediate about that”
– “The intermediate requires knowledge, always requires judgment”
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– Person A: Hits light switch every morning “because he was told”
– Person B: Turns on light every day “because he wants there to be light in the building”
– Person following orders “could be operating like a machine”
– “People can be told to act like machines for other people”
– “Then they’re not agents. Then they’re not ethical agents. Then they’re just *karka olam*” (lit. “ground of the world” – passive/inert)
– “Nobody would call that a choice, a hundred percent”
– Speaker acknowledges: “Things can be done automatically without participation… only in a relative sense”
– “There are degrees”
– But not very interesting ethically: “That’s why the just following orders excuse doesn’t work very well, ethically”
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– Key principle: No ethically relevant action can bypass rational/emotional processing
– The *shliach lidvar aveirah* (agent for a sinful matter) excuse fails precisely because of this
– Only true exception: Physical compulsion (e.g., someone literally throws you onto another person – using you as a tool)
– Everything else goes through the person’s rational or emotional faculties
– Important qualification: “Rational” here doesn’t mean high-level reasoning (like learning *Tosafot*)
– It means basic practical reasoning: knowing that to go through a door, you must open it
– This minimal rationality is unavoidable in human action
– Core argument: You cannot do anything without:
1. Some kind of perception (which is a form of judgment)
2. Some kind of choice (deliberative aiming toward perceived good)
– Even if you made a mistake or have distorting habits, *something* is there
– The “desiring soul” (the part that wants things) works by identifying what it thinks is good and pursuing it
– Rhetorical question: How could we act without this process 100%?
– Acknowledged: There are degrees of choice (more or less deliberation, more or less time spent thinking)
– But: This doesn’t mean some actions are truly “automatic” – just that some involve “less”
– Understanding what you’re doing better changes the action itself, even if physically identical
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– Example: Three people standing at a bus stop
– One is visiting grandmother
– One is on the way to murder someone
– One is checking if the bus is on time
– Physically: All doing the same thing (standing at bus stop)
– Ethically/humanly relevant description: Completely different actions based on intention
– The difference between these people is NOT that some have “less choice”
– None are doing anything “automatically”
– They’re just doing “less of anything” (simpler narrative, less complex intention)
– Key point: Choice is more interesting when the story is more complicated, but all involve genuine choice
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– What people *mean* by “automatic”: Following from adherence to a much less ideally rational place
– Example: Someone whose real reason for doing something is “because I did it yesterday”
– Connection to *Kotzker Rebbe*’s critique of habitual observance
– Self-described as “anti-Kotzk”: This is a “very weird judgment of people”
– Claim: Nobody actually does things purely because they did them yesterday
– Thought experiment: Ask someone doing *mitzvas anashim melumadah* (commandments by rote) why they put on *tefillin*
– No normal person would answer “because I put it on yesterday”
– They might say “because I do it every day” – but that’s different from “because yesterday”
– The critics are not actually in the person’s mind
– Student’s improved version: “Less than ideal rational understanding of what he’s doing”
– Teacher’s acceptance: This is better than “automatic”
– The person putting on *tefillin* habitually is doing “much less” – not doing it “automatically”
– Not: “You’re doing it automatically”
– But: “You’re putting on *tefillin* like you could eat *tefillin*” (minimal engagement)
– Ideal: Putting on *tefillin* with “all your heart, all your soul, all your might” (*b’chol l’vavcha, b’chol nafsh’cha, b’chol m’odecha*) in service of God
– Same physical action, but a *different action* in the ethically relevant sense
– “Automatic” is a bad word – doesn’t express what it’s trying to say
– It’s not true that habitual observance is “automatic”
– It IS true that it might be “minimal” or “less”
– What critics usually want to criticize when using “automatic” is really this minimalism
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1. Dismissal of standard free will debate: The theological problem is self-undermining and not what Rambam addresses
2. Distinction between will and choice: Will (not being forced) is insufficient; choice requires reasons, deliberation, and expression of self
3. Inversion of freedom: True choice = necessity flowing from understanding, not arbitrary freedom to do otherwise
4. Anti-mechanistic view of character: *Middot* are perceptual/judgmental capacities, not energetic/hydraulic forces
5. Skill model of virtue: Ethical expertise works like artistic expertise – habit enhances rather than diminishes agency
6. Rejection of automaticity: Anything ethically relevant cannot be truly automatic; “automatic” really means “minimal”
7. Agency as participation: Acting as a machine for others removes ethical agency entirely
8. Choice as self-expression: The ethically relevant sense of choice is that actions flow from and reveal who you are
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– Teacher notes they didn’t finish the four things about choice
– More to continue next time
Instructor:
Obviously I like these Hasidic masses very much, but I’m worried that you’re not going to come if it’s only a Hasidic mass. Like, you have to have a *shiur* [shiur: formal Torah lesson], so you can *shmues* [shmues: informal Torah discussion/conversation] before the *shiur*, after the *shiur*. If there’s no *shiur*, then nobody’s going to show up to tell their stories. So you have to say a *shtickl shiur* [shtickl shiur: a little piece of Torah learning], and then you can *shmues* afterwards. It’s like that.
So I say, yeah, this is his *chumash* [chumash: the Five Books of Moses], nothing with me. Okay.
Instructor:
The story is like this. We’re starting *Shemona Perakim* [Shemona Perakim: Maimonides’ “Eight Chapters,” introduction to his commentary on Pirkei Avot] and *Perek Dalet* [Perek Dalet: Chapter Four]. Last week or the last two weeks, we’re discussing this thing, interesting thing called choice, sometimes known in Jewish language as *Bechira* [Bechira: free will/choice].
Now, some people thought that there’s no *shaychus* [shaychus: connection/relevance], but I’ll explain the *shaychus*. And then, according to that, I’ll explain some things about this.
Instructor:
The *inyan* [inyan: matter/topic] is like this. We’re trying to understand and also hope that this understanding will help us somehow in reality to see if it does. But we’re trying to understand this framework, the framework of becoming a good person, known as the training of character virtues of *middos* [middos: character traits], which are supposed to lead to the correct actions based on them being their intermediate virtues, intermediate actions, and so on.
Now, when you think about this, there’s several questions, at least two questions, practical questions, not theoretical questions, but practical questions that go under the title of choice. What do I mean?
Instructor:
There’s one question of choice, which we discussed last week, the question of free will, or as I call it, free floating will, which is like a theological, theoretical question, which is nothing to do specifically with this framework of good *middos*, right?
It’s a question on any system that claims to give you the human good, or to explain what is good, and sometimes specifically exhortations, asking you to be good, and promising reward and punishment for being good, for being good or bad. People understand that to be contingent on some kind of free will, or really we should say some kind of responsibility existing between a person and his activities and his good or bad activities, because otherwise we say it’s not his fault, it’s not his responsibility, and therefore there should be no reward and punishment. But besides for that, there should also be no thing called ethics, right? There should be no exhortation or call to being better, because either I’m good or bad, there’s nothing that’s being there.
Student:
Yes, it’s very good.
Instructor:
So that’s what people usually think. And in some sense, chapter 8 in our book talks about that problem. Of course, if you think that this is a question, a theoretical question about free, extreme free will, I call it, or free-floating will versus contrary to determinism, which says that nothing makes a difference, that is a very dumb problem to have, like you say, because maybe that’s all part of it. And in any case, whoever is giving the exhortation doesn’t have free will to change that either. So it doesn’t seem to make any difference.
Also, on the other hand, even if you do have free will, it seems like that doesn’t actually solve the problem, because that kind of free will says that human actions, or at least some of them, the ones that are relevant, because the ones that are relevant are the ones that are said to have free will, are actions that have no reason, because once there’s a reason, then that’s not free will.
And therefore, it seems to me that you can’t really be a good person either. You can just choose things that happen to somehow randomly be good, because a good person, in our sense at least, is someone that makes his goodness make sense, or another more pertinent thing: you can’t give exhortations to becoming good, because that would be giving causes, and if you believe in free will as some kind of absolute thing, then you can’t tell anyone to be good and make them being good by telling them, because what makes them good must be their free choice. Otherwise you took away free will, and then it would be a bad thing for there to be *shaychus* [shaychus: connection/relevance] to the extent that it works. So if that doesn’t work, then it’s useless.
Instructor:
So that whole discussion we went through this last week and also our class yesterday, and also, I guess, a little in the second half of the class, that discussion is not relevant to us at least. It seems to be important, and we’ll get to chapter 8, we’ll try to figure out why the Rambam really thinks that it is a little bit important. I think the Rambam is not really discussing free will versus determinism, he’s discussing some kind of fatalism, some kind of astrological theories. He’s discussing something different, but I can’t talk about that right now because I don’t know enough.
Instructor:
Well, something is relevant right now and right here. This is more important. And there’s two questions primarily that are very important right now. In other words, a question that is precisely because of the way that we explained what the human kinds of goods are.
We explained that the human kinds of what is a good person, a good human being, is someone who has something we call good *middos* [middos: character traits], but there’s something internal. We call it something like he likes or loves or enjoys doing the good actions, which means the intermediate actions. And this is a stable temperament in him, a stable kind of, what do we call it, like disposition, a stable wanting, it doesn’t change or something stable in him. In other words, it’s almost something that causes him always to act that way, or at least most of the time, otherwise it’s not a *middah* [middah: character trait], otherwise it’s just like some random wish or something.
And that is what being a good person consists of. It’s very important to understand that although actions are in some sense primary in the understanding of this, because what makes the *middah* good is if it leads to correct actions, but what actions is not what the goodness of the human being consists of. What the goodness of human being consists of is this more internal thing that we call having good *middos*, or having good character traits or virtues. Those are virtues. Virtues are excellences of the part of the soul that does these kind of actions. Okay? Does that make sense?
Now, because of this exact understanding of what a good human being is, which not everyone shares, precisely because of that, we have some questions of choice. Okay?
Instructor:
And there’s really two questions. And I think they’re somewhat connected one to the other. But there’s two questions. One is a simple practical question, which is the *Tzemach Tzedek* [Tzemach Tzedek: Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneersohn of Lubavitch, 1789-1866] that we quoted, seems to have to do with it, and the other is a deeper question which goes to the structure of what this thing that we call having good *middos* is even.
Instructor:
The first question is that it seems to people often that we don’t have enough control, or easy enough control at least, over what we are in this sense, in the sense of what we like. Many people will say something like this. You can tell me if you think I’m wrong. Many people say something like this.
If you come to Yeshiva and you say to both sides, all of you have to… We want to be good people, right? If you come to Yeshiva, you become better people. Listen to how you’re going to do it. You’re going to read three *blatt Gemara* [blatt Gemara: pages of Talmud] every day and you’re going to come to all the *sedarim* [sedarim: learning sessions] and you’re going to *daven* [daven: pray] three times a day and all these things you’re going to do. People say, okay, we’ll try. Those seem simple.
It seems like you can obviously everyone who this demand is addressed to can do those things. It’s not impossible for most people to learn that amount. It’s not impossible for anyone to come to *shul* [shul: synagogue] three times a day. It’s not impossible to do all these *mitzvos* [mitzvos: commandments]. It’s possible. And of course if you believe it’s impossible because you believe in some theory of deterministic theory then you have a problem maybe, probably not even not really, but it’s possible in our experience. It’s possible we decide to do things like that, I know how to become better. Simple, right?
If I come and tell you, no, this is not enough. That’s all very nice. Maybe you should do it, but not only because of that. A good person is someone who likes to learn. Learning is not a good example. I’m just saying it because everyone here wants to achieve and knows what I’m talking about. Okay? And someone being good is not someone who learns. It’s not enough to learn, you have to like it. That’s what having a *middah* consists of. It’s not enough to be good to your friends, not enough to be nice to your *chaveirim* [chaveirim: friends/companions]. You have to also be the kind of person who is good to his *chaveirim*, which means liking it.
Then people right away say, what? How am I going to do that? How do you become a kind of person? People say things like, I was born this way, or even if you would agree that you’re not stuck with what you were born, people say, okay, but it seems at least very hard. It seems to be weird to talk about choice or free choice in this kind of sense. It’s like you have free choice. It’s a very complicated process. Maybe it’s not even guaranteed to work. It seems to be a very difficult thing.
Instructor:
Even more, I’ll just have to make it clear. This is even more difficult than if I would say people have a problem. How could there be a *mitzvah* [mitzvah: commandment] on feelings, right? You should love God. You should love your neighbor. You should not hate him in your heart. Things like that. People say, what do you mean? What if I do? That’s a small problem relative to this problem. Because you could have access. You could. You have control of your heart a little more than you think, probably.
And anyways, the simple reading of these kind of *mitzvos* is something like, don’t hate them in your heart. You know what it means? It means don’t be the kind of person who smiles to people, but really plans their demise, plans how to denigrate them, to bring them under. That’s what to bring them down, that’s what this is, who that means. Now do you have control over that? Yeah, you do, because I’m like I say, talk about planning. If I talk about feeling in some feeling sense, and so that’s what it means.
Instructor: Things like that. People say, what do you mean? What if I do? That’s a small problem relative to this problem, right? Because you could have access, you could, you have control of your heart a little more than you think, probably. And anyways, the simple reading of these kinds of mitzvos [commandments] is something like, don’t hate him in your heart, you know, right? You know what it means? It means don’t be the kind of person who smiles to people, but really plans their demise, plans how to integrate them, how you say that in Yiddish, to bury them, to bring them under. That’s what, to bring them down, that’s what l’shech l’zach means.
Now, do you have control over that? Yeah, you do. Like I say, I’m talking about planning, I’m not talking about feeling in some feeling sense. Why do you say l’shech l’zach? That’s what it means, that’s one solution. That’s one solution to the problem. But what it means is that that’s one solution, one solution for that kind of problem. That’s not only what it means. It’s not if you’re selling the value, it doesn’t make it better really. That’s not the point. That’s just one solution. But I’m not saying a shira [song/solution]. I’m just trying to show you that’s actually a simple thing relatively.
The same thing that really means something like, don’t hate God, but come to Shul anyways. Anyways. Understand? But, now I’m demanding something a lot more than that.
Student: Well, it’s kind of the same thing. It leads to it, right? So, it says, and don’t be so nice to the fifth either, right?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, that’s what I’m saying. It’s not like about getting you to here. It immediately follows up into what we’re proposing, right?
Student: Which is?
Instructor: That you should like to be good to them.
Student: Not really, no. Because it’s talking about a specific kind of problem where people are hypocrites.
Instructor: He’s not talking about the kind of problem that we have.
Student: How would you address this hypocrite? Not by changing what he’s doing to them?
Instructor: No, like you said, there might be ways to change it. Or just think, don’t be that.
Student: How do you change it?
Instructor: It’s not here to do discussions. But it’s not making a demand on what kind of person you are. That’s not what it’s about. If I give you a demand, you should be that kind of person, which, like you said, it’s a long-term thing. You can’t have a middah [character trait] once. You can’t have a middah one day. It has to be, you have to become, be this kind of person and who loves the right things and hates the right things and is angry in the right amount and things like that for the right reasons and the right times.
And all of that, that seems to be a more, we could say, internal or even less controllable in the sense that we usually think of control. I have control over my hand, but do I have control over what I am, over the type of guy I am? That sounds extreme. Make sense, my question?
Instructor: And this is why this concept of tichinamidus [character development] seems to at least need some explanation of how it’s going to happen. And even now, this is one thing in the explanation, right? How it’s going to happen, practically. So that’s why I said there’s a practical question. Of course, there’s a practical answer. You people already know what the practical answer is.
But it also then needs a somewhat theoretical explanation of how, by that whole practical process, by we can tell you, okay, I’ll tell you, you have a problem, how you become this kind of guy, right? If I tell you it’s not enough to learn, you have to be a masmid [diligent learner]. Okay, how do you become a masmid? Secret answer. The answer is by learning. You learn enough until you become a masmid. And then you won’t have to learn anymore. You’ll just learn it somewhat, so to speak, automatically, which is another problem that we’ll see, right? But let’s talk first about the first thing, because it’s not automatic. If it’s automatic, it’s a problem.
Instructor: All right, let’s say even we say this, now there’s still a problem, because it still seems like being the kind of person who likes to learn and therefore learning is not something by choice. You could say, okay, I made the choice to learn every day for five minutes and then I became the kind of guy who likes to learn five minutes every day. Okay, so I might you might say something like you deserve schar [reward] or I deserve praise or I am being a good person right this is really what I’m saying I’m being a good person by doing those like those actions but in what way am I being a good person and everyone understands that being a good person has a condition which is choice because anything this we went through last week very clearly right anything that is forced or even anything that’s not by choice even if it’s not forced, doesn’t count towards being a good person.
So, one necessary condition of something being a good action, something being good as a good person, is that it’s by choice. And if you have an understanding of a good person, which is something very far from what we usually call things that are by choice, like atomic actions, which seems to be where choice and will exist, then it seems to be hard to explain why is that even good. Why is that where we place the goodness of a human being?
Student: Just to clarify, are you trying to say that basically there’s no difference if it’s like a genetic thing, or you practiced until you got there? Ultimately, at this point, you’re just a guide, so it’s not something that’s of your choice.
Instructor: Yeah, it wouldn’t be that interesting. It wouldn’t be any different at this point. Yeah, you would have the same kind of problem. In other words, if you understand that the guy that already learns is doing it automatically, not by choice, and like you’re saying it’s so analogous to someone that would be born that way, maybe he gets credit for yesterday but for today he doesn’t get any credit. And that seems weird because we just told you our whole story was that this is the state of being the kind of good person and therefore doing good things is the good state, is the ideal state, not the state of getting to there, right? Because that would prioritize being a someone who self-control person, which the first stage is basically, over a virtuous person, which we’re not claiming.
Student: I think that’s where your whole thing about people who have much of an option to be the ideal, they obviously respect people who, that’s not what they’re doing.
Instructor: Who are not much of an option?
Student: Yeah, that’s not what they’re doing. They enjoy learning, let’s say, for example.
Instructor: Yeah. Obviously, they’re an ideal person. They’re under no illusion that he’s fighting himself.
Student: I’m not sure. People claim, again, you’re asking about under illusion. The person sleeps up to the wee hours of the night and pushes until it’s a matter of…
Instructor: Yeah, our theory is that, I agree with you, that this thought that being a good person consists of liking the good is what normal people think. But if you think of, I don’t think anyone, I don’t really think anyone disagrees with that, that that’s what everyone thinks. We also praise people for liking the right things. Not only for doing the right things, like the story of Moshe being a ganav [thief], right? We don’t really believe in that story. Everyone believes that it’s better to be a good person than to be a bad person who does good things.
Student: I have a good story that brings up the Shikl Stira [apparent contradiction] that Shulberman walked into this marriage on this long summer Shabbos and said don’t look at his schar [reward], it’s like why not, right, that’s the question.
Instructor: So now, but you understand my question about choice. There’s both a practical question of like, what do you mean when you tell me that this is what I have to be, this is exactly the thing that I have less direct control all over, that’s one question. And even if you like answer the question by giving me the practical recipe which you all know, it still needs to be explained why precisely the second stage is the one we praise and not the first stage, right?
And if you understand that one important ingredient of praise of what a good person is, that is by choice, right? That’s like necessary. If something is not by choice, then it’s not interesting, ethically. That’s the question. That is a very good question. Make sense? It’s a good question.
Student: Is it a good question?
Instructor: I think it’s a good question. So, you must have asked a good question. Very good.
Instructor: So, I think that in order to answer this question, we need to ask a different question, which is, what is this choice thing even? What are we looking for when we’re looking for something that is by choice? If we understand very clearly what is this thing that we’re looking for, that we’re looking for choice, which is the thing that makes human activities ethically relevant or praiseable and damnable you know then we’ll understand why it will understand in a way that makes this kind of being a more choice like more chosen and another kind of being then will understand what we’re talking about that makes sense the guy that likes to do what what does he like you to do it as a product of choice.
Student: Yes.
Instructor: So we could we could try to do with exactly this I’ll try we try to do exactly this and talk a little bit about this and maybe we won’t entirely finish this all the way to the end and hardly solve this question there might be simple things to solve this question I want to…
Student: Maybe, I don’t know. I don’t know anything about the Avos [Patriarchs]. I’m trying to talk about the thing. I don’t know.
Instructor: No, I don’t know. I don’t know.
Student: That the Avos weren’t… They didn’t have the Yetzer Hara [evil inclination].
Instructor: No.
Student: So the more you get the schar [reward], the more you get the Yetzer Hara.
Instructor: And what is the Yetzer Hara?
Student: The Yetzer Hara said that they got to such a stage.
Instructor: Okay.
Student: That they worked themselves up to such a place that they didn’t have the Yetzer Hara.
Instructor: I don’t think that’s the answer. I’m not happy with that answer. I’ll just explain to you why that’s not a good answer. It might be the same problem, but I’ll just explain to you why that answer is not a complete answer.
Instructor: So I need to try to think what this thing that we call choice is. Very important discussion. I’m going to just repeat the whole stupid toirah [teaching] from Avani Aristotle that tries to explain what choice is, or first explain what it’s not. Then maybe we’ll be able to get to this.
Now, number one is like this, there’s something called will, like, I think this maps very well to what we call Ratzon [will] versus Ones [compulsion] in Halakha [Jewish law].
Instructor: So I need to try to think what this thing that we call choice is, okay? Very important discussion. I’m going to just repeat the whole stupid toilet from Avani and Aristotle that tries to explain what choice is, or first explain what it’s not, and then maybe we’ll be able to get to this.
Now number one is like this, there’s something called will, like I think this maps very well what we call ratzon [will/desire] versus ones [force/compulsion] in halacha [Jewish law]. That is one kind of thing. Everyone understands that something that’s by ones, or even b’shogeg [through inadvertence/ignorance], which is some sort of a species of ones in this context, is not morally relevant, not ethically relevant.
What is the opposite of ratzon? Something that either done by force, done by force meaning something that was done to you by someone else, right? Instead of you doing it. This is an important definition. There’s differences that this definition makes that I’m not going to get into. But some, for example, like the extreme example, if someone pushed someone through you onto someone else and hurt them, you say, I didn’t do it at all. Someone did it with me, right? That’s by force. There’s more complicated cases where you’re like, somewhat you did a part of it and the other person did a different part. Okay, that’s called force. That’s not relevant.
There’s another kind of non-will which is called ignorance, right? That’s what we call shogeg usually in halacha. The difference between shogeg and ones is basically the difference between force and ignorance, right? Two ways of how you’re not responsible because you’re lacking will. It’s not a willing action, right?
Shogeg means either I didn’t know what this thing is, right? If I threw a rock at someone, I didn’t know that it’s metal and it’s going to kill him. That’s one kind of shogeg. Another kind of shogeg is I didn’t know the law, which Aristotle doesn’t think is a good shogeg ever, ever, where I forgot.
Student: What?
Instructor: It holds like this, right.
Student: It’s not clear that halacha disagrees.
Instructor: It’s shinkastin with Elizabeth, so we have to think of when that applies. Or, if I didn’t know that it’s the Shabbos [the Sabbath], things like that, those are another kind of shogeg.
Student: Yeah, but there’s some kind of responsibility there, because you have to bring a chatas [sin offering], so obviously there’s some type of responsibility.
Instructor: Very good, very good. But in some, it depends. That’s why there’s shogeg. If you should have known, the shogeg in which you’re responsible is when you have a matter of responsibility where you could have known. Whenever you couldn’t have known, that’s called literally an ones.
All the shogeg that are chayav chatos [obligated in a sin offering] are the ones where you should have known. You should have been more careful. Like, there’s two kinds of shogeg. There’s a shogeg where you didn’t know, and there’s also a shogeg where it’s like you didn’t… It’s also a kind of didn’t know, but something like you didn’t calculate… You forgot that it’s Shabbos.
Student: Right.
Instructor: You should have not forgot that it’s Shabbos. You did not forget that it’s Shabbos. Therefore, if it’s a case where you couldn’t… There was absolutely no way that you’re not considered a shogeg, you could be even found an ones.
I’m just telling you basic definitions to move on from this. Now, there’s something very… That’s the t’nai [condition] of ratzon, the t’nai of being willing. We understand this, okay? The law, for example, is very interested in this definition. Halacha is interested in this one.
Now, something very important. Choice is something more than willing. Something very interesting. When we say… When we say… Now, you understand? Something very important. When we say, in order for an action or a kind of thing a person is, which we’re trying to get to, is to be ethically relevant, we need choice. We have to understand that what we mean is something more than being willing versus being an ones.
What is my ra’ayah [proof]? I have two ra’ayahs. Okay? One is a katan [minor/child] and the second is a mitasek [one who acts without deliberation]. These are our exact ra’ayahs also. I just gave it to you in Hebrew. Okay?
A katan has, obviously, does things willingly. I’m not talking about l’egiyah l’khenach [passive movement] or something like that with a one-year-old baby. Anyone that has children, they obviously do things willingly. There is no question about that. But no system of law punishes children up to a certain age. We can argue on the limits of this. But everyone understands that children, what they do, don’t count legally, don’t count ethically in some sense.
Another example is something called mitasek.
Student: Why is that?
Instructor: Wait, I’ll try to explain. I’m just showing you that will is not enough. When we say choice we mean something beyond will. It’s not the same thing.
Another example.
Student: Yeah, but I can give you an example of a child, right, that sticks his hand in the oven, but that comes from ignorance.
Instructor: Exactly.
Student: The second time.
Instructor: Exactly, exactly. But when a child does a good or a bad thing, he chose to do it in the sense of having will. You can’t say he was forced. Nobody thinks that children are forced. Even animals, by the way, probably do things willingly in that sense. At least Aristotle thinks so. Aristotle, animals can do or not do things. Nobody is forcing them to do many of the things they do so they have will yes of course they do and then like again a dog not a I don’t know some bugs.
Student: How do they have will? It’s ignorance.
Instructor: They don’t need ignorance. They’re not ignorant. They know a dog knows where he’s going and he decides to go there or not there. Not ignorant of the things that are relevant to him. He might be ignorant in the moral sense because he doesn’t know there’s something as law, but that would be, that’s another level ignorance. I’m talking ignorance in the sense of I don’t, usually that’s the main like primary example of ignorance here is that you don’t know what you’re doing. You don’t know the object or you don’t know like, I didn’t know that my car was on when I ate, something like that, right? And dogs have that.
Okay, so children or animals have will. And it’s not enough.
Another thing which is also easy to see is something, I think something we call halacha mitasek, doing things in some kind of, the translators call it the spur of the moment things. Reflexive is not a good definition for that I think. So it’s different. Something is something I just I don’t know I just moved that cup there. I didn’t choose to do it.
I’ll give you my example, good sometimes better examples but then it gets complicated. I’m trying to try to get to the intuition here. If I, if you come into this room because I spent a few hours trying to figure out what a good example to clarify this. If you go this room and you ask me, why is there this chandelier in it? I will tell you I chose it. If you come and ask me, why is that paper vertically and not horizontally? If I tell you I chose it, that sounds very weird. I put it there, nobody forced me to put it there in that way. I was the one that put it in that exact way. But me telling you that I chose it would sound weird. Why would it sound weird? It’s missing something. This word choice means something beyond.
Student: Intentionality?
Instructor: Some kind of intentionality.
Student: Some kind of, I could tell you a few things.
Student: For a purpose.
Instructor: Some kind of purpose. Missing some reason. Like, in other words, choice means a reason. Choice means a reason. There’s a reason I chose this, because I thought it will match the rest of the room. There’s the brown and the white and whatever. Something. And it wasn’t too expensive or too cheap. I could give you an account. I can give you a theory.
Not every choice might be that elaborate. But there’s some, I could give you at least three words of what this would mean. At least, like you said, there’s an intention and means something. It’s towards something. There’s a goal. I need to have a nice room. Therefore, I put this chandelier. There was some kind of deliberation in it. Like, I looked at the 30 different chandeliers that have it on people and I chose the nicest one or whatever. And there is some kind of reasoning in it, right? Why did I choose this? It makes sense. I might be wrong. It’s not something like an intellectual thing. It’s different than…
It’s different than, like, I give you a proof, why do you believe the drama meant this? I’ll give you a proof. I can’t give you a proof for why I chose it. Proof is the wrong category, or argument in the intellectual philosophical sense is the wrong argument. But reasons are correct. There is a reason. And I might have even discussed it with other people. Afterwards, I made a choice. There’s, like, a consultation going on. I asked my wife, what do you think? I asked this guy, what do you think? There is something going on.
Versus when you ask me, why is that paper that way? I can’t blame anyone else. Like in some sense legally if there’d been a violent doing that I’ll say I don’t know I wasn’t thinking.
Student: Well why aren’t you thinking?
Instructor: That wouldn’t, it wouldn’t absolve me from doing some, it would be good and bad in the legal sense probably sometimes it would, right? But we have the difference between like premeditated things and non-premeditated things. But so maybe it would make it like it turn into second-degree for some things for some. Something makes a difference, but it’s definitely not choice.
In other words, now you can see something very simple already from this example. Why would this be more relevant to the kind of morality I care about? I’m trying to discuss, to explain to you. It would be more relevant precisely because we say that a good person and good activities is not good. We say something interesting, right?
We say something that there could be the same action that can be good, done by a good person, and the bad person can do good things and it doesn’t make him good, right? The right, the self-controlled person, the person who’s under self-control and the good person both do the exact same things. Like the beinoni [intermediate person] and the tzaddik [righteous person] in the Tanya [foundational Chabad text], they both do the exact same actions. That’s just that I don’t know why you’re so confused about explaining it. And they both do the same exact thing but one is a good person and the other one is a person who’s doing good activities. He’s acting as if he’s a good person but he’s not a good person, right?
Now what we mean to say, what do we mean to say about that? That there’s something in the way, there might be also different, but there’s something in which when the good person does it it’s expressive of the kind of person he is. When the bad person does it it’s not expressive of what it is. So this is different. He did it by self-control not by what he is, right? The reason, in other words there’s different reasons for doing it. When a bad person does a good thing he’s doing it because he thinks that it’s good and there’s self-control and so on. When a good person does it, it’s expressive of what he is already, right? Because I’m the kind of person that does these kinds of things.
What am I telling you here? Now you can already see and I think that I jumped a little bit of a step but you can already see that when I tell the things, what is the difference from things that are done choice and that things are merely done willingly? At least one of the things is that if I tell you okay I chose this, then you know I’m the kind of guy that likes this kind of thing. This is my idea of beauty has something to do with this or my idea of what the purpose of this…
Student: It reflects something about me versus how that piece of paper is put down on the desk doesn’t say anything about me unless you say it says that I’m messy or something very general. It doesn’t say anything particular to this action about me. I’m messy, or then it goes back—that’s why I tried to get away—then it goes back, a question: if it’s automatic, does it come from some character trait that I have, right? It doesn’t really come from anything, some difference that’s entirely arbitrary. Can’t blame anyone else, but it doesn’t say anything else about me.
So now, yeah. Just going back to the kids thing, is that what you’re saying, the kids don’t have intentionality?
Instructor: Yeah, kids. So this, I’ll finish, I’m just going to finish one thing.
So now, when we say that choice is necessary for things to be relevant morally, if you think about it in this way, you’ll realize right away from thinking the difference between willing and choice, you’ll see that what we need is not that there’s something that wasn’t forced, that something else did that. It’s not enough. Because I showed you from these examples, what we mean by that is something—and also not, obviously, the problem of determinism, which would just be a thing that everyone is always forced because nobody ever does anything because the principle is not in him. He’s not the beginning of that action.
But what we’re looking for is a specific way in which an activity is mine. There’s some ba’alus [ownership/responsibility], some ownership of the thing, which is why we’re looking for this thing called choice.
This is why it’s very obvious, right? Everyone understands that we have this category of premeditation, and we have, in law it’s very important to talk about intention—did the person plan it? And we can do something like character witnesses, which show what kind of person is, would he have planned it or something like that. Or even if he did it just out of anger, that doesn’t show so much. That isn’t somehow less bad.
Why is it less bad? It’s only less bad because we understand that what choice is, what makes actions belonging to a human being, is precisely that they come out of the kind of thing he is, the kind of person he is. Does this make sense?
And this is an entirely different definition of why choice is even important in ethics or in judgment—not only important to negate problems of someone else did it. It was important to negate the question: did he do it because of what he is, or did he just do it for some other reason, or for no reason? If you do something for a reason and part of the reason is what you are, then it’s something that shows what you are.
Student: Do we not want to—in this, just to maybe split it out into maybe this is a third category—but we’re not looking for exclusively actions that follow from rational deliberation, right? We’re looking for things that follow from character that was a product of rational deliberation?
Instructor: Well, we’re going to get to that problem. That’s more complicated. The kind of character is not something distinct from rational deliberation, some kind of reason.
Student: So far this sounds very circular to me. In other words, where does it start from? The chicken or the egg, right? When I start doing something, anytime I start doing something, what type of person am I?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, I’m talking about after.
Student: And then it turns me into that, whatever type of person. It’s circular.
Instructor: That’s not the problem. We’re talking about—I’m just telling you the ideal. The fact that it’s circular, that’s agreed.
Student: No, you’re saying that it tells me what type of person I am.
Instructor: Yes.
Student: So what is that? I thought action makes me a person.
Instructor: That’s true. But we’re saying that the ideal action—I’m just talking about how the ideal action is the one where you’re already a kind of person and you’re doing good things because you’re that kind of person. Not before that. There’s three stages in every—that’s the practical sense.
Student: But I can never do anything without—
Instructor: No, you could. When you’re doing something because you’re forced—
Student: No, that’s not true. Nobody is forced to do anything.
Instructor: And especially it’s obviously possible to do things against your own choice. We have to talk about this. It’s also possible to do things against what you think is good or against what you feel is good. At least that’s how practice works, right? Practice means—there’s not—I didn’t say ever that everything we do comes out of what we are. The opposite.
But those would be the less chosen actions, or the actions less connected to your choice. What you are doesn’t force you to do anything ever. There isn’t even such a thing as what you are in that sense.
This is something that we have to understand a lot better. When we say something like people have character traits, those are not force powers. They’re not energies that force you to do things.
What they are is precisely something choosy—I don’t know how you say that—something that has the attribute of choice. It’s actually what they are is almost a choice, choice plus something else, plus actually liking it. But that’s your liking isn’t aligned with your choice, but not habit—habit not in an automatic way.
All the habits that we’re ever talking about are not something that should be understood as an automatic thing. The only thing that is automatic—that it doesn’t mean you don’t become an automatic thing. This is another important thing. I’m again jumping around, I’m just jumping around.
But you should be very clear that when we say that a good person is someone that has good habits, we do not mean that he’s a person that does things without thinking. It’s almost the opposite. He does everything with thinking.
Student: Are you saying this is where the intentionality comes in?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah.
Student: How does that tie in with what you were saying before about having intention or purpose or whatever?
Instructor: Yes, because intention means I’m doing something for a reason.
So you want it to be two things. You want it to be you with a purpose or intention? “You” just means, you in the simple sense, in the willing sense, is just: I did it, not someone else.
But “you” in the more complex sense is: I did it because of me. Because of me understanding this to be a good thing, which is the kind of person I am. I see the good in certain things. I see how this is good. I’m trained to understand how to act in certain cases. That’s what we mean when we say choice.
Student: But also you’re doing it because it’s what you do.
Instructor: That’s what exactly doing, because it’s what I do, is what it means doing it because I chose it. That’s what choice consists of.
Student: That’s what I’m asking, I guess, your question also.
Instructor: There’s not—choice is not something—this is precisely what we’re trying to get to here. We could talk—trying to think if I—my four things here.
The choice is not something contrary to doing things automatically. There isn’t really—the understanding that we have here of habit is not really doing things automatically. There is not such an understanding. Maybe they think that it’s not the correct description of the things we call that way.
When we say, I explained to you, the reason why we’re interested in choice is not only because choice is distinct from willing. What’s interesting in choice is because we’re interested in things done that the person did, unlike something that just—they are not expressive of what he is.
Now the kinds of thoughts, the kinds of reasons that people have are a lot more expressive of what they are than their choices when they don’t have good reasons or their choices when they don’t like what they’re doing. This would be two different levels, but in any case.
When I say he is the kind of guy that he likes, that he makes—he’s a murderer, right? He planned the murder. And he planned the murder because to him, murder is good. Murder seems good to him. That makes the action a worse kind of action and shows that he’s a worse kind of person than when we say someone murdered someone because he was angry in the moment or just for no reason.
The kind of reasons, the kind of reasons that people have, the kind of intentions they have—which are intentions that are just aiming towards a reason, aiming towards a goal that you have—the kind of reasons that people have is precisely expressed through what kind of people they are. There isn’t two things: the giving reasons and being a kind of person.
Student: I’m still confused. There’s two things going on. There’s the fact that you want it to be a habit, but also you want it to be a habit that isn’t just automatic. I don’t know. I don’t think that really. At a certain time every day, just automatic, not thinking.
Instructor: Those are precisely the things that I just said that we don’t call choice. The paper sideways or—
And again, choice doesn’t have to be every day. That’s another question.
Student: Even though it’s a habit, it’s still not a choice, basically.
Instructor: Well, only in—I don’t think we have to judge activity one by one. We could say, that’s another thing, as I said, if we can jump all the way there and talk about that.
There’s no reason, because the whole—when we’re talking about judging a person as the kind of person he is, right, we’re going to tell his whole life story, at least a long story. We’re not going to ask about every action. That’s the wrong framing or the wrong—
Student: But what do you think, a person goes out for a cigarette every day at noon?
Instructor: Right. But again, let’s talk about something more simple, right?
Can you go back to my example of choosing the kind of something that would make sense to say I chose? You see that this, what?
Student: Stopping to smoke a cigarette.
Instructor: What’s interesting—no, I’m trying to get something. What’s interesting about me saying I chose to buy this chandelier is not that I could have not bought it. There’s something a lot—that’s obviously true, but there’s something a lot more interesting in saying that.
It’s that I chose in the sense that I checked into it, I looked into it, I found the right one, I have my reasons for doing that. And this whole story is what makes my choice of buying a chandelier interesting in a human way, in a way that is, I say, is expressive or has something to do with—
Instructor: I could not have done otherwise. It’s the opposite. If I make a decision, assuming that this is something I can express—that example is not a really ethical example—but assuming that, if you imagine it as an ethical thing, and we say, I made this choice because I have a correct… You could use aesthetics as a place of ethics, right? Because I have the correct vision of beauty, I understand how proportionate things have to be and which colors they have to be and so on. That’s why saying that it’s my choice is interesting. That’s why it makes it part of me. It makes it something that I did, right?
It’s actually not true that I could have done differently. It’s almost the opposite. I couldn’t have done differently. I couldn’t have chosen differently. I could have been forced to do something differently. I could have not chosen differently. If I would do differently, it would be not by choice, because my choice is precisely what comes out of my understanding of how things should be.
Instructor: If I would have bought an ugly chandelier—assuming that I’m the guy that understands this, right—if I bought an ugly one, you would say, “Well, he didn’t choose it.” For example, right? I’ll tell the same example. If you come here and you see, “Well, why is there that ugly thing?” And I say, “Why? I didn’t choose that. Don’t blame me for it. I didn’t choose it. It’s there by necessity because the air conditioner was there before and we didn’t have the ability to move it.” So therefore, right, you see how that absolves me?
That doesn’t mean I don’t have responsibility. Also doesn’t mean I couldn’t have done differently. I could have done differently, but it doesn’t express my choice. It’s not a choice that I made. Choice is a very positive thing and it’s not the same thing as “he could have done otherwise.” It’s almost the opposite of “he could have done otherwise.” He almost couldn’t have done otherwise. Of course, if he entirely could have done otherwise, it’s more complicated than this, but almost.
Instructor: Did this help us split these two things? Somewhat. They’re still there. They’re closely connected. Nobody’s arguing. I just have to show you the difference, right? So I just—I want to—it has to follow. What takes place has to follow by virtue of your human participation, human kind of decision, which is by reasons and by understanding of what is good and things like that. So when you develop some *middah* [character trait] or something like that, what we’re saying is that you’re going to do that, but when you do that, it reflects the choice. That’s the point.
Instructor: A *middah* always, all *middot*, this has to do with another class that we did, probably—all *middot* consist almost of, or at least require, something called practical judgment, *phronesis* [Greek: practical wisdom], practical wisdom. A *middah* is not—that’s why we have to keep on getting out of this model that we have. A *middah* has kind of energies that push you to do things. There’s no inkling of that. Having a correct *middah*, it means something like having a good—something, the closest knowledge that I have that people know what it is, means something like having a good aesthetic judgment. I mean, I have an eye for the correct activity, the correct action.
Instructor: And even very clearly, you can see very clearly what—no, it’s not true. You can see very clearly how there’s something active all the time. It’s not—someone, right, if you think of this analogy, right? Someone—there’s a person that has a good eye for beauty, right? When he judges something as beautiful, it’s true that he judges this from something you could call it energy if you really want, but it’s not the way that people would understand. It’s true that he was trained to be able to have this. This is not something he was born with, or maybe not necessarily born with. He trained himself by making a bunch of judgments and accepting criticism and however it is that you get trained into having a good eye for beauty. But it’s not the eye that he has sort of pushing him to have that judgment. It’s a judgment that he has right now.
Student: Even habits in this sense then can follow because they’re informed by an ethical perception of a certain…
Instructor: You could see how they’re ethically informed, even if they’re habitually carried out.
Student: Habits are not habitually carried out?
Instructor: Because I have the evaluative—because there’s always—because, not that’s what you’re doing, right? Because, yeah, every habit that we think of is something like, here’s a person that only gets mad in the right times, right? This means something like he has a good eye for identifying the times in which you should be getting angry. It doesn’t mean—it’s very important that all *middot* acquire *phronesis*. It doesn’t mean his boiler of anger is calibrated correctly in his soul. That whole story is a fantasy that you were taught by Disney, I don’t know who. It doesn’t exist. This is like my first class on ethics. People keep on going back to that for some reason. I don’t know why people like that image, like that understanding. There’s no reason to think of it.
Student: I think it’s how informed, how ethically informed your activities are, even if they’re repeated. They’re repeated, but they’re actively repeated. They’re not passively repeated. It follows from an ethical understanding.
Instructor: Yeah, or a perception almost.
Student: Yes.
Instructor: Because that partially answers the question, right? Things can become easier in a certain sense, but it’s still—right, like I’m a very good painter. You have to understand the habit like this. Word “habit” is extremely confusing for the correct understanding. If the habit is more like, I’m a very good painter, I can habitually paint a beautiful art. I don’t have to think about it. I just come in the morning to a studio and I take out a paint and it’s painted in five minutes. Nobody would say that that means it wasn’t done with skill, right? Skill is art knowledge. Nobody would say, “Well, he’s not really doing it. It’s just his habit doing it.” It doesn’t even make sense. And then it’s the opposite. The more he has the habit, the better artist he is, not the worse artist he is. Then it’s more relevant to praise him for being a good artist.
Of course, you could say there wasn’t a challenge in it. I’m not saying that it’s more—in some sense, if he has a challenging thing, then he’s going to express even more of his art, because now there’s a complicated case. He has to express more of his knowledge of how exactly to paint something. But there’s no way it’s going to be looking like a three-year-old *mishka* [scribble/mess]. It’s not automatic.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: Exactly, but it’s never automatic in the sense that you’re imagining the whole time. And actually, if I—you know people, nobody ever—I don’t know, I don’t even know where people got this idea, now that I’m thinking of this. Where did you get the idea that people have automatic *middot*? Why? What are you people even talking about? The *oved* [one who serves/works] went automatically, what does this even mean? What’s automatic in the sense of—I mean, you could talk about automatic in things that are actually not ethical, like I have a certain tick, like whenever I wake up, I push my ear that way. That’s not relevant. There’s no good or bad in that. That’s something with no thought. But anything that’s ethically relevant, you really have an example of one that’s automatic in any real way?
Student: He’s a *masmid* [diligent scholar], they learned everything.
Instructor: Okay, well in what sense is that automatic? Seems like a very funny description of something. You got what I’m saying?
Student: No, I could—because what is following, like what you said, yeah, without like it going through his clear *hergel* [habit] or his *koach* [power/faculty], his *middas ha-modeh ha-emes* [the character trait of acknowledging truth]?
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: No, meaning, where does that come from?
Instructor: Yeah, I don’t know. Is that so hard to imagine?
Student: To bypass his so-called faculty of choice or his faculty of whatever faculty it is that determines this?
Instructor: Is it so hard to imagine? It doesn’t make sense because *modeh ha-emes* means that I know—doesn’t mean—just to be clear, this has to do with *derech mitzvah* [the way of commandments], right? If *modeh ha-emes* would mean something like I’m like a machine, you press a button and I tell you everything I’m thinking, then you would be correct. But since there’s no *middah* that’s like that, right?
Student: No, but there are levels of intentionality you could have, for example, not for the *middah*, not for an intermediate, right?
Instructor: No, no, no, even if it’s intermediate. For example, if it’s not governed by the rationality of the thing itself but by something else. So as someone tells me every morning when you come in, do this.
Student: Yeah, but that’s not an ethical habit.
Instructor: There’s nothing intermediate about that, right? The intermediate requires knowledge, always requires judgment.
Student: But it’s automatic.
Instructor: Automatic in what way?
Student: Automatic in the sense that—
Instructor: No, waking up at a certain time is not—it doesn’t follow from rational deliberation in any sense.
Student: Oh, it does, but I do it repeatedly.
Instructor: It does, because you need to know when it’s the right time. How do you know when it’s the right time?
Student: Yeah, yeah, so I’m saying it’s…
Instructor: You may have to do it without looking at the clock?
Student: Right, right, so let me…
Instructor: Or maybe you have an internal clock. That doesn’t change anything.
Student: One second, so is there a difference between the person who comes in and hits the light switch every morning because he was told, “By the way, every morning when you come in, hit the light switch,” and the person who turns on the light every day because he wants there to be light in the building?
Instructor: No, I don’t see the difference.
Student: Okay, there’s no difference.
Instructor: The person who turns on the light every day is because he wants there to be light in the building.
Student: No, no, no, let’s say, for example, he’s…
Instructor: If he’s—no, of course, in some sense he’d be operating like a machine. Someone could tell him, “Hey, your job, you know, I’m paying you ten dollars a day to get this.” Rich people can be told to act like machines for other people. Then they’re not agents. Then they’re not ethical agents. Then they’re just *karka olam* [ground of the world; inert matter].
Student: This idea that things—
Instructor: Yeah, but this idea that things can’t be done—you know, nobody would call that a choice, a hundred percent. But it does mean that things can be done automatically without participation.
Student: Oh, that’s complicated.
Instructor: Only in a relative sense. I’m not saying—but what I’m saying is that there are degrees.
Student: Yeah, but it’s not very interesting.
Instructor: Just to be clear, that’s why the “just following orders” excuse doesn’t work very well, ethically.
Instructor: This idea that things can’t be done 100%, but it does mean that things can be done automatically without participation in rational deliberation. Oh, that’s complicated, only in a relative sense. I’m not saying it’s not in a relative sense, but I’m saying it’s that there are degrees.
Student: Yeah, but it’s not very interesting, just to be clear.
Instructor: That’s why the “just following orders” excuse doesn’t work very well. Ethically, it doesn’t work very well, precisely because no action that’s relevant—again, the only extreme case is something like where I throw you onto someone, then I’m really using you as a tool—but everything besides that is going to go through your rational or emotional, even, whatever you want to call it. It doesn’t have to be rational. Again, everything we say rationally, we don’t mean reason in the kind of reason that learns to use. We mean the kind of reason that knows that if you want to go through the door, you have to open the door.
Student: Right, right.
Instructor: There isn’t a possibility for a human being to do that without that, and even in a sense without whatever kind of ethical judgment he has, because people don’t only do things because they think they’re correct. We have to get to this and more. I’m not going to finish it today—what time is it?—but I have to go through his four things that choice is. I’ll see a bunch of nice things.
But to conclude this point: you would, firstly, you would not be able to do anything without some kind of perception at least, which is a kind of judgment. So again, you could say I made a mistake, I have some habit that caused me to perceive things wrongly, and so on, but there’s something there. And also not really possible to go through some kind of choice, because, again, choice in the sense of the deliberative choice, this kind of thing where I aim towards something because I think it’s good.
Now, I might not have two sides, I might not have thought about it for a very long time—all of these things we could talk about, like degrees of choice. I agree. But you can’t really have anything that’s, again, anything that’s ethically relevant. That’s relevant. Now, ethically relevant is another way of saying something that is done through this, how we call it, the desiring soul, right? The part of the soul that wants things. Now, the part of the soul that wants things works by identifying what it thinks is good and doing those things. How are we going to do without that 100%?
The only thing that I would say is, and where I do think it’s interesting, is that by understanding, let’s say, what you’re doing better and improving your understanding of what you’re doing, in some sense you change a little bit, even if you’re doing the same thing. I think eventually you’re not doing the same thing.
Student: Right, right.
Instructor: You’re not doing the same thing 100%, but not doing the same thing because there’s many descriptions of the same thing, and human activities have to do with those descriptions just as they have to do with the physical activity.
Student: Right, right.
Instructor: I’m just saying, because something can be automatic only shows that you have a minimum sense of—I don’t know which things are automatic. What does that mean? Tell me one automatic thing.
Student: So I wouldn’t call it automatic. I would say that there are some actions that follow from a much smaller narrative, right? For example, this is what I do so that someone doesn’t yell at me.
Instructor: Okay, so you could call it something like…
Student: Or not even this way: this is what I do because it works.
Instructor: It’s not automatic. It’s not interesting to say it’s automatic. What’s interesting is to say that you’re only following orders. So the real—in other words, if you want to judge this person, you could say something like… Even that I think is not true.
Student: No, I give you a dumb example for this, right? So if you have a program, right, there’s two typically—there’s different ways you can use it, right? But some people understand, “Hey, I click here and I click here and nobody—and everything works,” right? And then there’s a person who actually understands the mechanical function of that program and does this. They both do it habitually, right?
Instructor: I’m not sure what you mean by habitually. That’s what I’m confused about.
Student: Meaning, both of it follows from some sort of rational deliberation, but the way in which they’re doing that habitually is different. One is doing it habitually because they’re producing a certain outcome every time, and another one is doing it because they follow a specific procedure every time.
Instructor: Yeah, I’m not sure I understand, because they might be doing different things—the same people doing the same… Just to be clear, people doing the same physical thing might still be doing different things, right? In the ethical sense, right?
Instructor: Like our example of the people standing by a bus stop. Okay, people standing by the bus stop can all of them are standing by the bus stop, and then that’s the minimal description of what they’re doing. But also, one of them is going to visit his grandmother, another one is on the way to murder two people, and the other one is just checking if the bus comes on time. Those people are not doing the same thing. The ethically correct, ethically relevant, or humanly relevant description of what they’re doing—which is their intention—is not the same at all. Okay? Those are not the same thing.
Now, though, but the difference is not one of choice. It’s not that one of them have less choice. None of them are doing anything automatically. They’re just doing less of anything, right? I’m saying, of course, choice is more interesting when it’s a more complicated story, but none of them are doing anything not by choice.
Student: Right, but I think what people might mean when they say that someone’s doing something automatically means that it’s following from an adherence to a much less ideally rational place. If someone says something like…
Instructor: I get what you’re saying. Something like what we call automatically would just mean something like someone who the real reason he’s doing something is because he did it yesterday.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Like the Kotzker [Kotzker Rebbe] could have said that you shouldn’t do that.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Instructor: But I sort of think that nobody really says that. This is why I’m anti-Kotzk, because this is just a very weird judgment of people. Nobody doubted him because he doubted him yesterday. It even sounds weird. If you ask the guy, this so-called *mitzvos anashim melumadah* [commandments performed by rote], another guy, and they say, “Why are you putting on *tefillin* [phylacteries] today?” And he said, what did he tell you? “Because I put it on yesterday.”
Who, which normal—no human being would answer this answer. Only the people critical of him say that. They don’t really agree. They’re not into his mind. He’s saying, “Why am I putting on *tefillin*? Because I put on *tefillin*. Of course I do it every day because I put on *tefillin* every day.”
Student: Yeah, but not because he did it yesterday.
Instructor: I’d say more like a less than ideal rational understanding of what he’s doing, right? And he’s doing it for maybe something that is much less ethical than you would…
Student: Well, you could say, again, that’s what I think people mean by automatic.
Instructor: It’s not automatic. It’s a very bad word. It’s not expressing what it’s trying to say. It’s not true that the person who puts on *tefillin* like yesterday is doing it automatically. It is true that he’s doing much less. It’s something different.
You could say something like: you’re only putting on *tefillin* like you could eat *tefillin*. Really what you should be doing is putting on *tefillin* *b’chol l’vavcha, b’chol nafsh’cha, b’chol m’odecha* [with all your heart, all your soul, and all your might] to serve God, which is a different action. It expresses itself in the same physical part, but it’s a different action.
But that’s nothing to do with automatic. It can do something else. Automatic would be a weird description for doing something in a minimal way or something like that. It’s usually what people are criticizing, though, what they really want to criticize when they’re saying something’s automatic.
Student: That’s interesting. I hear what you’re saying.
Instructor: Yeah.
Instructor: Okay, we’re done. My life is complete. I could close it, or we’ll get to… We’ll finish more next time. That’s it.
– Speaker jokes about needing a formal *shiur* (lesson) as a pretext for people to gather and share Hasidic stories
– Establishes this is continuing discussion of *Shemona Perakim*, Chapter 8
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– Central project: Understanding the framework of becoming a good person through training character virtues (*middot tovot*)
– These virtues lead to correct actions by being “intermediate” (the mean between extremes)
The speaker distinguishes two different questions that fall under “choice”:
1. The theological/theoretical free will problem
2. The practical problem of controlling character change
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– Any ethical system with exhortations to be good + reward/punishment seems to require free will
– Without responsibility, there should be no reward/punishment
– Without free will, there’s no point in ethics or calls to improvement (“either I’m good or bad”)
1. Against Determinism objection: Even the person giving the exhortation wouldn’t have free will to change anything, so the objection is self-undermining
2. Against Libertarian Free Will:
– If actions have “no reason” (required for absolute free will), you can’t truly *be* a good person
– You could only randomly choose things that happen to be good
– A good person’s goodness must “make sense”
– Key paradox: You can’t give exhortations if free will is absolute, because giving reasons/causes would undermine the free choice — and if exhortation works, that itself removes free will
– Speaker suspects Rambam in Chapter 8 addresses fatalism/astrological theories, not the free will vs. determinism debate
– Defers this discussion (admits insufficient knowledge)
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– Good person = has good *middot* (character traits/virtues)
– This is internal: likes/loves/enjoys doing good actions
– Must be stable — a disposition, not random wishes
– Critical distinction:
– Actions are primary for *identifying* what’s good
– But goodness of the person consists in the internal disposition, not the actions themselves
– Virtues = excellences of the part of the soul that produces these actions
– External actions seem controllable: Learn 3 pages of Gemara daily, attend prayers, keep *mitzvot* — people can decide to do these
– Internal dispositions seem uncontrollable: Being told you must *like* learning, *be the kind of person* who is good to others
– Common responses: “I was born this way” / “This seems very hard” / “How do you choose to become a kind of person?”
– People already struggle with commandments about feelings (love God, love neighbor, don’t hate)
– Speaker’s response to that easier problem:
– You have more control over your heart than you think
– These commandments often mean something behavioral
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– Common objection: How can we be commanded about internal states we can’t control?
– Speaker’s response: This is a “small problem” compared to the main question
– Proper reading of the verse: Not about suppressing feelings, but about hypocrisy
– “Echad b’peh v’echad b’lev” – being one way outwardly, another inwardly
– Means: Don’t smile at someone while planning their downfall
– This IS controllable – it’s about planning, not raw feeling
– Rambam’s solution: Go directly to the person and address the problem
– Practically means something like: “Don’t hate God, but come to shul anyway”
– These mitzvos address specific problems (hypocrisy) with controllable solutions
– Distinction made: These mitzvos don’t make explicit demands about *what kind of person you are*
– The speaker’s question is more demanding: becoming someone who *likes* being good to others
– Key point: You can’t have a *midda* (character trait) once or in one day
– Must *become* a certain kind of person
– One who loves right things, hates right things, gets angry in right amounts, for right reasons, at right times
– The deeper problem: This seems less controllable than atomic actions
– “I have control over my hand, but do I have control over what I am, over the type of guy I am?”
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– How does one actually become this kind of person?
– The “secret answer” (which audience already knows): By doing the action repeatedly
– Example: How do you become a masmid (diligent learner)? By learning.
– “You learn enough until you become a masmid”
– Then it becomes somewhat “automatic”
– Even with the practical recipe, a deeper problem emerges
– The automaticity problem: If the virtuous person acts “automatically,” how is that chosen?
– Formulation of the paradox:
– You make choices (learn 5 minutes daily) → become someone who likes learning
– But then: In what way are you being a good person at that second stage?
– Goodness requires choice as a necessary condition
– Anything forced or not by choice “doesn’t count towards being a good person”
– Student question/clarification: Is there any difference between:
1. Being born with good traits (genetic)
2. Practicing until you got there
– Speaker’s answer: At the endpoint, it’s the same problem
– “Maybe he gets credit for yesterday, but for today he doesn’t get any credit”
– This seems weird because the *sugya* (discussion) established that being virtuous IS the ideal state
– Not the state of *getting there* (which would prioritize the moshel b’nafsho – self-control person)
– Claim: Everyone actually thinks being a good person = liking the good
– We praise people for *liking* the right things, not just doing them
– Example referenced: Story of Moshe being a “gomer rasha” (completing/finishing the wicked)
– “We don’t really believe in that story”
– Everyone believes it’s better to be good than to be a bad person who does good things
– Story: Shuberman walked into Beis Medrash on a long zman Shabbos and said “don’t look at his schar (reward)”
– Raises the question: “Why not?”
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– To answer the question, must ask: What IS choice?
– What are we looking for when we seek something “by choice”?
– Need to understand choice as “the thing that makes human activities ethically relevant”
– If we can show that being virtuous is MORE choice-like than other states, the problem dissolves
– Student suggestion: Tosfos says the Avos (Patriarchs) didn’t have the yetzer hara (evil inclination)
– They worked themselves up to a stage where they no longer had it
– Implication: More schar (reward) comes with overcoming more yetzer hara
– Speaker’s rejection: “I’m not happy with that answer”
– It doesn’t fully solve the problem (may be the same problem restated)
– “I don’t know anything about the Avos. I’m trying to talk about the thing.”
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– Ones (force): Actions done to you by someone else, not by you
– Extreme example: Someone pushes you into another person causing harm – “I didn’t do it at all”
– More complicated cases exist where responsibility is partially shared
– Shogeg (ignorance): Another form of lacking will
– Type 1: Didn’t know the nature of the object (e.g., thought rock was lighter than it was)
– Type 2: Didn’t know the law (Aristotle rejects this as valid excuse; modern law agrees)
– Type 3: Forgot relevant circumstances (e.g., forgot it was Shabbos)
– Objection raised: Shogeg still requires a chatas (sin offering), implying some responsibility
– Response: The shogeg requiring chatas is specifically when you *should have known*
– Meta-responsibility: You could have been more careful
– When you truly *couldn’t* have known → that’s actually classified as ones
– Example: A Jew “shouldn’t forget” it’s Shabbos, so forgetting carries responsibility
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– Key claim: For ethical relevance, we need *choice* (bechira), which is something *beyond* mere willing
– Will vs. Ones is not sufficient for ethical evaluation
– Children clearly do things willingly – no one is forcing them
– Yet no legal system punishes children below a certain age
– Their actions don’t “count” legally or ethically
– Implication: Will is present but something else is missing
– Actions done “in the spur of the moment” or reflexively
– Not the same as forced actions – you did them, no one made you
– Scenario 1: “Why is this chandelier here?” → “I chose it” (sounds normal)
– Scenario 2: “Why is that paper positioned vertically?” → “I chose it” (sounds weird)
– Both actions were done willingly, neither was forced
– The difference: Choice implies something more
1. Purpose/Intention: Directed toward something, has a goal
2. Deliberation: Considered alternatives (looked at 30 chandeliers at Home Depot)
3. Reasons: Can give an account of why (not proof, but reasons)
4. Consultation: May have discussed with others before deciding
– The distinction between premeditated and non-premeditated actions reflects this
– “I wasn’t thinking” might reduce culpability but doesn’t eliminate it
– Definitely not the same as *choice*
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– Recall: Same action can be done by good person or bad person
– Beinoni and Tzaddik (Tanya terminology) do the exact same external actions
– One is a good person; the other merely does good activities
– Self-controlled person: Does good because he thinks it’s good + exercises self-control
– Good person: Does good because it’s *expressive of who he is*
– “I’m the kind of person that does these kinds of things”
– When you say “I chose this,” you reveal something about *the kind of person you are*
– Choice expresses your idea of beauty, purpose, values
– Key insight: Choice-based actions are revelatory of character in a way that merely willing actions are not
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– Actions that are arbitrary (like placing paper sideways on desk) don’t express anything about the person
– Even if not forced by another, arbitrary actions lack moral significance
– Key distinction: Not being forced ≠ genuine choice
– Unless it connects to a character trait (e.g., “I’m messy”), the action says nothing particular about the agent
– Not merely: Absence of external force
– Not merely: Solving the determinism problem (where no one is ever the “beginning” of their action)
– What we need: A specific way in which an activity is *mine* – “ba’alus” (ownership/responsibility)
– Choice means the action comes out of “the kind of thing he is, the kind of person he is”
– Explains why premeditation matters in law
– Explains why intention and planning are morally relevant
– Explains character witnesses – they show what kind of person would have planned something
– Why crimes of passion are “less bad”: They don’t emerge from what the person fundamentally is
– Actions done “for a reason” where part of the reason is “what you are” = actions that show what you are
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– “This sounds circular – actions make me a person, but you’re saying actions reveal what kind of person I am”
– “Chicken or egg” problem – where does it start?
– Acknowledges the circularity but says “that’s not the problem”
– Clarifies: Discussing the ideal – where you’re already a kind of person doing good things *because* you’re that kind of person
– Three stages exist in every practical sense (not fully elaborated)
– It IS possible to do things against your own choice
– It IS possible to act against what you think/feel is good
– Practice works this way: Doing things not yet aligned with what you are
– Actions done against your nature = “less chosen” or “less connected to your choice”
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– Not “force powers”
– Not “energies that force you to do things”
– Not automatic mechanisms
– “Something choosy” – having the attribute of choice
– “Almost a choice” – choice plus actually liking it
– Liking aligned with choice
– Not habit in an automatic way
– Common misunderstanding: Good person = does things without thinking (automatically)
– Correct understanding: “Almost the opposite – he does everything with thinking”
– This is where intentionality comes in
– Intention = doing something for a reason
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– “I did it, not someone else”
– “I did it because of me”
– Because of me understanding this to be good
– Because this is the kind of person I am
– “I see the good in certain things”
– “I’m trained to understand how to act in certain cases”
– “Doing it because it’s what I do” = “doing it because I chose it”
– This is what choice consists of
– Choice is NOT contrary to doing things habitually
– The understanding of habit here is NOT doing things automatically
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– The kinds of thoughts/reasons people have are MORE expressive of what they are than:
– Choices without good reasons
– Choices where they don’t like what they’re doing
– Planned murder where “murder seems good to him” = worse action, worse person
– Murder from momentary anger or “for no reason” = less expressive of character
– Key point: “The kind of reasons people have is precisely expressed through what kind of people they are”
– There aren’t two separate things: “giving reasons” and “being a kind of person” – they’re unified
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– Wants habit that isn’t “just automatic”
– Example: Going for cigarette at same time every day without thinking
– Automatic, unthinking actions = precisely NOT what we call choice
– Like the paper placed sideways – not a choice even if habitual
– “I don’t think we have to judge activity one by one”
– When judging a person as “the kind of person he is” – tell whole life story, at least a long story
– Asking about every individual action = “wrong framing”
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– That I “could have not bought it” (mere counterfactual freedom)
– This is “obviously true” but not the point
– “I checked into it, I looked into it, I found the right one, I have my reasons”
– The whole story of deliberation and reasoning
– This makes choice “interesting in a human way”
– Choice as “expressive” or “having something to do with” who the person is
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– Common misconception: People think choice means “I decided now” or “I could have done otherwise”
– Rambam’s position is nearly the opposite: True choice means you almost *couldn’t* have done otherwise
– If I have correct understanding (aesthetic or ethical), my choice flows necessarily from that understanding
– “If I would do differently, it would be not by choice because my choice is precisely what comes out of my understanding of how things should be”
– If someone with good aesthetic judgment buys an ugly chandelier, we’d say “he didn’t choose it”
– Example: “I didn’t choose that ugly thing – the air conditioner was there before, we couldn’t move it”
– This excuse (“I didn’t choose it”) absolves because it disconnects the action from expressing the person’s judgment
– Key insight: Choice is a “very positive thing” – it’s about what flows from your understanding, not about arbitrary freedom
– These concepts (choice and necessity) remain “closely connected” but distinguishable
– What matters: “What takes place has to follow by virtue of your human participation, human kind of decision, which is by reasons and by understanding of what is good”
– When you develop a *middah* (character trait), your actions reflect choice precisely because they flow from that developed understanding
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– Not “energies that push you to do things” – “There’s no inkling of that”
– Not like a “boiler of anger calibrated correctly in his soul”
– Strong polemic: “That whole story is a fantasy that you were taught by Disney, I don’t know who. It doesn’t exist.”
– Speaker expresses frustration: “People keep on going back to that for some reason. I don’t know why people like that image”
– Central thesis: All *middot* require *phronesis* (practical wisdom/judgment)
– Having a correct *middah* = “having a good aesthetic judgment”
– “I have an eye for the correct activity, the correct action”
– Example: A person who “only gets mad in the right times” = someone with “a good eye for identifying the times in which you should be getting angry”
– It does NOT mean his anger mechanism is properly calibrated
– Good judgment is trained, not innate (“maybe not necessarily born with”)
– Training involves “making a bunch of judgments and accepting criticism”
– But crucially: “It’s not the eye that he has sort of pushing him to have that judgment. It’s a judgment that he has right now.”
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– “This word habit is extremely confusing for the correct understanding”
– Habits in ethics are “actively repeated, not passively repeated”
– “They follow from an ethical understanding, or a perception”
– A skilled painter can “habitually paint beautiful art” without thinking
– “I just come in the morning to the studio and I take out a paint and it’s painted in five minutes”
– Key point: “Nobody would say that that means it wasn’t done with skill”
– “Nobody would say, well he’s not really doing it. It’s just his habit doing it. It doesn’t even make sense.”
– The more habitual, the better: “The more he has the habit, the better artist he is, not the worse artist he is”
– Challenging cases allow for “even more” expression of art/knowledge
– “Now there’s a complicated case. He has to express more of his knowledge”
– But even routine work “is never automatic in the sense that you’re imagining”
– “There’s no way it’s going to be looking like a three-year-old’s mischief”
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– “Where did you get the idea that people have automatic *middot*? Why? What are you people even talking about?”
– Demands concrete examples: “You really have an example of one that’s automatic in any real way?”
– Truly automatic (non-ethical): “I have a certain tick, like whenever I wake up, I push my ear that way”
– Such things have “no thought” and “no good or bad in that”
– Ethical actions: Cannot be automatic in any meaningful sense
– Example challenged: “He’s a *masmid* [diligent learner], they learned everything. Okay, well in what sense is that automatic?”
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– Can something be done “without it going through his clear… *middas ha-modeh ha-emes*” (trait of acknowledging truth)?
– Can actions “bypass his so-called faculty of choice”?
– *Modeh ha-emes* doesn’t mean “I’m like a machine, you press a button and I tell you everything I’m thinking”
– “There’s no *middah* that’s like that”
– Side note: “This has to do with *derech mitzvah*” (the way of commandments)
– Student suggests there are “levels of intentionality” even for intermediate traits
– Actions “not governed by the rationality of the thing itself but by something else”
– Example: “Someone tells me every morning when you come in, do this”
– “That’s not an ethical habit. There’s nothing intermediate about that”
– “The intermediate requires knowledge, always requires judgment”
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– Person A: Hits light switch every morning “because he was told”
– Person B: Turns on light every day “because he wants there to be light in the building”
– Person following orders “could be operating like a machine”
– “People can be told to act like machines for other people”
– “Then they’re not agents. Then they’re not ethical agents. Then they’re just *karka olam*” (lit. “ground of the world” – passive/inert)
– “Nobody would call that a choice, a hundred percent”
– Speaker acknowledges: “Things can be done automatically without participation… only in a relative sense”
– “There are degrees”
– But not very interesting ethically: “That’s why the just following orders excuse doesn’t work very well, ethically”
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– Key principle: No ethically relevant action can bypass rational/emotional processing
– The *shliach lidvar aveirah* (agent for a sinful matter) excuse fails precisely because of this
– Only true exception: Physical compulsion (e.g., someone literally throws you onto another person – using you as a tool)
– Everything else goes through the person’s rational or emotional faculties
– Important qualification: “Rational” here doesn’t mean high-level reasoning (like learning *Tosafot*)
– It means basic practical reasoning: knowing that to go through a door, you must open it
– This minimal rationality is unavoidable in human action
– Core argument: You cannot do anything without:
1. Some kind of perception (which is a form of judgment)
2. Some kind of choice (deliberative aiming toward perceived good)
– Even if you made a mistake or have distorting habits, *something* is there
– The “desiring soul” (the part that wants things) works by identifying what it thinks is good and pursuing it
– Rhetorical question: How could we act without this process 100%?
– Acknowledged: There are degrees of choice (more or less deliberation, more or less time spent thinking)
– But: This doesn’t mean some actions are truly “automatic” – just that some involve “less”
– Understanding what you’re doing better changes the action itself, even if physically identical
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– Example: Three people standing at a bus stop
– One is visiting grandmother
– One is on the way to murder someone
– One is checking if the bus is on time
– Physically: All doing the same thing (standing at bus stop)
– Ethically/humanly relevant description: Completely different actions based on intention
– The difference between these people is NOT that some have “less choice”
– None are doing anything “automatically”
– They’re just doing “less of anything” (simpler narrative, less complex intention)
– Key point: Choice is more interesting when the story is more complicated, but all involve genuine choice
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– What people *mean* by “automatic”: Following from adherence to a much less ideally rational place
– Example: Someone whose real reason for doing something is “because I did it yesterday”
– Connection to *Kotzker Rebbe*’s critique of habitual observance
– Self-described as “anti-Kotzk”: This is a “very weird judgment of people”
– Claim: Nobody actually does things purely because they did them yesterday
– Thought experiment: Ask someone doing *mitzvas anashim melumadah* (commandments by rote) why they put on *tefillin*
– No normal person would answer “because I put it on yesterday”
– They might say “because I do it every day” – but that’s different from “because yesterday”
– The critics are not actually in the person’s mind
– Student’s improved version: “Less than ideal rational understanding of what he’s doing”
– Teacher’s acceptance: This is better than “automatic”
– The person putting on *tefillin* habitually is doing “much less” – not doing it “automatically”
– Not: “You’re doing it automatically”
– But: “You’re putting on *tefillin* like you could eat *tefillin*” (minimal engagement)
– Ideal: Putting on *tefillin* with “all your heart, all your soul, all your might” (*b’chol l’vavcha, b’chol nafsh’cha, b’chol m’odecha*) in service of God
– Same physical action, but a *different action* in the ethically relevant sense
– “Automatic” is a bad word – doesn’t express what it’s trying to say
– It’s not true that habitual observance is “automatic”
– It IS true that it might be “minimal” or “less”
– What critics usually want to criticize when using “automatic” is really this minimalism
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1. Dismissal of standard free will debate: The theological problem is self-undermining and not what Rambam addresses
2. Distinction between will and choice: Will (not being forced) is insufficient; choice requires reasons, deliberation, and expression of self
3. Inversion of freedom: True choice = necessity flowing from understanding, not arbitrary freedom to do otherwise
4. Anti-mechanistic view of character: *Middot* are perceptual/judgmental capacities, not energetic/hydraulic forces
5. Skill model of virtue: Ethical expertise works like artistic expertise – habit enhances rather than diminishes agency
6. Rejection of automaticity: Anything ethically relevant cannot be truly automatic; “automatic” really means “minimal”
7. Agency as participation: Acting as a machine for others removes ethical agency entirely
8. Choice as self-expression: The ethically relevant sense of choice is that actions flow from and reveal who you are
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– Teacher notes they didn’t finish the four things about choice
– More to continue next time
Instructor:
Obviously I like these Hasidic masses very much, but I’m worried that you’re not going to come if it’s only a Hasidic mass. Like, you have to have a *shiur* [shiur: formal Torah lesson], so you can *shmues* [shmues: informal Torah discussion/conversation] before the *shiur*, after the *shiur*. If there’s no *shiur*, then nobody’s going to show up to tell their stories. So you have to say a *shtickl shiur* [shtickl shiur: a little piece of Torah learning], and then you can *shmues* afterwards. It’s like that.
So I say, yeah, this is his *chumash* [chumash: the Five Books of Moses], nothing with me. Okay.
Instructor:
The story is like this. We’re starting *Shemona Perakim* [Shemona Perakim: Maimonides’ “Eight Chapters,” introduction to his commentary on Pirkei Avot] and *Perek Dalet* [Perek Dalet: Chapter Four]. Last week or the last two weeks, we’re discussing this thing, interesting thing called choice, sometimes known in Jewish language as *Bechira* [Bechira: free will/choice].
Now, some people thought that there’s no *shaychus* [shaychus: connection/relevance], but I’ll explain the *shaychus*. And then, according to that, I’ll explain some things about this.
Instructor:
The *inyan* [inyan: matter/topic] is like this. We’re trying to understand and also hope that this understanding will help us somehow in reality to see if it does. But we’re trying to understand this framework, the framework of becoming a good person, known as the training of character virtues of *middos* [middos: character traits], which are supposed to lead to the correct actions based on them being their intermediate virtues, intermediate actions, and so on.
Now, when you think about this, there’s several questions, at least two questions, practical questions, not theoretical questions, but practical questions that go under the title of choice. What do I mean?
Instructor:
There’s one question of choice, which we discussed last week, the question of free will, or as I call it, free floating will, which is like a theological, theoretical question, which is nothing to do specifically with this framework of good *middos*, right?
It’s a question on any system that claims to give you the human good, or to explain what is good, and sometimes specifically exhortations, asking you to be good, and promising reward and punishment for being good, for being good or bad. People understand that to be contingent on some kind of free will, or really we should say some kind of responsibility existing between a person and his activities and his good or bad activities, because otherwise we say it’s not his fault, it’s not his responsibility, and therefore there should be no reward and punishment. But besides for that, there should also be no thing called ethics, right? There should be no exhortation or call to being better, because either I’m good or bad, there’s nothing that’s being there.
Student:
Yes, it’s very good.
Instructor:
So that’s what people usually think. And in some sense, chapter 8 in our book talks about that problem. Of course, if you think that this is a question, a theoretical question about free, extreme free will, I call it, or free-floating will versus contrary to determinism, which says that nothing makes a difference, that is a very dumb problem to have, like you say, because maybe that’s all part of it. And in any case, whoever is giving the exhortation doesn’t have free will to change that either. So it doesn’t seem to make any difference.
Also, on the other hand, even if you do have free will, it seems like that doesn’t actually solve the problem, because that kind of free will says that human actions, or at least some of them, the ones that are relevant, because the ones that are relevant are the ones that are said to have free will, are actions that have no reason, because once there’s a reason, then that’s not free will.
And therefore, it seems to me that you can’t really be a good person either. You can just choose things that happen to somehow randomly be good, because a good person, in our sense at least, is someone that makes his goodness make sense, or another more pertinent thing: you can’t give exhortations to becoming good, because that would be giving causes, and if you believe in free will as some kind of absolute thing, then you can’t tell anyone to be good and make them being good by telling them, because what makes them good must be their free choice. Otherwise you took away free will, and then it would be a bad thing for there to be *shaychus* [shaychus: connection/relevance] to the extent that it works. So if that doesn’t work, then it’s useless.
Instructor:
So that whole discussion we went through this last week and also our class yesterday, and also, I guess, a little in the second half of the class, that discussion is not relevant to us at least. It seems to be important, and we’ll get to chapter 8, we’ll try to figure out why the Rambam really thinks that it is a little bit important. I think the Rambam is not really discussing free will versus determinism, he’s discussing some kind of fatalism, some kind of astrological theories. He’s discussing something different, but I can’t talk about that right now because I don’t know enough.
Instructor:
Well, something is relevant right now and right here. This is more important. And there’s two questions primarily that are very important right now. In other words, a question that is precisely because of the way that we explained what the human kinds of goods are.
We explained that the human kinds of what is a good person, a good human being, is someone who has something we call good *middos* [middos: character traits], but there’s something internal. We call it something like he likes or loves or enjoys doing the good actions, which means the intermediate actions. And this is a stable temperament in him, a stable kind of, what do we call it, like disposition, a stable wanting, it doesn’t change or something stable in him. In other words, it’s almost something that causes him always to act that way, or at least most of the time, otherwise it’s not a *middah* [middah: character trait], otherwise it’s just like some random wish or something.
And that is what being a good person consists of. It’s very important to understand that although actions are in some sense primary in the understanding of this, because what makes the *middah* good is if it leads to correct actions, but what actions is not what the goodness of the human being consists of. What the goodness of human being consists of is this more internal thing that we call having good *middos*, or having good character traits or virtues. Those are virtues. Virtues are excellences of the part of the soul that does these kind of actions. Okay? Does that make sense?
Now, because of this exact understanding of what a good human being is, which not everyone shares, precisely because of that, we have some questions of choice. Okay?
Instructor:
And there’s really two questions. And I think they’re somewhat connected one to the other. But there’s two questions. One is a simple practical question, which is the *Tzemach Tzedek* [Tzemach Tzedek: Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneersohn of Lubavitch, 1789-1866] that we quoted, seems to have to do with it, and the other is a deeper question which goes to the structure of what this thing that we call having good *middos* is even.
Instructor:
The first question is that it seems to people often that we don’t have enough control, or easy enough control at least, over what we are in this sense, in the sense of what we like. Many people will say something like this. You can tell me if you think I’m wrong. Many people say something like this.
If you come to Yeshiva and you say to both sides, all of you have to… We want to be good people, right? If you come to Yeshiva, you become better people. Listen to how you’re going to do it. You’re going to read three *blatt Gemara* [blatt Gemara: pages of Talmud] every day and you’re going to come to all the *sedarim* [sedarim: learning sessions] and you’re going to *daven* [daven: pray] three times a day and all these things you’re going to do. People say, okay, we’ll try. Those seem simple.
It seems like you can obviously everyone who this demand is addressed to can do those things. It’s not impossible for most people to learn that amount. It’s not impossible for anyone to come to *shul* [shul: synagogue] three times a day. It’s not impossible to do all these *mitzvos* [mitzvos: commandments]. It’s possible. And of course if you believe it’s impossible because you believe in some theory of deterministic theory then you have a problem maybe, probably not even not really, but it’s possible in our experience. It’s possible we decide to do things like that, I know how to become better. Simple, right?
If I come and tell you, no, this is not enough. That’s all very nice. Maybe you should do it, but not only because of that. A good person is someone who likes to learn. Learning is not a good example. I’m just saying it because everyone here wants to achieve and knows what I’m talking about. Okay? And someone being good is not someone who learns. It’s not enough to learn, you have to like it. That’s what having a *middah* consists of. It’s not enough to be good to your friends, not enough to be nice to your *chaveirim* [chaveirim: friends/companions]. You have to also be the kind of person who is good to his *chaveirim*, which means liking it.
Then people right away say, what? How am I going to do that? How do you become a kind of person? People say things like, I was born this way, or even if you would agree that you’re not stuck with what you were born, people say, okay, but it seems at least very hard. It seems to be weird to talk about choice or free choice in this kind of sense. It’s like you have free choice. It’s a very complicated process. Maybe it’s not even guaranteed to work. It seems to be a very difficult thing.
Instructor:
Even more, I’ll just have to make it clear. This is even more difficult than if I would say people have a problem. How could there be a *mitzvah* [mitzvah: commandment] on feelings, right? You should love God. You should love your neighbor. You should not hate him in your heart. Things like that. People say, what do you mean? What if I do? That’s a small problem relative to this problem. Because you could have access. You could. You have control of your heart a little more than you think, probably.
And anyways, the simple reading of these kind of *mitzvos* is something like, don’t hate them in your heart. You know what it means? It means don’t be the kind of person who smiles to people, but really plans their demise, plans how to denigrate them, to bring them under. That’s what to bring them down, that’s what this is, who that means. Now do you have control over that? Yeah, you do, because I’m like I say, talk about planning. If I talk about feeling in some feeling sense, and so that’s what it means.
Instructor: Things like that. People say, what do you mean? What if I do? That’s a small problem relative to this problem, right? Because you could have access, you could, you have control of your heart a little more than you think, probably. And anyways, the simple reading of these kinds of mitzvos [commandments] is something like, don’t hate him in your heart, you know, right? You know what it means? It means don’t be the kind of person who smiles to people, but really plans their demise, plans how to integrate them, how you say that in Yiddish, to bury them, to bring them under. That’s what, to bring them down, that’s what l’shech l’zach means.
Now, do you have control over that? Yeah, you do. Like I say, I’m talking about planning, I’m not talking about feeling in some feeling sense. Why do you say l’shech l’zach? That’s what it means, that’s one solution. That’s one solution to the problem. But what it means is that that’s one solution, one solution for that kind of problem. That’s not only what it means. It’s not if you’re selling the value, it doesn’t make it better really. That’s not the point. That’s just one solution. But I’m not saying a shira [song/solution]. I’m just trying to show you that’s actually a simple thing relatively.
The same thing that really means something like, don’t hate God, but come to Shul anyways. Anyways. Understand? But, now I’m demanding something a lot more than that.
Student: Well, it’s kind of the same thing. It leads to it, right? So, it says, and don’t be so nice to the fifth either, right?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, that’s what I’m saying. It’s not like about getting you to here. It immediately follows up into what we’re proposing, right?
Student: Which is?
Instructor: That you should like to be good to them.
Student: Not really, no. Because it’s talking about a specific kind of problem where people are hypocrites.
Instructor: He’s not talking about the kind of problem that we have.
Student: How would you address this hypocrite? Not by changing what he’s doing to them?
Instructor: No, like you said, there might be ways to change it. Or just think, don’t be that.
Student: How do you change it?
Instructor: It’s not here to do discussions. But it’s not making a demand on what kind of person you are. That’s not what it’s about. If I give you a demand, you should be that kind of person, which, like you said, it’s a long-term thing. You can’t have a middah [character trait] once. You can’t have a middah one day. It has to be, you have to become, be this kind of person and who loves the right things and hates the right things and is angry in the right amount and things like that for the right reasons and the right times.
And all of that, that seems to be a more, we could say, internal or even less controllable in the sense that we usually think of control. I have control over my hand, but do I have control over what I am, over the type of guy I am? That sounds extreme. Make sense, my question?
Instructor: And this is why this concept of tichinamidus [character development] seems to at least need some explanation of how it’s going to happen. And even now, this is one thing in the explanation, right? How it’s going to happen, practically. So that’s why I said there’s a practical question. Of course, there’s a practical answer. You people already know what the practical answer is.
But it also then needs a somewhat theoretical explanation of how, by that whole practical process, by we can tell you, okay, I’ll tell you, you have a problem, how you become this kind of guy, right? If I tell you it’s not enough to learn, you have to be a masmid [diligent learner]. Okay, how do you become a masmid? Secret answer. The answer is by learning. You learn enough until you become a masmid. And then you won’t have to learn anymore. You’ll just learn it somewhat, so to speak, automatically, which is another problem that we’ll see, right? But let’s talk first about the first thing, because it’s not automatic. If it’s automatic, it’s a problem.
Instructor: All right, let’s say even we say this, now there’s still a problem, because it still seems like being the kind of person who likes to learn and therefore learning is not something by choice. You could say, okay, I made the choice to learn every day for five minutes and then I became the kind of guy who likes to learn five minutes every day. Okay, so I might you might say something like you deserve schar [reward] or I deserve praise or I am being a good person right this is really what I’m saying I’m being a good person by doing those like those actions but in what way am I being a good person and everyone understands that being a good person has a condition which is choice because anything this we went through last week very clearly right anything that is forced or even anything that’s not by choice even if it’s not forced, doesn’t count towards being a good person.
So, one necessary condition of something being a good action, something being good as a good person, is that it’s by choice. And if you have an understanding of a good person, which is something very far from what we usually call things that are by choice, like atomic actions, which seems to be where choice and will exist, then it seems to be hard to explain why is that even good. Why is that where we place the goodness of a human being?
Student: Just to clarify, are you trying to say that basically there’s no difference if it’s like a genetic thing, or you practiced until you got there? Ultimately, at this point, you’re just a guide, so it’s not something that’s of your choice.
Instructor: Yeah, it wouldn’t be that interesting. It wouldn’t be any different at this point. Yeah, you would have the same kind of problem. In other words, if you understand that the guy that already learns is doing it automatically, not by choice, and like you’re saying it’s so analogous to someone that would be born that way, maybe he gets credit for yesterday but for today he doesn’t get any credit. And that seems weird because we just told you our whole story was that this is the state of being the kind of good person and therefore doing good things is the good state, is the ideal state, not the state of getting to there, right? Because that would prioritize being a someone who self-control person, which the first stage is basically, over a virtuous person, which we’re not claiming.
Student: I think that’s where your whole thing about people who have much of an option to be the ideal, they obviously respect people who, that’s not what they’re doing.
Instructor: Who are not much of an option?
Student: Yeah, that’s not what they’re doing. They enjoy learning, let’s say, for example.
Instructor: Yeah. Obviously, they’re an ideal person. They’re under no illusion that he’s fighting himself.
Student: I’m not sure. People claim, again, you’re asking about under illusion. The person sleeps up to the wee hours of the night and pushes until it’s a matter of…
Instructor: Yeah, our theory is that, I agree with you, that this thought that being a good person consists of liking the good is what normal people think. But if you think of, I don’t think anyone, I don’t really think anyone disagrees with that, that that’s what everyone thinks. We also praise people for liking the right things. Not only for doing the right things, like the story of Moshe being a ganav [thief], right? We don’t really believe in that story. Everyone believes that it’s better to be a good person than to be a bad person who does good things.
Student: I have a good story that brings up the Shikl Stira [apparent contradiction] that Shulberman walked into this marriage on this long summer Shabbos and said don’t look at his schar [reward], it’s like why not, right, that’s the question.
Instructor: So now, but you understand my question about choice. There’s both a practical question of like, what do you mean when you tell me that this is what I have to be, this is exactly the thing that I have less direct control all over, that’s one question. And even if you like answer the question by giving me the practical recipe which you all know, it still needs to be explained why precisely the second stage is the one we praise and not the first stage, right?
And if you understand that one important ingredient of praise of what a good person is, that is by choice, right? That’s like necessary. If something is not by choice, then it’s not interesting, ethically. That’s the question. That is a very good question. Make sense? It’s a good question.
Student: Is it a good question?
Instructor: I think it’s a good question. So, you must have asked a good question. Very good.
Instructor: So, I think that in order to answer this question, we need to ask a different question, which is, what is this choice thing even? What are we looking for when we’re looking for something that is by choice? If we understand very clearly what is this thing that we’re looking for, that we’re looking for choice, which is the thing that makes human activities ethically relevant or praiseable and damnable you know then we’ll understand why it will understand in a way that makes this kind of being a more choice like more chosen and another kind of being then will understand what we’re talking about that makes sense the guy that likes to do what what does he like you to do it as a product of choice.
Student: Yes.
Instructor: So we could we could try to do with exactly this I’ll try we try to do exactly this and talk a little bit about this and maybe we won’t entirely finish this all the way to the end and hardly solve this question there might be simple things to solve this question I want to…
Student: Maybe, I don’t know. I don’t know anything about the Avos [Patriarchs]. I’m trying to talk about the thing. I don’t know.
Instructor: No, I don’t know. I don’t know.
Student: That the Avos weren’t… They didn’t have the Yetzer Hara [evil inclination].
Instructor: No.
Student: So the more you get the schar [reward], the more you get the Yetzer Hara.
Instructor: And what is the Yetzer Hara?
Student: The Yetzer Hara said that they got to such a stage.
Instructor: Okay.
Student: That they worked themselves up to such a place that they didn’t have the Yetzer Hara.
Instructor: I don’t think that’s the answer. I’m not happy with that answer. I’ll just explain to you why that’s not a good answer. It might be the same problem, but I’ll just explain to you why that answer is not a complete answer.
Instructor: So I need to try to think what this thing that we call choice is. Very important discussion. I’m going to just repeat the whole stupid toirah [teaching] from Avani Aristotle that tries to explain what choice is, or first explain what it’s not. Then maybe we’ll be able to get to this.
Now, number one is like this, there’s something called will, like, I think this maps very well to what we call Ratzon [will] versus Ones [compulsion] in Halakha [Jewish law].
Instructor: So I need to try to think what this thing that we call choice is, okay? Very important discussion. I’m going to just repeat the whole stupid toilet from Avani and Aristotle that tries to explain what choice is, or first explain what it’s not, and then maybe we’ll be able to get to this.
Now number one is like this, there’s something called will, like I think this maps very well what we call ratzon [will/desire] versus ones [force/compulsion] in halacha [Jewish law]. That is one kind of thing. Everyone understands that something that’s by ones, or even b’shogeg [through inadvertence/ignorance], which is some sort of a species of ones in this context, is not morally relevant, not ethically relevant.
What is the opposite of ratzon? Something that either done by force, done by force meaning something that was done to you by someone else, right? Instead of you doing it. This is an important definition. There’s differences that this definition makes that I’m not going to get into. But some, for example, like the extreme example, if someone pushed someone through you onto someone else and hurt them, you say, I didn’t do it at all. Someone did it with me, right? That’s by force. There’s more complicated cases where you’re like, somewhat you did a part of it and the other person did a different part. Okay, that’s called force. That’s not relevant.
There’s another kind of non-will which is called ignorance, right? That’s what we call shogeg usually in halacha. The difference between shogeg and ones is basically the difference between force and ignorance, right? Two ways of how you’re not responsible because you’re lacking will. It’s not a willing action, right?
Shogeg means either I didn’t know what this thing is, right? If I threw a rock at someone, I didn’t know that it’s metal and it’s going to kill him. That’s one kind of shogeg. Another kind of shogeg is I didn’t know the law, which Aristotle doesn’t think is a good shogeg ever, ever, where I forgot.
Student: What?
Instructor: It holds like this, right.
Student: It’s not clear that halacha disagrees.
Instructor: It’s shinkastin with Elizabeth, so we have to think of when that applies. Or, if I didn’t know that it’s the Shabbos [the Sabbath], things like that, those are another kind of shogeg.
Student: Yeah, but there’s some kind of responsibility there, because you have to bring a chatas [sin offering], so obviously there’s some type of responsibility.
Instructor: Very good, very good. But in some, it depends. That’s why there’s shogeg. If you should have known, the shogeg in which you’re responsible is when you have a matter of responsibility where you could have known. Whenever you couldn’t have known, that’s called literally an ones.
All the shogeg that are chayav chatos [obligated in a sin offering] are the ones where you should have known. You should have been more careful. Like, there’s two kinds of shogeg. There’s a shogeg where you didn’t know, and there’s also a shogeg where it’s like you didn’t… It’s also a kind of didn’t know, but something like you didn’t calculate… You forgot that it’s Shabbos.
Student: Right.
Instructor: You should have not forgot that it’s Shabbos. You did not forget that it’s Shabbos. Therefore, if it’s a case where you couldn’t… There was absolutely no way that you’re not considered a shogeg, you could be even found an ones.
I’m just telling you basic definitions to move on from this. Now, there’s something very… That’s the t’nai [condition] of ratzon, the t’nai of being willing. We understand this, okay? The law, for example, is very interested in this definition. Halacha is interested in this one.
Now, something very important. Choice is something more than willing. Something very interesting. When we say… When we say… Now, you understand? Something very important. When we say, in order for an action or a kind of thing a person is, which we’re trying to get to, is to be ethically relevant, we need choice. We have to understand that what we mean is something more than being willing versus being an ones.
What is my ra’ayah [proof]? I have two ra’ayahs. Okay? One is a katan [minor/child] and the second is a mitasek [one who acts without deliberation]. These are our exact ra’ayahs also. I just gave it to you in Hebrew. Okay?
A katan has, obviously, does things willingly. I’m not talking about l’egiyah l’khenach [passive movement] or something like that with a one-year-old baby. Anyone that has children, they obviously do things willingly. There is no question about that. But no system of law punishes children up to a certain age. We can argue on the limits of this. But everyone understands that children, what they do, don’t count legally, don’t count ethically in some sense.
Another example is something called mitasek.
Student: Why is that?
Instructor: Wait, I’ll try to explain. I’m just showing you that will is not enough. When we say choice we mean something beyond will. It’s not the same thing.
Another example.
Student: Yeah, but I can give you an example of a child, right, that sticks his hand in the oven, but that comes from ignorance.
Instructor: Exactly.
Student: The second time.
Instructor: Exactly, exactly. But when a child does a good or a bad thing, he chose to do it in the sense of having will. You can’t say he was forced. Nobody thinks that children are forced. Even animals, by the way, probably do things willingly in that sense. At least Aristotle thinks so. Aristotle, animals can do or not do things. Nobody is forcing them to do many of the things they do so they have will yes of course they do and then like again a dog not a I don’t know some bugs.
Student: How do they have will? It’s ignorance.
Instructor: They don’t need ignorance. They’re not ignorant. They know a dog knows where he’s going and he decides to go there or not there. Not ignorant of the things that are relevant to him. He might be ignorant in the moral sense because he doesn’t know there’s something as law, but that would be, that’s another level ignorance. I’m talking ignorance in the sense of I don’t, usually that’s the main like primary example of ignorance here is that you don’t know what you’re doing. You don’t know the object or you don’t know like, I didn’t know that my car was on when I ate, something like that, right? And dogs have that.
Okay, so children or animals have will. And it’s not enough.
Another thing which is also easy to see is something, I think something we call halacha mitasek, doing things in some kind of, the translators call it the spur of the moment things. Reflexive is not a good definition for that I think. So it’s different. Something is something I just I don’t know I just moved that cup there. I didn’t choose to do it.
I’ll give you my example, good sometimes better examples but then it gets complicated. I’m trying to try to get to the intuition here. If I, if you come into this room because I spent a few hours trying to figure out what a good example to clarify this. If you go this room and you ask me, why is there this chandelier in it? I will tell you I chose it. If you come and ask me, why is that paper vertically and not horizontally? If I tell you I chose it, that sounds very weird. I put it there, nobody forced me to put it there in that way. I was the one that put it in that exact way. But me telling you that I chose it would sound weird. Why would it sound weird? It’s missing something. This word choice means something beyond.
Student: Intentionality?
Instructor: Some kind of intentionality.
Student: Some kind of, I could tell you a few things.
Student: For a purpose.
Instructor: Some kind of purpose. Missing some reason. Like, in other words, choice means a reason. Choice means a reason. There’s a reason I chose this, because I thought it will match the rest of the room. There’s the brown and the white and whatever. Something. And it wasn’t too expensive or too cheap. I could give you an account. I can give you a theory.
Not every choice might be that elaborate. But there’s some, I could give you at least three words of what this would mean. At least, like you said, there’s an intention and means something. It’s towards something. There’s a goal. I need to have a nice room. Therefore, I put this chandelier. There was some kind of deliberation in it. Like, I looked at the 30 different chandeliers that have it on people and I chose the nicest one or whatever. And there is some kind of reasoning in it, right? Why did I choose this? It makes sense. I might be wrong. It’s not something like an intellectual thing. It’s different than…
It’s different than, like, I give you a proof, why do you believe the drama meant this? I’ll give you a proof. I can’t give you a proof for why I chose it. Proof is the wrong category, or argument in the intellectual philosophical sense is the wrong argument. But reasons are correct. There is a reason. And I might have even discussed it with other people. Afterwards, I made a choice. There’s, like, a consultation going on. I asked my wife, what do you think? I asked this guy, what do you think? There is something going on.
Versus when you ask me, why is that paper that way? I can’t blame anyone else. Like in some sense legally if there’d been a violent doing that I’ll say I don’t know I wasn’t thinking.
Student: Well why aren’t you thinking?
Instructor: That wouldn’t, it wouldn’t absolve me from doing some, it would be good and bad in the legal sense probably sometimes it would, right? But we have the difference between like premeditated things and non-premeditated things. But so maybe it would make it like it turn into second-degree for some things for some. Something makes a difference, but it’s definitely not choice.
In other words, now you can see something very simple already from this example. Why would this be more relevant to the kind of morality I care about? I’m trying to discuss, to explain to you. It would be more relevant precisely because we say that a good person and good activities is not good. We say something interesting, right?
We say something that there could be the same action that can be good, done by a good person, and the bad person can do good things and it doesn’t make him good, right? The right, the self-controlled person, the person who’s under self-control and the good person both do the exact same things. Like the beinoni [intermediate person] and the tzaddik [righteous person] in the Tanya [foundational Chabad text], they both do the exact same actions. That’s just that I don’t know why you’re so confused about explaining it. And they both do the same exact thing but one is a good person and the other one is a person who’s doing good activities. He’s acting as if he’s a good person but he’s not a good person, right?
Now what we mean to say, what do we mean to say about that? That there’s something in the way, there might be also different, but there’s something in which when the good person does it it’s expressive of the kind of person he is. When the bad person does it it’s not expressive of what it is. So this is different. He did it by self-control not by what he is, right? The reason, in other words there’s different reasons for doing it. When a bad person does a good thing he’s doing it because he thinks that it’s good and there’s self-control and so on. When a good person does it, it’s expressive of what he is already, right? Because I’m the kind of person that does these kinds of things.
What am I telling you here? Now you can already see and I think that I jumped a little bit of a step but you can already see that when I tell the things, what is the difference from things that are done choice and that things are merely done willingly? At least one of the things is that if I tell you okay I chose this, then you know I’m the kind of guy that likes this kind of thing. This is my idea of beauty has something to do with this or my idea of what the purpose of this…
Student: It reflects something about me versus how that piece of paper is put down on the desk doesn’t say anything about me unless you say it says that I’m messy or something very general. It doesn’t say anything particular to this action about me. I’m messy, or then it goes back—that’s why I tried to get away—then it goes back, a question: if it’s automatic, does it come from some character trait that I have, right? It doesn’t really come from anything, some difference that’s entirely arbitrary. Can’t blame anyone else, but it doesn’t say anything else about me.
So now, yeah. Just going back to the kids thing, is that what you’re saying, the kids don’t have intentionality?
Instructor: Yeah, kids. So this, I’ll finish, I’m just going to finish one thing.
So now, when we say that choice is necessary for things to be relevant morally, if you think about it in this way, you’ll realize right away from thinking the difference between willing and choice, you’ll see that what we need is not that there’s something that wasn’t forced, that something else did that. It’s not enough. Because I showed you from these examples, what we mean by that is something—and also not, obviously, the problem of determinism, which would just be a thing that everyone is always forced because nobody ever does anything because the principle is not in him. He’s not the beginning of that action.
But what we’re looking for is a specific way in which an activity is mine. There’s some ba’alus [ownership/responsibility], some ownership of the thing, which is why we’re looking for this thing called choice.
This is why it’s very obvious, right? Everyone understands that we have this category of premeditation, and we have, in law it’s very important to talk about intention—did the person plan it? And we can do something like character witnesses, which show what kind of person is, would he have planned it or something like that. Or even if he did it just out of anger, that doesn’t show so much. That isn’t somehow less bad.
Why is it less bad? It’s only less bad because we understand that what choice is, what makes actions belonging to a human being, is precisely that they come out of the kind of thing he is, the kind of person he is. Does this make sense?
And this is an entirely different definition of why choice is even important in ethics or in judgment—not only important to negate problems of someone else did it. It was important to negate the question: did he do it because of what he is, or did he just do it for some other reason, or for no reason? If you do something for a reason and part of the reason is what you are, then it’s something that shows what you are.
Student: Do we not want to—in this, just to maybe split it out into maybe this is a third category—but we’re not looking for exclusively actions that follow from rational deliberation, right? We’re looking for things that follow from character that was a product of rational deliberation?
Instructor: Well, we’re going to get to that problem. That’s more complicated. The kind of character is not something distinct from rational deliberation, some kind of reason.
Student: So far this sounds very circular to me. In other words, where does it start from? The chicken or the egg, right? When I start doing something, anytime I start doing something, what type of person am I?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, I’m talking about after.
Student: And then it turns me into that, whatever type of person. It’s circular.
Instructor: That’s not the problem. We’re talking about—I’m just telling you the ideal. The fact that it’s circular, that’s agreed.
Student: No, you’re saying that it tells me what type of person I am.
Instructor: Yes.
Student: So what is that? I thought action makes me a person.
Instructor: That’s true. But we’re saying that the ideal action—I’m just talking about how the ideal action is the one where you’re already a kind of person and you’re doing good things because you’re that kind of person. Not before that. There’s three stages in every—that’s the practical sense.
Student: But I can never do anything without—
Instructor: No, you could. When you’re doing something because you’re forced—
Student: No, that’s not true. Nobody is forced to do anything.
Instructor: And especially it’s obviously possible to do things against your own choice. We have to talk about this. It’s also possible to do things against what you think is good or against what you feel is good. At least that’s how practice works, right? Practice means—there’s not—I didn’t say ever that everything we do comes out of what we are. The opposite.
But those would be the less chosen actions, or the actions less connected to your choice. What you are doesn’t force you to do anything ever. There isn’t even such a thing as what you are in that sense.
This is something that we have to understand a lot better. When we say something like people have character traits, those are not force powers. They’re not energies that force you to do things.
What they are is precisely something choosy—I don’t know how you say that—something that has the attribute of choice. It’s actually what they are is almost a choice, choice plus something else, plus actually liking it. But that’s your liking isn’t aligned with your choice, but not habit—habit not in an automatic way.
All the habits that we’re ever talking about are not something that should be understood as an automatic thing. The only thing that is automatic—that it doesn’t mean you don’t become an automatic thing. This is another important thing. I’m again jumping around, I’m just jumping around.
But you should be very clear that when we say that a good person is someone that has good habits, we do not mean that he’s a person that does things without thinking. It’s almost the opposite. He does everything with thinking.
Student: Are you saying this is where the intentionality comes in?
Instructor: Yeah, yeah.
Student: How does that tie in with what you were saying before about having intention or purpose or whatever?
Instructor: Yes, because intention means I’m doing something for a reason.
So you want it to be two things. You want it to be you with a purpose or intention? “You” just means, you in the simple sense, in the willing sense, is just: I did it, not someone else.
But “you” in the more complex sense is: I did it because of me. Because of me understanding this to be a good thing, which is the kind of person I am. I see the good in certain things. I see how this is good. I’m trained to understand how to act in certain cases. That’s what we mean when we say choice.
Student: But also you’re doing it because it’s what you do.
Instructor: That’s what exactly doing, because it’s what I do, is what it means doing it because I chose it. That’s what choice consists of.
Student: That’s what I’m asking, I guess, your question also.
Instructor: There’s not—choice is not something—this is precisely what we’re trying to get to here. We could talk—trying to think if I—my four things here.
The choice is not something contrary to doing things automatically. There isn’t really—the understanding that we have here of habit is not really doing things automatically. There is not such an understanding. Maybe they think that it’s not the correct description of the things we call that way.
When we say, I explained to you, the reason why we’re interested in choice is not only because choice is distinct from willing. What’s interesting in choice is because we’re interested in things done that the person did, unlike something that just—they are not expressive of what he is.
Now the kinds of thoughts, the kinds of reasons that people have are a lot more expressive of what they are than their choices when they don’t have good reasons or their choices when they don’t like what they’re doing. This would be two different levels, but in any case.
When I say he is the kind of guy that he likes, that he makes—he’s a murderer, right? He planned the murder. And he planned the murder because to him, murder is good. Murder seems good to him. That makes the action a worse kind of action and shows that he’s a worse kind of person than when we say someone murdered someone because he was angry in the moment or just for no reason.
The kind of reasons, the kind of reasons that people have, the kind of intentions they have—which are intentions that are just aiming towards a reason, aiming towards a goal that you have—the kind of reasons that people have is precisely expressed through what kind of people they are. There isn’t two things: the giving reasons and being a kind of person.
Student: I’m still confused. There’s two things going on. There’s the fact that you want it to be a habit, but also you want it to be a habit that isn’t just automatic. I don’t know. I don’t think that really. At a certain time every day, just automatic, not thinking.
Instructor: Those are precisely the things that I just said that we don’t call choice. The paper sideways or—
And again, choice doesn’t have to be every day. That’s another question.
Student: Even though it’s a habit, it’s still not a choice, basically.
Instructor: Well, only in—I don’t think we have to judge activity one by one. We could say, that’s another thing, as I said, if we can jump all the way there and talk about that.
There’s no reason, because the whole—when we’re talking about judging a person as the kind of person he is, right, we’re going to tell his whole life story, at least a long story. We’re not going to ask about every action. That’s the wrong framing or the wrong—
Student: But what do you think, a person goes out for a cigarette every day at noon?
Instructor: Right. But again, let’s talk about something more simple, right?
Can you go back to my example of choosing the kind of something that would make sense to say I chose? You see that this, what?
Student: Stopping to smoke a cigarette.
Instructor: What’s interesting—no, I’m trying to get something. What’s interesting about me saying I chose to buy this chandelier is not that I could have not bought it. There’s something a lot—that’s obviously true, but there’s something a lot more interesting in saying that.
It’s that I chose in the sense that I checked into it, I looked into it, I found the right one, I have my reasons for doing that. And this whole story is what makes my choice of buying a chandelier interesting in a human way, in a way that is, I say, is expressive or has something to do with—
Instructor: I could not have done otherwise. It’s the opposite. If I make a decision, assuming that this is something I can express—that example is not a really ethical example—but assuming that, if you imagine it as an ethical thing, and we say, I made this choice because I have a correct… You could use aesthetics as a place of ethics, right? Because I have the correct vision of beauty, I understand how proportionate things have to be and which colors they have to be and so on. That’s why saying that it’s my choice is interesting. That’s why it makes it part of me. It makes it something that I did, right?
It’s actually not true that I could have done differently. It’s almost the opposite. I couldn’t have done differently. I couldn’t have chosen differently. I could have been forced to do something differently. I could have not chosen differently. If I would do differently, it would be not by choice, because my choice is precisely what comes out of my understanding of how things should be.
Instructor: If I would have bought an ugly chandelier—assuming that I’m the guy that understands this, right—if I bought an ugly one, you would say, “Well, he didn’t choose it.” For example, right? I’ll tell the same example. If you come here and you see, “Well, why is there that ugly thing?” And I say, “Why? I didn’t choose that. Don’t blame me for it. I didn’t choose it. It’s there by necessity because the air conditioner was there before and we didn’t have the ability to move it.” So therefore, right, you see how that absolves me?
That doesn’t mean I don’t have responsibility. Also doesn’t mean I couldn’t have done differently. I could have done differently, but it doesn’t express my choice. It’s not a choice that I made. Choice is a very positive thing and it’s not the same thing as “he could have done otherwise.” It’s almost the opposite of “he could have done otherwise.” He almost couldn’t have done otherwise. Of course, if he entirely could have done otherwise, it’s more complicated than this, but almost.
Instructor: Did this help us split these two things? Somewhat. They’re still there. They’re closely connected. Nobody’s arguing. I just have to show you the difference, right? So I just—I want to—it has to follow. What takes place has to follow by virtue of your human participation, human kind of decision, which is by reasons and by understanding of what is good and things like that. So when you develop some *middah* [character trait] or something like that, what we’re saying is that you’re going to do that, but when you do that, it reflects the choice. That’s the point.
Instructor: A *middah* always, all *middot*, this has to do with another class that we did, probably—all *middot* consist almost of, or at least require, something called practical judgment, *phronesis* [Greek: practical wisdom], practical wisdom. A *middah* is not—that’s why we have to keep on getting out of this model that we have. A *middah* has kind of energies that push you to do things. There’s no inkling of that. Having a correct *middah*, it means something like having a good—something, the closest knowledge that I have that people know what it is, means something like having a good aesthetic judgment. I mean, I have an eye for the correct activity, the correct action.
Instructor: And even very clearly, you can see very clearly what—no, it’s not true. You can see very clearly how there’s something active all the time. It’s not—someone, right, if you think of this analogy, right? Someone—there’s a person that has a good eye for beauty, right? When he judges something as beautiful, it’s true that he judges this from something you could call it energy if you really want, but it’s not the way that people would understand. It’s true that he was trained to be able to have this. This is not something he was born with, or maybe not necessarily born with. He trained himself by making a bunch of judgments and accepting criticism and however it is that you get trained into having a good eye for beauty. But it’s not the eye that he has sort of pushing him to have that judgment. It’s a judgment that he has right now.
Student: Even habits in this sense then can follow because they’re informed by an ethical perception of a certain…
Instructor: You could see how they’re ethically informed, even if they’re habitually carried out.
Student: Habits are not habitually carried out?
Instructor: Because I have the evaluative—because there’s always—because, not that’s what you’re doing, right? Because, yeah, every habit that we think of is something like, here’s a person that only gets mad in the right times, right? This means something like he has a good eye for identifying the times in which you should be getting angry. It doesn’t mean—it’s very important that all *middot* acquire *phronesis*. It doesn’t mean his boiler of anger is calibrated correctly in his soul. That whole story is a fantasy that you were taught by Disney, I don’t know who. It doesn’t exist. This is like my first class on ethics. People keep on going back to that for some reason. I don’t know why people like that image, like that understanding. There’s no reason to think of it.
Student: I think it’s how informed, how ethically informed your activities are, even if they’re repeated. They’re repeated, but they’re actively repeated. They’re not passively repeated. It follows from an ethical understanding.
Instructor: Yeah, or a perception almost.
Student: Yes.
Instructor: Because that partially answers the question, right? Things can become easier in a certain sense, but it’s still—right, like I’m a very good painter. You have to understand the habit like this. Word “habit” is extremely confusing for the correct understanding. If the habit is more like, I’m a very good painter, I can habitually paint a beautiful art. I don’t have to think about it. I just come in the morning to a studio and I take out a paint and it’s painted in five minutes. Nobody would say that that means it wasn’t done with skill, right? Skill is art knowledge. Nobody would say, “Well, he’s not really doing it. It’s just his habit doing it.” It doesn’t even make sense. And then it’s the opposite. The more he has the habit, the better artist he is, not the worse artist he is. Then it’s more relevant to praise him for being a good artist.
Of course, you could say there wasn’t a challenge in it. I’m not saying that it’s more—in some sense, if he has a challenging thing, then he’s going to express even more of his art, because now there’s a complicated case. He has to express more of his knowledge of how exactly to paint something. But there’s no way it’s going to be looking like a three-year-old *mishka* [scribble/mess]. It’s not automatic.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: Exactly, but it’s never automatic in the sense that you’re imagining the whole time. And actually, if I—you know people, nobody ever—I don’t know, I don’t even know where people got this idea, now that I’m thinking of this. Where did you get the idea that people have automatic *middot*? Why? What are you people even talking about? The *oved* [one who serves/works] went automatically, what does this even mean? What’s automatic in the sense of—I mean, you could talk about automatic in things that are actually not ethical, like I have a certain tick, like whenever I wake up, I push my ear that way. That’s not relevant. There’s no good or bad in that. That’s something with no thought. But anything that’s ethically relevant, you really have an example of one that’s automatic in any real way?
Student: He’s a *masmid* [diligent scholar], they learned everything.
Instructor: Okay, well in what sense is that automatic? Seems like a very funny description of something. You got what I’m saying?
Student: No, I could—because what is following, like what you said, yeah, without like it going through his clear *hergel* [habit] or his *koach* [power/faculty], his *middas ha-modeh ha-emes* [the character trait of acknowledging truth]?
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: No, meaning, where does that come from?
Instructor: Yeah, I don’t know. Is that so hard to imagine?
Student: To bypass his so-called faculty of choice or his faculty of whatever faculty it is that determines this?
Instructor: Is it so hard to imagine? It doesn’t make sense because *modeh ha-emes* means that I know—doesn’t mean—just to be clear, this has to do with *derech mitzvah* [the way of commandments], right? If *modeh ha-emes* would mean something like I’m like a machine, you press a button and I tell you everything I’m thinking, then you would be correct. But since there’s no *middah* that’s like that, right?
Student: No, but there are levels of intentionality you could have, for example, not for the *middah*, not for an intermediate, right?
Instructor: No, no, no, even if it’s intermediate. For example, if it’s not governed by the rationality of the thing itself but by something else. So as someone tells me every morning when you come in, do this.
Student: Yeah, but that’s not an ethical habit.
Instructor: There’s nothing intermediate about that, right? The intermediate requires knowledge, always requires judgment.
Student: But it’s automatic.
Instructor: Automatic in what way?
Student: Automatic in the sense that—
Instructor: No, waking up at a certain time is not—it doesn’t follow from rational deliberation in any sense.
Student: Oh, it does, but I do it repeatedly.
Instructor: It does, because you need to know when it’s the right time. How do you know when it’s the right time?
Student: Yeah, yeah, so I’m saying it’s…
Instructor: You may have to do it without looking at the clock?
Student: Right, right, so let me…
Instructor: Or maybe you have an internal clock. That doesn’t change anything.
Student: One second, so is there a difference between the person who comes in and hits the light switch every morning because he was told, “By the way, every morning when you come in, hit the light switch,” and the person who turns on the light every day because he wants there to be light in the building?
Instructor: No, I don’t see the difference.
Student: Okay, there’s no difference.
Instructor: The person who turns on the light every day is because he wants there to be light in the building.
Student: No, no, no, let’s say, for example, he’s…
Instructor: If he’s—no, of course, in some sense he’d be operating like a machine. Someone could tell him, “Hey, your job, you know, I’m paying you ten dollars a day to get this.” Rich people can be told to act like machines for other people. Then they’re not agents. Then they’re not ethical agents. Then they’re just *karka olam* [ground of the world; inert matter].
Student: This idea that things—
Instructor: Yeah, but this idea that things can’t be done—you know, nobody would call that a choice, a hundred percent. But it does mean that things can be done automatically without participation.
Student: Oh, that’s complicated.
Instructor: Only in a relative sense. I’m not saying—but what I’m saying is that there are degrees.
Student: Yeah, but it’s not very interesting.
Instructor: Just to be clear, that’s why the “just following orders” excuse doesn’t work very well, ethically.
Instructor: This idea that things can’t be done 100%, but it does mean that things can be done automatically without participation in rational deliberation. Oh, that’s complicated, only in a relative sense. I’m not saying it’s not in a relative sense, but I’m saying it’s that there are degrees.
Student: Yeah, but it’s not very interesting, just to be clear.
Instructor: That’s why the “just following orders” excuse doesn’t work very well. Ethically, it doesn’t work very well, precisely because no action that’s relevant—again, the only extreme case is something like where I throw you onto someone, then I’m really using you as a tool—but everything besides that is going to go through your rational or emotional, even, whatever you want to call it. It doesn’t have to be rational. Again, everything we say rationally, we don’t mean reason in the kind of reason that learns to use. We mean the kind of reason that knows that if you want to go through the door, you have to open the door.
Student: Right, right.
Instructor: There isn’t a possibility for a human being to do that without that, and even in a sense without whatever kind of ethical judgment he has, because people don’t only do things because they think they’re correct. We have to get to this and more. I’m not going to finish it today—what time is it?—but I have to go through his four things that choice is. I’ll see a bunch of nice things.
But to conclude this point: you would, firstly, you would not be able to do anything without some kind of perception at least, which is a kind of judgment. So again, you could say I made a mistake, I have some habit that caused me to perceive things wrongly, and so on, but there’s something there. And also not really possible to go through some kind of choice, because, again, choice in the sense of the deliberative choice, this kind of thing where I aim towards something because I think it’s good.
Now, I might not have two sides, I might not have thought about it for a very long time—all of these things we could talk about, like degrees of choice. I agree. But you can’t really have anything that’s, again, anything that’s ethically relevant. That’s relevant. Now, ethically relevant is another way of saying something that is done through this, how we call it, the desiring soul, right? The part of the soul that wants things. Now, the part of the soul that wants things works by identifying what it thinks is good and doing those things. How are we going to do without that 100%?
The only thing that I would say is, and where I do think it’s interesting, is that by understanding, let’s say, what you’re doing better and improving your understanding of what you’re doing, in some sense you change a little bit, even if you’re doing the same thing. I think eventually you’re not doing the same thing.
Student: Right, right.
Instructor: You’re not doing the same thing 100%, but not doing the same thing because there’s many descriptions of the same thing, and human activities have to do with those descriptions just as they have to do with the physical activity.
Student: Right, right.
Instructor: I’m just saying, because something can be automatic only shows that you have a minimum sense of—I don’t know which things are automatic. What does that mean? Tell me one automatic thing.
Student: So I wouldn’t call it automatic. I would say that there are some actions that follow from a much smaller narrative, right? For example, this is what I do so that someone doesn’t yell at me.
Instructor: Okay, so you could call it something like…
Student: Or not even this way: this is what I do because it works.
Instructor: It’s not automatic. It’s not interesting to say it’s automatic. What’s interesting is to say that you’re only following orders. So the real—in other words, if you want to judge this person, you could say something like… Even that I think is not true.
Student: No, I give you a dumb example for this, right? So if you have a program, right, there’s two typically—there’s different ways you can use it, right? But some people understand, “Hey, I click here and I click here and nobody—and everything works,” right? And then there’s a person who actually understands the mechanical function of that program and does this. They both do it habitually, right?
Instructor: I’m not sure what you mean by habitually. That’s what I’m confused about.
Student: Meaning, both of it follows from some sort of rational deliberation, but the way in which they’re doing that habitually is different. One is doing it habitually because they’re producing a certain outcome every time, and another one is doing it because they follow a specific procedure every time.
Instructor: Yeah, I’m not sure I understand, because they might be doing different things—the same people doing the same… Just to be clear, people doing the same physical thing might still be doing different things, right? In the ethical sense, right?
Instructor: Like our example of the people standing by a bus stop. Okay, people standing by the bus stop can all of them are standing by the bus stop, and then that’s the minimal description of what they’re doing. But also, one of them is going to visit his grandmother, another one is on the way to murder two people, and the other one is just checking if the bus comes on time. Those people are not doing the same thing. The ethically correct, ethically relevant, or humanly relevant description of what they’re doing—which is their intention—is not the same at all. Okay? Those are not the same thing.
Now, though, but the difference is not one of choice. It’s not that one of them have less choice. None of them are doing anything automatically. They’re just doing less of anything, right? I’m saying, of course, choice is more interesting when it’s a more complicated story, but none of them are doing anything not by choice.
Student: Right, but I think what people might mean when they say that someone’s doing something automatically means that it’s following from an adherence to a much less ideally rational place. If someone says something like…
Instructor: I get what you’re saying. Something like what we call automatically would just mean something like someone who the real reason he’s doing something is because he did it yesterday.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Like the Kotzker [Kotzker Rebbe] could have said that you shouldn’t do that.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Instructor: But I sort of think that nobody really says that. This is why I’m anti-Kotzk, because this is just a very weird judgment of people. Nobody doubted him because he doubted him yesterday. It even sounds weird. If you ask the guy, this so-called *mitzvos anashim melumadah* [commandments performed by rote], another guy, and they say, “Why are you putting on *tefillin* [phylacteries] today?” And he said, what did he tell you? “Because I put it on yesterday.”
Who, which normal—no human being would answer this answer. Only the people critical of him say that. They don’t really agree. They’re not into his mind. He’s saying, “Why am I putting on *tefillin*? Because I put on *tefillin*. Of course I do it every day because I put on *tefillin* every day.”
Student: Yeah, but not because he did it yesterday.
Instructor: I’d say more like a less than ideal rational understanding of what he’s doing, right? And he’s doing it for maybe something that is much less ethical than you would…
Student: Well, you could say, again, that’s what I think people mean by automatic.
Instructor: It’s not automatic. It’s a very bad word. It’s not expressing what it’s trying to say. It’s not true that the person who puts on *tefillin* like yesterday is doing it automatically. It is true that he’s doing much less. It’s something different.
You could say something like: you’re only putting on *tefillin* like you could eat *tefillin*. Really what you should be doing is putting on *tefillin* *b’chol l’vavcha, b’chol nafsh’cha, b’chol m’odecha* [with all your heart, all your soul, and all your might] to serve God, which is a different action. It expresses itself in the same physical part, but it’s a different action.
But that’s nothing to do with automatic. It can do something else. Automatic would be a weird description for doing something in a minimal way or something like that. It’s usually what people are criticizing, though, what they really want to criticize when they’re saying something’s automatic.
Student: That’s interesting. I hear what you’re saying.
Instructor: Yeah.
Instructor: Okay, we’re done. My life is complete. I could close it, or we’ll get to… We’ll finish more next time. That’s it.
Being a good person internally doesn't mean wanting to be a good person
- Anecdote about Chagall: The speaker references Rabbi Bezalel Naor's book "The Kabbalah of Relation" discussing Marc Chagall's paintings
- Chagall's style: Described as imaginative, fantasy-based, abstract, impressionistic—not realistic
- Chagall's self-characterization: Chagall compared himself to a more structured painter, calling himself a "Chassid" and the other a "Misnagid"
- Point: Even painting styles can be categorized as "Chassidish" (imaginative/abstract) vs. "Litvish" (structured/realistic)—this framing device sets up the class's exploration of different approaches
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- The class is about choice, not free will
- Speaker previously said free will "is not important" (not that it doesn't exist)
- Goal: Clarify one or two points only
- Central thesis: Choice is what makes us responsible for what we are
- This is framed as an "interesting paradox"
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- Focus on external actions—what a person does
- People judged by their products/outputs
- "You produce mitzvot, you're a good guy. You produce aveirot, you're a bad guy."
- Makes people into "machines" judged by output, not by what they are
- Speaker references Ramchal's (Rav Luzzatto's) Mesillat Yesharim
- Notes the dialogue version ("Vikuach") written in Renaissance Platonic style
- Purpose of dialogue form: Shows who the author is arguing against
- Ramchal's opponent: A "Talmudist"/nigleh person/Litvak who thinks actions are sufficient
- Speaker agrees with Ramchal's critique of pure action-focus but disagrees with how Mesillat Yesharim frames the alternative
- Ramchal's main point in the hakdamah: There IS a wisdom to be studied in Ethics—it's not just simple, obvious stuff
- The "action people's" view: Those focused on action agree some level of kavanah/internal intention is needed (otherwise "it's not you doing it"), but they consider this basic/simple
- Ramchal's defense: He's responding to the charge that the Chassidim (pious ones) who spend all day "purifying their internality" are wasting time repeating simple mussar
- Best dialogue: Shadal's "Vikuach al HaKabbalah"—opponent is not a straw man
- Ramchal's interlocutors are "not very advanced"
- Baal HaTanya reportedly says mussar is "good stuff but not ma'akiv" (not essential/indispensable)
- Speaker admits uncertainty about Baal HaTanya's precise view, suspects it may be "somewhat confused" but can't demonstrate this now
- Contrary to actions-only view: there's something internal that matters
- "What you are and not only what you do"
- This internal theory is subject to many simplifications and much nonsense people believe
- Previous classes discussed this through actions, character, and middot
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- Core claim: A good person doesn't necessarily do something different than a bad person with self-control
- The difference is internal, not in external behavior
- This is the "sharp point" the speaker wants to make
- Tanya also holds that doing good things is not enough
- Tanya's categories of rasha, benoni, and tzadik illustrate this
- A benoni does good actions but isn't internally transformed
- What Tanya calls "internal" is NOT the same as what Rambam/Aristotle call internal
- Tanya, as a "good Litvak," ties himself in knots trying to work this out with gemaras
- Speaker believes "Tanya's gemaras are the wrong ones for this subject"
- Reference to Raya Mehemna—"research needed"
- Major distinction noted later: Tanya doesn't discuss human relationships at all—only focused on the relationship between person and God
- The Shared Thesis: Chassidus, Mussar, Kabbalah, and Philosophy all agree: Actions are not enough—they're not even the main thing
- The Unresolved Question: How to spell out what "internal" means—this is where confusion arises
- Provide clarification of the internal dimension based on Rambam and Aristotle's understanding
- This is presented as the correct framework
- Student mentions Rambam's Perek Hey (or Chet) connecting maaseh and middot
- Speaker's response: The word "deot" in that context means opinions, not middot
- This distinction matters but is deferred
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- Key question: What does it mean to have a middah (character trait) versus just doing the action?
- Example: Courage - Someone can do courageous acts without BEING courageous
1. Imitation - copying others
2. Spur-of-the-moment decisions - not from settled disposition
3. Self-control - overriding fear through willpower (involves a split)
- Critical distinction: Acting virtuously vs. having virtues "in there"
- Rambam "discounts completely" mere external action without internal disposition
- Key principle: "Nobody would call a good person someone who hates being good"
- Christian view on hell: Even a seemingly righteous person could go to hell if "internally wicked"
- Speaker's pushback: What would it mean to be internally wicked while acting good?
- Christian explanation: The potential for wickedness exists due to original sin—even apparent righteousness is tainted
- Speaker sees this as a "similar way of thinking" but questions what internal righteousness really requires
1. To like it - enjoying/wanting the virtuous action
2. To have a stable disposition - being "that kind of person" vs. "a person who did it"
- Analogy offered: "The difference between colored people and people of color" (grammatical structure indicating essential vs. accidental property)
- Middah = character trait
- Malakah = Arabic-derived term for virtue as a settled state
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- Having a virtue is MORE than doing correct actions—it's being that kind of person
- BUT (crucial point): Unlike an "extreme internal version," the internal liking is NOT turned inward
- The internal component is still ABOUT something in action
- For Aristotle and Rambam: Humility is a way of RELATING TO OTHER PEOPLE
- Speaking appropriately
- Not putting yourself above others
- Not looking down on people
- In the "appropriate amount" (matching one's station—e.g., a talmid chacham has different considerations)
- NOT being a "shfachah" (servant) to everyone
- Like every middah, humility requires the right measure—"a different discussion"
- Common misconception: Anavah is totally internally focused—"what I think about myself when I sleep in my bed"
- Speaker's correction: "Nobody cares" about that for middot purposes
- Middot are other-regarding: They're about actions toward others
- "Middot are all other-regarding" (with some complicated exceptions)
- They're all about actions
- They're about "how you like" acting
- Person with internal anavah: Likes being in equal relationship with others
- Person who just acts the part: It "hurts them" to be equal or below others—they don't enjoy it
- Student challenge: Can't someone enjoy being friends with people but still internally think they're above everyone else?
- Speaker's response: Self-regard (what you think of yourself) is a separate discussion from the middah of anivut
- Key distinction: Anivut is not about accurate self-assessment—even Moshe Rabbeinu knew he was great
- What anivut actually is: Treating people with humility/respect, relating to people as equals, acting "somewhat below what he really is" in social relations
- The middah defined: Someone with humility *enjoys* being at the appropriate level of equality; someone without it enjoys being on top of others; someone with self-control dislikes equality but overcomes it through action
- Perishut (temperance) seems to be about one's relationship to pleasure, but it actually has a social function
- It's about *eating in the appropriate amount*, not about how much you like food
- The correct amount of physical pleasure is determined by what is conducive to society
- Speaker acknowledges uncertainty about what Tanya and Mussar Seforim actually think on this
- Notes there are "other levels" to this discussion not being addressed now
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- It doesn't make sense to say "I'm really a good person but I don't act well"
- Example: "I fight with everyone but I really love them" is incoherent
- If you *like* not fighting, why do you fight?
- "I love them in my heart" should mean "I don't like fighting with them"—but then it's a contradiction
- Middah of friendship: Being the kind of person who is a good friend—stably, automatically, without consulting "How to Win Friends"
- False conflict: "I love my friends but every time we get together we fight"
- This is NOT a conflict between internal and external
- In Aristotelian terms: This is a conflict between *fantasy* and *what you really are*
- You don't have the middah of friendship at all—you have something else
- Better example: "I'm a good friend but sometimes I get mad easily and don't act like one"
- This represents genuine conflict where self-control is needed
- Before this level: You don't need self-control—you need to learn what the middah is or start developing it
- Possible sources of conflict: Another middah interfering, anger problems getting in the way of friendship, etc.
- The dangerous case: Someone who *thinks* he likes his friends (when reflecting privately) but has no actual virtue of friendship
- Speaker's strong claim: "That person for sure goes to hell"
- What's happening: People fantasize themselves as good because their fantasies aren't about living/acting in the world
- Talmid Chacham example:
- Fantasy version: "I would have wanted to be the kind of guy that learns a lot"
- You can't claim to be "internally a talmid chacham" with just external hindrances
- Real version: Someone who *loves to actually learn* but gets angry or distracted sometimes—then we can discuss the conflict
- Fantasy version: You love *the idea of being that person*, not the actual activity
1. Having the middah: Stably liking and performing the virtuous action
2. Having the middah with conflict: Having the virtue but other factors (anger, distraction) interfere—requires self-control
3. Fantasy of the middah: Thinking you have it because you like the idea of being that person—no actual virtue
4. Not even the fantasy: Lower still—"it can always be worse"
- "Never be mashiach-ish"—there's always a lower level
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- Even the "internal" quality being discussed is not purely for oneself
- Rambam would say (in his last chapter) that internal virtue still affects "the quality of the heart"
- The internality discussed serves social purposes, not just personal spiritual purity
- The "external" version of honesty: Someone who doesn't steal only because they fear jail
- Acts correctly as long as "the police are looking"
- This is the "shelo lishma" (not for its own sake) version
- The "internal" version: Someone who likes being trustworthy for its own sake
- Thinks being trustworthy is good for him as a person
- Has what we call a "moral backbone"
- Is actually a good person, not just an untrustworthy person acting within bounds
- Insufficiency of external enforcement: Law, honor, embarrassment—none cover enough situations
- The variety problem: Human situations are so varied that you can't have "a form for everything"
- If you rely only on forms/rules, people will always find loopholes
- If you rely on people having good judgment and being decent, you get a more stable, reliable society
- High-trust societies: People are educated to act in trustworthy ways
- Not disconnected from law enforcement, but also an educational achievement
- This is what Aristotle, Plato, and others would emphasize
- Concrete example - Tax systems:
- American ideal: IRS believes you when you report income (honor system); if caught lying, severe consequences
- European/Israeli system: State doesn't expect truth; requires receipts and prior verification; lying is expected, punishment is routine
- Someone mentions high-trust societies correlate with ancient/established cultures; also mentions certain societies have low crime because of constant fear for one's life (different mechanism)
- The problematic "internal restraint" person: Someone who says "I would murder everyone who cuts me off in traffic, but I recognize it would be bad for me, so I overcome my urges"
- Even the most extreme "lishmah/reward" advocates wouldn't befriend this person
- He's a "bad guy" - not because he acts badly, but because he's "sick"
- What a "good person" actually means:
- Someone well-educated (not natural—this is worked on)
- The project since "Hashem came" has been getting people to not want to kill
- It's insufficient to get people to recognize they shouldn't kill, or to scare them with punishment
- We need people who genuinely don't want to kill—that's the only path to less murder long-term
- Common misconception: Extreme internalist ethics seem antisocial
- Speaker's position: This is internalist ethics for the purpose of being social
- The focus is still on social activity/outcomes
- "I don't want to murder" doesn't mean "I have a pure soul" (though that might be true—different discussion)
- It means: "You can rely on this person not to murder anyone unless extremely necessary"
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- Universal agreement: Actions or habits that don't "come from you" don't count as good *human* things
- This is why discussions of will and choice matter in ethics
- Examples of what doesn't count morally:
- Being forced to do something (extreme case)
- Entirely natural traits (e.g., physical beauty)
- Key distinction: A beautiful person gets no moral credit—praising them is really praising God for creating beautiful people, not praising the person *as a person*
- Such things may be good, but not good "in the human virtue sense"
- The real question: What is the human being? What makes me *me* most?
- Two contrary positions emerge (speaker notes: "one opinion and one correct knowledge")
- Something belongs more to you when it flows from stable character/virtue than when chosen "in the moment"
- Example explored: Generosity (liberality)
- One could give generously by forcing oneself
- One could give generously on a whim ("I was in the mood")
- One could give too generously (separate issue)
- The stably generous person—one who *is* generous—does generous things that are "more about him" than momentary choices
- If the goal is to become a good person, good people do good things "automatically"
- Actions "follow" from virtues almost necessarily (not like a table, but with no deliberative step in between)
- Common objection: If actions become automatic, aren't they *less* yours?
- The Aristotelian/Rambam view rejects this objection
- What they're NOT looking for: Something "most determined by your will in the moment and could have been otherwise"
- What they ARE looking for: Things that tell us *what we are*
- To *be* something requires stable character
- "One day a malach, one day a galach" = not really anything, not really human (no internal stable self)
- The person with stable character—good or bad—has actions that follow from *what he is*
- This is what makes actions truly "his"
- Some existentialists (in extreme cases) and many contemporary people seek a different kind of "choice"
- They want actions to be valuable only if chosen in some radical, unconditioned sense
- Their position: The most primary part of a person is a "free ability to choose between options"
- What they reject: Personality as the core of humanity - personality is dismissed as just nature, product of education, culture, or conditioning
- What they affirm: Some "very weird thing" - free choosing of life/meaning from possibilities or even "from infinity"
- Speaker's critique: "I don't think anyone ever experienced that thing because that's not really how life works"
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- Are things done because of good education truly "mine"?
- Good education teaches you to like certain things
- Education works initially through external means (reward/punishment, habituation)
- It can't directly make you *like* something—you must see that for yourself
- But education is still the cause of becoming a good person
- Many people today think: "I'm doing this because I was taught to do it—this is not me, not my choice"
- Speaker's response: This misunderstands what "choice" means
- Aristotelian choice = "a considered opinion, a considered drive towards this, that I think this is the correct way to act, and I like it also"
- Good education gives you exactly this (not just external compliance)
- Education starts with "lo lishma" (not for its own sake) but somehow produces "lishma" (for its own sake)
- It would be very weird (and probably never happens) for someone to stay purely at reward/punishment level
- "The moment a mashgiach leaves the room, you're left with nothing"—this isn't how life actually works
- You're always left with *something* about yourself, even if less than when externally motivated
- Concrete example: Yeshiva gets you to learn 2 hours/day when afraid, 1 hour/week when not—that hour is the middah they actually instilled
- The absurd implication: If liking to learn is "just conditioning, just education, not me"—then what IS you?
- Jumping into a pool at midnight for no reason?
- Acting while drunk?
- Rhetorical challenge: "What is this 'you'? What is this free choice that people are after all the time?"
- The Chassidic saying: "If you daven because you davened yesterday, that's not a good reason"
- Speaker notes this can be interpreted correctly, but is often misunderstood
- Speaker's point: If education made me a person who davens daily, that is NOT less me
- The false view of freedom: Things done "for no reason" are more free/authentic
- "Because that's what I am" counts as a reason (therefore not "free" on this view)
- "What I am" = the fullness of what I am sees this as good and likes it
- There ARE reasons in stable character (even if not articulable)
- The mistaken anthropology: "Free floating will" is what makes humans human
- "I can choose to be anything I want"
- Therefore, being the person your education made you = inauthentic
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- Speaker calls it "a fake thing, in this sense"
- The unanswered question: Authentic to *what*?
- Analogy: An authentic watch is one really made by that watchmaker, not a counterfeit
- Problem posed: What is an "authentic person"? Authentic to what?
- There needs to be some "real person" or "ideal you" to be authentic to
- Challenge: The person following their education also "really likes" what they do
- So what distinguishes authentic liking from trained liking?
- "Fake people" do what education told them; "real people" are authentic
- Implication: This distinction is incoherent—there's no "authentic self" independent of formation
- Existentialist position identified: Authenticity = being what you chose, often defined negatively as "not what you told me"
- Critique: This is "babyish" - like a teenager doing the opposite of parents just to feel autonomous
- Core problem: Who is this "you" that's choosing? That "you" is still a product of education or self-education
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- Question: What would happen if you removed belief in punishment (Gehenna) from religious communities?
- Friend's pessimistic view: If you convinced all of Lakewood there's no Gehenna, they'd all stop coming to shul
- Friend's extreme claim: "Take the biggest talmid chacham, convince him there's no Gehenna, he becomes a goy the next day"
- Speaker's bet: People would do less, but not stop entirely
- "They'll come less to shul, but they should come less anyway - they're coming too much"
- Empirical claim: Speaker has personally witnessed this play out with individuals
- People daven less but don't stop davening
- The accusation: Muslims sometimes claim non-Muslims are "all fakers" - acting only for external reasons, not authentic
- Speaker's response: This critique is "a little weird" and largely wrong
- Most people, if you remove reward and punishment, will mostly continue doing what they've been doing
- Key claim: Reward and punishment *train* people to become certain kinds of people
- Once trained, the behavior persists even without the original motivator
- This IS authenticity: After training, they ARE that kind of person now
- "They don't realize they're authentic because they keep adding [reward/punishment] again and again"
- Yeshiva forces 10 hours/day learning through extreme reward/punishment and "cult situation"
- During bein hazmanim (break): zero learning - "getting out the steam"
- But after months pass: The person becomes someone who "needs to learn at least some amount"
- Evidence: "They're coming to my shiurim... going to YouTube"
- People without that initial training don't learn even an hour a year
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- Trustworthiness doesn't *consist of* knowing government will jail you for lying
- That threat is what *trains* people to become trustworthy
- Key distinction:
- Without training → society would become worse (no chinuch/education)
- But the virtue doesn't *consist of* the threat - it creates "something besides itself"
- Structure (daily davening, going to shul) exists because of beliefs about punishment
- But: Those beliefs create something beyond themselves
- Formulation offered: "Forced habits create good habits" - basic theory of habituation
- Student's point: Having a job feels authentic - "something I want to do, but hard to do without structure"
- Speaker's challenge: Do you really "believe in your job"? Maybe you shouldn't - it's just a way to make money
- Student: "I think it's good to wake up early but laziness wins without structure"
- Speaker's skepticism: Why is waking up early good? What's wrong with 1 PM?
- Point: Sometimes we claim beliefs ("it's good to wake up early") that don't have real substance behind them
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- We're taught to think of choice as choosing between possibilities
- This leads to: "I was made into a certain kind of person by education, therefore I don't really have options"
- People then locate their "real choice" in tiny variations within constraints
- Story: Friend owns a Chassidish hat store with 375 different hat types
- Paradox: All one kind of hat, but 375 variations (brim width, ribbon size, height, etc.)
- Observation: Everyone knows exactly which of the 375 combinations they want - "that's what makes them special"
- Point: This is a "weird consolation" - people think they're being individual through microscopic differences
- Extension: "Maybe you think choice is something you yourself made up" - but even the "original" person with the custom hat doesn't need a microscope-level difference to feel original
- Conclusion: "There's nothing so original about anyone. There's so many ways to be a human being, there aren't any original ways"
- They identify what's "most human" as "some very tiny little thing which is supposed to be very free"
- Hebrew reference: "ומותר האדם מן הבהמה אין" (the advantage of man over beast is nothing) - some end up with this view
- Speaker's alternative: "Being a human means all of this" (the whole person, not just the abstract chooser)
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- Authenticity must be "authentic to something"
- In speaker's framework, authenticity talk only makes limited sense
- The self-controlled person forcing himself - "doesn't have any self" or self doesn't match internal state
- Being forced to do things you don't think benefit you
- Doing things only for external results (job for money, not caring about the work itself)
- Instrumental caring: I need money → I go to job → work is "aside" from what I care about
- Intrinsic caring: Actually caring about the activity itself
- Choice consists of: Being that kind of person
- Choice means: "The recognition that this is good"
- Not: Some abstract choosing mechanism separate from character
- It involves "thinking this is the correct way versus other ways" - some choosing of that over others
1. Doing the opposite of what parents taught doesn't make something "more choice"
2. Return to opening theme: "Wanting to do something is not what we're talking about"
3. Internality ≠ what I wish or what's in my head that I am
4. Internality = "what you really are, what you really like"
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- Speaker indicates this needs continuation: "We'll have to continue with this, but that's enough"
Instructor: Since this sheet is mostly about bashing Litvaks, just one of our gags that go on. So I saw in Rabbi Tzadon, over there, has a book about some Chagall paintings. You know Chagall? Mark Chagall was a painter?
Student: An artist, no?
Instructor: Yeah, an artist. I used to have his picture of a Jew here. I told my wife this other doesn't work in my new design. We should throw it out. Anyways, and he was a very, I don't know how you call it, imaginative, very like, what's that book? Let's see. It's a blue book. It's called The Kabbalah of Relation.
Student: Oh, this one.
Instructor: You could look at one of his pictures that you see already that his paintings are fantasy. They're not realistic. They're not based on anything in the world. They're based on things that are in the imagination. More abstract, I guess.
Student: So what? More abstract.
Instructor: Yeah, I don't know what it's called, impressionistic, fantasy, something.
Student: Oh, this is odd.
Instructor: Yeah, they're very odd. They're not, some of them are really odd, and some of them are not very odd. Yeah. So you understand what I'm talking about?
Student: Yeah, bring the book.
Instructor: Oh, okay. So it says in this book, Reb Tzalel [Rabbi Bezalel Naor] quotes, I'm saying, that he [Chagall] was comparing himself to another painter, but more, it's a bizarre, with more structure. And he said, ah, so I'm a Chassidismist. He says, paint a little stuff, see them at Litzbach's [Litvak's]. It's a Chassidic painting, and that guy's at Litzbach's. So from here, we see it's very, very Chassidic and Litzbach emotional for him. Like a style. See, it's these Chassidic and Litzbach painting styles. Now, like this.
Instructor: Now we're going to learn a little bit about choice. We're going to try. Right, we hear about, I talked about free choice and free will and—
Student: Yeah, yeah.
Instructor: So we're off to continue a little bit. I'll tell you why. And no such thing as free will. I didn't say this is just a thing. I said it's not important. There's a lot to talk about this, but let's talk a little bit. Let's clarify one or two points to be more than enough that make sense.
Instructor: So we discussed that why are we talking about free will entirely? No, I'm sorry. Why are we talking about choice, not free will? Okay, why are we talking about choice to begin with? We're talking about it because choice is one of the things that makes what we are into something that we are responsible for. That is the really interesting paradox. I don't know if we said it this way in the last class. I said it in the barback [Yiddish: in the other class] in this way.
Instructor: In other words, there's these two things, okay. We could talk about actions just actions, things that the person does. That's one thing, lit facts [literal facts], right? Let's talk about actions, right?
You read the, for example, I was really, it's very interesting because for example I was reading the level of tattoo muscles insurance [Mesillat Yesharim] and here there's a version with a dialogue in the beginning, you know?
Student: Yeah, that you know that, you know that.
Instructor: Yeah, that black book.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: The week after [Ramchal/Rav Moshe Chaim Luzzatto] was a Renaissance guy and he was after the Renaissance, but in their times it was fashionable to write dialogues in the manner of Plato and so on, not only to write treatises. And many of his books he wrote in both of these ways. Dialogue form, have you ever—and I recently bought in Judeca Plaza [Judaica Plaza], it's called a dialogue. Well, it's called—
Student: Yeah, that's so weird. I tried, I didn't get very far, but he was a lot more, he's a lot more, he's a Platonist, kind of a Platonist. I found the beginning a bit tedious, so I didn't get too far. Probably the translation is not so nice. It was so, it's hard to translate this kind of English.
Instructor: There's a University of Toronto one.
Student: They had a Hebrew one, I saw.
Instructor: Yeah, I have the Hebrew one. It was done by Mohamed Bialik [Chaim Nachman Bialik] or something.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: So it was a thing to do this dialogue form. And dialogue form is useful at least because it shows you what someone is really up against sometimes. Like who he's trying to argue. Sometimes you write an article and it's not clear who you're fighting with. So in a dialogue, you need to have an opponent.
The best dialogue I saw was Shadal's [Shmuel David Luzzatto's]. Okay.
Student: Yeah, because it's not just strong to be knocked down, it's a full-throated emotional, you know—
Instructor: Yeah, then how do you call it, is like partners in the dialogue, interlocutors, are not very advanced usually. They're not very good representatives of the other side.
Instructor: But in any case, if you use, I will noticing there and with the more reading of that because it's related to all the subjects that we're talking about, but his big thing in the beginning, he is, he's up against something he calls someone he calls a Talmudist. It's a nigleh [revealed Torah/Talmudic] person, a Litvak. And he tells the Litvak that he doesn't know there's naled [hidden/esoteric Torah], right? It's a big thing, which is something we agree with very much, right? But we don't agree with the way Mesillat Yesharim [Mesillat Yesharim] frames it. I'm not, this is not a Mesillat Yesharim bashing class either. We're not here to—I'm just trying to use them to illustrate a point.
So what he's up against over there is very clearly someone who thinks that actions are enough. He's like, what do we have to do in life? Well, we have to do what the law says. And of course, you have to have kavanah [intention], but that's not the major thing. The thing is actions. So it's an externalized version, more like we say sometimes it's making people into machines, which are things that are judged by their products, not by what they are or what they produce. You produce mitzvot [commandments], you're a good guy. You produce aveirot [transgressions], you're a bad guy. That's actions, right?
Instructor: Now, actions for the most part are there. That's the theory of actions. Now contrary to that, there's this theory of something more internal, right? Something we say what you're on the inside, things like that. And now that theory is something that needs a lot of explanation, a lot of differentiation within it. What do we really mean by being something on the inside, what you are, not only what you do? That's something very, I think that's given to very many simplifications and many nonsense that people say and believe based on that, right?
So as an example of clarifying that, we've got a lot of clarification on that point in our discussions of actions and character and middot [character traits], which is not something external but—and I think that there's both kind of mistakes. There's many kinds of mistakes in this.
Instructor: But to be very clear, when we talk about, when we talk about middot, right, having good middot, we are not talking about some active actions, right? Because the whole point, to make this point very sharp, the whole point of being a good person in our style world, the number [Rambam/Maimonides] world, is that a good person is someone who doesn't necessarily do something different than a bad person who is self-controlled. That's the important difference. There's good people and there's bad people who have self-control.
Student: That sounds very Tanya.
Instructor: Yes, I agree. I agree, and this is another thing. I think that the Tanya makes some of the mistakes that are placed from the Raman's [Rambam's] point of view. The Tanya agrees very much that it's not enough to do the good things. I think that's why the time—just to be very clear, because he says that in rasha [wicked person] could be someone or a benoni [intermediate person]—
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: So I think that, right, the Tanya breathes into very sharp relief with that statement. Although I'm not, I think that what the Tanya calls that tzadik [righteous person], what he calls eternal, is not the same thing we're calling alternative. The beginning of perek [chapter] says—
Student: Yes, no, just like this. Why does he compare the two though?
Instructor: Yeah, because I'm—and we're going to get the perek and discuss it at some point in the next 20 years. Very case explicitly about this, but it was a hand-in-hand, maaseh [actions] and then middot, all you, me, emunah [faith]. I don't know if that's what I remember.
Student: No, why do you think goes hand-in-hand in there? It says just like you have to be good at middot and this, right?
Instructor: No, no, I know what you mean. I don't think that's what it means, that word, that line. But let's stay here. We'll get to that. Yeah, I don't think, I don't think, I think the second thing is also not, also internal there. I'll explain. In other words, it's still middot, it's not maaseh. Of course there's maaseh that go with the middot, but what he's trying to say about deot [opinions/beliefs] over there means opinions, not middot. Deot over there doesn't mean middot anymore. The change is meaningless.
Student: Oh, really?
Instructor: I think.
Student: I'll have to read it outside.
Instructor: Wait, let me come back.
Instructor: In this sense, so yes, to be very clear, in this sense, the Tanya, and I think this is why the Tanya gets into this all. And the Tanya, as the good Litvak, ties himself in the knots by trying to explain this and working it out with the gemaras [Talmudic passages] and so on. And I'm pretty sure that Tanya's gemara is the wrong one for this subject. It's not. It's how they come, but of course, doesn't mean that it's ever. And maybe it means like that in the [Raya Mehemna, a section of the Zohar] that he quotes, another thing that there needs to be research needed.
Instructor: But Netanyahu [likely: Ramchal/the author] is trying very hard to establish this thing like Chassidus in the same, in the very broad sense, right? In the very broad sense, Chassidus and Mussar and Kabbalah and philosophy, they all agree with this statement that actions are not enough. They're not only enough, they're not the main thing.
Instructor: But how to spell this out, to spell out what it means, this internal thing, what does that consist of, that is something where people get very confused. And what I want to do today is to give some clarification of that based on Rambam, based on Aristotle's understanding of this. I think that that's the thing. So it seems to me that today that it's a different—
Instructor: So we're saying that it's agreed by... So wait, I was starting to talk about Ms. Schurman [Mesillat Yesharim], I didn't finish my sentence, so let's try to finish that sentence and then get to this one. Ms. Schurman, as an example, is very clearly against someone who will say that, but, for example, he pretends that that person is a scholar, and that his opponent, Luzzatto's opponent, is like a scholar who reads philosophy and science and so on, but of course that scholar is a very bad scholar because he didn't read the Ethics. And he's saying that about his...
Student: Yeah, well he doesn't say this, I'm saying this.
Instructor: He's telling him how, his main point is how there is a wisdom, there is something to be studied in Ethics. That's really Ramchal's point in his hakdamah [introduction], in both versions, but here you see it clearer in the dialogue. Because according to the opinion of the people who are into action, everyone agrees that they need some level of kavanah [intention] or some kind of internal, otherwise it's not you doing it and so on, but they think all that is simple because that's basic. And then his descriptions, like the Chassidim—Ramchal talks about Chassidim—the Chassidim, the pious, the super pious people who are busy all day purifying their internality, like it looks sometimes as if you're wasting your time, what are you even talking about by all your mussar [ethical teachings] and you're just repeating simple stuff over and over, and Luzzatto is trying to answer that charge.
Student: Well then you have the Baal HaTanya [Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi] who says it's good stuff but it's not ma'akiv [essential/indispensable], you know, it's not...
Instructor: Right, right. So I think that I don't know very well what the Baal HaTanya thinks precisely about this. I have a feeling that he's, at least from my standpoint, also somewhat confused, but I can't really show it right now. But what I think is that we need to distinguish a whole bunch of things in this internal levels of things.
Instructor: So let me—there's one thing that I already said many times. Does Mesillat Yesharim put at the beginning action because it's like zahir [careful observance] is the reason?
Student: Yeah yes, but we have to, I don't know how we understand it.
Instructor: I also think that he misunderstands zahir. There's a lot to talk about. I'm just using that as a way to talk about this thing. I was saying that his opponent is not really a philosopher. He pretends like, oh, we need mussar, we need whatever this story, Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism], whatever it is exactly that he's putting in against that. It's not really true because philosophers are the ones that invented this kind of internalism, and of course they don't—Aristotle at least—doesn't understand it in the way that he understands it. I think there's a big difference here which we have to get to.
Instructor: For example, one thing that we've talked about many times, maybe we'll be able to make it clear today, is that internal, we say middah [character trait], so what does that mean to have a middah versus to just do the action, right? Someone can do the action not by having it, not by being—right, someone can, for example, act in a courageous way, do a courageous act without being courageous, without having courage.
Student: And what will it be doing it by?
Instructor: Well, by imitation you could say, or doing it by some kind of spur of the moment decision. Remember that a character trait is something that's not spur-of-the-moment, it's something settled that has a more long-term existence in a person. Or you can do it by self-control, right? Like say I'm afraid—well it's not like the courageous person is not afraid, but again to that—but I don't really have this motivation which courage is, but I somehow do, I have it and... okay, we can talk about that separately because self-control is not very complicated, but those are the—that's why maybe when we're talking about now, maybe self-control isn't the best place to split, although it's also split there. But it's more complicated.
Instructor: So we could see people acting, we could say, let's say now, by imitation or by just spur-of-the-moment decisions, which doesn't mean that they're acting from that habit, from that character. He's not a courageous person. He did some courageous things in his life, or he did a courageous thing today. Maybe by doing that many times, he'll become courageous, like that, but he's not courageous yet, right?
Instructor: That's the important distinction in the Rambam [Maimonides] between the internal and the external. He doesn't call it internal-external, he just calls it having them in there, not having them in there. This is very important—that he discounts that completely. No, those must come to complete this, right? It's just not a good person. Because the reason, and the reason for this is obvious, right? Because as he says, for example, nobody would call a good person someone who hates being good, right?
Instructor: This is a very Christian thing, because Christians say, if you ask them, how could someone go to hell if they were a righteous person? And they say, well, they could be internally wicked.
Student: So wait, I think that this is a different interpretation of that, in some sense. Because let me—because I think that that's, I mean, what would it mean to be internally wicked, although you're good? I'm not sure.
Instructor: I think that they always say that you have the potential to be wicked, that you're tainted by the original sin. Even if it looks like someone's righteous, they're not really righteous because they're tainted by original sin.
Student: Okay, so then this would be something based off a similar way of thinking, but again the question is, what does this really require? What does it mean to be internally righteous, to be really righteous?
Instructor: Now, like I said, firstly, all it means is to like it. Or to have a stable disposition to do it. Something like, we say, he's that kind of person, not he's a person that did it. The difference between colored people and people of color. Something like that.
Instructor: So that's the thing, but one—so now I want to—there's one thing that we already did many times, which is to explain that these internal parts of this, so it's having a middah, having a character trait, having a virtue, right, having a virtue, and we call it a malakah [Arabic-derived term for settled disposition/virtue], which is a translation from Arabic. Having a virtue isn't equal to doing everything correct, it's something more than that, it's being that kind of person. But something very important to notice is that unlike an extreme internal version of this, that does not mean that the internal liking or the internal part of it is turned internally, right? So it's still about something in action. Does this make sense?
Instructor: So, for example, we talked about the example of... Which example do we talk about? Like a middah that Chassidim like to talk about, anavah [humility], right? Humility. Humility, and it's mentioned here in the list of middot [character traits]. Humility for Aristotle and for the Rambam is a way of relating to other people. That means speaking to people in the appropriate... with the appropriate level of... How do you call it? Being equal to them, or not putting yourself above them, not looking down at people, in the appropriate amount. Because to some extent you need to match your station in life. If you're a talmid chacham [Torah scholar] there's all these discussions—what is the appropriate level? But like every middah, it's just in the appropriate amount. It's not like to be a shifchah [servant] to everyone, that's not the idea. But that's a different discussion.
Instructor: What I'm trying to get at is that anavah, humility, is an other-regarding middah. It's about how you act, it's about how you act, right? It's not about how you feel internally. Of course now there is an internal part, but the internal part is not what I think of myself, it's how I like acting to other people. You get the difference? Most people when you talk about anavah they think that it's internal, totally internally focused, like what I think about myself when I sleep in my bed. Nobody cares—I mean at least for middot.
Instructor: Middot are all other-regarding, besides for some, which is complicated, but in general, middot are all other-regarding. In other words, they're all about actions. They're about how you like. Now, the difference between someone who has internal anavah, someone who just acts the part, is that the person who just acts the part doesn't like it, it hurts them to some extent, to be in an equal relationship with other people. It hurts them, or even below them. But how do you like acting equal to people when you internally...
Student: That's a question for...
That's the number one distinction, and this is a very important distinction, because I don't think you will find, at least for these middot—there are some middot that are, I mean, you could talk about middot between the person and God, or between—we discussed this over here, I think, already, that even a middah like perishut [temperance], which is what people think is a middah about how you relate to yourself, to pleasure, is really about, has a social function. So it's really about how you act. It's not really about how you feel. It's not about how much you like food. It's about you eating in the appropriate amount, and so on. So it's at least an action. There's another level, but it's not our conversation now. What determines the correct amount of liking physical pleasures is what is conducive to society, and not what is—that's a different discussion. There's other levels of this, but that's the meaning over there.
So that's one thing. That would be one important distinction. I don't know what the Tanya thinks. I don't know what Mussar Seforim think—all of these people, all these things are research needed. But what is important is that this internal version of internal internality is not an internally-focused internality. It's still externally focused because what the middah is, is the settled liking of the action. It's not something entirely disconnected from action.
In other words, and what's the big difference is, that it doesn't really make sense—somewhat makes sense, but doesn't make sense as much—to say, "I'm really a good person, but I don't act well. I end up fighting with everyone, but really I love them." Because what do you mean? Why do you fight with them if you like not fighting? But you're saying "I love them"—you mean to say, you don't mean "I love them in my heart," you mean "I don't like fighting with them." And that ain't just a contradiction. Now that happens too, but then it's a real contradiction. It's different, right?
You'll notice now I can go back to talk about what we call internal conflict, right? Not being self-controlled—in Greek, akrasia [ἀκρασία: lack of self-control], not being self-controlled. Or in Rambam's language—Rambam only has a self-controlled person, but the opposite of that, not a self-controlled person.
Then we can understand something interesting here, that this is not me—this is the important thing—it does not mean acting not in sync with what I feel internally when it's self-focused, right?
For example, let's talk about something like the correct amount of loving your friends, of being good to your friends, right? Which is the middah of friendship. Friendship is a very important middah, right? We have to be friendly to other people. Middah tovah [good character trait]. Very important. Much neglected.
Now, the middah of friendship—well, the activities of friendship, you know what they are. You hang out with them and you help them and you do business with them and there's levels of that and so on. But what is the internal thing? It's being the kind of person who is a good friend, right? So we could say he likes—there's more to it than liking, there's more to it than liking as we'll get to today or next time—but at least liking.
Now sometimes people say, "I love my friends, but somehow every time I get together we end up fighting, so I end up becoming or being the worst friend, right? I'm not so—" Some people talk about this as the conflict, right, the Tanya's conflict.
By the way, the Tanya doesn't talk about other human beings at all. That's one big difference between Tanya and every other Mussar book and so on. They're just focused on internal—the Tanya is only focused on between you and God. He's never focused on human beings. So it's a different discussion.
But the Tanya's version of this is, I think, also similar to this in some sense. Because the Tanya says things like this: "I love God internally, but I end up fighting with him all the time." Well, what does that mean? It's not the same. At least it doesn't—you see that by him, the internal thing, it means something different than what it means here.
What it means here is to say that I have someone that would say, "Well, I love my friends"—in other words, when I'm self-regarding, when I'm thinking to myself, I say, "Well, I like them," but then I'm not a friend to them. So you don't have the middah of friendship. You might have some other middah, I don't know, or some other—yes, something else—but the middah of friendship is not something you have.
The middah of friendship is the being a good friend, stably, the somehow automatically—we could say, not a good word, but—being the kind of person who is a good friend, and not having to look up your friendship book, "How to Win Friends"—you don't have to look up that book every time you go out with your friends because you're already that kind of person. That's what having the virtue of friendship is.
And now we could see that the conflict people often talk about is very similar to that weird person that would say, "I like my friends, but I'm not a friend to them." That's not a conflict between the internal and the external in the Aristotelian sense. That's a conflict between some fantasy you have or some other thing—you could find the word for it—and what you really are. It's a different level conflict. Does that make sense? Clear?
If there is a conflict, then now there is conflict like that. There are conflicts. There are people who would say, in some sense, "I am a good friend, but I don't—" Sometimes someone says, "Well, I'm a good friend, but sometimes I get mad easily. And then I don't act like a good friend." That would be a better example of someone having the real conflict, which then he needs self-control.
Before that, you don't even need self-control. You need something else. You need to learn what the middah is at all, or to start having it in some sense.
Student: Saying he could be good at the middah but some outside other middah is conflicting with that something, or right, or somebody something like something like you forget something like—
Instructor: Well, of course part of the middah is not to get mad at your friend. It's another thing. It could be—we are just, I mean, you could call it that way, but it just works. A good friend is not someone who gets mad at his friend all the time. In some sense, maybe. At least not too much.
So you could say something like, "Well, yeah, my problem, my anger problems are getting in the way of my friendship." Now you have, "I am a friend, but I'm somehow not—it's not coming, it's not being actualized correctly." Now you have a problem. It's a different level problem.
You understand the difference between these two versions of internality?
There's someone who just thinks that he likes his friends because when he thinks by himself that he likes them, but he doesn't actually have any virtue, any internal virtue of friendship. That person for sure goes to hell. Understand? Because it's not—you think I'm saying you're really a bad person who fantasizes himself a good person? This is actually something that happens. People fantasize themselves—the other people, because their fantasies are not about other people, are not about living in the world, they're not about acting in the world, right?
My fantasy is that I'm a big talmid chacham [Torah scholar], because—not talmid chacham, a lamdan [one who learns intensively]—because something like I would have wanted to be the kind of guy that learns a lot or something like that. But I don't. That's not what you could—you can't come and say, "Well, I'm internally a lamdan and just have some external hindrance, something that's blocking me to actualize it." That's not what's going on.
Because someone like that, that's someone who loves to actually learn. But sometimes he gets angry, or sometimes he gets distracted. Then we can talk about that. But you're not someone that loves to learn. You love the idea of being that person. That's another level.
Or my example of friendship would be even clearer. You understand what I'm saying?
So this is important. So that's one important clarification. It's true that these middot are internal.
Student: Is there a lower level than that?
Instructor: There's lower levels than everything. You can always go lower. Never be mashiach-ish [messianic/overly optimistic]. It's always worse. It can always be worse. And you can not even have the fantasy, right? That's what I'm saying.
Student: Yeah, it's very nice, but what I'm getting at is this thing—when people say, every year there's a good—
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Student: What is that for?
Instructor: All right, I think it's a real thing. It's a whole different level of discussion. So that's one thing. That's a very important distinction here. What did I say? Something I forgot. Oh, now there are other—
Student: No, just to answer you more clearly.
Instructor: What we're talking about here is that even the internal part we're talking about is still not for yourself. Rambam [Maimonides] would say this clearly in the last chapter—it still affects the quality of the heart. Yes, for example, the clear version of something like this: someone who is—I don't know how you call the correct middah [character trait] regarding others' money, right? Something like the opposite of a thief, right? Or someone—I don't remember what it's called—something like a honest person, this is a just person, a trustworthy person, right?
Now the shelo lishma [not for its own sake] version, or the external version of that, which is he doesn't like it, right? He's just afraid of going to jail, right? That would be someone who does—now he does everything correctly. We call it shelo lishma, does everything correctly. He's trustworthy as long as the police is looking. But since many situations, the police are not looking, or it's hard, right? When there's something that—and social circumstances have many such circumstances. It's not really true that society only cares, can only care about the level of shelo lishma. Because we do need, for social purposes, we also need good people who have what we call a moral backbone, right? They have to be really good. And that means he likes being trustworthy for its own sake, right? He thinks that it's good for him. I mean, he's the trustworthy person, not he's an untrustworthy person who acts within the bounds of society, doesn't want to go to jail, and so on. He's a really good person, and that's the kind of internality that is needed for social work, right?
We don't really want the world where everyone is only acting out of external fears or things like that. We do need, even for social reasons—or the same thing for all methods, I think, at least—because the law is not the only external thing that forces people, right? You know, like honor and you're going to be embarrassed and other things, but it still doesn't cover enough. There's many human situations in which what stands between a bad society and a good society—people talk about high-trust societies. I forgot the sociologist who invented that term, I forgot who, in the 70s, like recently.
There's a concept of high-trust society versus a low-trust society. And the high-trust societies, it's not like it's disconnected from the enforcement of laws and so on, but it's also really an educational thing. At least that's what Aristotle and Plato and all these people would say. It means that people are educated to act mostly in trustworthy ways.
I saw a study once where they say the high-trust societies are the most, the biggest ancient—if you—
Student: Yeah, because—and you've never seen crime in those societies because you're constantly afraid of your life.
Instructor: Certain kinds of crime, except for your life. More like if you have to kill someone, you're probably already past the level of having a high-trust society. But so things like, yeah, people say things like this.
Things like in the United States, if you lie—I don't know to what extent it works anymore, but it used to be like this thing in America—the taxes mostly run on the honor system. The IRS believes you when you tell them how much money you make, and they expect you to say the truth. Maybe they don't, but that's—the American ideal is something like this, that they expect you to say the truth. And because they expect you to say the truth, if they catch you lying, they're going to be really, really mad at you.
In a different system, the European system for the most part, if you go to Israel, you'll see they don't expect you to say the truth. And therefore, they don't believe you for what—you can't write anything out of taxes return without a receipt, without the state already knowing about it beforehand, because they're assuming that everyone is lying. And therefore, when someone is caught with a lie, it's like, okay, we'll put you in jail for a month, whatever, move on. In the sense that's something like what you're describing.
But in any case, for my purpose the important thing would be that high-trust society, which is a useful society to live in, even begashmius [in material terms], it's not only like berdokhne [spiritually], it's also pretty useful. It cannot work only by people acting that way. People have to create a certain kind of human being, so we need schools and education. Of course culture educates, the TV educates you and so on, right?
Because there's the variety—I think this is one of the reasons at least—because the variety of human situations is so varied that you can't rely on there's a form for everything. There's never going to be a form for everything. Therefore, if you rely on forms, there's always going to be people that find the loopholes. If you rely on people to have their judgment and to be more or less honest, decent people, you will end up with a lot more stable society, something that's a lot more reliable.
In that way, this internal thing that we're looking for—this is why we don't call a person—for example, last week I talked about murder. Nobody would call someone—even the people that are all about from zachar agra [remembering reward] and the bigger zachar [reward] you have the more schar [reward] you have—none of them would be friends with someone who goes around saying, "You know, really I would be a murderer. I would kill everyone that cuts me off in traffic. I'm scared because—I'm not even—I'm scared. I recognize that it would be bad for me, therefore I overcome my urges to murder everyone."
Don't be that guy's friend, right? He's a bad guy. I mean, he's a bad guy.
Student: Yeah, that's rather—he's a sho'ah bits rise [a completely wicked person]. It's how the key should get the most high of everyone.
Instructor: Well, no, he's a bad guy because he's sick. A normal person, a good person—which means just a person that was well educated, it's not like this is natural, this is something that was worked on for since Hashem came—and has seen and said, it's a whole working on getting people to not want to kill people. It's not enough to get people to recognize that they shouldn't kill people, or to kill everyone that kills other people and have them be scared of killing people. We need people to not want to kill people, because that's the only way that we get less murder in the long run.
And that is why we say that it's not enough to be externally good—internally good. This is contrary to what you get—that's what you're saying. The other versions are different. Contrary to what you're getting, say this. And in the more extremely internalist versions of ethics where it seems that internalist ethics are antisocial—these are internalist ethics for the purpose of being social. Because what they're about is still the social activity. They're not about—when I say I don't want to murder, I don't mean I have a pure soul. Maybe it's true that it's a pure soul. That's a different discussion. That would be caring about different criteria. But I don't care about, well, my soul is pure, it doesn't want to murder anyone. We could do this interpretation, but that would be a whole different class. What I care about is something like, this guy, you can pretty much rely on him to not murder anyone, unless it will be very important.
Student: For the existentialists, you know, the internal, there's something about the Western ad society, you know, that's—
Instructor: Right, very good. We're going to talk about the existentialists now in a sec. Did we talk about that yet?
Now, this is one thing. Another thing, which we have to distinguish, is another reason—and that's a more tricky reason. Now, a more tricky thing is to distinguish another reason that you were trying to mention about why people value the internal or something to do with will, volition, wanting, choosing, things like that. And that has to do with an interesting thought, which I don't know how much I could...
We all agree that something that is not about what comes—we all agree that an action or a habit that doesn't come from you doesn't count as a good human thing, right? This is really why we get this whole discussion of will and choice and all of that, right? That's the first assumption that's agreed on, at the most simple level, by everyone, right?
If someone—let's say, was born is not entirely the correct thing—country, even, for example. Also being forced to do something. If we're forced, that's for sure—that would be one extreme example. Or if it's something entirely natural. Let's say, I'm not sure about this, let's say if something's entirely natural, something like someone who's beautiful, right? Someone's just physically beautiful doesn't get a lot of moral credit for that. It's not a moral thing at all, right? If you can praise him, but you will just be praising God for creating beautiful people. You will not be praising the person as a person.
So this is agreed on. We agree that we need some ingredient, something in the vicinity of choice and will and so on, that makes what I am, what I do, mine—what makes me as a human being, it makes me responsible for it. Otherwise, it doesn't have a moral value. It just might be good. I'm not saying it's bad. It looks like it's not good to be beautiful and tall and all those nice things, but it's not good in the human sense, not good in the virtues, in the human virtue sense. It's good in a different sense.
Now there's really a question there. There's really a question of what the human being is, what makes me me most. And here you'll see two almost contrary opinions—not contrary things, one opinion and one correct knowledge.
One is the thought that we discussed, for example, last time from Aristotle, is that something is more about you, it belongs more to you—and this may be the question I'm asking, that's why I said that there's some kind of paradox here, right? Because we say that something that you do because you have that virtue, because you have that middah [character trait], is more about you than something you do because you chose it in the moment, or because—we don't even call that choice—it's something like spur of the moment, right?
So for example, if someone acts in a—courage is a complicated thing because it has all these emergency situations, which is something that makes it hard to think about. It's something like someone who has the—how do you call it—the middah of being a person that gives, gives, right? What? Generous, yeah. Liberality and generosity, things like that.
Someone who's correctly generous—we would understand that he is—if we're looking, right, you could be generous in all these ways. You could be generous out of forcing yourself to give. You could be generous because I don't know, I was in the mood, something like that. I gave you a million dollars for no reason, and the rest of tomorrow I don't. And I could be too generous also. That's a different discussion.
We say that the person who is stably generous—in other words, he is a generous person, is not only doing generous things—that that is more about him than the one who chooses it.
And this is where there's somewhat of a paradox, because we understand that—the paradox here is the question that people often ask, and we discussed here—that if the goal of life is be a good person, good people, we say, sometimes do the good things automatically. Now, language is from these—have virtues follow good actions. They follow in an almost necessary sense. Not really necessary—human beings, not like a table—but it follows somehow, comes out of that automatically. It's not something you have—there's no step in between. That's important. There's no step in between of having the virtue to handling the actions, like they have to choose it afterwards.
Then people ask, "Okay, so then it turns out that those actions are less of you because they become automatic, so to speak," right?
Now the true thought, or the opposite thought, which is Aristotle's thought, which is the Rambam's [Maimonides'] thought, is that it's not true. Why? Because what they are looking for is not something that is most determined by your will in the moment and could have been otherwise. That's not what they see as most human in us, as what mostly binds things, makes things ours.
What they think is most human in us is the things that tell us about what we are. Now, in order to be something, you have to have a stable character. Someone who is, when we say, one day a malach [angel], one day a galach [priest/shaven one]—is not anything. So really, that person is not human at all, because he doesn't have any—what we call internal—he doesn't have anything that we can say, "This is him."
But the person that has the stably good characters, or vice versa, his bad characters, that is the person whose actions follow mostly from what he is. And that is something very different from something, for example, that the existentialists, some of them in extreme cases, are after. And also very different from what many people are after nowadays when they say things need to be by choice.
This is, for example, the very clear place where this will make a difference: in the value of things done because you have a good education.
Someone who had a good education, which means that he was taught to like certain things—a good education, of course, education works mostly by external things. It works by promising reward and punishment. It works by getting you to do things. It can't really get you to like something. You have to somehow see that for yourself. You do learn that from someone, but it's very hard to give that to someone automatically, easily. But it's still because of that education that you become a good person.
And according—many people nowadays seem to think that that is less about me. So this—"I'm doing this because I was taught to do it. I'm doing this, this is not me because it's not my choice," right?
And when they say it's not my choice, what they don't mean—they don't mean choice in the Aristotelian sense. They don't mean that I don't have, we can say later, a considered opinion, a considered drive towards this, that I think this is the correct way to act, and I like it also, and therefore I choose to act it. That's not what I mean, because that's actually what their education gave you.
If it's a good education, it's not only an external education, right? Education starts with a lo lishma [not for its own sake], but it somehow gets you a lishma [for its own sake] somehow, by some magic. It's a different discussion, right?
If you went—we discussed this many times—if you went through certain systems, you get certain virtues. Not only—you don't only get—it's a very bad—I don't think it ever happens, really. It would be a very weird education where you would stay at the level of reward and punishment. Like the moment a mashgiach [supervisor/spiritual guide] leaves the room, you're left with nothing. That's not really how life works. You are always left with something. Slightly less than what you did for the reward and punishment, but you were left with something about yourself.
Now, of course, everyone agrees that when you're only acting for fear of punishment or for hope of reward, that you're not acting out of yourself. But I'm talking about the next step, right?
Once I went to yeshiva [Torah academy], they got me to learn, I don't know, an hour a week, whatever, how long. When you're afraid, you learn two hours a day. But when you're not afraid, you learn an hour a week. That's the amount of middah they got into you, right?
Now I'm showing you something very simple. And now, people might think—I don't think anyone really thinks this. I don't think people think it through. But people sometimes would make the claim that, "Okay, the fact that you like to learn, that's just my conditioning. That's just my education. That's not me."
What are the things that are you? When you jump into the pool in the middle of the night for no reason? When you're drunk? That's you? What is this "you"? What is this free choice that people are after all the time?
The same, like the Chassidim who are looking—I mean, I'm pretty sure that they're not really confused, that we can interpret it in the correct way, but sometimes people understand it this way. Like the person that we discussed over here last time also, the Chassidim, who said that if you daven [pray] because you davened yesterday, that's not a good reason. And nobody really does that, right? Let me discuss that.
But what I'm getting at is, if we interpret that as "because my education made me a person that once a week, once a day, whatever it is"—that is not less me.
It would be very weird—we have to think what would be the other option. What is more "me"?
It seems, and this is true, if you take this to the extreme, or you make it very clear, you'll see that there's this different version of what choice is, very different version of what will is. And it has a history and has a reason why it came to be. And that is something like things that are done for no reason—not because that's what I am. Because that's a reason. Because what I am just means that the fullness of what I am sees this as a good thing and likes that. There's reasons in that. It's not like—now you might not be able to articulate that, but that's a different problem. But there are reasons.
And people seem to think that free will—and this is—people think that that's what makes human beings human, mostly. Something, some kind of free will, like we said, free-floating will. Something like, "I can choose to be anything I want."
And then if you're the person that you were taught to be, then you're not authentic.
Remember the word "authentic"? Now, authenticity is actually a fake thing, in this sense, because it's authentic to what? What does it mean to be authentic?
Remember "authentic"? There's fake people that are doing what their education told them, and there's real people.
Instructor: Opposite. Okay. And they're real to what? Like authentic is like authentic watch is what that was really made by that watchmaker and not the guy in Chinatown that made it. Okay. And what is an authentic person? How is it really the person? There needs to be some real person.
Student: Yeah, but who is this you?
Instructor: There needs to be an ideal you. What you like.
Student: What is this like? What does that mean?
Instructor: What you like to do.
Student: What did you get to like?
Instructor: The guy that's following his education also really likes the things. Again, unless you're talking about the really early stages of education where people are really just acting out of fear and hope for rewards and punishment, or maybe there's some people that, I really wonder about this, like most of us have this habit of attacking everyone for living in the other side, is that true?
Instructor: Do you really think that if, I think not, I'm more positive about this, I have a friend that told me that he thinks that if you would convince their entire Lakewood that there's no Gehenna [hell/punishment in the afterlife] they would all stop coming to Shul [synagogue]. I don't think that's true. I think they'll come less to Shul but they should come less anyway like they're coming too much. That would be a good thing but I don't think they will stop. He told me take the biggest talmid chacham [Torah scholar] that you know, the Amshon HaVarev [unclear reference], but you come in and there's no Gehenna and he becomes a Goy [non-Jew] the next day. That's what my friend told me.
Student: I think there'll be a lot more people than you think.
Instructor: I think so.
Student: So I think there'll be more than you think but I'm taking the other bet. Let's try. I've actually seen it tried and I've seen it laid out. It's true that people stop doing certain things but there's at some point there's no process to ask and I'm gonna ask him who he doesn't believe that there's no—
Instructor: No, no, no, no, no, that if he would, whatever, it's fine. My bet is I agree that there will be like a shack [shock/reduction] because there's other reasons like for people beliefs are very important to their personality and so on. But okay, but that's a side problem. We're not that, that's a cycle, that that's the answer to the question.
Instructor: No, but we're trying to get at something else. We're trying to get it, is it true that like the Muslims from have this really funny Muslim say that sometimes have this like really funny blame of everyone that's not them and say that you're all acting for external reasons, you don't, none of you like what you're doing, right? You're all fakers, right? That's basic, not fakers, you're all not authentic, right? You're all not. Now I think my bet is because of this are still an understanding of education, I think that most, like I said, most people that I've seen this have played out actually in people personally, I have seen it played out, it's true that they haven't less but they don't stop the daven [praying] and that's fine.
Instructor: I think that most people, they will take away their reward and punishment and they will mostly do the same thing that they've been doing before.
Student: Why do you think that is?
Instructor: Because the reward and punishment trained them to be that kind of people.
Student: Because of that, because if you live, if you if you don't have that education that's—
Instructor: That's now they are authentic. Yeah, because now they're, they don't realize they're authentic because they keep on adding this again and again but if you take it away it won't change much or it would actually make things better and they'd like much much life's much better. It's so hard to wrap my head around. You see what I'm saying?
Instructor: Because let's say, take my example of learning. That's a good example. You go to yeshiva, they tell you you have to live [learn] for 10 hours a day. And some people manage to do it by extreme reward and punishment and living in this cult situation. Okay. Then you leave the yeshiva. And now, of course, for the two weeks of Bein Zman [break between study sessions], you don't learn for one second because you've got to get out all the steam from the system. Okay. But then, after a few months pass, you won't be the same person that you were before. You will be the kind of person that needs to learn at least data number, like at least an hour a week.
And how do I know? Because they're coming to my shiurim [classes], people, they're going to the YouTube. I follow those people. They wouldn't have done it otherwise. There's many people that don't learn even an hour a year because they didn't have that reward and punishment ever applied to them. And the same thing for all the other mitzvos [commandments]. Now what they do, details can be discussed, but I do think that—
Instructor: But therefore, I think that the Muslim argument that says everyone is just Yerushalayim [unclear reference] is a little weird. You don't really like, you don't really believe, you don't really care for things that you're doing, you're doing it for external reasons, for side reasons. I don't know, you don't agree with me?
Student: Let's try to explain. We're going to put a pill in liquid that takes away everyone's belief in Gehenna. Let's see what happens.
Instructor: People spend a lot of time telling themselves that this is what will happen. Maybe that's what itself she got.
Student: Well, if what you're saying is true, maybe it's because they never believed it in the first place.
Instructor: No, because the belief—
Student: Maybe they never believed that there was a Gehenna in the first place.
Instructor: No, what I'm saying is, you're not really taking anything away from them. Well, the person who said you should do Al-Tiqa [unclear reference] with them, it's not because they didn't believe in Gehenna, right? It's because that is still a reward and punishment. Okay, forget about the deeper meaning of all the ghanim [unclear: possibly Gan Eden/paradise] and stuff. It's because being a good person is its own reward, right? And of course, we cannot train you on that because you cannot see that before you start doing it.
You know what, let's say take the other way around. Let's say there's no such thing as ghanim. How many people are going to be shot [shul]? Same thing.
Student: I think it's different.
Instructor: No, why? When I say ghanim, just scare your side.
Instructor: Let's say it like this. First let's say the truth. The truth is that even if there's no, it makes you a better, it's better to go to school. Fear is structure. Like people have a hard time doing things without structure. Let's say like if I don't have a job to go to I'm not going to get up in the morning. So that's what the study was saying.
Student: The perfect society is the one that's constantly in fear.
Instructor: No, but I don't think that's what the study was saying.
Student: I think too much fear has diminishing returns though.
Instructor: Right, but what I'd say, see, that's a different thing. You might say, is that structure a good thing by itself? Does the structure consist of, maybe the question here is, does the structure consist of these beliefs? I don't think it consists of these beliefs. I think that those beliefs, rewards, punishment, things like that. I don't think it consists of that.
Instructor: Even if you talk about like a high-trust society, forget about the religious things, right? Their trustworthiness with the people doesn't consist of them knowing that the government will put them in jail for 30 years if they lie. That's what trains them to be that kind of people. That's what we're calling internality here, right? It's true that if the government would not have put anyone in jail, nobody would have been getting that training. Therefore, it's true that the side would become worse because rewards and punishments are trainings, they're chinuch [education]. But it's not true that it consists of that. You know what I'm saying?
Student: In the same sense, you say, it's a good structure to have, like you have to have a share [unclear: possibly davening/prayer] every day, you have to go to school, that's a structure and you only have that structure because of the beliefs that you're going to go to hell if you don't, okay. But it's those, after there's those beliefs create something besides themselves.
Instructor: Should we be saying forced habits create good habits?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: That's the basic theory of habituation here. I don't know, where did I get to all of this?
Student: It could be authentic, though, no?
Instructor: Oh, so what is authentic? Very good.
Student: Like, if I have a job, I feel this is authentic. And so that's like, you know, it's something I want to do, but it's hard to do without a structure. You know what I'm saying?
Instructor: It's hard to do well because you don't really believe in your job. And maybe you shouldn't because there's nothing to believe. It's only a way to make money. That's really the question. I mean, there's some things that you shouldn't believe in. Like, why would someone believe in their job? That's a weird thing to do.
Student: Well, let's say without the job, I think it's a good thing to get up early, but it's just like if there's no one forcing me, like laziness is going to get the better of me.
Instructor: I'm somewhat skeptical of if it's a good thing to wake up early. Like why is it good? What's so good about it?
Student: It's good because you've got to get to your job.
Instructor: You have to have a clear head when you get up.
Student: Oh, okay. That's a good reason.
Instructor: No, I get it. I'm not disagreeing. I'm saying sometimes we say these kind of things, like I believe it's good to wake up early, but if you think about why it's good, like what's wrong with waking up at 1 a.m.? Oh, because you're going to miss your... Okay, very good. Why then do I schedule everything I want anyways? Oh, because you've got to... Whatever. Sometimes it's not... Sometimes these things are not really...
Instructor: No, but let's get back to what we're saying. So that's like authenticity has to be authentic to something. So to what is authentic? Right? If there's an idea of what is a real... Like, in my version that I was describing here, it doesn't really make sense to talk about authenticity. Only to the extent that, again, like the self-controlled person or the person that's forcing himself or that's training himself, it doesn't have any self. It doesn't, or his self doesn't match with his internal, that's in some sense inauthentic.
Instructor: Sometimes you're being forced to do things that you don't think have any benefit to you, and sometimes you are being forced to do things that you think are of benefit to you. That's fine. Benefit also can be like external benefit. We're like I need money therefore I gotta go to my job but I don't really care about that thing I'm doing. I care about its result so it's like a side, the real, the job did, the work is a side thing to the to the thing I care about. And it could be something that I do care about like like we can go up if you really care about being the kind of person that wakes up—
So this is what we have to understand: some modern versions, existential versions of this thing called ethnicity—of course, the existentialists have noticed that authenticity doesn't really make sense, because by their version of it, people want to be what they are, what they chose. And sometimes it's just defined by not what you told me—that's very babyish, like a teenager: "I'm gonna do everything my parents told me not," because that feels like I'm doing it. Okay, I get it, that's that feeling I get, but it's not real.
Because who is this you in any case? That you is going to be the product of your education, or if you're educating yourself, okay, so still. I think the version that says that what you choose purely, most freely, is most you—is a version that really, in some sense, doesn't believe, or thinks that the most primary part of a person is some kind of free ability to choose between options. And they don't really think that there's such a thing as a personality. Well, at least there might be such a thing as a personality, but what makes a human human is mostly not his personality, not what kind of person he is, because that's just your nature. That's—we ascribe that to education, we ascribe that to culture, we ascribe that to conditioning, things like that.
So what makes a human human, and what makes an act morally worth talking about, or humanly worth talking about, is some very weird thing—something that I said no, I don't think anyone ever experienced that thing, because it does not really how life works for the most part. But some kind of free choosing of a life, or free choosing of a meaning between from possibilities, or even from possibilities—maybe it's too limited—so from infinity.
Intuitively, a lot of us think this way, because we're intuitively taught to think about choice as choosing between possibilities. Then we say, "Well, I was given education to be a certain kind of person, I was made into a certain kind of person by education, and therefore I don't really have options. I don't have optionality, I can't be a different kind of person. I could be a little here, a little there."
And then I say, "Oh, so that's the little word." I have a friend—I had a friend that makes Chassidish hats, and he told me he had a store which is a Chassidish hat store. He told me that in his store there's 375 different kinds of hats. I was like, "You know, you're still having one kind of hat."
And he explained, "You know, you have to understand that everyone wants to be very individual. But since you're only allowed to wear one kind of hat, so there's 370 variations, because there's—it's a combinatorics, right? There's a little wider, a little thinner, a little taller than this piece, a little bigger than the ribbon, a little more high than everything." And there's—turns out that everyone knows exactly which of those 375 combinations they want, because that's what makes them special and different from other people.
So that's a very weird—how do we call it—very weird consolation for the kind of person that says—and that's where all of life is. That's just a very clear emotional for how the world is. At the end of the day we're all just choosing one of those 375 constellations of the ribbon size plus the brim size plus the height of the hat. That's what choice is.
Maybe you think that choice is something that you yourself made up, right, from the—I originate, I'm original, I'm original, I'm not a copy, I'm an original guy. Oh, you mean to say that you've put that hat—I know, and that guy that has the hat still never has to go to China to the factory and tell them to make—and they realize that you need a microscope to know what's different. A normal person looks at the same hat, I don't know. No, if you live in that community, you notice all these tiny differences, okay.
But it's fake. There's nothing so original about anyone. There's so many ways to be a human being, there isn't any original ways.
The reason people think that this kind of originality is important is because they identify what's most human about a human is some very tiny little thing, which is supposed to be very free, which is the choice of what you are. Choose what you want to be. That's one—some people end up with that.
But if you think like me, that being a human means all of this, then being authentic would just mean, like I said, not being forced, not acting only out of compulsion or out of fear, things like that. But it's not really correct to say that what you're educated into, for example, is not you. That is who you are. There isn't another—there isn't another you. There isn't this chooser that's abstract chooser that's besides for all of that.
Therefore, for example, if I say that someone acts because of the kind of person he is, because of the kind of habits he has, whether he got it from education, he got it by educating himself, and I said that that's the person who lives out from choice—I'm not saying that there's this, after having the middah [character trait], you still have choice. You don't have choice. The choice consists of being that kind of person.
And choice just means the recognition that this is good. We have to get more clear about this recognition—why we call this choice. Is it a preference we call it, a preference or a choice? There's something—where I think this is the correct way versus other ways, there's some choosing of that over others, otherwise it's not a choice. But it's not choosing to do this by this very abstract kind of choice.
And this is why all of those things are not—all of the kind of—again, so this is why all of those ideas of doing what the opposite of my parents taught me don't make that more choice.
And this is also why, going back to what I said in the beginning, this is also why wanting to do something is not what we're talking about. This internality is not something about what I wish, what is in my head that I am. It's what you really are, is what you really like, okay?
And we have to continue with this, but that's enough.
- Anecdote about Chagall: The speaker references Rabbi Bezalel Naor's book "The Kabbalah of Relation" discussing Marc Chagall's paintings
- Chagall's style: Described as imaginative, fantasy-based, abstract, impressionistic—not realistic
- Chagall's self-characterization: Chagall compared himself to a more structured painter, calling himself a "Chassid" and the other a "Misnagid"
- Point: Even painting styles can be categorized as "Chassidish" (imaginative/abstract) vs. "Litvish" (structured/realistic)—this framing device sets up the class's exploration of different approaches
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- The class is about choice, not free will
- Speaker previously said free will "is not important" (not that it doesn't exist)
- Goal: Clarify one or two points only
- Central thesis: Choice is what makes us responsible for what we are
- This is framed as an "interesting paradox"
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- Focus on external actions—what a person does
- People judged by their products/outputs
- "You produce mitzvot, you're a good guy. You produce aveirot, you're a bad guy."
- Makes people into "machines" judged by output, not by what they are
- Speaker references Ramchal's (Rav Luzzatto's) Mesillat Yesharim
- Notes the dialogue version ("Vikuach") written in Renaissance Platonic style
- Purpose of dialogue form: Shows who the author is arguing against
- Ramchal's opponent: A "Talmudist"/nigleh person/Litvak who thinks actions are sufficient
- Speaker agrees with Ramchal's critique of pure action-focus but disagrees with how Mesillat Yesharim frames the alternative
- Ramchal's main point in the hakdamah: There IS a wisdom to be studied in Ethics—it's not just simple, obvious stuff
- The "action people's" view: Those focused on action agree some level of kavanah/internal intention is needed (otherwise "it's not you doing it"), but they consider this basic/simple
- Ramchal's defense: He's responding to the charge that the Chassidim (pious ones) who spend all day "purifying their internality" are wasting time repeating simple mussar
- Best dialogue: Shadal's "Vikuach al HaKabbalah"—opponent is not a straw man
- Ramchal's interlocutors are "not very advanced"
- Baal HaTanya reportedly says mussar is "good stuff but not ma'akiv" (not essential/indispensable)
- Speaker admits uncertainty about Baal HaTanya's precise view, suspects it may be "somewhat confused" but can't demonstrate this now
- Contrary to actions-only view: there's something internal that matters
- "What you are and not only what you do"
- This internal theory is subject to many simplifications and much nonsense people believe
- Previous classes discussed this through actions, character, and middot
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- Core claim: A good person doesn't necessarily do something different than a bad person with self-control
- The difference is internal, not in external behavior
- This is the "sharp point" the speaker wants to make
- Tanya also holds that doing good things is not enough
- Tanya's categories of rasha, benoni, and tzadik illustrate this
- A benoni does good actions but isn't internally transformed
- What Tanya calls "internal" is NOT the same as what Rambam/Aristotle call internal
- Tanya, as a "good Litvak," ties himself in knots trying to work this out with gemaras
- Speaker believes "Tanya's gemaras are the wrong ones for this subject"
- Reference to Raya Mehemna—"research needed"
- Major distinction noted later: Tanya doesn't discuss human relationships at all—only focused on the relationship between person and God
- The Shared Thesis: Chassidus, Mussar, Kabbalah, and Philosophy all agree: Actions are not enough—they're not even the main thing
- The Unresolved Question: How to spell out what "internal" means—this is where confusion arises
- Provide clarification of the internal dimension based on Rambam and Aristotle's understanding
- This is presented as the correct framework
- Student mentions Rambam's Perek Hey (or Chet) connecting maaseh and middot
- Speaker's response: The word "deot" in that context means opinions, not middot
- This distinction matters but is deferred
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- Key question: What does it mean to have a middah (character trait) versus just doing the action?
- Example: Courage - Someone can do courageous acts without BEING courageous
1. Imitation - copying others
2. Spur-of-the-moment decisions - not from settled disposition
3. Self-control - overriding fear through willpower (involves a split)
- Critical distinction: Acting virtuously vs. having virtues "in there"
- Rambam "discounts completely" mere external action without internal disposition
- Key principle: "Nobody would call a good person someone who hates being good"
- Christian view on hell: Even a seemingly righteous person could go to hell if "internally wicked"
- Speaker's pushback: What would it mean to be internally wicked while acting good?
- Christian explanation: The potential for wickedness exists due to original sin—even apparent righteousness is tainted
- Speaker sees this as a "similar way of thinking" but questions what internal righteousness really requires
1. To like it - enjoying/wanting the virtuous action
2. To have a stable disposition - being "that kind of person" vs. "a person who did it"
- Analogy offered: "The difference between colored people and people of color" (grammatical structure indicating essential vs. accidental property)
- Middah = character trait
- Malakah = Arabic-derived term for virtue as a settled state
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- Having a virtue is MORE than doing correct actions—it's being that kind of person
- BUT (crucial point): Unlike an "extreme internal version," the internal liking is NOT turned inward
- The internal component is still ABOUT something in action
- For Aristotle and Rambam: Humility is a way of RELATING TO OTHER PEOPLE
- Speaking appropriately
- Not putting yourself above others
- Not looking down on people
- In the "appropriate amount" (matching one's station—e.g., a talmid chacham has different considerations)
- NOT being a "shfachah" (servant) to everyone
- Like every middah, humility requires the right measure—"a different discussion"
- Common misconception: Anavah is totally internally focused—"what I think about myself when I sleep in my bed"
- Speaker's correction: "Nobody cares" about that for middot purposes
- Middot are other-regarding: They're about actions toward others
- "Middot are all other-regarding" (with some complicated exceptions)
- They're all about actions
- They're about "how you like" acting
- Person with internal anavah: Likes being in equal relationship with others
- Person who just acts the part: It "hurts them" to be equal or below others—they don't enjoy it
- Student challenge: Can't someone enjoy being friends with people but still internally think they're above everyone else?
- Speaker's response: Self-regard (what you think of yourself) is a separate discussion from the middah of anivut
- Key distinction: Anivut is not about accurate self-assessment—even Moshe Rabbeinu knew he was great
- What anivut actually is: Treating people with humility/respect, relating to people as equals, acting "somewhat below what he really is" in social relations
- The middah defined: Someone with humility *enjoys* being at the appropriate level of equality; someone without it enjoys being on top of others; someone with self-control dislikes equality but overcomes it through action
- Perishut (temperance) seems to be about one's relationship to pleasure, but it actually has a social function
- It's about *eating in the appropriate amount*, not about how much you like food
- The correct amount of physical pleasure is determined by what is conducive to society
- Speaker acknowledges uncertainty about what Tanya and Mussar Seforim actually think on this
- Notes there are "other levels" to this discussion not being addressed now
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- It doesn't make sense to say "I'm really a good person but I don't act well"
- Example: "I fight with everyone but I really love them" is incoherent
- If you *like* not fighting, why do you fight?
- "I love them in my heart" should mean "I don't like fighting with them"—but then it's a contradiction
- Middah of friendship: Being the kind of person who is a good friend—stably, automatically, without consulting "How to Win Friends"
- False conflict: "I love my friends but every time we get together we fight"
- This is NOT a conflict between internal and external
- In Aristotelian terms: This is a conflict between *fantasy* and *what you really are*
- You don't have the middah of friendship at all—you have something else
- Better example: "I'm a good friend but sometimes I get mad easily and don't act like one"
- This represents genuine conflict where self-control is needed
- Before this level: You don't need self-control—you need to learn what the middah is or start developing it
- Possible sources of conflict: Another middah interfering, anger problems getting in the way of friendship, etc.
- The dangerous case: Someone who *thinks* he likes his friends (when reflecting privately) but has no actual virtue of friendship
- Speaker's strong claim: "That person for sure goes to hell"
- What's happening: People fantasize themselves as good because their fantasies aren't about living/acting in the world
- Talmid Chacham example:
- Fantasy version: "I would have wanted to be the kind of guy that learns a lot"
- You can't claim to be "internally a talmid chacham" with just external hindrances
- Real version: Someone who *loves to actually learn* but gets angry or distracted sometimes—then we can discuss the conflict
- Fantasy version: You love *the idea of being that person*, not the actual activity
1. Having the middah: Stably liking and performing the virtuous action
2. Having the middah with conflict: Having the virtue but other factors (anger, distraction) interfere—requires self-control
3. Fantasy of the middah: Thinking you have it because you like the idea of being that person—no actual virtue
4. Not even the fantasy: Lower still—"it can always be worse"
- "Never be mashiach-ish"—there's always a lower level
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- Even the "internal" quality being discussed is not purely for oneself
- Rambam would say (in his last chapter) that internal virtue still affects "the quality of the heart"
- The internality discussed serves social purposes, not just personal spiritual purity
- The "external" version of honesty: Someone who doesn't steal only because they fear jail
- Acts correctly as long as "the police are looking"
- This is the "shelo lishma" (not for its own sake) version
- The "internal" version: Someone who likes being trustworthy for its own sake
- Thinks being trustworthy is good for him as a person
- Has what we call a "moral backbone"
- Is actually a good person, not just an untrustworthy person acting within bounds
- Insufficiency of external enforcement: Law, honor, embarrassment—none cover enough situations
- The variety problem: Human situations are so varied that you can't have "a form for everything"
- If you rely only on forms/rules, people will always find loopholes
- If you rely on people having good judgment and being decent, you get a more stable, reliable society
- High-trust societies: People are educated to act in trustworthy ways
- Not disconnected from law enforcement, but also an educational achievement
- This is what Aristotle, Plato, and others would emphasize
- Concrete example - Tax systems:
- American ideal: IRS believes you when you report income (honor system); if caught lying, severe consequences
- European/Israeli system: State doesn't expect truth; requires receipts and prior verification; lying is expected, punishment is routine
- Someone mentions high-trust societies correlate with ancient/established cultures; also mentions certain societies have low crime because of constant fear for one's life (different mechanism)
- The problematic "internal restraint" person: Someone who says "I would murder everyone who cuts me off in traffic, but I recognize it would be bad for me, so I overcome my urges"
- Even the most extreme "lishmah/reward" advocates wouldn't befriend this person
- He's a "bad guy" - not because he acts badly, but because he's "sick"
- What a "good person" actually means:
- Someone well-educated (not natural—this is worked on)
- The project since "Hashem came" has been getting people to not want to kill
- It's insufficient to get people to recognize they shouldn't kill, or to scare them with punishment
- We need people who genuinely don't want to kill—that's the only path to less murder long-term
- Common misconception: Extreme internalist ethics seem antisocial
- Speaker's position: This is internalist ethics for the purpose of being social
- The focus is still on social activity/outcomes
- "I don't want to murder" doesn't mean "I have a pure soul" (though that might be true—different discussion)
- It means: "You can rely on this person not to murder anyone unless extremely necessary"
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- Universal agreement: Actions or habits that don't "come from you" don't count as good *human* things
- This is why discussions of will and choice matter in ethics
- Examples of what doesn't count morally:
- Being forced to do something (extreme case)
- Entirely natural traits (e.g., physical beauty)
- Key distinction: A beautiful person gets no moral credit—praising them is really praising God for creating beautiful people, not praising the person *as a person*
- Such things may be good, but not good "in the human virtue sense"
- The real question: What is the human being? What makes me *me* most?
- Two contrary positions emerge (speaker notes: "one opinion and one correct knowledge")
- Something belongs more to you when it flows from stable character/virtue than when chosen "in the moment"
- Example explored: Generosity (liberality)
- One could give generously by forcing oneself
- One could give generously on a whim ("I was in the mood")
- One could give too generously (separate issue)
- The stably generous person—one who *is* generous—does generous things that are "more about him" than momentary choices
- If the goal is to become a good person, good people do good things "automatically"
- Actions "follow" from virtues almost necessarily (not like a table, but with no deliberative step in between)
- Common objection: If actions become automatic, aren't they *less* yours?
- The Aristotelian/Rambam view rejects this objection
- What they're NOT looking for: Something "most determined by your will in the moment and could have been otherwise"
- What they ARE looking for: Things that tell us *what we are*
- To *be* something requires stable character
- "One day a malach, one day a galach" = not really anything, not really human (no internal stable self)
- The person with stable character—good or bad—has actions that follow from *what he is*
- This is what makes actions truly "his"
- Some existentialists (in extreme cases) and many contemporary people seek a different kind of "choice"
- They want actions to be valuable only if chosen in some radical, unconditioned sense
- Their position: The most primary part of a person is a "free ability to choose between options"
- What they reject: Personality as the core of humanity - personality is dismissed as just nature, product of education, culture, or conditioning
- What they affirm: Some "very weird thing" - free choosing of life/meaning from possibilities or even "from infinity"
- Speaker's critique: "I don't think anyone ever experienced that thing because that's not really how life works"
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- Are things done because of good education truly "mine"?
- Good education teaches you to like certain things
- Education works initially through external means (reward/punishment, habituation)
- It can't directly make you *like* something—you must see that for yourself
- But education is still the cause of becoming a good person
- Many people today think: "I'm doing this because I was taught to do it—this is not me, not my choice"
- Speaker's response: This misunderstands what "choice" means
- Aristotelian choice = "a considered opinion, a considered drive towards this, that I think this is the correct way to act, and I like it also"
- Good education gives you exactly this (not just external compliance)
- Education starts with "lo lishma" (not for its own sake) but somehow produces "lishma" (for its own sake)
- It would be very weird (and probably never happens) for someone to stay purely at reward/punishment level
- "The moment a mashgiach leaves the room, you're left with nothing"—this isn't how life actually works
- You're always left with *something* about yourself, even if less than when externally motivated
- Concrete example: Yeshiva gets you to learn 2 hours/day when afraid, 1 hour/week when not—that hour is the middah they actually instilled
- The absurd implication: If liking to learn is "just conditioning, just education, not me"—then what IS you?
- Jumping into a pool at midnight for no reason?
- Acting while drunk?
- Rhetorical challenge: "What is this 'you'? What is this free choice that people are after all the time?"
- The Chassidic saying: "If you daven because you davened yesterday, that's not a good reason"
- Speaker notes this can be interpreted correctly, but is often misunderstood
- Speaker's point: If education made me a person who davens daily, that is NOT less me
- The false view of freedom: Things done "for no reason" are more free/authentic
- "Because that's what I am" counts as a reason (therefore not "free" on this view)
- "What I am" = the fullness of what I am sees this as good and likes it
- There ARE reasons in stable character (even if not articulable)
- The mistaken anthropology: "Free floating will" is what makes humans human
- "I can choose to be anything I want"
- Therefore, being the person your education made you = inauthentic
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- Speaker calls it "a fake thing, in this sense"
- The unanswered question: Authentic to *what*?
- Analogy: An authentic watch is one really made by that watchmaker, not a counterfeit
- Problem posed: What is an "authentic person"? Authentic to what?
- There needs to be some "real person" or "ideal you" to be authentic to
- Challenge: The person following their education also "really likes" what they do
- So what distinguishes authentic liking from trained liking?
- "Fake people" do what education told them; "real people" are authentic
- Implication: This distinction is incoherent—there's no "authentic self" independent of formation
- Existentialist position identified: Authenticity = being what you chose, often defined negatively as "not what you told me"
- Critique: This is "babyish" - like a teenager doing the opposite of parents just to feel autonomous
- Core problem: Who is this "you" that's choosing? That "you" is still a product of education or self-education
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- Question: What would happen if you removed belief in punishment (Gehenna) from religious communities?
- Friend's pessimistic view: If you convinced all of Lakewood there's no Gehenna, they'd all stop coming to shul
- Friend's extreme claim: "Take the biggest talmid chacham, convince him there's no Gehenna, he becomes a goy the next day"
- Speaker's bet: People would do less, but not stop entirely
- "They'll come less to shul, but they should come less anyway - they're coming too much"
- Empirical claim: Speaker has personally witnessed this play out with individuals
- People daven less but don't stop davening
- The accusation: Muslims sometimes claim non-Muslims are "all fakers" - acting only for external reasons, not authentic
- Speaker's response: This critique is "a little weird" and largely wrong
- Most people, if you remove reward and punishment, will mostly continue doing what they've been doing
- Key claim: Reward and punishment *train* people to become certain kinds of people
- Once trained, the behavior persists even without the original motivator
- This IS authenticity: After training, they ARE that kind of person now
- "They don't realize they're authentic because they keep adding [reward/punishment] again and again"
- Yeshiva forces 10 hours/day learning through extreme reward/punishment and "cult situation"
- During bein hazmanim (break): zero learning - "getting out the steam"
- But after months pass: The person becomes someone who "needs to learn at least some amount"
- Evidence: "They're coming to my shiurim... going to YouTube"
- People without that initial training don't learn even an hour a year
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- Trustworthiness doesn't *consist of* knowing government will jail you for lying
- That threat is what *trains* people to become trustworthy
- Key distinction:
- Without training → society would become worse (no chinuch/education)
- But the virtue doesn't *consist of* the threat - it creates "something besides itself"
- Structure (daily davening, going to shul) exists because of beliefs about punishment
- But: Those beliefs create something beyond themselves
- Formulation offered: "Forced habits create good habits" - basic theory of habituation
- Student's point: Having a job feels authentic - "something I want to do, but hard to do without structure"
- Speaker's challenge: Do you really "believe in your job"? Maybe you shouldn't - it's just a way to make money
- Student: "I think it's good to wake up early but laziness wins without structure"
- Speaker's skepticism: Why is waking up early good? What's wrong with 1 PM?
- Point: Sometimes we claim beliefs ("it's good to wake up early") that don't have real substance behind them
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- We're taught to think of choice as choosing between possibilities
- This leads to: "I was made into a certain kind of person by education, therefore I don't really have options"
- People then locate their "real choice" in tiny variations within constraints
- Story: Friend owns a Chassidish hat store with 375 different hat types
- Paradox: All one kind of hat, but 375 variations (brim width, ribbon size, height, etc.)
- Observation: Everyone knows exactly which of the 375 combinations they want - "that's what makes them special"
- Point: This is a "weird consolation" - people think they're being individual through microscopic differences
- Extension: "Maybe you think choice is something you yourself made up" - but even the "original" person with the custom hat doesn't need a microscope-level difference to feel original
- Conclusion: "There's nothing so original about anyone. There's so many ways to be a human being, there aren't any original ways"
- They identify what's "most human" as "some very tiny little thing which is supposed to be very free"
- Hebrew reference: "ומותר האדם מן הבהמה אין" (the advantage of man over beast is nothing) - some end up with this view
- Speaker's alternative: "Being a human means all of this" (the whole person, not just the abstract chooser)
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- Authenticity must be "authentic to something"
- In speaker's framework, authenticity talk only makes limited sense
- The self-controlled person forcing himself - "doesn't have any self" or self doesn't match internal state
- Being forced to do things you don't think benefit you
- Doing things only for external results (job for money, not caring about the work itself)
- Instrumental caring: I need money → I go to job → work is "aside" from what I care about
- Intrinsic caring: Actually caring about the activity itself
- Choice consists of: Being that kind of person
- Choice means: "The recognition that this is good"
- Not: Some abstract choosing mechanism separate from character
- It involves "thinking this is the correct way versus other ways" - some choosing of that over others
1. Doing the opposite of what parents taught doesn't make something "more choice"
2. Return to opening theme: "Wanting to do something is not what we're talking about"
3. Internality ≠ what I wish or what's in my head that I am
4. Internality = "what you really are, what you really like"
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- Speaker indicates this needs continuation: "We'll have to continue with this, but that's enough"
Instructor: Since this sheet is mostly about bashing Litvaks, just one of our gags that go on. So I saw in Rabbi Tzadon, over there, has a book about some Chagall paintings. You know Chagall? Mark Chagall was a painter?
Student: An artist, no?
Instructor: Yeah, an artist. I used to have his picture of a Jew here. I told my wife this other doesn't work in my new design. We should throw it out. Anyways, and he was a very, I don't know how you call it, imaginative, very like, what's that book? Let's see. It's a blue book. It's called The Kabbalah of Relation.
Student: Oh, this one.
Instructor: You could look at one of his pictures that you see already that his paintings are fantasy. They're not realistic. They're not based on anything in the world. They're based on things that are in the imagination. More abstract, I guess.
Student: So what? More abstract.
Instructor: Yeah, I don't know what it's called, impressionistic, fantasy, something.
Student: Oh, this is odd.
Instructor: Yeah, they're very odd. They're not, some of them are really odd, and some of them are not very odd. Yeah. So you understand what I'm talking about?
Student: Yeah, bring the book.
Instructor: Oh, okay. So it says in this book, Reb Tzalel [Rabbi Bezalel Naor] quotes, I'm saying, that he [Chagall] was comparing himself to another painter, but more, it's a bizarre, with more structure. And he said, ah, so I'm a Chassidismist. He says, paint a little stuff, see them at Litzbach's [Litvak's]. It's a Chassidic painting, and that guy's at Litzbach's. So from here, we see it's very, very Chassidic and Litzbach emotional for him. Like a style. See, it's these Chassidic and Litzbach painting styles. Now, like this.
Instructor: Now we're going to learn a little bit about choice. We're going to try. Right, we hear about, I talked about free choice and free will and—
Student: Yeah, yeah.
Instructor: So we're off to continue a little bit. I'll tell you why. And no such thing as free will. I didn't say this is just a thing. I said it's not important. There's a lot to talk about this, but let's talk a little bit. Let's clarify one or two points to be more than enough that make sense.
Instructor: So we discussed that why are we talking about free will entirely? No, I'm sorry. Why are we talking about choice, not free will? Okay, why are we talking about choice to begin with? We're talking about it because choice is one of the things that makes what we are into something that we are responsible for. That is the really interesting paradox. I don't know if we said it this way in the last class. I said it in the barback [Yiddish: in the other class] in this way.
Instructor: In other words, there's these two things, okay. We could talk about actions just actions, things that the person does. That's one thing, lit facts [literal facts], right? Let's talk about actions, right?
You read the, for example, I was really, it's very interesting because for example I was reading the level of tattoo muscles insurance [Mesillat Yesharim] and here there's a version with a dialogue in the beginning, you know?
Student: Yeah, that you know that, you know that.
Instructor: Yeah, that black book.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: The week after [Ramchal/Rav Moshe Chaim Luzzatto] was a Renaissance guy and he was after the Renaissance, but in their times it was fashionable to write dialogues in the manner of Plato and so on, not only to write treatises. And many of his books he wrote in both of these ways. Dialogue form, have you ever—and I recently bought in Judeca Plaza [Judaica Plaza], it's called a dialogue. Well, it's called—
Student: Yeah, that's so weird. I tried, I didn't get very far, but he was a lot more, he's a lot more, he's a Platonist, kind of a Platonist. I found the beginning a bit tedious, so I didn't get too far. Probably the translation is not so nice. It was so, it's hard to translate this kind of English.
Instructor: There's a University of Toronto one.
Student: They had a Hebrew one, I saw.
Instructor: Yeah, I have the Hebrew one. It was done by Mohamed Bialik [Chaim Nachman Bialik] or something.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: So it was a thing to do this dialogue form. And dialogue form is useful at least because it shows you what someone is really up against sometimes. Like who he's trying to argue. Sometimes you write an article and it's not clear who you're fighting with. So in a dialogue, you need to have an opponent.
The best dialogue I saw was Shadal's [Shmuel David Luzzatto's]. Okay.
Student: Yeah, because it's not just strong to be knocked down, it's a full-throated emotional, you know—
Instructor: Yeah, then how do you call it, is like partners in the dialogue, interlocutors, are not very advanced usually. They're not very good representatives of the other side.
Instructor: But in any case, if you use, I will noticing there and with the more reading of that because it's related to all the subjects that we're talking about, but his big thing in the beginning, he is, he's up against something he calls someone he calls a Talmudist. It's a nigleh [revealed Torah/Talmudic] person, a Litvak. And he tells the Litvak that he doesn't know there's naled [hidden/esoteric Torah], right? It's a big thing, which is something we agree with very much, right? But we don't agree with the way Mesillat Yesharim [Mesillat Yesharim] frames it. I'm not, this is not a Mesillat Yesharim bashing class either. We're not here to—I'm just trying to use them to illustrate a point.
So what he's up against over there is very clearly someone who thinks that actions are enough. He's like, what do we have to do in life? Well, we have to do what the law says. And of course, you have to have kavanah [intention], but that's not the major thing. The thing is actions. So it's an externalized version, more like we say sometimes it's making people into machines, which are things that are judged by their products, not by what they are or what they produce. You produce mitzvot [commandments], you're a good guy. You produce aveirot [transgressions], you're a bad guy. That's actions, right?
Instructor: Now, actions for the most part are there. That's the theory of actions. Now contrary to that, there's this theory of something more internal, right? Something we say what you're on the inside, things like that. And now that theory is something that needs a lot of explanation, a lot of differentiation within it. What do we really mean by being something on the inside, what you are, not only what you do? That's something very, I think that's given to very many simplifications and many nonsense that people say and believe based on that, right?
So as an example of clarifying that, we've got a lot of clarification on that point in our discussions of actions and character and middot [character traits], which is not something external but—and I think that there's both kind of mistakes. There's many kinds of mistakes in this.
Instructor: But to be very clear, when we talk about, when we talk about middot, right, having good middot, we are not talking about some active actions, right? Because the whole point, to make this point very sharp, the whole point of being a good person in our style world, the number [Rambam/Maimonides] world, is that a good person is someone who doesn't necessarily do something different than a bad person who is self-controlled. That's the important difference. There's good people and there's bad people who have self-control.
Student: That sounds very Tanya.
Instructor: Yes, I agree. I agree, and this is another thing. I think that the Tanya makes some of the mistakes that are placed from the Raman's [Rambam's] point of view. The Tanya agrees very much that it's not enough to do the good things. I think that's why the time—just to be very clear, because he says that in rasha [wicked person] could be someone or a benoni [intermediate person]—
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: So I think that, right, the Tanya breathes into very sharp relief with that statement. Although I'm not, I think that what the Tanya calls that tzadik [righteous person], what he calls eternal, is not the same thing we're calling alternative. The beginning of perek [chapter] says—
Student: Yes, no, just like this. Why does he compare the two though?
Instructor: Yeah, because I'm—and we're going to get the perek and discuss it at some point in the next 20 years. Very case explicitly about this, but it was a hand-in-hand, maaseh [actions] and then middot, all you, me, emunah [faith]. I don't know if that's what I remember.
Student: No, why do you think goes hand-in-hand in there? It says just like you have to be good at middot and this, right?
Instructor: No, no, I know what you mean. I don't think that's what it means, that word, that line. But let's stay here. We'll get to that. Yeah, I don't think, I don't think, I think the second thing is also not, also internal there. I'll explain. In other words, it's still middot, it's not maaseh. Of course there's maaseh that go with the middot, but what he's trying to say about deot [opinions/beliefs] over there means opinions, not middot. Deot over there doesn't mean middot anymore. The change is meaningless.
Student: Oh, really?
Instructor: I think.
Student: I'll have to read it outside.
Instructor: Wait, let me come back.
Instructor: In this sense, so yes, to be very clear, in this sense, the Tanya, and I think this is why the Tanya gets into this all. And the Tanya, as the good Litvak, ties himself in the knots by trying to explain this and working it out with the gemaras [Talmudic passages] and so on. And I'm pretty sure that Tanya's gemara is the wrong one for this subject. It's not. It's how they come, but of course, doesn't mean that it's ever. And maybe it means like that in the [Raya Mehemna, a section of the Zohar] that he quotes, another thing that there needs to be research needed.
Instructor: But Netanyahu [likely: Ramchal/the author] is trying very hard to establish this thing like Chassidus in the same, in the very broad sense, right? In the very broad sense, Chassidus and Mussar and Kabbalah and philosophy, they all agree with this statement that actions are not enough. They're not only enough, they're not the main thing.
Instructor: But how to spell this out, to spell out what it means, this internal thing, what does that consist of, that is something where people get very confused. And what I want to do today is to give some clarification of that based on Rambam, based on Aristotle's understanding of this. I think that that's the thing. So it seems to me that today that it's a different—
Instructor: So we're saying that it's agreed by... So wait, I was starting to talk about Ms. Schurman [Mesillat Yesharim], I didn't finish my sentence, so let's try to finish that sentence and then get to this one. Ms. Schurman, as an example, is very clearly against someone who will say that, but, for example, he pretends that that person is a scholar, and that his opponent, Luzzatto's opponent, is like a scholar who reads philosophy and science and so on, but of course that scholar is a very bad scholar because he didn't read the Ethics. And he's saying that about his...
Student: Yeah, well he doesn't say this, I'm saying this.
Instructor: He's telling him how, his main point is how there is a wisdom, there is something to be studied in Ethics. That's really Ramchal's point in his hakdamah [introduction], in both versions, but here you see it clearer in the dialogue. Because according to the opinion of the people who are into action, everyone agrees that they need some level of kavanah [intention] or some kind of internal, otherwise it's not you doing it and so on, but they think all that is simple because that's basic. And then his descriptions, like the Chassidim—Ramchal talks about Chassidim—the Chassidim, the pious, the super pious people who are busy all day purifying their internality, like it looks sometimes as if you're wasting your time, what are you even talking about by all your mussar [ethical teachings] and you're just repeating simple stuff over and over, and Luzzatto is trying to answer that charge.
Student: Well then you have the Baal HaTanya [Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi] who says it's good stuff but it's not ma'akiv [essential/indispensable], you know, it's not...
Instructor: Right, right. So I think that I don't know very well what the Baal HaTanya thinks precisely about this. I have a feeling that he's, at least from my standpoint, also somewhat confused, but I can't really show it right now. But what I think is that we need to distinguish a whole bunch of things in this internal levels of things.
Instructor: So let me—there's one thing that I already said many times. Does Mesillat Yesharim put at the beginning action because it's like zahir [careful observance] is the reason?
Student: Yeah yes, but we have to, I don't know how we understand it.
Instructor: I also think that he misunderstands zahir. There's a lot to talk about. I'm just using that as a way to talk about this thing. I was saying that his opponent is not really a philosopher. He pretends like, oh, we need mussar, we need whatever this story, Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism], whatever it is exactly that he's putting in against that. It's not really true because philosophers are the ones that invented this kind of internalism, and of course they don't—Aristotle at least—doesn't understand it in the way that he understands it. I think there's a big difference here which we have to get to.
Instructor: For example, one thing that we've talked about many times, maybe we'll be able to make it clear today, is that internal, we say middah [character trait], so what does that mean to have a middah versus to just do the action, right? Someone can do the action not by having it, not by being—right, someone can, for example, act in a courageous way, do a courageous act without being courageous, without having courage.
Student: And what will it be doing it by?
Instructor: Well, by imitation you could say, or doing it by some kind of spur of the moment decision. Remember that a character trait is something that's not spur-of-the-moment, it's something settled that has a more long-term existence in a person. Or you can do it by self-control, right? Like say I'm afraid—well it's not like the courageous person is not afraid, but again to that—but I don't really have this motivation which courage is, but I somehow do, I have it and... okay, we can talk about that separately because self-control is not very complicated, but those are the—that's why maybe when we're talking about now, maybe self-control isn't the best place to split, although it's also split there. But it's more complicated.
Instructor: So we could see people acting, we could say, let's say now, by imitation or by just spur-of-the-moment decisions, which doesn't mean that they're acting from that habit, from that character. He's not a courageous person. He did some courageous things in his life, or he did a courageous thing today. Maybe by doing that many times, he'll become courageous, like that, but he's not courageous yet, right?
Instructor: That's the important distinction in the Rambam [Maimonides] between the internal and the external. He doesn't call it internal-external, he just calls it having them in there, not having them in there. This is very important—that he discounts that completely. No, those must come to complete this, right? It's just not a good person. Because the reason, and the reason for this is obvious, right? Because as he says, for example, nobody would call a good person someone who hates being good, right?
Instructor: This is a very Christian thing, because Christians say, if you ask them, how could someone go to hell if they were a righteous person? And they say, well, they could be internally wicked.
Student: So wait, I think that this is a different interpretation of that, in some sense. Because let me—because I think that that's, I mean, what would it mean to be internally wicked, although you're good? I'm not sure.
Instructor: I think that they always say that you have the potential to be wicked, that you're tainted by the original sin. Even if it looks like someone's righteous, they're not really righteous because they're tainted by original sin.
Student: Okay, so then this would be something based off a similar way of thinking, but again the question is, what does this really require? What does it mean to be internally righteous, to be really righteous?
Instructor: Now, like I said, firstly, all it means is to like it. Or to have a stable disposition to do it. Something like, we say, he's that kind of person, not he's a person that did it. The difference between colored people and people of color. Something like that.
Instructor: So that's the thing, but one—so now I want to—there's one thing that we already did many times, which is to explain that these internal parts of this, so it's having a middah, having a character trait, having a virtue, right, having a virtue, and we call it a malakah [Arabic-derived term for settled disposition/virtue], which is a translation from Arabic. Having a virtue isn't equal to doing everything correct, it's something more than that, it's being that kind of person. But something very important to notice is that unlike an extreme internal version of this, that does not mean that the internal liking or the internal part of it is turned internally, right? So it's still about something in action. Does this make sense?
Instructor: So, for example, we talked about the example of... Which example do we talk about? Like a middah that Chassidim like to talk about, anavah [humility], right? Humility. Humility, and it's mentioned here in the list of middot [character traits]. Humility for Aristotle and for the Rambam is a way of relating to other people. That means speaking to people in the appropriate... with the appropriate level of... How do you call it? Being equal to them, or not putting yourself above them, not looking down at people, in the appropriate amount. Because to some extent you need to match your station in life. If you're a talmid chacham [Torah scholar] there's all these discussions—what is the appropriate level? But like every middah, it's just in the appropriate amount. It's not like to be a shifchah [servant] to everyone, that's not the idea. But that's a different discussion.
Instructor: What I'm trying to get at is that anavah, humility, is an other-regarding middah. It's about how you act, it's about how you act, right? It's not about how you feel internally. Of course now there is an internal part, but the internal part is not what I think of myself, it's how I like acting to other people. You get the difference? Most people when you talk about anavah they think that it's internal, totally internally focused, like what I think about myself when I sleep in my bed. Nobody cares—I mean at least for middot.
Instructor: Middot are all other-regarding, besides for some, which is complicated, but in general, middot are all other-regarding. In other words, they're all about actions. They're about how you like. Now, the difference between someone who has internal anavah, someone who just acts the part, is that the person who just acts the part doesn't like it, it hurts them to some extent, to be in an equal relationship with other people. It hurts them, or even below them. But how do you like acting equal to people when you internally...
Student: That's a question for...
That's the number one distinction, and this is a very important distinction, because I don't think you will find, at least for these middot—there are some middot that are, I mean, you could talk about middot between the person and God, or between—we discussed this over here, I think, already, that even a middah like perishut [temperance], which is what people think is a middah about how you relate to yourself, to pleasure, is really about, has a social function. So it's really about how you act. It's not really about how you feel. It's not about how much you like food. It's about you eating in the appropriate amount, and so on. So it's at least an action. There's another level, but it's not our conversation now. What determines the correct amount of liking physical pleasures is what is conducive to society, and not what is—that's a different discussion. There's other levels of this, but that's the meaning over there.
So that's one thing. That would be one important distinction. I don't know what the Tanya thinks. I don't know what Mussar Seforim think—all of these people, all these things are research needed. But what is important is that this internal version of internal internality is not an internally-focused internality. It's still externally focused because what the middah is, is the settled liking of the action. It's not something entirely disconnected from action.
In other words, and what's the big difference is, that it doesn't really make sense—somewhat makes sense, but doesn't make sense as much—to say, "I'm really a good person, but I don't act well. I end up fighting with everyone, but really I love them." Because what do you mean? Why do you fight with them if you like not fighting? But you're saying "I love them"—you mean to say, you don't mean "I love them in my heart," you mean "I don't like fighting with them." And that ain't just a contradiction. Now that happens too, but then it's a real contradiction. It's different, right?
You'll notice now I can go back to talk about what we call internal conflict, right? Not being self-controlled—in Greek, akrasia [ἀκρασία: lack of self-control], not being self-controlled. Or in Rambam's language—Rambam only has a self-controlled person, but the opposite of that, not a self-controlled person.
Then we can understand something interesting here, that this is not me—this is the important thing—it does not mean acting not in sync with what I feel internally when it's self-focused, right?
For example, let's talk about something like the correct amount of loving your friends, of being good to your friends, right? Which is the middah of friendship. Friendship is a very important middah, right? We have to be friendly to other people. Middah tovah [good character trait]. Very important. Much neglected.
Now, the middah of friendship—well, the activities of friendship, you know what they are. You hang out with them and you help them and you do business with them and there's levels of that and so on. But what is the internal thing? It's being the kind of person who is a good friend, right? So we could say he likes—there's more to it than liking, there's more to it than liking as we'll get to today or next time—but at least liking.
Now sometimes people say, "I love my friends, but somehow every time I get together we end up fighting, so I end up becoming or being the worst friend, right? I'm not so—" Some people talk about this as the conflict, right, the Tanya's conflict.
By the way, the Tanya doesn't talk about other human beings at all. That's one big difference between Tanya and every other Mussar book and so on. They're just focused on internal—the Tanya is only focused on between you and God. He's never focused on human beings. So it's a different discussion.
But the Tanya's version of this is, I think, also similar to this in some sense. Because the Tanya says things like this: "I love God internally, but I end up fighting with him all the time." Well, what does that mean? It's not the same. At least it doesn't—you see that by him, the internal thing, it means something different than what it means here.
What it means here is to say that I have someone that would say, "Well, I love my friends"—in other words, when I'm self-regarding, when I'm thinking to myself, I say, "Well, I like them," but then I'm not a friend to them. So you don't have the middah of friendship. You might have some other middah, I don't know, or some other—yes, something else—but the middah of friendship is not something you have.
The middah of friendship is the being a good friend, stably, the somehow automatically—we could say, not a good word, but—being the kind of person who is a good friend, and not having to look up your friendship book, "How to Win Friends"—you don't have to look up that book every time you go out with your friends because you're already that kind of person. That's what having the virtue of friendship is.
And now we could see that the conflict people often talk about is very similar to that weird person that would say, "I like my friends, but I'm not a friend to them." That's not a conflict between the internal and the external in the Aristotelian sense. That's a conflict between some fantasy you have or some other thing—you could find the word for it—and what you really are. It's a different level conflict. Does that make sense? Clear?
If there is a conflict, then now there is conflict like that. There are conflicts. There are people who would say, in some sense, "I am a good friend, but I don't—" Sometimes someone says, "Well, I'm a good friend, but sometimes I get mad easily. And then I don't act like a good friend." That would be a better example of someone having the real conflict, which then he needs self-control.
Before that, you don't even need self-control. You need something else. You need to learn what the middah is at all, or to start having it in some sense.
Student: Saying he could be good at the middah but some outside other middah is conflicting with that something, or right, or somebody something like something like you forget something like—
Instructor: Well, of course part of the middah is not to get mad at your friend. It's another thing. It could be—we are just, I mean, you could call it that way, but it just works. A good friend is not someone who gets mad at his friend all the time. In some sense, maybe. At least not too much.
So you could say something like, "Well, yeah, my problem, my anger problems are getting in the way of my friendship." Now you have, "I am a friend, but I'm somehow not—it's not coming, it's not being actualized correctly." Now you have a problem. It's a different level problem.
You understand the difference between these two versions of internality?
There's someone who just thinks that he likes his friends because when he thinks by himself that he likes them, but he doesn't actually have any virtue, any internal virtue of friendship. That person for sure goes to hell. Understand? Because it's not—you think I'm saying you're really a bad person who fantasizes himself a good person? This is actually something that happens. People fantasize themselves—the other people, because their fantasies are not about other people, are not about living in the world, they're not about acting in the world, right?
My fantasy is that I'm a big talmid chacham [Torah scholar], because—not talmid chacham, a lamdan [one who learns intensively]—because something like I would have wanted to be the kind of guy that learns a lot or something like that. But I don't. That's not what you could—you can't come and say, "Well, I'm internally a lamdan and just have some external hindrance, something that's blocking me to actualize it." That's not what's going on.
Because someone like that, that's someone who loves to actually learn. But sometimes he gets angry, or sometimes he gets distracted. Then we can talk about that. But you're not someone that loves to learn. You love the idea of being that person. That's another level.
Or my example of friendship would be even clearer. You understand what I'm saying?
So this is important. So that's one important clarification. It's true that these middot are internal.
Student: Is there a lower level than that?
Instructor: There's lower levels than everything. You can always go lower. Never be mashiach-ish [messianic/overly optimistic]. It's always worse. It can always be worse. And you can not even have the fantasy, right? That's what I'm saying.
Student: Yeah, it's very nice, but what I'm getting at is this thing—when people say, every year there's a good—
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Student: What is that for?
Instructor: All right, I think it's a real thing. It's a whole different level of discussion. So that's one thing. That's a very important distinction here. What did I say? Something I forgot. Oh, now there are other—
Student: No, just to answer you more clearly.
Instructor: What we're talking about here is that even the internal part we're talking about is still not for yourself. Rambam [Maimonides] would say this clearly in the last chapter—it still affects the quality of the heart. Yes, for example, the clear version of something like this: someone who is—I don't know how you call the correct middah [character trait] regarding others' money, right? Something like the opposite of a thief, right? Or someone—I don't remember what it's called—something like a honest person, this is a just person, a trustworthy person, right?
Now the shelo lishma [not for its own sake] version, or the external version of that, which is he doesn't like it, right? He's just afraid of going to jail, right? That would be someone who does—now he does everything correctly. We call it shelo lishma, does everything correctly. He's trustworthy as long as the police is looking. But since many situations, the police are not looking, or it's hard, right? When there's something that—and social circumstances have many such circumstances. It's not really true that society only cares, can only care about the level of shelo lishma. Because we do need, for social purposes, we also need good people who have what we call a moral backbone, right? They have to be really good. And that means he likes being trustworthy for its own sake, right? He thinks that it's good for him. I mean, he's the trustworthy person, not he's an untrustworthy person who acts within the bounds of society, doesn't want to go to jail, and so on. He's a really good person, and that's the kind of internality that is needed for social work, right?
We don't really want the world where everyone is only acting out of external fears or things like that. We do need, even for social reasons—or the same thing for all methods, I think, at least—because the law is not the only external thing that forces people, right? You know, like honor and you're going to be embarrassed and other things, but it still doesn't cover enough. There's many human situations in which what stands between a bad society and a good society—people talk about high-trust societies. I forgot the sociologist who invented that term, I forgot who, in the 70s, like recently.
There's a concept of high-trust society versus a low-trust society. And the high-trust societies, it's not like it's disconnected from the enforcement of laws and so on, but it's also really an educational thing. At least that's what Aristotle and Plato and all these people would say. It means that people are educated to act mostly in trustworthy ways.
I saw a study once where they say the high-trust societies are the most, the biggest ancient—if you—
Student: Yeah, because—and you've never seen crime in those societies because you're constantly afraid of your life.
Instructor: Certain kinds of crime, except for your life. More like if you have to kill someone, you're probably already past the level of having a high-trust society. But so things like, yeah, people say things like this.
Things like in the United States, if you lie—I don't know to what extent it works anymore, but it used to be like this thing in America—the taxes mostly run on the honor system. The IRS believes you when you tell them how much money you make, and they expect you to say the truth. Maybe they don't, but that's—the American ideal is something like this, that they expect you to say the truth. And because they expect you to say the truth, if they catch you lying, they're going to be really, really mad at you.
In a different system, the European system for the most part, if you go to Israel, you'll see they don't expect you to say the truth. And therefore, they don't believe you for what—you can't write anything out of taxes return without a receipt, without the state already knowing about it beforehand, because they're assuming that everyone is lying. And therefore, when someone is caught with a lie, it's like, okay, we'll put you in jail for a month, whatever, move on. In the sense that's something like what you're describing.
But in any case, for my purpose the important thing would be that high-trust society, which is a useful society to live in, even begashmius [in material terms], it's not only like berdokhne [spiritually], it's also pretty useful. It cannot work only by people acting that way. People have to create a certain kind of human being, so we need schools and education. Of course culture educates, the TV educates you and so on, right?
Because there's the variety—I think this is one of the reasons at least—because the variety of human situations is so varied that you can't rely on there's a form for everything. There's never going to be a form for everything. Therefore, if you rely on forms, there's always going to be people that find the loopholes. If you rely on people to have their judgment and to be more or less honest, decent people, you will end up with a lot more stable society, something that's a lot more reliable.
In that way, this internal thing that we're looking for—this is why we don't call a person—for example, last week I talked about murder. Nobody would call someone—even the people that are all about from zachar agra [remembering reward] and the bigger zachar [reward] you have the more schar [reward] you have—none of them would be friends with someone who goes around saying, "You know, really I would be a murderer. I would kill everyone that cuts me off in traffic. I'm scared because—I'm not even—I'm scared. I recognize that it would be bad for me, therefore I overcome my urges to murder everyone."
Don't be that guy's friend, right? He's a bad guy. I mean, he's a bad guy.
Student: Yeah, that's rather—he's a sho'ah bits rise [a completely wicked person]. It's how the key should get the most high of everyone.
Instructor: Well, no, he's a bad guy because he's sick. A normal person, a good person—which means just a person that was well educated, it's not like this is natural, this is something that was worked on for since Hashem came—and has seen and said, it's a whole working on getting people to not want to kill people. It's not enough to get people to recognize that they shouldn't kill people, or to kill everyone that kills other people and have them be scared of killing people. We need people to not want to kill people, because that's the only way that we get less murder in the long run.
And that is why we say that it's not enough to be externally good—internally good. This is contrary to what you get—that's what you're saying. The other versions are different. Contrary to what you're getting, say this. And in the more extremely internalist versions of ethics where it seems that internalist ethics are antisocial—these are internalist ethics for the purpose of being social. Because what they're about is still the social activity. They're not about—when I say I don't want to murder, I don't mean I have a pure soul. Maybe it's true that it's a pure soul. That's a different discussion. That would be caring about different criteria. But I don't care about, well, my soul is pure, it doesn't want to murder anyone. We could do this interpretation, but that would be a whole different class. What I care about is something like, this guy, you can pretty much rely on him to not murder anyone, unless it will be very important.
Student: For the existentialists, you know, the internal, there's something about the Western ad society, you know, that's—
Instructor: Right, very good. We're going to talk about the existentialists now in a sec. Did we talk about that yet?
Now, this is one thing. Another thing, which we have to distinguish, is another reason—and that's a more tricky reason. Now, a more tricky thing is to distinguish another reason that you were trying to mention about why people value the internal or something to do with will, volition, wanting, choosing, things like that. And that has to do with an interesting thought, which I don't know how much I could...
We all agree that something that is not about what comes—we all agree that an action or a habit that doesn't come from you doesn't count as a good human thing, right? This is really why we get this whole discussion of will and choice and all of that, right? That's the first assumption that's agreed on, at the most simple level, by everyone, right?
If someone—let's say, was born is not entirely the correct thing—country, even, for example. Also being forced to do something. If we're forced, that's for sure—that would be one extreme example. Or if it's something entirely natural. Let's say, I'm not sure about this, let's say if something's entirely natural, something like someone who's beautiful, right? Someone's just physically beautiful doesn't get a lot of moral credit for that. It's not a moral thing at all, right? If you can praise him, but you will just be praising God for creating beautiful people. You will not be praising the person as a person.
So this is agreed on. We agree that we need some ingredient, something in the vicinity of choice and will and so on, that makes what I am, what I do, mine—what makes me as a human being, it makes me responsible for it. Otherwise, it doesn't have a moral value. It just might be good. I'm not saying it's bad. It looks like it's not good to be beautiful and tall and all those nice things, but it's not good in the human sense, not good in the virtues, in the human virtue sense. It's good in a different sense.
Now there's really a question there. There's really a question of what the human being is, what makes me me most. And here you'll see two almost contrary opinions—not contrary things, one opinion and one correct knowledge.
One is the thought that we discussed, for example, last time from Aristotle, is that something is more about you, it belongs more to you—and this may be the question I'm asking, that's why I said that there's some kind of paradox here, right? Because we say that something that you do because you have that virtue, because you have that middah [character trait], is more about you than something you do because you chose it in the moment, or because—we don't even call that choice—it's something like spur of the moment, right?
So for example, if someone acts in a—courage is a complicated thing because it has all these emergency situations, which is something that makes it hard to think about. It's something like someone who has the—how do you call it—the middah of being a person that gives, gives, right? What? Generous, yeah. Liberality and generosity, things like that.
Someone who's correctly generous—we would understand that he is—if we're looking, right, you could be generous in all these ways. You could be generous out of forcing yourself to give. You could be generous because I don't know, I was in the mood, something like that. I gave you a million dollars for no reason, and the rest of tomorrow I don't. And I could be too generous also. That's a different discussion.
We say that the person who is stably generous—in other words, he is a generous person, is not only doing generous things—that that is more about him than the one who chooses it.
And this is where there's somewhat of a paradox, because we understand that—the paradox here is the question that people often ask, and we discussed here—that if the goal of life is be a good person, good people, we say, sometimes do the good things automatically. Now, language is from these—have virtues follow good actions. They follow in an almost necessary sense. Not really necessary—human beings, not like a table—but it follows somehow, comes out of that automatically. It's not something you have—there's no step in between. That's important. There's no step in between of having the virtue to handling the actions, like they have to choose it afterwards.
Then people ask, "Okay, so then it turns out that those actions are less of you because they become automatic, so to speak," right?
Now the true thought, or the opposite thought, which is Aristotle's thought, which is the Rambam's [Maimonides'] thought, is that it's not true. Why? Because what they are looking for is not something that is most determined by your will in the moment and could have been otherwise. That's not what they see as most human in us, as what mostly binds things, makes things ours.
What they think is most human in us is the things that tell us about what we are. Now, in order to be something, you have to have a stable character. Someone who is, when we say, one day a malach [angel], one day a galach [priest/shaven one]—is not anything. So really, that person is not human at all, because he doesn't have any—what we call internal—he doesn't have anything that we can say, "This is him."
But the person that has the stably good characters, or vice versa, his bad characters, that is the person whose actions follow mostly from what he is. And that is something very different from something, for example, that the existentialists, some of them in extreme cases, are after. And also very different from what many people are after nowadays when they say things need to be by choice.
This is, for example, the very clear place where this will make a difference: in the value of things done because you have a good education.
Someone who had a good education, which means that he was taught to like certain things—a good education, of course, education works mostly by external things. It works by promising reward and punishment. It works by getting you to do things. It can't really get you to like something. You have to somehow see that for yourself. You do learn that from someone, but it's very hard to give that to someone automatically, easily. But it's still because of that education that you become a good person.
And according—many people nowadays seem to think that that is less about me. So this—"I'm doing this because I was taught to do it. I'm doing this, this is not me because it's not my choice," right?
And when they say it's not my choice, what they don't mean—they don't mean choice in the Aristotelian sense. They don't mean that I don't have, we can say later, a considered opinion, a considered drive towards this, that I think this is the correct way to act, and I like it also, and therefore I choose to act it. That's not what I mean, because that's actually what their education gave you.
If it's a good education, it's not only an external education, right? Education starts with a lo lishma [not for its own sake], but it somehow gets you a lishma [for its own sake] somehow, by some magic. It's a different discussion, right?
If you went—we discussed this many times—if you went through certain systems, you get certain virtues. Not only—you don't only get—it's a very bad—I don't think it ever happens, really. It would be a very weird education where you would stay at the level of reward and punishment. Like the moment a mashgiach [supervisor/spiritual guide] leaves the room, you're left with nothing. That's not really how life works. You are always left with something. Slightly less than what you did for the reward and punishment, but you were left with something about yourself.
Now, of course, everyone agrees that when you're only acting for fear of punishment or for hope of reward, that you're not acting out of yourself. But I'm talking about the next step, right?
Once I went to yeshiva [Torah academy], they got me to learn, I don't know, an hour a week, whatever, how long. When you're afraid, you learn two hours a day. But when you're not afraid, you learn an hour a week. That's the amount of middah they got into you, right?
Now I'm showing you something very simple. And now, people might think—I don't think anyone really thinks this. I don't think people think it through. But people sometimes would make the claim that, "Okay, the fact that you like to learn, that's just my conditioning. That's just my education. That's not me."
What are the things that are you? When you jump into the pool in the middle of the night for no reason? When you're drunk? That's you? What is this "you"? What is this free choice that people are after all the time?
The same, like the Chassidim who are looking—I mean, I'm pretty sure that they're not really confused, that we can interpret it in the correct way, but sometimes people understand it this way. Like the person that we discussed over here last time also, the Chassidim, who said that if you daven [pray] because you davened yesterday, that's not a good reason. And nobody really does that, right? Let me discuss that.
But what I'm getting at is, if we interpret that as "because my education made me a person that once a week, once a day, whatever it is"—that is not less me.
It would be very weird—we have to think what would be the other option. What is more "me"?
It seems, and this is true, if you take this to the extreme, or you make it very clear, you'll see that there's this different version of what choice is, very different version of what will is. And it has a history and has a reason why it came to be. And that is something like things that are done for no reason—not because that's what I am. Because that's a reason. Because what I am just means that the fullness of what I am sees this as a good thing and likes that. There's reasons in that. It's not like—now you might not be able to articulate that, but that's a different problem. But there are reasons.
And people seem to think that free will—and this is—people think that that's what makes human beings human, mostly. Something, some kind of free will, like we said, free-floating will. Something like, "I can choose to be anything I want."
And then if you're the person that you were taught to be, then you're not authentic.
Remember the word "authentic"? Now, authenticity is actually a fake thing, in this sense, because it's authentic to what? What does it mean to be authentic?
Remember "authentic"? There's fake people that are doing what their education told them, and there's real people.
Instructor: Opposite. Okay. And they're real to what? Like authentic is like authentic watch is what that was really made by that watchmaker and not the guy in Chinatown that made it. Okay. And what is an authentic person? How is it really the person? There needs to be some real person.
Student: Yeah, but who is this you?
Instructor: There needs to be an ideal you. What you like.
Student: What is this like? What does that mean?
Instructor: What you like to do.
Student: What did you get to like?
Instructor: The guy that's following his education also really likes the things. Again, unless you're talking about the really early stages of education where people are really just acting out of fear and hope for rewards and punishment, or maybe there's some people that, I really wonder about this, like most of us have this habit of attacking everyone for living in the other side, is that true?
Instructor: Do you really think that if, I think not, I'm more positive about this, I have a friend that told me that he thinks that if you would convince their entire Lakewood that there's no Gehenna [hell/punishment in the afterlife] they would all stop coming to Shul [synagogue]. I don't think that's true. I think they'll come less to Shul but they should come less anyway like they're coming too much. That would be a good thing but I don't think they will stop. He told me take the biggest talmid chacham [Torah scholar] that you know, the Amshon HaVarev [unclear reference], but you come in and there's no Gehenna and he becomes a Goy [non-Jew] the next day. That's what my friend told me.
Student: I think there'll be a lot more people than you think.
Instructor: I think so.
Student: So I think there'll be more than you think but I'm taking the other bet. Let's try. I've actually seen it tried and I've seen it laid out. It's true that people stop doing certain things but there's at some point there's no process to ask and I'm gonna ask him who he doesn't believe that there's no—
Instructor: No, no, no, no, no, that if he would, whatever, it's fine. My bet is I agree that there will be like a shack [shock/reduction] because there's other reasons like for people beliefs are very important to their personality and so on. But okay, but that's a side problem. We're not that, that's a cycle, that that's the answer to the question.
Instructor: No, but we're trying to get at something else. We're trying to get it, is it true that like the Muslims from have this really funny Muslim say that sometimes have this like really funny blame of everyone that's not them and say that you're all acting for external reasons, you don't, none of you like what you're doing, right? You're all fakers, right? That's basic, not fakers, you're all not authentic, right? You're all not. Now I think my bet is because of this are still an understanding of education, I think that most, like I said, most people that I've seen this have played out actually in people personally, I have seen it played out, it's true that they haven't less but they don't stop the daven [praying] and that's fine.
Instructor: I think that most people, they will take away their reward and punishment and they will mostly do the same thing that they've been doing before.
Student: Why do you think that is?
Instructor: Because the reward and punishment trained them to be that kind of people.
Student: Because of that, because if you live, if you if you don't have that education that's—
Instructor: That's now they are authentic. Yeah, because now they're, they don't realize they're authentic because they keep on adding this again and again but if you take it away it won't change much or it would actually make things better and they'd like much much life's much better. It's so hard to wrap my head around. You see what I'm saying?
Instructor: Because let's say, take my example of learning. That's a good example. You go to yeshiva, they tell you you have to live [learn] for 10 hours a day. And some people manage to do it by extreme reward and punishment and living in this cult situation. Okay. Then you leave the yeshiva. And now, of course, for the two weeks of Bein Zman [break between study sessions], you don't learn for one second because you've got to get out all the steam from the system. Okay. But then, after a few months pass, you won't be the same person that you were before. You will be the kind of person that needs to learn at least data number, like at least an hour a week.
And how do I know? Because they're coming to my shiurim [classes], people, they're going to the YouTube. I follow those people. They wouldn't have done it otherwise. There's many people that don't learn even an hour a year because they didn't have that reward and punishment ever applied to them. And the same thing for all the other mitzvos [commandments]. Now what they do, details can be discussed, but I do think that—
Instructor: But therefore, I think that the Muslim argument that says everyone is just Yerushalayim [unclear reference] is a little weird. You don't really like, you don't really believe, you don't really care for things that you're doing, you're doing it for external reasons, for side reasons. I don't know, you don't agree with me?
Student: Let's try to explain. We're going to put a pill in liquid that takes away everyone's belief in Gehenna. Let's see what happens.
Instructor: People spend a lot of time telling themselves that this is what will happen. Maybe that's what itself she got.
Student: Well, if what you're saying is true, maybe it's because they never believed it in the first place.
Instructor: No, because the belief—
Student: Maybe they never believed that there was a Gehenna in the first place.
Instructor: No, what I'm saying is, you're not really taking anything away from them. Well, the person who said you should do Al-Tiqa [unclear reference] with them, it's not because they didn't believe in Gehenna, right? It's because that is still a reward and punishment. Okay, forget about the deeper meaning of all the ghanim [unclear: possibly Gan Eden/paradise] and stuff. It's because being a good person is its own reward, right? And of course, we cannot train you on that because you cannot see that before you start doing it.
You know what, let's say take the other way around. Let's say there's no such thing as ghanim. How many people are going to be shot [shul]? Same thing.
Student: I think it's different.
Instructor: No, why? When I say ghanim, just scare your side.
Instructor: Let's say it like this. First let's say the truth. The truth is that even if there's no, it makes you a better, it's better to go to school. Fear is structure. Like people have a hard time doing things without structure. Let's say like if I don't have a job to go to I'm not going to get up in the morning. So that's what the study was saying.
Student: The perfect society is the one that's constantly in fear.
Instructor: No, but I don't think that's what the study was saying.
Student: I think too much fear has diminishing returns though.
Instructor: Right, but what I'd say, see, that's a different thing. You might say, is that structure a good thing by itself? Does the structure consist of, maybe the question here is, does the structure consist of these beliefs? I don't think it consists of these beliefs. I think that those beliefs, rewards, punishment, things like that. I don't think it consists of that.
Instructor: Even if you talk about like a high-trust society, forget about the religious things, right? Their trustworthiness with the people doesn't consist of them knowing that the government will put them in jail for 30 years if they lie. That's what trains them to be that kind of people. That's what we're calling internality here, right? It's true that if the government would not have put anyone in jail, nobody would have been getting that training. Therefore, it's true that the side would become worse because rewards and punishments are trainings, they're chinuch [education]. But it's not true that it consists of that. You know what I'm saying?
Student: In the same sense, you say, it's a good structure to have, like you have to have a share [unclear: possibly davening/prayer] every day, you have to go to school, that's a structure and you only have that structure because of the beliefs that you're going to go to hell if you don't, okay. But it's those, after there's those beliefs create something besides themselves.
Instructor: Should we be saying forced habits create good habits?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: That's the basic theory of habituation here. I don't know, where did I get to all of this?
Student: It could be authentic, though, no?
Instructor: Oh, so what is authentic? Very good.
Student: Like, if I have a job, I feel this is authentic. And so that's like, you know, it's something I want to do, but it's hard to do without a structure. You know what I'm saying?
Instructor: It's hard to do well because you don't really believe in your job. And maybe you shouldn't because there's nothing to believe. It's only a way to make money. That's really the question. I mean, there's some things that you shouldn't believe in. Like, why would someone believe in their job? That's a weird thing to do.
Student: Well, let's say without the job, I think it's a good thing to get up early, but it's just like if there's no one forcing me, like laziness is going to get the better of me.
Instructor: I'm somewhat skeptical of if it's a good thing to wake up early. Like why is it good? What's so good about it?
Student: It's good because you've got to get to your job.
Instructor: You have to have a clear head when you get up.
Student: Oh, okay. That's a good reason.
Instructor: No, I get it. I'm not disagreeing. I'm saying sometimes we say these kind of things, like I believe it's good to wake up early, but if you think about why it's good, like what's wrong with waking up at 1 a.m.? Oh, because you're going to miss your... Okay, very good. Why then do I schedule everything I want anyways? Oh, because you've got to... Whatever. Sometimes it's not... Sometimes these things are not really...
Instructor: No, but let's get back to what we're saying. So that's like authenticity has to be authentic to something. So to what is authentic? Right? If there's an idea of what is a real... Like, in my version that I was describing here, it doesn't really make sense to talk about authenticity. Only to the extent that, again, like the self-controlled person or the person that's forcing himself or that's training himself, it doesn't have any self. It doesn't, or his self doesn't match with his internal, that's in some sense inauthentic.
Instructor: Sometimes you're being forced to do things that you don't think have any benefit to you, and sometimes you are being forced to do things that you think are of benefit to you. That's fine. Benefit also can be like external benefit. We're like I need money therefore I gotta go to my job but I don't really care about that thing I'm doing. I care about its result so it's like a side, the real, the job did, the work is a side thing to the to the thing I care about. And it could be something that I do care about like like we can go up if you really care about being the kind of person that wakes up—
So this is what we have to understand: some modern versions, existential versions of this thing called ethnicity—of course, the existentialists have noticed that authenticity doesn't really make sense, because by their version of it, people want to be what they are, what they chose. And sometimes it's just defined by not what you told me—that's very babyish, like a teenager: "I'm gonna do everything my parents told me not," because that feels like I'm doing it. Okay, I get it, that's that feeling I get, but it's not real.
Because who is this you in any case? That you is going to be the product of your education, or if you're educating yourself, okay, so still. I think the version that says that what you choose purely, most freely, is most you—is a version that really, in some sense, doesn't believe, or thinks that the most primary part of a person is some kind of free ability to choose between options. And they don't really think that there's such a thing as a personality. Well, at least there might be such a thing as a personality, but what makes a human human is mostly not his personality, not what kind of person he is, because that's just your nature. That's—we ascribe that to education, we ascribe that to culture, we ascribe that to conditioning, things like that.
So what makes a human human, and what makes an act morally worth talking about, or humanly worth talking about, is some very weird thing—something that I said no, I don't think anyone ever experienced that thing, because it does not really how life works for the most part. But some kind of free choosing of a life, or free choosing of a meaning between from possibilities, or even from possibilities—maybe it's too limited—so from infinity.
Intuitively, a lot of us think this way, because we're intuitively taught to think about choice as choosing between possibilities. Then we say, "Well, I was given education to be a certain kind of person, I was made into a certain kind of person by education, and therefore I don't really have options. I don't have optionality, I can't be a different kind of person. I could be a little here, a little there."
And then I say, "Oh, so that's the little word." I have a friend—I had a friend that makes Chassidish hats, and he told me he had a store which is a Chassidish hat store. He told me that in his store there's 375 different kinds of hats. I was like, "You know, you're still having one kind of hat."
And he explained, "You know, you have to understand that everyone wants to be very individual. But since you're only allowed to wear one kind of hat, so there's 370 variations, because there's—it's a combinatorics, right? There's a little wider, a little thinner, a little taller than this piece, a little bigger than the ribbon, a little more high than everything." And there's—turns out that everyone knows exactly which of those 375 combinations they want, because that's what makes them special and different from other people.
So that's a very weird—how do we call it—very weird consolation for the kind of person that says—and that's where all of life is. That's just a very clear emotional for how the world is. At the end of the day we're all just choosing one of those 375 constellations of the ribbon size plus the brim size plus the height of the hat. That's what choice is.
Maybe you think that choice is something that you yourself made up, right, from the—I originate, I'm original, I'm original, I'm not a copy, I'm an original guy. Oh, you mean to say that you've put that hat—I know, and that guy that has the hat still never has to go to China to the factory and tell them to make—and they realize that you need a microscope to know what's different. A normal person looks at the same hat, I don't know. No, if you live in that community, you notice all these tiny differences, okay.
But it's fake. There's nothing so original about anyone. There's so many ways to be a human being, there isn't any original ways.
The reason people think that this kind of originality is important is because they identify what's most human about a human is some very tiny little thing, which is supposed to be very free, which is the choice of what you are. Choose what you want to be. That's one—some people end up with that.
But if you think like me, that being a human means all of this, then being authentic would just mean, like I said, not being forced, not acting only out of compulsion or out of fear, things like that. But it's not really correct to say that what you're educated into, for example, is not you. That is who you are. There isn't another—there isn't another you. There isn't this chooser that's abstract chooser that's besides for all of that.
Therefore, for example, if I say that someone acts because of the kind of person he is, because of the kind of habits he has, whether he got it from education, he got it by educating himself, and I said that that's the person who lives out from choice—I'm not saying that there's this, after having the middah [character trait], you still have choice. You don't have choice. The choice consists of being that kind of person.
And choice just means the recognition that this is good. We have to get more clear about this recognition—why we call this choice. Is it a preference we call it, a preference or a choice? There's something—where I think this is the correct way versus other ways, there's some choosing of that over others, otherwise it's not a choice. But it's not choosing to do this by this very abstract kind of choice.
And this is why all of those things are not—all of the kind of—again, so this is why all of those ideas of doing what the opposite of my parents taught me don't make that more choice.
And this is also why, going back to what I said in the beginning, this is also why wanting to do something is not what we're talking about. This internality is not something about what I wish, what is in my head that I am. It's what you really are, is what you really like, okay?
And we have to continue with this, but that's enough.
This lecture explores the distinction between authentic and false interiority in Jewish ethics, arguing that true inner virtue must always be directed toward external action rather than being self-focused. Using the commandment of Lo Tachmod (don't covet) as a case study, the instructor demonstrates how this final commandment of the Ten Commandments represents the internal dimension of all the preceding prohibitions—not a separate rule about controlling desires, but the character foundation that prevents theft, murder, and adultery. The discussion challenges common misconceptions about moral self-evidence, using the analogy of the wheel's invention to show how even "obvious" ethical principles required revelation to become clear.
Lo Sachmod is the Midda for Lo Tignov Tirtzach Tinaf Taane
- בדיקה טכנית קצרה של תקינות המיקרופון
- התייחסות למחוון ויזואלי המציג רמות שמע
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- בשבוע שעבר סיימנו נושא כללי - ההבחנה בין פנימיות "מזויפת" לפנימיות "אמיתית"
*[סטייה צדדית - משל להמחשה]*
דפוס הבית הגויי:
- מבחוץ: יפה, מטופח, רהיטים נאים, אורות, דשא מטופח, "מראה חיצוני מושך"
- מבפנים: מבולגן, חשוך, הכל מונח על השיש
דפוס הבית היהודי:
- מבחוץ: מראה מוזנח - מכונית שבורה, דשא לא גזום, אופניים נטושים
- מבפנים: נקי לחלוטין, משטחים נקיים, שום דבר לא מונח בחוץ, הרבה אורות
הסבר: בגלות, יהודים לא אכפת להם מחיצוניות - החיצוני הוא "בשביל הגוי שיסתכל"
אנקדוטה תומכת: סיפור על יהודי עשיר עם שטריימל חדש שנתקף ביקורת מאדם עני. הפואנטה: "אתה יכול לראות את השטריימל שלך כשאתה לובש אותו? לא. אז זה בשבילי."
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- קל ליפול ל"לולאות מתחזקות עצמית" - לולאות פנימיות שלא מובילות לשום מקום
- להיות "פנימי מדי" יוצר בעיות
- הדיכוטומיה המסורתית: כוונה (בפנים) לעומת מעשה/דיבורים (בחוץ)
- ציטוט: "תפילין בלי כוונה זה כמו גוף בלי נשמה"
טיעון מפתח: מושג של כוונה/פנימיות ש"לא מכוון לשום דבר חוץ מעצמו"
- רקורסיבי עצמית - "כמו להסתכל במראה שבה רואים אלף מראות"
- הולך ומתכווץ, לא מוביל לשום מקום
- אנשים לומדים את הרמב"ם שדן בפנימי (מידות)
- הבנה נכונה: "לא מספיק לעשות מעשים נכונים, צריך גם להיות אדם טוב"
- פירוש שגוי: אנשים חושבים שזה אומר משהו ש"נגמר בפנימי" - ממוקד בעצמו
- "אני אדם טוב" ← "מה הכוונה?" ← "אני לא עוזר לאף אחד, אבל אני מרגיש מאוד את הכאב הזה, יש לי הרבה אמפתיה"
- או: "אני לא אתן לך דולר, אבל אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך"
*[הערת אגב קצרה]*
- פנימיות מזויפת זו אולי קשורה לגנוסטיציזם/תיאולוגיית האצלה
- "רקע אחר של הדת היהודית, לא הדת היהודית"
- הוכר כנושא מורכב הדורש דיון נוסף
- גם הוכר: יש דרך נכונה להתמקדות פנימית (יידון בהמשך)
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תזה מפתח: כשדנים במידות/תכונות פנימיות:
- לא מדובר על רגשות נכונים כלפי עצמך
- מדובר על כוונה/רגש/רגש נכון כלפי המעשה
"מה שמגדיר מידה טובה הוא תמיד מעשה. זה אף פעם לא רגש פנימי."
- אבל: המידה עצמה מורכבת מרגש פנימי, הרגל, נטייה לבחור
- המידה היא "על החוץ, לא על עצמה"
- הטענה "אני נדיב בפנים אבל לא נותן הרבה" היא כמעט תמיד שקרית
- אם אין לך רכוש/כסף/יכולת לחלוק
- אז אתה יכול לומר "אני טוב ככל שאני יכול להיות אבל צריך כלים חיצוניים"
- עמדת אריסטו: גם אז, אתה רק "נדיב בפוטנציאל," לא נדיב בפועל
- אתה אולי "אדם טוב בפנים" אבל זה המקרה התקף היחיד
- נדיבות היא לא "אני רוצה לתת" אלא "אני אוהב לתת"
- זה מוביל אוטומטית למעשה (אם אפשרי)
- מסקנה לוגית: אם מישהו טוען ש"אוהב להיות נדיב" אבל לא פועל בנדיבות, הוא משקר
- זו לא סתם סתירה - זה בלתי אפשרי (למעט מכשולים חיצוניים)
- "יש לי טוב בפנים, פשוט יש לי יצר הרע שגורם לי לא לעשות" - לא הגיוני
- אלא אם יש עיכובים מבחוץ
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- מישהו ש"נותן, נותן, נותן" אבל "בפנים הוא פשוט מת"
- תשובה: זה ה"מקרה הרגיל" - קשור לחינוך
- כשמתחילים לתת, לא מרגישים כלום, לא אוהבים את זה
- מאמנים את עצמך דרך מעשה ← ואז מגיעים לאהוב את זה
סיכום האסימטריה:
- פנים (אם אמיתי) ← מוביל אוטומטית לחוץ
- חוץ ← יכול להיעשות בלי משמעות פנימית (לא דורש פנים)
תשובה ראשונית: חינוך חיצוני, "שלא לשמה"
התלמיד דוחק: מה גורם לך להקשיב למישהו אחר?
תשובת המורה: תמיד אפשר לעקוב אחורה למשהו שאתה אוהב (למשל, אהבת הקשבה לסמכות/לאותו רב)
שאלה עמוקה יותר שעולה: מה ההבדל בין מישהו אחר שאומר לך לבין שאתה אומר לעצמך?
- אם אתה מחליט לעשות משהו, אתה אומר "אני רוצה"
- אבל מה גורם לך לרצות?
- מאיפה מגיע הרצון הזה?
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- תלמיד מעלה: האם מוטיבציה יכולה להיות "רצון להיות סוג כזה של אדם"?
- תשובה: בדרך כלל התשובה מתחקה אחורה לחינוך חיצוני ("שלא לשמה")
- רגרסיה נוספת אפשרית: האם אתה אוהב לרצות להיות אותו אדם? או משהו אחר?
- אתגר שמוצג: האם תמיד אפשר לדחוף אחורה ולמצוא "עוד דבר שאתה אוהב"?
- גם חינוך מתחיל באהבת משהו בסיסי: אהבת הנאה וסלידה מכאב
- "הנאה היא פשוט מילה למה שאנחנו אוהבים" (מסויג: "לא לגמרי, אבל במובן מסוים")
- חינוך ראשוני (על ידי אחרים) עובד דרך שכר ועונש
- תוצאה: בהתחלה עושים דברים נכונים מסיבות לא נכונות
ניסוח מפתח מחדש: להיות עם המידה "בהוויה" לעומת לא = הסיבה (ה"בשביל") מאחורי המעשה
ההבחנה בין אדם טוב לרע:
- אדם טוב: עושה טוב מסיבות טובות (אוהב את הטוב עצמו)
- אדם רע שעושה טוב: עושה טוב מסיבות לא נכונות
- דוגמה: נותן צדקה לכבוד = "לא באמת נותן צדקה, אתה באמת מחפש כבוד"
ארבעה מנגנונים שבהם המוטיבציה משתנה:
1. כוח ההרגלים
2. אנשים נוטים לאהוב את מה שהם רגילים אליו
3. מתחילים "לראות את הטוב בזה"
4. לראות את הטוב דורש חוויה - "איך רואים את הטוב? לראות את הטוב זו חוויה"
- אפשר לראות את זה דרך אחרים או דרך לעשות את זה בעצמך
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- הכרה: "אלה דברים שאנחנו כבר יודעים... אני תוהה כמה זה עוזר במציאות"
- החלק הבא יעבור על מידות טובות ספציפיות - מה הן ואיך לרכוש אותן
- *[הערה הומוריסטית: "לפחות לשפוט אנשים שאין להם אותן. זה יהיה יותר כיף."]*
מסגור: מצווה שהיא "לכאורה מידה" - הלכה מפורשת על דבר פנימי
הבעיה הפרשנית:
- קריאות מסוימות: פנימית לחלוטין ← "רע, לדעתי"
- הבנה נכונה: דבר פנימי המכוון למעשה חיצוני
- עיקרון מפתח: "הפנימי נהיה מאוד חשוב כי החיצוני נגרם ממנו. אבל לא כי הוא נגרם מעצמו, לא כי הוא פונה לעצמו"
מיקום בתורה: אחרון מעשרת הדיברות (או שניים אחרונים, לפי חלק) - סוף פרשת יתרו / תחילת פרשת משפטים
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- "חכמי המשנה והתלמוד לא התרשמו מעשרת הדיברות"
- הם התנגדו באופן פעיל לעשות מזה עניין גדול
- פסיקות מעשיות: לא לשים בתפילין, לא לקרוא בקריאת שמע, לא לשים במזוזה
- "אפיקורסים אמרו שהעיקר זה עשרת הדיברות"
- חכמים התנגדו לזה
- עיקרון פרשני: "כל פעם שהם אומרים 'אפיקורסים אומרים ככה,' זה אומר שיש סיבה טובה לחשוב ככה, אבל זה טעות"
1. פוליטי/חיצוני: "אל תלבש את הכובע כי הם לובשים את הכובע" - נדחה כלא מספיק
2. טיעון חוסר איזון (הצעת תלמיד): הרמת מצוות ספציפיות מובילה לחוסר איזון על חשבון אחרות
3. דעת המרצה: חכמים התנגדו ל"הפיכת המצוות למערכת לוגית"
- קשור לדמויות מאוחרות יותר: ר' יצחק אברבנאל שהתנגד לעיקרים, חתם סופר
בקשת הגר: למד אותי את כל התורה על רגל אחת
תשובת שמאי: "צא מחיי"
- מאופיין כ"התשובה המסורתית" - סירוב לצמצם את התורה לסיכום
- "מה זה יהדות? לך תמות."
תשובת הלל: "יהדות היא על להיות טוב לחברך"
- פירוש מחדש שמוצע: הלל היה "יותר נחמד," לא הציע תיאולוגיה טובה יותר
- הוא "נכנע למסגור של אותו בחור" - גרסה דיפלומטית של אותה דחייה
- הסיפור "ממוסגר במפורש כהלל שהיה יותר נחמד, לא כהלל שיש לו תיאולוגיה טובה יותר"
תיקון של ציטוט שגוי נפוץ:
- אנגלית נפוצה: "כל התורה היא [X], והשאר פירוש"
- הגמרא בפועל: לא אומרת "והשאר פירוש"
- אומרת משהו כמו: "ועכשיו לשאר, בוא לבית המדרש מחר"
- משמעות: הלל נתן כלל אבל לא אמר שהתורה מורכבת מפירוט של אותה הכללה
- סיפור על הרבי מסקווירא (רבי יעקב יוסף טברסקי) עם סטודנטים מעיתון
- שיעור ראשון בחסידות: "הכל זה השגחה פרטית"
- שיטת הוראה: להמשיך לשיעור שני רק אחרי שהראשון הופנם
- יישום להלל: "ואהבת לרעך" זה השיעור הראשון; תחזור כשתבין אותו
- הגר אף פעם לא חזר (מרמז שהוא אף פעם לא באמת הפנים את זה)
- הגר חיפש אקסטזה דתית ("תפס את אלוהים בבקבוק")
- תשובת שמאי: דחייה של גישת חיפוש האקסטזה הזו ("זו לא הדת שלנו")
- תשובת הלל: אותו מסר כמו שמאי, רק נמסר בדיפלומטיה
- הלל נתן את ההוראה האנושית הכי בסיסית ופשוטה: "מה ששנוא עליך לא תעשה לחברך"
- שני הרבנים הסיטו את הציפיות המוטעות של המחפש
- חכמים קדמונים (תקופת המשנה/תלמוד) לא היו חובבי רציונליזציה מוגזמת
- מציאת "כלל אחד שממנו הכל נובע" נתפסה בחשדנות
- הסתייגות: קצת הכללה היא בלתי נמנעת (זה מה שהבנה *היא*)
- אבל הם התנגדו לעשות *יותר מדי* מזה
*[הערת צד]:* גם אריסטו התנגד לנטייה הזו - הביקורת שלו על אפלטוניסטים מסוימים
- למה ליהודים יש ספרים כל כך ארוכים במקום קטכיזם קטן?
- תשובה: "צריך לחיות חיים" - אי אפשר לצמצם לעקרונות
- עקרונות שמופקים מהחיים מאבדים את משמעותם
- ש: "מה היסוד של חסידות?"
- ת: "בוא כל שבוע לטיש של הרבי"
- ש: "מה הלימוד של [השיעור הזה]?"
- ת: "אין לימוד - אתה בא כל שבוע, מפתח סוג כזה של ראש, חי סוג כזה של חיים"
- תובנה מפתח: תורה לא יכולה "להיות מבוקבקת ונשלחת באוקיינוס"
- מישהו מוצא את העקרונות שלך, יוצר דת חדשה
- אתה מבקר ומוצא אותם עושים "דברים מוזרים"
- הם אומרים: "עקבתי אחרי העקרונות שלך!"
- תשובה: "זה לא עובד ככה"
- זו הסיבה האמיתית להתנגדות לסיסטמטיזציה יתרה
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- עשרת הדברות חוזרות פעמיים (שמות ודברים)
- חזרה כמעט מילה במילה (רק כ-20 מילים שונות)
- שום דבר אחר בתורה אין לו חזרה כזו
- ברור שנתפס כמרכזי כבר בחומש עצמו
- *[הערה: לא מוזכר שוב במקום אחר בתנ"ך]*
- זיהוי: יהודי בן זמנם של התנאים
- נקרא "ידידיה" על ידי רבי מנחם עזריה (תרגום עברי של "פילון")
- כתב ספר על עשרת הדיברות שמראה איך הן כוללות את כל המצוות
- שלושה כרכים המפרטים איך כל המצוות נגזרות מהעשר
- טענה: פילון המציא/פורמליז את הגישה השיטתית הזו
- רציונליסטים ומיסטיקנים מימי הביניים כולם אומרים דברים דומים לפילון
- הסברים אפשריים:
- העברת כתבי יד סודית
- גנאלוגיה מפילון לרב סעדיה (הרמב"ם מציע משהו כזה בפרק אלף)
- או פשוט: זה ברור מהטקסט עצמו
- מדרשים כבר מראים פרשת קדושים ופרשת משפטים כפירושים לעשרת הדברות
- ירושלמי: קריאת שמע מקבילה לעשרת הדברות
- פילון לא המציא את הרעיון לגמרי, אבל פורמליז אותו משמעותית
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- כל עשרת הדיברות הן דברים שלא צריך התגלות כדי לדעת
- הן אמיתות מוסריות פשוטות וברורות (חוץ אולי מאחת)
- התגלות אלוהית דרמטית: הר בוער, מרכבה אלוהית, העולם שותק
- ואז אלוהים מדבר ואומר... "בבקשה אל תרצח אף אחד"
- נקודה רטורית: למה התגלות אלוהית מפוארת לתוכן מוסרי ברור?
תזה: כל עשרת הדיברות חוץ מאחת הן דברים שכל אדם היה מסכים להם
היוצא מן הכלל: "אנכי" (אנכי ה' אלוהיך) / שבת
- אלה דורשים הסבר כי הם לא מובנים מאליהם
תובנה מפתח: התורה עצמה מציינת אילו דיברות צריכות הסבר על ידי *הכללת הסברים בתוכן*
ניתוח של כל דיבר:
1. אנכי/לא יהיה - יש הסבר: "כי אנכי אל קנא"
2. לא תשא (לא לשאת שם ה' לשווא) - יש הסבר: "כי לא ינקה ה'"
- ברגע שיודעים שאלוהים קיים, לא להישבע לשקר זה ברור
3. שבת - יש הסבר: "כי ששת ימים עשה ה'"
- *[הערת צד: הם כבר ידעו שבת ממצרים/מרה]*
4. כבד אב ואם - יש "למען" - שכר/הבטחה, אבל הציווי עצמו ברור
5. חמש אחרונות (לא תרצח, ניאוף, גניבה, עדות שקר, חמידה) - אין הסברים
- הן מסבירות את עצמן; להוסיף "כי אלוהים יעניש" היה *הורס* אותן
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הבחנה קריטית:
- "פשוט" לא אומר שכולם כבר ידעו את זה לפני שנאמר להם
- הוכחה: קין היה האדם השני והיה רוצח - ברור שלא חשב שרצח זה רע
- תרבויות ודורות רבים לא
המרצה: כן, אז עכשיו יש לנו דף שם. אתה הולך עם המיקרופון שלי דלוק, אני מקווה. לא יכול לראות מכאן. אני מקווה שזה דלוק. אז כן, זה עושה את הירוק למעלה ולמטה, הדבר הירוק של הקול שלי.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן, כן, כן, כן, כן.
המרצה: ושם אתה צריך לראות גם. בסדר, זה עולה ויורד מתחת לצלחת.
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המרצה: בסדר, אז בשבוע שעבר סיימנו את הנושא הכללי. החצי הראשון של השיעור בשבוע שעבר היה על החילוק בין מזויף - מה שאני קורא מזויף, אבל אולי אנשים אחרים קוראים לזה אחרת - לבין פנימיות אמיתית. נכון? מה הייתה הגרסה המזויפת? הגרסה המזויפת היא סוג של פנימיות. איך אומרים פנימיות? שנגמרת בפנים. כן, פנימיות זו מילה יותר טובה. פנימיות. שמעצבי פנים יודעים שיש עיצוב פנים של בן האדם.
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המרצה: ואז יש יידן אחרים. אתה יודע מה הם חושבים בין בית גויי לבית יהודי? איך זה נראה? אתה גר פה בלייקווד, בהאוול? איך זה נראה בין בית גויי לבית יהודי? איך אתה יודע אם בית הוא יהודי או גויי? אתה עובר ליד. קודם כל, אתה יכול לראות שליהודים יש מכוניות מסוימות. אין אורות. לגויים אין אורות בפנים. אבל יש להם הרבה אורות בחוץ. שמת לב?
תלמיד: כן, זה נכון.
המרצה: ובכן, אני חושב שממש בית גויי, גויים אמריקאים - למקסיקני יהיה משהו אחר, אבל האמריקאי או הדומיניקני - החוץ של הבית יפה. מאוד מטופל. יש רהיטים יפים, יש אורות, הדשא מטופח, וכל זה. אבל זה קל. הם שמים כסף בחזית יפה וכל זה. משהו שנקרא "ערך מדרכה" על ידי סוכני הנדל"ן.
ואז אתה נכנס פנימה וכמו שהמטבח הוא כמו ערימות של עוגיות אורז על השיש, והטוסטר שלהם נשמר על השיש, וגם מכונת המים החמים, וגם הקפה לארבעת השבועות הבאים. ארבעה שבועות הם שומרים הכל בחוץ וזה בלגן ענק בעצם. או אולי בראש שלהם זה לא בלגן, אבל לי זה נראה מדהים. זה גם חשוך. אני אומר הסגנון של לשמור הכל בחוץ, כמו כן, ויש נקודות על הקיר, הכפיות מסביב לשיש, וכן הלאה. אז הפנים לא כל כך יפה.
המרצה: ואתה מקבל בית שמבחוץ נראה כמו חורבה. יש כמו מכונית שבורה בחזית אם אתה יהודי, והדשא לא גזוז, ויש כמו אופניים שבורים שהילדים אולי השתמשו בהם בשנה שעברה עדיין. ואיפה שאתה גר זה גם ככה.
ואתה נכנס פנימה והרצפה נקייה לחלוטין. שום דבר לא לא במקום. השיש כולו נקי, כמו משטחים טהורים. הרבה אורות תמיד. זה החילוק.
המרצה: ולמה זה ככה? כי בגלות, היידן לא אכפת להם מהחיצוני, כי אנחנו יודעים למי אכפת? זה בשביל הגוי שהולך להסתכל.
המרצה: אתה יודע, הבחור - היה יהודי שהגביר מסטוט היה מסתובב עם השטריימל החדש שלו, והשלעפער אמר, "אני חושב שהיית צריך לעשות את זה קצת אחרת שם." ואני הייתי כמו, "מי אתה? אתה יכול לראות את השטריימל שלך כשאתה לובש אותו?" "לא." "אז זה בשבילי. אני נותן לך את הביקורת שלי. אני חושב שזה היה צריך להיות..."
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המרצה: אז בקיצור, היידן נכנסו מאוד לרעיון הזה של פנימיות, שזה מאוד חשוב. מה שאנחנו אומרים והכל. אבל המעשה, לא כל כך פשוט. זה מאוד קל להיכנס ללולאות קטנות שמחזקות את עצמן, כמו לולאות פנימיות עם כל הדברים האלה. ואחת הבעיות עם להיות יותר מדי פנימי היא שאתה נכנס לכוונה, נכון?
המרצה: יש לנו את המילה הזו כוונה. יש כוונה ומעשה. כוונה היא הפנים. יש כוונה כפנים, ומעשה, או מילים, הם החוץ, נכון?
המרצה: עכשיו מה שקורה הוא שאתה מקבל מושג של כוונה, או של פנים, כוונה או פנימיות, שלא מכוונת לשום דבר חוץ מעצמה. זה אולי דבר מאוד טוב לרמה מסוימת אחרת של אתיקה שאנחנו לא דנים בה בשיעור הזה עדיין. אבל אתה צריך לזכור עם החלק שאמרנו בשבוע שעבר שרוב הזמן עכשיו אנחנו לומדים הרמב"ם מדבר הרבה על הפנימי. שאנחנו מדברים על מידות. יש לנו את הרבה הזה שאומר שזה לא מספיק לעשות מעשים נכונים, אתה צריך גם להיות אדם טוב, נכון? שזה משהו פנימי.
המרצה: אנשים חושבים שזה אומר משהו שנגמר בפנימי, פנימי שמתמקד בעצמו. זה איכשהו מחשבה רקורסיבית עצמית, כמו להסתכל במראה אתה רואה אלף מראות. זה ממשיך באמת לספר לך את אותו דבר, רק נהיה קטן יותר וקטן יותר.
המרצה: ולכן אנשים חושבים, "אני אדם טוב." מה הכוונה שאתה אדם טוב? "ובכן, אני לא עוזר לאף אחד, אבל אני מרגיש מאוד את הכאב הזה. יש לי הרבה אמפתיה." לפעמים יש גם מילים. כמו, "אני לא הולך באמת לתת לך דולר, אבל כמו, כן, אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך."
תלמיד: אני חושב שהדינמיקה באה... זה אולי מטרה, אני חושב, כי זה בא מ... כי אין לך כסף. דרך אחרת לדת היהודית, לא הדת היהודית.
המרצה: ממ. אנחנו יכולים לדבר על זה, אבל זה עוד שלם... זה יותר... אני הולך לתת לך קצת היסטוריה על זה, אבל אני חושב שמשהו קורה. אבל יש הרבה... יש הרבה... זו שאלה מאוד רצינית. זה מאוד עמוק. יש גם דרך נכונה לקבל את זה, שאני... אנחנו גם אמרנו שזה גם רמה.
תלמיד: כן, כן, אני יודע.
המרצה: אני לא רוצה ללעוג לזה. אני רק רוצה להגיד, בהקשרים מסוימים, לפחות, זה לגמרי חסר תועלת. ולכן, זה חשוב להבחין כשאנחנו מדברים על הדבר הזה. זה מאוד חשוב.
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המרצה: אנחנו לא מדברים על מעשים. אנחנו מדברים על מידות, על משהו פנימי. אבל החלק העיקרי שלנו היה להגיד, להבהיר, שזה לא אומר לרצות, לא אומר משהו שמתמקד. הכוונה היא לא לעצמה, לא להחזיק את הרגשות הנכונים כלפיך או משהו כזה, אלא זה על להחזיק את הכוונה הנכונה, את הרגש הנכון, את הרגש הנכון כלפי המעשה.
המרצה: אז אנחנו אומרים, לדוגמה, אנחנו הולכים להיכנס לכל רשימת המעלות, רשימת המידות הטובות. אתה צריך להבין שמה שמגדיר את המידות הטובות זה תמיד מעשה. זה אף פעם לא רגש פנימי. אבל המידה מורכבת מרגש פנימי, מהרגל פנימי, מנטייה פנימית לבחור, כמו שדנו בשבוע שעבר, נכון?
המרצה: אז כמו המידה של הכמות הנכונה של - איך הוא קורא לזה - הנדיבות, הליברליות, הכמות הנכונה של נתינה היא מידה שהיא על החוץ. היא לא על עצמה, נכון? מישהו שאומר, "אני אדם נדיב בפנים, אבל אני לא באמת עוזר להרבה אנשים, לא נותן הרבה" - יש רק דרך אחת שבה זה יכול להיות קצת נכון, וגם אז זה רק חצי הדרך.
המרצה: זה יכול להיות קצת נכון רק במובן שבו אולי אתה מאוד נדיב, אבל אין לך רכוש, או אין לך כסף, או אין לך יכולות לחלוק עם אף אחד. אז אתה יכול להגיד, "ובכן, אני טוב ככל שאני יכול להיות, אבל אני צריך כמה כלים חיצוניים שבאמצעותם להיות נדיב." וגם אז, לפחות, אתה לא באמת נדיב. אתה רק פוטנציאלית נדיב. אבל אז אתה יכול להגיד אולי אתה אדם טוב.
המרצה: אבל חוץ מזה, זה אף פעם לא אומר משהו כמו להחזיק את הרגשות הנכונים. זה רק אומר הנכון - אתה צריך להחזיק את הרגשות הנכונים, אבל מה ההגדרה של הרגשות האלה היא - האהבה שהנדיבות היא לא "אני רוצה לתת לך," זה "אני אוהב לתת." זה כל הנקודה של זה, נכון? לכן אם מישהו אומר, "אני אוהב - אני נדיב," והוא לא פועל בנדיבות - משקר. הוא לא רק כמו - זה לא אפשרי שיהיה קונפליקט בין מידה ל - כלומר, יכול להיות קונפליקט, אבל זה לא הדרך שאנחנו מדמיינים את זה בדרך כלל.
המרצה: זה לא כמו שאני אומר, "יש לי טוב בפנים, רק יש לי איזה יצר הרע שגורם לי לא לעשות את זה." זה לא באמת הגיוני, או פחות יש כמה מקרים שיש דרכים להסביר את זה.
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המרצה: אבל זה יכול להיות גם הפוך, שהבחור פשוט נותן, נותן, כן, אבל בפנים הוא בטוח, נכון? זה המקרה הרגיל, כי אנחנו מדברים על לחנך את עצמך. כשאתה מתחיל לתת, אתה לא מרגיש כלום. אתה לא אוהב את זה. אתה מתחיל לעשות את זה, ואז אתה אוהב את זה. אתה מאמן את עצמך. אז יש מקרה כזה, כמובן. אבל עדיין, האהבה היא...
תלמיד: למה אני, להיפך? לא באמת. שאתה רוצה לעשות את זה, אבל אתה לא. כלומר, חוץ מ, כמו שאמרת, זה לא אפשרי.
המרצה: יש את זה. יש דרך אחרת. יש משהו אחר גם, אבל אנחנו צריכים... נגיע לזה בשלב מסוים, כי האינטראקציה הזו הייתה על זה בשבועות האחרונים.
תלמיד: מה זה?
המרצה: האינטראקציה הזו בין השניים, שזה משהו רע. זה כמו אני.
תלמיד: למה? אני מנסה לתפוס את זה, וזה מחליק מהאחיזה שלי.
המרצה: תסביר.
תלמיד: אני לא יודע, כי זה 6 בבוקר בשמיני. ככה. ככה. רציתי שזה יהיה מסודר, ולהגיד, כמו, זו תשובה מסודרת. רע. זה לא כל כך מסודר. אבל זה, אז זה בפנים. אם זה אמיתי, אוטומטית זה בחוץ. אבל בחוץ, אתה יכול לעשות את המעשה בלי צורך בפנים, וזה לא חייב להיות המקרה.
המרצה: מה הבעיה?
תלמיד: אתה מתנהג כאילו. אתה מתנהג כמו שהאדם הטוב היה מתנהג. אבל מה מניע את זה?
המרצה: אה, זו שאלה טובה.
תלמיד: כמו במובן הזה, אתה יכול להגיד שאתה רוצה להיות הסוג הזה של אדם?
המרצה: כן. בדרך כלל, הדבר המוזר עם זה הוא שבדרך כלל התשובה היא משהו כמו חינוך, חינוך חיצוני.
תלמיד: תראה, אבל מה מניע את המוטיבציה? מה מניע את זה? האם זה - האם זה שאתה באמת אוהב לרצות להיות האדם הזה? וכשאתה אומר רק - רק תדחוף את זה אחורה, זה זה? או שזה משהו אחר?
המרצה: לא, בדרך כלל זה מישהו אחר שאומר לך את זה. המציאות - במציאות, ואני חושב גם - כן, במציאות, כשאני אומר במציאות, קודם התכוונתי כמו במציאות בספרים, וגם במציאות בחיים האמיתיים, זו שאלה טובה. אבל מישהו אחר - אתה תמיד יכול לדחוף אחורה ופשוט למצוא דבר אחר שאתה אוהב? כמו שאתה אוהב להקשיב לסמכויות, אז לכן אתה עושה את זה? או שאתה אוהב...
[הדיון בכיתה ממשיך, נגמר באמצע מחשבה]
המרצה: מה הבעיה? אתה מתנהג כאילו - אתה מתנהג כמו שהאדם הטוב היה מתנהג. אבל מה מניע את זה?
תלמיד: אה, זו שאלה טובה. כמו במובן הזה, אתה יכול להגיד שאתה רוצה להיות הסוג הזה של אדם?
המרצה: כן, בדרך כלל הדבר המוזר עם זה הוא, בדרך כלל התשובה היא משהו כמו חינוך, חינוך חיצוני. תראה, אבל מה מניע את זה? כמו, שלא לשמה. מה מניע את זה? האם זה שאתה באמת אוהב לרצות להיות האדם הזה, וכשאתה אומר את זה, רק תדחוף את זה צעד אחורה? או שזה משהו אחר?
לא, בדרך כלל זה מישהו אחר שאומר לך. זו המציאות. במציאות, ואני חושב גם, כן, במציאות, כשאני אומר במציאות, קודם התכוונתי, כמו, במציאות בספרים, וגם במציאות בחיים האמיתיים.
תלמיד: אבל מה אם אתה יכול להקשיב למישהו האחר הזה?
המרצה: ובכן, זו שאלה טובה. אבל מישהו אחר...
תלמיד: אתה תמיד יכול לדחוף אחורה ופשוט למצוא דבר אחר שאתה אוהב? כמו, אתה אוהב להקשיב לסמכויות? אז לכן אתה עושה את זה? או שאתה אוהב לנסות להיות הסוג הזה של אדם, גם אם עדיין לא הסוג הזה של אדם?
המרצה: כלומר, במובן מסוים, אתה יכול לדחוף דברים אחורה במובן שכולם יודעים, גם חינוך מתחיל עם האהבה של משהו, דהיינו האהבה של הנאה והסלידה מכאב. חינוך מחנך על ידי הנאה וכאב. אז כולם אוהבים הנאה. הנאה היא רק מילה למה שאנחנו אוהבים, במובן מסוים. לא לגמרי, אבל במובן מסוים.
לכן, כשאנחנו מחנכים אותך, וגם כשאתה מחנך את עצמך, אולי, אבל בהחלט המקרה העיקרי של חינוך הוא כשמישהו אחר מחנך אותך, אז הם הולכים לתת לך פרסים ולהבטיח לך תגמולים ולאיים עליך בעונשים על עשיית הדבר הנכון. אז אתה הולך להתחיל לעשות אותם מהסיבה הלא נכונה, נכון?
אתה רואה דרך אחרת להגדיר להחזיק אותם בהוויה של האדם לעומת לא להיות היא הסיבה שאתה עושה את זה, ה"בשביל," נכון? האדם הטוב עושה את הטוב מהסיבות הטובות, שזה שהוא אוהב את הטוב, שזו הסיבה הטובה. האדם הרע שעושה דברים טובים עושה דברים טובים אבל מהסיבה הלא נכונה.
זה נקרא במסורת שלנו בדיוק זה, נכון? אם אתה נותן צדקה כי אתה רוצה כבוד, אז אתה עושה את הדבר הנכון אבל מהסיבה הלא נכונה. אז אתה לא באמת נותן צדקה, אתה באמת מחפש כבוד.
ולאט לאט אתה הולך להתחיל לאהוב את הנתינה. כן, זה מה שדנתי כמה פעמים פה. זה טוב, זה טוב לעשות את זה, כי אתה לא באמת נשאר עם הכבוד ברוב המקרים. זה זז קצת, כמעט לכולם, בגלל איך חינוך עובד, בגלל הכוח של הרגלים, כי אנשים נוטים לאהוב את מה שהם רגילים אליו.
וגם כי אתה מתחיל לראות את הטוב בזה. כי איך אתה רואה את הטוב? לראות את הטוב זו חוויה. איך אתה הולך לראות שזה טוב לתת? כמו שאתה אף פעם לא ראית נתינה. אתה יכול לראות את זה על ידי מישהו אחר או אתה יכול לראות את זה על ידי עצמך. ואתה רואה איך זה לתת, ואתה מתחיל לראות שזה טוב, ואז אתה מתחיל לאהוב את זה. זה הגיוני?
המרצה: אז עכשיו, מה שאני רוצה לעשות קצת היום - זה כל הדברים שאנחנו כבר יודעים, או בתקווה כבר יודעים. אני תוהה כמה זה עוזר במציאות, אבל אנחנו כבר יודעים את הדברים האלה. מה שאנחנו צריכים לעשות היום זה לדבר קצת על כמה פרטים.
פרטים, זה באמת החלק הבא של הקורס. קורס שלא נגמר.
תלמיד: לא, זה לא לא נגמר. לא נגמר זה רק הנצחי.
המרצה: אתה אמור להיות מוכן לראות את זה, כמו שאמרתי לך.
תלמיד: מה? כמו לפי הבנקים, חבר שלי, מה הכוונה אמור לחזור? אני רואה את זה בשבט הקדושים [התייחסות לא ברורה]. העובדה שאני רואה את זה הולכת...
המרצה: בסדר, בסדר. אז אנחנו אמורים להיות צריכים - למה? אני לא בטוח שאתה מנבא. אני לא יודע. אני לא זוכר. היית מאוד שאפתן אז. לא בטוח. אני לא בטוח שאני זוכר למה אתה מתכוון.
אבל מה שאני רוצה להגיד לך הוא שאנחנו צריכים להיכנס לפרטים. אז החלק הבא של הקורס, גם זה מה שאנחנו מחזיקים בשבט הקדושים, הולך להיות על לעבור דרך כמה או כל, או להבין איך להחליט מה הם הכמה והכל של המידות הטובות האלה ולראות מה הן ואיך להשיג אותן. לפחות, אולי לפחות לשפוט את האנשים שאין להם אותן. זה יהיה יותר כיף.
אז, מכיוון שהשבוע הייתה פרשת יתרו והשבוע זו פרשת משפטים, החלטתי לדבר קצת על מצווה מסוימת, אולי יותר ממצווה אחת, אבל ספציפית מצווה אחת שלכאורה היא מידה, הלכה מאוד מפורשת, מצווה מאוד מפורשת שעוסקת בדבר פנימי.
ואני רוצה לתאר לכם איך יש קריאות שונות שלה, חלקן פנימיות לחלוטין והן רעות, לדעתי, וחלקן בעלות ההבנה הנכונה, שהיא דבר פנימי שמכוון לפעולה חיצונית. ואז הפנימי נעשה מאוד חשוב כי החיצוני נגרם ממנו, אבל לא בגלל שהוא נגרם מעצמו, לא בגלל שהוא פונה לעצמו. זו הדיון, אבל אנסה להראות לכם כמה זה מסובך.
אז, אתם כבר יודעים מה המצווה, נכון? זו האחרונה מעשרת הדיברות. לא תחמוד. לפי חלק מהאנשים, השנייה, שתי האחרונות, אבל בוודאות האחרונה. וסוף עשרת הדיברות, שזה חתיכת חוק או ספרות או משה גדולה, איך שתרצו לקרוא לזה. שטיקל די יפה, נכון? משה לא כזה רע.
תלמיד: מה? משה לא כזה רע.
מרצה: כמו שאמרתי, זה שטיקל די יפה. הרבה אנשים היו די מרשימים ממנו. נכון?
מרצה: לא מורינו הקדמונים, זכרם לברכה. הם לא היו מאוד מרשימים ממנו. הם היו קצת נגד להתרשם ממנו, נכון?
תלמיד: על אריסטו אתה מדבר? מי המורים הקדמונים שלא התרשמו ממנו?
מרצה: סליחה, פשוט הפסקתי לומר את זה. עשרת הדיברות.
תלמיד: לא, בדיוק. מה?
מרצה: חכמי המשנה והתלמוד לא התרשמו מעשרת הדיברות. הם לא עשו מזה עניין גדול. הם אפילו אמרו שאסור, שאולי זה היה רעיון יפה. שבא פקרסים אמרו שהעיקר זה עשרת הדיברות. והם אמרו שזה לא. אסור לעשות מזה עניין גדול.
כל פעם שהם אומרים משהו כזה, כמו אפיקורסים אומרים את זה, זה אומר כאילו יש סיבה טובה לחשוב ככה, אבל זה טעות. תמיד אפשר לומר שזה רק חיצוני, רק בגלל שזה כמוך. אי אפשר לשים את זה בתפילין. יוסי אלקריף אלקריף. אל תקראו את זה. אל תחזרו על זה פעמיים ביום. או אל תשימו את זה במזוזה שלכם, כמו שאחרים עשו.
תלמיד: יכולה להיות לנו פרשנות אחרת לזה, שזה פשוט פוליטי לגמרי, כמו אל תלבש את הכובע כי הם לובשים את הכובע. אבל נראה לי יותר שזו התנגדות אמיתית בין כמה - אתה חושב שזה לא רק בגלל שזה מוביל לחוסר איזון?
מרצה: מוביל ל?
תלמיד: חוסר איזון. מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: זה אומר ש, נגיד קריאת שמע היא מאוד כללית, אין לה את הבעיה הזו. כשאתה מגיע, כשאתה מרומם מצוות מסוימות ספציפיות, גם אם אולי צריך לרומם אותן, הן אוטומטית מתרוממות יותר מדי על חשבון כל השאר. אז זה חוסר איזון של איך, כלומר הן צריכות להיות קצת יותר.
מרצה: זה מה שהם אמרו. זה מה שהם אמרו. החכמים שאמרו את זה התנגדו להפוך את המצוות למערכת לוגית. אני חושב שזה מאוד קשור. זה הולך להיות עוד שיעור שלם, אז אני לא יכול להיכנס לזה. מאוד קשור לאנשים מאוחר יותר, כמו רבי יצחק אברבנאל שהתנגד לעיקרים ועלי חמזאיף ואחרים.
כי יש סוג של רציונליזציה, להבין דברים. כמו יש לנו את כל התורה הזו, היא מאוד גדולה, היא ארוכה, זה חמישה ספרים ארוכים, ספרים יחסית ארוכים, ויש שישה סדרי משנה וכל זה. ומה זה?
גר אחד בא פעם להלל ושמאי ואמר להם ללמד אותו את כל התורה על רגל אחת. ושמאי נתן לו את התשובה המסורתית: צא מחיי. זו התשובה המסורתית למישהו שאומר לך, מה זה יהדות? לך תמות. מה זאת אומרת, מה זה יהדות? אני לא יודע. אז לא למדתי משנה 35 שנה. אולי אתה תדע. מה כל זה? נכון? מאוד מסורתי.
הלל היה יותר נחמד, אז הוא אמר, אתה יודע מה, אני יכול לדבר אליך בשפה שלך גם. יהדות זה להיות טוב לבן אדם שלך. אבל זה היה רק הוא קצת נכנע למסגור של הבחור הזה. זה לא אומר שהלל באמת חשב ככה. זה במפורש ממוסגר הסיפור הזה כהלל יותר נחמד. זה לא ממוסגר כהלל בעל תיאולוגיה טובה יותר, נכון? היה פשוט בחור אחר שהיה בן זמנו של הלל שבאמת חשב ככה. אבל זה לא מה שהלל חשב.
אני חושב שהלל עשה בדיוק מה ששמאי עשה, רק בדרך יותר דיפלומטית. זה מה שאני חושב.
תלמיד: לא, הלל כן אמר לו משהו. יש נקודה מאוד חשובה ששמעתי מהמורה שלי על, מה היה שמו? אחד מהמורים החיים שלי.
מרצה: בעיקרון, כולם אמרו שהלל אמר, כל התורה היא, והשאר זה פירוש. זה מה שכולם אומרים שכתוב באנגלית, אבל הגמרא לא אומרת את זה. היא לא אומרת את זה.
תלמיד: מה היא אומרת?
מרצה: לא, אמרתי, לא משנה.
תלמיד: מה היא אומרת?
מרצה: מאוד טוב. ועכשיו לגבי השאר. בוא לבית המדרש מחר. היא לא אומרת, ואז השאר זה פירוש.
אז הוא לא אמר, לך מפה. הוא אמר שהוא כן נתן לו איזשהו כלל, אבל הוא לא אמר שהתורה מורכבת מפירוט הכלל הזה, פירוט ההכללה הזו. מה שהוא אמר היה שיש משהו פשוט שאני צריך לספר לך, תסיים עם זה. זה יותר כמו שסיפרתי לכם את הסיפור של הרבי מסקווירא, ככה אתה מפרש את זה, נכון? הרבי מסקווירא, חלאנע לברכה רבקה יוסף דוריס.
מרצה: ואז השאר זה פירוש. אז הוא לא אמר לך מפה. הוא אומר שהוא כן נתן לו איזשהו כלל, אבל הוא לא אמר שהתורה מורכבת מפירוט הכלל הזה, פירוט ההכללה הזו. מה שהוא אמר היה שיש משהו פשוט, אני צריך לספר לך. נסיים עם זה. זה יותר כמו שסיפרתי לכם את הסיפור של—
ככה אתה מפרש את זה, נכון? כמה תלמידים באו אליו. הם שמעו שהוא רב חסידי, רב חסידי אמיתי. הם רצו לדעת מה זה חסידות. הם אמרו שהם הולכים לכתוב את זה בעיתון שלהם. אז הוא אמר, ובכן, קודם כל חסידות זה לא לקרוא עיתונים. אבל אז הם אמרו, בסדר, אז לא נכתוב את זה בעיתון. אנחנו פשוט באמת רוצים לדעת. הוא אמר, אין בעיה. בואו למשרד שלי, אני אספר לכם.
והוא בא והוא אמר להם, תראו, יש לנו מסורת שאנחנו מלמדים אתכם את הדבר השני רק אחרי שאתם מבינים ומפנימים את הדבר הראשון. אז אני אגיד לכם את השיעור הראשון. כשתסיימו להבין אותו ולהפנים אותו, תחזרו. אני אמשיך. השיעור הראשון של חסידות אומר שהכל זה השגחה פרטית. עכשיו, להתראות. תחזרו כשהבנתם מה אני אומר.
זה מה שהלל אמר, נכון? השיעור הראשון הוא כמו, אהוב, אל תעשה מה שהחבר שלך עושה. הבנת את זה, תחזור. נראה. והבחור אף פעם לא חזר. בסדר.
תלמיד: אני חושב הפוך. אני חושב ככה. הבחור הזה בא לראות איזו אקסטזה.
מרצה: אם אתה רוצה לדבר, אתה צריך לדבר לתוך המיקרופון.
תלמיד: אני חושב שמה שקרה היה, הבחור הזה חיפש אקסטזה. כמו הרבה אנשים, נכון? כשהם נהיים, הם נהיים כאילו, הם מוצאים דת. הם מוצאים דת, כן? אז הם באים והם כאילו, אה, לא משנה. הם חושבים שזה הזך, כן? אז הם חושבים כאילו הם תפסו את אלוהים בבקבוק. אז הם שאלו מה זה. אז שמאי כאילו, אתה משוגע או משהו? צא מפה. זו לא הדת שלנו. אנחנו לא בעניין של CBGB האלה, איזה עניין של אקסטזה. אז הוא הלך להלל והוא אמר להם את אותו דבר. הוא ענה בדיוק מה שאני עשיתי, רק בדרך הרבה יותר דיפלומטית. הוא אמר את הדבר הכי בסיסי פשוט אנושי.
למה זה קצת שוגר שהוא פתאום הופך ליהודי, כאילו, מה הדוהן געזיין?
מרצה: בסדר, בסדר. זו שאלה טובה. אבל זה יהיה המעשה רב שלך. בסדר. בואו נמשיך. הנקודה היא, תורה מאוד יפה. תודה. שבת שלום. תורה מאוד יפה. עכשיו אם למישהו אחר יש מילה להגיד, אחרת נוכל להמשיך.
מרצה: מה שאמרתי הוא שהחכמים שלנו היו קצת מתנגדים, החכמים שלנו, חלקם, מאוחר יותר במהלך, אפילו בזמנים ההם, בזמנים עתיקים, החכמים שלנו שעשו את זה. אבל החכמים של ה, שדבריהם נכתבו במשנה ובתלמוד, לא היו מעריצים גדולים של לעשות את הסוג הזה של רציונליזציה, שבה אתה מוצא, כאילו, זה הכלל האחד, הכל נובע ממנו. הם היו קצת מתנגדים לזה בהרבה דרכים שונות.
ובכן, הם עשו את זה, כמובן, אבל אין דבר כזה ללמוד בלי לעשות את זה. זה מה שהבנה היא, למצוא הכללות וצורות. אבל הם התנגדו לעשות יותר מדי מזה. ודרך אגב, מורנו אריסטו גם התנגד לזה. לכן הוא לא היה כל כך מרוצה מפלטוניסטים מסוימים. וזה עוד שטיקל תורה שיש לי, אבל זה מספיק לעכשיו.
מרצה: ולכן, עשרת הדיברות הובנו כבר בזמנים עתיקים מאוד כמעין עשר הכללות, עשרה עקרונות, נכון? היו סוגים של עקרונות בעצם ביוונית, שזה מה שכל היוונים תמיד מחפשים. והם אמרו, אלה העקרונות של התורה. כל השאר נובע מהם.
החכמים שלנו היו כאילו, נא, כן, דברים יפים, לא נגדם. אולי מאוד חשוב. עקרונות? אני לא יודע. מה עם, מה עם לדעת את הכמות המדויקת של אמות שצריך לשים חיטה מכרם? אתה יודע את זה? זה נראה חשוב. זה העיקרון שכל השאר בנוי עליו. לא, זה חשוב. זה באותה מידה חשוב.
מרצה: אז הם לא היו מעריצים של זה. הם מאוד פחדו מאנשים שמפשטים את היהדות, כמו שצפיר אמר. למה יש לנו ספרים כל כך ארוכים? יכולנו לכתוב ספר קטן קטן שנקרא הקתוליציזם. איך הם קוראים לזה? הדבר הקתולי. זה מה שצריך לדעת כדי להיות יהודי. לא, זה לא עובד ככה. צריך לחיות חיים. כמובן, יש כמה עקרונות, אבל אי אפשר להפוך את זה לעיקרון. לפעמים אתה מוציא את זה מהחיים. זו, אני חושב, הביקורת האמיתית.
זה כמו שמישהו אומר, מה היסוד של חסידות? היסוד של חסידות זה פשוט לבוא כל שבוע לטיש של הרבי, או משהו, להסתובב. מה הלימוד של יצחק לוהר? אין לימוד של יצחק לוהר. אני מקווה שלא. הלימוד הוא שאתה בא כל שבוע לשיעור. ולאט לאט אתה מתחיל להיות עם הסוג הזה של שכל שמבין דברים בדרך הזו, אתה מתחיל לחיות את הסוג הזה של חיים שחי ככה, וכן הלאה.
אין כאילו לימוד שאפשר לבקבק בבקבוק קטן, ואז לשלוח למטה באוקיינוס, ואולי מישהו ימצא אותו. ככה התורה לא עובדת. אני חושב שזו הסיבה העיקרית שהם התנגדו לזה, כי זה כאילו ככה, זה הופך למשהו שאפשר לבקבק בבקבוק קטן, ואז לשלוח לאורך האוקיינוס, ואז מישהו מוצא את זה ויוצר דת חדשה כי היא מבוססת על אותם עקרונות, ואתה הולך לשם ומדבר עם הבחור, והוא עושה כל מיני דברים מוזרים. הם כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון? מה אתה מתכוון? הלכתי עם העקרונות שלך. זה לא עובד ככה. ככה אני מבין את ההתנגדות לעקרונות.
מרצה: אבל על מה אני מדבר אליכם עכשיו? אה, אבל אנשים אחרים היו מאוד מרשימים מעשרת הדיברות האלה, והם כן חשבו כעקרונות. וברור, החומש עצמו נראה שחושב ככה, כי מה הטעם של כל הסיפור הזה? אז, וזה חוזר פעמיים. כלומר, זה נראה שהיה משהו כאילו, אני לא חושב שיש אפילו עוד דבר אחד. כלומר, יש הרבה חזרות במשנה תורה, אבל חזרה כמעט מילה במילה. יש 20 מילים הבדל או משהו כזה. אין שום דבר אחר כזה. זה ברור משהו שנראה כמרכזי כבר בחומש עצמו. כמובן, בתנ"ך זה לא מוזכר אפילו עוד פעם אחת. אבל בכל מקרה, בחומש זה מוזכר פעמיים. אז זה נראה חשוב.
עכשיו, זו המשמעות שלהם. אני חושב שזה חשוב. במילים אחרות, אני חושב שזה מאוד יפה. שטיקל תורה מאוד יפה.
תלמיד: ומי היה הראשון שאמר שעשרת הדיברות הם העקרונות?
מרצה: אני לא יודע מי היה הראשון שאמר. הראשון שכתב שעשרת הדיברות הם עקרונות לכל המצוות?
תלמיד: תודה רבה. אני לפניו.
מרצה: זה מה שרש"י מביא.
תלמיד: כמובן שרש"י מביא את זה.
מרצה: לפניו היה יהודי, לא הרבה לפניו. מאות שנים לפניו.
תלמיד: אה, זה לא היה לפני עשרת הדיברות, אתה רואה?
מרצה: לא, לא, הוא לפני זה. רק קניתי את פילון השבוע, אז תסלחו לי שאני לא יכול לדבר.
תלמיד: בסדר, מאוד טוב. מי זה האבא בגמרא שם? הוא לא אומר אמרתי לו. הוא בכל הגמרא הזו. אמרתי לו, אז אני לא אחד מהם. הוא ממציא את זה, אז הוא הזמין אחד, נכון?
מרצה: אני בטוח. יש לי את פילון, שהיה יהודי בזמן התנאים, שנקרא ברבי מנחם עזריה ידידיה, שזה תרגום חמוד של פילון. אבל, פילון, שהיה יהודי טוב, הוא כתב ספר שנקרא עשרת הדיברות, או משהו כזה, ואז כתב ספר על פרטי המצוות, ויש ספר ארוך, זה כמו שלושה כרכים בתרגום, וכל זה מתאר איך עשרת הדיברות כוללים את כל המצוות, ואז נכנס לפרטים ומסביר את כל המצוות כפי שהן יוצאות מעשרת הדיברות.
מרצה: אז הוא היה זה שהמציא את זה, וכמו הרבה דברים אחרים, איכשהו בקסם, כל המאוחרים יותר, מה שאנחנו קוראים רציונליסטים ימי-ביניימיים ומיסטיקנים ימי-ביניימיים, כל האנשים שניסו לפרש את התורה באיזושהי שפה דומה למה שפילון עשה, כולם בסוף אמרו את אותם דברים בדיוק כמוהו. אבל אני לא חושב שזה בגלל, כלומר, יש אנשים שיגידו שהם בטח גנבו את זה איכשהו, כאילו היה איזה כתב יד איפשהו, שזה גם אפשרי. יש איזושהי גנאלוגיה שמובילה מפילון לרב סעדיה וכן הלאה. אבל אף אחד לא יכל באמת לעקוב אחרי הספר. אבל יש משהו כזה.
אני, בעצמי, חושב משהו כזה בהיסטוריה של המחשבה המאוד מפורסמת שלו בפרק אלף. אבל גם, כמובן, פילון פשוט למד מאפלטון. אפלטון למד מירמיהו. בכל מקרה.
מרצה: אבל גם, זה קצת ברור, נכון? אני חושב שככל שיותר יותר טוב הוא שזה די ברור. אם אתה קורא את זה, יש מדרשים שמראים לך איך פרשת קדושים או פרשת משפטים הם פירושים של עשרת הדיברות. זה לא משהו שפילון המציא לגמרי, רק כמו הטקסט. קראנו את הבחור ההוא על הדפוס, אבל הדפוס לא נכון, נכון?
תלמיד: כן. לא, הירושלמי אומר שקריאת שמע היא עשרת הדיברות.
מרצה: אלה דברים שיש במדרש גם. אז זה לא שהוא המציא לגמרי את הרעיון, אבל הוא מאוד פורמליזציה אותו וראה את זה ככה.
מרצה: בסדר, אז עכשיו עשרת הדברות זה טקסט מאוד יפה. ומה שמעניין הוא, קראתם את עשרת הדברות? יש כאן רק 10 דברים, מספר עגול מאוד יפה, 10, מספר מאוד חשוב. יש דרכים שונות לחלק את זה ל-10, אבל בוודאות יש 10 דברים. כולם מאוד פשוטים, נכון?
פשוטים במה? רבי אברהם אבן עזרא וכל אלה אומרים שהדברות הן דברים שאנחנו לא צריכים אורות וסירנות כדי לדעת אותם, חוץ מאחד.
מרצה: תזכרו שהקב"ה עשה את כל המופע הפירוטכני שלו, שבו הוא הדליק הר באש וירד עליו עם מרכבתו, ככה כתוב בתהילים, והשתיק את כל העולם ודיבר, ואז אמר, משהו כמו שאתם טוענים שהלל עשה כדי ללעוג לנו, ואמר, בבקשה אל תרצחו אף אחד. אני מתחנן לפניכם. וכולם היו כמו, מחשבה טובה, אלוקים. תודה רבה. תודה שהשורש של התורה שלנו יצא אחרי המרק.
מרצה: תודה שבאתם אחרי המרק. ואז הם אכלו עוגת גבינה, כי הם לא ידעו איך לעשות שום דבר. אלוקים, אני נכנס למצב רוח רטורי הזה.
אז כל הצדדים חוץ מאחד הם דברים מובנים מאליהם שכל אדם בעולם מסכים איתם, איזה מהם הם לא מסכימים איתו או שהם לא חולקים עליו שצריך הסבר?
תלמיד: איזה, מאט?
מרצה: לא, איזה?
תלמיד: בסדר, קצת עבה.
תלמיד: שבת?
מרצה: שבת, כן. ואני הולך לשבת אם יש בושה. עכשיו כמובן אתה אולי לא יודע שיש אלוקים, אבל אחרי שאתה יודע שיש אלוקים וזה להביא את שמו לשווא זה די מובן. אבל יש רק דבר אחד שלא היית יודע אם אף אחד לא היה אומר לך.
ואתם יודעים איך אני יודע שההבנה שלי נכונה, שזה הדבר היחיד שצריך הסבר? איך אנחנו יודעים? כתוב ככה. תודה רבה. כי הפסוק עצמו חושב ככה. כשהוא אומר - טוב, הוא נותן לך איום, הוא כן נותן לך כמו מפתח. הוא אומר, "בבקשה אל יהיה לך אלוהים אחרים, כי אל תעז, אל תחשוב על זה אפילו."
הייתה שורה מצחיקה על זה, כדי לוודא. הסיבה היא, כמו שכתוב בפסוק, הוא כמו, הוא קצת, הוא...
תלמיד: איפה?
מרצה: אני לא בטוח למה אתה מתכוון.
תלמיד: בסדר.
מרצה: אבל בעצם כי אני היחיד. בסדר. גם, כי אלוקים יהיה מאוד כועס, אבל זה מובן למה הוא יהיה כועס, נכון? מאוד טוב.
מרצה: כולם היו כמו, מה? מה זה הדבר הזה של שבת? אגב, הם כבר ידעו. אתם יודעים איך הם ידעו, נכון? הם שמרו אותה במצרים.
תלמיד: במצרים?
מרצה: במרה. אנחנו קוראים את הפסח במרה, נכון? שי, שי, שי, יום, טוב, כתיב. כבר הייתה שבת.
אבל בכל מקרה, הקב"ה אמר לי, אתם יודעים למה? הייתי כמו, למה? מה זה הדבר הזה עם שבת? אה, כי ששת ימים - תודה רבה. עכשיו אנחנו מבינים למה.
ואז הוא המשיך הלאה, אתם יודעים למה? לא כתוב "כי", נכון? כתוב "למען". יהיה נחמד, ייתן לך שכר, אבל באמת מובן.
אז הוא אמר עוד חמישה דברים, שלכולם אין אפילו את הרמה הזו של הסבר. אתה אפילו לא צריך איום או הבטחה מאלוקים כדי לעשות אותם, נכון?
תלמיד: למה?
מרצה: הוא הולך לגאנה.
תלמיד: לא, שם זה נגמר.
מרצה: כל הדברים האלה, הם מסבירים את עצמם. ואם מישהו אומר - אז הוא הרס את זה. כי בואו ניקח משהו שמסביר את עצמו: אם אני אומר לך יש - אתה מיד אומר, "כן, זה הגיוני."
עכשיו אתה רוצה - אני רוצה לספר לך משהו. רגע אחד. אני יכול לומר שיש בעצם, אני חושב שהם אומרים שזה - הגרי"ז עשה את זה פשוט, העובדה שהתורה כתבה את זה, זה מה שעושה את זה כל כך פשוט.
תלמיד: אני אספר לך את החלק בפער עם דברים אחרים.
מרצה: זה מה שאבחזיה אמר, ממש.
תלמיד: אני יודע, אני יודע, יש לך אחרים - הבינה המלאכותית שלך עובדת טוב.
מרצה: הבינה המלאכותית שלי?
תלמיד: כן, אמרתי שזה קצת קצר, אבל זה קצת קצר.
מרצה: תקשיבו, מאוד חשוב להבין את זה. כשאתה רוצה להבין מה זה הדבר הגדול - אני חושב שאתם יודעים שזה גדול, זה באמת גדול - כי הדף שלי רוב הזמן, זה לא כמו שברגע שאמרתי לכם זה כמו, "כן, עצמו רק לומר את זה מסביר את זה." בדרך כלל זה כמו, "טוב, אני חושב שהוא אמר את זה, אולי הוא יודע על מה הוא מדבר, אז אולי אקח את זה ברצינות," או "אתה יודע, היה לנו עין טובה מהרמב"ם, אז אולי זה טוב," וכן הלאה. לכן מה שאני אומר לכם משהו, בדרך כלל זה לא נקרא מן השמים. אתה לא אומר, "וואו, הם שמו - אלוקים בעצמו ירד עם מרכבתו ואמר לנו את זה." הבנתם?
כשמישהו אומר משהו שהוא כל כך מובן - כשאני אומר מובן, אני לא מתכוון שאתה יודע את זה מקודם. כי זה לא - אני לא חושב שזה נכון שכולם ידעו לפני זה. כשאמרתי, "זה צריך הסבר," אני לא מתכוון - אני לא הולך להיות צדיק שאמר את זה בצורה לא נכונה. אני לא מתכוון שכולם ידעו שלא לרצוח.
אתם יודעים איך אני יודע שלא כולם ידעו את זה? כן, הם עשו את זה מאז ומעולם. אז הבן אדם השני הראשון באנושות, לפי הסיפור של פרשת בראשית, היה רוצח. ברור שהוא לא חשב שזה מובן מאליו שרע לרצוח. כמובן, במובן מסוים הוא כן, כי הסיפור ממשיך עם הקב"ה שאומר לו, "מה קורה איתך?" אבל לא כל כך מובן.
אבל כשאני אומר לך - בסדר, אז זה רק האדם הראשון. מה עם האדם ה-10 וה-20 וה-30? הם גילו. הם גילו. אתה יכול לגלות את זה. זה מה שאני מנסה לומר.
מרצה: הם לא מולדים במובן שאתה לא יכול לגלות את זה. זה פשוט במובן שאם אני אומר לך את זה, אז אתה כמו, "וואו, אתה אומר לי משהו אמיתי." אתם רואים, יש הבדל גדול בין שאני אומר לך משהו וזה משהו שכבר ידעת - ולכן זה פשוט, כמו, "תודה רבה, מובן" - ובין שאני אומר לך משהו שאתה יודע רק כי אמרתי לך, או לפחות קצת - אולי אתה יודע את זה רק כי אמרתי לך. אבל כשאני אומר לך את זה, אתה לא - אתה לא הולך ואומר, "אני יודע את זה כי הוא אמר לי," או אפילו "כי הוא הוכיח לי את זה," או אפילו "כי הוא עשה לי מופת," הוא עשה את - המהלך הכי טוב במדרש. וככה אני יודע את זה. הוא אמר לי משהו שהוא ברור כמו שבעת הרקיעים נפתחים והארץ נפתחת.
תלמיד: למה השתמשת בתנועה הזו? זה לא משאלה. בוא יהיה לנו משימה לחלק הברור - לחלק הברור.
מרצה: זה מה שבהירות היא.
תלמיד: זה מה שאני מדבר עליו?
מרצה: כן.
תלמיד: כשאני אומר - מה אתה חושב שההבדל הוא? מה אתה חושב שההבדל הוא? אז מה? לכן.
מרצה: אז לכן, מה שאני מנסה לומר הוא שאם אתה אומר, "זה פשוט, אנחנו לא צריכים שאלוקים ירד מהשמים לומר את זה" - זה שטויות. זה אולי פשוט במובן שכשזה נאמר לך, זה ההוכחה של עצמו. אבל זה לא פשוט במובן שכולם יודעים את זה. זה לא נכון שכולם יודעים את זה. אני מכיר הרבה אנשים שלא יודעים את זה. ועוד יותר אנשים ממש לא יודעים את זה. במילים אחרות, הם מעולם לא שמעו על הבעיה. אתה יכול לומר, "יודע את זה," אבל אתה כבר יודע את זה. אבל יש הרבה אנשים, ואני יכול להראות לך את זה, הרבה תרבויות אפילו, או הרבה דורות שלא יודעים את זה.
ברגע שאתה עושה את הכלל הזה - במילים אחרות, בואו נחשוב, אני יכול להיכנס מאוד עמוק על זה ולדבר על, כמו, כמות הביקורת על רב סעדיה על שאמר שהמצווה השכלית היא כי זה לא משהו שיש בו משהו שכלי במידה האחרת. שכלי זה רק אלוקים והמלאכים שלו. זה מה שאני אומר, נכון? לכן הם לא יכולים להיות מצוות, כי רק אלוקים בעצמו והמלאכים שלו הם שכליים.
תלמיד: אבל הם מדברים אחד לשני? יש עקרונות אחרים - האלבם הקדוש ויותר טוב בספר שלנו שאנחנו קוראים בשמונה פרקים - אהבה אומרת רב סעדיה גאון אמר שטויות. הוא אמר שיש מצוות, אין מצוות. זה מה שהרמ"א הקדוש אמר.
מרצה: אז מה אתה עושה? אני אומר לך עכשיו מה הם. המילה שכלי היא באותו אופן.
תלמיד: לא, הם משתמשים באותו אופן, והדבר העגול ש-
מרצה: עכשיו אני אומר לך להאמין לי כי אין לי סבלנות להראות לך את כל ההוכחות, אבל יש דברים שאומרים לא, בדיוק.
תלמיד: אז זה הכיוון השני, אבל זה לא למה הרב היה כועס על רב סעדיה על שאמר שכלי.
מרצה: הרב היה כועס על רב סעדיה על שאמר, אז הוא לא היה כועס עליו על שאמר שמיעה. זה לא היה ההפך. הרב היה כועס על רב סעדיה על שאמר שכלי כי הוא חושב שרב סעדיה לא מבין מה שכל אומר. הוא חושב שכל דבר שנשמע הגיוני הוא שכל. להישמע הגיוני זה לא שכל. זה לא הגיוני - זה, במילים אחרות, השאלה שהציוויים עונים עליה, לפחות החלק השני שלהם, היא לא השאלה מה האמת.
אין שום אמת בשום מקום שאומרת שאתה לא צריך לרצוח אף אחד, או לפחות לא במובן פשוט. במובן מורכב כלשהו, כן, כי לכן אנחנו אומרים שאלוקים אמר את זה. אבל במובן פשוט, אין.
מרצה: אבל אם אני - אני אגיד לך איך זה פשוט. זה פשוט במובן, בדיוק - זה פשוט במובן של התשובה לשאלה שלרוב האנשים צריכה להיות, שהיא: מה יהיה כלל טוב לשים על ארון הקודש שלנו בבית הכנסת שלנו? מה יהיה כלל טוב לארגן את החברה שלי? זו השאלה.
ועכשיו, לסוג כזה של שאלה, אני יכול לספר לך שזה כלל טוב כי מלאך בא ואמר לי את זה. זו תהיה דרך אחת לעשות כללים טובים. אני יכול לספר לך שזה כלל טוב כי אם אני אסביר לך באריכות ששוק חופשי הוא דבר טוב - כי כשמילטון פרידמן אמר, כשהוא כתב ספר, ואז מישהו אחר כתב ספר אחר, אבל מסתבר שהוא צדק כי הוא עשה ניסוי ארוך והוא הראה לך את כל זה - בסדר, אולי אשתכנע. אבל זה לא מסביר את עצמו. זה לא מובן מאליו.
מרצה: דברים מובנים מאליהם: אם מישהו בא ואומר, "יש לך שאלה, כמו איך אתה צריך לחיות את החיים שלך? איך אתה צריך להתייחס לבני אדם אחרים? תן לי לספר לך: אל תרצח." כולם אומרים, "זה כלל טוב."
"לא חשבתי על זה קודם. בהתחלה חשבתי אולי אנחנו צריכים ללכת ולרצוח ומי שהוא הרוצח הכי גדול צריך לנצח. אני לא יודע. לא הבנתי. אבל ברגע שאמרת לי את הכלל, זה מאוד מובן."
זה מובן במובן שזה מסביר את עצמו. זה לא צריך יותר הסבר. זו הצעה ממש טובה. היו הרבה אנשים שאמרו שזו לא הצעה טובה. אבל אנשים נורמליים חושבים שזו הצעה טובה.
תלמיד: מה תהליך החשיבה לפני זה? לפני שמישהו אומר לך את זה? אני לא מבין.
מרצה: כולכם אנשים טובים מדי. אני לא צריך להגיע למסקנה עכשיו. כולנו אנשים נחמדים מדי שחושבים שרצח זה רע. האם זה בגלל שזה כלל אצבע יותר טוב מהאחרים? כי האחרים גם אולי נכונים. כי הם לא באמת שונים קטגורית. בואו נעשה כלל כמו איך אתה קובע איך לעשות חותכי ברזל.
מרצה: עכשיו, אתה מיד חושב שזה כלל טוב. למה? למה זה כלל טוב? אני חושב שזה כלל נורא. תסביר.
תלמיד: להסביר? לא, לא, לא, אני לא יכול להסביר. אם אתה הולך להתחיל להסביר אז אנחנו לא מדברים על זה.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: אני חושב שהחברה תהיה מדהימה אם תנכש את הרעים.
מרצה: מי מדבר על אנשים רעים? רצח אומר אנשים טובים.
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, רצח לא אומר... זו רק בעיית תרגום. זה אומר אל תהרוג אף אחד שלא מגיע לו למות.
מרצה: מה זה אומר "מגיע"? אה, שאלה טובה. נגלה בשבוע הבא, פרשת משפטים. אתה לא אומר כלום כאן. אני אומר משהו מאוד פשוט. רצח בהגדרה אומר רצח לא מוצדק. אני יודע. אז כשאתה אומר שאתה יכול להצדיק הרבה רציחות, אתה לא מדבר איתי. אתה מדבר עם מישהו אחר. פרשת משפטים מדברת על זה.
תלמיד: אני לא מתכוון לרצח מוצדק כשאתה אומר רע. כשאני אומר רע, אני מתכוון כמו עז ואריה. לזה אני מתכוון רע. במילים אחרות, אני צריך לאכול. הרציחות האלה לא מוצדקות.
מרצה: אלה לא מוצדקות בשביל האריה?
תלמיד: זה מאוד מוצדק.
מרצה: למה לא?
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון? הוא צריך לשרוד. ככה אתה שורד.
מרצה: מאוד טוב.
תלמיד: בשביל החיים, זה טוב בשבילך.
מרצה: זה לא טוב בשבילך. זה לא טוב. אני רק אומר לך שאתה רואה שזה לא טוב. לא חשבת - חשבת שזה יהיה רעיון טוב.
תלמיד: אני חושב שזה רעיון מדהים. אין בעיה. אני לא הולך לשחק איתך קלפים.
מרצה: אני לא מבין למה אתה - מה אתה מבהיר? אני באמת לא משחק משחק. כלומר, אני מנסה לספר לך שהייתה הבנה כזו שתרצח היה טוב. לא הייתה הבנה. אתה ממשיך לחשוב שיש הבנות. לכולנו יש את הדרך המוזרה והמצחיקה הזו לחשוב שאנשים שלא מבינים, מבינים דברים. זו טעות גדולה.
אלוקים, אני יכול לדבר איתך על זה 500 שנה. תקשיבו לי. תקשיבו לי. אם אני אקבל אתכם - תן לי אף פעם לא להקשיב לי - אבל תקשיבו לי. אתם ממשיכים לחשוב שהתגלות היא משהו שבא להתנגד למשהו שמישהו חשב אחרת. אף אחד לא חושב דברים אחרת.
תלמיד: אתה אמרת את זה.
מרצה: אני לא אמרתי את זה. אתה אמרת את זה. אתה אמרת שהבחור ירד -
תלמיד: נניח שזה גם -
מרצה: לא, זה היה מאוד ברור להם.
תלמיד: בדיוק. זה לא היה ברור להם קודם.
מרצה: בדיוק. משהו לא היה ברור. לא להיות ברור לא אומר שחשבת שטויוטה נחמדה של רצח תהיה טובה. זה אומר שאני לא יודע - אף אחד לא שקל את זה. אתה אפילו לא יכול לדמיין את זה כי אתה כל כך עם הקב"ה, כל כך יהודי, כל כך הרבה. ואתה, אגב, רק כדי להיות מאוד ברור, אתה כל כך - אתה כל כך משוכנע מההתגלות הזו. יש כל כך הרבה דברים שאתה כל כך משוכנע מההתגלות הזו שכל פעם שאני אומר לך שמישהו חשב משהו אחרת, אתה מתחיל לדמיין את השטיקלאך תורה המפוארים והמוזרים האלה.
אבל אני לא אומר לך את זה. אני אומר לך בדרך, כמו, תדמיין שמישהו בא - אני אפילו לא יכול לספר לך את זה כי זה מאוד קשה לדמיין עולם אחר.
מרצה: אני יכול לספר, כמו, משהו כמו, תדמיין שמישהו, כמו, אני אתן לך דוגמה. תחשוב על המצאה טכנית. אבל כשאתה אומר שהרגת את האשמר של רצח, זו הבעיה.
תלמיד: לא, אני אספר לך, אני אתן לך דוגמה, בסדר? אני אתן לך, בדיוק. עשינו, במובן מסוים, כן.
מרצה: במובן מסוים, כן. אני אתן לך, טוב, לא לגמרי, אבל במובן של, במובן המוסרי. אני אתן לך דוגמה. אתה יודע שמישהו המציא את הגלגל? מה הם חשבו קודם? האם הם חשבו ש...
תלמיד: אני יכול לספר לך מה הם חושבים, אגב, אבל זה יהיה הסבר, אבל חשבתי על זה, אגב. ניסיתי להבין את זה. ואתה צריך להבין שההסבר הזה הוא לא הסבר שהוא לא הפריך, ואתה לא יכול להפריך אותו.
מרצה: הוא המציא גלגל, ועכשיו שום אדם נורמלי לא משתמש במשהו חוץ מארבעה גלגלים, נכון? מה אנשים חשבו? אתם יודעים שגלגלים זה דבר מוזר. כאילו, מה זה גלגל? שמעתם פעם את הקונספט הזה, כמו המצאת הגלגל? מה זה אומר להמציא גלגל? מה גלגל עושה?
תלמיד: ובכן, מתגלגל.
מרצה: בסדר. עכשיו בואו נחשוב. תגיד לי שכל הישר. אני צריך לסחוב כיסא על הקרקע. תסחוב לי את הכיסא, בסדר? ואם אני עושה משהו שמסתובב, אתה יכול להסביר לי איך גלגל עובד?
תלמיד: סוף סוף השארת משהו על מחזור, נכון? תן לי את הסוודר.
מרצה: למה גלגל מקל עליי את החיים במקום להרים כיסא?
תלמיד: זה עוזר לי לגרור אותו.
מרצה: אה, אתה צריך להרים אותו. אתה יכול לגרור את הכיסא, אבל חדש, והגלגל, אתה עדיין גורר אותו, אגב. קשה לגרור אותו על הקרקע שוב. ולמה גלגל יקל על הגרירה?
תלמיד: למעלה עם הסוס, והסוס—
מרצה: הסוס זה לא המצאת הגלגל. אני מדבר על גלגל. מריצה, בסדר? תסביר לי איך—למה הייתי—למה מישהו היה חושב ש—
תלמיד: אני אסביר לך. כשאתה מתגלגל, כמו מריצה, נכון?
מרצה: כנראה. אל תדמיין מריצה ותגיד לי איך זה עובד. תגיד לי מה—מעולם לא שמעתי על גלגל. תסביר לי למה אני צריך להפסיק לשים גלגלים על הדברים שלי. אני מבין מאוד טוב שקשה לסחוב דברים. אתה לוקח סוס ואתה סוחב אותו. תסביר לי מה קשה עם האדמה?
תלמיד: הרבה יותר קשה עם עגול.
מרצה: אתה חושב שזה הרבה יותר קל? זה לא כאילו אתה נראה כמו סדין דקיק שאתה לא יכול להיכנס לסדין, נכון? אני בסדין. אני יודע שאני גם משתמש בגלגלים ואני מאמין לך במובן הזה, אבל אתה לא יכול—זה מאוד קל. זה לא—אין פה קורקינט, אגב. יש כאן דיבור מחוץ למקור כדי להבין את זה.
תלמיד: מה אתה צריך ללמוד? קצת פיזיקה ומכניקה וכאלה?
מרצה: כן, אני מתכנן משהו פשוט. כשאתה עושה—אתה יודע שכשאתה סוחב את הגלגל שלך, אתה גם עושה את אותה סחיבה כמו קודם. תחשוב על זה. איך זה פחות סחיבה?
תלמיד: אני לא סוחב פחות?
מרצה: לא. אתה צריך לשאת דברים בלי גלגלים. אתה צריך לסחוב אותם על הקרקע, בסדר? אז תסחוב את זה עכשיו. כן, תשים גלגל. אז תגיד לי איך הם מסתובבים כשאני סוחב את זה. למי אכפת אם זה מסתובב? תנסה את זה. איך זה עוזר?
תלמיד: בסדר, טוב. יש לך את הקשר שלי. אני לא יכול להילכד, אבל זה מאוד נכון—
מרצה: כאילו, אתה בעצם מנסה להגיד לי שאתה צריך לחזור אחורה. אתה צריך לחזור אחורה. אני מנסה להגיד לך משהו.
תלמיד: אני יודע. אני מנסה להגיד לך את הדברים האלה.
מרצה: לא, זה לא, אגב. גם היום, זו שאלה מאוד רצינית, כנה. לא רצינית, אבל זו שאלה טובה. אתה צריך ללכת לשאול את מורה הפיזיקה שלך למה אנחנו—איך גלגלים עובדים. כי זה לא מובן מאליו. אתה לא יודע את התשובה. איך גלגלים עובדים? אולי אתה כן כי במקרה—למדתי את זה, אבל זה לא פשוט. אתה צריך הרבה עבודה כדי להבין איך גלגלים עובדים. איך גלגלים עובדים?
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה מה שהתכוונתי. פשוט תשיג את הגלגל.
מרצה: אל תחשוב על—רגע. אז מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך זה עכשיו משהו אחר. עכשיו כשבחור עשה גלגל אחרי הרבה—אני לא—אתה לא צריך להסביר איך זה עובד. אבל כשבחור המציא גלגל, נכון, זה היה ברור שגלגל זה יותר טוב מבלי גלגל, בסדר?
עכשיו מה הם חשבו לפני זה? ובכן, אני יכול להגיד לך—אם אתה רוצה, אני יכול לתת לך את זה כמו רוח מוזרה. למה הגלגל הזה? זה סתם—יש—בואו—אני יכול אפילו לתת לך כמו הסבר פיזי. אתה יודע, יש—יש—איך קוראים לזה? יש מתח—תשומת לב—איך קוראים לזה? חיכוך. לגלגל יש בדיוק אותו חיכוך, אז לכן זה צריך להיות אותו דבר. אתה נוגע באדמה כל הזמן. הגלגל לא גורם לך להרים. אתה אף פעם לא יורד מהקרקע. אם היית עף, אני יכול להבין שזה יותר קל כי אוויר נראה יותר קל לנוע דרכו מאשר אדמה. אבל כל עוד אתה סוחב על הקרקע, למי אכפת אם זה מסתובב או לא? אני לא רואה את ההבדל.
זה מה שהם חשבו לפני, עד שהבחור המציא גלגל והוא ראה שיש איזה הבדל, גם אם הוא לא ידע להסביר תיאורטית. אולי הם כן. יש איזה הבדל כשזה מסתובב. איכשהו אין—אין כל כך הרבה הגבלה. יש איזה הבדל. עכשיו זה מה שהם חשבו. אבל זה לא נכון, כי אז מישהו יכול להתווכח איתך. נגיד שזה היה דבר תיאורטי. מישהו יכול להתווכח איתך, אתה יודע, הגלגל מוסיף בעיות. עכשיו יש לך—
אבל בכל מקרה, זה כן מוסיף כמה בעיות. אתה צריך ציר, אתה צריך להבין איך לגרום לו להסתובב בחופשיות, וכן הלאה.
מרצה: עכשיו, מה שקרה היה, אף אחד לא חשב על גלגל. ואגב, גם אתה לעולם לא היית חושב על זה. אתה פשוט קיבלת את זה, תודה רבה. מעולם לא חשבת איך לעשות גלגלים. אולי יש משהו פשוט כמו זה שיאפשר לך לעוף בלי מנוע, בלי מטוס, שפשוט לא חשבת עליו. ניסית ללכת על מטוס—לא, פשוט תלך שני צעדים קדימה, אז אחד ככה, ואתה עף. אני לא יודע. איך זה עובד? הפיזיקה, הצד הזה, הם הבינו איך זה עובד. פשוט מעולם לא חשבת על זה כי זה נשמע מטורף. כאילו, למה היית חושב על זה, נכון?
עכשיו יש גם המצאות מוסריות או המצאות חברתיות שהן אותו דבר. זה לא שהם חשבו שרצח זה טוב, כמו שאיזה אנטי-מוסרן מוזר יכול לבוא עם תיאוריה—שאתה יכול לבוא עם תיאוריות כאלה. אבל אחרי שמישהו גילה את זה, אז אתה יכול להגיד, אתה יודע מה, קראתי שכמה אנשי ממשלה החליטו שגלגלים מרובעים אולי יעבדו יותר טוב מגלגלים עגולים למטרות מסוימות, או גלגלים משולשים. אני לא יודע. כי תחשוב על זה—משולשים צריכים להיות אפילו יותר טובים, נכון?
תלמיד: אם הכי פחות.
מרצה: כן, נכון? זה אותו דבר מסיבות שונות. אבל מה אתה מתכוון למה? אתה צריך למזער את המגע עם האדמה. אז אם זה משולש, אתה יכול לגעת רק בנקודה.
תלמיד: אה, אז גלגל עובד בצורה יותר מסובכת ממה שהעמדתי פנים קודם.
מרצה: בסדר. בכל מקרה, מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך זה, משולשים יותר טובים מגלגלים. בכל מקרה, מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך זה, תחשוב על זה.
תלמיד: אני חושב שאתה מסביר—אני חושב שהסברת שהקללה של להיות יהודי היא שאתה לעולם לא יכול לא להיות יהודי כי אתה תמיד עושה את הדברים שהם עושים. הם פשוט אף פעם לא שקלו את זה.
מרצה: אני רק מתאר לך איך הדברים האלה הם המצאות כל כך גדולות, כל כך גדולות שהן מראות את עצמן על ידי שהומצאו או נגלו. לא ברור שאתה יכול להגיע לזה על ידי שאתה מנמק את עצמך לתוך זה. אולי אתה יכול למצוא סיבות לזה אחר כך, אבל זה לא ברור.
לכן אני אומר שאני לא חושב שזה נכון אפילו להגיד שדברים כאלה הם סבירים במובן שכולם חושבים—כולם חושבים אותם אחרי שהם הומצאו ונאמרו לך. וזה כמו, ברור שאנחנו צריכים לעשות את זה. מה חשבנו עד עכשיו? התשובה היא שלא חשבנו, או שלא חשבנו על השאלה הזו בכלל. אפילו רק להפוך את זה לשאלה זה כבר התגלות גדולה, כמו שאתה רואה כמה קשה לי להפוך כמה דברים פשוטים לשאלות.
וזה מה שזה אומר שאמרנו עכשיו שזה דבר טוב. מבין? לכן עשינו—התורה מדברת על הקב"ה שמתגלה על הר סיני ואומר לנו את עשרת הדברים הפשוטים האלה. היא לא אומרת לנו דברים מסובכים. כאילו אם נגיד שהקב"ה אמר לנו שהשם שם אותנו מגלית לגלית [הטקסט נקטע באמצע משפט]
מרצה: התשובה היא שלא חשבנו, או שלא חשבנו על השאלה הזו בכלל. אפילו רק להפוך את זה לשאלה זה כבר התגלות גדולה. כמו שאתה רואה כמה קשה לי להפוך כמה דברים פשוטים לשאלות. וזה מה שזה אומר שאמרנו, עכשיו, זה דבר טוב, מבין?
לכן התורה מדברת על הקב"ה שמתגלה על הר סיני ואומר לנו את עשרת הדברים הפשוטים האלה. היא לא אומרת לנו דברים מסובכים. אם נגיד שהקב"ה אמר לנו שאשם פטור מגנב או משהו, אנחנו כמו, בסדר, סביר, אבל לא מובן מאליו. זה לא משהו שאני אומר לך ואתה כמו, "וואו, זו הדרך היחידה שאני יכול לחיות מעכשיו." לא, זו לא הדרך היחידה שאתה יכול לחיות מעכשיו. עדיין יכול להיות לי חיים שבהם השם הוא זה שהוא, ואני יכול אפילו לתת לך תיאוריה למה לא.
אז אני ממשיך לגעת בדבר הזה. אבל גלגל, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: זה מעולם לא היה, לא היה מושג, נכון? אבל רצח, בטוח היה מושג כי זה קרה, נכון?
תלמיד: המושג של רצח זה לא המושג של אני חותך את הראש של אחי.
מרצה: עכשיו אני אבוד.
תלמיד: מצוין.
מרצה: זו הייתה הנקודה.
תלמיד: כן, כי זה יכול להיות סתם מסיבה מוצדקת.
מרצה: לא! אה, אתה כבר עונה על שאלת ההצדקה. חיתוך ראש של אח יכול היה להיות עם הצדקה נוספת.
תלמיד: לא, זה לא רצח.
מרצה: בדיוק. לפני ששמעת על הרעיון של רצח, זה לא רצח כי אני חושב שהוא מגיע לו. זה לא רצח כי, אני לא יודע, הבחור היה עם אשתי, חתכתי לו את הראש. מה זה קשור לרצח? מי נתן לי את המושג הזה?
תלמיד: כן, אתה אפילו לא יודע על מה אני מדבר.
מרצה: בסדר, הבנתי. לא שמעת, אף אחד לא שמע על תרצח. לא תרצח מניח שיש תרצח. אבל לפני הלא תרצח, תרצח באמת רק אומר משהו שזה לא, זה מה שאני מנסה להגיד. אין תרצח שזה כן.
אגב, אפילו הצדקה—לכן אמרתי לך את הנקודה הזו, ואז תמציא את זה. ממש, אני חושב שהתרגום מתרגם, נגיד שזה משהו כמו, אל תהרוג מישהו ש—אני לא זוכר. מישהו ממש מתרגם את זה ככה.
אז מה האנשים לפני? ההריגה היא? מה זה הריגה? מה הריגה אומרת? הריגה ורצח זה לא אותו דבר.
תלמיד: אז הם לא אותו דבר.
מרצה: לא, הריגה זה סתם אני נפטר מבעיה. האם להזיז כיסא זו בעיה? האם זה סוג של דבר שאני צריך להצדיק? אני לא יודע. הכיסא היה שם ואני רציתי להיות כאן. הבחור היה בדרך שלי. דחפתי אותו מהדרך שלי.
תלמיד: כן, זה מאוד טוב.
מרצה: אני לא רוצה שתחשוב אחרת. בבקשה. זה מאוד טוב. אני רק מנסה להגיד לך שזו הסיבה שזה נקרא התגלות. כי זה משהו שנאמר. זה פשוט. זה מראה את עצמו כאמיתי. אמיתי במובן של דרך טובה לחיות, לא במובן של להיות אמת מוחלטת. וזה הכל.
מגלים לך רצח. רצח, זה התרצח. לא תרצח מגלה לך רצח. רצח זה דבר רע שלא עושים. ועכשיו, זה הכל. אותו דבר עם גניבה ותחמוד. נדבר על תחמוד. אוי אלוהים, אולי לא נדבר. בכל מקרה, זה כל הנקודה.
הדבר היחיד שהוא לא ככה זה שבת, ולכן נתן לך את הסיבה. אולי אפילו במובן מסוים אתה יכול להגיד משהו כמו מנוחה זה לא הסבר מסוים, מנוחה ביום מסוים זה הסבר. זה באמת מה שההסבר נותן לך, נכון?
אתה שם לב שההסבר של שבת לא אומר לך למה לנוח. הוא רק אומר לך למה לנוח ביום השביעי. כי למה לנוח זה ברור. אני אתן לך יום חופש אם לא תשאל אותי שאלות. זה רק לגבי אם אני אומר לך, ובכן, צריך להיות לך יום חופש בדיוק כל יום שביעי. בסדר, ובכן, למה לא כל יום שישי? אני אגיד לך למה.
אז בכל מקרה, אני לא הולך להיכנס למה שרציתי להגיע. אני לא הולך להמשיך שעתיים עכשיו. במקום 28, לפי מכונת מדידת הזמן המוזרה שלי, אתה יודע איך זה עובד. מה זה אומר?
אז עכשיו אני רוצה להגיד לך משהו כאן. עכשיו זה משהו—עכשיו הם מבינים, האם זה נכון? אז בכל מקרה, כל אלה הם התגלותיים. ואני חושב ש, אגב, שאלת אותי קודם, איפה דברים מתחילים, איפה חינוך מתחיל. כמה דברים, לפחות יש תיאוריה שאומרת שאנחנו צריכים את הסוגים האלה של סיפורי התגלות, ואנחנו צריכים התגלות בסיפורי ההתגלות, כי באמת אין דרך להגיע לשם אחרת.
תלמיד: אמרת את זה. לכולם יש מחוקק.
מרצה: כן. אז עכשיו אנחנו קוראים את עשרת הדברים האלה. כמו שאמרתי, אנכי ולא יהיה—דברים תיאולוגיים שהגיוניים בהינתן שאולי לא מובן מאליו אלא אם כן אתה רואה את זה, אבל זה ניתן ככה. אף אחד לא חולק על כיבוד אב ואם, חוץ ממהפכת שנות ה-60, שהיא—שגם אתה היית שוקל אותה רק בגלל שהיה לך הראשון.
תלמיד: זו מרידה.
מרצה: בדיוק. זו היפוך. זה לא חוסר של זה.
תלמיד: אני מסכים. זו היפוך.
מרצה: הגרוע ביותר, המצב הגרוע עוד יותר הוא שאתה אפילו לא צריך את זה. זה איפה שאנחנו עכשיו. אבל סתם באופן טבעי, אנחנו חוזרים לזה, כי ככה באמת העולם עובד.
בסדר, שבת, פשוט. לא תרצח, לא תנאף, לא תגנוב, לא תענה, לא תחמוד—כל הדברים האלה, הם גם מאוד ברורים. ועל ידי שהם מאוד ברורים, הם גם מאוד בסיסיים.
עכשיו אנחנו יכולים לדבר על הקונספט של להיות בסיסיים, נכון? הם מאוד בסיסיים על ידי שהם מאוד ברורים, נכון? אנחנו בונים הכל. כל השאלות, במובן מסוים כל השאלות שיש לנו, כל הדברים היותר מסובכים שהם לא התגלות כל כך ישירה, הם יותר מסובכים כי יש דרכים לשים ביחד את הדברים האלה, נכון?
סוג של אין שום הלכה בכל התורה, לפחות בכל משפטים, שהיא לא פרט באחד מהדברים האלה. אני חושב שזה נכון, נכון? חלק מאלה, כשאתה קורא את אלה, אנשים עושים את זה, חלק מהם מאולצים. אבל הם מאולצים רק במובן של לנסות להגיד, אה, זה כולל את כל המצוות.
אבל אם אני שואל אותך משהו כמו, למה בכלל יש שאלה של—תגיד לי שאלה. תגיד לי שאלה מהפרשה.
תלמיד: השבת אבידה.
מרצה: למה יש שאלה כזו? למה מישהו היה—מה הזמן הבסיסי?
תלמיד: כי אתה לא יכול לגנוב.
מרצה: או שניהם, זה מבוסס על לא תגנוב. או שחלק יטענו, זה יהיה גניבת דעת, אני לא יודע אם אמא צריכה לקחת את זה, מה שזה לא יהיה.
תלמיד: בושה לנצח.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: בושה לנצח.
מרצה: זה סוג של דבר, גניבת דעת גם.
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: זה נזיקין. שברת את הדבר שלי. לקחת ממני משהו באיזושהי דרך. אנחנו מקבלים...
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אבל זה הדבר הבסיסי. זה הדבר שפשוט אומר משהו שהוא שלי, אל תיקח את זה. עכשיו, איך זה? מה זה שלך? כולנו יכולים לענות על השאלה מה הדבר הזה. אה, ובכן, עד כמה זו הבעיה שלך? כל השאלות האלה הן רק—התחושה הבסיסית שלהן היא רק לא תגנוב. אין שום דבר אחר בסיסי בהן. יש הרבה פרטים, הרבה מהעולם מאוד מסובך.
תלמיד: אז לא תגנוב גם מציג בעלות, או שזה קודם?
מרצה: כן, אני חושב שכן. אני לא יודע לגבי להציג היסטורית, אבל אתה יכול לדמיין—בדיוק כמו שאמרתי לך את כל היחס הזה—אתה יכול לדמיין עולם שבו לא תגנוב לא הגיוני.
תלמיד: יוסף בן מתתיהו נראה מאשים את קין בזה, בקיום בעלות, גבולות.
מרצה: כן, במובן מסוים. אבל בואו רק ננסה לבסס את הדברים האלה. אלה יותר מסובכים, אמרתי את זה. אבל זה דבר ברור. זה כמעט טאוטולוגיה. מה שלא שלך לא שייך לך. זה מה שלא תגנוב אומר, נכון? וכל השאלות השונות מבוססות על זה. ואנחנו יכולים להבין לכן למה מישהו ישים בספר שמות וישים את זה שם, נכון?
עכשיו הגענו לאחרון, וכתוב לא תחמוד. יש לי שתי שאלות. ראשית, זה לא אומר - זה ממשיך והולך. זה חוזר על עצמו. למה שלא יאמר? זה פשוט ככה, נכון? לא פשוט. בלוחות, תמיד עושים את זה כאילו זה פשוט. אבל זה לא, נכון? יש רשימה ארוכה יותר, וזה אפילו אומר פעמיים. יש שניים מהם. אז משהו מוזר. זו מוזרות אחת.
המוזרות השנייה היא שאני אפילו לא יודע מה זה אומר. ובגלל שאני אפילו לא יודע מה זה אומר, אני בטוח לא יודע למה זה פשוט. נראה לי שיכולתי לעשות תשע דברות וכולם היו שמחים. אם הייתי מפספס לא תחמוד, או לא תגנוב, או אפילו שבת או לא תשא - אנשים היו אומרים, זה מוזר, חסר משהו בסיסי. בתקווה. אולי אחר כך זה בעצם לפני עכשיו, אבל אפשר להבין.
אבל גם אחר כך, אם אני מוציא לא תחמוד, יש לי גרסה - מצאתי בכתב יד חדש, אין בו לא תחמוד. כן, זה נשמע הרבה יותר חזק מזה. לך על הספר עם זה. אז בסדר, אנחנו שמחים, אתה יודע. האם זה יכול להיות סיכום של הכל?
תלמיד: זה יכול להיות.
מרצה: אני חושב שכן. לא סיכום. משהו שקשור לכל זה.
אז ה - אנחנו צריכים לגלות את זה. זו שאלת אבן עזרא. לא המצאתי אף אחת מהשאלות האלה. כולן שאלות בסיסיות. אז אנחנו צריכים להבין. אני הולך לתת לכם את התשובה שאבן עזרא נתן, לחלק מהתשובה שלו.
מרצה: זה פותר יותר בעיות ממה שזה יכול. אבל אנחנו לא יודעים מה לא תחמוד, אז בסדר, אנחנו שמחים, אתה יודע. האם לא תחמוד יכול להיות כמו סיכום של הכל? זה יכול להיות. אני חושב שכן. לא סיכום. משהו שקשור לכל זה.
אז, הגענו לזה וגילינו. זו שאלת אבן עזרא. לא המצאתי אף אחת מהשאלות האלה. כולן שאלות בסיסיות. אז, אנחנו צריכים להבין. אני הולך לתת לכם את התשובה שאבן עזרא נתן לחלק מהתשובות שלו.
זה חייב להיות שאנחנו לומדים שמונה פרקים. זוכרים איפה התחלתי? התחלנו על איך שיש פעולות חיצוניות כמו לא תגנוב, לא תרצח, לא תנאף, לא תענה - אף פעם לא אומר לא תענה - שהן דברים שאתה עושה שהם רעים, שאתה עושה לאנשים אחרים ספציפית שהם רעים.
זוכרים שאמרנו שזה לא מספיק לא לגנוב - אתה צריך להיות נישט גנב. דבר מעניין. מעולם לא שמעתם על זה, נכון? בעלי המוסר לא באמת מדברים על זה, נכון? כי הם קצת יותר מדי תפוסים בפנימיות שלא מתייחסת לשום דבר.
אבל הם כן אומרים דברים כמו שלא צריך להיות לך קנאה. אל תהיה מקנא. שזה רק דרך לומר אל תהיה גנב פנימי, נכון? או שהם אומרים דברים כמו, כן, כמובן, אל תעשה ניאוף עם אשת איש. אבל גם לא צריך לדמיין לעשות את זה. אל תהיה נואף פנימי, נכון? כמו שחברנו הגדול ישו אמר, כבר שכבת איתה בלבך. זוכרים? אז, זוכרים שהוא אמר את זה?
תלמיד: לא.
מרצה: אז, יש סיפור, אני לא יודע, כתוב את זה, ועכשיו, אנחנו אומרים את זה. זוכרים שאנחנו אומרים את זה, אנחנו אומרים שזה יסודי, במובן מסוים. זה יסודי, כמישהו שעושה, שכמו, אני חושב שרובנו לא הולכים להיות גנבים ורוצחים ומנאפים, שזה חלק מ, הייתי כל כך שמח עם זה, כי זה הדבר שרובנו עושים.
אז זה מה שעשרת הדברות אומרות לנו במעמד הר סיני. זה כמו צ'ק, צ'ק, צ'ק, עשרת הדברות. תגיד את זה בימי הגמרא, נכון? אשרי מי שלא חמד. זה לא הגיוני במיוחד. מה זה אומר? אף אחד לא עושה את זה. אבל כמובן, במובן מסוים, כולנו עושים את זה. אולי אני מגזים.
אבל מה אני אומר? אנחנו אומרים שיש משהו בסיסי בלהיות אדם טוב שזה לא מספיק ולא היינו סומכים - אמרתי לכם את זה כאן ואמרתי בדרוש בבורו פארק - אף אחד מכם לא היה סומך על מישהו שהוא כמו הבריסקער האידיאלי. אף אחד לא צריך להתקרב, נכון? כמו, "כן, אני חושב שאני צריך לרצוח אותך אבל יש לי התגברות נהדרת, אני בחור נהדר." לא, לא, לא.
כמו, באמת, כמו, באמת...
תלמיד: תוקפנות, כן, משהו כמו תוקפנות, והוא צריך לשים את התוקפנות שלו במשהו אחר.
מרצה: לא אומר שזה טוב ל... זה אדם יותר טוב. כמו, הגמרא אפילו לא מעמידה פנים שזה יותר טוב. זה רק מה שנכון לעשות. אבל אתה לא אדם יותר טוב אם... זה הדיון האקראי של פרק ו'. אבל בטוח, אתה בכלל לא אדם טוב. תשכח מזה.
אבל מישהו שלא... שחסרה לו המידה הפנימית, בואו נגיד, זה לא אדם רע. כולנו מסכימים על זה. אבל אני חושב שכולנו מסכימים עם זה. ולכן, נראה לי מאוד חשוב שהמשמעות של עשרת הדברות - אם יש משהו בסיסי שהם צריכים לכלול להיות אדם טוב - ואיפה זה שאתה עושה משהו כמו שזה משתמע וסתם ככה זה...
ובכן, זו פעולה שהיא מהם. עשרת הדברות, הרמב"ם אומר את כל ארבעת הדברים האלה שאמרתי לכם עד עכשיו. זה לא הפשט שלי. כתוב במדרש, כתוב ברמב"ם מביא את זה ופחות או יותר במפורש.
הפשט אומר, אני הולך לסיים עם הפשט הזה כי יש לי עוד הרבה מה לומר, אבל הפשט אומר ככה: כמובן, אלה דברים שלא צריך לעשות. אני רוצה לספר לכם משהו. גם לא צריך לרצות לעשות אותם.
אז כולם כמו, הממ, האם אני רוצה? התשובה היא לא, האם אתה רוצה? האם אתה רוצה לגנוב? אתה חושב שהבחור... אתה חושב שזה שלך. זה דיון אחר. אבל אתה לא רוצה לגנוב. לפחות יש לך את המידה הזו. אני חושב שאחרת שום דבר לא היה מתחיל. רוב האנשים היו הורגים אם לא הייתה להם המידה הזו.
אומר אל תרצה. עכשיו כולם מבינים. לכן יש כל כך הרבה מילים בזה. אתם יודעים למה יש כל כך הרבה מילים? אני אסביר לכם.
תלמיד: למה?
מרצה: יש שתי גרסאות. אני יכול להיכנס לפרטים. אבל בעצם כי לא תחמוד זה לא דבר חדש. זה לא דבר חדש. אין באמת עשר מצוות במובן מסוים. אפשר לספור את זה כעשר מצוות, אבל זה לא אובייקט. ללא תחמוד אין אובייקט חדש.
בניגוד לאדם שיגיד שלא תחמוד זה דבר חדש. זו מצווה שבלב שמתייחסת ללב שלך. לא, זו מצווה שבלב אבל כמו כל מצווה שבלב מתייחסת לפעולה. נכון?
לא תחמוד אומר לא תחמוד בית רעך פירושו אני אגיד לכם מה זה אומר. לפחות דבר אחד שזה אומר. זה אומר אל תרצה את הבית של חברך מספיק כדי ללכת לבית דין ואז להגיד שקנית אותו עם עדים שקרנים.
לא תחמוד בית רעך פירושו לא תגנוב. לא רק לא תגנוב כי לא תחמוד בא ממישהו... לא תחמוד לא אומר... זה מאוד ברור שזה לא אומר אל תהיה אדם שיש לו... כי זה לא קשור ללא תחמוד. זה סתם דבר חדש. אתה צריך להתהפך וללמוד ולא לדאוג לגבי מחשבות. אתה לא צריך לבזבז את השכל הגדול שלך ואת הדמיון הגדול שלך על לדמיין שטויות. אוקיי, זה דבר נחמד.
אבל לא תחמוד פירושו... פירושו אל תהיה מהסוג של בחור שרוצה ואוהב לשכב עם אשת שכנו, אשת חברו, אשת שכנו, נכון? כמובן, זו בעיה כי זה משהו שאנשים כן אוהבים לפעמים. זה לא כל כך קל להגיד שאתה לא, אבל אני מנסה להסביר לכם שזה...
מאוד חשוב. אם אני רואה את אשת חברי ואני סתם אומר, ובכן, זו אישה יפה, היה נחמד, זה לא... זה מאוד חשוב. זה גורם לדברים רעים. אבל זה לא מה שזה אומר. זו קנאה, נכון? זה אומר, לבחור הזה יש אישה כל כך יפה. מי נתן לו את הזכות שתהיה לו אישה יפה ולא לי? אני חושב שאני צריך לקבל את זה. זה מה שמישהו כמו דוד המלך עשה, נכון?
תלמיד: שונה.
מרצה: לא, לא. אני נותן לכם דוגמה אמיתית. יש לנו סיפורים כאלה. בדרך כלל אתה צריך להיות אדם חזק כדי שלאנשים בכלל יהיה הדמיון. לכן אחי אומר רק מלכים עוברים על לא תחמוד.
אז אם אתה מלך, אז יכול להיות לך לא תחמוד. כלומר, גם זה רק בא אליי כי אני לא המלך.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מרצה: ועכשיו לאדם אפילו אין את הסימן של לא תחמוד כי איך אתה הולך לעשות את זה?
אז, לא, לא, אני רק אומר שאשת רעך, זה כמו שרבנו יונה אומר כאן, לא תחמוד לא אומר שאתה צריך לרצות שיהיה לך אותו דבר שיש לבחור ההוא. נכון? בדיוק כמו שכולם מבינים. אני הולך ל, אני רואה בחור יש לו מכונית יפה, הייתי רוצה שתהיה לי המכונית הזו גם. זה לא לא תחמוד. זה אולי...
אנשים חושבים, מדברים על זה. אבל זה לא. אני רוצה את המכונית שלו. למה אני רוצה את המכונית שלו? יש מספיק בחנות. אוקיי, אולי אין מספיק. אנחנו יכולים לדבר על הפרקטיקות, איך זה יעבוד. אבל זה אומר אני רוצה את המכונית שלו. לכן מה אני הולך לעשות? אני הולך לקחת אותה ממנו. איך אני הולך לעשות את זה? לא תגנוב.
איזה אחד פספסנו? לא תרצח. מאוד ברור. הוא לא נותן לי את זה, הורידו לו את הראש.
מי היה העיקרי, מי היה הדוגמה הפרדיגמטית של לא תחמוד? אחאב, מצב הארץ, הרמב"ם הגבוה. אני חושב שהרמב"ם המציא את זה. לא מצאתי את זה. כלומר, יש מדרש. יש מדרש, אבל אני לא יודע אם המדרש הזה נכתב לפני או אחרי הרמב"ם. אבל, ספר המצוות אומר את זה. ספר המצוות אומר את זה. למה זה נכתב? כי כל אחד מהם, היה מישהו שעבר. וזה עובר דרך ההיסטוריה.
אז עכשיו, אני מוצא את זה. מי היה לא תחמוד? אחאב. זוכרים את אחאב? אחאב ראה שיש לו שכן, היה עושה פרדס מאוד טוב לשטיבל שלו. והוא הלך אליו ואמר, אולי תמכור לי את זה, אני אתן לך יותר טוב. מה הבחור אמר? לא למכירה. אני לא בעסק של מכירת כרמים. זה הכרם של אבי, אני לא נותן לך את זה.
ואחאב הלך הביתה והוא סיפר לאשתו, איזבל, ואמר, אתה יודע, חשבתי לעשות עסקה עם הבחור הזה, אבל הוא לא מעוניין. והיא כמו, אתה מלך? אתה לא יודע.
תלמיד: מי סיפר לי את הדבר הזה? היא הייתה מצור. היא לא, לא הייתה לה המסורת היהודית שמלך לא באמת יכול לעשות כלום. כמו, אתה יודע איך מלכים עובדים. מלכים מקבלים דברים, הם לא שואלים, נכון?
מרצה: יש את זה, זה אחד מאלה כמו התנצלות יהודית או מדרש. אז הוא בתוך זה שהעולם, אתה רואה שאפילו המלך היהודי הרע לעולם לא היה עושה את זה.
תלמיד: וקדימה, תגיד לו.
מרצה: לא, זה נכון, זה נכון. בימינו כל המלכים היהודים למדו איך לעשות את זה. אבל ביהדות המקורית יש מאוד מעט כוח. כלומר, איפשהו מאוד מעט כוח לכל אחד, לא יכול לעשות כלום לאף אחד.
אז אני חושב שזה מאוד מרשים אם אתה קורא, אבל זה כמו הדבר האחד כמו, אנשים חושבים שזו הבעיה עם עיקרון כל כך חזק. אבל באמת רק בגלל שאנחנו אנרכיסטים, כמו שבית הדין באמת אין לו שום כוח אלא אם הם באמת, באמת בטוחים שהם יכולים לקחת משהו. אחרת, כמו שלבחור יש את זה, כנראה הוא יודע למה. כנראה הוא צודק. נקרא כל דאלים גבר, נכון?
לא, זה עיקרון בסיסי בחוק היהודי שכמו אנחנו הכי גרועים... הדבר הכי נפוץ אגב, זה כמו אנשים חושבים מה הכי, מה הדבר הכי קשה לעשות? הדבר הכי קשה לקחת הוא לקחת כסף מיהודי אחר. זה הדבר הכי קשה. יש לו שטר אחד שיכול להיות פלוס. אני לא אוהב את זה שיש לו. מעולם לא למדת כלום. מה זה סתם אומר, אתה כל כך בטוח שהראב"ד טועה שאתה לוקח כסף מהכיס שלי?
מרצה: אחרת, לבחור יש את זה. כנראה הוא יודע למה. כנראה הוא צודק. זה נקרא "המוציא מחברו עליו הראיה". זה הרא"ש, נכון? לא, זה עיקרון בסיסי בחוק היהודי שזה הכי גרוע, הדבר הכי משפיל.
אגב, אנשים חושבים, מה הדבר הכי קשה לעשות? הדבר הכי קשה לקחת הוא לקחת כסף מ"אדיאט" [רכוש של מישהו]. בהלכה, זה הדבר הכי קשה. יש לו שטר אחד כמו ראיה. פלוס, אני לא אוהב שיש לי את זה. מעולם לא למדת כלום. מה זה סתם אומר, אתה כל כך בטוח ש"יש לי את זה" טועה שאתה לוקח כסף מהכיס שלי?
אה, הדחף החברתי שלך טועה, המזרן שלך, בטוח. כל יום אנחנו עושים את זה. אבל לקחת כסף מהכיס של מישהו. כתוב באחד מחז"ל, זה "שוט של הראש", שחצי אמרתי "אמצע". אתה יודע, זה מלא כמו, אם זה שווה כסף, אז מה אתה צריך בשביל כסף? כן, כי זו דרך להרוויח כסף. אתה לוקח את הכסף של הבחור. זה לא כסף. כסף הוא הדבר הכי חשוב. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף.
מרצה: בכל מקרה, איך אני חוזר לנקודה שלי? אז אשת אחאב אמרה לו, מה זאת אומרת אתה מלך? אתה יכול לקחת את זה. אז מה הם עשו? הם עשו את ההוצאה להורג החוקית היחידה בהיסטוריה של התנ"ך. אתם יודעים? שמעתי את זה מהרב שכטר. אנשים לעתים קרובות מדברים על חוקי ההוצאה להורג, כמו שיש יותר מדי דברים להוציא להורג בגללם. הוא אמר שבכל ההיסטוריה של התנ"ך, יש רק אדם אחד שבאמת הרג עם עדים והתראה והכל. משה הרג אנשים על שהיו מחללי שבת, אבל בדרך מוזרה, לא הייתה התראה, זה היה חוץ-שיפוטי. אבל היה רק אדם אחד שעשה עם כל ההלכות. עדי שקר היה מוצדק, הלכתי, זו הדוגמה הטובה ביותר שאנחנו מסוגלים לבדוק כאן, נכון?
תלמיד: איפשהו אחר, לא בתנ"ך, הם ניסו, שושנה.
מרצה: מה זה?
תלמיד: אה, אתה מתכוון שזה לא...
מרצה: הם ניסו למסגר גם.
תלמיד: אוקיי.
מרצה: בכל מקרה, הילד אמר שהוא עשה בית דין שלם, יש מגדף, ברוך אלוקים ומלך, הם הרגו אותו, הוא לקח את הדבר שלו. ואז אליהו הנביא בא אליו ואמר לו, "אתה רוצח" והכל. ואני כמו, "אני רוצח?" עדי שקר, זה רוצח מהעדה החרדית. מותר.
איזה עבירה הוא עבר? הוא עבר, הם אמרו רוצח. הוא עבר, הם אמרו. הוא עבר אחרי שהם אמרו. אבל הוא באמת עבר על הרצח. מה הרצח? הוא רצה לקנות את זה. הוא רצה את הדבר שלו. עכשיו הוא גם יכול להבין למה הוא רצה את הדבר שלו, כי זה נדל"ן - מיקום, מיקום, מיקום. אין כרם אחר לידו. זה לא ניתן להחלפה. הוא רוצה את זה. אבל זה שלו. אז הוא רוצה את שלו, והוא לא הולך להיעצר כי הוא המלך, אז הוא יכול לקחת את זה. זה נקרא לא תחמוד.
מרצה: אז "לא תחמוד" זה הרצון של כל חמשת הדיברות האלה - כל ארבעת הקודמים. וזה המקום שבו "מצווה שבלב" שהיא לא "מצווה שבלב" אלא "מצווה שבלב" "מתייחסת למעשה הרעה" - זה הדבר הבסיסי ביותר, המקור של כל העניין של להיות אדם טוב. אנחנו פשוט אומרים שצריך להיות לך מידות טובות.
תראו, הרבה אנשים מאוד מודאגים. זה עוד דבר. אני מדבר ספציפית על המידה של לא להיות גנב. אנחנו הולכים לומר שזה חמדה. חמדה אומרת שאתה לא צריך להיות אדם שרוצה את הדברים של אנשים אחרים.
מרצה: וכאן, לאבן עזרא יש שאלה. מה אם כן אני רוצה? בסדר. נדבר על ללכת לטיפול. זה מה שספר החינוך אומר, בעצם. לך לטיפול. תסתדר עם זה. לא הבעיה שלי. אבל זו הנקודה.
מרצה: ולכן זה מאוד חשוב. ואני כן חושב שהיו אנשים אחרים שבמפורש, אצל פילון, פירשו "לא תחמוד" בצורה הרבה יותר רדיקלית. הם אמרו "לא תחמוד" אומר לא להיות לך תיאבון, לא להיות לך תשוקות. וזה מתחבר עם כל השפה האפלטונית הזו של תשוקה כבעיה. ואנחנו צריכים ללכת אחרי השכל, לא אחרי התשוקה.
ואני חושב שזה שגוי, כי הוא קרא את התרגום הלא נכון של התנ"ך. בתנ"ך שלו, "לא תחמוד" מתורגם כ"אל תהיה לך תשוקה", "אפיתימיה" ביוונית. זה לא צריך להיות מתורגם ככה. אנחנו מתרגמים את זה כמשהו אחר. אז אנחנו מתרגמים מילה שמשמעותה לרצות את הדבר של מישהו אחר יותר מדי. יש מילה לזה. לאריסטו יש מידה לזה. שכחתי את המילה, אז אני לא יכול לומר לכם אותה. זה לא הווארט שלי. זה של אנשים אחרים. הארי וולפסון כבר שם לב לזה, אנשים אחרים.
אבל גם כשיש אנשים אחרים, נראה קצת שזה בצד השני. בהחלט יש את הגרסה, אני חושב, ש"לא תחמוד" אומר לא להיות לך תאוות.
תלמיד: זה היה צריך להיות יותר הקושיא, הקושיא שלי היא למה זה לא על החמוד הזה, זו שאלה אחרת, התשובה היא סגנונית, אני לא חושב שיש דבר כזה, כן כן, כמו שיש שני עדים, זה כמו אל תהיה לך יותר מדי תשוקה, זה היה פשט אחר לגמרי, זה היה פשט פנימי, פשט פנימי לחלוטין, כמו אל תהיה מהסוג של אדם שהולך אחרי התשוקות שלו יותר מדי כי אז...
מרצה: אה, הולך אחרי התשוקות שלו.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן. אה, לא להיות. ובכן, להיות, להיות זה נשמה. להיות. לא שליטה.
מרצה: לא שולט בתשוקות שלו.
תלמיד: שליטה במובן הפנימי גם.
מרצה: לפני שעושים את זה.
תלמיד: הכל פנימי.
מרצה: נכון, אבל אני אומר...
תלמיד: זה היה משהו, זה היה פשט אחר לגמרי.
מרצה: לא, והמוסר הרבה יותר הגיוני, מה שאתה אומר, כי זה מתמקד בחלק של "רעך". זו לא בעיה ברחוב. זה לא "רעך".
תלמיד: ובכן, לחלק מהם יש בעיות.
מרצה: לא, אז זו בעיה של "רעך".
תלמיד: או שאפשר לומר שהיא שייכת לעצמה.
מרצה: "אחות נשתחווים". כתוב במכילתא, והמכילתא אומרת, הווא אמינא "לא תחמוד" אומר עכשיו אין להם שידוכים. כי זה "לבבתיני". או "לבבת". יש להם דרך להסביר את הלימוד, למה מותר לבקש שידוך. כי זה לגיטימי. זה המסר של המכילתא. פנויה מותר להסתכל בה. מותר לחמוד.
מה זה מותר לחמוד? לחמוד לא אומר לאנוס. זה אומר שאתה הולך לבקש מאביה להתחתן איתה או משהו. לשאול אותה איך שזה עובד. זה מאה אחוז לגיטימי. אתה לא לוקח את זה ממנה. אם התוכנית שלך היא לאנוס אותה, אז אתה עובר על "לא תחמוד אשת רעך", שזה תלוי מה התוכנית. אבל תלוי איזה סוג של אדם אתה. אם הולכים להגיד לך לא, ואז אתה הולך לעשות משהו אחר, אז אתה עובר על "לא תחמוד".
אז יש, במובן מסוים יש מובן של תשוקה להיות "לא תחמוד". אנחנו מדברים על "לא תנאף" להיות שלב לפני, אחרי זה זה עוד שיח שלם. אבל בכל מקרה, אני חושב שזה מספיק לנו להבין ש"לא תחמוד" זה המדריך והתורה להיות שלהיות מהסוג של אדם שרוצה את הדבר הזה של מישהו אחר וזו מידה.
מרצה: אז אנחנו בכל העניין בואו נגיד מה זה מה זה אומר נשים אקראיות לא מוכרות תקשיבו תקשיבו אבל אני מתכוון אקראי מה זה אקראי אקראי אומר לא החברים שלך לא מישהי שנשואה אז אני רק אה זו מידה שנה מה ו...
תלמיד: ומה אתה מתכוון? איזו מהן זו?
מרצה: לא, זה. זה קדשה, לא?
תלמיד: אה, נכון. זה לא. זה הרב משה קידוש.
מרצה: זה לא מה שאמרתי. זה לא מה שאמרתי. הרב בקידוש, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: מה עם תמר? מה היה רע בזה?
תלמיד: זו הייתה מצווה.
מרצה: למה אני ממשיך לדבר על זה? אם מותר ללכת לזונה. אתה לא יודע? פילגש. מה זאת אומרת, זה צריך להיות למלך או הפילגש, או אני לא יודע? וזה בגלל שהראב"ד היה יותר יהודי מסורתי, הוא לא סבר שלמלך יש זכויות ספציפיות.
תלמיד: כן, אבל...
מרצה: מה זה קשור למשהו? זו לא החדשות.
תלמיד: לא, כי רב סעדיה אמר שזה הכל נכלל.
מרצה: רב סעדיה אמר אם זה נכלל, אם זה נכלל, אז זה נכלל. תשמע, רב סעדיה, תשמע.
תלמיד: לא, אני אומר אולי זה הכל נכלל, אולי רק ב"לא תחמוד".
מרצה: זה מה שאני מנסה להגיד. לא. רב סעדיה, אגב, אומר שכשרות היא חלק מ"לא תחמוד". זה היה חלק מהבעיה. זה נראה מבין את זה הפוך. לא בדרך שאני אומר את זה. נכון. כי זה לא ה...
תלמיד: זה בטוח אשת איש.
מרצה: תגיד זה תלוי איך אתה מבין את הספר. "לא תנאף" אתה לא חייב להבין את זה כבעיה של תאוות. אתה יכול לשלוח את זה כבעיה שהיא לא שייכת לך שבין עצמה אתה יכול להסביר תלוי איך אתה משחק את אלה מעין לראות אותם להסביר את זה בשתי הדרכים אתה לא חייב אתה לא חייב אני לא יודע כמה התחייבתי למחלוקת בין המכונה הזו השלמה היא תיאורטית של פקודה נכון לא לא זה א אבל זה אבל מה איזה חלק איזה אחד זה יהיה לא זה על ההקשבה וזה הכל שוב אבל הקשבתי אבל איך זה גם כמה מה ביחד למה זה אבל זה "לא תחמוד" זה תמיד הפנימי של כל הדברים האלה "לא תנאף" גם כמו שאני אומר שהפנימי של כל זה קרה זה לא דבר פנימי זה זה המעשה.
מרצה: אז "לא תחמוד" כ"לא תנאף" כזו שאלה אחרת אני חושב שזה לא מוסיף שום דבר אין ש הם לא אנחנו לא זה מאוד חשוב כי זה נראה מצדיק את זה אני צריך לעבור הרבה כי נראה שיש דברים שונים אבל קודם אני אומר להם מה שהגיוני אין דברים חדשים שהיו אבל עכשיו הם או הם ועכשיו הם בגלל מה שהוא למה כי אז אתה הולך לדמם זה הולך להוביל אותך לדבר הזה קנאה וניאוף וגם כי זה עצמו דבר רע כי אתה אדם רע על שרוצה את זה זה מה שאני אומר כדי באמת להצדיק את זה אני צריך להיכנס לכל העניין זה לא כל כך פשוט יכול להיות שאני טועה אבל זה זה מספיק לשיעור שלי.
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[סוף התמליל]
- בדיקה טכנית קצרה של תקינות המיקרופון
- התייחסות למחוון ויזואלי המציג רמות שמע
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- בשבוע שעבר סיימנו נושא כללי - ההבחנה בין פנימיות "מזויפת" לפנימיות "אמיתית"
*[סטייה צדדית - משל להמחשה]*
דפוס הבית הגויי:
- מבחוץ: יפה, מטופח, רהיטים נאים, אורות, דשא מטופח, "מראה חיצוני מושך"
- מבפנים: מבולגן, חשוך, הכל מונח על השיש
דפוס הבית היהודי:
- מבחוץ: מראה מוזנח - מכונית שבורה, דשא לא גזום, אופניים נטושים
- מבפנים: נקי לחלוטין, משטחים נקיים, שום דבר לא מונח בחוץ, הרבה אורות
הסבר: בגלות, יהודים לא אכפת להם מחיצוניות - החיצוני הוא "בשביל הגוי שיסתכל"
אנקדוטה תומכת: סיפור על יהודי עשיר עם שטריימל חדש שנתקף ביקורת מאדם עני. הפואנטה: "אתה יכול לראות את השטריימל שלך כשאתה לובש אותו? לא. אז זה בשבילי."
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- קל ליפול ל"לולאות מתחזקות עצמית" - לולאות פנימיות שלא מובילות לשום מקום
- להיות "פנימי מדי" יוצר בעיות
- הדיכוטומיה המסורתית: כוונה (בפנים) לעומת מעשה/דיבורים (בחוץ)
- ציטוט: "תפילין בלי כוונה זה כמו גוף בלי נשמה"
טיעון מפתח: מושג של כוונה/פנימיות ש"לא מכוון לשום דבר חוץ מעצמו"
- רקורסיבי עצמית - "כמו להסתכל במראה שבה רואים אלף מראות"
- הולך ומתכווץ, לא מוביל לשום מקום
- אנשים לומדים את הרמב"ם שדן בפנימי (מידות)
- הבנה נכונה: "לא מספיק לעשות מעשים נכונים, צריך גם להיות אדם טוב"
- פירוש שגוי: אנשים חושבים שזה אומר משהו ש"נגמר בפנימי" - ממוקד בעצמו
- "אני אדם טוב" ← "מה הכוונה?" ← "אני לא עוזר לאף אחד, אבל אני מרגיש מאוד את הכאב הזה, יש לי הרבה אמפתיה"
- או: "אני לא אתן לך דולר, אבל אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך"
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- פנימיות מזויפת זו אולי קשורה לגנוסטיציזם/תיאולוגיית האצלה
- "רקע אחר של הדת היהודית, לא הדת היהודית"
- הוכר כנושא מורכב הדורש דיון נוסף
- גם הוכר: יש דרך נכונה להתמקדות פנימית (יידון בהמשך)
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תזה מפתח: כשדנים במידות/תכונות פנימיות:
- לא מדובר על רגשות נכונים כלפי עצמך
- מדובר על כוונה/רגש/רגש נכון כלפי המעשה
"מה שמגדיר מידה טובה הוא תמיד מעשה. זה אף פעם לא רגש פנימי."
- אבל: המידה עצמה מורכבת מרגש פנימי, הרגל, נטייה לבחור
- המידה היא "על החוץ, לא על עצמה"
- הטענה "אני נדיב בפנים אבל לא נותן הרבה" היא כמעט תמיד שקרית
- אם אין לך רכוש/כסף/יכולת לחלוק
- אז אתה יכול לומר "אני טוב ככל שאני יכול להיות אבל צריך כלים חיצוניים"
- עמדת אריסטו: גם אז, אתה רק "נדיב בפוטנציאל," לא נדיב בפועל
- אתה אולי "אדם טוב בפנים" אבל זה המקרה התקף היחיד
- נדיבות היא לא "אני רוצה לתת" אלא "אני אוהב לתת"
- זה מוביל אוטומטית למעשה (אם אפשרי)
- מסקנה לוגית: אם מישהו טוען ש"אוהב להיות נדיב" אבל לא פועל בנדיבות, הוא משקר
- זו לא סתם סתירה - זה בלתי אפשרי (למעט מכשולים חיצוניים)
- "יש לי טוב בפנים, פשוט יש לי יצר הרע שגורם לי לא לעשות" - לא הגיוני
- אלא אם יש עיכובים מבחוץ
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- מישהו ש"נותן, נותן, נותן" אבל "בפנים הוא פשוט מת"
- תשובה: זה ה"מקרה הרגיל" - קשור לחינוך
- כשמתחילים לתת, לא מרגישים כלום, לא אוהבים את זה
- מאמנים את עצמך דרך מעשה ← ואז מגיעים לאהוב את זה
סיכום האסימטריה:
- פנים (אם אמיתי) ← מוביל אוטומטית לחוץ
- חוץ ← יכול להיעשות בלי משמעות פנימית (לא דורש פנים)
תשובה ראשונית: חינוך חיצוני, "שלא לשמה"
התלמיד דוחק: מה גורם לך להקשיב למישהו אחר?
תשובת המורה: תמיד אפשר לעקוב אחורה למשהו שאתה אוהב (למשל, אהבת הקשבה לסמכות/לאותו רב)
שאלה עמוקה יותר שעולה: מה ההבדל בין מישהו אחר שאומר לך לבין שאתה אומר לעצמך?
- אם אתה מחליט לעשות משהו, אתה אומר "אני רוצה"
- אבל מה גורם לך לרצות?
- מאיפה מגיע הרצון הזה?
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- תלמיד מעלה: האם מוטיבציה יכולה להיות "רצון להיות סוג כזה של אדם"?
- תשובה: בדרך כלל התשובה מתחקה אחורה לחינוך חיצוני ("שלא לשמה")
- רגרסיה נוספת אפשרית: האם אתה אוהב לרצות להיות אותו אדם? או משהו אחר?
- אתגר שמוצג: האם תמיד אפשר לדחוף אחורה ולמצוא "עוד דבר שאתה אוהב"?
- גם חינוך מתחיל באהבת משהו בסיסי: אהבת הנאה וסלידה מכאב
- "הנאה היא פשוט מילה למה שאנחנו אוהבים" (מסויג: "לא לגמרי, אבל במובן מסוים")
- חינוך ראשוני (על ידי אחרים) עובד דרך שכר ועונש
- תוצאה: בהתחלה עושים דברים נכונים מסיבות לא נכונות
ניסוח מפתח מחדש: להיות עם המידה "בהוויה" לעומת לא = הסיבה (ה"בשביל") מאחורי המעשה
ההבחנה בין אדם טוב לרע:
- אדם טוב: עושה טוב מסיבות טובות (אוהב את הטוב עצמו)
- אדם רע שעושה טוב: עושה טוב מסיבות לא נכונות
- דוגמה: נותן צדקה לכבוד = "לא באמת נותן צדקה, אתה באמת מחפש כבוד"
ארבעה מנגנונים שבהם המוטיבציה משתנה:
1. כוח ההרגלים
2. אנשים נוטים לאהוב את מה שהם רגילים אליו
3. מתחילים "לראות את הטוב בזה"
4. לראות את הטוב דורש חוויה - "איך רואים את הטוב? לראות את הטוב זו חוויה"
- אפשר לראות את זה דרך אחרים או דרך לעשות את זה בעצמך
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- הכרה: "אלה דברים שאנחנו כבר יודעים... אני תוהה כמה זה עוזר במציאות"
- החלק הבא יעבור על מידות טובות ספציפיות - מה הן ואיך לרכוש אותן
- *[הערה הומוריסטית: "לפחות לשפוט אנשים שאין להם אותן. זה יהיה יותר כיף."]*
מסגור: מצווה שהיא "לכאורה מידה" - הלכה מפורשת על דבר פנימי
הבעיה הפרשנית:
- קריאות מסוימות: פנימית לחלוטין ← "רע, לדעתי"
- הבנה נכונה: דבר פנימי המכוון למעשה חיצוני
- עיקרון מפתח: "הפנימי נהיה מאוד חשוב כי החיצוני נגרם ממנו. אבל לא כי הוא נגרם מעצמו, לא כי הוא פונה לעצמו"
מיקום בתורה: אחרון מעשרת הדיברות (או שניים אחרונים, לפי חלק) - סוף פרשת יתרו / תחילת פרשת משפטים
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- "חכמי המשנה והתלמוד לא התרשמו מעשרת הדיברות"
- הם התנגדו באופן פעיל לעשות מזה עניין גדול
- פסיקות מעשיות: לא לשים בתפילין, לא לקרוא בקריאת שמע, לא לשים במזוזה
- "אפיקורסים אמרו שהעיקר זה עשרת הדיברות"
- חכמים התנגדו לזה
- עיקרון פרשני: "כל פעם שהם אומרים 'אפיקורסים אומרים ככה,' זה אומר שיש סיבה טובה לחשוב ככה, אבל זה טעות"
1. פוליטי/חיצוני: "אל תלבש את הכובע כי הם לובשים את הכובע" - נדחה כלא מספיק
2. טיעון חוסר איזון (הצעת תלמיד): הרמת מצוות ספציפיות מובילה לחוסר איזון על חשבון אחרות
3. דעת המרצה: חכמים התנגדו ל"הפיכת המצוות למערכת לוגית"
- קשור לדמויות מאוחרות יותר: ר' יצחק אברבנאל שהתנגד לעיקרים, חתם סופר
בקשת הגר: למד אותי את כל התורה על רגל אחת
תשובת שמאי: "צא מחיי"
- מאופיין כ"התשובה המסורתית" - סירוב לצמצם את התורה לסיכום
- "מה זה יהדות? לך תמות."
תשובת הלל: "יהדות היא על להיות טוב לחברך"
- פירוש מחדש שמוצע: הלל היה "יותר נחמד," לא הציע תיאולוגיה טובה יותר
- הוא "נכנע למסגור של אותו בחור" - גרסה דיפלומטית של אותה דחייה
- הסיפור "ממוסגר במפורש כהלל שהיה יותר נחמד, לא כהלל שיש לו תיאולוגיה טובה יותר"
תיקון של ציטוט שגוי נפוץ:
- אנגלית נפוצה: "כל התורה היא [X], והשאר פירוש"
- הגמרא בפועל: לא אומרת "והשאר פירוש"
- אומרת משהו כמו: "ועכשיו לשאר, בוא לבית המדרש מחר"
- משמעות: הלל נתן כלל אבל לא אמר שהתורה מורכבת מפירוט של אותה הכללה
- סיפור על הרבי מסקווירא (רבי יעקב יוסף טברסקי) עם סטודנטים מעיתון
- שיעור ראשון בחסידות: "הכל זה השגחה פרטית"
- שיטת הוראה: להמשיך לשיעור שני רק אחרי שהראשון הופנם
- יישום להלל: "ואהבת לרעך" זה השיעור הראשון; תחזור כשתבין אותו
- הגר אף פעם לא חזר (מרמז שהוא אף פעם לא באמת הפנים את זה)
- הגר חיפש אקסטזה דתית ("תפס את אלוהים בבקבוק")
- תשובת שמאי: דחייה של גישת חיפוש האקסטזה הזו ("זו לא הדת שלנו")
- תשובת הלל: אותו מסר כמו שמאי, רק נמסר בדיפלומטיה
- הלל נתן את ההוראה האנושית הכי בסיסית ופשוטה: "מה ששנוא עליך לא תעשה לחברך"
- שני הרבנים הסיטו את הציפיות המוטעות של המחפש
- חכמים קדמונים (תקופת המשנה/תלמוד) לא היו חובבי רציונליזציה מוגזמת
- מציאת "כלל אחד שממנו הכל נובע" נתפסה בחשדנות
- הסתייגות: קצת הכללה היא בלתי נמנעת (זה מה שהבנה *היא*)
- אבל הם התנגדו לעשות *יותר מדי* מזה
*[הערת צד]:* גם אריסטו התנגד לנטייה הזו - הביקורת שלו על אפלטוניסטים מסוימים
- למה ליהודים יש ספרים כל כך ארוכים במקום קטכיזם קטן?
- תשובה: "צריך לחיות חיים" - אי אפשר לצמצם לעקרונות
- עקרונות שמופקים מהחיים מאבדים את משמעותם
- ש: "מה היסוד של חסידות?"
- ת: "בוא כל שבוע לטיש של הרבי"
- ש: "מה הלימוד של [השיעור הזה]?"
- ת: "אין לימוד - אתה בא כל שבוע, מפתח סוג כזה של ראש, חי סוג כזה של חיים"
- תובנה מפתח: תורה לא יכולה "להיות מבוקבקת ונשלחת באוקיינוס"
- מישהו מוצא את העקרונות שלך, יוצר דת חדשה
- אתה מבקר ומוצא אותם עושים "דברים מוזרים"
- הם אומרים: "עקבתי אחרי העקרונות שלך!"
- תשובה: "זה לא עובד ככה"
- זו הסיבה האמיתית להתנגדות לסיסטמטיזציה יתרה
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- עשרת הדברות חוזרות פעמיים (שמות ודברים)
- חזרה כמעט מילה במילה (רק כ-20 מילים שונות)
- שום דבר אחר בתורה אין לו חזרה כזו
- ברור שנתפס כמרכזי כבר בחומש עצמו
- *[הערה: לא מוזכר שוב במקום אחר בתנ"ך]*
- זיהוי: יהודי בן זמנם של התנאים
- נקרא "ידידיה" על ידי רבי מנחם עזריה (תרגום עברי של "פילון")
- כתב ספר על עשרת הדיברות שמראה איך הן כוללות את כל המצוות
- שלושה כרכים המפרטים איך כל המצוות נגזרות מהעשר
- טענה: פילון המציא/פורמליז את הגישה השיטתית הזו
- רציונליסטים ומיסטיקנים מימי הביניים כולם אומרים דברים דומים לפילון
- הסברים אפשריים:
- העברת כתבי יד סודית
- גנאלוגיה מפילון לרב סעדיה (הרמב"ם מציע משהו כזה בפרק אלף)
- או פשוט: זה ברור מהטקסט עצמו
- מדרשים כבר מראים פרשת קדושים ופרשת משפטים כפירושים לעשרת הדברות
- ירושלמי: קריאת שמע מקבילה לעשרת הדברות
- פילון לא המציא את הרעיון לגמרי, אבל פורמליז אותו משמעותית
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- כל עשרת הדיברות הן דברים שלא צריך התגלות כדי לדעת
- הן אמיתות מוסריות פשוטות וברורות (חוץ אולי מאחת)
- התגלות אלוהית דרמטית: הר בוער, מרכבה אלוהית, העולם שותק
- ואז אלוהים מדבר ואומר... "בבקשה אל תרצח אף אחד"
- נקודה רטורית: למה התגלות אלוהית מפוארת לתוכן מוסרי ברור?
תזה: כל עשרת הדיברות חוץ מאחת הן דברים שכל אדם היה מסכים להם
היוצא מן הכלל: "אנכי" (אנכי ה' אלוהיך) / שבת
- אלה דורשים הסבר כי הם לא מובנים מאליהם
תובנה מפתח: התורה עצמה מציינת אילו דיברות צריכות הסבר על ידי *הכללת הסברים בתוכן*
ניתוח של כל דיבר:
1. אנכי/לא יהיה - יש הסבר: "כי אנכי אל קנא"
2. לא תשא (לא לשאת שם ה' לשווא) - יש הסבר: "כי לא ינקה ה'"
- ברגע שיודעים שאלוהים קיים, לא להישבע לשקר זה ברור
3. שבת - יש הסבר: "כי ששת ימים עשה ה'"
- *[הערת צד: הם כבר ידעו שבת ממצרים/מרה]*
4. כבד אב ואם - יש "למען" - שכר/הבטחה, אבל הציווי עצמו ברור
5. חמש אחרונות (לא תרצח, ניאוף, גניבה, עדות שקר, חמידה) - אין הסברים
- הן מסבירות את עצמן; להוסיף "כי אלוהים יעניש" היה *הורס* אותן
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הבחנה קריטית:
- "פשוט" לא אומר שכולם כבר ידעו את זה לפני שנאמר להם
- הוכחה: קין היה האדם השני והיה רוצח - ברור שלא חשב שרצח זה רע
- תרבויות ודורות רבים לא
המרצה: כן, אז עכשיו יש לנו דף שם. אתה הולך עם המיקרופון שלי דלוק, אני מקווה. לא יכול לראות מכאן. אני מקווה שזה דלוק. אז כן, זה עושה את הירוק למעלה ולמטה, הדבר הירוק של הקול שלי.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן, כן, כן, כן, כן.
המרצה: ושם אתה צריך לראות גם. בסדר, זה עולה ויורד מתחת לצלחת.
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המרצה: בסדר, אז בשבוע שעבר סיימנו את הנושא הכללי. החצי הראשון של השיעור בשבוע שעבר היה על החילוק בין מזויף - מה שאני קורא מזויף, אבל אולי אנשים אחרים קוראים לזה אחרת - לבין פנימיות אמיתית. נכון? מה הייתה הגרסה המזויפת? הגרסה המזויפת היא סוג של פנימיות. איך אומרים פנימיות? שנגמרת בפנים. כן, פנימיות זו מילה יותר טובה. פנימיות. שמעצבי פנים יודעים שיש עיצוב פנים של בן האדם.
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המרצה: ואז יש יידן אחרים. אתה יודע מה הם חושבים בין בית גויי לבית יהודי? איך זה נראה? אתה גר פה בלייקווד, בהאוול? איך זה נראה בין בית גויי לבית יהודי? איך אתה יודע אם בית הוא יהודי או גויי? אתה עובר ליד. קודם כל, אתה יכול לראות שליהודים יש מכוניות מסוימות. אין אורות. לגויים אין אורות בפנים. אבל יש להם הרבה אורות בחוץ. שמת לב?
תלמיד: כן, זה נכון.
המרצה: ובכן, אני חושב שממש בית גויי, גויים אמריקאים - למקסיקני יהיה משהו אחר, אבל האמריקאי או הדומיניקני - החוץ של הבית יפה. מאוד מטופל. יש רהיטים יפים, יש אורות, הדשא מטופח, וכל זה. אבל זה קל. הם שמים כסף בחזית יפה וכל זה. משהו שנקרא "ערך מדרכה" על ידי סוכני הנדל"ן.
ואז אתה נכנס פנימה וכמו שהמטבח הוא כמו ערימות של עוגיות אורז על השיש, והטוסטר שלהם נשמר על השיש, וגם מכונת המים החמים, וגם הקפה לארבעת השבועות הבאים. ארבעה שבועות הם שומרים הכל בחוץ וזה בלגן ענק בעצם. או אולי בראש שלהם זה לא בלגן, אבל לי זה נראה מדהים. זה גם חשוך. אני אומר הסגנון של לשמור הכל בחוץ, כמו כן, ויש נקודות על הקיר, הכפיות מסביב לשיש, וכן הלאה. אז הפנים לא כל כך יפה.
המרצה: ואתה מקבל בית שמבחוץ נראה כמו חורבה. יש כמו מכונית שבורה בחזית אם אתה יהודי, והדשא לא גזוז, ויש כמו אופניים שבורים שהילדים אולי השתמשו בהם בשנה שעברה עדיין. ואיפה שאתה גר זה גם ככה.
ואתה נכנס פנימה והרצפה נקייה לחלוטין. שום דבר לא לא במקום. השיש כולו נקי, כמו משטחים טהורים. הרבה אורות תמיד. זה החילוק.
המרצה: ולמה זה ככה? כי בגלות, היידן לא אכפת להם מהחיצוני, כי אנחנו יודעים למי אכפת? זה בשביל הגוי שהולך להסתכל.
המרצה: אתה יודע, הבחור - היה יהודי שהגביר מסטוט היה מסתובב עם השטריימל החדש שלו, והשלעפער אמר, "אני חושב שהיית צריך לעשות את זה קצת אחרת שם." ואני הייתי כמו, "מי אתה? אתה יכול לראות את השטריימל שלך כשאתה לובש אותו?" "לא." "אז זה בשבילי. אני נותן לך את הביקורת שלי. אני חושב שזה היה צריך להיות..."
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המרצה: אז בקיצור, היידן נכנסו מאוד לרעיון הזה של פנימיות, שזה מאוד חשוב. מה שאנחנו אומרים והכל. אבל המעשה, לא כל כך פשוט. זה מאוד קל להיכנס ללולאות קטנות שמחזקות את עצמן, כמו לולאות פנימיות עם כל הדברים האלה. ואחת הבעיות עם להיות יותר מדי פנימי היא שאתה נכנס לכוונה, נכון?
המרצה: יש לנו את המילה הזו כוונה. יש כוונה ומעשה. כוונה היא הפנים. יש כוונה כפנים, ומעשה, או מילים, הם החוץ, נכון?
המרצה: עכשיו מה שקורה הוא שאתה מקבל מושג של כוונה, או של פנים, כוונה או פנימיות, שלא מכוונת לשום דבר חוץ מעצמה. זה אולי דבר מאוד טוב לרמה מסוימת אחרת של אתיקה שאנחנו לא דנים בה בשיעור הזה עדיין. אבל אתה צריך לזכור עם החלק שאמרנו בשבוע שעבר שרוב הזמן עכשיו אנחנו לומדים הרמב"ם מדבר הרבה על הפנימי. שאנחנו מדברים על מידות. יש לנו את הרבה הזה שאומר שזה לא מספיק לעשות מעשים נכונים, אתה צריך גם להיות אדם טוב, נכון? שזה משהו פנימי.
המרצה: אנשים חושבים שזה אומר משהו שנגמר בפנימי, פנימי שמתמקד בעצמו. זה איכשהו מחשבה רקורסיבית עצמית, כמו להסתכל במראה אתה רואה אלף מראות. זה ממשיך באמת לספר לך את אותו דבר, רק נהיה קטן יותר וקטן יותר.
המרצה: ולכן אנשים חושבים, "אני אדם טוב." מה הכוונה שאתה אדם טוב? "ובכן, אני לא עוזר לאף אחד, אבל אני מרגיש מאוד את הכאב הזה. יש לי הרבה אמפתיה." לפעמים יש גם מילים. כמו, "אני לא הולך באמת לתת לך דולר, אבל כמו, כן, אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך."
תלמיד: אני חושב שהדינמיקה באה... זה אולי מטרה, אני חושב, כי זה בא מ... כי אין לך כסף. דרך אחרת לדת היהודית, לא הדת היהודית.
המרצה: ממ. אנחנו יכולים לדבר על זה, אבל זה עוד שלם... זה יותר... אני הולך לתת לך קצת היסטוריה על זה, אבל אני חושב שמשהו קורה. אבל יש הרבה... יש הרבה... זו שאלה מאוד רצינית. זה מאוד עמוק. יש גם דרך נכונה לקבל את זה, שאני... אנחנו גם אמרנו שזה גם רמה.
תלמיד: כן, כן, אני יודע.
המרצה: אני לא רוצה ללעוג לזה. אני רק רוצה להגיד, בהקשרים מסוימים, לפחות, זה לגמרי חסר תועלת. ולכן, זה חשוב להבחין כשאנחנו מדברים על הדבר הזה. זה מאוד חשוב.
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המרצה: אנחנו לא מדברים על מעשים. אנחנו מדברים על מידות, על משהו פנימי. אבל החלק העיקרי שלנו היה להגיד, להבהיר, שזה לא אומר לרצות, לא אומר משהו שמתמקד. הכוונה היא לא לעצמה, לא להחזיק את הרגשות הנכונים כלפיך או משהו כזה, אלא זה על להחזיק את הכוונה הנכונה, את הרגש הנכון, את הרגש הנכון כלפי המעשה.
המרצה: אז אנחנו אומרים, לדוגמה, אנחנו הולכים להיכנס לכל רשימת המעלות, רשימת המידות הטובות. אתה צריך להבין שמה שמגדיר את המידות הטובות זה תמיד מעשה. זה אף פעם לא רגש פנימי. אבל המידה מורכבת מרגש פנימי, מהרגל פנימי, מנטייה פנימית לבחור, כמו שדנו בשבוע שעבר, נכון?
המרצה: אז כמו המידה של הכמות הנכונה של - איך הוא קורא לזה - הנדיבות, הליברליות, הכמות הנכונה של נתינה היא מידה שהיא על החוץ. היא לא על עצמה, נכון? מישהו שאומר, "אני אדם נדיב בפנים, אבל אני לא באמת עוזר להרבה אנשים, לא נותן הרבה" - יש רק דרך אחת שבה זה יכול להיות קצת נכון, וגם אז זה רק חצי הדרך.
המרצה: זה יכול להיות קצת נכון רק במובן שבו אולי אתה מאוד נדיב, אבל אין לך רכוש, או אין לך כסף, או אין לך יכולות לחלוק עם אף אחד. אז אתה יכול להגיד, "ובכן, אני טוב ככל שאני יכול להיות, אבל אני צריך כמה כלים חיצוניים שבאמצעותם להיות נדיב." וגם אז, לפחות, אתה לא באמת נדיב. אתה רק פוטנציאלית נדיב. אבל אז אתה יכול להגיד אולי אתה אדם טוב.
המרצה: אבל חוץ מזה, זה אף פעם לא אומר משהו כמו להחזיק את הרגשות הנכונים. זה רק אומר הנכון - אתה צריך להחזיק את הרגשות הנכונים, אבל מה ההגדרה של הרגשות האלה היא - האהבה שהנדיבות היא לא "אני רוצה לתת לך," זה "אני אוהב לתת." זה כל הנקודה של זה, נכון? לכן אם מישהו אומר, "אני אוהב - אני נדיב," והוא לא פועל בנדיבות - משקר. הוא לא רק כמו - זה לא אפשרי שיהיה קונפליקט בין מידה ל - כלומר, יכול להיות קונפליקט, אבל זה לא הדרך שאנחנו מדמיינים את זה בדרך כלל.
המרצה: זה לא כמו שאני אומר, "יש לי טוב בפנים, רק יש לי איזה יצר הרע שגורם לי לא לעשות את זה." זה לא באמת הגיוני, או פחות יש כמה מקרים שיש דרכים להסביר את זה.
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המרצה: אבל זה יכול להיות גם הפוך, שהבחור פשוט נותן, נותן, כן, אבל בפנים הוא בטוח, נכון? זה המקרה הרגיל, כי אנחנו מדברים על לחנך את עצמך. כשאתה מתחיל לתת, אתה לא מרגיש כלום. אתה לא אוהב את זה. אתה מתחיל לעשות את זה, ואז אתה אוהב את זה. אתה מאמן את עצמך. אז יש מקרה כזה, כמובן. אבל עדיין, האהבה היא...
תלמיד: למה אני, להיפך? לא באמת. שאתה רוצה לעשות את זה, אבל אתה לא. כלומר, חוץ מ, כמו שאמרת, זה לא אפשרי.
המרצה: יש את זה. יש דרך אחרת. יש משהו אחר גם, אבל אנחנו צריכים... נגיע לזה בשלב מסוים, כי האינטראקציה הזו הייתה על זה בשבועות האחרונים.
תלמיד: מה זה?
המרצה: האינטראקציה הזו בין השניים, שזה משהו רע. זה כמו אני.
תלמיד: למה? אני מנסה לתפוס את זה, וזה מחליק מהאחיזה שלי.
המרצה: תסביר.
תלמיד: אני לא יודע, כי זה 6 בבוקר בשמיני. ככה. ככה. רציתי שזה יהיה מסודר, ולהגיד, כמו, זו תשובה מסודרת. רע. זה לא כל כך מסודר. אבל זה, אז זה בפנים. אם זה אמיתי, אוטומטית זה בחוץ. אבל בחוץ, אתה יכול לעשות את המעשה בלי צורך בפנים, וזה לא חייב להיות המקרה.
המרצה: מה הבעיה?
תלמיד: אתה מתנהג כאילו. אתה מתנהג כמו שהאדם הטוב היה מתנהג. אבל מה מניע את זה?
המרצה: אה, זו שאלה טובה.
תלמיד: כמו במובן הזה, אתה יכול להגיד שאתה רוצה להיות הסוג הזה של אדם?
המרצה: כן. בדרך כלל, הדבר המוזר עם זה הוא שבדרך כלל התשובה היא משהו כמו חינוך, חינוך חיצוני.
תלמיד: תראה, אבל מה מניע את המוטיבציה? מה מניע את זה? האם זה - האם זה שאתה באמת אוהב לרצות להיות האדם הזה? וכשאתה אומר רק - רק תדחוף את זה אחורה, זה זה? או שזה משהו אחר?
המרצה: לא, בדרך כלל זה מישהו אחר שאומר לך את זה. המציאות - במציאות, ואני חושב גם - כן, במציאות, כשאני אומר במציאות, קודם התכוונתי כמו במציאות בספרים, וגם במציאות בחיים האמיתיים, זו שאלה טובה. אבל מישהו אחר - אתה תמיד יכול לדחוף אחורה ופשוט למצוא דבר אחר שאתה אוהב? כמו שאתה אוהב להקשיב לסמכויות, אז לכן אתה עושה את זה? או שאתה אוהב...
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המרצה: מה הבעיה? אתה מתנהג כאילו - אתה מתנהג כמו שהאדם הטוב היה מתנהג. אבל מה מניע את זה?
תלמיד: אה, זו שאלה טובה. כמו במובן הזה, אתה יכול להגיד שאתה רוצה להיות הסוג הזה של אדם?
המרצה: כן, בדרך כלל הדבר המוזר עם זה הוא, בדרך כלל התשובה היא משהו כמו חינוך, חינוך חיצוני. תראה, אבל מה מניע את זה? כמו, שלא לשמה. מה מניע את זה? האם זה שאתה באמת אוהב לרצות להיות האדם הזה, וכשאתה אומר את זה, רק תדחוף את זה צעד אחורה? או שזה משהו אחר?
לא, בדרך כלל זה מישהו אחר שאומר לך. זו המציאות. במציאות, ואני חושב גם, כן, במציאות, כשאני אומר במציאות, קודם התכוונתי, כמו, במציאות בספרים, וגם במציאות בחיים האמיתיים.
תלמיד: אבל מה אם אתה יכול להקשיב למישהו האחר הזה?
המרצה: ובכן, זו שאלה טובה. אבל מישהו אחר...
תלמיד: אתה תמיד יכול לדחוף אחורה ופשוט למצוא דבר אחר שאתה אוהב? כמו, אתה אוהב להקשיב לסמכויות? אז לכן אתה עושה את זה? או שאתה אוהב לנסות להיות הסוג הזה של אדם, גם אם עדיין לא הסוג הזה של אדם?
המרצה: כלומר, במובן מסוים, אתה יכול לדחוף דברים אחורה במובן שכולם יודעים, גם חינוך מתחיל עם האהבה של משהו, דהיינו האהבה של הנאה והסלידה מכאב. חינוך מחנך על ידי הנאה וכאב. אז כולם אוהבים הנאה. הנאה היא רק מילה למה שאנחנו אוהבים, במובן מסוים. לא לגמרי, אבל במובן מסוים.
לכן, כשאנחנו מחנכים אותך, וגם כשאתה מחנך את עצמך, אולי, אבל בהחלט המקרה העיקרי של חינוך הוא כשמישהו אחר מחנך אותך, אז הם הולכים לתת לך פרסים ולהבטיח לך תגמולים ולאיים עליך בעונשים על עשיית הדבר הנכון. אז אתה הולך להתחיל לעשות אותם מהסיבה הלא נכונה, נכון?
אתה רואה דרך אחרת להגדיר להחזיק אותם בהוויה של האדם לעומת לא להיות היא הסיבה שאתה עושה את זה, ה"בשביל," נכון? האדם הטוב עושה את הטוב מהסיבות הטובות, שזה שהוא אוהב את הטוב, שזו הסיבה הטובה. האדם הרע שעושה דברים טובים עושה דברים טובים אבל מהסיבה הלא נכונה.
זה נקרא במסורת שלנו בדיוק זה, נכון? אם אתה נותן צדקה כי אתה רוצה כבוד, אז אתה עושה את הדבר הנכון אבל מהסיבה הלא נכונה. אז אתה לא באמת נותן צדקה, אתה באמת מחפש כבוד.
ולאט לאט אתה הולך להתחיל לאהוב את הנתינה. כן, זה מה שדנתי כמה פעמים פה. זה טוב, זה טוב לעשות את זה, כי אתה לא באמת נשאר עם הכבוד ברוב המקרים. זה זז קצת, כמעט לכולם, בגלל איך חינוך עובד, בגלל הכוח של הרגלים, כי אנשים נוטים לאהוב את מה שהם רגילים אליו.
וגם כי אתה מתחיל לראות את הטוב בזה. כי איך אתה רואה את הטוב? לראות את הטוב זו חוויה. איך אתה הולך לראות שזה טוב לתת? כמו שאתה אף פעם לא ראית נתינה. אתה יכול לראות את זה על ידי מישהו אחר או אתה יכול לראות את זה על ידי עצמך. ואתה רואה איך זה לתת, ואתה מתחיל לראות שזה טוב, ואז אתה מתחיל לאהוב את זה. זה הגיוני?
המרצה: אז עכשיו, מה שאני רוצה לעשות קצת היום - זה כל הדברים שאנחנו כבר יודעים, או בתקווה כבר יודעים. אני תוהה כמה זה עוזר במציאות, אבל אנחנו כבר יודעים את הדברים האלה. מה שאנחנו צריכים לעשות היום זה לדבר קצת על כמה פרטים.
פרטים, זה באמת החלק הבא של הקורס. קורס שלא נגמר.
תלמיד: לא, זה לא לא נגמר. לא נגמר זה רק הנצחי.
המרצה: אתה אמור להיות מוכן לראות את זה, כמו שאמרתי לך.
תלמיד: מה? כמו לפי הבנקים, חבר שלי, מה הכוונה אמור לחזור? אני רואה את זה בשבט הקדושים [התייחסות לא ברורה]. העובדה שאני רואה את זה הולכת...
המרצה: בסדר, בסדר. אז אנחנו אמורים להיות צריכים - למה? אני לא בטוח שאתה מנבא. אני לא יודע. אני לא זוכר. היית מאוד שאפתן אז. לא בטוח. אני לא בטוח שאני זוכר למה אתה מתכוון.
אבל מה שאני רוצה להגיד לך הוא שאנחנו צריכים להיכנס לפרטים. אז החלק הבא של הקורס, גם זה מה שאנחנו מחזיקים בשבט הקדושים, הולך להיות על לעבור דרך כמה או כל, או להבין איך להחליט מה הם הכמה והכל של המידות הטובות האלה ולראות מה הן ואיך להשיג אותן. לפחות, אולי לפחות לשפוט את האנשים שאין להם אותן. זה יהיה יותר כיף.
אז, מכיוון שהשבוע הייתה פרשת יתרו והשבוע זו פרשת משפטים, החלטתי לדבר קצת על מצווה מסוימת, אולי יותר ממצווה אחת, אבל ספציפית מצווה אחת שלכאורה היא מידה, הלכה מאוד מפורשת, מצווה מאוד מפורשת שעוסקת בדבר פנימי.
ואני רוצה לתאר לכם איך יש קריאות שונות שלה, חלקן פנימיות לחלוטין והן רעות, לדעתי, וחלקן בעלות ההבנה הנכונה, שהיא דבר פנימי שמכוון לפעולה חיצונית. ואז הפנימי נעשה מאוד חשוב כי החיצוני נגרם ממנו, אבל לא בגלל שהוא נגרם מעצמו, לא בגלל שהוא פונה לעצמו. זו הדיון, אבל אנסה להראות לכם כמה זה מסובך.
אז, אתם כבר יודעים מה המצווה, נכון? זו האחרונה מעשרת הדיברות. לא תחמוד. לפי חלק מהאנשים, השנייה, שתי האחרונות, אבל בוודאות האחרונה. וסוף עשרת הדיברות, שזה חתיכת חוק או ספרות או משה גדולה, איך שתרצו לקרוא לזה. שטיקל די יפה, נכון? משה לא כזה רע.
תלמיד: מה? משה לא כזה רע.
מרצה: כמו שאמרתי, זה שטיקל די יפה. הרבה אנשים היו די מרשימים ממנו. נכון?
מרצה: לא מורינו הקדמונים, זכרם לברכה. הם לא היו מאוד מרשימים ממנו. הם היו קצת נגד להתרשם ממנו, נכון?
תלמיד: על אריסטו אתה מדבר? מי המורים הקדמונים שלא התרשמו ממנו?
מרצה: סליחה, פשוט הפסקתי לומר את זה. עשרת הדיברות.
תלמיד: לא, בדיוק. מה?
מרצה: חכמי המשנה והתלמוד לא התרשמו מעשרת הדיברות. הם לא עשו מזה עניין גדול. הם אפילו אמרו שאסור, שאולי זה היה רעיון יפה. שבא פקרסים אמרו שהעיקר זה עשרת הדיברות. והם אמרו שזה לא. אסור לעשות מזה עניין גדול.
כל פעם שהם אומרים משהו כזה, כמו אפיקורסים אומרים את זה, זה אומר כאילו יש סיבה טובה לחשוב ככה, אבל זה טעות. תמיד אפשר לומר שזה רק חיצוני, רק בגלל שזה כמוך. אי אפשר לשים את זה בתפילין. יוסי אלקריף אלקריף. אל תקראו את זה. אל תחזרו על זה פעמיים ביום. או אל תשימו את זה במזוזה שלכם, כמו שאחרים עשו.
תלמיד: יכולה להיות לנו פרשנות אחרת לזה, שזה פשוט פוליטי לגמרי, כמו אל תלבש את הכובע כי הם לובשים את הכובע. אבל נראה לי יותר שזו התנגדות אמיתית בין כמה - אתה חושב שזה לא רק בגלל שזה מוביל לחוסר איזון?
מרצה: מוביל ל?
תלמיד: חוסר איזון. מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: זה אומר ש, נגיד קריאת שמע היא מאוד כללית, אין לה את הבעיה הזו. כשאתה מגיע, כשאתה מרומם מצוות מסוימות ספציפיות, גם אם אולי צריך לרומם אותן, הן אוטומטית מתרוממות יותר מדי על חשבון כל השאר. אז זה חוסר איזון של איך, כלומר הן צריכות להיות קצת יותר.
מרצה: זה מה שהם אמרו. זה מה שהם אמרו. החכמים שאמרו את זה התנגדו להפוך את המצוות למערכת לוגית. אני חושב שזה מאוד קשור. זה הולך להיות עוד שיעור שלם, אז אני לא יכול להיכנס לזה. מאוד קשור לאנשים מאוחר יותר, כמו רבי יצחק אברבנאל שהתנגד לעיקרים ועלי חמזאיף ואחרים.
כי יש סוג של רציונליזציה, להבין דברים. כמו יש לנו את כל התורה הזו, היא מאוד גדולה, היא ארוכה, זה חמישה ספרים ארוכים, ספרים יחסית ארוכים, ויש שישה סדרי משנה וכל זה. ומה זה?
גר אחד בא פעם להלל ושמאי ואמר להם ללמד אותו את כל התורה על רגל אחת. ושמאי נתן לו את התשובה המסורתית: צא מחיי. זו התשובה המסורתית למישהו שאומר לך, מה זה יהדות? לך תמות. מה זאת אומרת, מה זה יהדות? אני לא יודע. אז לא למדתי משנה 35 שנה. אולי אתה תדע. מה כל זה? נכון? מאוד מסורתי.
הלל היה יותר נחמד, אז הוא אמר, אתה יודע מה, אני יכול לדבר אליך בשפה שלך גם. יהדות זה להיות טוב לבן אדם שלך. אבל זה היה רק הוא קצת נכנע למסגור של הבחור הזה. זה לא אומר שהלל באמת חשב ככה. זה במפורש ממוסגר הסיפור הזה כהלל יותר נחמד. זה לא ממוסגר כהלל בעל תיאולוגיה טובה יותר, נכון? היה פשוט בחור אחר שהיה בן זמנו של הלל שבאמת חשב ככה. אבל זה לא מה שהלל חשב.
אני חושב שהלל עשה בדיוק מה ששמאי עשה, רק בדרך יותר דיפלומטית. זה מה שאני חושב.
תלמיד: לא, הלל כן אמר לו משהו. יש נקודה מאוד חשובה ששמעתי מהמורה שלי על, מה היה שמו? אחד מהמורים החיים שלי.
מרצה: בעיקרון, כולם אמרו שהלל אמר, כל התורה היא, והשאר זה פירוש. זה מה שכולם אומרים שכתוב באנגלית, אבל הגמרא לא אומרת את זה. היא לא אומרת את זה.
תלמיד: מה היא אומרת?
מרצה: לא, אמרתי, לא משנה.
תלמיד: מה היא אומרת?
מרצה: מאוד טוב. ועכשיו לגבי השאר. בוא לבית המדרש מחר. היא לא אומרת, ואז השאר זה פירוש.
אז הוא לא אמר, לך מפה. הוא אמר שהוא כן נתן לו איזשהו כלל, אבל הוא לא אמר שהתורה מורכבת מפירוט הכלל הזה, פירוט ההכללה הזו. מה שהוא אמר היה שיש משהו פשוט שאני צריך לספר לך, תסיים עם זה. זה יותר כמו שסיפרתי לכם את הסיפור של הרבי מסקווירא, ככה אתה מפרש את זה, נכון? הרבי מסקווירא, חלאנע לברכה רבקה יוסף דוריס.
מרצה: ואז השאר זה פירוש. אז הוא לא אמר לך מפה. הוא אומר שהוא כן נתן לו איזשהו כלל, אבל הוא לא אמר שהתורה מורכבת מפירוט הכלל הזה, פירוט ההכללה הזו. מה שהוא אמר היה שיש משהו פשוט, אני צריך לספר לך. נסיים עם זה. זה יותר כמו שסיפרתי לכם את הסיפור של—
ככה אתה מפרש את זה, נכון? כמה תלמידים באו אליו. הם שמעו שהוא רב חסידי, רב חסידי אמיתי. הם רצו לדעת מה זה חסידות. הם אמרו שהם הולכים לכתוב את זה בעיתון שלהם. אז הוא אמר, ובכן, קודם כל חסידות זה לא לקרוא עיתונים. אבל אז הם אמרו, בסדר, אז לא נכתוב את זה בעיתון. אנחנו פשוט באמת רוצים לדעת. הוא אמר, אין בעיה. בואו למשרד שלי, אני אספר לכם.
והוא בא והוא אמר להם, תראו, יש לנו מסורת שאנחנו מלמדים אתכם את הדבר השני רק אחרי שאתם מבינים ומפנימים את הדבר הראשון. אז אני אגיד לכם את השיעור הראשון. כשתסיימו להבין אותו ולהפנים אותו, תחזרו. אני אמשיך. השיעור הראשון של חסידות אומר שהכל זה השגחה פרטית. עכשיו, להתראות. תחזרו כשהבנתם מה אני אומר.
זה מה שהלל אמר, נכון? השיעור הראשון הוא כמו, אהוב, אל תעשה מה שהחבר שלך עושה. הבנת את זה, תחזור. נראה. והבחור אף פעם לא חזר. בסדר.
תלמיד: אני חושב הפוך. אני חושב ככה. הבחור הזה בא לראות איזו אקסטזה.
מרצה: אם אתה רוצה לדבר, אתה צריך לדבר לתוך המיקרופון.
תלמיד: אני חושב שמה שקרה היה, הבחור הזה חיפש אקסטזה. כמו הרבה אנשים, נכון? כשהם נהיים, הם נהיים כאילו, הם מוצאים דת. הם מוצאים דת, כן? אז הם באים והם כאילו, אה, לא משנה. הם חושבים שזה הזך, כן? אז הם חושבים כאילו הם תפסו את אלוהים בבקבוק. אז הם שאלו מה זה. אז שמאי כאילו, אתה משוגע או משהו? צא מפה. זו לא הדת שלנו. אנחנו לא בעניין של CBGB האלה, איזה עניין של אקסטזה. אז הוא הלך להלל והוא אמר להם את אותו דבר. הוא ענה בדיוק מה שאני עשיתי, רק בדרך הרבה יותר דיפלומטית. הוא אמר את הדבר הכי בסיסי פשוט אנושי.
למה זה קצת שוגר שהוא פתאום הופך ליהודי, כאילו, מה הדוהן געזיין?
מרצה: בסדר, בסדר. זו שאלה טובה. אבל זה יהיה המעשה רב שלך. בסדר. בואו נמשיך. הנקודה היא, תורה מאוד יפה. תודה. שבת שלום. תורה מאוד יפה. עכשיו אם למישהו אחר יש מילה להגיד, אחרת נוכל להמשיך.
מרצה: מה שאמרתי הוא שהחכמים שלנו היו קצת מתנגדים, החכמים שלנו, חלקם, מאוחר יותר במהלך, אפילו בזמנים ההם, בזמנים עתיקים, החכמים שלנו שעשו את זה. אבל החכמים של ה, שדבריהם נכתבו במשנה ובתלמוד, לא היו מעריצים גדולים של לעשות את הסוג הזה של רציונליזציה, שבה אתה מוצא, כאילו, זה הכלל האחד, הכל נובע ממנו. הם היו קצת מתנגדים לזה בהרבה דרכים שונות.
ובכן, הם עשו את זה, כמובן, אבל אין דבר כזה ללמוד בלי לעשות את זה. זה מה שהבנה היא, למצוא הכללות וצורות. אבל הם התנגדו לעשות יותר מדי מזה. ודרך אגב, מורנו אריסטו גם התנגד לזה. לכן הוא לא היה כל כך מרוצה מפלטוניסטים מסוימים. וזה עוד שטיקל תורה שיש לי, אבל זה מספיק לעכשיו.
מרצה: ולכן, עשרת הדיברות הובנו כבר בזמנים עתיקים מאוד כמעין עשר הכללות, עשרה עקרונות, נכון? היו סוגים של עקרונות בעצם ביוונית, שזה מה שכל היוונים תמיד מחפשים. והם אמרו, אלה העקרונות של התורה. כל השאר נובע מהם.
החכמים שלנו היו כאילו, נא, כן, דברים יפים, לא נגדם. אולי מאוד חשוב. עקרונות? אני לא יודע. מה עם, מה עם לדעת את הכמות המדויקת של אמות שצריך לשים חיטה מכרם? אתה יודע את זה? זה נראה חשוב. זה העיקרון שכל השאר בנוי עליו. לא, זה חשוב. זה באותה מידה חשוב.
מרצה: אז הם לא היו מעריצים של זה. הם מאוד פחדו מאנשים שמפשטים את היהדות, כמו שצפיר אמר. למה יש לנו ספרים כל כך ארוכים? יכולנו לכתוב ספר קטן קטן שנקרא הקתוליציזם. איך הם קוראים לזה? הדבר הקתולי. זה מה שצריך לדעת כדי להיות יהודי. לא, זה לא עובד ככה. צריך לחיות חיים. כמובן, יש כמה עקרונות, אבל אי אפשר להפוך את זה לעיקרון. לפעמים אתה מוציא את זה מהחיים. זו, אני חושב, הביקורת האמיתית.
זה כמו שמישהו אומר, מה היסוד של חסידות? היסוד של חסידות זה פשוט לבוא כל שבוע לטיש של הרבי, או משהו, להסתובב. מה הלימוד של יצחק לוהר? אין לימוד של יצחק לוהר. אני מקווה שלא. הלימוד הוא שאתה בא כל שבוע לשיעור. ולאט לאט אתה מתחיל להיות עם הסוג הזה של שכל שמבין דברים בדרך הזו, אתה מתחיל לחיות את הסוג הזה של חיים שחי ככה, וכן הלאה.
אין כאילו לימוד שאפשר לבקבק בבקבוק קטן, ואז לשלוח למטה באוקיינוס, ואולי מישהו ימצא אותו. ככה התורה לא עובדת. אני חושב שזו הסיבה העיקרית שהם התנגדו לזה, כי זה כאילו ככה, זה הופך למשהו שאפשר לבקבק בבקבוק קטן, ואז לשלוח לאורך האוקיינוס, ואז מישהו מוצא את זה ויוצר דת חדשה כי היא מבוססת על אותם עקרונות, ואתה הולך לשם ומדבר עם הבחור, והוא עושה כל מיני דברים מוזרים. הם כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון? מה אתה מתכוון? הלכתי עם העקרונות שלך. זה לא עובד ככה. ככה אני מבין את ההתנגדות לעקרונות.
מרצה: אבל על מה אני מדבר אליכם עכשיו? אה, אבל אנשים אחרים היו מאוד מרשימים מעשרת הדיברות האלה, והם כן חשבו כעקרונות. וברור, החומש עצמו נראה שחושב ככה, כי מה הטעם של כל הסיפור הזה? אז, וזה חוזר פעמיים. כלומר, זה נראה שהיה משהו כאילו, אני לא חושב שיש אפילו עוד דבר אחד. כלומר, יש הרבה חזרות במשנה תורה, אבל חזרה כמעט מילה במילה. יש 20 מילים הבדל או משהו כזה. אין שום דבר אחר כזה. זה ברור משהו שנראה כמרכזי כבר בחומש עצמו. כמובן, בתנ"ך זה לא מוזכר אפילו עוד פעם אחת. אבל בכל מקרה, בחומש זה מוזכר פעמיים. אז זה נראה חשוב.
עכשיו, זו המשמעות שלהם. אני חושב שזה חשוב. במילים אחרות, אני חושב שזה מאוד יפה. שטיקל תורה מאוד יפה.
תלמיד: ומי היה הראשון שאמר שעשרת הדיברות הם העקרונות?
מרצה: אני לא יודע מי היה הראשון שאמר. הראשון שכתב שעשרת הדיברות הם עקרונות לכל המצוות?
תלמיד: תודה רבה. אני לפניו.
מרצה: זה מה שרש"י מביא.
תלמיד: כמובן שרש"י מביא את זה.
מרצה: לפניו היה יהודי, לא הרבה לפניו. מאות שנים לפניו.
תלמיד: אה, זה לא היה לפני עשרת הדיברות, אתה רואה?
מרצה: לא, לא, הוא לפני זה. רק קניתי את פילון השבוע, אז תסלחו לי שאני לא יכול לדבר.
תלמיד: בסדר, מאוד טוב. מי זה האבא בגמרא שם? הוא לא אומר אמרתי לו. הוא בכל הגמרא הזו. אמרתי לו, אז אני לא אחד מהם. הוא ממציא את זה, אז הוא הזמין אחד, נכון?
מרצה: אני בטוח. יש לי את פילון, שהיה יהודי בזמן התנאים, שנקרא ברבי מנחם עזריה ידידיה, שזה תרגום חמוד של פילון. אבל, פילון, שהיה יהודי טוב, הוא כתב ספר שנקרא עשרת הדיברות, או משהו כזה, ואז כתב ספר על פרטי המצוות, ויש ספר ארוך, זה כמו שלושה כרכים בתרגום, וכל זה מתאר איך עשרת הדיברות כוללים את כל המצוות, ואז נכנס לפרטים ומסביר את כל המצוות כפי שהן יוצאות מעשרת הדיברות.
מרצה: אז הוא היה זה שהמציא את זה, וכמו הרבה דברים אחרים, איכשהו בקסם, כל המאוחרים יותר, מה שאנחנו קוראים רציונליסטים ימי-ביניימיים ומיסטיקנים ימי-ביניימיים, כל האנשים שניסו לפרש את התורה באיזושהי שפה דומה למה שפילון עשה, כולם בסוף אמרו את אותם דברים בדיוק כמוהו. אבל אני לא חושב שזה בגלל, כלומר, יש אנשים שיגידו שהם בטח גנבו את זה איכשהו, כאילו היה איזה כתב יד איפשהו, שזה גם אפשרי. יש איזושהי גנאלוגיה שמובילה מפילון לרב סעדיה וכן הלאה. אבל אף אחד לא יכל באמת לעקוב אחרי הספר. אבל יש משהו כזה.
אני, בעצמי, חושב משהו כזה בהיסטוריה של המחשבה המאוד מפורסמת שלו בפרק אלף. אבל גם, כמובן, פילון פשוט למד מאפלטון. אפלטון למד מירמיהו. בכל מקרה.
מרצה: אבל גם, זה קצת ברור, נכון? אני חושב שככל שיותר יותר טוב הוא שזה די ברור. אם אתה קורא את זה, יש מדרשים שמראים לך איך פרשת קדושים או פרשת משפטים הם פירושים של עשרת הדיברות. זה לא משהו שפילון המציא לגמרי, רק כמו הטקסט. קראנו את הבחור ההוא על הדפוס, אבל הדפוס לא נכון, נכון?
תלמיד: כן. לא, הירושלמי אומר שקריאת שמע היא עשרת הדיברות.
מרצה: אלה דברים שיש במדרש גם. אז זה לא שהוא המציא לגמרי את הרעיון, אבל הוא מאוד פורמליזציה אותו וראה את זה ככה.
מרצה: בסדר, אז עכשיו עשרת הדברות זה טקסט מאוד יפה. ומה שמעניין הוא, קראתם את עשרת הדברות? יש כאן רק 10 דברים, מספר עגול מאוד יפה, 10, מספר מאוד חשוב. יש דרכים שונות לחלק את זה ל-10, אבל בוודאות יש 10 דברים. כולם מאוד פשוטים, נכון?
פשוטים במה? רבי אברהם אבן עזרא וכל אלה אומרים שהדברות הן דברים שאנחנו לא צריכים אורות וסירנות כדי לדעת אותם, חוץ מאחד.
מרצה: תזכרו שהקב"ה עשה את כל המופע הפירוטכני שלו, שבו הוא הדליק הר באש וירד עליו עם מרכבתו, ככה כתוב בתהילים, והשתיק את כל העולם ודיבר, ואז אמר, משהו כמו שאתם טוענים שהלל עשה כדי ללעוג לנו, ואמר, בבקשה אל תרצחו אף אחד. אני מתחנן לפניכם. וכולם היו כמו, מחשבה טובה, אלוקים. תודה רבה. תודה שהשורש של התורה שלנו יצא אחרי המרק.
מרצה: תודה שבאתם אחרי המרק. ואז הם אכלו עוגת גבינה, כי הם לא ידעו איך לעשות שום דבר. אלוקים, אני נכנס למצב רוח רטורי הזה.
אז כל הצדדים חוץ מאחד הם דברים מובנים מאליהם שכל אדם בעולם מסכים איתם, איזה מהם הם לא מסכימים איתו או שהם לא חולקים עליו שצריך הסבר?
תלמיד: איזה, מאט?
מרצה: לא, איזה?
תלמיד: בסדר, קצת עבה.
תלמיד: שבת?
מרצה: שבת, כן. ואני הולך לשבת אם יש בושה. עכשיו כמובן אתה אולי לא יודע שיש אלוקים, אבל אחרי שאתה יודע שיש אלוקים וזה להביא את שמו לשווא זה די מובן. אבל יש רק דבר אחד שלא היית יודע אם אף אחד לא היה אומר לך.
ואתם יודעים איך אני יודע שההבנה שלי נכונה, שזה הדבר היחיד שצריך הסבר? איך אנחנו יודעים? כתוב ככה. תודה רבה. כי הפסוק עצמו חושב ככה. כשהוא אומר - טוב, הוא נותן לך איום, הוא כן נותן לך כמו מפתח. הוא אומר, "בבקשה אל יהיה לך אלוהים אחרים, כי אל תעז, אל תחשוב על זה אפילו."
הייתה שורה מצחיקה על זה, כדי לוודא. הסיבה היא, כמו שכתוב בפסוק, הוא כמו, הוא קצת, הוא...
תלמיד: איפה?
מרצה: אני לא בטוח למה אתה מתכוון.
תלמיד: בסדר.
מרצה: אבל בעצם כי אני היחיד. בסדר. גם, כי אלוקים יהיה מאוד כועס, אבל זה מובן למה הוא יהיה כועס, נכון? מאוד טוב.
מרצה: כולם היו כמו, מה? מה זה הדבר הזה של שבת? אגב, הם כבר ידעו. אתם יודעים איך הם ידעו, נכון? הם שמרו אותה במצרים.
תלמיד: במצרים?
מרצה: במרה. אנחנו קוראים את הפסח במרה, נכון? שי, שי, שי, יום, טוב, כתיב. כבר הייתה שבת.
אבל בכל מקרה, הקב"ה אמר לי, אתם יודעים למה? הייתי כמו, למה? מה זה הדבר הזה עם שבת? אה, כי ששת ימים - תודה רבה. עכשיו אנחנו מבינים למה.
ואז הוא המשיך הלאה, אתם יודעים למה? לא כתוב "כי", נכון? כתוב "למען". יהיה נחמד, ייתן לך שכר, אבל באמת מובן.
אז הוא אמר עוד חמישה דברים, שלכולם אין אפילו את הרמה הזו של הסבר. אתה אפילו לא צריך איום או הבטחה מאלוקים כדי לעשות אותם, נכון?
תלמיד: למה?
מרצה: הוא הולך לגאנה.
תלמיד: לא, שם זה נגמר.
מרצה: כל הדברים האלה, הם מסבירים את עצמם. ואם מישהו אומר - אז הוא הרס את זה. כי בואו ניקח משהו שמסביר את עצמו: אם אני אומר לך יש - אתה מיד אומר, "כן, זה הגיוני."
עכשיו אתה רוצה - אני רוצה לספר לך משהו. רגע אחד. אני יכול לומר שיש בעצם, אני חושב שהם אומרים שזה - הגרי"ז עשה את זה פשוט, העובדה שהתורה כתבה את זה, זה מה שעושה את זה כל כך פשוט.
תלמיד: אני אספר לך את החלק בפער עם דברים אחרים.
מרצה: זה מה שאבחזיה אמר, ממש.
תלמיד: אני יודע, אני יודע, יש לך אחרים - הבינה המלאכותית שלך עובדת טוב.
מרצה: הבינה המלאכותית שלי?
תלמיד: כן, אמרתי שזה קצת קצר, אבל זה קצת קצר.
מרצה: תקשיבו, מאוד חשוב להבין את זה. כשאתה רוצה להבין מה זה הדבר הגדול - אני חושב שאתם יודעים שזה גדול, זה באמת גדול - כי הדף שלי רוב הזמן, זה לא כמו שברגע שאמרתי לכם זה כמו, "כן, עצמו רק לומר את זה מסביר את זה." בדרך כלל זה כמו, "טוב, אני חושב שהוא אמר את זה, אולי הוא יודע על מה הוא מדבר, אז אולי אקח את זה ברצינות," או "אתה יודע, היה לנו עין טובה מהרמב"ם, אז אולי זה טוב," וכן הלאה. לכן מה שאני אומר לכם משהו, בדרך כלל זה לא נקרא מן השמים. אתה לא אומר, "וואו, הם שמו - אלוקים בעצמו ירד עם מרכבתו ואמר לנו את זה." הבנתם?
כשמישהו אומר משהו שהוא כל כך מובן - כשאני אומר מובן, אני לא מתכוון שאתה יודע את זה מקודם. כי זה לא - אני לא חושב שזה נכון שכולם ידעו לפני זה. כשאמרתי, "זה צריך הסבר," אני לא מתכוון - אני לא הולך להיות צדיק שאמר את זה בצורה לא נכונה. אני לא מתכוון שכולם ידעו שלא לרצוח.
אתם יודעים איך אני יודע שלא כולם ידעו את זה? כן, הם עשו את זה מאז ומעולם. אז הבן אדם השני הראשון באנושות, לפי הסיפור של פרשת בראשית, היה רוצח. ברור שהוא לא חשב שזה מובן מאליו שרע לרצוח. כמובן, במובן מסוים הוא כן, כי הסיפור ממשיך עם הקב"ה שאומר לו, "מה קורה איתך?" אבל לא כל כך מובן.
אבל כשאני אומר לך - בסדר, אז זה רק האדם הראשון. מה עם האדם ה-10 וה-20 וה-30? הם גילו. הם גילו. אתה יכול לגלות את זה. זה מה שאני מנסה לומר.
מרצה: הם לא מולדים במובן שאתה לא יכול לגלות את זה. זה פשוט במובן שאם אני אומר לך את זה, אז אתה כמו, "וואו, אתה אומר לי משהו אמיתי." אתם רואים, יש הבדל גדול בין שאני אומר לך משהו וזה משהו שכבר ידעת - ולכן זה פשוט, כמו, "תודה רבה, מובן" - ובין שאני אומר לך משהו שאתה יודע רק כי אמרתי לך, או לפחות קצת - אולי אתה יודע את זה רק כי אמרתי לך. אבל כשאני אומר לך את זה, אתה לא - אתה לא הולך ואומר, "אני יודע את זה כי הוא אמר לי," או אפילו "כי הוא הוכיח לי את זה," או אפילו "כי הוא עשה לי מופת," הוא עשה את - המהלך הכי טוב במדרש. וככה אני יודע את זה. הוא אמר לי משהו שהוא ברור כמו שבעת הרקיעים נפתחים והארץ נפתחת.
תלמיד: למה השתמשת בתנועה הזו? זה לא משאלה. בוא יהיה לנו משימה לחלק הברור - לחלק הברור.
מרצה: זה מה שבהירות היא.
תלמיד: זה מה שאני מדבר עליו?
מרצה: כן.
תלמיד: כשאני אומר - מה אתה חושב שההבדל הוא? מה אתה חושב שההבדל הוא? אז מה? לכן.
מרצה: אז לכן, מה שאני מנסה לומר הוא שאם אתה אומר, "זה פשוט, אנחנו לא צריכים שאלוקים ירד מהשמים לומר את זה" - זה שטויות. זה אולי פשוט במובן שכשזה נאמר לך, זה ההוכחה של עצמו. אבל זה לא פשוט במובן שכולם יודעים את זה. זה לא נכון שכולם יודעים את זה. אני מכיר הרבה אנשים שלא יודעים את זה. ועוד יותר אנשים ממש לא יודעים את זה. במילים אחרות, הם מעולם לא שמעו על הבעיה. אתה יכול לומר, "יודע את זה," אבל אתה כבר יודע את זה. אבל יש הרבה אנשים, ואני יכול להראות לך את זה, הרבה תרבויות אפילו, או הרבה דורות שלא יודעים את זה.
ברגע שאתה עושה את הכלל הזה - במילים אחרות, בואו נחשוב, אני יכול להיכנס מאוד עמוק על זה ולדבר על, כמו, כמות הביקורת על רב סעדיה על שאמר שהמצווה השכלית היא כי זה לא משהו שיש בו משהו שכלי במידה האחרת. שכלי זה רק אלוקים והמלאכים שלו. זה מה שאני אומר, נכון? לכן הם לא יכולים להיות מצוות, כי רק אלוקים בעצמו והמלאכים שלו הם שכליים.
תלמיד: אבל הם מדברים אחד לשני? יש עקרונות אחרים - האלבם הקדוש ויותר טוב בספר שלנו שאנחנו קוראים בשמונה פרקים - אהבה אומרת רב סעדיה גאון אמר שטויות. הוא אמר שיש מצוות, אין מצוות. זה מה שהרמ"א הקדוש אמר.
מרצה: אז מה אתה עושה? אני אומר לך עכשיו מה הם. המילה שכלי היא באותו אופן.
תלמיד: לא, הם משתמשים באותו אופן, והדבר העגול ש-
מרצה: עכשיו אני אומר לך להאמין לי כי אין לי סבלנות להראות לך את כל ההוכחות, אבל יש דברים שאומרים לא, בדיוק.
תלמיד: אז זה הכיוון השני, אבל זה לא למה הרב היה כועס על רב סעדיה על שאמר שכלי.
מרצה: הרב היה כועס על רב סעדיה על שאמר, אז הוא לא היה כועס עליו על שאמר שמיעה. זה לא היה ההפך. הרב היה כועס על רב סעדיה על שאמר שכלי כי הוא חושב שרב סעדיה לא מבין מה שכל אומר. הוא חושב שכל דבר שנשמע הגיוני הוא שכל. להישמע הגיוני זה לא שכל. זה לא הגיוני - זה, במילים אחרות, השאלה שהציוויים עונים עליה, לפחות החלק השני שלהם, היא לא השאלה מה האמת.
אין שום אמת בשום מקום שאומרת שאתה לא צריך לרצוח אף אחד, או לפחות לא במובן פשוט. במובן מורכב כלשהו, כן, כי לכן אנחנו אומרים שאלוקים אמר את זה. אבל במובן פשוט, אין.
מרצה: אבל אם אני - אני אגיד לך איך זה פשוט. זה פשוט במובן, בדיוק - זה פשוט במובן של התשובה לשאלה שלרוב האנשים צריכה להיות, שהיא: מה יהיה כלל טוב לשים על ארון הקודש שלנו בבית הכנסת שלנו? מה יהיה כלל טוב לארגן את החברה שלי? זו השאלה.
ועכשיו, לסוג כזה של שאלה, אני יכול לספר לך שזה כלל טוב כי מלאך בא ואמר לי את זה. זו תהיה דרך אחת לעשות כללים טובים. אני יכול לספר לך שזה כלל טוב כי אם אני אסביר לך באריכות ששוק חופשי הוא דבר טוב - כי כשמילטון פרידמן אמר, כשהוא כתב ספר, ואז מישהו אחר כתב ספר אחר, אבל מסתבר שהוא צדק כי הוא עשה ניסוי ארוך והוא הראה לך את כל זה - בסדר, אולי אשתכנע. אבל זה לא מסביר את עצמו. זה לא מובן מאליו.
מרצה: דברים מובנים מאליהם: אם מישהו בא ואומר, "יש לך שאלה, כמו איך אתה צריך לחיות את החיים שלך? איך אתה צריך להתייחס לבני אדם אחרים? תן לי לספר לך: אל תרצח." כולם אומרים, "זה כלל טוב."
"לא חשבתי על זה קודם. בהתחלה חשבתי אולי אנחנו צריכים ללכת ולרצוח ומי שהוא הרוצח הכי גדול צריך לנצח. אני לא יודע. לא הבנתי. אבל ברגע שאמרת לי את הכלל, זה מאוד מובן."
זה מובן במובן שזה מסביר את עצמו. זה לא צריך יותר הסבר. זו הצעה ממש טובה. היו הרבה אנשים שאמרו שזו לא הצעה טובה. אבל אנשים נורמליים חושבים שזו הצעה טובה.
תלמיד: מה תהליך החשיבה לפני זה? לפני שמישהו אומר לך את זה? אני לא מבין.
מרצה: כולכם אנשים טובים מדי. אני לא צריך להגיע למסקנה עכשיו. כולנו אנשים נחמדים מדי שחושבים שרצח זה רע. האם זה בגלל שזה כלל אצבע יותר טוב מהאחרים? כי האחרים גם אולי נכונים. כי הם לא באמת שונים קטגורית. בואו נעשה כלל כמו איך אתה קובע איך לעשות חותכי ברזל.
מרצה: עכשיו, אתה מיד חושב שזה כלל טוב. למה? למה זה כלל טוב? אני חושב שזה כלל נורא. תסביר.
תלמיד: להסביר? לא, לא, לא, אני לא יכול להסביר. אם אתה הולך להתחיל להסביר אז אנחנו לא מדברים על זה.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: אני חושב שהחברה תהיה מדהימה אם תנכש את הרעים.
מרצה: מי מדבר על אנשים רעים? רצח אומר אנשים טובים.
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, רצח לא אומר... זו רק בעיית תרגום. זה אומר אל תהרוג אף אחד שלא מגיע לו למות.
מרצה: מה זה אומר "מגיע"? אה, שאלה טובה. נגלה בשבוע הבא, פרשת משפטים. אתה לא אומר כלום כאן. אני אומר משהו מאוד פשוט. רצח בהגדרה אומר רצח לא מוצדק. אני יודע. אז כשאתה אומר שאתה יכול להצדיק הרבה רציחות, אתה לא מדבר איתי. אתה מדבר עם מישהו אחר. פרשת משפטים מדברת על זה.
תלמיד: אני לא מתכוון לרצח מוצדק כשאתה אומר רע. כשאני אומר רע, אני מתכוון כמו עז ואריה. לזה אני מתכוון רע. במילים אחרות, אני צריך לאכול. הרציחות האלה לא מוצדקות.
מרצה: אלה לא מוצדקות בשביל האריה?
תלמיד: זה מאוד מוצדק.
מרצה: למה לא?
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון? הוא צריך לשרוד. ככה אתה שורד.
מרצה: מאוד טוב.
תלמיד: בשביל החיים, זה טוב בשבילך.
מרצה: זה לא טוב בשבילך. זה לא טוב. אני רק אומר לך שאתה רואה שזה לא טוב. לא חשבת - חשבת שזה יהיה רעיון טוב.
תלמיד: אני חושב שזה רעיון מדהים. אין בעיה. אני לא הולך לשחק איתך קלפים.
מרצה: אני לא מבין למה אתה - מה אתה מבהיר? אני באמת לא משחק משחק. כלומר, אני מנסה לספר לך שהייתה הבנה כזו שתרצח היה טוב. לא הייתה הבנה. אתה ממשיך לחשוב שיש הבנות. לכולנו יש את הדרך המוזרה והמצחיקה הזו לחשוב שאנשים שלא מבינים, מבינים דברים. זו טעות גדולה.
אלוקים, אני יכול לדבר איתך על זה 500 שנה. תקשיבו לי. תקשיבו לי. אם אני אקבל אתכם - תן לי אף פעם לא להקשיב לי - אבל תקשיבו לי. אתם ממשיכים לחשוב שהתגלות היא משהו שבא להתנגד למשהו שמישהו חשב אחרת. אף אחד לא חושב דברים אחרת.
תלמיד: אתה אמרת את זה.
מרצה: אני לא אמרתי את זה. אתה אמרת את זה. אתה אמרת שהבחור ירד -
תלמיד: נניח שזה גם -
מרצה: לא, זה היה מאוד ברור להם.
תלמיד: בדיוק. זה לא היה ברור להם קודם.
מרצה: בדיוק. משהו לא היה ברור. לא להיות ברור לא אומר שחשבת שטויוטה נחמדה של רצח תהיה טובה. זה אומר שאני לא יודע - אף אחד לא שקל את זה. אתה אפילו לא יכול לדמיין את זה כי אתה כל כך עם הקב"ה, כל כך יהודי, כל כך הרבה. ואתה, אגב, רק כדי להיות מאוד ברור, אתה כל כך - אתה כל כך משוכנע מההתגלות הזו. יש כל כך הרבה דברים שאתה כל כך משוכנע מההתגלות הזו שכל פעם שאני אומר לך שמישהו חשב משהו אחרת, אתה מתחיל לדמיין את השטיקלאך תורה המפוארים והמוזרים האלה.
אבל אני לא אומר לך את זה. אני אומר לך בדרך, כמו, תדמיין שמישהו בא - אני אפילו לא יכול לספר לך את זה כי זה מאוד קשה לדמיין עולם אחר.
מרצה: אני יכול לספר, כמו, משהו כמו, תדמיין שמישהו, כמו, אני אתן לך דוגמה. תחשוב על המצאה טכנית. אבל כשאתה אומר שהרגת את האשמר של רצח, זו הבעיה.
תלמיד: לא, אני אספר לך, אני אתן לך דוגמה, בסדר? אני אתן לך, בדיוק. עשינו, במובן מסוים, כן.
מרצה: במובן מסוים, כן. אני אתן לך, טוב, לא לגמרי, אבל במובן של, במובן המוסרי. אני אתן לך דוגמה. אתה יודע שמישהו המציא את הגלגל? מה הם חשבו קודם? האם הם חשבו ש...
תלמיד: אני יכול לספר לך מה הם חושבים, אגב, אבל זה יהיה הסבר, אבל חשבתי על זה, אגב. ניסיתי להבין את זה. ואתה צריך להבין שההסבר הזה הוא לא הסבר שהוא לא הפריך, ואתה לא יכול להפריך אותו.
מרצה: הוא המציא גלגל, ועכשיו שום אדם נורמלי לא משתמש במשהו חוץ מארבעה גלגלים, נכון? מה אנשים חשבו? אתם יודעים שגלגלים זה דבר מוזר. כאילו, מה זה גלגל? שמעתם פעם את הקונספט הזה, כמו המצאת הגלגל? מה זה אומר להמציא גלגל? מה גלגל עושה?
תלמיד: ובכן, מתגלגל.
מרצה: בסדר. עכשיו בואו נחשוב. תגיד לי שכל הישר. אני צריך לסחוב כיסא על הקרקע. תסחוב לי את הכיסא, בסדר? ואם אני עושה משהו שמסתובב, אתה יכול להסביר לי איך גלגל עובד?
תלמיד: סוף סוף השארת משהו על מחזור, נכון? תן לי את הסוודר.
מרצה: למה גלגל מקל עליי את החיים במקום להרים כיסא?
תלמיד: זה עוזר לי לגרור אותו.
מרצה: אה, אתה צריך להרים אותו. אתה יכול לגרור את הכיסא, אבל חדש, והגלגל, אתה עדיין גורר אותו, אגב. קשה לגרור אותו על הקרקע שוב. ולמה גלגל יקל על הגרירה?
תלמיד: למעלה עם הסוס, והסוס—
מרצה: הסוס זה לא המצאת הגלגל. אני מדבר על גלגל. מריצה, בסדר? תסביר לי איך—למה הייתי—למה מישהו היה חושב ש—
תלמיד: אני אסביר לך. כשאתה מתגלגל, כמו מריצה, נכון?
מרצה: כנראה. אל תדמיין מריצה ותגיד לי איך זה עובד. תגיד לי מה—מעולם לא שמעתי על גלגל. תסביר לי למה אני צריך להפסיק לשים גלגלים על הדברים שלי. אני מבין מאוד טוב שקשה לסחוב דברים. אתה לוקח סוס ואתה סוחב אותו. תסביר לי מה קשה עם האדמה?
תלמיד: הרבה יותר קשה עם עגול.
מרצה: אתה חושב שזה הרבה יותר קל? זה לא כאילו אתה נראה כמו סדין דקיק שאתה לא יכול להיכנס לסדין, נכון? אני בסדין. אני יודע שאני גם משתמש בגלגלים ואני מאמין לך במובן הזה, אבל אתה לא יכול—זה מאוד קל. זה לא—אין פה קורקינט, אגב. יש כאן דיבור מחוץ למקור כדי להבין את זה.
תלמיד: מה אתה צריך ללמוד? קצת פיזיקה ומכניקה וכאלה?
מרצה: כן, אני מתכנן משהו פשוט. כשאתה עושה—אתה יודע שכשאתה סוחב את הגלגל שלך, אתה גם עושה את אותה סחיבה כמו קודם. תחשוב על זה. איך זה פחות סחיבה?
תלמיד: אני לא סוחב פחות?
מרצה: לא. אתה צריך לשאת דברים בלי גלגלים. אתה צריך לסחוב אותם על הקרקע, בסדר? אז תסחוב את זה עכשיו. כן, תשים גלגל. אז תגיד לי איך הם מסתובבים כשאני סוחב את זה. למי אכפת אם זה מסתובב? תנסה את זה. איך זה עוזר?
תלמיד: בסדר, טוב. יש לך את הקשר שלי. אני לא יכול להילכד, אבל זה מאוד נכון—
מרצה: כאילו, אתה בעצם מנסה להגיד לי שאתה צריך לחזור אחורה. אתה צריך לחזור אחורה. אני מנסה להגיד לך משהו.
תלמיד: אני יודע. אני מנסה להגיד לך את הדברים האלה.
מרצה: לא, זה לא, אגב. גם היום, זו שאלה מאוד רצינית, כנה. לא רצינית, אבל זו שאלה טובה. אתה צריך ללכת לשאול את מורה הפיזיקה שלך למה אנחנו—איך גלגלים עובדים. כי זה לא מובן מאליו. אתה לא יודע את התשובה. איך גלגלים עובדים? אולי אתה כן כי במקרה—למדתי את זה, אבל זה לא פשוט. אתה צריך הרבה עבודה כדי להבין איך גלגלים עובדים. איך גלגלים עובדים?
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה מה שהתכוונתי. פשוט תשיג את הגלגל.
מרצה: אל תחשוב על—רגע. אז מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך זה עכשיו משהו אחר. עכשיו כשבחור עשה גלגל אחרי הרבה—אני לא—אתה לא צריך להסביר איך זה עובד. אבל כשבחור המציא גלגל, נכון, זה היה ברור שגלגל זה יותר טוב מבלי גלגל, בסדר?
עכשיו מה הם חשבו לפני זה? ובכן, אני יכול להגיד לך—אם אתה רוצה, אני יכול לתת לך את זה כמו רוח מוזרה. למה הגלגל הזה? זה סתם—יש—בואו—אני יכול אפילו לתת לך כמו הסבר פיזי. אתה יודע, יש—יש—איך קוראים לזה? יש מתח—תשומת לב—איך קוראים לזה? חיכוך. לגלגל יש בדיוק אותו חיכוך, אז לכן זה צריך להיות אותו דבר. אתה נוגע באדמה כל הזמן. הגלגל לא גורם לך להרים. אתה אף פעם לא יורד מהקרקע. אם היית עף, אני יכול להבין שזה יותר קל כי אוויר נראה יותר קל לנוע דרכו מאשר אדמה. אבל כל עוד אתה סוחב על הקרקע, למי אכפת אם זה מסתובב או לא? אני לא רואה את ההבדל.
זה מה שהם חשבו לפני, עד שהבחור המציא גלגל והוא ראה שיש איזה הבדל, גם אם הוא לא ידע להסביר תיאורטית. אולי הם כן. יש איזה הבדל כשזה מסתובב. איכשהו אין—אין כל כך הרבה הגבלה. יש איזה הבדל. עכשיו זה מה שהם חשבו. אבל זה לא נכון, כי אז מישהו יכול להתווכח איתך. נגיד שזה היה דבר תיאורטי. מישהו יכול להתווכח איתך, אתה יודע, הגלגל מוסיף בעיות. עכשיו יש לך—
אבל בכל מקרה, זה כן מוסיף כמה בעיות. אתה צריך ציר, אתה צריך להבין איך לגרום לו להסתובב בחופשיות, וכן הלאה.
מרצה: עכשיו, מה שקרה היה, אף אחד לא חשב על גלגל. ואגב, גם אתה לעולם לא היית חושב על זה. אתה פשוט קיבלת את זה, תודה רבה. מעולם לא חשבת איך לעשות גלגלים. אולי יש משהו פשוט כמו זה שיאפשר לך לעוף בלי מנוע, בלי מטוס, שפשוט לא חשבת עליו. ניסית ללכת על מטוס—לא, פשוט תלך שני צעדים קדימה, אז אחד ככה, ואתה עף. אני לא יודע. איך זה עובד? הפיזיקה, הצד הזה, הם הבינו איך זה עובד. פשוט מעולם לא חשבת על זה כי זה נשמע מטורף. כאילו, למה היית חושב על זה, נכון?
עכשיו יש גם המצאות מוסריות או המצאות חברתיות שהן אותו דבר. זה לא שהם חשבו שרצח זה טוב, כמו שאיזה אנטי-מוסרן מוזר יכול לבוא עם תיאוריה—שאתה יכול לבוא עם תיאוריות כאלה. אבל אחרי שמישהו גילה את זה, אז אתה יכול להגיד, אתה יודע מה, קראתי שכמה אנשי ממשלה החליטו שגלגלים מרובעים אולי יעבדו יותר טוב מגלגלים עגולים למטרות מסוימות, או גלגלים משולשים. אני לא יודע. כי תחשוב על זה—משולשים צריכים להיות אפילו יותר טובים, נכון?
תלמיד: אם הכי פחות.
מרצה: כן, נכון? זה אותו דבר מסיבות שונות. אבל מה אתה מתכוון למה? אתה צריך למזער את המגע עם האדמה. אז אם זה משולש, אתה יכול לגעת רק בנקודה.
תלמיד: אה, אז גלגל עובד בצורה יותר מסובכת ממה שהעמדתי פנים קודם.
מרצה: בסדר. בכל מקרה, מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך זה, משולשים יותר טובים מגלגלים. בכל מקרה, מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך זה, תחשוב על זה.
תלמיד: אני חושב שאתה מסביר—אני חושב שהסברת שהקללה של להיות יהודי היא שאתה לעולם לא יכול לא להיות יהודי כי אתה תמיד עושה את הדברים שהם עושים. הם פשוט אף פעם לא שקלו את זה.
מרצה: אני רק מתאר לך איך הדברים האלה הם המצאות כל כך גדולות, כל כך גדולות שהן מראות את עצמן על ידי שהומצאו או נגלו. לא ברור שאתה יכול להגיע לזה על ידי שאתה מנמק את עצמך לתוך זה. אולי אתה יכול למצוא סיבות לזה אחר כך, אבל זה לא ברור.
לכן אני אומר שאני לא חושב שזה נכון אפילו להגיד שדברים כאלה הם סבירים במובן שכולם חושבים—כולם חושבים אותם אחרי שהם הומצאו ונאמרו לך. וזה כמו, ברור שאנחנו צריכים לעשות את זה. מה חשבנו עד עכשיו? התשובה היא שלא חשבנו, או שלא חשבנו על השאלה הזו בכלל. אפילו רק להפוך את זה לשאלה זה כבר התגלות גדולה, כמו שאתה רואה כמה קשה לי להפוך כמה דברים פשוטים לשאלות.
וזה מה שזה אומר שאמרנו עכשיו שזה דבר טוב. מבין? לכן עשינו—התורה מדברת על הקב"ה שמתגלה על הר סיני ואומר לנו את עשרת הדברים הפשוטים האלה. היא לא אומרת לנו דברים מסובכים. כאילו אם נגיד שהקב"ה אמר לנו שהשם שם אותנו מגלית לגלית [הטקסט נקטע באמצע משפט]
מרצה: התשובה היא שלא חשבנו, או שלא חשבנו על השאלה הזו בכלל. אפילו רק להפוך את זה לשאלה זה כבר התגלות גדולה. כמו שאתה רואה כמה קשה לי להפוך כמה דברים פשוטים לשאלות. וזה מה שזה אומר שאמרנו, עכשיו, זה דבר טוב, מבין?
לכן התורה מדברת על הקב"ה שמתגלה על הר סיני ואומר לנו את עשרת הדברים הפשוטים האלה. היא לא אומרת לנו דברים מסובכים. אם נגיד שהקב"ה אמר לנו שאשם פטור מגנב או משהו, אנחנו כמו, בסדר, סביר, אבל לא מובן מאליו. זה לא משהו שאני אומר לך ואתה כמו, "וואו, זו הדרך היחידה שאני יכול לחיות מעכשיו." לא, זו לא הדרך היחידה שאתה יכול לחיות מעכשיו. עדיין יכול להיות לי חיים שבהם השם הוא זה שהוא, ואני יכול אפילו לתת לך תיאוריה למה לא.
אז אני ממשיך לגעת בדבר הזה. אבל גלגל, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: זה מעולם לא היה, לא היה מושג, נכון? אבל רצח, בטוח היה מושג כי זה קרה, נכון?
תלמיד: המושג של רצח זה לא המושג של אני חותך את הראש של אחי.
מרצה: עכשיו אני אבוד.
תלמיד: מצוין.
מרצה: זו הייתה הנקודה.
תלמיד: כן, כי זה יכול להיות סתם מסיבה מוצדקת.
מרצה: לא! אה, אתה כבר עונה על שאלת ההצדקה. חיתוך ראש של אח יכול היה להיות עם הצדקה נוספת.
תלמיד: לא, זה לא רצח.
מרצה: בדיוק. לפני ששמעת על הרעיון של רצח, זה לא רצח כי אני חושב שהוא מגיע לו. זה לא רצח כי, אני לא יודע, הבחור היה עם אשתי, חתכתי לו את הראש. מה זה קשור לרצח? מי נתן לי את המושג הזה?
תלמיד: כן, אתה אפילו לא יודע על מה אני מדבר.
מרצה: בסדר, הבנתי. לא שמעת, אף אחד לא שמע על תרצח. לא תרצח מניח שיש תרצח. אבל לפני הלא תרצח, תרצח באמת רק אומר משהו שזה לא, זה מה שאני מנסה להגיד. אין תרצח שזה כן.
אגב, אפילו הצדקה—לכן אמרתי לך את הנקודה הזו, ואז תמציא את זה. ממש, אני חושב שהתרגום מתרגם, נגיד שזה משהו כמו, אל תהרוג מישהו ש—אני לא זוכר. מישהו ממש מתרגם את זה ככה.
אז מה האנשים לפני? ההריגה היא? מה זה הריגה? מה הריגה אומרת? הריגה ורצח זה לא אותו דבר.
תלמיד: אז הם לא אותו דבר.
מרצה: לא, הריגה זה סתם אני נפטר מבעיה. האם להזיז כיסא זו בעיה? האם זה סוג של דבר שאני צריך להצדיק? אני לא יודע. הכיסא היה שם ואני רציתי להיות כאן. הבחור היה בדרך שלי. דחפתי אותו מהדרך שלי.
תלמיד: כן, זה מאוד טוב.
מרצה: אני לא רוצה שתחשוב אחרת. בבקשה. זה מאוד טוב. אני רק מנסה להגיד לך שזו הסיבה שזה נקרא התגלות. כי זה משהו שנאמר. זה פשוט. זה מראה את עצמו כאמיתי. אמיתי במובן של דרך טובה לחיות, לא במובן של להיות אמת מוחלטת. וזה הכל.
מגלים לך רצח. רצח, זה התרצח. לא תרצח מגלה לך רצח. רצח זה דבר רע שלא עושים. ועכשיו, זה הכל. אותו דבר עם גניבה ותחמוד. נדבר על תחמוד. אוי אלוהים, אולי לא נדבר. בכל מקרה, זה כל הנקודה.
הדבר היחיד שהוא לא ככה זה שבת, ולכן נתן לך את הסיבה. אולי אפילו במובן מסוים אתה יכול להגיד משהו כמו מנוחה זה לא הסבר מסוים, מנוחה ביום מסוים זה הסבר. זה באמת מה שההסבר נותן לך, נכון?
אתה שם לב שההסבר של שבת לא אומר לך למה לנוח. הוא רק אומר לך למה לנוח ביום השביעי. כי למה לנוח זה ברור. אני אתן לך יום חופש אם לא תשאל אותי שאלות. זה רק לגבי אם אני אומר לך, ובכן, צריך להיות לך יום חופש בדיוק כל יום שביעי. בסדר, ובכן, למה לא כל יום שישי? אני אגיד לך למה.
אז בכל מקרה, אני לא הולך להיכנס למה שרציתי להגיע. אני לא הולך להמשיך שעתיים עכשיו. במקום 28, לפי מכונת מדידת הזמן המוזרה שלי, אתה יודע איך זה עובד. מה זה אומר?
אז עכשיו אני רוצה להגיד לך משהו כאן. עכשיו זה משהו—עכשיו הם מבינים, האם זה נכון? אז בכל מקרה, כל אלה הם התגלותיים. ואני חושב ש, אגב, שאלת אותי קודם, איפה דברים מתחילים, איפה חינוך מתחיל. כמה דברים, לפחות יש תיאוריה שאומרת שאנחנו צריכים את הסוגים האלה של סיפורי התגלות, ואנחנו צריכים התגלות בסיפורי ההתגלות, כי באמת אין דרך להגיע לשם אחרת.
תלמיד: אמרת את זה. לכולם יש מחוקק.
מרצה: כן. אז עכשיו אנחנו קוראים את עשרת הדברים האלה. כמו שאמרתי, אנכי ולא יהיה—דברים תיאולוגיים שהגיוניים בהינתן שאולי לא מובן מאליו אלא אם כן אתה רואה את זה, אבל זה ניתן ככה. אף אחד לא חולק על כיבוד אב ואם, חוץ ממהפכת שנות ה-60, שהיא—שגם אתה היית שוקל אותה רק בגלל שהיה לך הראשון.
תלמיד: זו מרידה.
מרצה: בדיוק. זו היפוך. זה לא חוסר של זה.
תלמיד: אני מסכים. זו היפוך.
מרצה: הגרוע ביותר, המצב הגרוע עוד יותר הוא שאתה אפילו לא צריך את זה. זה איפה שאנחנו עכשיו. אבל סתם באופן טבעי, אנחנו חוזרים לזה, כי ככה באמת העולם עובד.
בסדר, שבת, פשוט. לא תרצח, לא תנאף, לא תגנוב, לא תענה, לא תחמוד—כל הדברים האלה, הם גם מאוד ברורים. ועל ידי שהם מאוד ברורים, הם גם מאוד בסיסיים.
עכשיו אנחנו יכולים לדבר על הקונספט של להיות בסיסיים, נכון? הם מאוד בסיסיים על ידי שהם מאוד ברורים, נכון? אנחנו בונים הכל. כל השאלות, במובן מסוים כל השאלות שיש לנו, כל הדברים היותר מסובכים שהם לא התגלות כל כך ישירה, הם יותר מסובכים כי יש דרכים לשים ביחד את הדברים האלה, נכון?
סוג של אין שום הלכה בכל התורה, לפחות בכל משפטים, שהיא לא פרט באחד מהדברים האלה. אני חושב שזה נכון, נכון? חלק מאלה, כשאתה קורא את אלה, אנשים עושים את זה, חלק מהם מאולצים. אבל הם מאולצים רק במובן של לנסות להגיד, אה, זה כולל את כל המצוות.
אבל אם אני שואל אותך משהו כמו, למה בכלל יש שאלה של—תגיד לי שאלה. תגיד לי שאלה מהפרשה.
תלמיד: השבת אבידה.
מרצה: למה יש שאלה כזו? למה מישהו היה—מה הזמן הבסיסי?
תלמיד: כי אתה לא יכול לגנוב.
מרצה: או שניהם, זה מבוסס על לא תגנוב. או שחלק יטענו, זה יהיה גניבת דעת, אני לא יודע אם אמא צריכה לקחת את זה, מה שזה לא יהיה.
תלמיד: בושה לנצח.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: בושה לנצח.
מרצה: זה סוג של דבר, גניבת דעת גם.
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: זה נזיקין. שברת את הדבר שלי. לקחת ממני משהו באיזושהי דרך. אנחנו מקבלים...
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אבל זה הדבר הבסיסי. זה הדבר שפשוט אומר משהו שהוא שלי, אל תיקח את זה. עכשיו, איך זה? מה זה שלך? כולנו יכולים לענות על השאלה מה הדבר הזה. אה, ובכן, עד כמה זו הבעיה שלך? כל השאלות האלה הן רק—התחושה הבסיסית שלהן היא רק לא תגנוב. אין שום דבר אחר בסיסי בהן. יש הרבה פרטים, הרבה מהעולם מאוד מסובך.
תלמיד: אז לא תגנוב גם מציג בעלות, או שזה קודם?
מרצה: כן, אני חושב שכן. אני לא יודע לגבי להציג היסטורית, אבל אתה יכול לדמיין—בדיוק כמו שאמרתי לך את כל היחס הזה—אתה יכול לדמיין עולם שבו לא תגנוב לא הגיוני.
תלמיד: יוסף בן מתתיהו נראה מאשים את קין בזה, בקיום בעלות, גבולות.
מרצה: כן, במובן מסוים. אבל בואו רק ננסה לבסס את הדברים האלה. אלה יותר מסובכים, אמרתי את זה. אבל זה דבר ברור. זה כמעט טאוטולוגיה. מה שלא שלך לא שייך לך. זה מה שלא תגנוב אומר, נכון? וכל השאלות השונות מבוססות על זה. ואנחנו יכולים להבין לכן למה מישהו ישים בספר שמות וישים את זה שם, נכון?
עכשיו הגענו לאחרון, וכתוב לא תחמוד. יש לי שתי שאלות. ראשית, זה לא אומר - זה ממשיך והולך. זה חוזר על עצמו. למה שלא יאמר? זה פשוט ככה, נכון? לא פשוט. בלוחות, תמיד עושים את זה כאילו זה פשוט. אבל זה לא, נכון? יש רשימה ארוכה יותר, וזה אפילו אומר פעמיים. יש שניים מהם. אז משהו מוזר. זו מוזרות אחת.
המוזרות השנייה היא שאני אפילו לא יודע מה זה אומר. ובגלל שאני אפילו לא יודע מה זה אומר, אני בטוח לא יודע למה זה פשוט. נראה לי שיכולתי לעשות תשע דברות וכולם היו שמחים. אם הייתי מפספס לא תחמוד, או לא תגנוב, או אפילו שבת או לא תשא - אנשים היו אומרים, זה מוזר, חסר משהו בסיסי. בתקווה. אולי אחר כך זה בעצם לפני עכשיו, אבל אפשר להבין.
אבל גם אחר כך, אם אני מוציא לא תחמוד, יש לי גרסה - מצאתי בכתב יד חדש, אין בו לא תחמוד. כן, זה נשמע הרבה יותר חזק מזה. לך על הספר עם זה. אז בסדר, אנחנו שמחים, אתה יודע. האם זה יכול להיות סיכום של הכל?
תלמיד: זה יכול להיות.
מרצה: אני חושב שכן. לא סיכום. משהו שקשור לכל זה.
אז ה - אנחנו צריכים לגלות את זה. זו שאלת אבן עזרא. לא המצאתי אף אחת מהשאלות האלה. כולן שאלות בסיסיות. אז אנחנו צריכים להבין. אני הולך לתת לכם את התשובה שאבן עזרא נתן, לחלק מהתשובה שלו.
מרצה: זה פותר יותר בעיות ממה שזה יכול. אבל אנחנו לא יודעים מה לא תחמוד, אז בסדר, אנחנו שמחים, אתה יודע. האם לא תחמוד יכול להיות כמו סיכום של הכל? זה יכול להיות. אני חושב שכן. לא סיכום. משהו שקשור לכל זה.
אז, הגענו לזה וגילינו. זו שאלת אבן עזרא. לא המצאתי אף אחת מהשאלות האלה. כולן שאלות בסיסיות. אז, אנחנו צריכים להבין. אני הולך לתת לכם את התשובה שאבן עזרא נתן לחלק מהתשובות שלו.
זה חייב להיות שאנחנו לומדים שמונה פרקים. זוכרים איפה התחלתי? התחלנו על איך שיש פעולות חיצוניות כמו לא תגנוב, לא תרצח, לא תנאף, לא תענה - אף פעם לא אומר לא תענה - שהן דברים שאתה עושה שהם רעים, שאתה עושה לאנשים אחרים ספציפית שהם רעים.
זוכרים שאמרנו שזה לא מספיק לא לגנוב - אתה צריך להיות נישט גנב. דבר מעניין. מעולם לא שמעתם על זה, נכון? בעלי המוסר לא באמת מדברים על זה, נכון? כי הם קצת יותר מדי תפוסים בפנימיות שלא מתייחסת לשום דבר.
אבל הם כן אומרים דברים כמו שלא צריך להיות לך קנאה. אל תהיה מקנא. שזה רק דרך לומר אל תהיה גנב פנימי, נכון? או שהם אומרים דברים כמו, כן, כמובן, אל תעשה ניאוף עם אשת איש. אבל גם לא צריך לדמיין לעשות את זה. אל תהיה נואף פנימי, נכון? כמו שחברנו הגדול ישו אמר, כבר שכבת איתה בלבך. זוכרים? אז, זוכרים שהוא אמר את זה?
תלמיד: לא.
מרצה: אז, יש סיפור, אני לא יודע, כתוב את זה, ועכשיו, אנחנו אומרים את זה. זוכרים שאנחנו אומרים את זה, אנחנו אומרים שזה יסודי, במובן מסוים. זה יסודי, כמישהו שעושה, שכמו, אני חושב שרובנו לא הולכים להיות גנבים ורוצחים ומנאפים, שזה חלק מ, הייתי כל כך שמח עם זה, כי זה הדבר שרובנו עושים.
אז זה מה שעשרת הדברות אומרות לנו במעמד הר סיני. זה כמו צ'ק, צ'ק, צ'ק, עשרת הדברות. תגיד את זה בימי הגמרא, נכון? אשרי מי שלא חמד. זה לא הגיוני במיוחד. מה זה אומר? אף אחד לא עושה את זה. אבל כמובן, במובן מסוים, כולנו עושים את זה. אולי אני מגזים.
אבל מה אני אומר? אנחנו אומרים שיש משהו בסיסי בלהיות אדם טוב שזה לא מספיק ולא היינו סומכים - אמרתי לכם את זה כאן ואמרתי בדרוש בבורו פארק - אף אחד מכם לא היה סומך על מישהו שהוא כמו הבריסקער האידיאלי. אף אחד לא צריך להתקרב, נכון? כמו, "כן, אני חושב שאני צריך לרצוח אותך אבל יש לי התגברות נהדרת, אני בחור נהדר." לא, לא, לא.
כמו, באמת, כמו, באמת...
תלמיד: תוקפנות, כן, משהו כמו תוקפנות, והוא צריך לשים את התוקפנות שלו במשהו אחר.
מרצה: לא אומר שזה טוב ל... זה אדם יותר טוב. כמו, הגמרא אפילו לא מעמידה פנים שזה יותר טוב. זה רק מה שנכון לעשות. אבל אתה לא אדם יותר טוב אם... זה הדיון האקראי של פרק ו'. אבל בטוח, אתה בכלל לא אדם טוב. תשכח מזה.
אבל מישהו שלא... שחסרה לו המידה הפנימית, בואו נגיד, זה לא אדם רע. כולנו מסכימים על זה. אבל אני חושב שכולנו מסכימים עם זה. ולכן, נראה לי מאוד חשוב שהמשמעות של עשרת הדברות - אם יש משהו בסיסי שהם צריכים לכלול להיות אדם טוב - ואיפה זה שאתה עושה משהו כמו שזה משתמע וסתם ככה זה...
ובכן, זו פעולה שהיא מהם. עשרת הדברות, הרמב"ם אומר את כל ארבעת הדברים האלה שאמרתי לכם עד עכשיו. זה לא הפשט שלי. כתוב במדרש, כתוב ברמב"ם מביא את זה ופחות או יותר במפורש.
הפשט אומר, אני הולך לסיים עם הפשט הזה כי יש לי עוד הרבה מה לומר, אבל הפשט אומר ככה: כמובן, אלה דברים שלא צריך לעשות. אני רוצה לספר לכם משהו. גם לא צריך לרצות לעשות אותם.
אז כולם כמו, הממ, האם אני רוצה? התשובה היא לא, האם אתה רוצה? האם אתה רוצה לגנוב? אתה חושב שהבחור... אתה חושב שזה שלך. זה דיון אחר. אבל אתה לא רוצה לגנוב. לפחות יש לך את המידה הזו. אני חושב שאחרת שום דבר לא היה מתחיל. רוב האנשים היו הורגים אם לא הייתה להם המידה הזו.
אומר אל תרצה. עכשיו כולם מבינים. לכן יש כל כך הרבה מילים בזה. אתם יודעים למה יש כל כך הרבה מילים? אני אסביר לכם.
תלמיד: למה?
מרצה: יש שתי גרסאות. אני יכול להיכנס לפרטים. אבל בעצם כי לא תחמוד זה לא דבר חדש. זה לא דבר חדש. אין באמת עשר מצוות במובן מסוים. אפשר לספור את זה כעשר מצוות, אבל זה לא אובייקט. ללא תחמוד אין אובייקט חדש.
בניגוד לאדם שיגיד שלא תחמוד זה דבר חדש. זו מצווה שבלב שמתייחסת ללב שלך. לא, זו מצווה שבלב אבל כמו כל מצווה שבלב מתייחסת לפעולה. נכון?
לא תחמוד אומר לא תחמוד בית רעך פירושו אני אגיד לכם מה זה אומר. לפחות דבר אחד שזה אומר. זה אומר אל תרצה את הבית של חברך מספיק כדי ללכת לבית דין ואז להגיד שקנית אותו עם עדים שקרנים.
לא תחמוד בית רעך פירושו לא תגנוב. לא רק לא תגנוב כי לא תחמוד בא ממישהו... לא תחמוד לא אומר... זה מאוד ברור שזה לא אומר אל תהיה אדם שיש לו... כי זה לא קשור ללא תחמוד. זה סתם דבר חדש. אתה צריך להתהפך וללמוד ולא לדאוג לגבי מחשבות. אתה לא צריך לבזבז את השכל הגדול שלך ואת הדמיון הגדול שלך על לדמיין שטויות. אוקיי, זה דבר נחמד.
אבל לא תחמוד פירושו... פירושו אל תהיה מהסוג של בחור שרוצה ואוהב לשכב עם אשת שכנו, אשת חברו, אשת שכנו, נכון? כמובן, זו בעיה כי זה משהו שאנשים כן אוהבים לפעמים. זה לא כל כך קל להגיד שאתה לא, אבל אני מנסה להסביר לכם שזה...
מאוד חשוב. אם אני רואה את אשת חברי ואני סתם אומר, ובכן, זו אישה יפה, היה נחמד, זה לא... זה מאוד חשוב. זה גורם לדברים רעים. אבל זה לא מה שזה אומר. זו קנאה, נכון? זה אומר, לבחור הזה יש אישה כל כך יפה. מי נתן לו את הזכות שתהיה לו אישה יפה ולא לי? אני חושב שאני צריך לקבל את זה. זה מה שמישהו כמו דוד המלך עשה, נכון?
תלמיד: שונה.
מרצה: לא, לא. אני נותן לכם דוגמה אמיתית. יש לנו סיפורים כאלה. בדרך כלל אתה צריך להיות אדם חזק כדי שלאנשים בכלל יהיה הדמיון. לכן אחי אומר רק מלכים עוברים על לא תחמוד.
אז אם אתה מלך, אז יכול להיות לך לא תחמוד. כלומר, גם זה רק בא אליי כי אני לא המלך.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מרצה: ועכשיו לאדם אפילו אין את הסימן של לא תחמוד כי איך אתה הולך לעשות את זה?
אז, לא, לא, אני רק אומר שאשת רעך, זה כמו שרבנו יונה אומר כאן, לא תחמוד לא אומר שאתה צריך לרצות שיהיה לך אותו דבר שיש לבחור ההוא. נכון? בדיוק כמו שכולם מבינים. אני הולך ל, אני רואה בחור יש לו מכונית יפה, הייתי רוצה שתהיה לי המכונית הזו גם. זה לא לא תחמוד. זה אולי...
אנשים חושבים, מדברים על זה. אבל זה לא. אני רוצה את המכונית שלו. למה אני רוצה את המכונית שלו? יש מספיק בחנות. אוקיי, אולי אין מספיק. אנחנו יכולים לדבר על הפרקטיקות, איך זה יעבוד. אבל זה אומר אני רוצה את המכונית שלו. לכן מה אני הולך לעשות? אני הולך לקחת אותה ממנו. איך אני הולך לעשות את זה? לא תגנוב.
איזה אחד פספסנו? לא תרצח. מאוד ברור. הוא לא נותן לי את זה, הורידו לו את הראש.
מי היה העיקרי, מי היה הדוגמה הפרדיגמטית של לא תחמוד? אחאב, מצב הארץ, הרמב"ם הגבוה. אני חושב שהרמב"ם המציא את זה. לא מצאתי את זה. כלומר, יש מדרש. יש מדרש, אבל אני לא יודע אם המדרש הזה נכתב לפני או אחרי הרמב"ם. אבל, ספר המצוות אומר את זה. ספר המצוות אומר את זה. למה זה נכתב? כי כל אחד מהם, היה מישהו שעבר. וזה עובר דרך ההיסטוריה.
אז עכשיו, אני מוצא את זה. מי היה לא תחמוד? אחאב. זוכרים את אחאב? אחאב ראה שיש לו שכן, היה עושה פרדס מאוד טוב לשטיבל שלו. והוא הלך אליו ואמר, אולי תמכור לי את זה, אני אתן לך יותר טוב. מה הבחור אמר? לא למכירה. אני לא בעסק של מכירת כרמים. זה הכרם של אבי, אני לא נותן לך את זה.
ואחאב הלך הביתה והוא סיפר לאשתו, איזבל, ואמר, אתה יודע, חשבתי לעשות עסקה עם הבחור הזה, אבל הוא לא מעוניין. והיא כמו, אתה מלך? אתה לא יודע.
תלמיד: מי סיפר לי את הדבר הזה? היא הייתה מצור. היא לא, לא הייתה לה המסורת היהודית שמלך לא באמת יכול לעשות כלום. כמו, אתה יודע איך מלכים עובדים. מלכים מקבלים דברים, הם לא שואלים, נכון?
מרצה: יש את זה, זה אחד מאלה כמו התנצלות יהודית או מדרש. אז הוא בתוך זה שהעולם, אתה רואה שאפילו המלך היהודי הרע לעולם לא היה עושה את זה.
תלמיד: וקדימה, תגיד לו.
מרצה: לא, זה נכון, זה נכון. בימינו כל המלכים היהודים למדו איך לעשות את זה. אבל ביהדות המקורית יש מאוד מעט כוח. כלומר, איפשהו מאוד מעט כוח לכל אחד, לא יכול לעשות כלום לאף אחד.
אז אני חושב שזה מאוד מרשים אם אתה קורא, אבל זה כמו הדבר האחד כמו, אנשים חושבים שזו הבעיה עם עיקרון כל כך חזק. אבל באמת רק בגלל שאנחנו אנרכיסטים, כמו שבית הדין באמת אין לו שום כוח אלא אם הם באמת, באמת בטוחים שהם יכולים לקחת משהו. אחרת, כמו שלבחור יש את זה, כנראה הוא יודע למה. כנראה הוא צודק. נקרא כל דאלים גבר, נכון?
לא, זה עיקרון בסיסי בחוק היהודי שכמו אנחנו הכי גרועים... הדבר הכי נפוץ אגב, זה כמו אנשים חושבים מה הכי, מה הדבר הכי קשה לעשות? הדבר הכי קשה לקחת הוא לקחת כסף מיהודי אחר. זה הדבר הכי קשה. יש לו שטר אחד שיכול להיות פלוס. אני לא אוהב את זה שיש לו. מעולם לא למדת כלום. מה זה סתם אומר, אתה כל כך בטוח שהראב"ד טועה שאתה לוקח כסף מהכיס שלי?
מרצה: אחרת, לבחור יש את זה. כנראה הוא יודע למה. כנראה הוא צודק. זה נקרא "המוציא מחברו עליו הראיה". זה הרא"ש, נכון? לא, זה עיקרון בסיסי בחוק היהודי שזה הכי גרוע, הדבר הכי משפיל.
אגב, אנשים חושבים, מה הדבר הכי קשה לעשות? הדבר הכי קשה לקחת הוא לקחת כסף מ"אדיאט" [רכוש של מישהו]. בהלכה, זה הדבר הכי קשה. יש לו שטר אחד כמו ראיה. פלוס, אני לא אוהב שיש לי את זה. מעולם לא למדת כלום. מה זה סתם אומר, אתה כל כך בטוח ש"יש לי את זה" טועה שאתה לוקח כסף מהכיס שלי?
אה, הדחף החברתי שלך טועה, המזרן שלך, בטוח. כל יום אנחנו עושים את זה. אבל לקחת כסף מהכיס של מישהו. כתוב באחד מחז"ל, זה "שוט של הראש", שחצי אמרתי "אמצע". אתה יודע, זה מלא כמו, אם זה שווה כסף, אז מה אתה צריך בשביל כסף? כן, כי זו דרך להרוויח כסף. אתה לוקח את הכסף של הבחור. זה לא כסף. כסף הוא הדבר הכי חשוב. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף. זה לא כסף.
מרצה: בכל מקרה, איך אני חוזר לנקודה שלי? אז אשת אחאב אמרה לו, מה זאת אומרת אתה מלך? אתה יכול לקחת את זה. אז מה הם עשו? הם עשו את ההוצאה להורג החוקית היחידה בהיסטוריה של התנ"ך. אתם יודעים? שמעתי את זה מהרב שכטר. אנשים לעתים קרובות מדברים על חוקי ההוצאה להורג, כמו שיש יותר מדי דברים להוציא להורג בגללם. הוא אמר שבכל ההיסטוריה של התנ"ך, יש רק אדם אחד שבאמת הרג עם עדים והתראה והכל. משה הרג אנשים על שהיו מחללי שבת, אבל בדרך מוזרה, לא הייתה התראה, זה היה חוץ-שיפוטי. אבל היה רק אדם אחד שעשה עם כל ההלכות. עדי שקר היה מוצדק, הלכתי, זו הדוגמה הטובה ביותר שאנחנו מסוגלים לבדוק כאן, נכון?
תלמיד: איפשהו אחר, לא בתנ"ך, הם ניסו, שושנה.
מרצה: מה זה?
תלמיד: אה, אתה מתכוון שזה לא...
מרצה: הם ניסו למסגר גם.
תלמיד: אוקיי.
מרצה: בכל מקרה, הילד אמר שהוא עשה בית דין שלם, יש מגדף, ברוך אלוקים ומלך, הם הרגו אותו, הוא לקח את הדבר שלו. ואז אליהו הנביא בא אליו ואמר לו, "אתה רוצח" והכל. ואני כמו, "אני רוצח?" עדי שקר, זה רוצח מהעדה החרדית. מותר.
איזה עבירה הוא עבר? הוא עבר, הם אמרו רוצח. הוא עבר, הם אמרו. הוא עבר אחרי שהם אמרו. אבל הוא באמת עבר על הרצח. מה הרצח? הוא רצה לקנות את זה. הוא רצה את הדבר שלו. עכשיו הוא גם יכול להבין למה הוא רצה את הדבר שלו, כי זה נדל"ן - מיקום, מיקום, מיקום. אין כרם אחר לידו. זה לא ניתן להחלפה. הוא רוצה את זה. אבל זה שלו. אז הוא רוצה את שלו, והוא לא הולך להיעצר כי הוא המלך, אז הוא יכול לקחת את זה. זה נקרא לא תחמוד.
מרצה: אז "לא תחמוד" זה הרצון של כל חמשת הדיברות האלה - כל ארבעת הקודמים. וזה המקום שבו "מצווה שבלב" שהיא לא "מצווה שבלב" אלא "מצווה שבלב" "מתייחסת למעשה הרעה" - זה הדבר הבסיסי ביותר, המקור של כל העניין של להיות אדם טוב. אנחנו פשוט אומרים שצריך להיות לך מידות טובות.
תראו, הרבה אנשים מאוד מודאגים. זה עוד דבר. אני מדבר ספציפית על המידה של לא להיות גנב. אנחנו הולכים לומר שזה חמדה. חמדה אומרת שאתה לא צריך להיות אדם שרוצה את הדברים של אנשים אחרים.
מרצה: וכאן, לאבן עזרא יש שאלה. מה אם כן אני רוצה? בסדר. נדבר על ללכת לטיפול. זה מה שספר החינוך אומר, בעצם. לך לטיפול. תסתדר עם זה. לא הבעיה שלי. אבל זו הנקודה.
מרצה: ולכן זה מאוד חשוב. ואני כן חושב שהיו אנשים אחרים שבמפורש, אצל פילון, פירשו "לא תחמוד" בצורה הרבה יותר רדיקלית. הם אמרו "לא תחמוד" אומר לא להיות לך תיאבון, לא להיות לך תשוקות. וזה מתחבר עם כל השפה האפלטונית הזו של תשוקה כבעיה. ואנחנו צריכים ללכת אחרי השכל, לא אחרי התשוקה.
ואני חושב שזה שגוי, כי הוא קרא את התרגום הלא נכון של התנ"ך. בתנ"ך שלו, "לא תחמוד" מתורגם כ"אל תהיה לך תשוקה", "אפיתימיה" ביוונית. זה לא צריך להיות מתורגם ככה. אנחנו מתרגמים את זה כמשהו אחר. אז אנחנו מתרגמים מילה שמשמעותה לרצות את הדבר של מישהו אחר יותר מדי. יש מילה לזה. לאריסטו יש מידה לזה. שכחתי את המילה, אז אני לא יכול לומר לכם אותה. זה לא הווארט שלי. זה של אנשים אחרים. הארי וולפסון כבר שם לב לזה, אנשים אחרים.
אבל גם כשיש אנשים אחרים, נראה קצת שזה בצד השני. בהחלט יש את הגרסה, אני חושב, ש"לא תחמוד" אומר לא להיות לך תאוות.
תלמיד: זה היה צריך להיות יותר הקושיא, הקושיא שלי היא למה זה לא על החמוד הזה, זו שאלה אחרת, התשובה היא סגנונית, אני לא חושב שיש דבר כזה, כן כן, כמו שיש שני עדים, זה כמו אל תהיה לך יותר מדי תשוקה, זה היה פשט אחר לגמרי, זה היה פשט פנימי, פשט פנימי לחלוטין, כמו אל תהיה מהסוג של אדם שהולך אחרי התשוקות שלו יותר מדי כי אז...
מרצה: אה, הולך אחרי התשוקות שלו.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן. אה, לא להיות. ובכן, להיות, להיות זה נשמה. להיות. לא שליטה.
מרצה: לא שולט בתשוקות שלו.
תלמיד: שליטה במובן הפנימי גם.
מרצה: לפני שעושים את זה.
תלמיד: הכל פנימי.
מרצה: נכון, אבל אני אומר...
תלמיד: זה היה משהו, זה היה פשט אחר לגמרי.
מרצה: לא, והמוסר הרבה יותר הגיוני, מה שאתה אומר, כי זה מתמקד בחלק של "רעך". זו לא בעיה ברחוב. זה לא "רעך".
תלמיד: ובכן, לחלק מהם יש בעיות.
מרצה: לא, אז זו בעיה של "רעך".
תלמיד: או שאפשר לומר שהיא שייכת לעצמה.
מרצה: "אחות נשתחווים". כתוב במכילתא, והמכילתא אומרת, הווא אמינא "לא תחמוד" אומר עכשיו אין להם שידוכים. כי זה "לבבתיני". או "לבבת". יש להם דרך להסביר את הלימוד, למה מותר לבקש שידוך. כי זה לגיטימי. זה המסר של המכילתא. פנויה מותר להסתכל בה. מותר לחמוד.
מה זה מותר לחמוד? לחמוד לא אומר לאנוס. זה אומר שאתה הולך לבקש מאביה להתחתן איתה או משהו. לשאול אותה איך שזה עובד. זה מאה אחוז לגיטימי. אתה לא לוקח את זה ממנה. אם התוכנית שלך היא לאנוס אותה, אז אתה עובר על "לא תחמוד אשת רעך", שזה תלוי מה התוכנית. אבל תלוי איזה סוג של אדם אתה. אם הולכים להגיד לך לא, ואז אתה הולך לעשות משהו אחר, אז אתה עובר על "לא תחמוד".
אז יש, במובן מסוים יש מובן של תשוקה להיות "לא תחמוד". אנחנו מדברים על "לא תנאף" להיות שלב לפני, אחרי זה זה עוד שיח שלם. אבל בכל מקרה, אני חושב שזה מספיק לנו להבין ש"לא תחמוד" זה המדריך והתורה להיות שלהיות מהסוג של אדם שרוצה את הדבר הזה של מישהו אחר וזו מידה.
מרצה: אז אנחנו בכל העניין בואו נגיד מה זה מה זה אומר נשים אקראיות לא מוכרות תקשיבו תקשיבו אבל אני מתכוון אקראי מה זה אקראי אקראי אומר לא החברים שלך לא מישהי שנשואה אז אני רק אה זו מידה שנה מה ו...
תלמיד: ומה אתה מתכוון? איזו מהן זו?
מרצה: לא, זה. זה קדשה, לא?
תלמיד: אה, נכון. זה לא. זה הרב משה קידוש.
מרצה: זה לא מה שאמרתי. זה לא מה שאמרתי. הרב בקידוש, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: מה עם תמר? מה היה רע בזה?
תלמיד: זו הייתה מצווה.
מרצה: למה אני ממשיך לדבר על זה? אם מותר ללכת לזונה. אתה לא יודע? פילגש. מה זאת אומרת, זה צריך להיות למלך או הפילגש, או אני לא יודע? וזה בגלל שהראב"ד היה יותר יהודי מסורתי, הוא לא סבר שלמלך יש זכויות ספציפיות.
תלמיד: כן, אבל...
מרצה: מה זה קשור למשהו? זו לא החדשות.
תלמיד: לא, כי רב סעדיה אמר שזה הכל נכלל.
מרצה: רב סעדיה אמר אם זה נכלל, אם זה נכלל, אז זה נכלל. תשמע, רב סעדיה, תשמע.
תלמיד: לא, אני אומר אולי זה הכל נכלל, אולי רק ב"לא תחמוד".
מרצה: זה מה שאני מנסה להגיד. לא. רב סעדיה, אגב, אומר שכשרות היא חלק מ"לא תחמוד". זה היה חלק מהבעיה. זה נראה מבין את זה הפוך. לא בדרך שאני אומר את זה. נכון. כי זה לא ה...
תלמיד: זה בטוח אשת איש.
מרצה: תגיד זה תלוי איך אתה מבין את הספר. "לא תנאף" אתה לא חייב להבין את זה כבעיה של תאוות. אתה יכול לשלוח את זה כבעיה שהיא לא שייכת לך שבין עצמה אתה יכול להסביר תלוי איך אתה משחק את אלה מעין לראות אותם להסביר את זה בשתי הדרכים אתה לא חייב אתה לא חייב אני לא יודע כמה התחייבתי למחלוקת בין המכונה הזו השלמה היא תיאורטית של פקודה נכון לא לא זה א אבל זה אבל מה איזה חלק איזה אחד זה יהיה לא זה על ההקשבה וזה הכל שוב אבל הקשבתי אבל איך זה גם כמה מה ביחד למה זה אבל זה "לא תחמוד" זה תמיד הפנימי של כל הדברים האלה "לא תנאף" גם כמו שאני אומר שהפנימי של כל זה קרה זה לא דבר פנימי זה זה המעשה.
מרצה: אז "לא תחמוד" כ"לא תנאף" כזו שאלה אחרת אני חושב שזה לא מוסיף שום דבר אין ש הם לא אנחנו לא זה מאוד חשוב כי זה נראה מצדיק את זה אני צריך לעבור הרבה כי נראה שיש דברים שונים אבל קודם אני אומר להם מה שהגיוני אין דברים חדשים שהיו אבל עכשיו הם או הם ועכשיו הם בגלל מה שהוא למה כי אז אתה הולך לדמם זה הולך להוביל אותך לדבר הזה קנאה וניאוף וגם כי זה עצמו דבר רע כי אתה אדם רע על שרוצה את זה זה מה שאני אומר כדי באמת להצדיק את זה אני צריך להיכנס לכל העניין זה לא כל כך פשוט יכול להיות שאני טועה אבל זה זה מספיק לשיעור שלי.
*[השיעור מסתיים]*
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- Last week concluded a "nosei klalli" (general subject) - the distinction between "fake" and "real" pnimiyus (internality/interiority)
*[Side Digression - Illustrative Analogy]*
The Goyishe (Non-Jewish) House Pattern:
- Exterior: Beautiful, well-maintained, nice furniture, lights, groomed grass, "curb appeal"
- Interior: Messy, dark, everything kept out on counters
The Yiddishe (Jewish) House Pattern:
- Exterior: Neglected appearance - broken car, uncut grass, abandoned bikes
- Interior: Spotless, clean surfaces, nothing out of place, lots of lights
Explanation: In galus (exile), Jews don't care about chitzoniyus (externality) - the external is "for the goy that's going to watch"
Supporting Anecdote: Story of wealthy Jew with new shtreimel being criticized by a poor person. Punchline: "Can you see your shtreimel when you wear it? No. So it's for me."
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- Easy to fall into "self-reinforcing loops" - internal loops that go nowhere
- Being "too internal" creates problems
- Traditional dichotomy: Kavanah (inside) vs. Maise/words (outside)
- Quote: "Tefillin without kavanah is like a body without a soul"
Key Argument: A concept of kavanah/interiority that is "not directed towards anything but itself"
- Self-recursive - "like looking in a mirror where you see a thousand mirrors"
- Gets smaller and smaller, leads nowhere
- People learn Rambam discussing the internal (middos)
- Correct understanding: "Not enough to do correct actions, you have to also be a good person"
- Misinterpretation: People think this means something that "ends by the internal" - focused on itself
- "I'm a good person" → "What do you mean?" → "I don't help anyone, but I feel very much for that pain, I have a lot of empathy"
- Or: "I won't give you a dollar, but I feel so bad for you"
*[Brief aside]*
- This false internality may be connected to Gnosticism/emanation theology
- "A different background of Jewish religion, not the Jewish religion"
- Acknowledged as complex topic requiring more discussion
- Also acknowledged: there IS a correct way of having internal focus (to be discussed later)
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Key Thesis: When discussing middos/internal qualities:
- NOT about having correct feelings toward yourself
- IS about having correct intention/feeling/emotion toward the action
"What defines a good middah is always an action. It's never an internal feeling."
- BUT: The middah itself consists of internal feeling, habit, disposition to choose
- The middah is "about the outside, not about itself"
- Claim "I'm generous inside but don't give much" is almost always false
- If you have no possessions/money/capacity to share
- Then you could say "I'm as good as I can be but need external tools"
- Aristotle's position: Even then, you're only "potentially generous," not actually generous
- You might be a "good person inside" but this is the ONLY valid case
- Generosity is not "I want to give" but "I love to give"
- This automatically leads to action (if possible)
- Logical consequence: If someone claims to "love being generous" but doesn't act generously, they are lying
- It's not merely a contradiction - it's impossible (barring external obstacles)
- "I have good on the inside, I just have yetzer hara making me not do it" - doesn't make sense
- Unless there are outside "ikkuvim" (obstacles)
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- Someone who "gives, gives, gives" but "inside he's just dead"
- Response: This is the "normal case" - relates to chinuch (education)
- When you start giving, you don't feel anything, don't like it
- You train yourself through action → then you come to like it
Summary of the asymmetry:
- Inside (if real) → automatically leads to outside
- Outside → can be done without inside meaning (doesn't require inside)
Initial answer: External education, "shelo lishma" (not for its own sake)
Student pushes: What makes you listen to that someone else?
Teacher's response: You can always trace back to something you love (e.g., loving listening to authority/that rav)
Deeper question raised: What's the difference between someone else telling you vs. telling yourself?
- If you decide to do something, you say "I want to"
- But what makes you want to?
- Where does that desire come from?
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- Student raises: Could motivation be "wanting to be that type of person"?
- Response: Usually the answer traces back to external education ("shelo lishmah")
- Further regression possible: Do you love wanting to be that person? Or something else?
- Challenge posed: Can you always push back to find "another thing you love"?
- Even education begins with love of something basic: love of pleasure and aversion of pain
- "Pleasure is just a word for what we like" (qualified: "not entirely, but in some sense")
- Primary education (by others) works through rewards and punishments
- Result: Initially doing correct things for wrong reasons
Key Reformulation: Having the middah "in the being" vs. not = the reason (the "for") behind the action
The Good vs. Bad Person Distinction:
- Good person: Does good for good reasons (loves the good itself)
- Bad person doing good: Does good for wrong reasons
- Example: Giving tzedakah for honor = "not really a tzedakah giver, you're really an honor looker-for"
Four mechanisms by which motivation shifts:
1. Power of habits
2. People tend to like what they're used to
3. You start "seeing the good in it"
4. Seeing the good requires experience - "How do you see the good? Seeing the good is an experience"
- Can see it through others or through doing it yourself
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- Acknowledgment: "These are things we already know... I wonder how much it helps in reality"
- Next section will work through specific good middos - what they are and how to acquire them
- *[Humorous aside: "At least to judge people that don't have them. That would be more fun."]*
Framing: A mitzvah that is "seemingly a middah" - explicit halakha about an internal thing
The Interpretive Problem:
- Some readings: entirely internal → "bad, according to me"
- Correct understanding: internal thing directed towards external action
- Key principle: "The internal becomes very important because the external is caused by it. But not because it's caused by itself, not because it's turned towards itself"
Location in Torah: Last of the Ten Commandments (or last two, according to some) - End of Parshas Yitro / beginning of Parshas Mishpatim
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- "The rabbis of the Mishnah and Talmud were not impressed by the Ten Commandments"
- They actively opposed making a big deal of it
- Practical rulings: Don't put it in tefillin, don't read it in Krias Shema, don't put in mezuzah
- "Apikorsim said the main thing is the Ten Commandments"
- Rabbis opposed this
- Interpretive principle: "Whenever they say 'apikorsim say that,' that means there's a good reason to think that, but it's wrong"
1. Political/external: "Don't wear the hat because they wear the hat" - rejected as insufficient
2. Imbalance argument (student suggestion): Elevating specific mitzvos leads to imbalance at expense of others
3. Speaker's view: Rabbis opposed "making the mitzvos into a logical system"
- Connected to later figures: R. Yitzchak Abarbanel opposing Ikkarim, Chasam Sofer
The Ger's Request: Teach me the whole Torah on one foot
Shammai's response: "Get out of my life"
- Characterized as "the traditional answer" - refusing to reduce Torah to a summary
- "What is Judaism? Drop dead."
Hillel's response: "Judaism is about being good to your fellow man"
- Reinterpretation offered: Hillel was being "nicer," not offering better theology
- He "acquiesced to that guy's framing" - diplomatic version of same rejection
- Story is "explicitly framed as Hillel being nicer, not as Hillel having better theology"
Correction of common misquotation:
- Common English: "The whole Torah is [X], and the rest is commentary"
- Actual Gemara: Does NOT say "the rest is commentary"
- Says something like: "And now for the rest, come to the beis midrash tomorrow"
- Implication: Hillel gave a klal but did NOT say Torah consists of elaborating that generalization
- Story of Skverer Rebbe (Rabbi Yaakov Yosef Twersky) with newspaper students
- First lesson of Chassidus: "Everything is השגחה פרטית (divine providence)"
- Teaching method: Only proceed to second lesson after first is internalized
- Application to Hillel: "Love your neighbor" is the first lesson; come back when you understand it
- The convert never came back (implying he never truly internalized it)
- The convert was seeking religious ecstasy ("caught God in a bottle")
- Shammai's response: Rejection of this ecstasy-seeking approach ("this is not our religion")
- Hillel's response: Same message as Shammai, just diplomatically delivered
- Hillel gave the most basic, simple human teaching: "What is hateful to you, don't do to others"
- Both rabbis were deflecting the seeker's misguided expectations
- Ancient rabbis (Mishnah/Talmud era) were not fans of excessive rationalization
- Finding "one rule from which everything follows" was viewed skeptically
- Qualification: Some generalization is unavoidable (that's what understanding *is*)
- But they opposed doing *too much* of it
*[Side note]:* Aristotle also opposed this tendency - his critique of certain Platonists
- Why do Jews have such long books instead of a small catechism?
- Answer: "You've got to live a life" - can't reduce it to principles
- Principles extracted from life lose their meaning
- Q: "What is the יסוד (foundation) of Chassidus?"
- A: "Come every week to the Rebbe's טיש"
- Q: "What is the teaching of [this shiur]?"
- A: "There is no teaching - you come every week, develop that kind of mind, live that kind of life"
- Key insight: Torah cannot be "bottled and sent down the ocean"
- Someone finds your principles, creates a new religion
- You visit and find them doing "weird things"
- They say: "I followed your principles!"
- Response: "זה לא עובד ככה" (It doesn't work like that)
- This is the real reason for opposition to over-systematization
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- עשרת הדברות repeated twice (Exodus and Deuteronomy)
- Nearly word-for-word repetition (only ~20 words different)
- Nothing else in Torah has this kind of repetition
- Clearly seen as central already in the Chumash itself
- *[Note: Not mentioned again elsewhere in Tanakh]*
- Identification: Jewish contemporary of the Tannaim
- Called "Yedidya" by Rabbi Menachem Azariah (Hebrew translation of "Philo")
- Wrote book on Ten Commandments showing how they include all mitzvot
- Three volumes detailing how all commandments derive from the Ten
- Claim: Philo invented/formalized this systematic approach
- Medieval rationalists and mystics all say similar things to Philo
- Possible explanations:
- Secret manuscript transmission
- Genealogy from Philo to Rav Saadia (Rambam suggests something like this in פרק אלף)
- Or simply: it's obvious from the text itself
- Midrashim already show פרשת קדושים and פרשת משפטים as interpretations of עשרת הדברות
- ירושלמי: קריאת שמע corresponds to עשרת הדברות
- Philo didn't entirely invent the idea, but formalized it significantly
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- All Ten Commandments are things we don't need revelation to know
- They are simple, obvious moral truths (except possibly one)
- God's dramatic theophany: mountain on fire, divine chariot, world silenced
- Then God speaks and says... "Please don't murder anyone"
- Rhetorical point: Why the elaborate divine revelation for obvious moral content?
Thesis: All Ten Commandments except one are things every person would agree to
The Exception: "Anochi" (I am Hashem your God) / Shabbos
- These require explanation because they're not self-evident
Key Insight: The Torah itself indicates which commandments need explanation by *including explanations within them*
Analysis of Each Commandment:
1. Anochi/Lo Yiheyeh - Has explanation: "כי אנכי אל קנא" (for I am a jealous God)
2. Lo Tisa (Don't take God's name in vain) - Has explanation: "כי לא ינקה ה'" (God won't forgive)
- Once you know God exists, not swearing falsely is obvious
3. Shabbos - Has explanation: "כי ששת ימים עשה ה'" (for in six days God made...)
- *[Side note: They already knew Shabbos from Mitzrayim/Marah]*
4. Honor Parents - Has "l'maan" (so that) - a reward/promise, but the command itself is obvious
5. Final Five (Don't murder, adultery, steal, false witness, covet) - No explanations given
- They're self-explanatory; adding "because God will punish" would *ruin* them
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Critical Distinction:
- "Simple" does NOT mean everyone already knew it before being told
- Proof: Cain was the second human and was a murderer - obviously didn't think murder was wrong
- Many cultures and generations don't know these truths
What "Simple" Actually Means:
- When told, it becomes its own proof
- You don't need external verification (miracles, proofs, authority)
- It's "as clear as the seven heavens opening up"
- Reference to: "מן השמים אתם ראיתם" (from heaven you saw)
*[Brief Tangent]*
- Lo Tirtzach - the warning (azharah) comes from this verse
- But the concept was already established in "כי אדם בדמו" (Noahide laws)
- The Torah writing it is what makes it "pashut" (simple/clear)
Rambam's Criticism (from Shemoneh Perakim, Chapter 6):
- Rambam's Position: There's no such thing as "mitzvos sichliyos" (rational commandments)
- "Sichli" (rational/intellectual) applies only to God Himself and His angels
- Nothing in Olam Hazeh (this world) is truly "sichli"
Apparent Contradiction:
- Rambam elsewhere says practically everything is "sichlios" - there's no such thing as "chok" (inexplicable decree)
Resolution - Different Meanings of "Sechel":
- Rav Saadia thought anything that "sounds reasonable" is "sechel"
- Rambam: "Sounding reasonable" is irrelevant ("nisht shayach")
Not a Question of Metaphysical Truth:
- There isn't simple metaphysical truth that says "you shouldn't kill"
- (In complex sense, yes - that's why God said Lo Tirtzach)
The Actual Question Being Answered:
- "What would be a good rule for organizing society/life?"
- What rule should we put in our Aron Kodesh?
- How should we relate to other human beings?
Types of Answers to "What's a Good Rule?":
1. Revelation: "An angel told me" - external authority
2. Argumentation: Extended proofs (e.g., Milton Friedman on free markets, experiments, books)
- This is NOT self-explanatory or self-evident
3. Self-Evident Proposals: When stated, they explain themselves
- "Don't murder" - everyone recognizes it as a good rule
- Maybe you didn't think of it before
- Maybe you initially thought "greatest murderer wins"
- But once proposed, it's obviously a good proposal
- Doesn't need further explanation
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- Teacher poses provocative question: "Explain what's wrong with murder exactly"
- Claims the rule only *seems* obvious after being told
- "I think it's a terrible rule. Explain."
Student Argument 1: Society would be better if you "weed out the bad"
- Teacher's Counter: "Lo tirtzach" (don't murder) refers to killing *good* people
- Murder by definition = unjustified killing
- "When you say you can justify a bunch of murders, you're not talking to me"
- Parshas Mishpatim addresses justified killing separately
Student Argument 2: The lion and goat analogy - killing for survival
- Student suggests some killing is justified (like a lion eating to survive)
- Teacher's Response: Those killings are justified *for the lion* - that's survival, not murder
- The commandment addresses unjustified killing specifically
- Teacher's claim: There was no prior "understanding" that murder was wrong
- Key insight: "You keep thinking that revelation comes to go against something someone thought otherwise. Nobody thinks things otherwise."
- Not being clear ≠ thinking the opposite was good
- Rather: "Nobody considered it" at all
- "You can't even imagine this because you're so with Hashem, so Jewish"
- Students are so convinced by revelation that they can't conceive of a pre-revelation mindset
- When told someone thought differently, students imagine "fancy, weird shtiglach Torah"
- Teacher: "I'm telling you in the way... imagine someone comes. I can't even tell it to you because it's very hard to imagine a different world."
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- Someone invented the wheel - what did people think before?
- After invention: "no normal person uses anything besides four wheels anymore"
- But the invention wasn't *reasoned into* - it was discovered
*[Extended classroom exchange attempting to explain wheel mechanics]*
Teacher's Challenge: Explain why a wheel makes schlepping easier
- Student: "Instead of picking up a chair, it helps me drag it"
- Teacher: "You're still dragging it... why would a wheel make it easier?"
The Friction Puzzle:
- Wheel has just as much friction as dragging
- "You touching the ground the whole time"
- "The wheel doesn't make you pick up. You never go off the ground"
- "If you would fly, I can understand... but as long as you're schlepping along the ground, who cares if it's turning or not?"
Teacher's Point:
- You need physics/mechanics to actually explain how wheels work
- "It's not obvious. You don't know the answer"
- The explanation requires significant theoretical work
- Before the wheel: People thought friction would be the same whether turning or not
- "That's what they thought before, until the guy invented a wheel and he saw that there's some difference even if he didn't know how to explain theoretically"
- The wheel *adds* problems (axle, free spinning mechanism)
- Yet empirically it works better
- "You would never have thought of it also. You just received it, thank you very much"
- Provocative thought experiment: "Maybe there's something as simple as that that would make you be able to fly without an engine... you just didn't think of it because it sounds crazy"
*[Side Note - Humorous tangent about triangle wheels]*
- Student/teacher exchange about whether triangles would be better
- Logic: "Minimize touching the earth. So if it's a triangle, you can only touch the point"
- Reveals that wheels work "in a more complicated way than I pretended before"
- Reference to government research on square/triangle wheels for certain purposes
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- "There's also moral inventions or social inventions that are the same"
- Not that people thought murder was *good* (like "some weird anti-moralist" theory)
- Rather: The concept simply wasn't formulated
- "The curse of being a Jew is that you can never not be a Jew because you always do the things they're doing"
- Once you have the revelation, you can't un-know it
- These are "great inventions, so great that they show themselves by being invented or being revealed"
- Critical distinction: "It's not clear that you can get to it by reasoning yourself into it"
- "Maybe you could find reasons for it afterwards, but it's not clear"
- Teacher's position: Not correct to say these are "reasonable" in the sense that everyone naturally thinks them
- "Everyone thinks them *after* they were invented and told to you"
- Response after revelation: "Obviously we should be doing that. What were we thinking until now?"
- Answer: "We weren't thinking, or we weren't thinking about this question even"
- "Even just making it into a question is already a great revelation"
- Demonstrated by how hard the teacher has making "simple things into questions" for the class
- This explains why Sinai revelation consists of "ten simple things" rather than complicated ones
- The simplicity *is* the profundity - making the obvious into explicit commandments
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- Student raises: A wheel had no prior concept, but murder existed as an event (people did kill)
- Teacher's response: The *event* of killing existed, but not the *concept* of murder
- "Cutting off a brother's head" before revelation = just removing an obstacle
- "The guy was in my way, I cut off his head. What's it got to do with murder?"
- "Lo Tirtzach assumes that there's Tirtzach"
- But before "Lo Tirtzach," the word "Tirtzach" only means "something that's lo [forbidden]"
- There is no "Tirtzach she'ken" (permitted murder) - the concept is inherently negative
- Notes: Targum translates "Lo Tirtzach" as something like "don't kill someone who is [innocent]" - already building in the moral category
- Killing before revelation = "just getting rid of a problem"
- Analogy: Moving a chair doesn't require justification; similarly, pushing someone out of your way
- Murder as a *category* only exists post-revelation
- "Lo Tirtzach reveals to you murder. Murder is a bad thing that you don't do."
- "True in the sense of a good way to live, not in the sense of being an absolute truth"
- Same principle applies to: gneivah (theft), tachmod (coveting)
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- Only commandment that comes with a reason given
- Observation: The explanation doesn't tell you *why to rest* (that's obvious - "I give you a day off, you don't ask questions")
- It only explains *why the seventh day specifically*
- "Why not every sixth day? Oh, I'll tell you why."
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- Anochi and Lo Yihyeh = theological foundations
- Kibud Av Va'em = universally accepted
- *[Side Digression]* - 1960s revolution as "meridah" (rebellion) - an inversion, not an absence of the concept
- "The worst situation is that you don't even need that" - current cultural moment
- But naturally we'd revert because "that's really how the world works"
- By being "extremely obvious," they are also "extremely basic"
- All complicated halakhot are "ways of putting together these things"
- Claim: Every law in Mishpatim is a detail of one of these ten
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- Hashavat Aveidah (returning lost objects) - based on Lo Tignov
- Gneivat Da'at (deception) - "a kind of tignov also"
- Tort law ("you broke my thing, you took something away")
- "What is yours, don't take away"
- Almost tautological: "What is not yours doesn't belong to you"
- Teacher: "I think so" - not necessarily historically, but conceptually
- Could imagine a world where Lo Tignov doesn't make sense (like Lo Tirtzach)
- Reference to Kayin as origin of ownership/boundaries
- Bereishit tries to establish these concepts
- All hilchot kinyanim (laws of acquisition) = answering "what is Lo Tignov"
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- Unlike other commandments, Lo Sachmod doesn't state simply and stop
- Has a long list of objects
- Repeats itself (appears twice)
- "Something is weird"
- "I don't even know what it means"
- If meaning is unclear, how can it be "simple" like the others?
- If any other commandment were missing (Lo Tignov, Lo Tirtzach, Shabbat, Lo Tisa), people would notice something basic is absent
- But if Lo Sachmod were missing? "Makes sense. Solves more problems than it costs."
- Joke: "I found a new ktav yad [manuscript] that doesn't have Lo Sachmod"
- Could Lo Sachmod be a "synopsis of it all"?
- Teacher: "It could be. I think it is. Not a synopsis. Something to do with it all."
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- Lo tirzach (murder), lo tin'af (adultery), lo tignov (theft), lo ta'aneh (false witness)
- These are external actions done to other people that are bad
- "It's not enough to not steal. You have to be a nisht gannav" (not-a-thief as identity)
- This framing is notably absent from Ba'alei Mussar literature
- Critique of Mussar movement: "They're somewhat a little bit too caught up in interiority that doesn't refer to anything"
- Don't be jealous (kina) = "don't be an internal gannav"
- Don't imagine adultery = "don't be an internal no'ef"
- References Jesus's teaching: "you've already slept with her in your heart"
- Key principle: Internal states must refer to external actions, not exist independently
- "Most of us are not going to be ganavim and rotzchim and m'nafim" - we pass the external tests
- The Aseret HaDibrot addresses what most people actually struggle with
- Gemara: "Ashrei mi shelo chamad" (praiseworthy is one who doesn't covet) - seems odd since "nobody does it," yet "in some sense, we all do it"
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- "None of you would trust someone that's like the ideal Brisker" who says: "I think I should murder you but I'm having great hisgabrus (self-mastery)"
- Such a person should redirect aggression elsewhere
- Critical distinction: The Gemara doesn't claim such self-control makes you a *better* person - "It's just what's right to do"
- Someone who lacks the internal positive quality (mida pnimis) "is not a bad person"
- But someone with murderous desires controlled only by willpower is fundamentally problematic
- Universal agreement on this intuition
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- If Aseret HaDibrot represents "something basic" about being a good person, it must include the internal dimension
- Lo Sachmod (don't covet) is where this appears
- Not the teacher's innovation: "It says in the Midrash, it says in the Rambam"
- Lo Sachmod is saying: "Of course those are things you shouldn't do. I want to tell you something - you should not want to do them either"
- This prompts self-examination: "Do I want to ganve?"
- Most people genuinely don't want to steal - "you have that middah"
- Foundational claim: "I think otherwise nothing would start. Most people would be killing if they wouldn't have that middah"
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- Lo Sachmod is "not a new thing" - not really a separate mitzvah with its own object
- Against the view: that Lo Sachmod is a "mitzvah shebelev which refers to your heart" independently
- Teacher's position: "It's a mitzvah shebelev but like all mitzvah shebelev refers to an action"
Lo Sachmod Beit Re'acha (neighbor's house):
- Means: Don't want your friend's house enough to go to beit din and claim you bought it with false witnesses
Lo Sachmod Eishet Re'acha (neighbor's wife):
- Connected to lo tin'af but distinct
- Clarification: Lo tin'af doesn't mean "don't have hirhurei nus" (lustful thoughts)
- Random lustful thoughts are a separate issue: "you should be turning and learning and not wasting your great mind and imagination on imagining nonsense"
- Lo sachmod eishet re'acha means: "don't be the kind of guy that wants to and likes to sleep with his neighbor's wife"
- Not Lo Sachmod: Seeing a friend's wife and thinking "that's a beautiful woman, would be nice"
- This "causes bad things" but isn't the prohibition
- Is Lo Sachmod: "That guy has such a beautiful wife. Who gave him the right to have a nice wife? I think I should get it"
- This is jealousy leading to action
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- Briefly mentioned as example of someone who acted on Lo Sachmod
- The story: Achav wanted Navos's vineyard adjacent to his property
- Offered to buy it or trade for a better one
- Navos refused: "This is my father's vineyard, I'm not giving it to you"
- Achav told his wife Jezebel, who arranged to take it anyway
- Teacher's brother's teaching: "Only kings are over on Lo Sachmod"
- Regular people lack the power to act on coveting
- "Even that [coveting] just comes to me because I'm not the king"
- Without power, one doesn't even have the "sign" of Lo Sachmod
- She was from Tzur (Tyre) - "didn't have the Jewish tradition that a king can't really do anything"
- Contrast: "Kings get things, they don't ask"
- Apologetic point: "Even the bad Jewish king would never do this" - required a non-Jew to suggest it
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- "Hamotzi mei'chaveiro alav ha'ra'ayah" (one who extracts from another bears the burden of proof)
- Taking money from someone is described as "the hardest thing" in Halacha
- Contrasted with other areas of law where we're more lenient with doubts
- Money ("gelt") is treated as the ultimate "reisa" (evidence of possession)
- "The original Judaism is very little power for anyone, can't do anything to anyone"
- Beit din has minimal power unless absolutely certain
- Principle of "kol d'alim gavar" (whoever is stronger prevails) - possessor presumed correct
- Rhetorical formulation: "Are you so sure that the Ra'avad is wrong that you take money out of my pocket?"
- The Setup: Ahab wanted Navot's vineyard; his wife said "you're a king, you can take it"
- The Legal Maneuver: They conducted "the only legal execution in the history of the Bible"
- With proper witnesses (edim) and warning (hasra'ah)
- Charged Navot with "megadef" (blasphemy) - "mevarech Elokim u'melech"
- [Side note: Rav Schachter's observation that despite many capital laws, only one person was executed with full halakhic procedure]
- [Side reference: Susanna story in Daniel - similar framing with false witnesses]
- Ahab's defense: "I'm not a murderer! It was a Beis Din ruling!"
- The Multiple Violations:
- Lo Tirtzach (murder)
- Lo Tignov (theft)
- Lo Ta'aneh (false witness)
- But the Root Violation: Lo Sachmod
- He wanted what wasn't his
- Real estate is non-fungible ("location, location, location")
- His kingship made him believe he could take it
- "That's called Lo Sachmod"
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- Lo Sachmod is "the wanting" behind all four previous dibros
- Described as "מצוה שבלב המסיח למעשה הרעה" (commandment of the heart that leads to evil action)
- Key Question Answered: "Where does it say in the Torah you have to have good middos?"
- Answer: Lo Sachmod - specifically the middah of not being a ganav (thief in character)
- Rav Chaim Vital cited (people worry about middos)
- Rambam's "v'halachta bidrachav" mentioned as another source
- But Lo Sachmod specifically addresses the middah of not wanting others' things
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- Ibn Ezra asks: "What if I do [desire]?"
- Sefer HaChinuch's answer: "Psychotherapy, figure it out. Not my problem."
- This is described as "guilt therapy" - the Torah commands it, implementation is your responsibility
Philo's Interpretation (Rejected):
- Interpreted Lo Sachmod as "don't have appetite/desire" (epithymia in Greek)
- Connected to Platonic framework: desire is the problem, follow reason instead
- Teacher's verdict: "He's wrong. He read the wrong translation."
Correct Understanding:
- Lo Sachmod means "wanting someone else's thing too much"
- This is a specific middah that Aristotle discusses (teacher forgot the Greek term)
- Attribution: "Not my vort" - Harry Wolfson and others noticed this distinction
- Some meforshim do interpret Lo Sachmod as "not to have ta'avos" (desires)
- This would be "an entirely, fully internal pshat" - don't be someone who follows desires without control
- But the peshat of the posuk supports the "rei'echo" (neighbor's property) reading
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- There are two Lo Sachmods in Aseres HaDibros
- Teacher's question: "Why not four Lo Sachmods?"
- Answer: "Stylistic" - not a serious difficulty
- Hava amina: Lo Sachmod would prohibit asking for a shidduch ("v'ritah l'vni")
- Resolution: Legitimate pursuit is permitted
- "P'nuya is mutar l'histakel bah, mutar l'achmod"
- The issur depends on the plan/character: if rejection leads to force, that's Lo Sachmod
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- Lo Sin'af only covers eishes ish (married woman)
- What about a p'nuya (unmarried woman)?
- Rambam's chiddush: It's a d'oraisa (kadeisha)
- Ra'avad disagrees
- Machlokes Mechaber and Rema on pelegesh (concubine)
- Ra'avad: "More traditionally Jewish" - didn't hold melech has specific privileges
- Rav Saadia Gaon: Z'nus is included in Lo Sin'af; also says kashrus is part of Lo Sachmod
- K'deishah prohibition could be understood as:
- A problem of ta'iva (desire), OR
- She doesn't belong to you, she belongs to herself
- Both explanations possible
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- Lo Sachmod is "the internal of all these things"
- Lo Sin'af, Lo Tirtzach, Lo Tignov - Lo Sachmod is the internal dimension of each
- Lo Sachmod adds no new prohibited actions
- "There's no ma'aseh that is assur mitzad Lo Sachmod that we're not already osser"
- Whatever is Lo Tignov is also Lo Sachmod
- The prohibition works in two ways:
1. It leads to the external violations
2. "It's itself a bad thing because you're a bad person for wanting that"
What Lo Sachmod Does NOT Mean:
- Wanting to have the same thing someone else has
- Example: Seeing someone's beautiful car and wanting one like it - "That's not Lo Sachmod"
- "There's enough in the store"
What Lo Sachmod DOES Mean:
- "I want *his* car" - specifically his, not one like it
- Leading to: "I'm going to take it away from him"
- Method: Lo tignov (theft)
- If he won't give it: Lo tirtzach (murder)
- Chain of prohibitions: Coveting → Theft → Murder
- Teacher acknowledges: "To really justify this I have to get into the whole sugya"
- "It's not so simple, I might be wrong"
- But sufficient for the shiur's purposes
- Will present Ibn Ezra's answer(s) to the Lo Sachmod problem in future sessions
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The class moves from general principles about internality and virtue, through an extended treatment of the Ten Commandments' nature as revelatory "moral inventions," to a detailed analysis of Lo Sachmod as the key to understanding character-based ethics in Torah. Multiple digressions explore rabbinic attitudes toward systematization, the nature of self-evident moral truths, and halakhic principles about property and power. The central thesis emerges that Lo Sachmod functions as the internal dimension of the preceding prohibitions, representing the Torah's demand not merely for correct action but for correct character - while insisting that this internal dimension must always refer to external actions rather than existing as self-referential interiority.
Instructor: Yeah, so now we're having a sheet there. You go with my microphone on, I hope so. Can't see from here. I hope that it's on. So yeah, it's doing the green up and down, my green voice thing.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Instructor: And with there you have to see also. Okay, it's got up and down the right under the platter.
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Instructor: Okay, so last week we finished off Noysek B'FonKluli [noyse klali: general subject]. The first half of last week's shiur [Torah lecture] was about the chiluk [distinction] between fake—what I call fake, but maybe other people are old of it—and real internality, internalism, pnimius [pnimiyus: internality/inwardness]. Right? What was the fake version? Fake version is a kind of internality. How do you say pnimius [pnimiyus]? That ends inside. Yeah, interiority is a better word. Interiority. That interior designers know there's some of the interior design is of the human being.
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Instructor: And then there's other Yidden [Jews]. You know what they're thinking between a Goyish [non-Jewish] house and a Yiddish [Jewish] house? What's it looking like? You live here in Lakewood, in Howell? What's it looking like between a Goyish house and a Yiddish house? How do you know if a house is Yiddish or Goyish? You pass by. Firstly, you can see which Yiddish have certain cars. No lights. Goyish don't have lights inside. But they have a lot of lights outside. You notice?
Student: Yeah, that's true.
Instructor: Well, I think literally a Goyish house, American Goyim [non-Jews]—the Mexican going to have a different monogamy, but the American going to the Dominican—the outside of the house is beautiful. It's very taken care of. There's nice furniture, there's lights, there's grass is groomed, and all of that. But it's light. They put in money and a nice facade and all of that. Something called curb appeal by the real estate agents.
And then you walk inside and like the kitchen is like piles of rice cakes on the counter, and their toaster is kept on the counter, and also the hot water machine, and also the coffee for the next four weeks. Four weeks they keep everything out and it's a big huge mess, basically. Or maybe in their head it's not a mess, but to me it looks amazing. It's also dark. I say the style of keeping everything out, like yeah, and there's dots on the wall, the spoons around the counter, like and so on. So the inside is not so nice.
Instructor: And you get the house from the outside looks like a Harvard. There's like a broken car in the front if you're a Jewish, and there's grass is not caught, and the there's like broken bikes that the kids might have used last year still. And where you live is also like that.
And you come inside and the sputle [spotless] is the floor. Nothing is out of place. The counters are all clean, like pure surfaces. A lot of lights always. That's the chiluk [distinction].
Instructor: And that's why is it that? Because in Golus [galus: exile], the Yidden [Jews] don't care about the external, because we know who cares? It's for the Goy [non-Jew] that's going to watch.
Instructor: You know, the guy—there was a Yid [Jew] that the Gevir [wealthy person] from Stut was passing around with his new stramo [shtreimel: fur hat worn by Hasidic Jews], and the Schlepper [poor person] said, "I think you should have made it a little different over there." And I was like, "Who are you? Could you see your stramo when you wear it?" "No." "So it's for me. I'm giving you my criticism. I think it should have been..."
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Instructor: So the Kitzit [in short], the Eden [Jews], got very into this idea of internalism or interiority, which is very important. What we say the and everything. But the Meise [ma'aseh: deed/action], not so simple. It's very easy to get into little self-reinforcing loops, like internal loops with all of these things. And one of the problems with being too internal is that you get in Kavanah [intention], right?
Instructor: We have this word Kavanah. There's Kavanah and Maisa [ma'aseh: action]. Kavanah is the inside. There's Kavanah as the inside, and Maisa, or words, are the outside, right?
Instructor: Now what happens is that you get a concept of Kavanah, or of inside, intention or interiority, which is not directed towards anything but itself. This might be a very good thing for a certain other level of ethics which we're not discussing in this class yet. But you have to remember with the victim a part that we said last week is that most of the time now we learn Rambam [Maimonides] talks a lot about the internal. That we talk about Midas [middos: character traits]. We have this big lot that says it's not enough to do correct actions, you have to also be a good person, right? Which is something internal.
Instructor: People think that this means something that ends by the internal, an internal that is focused upon itself. It's somehow self-recursive thought, like looking a mirror you see thousand mirrors. It keeps on really telling you the same thing, just getting smaller and smaller.
Instructor: And therefore people think, "I'm a good person." What do you mean you're a good person? "Well, I don't help anyone, but I feel very much for that pain. I have a lot of empathy." Sometimes they're also words. Like, "I'm not going to actually give you a dollar, but like, yeah, I feel so bad for you."
Student: I think the dynamic comes... That might be a goal, I think, because it comes from... Because you don't have money. A different... A different path to the Jewish religion, not the Jewish religion.
Instructor: Mm. We can talk about that, but that's another whole... It's more... I'm going to give you a little bit of history about this, but I think something's going on. But there's a lot... There's a lot... This is a very serious question. It's very deep. There's also a correct way of having that, which I... We also said that's also a level.
Student: Yeah, yeah, I know.
Instructor: I don't want to make fun of it. I just want to say, in certain contexts, at least, it's totally useless. And therefore, it's important to disambiguate when we talk about this thing. It's very important.
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Instructor: We're not talking about actions. We're talking about midas [middos], about something internal. But what our main part was to say, to clarify, that this does not mean wanting, not mean something that is focused. The intention is not towards itself, not towards having the correct feelings towards you or something like that, but it's about having the correct intention, the correct feeling, the correct emotion towards the action.
Instructor: So we say, for example, we're going to get into all the list of virtues, the list of good midas [middos]. You have to understand that what defines the good midas is always an action. It's never an internal feeling. But the mida [middah: character trait] consists of an internal feeling, of an internal habit, of an internal disposition to choose, as we've discussed last week's, right?
Instructor: So for like the middle of the correct amount of—how does he call it—the generosity, the liberality, the correct amount of giving is a middle which is about the outside. It's not about itself, right? Someone who says, "I'm a generous person on the inside, but I don't actually help many people, don't give much"—there is only one way in which that can be somewhat true, and even then it's only halfway through.
Instructor: It can only be somewhat true in the sense where maybe you're very generous, but you have no possessions, or you have no money, or you have no capacities to share with anyone. Then you could say, "Well, I'm as good as I can be, but I need some external tools with which to be generous." And even then, couldn't tell, at least, you're not really generous. You're only potentially generous. But then you could say maybe you're a good person.
Instructor: But besides for that, it never means something like having the correct feelings. It only means the correct—you have to have the correct feelings, but what the definition of those feelings is—the loving that generosity is not "I want to give you," it's "I love to give." That's all point of it, right? That's why if someone says, "I love to—I'm generous," and he doesn't act generous, generously—lying. He's not just like—it's not possible to have a conflict between mid [middah] and a—I mean, there could be a conflict, but it's not the way we imagine it usually.
Instructor: It's not like I say, "I haven't you good on the inside, I just have some yetzer hara [evil inclination] that can makes me not do it." That doesn't really make sense, or less there's some cases where there are—there is ways of explaining this.
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Instructor: But it could be the other way around also, where the guy just gives, gives, yes, but inside he's for sure, right? That's that's the normal case, because we talk about educating yourself. When you start giving, you don't feel anything. You don't like it. You start doing it, and then you like it. You train yourself. So there is such a case, of course. But still, the liking is...
Student: Why me, vice versa? Not really. That you want to do it, but you don't. I mean, other than, like you said, it's not possible.
Instructor: There is that. There is another way. There is something else also, but we have to... We'll get to that at some point, because this interaction was about in the past couple of weeks.
Student: Which is?
Instructor: This interaction between the two, which is something bad. It's like me.
Student: Why? I'm trying to grasp it, and it's slipping out of my grasp.
Instructor: Explain.
Student: I don't know, because it's 6 in the morning on the 8th. Like this. Like that. It wanted to be neat, and say, like, it's a neat answer. Bad. It's not so neat. But that, then that's in the inside. If it's real, automatically it's the outside. But the outside, you could do the action without needing an inside, and that doesn't have to be the case.
Instructor: What's the problem?
Student: You're acting as if. You're acting as the good person would have acted. But what's motivating that?
Instructor: Oh, that's a good question.
Student: Like in that sense, could you say that you want to be that type of person?
Instructor: Yeah. Usually, the weird thing with this is usually the answer is something like education, external education.
Student: See, but what's motivating the motivation? What's motivating that? Is it that—is it that you actually love wanting to be that person? And when you say just—just push it back, it's that? Or is it something else?
Instructor: No, usually it's someone else telling you that. The reality—in reality, and I think also—yeah, in reality, when I say in reality, I first I meant like in reality in the books, and also in the reality in real life, that's a good question. But someone else—can you always push back and just find another thing that you love? Like you love listening to authorities, so that's why you're doing it? Or you love...
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Instructor: What's the problem? You're acting as if—you're acting as the good person would have acted. But what's motivating that?
Student: Oh, that's a good question. Like in that sense, could you say that you want to be that type of person?
Instructor: Yeah, usually the weird thing with this is, usually the answer is something like education, external education. See, but what's motivating that? Like, shelo lishmah [not for its own sake]. What's motivating that? Is it that you actually love wanting to be that person, and when you say it, just push it back a step? Or is it something else?
No, usually it's someone else telling you. That's the reality. In reality, and I think also, yeah, in reality, when I say in reality, I first meant, like, in reality in the books, and also in the reality in real life.
Student: But what if you can listen to that someone else?
Instructor: Well, that's a good question. But someone else...
Student: Can you always push back and just find another thing that you love? Like, you love listening to authorities? So that's why you're doing it? Or you love trying to be that type of person, even not yet that type of person?
Instructor: I mean, in some sense, you could push things back in the sense of everyone knows, even education starts with the love of some, namely the love of pleasure and the aversion of pain. Education educates by pleasure and pain. So everyone likes pleasure. Pleasure is just a word for what we like, in some sense. Not entirely, but in some sense.
Therefore, when we educate you, and also when you educate yourself, maybe, but definitely the primary case of education is when someone else educates you, then they're going to give you prizes and promise you rewards and threaten you with punishments for doing the correct thing. Then you're going to start doing them for the wrong reason, right?
You see another way of defining having them in the being of the person versus not being is the reason you're doing it, the "for," right? The good person does the good for the good reasons, which is that he loves the good, which is the good reason. The bad person which does good things does good things but for the wrong reason.
That's called in our tradition precisely this, right? If you give tzedakah [charity] because you want to have honor, then you're doing the right thing but for the wrong reason. So you're not really a tzedakah giver, you're really an honor looker for.
And slowly you're going to start liking the gift. Yes, this is what I discussed a few times here. It's good, it's good to do that, because you don't actually stay with the honor for the most part. It moves a little bit, almost for everyone, because of how education works, because of the power of habits, because people tend to like what they are used to.
And also because you start seeing the good in it. Because how do you see the good? Seeing the good is an experience. How are you going to see that it's good to give? Like you never saw giving. You can see it by someone else or you can see it by yourself. And you see how it is to give, and you start seeing that it's good, and then you start liking it. Does that make sense?
Instructor: So now, what I want to do a little bit today—this is all the things that we already know, or hopefully already know. I wonder how much it helps in reality, but we already know these things. What we have to do today is talk a little bit about some specifics.
Specifics, that's really the next part of the course. Never ending course.
Student: No, it's not never ending. Never ending is only the eternal.
Instructor: You're supposed to be up to see this, like I told you.
Student: What? Like according to the banks, my guy, what do you mean supposed to go back? I see this in Shevat HaKadokim [unclear reference]. The fact that I see this goes...
Instructor: Okay, okay. So we're supposed to have to—why? I'm not sure you're predicting. I don't know. I don't remember. You were very ambitious then. Not sure. I'm not sure I remember what you mean.
But what I want to tell you is that we have to get into specifics. So the next part of the course, also this is what we're up to in Shevat HaKadokim, is going to be about working through some or all, or figuring out how to decide what are the some and the all of these good middos [character traits] and seeing what they are and how to get them. At least, maybe at least to judge the people that don't have them. That would be more fun.
So, since this week was Parshas Yisro [the Torah portion of Yitro] and this week is Parshas Mishpatim [the Torah portion of Mishpatim], I've decided to talk a little bit about a certain mitzvah [commandment], maybe more than one mitzvah, but specifically one mitzvah that is seemingly a middah, a very explicit halakha [Jewish law], a very explicit mitzvah that is about an internal thing.
And I want to describe to you how there are different readings of it, some of which are entirely internal and they're bad, according to me, and some of which have the correct understanding, which is an internal thing that is directed towards an external action. And then the internal becomes very important because the external is caused by it, but not because it's caused by itself, not because it's turned towards itself. That's the discussion, but I will try to show you how complicated this is.
So, you know already what the mitzvah is, right? It's the last one of the Ten Commandments. Lo Tachmod [Do not covet]. According to some people, the second, the two last ones, but for sure the last one. And the end of the Aseres HaDibros [the Ten Commandments], which is a great piece of law or literature or Musa [Moses], whatever you want to call it. Pretty nice shtickle [piece], right? Musa is not that bad.
Student: What? Musa is not that bad.
Instructor: As I said, this is a pretty nice shtickle. Many people have been quite impressed by it. Right?
Instructor: Not our ancient teachers, may their memory be blessed. They were not very impressed by it. They were kind of against being impressed by it, right?
Student: Aristotle you're talking about? Who's the ancient teachers that were not impressed by it?
Instructor: I'm sorry, I just stopped saying it. The Ten Commandments.
Student: No, exactly. What?
Instructor: The rabbis of the Mishnah and the Talmud were not impressed by the Ten Commandments. They did not make a big deal out of it. They even said that you should not, that it might have been a nice idea. Saba Pekarsim [the heretics] said that the main thing is the Ten Commandments. And they said it's not. You should not make a big deal of it.
Whenever they say something like this, like apikorsim [heretics] say that, that means like there's a good reason to think that, but it's wrong. You could always say it's just external, just because it's like you. You can't put it in tefillin [phylacteries]. Yosei Elkrief Elkrief [unclear reference]. Don't read it. Don't repeat it twice a day. Or don't put it in your mezuzah [doorpost scroll], as others did.
Student: We could have a different interpretation of this, where it's just totally political, like don't wear the hat because they wear the hat. But it seems to me more that this is a real, a real opposition between some—you think it's not just because it leads to an imbalance?
Instructor: Leads to?
Student: An imbalance. What do you mean?
Instructor: It means that, let's say Shema [the central Jewish prayer] is very general, he doesn't have this issue. When you get, when you elevate certain specific mitzvos, even if maybe they should be elevated, they're automatically to get elevated too much at the expense of everything else. So it's an imbalance of how, meaning they should be somewhat more.
Instructor: That's what they said. That's what they said. The rabbis that said this were opposed to making the mitzvos into a logical system. I think that this is very related. This is going to be another whole shiur [lecture], so I can't get into it. Very related to people later, like Rabbi Yitzchak Abarbanel being opposed to Ikkarim [fundamental principles] and Ali Khamzaif [possibly Albo or another reference] and others.
Because there is a kind of rationalization, making sense of things. Like we have this whole Torah, it's very big, it's long, it's five long books, relatively long books, and there's six Sidrei Mishnah [orders of the Mishnah] and all of that. And what is this?
A ger [convert] once came to Hillel and Shammai and told them to teach him the whole Torah on one foot. And Shammai gave him the traditional answer: Get out of my life. That's the traditional answer to someone who tells you, what is Judaism? Drop dead. What do you mean, what is Judaism? I don't know. So I didn't mismatch [study Mishnah] for 35 years. Maybe you'll know. What is this all about? Right? Very traditional.
Hillel was nicer, so he said, you know what, I can speak to you in your language too. Judaism is about being good to your fellow man. But that was just him sort of acquiescing to that guy's framing. It doesn't mean that Hillel really thought that. It's explicitly framed this story as Hillel being nicer. It's not framed as Hillel having a better theology, right? There was just a different guy who was Hillel's contemporary who did seriously think that. But that's not what Hillel thought.
I think Hillel did exactly what Shammai did, just in a more diplomatic way. That's what I think.
Student: No, Hillel did tell him something. There is some very important point that I've heard from my teacher about, what was his name? One of my living teachers.
Instructor: Basically, everyone said that Hillel said, the whole Torah is, and the rest is commentary. That's what everyone says it says in English, but the Gemara [Talmud] doesn't say that. It doesn't say that.
Student: What does it say?
Instructor: No, I said, whatever.
Student: What does it say?
Instructor: Very good. And now for the rest. Come to the beis midrash [study hall] tomorrow. It doesn't say, and then the rest is commentary.
So he didn't say, go away from here. He said he did give him some kind of klal [general principle], but he didn't say that the Torah consists of elaborating this klal, elaborating this generalization. What he said was that there is something simple I should tell you, you'll finish with this. It's more like I told you the story of the Skverer Rebbe [the Rebbe of Skver], that's what you're interpreting it, right? Skverer Rebbe, Chalane Levrocha Rebbeca Yosef Doris [unclear reference].
Instructor: And then the rest is commentary. So he didn't say go away from here. He says he did give him some kind of clout, but he didn't say that the Torah consists of elaborating this clout, elaborating this generalization. What he said was that there is something simple, I should tell you. We'll finish with this. It's more like I told you the story of the—
That's what you're interpreting it, right? Some students came to him. They heard that he's a Chassidish rabbi, a real Chassidish rabbi. They wanted to know what Chassidus is. They said they're going to write it up in their newspaper. So he said, well, first Chassidus is not reading newspapers. But then they said, okay, so we won't write it in the newspaper. We'll just really want to know. He said, no problem. Come to my office, I'll tell you.
And he came and he told them, look, we have a tradition that we only teach you the second thing after you understand and internalize the first thing. So I'll tell you the first lesson. When you finish understanding it and internalizing it, you'll come back. I'll continue. First lesson of Chassidus says that everything is השגחה פרטית [hashgachah pratis: divine providence]. Now, goodbye. Come back when you understood what am I saying.
That's what Hillel said, right? The first lesson is like, love, don't do what your friend does. You figured out this, come back. Let's see. And the guy never came back. Okay.
Student: I think the opposite. I think like this. This guy came to see some ecstasy.
Instructor: If you want to speak, you have to speak into the mic.
Student: I think what happened was, this guy was looking for ecstasy. Like a lot of people, right? When they become, they become like, they're finding religion. They're finding religion, yeah? So they come and they're like, oh, whatever. They think this is the זך [zach: the essence], yeah? So they think like they caught God in a bottle. So they asked what's this. So Shammai is like, you crazy or something? Get out of here. This is not our religion. We're not into these CBGB's, some ecstasy stuff. So then he went to Hillel and he told them the same thing. He answered exactly what I did, just in a much more diplomatic way. He said the most basic simple human thing.
Why is it kind of שוגר [sugar: strange/odd] that he's all of a sudden turning into a Jew, like, what's the דוהן געזיין [dohen gezein: what's going on here]?
Instructor: Okay, okay. That's a good question. But that would be your מעשה רב [ma'aseh rav: authoritative precedent]. Okay. Let's move on. Point is, very nice Torah. Thank you. Shabbat shalom. Very nice Torah. Now if anyone else has a word to say, otherwise we can continue.
Instructor: What I was saying is that our rabbis were kind of opposed, our rabbis, some of them, later during, even in those, in ancient times, our rabbis that were doing this. But the rabbis of the, whose words were written down in the Mishnah and the Talmud, were not very big fans of doing this kind of rationalization, where you find, like, this is the one rule, everything follows from it. They were kind of opposed to it in many different ways.
Well, they did it, of course, but there's no such thing as learning without doing that. That's what understanding is, is finding generalizations and forms. But they were opposed to doing too much of it. And, by the way, our teacher Aristotle was also opposed to it. That's why he was not so happy with certain Platonists. And that's another שטיקל תורה [shtikel Torah: piece of Torah teaching] that I have, but that's enough for now.
Instructor: And therefore, עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros] was understood very ancient times already as being some kind of ten generalizations, ten principles, right? There were kinds of principles actually in Greek, which is what all the Greeks are always looking for. And they said, these are the principles of the Torah. Everything else follows from them.
Our rabbis were like, nah, yeah, nice things, not against them. It might be very important. Principles? I don't know. How about, how about knowing the exact amount of אמות [amos: cubits] that you have to put wheat from a vineyard from? Do you know that? It seems important. That's the principle that everything else is built on. No, it's important. It's just as important.
Instructor: So they were not fans of this. They were very afraid of people simplifying Judaism, like Zephyr said. Why do we have such long books? We could write a little small book called the Catholicism. How do they call it? The Catholic thing. This is what you've got to know to be a Jew. No, it doesn't work like this. You've got to live a life. Of course, there are some principles, but you can't make it into a principle. Sometimes you take it out of the life. That's, I think, the real criticism.
It's like someone says, what is the יסוד [yesod: foundation] of Chassidus? The יסוד of Chassidus is just to come every week to the Rebbe's טיש [tish: Chassidic gathering], or whatever, to hang out. What is the teaching of Yitzchok Lohar? There's no teaching of Yitzchok Lohar. I hope not. The teaching is you come every week to the שיעור [shi'ur: class]. And slowly you start having that kind of mind that understands things in that way, you start living that kind of life that lives that way, and so on.
There isn't like a teaching which can be bottled in a bottle and sent down the ocean. Maybe someone will find it. That's not how the Torah works. I think that that's the main reason that they were opposed to this, because it's like this, it turns into something that can be bottled into a little bottle, and then sent down along the ocean, and then someone finds it and creates a new religion because it's based on the same principles, and you go there and you talk to the guy, and he's doing all kinds of weird things. They're like, what do you mean? What do you mean? I went with your principles. זה לא עובד ככה [zeh lo oved kacha: it doesn't work like that]. That's how I understand the position to principles.
Instructor: But what am I talking to you about now? Oh, but other people were very impressed by this עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros], and they did think as principles. And obviously, the Chumash itself seems to think that, because what's the point of this whole story? So, and it's repeated twice. I mean, it seems to have been something like, I don't think there's even one other thing. I mean, there's many repetitions in Mishnah Torah, but almost word for word repetition. There's 20 words difference or something like that. There isn't anything else like that. It's obviously something seen as central already in the Chumash itself. Of course, in Tanakh it's not mentioned even one more time. But anyways, in the Chumash it's mentioned twice. So it seems to be important.
Now, this is their significance. I think that it's important. In other words, I think it's very nice. Very nice שטיקל תורה [shtikel Torah].
Student: And who was the first one to say that the עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros] are the principles?
Instructor: I don't know who was the first one to say. The first one to write that the עשרת הדברות are principles for all the mitzvos?
Student: Thank you very much. I'm before him.
Instructor: That's what Rashi brings.
Student: Of course Rashi brings that.
Instructor: Before him was a Jew, not long before him. Centuries before him.
Student: Oh, that was not before עשרת הדברות, you see?
Instructor: No, no, he's before that. I just bought Philo this week, so forgive me for not being able to speak.
Student: Okay, very good. Who's that father in the Gemara there? He doesn't say I said to him. He's in that whole Gemara. I said to him, so I'm not one of them. He makes it up, then he ordered one, right?
Instructor: I'm sure. I have Philo, who was a Yid [Jew] in the times of the Tannaim [Talmudic sages], called ברבי מנחם עזריה ידידיה [Barabai Menachem Azariah Yedidya], which is a cute translation of Philo. אבל [Aval: However], Philo, who was a good Jew, he wrote a book called the Ten Commandments, or something like that, and then wrote a book on the details of the commandments, and there's a long book, it's like three volumes in the translation, and all of this is describing how the Ten Commandments include all the mitzvos, and then going into detail and explaining all the mitzvos as they are coming out of the Ten Commandments.
Instructor: So he was the one that invented this, and like many other things, somehow magically, all the later, what we call medieval rationalists and medieval mystics, all the people that were trying to interpret the Torah in some kind of language similar to what Philo was doing, all ended up saying the same exact things as him. But I don't think it's because, I mean, some people would say they must have stolen it somehow, like there was some manuscript somewhere, which is also possible. There is some kind of genealogy that leads from Philo to Rav Saadia and so on. But nobody could really trace the book. But there is something like that.
I, myself, think something like that in his very famous history of thought in פרק אלף [Perek Alef: Chapter One]. But also, of course, Philo was just learning from Plato. Plato learned from Yirmiyahu [Jeremiah]. Anyways.
Instructor: But also, it's kind of obvious, right? I think the more the better is that this is pretty obvious. If you read it, it's a [text unclear] that show you how פרשת קדושים [Parshas Kedoshim: the portion on holiness] or פרשת משפטים [Parshas Mishpatim: the portion on laws] are interpretations of עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros]. It's not something that Philo entirely invented, just like the text. We read that guy about the pattern, but the pattern isn't true, is it?
Student: Yeah. No, the ירושלמי [Yerushalmi: Jerusalem Talmud] says that קריאת שמע [Krias Shema: the Shema prayer] is עשרת הדברות.
Instructor: These are things that are in Midrash also. So it's not like he entirely invented the idea, but he very much formalized it and saw it this way.
Instructor: Okay, so now the עשרת הדברות is a very nice text. And what's interesting is, you read the עשרת הדברות? This got only 10 things, very nice round number, 10, very important number. There's different ways of making it into 10, but for sure has 10 things. All of them are very simple, right?
Simple what? רבי אברהם אבן עזרא [Rabbi Abraham Ibn Ezra] all of that says that the דברות [Dibros: Commandments] are things that we don't need lights and sirens to know, besides for one.
Instructor: Remember Hashem made His whole pyrotechnic show, where He lit up a mountain in fire and descended upon it with His chariot, that's what it says in Tehillim [Psalms], and made the whole world silent and spoke, and then said, something like you claim Hillel was doing to make fun of us, and said, I please don't murder anyone. I beg you. And everyone was like, good thought, God. Thank you so much. Thank you for the root of our Torah coming out past the soup.
Instructor: Thank you for coming out past the soup. And then they had the cheesecake, because they didn't know how to anything. Gosh, I'm going into this rhetorical mood.
So all of the sides for one are obvious things that every person in the world agrees to, which one doesn't they agree to or that they don't disagree with that needs an explanation?
Student: Which one, Matt?
Instructor: No, which one?
Student: Okay, just a bit thick.
Student: Chavez?
Instructor: Chavez, yeah. And I go Chavez if there's a shame. Now of course you might not know that there's a God, but after you know there's a God and that's bringing His name falsely is pretty obvious. But there's only one thing that you would not know if nobody would tell you.
And you know how I know that my understanding is correct, that this is the only thing that needs an explanation? How do we know? It says that. Thank you very much. Because the Pasuk [verse] itself thinks so. When it says—well, it gives you a threat, it does give you like a key. It says, "Please don't have any other gods, because don't you dare, don't even think about it."
There was a funny line about that, to make sure. The reason is, like it says in the Pasuk, he's like, he's a little bit, he's a...
Student: Where?
Instructor: I'm not sure what you mean.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: But basically because I am the only one. Okay. Also, because God will be very mad, but it's understandable why He will be mad, right? Very good.
Instructor: Everyone's like, what? What's this Shabbos thing? By the way, they already knew. You know how they knew, right? They kept them in Mitzrayim [Egypt].
Student: In Mitzrayim?
Instructor: In Marah. We're reading the Pesach [Passover] in Marah, right? Shai, shi, shi, yom, tov, k'tiv [six days, good day, written]. There was already Shabbos.
But anyways, Hashem told me, you know why? I was like, why? What's this thing about Shabbos? Oh, ki shai, shi, shi, yom [for six days]—thank you very much. Now we understand why.
And then He moved on, you know why? Doesn't say "ki" [because], right? Says "l'maan" [so that]. Will be nice, will give you sachar [reward], but really obvious.
Then He said another five things, all of which don't even have that level of explanation. You don't even need a threat or a promise from God to do them, right?
Student: Why?
Instructor: He's going to go to Ghana.
Student: No, that's where it ends.
Instructor: All these things, they're self-explanatory. And if someone says—then he ruined it. Because let's take a self-explanatory: if I tell you there's—you right away say, "Yeah, that makes sense."
Now you want—I want to tell you something. One second. Can I say there's actually, I think they say that it's—mind the Tyrant made it pashut [simple], the fact that the Tyrant wrote it, that's what makes it so pashut.
Student: I'll tell you the part in the gap with other stuff.
Instructor: That's what Abkhazia said, literally.
Student: I know, I know, you have other—your AI is working well.
Instructor: My AI?
Student: Yes, I said it's a little short, but it's a little short.
Instructor: Listen, very important to realize this. When you want to understand what is the great thing—I think you know it's great, this is really great—because my sheet most of the time, it's not like once I told you it's like, "Yeah, itself just saying it explains it." Usually it's like, "Well, I think he said it, maybe he knows what he's talking about, so I might take it seriously," or "You know, we had a good eye from the Rambam, so maybe it's good," and so on. That's why whatever I tell you something, usually it's not called vanish'em [from heaven]. You don't say, "Wow, they put—God Himself came down and with His chariot and told us this." You got it?
When someone says something that is so obvious—when I say obvious, I don't mean that you know it before. Because it's not—I don't think it's true that everyone knew before this. When I said, "This is a dozen explanation," I don't mean—I'm not going to have a Tzaddik [righteous person] who said it the wrong way. I don't mean that everyone knew that not to kill.
You know how I know that not everyone knew that? Yeah, they've done that since forever. Then the first second guy in humanity, according to the story of Parshas Bereishis [Genesis], was a murderer. Obviously he didn't think that it's obviously wrong to kill. Of course, in some sense he did, because the story continues with Hashem telling him, "What's going on with you?" But not that obvious.
But when I tell you—okay, so that's only the first person. What about the 10th and 20th and 30th person? They found out. They found out. You could find this out. That's what I'm trying to say.
Instructor: They're not innate in the sense that you can't find that out. It's simple in the sense that if I tell it to you, then you're like, "Wow, you tell me something true." You see, there's a big difference between me telling you something and it being something you already knew—and that's why it's simple, like, "Thank you very much, obvious"—and me telling you something that you only know because I told you, or at least some—maybe you only know it because I told you. But when I tell it to you, you don't have—you don't go around saying, "I know it because he told me," or even "because he proved it to me," or even "because he made me a mofeis [sign/miracle]," he made the—the best midrash move. And that's how I know it. He told me something that is as clear as the seven heavens opening up and the earth opening up.
Student: Why did you use that motion? It's not a wish. Let's have a mission for the clear—for the clear part.
Instructor: That's what clarity is.
Student: Is that what I'm talking about?
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: When I say—what do you think the difference is? What do you think the difference is? So what? Therefore.
Instructor: So therefore, what I'm trying to say is that if you say, "It's simple, we don't need God to come down in heaven to say that"—that's nonsense. It might be simple in the sense that when it's told to you, it's its own proof. But it's not simple in the sense that everyone knows it. It's not true that everyone knows it. I know a bunch of people that don't know it. And even more people literally don't know it. In other words, they never heard of the problem. You can say, "Know it," but you already know it. But there's many people, and I can show you this, many cultures even, or many generations who don't know it.
Once you make this rule—in other words, let's think, I can get into very deep about this and talk about, like, the amount of criticism of Rav Saadia for saying that the mitzvah of sichli [rational commandment] is because it's not something that has anything sichli in the other mazah [attribute]. Sichli is only God and His angels. That's what I'm saying, right? Therefore they can't be mitzvos, because only God Himself and His angels are sichli.
Student: But are they talking at each other? There are other principles—the holy Albam and better in our book that we're reading in Berick [Shemoneh Perakim]—love says Rav Saadia Go and said nonsense. He said that there are mitzvos, there's no mitzvos. That's what the holy Rama said.
Instructor: So what are you doing? I'm telling you right now what they are. Word sichli is in the same way.
Student: No, they're using the same way, and the round thing that—
Instructor: Now I'm telling you to believe me because I don't have patience to show you all the proofs, but there's things that say no, exactly.
Student: So that's the other way, but that's not why the Rav was upset at Rav Saadia for saying sichli.
Instructor: The Rav was upset at Rav Saadia for saying, then he wouldn't be upset at him for saying Shemiyas [hearing]. That was not the opposite. The Rav was upset at Rav Saadia for saying sichli because he thinks that Rav Saadia doesn't understand what seichel [intellect/reason] means. He thinks that anything that sounds reasonable is seichel. Sounding reasonable is not seichel. It's unreasonable—is, in other words, the question that the Tzivuvis [commandments] are answering, at least the second part of them, is not the question of what the truth is.
There isn't any truth anywhere that says you shouldn't kill anyone, or at least not in a simple sense. In some complex sense, yes, because that's why we say that God said this. But in a simple sense, there isn't.
Instructor: But if I—I'll tell you how it's simple. It's simple in the sense, exactly—it's simple in the sense of the answer to the question which most people should have, which is: What would be a good rule for putting on our Aron Kodesh [Holy Ark] in our shul [synagogue]? What would be a good rule for organizing my society? That's the question.
And now, for that kind of question, I can tell you it's a good rule because an angel came and told me that. That would be one way of making good rules. I can tell you it's a good rule because if I'll explain to you at length that the free market is a good thing—because when Milton Friedman said, when he wrote a book, and then someone else wrote a different book, but it turns out that he was right because he made a long experiment and he showed you all of this—okay, I might be convinced. But that's not self-explanatory. That's not self-evident.
Instructor: Self-evident things: if someone comes and says, "You've got a question, like how should you live your life? How should you relate to other human beings? Let me tell you: don't murder." Everyone says, "That's a good rule."
"I didn't think of it before. At first I thought maybe we should go on around murdering and whoever is the greatest murderer should win. I don't know. I didn't realize. But once you told me the rule, it's very obvious."
It's obvious in the sense that it explains itself. It doesn't need more explanation. It's a really good proposal. There were a lot of people that said it's not a good proposal. But normal people think that it's a good proposal.
Student: What is the thought process before that? Before someone tells you that? I'm not understanding.
Instructor: You're all too good people. I don't have to go to the conclusion now. We are all too nice people that think that murdering is bad. Is it because it's a better rule of thumb than the other ones? Because the other ones also might be true. Because they're not really categorically different. Let's make a rule like how do you set how to make iron cutters.
Instructor: Now, you right away think that's a good rule. Why? Why is it a good rule? I think it's a terrible rule. Explain.
Student: Explain? No, no, no, I can't explain. If you're going to start explaining then we're not talking about this.
Instructor: What?
Student: I think society would be amazing if you weed out the bad.
Instructor: Who is talking about bad people? Murder means good people.
Student: No, no, no, murder doesn't mean... This is just a translation issue. It means don't kill anyone who does not deserve to die.
Instructor: What does "deserve" mean? Ah, good question. We'll find out next week, Parshas Mishpatim [the Torah portion dealing with civil and criminal law]. You're not saying anything here. I'm saying something very simple. Murder by definition means an unjustified murder. I know. So when you say you can justify a bunch of murders, you're not talking to me. You're talking to someone else. Parshas Mishpatim talks about that.
Student: I don't mean a justified murder when you say bad. When I say bad, I mean like a goat and a lion. That's what I mean bad. In other words, I need to eat. Those murders are not justified.
Instructor: Those aren't justified for the lion?
Student: It's very justified.
Instructor: Why not?
Student: What do you mean? He needs to survive. This is how you survive.
Instructor: Very good.
Student: For life, it's good for you.
Instructor: It's not good for you. It's not good. I'm just telling you that you see that it's not good. You didn't think—you thought there was to be a good idea.
Student: I think it's an awesome idea. No problem. I'm not going to have a card game with you.
Instructor: I don't understand why you—what are you clarifying? I'm really not playing a game. Meaning, I'm trying to tell you that there was such an understanding that *tzirtzah* [murder] was good. There was not an understanding. You keep on thinking there's understandings. We all have this weird funny way of thinking that people that don't understand, understand things. It's a big mistake.
Gosh, I could talk to you about this for 500 years. Listen to me. Listen to me. If I get you—let me never listen to me—but listen to me. You keep on thinking that revelation is something that comes to go against something that someone thought otherwise. Nobody thinks things otherwise.
Student: You said that.
Instructor: I didn't say that. You said that. You said the guy came down—
Student: Suppose it's also—
Instructor: No, it was very clear to them.
Student: Exactly. That wasn't clear to them before.
Instructor: Exactly. Something was not being clear. Not being clear doesn't mean that you thought a nice Toyota wine murder would be good. It means that I don't know—nobody considered it. You can't even imagine this because you're so with Hashem [God], so Jewish, so much. And you, by the way, just to be very clear, you are so—you are so convinced by this revelation. There's so many things you were so convinced by this revelation that whenever I tell you someone thought something differently, you start imagining these fancy, weird *shtiglach Torah* [Torah interpretations/arguments].
But I'm not telling you that. I'm telling you in the way, like, imagine someone comes—I can't even tell it to you because it's very hard to imagine a different world.
Instructor: I can tell, like, something like, imagine someone, like, I'll give you an example. Think about a technical invention. But when you say that you killed the *Ishamar* [unclear reference] of murder, that's the problem.
Student: No, I'll tell you, I'll give you an example, okay? I'll give you, exactly. We did, in some sense.
Instructor: In some sense, yeah. I'll give you, well, not entirely, but in the sense of, in the moral sense. I'll give you an example. Do you know that someone invented the wheel? What did they think before? Did they think that...
Student: I can tell you what they think, by the way, but it would be an explanation, but I've thought about this, by the way. I've tried to figure this out. And you have to understand that this explanation is not an explanation that he didn't disprove it, and you can't disprove it.
Instructor: He invented a wheel, and now no normal person uses anything besides four wheels anymore, right? What did the people think? You know that wheels are a weird thing. Like, what's a wheel? You ever heard this concept, like the invention of a wheel? What does it mean to invent a wheel? What does a wheel do?
Student: Well, rolls.
Instructor: Okay. Now let's think. Tell me *saykh layoushe* [unclear Yiddish phrase]. I have to *schlep* [drag] a chair over ground. *Schlep* me the chair, okay? And if I make it something that turns, can you explain me how a wheel works?
Student: Finally left something on cycle, right? Give me the sweater.
Instructor: Why is a wheel make it life easier for me instead of picking up a chair?
Student: It helps me drag it.
Instructor: Oh, you have to pick it up. You could drag the chair, but new, and the wheel, you're still dragging it, by the way. It's hard to drag it over ground again. And why would a wheel make it easier to drag it?
Student: Up with the horse, and the horse—
Instructor: The horse is not the invention of a wheel. I'm talking about a wheel. A wheelbarrow, okay? Explain to me how—why would I—why would anyone think that—
Student: I'll explain to you. When you roll, like a wheelbarrow, right?
Instructor: Probably. Don't imagine a wheelbarrow and tell me how it works. Tell me what—I never heard of a wheel. Explain to me why I should stop putting wheels on my stuff. I understand very well it's hard to *schlep* things. You take a horse and you *schlep* it. Explain to me what is it hard with the earth?
Student: Much harder with around.
Instructor: You think it's much easier? It's not like you look like a minute sheet that you can't come in a sheet, right? I'm in a sheet. I know I also use wheels and I believe you in that sense, but you can't—it's very easy. It's not—there's not a scooter here, by the way. There's talking out of source to understand this.
Student: What do you need to learn? Some physics and mechanics and stuff?
Instructor: Yeah, I'm planning something simple. When you do—you know that when you *schlep* your wheel, you're also doing the same *schlepping* as before. Think about it. How is it less *schlepping*?
Student: I'm not *schlepping* less?
Instructor: Not. You have to carry things without wheels. You have to *schlep* them along the ground, okay? So *schlep* it now. Yeah, put a wheel. So tell me how they turn when I *schlep* it. Who cares if it turns? Try this. How does it help?
Student: Okay, fine. You have my connection. I can't be captured, but it's in a very right—
Instructor: Like, you're basically trying to tell me that you have to go back. You have to go back. I'm trying to tell you something.
Student: I know. I'm trying to tell you these things.
Instructor: No, it's not, by the way. Nowadays also, it's a very serious, sincere question. Not a serious, but it's a good question. You should go ask your physics teacher why we—how wheels work. Because it's not obvious. You don't know the answer. How do wheels work? Maybe you do because you've happened—I've learned it, but it's not simple. You need a lot of work to figure out how wheels work. How do wheels work?
Student: Yeah, but this is what I meant. Just get the wheel.
Instructor: Don't figure out about—wait. So what I'm trying to tell you is now something else. Now when a guy made a wheel over a lot of—I'm not—you don't have to explain how it works. But when a guy invented a wheel, right, it was obvious that a wheel is better than no wheel, okay?
Now what did they think before that? Well, I could tell you—for you want, I can give you this like weird spirit. Why this wheel? It's just—there's—let's—I can even give you like a physical explanation. You know, it's there's—there's—how do you call it? There's a tension—attention—how's it called? Friction. A wheel is just as much friction, so therefore it should be the same. You touching the ground the whole time. The wheel doesn't make you pick up. You never go off the ground. If you would fly, I can understand it's easier because air seems to be easier to move through than earth. But as long as you're *schlepping* along the ground, who cares if it's turning or not? I don't see the difference.
That's what they thought before, until the guy invented a wheel and he saw that there's some difference, even if he didn't know how to explain theoretically. Maybe they did. There's some difference when it turns. Somehow it doesn't—there's not that much restriction. There's some difference. Now that's what they thought. But that's not true, because then someone could argue with you. Let's say it would be a theoretical thing. Someone can argue with you, you know, the wheel adds problems. Now you have a—
But anyway, it does add some problems. You've got to have an axle, you've got to figure out how to make it spin freely, and so on.
Instructor: Now, what happened was, nobody thought of a wheel. And by the way, you would never have thought of it also. You just received it, thank you very much. You never thought of how to make wheels. Maybe there's something as simple as that that would make you be able to fly without an engine, without an airplane, that you just didn't think of. You tried to go on an airplane—no, just walk two steps forward, then one like this, and you fly. I don't know. How does it work? The physics, the side of it, they figured out how it works. You just never thought of it because it sounds crazy. Like, why would you think about it, right?
Now there's also moral inventions or social inventions that are the same. It's not like they thought that murder was good, like some weird anti-moralist could come up with a theory—that you could come up with such theories. But after someone discovered that, then you could say, you know what, I've read that some government people decided that square wheels might work better than round wheels for some purposes, or triangle wheels. I don't know. Because think about it—triangles should be even better, right?
Student: If the least.
Instructor: Yeah, right? It's the same for different reasons. But what do you mean why? You've got to minimize touching the earth. So if it's a triangle, you can only touch the point.
Student: Oh, so a wheel works in a more complicated way than I pretended before.
Instructor: Okay. In any case, what I'm trying to tell you is, triangles are better than wheels. Anyways, what I'm trying to tell you is, think about it.
Student: I think you're explaining—I think you explained the curse of being a Jew is that you can never not be a Jew because you always do the things they're doing. They just never consider this.
Instructor: I'm just describing to you how these things are great inventions, so great that they show themselves by being invented or being revealed. It's not clear that you can get to it by reasoning yourself into it. Maybe you could find reasons for it afterwards, but it's not clear.
That's why I say I don't think it's correct even to say that things like are reasonable in the sense that everyone thinks—everyone thinks them after they were invented and told to you. And it's like, obviously we should be doing that. What were we thinking until now? The answer is that we weren't thinking, or we weren't thinking about this question even. Even just making it into a question is already a great revelation, as like you see how hard of a time I have making some simple things into questions.
And that's what it means that we said now this is a good thing. Understand? That's why we did—the Torah Sales [unclear reference] talks about God revealing himself on Har Sinai [Mount Sinai] and telling us these ten simple things. It doesn't tell us complicated things. Like if we say God told us that Hashem has put us from Goliath to Goliath [text cuts off mid-sentence]
Instructor: The answer is that we weren't thinking, or we weren't thinking about this question even. Even just making it into a question is already a great revelation. As you see how hard of a time I have making some simple things into questions. And that's what it means that we said, now, this is a good thing, understand?
That's why the Torah talks about God revealing himself on Har Sinai [Mount Sinai] and telling us these ten simple things. It doesn't tell us complicated things. If we say God told us that an asham [guilt offering] is patur [exempt] from ganav [theft] or whatever, we're like, okay, reasonable, but not obvious. It's not something that I tell it to you and you're like, "Wow, that's the only way I could live from now on." No, it's not the only way you could live from now on. I could still have a life in which Hashem [God] is the one that is, and I can even give you a theory for why not.
So I keep on touching this thing. But a wheel, right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: That was never, there was no concept, right? But murder, there was for sure a concept because it's happened, right?
Student: The concept of murder is not the concept of me cutting off my brother's head.
Instructor: Now I'm lost.
Student: Very good.
Instructor: That was the point.
Student: Yeah, because that could just be for a justified reason.
Instructor: No! Oh, you're already answering the question of justification. Cutting off a brother's head could have been further justification.
Student: No, that's not murder.
Instructor: Exactly. Before you heard of the idea of murder, it's not murder because I think he deserves it. It's not murder because, I don't know, the guy was with my wife, I cut off his head. What's it got to do with murder? Who gave me this concept?
Student: Yeah, you don't even know what I'm talking about.
Instructor: Okay, got it. You haven't heard, nobody heard of tirtzach [murder]. Lo tirtzach [don't murder] assumes that there's tirtzach. But before the lo tirtzach, tirtzach really just means something that's lo [forbidden], that's what I'm trying to say. There's no tirtzach that is ken [permitted].
By the way, even justify—that's why I told you this point, and then make it up. Literally, I think the Targum [Aramaic translation] translates, let's say it's something like, don't kill someone who's—I don't remember. Someone literally translates it that way.
So what are the people before? The killing is? What's killing? What does killing mean? Killing and murder are not the same thing.
Student: So they're not the same thing.
Instructor: No, killing is just me getting rid of a problem. Is me moving a chair a problem? Is it a kind of thing that I have to justify? I don't know. The chair was there and I wanted to be here. The guy was in my way. I pushed him out of my way.
Student: Yeah, it's very good.
Instructor: I don't want you to think otherwise. Please. It's very good. I'm just trying to tell you that this is why this is called a revelation. Because it's something that was told. It's simple. It shows itself to be true. True in the sense of a good way to live, not in the sense of being an absolute truth. And that's all.
Reveal to you murder. Murder, that's the tirtzach. Lo tirtzach reveals to you murder. Murder is a bad thing that you don't do. And now, that's all. Same thing with gneivah [theft] and tachmod [coveting]. We'll talk about tachmod. Oh gosh, maybe we won't. Anyways, that's the zeh kol hanekudah [that's the whole point].
The only thing that is not like that is Shabbos [Sabbath], and therefore it gave you the reason. Maybe even in some sense you could say something like resting is not a certain explanation, resting on a certain day is an explanation. That's really what the explanation gives you, right?
You notice that the explanation of Shabbos doesn't tell you why to rest. It only tells you why to rest on the seventh day. Because why to rest is obvious. I'll give you a day off if you don't ask me questions. It's only about if I tell you, well, you should have your day off exactly every seventh day. Okay, well, why not every sixth day? I'll tell you why.
So anyways, I'm not gonna get into what I wanted to get to. I'm not gonna go on for two hours now. Instead 28, according to my weird timekeeping machine, you know how it works. What does it mean?
So now I want to tell you something here. Now this is something—now they understand, is this true? So anyways, all that such are revelatory. And I think that, by the way, you asked me before, where things start, where education starts. Some things, at least there's a theory that says that we need these kind of stories of revelation, and we need revelation in the stories of revelation, because there isn't really a way to get there otherwise.
Student: You said this. Everyone has a lawgiver.
Instructor: Yeah. So now we read these ten things. Like I said, Anochi [I am] and lo yihyeh [there shall not be]—theological things that make sense given that maybe isn't obvious unless you see it, but it's given that way. Nobody disagrees with kibud av va'em [honoring father and mother], besides for the '60s revolution, which is—which you'd also only consider it because you had the first.
Student: It's a meridah [rebellion].
Instructor: Exactly. It's an inversion. It's not a lacking of it.
Student: I agree. It's an inversion.
Instructor: The worst, the even worse situation is that you don't even need that. That's where we're up to now. But just kind of naturally, we revert to that, because that's really how the world works.
All right, Shabbos, simple. Lo tirtzach [don't murder], lo tinaf [don't commit adultery], lo tignov [don't steal], lo ta'aneh [don't bear false witness], lo tirtzach [don't covet]—all these things, they're also extremely obvious. And by being extremely obvious, they're also extremely basic.
Now we can talk about the concept of them being basic, right? They're extremely basic by being extremely obvious, right? We build everything. All the questions, in certain sense all the questions that we have, all the more complicated things which are not such a direct revelation, are more complicated because there are ways of putting together these things, right?
There sort of isn't any halakha [Jewish law] in the whole Torah, at least in all Mishpatim [civil/criminal laws], that isn't a detail in one of these things. I think that's correct, right? Some of these, when you read these, people doing this, some of them are forced. But they're only forced in the sense of trying to say, oh, that includes all the mitzvos [commandments].
But if I ask you something like, why is there even a question of—tell me a question. Tell me a question from the parashah [Torah portion].
Student: Hashavat aveidah [returning lost objects].
Instructor: Why is there such a question? Why would anyone—what's the base time?
Student: Because you can't steal.
Instructor: Or both, it's based on lo tignov. Or some would argue, this would be gneivat da'at [deception], I don't know if Mama should take it, whatever.
Student: Shame forever.
Instructor: What?
Student: Shame forever.
Instructor: It's a kind of a thing, gneivat da'at also.
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: It's a tort. You broke my thing. You took something away from me in some way. We get...
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: But that's the basic thing. It's the thing that just says something that is me, don't take it away. Now, how is it? What is it yours? All of us can answer the question of what this thing is. Oh, well, to what extent is it your problem? All these questions are just—the basic sense of them is just lo tignov. There isn't anything else basic in them. There's a lot of detail, a lot of the world is very complicated.
Student: So lo tignov is also introducing ownership, or that proceeds out?
Instructor: Yeah, I think so. I don't know about introducing historically, but you could imagine—just like I told you this whole relationship—you could imagine a world where lo tignov doesn't make any sense.
Student: Josephus seems to blame Kayin [Cain] for this, for ownership existence, boundaries.
Instructor: Yeah, in some sense. But let's just try to establish these things. These are more complicated, I said that. But it's an obvious thing. It's a tautology almost. What is not yours doesn't belong to you. That's what lo tignov says, right? And all the different questions are based on this. And we can understand therefore why anyone would put in the sefer Shemot [Book of Exodus] and put it there, right?
Now we got to the last one, and it says lo sachmod [don't covet]. I have two questions. Firstly, it doesn't say—it goes on and on. It repeats itself. Why shouldn't it say? It's as simple as that, right? Not simple. In the luchos [tablets], they always make it as if it's simple. But it's not, right? There's a longer list, and it even says twice. There's two of them. So something is weird. That's one weirdness.
The second weirdness is that I don't even know what it means. And because I don't even know what it means, I definitely don't know why it's simple. It seems to me that I could have made nine dibros [commandments] and everyone would be happy. If I would miss lo sachmod, or lo tignov, or even Shabbos or lo tisa [don't take God's name in vain]—people would be like, that's weird, missing something basic. Hopefully. Maybe afterwards it's basically before now, but you can understand.
But even afterwards, if I take out lo sachmod, I have a version—I found in the new ktav yad [manuscript], doesn't have lo sachmod. Yeah, it sounds a lot more powerful than it. Go for the sefer [book] with it. So fine, we're happy, you know. Can suffer be a synopsis of it all?
Student: It could be.
Instructor: I think it is. Not a synopsis. Something to do with it all.
So the—we gotta discover this. That's Ibn Ezra's question. I didn't make any of these questions up. They're all basic questions. So we have to understand. I'm going to give you the answer that Ibn Ezra gave, for some of his answer.
Instructor: It solves more problems than it could. But we don't know what Lo Sachmod [don't covet] is, so fine, we're happy, you know. Can Lo Sachmod be like a synopsis of it all? It could be. I think it is. Not a synopsis. Something to do with it all.
So, we got it and discovered. This is Ibn Ezra's question. I didn't make any of these questions. They're all basic questions. So, we have to understand. I'm going to give you the answer that Ibn Ezra gave for some of his answers.
It must be that we're learning Shmoneh Perakim [Eight Chapters - Rambam's introduction to Pirkei Avos]. Remember where I started? We started about how there's external actions like lo tignov [don't steal], lo tirtzach [don't murder], lo tin'af [don't commit adultery], lo ta'aneh [don't bear false witness] - never says lo ta'aneh - which are things that you do that are bad, that you do to other people specifically that are bad.
Remember we said that it's not enough to not steal - you have to be a nisht ganav [not-a-thief]. Interesting thing. You've never heard of this, right? The Ba'alei Mussar [Mussar movement teachers] don't really talk about this, do they? Because they're somewhat a little bit too caught up in interiority that doesn't refer to anything.
But they do say things like you shouldn't have kinah [jealousy]. Don't be jealous. Which is just a way of saying don't be an internal ganav, right? Or they say things like, yeah, of course, don't do ni'uf [adultery] with an eishes ish [married woman]. But you also shouldn't imagine doing it. Don't be an internal no'ef [adulterer], right? Like our great friend Jesus said, you've already slept with her in your heart. Remember? So, remember that he said that?
Student: Nope.
Instructor: So, there's a story, I don't know, it says this, and now, we're saying this. Remember we're saying this, we're saying that this is fundamental, in some sense. It's fundamental, as someone who does, who, like, I think that most of us are not going to be ganavim [thieves] and rotzchim [murderers] and m'nafim [adulterers], which is part of, I was so happy with this, because it's the thing that most of us do.
So that's what the Aseres HaDibros [Ten Commandments] says to us in Mecha [at Sinai]. It's like check, check, check, the Aseres HaDibros. Say it in the Gemara [Talmud] days, right? Ashrei mi shelo chamad [praiseworthy is one who doesn't covet]. It doesn't make a lot of sense. What does it mean? Nobody does it. But of course, in some sense, we all do it. Maybe I'm exaggerating.
But what am I saying? We are saying that there's something basic to being a good person that it's not enough and we would not trust - I said this to you over here and I said in Boro Park Drush [sermon in Boro Park] - none of you would trust someone that's like the ideal Brisker [follower of the Brisker method of Talmud study]. Nobody should go close to, right? Like, "Yeah, I think I should murder you but I'm having great hisgabrus [self-mastery], I'm a great guy." No, no, no.
Like, really, like, really...
Student: Aggression, yeah, something like aggression, and he should put his aggression into something else.
Instructor: Not saying that it's good to... It's a better person. Like, the Gemara doesn't even pretend that it's better. It's just what's right to do. But you're not a better person if... That's the random discussion of Perek Vav [Chapter Six]. But for sure, you're not a good person at all. Forget it.
But someone who doesn't... Who's missing the middah pnimis [internal character trait], let's say, it's not a bad person. We all agree on that. But I think all of us agree with that. And therefore, it seems to me very important to me that the sense of the Aseres HaDibros - if there's something basic they need to include being a good person - and where is that you do something like it's implicit and just like that's a...
Well, it is an action that it's of them. The Aseres HaDibros, the Rambam [Maimonides] is saying all these four things that I told you until now. This is not my pshat [interpretation]. It says in the Midrash, it says in the Rambam brings it and more or less explicitly.
The pshat is saying, I'm going to finish with this pshat because I have a lot more to say, but the pshat is saying like this: Of course, those are things you shouldn't do. I want to tell you something. You should not want to do them either.
Then everyone's like, hmm, do I want to? The answer is no, do you want to? Do you want to ganve [steal]? You think that the guy... You think that it's yours. That's a different discussion. But you don't want to ganve. At least you have that middah [character trait]. I think otherwise nothing would start. Most people would be killing if they wouldn't have that middah.
Saying don't want to. Now everyone understands. That's why there's so many words in this. You know why there's so many words? I'll explain to you.
Student: Why?
Instructor: There's two versions. I can get into details. But basically because Lo Sachmod is not a new thing. It's not a new thing. There's not really ten mitzvos [commandments] in a sense. You could count it as ten mitzvos, but it's not an object. Lo Sachmod doesn't have a new object.
Unlike the person that would say Lo Sachmod is a new thing. It's a mitzvah shebelev [commandment of the heart] which refers to your heart. No, it's a mitzvah shebelev but like all mitzvah shebelev refers to an action. Right?
Lo Sachmod is saying Lo Sachmod beis re'acha [don't covet your neighbor's house] means I'll tell you what it means. At least one thing it means. It means don't want your friend's house enough to go to beis din [rabbinical court] and then say that you bought it with eidim shekeirim [false witnesses].
Lo Sachmod beis re'acha means lo tignov [don't steal]. Not only lo tignov because Lo Sachmod comes from someone... Lo Sachmod doesn't mean... It's very clear it doesn't mean don't be a person that has... because that's nothing to do with Lo Sachmod. That's just a new thing. You should be turning and learning and not being worried about thinking. You shouldn't waste your great mind and your great imagination on imagining nonsense. Okay, that's a nice thing.
But Lo Sachmod means... means don't be the kind of guy that wants to and likes to sleep with his neighbor's wife, his friend's wife, his neighbor's wife, right? Of course, that's a problem because this is something that people do like sometimes. It's not so easy to say that you don't, but I'm trying to explain to you that it's...
Very important. If I see my friend's wife and I just say, well, that's a beautiful woman, would be nice, that's not... It's very important. It causes bad things. But that's not what it means. It's jealousy, right? It means, that guy has such a beautiful wife. Who gave him the right to have a nice wife and not mine? I think I should get it. That's what someone like King David did, right?
Student: Different.
Instructor: No, no. I'm giving you a true example. We have such stories. Usually you have to be a powerful person for people to even have the imagination. That's why my brother [says] only kings are [over on Lo Sachmod].
So if you're a king, then you can have a Lo Sachmod. I mean, even that just comes to me because I'm not the king.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: And now the person doesn't even have the sign of Lo Sachmod because how are you going to do it?
So, no, no, I'm just saying that eishes re'acha [your neighbor's wife], it's like Rabbeinu Yonah says here, Lo Sachmod doesn't mean you should want to have the same thing that that guy has. Right? Just like everyone understands. I go to the, I see a guy has a beautiful car, I would want to have that car too. That's not Lo Sachmod. It's maybe...
People think, talk about that. But it's not. I want his car. Why do I want his car? There's enough in the store. Okay, maybe there's not enough. We can talk about the practicalities, how that would work. But it means I want his car. Therefore what am I going to do? I'm going to take it away from him. How am I going to do it? Lo tignov [through theft].
Which one did we miss? Lo tirtzach [murder]. Very obvious. He doesn't give it to me, off with his head.
Who was the primary, who was the paradigm example of Lo Sachmod? Achav [King Ahab], the state of the land, the high-legged Rambam. I think the Rambam made this up. I didn't find it. I mean, there's a Midrash. There's a Midrash, but I don't know if that Midrash was written before or after the Rambam. But, Sefer HaMitzvos [Book of Commandments] says this. Sefer HaMitzvos says this. Why was this written? Because every one of them, there was someone that was over. And it goes through history.
So now, I find that. Who was Lo Sachmod? Achav. Remember Achav? Achav saw that he had a neighbor, would have made a very good pardeis [orchard/garden] for his shtibel [small synagogue/prayer room]. And he went to him and said, maybe sell it to me, I'll give you a better one. What did the guy say? Not for sale. I'm not in the vineyard selling business. This is my father's vineyard, I'm not giving it to you.
And Achav went home and he told his wife, Izevel [Jezebel], and said, you know, I was thinking of making a deal with this guy, but he's not interested. And she's like, are you a king? You don't know.
Student: Who told me this thing? She was from Tzur [Tyre]. She didn't, she didn't have the Jewish tradition that a king can't really do anything. Like, you know how kings work. Kings get things, they don't ask, right?
Instructor: There's this, this one of these like Jewish apologizing or Midrash. So he's into this that the world, you see that even the bad Jewish king would never do this.
Student: And go ahead, tell him.
Instructor: No, it's true, that's true. Nowadays the Jewish kings all learned how to do this. But in the original Judaism is very little power. I mean, someplace very little power for anyone, can't do anything to anyone.
So I think it's very impressive if you read, but it's like the one thing like, people think that it's the problem with such a powerful principle. But really just because we're anarchists, like the beis din doesn't really have any power unless they're really, really sure they can take something away. Otherwise, like the guy has it, probably he knows why. Probably he's right. Called kol d'alim gavar [whoever is stronger prevails], right?
No, it's a basic principle of Jewish law that like we're the worst... The most common thing by the way, it's like people think what's the most, what's the hardest thing to do? The hardest thing to take is take money out of another Yid [Jew]. It's the hardest thing. He's one shit that can be plus. I don't like that of it. You have never learned anything. What it just means to say, are you so sure that the Ra'avad [Rabbi Avraham ben David] is wrong that you take money out of my pocket?
Instructor: Otherwise, the guy has it. Probably he knows why. Probably he's right. It's called "hamotzi mei'chaveiro alav ha'ra'ayah" [the burden of proof is on one who seeks to extract from another]. That's the Rosh, right? No, it's a basic principle of Jewish law that it's the worst, the most humiliating thing.
By the way, people think, what's the hardest thing to do? The hardest thing to take is to take money out of an "adiyat" [someone's possession]. In Halacha, it's the hardest thing. He has one "shetak kimli" [document as evidence]. Plus, I don't like that I have it. You will have never learned anything. What it just means to say, are you so sure that "I have it" is wrong that you're taking money out of my pocket?
Oh, your social drive is wrong, your mattress is, for sure. Every day we do that. But take money out of someone's pocket. It says in one of the Chazal, that's a "shot of the head," that I've half said "middle." You know, that's full of like, if it's worth money, then what do you need for money? Yeah, because it's a way to make money. You're taking the guy's money. It's not money. Money is the most important thing. It's not money. It's not money. It's not money. It's not money. It's not money.
Instructor: Anyways, how am I getting back to my point? So Ahav's [Ahab's] wife told him, what do you mean you're a king? You could take it. So what did they do? They did the only legal execution in the history of the Bible. You know? I heard this from Shemba [Rav Schachter]. People often talk about the laws of execution, like there's too many things to execute for. He said that in the whole history of the Tanakh, there's only one person that actually killed with "edim" [witnesses] and "hasra'ah" [warning] and everything. Moshe killed people for being "mechalel Shabbos" [desecrating the Sabbath], but in a weird way, there was no "hasra'ah," it was extra-judicial. But there was only one person that did with all the "halachos" [laws]. "Chaladeis" [false witnesses] was justified, "halachadik" [according to Jewish law], that's the best example that we're able to check here, right?
Student: Somewhere else, not in the Bible, they tried, Susanna.
Instructor: What's that?
Student: Ah, you mean that's not...
Instructor: They tried to frame also.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: Anyways, the kid said he made a whole court, there's a "megadef" [blasphemer], "beruch Elokim u'melech" [blessed God and the king], they killed him, he took his thing. And then the Eliyahu [Elijah] never came to him and told him, "you're a ratzach" [murderer] and everything. And I'm like, "I'm a ratzach?" False "genkos" [witnesses], it is a "ratzach" from the "Edah Charedis" [ultra-Orthodox court]. You're allowed.
Which "aveirah" [sin] was he over? He was over, they said "ratzach." He was over, they said. He was over after they said. But he was really over on the "ratzach." What's the "ratzach"? He wanted to buy it. He wanted his thing. Now he could also understand why he wanted his thing, because it's real estate—location, location, location. There isn't another "kerem" [vineyard] "levis" [next to]. It's not exchangeable. He wants that one. But it's his. So he wants his, and he's not going to be stopped because he's the king, so he can take it. That's called "lo sachmod" [don't covet].
Instructor: So "lo sachmod" is the wanting of all these five "dibros" [commandments]—all the four previous ones. And this is where the "mitzvah shebalev" [commandment of the heart] which is not a "mitzvah shebalev" but a "mitzvah shebalev" a "misyachas le'ma'aseh hara'ah" [that relates to evil action]—that's the very, it's very basic, the source of the whole thing of being a good person. We're just saying that you have to have good "middos" [character traits].
State, a lot of people are very worried. That's another thing. I'm talking specifically about the "middah" [character trait] of not being a "ganav" [thief]. We're going to say that, that's a "sachmet" [covetousness]. "Sachmet" state, that you shouldn't be a person that wants other people's things.
Instructor: And here, the "Bnei Zed" [Ibn Ezra] does have a question. What if I do? Okay. We'll talk about go to therapy. That's what the Sefer HaChinuch says, basically. Go to therapy. Figure it out. Not my problem. But that's the point.
Instructor: And that's why it's very important. And I do think that there were other people that explicitly, in Philo, interpreted "lo sachmod" in a much more radical way. They said "lo sachmod" means not to have appetite, not to have desires. And it connects us with this whole Platonic language of desire being the problem. And we need to go follow reason, not desire.
And I think that is wrong, because you read the wrong translation of the Bible. His Bible, "lo sachmod," is translated as "don't have desire," "epithymia" [Greek: desire/appetite] in Greek. It shouldn't be translated that way. We translate it as something else. So we translate a word that means wanting someone else's thing too much. There's a word for that. Aristotle has a "middah" [character trait] for that. I forgot the word, so I can't tell it to you. This is not my "vort" [original insight]. This is other people. Harry Wolfson's already noticed this, other people.
But even as there are other people, it seems a little bit to be on the other side. There's definitely the version, I think, that "lo sachmod" means not to have "ta'avos" [desires].
Student: It was there should be more the "kashin" [difficult] my "kashin" is why it is not for this "achmod" [coveting] that's a different question the answer is stylistic I don't think such a thing yeah yeah like there's two "edis" [witnesses] is in like be another did not have too much desire that would be a different whole different "pshat" [interpretation] that would be an internal "pshat" that entirely internal "pshat" like don't be the kind of person that follows his desires too much because then...
Instructor: Oh, follows his desires.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, not have. Well, having, having is a soul. Having. Not control.
Instructor: It doesn't control his desires.
Student: Control in an internal sense also.
Instructor: Before doing it.
Student: Everything is internal.
Instructor: Right, but I'm saying...
Student: That would be something, that would be a whole different "pshat."
Instructor: No, and the "mussar" [ethical teaching] makes much more sense, what you're saying, because it's focusing on the "rei'echo" [your neighbor] part. It's not an issue in the street. It's not a "rei'echo."
Student: Well, some of them have issues.
Instructor: No, then that's a "rei'echo" problem.
Student: Or you could say she looks to herself.
Instructor: "Ochot nishtchayim" [desiring women]. It says in the "Mechilta" [early rabbinic commentary], and "Mechilta" says, "hava amina" [one might think] "lo sachmod" means now they have "shidduchim" [marriage matches]. Because it's "b'tchalibni" [you captivated me]. Or "b'tchali" [captivate]. They have a way to explain the "limud" [teaching], why you're allowed to ask for "shidduch" [marriage match]. Because that's legitimate. That's the message of "Mechilta." A "p'nuyah" [unmarried woman] is "mutar l'histakel bah" [permitted to look at her]. "Mutar l'achmod" [permitted to desire].
What is "mutar l'achmod"? "L'achmod" doesn't mean "l'anos" [to rape]. It means you're going to ask her father to marry her or whatever. Ask her however it works. That's 100% legitimate. You're not taking it away from her. If your plan is to rape her, then you're over on "lo sachmod eshet rei'echo" [don't covet your neighbor's wife], which says depends what the plan is. But depends what kind of person you are. If you're going to be told no, then you're going to do something else, then you're over on "lo sachmod."
So there is, in the sense there is a sense of desire being "lo sachmod." We talk about "lo sin'af" [don't commit adultery] being a step before, after that's another whole "sheik" [discussion]. But anyways, I think that this is enough for us to understand that "lo sachmod" is the guide and the Torah for being that being the kind of person who wants someone else this thing and that is a "middah" [character trait].
Instructor: So we're in the whole let's say what is this what does that mean random women doesn't sell listen up listen up but I mean random what's random random means not your friends not someone that's married so I'm just uh that's a "middah" year what and...
Student: And what do you mean? Which of it is it?
Instructor: No, it's this. It's "k'deishah" [prostitute], no?
Student: Ah, that's right. That's not. That's the Rav Moshe "kiddush" [sanctification].
Instructor: That's not what I said. That's not what I said. The Rav is in the "kiddush," right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: What about Tamar? What was wrong with that?
Student: That was a "mitzvah" [commandment].
Instructor: Why do I keep on talking about this? If you're allowed to go to a "zonah" [prostitute]. You don't know? "Pilegesh" [concubine]. What do you mean, does it have to be for the "melech" [king] or the "pilegesh," or I don't know? And that's because the "Ra'avad" [Rabbi Abraham ben David] was more traditionally Jewish, he didn't hold a "melech" has specific privileges.
Student: Yep, but...
Instructor: What's it got to do with anything? That's not the news.
Student: No, because Rav Saadia said that it's all "nichla" [included].
Instructor: Rav Saadia said if it's "nichla," if it's "nichla," then it's "nichla." Listen, Rav Saadia, listen.
Student: No, I'm saying maybe it's all "nichla," maybe only in the "lo sachmod."
Instructor: That's what I'm trying to say. No. Rav Saadia, by the way, says that "kashrus" [kosher dietary laws] is part of the "lo sachmod." That was part of the problem. That seems to understand the other way around. Not the way that I'm saying it. Right. Because that's not the...
Student: It's for sure being "eshet ish" [married woman].
Instructor: Say it depends how you understand the "sefer" [book]. "Lo sin'af" [don't commit adultery] you don't have to understand that as a problem of "ta'avos" [desires]. You can send it as a problem is that she doesn't belong to you which "amongst herself" you could explain depends how you play these kind of a see them explain that both ways you don't have to you don't have to I don't know how much I've committed a "machlokes" [dispute] between this machine completion is theoretical of command right no no that's a but that's but what which part which one would that be no it's about the listening and it's all again but I've listened but how is it also how much what's together why is it but it's "lo sachmod" it is always the internal of all these things "lo sin'af" as well as I'm saying that the internal of all of that was happened that's not internal thing that's that's the "ma'aseh" [action].
Instructor: So "lo sachmod" as "lo sin'af" as that's a different question I'm thinking is that doesn't add any there's no that they're not we're not that's very important because it seems to justify this I have to go through a lot of because there seems to be different things but first I tell them which makes sense there's no new things that would have been but now they're or they're and now they're because of whatever is why because then you're going to bleed it's going to lead you to this thing "kinah" [jealousy] and "ni'uf" [adultery] and also because it's itself a bad thing because you're a bad person for for wanting that that's what I say to really justify this I have to get into the whole thing it's not so simple might be I might be wrong but that's that's enough for for my "shiur" [lecture].
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- Last week concluded a "nosei klalli" (general subject) - the distinction between "fake" and "real" pnimiyus (internality/interiority)
*[Side Digression - Illustrative Analogy]*
The Goyishe (Non-Jewish) House Pattern:
- Exterior: Beautiful, well-maintained, nice furniture, lights, groomed grass, "curb appeal"
- Interior: Messy, dark, everything kept out on counters
The Yiddishe (Jewish) House Pattern:
- Exterior: Neglected appearance - broken car, uncut grass, abandoned bikes
- Interior: Spotless, clean surfaces, nothing out of place, lots of lights
Explanation: In galus (exile), Jews don't care about chitzoniyus (externality) - the external is "for the goy that's going to watch"
Supporting Anecdote: Story of wealthy Jew with new shtreimel being criticized by a poor person. Punchline: "Can you see your shtreimel when you wear it? No. So it's for me."
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- Easy to fall into "self-reinforcing loops" - internal loops that go nowhere
- Being "too internal" creates problems
- Traditional dichotomy: Kavanah (inside) vs. Maise/words (outside)
- Quote: "Tefillin without kavanah is like a body without a soul"
Key Argument: A concept of kavanah/interiority that is "not directed towards anything but itself"
- Self-recursive - "like looking in a mirror where you see a thousand mirrors"
- Gets smaller and smaller, leads nowhere
- People learn Rambam discussing the internal (middos)
- Correct understanding: "Not enough to do correct actions, you have to also be a good person"
- Misinterpretation: People think this means something that "ends by the internal" - focused on itself
- "I'm a good person" → "What do you mean?" → "I don't help anyone, but I feel very much for that pain, I have a lot of empathy"
- Or: "I won't give you a dollar, but I feel so bad for you"
*[Brief aside]*
- This false internality may be connected to Gnosticism/emanation theology
- "A different background of Jewish religion, not the Jewish religion"
- Acknowledged as complex topic requiring more discussion
- Also acknowledged: there IS a correct way of having internal focus (to be discussed later)
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Key Thesis: When discussing middos/internal qualities:
- NOT about having correct feelings toward yourself
- IS about having correct intention/feeling/emotion toward the action
"What defines a good middah is always an action. It's never an internal feeling."
- BUT: The middah itself consists of internal feeling, habit, disposition to choose
- The middah is "about the outside, not about itself"
- Claim "I'm generous inside but don't give much" is almost always false
- If you have no possessions/money/capacity to share
- Then you could say "I'm as good as I can be but need external tools"
- Aristotle's position: Even then, you're only "potentially generous," not actually generous
- You might be a "good person inside" but this is the ONLY valid case
- Generosity is not "I want to give" but "I love to give"
- This automatically leads to action (if possible)
- Logical consequence: If someone claims to "love being generous" but doesn't act generously, they are lying
- It's not merely a contradiction - it's impossible (barring external obstacles)
- "I have good on the inside, I just have yetzer hara making me not do it" - doesn't make sense
- Unless there are outside "ikkuvim" (obstacles)
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- Someone who "gives, gives, gives" but "inside he's just dead"
- Response: This is the "normal case" - relates to chinuch (education)
- When you start giving, you don't feel anything, don't like it
- You train yourself through action → then you come to like it
Summary of the asymmetry:
- Inside (if real) → automatically leads to outside
- Outside → can be done without inside meaning (doesn't require inside)
Initial answer: External education, "shelo lishma" (not for its own sake)
Student pushes: What makes you listen to that someone else?
Teacher's response: You can always trace back to something you love (e.g., loving listening to authority/that rav)
Deeper question raised: What's the difference between someone else telling you vs. telling yourself?
- If you decide to do something, you say "I want to"
- But what makes you want to?
- Where does that desire come from?
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- Student raises: Could motivation be "wanting to be that type of person"?
- Response: Usually the answer traces back to external education ("shelo lishmah")
- Further regression possible: Do you love wanting to be that person? Or something else?
- Challenge posed: Can you always push back to find "another thing you love"?
- Even education begins with love of something basic: love of pleasure and aversion of pain
- "Pleasure is just a word for what we like" (qualified: "not entirely, but in some sense")
- Primary education (by others) works through rewards and punishments
- Result: Initially doing correct things for wrong reasons
Key Reformulation: Having the middah "in the being" vs. not = the reason (the "for") behind the action
The Good vs. Bad Person Distinction:
- Good person: Does good for good reasons (loves the good itself)
- Bad person doing good: Does good for wrong reasons
- Example: Giving tzedakah for honor = "not really a tzedakah giver, you're really an honor looker-for"
Four mechanisms by which motivation shifts:
1. Power of habits
2. People tend to like what they're used to
3. You start "seeing the good in it"
4. Seeing the good requires experience - "How do you see the good? Seeing the good is an experience"
- Can see it through others or through doing it yourself
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- Acknowledgment: "These are things we already know... I wonder how much it helps in reality"
- Next section will work through specific good middos - what they are and how to acquire them
- *[Humorous aside: "At least to judge people that don't have them. That would be more fun."]*
Framing: A mitzvah that is "seemingly a middah" - explicit halakha about an internal thing
The Interpretive Problem:
- Some readings: entirely internal → "bad, according to me"
- Correct understanding: internal thing directed towards external action
- Key principle: "The internal becomes very important because the external is caused by it. But not because it's caused by itself, not because it's turned towards itself"
Location in Torah: Last of the Ten Commandments (or last two, according to some) - End of Parshas Yitro / beginning of Parshas Mishpatim
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- "The rabbis of the Mishnah and Talmud were not impressed by the Ten Commandments"
- They actively opposed making a big deal of it
- Practical rulings: Don't put it in tefillin, don't read it in Krias Shema, don't put in mezuzah
- "Apikorsim said the main thing is the Ten Commandments"
- Rabbis opposed this
- Interpretive principle: "Whenever they say 'apikorsim say that,' that means there's a good reason to think that, but it's wrong"
1. Political/external: "Don't wear the hat because they wear the hat" - rejected as insufficient
2. Imbalance argument (student suggestion): Elevating specific mitzvos leads to imbalance at expense of others
3. Speaker's view: Rabbis opposed "making the mitzvos into a logical system"
- Connected to later figures: R. Yitzchak Abarbanel opposing Ikkarim, Chasam Sofer
The Ger's Request: Teach me the whole Torah on one foot
Shammai's response: "Get out of my life"
- Characterized as "the traditional answer" - refusing to reduce Torah to a summary
- "What is Judaism? Drop dead."
Hillel's response: "Judaism is about being good to your fellow man"
- Reinterpretation offered: Hillel was being "nicer," not offering better theology
- He "acquiesced to that guy's framing" - diplomatic version of same rejection
- Story is "explicitly framed as Hillel being nicer, not as Hillel having better theology"
Correction of common misquotation:
- Common English: "The whole Torah is [X], and the rest is commentary"
- Actual Gemara: Does NOT say "the rest is commentary"
- Says something like: "And now for the rest, come to the beis midrash tomorrow"
- Implication: Hillel gave a klal but did NOT say Torah consists of elaborating that generalization
- Story of Skverer Rebbe (Rabbi Yaakov Yosef Twersky) with newspaper students
- First lesson of Chassidus: "Everything is השגחה פרטית (divine providence)"
- Teaching method: Only proceed to second lesson after first is internalized
- Application to Hillel: "Love your neighbor" is the first lesson; come back when you understand it
- The convert never came back (implying he never truly internalized it)
- The convert was seeking religious ecstasy ("caught God in a bottle")
- Shammai's response: Rejection of this ecstasy-seeking approach ("this is not our religion")
- Hillel's response: Same message as Shammai, just diplomatically delivered
- Hillel gave the most basic, simple human teaching: "What is hateful to you, don't do to others"
- Both rabbis were deflecting the seeker's misguided expectations
- Ancient rabbis (Mishnah/Talmud era) were not fans of excessive rationalization
- Finding "one rule from which everything follows" was viewed skeptically
- Qualification: Some generalization is unavoidable (that's what understanding *is*)
- But they opposed doing *too much* of it
*[Side note]:* Aristotle also opposed this tendency - his critique of certain Platonists
- Why do Jews have such long books instead of a small catechism?
- Answer: "You've got to live a life" - can't reduce it to principles
- Principles extracted from life lose their meaning
- Q: "What is the יסוד (foundation) of Chassidus?"
- A: "Come every week to the Rebbe's טיש"
- Q: "What is the teaching of [this shiur]?"
- A: "There is no teaching - you come every week, develop that kind of mind, live that kind of life"
- Key insight: Torah cannot be "bottled and sent down the ocean"
- Someone finds your principles, creates a new religion
- You visit and find them doing "weird things"
- They say: "I followed your principles!"
- Response: "זה לא עובד ככה" (It doesn't work like that)
- This is the real reason for opposition to over-systematization
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- עשרת הדברות repeated twice (Exodus and Deuteronomy)
- Nearly word-for-word repetition (only ~20 words different)
- Nothing else in Torah has this kind of repetition
- Clearly seen as central already in the Chumash itself
- *[Note: Not mentioned again elsewhere in Tanakh]*
- Identification: Jewish contemporary of the Tannaim
- Called "Yedidya" by Rabbi Menachem Azariah (Hebrew translation of "Philo")
- Wrote book on Ten Commandments showing how they include all mitzvot
- Three volumes detailing how all commandments derive from the Ten
- Claim: Philo invented/formalized this systematic approach
- Medieval rationalists and mystics all say similar things to Philo
- Possible explanations:
- Secret manuscript transmission
- Genealogy from Philo to Rav Saadia (Rambam suggests something like this in פרק אלף)
- Or simply: it's obvious from the text itself
- Midrashim already show פרשת קדושים and פרשת משפטים as interpretations of עשרת הדברות
- ירושלמי: קריאת שמע corresponds to עשרת הדברות
- Philo didn't entirely invent the idea, but formalized it significantly
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- All Ten Commandments are things we don't need revelation to know
- They are simple, obvious moral truths (except possibly one)
- God's dramatic theophany: mountain on fire, divine chariot, world silenced
- Then God speaks and says... "Please don't murder anyone"
- Rhetorical point: Why the elaborate divine revelation for obvious moral content?
Thesis: All Ten Commandments except one are things every person would agree to
The Exception: "Anochi" (I am Hashem your God) / Shabbos
- These require explanation because they're not self-evident
Key Insight: The Torah itself indicates which commandments need explanation by *including explanations within them*
Analysis of Each Commandment:
1. Anochi/Lo Yiheyeh - Has explanation: "כי אנכי אל קנא" (for I am a jealous God)
2. Lo Tisa (Don't take God's name in vain) - Has explanation: "כי לא ינקה ה'" (God won't forgive)
- Once you know God exists, not swearing falsely is obvious
3. Shabbos - Has explanation: "כי ששת ימים עשה ה'" (for in six days God made...)
- *[Side note: They already knew Shabbos from Mitzrayim/Marah]*
4. Honor Parents - Has "l'maan" (so that) - a reward/promise, but the command itself is obvious
5. Final Five (Don't murder, adultery, steal, false witness, covet) - No explanations given
- They're self-explanatory; adding "because God will punish" would *ruin* them
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Critical Distinction:
- "Simple" does NOT mean everyone already knew it before being told
- Proof: Cain was the second human and was a murderer - obviously didn't think murder was wrong
- Many cultures and generations don't know these truths
What "Simple" Actually Means:
- When told, it becomes its own proof
- You don't need external verification (miracles, proofs, authority)
- It's "as clear as the seven heavens opening up"
- Reference to: "מן השמים אתם ראיתם" (from heaven you saw)
*[Brief Tangent]*
- Lo Tirtzach - the warning (azharah) comes from this verse
- But the concept was already established in "כי אדם בדמו" (Noahide laws)
- The Torah writing it is what makes it "pashut" (simple/clear)
Rambam's Criticism (from Shemoneh Perakim, Chapter 6):
- Rambam's Position: There's no such thing as "mitzvos sichliyos" (rational commandments)
- "Sichli" (rational/intellectual) applies only to God Himself and His angels
- Nothing in Olam Hazeh (this world) is truly "sichli"
Apparent Contradiction:
- Rambam elsewhere says practically everything is "sichlios" - there's no such thing as "chok" (inexplicable decree)
Resolution - Different Meanings of "Sechel":
- Rav Saadia thought anything that "sounds reasonable" is "sechel"
- Rambam: "Sounding reasonable" is irrelevant ("nisht shayach")
Not a Question of Metaphysical Truth:
- There isn't simple metaphysical truth that says "you shouldn't kill"
- (In complex sense, yes - that's why God said Lo Tirtzach)
The Actual Question Being Answered:
- "What would be a good rule for organizing society/life?"
- What rule should we put in our Aron Kodesh?
- How should we relate to other human beings?
Types of Answers to "What's a Good Rule?":
1. Revelation: "An angel told me" - external authority
2. Argumentation: Extended proofs (e.g., Milton Friedman on free markets, experiments, books)
- This is NOT self-explanatory or self-evident
3. Self-Evident Proposals: When stated, they explain themselves
- "Don't murder" - everyone recognizes it as a good rule
- Maybe you didn't think of it before
- Maybe you initially thought "greatest murderer wins"
- But once proposed, it's obviously a good proposal
- Doesn't need further explanation
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- Teacher poses provocative question: "Explain what's wrong with murder exactly"
- Claims the rule only *seems* obvious after being told
- "I think it's a terrible rule. Explain."
Student Argument 1: Society would be better if you "weed out the bad"
- Teacher's Counter: "Lo tirtzach" (don't murder) refers to killing *good* people
- Murder by definition = unjustified killing
- "When you say you can justify a bunch of murders, you're not talking to me"
- Parshas Mishpatim addresses justified killing separately
Student Argument 2: The lion and goat analogy - killing for survival
- Student suggests some killing is justified (like a lion eating to survive)
- Teacher's Response: Those killings are justified *for the lion* - that's survival, not murder
- The commandment addresses unjustified killing specifically
- Teacher's claim: There was no prior "understanding" that murder was wrong
- Key insight: "You keep thinking that revelation comes to go against something someone thought otherwise. Nobody thinks things otherwise."
- Not being clear ≠ thinking the opposite was good
- Rather: "Nobody considered it" at all
- "You can't even imagine this because you're so with Hashem, so Jewish"
- Students are so convinced by revelation that they can't conceive of a pre-revelation mindset
- When told someone thought differently, students imagine "fancy, weird shtiglach Torah"
- Teacher: "I'm telling you in the way... imagine someone comes. I can't even tell it to you because it's very hard to imagine a different world."
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- Someone invented the wheel - what did people think before?
- After invention: "no normal person uses anything besides four wheels anymore"
- But the invention wasn't *reasoned into* - it was discovered
*[Extended classroom exchange attempting to explain wheel mechanics]*
Teacher's Challenge: Explain why a wheel makes schlepping easier
- Student: "Instead of picking up a chair, it helps me drag it"
- Teacher: "You're still dragging it... why would a wheel make it easier?"
The Friction Puzzle:
- Wheel has just as much friction as dragging
- "You touching the ground the whole time"
- "The wheel doesn't make you pick up. You never go off the ground"
- "If you would fly, I can understand... but as long as you're schlepping along the ground, who cares if it's turning or not?"
Teacher's Point:
- You need physics/mechanics to actually explain how wheels work
- "It's not obvious. You don't know the answer"
- The explanation requires significant theoretical work
- Before the wheel: People thought friction would be the same whether turning or not
- "That's what they thought before, until the guy invented a wheel and he saw that there's some difference even if he didn't know how to explain theoretically"
- The wheel *adds* problems (axle, free spinning mechanism)
- Yet empirically it works better
- "You would never have thought of it also. You just received it, thank you very much"
- Provocative thought experiment: "Maybe there's something as simple as that that would make you be able to fly without an engine... you just didn't think of it because it sounds crazy"
*[Side Note - Humorous tangent about triangle wheels]*
- Student/teacher exchange about whether triangles would be better
- Logic: "Minimize touching the earth. So if it's a triangle, you can only touch the point"
- Reveals that wheels work "in a more complicated way than I pretended before"
- Reference to government research on square/triangle wheels for certain purposes
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- "There's also moral inventions or social inventions that are the same"
- Not that people thought murder was *good* (like "some weird anti-moralist" theory)
- Rather: The concept simply wasn't formulated
- "The curse of being a Jew is that you can never not be a Jew because you always do the things they're doing"
- Once you have the revelation, you can't un-know it
- These are "great inventions, so great that they show themselves by being invented or being revealed"
- Critical distinction: "It's not clear that you can get to it by reasoning yourself into it"
- "Maybe you could find reasons for it afterwards, but it's not clear"
- Teacher's position: Not correct to say these are "reasonable" in the sense that everyone naturally thinks them
- "Everyone thinks them *after* they were invented and told to you"
- Response after revelation: "Obviously we should be doing that. What were we thinking until now?"
- Answer: "We weren't thinking, or we weren't thinking about this question even"
- "Even just making it into a question is already a great revelation"
- Demonstrated by how hard the teacher has making "simple things into questions" for the class
- This explains why Sinai revelation consists of "ten simple things" rather than complicated ones
- The simplicity *is* the profundity - making the obvious into explicit commandments
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- Student raises: A wheel had no prior concept, but murder existed as an event (people did kill)
- Teacher's response: The *event* of killing existed, but not the *concept* of murder
- "Cutting off a brother's head" before revelation = just removing an obstacle
- "The guy was in my way, I cut off his head. What's it got to do with murder?"
- "Lo Tirtzach assumes that there's Tirtzach"
- But before "Lo Tirtzach," the word "Tirtzach" only means "something that's lo [forbidden]"
- There is no "Tirtzach she'ken" (permitted murder) - the concept is inherently negative
- Notes: Targum translates "Lo Tirtzach" as something like "don't kill someone who is [innocent]" - already building in the moral category
- Killing before revelation = "just getting rid of a problem"
- Analogy: Moving a chair doesn't require justification; similarly, pushing someone out of your way
- Murder as a *category* only exists post-revelation
- "Lo Tirtzach reveals to you murder. Murder is a bad thing that you don't do."
- "True in the sense of a good way to live, not in the sense of being an absolute truth"
- Same principle applies to: gneivah (theft), tachmod (coveting)
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- Only commandment that comes with a reason given
- Observation: The explanation doesn't tell you *why to rest* (that's obvious - "I give you a day off, you don't ask questions")
- It only explains *why the seventh day specifically*
- "Why not every sixth day? Oh, I'll tell you why."
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- Anochi and Lo Yihyeh = theological foundations
- Kibud Av Va'em = universally accepted
- *[Side Digression]* - 1960s revolution as "meridah" (rebellion) - an inversion, not an absence of the concept
- "The worst situation is that you don't even need that" - current cultural moment
- But naturally we'd revert because "that's really how the world works"
- By being "extremely obvious," they are also "extremely basic"
- All complicated halakhot are "ways of putting together these things"
- Claim: Every law in Mishpatim is a detail of one of these ten
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- Hashavat Aveidah (returning lost objects) - based on Lo Tignov
- Gneivat Da'at (deception) - "a kind of tignov also"
- Tort law ("you broke my thing, you took something away")
- "What is yours, don't take away"
- Almost tautological: "What is not yours doesn't belong to you"
- Teacher: "I think so" - not necessarily historically, but conceptually
- Could imagine a world where Lo Tignov doesn't make sense (like Lo Tirtzach)
- Reference to Kayin as origin of ownership/boundaries
- Bereishit tries to establish these concepts
- All hilchot kinyanim (laws of acquisition) = answering "what is Lo Tignov"
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- Unlike other commandments, Lo Sachmod doesn't state simply and stop
- Has a long list of objects
- Repeats itself (appears twice)
- "Something is weird"
- "I don't even know what it means"
- If meaning is unclear, how can it be "simple" like the others?
- If any other commandment were missing (Lo Tignov, Lo Tirtzach, Shabbat, Lo Tisa), people would notice something basic is absent
- But if Lo Sachmod were missing? "Makes sense. Solves more problems than it costs."
- Joke: "I found a new ktav yad [manuscript] that doesn't have Lo Sachmod"
- Could Lo Sachmod be a "synopsis of it all"?
- Teacher: "It could be. I think it is. Not a synopsis. Something to do with it all."
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- Lo tirzach (murder), lo tin'af (adultery), lo tignov (theft), lo ta'aneh (false witness)
- These are external actions done to other people that are bad
- "It's not enough to not steal. You have to be a nisht gannav" (not-a-thief as identity)
- This framing is notably absent from Ba'alei Mussar literature
- Critique of Mussar movement: "They're somewhat a little bit too caught up in interiority that doesn't refer to anything"
- Don't be jealous (kina) = "don't be an internal gannav"
- Don't imagine adultery = "don't be an internal no'ef"
- References Jesus's teaching: "you've already slept with her in your heart"
- Key principle: Internal states must refer to external actions, not exist independently
- "Most of us are not going to be ganavim and rotzchim and m'nafim" - we pass the external tests
- The Aseret HaDibrot addresses what most people actually struggle with
- Gemara: "Ashrei mi shelo chamad" (praiseworthy is one who doesn't covet) - seems odd since "nobody does it," yet "in some sense, we all do it"
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- "None of you would trust someone that's like the ideal Brisker" who says: "I think I should murder you but I'm having great hisgabrus (self-mastery)"
- Such a person should redirect aggression elsewhere
- Critical distinction: The Gemara doesn't claim such self-control makes you a *better* person - "It's just what's right to do"
- Someone who lacks the internal positive quality (mida pnimis) "is not a bad person"
- But someone with murderous desires controlled only by willpower is fundamentally problematic
- Universal agreement on this intuition
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- If Aseret HaDibrot represents "something basic" about being a good person, it must include the internal dimension
- Lo Sachmod (don't covet) is where this appears
- Not the teacher's innovation: "It says in the Midrash, it says in the Rambam"
- Lo Sachmod is saying: "Of course those are things you shouldn't do. I want to tell you something - you should not want to do them either"
- This prompts self-examination: "Do I want to ganve?"
- Most people genuinely don't want to steal - "you have that middah"
- Foundational claim: "I think otherwise nothing would start. Most people would be killing if they wouldn't have that middah"
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- Lo Sachmod is "not a new thing" - not really a separate mitzvah with its own object
- Against the view: that Lo Sachmod is a "mitzvah shebelev which refers to your heart" independently
- Teacher's position: "It's a mitzvah shebelev but like all mitzvah shebelev refers to an action"
Lo Sachmod Beit Re'acha (neighbor's house):
- Means: Don't want your friend's house enough to go to beit din and claim you bought it with false witnesses
Lo Sachmod Eishet Re'acha (neighbor's wife):
- Connected to lo tin'af but distinct
- Clarification: Lo tin'af doesn't mean "don't have hirhurei nus" (lustful thoughts)
- Random lustful thoughts are a separate issue: "you should be turning and learning and not wasting your great mind and imagination on imagining nonsense"
- Lo sachmod eishet re'acha means: "don't be the kind of guy that wants to and likes to sleep with his neighbor's wife"
- Not Lo Sachmod: Seeing a friend's wife and thinking "that's a beautiful woman, would be nice"
- This "causes bad things" but isn't the prohibition
- Is Lo Sachmod: "That guy has such a beautiful wife. Who gave him the right to have a nice wife? I think I should get it"
- This is jealousy leading to action
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- Briefly mentioned as example of someone who acted on Lo Sachmod
- The story: Achav wanted Navos's vineyard adjacent to his property
- Offered to buy it or trade for a better one
- Navos refused: "This is my father's vineyard, I'm not giving it to you"
- Achav told his wife Jezebel, who arranged to take it anyway
- Teacher's brother's teaching: "Only kings are over on Lo Sachmod"
- Regular people lack the power to act on coveting
- "Even that [coveting] just comes to me because I'm not the king"
- Without power, one doesn't even have the "sign" of Lo Sachmod
- She was from Tzur (Tyre) - "didn't have the Jewish tradition that a king can't really do anything"
- Contrast: "Kings get things, they don't ask"
- Apologetic point: "Even the bad Jewish king would never do this" - required a non-Jew to suggest it
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- "Hamotzi mei'chaveiro alav ha'ra'ayah" (one who extracts from another bears the burden of proof)
- Taking money from someone is described as "the hardest thing" in Halacha
- Contrasted with other areas of law where we're more lenient with doubts
- Money ("gelt") is treated as the ultimate "reisa" (evidence of possession)
- "The original Judaism is very little power for anyone, can't do anything to anyone"
- Beit din has minimal power unless absolutely certain
- Principle of "kol d'alim gavar" (whoever is stronger prevails) - possessor presumed correct
- Rhetorical formulation: "Are you so sure that the Ra'avad is wrong that you take money out of my pocket?"
- The Setup: Ahab wanted Navot's vineyard; his wife said "you're a king, you can take it"
- The Legal Maneuver: They conducted "the only legal execution in the history of the Bible"
- With proper witnesses (edim) and warning (hasra'ah)
- Charged Navot with "megadef" (blasphemy) - "mevarech Elokim u'melech"
- [Side note: Rav Schachter's observation that despite many capital laws, only one person was executed with full halakhic procedure]
- [Side reference: Susanna story in Daniel - similar framing with false witnesses]
- Ahab's defense: "I'm not a murderer! It was a Beis Din ruling!"
- The Multiple Violations:
- Lo Tirtzach (murder)
- Lo Tignov (theft)
- Lo Ta'aneh (false witness)
- But the Root Violation: Lo Sachmod
- He wanted what wasn't his
- Real estate is non-fungible ("location, location, location")
- His kingship made him believe he could take it
- "That's called Lo Sachmod"
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- Lo Sachmod is "the wanting" behind all four previous dibros
- Described as "מצוה שבלב המסיח למעשה הרעה" (commandment of the heart that leads to evil action)
- Key Question Answered: "Where does it say in the Torah you have to have good middos?"
- Answer: Lo Sachmod - specifically the middah of not being a ganav (thief in character)
- Rav Chaim Vital cited (people worry about middos)
- Rambam's "v'halachta bidrachav" mentioned as another source
- But Lo Sachmod specifically addresses the middah of not wanting others' things
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- Ibn Ezra asks: "What if I do [desire]?"
- Sefer HaChinuch's answer: "Psychotherapy, figure it out. Not my problem."
- This is described as "guilt therapy" - the Torah commands it, implementation is your responsibility
Philo's Interpretation (Rejected):
- Interpreted Lo Sachmod as "don't have appetite/desire" (epithymia in Greek)
- Connected to Platonic framework: desire is the problem, follow reason instead
- Teacher's verdict: "He's wrong. He read the wrong translation."
Correct Understanding:
- Lo Sachmod means "wanting someone else's thing too much"
- This is a specific middah that Aristotle discusses (teacher forgot the Greek term)
- Attribution: "Not my vort" - Harry Wolfson and others noticed this distinction
- Some meforshim do interpret Lo Sachmod as "not to have ta'avos" (desires)
- This would be "an entirely, fully internal pshat" - don't be someone who follows desires without control
- But the peshat of the posuk supports the "rei'echo" (neighbor's property) reading
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- There are two Lo Sachmods in Aseres HaDibros
- Teacher's question: "Why not four Lo Sachmods?"
- Answer: "Stylistic" - not a serious difficulty
- Hava amina: Lo Sachmod would prohibit asking for a shidduch ("v'ritah l'vni")
- Resolution: Legitimate pursuit is permitted
- "P'nuya is mutar l'histakel bah, mutar l'achmod"
- The issur depends on the plan/character: if rejection leads to force, that's Lo Sachmod
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- Lo Sin'af only covers eishes ish (married woman)
- What about a p'nuya (unmarried woman)?
- Rambam's chiddush: It's a d'oraisa (kadeisha)
- Ra'avad disagrees
- Machlokes Mechaber and Rema on pelegesh (concubine)
- Ra'avad: "More traditionally Jewish" - didn't hold melech has specific privileges
- Rav Saadia Gaon: Z'nus is included in Lo Sin'af; also says kashrus is part of Lo Sachmod
- K'deishah prohibition could be understood as:
- A problem of ta'iva (desire), OR
- She doesn't belong to you, she belongs to herself
- Both explanations possible
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- Lo Sachmod is "the internal of all these things"
- Lo Sin'af, Lo Tirtzach, Lo Tignov - Lo Sachmod is the internal dimension of each
- Lo Sachmod adds no new prohibited actions
- "There's no ma'aseh that is assur mitzad Lo Sachmod that we're not already osser"
- Whatever is Lo Tignov is also Lo Sachmod
- The prohibition works in two ways:
1. It leads to the external violations
2. "It's itself a bad thing because you're a bad person for wanting that"
What Lo Sachmod Does NOT Mean:
- Wanting to have the same thing someone else has
- Example: Seeing someone's beautiful car and wanting one like it - "That's not Lo Sachmod"
- "There's enough in the store"
What Lo Sachmod DOES Mean:
- "I want *his* car" - specifically his, not one like it
- Leading to: "I'm going to take it away from him"
- Method: Lo tignov (theft)
- If he won't give it: Lo tirtzach (murder)
- Chain of prohibitions: Coveting → Theft → Murder
- Teacher acknowledges: "To really justify this I have to get into the whole sugya"
- "It's not so simple, I might be wrong"
- But sufficient for the shiur's purposes
- Will present Ibn Ezra's answer(s) to the Lo Sachmod problem in future sessions
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The class moves from general principles about internality and virtue, through an extended treatment of the Ten Commandments' nature as revelatory "moral inventions," to a detailed analysis of Lo Sachmod as the key to understanding character-based ethics in Torah. Multiple digressions explore rabbinic attitudes toward systematization, the nature of self-evident moral truths, and halakhic principles about property and power. The central thesis emerges that Lo Sachmod functions as the internal dimension of the preceding prohibitions, representing the Torah's demand not merely for correct action but for correct character - while insisting that this internal dimension must always refer to external actions rather than existing as self-referential interiority.
Instructor: Yeah, so now we're having a sheet there. You go with my microphone on, I hope so. Can't see from here. I hope that it's on. So yeah, it's doing the green up and down, my green voice thing.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Instructor: And with there you have to see also. Okay, it's got up and down the right under the platter.
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Instructor: Okay, so last week we finished off Noysek B'FonKluli [noyse klali: general subject]. The first half of last week's shiur [Torah lecture] was about the chiluk [distinction] between fake—what I call fake, but maybe other people are old of it—and real internality, internalism, pnimius [pnimiyus: internality/inwardness]. Right? What was the fake version? Fake version is a kind of internality. How do you say pnimius [pnimiyus]? That ends inside. Yeah, interiority is a better word. Interiority. That interior designers know there's some of the interior design is of the human being.
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Instructor: And then there's other Yidden [Jews]. You know what they're thinking between a Goyish [non-Jewish] house and a Yiddish [Jewish] house? What's it looking like? You live here in Lakewood, in Howell? What's it looking like between a Goyish house and a Yiddish house? How do you know if a house is Yiddish or Goyish? You pass by. Firstly, you can see which Yiddish have certain cars. No lights. Goyish don't have lights inside. But they have a lot of lights outside. You notice?
Student: Yeah, that's true.
Instructor: Well, I think literally a Goyish house, American Goyim [non-Jews]—the Mexican going to have a different monogamy, but the American going to the Dominican—the outside of the house is beautiful. It's very taken care of. There's nice furniture, there's lights, there's grass is groomed, and all of that. But it's light. They put in money and a nice facade and all of that. Something called curb appeal by the real estate agents.
And then you walk inside and like the kitchen is like piles of rice cakes on the counter, and their toaster is kept on the counter, and also the hot water machine, and also the coffee for the next four weeks. Four weeks they keep everything out and it's a big huge mess, basically. Or maybe in their head it's not a mess, but to me it looks amazing. It's also dark. I say the style of keeping everything out, like yeah, and there's dots on the wall, the spoons around the counter, like and so on. So the inside is not so nice.
Instructor: And you get the house from the outside looks like a Harvard. There's like a broken car in the front if you're a Jewish, and there's grass is not caught, and the there's like broken bikes that the kids might have used last year still. And where you live is also like that.
And you come inside and the sputle [spotless] is the floor. Nothing is out of place. The counters are all clean, like pure surfaces. A lot of lights always. That's the chiluk [distinction].
Instructor: And that's why is it that? Because in Golus [galus: exile], the Yidden [Jews] don't care about the external, because we know who cares? It's for the Goy [non-Jew] that's going to watch.
Instructor: You know, the guy—there was a Yid [Jew] that the Gevir [wealthy person] from Stut was passing around with his new stramo [shtreimel: fur hat worn by Hasidic Jews], and the Schlepper [poor person] said, "I think you should have made it a little different over there." And I was like, "Who are you? Could you see your stramo when you wear it?" "No." "So it's for me. I'm giving you my criticism. I think it should have been..."
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Instructor: So the Kitzit [in short], the Eden [Jews], got very into this idea of internalism or interiority, which is very important. What we say the and everything. But the Meise [ma'aseh: deed/action], not so simple. It's very easy to get into little self-reinforcing loops, like internal loops with all of these things. And one of the problems with being too internal is that you get in Kavanah [intention], right?
Instructor: We have this word Kavanah. There's Kavanah and Maisa [ma'aseh: action]. Kavanah is the inside. There's Kavanah as the inside, and Maisa, or words, are the outside, right?
Instructor: Now what happens is that you get a concept of Kavanah, or of inside, intention or interiority, which is not directed towards anything but itself. This might be a very good thing for a certain other level of ethics which we're not discussing in this class yet. But you have to remember with the victim a part that we said last week is that most of the time now we learn Rambam [Maimonides] talks a lot about the internal. That we talk about Midas [middos: character traits]. We have this big lot that says it's not enough to do correct actions, you have to also be a good person, right? Which is something internal.
Instructor: People think that this means something that ends by the internal, an internal that is focused upon itself. It's somehow self-recursive thought, like looking a mirror you see thousand mirrors. It keeps on really telling you the same thing, just getting smaller and smaller.
Instructor: And therefore people think, "I'm a good person." What do you mean you're a good person? "Well, I don't help anyone, but I feel very much for that pain. I have a lot of empathy." Sometimes they're also words. Like, "I'm not going to actually give you a dollar, but like, yeah, I feel so bad for you."
Student: I think the dynamic comes... That might be a goal, I think, because it comes from... Because you don't have money. A different... A different path to the Jewish religion, not the Jewish religion.
Instructor: Mm. We can talk about that, but that's another whole... It's more... I'm going to give you a little bit of history about this, but I think something's going on. But there's a lot... There's a lot... This is a very serious question. It's very deep. There's also a correct way of having that, which I... We also said that's also a level.
Student: Yeah, yeah, I know.
Instructor: I don't want to make fun of it. I just want to say, in certain contexts, at least, it's totally useless. And therefore, it's important to disambiguate when we talk about this thing. It's very important.
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Instructor: We're not talking about actions. We're talking about midas [middos], about something internal. But what our main part was to say, to clarify, that this does not mean wanting, not mean something that is focused. The intention is not towards itself, not towards having the correct feelings towards you or something like that, but it's about having the correct intention, the correct feeling, the correct emotion towards the action.
Instructor: So we say, for example, we're going to get into all the list of virtues, the list of good midas [middos]. You have to understand that what defines the good midas is always an action. It's never an internal feeling. But the mida [middah: character trait] consists of an internal feeling, of an internal habit, of an internal disposition to choose, as we've discussed last week's, right?
Instructor: So for like the middle of the correct amount of—how does he call it—the generosity, the liberality, the correct amount of giving is a middle which is about the outside. It's not about itself, right? Someone who says, "I'm a generous person on the inside, but I don't actually help many people, don't give much"—there is only one way in which that can be somewhat true, and even then it's only halfway through.
Instructor: It can only be somewhat true in the sense where maybe you're very generous, but you have no possessions, or you have no money, or you have no capacities to share with anyone. Then you could say, "Well, I'm as good as I can be, but I need some external tools with which to be generous." And even then, couldn't tell, at least, you're not really generous. You're only potentially generous. But then you could say maybe you're a good person.
Instructor: But besides for that, it never means something like having the correct feelings. It only means the correct—you have to have the correct feelings, but what the definition of those feelings is—the loving that generosity is not "I want to give you," it's "I love to give." That's all point of it, right? That's why if someone says, "I love to—I'm generous," and he doesn't act generous, generously—lying. He's not just like—it's not possible to have a conflict between mid [middah] and a—I mean, there could be a conflict, but it's not the way we imagine it usually.
Instructor: It's not like I say, "I haven't you good on the inside, I just have some yetzer hara [evil inclination] that can makes me not do it." That doesn't really make sense, or less there's some cases where there are—there is ways of explaining this.
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Instructor: But it could be the other way around also, where the guy just gives, gives, yes, but inside he's for sure, right? That's that's the normal case, because we talk about educating yourself. When you start giving, you don't feel anything. You don't like it. You start doing it, and then you like it. You train yourself. So there is such a case, of course. But still, the liking is...
Student: Why me, vice versa? Not really. That you want to do it, but you don't. I mean, other than, like you said, it's not possible.
Instructor: There is that. There is another way. There is something else also, but we have to... We'll get to that at some point, because this interaction was about in the past couple of weeks.
Student: Which is?
Instructor: This interaction between the two, which is something bad. It's like me.
Student: Why? I'm trying to grasp it, and it's slipping out of my grasp.
Instructor: Explain.
Student: I don't know, because it's 6 in the morning on the 8th. Like this. Like that. It wanted to be neat, and say, like, it's a neat answer. Bad. It's not so neat. But that, then that's in the inside. If it's real, automatically it's the outside. But the outside, you could do the action without needing an inside, and that doesn't have to be the case.
Instructor: What's the problem?
Student: You're acting as if. You're acting as the good person would have acted. But what's motivating that?
Instructor: Oh, that's a good question.
Student: Like in that sense, could you say that you want to be that type of person?
Instructor: Yeah. Usually, the weird thing with this is usually the answer is something like education, external education.
Student: See, but what's motivating the motivation? What's motivating that? Is it that—is it that you actually love wanting to be that person? And when you say just—just push it back, it's that? Or is it something else?
Instructor: No, usually it's someone else telling you that. The reality—in reality, and I think also—yeah, in reality, when I say in reality, I first I meant like in reality in the books, and also in the reality in real life, that's a good question. But someone else—can you always push back and just find another thing that you love? Like you love listening to authorities, so that's why you're doing it? Or you love...
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Instructor: What's the problem? You're acting as if—you're acting as the good person would have acted. But what's motivating that?
Student: Oh, that's a good question. Like in that sense, could you say that you want to be that type of person?
Instructor: Yeah, usually the weird thing with this is, usually the answer is something like education, external education. See, but what's motivating that? Like, shelo lishmah [not for its own sake]. What's motivating that? Is it that you actually love wanting to be that person, and when you say it, just push it back a step? Or is it something else?
No, usually it's someone else telling you. That's the reality. In reality, and I think also, yeah, in reality, when I say in reality, I first meant, like, in reality in the books, and also in the reality in real life.
Student: But what if you can listen to that someone else?
Instructor: Well, that's a good question. But someone else...
Student: Can you always push back and just find another thing that you love? Like, you love listening to authorities? So that's why you're doing it? Or you love trying to be that type of person, even not yet that type of person?
Instructor: I mean, in some sense, you could push things back in the sense of everyone knows, even education starts with the love of some, namely the love of pleasure and the aversion of pain. Education educates by pleasure and pain. So everyone likes pleasure. Pleasure is just a word for what we like, in some sense. Not entirely, but in some sense.
Therefore, when we educate you, and also when you educate yourself, maybe, but definitely the primary case of education is when someone else educates you, then they're going to give you prizes and promise you rewards and threaten you with punishments for doing the correct thing. Then you're going to start doing them for the wrong reason, right?
You see another way of defining having them in the being of the person versus not being is the reason you're doing it, the "for," right? The good person does the good for the good reasons, which is that he loves the good, which is the good reason. The bad person which does good things does good things but for the wrong reason.
That's called in our tradition precisely this, right? If you give tzedakah [charity] because you want to have honor, then you're doing the right thing but for the wrong reason. So you're not really a tzedakah giver, you're really an honor looker for.
And slowly you're going to start liking the gift. Yes, this is what I discussed a few times here. It's good, it's good to do that, because you don't actually stay with the honor for the most part. It moves a little bit, almost for everyone, because of how education works, because of the power of habits, because people tend to like what they are used to.
And also because you start seeing the good in it. Because how do you see the good? Seeing the good is an experience. How are you going to see that it's good to give? Like you never saw giving. You can see it by someone else or you can see it by yourself. And you see how it is to give, and you start seeing that it's good, and then you start liking it. Does that make sense?
Instructor: So now, what I want to do a little bit today—this is all the things that we already know, or hopefully already know. I wonder how much it helps in reality, but we already know these things. What we have to do today is talk a little bit about some specifics.
Specifics, that's really the next part of the course. Never ending course.
Student: No, it's not never ending. Never ending is only the eternal.
Instructor: You're supposed to be up to see this, like I told you.
Student: What? Like according to the banks, my guy, what do you mean supposed to go back? I see this in Shevat HaKadokim [unclear reference]. The fact that I see this goes...
Instructor: Okay, okay. So we're supposed to have to—why? I'm not sure you're predicting. I don't know. I don't remember. You were very ambitious then. Not sure. I'm not sure I remember what you mean.
But what I want to tell you is that we have to get into specifics. So the next part of the course, also this is what we're up to in Shevat HaKadokim, is going to be about working through some or all, or figuring out how to decide what are the some and the all of these good middos [character traits] and seeing what they are and how to get them. At least, maybe at least to judge the people that don't have them. That would be more fun.
So, since this week was Parshas Yisro [the Torah portion of Yitro] and this week is Parshas Mishpatim [the Torah portion of Mishpatim], I've decided to talk a little bit about a certain mitzvah [commandment], maybe more than one mitzvah, but specifically one mitzvah that is seemingly a middah, a very explicit halakha [Jewish law], a very explicit mitzvah that is about an internal thing.
And I want to describe to you how there are different readings of it, some of which are entirely internal and they're bad, according to me, and some of which have the correct understanding, which is an internal thing that is directed towards an external action. And then the internal becomes very important because the external is caused by it, but not because it's caused by itself, not because it's turned towards itself. That's the discussion, but I will try to show you how complicated this is.
So, you know already what the mitzvah is, right? It's the last one of the Ten Commandments. Lo Tachmod [Do not covet]. According to some people, the second, the two last ones, but for sure the last one. And the end of the Aseres HaDibros [the Ten Commandments], which is a great piece of law or literature or Musa [Moses], whatever you want to call it. Pretty nice shtickle [piece], right? Musa is not that bad.
Student: What? Musa is not that bad.
Instructor: As I said, this is a pretty nice shtickle. Many people have been quite impressed by it. Right?
Instructor: Not our ancient teachers, may their memory be blessed. They were not very impressed by it. They were kind of against being impressed by it, right?
Student: Aristotle you're talking about? Who's the ancient teachers that were not impressed by it?
Instructor: I'm sorry, I just stopped saying it. The Ten Commandments.
Student: No, exactly. What?
Instructor: The rabbis of the Mishnah and the Talmud were not impressed by the Ten Commandments. They did not make a big deal out of it. They even said that you should not, that it might have been a nice idea. Saba Pekarsim [the heretics] said that the main thing is the Ten Commandments. And they said it's not. You should not make a big deal of it.
Whenever they say something like this, like apikorsim [heretics] say that, that means like there's a good reason to think that, but it's wrong. You could always say it's just external, just because it's like you. You can't put it in tefillin [phylacteries]. Yosei Elkrief Elkrief [unclear reference]. Don't read it. Don't repeat it twice a day. Or don't put it in your mezuzah [doorpost scroll], as others did.
Student: We could have a different interpretation of this, where it's just totally political, like don't wear the hat because they wear the hat. But it seems to me more that this is a real, a real opposition between some—you think it's not just because it leads to an imbalance?
Instructor: Leads to?
Student: An imbalance. What do you mean?
Instructor: It means that, let's say Shema [the central Jewish prayer] is very general, he doesn't have this issue. When you get, when you elevate certain specific mitzvos, even if maybe they should be elevated, they're automatically to get elevated too much at the expense of everything else. So it's an imbalance of how, meaning they should be somewhat more.
Instructor: That's what they said. That's what they said. The rabbis that said this were opposed to making the mitzvos into a logical system. I think that this is very related. This is going to be another whole shiur [lecture], so I can't get into it. Very related to people later, like Rabbi Yitzchak Abarbanel being opposed to Ikkarim [fundamental principles] and Ali Khamzaif [possibly Albo or another reference] and others.
Because there is a kind of rationalization, making sense of things. Like we have this whole Torah, it's very big, it's long, it's five long books, relatively long books, and there's six Sidrei Mishnah [orders of the Mishnah] and all of that. And what is this?
A ger [convert] once came to Hillel and Shammai and told them to teach him the whole Torah on one foot. And Shammai gave him the traditional answer: Get out of my life. That's the traditional answer to someone who tells you, what is Judaism? Drop dead. What do you mean, what is Judaism? I don't know. So I didn't mismatch [study Mishnah] for 35 years. Maybe you'll know. What is this all about? Right? Very traditional.
Hillel was nicer, so he said, you know what, I can speak to you in your language too. Judaism is about being good to your fellow man. But that was just him sort of acquiescing to that guy's framing. It doesn't mean that Hillel really thought that. It's explicitly framed this story as Hillel being nicer. It's not framed as Hillel having a better theology, right? There was just a different guy who was Hillel's contemporary who did seriously think that. But that's not what Hillel thought.
I think Hillel did exactly what Shammai did, just in a more diplomatic way. That's what I think.
Student: No, Hillel did tell him something. There is some very important point that I've heard from my teacher about, what was his name? One of my living teachers.
Instructor: Basically, everyone said that Hillel said, the whole Torah is, and the rest is commentary. That's what everyone says it says in English, but the Gemara [Talmud] doesn't say that. It doesn't say that.
Student: What does it say?
Instructor: No, I said, whatever.
Student: What does it say?
Instructor: Very good. And now for the rest. Come to the beis midrash [study hall] tomorrow. It doesn't say, and then the rest is commentary.
So he didn't say, go away from here. He said he did give him some kind of klal [general principle], but he didn't say that the Torah consists of elaborating this klal, elaborating this generalization. What he said was that there is something simple I should tell you, you'll finish with this. It's more like I told you the story of the Skverer Rebbe [the Rebbe of Skver], that's what you're interpreting it, right? Skverer Rebbe, Chalane Levrocha Rebbeca Yosef Doris [unclear reference].
Instructor: And then the rest is commentary. So he didn't say go away from here. He says he did give him some kind of clout, but he didn't say that the Torah consists of elaborating this clout, elaborating this generalization. What he said was that there is something simple, I should tell you. We'll finish with this. It's more like I told you the story of the—
That's what you're interpreting it, right? Some students came to him. They heard that he's a Chassidish rabbi, a real Chassidish rabbi. They wanted to know what Chassidus is. They said they're going to write it up in their newspaper. So he said, well, first Chassidus is not reading newspapers. But then they said, okay, so we won't write it in the newspaper. We'll just really want to know. He said, no problem. Come to my office, I'll tell you.
And he came and he told them, look, we have a tradition that we only teach you the second thing after you understand and internalize the first thing. So I'll tell you the first lesson. When you finish understanding it and internalizing it, you'll come back. I'll continue. First lesson of Chassidus says that everything is השגחה פרטית [hashgachah pratis: divine providence]. Now, goodbye. Come back when you understood what am I saying.
That's what Hillel said, right? The first lesson is like, love, don't do what your friend does. You figured out this, come back. Let's see. And the guy never came back. Okay.
Student: I think the opposite. I think like this. This guy came to see some ecstasy.
Instructor: If you want to speak, you have to speak into the mic.
Student: I think what happened was, this guy was looking for ecstasy. Like a lot of people, right? When they become, they become like, they're finding religion. They're finding religion, yeah? So they come and they're like, oh, whatever. They think this is the זך [zach: the essence], yeah? So they think like they caught God in a bottle. So they asked what's this. So Shammai is like, you crazy or something? Get out of here. This is not our religion. We're not into these CBGB's, some ecstasy stuff. So then he went to Hillel and he told them the same thing. He answered exactly what I did, just in a much more diplomatic way. He said the most basic simple human thing.
Why is it kind of שוגר [sugar: strange/odd] that he's all of a sudden turning into a Jew, like, what's the דוהן געזיין [dohen gezein: what's going on here]?
Instructor: Okay, okay. That's a good question. But that would be your מעשה רב [ma'aseh rav: authoritative precedent]. Okay. Let's move on. Point is, very nice Torah. Thank you. Shabbat shalom. Very nice Torah. Now if anyone else has a word to say, otherwise we can continue.
Instructor: What I was saying is that our rabbis were kind of opposed, our rabbis, some of them, later during, even in those, in ancient times, our rabbis that were doing this. But the rabbis of the, whose words were written down in the Mishnah and the Talmud, were not very big fans of doing this kind of rationalization, where you find, like, this is the one rule, everything follows from it. They were kind of opposed to it in many different ways.
Well, they did it, of course, but there's no such thing as learning without doing that. That's what understanding is, is finding generalizations and forms. But they were opposed to doing too much of it. And, by the way, our teacher Aristotle was also opposed to it. That's why he was not so happy with certain Platonists. And that's another שטיקל תורה [shtikel Torah: piece of Torah teaching] that I have, but that's enough for now.
Instructor: And therefore, עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros] was understood very ancient times already as being some kind of ten generalizations, ten principles, right? There were kinds of principles actually in Greek, which is what all the Greeks are always looking for. And they said, these are the principles of the Torah. Everything else follows from them.
Our rabbis were like, nah, yeah, nice things, not against them. It might be very important. Principles? I don't know. How about, how about knowing the exact amount of אמות [amos: cubits] that you have to put wheat from a vineyard from? Do you know that? It seems important. That's the principle that everything else is built on. No, it's important. It's just as important.
Instructor: So they were not fans of this. They were very afraid of people simplifying Judaism, like Zephyr said. Why do we have such long books? We could write a little small book called the Catholicism. How do they call it? The Catholic thing. This is what you've got to know to be a Jew. No, it doesn't work like this. You've got to live a life. Of course, there are some principles, but you can't make it into a principle. Sometimes you take it out of the life. That's, I think, the real criticism.
It's like someone says, what is the יסוד [yesod: foundation] of Chassidus? The יסוד of Chassidus is just to come every week to the Rebbe's טיש [tish: Chassidic gathering], or whatever, to hang out. What is the teaching of Yitzchok Lohar? There's no teaching of Yitzchok Lohar. I hope not. The teaching is you come every week to the שיעור [shi'ur: class]. And slowly you start having that kind of mind that understands things in that way, you start living that kind of life that lives that way, and so on.
There isn't like a teaching which can be bottled in a bottle and sent down the ocean. Maybe someone will find it. That's not how the Torah works. I think that that's the main reason that they were opposed to this, because it's like this, it turns into something that can be bottled into a little bottle, and then sent down along the ocean, and then someone finds it and creates a new religion because it's based on the same principles, and you go there and you talk to the guy, and he's doing all kinds of weird things. They're like, what do you mean? What do you mean? I went with your principles. זה לא עובד ככה [zeh lo oved kacha: it doesn't work like that]. That's how I understand the position to principles.
Instructor: But what am I talking to you about now? Oh, but other people were very impressed by this עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros], and they did think as principles. And obviously, the Chumash itself seems to think that, because what's the point of this whole story? So, and it's repeated twice. I mean, it seems to have been something like, I don't think there's even one other thing. I mean, there's many repetitions in Mishnah Torah, but almost word for word repetition. There's 20 words difference or something like that. There isn't anything else like that. It's obviously something seen as central already in the Chumash itself. Of course, in Tanakh it's not mentioned even one more time. But anyways, in the Chumash it's mentioned twice. So it seems to be important.
Now, this is their significance. I think that it's important. In other words, I think it's very nice. Very nice שטיקל תורה [shtikel Torah].
Student: And who was the first one to say that the עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros] are the principles?
Instructor: I don't know who was the first one to say. The first one to write that the עשרת הדברות are principles for all the mitzvos?
Student: Thank you very much. I'm before him.
Instructor: That's what Rashi brings.
Student: Of course Rashi brings that.
Instructor: Before him was a Jew, not long before him. Centuries before him.
Student: Oh, that was not before עשרת הדברות, you see?
Instructor: No, no, he's before that. I just bought Philo this week, so forgive me for not being able to speak.
Student: Okay, very good. Who's that father in the Gemara there? He doesn't say I said to him. He's in that whole Gemara. I said to him, so I'm not one of them. He makes it up, then he ordered one, right?
Instructor: I'm sure. I have Philo, who was a Yid [Jew] in the times of the Tannaim [Talmudic sages], called ברבי מנחם עזריה ידידיה [Barabai Menachem Azariah Yedidya], which is a cute translation of Philo. אבל [Aval: However], Philo, who was a good Jew, he wrote a book called the Ten Commandments, or something like that, and then wrote a book on the details of the commandments, and there's a long book, it's like three volumes in the translation, and all of this is describing how the Ten Commandments include all the mitzvos, and then going into detail and explaining all the mitzvos as they are coming out of the Ten Commandments.
Instructor: So he was the one that invented this, and like many other things, somehow magically, all the later, what we call medieval rationalists and medieval mystics, all the people that were trying to interpret the Torah in some kind of language similar to what Philo was doing, all ended up saying the same exact things as him. But I don't think it's because, I mean, some people would say they must have stolen it somehow, like there was some manuscript somewhere, which is also possible. There is some kind of genealogy that leads from Philo to Rav Saadia and so on. But nobody could really trace the book. But there is something like that.
I, myself, think something like that in his very famous history of thought in פרק אלף [Perek Alef: Chapter One]. But also, of course, Philo was just learning from Plato. Plato learned from Yirmiyahu [Jeremiah]. Anyways.
Instructor: But also, it's kind of obvious, right? I think the more the better is that this is pretty obvious. If you read it, it's a [text unclear] that show you how פרשת קדושים [Parshas Kedoshim: the portion on holiness] or פרשת משפטים [Parshas Mishpatim: the portion on laws] are interpretations of עשרת הדברות [Aseres HaDibros]. It's not something that Philo entirely invented, just like the text. We read that guy about the pattern, but the pattern isn't true, is it?
Student: Yeah. No, the ירושלמי [Yerushalmi: Jerusalem Talmud] says that קריאת שמע [Krias Shema: the Shema prayer] is עשרת הדברות.
Instructor: These are things that are in Midrash also. So it's not like he entirely invented the idea, but he very much formalized it and saw it this way.
Instructor: Okay, so now the עשרת הדברות is a very nice text. And what's interesting is, you read the עשרת הדברות? This got only 10 things, very nice round number, 10, very important number. There's different ways of making it into 10, but for sure has 10 things. All of them are very simple, right?
Simple what? רבי אברהם אבן עזרא [Rabbi Abraham Ibn Ezra] all of that says that the דברות [Dibros: Commandments] are things that we don't need lights and sirens to know, besides for one.
Instructor: Remember Hashem made His whole pyrotechnic show, where He lit up a mountain in fire and descended upon it with His chariot, that's what it says in Tehillim [Psalms], and made the whole world silent and spoke, and then said, something like you claim Hillel was doing to make fun of us, and said, I please don't murder anyone. I beg you. And everyone was like, good thought, God. Thank you so much. Thank you for the root of our Torah coming out past the soup.
Instructor: Thank you for coming out past the soup. And then they had the cheesecake, because they didn't know how to anything. Gosh, I'm going into this rhetorical mood.
So all of the sides for one are obvious things that every person in the world agrees to, which one doesn't they agree to or that they don't disagree with that needs an explanation?
Student: Which one, Matt?
Instructor: No, which one?
Student: Okay, just a bit thick.
Student: Chavez?
Instructor: Chavez, yeah. And I go Chavez if there's a shame. Now of course you might not know that there's a God, but after you know there's a God and that's bringing His name falsely is pretty obvious. But there's only one thing that you would not know if nobody would tell you.
And you know how I know that my understanding is correct, that this is the only thing that needs an explanation? How do we know? It says that. Thank you very much. Because the Pasuk [verse] itself thinks so. When it says—well, it gives you a threat, it does give you like a key. It says, "Please don't have any other gods, because don't you dare, don't even think about it."
There was a funny line about that, to make sure. The reason is, like it says in the Pasuk, he's like, he's a little bit, he's a...
Student: Where?
Instructor: I'm not sure what you mean.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: But basically because I am the only one. Okay. Also, because God will be very mad, but it's understandable why He will be mad, right? Very good.
Instructor: Everyone's like, what? What's this Shabbos thing? By the way, they already knew. You know how they knew, right? They kept them in Mitzrayim [Egypt].
Student: In Mitzrayim?
Instructor: In Marah. We're reading the Pesach [Passover] in Marah, right? Shai, shi, shi, yom, tov, k'tiv [six days, good day, written]. There was already Shabbos.
But anyways, Hashem told me, you know why? I was like, why? What's this thing about Shabbos? Oh, ki shai, shi, shi, yom [for six days]—thank you very much. Now we understand why.
And then He moved on, you know why? Doesn't say "ki" [because], right? Says "l'maan" [so that]. Will be nice, will give you sachar [reward], but really obvious.
Then He said another five things, all of which don't even have that level of explanation. You don't even need a threat or a promise from God to do them, right?
Student: Why?
Instructor: He's going to go to Ghana.
Student: No, that's where it ends.
Instructor: All these things, they're self-explanatory. And if someone says—then he ruined it. Because let's take a self-explanatory: if I tell you there's—you right away say, "Yeah, that makes sense."
Now you want—I want to tell you something. One second. Can I say there's actually, I think they say that it's—mind the Tyrant made it pashut [simple], the fact that the Tyrant wrote it, that's what makes it so pashut.
Student: I'll tell you the part in the gap with other stuff.
Instructor: That's what Abkhazia said, literally.
Student: I know, I know, you have other—your AI is working well.
Instructor: My AI?
Student: Yes, I said it's a little short, but it's a little short.
Instructor: Listen, very important to realize this. When you want to understand what is the great thing—I think you know it's great, this is really great—because my sheet most of the time, it's not like once I told you it's like, "Yeah, itself just saying it explains it." Usually it's like, "Well, I think he said it, maybe he knows what he's talking about, so I might take it seriously," or "You know, we had a good eye from the Rambam, so maybe it's good," and so on. That's why whatever I tell you something, usually it's not called vanish'em [from heaven]. You don't say, "Wow, they put—God Himself came down and with His chariot and told us this." You got it?
When someone says something that is so obvious—when I say obvious, I don't mean that you know it before. Because it's not—I don't think it's true that everyone knew before this. When I said, "This is a dozen explanation," I don't mean—I'm not going to have a Tzaddik [righteous person] who said it the wrong way. I don't mean that everyone knew that not to kill.
You know how I know that not everyone knew that? Yeah, they've done that since forever. Then the first second guy in humanity, according to the story of Parshas Bereishis [Genesis], was a murderer. Obviously he didn't think that it's obviously wrong to kill. Of course, in some sense he did, because the story continues with Hashem telling him, "What's going on with you?" But not that obvious.
But when I tell you—okay, so that's only the first person. What about the 10th and 20th and 30th person? They found out. They found out. You could find this out. That's what I'm trying to say.
Instructor: They're not innate in the sense that you can't find that out. It's simple in the sense that if I tell it to you, then you're like, "Wow, you tell me something true." You see, there's a big difference between me telling you something and it being something you already knew—and that's why it's simple, like, "Thank you very much, obvious"—and me telling you something that you only know because I told you, or at least some—maybe you only know it because I told you. But when I tell it to you, you don't have—you don't go around saying, "I know it because he told me," or even "because he proved it to me," or even "because he made me a mofeis [sign/miracle]," he made the—the best midrash move. And that's how I know it. He told me something that is as clear as the seven heavens opening up and the earth opening up.
Student: Why did you use that motion? It's not a wish. Let's have a mission for the clear—for the clear part.
Instructor: That's what clarity is.
Student: Is that what I'm talking about?
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: When I say—what do you think the difference is? What do you think the difference is? So what? Therefore.
Instructor: So therefore, what I'm trying to say is that if you say, "It's simple, we don't need God to come down in heaven to say that"—that's nonsense. It might be simple in the sense that when it's told to you, it's its own proof. But it's not simple in the sense that everyone knows it. It's not true that everyone knows it. I know a bunch of people that don't know it. And even more people literally don't know it. In other words, they never heard of the problem. You can say, "Know it," but you already know it. But there's many people, and I can show you this, many cultures even, or many generations who don't know it.
Once you make this rule—in other words, let's think, I can get into very deep about this and talk about, like, the amount of criticism of Rav Saadia for saying that the mitzvah of sichli [rational commandment] is because it's not something that has anything sichli in the other mazah [attribute]. Sichli is only God and His angels. That's what I'm saying, right? Therefore they can't be mitzvos, because only God Himself and His angels are sichli.
Student: But are they talking at each other? There are other principles—the holy Albam and better in our book that we're reading in Berick [Shemoneh Perakim]—love says Rav Saadia Go and said nonsense. He said that there are mitzvos, there's no mitzvos. That's what the holy Rama said.
Instructor: So what are you doing? I'm telling you right now what they are. Word sichli is in the same way.
Student: No, they're using the same way, and the round thing that—
Instructor: Now I'm telling you to believe me because I don't have patience to show you all the proofs, but there's things that say no, exactly.
Student: So that's the other way, but that's not why the Rav was upset at Rav Saadia for saying sichli.
Instructor: The Rav was upset at Rav Saadia for saying, then he wouldn't be upset at him for saying Shemiyas [hearing]. That was not the opposite. The Rav was upset at Rav Saadia for saying sichli because he thinks that Rav Saadia doesn't understand what seichel [intellect/reason] means. He thinks that anything that sounds reasonable is seichel. Sounding reasonable is not seichel. It's unreasonable—is, in other words, the question that the Tzivuvis [commandments] are answering, at least the second part of them, is not the question of what the truth is.
There isn't any truth anywhere that says you shouldn't kill anyone, or at least not in a simple sense. In some complex sense, yes, because that's why we say that God said this. But in a simple sense, there isn't.
Instructor: But if I—I'll tell you how it's simple. It's simple in the sense, exactly—it's simple in the sense of the answer to the question which most people should have, which is: What would be a good rule for putting on our Aron Kodesh [Holy Ark] in our shul [synagogue]? What would be a good rule for organizing my society? That's the question.
And now, for that kind of question, I can tell you it's a good rule because an angel came and told me that. That would be one way of making good rules. I can tell you it's a good rule because if I'll explain to you at length that the free market is a good thing—because when Milton Friedman said, when he wrote a book, and then someone else wrote a different book, but it turns out that he was right because he made a long experiment and he showed you all of this—okay, I might be convinced. But that's not self-explanatory. That's not self-evident.
Instructor: Self-evident things: if someone comes and says, "You've got a question, like how should you live your life? How should you relate to other human beings? Let me tell you: don't murder." Everyone says, "That's a good rule."
"I didn't think of it before. At first I thought maybe we should go on around murdering and whoever is the greatest murderer should win. I don't know. I didn't realize. But once you told me the rule, it's very obvious."
It's obvious in the sense that it explains itself. It doesn't need more explanation. It's a really good proposal. There were a lot of people that said it's not a good proposal. But normal people think that it's a good proposal.
Student: What is the thought process before that? Before someone tells you that? I'm not understanding.
Instructor: You're all too good people. I don't have to go to the conclusion now. We are all too nice people that think that murdering is bad. Is it because it's a better rule of thumb than the other ones? Because the other ones also might be true. Because they're not really categorically different. Let's make a rule like how do you set how to make iron cutters.
Instructor: Now, you right away think that's a good rule. Why? Why is it a good rule? I think it's a terrible rule. Explain.
Student: Explain? No, no, no, I can't explain. If you're going to start explaining then we're not talking about this.
Instructor: What?
Student: I think society would be amazing if you weed out the bad.
Instructor: Who is talking about bad people? Murder means good people.
Student: No, no, no, murder doesn't mean... This is just a translation issue. It means don't kill anyone who does not deserve to die.
Instructor: What does "deserve" mean? Ah, good question. We'll find out next week, Parshas Mishpatim [the Torah portion dealing with civil and criminal law]. You're not saying anything here. I'm saying something very simple. Murder by definition means an unjustified murder. I know. So when you say you can justify a bunch of murders, you're not talking to me. You're talking to someone else. Parshas Mishpatim talks about that.
Student: I don't mean a justified murder when you say bad. When I say bad, I mean like a goat and a lion. That's what I mean bad. In other words, I need to eat. Those murders are not justified.
Instructor: Those aren't justified for the lion?
Student: It's very justified.
Instructor: Why not?
Student: What do you mean? He needs to survive. This is how you survive.
Instructor: Very good.
Student: For life, it's good for you.
Instructor: It's not good for you. It's not good. I'm just telling you that you see that it's not good. You didn't think—you thought there was to be a good idea.
Student: I think it's an awesome idea. No problem. I'm not going to have a card game with you.
Instructor: I don't understand why you—what are you clarifying? I'm really not playing a game. Meaning, I'm trying to tell you that there was such an understanding that *tzirtzah* [murder] was good. There was not an understanding. You keep on thinking there's understandings. We all have this weird funny way of thinking that people that don't understand, understand things. It's a big mistake.
Gosh, I could talk to you about this for 500 years. Listen to me. Listen to me. If I get you—let me never listen to me—but listen to me. You keep on thinking that revelation is something that comes to go against something that someone thought otherwise. Nobody thinks things otherwise.
Student: You said that.
Instructor: I didn't say that. You said that. You said the guy came down—
Student: Suppose it's also—
Instructor: No, it was very clear to them.
Student: Exactly. That wasn't clear to them before.
Instructor: Exactly. Something was not being clear. Not being clear doesn't mean that you thought a nice Toyota wine murder would be good. It means that I don't know—nobody considered it. You can't even imagine this because you're so with Hashem [God], so Jewish, so much. And you, by the way, just to be very clear, you are so—you are so convinced by this revelation. There's so many things you were so convinced by this revelation that whenever I tell you someone thought something differently, you start imagining these fancy, weird *shtiglach Torah* [Torah interpretations/arguments].
But I'm not telling you that. I'm telling you in the way, like, imagine someone comes—I can't even tell it to you because it's very hard to imagine a different world.
Instructor: I can tell, like, something like, imagine someone, like, I'll give you an example. Think about a technical invention. But when you say that you killed the *Ishamar* [unclear reference] of murder, that's the problem.
Student: No, I'll tell you, I'll give you an example, okay? I'll give you, exactly. We did, in some sense.
Instructor: In some sense, yeah. I'll give you, well, not entirely, but in the sense of, in the moral sense. I'll give you an example. Do you know that someone invented the wheel? What did they think before? Did they think that...
Student: I can tell you what they think, by the way, but it would be an explanation, but I've thought about this, by the way. I've tried to figure this out. And you have to understand that this explanation is not an explanation that he didn't disprove it, and you can't disprove it.
Instructor: He invented a wheel, and now no normal person uses anything besides four wheels anymore, right? What did the people think? You know that wheels are a weird thing. Like, what's a wheel? You ever heard this concept, like the invention of a wheel? What does it mean to invent a wheel? What does a wheel do?
Student: Well, rolls.
Instructor: Okay. Now let's think. Tell me *saykh layoushe* [unclear Yiddish phrase]. I have to *schlep* [drag] a chair over ground. *Schlep* me the chair, okay? And if I make it something that turns, can you explain me how a wheel works?
Student: Finally left something on cycle, right? Give me the sweater.
Instructor: Why is a wheel make it life easier for me instead of picking up a chair?
Student: It helps me drag it.
Instructor: Oh, you have to pick it up. You could drag the chair, but new, and the wheel, you're still dragging it, by the way. It's hard to drag it over ground again. And why would a wheel make it easier to drag it?
Student: Up with the horse, and the horse—
Instructor: The horse is not the invention of a wheel. I'm talking about a wheel. A wheelbarrow, okay? Explain to me how—why would I—why would anyone think that—
Student: I'll explain to you. When you roll, like a wheelbarrow, right?
Instructor: Probably. Don't imagine a wheelbarrow and tell me how it works. Tell me what—I never heard of a wheel. Explain to me why I should stop putting wheels on my stuff. I understand very well it's hard to *schlep* things. You take a horse and you *schlep* it. Explain to me what is it hard with the earth?
Student: Much harder with around.
Instructor: You think it's much easier? It's not like you look like a minute sheet that you can't come in a sheet, right? I'm in a sheet. I know I also use wheels and I believe you in that sense, but you can't—it's very easy. It's not—there's not a scooter here, by the way. There's talking out of source to understand this.
Student: What do you need to learn? Some physics and mechanics and stuff?
Instructor: Yeah, I'm planning something simple. When you do—you know that when you *schlep* your wheel, you're also doing the same *schlepping* as before. Think about it. How is it less *schlepping*?
Student: I'm not *schlepping* less?
Instructor: Not. You have to carry things without wheels. You have to *schlep* them along the ground, okay? So *schlep* it now. Yeah, put a wheel. So tell me how they turn when I *schlep* it. Who cares if it turns? Try this. How does it help?
Student: Okay, fine. You have my connection. I can't be captured, but it's in a very right—
Instructor: Like, you're basically trying to tell me that you have to go back. You have to go back. I'm trying to tell you something.
Student: I know. I'm trying to tell you these things.
Instructor: No, it's not, by the way. Nowadays also, it's a very serious, sincere question. Not a serious, but it's a good question. You should go ask your physics teacher why we—how wheels work. Because it's not obvious. You don't know the answer. How do wheels work? Maybe you do because you've happened—I've learned it, but it's not simple. You need a lot of work to figure out how wheels work. How do wheels work?
Student: Yeah, but this is what I meant. Just get the wheel.
Instructor: Don't figure out about—wait. So what I'm trying to tell you is now something else. Now when a guy made a wheel over a lot of—I'm not—you don't have to explain how it works. But when a guy invented a wheel, right, it was obvious that a wheel is better than no wheel, okay?
Now what did they think before that? Well, I could tell you—for you want, I can give you this like weird spirit. Why this wheel? It's just—there's—let's—I can even give you like a physical explanation. You know, it's there's—there's—how do you call it? There's a tension—attention—how's it called? Friction. A wheel is just as much friction, so therefore it should be the same. You touching the ground the whole time. The wheel doesn't make you pick up. You never go off the ground. If you would fly, I can understand it's easier because air seems to be easier to move through than earth. But as long as you're *schlepping* along the ground, who cares if it's turning or not? I don't see the difference.
That's what they thought before, until the guy invented a wheel and he saw that there's some difference, even if he didn't know how to explain theoretically. Maybe they did. There's some difference when it turns. Somehow it doesn't—there's not that much restriction. There's some difference. Now that's what they thought. But that's not true, because then someone could argue with you. Let's say it would be a theoretical thing. Someone can argue with you, you know, the wheel adds problems. Now you have a—
But anyway, it does add some problems. You've got to have an axle, you've got to figure out how to make it spin freely, and so on.
Instructor: Now, what happened was, nobody thought of a wheel. And by the way, you would never have thought of it also. You just received it, thank you very much. You never thought of how to make wheels. Maybe there's something as simple as that that would make you be able to fly without an engine, without an airplane, that you just didn't think of. You tried to go on an airplane—no, just walk two steps forward, then one like this, and you fly. I don't know. How does it work? The physics, the side of it, they figured out how it works. You just never thought of it because it sounds crazy. Like, why would you think about it, right?
Now there's also moral inventions or social inventions that are the same. It's not like they thought that murder was good, like some weird anti-moralist could come up with a theory—that you could come up with such theories. But after someone discovered that, then you could say, you know what, I've read that some government people decided that square wheels might work better than round wheels for some purposes, or triangle wheels. I don't know. Because think about it—triangles should be even better, right?
Student: If the least.
Instructor: Yeah, right? It's the same for different reasons. But what do you mean why? You've got to minimize touching the earth. So if it's a triangle, you can only touch the point.
Student: Oh, so a wheel works in a more complicated way than I pretended before.
Instructor: Okay. In any case, what I'm trying to tell you is, triangles are better than wheels. Anyways, what I'm trying to tell you is, think about it.
Student: I think you're explaining—I think you explained the curse of being a Jew is that you can never not be a Jew because you always do the things they're doing. They just never consider this.
Instructor: I'm just describing to you how these things are great inventions, so great that they show themselves by being invented or being revealed. It's not clear that you can get to it by reasoning yourself into it. Maybe you could find reasons for it afterwards, but it's not clear.
That's why I say I don't think it's correct even to say that things like are reasonable in the sense that everyone thinks—everyone thinks them after they were invented and told to you. And it's like, obviously we should be doing that. What were we thinking until now? The answer is that we weren't thinking, or we weren't thinking about this question even. Even just making it into a question is already a great revelation, as like you see how hard of a time I have making some simple things into questions.
And that's what it means that we said now this is a good thing. Understand? That's why we did—the Torah Sales [unclear reference] talks about God revealing himself on Har Sinai [Mount Sinai] and telling us these ten simple things. It doesn't tell us complicated things. Like if we say God told us that Hashem has put us from Goliath to Goliath [text cuts off mid-sentence]
Instructor: The answer is that we weren't thinking, or we weren't thinking about this question even. Even just making it into a question is already a great revelation. As you see how hard of a time I have making some simple things into questions. And that's what it means that we said, now, this is a good thing, understand?
That's why the Torah talks about God revealing himself on Har Sinai [Mount Sinai] and telling us these ten simple things. It doesn't tell us complicated things. If we say God told us that an asham [guilt offering] is patur [exempt] from ganav [theft] or whatever, we're like, okay, reasonable, but not obvious. It's not something that I tell it to you and you're like, "Wow, that's the only way I could live from now on." No, it's not the only way you could live from now on. I could still have a life in which Hashem [God] is the one that is, and I can even give you a theory for why not.
So I keep on touching this thing. But a wheel, right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: That was never, there was no concept, right? But murder, there was for sure a concept because it's happened, right?
Student: The concept of murder is not the concept of me cutting off my brother's head.
Instructor: Now I'm lost.
Student: Very good.
Instructor: That was the point.
Student: Yeah, because that could just be for a justified reason.
Instructor: No! Oh, you're already answering the question of justification. Cutting off a brother's head could have been further justification.
Student: No, that's not murder.
Instructor: Exactly. Before you heard of the idea of murder, it's not murder because I think he deserves it. It's not murder because, I don't know, the guy was with my wife, I cut off his head. What's it got to do with murder? Who gave me this concept?
Student: Yeah, you don't even know what I'm talking about.
Instructor: Okay, got it. You haven't heard, nobody heard of tirtzach [murder]. Lo tirtzach [don't murder] assumes that there's tirtzach. But before the lo tirtzach, tirtzach really just means something that's lo [forbidden], that's what I'm trying to say. There's no tirtzach that is ken [permitted].
By the way, even justify—that's why I told you this point, and then make it up. Literally, I think the Targum [Aramaic translation] translates, let's say it's something like, don't kill someone who's—I don't remember. Someone literally translates it that way.
So what are the people before? The killing is? What's killing? What does killing mean? Killing and murder are not the same thing.
Student: So they're not the same thing.
Instructor: No, killing is just me getting rid of a problem. Is me moving a chair a problem? Is it a kind of thing that I have to justify? I don't know. The chair was there and I wanted to be here. The guy was in my way. I pushed him out of my way.
Student: Yeah, it's very good.
Instructor: I don't want you to think otherwise. Please. It's very good. I'm just trying to tell you that this is why this is called a revelation. Because it's something that was told. It's simple. It shows itself to be true. True in the sense of a good way to live, not in the sense of being an absolute truth. And that's all.
Reveal to you murder. Murder, that's the tirtzach. Lo tirtzach reveals to you murder. Murder is a bad thing that you don't do. And now, that's all. Same thing with gneivah [theft] and tachmod [coveting]. We'll talk about tachmod. Oh gosh, maybe we won't. Anyways, that's the zeh kol hanekudah [that's the whole point].
The only thing that is not like that is Shabbos [Sabbath], and therefore it gave you the reason. Maybe even in some sense you could say something like resting is not a certain explanation, resting on a certain day is an explanation. That's really what the explanation gives you, right?
You notice that the explanation of Shabbos doesn't tell you why to rest. It only tells you why to rest on the seventh day. Because why to rest is obvious. I'll give you a day off if you don't ask me questions. It's only about if I tell you, well, you should have your day off exactly every seventh day. Okay, well, why not every sixth day? I'll tell you why.
So anyways, I'm not gonna get into what I wanted to get to. I'm not gonna go on for two hours now. Instead 28, according to my weird timekeeping machine, you know how it works. What does it mean?
So now I want to tell you something here. Now this is something—now they understand, is this true? So anyways, all that such are revelatory. And I think that, by the way, you asked me before, where things start, where education starts. Some things, at least there's a theory that says that we need these kind of stories of revelation, and we need revelation in the stories of revelation, because there isn't really a way to get there otherwise.
Student: You said this. Everyone has a lawgiver.
Instructor: Yeah. So now we read these ten things. Like I said, Anochi [I am] and lo yihyeh [there shall not be]—theological things that make sense given that maybe isn't obvious unless you see it, but it's given that way. Nobody disagrees with kibud av va'em [honoring father and mother], besides for the '60s revolution, which is—which you'd also only consider it because you had the first.
Student: It's a meridah [rebellion].
Instructor: Exactly. It's an inversion. It's not a lacking of it.
Student: I agree. It's an inversion.
Instructor: The worst, the even worse situation is that you don't even need that. That's where we're up to now. But just kind of naturally, we revert to that, because that's really how the world works.
All right, Shabbos, simple. Lo tirtzach [don't murder], lo tinaf [don't commit adultery], lo tignov [don't steal], lo ta'aneh [don't bear false witness], lo tirtzach [don't covet]—all these things, they're also extremely obvious. And by being extremely obvious, they're also extremely basic.
Now we can talk about the concept of them being basic, right? They're extremely basic by being extremely obvious, right? We build everything. All the questions, in certain sense all the questions that we have, all the more complicated things which are not such a direct revelation, are more complicated because there are ways of putting together these things, right?
There sort of isn't any halakha [Jewish law] in the whole Torah, at least in all Mishpatim [civil/criminal laws], that isn't a detail in one of these things. I think that's correct, right? Some of these, when you read these, people doing this, some of them are forced. But they're only forced in the sense of trying to say, oh, that includes all the mitzvos [commandments].
But if I ask you something like, why is there even a question of—tell me a question. Tell me a question from the parashah [Torah portion].
Student: Hashavat aveidah [returning lost objects].
Instructor: Why is there such a question? Why would anyone—what's the base time?
Student: Because you can't steal.
Instructor: Or both, it's based on lo tignov. Or some would argue, this would be gneivat da'at [deception], I don't know if Mama should take it, whatever.
Student: Shame forever.
Instructor: What?
Student: Shame forever.
Instructor: It's a kind of a thing, gneivat da'at also.
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: It's a tort. You broke my thing. You took something away from me in some way. We get...
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: But that's the basic thing. It's the thing that just says something that is me, don't take it away. Now, how is it? What is it yours? All of us can answer the question of what this thing is. Oh, well, to what extent is it your problem? All these questions are just—the basic sense of them is just lo tignov. There isn't anything else basic in them. There's a lot of detail, a lot of the world is very complicated.
Student: So lo tignov is also introducing ownership, or that proceeds out?
Instructor: Yeah, I think so. I don't know about introducing historically, but you could imagine—just like I told you this whole relationship—you could imagine a world where lo tignov doesn't make any sense.
Student: Josephus seems to blame Kayin [Cain] for this, for ownership existence, boundaries.
Instructor: Yeah, in some sense. But let's just try to establish these things. These are more complicated, I said that. But it's an obvious thing. It's a tautology almost. What is not yours doesn't belong to you. That's what lo tignov says, right? And all the different questions are based on this. And we can understand therefore why anyone would put in the sefer Shemot [Book of Exodus] and put it there, right?
Now we got to the last one, and it says lo sachmod [don't covet]. I have two questions. Firstly, it doesn't say—it goes on and on. It repeats itself. Why shouldn't it say? It's as simple as that, right? Not simple. In the luchos [tablets], they always make it as if it's simple. But it's not, right? There's a longer list, and it even says twice. There's two of them. So something is weird. That's one weirdness.
The second weirdness is that I don't even know what it means. And because I don't even know what it means, I definitely don't know why it's simple. It seems to me that I could have made nine dibros [commandments] and everyone would be happy. If I would miss lo sachmod, or lo tignov, or even Shabbos or lo tisa [don't take God's name in vain]—people would be like, that's weird, missing something basic. Hopefully. Maybe afterwards it's basically before now, but you can understand.
But even afterwards, if I take out lo sachmod, I have a version—I found in the new ktav yad [manuscript], doesn't have lo sachmod. Yeah, it sounds a lot more powerful than it. Go for the sefer [book] with it. So fine, we're happy, you know. Can suffer be a synopsis of it all?
Student: It could be.
Instructor: I think it is. Not a synopsis. Something to do with it all.
So the—we gotta discover this. That's Ibn Ezra's question. I didn't make any of these questions up. They're all basic questions. So we have to understand. I'm going to give you the answer that Ibn Ezra gave, for some of his answer.
Instructor: It solves more problems than it could. But we don't know what Lo Sachmod [don't covet] is, so fine, we're happy, you know. Can Lo Sachmod be like a synopsis of it all? It could be. I think it is. Not a synopsis. Something to do with it all.
So, we got it and discovered. This is Ibn Ezra's question. I didn't make any of these questions. They're all basic questions. So, we have to understand. I'm going to give you the answer that Ibn Ezra gave for some of his answers.
It must be that we're learning Shmoneh Perakim [Eight Chapters - Rambam's introduction to Pirkei Avos]. Remember where I started? We started about how there's external actions like lo tignov [don't steal], lo tirtzach [don't murder], lo tin'af [don't commit adultery], lo ta'aneh [don't bear false witness] - never says lo ta'aneh - which are things that you do that are bad, that you do to other people specifically that are bad.
Remember we said that it's not enough to not steal - you have to be a nisht ganav [not-a-thief]. Interesting thing. You've never heard of this, right? The Ba'alei Mussar [Mussar movement teachers] don't really talk about this, do they? Because they're somewhat a little bit too caught up in interiority that doesn't refer to anything.
But they do say things like you shouldn't have kinah [jealousy]. Don't be jealous. Which is just a way of saying don't be an internal ganav, right? Or they say things like, yeah, of course, don't do ni'uf [adultery] with an eishes ish [married woman]. But you also shouldn't imagine doing it. Don't be an internal no'ef [adulterer], right? Like our great friend Jesus said, you've already slept with her in your heart. Remember? So, remember that he said that?
Student: Nope.
Instructor: So, there's a story, I don't know, it says this, and now, we're saying this. Remember we're saying this, we're saying that this is fundamental, in some sense. It's fundamental, as someone who does, who, like, I think that most of us are not going to be ganavim [thieves] and rotzchim [murderers] and m'nafim [adulterers], which is part of, I was so happy with this, because it's the thing that most of us do.
So that's what the Aseres HaDibros [Ten Commandments] says to us in Mecha [at Sinai]. It's like check, check, check, the Aseres HaDibros. Say it in the Gemara [Talmud] days, right? Ashrei mi shelo chamad [praiseworthy is one who doesn't covet]. It doesn't make a lot of sense. What does it mean? Nobody does it. But of course, in some sense, we all do it. Maybe I'm exaggerating.
But what am I saying? We are saying that there's something basic to being a good person that it's not enough and we would not trust - I said this to you over here and I said in Boro Park Drush [sermon in Boro Park] - none of you would trust someone that's like the ideal Brisker [follower of the Brisker method of Talmud study]. Nobody should go close to, right? Like, "Yeah, I think I should murder you but I'm having great hisgabrus [self-mastery], I'm a great guy." No, no, no.
Like, really, like, really...
Student: Aggression, yeah, something like aggression, and he should put his aggression into something else.
Instructor: Not saying that it's good to... It's a better person. Like, the Gemara doesn't even pretend that it's better. It's just what's right to do. But you're not a better person if... That's the random discussion of Perek Vav [Chapter Six]. But for sure, you're not a good person at all. Forget it.
But someone who doesn't... Who's missing the middah pnimis [internal character trait], let's say, it's not a bad person. We all agree on that. But I think all of us agree with that. And therefore, it seems to me very important to me that the sense of the Aseres HaDibros - if there's something basic they need to include being a good person - and where is that you do something like it's implicit and just like that's a...
Well, it is an action that it's of them. The Aseres HaDibros, the Rambam [Maimonides] is saying all these four things that I told you until now. This is not my pshat [interpretation]. It says in the Midrash, it says in the Rambam brings it and more or less explicitly.
The pshat is saying, I'm going to finish with this pshat because I have a lot more to say, but the pshat is saying like this: Of course, those are things you shouldn't do. I want to tell you something. You should not want to do them either.
Then everyone's like, hmm, do I want to? The answer is no, do you want to? Do you want to ganve [steal]? You think that the guy... You think that it's yours. That's a different discussion. But you don't want to ganve. At least you have that middah [character trait]. I think otherwise nothing would start. Most people would be killing if they wouldn't have that middah.
Saying don't want to. Now everyone understands. That's why there's so many words in this. You know why there's so many words? I'll explain to you.
Student: Why?
Instructor: There's two versions. I can get into details. But basically because Lo Sachmod is not a new thing. It's not a new thing. There's not really ten mitzvos [commandments] in a sense. You could count it as ten mitzvos, but it's not an object. Lo Sachmod doesn't have a new object.
Unlike the person that would say Lo Sachmod is a new thing. It's a mitzvah shebelev [commandment of the heart] which refers to your heart. No, it's a mitzvah shebelev but like all mitzvah shebelev refers to an action. Right?
Lo Sachmod is saying Lo Sachmod beis re'acha [don't covet your neighbor's house] means I'll tell you what it means. At least one thing it means. It means don't want your friend's house enough to go to beis din [rabbinical court] and then say that you bought it with eidim shekeirim [false witnesses].
Lo Sachmod beis re'acha means lo tignov [don't steal]. Not only lo tignov because Lo Sachmod comes from someone... Lo Sachmod doesn't mean... It's very clear it doesn't mean don't be a person that has... because that's nothing to do with Lo Sachmod. That's just a new thing. You should be turning and learning and not being worried about thinking. You shouldn't waste your great mind and your great imagination on imagining nonsense. Okay, that's a nice thing.
But Lo Sachmod means... means don't be the kind of guy that wants to and likes to sleep with his neighbor's wife, his friend's wife, his neighbor's wife, right? Of course, that's a problem because this is something that people do like sometimes. It's not so easy to say that you don't, but I'm trying to explain to you that it's...
Very important. If I see my friend's wife and I just say, well, that's a beautiful woman, would be nice, that's not... It's very important. It causes bad things. But that's not what it means. It's jealousy, right? It means, that guy has such a beautiful wife. Who gave him the right to have a nice wife and not mine? I think I should get it. That's what someone like King David did, right?
Student: Different.
Instructor: No, no. I'm giving you a true example. We have such stories. Usually you have to be a powerful person for people to even have the imagination. That's why my brother [says] only kings are [over on Lo Sachmod].
So if you're a king, then you can have a Lo Sachmod. I mean, even that just comes to me because I'm not the king.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: And now the person doesn't even have the sign of Lo Sachmod because how are you going to do it?
So, no, no, I'm just saying that eishes re'acha [your neighbor's wife], it's like Rabbeinu Yonah says here, Lo Sachmod doesn't mean you should want to have the same thing that that guy has. Right? Just like everyone understands. I go to the, I see a guy has a beautiful car, I would want to have that car too. That's not Lo Sachmod. It's maybe...
People think, talk about that. But it's not. I want his car. Why do I want his car? There's enough in the store. Okay, maybe there's not enough. We can talk about the practicalities, how that would work. But it means I want his car. Therefore what am I going to do? I'm going to take it away from him. How am I going to do it? Lo tignov [through theft].
Which one did we miss? Lo tirtzach [murder]. Very obvious. He doesn't give it to me, off with his head.
Who was the primary, who was the paradigm example of Lo Sachmod? Achav [King Ahab], the state of the land, the high-legged Rambam. I think the Rambam made this up. I didn't find it. I mean, there's a Midrash. There's a Midrash, but I don't know if that Midrash was written before or after the Rambam. But, Sefer HaMitzvos [Book of Commandments] says this. Sefer HaMitzvos says this. Why was this written? Because every one of them, there was someone that was over. And it goes through history.
So now, I find that. Who was Lo Sachmod? Achav. Remember Achav? Achav saw that he had a neighbor, would have made a very good pardeis [orchard/garden] for his shtibel [small synagogue/prayer room]. And he went to him and said, maybe sell it to me, I'll give you a better one. What did the guy say? Not for sale. I'm not in the vineyard selling business. This is my father's vineyard, I'm not giving it to you.
And Achav went home and he told his wife, Izevel [Jezebel], and said, you know, I was thinking of making a deal with this guy, but he's not interested. And she's like, are you a king? You don't know.
Student: Who told me this thing? She was from Tzur [Tyre]. She didn't, she didn't have the Jewish tradition that a king can't really do anything. Like, you know how kings work. Kings get things, they don't ask, right?
Instructor: There's this, this one of these like Jewish apologizing or Midrash. So he's into this that the world, you see that even the bad Jewish king would never do this.
Student: And go ahead, tell him.
Instructor: No, it's true, that's true. Nowadays the Jewish kings all learned how to do this. But in the original Judaism is very little power. I mean, someplace very little power for anyone, can't do anything to anyone.
So I think it's very impressive if you read, but it's like the one thing like, people think that it's the problem with such a powerful principle. But really just because we're anarchists, like the beis din doesn't really have any power unless they're really, really sure they can take something away. Otherwise, like the guy has it, probably he knows why. Probably he's right. Called kol d'alim gavar [whoever is stronger prevails], right?
No, it's a basic principle of Jewish law that like we're the worst... The most common thing by the way, it's like people think what's the most, what's the hardest thing to do? The hardest thing to take is take money out of another Yid [Jew]. It's the hardest thing. He's one shit that can be plus. I don't like that of it. You have never learned anything. What it just means to say, are you so sure that the Ra'avad [Rabbi Avraham ben David] is wrong that you take money out of my pocket?
Instructor: Otherwise, the guy has it. Probably he knows why. Probably he's right. It's called "hamotzi mei'chaveiro alav ha'ra'ayah" [the burden of proof is on one who seeks to extract from another]. That's the Rosh, right? No, it's a basic principle of Jewish law that it's the worst, the most humiliating thing.
By the way, people think, what's the hardest thing to do? The hardest thing to take is to take money out of an "adiyat" [someone's possession]. In Halacha, it's the hardest thing. He has one "shetak kimli" [document as evidence]. Plus, I don't like that I have it. You will have never learned anything. What it just means to say, are you so sure that "I have it" is wrong that you're taking money out of my pocket?
Oh, your social drive is wrong, your mattress is, for sure. Every day we do that. But take money out of someone's pocket. It says in one of the Chazal, that's a "shot of the head," that I've half said "middle." You know, that's full of like, if it's worth money, then what do you need for money? Yeah, because it's a way to make money. You're taking the guy's money. It's not money. Money is the most important thing. It's not money. It's not money. It's not money. It's not money. It's not money.
Instructor: Anyways, how am I getting back to my point? So Ahav's [Ahab's] wife told him, what do you mean you're a king? You could take it. So what did they do? They did the only legal execution in the history of the Bible. You know? I heard this from Shemba [Rav Schachter]. People often talk about the laws of execution, like there's too many things to execute for. He said that in the whole history of the Tanakh, there's only one person that actually killed with "edim" [witnesses] and "hasra'ah" [warning] and everything. Moshe killed people for being "mechalel Shabbos" [desecrating the Sabbath], but in a weird way, there was no "hasra'ah," it was extra-judicial. But there was only one person that did with all the "halachos" [laws]. "Chaladeis" [false witnesses] was justified, "halachadik" [according to Jewish law], that's the best example that we're able to check here, right?
Student: Somewhere else, not in the Bible, they tried, Susanna.
Instructor: What's that?
Student: Ah, you mean that's not...
Instructor: They tried to frame also.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: Anyways, the kid said he made a whole court, there's a "megadef" [blasphemer], "beruch Elokim u'melech" [blessed God and the king], they killed him, he took his thing. And then the Eliyahu [Elijah] never came to him and told him, "you're a ratzach" [murderer] and everything. And I'm like, "I'm a ratzach?" False "genkos" [witnesses], it is a "ratzach" from the "Edah Charedis" [ultra-Orthodox court]. You're allowed.
Which "aveirah" [sin] was he over? He was over, they said "ratzach." He was over, they said. He was over after they said. But he was really over on the "ratzach." What's the "ratzach"? He wanted to buy it. He wanted his thing. Now he could also understand why he wanted his thing, because it's real estate—location, location, location. There isn't another "kerem" [vineyard] "levis" [next to]. It's not exchangeable. He wants that one. But it's his. So he wants his, and he's not going to be stopped because he's the king, so he can take it. That's called "lo sachmod" [don't covet].
Instructor: So "lo sachmod" is the wanting of all these five "dibros" [commandments]—all the four previous ones. And this is where the "mitzvah shebalev" [commandment of the heart] which is not a "mitzvah shebalev" but a "mitzvah shebalev" a "misyachas le'ma'aseh hara'ah" [that relates to evil action]—that's the very, it's very basic, the source of the whole thing of being a good person. We're just saying that you have to have good "middos" [character traits].
State, a lot of people are very worried. That's another thing. I'm talking specifically about the "middah" [character trait] of not being a "ganav" [thief]. We're going to say that, that's a "sachmet" [covetousness]. "Sachmet" state, that you shouldn't be a person that wants other people's things.
Instructor: And here, the "Bnei Zed" [Ibn Ezra] does have a question. What if I do? Okay. We'll talk about go to therapy. That's what the Sefer HaChinuch says, basically. Go to therapy. Figure it out. Not my problem. But that's the point.
Instructor: And that's why it's very important. And I do think that there were other people that explicitly, in Philo, interpreted "lo sachmod" in a much more radical way. They said "lo sachmod" means not to have appetite, not to have desires. And it connects us with this whole Platonic language of desire being the problem. And we need to go follow reason, not desire.
And I think that is wrong, because you read the wrong translation of the Bible. His Bible, "lo sachmod," is translated as "don't have desire," "epithymia" [Greek: desire/appetite] in Greek. It shouldn't be translated that way. We translate it as something else. So we translate a word that means wanting someone else's thing too much. There's a word for that. Aristotle has a "middah" [character trait] for that. I forgot the word, so I can't tell it to you. This is not my "vort" [original insight]. This is other people. Harry Wolfson's already noticed this, other people.
But even as there are other people, it seems a little bit to be on the other side. There's definitely the version, I think, that "lo sachmod" means not to have "ta'avos" [desires].
Student: It was there should be more the "kashin" [difficult] my "kashin" is why it is not for this "achmod" [coveting] that's a different question the answer is stylistic I don't think such a thing yeah yeah like there's two "edis" [witnesses] is in like be another did not have too much desire that would be a different whole different "pshat" [interpretation] that would be an internal "pshat" that entirely internal "pshat" like don't be the kind of person that follows his desires too much because then...
Instructor: Oh, follows his desires.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, not have. Well, having, having is a soul. Having. Not control.
Instructor: It doesn't control his desires.
Student: Control in an internal sense also.
Instructor: Before doing it.
Student: Everything is internal.
Instructor: Right, but I'm saying...
Student: That would be something, that would be a whole different "pshat."
Instructor: No, and the "mussar" [ethical teaching] makes much more sense, what you're saying, because it's focusing on the "rei'echo" [your neighbor] part. It's not an issue in the street. It's not a "rei'echo."
Student: Well, some of them have issues.
Instructor: No, then that's a "rei'echo" problem.
Student: Or you could say she looks to herself.
Instructor: "Ochot nishtchayim" [desiring women]. It says in the "Mechilta" [early rabbinic commentary], and "Mechilta" says, "hava amina" [one might think] "lo sachmod" means now they have "shidduchim" [marriage matches]. Because it's "b'tchalibni" [you captivated me]. Or "b'tchali" [captivate]. They have a way to explain the "limud" [teaching], why you're allowed to ask for "shidduch" [marriage match]. Because that's legitimate. That's the message of "Mechilta." A "p'nuyah" [unmarried woman] is "mutar l'histakel bah" [permitted to look at her]. "Mutar l'achmod" [permitted to desire].
What is "mutar l'achmod"? "L'achmod" doesn't mean "l'anos" [to rape]. It means you're going to ask her father to marry her or whatever. Ask her however it works. That's 100% legitimate. You're not taking it away from her. If your plan is to rape her, then you're over on "lo sachmod eshet rei'echo" [don't covet your neighbor's wife], which says depends what the plan is. But depends what kind of person you are. If you're going to be told no, then you're going to do something else, then you're over on "lo sachmod."
So there is, in the sense there is a sense of desire being "lo sachmod." We talk about "lo sin'af" [don't commit adultery] being a step before, after that's another whole "sheik" [discussion]. But anyways, I think that this is enough for us to understand that "lo sachmod" is the guide and the Torah for being that being the kind of person who wants someone else this thing and that is a "middah" [character trait].
Instructor: So we're in the whole let's say what is this what does that mean random women doesn't sell listen up listen up but I mean random what's random random means not your friends not someone that's married so I'm just uh that's a "middah" year what and...
Student: And what do you mean? Which of it is it?
Instructor: No, it's this. It's "k'deishah" [prostitute], no?
Student: Ah, that's right. That's not. That's the Rav Moshe "kiddush" [sanctification].
Instructor: That's not what I said. That's not what I said. The Rav is in the "kiddush," right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: What about Tamar? What was wrong with that?
Student: That was a "mitzvah" [commandment].
Instructor: Why do I keep on talking about this? If you're allowed to go to a "zonah" [prostitute]. You don't know? "Pilegesh" [concubine]. What do you mean, does it have to be for the "melech" [king] or the "pilegesh," or I don't know? And that's because the "Ra'avad" [Rabbi Abraham ben David] was more traditionally Jewish, he didn't hold a "melech" has specific privileges.
Student: Yep, but...
Instructor: What's it got to do with anything? That's not the news.
Student: No, because Rav Saadia said that it's all "nichla" [included].
Instructor: Rav Saadia said if it's "nichla," if it's "nichla," then it's "nichla." Listen, Rav Saadia, listen.
Student: No, I'm saying maybe it's all "nichla," maybe only in the "lo sachmod."
Instructor: That's what I'm trying to say. No. Rav Saadia, by the way, says that "kashrus" [kosher dietary laws] is part of the "lo sachmod." That was part of the problem. That seems to understand the other way around. Not the way that I'm saying it. Right. Because that's not the...
Student: It's for sure being "eshet ish" [married woman].
Instructor: Say it depends how you understand the "sefer" [book]. "Lo sin'af" [don't commit adultery] you don't have to understand that as a problem of "ta'avos" [desires]. You can send it as a problem is that she doesn't belong to you which "amongst herself" you could explain depends how you play these kind of a see them explain that both ways you don't have to you don't have to I don't know how much I've committed a "machlokes" [dispute] between this machine completion is theoretical of command right no no that's a but that's but what which part which one would that be no it's about the listening and it's all again but I've listened but how is it also how much what's together why is it but it's "lo sachmod" it is always the internal of all these things "lo sin'af" as well as I'm saying that the internal of all of that was happened that's not internal thing that's that's the "ma'aseh" [action].
Instructor: So "lo sachmod" as "lo sin'af" as that's a different question I'm thinking is that doesn't add any there's no that they're not we're not that's very important because it seems to justify this I have to go through a lot of because there seems to be different things but first I tell them which makes sense there's no new things that would have been but now they're or they're and now they're because of whatever is why because then you're going to bleed it's going to lead you to this thing "kinah" [jealousy] and "ni'uf" [adultery] and also because it's itself a bad thing because you're a bad person for for wanting that that's what I say to really justify this I have to get into the whole thing it's not so simple might be I might be wrong but that's that's enough for for my "shiur" [lecture].
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[End of Transcript]
This shiur examines the prohibition of Lo Tachmod (do not covet) through two competing readings: one that treats desire itself as the root of all evil and calls for its suppression, and another that insists goodness is defined by external moral reality—knowing what actually belongs to you and what doesn't—rather than by internal emotional refinement. The discussion opens with how the mazal of Chodesh Adar and the thirteenth month illustrate that celestial influences reach humans only through human mediation and the decisions of Beis Din, then applies this principle of channeling to argue that real moral progress requires detailed knowledge of obligations and property rights (Choshen Mishpat), not just the squashing of desire, since a person free of passion but ignorant of what he owes others remains a thief.
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זהו השיעור השני או השלישי על לא תחמוד (האיסור לחמוד), שנמסר סמוך לראש חודש אדר. הטענה הפרובוקטיבית היא שלאדר יש קשר ישיר ומלא ללא תחמוד — קשר שהשיעור מבקש להדגים.
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הספרים הקדושים מזהים את המזל של חודש אדר כדגים. יש לתקן תפיסה שגויה נפוצה: מזלות קשורים למיקום השמש בתוך מערכת הכוכבים (גלגל המזלות השמשי), ולא ללבנה או לראש חודש. נושא זה נידון לאחרונה בשיעור על הלכות יסודי התורה.
החזקוני, בהסתמך על הירושלמי, מלמד שכאשר עמלק יצא למלחמה נגד ישראל, הוא בחר באופן אסטרטגי לוחמים שהמזל האישי שלהם ("יום המזל") היה נוח ביום הקרב. זוהי תורת אסטרולוגיה מקובלת — לכל אדם, על פי לידתו, יש זמנים שבהם הוא מצליח יותר.
משה אמר ליהושע: "בְּחַר לָנוּ אֲנָשִׁים וְצֵא הִלָּחֵם בַּעֲמָלֵק מָחָר" (שמות יז, ט). המילה "מחר" משמעותית — משה בחר זמן שיהיה נוח מבחינה אסטרולוגית ללוחמי ישראל.
[הערת אגב על טבעיות התזמון:] הרעיון שלאנשים יש זמנים טובים יותר וגרועים יותר (אנשי בוקר לעומת אנשי לילה וכו') הוא נכון מבחינה תצפיתית ללא קשר לאסטרולוגיה. אסטרולוגיה היא רק *תיאוריה* שממפה דפוסים אלה על סימנים שמימיים.
צדיק מסוים הציע: בלוח השנה היהודי יש לפעמים חודש שלושה-עשר (אדר ב' בשנה מעוברת). אין סימן מזל לחודש שלושה-עשר. לכן, לאנשים שנולדו באדר ב' אין סימן מזל. כאשר עמלק מנסה למצוא סימן חזק יותר כדי לגבור עליהם, יש "שגיאת אפס" — אין סימן למקד או לגבור עליו.
אם אין לך מזל, האם לא אמור להיות *יותר* פגיע, ולא פחות? זו קושיה חזקה, והתשובה הולכת נגד ההיגיון האסטרולוגי הרגיל — וזה בדיוק הנקודה שנבנית כאן.
קושיה הרבה יותר יסודית: החודש השלושה-עשר הוא המצאה אנושית/הלכתית ליישוב בין הלוח הירחי לשמשי. לכוכבים לא אכפת מהתאמות הלוח של בית הדין — לגלגל המזלות תמיד יש בדיוק 12 סימנים לשנת שמש. הכרזה על חודש שלושה-עשר לא אמורה לשנות דבר מבחינה אסטרולוגית. הכוכבים לא "מקשיבים" להחלטות לוח שנה אנושיות.
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כוכבים תופסים רמת מציאות גבוהה יותר מבני אדם. ראיות:
- כוכבים לעולם אינם "נשרפים" (במטפורה: אין שחיקה)
- כוכבים תמיד דייקנים; בני אדם לא
- כוכבים הם "מושלמים" — תרבותית, לקרוא למישהו "כוכב" זו המחמאה הגבוהה ביותר
- תהלים ח, ד-ה: "כִּי אֶרְאֶה שָׁמֶיךָ... יָרֵחַ וְכוֹכָבִים... מָה אֱנוֹשׁ כִּי תִזְכְּרֶנּוּ" — הרמב"ם קורא זאת כך: התבוננות בכוכבים חושפת את אפסותו של האדם בהשוואה.
מכיוון שכוכבים נמצאים כל כך מעל בני אדם בהיררכיה הקוסמית, אף אחד מעולם לא האמין ברצינות שכוכבים אכפת להם ישירות מחיי בני אדם או שהם שולטים בהם. יש להם "דברים טובים יותר לעשות". לכוכבים לא אכפת מי מנצח בקרב.
כוכבים *כן* מועילים לבני אדם (ניווט, אור וכו'), אבל רק דרך מתווך של תודעה/נשמה אנושית. הכוכב עוזר לך לנווט *כי אתה מסתכל עליו ומבין*. בלי הפעולה האנושית של הסתכלות ופירוש, הכוכב לא יכול להשפיע עליך. "אף אחד לא יוצא החוצה ושומע כוכב מדבר אליו. אתה מסתכל עליהם קודם ואז הם מדברים אליך."
הבחנה מכרעת:
- דברים ברמה שלך (חבר שדוחף אותך, החלקה על קליפת בננה) פועלים עליך ישירות, ללא צורך בתיווך הנשמה.
- דברים עליונים (כמו כוכבים) יכולים להשפיע עליך רק דרך השכל/הנשמה שלך. זהו עיקרון כללי לגבי אופן פעולתן של סיבות עליונות על ישויות נמוכות יותר.
- הליכה לרופא: ה*שכל* שלך מביא אותך לרופא, אבל הרופא עוזר לך פיזית (זריקה, ניתוח) — לא דרך השכל שלך.
- כוכבים שונים: כוכבים יכולים רק לעזור/להשפיע עליך דרך השכל שלך. אין מנגנון פיזי ישיר.
- חריגה חלקית: אם הרופא נותן הוראות שעליך לעקוב אחריהן מנטלית, אז העזרה כן עוברת דרך השכל שלך.
עובדי ידע אינם צינורות פסיביים. כשם שרופא לא רק מעביר מידע אלא משתתף באופן פעיל בריפוי, וכשם שרבי מתווך באופן פעיל את התורה, כך אסטרולוג מעצב באופן פעיל את האופן שבו ההשפעה הכוכבית מגיעה לאדם. למתווך יש סוכנות אמיתית ודרגות חופש באופן שבו ההשפעה מועברת.
[סטיות צדדיות:]
- עצים וכוכבים: עצים לא מעבירים מידע לבני אדם כמו שכוכבים עושים, אם כי בני אדם יכולים ללמוד מעצים באופן דומה ללמידה מכוכבים.
- התייחסות לדיוויד דויטש: תלמיד מזכיר את טיעוניו של דיוויד דויטש שבני אדם חשובים באופן ייחודי כי הם יכולים להיות מושפעים מהכל. מוכר אך מוסט הצידה.
- האם כוכבים גורמים לתנועה? השמש שגורמת לזריחה זו לא אסטרולוגיה — זו אסטרונומיה בסיסית. הטענה של האסטרולוגיה היא על *השפעה על ענייני בני אדם*, וזה הנושא הנדון. הייתה מחלוקת קדומה בעניין, אבל "לפחות היהודים לא מאמינים שזה עובד ככה עכשיו."
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רבי עקיבא למד מפסוק זה שבני אדם (ובפרט בית דין) הם ש"קוראים" למועדים. זה לא שרירותי — הם חייבים לתעל את מה שקורה בשמיים — אבל הקריאה חייבת לעבור *דרכם*. המציאות השמימית לא נוגעת באנשים ללא תיווך אנושי.
אם בית הדין מכריז שראש השנה ביום ראשון כשמבחינה אסטרונומית הוא "צריך" להיות ביום שני, אז יום שני העליון עובר ליום ראשון התחתון. ההשפעות הרוחניות הקשורות לאותו יום פועלות עכשיו ביום שבית הדין הכריז. "יום שלישי יכול לחול ביום חמישי אם בית הדין אומר כך." זה לגמרי אמיתי — אין כאן שום דבר סובייקטיבי.
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כשמחלקים את השנה (או את מחזור השמש הכוכבי) לשנים-עשר חלקים, אנשים שונים משגשגים בשלבים שונים — התחלה, אמצע, סוף וכו'. זה מה ש"השתייכות" לסימן מזל מסתכמת בו: זיקה לשלב מסוים של מחזור.
מכיוון שהשפעה שמימית חייבת לעבור דרך תיווך אנושי, אם בני אדם מגדירים את הלוח שלהם מעט מוסט ממרכז המחזור האסטרונומי, ההשפעה הולכת אחרי הלוח האנושי, לא אחרי הלוח האסטרונומי. ההשפעה "האמיתית" נוחתת כשהרב או בית הדין אומרים שהיא נוחתת, לא כשהיום "האמיתי כביכול" הוא בשמיים.
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אם אתה צריך את המחזור הכוכבי כדי לתעל משהו, אבל אתה יכול להזיז אותו, אז למה אתה צריך את המחזור בכלל?
לתחנת כוח יש קטבים חיובי ושלילי קבועים — אי אפשר לשנות אותם במקור. אבל כשמושכים חוטים, משתמשים בשנאים ומורידים את הזרם לרמה שלך, אפשר להפוך איזה צד הוא חיובי ואיזה שלילי בקצה שלך. החיובי האמיתי מהמקור עדיין זורם, אבל הוא מגיע למסוף ההפוך בבית שלך. באופן דומה, המציאות השמימית קבועה, אבל למתווך האנושי יש חופש אמיתי לסדר מחדש כיצד היא מתגלה למטה. שניהם נכונים בו-זמנית: אתה צריך את המקור, וגם יש לך דרגות חופש אמיתיות בתיעול שלו.
אם אפשר לסדר מחדש הכל, אולי לא צריך את המקור בכלל — כמו לומר שצריך חשמל בקיר אבל לא את תחנת הכוח. זו טענה הוגנת אבל אולי מעבר לתחום הדיון הזה.
ימים מתקצרים ומתארכים פיזית במהלך השנה. אבל ההתקצרות "קורית בשבילך" כשאתה שם לב לה או כשמישהו אומר לך לשים לב. אם יש עיכוב של חמישה ימים במודעות שלך, ההשפעה של השינוי פועלת על ציר הזמן המעוכב. תהליכים פיזיים (כמו אור שמש שלוקח שמונה דקות להגיע לכדור הארץ) כבר מדגימים עיכוב, אבל תהליכים שמתווכים דרך הנפש/הנשמה מקבלים הרבה יותר דרגות חופש מעיכוב פיזי גרידא — כי אתה פועל ברמה מושגית, לא פיזית.
יש אנשים שנלחמים טוב יותר בבוקר, יש אחרים אחר הצהריים. אם מניפולים את הסביבה (מכבים אורות, משנים לוחות שינה), אפשר להזיז את ה"בוקר" בשביל האנשים האלה, ואנשי הבוקר יתפקדו היטב בזמן המוזז. באופן דומה, אפשר במידה מסוימת להפוך לילה לבוקר ובוקר ללילה.
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כאשר בית הדין מכריז על ראש חודש, הוא למעשה מחליט אילו אנרגיות שמשיות-מזליות ממופות לאילו חודשים. בשנה מעוברת, בית הדין כבר תיעל את כל 12 ההשפעות המזליות (שפע) ל-12 החודשים הקודמים. החודש ה-13 הוא אפוא "שארית" — ריק מתוכן שמימי מוגדר מראש — והופך לזמן שהקהילה יכולה לעשות בו כרצונה. זה "כל הטריק".
אנשים שמקבלים משכורת דו-שבועית מקבלים לפעמים שלוש משכורות בחודש אחד. החודש לא ארוך יותר במונחים מוחלטים, אבל הוא מכיל באופן פונקציונלי יותר משאבים בהתאם לאופן שבו לוחות זמנים שונים חופפים. באופן דומה, החודש ה-13 הוא תוצר של טריאנגולציה בין הלוח הירחי לשמשי.
ההסבר של תיעול דרך נשמות מכסה את כל טווח ההשפעות שמיוחסות באופן מסורתי להשפעה שמימית (למשל, להילחם טוב יותר ביום הולדת). האדם שנשמתו מתווכת את השפעת הכוכב *החליט* שהחודש הזה שייך לו, לא לכוכב. ההחלטה הזו היא מה שהופך את ההשפעה לפעילה — כולל השפעות מעשיות — כי הנשמה תבעה סמכות.
זה תלוי בכמה לוחות שנה אדם באמת מקיים. ליהודים מסוימים יש למעשה שני ראשי שנה (חילוני ויהודי), אבל לקחת את שניהם ברצינות קשה מאוד מבחינה פסיכולוגית כי ההיגיון של "ראש שנה" דורש שרוב השנה *לא* תהיה ראש שנה. תיעול אמיתי דורש מחויבות אותנטית, ופיצול המחויבות הזו הוא מטבעו לא יציב.
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אתה מתעל אותו, אתה לא יוצר אותו. המילה "מתעל" היא המפתח — זה לא המזל *שלך* מכלום; אתה מתעל כוחות אמיתיים דרך התיווך שלך. תיעול זה פועל ברמת תרבויות וקהילות, לא רק ברמת יחידים.
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השיעור של שבוע שעבר הסיק שלא תחמוד הוא המקבילה הפנימית של ארבע הדיברות שלפניו בעשרת הדיברות. זה לא איסור עצמאי אלא הממד הפנימי של האיסורים החיצוניים (רצח, ניאוף, גניבה, עדות שקר).
פירוש זה אינו מקובל על הכל. שני הפירושים מתאימים לשתי הבנות שונות מיסודן של מה זה אומר להיות אדם טוב:
1. הפירוש ה"שגוי" (פנימיות ממוקדת-עצמי): לא תחמוד עוסק בכך שיהיו לך רגשות, תחושות ונטיות פנימיות נכונות *לשם עצמן*. להיות טוב פירושו להרגיש את הדברים הנכונים בפנים — המיקוד הוא כולו על העצמי ומצביו הפנימיים.
2. הפירוש ה"נכון" (פנימיות מכוונת כלפי חוץ): כל פנימיות מכוונת בסופו של דבר כלפי חוץ. להיות טוב מבפנים פירושו להיות מהסוג של אדם שממנו נובעות באופן אמין פעולות חיצוניות נכונות. החיים הפנימיים חשובים כי הם מעצבים את מה שאתה עושה כלפי אחרים — לא כמטרה בפני עצמה.
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פילון האלכסנדרוני הוא הדובר המרכזי של הפירוש הראשון. בחיבורו על עשרת הדיברות, כשהוא מגיע ללא תחמוד, הוא פותח בהתקפה מורחבת על התאווה:
- תאווה היא הגורם השורשי לכל בעיות האדם: הפרזה (אכילה, שתייה), עבירות בין-אישיות (גניבה, פגיעה באחרים), וסדרי עדיפויות מוטעים בחיים.
- מכיוון שכל המעשים הרעים מקורם ברצייה, האסטרטגיה היעילה ביותר היא לתקוף את הרצייה עצמה ולא את המעשים הרעים הבודדים.
- לא תחמוד נקרא אפוא כציווי לעקור את התאווה משורשה.
פירוש זה משתלב במסורת רחבה יותר הנמצאת בספרות המוסר, עם שורשים באפלטון ואולי בחלקים מחז"ל: הבעיה האתית היסודית היא תאווה בלתי מרוסנת. אם אתה פשוט עושה מה שאתה רוצה, תהפוך לגרסה הגרועה ביותר של עצמך. לכן, אתיקה מסתכמת למעשה בלא ללכת אחרי התאוות שלך. לא תחמוד הופך לדיברה המסכמת שמבטאת עיקרון זה.
- רבנו אברהם אבן עזרא — ממוקם באופן זהיר במחנה זה, אם כי ייתכן שיש פירוש שלישי ללא תחמוד שמתאר טוב יותר את עמדתו בפועל (יידון בהמשך).
- מסילת ישרים — הרמח"ל דן בנושא זה אבל עמדתו המדויקת אינה ודאית.
על פי פירוש זה:
- אנשים נוטים בסופו של דבר לעשות מה שהם רוצים — תאווה ומעשה אינם נפרדים בקלות.
- תאווה היא בלתי נשלטת וכאוטית — היום אתה רוצה להרוג מישהו, מחר אתה רוצה את אשת מישהו, מחרתיים אתה רוצה להיות מיליארדר. אם תאווה הופכת לקריטריון שלך לפעולה, החיים הופכים לבלתי מסודרים.
- רצייה היא תמיד רצייה לעשות — אין תאווה שאינה תאווה לפעולה. אף אחד לא חולק על זה.
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הרוע ממוקם ספציפית בלהיות תאוותני יתר על המידה — בלהיות אדם שנשלט על ידי רצייה — ולא רק במעשים הרעים הבדידים שנובעים מכך.
יש שני סוגי אנשים — אלה שעושים מה שהם רוצים, ואלה שעושים מה שהם חושבים שנכון. זה ממופה על דיכוטומיה קלאסית (שנמצאת באפלטון, בחז"ל, במוסר) בין תאווה לשכל. בכל פעם שמישהו אומר "אל תהיה חומד", הוא מתכוון באופן מרומז "היה אדם שמונהג על ידי שכל/ריסון/חוק במקום זאת."
[סיפור להמחשה:] ילד רעב או צמא, וכששואלים אותו למה הוא לא אוכל, הוא עונה: "אבא שלי לימד אותי שלא שותים כשצמאים — שותים כש*צריך* לשתות." זה ממחיש את האימון שמאחורי גישה זו: רצייה אינה סיבה מספקת לפעולה. הנאה לא צריכה להיות האלוהים שלך או הקריטריון שלך לנכון ולא נכון.
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כאשר חז"ל מדברים על היצר הרע כמקור הרוע, לעיתים קרובות הם לא מתכוונים ל"רצון מטפיזי לעשות רע" כלשהו (שיהיה חסר תוכן), אלא שדווקא *הליכה אחרי התאווה* — הליכה אחרי מה שאתה חושב שיהיה מהנה — היא מה שגורם לרוב התוצאות הרעות בעולם.
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הפירוש ה"נכון" גורס שלא תחמוד חל ספציפית *על הדברים המפורטים* (אשת רעך, עבדו, אמתו וכו') ולא מוסיף הרבה תוכן חדש מעבר לאיסורים הספציפיים. הפירוש החלופי הופך זאת: לא תחמוד מציין בעיה יסודית יותר, עמומה יותר (התאווה עצמה), והרשימה מראה את *התוצאות* — אם אתה חומד, תגיע בסופו של דבר לחמוד את כל הדברים האלה.
על פי פירוש חלופי זה, לא תחמוד היא מצווה חדשה באמת, שמוסיפה קטגוריה שלמה חדשה: *מצוות הלב*. הטיעון (כפי שמנוסח על ידי חובות הלבבות והוגים דומים): אם אתה עובד רק על התנהגות חיצונית — לא לאכול מאכלות אסורות, לא לגנוב — אתה משאיר את התאווה הבסיסית שלמה, והיא המקור האמיתי של כל הבעיות. לא תחמוד מציע פתרון רדיקלי יותר, פנימי: תפסיק להיות אדם תאוותני לגמרי, ותפתור את כל הבעיות בשורשן.
אם *לא* תטפל בתאווה בשורשה, בהכרח תעמוד בפני *ניסיון* שלא תוכל לעמוד בו — בסופו של דבר תאכל את החזיר. עבודה על התאווה עצמה מוצגת כדרך היעילה והיסודית יותר.
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גישה זו לא דוגלת בפתרון מהיר או בדיכוי פיזי (כמו סירוס עצמי). היא קוראת להפוך לסוג אחר מיסודו של אדם — כזה שנשלט על ידי שכל (יצר טוב) ולא על ידי תיאבון (יצר הרע).
"לעולם ירגיז אדם יצר טוב על יצר הרע." פירוש אחד: במקום למנות כל מעשה טוב ורע, טפח כיוון פנימי שבו אתה הולך אחרי היצר הטוב שלך (הדחף הטוב/השכלי) ומסרב לציית לתאוותיך. זה מוצג כפתרון פשוט יותר ומקיף יותר.
תלמיד מעלה את המקרה של בחירה בין שתי תאוות — ללכת למועדון חשפנות לעומת לשבת ולחדש חידוש תורה — ומציע שתאווה אחת היא "טובה". במסגרת זו, אין תאוות טובות. המילה "תאווה" כאן מתייחסת ספציפית לתאווה *כקריטריון לפעולה, כמקור הטוב*. הגישה הנכונה: אל תחליט על סמך לאן אתה *רוצה* ללכת; תחליט על סמך מה *נכון*. אז הדילמה מתמוססת — אתה פשוט הולך לבית הכנסת כי זה הדבר הנכון.
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תלמיד טוען שתשוקה ורצייה יכולות להיות מניעים נהדרים ליצירה ולתוצאות טובות — ומביא דוגמאות של חדשנים שמונעים על ידי תשוקה "יצרו עולם חדש" (למשל, המצאת המכונית, האינטרנט). גם אם התאווה עצמה בלתי נשלטת, התוצאות יכולות להיות טובות באמת, ותשוקה הכרחית להישגים גדולים.
זה נדחה בתוקף במספר רמות:
1. התוצאות אינן טובות מכוח התשוקה. אם תוצאות טובות, הן טובות *אחרי שנשלטו* — התשוקה עצמה לא תרמה דבר לטובתן. תשוקה ללא הכוונה, שכל או רעיון של הטוב היא "רעה מעצם הגדרתה."
2. חייהם של אותם אנשים "נלהבים" הם עצמם ראיה נגד ההשקפה. החדשנים שהתלמיד מעריץ — מונעים על ידי כסף, שאפתנות, כוח, נשים — הם בדיוק הדוגמאות שטקסטים עתיקים היו מביאים כחיים שהשתבשו לחלוטין. "מודלי החיקוי שלך הם רשעים."
3. תשוקה אינה ניתנת להבחנה מרוע מפלצתי במונחים שלה עצמה. אין דבר, במסגרת של תשוקה-כטוב, שמבחין בין החדשן הנלהב לבין רוצח סדרתי נלהב שתכנן את פשעיו בקפידה. אם תשוקה היא הקריטריון, שניהם "גדולים" באותה מידה.
4. המסגור הנכון הופך את הסיפור הסיבתי. אם מישהו אומר "זה כל כך טוב, ובגלל שזה כל כך טוב, אני רוצה את זה," אז הטוב מוביל, לא התאווה. זה סיפור שונה לחלוטין מתשוקה כמניע.
- הרופא הרע כמעט רוצה שאנשים יהיו חולים כדי שיוכל לרפא אותם — התשוקה שלו היא באמת ל*כבוד* או להיות האחראי לריפוי.
- הרופא הטוב שונא סרטן כל כך שהוא רוצה למנוע אותו — ה"תשוקה" שלו מונעת למעשה על ידי הכרה בבריאות כטוב, לא על ידי רצון לתהילה אישית.
- בניסוח חד יותר: הרופא הרע מנסה לרפא אנשים (ממוקד-עצמי); הרופא הטוב מנסה לרפא מחלות (ממוקד-טוב).
הרעיון המודרני של שבח התשוקה הוא בדיוק הדבר שמתואר כרוע מפלצתי בכל טקסט שנכתב לפני בערך 1600. זה לא טיעון שצריך להתווכח עליו עכשיו אלא משהו שצריך לשים לב אליו — היפוך מפתיע שלכל הפחות צריך לגרום לאדם לעצור ולחשוב. חיים מונעי-תשוקה מושווים ל*אחשוורוש* (הדמות הפרדיגמטית של חיים שנשלטים על ידי תאווה במחשבה היהודית).
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הרחבת היכולת שקולה מבחינה מבנית להרחבת התאווה, ולכן בעייתית מטבעה.
- מכוניות: הרסניות מאוד. היכולת להגיע ב-17 דקות במקום שלוש שעות לא פותרת בעיה אמיתית; היא רק מרחיבה את מה שאפשר *לעשות*, וזו ההגדרה של הרחבת תאווה.
- האינטרנט: משובח בדיוק כי הוא מאפשר לאנשים לעשות "מה שהם רוצים, מתי שהם רוצים, איך שהם רוצים" — עצם השפה של תאווה בלתי מרוסנת. תלמיד מציע שהאינטרנט מאפשר החזר חובות מהיר יותר; זה נדחה כפנטזיה — ה*אפשרות* להחזיר חובות מהר יותר אינה זהה לאנשים ש*בפועל* מחזירים חובות טוב יותר. ההתמקדות ב"אפשרי" במקום ב"בפועל" היא עצמה הבעיה.
- צפייה בשיעור באינטרנט: צפייה בשיעור באינטרנט במקום להגיע באופן אישי הופכת את העולם לגרוע יותר. בהתחשב במצב הנפול של העולם, צפייה באינטרנט עדיפה על צפייה ב"שטויות אחרות", אבל *היכולת עצמה* אינה טוב.
טוב אינו מורכב מיכולת. טוב מורכב בדיוק מהצבת גבול ליכולת — שימוש בה רק בדרך הנכונה. המצאה ש*גורמת* לך לעשות את הדבר הנכון תהיה טובה; המצאה שרק *מאפשרת* לך לעשות דברים היא רעה, כי "לאפשר" רק מרחיב את שדה התאווה. מכוניות *מאפשרות* לך לבוא לשיעור; הן לא *גורמות* לך לבוא. מכונה ש*מכריחה* אותך לבוא הייתה המצאה טובה באמת. אבל המצאות חומריות, מטבען, הן פוטנציאל — הן יכולות רק לאפשר, לא לכוון.
לכן, ה"המצאות" הטובות באמת היחידות הן דתות, תרבויות ומערכות שעובדות על נשמות בני אדם — שמלמדות אנשים מהו טוב ומטילות גבולות. אלה ההמצאות ש*גורמות* לאנשים לפעול נכון, לא רק *מאפשרות* להם.
אדם לא חייב דבר לממציא האינטרנט (או כל טכנולוגיה), כי הממציא סיפק רק את *היצר הרע* — חומר הגלם של הפיתוי והיכולת המורחבת. כשם שאדם לא חייב דבר לגופו על כך שהוא הבסיס לפעולה, כך אדם לא חייב דבר ליוצר היכולות. מה שראוי לשבח הוא מה שמגביל יכולת, לא מה שיוצר אותה. "יצירת יכולות היא תמיד רעה — זו ההגדרה של רע."
מיתוסים אנושיים יסודיים מציגים באופן עקבי את הרחבת היכולות כמסוכנת ורעה. ההיפוך האמיתי — הדבר ה"מוזר" באמת — הוא ההרגל המודרני לשבח בדיוק את מה שנתפס באופן מסורתי כבעיה (יכולת/תאווה מורחבת) כאילו היה הפתרון.
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המסורת החסידית של הערכת תשוקה עזה ובלתי מרוסנת — אפילו תשוקה מכוונת כלפי הקב"ה (אהבת ה') — מתעמתת ישירות.
- המושג של *אהבה עזה* בהקשר של אהבת ה' נדחה כחסר משמעות במובן הרלוונטי. פירוש זה מיוחס לחינוך חסידי ונקרא קריאה חסידית שגויה של הרמב"ם. הרמב"ם לא תומך בתשוקה בלתי מרוסנת לה'. הפירוש החסידי מקרין את הערכת התשוקה שלו על שפת הרמב"ם, במיוחד המשל המפורסם שלו על אהבת ה' כמחלת אהבה. בכל פעם שמישהו משתמש במשל, המאזינים מקרינים את המושגים שלהם לתוכו, ולכן "משלים הם רעים."
זה נאמר בצורה ישירה, עם מספר מקורות:
- עולם התוהו (עולם הכאוס הקבלי): הכלים נשברו *כי הם רצו את ה' יותר מדי*. תאווה מופרזת — אפילו לאלוקי — היא הרסנית.
- נעשה ונשמע והר סיני: כאשר עם ישראל הכריז בהתלהבות "נעשה ונשמע," תגובת הקב"ה הייתה למעשה "בבקשה אל" — "וְהִגְבַּלְתָּ אֶת הָעָם" ("הצב גבולות לעם"). כל הדרמה של סיני עוסקת ביצירת גבולות, לא בטיפוח אהבה עזה.
- משה רבנו: אף אחד לא מתאר את משה או מייסדי דתות אחרים כאנשים של "תשוקה גדולה." הם מתוארים במונחים של *הגבלותיהם* — הרעיונות שלהם על מה טוב ומה רע. תרומתו המגדירה של משה הייתה 365 לאוין ו-248 מצוות עשה — מערכת של גבולות.
אם תאווה/תשוקה היא *הקריטריון* של הטוב (כלומר, הדבר שהופך משהו לטוב), אז גם תשוקה לה' היא רעה — כי התיאוריה אומרת שהקריטריון עצמו הוא הבעיה. אי אפשר לומר "תאווה בלתי מרוסנת היא רעה *חוץ* מכשהיא מכוונת לה'," כי זה עדיין הופך את התאווה לעיקרון הפעיל. דברים טובים הם בדיוק דברים מרוסנים. ככל שאדם יותר *יקר* (מאופק/מרוסן), כך הוא טוב יותר.
תורת הבעל שם טוב שהיצר הרע הוא "דבר טוב במקום הנכון" מוכרת כמחשבה רצינית אך נדחית במסגרת זו: אם תאווה-כקריטריון היא הבעיה, אז תאווה אינה דבר טוב אפילו "במקום הנכון." לפחות על פי תיאוריה זו, ריסון הוא טוב ופראות היא רעה.
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ציוויליזציה היא טובה, וההיפך מציוויליזציה הוא רע — וציוויליזציה היא ביסודה עניין של ריסון, לא של תשוקה. תשוקה עשויה להיות *הרקע* של ציוויליזציה (חומר הגלם), אבל ציוויליזציה עצמה *מבוססת על* ריסון. הרומנטיזציה המודרנית של תשוקה כמנוע ההתקדמות היא היפוך עמוק של האמת.
נישואין מניחים מראש תאווה מינית (זהו תנאי הרקע), אבל נישואין *מבוססים על* ריסון, ארגון והכנעת התאווה — מתן גבולות ומבנה נכונים לה. אם היית בונה את השקפת עולמך על יצר המין בלבד, לא היית מגיע לנישואין.
[סטייה צדדית / פולמוס:] דרשנים (בעלי השקפה) שמקדמים נישואין בטענה שהם יניבו הנאה טובה יותר (למשל, "תהיה לך חיי אישות טובים יותר") מותחים עליהם ביקורת חדה. גישה זו יוצאת כנגד עצמה: אם הבסיס הוא הנאה, אז המסקנה ההגיונית היא הדוניזם — למה לקבל מבנה כלשהו בכלל? הטיעון שהנאה היא הבסיס מוביל לפירוק המבנים עצמם שמקודמים. מסגור נישואין באופן אינסטרומנטלי במונחי הנאה מערער את המשמעת שנישואין דורשים בפועל.
אם הכל מבוסס על הנאה, אז הדוניזם בלתי מרוסן הוא המסקנה הרציונלית. אפילו הדוניזם נכשל במונחים שלו עצמו — "גם ככה אין לך הרבה הנאה מזה" — אבל זו בעיה נפרדת. הבעיה האמיתית היא שהמסגרת מבוססת-ההנאה לא יכולה להצדיק את המשמעת המבנית שהופכת נישואין (וציוויליזציה) למשמעותיים.
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מנהגים מעשיים מסוימים מתיישבים עם תיאוריה זו נגד התאווה:
- תענית כתרגיל בדיכוי תאווה.
- הרמב"ם ורב סעדיה גאון מסבירים את *איסורי האכילה* במסגרת זו: איסורי אכילה (למשל, חזיר, בשר בחלב, גיד הנשה) מתפקדים כתרגילים בדיכוי תאווה, ללא קשר לטעמיהם המקוריים.
- פיוטו של רב סעדיה שממפה את כל תרי"ג מצוות על עשרת הדיברות הולך בעקבות פילון בהצבת כל איסורי האכילה תחת לא תחמוד, בהבנתו כאיסור היסודי נגד תאווה.
- הרמב"ם במורה נבוכים קובע במפורש שמטרה כוללת אחת (כלל) של המצוות היא *פרישות* — אימון אנשים לא פשוט לעשות מה שהם רוצים, להפוך אותם לפחות תאוותניים.
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המסגרת נגד התאווה נשמעת נכונה בתיאוריה — אדם פחות תאוותני יעמוד בפחות ניסיונות ויחיה חיים טובים יותר. ושני הצדדים למעשה מסכימים שתאווה לא צריכה להיות הקריטריון הסופי לפעולה; שניהם מסכימים ש"חיי תאווה" גרועים מ"חיי שכל." הוויכוח אינו על המסקנה אלא על השאלה האם זו דרך שימושית או מדויקת למסגר כיצד שיפור מוסרי עובד בפועל.
הקושיה המרכזית: ההשקפה נגד התאווה מניחה שהמאבקים המוסריים של אנשים מתוארים בצורה הטובה ביותר כרגעים של החלטה האם תאווה תהיה הקריטריון שלהם. אבל זה לא איך שקונפליקטים מוסריים פנימיים מתרחשים בפועל בחיים האמיתיים. חשבו על חוויות אמיתיות של התקדמות מוסרית, נסיגה, קונפליקט פנימי — מצאו אחת שמתוארת היטב על ידי הסיפור של "הייתי מחליט אם לתת לתאווה להנחות אותי." הטענ
ה היא שלא תמצאו. החיים המוסריים האמיתיים הם יותר מפורטים וספציפיים ממה שמסגור גרנדיוזי זה מציע.
תאווה בלתי נשלטת היא אכן רעה — אבל היא מידה רעה ספציפית אחת מני רבות, לא הקטגוריה העליונה. היא הייתה מופיעה בחשבון מפורט ומפורט של תכונות אופי רעות, אבל היא אינה *כלל* טוב (הכללה) לכל הפרויקט של להפוך לאדם טוב.
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החכמים הניחו שלא תחמוד מתייחס למשהו שאתה עושה (מעשה), לא למשהו שאתה רוצה (תכונת אופי / מידה). הם היו "כמעט במפורש מתנגדים למצוות שבלב" — לא כי הם הכחישו את חשיבות החיים הפנימיים, אלא כי הם לא האמינו שלומר למישהו להיות אדם פחות תאוותני היא הדרך הטובה ביותר לאמן בן אדם.
הגישה נגד התאווה מובילה ללולאות סוליפסיסטיות. כשאתה מתמקד כל כך בעוצמה בלא להיות אדם תאוותני, אתה נספג כל כך בניטור עצמי עד שאתה שוכח להיות אדם טוב. הפרויקט נגד התאווה מתכנס פנימה ומאבד מגע עם הדרישות האתיות האמיתיות של החיים.
זו התובנה הביקורתית המרכזית נגד בית המדרש נגד התאווה:
- להיות אדם תאוותני זו דרך קלה מאוד להפוך לנורא — זה מוּסכם.
- אבל לא להיות אדם תאוותני זו לא דרך מהירה להפוך לטוב — זו האסימטריה המכרעת.
- בית המדרש נגד התאווה מתייחס לדיכוי תאווה כאילו הוא *מינה והלאה* (עיקרון מקיף שממנו הכל נובע). התגובה: יש לו מקום, הוא אפילו נכון במובן רחב, אבל הוא לא מעשי מספיק ולא באמת הופך אותך לאדם טוב.
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החזון איש באמונה ובטחון (פרק ג') מנסח למעשה את אותה עמדה, אם כי בצורה מסובכת. הוא ירש דרך חשיבה עתיקה אבל חסרה לו דרך נקייה לבטא אותה.
1. מעט מאוד אנשים הם באמת *בעלי תאווה* טהורים (אנשים שמונעים כולם על ידי תאווה). יש כאלה, אבל זו לא הבעיה העיקרית בחיים.
2. דיכוי תאווה לא אומר לך איך לפעול. אתה יכול להיות חופשי לחלוטין מתאווה נלהבת ועדיין להיות *רשע* — אפילו *גנב*. *גניבה* לא מוגדרת על ידי רצייה של דברים; היא מוגדרת על ידי לקיחת משהו שלא שייך לך. ו"לא שייך לי" מוגדר על ידי קריטריונים חיצוניים, לא על ידי היעדר תאווה.
3. המסגרת נגד התאווה מאפשרת "גניבה אפתית" — גניבה ללא תשוקה, גניבה באופן מרוסן ומתורבת. אתה יכול להיות אדם נעים, לא תאוותני, ועדיין לגנוב — "תפוז אחד, לא שלושה." הקריקטורה של ההדוניסט הפרוע היא נדירה; הבעיה האמיתית היא אנשים רגילים שהם מרוסנים אבל עדיין לא טובים.
4. הריסון של הציוויליזציה לא הפך אנשים לטובים. כל הריסון שהציוויליזציה הטילה לא עצר אנשים מלגנוב, לשקר (לא תענה ברעך עד שקר) וכו'. אז ריסון לא היה "הפתרון הסופי."
5. גרוע מכך: אנשים מרוסנים הם פשוט משעממים. הם אולי לא מבצעים רוע בלתי מרוסן, אבל הם גם לא שום דבר חיובי.
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מה טוב ומה רע מוגדר על ידי "מציאות חיצונית" — על ידי אנשים אחרים. הרמח"ל אומר שזה מוגדר על ידי *הלכה*, אבל זו רק הדרך של הרמח"ל לבטא את אותו רעיון: הסטנדרט הוא חיצוני, לא פנימי.
להיות בעל מוסר מעובד ביסודיות לא הופך אותך לפחות *גורנישט* (כלום). זה הופך אותך לרגיש, אבל אנשים רגישים אינם אנשים טובים יותר. זיכוך ורגישות אינם זהים לטוב. התוכנית נגד התאווה מייצרת אנשים מזוככים ורגישים — אבל זיכוך אינו תחליף לעשות בפועל את מה שנכון כפי שמוגדר על ידי סטנדרטים חיצוניים וחובות כלפי אחרים.
מעמד מוסרי תלוי בהבחנות חיצוניות עדינות, לא בנטיות פנימיות רחבות:
- האם אישה מקודשת או נשואה? התשובה משנה האם חמידתה מפרה את לא תחמוד.
- האם היא חצי שפחה חצי בת חורין? אם כן, לקיחתה עשויה להוות ניאוף ממש בתוספת לא תחמוד; אם לא, המצב שונה לחלוטין.
- ללכת לחנות ולשלם את המחיר הנכון זה נורמלי; ללכת לבית של מישהו ולשלם מעט פחות או יותר מהמחיר הנכון יכול להיות רע באמת.
אלה לא חידות הלכתיות אקזוטיות — ככה החיים באמת עובדים. המציאות המוסרית היא פרטנית ומוגדרת חיצונית, והגישה של מעלה פנימית לא יכולה לתפוס פרטנות זו.
בית המדרש נגד התאווה נכשל אפילו במונחים שלו עצמו. הוא טוען לספק פתרון אתי מקיף, אבל:
- הוא עשוי לטפל במקרים קיצוניים (מישהו שנשלט על ידי תאווה), אבל הוא לא מטפל בהבחנות מוסריות רגילות ויומיומיות שמהוות את רוב החיים האתיים.
- דיכוי תאווה באופן "לא מכוון" — בלי לדעת מהן הפעולות הנכונות — לא עוזר.
- אפילו מה שאדם *צריך* לרצות תלוי בידיעת מה נכון לרצות, מה שדורש ידע חיצוני (הלכה, חושן משפט וכו').
מידה מסוימת של דיכוי תאווה הכרחית — לא כמטרה, אלא כתנאי מוקדם ליכולת לראות מעבר לתאוות שלך. זה מושווה ל"יציאה מהאגו שלך," אבל זה דבר פשוט מאוד, לא ההישג המיסטי שלפעמים עושים ממנו. זהו תנאי הכרחי ל*כל דבר* — אפילו לעשות חשבון.
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יש אנשים שלעולם אינם תופסים יופי כשלעצמו כי הם יכולים לרשום רק הנאה (שעוסקת בעצמי). השיח המודרני מחזק זאת בטענה ש"יופי הוא סובייקטיבי," מה שמצטמצם לומר שאין יופי, רק הנאה אישית. זה שטויות — תוצר של "אנשים מטורפים ביותר" ששפתם הדביקה את החברה. בחיי היומיום, אנשים כל הזמן "נשלטים על ידי דברים מחוצה לנו" וכן מבינים מוטיבציה מבוססת על טוב אובייקטיבי, לא רק על רצון אישי.
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הרמב"ן (מתחילת פרשת משפטים) סובר שכל הפרשה, והשיח הרחב יותר של סיני, הם הרחבה של עשרת הדיברות, וספציפית פרשת משפטים מרחיבה את לא תחמוד (לא לא תגנוב, אולי כי לא תגנוב מתייחס לחטיפה/גונב נפשות). רצייה/חמידה יכולה להיות מוגדרת רק אחרי שאתה יודע מה שייך לך ומה לא.
הרב סולובייצ'יק טען שאנשים שלא לומדים חושן משפט הם "כברירת מחדל גנבים" — כי העולם הרבה יותר מסובך מהעיקרון הנאיבי "אני לא לוקח מה שלא שלי." צריך ללמוד את הדינים המפורטים של חיובים וקניין כדי לדעת מה המצב המוסרי האמיתי שלך. התחושה ה"טבעית" של קניין אינה מספיקה.
זהו הפירוש השני של לא תחמוד (הראשון הוא הפירוש נגד התאווה): לא תחמוד עוסק בלהיות מהסוג של אדם שרוצה נכון, מה שדורש ידע מפורט של מה באמת שייך לך ומה לא.
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הפסוק "בְּפִיו וּבִשְׂפָתָיו כִּבְּדוּנִי וְלִבּוֹ רִחַק מִמֶּנִּי" יש לו שני פירושים:
פירוש ראשון (כוונת הנביא בפועל): אדם אומר את כל הדברים הנכונים בתפילה — ביטחון, אהבת ה', אמון בצדק האלוקי — אבל לא חי בהתאם. כשהוא צריך משהו, הוא גונב; הוא לא באמת בוטח בה' שיספק. "לבו רחק ממני" פירושו: אתה לא חי את מה שאתה אומר. "לב" כאן פירושו הסוג של אדם שאתה בפועל — הנטיות והמעשים המיושבים שלך, לא הרגשות הרגעיים שלך.
- אדם כזה הוא שקרן וצבוע במובן הפשוט.
- האדם ההפוך — שאומר שמע ישראל מהר, בלי רגש גדול, אבל באמת חי עם ביטחון ולא גונב — הוא "לבו קרוב לה'" למרות חוסר להט רגשי.
פירוש שני (חובות הלבבות / חסידי): אדם אומר את מילות התפילה באופן מכני, בלי רגש, התרגשות או מסירות — לעומת מישהו שאומר אותן בעוצמה רגשית ומסירות פנימית. פירוש זה מתייחס לבעיה כאל כנות רגשית במהלך מעשה הדיבור עצמו.
ביקורת הנביא אינה על אמירת שמע ישראל מהר או בלי רגש. "איזו מצווה זו לומר דברים? לא עוזר לאף אחד." מישהו שמתרגש עמוקות במהלך דרשה, אין לו מחשבות זרות, הוא לגמרי "נוכח" — אבל לא באמת מאמין או חי לפי מה שהוא אומר — האדם הזה הוא מי שהנביא קורא לו "לבו רחוק ממני." הוא "שקרן," "בלוף." המבחן האמיתי הוא התנהגותי ונטייתי, לא רגשי-חווייתי.
דניאל לא אמר "הָאֵל הַגָּדוֹל הַגִּבּוֹר וְהַנּוֹרָא" כי הוא לא יכול היה לומר זאת בכנות — הוא לא חווה זאת כאמת באותו רגע. זה ממחיש את סטנדרט *הכנות ההתנהגותית*: השמטתו של דניאל הייתה מעשה של יושרה לגבי מה שהוא באמת האמין, לא לגבי עוצמה רגשית.
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מישהו שפוגע באדם אחר תוך שהוא אומר "אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך" — ומתכוון לזה באמת — הוא בעצם צבוע יותר מהפסיכופת שאומר זאת בלי להרגיש. הפסיכופת רק משקר. אבל האדם שבאמת מרגיש רע ובכל זאת ממשיך בפעולה המזיקה מדגים שה"עולם הרגשות" שלו הוא חסר רלוונטיות ומשקל מוסרי. לרגשות של חרטה או אמפתיה תוך כדי התמדה בפעולה רעה אין אפילו מעלה חלקית — זה כלום. "למי אכפת מהרגשות שלך?"
מישהו שטוען "מעולם לא רציתי את זה, פשוט לקחתי את זה בלי לרצות" — וחושב שהוא לא בעבירה — טועה. הוא עובר על לא תחמוד. נוכחות או היעדר תאווה אינם הקריטריון; מעשה הלקיחה של מה ששייך למישהו אחר הוא.
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תלמיד מציע: האם הפשט ה"פנימי" של לא תחמוד (עבודה על לא לרצות) לא יכול לשמש ככלי כדי להגיע בסופו של דבר לפשט הנכון (להיות מהסוג של אדם שפועל נכון)?
זה אפשרי תיאורטית אבל מדאיג מאוד: בפועל, הפירוש הפנימי משמש כמעט תמיד ככלי כדי *להימנע* מהגעה ליעד הנכון. אנשים משתמשים בו כדי להרגיש טוב עם עצמם בלי לשנות את התנהגותם. זה חלקית תיאורטי וחלקית תצפיתי — נובע מצפייה באופן שבו עולם הישיבות ירש "גרסה רעה של פנימיות" שהופכת אנשים לגרועים יותר, לא לטובים יותר. הם חושבים שהם טובים כי הם "מרגישים את זה" כשאומרים שמע, או "מרגישים את זה" כשאומרים שהכאב של מישהו כואב להם.
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פשוט לדרוס את מה שאתה רוצה ולעשות רק מה שאתה חושב שנכון הוא גם פרויקט פנימי וגם לא מספיק. האדם שמדכא תאווה עשוי להיות נקי מנגיעות (הטיות אישיות), אבל עדיין אדם רע אם הוא מעולם לא חקר ברצינות מה באמת נכון — מה שייך לו, מה חובותיו, מה מקומו בעולם. אלה כולן שאלות חיצוניות שדורשות מעורבות אמיתית עם המציאות. האדם שיושב ליד הסטנדר שלו ומהווה "בחור טוב" מבפנים, בלי לעשות את העבודה הזו, הוא לא בחור טוב.
להיות אדם תאוותני מאוד זה רע לבריאות הגופנית (אכילת יתר, שתיית יתר). אבל לא להיות תאוותני לא הופך אותך אוטומטית לבריא. עדיין צריך לגלות מה באמת בריא. אין קסם שאומר שהסרת תאווה מובילה לפעולה נכונה. "אולי פשוט תאכל קוגל בלי תאווה." חסר ברשע אינו שווה לנוכחות של מעלה. הסרת משהו רע לא פותרת את כל הבעיות.
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הבחנה מכרעת לגבי סדר הסיבתיות מול סדר ההגדרה:
- בסדר המציאות (סיבתית), פנימיות באה ראשונה — אנשים אכן פועלים ממצביהם הפנימיים.
- בסדר התיאוריה (הגדרתית), פנימיות באה שנייה — מה שמגדיר אדם טוב הוא איך הוא פועל, לא איך הוא מרגיש. האדם שמפסיק להיות גנב ואז יפסיק לרצות להיות גנב, וזה להיות בעל המידה של לא תחמוד.
עולם הישיבות הפך את הסדר: הם חושבים שמתקנים את הפנים קודם והחוץ עוקב. הגישה הנכונה: תקן את החוץ (מעשים, מעורבות עם מציאות וחובה) והפנים עוקב.
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שקר אינו אי-ההתאמה של המילים החיצוניות שלך לרגשותיך הפנימיים ברגע הדיבור. מחשבותיו של שקרן מיומן מתאימות לשקר שלו בזמן שהוא מספר אותו. אלא, שקר הוא אי-ההתאמה של מילותיך למציאות — לעובדות החיצוניות. "הדבר הכי פנימי" (מה שאנחנו קוראים אמת הלב) מוגדר למעשה על ידי מציאות חיצונית. הקריטריון לאמת מול שקר הוא מחוץ לאדם, לא בתוכו.
זה מחזק את כל המסגרת: אפילו המושג של כנות/אמת מעוגן בסופו של דבר בחיצוני, לא בפנימי.
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יש פירוש שלישי בספר החינוך שצריך להתייחס אליו, אבל הוא קשור ליותר מדי נושאים אחרים שייקח יותר מדי זמן לעבור עליהם. זה נשאר לפגישה עתידית.
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עמדת החיי אדם לגבי חשיבות האופן שבו אומרים את המילים (ככל הנראה של לא תחמוד או הצהרות קשורות) נדחית כלא חשובה — היא עשויה לשמש כתרגול לריכוז או מדיטציה, אבל היא לא באמת משנה.
החיי אדם עוסק בטריקים רטוריים, לוקח מקורות שמשמעותם שונה לחלוטין ומפרש אותם מחדש כדי לתמוך בעמדתו שלו. הפשט עובד טוב יותר כדרוש (פירוש הומילטי). החיי אדם מעלה קושיה על עצמו — על תאוות שמסתחררות מחוץ לשליטה ולמה צריך מילים אם הכל בלב — אבל לא באמת עונה עליה. זו שאלה על מילים, בעוד שהחקירה כאן היא על **
מעשה**, וזו שאלה שונה מיסודה.
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[הערה מתודולוגית מודעת-עצמית:] לאורך כל השיעור, יש הכרות חוזרות ונשנות שהרבה מזה הוא "סתם ויכוח" — פרובוקציה שנועדה לגרום לתלמידים לשים לב למשהו "ממש מוזר" בהנחות המודרניות, ולא טענות חיוביות מיושבות. יש הבחנה בין ההשקפה החיובית (שמקודמת בזהירות) לבין הפרויקט הביקורתי (שמקודם באגרסיביות).
המרצה: רגע, אני רק מחזיר את זה למקום. ברוכים הבאים לשיעור השני או השלישי. אם אתם לא מכירים, אני אחמד. אני הולך ללמד אתכם היום. אז היום אני הולך ללמד אחמד, או עמוס, או משהו כזה. מה הקשר של חודש אדר ללא תחמוד? הרבה מאוד! הכל! למה? כי משם מגיע החלק.
אז קודם כל אני רוצה לענות על שאלה קטנה לגבי המזל של אדר.
המרצה: כתוב בספרים הקדושים שהמזל של חודש אדר הוא דגים, וזה לא נכון, כי דגים, וה"קרפיסקוס" בלטינית, דגים, פייסיס, פייסיס, אני חושב שככה מבטאים את זה, זה דג, פייסיס, פייסיס, אז הדגים, כל מי שלמד על המזלות, כולל בשיעור שלנו לפני יומיים, למד שהמזלות קשורים לשמש, נכון?
מה שמזל אומר זה שהשמש נוסעת בתוך אותו מערך כוכבים. זה פשוטו כמשמעו מה שזה אומר, נכון? ולכן אין לזה שום קשר ללבנה או לראש חודש. ולכן יש תורה מ... קראתי שכתוב בחזקוני, לא בדקתי את זה, כתוב בירושלמי — שמצאו אנשים שהמזל שלהם עובד טוב באותו יום.
המרצה: אנשים אומרים בגלל שזה יום ההולדת שלהם, אני לא בטוח שזה מה שכתוב שם, אבל אנשים, כולם יודעים שלכל מזל, לכל, איך קוראים לזה? לכל אדם שיש לו חיבור לאחד מהכוכבים, כן, כמו ההורוסקופ שלו או ה... יש מילים שונות שאני מחפש. הנה הסימן שלו, נכון? כל אחד שייך לסימן. ולכל סימן יש יום מסוים בשנה מסוימת, בחודש מסוים, בחלק מסוים של הזמן, שבו הם מצליחים. אז אם אתה מתחיל משהו או עושה משהו בזמן הזה, זה היום המוצלח שלך. זו תיאוריה של אסטרולוגיה.
ולכן, אם אתה מאוד חכם בעשיית מלחמה, אז תגייס את האנשים שילחמו בשבילך להיות אלה שנמצאים ביום המוצלח שלהם. לכן.
תלמיד: למה זה שאתה מוצלח? למה היום מוצלח?
המרצה: בדרך כלל בגלל שנולדת באותו כוכב או בגלל האופן שבו... אני לא יודע את הלכות האסטרולוגיה כל כך טוב, אבל יש רעיון. העניין הוא שהטבע שלך בנוי ליום הזה.
תלמיד: משהו כזה, כן.
המרצה: יש חלק בזמן שעובד טוב יותר בשבילך. לדברים האלה יש גם סיבות טבעיות, כלומר טבעיות, לא שאסטרולוגיה לא אמורה להיות טבעית, אבל כולם, הדברים האלה נכונים בלי קשר. יש אנשים שהם אנשי לילה, יש אנשים שהם אנשי בוקר, יש אנשים שהם אנשי תחילת השבוע, יש אנשים שהם אנשי סוף השבוע, דברים כאלה הם דברים תצפיתיים. הם לא דברים שאסטרולוגיה המציאה. אסטרולוגיה היא רק תיאוריה. כמובן, לעולם יש כל יום מה שאתה, נכון? אסטרולוגיה היא רק תיאוריה שאומרת שאם נולדת בזמן הזה, אז אתה שייך לסימן הזה והזה, ולכן אתה הולך להצליח בתאריך הזה והזה וכן הלאה.
אז בכל מקרה, איזה צדיק חשב על תיאוריה כזו: ככה עמלק, הוא לקח אנשים שנמצאים ביום מוצלח להילחם, ולכן הם ניצחו. אז משה אמר ליהושע שאתה צריך למצוא מישהו שעושה אפילו יותר טוב. איך אתה יכול למצוא מישהו שעושה אפילו יותר טוב? נכון?
המרצה: אז ככה הסיפור. יש לנו דבר שנקרא החודש השלושה עשר. עכשיו מה הסימן של החודש השלושה עשר?
תלמיד: אין.
המרצה: אין. אם אין לך סימן, אז אתה יכול להצליח בכל יום. אז הוא מצא אנשים שכולם נולדו באדר שני. כמובן, אל תשאלו אותי הרבה שאלות שעיבור חודש הומצא מאוחר יותר, אז זה לא יכול היה להיות, אבל בכל מקרה, הוא מצא אנשים שנולדו באדר שני. ואז כשהעמלקי בא ואומר, "אני הולך להביא אדם אחד שהסימן שלו חזק יותר מהסימן שלך," הוא אומר, "יש כאן שגיאת אפס. אין עם מי לדבר." הוא מחודש אדר ב'.
תלמיד: טוב, זה לא אמור להיות הפוך, שאין לנו מזל וזה אמור להיות אפילו גרוע יותר?
המרצה: עוד קושיא טובה. לא, לא, אני חושב שדברים מהסוג הזה באמת הולכים נגד אסטרולוגיה. זו לא הנקודה שלי. אני לא יכול לומר שאין לי אסטרולוגיה. לפי אסטרולוגיה זה היה גרוע יותר, אבל הנקודה שלנו היא ש...
תלמיד: אני חושב שלפעמים הדברים האלה נאמרים ככה.
המרצה: לפעמים, אבל עכשיו...
תלמיד: זה לא מתחיל.
המרצה: הענין נגמר. מה שאני אומר שיש חודש שלושה עשר, זה לא אומר שיש חודש שלושה עשר.
המרצה: אה, הבנתי. עכשיו יש לך קושיא. זו אותה קושיא שנשאלה קודם. שזה לא הגיוני אם אתה יודע משהו על אסטרולוגיה, או משהו על איך שזה אמור לעבוד, זה לא הגיוני. כי העובדה שלעסק שלך יש בעיה עם החודשים הירחיים והשמשיים שלא מסתדרים, ולכן המצאת חכמה לעשות חודש שלושה עשר ב-7 מתוך 19 שנים, זה לא אומר לכוכבים שהכוכבים לא מקשיבים לך. שם בכל מקרה תמיד יש 12 חודשים או 12 סימנים של גלגל המזלות בכל שנה, בכל שנת שמש.
זו הקושיא הגדולה. ועכשיו אני הולך לספר לכם את התירוץ על הקושיא הזו. אתם רוצים לדעת את התירוץ?
המרצה: התירוץ הוא כך: שאף אחד מעולם לא היה מספיק טיפש לחשוב שהכוכבים משפיעים על אנשים, במובן הזה — הכוכבים מאוד גבוהים, מאוד רחוקים. יש להם רמה במציאות שהיא הרבה יותר גבוהה מהרמה שלנו. אתם יודעים איך אני יודע, נכון? איך אני יודע שהכוכבים טובים מוסרית מאיתנו? כי הם אף פעם לא נשחקים. לאנשים יש שחיקה. ולכוכבים אין שחיקה. אנשים לפעמים מגיעים בזמן, לפעמים מגיעים מאוחר. כוכבים תמיד מגיעים בזמן. אז כוכבים מושלמים. הכוכבים מושלמים. הלוואי שיכולת להיות כוכב. קוראים לזה "אתה כוכב". לכן כתוב, בכל פעם שאנחנו מנסים לומר שבן אדם הוא באמת מדהים, אנחנו אומרים שהוא כוכב.
זה בתנ"ך. זה בכל התייחסות תרבותית שאנחנו מכירים. כוכבים הם משהו מדהים לגבינו. הרמב"ם אומר שכשאדם יודע על הכוכבים, כמו שכתוב בתהלים, "כי אראה שמיך... מה אנוש כי תזכרנו". אז אני חושב, במילים אחרות, כשאני רואה שהכוכבים כל כך גדולים, אני מסתכל למטה על האנשים ואני אומר, האנשים האלה, הם לא עומדים מול הכוכבים. הם לא בהשוואה. הם מאוד גרועים ביחס לכוכבים.
המרצה: אז עכשיו, לכן, זה מאוד מוזר. אף אחד מעולם לא חשב, מכיוון שזו המחשבה הבסיסית, אף אחד מעולם לא חשב שלכוכבים אכפת ממך כשהם שולטים בחייך. הם כל כך מעבר לך, כל כך גבוהים יותר. יש להם דברים טובים יותר לעשות עם הזמן שלהם מאשר לדאוג מי הולך לנצח בקרב. כמובן, הם לא דואגים, אבל לכן, יש לנו הבנה בסיסית שמצד שני, כוכבים עושים לנו אור והם אומרים לנו לאן ללכת כשאנחנו במדבר או בים וכן הלאה.
המרצה: אבל אתם צריכים להבין שזה לא ישירות. כוכבים לא עושים לנו שום דבר ישירות, רק דרך המתווך, דרך התיווך של בני אדם, או שנאמר של נשמות אנושיות או הבנה אנושית. במילים אחרות, מכיוון שאני יכול להסתכל על הכוכב ולהבין איפה אני ביחס לכוכב, הכוכב עושה את זה דרך ההסתכלות שלי. אם לא הייתי מסתכל, הכוכב לא היה יכול לומר לי לאן ללכת. לכן אף אחד מעולם לא יוצא החוצה ושומע את הכוכבים מדברים אליו. אתה מסתכל עליהם קודם ואז הם מדברים אליך. אז הם שולטים בחייך.
תלמיד: הכל לא באמת עובד ככה?
המרצה: הכל עובד ככה, כן.
תלמיד: לא הכל.
המרצה: במילים אחרות, דברים ברמה שלך לא עובדים ככה. חבר שלך דוחף אותך בלי שביקשת ממנו, בלי שהסתכלת עליו, אז זה לא עובד דרכך. או כשאתה מחליק על קליפת בננה, קליפת הבננה לא עובדת דרך הנשמה שלך. זה דבר נמוך יותר במובן מסוים שפועל עליך או משהו ברמה של הגוף שלך שפועל עליך, אבל דברים עליונים תמיד עובדים ככה או רוב הדברים העליונים.
לכן, אז אני לא מדבר כל כך על דחיפה אלא נגיד כשאתה רוצה עזרה ממישהו, נכון? זה תמיד שאתה רוצה את זה, לא תמיד, כן, אבל אתה רוצה ללכת לרופא, כן?
תלמיד: כן, אבל הרופא לא עוזר לך דרך השכל שלך, נכון? זה השכל שלך שהביא אותך אליו, אבל הוא לא עוזר לך דרך השכל שלך.
המרצה: הכוכבים יכולים לעזור לך רק דרך השכל שלך, אלא אם כן...
תלמיד: אלא אם כן הרופא אומר לך לעקוב אחרי הוראות מסוימות ואתה צריך להשתמש בשכל שלך כדי לעקוב אחרי ההוראות.
המרצה: זה נכון. אבל בדרך כלל הוא פשוט נותן לך זריקה או משהו ואז הוא לא עוזר לך דרך השכל שלך.
תלמיד: עם עצים זה אותו דבר. עצים לא יכולים לעקוב אחרי הכוכבים. הם עוקבים אחרי הכוכבים.
המרצה: אבל בני אדם יכולים לעקוב אחרי עצים כמו שהם עוקבים אחרי כוכבים. אם העצים היו אומרים לך משהו. הבעיה היא שהם לא אומרים לנו כל כך הרבה דברים כמו שהכוכבים אומרים לנו.
תלמיד: דיוויד דויטש משתמש בזה כטיעון, אני חושב, לחשיבות של בני אדם במובן שהם לא יודעים שהם יכולים להשפיע על השכל שלהם, שיכול להיות מושפע מהכל.
המרצה: אוקיי, אולי. הנקודה היא שכשבני אדם מושפעים דרך סיבות עליונות או דרך הכוכבים, אז זה עובד דרך הנשמה האנושית, לא — דרך אחרת לומר את זה היא...
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה לא מה שאנחנו חושבים על חשיבה כמו אתה ובן אדם ואינטראקציות או השפעה אנושית...
המרצה: אה, ב...
תלמיד: לא, במובן שהכוכבים, רק שיהיה ברור, במובן שהכוכבים גורמים לשמש, גורמים לשקיעה ולזריחה, זה לא מה שאני מדבר עליו. אנחנו לא צריכים אסטרולוגיה בשביל זה.
המרצה: לא, לא, זה לא עובד במובן הזה.
תלמיד: אוקיי, זה דיון שלם.
המרצה: אבל כן, האסטרולוגיה לא, היתה מחלוקת על זה בין הקדמונים, אבל אסטרולוגיה בדרך כלל לא נאמרה שעובדת בצורה הזו. לפחות היהודים לא מאמינים שזה עובד ככה.
תלמיד: באיזה מובן אתה מדבר?
המרצה: רגע, רגע, רגע, לכולם יש כל כך הרבה שאלות ואני לא יכול אפילו לסיים פסקה אחת של מחשבה. אז הנקודה שלי היא שהדרך לומר את זה היא שדברים כמו...
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אתם צריכים להבין, מה זה בכלל אומר שביום מסוים זה היום המוצלח שלך? מה הופך ימים לימים, ושבועות לשבועות, ושבועות וחודשים לחודשים, ושנים לשנים?
אז, רבי עקיבא גילה משהו מאוד מעניין. רבי עקיבא גילה שכתוב בפסוק, והוא אומר, אה, רגע, אנחנו אלה שקוראים להם מועדים, נכון? כמובן, אנחנו קוראים להם על סמך משהו שאנחנו יודעים. הוא לא אומר שזה שרירותי שהאנשים שקוראים לזה יכולים פשוט לעשות מה שהם רוצים. הם צריכים לתעל את הכוכבים. הם צריכים לתעל את מה שקורה בשמים, אבל הם צריכים לתעל את זה.
וזה אומר שאם האנשים האלה אומרים לך ואתה מאמין להם — כל עוד אתה מאמין; אם אתה לא מאמין להם זה לא עובד — אבל אם האנשים האלה אומרים לך שהיום יום שלישי, אז זה יום שלישי. כי יום שלישי מעולם לא נגע בך בלי לעבור דרך אנשים.
אז במילים אחרות, יום שלישי שהיה קודם ביום שלישי הוא עכשיו ביום חמישי. יום שלישי יכול לחול ביום חמישי, אם בית הדין אומר כך. אין בעיה עם זה. וכל זה אמיתי, אבל שום דבר לא צריך להיות סובייקטיבי כדי שכל זה יעבוד.
אז עכשיו אנחנו מבינים שכשאנחנו אומרים שאנחנו מחלקים את הזמן בצורה אחרת, נכון? אז למשל, יש אדם — כמו שאנחנו יכולים להבין את זה — יש אנשים שאוהבים את ההתחלה של כל תקופת זמן. אז הם מצליחים. יש אנשים שמצליחים בסוף. יש אנשים שמצליחים בדיוק באמצע, וכן הלאה.
זה בעצם מה שכל השיוכים האסטרולוגיים האלה מסתכמים בו, נכון? כשאתה חותך את השנה ל-12 חלקים, או את מחזור השמש בין הכוכבים ל-12 חלקים, אז יש אנשים שנהנים מההתחלה, יש אנשים מהסוף, יש אנשים שמצליחים בשלב הזה של התהליך ואנשים בשלב ההוא של התהליך וכן הלאה.
אבל עכשיו כשזה יורד לאנשים, מה שתהליכים אומרים בשבילנו קשור לאיך שאנחנו שולטים בזמן שלנו, איך שאנחנו מסדרים את הזמן שלנו. אז אם אתה מסדר את הזמן שלך קצת לא במרכז ביחס לאיך שהכוכבים מסדרים את הזמן שלהם, זה הולך לתעל את הכוכבים דרך הדרך הזו.
אז אם אמרת שראש חודש הוא ביום ראשון ובאמת הוא ביום שני, אז יום שני עבר ליום ראשון. יום שני העליון עבר ליום ראשון התחתון. ועכשיו זה יום ראשון או יום שני, מה שאתה רוצה שזה יהיה. ועכשיו כל ההשפעות שיש — אנשים, יש אנשים שאוהבים יום ראשון, יש אנשים שאוהבים יום שני — זה הולך לקרות כשהרב אמר שזה משהו, לא כשיום ראשון ה"אמיתי" כביכול הוא בשמים. מאוד פשוט.
תלמיד: ואם אתה לא מבין, אתה צריך להשיג את זה. אתה צריך את המחזור כדי להיות מסוגל לתעל את הכוכבים, אבל אז כשאתה לא מדויק, אז גם הכוכבים לא מדויקים.
המרצה: כן.
תלמיד: אז אתה לא צריך את המחזור מלכתחילה. מה בדיוק — הבלבול הזה הוא הבלבול שלי.
המרצה: וזה — אבל זה — זה לא — זה כל כך בסיסי שזה מעבר לנישה שבכלל צריך להיות לך את זה. כי אם יש — אם יש — אם יש כמו זרם חשמלי, כמו שאני הולך להשתמש במשל הטיפשי שכולם משתמשים בו, אבל רק כדי שתראו שאין בעיה עם המסגרת.
אם יש זרם חשמלי גדול שיש לו שני קצוות, שיש לו צד חיובי וצד שלילי, וזה קבוע, אתה לא יכול לשנות את החיובי לשלילי. אבל כדי שאני אקבל את זה, אני צריך לחבר חוט ולהביא אותו עד למטה אליי ולעשות שנאי שגורם לזה לבוא קטן מספיק כדי שאוכל לעשות בו שימוש סופי, ואז אני מביא אותו אליי.
עכשיו המקום שבו השלילי מימין והחיובי משמאל או כך — ככה זה במקור. אבל כשאני מחבר את זה אליי, אני יכול לסובב את זה לכל הצדדים אם אני רוצה, וזה הולך להיות החיובי האמיתי משם והשלילי האמיתי משם. אבל כשהם מגיעים אליי, הם הולכים להיות — הם הולכים להיות הפוכים. הם הולכים להיות בצד ההפוך. אין בעיה עם זה. זה מאוד — כל זה מאוד אמיתי.
גם אתה צריך אותי וגם אני באמת מתעל את הדבר. אני לא יוצר אותו מחדש. אני מתעל את הדבר הזה. ויש לי מידה מסוימת של חופש לשים אותו איפה שאני רוצה.
לתעל פשוט אומר שאתה גורם לדבר שאתה מקבל לעבוד דרך הדרך שלך, מה שזה עושה. הכוכבים אומרים היום זה היום הראשון של השנה. יש אנשים שאוהבים את היום הראשון של השנה. הכוכבים — עכשיו, כן, יש מחזור והכוכבים אמיתיים. זה מחזור אמיתי. אל תגיד שזה לא.
ואז אמרתי, עכשיו הראשון הזה לא נוגע בי ישירות. הוא נוגע בי רק דרך כל סדרת הצינורות הזו — בני אדם, נשמות. אבל נקרא להם צינורות כדי שתבינו, כי אתם לא מבינים כשאני אומר את זה בצורה אחרת. אז בואו נקרא לזה צינורות.
ועכשיו השרברב האחרון בצינור יכול להזיז את זה יומיים או שלושה ימים או עשרה ימים — אני לא יודע כמה. יש גבול לכמה ימים אפשר להזיז, אבל אפשר להזיז קצת. ואז יהיה לך את הראשון. ואם אני אומר לך שהיום הוא הראשון כי זה מתי השנה התחילה, בואו נכוון את הכוכבים בכל התמונה הזו, אני עדיין יכול לעשות את אותו הדבר.
תלמיד: אני לא מבין שוב. אז אולי אתה — זה הגיוני. אני צריך חשמל שייכנס לקיר שלי. אני לא צריך את תחנת הכוח בכלל. זה מה שאתה אומר.
מרצה: תודה רבה. אתה לא צריך אותה. אתה לא צריך אותה. זה הגיוני. אולי גם אני לא מבין את זה, אז אני לא יודע. אני רק מעז להציע שזה הגיוני.
תלמיד: אתה פשוט נותן משל. אני חייב להקשות על המשל הזה.
מרצה: המשל אמור להסביר לך למה המבנה הוא מאוד טבעי.
הימים מתקצרים ומתארכים במהלך השנה, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אבל אתה לא חייב לשים לב לזה בדיוק כשזה קורה. אם אתה שם לב בעיכוב, אז זה מתי הם התקצרו.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: ההתקצרות האמיתית של הימים קרתה בשבילך בזמן שבו שמת לב או בזמן שמישהו אמר לך לשים לב, נכון? אני אומר שזה ב — נגיד שזה היום שבו השמש — השינוי בשמש — זה חמישה ימים אחרי השינוי בשמש, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: זה בדיוק מתי השמש התחילה לגדול. זו ההשפעה של השמש עליך שהיא בעצם איך שזה, נכון?
אני חושב שתמיד המציאות שונה כי השמש אפילו פיזית לוקח לה זמן ולוקח כמה תהליכים כדי להגיע אלינו וכן הלאה. אז הכל הוא כזה. אבל מה שאני אומר הוא שכוחות הנפש — כוח נפשי זו לא המילה — כוחות הנשמה, ברגע שהדברים עוברים דרך בני אדם, הם הופכים — הם מקבלים הרבה יותר דרגות חופש ממה שהיה להם.
תלמיד: כשאתה מדבר על כמו שהשמש לוקחת 8 דקות להגיע אלינו והכוכב שאתה רואה מת לפני 5 שנים וכן הלאה?
מרצה: כן, וזה הכל חלק — זה מעניין, נכון? אתה מדבר על מין נשמה, או מין אנושי, אבל זו שאלה אחרת. אני רק — בהנחה שזה עובד, אני עונה על שאלה בתוך מערכת.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: ואז תבוא לכאן להסביר את כל המערכת. אני רק אומר מה הכוונה שזה גורם לך להילחם טוב יותר?
יש אנשים שנלחמים — יש אנשים שנלחמים טוב יותר בבוקר, יש אנשים אחר הצהריים. עכשיו אם הדבר הזה אמיתי, זו השמש שגורמת להם עם בוקר ואחר הצהריים. זה לא המצאה אנושית. אבל אם אני מכבה את האורות ואומר להם לישון שעתיים מאוחר יותר, אז הבוקר הוא אז. ואז אנשי הבוקר שמחים אז. פשוט ככה. בדיוק כמו שאני יכול להפוך את הבוקר ללילה ואת הלילה לבוקר, אפשר — במידה מסוימת, במידה מסוימת כן, במידה מסוימת.
ולכן האנשים שחיים לפי ראש חודש, זה מתי החודש מתחיל. ואם זה התחיל ביום שהוא לא נכון לפי הירח, מה אכפת?
תלמיד: אז במובן מסוים, אתה יוצר את המזל שלך?
מרצה: אתה שולט בזה, אתה מתעל את זה. זו המילה שאני אוהב — תיעול. אנשים משתמשים בה, כנראה משתמשים יותר מדי, אבל זה רק הסבר קטן של מה זה. אתה מתעל את זה, כמובן. עכשיו, זה לא שלך, זה מה שאני אומר.
אנחנו מדברים על, למשל, תרבויות וכמו בית דין הזה —
מרצה: לא המקור, אבל אתה הצינור. כן, וגם לא רק אתה. דברים קשה לעשות לבד, את רוב הדברים המשמעותיים. לכן יש לנו בית דין, וזה מתעל את זה.
וכשהם — אם אנחנו מניחים שאיכשהו כשהם עושים ראש חודש, אז הם מחליטים שזה החודש ה-12 של השנה הסולארית הזו בערך — אז הפעמים הבודדות שהם עושים חודש 13, הם אומרים, זה ריק, אנחנו הולכים לעשות מה שאנחנו רוצים עם זה. ואז זה באמת ככה כי הם דחפו את כל השפע, כל האנרגיות, איך שתרצו לקרוא להם, של כל 12 הכוכבים לתוך 12 החודשים הקודמים. ואז נשאר להם זמן לעשות מה שהם רוצים. זה כל הטריק.
בדיוק כמו כל דבר. אם אתה מסיים את העבודה שלך, אתה יודע שיש אנשים שמקבלים משכורת כל שבועיים. בחלק מהחודשים יש להם שלוש, נכון? איך זה יכול להיות? בחלק יש חמישה שבועות. אז אתה מקבל בשבוע הראשון, השלישי בחודש, והחמישי. מצוין. אז החודשים האלה ארוכים יותר?
תלמיד: לא.
מרצה: הם ארוכים יותר. יש בהם יותר כסף. הם באמת עוזרים, תלוי איך אתה מצליב בין לוחות זמנים שונים.
תלמיד: הייחוסים שהם עושים עם זה לא ממש מתאימים. זה הולך הרבה מעבר למה שאתה אומר. זו הנקודה.
מרצה: ה?
תלמיד: מה שהם מייחסים לזה שמושפע מהדברים האלה הוא הרבה יותר ממה שההסבר שלך מציע.
מרצה: אני לא מבין. זו שאלה?
תלמיד: כן, כן.
מרצה: בסדר. יש לך הסבר איך זה עובד. הבעיה היא שהם אומרים שזה עובד לדברים שלא.
תלמיד: מי זה הם?
מרצה: הדבר הראשון שהתחלנו איתו, להילחם בימי הולדת.
תלמיד: לא, אף אחד לא עושה מה שאני אומר. אף אחד מעולם לא חשב שזה עובד בלי לעבור דרך נשמות. אז איך זה מסביר שאתה נלחם ביום הולדת או מישהו שנולד...
מרצה: לא הסברתי. הסברתי את מה שבאתי להסביר, בדיוק. כי האדם שהנשמה שלו הכוכב שלו עובר דרכה החליט שהחודש הזה שייך לו ולא לאיזה כוכב. וזה עובד. ולכן זה שייך לו, ולכן אתה נלחם טוב יותר לפי מה שהוא אמר שאתה צריך.
תלמיד: אפשר שיהיה לי יותר מאחד או רק חודש אחד?
מרצה: מה הכוונה יותר מאחד?
תלמיד: אפשר שיהיו לי כל החודשים או כולם חוץ מאחד?
מרצה: בטח. כלומר אתה לא יכול שיהיה לך יותר מאחד — לא בטוח מה השאלה. לא הגעתי לשם, בסדר. אני לא מנסה — תלוי בכמה לוחות שנה אתה שומר. אתה יכול לנסות לשמור יותר לוחות שנה. כמו שיש יהודים שכתבו פעמיים בשנה כי הם שומרים גם את השנה החדשה האזרחית וגם את ראש השנה הרגיל. לרוב האנשים זה מאוד קשה. כאילו אתה לוקח אחד ברצינות והשני הוא לא אמיתי. אבל אם אתה לוקח את שניהם ברצינות באיזושהי דרך, אז אתה בסדר.
אני חושב שזה מאוד קשה כי ההיגיון של שנה חדשה הוא שיש זמנים שהם לא שנה חדשה. זה מאוד קשה כאילו — רגע, לא, זה לא אמצע השנה, זו שנה חדשה. זו שנה חדשה סינית. כולם מרגישים את זה, אנשים שעובדים בקמעונאות ובדברים כאלה.
תלמיד: בסדר, כי אתה עובד עם אנשים שונים, לאנשים האלה יש את השפע הזה, יש את הדבר הזה.
מרצה: בסדר, אתה לא מבין מה שאני אומר, אז אני לא הולך להגיד דברים אחרים. אז הסיפור הוא כזה. אני לא יודע מה כל כך קשה להבין, אבל כנראה לא ככה.
מרצה: דיברנו בשבוע שעבר — המסקנה של השיעור הייתה שלא תחמוד הוא המקבילה הפנימית, כביכול, של כל המצוות שלפניו, או ספציפית ארבע המצוות שלפניו. זה מה שדיברנו. נכון?
תלמידים: נכון.
מרצה: עכשיו, אנחנו צריכים לדבר קצת על העובדה שזה לא באמת מקובל. יש מחלוקת גדולה על זה, והדרך שבה אנשים קוראים את זה קשורה מאוד לדרך שבה הם מבינים את כל הדברים שאנחנו מדברים עליהם, שזו הדיון על איך להיות אדם טוב ומה זה אומר להיות אדם טוב, בניגוד להיות אדם שעושה דברים טובים, נכון? סתם שיהיו לו מעשים טובים.
אז יש שתי קריאות מנוגדות של לא תחמוד הזה, המתאימות לשיטה הלא נכונה ולנכונה.
במילים אחרות, הלא נכונה היא מה שדיברנו עליו בתחילת השיעור הקודם, שהיא סוג של פנימיות שהיא כולה ממוקדת בעצמי, כולה על זה שאני מרגיש את הרגשות הנכונים או שיש לי את הרגשות הפנימיים הנכונים, הנטיות, דברים כאלה.
והשנייה, שמבינה את כל הפנימיות כמכוונת כלפי חוץ. זה פשוט, אתה מהסוג של אדם שאפשר לסמוך עליו, או שתמיד, מתוכו יזרמו המעשים החיצוניים, אבל זה עדיין מכוון כלפי האדם. אלה שתי הקריאות.
אני כנראה צריך לנסות לעשות קצת יותר צדק או קצת יותר עבור הקריאה הראשונה, כי אני מניח שיש בה איזה היגיון, איזו דרך שבה היא הגיונית. כדאי? אבל אני לא יודע איך לעשות את זה. אני כנראה צריך לתת לה קצת יותר חסד איכשהו.
מרצה: מה שאני יכול להגיד הוא ככה. קראתם חלק מהדברים האלה, נכון? אז מוסרנים מסוימים — אני לא בטוח מה רב לוצאטו [רבי משה חיים לוצאטו, בעל מסילת ישרים] אומר על זה. הוא מדבר על זה. אני פשוט לא זוכר איך התשובה שלו בדיוק.
אדם נוסף שנראה שהוא בצד הזה הוא רב אברהם אבן עזרא [רבנו אברהם אבן עזרא, פרשן מקרא מימי הביניים]. והאדם השלישי לפני כן שנראה שהוא בצד הלא נכון הוא יהודי בשם פילון [פילון האלכסנדרוני, פילוסוף יהודי מהמאה הראשונה].
אז פילון כתב את הספר הזה על עשרת הדיברות, כפי שדיברנו. וכשהוא מגיע ללא תחמוד, הוא נכנס לדרשה ארוכה ענקית שמתקיפה את התאווה. או ביוונית, שכחתי את המילה. המילה היא לתשוקה ותאווה. לשם הוא נכנס.
והוא מסביר שתאווה היא הדבר הכי גרוע. תאווה גורמת לכל הבעיות בעולם. גם מהסוג של בעיות של לאכול יותר מדי ולשתות יותר מדי ולגנוב ולהרגיש ולפגוע בעצמך ולפגוע באחרים, ולא להקדיש את החיים שלך לדברים הנכונים. כל סוגי הבעיות האלה מתחילים בתאווה.
והוא נראה אומר משהו מאוד מוזר, שהוא משהו כמו, מכיוון שכל הדברים הרעים שאנשים עושים, הם עושים כי הם רוצים, אם אנחנו רוצים לתקוף את הדבר הזה בשורשו, אנחנו צריכים לתקוף את הרצייה במקום את הדברים הרעים.
ויש לנו את המסגרת הזו, שהיא מסגרת שאנחנו מוצאים אצל הרבה מוסרנים, כאילו, אז איכשהו יש לה מקור, יש מקורות כמו אפלטון וכמה, אולי חלקים מחז"ל, שבהם אומרים דברים כמו, הבעיה היא הרצייה, או אפשר להגיד ספציפית רצייה שאינה מרוסנת על ידי השכל, נכון, אולי לא רצייה כשלעצמה, אבל זה לא תמיד — כן רצייה כשלעצמה, אבל לא לומר שאין רצונות טובים, אלא רצייה כשאתה נותן לעצמך לעשות מה שאתה רוצה.
את זה אנחנו שומעים אנשים אומרים, נכון? תן לעצמך לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, תהפוך לאדם הכי גרוע. אז לכן הדרך הבסיסית לא להיות אדם רע, הכי גרוע, היא לא סתם לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, לא ללכת אחרי התאוות שלך.
אז יש כאילו הצהרה כללית שאומרת שמוסר מסתכם ב, או במובן מאוד משמעותי הוא, אל תלך אחרי התאוות שלך. וזה נקרא לתוך לא תחמוד, או אל תלך אחרי התאוות שלך, אל תהיה אדם תאוותני. אל תחיה עם התאוות שלך. כי אנשים שעושים את זה, היום הם רוצים את זה, מחר הם רוצים את זה, וכל הרעות בעולם באות מאנשים שהולכים אחרי התאוות שלהם.
זו תיאוריה שמקודמת על ידי פילון ועל ידי מי עוד? אולי מפוקפק — אני חושב שאולי אבן עזרא נראה מבין את לא תחמוד בדרך הזו או מפורשות מבין את לא תחמוד בדרך הזו. אני אראה לכם אם תרצו, אבל אני לא בטוח שהוא מבין את זה בדרך הזו. אני אגיד לכם את הדרך השלישית להבין את זה. אז זו אולי הסיבה האמיתית של אבן עזרא. אבל פילון בוודאות מבין את זה בדרך הזו.
וזו דרך להבין את החיים שאני חושב שהגיונית איכשהו להרבה אנשים. כאילו הדבר העיקרי הוא להפסיק לעשות מה שאתה רוצה. זה מה שאמרתי? להפסיק לעשות מה שאתה רוצה? או לנסות לא לרצות את הדברים האלה? לא לרצות כל כך הרבה. להפסיק לרצות כל כך הרבה. זה כמו מלחמה נגד הרצייה. רצייה. רצייה זה לא תרגום מאוד טוב. משהו כמו תאווה או מה שאנחנו קוראים תאוה בשפה שלנו הוא תרגום יותר טוב.
תלמיד: למה אכפת לו אם אתה רוצה כל עוד אתה לא עושה את זה?
מרצה: מעניין, אנשים בדרך כלל בסוף עושים מה שהם רוצים. לא רק זה, כי אז מה שאתה עושה זה לא כל מה שאתה רוצה. והעניין הוא שרצייה, שתאווה היא משהו בלתי נשלט, נכון? משהו כמו, בסדר, היום אני רוצה להרוג אותך, מחר אני רוצה לישון עם אשתו של הבחור ההוא, ביום השלישי אני רוצה להיות מיליארדר, ביום הרביעי אני רוצה לטייל למקום כלשהו. רצייה היא משהו בלתי נשלט. אז אם זה הופך לקריטריון שלך בחיים, אז זה מאוד מבולגן. זה משהו כמו, אני חושב שזה משהו כמו התיאוריה.
תלמיד: למה זה אוטומטית מוביל לעשייה?
מרצה: רצייה פירושה רצייה לעשות. אין רצייה שהיא לא רצייה לעשות. אני לא חושב שמישהו חולק על זה. הנקודה היא שהם מבינים את הרוע כהיות של רוצה יותר מדי...
זו קריאה קצת, כמו שאמרתי, קצת יותר נדיבה. אפשר להבין את זה ככה. יש שני סוגי אנשים. יש אנשים שעושים מה שהם רוצים. יש אנשים שעושים מה שהם חושבים שנכון. בעולם אלים. ובכן, זו דרך סבירה לתאר בני אדם. זה לא מטורף. אני חושב שזה לא עושה מספיק צדק לסוג התאווה שקיים, אבל...
אין דברים חיצוניים, נגיד, שמחזיקים אותו מלעשות מה שהוא רוצה. לפעמים, בסדר, לפעמים. אז הוא יכול להיות אדם שרוצה, אבל לא עושה יותר מזה או מה שזה לא יהיה. אבל ברוב המקרים לא, ברוב המקרים לא, נכון?
תלמיד: איפה שיש לנו את זה, אני לא בטוח למה, כאילו... אני לא יודע, נגיד שהוא מפחד שיתפסו אותו או אני לא יודע, מה שזה לא יהיה. אתה יודע, הוא פשוט לא רוצה להתמודד עם ההשלכות של הכל.
מרצה: אבל אתה יודע את האמת שאנחנו לא — בדרך כלל לא תופסים אותך. מה? בדרך כלל לא תופסים אותך. אני לא יודע אם אתה יודע — אתה שומע על אלה שנתפסו. אני לא המוצא מכאן.
במילים אחרות, אתה שואל משהו כמו למה אנשים יחשבו שתאווה — אני מתלונן אבל זו לא הבעיה. תדבר על דברים שאתה יכול לעשות — הם יכולים להיות — אתה יכול להלחיץ את כל הגלידה. לא תופסים אותך על זה. אבל למשל, אתה יכול לאכול את כל החזיר בעולם, בסדר? זו דוגמה נוספת. לא יתפסו אותך.
במילים אחרות, יש הרבה מאוד דרכים להרוס את עצמך בלי להרוס אנשים אחרים מתוך תאווה, נכון? ובדרך כלל אנשים — זה בכוחך. זה לא — זו לא השאלה אם זה הולך לקרות. אבל כמובן תאווה פירושה אני הולך לעשות את זה או לא הולך לעשות כל מה שאני מתאווה, כי בדרך כלל אתה יכול — אתה מתאווה ליותר דברים ממה שאתה רוצה — ממה שאתה מצליח לעשות או יכול לעשות. אבל אתה תעשה, וזה משהו בלתי נשלט. זה מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו.
ההיגיון הזה אומר משהו, ואני חושב שאם רוצים להבין את זה — וזו הדרך שבה זה נכון — הייתי מבקר את זה בצורה אחרת, אבל הדרך שבה זה נכון היא שהקריטריון — הדבר שהם רואים כטוב — לא יכול להיות התשובה לשאלה מהו הטוב, מה אתה עושה, על מה אתה מבסס את ההחלטות שלך מה לעשות בחיים, לא יכול להיות מה שאתה רוצה, מה שאתה מתאווה אליו. כי זה משהו בלתי מוגבל. זה משהו שיכול להיות כל דבר. זו נקודה אפשרית שקורית, אבל זה לא מה שאתה שואף אליו, מה שקורה.
תלמיד: שהדבר הנכון הוא משהו שאתה רוצה?
מרצה: ובכן, זה מה שמשמעות להיות אלוקי. שחמת׳ניק — פירושו אדם שעושה מה שהוא אוהב, אבל לא מה שהוא רוצה או מה שהוא מתאווה אליו. זה סוג מוזר של אדם. אנשים כאלה הם בדרך כלל הגרועים ביותר. ולכן תאמן את עצמך לא להיות אדם כזה.
כל פעם שאתה מתאווה למשהו — אתם מכירים את הסיפור, איזה סיפור שמיוחס לרבנים שונים — כאילו הוא בסדר ואז הוא רעב או צמא או משהו כזה, והבן אדם אומר לו אז למה אתה לא אוכל? כי אבא שלי לימד אותי שלא עושים מה שרוצים, נכון? לא שותים כשצמאים. שותים כשצריכים לשתות.
זה סוג האימון שעומד מאחורי זה. אפשר לראות שזה הגיוני — לא בגלל שזה רע לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, אלא בגלל שדבר אחד הוא לא סיבה מספיק טובה לעשות דברים, או שהוא לא צריך להיות הסיבה העיקרית לעשות דברים.
אם תרצו, נוכל לומר תענוג, נכון? תענוג גופני, כי בדרך כלל כשאנשים מדברים על זה הם מדברים על תענוג גופני, נכון? אל תעשה את התענוג לאלוה שלך, נכון? אל תעשה אותו לדבר שקובע אצלך מה נכון ומה לא נכון. כי זה משהו מאוד בלתי מוגבל, מאוד פרוע, מאוד חסר ריסון.
ואפשר לומר סיפור שבו לכל הרעות בעולם יש את מקורן בזה. זה הסיפור שפרעה אומר. אפלטון אומר את זה לפעמים. אולי בחז״ל לפעמים הם מדברים על היצר הרע כמקור כל הרעות, ולפעמים מה שהם מתכוונים זה פשוט שהתאווה היא מקור כל הרעות.
כי אחרת ליצר הרע אין תוכן משמעותי, נכון? יצר הרע זה הרצון לעשות רע, תודה רבה. הרבה פעמים כשחז״ל מדברים על יצר הרע כמקור, כאילו יש להם את הרעיון הזה של יצר הרע כמקור הרע, מה שהם מתכוונים לומר זה שהתאווה היא מה שגורם לרוב הדברים הרעים. או בדרך אחרת, ללכת אחרי היצר הרע, נכון? במילים אחרות, ללכת אחרי מה שאתה חושב שיהיה לך מהנה.
אז זו קריאה סבירה של הפירוש הזה, של ההבנה הזו.
למה אני חושב שיש פה משהו מוזר? למה זה לא מוצא חן בעיניי?
תלמיד: אבל אז כל מה שאתה עושה זה אף פעם לא דבר שאתה מתאווה אליו.
מרצה: ובכן, כמו שאמרתי, כש... לא אמרתי את זה. אתה יכול להוסיף תאווה לדברים שאתה עושה, אבל זה לא צריך להיות הסיבה שאתה עושה אותם. שמעתם על אימונים כאלה, על אנשים שמדברים ככה, כמו מוסר. מוסר זה הכל על לא לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, לא ללכת אחרי התאוות שלך.
זה קצת מפספס את הנקודה. איזו נקודה זה מפספס? אני לא יודע אם זו הדרך הנכונה — אולי שאפשר להיות אדם שרוצה את הדברים הנכונים, ואז אתה צריך לאהוב את התאווה שלך, בעצם.
תלמיד: זה מדבר רק על אדם רע, בעצם.
מרצה: ובכן, שוב, אבל אני הולך לתת לך את התשובה שלי שוב. זה מדבר על מישהו — כשאנחנו מדברים נגד תאוות, אנחנו מדברים נגד להפוך את התאוות לקריטריון שלך לטוב. ובכן, זה הגיוני.
אז מה צריך להיות הקריטריון שלך? אה, משהו כמו — לכן תאווה בדרך כלל מוצבת מול השכל, או הריסון, או הגבול.
תלמיד: זה מה שזה אומר, נכון? תמיד יש את ה... כל פעם שמישהו אומר אל תהיה בעל תאווה, נכון? אל תהיה חמד׳ניק, אלא תהיה שכל׳ניק או משהו כזה.
מרצה: אז אל תהיה אדם סביר אלא ירא — איך אנשים עושים את זה... אני לא יודע איך אנשים עושים.
תלמיד: רציתי לומר שזה מאוד טוב.
מרצה: בדיוק. אז התיאוריה הזו אומרת — התיאוריה הזו — במילים אחרות, עשינו — דנו בזה בפעם שעברה.
יש את השאלה הזו למה יש רשימה ארוכה אחרי החמדה, ויש שתי קריאות הפוכות שלה. הקריאה שלי היא שהחמדה היא של אותם דברים. אבל הקריאה הזו היא ההפך — שהמקור של כל הדברים האלה הוא משהו יותר עמום ויותר בסיסי שנקרא חמדה.
אם תהיה חמד׳ניק, תגיע ל... אבל הבעיה היא שהדרך שבה הם ממסגרים את הבעיה היא שהדבר האחד הוא הבעיה. זה ההפך. ולכן הם היו אומרים שהחמדה היא מצווה חדשה. היא מוסיפה מידע — לא כמו שאמרתי בשבוע שעבר, לא כמו המהר״ש, שאומר שזה לא באמת מוסיף כלום. כל מה שזה מוסיף זה אל תהיה מהסוג של אדם שרוצה את כל הדברים האלה ועושה את כל הדברים האלה.
מה שהם אומרים זה שזה מוסיף — לא, זה מוסיף דבר כללי — נוכל לקרוא לזה דרך כללית לעבוד על עצמך, נכון? דרך כללית להיות אדם טוב, שזה דבר חדש לגמרי. המצווה נראית כחושבת דברים כאלה, נכון? יש תחום חדש שנקרא מצווה, שמשמעותו משהו כמו — במקום שפשוט כמו שבעלי בתים היו אומרים — אם אתה רק הולך לעבוד על לאהוב את הדברים הנכונים או כמו לא לאכול משהו שלא שלך, או דברים שהם לא כשרים, או דברים כאלה, אז עדיין תהיה לך התאווה, שהיא מקור הבעיה, שהיא מה שגורם לכל האנשים האלה.
אז יש לי דרך פשוטה יותר בשבילך לחיות. פשוט תפסיק להיות אדם תאוותני, ואז תפתור את כל הבעיות בחיים בבת אחת, במובן מסוים. זה נראה כטיעון בעד דרך החשיבה הזו.
והם אומרים את ההפך. אם לא תפתור את התאווה, אז תהיה לך תאווה אחת, ותאכל חזיר.
תלמיד: זה יהיה אותו דבר. זו לא כדור. זה סוג של עבודה.
מרצה: אותו דבר גם לפי הגישה הזו. לא כדור. לא, כדור זו לא דוגמה טובה כי כדור זה — אתה חושב על לפתור את התחושה הפיזית, כמו לחתוך את ה... להסתגף או משהו כזה. זו לא התגובה המדויקת כאן. מה שנאמר כאן זה להפוך לסוג אחר של אדם, נכון? להפוך לאדם שנשלט על ידי השכל שלו, לא על ידי ה... וכולי.
להפוך לאדם שנשלט על ידי — כמו שרבנים אמרו — יש הרבה נימוקים לזה. נימוק אחד יהיה לומר יש לי פתרון לכל הבעיות שלך בחיים. מה זה אומר? הוא לא אומר, ובכן, זה מפרט לעשות את כל הדברים הטובים ולא לעשות את כל הדברים הרעים. הוא אומר לא, יש לי דרך פשוטה יותר בשבילך לעבוד, או דרך פנימית יותר בשבילך לעבוד. תהפוך לסוג של אדם שהולך אחרי היצר הטוב שלו, שמשמעותו הדחף הטוב שלו — במילים אחרות, הדחף השכלי שלו — או שאפשר לומר לך אחרי התורה, ציית לחוק אם תרצה, ואל תציית ליצר הרע, אל תציית לתאוות שלך.
זה לא כל כך מטורף — זה לא כל כך מטורף כמו שהצגתי את זה. זו כל הנקודה.
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא. אני לא מתכוון אפילו לדבר הנכון. נגיד אדם, נכון? אתה יכול או ללכת ל... יש לך חשק עכשיו לשני דברים. או ללכת למועדון חשפנות או ללכת ולחדש חידושי תורה. כן? ממש — רגע, רגע, אני הולך לספר לך משהו. זה חי בתוכי. כן? אני אומר, בתוך אותו אדם.
מרצה: כן, כן, כן. אתה הולך ועכשיו יושב לשש השעות הבאות ו...
תלמיד: אז שוב, היהודי שאומר את זה יגיד לך, יש לך בעיה נוספת מלבד ה... אתה לא... הבעיה שלך — כלומר עכשיו יש לך את הבעיה של לבחור בין התאוות האלה או להחליט איזו מהן טובה. יש לי פתרון בשבילך שיפתור את הכל. העקותא שלי — אל... כשאתה מחליט לאן ללכת הערב, אל תחליט על סמך לאן אתה מתאווה ללכת. תחליט על סמך מה נכון או על סמך מה היראה אומרת או משהו כזה. ולכן אוטומטית לא תהיה לך את השאלה הזו יותר. פשוט תלך לבית הכנסת כי זה הדבר הנכון לעשות.
מרצה: לא, לא, לא. מה שאני אומר זה שכולנו יודעים מה התאווה הטובה כאן, נכון? לעומת מה התאווה הרעה.
תלמיד: לא, תאווה היא רעה. אין תאוות טובות בזה.
מרצה: זה מה שאני שואל. האם אפשר פשוט שתהיה תאווה טובה?
תלמיד: לא, כי כשאני אומר תאווה, אני לא מתכוון לאהוב משהו. רק שיהיה ברור, המילה תאווה מתכוונת למשהו אחר כאן. המילה תאווה מתכוונת לתאווה כמקור הטוב, כקריטריון של הטוב, כקריטריון של פעולה. זה מה שאנחנו באמת מתכוונים.
מרצה: כן, כן, זה מה שזה אומר.
תלמיד: לא משנים הגדרה. זה מה שזה אומר. כל פעם שמישהו נותן לך את הדרשה הזו נגד להיות בעל תאווה, זה מה שהם מתכוונים.
תלמיד: אין תאוות טובות בזה. זה מה שאני שואל. האם אפשר פשוט שתהיה תאווה טובה?
מרצה: לא, כי כשאני אומר תאווה, אני לא מתכוון לאהוב משהו. רק שיהיה ברור, המילה תאווה מתכוונת למשהו אחר. המילה תאווה מתכוונת לתאווה כמקור הטוב. כקריטריון של הטוב. כקריטריון של פעולה. זה מה שאנחנו באמת מתכוונים.
תלמיד: אבל עכשיו אתה פשוט משנה את ההגדרה.
מרצה: כן, זה מה שזה אומר. לא משנים את ההגדרה, זה מה שזה אומר. כל פעם שמישהו נותן לך את הדרשה הזו נגד להיות בעל תאווה, זה מה שהם מתכוונים. ברור שזה על זה, נכון? והאדם השני חולק על זה, רק שיהיה ברור, זו המחלוקת.
אם לרצות משהו צריך להיות הסיבה שבגללה אתה עושה דברים. תאווה, דבר אחד זה קצת יותר מדי רחב, אבל כן, תאווה. כלומר לחשוב שזה יביא לך תענוג, או משהו כזה, או כבוד, או אולי סתם תאוות שונות אבל אז תאוות לא רציונליות אתה לא צריך לעשות שום דבר על בסיס זה כן אפילו אם הם דברים טובים הנקודה היא שתאווה היא לא דבר טוב אין תאוות טובות.
תאווה טובה — כשאני אומר תאווה אני מתכוון לתאווה בלתי מבוקרת, נכון? זה מה שאני מתכוון. כשאתה אומר את התאווה שהמומחה מסווה, כשאתה מדבר על משהו אחר אתה מדבר על סוג של — אגב, דרך אחרת אם אתה רוצה לפרט את זה ככה, אתה יכול לפרט את זה כמישהו שיש לו איזו תאווה מטורפת ללמוד — זה גם דבר רע. כן, צריך שתהיה לך תאווה סבירה ללמוד, אבל זו לא תאווה. אז אתה לא הולך אחרי תאווה. אתה נהנה מזה. זה לא נגד ליהנות מדברים טובים. זה נגד ההנאה, שהיא מטבעה דבר בלתי מבוקר, שתהיה המדריך של הפעולות שלך.
אז שתי השיטות אומרות, אחת היא פשוט להילחם במושג התאווה, או לתעל את מושג התאווה. ובכן, השיטה השנייה אומרת שזו לא דרך טובה מאוד למסגר דברים. זו בעיקר שאלה של איך למסגר את הדבר ב... נגיד הפעולה עצמה שהיא רעה, הם מתמקדים באיפה — איפה ה... שזה תמיד רע. שוב, האדם הזה אומר שלא תחמוד זה דבר ש... לא, לכן הוא חולק עליך. הוא אומר שלא תחמוד אומר אל תהיה אדם תאוותני, ש... להיות תאוותן... כן.
השיטה השנייה אומרת, עכשיו נוכל לחזור לחשוב מה השיטה השנייה אומרת, כי עכשיו אתם לפחות מבינים מה הבן אדם הזה אומר. הוא לא סתם אומר דברים אקראיים, אל תעשה דברים שאתה אוהב. הוא אומר שלאהוב זו לא סיבה לעשות דברים.
עכשיו, האדם השני אומר, ובכן, הבעיה עם התיאוריה שלך היא שהיא לא מפורטת דיה. אתה חושב שאתה הולך להפוך אותי לאדם פחות תאוותני וזה נשמע נכון. זה נשמע נכון שאדם פחות תאוותני יהיו לו חיים טובים יותר ותהיה לו פחות תאוותנות, כמו שהיית אומר. נכון? יהיו לך פחות בעיות לפתור. אבל, האדם הזה יגיד לך, ואם אתה מתכוון לזה, זה במידה מסוימת נכון אפילו. אנחנו מסכימים שתאווה לא צריכה להיות הקריטריון. או בדרך אחרת לומר משהו כמו, אם אתה אומר, יש חיים של תענוג, או חיים של תאווה מול חיים של שכל, או חיים של ריסון, או חיים של דרך אחרת לומר את הטוב, אני מסכים איתך מאה אחוז. אין ויכוח על זה. אין ויכוח.
הוויכוח הוא אם זו דרך טובה מאוד לפרט איך לעבוד. למה? כי האדם השני אומר שאתה מניח שהדרך שבה אנשים באמת עובדים רוב הזמן היא על ידי החלטה אם תאווה היא הקריטריון שלהם. ככה החלטות מתקבלות או ככה מריבות קורות או ככה מאבקים פנימיים קורים. אבל אני חושב שזה לא באמת קורה.
אז יש כמה דברים אבל בואו — זה הדבר הראשון שהוא העיקרי שהוא היה אומר. הוא היה אומר משהו כמו לא, תאווה במובן הרחב, דווקא במובן הרחב שאתה אומר — אם אתה מדבר על תאווה בלתי מבוקרת, אף אחד לא חולק שזה דבר רע כשלעצמו. זו כמו מידה רעה. יש דבר רע ספציפי וזו עשויה להיות אחת המידות הרעות שאני אהיה נגדן כשאגיע לחשבון המפורט שלי של מידות רעות. אחת מהן היא לרדוף אחרי תאוות בלתי מבוקרות או תענוגות בלתי מבוקרים. אין בעיה עם זה.
אבל מה שאני חולק עליו זה שזה כלל טוב, זו הכללה טובה של להפוך לאדם טוב. ולמה? כי אני אומר לך תסתכל סביב בחיים, תחשוב על החיים שלך, תחשוב על הפעמים שבהן היה לך איזה שהוא התקדמות מוסרית או נסיגה או ויכוחים או קונפליקטים, קונפליקטים פנימיים וכדומה. ותמצא לי אחד שאפשר לתאר אותו היטב על ידי הסיפור הזה. ואני חושב שאין כזה.
תתאר סיפור של להתאוות למשהו. של להחליט אם תאווה היא הקריטריון. כלומר במובן הטוב של הדברים. כמו כשאתה רוצה לעשות טוב.
תלמיד: אני חושב שתאווה היא קריטריון מאוד טוב להרבה דברים טובים. אני חושב שבעסקים, זה כמו, כן, לפעמים יש לך את התשוקה הזו, את התאווה הזו ליצור את האינטרנט.
מרצה: אה, אף אחד לא חולק שמה שאתה מתאר זה רע. זה תיאור של היצר הרע. נכון, אבל זה מביא תוצאות טובות.
תלמיד: לא, זה מביא תוצאות רעות.
מרצה: באמת?
תלמיד: כן, בטח.
מרצה: אילו תוצאות רעות?
תלמיד: כולם, אף אחד, זה כמו — ואם זה עושה משהו עם תשוקה, אני חושב שזה יוצר —
מרצה: כן, מאוד טוב. זו היפוך מודרני וקיצוני של אתיקה. תשוקה לא הופכת דברים לטובים. התוצאות לא טובות. על מה אתה מדבר? אם התוצאות טובות, הן טובות אחרי שנשלטו. הן לא טובות. על מה אתה מדבר? התוצאות לא טובות. התוצאות של ללכת אחרי התשוקות שלך הן בהגדרה רעות כי רע פשוט אומר ללא הדרכה, ללא שכל, ללא רעיון של איך זה טוב.
לא, לא, לא, לא. זה בדיוק ההפך. בדיוק ההפך. זו הדוגמה בכל ענין. רק שיהיה ברור, כל ענין דומה ישתמש בכל הדוגמאות האלה שאתה מביא כדוגמה לחיים שהשתבשו לחלוטין כי היו לו חיים רעים. הוא רודף אחרי כסף כל חייו ואחרי בנות. מה זה בכלל לחיים כאלה?
תלמיד: כן, בהחלט.
מרצה: אה, כסף, שאפתנות, כוח - זה מה שזה, נכון? מה כל כך טוב בזה? המודלים לחיקוי שלך הם רשעים.
תלמיד: אלא אם כן זו לא השאיפה שלי עכשיו.
מרצה: כן, מבוסס על - מבוסס על - מבוסס על - מבוסס על - מבוסס על מה שאני רוצה, לא מבוסס על שום רעיון של משהו אחר. אנשים עושים יותר קל, אנשים עושים הרבה - המערי באמת עשה את זה. ואז מה? מה זאת אומרת ואז מה? אז מה היה התשוקה שלהם אחרי זה? עדיין הייתה להם התשוקה, נכון?
תלמיד: תשוקה למה?
מרצה: הם לא חידשו שום דברים חדשים. הוא פשוט המציא מכונית. ואז רכב על זה. זה דבר רע. אני לא מבין למה אתה חושב שזה דבר טוב. אין לי מושג.
אם זה דבר טוב, אז אתה לא צריך תשוקה כדי להסביר למה זה דבר טוב. כשאתה הופך את התשוקה לדבר טוב, זו בדיוק הבעיה. במילים אחרות, אין שום דבר שמבחין בין מה שאתה משום מה משבח לבין הבחור שהתשוקה שלו הייתה להרוג כמה שיותר זונות ובסוף הרג 102. אני לא יודע, איזה רוצח סדרתי. תשוקה אדירה, אל תשאל אותי. והוא תכנן את זה ויצר מערכת שלמה, איך לעבוד עם זה, ואז עוד לא נתפס או כן נתפס או מה שלא יהיה, וזה היה חלק מהתוכנית. מי יודע? כלומר, תשוקה לא יכולה להיות סיבה לעשות דברים.
תלמיד: האם אמרתי את זה, אני יודע על מה אתה מדבר, אבל זה לא - אני צריך להגיע לצד השני עכשיו. אני חושב שתשוקה היא מניע נהדר ליצירה.
מרצה: שוב, אם אנחנו מדברים על סיבה שדברים יהיו טובים, דרך חיים מבוססת על זה היא כמעט ההגדרה של רוע, דווקא בדוגמאות שאתה מביא. זה מה שהיצר אומר. זה אומר שאתה חי את כל חייך בעבודת היצר ובמילוי התאוות שלך, או שאפשר לקרוא להן - דווקא התאוות הלא-מנומקות שלך.
אם מישהו אומר את ההפך, אם מישהו אומר, אני חושב שזה כל כך טוב עכשיו, ומכיוון שזה כל כך טוב, אני משתוקק לזה, אז זה לא הרצון שמוביל אותך, זה הטוב שמוביל אותך. זה סיפור שונה מאוד. אבל אם אתה אומר את הסיפור כאילו התשוקה היא המניעה, הסיבה, אז זה סיפור מאוד מוזר לחשוב שהוא טוב. זה נשמע מאוד מוזר. כמו אחשורוש.
אני חושב שהרבה אנשים שהם כאלה - אני חושב שהרבה פעמים מתארים רופאים רעים כאנשים שכמעט רוצים שאנשים יהיו חולים כדי לרפא אותם. כי יש להם תשוקה כזו לרפא אנשים, נכון? וזה אפילו לא תשוקה לרפא אנשים, זו תשוקה להיות האחראי על הריפוי שלהם, נכון? זו תשוקה לכבוד, זו תשוקה לכבוד.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן, אבל זה יהיה שונה מרופא שחושב שסרטן זה כל כך נורא שהוא רוצה לעשות משהו בנידון. בעצם, הבחור שיש לו את המדבקות לדבר.
מרצה: כן, כן, כן. הבחור שמחזיק את הספר בחזרה.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן, בדיוק. הוא הרופא שאוהב בריאות כל כך, או חושב שבריאות היא דבר כל כך טוב שיש לו תשוקה לזה. אבל הוא בעצם מאוד טוב במה שהוא עושה. אתה צריך את הניתוח.
מרצה: כן, כן, אבל לא, לא. אני טוען שהרופא הרע הוא זה שמנסה לרפא אנשים והרופא הטוב הוא זה שמנסה לרפא מחלות.
תלמיד: אל תשכח לקחת את הספר החמישי שלך.
מרצה: בכל מקרה, אני לא הולך להיכנס לזה.
אתם צריכים לשים לב שיש אידיאל מודרני של שבח לתשוקה, שזה בדיוק הדבר שמתואר כרוע מפלצתי בכל ספר לפני בערך 1600. אתם צריכים לשים לב לזה לפחות. זה אחד הדברים שלי. פשוט שימו לב. יש פה משהו ממש מוזר שקורה.
אוקיי, עכשיו בואו נמשיך. אני לא שואל, אני פשוט אומר לך. תראה, זה נהדר - לא נהדר במובן של גדול. כן, אף אחד לא חולק על זה. זו הבעיה. יותר גרוע, אתה מתכוון. אתה מתכוון יותר גרוע. זה דבר ממש רע. אני ממש נגד זה. אתה צריך לבוא לכאן בשבת ולשמוע אותי מסביר למה מכוניות הן -
מרצה: אבל זה הדבר הכי גרוע. או לא הדבר הכי גרוע, זה מה שנתפס באופן מסורתי כדבר הכי גרוע. אני כאן כדי להתווכח עם הפישוט הזה, אבל אתה צריך להבין מה זה. להיות מסוגל לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, זה מה שהסולטן אמר. למה להיות מסוגל לעשות כל מיני דברים יהיה דבר טוב? זה דבר רע.
תלמיד: בפי שלי -
מרצה: לא, לא, אני לא שם את זה בפי. אני אומר שהמשל הוא - נגיד כמו שאמרתי, אני רוצה לבוא לשיעור הזה כל כך, כל כך. זה יכול היה לקחת לי או 17 דקות או שזה יכול היה להיות 3 שעות.
תלמיד: לא, לא, זה סתם - אוי אלוהים, אוי אלוהים, לא, לא, זה לא נכון. קודם כל זה לא נכון, לא, לא, זה לא משל טוב כי כאילו, סתם כאילו, אתה צריך לחשוב לפני שאתה מדבר. כאילו מה אתה בכלל אומר? כאילו מה, זה פותר בעיה. זה באמת למה מכוניות -
מרצה: שצריך לבוא לשיעור הזה? אני יכול לדעת שזה לא זמן שאנחנו מראים את זה. אני אפילו לא יכול להיכנס לזה כי אם אתה צריך לחשוב על זה, כאילו אתה צריך לנסות לפרק את זה ולהבין מה עומד מאחורי המחשבה שזה טוב. כי זה לא טוב. אני לא חושב שזה טוב. אני אפילו לא חושב שזה טוב. אתה צריך לדבר עם הגיליון שלי בעוד 70 דקות. אני חושב שזה ממש רע. אני חושב שזה עושה את השיעור יותר גרוע, עושה אותך יותר גרוע, עושה את כל העולם יותר גרוע. אבל זה רק אני נותן טיעון חיובי למה זה יהיה ככה.
תלמיד: אני לא צופה בך עכשיו אונליין -
מרצה: זה עושה את זה יותר טוב? יותר גרוע, כמובן. עושה את העולם יותר גרוע. העובדה שאתה יכול לצפות בי אונליין בלי לבוא לכאן עושה את העולם יותר גרוע. כמובן שכן. עכשיו, מכיוון שאנחנו חיים בעולם הרע, האם כדאי לך לצפות בי במקום בשטויות אחרות? זו דיון אחר. אבל כמובן שהיכולת, הרחבת היכולת, היא כמו הרחבת התאווה. ולכן ככל שאדם הוא מסוג האנשים שיכולים לעשות מה שהם רוצים, וכל הטכנולוגיה הזו כשהיא משובחת, היא משובחת בדיוק בדרך הזו - היא מרחיבה את החופש של בני האדם. עכשיו אתה יכול לעשות מה שאתה רוצה. במילים אחרות, זה עושה אותנו אנשים יותר גרועים. סוג השבח הזה הוא שבח של הרוע.
תלמיד: ובכן, האם אתה לא צריך יכולת גדולה כדי לעשות דברים טובים גדולים גם?
מרצה: כן, אבל הטוב לא מורכב מהיכולת. הטוב מורכב בדיוק מלשים גבול על היכולת ולומר שאתה עושה את זה רק בדרך הזו. עכשיו זה לא שבח לממציא. זה שבח לי שמשתמש בזה רק בדרך הטובה. אבל לכן אני לא חייב שום דבר לבחור שהמציא את האינטרנט, כי הוא רק נתן לי את היצר הרע. בדיוק כמו שאני לא חייב שום דבר לגוף שלי או למה שזה לא יהיה שהוא הבסיס של הדברים שאנחנו פועלים בחיים, הדברים שרוצים. הדבר שמקבל שבח או ראוי לשבח הוא מה ששם גבולות על זה, לא מה שיוצר את היכולת. נכון? יצירת יכולות היא תמיד רעה. זו ההגדרה של רע.
מרצה: אז בואו נחזור לזה שרע כאן הוא לא כל כך רע, רק שיהיה ברור. רע הוא הבסיס של טוב, תמיד. אז הממציא של הגלגל הוא גם בחור מאוד מטורף. קראת את הסיפור? קראת אי פעם את הסיפור הזה? זה מה שכתוב שם. קראת את המיתוס של פרומתאוס? כמו היחידות הבסיסיות הבסיסיות האלה שכולן אומרות שהרחבת יכולות היא רעה. שום דבר חדש כאן. ושוב, האם זה אומר שאין מה לעשות אחרי זה? לא. אבל השבח של בדיוק מה שנתפס כבעיה כפתרון - זה היפוך אמיתי. זה ממש מוזר.
כאילו, אתה מאפשר לי לבוא לשיעור? אפשור הוא דבר רע. אתה יכול - אם היה מישהו מהם שהיה ממציא מכונה שגורמת לך לבוא כי היא לא 17 דקות, זה היה המצאה טובה. אבל אפשור הוא המצאה רעה. ולצערנו, מכוניות לא גורמות לך לבוא לשיעור. הן מאפשרות לך.
תלמיד: קו חדש של מכוניות.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: זה היה קו טוב של מכוניות.
מרצה: הבעיה היא שמכוניות כהמצאה חומרית לא יכולות להיות כזה. כי זה מה שחומר הוא - פוטנציאל. זה לא יכול להיות כזה. הסוג היחיד של המצאה שהיא כזו הוא דברים שממציאים דתות או שממציאים תרבויות או שממציאים איזשהן מערכות חברתיות אנושיות נפשיות שעובדות על נפשות אנושיות כדי להגביל אותן, ללמד אותן מה טוב.
מרצה: והאם זה קורה עם שאפתנות גדולה או תשוקה גדולה? אפשר לתאר את זה ככה, אבל מעולם לא שמעתי מישהו מתאר את משה רבנו או אפילו כל מייסד דת אחר כבחור של תשוקה גדולה. יש להם דרכים אחרות לתאר אותם. למה? לא בגלל שהם לא עבדו עם תשוקה גדולה - צריך אנרגיה רגשית גדולה, כמו שאנחנו קוראים לזה, כדי להיות כזה. אבל הסיבה שהם לא מתוארים ככה, כי זה לא הדבר העיקרי שעושה אותם מעניינים. הדבר העיקרי שעושה אותם מעניינים הוא ההגבלות שיש להם, נכון? רעיונות של מה טוב ומה רע. משה היה זה שבא עם 365 דרכים להיות רע ו-248 דרכים להיות טוב. זה היה כל העניין שלו.
תלמיד: מה זה אומר אהבה עזה כשאנחנו מדברים על אהבת ה', כמו התיאור של המשכו? מה זה אומר?
מרצה: לא אומר כלום. אתה לא צריך לקרוא את הספרים האלה שאומרים את הדברים האלה.
תלמיד: הרמב"ם אומר את הדברים האלה. הרמב"ם אומר -
מרצה: הרמב"ם אומר, אבל אהבת ה' צריכה להיות כמו -
תלמיד: אוקיי, אתה לא קראת את זה.
מרצה: אתה לא קראת את זה טוב. אני יודע שזו קריאה שגויה חסידית של הרמב"ם, מאה אחוז. הרמב"ם לא אמר את זה וזה ככה. עכשיו אני הולך לספר לך על החסידים. כן. החסידים הם - אני יודע, אבל הלכת לחסידים והם נתנו לך את המשקפיים האלה ועכשיו אתה רואה את השבח המוזר והרע הזה של תשוקה בלתי מרוסנת כדבר טוב, אפילו ברדיפת הטוב. ובגלל שהם חיו אחרי, אתה יודע, תקופה מסוימת. וזה מוזר. כאילו, הרומנטיזציה הזו של תשוקה גדולה לה'. זה שטויות. תשוקה גדולה לה' רק גורמת לבעיות.
מרצה: שמעת פעם את הסיפור של עולם התוהו של הקבלה? שמעת? אתה יודע למה הכלים נשברו? כי הם רצו את ה' יותר מדי. זה דבר רע. התשובה של ה' הייתה, בבקשה אל תעשו. הם קראו את הסיפור. כל הסיפורים הם ההפך. הם יוצרים גבולות. הם לא יוצרים גאווה. הרמב"ם, כמובן, לא אומר את זה. הוא אומר את ההפך.
תלמיד: שם היה שמח עם זה.
מרצה: שם היה מאוד שמח. כמובן שיש גמרא שאומרת את ההפך, אבל מה?
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא, כי כאילו יש כל כך הרבה -
מרצה: הוא לא רק מנסה להצביע על הנקודה. כמו מה שאני עושה עכשיו זה לא באמת ללמד כי אני פשוט עושה את הדבר. אבל אתם צריכים להבין שיש משהו ממש מוזר עם השבח הזה של תשוקה, אפילו במובן, דווקא במובן הזה, של רצון בלתי מרוסן. דווקא במובן הזה.
תלמיד: נגיד ובכן, ואם זה טוב שלפעמים זה גורם לדברים טובים -
מרצה: לא, זה מה שהרוע אומר. הוא ממש נותן את המשל עם הבחורה. צדיק, אני יודע בדיוק למה הם מתכוונים. ואתה קורא את זה הפוך. ואתה צריך לדעת איך הרמב"ם חושב על הדברים האלה. ולהבין מה הוא מנסה לומר. בכל פעם שמישהו משתמש במשל, אתה תמיד מכניס את התפיסות שלך של המשל הזה לתוך המשל, ואתה חושב שהוא מדמיין דברים. לכן משלים הם רעים. בכל מקרה, לא היה צריך לעשות את המשל. היה יותר טוב בלעדיו. כי לפחות אנשים לא היו ממציאים דברים אקראיים. אתה יודע למה יש - אתה יודע מה הגורם ליצר הרע? אתה יודע למה עדיין יש יצר הרע? כי הנביאים השתמשו במשלים. לכן. ואז אתה כאילו, רגע, הם אמרו שזה דבר טוב. שירה שנכתבה על זה.
מרצה: אוקיי, עכשיו - בכל מקרה, עכשיו זו מחשבה רצינית על חיים שיש בהם כאב. זה דבר טוב במקום הנכון.
תלמיד: לא, זה מה שאני אומר. זה לא דבר טוב. אם זה הקריטריון, אז זה לא דבר טוב. לפחות התיאוריה הזו אומרת שזה לא דבר טוב. דברים טובים הם דברים מרוסנים. בדיוק ההפך. ככל שמישהו יותר יקר, יותר מאופק, הוא יותר טוב. זה גם משל מוזר שהולך לעשות אותך רע עכשיו. אבל זו הנקודה שלי. ריסון הוא טוב. ופראות היא רעה.
מרצה: כלומר, ציוויליזציה היא טובה, ומה שהוא ההפך של ציוויליזציה, הוא רע. זה לא ברור? עכשיו אנשים באים, אה לא, ציוויליזציה מבוססת על התשוקות הגדולות האלה שהן ממש הרסניות. לא, היא לא. זה הרקע של הציוויליזציה, כן. אבל היא מבוססת על ריסון של זה.
מרצה: ובכן, כן, אבל זה במובן מסוים, במובן של זה, שזה הבסיס. כמו, אבל נישואין מבוססים על ריסון התאווה, או הארגון שלה, נכון? הכנעתה, נתינת הגבולות הנכונים לה. על זה זה מבוסס. במובן יותר אמיתי, מאשר שזה מבוסס על זה. איך נכנסתי לזה? אבל בכל מקרה...
אם היית בונה את השקפת העולם שלך על פי היצר המיני שלך, אני חושב שכנראה לא היית מגיע לנישואין.
תלמיד: זה רע למין.
מרצה: לא, זה לא רע למין, אבל לומר שזה רע ל... לא, אני אמרתי שזה הרקע של זה, אבל זה לא הבסיס של זה. ואם אתה חושב שאנשים הרגישו את זה נכון כל ה... רק שיהיה ברור, כל בעלי ההשקפה שאומרים שצריך להתחתן כי יש מין יותר טוב, הילדים שלהם נהיים הומוסקסואלים. זה לא... הבנת מה אני אומר?
תלמיד: מאוד פשוט, כן.
מרצה: מה היה הקשר?
תלמיד: פשוט ככה.
מרצה: אה, כי כמו המספר... הומוסקסואל במובן האמיתי, נכון? לא... לא אכפת לי עם מי אתה עושה את זה, במובן של רדיפת ההנאה במקום רדיפת סוג הדברים שמגבילים את ההנאה בדרך כלשהי או נותנים לה צורה, נכון? מגבילים אותה - לא בדרך של פחות ממנה, בדרך של לתת לה מבנה, נכון? האנשים האלה כועסים על המבנה הישן של לעשות נישואין ואז להתחיל להעמיד פנים ש... כי אז ההדוניזם הזה הוא התוצאה הנכונה. אז אם הכל מבוסס על הנאה, אז למה שלא נהיה פשוט הדוניסטים פראיים? מתברר שאין לך הרבה הנאה בלעשות את זה גם, אבל זו בעיה אחרת.
תלמיד: פראיים מה?
מרצה: הדוניזם. זו המסקנה. כאילו, למה בכלל להתאמץ? כמו שכתוב, למה אתה צריך לקנות פרה אם אתה צריך רק חלב? אז זו המסקנה אם אתה חושב שזה מבוסס על זה. אם אתה מבין שזה מבוסס על זה במובן של זה שזה המצב הקודם שממנו זה מתחיל - אם לא היה את זה, כמובן שלא היינו צריכים את זה או שזה לא היה קיים - אבל מבוסס על בדיוק ההפך מזה, מבוסס על ה... איך אנחנו קוראים לזה... המשמעת של זה, נכון? אז אתה הולך להגיע למשמעת של זה.
אוקיי, עכשיו תשמור את זה בדרמה. אתה לא הולך לפתור את מה שאתה מחפש, נכון, על ידי שתעשה את זה. לא הולך לעזור לך.
איפה אני כאן? זה... כל התיאור של הדרכים שבהן הטענה שה... היא הבעיה הגיונית במידה מסוימת, וזו הדרך שבה זה אכן הגיוני. אני חושב שזה הגיוני. אתם מסכימים איתי?
מרצה: האסכולה הזו מונעת מהרעיון הנכון שתאווה בהחלט... היא בהחלט לא צריכה להיות מוטיבציה או פעולה. או שנוכל לומר משהו כמו, אתה לא צריך לחיות חיים של תאווה. זה לא צריך להיות החיים שלך. נכון. או שזה לא צריך להיות הסיבה שלך. לכן, דיכוי התאווה הוא דבר טוב.
אז עכשיו... אני אומר שזה הכלל הראשון.
תלמיד: נכון, נכון, נכון.
מרצה: לכן, הדבר שצריך לדבר עליו, במקום לדבר על לרצות את הדברים הנכונים או לעשות את הדברים הנכונים וכן הלאה, צריך להתחיל לדבר... כאילו צריך לתת דרשות נגד התאווה. זו הנקודה. לתאר כמה היא רעה וכמה היא נוראה, כמה היא טיפשית, ואז תגמלו אנשים מתאווה והם אוטומטית בעצם ילכו ל... אנשים... או שצריך לאמן אותם, צריך לתת להם תרגילים בשביל זה, נכון?
כלומר, בינתיים, רק אומר לכם ש...
מרצה: כן, יש גם... אני יכול לספר לכם משהו כמו שיש גם מנהגים מסוימים שמוסברים בדיוק על ידי זה. רק שיהיה ברור, מה?
כן, או כמו שהרמב"ם ורב סעדיה גאון מסבירים את כל איסורי האכילה על בסיס זה, נכון? אז יש משהו אמיתי בזה, נכון?
אז ש... רב סעדיה כתב את הפיוט הזה ששם את... אומר כל הזמן זה יפה... יש את עשרת הדברות והוא הולך... הולך ושם את כל הדברים שאסור לאכול תחת לא תחמוד. כי אתם מבינים שלא תחמוד יש בו את הרעיון הבסיסי הזה של תאווה, ואכילת חזיר או אכילת בשר בחלב או גיד הנשה הם בכל מקרה, לא משנה מה הסיבה המקורית שלהם, הם עדיין מקרים של דיכוי התאווה שלך.
והרמב"ם היה אומר את זה במפורש כשהוא מדבר על... במצוות הוא נותן את זה אפילו ככלל. הוא אומר, במובן מסוים מטרה אחת, יעד אחד של כל המצוות הוא מה שהוא קורא לו פרישות, נכון? כמובן שזה מסבך את העניין, אבל דיכוי תאווה. ולכן היה אומר משהו כמו שהסיבה העיקרית או אחת הסיבות שיש את כל הדברים האלה שאנחנו לא אוכלים היא פשוט ללמד אותנו שאנחנו לא עושים מה שאנחנו רוצים, כמו שהילד ההוא אמר, ולאמן אותך להיות אדם פחות תאוותני.
מרצה: עכשיו מה יש לי נגד זה? אין לי שום דבר נגד זה עכשיו שאני חושב על זה. אבל התיאוריה, דעת החכמים לא הייתה כזו, נכון? אתם זוכרים שהחכמים... היו מסיבות שונות, וזה לא ברור למה, אבל החכמים הניחו שיש כאן משהו שעושים, לא משהו שרוצים. זו לא מידה. הם כמעט במפורש מתנגדים למצוות שבלב בדרך הזו — לא בגלל שהם לא האמינו בדברים שבלב, אלא בגלל שהם לא הבינו שהדרך הטובה ביותר לחנך בן אדם היא לומר לו להיות אדם פחות תאוותני.
מרצה: ואני חושב שזה בגלל שדבר אחד שאנחנו יכולים לראות שקורה כשעושים את זה, ואנחנו יכולים לראות את האנשים שמתמקדים בדרך הזו, הוא שהם מגיעים ללולאות הסוליפסיסטיות שדיברנו עליהן בפעם הקודמת, שבסוף אתה מתמקד כל כך בלא להיות אדם תאוותני, שאני שוכח להיות אדם טוב.
מרצה: ונראה לי שזה לא נכון, למרות שזה נכון שזה... להיות אדם תאוותני זו דרך מאוד מאוד קלה להפוך לנורא. זה נכון. אבל לא להיות אדם תאוותני זו לא דרך מהירה להפוך לטוב. זה מה שאני חושב. זה פשוט לא מספיק. התיאוריה הזו היא כאילו להיות כמו... כלומר, זה הכל. והם היו אומרים, ובכן, לזה יש את המקום שלו. התיאוריה הזו אפילו נכונה במובן רחב מאוד, אבל היא לא מעשית מספיק, היא לא נכונה מספיק. היא לא באמת הופכת אותך לאדם טוב. להיות פחות בעל תאווה לא תמיד הופך אותך לאדם טוב.
מרצה: אסביר לכם למה. אני חושב שהחזון איש באמונה וביטחון תופס את זה די טוב, למרות שהוא הפך את זה כל כך הרבה פעמים שזה מוזר. אבל חשבתי על זה, פרק ג׳. מתברר שהחזון איש אומר את השיטה שלי. לא, כי החזון איש הרבה פעמים כאילו ירש את הדרך העתיקה הזו של חשיבה ואין לו דרך טובה לבטא אותה, אז זה יוצא מאוד מצחיק. אבל אני חושב שהוא באמת מנסה להגיע לזה.
מרצה: ומה הוא אומר, החזון איש? החזון איש אומר, רגע, רגע רגע. זה נכון שתאווה כשלעצמה, כמו תאווה סתם בתור תאווה, לשמה, זה דבר מוזר. אבל בואו נהיה ריאליסטיים. ראשית, מעט מאוד אנשים באמת כאלה. יש כאלה. אבל זו לא הבעיה הגדולה בחיים.
שנית, זה לא באמת אומר לי איך לפעול. לא... אתה יכול להיות משובע או גרייס או זבל לאכול במובן הזה ועדיין רשע גדול. אפילו רשע גדול בזמן הפנוי. אתה יכול אפילו להיות גנב. למה הוא יכול להיות גנב? כי גנב לא מוגדר על ידי זה שאני לא רוצה דברים. זה הסופי... כלומר משהו לא שייך לי. ואיך לא שייך לי מוגדר? לא על ידי מה שאני לא רוצה, נכון?
אז ההגדרה הזו, אני לא עושה מה שאתה רוצה, היא בהחלט לא מספיק טובה כהגדרה חיובית למה לעשות. היא אולי טובה כהגדרה שלילית לא להפוך את הקריטריון של כל הפעולות שלך. או שאפשר לומר במובן כללי מאוד, אז התשובה לכל השאר היא לעשות מה שנכון. אבל מי מחליט מה נכון זה משהו אחר לגמרי.
מרצה: כלומר זה עדיין מאפשר מה שנוכל לקרוא גניבה מזדמנת. לא רק מזדמנת, אפילו... לא, אני מתכוון מזדמנת במובן של גניבה אדישה. אפילו, לא, אפילו במובן מסוים, אני חושב... אני באמת חושב... זה דבר אחד, אבל אני באמת חושב שהייתי על אותו דבר, אבל אני חושב שזה אפילו מאפשר גניבה עם רצון, רק לא בדרך הנלהבת הזו, לא בדרך פרועה, בדרך מרוסנת. אבל אתה יכול להיות בחור די נחמד — לא עם תפוז אחד, לא שלושה, נכון?
כאילו אם נדמיין את הקריקטורה של הבחור הזה שאנחנו נגדו כמישהו מוזר באמת כזה... הוא אמר שלרוב האנשים אין את היכולת להיות כאלה. רוב האנשים לא עשירים מספיק ולא חזקים מספיק כדי באמת להיות, אתם יודעים, הדוניסטים קיצוניים, באמת ללכת אחרי התשוקות שלהם. רוב האנשים... לכן כשאנחנו נותנים את הדוגמאות המטורפות האלה של ללכת אחרי תשוקה אנחנו מדברים על אנשים חזקים ביותר, נכון? כי רוב האנשים לא יכולים ללכת אחרי התשוקות שלהם. הם מוגבלים על ידי המציאות שהם חיים בה, נכון?
אבל אם ניקח את זה כסוג הדוגמה, נכון, ואז נגיד בסדר, רוב האנשים לא כאלה, אבל רוב האנשים עדיין לא... עדיין לא אנשים טובים. הם לא אמרו... כל הריסון שהציוויליזציה שמה על אנשים לא הפך אותם לאנשים טובים. הם עדיין גונבים וחומסים ועושים את זה כל הזמן. אז זה לא נראה שזה באמת היה הפתרון הסופי.
תלמיד: אפילו יותר גרוע, הם פשוט נולדו יותר גרועים מ...?
מרצה: אפילו יותר גרוע, הם פשוט נולדו אולי לא דרך תשוקה בלתי מרוסנת, אבל מה הם? נכון?
מרצה: הדבר החשוב יותר הוא שבאופן מעניין, מה שטוב ורע מוגדר על ידי סוג של... הרמח"ל קרא לזה מציאות חיצונית, על ידי אנשים אחרים. בסדר, זה רק בגלל שאין לו דרך לומר את זה, אבל זה מוגדר על ידי אנשים אחרים.
מרצה: שאתה באמת הבחור הזה עם המוסר... זה לא הופך אותך לבחור שמריח פחות מדהים. זה הופך אותך לבחור מאוד רגיש, אבל בחורים רגישים הם לא בחורים יותר טובים. זה אולי הופך אותך למאוד, כאילו, מעודן...
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מרצה: זה מה שאנחנו אומרים, נכון? אני לא אומר שזה לא עוזר. זה לא עוזר כמו שהמקדמים שלו מעמידים פנים שזה עוזר. יותר קל לראות כמה זה הרסני כשלוקחים את זה לקיצוניות ויותר קשה לראות איך לא להיות כזה עוזר. אני חושב שאנחנו יכולים להסכים. אני חושב שהתווכחנו על זה לפני כמה שבועות.
אני חושב שצריך מידה מסוימת של דיכוי רק כדי לאפשר לך—
תלמיד: כן, כן. בפעם הקודמת חלקת עליי.
מרצה: אני לא זוכר. אני חושב שזה עוזר. אני חושב שצריך מידה מסוימת של דיכוי רק כדי לאפשר לדברים אחרים לעלות לפני השטח, אפילו.
תלמיד: זה נכון, אבל זו דרך אחרת לומר דברים כמו, שוב, חזרה לדוגמה הקיצונית הזו—
מרצה: ואפשר לומר במובן עדין מסוים שכולם קיצוניים כי לאנשים יש קושי גדול מאוד אפילו לראות משהו מעבר לרצונות שלהם, כמו לראות את זה כסיבה לעשות דברים, לא לראות את זה. רוב האנשים, ואפילו כמה בעלי מוסר, מחזקים את זה על ידי שהם מעמידים פנים שזה מה שאנשים הם. זה לא. אתה פשוט, כאילו, ברמה מסוימת של, כאילו, מה שאנחנו קוראים לפעמים, אנשים קוראים לזה—
ואני נגד לקרוא לזה ככה כי זה רק מקשה לראות כמה זה פשוט. אבל יש אנשים שקוראים למשהו כמו יציאה מהאגו שלך או משהו כזה כתנאי הכרחי לכל דבר, אפילו לעשות מתמטיקה. וזה דבר מאוד פשוט. זה לא כל כך מסובך. אבל זה נכון שזה נדרש.
ויש אנשים, שוב, המקרים הקיצוניים, אני חושב, קל לראות איך זו הבעיה. יש אנשים שלעולם לא תופסים יופי כי יופי זה לא אתה. הם מקבלים הנאה מיופי. כאילו, השיח המודרני מעמיד פנים שזה הגיוני, נכון? אנחנו לא באמת יכולים לדבר על מה יפה, אנחנו יכולים לדבר על מה שאתה נהנה ממנו. יופי הוא סובייקטיבי, מה שמסתכם באמירה שאין יופי, יש רק הנאה, שהיא על עצמי.
אבל זה שטויות. אף אחד לא באמת חושב ככה. רק אנשים מטורפים קיצוניים, או אנשים — השפה שלנו, השפה של החברה שלנו נוצרה על ידי אנשים מטורפים ביותר, כמו אלה שהזכרתם קודם, ולכן מאוד קשה לנו לדבר על זה. אבל אם תסתכלו מסביב בחיי היומיום, תראו שזה לא ככה. אנחנו נשלטים על ידי דברים מחוצה לנו כל הזמן. זה לא חידוש גדול באמת. אנשים כן מבינים מוטיבציה למשהו בגלל שזה טוב ולא רק בגלל שהם רוצים את זה.
אבל למה אתה רוצה את זה? זה טוב בגלל שאתה רוצה את זה? סתם מילים.
מרצה: אז אני חושב שזה פחות מועיל. קל לראות איך זה עוזר ושולל בעיות קיצוניות מסוימות. פחות קל לראות איך זה באמת עוזר, וגם אפילו פחות קל לראות לכן איך זה מצליח במטרות שלו עצמו, שזה כמו להגדיר איך להיות טוב בדרך כללית מאוד ולומר שטוב מורכב מזה. כי זה אולי טוב כדבר שלילי. זה לא חייב להיות טוב כדבר חיובי. ולכן, אפילו מה לרצות תלוי במה שנכון לרצות.
מרצה: במילים אחרות, לא תחמוד יכול להיות מוגדר רק אחרי שאתה יודע מה שייך לך ומה לא שייך לך. אם אנחנו מדברים על לא תחמוד במובן ממוני, נכון? זה אומר הרמב"ן הקדוש בשבוע שעבר בפרשת משפטים, בתחילת פרשת משפטים.
הרמב"ן אומר שפרשת משפטים וכל הדרוש שם הוא הרחבה של עשרת הדברות. במקום זאת, פרשת משפטים היא הרחבה של לא תחמוד.
למה הוא לא אומר לא תגנוב? אולי בגלל שהוא חשב שזה אומר באמת גונב נפשות. אני לא יודע. אני חושב שבגלל שהוא הבין שלרצות — עכשיו אתן לכם דבר שלישי, אני חייב לומר את הפשט השלישי גם על לא תחמוד, זה הפשט השני שאמרתי בפעם הקודמת — שלהיות סוג של אדם שרוצה זה אחרי שיודעים מה באמת שייך לך ומה לא באמת שייך לך.
מרצה: ויש הרבה פרטים בזה, מה שאומר שאם אתה לא — כמו שהרב סולובייצ'יק אומר, אנשים שלא יודעים חושן משפט כברירת מחדל לא יכולים לדעת אותו. כי אנחנו לא באמת יודעים בדרך כלל מה שייך לנו או מה החובות שלנו וכן הלאה. זה לא טבעי. הדבר הטבעי של כאילו, "אני לא לוקח דברים שלא שלי" — לא, העולם הרבה יותר מסובך. זה יותר מפורט מזה. אתה צריך לברר מה החובות שלך.
נתתי דרוש ארוך מאוד על זה בשבוע שעבר בבורו פארק וזה לא עזר. אף אחד לא הבין מה אמרתי. אולי אגיד את זה שוב. בכל מקרה, כן אני יכול, אבל אין לי סבלנות לחזור על כל זה.
וזה מה שאני מבין כפשט השני. ולכן החכמה, מתברר שהיא —
מרצה: כאילו אני רוצה לתת דוגמה שאולי אמרתי אותה כאן בהקשר אחר קודם, אבל אני חושב שזו דוגמה טובה יותר להבנת ההבדל בין הגרסה הראשונה של פנימיות לבין הגרסה השנייה, שאני חושב שהיא גרסה יותר מעשית וגם אני חושב שהיא יותר הפשט של חז"ל והפסוקים כשהם מדברים על דברים.
מרצה: אז, אנשים כמו חובות הלבבות אוהבים לעשות את המהלך הזה, ואני חושב שזה המהלך הלא נכון. הם אוהבים לומר דברים כמו, כתוב בנביא, "בפיו ובשפתיו כבדוני ולבו רחק ממני".
מכאן אנחנו לומדים שמה שהקב"ה רוצה זה מה שבלב שלך ולא מה שאתה אומר. אבל זה לא נכון, זה לא מה שהנביא אמר. נכון? בואו נסביר את ההבדל.
מרצה: מה שהנביא אמר זה ככה. מישהו בא ואומר, בתפילה, "אני אוהב את ה׳, אני מאמין באמת, אני מאמין שרק הקב"ה שולט בהכל, ולקבל — אתה לא מקבל כלום, אתה לא מרוויח כלום מללכת בדרכים רעות," וכן הלאה. זה מה שהוא אומר בתפילה. בסדר?
עכשיו יש שני סוגי בעיות שאפשר לקרוא להן בשם דומה עם מישהו שאומר את זה. שניהם נקראים צביעות. בסדר?
עכשיו מהי הצביעות כש — אז במובן הפשוט — אבל הנביא מבקר, הנביא מבקר מישהו שבא ואומר את כל הדברים היפים האלה על, אתם יודעים, יש לנו — אנחנו צריכים לחיות עם ביטחון והקב"ה שולט בעולם ואנחנו אוהבים את השם וכל זה.
מתברר, כל פעם שהוא חי את חייו, כל פעם שהוא צריך משהו, הוא שוכח, לא באמת חי עם ביטחון. או שהוא לא — לא גונב בגלל שהוא חושב שהקב"ה צודק. הוא גונב כי הוא לא באמת בוטח שהוא יקבל את הדברים שנצטרך בלי לגנוב, נכון? זה מה שעיקר מצוות הביטחון — לא לגנוב, נכון? אמרתי לכם את זה הרבה פעמים.
אז, זה — עכשיו, כשהוא אומר את זה, אתה שקרן. אתה לא אומר מה שאתה מאמין, מה שאתה חי. זה נקרא צבוע. וזה מה שלבו אומר — לבו רחק ממני. בסדר? אתה לא חי את זה. זה מה שלבו אומר.
ועכשיו, כמו שאמרתי, למה זה נקרא לב? כי אתה אומר את המילים הנכונות, אולי אפילו לפעמים עושה את המעשים הנכונים, אבל אתה מהסוג של אנשים שתמיד נוטים לעשות את ההפך. זה כל מה ש"לב" אומר בהקשר הזה.
מרצה: עכשיו יש פשט אחר, שהוא הפשט של חובות הלבבות, הפשט החסידי לפעמים, שלא אומר דבר כזה. אפשר לומר מילים מתוך הרגל, ואתה לא מתכוון לזה, אתה לא חושב את מה שאתה אומר, אתה לא מרגיש בלב שלך ברגע שאתה אומר — אתה לא מתרשם, אתה לא מתלהב, אתה לא מסור, אתה לא מחויב למילים שאתה אומר, אתה סתם אומר אותן.
ואז יש מישהו אחר שכשהוא אומר את זה, הוא מתכוון לזה, נכון? הוא כאילו מסור למה שהוא — מתלהב מ — לראות אותם חושבים שלהיות מתלהב או שיש מה שהם קוראים לו אנרגיה רגשית גבוהה בזה, זה הדבר הטוב. וחובות הלבבות נראה שאומר דברים כאלה לעיתים קרובות.
מרצה: עכשיו, אתה יכול להבין שאם הבעיה העיקרית שלי היא הבעיה הראשונה, מישהו אולי אומר את זה מתוך הרגל והוא — לבו קרוב לה'. כי כשהוא אומר שמע ישראל, הוא חי במובן מסוים בשמע ישראל. כי הוא לא גונב בגלל שהוא מאמין שיש אלוקים שמפרנס את האנשים שלא גונבים.
עכשיו, הביקורת של הנביא היא לא שהוא אומר שמע ישראל מהר. מה אכפת אם הוא אומר את זה מהר? איזו מצוה זה לומר דברים? זה לא עוזר לאף אחד. זה בלי ברכה. אתה צועק, אתה מתרגש כל כך מלחשוב על — אין מחשבה — כאילו יש, ואתה שקרן, אתה בלופר, בלי ברכה. אתה לא מתכוון לזה. אתה לא מאמין בזה, במה שאתה אומר. אין לך מושג על מה אתה מדבר.
אני חושב שהזכרת את זה, אני חושב ששמעתי את זה, אני לא יודע אם זה פורסם, שדניאל לא אמר "הקל הגדול" — הוא לא קנה את זה, הוא לא חשב כך.
נכון, והבחור ההפוך שחושב —
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זה לבו דחו כמניה. אתה בשיעור, אתה מתרגש כל כך מהדרשה, ואתה באמת שם, אתה לא חושב שום מחשבה זרה, ואתה שקרן, אתה בלופר, לבו דחו כמניה. אתה לא מתכוון לזה. אתה לא מאמין בזה, במה שאתה אומר. אין לך מושג על מה אתה מדבר.
זה כמו כשאתה הולך ל, אני לא יודע אם הזכרת את זה, אני חושב ששמעתי את זה, אני לא יודע אם זה פורסם, שדניאל אמר, לא אמר את זה, אני לא זוכר, לא יכול היה לשקר, הוא לא חשב כך.
והבחור ההפוך שחושב שהפנימיות היא משהו בפנים — מה עם מה שאני מרגיש? כמו שהסברתי קודם, יש סיבה מסוימת למה אנשים מגיעים לחשוב דברים כאלה. הוא — זו הבעיה שאני מנסה להגיע אליה, שאתה עושה — כמו שאנשים חושבים על עבירה גם כן, נכון? העיקר שאתה אדם טוב בפנים, נכון?
"אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך. תן לי את הסכין שלך, הסכין לשחוט. אני מרגיש כל כך רע."
אני רואה אנשים עושים את זה כל יום. זה מדהים והם מחשיבים את עצמם כאנשים טובים. "כל כך רע בשבילך. אני אדם כל כך טוב."
הוא מתכוון לזה כשהוא אומר את המילים וכלום — שהוא משקר. חלק מהאנשים משקרים. אנשים הם פסיכופתים כשהם אומרים את המילים "אני מרגיש רע בשבילך, זה כואב לי יותר ממה שזה כואב לך." לחלק מהאנשים זה לא כואב. לחלק כואב. הוא אפילו לא משקר. זה באמת כואב לו. אבל הוא צבוע יותר גדול.
כן, מילה אחרת. זו ההגדרה השנייה של מידה שאנחנו אומרים. זה מישהו שלא עושה את זה, לא אוהב לעשות את זה. אם אתה עושה את זה ואתה מרגיש רע, האם זו הסתירה? יש לך — הרגשות שלך זה מאוד חמוד, אבל אני לא — למי אכפת? זה אפילו לא רגש טוב. אין שום דבר טוב בדברים שה — אתה אפילו לא אדם טוב יותר בגלל זה. אתה יותר — כן, רגשות, בסדר. אבל הרגשות שלך — אז זה הדבר השני. זה הדבר השני.
וזה מה שהם — משהו כמו "אני מעולם לא רציתי את זה. אני פשוט לקחתי את זה בלי לרצות את זה. זה אפילו לא הרצון שלי." לא, אתה — אז השני יכול להוביל אותך לזה, לעשות את המעשים הנכונים, נכון? אם אתה משתמש בזה ככלי, אתה תעשה — הרצון השני הוא בדיוק — תהיה מהסוג של אנשים שממון של אחרים הוא דבר שגורם לך לא לרצות אותו. תהיה מוגבל על ידי זה.
תלמיד: לא, אני יודע את זה, אבל אם אתה אוהב — זה פשוט — זה לא אומר — אני חושב שאולי אפשר להשתמש בזה ככלי להגיע לרצון הנכון.
מרצה: הראשון אתה מתכוון?
תלמיד: הראשון אתה משתמש ככלי.
מרצה: אני חושש שבדרך כלל משתמשים בזה ככלי לא להגיע לזה. לכן אני נגד זה. כי אני שם לב שאנשים שחושבים ככה — אני לא יודע, הרבה מזה הוא, חלק מזה הוא תיאורטי על אנשים קדמונים והוגים שדיברו על זה, וחלק מזה הוא אני שם לב שאנחנו מאוד — אנחנו במובן מסוים, אנחנו במובן של הישיבות שכולנו למדנו בהן, ירשנו את הגרסה הרעה הזו של פנימיות, וזה עושה אנשים גרועים יותר בדרך כלל במקום טובים יותר. כי הם חושבים שהם אנשים טובים כי כשהם אומרים שמע הם מרגישים את זה, או כי כשהם אומרים "זה כואב לי" הם מרגישים את זה. זה אותו רעיון.
דיכוי התאווה הוא גם דבר פנימי. כולם מסכימים שזה דבר פנימי. כמו "לא אכפת לי ממה שאני רוצה. אני עושה רק מה שאני חושב שנכון."
כן, אבל אתה אף פעם לא חושב על מה נכון, נכון? אז זה נכון שאתה לא עושה מתוך תאווה, אפילו לא נותן את הטיעון הזה של מוסר שאתה לא שומע במתנה. לא, אתה אדם טהור מהנגיעות. אתה פשוט מרגיש אדם רע. כמו הלוואי שמישהו היה אומר לך כי אתה לא יודע מה שלך ומה לא שלך. אתה מעולם לא חשבת על זה. אתה מעולם לא השקעת הרבה מאמץ לברר מה החובה שלך, מה המקום שלך בעולם, מה שייך לך, איך אתה צריך לפעול. אלה כולם דברים חיצוניים ואתה לא בעניין של דברים חיצוניים. אתה פשוט עסוק לשבת ליד השטענדער שלך שם ולהיות בחור טוב. וזה לא בחור טוב.
זה מה שאני חושש ממנו. אתם מבינים מה אני אומר?
זה כמו שמישהו היה אומר משהו כמו — קחו דוגמה מבריאות גופנית, נכון? ברור שלהיות אדם עם הרבה תאוות לא מועיל לבריאות גופנית. אתה עלול לשתות יותר מדי, לאכול יותר מדי, וכן הלאה, נכון?
נכון.
אבל לא להיות אדם עם תאוות לא הופך אותך לבריא. אתה צריך באמת לברר מה בריא. אין קסם שאומר — אנשים טוענים שיש קסם כזה, אבל באופן כללי, זה לא באמת ככה. כמו, אין קסם שאומר שברגע שלא תאכל מתוך תאוות, תאכל בריא. אתה עלול פשוט לאכול קוגל בלי תאוות. זה לא אומר שכל הבעיות נפתרות כשאתה עושה את זה, כאילו, בחסר.
כן, זו דרך אחת. אני מרגיש שיש בעיה עמוקה יותר כאן, אבל כן, זו בעיה אחת.
זו הבעיה הגדולה יותר שלי. אני חושב שזה לא באמת עוזר. אתה יכול לעבוד הרבה על עצמך מבחינה דתית, הרצון יהיה גנות וזה לא קשור. זה אפילו לא עוזר. זה אולי עוזר, כמו שאמרתי. הוא אומר שזה עוזר במקרים קיצוניים. אני אפילו לא יודע.
כן, נכון. ואז כשאתה מפסיק להיות כזה ואתה מפסיק לרצות להיות גם כן, וזה נקרא שיש לך את המידה של המעשה הזה לפי דעתי. בדיוק.
זה לא — זה בא ראשון בסדר המציאות כי אנשים פועלים מתוך הפנימיות שלהם. אבל זה בא שני בסדר התיאוריה. כמו מה מגדיר את האדם הטוב? כמו שאמרתי, מה מגדיר את האדם שהוא לא לבו דחו כמניה זה איך אנחנו פועלים, לא איך אנחנו — לא איך אנחנו מתכוונים למה שבפנים.
כשהוא מתכוון — כשהוא אומר, כמובן שהאדם שאומר את זה ככה, כשהוא אומר את זה גם בא במובן מסוים יותר מהפנימיות שלו. זה כמו — זה נכון שזה כמו חיצוני. הבחור שלא חי את מה שהוא — מה שהוא אומר בדרשות שלו כשהוא אומר שהוא משקר, שזה המקרה הכי ברור של מישהו שמדבר חיצונית, נכון? הפה שלו אומר את זה אבל הלב שלו לא אומר את זה.
אבל קודם כל, לב לא אומר רגשות. לא אומר רגשות באותו רגע, נכון? זה כמו — זה הדבר המוזר הזה שבו שקר הוא לא — שקר הוא לא — ההתאמה של המצב החיצוני שלך למצב הפנימי שלך כשאתה משקר. שקרן טוב משקר גם במחשבות שלו. זה לא שכשאני משקר אני חושב, "לא, זה שקר."
שקר הוא אי-ההתאמה של המילים שלך למציאות. עכשיו המציאות הזו היא מה שאנחנו קוראים לו הדבר הכי פנימי. אבל זו המציאות החיצונית, כביכול, הדבר מחוץ לעצמך, או לפחות מחוץ לעצמך באותו רגע, הוא הקריטריון למה שהופך את זה ללא שקר.
זה מובן?
יש שלישי שאני צריך להגיע אליו, אבל אני הולך לעצור כאן כי זה מחובר ליותר מדי דברים וזה ייקח לי יותר מדי זמן לסדר.
תלמיד: עם החיי אדם, לגבי משהו, לא קשור, סתם בכל מקרה, מה הוא עושה עם מה שהוא אמר? איך אתה אומר את המילים?
מרצה: אני לא חושב שזה חשוב. זה אולי תרגול למשהו, כמו סתם לריכוז או מדיטציה, אבל אני לא חושב שזה חשוב בכלל. הוא נראה חושב שזה חשוב. זה מה שאני אומר. אני חושב שחיי אדם עושה הרבה מהטריקים הרטוריים האלה שבהם הוא לוקח דברים שהתכוונו למשהו לגמרי אחר ומעמיד פנים שהם אומרים מה שהוא רצה שהם יגידו.
תלמיד: אני אומר שהוא כאילו שואל את זה על עצמו. אם חמס רוצה להסתחרר בזה, למה אתה צריך את המילים האלה אם באמת הכל בלב שלך?
מרצה: בסדר, זו שאלה אחרת. אני מדבר על מעשים.
תלמיד: כן, זו שאלה על מילים. זו לא השאלה שלי, זה על מעשים.
מרצה: יותר קל ככה. אבל כמו, יותר קל ככה, זה לא מגיע למה ש — מה שהדבר האמיתי הוא.
תלמיד: כן, המילים זו שאלה אחרת באמת, אבל כן.
מרצה: בסדר, אני צריך לסדר את הוידאו.
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זהו השיעור השני או השלישי על לא תחמוד (האיסור לחמוד), שנמסר סמוך לראש חודש אדר. הטענה הפרובוקטיבית היא שלאדר יש קשר ישיר ומלא ללא תחמוד — קשר שהשיעור מבקש להדגים.
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הספרים הקדושים מזהים את המזל של חודש אדר כדגים. יש לתקן תפיסה שגויה נפוצה: מזלות קשורים למיקום השמש בתוך מערכת הכוכבים (גלגל המזלות השמשי), ולא ללבנה או לראש חודש. נושא זה נידון לאחרונה בשיעור על הלכות יסודי התורה.
החזקוני, בהסתמך על הירושלמי, מלמד שכאשר עמלק יצא למלחמה נגד ישראל, הוא בחר באופן אסטרטגי לוחמים שהמזל האישי שלהם ("יום המזל") היה נוח ביום הקרב. זוהי תורת אסטרולוגיה מקובלת — לכל אדם, על פי לידתו, יש זמנים שבהם הוא מצליח יותר.
משה אמר ליהושע: "בְּחַר לָנוּ אֲנָשִׁים וְצֵא הִלָּחֵם בַּעֲמָלֵק מָחָר" (שמות יז, ט). המילה "מחר" משמעותית — משה בחר זמן שיהיה נוח מבחינה אסטרולוגית ללוחמי ישראל.
[הערת אגב על טבעיות התזמון:] הרעיון שלאנשים יש זמנים טובים יותר וגרועים יותר (אנשי בוקר לעומת אנשי לילה וכו') הוא נכון מבחינה תצפיתית ללא קשר לאסטרולוגיה. אסטרולוגיה היא רק *תיאוריה* שממפה דפוסים אלה על סימנים שמימיים.
צדיק מסוים הציע: בלוח השנה היהודי יש לפעמים חודש שלושה-עשר (אדר ב' בשנה מעוברת). אין סימן מזל לחודש שלושה-עשר. לכן, לאנשים שנולדו באדר ב' אין סימן מזל. כאשר עמלק מנסה למצוא סימן חזק יותר כדי לגבור עליהם, יש "שגיאת אפס" — אין סימן למקד או לגבור עליו.
אם אין לך מזל, האם לא אמור להיות *יותר* פגיע, ולא פחות? זו קושיה חזקה, והתשובה הולכת נגד ההיגיון האסטרולוגי הרגיל — וזה בדיוק הנקודה שנבנית כאן.
קושיה הרבה יותר יסודית: החודש השלושה-עשר הוא המצאה אנושית/הלכתית ליישוב בין הלוח הירחי לשמשי. לכוכבים לא אכפת מהתאמות הלוח של בית הדין — לגלגל המזלות תמיד יש בדיוק 12 סימנים לשנת שמש. הכרזה על חודש שלושה-עשר לא אמורה לשנות דבר מבחינה אסטרולוגית. הכוכבים לא "מקשיבים" להחלטות לוח שנה אנושיות.
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כוכבים תופסים רמת מציאות גבוהה יותר מבני אדם. ראיות:
- כוכבים לעולם אינם "נשרפים" (במטפורה: אין שחיקה)
- כוכבים תמיד דייקנים; בני אדם לא
- כוכבים הם "מושלמים" — תרבותית, לקרוא למישהו "כוכב" זו המחמאה הגבוהה ביותר
- תהלים ח, ד-ה: "כִּי אֶרְאֶה שָׁמֶיךָ... יָרֵחַ וְכוֹכָבִים... מָה אֱנוֹשׁ כִּי תִזְכְּרֶנּוּ" — הרמב"ם קורא זאת כך: התבוננות בכוכבים חושפת את אפסותו של האדם בהשוואה.
מכיוון שכוכבים נמצאים כל כך מעל בני אדם בהיררכיה הקוסמית, אף אחד מעולם לא האמין ברצינות שכוכבים אכפת להם ישירות מחיי בני אדם או שהם שולטים בהם. יש להם "דברים טובים יותר לעשות". לכוכבים לא אכפת מי מנצח בקרב.
כוכבים *כן* מועילים לבני אדם (ניווט, אור וכו'), אבל רק דרך מתווך של תודעה/נשמה אנושית. הכוכב עוזר לך לנווט *כי אתה מסתכל עליו ומבין*. בלי הפעולה האנושית של הסתכלות ופירוש, הכוכב לא יכול להשפיע עליך. "אף אחד לא יוצא החוצה ושומע כוכב מדבר אליו. אתה מסתכל עליהם קודם ואז הם מדברים אליך."
הבחנה מכרעת:
- דברים ברמה שלך (חבר שדוחף אותך, החלקה על קליפת בננה) פועלים עליך ישירות, ללא צורך בתיווך הנשמה.
- דברים עליונים (כמו כוכבים) יכולים להשפיע עליך רק דרך השכל/הנשמה שלך. זהו עיקרון כללי לגבי אופן פעולתן של סיבות עליונות על ישויות נמוכות יותר.
- הליכה לרופא: ה*שכל* שלך מביא אותך לרופא, אבל הרופא עוזר לך פיזית (זריקה, ניתוח) — לא דרך השכל שלך.
- כוכבים שונים: כוכבים יכולים רק לעזור/להשפיע עליך דרך השכל שלך. אין מנגנון פיזי ישיר.
- חריגה חלקית: אם הרופא נותן הוראות שעליך לעקוב אחריהן מנטלית, אז העזרה כן עוברת דרך השכל שלך.
עובדי ידע אינם צינורות פסיביים. כשם שרופא לא רק מעביר מידע אלא משתתף באופן פעיל בריפוי, וכשם שרבי מתווך באופן פעיל את התורה, כך אסטרולוג מעצב באופן פעיל את האופן שבו ההשפעה הכוכבית מגיעה לאדם. למתווך יש סוכנות אמיתית ודרגות חופש באופן שבו ההשפעה מועברת.
[סטיות צדדיות:]
- עצים וכוכבים: עצים לא מעבירים מידע לבני אדם כמו שכוכבים עושים, אם כי בני אדם יכולים ללמוד מעצים באופן דומה ללמידה מכוכבים.
- התייחסות לדיוויד דויטש: תלמיד מזכיר את טיעוניו של דיוויד דויטש שבני אדם חשובים באופן ייחודי כי הם יכולים להיות מושפעים מהכל. מוכר אך מוסט הצידה.
- האם כוכבים גורמים לתנועה? השמש שגורמת לזריחה זו לא אסטרולוגיה — זו אסטרונומיה בסיסית. הטענה של האסטרולוגיה היא על *השפעה על ענייני בני אדם*, וזה הנושא הנדון. הייתה מחלוקת קדומה בעניין, אבל "לפחות היהודים לא מאמינים שזה עובד ככה עכשיו."
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רבי עקיבא למד מפסוק זה שבני אדם (ובפרט בית דין) הם ש"קוראים" למועדים. זה לא שרירותי — הם חייבים לתעל את מה שקורה בשמיים — אבל הקריאה חייבת לעבור *דרכם*. המציאות השמימית לא נוגעת באנשים ללא תיווך אנושי.
אם בית הדין מכריז שראש השנה ביום ראשון כשמבחינה אסטרונומית הוא "צריך" להיות ביום שני, אז יום שני העליון עובר ליום ראשון התחתון. ההשפעות הרוחניות הקשורות לאותו יום פועלות עכשיו ביום שבית הדין הכריז. "יום שלישי יכול לחול ביום חמישי אם בית הדין אומר כך." זה לגמרי אמיתי — אין כאן שום דבר סובייקטיבי.
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כשמחלקים את השנה (או את מחזור השמש הכוכבי) לשנים-עשר חלקים, אנשים שונים משגשגים בשלבים שונים — התחלה, אמצע, סוף וכו'. זה מה ש"השתייכות" לסימן מזל מסתכמת בו: זיקה לשלב מסוים של מחזור.
מכיוון שהשפעה שמימית חייבת לעבור דרך תיווך אנושי, אם בני אדם מגדירים את הלוח שלהם מעט מוסט ממרכז המחזור האסטרונומי, ההשפעה הולכת אחרי הלוח האנושי, לא אחרי הלוח האסטרונומי. ההשפעה "האמיתית" נוחתת כשהרב או בית הדין אומרים שהיא נוחתת, לא כשהיום "האמיתי כביכול" הוא בשמיים.
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אם אתה צריך את המחזור הכוכבי כדי לתעל משהו, אבל אתה יכול להזיז אותו, אז למה אתה צריך את המחזור בכלל?
לתחנת כוח יש קטבים חיובי ושלילי קבועים — אי אפשר לשנות אותם במקור. אבל כשמושכים חוטים, משתמשים בשנאים ומורידים את הזרם לרמה שלך, אפשר להפוך איזה צד הוא חיובי ואיזה שלילי בקצה שלך. החיובי האמיתי מהמקור עדיין זורם, אבל הוא מגיע למסוף ההפוך בבית שלך. באופן דומה, המציאות השמימית קבועה, אבל למתווך האנושי יש חופש אמיתי לסדר מחדש כיצד היא מתגלה למטה. שניהם נכונים בו-זמנית: אתה צריך את המקור, וגם יש לך דרגות חופש אמיתיות בתיעול שלו.
אם אפשר לסדר מחדש הכל, אולי לא צריך את המקור בכלל — כמו לומר שצריך חשמל בקיר אבל לא את תחנת הכוח. זו טענה הוגנת אבל אולי מעבר לתחום הדיון הזה.
ימים מתקצרים ומתארכים פיזית במהלך השנה. אבל ההתקצרות "קורית בשבילך" כשאתה שם לב לה או כשמישהו אומר לך לשים לב. אם יש עיכוב של חמישה ימים במודעות שלך, ההשפעה של השינוי פועלת על ציר הזמן המעוכב. תהליכים פיזיים (כמו אור שמש שלוקח שמונה דקות להגיע לכדור הארץ) כבר מדגימים עיכוב, אבל תהליכים שמתווכים דרך הנפש/הנשמה מקבלים הרבה יותר דרגות חופש מעיכוב פיזי גרידא — כי אתה פועל ברמה מושגית, לא פיזית.
יש אנשים שנלחמים טוב יותר בבוקר, יש אחרים אחר הצהריים. אם מניפולים את הסביבה (מכבים אורות, משנים לוחות שינה), אפשר להזיז את ה"בוקר" בשביל האנשים האלה, ואנשי הבוקר יתפקדו היטב בזמן המוזז. באופן דומה, אפשר במידה מסוימת להפוך לילה לבוקר ובוקר ללילה.
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כאשר בית הדין מכריז על ראש חודש, הוא למעשה מחליט אילו אנרגיות שמשיות-מזליות ממופות לאילו חודשים. בשנה מעוברת, בית הדין כבר תיעל את כל 12 ההשפעות המזליות (שפע) ל-12 החודשים הקודמים. החודש ה-13 הוא אפוא "שארית" — ריק מתוכן שמימי מוגדר מראש — והופך לזמן שהקהילה יכולה לעשות בו כרצונה. זה "כל הטריק".
אנשים שמקבלים משכורת דו-שבועית מקבלים לפעמים שלוש משכורות בחודש אחד. החודש לא ארוך יותר במונחים מוחלטים, אבל הוא מכיל באופן פונקציונלי יותר משאבים בהתאם לאופן שבו לוחות זמנים שונים חופפים. באופן דומה, החודש ה-13 הוא תוצר של טריאנגולציה בין הלוח הירחי לשמשי.
ההסבר של תיעול דרך נשמות מכסה את כל טווח ההשפעות שמיוחסות באופן מסורתי להשפעה שמימית (למשל, להילחם טוב יותר ביום הולדת). האדם שנשמתו מתווכת את השפעת הכוכב *החליט* שהחודש הזה שייך לו, לא לכוכב. ההחלטה הזו היא מה שהופך את ההשפעה לפעילה — כולל השפעות מעשיות — כי הנשמה תבעה סמכות.
זה תלוי בכמה לוחות שנה אדם באמת מקיים. ליהודים מסוימים יש למעשה שני ראשי שנה (חילוני ויהודי), אבל לקחת את שניהם ברצינות קשה מאוד מבחינה פסיכולוגית כי ההיגיון של "ראש שנה" דורש שרוב השנה *לא* תהיה ראש שנה. תיעול אמיתי דורש מחויבות אותנטית, ופיצול המחויבות הזו הוא מטבעו לא יציב.
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אתה מתעל אותו, אתה לא יוצר אותו. המילה "מתעל" היא המפתח — זה לא המזל *שלך* מכלום; אתה מתעל כוחות אמיתיים דרך התיווך שלך. תיעול זה פועל ברמת תרבויות וקהילות, לא רק ברמת יחידים.
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השיעור של שבוע שעבר הסיק שלא תחמוד הוא המקבילה הפנימית של ארבע הדיברות שלפניו בעשרת הדיברות. זה לא איסור עצמאי אלא הממד הפנימי של האיסורים החיצוניים (רצח, ניאוף, גניבה, עדות שקר).
פירוש זה אינו מקובל על הכל. שני הפירושים מתאימים לשתי הבנות שונות מיסודן של מה זה אומר להיות אדם טוב:
1. הפירוש ה"שגוי" (פנימיות ממוקדת-עצמי): לא תחמוד עוסק בכך שיהיו לך רגשות, תחושות ונטיות פנימיות נכונות *לשם עצמן*. להיות טוב פירושו להרגיש את הדברים הנכונים בפנים — המיקוד הוא כולו על העצמי ומצביו הפנימיים.
2. הפירוש ה"נכון" (פנימיות מכוונת כלפי חוץ): כל פנימיות מכוונת בסופו של דבר כלפי חוץ. להיות טוב מבפנים פירושו להיות מהסוג של אדם שממנו נובעות באופן אמין פעולות חיצוניות נכונות. החיים הפנימיים חשובים כי הם מעצבים את מה שאתה עושה כלפי אחרים — לא כמטרה בפני עצמה.
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פילון האלכסנדרוני הוא הדובר המרכזי של הפירוש הראשון. בחיבורו על עשרת הדיברות, כשהוא מגיע ללא תחמוד, הוא פותח בהתקפה מורחבת על התאווה:
- תאווה היא הגורם השורשי לכל בעיות האדם: הפרזה (אכילה, שתייה), עבירות בין-אישיות (גניבה, פגיעה באחרים), וסדרי עדיפויות מוטעים בחיים.
- מכיוון שכל המעשים הרעים מקורם ברצייה, האסטרטגיה היעילה ביותר היא לתקוף את הרצייה עצמה ולא את המעשים הרעים הבודדים.
- לא תחמוד נקרא אפוא כציווי לעקור את התאווה משורשה.
פירוש זה משתלב במסורת רחבה יותר הנמצאת בספרות המוסר, עם שורשים באפלטון ואולי בחלקים מחז"ל: הבעיה האתית היסודית היא תאווה בלתי מרוסנת. אם אתה פשוט עושה מה שאתה רוצה, תהפוך לגרסה הגרועה ביותר של עצמך. לכן, אתיקה מסתכמת למעשה בלא ללכת אחרי התאוות שלך. לא תחמוד הופך לדיברה המסכמת שמבטאת עיקרון זה.
- רבנו אברהם אבן עזרא — ממוקם באופן זהיר במחנה זה, אם כי ייתכן שיש פירוש שלישי ללא תחמוד שמתאר טוב יותר את עמדתו בפועל (יידון בהמשך).
- מסילת ישרים — הרמח"ל דן בנושא זה אבל עמדתו המדויקת אינה ודאית.
על פי פירוש זה:
- אנשים נוטים בסופו של דבר לעשות מה שהם רוצים — תאווה ומעשה אינם נפרדים בקלות.
- תאווה היא בלתי נשלטת וכאוטית — היום אתה רוצה להרוג מישהו, מחר אתה רוצה את אשת מישהו, מחרתיים אתה רוצה להיות מיליארדר. אם תאווה הופכת לקריטריון שלך לפעולה, החיים הופכים לבלתי מסודרים.
- רצייה היא תמיד רצייה לעשות — אין תאווה שאינה תאווה לפעולה. אף אחד לא חולק על זה.
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הרוע ממוקם ספציפית בלהיות תאוותני יתר על המידה — בלהיות אדם שנשלט על ידי רצייה — ולא רק במעשים הרעים הבדידים שנובעים מכך.
יש שני סוגי אנשים — אלה שעושים מה שהם רוצים, ואלה שעושים מה שהם חושבים שנכון. זה ממופה על דיכוטומיה קלאסית (שנמצאת באפלטון, בחז"ל, במוסר) בין תאווה לשכל. בכל פעם שמישהו אומר "אל תהיה חומד", הוא מתכוון באופן מרומז "היה אדם שמונהג על ידי שכל/ריסון/חוק במקום זאת."
[סיפור להמחשה:] ילד רעב או צמא, וכששואלים אותו למה הוא לא אוכל, הוא עונה: "אבא שלי לימד אותי שלא שותים כשצמאים — שותים כש*צריך* לשתות." זה ממחיש את האימון שמאחורי גישה זו: רצייה אינה סיבה מספקת לפעולה. הנאה לא צריכה להיות האלוהים שלך או הקריטריון שלך לנכון ולא נכון.
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כאשר חז"ל מדברים על היצר הרע כמקור הרוע, לעיתים קרובות הם לא מתכוונים ל"רצון מטפיזי לעשות רע" כלשהו (שיהיה חסר תוכן), אלא שדווקא *הליכה אחרי התאווה* — הליכה אחרי מה שאתה חושב שיהיה מהנה — היא מה שגורם לרוב התוצאות הרעות בעולם.
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הפירוש ה"נכון" גורס שלא תחמוד חל ספציפית *על הדברים המפורטים* (אשת רעך, עבדו, אמתו וכו') ולא מוסיף הרבה תוכן חדש מעבר לאיסורים הספציפיים. הפירוש החלופי הופך זאת: לא תחמוד מציין בעיה יסודית יותר, עמומה יותר (התאווה עצמה), והרשימה מראה את *התוצאות* — אם אתה חומד, תגיע בסופו של דבר לחמוד את כל הדברים האלה.
על פי פירוש חלופי זה, לא תחמוד היא מצווה חדשה באמת, שמוסיפה קטגוריה שלמה חדשה: *מצוות הלב*. הטיעון (כפי שמנוסח על ידי חובות הלבבות והוגים דומים): אם אתה עובד רק על התנהגות חיצונית — לא לאכול מאכלות אסורות, לא לגנוב — אתה משאיר את התאווה הבסיסית שלמה, והיא המקור האמיתי של כל הבעיות. לא תחמוד מציע פתרון רדיקלי יותר, פנימי: תפסיק להיות אדם תאוותני לגמרי, ותפתור את כל הבעיות בשורשן.
אם *לא* תטפל בתאווה בשורשה, בהכרח תעמוד בפני *ניסיון* שלא תוכל לעמוד בו — בסופו של דבר תאכל את החזיר. עבודה על התאווה עצמה מוצגת כדרך היעילה והיסודית יותר.
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גישה זו לא דוגלת בפתרון מהיר או בדיכוי פיזי (כמו סירוס עצמי). היא קוראת להפוך לסוג אחר מיסודו של אדם — כזה שנשלט על ידי שכל (יצר טוב) ולא על ידי תיאבון (יצר הרע).
"לעולם ירגיז אדם יצר טוב על יצר הרע." פירוש אחד: במקום למנות כל מעשה טוב ורע, טפח כיוון פנימי שבו אתה הולך אחרי היצר הטוב שלך (הדחף הטוב/השכלי) ומסרב לציית לתאוותיך. זה מוצג כפתרון פשוט יותר ומקיף יותר.
תלמיד מעלה את המקרה של בחירה בין שתי תאוות — ללכת למועדון חשפנות לעומת לשבת ולחדש חידוש תורה — ומציע שתאווה אחת היא "טובה". במסגרת זו, אין תאוות טובות. המילה "תאווה" כאן מתייחסת ספציפית לתאווה *כקריטריון לפעולה, כמקור הטוב*. הגישה הנכונה: אל תחליט על סמך לאן אתה *רוצה* ללכת; תחליט על סמך מה *נכון*. אז הדילמה מתמוססת — אתה פשוט הולך לבית הכנסת כי זה הדבר הנכון.
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תלמיד טוען שתשוקה ורצייה יכולות להיות מניעים נהדרים ליצירה ולתוצאות טובות — ומביא דוגמאות של חדשנים שמונעים על ידי תשוקה "יצרו עולם חדש" (למשל, המצאת המכונית, האינטרנט). גם אם התאווה עצמה בלתי נשלטת, התוצאות יכולות להיות טובות באמת, ותשוקה הכרחית להישגים גדולים.
זה נדחה בתוקף במספר רמות:
1. התוצאות אינן טובות מכוח התשוקה. אם תוצאות טובות, הן טובות *אחרי שנשלטו* — התשוקה עצמה לא תרמה דבר לטובתן. תשוקה ללא הכוונה, שכל או רעיון של הטוב היא "רעה מעצם הגדרתה."
2. חייהם של אותם אנשים "נלהבים" הם עצמם ראיה נגד ההשקפה. החדשנים שהתלמיד מעריץ — מונעים על ידי כסף, שאפתנות, כוח, נשים — הם בדיוק הדוגמאות שטקסטים עתיקים היו מביאים כחיים שהשתבשו לחלוטין. "מודלי החיקוי שלך הם רשעים."
3. תשוקה אינה ניתנת להבחנה מרוע מפלצתי במונחים שלה עצמה. אין דבר, במסגרת של תשוקה-כטוב, שמבחין בין החדשן הנלהב לבין רוצח סדרתי נלהב שתכנן את פשעיו בקפידה. אם תשוקה היא הקריטריון, שניהם "גדולים" באותה מידה.
4. המסגור הנכון הופך את הסיפור הסיבתי. אם מישהו אומר "זה כל כך טוב, ובגלל שזה כל כך טוב, אני רוצה את זה," אז הטוב מוביל, לא התאווה. זה סיפור שונה לחלוטין מתשוקה כמניע.
- הרופא הרע כמעט רוצה שאנשים יהיו חולים כדי שיוכל לרפא אותם — התשוקה שלו היא באמת ל*כבוד* או להיות האחראי לריפוי.
- הרופא הטוב שונא סרטן כל כך שהוא רוצה למנוע אותו — ה"תשוקה" שלו מונעת למעשה על ידי הכרה בבריאות כטוב, לא על ידי רצון לתהילה אישית.
- בניסוח חד יותר: הרופא הרע מנסה לרפא אנשים (ממוקד-עצמי); הרופא הטוב מנסה לרפא מחלות (ממוקד-טוב).
הרעיון המודרני של שבח התשוקה הוא בדיוק הדבר שמתואר כרוע מפלצתי בכל טקסט שנכתב לפני בערך 1600. זה לא טיעון שצריך להתווכח עליו עכשיו אלא משהו שצריך לשים לב אליו — היפוך מפתיע שלכל הפחות צריך לגרום לאדם לעצור ולחשוב. חיים מונעי-תשוקה מושווים ל*אחשוורוש* (הדמות הפרדיגמטית של חיים שנשלטים על ידי תאווה במחשבה היהודית).
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הרחבת היכולת שקולה מבחינה מבנית להרחבת התאווה, ולכן בעייתית מטבעה.
- מכוניות: הרסניות מאוד. היכולת להגיע ב-17 דקות במקום שלוש שעות לא פותרת בעיה אמיתית; היא רק מרחיבה את מה שאפשר *לעשות*, וזו ההגדרה של הרחבת תאווה.
- האינטרנט: משובח בדיוק כי הוא מאפשר לאנשים לעשות "מה שהם רוצים, מתי שהם רוצים, איך שהם רוצים" — עצם השפה של תאווה בלתי מרוסנת. תלמיד מציע שהאינטרנט מאפשר החזר חובות מהיר יותר; זה נדחה כפנטזיה — ה*אפשרות* להחזיר חובות מהר יותר אינה זהה לאנשים ש*בפועל* מחזירים חובות טוב יותר. ההתמקדות ב"אפשרי" במקום ב"בפועל" היא עצמה הבעיה.
- צפייה בשיעור באינטרנט: צפייה בשיעור באינטרנט במקום להגיע באופן אישי הופכת את העולם לגרוע יותר. בהתחשב במצב הנפול של העולם, צפייה באינטרנט עדיפה על צפייה ב"שטויות אחרות", אבל *היכולת עצמה* אינה טוב.
טוב אינו מורכב מיכולת. טוב מורכב בדיוק מהצבת גבול ליכולת — שימוש בה רק בדרך הנכונה. המצאה ש*גורמת* לך לעשות את הדבר הנכון תהיה טובה; המצאה שרק *מאפשרת* לך לעשות דברים היא רעה, כי "לאפשר" רק מרחיב את שדה התאווה. מכוניות *מאפשרות* לך לבוא לשיעור; הן לא *גורמות* לך לבוא. מכונה ש*מכריחה* אותך לבוא הייתה המצאה טובה באמת. אבל המצאות חומריות, מטבען, הן פוטנציאל — הן יכולות רק לאפשר, לא לכוון.
לכן, ה"המצאות" הטובות באמת היחידות הן דתות, תרבויות ומערכות שעובדות על נשמות בני אדם — שמלמדות אנשים מהו טוב ומטילות גבולות. אלה ההמצאות ש*גורמות* לאנשים לפעול נכון, לא רק *מאפשרות* להם.
אדם לא חייב דבר לממציא האינטרנט (או כל טכנולוגיה), כי הממציא סיפק רק את *היצר הרע* — חומר הגלם של הפיתוי והיכולת המורחבת. כשם שאדם לא חייב דבר לגופו על כך שהוא הבסיס לפעולה, כך אדם לא חייב דבר ליוצר היכולות. מה שראוי לשבח הוא מה שמגביל יכולת, לא מה שיוצר אותה. "יצירת יכולות היא תמיד רעה — זו ההגדרה של רע."
מיתוסים אנושיים יסודיים מציגים באופן עקבי את הרחבת היכולות כמסוכנת ורעה. ההיפוך האמיתי — הדבר ה"מוזר" באמת — הוא ההרגל המודרני לשבח בדיוק את מה שנתפס באופן מסורתי כבעיה (יכולת/תאווה מורחבת) כאילו היה הפתרון.
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המסורת החסידית של הערכת תשוקה עזה ובלתי מרוסנת — אפילו תשוקה מכוונת כלפי הקב"ה (אהבת ה') — מתעמתת ישירות.
- המושג של *אהבה עזה* בהקשר של אהבת ה' נדחה כחסר משמעות במובן הרלוונטי. פירוש זה מיוחס לחינוך חסידי ונקרא קריאה חסידית שגויה של הרמב"ם. הרמב"ם לא תומך בתשוקה בלתי מרוסנת לה'. הפירוש החסידי מקרין את הערכת התשוקה שלו על שפת הרמב"ם, במיוחד המשל המפורסם שלו על אהבת ה' כמחלת אהבה. בכל פעם שמישהו משתמש במשל, המאזינים מקרינים את המושגים שלהם לתוכו, ולכן "משלים הם רעים."
זה נאמר בצורה ישירה, עם מספר מקורות:
- עולם התוהו (עולם הכאוס הקבלי): הכלים נשברו *כי הם רצו את ה' יותר מדי*. תאווה מופרזת — אפילו לאלוקי — היא הרסנית.
- נעשה ונשמע והר סיני: כאשר עם ישראל הכריז בהתלהבות "נעשה ונשמע," תגובת הקב"ה הייתה למעשה "בבקשה אל" — "וְהִגְבַּלְתָּ אֶת הָעָם" ("הצב גבולות לעם"). כל הדרמה של סיני עוסקת ביצירת גבולות, לא בטיפוח אהבה עזה.
- משה רבנו: אף אחד לא מתאר את משה או מייסדי דתות אחרים כאנשים של "תשוקה גדולה." הם מתוארים במונחים של *הגבלותיהם* — הרעיונות שלהם על מה טוב ומה רע. תרומתו המגדירה של משה הייתה 365 לאוין ו-248 מצוות עשה — מערכת של גבולות.
אם תאווה/תשוקה היא *הקריטריון* של הטוב (כלומר, הדבר שהופך משהו לטוב), אז גם תשוקה לה' היא רעה — כי התיאוריה אומרת שהקריטריון עצמו הוא הבעיה. אי אפשר לומר "תאווה בלתי מרוסנת היא רעה *חוץ* מכשהיא מכוונת לה'," כי זה עדיין הופך את התאווה לעיקרון הפעיל. דברים טובים הם בדיוק דברים מרוסנים. ככל שאדם יותר *יקר* (מאופק/מרוסן), כך הוא טוב יותר.
תורת הבעל שם טוב שהיצר הרע הוא "דבר טוב במקום הנכון" מוכרת כמחשבה רצינית אך נדחית במסגרת זו: אם תאווה-כקריטריון היא הבעיה, אז תאווה אינה דבר טוב אפילו "במקום הנכון." לפחות על פי תיאוריה זו, ריסון הוא טוב ופראות היא רעה.
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ציוויליזציה היא טובה, וההיפך מציוויליזציה הוא רע — וציוויליזציה היא ביסודה עניין של ריסון, לא של תשוקה. תשוקה עשויה להיות *הרקע* של ציוויליזציה (חומר הגלם), אבל ציוויליזציה עצמה *מבוססת על* ריסון. הרומנטיזציה המודרנית של תשוקה כמנוע ההתקדמות היא היפוך עמוק של האמת.
נישואין מניחים מראש תאווה מינית (זהו תנאי הרקע), אבל נישואין *מבוססים על* ריסון, ארגון והכנעת התאווה — מתן גבולות ומבנה נכונים לה. אם היית בונה את השקפת עולמך על יצר המין בלבד, לא היית מגיע לנישואין.
[סטייה צדדית / פולמוס:] דרשנים (בעלי השקפה) שמקדמים נישואין בטענה שהם יניבו הנאה טובה יותר (למשל, "תהיה לך חיי אישות טובים יותר") מותחים עליהם ביקורת חדה. גישה זו יוצאת כנגד עצמה: אם הבסיס הוא הנאה, אז המסקנה ההגיונית היא הדוניזם — למה לקבל מבנה כלשהו בכלל? הטיעון שהנאה היא הבסיס מוביל לפירוק המבנים עצמם שמקודמים. מסגור נישואין באופן אינסטרומנטלי במונחי הנאה מערער את המשמעת שנישואין דורשים בפועל.
אם הכל מבוסס על הנאה, אז הדוניזם בלתי מרוסן הוא המסקנה הרציונלית. אפילו הדוניזם נכשל במונחים שלו עצמו — "גם ככה אין לך הרבה הנאה מזה" — אבל זו בעיה נפרדת. הבעיה האמיתית היא שהמסגרת מבוססת-ההנאה לא יכולה להצדיק את המשמעת המבנית שהופכת נישואין (וציוויליזציה) למשמעותיים.
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מנהגים מעשיים מסוימים מתיישבים עם תיאוריה זו נגד התאווה:
- תענית כתרגיל בדיכוי תאווה.
- הרמב"ם ורב סעדיה גאון מסבירים את *איסורי האכילה* במסגרת זו: איסורי אכילה (למשל, חזיר, בשר בחלב, גיד הנשה) מתפקדים כתרגילים בדיכוי תאווה, ללא קשר לטעמיהם המקוריים.
- פיוטו של רב סעדיה שממפה את כל תרי"ג מצוות על עשרת הדיברות הולך בעקבות פילון בהצבת כל איסורי האכילה תחת לא תחמוד, בהבנתו כאיסור היסודי נגד תאווה.
- הרמב"ם במורה נבוכים קובע במפורש שמטרה כוללת אחת (כלל) של המצוות היא *פרישות* — אימון אנשים לא פשוט לעשות מה שהם רוצים, להפוך אותם לפחות תאוותניים.
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המסגרת נגד התאווה נשמעת נכונה בתיאוריה — אדם פחות תאוותני יעמוד בפחות ניסיונות ויחיה חיים טובים יותר. ושני הצדדים למעשה מסכימים שתאווה לא צריכה להיות הקריטריון הסופי לפעולה; שניהם מסכימים ש"חיי תאווה" גרועים מ"חיי שכל." הוויכוח אינו על המסקנה אלא על השאלה האם זו דרך שימושית או מדויקת למסגר כיצד שיפור מוסרי עובד בפועל.
הקושיה המרכזית: ההשקפה נגד התאווה מניחה שהמאבקים המוסריים של אנשים מתוארים בצורה הטובה ביותר כרגעים של החלטה האם תאווה תהיה הקריטריון שלהם. אבל זה לא איך שקונפליקטים מוסריים פנימיים מתרחשים בפועל בחיים האמיתיים. חשבו על חוויות אמיתיות של התקדמות מוסרית, נסיגה, קונפליקט פנימי — מצאו אחת שמתוארת היטב על ידי הסיפור של "הייתי מחליט אם לתת לתאווה להנחות אותי." הטענ
ה היא שלא תמצאו. החיים המוסריים האמיתיים הם יותר מפורטים וספציפיים ממה שמסגור גרנדיוזי זה מציע.
תאווה בלתי נשלטת היא אכן רעה — אבל היא מידה רעה ספציפית אחת מני רבות, לא הקטגוריה העליונה. היא הייתה מופיעה בחשבון מפורט ומפורט של תכונות אופי רעות, אבל היא אינה *כלל* טוב (הכללה) לכל הפרויקט של להפוך לאדם טוב.
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החכמים הניחו שלא תחמוד מתייחס למשהו שאתה עושה (מעשה), לא למשהו שאתה רוצה (תכונת אופי / מידה). הם היו "כמעט במפורש מתנגדים למצוות שבלב" — לא כי הם הכחישו את חשיבות החיים הפנימיים, אלא כי הם לא האמינו שלומר למישהו להיות אדם פחות תאוותני היא הדרך הטובה ביותר לאמן בן אדם.
הגישה נגד התאווה מובילה ללולאות סוליפסיסטיות. כשאתה מתמקד כל כך בעוצמה בלא להיות אדם תאוותני, אתה נספג כל כך בניטור עצמי עד שאתה שוכח להיות אדם טוב. הפרויקט נגד התאווה מתכנס פנימה ומאבד מגע עם הדרישות האתיות האמיתיות של החיים.
זו התובנה הביקורתית המרכזית נגד בית המדרש נגד התאווה:
- להיות אדם תאוותני זו דרך קלה מאוד להפוך לנורא — זה מוּסכם.
- אבל לא להיות אדם תאוותני זו לא דרך מהירה להפוך לטוב — זו האסימטריה המכרעת.
- בית המדרש נגד התאווה מתייחס לדיכוי תאווה כאילו הוא *מינה והלאה* (עיקרון מקיף שממנו הכל נובע). התגובה: יש לו מקום, הוא אפילו נכון במובן רחב, אבל הוא לא מעשי מספיק ולא באמת הופך אותך לאדם טוב.
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החזון איש באמונה ובטחון (פרק ג') מנסח למעשה את אותה עמדה, אם כי בצורה מסובכת. הוא ירש דרך חשיבה עתיקה אבל חסרה לו דרך נקייה לבטא אותה.
1. מעט מאוד אנשים הם באמת *בעלי תאווה* טהורים (אנשים שמונעים כולם על ידי תאווה). יש כאלה, אבל זו לא הבעיה העיקרית בחיים.
2. דיכוי תאווה לא אומר לך איך לפעול. אתה יכול להיות חופשי לחלוטין מתאווה נלהבת ועדיין להיות *רשע* — אפילו *גנב*. *גניבה* לא מוגדרת על ידי רצייה של דברים; היא מוגדרת על ידי לקיחת משהו שלא שייך לך. ו"לא שייך לי" מוגדר על ידי קריטריונים חיצוניים, לא על ידי היעדר תאווה.
3. המסגרת נגד התאווה מאפשרת "גניבה אפתית" — גניבה ללא תשוקה, גניבה באופן מרוסן ומתורבת. אתה יכול להיות אדם נעים, לא תאוותני, ועדיין לגנוב — "תפוז אחד, לא שלושה." הקריקטורה של ההדוניסט הפרוע היא נדירה; הבעיה האמיתית היא אנשים רגילים שהם מרוסנים אבל עדיין לא טובים.
4. הריסון של הציוויליזציה לא הפך אנשים לטובים. כל הריסון שהציוויליזציה הטילה לא עצר אנשים מלגנוב, לשקר (לא תענה ברעך עד שקר) וכו'. אז ריסון לא היה "הפתרון הסופי."
5. גרוע מכך: אנשים מרוסנים הם פשוט משעממים. הם אולי לא מבצעים רוע בלתי מרוסן, אבל הם גם לא שום דבר חיובי.
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מה טוב ומה רע מוגדר על ידי "מציאות חיצונית" — על ידי אנשים אחרים. הרמח"ל אומר שזה מוגדר על ידי *הלכה*, אבל זו רק הדרך של הרמח"ל לבטא את אותו רעיון: הסטנדרט הוא חיצוני, לא פנימי.
להיות בעל מוסר מעובד ביסודיות לא הופך אותך לפחות *גורנישט* (כלום). זה הופך אותך לרגיש, אבל אנשים רגישים אינם אנשים טובים יותר. זיכוך ורגישות אינם זהים לטוב. התוכנית נגד התאווה מייצרת אנשים מזוככים ורגישים — אבל זיכוך אינו תחליף לעשות בפועל את מה שנכון כפי שמוגדר על ידי סטנדרטים חיצוניים וחובות כלפי אחרים.
מעמד מוסרי תלוי בהבחנות חיצוניות עדינות, לא בנטיות פנימיות רחבות:
- האם אישה מקודשת או נשואה? התשובה משנה האם חמידתה מפרה את לא תחמוד.
- האם היא חצי שפחה חצי בת חורין? אם כן, לקיחתה עשויה להוות ניאוף ממש בתוספת לא תחמוד; אם לא, המצב שונה לחלוטין.
- ללכת לחנות ולשלם את המחיר הנכון זה נורמלי; ללכת לבית של מישהו ולשלם מעט פחות או יותר מהמחיר הנכון יכול להיות רע באמת.
אלה לא חידות הלכתיות אקזוטיות — ככה החיים באמת עובדים. המציאות המוסרית היא פרטנית ומוגדרת חיצונית, והגישה של מעלה פנימית לא יכולה לתפוס פרטנות זו.
בית המדרש נגד התאווה נכשל אפילו במונחים שלו עצמו. הוא טוען לספק פתרון אתי מקיף, אבל:
- הוא עשוי לטפל במקרים קיצוניים (מישהו שנשלט על ידי תאווה), אבל הוא לא מטפל בהבחנות מוסריות רגילות ויומיומיות שמהוות את רוב החיים האתיים.
- דיכוי תאווה באופן "לא מכוון" — בלי לדעת מהן הפעולות הנכונות — לא עוזר.
- אפילו מה שאדם *צריך* לרצות תלוי בידיעת מה נכון לרצות, מה שדורש ידע חיצוני (הלכה, חושן משפט וכו').
מידה מסוימת של דיכוי תאווה הכרחית — לא כמטרה, אלא כתנאי מוקדם ליכולת לראות מעבר לתאוות שלך. זה מושווה ל"יציאה מהאגו שלך," אבל זה דבר פשוט מאוד, לא ההישג המיסטי שלפעמים עושים ממנו. זהו תנאי הכרחי ל*כל דבר* — אפילו לעשות חשבון.
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יש אנשים שלעולם אינם תופסים יופי כשלעצמו כי הם יכולים לרשום רק הנאה (שעוסקת בעצמי). השיח המודרני מחזק זאת בטענה ש"יופי הוא סובייקטיבי," מה שמצטמצם לומר שאין יופי, רק הנאה אישית. זה שטויות — תוצר של "אנשים מטורפים ביותר" ששפתם הדביקה את החברה. בחיי היומיום, אנשים כל הזמן "נשלטים על ידי דברים מחוצה לנו" וכן מבינים מוטיבציה מבוססת על טוב אובייקטיבי, לא רק על רצון אישי.
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הרמב"ן (מתחילת פרשת משפטים) סובר שכל הפרשה, והשיח הרחב יותר של סיני, הם הרחבה של עשרת הדיברות, וספציפית פרשת משפטים מרחיבה את לא תחמוד (לא לא תגנוב, אולי כי לא תגנוב מתייחס לחטיפה/גונב נפשות). רצייה/חמידה יכולה להיות מוגדרת רק אחרי שאתה יודע מה שייך לך ומה לא.
הרב סולובייצ'יק טען שאנשים שלא לומדים חושן משפט הם "כברירת מחדל גנבים" — כי העולם הרבה יותר מסובך מהעיקרון הנאיבי "אני לא לוקח מה שלא שלי." צריך ללמוד את הדינים המפורטים של חיובים וקניין כדי לדעת מה המצב המוסרי האמיתי שלך. התחושה ה"טבעית" של קניין אינה מספיקה.
זהו הפירוש השני של לא תחמוד (הראשון הוא הפירוש נגד התאווה): לא תחמוד עוסק בלהיות מהסוג של אדם שרוצה נכון, מה שדורש ידע מפורט של מה באמת שייך לך ומה לא.
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הפסוק "בְּפִיו וּבִשְׂפָתָיו כִּבְּדוּנִי וְלִבּוֹ רִחַק מִמֶּנִּי" יש לו שני פירושים:
פירוש ראשון (כוונת הנביא בפועל): אדם אומר את כל הדברים הנכונים בתפילה — ביטחון, אהבת ה', אמון בצדק האלוקי — אבל לא חי בהתאם. כשהוא צריך משהו, הוא גונב; הוא לא באמת בוטח בה' שיספק. "לבו רחק ממני" פירושו: אתה לא חי את מה שאתה אומר. "לב" כאן פירושו הסוג של אדם שאתה בפועל — הנטיות והמעשים המיושבים שלך, לא הרגשות הרגעיים שלך.
- אדם כזה הוא שקרן וצבוע במובן הפשוט.
- האדם ההפוך — שאומר שמע ישראל מהר, בלי רגש גדול, אבל באמת חי עם ביטחון ולא גונב — הוא "לבו קרוב לה'" למרות חוסר להט רגשי.
פירוש שני (חובות הלבבות / חסידי): אדם אומר את מילות התפילה באופן מכני, בלי רגש, התרגשות או מסירות — לעומת מישהו שאומר אותן בעוצמה רגשית ומסירות פנימית. פירוש זה מתייחס לבעיה כאל כנות רגשית במהלך מעשה הדיבור עצמו.
ביקורת הנביא אינה על אמירת שמע ישראל מהר או בלי רגש. "איזו מצווה זו לומר דברים? לא עוזר לאף אחד." מישהו שמתרגש עמוקות במהלך דרשה, אין לו מחשבות זרות, הוא לגמרי "נוכח" — אבל לא באמת מאמין או חי לפי מה שהוא אומר — האדם הזה הוא מי שהנביא קורא לו "לבו רחוק ממני." הוא "שקרן," "בלוף." המבחן האמיתי הוא התנהגותי ונטייתי, לא רגשי-חווייתי.
דניאל לא אמר "הָאֵל הַגָּדוֹל הַגִּבּוֹר וְהַנּוֹרָא" כי הוא לא יכול היה לומר זאת בכנות — הוא לא חווה זאת כאמת באותו רגע. זה ממחיש את סטנדרט *הכנות ההתנהגותית*: השמטתו של דניאל הייתה מעשה של יושרה לגבי מה שהוא באמת האמין, לא לגבי עוצמה רגשית.
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מישהו שפוגע באדם אחר תוך שהוא אומר "אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך" — ומתכוון לזה באמת — הוא בעצם צבוע יותר מהפסיכופת שאומר זאת בלי להרגיש. הפסיכופת רק משקר. אבל האדם שבאמת מרגיש רע ובכל זאת ממשיך בפעולה המזיקה מדגים שה"עולם הרגשות" שלו הוא חסר רלוונטיות ומשקל מוסרי. לרגשות של חרטה או אמפתיה תוך כדי התמדה בפעולה רעה אין אפילו מעלה חלקית — זה כלום. "למי אכפת מהרגשות שלך?"
מישהו שטוען "מעולם לא רציתי את זה, פשוט לקחתי את זה בלי לרצות" — וחושב שהוא לא בעבירה — טועה. הוא עובר על לא תחמוד. נוכחות או היעדר תאווה אינם הקריטריון; מעשה הלקיחה של מה ששייך למישהו אחר הוא.
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תלמיד מציע: האם הפשט ה"פנימי" של לא תחמוד (עבודה על לא לרצות) לא יכול לשמש ככלי כדי להגיע בסופו של דבר לפשט הנכון (להיות מהסוג של אדם שפועל נכון)?
זה אפשרי תיאורטית אבל מדאיג מאוד: בפועל, הפירוש הפנימי משמש כמעט תמיד ככלי כדי *להימנע* מהגעה ליעד הנכון. אנשים משתמשים בו כדי להרגיש טוב עם עצמם בלי לשנות את התנהגותם. זה חלקית תיאורטי וחלקית תצפיתי — נובע מצפייה באופן שבו עולם הישיבות ירש "גרסה רעה של פנימיות" שהופכת אנשים לגרועים יותר, לא לטובים יותר. הם חושבים שהם טובים כי הם "מרגישים את זה" כשאומרים שמע, או "מרגישים את זה" כשאומרים שהכאב של מישהו כואב להם.
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פשוט לדרוס את מה שאתה רוצה ולעשות רק מה שאתה חושב שנכון הוא גם פרויקט פנימי וגם לא מספיק. האדם שמדכא תאווה עשוי להיות נקי מנגיעות (הטיות אישיות), אבל עדיין אדם רע אם הוא מעולם לא חקר ברצינות מה באמת נכון — מה שייך לו, מה חובותיו, מה מקומו בעולם. אלה כולן שאלות חיצוניות שדורשות מעורבות אמיתית עם המציאות. האדם שיושב ליד הסטנדר שלו ומהווה "בחור טוב" מבפנים, בלי לעשות את העבודה הזו, הוא לא בחור טוב.
להיות אדם תאוותני מאוד זה רע לבריאות הגופנית (אכילת יתר, שתיית יתר). אבל לא להיות תאוותני לא הופך אותך אוטומטית לבריא. עדיין צריך לגלות מה באמת בריא. אין קסם שאומר שהסרת תאווה מובילה לפעולה נכונה. "אולי פשוט תאכל קוגל בלי תאווה." חסר ברשע אינו שווה לנוכחות של מעלה. הסרת משהו רע לא פותרת את כל הבעיות.
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הבחנה מכרעת לגבי סדר הסיבתיות מול סדר ההגדרה:
- בסדר המציאות (סיבתית), פנימיות באה ראשונה — אנשים אכן פועלים ממצביהם הפנימיים.
- בסדר התיאוריה (הגדרתית), פנימיות באה שנייה — מה שמגדיר אדם טוב הוא איך הוא פועל, לא איך הוא מרגיש. האדם שמפסיק להיות גנב ואז יפסיק לרצות להיות גנב, וזה להיות בעל המידה של לא תחמוד.
עולם הישיבות הפך את הסדר: הם חושבים שמתקנים את הפנים קודם והחוץ עוקב. הגישה הנכונה: תקן את החוץ (מעשים, מעורבות עם מציאות וחובה) והפנים עוקב.
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שקר אינו אי-ההתאמה של המילים החיצוניות שלך לרגשותיך הפנימיים ברגע הדיבור. מחשבותיו של שקרן מיומן מתאימות לשקר שלו בזמן שהוא מספר אותו. אלא, שקר הוא אי-ההתאמה של מילותיך למציאות — לעובדות החיצוניות. "הדבר הכי פנימי" (מה שאנחנו קוראים אמת הלב) מוגדר למעשה על ידי מציאות חיצונית. הקריטריון לאמת מול שקר הוא מחוץ לאדם, לא בתוכו.
זה מחזק את כל המסגרת: אפילו המושג של כנות/אמת מעוגן בסופו של דבר בחיצוני, לא בפנימי.
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יש פירוש שלישי בספר החינוך שצריך להתייחס אליו, אבל הוא קשור ליותר מדי נושאים אחרים שייקח יותר מדי זמן לעבור עליהם. זה נשאר לפגישה עתידית.
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עמדת החיי אדם לגבי חשיבות האופן שבו אומרים את המילים (ככל הנראה של לא תחמוד או הצהרות קשורות) נדחית כלא חשובה — היא עשויה לשמש כתרגול לריכוז או מדיטציה, אבל היא לא באמת משנה.
החיי אדם עוסק בטריקים רטוריים, לוקח מקורות שמשמעותם שונה לחלוטין ומפרש אותם מחדש כדי לתמוך בעמדתו שלו. הפשט עובד טוב יותר כדרוש (פירוש הומילטי). החיי אדם מעלה קושיה על עצמו — על תאוות שמסתחררות מחוץ לשליטה ולמה צריך מילים אם הכל בלב — אבל לא באמת עונה עליה. זו שאלה על מילים, בעוד שהחקירה כאן היא על **
מעשה**, וזו שאלה שונה מיסודה.
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[הערה מתודולוגית מודעת-עצמית:] לאורך כל השיעור, יש הכרות חוזרות ונשנות שהרבה מזה הוא "סתם ויכוח" — פרובוקציה שנועדה לגרום לתלמידים לשים לב למשהו "ממש מוזר" בהנחות המודרניות, ולא טענות חיוביות מיושבות. יש הבחנה בין ההשקפה החיובית (שמקודמת בזהירות) לבין הפרויקט הביקורתי (שמקודם באגרסיביות).
המרצה: רגע, אני רק מחזיר את זה למקום. ברוכים הבאים לשיעור השני או השלישי. אם אתם לא מכירים, אני אחמד. אני הולך ללמד אתכם היום. אז היום אני הולך ללמד אחמד, או עמוס, או משהו כזה. מה הקשר של חודש אדר ללא תחמוד? הרבה מאוד! הכל! למה? כי משם מגיע החלק.
אז קודם כל אני רוצה לענות על שאלה קטנה לגבי המזל של אדר.
המרצה: כתוב בספרים הקדושים שהמזל של חודש אדר הוא דגים, וזה לא נכון, כי דגים, וה"קרפיסקוס" בלטינית, דגים, פייסיס, פייסיס, אני חושב שככה מבטאים את זה, זה דג, פייסיס, פייסיס, אז הדגים, כל מי שלמד על המזלות, כולל בשיעור שלנו לפני יומיים, למד שהמזלות קשורים לשמש, נכון?
מה שמזל אומר זה שהשמש נוסעת בתוך אותו מערך כוכבים. זה פשוטו כמשמעו מה שזה אומר, נכון? ולכן אין לזה שום קשר ללבנה או לראש חודש. ולכן יש תורה מ... קראתי שכתוב בחזקוני, לא בדקתי את זה, כתוב בירושלמי — שמצאו אנשים שהמזל שלהם עובד טוב באותו יום.
המרצה: אנשים אומרים בגלל שזה יום ההולדת שלהם, אני לא בטוח שזה מה שכתוב שם, אבל אנשים, כולם יודעים שלכל מזל, לכל, איך קוראים לזה? לכל אדם שיש לו חיבור לאחד מהכוכבים, כן, כמו ההורוסקופ שלו או ה... יש מילים שונות שאני מחפש. הנה הסימן שלו, נכון? כל אחד שייך לסימן. ולכל סימן יש יום מסוים בשנה מסוימת, בחודש מסוים, בחלק מסוים של הזמן, שבו הם מצליחים. אז אם אתה מתחיל משהו או עושה משהו בזמן הזה, זה היום המוצלח שלך. זו תיאוריה של אסטרולוגיה.
ולכן, אם אתה מאוד חכם בעשיית מלחמה, אז תגייס את האנשים שילחמו בשבילך להיות אלה שנמצאים ביום המוצלח שלהם. לכן.
תלמיד: למה זה שאתה מוצלח? למה היום מוצלח?
המרצה: בדרך כלל בגלל שנולדת באותו כוכב או בגלל האופן שבו... אני לא יודע את הלכות האסטרולוגיה כל כך טוב, אבל יש רעיון. העניין הוא שהטבע שלך בנוי ליום הזה.
תלמיד: משהו כזה, כן.
המרצה: יש חלק בזמן שעובד טוב יותר בשבילך. לדברים האלה יש גם סיבות טבעיות, כלומר טבעיות, לא שאסטרולוגיה לא אמורה להיות טבעית, אבל כולם, הדברים האלה נכונים בלי קשר. יש אנשים שהם אנשי לילה, יש אנשים שהם אנשי בוקר, יש אנשים שהם אנשי תחילת השבוע, יש אנשים שהם אנשי סוף השבוע, דברים כאלה הם דברים תצפיתיים. הם לא דברים שאסטרולוגיה המציאה. אסטרולוגיה היא רק תיאוריה. כמובן, לעולם יש כל יום מה שאתה, נכון? אסטרולוגיה היא רק תיאוריה שאומרת שאם נולדת בזמן הזה, אז אתה שייך לסימן הזה והזה, ולכן אתה הולך להצליח בתאריך הזה והזה וכן הלאה.
אז בכל מקרה, איזה צדיק חשב על תיאוריה כזו: ככה עמלק, הוא לקח אנשים שנמצאים ביום מוצלח להילחם, ולכן הם ניצחו. אז משה אמר ליהושע שאתה צריך למצוא מישהו שעושה אפילו יותר טוב. איך אתה יכול למצוא מישהו שעושה אפילו יותר טוב? נכון?
המרצה: אז ככה הסיפור. יש לנו דבר שנקרא החודש השלושה עשר. עכשיו מה הסימן של החודש השלושה עשר?
תלמיד: אין.
המרצה: אין. אם אין לך סימן, אז אתה יכול להצליח בכל יום. אז הוא מצא אנשים שכולם נולדו באדר שני. כמובן, אל תשאלו אותי הרבה שאלות שעיבור חודש הומצא מאוחר יותר, אז זה לא יכול היה להיות, אבל בכל מקרה, הוא מצא אנשים שנולדו באדר שני. ואז כשהעמלקי בא ואומר, "אני הולך להביא אדם אחד שהסימן שלו חזק יותר מהסימן שלך," הוא אומר, "יש כאן שגיאת אפס. אין עם מי לדבר." הוא מחודש אדר ב'.
תלמיד: טוב, זה לא אמור להיות הפוך, שאין לנו מזל וזה אמור להיות אפילו גרוע יותר?
המרצה: עוד קושיא טובה. לא, לא, אני חושב שדברים מהסוג הזה באמת הולכים נגד אסטרולוגיה. זו לא הנקודה שלי. אני לא יכול לומר שאין לי אסטרולוגיה. לפי אסטרולוגיה זה היה גרוע יותר, אבל הנקודה שלנו היא ש...
תלמיד: אני חושב שלפעמים הדברים האלה נאמרים ככה.
המרצה: לפעמים, אבל עכשיו...
תלמיד: זה לא מתחיל.
המרצה: הענין נגמר. מה שאני אומר שיש חודש שלושה עשר, זה לא אומר שיש חודש שלושה עשר.
המרצה: אה, הבנתי. עכשיו יש לך קושיא. זו אותה קושיא שנשאלה קודם. שזה לא הגיוני אם אתה יודע משהו על אסטרולוגיה, או משהו על איך שזה אמור לעבוד, זה לא הגיוני. כי העובדה שלעסק שלך יש בעיה עם החודשים הירחיים והשמשיים שלא מסתדרים, ולכן המצאת חכמה לעשות חודש שלושה עשר ב-7 מתוך 19 שנים, זה לא אומר לכוכבים שהכוכבים לא מקשיבים לך. שם בכל מקרה תמיד יש 12 חודשים או 12 סימנים של גלגל המזלות בכל שנה, בכל שנת שמש.
זו הקושיא הגדולה. ועכשיו אני הולך לספר לכם את התירוץ על הקושיא הזו. אתם רוצים לדעת את התירוץ?
המרצה: התירוץ הוא כך: שאף אחד מעולם לא היה מספיק טיפש לחשוב שהכוכבים משפיעים על אנשים, במובן הזה — הכוכבים מאוד גבוהים, מאוד רחוקים. יש להם רמה במציאות שהיא הרבה יותר גבוהה מהרמה שלנו. אתם יודעים איך אני יודע, נכון? איך אני יודע שהכוכבים טובים מוסרית מאיתנו? כי הם אף פעם לא נשחקים. לאנשים יש שחיקה. ולכוכבים אין שחיקה. אנשים לפעמים מגיעים בזמן, לפעמים מגיעים מאוחר. כוכבים תמיד מגיעים בזמן. אז כוכבים מושלמים. הכוכבים מושלמים. הלוואי שיכולת להיות כוכב. קוראים לזה "אתה כוכב". לכן כתוב, בכל פעם שאנחנו מנסים לומר שבן אדם הוא באמת מדהים, אנחנו אומרים שהוא כוכב.
זה בתנ"ך. זה בכל התייחסות תרבותית שאנחנו מכירים. כוכבים הם משהו מדהים לגבינו. הרמב"ם אומר שכשאדם יודע על הכוכבים, כמו שכתוב בתהלים, "כי אראה שמיך... מה אנוש כי תזכרנו". אז אני חושב, במילים אחרות, כשאני רואה שהכוכבים כל כך גדולים, אני מסתכל למטה על האנשים ואני אומר, האנשים האלה, הם לא עומדים מול הכוכבים. הם לא בהשוואה. הם מאוד גרועים ביחס לכוכבים.
המרצה: אז עכשיו, לכן, זה מאוד מוזר. אף אחד מעולם לא חשב, מכיוון שזו המחשבה הבסיסית, אף אחד מעולם לא חשב שלכוכבים אכפת ממך כשהם שולטים בחייך. הם כל כך מעבר לך, כל כך גבוהים יותר. יש להם דברים טובים יותר לעשות עם הזמן שלהם מאשר לדאוג מי הולך לנצח בקרב. כמובן, הם לא דואגים, אבל לכן, יש לנו הבנה בסיסית שמצד שני, כוכבים עושים לנו אור והם אומרים לנו לאן ללכת כשאנחנו במדבר או בים וכן הלאה.
המרצה: אבל אתם צריכים להבין שזה לא ישירות. כוכבים לא עושים לנו שום דבר ישירות, רק דרך המתווך, דרך התיווך של בני אדם, או שנאמר של נשמות אנושיות או הבנה אנושית. במילים אחרות, מכיוון שאני יכול להסתכל על הכוכב ולהבין איפה אני ביחס לכוכב, הכוכב עושה את זה דרך ההסתכלות שלי. אם לא הייתי מסתכל, הכוכב לא היה יכול לומר לי לאן ללכת. לכן אף אחד מעולם לא יוצא החוצה ושומע את הכוכבים מדברים אליו. אתה מסתכל עליהם קודם ואז הם מדברים אליך. אז הם שולטים בחייך.
תלמיד: הכל לא באמת עובד ככה?
המרצה: הכל עובד ככה, כן.
תלמיד: לא הכל.
המרצה: במילים אחרות, דברים ברמה שלך לא עובדים ככה. חבר שלך דוחף אותך בלי שביקשת ממנו, בלי שהסתכלת עליו, אז זה לא עובד דרכך. או כשאתה מחליק על קליפת בננה, קליפת הבננה לא עובדת דרך הנשמה שלך. זה דבר נמוך יותר במובן מסוים שפועל עליך או משהו ברמה של הגוף שלך שפועל עליך, אבל דברים עליונים תמיד עובדים ככה או רוב הדברים העליונים.
לכן, אז אני לא מדבר כל כך על דחיפה אלא נגיד כשאתה רוצה עזרה ממישהו, נכון? זה תמיד שאתה רוצה את זה, לא תמיד, כן, אבל אתה רוצה ללכת לרופא, כן?
תלמיד: כן, אבל הרופא לא עוזר לך דרך השכל שלך, נכון? זה השכל שלך שהביא אותך אליו, אבל הוא לא עוזר לך דרך השכל שלך.
המרצה: הכוכבים יכולים לעזור לך רק דרך השכל שלך, אלא אם כן...
תלמיד: אלא אם כן הרופא אומר לך לעקוב אחרי הוראות מסוימות ואתה צריך להשתמש בשכל שלך כדי לעקוב אחרי ההוראות.
המרצה: זה נכון. אבל בדרך כלל הוא פשוט נותן לך זריקה או משהו ואז הוא לא עוזר לך דרך השכל שלך.
תלמיד: עם עצים זה אותו דבר. עצים לא יכולים לעקוב אחרי הכוכבים. הם עוקבים אחרי הכוכבים.
המרצה: אבל בני אדם יכולים לעקוב אחרי עצים כמו שהם עוקבים אחרי כוכבים. אם העצים היו אומרים לך משהו. הבעיה היא שהם לא אומרים לנו כל כך הרבה דברים כמו שהכוכבים אומרים לנו.
תלמיד: דיוויד דויטש משתמש בזה כטיעון, אני חושב, לחשיבות של בני אדם במובן שהם לא יודעים שהם יכולים להשפיע על השכל שלהם, שיכול להיות מושפע מהכל.
המרצה: אוקיי, אולי. הנקודה היא שכשבני אדם מושפעים דרך סיבות עליונות או דרך הכוכבים, אז זה עובד דרך הנשמה האנושית, לא — דרך אחרת לומר את זה היא...
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה לא מה שאנחנו חושבים על חשיבה כמו אתה ובן אדם ואינטראקציות או השפעה אנושית...
המרצה: אה, ב...
תלמיד: לא, במובן שהכוכבים, רק שיהיה ברור, במובן שהכוכבים גורמים לשמש, גורמים לשקיעה ולזריחה, זה לא מה שאני מדבר עליו. אנחנו לא צריכים אסטרולוגיה בשביל זה.
המרצה: לא, לא, זה לא עובד במובן הזה.
תלמיד: אוקיי, זה דיון שלם.
המרצה: אבל כן, האסטרולוגיה לא, היתה מחלוקת על זה בין הקדמונים, אבל אסטרולוגיה בדרך כלל לא נאמרה שעובדת בצורה הזו. לפחות היהודים לא מאמינים שזה עובד ככה.
תלמיד: באיזה מובן אתה מדבר?
המרצה: רגע, רגע, רגע, לכולם יש כל כך הרבה שאלות ואני לא יכול אפילו לסיים פסקה אחת של מחשבה. אז הנקודה שלי היא שהדרך לומר את זה היא שדברים כמו...
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אתם צריכים להבין, מה זה בכלל אומר שביום מסוים זה היום המוצלח שלך? מה הופך ימים לימים, ושבועות לשבועות, ושבועות וחודשים לחודשים, ושנים לשנים?
אז, רבי עקיבא גילה משהו מאוד מעניין. רבי עקיבא גילה שכתוב בפסוק, והוא אומר, אה, רגע, אנחנו אלה שקוראים להם מועדים, נכון? כמובן, אנחנו קוראים להם על סמך משהו שאנחנו יודעים. הוא לא אומר שזה שרירותי שהאנשים שקוראים לזה יכולים פשוט לעשות מה שהם רוצים. הם צריכים לתעל את הכוכבים. הם צריכים לתעל את מה שקורה בשמים, אבל הם צריכים לתעל את זה.
וזה אומר שאם האנשים האלה אומרים לך ואתה מאמין להם — כל עוד אתה מאמין; אם אתה לא מאמין להם זה לא עובד — אבל אם האנשים האלה אומרים לך שהיום יום שלישי, אז זה יום שלישי. כי יום שלישי מעולם לא נגע בך בלי לעבור דרך אנשים.
אז במילים אחרות, יום שלישי שהיה קודם ביום שלישי הוא עכשיו ביום חמישי. יום שלישי יכול לחול ביום חמישי, אם בית הדין אומר כך. אין בעיה עם זה. וכל זה אמיתי, אבל שום דבר לא צריך להיות סובייקטיבי כדי שכל זה יעבוד.
אז עכשיו אנחנו מבינים שכשאנחנו אומרים שאנחנו מחלקים את הזמן בצורה אחרת, נכון? אז למשל, יש אדם — כמו שאנחנו יכולים להבין את זה — יש אנשים שאוהבים את ההתחלה של כל תקופת זמן. אז הם מצליחים. יש אנשים שמצליחים בסוף. יש אנשים שמצליחים בדיוק באמצע, וכן הלאה.
זה בעצם מה שכל השיוכים האסטרולוגיים האלה מסתכמים בו, נכון? כשאתה חותך את השנה ל-12 חלקים, או את מחזור השמש בין הכוכבים ל-12 חלקים, אז יש אנשים שנהנים מההתחלה, יש אנשים מהסוף, יש אנשים שמצליחים בשלב הזה של התהליך ואנשים בשלב ההוא של התהליך וכן הלאה.
אבל עכשיו כשזה יורד לאנשים, מה שתהליכים אומרים בשבילנו קשור לאיך שאנחנו שולטים בזמן שלנו, איך שאנחנו מסדרים את הזמן שלנו. אז אם אתה מסדר את הזמן שלך קצת לא במרכז ביחס לאיך שהכוכבים מסדרים את הזמן שלהם, זה הולך לתעל את הכוכבים דרך הדרך הזו.
אז אם אמרת שראש חודש הוא ביום ראשון ובאמת הוא ביום שני, אז יום שני עבר ליום ראשון. יום שני העליון עבר ליום ראשון התחתון. ועכשיו זה יום ראשון או יום שני, מה שאתה רוצה שזה יהיה. ועכשיו כל ההשפעות שיש — אנשים, יש אנשים שאוהבים יום ראשון, יש אנשים שאוהבים יום שני — זה הולך לקרות כשהרב אמר שזה משהו, לא כשיום ראשון ה"אמיתי" כביכול הוא בשמים. מאוד פשוט.
תלמיד: ואם אתה לא מבין, אתה צריך להשיג את זה. אתה צריך את המחזור כדי להיות מסוגל לתעל את הכוכבים, אבל אז כשאתה לא מדויק, אז גם הכוכבים לא מדויקים.
המרצה: כן.
תלמיד: אז אתה לא צריך את המחזור מלכתחילה. מה בדיוק — הבלבול הזה הוא הבלבול שלי.
המרצה: וזה — אבל זה — זה לא — זה כל כך בסיסי שזה מעבר לנישה שבכלל צריך להיות לך את זה. כי אם יש — אם יש — אם יש כמו זרם חשמלי, כמו שאני הולך להשתמש במשל הטיפשי שכולם משתמשים בו, אבל רק כדי שתראו שאין בעיה עם המסגרת.
אם יש זרם חשמלי גדול שיש לו שני קצוות, שיש לו צד חיובי וצד שלילי, וזה קבוע, אתה לא יכול לשנות את החיובי לשלילי. אבל כדי שאני אקבל את זה, אני צריך לחבר חוט ולהביא אותו עד למטה אליי ולעשות שנאי שגורם לזה לבוא קטן מספיק כדי שאוכל לעשות בו שימוש סופי, ואז אני מביא אותו אליי.
עכשיו המקום שבו השלילי מימין והחיובי משמאל או כך — ככה זה במקור. אבל כשאני מחבר את זה אליי, אני יכול לסובב את זה לכל הצדדים אם אני רוצה, וזה הולך להיות החיובי האמיתי משם והשלילי האמיתי משם. אבל כשהם מגיעים אליי, הם הולכים להיות — הם הולכים להיות הפוכים. הם הולכים להיות בצד ההפוך. אין בעיה עם זה. זה מאוד — כל זה מאוד אמיתי.
גם אתה צריך אותי וגם אני באמת מתעל את הדבר. אני לא יוצר אותו מחדש. אני מתעל את הדבר הזה. ויש לי מידה מסוימת של חופש לשים אותו איפה שאני רוצה.
לתעל פשוט אומר שאתה גורם לדבר שאתה מקבל לעבוד דרך הדרך שלך, מה שזה עושה. הכוכבים אומרים היום זה היום הראשון של השנה. יש אנשים שאוהבים את היום הראשון של השנה. הכוכבים — עכשיו, כן, יש מחזור והכוכבים אמיתיים. זה מחזור אמיתי. אל תגיד שזה לא.
ואז אמרתי, עכשיו הראשון הזה לא נוגע בי ישירות. הוא נוגע בי רק דרך כל סדרת הצינורות הזו — בני אדם, נשמות. אבל נקרא להם צינורות כדי שתבינו, כי אתם לא מבינים כשאני אומר את זה בצורה אחרת. אז בואו נקרא לזה צינורות.
ועכשיו השרברב האחרון בצינור יכול להזיז את זה יומיים או שלושה ימים או עשרה ימים — אני לא יודע כמה. יש גבול לכמה ימים אפשר להזיז, אבל אפשר להזיז קצת. ואז יהיה לך את הראשון. ואם אני אומר לך שהיום הוא הראשון כי זה מתי השנה התחילה, בואו נכוון את הכוכבים בכל התמונה הזו, אני עדיין יכול לעשות את אותו הדבר.
תלמיד: אני לא מבין שוב. אז אולי אתה — זה הגיוני. אני צריך חשמל שייכנס לקיר שלי. אני לא צריך את תחנת הכוח בכלל. זה מה שאתה אומר.
מרצה: תודה רבה. אתה לא צריך אותה. אתה לא צריך אותה. זה הגיוני. אולי גם אני לא מבין את זה, אז אני לא יודע. אני רק מעז להציע שזה הגיוני.
תלמיד: אתה פשוט נותן משל. אני חייב להקשות על המשל הזה.
מרצה: המשל אמור להסביר לך למה המבנה הוא מאוד טבעי.
הימים מתקצרים ומתארכים במהלך השנה, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אבל אתה לא חייב לשים לב לזה בדיוק כשזה קורה. אם אתה שם לב בעיכוב, אז זה מתי הם התקצרו.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: ההתקצרות האמיתית של הימים קרתה בשבילך בזמן שבו שמת לב או בזמן שמישהו אמר לך לשים לב, נכון? אני אומר שזה ב — נגיד שזה היום שבו השמש — השינוי בשמש — זה חמישה ימים אחרי השינוי בשמש, נכון?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: זה בדיוק מתי השמש התחילה לגדול. זו ההשפעה של השמש עליך שהיא בעצם איך שזה, נכון?
אני חושב שתמיד המציאות שונה כי השמש אפילו פיזית לוקח לה זמן ולוקח כמה תהליכים כדי להגיע אלינו וכן הלאה. אז הכל הוא כזה. אבל מה שאני אומר הוא שכוחות הנפש — כוח נפשי זו לא המילה — כוחות הנשמה, ברגע שהדברים עוברים דרך בני אדם, הם הופכים — הם מקבלים הרבה יותר דרגות חופש ממה שהיה להם.
תלמיד: כשאתה מדבר על כמו שהשמש לוקחת 8 דקות להגיע אלינו והכוכב שאתה רואה מת לפני 5 שנים וכן הלאה?
מרצה: כן, וזה הכל חלק — זה מעניין, נכון? אתה מדבר על מין נשמה, או מין אנושי, אבל זו שאלה אחרת. אני רק — בהנחה שזה עובד, אני עונה על שאלה בתוך מערכת.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: ואז תבוא לכאן להסביר את כל המערכת. אני רק אומר מה הכוונה שזה גורם לך להילחם טוב יותר?
יש אנשים שנלחמים — יש אנשים שנלחמים טוב יותר בבוקר, יש אנשים אחר הצהריים. עכשיו אם הדבר הזה אמיתי, זו השמש שגורמת להם עם בוקר ואחר הצהריים. זה לא המצאה אנושית. אבל אם אני מכבה את האורות ואומר להם לישון שעתיים מאוחר יותר, אז הבוקר הוא אז. ואז אנשי הבוקר שמחים אז. פשוט ככה. בדיוק כמו שאני יכול להפוך את הבוקר ללילה ואת הלילה לבוקר, אפשר — במידה מסוימת, במידה מסוימת כן, במידה מסוימת.
ולכן האנשים שחיים לפי ראש חודש, זה מתי החודש מתחיל. ואם זה התחיל ביום שהוא לא נכון לפי הירח, מה אכפת?
תלמיד: אז במובן מסוים, אתה יוצר את המזל שלך?
מרצה: אתה שולט בזה, אתה מתעל את זה. זו המילה שאני אוהב — תיעול. אנשים משתמשים בה, כנראה משתמשים יותר מדי, אבל זה רק הסבר קטן של מה זה. אתה מתעל את זה, כמובן. עכשיו, זה לא שלך, זה מה שאני אומר.
אנחנו מדברים על, למשל, תרבויות וכמו בית דין הזה —
מרצה: לא המקור, אבל אתה הצינור. כן, וגם לא רק אתה. דברים קשה לעשות לבד, את רוב הדברים המשמעותיים. לכן יש לנו בית דין, וזה מתעל את זה.
וכשהם — אם אנחנו מניחים שאיכשהו כשהם עושים ראש חודש, אז הם מחליטים שזה החודש ה-12 של השנה הסולארית הזו בערך — אז הפעמים הבודדות שהם עושים חודש 13, הם אומרים, זה ריק, אנחנו הולכים לעשות מה שאנחנו רוצים עם זה. ואז זה באמת ככה כי הם דחפו את כל השפע, כל האנרגיות, איך שתרצו לקרוא להם, של כל 12 הכוכבים לתוך 12 החודשים הקודמים. ואז נשאר להם זמן לעשות מה שהם רוצים. זה כל הטריק.
בדיוק כמו כל דבר. אם אתה מסיים את העבודה שלך, אתה יודע שיש אנשים שמקבלים משכורת כל שבועיים. בחלק מהחודשים יש להם שלוש, נכון? איך זה יכול להיות? בחלק יש חמישה שבועות. אז אתה מקבל בשבוע הראשון, השלישי בחודש, והחמישי. מצוין. אז החודשים האלה ארוכים יותר?
תלמיד: לא.
מרצה: הם ארוכים יותר. יש בהם יותר כסף. הם באמת עוזרים, תלוי איך אתה מצליב בין לוחות זמנים שונים.
תלמיד: הייחוסים שהם עושים עם זה לא ממש מתאימים. זה הולך הרבה מעבר למה שאתה אומר. זו הנקודה.
מרצה: ה?
תלמיד: מה שהם מייחסים לזה שמושפע מהדברים האלה הוא הרבה יותר ממה שההסבר שלך מציע.
מרצה: אני לא מבין. זו שאלה?
תלמיד: כן, כן.
מרצה: בסדר. יש לך הסבר איך זה עובד. הבעיה היא שהם אומרים שזה עובד לדברים שלא.
תלמיד: מי זה הם?
מרצה: הדבר הראשון שהתחלנו איתו, להילחם בימי הולדת.
תלמיד: לא, אף אחד לא עושה מה שאני אומר. אף אחד מעולם לא חשב שזה עובד בלי לעבור דרך נשמות. אז איך זה מסביר שאתה נלחם ביום הולדת או מישהו שנולד...
מרצה: לא הסברתי. הסברתי את מה שבאתי להסביר, בדיוק. כי האדם שהנשמה שלו הכוכב שלו עובר דרכה החליט שהחודש הזה שייך לו ולא לאיזה כוכב. וזה עובד. ולכן זה שייך לו, ולכן אתה נלחם טוב יותר לפי מה שהוא אמר שאתה צריך.
תלמיד: אפשר שיהיה לי יותר מאחד או רק חודש אחד?
מרצה: מה הכוונה יותר מאחד?
תלמיד: אפשר שיהיו לי כל החודשים או כולם חוץ מאחד?
מרצה: בטח. כלומר אתה לא יכול שיהיה לך יותר מאחד — לא בטוח מה השאלה. לא הגעתי לשם, בסדר. אני לא מנסה — תלוי בכמה לוחות שנה אתה שומר. אתה יכול לנסות לשמור יותר לוחות שנה. כמו שיש יהודים שכתבו פעמיים בשנה כי הם שומרים גם את השנה החדשה האזרחית וגם את ראש השנה הרגיל. לרוב האנשים זה מאוד קשה. כאילו אתה לוקח אחד ברצינות והשני הוא לא אמיתי. אבל אם אתה לוקח את שניהם ברצינות באיזושהי דרך, אז אתה בסדר.
אני חושב שזה מאוד קשה כי ההיגיון של שנה חדשה הוא שיש זמנים שהם לא שנה חדשה. זה מאוד קשה כאילו — רגע, לא, זה לא אמצע השנה, זו שנה חדשה. זו שנה חדשה סינית. כולם מרגישים את זה, אנשים שעובדים בקמעונאות ובדברים כאלה.
תלמיד: בסדר, כי אתה עובד עם אנשים שונים, לאנשים האלה יש את השפע הזה, יש את הדבר הזה.
מרצה: בסדר, אתה לא מבין מה שאני אומר, אז אני לא הולך להגיד דברים אחרים. אז הסיפור הוא כזה. אני לא יודע מה כל כך קשה להבין, אבל כנראה לא ככה.
מרצה: דיברנו בשבוע שעבר — המסקנה של השיעור הייתה שלא תחמוד הוא המקבילה הפנימית, כביכול, של כל המצוות שלפניו, או ספציפית ארבע המצוות שלפניו. זה מה שדיברנו. נכון?
תלמידים: נכון.
מרצה: עכשיו, אנחנו צריכים לדבר קצת על העובדה שזה לא באמת מקובל. יש מחלוקת גדולה על זה, והדרך שבה אנשים קוראים את זה קשורה מאוד לדרך שבה הם מבינים את כל הדברים שאנחנו מדברים עליהם, שזו הדיון על איך להיות אדם טוב ומה זה אומר להיות אדם טוב, בניגוד להיות אדם שעושה דברים טובים, נכון? סתם שיהיו לו מעשים טובים.
אז יש שתי קריאות מנוגדות של לא תחמוד הזה, המתאימות לשיטה הלא נכונה ולנכונה.
במילים אחרות, הלא נכונה היא מה שדיברנו עליו בתחילת השיעור הקודם, שהיא סוג של פנימיות שהיא כולה ממוקדת בעצמי, כולה על זה שאני מרגיש את הרגשות הנכונים או שיש לי את הרגשות הפנימיים הנכונים, הנטיות, דברים כאלה.
והשנייה, שמבינה את כל הפנימיות כמכוונת כלפי חוץ. זה פשוט, אתה מהסוג של אדם שאפשר לסמוך עליו, או שתמיד, מתוכו יזרמו המעשים החיצוניים, אבל זה עדיין מכוון כלפי האדם. אלה שתי הקריאות.
אני כנראה צריך לנסות לעשות קצת יותר צדק או קצת יותר עבור הקריאה הראשונה, כי אני מניח שיש בה איזה היגיון, איזו דרך שבה היא הגיונית. כדאי? אבל אני לא יודע איך לעשות את זה. אני כנראה צריך לתת לה קצת יותר חסד איכשהו.
מרצה: מה שאני יכול להגיד הוא ככה. קראתם חלק מהדברים האלה, נכון? אז מוסרנים מסוימים — אני לא בטוח מה רב לוצאטו [רבי משה חיים לוצאטו, בעל מסילת ישרים] אומר על זה. הוא מדבר על זה. אני פשוט לא זוכר איך התשובה שלו בדיוק.
אדם נוסף שנראה שהוא בצד הזה הוא רב אברהם אבן עזרא [רבנו אברהם אבן עזרא, פרשן מקרא מימי הביניים]. והאדם השלישי לפני כן שנראה שהוא בצד הלא נכון הוא יהודי בשם פילון [פילון האלכסנדרוני, פילוסוף יהודי מהמאה הראשונה].
אז פילון כתב את הספר הזה על עשרת הדיברות, כפי שדיברנו. וכשהוא מגיע ללא תחמוד, הוא נכנס לדרשה ארוכה ענקית שמתקיפה את התאווה. או ביוונית, שכחתי את המילה. המילה היא לתשוקה ותאווה. לשם הוא נכנס.
והוא מסביר שתאווה היא הדבר הכי גרוע. תאווה גורמת לכל הבעיות בעולם. גם מהסוג של בעיות של לאכול יותר מדי ולשתות יותר מדי ולגנוב ולהרגיש ולפגוע בעצמך ולפגוע באחרים, ולא להקדיש את החיים שלך לדברים הנכונים. כל סוגי הבעיות האלה מתחילים בתאווה.
והוא נראה אומר משהו מאוד מוזר, שהוא משהו כמו, מכיוון שכל הדברים הרעים שאנשים עושים, הם עושים כי הם רוצים, אם אנחנו רוצים לתקוף את הדבר הזה בשורשו, אנחנו צריכים לתקוף את הרצייה במקום את הדברים הרעים.
ויש לנו את המסגרת הזו, שהיא מסגרת שאנחנו מוצאים אצל הרבה מוסרנים, כאילו, אז איכשהו יש לה מקור, יש מקורות כמו אפלטון וכמה, אולי חלקים מחז"ל, שבהם אומרים דברים כמו, הבעיה היא הרצייה, או אפשר להגיד ספציפית רצייה שאינה מרוסנת על ידי השכל, נכון, אולי לא רצייה כשלעצמה, אבל זה לא תמיד — כן רצייה כשלעצמה, אבל לא לומר שאין רצונות טובים, אלא רצייה כשאתה נותן לעצמך לעשות מה שאתה רוצה.
את זה אנחנו שומעים אנשים אומרים, נכון? תן לעצמך לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, תהפוך לאדם הכי גרוע. אז לכן הדרך הבסיסית לא להיות אדם רע, הכי גרוע, היא לא סתם לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, לא ללכת אחרי התאוות שלך.
אז יש כאילו הצהרה כללית שאומרת שמוסר מסתכם ב, או במובן מאוד משמעותי הוא, אל תלך אחרי התאוות שלך. וזה נקרא לתוך לא תחמוד, או אל תלך אחרי התאוות שלך, אל תהיה אדם תאוותני. אל תחיה עם התאוות שלך. כי אנשים שעושים את זה, היום הם רוצים את זה, מחר הם רוצים את זה, וכל הרעות בעולם באות מאנשים שהולכים אחרי התאוות שלהם.
זו תיאוריה שמקודמת על ידי פילון ועל ידי מי עוד? אולי מפוקפק — אני חושב שאולי אבן עזרא נראה מבין את לא תחמוד בדרך הזו או מפורשות מבין את לא תחמוד בדרך הזו. אני אראה לכם אם תרצו, אבל אני לא בטוח שהוא מבין את זה בדרך הזו. אני אגיד לכם את הדרך השלישית להבין את זה. אז זו אולי הסיבה האמיתית של אבן עזרא. אבל פילון בוודאות מבין את זה בדרך הזו.
וזו דרך להבין את החיים שאני חושב שהגיונית איכשהו להרבה אנשים. כאילו הדבר העיקרי הוא להפסיק לעשות מה שאתה רוצה. זה מה שאמרתי? להפסיק לעשות מה שאתה רוצה? או לנסות לא לרצות את הדברים האלה? לא לרצות כל כך הרבה. להפסיק לרצות כל כך הרבה. זה כמו מלחמה נגד הרצייה. רצייה. רצייה זה לא תרגום מאוד טוב. משהו כמו תאווה או מה שאנחנו קוראים תאוה בשפה שלנו הוא תרגום יותר טוב.
תלמיד: למה אכפת לו אם אתה רוצה כל עוד אתה לא עושה את זה?
מרצה: מעניין, אנשים בדרך כלל בסוף עושים מה שהם רוצים. לא רק זה, כי אז מה שאתה עושה זה לא כל מה שאתה רוצה. והעניין הוא שרצייה, שתאווה היא משהו בלתי נשלט, נכון? משהו כמו, בסדר, היום אני רוצה להרוג אותך, מחר אני רוצה לישון עם אשתו של הבחור ההוא, ביום השלישי אני רוצה להיות מיליארדר, ביום הרביעי אני רוצה לטייל למקום כלשהו. רצייה היא משהו בלתי נשלט. אז אם זה הופך לקריטריון שלך בחיים, אז זה מאוד מבולגן. זה משהו כמו, אני חושב שזה משהו כמו התיאוריה.
תלמיד: למה זה אוטומטית מוביל לעשייה?
מרצה: רצייה פירושה רצייה לעשות. אין רצייה שהיא לא רצייה לעשות. אני לא חושב שמישהו חולק על זה. הנקודה היא שהם מבינים את הרוע כהיות של רוצה יותר מדי...
זו קריאה קצת, כמו שאמרתי, קצת יותר נדיבה. אפשר להבין את זה ככה. יש שני סוגי אנשים. יש אנשים שעושים מה שהם רוצים. יש אנשים שעושים מה שהם חושבים שנכון. בעולם אלים. ובכן, זו דרך סבירה לתאר בני אדם. זה לא מטורף. אני חושב שזה לא עושה מספיק צדק לסוג התאווה שקיים, אבל...
אין דברים חיצוניים, נגיד, שמחזיקים אותו מלעשות מה שהוא רוצה. לפעמים, בסדר, לפעמים. אז הוא יכול להיות אדם שרוצה, אבל לא עושה יותר מזה או מה שזה לא יהיה. אבל ברוב המקרים לא, ברוב המקרים לא, נכון?
תלמיד: איפה שיש לנו את זה, אני לא בטוח למה, כאילו... אני לא יודע, נגיד שהוא מפחד שיתפסו אותו או אני לא יודע, מה שזה לא יהיה. אתה יודע, הוא פשוט לא רוצה להתמודד עם ההשלכות של הכל.
מרצה: אבל אתה יודע את האמת שאנחנו לא — בדרך כלל לא תופסים אותך. מה? בדרך כלל לא תופסים אותך. אני לא יודע אם אתה יודע — אתה שומע על אלה שנתפסו. אני לא המוצא מכאן.
במילים אחרות, אתה שואל משהו כמו למה אנשים יחשבו שתאווה — אני מתלונן אבל זו לא הבעיה. תדבר על דברים שאתה יכול לעשות — הם יכולים להיות — אתה יכול להלחיץ את כל הגלידה. לא תופסים אותך על זה. אבל למשל, אתה יכול לאכול את כל החזיר בעולם, בסדר? זו דוגמה נוספת. לא יתפסו אותך.
במילים אחרות, יש הרבה מאוד דרכים להרוס את עצמך בלי להרוס אנשים אחרים מתוך תאווה, נכון? ובדרך כלל אנשים — זה בכוחך. זה לא — זו לא השאלה אם זה הולך לקרות. אבל כמובן תאווה פירושה אני הולך לעשות את זה או לא הולך לעשות כל מה שאני מתאווה, כי בדרך כלל אתה יכול — אתה מתאווה ליותר דברים ממה שאתה רוצה — ממה שאתה מצליח לעשות או יכול לעשות. אבל אתה תעשה, וזה משהו בלתי נשלט. זה מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו.
ההיגיון הזה אומר משהו, ואני חושב שאם רוצים להבין את זה — וזו הדרך שבה זה נכון — הייתי מבקר את זה בצורה אחרת, אבל הדרך שבה זה נכון היא שהקריטריון — הדבר שהם רואים כטוב — לא יכול להיות התשובה לשאלה מהו הטוב, מה אתה עושה, על מה אתה מבסס את ההחלטות שלך מה לעשות בחיים, לא יכול להיות מה שאתה רוצה, מה שאתה מתאווה אליו. כי זה משהו בלתי מוגבל. זה משהו שיכול להיות כל דבר. זו נקודה אפשרית שקורית, אבל זה לא מה שאתה שואף אליו, מה שקורה.
תלמיד: שהדבר הנכון הוא משהו שאתה רוצה?
מרצה: ובכן, זה מה שמשמעות להיות אלוקי. שחמת׳ניק — פירושו אדם שעושה מה שהוא אוהב, אבל לא מה שהוא רוצה או מה שהוא מתאווה אליו. זה סוג מוזר של אדם. אנשים כאלה הם בדרך כלל הגרועים ביותר. ולכן תאמן את עצמך לא להיות אדם כזה.
כל פעם שאתה מתאווה למשהו — אתם מכירים את הסיפור, איזה סיפור שמיוחס לרבנים שונים — כאילו הוא בסדר ואז הוא רעב או צמא או משהו כזה, והבן אדם אומר לו אז למה אתה לא אוכל? כי אבא שלי לימד אותי שלא עושים מה שרוצים, נכון? לא שותים כשצמאים. שותים כשצריכים לשתות.
זה סוג האימון שעומד מאחורי זה. אפשר לראות שזה הגיוני — לא בגלל שזה רע לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, אלא בגלל שדבר אחד הוא לא סיבה מספיק טובה לעשות דברים, או שהוא לא צריך להיות הסיבה העיקרית לעשות דברים.
אם תרצו, נוכל לומר תענוג, נכון? תענוג גופני, כי בדרך כלל כשאנשים מדברים על זה הם מדברים על תענוג גופני, נכון? אל תעשה את התענוג לאלוה שלך, נכון? אל תעשה אותו לדבר שקובע אצלך מה נכון ומה לא נכון. כי זה משהו מאוד בלתי מוגבל, מאוד פרוע, מאוד חסר ריסון.
ואפשר לומר סיפור שבו לכל הרעות בעולם יש את מקורן בזה. זה הסיפור שפרעה אומר. אפלטון אומר את זה לפעמים. אולי בחז״ל לפעמים הם מדברים על היצר הרע כמקור כל הרעות, ולפעמים מה שהם מתכוונים זה פשוט שהתאווה היא מקור כל הרעות.
כי אחרת ליצר הרע אין תוכן משמעותי, נכון? יצר הרע זה הרצון לעשות רע, תודה רבה. הרבה פעמים כשחז״ל מדברים על יצר הרע כמקור, כאילו יש להם את הרעיון הזה של יצר הרע כמקור הרע, מה שהם מתכוונים לומר זה שהתאווה היא מה שגורם לרוב הדברים הרעים. או בדרך אחרת, ללכת אחרי היצר הרע, נכון? במילים אחרות, ללכת אחרי מה שאתה חושב שיהיה לך מהנה.
אז זו קריאה סבירה של הפירוש הזה, של ההבנה הזו.
למה אני חושב שיש פה משהו מוזר? למה זה לא מוצא חן בעיניי?
תלמיד: אבל אז כל מה שאתה עושה זה אף פעם לא דבר שאתה מתאווה אליו.
מרצה: ובכן, כמו שאמרתי, כש... לא אמרתי את זה. אתה יכול להוסיף תאווה לדברים שאתה עושה, אבל זה לא צריך להיות הסיבה שאתה עושה אותם. שמעתם על אימונים כאלה, על אנשים שמדברים ככה, כמו מוסר. מוסר זה הכל על לא לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, לא ללכת אחרי התאוות שלך.
זה קצת מפספס את הנקודה. איזו נקודה זה מפספס? אני לא יודע אם זו הדרך הנכונה — אולי שאפשר להיות אדם שרוצה את הדברים הנכונים, ואז אתה צריך לאהוב את התאווה שלך, בעצם.
תלמיד: זה מדבר רק על אדם רע, בעצם.
מרצה: ובכן, שוב, אבל אני הולך לתת לך את התשובה שלי שוב. זה מדבר על מישהו — כשאנחנו מדברים נגד תאוות, אנחנו מדברים נגד להפוך את התאוות לקריטריון שלך לטוב. ובכן, זה הגיוני.
אז מה צריך להיות הקריטריון שלך? אה, משהו כמו — לכן תאווה בדרך כלל מוצבת מול השכל, או הריסון, או הגבול.
תלמיד: זה מה שזה אומר, נכון? תמיד יש את ה... כל פעם שמישהו אומר אל תהיה בעל תאווה, נכון? אל תהיה חמד׳ניק, אלא תהיה שכל׳ניק או משהו כזה.
מרצה: אז אל תהיה אדם סביר אלא ירא — איך אנשים עושים את זה... אני לא יודע איך אנשים עושים.
תלמיד: רציתי לומר שזה מאוד טוב.
מרצה: בדיוק. אז התיאוריה הזו אומרת — התיאוריה הזו — במילים אחרות, עשינו — דנו בזה בפעם שעברה.
יש את השאלה הזו למה יש רשימה ארוכה אחרי החמדה, ויש שתי קריאות הפוכות שלה. הקריאה שלי היא שהחמדה היא של אותם דברים. אבל הקריאה הזו היא ההפך — שהמקור של כל הדברים האלה הוא משהו יותר עמום ויותר בסיסי שנקרא חמדה.
אם תהיה חמד׳ניק, תגיע ל... אבל הבעיה היא שהדרך שבה הם ממסגרים את הבעיה היא שהדבר האחד הוא הבעיה. זה ההפך. ולכן הם היו אומרים שהחמדה היא מצווה חדשה. היא מוסיפה מידע — לא כמו שאמרתי בשבוע שעבר, לא כמו המהר״ש, שאומר שזה לא באמת מוסיף כלום. כל מה שזה מוסיף זה אל תהיה מהסוג של אדם שרוצה את כל הדברים האלה ועושה את כל הדברים האלה.
מה שהם אומרים זה שזה מוסיף — לא, זה מוסיף דבר כללי — נוכל לקרוא לזה דרך כללית לעבוד על עצמך, נכון? דרך כללית להיות אדם טוב, שזה דבר חדש לגמרי. המצווה נראית כחושבת דברים כאלה, נכון? יש תחום חדש שנקרא מצווה, שמשמעותו משהו כמו — במקום שפשוט כמו שבעלי בתים היו אומרים — אם אתה רק הולך לעבוד על לאהוב את הדברים הנכונים או כמו לא לאכול משהו שלא שלך, או דברים שהם לא כשרים, או דברים כאלה, אז עדיין תהיה לך התאווה, שהיא מקור הבעיה, שהיא מה שגורם לכל האנשים האלה.
אז יש לי דרך פשוטה יותר בשבילך לחיות. פשוט תפסיק להיות אדם תאוותני, ואז תפתור את כל הבעיות בחיים בבת אחת, במובן מסוים. זה נראה כטיעון בעד דרך החשיבה הזו.
והם אומרים את ההפך. אם לא תפתור את התאווה, אז תהיה לך תאווה אחת, ותאכל חזיר.
תלמיד: זה יהיה אותו דבר. זו לא כדור. זה סוג של עבודה.
מרצה: אותו דבר גם לפי הגישה הזו. לא כדור. לא, כדור זו לא דוגמה טובה כי כדור זה — אתה חושב על לפתור את התחושה הפיזית, כמו לחתוך את ה... להסתגף או משהו כזה. זו לא התגובה המדויקת כאן. מה שנאמר כאן זה להפוך לסוג אחר של אדם, נכון? להפוך לאדם שנשלט על ידי השכל שלו, לא על ידי ה... וכולי.
להפוך לאדם שנשלט על ידי — כמו שרבנים אמרו — יש הרבה נימוקים לזה. נימוק אחד יהיה לומר יש לי פתרון לכל הבעיות שלך בחיים. מה זה אומר? הוא לא אומר, ובכן, זה מפרט לעשות את כל הדברים הטובים ולא לעשות את כל הדברים הרעים. הוא אומר לא, יש לי דרך פשוטה יותר בשבילך לעבוד, או דרך פנימית יותר בשבילך לעבוד. תהפוך לסוג של אדם שהולך אחרי היצר הטוב שלו, שמשמעותו הדחף הטוב שלו — במילים אחרות, הדחף השכלי שלו — או שאפשר לומר לך אחרי התורה, ציית לחוק אם תרצה, ואל תציית ליצר הרע, אל תציית לתאוות שלך.
זה לא כל כך מטורף — זה לא כל כך מטורף כמו שהצגתי את זה. זו כל הנקודה.
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא. אני לא מתכוון אפילו לדבר הנכון. נגיד אדם, נכון? אתה יכול או ללכת ל... יש לך חשק עכשיו לשני דברים. או ללכת למועדון חשפנות או ללכת ולחדש חידושי תורה. כן? ממש — רגע, רגע, אני הולך לספר לך משהו. זה חי בתוכי. כן? אני אומר, בתוך אותו אדם.
מרצה: כן, כן, כן. אתה הולך ועכשיו יושב לשש השעות הבאות ו...
תלמיד: אז שוב, היהודי שאומר את זה יגיד לך, יש לך בעיה נוספת מלבד ה... אתה לא... הבעיה שלך — כלומר עכשיו יש לך את הבעיה של לבחור בין התאוות האלה או להחליט איזו מהן טובה. יש לי פתרון בשבילך שיפתור את הכל. העקותא שלי — אל... כשאתה מחליט לאן ללכת הערב, אל תחליט על סמך לאן אתה מתאווה ללכת. תחליט על סמך מה נכון או על סמך מה היראה אומרת או משהו כזה. ולכן אוטומטית לא תהיה לך את השאלה הזו יותר. פשוט תלך לבית הכנסת כי זה הדבר הנכון לעשות.
מרצה: לא, לא, לא. מה שאני אומר זה שכולנו יודעים מה התאווה הטובה כאן, נכון? לעומת מה התאווה הרעה.
תלמיד: לא, תאווה היא רעה. אין תאוות טובות בזה.
מרצה: זה מה שאני שואל. האם אפשר פשוט שתהיה תאווה טובה?
תלמיד: לא, כי כשאני אומר תאווה, אני לא מתכוון לאהוב משהו. רק שיהיה ברור, המילה תאווה מתכוונת למשהו אחר כאן. המילה תאווה מתכוונת לתאווה כמקור הטוב, כקריטריון של הטוב, כקריטריון של פעולה. זה מה שאנחנו באמת מתכוונים.
מרצה: כן, כן, זה מה שזה אומר.
תלמיד: לא משנים הגדרה. זה מה שזה אומר. כל פעם שמישהו נותן לך את הדרשה הזו נגד להיות בעל תאווה, זה מה שהם מתכוונים.
תלמיד: אין תאוות טובות בזה. זה מה שאני שואל. האם אפשר פשוט שתהיה תאווה טובה?
מרצה: לא, כי כשאני אומר תאווה, אני לא מתכוון לאהוב משהו. רק שיהיה ברור, המילה תאווה מתכוונת למשהו אחר. המילה תאווה מתכוונת לתאווה כמקור הטוב. כקריטריון של הטוב. כקריטריון של פעולה. זה מה שאנחנו באמת מתכוונים.
תלמיד: אבל עכשיו אתה פשוט משנה את ההגדרה.
מרצה: כן, זה מה שזה אומר. לא משנים את ההגדרה, זה מה שזה אומר. כל פעם שמישהו נותן לך את הדרשה הזו נגד להיות בעל תאווה, זה מה שהם מתכוונים. ברור שזה על זה, נכון? והאדם השני חולק על זה, רק שיהיה ברור, זו המחלוקת.
אם לרצות משהו צריך להיות הסיבה שבגללה אתה עושה דברים. תאווה, דבר אחד זה קצת יותר מדי רחב, אבל כן, תאווה. כלומר לחשוב שזה יביא לך תענוג, או משהו כזה, או כבוד, או אולי סתם תאוות שונות אבל אז תאוות לא רציונליות אתה לא צריך לעשות שום דבר על בסיס זה כן אפילו אם הם דברים טובים הנקודה היא שתאווה היא לא דבר טוב אין תאוות טובות.
תאווה טובה — כשאני אומר תאווה אני מתכוון לתאווה בלתי מבוקרת, נכון? זה מה שאני מתכוון. כשאתה אומר את התאווה שהמומחה מסווה, כשאתה מדבר על משהו אחר אתה מדבר על סוג של — אגב, דרך אחרת אם אתה רוצה לפרט את זה ככה, אתה יכול לפרט את זה כמישהו שיש לו איזו תאווה מטורפת ללמוד — זה גם דבר רע. כן, צריך שתהיה לך תאווה סבירה ללמוד, אבל זו לא תאווה. אז אתה לא הולך אחרי תאווה. אתה נהנה מזה. זה לא נגד ליהנות מדברים טובים. זה נגד ההנאה, שהיא מטבעה דבר בלתי מבוקר, שתהיה המדריך של הפעולות שלך.
אז שתי השיטות אומרות, אחת היא פשוט להילחם במושג התאווה, או לתעל את מושג התאווה. ובכן, השיטה השנייה אומרת שזו לא דרך טובה מאוד למסגר דברים. זו בעיקר שאלה של איך למסגר את הדבר ב... נגיד הפעולה עצמה שהיא רעה, הם מתמקדים באיפה — איפה ה... שזה תמיד רע. שוב, האדם הזה אומר שלא תחמוד זה דבר ש... לא, לכן הוא חולק עליך. הוא אומר שלא תחמוד אומר אל תהיה אדם תאוותני, ש... להיות תאוותן... כן.
השיטה השנייה אומרת, עכשיו נוכל לחזור לחשוב מה השיטה השנייה אומרת, כי עכשיו אתם לפחות מבינים מה הבן אדם הזה אומר. הוא לא סתם אומר דברים אקראיים, אל תעשה דברים שאתה אוהב. הוא אומר שלאהוב זו לא סיבה לעשות דברים.
עכשיו, האדם השני אומר, ובכן, הבעיה עם התיאוריה שלך היא שהיא לא מפורטת דיה. אתה חושב שאתה הולך להפוך אותי לאדם פחות תאוותני וזה נשמע נכון. זה נשמע נכון שאדם פחות תאוותני יהיו לו חיים טובים יותר ותהיה לו פחות תאוותנות, כמו שהיית אומר. נכון? יהיו לך פחות בעיות לפתור. אבל, האדם הזה יגיד לך, ואם אתה מתכוון לזה, זה במידה מסוימת נכון אפילו. אנחנו מסכימים שתאווה לא צריכה להיות הקריטריון. או בדרך אחרת לומר משהו כמו, אם אתה אומר, יש חיים של תענוג, או חיים של תאווה מול חיים של שכל, או חיים של ריסון, או חיים של דרך אחרת לומר את הטוב, אני מסכים איתך מאה אחוז. אין ויכוח על זה. אין ויכוח.
הוויכוח הוא אם זו דרך טובה מאוד לפרט איך לעבוד. למה? כי האדם השני אומר שאתה מניח שהדרך שבה אנשים באמת עובדים רוב הזמן היא על ידי החלטה אם תאווה היא הקריטריון שלהם. ככה החלטות מתקבלות או ככה מריבות קורות או ככה מאבקים פנימיים קורים. אבל אני חושב שזה לא באמת קורה.
אז יש כמה דברים אבל בואו — זה הדבר הראשון שהוא העיקרי שהוא היה אומר. הוא היה אומר משהו כמו לא, תאווה במובן הרחב, דווקא במובן הרחב שאתה אומר — אם אתה מדבר על תאווה בלתי מבוקרת, אף אחד לא חולק שזה דבר רע כשלעצמו. זו כמו מידה רעה. יש דבר רע ספציפי וזו עשויה להיות אחת המידות הרעות שאני אהיה נגדן כשאגיע לחשבון המפורט שלי של מידות רעות. אחת מהן היא לרדוף אחרי תאוות בלתי מבוקרות או תענוגות בלתי מבוקרים. אין בעיה עם זה.
אבל מה שאני חולק עליו זה שזה כלל טוב, זו הכללה טובה של להפוך לאדם טוב. ולמה? כי אני אומר לך תסתכל סביב בחיים, תחשוב על החיים שלך, תחשוב על הפעמים שבהן היה לך איזה שהוא התקדמות מוסרית או נסיגה או ויכוחים או קונפליקטים, קונפליקטים פנימיים וכדומה. ותמצא לי אחד שאפשר לתאר אותו היטב על ידי הסיפור הזה. ואני חושב שאין כזה.
תתאר סיפור של להתאוות למשהו. של להחליט אם תאווה היא הקריטריון. כלומר במובן הטוב של הדברים. כמו כשאתה רוצה לעשות טוב.
תלמיד: אני חושב שתאווה היא קריטריון מאוד טוב להרבה דברים טובים. אני חושב שבעסקים, זה כמו, כן, לפעמים יש לך את התשוקה הזו, את התאווה הזו ליצור את האינטרנט.
מרצה: אה, אף אחד לא חולק שמה שאתה מתאר זה רע. זה תיאור של היצר הרע. נכון, אבל זה מביא תוצאות טובות.
תלמיד: לא, זה מביא תוצאות רעות.
מרצה: באמת?
תלמיד: כן, בטח.
מרצה: אילו תוצאות רעות?
תלמיד: כולם, אף אחד, זה כמו — ואם זה עושה משהו עם תשוקה, אני חושב שזה יוצר —
מרצה: כן, מאוד טוב. זו היפוך מודרני וקיצוני של אתיקה. תשוקה לא הופכת דברים לטובים. התוצאות לא טובות. על מה אתה מדבר? אם התוצאות טובות, הן טובות אחרי שנשלטו. הן לא טובות. על מה אתה מדבר? התוצאות לא טובות. התוצאות של ללכת אחרי התשוקות שלך הן בהגדרה רעות כי רע פשוט אומר ללא הדרכה, ללא שכל, ללא רעיון של איך זה טוב.
לא, לא, לא, לא. זה בדיוק ההפך. בדיוק ההפך. זו הדוגמה בכל ענין. רק שיהיה ברור, כל ענין דומה ישתמש בכל הדוגמאות האלה שאתה מביא כדוגמה לחיים שהשתבשו לחלוטין כי היו לו חיים רעים. הוא רודף אחרי כסף כל חייו ואחרי בנות. מה זה בכלל לחיים כאלה?
תלמיד: כן, בהחלט.
מרצה: אה, כסף, שאפתנות, כוח - זה מה שזה, נכון? מה כל כך טוב בזה? המודלים לחיקוי שלך הם רשעים.
תלמיד: אלא אם כן זו לא השאיפה שלי עכשיו.
מרצה: כן, מבוסס על - מבוסס על - מבוסס על - מבוסס על - מבוסס על מה שאני רוצה, לא מבוסס על שום רעיון של משהו אחר. אנשים עושים יותר קל, אנשים עושים הרבה - המערי באמת עשה את זה. ואז מה? מה זאת אומרת ואז מה? אז מה היה התשוקה שלהם אחרי זה? עדיין הייתה להם התשוקה, נכון?
תלמיד: תשוקה למה?
מרצה: הם לא חידשו שום דברים חדשים. הוא פשוט המציא מכונית. ואז רכב על זה. זה דבר רע. אני לא מבין למה אתה חושב שזה דבר טוב. אין לי מושג.
אם זה דבר טוב, אז אתה לא צריך תשוקה כדי להסביר למה זה דבר טוב. כשאתה הופך את התשוקה לדבר טוב, זו בדיוק הבעיה. במילים אחרות, אין שום דבר שמבחין בין מה שאתה משום מה משבח לבין הבחור שהתשוקה שלו הייתה להרוג כמה שיותר זונות ובסוף הרג 102. אני לא יודע, איזה רוצח סדרתי. תשוקה אדירה, אל תשאל אותי. והוא תכנן את זה ויצר מערכת שלמה, איך לעבוד עם זה, ואז עוד לא נתפס או כן נתפס או מה שלא יהיה, וזה היה חלק מהתוכנית. מי יודע? כלומר, תשוקה לא יכולה להיות סיבה לעשות דברים.
תלמיד: האם אמרתי את זה, אני יודע על מה אתה מדבר, אבל זה לא - אני צריך להגיע לצד השני עכשיו. אני חושב שתשוקה היא מניע נהדר ליצירה.
מרצה: שוב, אם אנחנו מדברים על סיבה שדברים יהיו טובים, דרך חיים מבוססת על זה היא כמעט ההגדרה של רוע, דווקא בדוגמאות שאתה מביא. זה מה שהיצר אומר. זה אומר שאתה חי את כל חייך בעבודת היצר ובמילוי התאוות שלך, או שאפשר לקרוא להן - דווקא התאוות הלא-מנומקות שלך.
אם מישהו אומר את ההפך, אם מישהו אומר, אני חושב שזה כל כך טוב עכשיו, ומכיוון שזה כל כך טוב, אני משתוקק לזה, אז זה לא הרצון שמוביל אותך, זה הטוב שמוביל אותך. זה סיפור שונה מאוד. אבל אם אתה אומר את הסיפור כאילו התשוקה היא המניעה, הסיבה, אז זה סיפור מאוד מוזר לחשוב שהוא טוב. זה נשמע מאוד מוזר. כמו אחשורוש.
אני חושב שהרבה אנשים שהם כאלה - אני חושב שהרבה פעמים מתארים רופאים רעים כאנשים שכמעט רוצים שאנשים יהיו חולים כדי לרפא אותם. כי יש להם תשוקה כזו לרפא אנשים, נכון? וזה אפילו לא תשוקה לרפא אנשים, זו תשוקה להיות האחראי על הריפוי שלהם, נכון? זו תשוקה לכבוד, זו תשוקה לכבוד.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן, אבל זה יהיה שונה מרופא שחושב שסרטן זה כל כך נורא שהוא רוצה לעשות משהו בנידון. בעצם, הבחור שיש לו את המדבקות לדבר.
מרצה: כן, כן, כן. הבחור שמחזיק את הספר בחזרה.
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן, בדיוק. הוא הרופא שאוהב בריאות כל כך, או חושב שבריאות היא דבר כל כך טוב שיש לו תשוקה לזה. אבל הוא בעצם מאוד טוב במה שהוא עושה. אתה צריך את הניתוח.
מרצה: כן, כן, אבל לא, לא. אני טוען שהרופא הרע הוא זה שמנסה לרפא אנשים והרופא הטוב הוא זה שמנסה לרפא מחלות.
תלמיד: אל תשכח לקחת את הספר החמישי שלך.
מרצה: בכל מקרה, אני לא הולך להיכנס לזה.
אתם צריכים לשים לב שיש אידיאל מודרני של שבח לתשוקה, שזה בדיוק הדבר שמתואר כרוע מפלצתי בכל ספר לפני בערך 1600. אתם צריכים לשים לב לזה לפחות. זה אחד הדברים שלי. פשוט שימו לב. יש פה משהו ממש מוזר שקורה.
אוקיי, עכשיו בואו נמשיך. אני לא שואל, אני פשוט אומר לך. תראה, זה נהדר - לא נהדר במובן של גדול. כן, אף אחד לא חולק על זה. זו הבעיה. יותר גרוע, אתה מתכוון. אתה מתכוון יותר גרוע. זה דבר ממש רע. אני ממש נגד זה. אתה צריך לבוא לכאן בשבת ולשמוע אותי מסביר למה מכוניות הן -
מרצה: אבל זה הדבר הכי גרוע. או לא הדבר הכי גרוע, זה מה שנתפס באופן מסורתי כדבר הכי גרוע. אני כאן כדי להתווכח עם הפישוט הזה, אבל אתה צריך להבין מה זה. להיות מסוגל לעשות מה שאתה רוצה, זה מה שהסולטן אמר. למה להיות מסוגל לעשות כל מיני דברים יהיה דבר טוב? זה דבר רע.
תלמיד: בפי שלי -
מרצה: לא, לא, אני לא שם את זה בפי. אני אומר שהמשל הוא - נגיד כמו שאמרתי, אני רוצה לבוא לשיעור הזה כל כך, כל כך. זה יכול היה לקחת לי או 17 דקות או שזה יכול היה להיות 3 שעות.
תלמיד: לא, לא, זה סתם - אוי אלוהים, אוי אלוהים, לא, לא, זה לא נכון. קודם כל זה לא נכון, לא, לא, זה לא משל טוב כי כאילו, סתם כאילו, אתה צריך לחשוב לפני שאתה מדבר. כאילו מה אתה בכלל אומר? כאילו מה, זה פותר בעיה. זה באמת למה מכוניות -
מרצה: שצריך לבוא לשיעור הזה? אני יכול לדעת שזה לא זמן שאנחנו מראים את זה. אני אפילו לא יכול להיכנס לזה כי אם אתה צריך לחשוב על זה, כאילו אתה צריך לנסות לפרק את זה ולהבין מה עומד מאחורי המחשבה שזה טוב. כי זה לא טוב. אני לא חושב שזה טוב. אני אפילו לא חושב שזה טוב. אתה צריך לדבר עם הגיליון שלי בעוד 70 דקות. אני חושב שזה ממש רע. אני חושב שזה עושה את השיעור יותר גרוע, עושה אותך יותר גרוע, עושה את כל העולם יותר גרוע. אבל זה רק אני נותן טיעון חיובי למה זה יהיה ככה.
תלמיד: אני לא צופה בך עכשיו אונליין -
מרצה: זה עושה את זה יותר טוב? יותר גרוע, כמובן. עושה את העולם יותר גרוע. העובדה שאתה יכול לצפות בי אונליין בלי לבוא לכאן עושה את העולם יותר גרוע. כמובן שכן. עכשיו, מכיוון שאנחנו חיים בעולם הרע, האם כדאי לך לצפות בי במקום בשטויות אחרות? זו דיון אחר. אבל כמובן שהיכולת, הרחבת היכולת, היא כמו הרחבת התאווה. ולכן ככל שאדם הוא מסוג האנשים שיכולים לעשות מה שהם רוצים, וכל הטכנולוגיה הזו כשהיא משובחת, היא משובחת בדיוק בדרך הזו - היא מרחיבה את החופש של בני האדם. עכשיו אתה יכול לעשות מה שאתה רוצה. במילים אחרות, זה עושה אותנו אנשים יותר גרועים. סוג השבח הזה הוא שבח של הרוע.
תלמיד: ובכן, האם אתה לא צריך יכולת גדולה כדי לעשות דברים טובים גדולים גם?
מרצה: כן, אבל הטוב לא מורכב מהיכולת. הטוב מורכב בדיוק מלשים גבול על היכולת ולומר שאתה עושה את זה רק בדרך הזו. עכשיו זה לא שבח לממציא. זה שבח לי שמשתמש בזה רק בדרך הטובה. אבל לכן אני לא חייב שום דבר לבחור שהמציא את האינטרנט, כי הוא רק נתן לי את היצר הרע. בדיוק כמו שאני לא חייב שום דבר לגוף שלי או למה שזה לא יהיה שהוא הבסיס של הדברים שאנחנו פועלים בחיים, הדברים שרוצים. הדבר שמקבל שבח או ראוי לשבח הוא מה ששם גבולות על זה, לא מה שיוצר את היכולת. נכון? יצירת יכולות היא תמיד רעה. זו ההגדרה של רע.
מרצה: אז בואו נחזור לזה שרע כאן הוא לא כל כך רע, רק שיהיה ברור. רע הוא הבסיס של טוב, תמיד. אז הממציא של הגלגל הוא גם בחור מאוד מטורף. קראת את הסיפור? קראת אי פעם את הסיפור הזה? זה מה שכתוב שם. קראת את המיתוס של פרומתאוס? כמו היחידות הבסיסיות הבסיסיות האלה שכולן אומרות שהרחבת יכולות היא רעה. שום דבר חדש כאן. ושוב, האם זה אומר שאין מה לעשות אחרי זה? לא. אבל השבח של בדיוק מה שנתפס כבעיה כפתרון - זה היפוך אמיתי. זה ממש מוזר.
כאילו, אתה מאפשר לי לבוא לשיעור? אפשור הוא דבר רע. אתה יכול - אם היה מישהו מהם שהיה ממציא מכונה שגורמת לך לבוא כי היא לא 17 דקות, זה היה המצאה טובה. אבל אפשור הוא המצאה רעה. ולצערנו, מכוניות לא גורמות לך לבוא לשיעור. הן מאפשרות לך.
תלמיד: קו חדש של מכוניות.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: זה היה קו טוב של מכוניות.
מרצה: הבעיה היא שמכוניות כהמצאה חומרית לא יכולות להיות כזה. כי זה מה שחומר הוא - פוטנציאל. זה לא יכול להיות כזה. הסוג היחיד של המצאה שהיא כזו הוא דברים שממציאים דתות או שממציאים תרבויות או שממציאים איזשהן מערכות חברתיות אנושיות נפשיות שעובדות על נפשות אנושיות כדי להגביל אותן, ללמד אותן מה טוב.
מרצה: והאם זה קורה עם שאפתנות גדולה או תשוקה גדולה? אפשר לתאר את זה ככה, אבל מעולם לא שמעתי מישהו מתאר את משה רבנו או אפילו כל מייסד דת אחר כבחור של תשוקה גדולה. יש להם דרכים אחרות לתאר אותם. למה? לא בגלל שהם לא עבדו עם תשוקה גדולה - צריך אנרגיה רגשית גדולה, כמו שאנחנו קוראים לזה, כדי להיות כזה. אבל הסיבה שהם לא מתוארים ככה, כי זה לא הדבר העיקרי שעושה אותם מעניינים. הדבר העיקרי שעושה אותם מעניינים הוא ההגבלות שיש להם, נכון? רעיונות של מה טוב ומה רע. משה היה זה שבא עם 365 דרכים להיות רע ו-248 דרכים להיות טוב. זה היה כל העניין שלו.
תלמיד: מה זה אומר אהבה עזה כשאנחנו מדברים על אהבת ה', כמו התיאור של המשכו? מה זה אומר?
מרצה: לא אומר כלום. אתה לא צריך לקרוא את הספרים האלה שאומרים את הדברים האלה.
תלמיד: הרמב"ם אומר את הדברים האלה. הרמב"ם אומר -
מרצה: הרמב"ם אומר, אבל אהבת ה' צריכה להיות כמו -
תלמיד: אוקיי, אתה לא קראת את זה.
מרצה: אתה לא קראת את זה טוב. אני יודע שזו קריאה שגויה חסידית של הרמב"ם, מאה אחוז. הרמב"ם לא אמר את זה וזה ככה. עכשיו אני הולך לספר לך על החסידים. כן. החסידים הם - אני יודע, אבל הלכת לחסידים והם נתנו לך את המשקפיים האלה ועכשיו אתה רואה את השבח המוזר והרע הזה של תשוקה בלתי מרוסנת כדבר טוב, אפילו ברדיפת הטוב. ובגלל שהם חיו אחרי, אתה יודע, תקופה מסוימת. וזה מוזר. כאילו, הרומנטיזציה הזו של תשוקה גדולה לה'. זה שטויות. תשוקה גדולה לה' רק גורמת לבעיות.
מרצה: שמעת פעם את הסיפור של עולם התוהו של הקבלה? שמעת? אתה יודע למה הכלים נשברו? כי הם רצו את ה' יותר מדי. זה דבר רע. התשובה של ה' הייתה, בבקשה אל תעשו. הם קראו את הסיפור. כל הסיפורים הם ההפך. הם יוצרים גבולות. הם לא יוצרים גאווה. הרמב"ם, כמובן, לא אומר את זה. הוא אומר את ההפך.
תלמיד: שם היה שמח עם זה.
מרצה: שם היה מאוד שמח. כמובן שיש גמרא שאומרת את ההפך, אבל מה?
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא, כי כאילו יש כל כך הרבה -
מרצה: הוא לא רק מנסה להצביע על הנקודה. כמו מה שאני עושה עכשיו זה לא באמת ללמד כי אני פשוט עושה את הדבר. אבל אתם צריכים להבין שיש משהו ממש מוזר עם השבח הזה של תשוקה, אפילו במובן, דווקא במובן הזה, של רצון בלתי מרוסן. דווקא במובן הזה.
תלמיד: נגיד ובכן, ואם זה טוב שלפעמים זה גורם לדברים טובים -
מרצה: לא, זה מה שהרוע אומר. הוא ממש נותן את המשל עם הבחורה. צדיק, אני יודע בדיוק למה הם מתכוונים. ואתה קורא את זה הפוך. ואתה צריך לדעת איך הרמב"ם חושב על הדברים האלה. ולהבין מה הוא מנסה לומר. בכל פעם שמישהו משתמש במשל, אתה תמיד מכניס את התפיסות שלך של המשל הזה לתוך המשל, ואתה חושב שהוא מדמיין דברים. לכן משלים הם רעים. בכל מקרה, לא היה צריך לעשות את המשל. היה יותר טוב בלעדיו. כי לפחות אנשים לא היו ממציאים דברים אקראיים. אתה יודע למה יש - אתה יודע מה הגורם ליצר הרע? אתה יודע למה עדיין יש יצר הרע? כי הנביאים השתמשו במשלים. לכן. ואז אתה כאילו, רגע, הם אמרו שזה דבר טוב. שירה שנכתבה על זה.
מרצה: אוקיי, עכשיו - בכל מקרה, עכשיו זו מחשבה רצינית על חיים שיש בהם כאב. זה דבר טוב במקום הנכון.
תלמיד: לא, זה מה שאני אומר. זה לא דבר טוב. אם זה הקריטריון, אז זה לא דבר טוב. לפחות התיאוריה הזו אומרת שזה לא דבר טוב. דברים טובים הם דברים מרוסנים. בדיוק ההפך. ככל שמישהו יותר יקר, יותר מאופק, הוא יותר טוב. זה גם משל מוזר שהולך לעשות אותך רע עכשיו. אבל זו הנקודה שלי. ריסון הוא טוב. ופראות היא רעה.
מרצה: כלומר, ציוויליזציה היא טובה, ומה שהוא ההפך של ציוויליזציה, הוא רע. זה לא ברור? עכשיו אנשים באים, אה לא, ציוויליזציה מבוססת על התשוקות הגדולות האלה שהן ממש הרסניות. לא, היא לא. זה הרקע של הציוויליזציה, כן. אבל היא מבוססת על ריסון של זה.
מרצה: ובכן, כן, אבל זה במובן מסוים, במובן של זה, שזה הבסיס. כמו, אבל נישואין מבוססים על ריסון התאווה, או הארגון שלה, נכון? הכנעתה, נתינת הגבולות הנכונים לה. על זה זה מבוסס. במובן יותר אמיתי, מאשר שזה מבוסס על זה. איך נכנסתי לזה? אבל בכל מקרה...
אם היית בונה את השקפת העולם שלך על פי היצר המיני שלך, אני חושב שכנראה לא היית מגיע לנישואין.
תלמיד: זה רע למין.
מרצה: לא, זה לא רע למין, אבל לומר שזה רע ל... לא, אני אמרתי שזה הרקע של זה, אבל זה לא הבסיס של זה. ואם אתה חושב שאנשים הרגישו את זה נכון כל ה... רק שיהיה ברור, כל בעלי ההשקפה שאומרים שצריך להתחתן כי יש מין יותר טוב, הילדים שלהם נהיים הומוסקסואלים. זה לא... הבנת מה אני אומר?
תלמיד: מאוד פשוט, כן.
מרצה: מה היה הקשר?
תלמיד: פשוט ככה.
מרצה: אה, כי כמו המספר... הומוסקסואל במובן האמיתי, נכון? לא... לא אכפת לי עם מי אתה עושה את זה, במובן של רדיפת ההנאה במקום רדיפת סוג הדברים שמגבילים את ההנאה בדרך כלשהי או נותנים לה צורה, נכון? מגבילים אותה - לא בדרך של פחות ממנה, בדרך של לתת לה מבנה, נכון? האנשים האלה כועסים על המבנה הישן של לעשות נישואין ואז להתחיל להעמיד פנים ש... כי אז ההדוניזם הזה הוא התוצאה הנכונה. אז אם הכל מבוסס על הנאה, אז למה שלא נהיה פשוט הדוניסטים פראיים? מתברר שאין לך הרבה הנאה בלעשות את זה גם, אבל זו בעיה אחרת.
תלמיד: פראיים מה?
מרצה: הדוניזם. זו המסקנה. כאילו, למה בכלל להתאמץ? כמו שכתוב, למה אתה צריך לקנות פרה אם אתה צריך רק חלב? אז זו המסקנה אם אתה חושב שזה מבוסס על זה. אם אתה מבין שזה מבוסס על זה במובן של זה שזה המצב הקודם שממנו זה מתחיל - אם לא היה את זה, כמובן שלא היינו צריכים את זה או שזה לא היה קיים - אבל מבוסס על בדיוק ההפך מזה, מבוסס על ה... איך אנחנו קוראים לזה... המשמעת של זה, נכון? אז אתה הולך להגיע למשמעת של זה.
אוקיי, עכשיו תשמור את זה בדרמה. אתה לא הולך לפתור את מה שאתה מחפש, נכון, על ידי שתעשה את זה. לא הולך לעזור לך.
איפה אני כאן? זה... כל התיאור של הדרכים שבהן הטענה שה... היא הבעיה הגיונית במידה מסוימת, וזו הדרך שבה זה אכן הגיוני. אני חושב שזה הגיוני. אתם מסכימים איתי?
מרצה: האסכולה הזו מונעת מהרעיון הנכון שתאווה בהחלט... היא בהחלט לא צריכה להיות מוטיבציה או פעולה. או שנוכל לומר משהו כמו, אתה לא צריך לחיות חיים של תאווה. זה לא צריך להיות החיים שלך. נכון. או שזה לא צריך להיות הסיבה שלך. לכן, דיכוי התאווה הוא דבר טוב.
אז עכשיו... אני אומר שזה הכלל הראשון.
תלמיד: נכון, נכון, נכון.
מרצה: לכן, הדבר שצריך לדבר עליו, במקום לדבר על לרצות את הדברים הנכונים או לעשות את הדברים הנכונים וכן הלאה, צריך להתחיל לדבר... כאילו צריך לתת דרשות נגד התאווה. זו הנקודה. לתאר כמה היא רעה וכמה היא נוראה, כמה היא טיפשית, ואז תגמלו אנשים מתאווה והם אוטומטית בעצם ילכו ל... אנשים... או שצריך לאמן אותם, צריך לתת להם תרגילים בשביל זה, נכון?
כלומר, בינתיים, רק אומר לכם ש...
מרצה: כן, יש גם... אני יכול לספר לכם משהו כמו שיש גם מנהגים מסוימים שמוסברים בדיוק על ידי זה. רק שיהיה ברור, מה?
כן, או כמו שהרמב"ם ורב סעדיה גאון מסבירים את כל איסורי האכילה על בסיס זה, נכון? אז יש משהו אמיתי בזה, נכון?
אז ש... רב סעדיה כתב את הפיוט הזה ששם את... אומר כל הזמן זה יפה... יש את עשרת הדברות והוא הולך... הולך ושם את כל הדברים שאסור לאכול תחת לא תחמוד. כי אתם מבינים שלא תחמוד יש בו את הרעיון הבסיסי הזה של תאווה, ואכילת חזיר או אכילת בשר בחלב או גיד הנשה הם בכל מקרה, לא משנה מה הסיבה המקורית שלהם, הם עדיין מקרים של דיכוי התאווה שלך.
והרמב"ם היה אומר את זה במפורש כשהוא מדבר על... במצוות הוא נותן את זה אפילו ככלל. הוא אומר, במובן מסוים מטרה אחת, יעד אחד של כל המצוות הוא מה שהוא קורא לו פרישות, נכון? כמובן שזה מסבך את העניין, אבל דיכוי תאווה. ולכן היה אומר משהו כמו שהסיבה העיקרית או אחת הסיבות שיש את כל הדברים האלה שאנחנו לא אוכלים היא פשוט ללמד אותנו שאנחנו לא עושים מה שאנחנו רוצים, כמו שהילד ההוא אמר, ולאמן אותך להיות אדם פחות תאוותני.
מרצה: עכשיו מה יש לי נגד זה? אין לי שום דבר נגד זה עכשיו שאני חושב על זה. אבל התיאוריה, דעת החכמים לא הייתה כזו, נכון? אתם זוכרים שהחכמים... היו מסיבות שונות, וזה לא ברור למה, אבל החכמים הניחו שיש כאן משהו שעושים, לא משהו שרוצים. זו לא מידה. הם כמעט במפורש מתנגדים למצוות שבלב בדרך הזו — לא בגלל שהם לא האמינו בדברים שבלב, אלא בגלל שהם לא הבינו שהדרך הטובה ביותר לחנך בן אדם היא לומר לו להיות אדם פחות תאוותני.
מרצה: ואני חושב שזה בגלל שדבר אחד שאנחנו יכולים לראות שקורה כשעושים את זה, ואנחנו יכולים לראות את האנשים שמתמקדים בדרך הזו, הוא שהם מגיעים ללולאות הסוליפסיסטיות שדיברנו עליהן בפעם הקודמת, שבסוף אתה מתמקד כל כך בלא להיות אדם תאוותני, שאני שוכח להיות אדם טוב.
מרצה: ונראה לי שזה לא נכון, למרות שזה נכון שזה... להיות אדם תאוותני זו דרך מאוד מאוד קלה להפוך לנורא. זה נכון. אבל לא להיות אדם תאוותני זו לא דרך מהירה להפוך לטוב. זה מה שאני חושב. זה פשוט לא מספיק. התיאוריה הזו היא כאילו להיות כמו... כלומר, זה הכל. והם היו אומרים, ובכן, לזה יש את המקום שלו. התיאוריה הזו אפילו נכונה במובן רחב מאוד, אבל היא לא מעשית מספיק, היא לא נכונה מספיק. היא לא באמת הופכת אותך לאדם טוב. להיות פחות בעל תאווה לא תמיד הופך אותך לאדם טוב.
מרצה: אסביר לכם למה. אני חושב שהחזון איש באמונה וביטחון תופס את זה די טוב, למרות שהוא הפך את זה כל כך הרבה פעמים שזה מוזר. אבל חשבתי על זה, פרק ג׳. מתברר שהחזון איש אומר את השיטה שלי. לא, כי החזון איש הרבה פעמים כאילו ירש את הדרך העתיקה הזו של חשיבה ואין לו דרך טובה לבטא אותה, אז זה יוצא מאוד מצחיק. אבל אני חושב שהוא באמת מנסה להגיע לזה.
מרצה: ומה הוא אומר, החזון איש? החזון איש אומר, רגע, רגע רגע. זה נכון שתאווה כשלעצמה, כמו תאווה סתם בתור תאווה, לשמה, זה דבר מוזר. אבל בואו נהיה ריאליסטיים. ראשית, מעט מאוד אנשים באמת כאלה. יש כאלה. אבל זו לא הבעיה הגדולה בחיים.
שנית, זה לא באמת אומר לי איך לפעול. לא... אתה יכול להיות משובע או גרייס או זבל לאכול במובן הזה ועדיין רשע גדול. אפילו רשע גדול בזמן הפנוי. אתה יכול אפילו להיות גנב. למה הוא יכול להיות גנב? כי גנב לא מוגדר על ידי זה שאני לא רוצה דברים. זה הסופי... כלומר משהו לא שייך לי. ואיך לא שייך לי מוגדר? לא על ידי מה שאני לא רוצה, נכון?
אז ההגדרה הזו, אני לא עושה מה שאתה רוצה, היא בהחלט לא מספיק טובה כהגדרה חיובית למה לעשות. היא אולי טובה כהגדרה שלילית לא להפוך את הקריטריון של כל הפעולות שלך. או שאפשר לומר במובן כללי מאוד, אז התשובה לכל השאר היא לעשות מה שנכון. אבל מי מחליט מה נכון זה משהו אחר לגמרי.
מרצה: כלומר זה עדיין מאפשר מה שנוכל לקרוא גניבה מזדמנת. לא רק מזדמנת, אפילו... לא, אני מתכוון מזדמנת במובן של גניבה אדישה. אפילו, לא, אפילו במובן מסוים, אני חושב... אני באמת חושב... זה דבר אחד, אבל אני באמת חושב שהייתי על אותו דבר, אבל אני חושב שזה אפילו מאפשר גניבה עם רצון, רק לא בדרך הנלהבת הזו, לא בדרך פרועה, בדרך מרוסנת. אבל אתה יכול להיות בחור די נחמד — לא עם תפוז אחד, לא שלושה, נכון?
כאילו אם נדמיין את הקריקטורה של הבחור הזה שאנחנו נגדו כמישהו מוזר באמת כזה... הוא אמר שלרוב האנשים אין את היכולת להיות כאלה. רוב האנשים לא עשירים מספיק ולא חזקים מספיק כדי באמת להיות, אתם יודעים, הדוניסטים קיצוניים, באמת ללכת אחרי התשוקות שלהם. רוב האנשים... לכן כשאנחנו נותנים את הדוגמאות המטורפות האלה של ללכת אחרי תשוקה אנחנו מדברים על אנשים חזקים ביותר, נכון? כי רוב האנשים לא יכולים ללכת אחרי התשוקות שלהם. הם מוגבלים על ידי המציאות שהם חיים בה, נכון?
אבל אם ניקח את זה כסוג הדוגמה, נכון, ואז נגיד בסדר, רוב האנשים לא כאלה, אבל רוב האנשים עדיין לא... עדיין לא אנשים טובים. הם לא אמרו... כל הריסון שהציוויליזציה שמה על אנשים לא הפך אותם לאנשים טובים. הם עדיין גונבים וחומסים ועושים את זה כל הזמן. אז זה לא נראה שזה באמת היה הפתרון הסופי.
תלמיד: אפילו יותר גרוע, הם פשוט נולדו יותר גרועים מ...?
מרצה: אפילו יותר גרוע, הם פשוט נולדו אולי לא דרך תשוקה בלתי מרוסנת, אבל מה הם? נכון?
מרצה: הדבר החשוב יותר הוא שבאופן מעניין, מה שטוב ורע מוגדר על ידי סוג של... הרמח"ל קרא לזה מציאות חיצונית, על ידי אנשים אחרים. בסדר, זה רק בגלל שאין לו דרך לומר את זה, אבל זה מוגדר על ידי אנשים אחרים.
מרצה: שאתה באמת הבחור הזה עם המוסר... זה לא הופך אותך לבחור שמריח פחות מדהים. זה הופך אותך לבחור מאוד רגיש, אבל בחורים רגישים הם לא בחורים יותר טובים. זה אולי הופך אותך למאוד, כאילו, מעודן...
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מרצה: זה מה שאנחנו אומרים, נכון? אני לא אומר שזה לא עוזר. זה לא עוזר כמו שהמקדמים שלו מעמידים פנים שזה עוזר. יותר קל לראות כמה זה הרסני כשלוקחים את זה לקיצוניות ויותר קשה לראות איך לא להיות כזה עוזר. אני חושב שאנחנו יכולים להסכים. אני חושב שהתווכחנו על זה לפני כמה שבועות.
אני חושב שצריך מידה מסוימת של דיכוי רק כדי לאפשר לך—
תלמיד: כן, כן. בפעם הקודמת חלקת עליי.
מרצה: אני לא זוכר. אני חושב שזה עוזר. אני חושב שצריך מידה מסוימת של דיכוי רק כדי לאפשר לדברים אחרים לעלות לפני השטח, אפילו.
תלמיד: זה נכון, אבל זו דרך אחרת לומר דברים כמו, שוב, חזרה לדוגמה הקיצונית הזו—
מרצה: ואפשר לומר במובן עדין מסוים שכולם קיצוניים כי לאנשים יש קושי גדול מאוד אפילו לראות משהו מעבר לרצונות שלהם, כמו לראות את זה כסיבה לעשות דברים, לא לראות את זה. רוב האנשים, ואפילו כמה בעלי מוסר, מחזקים את זה על ידי שהם מעמידים פנים שזה מה שאנשים הם. זה לא. אתה פשוט, כאילו, ברמה מסוימת של, כאילו, מה שאנחנו קוראים לפעמים, אנשים קוראים לזה—
ואני נגד לקרוא לזה ככה כי זה רק מקשה לראות כמה זה פשוט. אבל יש אנשים שקוראים למשהו כמו יציאה מהאגו שלך או משהו כזה כתנאי הכרחי לכל דבר, אפילו לעשות מתמטיקה. וזה דבר מאוד פשוט. זה לא כל כך מסובך. אבל זה נכון שזה נדרש.
ויש אנשים, שוב, המקרים הקיצוניים, אני חושב, קל לראות איך זו הבעיה. יש אנשים שלעולם לא תופסים יופי כי יופי זה לא אתה. הם מקבלים הנאה מיופי. כאילו, השיח המודרני מעמיד פנים שזה הגיוני, נכון? אנחנו לא באמת יכולים לדבר על מה יפה, אנחנו יכולים לדבר על מה שאתה נהנה ממנו. יופי הוא סובייקטיבי, מה שמסתכם באמירה שאין יופי, יש רק הנאה, שהיא על עצמי.
אבל זה שטויות. אף אחד לא באמת חושב ככה. רק אנשים מטורפים קיצוניים, או אנשים — השפה שלנו, השפה של החברה שלנו נוצרה על ידי אנשים מטורפים ביותר, כמו אלה שהזכרתם קודם, ולכן מאוד קשה לנו לדבר על זה. אבל אם תסתכלו מסביב בחיי היומיום, תראו שזה לא ככה. אנחנו נשלטים על ידי דברים מחוצה לנו כל הזמן. זה לא חידוש גדול באמת. אנשים כן מבינים מוטיבציה למשהו בגלל שזה טוב ולא רק בגלל שהם רוצים את זה.
אבל למה אתה רוצה את זה? זה טוב בגלל שאתה רוצה את זה? סתם מילים.
מרצה: אז אני חושב שזה פחות מועיל. קל לראות איך זה עוזר ושולל בעיות קיצוניות מסוימות. פחות קל לראות איך זה באמת עוזר, וגם אפילו פחות קל לראות לכן איך זה מצליח במטרות שלו עצמו, שזה כמו להגדיר איך להיות טוב בדרך כללית מאוד ולומר שטוב מורכב מזה. כי זה אולי טוב כדבר שלילי. זה לא חייב להיות טוב כדבר חיובי. ולכן, אפילו מה לרצות תלוי במה שנכון לרצות.
מרצה: במילים אחרות, לא תחמוד יכול להיות מוגדר רק אחרי שאתה יודע מה שייך לך ומה לא שייך לך. אם אנחנו מדברים על לא תחמוד במובן ממוני, נכון? זה אומר הרמב"ן הקדוש בשבוע שעבר בפרשת משפטים, בתחילת פרשת משפטים.
הרמב"ן אומר שפרשת משפטים וכל הדרוש שם הוא הרחבה של עשרת הדברות. במקום זאת, פרשת משפטים היא הרחבה של לא תחמוד.
למה הוא לא אומר לא תגנוב? אולי בגלל שהוא חשב שזה אומר באמת גונב נפשות. אני לא יודע. אני חושב שבגלל שהוא הבין שלרצות — עכשיו אתן לכם דבר שלישי, אני חייב לומר את הפשט השלישי גם על לא תחמוד, זה הפשט השני שאמרתי בפעם הקודמת — שלהיות סוג של אדם שרוצה זה אחרי שיודעים מה באמת שייך לך ומה לא באמת שייך לך.
מרצה: ויש הרבה פרטים בזה, מה שאומר שאם אתה לא — כמו שהרב סולובייצ'יק אומר, אנשים שלא יודעים חושן משפט כברירת מחדל לא יכולים לדעת אותו. כי אנחנו לא באמת יודעים בדרך כלל מה שייך לנו או מה החובות שלנו וכן הלאה. זה לא טבעי. הדבר הטבעי של כאילו, "אני לא לוקח דברים שלא שלי" — לא, העולם הרבה יותר מסובך. זה יותר מפורט מזה. אתה צריך לברר מה החובות שלך.
נתתי דרוש ארוך מאוד על זה בשבוע שעבר בבורו פארק וזה לא עזר. אף אחד לא הבין מה אמרתי. אולי אגיד את זה שוב. בכל מקרה, כן אני יכול, אבל אין לי סבלנות לחזור על כל זה.
וזה מה שאני מבין כפשט השני. ולכן החכמה, מתברר שהיא —
מרצה: כאילו אני רוצה לתת דוגמה שאולי אמרתי אותה כאן בהקשר אחר קודם, אבל אני חושב שזו דוגמה טובה יותר להבנת ההבדל בין הגרסה הראשונה של פנימיות לבין הגרסה השנייה, שאני חושב שהיא גרסה יותר מעשית וגם אני חושב שהיא יותר הפשט של חז"ל והפסוקים כשהם מדברים על דברים.
מרצה: אז, אנשים כמו חובות הלבבות אוהבים לעשות את המהלך הזה, ואני חושב שזה המהלך הלא נכון. הם אוהבים לומר דברים כמו, כתוב בנביא, "בפיו ובשפתיו כבדוני ולבו רחק ממני".
מכאן אנחנו לומדים שמה שהקב"ה רוצה זה מה שבלב שלך ולא מה שאתה אומר. אבל זה לא נכון, זה לא מה שהנביא אמר. נכון? בואו נסביר את ההבדל.
מרצה: מה שהנביא אמר זה ככה. מישהו בא ואומר, בתפילה, "אני אוהב את ה׳, אני מאמין באמת, אני מאמין שרק הקב"ה שולט בהכל, ולקבל — אתה לא מקבל כלום, אתה לא מרוויח כלום מללכת בדרכים רעות," וכן הלאה. זה מה שהוא אומר בתפילה. בסדר?
עכשיו יש שני סוגי בעיות שאפשר לקרוא להן בשם דומה עם מישהו שאומר את זה. שניהם נקראים צביעות. בסדר?
עכשיו מהי הצביעות כש — אז במובן הפשוט — אבל הנביא מבקר, הנביא מבקר מישהו שבא ואומר את כל הדברים היפים האלה על, אתם יודעים, יש לנו — אנחנו צריכים לחיות עם ביטחון והקב"ה שולט בעולם ואנחנו אוהבים את השם וכל זה.
מתברר, כל פעם שהוא חי את חייו, כל פעם שהוא צריך משהו, הוא שוכח, לא באמת חי עם ביטחון. או שהוא לא — לא גונב בגלל שהוא חושב שהקב"ה צודק. הוא גונב כי הוא לא באמת בוטח שהוא יקבל את הדברים שנצטרך בלי לגנוב, נכון? זה מה שעיקר מצוות הביטחון — לא לגנוב, נכון? אמרתי לכם את זה הרבה פעמים.
אז, זה — עכשיו, כשהוא אומר את זה, אתה שקרן. אתה לא אומר מה שאתה מאמין, מה שאתה חי. זה נקרא צבוע. וזה מה שלבו אומר — לבו רחק ממני. בסדר? אתה לא חי את זה. זה מה שלבו אומר.
ועכשיו, כמו שאמרתי, למה זה נקרא לב? כי אתה אומר את המילים הנכונות, אולי אפילו לפעמים עושה את המעשים הנכונים, אבל אתה מהסוג של אנשים שתמיד נוטים לעשות את ההפך. זה כל מה ש"לב" אומר בהקשר הזה.
מרצה: עכשיו יש פשט אחר, שהוא הפשט של חובות הלבבות, הפשט החסידי לפעמים, שלא אומר דבר כזה. אפשר לומר מילים מתוך הרגל, ואתה לא מתכוון לזה, אתה לא חושב את מה שאתה אומר, אתה לא מרגיש בלב שלך ברגע שאתה אומר — אתה לא מתרשם, אתה לא מתלהב, אתה לא מסור, אתה לא מחויב למילים שאתה אומר, אתה סתם אומר אותן.
ואז יש מישהו אחר שכשהוא אומר את זה, הוא מתכוון לזה, נכון? הוא כאילו מסור למה שהוא — מתלהב מ — לראות אותם חושבים שלהיות מתלהב או שיש מה שהם קוראים לו אנרגיה רגשית גבוהה בזה, זה הדבר הטוב. וחובות הלבבות נראה שאומר דברים כאלה לעיתים קרובות.
מרצה: עכשיו, אתה יכול להבין שאם הבעיה העיקרית שלי היא הבעיה הראשונה, מישהו אולי אומר את זה מתוך הרגל והוא — לבו קרוב לה'. כי כשהוא אומר שמע ישראל, הוא חי במובן מסוים בשמע ישראל. כי הוא לא גונב בגלל שהוא מאמין שיש אלוקים שמפרנס את האנשים שלא גונבים.
עכשיו, הביקורת של הנביא היא לא שהוא אומר שמע ישראל מהר. מה אכפת אם הוא אומר את זה מהר? איזו מצוה זה לומר דברים? זה לא עוזר לאף אחד. זה בלי ברכה. אתה צועק, אתה מתרגש כל כך מלחשוב על — אין מחשבה — כאילו יש, ואתה שקרן, אתה בלופר, בלי ברכה. אתה לא מתכוון לזה. אתה לא מאמין בזה, במה שאתה אומר. אין לך מושג על מה אתה מדבר.
אני חושב שהזכרת את זה, אני חושב ששמעתי את זה, אני לא יודע אם זה פורסם, שדניאל לא אמר "הקל הגדול" — הוא לא קנה את זה, הוא לא חשב כך.
נכון, והבחור ההפוך שחושב —
[*התמלול נקטע באמצע משפט*]
זה לבו דחו כמניה. אתה בשיעור, אתה מתרגש כל כך מהדרשה, ואתה באמת שם, אתה לא חושב שום מחשבה זרה, ואתה שקרן, אתה בלופר, לבו דחו כמניה. אתה לא מתכוון לזה. אתה לא מאמין בזה, במה שאתה אומר. אין לך מושג על מה אתה מדבר.
זה כמו כשאתה הולך ל, אני לא יודע אם הזכרת את זה, אני חושב ששמעתי את זה, אני לא יודע אם זה פורסם, שדניאל אמר, לא אמר את זה, אני לא זוכר, לא יכול היה לשקר, הוא לא חשב כך.
והבחור ההפוך שחושב שהפנימיות היא משהו בפנים — מה עם מה שאני מרגיש? כמו שהסברתי קודם, יש סיבה מסוימת למה אנשים מגיעים לחשוב דברים כאלה. הוא — זו הבעיה שאני מנסה להגיע אליה, שאתה עושה — כמו שאנשים חושבים על עבירה גם כן, נכון? העיקר שאתה אדם טוב בפנים, נכון?
"אני מרגיש כל כך רע בשבילך. תן לי את הסכין שלך, הסכין לשחוט. אני מרגיש כל כך רע."
אני רואה אנשים עושים את זה כל יום. זה מדהים והם מחשיבים את עצמם כאנשים טובים. "כל כך רע בשבילך. אני אדם כל כך טוב."
הוא מתכוון לזה כשהוא אומר את המילים וכלום — שהוא משקר. חלק מהאנשים משקרים. אנשים הם פסיכופתים כשהם אומרים את המילים "אני מרגיש רע בשבילך, זה כואב לי יותר ממה שזה כואב לך." לחלק מהאנשים זה לא כואב. לחלק כואב. הוא אפילו לא משקר. זה באמת כואב לו. אבל הוא צבוע יותר גדול.
כן, מילה אחרת. זו ההגדרה השנייה של מידה שאנחנו אומרים. זה מישהו שלא עושה את זה, לא אוהב לעשות את זה. אם אתה עושה את זה ואתה מרגיש רע, האם זו הסתירה? יש לך — הרגשות שלך זה מאוד חמוד, אבל אני לא — למי אכפת? זה אפילו לא רגש טוב. אין שום דבר טוב בדברים שה — אתה אפילו לא אדם טוב יותר בגלל זה. אתה יותר — כן, רגשות, בסדר. אבל הרגשות שלך — אז זה הדבר השני. זה הדבר השני.
וזה מה שהם — משהו כמו "אני מעולם לא רציתי את זה. אני פשוט לקחתי את זה בלי לרצות את זה. זה אפילו לא הרצון שלי." לא, אתה — אז השני יכול להוביל אותך לזה, לעשות את המעשים הנכונים, נכון? אם אתה משתמש בזה ככלי, אתה תעשה — הרצון השני הוא בדיוק — תהיה מהסוג של אנשים שממון של אחרים הוא דבר שגורם לך לא לרצות אותו. תהיה מוגבל על ידי זה.
תלמיד: לא, אני יודע את זה, אבל אם אתה אוהב — זה פשוט — זה לא אומר — אני חושב שאולי אפשר להשתמש בזה ככלי להגיע לרצון הנכון.
מרצה: הראשון אתה מתכוון?
תלמיד: הראשון אתה משתמש ככלי.
מרצה: אני חושש שבדרך כלל משתמשים בזה ככלי לא להגיע לזה. לכן אני נגד זה. כי אני שם לב שאנשים שחושבים ככה — אני לא יודע, הרבה מזה הוא, חלק מזה הוא תיאורטי על אנשים קדמונים והוגים שדיברו על זה, וחלק מזה הוא אני שם לב שאנחנו מאוד — אנחנו במובן מסוים, אנחנו במובן של הישיבות שכולנו למדנו בהן, ירשנו את הגרסה הרעה הזו של פנימיות, וזה עושה אנשים גרועים יותר בדרך כלל במקום טובים יותר. כי הם חושבים שהם אנשים טובים כי כשהם אומרים שמע הם מרגישים את זה, או כי כשהם אומרים "זה כואב לי" הם מרגישים את זה. זה אותו רעיון.
דיכוי התאווה הוא גם דבר פנימי. כולם מסכימים שזה דבר פנימי. כמו "לא אכפת לי ממה שאני רוצה. אני עושה רק מה שאני חושב שנכון."
כן, אבל אתה אף פעם לא חושב על מה נכון, נכון? אז זה נכון שאתה לא עושה מתוך תאווה, אפילו לא נותן את הטיעון הזה של מוסר שאתה לא שומע במתנה. לא, אתה אדם טהור מהנגיעות. אתה פשוט מרגיש אדם רע. כמו הלוואי שמישהו היה אומר לך כי אתה לא יודע מה שלך ומה לא שלך. אתה מעולם לא חשבת על זה. אתה מעולם לא השקעת הרבה מאמץ לברר מה החובה שלך, מה המקום שלך בעולם, מה שייך לך, איך אתה צריך לפעול. אלה כולם דברים חיצוניים ואתה לא בעניין של דברים חיצוניים. אתה פשוט עסוק לשבת ליד השטענדער שלך שם ולהיות בחור טוב. וזה לא בחור טוב.
זה מה שאני חושש ממנו. אתם מבינים מה אני אומר?
זה כמו שמישהו היה אומר משהו כמו — קחו דוגמה מבריאות גופנית, נכון? ברור שלהיות אדם עם הרבה תאוות לא מועיל לבריאות גופנית. אתה עלול לשתות יותר מדי, לאכול יותר מדי, וכן הלאה, נכון?
נכון.
אבל לא להיות אדם עם תאוות לא הופך אותך לבריא. אתה צריך באמת לברר מה בריא. אין קסם שאומר — אנשים טוענים שיש קסם כזה, אבל באופן כללי, זה לא באמת ככה. כמו, אין קסם שאומר שברגע שלא תאכל מתוך תאוות, תאכל בריא. אתה עלול פשוט לאכול קוגל בלי תאוות. זה לא אומר שכל הבעיות נפתרות כשאתה עושה את זה, כאילו, בחסר.
כן, זו דרך אחת. אני מרגיש שיש בעיה עמוקה יותר כאן, אבל כן, זו בעיה אחת.
זו הבעיה הגדולה יותר שלי. אני חושב שזה לא באמת עוזר. אתה יכול לעבוד הרבה על עצמך מבחינה דתית, הרצון יהיה גנות וזה לא קשור. זה אפילו לא עוזר. זה אולי עוזר, כמו שאמרתי. הוא אומר שזה עוזר במקרים קיצוניים. אני אפילו לא יודע.
כן, נכון. ואז כשאתה מפסיק להיות כזה ואתה מפסיק לרצות להיות גם כן, וזה נקרא שיש לך את המידה של המעשה הזה לפי דעתי. בדיוק.
זה לא — זה בא ראשון בסדר המציאות כי אנשים פועלים מתוך הפנימיות שלהם. אבל זה בא שני בסדר התיאוריה. כמו מה מגדיר את האדם הטוב? כמו שאמרתי, מה מגדיר את האדם שהוא לא לבו דחו כמניה זה איך אנחנו פועלים, לא איך אנחנו — לא איך אנחנו מתכוונים למה שבפנים.
כשהוא מתכוון — כשהוא אומר, כמובן שהאדם שאומר את זה ככה, כשהוא אומר את זה גם בא במובן מסוים יותר מהפנימיות שלו. זה כמו — זה נכון שזה כמו חיצוני. הבחור שלא חי את מה שהוא — מה שהוא אומר בדרשות שלו כשהוא אומר שהוא משקר, שזה המקרה הכי ברור של מישהו שמדבר חיצונית, נכון? הפה שלו אומר את זה אבל הלב שלו לא אומר את זה.
אבל קודם כל, לב לא אומר רגשות. לא אומר רגשות באותו רגע, נכון? זה כמו — זה הדבר המוזר הזה שבו שקר הוא לא — שקר הוא לא — ההתאמה של המצב החיצוני שלך למצב הפנימי שלך כשאתה משקר. שקרן טוב משקר גם במחשבות שלו. זה לא שכשאני משקר אני חושב, "לא, זה שקר."
שקר הוא אי-ההתאמה של המילים שלך למציאות. עכשיו המציאות הזו היא מה שאנחנו קוראים לו הדבר הכי פנימי. אבל זו המציאות החיצונית, כביכול, הדבר מחוץ לעצמך, או לפחות מחוץ לעצמך באותו רגע, הוא הקריטריון למה שהופך את זה ללא שקר.
זה מובן?
יש שלישי שאני צריך להגיע אליו, אבל אני הולך לעצור כאן כי זה מחובר ליותר מדי דברים וזה ייקח לי יותר מדי זמן לסדר.
תלמיד: עם החיי אדם, לגבי משהו, לא קשור, סתם בכל מקרה, מה הוא עושה עם מה שהוא אמר? איך אתה אומר את המילים?
מרצה: אני לא חושב שזה חשוב. זה אולי תרגול למשהו, כמו סתם לריכוז או מדיטציה, אבל אני לא חושב שזה חשוב בכלל. הוא נראה חושב שזה חשוב. זה מה שאני אומר. אני חושב שחיי אדם עושה הרבה מהטריקים הרטוריים האלה שבהם הוא לוקח דברים שהתכוונו למשהו לגמרי אחר ומעמיד פנים שהם אומרים מה שהוא רצה שהם יגידו.
תלמיד: אני אומר שהוא כאילו שואל את זה על עצמו. אם חמס רוצה להסתחרר בזה, למה אתה צריך את המילים האלה אם באמת הכל בלב שלך?
מרצה: בסדר, זו שאלה אחרת. אני מדבר על מעשים.
תלמיד: כן, זו שאלה על מילים. זו לא השאלה שלי, זה על מעשים.
מרצה: יותר קל ככה. אבל כמו, יותר קל ככה, זה לא מגיע למה ש — מה שהדבר האמיתי הוא.
תלמיד: כן, המילים זו שאלה אחרת באמת, אבל כן.
מרצה: בסדר, אני צריך לסדר את הוידאו.
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This is the second or third shiur on *Lo Tachmod* (the prohibition against coveting), delivered near *Rosh Chodesh Adar*. The provocative claim is that *Adar* has "everything" to do with *Lo Tachmod* — a connection the shiur aims to demonstrate.
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The *Sefarim Hakedoshim* identify the *mazal* of *Chodesh Adar* as *Degim* (Pisces/fish). A common misconception must be corrected: *mazalos* have to do with the sun's position within a constellation (the solar zodiac), not the moon or *Rosh Chodesh*. This was recently covered in a shiur on *Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah*.
The *Hizkuni*, referencing the *Yerushalmi*, teaches that when *Amalek* waged war against the Jews, they strategically selected warriors whose personal astrological sign ("lucky day") was favorable on the day of battle. This is standard astrological theory — each person, based on their birth, has times when they are more successful.
*Moshe* told *Yehoshua*: "Choose men for us and go fight Amalek tomorrow" (*Shemos* 17:9). The word "tomorrow" is significant — Moshe was selecting a time that would be astrologically favorable for the Jewish fighters.
[Brief aside on the naturalness of timing:] The idea that people have better and worse times (morning people vs. night people, etc.) is observationally true independent of astrology. Astrology is merely a *theory* that maps these patterns onto celestial signs.
A certain *Tzadik* proposed: The Jewish calendar sometimes has a thirteenth month (the leap-year second Adar). There is no zodiac sign for a thirteenth month. Therefore, people born in *Adar Bet* have no astrological sign. When Amalek tries to find a stronger sign to overpower them, there is a "null error" — no sign to target or overpower.
If you have no *mazal*, shouldn't you be *more* vulnerable, not less? This is a strong question, and the answer goes against standard astrological logic — which is precisely the point being built toward.
A much more fundamental *kasha*: The thirteenth month is a human/halachic invention to reconcile the lunar and solar calendars. The stars don't care about the *beis din's* calendar adjustments — the zodiac always has exactly 12 signs per solar year. Declaring a thirteenth month shouldn't change anything astrologically. The stars don't "listen" to human calendar decisions.
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Stars occupy a higher level of reality than humans. Evidence:
- Stars never "burn out" (metaphorically: no burnout)
- Stars are always punctual; humans are not
- Stars are "perfect" — culturally, calling someone a "star" is the highest compliment
- *Tehillim* 8:4–5: "When I see Your heavens... the moon and stars... what is man that You remember him?" — The *Rambam* reads this as: contemplating the stars reveals human insignificance by comparison.
Since stars are so far above humans in the cosmic hierarchy, nobody ever seriously believed stars directly care about or control human lives. They have "better things to do." Stars don't worry about who wins a battle.
Stars *do* benefit humans (navigation, light, etc.), but only through the intermediary of human consciousness/soul. The star helps you navigate *because you look at it and understand*. Without the human act of looking and interpreting, the star cannot influence you. "Nobody goes outside and hears a star talking to him. You look at them first and then they talk to you."
A crucial distinction:
- Things on your level (a friend pushing you, slipping on a banana peel) act on you directly, without requiring your soul's mediation.
- Higher things (like stars) can only influence you through your mind/soul. This is a general principle about how higher causes operate on lower beings.
- Going to a doctor: Your *mind* brings you to the doctor, but the doctor helps you physically (a shot, surgery) — not through your mind.
- Stars are different: Stars can only help/influence you through your mind. There is no direct physical mechanism.
- Partial exception: If the doctor gives instructions you must mentally follow, then the help does pass through your mind.
Knowledge workers are not passive conduits. Just as a doctor doesn't merely relay information but actively participates in healing, and just as a rebbe actively mediates Torah, an astrologer actively shapes how stellar influence reaches a person. The mediator has genuine agency and degrees of freedom in how the influence is transmitted.
[Side digressions:]
- Trees and stars: Trees don't communicate information to humans the way stars do, though humans can learn from trees similarly to how they learn from stars.
- David Deutsch reference: A student mentions David Deutsch's arguments about humans being uniquely important because they can be affected by everything. Acknowledged but set aside.
- Do stars cause motion? The sun causing sunrise is not astrology — that's basic astronomy. Astrology's claim is about *influence on human affairs*, which is the topic at hand. There was ancient *machlokes* about this, but "at least the Jews don't believe it works that way now."
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Rabbi Akiva derived from this verse that it is humans (specifically Beis Din) who "call" the appointed times. This is not arbitrary — they must be channeling what is happening in the heavens — but the calling must go *through* them. The heavenly reality does not touch people without human mediation.
If the Beis Din declares that Rosh Hashanah is on Sunday when astronomically it "should" be Monday, then the Monday Elyon (the upper/heavenly Monday) moves to the Sunday Tachton (the lower/earthly Sunday). The spiritual influences associated with that day now operate on the day the Beis Din declared. "Tuesday could be chal on Thursday if the Beis Din says so." This is entirely real — nothing subjective about it.
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When you divide the year (or the sun's stellar cycle) into twelve parts, different people thrive at different stages — beginning, middle, end, etc. This is what astrological sign "belonging" boils down to: affinity for a particular phase of a cycle.
Since celestial influence must pass through human mediation, if humans set up their calendar slightly off-center from the astronomical cycle, the influence follows the human calendar, not the astronomical one. The "real" influence lands when the Rav or Beis Din says it does, not when the "so-called real" day is in heaven.
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If you need the stellar cycle to channel anything, but you can shift it, then why do you need the cycle at all?
A power station has fixed positive and negative poles — you can't change those at the source. But when you run wires, use transformers, and bring the current down to your level, you can reverse which side is positive and which is negative at your end. The real positive from the source is still flowing, but it arrives at the opposite terminal in your house. Similarly, the heavenly reality is fixed, but the human mediator has genuine freedom to rearrange how it manifests below. Both are true simultaneously: you need the source, AND you have real degrees of freedom in channeling it.
If you can rearrange everything, maybe you don't need the source at all — like saying you need electricity in your wall but not the power station. This is a fair challenge but may be beyond the scope of this discussion.
Days physically get shorter and longer during the year. But the shortening "happens for you" when you notice it or when someone tells you to notice it. If there's a five-day delay in your awareness, the influence of the change operates on the delayed timeline. Physical processes (like sunlight taking eight minutes to reach earth) already demonstrate delay, but psychic/soul-mediated processes gain far more degrees of freedom than mere physical delay — because you're operating conceptually, not physically.
Some people fight better in the morning, some in the afternoon. If you manipulate the environment (shut off lights, shift sleep schedules), you can move "morning" for those people, and the morning-people will perform well at the shifted time. Similarly, you can to some extent make night into morning and morning into night.
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When the Beis Din declares Rosh Chodesh, they effectively decide which solar-zodiacal energies map onto which months. In a leap year, the Beis Din has already channeled all 12 zodiacal influences (*shefa*) into the prior 12 months. The 13th month is therefore "leftover" — empty of predetermined celestial content — and becomes time the community can do with as they wish. This is "the whole trick."
Some people paid bi-weekly occasionally get three paychecks in a single month. The month isn't longer in absolute terms, but it functionally contains more resources depending on how different schedules overlap. Similarly, the 13th month is a product of triangulating between lunar and solar calendars.
The explanation of channeling through souls accounts for the full range of effects traditionally attributed to celestial influence (e.g., fighting better on birthdays). The person whose soul mediates the star's influence has *decided* that this month belongs to him, not to the star. That decision is what makes the influence operative — including practical effects — because the soul has claimed authority.
It depends on how many calendars one genuinely observes. Some Jews effectively have two New Years (secular and Jewish), but taking both seriously is psychologically very difficult because the logic of a "New Year" requires that most of the year is *not* the New Year. Genuine channeling requires authentic commitment, and splitting that commitment is inherently unstable.
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You channel it, you don't create it. The word "channel" is key — it's not your *own* luck from nothing; you are channeling real forces through your mediation. This channeling operates at the level of cultures and communities, not merely individuals.
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Last week's shiur concluded that *Lo Tachmod* (do not covet) is the internal counterpart of the four commandments preceding it in the Aseres HaDibros. It is not a standalone prohibition but the inward dimension of the external prohibitions (murder, adultery, theft, false witness).
This reading is not universally accepted. The two readings correspond to two fundamentally different understandings of what it means to be a good person:
1. The "Wrong" Reading (Self-Focused Interiority): Lo Tachmod is about having the correct internal feelings, emotions, and dispositions *for their own sake*. Being good means feeling the right things inside — the focus is entirely on the self and its inner states.
2. The "Correct" Reading (Outward-Directed Interiority): All internality is ultimately directed toward the outside. Being good internally means being the kind of person from whom correct external actions reliably flow. The inner life matters because it shapes what you do toward others — not as an end in itself.
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Philo of Alexandria is the primary proponent of the first reading. In his treatise on the Ten Commandments, when he reaches Lo Tachmod, he launches into an extended attack on desire:
- Desire is the root cause of all human problems: overindulgence (eating, drinking), interpersonal crimes (stealing, harming others), and misdirected life priorities.
- Since all bad actions originate in wanting, the most effective strategy is to attack wanting itself rather than the individual bad actions.
- Lo Tachmod is therefore read as a commandment to uproot desire at its source.
This reading fits into a wider tradition found in mussar literature, with roots in Plato and possibly parts of Chazal: the fundamental ethical problem is unrestrained desire. If you simply do what you want, you will become the worst version of yourself. Therefore, ethics essentially reduces to not following your desires. Lo Tachmod becomes the capstone commandment expressing this principle.
- Rabbeinu Avraham Ibn Ezra — tentatively placed in this camp, though there may be a third reading of Lo Tachmod that better captures his actual position (to be discussed later).
- Mesillas Yesharim — the Ramchal discusses this topic but his exact position is uncertain.
On this reading:
- People tend to end up doing what they want — desire and action are not easily separated.
- Desire is uncontrolled and chaotic — today you want to kill someone, tomorrow you want someone's wife, the next day you want to be a billionaire. If desire becomes your criterion for action, life becomes disordered.
- Wanting is always wanting to do — there is no desire that isn't desire for action. No one disputes this.
- The evil is located specifically in being excessively desirous — in being a person dominated by wanting — rather than merely in the discrete bad actions that result.
There are two kinds of people — those who do what they want, and those who do what they think is right. This maps onto a classic dichotomy (found in Plato, in *Chazal*, in *mussar*) between desire and reason. Whenever someone says "don't be a *chomed*," they implicitly mean "be a person governed by reason/restraint/law instead."
[Illustrative story:] A child is hungry or thirsty, and when asked why he doesn't eat, responds, "My father taught me you don't drink when you're thirsty — you drink when you *need* to drink." This illustrates the training behind this approach: wanting is not a sufficient reason to act. Pleasure should not be your god or your criterion of right and wrong.
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When *Chazal* speak of the *yetzer hara* as the source of evil, they often don't mean some metaphysical "will to do evil" (which would be contentless), but rather that *following desire* — following what you think will be pleasurable — is what causes most bad outcomes in the world.
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The "correct" reading holds that *Lo Tachmod* applies specifically *to those listed things* (eshet re'acha, avdo, amato, etc.) and doesn't add much new content beyond the specific prohibitions. The alternative reading inverts this: *Lo Tachmod* names a more fundamental, amorphous problem (desire itself), and the list shows the *consequences* — if you are a *chomed*, you will end up coveting all these things.
On this alternative reading, *Lo Tachmod* is a genuinely new *mitzvah*, adding a whole new category: *mitzvot halev* (commandments of the heart). The argument (as articulated by the *Chovot HaLevavot* and similar thinkers): if you only work on external behavior — not eating non-kosher food, not stealing — you leave the underlying desire intact, which is the real source of all problems. *Lo Tachmod* offers a more radical, inner solution: stop being a desirous person altogether, and you solve all issues at their root.
If you *don't* address desire at its root, you will inevitably face a *nisayon* (test) you cannot withstand — eventually you'll eat the *chazer* (non-kosher food). Working on desire itself is presented as the more efficient and fundamental path.
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This approach doesn't advocate a quick fix or physical suppression (like self-castration). It calls for becoming a fundamentally different kind of person — one controlled by reason (*yetzer tov*) rather than appetite (*yetzer hara*).
*"Le'olam yargiz adam yetzer tov al yetzer hara"* ("A person should always agitate his good inclination against his evil inclination"). One reading: rather than enumerating every good and bad action, cultivate an inner orientation where you follow your *yetzer tov* (good/reasonable drive) and refuse to obey your *taavot* (appetites). This is presented as a simpler, more comprehensive solution.
A student raises the case of choosing between two desires — going to a strip club vs. sitting and producing a Torah *chiddush* — suggesting one desire is "good." On this framework, there are no good desires. The word "desire" here specifically means desire *as a criterion of action, as a source of the good*. The correct approach: don't decide based on where you *desire* to go; decide based on what is *correct*. Then the dilemma dissolves — you simply go to *shul* because that's the right thing.
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A student argues that passion and desire can be great drivers of creation and good results — citing examples like innovators who, driven by passion, "created a new world" (e.g., the invention of the car, the internet). Even if the desire itself is uncontrolled, the results can be genuinely good, and passion is necessary for great achievement.
This is rejected forcefully on multiple levels:
1. The results are not good by virtue of the passion. If results are good, they are good *after being controlled* — the passion itself contributed nothing to their goodness. Passion without guidance, reason, or an idea of the good is "by definition bad."
2. The lives of these "passionate" people are themselves evidence against the view. The innovators admired by the student — driven by money, ambition, power, girls — are precisely the examples ancient texts would cite as lives gone extremely wrong. "Your role models are evil."
3. Passion is indistinguishable from monstrous evil on its own terms. There is nothing, on the passion-as-good framework, to distinguish the passionate innovator from a passionate serial killer who meticulously planned his crimes. If passion is the criterion, both are equally "great."
4. The correct framing reverses the causal story. If someone says "this is so good, and because it's so good, I desire it," then it's the good leading, not the desire. That's a completely different story from passion being the driver.
- The bad doctor almost wants people to be sick so he can heal them — his passion is really for *kavod* (honor) or being the one responsible for the cure.
- The good doctor hates cancer so much he wants to prevent it — his "passion" is actually driven by a recognition of health as good, not by desire for personal glory.
- Restated more sharply: the bad doctor tries to heal people (self-focused); the good doctor tries to heal sicknesses (good-focused).
The modern idea of praising passion is precisely the thing described as monstrous evil in every text prior to roughly 1600. This is not an argument to be debated right now but something to notice — a striking inversion that should at minimum give one pause. The passion-driven life is compared to *Achashverosh* (the paradigmatic figure of a life governed by desire in Jewish thought).
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The expansion of ability is structurally equivalent to the expansion of desire, and therefore inherently problematic.
- Cars: Deeply destructive. The ability to arrive in 17 minutes instead of three hours does not solve a real problem; it merely expands what one *can* do, which is the definition of expanding desire.
- The Internet: Praised precisely because it lets people do "whatever they want, whenever they want, however they want" — the very language of unrestrained desire. A student suggests the internet enables faster debt repayment; this is dismissed as fantasy — the *possibility* of repaying debts faster is not the same as people *actually* repaying debts better. The focus on "possible" rather than "actual" is itself the problem.
- Watching the shiur online: Watching the shiur online instead of attending in person makes the world worse. Given the fallen state of the world, watching online may be better than watching "some other nonsense," but the *ability itself* is not a good.
Good does not consist in ability. Good consists precisely in putting a limit on ability — using it only in the right way. An invention that *makes* you do the right thing would be good; an invention that merely *allows* you to do things is bad, because "allowing" just expands the field of desire. Cars *allow* you to come to the shiur; they don't *make* you come. A machine that *compelled* you to come would be a genuinely good invention. But material inventions, by their nature, are potential — they can only allow, not direct.
Therefore, the only truly good "inventions" are religions, cultures, and systems that work on human souls — that teach people what is good and impose limits. These are the inventions that *make* people act rightly, not merely *enable* them.
One owes nothing to the inventor of the internet (or any technology), because the inventor only provided the *yetzer hara* — the raw material of temptation and expanded ability. Just as one doesn't owe anything to one's body for being the base of action, one doesn't owe anything to the creator of abilities. What deserves praise is what limits ability, not what creates it. "Creating abilities is always bad — it's the definition of bad."
Fundamental human myths consistently portray the expansion of abilities as dangerous and bad. The real inversion — the truly "weird" thing — is the modern habit of praising precisely what was traditionally seen as the problem (expanded ability/desire) as if it were the solution.
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The Chassidic tradition's valorization of intense, unrestrained passion — even passion directed toward God (*ahavas Hashem*) — is directly confronted.
- The concept of *ahavah azah* (fierce/intense love) in the context of love of God is dismissed as meaningless in the relevant sense. This reading is attributed to Chassidic education and called a Chassidic misreading of the Rambam. The Rambam does not endorse unrestrained passion for God. The Chassidic interpretation projects its own valorization of passion onto the Rambam's language, especially his famous mashal about love of God being like lovesickness. Whenever someone uses a mashal, listeners project their own concepts into it, which is why "meshalim are evil."
This is stated flatly, with several sources:
- Olam HaTohu (Kabbalistic World of Chaos): The vessels broke *because they wanted God too much*. Excessive desire — even for the divine — is destructive.
- Na'aseh v'Nishma and Har Sinai: When the Jewish people enthusiastically declared "we will do and we will hear," God's response was essentially "please don't" — *v'higbalta es ha'am* ("set boundaries for the people"). The entire drama of Sinai is about creating limits, not about cultivating fierce love.
- Moshe Rabbeinu: No one describes Moshe or other founders of religion as people of "great passion." They are described in terms of their *limitations* — their ideas of what is good and bad. Moshe's defining contribution was 365 prohibitions and 248 positive commandments — a system of limits.
If desire/passion is the *criterion* of the good (i.e., the thing that makes something count as good), then even passion for God is bad — because the theory says the criterion itself is the problem. You cannot say "unrestrained desire is bad *except* when directed at God," because that still makes desire the operative principle. Good things are precisely restrained things. The more *yakar* (precious/restrained) someone is, the better they are.
The Baal Shem Tov's teaching that the yetzer hara is "a good thing in the right place" is acknowledged as serious thought but rejected within this framework: if desire-as-criterion is the problem, then desire is not a good thing even "in the right place." At least on this theory, restraint is good and wildness is bad.
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Civilization is good, and the opposite of civilization is bad — and civilization is fundamentally about restraint, not passion. Passion may be the *background* of civilization (the raw material), but civilization itself is *based on* restraint. The modern romanticization of passion as the engine of progress is a deep inversion of the truth.
Marriage presupposes sexual desire (it is the background condition), but marriage is *based on* the restraint, organization, and submission of desire — giving it correct limits and structure. If you built your worldview off of sexual instinct alone, you would not arrive at marriage.
[Side digression / polemic:] Religious speakers (*ba'alei hashkafa*) who promote marriage by arguing it will yield better pleasure (e.g., "you'll have better sex") are sharply criticized. This approach backfires: if the foundation is pleasure, then the logical conclusion is hedonism — why accept any structure at all? The argument that pleasure is the basis leads to the dissolution of the very structures being promoted. Framing marriage instrumentally in terms of pleasure undermines the discipline that marriage actually requires.
If everything is based on pleasure, then unrestrained hedonism is the rational conclusion. Even hedonism fails on its own terms — "you don't have much pleasure doing that either" — but that is a separate problem. The real issue is that the pleasure-based framework cannot justify the structural discipline that makes marriage (and civilization) meaningful.
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Certain concrete practices align with this anti-desire theory:
- Fasting as an exercise in suppressing desire.
- Rambam and Rav Sa'adya Gaon explain the *issurei achilah* (forbidden foods) in this framework: eating prohibitions (e.g., *chazer*, *basar b'chalav*, *gid hanasheh*) function as exercises in suppressing desire, regardless of their original reasons.
- Rav Sa'adya's poem mapping all 613 mitzvos onto the Ten Commandments follows Philo in placing all food prohibitions under *Lo Tachmod*, understanding it as the foundational prohibition against desire.
- Rambam in Moreh Nevuchim explicitly states that one overarching objective (*klal*) of the mitzvos is *perishus* (abstinence/separation) — training people to not simply do what they want, making them less desirous.
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The anti-desire framework sounds correct in the abstract — a less desirous person will have fewer *nisyonos* and a better life. And both sides actually agree that desire shouldn't be the ultimate criterion of action; both agree that a "life of desire" is worse than a "life of reason." The debate is not about the conclusion but about whether this is a useful or accurate way to frame how moral improvement actually works.
The core objection: the anti-desire view assumes that people's moral struggles are best described as moments of deciding whether desire will be their criterion. But this is not how internal moral conflicts actually play out in real life. Think about actual experiences of moral progress, regress, internal conflict — find one that is well described by the story of "I was deciding whether to let desire guide me." The claim is that you won't find any. Real moral life is more granular and specific than this grand framing suggests.
Uncontrolled desire is genuinely bad — but it is one specific bad *middah* among many, not the master category. It would appear in a detailed, itemized account of bad character traits, but it is not a good *klal* (generalization) for the entire project of becoming a good person.
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The Chachamim assumed *Lo Tachmod* refers to something you do (an action), not something you want (a character trait / *midah*). They were "almost explicitly opposed to *mitzvos shebalev*" — not because they denied the importance of inner life, but because they did not believe that telling someone to be a less desirous person was the best way to train a human being.
The anti-desire approach leads to solipsistic loops. When you focus so intensely on not being a desirous person, you become so absorbed in self-monitoring that you forget to be a good person. The anti-desire project turns inward and loses contact with the actual ethical demands of life.
This is the central critical insight against the anti-desire school:
- Being a desirous person is a very easy way to become horrible — this is conceded.
- But not being a desirous person is NOT a quick way to become good — this is the crucial asymmetry.
- The anti-desire school treats suppression of desire as if it were *mina v'halacha* (a comprehensive principle from which everything follows). The response: it has a place, it's even true in a broad sense, but it's not practical enough and doesn't actually make you a good person.
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The Chazon Ish in *Emunah U'Bitachon* (chapter 3) articulates essentially the same position, though in a convoluted way. He inherited an ancient way of thinking but lacked a clean way to express it.
1. Very few people are actually pure *ba'alei taiva* (people driven entirely by desire). Some exist, but this is not the main problem in life.
2. Suppressing desire does not tell you how to act. You can be completely free of passionate desire and still be a *rasha* — even a *ganav* (thief). *Gneivah* is not defined by wanting things; it is defined by taking something that doesn't belong to you. And "not belonging to me" is defined by external criteria, not by the absence of desire.
3. The anti-desire framework enables "apathetic gneivah" — theft without passion, theft in a restrained, civilized manner. You can be a pleasant, non-desirous person and still steal — "one orange, not three." The caricature of the wild hedonist is rare; the real problem is ordinary people who are restrained but still not good.
4. Civilization's restraint didn't make people good. All the restraint that civilization imposed did not stop people from stealing, lying (*lo ta'aneh b'rei'acha ed shaker*), etc. So restraint was not "the final solution."
5. Even worse: restrained people are just boring. They may not commit unrestrained evil, but they also aren't anything positive.
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What is good and bad is defined by "external reality" — by other people. The Ramchal says it's defined by *halacha*, but this is just the Ramchal's way of expressing the same idea: the standard is external, not internal.
Being a thoroughly worked-over *ba'al mussar* (ethically refined person) does not make you any less of a *garnisht* (nothing). It makes you sensitive, but sensitive people are not better people. Refinement and sensitivity are not the same as goodness. The anti-desire program produces refined, sensitive individuals — but refinement is not a substitute for actually doing what is right as defined by external standards and obligations to others.
Moral status depends on fine-grained external distinctions, not on broad internal dispositions:
- Is a woman mekudeshet (betrothed) or nesu'ah (married)? The answer changes whether coveting her violates lo tachmod.
- Is she a chatzi eved chatzi ben chorin (half-slave, half-free)? If so, taking her might constitute full-blown adultery (ni'uf) plus lo tachmod; if not, the situation is entirely different.
- Going to a store and paying the correct price is normal; going to someone's house and paying slightly less or more than the correct price can be genuinely evil.
These are not exotic halakhic puzzles — this is how life actually works. Moral reality is granular and externally defined, and the internal-virtue approach cannot capture this granularity.
The anti-desire school fails even on its own terms. It claims to provide a comprehensive ethical solution, but:
- It may address extreme cases (someone consumed by desire), but it doesn't address the ordinary, everyday moral distinctions that constitute most of ethical life.
- Suppressing desire in an "undirected way" — without knowing what the right actions are — doesn't help.
- Even what one *should* want depends on knowing what is correct to want, which requires external knowledge (halakhah, Choshen Mishpat, etc.).
Some degree of desire-suppression is necessary — not as the goal, but as a precondition for being able to see beyond one's own desires. This is compared to "going out of your own ego," but it is a very simple thing, not the mystical achievement it's sometimes made out to be. It's a necessary condition for *anything* — even for doing math.
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Some people never perceive beauty as such because they can only register enjoyment (which is about the self). Modern discourse reinforces this by claiming "beauty is subjective," which reduces to saying there is no beauty, only personal enjoyment. This is nonsense — a product of "extremely crazy people" whose language has infected society. In daily life, people are constantly "controlled by things outside us" and do understand motivation based on objective goodness, not just personal desire.
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The Ramban (from the beginning of Parshat Mishpatim) holds that the entire parsha, and the broader Sinai discourse, is an expansion of the Aseret HaDibrot, and specifically Parshat Mishpatim expands lo tachmod (not lo tignov, possibly because lo tignov refers to kidnapping/gonev nefashot). Wanting/coveting can only be defined after you know what belongs to you and what doesn't.
Rav Soloveitchik claimed that people who don't learn Choshen Mishpat are "by default ganavim" — because the world is far more complicated than the naive principle "I don't take what's not mine." One must learn the detailed laws of obligations and property to know what one's actual moral situation is. The "natural" sense of property is insufficient.
This is the second interpretation of lo tachmod (the first being the anti-desire reading): lo tachmod is about being the kind of person who wants correctly, which requires detailed knowledge of what really belongs to you and what doesn't.
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The verse "b'fiv u'visfatav kibduni v'libo rachak mimeni" (with his mouth and lips he honored Me, but his heart is far from Me) has two readings:
First reading (the Navi's actual meaning): A person says all the right things in davening — bitachon, love of God, trust in divine justice — but doesn't live accordingly. When he needs something, he steals; he doesn't actually trust God to provide. "Libo rachak mimeni" means: you don't live what you say. "Heart" here means the kind of person you are in practice — your settled dispositions and actions, not your momentary feelings.
- Such a person is a liar and a hypocrite in the straightforward sense.
- The opposite person — who says Shema Yisrael quickly, without great emotion, but actually lives with bitachon and doesn't steal — is "libo karov laHashem" despite lacking emotional fervor.
Second reading (Chovot HaLevavot / Chassidic): A person says the words of davening by rote, without feeling, excitement, or devotion — versus someone who says them with emotional intensity and inner dedication. This reading treats the problem as one of emotional sincerity during the act of speech itself.
The Navi's criticism is not about saying Shema Yisrael quickly or without emotion. "Which mitzvah is it to say things? Doesn't help anyone." Someone who gets deeply emotional during a drashah, has no extraneous thoughts, is fully "present" — but doesn't actually believe or live by what he's saying — that person is the one the Navi calls "libo rachok mimeni." He's a "shakran" (liar), a "bluff." The real test is behavioral and dispositional, not emotional-experiential.
Daniel did not say "HaKel HaGadol HaGibor v'HaNora" because he couldn't say it honestly — he didn't experience it as true at that moment. This illustrates the *behavioral-honesty* standard: Daniel's omission was an act of integrity about what he actually believed, not about emotional intensity.
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Someone who harms another person while saying "I feel so bad for you" — and genuinely means it — is actually a bigger hypocrite than the psychopath who says it without feeling it. The psychopath is merely lying. But the person who truly feels bad yet continues the harmful action demonstrates that his "world of feelings" is irrelevant and morally weightless. Having feelings of remorse or empathy while persisting in bad action is not even a partial virtue — it's nothing. "Who cares about your feelings?"
Someone who claims "I never wanted it, I just took it without wanting it" — thinking they're not in violation — is wrong. They are over (violating) lo tachmod. The presence or absence of desire is not the criterion; the action of taking what belongs to someone else is.
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A student suggests: couldn't the "internal" pshat of lo tachmod (working on not desiring) be used as a tool to eventually arrive at the correct pshat (being the kind of person who acts correctly)?
This is theoretically possible but deeply concerning: in practice, the internal reading is almost always used as a tool to *avoid* reaching the correct destination. People use it to feel good about themselves without changing their behavior. This is partly theoretical and partly observational — drawn from watching how the yeshiva world has inherited a "bad version of internality" that makes people worse, not better. They think they're good because they "feel it" when saying Shema, or "feel it" when they say someone's pain hurts them.
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Simply overriding what you want and doing only what you think is correct is also an internal project and also insufficient. The person who squashes desire may be pure from negios (personal biases), but is still a bad person if he never seriously investigated what is actually correct — what belongs to him, what his obligations are, what his place in the world is. These are all external questions that require real engagement with reality. The person sitting at his shtender being a "good guy" internally, without doing this work, is not a good guy.
Being a very desirous person is bad for physical health (overeating, overdrinking). But not being desirous doesn't automatically make you healthy. You still have to find out what's actually healthy. There's no magic that says removing taiva (desire) leads to correct action. "You might just eat kugel without taiva." A deficiency in vice doesn't equal the presence of virtue. Removing something bad doesn't solve all problems.
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A crucial distinction about the order of causation vs. the order of definition:
- In the order of reality (causally), internality comes first — people do act from their internal states.
- In the order of theory (definitionally), internality comes second — what defines a good person is how he acts, not how he feels. The person who stops being a ganav (thief) will then stop wanting to be a ganav, and that is having the middah of lo tachmod.
The yeshiva world has it backwards: they think you fix the inside first and the outside follows. The correct approach: fix the outside (actions, engagement with reality and obligation) and the inside follows.
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Lying is not the non-conformance of your external words to your internal feelings at the moment of speaking. A skilled liar's thoughts conform to his lie while he's telling it. Rather, lying is the non-conformance of your words to reality — to the external facts. The "most internal thing" (what we call truth of the heart) is actually defined by external reality. The criterion for truth vs. falsehood is outside the person, not inside.
This reinforces the entire framework: even the concept of sincerity/truth is ultimately anchored in the external, not the internal.
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There is a third interpretation in the Sefer HaChinuch that needs to be addressed, but it is connected to too many other topics that would take too long to work through. This is left for a future session.
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The Chayei Adam's view about the importance of how you say the words (presumably of lo tachmod or related declarations) is dismissed as unimportant — it might serve as a practice for focus or meditation, but it doesn't really matter.
The Chayei Adam engages in rhetorical tricks, taking sources that mean something entirely different and reinterpreting them to support his own position. The pshat works better as drush (homiletical interpretation). The Chayei Adam raises a question on himself — about desires spiraling out of control and why words are needed if it's all in the heart — but doesn't really answer it. This is a question about words, whereas the inquiry here is about action, which is a fundamentally different question.
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[Self-Aware Methodological Note:] Throughout the shiur, there are repeated acknowledgments that much of this is "just arguing" — provocation meant to make students notice something "really weird" about modern assumptions, rather than settled positive claims. There is a distinction between the positive view (which is advanced cautiously) and the critical project (which is pursued aggressively).
Instructor: Bye, I'm just gonna put this back. Welcome to the second or third shiur. If you don't know, I'm Ahmed. I'm going to teach you today. So today I'm going to teach Ahmed, or Amos, or something. What's the Chodesh Adar [the month of Adar] got to it, Lashzach [Lo Tachmod: the prohibition against coveting], Ma'ad [very much]? Everything. Why? That's where you get the share.
So first I want to answer a little question about the Mazal [astrological sign] of Adar.
Instructor: It says in the Sfarim Hakedoshim [the holy books] that the Mazal of Chodesh Adar is Dugim [Pisces, fish], and that's not true, because Dugim, and the Krapiscus, in Latin, fish, Pisces, Pisces, I think that's how you pronounce it, is a fish, Pisces, Pisces, so the fish, everyone who learned about the mazalos [astrological signs], including in our two days ago, learned the mazalos have to do with the sun, right?
What Mazal means is that the sun travels within that constellation. That's literally what it means, right? And therefore it's got nothing to do with the moon or with Rosh Chodesh [the new month]. And therefore there's a Torah from—I read that it says in the Chizkuni [medieval Torah commentary], I didn't look it up, it says in the Yerushalmi [Jerusalem Talmud]—that they found people whose mazal works well on that day.
Instructor: People say because it's their birthday, I'm not sure if that's what it says, but people, everyone knows that every mazal, every, how do you call it in English? Every person who has a connection with one of the stars, yeah, like his horoscope or his, there's different words I'm looking for. Here's his sign, right? Everyone belongs to a sign. And every sign has a certain day in a certain year, in a certain month, in a certain part of time, where they are successful. So if you do start something or do something in that time, that's when you're lucky day. That's a theory of astrology.
And therefore, if you're very smart at making war, then you will get the people to fight for you to be the ones who are in their lucky day. That's why.
Student: Why is it that you're lucky? Why the day is lucky?
Instructor: Usually because you were born in that star or because the way in that, I don't know the Hilchos [laws of] astrology very well, but there's a thought. The thing is that your nature is built for that day.
Student: Something like that, yeah.
Instructor: There is part of time which works well, better for you. These things that there's natural causes for that also, I mean natural, not that astrology is not supposed to be natural, but everyone, these things are true regardless. Some people are night people, some people are morning people, some people are beginning of the week people, some people are end of the week people, things like that are observational things. They're not things that astrology is made up. Astrology is just a theory. Of course, the world has every day what you are, right? Astrology is just a theory to say that if you were born on this time, then you belong to this and this sign, and therefore you're going to be successful on this and this date and so on.
So anyways, I have some tzaddik [righteous person] thought of a theory like this: that's how Amalek, he got people who are in a lucky day to fight, and that's why they were winning. So Moshe [Moses] told the Shia [Yehoshua/Joshua] that you have to find someone that's doing even better. How can you find someone that's doing even better? Right?
Instructor: So Kareva Pekhli Gid [approximately: "it's like this"]. We have something called the 13th month. Now what's the sign of the 13th month?
Student: N.
Instructor: There isn't. If you have no sign, then you could be successful any day. So he found people that were all born in the second Adar. Of course, don't ask me like a lot of questions that Ibur [intercalation/leap year] Chodesh [month] was invented later, so it couldn't have been, but anyways, he found people that were born in the second Adar. And then when the Amaleki [Amalekite] comes and is like, "I'm going to get one person whose sign is stronger than your sign," he's like, "There's a null error. There's nobody to talk to." He's from Chodesh Adar Bet [the second month of Adar].
Student: Well, shouldn't it be the opposite, that we have a new mazal and it should be even worse?
Instructor: Another good kasha [question]. No, no, I think these type of things are really going against astrology. That's not my point. I can't say that I don't have astrology. According to astrology it would be worse, but our point is that...
Student: I think sometimes these things are said that way.
Instructor: Sometimes, but now...
Student: It's a non-starter.
Instructor: Zishtaya [the matter] is finished. Because I say there's a 13th month, it doesn't mean that there's a 13th month.
Instructor: Oh, I get it. Now you have a kasha. This is the same kasha as the loser was asking before. That this doesn't make any sense if you know anything about astrology, or anything about how this is supposed to work, it doesn't make any sense. Because the fact that your business has a problem with the lunar and the solar months not adding up, and therefore you figured out a chachma [clever solution] to make a 13th month in 7 out of 19 years, that doesn't tell the stars that the stars don't listen to you. There anyways always have 12 months or 12 signs of the Zodiac each year, each solar year.
That is the Givaldige Kasha [tremendous question]. And now I'm going to tell you the Teretz [answer] of this Kasha. You want to know the Teretz?
Instructor: Teretz is like this: that nobody was ever dumb enough to think that the stars influence people by which I mean the stars are very high, very far. They have a level in reality that is much higher than our level. You know how I know, right? How do I know that the stars are better morally than us? Because they never burn out. People have burnout. And stars don't burn out. People sometimes come in time, sometimes come late. Stars always come in time. So stars are perfect. The stars are perfect. You wish you could be a star. It's called you're a star. That's why it says, whenever we try to make, say, a human being is really amazing, we say he's a star.
This is in the Bible. This is in every cultural reference that we know. Stars are something amazing to me. The Rambam [Maimonides] says that when someone knows about the stars, as it says in Tehillim [Psalms], "Ki ereh shamecha... mah enosh ki tizkerenu" [When I see Your heavens... what is man that You remember him]. Then I think, in other words, when I see the stars are so great, I look down at the people and I say, these people, they don't stand up to the stars. They don't compare. They're very bad relative to the stars.
Instructor: So now, therefore, it's very weird. Nobody ever thought, since this is the basic thought, nobody ever thought that the stars care about you when they control your life. They're so much beyond you, so much higher. They have better things to do with their time than worry about who's going to win a battle. Of course, they don't worry, but therefore, we have a basic understanding that, on the other hand, stars make light for us and they tell us where to go when we're in the desert or in the sea and so on.
Instructor: But you have to understand that that is not directly. Stars don't directly do anything for us, only through the intermediary, through the mediation of humans, or we could say of human souls or human understanding. In other words, since I can look at the star and understand where I am relative to the star, the star does that through my looking. If I wouldn't be looking, the star wouldn't be able to tell me where to go. This is why nobody ever goes outside and hears the stars talking to him. You look at them first and then they talk to you. Then they control their life.
Student: Doesn't everything really work that way?
Instructor: Everything works that way, yes.
Student: Not everything.
Instructor: In other words, things on your level don't work like that. Your friend pushes you without you asking him, looking at him, so it doesn't work through you. Or when you slip on a banana peel, the banana peel doesn't work through your soul. It's a lower thing in some sense working on you or something in your level of your body that's working on you, but higher things always work like that or most higher things.
Therefore, so I'm not talking about pushing so much but let's say when you want help from someone, right? It's always that you want that, not always, yeah, but you want to go to the doctor, yes?
Student: Yeah, but the doctor is not helping you through your mind, right? It's your mind that came to him, but he's not helping you through your mind.
Instructor: The stars can only help you through your mind, unless...
Student: Unless the doctor tells you to follow certain instructions and you need to use your mind to follow the instructions.
Instructor: That's true. But usually he would just give you a shot or something and then he's not helping you through your mind.
Student: The trees are the same way though. Trees cannot follow the stars. They follow the stars.
Instructor: But humans can follow trees the way they follow stars. If the trees would be telling you something. The problem is they don't tell us as many things as the stars tell us.
Student: David Deutsch uses it as an argument, I think, for the importance of humans in the sense that they don't know they can affect their mind, could be affected by everything.
Instructor: Okay, maybe. The point is that when humans are affected through higher causes or through the stars, then it works through the human soul, not there doesn't jump another another way of saying it is...
Student: Yeah, but that's not what we're thinking about thinking like you and human and interactions or human influence...
Instructor: Oh, in...
Student: No, in the sense that the stars, just to be clear, in the sense that the stars cause the sun, causes sunset and sunrise, that's not what I'm talking about. We don't need astrology for that.
Instructor: No, no, that doesn't work in that sense.
Student: Okay, this is a whole tiftoida [big discussion].
Instructor: But yeah, the astrology was not, there was machlokes [dispute] about this in ancient people, but astrology was generally not said to work in that way. At least the Jews don't believe that works now.
Student: In what sense are you talking about?
Instructor: Wait, wait, wait, everyone has so many questions and I can't even finish like one paragraph of thought. So my point is that so the way to say this is that things like...
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As you have to understand, what does it even mean to say that on a certain day is your lucky day? What makes days into days, and weeks into weeks, weeks and months into the months, and years into years?
So, Rabbi Akiva discovered something very interesting. Rabbi Akiva discovered that it says in the Pasuk [verse], and he says, oh, wait, it's we that call them Adam [appointed times], right? Of course, we call them based on something we know. He's not saying that it's arbitrary that the people that are calling it can just do whatever they want. They have to be channeling the stars. They have to be channeling what is going on in heaven, but they have to be channeling it.
And that means that if those people tell you and you believe them—as long as you believe; if you don't believe them that doesn't work—but if those people tell you that today is Tuesday, then it's Tuesday. Because Tuesday never touched you without going through people.
So in other words, the Tuesday that was before on Tuesday is now on Thursday. Tuesday could be chal on [fall on] Thursday, if the Beis Din [rabbinical court] says so. There's no problem. And this is all real, but nothing has to be subjective for any of this to work.
So now we understand that when we say that we split up time in a different way, right? So for example, there's some person—like we can understand it—there are some people that like the beginning of every period of time. That's when they're successful. Some people that are successful at the end of them. Some people that are successful precisely in the middle of them, and so on.
That's basically what all these astrological sign belongings boil down to, right? When you cut up the year into 12 parts, or the sun's cycle between the stars into 12 parts, then some people enjoy the beginning, some people the end, some people are successful at this stage of the process and people at that stage of the process and so on.
But now when this comes down to people, what processes mean for us has to do with how we control our time, how we set up our time. So if you set up your time slightly off-center from how the stars set up their time, that's going to channel the stars through that way.
So if you said that the Rosh Chodesh [new month] is on Sunday and really it's on Monday, then the Monday moved to Sunday. The Monday Elyon [upper/heavenly Monday] moved to the Sunday Tachton [lower/earthly Sunday]. And now it's Sunday or Monday, whichever one you want it to be. And now all the influences that there are—people, some people like Sunday, some people like Mondays—is going to happen when the Rav [rabbi] said that it's something, not when the so-called real Sunday is in heaven. Very simple.
Student: And if you don't understand, you should achieve it. You need to have the cycle to be able to channel the stars, but then when if you're like off, then the stars are also off.
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: So then you don't have to have the cycle in the first place. What exactly—that confusion is my confusion.
Instructor: And this—but this does—this is not—it's so basic that it's past niche that you should even have that. Because if there's a big—if there's a big—if there's like an electric current, like I'm going to use the stupid mashal [analogy] that everyone uses, but just so you should see that the framework is not—there's nothing wrong with the framework.
If there's a big electric current that has two ends, that has a positive side and a negative side, and that's fixed, you can't change the positive into negative. But for me to get it, I need to connect a wire and bring it all the way down to me and do a transformer that makes it come small enough so I could have the end use of it, and then I bring it to me.
Now the place where the negative is right and positive is left or so on—that's how it is in the source. But when I connect it to me, I could put it all the way around if I want, and it's going to be the real positive from there and the real negative from there. But when they come to me, they're going to be—they're going to be opposite. They're going to be the opposite side. There's no problem with that. It's very—all of this is very real.
Both you need me and both I am actually channeling the thing. I'm not creating it fresh. I'm channeling that thing. And I have some degree of freedom to put it wherever I want.
Channel just means that you make the thing that you're getting work through your way, whatever it does. The stars say today is the first day of the year. Some people like the first day of the year. The stars—now, yeah, there's a cycle and the stars are real. It's a real cycle. Don't say it isn't.
And then I said, now this first doesn't directly touch me. It only touches me through this whole series of pipes—humans, souls. But they will call them pipes so you should understand, because you don't understand when I say it more. So let's call it pipes.
And now the last plumber in the pipe could move it over two days or three days or ten days—I don't know how many. There's a limit to how many days you can move it over, but it can move it over a little bit. And then you're going to have the first. And if I tell you today is the first because this is when the year started, let's dial the stars in this whole picture, I can still do the same thing.
Student: I don't understand again. So maybe you—it makes sense. I need electricity to move into my wall. I don't need the power station at all. That's what you're saying.
Instructor: Thank you very much. You don't need it. You don't need it. It makes sense. Maybe I don't understand it either, so I don't know. I'm just venturing it makes sense.
Student: You just give a mashal. I have to be mischievous to this mashal.
Instructor: The mashal is supposed to explain you why the structure is very normal.
Days get shorter and longer during the year, right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: But you don't have to notice them exactly when they do. If you notice it by delay, then that's when they got shorter.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: The real shortening of the days happened for you in the time when you noticed it or in the time when someone told you to notice, right? I'm saying it's by—say it's the day when the sun—the change in the sun—it's five days after the change in the sun, right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: That's when exactly the sun started to grow. It's the sun's influence on you that's actually how it is, right?
I think there's always the reality is different because the sun even physically takes time and takes some processes to get through to us and so on. So everything is like this. But what I'm saying is that the psychic—psychic power is not the word—soul powers, once the things go through humans, they become—they gain many degrees of freedom more than they had.
Student: When you're talking about like the sun takes 8 minutes to get to us and the star that you're seeing was dead 5 years and so on?
Instructor: Yeah, and that's all part—that's interesting, right? You're talking about soul kind of, or human kind of, but that's a different question. I'm just—that assuming it works, I'm answering a question within a system.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: And then come here to explain the whole system. I'm just saying what do you mean it makes you fight better?
Some people fight—some people fight better in the morning, some people afternoon. Now that if that thing is real, that's the sun that causes them with morning and afternoon. It's not a human invention. But if I shut off the lights and I tell them to sleep for two hours later, then the morning is then. And then the morning people are happy then. As simple as that. Just like I could make the morning night and the night morning, you could—to an extent, to an extent you could, yes, to an extent.
And therefore the people that live according to the Rosh Chodesh [new month], that's when the month starts. And if it started in the day that's wrong for the moon, who cares?
Student: So in a sense, you make your own luck?
Instructor: You control it, you channel it. That's what I like the word channel. People use it, probably overuse it, but it's just a little explanation of what it is. You channel it, of course. Now, it's not your own, that's what I'm saying.
We talk about, for example, cultures and like this Beis Din—
Instructor: Not the source, but you're the channel. Yeah, and also not only you. Things are hard to do yourself, most significant things. That's why we have a Beis Din [Jewish court], and that channels it.
And when they—if we assume that somehow when they make a Rosh Chodesh [the new month], then they're deciding that it's the 12th of this solar year or so—then the few times when they make a 13th month, they're saying, this one is empty, we're going to do whatever we want with it. And then it's really like that because they pushed all the shefa [divine flow/influence], all the energies, whatever you want to call them, of all the 12 stars into the 12 months prior. And then they're left over with time to do what they want. That's the whole trick.
Just like anything. If you finish your work, you know there's some people that have salaries every bi-weekly. Some months they have three of them, right? How could it be? Some have five weeks. So you're the first a week, third in the month, and fifth. Very good. So those months are longer?
Student: No.
Instructor: They are longer. They have more money in them. They actually help, depending on how you're triangulating between different schedules.
Student: The attributions that they do with this don't really match up. It goes well beyond what you're saying. That's the point.
Instructor: The?
Student: What they attribute to that gets affected by these things is so much more than what your explanation offers.
Instructor: I don't understand. This is a question?
Student: Yeah, yeah.
Instructor: Okay. You have an explanation of how it works. The problem is they're saying it works for things that don't.
Student: Who is they?
Instructor: The first thing we started with, fighting on birthdays.
Student: No, nobody does what I say. Nobody ever thought that it works without going through souls. So how does that explain that you fight on a birthday or someone born...
Instructor: I didn't explain. I explained what I came to explain, exactly. Because the person whose soul his star goes through decided that this month belongs to him and not to some star. And that works. And therefore it belongs to him, and therefore you fight better according to what he said you should.
Student: Can I have more than one or just one month?
Instructor: What do you mean more than one?
Student: Can I have all the months or all them except one?
Instructor: Sure. I mean you can't have more than one—not sure what's the question. I didn't get there, okay. I don't try—depends how many calendars you observe. You can try to observe more calendars. Like some Jews have written twice a year because they observe both the secular new year and the regular new year. For most people it's very hard. Like you take one seriously and the other one is not real. But you're good if you take both seriously in some way, then you're good.
I think that's very hard because the logic of a new year is that there's some times that are not the new year. It's very hard to like—wait, no, it's not the middle of the year, it's the new year. It's Chinese New Year. Everyone feels it, people that are in retail and those things.
Student: Okay, because you're working with different people, those people have that shefa [divine flow], have that thing.
Instructor: Okay, you don't understand what I'm saying, so I'm not going to say other things. So the story's like this. I don't know what's so hard to understand, but I guess not like this.
Instructor: We discussed last week—the conclusion of the shiur [lesson] was that Lo Tachmod [the prohibition "do not covet"] is the internal counterpart, so to speak, of all the mitzvos [commandments] before it, or specifically the four mitzvos before it. That's what we discussed. Is that correct?
Students: Correct.
Instructor: Now, we have to talk something a little bit about the fact that this is not actually accepted. There's a big controversy about this, and the way in which people read this has very much to do with the way in which they understand all the things we're talking about, which is the discussion of how to be a good person and what it means to be a good person, as opposed to being a person who does good things, right? Just having good actions.
So there's two contrary readings of this Lo Tachmod, corresponding to the wrong shita [approach/opinion] and the correct one.
In other words, the wrong one is what we discussed in the beginning of last shiur, which is a kind of interiority or internality—for some reason I like, it sounds better the second way—which is entirely self-focused, entirely about me feeling the correct feelings or having the correct internal emotions, dispositions, things like that.
And the second one, which understands all of internality as directed towards the outside. It's just, you're the kind of person who could be relied on, or who will always, from his inside will flow the outside actions, but that's still directed towards the person. Those are the two readings.
I should probably try to do some more justice or some more for the first reading, because I guess that there's some logic to it, some way in which it makes sense. Should I? But I don't know how to do that. I should probably give it some more kindness somehow.
Instructor: What I can say is like this. You've read some of this stuff, right? So certain mussarim [ethicists/moralists]—I'm not sure what Rav Luzzatto [Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto, author of Mesillas Yesharim] says about this. He talks about it. I just don't remember how his response is entirely.
Another person who seems to be on this side is Rav Avraham Ibn Ezra [Rabbeinu Avraham Ibn Ezra, medieval biblical commentator]. And the third person before that who seems to be on the wrong side is a Yid [Jew] named Philo [Philo of Alexandria, first-century Jewish philosopher].
So Philo wrote this book on the Aseres HaDibros [the Ten Commandments], as we discussed. And when it gets to Lo Tachmod, he gets into a whole huge, long, drusha [discourse] bashing desire. Or in Greek, I forgot the word. The word is for passion and desire. That's what he gets into.
And he explains that desire is the worst thing. Desire causes all the problems in the world. Both the kind of problems of eating too much and drinking too much and stealing feeling, and hurting yourself and hurting others, and not dedicating your life to the right things. All of these kinds of problems start with desire.
And he seems to say something very weird, which is something like, since all the bad things that people do, they do because they want, if we want to attack this thing at its root, we should attack the wanting instead of the bad things.
And we have this framework, which is a framework which we find in many mussarim [ethicists], like, so it somehow has a source, has sources like Plato and some, maybe some parts of Chazal [the Sages], where you say things like, the problem is wanting, or we could specifically say unrestrained by reason wanting, right, maybe not wanting as such, but it's not always—yes wanting as such, but not saying that there's no good wantings, but wanting when you let yourself do what you want.
That we hear people saying this, right? Let yourself do what you want, you'll turn out to be the worst person. So therefore the basic way of not being a bad, worst person is to not just do what you want, to not follow their desires.
So there's like this general statement that says that ethics boils down to, or like in one very significant sense is, do not follow your desires. And this gets read into do not desire, or do not follow your desires, do not be a desirous person. Do not live with your desires. Because people that do that, today they want this, tomorrow they want that, and all evils in the world come from people following their desires.
That's a theory promoted by Philo and by who else? Maybe questionable—I may think maybe the Ibn Ezra seems to understand Lo Tachmod in this way or explicitly understand Lo Tachmod this way. I'll show you if you want, but I'm not sure if he understands it in this way. I'll tell you the third way of understanding it. So that might be the real reason of Ibn Ezra. But Philo for sure understands it this way.
And that's a way of understanding life that I think makes sense somehow to many people. Like the main thing is to stop doing what you want. Is that what I was saying? Stop doing what you want? Or to try to not want those things? Not want so much. Want less. Stop wanting so much. It's like a fight against the wanting. Wanting. Wanting is not a very good translation. Something like desire or what we call ta'avah [desire/craving] in our language is a better translation.
Student: Why does he care if you want as long as you don't do that?
Instructor: Interestingly, people usually end up doing what they want. Not only that, because then what you're doing is not everything you want. And the thing is that wanting, that desire is something uncontrolled, right? Something like, okay, today I want to kill you, tomorrow I want to sleep with that guy's wife, the third day I want to be a billionaire, the fourth day I want to travel somewhere. Wanting is something uncontrolled. So if that becomes your criteria in life, then that's very messed up. That's something like, I think that's something like the theory.
Student: Why is it automatically a quit to doing?
Instructor: Wanting means wanting to do. There isn't any wanting that isn't wanting to do. I don't think anyone disagrees with that. The point is that they understand the evilness as the being a wanting too much...
This is a slightly, as I said, a slightly kinder reading. You can understand it this way. There's two kinds of people. There are people that do what they want. There are people that do what they think is right. In a violent world. Well, this is a reasonable way of describing humans. It's not crazy. I think that it doesn't do enough justice to the kind of desire that exists, but...
There's not external things, let's say, holding him back from doing what he wants. Sometimes, okay, sometimes. So that he can be a person that wants, but doesn't do further or whatever. But mostly not, mostly not, right?
Student: Where we have this, I'm not sure why, like... I don't know, let's say he's scared of getting caught or I don't know, whatever. You know, he just doesn't want to deal with the ramifications of everything.
Instructor: But you know the truth that we don't—you don't usually get caught. What? You don't usually get caught. I don't know if you know—you hear about the ones that got caught. I'm not being the exit out of here.
In other words, you're asking something like why would people think that desire—I complain but this is not the problem. Talk about things that you could do—they could be—you could stress the whole ice cream. You don't get caught for that. But for example, you could eat all of the chazer [חזיר: pig/non-kosher food] in the world, okay? That's another example. You're not going to get caught.
In other words, there's many, many ways to destroy yourself without destroying other people from desire, right? And usually people—it's in your power. It's not—it's not the question is not if it's going to happen. But of course desire means I'm going to do it or not going to do everything I desire, because usually you can—you desire more things than you want—then you manage to do or you could do. But you will, and it is something uncontrolled. That's what I'm trying to get at.
This reasoning is saying something, and I think if you want to make sense of this—and this is the way in which it's true—I would be critical of it in a different way, but the way in which it's true is that the criteria—their thing that is good—can't be the answer to what is good, at what you do, what your base, your decisions of what to do in life is, can't be what you want, can be what you desire. Because that's something unlimited. That's something like anything. It's possible point that happens, but that's not what you're drawing, what happens.
Student: That the right thing is something that you want?
Instructor: Well, that's what being godly means. A sakhemet nik [שחמת'ניק: a person driven by desire] means—sakhemet nik is a kind of guy who does what he what he what he likes, but not what he wants or what he desires. That's a weird kind of guy. Those kind of guys are usually the worst. And therefore train yourself to not be that kind of guy.
Whenever you desire something—you know the story of some story that goes like—it goes on many different rabbis—like he's okay then it's like I don't know he's hungry or thirsty or something like that and the guy's okay so why don't you eat? Because my father taught me that you don't do what you want, right? You don't drink when you're thirsty. You drink when you need to drink.
That's that's the kind of training that's behind this. You could see that makes sense—not because it's bad to do what you want, but because one thing is not a good enough reason to do things, or it's not—shouldn't be the primary reason to do things.
If you want, we could say pleasure, right? Physical pleasure, because usually when people talk about this they talk about physical pleasure, right? Don't make pleasure your god, right? Don't make it the thing that sets right from wrong to you. Because that's something very unlimited, very wild, very unrestrained.
And we could say a story where all the evils in the world have their source in this. That's the story that Pharaoh says. Plato sometimes says it. Maybe in Chazal [חז"ל: our Sages, of blessed memory] sometimes they talk about the Yetzer Hara [יצר הרע: evil inclination] as the source of all evils, and sometimes what they mean is just desire is the source of all evils.
Because otherwise Yetzer Hara has no meaningful content, right? Yetzer Hara is the will to do evil, thank you very much. Many times when the Chazal talk about Yetzer Hara as the source, like they have this idea of Yetzer Hara as the source of evil, what they mean to say is desire is what causes most bad things. Or another way, following Yetzer Hara, right? In other words, following what you think will be pleasurable to you.
So that's a reasonable making sense of this kind of reading, of this kind of understanding.
Why do I think there's something weird with this? Why don't I like it?
Student: But then everything you do is never a desired thing that you're doing.
Instructor: Well, like I said, when I—didn't say that. You could add desire to things that you're doing, but that shouldn't be the reason you're doing them. You've heard of such trainings, of such people talking this way about, like Mussar [מוסר: Jewish ethical/character development literature]. Mussar is all about not doing what you want, not following your desires.
It sort of misses the point. Which point does it miss? I don't know if this is the right way—maybe that you could be a person who wants the right things, and then you should love your desire, basically.
Student: It's only speaking for, like, a bad person, essentially.
Instructor: Well, again, but I'm going to give you my answer again. It's speaking about someone—when we speak against desires, we speak against making desires your criteria of the good. Well, that makes sense.
So what should your criteria be? Oh, something like—that's why desires is usually set against reason, or restraint, or limit.
Student: Met oh that's what it means, right? It's always there's always a the car me whenever someone says don't be a lot don't be a homemade, right? Louis I don't be a hum hum the neck but I mean say but be a reason Nick or something like that.
Instructor: So don't be a reasonable person but fear how do we—I don't know how the people do.
Student: I was to say this very good.
Instructor: That's exactly. So this theory says—this theory—in other words we did—we discuss this last time.
There's this question like why is—there's a long list after the sakhemet [שחמת: coveting], and there's two opposite readings of it. My reading is that the sakhemet is of those things. But this reading would be the opposite—that the source of all these things is something more amorphous and more basic called sakhemet.
If you will be a khaymet [חמד'ניק: one who covets], you will end up with—but the problem is the way they frame the problem is the one thing is the problem. It's the opposite. And therefore they would say the sakhemet is a new mitzvah [מצוה: commandment]. It's adding information—not like I said last week, not like Mahab Shat [possibly מהר"ש: a rabbinic authority], which says it doesn't really add anything. All it adds is don't be the kind of person who wants all these things and does all these things.
What they're saying is it adds—no, it's adding a general—we could say call it a general way of working on yourself, right? A general way of being a good person, which is a total new thing. The mitzvah seems to think things like this, right? There's a new area called mitzvah, which means something like—instead of just like people would say like the householders would say—if you're just going to be working on liking the right things or like not eating something that's not yours, or things that are not kosher, or things like that, then you will still have the desire, which is the source of the problem, which is what causes all these people.
So I have a simpler way for you to live. Just stop being a desirous person, and then you will have solved all issues in life at once, in some sense. That seems to be the argument for this way of thinking.
And they say the opposite. If you don't solve desire, then you're going to have one desire, and you're going to eat chazer.
Student: That would be the same thing. It's not a pill. It's some kind of work.
Instructor: Same thing as well according to this thing. Not a pill. No, pill is not a good example because pill is—you're thinking of like solving the physical sense, like cutting off your like—be misogynist yourself or something like that. That's not the exact response here. It's saying become a different kind of person, right? It's saying become a person who is controlled by his reason, not by his et cetera.
Become a person who is controlled by—like Rebbechim [רבנים: rabbis] said—there's many reasons of this. One reason of this would be to say I have a solution for all your problems in life. What does that mean? He doesn't say, well, this spells out to do all the good things and not do all the bad things. He's saying no, I have a simpler way for you to work, or a more inner way for you to work. Become a kind of person who follows his Yetzer Hara, which means his good drive—in other words, his reasonable drive—or you could say follow the Torah, obey the law if you want, and don't obey the Yetzer Hara, don't obey your tithers.
It's not such a crazy—it's not so crazy like I presented it to me. That's the whole point.
Student: No, no, no, no, no. I don't mean even right thing. Let's say a person, right? You could either go to—you have a chesik [חשק: desire] right now to do two things. Either go to a strip club or go and be the Chad Shtayin [learning Torah]. Yeah? Literally—wait, wait, I'm going to tell you something. It lives within me. Yeah? I'm saying, within the same person.
Instructor: Yes, yes, yes. You go and now sit for the next six hours and—
Student: So again, the Yid [Jew] that says this will tell you, you have another problem besides for the—you don't—your problem—I mean right now you have the problem of choosing between these desires or deciding which one is good. I have a solution for you that will solve the whole thing. My akuta [עקותא: solution]—don't—when you decide where to go tonight, don't decide it based on where you desire to go. Decide on what is correct or on what Iraq [possibly יראה: fear/reverence] says or something like that. And therefore you will automatically not have this question anymore. You will just go to the show [shul: synagogue] because that's what the correct thing to do is.
Instructor: No, no, no. What I'm saying is we all know what the good desire is here, right? Versus what the bad desire is.
Student: No, desire is bad. There's no good desires in this.
Instructor: That's what I'm asking. Is it possible just to have a good desire?
Student: No, because when I say desire, I don't mean to like something. Just to be clear, the word desire means something different here. The word desire means the desire as a source of the good, as a criteria of good, it as a criteria of action. That's what we mean, really.
Instructor: Yes, yes, that's what it means.
Student: Not change definition. That's what it means. Whenever anyone gives you this trisha [תירוץ: answer/resolution] against being about Tyler [possibly בעל תאוה: master of desire], that's what they mean.
Student: There's no good desires in this. That's what I'm asking. Is it possible just to have a good desire?
Instructor: No, because when I say desire, I don't mean to like something. Just to be clear, the word desire means something different. The word desire means the desire as a source of the good. As a criteria of good. As a criterion of action. That's what we mean, really.
Student: But now you're just changing the definition.
Instructor: Yes, that's what it means. Not changing the definition, that's what it means. Whenever anyone gives you this *drasha* [דרשה: homiletical interpretation] against being a *Ba'al Taivah* [בעל תאווה: master of desire/appetites], that's what they mean. Obviously it's about this, right? And the other person is disagreeing with this, just to be clear, this is what the *machlokes* [מחלוקת: dispute] is about.
If wanting something should be the reason why you do things. Desiring, one thing is a little bit more, too broad, but yeah, desiring. As in thinking that it will bring you pleasure, or something like that, or honor, or maybe just different desires but so you shouldn't irrational desires you shouldn't do anything based on that yes even if they're good things the point is that desire is not a good thing there isn't good desires.
Good desire—when I say desire I mean uncontrolled desire, right? That's what I mean. When you say the desire that the expert is masking, when you're talking about something else you're talking about some kind of—by the way, another way if you want to spell it out like this, you could spell it out like someone that has some kind of crazy *Taivah* [תאווה: desire/craving] to learn—that's a bad thing too. Yeah, you should have a reasonable *Taivah* to learn, but that's not a *Taivah*. Then you're not following a *Taivah*. You enjoy it. It's not against enjoying good things. It's against the enjoyment, which is by nature an uncontrolled thing, being the guide of your actions.
So the two *shittos* [שיטות: approaches/opinions] says, one is just combat the notion of desire, or channel the notion of desire. Well, the other *shittah* says that this is not a very good way of framing things. It's mostly a question of how to frame the thing on the—let's say the action itself which is bad, they're focusing on where—where is the—which is always bad. Again, this person says that *Lo Tachmod* [לא תחמוד: the prohibition "do not covet"] is a thing that—no, that's why he disagrees with you. He says that *Lo Tachmod* means don't be a desirous person, which will—being a desire—yes.
The other *shittah* says, now we could go back to think what the other *shittah* says, because now you at least understand what this guy is saying. He's not just saying random things, don't do things that you like. He's saying that liking is not a reason to do things.
Now, the other person says, well, the problem with your theory is that it's underspecified. You think that you're solving—you're going to make me into a less desirous person and it sounds correct. It sounds correct that a less desirous person will have a better life and will have less desirousness, as you would say. Right? You will have less issues to solve. But, this person will tell you, and if you mean that, it's somewhat correct even. We agree that desire shouldn't be the criteria. Or another way to say something like, if you say, there's a life of pleasure, or a life of desire versus a life of reason, or a life of restraint, or a life of some other way of saying the good, I 100% agree with you. There's no debate about this. There's no debate.
The debate is if this is a very good way to spell out how to work. Why? Because the other person says that you are assuming that the way people actually work most of the time is by deciding if desire is their criteria. This is like how decisions are made or how fights happen or how internal fights happen. But I think that this is not really happening.
So there's a few things but let's—this is the first thing that is the main thing that he would say. He would say something that no, desire is in the greater sense, precisely in the greater sense that you're saying—if you're talking about an uncontrolled desire, nobody disagrees that that's a bad thing in itself. It's like a bad *middah* [מידה: character trait]. There's a specific bad thing and that might be one of the bad *middos* that I will be against when I get into my detailed account of bad *middos*. One of them is to chase uncontrolled desires or uncontrolled pleasures. No problem with that.
But what I disagree with is that this is a good *klal* [כלל: general principle], this is a good generalization of becoming a good person. And why? Because I tell you that look around life, think about your life, think about the times in which you had some kind of moral progress or regress or debates or conflicts, internal conflicts and so on. And find me one that can be well described by this story. And I can think that there isn't any.
Describe a story of desiring something. Of deciding if desire is the criteria. Meaning like on the good sense of things. Like when you want to do good.
Student: I think desire is a very good criteria for a lot of good things. I think in business, it's like, yeah, sometimes you have this passion, this desire to create the internet.
Instructor: Ah, nobody disagrees that that's bad, what you're describing. That's a description of the *Yetzer Hara* [יצר הרע: evil inclination]. Right, but it brings good results.
Student: No, it brings bad results.
Instructor: Really?
Student: Yeah, of course.
Instructor: Which bad results?
Student: Everyone, nobody, that's like—and if it does something with a passion, I think it's creating—
Instructor: Yeah, very good. That's a very modern and extreme inversion of ethics. Passion doesn't make things good. The results are not good. What are you talking about? If the results are good, they're good after being controlled. They're not good. What are you talking about? The results are not good. The results of following your passions are by definition bad because bad just means under no guidance, under no reason, under no idea of how it's good.
No, no, no, no. This is absolutely the opposite. Absolutely the opposite. This is the example in any *inyan* [ענין: matter/topic]. Just to be clear, any like *inyan* next would use all these examples that you're using as the example of a life gone extremely wrong because he had a bad life. He's chasing money all his life and girls. What kind of life is that?
Student: Yeah, absolutely.
Instructor: Oh, money, ambition, its power—that's what it is, right? What's so good about that? Your role models are evil.
Student: Unless it's not my ambition now.
Instructor: Yeah, based on—based on—based on—based on—based on what I want, not based on any idea of anything else. People doing easier, people doing a lot of—the *Ma'ari* [unclear reference] actually did it. Then what? What do you mean then what? So what was their passion after that? They still had the passion, right?
Student: Passion for what?
Instructor: They didn't innovate any new things. He just came up with a car. And then he rode off that. That's a bad thing. I don't get why you think that's a good thing. I have no idea.
If it's a good thing, then you don't need passion to explain why it's a good thing. When you make the passion into a good thing, that is the exact problem. In other words, there's nothing to distinguish that that you're for some reason praising from the guy whose passion was to kill as many prostitutes as possible and he ended up killing 102. I don't know, some serial killer. It's a great passion, don't ask me. And he planned it and he created a whole system, how to work with it, and then didn't get caught yet or did get caught or whatever, and that was part of the plan. Who knows? I mean, passion can't be a reason to do things.
Student: Did I say that, I know what you're talking about, but this is not—I have to get to the other side now. I think passion is a great driver for creation.
Instructor: Again, if we're talking about a reason for things being good, a way of living your life based on that is almost the definition of evil, specifically in the examples that you're giving. That's what the *Yetzer* [יצר: inclination] means. That's what means you're living your whole life in the worship of the *Yetzer* and fulfilling your desires, or we could call them your—specifically your unreasoned desires.
If someone says the opposite, if someone says, I think this is so good now, and since it's so good, I desire it, then it's not desire that's leading you, it's the good that's leading you. That's a very different story. But if you say the story as the passion being the driving, the reason, then that's a very weird story to think that it's good. It sounds very weird. Like a *Achashverosh* [אחשורוש: the Persian king in the Book of Esther, paradigm of desire-driven life].
I think a lot of people who are like—I think a lot of times people describe bad doctors as people who almost want people to be sick in order to heal them. Because they have such a desire to heal people, right? And it's not even a desire to heal people, it's a desire to be the one responsible for their healing, right? It's a desire for *kavod* [כבוד: honor], that's a desire for *kavod*.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but that would be different from a doctor who thinks that cancer is so terrible that he wants to do it. Actually, the guy that has the patches to the thing.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, yeah. The guy that holds the book back.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. He's the doctor who loves health so much, or thinks that health is such a good thing that he has a passion for it. But he's actually very good at what he does. You need the surgery.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, but no, no. I'm arguing that the bad doctor is the one who tries to heal people and the good doctor is the one who tries to heal sicknesses.
Student: Don't forget to take your fifth book.
Instructor: Anyway, I'm not going to get into this.
You should notice that there's a modern ideal of praising passion, which is precisely the thing described as monstrous evil in every book prior to like 1600. You should notice this at least. This is one of my things. Just notice. Is there's something really weird going on.
Okay, now let's move on. I'm not asking, I'm just telling you. See, that's great—not great in the sense of big. Yeah, nobody disagrees with that. That's the problem. Worse, you mean. You mean worse. It's a really bad thing. I'm really against it. You should come here on Shabbos and hear me explain why cars are—
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Instructor: But that's the worst thing. Or not the worst thing, that's traditionally seen as the worst thing. I'm here to argue with this simplification here, but you have to understand what it is. Being able to do what you want, that's what the sultan said. Why would being able to do all kinds of things be a good thing? That's a bad thing.
Student: In my mouth—
Instructor: No, no, I'm not putting it in my mouth. I'm saying the mashal [parable/analogy] is—let's say like I said, I want to come to this shiur [Torah lesson] so much, so much. It could have taken me either 17 minutes or it could have been 3 hours.
Student: No, no, that's just—oh my god, oh my god, no, no, that's not true. Firstly it's not true, no, no, it's not a good mashal because like, just to like, you should think before you speak. Like what are you even saying? Like what, this is solving a problem. That's really why cars—
Instructor: Of Vendancy should come to this shiur? I could know it's not a time we show it. I can't even get into this because if you should think about this, like you should try to take it apart and realize what is behind thinking that this is good. Because it's not good. I don't think it's good. I don't even think that it's good. You should talk to my sheet in 70 minutes. I think it's really evil. I think it makes the sheet worse, makes you worse, makes the whole world worse. But that's just me giving a positive argument for why it would be like that.
Student: I'm not watching you right now online—
Instructor: That makes it better? Worse, of course. Makes the world worse. The fact that you could watch me online without coming here is making the world worse. Of course it is. Now, since we live in the evil world, should you watch me instead of some other nonsense? That's a different discussion. But of course the ability, the expansion of ability, is like the expansion of desire. And therefore the more a person is a kind of person who could do what he wants, and all of this technology when it's praised, it's praised precisely in this way—it expands humans' freedom. Now you can do what you want. In other words, it makes us worse people. The kind of praise is the praising of the evil.
Student: Well, do you need great ability to do great good things too?
Instructor: Yes, but the good doesn't consist of the ability. The good consists precisely of putting a limit on the ability and saying you only do it in this way. Now that's not a praise of the inventor. That's a praise of me that's using it in only the good way. But therefore I don't owe anything to the guy that invented the internet, because he only gave me the yetzer [hara] [evil inclination]. Just like I don't owe anything to my body or to whatever that is the base of the things that we act in life, the things that want. The thing that gets praised or deserves praise is what puts limits on that, not what creates the ability. Right? Creating abilities is always bad. It's the definition of bad.
Instructor: So we should go back to this bad here is not so bad, just to be clear. Bad is the base of good, always. So the inventor of the wheel is also extremely mad guy. You read the story? Did you read the story of that Sadassah ever? That's what it says there. Did you read the myth of Prometheus? Like this base fundamental units that all say this expansion of abilities is bad. Nothing new here. And again, does that mean that there's nothing to do after that? No. But the praising of precisely what is seen as the problem as the solution—that is a real inversion. That's really weird.
Like, you allow me to come to the sheet? Allowing is a bad thing. You may—if there would be some of them that would invent the machine that makes you come because she didn't 17 minutes, that would be a good invention. But allowing is a bad invention. And unfortunately, cars don't make you come to the Sharia [shiur]. They allow you.
Student: New line of cars.
Instructor: What?
Student: That would be a good line of cars.
Instructor: The problem is that cars as a material invention can't be that. Because that's what matter is—potential. It can't be that. The only kind of invention that is that is things that invent religions or that invent cultures or that invent some kind of social human soul-like systems that work on human souls to limit them, to teach them what is good.
Instructor: And does that happen with great ambition or great passion? You could describe it that way, but I've never heard anyone describing Moshe Rabbeinu [Moses our teacher] or even any other founder of religion as a guy of great passion. They have different ways of describing them. Why? Not because they didn't work with great passion—it takes a great, like we call emotional energy to be that. But the reason they're not described [that way], because that's not the primary thing that makes them interesting. The primary thing that makes them interesting is their limitations that they have, right? Ideas of what is good and what is bad. Moshe was the one that came up with 365 ways of being bad and 248 ways of being good. That was his whole thing.
Student: What does ahavah azah [fierce/intense love] mean when we're talking about ahavas Hashem [love of God], like as the tav of Mishku [?]? What does that mean?
Instructor: Means nothing. You shouldn't read those books that say those things.
Student: They're still Ram [Rambam/Maimonides] says those things. Ram says—
Instructor: Ram says, but ahavas Hashem should be like—
Student: Okay, you didn't read it.
Instructor: You didn't read it well. I know this is a Chassidish [Chassidic] misreading of the Ram, 100%. Ram didn't say it and it's like that. Now I'm going to tell you about the Chassidim. Yes. The Chassidim are—I know, but you went to Chassidim and they gave you these glasses and now you see this weird, evil praise of unrestrained passion as a good thing, even in pursuit of the good. And because they lived after, you know, a certain period of time. And this is weird. Like, this romanticization of great passion for God. It's nonsense. Great passion for God only causes problems.
Instructor: Did you ever hear the story of the Olam HaTohu [World of Chaos] of Kabbalah? You heard it? You know why the vessels broke? Because they wanted God too much. It's a bad thing. God's answer was, please don't. They read the story. All the stories are the opposite. They're creating limits. They're not creating gehava [?]. The Havod Ram [?], of course, doesn't say that. He says the opposite.
Student: Shem [?] was happy with that.
Instructor: Shem was very happy. Of course there's a Gemara [Talmudic passage] that says the opposite, but what?
Student: No, no, no, no, because like there's so much—
Instructor: He's not just trying to point at the point. Like what I'm doing right now is not really teaching because I'm just doing the thing. But you should realize that there's something really weird with this praise of passion, even in the sense, precisely in this sense, of an unrestrained desire. Precisely in that sense.
Student: Say well, and if it's good that sometimes it causes good things—
Instructor: No, that is what the evil means. He literally gives the mashal with the girl. Sadiq [?], I know exactly what they mean. And you read it upside down. And you have to know how the Rambam thinks about these things. And understand what he's trying to say. Whenever someone uses a mashal, you always put in your own conceptions of that mashal into the mashal, and you think that he's imagining things. That's why meshalim [parables] are evil. Anyways, should have not done the mashal. It would have been better without it. Because at least people wouldn't invent random things. You know why there's—you know what's the cause of the yetzer [hara]? You know why there's still yetzer [hara]? Because the nevi'im [prophets] use meshalim. That's why. And then you're like, wait, they said it's a good thing. Shirah Shina [?] was written about that.
Instructor: Okay, now—anyways, now this is a serious thought about Chaim Shin K'ev [?]. It's a good thing in the right place.
Student: No, that's what I'm saying. It's not a good thing. If that is the criteria, then it's not a good thing. At least this theory says it's not a good thing. Good things are restrained things. Precisely the opposite. The more yakar [precious/restrained] someone is, the more better they are. That's also a weird mashal that's going to make you bad now. But that's my point. Restraint is good. And wildness is bad.
Instructor: I mean, civilization is good, and whatever the opposite of civilization is, is bad. Isn't that obvious? Now people come, oh no, civilization is based on these great passions that are really destructive. No, it's not. That's the background of civilization, yes. But it's based on restraining that.
Instructor: Well, yes, but it's in some sense, in the sense of it, that being the base. Like, but marriage is based on the restraint of desire, or the organization of it, right? The submission of it, the giving it the correct limits. That's what it's based on. In a more real sense, then it's based on that. Where did I get into this? But anyways...
If you would build your worldview off of your sexual instinct, I think you probably wouldn't end up with marriage.
Student: It's bad for sex.
Instructor: No, it's not bad for sex, but to say it's bad for... No, I was saying it's the background of it, but it's not the basis of it. And if you think that people have felt that right all the... Just to be clear, all the *ba'alei hashkafa* [בעלי השקפה: religious teachers/speakers on worldview] that say you should get married because there's better sex, their kids end up gay. That's not... You got what I'm saying?
Student: Very simple, yeah.
Instructor: What was the connection?
Student: As simple as that.
Instructor: Ah, because like the number... gay in the real sense, right? Not... I don't care who you're doing it with, in the sense of pursuing the pleasure instead of pursuing the kind of things that limit the pleasure in some way or give it a form, right? Limit it—not in the way of having less of it, in the way of giving it a structure, right? Those people are upset about the old structure of making marriage and then starting to pretend that... Because then this like hedonism is the correct result. So if everything is based on pleasure, then why shouldn't we just be wild hedonists? Turns out you don't have much pleasure doing that either, but that's a different problem.
Student: Wild what?
Instructor: Hedonism. That's the conclusion. Like, why even struggle? Like, how it says, why do you have to buy a cow if you only need milk? So that's the conclusion if you think that it's based on that. If you understand that it's based on that in the sense of that being the prior situation that it starts with—if it wouldn't be that, of course we wouldn't need it or it wouldn't exist—but based on the precise opposite of that, based on the... how we call it... this discipline of that, right? Then you're going to end up with the discipline of it.
Okay, now keep it in the drama. You're not gonna solve what you're looking for, right, by doing that. Not gonna help you.
Where am I here? That's the... all description of the ways in which claiming that the... is the problem makes some kind of sense, and that's the way in which it does make sense. I think it does make sense. Do you agree with me?
Instructor: This school is motivated by the right idea that desire definitely... It definitely shouldn't be a motivation or action. Or we could say something like, you should not live the life of desire. That shouldn't be your life. Right. Or that shouldn't be your reason. Therefore, the suppression of desire is a good thing.
Oh, so now... I'm saying that's the first rule.
Student: Right, right, right.
Instructor: Therefore, the thing you should talk about, instead of talking about desiring the right things or doing the right things and so on, you should start by talking... like you should give *drashos* [דרשות: sermons/lectures] against desire. That's the point. Describe how evil it is and how horrible it is, how stupid it is, and then you'll get people weaned of desire and they'll automatically basically go to... people... or you should train them, you should give them exercises for that, right?
I mean, meanwhile, just telling you that...
Instructor: Yeah, there's also... I could tell you something like there's also certain practices that would be explained precisely by that. Just to be clear, what?
Yeah, or like the Rambam [רמב"ם: Maimonides] and author of *Rav Sa'adya* [Gaon] explain all the *issurei achilah* [איסורי אכילה: forbidden foods] based in this way, right? So there is something true in this, right?
So that... *Rav Sa'adya* wrote this poem putting the... says the all the time it's nice... there is the *Aseres HaDibros* [עשרת הדברות: Ten Commandments] and he follows... follow and putting all the things in... not allowed to eat into *Lo Tachmod* [לא תחמוד: You shall not covet]. Because you understand *Lo Tachmod* has this base idea of desire, and eating *chazer* [חזיר: pig/non-kosher food] or eating *basar b'chalav* [בשר בחלב: meat and milk together] or *gid hanasheh* [גיד הנשה: sciatic nerve] are in any case, no matter what their original reason is, they're still instances of suppressing your desire.
And the Rambam would say this explicitly when he talks about... in *Mitzvos* [מצוות: commandments] he gives this even as a *klal* [כלל: general principle]. He says, in some sense one goal, one objective of all the *Mitzvos* is he calls it *perishus* [פרישות: abstinence/separation], right? Of course this makes it more complicated, but suppression of desire. And therefore would say something like the main reason or one of the reasons why there's all these things we don't eat is just to teach us that we don't do what we want, like that kid said, and training you to be less a less desirous person.
Instructor: Now what do I have against this? I don't have anything against this now that I'm thinking about it. But the theory, the opinion of the *Chachamim* was not like this, right? You remember that the *Chachamim* was... had for various reasons, and it's not clear why, but the *Chachamim* assumed that there's something that you do, not something that you want. It's not a *middah*. They're almost explicitly opposed to *mitzvos shebalev* [מצוות שבלב: commandments of the heart] in this way—not because they didn't believe in things in your heart, but because they didn't understand the best way of training a human being to be to tell them to be a less desirous person.
Instructor: And I think that this is because one thing we could see that happens when we do this, and we could see the people that focus in this way, is that they end up in the solipsistic loops that we discussed last time, that you end up focusing so much on not being a desirous person, I forget to be a good person.
Instructor: And it seems to me not correct, although it's true that this is a... being a desirous person is very, very easy way to be to become horrible. That's true. But not being a desirous person is not a quick way to become good. That's what I think. It's just not enough. This theory is like being like... I mean, this is everything. And they would say, well, this has this place. This theory is even true in some very broad sense, but it's not practical enough, it's not true enough. It doesn't actually make you a good person. Being less of a *ba'al taivah* [בעל תאוה: person of desire] doesn't often make you a good person.
Instructor: I'll explain to you why. I think that the *Chazon Ish* in *Emunah U'Bitachon* gets this pretty well, although he turned it so many times that it's weird. But I was thinking about this, *perek gimmel*. It turns out the *Chazon Ish* is saying my *shita* [שיטה: approach/method]. No, because the *Chazon Ish* often is like inherited this ancient way of thinking and has no good way of expressing it, so it comes out very funny. But I think that he's really trying to get at it.
Instructor: And what is he saying, the *Chazon Ish*? The *Chazon Ish* is saying that, wait, wait a second. It's true that desire proper, like desire just as desire, *lishma* [לשמה: for its own sake], is a weird thing. But let's be real. Firstly, very few people are actually like that. There are some people. But that's not the big problem in life.
Secondly, this doesn't actually tell me how to act. Doesn't... you can be a *mush'ba* [משובע: satisfied/satiated] either *greis* [גרייס: Yiddish: grits/porridge] or garbage eat in that sense and still a big *rasha* [רשע: wicked person]. Even a big *rasha* in the time away. You can even be a *ganav* [גנב: thief]. Why could he be a *ganav*? Because *ganav* is not defined by me not wanting things. It's the final... meaning something doesn't belong to me. And how does not belong to me defined? Not by what I don't want, right?
So this definition, I'm not doing what you want, it's definitely not a good enough of positive definition for what to do. It might be good as a negative definition for not to make the criteria of all your actions. Or you could say in a very general sense, so the answer to everything else is to do what is correct. But who decides what is correct is something entirely different.
Instructor: Meaning it still enables what we may call casual *geneivah*. Not only casual, even... No, I mean casual in the sense of apathetic *geneivah*. Even, no, even in a certain sense, I think... I actually think... That's one thing, but I actually think that I was on the same, but I think it even enables *geneivah* with wanting, just not in this passionate way, not in a wild way, in a restrained way. But you could be a pretty nice guy—not with one orange, not three, right?
Like if we imagine like the caricature of this guy that we're against as some like weird really like... he said most people don't have the ability to be that. Most people are not rich enough and not powerful enough to really be, you know, extreme hedonist, to really follow their passions. Most people... that's why when we give these crazy examples of following a passion we talk about extremely powerful people, right? Because most people can't follow their passions. They're limited by the reality they live in, right?
But if we take that as the kind of example, right, and then we say okay, most people are not that, but most people still aren't... still aren't good people. They didn't tell... all the restraint that civilization put on people didn't make them into good people. They're still stealing and thieving and doing this all the time. So this doesn't seem to have actually been the final solution.
Student: Even worse, they're just born worse than?
Instructor: Even worse, they're just born maybe not through an unrestrained passion, but what are they? Right?
Instructor: The more important thing is that interestingly, what is good and bad is defined by some kind of... the *Ramchal* [רמח"ל: Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto] called external reality, by other people. Okay, that's just because he doesn't have a way of saying this, but it's defined by other people.
Instructor: You being a really this guy with the *mussar* [מוסר: ethics/character development]... it doesn't make you a guy that smells less amazingly. It makes you a very sensitive guy, but sensitive guys are not better guys. It might make you a very, like, refined...
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Instructor: That's what we're saying, right? I'm not saying it doesn't help. It doesn't help as much as its promoters pretend that it helps. It's easier to see how destructive it is when taken to an extreme and harder to see how not being that helps. I think we can agree. I think we argued about this a few weeks ago.
I think it needs some degree of suppression just to allow you to—
Student: Yes, yes. Last time you disagreed with me.
Instructor: I don't remember. I think that it helps. I think it needs some degree of suppression just to allow other things to come to the surface, even.
Student: That's true, but that's another way of saying things like, again, going back to this extreme example—
Instructor: And you could say in some subtle sense everyone is extreme because people have a very difficult time even seeing something beyond their own desires, like seeing that as a reason to do things, not seeing it. Most people, and even some ba'alei mussar [בעלי מוסר: masters of ethical discipline], strengthen this by pretending that that's just what people are. It's not. You're just, like, in some level of, like, what we call sometimes, people call that—
And I'm against calling it that way because it just makes it harder to see how simple it is. But some people call something that's going out of your own ego or something like that is a necessary condition for anything, even for doing math. And it's a very simple thing. It's not so complicated. But it's true that that is needed.
And some people, again, the extreme cases, I think, it's easy to see how that's the problem. There are some people that never get beauty because beauty is not you. They get enjoyment from beauty. Like, modern discourse pretends that this makes sense, right? We can't really talk about what's beautiful, we can talk about what you enjoy. Beauty is subjective, which boils down to saying there isn't beauty, there's only enjoyment, which is about me.
But that's nonsense. Nobody really thinks that. Only extreme crazy people, or people—our language, our society's language was created by really extremely crazy people, like the ones you mentioned before, and that's why it's very hard for us to talk about. But if you look around in daily life, you'll see that it's not that way. We're controlled by things outside us all the time. That's not a big chiddush [חידוש: novel insight] really. People do understand motivation for something because it's good and not just because they want it.
But why do you want it? It's good because you want it? Just words.
Instructor: So I think it's less helpful. It's easy to see how it helps and negates certain extreme issues. It's less easy to see how it actually helps, and also even less easy to see therefore how it succeeds at its own aims, which is like defining how to be good in this very general way and saying that good consists of that. Because it might be good as a negative thing. It doesn't need to be good as a positive. And therefore, even what to want depends on what is correct to want.
Instructor: In other words, lo tachmod [לא תחמוד: you shall not covet] can only be defined after you know what belongs to you and what doesn't belong to you. If we talk about lo tachmod in a monetary sense, right? This says the holy Ramban [רמב"ן: Rabbi Moshe ben Nachman, Nachmanides] last week in Parashat Mishpatim [פרשת משפטים: the Torah portion on civil law], in the beginning of Parashat Mishpatim.
Ramban says that Parashat Mishpatim and the whole derush [דרוש: exposition] over there is an expansion of the Aseret HaDibrot [עשרת הדברות: the Ten Commandments]. Instead, Parashat Mishpatim is an expansion of lo tachmod.
Why doesn't he say lo tignov [לא תגנוב: you shall not steal]? Maybe because he thought that means really gonev nefashot [גונב נפשות: kidnapping]. I don't know. I think that because he understood that wanting—now I'll give you a third thing, I have to say the third pshat [פשט: interpretation] also on lo tachmod, this is the second pshat that I said last time—that being a kind of person that is wanting is after knowing what really belongs to you and what doesn't belong really to you.
Instructor: And there's a lot of detail in that, which means that if you don't—like Rav Soloveitchik says, people that don't know Choshen Mishpat [חושן משפט: the section of Jewish law dealing with civil matters] by default can't know him. Because we don't really know usually what belongs to us or what our obligations are and so on. It's not natural. The natural thing of like, "I don't take things that are not mine"—no, the world is much more complicated. That's more detailed than that. You have to figure out what your obligations are.
I gave a very long derush about this last week in Boro Park and it didn't help. Nobody understood what I said. Maybe I'll say it again. Anyways, yeah I could, but I don't have patience to repeat all of that.
And that's what I understand to be the second pshat. And therefore the chokhmah [חכמה: wisdom], it turns out to be—
Instructor: Like I want to give an example that I might have said it here in another context before, but I think it's a better good example of understanding the difference between the first version of internality and the second version, which is I think a more practical version and also I think it's more the pshat of Chazal [חז"ל: our Sages, of blessed memory] and the pesukim [פסוקים: verses] when they talk about things.
Instructor: So, people like the Chovot HaLevavot [חובות הלבבות: Duties of the Heart, a medieval Jewish philosophical work] like to do this move, and I think it's the wrong move. They like to say things like, it says in the Navi [נביא: prophet], "b'fiv u'visfatav kibduni v'libo rachak mimeni" [בפיו ובשפתיו כבדוני ולבו רחק ממני: with his mouth and lips he honored Me, but his heart is far from Me].
From here we learn that what God wants is what's in your heart and not what you say. But that's not true, that's not what the Navi said. Right? Let's explain the difference.
Instructor: What the Navi said is like this. Someone comes and says, by davening [davening: prayer], "I love God, I believe in the truth, I believe that only God controls everything, and getting a—you don't get anything, you don't gain anything by going in bad ways," and so on. That's what he says by davening. Okay?
Now there's two kinds of problems that we could call by a similar name with someone saying this. Both are called hypocrisy. Okay?
Now what is in the hypocrisy when—then in the simple sense—but the Navi is criticizing, the Navi is criticizing someone who comes and says all these nice things about, you know, you have—we have to have bitachon [בטחון: trust in God] and God controls the world and we love Hashem [השם: God, lit. "the Name"] and all of that.
Turns out, whenever he lives his life, whenever he needs something, he forgets, doesn't really live with bitachon. Or he doesn't—not steal because he thinks that God is just. He steals because he doesn't really trust that he'll get the things that we'll need without stealing, right? That's what the iker mitzvah [עיקר מצוה: essential commandment] of bitachon is—not to steal, right? I've told you this many times.
So, that's—now, when he says this, you're a liar. You're not saying what you believe, what you live. That's called a hypocrite. And that's what libo [לבו: his heart] means—libo rachak mimeni [his heart is far from Me]. Okay? You're not living that. That's what libo means.
And now like I said, why is this called heart? Because you're saying the correct words, you might even sometimes do the correct actions, but you're the kind of person who always tends to do the opposite. That's all that heart means in this context.
Instructor: Now there's a different pshat which is the Chovot HaLevavot pshat, for the Chassidish [חסידיש: Hasidic] pshat sometimes, which doesn't mean something like this. You could say words out of rote, and you don't mean it, you don't think what you say, you don't feel in your heart at the moment that you say—you're not impressed, you're not excited, you're not dedicated, you're not devoted to the words you're saying, you're just saying them.
And then there's someone else who when he says it, he means it, right? He's like devoted to what he's—excited by—to see them think that being excited or having what they call high emotional energy in it is the good thing. And the Chovot HaLevavot seems to say things like that often.
Instructor: Now, you can understand that if my main problem is the first problem, someone might be saying it by rote and he is—libo karov laHashem [לבו קרוב לה': his heart is close to God]. Because when he says Shema Yisrael [שמע ישראל: Hear O Israel], he lives in some sense in Shema Yisrael. Because he doesn't steal because he believes that there's a God who provides for the people that don't steal.
Now, the criticism of the Navi is not that he says Shema Yisrael quickly. Who cares if he says it quickly? Which mitzvah [מצוה: commandment] is it to say things? It doesn't help anyone. That's a bli berakhah [בלי ברכה: lit. "without blessing," here meaning "worthless"]. You shrei [שריי: you shout], you get so emotional thinking of—ein makhshava [אין מחשבה: there is no thought]—as there is, and you're a shakran [שקרן: liar], you're a bluffer, bli berakhah. You don't mean that. You don't believe that, what you're saying. You have no idea what you're talking about.
I think you mentioned this, I think I heard it, I don't know if it was published, that Daniel [דניאל: the biblical prophet] didn't say "HaKel HaGadol" [הקל הגדול: the Great God]—he didn't buy it, he didn't think so.
Right, and the opposite guy who is thinking—
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That's a libo d'chu kemanei [Hebrew: לבו דחו כמניה, his heart is not with him]. You're in a shiur [Torah lecture], you get so emotional by the drasha [sermon/Torah discourse], and you're really there, you're not thinking of any machshavah zarah [Hebrew: מחשבה זרה, foreign/extraneous thought], and you're a shakran [Hebrew: שקרן, liar], you're a bluff [bluffer], libo d'chu kemanei. You don't mean that. You don't believe that, what you're saying. You have no idea what you're talking about.
It's like when you go to, I don't know if you mentioned this, I think I heard it, I don't know if it was published, that Daniel said, didn't say it, I can't remember, couldn't lie, he didn't think so.
And the opposite guy who thinks that the internality is something inside — how about how I feel? Like I explained before, there's some reason why people get to think things like that. He is — this is the problem that I'm getting at, that you make — like people think of aveirah [Hebrew: עבירה, sin/transgression] also, right? The main thing is that you're a good person inside, right?
"I feel so bad for you. Give me your knife, the knife to sheikh. I feel so bad."
I see people doing this every day. It's amazing and they consider themselves all good people. "So bad for you. I'm such a good person."
He means it when he says the words and nothing — that he's lying. Some people are lying. People are just psychopaths when they say the words that "I feel bad for you, it hurts me more than it hurts you." Doesn't hurt some people. Does hurt. He's not even lying. It really hurts him. But he's a bigger hypocrite.
Yeah, another word. This is the second definition of middah [Hebrew: מידה, character trait/measure] that we're saying. It is someone who doesn't do it, doesn't like doing it. If you're doing it and you feel bad, is that in the contradiction? You have a — your own feelings is very cute, but I don't — who cares? It's not even a good feeling. Is nothing good about things that this — you're not even a better person for that. You're a better — yeah, feelings, okay. But your feelings — so that's the second thing. That's the second thing.
And that's what they — something like "I never wanted it. I just took it without wanting it. It's not even my sachmet [unclear term, possibly related to desire/will]." No, you're — so the other could lead you to this, to do the right actions, right? If you use that as a tool, you will do — the other sachmet is exactly — be the kind of person for who other people's money is a thing that causes you to not want it. Be limited by that.
Student: No, I know that, but if you like — it just — it doesn't mean — I think maybe you could use it as a tool to get to your sachmet.
Instructor: The first one you mean?
Student: The first one you use as a tool.
Instructor: I worry that it's usually used as a tool to not get to it. That's why I'm against it. Because I notice the people thinking that way — I don't know, a lot of this is, some of this is theoretical about like ancient people and thinkers that have talked about this, and some of it is me noticing that we're very — we in some sense, we in the sense of like the yeshivos [Hebrew: ישיבות, Torah academies] that we all went to, inherited this bad version of internality, and it makes people worse usually instead of better. Because they think that they're good people because when they say Shema [Hebrew: שמע, the central Jewish prayer declaring God's unity] they feel it, or because when they say "it hurts me" they feel it. That's the same idea.
Squashing desire is also internal thing. Everyone agrees that it's internal thing. Like "I don't care about what I want. I do only what I think is correct."
Yeah, but you never think of what's correct, right? So it's true that you don't do a desire, not even giving like this mussar [Hebrew: מוסר, ethical/character development teachings] argument that you don't hear in a gift. No, you're a person pure from the negios [Hebrew: נגיעות, personal biases/conflicts of interest]. You just feel a bad person. Like I wish would tell you because you don't know what is yours and what is not yours. You never thought about. You never put a lot of effort in to figure out what your obligation, what your place in the world is, what belongs to you, what do you have to act. These are all external things and you're not into an external things. You're just busy sitting by your shtender [Yiddish: שטענדער, lectern/study stand] there and being a good guy. And that's not a good guy.
That's what I worried about. You get what I'm saying?
It's like someone would say something like — like take an example of physical health, right? Of course being a very desirous person is not conducive to physical health. You might drink too much, eat too much, and so on, right?
Right.
But not being a desirous person doesn't make you healthy. You've got to actually find out what's healthy. There's no magic that says — people claim that there's such magic, but in general, it's not really like that. Like, no magic that says that once you won't eat for your taivos [Hebrew: תאוות, desires], you'll eat healthily. You might just eat kugel [Yiddish: קוגל, traditional baked pudding/casserole] without taivos. It doesn't mean that all problems are solved when you make it, like, in deficiency.
Yeah, that's one way. I feel like there's a deeper problem here, but yeah, that's one problem.
That is my bigger problem. I think that this doesn't actually help. You could work a lot on your religiously, sachmet will be a ganus [unclear term, possibly related to theft/stealing] and it has nothing to do. It doesn't even help. It might help, like I said. He says it helps in extreme cases. I don't even know.
Yeah, right. And then when you stop being a guy and you stop wanting to be a kind of also, and that's called having the middah of this act might according to me. Exactly.
It's not — it comes first in the order of reality because people act from their internals. But it comes second in the order of theory. Like what defines the good person? Like I said, what defines the person who is not the libo d'chu kemanei is how we act, not how we — not how we mean what in me.
When he means — when he says, of course the person who says it that way, when he says it's also coming in a certain sense more from his internals. It's like — it's true that it's like external. The guy that doesn't live what he's — what he says by his drushas [plural of drasha, sermons] when he says that he's lying, which is the clearest case of someone speaking externally, right? His mouth is saying it but his heart doesn't say it.
But firstly, heart doesn't mean feelings. Doesn't mean feelings at that moment, right? It's like — it's very this very weird thing where lying is not the — lying is not the — conformity of your external state to your internal state when you're lying. A good liar lies on his thoughts too. It's not when I'm lying I'm thinking, "no, that's a lie."
Lying is the non-conformance of your words to the reality. Now that reality is what we call the most internal thing. But it's the external reality, so to speak, the thing outside yourself, or at least outside yourself at that moment, is the criteria for what makes it not a lie.
Does that make sense?
There's a third that I have to get to, but I'm going to stop here because it's connected with too many things and it's going to take me too much time to figure out.
Student: With the Chayei Adam [Hebrew: חיי אדם, "Life of Man" — a major halakhic work] for some, not related, just anyway, what does he do with what he said? How do you say the words?
Instructor: I don't think it's important. It might be a practice for something, like just for focus or meditation, but I don't think it's important at all. He seems to think it's important. That's what I'm saying. I think Chayei Adam does a lot of these rhetorical tricks where he takes things that meant something totally different and pretends that they mean what he wanted them to mean.
Student: I'm saying he kind of like asks it on himself. If Hamas desires spiraling at it, why do you need these words if really it's all in your heart?
Instructor: Okay, that's a different question. I'm talking about actions.
Student: Yeah, that's a question about words. That's not my question, it's about actions.
Instructor: Easier this way. But like, easier this way, that doesn't get to what — what the real thing is.
Student: Yeah, the words is a different question really, but yeah.
Instructor: Okay, I have to sort out the video.
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This is the second or third shiur on *Lo Tachmod* (the prohibition against coveting), delivered near *Rosh Chodesh Adar*. The provocative claim is that *Adar* has "everything" to do with *Lo Tachmod* — a connection the shiur aims to demonstrate.
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The *Sefarim Hakedoshim* identify the *mazal* of *Chodesh Adar* as *Degim* (Pisces/fish). A common misconception must be corrected: *mazalos* have to do with the sun's position within a constellation (the solar zodiac), not the moon or *Rosh Chodesh*. This was recently covered in a shiur on *Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah*.
The *Hizkuni*, referencing the *Yerushalmi*, teaches that when *Amalek* waged war against the Jews, they strategically selected warriors whose personal astrological sign ("lucky day") was favorable on the day of battle. This is standard astrological theory — each person, based on their birth, has times when they are more successful.
*Moshe* told *Yehoshua*: "Choose men for us and go fight Amalek tomorrow" (*Shemos* 17:9). The word "tomorrow" is significant — Moshe was selecting a time that would be astrologically favorable for the Jewish fighters.
[Brief aside on the naturalness of timing:] The idea that people have better and worse times (morning people vs. night people, etc.) is observationally true independent of astrology. Astrology is merely a *theory* that maps these patterns onto celestial signs.
A certain *Tzadik* proposed: The Jewish calendar sometimes has a thirteenth month (the leap-year second Adar). There is no zodiac sign for a thirteenth month. Therefore, people born in *Adar Bet* have no astrological sign. When Amalek tries to find a stronger sign to overpower them, there is a "null error" — no sign to target or overpower.
If you have no *mazal*, shouldn't you be *more* vulnerable, not less? This is a strong question, and the answer goes against standard astrological logic — which is precisely the point being built toward.
A much more fundamental *kasha*: The thirteenth month is a human/halachic invention to reconcile the lunar and solar calendars. The stars don't care about the *beis din's* calendar adjustments — the zodiac always has exactly 12 signs per solar year. Declaring a thirteenth month shouldn't change anything astrologically. The stars don't "listen" to human calendar decisions.
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Stars occupy a higher level of reality than humans. Evidence:
- Stars never "burn out" (metaphorically: no burnout)
- Stars are always punctual; humans are not
- Stars are "perfect" — culturally, calling someone a "star" is the highest compliment
- *Tehillim* 8:4–5: "When I see Your heavens... the moon and stars... what is man that You remember him?" — The *Rambam* reads this as: contemplating the stars reveals human insignificance by comparison.
Since stars are so far above humans in the cosmic hierarchy, nobody ever seriously believed stars directly care about or control human lives. They have "better things to do." Stars don't worry about who wins a battle.
Stars *do* benefit humans (navigation, light, etc.), but only through the intermediary of human consciousness/soul. The star helps you navigate *because you look at it and understand*. Without the human act of looking and interpreting, the star cannot influence you. "Nobody goes outside and hears a star talking to him. You look at them first and then they talk to you."
A crucial distinction:
- Things on your level (a friend pushing you, slipping on a banana peel) act on you directly, without requiring your soul's mediation.
- Higher things (like stars) can only influence you through your mind/soul. This is a general principle about how higher causes operate on lower beings.
- Going to a doctor: Your *mind* brings you to the doctor, but the doctor helps you physically (a shot, surgery) — not through your mind.
- Stars are different: Stars can only help/influence you through your mind. There is no direct physical mechanism.
- Partial exception: If the doctor gives instructions you must mentally follow, then the help does pass through your mind.
Knowledge workers are not passive conduits. Just as a doctor doesn't merely relay information but actively participates in healing, and just as a rebbe actively mediates Torah, an astrologer actively shapes how stellar influence reaches a person. The mediator has genuine agency and degrees of freedom in how the influence is transmitted.
[Side digressions:]
- Trees and stars: Trees don't communicate information to humans the way stars do, though humans can learn from trees similarly to how they learn from stars.
- David Deutsch reference: A student mentions David Deutsch's arguments about humans being uniquely important because they can be affected by everything. Acknowledged but set aside.
- Do stars cause motion? The sun causing sunrise is not astrology — that's basic astronomy. Astrology's claim is about *influence on human affairs*, which is the topic at hand. There was ancient *machlokes* about this, but "at least the Jews don't believe it works that way now."
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Rabbi Akiva derived from this verse that it is humans (specifically Beis Din) who "call" the appointed times. This is not arbitrary — they must be channeling what is happening in the heavens — but the calling must go *through* them. The heavenly reality does not touch people without human mediation.
If the Beis Din declares that Rosh Hashanah is on Sunday when astronomically it "should" be Monday, then the Monday Elyon (the upper/heavenly Monday) moves to the Sunday Tachton (the lower/earthly Sunday). The spiritual influences associated with that day now operate on the day the Beis Din declared. "Tuesday could be chal on Thursday if the Beis Din says so." This is entirely real — nothing subjective about it.
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When you divide the year (or the sun's stellar cycle) into twelve parts, different people thrive at different stages — beginning, middle, end, etc. This is what astrological sign "belonging" boils down to: affinity for a particular phase of a cycle.
Since celestial influence must pass through human mediation, if humans set up their calendar slightly off-center from the astronomical cycle, the influence follows the human calendar, not the astronomical one. The "real" influence lands when the Rav or Beis Din says it does, not when the "so-called real" day is in heaven.
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If you need the stellar cycle to channel anything, but you can shift it, then why do you need the cycle at all?
A power station has fixed positive and negative poles — you can't change those at the source. But when you run wires, use transformers, and bring the current down to your level, you can reverse which side is positive and which is negative at your end. The real positive from the source is still flowing, but it arrives at the opposite terminal in your house. Similarly, the heavenly reality is fixed, but the human mediator has genuine freedom to rearrange how it manifests below. Both are true simultaneously: you need the source, AND you have real degrees of freedom in channeling it.
If you can rearrange everything, maybe you don't need the source at all — like saying you need electricity in your wall but not the power station. This is a fair challenge but may be beyond the scope of this discussion.
Days physically get shorter and longer during the year. But the shortening "happens for you" when you notice it or when someone tells you to notice it. If there's a five-day delay in your awareness, the influence of the change operates on the delayed timeline. Physical processes (like sunlight taking eight minutes to reach earth) already demonstrate delay, but psychic/soul-mediated processes gain far more degrees of freedom than mere physical delay — because you're operating conceptually, not physically.
Some people fight better in the morning, some in the afternoon. If you manipulate the environment (shut off lights, shift sleep schedules), you can move "morning" for those people, and the morning-people will perform well at the shifted time. Similarly, you can to some extent make night into morning and morning into night.
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When the Beis Din declares Rosh Chodesh, they effectively decide which solar-zodiacal energies map onto which months. In a leap year, the Beis Din has already channeled all 12 zodiacal influences (*shefa*) into the prior 12 months. The 13th month is therefore "leftover" — empty of predetermined celestial content — and becomes time the community can do with as they wish. This is "the whole trick."
Some people paid bi-weekly occasionally get three paychecks in a single month. The month isn't longer in absolute terms, but it functionally contains more resources depending on how different schedules overlap. Similarly, the 13th month is a product of triangulating between lunar and solar calendars.
The explanation of channeling through souls accounts for the full range of effects traditionally attributed to celestial influence (e.g., fighting better on birthdays). The person whose soul mediates the star's influence has *decided* that this month belongs to him, not to the star. That decision is what makes the influence operative — including practical effects — because the soul has claimed authority.
It depends on how many calendars one genuinely observes. Some Jews effectively have two New Years (secular and Jewish), but taking both seriously is psychologically very difficult because the logic of a "New Year" requires that most of the year is *not* the New Year. Genuine channeling requires authentic commitment, and splitting that commitment is inherently unstable.
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You channel it, you don't create it. The word "channel" is key — it's not your *own* luck from nothing; you are channeling real forces through your mediation. This channeling operates at the level of cultures and communities, not merely individuals.
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Last week's shiur concluded that *Lo Tachmod* (do not covet) is the internal counterpart of the four commandments preceding it in the Aseres HaDibros. It is not a standalone prohibition but the inward dimension of the external prohibitions (murder, adultery, theft, false witness).
This reading is not universally accepted. The two readings correspond to two fundamentally different understandings of what it means to be a good person:
1. The "Wrong" Reading (Self-Focused Interiority): Lo Tachmod is about having the correct internal feelings, emotions, and dispositions *for their own sake*. Being good means feeling the right things inside — the focus is entirely on the self and its inner states.
2. The "Correct" Reading (Outward-Directed Interiority): All internality is ultimately directed toward the outside. Being good internally means being the kind of person from whom correct external actions reliably flow. The inner life matters because it shapes what you do toward others — not as an end in itself.
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Philo of Alexandria is the primary proponent of the first reading. In his treatise on the Ten Commandments, when he reaches Lo Tachmod, he launches into an extended attack on desire:
- Desire is the root cause of all human problems: overindulgence (eating, drinking), interpersonal crimes (stealing, harming others), and misdirected life priorities.
- Since all bad actions originate in wanting, the most effective strategy is to attack wanting itself rather than the individual bad actions.
- Lo Tachmod is therefore read as a commandment to uproot desire at its source.
This reading fits into a wider tradition found in mussar literature, with roots in Plato and possibly parts of Chazal: the fundamental ethical problem is unrestrained desire. If you simply do what you want, you will become the worst version of yourself. Therefore, ethics essentially reduces to not following your desires. Lo Tachmod becomes the capstone commandment expressing this principle.
- Rabbeinu Avraham Ibn Ezra — tentatively placed in this camp, though there may be a third reading of Lo Tachmod that better captures his actual position (to be discussed later).
- Mesillas Yesharim — the Ramchal discusses this topic but his exact position is uncertain.
On this reading:
- People tend to end up doing what they want — desire and action are not easily separated.
- Desire is uncontrolled and chaotic — today you want to kill someone, tomorrow you want someone's wife, the next day you want to be a billionaire. If desire becomes your criterion for action, life becomes disordered.
- Wanting is always wanting to do — there is no desire that isn't desire for action. No one disputes this.
- The evil is located specifically in being excessively desirous — in being a person dominated by wanting — rather than merely in the discrete bad actions that result.
There are two kinds of people — those who do what they want, and those who do what they think is right. This maps onto a classic dichotomy (found in Plato, in *Chazal*, in *mussar*) between desire and reason. Whenever someone says "don't be a *chomed*," they implicitly mean "be a person governed by reason/restraint/law instead."
[Illustrative story:] A child is hungry or thirsty, and when asked why he doesn't eat, responds, "My father taught me you don't drink when you're thirsty — you drink when you *need* to drink." This illustrates the training behind this approach: wanting is not a sufficient reason to act. Pleasure should not be your god or your criterion of right and wrong.
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When *Chazal* speak of the *yetzer hara* as the source of evil, they often don't mean some metaphysical "will to do evil" (which would be contentless), but rather that *following desire* — following what you think will be pleasurable — is what causes most bad outcomes in the world.
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The "correct" reading holds that *Lo Tachmod* applies specifically *to those listed things* (eshet re'acha, avdo, amato, etc.) and doesn't add much new content beyond the specific prohibitions. The alternative reading inverts this: *Lo Tachmod* names a more fundamental, amorphous problem (desire itself), and the list shows the *consequences* — if you are a *chomed*, you will end up coveting all these things.
On this alternative reading, *Lo Tachmod* is a genuinely new *mitzvah*, adding a whole new category: *mitzvot halev* (commandments of the heart). The argument (as articulated by the *Chovot HaLevavot* and similar thinkers): if you only work on external behavior — not eating non-kosher food, not stealing — you leave the underlying desire intact, which is the real source of all problems. *Lo Tachmod* offers a more radical, inner solution: stop being a desirous person altogether, and you solve all issues at their root.
If you *don't* address desire at its root, you will inevitably face a *nisayon* (test) you cannot withstand — eventually you'll eat the *chazer* (non-kosher food). Working on desire itself is presented as the more efficient and fundamental path.
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This approach doesn't advocate a quick fix or physical suppression (like self-castration). It calls for becoming a fundamentally different kind of person — one controlled by reason (*yetzer tov*) rather than appetite (*yetzer hara*).
*"Le'olam yargiz adam yetzer tov al yetzer hara"* ("A person should always agitate his good inclination against his evil inclination"). One reading: rather than enumerating every good and bad action, cultivate an inner orientation where you follow your *yetzer tov* (good/reasonable drive) and refuse to obey your *taavot* (appetites). This is presented as a simpler, more comprehensive solution.
A student raises the case of choosing between two desires — going to a strip club vs. sitting and producing a Torah *chiddush* — suggesting one desire is "good." On this framework, there are no good desires. The word "desire" here specifically means desire *as a criterion of action, as a source of the good*. The correct approach: don't decide based on where you *desire* to go; decide based on what is *correct*. Then the dilemma dissolves — you simply go to *shul* because that's the right thing.
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A student argues that passion and desire can be great drivers of creation and good results — citing examples like innovators who, driven by passion, "created a new world" (e.g., the invention of the car, the internet). Even if the desire itself is uncontrolled, the results can be genuinely good, and passion is necessary for great achievement.
This is rejected forcefully on multiple levels:
1. The results are not good by virtue of the passion. If results are good, they are good *after being controlled* — the passion itself contributed nothing to their goodness. Passion without guidance, reason, or an idea of the good is "by definition bad."
2. The lives of these "passionate" people are themselves evidence against the view. The innovators admired by the student — driven by money, ambition, power, girls — are precisely the examples ancient texts would cite as lives gone extremely wrong. "Your role models are evil."
3. Passion is indistinguishable from monstrous evil on its own terms. There is nothing, on the passion-as-good framework, to distinguish the passionate innovator from a passionate serial killer who meticulously planned his crimes. If passion is the criterion, both are equally "great."
4. The correct framing reverses the causal story. If someone says "this is so good, and because it's so good, I desire it," then it's the good leading, not the desire. That's a completely different story from passion being the driver.
- The bad doctor almost wants people to be sick so he can heal them — his passion is really for *kavod* (honor) or being the one responsible for the cure.
- The good doctor hates cancer so much he wants to prevent it — his "passion" is actually driven by a recognition of health as good, not by desire for personal glory.
- Restated more sharply: the bad doctor tries to heal people (self-focused); the good doctor tries to heal sicknesses (good-focused).
The modern idea of praising passion is precisely the thing described as monstrous evil in every text prior to roughly 1600. This is not an argument to be debated right now but something to notice — a striking inversion that should at minimum give one pause. The passion-driven life is compared to *Achashverosh* (the paradigmatic figure of a life governed by desire in Jewish thought).
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The expansion of ability is structurally equivalent to the expansion of desire, and therefore inherently problematic.
- Cars: Deeply destructive. The ability to arrive in 17 minutes instead of three hours does not solve a real problem; it merely expands what one *can* do, which is the definition of expanding desire.
- The Internet: Praised precisely because it lets people do "whatever they want, whenever they want, however they want" — the very language of unrestrained desire. A student suggests the internet enables faster debt repayment; this is dismissed as fantasy — the *possibility* of repaying debts faster is not the same as people *actually* repaying debts better. The focus on "possible" rather than "actual" is itself the problem.
- Watching the shiur online: Watching the shiur online instead of attending in person makes the world worse. Given the fallen state of the world, watching online may be better than watching "some other nonsense," but the *ability itself* is not a good.
Good does not consist in ability. Good consists precisely in putting a limit on ability — using it only in the right way. An invention that *makes* you do the right thing would be good; an invention that merely *allows* you to do things is bad, because "allowing" just expands the field of desire. Cars *allow* you to come to the shiur; they don't *make* you come. A machine that *compelled* you to come would be a genuinely good invention. But material inventions, by their nature, are potential — they can only allow, not direct.
Therefore, the only truly good "inventions" are religions, cultures, and systems that work on human souls — that teach people what is good and impose limits. These are the inventions that *make* people act rightly, not merely *enable* them.
One owes nothing to the inventor of the internet (or any technology), because the inventor only provided the *yetzer hara* — the raw material of temptation and expanded ability. Just as one doesn't owe anything to one's body for being the base of action, one doesn't owe anything to the creator of abilities. What deserves praise is what limits ability, not what creates it. "Creating abilities is always bad — it's the definition of bad."
Fundamental human myths consistently portray the expansion of abilities as dangerous and bad. The real inversion — the truly "weird" thing — is the modern habit of praising precisely what was traditionally seen as the problem (expanded ability/desire) as if it were the solution.
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The Chassidic tradition's valorization of intense, unrestrained passion — even passion directed toward God (*ahavas Hashem*) — is directly confronted.
- The concept of *ahavah azah* (fierce/intense love) in the context of love of God is dismissed as meaningless in the relevant sense. This reading is attributed to Chassidic education and called a Chassidic misreading of the Rambam. The Rambam does not endorse unrestrained passion for God. The Chassidic interpretation projects its own valorization of passion onto the Rambam's language, especially his famous mashal about love of God being like lovesickness. Whenever someone uses a mashal, listeners project their own concepts into it, which is why "meshalim are evil."
This is stated flatly, with several sources:
- Olam HaTohu (Kabbalistic World of Chaos): The vessels broke *because they wanted God too much*. Excessive desire — even for the divine — is destructive.
- Na'aseh v'Nishma and Har Sinai: When the Jewish people enthusiastically declared "we will do and we will hear," God's response was essentially "please don't" — *v'higbalta es ha'am* ("set boundaries for the people"). The entire drama of Sinai is about creating limits, not about cultivating fierce love.
- Moshe Rabbeinu: No one describes Moshe or other founders of religion as people of "great passion." They are described in terms of their *limitations* — their ideas of what is good and bad. Moshe's defining contribution was 365 prohibitions and 248 positive commandments — a system of limits.
If desire/passion is the *criterion* of the good (i.e., the thing that makes something count as good), then even passion for God is bad — because the theory says the criterion itself is the problem. You cannot say "unrestrained desire is bad *except* when directed at God," because that still makes desire the operative principle. Good things are precisely restrained things. The more *yakar* (precious/restrained) someone is, the better they are.
The Baal Shem Tov's teaching that the yetzer hara is "a good thing in the right place" is acknowledged as serious thought but rejected within this framework: if desire-as-criterion is the problem, then desire is not a good thing even "in the right place." At least on this theory, restraint is good and wildness is bad.
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Civilization is good, and the opposite of civilization is bad — and civilization is fundamentally about restraint, not passion. Passion may be the *background* of civilization (the raw material), but civilization itself is *based on* restraint. The modern romanticization of passion as the engine of progress is a deep inversion of the truth.
Marriage presupposes sexual desire (it is the background condition), but marriage is *based on* the restraint, organization, and submission of desire — giving it correct limits and structure. If you built your worldview off of sexual instinct alone, you would not arrive at marriage.
[Side digression / polemic:] Religious speakers (*ba'alei hashkafa*) who promote marriage by arguing it will yield better pleasure (e.g., "you'll have better sex") are sharply criticized. This approach backfires: if the foundation is pleasure, then the logical conclusion is hedonism — why accept any structure at all? The argument that pleasure is the basis leads to the dissolution of the very structures being promoted. Framing marriage instrumentally in terms of pleasure undermines the discipline that marriage actually requires.
If everything is based on pleasure, then unrestrained hedonism is the rational conclusion. Even hedonism fails on its own terms — "you don't have much pleasure doing that either" — but that is a separate problem. The real issue is that the pleasure-based framework cannot justify the structural discipline that makes marriage (and civilization) meaningful.
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Certain concrete practices align with this anti-desire theory:
- Fasting as an exercise in suppressing desire.
- Rambam and Rav Sa'adya Gaon explain the *issurei achilah* (forbidden foods) in this framework: eating prohibitions (e.g., *chazer*, *basar b'chalav*, *gid hanasheh*) function as exercises in suppressing desire, regardless of their original reasons.
- Rav Sa'adya's poem mapping all 613 mitzvos onto the Ten Commandments follows Philo in placing all food prohibitions under *Lo Tachmod*, understanding it as the foundational prohibition against desire.
- Rambam in Moreh Nevuchim explicitly states that one overarching objective (*klal*) of the mitzvos is *perishus* (abstinence/separation) — training people to not simply do what they want, making them less desirous.
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The anti-desire framework sounds correct in the abstract — a less desirous person will have fewer *nisyonos* and a better life. And both sides actually agree that desire shouldn't be the ultimate criterion of action; both agree that a "life of desire" is worse than a "life of reason." The debate is not about the conclusion but about whether this is a useful or accurate way to frame how moral improvement actually works.
The core objection: the anti-desire view assumes that people's moral struggles are best described as moments of deciding whether desire will be their criterion. But this is not how internal moral conflicts actually play out in real life. Think about actual experiences of moral progress, regress, internal conflict — find one that is well described by the story of "I was deciding whether to let desire guide me." The claim is that you won't find any. Real moral life is more granular and specific than this grand framing suggests.
Uncontrolled desire is genuinely bad — but it is one specific bad *middah* among many, not the master category. It would appear in a detailed, itemized account of bad character traits, but it is not a good *klal* (generalization) for the entire project of becoming a good person.
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The Chachamim assumed *Lo Tachmod* refers to something you do (an action), not something you want (a character trait / *midah*). They were "almost explicitly opposed to *mitzvos shebalev*" — not because they denied the importance of inner life, but because they did not believe that telling someone to be a less desirous person was the best way to train a human being.
The anti-desire approach leads to solipsistic loops. When you focus so intensely on not being a desirous person, you become so absorbed in self-monitoring that you forget to be a good person. The anti-desire project turns inward and loses contact with the actual ethical demands of life.
This is the central critical insight against the anti-desire school:
- Being a desirous person is a very easy way to become horrible — this is conceded.
- But not being a desirous person is NOT a quick way to become good — this is the crucial asymmetry.
- The anti-desire school treats suppression of desire as if it were *mina v'halacha* (a comprehensive principle from which everything follows). The response: it has a place, it's even true in a broad sense, but it's not practical enough and doesn't actually make you a good person.
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The Chazon Ish in *Emunah U'Bitachon* (chapter 3) articulates essentially the same position, though in a convoluted way. He inherited an ancient way of thinking but lacked a clean way to express it.
1. Very few people are actually pure *ba'alei taiva* (people driven entirely by desire). Some exist, but this is not the main problem in life.
2. Suppressing desire does not tell you how to act. You can be completely free of passionate desire and still be a *rasha* — even a *ganav* (thief). *Gneivah* is not defined by wanting things; it is defined by taking something that doesn't belong to you. And "not belonging to me" is defined by external criteria, not by the absence of desire.
3. The anti-desire framework enables "apathetic gneivah" — theft without passion, theft in a restrained, civilized manner. You can be a pleasant, non-desirous person and still steal — "one orange, not three." The caricature of the wild hedonist is rare; the real problem is ordinary people who are restrained but still not good.
4. Civilization's restraint didn't make people good. All the restraint that civilization imposed did not stop people from stealing, lying (*lo ta'aneh b'rei'acha ed shaker*), etc. So restraint was not "the final solution."
5. Even worse: restrained people are just boring. They may not commit unrestrained evil, but they also aren't anything positive.
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What is good and bad is defined by "external reality" — by other people. The Ramchal says it's defined by *halacha*, but this is just the Ramchal's way of expressing the same idea: the standard is external, not internal.
Being a thoroughly worked-over *ba'al mussar* (ethically refined person) does not make you any less of a *garnisht* (nothing). It makes you sensitive, but sensitive people are not better people. Refinement and sensitivity are not the same as goodness. The anti-desire program produces refined, sensitive individuals — but refinement is not a substitute for actually doing what is right as defined by external standards and obligations to others.
Moral status depends on fine-grained external distinctions, not on broad internal dispositions:
- Is a woman mekudeshet (betrothed) or nesu'ah (married)? The answer changes whether coveting her violates lo tachmod.
- Is she a chatzi eved chatzi ben chorin (half-slave, half-free)? If so, taking her might constitute full-blown adultery (ni'uf) plus lo tachmod; if not, the situation is entirely different.
- Going to a store and paying the correct price is normal; going to someone's house and paying slightly less or more than the correct price can be genuinely evil.
These are not exotic halakhic puzzles — this is how life actually works. Moral reality is granular and externally defined, and the internal-virtue approach cannot capture this granularity.
The anti-desire school fails even on its own terms. It claims to provide a comprehensive ethical solution, but:
- It may address extreme cases (someone consumed by desire), but it doesn't address the ordinary, everyday moral distinctions that constitute most of ethical life.
- Suppressing desire in an "undirected way" — without knowing what the right actions are — doesn't help.
- Even what one *should* want depends on knowing what is correct to want, which requires external knowledge (halakhah, Choshen Mishpat, etc.).
Some degree of desire-suppression is necessary — not as the goal, but as a precondition for being able to see beyond one's own desires. This is compared to "going out of your own ego," but it is a very simple thing, not the mystical achievement it's sometimes made out to be. It's a necessary condition for *anything* — even for doing math.
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Some people never perceive beauty as such because they can only register enjoyment (which is about the self). Modern discourse reinforces this by claiming "beauty is subjective," which reduces to saying there is no beauty, only personal enjoyment. This is nonsense — a product of "extremely crazy people" whose language has infected society. In daily life, people are constantly "controlled by things outside us" and do understand motivation based on objective goodness, not just personal desire.
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The Ramban (from the beginning of Parshat Mishpatim) holds that the entire parsha, and the broader Sinai discourse, is an expansion of the Aseret HaDibrot, and specifically Parshat Mishpatim expands lo tachmod (not lo tignov, possibly because lo tignov refers to kidnapping/gonev nefashot). Wanting/coveting can only be defined after you know what belongs to you and what doesn't.
Rav Soloveitchik claimed that people who don't learn Choshen Mishpat are "by default ganavim" — because the world is far more complicated than the naive principle "I don't take what's not mine." One must learn the detailed laws of obligations and property to know what one's actual moral situation is. The "natural" sense of property is insufficient.
This is the second interpretation of lo tachmod (the first being the anti-desire reading): lo tachmod is about being the kind of person who wants correctly, which requires detailed knowledge of what really belongs to you and what doesn't.
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The verse "b'fiv u'visfatav kibduni v'libo rachak mimeni" (with his mouth and lips he honored Me, but his heart is far from Me) has two readings:
First reading (the Navi's actual meaning): A person says all the right things in davening — bitachon, love of God, trust in divine justice — but doesn't live accordingly. When he needs something, he steals; he doesn't actually trust God to provide. "Libo rachak mimeni" means: you don't live what you say. "Heart" here means the kind of person you are in practice — your settled dispositions and actions, not your momentary feelings.
- Such a person is a liar and a hypocrite in the straightforward sense.
- The opposite person — who says Shema Yisrael quickly, without great emotion, but actually lives with bitachon and doesn't steal — is "libo karov laHashem" despite lacking emotional fervor.
Second reading (Chovot HaLevavot / Chassidic): A person says the words of davening by rote, without feeling, excitement, or devotion — versus someone who says them with emotional intensity and inner dedication. This reading treats the problem as one of emotional sincerity during the act of speech itself.
The Navi's criticism is not about saying Shema Yisrael quickly or without emotion. "Which mitzvah is it to say things? Doesn't help anyone." Someone who gets deeply emotional during a drashah, has no extraneous thoughts, is fully "present" — but doesn't actually believe or live by what he's saying — that person is the one the Navi calls "libo rachok mimeni." He's a "shakran" (liar), a "bluff." The real test is behavioral and dispositional, not emotional-experiential.
Daniel did not say "HaKel HaGadol HaGibor v'HaNora" because he couldn't say it honestly — he didn't experience it as true at that moment. This illustrates the *behavioral-honesty* standard: Daniel's omission was an act of integrity about what he actually believed, not about emotional intensity.
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Someone who harms another person while saying "I feel so bad for you" — and genuinely means it — is actually a bigger hypocrite than the psychopath who says it without feeling it. The psychopath is merely lying. But the person who truly feels bad yet continues the harmful action demonstrates that his "world of feelings" is irrelevant and morally weightless. Having feelings of remorse or empathy while persisting in bad action is not even a partial virtue — it's nothing. "Who cares about your feelings?"
Someone who claims "I never wanted it, I just took it without wanting it" — thinking they're not in violation — is wrong. They are over (violating) lo tachmod. The presence or absence of desire is not the criterion; the action of taking what belongs to someone else is.
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A student suggests: couldn't the "internal" pshat of lo tachmod (working on not desiring) be used as a tool to eventually arrive at the correct pshat (being the kind of person who acts correctly)?
This is theoretically possible but deeply concerning: in practice, the internal reading is almost always used as a tool to *avoid* reaching the correct destination. People use it to feel good about themselves without changing their behavior. This is partly theoretical and partly observational — drawn from watching how the yeshiva world has inherited a "bad version of internality" that makes people worse, not better. They think they're good because they "feel it" when saying Shema, or "feel it" when they say someone's pain hurts them.
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Simply overriding what you want and doing only what you think is correct is also an internal project and also insufficient. The person who squashes desire may be pure from negios (personal biases), but is still a bad person if he never seriously investigated what is actually correct — what belongs to him, what his obligations are, what his place in the world is. These are all external questions that require real engagement with reality. The person sitting at his shtender being a "good guy" internally, without doing this work, is not a good guy.
Being a very desirous person is bad for physical health (overeating, overdrinking). But not being desirous doesn't automatically make you healthy. You still have to find out what's actually healthy. There's no magic that says removing taiva (desire) leads to correct action. "You might just eat kugel without taiva." A deficiency in vice doesn't equal the presence of virtue. Removing something bad doesn't solve all problems.
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A crucial distinction about the order of causation vs. the order of definition:
- In the order of reality (causally), internality comes first — people do act from their internal states.
- In the order of theory (definitionally), internality comes second — what defines a good person is how he acts, not how he feels. The person who stops being a ganav (thief) will then stop wanting to be a ganav, and that is having the middah of lo tachmod.
The yeshiva world has it backwards: they think you fix the inside first and the outside follows. The correct approach: fix the outside (actions, engagement with reality and obligation) and the inside follows.
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Lying is not the non-conformance of your external words to your internal feelings at the moment of speaking. A skilled liar's thoughts conform to his lie while he's telling it. Rather, lying is the non-conformance of your words to reality — to the external facts. The "most internal thing" (what we call truth of the heart) is actually defined by external reality. The criterion for truth vs. falsehood is outside the person, not inside.
This reinforces the entire framework: even the concept of sincerity/truth is ultimately anchored in the external, not the internal.
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There is a third interpretation in the Sefer HaChinuch that needs to be addressed, but it is connected to too many other topics that would take too long to work through. This is left for a future session.
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The Chayei Adam's view about the importance of how you say the words (presumably of lo tachmod or related declarations) is dismissed as unimportant — it might serve as a practice for focus or meditation, but it doesn't really matter.
The Chayei Adam engages in rhetorical tricks, taking sources that mean something entirely different and reinterpreting them to support his own position. The pshat works better as drush (homiletical interpretation). The Chayei Adam raises a question on himself — about desires spiraling out of control and why words are needed if it's all in the heart — but doesn't really answer it. This is a question about words, whereas the inquiry here is about action, which is a fundamentally different question.
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[Self-Aware Methodological Note:] Throughout the shiur, there are repeated acknowledgments that much of this is "just arguing" — provocation meant to make students notice something "really weird" about modern assumptions, rather than settled positive claims. There is a distinction between the positive view (which is advanced cautiously) and the critical project (which is pursued aggressively).
Instructor: Bye, I'm just gonna put this back. Welcome to the second or third shiur. If you don't know, I'm Ahmed. I'm going to teach you today. So today I'm going to teach Ahmed, or Amos, or something. What's the Chodesh Adar [the month of Adar] got to it, Lashzach [Lo Tachmod: the prohibition against coveting], Ma'ad [very much]? Everything. Why? That's where you get the share.
So first I want to answer a little question about the Mazal [astrological sign] of Adar.
Instructor: It says in the Sfarim Hakedoshim [the holy books] that the Mazal of Chodesh Adar is Dugim [Pisces, fish], and that's not true, because Dugim, and the Krapiscus, in Latin, fish, Pisces, Pisces, I think that's how you pronounce it, is a fish, Pisces, Pisces, so the fish, everyone who learned about the mazalos [astrological signs], including in our two days ago, learned the mazalos have to do with the sun, right?
What Mazal means is that the sun travels within that constellation. That's literally what it means, right? And therefore it's got nothing to do with the moon or with Rosh Chodesh [the new month]. And therefore there's a Torah from—I read that it says in the Chizkuni [medieval Torah commentary], I didn't look it up, it says in the Yerushalmi [Jerusalem Talmud]—that they found people whose mazal works well on that day.
Instructor: People say because it's their birthday, I'm not sure if that's what it says, but people, everyone knows that every mazal, every, how do you call it in English? Every person who has a connection with one of the stars, yeah, like his horoscope or his, there's different words I'm looking for. Here's his sign, right? Everyone belongs to a sign. And every sign has a certain day in a certain year, in a certain month, in a certain part of time, where they are successful. So if you do start something or do something in that time, that's when you're lucky day. That's a theory of astrology.
And therefore, if you're very smart at making war, then you will get the people to fight for you to be the ones who are in their lucky day. That's why.
Student: Why is it that you're lucky? Why the day is lucky?
Instructor: Usually because you were born in that star or because the way in that, I don't know the Hilchos [laws of] astrology very well, but there's a thought. The thing is that your nature is built for that day.
Student: Something like that, yeah.
Instructor: There is part of time which works well, better for you. These things that there's natural causes for that also, I mean natural, not that astrology is not supposed to be natural, but everyone, these things are true regardless. Some people are night people, some people are morning people, some people are beginning of the week people, some people are end of the week people, things like that are observational things. They're not things that astrology is made up. Astrology is just a theory. Of course, the world has every day what you are, right? Astrology is just a theory to say that if you were born on this time, then you belong to this and this sign, and therefore you're going to be successful on this and this date and so on.
So anyways, I have some tzaddik [righteous person] thought of a theory like this: that's how Amalek, he got people who are in a lucky day to fight, and that's why they were winning. So Moshe [Moses] told the Shia [Yehoshua/Joshua] that you have to find someone that's doing even better. How can you find someone that's doing even better? Right?
Instructor: So Kareva Pekhli Gid [approximately: "it's like this"]. We have something called the 13th month. Now what's the sign of the 13th month?
Student: N.
Instructor: There isn't. If you have no sign, then you could be successful any day. So he found people that were all born in the second Adar. Of course, don't ask me like a lot of questions that Ibur [intercalation/leap year] Chodesh [month] was invented later, so it couldn't have been, but anyways, he found people that were born in the second Adar. And then when the Amaleki [Amalekite] comes and is like, "I'm going to get one person whose sign is stronger than your sign," he's like, "There's a null error. There's nobody to talk to." He's from Chodesh Adar Bet [the second month of Adar].
Student: Well, shouldn't it be the opposite, that we have a new mazal and it should be even worse?
Instructor: Another good kasha [question]. No, no, I think these type of things are really going against astrology. That's not my point. I can't say that I don't have astrology. According to astrology it would be worse, but our point is that...
Student: I think sometimes these things are said that way.
Instructor: Sometimes, but now...
Student: It's a non-starter.
Instructor: Zishtaya [the matter] is finished. Because I say there's a 13th month, it doesn't mean that there's a 13th month.
Instructor: Oh, I get it. Now you have a kasha. This is the same kasha as the loser was asking before. That this doesn't make any sense if you know anything about astrology, or anything about how this is supposed to work, it doesn't make any sense. Because the fact that your business has a problem with the lunar and the solar months not adding up, and therefore you figured out a chachma [clever solution] to make a 13th month in 7 out of 19 years, that doesn't tell the stars that the stars don't listen to you. There anyways always have 12 months or 12 signs of the Zodiac each year, each solar year.
That is the Givaldige Kasha [tremendous question]. And now I'm going to tell you the Teretz [answer] of this Kasha. You want to know the Teretz?
Instructor: Teretz is like this: that nobody was ever dumb enough to think that the stars influence people by which I mean the stars are very high, very far. They have a level in reality that is much higher than our level. You know how I know, right? How do I know that the stars are better morally than us? Because they never burn out. People have burnout. And stars don't burn out. People sometimes come in time, sometimes come late. Stars always come in time. So stars are perfect. The stars are perfect. You wish you could be a star. It's called you're a star. That's why it says, whenever we try to make, say, a human being is really amazing, we say he's a star.
This is in the Bible. This is in every cultural reference that we know. Stars are something amazing to me. The Rambam [Maimonides] says that when someone knows about the stars, as it says in Tehillim [Psalms], "Ki ereh shamecha... mah enosh ki tizkerenu" [When I see Your heavens... what is man that You remember him]. Then I think, in other words, when I see the stars are so great, I look down at the people and I say, these people, they don't stand up to the stars. They don't compare. They're very bad relative to the stars.
Instructor: So now, therefore, it's very weird. Nobody ever thought, since this is the basic thought, nobody ever thought that the stars care about you when they control your life. They're so much beyond you, so much higher. They have better things to do with their time than worry about who's going to win a battle. Of course, they don't worry, but therefore, we have a basic understanding that, on the other hand, stars make light for us and they tell us where to go when we're in the desert or in the sea and so on.
Instructor: But you have to understand that that is not directly. Stars don't directly do anything for us, only through the intermediary, through the mediation of humans, or we could say of human souls or human understanding. In other words, since I can look at the star and understand where I am relative to the star, the star does that through my looking. If I wouldn't be looking, the star wouldn't be able to tell me where to go. This is why nobody ever goes outside and hears the stars talking to him. You look at them first and then they talk to you. Then they control their life.
Student: Doesn't everything really work that way?
Instructor: Everything works that way, yes.
Student: Not everything.
Instructor: In other words, things on your level don't work like that. Your friend pushes you without you asking him, looking at him, so it doesn't work through you. Or when you slip on a banana peel, the banana peel doesn't work through your soul. It's a lower thing in some sense working on you or something in your level of your body that's working on you, but higher things always work like that or most higher things.
Therefore, so I'm not talking about pushing so much but let's say when you want help from someone, right? It's always that you want that, not always, yeah, but you want to go to the doctor, yes?
Student: Yeah, but the doctor is not helping you through your mind, right? It's your mind that came to him, but he's not helping you through your mind.
Instructor: The stars can only help you through your mind, unless...
Student: Unless the doctor tells you to follow certain instructions and you need to use your mind to follow the instructions.
Instructor: That's true. But usually he would just give you a shot or something and then he's not helping you through your mind.
Student: The trees are the same way though. Trees cannot follow the stars. They follow the stars.
Instructor: But humans can follow trees the way they follow stars. If the trees would be telling you something. The problem is they don't tell us as many things as the stars tell us.
Student: David Deutsch uses it as an argument, I think, for the importance of humans in the sense that they don't know they can affect their mind, could be affected by everything.
Instructor: Okay, maybe. The point is that when humans are affected through higher causes or through the stars, then it works through the human soul, not there doesn't jump another another way of saying it is...
Student: Yeah, but that's not what we're thinking about thinking like you and human and interactions or human influence...
Instructor: Oh, in...
Student: No, in the sense that the stars, just to be clear, in the sense that the stars cause the sun, causes sunset and sunrise, that's not what I'm talking about. We don't need astrology for that.
Instructor: No, no, that doesn't work in that sense.
Student: Okay, this is a whole tiftoida [big discussion].
Instructor: But yeah, the astrology was not, there was machlokes [dispute] about this in ancient people, but astrology was generally not said to work in that way. At least the Jews don't believe that works now.
Student: In what sense are you talking about?
Instructor: Wait, wait, wait, everyone has so many questions and I can't even finish like one paragraph of thought. So my point is that so the way to say this is that things like...
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As you have to understand, what does it even mean to say that on a certain day is your lucky day? What makes days into days, and weeks into weeks, weeks and months into the months, and years into years?
So, Rabbi Akiva discovered something very interesting. Rabbi Akiva discovered that it says in the Pasuk [verse], and he says, oh, wait, it's we that call them Adam [appointed times], right? Of course, we call them based on something we know. He's not saying that it's arbitrary that the people that are calling it can just do whatever they want. They have to be channeling the stars. They have to be channeling what is going on in heaven, but they have to be channeling it.
And that means that if those people tell you and you believe them—as long as you believe; if you don't believe them that doesn't work—but if those people tell you that today is Tuesday, then it's Tuesday. Because Tuesday never touched you without going through people.
So in other words, the Tuesday that was before on Tuesday is now on Thursday. Tuesday could be chal on [fall on] Thursday, if the Beis Din [rabbinical court] says so. There's no problem. And this is all real, but nothing has to be subjective for any of this to work.
So now we understand that when we say that we split up time in a different way, right? So for example, there's some person—like we can understand it—there are some people that like the beginning of every period of time. That's when they're successful. Some people that are successful at the end of them. Some people that are successful precisely in the middle of them, and so on.
That's basically what all these astrological sign belongings boil down to, right? When you cut up the year into 12 parts, or the sun's cycle between the stars into 12 parts, then some people enjoy the beginning, some people the end, some people are successful at this stage of the process and people at that stage of the process and so on.
But now when this comes down to people, what processes mean for us has to do with how we control our time, how we set up our time. So if you set up your time slightly off-center from how the stars set up their time, that's going to channel the stars through that way.
So if you said that the Rosh Chodesh [new month] is on Sunday and really it's on Monday, then the Monday moved to Sunday. The Monday Elyon [upper/heavenly Monday] moved to the Sunday Tachton [lower/earthly Sunday]. And now it's Sunday or Monday, whichever one you want it to be. And now all the influences that there are—people, some people like Sunday, some people like Mondays—is going to happen when the Rav [rabbi] said that it's something, not when the so-called real Sunday is in heaven. Very simple.
Student: And if you don't understand, you should achieve it. You need to have the cycle to be able to channel the stars, but then when if you're like off, then the stars are also off.
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: So then you don't have to have the cycle in the first place. What exactly—that confusion is my confusion.
Instructor: And this—but this does—this is not—it's so basic that it's past niche that you should even have that. Because if there's a big—if there's a big—if there's like an electric current, like I'm going to use the stupid mashal [analogy] that everyone uses, but just so you should see that the framework is not—there's nothing wrong with the framework.
If there's a big electric current that has two ends, that has a positive side and a negative side, and that's fixed, you can't change the positive into negative. But for me to get it, I need to connect a wire and bring it all the way down to me and do a transformer that makes it come small enough so I could have the end use of it, and then I bring it to me.
Now the place where the negative is right and positive is left or so on—that's how it is in the source. But when I connect it to me, I could put it all the way around if I want, and it's going to be the real positive from there and the real negative from there. But when they come to me, they're going to be—they're going to be opposite. They're going to be the opposite side. There's no problem with that. It's very—all of this is very real.
Both you need me and both I am actually channeling the thing. I'm not creating it fresh. I'm channeling that thing. And I have some degree of freedom to put it wherever I want.
Channel just means that you make the thing that you're getting work through your way, whatever it does. The stars say today is the first day of the year. Some people like the first day of the year. The stars—now, yeah, there's a cycle and the stars are real. It's a real cycle. Don't say it isn't.
And then I said, now this first doesn't directly touch me. It only touches me through this whole series of pipes—humans, souls. But they will call them pipes so you should understand, because you don't understand when I say it more. So let's call it pipes.
And now the last plumber in the pipe could move it over two days or three days or ten days—I don't know how many. There's a limit to how many days you can move it over, but it can move it over a little bit. And then you're going to have the first. And if I tell you today is the first because this is when the year started, let's dial the stars in this whole picture, I can still do the same thing.
Student: I don't understand again. So maybe you—it makes sense. I need electricity to move into my wall. I don't need the power station at all. That's what you're saying.
Instructor: Thank you very much. You don't need it. You don't need it. It makes sense. Maybe I don't understand it either, so I don't know. I'm just venturing it makes sense.
Student: You just give a mashal. I have to be mischievous to this mashal.
Instructor: The mashal is supposed to explain you why the structure is very normal.
Days get shorter and longer during the year, right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: But you don't have to notice them exactly when they do. If you notice it by delay, then that's when they got shorter.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: The real shortening of the days happened for you in the time when you noticed it or in the time when someone told you to notice, right? I'm saying it's by—say it's the day when the sun—the change in the sun—it's five days after the change in the sun, right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: That's when exactly the sun started to grow. It's the sun's influence on you that's actually how it is, right?
I think there's always the reality is different because the sun even physically takes time and takes some processes to get through to us and so on. So everything is like this. But what I'm saying is that the psychic—psychic power is not the word—soul powers, once the things go through humans, they become—they gain many degrees of freedom more than they had.
Student: When you're talking about like the sun takes 8 minutes to get to us and the star that you're seeing was dead 5 years and so on?
Instructor: Yeah, and that's all part—that's interesting, right? You're talking about soul kind of, or human kind of, but that's a different question. I'm just—that assuming it works, I'm answering a question within a system.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: And then come here to explain the whole system. I'm just saying what do you mean it makes you fight better?
Some people fight—some people fight better in the morning, some people afternoon. Now that if that thing is real, that's the sun that causes them with morning and afternoon. It's not a human invention. But if I shut off the lights and I tell them to sleep for two hours later, then the morning is then. And then the morning people are happy then. As simple as that. Just like I could make the morning night and the night morning, you could—to an extent, to an extent you could, yes, to an extent.
And therefore the people that live according to the Rosh Chodesh [new month], that's when the month starts. And if it started in the day that's wrong for the moon, who cares?
Student: So in a sense, you make your own luck?
Instructor: You control it, you channel it. That's what I like the word channel. People use it, probably overuse it, but it's just a little explanation of what it is. You channel it, of course. Now, it's not your own, that's what I'm saying.
We talk about, for example, cultures and like this Beis Din—
Instructor: Not the source, but you're the channel. Yeah, and also not only you. Things are hard to do yourself, most significant things. That's why we have a Beis Din [Jewish court], and that channels it.
And when they—if we assume that somehow when they make a Rosh Chodesh [the new month], then they're deciding that it's the 12th of this solar year or so—then the few times when they make a 13th month, they're saying, this one is empty, we're going to do whatever we want with it. And then it's really like that because they pushed all the shefa [divine flow/influence], all the energies, whatever you want to call them, of all the 12 stars into the 12 months prior. And then they're left over with time to do what they want. That's the whole trick.
Just like anything. If you finish your work, you know there's some people that have salaries every bi-weekly. Some months they have three of them, right? How could it be? Some have five weeks. So you're the first a week, third in the month, and fifth. Very good. So those months are longer?
Student: No.
Instructor: They are longer. They have more money in them. They actually help, depending on how you're triangulating between different schedules.
Student: The attributions that they do with this don't really match up. It goes well beyond what you're saying. That's the point.
Instructor: The?
Student: What they attribute to that gets affected by these things is so much more than what your explanation offers.
Instructor: I don't understand. This is a question?
Student: Yeah, yeah.
Instructor: Okay. You have an explanation of how it works. The problem is they're saying it works for things that don't.
Student: Who is they?
Instructor: The first thing we started with, fighting on birthdays.
Student: No, nobody does what I say. Nobody ever thought that it works without going through souls. So how does that explain that you fight on a birthday or someone born...
Instructor: I didn't explain. I explained what I came to explain, exactly. Because the person whose soul his star goes through decided that this month belongs to him and not to some star. And that works. And therefore it belongs to him, and therefore you fight better according to what he said you should.
Student: Can I have more than one or just one month?
Instructor: What do you mean more than one?
Student: Can I have all the months or all them except one?
Instructor: Sure. I mean you can't have more than one—not sure what's the question. I didn't get there, okay. I don't try—depends how many calendars you observe. You can try to observe more calendars. Like some Jews have written twice a year because they observe both the secular new year and the regular new year. For most people it's very hard. Like you take one seriously and the other one is not real. But you're good if you take both seriously in some way, then you're good.
I think that's very hard because the logic of a new year is that there's some times that are not the new year. It's very hard to like—wait, no, it's not the middle of the year, it's the new year. It's Chinese New Year. Everyone feels it, people that are in retail and those things.
Student: Okay, because you're working with different people, those people have that shefa [divine flow], have that thing.
Instructor: Okay, you don't understand what I'm saying, so I'm not going to say other things. So the story's like this. I don't know what's so hard to understand, but I guess not like this.
Instructor: We discussed last week—the conclusion of the shiur [lesson] was that Lo Tachmod [the prohibition "do not covet"] is the internal counterpart, so to speak, of all the mitzvos [commandments] before it, or specifically the four mitzvos before it. That's what we discussed. Is that correct?
Students: Correct.
Instructor: Now, we have to talk something a little bit about the fact that this is not actually accepted. There's a big controversy about this, and the way in which people read this has very much to do with the way in which they understand all the things we're talking about, which is the discussion of how to be a good person and what it means to be a good person, as opposed to being a person who does good things, right? Just having good actions.
So there's two contrary readings of this Lo Tachmod, corresponding to the wrong shita [approach/opinion] and the correct one.
In other words, the wrong one is what we discussed in the beginning of last shiur, which is a kind of interiority or internality—for some reason I like, it sounds better the second way—which is entirely self-focused, entirely about me feeling the correct feelings or having the correct internal emotions, dispositions, things like that.
And the second one, which understands all of internality as directed towards the outside. It's just, you're the kind of person who could be relied on, or who will always, from his inside will flow the outside actions, but that's still directed towards the person. Those are the two readings.
I should probably try to do some more justice or some more for the first reading, because I guess that there's some logic to it, some way in which it makes sense. Should I? But I don't know how to do that. I should probably give it some more kindness somehow.
Instructor: What I can say is like this. You've read some of this stuff, right? So certain mussarim [ethicists/moralists]—I'm not sure what Rav Luzzatto [Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto, author of Mesillas Yesharim] says about this. He talks about it. I just don't remember how his response is entirely.
Another person who seems to be on this side is Rav Avraham Ibn Ezra [Rabbeinu Avraham Ibn Ezra, medieval biblical commentator]. And the third person before that who seems to be on the wrong side is a Yid [Jew] named Philo [Philo of Alexandria, first-century Jewish philosopher].
So Philo wrote this book on the Aseres HaDibros [the Ten Commandments], as we discussed. And when it gets to Lo Tachmod, he gets into a whole huge, long, drusha [discourse] bashing desire. Or in Greek, I forgot the word. The word is for passion and desire. That's what he gets into.
And he explains that desire is the worst thing. Desire causes all the problems in the world. Both the kind of problems of eating too much and drinking too much and stealing feeling, and hurting yourself and hurting others, and not dedicating your life to the right things. All of these kinds of problems start with desire.
And he seems to say something very weird, which is something like, since all the bad things that people do, they do because they want, if we want to attack this thing at its root, we should attack the wanting instead of the bad things.
And we have this framework, which is a framework which we find in many mussarim [ethicists], like, so it somehow has a source, has sources like Plato and some, maybe some parts of Chazal [the Sages], where you say things like, the problem is wanting, or we could specifically say unrestrained by reason wanting, right, maybe not wanting as such, but it's not always—yes wanting as such, but not saying that there's no good wantings, but wanting when you let yourself do what you want.
That we hear people saying this, right? Let yourself do what you want, you'll turn out to be the worst person. So therefore the basic way of not being a bad, worst person is to not just do what you want, to not follow their desires.
So there's like this general statement that says that ethics boils down to, or like in one very significant sense is, do not follow your desires. And this gets read into do not desire, or do not follow your desires, do not be a desirous person. Do not live with your desires. Because people that do that, today they want this, tomorrow they want that, and all evils in the world come from people following their desires.
That's a theory promoted by Philo and by who else? Maybe questionable—I may think maybe the Ibn Ezra seems to understand Lo Tachmod in this way or explicitly understand Lo Tachmod this way. I'll show you if you want, but I'm not sure if he understands it in this way. I'll tell you the third way of understanding it. So that might be the real reason of Ibn Ezra. But Philo for sure understands it this way.
And that's a way of understanding life that I think makes sense somehow to many people. Like the main thing is to stop doing what you want. Is that what I was saying? Stop doing what you want? Or to try to not want those things? Not want so much. Want less. Stop wanting so much. It's like a fight against the wanting. Wanting. Wanting is not a very good translation. Something like desire or what we call ta'avah [desire/craving] in our language is a better translation.
Student: Why does he care if you want as long as you don't do that?
Instructor: Interestingly, people usually end up doing what they want. Not only that, because then what you're doing is not everything you want. And the thing is that wanting, that desire is something uncontrolled, right? Something like, okay, today I want to kill you, tomorrow I want to sleep with that guy's wife, the third day I want to be a billionaire, the fourth day I want to travel somewhere. Wanting is something uncontrolled. So if that becomes your criteria in life, then that's very messed up. That's something like, I think that's something like the theory.
Student: Why is it automatically a quit to doing?
Instructor: Wanting means wanting to do. There isn't any wanting that isn't wanting to do. I don't think anyone disagrees with that. The point is that they understand the evilness as the being a wanting too much...
This is a slightly, as I said, a slightly kinder reading. You can understand it this way. There's two kinds of people. There are people that do what they want. There are people that do what they think is right. In a violent world. Well, this is a reasonable way of describing humans. It's not crazy. I think that it doesn't do enough justice to the kind of desire that exists, but...
There's not external things, let's say, holding him back from doing what he wants. Sometimes, okay, sometimes. So that he can be a person that wants, but doesn't do further or whatever. But mostly not, mostly not, right?
Student: Where we have this, I'm not sure why, like... I don't know, let's say he's scared of getting caught or I don't know, whatever. You know, he just doesn't want to deal with the ramifications of everything.
Instructor: But you know the truth that we don't—you don't usually get caught. What? You don't usually get caught. I don't know if you know—you hear about the ones that got caught. I'm not being the exit out of here.
In other words, you're asking something like why would people think that desire—I complain but this is not the problem. Talk about things that you could do—they could be—you could stress the whole ice cream. You don't get caught for that. But for example, you could eat all of the chazer [חזיר: pig/non-kosher food] in the world, okay? That's another example. You're not going to get caught.
In other words, there's many, many ways to destroy yourself without destroying other people from desire, right? And usually people—it's in your power. It's not—it's not the question is not if it's going to happen. But of course desire means I'm going to do it or not going to do everything I desire, because usually you can—you desire more things than you want—then you manage to do or you could do. But you will, and it is something uncontrolled. That's what I'm trying to get at.
This reasoning is saying something, and I think if you want to make sense of this—and this is the way in which it's true—I would be critical of it in a different way, but the way in which it's true is that the criteria—their thing that is good—can't be the answer to what is good, at what you do, what your base, your decisions of what to do in life is, can't be what you want, can be what you desire. Because that's something unlimited. That's something like anything. It's possible point that happens, but that's not what you're drawing, what happens.
Student: That the right thing is something that you want?
Instructor: Well, that's what being godly means. A sakhemet nik [שחמת'ניק: a person driven by desire] means—sakhemet nik is a kind of guy who does what he what he what he likes, but not what he wants or what he desires. That's a weird kind of guy. Those kind of guys are usually the worst. And therefore train yourself to not be that kind of guy.
Whenever you desire something—you know the story of some story that goes like—it goes on many different rabbis—like he's okay then it's like I don't know he's hungry or thirsty or something like that and the guy's okay so why don't you eat? Because my father taught me that you don't do what you want, right? You don't drink when you're thirsty. You drink when you need to drink.
That's that's the kind of training that's behind this. You could see that makes sense—not because it's bad to do what you want, but because one thing is not a good enough reason to do things, or it's not—shouldn't be the primary reason to do things.
If you want, we could say pleasure, right? Physical pleasure, because usually when people talk about this they talk about physical pleasure, right? Don't make pleasure your god, right? Don't make it the thing that sets right from wrong to you. Because that's something very unlimited, very wild, very unrestrained.
And we could say a story where all the evils in the world have their source in this. That's the story that Pharaoh says. Plato sometimes says it. Maybe in Chazal [חז"ל: our Sages, of blessed memory] sometimes they talk about the Yetzer Hara [יצר הרע: evil inclination] as the source of all evils, and sometimes what they mean is just desire is the source of all evils.
Because otherwise Yetzer Hara has no meaningful content, right? Yetzer Hara is the will to do evil, thank you very much. Many times when the Chazal talk about Yetzer Hara as the source, like they have this idea of Yetzer Hara as the source of evil, what they mean to say is desire is what causes most bad things. Or another way, following Yetzer Hara, right? In other words, following what you think will be pleasurable to you.
So that's a reasonable making sense of this kind of reading, of this kind of understanding.
Why do I think there's something weird with this? Why don't I like it?
Student: But then everything you do is never a desired thing that you're doing.
Instructor: Well, like I said, when I—didn't say that. You could add desire to things that you're doing, but that shouldn't be the reason you're doing them. You've heard of such trainings, of such people talking this way about, like Mussar [מוסר: Jewish ethical/character development literature]. Mussar is all about not doing what you want, not following your desires.
It sort of misses the point. Which point does it miss? I don't know if this is the right way—maybe that you could be a person who wants the right things, and then you should love your desire, basically.
Student: It's only speaking for, like, a bad person, essentially.
Instructor: Well, again, but I'm going to give you my answer again. It's speaking about someone—when we speak against desires, we speak against making desires your criteria of the good. Well, that makes sense.
So what should your criteria be? Oh, something like—that's why desires is usually set against reason, or restraint, or limit.
Student: Met oh that's what it means, right? It's always there's always a the car me whenever someone says don't be a lot don't be a homemade, right? Louis I don't be a hum hum the neck but I mean say but be a reason Nick or something like that.
Instructor: So don't be a reasonable person but fear how do we—I don't know how the people do.
Student: I was to say this very good.
Instructor: That's exactly. So this theory says—this theory—in other words we did—we discuss this last time.
There's this question like why is—there's a long list after the sakhemet [שחמת: coveting], and there's two opposite readings of it. My reading is that the sakhemet is of those things. But this reading would be the opposite—that the source of all these things is something more amorphous and more basic called sakhemet.
If you will be a khaymet [חמד'ניק: one who covets], you will end up with—but the problem is the way they frame the problem is the one thing is the problem. It's the opposite. And therefore they would say the sakhemet is a new mitzvah [מצוה: commandment]. It's adding information—not like I said last week, not like Mahab Shat [possibly מהר"ש: a rabbinic authority], which says it doesn't really add anything. All it adds is don't be the kind of person who wants all these things and does all these things.
What they're saying is it adds—no, it's adding a general—we could say call it a general way of working on yourself, right? A general way of being a good person, which is a total new thing. The mitzvah seems to think things like this, right? There's a new area called mitzvah, which means something like—instead of just like people would say like the householders would say—if you're just going to be working on liking the right things or like not eating something that's not yours, or things that are not kosher, or things like that, then you will still have the desire, which is the source of the problem, which is what causes all these people.
So I have a simpler way for you to live. Just stop being a desirous person, and then you will have solved all issues in life at once, in some sense. That seems to be the argument for this way of thinking.
And they say the opposite. If you don't solve desire, then you're going to have one desire, and you're going to eat chazer.
Student: That would be the same thing. It's not a pill. It's some kind of work.
Instructor: Same thing as well according to this thing. Not a pill. No, pill is not a good example because pill is—you're thinking of like solving the physical sense, like cutting off your like—be misogynist yourself or something like that. That's not the exact response here. It's saying become a different kind of person, right? It's saying become a person who is controlled by his reason, not by his et cetera.
Become a person who is controlled by—like Rebbechim [רבנים: rabbis] said—there's many reasons of this. One reason of this would be to say I have a solution for all your problems in life. What does that mean? He doesn't say, well, this spells out to do all the good things and not do all the bad things. He's saying no, I have a simpler way for you to work, or a more inner way for you to work. Become a kind of person who follows his Yetzer Hara, which means his good drive—in other words, his reasonable drive—or you could say follow the Torah, obey the law if you want, and don't obey the Yetzer Hara, don't obey your tithers.
It's not such a crazy—it's not so crazy like I presented it to me. That's the whole point.
Student: No, no, no, no, no. I don't mean even right thing. Let's say a person, right? You could either go to—you have a chesik [חשק: desire] right now to do two things. Either go to a strip club or go and be the Chad Shtayin [learning Torah]. Yeah? Literally—wait, wait, I'm going to tell you something. It lives within me. Yeah? I'm saying, within the same person.
Instructor: Yes, yes, yes. You go and now sit for the next six hours and—
Student: So again, the Yid [Jew] that says this will tell you, you have another problem besides for the—you don't—your problem—I mean right now you have the problem of choosing between these desires or deciding which one is good. I have a solution for you that will solve the whole thing. My akuta [עקותא: solution]—don't—when you decide where to go tonight, don't decide it based on where you desire to go. Decide on what is correct or on what Iraq [possibly יראה: fear/reverence] says or something like that. And therefore you will automatically not have this question anymore. You will just go to the show [shul: synagogue] because that's what the correct thing to do is.
Instructor: No, no, no. What I'm saying is we all know what the good desire is here, right? Versus what the bad desire is.
Student: No, desire is bad. There's no good desires in this.
Instructor: That's what I'm asking. Is it possible just to have a good desire?
Student: No, because when I say desire, I don't mean to like something. Just to be clear, the word desire means something different here. The word desire means the desire as a source of the good, as a criteria of good, it as a criteria of action. That's what we mean, really.
Instructor: Yes, yes, that's what it means.
Student: Not change definition. That's what it means. Whenever anyone gives you this trisha [תירוץ: answer/resolution] against being about Tyler [possibly בעל תאוה: master of desire], that's what they mean.
Student: There's no good desires in this. That's what I'm asking. Is it possible just to have a good desire?
Instructor: No, because when I say desire, I don't mean to like something. Just to be clear, the word desire means something different. The word desire means the desire as a source of the good. As a criteria of good. As a criterion of action. That's what we mean, really.
Student: But now you're just changing the definition.
Instructor: Yes, that's what it means. Not changing the definition, that's what it means. Whenever anyone gives you this *drasha* [דרשה: homiletical interpretation] against being a *Ba'al Taivah* [בעל תאווה: master of desire/appetites], that's what they mean. Obviously it's about this, right? And the other person is disagreeing with this, just to be clear, this is what the *machlokes* [מחלוקת: dispute] is about.
If wanting something should be the reason why you do things. Desiring, one thing is a little bit more, too broad, but yeah, desiring. As in thinking that it will bring you pleasure, or something like that, or honor, or maybe just different desires but so you shouldn't irrational desires you shouldn't do anything based on that yes even if they're good things the point is that desire is not a good thing there isn't good desires.
Good desire—when I say desire I mean uncontrolled desire, right? That's what I mean. When you say the desire that the expert is masking, when you're talking about something else you're talking about some kind of—by the way, another way if you want to spell it out like this, you could spell it out like someone that has some kind of crazy *Taivah* [תאווה: desire/craving] to learn—that's a bad thing too. Yeah, you should have a reasonable *Taivah* to learn, but that's not a *Taivah*. Then you're not following a *Taivah*. You enjoy it. It's not against enjoying good things. It's against the enjoyment, which is by nature an uncontrolled thing, being the guide of your actions.
So the two *shittos* [שיטות: approaches/opinions] says, one is just combat the notion of desire, or channel the notion of desire. Well, the other *shittah* says that this is not a very good way of framing things. It's mostly a question of how to frame the thing on the—let's say the action itself which is bad, they're focusing on where—where is the—which is always bad. Again, this person says that *Lo Tachmod* [לא תחמוד: the prohibition "do not covet"] is a thing that—no, that's why he disagrees with you. He says that *Lo Tachmod* means don't be a desirous person, which will—being a desire—yes.
The other *shittah* says, now we could go back to think what the other *shittah* says, because now you at least understand what this guy is saying. He's not just saying random things, don't do things that you like. He's saying that liking is not a reason to do things.
Now, the other person says, well, the problem with your theory is that it's underspecified. You think that you're solving—you're going to make me into a less desirous person and it sounds correct. It sounds correct that a less desirous person will have a better life and will have less desirousness, as you would say. Right? You will have less issues to solve. But, this person will tell you, and if you mean that, it's somewhat correct even. We agree that desire shouldn't be the criteria. Or another way to say something like, if you say, there's a life of pleasure, or a life of desire versus a life of reason, or a life of restraint, or a life of some other way of saying the good, I 100% agree with you. There's no debate about this. There's no debate.
The debate is if this is a very good way to spell out how to work. Why? Because the other person says that you are assuming that the way people actually work most of the time is by deciding if desire is their criteria. This is like how decisions are made or how fights happen or how internal fights happen. But I think that this is not really happening.
So there's a few things but let's—this is the first thing that is the main thing that he would say. He would say something that no, desire is in the greater sense, precisely in the greater sense that you're saying—if you're talking about an uncontrolled desire, nobody disagrees that that's a bad thing in itself. It's like a bad *middah* [מידה: character trait]. There's a specific bad thing and that might be one of the bad *middos* that I will be against when I get into my detailed account of bad *middos*. One of them is to chase uncontrolled desires or uncontrolled pleasures. No problem with that.
But what I disagree with is that this is a good *klal* [כלל: general principle], this is a good generalization of becoming a good person. And why? Because I tell you that look around life, think about your life, think about the times in which you had some kind of moral progress or regress or debates or conflicts, internal conflicts and so on. And find me one that can be well described by this story. And I can think that there isn't any.
Describe a story of desiring something. Of deciding if desire is the criteria. Meaning like on the good sense of things. Like when you want to do good.
Student: I think desire is a very good criteria for a lot of good things. I think in business, it's like, yeah, sometimes you have this passion, this desire to create the internet.
Instructor: Ah, nobody disagrees that that's bad, what you're describing. That's a description of the *Yetzer Hara* [יצר הרע: evil inclination]. Right, but it brings good results.
Student: No, it brings bad results.
Instructor: Really?
Student: Yeah, of course.
Instructor: Which bad results?
Student: Everyone, nobody, that's like—and if it does something with a passion, I think it's creating—
Instructor: Yeah, very good. That's a very modern and extreme inversion of ethics. Passion doesn't make things good. The results are not good. What are you talking about? If the results are good, they're good after being controlled. They're not good. What are you talking about? The results are not good. The results of following your passions are by definition bad because bad just means under no guidance, under no reason, under no idea of how it's good.
No, no, no, no. This is absolutely the opposite. Absolutely the opposite. This is the example in any *inyan* [ענין: matter/topic]. Just to be clear, any like *inyan* next would use all these examples that you're using as the example of a life gone extremely wrong because he had a bad life. He's chasing money all his life and girls. What kind of life is that?
Student: Yeah, absolutely.
Instructor: Oh, money, ambition, its power—that's what it is, right? What's so good about that? Your role models are evil.
Student: Unless it's not my ambition now.
Instructor: Yeah, based on—based on—based on—based on—based on what I want, not based on any idea of anything else. People doing easier, people doing a lot of—the *Ma'ari* [unclear reference] actually did it. Then what? What do you mean then what? So what was their passion after that? They still had the passion, right?
Student: Passion for what?
Instructor: They didn't innovate any new things. He just came up with a car. And then he rode off that. That's a bad thing. I don't get why you think that's a good thing. I have no idea.
If it's a good thing, then you don't need passion to explain why it's a good thing. When you make the passion into a good thing, that is the exact problem. In other words, there's nothing to distinguish that that you're for some reason praising from the guy whose passion was to kill as many prostitutes as possible and he ended up killing 102. I don't know, some serial killer. It's a great passion, don't ask me. And he planned it and he created a whole system, how to work with it, and then didn't get caught yet or did get caught or whatever, and that was part of the plan. Who knows? I mean, passion can't be a reason to do things.
Student: Did I say that, I know what you're talking about, but this is not—I have to get to the other side now. I think passion is a great driver for creation.
Instructor: Again, if we're talking about a reason for things being good, a way of living your life based on that is almost the definition of evil, specifically in the examples that you're giving. That's what the *Yetzer* [יצר: inclination] means. That's what means you're living your whole life in the worship of the *Yetzer* and fulfilling your desires, or we could call them your—specifically your unreasoned desires.
If someone says the opposite, if someone says, I think this is so good now, and since it's so good, I desire it, then it's not desire that's leading you, it's the good that's leading you. That's a very different story. But if you say the story as the passion being the driving, the reason, then that's a very weird story to think that it's good. It sounds very weird. Like a *Achashverosh* [אחשורוש: the Persian king in the Book of Esther, paradigm of desire-driven life].
I think a lot of people who are like—I think a lot of times people describe bad doctors as people who almost want people to be sick in order to heal them. Because they have such a desire to heal people, right? And it's not even a desire to heal people, it's a desire to be the one responsible for their healing, right? It's a desire for *kavod* [כבוד: honor], that's a desire for *kavod*.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but that would be different from a doctor who thinks that cancer is so terrible that he wants to do it. Actually, the guy that has the patches to the thing.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, yeah. The guy that holds the book back.
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. He's the doctor who loves health so much, or thinks that health is such a good thing that he has a passion for it. But he's actually very good at what he does. You need the surgery.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, but no, no. I'm arguing that the bad doctor is the one who tries to heal people and the good doctor is the one who tries to heal sicknesses.
Student: Don't forget to take your fifth book.
Instructor: Anyway, I'm not going to get into this.
You should notice that there's a modern ideal of praising passion, which is precisely the thing described as monstrous evil in every book prior to like 1600. You should notice this at least. This is one of my things. Just notice. Is there's something really weird going on.
Okay, now let's move on. I'm not asking, I'm just telling you. See, that's great—not great in the sense of big. Yeah, nobody disagrees with that. That's the problem. Worse, you mean. You mean worse. It's a really bad thing. I'm really against it. You should come here on Shabbos and hear me explain why cars are—
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Instructor: But that's the worst thing. Or not the worst thing, that's traditionally seen as the worst thing. I'm here to argue with this simplification here, but you have to understand what it is. Being able to do what you want, that's what the sultan said. Why would being able to do all kinds of things be a good thing? That's a bad thing.
Student: In my mouth—
Instructor: No, no, I'm not putting it in my mouth. I'm saying the mashal [parable/analogy] is—let's say like I said, I want to come to this shiur [Torah lesson] so much, so much. It could have taken me either 17 minutes or it could have been 3 hours.
Student: No, no, that's just—oh my god, oh my god, no, no, that's not true. Firstly it's not true, no, no, it's not a good mashal because like, just to like, you should think before you speak. Like what are you even saying? Like what, this is solving a problem. That's really why cars—
Instructor: Of Vendancy should come to this shiur? I could know it's not a time we show it. I can't even get into this because if you should think about this, like you should try to take it apart and realize what is behind thinking that this is good. Because it's not good. I don't think it's good. I don't even think that it's good. You should talk to my sheet in 70 minutes. I think it's really evil. I think it makes the sheet worse, makes you worse, makes the whole world worse. But that's just me giving a positive argument for why it would be like that.
Student: I'm not watching you right now online—
Instructor: That makes it better? Worse, of course. Makes the world worse. The fact that you could watch me online without coming here is making the world worse. Of course it is. Now, since we live in the evil world, should you watch me instead of some other nonsense? That's a different discussion. But of course the ability, the expansion of ability, is like the expansion of desire. And therefore the more a person is a kind of person who could do what he wants, and all of this technology when it's praised, it's praised precisely in this way—it expands humans' freedom. Now you can do what you want. In other words, it makes us worse people. The kind of praise is the praising of the evil.
Student: Well, do you need great ability to do great good things too?
Instructor: Yes, but the good doesn't consist of the ability. The good consists precisely of putting a limit on the ability and saying you only do it in this way. Now that's not a praise of the inventor. That's a praise of me that's using it in only the good way. But therefore I don't owe anything to the guy that invented the internet, because he only gave me the yetzer [hara] [evil inclination]. Just like I don't owe anything to my body or to whatever that is the base of the things that we act in life, the things that want. The thing that gets praised or deserves praise is what puts limits on that, not what creates the ability. Right? Creating abilities is always bad. It's the definition of bad.
Instructor: So we should go back to this bad here is not so bad, just to be clear. Bad is the base of good, always. So the inventor of the wheel is also extremely mad guy. You read the story? Did you read the story of that Sadassah ever? That's what it says there. Did you read the myth of Prometheus? Like this base fundamental units that all say this expansion of abilities is bad. Nothing new here. And again, does that mean that there's nothing to do after that? No. But the praising of precisely what is seen as the problem as the solution—that is a real inversion. That's really weird.
Like, you allow me to come to the sheet? Allowing is a bad thing. You may—if there would be some of them that would invent the machine that makes you come because she didn't 17 minutes, that would be a good invention. But allowing is a bad invention. And unfortunately, cars don't make you come to the Sharia [shiur]. They allow you.
Student: New line of cars.
Instructor: What?
Student: That would be a good line of cars.
Instructor: The problem is that cars as a material invention can't be that. Because that's what matter is—potential. It can't be that. The only kind of invention that is that is things that invent religions or that invent cultures or that invent some kind of social human soul-like systems that work on human souls to limit them, to teach them what is good.
Instructor: And does that happen with great ambition or great passion? You could describe it that way, but I've never heard anyone describing Moshe Rabbeinu [Moses our teacher] or even any other founder of religion as a guy of great passion. They have different ways of describing them. Why? Not because they didn't work with great passion—it takes a great, like we call emotional energy to be that. But the reason they're not described [that way], because that's not the primary thing that makes them interesting. The primary thing that makes them interesting is their limitations that they have, right? Ideas of what is good and what is bad. Moshe was the one that came up with 365 ways of being bad and 248 ways of being good. That was his whole thing.
Student: What does ahavah azah [fierce/intense love] mean when we're talking about ahavas Hashem [love of God], like as the tav of Mishku [?]? What does that mean?
Instructor: Means nothing. You shouldn't read those books that say those things.
Student: They're still Ram [Rambam/Maimonides] says those things. Ram says—
Instructor: Ram says, but ahavas Hashem should be like—
Student: Okay, you didn't read it.
Instructor: You didn't read it well. I know this is a Chassidish [Chassidic] misreading of the Ram, 100%. Ram didn't say it and it's like that. Now I'm going to tell you about the Chassidim. Yes. The Chassidim are—I know, but you went to Chassidim and they gave you these glasses and now you see this weird, evil praise of unrestrained passion as a good thing, even in pursuit of the good. And because they lived after, you know, a certain period of time. And this is weird. Like, this romanticization of great passion for God. It's nonsense. Great passion for God only causes problems.
Instructor: Did you ever hear the story of the Olam HaTohu [World of Chaos] of Kabbalah? You heard it? You know why the vessels broke? Because they wanted God too much. It's a bad thing. God's answer was, please don't. They read the story. All the stories are the opposite. They're creating limits. They're not creating gehava [?]. The Havod Ram [?], of course, doesn't say that. He says the opposite.
Student: Shem [?] was happy with that.
Instructor: Shem was very happy. Of course there's a Gemara [Talmudic passage] that says the opposite, but what?
Student: No, no, no, no, because like there's so much—
Instructor: He's not just trying to point at the point. Like what I'm doing right now is not really teaching because I'm just doing the thing. But you should realize that there's something really weird with this praise of passion, even in the sense, precisely in this sense, of an unrestrained desire. Precisely in that sense.
Student: Say well, and if it's good that sometimes it causes good things—
Instructor: No, that is what the evil means. He literally gives the mashal with the girl. Sadiq [?], I know exactly what they mean. And you read it upside down. And you have to know how the Rambam thinks about these things. And understand what he's trying to say. Whenever someone uses a mashal, you always put in your own conceptions of that mashal into the mashal, and you think that he's imagining things. That's why meshalim [parables] are evil. Anyways, should have not done the mashal. It would have been better without it. Because at least people wouldn't invent random things. You know why there's—you know what's the cause of the yetzer [hara]? You know why there's still yetzer [hara]? Because the nevi'im [prophets] use meshalim. That's why. And then you're like, wait, they said it's a good thing. Shirah Shina [?] was written about that.
Instructor: Okay, now—anyways, now this is a serious thought about Chaim Shin K'ev [?]. It's a good thing in the right place.
Student: No, that's what I'm saying. It's not a good thing. If that is the criteria, then it's not a good thing. At least this theory says it's not a good thing. Good things are restrained things. Precisely the opposite. The more yakar [precious/restrained] someone is, the more better they are. That's also a weird mashal that's going to make you bad now. But that's my point. Restraint is good. And wildness is bad.
Instructor: I mean, civilization is good, and whatever the opposite of civilization is, is bad. Isn't that obvious? Now people come, oh no, civilization is based on these great passions that are really destructive. No, it's not. That's the background of civilization, yes. But it's based on restraining that.
Instructor: Well, yes, but it's in some sense, in the sense of it, that being the base. Like, but marriage is based on the restraint of desire, or the organization of it, right? The submission of it, the giving it the correct limits. That's what it's based on. In a more real sense, then it's based on that. Where did I get into this? But anyways...
If you would build your worldview off of your sexual instinct, I think you probably wouldn't end up with marriage.
Student: It's bad for sex.
Instructor: No, it's not bad for sex, but to say it's bad for... No, I was saying it's the background of it, but it's not the basis of it. And if you think that people have felt that right all the... Just to be clear, all the *ba'alei hashkafa* [בעלי השקפה: religious teachers/speakers on worldview] that say you should get married because there's better sex, their kids end up gay. That's not... You got what I'm saying?
Student: Very simple, yeah.
Instructor: What was the connection?
Student: As simple as that.
Instructor: Ah, because like the number... gay in the real sense, right? Not... I don't care who you're doing it with, in the sense of pursuing the pleasure instead of pursuing the kind of things that limit the pleasure in some way or give it a form, right? Limit it—not in the way of having less of it, in the way of giving it a structure, right? Those people are upset about the old structure of making marriage and then starting to pretend that... Because then this like hedonism is the correct result. So if everything is based on pleasure, then why shouldn't we just be wild hedonists? Turns out you don't have much pleasure doing that either, but that's a different problem.
Student: Wild what?
Instructor: Hedonism. That's the conclusion. Like, why even struggle? Like, how it says, why do you have to buy a cow if you only need milk? So that's the conclusion if you think that it's based on that. If you understand that it's based on that in the sense of that being the prior situation that it starts with—if it wouldn't be that, of course we wouldn't need it or it wouldn't exist—but based on the precise opposite of that, based on the... how we call it... this discipline of that, right? Then you're going to end up with the discipline of it.
Okay, now keep it in the drama. You're not gonna solve what you're looking for, right, by doing that. Not gonna help you.
Where am I here? That's the... all description of the ways in which claiming that the... is the problem makes some kind of sense, and that's the way in which it does make sense. I think it does make sense. Do you agree with me?
Instructor: This school is motivated by the right idea that desire definitely... It definitely shouldn't be a motivation or action. Or we could say something like, you should not live the life of desire. That shouldn't be your life. Right. Or that shouldn't be your reason. Therefore, the suppression of desire is a good thing.
Oh, so now... I'm saying that's the first rule.
Student: Right, right, right.
Instructor: Therefore, the thing you should talk about, instead of talking about desiring the right things or doing the right things and so on, you should start by talking... like you should give *drashos* [דרשות: sermons/lectures] against desire. That's the point. Describe how evil it is and how horrible it is, how stupid it is, and then you'll get people weaned of desire and they'll automatically basically go to... people... or you should train them, you should give them exercises for that, right?
I mean, meanwhile, just telling you that...
Instructor: Yeah, there's also... I could tell you something like there's also certain practices that would be explained precisely by that. Just to be clear, what?
Yeah, or like the Rambam [רמב"ם: Maimonides] and author of *Rav Sa'adya* [Gaon] explain all the *issurei achilah* [איסורי אכילה: forbidden foods] based in this way, right? So there is something true in this, right?
So that... *Rav Sa'adya* wrote this poem putting the... says the all the time it's nice... there is the *Aseres HaDibros* [עשרת הדברות: Ten Commandments] and he follows... follow and putting all the things in... not allowed to eat into *Lo Tachmod* [לא תחמוד: You shall not covet]. Because you understand *Lo Tachmod* has this base idea of desire, and eating *chazer* [חזיר: pig/non-kosher food] or eating *basar b'chalav* [בשר בחלב: meat and milk together] or *gid hanasheh* [גיד הנשה: sciatic nerve] are in any case, no matter what their original reason is, they're still instances of suppressing your desire.
And the Rambam would say this explicitly when he talks about... in *Mitzvos* [מצוות: commandments] he gives this even as a *klal* [כלל: general principle]. He says, in some sense one goal, one objective of all the *Mitzvos* is he calls it *perishus* [פרישות: abstinence/separation], right? Of course this makes it more complicated, but suppression of desire. And therefore would say something like the main reason or one of the reasons why there's all these things we don't eat is just to teach us that we don't do what we want, like that kid said, and training you to be less a less desirous person.
Instructor: Now what do I have against this? I don't have anything against this now that I'm thinking about it. But the theory, the opinion of the *Chachamim* was not like this, right? You remember that the *Chachamim* was... had for various reasons, and it's not clear why, but the *Chachamim* assumed that there's something that you do, not something that you want. It's not a *middah*. They're almost explicitly opposed to *mitzvos shebalev* [מצוות שבלב: commandments of the heart] in this way—not because they didn't believe in things in your heart, but because they didn't understand the best way of training a human being to be to tell them to be a less desirous person.
Instructor: And I think that this is because one thing we could see that happens when we do this, and we could see the people that focus in this way, is that they end up in the solipsistic loops that we discussed last time, that you end up focusing so much on not being a desirous person, I forget to be a good person.
Instructor: And it seems to me not correct, although it's true that this is a... being a desirous person is very, very easy way to be to become horrible. That's true. But not being a desirous person is not a quick way to become good. That's what I think. It's just not enough. This theory is like being like... I mean, this is everything. And they would say, well, this has this place. This theory is even true in some very broad sense, but it's not practical enough, it's not true enough. It doesn't actually make you a good person. Being less of a *ba'al taivah* [בעל תאוה: person of desire] doesn't often make you a good person.
Instructor: I'll explain to you why. I think that the *Chazon Ish* in *Emunah U'Bitachon* gets this pretty well, although he turned it so many times that it's weird. But I was thinking about this, *perek gimmel*. It turns out the *Chazon Ish* is saying my *shita* [שיטה: approach/method]. No, because the *Chazon Ish* often is like inherited this ancient way of thinking and has no good way of expressing it, so it comes out very funny. But I think that he's really trying to get at it.
Instructor: And what is he saying, the *Chazon Ish*? The *Chazon Ish* is saying that, wait, wait a second. It's true that desire proper, like desire just as desire, *lishma* [לשמה: for its own sake], is a weird thing. But let's be real. Firstly, very few people are actually like that. There are some people. But that's not the big problem in life.
Secondly, this doesn't actually tell me how to act. Doesn't... you can be a *mush'ba* [משובע: satisfied/satiated] either *greis* [גרייס: Yiddish: grits/porridge] or garbage eat in that sense and still a big *rasha* [רשע: wicked person]. Even a big *rasha* in the time away. You can even be a *ganav* [גנב: thief]. Why could he be a *ganav*? Because *ganav* is not defined by me not wanting things. It's the final... meaning something doesn't belong to me. And how does not belong to me defined? Not by what I don't want, right?
So this definition, I'm not doing what you want, it's definitely not a good enough of positive definition for what to do. It might be good as a negative definition for not to make the criteria of all your actions. Or you could say in a very general sense, so the answer to everything else is to do what is correct. But who decides what is correct is something entirely different.
Instructor: Meaning it still enables what we may call casual *geneivah*. Not only casual, even... No, I mean casual in the sense of apathetic *geneivah*. Even, no, even in a certain sense, I think... I actually think... That's one thing, but I actually think that I was on the same, but I think it even enables *geneivah* with wanting, just not in this passionate way, not in a wild way, in a restrained way. But you could be a pretty nice guy—not with one orange, not three, right?
Like if we imagine like the caricature of this guy that we're against as some like weird really like... he said most people don't have the ability to be that. Most people are not rich enough and not powerful enough to really be, you know, extreme hedonist, to really follow their passions. Most people... that's why when we give these crazy examples of following a passion we talk about extremely powerful people, right? Because most people can't follow their passions. They're limited by the reality they live in, right?
But if we take that as the kind of example, right, and then we say okay, most people are not that, but most people still aren't... still aren't good people. They didn't tell... all the restraint that civilization put on people didn't make them into good people. They're still stealing and thieving and doing this all the time. So this doesn't seem to have actually been the final solution.
Student: Even worse, they're just born worse than?
Instructor: Even worse, they're just born maybe not through an unrestrained passion, but what are they? Right?
Instructor: The more important thing is that interestingly, what is good and bad is defined by some kind of... the *Ramchal* [רמח"ל: Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto] called external reality, by other people. Okay, that's just because he doesn't have a way of saying this, but it's defined by other people.
Instructor: You being a really this guy with the *mussar* [מוסר: ethics/character development]... it doesn't make you a guy that smells less amazingly. It makes you a very sensitive guy, but sensitive guys are not better guys. It might make you a very, like, refined...
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Instructor: That's what we're saying, right? I'm not saying it doesn't help. It doesn't help as much as its promoters pretend that it helps. It's easier to see how destructive it is when taken to an extreme and harder to see how not being that helps. I think we can agree. I think we argued about this a few weeks ago.
I think it needs some degree of suppression just to allow you to—
Student: Yes, yes. Last time you disagreed with me.
Instructor: I don't remember. I think that it helps. I think it needs some degree of suppression just to allow other things to come to the surface, even.
Student: That's true, but that's another way of saying things like, again, going back to this extreme example—
Instructor: And you could say in some subtle sense everyone is extreme because people have a very difficult time even seeing something beyond their own desires, like seeing that as a reason to do things, not seeing it. Most people, and even some ba'alei mussar [בעלי מוסר: masters of ethical discipline], strengthen this by pretending that that's just what people are. It's not. You're just, like, in some level of, like, what we call sometimes, people call that—
And I'm against calling it that way because it just makes it harder to see how simple it is. But some people call something that's going out of your own ego or something like that is a necessary condition for anything, even for doing math. And it's a very simple thing. It's not so complicated. But it's true that that is needed.
And some people, again, the extreme cases, I think, it's easy to see how that's the problem. There are some people that never get beauty because beauty is not you. They get enjoyment from beauty. Like, modern discourse pretends that this makes sense, right? We can't really talk about what's beautiful, we can talk about what you enjoy. Beauty is subjective, which boils down to saying there isn't beauty, there's only enjoyment, which is about me.
But that's nonsense. Nobody really thinks that. Only extreme crazy people, or people—our language, our society's language was created by really extremely crazy people, like the ones you mentioned before, and that's why it's very hard for us to talk about. But if you look around in daily life, you'll see that it's not that way. We're controlled by things outside us all the time. That's not a big chiddush [חידוש: novel insight] really. People do understand motivation for something because it's good and not just because they want it.
But why do you want it? It's good because you want it? Just words.
Instructor: So I think it's less helpful. It's easy to see how it helps and negates certain extreme issues. It's less easy to see how it actually helps, and also even less easy to see therefore how it succeeds at its own aims, which is like defining how to be good in this very general way and saying that good consists of that. Because it might be good as a negative thing. It doesn't need to be good as a positive. And therefore, even what to want depends on what is correct to want.
Instructor: In other words, lo tachmod [לא תחמוד: you shall not covet] can only be defined after you know what belongs to you and what doesn't belong to you. If we talk about lo tachmod in a monetary sense, right? This says the holy Ramban [רמב"ן: Rabbi Moshe ben Nachman, Nachmanides] last week in Parashat Mishpatim [פרשת משפטים: the Torah portion on civil law], in the beginning of Parashat Mishpatim.
Ramban says that Parashat Mishpatim and the whole derush [דרוש: exposition] over there is an expansion of the Aseret HaDibrot [עשרת הדברות: the Ten Commandments]. Instead, Parashat Mishpatim is an expansion of lo tachmod.
Why doesn't he say lo tignov [לא תגנוב: you shall not steal]? Maybe because he thought that means really gonev nefashot [גונב נפשות: kidnapping]. I don't know. I think that because he understood that wanting—now I'll give you a third thing, I have to say the third pshat [פשט: interpretation] also on lo tachmod, this is the second pshat that I said last time—that being a kind of person that is wanting is after knowing what really belongs to you and what doesn't belong really to you.
Instructor: And there's a lot of detail in that, which means that if you don't—like Rav Soloveitchik says, people that don't know Choshen Mishpat [חושן משפט: the section of Jewish law dealing with civil matters] by default can't know him. Because we don't really know usually what belongs to us or what our obligations are and so on. It's not natural. The natural thing of like, "I don't take things that are not mine"—no, the world is much more complicated. That's more detailed than that. You have to figure out what your obligations are.
I gave a very long derush about this last week in Boro Park and it didn't help. Nobody understood what I said. Maybe I'll say it again. Anyways, yeah I could, but I don't have patience to repeat all of that.
And that's what I understand to be the second pshat. And therefore the chokhmah [חכמה: wisdom], it turns out to be—
Instructor: Like I want to give an example that I might have said it here in another context before, but I think it's a better good example of understanding the difference between the first version of internality and the second version, which is I think a more practical version and also I think it's more the pshat of Chazal [חז"ל: our Sages, of blessed memory] and the pesukim [פסוקים: verses] when they talk about things.
Instructor: So, people like the Chovot HaLevavot [חובות הלבבות: Duties of the Heart, a medieval Jewish philosophical work] like to do this move, and I think it's the wrong move. They like to say things like, it says in the Navi [נביא: prophet], "b'fiv u'visfatav kibduni v'libo rachak mimeni" [בפיו ובשפתיו כבדוני ולבו רחק ממני: with his mouth and lips he honored Me, but his heart is far from Me].
From here we learn that what God wants is what's in your heart and not what you say. But that's not true, that's not what the Navi said. Right? Let's explain the difference.
Instructor: What the Navi said is like this. Someone comes and says, by davening [davening: prayer], "I love God, I believe in the truth, I believe that only God controls everything, and getting a—you don't get anything, you don't gain anything by going in bad ways," and so on. That's what he says by davening. Okay?
Now there's two kinds of problems that we could call by a similar name with someone saying this. Both are called hypocrisy. Okay?
Now what is in the hypocrisy when—then in the simple sense—but the Navi is criticizing, the Navi is criticizing someone who comes and says all these nice things about, you know, you have—we have to have bitachon [בטחון: trust in God] and God controls the world and we love Hashem [השם: God, lit. "the Name"] and all of that.
Turns out, whenever he lives his life, whenever he needs something, he forgets, doesn't really live with bitachon. Or he doesn't—not steal because he thinks that God is just. He steals because he doesn't really trust that he'll get the things that we'll need without stealing, right? That's what the iker mitzvah [עיקר מצוה: essential commandment] of bitachon is—not to steal, right? I've told you this many times.
So, that's—now, when he says this, you're a liar. You're not saying what you believe, what you live. That's called a hypocrite. And that's what libo [לבו: his heart] means—libo rachak mimeni [his heart is far from Me]. Okay? You're not living that. That's what libo means.
And now like I said, why is this called heart? Because you're saying the correct words, you might even sometimes do the correct actions, but you're the kind of person who always tends to do the opposite. That's all that heart means in this context.
Instructor: Now there's a different pshat which is the Chovot HaLevavot pshat, for the Chassidish [חסידיש: Hasidic] pshat sometimes, which doesn't mean something like this. You could say words out of rote, and you don't mean it, you don't think what you say, you don't feel in your heart at the moment that you say—you're not impressed, you're not excited, you're not dedicated, you're not devoted to the words you're saying, you're just saying them.
And then there's someone else who when he says it, he means it, right? He's like devoted to what he's—excited by—to see them think that being excited or having what they call high emotional energy in it is the good thing. And the Chovot HaLevavot seems to say things like that often.
Instructor: Now, you can understand that if my main problem is the first problem, someone might be saying it by rote and he is—libo karov laHashem [לבו קרוב לה': his heart is close to God]. Because when he says Shema Yisrael [שמע ישראל: Hear O Israel], he lives in some sense in Shema Yisrael. Because he doesn't steal because he believes that there's a God who provides for the people that don't steal.
Now, the criticism of the Navi is not that he says Shema Yisrael quickly. Who cares if he says it quickly? Which mitzvah [מצוה: commandment] is it to say things? It doesn't help anyone. That's a bli berakhah [בלי ברכה: lit. "without blessing," here meaning "worthless"]. You shrei [שריי: you shout], you get so emotional thinking of—ein makhshava [אין מחשבה: there is no thought]—as there is, and you're a shakran [שקרן: liar], you're a bluffer, bli berakhah. You don't mean that. You don't believe that, what you're saying. You have no idea what you're talking about.
I think you mentioned this, I think I heard it, I don't know if it was published, that Daniel [דניאל: the biblical prophet] didn't say "HaKel HaGadol" [הקל הגדול: the Great God]—he didn't buy it, he didn't think so.
Right, and the opposite guy who is thinking—
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That's a libo d'chu kemanei [Hebrew: לבו דחו כמניה, his heart is not with him]. You're in a shiur [Torah lecture], you get so emotional by the drasha [sermon/Torah discourse], and you're really there, you're not thinking of any machshavah zarah [Hebrew: מחשבה זרה, foreign/extraneous thought], and you're a shakran [Hebrew: שקרן, liar], you're a bluff [bluffer], libo d'chu kemanei. You don't mean that. You don't believe that, what you're saying. You have no idea what you're talking about.
It's like when you go to, I don't know if you mentioned this, I think I heard it, I don't know if it was published, that Daniel said, didn't say it, I can't remember, couldn't lie, he didn't think so.
And the opposite guy who thinks that the internality is something inside — how about how I feel? Like I explained before, there's some reason why people get to think things like that. He is — this is the problem that I'm getting at, that you make — like people think of aveirah [Hebrew: עבירה, sin/transgression] also, right? The main thing is that you're a good person inside, right?
"I feel so bad for you. Give me your knife, the knife to sheikh. I feel so bad."
I see people doing this every day. It's amazing and they consider themselves all good people. "So bad for you. I'm such a good person."
He means it when he says the words and nothing — that he's lying. Some people are lying. People are just psychopaths when they say the words that "I feel bad for you, it hurts me more than it hurts you." Doesn't hurt some people. Does hurt. He's not even lying. It really hurts him. But he's a bigger hypocrite.
Yeah, another word. This is the second definition of middah [Hebrew: מידה, character trait/measure] that we're saying. It is someone who doesn't do it, doesn't like doing it. If you're doing it and you feel bad, is that in the contradiction? You have a — your own feelings is very cute, but I don't — who cares? It's not even a good feeling. Is nothing good about things that this — you're not even a better person for that. You're a better — yeah, feelings, okay. But your feelings — so that's the second thing. That's the second thing.
And that's what they — something like "I never wanted it. I just took it without wanting it. It's not even my sachmet [unclear term, possibly related to desire/will]." No, you're — so the other could lead you to this, to do the right actions, right? If you use that as a tool, you will do — the other sachmet is exactly — be the kind of person for who other people's money is a thing that causes you to not want it. Be limited by that.
Student: No, I know that, but if you like — it just — it doesn't mean — I think maybe you could use it as a tool to get to your sachmet.
Instructor: The first one you mean?
Student: The first one you use as a tool.
Instructor: I worry that it's usually used as a tool to not get to it. That's why I'm against it. Because I notice the people thinking that way — I don't know, a lot of this is, some of this is theoretical about like ancient people and thinkers that have talked about this, and some of it is me noticing that we're very — we in some sense, we in the sense of like the yeshivos [Hebrew: ישיבות, Torah academies] that we all went to, inherited this bad version of internality, and it makes people worse usually instead of better. Because they think that they're good people because when they say Shema [Hebrew: שמע, the central Jewish prayer declaring God's unity] they feel it, or because when they say "it hurts me" they feel it. That's the same idea.
Squashing desire is also internal thing. Everyone agrees that it's internal thing. Like "I don't care about what I want. I do only what I think is correct."
Yeah, but you never think of what's correct, right? So it's true that you don't do a desire, not even giving like this mussar [Hebrew: מוסר, ethical/character development teachings] argument that you don't hear in a gift. No, you're a person pure from the negios [Hebrew: נגיעות, personal biases/conflicts of interest]. You just feel a bad person. Like I wish would tell you because you don't know what is yours and what is not yours. You never thought about. You never put a lot of effort in to figure out what your obligation, what your place in the world is, what belongs to you, what do you have to act. These are all external things and you're not into an external things. You're just busy sitting by your shtender [Yiddish: שטענדער, lectern/study stand] there and being a good guy. And that's not a good guy.
That's what I worried about. You get what I'm saying?
It's like someone would say something like — like take an example of physical health, right? Of course being a very desirous person is not conducive to physical health. You might drink too much, eat too much, and so on, right?
Right.
But not being a desirous person doesn't make you healthy. You've got to actually find out what's healthy. There's no magic that says — people claim that there's such magic, but in general, it's not really like that. Like, no magic that says that once you won't eat for your taivos [Hebrew: תאוות, desires], you'll eat healthily. You might just eat kugel [Yiddish: קוגל, traditional baked pudding/casserole] without taivos. It doesn't mean that all problems are solved when you make it, like, in deficiency.
Yeah, that's one way. I feel like there's a deeper problem here, but yeah, that's one problem.
That is my bigger problem. I think that this doesn't actually help. You could work a lot on your religiously, sachmet will be a ganus [unclear term, possibly related to theft/stealing] and it has nothing to do. It doesn't even help. It might help, like I said. He says it helps in extreme cases. I don't even know.
Yeah, right. And then when you stop being a guy and you stop wanting to be a kind of also, and that's called having the middah of this act might according to me. Exactly.
It's not — it comes first in the order of reality because people act from their internals. But it comes second in the order of theory. Like what defines the good person? Like I said, what defines the person who is not the libo d'chu kemanei is how we act, not how we — not how we mean what in me.
When he means — when he says, of course the person who says it that way, when he says it's also coming in a certain sense more from his internals. It's like — it's true that it's like external. The guy that doesn't live what he's — what he says by his drushas [plural of drasha, sermons] when he says that he's lying, which is the clearest case of someone speaking externally, right? His mouth is saying it but his heart doesn't say it.
But firstly, heart doesn't mean feelings. Doesn't mean feelings at that moment, right? It's like — it's very this very weird thing where lying is not the — lying is not the — conformity of your external state to your internal state when you're lying. A good liar lies on his thoughts too. It's not when I'm lying I'm thinking, "no, that's a lie."
Lying is the non-conformance of your words to the reality. Now that reality is what we call the most internal thing. But it's the external reality, so to speak, the thing outside yourself, or at least outside yourself at that moment, is the criteria for what makes it not a lie.
Does that make sense?
There's a third that I have to get to, but I'm going to stop here because it's connected with too many things and it's going to take me too much time to figure out.
Student: With the Chayei Adam [Hebrew: חיי אדם, "Life of Man" — a major halakhic work] for some, not related, just anyway, what does he do with what he said? How do you say the words?
Instructor: I don't think it's important. It might be a practice for something, like just for focus or meditation, but I don't think it's important at all. He seems to think it's important. That's what I'm saying. I think Chayei Adam does a lot of these rhetorical tricks where he takes things that meant something totally different and pretends that they mean what he wanted them to mean.
Student: I'm saying he kind of like asks it on himself. If Hamas desires spiraling at it, why do you need these words if really it's all in your heart?
Instructor: Okay, that's a different question. I'm talking about actions.
Student: Yeah, that's a question about words. That's not my question, it's about actions.
Instructor: Easier this way. But like, easier this way, that doesn't get to what — what the real thing is.
Student: Yeah, the words is a different question really, but yeah.
Instructor: Okay, I have to sort out the video.
The modern split between "inner" and "outer" goodness stems from the loss of natural teleology — once you deny that things in the world have inherent purposes, goodness can no longer reside in actions themselves and gets trapped entirely in human intention, producing the familiar but incoherent idea that being "good on the inside" is what really matters. This shift generated both utilitarianism (goodness as subjective feeling) and deontology (goodness as obedience to moral law), and stands behind the Tanya vs. Nefesh HaChaim dispute, the modern reinterpretation of kavana as a mental state rather than a description of what you're actually doing, and the strange claim that Torah lishma is about your headspace rather than your learning. Purim embodies the corrective: chitzoniyus IS pnimiyus — happiness is not a feeling but a fact, realized through concrete action like matanos l'evyonim, not through interior emotional states.
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כל שיעור הוא בעצם ספר שלם שנדחס לנקודת החידוש שלו. המשל: תלמיד חכם מגיע לחידוש (במקלחת), מוצא מקורות, בונה טיעון, מפרסם אחרי שנים, עובר ביקורת עמיתים, ובסופו של דבר נקודת החידוש מצטמצמת לחמש שורות באנציקלופדיה. השיעורים האלו מתחילים מהתקציר. כל אחד יכול להרחיב כל שיעור בודד לספר שלם, אבל מכיוון שממילא אף אחד לא קורא ספרים שלמים, הגרסה המרוכזת באה קודם.
השיעור של היום הוא "ספר חדש" שממשיך את הדיונים של השבועיים הקודמים. ההבנה (שהגיעה ביום ראשון, "במקלחת") היא שכל מה שנדון עד כה מחובר זה לזה.
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הבעיה המרכזית היא היחס בין פנימיות לחיצוניות — נושא שכולם מזכירים (במיוחד סביב פורים) אבל מעטים מגדירים בבהירות.
- מצד אחד: גישת הרמב"ם נראית מאוד *חיצונית* — ממוקדת במעשים. הקריאה החסידית ברמב"ם היא קריאה שגויה; הרמב"ם עוסק באמת בחיצוניות/מעשים.
- מצד שני: הרמב"ם לא היה "ליטוואק מודרני" שמצמצם את היהדות לביצוע מכני. המסגרת כאן מדגישה *להיות אדם*, לא להיות מכונה שמייצרת תוצרים — וזה נשמע כמו דבר *פנימי*.
השאלה המרכזית: מהי ה*נקודה* (הנקודה המהותית) של יהודי / של אדם טוב? האם היא בפנים או בחוץ? האם זו בעיית ביצה-ותרנגולת (מאיפה מתחילים?) או בעיה הגדרתית (מהי *טובה*)?
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הנקודה המרכזית של השבוע שעבר הייתה שיש שאלה אמיתית מה זה אומר להיות "טוב מבפנים". יש שני דברים שונים ש"להיות טוב מבפנים" יכול לפירושם. (זה מסומן כ*דרשה* — מסגרת יותר דרשנית — לפני שחוזרים ל"מציאות".)
שמועס בשבת על המשכן טען שהמשכן צריך להיות *לפני ולפנים* (פנימי), בציטוט תורה מאחרון שזה אומר *לשמה* (לשם הדבר עצמו / בכוונה טובה), שדורש *נדבת הלב*. זו קריאה שגויה לחלוטין ברש"י — "אין שייכות". המסקנה שהשראת השכינה שורה לא במבנה הפיזי אלא ב*לב* לא עונה על השאלה אלא מחמירה אותה: למה הלב שלך עדיף על בניין? אף אחד לא מסביר את זה. ובכל זאת יש "משהו יהודי" מאחורי האינטואיציה — רק לא ברור מה זה באמת אומר.
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מה זה אומר בשפה פשוטה כשאנשים אומרים הפנימיות של יהודי, נדבת הלב, העצמי הפנימי?
"פנימי" אומר ששום דבר *מחוץ* ל"אתה" לא הופך אותך לטוב או רע — ה"אתה" הוא מה שהופך אותך לטוב. משל: אדם מוכשר שנכפה עליו מדי שוטר והוא גרוע בתפקיד שוטר — הוא לא אדם *רע* — יש לו 150 כישרונות אחרים (קומיקאי, סופר, מוזיקאי). ה"חיצוני" הוא המדים/התפקיד שלא תואמים מי שהוא באמת.
1. מדים זה לא חיצוניות במובן הרלוונטי — זה סתם חוסר התאמה, לא הבחנה בין פנים לחוץ. לומר שאתה "באמת" מוזיקאי ולא שוטר זה רק לומר שהכישרונות שלך נמצאים במקום אחר.
2. כישרונות הם לא "אתה" במובן פנימי עמוק — הם דברים *לגבי*ך, אולי "מקרים" אריסטוטליים. (התלמיד מתנגד ומציע שכישרונות *מרכיבים* את האדם כמו מרכיבים שעושים עוגה, ולכן כל אדם ייחודי. זה מסומן כ"קצת לא נכון" אבל לא נרדף.)
3. שני התפקידים כוללים פעולה חיצונית — להיות מוזיקאי זה משהו שאתה *עושה* עם הגוף; אנשים שומעים את זה. אם אף אחד לא שומע את המוזיקה שלך, אתה "כמו עץ שנופל ביער". ה"עצמי" המוזיקלי הפנימי הוא רק *יכולת* — ויכולת לעשות *מה*? לנגן מוזיקה, שזו פעולה. "להיות טוב *בעצם*" (מהותית/מטבעו) מתמוטט לכלום בלי העשייה.
4. משל השולחן: שולחן שמשתמשים בו לחסום דלת הוא *שימוש לא נכון*: הוא לא מתאים למטרה הזו, הצורה והמבנה שלו לא תואמים את הפונקציה. באופן דומה, אדם שהכישרונות שלו לא מתאימים לתפקידו יתקשה ויסבול. זה אמיתי ונכון, אבל זה פשוט המושג של תפקוד נכון מול שימוש לא נכון — לא פנימיות מול חיצוניות.
כשאנשים אומרים "מבפנים כל יהודי הוא טוב" או "כל אדם טוב מבפנים", למה הם באמת מתכוונים? האם הם מתכוונים שלאנשים יש נטיות טובות? לחלקם יש, לחלקם לא. האם הם מתכוונים שלבני אדם *ככאלה* יש נטיות טובות? מה זה בכלל אומר? האינטואיציה הנפוצה לגבי טובה פנימית עדיין לא קיבלה תוכן קוהרנטי. תשובה שגויה (פנימי = התאמה לנטיות/כישרונות שלך) סולקה מהדרך.
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ההצעה שפנימיות/חיצוניות ממופה על מה שדבר באמת הוא (טבעו/תכליתו) מול מה שאפשר להשתמש בו אבל הוא לא מתאים לכך היא "וורט אמיתי" (נקודה תקפה) אבל לא הסבר להבחנה בין פנימיות לחיצוניות שאנשים מפעילים. "בני אדם טובים בלהיות בני אדם" זה או טריוויאלי או חסר משמעות — זה לא הופך מישהו לאדם *טוב*. המושגים של לשמה, כוונה טובה, רצון טוב — אלה לא אותו דבר כמו נקודת ההתאמה. הם משהו אחר לגמרי. הדרשה על טובה פנימית נשארת כמעט בלתי מובנת — "תן לי משל, מה אני אמור *לעשות* בגלל הדרשה שלך?"
תלמיד מעלה את הנקודה לגבי לראות מישהו "צולע" ולהיות מסוגל לתקן — למה לא לתקן את מי שנותן את הדרשה? זה מתחבר למצוות תוכחה אבל נדחה כדיון נפרד ומורכב. שיעור ניתן בנושא זה במונסי בראש חודש, שעסק בברייתא אחרת. [מסומן לחזור אליו מאוחר יותר.]
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*יסוד* מרכזי: לא ייתכן שכולם לפני תאריך מסוים היו משוגעים, וגם לא שכולם אחרי התאריך הזה משוגעים. משהו מתמיה קרה — בין אם ב-1772 או ב-1992 או מתי ש"המודרניות" הגיעה — שגרם לאנשים להתחיל לחשוב בדרכים חדשות. השיח על פנימיות/חיצוניות הוא דוגמה: אנשים אומרים את הדרשות האלה כבר כ-400 שנה, אבל אם חוזרים אחורה יותר, אף אחד לא אומר אותן. המקורות הקדומים יותר (כשקוראים אותם בעיון, "בפשטות") לא באמת תומכים בקריאה הזו, למרות שאנשים מקרינים אותה אחורה לתוכם. המשימה היא להבין גם מה הדרשות האלה אומרות לאנשים שאומרים אותן וגם איזה שינוי היסטורי/מושגי גרם להן להתחיל להיראות משמעותיות.
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תלמיד מציע ניסיון מתוחכם יותר: עולם המחשבות שונה מהותית מעולם הדברים (חומר גלם, אובייקטים חיצוניים). אם המודל האונטולוגי הבסיסי שלך בנוי סביב "דברים בעולם", אז מחשבות לא מתאימות למודל הזה. צריך למצוא מודל למחשבות שלא ניתן לצמצם לדברים. זה מכריח אותך להניח חושב — מישהו שהמחשבות "שייכות" לו. החושב הזה חייב להיות שונה באופן קיצוני מעולם הדברים. המהלך הקל ביותר: למי שהמחשבות שייכות — זה "אתה", העצמי הפנימי. זה יוצר את ההבחנה בין פנים לחוץ: החושב (פנימי, פנימיות) מול עולם הדברים (חיצוני, חיצוניות).
זה מבטיח — "אנחנו הולכים לאיזשהו מקום" — אבל התלמיד קפץ צעד אחד קדימה בהתקדמות המתוכננת. *מצב השאלה* צריך קודם להיות מבוסס במלואו לפני שעוברים להסברים.
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"א קאפ קען מען נישט איבערשטעלן" — אי אפשר לתת למישהו ראש חדש. אפשר לתת למישהו כלים, חפצים, עזרה — אבל לא דרך חדשה לראות את העולם. רבי יכול לעשות את זה, אבל לא ביום, בחודש או בשנה. להפוך את השאלה על פנימיות ל*מובנת* בכלל עבור נותן הדרשה ידרוש לשבור כמויות עצומות של קרח מושגי.
המשל ההודי הקלאסי: עיוורים נוגעים כל אחד בחלק אחר של פיל ומתארים אותו אחרת (זנב = חבל מפוזפז, חדק = צינור, רגל = עמוד). כל אחד אומר אמת *מנקודת המבט שלו*. מי שרואה רואה את הפיל כולו. פרספקטיביזם אומר שהמבטים החלקיים של אנשים הם *חלקית נכונים*, לא פשוט שגויים. מטרת הפילוסופיה היא לפקוח את העיניים — לראות מה שבאמת קיים. ואם אתה רואה מה שבאמת קיים, אתה חייב *בהכרח* להיות מסוגל להסביר את הטעויות של כולם.
הקושיות של רבי עקיבא איגר (שאלות בהלכה) הן תמיד קושיות *טובות* — בלתי ניתנות למענה אם מקבלים את כל ההנחות שלו (שלעתים לא נאמרות במפורש). אי אפשר "לענות" עליהן בתירוץ מעורפל (תירוץ דחוק). הפתרון האמיתי הוא לפרק את השאלה — להראות שההנחות הבסיסיות יוצרות עולם שבו השאלה עולה, אבל המציאות היא "משהו אחר לגמרי", כך שהקושיא או לא מתחילה או לא מסתיימת. העיקרון של רבי נחמן: אין עולם שבו גם הקושיא היא קושיא טובה *וגם* התירוץ הוא תירוץ טוב. אחד מהם חייב לוותר.
אם הפילוסופיה שלך לא מסבירה למה כולם "משוגעים" — ובדיוק *באיזה אופן* הם משוגעים — אז ההבנה שלך חסרה. הבנה אמיתית של העולם חייבת להסביר את הטעויות של אחרים, לא רק לטעון את נכונות עצמה. לראות את התמונה המלאה כולל בהכרח הסבר לתמונות החלקיות ולמה הן מטעות.
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ספר המיועד לנוער להגן על יהדות טוען: אם יש אלוקים ← הוא ברא את העולם מסיבה ← לכל דבר יש משמעות. אם לא ← לשום דבר אין משמעות ← אין סיבה ללכת לישיבה. זה 100% נכון בתוכן אבל הפוך בסדר הלוגי.
חלום הומוריסטי על "משרד המשמעות" (משרד המשמעות) ממשלתי ששולח משאיות של משמעות למקומות שחסרה בהם. קומוניסטים רוצים חלוקה שוויונית של משמעות; קפיטליסטים רוצים שמשמעות תחולק לפי זכות. זה מתחבר לתופעה העכשווית האמיתית של "משבר המשמעות" — תחושה נרחבת שלחיים חסרה משמעות.
זה לא "אם אלוקים קיים, אז משמעות קיימת." זה "אם משמעות קיימת, אז אלוקים קיים." משמעות היא לא משהו שאלוקים *מוסיף* לעולם חסר משמעות. אלא, משמעות (ה"בשביל-מה" / תכלית) היא מטבעם של הדברים, ומתוך כך מגיעים לאלוקים.
זה חוזר לסוקרטס ולאברהם אבינו: התובנה שאי אפשר להסביר מה דבר *הוא* בלי להסביר למה הוא *מיועד*. שולחן לא ניתן להבנה בלי התייחסות למה שולחנות מיועדים. זו תכליתיות (טלאולוגיה) — אבל המונח המועדף הוא "משמעות", שמוגדרת כזהה: משמעות = למה דבר מיועד.
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- התכלית (מטרה/שלמות) של דבר היא יותר מגדירה את מה שהוא מאשר הרכבו החומרי, סיבתו הפועלת, או מצבו הנוכחי.
- לדברים חיים במיוחד, צורה, תכלית ומהות מתכנסים — מה שדבר חי *הוא*, למה הוא *מיועד*, ומה הוא *הולך להיות* הם אותו דבר.
- תאולוגיה (מה אלוקים הוא / התכליתיות האולטימטיבית), פיזיקה (מה דברים הם), ואתיקה (הבאת דברים לשלמותם) הם אותו סוג של חקירה.
- ההבחנה של דייוויד יום בין "יש" ל"צריך" (מה שנקרא הכשל הנטורליסטי) היא שטות במסגרת הזו, כי "צריך" הוא פשוט השלמת ה"יש".
- ספר משלי משווה ידיעה לטובה — לא בגלל שידיעת עובדות הופכת אותך למוסרי, אלא בגלל שלדעת באמת מה דבר הוא כולל לדעת את השלמתו/תפקודו הנכון. "להיות טוב" ו"לפעול נכון" הם אותו דבר.
קיומן של תכליות בטבע לא אומר לך אוטומטית מה התכליות האלה. פרנסיס בייקון ביצע את הכשל של ערבוב *קיומה* של תכליתיות עם *ידיעת* מה התכליות הן. מדע אמיתי, כשמבינים אותו נכון, הוא חקירת מה כל דבר *מיועד*. הקדמת הרמב"ם לפירוש המשנה על שלמה המלך: כשהכתוב אומר ששלמה "ידע כל עץ", הכוונה שהוא ידע למה כל עץ *מיועד* — התכלית שלו. זו אותו סוג ידיעה כמו ידיעת תורה, שהיא "ידיעת הטוב לכל דבר". אם הטוב קודם סיבתית לקיום החלקי של דברים שנוטים אליו, זה מה ש"תורה היא כלל העולם" אומר.
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הסתייגות חשובה: זה לא רק אירוע היסטורי. הדחף האנטי-תכליתי תמיד היה קיים — זה מה שאברהם אבינו נלחם נגדו (עבודה זרה). ה*יצר הרע* הוא בדיוק הנטייה הזו לראות דברים אחרת. צמצום זה להשתלשלות היסטורית גרידא, כאילו זה היה רק שינוי תרבותי מקרי, חייב להימנע.
ובכל זאת, הגרסה ההיסטורית:
- פרנסיס בייקון (*נובום אורגנום* — "מדע חדש") ומאוחר יותר דייוויד יום ואחרים הכריזו שאין "בשביל-מה" בעולם (*אין בעולם תכלית*).
- לעולם יש סיבות אבל לא משמעויות. הם הגדירו מחדש "סיבה" כך שתוציא סיבתיות תכליתית/סופית.
- ההבדל המעשי: במקום להסביר עץ כמשהו שנוטה להיות עץ מלא (טבעו הוא המסלול שלו לקראת שלמות), הם אומרים שעץ הוא רק מה שקורה כשכוחות שונים דוחפים חומר לתצורה מסוימת. אין "להיות עץ" כקטגוריה אמיתית — רק תוצאה מקרית של כוחות מכניים.
- זו לא דרך טבעית להבין דברים — רוב האנשים הרגילים חושבים באופן טבעי במונחים של תכליות בטבע ורק "נפרצים" מזה על ידי חינוך מדעי.
האובססיה המודרנית להיסטוריה כהסבר היא תוצאה ישירה של הכחשת סיבות סופיות וצוריות. אם הסיבה האמיתית היחידה היא סיבה פועלת/חומרית ("מאיפה משהו בא"), אז להסביר כל דבר זה פשוט לעקוב אחרי ההיסטוריה שלו. ההשקפה הנכונה: מה שדבר *הוא* מוסבר על ידי לאן הוא *הולך* (תכליתו), לא מאיפה הוא בא.
ההוגים שנמתחת עליהם ביקורת חכמים יותר ממה שההצגה הזו גורמת להם להישמע. יש סיבות אמיתיות שהגיעו לעמדותיהם, שצריך ללמוד ברצינות. אבל זה "רק הביקורת על הספר, לא הספר".
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אם אין סיבות סופיות בטבע, התאולוגיה מוגבלת באופן קיצוני לכמה עמדות אפשריות בלבד:
וא *שד*, לא אלוקים
ה"מתכנן האינטליגנטי" של תנועת התכנון האינטליגנטי הוא לא אלוקי ישראל. הוא, לכל היותר, *נוּס*, *מלאך*, *ספירה* — אינטליגנציה, אבל לא "האחד". אם לטבע אין תכליות מטבעו, אז הדרך היחידה להכניס תכלית לעולם היא להניח תודעה חיצונית ש*כופה* תכליות על דברים מבחוץ — כמו שנגר כופה שולחניות על עץ (לעץ יש עציות מטבעו; לשולחנות לא). זה הופך את אלוקים ליש עם תוכניות "כמו שיש לנו תוכניות", וזה *הגשמה*. אלוקים כזה גם *צריך* דברים (העולם משרת אותו), מה שאומר שהוא לא באמת אלוקים. בחורי ישיבה שעובדים מתכנן אינטליגנטי עובדים אלוה שקר בעל גוף.
בהינתן הכחשת תכליות אימננטיות בטבע, יש בדיוק שלוש עמדות תאולוגיות אפשריות במודרניות:
1. דאיזם — אלוקים הוא השען הגדול (עמדת ניוטון). אלוקים עשה את העולם אבל העולם פועל בעצמו דרך סיבות מכניות/פועלות בלבד. גרסה נוספת היא דאיזם עם ניסים — אלוקים הוא השען שמדי פעם *שובר* את השעון כדי להתערב. זה מה ש"רוב האנשים האורתודוקסים המודרניים מאמינים" — "שיטה מאוד מוזרה".
2. אתאיזם — אין אלוקים כלל (ו"הרבה אנשים דתיים הם גם" למעשה אתאיסטים).
3. פנתאיזם — אלוקים *הוא* העולם עצמו (*חסידות*, באפיון מצמצם שמוכר כפשטני מדי). הכל הוא אלוקים. אבל אם מבינים את זה חומרית, עולה השאלה האם אלוקים הזה הוא חומרי.
כל אדם דתי מודרני (חוץ מהדובר, בחצי צחוק) נופל לאחת משלוש הקטגוריות האלה. כל השלוש הן תוצאות של הכחשת תכליתיות בטבע.
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אם לדברים ולמעשים בעולם אין תכליות מטבעם, אז לשום מעשה אין משמעות כשלעצמו. אי אפשר להסתכל על מעשה או על דבר ולהסיק ממה *שהוא* למה הוא *מיועד*. זו "הדעה הבסיסית של כל האנשים המודרניים" (שמושוות גם ל"מה שהיצר הרע סובר" ו"מה שהשטן טען מהיום הראשון").
יש אנומליה בולטת: לבני אדם יש כוונות. זה החריג הקרטזיאני — הכל הוא "התפשטות" (חומר בתנועה) חוץ מהתודעה האנושית, שיש לה את התכונה המוזרה הנקראת *כוונתיות* (אינטנציונליות): היכולת להיות *על אודות* משהו אחר, *להתכוון* למשהו, להיות *מכוון לקראת* משהו.
ניתוח הכוונתיות:
- כוונה = להיות על אודות משהו אחר / להיות מכוון לקראת משהו אחר. כשאני רוצה משהו, המצב המנטלי שלי הוא *על אודות* הדבר ההוא. כשאני מתכנן, אני מכוון *לקראת* מצב עתידי.
- זה בלתי מובן בתמונה הפיזית המודרנית. אי אפשר לראות "אודותיות". אי אפשר להסביר אותה על ידי סיבות דוחפות (פועלות) או סיבות מושכות (חומריות). אפשר להסביר אותה רק על ידי סיבתיות צורית או סופית — שהיא בדיוק מה שהוכחש.
- סיבתיות סופית היא בדיוק זה: להיות מכוון לקראת משהו אחר, לכוון למשהו אחר באופן אמיתי.
- המצב העתידי שאני מכוון אליו עדיין לא קיים, אז הוא לא יכול *לדחוף* אותי. הוא קיים "רק בראש שלי".
בעיית הגוף-נפש המפורסמת בפילוסופיה הקרטזיאנית היא לא חידה עצמאית כלשהי — היא תוצאה ישירה של הכחשת כוונתיות/תכליתיות בדברים חיצוניים. ברגע שהטבע מופשט מכל "אודותיות" ו"מכוונות", המקום היחיד שכוונתיות שורדת בו הוא בתודעה האנושית, ואז היחס בין התודעה (תכליתית במהותה) לגוף (מוגדר כלא-תכליתי) הופך לבלתי ניתן להסבר.
במסגרת האריסטוטלית, הטוב האנושי היה פשוט הדרך הטובה ביותר לאדם להיות — המלאות או השלמות של האנושיות, הנקראת *אאודאימוניה*. הטוב האנושי לא היה שונה קטגורית מכל טוב אחר — כשם שהטוב של עץ הוא להיות עץ ממומש במלואו, הטוב של אדם הוא להיות אדם ממומש במלואו.
ברגע שהתכליתיות מוכחשת, המושג הזה של הטוב האנושי אובד. "הטוב ביותר" כבר לא קטגוריה אמיתית בטבע. מה שנשאר הוא שתי אפשרויות:
1. שיריים של המושג הישן — שברים של הרעיון של אושר/פריחה, אבל בלי הבסיס המטאפיזי.
2. משהו שבמובן מסוים עולה על מה שהיה קודם — מרומז אבל עדיין לא מוסבר במלואו.
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יש רק שתי מערכות אתיות במודרניות הקלאסית: תועלתנות ודאונטולוגיה. האפשרות השלישית — אתיקת מידות — היא הנכונה, אבל היא לא המצאה מודרנית; היא המסגרת האריסטוטלית המקורית שהמודרניות נטשה.
המהלך המרכזי: גם אחרי הכחשת תכלית אנושית אובייקטיבית, אנשים עדיין *מרגישים* שמחים או עצובים, עדיין חווים הנאה וכאב. אז התועלתנות (עמדת בנתם, שניטשה אהב ללעוג לה) אומרת: הטוב הוא הנאה/הרגשת אושר. זה מה ששורד אחרי הרס האושר האובייקטיבי — תחושה סובייקטיבית, פנימית.
השפלת ה"אושר": במסגרת האריסטוטלית, אושר (*אאודאימוניה*) פירושו להיות סוג האדם הטוב ביותר — מצב אובייקטיבי. במסגרת התועלתנית, אושר מצומצם לתחושות מסוימות. המילה זהה, אבל המשמעות רוקנה.
הפיתול האלטרואיסטי וחולשתו: הדוניזם טהור נשמע ברור שלא מספיק, אז התועלתנות מוסיפה: צריך לדאוג לאושר של *כולם*. אבל למה שיהיה לי אכפת מהרגשות של אנשים אחרים? אין סיבה עקרונית בתוך המערכת. האלמנט האלטרואיסטי שאול ממסורת מוסרית ישנה יותר (*מסורה*) אבל אין לו בסיס במסגרת התועלתנית עצמה.
בעיית מכונת החוויה של נוזיק: אם אושר הוא רק להרגיש טוב, אז מכונה שמזריקה סמים ליצור הנאה מתמדת צריכה להיות הטוב האולטימטיבי. תועלתנים "סיבכו את עצמם בקשרים" בניסיון להסביר למה זה לא יהיה טוב.
הדוניזם מודרני מוזר יותר מהדוניזם העתיק: הדוניסטים העתיקים (כמו האפיקוראים) עדיין האמינו במשהו שנקרא "הטוב" — הם רק זיהו אותו עם הנאה. הדוניסטים המודרניים מכחישים שיש דבר כזה "הטוב" בכלל; הם רק יודעים שדברים מסוימים גורמים להם *להרגיש* טוב. השפה הזו ("זה גורם לי להרגיש טוב") נפוצה מאוד — שומעים אותה אפילו ב*ישיבות*, שם אנשים אומרים "אם תורה גורמת לך להרגיש טוב, כדאי שתלמד תורה". זה סובייקטיביזם טהור.
רגש מוסרי כ"עוד רגש": הניסיון לבסס אתיקה על רגש מוסרי — תחושה מיוחדת, חוש מוסרי או מצפון, שאומר לנו מה נכון (יום והמסורת הבריטית) — מצמצם את כל הטענות המוסריות לביטויי רגש. אתיקה הופכת ל: "אני מרגיש טוב כשאתה מרגיש טוב". זה אמוטיביזם.
הביקורת של אנסקום על המצפון: המאמר של אליזבת אנסקום "פילוסופיה מוסרית מודרנית" מבקר את מושג המצפון (המזוהה עם ג'וזף באטלר ואחרים). הרעיון שלכל אחד יש מצפן מוסרי פנימי שאומר לו אוטומטית מה טוב הוא פשוט לא נכון — היא מכירה אנשים שמבפנים רוצים להרוג את כולם. השיח הזה על "מצפון" היה נפוץ בתקופה מסוימת, כולל בקרב הוגים יהודיים כמו הרב הירש.
ההבחנה בין רגש למחשבה: במסגרת הזו, אין הבחנה אמיתית בין "רגש" מוסרי ל"מחשבה" מוסרית: מחשבה היא *על אודות* משהו, אבל אם אין דבר כזה טובה אובייקטיבית, אז "מחשבה" מוסרית היא לא על אודות שום דבר אמיתי, ולכן מתמוטטת לרגש גרידא. רגשות, מעצם הגדרתם, הם לא על אודות שום דבר — הם רק מצבים פנימיים. אז רגש מוסרי, לא משנה כמה מלובש, הוא רק עוד רגש בין רגשות, בלי סיבה להעדיף אותו על כל רגש אחר.
תלמיד מאתגר את הטענה שאינטואיציות מוסריות הן "רק רגשות", ומציע הבחנה משמעותית בין תחושה לאינטואיציה מוסרית. זה נדחה בתוקף בתוך המסגרת המודרנית: אם אין טובה אובייקטיבית שמחשבה יכולה להיות *על אודותיה*, אז מה שנראה כמחשבה מוסרית הוא באמת רק רגש. לנקודת התלמיד יש משקל מסוים אבל דיון מורחב נדחה.
תלמיד מעלה את הנקודה שאפילו רוצחים כמו טד באנדי נראים "יודעים" שמה שהם עושים הוא לא בסדר — מה שמרמז על מצפן מוסרי אוניברסלי. מובעת ספקנות ("אני לא חושב שזה נכון"), אבל הטיעון העיקרי חשוב יותר: גם אם תחושה כזו קיימת באופן אוניברסלי, היא עדיין רק עוד רגש בלי מעמד אפיסטמי מיוחד.
המבנה המרכזי: דאונטולוגיה — ציות לחוק המוסרי — היא עמדת קאנט. בניגוד לתועלתנות, היא לא מבססת אתיקה על רגשות או הנאה אלא על הכרה בחוק מוסרי וציות לו באופן בלתי תלוי במה שאתה רוצה או מרגיש.
מיפוי על קהילות יהודיות:
- תועלתנות: אף אדם *פרום* רציני לא באמת מחזיק בזה.
- דאונטולוגיה: זה בעצם מה שכל ליטוואק אומר — אתיקה כציות לחוק/מצווה.
- חסידים: לפעמים נשמעים הדוניסטיים ("הרגש האמיתי שלך הוא ה'"), אבל זה אולי באמת קרוב יותר לאושר אובייקטיבי (ההשקפה האריסטוטלית) מאשר להדוניזם מודרני — שאלה מעניינת אבל לא פתורה.
המערכת הקאנטיאנית: כללים מוסריים הם מוחלטים, אוניברסליים, ונגזרים מתבונה טהורה. המבחן הוא אוניברסליזביליות — "מה היה קורה אם כולם היו עושים את זה?" אי אפשר לרצות באופן רציונלי עולם שבו כולם משקרים, כי אתה בעצמך רוצה לחיות בעולם של אמירת אמת. לכן שקר הוא לא בסדר. זה לא יחסי לתרבות, גאוגרפיה או נסיבות — תבונה היא תבונה בכל מקום.
היחס בין מעשה לטובה הופך לרחוק: במסגרת התכליתית הישנה, הקשר בין מעשה לטובה היה ישיר ופשוט — מעשים טובים מובילים דבר לקראת תכליתו הטבעית, מעשים רעים הורסים אותו. ה*דין* (המעמד ההלכתי/אונטולוגי) הוא במעשה עצמו, לא בכוונה. במסגרת הקאנטיאנית, ללא תכליות טבעיות, הטובה של מעשה הופכת להיות על הכוונה שמאחוריו — לפעול לשם החוק המוסרי, לא לשם אושר או רצון. זה הופך את היחס בין מעשה לטובה להרבה יותר רחוק ומופשט.
דאונטולוגיה בסופו של דבר מצביעה על אלוקים: חוק מוסרי שכופה את עצמו מבחוץ, שלא ניתן לצמצום לרגשות או רצונות, בעל סמכות מוחלטת — זה בסוף אלוקים. קאנט עצמו היה נוצרי והאמין באלוקים בחלקו בגלל המציאות המורגשת של החוק המוסרי. יש גרסאות אתאיסטיות, אבל הן מגיעות להנחת משהו שפונקציונלית שקול לאלוקים.
ביקורת: דאונטולוגיה היא גם סוג של אמוטיביזם: למרות שהיא טוענת שהיא על תבונה וחוק ולא על רגש, היא גם מגיעה בסוף לסוג של אמוטיביזם — כי ה"הכרה" בחוק המוסרי, תחושת החובה, היא עצמה נחווית כסוג של רגש (משהו שנכפה עליך מבחוץ). *סוג* אחר של רגש מהרגש החם והנעים של התועלתנות, אבל בסופו של דבר עדיין רגש.
שאלה האם מקור החובה המוסרית במסגרת הקאנטיאנית הוא החברה נדחית — חברה זה רק עוד אנשים. החובה חייבת לבוא ממשהו טרנסצנדנטי. שאלה על רלטיביזם תרבותי ("אם אתה חי באפריקה...") נדחית כבעיה נפרדת שפוגעת בכל המערכות.
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הוצאת המשמעות המרכזית של המסגרת האתית הפוסט-תכליתית לחיים דתיים:
- אם טובה מוגדרת כציות לחוק המוסרי (או לרצון ה'), אז הקשר בין מעשה לטובה הוא פנימי לחלוטין — הוא שוכן בסובייקטיביות האנושית, בכוונתיות, ברצון, ב"אודותיות".
- בעולם הפוסט-תכליתי, בני אדם הם ה*דברים היחידים* שיש להם כוונתיות או "אודותיות". ליקום אין רגשות, אין תכליות, אין מכוונות. רק לבני אדם יש את ה"דבר המוזר, הבלתי מוסבר, הקסום הזה".
- לכן, הדבר היחיד שיכול להיות טוב מוסרית הוא הכוונה האנושית להיות טוב. המעשה עצמו, מנותק מכוונה, אין לו משקל מוסרי.
- זה מה שמערכות חסידיות מסוימות לקחו כ*פשוט* (מובן מאליו): המקום היחיד שאלוקים נמצא בו, או הדבר הטוב היחיד, הוא הכוונה להיות טוב. זו "סוג של כוונה ריקה" — ציות לחוק המוסרי — אבל הקשר בין החוק לאדם קיים רק בתודעה.
ניסוח מפתח: "הדבר היחיד שבאמת טוב הוא כולו בלב האנושי, ובתודעה האנושית, ובכוונה האנושית, בנשמה האנושית."
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- *מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה* ("מתוך שעושה שלא לשמה, בא לעשות לשמה") הוא, עבור הרמב"ם, התהליך הרגיל של אימון/הרגל מוסרי.
- מי שלומד תורה בשביל כסף עדיין עושה משהו באמת טוב, כי טובה היא תכונה של המעשה עצמו (לימוד תורה הוא טוב אובייקטיבית). האדם אינו שלם — דעתו לא תופסת למה זה טוב, אז הוא לא עושה את זה *לשמה* — אבל למעשה נשארת טובה אמיתית.
- זה *דין* (תכונה הלכתית/אונטולוגית) במעשה, לא רק באדם.
- המעבר משלא לשמה ללשמה הוא טבעי וצפוי דרך הרגל.
- ברגע שלמעשים אין טובה מטבעם והטובה שוכנת רק בכוונה, אז לעשות דבר טוב מסיבה לא נכונה הוא חסר ערך לחלוטין — כפי שאמר הקוצקער רבי.
- הספרות החסידית פותחת באופן עקבי בטענה מתמיהה: "שמענו ש*מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה*, אבל זה לא עובד. הניסיון שלנו מראה שהליטוואקים מעולם לא הגיעו ללשמה." לכן צריך להוסיף חסידות.
- טענה זו עולה בדיוק בגלל שהתאוריה הבסיסית שגרמה לזה לעבוד (אתיקה תכליתית, הרגל) נהרסה. ברגע שטובה היא רק פנימית, אין מנגנון שבו תרגול חיצוני מוביל באופן טבעי לשינוי פנימי.
- הגישה של הבעש"ט — שכשסוף סוף מגיעים ללשמה, מעלים למפרע (*מעלה*) את השלא לשמה — היא מסגרת שונה לחלוטין מזו של הרמב"ם, שאצלו השלא לשמה כבר היה טוב באמת כשלעצמו.
- בהבנה העתיקה/ימי-ביניימית: מי שלומד שלא לשמה *באמת לומד אחרת*. הוא לומד רק כל עוד משלמים לו; כשהכסף נגמר, הוא מפסיק. ההבדל נראה במעשה, לא רק בראש.
- בפרשנות החסידית: שלא לשמה הוא *כולו בראש*. אפילו ללמוד להנאתך, או בגלל שאתה אישית מכיר שזה טוב, נחשב שלא לשמה — כי הלשמה האמיתי היחיד הוא לעשות את זה אך ורק בגלל שה' רוצה בכך, בלי שום אינטרס אישי.
- זה מוביל לעולם שבו תכלית נכפית כולה מבחוץ על ידי אלוקים על עולם חסר תכלית מטבעו. העולם "ריק לחלוטין מתכלית
; רק אלוקים נותן לו תכלית, אבל הוא לא באמת נותן אפילו" — יש לו תכלית רק במובן שאלוקים אוהב את זה.
השלכה תאולוגית מסומנת: המסגרת הזו היא או פנתאיזם, *הגשמה* (האנשה/הגשמת אלוקים), או "אלוקים דמוי-אדם" — כי היא דורשת מאלוקים שיהיו לו העדפות באופן שמשקף סובייקטיביות אנושית.
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טענה נועזת וגורפת הפתוחה לאתגר:
- כוונה היא *דין* במעשה — תיאור של *מה שאתה עושה*, לא תיאור של המצב המנטלי הפנימי שלך.
- זה פותר את רוב הקשיים בסוגיית *מצוות צריכות כוונה* (האם מצוות דורשות כוונה) וב*מלאכת מחשבת אסרה תורה* (מלאכה מכוונת בהלכות שבת).
- כוונה עונה על השאלה: "למה אתה עושה את זה?" — לא "מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה?"
- זה על הכיוון הכללי והתכלית של חייך ומעשיך ("מה יש בראש שלך כל היום"), לא על מה שאתה חושב במודע בכל מיקרו-שנייה.
- ברוב הספרים החסידיים, כוונה, לשמה, ומונחים קשורים פירושם: מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה — המצב המנטלי המודע שלך ברגע המעשה.
- זה מוביל לנוהגים כמו ההכרזה לפני קריאת המגילה ש"כולם יכוונו לצאת ידי חובה" — מה שהוא קצת אבסורדי. אם באת לבית הכנסת לשמוע את המגילה, בשביל מה אחר אתה עושה את זה? השאלה "מה אני צריך לכוון בראש?" עולה רק אם כוונה היא על תוכן מנטלי רגעי ולא על תכלית המעשה.
- הוראת הרמב"ם שכל מעשיך יהיו לשם שמים (למשל, לאכול כדי שיהיה לך כוח ללמוד) אינה על לחשוב מחשבות מסוימות בזמן האכילה.
- זה על ה*סיבה* שאתה אוכל — התשובה ל"למה אתה עושה את זה?" — שהיא עובדה על מבנה חייך, לא על המצב המנטלי שלך ליד שולחן האוכל.
- ההבחנה הזו פותרת את "הסתירה של רב חיים ברמב"ם" וקשיים רבים אחרים.
- החזון איש ניסה לנסח משהו דומה אבל חסרה לו המסגרת המושגית.
מה שיש בתודעה שלך חשוב מאוד — אבל לא בגלל ה*דין* של כוונה. אלא, בגלל שהתודעה שלך היא מעשה בפני עצמה. לחשוב הוא עצמו צורה של עשייה. החשיבות של ריכוז מנטלי היא אמיתית, אבל היא נובעת ממקור אחר מהקטגוריה ההלכתית של כוונה. אלה שתי סיבות נפרדות, וערבובן מעוות את שתיהן.
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שלוש הקטגוריות מנוסחות מחדש:
- סתם מעשה — מעשה פשוט, לא רפלקטיבי
- לשמה — מעשה שנעשה לתכליתו הנכונה (איכות של המעשה)
- שלא לשמה — מעשה שנעשה לתכלית לא נכונה (גם איכות של המעשה)
מכיוון שבני אדם פועלים עם התודעה שלהם, כוונה מעורבת באופן טבעי — אבל היא לא *דין* עצמאי במה שיש בראש שלך.
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אנשים מודרניים לא יכולים לדמיין טובה ששוכנת במקום אחר מאשר בכוונה. לאחר שאיבדו את האמונה שלעולם החיצוני יש טובה אמיתית (טובה תכליתית), הם נאלצים למקם את כל הטובה בפנים. זה מוביל לאבסורדים:
- "כולם רוצים להיות טובים" — אבל לרצות להיות טוב הוא חסר משמעות אם טובה היא רק ברצייה. לרצות פירושו לרצות לעשות.
- אם טובה היא פנימית לחלוטין, אז מישהו ש*רוצה* לעשות טוב אבל מעולם לא באמת עושה שום דבר טוב עדיין נחשב "אדם טוב" — מה שמוזר.
זה לא בלבול גרידא אלא מסקנה מאולצת: ברגע שמכחישים טובה בעולם החיצוני/האמיתי, *חייבים* למקם אותה במצב הפנימי.
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המחלוקת בין נפש החיים לתניא (או המסורות שלהם) על מה *לשמה* אומר היא תוצאה ישירה של אובדן החשיבה התכליתית — אובדן האמונה שהעולם עצמו הוא *לשמה* (תכליתי).
ברגע שהאמונה הזו נעלמת, אתה נדחק לאחת משתי אפשרויות:
1. כל הלשמה הוא בראש שלך (עמדה מסוג התניא) — טובה היא במצב הפנימי/רוחני.
2. הכל בגלל שה' אמר כך (עמדה מסוג נפש החיים) — טובה היא בציות לצו האלוקי, בעצם מסגרת דאונטולוגית.
אם הולכים עם אפשרות 1 (הכל בראש), מתמודדים עם בעיות נוספות ומגיעים לומר "הראש שלך הוא גם אלוקים" ומהלכים מיסטיים דומים. אבל הסיבה השורשית של כל המחלוקת היא אותו דבר: היעלמות הטובה התכליתית בעולם האמיתי.
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המאמר המפורסם שהקב"ה מצרף מחשבה טובה למעשה לא אומר שלשבת בחדר ולחשוב מחשבות טובות נחשב כמעשה. אלא:
- הכוונה היא לאדם שיש לו נטייה ממשית לעשיית טוב — עושה קבוע — שנמנע ממנו מבחוץ לפעול (המקרה של הגמרא של *נאנס ולא עשה* — נאלץ/נמנע ולא עשה).
- אדם כזה עדיין נחשב טוב כי הוא באמת עושה; משהו חיצוני רק חסם אותו.
- אבל לזה יש גבולות: אם מעולם לא היית עושה, אי אפשר לטעון זכות על מחשבות טובות. ואפילו עושה לשעבר יאבד בסופו של דבר את המעמד אם יישאר לא פעיל מספיק זמן.
יש *מחלוקת* בין אריסטו לאפלטון בנקודה הזו. אריסטו היה אומר: אם מעולם לא היה לך כסף, מעולם לא היית *בעל צדקה* — אי אפשר להיות נדיב אם מעולם לא היו לך האמצעים. רק אם פעם היה לך כסף ועכשיו אין לך, העיקרון יכול לחול.
זו הסיבה שהרמב"ם אומר שהתורה חייבת להבטיח שפע חומרי — כי בלי משאבים (כולל גוף), אי אפשר באמת לקיים מצוות. הגאון מווילנא אמר את אותו דבר: צריך גוף כדי לקיים מצוות; רק לרצות לקיים אותן בלי גוף זה "לא מעניין".
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אפילו נשמה ללא גוף עושה דברים — חושבת, יודעת, אולי רוצה — ואלה פעולות (*מעשה*) אמיתיות של הנשמה. הטובה של *נשמה* ללא *גוף* היא לא שהיא חולמת או קיימת באופן פסיבי; היא פועלת דרך מחשבה.
זו הסיבה שמחשבה כמעשה ("מחשבה כמעשה") חלה: עבור הנשמה *כנשמה*, מחשבה היא הפעולה שלה. זה לא דבר "פנימי" במובן המודרני — זו העשייה החיצונית של הנשמה, הפעילות הראויה לה.
הרמב"ם ואחרים שמדגישים את החשיבות של מה ש"בתודעה שלך" לא מאשרים את ההשקפה הפנימיסטית המודרנית. הם אומרים שעבור התודעה כתודעה, לחשוב זה לעשות — זו הפעילות הראויה לסוג הזה של ישות.
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הבחנה מכרעת:
1. לחשוב כדי (תכנון) — אינסטרומנטלי; מכוון לפעולה עתידית. סוג חשיבה זה לא הגיוני בלי מעשה שבא אחריו. זו רק הכנה.
2. לחשוב על (התבוננות) — מחשבה שמסתיימת בחשיבה עצמה. היא השלמתה של עצמה. זה סוג החשיבה שיש לו ערך מהותי.
מסקנה חשובה מהמחשבה העתיקה: לחשוב על דברים זמניים/מעשיים לא נחשב כצורה הנעלה של חשיבה. לחשוב על *מעשה* (עניינים מעשיים) אין לו את ה*מעלה* של התבוננות אמיתית.
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טענה נועזה: תורה לשמה במובן הגבוה ביותר — ללמוד תורה לשמה — חלה רק על קבלה (נסתר/תורת הסוד), לא על *נגלה* (תורה הלכתית/גלויה).
הנימוק:
- נגלה (לימוד הלכתי — למשל, הט"ז, הב"ח) הוא תמיד משועבד למעשה. זו חכמה מעשית: מה לעשות כשמקרה מסוים מתעורר. זה "לחשוב כדי" — אינסטרומנטלי.
- אפילו הניתוח ההלכתי הגדול ביותר הוא בעל ערך רק *להלכה* — לשם ידיעת מה לעשות.
- נסתר/קבלה, לעומת זאת, מורכב מדברים שהנקודה שלהם היא לדעת אותם. הידיעה היא התכלית. זה "לחשוב על" — התבוננות שמשלימה את עצמה. זה לשמה אמיתי.
זה מה ש"כל ספר" אומר ומה שהרמב"ם מרמז — תורה לשמה במובנה המלא ביותר פירושה ללמוד דברים שהם תאוריה, שערכם הוא בידיעה עצמה.
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מנקודת המבט של תורה מעשית, אם אתה לומד הלכה ולא מתכנן לעשות מה שאתה לומד, זו צורה של שלא לשמה — "לימוד חיצוני", בלוף. המקרה הפרדיגמטי הוא דואג האדומי, שעליו נאמר *דרש, מוסיף על החטא* — הוא דרש תורה אבל זה הוסיף על חטאו. ללמוד את "הטריקים של העולם" (ידע הלכתי) בלי לתכנן לקיים אותם הופך אותך לגרוע יותר, לא טוב יותר — סוג של *דעת לאומות*, מתוחכם בידע אבל מושחת במעשה.
יש עיקרון נפרד שה"אור" שבתורה מושך באופן טבעי את האדם חזרה לטוב, אפילו בלי כוונה מפורשת. זו עובדה מעניינת על הטבע האנושי — שקיעה בלימוד הלכתי נוטה להפוך אותך ליותר זהיר בהלכה, אפילו אם לא התחלת עם התוכנית הזו. אבל זה מנגנון אחר מלשמה; זו השפעה פסיכולוגית טבעית. וזה לא עובד במקרה של דואג — כשמישהו לומד באופן פעיל בלי שום כיוון למעשה, העיקרון של *מתוך שלא לשמה* לא חל, והלימוד הופך אותו לגרוע יותר.
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המחשה חיה של איך *לשמה* מתפתח באופן טבעי:
- מישהו מתחיל ללמוד קבלה כי הוא חושב שזה יהיה "מגניב" או יהפוך אותו למקובל מקצועי (מהלך קריירה טוב).
- דרך תהליך הלימוד, הוא מתחיל לראות את הטובה הממשית של מה שהוא לומד.
- הוא מבין שללמוד קבלה עדיף על להיות מקובל — הלימוד עצמו הוא *תכי געשמאק* (באמת מענג/טוב).
- זה *לשמה* — וזה קורה באופן טבעי, לא דרך *עבודת ה'* מאולצת, כי אתה באמת מתחיל לראות את הטוב.
תלמיד שואל האם *געשמאק* הוא רק רגש. בהחלט לא (*חס ושלום*) — הכוונה היא לראות את הטוב האמיתי, לא לחוות חוויה רגשית נעימה.
מישהו שרוצה ללמוד תורה באופן אינסטרומנטלי בלבד (לעסקים, ל*רווח*) ולא להיות מעורב באמת צריך להתנגד באופן פעיל למשיכה הטבעית לקראת לשמה — כי אחרת הוא יתחיל באמת לאהוב את זה ולעשות את זה לשמה. הרבה אנשים שהתחילו ללמוד כהצעה עסקית נמשכו בסוף באמת.
מישהו שמתחיל ללמוד תורה או קבלה עם המוטיבציה של *שלא לשמה* של עשיית כסף מגלה לעתים קרובות שהלימוד עצמו הופך למרתק — הוא מתחיל באמת לאהוב את זה (*לשמה*) ואז באירוניה מפסיק להרוויח כסף כי הוא נוטש את הפעילויות הרווחיות מסחרית. המחשה טבעית לחלוטין, לא קסומה, של איך *שלא לשמה* מוביל ל*לשמה*.
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התכלית (הנקודה האולטימטיבית) של כל סדרת הטיעונים: פורים.
התורה החסידית הידועה שפורים מייצג את הרעיון שחיצוניות היא גם פנימיות — הגוף (*גוף*) הוא גם קדוש (*הייליק*), לא רק הנשמה (*נשמה*). חנוכה היה על *קיום המצוות* (קיום מצוות) — מלחמה רוחנית, קרב פנימי. פורים היה על עצם הקיום (*סתם להתקיים*).
- מה שאנשים באופן מקובל קוראים פנימיות — רגש פנימי עז, תשוקה רוחנית, להיות *פארקאכט* (שקוע רגשית עמוקות) — הוא בעצם מה שהתורה קוראת מחשבה לחוץ (מחשבה/כוונה חיצונית).
- לחוש רגשות סוערים כלפי תורה, לרצות אותה בנואש, לחוש אקסטזה רוחנית — אבל לא באמת לתכנן לעשות שום דבר — זה שיא החיצוניות, לא הפנימיות.
- לתכנן באמת לעשות משהו הוא מצב מנטלי שונה לחלוטין מלהיות שקוע רגשית. לשניים אין *שייכות* (אין קשר) זה לזה.
- העוצמה הרגשית-רוחנית הזו ללא מעשה היא מה שחנוכה מייצג: "*מצוה להורות הלכת*" — מלחמה, מאבק בתחום ההארה הרוחנית. וזה מה שהיוונים מייצגים — הערצת החוויה הפנימית המנותקת מפעולה קונקרטית.
- פורים הוא *טרעטן למטה* — לצעוד למטה אל הפיזי, הקונקרטי.
- מצוות פורים הן: לרקוד (*טאנצן*), לתת *משלוח מנות*, לעשות סעודה (*עסן*), להיות *למטה* (למטה, בעולם הפיזי).
- לאף אחד אין דביקות בפורים — ואם מישהו טוען שיש לו, או שזה לא אמיתי, או שאין לו פורים.
- לפחות בממד של *בין אדם לחברו* (בין-אישי), זו כל הנקודה. (יש גם ממד של *בין אדם למקום*.)
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הרמב"ם אומר שעיקר השמחה הוא *לשמח לב עניים ויתומים* — לשמח את ליבם של עניים ויתומים. זו הגדרת התורה לאושר: להיות אדם טוב.
ניסוח מפתח: "אושר הוא לא רגש, אושר הוא עובדה." האם אתה *מרגיש* שמח זו *קליינע פראבלעם* (בעיה קטנה). אם אתה *מענטש*, כנראה שתרגיש את זה גם — אבל זה משני. המציאות האונטולוגית של אושר מורכבת מעשיית טוב ממשית לאחרים, לא מחוויית מצב רגשי סובייקטיבי.
זה הגיבוש הסופי של כל הטיעון: פנימיות אמיתית היא המעשה עצמו, המעשה הקונקרטי של טובה — לא הרגש הפנימי, לא הכוונה כמצב מנטלי, לא האקסטזה הרוחנית.
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כולם צריכים לתת *מתנות לאביונים*, לתת לקרן המקומית שלהם, ו — בהפעלת תורה חסידית ישנה — כולם צריכים לתת באופן אישי (*אליין*), לא רק דרך מתווכים. חג שמח לכולם.
המרצה: נור אבוי סעיב, ערב טוב. אני רוצה לומר לכם שיעור היום. אתם יודעים איך זה עובד. איך אנשים כותבים ספר? נגיד מדען גדול, אקדמאי גדול כותב ספר. זה הולך ככה: יום אחד יש לו איזה רעיון בשירותים, במקלחת. ואז הוא מוצא כמה מקורות שקשורים לזה. ואז הוא עושה פירוש על סמך זה ועוד שלושה ספרים. ואז יש לו ספר שלם. לוקח לו שנתיים לכתוב. עוד שנה לקבל אישור, ואז זה הולך לוועדת האישור שמאשרת את זה, ואז המוציא לאור מפרסם את זה, ואז הספר יוצא לאור, ואז הוא נבדק אם הוא ראוי ונסקר על ידי שני אנשים, ואז מי שכותב את האנציקלופדיה קורא את הספר או מבקש מהילד שלו לקרוא את הספר בשבילו ועושה סיכום קטן של הספר ואומר שאפשר להציג את הספר בחמש שורות וזה מה שכולם יודעים ואז הספר נשאר על המדף, נכון? ככה זה עובד.
אז הבנתי שכל שיעור שלי הוא באמת ספר שלם. רק שהוא כבר מגיע ישר לסקירה, לחידוש. אם אתם רוצים, אתם יכולים ללכת ולעבד את זה לספר שלם, אבל זה שיעור שיוצא, כי ממילא אף אחד לא הולך לקרוא את כל הספר, אז אני יכול באותה מידה להתחיל מהסיכום. והחידוש, החידוש. אבל זה נכון. כל שיעור, כמעט כל שיעור אפשר לעשות ממנו ספר שלם.
אז היום יש לי ספר חדש לכתוב. חדש זה חסר גבולות. כמובן, זה המשך של השבוע שעבר ושל השבועיים האחרונים שדיברנו על החידוש. והבנתי היום, אתמול, יום אחד במקלחת או איפשהו, והבנתי שהכל מחובר.
זוכרים שאנחנו מדברים על בעיה כזו. איפה לוזי שלא מבין את הבעיה? אפשר לפתור את הבעיה הזו קצת? אנחנו מדברים על בעיה שאני קורא לה בעיית הפנים-חוץ, נכון? הפנימיות והחיצוניות. כולם יודעים שפורים עוסק במשהו, בפנימיות או בחיצוניות, אני לא זוכר. בכל מקרה, אלה המילים שכולם אוהבים לדבר עליהן כל הזמן.
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קר? תדליקו את זה, זה מחמם יותר מהר. וכולם יודעים שזה, תחברו את זה פה למטה או איפשהו וזה יחמם קצת יותר מהר. לא, פה יש שקע מתחתיי.
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה יפריע לך.
המרצה: בסדר, אז אתה, לא, אל תעשה את זה שם, אל תעשה את זה שם, זה ישרוט את המערכת. שם.
תלמיד: כמה רחוק זה?
המרצה: בעצם, זה לא ייפול. אותו דבר בכל מקרה. החלק הזה ייפול, זה לא, זה לא, בסדר, כן, זה בכל מקרה, חם לנו, חם מאוד.
אז מה אני אומר? אנחנו דנים בנושא הזה שנקרא פנימיות וחיצוניות. והשאלה מאוד לוחצת, במיוחד לרבי אליעזר, שהיה כאן שבוע שעבר ולא הגיע היום. מה לוחץ אותנו? שמצד אחד, אנחנו הולכים לפי הרמב"ם, אנחנו מנסים ללמד את הרמב"ם לפי שיטתו.
מצד אחד, נראה ששיטת הרמב"ם היא מאוד חיצונית. הכל עניין של מעשים, כמו, וכבר אמרתם לי, יש פירוש ברמב"ם שהחסידים קראו לא נכון וכן הלאה. אבל למרות הכל, ככה אני מבין את זה.
מצד שני, הרמב"ם היה חס ושלום, לא ליטוואק מודרני. כמובן, זו הבעיה, שאנחנו קצת תקועים, בסדר? מצד שני, אנחנו עוסקים בלהיות אדם מבפנים. אנחנו לא עוסקים בלהיות מכונה שמייצרת דברים, אנחנו עוסקים באדם שמייצר את עצם ההוויה שלו כאדם, סוג של אדם, מה שנשמע כדבר פנימי.
אז מה העיקר? מה הנקודה של היהודי? מה הנקודה של האדם הטוב? האם היא בפנים או בחוץ? השאלה מאוד מבלבלת בעניין הזה. לא רק לגבי התרנגולת או הביצה, אלא לגבי מה ההגדרה? מה המשמעות של להיות אדם טוב?
עכשיו, שבוע שעבר נכנסנו לנקודה הזו, שנראה שיש גם שאלה, זה היה העיקר שלי שבוע שעבר, אבל אני רוצה לתת לכם יותר הקשר. אולי נבין יותר טוב מה קורה. נכנסנו לנקודה הזו שיש שאלה. מה המשמעות של להיות טוב מבפנים? מה זה בכלל אומר?
ואני אגיד לכם עכשיו, יש שני דברים שזה אומר. אני אומר יותר מדי דרוש. נחזור למציאות בקרוב. יש שני דברים שונים שזה אומר.
מה זה אומר? כולם בכל הדרשות היו צריכים לבוא ולראות אותו ולומר, תדע, גם אם אתה לובש מסכה, אתה טוב מבפנים. מה זה אומר שאתה טוב מבפנים? מה זה אומר? מה המשמעות של זה? אבל אני רציני עכשיו. אני שומע את כל הדרשות האלה.
הלכתי לבית הכנסת בשבת. מישהו נתן שמועס שלם על המשכן, לא להאמין לשמועס. וזה... זה אומר שזה צריך להיות לשמה, מה שאומר שצריך להיות כוונות טובות. קריאה שגויה לחלוטין של רש"י. אל תגידו להם. לא אמרתי להם. הייתי צריך לראות את זה. אני לא אומר לכם מי אמר את זה. זה לגמרי, לגמרי. רש"י לא מתכוון ללשמה. לא. ובכל מקרה, ולכן, זה צריך להיות וכל העניין הזה של הלב שעושה את המשכן, כי הקב"ה לא נמצא בדברים הגשמיים, הוא בלב.
כבר שמעו משיח ערב שבת שזה לא עונה על הקושיה, זה מחמיר את הקושיה. למה הלב שלך עדיף על בניין? אף אחד לא יודע. זה מה שהבחור הזה חושב. יש איזו אינטואיציה מאחורי זה, אני פשוט לא יודע מה זה אומר.
על מה אנחנו מדברים כשאנחנו אומרים את העניין הזה של הלב, הרצון שבלב, הפנימיות של היהודי? למה אתם מתכוונים? אתם יכולים לומר לי במילים פשוטות מה זה אומר? מישהו יודע מה זה אומר? אתה יודע מה זה אומר?
תלמיד: כן, מה זה אומר?
המרצה: זה אומר שאנחנו לא משתמשים בחיצוני. זה מיקרופון. החיצוני. מה זה חיצוני לעומת פנימי? מה הם חושבים שהמילים אומרות?
תלמיד: זה אומר ששום דבר מחוץ ל"אתה" הוא לא מה שעושה את ה"אתה" טוב או רע. זה ה"אתה" שעושה אותך טוב.
המרצה: בסדר. זה מה שזה אומר. אתה יכול לפרט? תפרוש את זה. תגיד לי מה זה אומר. בשפה אחרת ובמילים שמובנות לי. מה זה ה"אתה" הזה?
תלמיד: כן, אז נגיד שאני אדם מוכשר מאוד, נכון? ואני לובש מדי שוטר, נכון? אז אדם יכול לומר, אתה שוטר גרוע, נכון? אז עכשיו אתה אדם רע. נגיד, נכון? נגיד. במילים אחרות, המדים עכשיו אומרים לי מה אני אמור להיות, נכון? ונגיד שאני גרוע בלהיות שוטר, נכון? אז עכשיו אני "אני" רע. לא "אני" רע. יש לי 150 כישרונות טובים. אני יכול להיות הקומיקאי הכי טוב. אני יכול להיות הסופר הכי טוב. אני יכול להיות מה שאני רוצה, יש לך שוטר, אתה לא יכול להשיג שוטר, נכון? אז מה שאנשים אומרים, אז זה לא מתאים ל"אני" האמיתי. והדרך שאנשים רואים את ה"אני" היא בגלל החיצוניות של המדים.
המרצה: זה לא חיצוניות, זה יותר כמו...
תלמיד: כן, המדים אומרים לך מה אני, אני לא זה.
המרצה: אז במילים אחרות, רגע, אבל להיות מוזיקאי או מה שאתה חושב שאתה באמת, זה גם מדים. כל מה שאתה אומר הוא שאתה פועל בדרך הלא נכונה למה שאתה, לא ב... אני לא יודע מה זה ה"אתה" המסתורי הזה, במובן מאוד פשוט, הכישרונות שלי הם בנגינה, לא בלהיות שוטר, עכשיו כישרונות הם דבר, זה לא אתה, זה משהו לגביך, נכון, זה מקרה של ה"אתה", אפשר לומר, משהו לגביך.
תלמיד: לא, אני לא יודע אם זה מקרה, אני חושב שכל הכישרונות באמת מרכיבים אותך.
המרצה: כשאני אומר מקרה, אני מתכוון, זה עדיין מקרה, נכון, לא תאונת דרכים.
תלמיד: לא, אני יודע, אני מדבר ישירות לאריסטו, בעצם, מכל מה שלימדת אותו, בעבר, בעצם חשבתי על זה לאחרונה, אני חושב שמה שמרכיב את האדם הוא כל הכישרונות שלו.
המרצה: בסדר, נגיד, ולכן...
תלמיד: המרכיבים שמרכיבים עוגה לעומת לימונדה, נכון? זה מה שמרכיב את האדם, ולכן אין שני בני אדם זהים, אותו דבר, כי לכל אחד יש מרכיבים שונים, כישרונות שונים.
המרצה: אבל זה קצת לא נכון, אבל לא ניכנס לזה. אנחנו רק אומרים, אני רק מנסה להבין מה אתה מתכוון כשאתה אומר, אז הפנימי, כשאתה אומר הפנימי, אתה מתכוון לדבר שמתאים יותר לנטיות הטבעיות שלך. זה מה שאתה מתכוון. זה לא פנימי. אין שום דבר יותר פנימי בזה. זה לא בתוכך. שניהם מעשים.
בעצם, להיות מוזיקאי זה משהו שאתה עושה עם הגוף שלך, עם אנשים ששומעים את זה. אם אתה מוזיקאי ואף אחד לא שומע את זה, אתה כמעט כמו עץ שנופל ביער ואף אחד לא ראה אותו נופל ולא שמע אותו נופל. אתה בעצם טוב בזה. מה זה אומר? טוב במה? אתה מתכוון כמו אקדח? טוב במה? אתה בעצם טוב במה? בדיוק. אתה בעצם טוב במה?
תלמיד: בנגינה.
המרצה: זה משהו שאתה עושה. ה"להיות טוב", שאתה קורא לזה בעצם, זה כלום. אני לא מבין. זו רק יכולת. להיות מוזיקלי. אז כשאתה ישן, אתה גם מוזיקאי? אם לא.
תלמיד: בסדר, ומה הנקודה בזה?
המרצה: לחלום חלומות מוזיקליים.
המרצה: בסדר, אז אתה עושה משהו בחלום. נגיד שחלום הוא משהו, או לא. זו שאלה אחרת.
מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו הוא, מה שאתה מדבר עליו זה פשוט אדם שעושה את הדבר הלא נכון. כמו, אני אתן לכם דוגמה, כי אנשים מבלבלים. שולחנות יותר פשוט לדבר עליהם. אני אוהב לדבר על שולחנות. כל הפילוסופים אוהבים לדבר על שולחנות. אתם יודעים למה? כי הם נותנים את השיעור ליד שולחן, בדרך כלל, בעצם. לכן. או כיסא. תשימו לב שפילוסופים אוהבים לדבר על שולחנות וכיסאות. זה בגלל שהחפץ הפיזי הכי ברור בסביבתם. הם אף פעם לא בחוץ. הם אף פעם לא רואים שום דבר חוץ משולחן וכיסא, כמו אנשי כיתות לימוד.
אז בכל מקרה, אם הייתי ליד קיר, הייתי אומר עץ. או אם הייתי אדם רגיל, הייתי אומר בן אדם. אבל בני אדם מסובכים מדי לדבר עליהם בגלל הרבה דברים. אבל בכל מקרה, אז אם נגיד, לדוגמה, אני מסביר מה אתה מתכוון כשאתה אומר שזה פנימי. כשאתה אומר שזה לא פנימי, פשוט תגיד שזה לא פנימי. זה...
זה שולחן מאוד יפה, והוא השולחן הנכון לתת עליו את השיעור שלי, נגיד. אם אשתמש בו רק כדי לחסום את הדלת, זה בעיקר לא שימוש בו כשולחן. זה שימוש בו כחתיכת עץ, שהיא סוג של חתיכת עץ חזקה. היא חוסמת את הדלת. היא אולי אפילו עושה את זה טוב. היא אולי לא עושה את זה טוב, כי היא לא חזקה מספיק לחסום את הדלת. אבל היא אולי אפילו עושה את זה טוב, אבל זה עדיין לא מה שאתה קורא לזה פנימי, כי זה סוג של שימוש לא נכון. זה לא מתאים. זה מיועד, אתה מבין, לחסימת הדלת, לא הייתי צריך את הצורה המרובעת הזו, ולא הייתי צריך את הרגליים שיש לו. זה לא היה מאורגן, אז יש משהו לא מתאים או לא סימטרי, כמו שזה לא מסתדר כשאתה מנסה, נכון?
תלמיד: כן, הוא לא מתאים לחסימת הדלת, למרות שאפשר להשתמש בו לזה, אבל כן.
המרצה: ובאותו אופן אדם שהכישרונות שלו לא מתאימים להיות שוטר לא יעשה את זה טוב, או יתקשה, יסבול כי סוג האדם שהוא לא מתאים טוב למדי השוטר. זה דבר מאוד יפה ונכון, אבל אני לא רואה מה הקשר בין זה לבין פשוט לומר מה דבר הוא לעומת מה הוא מיועד, מה דבר מיועד לו, שזה מה שהוא או חלק חשוב ממה שהוא, לעומת מה שהוא לא מיועד לו אבל במובן מסוים אפשר להשתמש בו לזה, אבל הוא לא מיועד לזה.
אבל כשאנשים אומרים תדע שמבפנים כל אדם טוב, או אם אדם טוב, למה הם מתכוונים? הם מתכוונים לזה? מה זה בכלל אומר? יש לך נטיות טובות? ובכן, אני לא יודע. לחלק מהאנשים יש טובות, לחלק יש רעות. לבני אדם ככאלה יש נטיות טובות. מה זה בכלל אומר?
המרצה: כשאנחנו מדברים על טוב ורע, ברור שאנחנו מדברים אחרי שיש בני אדם טובים ורעים, נכון? זה אפילו לא הגיוני לומר שכולם רעים וטובים כשאתה מתכוון לומר, ובכן, בני אדם טובים בלהיות בני אדם. ובכן, כן, כנראה שהם צריכים להיות טובים בלהיות בני אדם, או לפחות צריך להיות אפשרי להיות טובים בלהיות בני אדם, אבל זה לא עושה אותם בני אדם טובים. מה אתה בכלל אומר? לא נראה שזו הכוונה.
אני מסכים שהווארט הזה, מה שאתה אומר הוא ווארט אמיתי. אני לא חושב שהוא מתאים טוב לתעדוף הזה של הפנימי. אני לא רואה שזה מה שמישהו אומר כשהוא אומר שצריך להתכוון לטוב או שצריך כוונה טובה או שצריך רצון טוב — אלה לא אותו דבר כמו מה שאתה אומר, נכון? זה משהו אחר.
אז מה זה אומר? אתה יודע מה זה אומר? באמת רציתי לצאת בסוף ולשאול אותו, "אתה יכול לומר לי מה אני צריך לעשות בגלל הדרשה שלך?" כמו, למה אתה מתכוון? אבל הבנתי שזה לא יהיה יפה, אז לא עשיתי את זה. ואני חושב על זה כל השבוע — מה זה אומר? ואז גיליתי מה זה אומר.
תלמיד: אולי זה היה מאוד יפה. יכול להיות שזה היה מאוד יפה.
המרצה: זה נכון, קשה לדעת. זו שנה חדשה, אני עדיין לא מכיר אותה טוב, אז אני לא יודע. אני צריך ללמוד אותה יותר.
תלמיד: לא, זה כמו שאתה רואה אדם שצולע ואתה יכול לתקן את זה.
המרצה: זה נכון, אבל זה שמועס אחר. אז נדבר על זה, כי אתה לא טוב לנצח או שאתה כן טוב לנצח — למה אני לא עושה את זה?
תלמיד: לא, לא, זה נכון. זה קשור למצווה.
המרצה: זה דיון מאוד מסובך. היה לי דף על זה במונסי. אני לא יודע, לא שלחתי לכם את הדף, אבל נדבר על זה — ברייתא אחרת. לא זו שאני מדבר עליה עכשיו. זה שמפניה. נדבר על זה שוב, כי זה מאוד חשוב. תזכירו לי אם לא. תרשמו בהערות שלכם שאני צריך.
עכשיו, אני רוצה לומר משהו נוסף. אז אני תוהה — עכשיו, אתם זוכרים שאחד העקרונות הוא שהכל צריך להיות הגיוני, כולל כל השטויות. אני לא יודע אם אתם כבר יודעים את זה. אנחנו אומרים שלא יכול להיות שכל האנשים עד 1992 היו משוגעים. גם לא יכול להיות שאנשים מאז 1992 משוגעים.
אנחנו תמיד מנסים להבין מה זה — יש כאן איזו חידה. משהו מאוד מוזר קרה שסגר את כל האנשים מאז 1772 או 1992, מתי שזה קרה, מתי שמה שאנחנו קוראים לו מודרניות קרה להם. מתי שזה, אנחנו צריכים להבין מה זה — יש איזו חידה, משהו מאוד מוזר.
תלמיד: אתה חייב לבוא לבעיה שלי. זו הפעם הראשונה שאני שומע על זה, אני שומע על הפנימיות, החיצוניות.
מרצה: כן, אז מסיבה כלשהי, לרוב האנשים, היהודי הזה שאמר את הדרוש הזה בסגנון חסידי — זה לא אשמתו. כבר כמה מאות שנים שאנשים אומרים את הדרוש הזה. הוא חזר על דרוש של מישהו. ואם חוזרים אחורה עוד כמה מאות שנים לפני כן, אף אחד לא אומר את הדרוש הזה. כמובן, אנשים קוראים את זה לתוך הדברים. אבל כשבאמת קוראים את זה, רואים שזה תמיד איכשהו מתייחס למשהו אחר, נכון? זה מושג אחר.
אז עכשיו, זה לא באמת עובד. זה לא באמת נקרא בפשטות. אם לומדים לקרוא דברים בפשטות, רואים שזה לא נקרא בפשטות באף אחד מהמקורות הקדומים. למה? הוא לימד אותנו על הרצון הפנימי ודברים כאלה.
תלמיד: אה, כמו במשחק הדלאי לאמה?
תלמיד: אני חושב שיש בעיה שעולם המחשבות שונה מאוד מעולם הדברים, מה שעלול לגרום לך להניח, או לנסות, נניח, להבין קצת יותר על החושב, נכון? אבל החושב, אם אי אפשר לאפיין אותו במונחים של, נניח, העולם החיצוני או עולם הדברים, אתה בעצם צריך להפוך אותו למשהו אחר.
מרצה: בסדר, אז איך — אני קצת אולי — אז תסביר מה אתה מתכוון.
תלמיד: כשאני שומע שמישהו חושב שזה לא הגיוני לי, מה אני אמור לעשות?
מרצה: כן.
תלמיד: אז זה משהו שניסיתי לחשוב עליו קצת ואין לי את זה כל כך ברור בעצמי, אבל אני חושב שכשיש לך — אם יש לך תפיסה מסוימת של מה הם דברים בעולם, נכון, בוא נקרא לזה סתם חומר גלמי, נכון, ואז יש לך את עולם המחשבות הזה שאתה צריך...
מרצה: זה לא מתאים לזה.
תלמיד: כן, שאתה צריך למצוא — אנשים אומרים כל מיני דברים שאתה לא יודע מה הם מנסים לעשות. אתה צריך למצוא מודל בשבילם, נכון? מחשבות לא מתאימות למודל של עולם הדברים. אתה צריך, מלבד ליישב את המחשבות, אתה גם צריך, או אולי אתה צריך לכווץ את זה לאיזה סוג של חושב, נכון? הייתי אומר, החושב הזה צריך להיות משהו כמו מאוד רחוק מעולם הדברים. וכמעט לגמרי לא משתתף, מה שגורם לך להפוך אותו לסוג של דבר שלם. אז בסוף אתה מגיע לכך שהדרך הכי קלה לעשות את זה היא, בסדר, אז מי שהוא החושב של כל המחשבות האלה הוא ה"אתה", נכון? זה יהיה אתה, מי שהמחשבה הזו שייכת לו, המחשבה על הכיסא, למי שהמחשבה על הכיסא שייכת לו.
מרצה: אבל איך הגעת למחשבה? רגע, אז אתה מסביר למה אנשים אומרים את זה. אתה עונה על השאלה שלי. אז רגע, תן לי לסיים את הסיבה שלי למה אנחנו צריכים לענות על השאלה הזו. אני לא יודע אם זו סיבה טובה, אבל זה מה שחשבתי.
תלמיד: לא, לא, אנחנו מגיעים למשהו. אנחנו מגיעים למשהו. אני מסכים. אני חושב שדילגת צעד אחד קדימה במהלך של השיעור שלי.
אתם מבינים את השאלה שלי? אנחנו עדיין ברמה הזו של מצב השאלה. אז אני שומע את כל התורות האלה. אנשים אומרים את התורות האלה כבר זמן מה. הם לא אומרים אותן מאז ומעולם. ונראה שזה אומר להם משהו. אני לא יודע בדיוק מה. אני חושב שקשה לפרט בדיוק מה. מטבע הדברים, ננסה להסביר את זה, ואני גם צריך להסביר מה קרה שזה התחיל להיראות הגיוני לאנשים, נכון?
במילים אחרות, כמו שאמרת — מעולם לא אמרתי את זה ככה, זה נכון. עדיין נכון שאף אחד לא משוגע. אף אחד לא משוגע במובן הזה ש — לכן יש אנשים שכן משוגעים. רק תעשה סיבה למה אני לא יכול ללכת לאדם הזה, כי אני צריך — בחב"ד אומרים שאי אפשר לתת לבן אדם ראש אחר. אפשר לתת לבן אדם יד, את, הרבה דברים. אי אפשר לתת לבן אדם ראש אחר, שזה אומר את הדרך שבה הוא רואה את העולם.
אפשר לעשות את זה — זה מה שרב עושה — אבל לא ביום, לא בחודש, לא בשנה. אז כדי שהשאלה שלי בכלל תהיה הגיונית לאותו אדם, הייתי צריך לשבור הרבה קרח, לפתוח הרבה דברים כדי שהוא יוכל לראות את העולם מהמקום שממנו אני בא.
עכשיו המקום שממנו אני בא הוא שצריך להיות מסוגלים לראות את העולם — קודם, אנחנו ניכנס למה שאתה אומר, אבל קודם, לפני זה, חשבתי שאתה אומר את זה — את העולם כפי שהוא, ואז למה, מנקודות המבט השונות של אנשים שונים, הם נתקעים בדרכים שונות.
למשל, אם אני — אתם זוכרים את הסיפור של העיוורים והפיל, נכון? סיפור מאוד מפורסם שמסביר פרספקטיביזם, נכון? משל הודי מאוד של פיל. זוכרים את הסיפור?
תלמיד: אתה לא זוכר את המעשה? הדריכה?
מרצה: אבל אני יודע למה זה על פיל, אבל מאותה סיבה הם מפלספים את זה על שולחן.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מרצה: יש משל הודי אולטימטיבי על פיל. יש חבורה של עיוורים שהם מקיפים פיל. עכשיו הם לא יודעים מה זה פיל, הם מעולם לא ראו פיל, הם היו עיוורים מלידה. אז בחור אחד עומד ליד הזנב ואומר, "זה דבר עם זנב ארוך ומפוזר." הבחור השני שעומד ליד החדק אומר, "זה איזה צינור ארוך." הבחור השני שעומד ליד הרגל אומר, "זה עמוד שמן וגדול," וכן הלאה. והבחור האחר — מישהו יכול לראות את זה, אבל הם יכולים לראות רק צד אחד שלו. הם אומרים, "זו מסה אפורה גדולה."
אז, כולם אומרים את האמת. אז בא בחור אחד שיכול לראות ואומר, "זה פיל. אתה פשוט ראית את הזנב, ואתה ראית את הראש, ואתה ראית את החדק, ואתה ראית את הרגל," נכון?
זה הסבר טוב למה פרספקטיבה היא בעלת משמעות. כשאנשים מדברים דברים מנקודת המבט שלהם, זה חלקי כי הם עיוורים למה שהם באמת רואים. הם אפילו לא יודעים שהם רואים פיל. אבל אם אתה — מה שאנחנו תמיד מחפשים זה לפקוח את העיניים, נכון? לזה מיועדת הפילוסופיה. לזה מיועדת המחשבה. לראות באמת מה שיש, נכון?
ואז אם אתה רואה מה שיש, אתה תצטרך, בהכרח, להיות מסוגל להסביר את הטעויות של כולם.
זה גם משהו שאנחנו לומדים מאריסטו. אריסטו תמיד אומר, אף אחד לא טועה. אנשים רק צודקים באופן חלקי. במיוחד אנשים חכמים. יש כמה אנשים משוגעים שאיכשהו יכולים לעשות טעויות אמיתיות. זו תהיה שאלה גדולה. אבל בדרך כלל אנשים, הסיבה שהם אומרים משהו היא כי הם מסתכלים על משהו מנקודת מבט מסוימת.
ועכשיו כשאנחנו מדברים — זה משל פיזי — אבל אנחנו מדברים על דברים מושגיים. בגלל שהדרך שבה המושגים שלהם בנויים, מכריחה אותם לראות דברים מנקודת מבט מסוימת שמובילה אותם לבעיות מסוימות, נכון? אפוריות מסוימות, חידות מסוימות שלא ניתן לפתור מנקודות המבט שלהם.
כמו קושיות רבי עקיבא איגר, נכון? כל הקושיות של רבי עקיבא איגר צודקות. כולם יודעים שלרבי עקיבא איגר יש קושיא טובה — לא כל הקושיות שלו, אגב, אבל אחוז גדול מהן — הן קושיות טובות. אבל מה שהן מראות זה שרבי עקיבא איגר לא הבין כלום. חס ושלום, רבי עקיבא איגר. אתם מבינים מה אני אומר, נכון? מספרים.
אבל הקושיות של רבי עקיבא איגר הן תמיד קושיות טובות. זה כמו קושיות מאוד גדולות. זה תמיד, אם אתה מקבל את כל ההנחות שלו, שתמיד יש הרבה כאלה שהוא אפילו לפעמים לא מבין או לא מפרט, את הקושיא שלו, אי אפשר לזוז ממנה. אי אפשר להזיז אותה. אפשר להמציא תירוץ מצחיק כמו שכמה אחרונים עושים, אבל זה — כולם מבינים שזה לא תירוץ טוב.
התשובה האמיתית, צריך לפרק אותה. במילים אחרות, צריך להראות למה, איך הגענו לכאן, ולמה שום דבר מזה לא אומר כלום מזה. המציאות היא משהו אחר לגמרי. אז הקושיא לא מתחילה. זה כאילו הקושיא או לא מתחילה או לא נגמרת. אין עולם, נכון? אין עולם שבו הקושיא היא קושיא טובה והתירוץ הוא תירוץ טוב. זה לא מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו.
מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו הוא שכשאנחנו רואים את התמונה המלאה, אנחנו גם מסבירים את הטעויות. חשוב מאוד להחליט. אם הפילוסופיה שלך לא מסבירה למה כל אחד אחר משוגע, ובדיוק באיזה אופן הוא משוגע, זו הבנה גרועה, כי אז אתה לא מבין את העולם.
ואתה גם מבין למה הוא לא רואה יותר, כי יש מישהו שחוסם את זה, מסיבה כלשהי יש חתיכת בשר בצד השני שגורמת לך לראות רק את הרגל, וכן הלאה. נכון? שטימט?
עכשיו, באותו אופן, אנחנו צריכים להסביר מה זה שגורם לכולם לראות רק — לראות את זה — איזה סוג פנימי של "אתה" או רצון. אני חושב שבדרך כלל זה מסתכם ברצון, איזה סוג של רצייה, איזה מצב פנימי של תודעה, הרגשה, משהו באדם. ואז הם מזהים את זה ככל הטוב, או הדבר הטוב העיקרי, והם חושבים שהשכינה יכולה אפילו לשרות עליו, כל כך זה דבר טוב.
ובשבילי, שום דבר מזה לא הגיוני, כי קודם כל, אני אפילו לא יודע מה זה. גם, אם כן, אני חושב שזה לא קוהרנטי, כי לרצות לעשות משהו, אני, לעשות משהו. הבנתם מה אני אומר?
אז יש לי את הסיפור, אני אגלה לכם את הסוד. ולפחות אני לא מכיר מישהו אחר שהסביר את זה כל כך טוב כמוני לפני כן. זה לא אומר כלום, אבל אנשים כן הסבירו את זה, לא בהקשר היהודי, אבל אנשים כן הסבירו את זה. ומה שמו? צ'ארלס טיילור כנראה הסביר פחות או יותר את זה, ואנשים אחרים. אז אנשים כן הסבירו את זה, אבל לא מספיק כדי שזה יהיה הגיוני לנו.
אז אנחנו הולכים לעשות את זה עכשיו, וזה ספר חדש שאנחנו הולכים לכתוב, תנועה חדשה ביהדות שהולכת לפתור את כל הבעיות בגלל הדבר הבסיסי הזה.
תלמיד: אתה זוכר, מלפני הרבה זמן, עוד לפני...
מרצה: כן, אבל אז אתה צריך מודל ספציפי, נכון? לאיך ש...
תלמיד: מה שניסיתי להסביר לא היה זה, אלא להכין את הקרקע למודל הזה.
מרצה: כן, אתה הסברת למה ה...
תלמיד: למה המודל הספציפי הזה קיים.
מרצה: כן, כן, אנחנו נגיע לזה, אנחנו נגיע לזה. אנחנו לא בדיוק בדרך שלך, אבל אני אגיע לזה, כן.
תלמיד: זה קאנט, מה שניסית להסביר. למה אנחנו מגיעים לזה, כן. המעבר.
מרצה: ממ-המ. המהפכה הקופרניקנית.
אז בואו נתחיל ממקום פשוט יותר למטרות שלי. אני מקווה מה שאתה מנסה לומר. אתם תזכרו את הסיפור הישן, סיפור מאוד ישן, שקשה אפילו לספר לאנשים בימינו כי הם תמיד הולכים לפרש לא נכון את החלק הראשון שלו. אבל אני מקווה שכל מי שהקשיב למספיק מהשיעורים שלנו ויודע מספיק ממה שאנחנו מלמדים כבר יודע את זה.
אתם כבר יודעים, היום ראיתי, היום ראיתי ספר, אחד מהספרים האלה שנכתבים בשביל מתבגרים שהם לא מאוד חכמים, אבל קצת חכמים, כדי להגן על היהדות בפניהם. אם אתה קצת חכם, אז אתה מיד רואה שאלה טיעונים כושלים ברובם. אבל בשביל אנשים שהם קצת חכמים, אולי זה עוזר. אם אתה מאוד טיפש, אז אתה לא צריך את הספר. אז אני לא בטוח בשביל מי הספר.
אבל בכל מקרה, בספר הזה, זה מוסבר, ומה שהוא מסביר זה נכון, אבל גם בגלל העיוורון של נבוכדנצר, הוא לא יכול להסביר את זה נכון. מסביר שהכל בעולם תלוי בדבר אחד. אם יש אלוהים. ואם יש אלוהים, אז לדברים יש תכלית.
גם משהו שאתם צריכים לעזור לי. חלמתי הבוקר חלום שהולך להיות — שמעתם? שמעתם שיש משבר משמעות? אתם לא מספיק ביוטיוב. יש משבר משמעות. שמעתם על זה? יש הרבה משברים, כמו משבר שידוכים, משבר מנהיגות, כל מיני משברים, יש משבר משמעות, יש חוסר משמעות בעולם, משמעות.
תלמיד: משמעות, אה, אה, אה. משמעות, כי כולם תמיד עושים ישיבות.
מרצה: לא, הם תמיד עושים ישיבות, זה בגלל משבר המשמעות.
יש משבר משמעות, שמעתם על זה? אז חלמתי שהממשלה הקימה משרד משמעות, והם הולכים לחלק משמעות לכולם. כולם, הקומוניסטים אמרו שלכולם צריך להיות כמות שווה של משמעות, והקפיטליסטים אמרו, לא, לכל אחד צריך להיות כמה שהוא ראוי של משמעות, וכן הלאה. זו הולכת להיות המשרד החדש, משרד המשמעות. משרד המשמעות.
תלמיד: משרד המשמעות, בדיוק.
מרצה: והם מחלקים, ובכל מקום שהם מוצאים מקום עם לא מספיק משמעות, הם שולחים משאית גדולה עם משמעות.
אז, זה מה שחלמתי בבוקר. מי מקבל את כל החלומות הטובים, ככה, בבוקר? החלומות הטובים הם תמיד ככה לפני שמתעוררים, כשאתה חצי ישן וחצי ער. ולא הצלחתי להבין, כאילו, איך הם הולכים לחלק את המשמעות? זה היה, התעוררתי עם השאלה, כאילו, זה הולך להיות על-טבעי? זה אומר, כאילו, הם הולכים איכשהו לתת משמעות לדברים? או שזה, כאילו, איזו דרך פיזית? לא הצלחתי להבין איך הסיפור ממשיך. זו משמעות. משמעות. משרד המשמעות. לחלק משמעות. משרד המשמעות.
בסדר. כמובן, צריך לאפשר הרבה טפסים.
בסדר. עכשיו, בקיצור, יש משבר משמעות. והיהודי הזה אמר ש... למה כל היהודים שלא צריכים לדבר בטון הזה? אתם יכולים להסביר לי? אני לא יודע. תלכו ליוטיוב. כל היהודים שלא צריכים לדבר, כולם מדברים ככה.
והיהודי הזה אמר שהכל תלוי בשאלה אחת. אם יש אלוהים, ואם יש אלוהים, אז הוא ברא את העולם מסיבה, ולכן לכל דבר יש משמעות. ואם לא, אז לשום דבר אין משמעות, ולכן אתה לא צריך ללכת לישיבה מחר בבוקר. זו בעצם האשליה של הבחור הזה והוא כתב 900 עמודים על זה איכשהו.
עכשיו זה נכון, מאה אחוז, שזה הפוך, נכון? לא אם יש אלוהים, אז משמעות. אם יש משמעות, יש אלוהים. או דרך אחת לומר את זה, נכון?
למה אני מתכוון בזה? בימים הקדמונים כולם הבינו — כלומר לא כולם, זה התגלה על ידי סוקרטס ואולי אברהם אבינו — זה מה. שאין הגיון לדבר על העולם בלי להסביר למה הוא מיועד. כל דבר טבעי. לא בגלל שיש אלוהים שנותן לו משמעות. כי כדי להסביר מה משהו הוא, צריך להסביר למה הוא מיועד. זוכרים?
זה נקרא במילה הלטינית המפוארת — לטינית מזויפת, יוונית מזויפת — טלאולוגיה. אבל אנחנו לא הולכים להגיד את המילה הזו כי היא לא עוזרת לנו. אנחנו הולכים להגיד את המילה משמעות. משמעות זה בדיוק אותו דבר, נכון? מה המשמעות של משהו? למה הוא מיועד.
אי אפשר להסביר שולחן בלי להסביר למה שולחנות מיועדים. זה פשוט מה שזה. ולכן, ה"למה-מיועדות" של דברים, שאנחנו קוראים לה תכלית, או הסוף, או ההשלמה, או כל מיני מילים שאנחנו קוראים לדבר הזה, המטרה, היא יותר מה שהם מאשר ממה שהם עשויים וממה שעשה אותם למה שהם, וממה שהם עכשיו, וכן הלאה. נכון?
זוכרים את זה? נכון? כולם יודעים על הדברים הבסיסיים מאוד האלה. זו הסיבה הרביעית של אריסטו, וגם משהו, מה?
תלמיד: וגם הראשונה.
מרצה: הראשונה והשנייה והראשונה. כן, אחת מארבע הסיבות, ארבע הסיבות המפורסמות. אבל הדבר החשוב הוא שזה מה שמגדיר הכי הרבה מה דבר הוא, בוודאי לגבי דבר חי. דבר חי הוא מהסוג שבו הצורה שלו והתכלית שלו ו — ומה שהוא, הם אותו דבר.
בסדר, עכשיו בקיצור, כולם זוכרים את זה, בסדר?
ועכשיו לפי זה הדבר החשוב. כלומר, בהגעה לנקודה הזו, למשל, הדבר החשוב שזה עושה הוא שתיאולוגיה, או מה שהקב"ה הוא, או ה"בשביל מה" שהכל קיים בשבילו - זו הגדרה אחת של הקב"ה - ומה היא פיזיקה, מה הדברים הם, סתם מדע, ואתיקה, שהיא הפיכת הדברים למה שהם, שכל דבר ישיג את שלמותו - כל אלה הם אותו סוג של דבר, נכון?
מה שכולם יודעים או שמעו, כנראה שמעתם על דייוויד יום שאמר שיש משהו שנקרא מאוחר יותר הכשל הנטורליסטי, ש"מה שקיים" לא מחייב "מה שצריך להיות", וזה שטויות. כי "מה שצריך להיות" הוא פשוט ההשלמה של "מה שקיים".
יש מדע, ולכן בספר משלי, דעת שווה לטוב. זוכרים? ואף אחד לא מבין את זה היום, כי הם חושבים שדעת היא לדעת מה הדברים הם, וטוב זה להיות טוב. מה הקשר בין זה לזה? לא. טוב הוא פשוט שדברים יהיו לגמרי מה שהם, שיפעלו היטב, נכון? או שאנחנו אומרים בשפות שונות, הטוב וההיטב הם אותו דבר. להיות טוב ולפעול היטב הם אותו דבר לגבי הכל. נכון, כולם יודעים את זה. הקדמה, הקדמה חשובה, קצרה כלה.
ואז, וזה סיפור היסטורי, אבל זה לא באמת סיפור היסטורי, ולכן צריך להפסיק לספר אותו כסיפור היסטורי. למרות שנכון שההיסטוריה הזו קרתה, אבל גם לא נכון שזה רק דבר היסטורי. תמיד היו אנשים שלא הבינו את זה. זו העבודה זרה, עבודה זרה, כשהיה צריך לשרוף את הספרים שלהם, צריך להבין שגם זה מה שהם חשבו.
זה לא חדש, כאילו, באו כמה גויים. זה מאוד, זה מאוד, יש סוג אחר של, הוא קרא לזה היצר, הדברים אחרת. אז תוציאו את כל ההיסטוריציזם מהסיפור שלנו, כי אחרת אנחנו נכנסים להיסטוריציזם, זה בטוח.
אז, אבל יש, דרך אחת לספר את הסיפור היא היסטורית, אני לא אוהב את זה, אבל אנחנו הולכים לומר את זה ככה עכשיו.
מאוחר יותר באו אנשים אחרים, ימח שמם, פרנסיס בייקון, עם ה-Novum Organum שלו, מדע חדש, ומאוחר יותר אנשים אחרים, דייוויד יום, באופן מפורסם מאוד, ואחרים, אחרים, אחרים, והם אמרו שאין שום "בשביל" בעולם. אין בעולם תכלית. לעולם אין משמעות. לעולם יש סיבה אבל לא משמעות.
או שהם הגדירו מחדש את המילה סיבה כך שלא תכלול את המילה משמעות, שזה דבר מאוד מוזר לעשות, אבל זה מה שהם עשו. זוכרים?
ומה יהיה ההבדל? ורגע, ההבדל הוא שאנחנו לא מסבירים דברים לפי מה שהם בשביל, אנחנו מסבירים דברים לפי מה שדחף אותם למקום שהם נמצאים בו. במקום לומר שעץ הוא משהו שמנסה להיות עץ - מנסה לא במובן האנושי, נכון? כשאמרנו מנסה, מיד אתם מניחים שיש שם חושב, נשמה נפרדת או משהו שחושב. לא, עץ הוא סוג הדבר שנוטה לקראת להיות עץ מלא. זה מה שזה אומר להיות עץ. אי אפשר להבין את העץ.
עכשיו הם אומרים, לא, עץ הוא פשוט מה שקורה כשיש את כל הכוחות האלה שדוחפים את העץ להיות עץ, להיות משהו, להיות כלום, כי אין ישות, אין דבר כזה להיות עץ.
בסדר, זו הייתה, זו השיטה האחרת. וזו בעצם לא דרך טבעית.
רוב האנשים כן חושבים שיש תכליות בטבע, רק נדפק להם בראש על ידי מורה המדעים שלהם, זה המקסימום שאתה חושב. אבל אנשים רגילים עדיין מדברים על תכליות בטבע. כמובן, זה מסובך. איזה סוג של תכליות? מה הן התכליות?
כל פעם, זה אחד מהכשלים הגדולים שהספר הזה, למשל, עושה. העובדה שיש תכליות לא אומרת שהתכלית היא ללמוד את המורי טויס בשבילנו. לא, יארק, יש רק שני דברים. אז אנחנו צריכים לעשות מדע אמיתי, לגלות מה התכלית של כל דבר. זהו המדע האמיתי, כפי שהרמב"ם מסביר, הוא ידע כל עץ, לא, הוא ידע למה כל עץ נועד, שזה מה שלדעת כל עץ היה, ולכן זה אותו סוג של ידיעה כמו לדעת את התורה, שהיא לדעת את הטוב לכל דבר.
בסדר, עכשיו, אבל בכל מקרה, ואם הטוב קודם סיבתית לקיום החלקי של הדברים, שנוטה לקראת הטוב, זה מה שתורה אומרת. אבל בכל אופן, דרך. זו תהיה כמו דרך יותר אפלטונית לומר דברים. הנקודה היא שעכשיו אנחנו הולכים מהר מדי. אני צריך לחזור לאופן שלי לומר את זה.
מרצה: אז בעצם יש סיבות ללא תכלית. בדיוק. יש דחיפות ללא תכלית. תכלית היא לא דבר אמיתי. עכשיו...
תלמיד: וסיבה פירושה רק מאיפה זה בא.
מרצה: בדיוק. או שזו היסטוריה.
זה העומק של למה הכל הופך להיסטוריה. כי הסבר סיבתי פירושו רק מאיפה זה בא. אל תסביר מה זה ולאן זה הולך, ולכן אני נגד היסטוריה, כי אני בעד לאן דברים הולכים, או מה הם, שזה, מה שהם מוסבר על ידי לאן הם הולכים, ולא מאיפה הם באים, כי מאיפה הם באים זה נכון, זה לא שאני מכחיש את המציאות הזו, רק שאני מכחיש שזו העובדה הכי חשובה על דברים, העובדה הכי מסבירה על דברים. ואני חושב שזה ברור לכל מי שחשב חמש שניות והפסיק לעבור שטיפת מוח.
עכשיו, אבל זה רק אני עושה רטוריקה, כמובן, יש אמיתי, האנשים האלה חכמים ממני, ממה שאני מעמיד פנים עכשיו, ויש סיבות למה הם חשבו את כל הדברים האלה וצריך ללמוד את זה ברצינות רבה, אני רק עושה סקירה קצרה לספר שלי, זו רק חזרה על הספר, זכרו, זה לא הספר עכשיו.
עכשיו אם אין סיבות תכליתיות בטבע אז אז הקב"ה הופך לסוג אחר של אלוה, חשוב מאוד, התיאולוגיה נראית מאוד שונה, נכון? אז אנחנו נכנסים לשאלה של משהו שנקרא מתכנן תבוני, שהוא באמת שד, מתכנן תבוני זה מט"ט, זה לא הקב"ה, לא האלוה שלנו, אתם יודעים.
שמעתם פעם שהיהודים בעד תכנון תבוני? זה לא נכון. יש מתכנן תבוני לעולם, אבל הוא שד. בסדר, לא שד. אפשר לקרוא לזה נוּס, מלאך, ספירה, שכל. לא הקב"ה. לא האחד. חשוב מאוד. כן, זה אותו רעיון. ביחס להקב"ה, הכל הוא שד. אז, מבינים? אם אתם עובדים את זה, אתם עובדים אל שקר.
רבי, כל האנשים שעובדים מתכנן תבוני עובדים אל שקר שיש לו גוף. כי הם מדמיינים אותו כמי שיש לו תוכניות כמו שלנו יש תוכניות והם מדמיינים שלעולם יש משמעות באופן מזויף. לא מטבעו, אין תכליות אימננטיות, העולם בפני עצמו לא נועד לשום דבר. זה מה שהם אומרים.
אנחנו צריכים אלוה שיעשה את זה בשביל משהו כמו דבר מלאכותי, כמו שולחן שאין בו בעצמו את השולחניות שיש לו. לעץ יש עציות בתוכו, לשולחנות יש שולחניות רק על ידי כפייה מבחוץ, על ידי אנשים שעושים אותם לשולחנות. אז אלה שחושבים על הטבע, העולם, שיש לו רק סיבות חיצוניות, והקב"ה הוא סוג של שכל מחוץ לעולם שנותן לו תכליות, מבינים מה אני אומר? הוא לא באמת נותן לו תכליות אפילו, הוא רק משרת אותו באיזשהו אופן, שפירושו שהאלוה שלהם מתכוון לדברים, שפירושו שהאלוה שלהם הוא אל מזויף. בסדר, מאוד פשוט. אני לא הולך, זו רק סיכום, אז אם אתם לא מבינים בואו לשיעור אחר, אין שיעור על תיאולוגיה אבל צריך רק לדעת שזה מה שעושה את האלוה הזה, ולכן, אומר את כל זה.
זו גם הסיבה שיש רק שתי אפשרויות במודרניות. או שאפשר להיות דאיסט או פנתאיסט, או מגשם. אלה רק שלוש אפשרויות. זו המציאות. יש או דאיסטים, אנשים שחושבים שבעצם אין אלוה בעולם.
יש רק אלוה ש, כמו השען, עשה את השעון ברגש, אבל אז השעון, כביכול, עובד בעצמו, כי הם לא מבינים שום סוג אחר של סיבה, סיבה צורנית או סיבה תכליתית. השען הוא רק סיבה פועלת, נכון? הוא רק הרכיב את חלקי השעון ביחד. הוא לא המציא את הרעיון של שעונים, והוא לא עושה אחד מארבעת השעונים, בסדר? אבל, הקב"ה הוא שען גדול, זו השיטה של ניוטון, או שיטה דאיסטית אחת, לא יצחק ניוטון.
או אם אתם אומרים דאיזם פלוס ניסים, שפירושו שהקב"ה לפעמים שובר את השעון. זה מה שרוב האנשים האורתודוקסים המודרניים מאמינים. דאיזם פלוס הקב"ה הוא שען שלפעמים מתערב כדי לשבור את השעון. שיטה מאוד מוזרה, אבל זו אפשרות אחת. אני נותן סקירה קצרה מאוד, ישיכללי.
שיטה שנייה היא אתאיזם, אין אלוה, או משהו כזה.
שיטה שלישית היא פנתאיזם, חסידות. הקב"ה הוא השעון החדש עצמו. בסדר, אלה שלוש השיטות שאפשריות לפי, כן, בערך. אלה שלוש השיטות האפשריות לפי, יותר מסובך, יותר מסובך. אבל גם חסידות היא יותר מסובכת. אני עושה פה רדוקציה גדולה.
אבל אלה שלוש השיטות האפשריות לפי התיאוריה שאין תכליות בטבע. אלה שלושת סוגי התיאולוגיה, ואתם יכולים לדעת שכל אדם דתי מודרני, חוץ ממני, הוא אחד משלושת הדברים האלה. או דאיסט, או דאיסט פלוס ניסים, שזה סוג מוזר של דאיסט, או אתאיסט, שהרבה אנשים דתיים הם גם, או פנתאיסט. לא, אלה האפשרויות. פנתאיסט פשוט ממוטט הכל. יש הכל. יש רק הקב"ה, וזה בסדר. זה בסדר. אבל הוא מבין את זה באופן חומרי, שפירושו שזו גם שאלה גדולה חומרי ומה קורה. אבל בסדר, בואו לא ניכנס לזה.
עכשיו, מה אני, עכשיו, דבר שלישי, זה דילכיס תיאולוגיה שקורה. מה קורה לאתיקה? לכאן אנחנו צריכים להגיע היום. כמובן, הכל מחובר. אבל מה קורה לאתיקה? מה קורה לטוב? לטוב האנושי?
כאן, יש משהו מאוד מוזר. למה יש משהו מאוד מוזר? כמו, שמואל, שמת לב. כאן, יש משהו מאוד מוזר. כי, כי, ותן לי אחד מהסלצרים האלה, כן. כאן, יש משהו מאוד מוזר. למה? תסבירו לי למה.
כי אם דברים, או פעולות, דברים בעולם, דברים בעולם אין להם תכליות, אין להם משמעות. לשום פעולה אין משמעות בפני עצמה. במילים אחרות, אם אתה מסתכל על פעולה או מסתכל על דבר, אתה לא יכול להסביר ממה שהוא מה הוא בשביל. זו הדעה הבסיסית של כל האנשים המודרניים. או אם היצר, בואו נשכח לומר יצר, אני הולך להפסיק, אנחנו הולכים להפוך את המילה. זה מה שהיצר סובר. השטן, מהיום הראשון הוא סובר ככה.
ולכן, אבל, יש לנו את הדבר המוזר הזה שנקרא בני אדם. דבר מאוד מוזר, כמו שהקלף אמר, בני אדם הם חריגה. הכל הוא התפשטות חוץ מהשכל. השכל, או השכל האנושי, יש רק שכל אנושי לפיו, אולי שכל ה'. אין שכל אנושי חוץ מזה. והוא, השכל הזה, יש לו את הדבר המוזר הזה שנקרא כוונות.
עכשיו, כוונה היא משהו שלא עוקב אחרי חוקי הפיזיקה. אני אפילו לא מדבר על בחירה חופשית וכל הדברים האלה. כוונות לא הגיוניות בתמונה הפיזיקלית שדיברנו עליה. נכון? כוונה פירושה דבר שהוא אודות דבר אחר, משהו שהוא אודות דבר אחר. מובן? כשאני רוצה משהו או מתכוון, פירושו שאני מתכוון למשהו, אני אודות משהו אחר?
עכשיו, זה לא קיים. רק בשיטה הישנה שכל הדברים הם אודות משהו אחר, או אודות המצב הסופי שלהם או משהו כזה. אבל שום דבר לא אודות משהו אחר, כל דבר הוא פשוט מה שהוא. להיות אודות משהו אחר זה לא דבר פיזי, אי אפשר לראות את זה. אי אפשר להסביר את זה על ידי סיבה דוחפת או סיבה מושכת. אפשר להסביר את זה רק על ידי סוג של סיבה צורנית או על ידי סוג של סיבה תכליתית. מובן?
כי פשוטו כמשמעו מה שסיבה תכליתית היא, להיות לקראת משהו אחר, להיות אודות משהו אחר. לכוון למשהו אחר באופן אמיתי. ברור שבני אדם עושים את זה. זו תכונה מוזרה. ברור ששכל אנושי עושה את זה. אנחנו יוצרים כוונות, ואנחנו פועלים, אנחנו עושים תוכניות, אנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים, או לפחות אנחנו חושבים שאנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים. האם אנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים, זו תהיה המחלוקת. אבל אנחנו חושבים שאנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים. יש לנו חלומות, יש לנו תוכניות, יש לנו מטרות, יש לנו כיוונים, יש לנו מה שאנחנו קוראים רצונות ורצונות ותשוקות ומשאלות. כל הדברים האלה, כולם מתפרקים, מצטמצמים, לפחות לכולם יש את התכונה של להיות אודות דברים אחרים, או אפילו לא אודות, הם לקראת דברים אחרים, נכון? לקראת דברים בעתיד, לקראת אפילו עצמי בעתיד, נכון? ועצמי בעתיד לא קיים, אז זה לא יכול להיות שעצמי בעתיד דוחף אותי לקראת זה, כי הוא לא קיים. הוא קיים רק בראש שלי.
אז אנחנו מגיעים למצב מאוד מוזר הזה, נכון? שנקרא באופן מפורסם בעיית הגוף-נפש בקרטזיאניזם. אבל, ודקארט ידע שזה מה שגרם לבעיה, הוא לא המציא אותה. זה מאוד ברור, אין פה איזו תיאוריית קונספירציה על המצאה. בעיית הגוף-נפש נוצרה בגלל ההכחשה של כוונה בדברים אמיתיים, בדברים חיצוניים, נכון? עכשיו, שטימט? מובן? הסיפור נכון.
אז, לכן, משהו מאוד מעניין קרה. משהו מאוד מעניין קרה. אז, יש בעצם רק שני פתרונות לבעיה הזו. או, שוב, יש שניים או שלושה פתרונות. אין לי ברור מאוד מה שלושת הפתרונות יהיו. אבל משהו כזה.
אז, מהו הטוב האנושי? בימים הישנים, הטוב האנושי לא היה שונה מכל טוב אחר, נכון? הטוב האנושי הוא הדרך הטובה ביותר לאדם להיות. הדרך השלמה, מלאות האנושיות, מה שאנחנו קוראים, ההרמוניה, האושר, שהוא פשוט הדרך הטובה ביותר לאדם להיות.
מכיוון שאין דבר כזה הטוב ביותר במציאות, אז זה לא יכול להיות על, לא יכול להיות זה. את זה, אנחנו מאבדים את היכולת הזו. עכשיו, אנחנו נשארים עם כל מיני דברים אחרים שהם, חלקם הם כמו שיריים מזה, וחלקם, זו דרך אחת להישאר, כמו עם מה שנשאר מאושר, בלי שאושר יהיה פירושו זה. או, אנחנו מגיעים למשהו אפילו יותר ממה שהיה לנו קודם במובן מסוים. תנו לי להסביר.
אז דבר אחד, אלה בעצם שני סוגי האתיקה שקיימים במודרניות. עכשיו אתם מבינים משהו מאוד מעניין. כנראה שמעתם שיש רק שני סוגי אתיקה.
בסדר? השלישית היא אתיקת מידות, שהיא הנכונה. אבל במודרניות הקלאסית, יש רק שני סוגי אתיקה, נכון? אם אתם לא יודעים את זה, כדאי שתעשו קורס מזורז איפשהו. בכל מקרה, יש שני סוגי אתיקה.
תועלתנות היא השיטה של בנתם, הדבר שניטשה מאוד אהב ללעוג לו תמיד. והיא שכמובן, אין לנו אושר באופן האמיתי, באופן האריסטוטלי, שהוא ההגדרה של בן האדם, הסוג הטוב ביותר של אדם שהוא יכול להיות, כי אין דבר כזה הטוב ביותר של שום דבר.
אבל הדבר הזה שאנשים דיברו עליו נראה שעדיין קיים, נכון? זה מה שאני קורא לו השיטה של השיריים, או שיטת השיריים. במילים אחרות, אנשים עדיין מרגישים שמחים לפעמים, ולפעמים לא מרגישים שמחים, או שהם מרגישים הנאה לפעמים, ולפעמים לא מרגישים הנאה. אז לכן, אנחנו אומרים, מה זה טוב? הנאה. זה עדיין קיים. להרגיש שמח. תחושה פנימית.
משהו באנלוגיה לתחושה, לא תחושה, פיזית, כמו תחושה תפיסתית, שזו בעיה נוספת, אבל משהו, תחושה פנימית, רגש. איך הם קראו לזה? הרגשה. יש עוד מילה שאנשים נהגו להשתמש בה. תשוקה, הרגשה, כל הדברים האלה. זה מה שדיוויד יום אמר, השכל הוא עבד של התשוקות. זכרו, ככה הגענו לכאן.
עדיין יש תשוקות, אני עדיין רוצה דברים במובן שאיזשהו רצון עולה בי איכשהו — זה מסתורי מה זה בכלל אומר כי אי אפשר להסביר את זה — אבל זו הרגשה, היא קיימת. הייתם אומרים שזה סובייקטיבי אבל זה משהו שקיים ולכן זה מה שבסופו של דבר אומרים.
אז מה זה טוב? גם אם רוצים להפוך את זה למשהו שנשמע טוב, אז סתם לעסוק בהרגשות האישיות שלך של אושר והנאה נשמע ממש רע, למרות שיש אנשים שפשוט מקבלים את זה ואומרים את זה. אם רוצים להיות יותר נחמדים אומרים האושר של כולם — מסיבה כלשהי אני צריך לדאוג לכל האחרים, אני לא יודע למה — אבל עדיין יש לנו את המסורה הזו שלאושר, לאתיקה, יש קשר גם לאנשים אחרים.
אז אנחנו צריכים להעמיד פנים שזה גם על כך שכולם יהיו שמחים, אבל בסופו של דבר, כולם הדוניסטים, נכון? כולם, הדוניסטים — אני לא מתכוון לטעון שאושר הוא הטוב, כי רוב הדברים הם הטוב. סוג של הדוניסט אפילו יותר מוזר מהדוניסט עתיק, נכון?
הדוניסט העתיק עדיין מאמין במשהו שנקרא הטוב, רק שהטוב האנושי הוא ההנאה הסופית. הדוניסט המודרני אומר, אין דבר כזה טוב. אני יודע שזה גורם לי להרגיש טוב. אנשים ממש אומרים את זה כל היום. אם תלכו לכל ישיבה, תשמעו אנשים אומרים את זה, אני שומע אפילו אנשים שמעמידים פנים שאומרים את זה בצורה טובה, נכון? אז לכן, אם תורה גורמת לך להרגיש טוב, אתה צריך ללמוד תורה.
אז, סובייקטיביות. לפעמים קוראים לזה סובייקטיביות. זה פתרון אחד. כמובן, זה פתרון של שיריים, זה מה שאני אומר. יש לו צורות מוסריות כלשהן רק בגלל שאנשים עדיין, גם הקדמונים דיברו על להרגיש טוב ולהיות שמח. אבל הם התכוונו להיות שמח בצורה אובייקטיבית. ועכשיו להיות שמח משנה את המשמעות שלו מלהיות סוג האדם הטוב ביותר להיות מישהו שיש לו הרגשות מסוימות.
ואז מגיעה השאלה של, איך קוראים לזה, בניסוי הקטן הזה על, מה אם פשוט יש לי מכונה שמזריקה לך סמים כל היום שגורמים לך להרגיש הנאה? לזה אתם מתכוונים? והתועלתנים...
תלמיד: בעיית הדופמין.
מרצה: כן. התועלתנים הסתבכו מספיק כדי להבין למה זה לא יהיה טוב. לחלקם יש תשובות לזה, אבל לזה מגיעים בסופו של דבר.
בסדר. עכשיו, השיטה השנייה, זו שיטה אחת, זו שיטה מהודרת, אף אחד לא באמת מחזיק ממנה. כולם מבינים שזו לא באמת אתיקה. אני חושב שכולם מבינים את זה. זה לא רק בשביל כמה אנשים מוזרים.
תלמיד: לא הונאה. פשוט לרדוף אחרי מה שמרגיש טוב.
מרצה: זה בא עם פיתול אלטרואיסטי שמנסה...
תלמיד: אלטרואיזם הוא הדבר המוזר הזה שאומר, אתה צריך לשמור על אנשים אחרים שירגישו טוב. אבל למה זה יותר טוב מזה שאני ארגיש טוב? זה לא באמת...
מרצה: שם נכנס האלטרואיזם, כמובן. האתיקה העתיקה לא מספיק אלטרואיסטית.
תלמיד: ובכן, מערמים את זה עם... זה חייב להיות מודולרי. מערמים את זה עם משהו, בסופו של דבר.
מרצה: בסדר, אז בסופו של דבר אומרים שיש איזה... מה שבסופו של דבר אומרים הוא שיש סנטימנט — זו המילה שחיפשתי — סנטימנט מוסרי, נכון? יש סנטימנט שאומר שאני מרגיש טוב כשאתה מרגיש טוב. מסתבר שזו האתיקה. אתיקה היא רק עוד הרגשה. זה באמת מה ש, זה מה שנקרא אמוטיביזם, נכון?
תלמיד: אמוטיביזם, כן.
מרצה: בסדר, אבל זו בעצם התיאוריה המודרנית. או תיאוריה אנגלית אחת, בסדר? כמו שניטשה נהג לומר, אף אחד לא רוצה להיות מאושר, רק אנגלים רוצים להיות מאושרים. בסדר, אבל הוא מתכוון לסוג הזה של הרגל, כפו עליך את הרעיון הספציפי מאוד הזה של מה מרגיש לך טוב, מה שנקרא לפעמים מצפון, נכון?
והמורה שלנו אליזבת אנסקום כתבה במאמר החשוב מאוד שלה בפילוסופיה מוסרית מודרנית שוב, מישהו בשם ג'וזף בישוף, באטלר, אני לא זוכר, שהכל היה על מצפון. אם פוגשים אנשים מודרניים מסוימים, כמו הרב הירש, כמה יהודים, בתקופה מסוימת, כולם מאוד מדברים על המצפון הפנימי הזה, שזו גם פרשנות אחת של הדבר הפנימי הזה. כאילו, כולם יודעים פנימית מה טוב.
ואז פרויד אמר, כן, זה הקול של אמא שלך. אבל בכל מקרה, והיא אומרת, ובכן, ברצינות? אני מכירה אנשים שפנימית באמת רוצים להרוג את כולם. זה לא ממש טוב, כאילו, הם פשוט מדמיינים שלכולם יש אוטומטית את התחושה הזו של אתיקה. זה לא מה ש, לא אמיתי, לא נכון.
אבל זה, אבל באמת, זו רק עוד הרגשה. אין סיבה לחשוב שזה נכון. ואתם באמת לא בטוחים שזה כאילו, אלה משחקים. כאילו, אפשר לומר את זה יפה בספר שאתה מכיר אנשים שרוצים לרצוח.
תלמיד: לא, יש אנשים שרוצחים. נכון, אפילו הרוצחים, כמו, כשטד באנדי רואיין, כאילו, הוא ידע שזה לא טוב, נכון? אפילו הבחור שרוצה ל, הוא יודע, יש לו מצפן פנימי לגבי מה זה.
מרצה: אני לא חושב שזה נכון, אבל אני לא הולך להיכנס לזה עכשיו. הנקודה שלי יותר חשובה. הנקודה היותר חשובה היא, שזו רק עוד הרגשה. אין סיבה לחשוב שההרגשה הזו חשובה יותר מכל הרגשה אחרת. רק, שוב, יש הרגשה שלא אומרת לך מה זה טוב.
תלמיד: לא, אבל רגע, חכה. אני חושב שאנחנו גם מבלבלים את המילה הרגשות כאן. יש שתי הרגשות שמתרחשות. הרגשה כאן פירושה תחושה. זה כל מה שזה יכול להיות. זה מה שזה אומר בשיטה הזו. נכון, ויש כמו הרגשה כמו, אתה יודע...
מרצה: זה אותו דבר. זה מה שזה. אין, אין סוג אחר של הרגשה. זה מה שאני מנסה לומר. יש מחשבה, נכון? מחשבות הן על דברים. אבל אם אין דבר כזה טוב אז המחשבה שלך לא על שום דבר. אז מסתבר שזו הרגשה, נכון? ההבדל בין מחשבה להרגשה הוא שמחשבה היא על משהו והרגשה היא לא על שום דבר.
תלמיד: למה המחשבה שלי לא לפגוע בך...
מרצה: בואו לא נתווכח עכשיו כי אני מנסה להבין מה אתה אומר. אתה מבין מה אני אומר, אבל עכשיו בואו נמשיך הלאה.
תלמיד: לא.
מרצה: בסדר, אם לא, אז תבוא אחרי השיעור ותשאל. בסדר. התאמה ראשונה. בסדר. עכשיו, כי אני פשוט אסיים בלהסביר לך באריכות, אבל אין לי זמן לזה. זה מאוד פשוט. מה שיש לי לומר הוא ככה.
השיטה השנייה היא מה שאנחנו קוראים... מה השיטה השנייה? אולי זה משהו כמו מה שאתה אומר, אני לא בטוח. אבל השיטה השנייה היא מה שאנחנו קוראים דאונטולוגיה, בסדר? בסדר, הדאונטולוגיה היא ציות לחוק המוסרי. בסדר, זה מה שנחשב, וזה מה שליטאים אומרים.
השיטה הראשונה — אף יהודי לא באמת אומר את זה. אולי יש איזה יהודי מוזר שאומר את זה. כאילו, מיהודי, אני מתכוון, כאילו, אדם דתי. אבל השיטה השנייה היא בעצם מה שכל ליטאי אומר.
תלמיד: ובכן, חסידים לפעמים אומרים הדוניזם. הם פשוט אומרים שההרגשה האמיתית שלך היא הקב"ה. אבל אני לא יודע אם זה עדיין נחשב. כי זה נשמע הרבה יותר קרוב לאושר האובייקטיבי בסופו של דבר.
מרצה: אבל זה יכול להיות, במובן מסוים. חלק מהחסידים, אני מכיר אנשים שמפרשים חסידים ככה. אבל אני לא חושב שזו פרשנות קלאסית, אז אני לא יודע. זו שאלה מעניינת. ואני תוהה אם... כן, זה מאוד מסובך. בסדר.
אבל השיטה השנייה היא לומר שיש איזה... גם לזה אין מקור, וגם זה בסופו של דבר נשען על משהו כמו מה שאתה מתאר, שהם קרובים יותר למה שאתה מתאר. לא הרגשה שגורמת לי להרגיש... אני מרגיש חמים בפנים, אלא משהו כמו אני מרגיש מבחוץ משהו. אני מרגיש משהו שמוטל עלי.
זה עדיין מסתיים בסוג כזה של הרגשה, אבל — זו ביקורת על הקאנטיאניזם, שזה גם סוג של אמוטיביזם — אבל זה חייב להיות משהו, במובן מסוים, מבחוץ, או משהו כמו שקאנט אומר, אתה נותן לעצמך את החוק שלך. אבל חוק הוא בהגדרה משהו חזק ממך. ויש לך איזשהו רעיון או ציות לחוק, שלא אומר כלום.
החוק לא אומר כלום. החוק הוא לא העובדה. בדרך הישנה, החוק הוא רק העובדה שזה טוב. אולי אתה לא יודע את זה, אז אני מודיע לך שזו הדרך הטובה להיות בן אדם. ובדרך הזו, אין דבר כזה אנשים טובים או שום דבר טוב, אבל יש דבר כזה לפעול בצורה טובה.
עכשיו, מה שזה עושה, והדרך השנייה היא באמת בעיקר לאן אני מכוון. מה שזה עושה בעיקר הוא שזה הופך את הקשר בין הפעולה לטוב שבה לרחוק מאוד, נכון?
כי זכרו, אם יש סתם דברים שיש להם תכליות, אז יש דברים טובים ופעולות טובות ופעולות רעות. פעולות טובות הן אלה שמובילות את הדבר לתכליתו, ופעולות רעות הן אלה שמשמידות אותו. זה מאוד פשוט. זה דין בפעולה, זה לא דין בכוונה.
אבל אם אין דבר כזה, אבל יש לנו איזשהו רעיון, כמו רעיון מאוד כללי, משהו כמו לעקוב אחרי החוק המוסרי, או ללכת נגד ההרגשות הנמוכות שלך זה הטוב, נכון? לעשות דברים לשם ציות לחוק, ולא לשם להיות מאושר, נכון?
אם זו השיטה הקאנטיאנית, שאומרת שהטוב של פעולה מוסרית הוא בציות לאיזשהו זיהוי של חוק מוסרי, של אמת מוסרית, או טוב מוסרי, שלא קשור למה שאתה רוצה, לא קשור למה שאתה חושב, וכן הלאה. זה קשור לאיזשהו ציות לחוק מוסרי. זה מסתיים בסוג של ציות.
תלמיד: כלפי החברה?
מרצה: החברה? לא, לא החברה. החברה היא רק עוד אדם אחד. הרבה אנשים. זה אלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. אני לא יכול לומר במפורש שזה אלוקים. אלוקים זה... אחת הסיבות שהוא מאמין באלוקים היא כי הוא מרגיש שיש חוק מוסרי. ואלוקים, אין דרך להסביר שזה לא אלוקים. יש דרכים לעשות את זה אתאיסטית גם, אבל זה מסתיים במשהו כמו אלוקים.
עכשיו...
תלמיד: אבל האם יש דרך לאתגר את זה אם, כאילו, אתה חי, נגיד, באפריקה, יש סוג אחד של דרך...
מרצה: לא איפה... לא איפה...
מרצה: כלפי החברה? לא, לא החברה. החברה היא רק עוד אדם אחד, הרבה אנשים. זה אלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. אי אפשר לומר שזה אלוקים. אלוקים זה, אז אחת הסיבות שהוא מאמין באלוקים היא כי הוא מרגיש שיש חוק מוסרי. ואלוקים, אין דרך להסביר שזה לא אלוקים. יש דרכים לעשות את זה אתאיסטית גם, אבל זה מסתיים במשהו כמו אלוקים.
אבל האם יש דרך לאתגר את זה? אם אתה חי באפריקה, יש סוג אחד של דרך לעשות את זה? אני לא מודאג מזה עכשיו. יש בעיות שונות. אלה בעיות שונות. אלה בעיות. לכל השיטות האלה יהיו בעיות מהסוג הזה. אני מנסה להגיע לצורה של השיטות.
מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו כאן הוא שעכשיו, אם יש לך את הרעיון הזה של מה זה טוב, וזה מה שכל ליטאי, כמו בהרבה ספרי מוסר, אני חושב, מה זה טוב, אז הקשר שלך עם זה, הדרך שבה הפעולה שלך היא טובה, הופכת למשהו מאוד פנימי.
למה אני מתכוון פנימי? כשאני מתכוון פנימי, אני מתכוון בדיוק לדבר הזה שיש לבני אדם ולא באמת קיים בעולם. זכרו, לפי השיטה הזו, יש משהו שיש לבני אדם, שהוא סובייקטיביות, או להיות על, היכולת להיות על משהו, היכולת להיות כלפי משהו, היכולת לרצות, אפשר לומר. עכשיו אנחנו קוראים למילה הזו רצון. היכולת לרצות או לחשוק.
חשק תמיד היה דרך אנושית ספציפית להיות כלפי משהו. אבל עכשיו בני אדם הם הדברים היחידים שהם כלפי משהו. אז עכשיו חשק או כוונה הוא הדבר הזה מאוד ספציפי ומוזר ובלתי ניתן להסבר במובן מסוים, סוג אנושי של דבר, אולי זו נשמה אנושית נפרדת שיכולה לעשות את זה, שיכולה להיות על משהו אחר, שיכולה לרצות דבר אחר שלא באמת קיים. עכשיו, גם הרצון לא קיים, זה רק כמו עובדה מנטלית, זה רק משהו פנימי.
ועכשיו מסתבר שזה הדבר היחיד שיכול לעשות אותך טוב. כי סתם לעשות משהו, אם אתה עושה דבר טוב מסיבות לא נכונות, זה אפילו לא שלא לשמה. זכרו, כל העניין של מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה לא באמת עובד בשיטה הזו. זה הפך למאוד קשה להסביר. ותשימו לב שהרבה אנשים יש להם בעיה גדולה להסביר את זה. בעוד שרבה חשב שזה פשוט והגורם המוסרי הכי ברור שיש. נכון?
למה? כי לפי הנוסח של השיטה הזו, הדבר היחיד שהופך דברים לטובים הוא הדרך שבה אתה מתכוון להיות טוב על ידי זה. בזה מורכב הטוב. הכוונה להיות טוב, הכוונה להיות החוק המוסרי האוניברסלי הזה, או הכוונה להיות כלל אוניברסלי, כל מיני ניסוחים של אותו דבר.
אבל הדרך היחידה שבה מה שאתה עושה מחובר לזה, שהמעשה שלך מחובר, היא במצב הפנימי הזה, כמעט הרגשה, אולי יותר מהרגשה אם רוצים לומר את זה ככה, אבל זו רק הרגשה, הרגשה שאני עושה דבר טוב. כי מלבד ההרגשות שלך, ואין לנו הסבר להרגשות, כי הרגשות זה הדבר האנושי המוזר הזה שלשום דבר אחר אין. אין הרגשות ביקום, נכון? ליקום לא אכפת ממך, אתם מכירים את האמירה הזו? ליקום אין הרגשות, רק לבני אדם יש הרגשות, נכון? רק לבני אדם יש כוונתיות, רק לבני אדם יש אינטנציונליות. עכשיו, לפי השיטה הזו.
לכן, הדרך היחידה שמשהו יכול להיות טוב, רק בני אדם יכולים להיות טובים מוסרית, נכון? אין, אין דרך לומר שמשהו טוב או רע בצורה אמיתית, רק בני אדם. ועכשיו ספציפית כוונה אנושית, שהיא הדבר הקסום המוזר והבלתי ניתן להסבר הזה שלבני אדם ברור שעדיין יש, גם אחרי שהתיאוריה לא הגיונית, עדיין יש להם את זה, נכון?
אז עכשיו אנחנו מגיעים למשהו מאוד מוזר. אנחנו מגיעים לתיאוריה הזו ש, מה שנאמר כאן על ידי ספר התניא, שהמקום היחיד שבו הקב"ה נמצא, הדבר הטוב היחיד, הוא הכוונה להיות טוב. זו סוג של כוונה ריקה כי, או שאפשר לומר שהיא לא ריקה כי היא ציות לחוק המוסרי. אבל זו הכוונה, המתכוון. נכון, אבל אין, הקשר בין החוק לבינך לא קיים, נכון? כי זה בתוך הראש שלך. הקשר הוא גם בתוך הראש שלך, בוודאי, לפי הקב"ה, נכון?
אז הדבר היחיד שבאמת טוב הוא כולו בלב האנושי, ובשכל האנושי, ובכוונה האנושית, בנשמה האנושית, איך שרוצים לקרוא לזה.
ועכשיו, ראשית, זה מחמיר את הכל הרבה יותר. כמו שאמרתי, ה"מתוך שלא לשמה" מפסיק להיות הגיוני. או שהוא הופך להרבה יותר גדול, אבל המאמץ ממה שהיה פעם, נכון?
כי הרמב"ם אכן הסביר כדרך הרגילה של חינוך אנושי. "מתוך שלא לשמה" פירושו שאתה עושה את הדבר כרמת אימון שבה אתה עושה את הדבר אבל אתה לא לגמרי יודע למה. אתה עושה את זה בשביל ה"למה" הלא נכון, אבל אתה עדיין עושה דבר טוב. אתה עדיין אדם טוב. המעשים שלך עדיין טובים. הם באמת טובים. הם באמת טובים כי הם עושים את הדבר הטוב. הם עושים את סוג הדברים שאדם טוב היה עושה.
האם הם טובים לגמרי? לא, כי אתה במה שאנחנו קוראים הפנימיות שלך ולא טוב, כי במילים אחרות אתה לא יודע למה זה טוב. אז אתה לא עושה את זה לשם הדבר עצמו. אתה לומד לשם כסף, אבל הלימוד עדיין באמת טוב, כי טוב הוא עדיין תכונה של דברים אמיתיים. אז הלימוד עדיין באמת טוב. זה אתה, אתה שחסר לך חלק מהטוב. השכל שלך לא מבין את זה. אז אתה לא מתכוון ללימוד, אתה מתכוון למשהו אחר, אבל זה לא הופך את זה ללא טוב לחלוטין.
לעומת זאת, לפי השיטה החדשה, כשאתה לומד לשם משהו אחר, זה חסר ערך לחלוטין, כמו שהקוצקער [הרבי מקוצק, רבי מנחם מנדל מורגנשטרן מקוצק] היה יכול לומר. זה חסר ערך לגמרי. אולי יש לזה ערך באיזה אופן מוזר, כל הספרים החסידיים מתחילים מהנחה הזו, אם אתה קורא כל טקסט חסידי, אתה רואה, כולם אומרים, ובכן, שמעתי את זה אבל זה לא קורה. כולם אומרים את האמירה המאוד מוזרה הזו. הם אומרים, ובכן, הניסיון שלנו מראה שזה לא עובד. אנחנו צריכים להוסיף משהו לזה. כי כל הליטוואקים מעולם לא הגיעו ללשמה. זה מה שהם אומרים. ולכן, אנחנו צריכים לשאול, לראות את זה, וכל מיני דברים. אבל זה לא עובד.
האמירה הזו נובעת מהחורבן של ההבנה שזה תמיד עובד. לפי תורת ההרגל, שהיא אימון מוסרי בסיסי, זה תמיד עובד, כי ברגע שאתה, כלומר, אני לא יכול לומר תמיד, עדיין יכולה להיות הבעיה הזו שלפעמים אנשים נשארים בשלב הזה תמיד, אבל זה עובד.
ראשית, זה עדיין באמת טוב. זה לא שהטוב של הבעש"ט [הבעל שם טוב, מייסד החסידות] הוא רק כמו שהבעש"ט אומר, זה יהפוך, זה יהיה "מה לשמה לשמה", אתם מכירים את הסיפורים האלה של הבעש"ט? כלומר, אפשר לפרש את זה בדרך הנכונה, אני לא אומר, אבל אני מסביר שיש באמת טוב בלהיות, בלהעמיד פנים שאתה אדם טוב, כי טוב הוא תכונה של דברים.
האדם הטוב הזה הוא לא אדם טוב לגמרי, הוא עדיין אדם טוב למחצה, כי אפשר לומר שהלב שלו לא טוב, רק המעשים שלו טובים. אבל מעשים הם באמת טובים. הם באמת אלה שהופכים אדם טוב לאדם טוב. זה מה שנמצא במעשה, לא באדם.
אבל אם אתה מבין שאין דבר כזה טוב במעשים, יש רק טוב בלב האדם כי מעשים כשלעצמם אין להם תכלית. לא יכולה להיות להם כוונה.
עכשיו "כוונה" הופכת, עכשיו המילה "כוונה" היא מאוד מוזרה. יש לה פירוש חדש של המודרניות שלא היה לה מעולם קודם.
"כוונה", אם אתה קורא כל טקסט עתיק, כל טקסט מימי הביניים על כוונה, תראה שכוונה היא דין במעשה. כוונה היא תיאור של מה שאתה עושה. זה לא תיאור של המצב הפנימי שלך.
איך אני יודע את זה? תקרא כל סוגיא של "מצוות צריכות כוונה" ותראה שאין שיטה שהכלל שונה מזה. אני עושה טענה אמיתית אז אתם יכולים להתווכח איתי. אבל ככה רוב הקושיות על הסוגיא של "מצוות צריכות כוונה" ואותו דבר לגבי "מלאכת מחשבת אסרה תורה", אין, אף אחת מאלה לא עוסקת במצב הפנימי שלך. כולן עוסקות במה שהמעשה הוא.
כי מה שמסביר מעשה, כמובן שהמצב הפנימי שלך הוא חלק מזה כשמדובר במעשים אנושיים. בני אדם פועלים באמצעות מצבים פנימיים. אני לא אומר שמצבים פנימיים לא קיימים. אני חושב שהטוב לא לגמרי, לא תלוי רק בזה, כמו שזה בנצחיות.
הטוב הוא שזה דבר טוב, כי זה לתכלית טובה.
תלמיד: וזה גם לא שלם באופן עצמאי, נכון, מהצד השני, יש לך כוונות טובות בלי מעשה.
מרצה: בדיוק. כוונות טובות הן ההיפך. בדיוק. לפי ה... כמובן. כמובן, כוונות טובות שהן רק במצב נצחי, ולא מכוונות למעשה, שזה לא דבר שבכלל הגיוני במערכת הישנה, שאיכשהו הגיוני בחדשות, כי אז זה תמיד באיזשהו אופן כזה. כי אז טוב הוא דבר נצחי, זה רק רגש, או רק סוג של נטייה, או כמו התגברות על האגואיזם שלך, או דברים כאלה, אלה דברים נצחיים לחלוטין.
התגברות על האגואיזם שלך, שזה מה שאנשים במודרניות חושבים שזה מה שהופך מעשים טובים לטובים, היא דבר נצחי לחלוטין. לאף אחד לא אכפת אם אתה מגיע להתגברות על האגואיזם או למטרות אגואיסטיות, נכון? זה המעשה שאכפת לו.
לכן, כשאתה קורא תיאורים עתיקים של "שלא לשמה", תמיד יש תיאור שונה, תמיד יש תיאור של המעשה שהוא שונה, ואני חושב תמיד, גם כמעט תמיד, זה באמת שונה. מישהו שלומד שלא לשמה לומד בצורה שונה ממישהו שלומד לשמה. זה לא רק שיש לו דבר שונה בראש שלו.
נכון שהסיבה שהוא פועל בצורה שונה היא כי הוא לא מבין את הטוב שבלימוד. אז ההבדל הוא מאוד פשוט. למשל, מישהו שלמד שלא לשמה, לא לתכלית הלימוד או אולי אם הלימוד עצמו הוא תכלית לתכלית אחרת, לא משנה, לקראת זה, הוא הולך ללמוד רק כל עוד הוא מקבל כסף והשני הולך להפסיק ללמוד, נכון? ברגע שהוא לא מקבל כסף, מכבדים אותך בשביל זה. אז יש הבדל אמיתי במעשה, אתה יכול לראות את ההבדל במה שהוא עושה. זה לא רק הבדל בראש שלו.
הפירוש החסידי של "שלא לשמה" הוא כולו בראש שלך. כי לפיהם, אם אתה לומד להנאתך, למשל, במילים אחרות, כי אתה מכיר בעצמך שזה טוב, זה גם שלא לשמה. כי הם מגיעים לנתינת תכליות לעולם שהיא לחלוטין מבחוץ, שבה העולם ריק מתכלית, לא רק שהקב"ה נותן לו תכלית, אלא שהוא לא באמת נותן אפילו, נכון? זה תכליתי רק במובן שזה מה שהקב"ה רוצה, ולכן זה או פנתאיזם או הגשמה, או אלוה פיזי, אלוה דמוי-אדם, מבינים מה אני אומר?
מאוד פשוט, מאוד פשוט שטיקל תועלת.
ולכן, למשל, למדנו שבוע שעבר, את הרמב"ם הזה. שמדבר על איך אתה יכול להיות עובד ה' בכל מה שאתה עושה אם אתה אוכל כדי ללמוד, בעצם.
עכשיו, אנשים חושבים שזה אומר שכשאתה אוכל, אתה צריך לחשוב מחשבות מסוימות. אין לזה שום קשר לזה. זה לא על מצב הנפש שלך בזמן שאתה אוכל. במילים אחרות, הכוונה, "כוונה", בעולם העתיק, היא התשובה לשאלה למה אתה עושה את זה. זה לא התשובה לשאלה מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה. אתם מבינים את ההבדל? זה הבדל של שורה אחת מאוד.
בימינו, "כוונה" ו"ספרי מוסר", "לשמה", "כוונה", כל המילים היפות האלה אומרות, מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה? וברמב"ם זה אומר, למה אתה עושה את זה? מה התשובה לשאלה למה אתה עושה את זה?
מה יש בראש שלך כל היום? לפעמים שבוע שעבר קראתי לזה, מה יש בראש שלך כל היום? אבל זה לא אומר הראש שלך אף פעם. זה התשובה לשאלה.
זו הייתה התשובה לסתירה של רב חיים ברמב"ם. זו התשובה להרבה דברים.
תלמיד: אז התשובה למה שעכשיו אנחנו מוחאים כפיים לפני מגילה, שכולם צריכים לכוון לצאת ידי חובה.
מרצה: בדיוק. זה שטויות. הסתירה של רב חיים. כמובן, החזון איש מנסה לומר את זה אבל אין לו דרך לומר את זה. אני לא יודע אם זו תשובה נכונה. אני חושב שיש תשובה פשוטה יותר לזה, אני רק אומר, זה נשמע הרבה דברים.
כמו שאתה אומר, אין דבר כזה שאתה הולך לבית הכנסת בזמן שקוראים את המגילה, כי המצווה היא לקרוא את המגילה. מה זה אומר שאני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? מה אני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? כוונה היא לא על לכוון בראש שלך. כמובן שאתה יכול ללכת ולכוון בראש שלך, אבל זו רק המילה. זה בעצם הופך את זה לדי קטן באיזשהו אופן. זה הופך את זה למוזר.
לא, זה לוקח זמן.
רק להבהיר, מה שיש בראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. הראש שלך הוא איבר חשוב. ומה שאתה חושב בכל רגע זה דבר חשוב להתמקד בו, אבל לא בגלל הדין של כוונה, בגלל סיבה אחרת לגמרי, כי הראש שלך הוא מעשה בפני עצמו. יכולה להיות לך כוונה טובה שלום [הטקסט נקטע כאן]
מרצה: כמו שאתה אומר, יש הרבה דברים. כשאתה הולך לבית הכנסת, למה אתה קורא את המגילה? כי המסר נמצא במגילה. מה זה אומר שאני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? מה אני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? הכוונה היא לא על לכוון בראש שלך. כמובן שאתה יכול ללכת ולכוון בראש שלך. אבל זו רק המילה. זה הופך את זה למוזר.
לא, זה לוקח זמן. רק להבהיר. מה שיש בראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. הראש שלך הוא איבר חשוב. מה שאתה חושב בכל רגע זה דבר חשוב להתמקד בו. אבל לא בגלל הדין של כוונה. בגלל סיבה אחרת לגמרי. כי הראש שלך הוא מעשה בפני עצמו.
יכולה להיות לך כוונה טובה שלא לשמה. יכולה להיות לך כוונה כמו הרש"ש על קריאת שמע. כי מה שיש ב... כי הסיבה שאתה עושה את זה היא לא כי זה טוב, אלא בגלל סיבה אחרת. זה כמו הבעל שם טוב עם השופר. אולי, אני לא יודע. לא צריך להיות לך שום כוונה. נכון? הכוונה היא רק – כן, אני לא יודע, זה מסובך. מה שקורה בסיפורים האלה, אני לא יודע מה אתם מבינים. נצטרך לעבור על כל העניין.
זה מאוד פשוט. אז זה מאוד פשוט. אז עכשיו אנחנו מבינים גם למה בימים הישנים, לשמה הוא דין במעשה. לשמה הוא דין במעשה. לשמה הוא דין במעשה. יש סתם מעשה, ויש לשמה, ויש שלא לשמה.
כמובן, מכיוון שבני אדם פועלים עם הראש שלהם, יש משהו עם הראש שלך, אבל זה לא דין במה שיש בראש שלך.
וזו הסיבה שכמובן, אנשים מודרניים, לא רק שלא יכולים לדמיין שהקב"ה שורה במקום אחר חוץ מהראש שלהם, הם לא יכולים לדמיין שום טוב, שזה באמת מה שהם מתכוונים, חוץ מבכוונה שלהם, שזה דבר מאוד מוזר, כי זה סוג של חסר תועלת, וזה מוביל לדבר המוזר הזה.
כולם רוצים להיות טובים. לא, אתה לא רוצה להיות טוב. רצון פירושו רצון לעשות. מה זה בכלל אומר? אבל אם כל הטוב הוא במשהו, זה איכשהו הגיוני. זה עדיין לא לגמרי הגיוני. אבל זו הסיבה שהם מגיעים לחשוב ככה, כי הם חייבים לחשוב ככה.
עכשיו, אני מראה לכם למה הם מוכרחים לחשוב ככה, בגלל המחשבה שלהם שאין טוב בעולם האמיתי, בעולם החיצוני. אז לכן, הטוב חייב להיות – אז זה לא יכול להיות לגמרי מה שאתה עושה, כי זה דבר חיצוני, וזה לא באמת טוב. אז זה חייב להיות מה שאתה עושה, ולכן זה חייב להיות שגם אם אתה עושה את זה, אם אתה רוצה לעשות משהו טוב ואתה אף פעם לא עושה שום דבר טוב, אתה עדיין בחור טוב.
תלמיד: אז איך היית יודע הרבה מזה? זה מה שדנתי הרבה פעמים. בתיאוריה שלי, זה אומר – גם אם אתה יכול מושגית לחלק אותם, עדיין יש לך בעיית מתאם, נכון? רגע אחד. זה מה שאתה אומר, נכון? כלומר, גם אם אני יכול איכשהו להפריד את הכוונה מהמעשה, אני עדיין צריך איזשהו מתאם.
מרצה: ברור, אתה חייב לפחות לומר שאתה לא רוצה את זה מספיק או משהו. זה מה שאני הייתי אומר, או מה שאנשים אחרים אומרים. כלומר, גם אנשים אחרים היו אומרים את זה, נכון?
תלמיד: אנשים אחרים, כן, הם אומרים משהו, אבל אני אומר שהתיאוריה שלהם מכריחה אותם לומר שהטוב הוא כולו במצב הפנימי ולא במצב הממשי, ולכן הם מגיעים לומר את הדברים המצחיקים האלה, בדיוק, ואז הם מגיעים לזה, כי זו שאלה גם בשבילם, הם מסכימים שזו שאלה, והם ממציאים את התשובה שלהם, ואני משתמש בשאלה הזו כדי להראות שכל העניין אבסורדי, אבל הם היו אומרים, אני חייב לומר את זה, והם חייבים למצוא תשובה, בדיוק, שהם לא משוגעים, הם משוגעים.
מרצה: חתיכת הפאזל העיקרית שחסרה והסיבה שגורמת לכל המוזרות הזו ולכל המחלוקת של נפש החיים והתניא או מה שזה לא יהיה – ובכן, לשמה, הכל נגרם מאובדן הלשמה בעולם האמיתי. מכיוון שאנשים מפסיקים להאמין שהעולם הוא לשמה, הם מתחילים, הם נדחקים לאחת משתי האפשרויות האלה: או שכל הלשמה הוא בראש שלך, או שהכל הוא כי הקב"ה אמר כך, שזו בעצם השיטה של נפש החיים. מבינים?
עכשיו כשאתה אומר שזה בראש שלך, אז אתה מגיע לבעיות שונות. אז לכן אתה חייב לומר שהראש שלך הוא גם אלוקות, כל מיני דברים. אבל זה הסיפור הבסיסי.
פשוט אומר – מאוד פשוט – לפי התיאוריה שלי, אם לאדם יש נטייה ממשית לעשות דברים – לא אומר שאני יושב בחדר שלי וחושב מחשבות טובות. זה לא מה שזה אומר. זה כמו שהגמרא אומרת, במילים אחרות, אם אני סוג של אדם שעושה צדקה כל שנה, אבל השנה אין לי כסף בכיס, אז לשנה הזו אני עדיין אדם טוב. אבל בשלב מסוים אני לא אדם טוב. אגב, כי אני באמת עושה טוב, נכון? אתה באמת עושה.
תלמיד: או סתם יש משהו חיצוני שמונע ממך, חוסם אותך. אז אתה עדיין נחשב אדם טוב. אם מעולם לא הייתי עושה, לא הייתי עושה.
מרצה: בדיוק. אתה לא יכול לומר, אפילו אריסטו, יש מחלוקת על זה. אריסטו הולך עד כדי כך לומר, אם מעולם לא היה לך כסף, אתה אף פעם לא בעל צדקה. אם פעם היה לך כסף, והיום אין לך כסף, אז אפשר לומר – זה מה שהתורה צריכה להבטיח לך שיהיה לך כסף. כי אחרת אתה לא יכול לעשות מצוות. אתה לא יכול להיות בעל צדקה. אתה צריך גוף. זה מה שזלמן [הגר"א] אמר, אתה צריך גוף כדי לעשות מצוות. אחרת אתה יכול לרצות לעשות מצווה, הרצון הזה לא מעניין.
זה החילוק הגדול וזה, אני חושב, הנימוק למה כל זה, למה המחלוקת הזו, כל הדברים שדנו בהם. וזו תשובתו של משה רבינו למלאכים, "יש בכם" זה, "יש בכם" זה, במילים אחרות, אתה חייב להיות מסוגל לעשות את זה.
זה מוביל לדיון אחר, כי יש טוב לנשמה בלי גוף, רק פעילויות שונות. זה מאוד מעניין, כשאנחנו אומרים, שני הדברים האלה לא בהכרח מתחברים. לכן יש מחלוקת עתיקה, כמו שאמרתי. המחלוקת לא הייתה, כלומר, ואין כאן משהו שאני אומר שכך הרבה אנשים חושבים. כי מה שקורה הוא שהשאלה מהו טוב לנשמה בלי גוף היא גם לעשות משהו.
אנחנו מאוד מבולבלים. אנחנו חושבים שנשמות בלי גופות לא יכולות לעשות כלום. הן עושות דברים. זה כמו לחשוב, או לדעת, או אולי אפילו לרצות, או דברים מסוג כזה, שזה עשייה. הטוב של הנשמה בלי גוף הוא לא שהוא חולם, כאילו הוא אדם עם יד, אלא שהוא חולם בבשר. בבשר. הוא בבשר. זה גם מעשה. לנשמה, זה מעשה. אולי לגוף, זה כמו מעשה. לנשמה, זה כמו מעשה. זו הפעילות שלה.
הטוב של כל דבר הוא סוג של פעילות. רק שזה לא הסוג שלך של פעילות. אז זה לא, אנחנו לא, אם אתה רוצה לחפש את הסוג הזה של דבר, לכן זה מוזר. זה מוזר. כולם גם יגידו לך שמה שבראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. מה שבראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. לא בראש שלך, בשכל שלך. זה מאוד חשוב כי אלה הם סוגי הדברים שהנשמה כנשמה או החושב כחושב, האדם כאדם במובן האמיתי עושה. לא בגלל שזה דבר פנימי. זה דבר חיצוני. זה מעשה. מחשבה כמעשה. מחשבה כמעשה כי זה מה שהיא עושה. היא לא רוצה שום דבר אחר.
לגוף, סתם לחשוב, לחשיבה יש שתי משמעויות. לחשיבה כאן יש שתי משמעויות שונות, נכון? חשיבה פירושה חשיבה לקראת וחשיבה ש, נכון? או חשיבה על, נכון? חשיבה לקראת פירושה פשוט תכנון. זה סתם חשיבה על אמצעים ולכן, סוג כזה של דבר לא הגיוני בלי מעשה. אבל חשיבה על דברים שהמחשבה מסתיימת בחשיבה עצמה, לכן, למשל, לפי המחשבה העתיקה, חשיבה על דברים שהם זמניים לא נחשבת כחשיבה, נכון?
חשיבה על מעשה, אין לה מעלה של חשיבה. כל המעלה של מחשבה, כמו שהתניא אומר, המעלה של מחשבה, זו העצה הגדולה, שהיא בעצם לקוחה מאריסטו, נכונה רק למחשבה על דברים אמיתיים. זה לא עובד להלכה, זו הטעות הגדולה של התניא, מנקודת המבט של אריסטו. זה לא עובד מנקודת המבט של הלכה. יש תשובה לטעות הזו, אני לא אומר שזו טעות, אני רק אומר שמנקודת המבט הזו זו טעות.
אתה לא יכול לומר, אני חושב על מה לעשות עם צדקה על פי טור, אז אתה חושב על שחיטת תרנגולות כהלכה, אז זה טוב רק, כמו שהמשיח אמר. איך יכול להיות שהחשיבה על שחיטת תרנגולות כהלכה היא טובה יותר מהשחיטה עצמה של תרנגולות כהלכה? זה לא יכול להיות טוב יותר. זה גרוע יותר. כלומר, אולי זה טוב יותר במובן מסוים כי זה מארגן את זה. זה נותן לזה צורה. זה נותן את התשובה הנכונה לשאלה הזו. אבל זה לא טוב יותר.
הדבר היחיד שהוא טוב יותר הוא חשיבה שיכולה באמת להסתיים בחשיבה. זה נקרא קריאת שמע. לכן תורה לשמה היא הדרך היחידה ללמוד קבלה. אם אתה לומד נגלה, אתה אף פעם לא לומד תורה לשמה. כי לזה אף פעם אין את המעלה של מחשבה. זה תמיד משועבד לדבר אחר, מאז ומעולם, תורה לשמה פירושה רק לימוד נסתר. כי אלה הם הדברים היחידים שמסתיימים בידיעה. המטרה שלהם היא לדעת אותם. כי כמה שכל ט"ז וכל ב"ח, זה רק מעשה קטן של מה שבתוך המקרה.
תלמיד: לזה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: כן. כמו שאמרתי, יש סיבוכים בזה. אבל כן, הט"ז הוא רק על, לפחות מנקודת המבט של חכמה מעשית, הוא רק על מה לעשות כשהמקרה הזה קורה. ולכן, הוא על דברים שקורים.
אם אתה לומד את זה ואתה לא מתכנן, למשל, מהו עיקר לשמה, מהו הלשמה הגדול ביותר, שלא לשמה שמביא לידי לשמה? אם אתה לומד ואתה לא מתכנן לעשות את מה שאתה לומד, דווקא זה, מנקודת המבט הזו, יהיה לשמה. זה קצת נוגד את האינטואיציה של מה שאתה חושב.
תלמיד: לא, לא, מזה, ברמת המעשה וברמת איך שאנחנו מדרגים את המעשה זה נכון, כי זה בלוף, זה מה שאמרתי בשבוע שעבר, זה נקרא, זה נקרא שהוא לא לומד פנימית, הוא לומד חיצונית, זה נקרא—
מרצה: המשמעות של סוג כזה של לימוד, המשמעות, ה"למה". למה אנחנו לומדים לא לדבר לשון הרע? כדי לא לדבר לשון הרע. אם אתה לומד על זה, ואתה מדבר לשון הרע, אתה מוסיף על החטא. אתה רק אומר את המילים, אבל אתה לא באמת לומד. זו המשמעות. אבל זו לא המעלה של לימוד לשמו. זה לא שלא לשמה ברמה הגבוהה באמת. יש שתי משמעויות שונות.
תלמיד: אז אם אתה לומד על לשון הרע, זה שלא לשמה?
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: זה שלא לשמה?
מרצה: מוסיף על החטא זה נקרא. זה לא אותו דבר כמו שלא לשמה. זה מה שאני שואל. במצב הזה אנחנו יכולים לקרוא לזה—זה—זו משמעות שונה של—בשביל זה—לא, כי זו בדיוק הבעיה. זה מה ש, זה מה ש, זה הדיון. אין—מישהו שלומד בלי לתכנן לעשות את זה, יש את ה—שזה דבר אחר—לימוד על הטוב מוביל אנשים לעשות טוב. זו עובדה מעניינת על הטבע האנושי. אם אתה לומד הרבה הלכה, אתה מפסיק להיות—אם אתה לא מתכנן ל—זה פשוט קשור ל—
תלמיד: משפיע ביום שישי?
מרצה: כי אנחנו מושפעים מאוד ממה שאנחנו חושבים. אבל, בסדר, אבל זה דבר אחר. אבל אם אתה לומד כמו דואג, כמו דואג, כמו טועה, כמו שאז אני מוסיף על החטא, אז לא, אז אין מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה, אז זה עושה אותך גרוע יותר. אתה הופך לבעל דעת, חסר מוסר, סוג כזה של אדם, כי אתה מגלה את כל התחבולות של העולם בלי לתכנן לא לעשות אותן. אתה בעצם הופך לאדם גרוע יותר.
ראש השנה הוא כשאתה לומד דברים שהם רק תיאוריה, או אפילו במובן הזה, אתה עדיין לא מתכנן לעשות את זה כמו שאנחנו אומרים מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה, ולאט לאט, למשל, אני אומר לך שאתה צריך ללמוד קבלה. אתה אומר, למה אני צריך ללמוד קבלה? אני אומר לך, אתה תהפוך למקובל. בסדר, הגיוני. מקובל זו נקודת התייחסות טובה. אני אלמד קבלה. אז, לאט לאט אתה לומד קבלה, ואתה מבין שלימוד קבלה טוב יותר מלהיות מקובל. אולי, כי זה באמת טעים. זה לשמה, וזה קורה כל הזמן. אני רואה את זה.
אגב, זה קורה. זה לא עבודת ה', זה קורה באופן טבעי, כי אתה מתחיל לחשוב שזה טוב. אנשים שהתחילו ללמוד קבלה כי הם חשבו שזה הולך להיות מגניב, ואז הם התחילו באמת לאהוב את זה. זה קורה עם הכל. כי אתה מתחיל לראות את הטוב, לכן אנחנו ממשיכים להסביר. אתה חושב שזה דבר רע, אז אתה צריך לעשות את זה בשביל עצמך, ואז אתה עושה את זה בשביל הכסף שלך. זו הבעיה. לכן זו לא תוכנית טובה מאוד ללמוד קבלה כדי להפוך למקובל.
תלמיד: אבל דבר רע זה על הרגשות.
מרצה: לא, לא במובן הזה. כמובן שלא. במובן של לראות את הטוב, לראות איך זה באמת טוב. לכן זו תוכנית גרועה. מישהו שרוצה ללמוד איך להפוך ל—הוא צריך לעבוד באופן פעיל בכיוון הזה כי אחרת הוא עלול להתחיל לאהוב את זה גם כשהוא לא מרוויח כסף. הרבה אנשים, אתה יודע, אני מכיר כל כך הרבה אנשים שהתחילו להיכנס ללימוד, הם חשבו שזה הולך להיות עסק טוב.
מרצה:
זו הבעיה. לכן זו לא תוכנית טובה מאוד ללמוד קבלה כדי להפוך למקובל. שטויות זה על הרגשות. לא, לא במובן הזה. כמובן שלא. במובן של לראות את הטוב. לראות איך זה באמת טוב. לכן זו תוכנית גרועה.
אם מישהו רוצה ללמוד איך להפוך למקובל, הוא צריך לעבוד באופן פעיל בכיוון הזה כי אחרת הוא עלול להתחיל לאהוב את זה גם כשהוא לא מרוויח כסף. הרבה אנשים, אתם יודעים כמה, אני מכיר כל כך הרבה אנשים שהתחילו להיכנס ללימוד. הם חשבו שזה הולך להיות עסק טוב. זה הולך להיות עסק טוב. מסתבר שהוא פשוט אוהב את זה. ואז הוא הפסיק להרוויח כסף מזה כי הוא לא עושה את החלקים שמכניסים כסף, נכון?
משהו שבאמת קורה. זה דבר מאוד רגיל, זה. זה לא קסם. אבל בכל מקרה, זה לא קשור לרש"י. זה רק כדי לענות על השאלות האלה.
מרצה:
השכל. אני מגלזן. כל זקן היה אומר את התורה הזו, שפורים פירושו שהחיצוניות היא גם הפנימיות. נכון? זוכרים?
זה דבר ישן, אני מניח שזה רק בשבילו. כי פורים היה הולך לומר את זה מהגוף. אני לא חושב שזה נכון, אבל כמו חנוכה, זה היה על קיום המצוות. שפורים היה רק על עצם הקיום. נכון? על זה הם מדברים.
ואנחנו לומדים שהגוף של היהודי הוא גם קדוש. עכשיו אתם מבינים מה זה אומר, לפי השיטה החדשה שלי.
מרצה:
זה אומר שהפנימיות היא החיצוניות. אין אמונה בזה. כל הרצון הזה, זה מה שאנשים קוראים פנימיות, הוא באמת מחשבה לחוץ.
יש לך הרגשה מאוד חזקה כשאתה לומד תורה, זה כל כך עוצמתי, אתה כל כך פארקאכט ואתה אוהב את זה כל כך ואתה רוצה את זה כל כך, אבל אתה לא מתכנן לעשות את זה. כמו רוב האנשים, הם כל כך מעורבים רגשית אבל הם לא באמת מתכננים לעשות את זה. הם מתכננים לעשות משהו עם מצב נפשי שונה לגמרי מאשר להיות במצב הרגשי הזה. שני דברים שאין להם שייכות זה לזה. אז זה, זה, זה ההבחנה.
אבל זה מה שהיוונים אמרו. מה העיקר של פורים? אני רוצה לומר לכם, לאף אחד אין דביקות בפורים. לכולם יש דביקות בבלוף, או שאין להם פורים.
מרצה:
בפורים יש ריקודים, ויש לנו משלוח מנות, ויש לנו סעודה, וזה למטה. זה בעולם הגשמי. זו כל הנקודה, לפחות מההתחלה, לפחות בממד של בין אדם לחברו. זו כל הנקודה.
מרצה:
כמו שהרמב"ם אומר, עיקר שמחה, הרמב"ם אומר, פירושו ממש לשמח לב עניים ויתומים. זה מה שעושה, זה מה ששמחה היא. שמחה פירושה להיות בן אדם טוב.
בין אם אתה מרגיש את זה ובין אם לא, זו בעיה קטנה, אבל זו לא הנקודה. שמחה היא לא הרגשה, שמחה היא עובדה. ואם אתה מתנהג כבן אדם כלפי אנשים אחרים, זו השמחה.
מרצה:
אז בקרוב, כולם צריכים לתת כסף למתנות לאביונים המקומיות שלהם, וזו תורה חסידית ישנה שצריך לתת בעצמך, וכולם שיהיה להם יום טוב שמח.
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כל שיעור הוא בעצם ספר שלם שנדחס לנקודת החידוש שלו. המשל: תלמיד חכם מגיע לחידוש (במקלחת), מוצא מקורות, בונה טיעון, מפרסם אחרי שנים, עובר ביקורת עמיתים, ובסופו של דבר נקודת החידוש מצטמצמת לחמש שורות באנציקלופדיה. השיעורים האלו מתחילים מהתקציר. כל אחד יכול להרחיב כל שיעור בודד לספר שלם, אבל מכיוון שממילא אף אחד לא קורא ספרים שלמים, הגרסה המרוכזת באה קודם.
השיעור של היום הוא "ספר חדש" שממשיך את הדיונים של השבועיים הקודמים. ההבנה (שהגיעה ביום ראשון, "במקלחת") היא שכל מה שנדון עד כה מחובר זה לזה.
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הבעיה המרכזית היא היחס בין פנימיות לחיצוניות — נושא שכולם מזכירים (במיוחד סביב פורים) אבל מעטים מגדירים בבהירות.
- מצד אחד: גישת הרמב"ם נראית מאוד *חיצונית* — ממוקדת במעשים. הקריאה החסידית ברמב"ם היא קריאה שגויה; הרמב"ם עוסק באמת בחיצוניות/מעשים.
- מצד שני: הרמב"ם לא היה "ליטוואק מודרני" שמצמצם את היהדות לביצוע מכני. המסגרת כאן מדגישה *להיות אדם*, לא להיות מכונה שמייצרת תוצרים — וזה נשמע כמו דבר *פנימי*.
השאלה המרכזית: מהי ה*נקודה* (הנקודה המהותית) של יהודי / של אדם טוב? האם היא בפנים או בחוץ? האם זו בעיית ביצה-ותרנגולת (מאיפה מתחילים?) או בעיה הגדרתית (מהי *טובה*)?
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הנקודה המרכזית של השבוע שעבר הייתה שיש שאלה אמיתית מה זה אומר להיות "טוב מבפנים". יש שני דברים שונים ש"להיות טוב מבפנים" יכול לפירושם. (זה מסומן כ*דרשה* — מסגרת יותר דרשנית — לפני שחוזרים ל"מציאות".)
שמועס בשבת על המשכן טען שהמשכן צריך להיות *לפני ולפנים* (פנימי), בציטוט תורה מאחרון שזה אומר *לשמה* (לשם הדבר עצמו / בכוונה טובה), שדורש *נדבת הלב*. זו קריאה שגויה לחלוטין ברש"י — "אין שייכות". המסקנה שהשראת השכינה שורה לא במבנה הפיזי אלא ב*לב* לא עונה על השאלה אלא מחמירה אותה: למה הלב שלך עדיף על בניין? אף אחד לא מסביר את זה. ובכל זאת יש "משהו יהודי" מאחורי האינטואיציה — רק לא ברור מה זה באמת אומר.
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מה זה אומר בשפה פשוטה כשאנשים אומרים הפנימיות של יהודי, נדבת הלב, העצמי הפנימי?
"פנימי" אומר ששום דבר *מחוץ* ל"אתה" לא הופך אותך לטוב או רע — ה"אתה" הוא מה שהופך אותך לטוב. משל: אדם מוכשר שנכפה עליו מדי שוטר והוא גרוע בתפקיד שוטר — הוא לא אדם *רע* — יש לו 150 כישרונות אחרים (קומיקאי, סופר, מוזיקאי). ה"חיצוני" הוא המדים/התפקיד שלא תואמים מי שהוא באמת.
1. מדים זה לא חיצוניות במובן הרלוונטי — זה סתם חוסר התאמה, לא הבחנה בין פנים לחוץ. לומר שאתה "באמת" מוזיקאי ולא שוטר זה רק לומר שהכישרונות שלך נמצאים במקום אחר.
2. כישרונות הם לא "אתה" במובן פנימי עמוק — הם דברים *לגבי*ך, אולי "מקרים" אריסטוטליים. (התלמיד מתנגד ומציע שכישרונות *מרכיבים* את האדם כמו מרכיבים שעושים עוגה, ולכן כל אדם ייחודי. זה מסומן כ"קצת לא נכון" אבל לא נרדף.)
3. שני התפקידים כוללים פעולה חיצונית — להיות מוזיקאי זה משהו שאתה *עושה* עם הגוף; אנשים שומעים את זה. אם אף אחד לא שומע את המוזיקה שלך, אתה "כמו עץ שנופל ביער". ה"עצמי" המוזיקלי הפנימי הוא רק *יכולת* — ויכולת לעשות *מה*? לנגן מוזיקה, שזו פעולה. "להיות טוב *בעצם*" (מהותית/מטבעו) מתמוטט לכלום בלי העשייה.
4. משל השולחן: שולחן שמשתמשים בו לחסום דלת הוא *שימוש לא נכון*: הוא לא מתאים למטרה הזו, הצורה והמבנה שלו לא תואמים את הפונקציה. באופן דומה, אדם שהכישרונות שלו לא מתאימים לתפקידו יתקשה ויסבול. זה אמיתי ונכון, אבל זה פשוט המושג של תפקוד נכון מול שימוש לא נכון — לא פנימיות מול חיצוניות.
כשאנשים אומרים "מבפנים כל יהודי הוא טוב" או "כל אדם טוב מבפנים", למה הם באמת מתכוונים? האם הם מתכוונים שלאנשים יש נטיות טובות? לחלקם יש, לחלקם לא. האם הם מתכוונים שלבני אדם *ככאלה* יש נטיות טובות? מה זה בכלל אומר? האינטואיציה הנפוצה לגבי טובה פנימית עדיין לא קיבלה תוכן קוהרנטי. תשובה שגויה (פנימי = התאמה לנטיות/כישרונות שלך) סולקה מהדרך.
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ההצעה שפנימיות/חיצוניות ממופה על מה שדבר באמת הוא (טבעו/תכליתו) מול מה שאפשר להשתמש בו אבל הוא לא מתאים לכך היא "וורט אמיתי" (נקודה תקפה) אבל לא הסבר להבחנה בין פנימיות לחיצוניות שאנשים מפעילים. "בני אדם טובים בלהיות בני אדם" זה או טריוויאלי או חסר משמעות — זה לא הופך מישהו לאדם *טוב*. המושגים של לשמה, כוונה טובה, רצון טוב — אלה לא אותו דבר כמו נקודת ההתאמה. הם משהו אחר לגמרי. הדרשה על טובה פנימית נשארת כמעט בלתי מובנת — "תן לי משל, מה אני אמור *לעשות* בגלל הדרשה שלך?"
תלמיד מעלה את הנקודה לגבי לראות מישהו "צולע" ולהיות מסוגל לתקן — למה לא לתקן את מי שנותן את הדרשה? זה מתחבר למצוות תוכחה אבל נדחה כדיון נפרד ומורכב. שיעור ניתן בנושא זה במונסי בראש חודש, שעסק בברייתא אחרת. [מסומן לחזור אליו מאוחר יותר.]
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*יסוד* מרכזי: לא ייתכן שכולם לפני תאריך מסוים היו משוגעים, וגם לא שכולם אחרי התאריך הזה משוגעים. משהו מתמיה קרה — בין אם ב-1772 או ב-1992 או מתי ש"המודרניות" הגיעה — שגרם לאנשים להתחיל לחשוב בדרכים חדשות. השיח על פנימיות/חיצוניות הוא דוגמה: אנשים אומרים את הדרשות האלה כבר כ-400 שנה, אבל אם חוזרים אחורה יותר, אף אחד לא אומר אותן. המקורות הקדומים יותר (כשקוראים אותם בעיון, "בפשטות") לא באמת תומכים בקריאה הזו, למרות שאנשים מקרינים אותה אחורה לתוכם. המשימה היא להבין גם מה הדרשות האלה אומרות לאנשים שאומרים אותן וגם איזה שינוי היסטורי/מושגי גרם להן להתחיל להיראות משמעותיות.
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תלמיד מציע ניסיון מתוחכם יותר: עולם המחשבות שונה מהותית מעולם הדברים (חומר גלם, אובייקטים חיצוניים). אם המודל האונטולוגי הבסיסי שלך בנוי סביב "דברים בעולם", אז מחשבות לא מתאימות למודל הזה. צריך למצוא מודל למחשבות שלא ניתן לצמצם לדברים. זה מכריח אותך להניח חושב — מישהו שהמחשבות "שייכות" לו. החושב הזה חייב להיות שונה באופן קיצוני מעולם הדברים. המהלך הקל ביותר: למי שהמחשבות שייכות — זה "אתה", העצמי הפנימי. זה יוצר את ההבחנה בין פנים לחוץ: החושב (פנימי, פנימיות) מול עולם הדברים (חיצוני, חיצוניות).
זה מבטיח — "אנחנו הולכים לאיזשהו מקום" — אבל התלמיד קפץ צעד אחד קדימה בהתקדמות המתוכננת. *מצב השאלה* צריך קודם להיות מבוסס במלואו לפני שעוברים להסברים.
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"א קאפ קען מען נישט איבערשטעלן" — אי אפשר לתת למישהו ראש חדש. אפשר לתת למישהו כלים, חפצים, עזרה — אבל לא דרך חדשה לראות את העולם. רבי יכול לעשות את זה, אבל לא ביום, בחודש או בשנה. להפוך את השאלה על פנימיות ל*מובנת* בכלל עבור נותן הדרשה ידרוש לשבור כמויות עצומות של קרח מושגי.
המשל ההודי הקלאסי: עיוורים נוגעים כל אחד בחלק אחר של פיל ומתארים אותו אחרת (זנב = חבל מפוזפז, חדק = צינור, רגל = עמוד). כל אחד אומר אמת *מנקודת המבט שלו*. מי שרואה רואה את הפיל כולו. פרספקטיביזם אומר שהמבטים החלקיים של אנשים הם *חלקית נכונים*, לא פשוט שגויים. מטרת הפילוסופיה היא לפקוח את העיניים — לראות מה שבאמת קיים. ואם אתה רואה מה שבאמת קיים, אתה חייב *בהכרח* להיות מסוגל להסביר את הטעויות של כולם.
הקושיות של רבי עקיבא איגר (שאלות בהלכה) הן תמיד קושיות *טובות* — בלתי ניתנות למענה אם מקבלים את כל ההנחות שלו (שלעתים לא נאמרות במפורש). אי אפשר "לענות" עליהן בתירוץ מעורפל (תירוץ דחוק). הפתרון האמיתי הוא לפרק את השאלה — להראות שההנחות הבסיסיות יוצרות עולם שבו השאלה עולה, אבל המציאות היא "משהו אחר לגמרי", כך שהקושיא או לא מתחילה או לא מסתיימת. העיקרון של רבי נחמן: אין עולם שבו גם הקושיא היא קושיא טובה *וגם* התירוץ הוא תירוץ טוב. אחד מהם חייב לוותר.
אם הפילוסופיה שלך לא מסבירה למה כולם "משוגעים" — ובדיוק *באיזה אופן* הם משוגעים — אז ההבנה שלך חסרה. הבנה אמיתית של העולם חייבת להסביר את הטעויות של אחרים, לא רק לטעון את נכונות עצמה. לראות את התמונה המלאה כולל בהכרח הסבר לתמונות החלקיות ולמה הן מטעות.
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ספר המיועד לנוער להגן על יהדות טוען: אם יש אלוקים ← הוא ברא את העולם מסיבה ← לכל דבר יש משמעות. אם לא ← לשום דבר אין משמעות ← אין סיבה ללכת לישיבה. זה 100% נכון בתוכן אבל הפוך בסדר הלוגי.
חלום הומוריסטי על "משרד המשמעות" (משרד המשמעות) ממשלתי ששולח משאיות של משמעות למקומות שחסרה בהם. קומוניסטים רוצים חלוקה שוויונית של משמעות; קפיטליסטים רוצים שמשמעות תחולק לפי זכות. זה מתחבר לתופעה העכשווית האמיתית של "משבר המשמעות" — תחושה נרחבת שלחיים חסרה משמעות.
זה לא "אם אלוקים קיים, אז משמעות קיימת." זה "אם משמעות קיימת, אז אלוקים קיים." משמעות היא לא משהו שאלוקים *מוסיף* לעולם חסר משמעות. אלא, משמעות (ה"בשביל-מה" / תכלית) היא מטבעם של הדברים, ומתוך כך מגיעים לאלוקים.
זה חוזר לסוקרטס ולאברהם אבינו: התובנה שאי אפשר להסביר מה דבר *הוא* בלי להסביר למה הוא *מיועד*. שולחן לא ניתן להבנה בלי התייחסות למה שולחנות מיועדים. זו תכליתיות (טלאולוגיה) — אבל המונח המועדף הוא "משמעות", שמוגדרת כזהה: משמעות = למה דבר מיועד.
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- התכלית (מטרה/שלמות) של דבר היא יותר מגדירה את מה שהוא מאשר הרכבו החומרי, סיבתו הפועלת, או מצבו הנוכחי.
- לדברים חיים במיוחד, צורה, תכלית ומהות מתכנסים — מה שדבר חי *הוא*, למה הוא *מיועד*, ומה הוא *הולך להיות* הם אותו דבר.
- תאולוגיה (מה אלוקים הוא / התכליתיות האולטימטיבית), פיזיקה (מה דברים הם), ואתיקה (הבאת דברים לשלמותם) הם אותו סוג של חקירה.
- ההבחנה של דייוויד יום בין "יש" ל"צריך" (מה שנקרא הכשל הנטורליסטי) היא שטות במסגרת הזו, כי "צריך" הוא פשוט השלמת ה"יש".
- ספר משלי משווה ידיעה לטובה — לא בגלל שידיעת עובדות הופכת אותך למוסרי, אלא בגלל שלדעת באמת מה דבר הוא כולל לדעת את השלמתו/תפקודו הנכון. "להיות טוב" ו"לפעול נכון" הם אותו דבר.
קיומן של תכליות בטבע לא אומר לך אוטומטית מה התכליות האלה. פרנסיס בייקון ביצע את הכשל של ערבוב *קיומה* של תכליתיות עם *ידיעת* מה התכליות הן. מדע אמיתי, כשמבינים אותו נכון, הוא חקירת מה כל דבר *מיועד*. הקדמת הרמב"ם לפירוש המשנה על שלמה המלך: כשהכתוב אומר ששלמה "ידע כל עץ", הכוונה שהוא ידע למה כל עץ *מיועד* — התכלית שלו. זו אותו סוג ידיעה כמו ידיעת תורה, שהיא "ידיעת הטוב לכל דבר". אם הטוב קודם סיבתית לקיום החלקי של דברים שנוטים אליו, זה מה ש"תורה היא כלל העולם" אומר.
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הסתייגות חשובה: זה לא רק אירוע היסטורי. הדחף האנטי-תכליתי תמיד היה קיים — זה מה שאברהם אבינו נלחם נגדו (עבודה זרה). ה*יצר הרע* הוא בדיוק הנטייה הזו לראות דברים אחרת. צמצום זה להשתלשלות היסטורית גרידא, כאילו זה היה רק שינוי תרבותי מקרי, חייב להימנע.
ובכל זאת, הגרסה ההיסטורית:
- פרנסיס בייקון (*נובום אורגנום* — "מדע חדש") ומאוחר יותר דייוויד יום ואחרים הכריזו שאין "בשביל-מה" בעולם (*אין בעולם תכלית*).
- לעולם יש סיבות אבל לא משמעויות. הם הגדירו מחדש "סיבה" כך שתוציא סיבתיות תכליתית/סופית.
- ההבדל המעשי: במקום להסביר עץ כמשהו שנוטה להיות עץ מלא (טבעו הוא המסלול שלו לקראת שלמות), הם אומרים שעץ הוא רק מה שקורה כשכוחות שונים דוחפים חומר לתצורה מסוימת. אין "להיות עץ" כקטגוריה אמיתית — רק תוצאה מקרית של כוחות מכניים.
- זו לא דרך טבעית להבין דברים — רוב האנשים הרגילים חושבים באופן טבעי במונחים של תכליות בטבע ורק "נפרצים" מזה על ידי חינוך מדעי.
האובססיה המודרנית להיסטוריה כהסבר היא תוצאה ישירה של הכחשת סיבות סופיות וצוריות. אם הסיבה האמיתית היחידה היא סיבה פועלת/חומרית ("מאיפה משהו בא"), אז להסביר כל דבר זה פשוט לעקוב אחרי ההיסטוריה שלו. ההשקפה הנכונה: מה שדבר *הוא* מוסבר על ידי לאן הוא *הולך* (תכליתו), לא מאיפה הוא בא.
ההוגים שנמתחת עליהם ביקורת חכמים יותר ממה שההצגה הזו גורמת להם להישמע. יש סיבות אמיתיות שהגיעו לעמדותיהם, שצריך ללמוד ברצינות. אבל זה "רק הביקורת על הספר, לא הספר".
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אם אין סיבות סופיות בטבע, התאולוגיה מוגבלת באופן קיצוני לכמה עמדות אפשריות בלבד:
וא *שד*, לא אלוקים
ה"מתכנן האינטליגנטי" של תנועת התכנון האינטליגנטי הוא לא אלוקי ישראל. הוא, לכל היותר, *נוּס*, *מלאך*, *ספירה* — אינטליגנציה, אבל לא "האחד". אם לטבע אין תכליות מטבעו, אז הדרך היחידה להכניס תכלית לעולם היא להניח תודעה חיצונית ש*כופה* תכליות על דברים מבחוץ — כמו שנגר כופה שולחניות על עץ (לעץ יש עציות מטבעו; לשולחנות לא). זה הופך את אלוקים ליש עם תוכניות "כמו שיש לנו תוכניות", וזה *הגשמה*. אלוקים כזה גם *צריך* דברים (העולם משרת אותו), מה שאומר שהוא לא באמת אלוקים. בחורי ישיבה שעובדים מתכנן אינטליגנטי עובדים אלוה שקר בעל גוף.
בהינתן הכחשת תכליות אימננטיות בטבע, יש בדיוק שלוש עמדות תאולוגיות אפשריות במודרניות:
1. דאיזם — אלוקים הוא השען הגדול (עמדת ניוטון). אלוקים עשה את העולם אבל העולם פועל בעצמו דרך סיבות מכניות/פועלות בלבד. גרסה נוספת היא דאיזם עם ניסים — אלוקים הוא השען שמדי פעם *שובר* את השעון כדי להתערב. זה מה ש"רוב האנשים האורתודוקסים המודרניים מאמינים" — "שיטה מאוד מוזרה".
2. אתאיזם — אין אלוקים כלל (ו"הרבה אנשים דתיים הם גם" למעשה אתאיסטים).
3. פנתאיזם — אלוקים *הוא* העולם עצמו (*חסידות*, באפיון מצמצם שמוכר כפשטני מדי). הכל הוא אלוקים. אבל אם מבינים את זה חומרית, עולה השאלה האם אלוקים הזה הוא חומרי.
כל אדם דתי מודרני (חוץ מהדובר, בחצי צחוק) נופל לאחת משלוש הקטגוריות האלה. כל השלוש הן תוצאות של הכחשת תכליתיות בטבע.
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אם לדברים ולמעשים בעולם אין תכליות מטבעם, אז לשום מעשה אין משמעות כשלעצמו. אי אפשר להסתכל על מעשה או על דבר ולהסיק ממה *שהוא* למה הוא *מיועד*. זו "הדעה הבסיסית של כל האנשים המודרניים" (שמושוות גם ל"מה שהיצר הרע סובר" ו"מה שהשטן טען מהיום הראשון").
יש אנומליה בולטת: לבני אדם יש כוונות. זה החריג הקרטזיאני — הכל הוא "התפשטות" (חומר בתנועה) חוץ מהתודעה האנושית, שיש לה את התכונה המוזרה הנקראת *כוונתיות* (אינטנציונליות): היכולת להיות *על אודות* משהו אחר, *להתכוון* למשהו, להיות *מכוון לקראת* משהו.
ניתוח הכוונתיות:
- כוונה = להיות על אודות משהו אחר / להיות מכוון לקראת משהו אחר. כשאני רוצה משהו, המצב המנטלי שלי הוא *על אודות* הדבר ההוא. כשאני מתכנן, אני מכוון *לקראת* מצב עתידי.
- זה בלתי מובן בתמונה הפיזית המודרנית. אי אפשר לראות "אודותיות". אי אפשר להסביר אותה על ידי סיבות דוחפות (פועלות) או סיבות מושכות (חומריות). אפשר להסביר אותה רק על ידי סיבתיות צורית או סופית — שהיא בדיוק מה שהוכחש.
- סיבתיות סופית היא בדיוק זה: להיות מכוון לקראת משהו אחר, לכוון למשהו אחר באופן אמיתי.
- המצב העתידי שאני מכוון אליו עדיין לא קיים, אז הוא לא יכול *לדחוף* אותי. הוא קיים "רק בראש שלי".
בעיית הגוף-נפש המפורסמת בפילוסופיה הקרטזיאנית היא לא חידה עצמאית כלשהי — היא תוצאה ישירה של הכחשת כוונתיות/תכליתיות בדברים חיצוניים. ברגע שהטבע מופשט מכל "אודותיות" ו"מכוונות", המקום היחיד שכוונתיות שורדת בו הוא בתודעה האנושית, ואז היחס בין התודעה (תכליתית במהותה) לגוף (מוגדר כלא-תכליתי) הופך לבלתי ניתן להסבר.
במסגרת האריסטוטלית, הטוב האנושי היה פשוט הדרך הטובה ביותר לאדם להיות — המלאות או השלמות של האנושיות, הנקראת *אאודאימוניה*. הטוב האנושי לא היה שונה קטגורית מכל טוב אחר — כשם שהטוב של עץ הוא להיות עץ ממומש במלואו, הטוב של אדם הוא להיות אדם ממומש במלואו.
ברגע שהתכליתיות מוכחשת, המושג הזה של הטוב האנושי אובד. "הטוב ביותר" כבר לא קטגוריה אמיתית בטבע. מה שנשאר הוא שתי אפשרויות:
1. שיריים של המושג הישן — שברים של הרעיון של אושר/פריחה, אבל בלי הבסיס המטאפיזי.
2. משהו שבמובן מסוים עולה על מה שהיה קודם — מרומז אבל עדיין לא מוסבר במלואו.
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יש רק שתי מערכות אתיות במודרניות הקלאסית: תועלתנות ודאונטולוגיה. האפשרות השלישית — אתיקת מידות — היא הנכונה, אבל היא לא המצאה מודרנית; היא המסגרת האריסטוטלית המקורית שהמודרניות נטשה.
המהלך המרכזי: גם אחרי הכחשת תכלית אנושית אובייקטיבית, אנשים עדיין *מרגישים* שמחים או עצובים, עדיין חווים הנאה וכאב. אז התועלתנות (עמדת בנתם, שניטשה אהב ללעוג לה) אומרת: הטוב הוא הנאה/הרגשת אושר. זה מה ששורד אחרי הרס האושר האובייקטיבי — תחושה סובייקטיבית, פנימית.
השפלת ה"אושר": במסגרת האריסטוטלית, אושר (*אאודאימוניה*) פירושו להיות סוג האדם הטוב ביותר — מצב אובייקטיבי. במסגרת התועלתנית, אושר מצומצם לתחושות מסוימות. המילה זהה, אבל המשמעות רוקנה.
הפיתול האלטרואיסטי וחולשתו: הדוניזם טהור נשמע ברור שלא מספיק, אז התועלתנות מוסיפה: צריך לדאוג לאושר של *כולם*. אבל למה שיהיה לי אכפת מהרגשות של אנשים אחרים? אין סיבה עקרונית בתוך המערכת. האלמנט האלטרואיסטי שאול ממסורת מוסרית ישנה יותר (*מסורה*) אבל אין לו בסיס במסגרת התועלתנית עצמה.
בעיית מכונת החוויה של נוזיק: אם אושר הוא רק להרגיש טוב, אז מכונה שמזריקה סמים ליצור הנאה מתמדת צריכה להיות הטוב האולטימטיבי. תועלתנים "סיבכו את עצמם בקשרים" בניסיון להסביר למה זה לא יהיה טוב.
הדוניזם מודרני מוזר יותר מהדוניזם העתיק: הדוניסטים העתיקים (כמו האפיקוראים) עדיין האמינו במשהו שנקרא "הטוב" — הם רק זיהו אותו עם הנאה. הדוניסטים המודרניים מכחישים שיש דבר כזה "הטוב" בכלל; הם רק יודעים שדברים מסוימים גורמים להם *להרגיש* טוב. השפה הזו ("זה גורם לי להרגיש טוב") נפוצה מאוד — שומעים אותה אפילו ב*ישיבות*, שם אנשים אומרים "אם תורה גורמת לך להרגיש טוב, כדאי שתלמד תורה". זה סובייקטיביזם טהור.
רגש מוסרי כ"עוד רגש": הניסיון לבסס אתיקה על רגש מוסרי — תחושה מיוחדת, חוש מוסרי או מצפון, שאומר לנו מה נכון (יום והמסורת הבריטית) — מצמצם את כל הטענות המוסריות לביטויי רגש. אתיקה הופכת ל: "אני מרגיש טוב כשאתה מרגיש טוב". זה אמוטיביזם.
הביקורת של אנסקום על המצפון: המאמר של אליזבת אנסקום "פילוסופיה מוסרית מודרנית" מבקר את מושג המצפון (המזוהה עם ג'וזף באטלר ואחרים). הרעיון שלכל אחד יש מצפן מוסרי פנימי שאומר לו אוטומטית מה טוב הוא פשוט לא נכון — היא מכירה אנשים שמבפנים רוצים להרוג את כולם. השיח הזה על "מצפון" היה נפוץ בתקופה מסוימת, כולל בקרב הוגים יהודיים כמו הרב הירש.
ההבחנה בין רגש למחשבה: במסגרת הזו, אין הבחנה אמיתית בין "רגש" מוסרי ל"מחשבה" מוסרית: מחשבה היא *על אודות* משהו, אבל אם אין דבר כזה טובה אובייקטיבית, אז "מחשבה" מוסרית היא לא על אודות שום דבר אמיתי, ולכן מתמוטטת לרגש גרידא. רגשות, מעצם הגדרתם, הם לא על אודות שום דבר — הם רק מצבים פנימיים. אז רגש מוסרי, לא משנה כמה מלובש, הוא רק עוד רגש בין רגשות, בלי סיבה להעדיף אותו על כל רגש אחר.
תלמיד מאתגר את הטענה שאינטואיציות מוסריות הן "רק רגשות", ומציע הבחנה משמעותית בין תחושה לאינטואיציה מוסרית. זה נדחה בתוקף בתוך המסגרת המודרנית: אם אין טובה אובייקטיבית שמחשבה יכולה להיות *על אודותיה*, אז מה שנראה כמחשבה מוסרית הוא באמת רק רגש. לנקודת התלמיד יש משקל מסוים אבל דיון מורחב נדחה.
תלמיד מעלה את הנקודה שאפילו רוצחים כמו טד באנדי נראים "יודעים" שמה שהם עושים הוא לא בסדר — מה שמרמז על מצפן מוסרי אוניברסלי. מובעת ספקנות ("אני לא חושב שזה נכון"), אבל הטיעון העיקרי חשוב יותר: גם אם תחושה כזו קיימת באופן אוניברסלי, היא עדיין רק עוד רגש בלי מעמד אפיסטמי מיוחד.
המבנה המרכזי: דאונטולוגיה — ציות לחוק המוסרי — היא עמדת קאנט. בניגוד לתועלתנות, היא לא מבססת אתיקה על רגשות או הנאה אלא על הכרה בחוק מוסרי וציות לו באופן בלתי תלוי במה שאתה רוצה או מרגיש.
מיפוי על קהילות יהודיות:
- תועלתנות: אף אדם *פרום* רציני לא באמת מחזיק בזה.
- דאונטולוגיה: זה בעצם מה שכל ליטוואק אומר — אתיקה כציות לחוק/מצווה.
- חסידים: לפעמים נשמעים הדוניסטיים ("הרגש האמיתי שלך הוא ה'"), אבל זה אולי באמת קרוב יותר לאושר אובייקטיבי (ההשקפה האריסטוטלית) מאשר להדוניזם מודרני — שאלה מעניינת אבל לא פתורה.
המערכת הקאנטיאנית: כללים מוסריים הם מוחלטים, אוניברסליים, ונגזרים מתבונה טהורה. המבחן הוא אוניברסליזביליות — "מה היה קורה אם כולם היו עושים את זה?" אי אפשר לרצות באופן רציונלי עולם שבו כולם משקרים, כי אתה בעצמך רוצה לחיות בעולם של אמירת אמת. לכן שקר הוא לא בסדר. זה לא יחסי לתרבות, גאוגרפיה או נסיבות — תבונה היא תבונה בכל מקום.
היחס בין מעשה לטובה הופך לרחוק: במסגרת התכליתית הישנה, הקשר בין מעשה לטובה היה ישיר ופשוט — מעשים טובים מובילים דבר לקראת תכליתו הטבעית, מעשים רעים הורסים אותו. ה*דין* (המעמד ההלכתי/אונטולוגי) הוא במעשה עצמו, לא בכוונה. במסגרת הקאנטיאנית, ללא תכליות טבעיות, הטובה של מעשה הופכת להיות על הכוונה שמאחוריו — לפעול לשם החוק המוסרי, לא לשם אושר או רצון. זה הופך את היחס בין מעשה לטובה להרבה יותר רחוק ומופשט.
דאונטולוגיה בסופו של דבר מצביעה על אלוקים: חוק מוסרי שכופה את עצמו מבחוץ, שלא ניתן לצמצום לרגשות או רצונות, בעל סמכות מוחלטת — זה בסוף אלוקים. קאנט עצמו היה נוצרי והאמין באלוקים בחלקו בגלל המציאות המורגשת של החוק המוסרי. יש גרסאות אתאיסטיות, אבל הן מגיעות להנחת משהו שפונקציונלית שקול לאלוקים.
ביקורת: דאונטולוגיה היא גם סוג של אמוטיביזם: למרות שהיא טוענת שהיא על תבונה וחוק ולא על רגש, היא גם מגיעה בסוף לסוג של אמוטיביזם — כי ה"הכרה" בחוק המוסרי, תחושת החובה, היא עצמה נחווית כסוג של רגש (משהו שנכפה עליך מבחוץ). *סוג* אחר של רגש מהרגש החם והנעים של התועלתנות, אבל בסופו של דבר עדיין רגש.
שאלה האם מקור החובה המוסרית במסגרת הקאנטיאנית הוא החברה נדחית — חברה זה רק עוד אנשים. החובה חייבת לבוא ממשהו טרנסצנדנטי. שאלה על רלטיביזם תרבותי ("אם אתה חי באפריקה...") נדחית כבעיה נפרדת שפוגעת בכל המערכות.
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הוצאת המשמעות המרכזית של המסגרת האתית הפוסט-תכליתית לחיים דתיים:
- אם טובה מוגדרת כציות לחוק המוסרי (או לרצון ה'), אז הקשר בין מעשה לטובה הוא פנימי לחלוטין — הוא שוכן בסובייקטיביות האנושית, בכוונתיות, ברצון, ב"אודותיות".
- בעולם הפוסט-תכליתי, בני אדם הם ה*דברים היחידים* שיש להם כוונתיות או "אודותיות". ליקום אין רגשות, אין תכליות, אין מכוונות. רק לבני אדם יש את ה"דבר המוזר, הבלתי מוסבר, הקסום הזה".
- לכן, הדבר היחיד שיכול להיות טוב מוסרית הוא הכוונה האנושית להיות טוב. המעשה עצמו, מנותק מכוונה, אין לו משקל מוסרי.
- זה מה שמערכות חסידיות מסוימות לקחו כ*פשוט* (מובן מאליו): המקום היחיד שאלוקים נמצא בו, או הדבר הטוב היחיד, הוא הכוונה להיות טוב. זו "סוג של כוונה ריקה" — ציות לחוק המוסרי — אבל הקשר בין החוק לאדם קיים רק בתודעה.
ניסוח מפתח: "הדבר היחיד שבאמת טוב הוא כולו בלב האנושי, ובתודעה האנושית, ובכוונה האנושית, בנשמה האנושית."
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- *מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה* ("מתוך שעושה שלא לשמה, בא לעשות לשמה") הוא, עבור הרמב"ם, התהליך הרגיל של אימון/הרגל מוסרי.
- מי שלומד תורה בשביל כסף עדיין עושה משהו באמת טוב, כי טובה היא תכונה של המעשה עצמו (לימוד תורה הוא טוב אובייקטיבית). האדם אינו שלם — דעתו לא תופסת למה זה טוב, אז הוא לא עושה את זה *לשמה* — אבל למעשה נשארת טובה אמיתית.
- זה *דין* (תכונה הלכתית/אונטולוגית) במעשה, לא רק באדם.
- המעבר משלא לשמה ללשמה הוא טבעי וצפוי דרך הרגל.
- ברגע שלמעשים אין טובה מטבעם והטובה שוכנת רק בכוונה, אז לעשות דבר טוב מסיבה לא נכונה הוא חסר ערך לחלוטין — כפי שאמר הקוצקער רבי.
- הספרות החסידית פותחת באופן עקבי בטענה מתמיהה: "שמענו ש*מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה*, אבל זה לא עובד. הניסיון שלנו מראה שהליטוואקים מעולם לא הגיעו ללשמה." לכן צריך להוסיף חסידות.
- טענה זו עולה בדיוק בגלל שהתאוריה הבסיסית שגרמה לזה לעבוד (אתיקה תכליתית, הרגל) נהרסה. ברגע שטובה היא רק פנימית, אין מנגנון שבו תרגול חיצוני מוביל באופן טבעי לשינוי פנימי.
- הגישה של הבעש"ט — שכשסוף סוף מגיעים ללשמה, מעלים למפרע (*מעלה*) את השלא לשמה — היא מסגרת שונה לחלוטין מזו של הרמב"ם, שאצלו השלא לשמה כבר היה טוב באמת כשלעצמו.
- בהבנה העתיקה/ימי-ביניימית: מי שלומד שלא לשמה *באמת לומד אחרת*. הוא לומד רק כל עוד משלמים לו; כשהכסף נגמר, הוא מפסיק. ההבדל נראה במעשה, לא רק בראש.
- בפרשנות החסידית: שלא לשמה הוא *כולו בראש*. אפילו ללמוד להנאתך, או בגלל שאתה אישית מכיר שזה טוב, נחשב שלא לשמה — כי הלשמה האמיתי היחיד הוא לעשות את זה אך ורק בגלל שה' רוצה בכך, בלי שום אינטרס אישי.
- זה מוביל לעולם שבו תכלית נכפית כולה מבחוץ על ידי אלוקים על עולם חסר תכלית מטבעו. העולם "ריק לחלוטין מתכלית
; רק אלוקים נותן לו תכלית, אבל הוא לא באמת נותן אפילו" — יש לו תכלית רק במובן שאלוקים אוהב את זה.
השלכה תאולוגית מסומנת: המסגרת הזו היא או פנתאיזם, *הגשמה* (האנשה/הגשמת אלוקים), או "אלוקים דמוי-אדם" — כי היא דורשת מאלוקים שיהיו לו העדפות באופן שמשקף סובייקטיביות אנושית.
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טענה נועזת וגורפת הפתוחה לאתגר:
- כוונה היא *דין* במעשה — תיאור של *מה שאתה עושה*, לא תיאור של המצב המנטלי הפנימי שלך.
- זה פותר את רוב הקשיים בסוגיית *מצוות צריכות כוונה* (האם מצוות דורשות כוונה) וב*מלאכת מחשבת אסרה תורה* (מלאכה מכוונת בהלכות שבת).
- כוונה עונה על השאלה: "למה אתה עושה את זה?" — לא "מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה?"
- זה על הכיוון הכללי והתכלית של חייך ומעשיך ("מה יש בראש שלך כל היום"), לא על מה שאתה חושב במודע בכל מיקרו-שנייה.
- ברוב הספרים החסידיים, כוונה, לשמה, ומונחים קשורים פירושם: מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה — המצב המנטלי המודע שלך ברגע המעשה.
- זה מוביל לנוהגים כמו ההכרזה לפני קריאת המגילה ש"כולם יכוונו לצאת ידי חובה" — מה שהוא קצת אבסורדי. אם באת לבית הכנסת לשמוע את המגילה, בשביל מה אחר אתה עושה את זה? השאלה "מה אני צריך לכוון בראש?" עולה רק אם כוונה היא על תוכן מנטלי רגעי ולא על תכלית המעשה.
- הוראת הרמב"ם שכל מעשיך יהיו לשם שמים (למשל, לאכול כדי שיהיה לך כוח ללמוד) אינה על לחשוב מחשבות מסוימות בזמן האכילה.
- זה על ה*סיבה* שאתה אוכל — התשובה ל"למה אתה עושה את זה?" — שהיא עובדה על מבנה חייך, לא על המצב המנטלי שלך ליד שולחן האוכל.
- ההבחנה הזו פותרת את "הסתירה של רב חיים ברמב"ם" וקשיים רבים אחרים.
- החזון איש ניסה לנסח משהו דומה אבל חסרה לו המסגרת המושגית.
מה שיש בתודעה שלך חשוב מאוד — אבל לא בגלל ה*דין* של כוונה. אלא, בגלל שהתודעה שלך היא מעשה בפני עצמה. לחשוב הוא עצמו צורה של עשייה. החשיבות של ריכוז מנטלי היא אמיתית, אבל היא נובעת ממקור אחר מהקטגוריה ההלכתית של כוונה. אלה שתי סיבות נפרדות, וערבובן מעוות את שתיהן.
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שלוש הקטגוריות מנוסחות מחדש:
- סתם מעשה — מעשה פשוט, לא רפלקטיבי
- לשמה — מעשה שנעשה לתכליתו הנכונה (איכות של המעשה)
- שלא לשמה — מעשה שנעשה לתכלית לא נכונה (גם איכות של המעשה)
מכיוון שבני אדם פועלים עם התודעה שלהם, כוונה מעורבת באופן טבעי — אבל היא לא *דין* עצמאי במה שיש בראש שלך.
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אנשים מודרניים לא יכולים לדמיין טובה ששוכנת במקום אחר מאשר בכוונה. לאחר שאיבדו את האמונה שלעולם החיצוני יש טובה אמיתית (טובה תכליתית), הם נאלצים למקם את כל הטובה בפנים. זה מוביל לאבסורדים:
- "כולם רוצים להיות טובים" — אבל לרצות להיות טוב הוא חסר משמעות אם טובה היא רק ברצייה. לרצות פירושו לרצות לעשות.
- אם טובה היא פנימית לחלוטין, אז מישהו ש*רוצה* לעשות טוב אבל מעולם לא באמת עושה שום דבר טוב עדיין נחשב "אדם טוב" — מה שמוזר.
זה לא בלבול גרידא אלא מסקנה מאולצת: ברגע שמכחישים טובה בעולם החיצוני/האמיתי, *חייבים* למקם אותה במצב הפנימי.
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המחלוקת בין נפש החיים לתניא (או המסורות שלהם) על מה *לשמה* אומר היא תוצאה ישירה של אובדן החשיבה התכליתית — אובדן האמונה שהעולם עצמו הוא *לשמה* (תכליתי).
ברגע שהאמונה הזו נעלמת, אתה נדחק לאחת משתי אפשרויות:
1. כל הלשמה הוא בראש שלך (עמדה מסוג התניא) — טובה היא במצב הפנימי/רוחני.
2. הכל בגלל שה' אמר כך (עמדה מסוג נפש החיים) — טובה היא בציות לצו האלוקי, בעצם מסגרת דאונטולוגית.
אם הולכים עם אפשרות 1 (הכל בראש), מתמודדים עם בעיות נוספות ומגיעים לומר "הראש שלך הוא גם אלוקים" ומהלכים מיסטיים דומים. אבל הסיבה השורשית של כל המחלוקת היא אותו דבר: היעלמות הטובה התכליתית בעולם האמיתי.
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המאמר המפורסם שהקב"ה מצרף מחשבה טובה למעשה לא אומר שלשבת בחדר ולחשוב מחשבות טובות נחשב כמעשה. אלא:
- הכוונה היא לאדם שיש לו נטייה ממשית לעשיית טוב — עושה קבוע — שנמנע ממנו מבחוץ לפעול (המקרה של הגמרא של *נאנס ולא עשה* — נאלץ/נמנע ולא עשה).
- אדם כזה עדיין נחשב טוב כי הוא באמת עושה; משהו חיצוני רק חסם אותו.
- אבל לזה יש גבולות: אם מעולם לא היית עושה, אי אפשר לטעון זכות על מחשבות טובות. ואפילו עושה לשעבר יאבד בסופו של דבר את המעמד אם יישאר לא פעיל מספיק זמן.
יש *מחלוקת* בין אריסטו לאפלטון בנקודה הזו. אריסטו היה אומר: אם מעולם לא היה לך כסף, מעולם לא היית *בעל צדקה* — אי אפשר להיות נדיב אם מעולם לא היו לך האמצעים. רק אם פעם היה לך כסף ועכשיו אין לך, העיקרון יכול לחול.
זו הסיבה שהרמב"ם אומר שהתורה חייבת להבטיח שפע חומרי — כי בלי משאבים (כולל גוף), אי אפשר באמת לקיים מצוות. הגאון מווילנא אמר את אותו דבר: צריך גוף כדי לקיים מצוות; רק לרצות לקיים אותן בלי גוף זה "לא מעניין".
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אפילו נשמה ללא גוף עושה דברים — חושבת, יודעת, אולי רוצה — ואלה פעולות (*מעשה*) אמיתיות של הנשמה. הטובה של *נשמה* ללא *גוף* היא לא שהיא חולמת או קיימת באופן פסיבי; היא פועלת דרך מחשבה.
זו הסיבה שמחשבה כמעשה ("מחשבה כמעשה") חלה: עבור הנשמה *כנשמה*, מחשבה היא הפעולה שלה. זה לא דבר "פנימי" במובן המודרני — זו העשייה החיצונית של הנשמה, הפעילות הראויה לה.
הרמב"ם ואחרים שמדגישים את החשיבות של מה ש"בתודעה שלך" לא מאשרים את ההשקפה הפנימיסטית המודרנית. הם אומרים שעבור התודעה כתודעה, לחשוב זה לעשות — זו הפעילות הראויה לסוג הזה של ישות.
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הבחנה מכרעת:
1. לחשוב כדי (תכנון) — אינסטרומנטלי; מכוון לפעולה עתידית. סוג חשיבה זה לא הגיוני בלי מעשה שבא אחריו. זו רק הכנה.
2. לחשוב על (התבוננות) — מחשבה שמסתיימת בחשיבה עצמה. היא השלמתה של עצמה. זה סוג החשיבה שיש לו ערך מהותי.
מסקנה חשובה מהמחשבה העתיקה: לחשוב על דברים זמניים/מעשיים לא נחשב כצורה הנעלה של חשיבה. לחשוב על *מעשה* (עניינים מעשיים) אין לו את ה*מעלה* של התבוננות אמיתית.
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טענה נועזה: תורה לשמה במובן הגבוה ביותר — ללמוד תורה לשמה — חלה רק על קבלה (נסתר/תורת הסוד), לא על *נגלה* (תורה הלכתית/גלויה).
הנימוק:
- נגלה (לימוד הלכתי — למשל, הט"ז, הב"ח) הוא תמיד משועבד למעשה. זו חכמה מעשית: מה לעשות כשמקרה מסוים מתעורר. זה "לחשוב כדי" — אינסטרומנטלי.
- אפילו הניתוח ההלכתי הגדול ביותר הוא בעל ערך רק *להלכה* — לשם ידיעת מה לעשות.
- נסתר/קבלה, לעומת זאת, מורכב מדברים שהנקודה שלהם היא לדעת אותם. הידיעה היא התכלית. זה "לחשוב על" — התבוננות שמשלימה את עצמה. זה לשמה אמיתי.
זה מה ש"כל ספר" אומר ומה שהרמב"ם מרמז — תורה לשמה במובנה המלא ביותר פירושה ללמוד דברים שהם תאוריה, שערכם הוא בידיעה עצמה.
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מנקודת המבט של תורה מעשית, אם אתה לומד הלכה ולא מתכנן לעשות מה שאתה לומד, זו צורה של שלא לשמה — "לימוד חיצוני", בלוף. המקרה הפרדיגמטי הוא דואג האדומי, שעליו נאמר *דרש, מוסיף על החטא* — הוא דרש תורה אבל זה הוסיף על חטאו. ללמוד את "הטריקים של העולם" (ידע הלכתי) בלי לתכנן לקיים אותם הופך אותך לגרוע יותר, לא טוב יותר — סוג של *דעת לאומות*, מתוחכם בידע אבל מושחת במעשה.
יש עיקרון נפרד שה"אור" שבתורה מושך באופן טבעי את האדם חזרה לטוב, אפילו בלי כוונה מפורשת. זו עובדה מעניינת על הטבע האנושי — שקיעה בלימוד הלכתי נוטה להפוך אותך ליותר זהיר בהלכה, אפילו אם לא התחלת עם התוכנית הזו. אבל זה מנגנון אחר מלשמה; זו השפעה פסיכולוגית טבעית. וזה לא עובד במקרה של דואג — כשמישהו לומד באופן פעיל בלי שום כיוון למעשה, העיקרון של *מתוך שלא לשמה* לא חל, והלימוד הופך אותו לגרוע יותר.
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המחשה חיה של איך *לשמה* מתפתח באופן טבעי:
- מישהו מתחיל ללמוד קבלה כי הוא חושב שזה יהיה "מגניב" או יהפוך אותו למקובל מקצועי (מהלך קריירה טוב).
- דרך תהליך הלימוד, הוא מתחיל לראות את הטובה הממשית של מה שהוא לומד.
- הוא מבין שללמוד קבלה עדיף על להיות מקובל — הלימוד עצמו הוא *תכי געשמאק* (באמת מענג/טוב).
- זה *לשמה* — וזה קורה באופן טבעי, לא דרך *עבודת ה'* מאולצת, כי אתה באמת מתחיל לראות את הטוב.
תלמיד שואל האם *געשמאק* הוא רק רגש. בהחלט לא (*חס ושלום*) — הכוונה היא לראות את הטוב האמיתי, לא לחוות חוויה רגשית נעימה.
מישהו שרוצה ללמוד תורה באופן אינסטרומנטלי בלבד (לעסקים, ל*רווח*) ולא להיות מעורב באמת צריך להתנגד באופן פעיל למשיכה הטבעית לקראת לשמה — כי אחרת הוא יתחיל באמת לאהוב את זה ולעשות את זה לשמה. הרבה אנשים שהתחילו ללמוד כהצעה עסקית נמשכו בסוף באמת.
מישהו שמתחיל ללמוד תורה או קבלה עם המוטיבציה של *שלא לשמה* של עשיית כסף מגלה לעתים קרובות שהלימוד עצמו הופך למרתק — הוא מתחיל באמת לאהוב את זה (*לשמה*) ואז באירוניה מפסיק להרוויח כסף כי הוא נוטש את הפעילויות הרווחיות מסחרית. המחשה טבעית לחלוטין, לא קסומה, של איך *שלא לשמה* מוביל ל*לשמה*.
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התכלית (הנקודה האולטימטיבית) של כל סדרת הטיעונים: פורים.
התורה החסידית הידועה שפורים מייצג את הרעיון שחיצוניות היא גם פנימיות — הגוף (*גוף*) הוא גם קדוש (*הייליק*), לא רק הנשמה (*נשמה*). חנוכה היה על *קיום המצוות* (קיום מצוות) — מלחמה רוחנית, קרב פנימי. פורים היה על עצם הקיום (*סתם להתקיים*).
- מה שאנשים באופן מקובל קוראים פנימיות — רגש פנימי עז, תשוקה רוחנית, להיות *פארקאכט* (שקוע רגשית עמוקות) — הוא בעצם מה שהתורה קוראת מחשבה לחוץ (מחשבה/כוונה חיצונית).
- לחוש רגשות סוערים כלפי תורה, לרצות אותה בנואש, לחוש אקסטזה רוחנית — אבל לא באמת לתכנן לעשות שום דבר — זה שיא החיצוניות, לא הפנימיות.
- לתכנן באמת לעשות משהו הוא מצב מנטלי שונה לחלוטין מלהיות שקוע רגשית. לשניים אין *שייכות* (אין קשר) זה לזה.
- העוצמה הרגשית-רוחנית הזו ללא מעשה היא מה שחנוכה מייצג: "*מצוה להורות הלכת*" — מלחמה, מאבק בתחום ההארה הרוחנית. וזה מה שהיוונים מייצגים — הערצת החוויה הפנימית המנותקת מפעולה קונקרטית.
- פורים הוא *טרעטן למטה* — לצעוד למטה אל הפיזי, הקונקרטי.
- מצוות פורים הן: לרקוד (*טאנצן*), לתת *משלוח מנות*, לעשות סעודה (*עסן*), להיות *למטה* (למטה, בעולם הפיזי).
- לאף אחד אין דביקות בפורים — ואם מישהו טוען שיש לו, או שזה לא אמיתי, או שאין לו פורים.
- לפחות בממד של *בין אדם לחברו* (בין-אישי), זו כל הנקודה. (יש גם ממד של *בין אדם למקום*.)
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הרמב"ם אומר שעיקר השמחה הוא *לשמח לב עניים ויתומים* — לשמח את ליבם של עניים ויתומים. זו הגדרת התורה לאושר: להיות אדם טוב.
ניסוח מפתח: "אושר הוא לא רגש, אושר הוא עובדה." האם אתה *מרגיש* שמח זו *קליינע פראבלעם* (בעיה קטנה). אם אתה *מענטש*, כנראה שתרגיש את זה גם — אבל זה משני. המציאות האונטולוגית של אושר מורכבת מעשיית טוב ממשית לאחרים, לא מחוויית מצב רגשי סובייקטיבי.
זה הגיבוש הסופי של כל הטיעון: פנימיות אמיתית היא המעשה עצמו, המעשה הקונקרטי של טובה — לא הרגש הפנימי, לא הכוונה כמצב מנטלי, לא האקסטזה הרוחנית.
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כולם צריכים לתת *מתנות לאביונים*, לתת לקרן המקומית שלהם, ו — בהפעלת תורה חסידית ישנה — כולם צריכים לתת באופן אישי (*אליין*), לא רק דרך מתווכים. חג שמח לכולם.
המרצה: נור אבוי סעיב, ערב טוב. אני רוצה לומר לכם שיעור היום. אתם יודעים איך זה עובד. איך אנשים כותבים ספר? נגיד מדען גדול, אקדמאי גדול כותב ספר. זה הולך ככה: יום אחד יש לו איזה רעיון בשירותים, במקלחת. ואז הוא מוצא כמה מקורות שקשורים לזה. ואז הוא עושה פירוש על סמך זה ועוד שלושה ספרים. ואז יש לו ספר שלם. לוקח לו שנתיים לכתוב. עוד שנה לקבל אישור, ואז זה הולך לוועדת האישור שמאשרת את זה, ואז המוציא לאור מפרסם את זה, ואז הספר יוצא לאור, ואז הוא נבדק אם הוא ראוי ונסקר על ידי שני אנשים, ואז מי שכותב את האנציקלופדיה קורא את הספר או מבקש מהילד שלו לקרוא את הספר בשבילו ועושה סיכום קטן של הספר ואומר שאפשר להציג את הספר בחמש שורות וזה מה שכולם יודעים ואז הספר נשאר על המדף, נכון? ככה זה עובד.
אז הבנתי שכל שיעור שלי הוא באמת ספר שלם. רק שהוא כבר מגיע ישר לסקירה, לחידוש. אם אתם רוצים, אתם יכולים ללכת ולעבד את זה לספר שלם, אבל זה שיעור שיוצא, כי ממילא אף אחד לא הולך לקרוא את כל הספר, אז אני יכול באותה מידה להתחיל מהסיכום. והחידוש, החידוש. אבל זה נכון. כל שיעור, כמעט כל שיעור אפשר לעשות ממנו ספר שלם.
אז היום יש לי ספר חדש לכתוב. חדש זה חסר גבולות. כמובן, זה המשך של השבוע שעבר ושל השבועיים האחרונים שדיברנו על החידוש. והבנתי היום, אתמול, יום אחד במקלחת או איפשהו, והבנתי שהכל מחובר.
זוכרים שאנחנו מדברים על בעיה כזו. איפה לוזי שלא מבין את הבעיה? אפשר לפתור את הבעיה הזו קצת? אנחנו מדברים על בעיה שאני קורא לה בעיית הפנים-חוץ, נכון? הפנימיות והחיצוניות. כולם יודעים שפורים עוסק במשהו, בפנימיות או בחיצוניות, אני לא זוכר. בכל מקרה, אלה המילים שכולם אוהבים לדבר עליהן כל הזמן.
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קר? תדליקו את זה, זה מחמם יותר מהר. וכולם יודעים שזה, תחברו את זה פה למטה או איפשהו וזה יחמם קצת יותר מהר. לא, פה יש שקע מתחתיי.
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה יפריע לך.
המרצה: בסדר, אז אתה, לא, אל תעשה את זה שם, אל תעשה את זה שם, זה ישרוט את המערכת. שם.
תלמיד: כמה רחוק זה?
המרצה: בעצם, זה לא ייפול. אותו דבר בכל מקרה. החלק הזה ייפול, זה לא, זה לא, בסדר, כן, זה בכל מקרה, חם לנו, חם מאוד.
אז מה אני אומר? אנחנו דנים בנושא הזה שנקרא פנימיות וחיצוניות. והשאלה מאוד לוחצת, במיוחד לרבי אליעזר, שהיה כאן שבוע שעבר ולא הגיע היום. מה לוחץ אותנו? שמצד אחד, אנחנו הולכים לפי הרמב"ם, אנחנו מנסים ללמד את הרמב"ם לפי שיטתו.
מצד אחד, נראה ששיטת הרמב"ם היא מאוד חיצונית. הכל עניין של מעשים, כמו, וכבר אמרתם לי, יש פירוש ברמב"ם שהחסידים קראו לא נכון וכן הלאה. אבל למרות הכל, ככה אני מבין את זה.
מצד שני, הרמב"ם היה חס ושלום, לא ליטוואק מודרני. כמובן, זו הבעיה, שאנחנו קצת תקועים, בסדר? מצד שני, אנחנו עוסקים בלהיות אדם מבפנים. אנחנו לא עוסקים בלהיות מכונה שמייצרת דברים, אנחנו עוסקים באדם שמייצר את עצם ההוויה שלו כאדם, סוג של אדם, מה שנשמע כדבר פנימי.
אז מה העיקר? מה הנקודה של היהודי? מה הנקודה של האדם הטוב? האם היא בפנים או בחוץ? השאלה מאוד מבלבלת בעניין הזה. לא רק לגבי התרנגולת או הביצה, אלא לגבי מה ההגדרה? מה המשמעות של להיות אדם טוב?
עכשיו, שבוע שעבר נכנסנו לנקודה הזו, שנראה שיש גם שאלה, זה היה העיקר שלי שבוע שעבר, אבל אני רוצה לתת לכם יותר הקשר. אולי נבין יותר טוב מה קורה. נכנסנו לנקודה הזו שיש שאלה. מה המשמעות של להיות טוב מבפנים? מה זה בכלל אומר?
ואני אגיד לכם עכשיו, יש שני דברים שזה אומר. אני אומר יותר מדי דרוש. נחזור למציאות בקרוב. יש שני דברים שונים שזה אומר.
מה זה אומר? כולם בכל הדרשות היו צריכים לבוא ולראות אותו ולומר, תדע, גם אם אתה לובש מסכה, אתה טוב מבפנים. מה זה אומר שאתה טוב מבפנים? מה זה אומר? מה המשמעות של זה? אבל אני רציני עכשיו. אני שומע את כל הדרשות האלה.
הלכתי לבית הכנסת בשבת. מישהו נתן שמועס שלם על המשכן, לא להאמין לשמועס. וזה... זה אומר שזה צריך להיות לשמה, מה שאומר שצריך להיות כוונות טובות. קריאה שגויה לחלוטין של רש"י. אל תגידו להם. לא אמרתי להם. הייתי צריך לראות את זה. אני לא אומר לכם מי אמר את זה. זה לגמרי, לגמרי. רש"י לא מתכוון ללשמה. לא. ובכל מקרה, ולכן, זה צריך להיות וכל העניין הזה של הלב שעושה את המשכן, כי הקב"ה לא נמצא בדברים הגשמיים, הוא בלב.
כבר שמעו משיח ערב שבת שזה לא עונה על הקושיה, זה מחמיר את הקושיה. למה הלב שלך עדיף על בניין? אף אחד לא יודע. זה מה שהבחור הזה חושב. יש איזו אינטואיציה מאחורי זה, אני פשוט לא יודע מה זה אומר.
על מה אנחנו מדברים כשאנחנו אומרים את העניין הזה של הלב, הרצון שבלב, הפנימיות של היהודי? למה אתם מתכוונים? אתם יכולים לומר לי במילים פשוטות מה זה אומר? מישהו יודע מה זה אומר? אתה יודע מה זה אומר?
תלמיד: כן, מה זה אומר?
המרצה: זה אומר שאנחנו לא משתמשים בחיצוני. זה מיקרופון. החיצוני. מה זה חיצוני לעומת פנימי? מה הם חושבים שהמילים אומרות?
תלמיד: זה אומר ששום דבר מחוץ ל"אתה" הוא לא מה שעושה את ה"אתה" טוב או רע. זה ה"אתה" שעושה אותך טוב.
המרצה: בסדר. זה מה שזה אומר. אתה יכול לפרט? תפרוש את זה. תגיד לי מה זה אומר. בשפה אחרת ובמילים שמובנות לי. מה זה ה"אתה" הזה?
תלמיד: כן, אז נגיד שאני אדם מוכשר מאוד, נכון? ואני לובש מדי שוטר, נכון? אז אדם יכול לומר, אתה שוטר גרוע, נכון? אז עכשיו אתה אדם רע. נגיד, נכון? נגיד. במילים אחרות, המדים עכשיו אומרים לי מה אני אמור להיות, נכון? ונגיד שאני גרוע בלהיות שוטר, נכון? אז עכשיו אני "אני" רע. לא "אני" רע. יש לי 150 כישרונות טובים. אני יכול להיות הקומיקאי הכי טוב. אני יכול להיות הסופר הכי טוב. אני יכול להיות מה שאני רוצה, יש לך שוטר, אתה לא יכול להשיג שוטר, נכון? אז מה שאנשים אומרים, אז זה לא מתאים ל"אני" האמיתי. והדרך שאנשים רואים את ה"אני" היא בגלל החיצוניות של המדים.
המרצה: זה לא חיצוניות, זה יותר כמו...
תלמיד: כן, המדים אומרים לך מה אני, אני לא זה.
המרצה: אז במילים אחרות, רגע, אבל להיות מוזיקאי או מה שאתה חושב שאתה באמת, זה גם מדים. כל מה שאתה אומר הוא שאתה פועל בדרך הלא נכונה למה שאתה, לא ב... אני לא יודע מה זה ה"אתה" המסתורי הזה, במובן מאוד פשוט, הכישרונות שלי הם בנגינה, לא בלהיות שוטר, עכשיו כישרונות הם דבר, זה לא אתה, זה משהו לגביך, נכון, זה מקרה של ה"אתה", אפשר לומר, משהו לגביך.
תלמיד: לא, אני לא יודע אם זה מקרה, אני חושב שכל הכישרונות באמת מרכיבים אותך.
המרצה: כשאני אומר מקרה, אני מתכוון, זה עדיין מקרה, נכון, לא תאונת דרכים.
תלמיד: לא, אני יודע, אני מדבר ישירות לאריסטו, בעצם, מכל מה שלימדת אותו, בעבר, בעצם חשבתי על זה לאחרונה, אני חושב שמה שמרכיב את האדם הוא כל הכישרונות שלו.
המרצה: בסדר, נגיד, ולכן...
תלמיד: המרכיבים שמרכיבים עוגה לעומת לימונדה, נכון? זה מה שמרכיב את האדם, ולכן אין שני בני אדם זהים, אותו דבר, כי לכל אחד יש מרכיבים שונים, כישרונות שונים.
המרצה: אבל זה קצת לא נכון, אבל לא ניכנס לזה. אנחנו רק אומרים, אני רק מנסה להבין מה אתה מתכוון כשאתה אומר, אז הפנימי, כשאתה אומר הפנימי, אתה מתכוון לדבר שמתאים יותר לנטיות הטבעיות שלך. זה מה שאתה מתכוון. זה לא פנימי. אין שום דבר יותר פנימי בזה. זה לא בתוכך. שניהם מעשים.
בעצם, להיות מוזיקאי זה משהו שאתה עושה עם הגוף שלך, עם אנשים ששומעים את זה. אם אתה מוזיקאי ואף אחד לא שומע את זה, אתה כמעט כמו עץ שנופל ביער ואף אחד לא ראה אותו נופל ולא שמע אותו נופל. אתה בעצם טוב בזה. מה זה אומר? טוב במה? אתה מתכוון כמו אקדח? טוב במה? אתה בעצם טוב במה? בדיוק. אתה בעצם טוב במה?
תלמיד: בנגינה.
המרצה: זה משהו שאתה עושה. ה"להיות טוב", שאתה קורא לזה בעצם, זה כלום. אני לא מבין. זו רק יכולת. להיות מוזיקלי. אז כשאתה ישן, אתה גם מוזיקאי? אם לא.
תלמיד: בסדר, ומה הנקודה בזה?
המרצה: לחלום חלומות מוזיקליים.
המרצה: בסדר, אז אתה עושה משהו בחלום. נגיד שחלום הוא משהו, או לא. זו שאלה אחרת.
מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו הוא, מה שאתה מדבר עליו זה פשוט אדם שעושה את הדבר הלא נכון. כמו, אני אתן לכם דוגמה, כי אנשים מבלבלים. שולחנות יותר פשוט לדבר עליהם. אני אוהב לדבר על שולחנות. כל הפילוסופים אוהבים לדבר על שולחנות. אתם יודעים למה? כי הם נותנים את השיעור ליד שולחן, בדרך כלל, בעצם. לכן. או כיסא. תשימו לב שפילוסופים אוהבים לדבר על שולחנות וכיסאות. זה בגלל שהחפץ הפיזי הכי ברור בסביבתם. הם אף פעם לא בחוץ. הם אף פעם לא רואים שום דבר חוץ משולחן וכיסא, כמו אנשי כיתות לימוד.
אז בכל מקרה, אם הייתי ליד קיר, הייתי אומר עץ. או אם הייתי אדם רגיל, הייתי אומר בן אדם. אבל בני אדם מסובכים מדי לדבר עליהם בגלל הרבה דברים. אבל בכל מקרה, אז אם נגיד, לדוגמה, אני מסביר מה אתה מתכוון כשאתה אומר שזה פנימי. כשאתה אומר שזה לא פנימי, פשוט תגיד שזה לא פנימי. זה...
זה שולחן מאוד יפה, והוא השולחן הנכון לתת עליו את השיעור שלי, נגיד. אם אשתמש בו רק כדי לחסום את הדלת, זה בעיקר לא שימוש בו כשולחן. זה שימוש בו כחתיכת עץ, שהיא סוג של חתיכת עץ חזקה. היא חוסמת את הדלת. היא אולי אפילו עושה את זה טוב. היא אולי לא עושה את זה טוב, כי היא לא חזקה מספיק לחסום את הדלת. אבל היא אולי אפילו עושה את זה טוב, אבל זה עדיין לא מה שאתה קורא לזה פנימי, כי זה סוג של שימוש לא נכון. זה לא מתאים. זה מיועד, אתה מבין, לחסימת הדלת, לא הייתי צריך את הצורה המרובעת הזו, ולא הייתי צריך את הרגליים שיש לו. זה לא היה מאורגן, אז יש משהו לא מתאים או לא סימטרי, כמו שזה לא מסתדר כשאתה מנסה, נכון?
תלמיד: כן, הוא לא מתאים לחסימת הדלת, למרות שאפשר להשתמש בו לזה, אבל כן.
המרצה: ובאותו אופן אדם שהכישרונות שלו לא מתאימים להיות שוטר לא יעשה את זה טוב, או יתקשה, יסבול כי סוג האדם שהוא לא מתאים טוב למדי השוטר. זה דבר מאוד יפה ונכון, אבל אני לא רואה מה הקשר בין זה לבין פשוט לומר מה דבר הוא לעומת מה הוא מיועד, מה דבר מיועד לו, שזה מה שהוא או חלק חשוב ממה שהוא, לעומת מה שהוא לא מיועד לו אבל במובן מסוים אפשר להשתמש בו לזה, אבל הוא לא מיועד לזה.
אבל כשאנשים אומרים תדע שמבפנים כל אדם טוב, או אם אדם טוב, למה הם מתכוונים? הם מתכוונים לזה? מה זה בכלל אומר? יש לך נטיות טובות? ובכן, אני לא יודע. לחלק מהאנשים יש טובות, לחלק יש רעות. לבני אדם ככאלה יש נטיות טובות. מה זה בכלל אומר?
המרצה: כשאנחנו מדברים על טוב ורע, ברור שאנחנו מדברים אחרי שיש בני אדם טובים ורעים, נכון? זה אפילו לא הגיוני לומר שכולם רעים וטובים כשאתה מתכוון לומר, ובכן, בני אדם טובים בלהיות בני אדם. ובכן, כן, כנראה שהם צריכים להיות טובים בלהיות בני אדם, או לפחות צריך להיות אפשרי להיות טובים בלהיות בני אדם, אבל זה לא עושה אותם בני אדם טובים. מה אתה בכלל אומר? לא נראה שזו הכוונה.
אני מסכים שהווארט הזה, מה שאתה אומר הוא ווארט אמיתי. אני לא חושב שהוא מתאים טוב לתעדוף הזה של הפנימי. אני לא רואה שזה מה שמישהו אומר כשהוא אומר שצריך להתכוון לטוב או שצריך כוונה טובה או שצריך רצון טוב — אלה לא אותו דבר כמו מה שאתה אומר, נכון? זה משהו אחר.
אז מה זה אומר? אתה יודע מה זה אומר? באמת רציתי לצאת בסוף ולשאול אותו, "אתה יכול לומר לי מה אני צריך לעשות בגלל הדרשה שלך?" כמו, למה אתה מתכוון? אבל הבנתי שזה לא יהיה יפה, אז לא עשיתי את זה. ואני חושב על זה כל השבוע — מה זה אומר? ואז גיליתי מה זה אומר.
תלמיד: אולי זה היה מאוד יפה. יכול להיות שזה היה מאוד יפה.
המרצה: זה נכון, קשה לדעת. זו שנה חדשה, אני עדיין לא מכיר אותה טוב, אז אני לא יודע. אני צריך ללמוד אותה יותר.
תלמיד: לא, זה כמו שאתה רואה אדם שצולע ואתה יכול לתקן את זה.
המרצה: זה נכון, אבל זה שמועס אחר. אז נדבר על זה, כי אתה לא טוב לנצח או שאתה כן טוב לנצח — למה אני לא עושה את זה?
תלמיד: לא, לא, זה נכון. זה קשור למצווה.
המרצה: זה דיון מאוד מסובך. היה לי דף על זה במונסי. אני לא יודע, לא שלחתי לכם את הדף, אבל נדבר על זה — ברייתא אחרת. לא זו שאני מדבר עליה עכשיו. זה שמפניה. נדבר על זה שוב, כי זה מאוד חשוב. תזכירו לי אם לא. תרשמו בהערות שלכם שאני צריך.
עכשיו, אני רוצה לומר משהו נוסף. אז אני תוהה — עכשיו, אתם זוכרים שאחד העקרונות הוא שהכל צריך להיות הגיוני, כולל כל השטויות. אני לא יודע אם אתם כבר יודעים את זה. אנחנו אומרים שלא יכול להיות שכל האנשים עד 1992 היו משוגעים. גם לא יכול להיות שאנשים מאז 1992 משוגעים.
אנחנו תמיד מנסים להבין מה זה — יש כאן איזו חידה. משהו מאוד מוזר קרה שסגר את כל האנשים מאז 1772 או 1992, מתי שזה קרה, מתי שמה שאנחנו קוראים לו מודרניות קרה להם. מתי שזה, אנחנו צריכים להבין מה זה — יש איזו חידה, משהו מאוד מוזר.
תלמיד: אתה חייב לבוא לבעיה שלי. זו הפעם הראשונה שאני שומע על זה, אני שומע על הפנימיות, החיצוניות.
מרצה: כן, אז מסיבה כלשהי, לרוב האנשים, היהודי הזה שאמר את הדרוש הזה בסגנון חסידי — זה לא אשמתו. כבר כמה מאות שנים שאנשים אומרים את הדרוש הזה. הוא חזר על דרוש של מישהו. ואם חוזרים אחורה עוד כמה מאות שנים לפני כן, אף אחד לא אומר את הדרוש הזה. כמובן, אנשים קוראים את זה לתוך הדברים. אבל כשבאמת קוראים את זה, רואים שזה תמיד איכשהו מתייחס למשהו אחר, נכון? זה מושג אחר.
אז עכשיו, זה לא באמת עובד. זה לא באמת נקרא בפשטות. אם לומדים לקרוא דברים בפשטות, רואים שזה לא נקרא בפשטות באף אחד מהמקורות הקדומים. למה? הוא לימד אותנו על הרצון הפנימי ודברים כאלה.
תלמיד: אה, כמו במשחק הדלאי לאמה?
תלמיד: אני חושב שיש בעיה שעולם המחשבות שונה מאוד מעולם הדברים, מה שעלול לגרום לך להניח, או לנסות, נניח, להבין קצת יותר על החושב, נכון? אבל החושב, אם אי אפשר לאפיין אותו במונחים של, נניח, העולם החיצוני או עולם הדברים, אתה בעצם צריך להפוך אותו למשהו אחר.
מרצה: בסדר, אז איך — אני קצת אולי — אז תסביר מה אתה מתכוון.
תלמיד: כשאני שומע שמישהו חושב שזה לא הגיוני לי, מה אני אמור לעשות?
מרצה: כן.
תלמיד: אז זה משהו שניסיתי לחשוב עליו קצת ואין לי את זה כל כך ברור בעצמי, אבל אני חושב שכשיש לך — אם יש לך תפיסה מסוימת של מה הם דברים בעולם, נכון, בוא נקרא לזה סתם חומר גלמי, נכון, ואז יש לך את עולם המחשבות הזה שאתה צריך...
מרצה: זה לא מתאים לזה.
תלמיד: כן, שאתה צריך למצוא — אנשים אומרים כל מיני דברים שאתה לא יודע מה הם מנסים לעשות. אתה צריך למצוא מודל בשבילם, נכון? מחשבות לא מתאימות למודל של עולם הדברים. אתה צריך, מלבד ליישב את המחשבות, אתה גם צריך, או אולי אתה צריך לכווץ את זה לאיזה סוג של חושב, נכון? הייתי אומר, החושב הזה צריך להיות משהו כמו מאוד רחוק מעולם הדברים. וכמעט לגמרי לא משתתף, מה שגורם לך להפוך אותו לסוג של דבר שלם. אז בסוף אתה מגיע לכך שהדרך הכי קלה לעשות את זה היא, בסדר, אז מי שהוא החושב של כל המחשבות האלה הוא ה"אתה", נכון? זה יהיה אתה, מי שהמחשבה הזו שייכת לו, המחשבה על הכיסא, למי שהמחשבה על הכיסא שייכת לו.
מרצה: אבל איך הגעת למחשבה? רגע, אז אתה מסביר למה אנשים אומרים את זה. אתה עונה על השאלה שלי. אז רגע, תן לי לסיים את הסיבה שלי למה אנחנו צריכים לענות על השאלה הזו. אני לא יודע אם זו סיבה טובה, אבל זה מה שחשבתי.
תלמיד: לא, לא, אנחנו מגיעים למשהו. אנחנו מגיעים למשהו. אני מסכים. אני חושב שדילגת צעד אחד קדימה במהלך של השיעור שלי.
אתם מבינים את השאלה שלי? אנחנו עדיין ברמה הזו של מצב השאלה. אז אני שומע את כל התורות האלה. אנשים אומרים את התורות האלה כבר זמן מה. הם לא אומרים אותן מאז ומעולם. ונראה שזה אומר להם משהו. אני לא יודע בדיוק מה. אני חושב שקשה לפרט בדיוק מה. מטבע הדברים, ננסה להסביר את זה, ואני גם צריך להסביר מה קרה שזה התחיל להיראות הגיוני לאנשים, נכון?
במילים אחרות, כמו שאמרת — מעולם לא אמרתי את זה ככה, זה נכון. עדיין נכון שאף אחד לא משוגע. אף אחד לא משוגע במובן הזה ש — לכן יש אנשים שכן משוגעים. רק תעשה סיבה למה אני לא יכול ללכת לאדם הזה, כי אני צריך — בחב"ד אומרים שאי אפשר לתת לבן אדם ראש אחר. אפשר לתת לבן אדם יד, את, הרבה דברים. אי אפשר לתת לבן אדם ראש אחר, שזה אומר את הדרך שבה הוא רואה את העולם.
אפשר לעשות את זה — זה מה שרב עושה — אבל לא ביום, לא בחודש, לא בשנה. אז כדי שהשאלה שלי בכלל תהיה הגיונית לאותו אדם, הייתי צריך לשבור הרבה קרח, לפתוח הרבה דברים כדי שהוא יוכל לראות את העולם מהמקום שממנו אני בא.
עכשיו המקום שממנו אני בא הוא שצריך להיות מסוגלים לראות את העולם — קודם, אנחנו ניכנס למה שאתה אומר, אבל קודם, לפני זה, חשבתי שאתה אומר את זה — את העולם כפי שהוא, ואז למה, מנקודות המבט השונות של אנשים שונים, הם נתקעים בדרכים שונות.
למשל, אם אני — אתם זוכרים את הסיפור של העיוורים והפיל, נכון? סיפור מאוד מפורסם שמסביר פרספקטיביזם, נכון? משל הודי מאוד של פיל. זוכרים את הסיפור?
תלמיד: אתה לא זוכר את המעשה? הדריכה?
מרצה: אבל אני יודע למה זה על פיל, אבל מאותה סיבה הם מפלספים את זה על שולחן.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מרצה: יש משל הודי אולטימטיבי על פיל. יש חבורה של עיוורים שהם מקיפים פיל. עכשיו הם לא יודעים מה זה פיל, הם מעולם לא ראו פיל, הם היו עיוורים מלידה. אז בחור אחד עומד ליד הזנב ואומר, "זה דבר עם זנב ארוך ומפוזר." הבחור השני שעומד ליד החדק אומר, "זה איזה צינור ארוך." הבחור השני שעומד ליד הרגל אומר, "זה עמוד שמן וגדול," וכן הלאה. והבחור האחר — מישהו יכול לראות את זה, אבל הם יכולים לראות רק צד אחד שלו. הם אומרים, "זו מסה אפורה גדולה."
אז, כולם אומרים את האמת. אז בא בחור אחד שיכול לראות ואומר, "זה פיל. אתה פשוט ראית את הזנב, ואתה ראית את הראש, ואתה ראית את החדק, ואתה ראית את הרגל," נכון?
זה הסבר טוב למה פרספקטיבה היא בעלת משמעות. כשאנשים מדברים דברים מנקודת המבט שלהם, זה חלקי כי הם עיוורים למה שהם באמת רואים. הם אפילו לא יודעים שהם רואים פיל. אבל אם אתה — מה שאנחנו תמיד מחפשים זה לפקוח את העיניים, נכון? לזה מיועדת הפילוסופיה. לזה מיועדת המחשבה. לראות באמת מה שיש, נכון?
ואז אם אתה רואה מה שיש, אתה תצטרך, בהכרח, להיות מסוגל להסביר את הטעויות של כולם.
זה גם משהו שאנחנו לומדים מאריסטו. אריסטו תמיד אומר, אף אחד לא טועה. אנשים רק צודקים באופן חלקי. במיוחד אנשים חכמים. יש כמה אנשים משוגעים שאיכשהו יכולים לעשות טעויות אמיתיות. זו תהיה שאלה גדולה. אבל בדרך כלל אנשים, הסיבה שהם אומרים משהו היא כי הם מסתכלים על משהו מנקודת מבט מסוימת.
ועכשיו כשאנחנו מדברים — זה משל פיזי — אבל אנחנו מדברים על דברים מושגיים. בגלל שהדרך שבה המושגים שלהם בנויים, מכריחה אותם לראות דברים מנקודת מבט מסוימת שמובילה אותם לבעיות מסוימות, נכון? אפוריות מסוימות, חידות מסוימות שלא ניתן לפתור מנקודות המבט שלהם.
כמו קושיות רבי עקיבא איגר, נכון? כל הקושיות של רבי עקיבא איגר צודקות. כולם יודעים שלרבי עקיבא איגר יש קושיא טובה — לא כל הקושיות שלו, אגב, אבל אחוז גדול מהן — הן קושיות טובות. אבל מה שהן מראות זה שרבי עקיבא איגר לא הבין כלום. חס ושלום, רבי עקיבא איגר. אתם מבינים מה אני אומר, נכון? מספרים.
אבל הקושיות של רבי עקיבא איגר הן תמיד קושיות טובות. זה כמו קושיות מאוד גדולות. זה תמיד, אם אתה מקבל את כל ההנחות שלו, שתמיד יש הרבה כאלה שהוא אפילו לפעמים לא מבין או לא מפרט, את הקושיא שלו, אי אפשר לזוז ממנה. אי אפשר להזיז אותה. אפשר להמציא תירוץ מצחיק כמו שכמה אחרונים עושים, אבל זה — כולם מבינים שזה לא תירוץ טוב.
התשובה האמיתית, צריך לפרק אותה. במילים אחרות, צריך להראות למה, איך הגענו לכאן, ולמה שום דבר מזה לא אומר כלום מזה. המציאות היא משהו אחר לגמרי. אז הקושיא לא מתחילה. זה כאילו הקושיא או לא מתחילה או לא נגמרת. אין עולם, נכון? אין עולם שבו הקושיא היא קושיא טובה והתירוץ הוא תירוץ טוב. זה לא מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו.
מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו הוא שכשאנחנו רואים את התמונה המלאה, אנחנו גם מסבירים את הטעויות. חשוב מאוד להחליט. אם הפילוסופיה שלך לא מסבירה למה כל אחד אחר משוגע, ובדיוק באיזה אופן הוא משוגע, זו הבנה גרועה, כי אז אתה לא מבין את העולם.
ואתה גם מבין למה הוא לא רואה יותר, כי יש מישהו שחוסם את זה, מסיבה כלשהי יש חתיכת בשר בצד השני שגורמת לך לראות רק את הרגל, וכן הלאה. נכון? שטימט?
עכשיו, באותו אופן, אנחנו צריכים להסביר מה זה שגורם לכולם לראות רק — לראות את זה — איזה סוג פנימי של "אתה" או רצון. אני חושב שבדרך כלל זה מסתכם ברצון, איזה סוג של רצייה, איזה מצב פנימי של תודעה, הרגשה, משהו באדם. ואז הם מזהים את זה ככל הטוב, או הדבר הטוב העיקרי, והם חושבים שהשכינה יכולה אפילו לשרות עליו, כל כך זה דבר טוב.
ובשבילי, שום דבר מזה לא הגיוני, כי קודם כל, אני אפילו לא יודע מה זה. גם, אם כן, אני חושב שזה לא קוהרנטי, כי לרצות לעשות משהו, אני, לעשות משהו. הבנתם מה אני אומר?
אז יש לי את הסיפור, אני אגלה לכם את הסוד. ולפחות אני לא מכיר מישהו אחר שהסביר את זה כל כך טוב כמוני לפני כן. זה לא אומר כלום, אבל אנשים כן הסבירו את זה, לא בהקשר היהודי, אבל אנשים כן הסבירו את זה. ומה שמו? צ'ארלס טיילור כנראה הסביר פחות או יותר את זה, ואנשים אחרים. אז אנשים כן הסבירו את זה, אבל לא מספיק כדי שזה יהיה הגיוני לנו.
אז אנחנו הולכים לעשות את זה עכשיו, וזה ספר חדש שאנחנו הולכים לכתוב, תנועה חדשה ביהדות שהולכת לפתור את כל הבעיות בגלל הדבר הבסיסי הזה.
תלמיד: אתה זוכר, מלפני הרבה זמן, עוד לפני...
מרצה: כן, אבל אז אתה צריך מודל ספציפי, נכון? לאיך ש...
תלמיד: מה שניסיתי להסביר לא היה זה, אלא להכין את הקרקע למודל הזה.
מרצה: כן, אתה הסברת למה ה...
תלמיד: למה המודל הספציפי הזה קיים.
מרצה: כן, כן, אנחנו נגיע לזה, אנחנו נגיע לזה. אנחנו לא בדיוק בדרך שלך, אבל אני אגיע לזה, כן.
תלמיד: זה קאנט, מה שניסית להסביר. למה אנחנו מגיעים לזה, כן. המעבר.
מרצה: ממ-המ. המהפכה הקופרניקנית.
אז בואו נתחיל ממקום פשוט יותר למטרות שלי. אני מקווה מה שאתה מנסה לומר. אתם תזכרו את הסיפור הישן, סיפור מאוד ישן, שקשה אפילו לספר לאנשים בימינו כי הם תמיד הולכים לפרש לא נכון את החלק הראשון שלו. אבל אני מקווה שכל מי שהקשיב למספיק מהשיעורים שלנו ויודע מספיק ממה שאנחנו מלמדים כבר יודע את זה.
אתם כבר יודעים, היום ראיתי, היום ראיתי ספר, אחד מהספרים האלה שנכתבים בשביל מתבגרים שהם לא מאוד חכמים, אבל קצת חכמים, כדי להגן על היהדות בפניהם. אם אתה קצת חכם, אז אתה מיד רואה שאלה טיעונים כושלים ברובם. אבל בשביל אנשים שהם קצת חכמים, אולי זה עוזר. אם אתה מאוד טיפש, אז אתה לא צריך את הספר. אז אני לא בטוח בשביל מי הספר.
אבל בכל מקרה, בספר הזה, זה מוסבר, ומה שהוא מסביר זה נכון, אבל גם בגלל העיוורון של נבוכדנצר, הוא לא יכול להסביר את זה נכון. מסביר שהכל בעולם תלוי בדבר אחד. אם יש אלוהים. ואם יש אלוהים, אז לדברים יש תכלית.
גם משהו שאתם צריכים לעזור לי. חלמתי הבוקר חלום שהולך להיות — שמעתם? שמעתם שיש משבר משמעות? אתם לא מספיק ביוטיוב. יש משבר משמעות. שמעתם על זה? יש הרבה משברים, כמו משבר שידוכים, משבר מנהיגות, כל מיני משברים, יש משבר משמעות, יש חוסר משמעות בעולם, משמעות.
תלמיד: משמעות, אה, אה, אה. משמעות, כי כולם תמיד עושים ישיבות.
מרצה: לא, הם תמיד עושים ישיבות, זה בגלל משבר המשמעות.
יש משבר משמעות, שמעתם על זה? אז חלמתי שהממשלה הקימה משרד משמעות, והם הולכים לחלק משמעות לכולם. כולם, הקומוניסטים אמרו שלכולם צריך להיות כמות שווה של משמעות, והקפיטליסטים אמרו, לא, לכל אחד צריך להיות כמה שהוא ראוי של משמעות, וכן הלאה. זו הולכת להיות המשרד החדש, משרד המשמעות. משרד המשמעות.
תלמיד: משרד המשמעות, בדיוק.
מרצה: והם מחלקים, ובכל מקום שהם מוצאים מקום עם לא מספיק משמעות, הם שולחים משאית גדולה עם משמעות.
אז, זה מה שחלמתי בבוקר. מי מקבל את כל החלומות הטובים, ככה, בבוקר? החלומות הטובים הם תמיד ככה לפני שמתעוררים, כשאתה חצי ישן וחצי ער. ולא הצלחתי להבין, כאילו, איך הם הולכים לחלק את המשמעות? זה היה, התעוררתי עם השאלה, כאילו, זה הולך להיות על-טבעי? זה אומר, כאילו, הם הולכים איכשהו לתת משמעות לדברים? או שזה, כאילו, איזו דרך פיזית? לא הצלחתי להבין איך הסיפור ממשיך. זו משמעות. משמעות. משרד המשמעות. לחלק משמעות. משרד המשמעות.
בסדר. כמובן, צריך לאפשר הרבה טפסים.
בסדר. עכשיו, בקיצור, יש משבר משמעות. והיהודי הזה אמר ש... למה כל היהודים שלא צריכים לדבר בטון הזה? אתם יכולים להסביר לי? אני לא יודע. תלכו ליוטיוב. כל היהודים שלא צריכים לדבר, כולם מדברים ככה.
והיהודי הזה אמר שהכל תלוי בשאלה אחת. אם יש אלוהים, ואם יש אלוהים, אז הוא ברא את העולם מסיבה, ולכן לכל דבר יש משמעות. ואם לא, אז לשום דבר אין משמעות, ולכן אתה לא צריך ללכת לישיבה מחר בבוקר. זו בעצם האשליה של הבחור הזה והוא כתב 900 עמודים על זה איכשהו.
עכשיו זה נכון, מאה אחוז, שזה הפוך, נכון? לא אם יש אלוהים, אז משמעות. אם יש משמעות, יש אלוהים. או דרך אחת לומר את זה, נכון?
למה אני מתכוון בזה? בימים הקדמונים כולם הבינו — כלומר לא כולם, זה התגלה על ידי סוקרטס ואולי אברהם אבינו — זה מה. שאין הגיון לדבר על העולם בלי להסביר למה הוא מיועד. כל דבר טבעי. לא בגלל שיש אלוהים שנותן לו משמעות. כי כדי להסביר מה משהו הוא, צריך להסביר למה הוא מיועד. זוכרים?
זה נקרא במילה הלטינית המפוארת — לטינית מזויפת, יוונית מזויפת — טלאולוגיה. אבל אנחנו לא הולכים להגיד את המילה הזו כי היא לא עוזרת לנו. אנחנו הולכים להגיד את המילה משמעות. משמעות זה בדיוק אותו דבר, נכון? מה המשמעות של משהו? למה הוא מיועד.
אי אפשר להסביר שולחן בלי להסביר למה שולחנות מיועדים. זה פשוט מה שזה. ולכן, ה"למה-מיועדות" של דברים, שאנחנו קוראים לה תכלית, או הסוף, או ההשלמה, או כל מיני מילים שאנחנו קוראים לדבר הזה, המטרה, היא יותר מה שהם מאשר ממה שהם עשויים וממה שעשה אותם למה שהם, וממה שהם עכשיו, וכן הלאה. נכון?
זוכרים את זה? נכון? כולם יודעים על הדברים הבסיסיים מאוד האלה. זו הסיבה הרביעית של אריסטו, וגם משהו, מה?
תלמיד: וגם הראשונה.
מרצה: הראשונה והשנייה והראשונה. כן, אחת מארבע הסיבות, ארבע הסיבות המפורסמות. אבל הדבר החשוב הוא שזה מה שמגדיר הכי הרבה מה דבר הוא, בוודאי לגבי דבר חי. דבר חי הוא מהסוג שבו הצורה שלו והתכלית שלו ו — ומה שהוא, הם אותו דבר.
בסדר, עכשיו בקיצור, כולם זוכרים את זה, בסדר?
ועכשיו לפי זה הדבר החשוב. כלומר, בהגעה לנקודה הזו, למשל, הדבר החשוב שזה עושה הוא שתיאולוגיה, או מה שהקב"ה הוא, או ה"בשביל מה" שהכל קיים בשבילו - זו הגדרה אחת של הקב"ה - ומה היא פיזיקה, מה הדברים הם, סתם מדע, ואתיקה, שהיא הפיכת הדברים למה שהם, שכל דבר ישיג את שלמותו - כל אלה הם אותו סוג של דבר, נכון?
מה שכולם יודעים או שמעו, כנראה שמעתם על דייוויד יום שאמר שיש משהו שנקרא מאוחר יותר הכשל הנטורליסטי, ש"מה שקיים" לא מחייב "מה שצריך להיות", וזה שטויות. כי "מה שצריך להיות" הוא פשוט ההשלמה של "מה שקיים".
יש מדע, ולכן בספר משלי, דעת שווה לטוב. זוכרים? ואף אחד לא מבין את זה היום, כי הם חושבים שדעת היא לדעת מה הדברים הם, וטוב זה להיות טוב. מה הקשר בין זה לזה? לא. טוב הוא פשוט שדברים יהיו לגמרי מה שהם, שיפעלו היטב, נכון? או שאנחנו אומרים בשפות שונות, הטוב וההיטב הם אותו דבר. להיות טוב ולפעול היטב הם אותו דבר לגבי הכל. נכון, כולם יודעים את זה. הקדמה, הקדמה חשובה, קצרה כלה.
ואז, וזה סיפור היסטורי, אבל זה לא באמת סיפור היסטורי, ולכן צריך להפסיק לספר אותו כסיפור היסטורי. למרות שנכון שההיסטוריה הזו קרתה, אבל גם לא נכון שזה רק דבר היסטורי. תמיד היו אנשים שלא הבינו את זה. זו העבודה זרה, עבודה זרה, כשהיה צריך לשרוף את הספרים שלהם, צריך להבין שגם זה מה שהם חשבו.
זה לא חדש, כאילו, באו כמה גויים. זה מאוד, זה מאוד, יש סוג אחר של, הוא קרא לזה היצר, הדברים אחרת. אז תוציאו את כל ההיסטוריציזם מהסיפור שלנו, כי אחרת אנחנו נכנסים להיסטוריציזם, זה בטוח.
אז, אבל יש, דרך אחת לספר את הסיפור היא היסטורית, אני לא אוהב את זה, אבל אנחנו הולכים לומר את זה ככה עכשיו.
מאוחר יותר באו אנשים אחרים, ימח שמם, פרנסיס בייקון, עם ה-Novum Organum שלו, מדע חדש, ומאוחר יותר אנשים אחרים, דייוויד יום, באופן מפורסם מאוד, ואחרים, אחרים, אחרים, והם אמרו שאין שום "בשביל" בעולם. אין בעולם תכלית. לעולם אין משמעות. לעולם יש סיבה אבל לא משמעות.
או שהם הגדירו מחדש את המילה סיבה כך שלא תכלול את המילה משמעות, שזה דבר מאוד מוזר לעשות, אבל זה מה שהם עשו. זוכרים?
ומה יהיה ההבדל? ורגע, ההבדל הוא שאנחנו לא מסבירים דברים לפי מה שהם בשביל, אנחנו מסבירים דברים לפי מה שדחף אותם למקום שהם נמצאים בו. במקום לומר שעץ הוא משהו שמנסה להיות עץ - מנסה לא במובן האנושי, נכון? כשאמרנו מנסה, מיד אתם מניחים שיש שם חושב, נשמה נפרדת או משהו שחושב. לא, עץ הוא סוג הדבר שנוטה לקראת להיות עץ מלא. זה מה שזה אומר להיות עץ. אי אפשר להבין את העץ.
עכשיו הם אומרים, לא, עץ הוא פשוט מה שקורה כשיש את כל הכוחות האלה שדוחפים את העץ להיות עץ, להיות משהו, להיות כלום, כי אין ישות, אין דבר כזה להיות עץ.
בסדר, זו הייתה, זו השיטה האחרת. וזו בעצם לא דרך טבעית.
רוב האנשים כן חושבים שיש תכליות בטבע, רק נדפק להם בראש על ידי מורה המדעים שלהם, זה המקסימום שאתה חושב. אבל אנשים רגילים עדיין מדברים על תכליות בטבע. כמובן, זה מסובך. איזה סוג של תכליות? מה הן התכליות?
כל פעם, זה אחד מהכשלים הגדולים שהספר הזה, למשל, עושה. העובדה שיש תכליות לא אומרת שהתכלית היא ללמוד את המורי טויס בשבילנו. לא, יארק, יש רק שני דברים. אז אנחנו צריכים לעשות מדע אמיתי, לגלות מה התכלית של כל דבר. זהו המדע האמיתי, כפי שהרמב"ם מסביר, הוא ידע כל עץ, לא, הוא ידע למה כל עץ נועד, שזה מה שלדעת כל עץ היה, ולכן זה אותו סוג של ידיעה כמו לדעת את התורה, שהיא לדעת את הטוב לכל דבר.
בסדר, עכשיו, אבל בכל מקרה, ואם הטוב קודם סיבתית לקיום החלקי של הדברים, שנוטה לקראת הטוב, זה מה שתורה אומרת. אבל בכל אופן, דרך. זו תהיה כמו דרך יותר אפלטונית לומר דברים. הנקודה היא שעכשיו אנחנו הולכים מהר מדי. אני צריך לחזור לאופן שלי לומר את זה.
מרצה: אז בעצם יש סיבות ללא תכלית. בדיוק. יש דחיפות ללא תכלית. תכלית היא לא דבר אמיתי. עכשיו...
תלמיד: וסיבה פירושה רק מאיפה זה בא.
מרצה: בדיוק. או שזו היסטוריה.
זה העומק של למה הכל הופך להיסטוריה. כי הסבר סיבתי פירושו רק מאיפה זה בא. אל תסביר מה זה ולאן זה הולך, ולכן אני נגד היסטוריה, כי אני בעד לאן דברים הולכים, או מה הם, שזה, מה שהם מוסבר על ידי לאן הם הולכים, ולא מאיפה הם באים, כי מאיפה הם באים זה נכון, זה לא שאני מכחיש את המציאות הזו, רק שאני מכחיש שזו העובדה הכי חשובה על דברים, העובדה הכי מסבירה על דברים. ואני חושב שזה ברור לכל מי שחשב חמש שניות והפסיק לעבור שטיפת מוח.
עכשיו, אבל זה רק אני עושה רטוריקה, כמובן, יש אמיתי, האנשים האלה חכמים ממני, ממה שאני מעמיד פנים עכשיו, ויש סיבות למה הם חשבו את כל הדברים האלה וצריך ללמוד את זה ברצינות רבה, אני רק עושה סקירה קצרה לספר שלי, זו רק חזרה על הספר, זכרו, זה לא הספר עכשיו.
עכשיו אם אין סיבות תכליתיות בטבע אז אז הקב"ה הופך לסוג אחר של אלוה, חשוב מאוד, התיאולוגיה נראית מאוד שונה, נכון? אז אנחנו נכנסים לשאלה של משהו שנקרא מתכנן תבוני, שהוא באמת שד, מתכנן תבוני זה מט"ט, זה לא הקב"ה, לא האלוה שלנו, אתם יודעים.
שמעתם פעם שהיהודים בעד תכנון תבוני? זה לא נכון. יש מתכנן תבוני לעולם, אבל הוא שד. בסדר, לא שד. אפשר לקרוא לזה נוּס, מלאך, ספירה, שכל. לא הקב"ה. לא האחד. חשוב מאוד. כן, זה אותו רעיון. ביחס להקב"ה, הכל הוא שד. אז, מבינים? אם אתם עובדים את זה, אתם עובדים אל שקר.
רבי, כל האנשים שעובדים מתכנן תבוני עובדים אל שקר שיש לו גוף. כי הם מדמיינים אותו כמי שיש לו תוכניות כמו שלנו יש תוכניות והם מדמיינים שלעולם יש משמעות באופן מזויף. לא מטבעו, אין תכליות אימננטיות, העולם בפני עצמו לא נועד לשום דבר. זה מה שהם אומרים.
אנחנו צריכים אלוה שיעשה את זה בשביל משהו כמו דבר מלאכותי, כמו שולחן שאין בו בעצמו את השולחניות שיש לו. לעץ יש עציות בתוכו, לשולחנות יש שולחניות רק על ידי כפייה מבחוץ, על ידי אנשים שעושים אותם לשולחנות. אז אלה שחושבים על הטבע, העולם, שיש לו רק סיבות חיצוניות, והקב"ה הוא סוג של שכל מחוץ לעולם שנותן לו תכליות, מבינים מה אני אומר? הוא לא באמת נותן לו תכליות אפילו, הוא רק משרת אותו באיזשהו אופן, שפירושו שהאלוה שלהם מתכוון לדברים, שפירושו שהאלוה שלהם הוא אל מזויף. בסדר, מאוד פשוט. אני לא הולך, זו רק סיכום, אז אם אתם לא מבינים בואו לשיעור אחר, אין שיעור על תיאולוגיה אבל צריך רק לדעת שזה מה שעושה את האלוה הזה, ולכן, אומר את כל זה.
זו גם הסיבה שיש רק שתי אפשרויות במודרניות. או שאפשר להיות דאיסט או פנתאיסט, או מגשם. אלה רק שלוש אפשרויות. זו המציאות. יש או דאיסטים, אנשים שחושבים שבעצם אין אלוה בעולם.
יש רק אלוה ש, כמו השען, עשה את השעון ברגש, אבל אז השעון, כביכול, עובד בעצמו, כי הם לא מבינים שום סוג אחר של סיבה, סיבה צורנית או סיבה תכליתית. השען הוא רק סיבה פועלת, נכון? הוא רק הרכיב את חלקי השעון ביחד. הוא לא המציא את הרעיון של שעונים, והוא לא עושה אחד מארבעת השעונים, בסדר? אבל, הקב"ה הוא שען גדול, זו השיטה של ניוטון, או שיטה דאיסטית אחת, לא יצחק ניוטון.
או אם אתם אומרים דאיזם פלוס ניסים, שפירושו שהקב"ה לפעמים שובר את השעון. זה מה שרוב האנשים האורתודוקסים המודרניים מאמינים. דאיזם פלוס הקב"ה הוא שען שלפעמים מתערב כדי לשבור את השעון. שיטה מאוד מוזרה, אבל זו אפשרות אחת. אני נותן סקירה קצרה מאוד, ישיכללי.
שיטה שנייה היא אתאיזם, אין אלוה, או משהו כזה.
שיטה שלישית היא פנתאיזם, חסידות. הקב"ה הוא השעון החדש עצמו. בסדר, אלה שלוש השיטות שאפשריות לפי, כן, בערך. אלה שלוש השיטות האפשריות לפי, יותר מסובך, יותר מסובך. אבל גם חסידות היא יותר מסובכת. אני עושה פה רדוקציה גדולה.
אבל אלה שלוש השיטות האפשריות לפי התיאוריה שאין תכליות בטבע. אלה שלושת סוגי התיאולוגיה, ואתם יכולים לדעת שכל אדם דתי מודרני, חוץ ממני, הוא אחד משלושת הדברים האלה. או דאיסט, או דאיסט פלוס ניסים, שזה סוג מוזר של דאיסט, או אתאיסט, שהרבה אנשים דתיים הם גם, או פנתאיסט. לא, אלה האפשרויות. פנתאיסט פשוט ממוטט הכל. יש הכל. יש רק הקב"ה, וזה בסדר. זה בסדר. אבל הוא מבין את זה באופן חומרי, שפירושו שזו גם שאלה גדולה חומרי ומה קורה. אבל בסדר, בואו לא ניכנס לזה.
עכשיו, מה אני, עכשיו, דבר שלישי, זה דילכיס תיאולוגיה שקורה. מה קורה לאתיקה? לכאן אנחנו צריכים להגיע היום. כמובן, הכל מחובר. אבל מה קורה לאתיקה? מה קורה לטוב? לטוב האנושי?
כאן, יש משהו מאוד מוזר. למה יש משהו מאוד מוזר? כמו, שמואל, שמת לב. כאן, יש משהו מאוד מוזר. כי, כי, ותן לי אחד מהסלצרים האלה, כן. כאן, יש משהו מאוד מוזר. למה? תסבירו לי למה.
כי אם דברים, או פעולות, דברים בעולם, דברים בעולם אין להם תכליות, אין להם משמעות. לשום פעולה אין משמעות בפני עצמה. במילים אחרות, אם אתה מסתכל על פעולה או מסתכל על דבר, אתה לא יכול להסביר ממה שהוא מה הוא בשביל. זו הדעה הבסיסית של כל האנשים המודרניים. או אם היצר, בואו נשכח לומר יצר, אני הולך להפסיק, אנחנו הולכים להפוך את המילה. זה מה שהיצר סובר. השטן, מהיום הראשון הוא סובר ככה.
ולכן, אבל, יש לנו את הדבר המוזר הזה שנקרא בני אדם. דבר מאוד מוזר, כמו שהקלף אמר, בני אדם הם חריגה. הכל הוא התפשטות חוץ מהשכל. השכל, או השכל האנושי, יש רק שכל אנושי לפיו, אולי שכל ה'. אין שכל אנושי חוץ מזה. והוא, השכל הזה, יש לו את הדבר המוזר הזה שנקרא כוונות.
עכשיו, כוונה היא משהו שלא עוקב אחרי חוקי הפיזיקה. אני אפילו לא מדבר על בחירה חופשית וכל הדברים האלה. כוונות לא הגיוניות בתמונה הפיזיקלית שדיברנו עליה. נכון? כוונה פירושה דבר שהוא אודות דבר אחר, משהו שהוא אודות דבר אחר. מובן? כשאני רוצה משהו או מתכוון, פירושו שאני מתכוון למשהו, אני אודות משהו אחר?
עכשיו, זה לא קיים. רק בשיטה הישנה שכל הדברים הם אודות משהו אחר, או אודות המצב הסופי שלהם או משהו כזה. אבל שום דבר לא אודות משהו אחר, כל דבר הוא פשוט מה שהוא. להיות אודות משהו אחר זה לא דבר פיזי, אי אפשר לראות את זה. אי אפשר להסביר את זה על ידי סיבה דוחפת או סיבה מושכת. אפשר להסביר את זה רק על ידי סוג של סיבה צורנית או על ידי סוג של סיבה תכליתית. מובן?
כי פשוטו כמשמעו מה שסיבה תכליתית היא, להיות לקראת משהו אחר, להיות אודות משהו אחר. לכוון למשהו אחר באופן אמיתי. ברור שבני אדם עושים את זה. זו תכונה מוזרה. ברור ששכל אנושי עושה את זה. אנחנו יוצרים כוונות, ואנחנו פועלים, אנחנו עושים תוכניות, אנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים, או לפחות אנחנו חושבים שאנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים. האם אנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים, זו תהיה המחלוקת. אבל אנחנו חושבים שאנחנו פועלים לקראת דברים אחרים. יש לנו חלומות, יש לנו תוכניות, יש לנו מטרות, יש לנו כיוונים, יש לנו מה שאנחנו קוראים רצונות ורצונות ותשוקות ומשאלות. כל הדברים האלה, כולם מתפרקים, מצטמצמים, לפחות לכולם יש את התכונה של להיות אודות דברים אחרים, או אפילו לא אודות, הם לקראת דברים אחרים, נכון? לקראת דברים בעתיד, לקראת אפילו עצמי בעתיד, נכון? ועצמי בעתיד לא קיים, אז זה לא יכול להיות שעצמי בעתיד דוחף אותי לקראת זה, כי הוא לא קיים. הוא קיים רק בראש שלי.
אז אנחנו מגיעים למצב מאוד מוזר הזה, נכון? שנקרא באופן מפורסם בעיית הגוף-נפש בקרטזיאניזם. אבל, ודקארט ידע שזה מה שגרם לבעיה, הוא לא המציא אותה. זה מאוד ברור, אין פה איזו תיאוריית קונספירציה על המצאה. בעיית הגוף-נפש נוצרה בגלל ההכחשה של כוונה בדברים אמיתיים, בדברים חיצוניים, נכון? עכשיו, שטימט? מובן? הסיפור נכון.
אז, לכן, משהו מאוד מעניין קרה. משהו מאוד מעניין קרה. אז, יש בעצם רק שני פתרונות לבעיה הזו. או, שוב, יש שניים או שלושה פתרונות. אין לי ברור מאוד מה שלושת הפתרונות יהיו. אבל משהו כזה.
אז, מהו הטוב האנושי? בימים הישנים, הטוב האנושי לא היה שונה מכל טוב אחר, נכון? הטוב האנושי הוא הדרך הטובה ביותר לאדם להיות. הדרך השלמה, מלאות האנושיות, מה שאנחנו קוראים, ההרמוניה, האושר, שהוא פשוט הדרך הטובה ביותר לאדם להיות.
מכיוון שאין דבר כזה הטוב ביותר במציאות, אז זה לא יכול להיות על, לא יכול להיות זה. את זה, אנחנו מאבדים את היכולת הזו. עכשיו, אנחנו נשארים עם כל מיני דברים אחרים שהם, חלקם הם כמו שיריים מזה, וחלקם, זו דרך אחת להישאר, כמו עם מה שנשאר מאושר, בלי שאושר יהיה פירושו זה. או, אנחנו מגיעים למשהו אפילו יותר ממה שהיה לנו קודם במובן מסוים. תנו לי להסביר.
אז דבר אחד, אלה בעצם שני סוגי האתיקה שקיימים במודרניות. עכשיו אתם מבינים משהו מאוד מעניין. כנראה שמעתם שיש רק שני סוגי אתיקה.
בסדר? השלישית היא אתיקת מידות, שהיא הנכונה. אבל במודרניות הקלאסית, יש רק שני סוגי אתיקה, נכון? אם אתם לא יודעים את זה, כדאי שתעשו קורס מזורז איפשהו. בכל מקרה, יש שני סוגי אתיקה.
תועלתנות היא השיטה של בנתם, הדבר שניטשה מאוד אהב ללעוג לו תמיד. והיא שכמובן, אין לנו אושר באופן האמיתי, באופן האריסטוטלי, שהוא ההגדרה של בן האדם, הסוג הטוב ביותר של אדם שהוא יכול להיות, כי אין דבר כזה הטוב ביותר של שום דבר.
אבל הדבר הזה שאנשים דיברו עליו נראה שעדיין קיים, נכון? זה מה שאני קורא לו השיטה של השיריים, או שיטת השיריים. במילים אחרות, אנשים עדיין מרגישים שמחים לפעמים, ולפעמים לא מרגישים שמחים, או שהם מרגישים הנאה לפעמים, ולפעמים לא מרגישים הנאה. אז לכן, אנחנו אומרים, מה זה טוב? הנאה. זה עדיין קיים. להרגיש שמח. תחושה פנימית.
משהו באנלוגיה לתחושה, לא תחושה, פיזית, כמו תחושה תפיסתית, שזו בעיה נוספת, אבל משהו, תחושה פנימית, רגש. איך הם קראו לזה? הרגשה. יש עוד מילה שאנשים נהגו להשתמש בה. תשוקה, הרגשה, כל הדברים האלה. זה מה שדיוויד יום אמר, השכל הוא עבד של התשוקות. זכרו, ככה הגענו לכאן.
עדיין יש תשוקות, אני עדיין רוצה דברים במובן שאיזשהו רצון עולה בי איכשהו — זה מסתורי מה זה בכלל אומר כי אי אפשר להסביר את זה — אבל זו הרגשה, היא קיימת. הייתם אומרים שזה סובייקטיבי אבל זה משהו שקיים ולכן זה מה שבסופו של דבר אומרים.
אז מה זה טוב? גם אם רוצים להפוך את זה למשהו שנשמע טוב, אז סתם לעסוק בהרגשות האישיות שלך של אושר והנאה נשמע ממש רע, למרות שיש אנשים שפשוט מקבלים את זה ואומרים את זה. אם רוצים להיות יותר נחמדים אומרים האושר של כולם — מסיבה כלשהי אני צריך לדאוג לכל האחרים, אני לא יודע למה — אבל עדיין יש לנו את המסורה הזו שלאושר, לאתיקה, יש קשר גם לאנשים אחרים.
אז אנחנו צריכים להעמיד פנים שזה גם על כך שכולם יהיו שמחים, אבל בסופו של דבר, כולם הדוניסטים, נכון? כולם, הדוניסטים — אני לא מתכוון לטעון שאושר הוא הטוב, כי רוב הדברים הם הטוב. סוג של הדוניסט אפילו יותר מוזר מהדוניסט עתיק, נכון?
הדוניסט העתיק עדיין מאמין במשהו שנקרא הטוב, רק שהטוב האנושי הוא ההנאה הסופית. הדוניסט המודרני אומר, אין דבר כזה טוב. אני יודע שזה גורם לי להרגיש טוב. אנשים ממש אומרים את זה כל היום. אם תלכו לכל ישיבה, תשמעו אנשים אומרים את זה, אני שומע אפילו אנשים שמעמידים פנים שאומרים את זה בצורה טובה, נכון? אז לכן, אם תורה גורמת לך להרגיש טוב, אתה צריך ללמוד תורה.
אז, סובייקטיביות. לפעמים קוראים לזה סובייקטיביות. זה פתרון אחד. כמובן, זה פתרון של שיריים, זה מה שאני אומר. יש לו צורות מוסריות כלשהן רק בגלל שאנשים עדיין, גם הקדמונים דיברו על להרגיש טוב ולהיות שמח. אבל הם התכוונו להיות שמח בצורה אובייקטיבית. ועכשיו להיות שמח משנה את המשמעות שלו מלהיות סוג האדם הטוב ביותר להיות מישהו שיש לו הרגשות מסוימות.
ואז מגיעה השאלה של, איך קוראים לזה, בניסוי הקטן הזה על, מה אם פשוט יש לי מכונה שמזריקה לך סמים כל היום שגורמים לך להרגיש הנאה? לזה אתם מתכוונים? והתועלתנים...
תלמיד: בעיית הדופמין.
מרצה: כן. התועלתנים הסתבכו מספיק כדי להבין למה זה לא יהיה טוב. לחלקם יש תשובות לזה, אבל לזה מגיעים בסופו של דבר.
בסדר. עכשיו, השיטה השנייה, זו שיטה אחת, זו שיטה מהודרת, אף אחד לא באמת מחזיק ממנה. כולם מבינים שזו לא באמת אתיקה. אני חושב שכולם מבינים את זה. זה לא רק בשביל כמה אנשים מוזרים.
תלמיד: לא הונאה. פשוט לרדוף אחרי מה שמרגיש טוב.
מרצה: זה בא עם פיתול אלטרואיסטי שמנסה...
תלמיד: אלטרואיזם הוא הדבר המוזר הזה שאומר, אתה צריך לשמור על אנשים אחרים שירגישו טוב. אבל למה זה יותר טוב מזה שאני ארגיש טוב? זה לא באמת...
מרצה: שם נכנס האלטרואיזם, כמובן. האתיקה העתיקה לא מספיק אלטרואיסטית.
תלמיד: ובכן, מערמים את זה עם... זה חייב להיות מודולרי. מערמים את זה עם משהו, בסופו של דבר.
מרצה: בסדר, אז בסופו של דבר אומרים שיש איזה... מה שבסופו של דבר אומרים הוא שיש סנטימנט — זו המילה שחיפשתי — סנטימנט מוסרי, נכון? יש סנטימנט שאומר שאני מרגיש טוב כשאתה מרגיש טוב. מסתבר שזו האתיקה. אתיקה היא רק עוד הרגשה. זה באמת מה ש, זה מה שנקרא אמוטיביזם, נכון?
תלמיד: אמוטיביזם, כן.
מרצה: בסדר, אבל זו בעצם התיאוריה המודרנית. או תיאוריה אנגלית אחת, בסדר? כמו שניטשה נהג לומר, אף אחד לא רוצה להיות מאושר, רק אנגלים רוצים להיות מאושרים. בסדר, אבל הוא מתכוון לסוג הזה של הרגל, כפו עליך את הרעיון הספציפי מאוד הזה של מה מרגיש לך טוב, מה שנקרא לפעמים מצפון, נכון?
והמורה שלנו אליזבת אנסקום כתבה במאמר החשוב מאוד שלה בפילוסופיה מוסרית מודרנית שוב, מישהו בשם ג'וזף בישוף, באטלר, אני לא זוכר, שהכל היה על מצפון. אם פוגשים אנשים מודרניים מסוימים, כמו הרב הירש, כמה יהודים, בתקופה מסוימת, כולם מאוד מדברים על המצפון הפנימי הזה, שזו גם פרשנות אחת של הדבר הפנימי הזה. כאילו, כולם יודעים פנימית מה טוב.
ואז פרויד אמר, כן, זה הקול של אמא שלך. אבל בכל מקרה, והיא אומרת, ובכן, ברצינות? אני מכירה אנשים שפנימית באמת רוצים להרוג את כולם. זה לא ממש טוב, כאילו, הם פשוט מדמיינים שלכולם יש אוטומטית את התחושה הזו של אתיקה. זה לא מה ש, לא אמיתי, לא נכון.
אבל זה, אבל באמת, זו רק עוד הרגשה. אין סיבה לחשוב שזה נכון. ואתם באמת לא בטוחים שזה כאילו, אלה משחקים. כאילו, אפשר לומר את זה יפה בספר שאתה מכיר אנשים שרוצים לרצוח.
תלמיד: לא, יש אנשים שרוצחים. נכון, אפילו הרוצחים, כמו, כשטד באנדי רואיין, כאילו, הוא ידע שזה לא טוב, נכון? אפילו הבחור שרוצה ל, הוא יודע, יש לו מצפן פנימי לגבי מה זה.
מרצה: אני לא חושב שזה נכון, אבל אני לא הולך להיכנס לזה עכשיו. הנקודה שלי יותר חשובה. הנקודה היותר חשובה היא, שזו רק עוד הרגשה. אין סיבה לחשוב שההרגשה הזו חשובה יותר מכל הרגשה אחרת. רק, שוב, יש הרגשה שלא אומרת לך מה זה טוב.
תלמיד: לא, אבל רגע, חכה. אני חושב שאנחנו גם מבלבלים את המילה הרגשות כאן. יש שתי הרגשות שמתרחשות. הרגשה כאן פירושה תחושה. זה כל מה שזה יכול להיות. זה מה שזה אומר בשיטה הזו. נכון, ויש כמו הרגשה כמו, אתה יודע...
מרצה: זה אותו דבר. זה מה שזה. אין, אין סוג אחר של הרגשה. זה מה שאני מנסה לומר. יש מחשבה, נכון? מחשבות הן על דברים. אבל אם אין דבר כזה טוב אז המחשבה שלך לא על שום דבר. אז מסתבר שזו הרגשה, נכון? ההבדל בין מחשבה להרגשה הוא שמחשבה היא על משהו והרגשה היא לא על שום דבר.
תלמיד: למה המחשבה שלי לא לפגוע בך...
מרצה: בואו לא נתווכח עכשיו כי אני מנסה להבין מה אתה אומר. אתה מבין מה אני אומר, אבל עכשיו בואו נמשיך הלאה.
תלמיד: לא.
מרצה: בסדר, אם לא, אז תבוא אחרי השיעור ותשאל. בסדר. התאמה ראשונה. בסדר. עכשיו, כי אני פשוט אסיים בלהסביר לך באריכות, אבל אין לי זמן לזה. זה מאוד פשוט. מה שיש לי לומר הוא ככה.
השיטה השנייה היא מה שאנחנו קוראים... מה השיטה השנייה? אולי זה משהו כמו מה שאתה אומר, אני לא בטוח. אבל השיטה השנייה היא מה שאנחנו קוראים דאונטולוגיה, בסדר? בסדר, הדאונטולוגיה היא ציות לחוק המוסרי. בסדר, זה מה שנחשב, וזה מה שליטאים אומרים.
השיטה הראשונה — אף יהודי לא באמת אומר את זה. אולי יש איזה יהודי מוזר שאומר את זה. כאילו, מיהודי, אני מתכוון, כאילו, אדם דתי. אבל השיטה השנייה היא בעצם מה שכל ליטאי אומר.
תלמיד: ובכן, חסידים לפעמים אומרים הדוניזם. הם פשוט אומרים שההרגשה האמיתית שלך היא הקב"ה. אבל אני לא יודע אם זה עדיין נחשב. כי זה נשמע הרבה יותר קרוב לאושר האובייקטיבי בסופו של דבר.
מרצה: אבל זה יכול להיות, במובן מסוים. חלק מהחסידים, אני מכיר אנשים שמפרשים חסידים ככה. אבל אני לא חושב שזו פרשנות קלאסית, אז אני לא יודע. זו שאלה מעניינת. ואני תוהה אם... כן, זה מאוד מסובך. בסדר.
אבל השיטה השנייה היא לומר שיש איזה... גם לזה אין מקור, וגם זה בסופו של דבר נשען על משהו כמו מה שאתה מתאר, שהם קרובים יותר למה שאתה מתאר. לא הרגשה שגורמת לי להרגיש... אני מרגיש חמים בפנים, אלא משהו כמו אני מרגיש מבחוץ משהו. אני מרגיש משהו שמוטל עלי.
זה עדיין מסתיים בסוג כזה של הרגשה, אבל — זו ביקורת על הקאנטיאניזם, שזה גם סוג של אמוטיביזם — אבל זה חייב להיות משהו, במובן מסוים, מבחוץ, או משהו כמו שקאנט אומר, אתה נותן לעצמך את החוק שלך. אבל חוק הוא בהגדרה משהו חזק ממך. ויש לך איזשהו רעיון או ציות לחוק, שלא אומר כלום.
החוק לא אומר כלום. החוק הוא לא העובדה. בדרך הישנה, החוק הוא רק העובדה שזה טוב. אולי אתה לא יודע את זה, אז אני מודיע לך שזו הדרך הטובה להיות בן אדם. ובדרך הזו, אין דבר כזה אנשים טובים או שום דבר טוב, אבל יש דבר כזה לפעול בצורה טובה.
עכשיו, מה שזה עושה, והדרך השנייה היא באמת בעיקר לאן אני מכוון. מה שזה עושה בעיקר הוא שזה הופך את הקשר בין הפעולה לטוב שבה לרחוק מאוד, נכון?
כי זכרו, אם יש סתם דברים שיש להם תכליות, אז יש דברים טובים ופעולות טובות ופעולות רעות. פעולות טובות הן אלה שמובילות את הדבר לתכליתו, ופעולות רעות הן אלה שמשמידות אותו. זה מאוד פשוט. זה דין בפעולה, זה לא דין בכוונה.
אבל אם אין דבר כזה, אבל יש לנו איזשהו רעיון, כמו רעיון מאוד כללי, משהו כמו לעקוב אחרי החוק המוסרי, או ללכת נגד ההרגשות הנמוכות שלך זה הטוב, נכון? לעשות דברים לשם ציות לחוק, ולא לשם להיות מאושר, נכון?
אם זו השיטה הקאנטיאנית, שאומרת שהטוב של פעולה מוסרית הוא בציות לאיזשהו זיהוי של חוק מוסרי, של אמת מוסרית, או טוב מוסרי, שלא קשור למה שאתה רוצה, לא קשור למה שאתה חושב, וכן הלאה. זה קשור לאיזשהו ציות לחוק מוסרי. זה מסתיים בסוג של ציות.
תלמיד: כלפי החברה?
מרצה: החברה? לא, לא החברה. החברה היא רק עוד אדם אחד. הרבה אנשים. זה אלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. אני לא יכול לומר במפורש שזה אלוקים. אלוקים זה... אחת הסיבות שהוא מאמין באלוקים היא כי הוא מרגיש שיש חוק מוסרי. ואלוקים, אין דרך להסביר שזה לא אלוקים. יש דרכים לעשות את זה אתאיסטית גם, אבל זה מסתיים במשהו כמו אלוקים.
עכשיו...
תלמיד: אבל האם יש דרך לאתגר את זה אם, כאילו, אתה חי, נגיד, באפריקה, יש סוג אחד של דרך...
מרצה: לא איפה... לא איפה...
מרצה: כלפי החברה? לא, לא החברה. החברה היא רק עוד אדם אחד, הרבה אנשים. זה אלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. זה מסתיים באלוקים. אי אפשר לומר שזה אלוקים. אלוקים זה, אז אחת הסיבות שהוא מאמין באלוקים היא כי הוא מרגיש שיש חוק מוסרי. ואלוקים, אין דרך להסביר שזה לא אלוקים. יש דרכים לעשות את זה אתאיסטית גם, אבל זה מסתיים במשהו כמו אלוקים.
אבל האם יש דרך לאתגר את זה? אם אתה חי באפריקה, יש סוג אחד של דרך לעשות את זה? אני לא מודאג מזה עכשיו. יש בעיות שונות. אלה בעיות שונות. אלה בעיות. לכל השיטות האלה יהיו בעיות מהסוג הזה. אני מנסה להגיע לצורה של השיטות.
מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו כאן הוא שעכשיו, אם יש לך את הרעיון הזה של מה זה טוב, וזה מה שכל ליטאי, כמו בהרבה ספרי מוסר, אני חושב, מה זה טוב, אז הקשר שלך עם זה, הדרך שבה הפעולה שלך היא טובה, הופכת למשהו מאוד פנימי.
למה אני מתכוון פנימי? כשאני מתכוון פנימי, אני מתכוון בדיוק לדבר הזה שיש לבני אדם ולא באמת קיים בעולם. זכרו, לפי השיטה הזו, יש משהו שיש לבני אדם, שהוא סובייקטיביות, או להיות על, היכולת להיות על משהו, היכולת להיות כלפי משהו, היכולת לרצות, אפשר לומר. עכשיו אנחנו קוראים למילה הזו רצון. היכולת לרצות או לחשוק.
חשק תמיד היה דרך אנושית ספציפית להיות כלפי משהו. אבל עכשיו בני אדם הם הדברים היחידים שהם כלפי משהו. אז עכשיו חשק או כוונה הוא הדבר הזה מאוד ספציפי ומוזר ובלתי ניתן להסבר במובן מסוים, סוג אנושי של דבר, אולי זו נשמה אנושית נפרדת שיכולה לעשות את זה, שיכולה להיות על משהו אחר, שיכולה לרצות דבר אחר שלא באמת קיים. עכשיו, גם הרצון לא קיים, זה רק כמו עובדה מנטלית, זה רק משהו פנימי.
ועכשיו מסתבר שזה הדבר היחיד שיכול לעשות אותך טוב. כי סתם לעשות משהו, אם אתה עושה דבר טוב מסיבות לא נכונות, זה אפילו לא שלא לשמה. זכרו, כל העניין של מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה לא באמת עובד בשיטה הזו. זה הפך למאוד קשה להסביר. ותשימו לב שהרבה אנשים יש להם בעיה גדולה להסביר את זה. בעוד שרבה חשב שזה פשוט והגורם המוסרי הכי ברור שיש. נכון?
למה? כי לפי הנוסח של השיטה הזו, הדבר היחיד שהופך דברים לטובים הוא הדרך שבה אתה מתכוון להיות טוב על ידי זה. בזה מורכב הטוב. הכוונה להיות טוב, הכוונה להיות החוק המוסרי האוניברסלי הזה, או הכוונה להיות כלל אוניברסלי, כל מיני ניסוחים של אותו דבר.
אבל הדרך היחידה שבה מה שאתה עושה מחובר לזה, שהמעשה שלך מחובר, היא במצב הפנימי הזה, כמעט הרגשה, אולי יותר מהרגשה אם רוצים לומר את זה ככה, אבל זו רק הרגשה, הרגשה שאני עושה דבר טוב. כי מלבד ההרגשות שלך, ואין לנו הסבר להרגשות, כי הרגשות זה הדבר האנושי המוזר הזה שלשום דבר אחר אין. אין הרגשות ביקום, נכון? ליקום לא אכפת ממך, אתם מכירים את האמירה הזו? ליקום אין הרגשות, רק לבני אדם יש הרגשות, נכון? רק לבני אדם יש כוונתיות, רק לבני אדם יש אינטנציונליות. עכשיו, לפי השיטה הזו.
לכן, הדרך היחידה שמשהו יכול להיות טוב, רק בני אדם יכולים להיות טובים מוסרית, נכון? אין, אין דרך לומר שמשהו טוב או רע בצורה אמיתית, רק בני אדם. ועכשיו ספציפית כוונה אנושית, שהיא הדבר הקסום המוזר והבלתי ניתן להסבר הזה שלבני אדם ברור שעדיין יש, גם אחרי שהתיאוריה לא הגיונית, עדיין יש להם את זה, נכון?
אז עכשיו אנחנו מגיעים למשהו מאוד מוזר. אנחנו מגיעים לתיאוריה הזו ש, מה שנאמר כאן על ידי ספר התניא, שהמקום היחיד שבו הקב"ה נמצא, הדבר הטוב היחיד, הוא הכוונה להיות טוב. זו סוג של כוונה ריקה כי, או שאפשר לומר שהיא לא ריקה כי היא ציות לחוק המוסרי. אבל זו הכוונה, המתכוון. נכון, אבל אין, הקשר בין החוק לבינך לא קיים, נכון? כי זה בתוך הראש שלך. הקשר הוא גם בתוך הראש שלך, בוודאי, לפי הקב"ה, נכון?
אז הדבר היחיד שבאמת טוב הוא כולו בלב האנושי, ובשכל האנושי, ובכוונה האנושית, בנשמה האנושית, איך שרוצים לקרוא לזה.
ועכשיו, ראשית, זה מחמיר את הכל הרבה יותר. כמו שאמרתי, ה"מתוך שלא לשמה" מפסיק להיות הגיוני. או שהוא הופך להרבה יותר גדול, אבל המאמץ ממה שהיה פעם, נכון?
כי הרמב"ם אכן הסביר כדרך הרגילה של חינוך אנושי. "מתוך שלא לשמה" פירושו שאתה עושה את הדבר כרמת אימון שבה אתה עושה את הדבר אבל אתה לא לגמרי יודע למה. אתה עושה את זה בשביל ה"למה" הלא נכון, אבל אתה עדיין עושה דבר טוב. אתה עדיין אדם טוב. המעשים שלך עדיין טובים. הם באמת טובים. הם באמת טובים כי הם עושים את הדבר הטוב. הם עושים את סוג הדברים שאדם טוב היה עושה.
האם הם טובים לגמרי? לא, כי אתה במה שאנחנו קוראים הפנימיות שלך ולא טוב, כי במילים אחרות אתה לא יודע למה זה טוב. אז אתה לא עושה את זה לשם הדבר עצמו. אתה לומד לשם כסף, אבל הלימוד עדיין באמת טוב, כי טוב הוא עדיין תכונה של דברים אמיתיים. אז הלימוד עדיין באמת טוב. זה אתה, אתה שחסר לך חלק מהטוב. השכל שלך לא מבין את זה. אז אתה לא מתכוון ללימוד, אתה מתכוון למשהו אחר, אבל זה לא הופך את זה ללא טוב לחלוטין.
לעומת זאת, לפי השיטה החדשה, כשאתה לומד לשם משהו אחר, זה חסר ערך לחלוטין, כמו שהקוצקער [הרבי מקוצק, רבי מנחם מנדל מורגנשטרן מקוצק] היה יכול לומר. זה חסר ערך לגמרי. אולי יש לזה ערך באיזה אופן מוזר, כל הספרים החסידיים מתחילים מהנחה הזו, אם אתה קורא כל טקסט חסידי, אתה רואה, כולם אומרים, ובכן, שמעתי את זה אבל זה לא קורה. כולם אומרים את האמירה המאוד מוזרה הזו. הם אומרים, ובכן, הניסיון שלנו מראה שזה לא עובד. אנחנו צריכים להוסיף משהו לזה. כי כל הליטוואקים מעולם לא הגיעו ללשמה. זה מה שהם אומרים. ולכן, אנחנו צריכים לשאול, לראות את זה, וכל מיני דברים. אבל זה לא עובד.
האמירה הזו נובעת מהחורבן של ההבנה שזה תמיד עובד. לפי תורת ההרגל, שהיא אימון מוסרי בסיסי, זה תמיד עובד, כי ברגע שאתה, כלומר, אני לא יכול לומר תמיד, עדיין יכולה להיות הבעיה הזו שלפעמים אנשים נשארים בשלב הזה תמיד, אבל זה עובד.
ראשית, זה עדיין באמת טוב. זה לא שהטוב של הבעש"ט [הבעל שם טוב, מייסד החסידות] הוא רק כמו שהבעש"ט אומר, זה יהפוך, זה יהיה "מה לשמה לשמה", אתם מכירים את הסיפורים האלה של הבעש"ט? כלומר, אפשר לפרש את זה בדרך הנכונה, אני לא אומר, אבל אני מסביר שיש באמת טוב בלהיות, בלהעמיד פנים שאתה אדם טוב, כי טוב הוא תכונה של דברים.
האדם הטוב הזה הוא לא אדם טוב לגמרי, הוא עדיין אדם טוב למחצה, כי אפשר לומר שהלב שלו לא טוב, רק המעשים שלו טובים. אבל מעשים הם באמת טובים. הם באמת אלה שהופכים אדם טוב לאדם טוב. זה מה שנמצא במעשה, לא באדם.
אבל אם אתה מבין שאין דבר כזה טוב במעשים, יש רק טוב בלב האדם כי מעשים כשלעצמם אין להם תכלית. לא יכולה להיות להם כוונה.
עכשיו "כוונה" הופכת, עכשיו המילה "כוונה" היא מאוד מוזרה. יש לה פירוש חדש של המודרניות שלא היה לה מעולם קודם.
"כוונה", אם אתה קורא כל טקסט עתיק, כל טקסט מימי הביניים על כוונה, תראה שכוונה היא דין במעשה. כוונה היא תיאור של מה שאתה עושה. זה לא תיאור של המצב הפנימי שלך.
איך אני יודע את זה? תקרא כל סוגיא של "מצוות צריכות כוונה" ותראה שאין שיטה שהכלל שונה מזה. אני עושה טענה אמיתית אז אתם יכולים להתווכח איתי. אבל ככה רוב הקושיות על הסוגיא של "מצוות צריכות כוונה" ואותו דבר לגבי "מלאכת מחשבת אסרה תורה", אין, אף אחת מאלה לא עוסקת במצב הפנימי שלך. כולן עוסקות במה שהמעשה הוא.
כי מה שמסביר מעשה, כמובן שהמצב הפנימי שלך הוא חלק מזה כשמדובר במעשים אנושיים. בני אדם פועלים באמצעות מצבים פנימיים. אני לא אומר שמצבים פנימיים לא קיימים. אני חושב שהטוב לא לגמרי, לא תלוי רק בזה, כמו שזה בנצחיות.
הטוב הוא שזה דבר טוב, כי זה לתכלית טובה.
תלמיד: וזה גם לא שלם באופן עצמאי, נכון, מהצד השני, יש לך כוונות טובות בלי מעשה.
מרצה: בדיוק. כוונות טובות הן ההיפך. בדיוק. לפי ה... כמובן. כמובן, כוונות טובות שהן רק במצב נצחי, ולא מכוונות למעשה, שזה לא דבר שבכלל הגיוני במערכת הישנה, שאיכשהו הגיוני בחדשות, כי אז זה תמיד באיזשהו אופן כזה. כי אז טוב הוא דבר נצחי, זה רק רגש, או רק סוג של נטייה, או כמו התגברות על האגואיזם שלך, או דברים כאלה, אלה דברים נצחיים לחלוטין.
התגברות על האגואיזם שלך, שזה מה שאנשים במודרניות חושבים שזה מה שהופך מעשים טובים לטובים, היא דבר נצחי לחלוטין. לאף אחד לא אכפת אם אתה מגיע להתגברות על האגואיזם או למטרות אגואיסטיות, נכון? זה המעשה שאכפת לו.
לכן, כשאתה קורא תיאורים עתיקים של "שלא לשמה", תמיד יש תיאור שונה, תמיד יש תיאור של המעשה שהוא שונה, ואני חושב תמיד, גם כמעט תמיד, זה באמת שונה. מישהו שלומד שלא לשמה לומד בצורה שונה ממישהו שלומד לשמה. זה לא רק שיש לו דבר שונה בראש שלו.
נכון שהסיבה שהוא פועל בצורה שונה היא כי הוא לא מבין את הטוב שבלימוד. אז ההבדל הוא מאוד פשוט. למשל, מישהו שלמד שלא לשמה, לא לתכלית הלימוד או אולי אם הלימוד עצמו הוא תכלית לתכלית אחרת, לא משנה, לקראת זה, הוא הולך ללמוד רק כל עוד הוא מקבל כסף והשני הולך להפסיק ללמוד, נכון? ברגע שהוא לא מקבל כסף, מכבדים אותך בשביל זה. אז יש הבדל אמיתי במעשה, אתה יכול לראות את ההבדל במה שהוא עושה. זה לא רק הבדל בראש שלו.
הפירוש החסידי של "שלא לשמה" הוא כולו בראש שלך. כי לפיהם, אם אתה לומד להנאתך, למשל, במילים אחרות, כי אתה מכיר בעצמך שזה טוב, זה גם שלא לשמה. כי הם מגיעים לנתינת תכליות לעולם שהיא לחלוטין מבחוץ, שבה העולם ריק מתכלית, לא רק שהקב"ה נותן לו תכלית, אלא שהוא לא באמת נותן אפילו, נכון? זה תכליתי רק במובן שזה מה שהקב"ה רוצה, ולכן זה או פנתאיזם או הגשמה, או אלוה פיזי, אלוה דמוי-אדם, מבינים מה אני אומר?
מאוד פשוט, מאוד פשוט שטיקל תועלת.
ולכן, למשל, למדנו שבוע שעבר, את הרמב"ם הזה. שמדבר על איך אתה יכול להיות עובד ה' בכל מה שאתה עושה אם אתה אוכל כדי ללמוד, בעצם.
עכשיו, אנשים חושבים שזה אומר שכשאתה אוכל, אתה צריך לחשוב מחשבות מסוימות. אין לזה שום קשר לזה. זה לא על מצב הנפש שלך בזמן שאתה אוכל. במילים אחרות, הכוונה, "כוונה", בעולם העתיק, היא התשובה לשאלה למה אתה עושה את זה. זה לא התשובה לשאלה מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה. אתם מבינים את ההבדל? זה הבדל של שורה אחת מאוד.
בימינו, "כוונה" ו"ספרי מוסר", "לשמה", "כוונה", כל המילים היפות האלה אומרות, מה יש בראש שלך בזמן שאתה עושה את זה? וברמב"ם זה אומר, למה אתה עושה את זה? מה התשובה לשאלה למה אתה עושה את זה?
מה יש בראש שלך כל היום? לפעמים שבוע שעבר קראתי לזה, מה יש בראש שלך כל היום? אבל זה לא אומר הראש שלך אף פעם. זה התשובה לשאלה.
זו הייתה התשובה לסתירה של רב חיים ברמב"ם. זו התשובה להרבה דברים.
תלמיד: אז התשובה למה שעכשיו אנחנו מוחאים כפיים לפני מגילה, שכולם צריכים לכוון לצאת ידי חובה.
מרצה: בדיוק. זה שטויות. הסתירה של רב חיים. כמובן, החזון איש מנסה לומר את זה אבל אין לו דרך לומר את זה. אני לא יודע אם זו תשובה נכונה. אני חושב שיש תשובה פשוטה יותר לזה, אני רק אומר, זה נשמע הרבה דברים.
כמו שאתה אומר, אין דבר כזה שאתה הולך לבית הכנסת בזמן שקוראים את המגילה, כי המצווה היא לקרוא את המגילה. מה זה אומר שאני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? מה אני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? כוונה היא לא על לכוון בראש שלך. כמובן שאתה יכול ללכת ולכוון בראש שלך, אבל זו רק המילה. זה בעצם הופך את זה לדי קטן באיזשהו אופן. זה הופך את זה למוזר.
לא, זה לוקח זמן.
רק להבהיר, מה שיש בראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. הראש שלך הוא איבר חשוב. ומה שאתה חושב בכל רגע זה דבר חשוב להתמקד בו, אבל לא בגלל הדין של כוונה, בגלל סיבה אחרת לגמרי, כי הראש שלך הוא מעשה בפני עצמו. יכולה להיות לך כוונה טובה שלום [הטקסט נקטע כאן]
מרצה: כמו שאתה אומר, יש הרבה דברים. כשאתה הולך לבית הכנסת, למה אתה קורא את המגילה? כי המסר נמצא במגילה. מה זה אומר שאני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? מה אני צריך לכוון בראש שלי? הכוונה היא לא על לכוון בראש שלך. כמובן שאתה יכול ללכת ולכוון בראש שלך. אבל זו רק המילה. זה הופך את זה למוזר.
לא, זה לוקח זמן. רק להבהיר. מה שיש בראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. הראש שלך הוא איבר חשוב. מה שאתה חושב בכל רגע זה דבר חשוב להתמקד בו. אבל לא בגלל הדין של כוונה. בגלל סיבה אחרת לגמרי. כי הראש שלך הוא מעשה בפני עצמו.
יכולה להיות לך כוונה טובה שלא לשמה. יכולה להיות לך כוונה כמו הרש"ש על קריאת שמע. כי מה שיש ב... כי הסיבה שאתה עושה את זה היא לא כי זה טוב, אלא בגלל סיבה אחרת. זה כמו הבעל שם טוב עם השופר. אולי, אני לא יודע. לא צריך להיות לך שום כוונה. נכון? הכוונה היא רק – כן, אני לא יודע, זה מסובך. מה שקורה בסיפורים האלה, אני לא יודע מה אתם מבינים. נצטרך לעבור על כל העניין.
זה מאוד פשוט. אז זה מאוד פשוט. אז עכשיו אנחנו מבינים גם למה בימים הישנים, לשמה הוא דין במעשה. לשמה הוא דין במעשה. לשמה הוא דין במעשה. יש סתם מעשה, ויש לשמה, ויש שלא לשמה.
כמובן, מכיוון שבני אדם פועלים עם הראש שלהם, יש משהו עם הראש שלך, אבל זה לא דין במה שיש בראש שלך.
וזו הסיבה שכמובן, אנשים מודרניים, לא רק שלא יכולים לדמיין שהקב"ה שורה במקום אחר חוץ מהראש שלהם, הם לא יכולים לדמיין שום טוב, שזה באמת מה שהם מתכוונים, חוץ מבכוונה שלהם, שזה דבר מאוד מוזר, כי זה סוג של חסר תועלת, וזה מוביל לדבר המוזר הזה.
כולם רוצים להיות טובים. לא, אתה לא רוצה להיות טוב. רצון פירושו רצון לעשות. מה זה בכלל אומר? אבל אם כל הטוב הוא במשהו, זה איכשהו הגיוני. זה עדיין לא לגמרי הגיוני. אבל זו הסיבה שהם מגיעים לחשוב ככה, כי הם חייבים לחשוב ככה.
עכשיו, אני מראה לכם למה הם מוכרחים לחשוב ככה, בגלל המחשבה שלהם שאין טוב בעולם האמיתי, בעולם החיצוני. אז לכן, הטוב חייב להיות – אז זה לא יכול להיות לגמרי מה שאתה עושה, כי זה דבר חיצוני, וזה לא באמת טוב. אז זה חייב להיות מה שאתה עושה, ולכן זה חייב להיות שגם אם אתה עושה את זה, אם אתה רוצה לעשות משהו טוב ואתה אף פעם לא עושה שום דבר טוב, אתה עדיין בחור טוב.
תלמיד: אז איך היית יודע הרבה מזה? זה מה שדנתי הרבה פעמים. בתיאוריה שלי, זה אומר – גם אם אתה יכול מושגית לחלק אותם, עדיין יש לך בעיית מתאם, נכון? רגע אחד. זה מה שאתה אומר, נכון? כלומר, גם אם אני יכול איכשהו להפריד את הכוונה מהמעשה, אני עדיין צריך איזשהו מתאם.
מרצה: ברור, אתה חייב לפחות לומר שאתה לא רוצה את זה מספיק או משהו. זה מה שאני הייתי אומר, או מה שאנשים אחרים אומרים. כלומר, גם אנשים אחרים היו אומרים את זה, נכון?
תלמיד: אנשים אחרים, כן, הם אומרים משהו, אבל אני אומר שהתיאוריה שלהם מכריחה אותם לומר שהטוב הוא כולו במצב הפנימי ולא במצב הממשי, ולכן הם מגיעים לומר את הדברים המצחיקים האלה, בדיוק, ואז הם מגיעים לזה, כי זו שאלה גם בשבילם, הם מסכימים שזו שאלה, והם ממציאים את התשובה שלהם, ואני משתמש בשאלה הזו כדי להראות שכל העניין אבסורדי, אבל הם היו אומרים, אני חייב לומר את זה, והם חייבים למצוא תשובה, בדיוק, שהם לא משוגעים, הם משוגעים.
מרצה: חתיכת הפאזל העיקרית שחסרה והסיבה שגורמת לכל המוזרות הזו ולכל המחלוקת של נפש החיים והתניא או מה שזה לא יהיה – ובכן, לשמה, הכל נגרם מאובדן הלשמה בעולם האמיתי. מכיוון שאנשים מפסיקים להאמין שהעולם הוא לשמה, הם מתחילים, הם נדחקים לאחת משתי האפשרויות האלה: או שכל הלשמה הוא בראש שלך, או שהכל הוא כי הקב"ה אמר כך, שזו בעצם השיטה של נפש החיים. מבינים?
עכשיו כשאתה אומר שזה בראש שלך, אז אתה מגיע לבעיות שונות. אז לכן אתה חייב לומר שהראש שלך הוא גם אלוקות, כל מיני דברים. אבל זה הסיפור הבסיסי.
פשוט אומר – מאוד פשוט – לפי התיאוריה שלי, אם לאדם יש נטייה ממשית לעשות דברים – לא אומר שאני יושב בחדר שלי וחושב מחשבות טובות. זה לא מה שזה אומר. זה כמו שהגמרא אומרת, במילים אחרות, אם אני סוג של אדם שעושה צדקה כל שנה, אבל השנה אין לי כסף בכיס, אז לשנה הזו אני עדיין אדם טוב. אבל בשלב מסוים אני לא אדם טוב. אגב, כי אני באמת עושה טוב, נכון? אתה באמת עושה.
תלמיד: או סתם יש משהו חיצוני שמונע ממך, חוסם אותך. אז אתה עדיין נחשב אדם טוב. אם מעולם לא הייתי עושה, לא הייתי עושה.
מרצה: בדיוק. אתה לא יכול לומר, אפילו אריסטו, יש מחלוקת על זה. אריסטו הולך עד כדי כך לומר, אם מעולם לא היה לך כסף, אתה אף פעם לא בעל צדקה. אם פעם היה לך כסף, והיום אין לך כסף, אז אפשר לומר – זה מה שהתורה צריכה להבטיח לך שיהיה לך כסף. כי אחרת אתה לא יכול לעשות מצוות. אתה לא יכול להיות בעל צדקה. אתה צריך גוף. זה מה שזלמן [הגר"א] אמר, אתה צריך גוף כדי לעשות מצוות. אחרת אתה יכול לרצות לעשות מצווה, הרצון הזה לא מעניין.
זה החילוק הגדול וזה, אני חושב, הנימוק למה כל זה, למה המחלוקת הזו, כל הדברים שדנו בהם. וזו תשובתו של משה רבינו למלאכים, "יש בכם" זה, "יש בכם" זה, במילים אחרות, אתה חייב להיות מסוגל לעשות את זה.
זה מוביל לדיון אחר, כי יש טוב לנשמה בלי גוף, רק פעילויות שונות. זה מאוד מעניין, כשאנחנו אומרים, שני הדברים האלה לא בהכרח מתחברים. לכן יש מחלוקת עתיקה, כמו שאמרתי. המחלוקת לא הייתה, כלומר, ואין כאן משהו שאני אומר שכך הרבה אנשים חושבים. כי מה שקורה הוא שהשאלה מהו טוב לנשמה בלי גוף היא גם לעשות משהו.
אנחנו מאוד מבולבלים. אנחנו חושבים שנשמות בלי גופות לא יכולות לעשות כלום. הן עושות דברים. זה כמו לחשוב, או לדעת, או אולי אפילו לרצות, או דברים מסוג כזה, שזה עשייה. הטוב של הנשמה בלי גוף הוא לא שהוא חולם, כאילו הוא אדם עם יד, אלא שהוא חולם בבשר. בבשר. הוא בבשר. זה גם מעשה. לנשמה, זה מעשה. אולי לגוף, זה כמו מעשה. לנשמה, זה כמו מעשה. זו הפעילות שלה.
הטוב של כל דבר הוא סוג של פעילות. רק שזה לא הסוג שלך של פעילות. אז זה לא, אנחנו לא, אם אתה רוצה לחפש את הסוג הזה של דבר, לכן זה מוזר. זה מוזר. כולם גם יגידו לך שמה שבראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. מה שבראש שלך זה מאוד חשוב. לא בראש שלך, בשכל שלך. זה מאוד חשוב כי אלה הם סוגי הדברים שהנשמה כנשמה או החושב כחושב, האדם כאדם במובן האמיתי עושה. לא בגלל שזה דבר פנימי. זה דבר חיצוני. זה מעשה. מחשבה כמעשה. מחשבה כמעשה כי זה מה שהיא עושה. היא לא רוצה שום דבר אחר.
לגוף, סתם לחשוב, לחשיבה יש שתי משמעויות. לחשיבה כאן יש שתי משמעויות שונות, נכון? חשיבה פירושה חשיבה לקראת וחשיבה ש, נכון? או חשיבה על, נכון? חשיבה לקראת פירושה פשוט תכנון. זה סתם חשיבה על אמצעים ולכן, סוג כזה של דבר לא הגיוני בלי מעשה. אבל חשיבה על דברים שהמחשבה מסתיימת בחשיבה עצמה, לכן, למשל, לפי המחשבה העתיקה, חשיבה על דברים שהם זמניים לא נחשבת כחשיבה, נכון?
חשיבה על מעשה, אין לה מעלה של חשיבה. כל המעלה של מחשבה, כמו שהתניא אומר, המעלה של מחשבה, זו העצה הגדולה, שהיא בעצם לקוחה מאריסטו, נכונה רק למחשבה על דברים אמיתיים. זה לא עובד להלכה, זו הטעות הגדולה של התניא, מנקודת המבט של אריסטו. זה לא עובד מנקודת המבט של הלכה. יש תשובה לטעות הזו, אני לא אומר שזו טעות, אני רק אומר שמנקודת המבט הזו זו טעות.
אתה לא יכול לומר, אני חושב על מה לעשות עם צדקה על פי טור, אז אתה חושב על שחיטת תרנגולות כהלכה, אז זה טוב רק, כמו שהמשיח אמר. איך יכול להיות שהחשיבה על שחיטת תרנגולות כהלכה היא טובה יותר מהשחיטה עצמה של תרנגולות כהלכה? זה לא יכול להיות טוב יותר. זה גרוע יותר. כלומר, אולי זה טוב יותר במובן מסוים כי זה מארגן את זה. זה נותן לזה צורה. זה נותן את התשובה הנכונה לשאלה הזו. אבל זה לא טוב יותר.
הדבר היחיד שהוא טוב יותר הוא חשיבה שיכולה באמת להסתיים בחשיבה. זה נקרא קריאת שמע. לכן תורה לשמה היא הדרך היחידה ללמוד קבלה. אם אתה לומד נגלה, אתה אף פעם לא לומד תורה לשמה. כי לזה אף פעם אין את המעלה של מחשבה. זה תמיד משועבד לדבר אחר, מאז ומעולם, תורה לשמה פירושה רק לימוד נסתר. כי אלה הם הדברים היחידים שמסתיימים בידיעה. המטרה שלהם היא לדעת אותם. כי כמה שכל ט"ז וכל ב"ח, זה רק מעשה קטן של מה שבתוך המקרה.
תלמיד: לזה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: כן. כמו שאמרתי, יש סיבוכים בזה. אבל כן, הט"ז הוא רק על, לפחות מנקודת המבט של חכמה מעשית, הוא רק על מה לעשות כשהמקרה הזה קורה. ולכן, הוא על דברים שקורים.
אם אתה לומד את זה ואתה לא מתכנן, למשל, מהו עיקר לשמה, מהו הלשמה הגדול ביותר, שלא לשמה שמביא לידי לשמה? אם אתה לומד ואתה לא מתכנן לעשות את מה שאתה לומד, דווקא זה, מנקודת המבט הזו, יהיה לשמה. זה קצת נוגד את האינטואיציה של מה שאתה חושב.
תלמיד: לא, לא, מזה, ברמת המעשה וברמת איך שאנחנו מדרגים את המעשה זה נכון, כי זה בלוף, זה מה שאמרתי בשבוע שעבר, זה נקרא, זה נקרא שהוא לא לומד פנימית, הוא לומד חיצונית, זה נקרא—
מרצה: המשמעות של סוג כזה של לימוד, המשמעות, ה"למה". למה אנחנו לומדים לא לדבר לשון הרע? כדי לא לדבר לשון הרע. אם אתה לומד על זה, ואתה מדבר לשון הרע, אתה מוסיף על החטא. אתה רק אומר את המילים, אבל אתה לא באמת לומד. זו המשמעות. אבל זו לא המעלה של לימוד לשמו. זה לא שלא לשמה ברמה הגבוהה באמת. יש שתי משמעויות שונות.
תלמיד: אז אם אתה לומד על לשון הרע, זה שלא לשמה?
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: זה שלא לשמה?
מרצה: מוסיף על החטא זה נקרא. זה לא אותו דבר כמו שלא לשמה. זה מה שאני שואל. במצב הזה אנחנו יכולים לקרוא לזה—זה—זו משמעות שונה של—בשביל זה—לא, כי זו בדיוק הבעיה. זה מה ש, זה מה ש, זה הדיון. אין—מישהו שלומד בלי לתכנן לעשות את זה, יש את ה—שזה דבר אחר—לימוד על הטוב מוביל אנשים לעשות טוב. זו עובדה מעניינת על הטבע האנושי. אם אתה לומד הרבה הלכה, אתה מפסיק להיות—אם אתה לא מתכנן ל—זה פשוט קשור ל—
תלמיד: משפיע ביום שישי?
מרצה: כי אנחנו מושפעים מאוד ממה שאנחנו חושבים. אבל, בסדר, אבל זה דבר אחר. אבל אם אתה לומד כמו דואג, כמו דואג, כמו טועה, כמו שאז אני מוסיף על החטא, אז לא, אז אין מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה, אז זה עושה אותך גרוע יותר. אתה הופך לבעל דעת, חסר מוסר, סוג כזה של אדם, כי אתה מגלה את כל התחבולות של העולם בלי לתכנן לא לעשות אותן. אתה בעצם הופך לאדם גרוע יותר.
ראש השנה הוא כשאתה לומד דברים שהם רק תיאוריה, או אפילו במובן הזה, אתה עדיין לא מתכנן לעשות את זה כמו שאנחנו אומרים מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה, ולאט לאט, למשל, אני אומר לך שאתה צריך ללמוד קבלה. אתה אומר, למה אני צריך ללמוד קבלה? אני אומר לך, אתה תהפוך למקובל. בסדר, הגיוני. מקובל זו נקודת התייחסות טובה. אני אלמד קבלה. אז, לאט לאט אתה לומד קבלה, ואתה מבין שלימוד קבלה טוב יותר מלהיות מקובל. אולי, כי זה באמת טעים. זה לשמה, וזה קורה כל הזמן. אני רואה את זה.
אגב, זה קורה. זה לא עבודת ה', זה קורה באופן טבעי, כי אתה מתחיל לחשוב שזה טוב. אנשים שהתחילו ללמוד קבלה כי הם חשבו שזה הולך להיות מגניב, ואז הם התחילו באמת לאהוב את זה. זה קורה עם הכל. כי אתה מתחיל לראות את הטוב, לכן אנחנו ממשיכים להסביר. אתה חושב שזה דבר רע, אז אתה צריך לעשות את זה בשביל עצמך, ואז אתה עושה את זה בשביל הכסף שלך. זו הבעיה. לכן זו לא תוכנית טובה מאוד ללמוד קבלה כדי להפוך למקובל.
תלמיד: אבל דבר רע זה על הרגשות.
מרצה: לא, לא במובן הזה. כמובן שלא. במובן של לראות את הטוב, לראות איך זה באמת טוב. לכן זו תוכנית גרועה. מישהו שרוצה ללמוד איך להפוך ל—הוא צריך לעבוד באופן פעיל בכיוון הזה כי אחרת הוא עלול להתחיל לאהוב את זה גם כשהוא לא מרוויח כסף. הרבה אנשים, אתה יודע, אני מכיר כל כך הרבה אנשים שהתחילו להיכנס ללימוד, הם חשבו שזה הולך להיות עסק טוב.
מרצה:
זו הבעיה. לכן זו לא תוכנית טובה מאוד ללמוד קבלה כדי להפוך למקובל. שטויות זה על הרגשות. לא, לא במובן הזה. כמובן שלא. במובן של לראות את הטוב. לראות איך זה באמת טוב. לכן זו תוכנית גרועה.
אם מישהו רוצה ללמוד איך להפוך למקובל, הוא צריך לעבוד באופן פעיל בכיוון הזה כי אחרת הוא עלול להתחיל לאהוב את זה גם כשהוא לא מרוויח כסף. הרבה אנשים, אתם יודעים כמה, אני מכיר כל כך הרבה אנשים שהתחילו להיכנס ללימוד. הם חשבו שזה הולך להיות עסק טוב. זה הולך להיות עסק טוב. מסתבר שהוא פשוט אוהב את זה. ואז הוא הפסיק להרוויח כסף מזה כי הוא לא עושה את החלקים שמכניסים כסף, נכון?
משהו שבאמת קורה. זה דבר מאוד רגיל, זה. זה לא קסם. אבל בכל מקרה, זה לא קשור לרש"י. זה רק כדי לענות על השאלות האלה.
מרצה:
השכל. אני מגלזן. כל זקן היה אומר את התורה הזו, שפורים פירושו שהחיצוניות היא גם הפנימיות. נכון? זוכרים?
זה דבר ישן, אני מניח שזה רק בשבילו. כי פורים היה הולך לומר את זה מהגוף. אני לא חושב שזה נכון, אבל כמו חנוכה, זה היה על קיום המצוות. שפורים היה רק על עצם הקיום. נכון? על זה הם מדברים.
ואנחנו לומדים שהגוף של היהודי הוא גם קדוש. עכשיו אתם מבינים מה זה אומר, לפי השיטה החדשה שלי.
מרצה:
זה אומר שהפנימיות היא החיצוניות. אין אמונה בזה. כל הרצון הזה, זה מה שאנשים קוראים פנימיות, הוא באמת מחשבה לחוץ.
יש לך הרגשה מאוד חזקה כשאתה לומד תורה, זה כל כך עוצמתי, אתה כל כך פארקאכט ואתה אוהב את זה כל כך ואתה רוצה את זה כל כך, אבל אתה לא מתכנן לעשות את זה. כמו רוב האנשים, הם כל כך מעורבים רגשית אבל הם לא באמת מתכננים לעשות את זה. הם מתכננים לעשות משהו עם מצב נפשי שונה לגמרי מאשר להיות במצב הרגשי הזה. שני דברים שאין להם שייכות זה לזה. אז זה, זה, זה ההבחנה.
אבל זה מה שהיוונים אמרו. מה העיקר של פורים? אני רוצה לומר לכם, לאף אחד אין דביקות בפורים. לכולם יש דביקות בבלוף, או שאין להם פורים.
מרצה:
בפורים יש ריקודים, ויש לנו משלוח מנות, ויש לנו סעודה, וזה למטה. זה בעולם הגשמי. זו כל הנקודה, לפחות מההתחלה, לפחות בממד של בין אדם לחברו. זו כל הנקודה.
מרצה:
כמו שהרמב"ם אומר, עיקר שמחה, הרמב"ם אומר, פירושו ממש לשמח לב עניים ויתומים. זה מה שעושה, זה מה ששמחה היא. שמחה פירושה להיות בן אדם טוב.
בין אם אתה מרגיש את זה ובין אם לא, זו בעיה קטנה, אבל זו לא הנקודה. שמחה היא לא הרגשה, שמחה היא עובדה. ואם אתה מתנהג כבן אדם כלפי אנשים אחרים, זו השמחה.
מרצה:
אז בקרוב, כולם צריכים לתת כסף למתנות לאביונים המקומיות שלהם, וזו תורה חסידית ישנה שצריך לתת בעצמך, וכולם שיהיה להם יום טוב שמח.
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Each shiur is essentially an entire book compressed to its core insight (*nekuda hachiddush*). The analogy: a scholar has an insight (in the shower), finds sources, builds an argument, publishes after years, gets reviewed, and eventually the core insight is reduced to five lines in an encyclopedia. These shiurim start with the summary. Anyone could expand any single shiur into a full book, but since nobody reads full books anyway, the compressed version comes first.
Today's shiur is a "new book" that continues the previous two weeks' discussions. The realization (arrived at on Sunday, "in the shower") is that everything discussed so far is connected.
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The central problem is the relationship between pnimiyus (interiority) and chitzoniyus (exteriority) — a topic everyone invokes (especially around Purim) but few define clearly.
- On one hand: The Rambam's approach seems very *external* — focused on actions. The Chasidic reading of the Rambam is a misreading; the Rambam is genuinely about externals/actions.
- On the other hand: The Rambam was not a "modern Litvak" who reduces Judaism to mechanical performance. The framework here emphasizes *being a person*, not being a machine that produces outputs — which sounds like an *inner* thing.
The core question: What is the *nekuda* (essential point) of a Jew / a good person? Is it inside or outside? Is this a chicken-or-egg problem (where do you start?) or a definitional problem (what *is* goodness)?
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Last week's main point was that there is a genuine question about what it means to be "good on the inside." There are two different things that "being good on the inside" could mean. (This is flagged as a *droshe* — a more homiletical framing — before returning to "reality.")
A *shmuess* (talk) on Shabbos about the Mishkan claimed it needed to be *liphnai v'lifnim* (inward), citing a Torah from an *Acharon* that this means *lishmah* (for its own sake / with good intentions), requiring *nidvas halev* (generosity of heart). This is a total misreading of Rashi — "no *shaychus*" (no connection). The conclusion that the *Hashraas HaShechina* (Divine Presence) rests not in the physical structure but in the *lev* (heart) doesn't answer the question but makes it worse: Why is your heart better than a building? Nobody explains this. Yet there is "something Jewish" behind the intuition — it's just unclear what it actually means.
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What does it mean in plain English when people say the *pnimiyus* of a Yid, the *nidvas halev*, the inner self?
"Internal" means that nothing *outside* of "you" makes you good or bad — it's the "you" that makes you good. Analogy: a talented person forced into a police uniform who is bad at being a cop isn't a bad *person* — they have 150 other talents (comedian, writer, musician). The "external" is the uniform/role that doesn't match who they really are.
1. A uniform is not chitzoniyus in the relevant sense — it's just a mismatch, not an inside/outside distinction. Saying you're "really" a musician rather than a policeman is just saying your talents lie elsewhere.
2. Talents are not "you" in some deep inner sense — they are things *about* you, possibly Aristotelian "accidents." (The student pushes back, suggesting talents *constitute* the person like ingredients make a cake, which is why every person is unique. This is flagged as "somewhat wrong" but not pursued.)
3. Both roles involve external action — Being a musician is something you *do* with your body; people hear it. If no one hears your music, you're "like a tree falling in the forest." The supposed "inner" musical self is just an *ability* — and an ability to do *what*? To play music, which is an action. "Being good *be'etzem*" (essentially/inherently) collapses into nothing without the doing.
4. The table analogy: A table used to block a door is being *misused*: it's ill-suited for that purpose, its shape and structure don't match the function. Similarly, a person whose talents don't fit their role will struggle and suffer. This is real and true, but it's just the concept of proper function vs. misuse — not pnimiyus vs. chitzoniyus.
When people say "internally every Yid is good" or "every human is good inside," what do they actually mean? Do they mean people have good dispositions? Some do, some don't. Do they mean humans *as such* have good dispositions? What would that even mean? The common intuition about inner goodness has not yet been given coherent content. A false answer (inner = matching your predispositions/talents) has been cleared away.
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The proposal that pnimiyus/chitzoniyus maps onto what a thing truly is (its nature/purpose) versus what it can be used for but isn't suited for is a "true vort" (valid point) but not an explanation of the pnimiyus/chitzoniyus distinction people invoke. "Humans are good at humaning" is either trivially true or meaningless — it doesn't make someone a *good* human. The concepts of lishmah, good intention, good ratzon (will) — these are not the same as the suitedness point. They're something else entirely. The drasha about inner goodness remains practically unintelligible — "give me a mashal, what should I *do* because of your drasha?"
A student raises the point about seeing someone "limping" and being able to fix it — why not correct the person giving the drasha? This connects to mitzvas tochacha but is deferred as a separate, complicated discussion. A shiur was given on this topic in Monsey on Rosh Chodesh, dealing with a different brayta. [Flagged to be revisited later.]
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A foundational *yesod* (principle): It can't be that everyone before a certain date was crazy, nor that everyone after that date is crazy. Something puzzling happened — whether in 1772 or 1992 or whenever "modernity" struck — that caused people to start thinking in new ways. The pnimiyus/chitzoniyus discourse is an example: people have been saying these drashos for ~400 years, but going back further, nobody says them. The earlier sources (when read carefully, "simply") don't actually support this reading, even though people retroject it into them. The task is to understand both what these drashos mean to the people saying them and what historical/conceptual shift made them start seeming meaningful.
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A student offers a more sophisticated attempt: the world of thoughts is fundamentally different from the world of things (raw material, external objects). If your basic ontological model is built around "things in the world," then thoughts don't fit that model. You need to find a model for thoughts that can't be reduced to things. This forces you to posit a thinker — someone the thoughts "belong to." This thinker must be radically distant from the world of things. The easiest move: whoever the thoughts belong to — that's "you," the inner self. This creates the inner/outer distinction: the thinker (inner, pnimiyus) vs. the world of things (outer, chitzoniyus).
This is promising — "we're going somewhere" — but the student has jumped one step ahead in the planned progression. The *state of the question* must first be fully established before moving to explanations.
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"A kop ken men nisht ibershteln" — you can't give someone a new head. You can give someone tools, objects, help — but not a new way of seeing the world. A rebbe can do that, but not in a day, month, or year. To make the question about pnimiyus even *intelligible* to the drasha-giver would require breaking enormous amounts of conceptual ice.
The classic Indian parable: blind men each touch one part of an elephant and describe it differently (tail = fuzzy rope, trunk = pipe, leg = pillar). Each speaks truth *from their perspective*. The sighted person sees the whole elephant. Perspectivism means people's partial views are *partially right*, not simply wrong. Philosophy's purpose is to open your eyes — to see what truly is. And if you see what truly is, you must *by definition* be able to explain everyone else's mistakes.
Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas (questions in Talmudic law) are always *good* kashas — unanswerable if you accept all his (often unstated) assumptions. You can't "answer" them with a fuzzy teretz (forced resolution). The real resolution is to dissolve the question — to show that the underlying assumptions create a world where the question arises, but reality is "something entirely different," so the kasha either doesn't start or doesn't end. Reb Nachman's principle: there's no world in which both the kasha is a good kasha *and* the teretz is a good teretz. One of them has to give.
If your philosophy doesn't explain why everyone else is "crazy" — and in precisely *what way* they're crazy — then your understanding is deficient. A true understanding of the world must account for others' errors, not just assert its own correctness. Seeing the full picture necessarily includes explaining the partial pictures and why they mislead.
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A book aimed at teenagers to defend Yiddishkeit argues: If there is a God → He created the world for a reason → everything has meaning. If not → nothing has meaning → no reason to go to yeshiva. This is 100% right in content but inverted in logical order.
A humorous dream about a government "Ministry of Meaning" (Misrad HaMashmaut) that dispatches trucks of meaning to places lacking it. Communists want equal distribution of meaning; capitalists want meaning allocated by merit. This connects to the real contemporary phenomenon of the "meaning crisis" — a widespread sense that life lacks meaning.
It's not "if God exists, then meaning exists." It's "if meaning exists, then God exists." Meaning is not something God *adds* to a meaningless world. Rather, meaning (what-for-ness / tachlis) is intrinsic to the nature of things, and from that, one arrives at God.
This traces to Socrates and Avraham Avinu: the insight that you cannot explain what something *is* without explaining what it is *for*. A table cannot be understood without reference to what tables are for. This is teleology — but the preferred term is "meaning," defined as identical: meaning = what something is for.
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- The tachlis (end/goal/completion) of a thing is more definitional of what it is than its material composition, its efficient cause, or its current state.
- For living things especially, form, end, and essence converge — what a living thing *is*, what it's *for*, and what it's *becoming* are the same.
- Theology (what God is / the ultimate for-ness), physics (what things are), and ethics (bringing things to their completion) are the same kind of inquiry.
- David Hume's "is/ought" distinction (the so-called naturalistic fallacy) is nonsense in this framework, because "ought" is simply the completion of "is."
- Sefer Mishlei (Proverbs) equates knowledge with goodness — not because knowing facts makes you moral, but because truly knowing what something is includes knowing its proper completion/functioning. "Being good" and "acting well" are the same thing.
The existence of ends in nature does not automatically tell you what those ends are. Francis Bacon committed the fallacy of conflating the *existence* of teleology with *knowing* what the ends are. Real science, properly understood, is the investigation of what each thing is *for*. The Rambam's introduction to Perush HaMishnah about Shlomo HaMelech: when Scripture says Solomon "knew every tree," it means he knew what every tree was *for* — its telos. This is the same kind of knowledge as knowing Torah, which is "knowing the good for everything." If the good is causally prior to the partial existence of things that tend toward it, that's what "Torah is the entirety of the world" means.
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An important caveat: this is not merely a historical event. The anti-teleological impulse has always existed — it is what Avraham Avinu fought against (Avodah Zarah / idolatry). The *yetzer hara* (evil inclination) is precisely this tendency to see things otherwise. Reducing this to mere *hishtalshelus* (historical development), as if it were only a contingent cultural shift, must be avoided.
Nevertheless, the historical version:
- Francis Bacon (*Novum Organum* — "new science") and later David Hume and others declared that there are no "fors" in the world (*ein ba'olam tachlis*).
- The world has causes but not meanings. They redefined "cause" to exclude teleological/final causation.
- The practical difference: instead of explaining a tree as something tending toward being a full tree (its nature is its trajectory toward completion), they say a tree is merely what happens when various forces push matter into a certain configuration. There is no "being a tree" as a real category — just the accidental result of mechanical forces.
- This is not a natural way of understanding things — most ordinary people naturally think in terms of ends in nature and only get "hacked" out of it by science education.
The modern obsession with history as explanation is a direct consequence of denying final and formal causes. If the only real cause is efficient/material cause ("where something came from"), then explaining anything just means tracing its history. The correct view: what something *is* is explained by where it's *going to* (its end), not where it came from.
The thinkers being criticized are smarter than this presentation makes them sound. There are real reasons they arrived at their positions, which must be studied seriously. But this is "just the review of the book, not the book."
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If there are no final causes in nature, theology is radically constrained to only a few possible positions:
The "intelligent designer" of the Intelligent Design movement is not the God of Judaism. It is, at best, a *nous*, a *malach*, a *sefirah* — an intelligence, but not "the One." If nature has no inherent ends, then the only way to get purpose into the world is to posit an external mind that *imposes* purposes on things from outside — the way a carpenter imposes table-ness on wood (wood has wood-ness inherently; tables do not). This makes God into a being with plans "the way we have plans," which is *hagshama* (corporealization of God). Such a God also *needs* things (the world serves Him), which means He is not truly God. Yeshiva students who worship an intelligent designer are worshiping a false God with a body.
Given the denial of immanent ends in nature, there are exactly three possible theological positions in modernity:
1. Deism — God is the great watchmaker (Newton's position). God made the world but the world runs by itself through mechanical/efficient causes alone. A variant is Deism plus miracles — God is the watchmaker who occasionally *breaks* the watch to intervene. This is what "most modern Orthodox people believe" — a "very weird *shita*."
2. Atheism — No God at all (and "many religious people are also" effectively atheists).
3. Pantheism — God *is* the world itself (*Chassidus*, in a reductive characterization acknowledged as oversimplified). Everything is God. But if understood materially, this raises the question of whether this God is material.
Every modern religious person (besides the speaker, half-jokingly) falls into one of these three categories. All three are consequences of denying teleology in nature.
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If things and actions in the world don't have inherent ends, then no action has meaning by itself. You cannot look at an action or a thing and derive from *what it is* what it is *for*. This is "the basic opinion of all modern people" (also equated with "what the *yetzer hara* holds" and "what the *satan* held from the first day").
There is a glaring anomaly: human beings have intentions. This is the Cartesian exception — everything is "extension" (matter in motion) except for the human mind, which has the strange property called *intentionality*: the capacity to be *about* something else, to *mean* something, to be *directed toward* something.
Analysis of intentionality:
- Intention = being about something else / being toward something else. When I want something, my mental state is *about* that thing. When I plan, I am directed *toward* a future state.
- This is unintelligible in the modern physical picture. You cannot see "aboutness." It cannot be explained by pushing causes (efficient) or pulling causes (material). It can only be explained by formal or final causation — which is precisely what was denied.
- Final causation just IS this: being toward something else, aiming at something else in a real way.
- The future state I aim at doesn't yet exist, so it can't be *pushing* me. It exists "only in my head."
The famous mind-body problem in Cartesian philosophy is not some independent puzzle — it is a direct consequence of denying intentionality/teleology in external things. Once nature is stripped of all "aboutness" and "directedness," the only place intentionality survives is in the human mind, and then the relationship between mind (essentially teleological) and body (defined as non-teleological) becomes inexplicable.
In the Aristotelian framework, the human good was simply the best way for a human to be — the fullness or completeness of humanity, called *eudaimonia*. The human good was not categorically different from any other good — just as the good of a tree is to be a fully realized tree, the good of a human is to be a fully realized human.
Once teleology is denied, this concept of the human good is lost. "The best" is not a real category in nature anymore. What remains are two possibilities:
1. Remnants (*shirayim*) of the old concept — fragments of the idea of happiness/flourishing, but without the metaphysical grounding.
2. Something that in some sense exceeds what existed before — teased but not yet fully explained.
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There are only two ethical systems in classic modernity: utilitarianism and deontology. The third option — virtue ethics — is the correct one, but it is not a modern invention; it is the original Aristotelian framework that modernity abandoned.
The Core Move: Even after denying an objective human telos, people still *feel* happy or unhappy, still experience pleasure and pain. So utilitarianism (Bentham's position, which Nietzsche loved to mock) says: the good is pleasure/feeling happy. This is what survives after the destruction of objective happiness — a subjective, internal sensation.
The Degradation of "Happiness": In the Aristotelian framework, happiness (*eudaimonia*) meant being the best kind of human being — an objective state. In the utilitarian framework, happiness is reduced to having certain feelings. The word is the same, but the meaning has been hollowed out.
The Altruistic Twist and Its Weakness: Pure hedonism sounds obviously inadequate, so utilitarianism adds: you should care about *everyone's* happiness. But why should I care about other people's feelings? There's no principled reason within the system. The altruistic element is borrowed from an older moral tradition (*mesorah*) but has no grounding in the utilitarian framework itself.
The Nozick Experience Machine Problem: If happiness is just feeling good, then a machine that injects drugs to produce constant pleasure should be the ultimate good. Utilitarians have "tied themselves in knots" trying to explain why this wouldn't be good.
Modern Hedonism Is Stranger Than Ancient Hedonism: Ancient hedonists (like Epicureans) still believed in something called "the good" — they just identified it with pleasure. Modern hedonists deny that there is such a thing as "the good" at all; they only know that certain things make them *feel* good. This language ("it makes me feel good") is pervasive — even heard in *yeshivas*, where people say "if Torah makes you feel good, you should learn Torah." This is pure subjectivism.
Moral Sentiment as "Just One More Feeling": The attempt to ground ethics in moral sentiment — a special feeling, a moral sense or conscience, that tells us what is right (Hume and the British tradition) — reduces all moral claims to expressions of feeling. Ethics becomes: "I feel good when you feel good." This is emotivism.
Anscombe's Critique of Conscience: Elizabeth Anscombe's article "Modern Moral Philosophy" critiques the concept of conscience (associated with Joseph Butler and others). The idea that everyone has an inner moral compass that automatically tells them what's good is simply false — she knows people who internally want to kill everyone. This "conscience" talk was widespread in a certain period, including among Jewish thinkers like Rav Hirsch.
The Feeling vs. Thought Distinction: In this framework, there is no real distinction between a moral "feeling" and a moral "thought": a thought is *about* something, but if there is no such thing as objective goodness, then a moral "thought" is not about anything real, and therefore collapses into a mere feeling. Feelings, by definition, are not about anything — they are just internal states. So moral sentiment, no matter how dressed up, is just one more feeling among others, with no reason to privilege it over any other feeling.
A student challenges the claim that moral intuitions are "just feelings," suggesting a meaningful distinction between a sensation and a moral intuition. This is firmly rejected within the modern framework: if there is no objective goodness for a thought to be *about*, then what seems like a moral thought is really just a feeling. The student's point has some force but extended discussion is deferred.
A student raises the point that even murderers like Ted Bundy seem to "know" that what they're doing is wrong — suggesting a universal moral compass. Skepticism is expressed ("I don't think that's true"), but the main argument is more important: even if such a feeling exists universally, it's still just one more feeling with no privileged epistemic status.
The Core Structure: Deontology — obedience to the moral law — is Kant's position. Unlike utilitarianism, it does not ground ethics in feelings or pleasure but in recognition of and obedience to a moral law independent of what you want or feel.
Mapping onto Jewish Communities:
- Utilitarianism: No serious *frum* person really holds this.
- Deontology: This is essentially what every Litvak says — ethics as obedience to law/commandment.
- Chasidim: Sometimes sound hedonistic ("your real feeling is Hashem"), but this may actually be closer to objective happiness (the Aristotelian view) rather than modern hedonism — an interesting but unresolved question.
The Kantian System: Moral rules are absolute, universal, and derived from pure reason. The test is universalizability — "what would happen if everybody did it?" You can't rationally will a world where everyone lies, because you yourself want to live in a world of truth-telling. Therefore lying is wrong. This is not relative to culture, geography, or circumstance — reason is reason everywhere.
The Relationship Between Action and Goodness Becomes Distant: In the old teleological framework, the connection between action and goodness was direct and simple — good actions lead a thing toward its natural end, bad actions destroy it. The *din* (legal/moral status) is in the action itself, not in the intention. In the Kantian framework, with no natural ends, the goodness of an action becomes about the intention behind it — acting for the sake of the moral law, not for happiness or desire. This makes the relationship between action and goodness much more distant and abstract.
Deontology Ultimately Points to God: A moral law that imposes itself from outside, not reducible to feelings or desires, with absolute authority — this ends up being God. Kant himself was a Christian and believed in God partly because of the felt reality of the moral law. There are atheistic versions, but they end up positing something functionally equivalent to God.
Criticism: Deontology Is Also a Kind of Emotivism: Despite claiming to be about reason and law rather than feeling, it also ends up being a kind of emotivism — because the "recognition" of the moral law, the sense of obligation, is itself experienced as a kind of feeling (something imposing on you from outside). A different *kind* of feeling than the warm fuzzy feeling of utilitarianism, but still ultimately a feeling.
A question about whether the source of moral obligation in the Kantian framework is society is dismissed — society is just more people. The obligation must come from something transcendent. A question about cultural relativism ("if you live in Africa...") is deferred as a separate problem afflicting all systems.
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Drawing out the central implication of the post-teleological ethical framework for religious life:
- If goodness is defined as obedience to the moral law (or God's will), then the connection between action and goodness is entirely internal — it resides in human subjectivity, intentionality, desire, "aboutness."
- In the post-teleological world, humans are the *only* things that have intentionality or "aboutness." The universe has no feelings, no purposes, no directedness. Only humans have this "weird, inexplicable, magic thing."
- Therefore, the only thing that can be morally good is the human intention to be good. The act itself, divorced from intention, has no moral weight.
- This is what certain Chassidic systems took as *pashut* (obvious): the only place where God is, or the only good thing, is the intention to be good. It's a "kind of empty intention" — obedience to the moral law — but the link between the law and the person exists only in the mind.
Key formulation: "The only thing that's really good is entirely in the human heart, and the human mind, and the human intention, human soul."
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- *Mitoch shelo lishma ba lishma* ("from doing it not for its own sake, one comes to do it for its own sake") is, for the Rambam, the normal process of moral training/habituation.
- Someone who learns Torah for money is still doing something really good, because goodness is a property of the action itself (learning Torah is objectively good). The person is incomplete — his mind doesn't grasp why it's good, so he doesn't do it *lishma* — but the action retains real goodness.
- It's a *din* (legal/ontological property) in the action, not only in the person.
- The transition from shelo lishma to lishma is natural and expected through habituation.
- Once actions have no inherent goodness and goodness resides only in intention, then doing a good thing for the wrong reason is totally worthless — as the Kotzker Rebbe said.
- The Chassidic literature consistently opens with a puzzling claim: "We've heard that *mitoch shelo lishma ba lishma*, but it doesn't work. Our experience shows the Litvaks never got to lishma." Therefore Chassidus must be added.
- This claim arises precisely because the underlying theory that made it work (teleological ethics, habituation) was destroyed. Once goodness is only internal, there's no mechanism by which external practice naturally leads to internal transformation.
- The Besht's approach — that when you eventually reach lishma, you retroactively elevate (*ma'aleh*) the shelo lishma — is a different framework entirely from the Rambam's, where the shelo lishma was already genuinely good in itself.
- In the ancient/medieval understanding: Someone learning shelo lishma is *actually learning differently*. He learns only as long as he gets paid; when the money stops, he stops. The difference is visible in the action, not just in the head.
- In the Chassidic interpretation: Shelo lishma is *entirely in your head*. Even learning for your own pleasure, or because you personally recognize it as good, counts as shelo lishma — because the only true lishma is doing it purely because God wills it, with no personal stake.
- This leads to a world where purpose is entirely externally imposed by God onto an inherently purposeless world. The world is "entirely empty of purpose; only God gives it purpose, but He doesn't really give it even" — it's purposeful only in the sense that God likes it.
Theological consequence flagged: This framework is either pantheism, *hagshama* (anthropomorphism/corporealization of God), or a "human-like God" — because it requires God to have preferences in a way that mirrors human subjectivity.
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A bold, sweeping claim open to challenge:
- Kavana is a *din* in the action — a description of *what you are doing*, not a description of your internal mental state.
- This resolves most difficulties in the sugya of *mitzvos tzrichos kavana* (whether commandments require intention) and in *melacha machsheves asra Torah* (purposeful labor in Shabbos law).
- Kavana answers the question: "Why are you doing it?" — not "What is in your head while you're doing it?"
- It's about the overall direction and purpose of your life and actions ("what's in your head the whole day"), not about what you're consciously thinking at each microsecond.
- In most Chassidic sefarim, kavana, lishma, and related terms mean: what is in your head while you're doing it — your conscious mental state at the moment of action.
- This leads to practices like the announcement before Megilla reading that "everyone should have in mind to be *yotzei*" (fulfill the obligation) — which is somewhat absurd. If you came to shul to hear the Megilla, what else would you be doing it for? The question "what should I have in my mind?" only arises if kavana is about momentary mental content rather than the purpose of the action.
- The Rambam's teaching that all your deeds should be for the sake of Heaven (e.g., eating in order to have strength to learn) is not about thinking certain thoughts while eating.
- It's about the *reason* you eat — the answer to "why are you doing this?" — which is a fact about the structure of your life, not about your mental state at the dinner table.
- This distinction resolves "Reb Chaim's *stira* (contradiction) in the Rambam" and many other difficulties.
- The Chazon Ish tried to articulate something similar but lacked the conceptual framework.
What is in your mind is very important — but not because of the *din* of kavana. Rather, because your mind is an action in itself. Thinking is itself a form of doing. The importance of mental focus is real, but it derives from a different source than the halakhic category of kavana. These are two separate reasons, and conflating them distorts both.
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The three categories restated:
- Stam maaseh — a plain, unreflective action
- Lishma — an action done for its proper purpose (a quality of the act)
- Shelo lishma — an action done for an improper purpose (also a quality of the act)
Since humans act with their minds, kavana is naturally involved — but it is not an independent *din* in what's in your head.
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Modern people cannot imagine goodness residing anywhere other than in intention. Having lost the belief that the external world has real goodness (teleological goodness), they are forced to locate all goodness internally. This leads to absurdities:
- "Everyone wants to be good" — but wanting to be good is meaningless if goodness is only in wanting. Wanting means wanting to do.
- If goodness is entirely internal, then someone who *wants* to do good but never actually does anything good is still considered a "good person" — which is strange.
This is not mere confusion but a forced conclusion: once you deny goodness in the external/real world, you *must* locate it in the internal state.
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The dispute between the Nefesh HaChaim and the Tanya (or their respective traditions) about what *lishma* means is a direct consequence of the loss of teleological thinking — the loss of the belief that the world itself is *lishma* (purposeful).
Once that belief is gone, you are pigeonholed into one of two options:
1. All lishma is in your head (the Tanya-type position) — goodness is in the internal/spiritual state.
2. Everything is because God said so (the Nefesh HaChaim-type position) — goodness is in obedience to divine command, basically a deontological framework.
If you go with option 1 (all in your head), you face further problems and end up having to say "your head is also God" and similar mystical moves. But the root cause of the entire machlokes is the same: the disappearance of real-world teleological goodness.
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The famous dictum that "God joins a good thought to a deed" does not mean that sitting in your room having good thoughts counts as action. Rather:
- It refers to a person who has an actual disposition to doing good — a habitual doer — who is externally prevented from acting (the Gemara's case of *ne'enas v'lo asah* — forced/prevented and didn't do it).
- Such a person is still considered good because they really are a doer; something external just blocked them.
- But this has limits: if you were never a doer, you can't claim credit for good thoughts. And even a former doer will eventually lose the status if they remain inactive long enough.
There is a *machlokes* between Aristotle and Plato on this point. Aristotle would say: if you never had money, you were never a *baal tzedakah* — you can't be generous if you never had the means. Only if you once had money and now don't can the principle apply.
This is why the Rambam says the Torah must promise material prosperity — because without resources (including a body), you can't actually perform mitzvos. The Vilna Gaon said the same: you need a body to do mitzvos; merely wanting to do them without a body is "not interesting."
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Even a disembodied soul does things — thinking, knowing, perhaps wanting — and these are genuine activities (*maaseh*) for the soul. The goodness of a *neshamah* without a *guf* is not that it dreams or passively exists; it acts through thought.
This is why machshavah k'maaseh ("thought is like action") applies: for the soul *as soul*, thought is its action. It's not an "internal" thing in the modern sense — it's the soul's external doing, its proper activity.
The Rambam and others who emphasize the importance of what's "in your mind" are not endorsing the modern internalist view. They are saying that for the mind qua mind, thinking is doing — it is the activity proper to that kind of being.
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A crucial distinction:
1. Thinking to (planning) — Instrumental; directed toward future action. This kind of thinking doesn't make sense without a maaseh that follows. It's just preparation.
2. Thinking of (contemplation) — Thought that ends with the thinking itself. It is its own completion. This is the kind of thinking that has intrinsic value.
Important corollary from ancient thought: Thinking about temporary/practical things doesn't count as the elevated form of thinking. Thinking about *maaseh* (practical matters) doesn't have the *maalah* (virtue) of true contemplation.
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A bold claim: Torah lishma in the highest sense — learning Torah for its own sake — only applies to Kabbalah (nistar/esoteric Torah), not to *nigleh* (revealed/halakhic Torah).
Reasoning:
- Nigleh (halakhic learning — e.g., the Taz, the Bach) is always subservient to practice. It's practical wisdom: what to do when a certain case arises. It's "thinking to" — instrumental.
- Even the greatest halakhic analysis is only valuable *l'halacha* — for the sake of knowing what to do.
- Nistar/Kabbalah, by contrast, consists of things whose point is to know them. The knowledge is the end. This is "thinking of" — contemplation that completes itself. That is genuine *lishma*.
This is what "every book" says and what the Rambam implies — Torah lishma in the fullest sense means learning things that are theory, whose value is in the knowing itself.
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From the perspective of practical Torah, if you learn halakha and don't plan to do what you're learning, that is a form of shelo lishma — "learning externally," a bluff. The paradigm case is Doeg HaEdomi, of whom it's said *darsha, mosif al hachet* — he expounded Torah but it added to his sin. Learning the "tricks of the world" (halakhic knowledge) without planning to follow them makes you worse, not better — a *da'as l'umos* type, sophisticated in knowledge but corrupt in practice.
There is a separate principle that the "light" within Torah naturally draws a person back to good, even without explicit intention. This is an interesting fact about human nature — immersion in halakhic learning tends to make you more careful about halakha, even if you didn't start with that plan. But this is a different mechanism from lishma; it's a natural psychological effect. And it doesn't work in the Doeg case — when someone actively learns without any orientation toward practice, the *mitoch shelo lishma* principle doesn't apply, and learning makes them worse.
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A vivid illustration of how *lishma* develops naturally:
- Someone starts learning Kabbalah because they think it will be "cool" or make them a professional *mekubal* (a good career move).
- Through the process of learning, they begin to see the actual goodness of what they're studying.
- They realize that learning Kabbalah is better than being a mekubal — the learning itself is *taki geshmak* (genuinely delightful/good).
- This is *lishma* — and it happens naturally, not through forced *avodas Hashem*, because you genuinely start seeing the good.
A student asks whether *geshmak* is just a feeling. Emphatically no (*chas v'shalom*) — it means seeing the real good, not having a pleasant emotional experience.
Someone who wants to learn Torah purely instrumentally (for business, for *revach*) and not become genuinely engaged has to actively resist the natural pull toward lishma — because otherwise they'll start actually liking it and doing it for its own sake. Many people who started learning as a business proposition ended up genuinely drawn in.
Someone who begins learning Torah or Kabbalah with the *shelo lishma* motivation of making money often finds that the learning itself becomes compelling — they start to genuinely love it (*lishma*) and then ironically stop making money because they abandon the commercially viable activities. A perfectly natural, non-magical illustration of how *shelo lishma* leads to *lishma*.
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The tachlis (ultimate point) of the entire series of arguments: Purim.
The well-known Chassidic teaching that Purim represents the idea that chitzoniyus is also pnimiyus — the body (*guf*) is also holy (*heilig*), not just the soul (*neshomo*). Chanukah was about the *kiyum hamitzvos* (fulfillment of commandments) — a spiritual fight, an inner battle. Purim was about mere existence (*just about existing*).
- What people conventionally call pnimiyus — intense inner feeling, spiritual desire, being *farkocht* (deeply immersed emotionally) — is actually what Torah calls machshove lachutz (external thought/intention).
- Having passionate feelings about Torah, wanting it desperately, feeling spiritual ecstasy — but not actually planning to do anything — is the epitome of externality, not internality.
- Planning to actually do something is an entirely different mental state than being emotionally immersed. The two have *no shaychis* (no connection) to each other.
- This emotional-spiritual intensity without action is what Chanukah represents: "*mitzvah l'horos ha'lecht*" — a fight, a struggle in the realm of spiritual illumination. And this is what the Yevonim (Greeks) represent — the valorization of inner experience detached from concrete action.
- Purim is *tretten l'matah* — stepping downward into the physical, the concrete.
- The mitzvos of Purim are: dancing (*tantzen*), giving *mishloach manos*, having a feast (*essen*), being *l'matah* (below, in the physical world).
- Nobody has dveikus on Purim — and if someone claims they do, either it's nothing real, or they don't have Purim.
- At least in the dimension of *bein adam l'chaveiro* (interpersonal), this is the entire point. (There is also a *bein adam lamakom* dimension.)
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The Rambam says the ikker simcha (essential joy) is *l'sameach lev aniyim v'yesomim* — to gladden the hearts of the poor and orphans. This is the Torah's definition of happiness: being a good human being.
Key formulation: "Happiness is not a feeling, happiness is a fact." Whether you *feel* happy is a *kleine problem* (small issue). If you are a *mensch*, you will likely feel it too — but that's secondary. The ontological reality of happiness consists in actually doing good for others, not in experiencing a subjective emotional state.
This is the final crystallization of the entire argument: true pnimiyus is the maaseh itself, the concrete act of goodness — not the inner feeling, not the kavana as mental state, not the spiritual ecstasy.
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Everyone should give *matanos l'evyonim* (gifts to the poor), give to their local fund, and — invoking an old Chassidic teaching — everyone should give personally (*aleine*), not just through intermediaries. A happy Yom Tov to all.
Instructor: Noor Aboy Sa'ib, good evening. I want to tell you a shiur [Torah lecture] today. You know how it goes. How do people write a book? Like a big scientist, big academic writes a book. It goes like this. He has some plates one day in the bathroom, in the shower. And then he finds some Arma Qaymas, some sources tied to it. And then he makes a parish based on that and three other books. And then he has a whole book. It takes him two years to write. Another year to get approved to the approval and then it goes to the approval that approves it and then the publisher publishes it and then the book gets published and then it gets reviewed if it's Zohar [worthy] and gets reviewed by two people and then the guy that writes the encyclopedia reads the book or asks his child to read the book for him and makes a little summary of the book and says they can show the book in five lines and that's what everyone knows and then the book stays on the shelf, right? That's how it works.
So I realized that every shiur of mine is really a whole book. It's just that it's already to slap over the review, the chiddush [novel insight]. If you want, you can go and work it out into a whole book, but it's a shiur that's out, because nobody's going to read the whole book anyways, so I might as well just start by the summary. And the chiddush, the chiddush. But it's true. Every shiur is, almost every shiur you can make a whole book about.
So today I have a new book to write. New is Godless. Of course, it's a continuation of the last week and the last two weeks that we were talking about the chiddush. And I realized today, yesterday, someday in the shower or somewhere, and realize that's all connected.
Remember that we're talking about some problem like this. Where's Luzzy that doesn't understand the problem? Can we solve this problem a little? We're talking about a problem about, that I call the problem of the inside-outside, right? The pnimiyus [interiority] and the chitzoniyus [exteriority]. Everyone knows that Purim is about someone, something, even the pnimiyus or the chitzoniyus, I don't remember. Anyway, those are the words that everyone likes to talk about all the time.
[Brief interruption about heating]
It's cold? Turn this on, it makes it warm faster. And everyone knows this is, plug it in over here under or somewhere and it's going to make it a little warm faster. No, right here there's a plug under me.
Student: Yeah, but that's going to bother you.
Instructor: Okay, so you, no, don't do it there, don't do it there, it's going to scratch the system. Over there.
Student: How far is it?
Instructor: Actually, it's not going to crash. Same anyway. That piece is going to crash, it's not, it's not, okay, yeah, that's anyways, we're warm, it's very warm.
So what am I saying? We're discussing this nasegyeh [topic] that's called pnimiyus v'chitzoniyus [inner and outer]. And the ulam [question] is very tzemesht [pressing], especially Rabbal Luzer, that was here last week and didn't come show up today. What are we tzemesht? That, tzad echad [on one hand], we're going with chit tzerambam [according to the Rambam], we're trying to teach the Rambam to chit [according to his approach].
On the one hand, it seems like the Rambam's shiit [position] is very external. It's all about actions, like, and you already told me, there's a Peser Rambam [interpretation of Rambam] that the Chassidim misread and so on. But Lama Yisrael [nevertheless], that's how I understand it.
Tzad She'eri [on the other hand], the Rambam was Chas Shalom [God forbid], not a matter of Litvak [modern Lithuanian-style rationalist]. Of course, this is the problem, that we're stuck a little bit, okay? In Tzad She'eri, we're about inner being a person. We're not about being a machine that produces things, we're about a person that produces being a person, a kind of person, which sounds like an inner thing.
So what is the ikr [essence]? What's the nekudah [point] of the id [Jew]? What's the nekudah of the good person? Is it inside or is it outside? The ulim [question] is very tawisht [confusing] about this. Not only about the chicken or the egg, it's about what is the definition? What does it mean to be a good person?
Now, last week we got into this nekudah, that there seems to be also a sha'ala [question], this was my ikr thing last week, but I want to give you more context for it. Maybe we'll understand better what's going on. We got into this nekudah that there's a shaila. What does it mean to be good on the inside? What does it even mean?
And I will tell you right now, there's two things that means. I'm saying too much of a derusha [homiletical discourse]. We'll get back to reality soon. There's two different things that it means.
What does it mean? Everyone in all the battles should have come and seen him and say, you should know, even if you're wearing a mask, you're good on the inside. What does this mean that you're good on the inside? What does it mean? What does that mean? But I'm serious now. I hear all these ruches [talks].
I went to shul on Shabbos. Someone gave a whole shmuel [talk] about the mishka [Mishkan/Tabernacle], not to believe the shmi. And that's a... That means it has to be the shmah [lishmah: for its own sake], which means it has to have good intentions. Total misreading of the Rashi. Don't tell them. I didn't tell them. I should have seen this. I'm not telling you who said it. It's total, total. The Rashi doesn't mean the shmah. No. And in any case, and therefore, it has to be and this whole about the heart that makes the mishkan, because Hashem [God] is not in the na'isim [physical things], it's in the leiv [heart].
They already heard Mashiach Friday that doesn't answer the kasha [question], it makes the kasha worse. Why is your leiv better than a building? Nobody knows. That's what this guy is thinking. There's some intuition behind this, I just don't know what it means.
What are we talking about when we say this midbas al-leiv [matter of the heart], the rots in al-leiv, the pnimiyus [interiority] of the idwaan [Jew]? What do you mean? Could you tell me in English what does this mean? Does anyone know what it means? Do you know what it means?
Student: Yeah, what does it mean?
Instructor: It means that we don't use the external. That's a microphone. The external. What is external versus internal? What do they think words mean?
Student: It means nothing outside of the you is what makes the you good or bad. It's the you that makes you good.
Instructor: Okay. That's what it means. Could you elaborate? Spell it out. Tell me what this means. Of a different language and words that make sense to me. What is this you?
Student: Yeah, so let's say I'm a very talented person, right? And I wear a police uniform, right? So a person can say, you're a bad cop, right? So now you're a bad person. Let's say, right? Let's say. In other words, the uniform is now telling me what I'm supposed to be, right? And let's say I'm bad at being a cop, right? So now I'm bad me. Not bad me. I have 150 good talents. I can be the best comedian. I can be the best writer. I can be whatever, whatever, you have a police officer, you can't get a police officer, right? So what people are saying, so this doesn't fit in with the English me. And the way that people see the me is because the Hitzonis [externality] of the uniform.
Instructor: That's not Hitzonis, that's more like...
Student: Yeah, the uniform is telling you what I am, I'm not that.
Instructor: So in other words, wait, but being a musician or whatever you think you really are, it's also a uniform. All you're saying is that you're acting in the wrong way for what you are, not in, I don't know what this mysterious you is, in a very simple sense, my talents lie in playing music, not in being a policeman, now talents are a thing, it's not you, it's something about you, right, it's an accident of the you, we could say, something about you.
Student: No, I don't know if it's an accident, I think all the talents actually make you up.
Instructor: When I say accident, I mean, it was still an accident, right, not a car accident.
Student: No, I know, I'm talking directly to Aristotle, actually, from all you cheat him, in the past, I actually thought about this recently, I think the thing that makes up a human is all his talents.
Instructor: Okay, let's say, and therefore...
Student: The ingredients that make up a cake versus lemonade, right? This is what makes up the movement, and that's why there's no same human, the same, because everyone has different ingredients, different talents.
Instructor: But that's somewhat wrong, but we're not going to get into this. We're just saying, I'm just trying to understand what you mean when you say, so the inner, when you say the inner, you mean the thing that matches with your predispositions better. That's what you mean. That's not inner. There's nothing more internal about this. It's not inside you. Both of these are actions.
Actually, being a musician is something you do with your body, with your people hear it. If you're a musician and nobody hears it, you're almost like a tree that falls in the forest and nobody saw it falling or heard it falling. You're Beizim [essentially] good at it. What does that mean? Good at what? You mean like a gun? Good at what? You're Beizim good at what? Exactly. You're Beizim good at what?
Student: At playing music.
Instructor: That's something that you're doing. The being good, which you're calling Beizim, is nothing. I don't understand. It's just an ability. Be musical. So when you're sleeping, you're also a musician? If not.
Student: Okay, and what's the point of that?
Instructor: To have musical dreams.
Instructor: Okay, then you're doing something in your dream. Let's say a dream is something, or not. That's a different question.
What I'm trying to get at is, what you're talking about is just a person who is doing the wrong thing. Like, I'll give you an emotion, because people are confusing. Tables are simpler to talk about. I like talking about tables. All philosophers like talking about tables. You know why? Because they get their class by a table, usually, actually. That's why. Or a chair. You'll notice the philosophers love talking about tables and chairs. It's because the most obvious physical object in their vicinity. They're never outside. They never see anything besides a table and chair, like classroom people.
So anyways, if I would be like on a wall, I would say a tree. Or if I would be a normal person, I would say a human. But humans are too complicated to talk about because a lot of things. But anyways, so if let's, for example, I'm explaining what you mean when you say it's a premise. When you're saying it's not a premise, just say it's not internal. It's...
This is a very nice table, and it's the correct table for giving my class at, let's just say. If I'll use it just to block the door, that is mostly not using it as a table. It's using it as a piece of wood, which is kind of a strong piece of wood. It blocks the door. It might even do that well. It might not do that well, because it's not strong enough to block the door. But it might even do that well, but it's still not what you're calling the premise, because it's sort of misused. It's mismatched. It's meant, you see, for blocking the door, I wouldn't have this square shape, and I wouldn't have the feet that it has. It wouldn't be organized, so there's something mismatched or not symmetrical, like it doesn't fit when you try to, right?
Student: Yeah, it's ill-suited for blocking the door, although it can be used for that, but yeah.
Instructor: And the same way a person whose talents don't lie and being a policeman will be not doing it well, or will struggle, will suffer because the kind of person he is doesn't fit very well into the policeman uniform. That's very nice and true thing, but I don't see what this has got to do with that just saying what a thing is versus what it's for, what a thing is for, which is what it is or one important part of what it is versus what it's not for but in some sense it's possible to be used for, but it's not for that.
But when people say you should know that internally every human is good, or if human is good, what do they mean? Do they mean that? What does that even mean? You have good dispositions? Well, I don't know. Some people have good ones, some people have bad ones. Humans as such have good dispositions. What does that even mean?
Instructor: When we speak of good and bad, obviously we're speaking after there's good and bad humans, right? It doesn't even make sense to say everyone is bad and good when you mean to say, well, humans are good at humaning. Well, yeah, I guess they should be good at humaning, or at least should be possible to be good at humaning, but that doesn't make them good humans. What are you even saying? It doesn't seem to mean that.
I agree that that vort [insight/interpretation], what you're saying is a true vort. I don't think it matches very well to this prioritization of the interior. I don't see that that's what someone's saying when he says you have to have a good meaning well or have a good intention or have a good will—those are not the same thing as what you're saying, right? That's something else.
So what does it mean? Do you know what it means? I really wanted to go out there at the end and ask him, "Can you tell me what should I do because of your drasha [sermon]?" Like, what do you mean? But I realized that it would not be nice, so I didn't. And I'm thinking about this all week—what does this mean? And then I discovered what it means.
Student: Maybe you'd be very nice. Might have been very nice.
Instructor: It's true, it's hard to know. It's a new year, I don't know it very well yet, so I don't know. I have to learn it more.
Student: No, it's like you see a person that's limping and you can fix it.
Instructor: That's true, but that's a different shmuess [discussion]. So we'll talk about that, because you're not eternally good or you are eternally good—why I don't do that?
Student: No, no, it's true. It has to do with the mitzvah [commandment].
Instructor: It's a very complicated discussion. I had a sheet about this in Monsey. I don't know, I didn't send you the sheet, but we'll talk about that—different brayta [Talmudic teaching]. Not the one that I'm talking about right now. That's champagne. We'll talk about it again, because it's very important. Remind me if I don't. Write down your notes that I should and should.
Now, I want to say something else. So I'm wondering—now, you remember that one of the [principles] is that everything has to make sense, including all the nonsense. I don't know if you already know this. We say that it can't be that all the people until 1992 were crazy. It also can't be that people since 1992 are crazy.
We're always trying to understand what is the—there's some puzzle here. Something very weird happened to close all the people since 1772 or 1992, whenever that happened, whenever what we call modernity happened to them. Whenever that is, we have to understand what is this—there's some puzzle, something very weird.
Student: You must come to my problem. The first time I hear that, I'm hearing about the internality, externality.
Instructor: Yeah, so for some reason, to most people, this Yid [Jew] that said that drush [sermon] bar shasid [in the Chassidic style]—it's not his fault. It's a few hundred years that people are saying this drush. He repeated someone's drush. And if you go back even a few hundred years more than that, nobody says this drush. Of course, people read that into it. But when you actually read it, you see that it's always somehow that that [refers to something else], right? It's a [different concept].
So now, it doesn't really work. It doesn't really read very simply. If you learn how to read things simply, you'll see that it doesn't read simply in any of the earlier sources. Why? He's taught us about the inner will and things like that.
Student: Oh, like in the Dalai Lama game?
Student: I think there's a problem that the world of thoughts is very different than the world of things, which may prompt you to assume that, or try to, I guess, figure out a little bit more about the thinker, right? But the thinker, if it can't be characterized in terms of, I guess, the external world or the world of things, you sort of have to make it into something else.
Instructor: Okay, so how—I kind of maybe—so explain what you mean.
Student: When I hear someone thinks that it doesn't make sense to me, I should do what?
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: So this is something that I tried to think about for a little bit and I don't [have] it so clear myself, but I think that when you have—if you have a certain concept of what things in the world are, right, let's call it just raw material, right, and then you have this world of thoughts that you have to...
Instructor: It doesn't match to that.
Student: Yeah, that you have to find—people are saying all kinds of things that you don't know what they're trying to do. You have to find a model for, right? Thoughts doesn't fit into the model of the world of things. You have to, besides reconciling thoughts, you also have to, or maybe you have to collapse that into some kind of thinker, right? I would say, this thinker has to be something like very distant from the world of things. And almost entirely non-participating, which makes you make it into a full type of thing. So then you end up with like, the easiest way to do this is, okay, so whoever is the thinker of all these thoughts is the you, right? That would be you, whoever this thought belongs to, the thought of the chair, whatever that thought of the chair belongs to.
Instructor: But how did you get to the thought? Wait, so you're explaining why people say this. You're answering my question. So wait, let me finish my reason why we have to answer this question. I don't know if that's a good reason, but that's what I thought.
Student: No, no, we're getting somewhere. We're getting somewhere. I agree. I think you jumped one step ahead in my ma'aloch [progression] of my shiur [lecture].
Do you understand my question? We're still up to this level of state of the question. So I hear all these torahs [teachings]. People have been saying these torahs for some time now. They have not been saying them forever. And it seems to mean something to them. I don't know exactly what. I think it's hard to spell out exactly what. Inherently, we'll try to explain that, and I also have to explain what happened that this started to seem to make sense to people, right?
In other words, like you said—I never said it like this, it's true. It's still true that nobody is meshugah [crazy]. Nobody is meshugah in the sense that—that's why there are people who are meshugah. Only make a reason why I can't go to that person, because I have to—in Chabad they say I can't give a guy another head. You can give a guy a hand, a shovel, a lot of things. You can't give a guy another head, which would mean the way in which he sees the world.
You could do that—that's what a rabbi does—but not in a day, not in a month, not in a year. So in order for him to make—to my question to even make sense to that person, I would need to break a lot of ice, to open a lot of things for him to be able to see the world from the way where I'm coming from.
Now my thing where I'm coming from is that you have to be able to see the world—first, we're going to get into what you're saying, but first, before that, I thought you were saying this—the world the way it is, and then why, from different people's perspectives, they get stuck in different ways.
Like, for example, if I—you know, you remember the story of the blind people and the elephant, right? Very famous story that explains perspectivism, right? Very Indian mashal [parable] of elephant. Remember the story?
Student: You don't remember the ma'aseh [story]? The stomping?
Instructor: But I know why it's about an elephant, but the same reason they philosophize it about a table.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: There's an ultimate Indian mashal about an elephant. There are a bunch of blind men that they're surrounding an elephant. Now they don't know what an elephant is, they've never seen an elephant, they were blind from birth. So one guy says, standing by its tail, and says, "This is a thing with a long and fuzzy tail." The other guy standing by its nose says, "This is some kind of long pipe." The other guy standing by his photo is like, "This is a big fat pillar," and so on. And the other guy is—some guy can see it, but they can only see one end of it. They say, "This is a big gray mass."
So, everyone is saying the truth. Then comes one guy who can see and says, "This is an elephant. You just saw the tail, and you saw the head, and you saw the nose, and you saw the foot," right?
This is a good explanation of why perspective is a meaning. When people speak things from their perspective, it's partial because they're blind to what they're really seeing. They don't even know that they're seeing an elephant. But if you—what we're looking for always is to open your eyes, right? That's what philosophy is for. That's what thought is for. To really see what is, right?
And then if you see what is, you will have to, by definition, be able to explain everyone's mistakes.
This is also something that we learn from Aristotle. Aristotle always says, nobody makes mistakes. People only are partially right. Especially smart people. There are some crazy people that can somehow make real mistakes. That would be a big question. But usually people, the reason they say something is because they're looking at something from a perspective.
And now when we're talking—this is a physical mashal—but we're talking conceptual things. Because their way their concepts are constructed, forcing them to see things from a certain perspective that leads them to certain problems, right? Certain aporia [philosophical puzzles], certain puzzles which cannot be resolved from their perspectives.
Like Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas [questions], right? All the Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas are right. Everyone knows Reb Akiva Eiger has a good kasha [question]—not all of his kashas, by the way, but a big large percentage of them—they're good kashas. But what they show is that Reb Akiva Eiger didn't understand anything. Chas v'shalom [God forbid], Reb Akiva Eiger. You understand what I'm saying, right? Numbers.
But Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas are always a good kashas. It's like a very big kashas. It's always, if you accept all of his assumptions, of which there are always a lot that he doesn't even sometimes realize or doesn't spell out, his question, you can't budge it. You can't move it. You can make up a funny teretz [answer] like some acharonim [later authorities] do, but that's—everyone understands it's not a good [answer].
The real answer, you have to dissolve it. In other words, you have to show why, where we got to this, and why none of this means any of it. The reality is something entirely different. Then the kasha doesn't start. It's like the kasha either doesn't start or doesn't end. There's no world, right? There's no world in which the kasha is a good kasha and the teretz is a good teretz. That's not what I'm trying to get at.
What I'm trying to get at is that when we see the full picture, we're also explaining the mistakes. Very important to decide. If your philosophy doesn't explain why everyone else is crazy, and precisely in what way they're crazy, that's a bad understanding, because then you're not understanding the world.
And you also understand why he doesn't see more, because there's someone blocking it, for some reason there's a piece of meat on the other side that makes you only see the foot, and so on. Right? *Stimmt* [Yiddish: correct]?
Now, in the same way, we have to explain what is it that causes everyone to see only—to see this—some internal kind of you or will. I think usually it boils down to will, some kind of wanting, some kind of internal state of mind, feeling, something in the person. And then they identify this as all the good, or the main good thing, and they think that the *Shechinah* [Divine Presence] can be showered on it even, it's such a good thing.
And for me, none of this makes any sense, because firstly, I don't even know what that is. Also, if it is, I think it's incoherent, because wanting to do something, me, to do something. You got what I'm saying?
So I have the story, I'll tell you the secret. And at least I don't know anyone else that explained this so well as me before. Doesn't mean anything, but people did explain it, not in the Jewish context, but people did explain it. And what's his name? Charles Taylor probably explained more or less this, and other people. So people did explain it, but not enough for us to make sense.
So we're going to do it right now, and this is a new book that we're going to write, a new movement in *Yiddishkeit* [Judaism/Jewish practice] that's going to resolve all the problems because of this basic thing.
Student: You remember, from a long time ago, all the way before...
Instructor: Yeah, but then you need a specific model, right? For how this...
Student: What I was trying to explain was not this set the stage for that model.
Instructor: Yeah, you were explaining why this...
Student: Why this specific model exists.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, we're going to get to it, we're going to get to it. We're not entirely in your way, but I'll get to it, yeah.
Student: That's Kant, what you were trying to explain. Why we get this, yeah. The shift.
Instructor: Mm-hmm. The Copernican Revolution.
So let's start somewhere simpler for my purposes. I hope what you're trying to say. You'll remember the old story, very old story, which is hard to even tell the people nowadays because they're never always going to misinterpret the first part of it. But I hope that everyone that listened to enough of our classes and knows enough of what we're teaching knows already this.
You already know, today I saw, today I saw a book, one of these books that's written for teenagers that are not very smart, but a little smart, to defend *Yiddishkeit* to them. If you're a little bit smart, then you right away see that it's fallacious arguments mostly. But for people that are a little smart, maybe it helps. If you're very dumb, then you don't need the book. So I'm not sure who the book is for.
But anyways, with this book, it's explained, and what he explains is true, but also because of Nebuchadnezzar's blindness, he can't explain it correctly. Explain that everything in the world depends on one thing. If there is a God. And if there is a God, then things have a purpose.
Also something that you have to help me. I had a dream this morning about that there's going to be a—you heard? You heard that there's a meaning crisis? You're not on YouTube enough. There's a meaning crisis. Did you hear of it? There's many crises, like a *Shidduch* [matchmaking] crisis, the leaders crisis, whatever crisis, there's a meaning crisis, there's a lack of meaning in the world, meaning.
Student: Meaning, oh, oh, oh. Meaning, because everyone's always having meetings.
Instructor: No, they're always having meetings, that's because of the meaning crisis.
There's a meaning crisis, did you hear of it? So I had a dream that the government set up an office of meaning, and they're going to give out meaning to everyone. Everyone, the communists said everyone should have the equal amount of meaning, and the capitalists said, no, everyone should have as much meaning as they deserve, and so on. That's going to be the new ministry, ministry of meaning. *Misrad HaMashmaut* [Hebrew: Ministry of Meaning].
Student: *Misrad HaMashmaut*, exactly.
Instructor: And they're giving out, and wherever they find some place with not enough meaning, they send a big truck with meaning.
So, this is what I dreamt in the morning. Who gets all the good dreams, like, in the morning? The good dreams are always like that before you wake up, when you're halfway asleep and halfway awake. And I couldn't figure out, like, how are they're going to give out the meaning? That was, I woke up with the question, like, is it going to be a supernatural? Does this mean, like, they're going to somehow give meaning to things? Or is this, like, some physical way? I couldn't figure out how the story continues. That's a meaning. A meaning. *Misrad HaMeaning* [Ministry of Meaning]. Giving out meaning. *Misrad HaMashmaut*.
Okay. Of course, you've got to allow a lot of forms.
Okay. Now, *b'kitzur* [in short], there's a meaning crisis. And this *Yid* [Jew] said that... Why do all the *Yidden* [Jews] that shouldn't speak in this tone? Can you explain it to me? I don't know. Go on YouTube. All the *Yidden* that shouldn't speak, they all speak like this.
And this *Yid* said that everything depends on one question. If there's a God, and if there's a God, then He created the world for a reason, and therefore everything has a meaning. And if not, then nothing has a meaning, and then therefore you don't have to go to yeshiva tomorrow morning. That's basically this guy's delusion and he wrote 900 pages about it somehow.
Now this is right, 100 percent, that it's backwards, right? Not if there's a God, then meaning. If there's a meaning, there's a God. Or one way of saying it, right?
What do I mean by that? In the olden days everyone understood—I mean not everyone, this was discovered by Socrates and maybe Avraham [Avinu]—that's what. That it doesn't make sense to talk about the world without explaining what it's for. Any natural thing. Not because it's a God that gives it meaning. Because to explain what something is, you need to explain what it's for. Remember?
This is called by the fancy Latin—fake Latin, fake Greek word—teleology. But we're not going to say that word because it doesn't help us. We're going to say the word meaning. Meaning is the same exact thing, right? What is the meaning of something? What it's for.
You cannot explain a table without explaining what tables are for. That's just what it is. And therefore, the what-for-ness of things, which we call the *tachlis* [purpose/end/goal], or the end, or the completion, or all kinds of words that we call this thing, the goal, is more what they are than what they're made out of and what made them into what they are, and what they are right now, and so on. *Nachon* [correct]?
Remember this? Right? Everyone knows about this very basic stuff. This is the fourth cause of Aristotle, and also something, what?
Student: And the first one.
Instructor: The first and the second and the first. Yeah, one of the four causes, famous four causes. But the important thing is that this is what defines most definitive of what a thing is, for sure for a living thing. A living thing is the kind of thing for which their form and their end and their—and their—what they are, are the same thing.
Okay, now in short, remember everyone remembers this, okay?
And now according to that is the important thing. Rather going to that, for example, the important thing that this does is that theology, or what God is, or the for-ness that everything is for—that's one definition of God—and what is physics, what things are, just science, and ethics, which is making things into what they are, having everything complete, achieve its completion, are the same kind of thing, right?
What everyone know or heard, you probably heard of David Hume who said that there's something later called the naturalistic fallacy, is does not imply ought, that's nonsense. Because ought is just the completion of the is.
There is a science, that's why in *Sefer Mishlei* [Book of Proverbs], knowledge equals goodness. Remember? And nobody understands that nowadays, because they think that knowledge is knowing what things are, and goodness is being good. What's that got to do anything with that? No. Goodness is just things being completely what they are, working well, right? Or we say in different languages, the good and the well are the same thing. The being good and acting well are the same thing for everything. *Nachon* [correct], everyone knows this. *Hakdama, hakdama chashiva, k'tzara keleh* [Introduction, important introduction, short and complete].
Then, and this is a historical story, but it's not really a historical story, that's why we should stop saying it as a historical story. Although it's true that this history happened, but it's also not true that this is only a historical thing. There were always people that didn't understand this. That's the *Avodah Zarah* [idolatry], that *Avodah Zarah*, when you had to burn their books, you have to understand that's also what they thought.
It's not a new, like, some *goyim* [non-Jews] came. It's very, it's a very, there's another kind of, he called it the *yetzer* [inclination], the things otherwise. Then take out the whole historicism out of our story, because otherwise we get into historicism, that's for sure.
So, but there's, one way of saying the story is historically, I don't like it, but we're going to say it like this right now.
Later came other people, *iver oysham* [may their name be blotted out], Francis Bacon, with his *Novum Organum* [New Organon], new science, and later other people, David Hume, very famously, and other, other, other people, and they said there isn't any "for"s in the world. *Ein ba'olam tachlis* [There is no purpose in the world]. The world doesn't have a meaning. The world has a cause but not a meaning.
Or they redefined the word cause to not include the word meaning, which is a very weird thing to do, but that's what they did. Remember?
And what would be the difference? And, wait, the difference is that we don't explain things by what they're for, we explain things by what pushed them into where they are. Instead of saying that a tree is something that's trying to be a tree—trying not in a human sense, right? When we said we're trying, right away you assume that there's a thinker in there, a separate soul or something that thinks. No, a tree is the kind of thing that tends towards being a full tree. That's what it means to be a tree. You cannot understand the tree.
Now they say, no, a tree is just what happens to be when there's all these forces pushing the tree into being a tree, into something, into nothing, because there's no being, no such thing as being a tree.
Okay, that was, that's the other *shita* [approach/system]. And it's actually not a natural way.
Most people do think that there are ends in nature, just get hacked into their head by their science teacher that's the most you think. But normal people still speak of ends in nature. Of course, it's complicated. What kind of ends? What are the ends?
Every time this is what one of the big fallacies that that book, for example, makes. The fact that there are ends doesn't mean that the end is to learn the Mori Toys for us. No, Jarek, it's only two things. Then we have to do real science, find out what the end of everything is. That is the true science, as the Rambam [Maimonides] explains in he knew every tree, no, he knew what every tree was for, which is what knowing every tree was, which is why it's the same kind of knowledge as knowing the Torah [the Jewish Bible/Law], which is knowing the good for everything.
Okay, now, but in any case, and if the good is causally prior to the partial existence of things, which tends toward the good, that's what Torah means. But anyways, way. That would be like a more platonic way of saying things. The point is now we're going way too fast. I have to go back to my mode of saying it.
Instructor: So basically it has causes without purpose. Exactly. There are pushes without purpose. Purpose is not a real thing. Now...
Student: And cause just means where it comes from.
Instructor: Exactly. Or it's history.
That's the *oimek* [depth/essence] of why everything turns into history. Because cause explaining just means where it's from. Don't explain what it is and where it's going to, that's why I'm against history, because I'm for where things are going to, or what they are, which is, what they are is explained by where they're going to, and not where they come from, because where they come from is true, it's not like I deny that reality, just that I deny that being the most important thing, fact about things, the most explanatory fact about things. And I think that is obvious to everyone that thought for five seconds and stopped being brainwashed.
Now, but this is just me doing rhetoric, of course, there's real, these people are smarter than I am, than I'm pretending now, and there are reasons this is why they thought all these things and you gotta learn this very seriously I'm just doing a short overview for my book this is just a review of the book remember this is not the book now.
Now if there are no causes in nature then then God becomes a different kind of God very important theology looks very different right then we get into the question something called intelligent designer which is really a *Shein Dalet* [Shin-Dalet: demon/false deity] intelligent designer is *Metat* [possibly referring to Metatron, an angelic figure] it's not God not our God you know.
Have you ever heard that the Jews are pro-intelligence design, that's not true. There is an intelligent designer for the world, but he's a *sheen dalit* [demon]. Okay, not a *sheen dalit*. You could call it a *noose* [nous: Greek philosophical term for intellect/mind], a *malach* [angel], a *sefirah* [divine emanation in Kabbalistic thought], intelligence. Not God. Not the one. Very important. Yeah, it's the same idea. Relative to God, everything is *sheen dalit*. So, you understand? If you worship that, you're worshiping a false god.
Rabbi, all the people who worship an intelligent designer are worshiping a false god who has a body. Because they imagine him as having plans the way that we have plans and they imagine the world having meaning in a fake way. Not inherently there are no imminent ends world by itself isn't for anything. That's what they say.
We need a God to make it for something like an artificial thing like a table isn't doesn't have in itself the tableness that it has. What wood has woodness in it tables only have tables by imposition by people that make them into tables then those who think of nature the world is has only external causes and God is some kind of mind outside the world that gives it purposes you understand what I'm saying? It doesn't really give it purposes even it's only serving him in some way which means that God means things which means that their God is a fake God. Okay, very simple. I'm not going this is only a summary so if you don't understand it come to a different sheet there's not a sheet on theology but you should just know that this is what makes the God this, therefore, says all of it.
This is also the reason why there's only two options in modernity. Either you can be a deist or a pantheist, or a *Magashen* [one who corporealizes God]. These are only three options. That's the reality. There's either deists, people that think that basically there's no God in the world.
There's only God that, like the watchmaker, emotionally made the watch, but then the watch, so to speak, works by itself, because they don't understand any kind or other kind of cause, a formal cause or a final cause. The watchmaker's only an efficient cause, right? He only put the piece of the watch together. He didn't invent idea of watches, and he doesn't do one of the four watches, okay? But, God is a great matchmaker, that's Newton's *shitta* [position/approach], or one deist *shitta*, not Isaac Newton.
Or if you say that deism plus miracles, which means God sometimes breaks the watch. That's what most modern Orthodox people believe. Deism plus God is a watchmaker that sometimes intervenes to break the watch. Very weird *shitta*, but that's one option. I'm giving a very short of *Yeshiklali* [general overview].
Second *shita* is atheism, no god, or something like that.
Third *shita* is pantheism, *chassidus* [Hasidic thought]. God is the new watch itself. Okay, those are the three *shitas* that are possible according to, yeah, sort of. Those are the three *shitas* possible according to, more complicated, more complicated. But also *chassidus* is more complicated. I'm doing a great reduction over here.
But those are the three *shitas* possible according to the theory that there are no ends in nature. Those are the three kinds of theology, and you can know that every modern religious person, besides for me, is one of these three things. Either a deist, or a deist plus miracles, which is a weird kind of deist, or an atheist, which are many religious people are also, or a pantheist. No, that's the options. A pantheist just collapses everything. There's everything. There's only God, and that's fine. That's fine. But he understands it in a material way, which means it's also a big question material and what's going on. But okay, let's not get into this.
Now, what do I, now, a third thing, this is *Dilchis* [perhaps: *Darchei*—ways of] theology that happens. What happens to ethics? This is where we ought to get to today. Of course, everything is connected. But what happens to ethics? What happens to the good? To the human good?
Here, there's something very weird. Why there's something very weird? Like, Shmuel, you noticed. Here, there's something very weird. Because, Because, and give me one of these seltzer things, yeah. Here, there's something very weird. Why? Explain to me why.
Because if things, or activities, things in the world, things in the world don't have ends, they don't have meaning. No actions have meaning by themselves. In other words, if you look at an action or you look at a thing, you cannot explain from what it is what it's for. This is the basic opinion of all modern people. Or if the *etzadot* [perhaps: *yetzer hara*—evil inclination], let's forget saying *etzadot*, I'm going to stop, we're going to flip the word. This is what the *etzadot* holds. The *sultan* [Satan], from the first day he holds like this.
And therefore, but, we have this weird thing called human beings. Very weird thing, like the card said, humans are an exception. Everything is extension besides for mind. The mind, or the human mind, there's only human mind according to him, maybe God's mind. There's no human mind besides for that. And he, that mind, has this weird thing called intentions.
Now, an intention is something that does not follow the laws of physics. I'm not even talking about free will and all these things. Intentions don't make sense in the physical picture that we just discussed. Right? Intention means a thing being about another, something that is about another thing. Make sense? When I want something or mean means I mean something, am I about something else?
Now, that doesn't exist. Only in the old *Shiddur* [system/approach] that all things are about something else, or about their own final state or something like that. But nothing is about something else, everything is just what it is. Being about something else is not a physical thing, you can't see it. You can't explain it by a pushing cause or a pulling cause. It can only be explained by a kind of formal cause or by a kind of final cause. Make sense?
Because literally what a final cause is, being towards something else, being about something else. Aiming at something else in a real way. Obviously humans do this. This is a weird straight. Obviously human minds do this. We form intentions, and we act, we make plans, we act towards other things, or at least we think we act towards other things. Whether we act towards other things, that's going to be the *Mechlerikas* [point of dispute]. But we think that we act towards other things. We have dreams, we have plans, we have goals, we have aims, we have what we call wants and wills and desires and wishes. All of these things, they all break down, boil down, at least they all have the attribute of being about other things, or not even about, they're towards other things, right? Towards things in the future, towards even myself in the future, right? And myself in the future doesn't exist, so it can't be that myself in the future is pushing me towards that, because it doesn't exist. It only exists in my head.
So we end up with this very weird situation, right? Very famously called the mind-body problem in Cartesianism. But, and Descartes knew that this is what caused the problem, he didn't invent it. This is very clear, there's not some conspiracy theory on inventing. The mind-body problem came to be because of the denial of intention in real things, in external things, right? Now, *Stimmt* [correct/does it make sense]? Makes sense? The story is correct.
So, therefore, something very interesting happened. Something very interesting happened. So, there's basically only two solutions to this problem. Or, again, there's two or three solutions. I don't have very clearly what the three solutions would be. But something like this.
So, what is the human good? In the olden days, the human good was not different than any other good, right? The human good is the best way for a human to be. The complete way, the fullness of humanity, what we call you, the *harmonia* [harmony], happiness, which is just the best way for a human to be.
Since there's no such thing as the best in the reality, so it can't be about, can't be that. That, we lose that ability. Now, we are left with all kinds of other things that are, some of them are like *shiraim* [remnants] of that, and some of them, that's one way of being left, like with what's left over from happiness, without happiness meaning this. Or, we end up with something even more than we had before in some sense. Let me explain.
So one thing, this is basically the two kinds of ethics that exist in modernity. Now you understand something very interesting. You've probably heard that there's only two kinds of ethics.
Okay? The third one is virtuosic ethics [virtue ethics], which is the correct one. But in classic modernity, there's only two kinds of ethics, right? If you don't know this, you should take a crash course somewhere. In any case, there's two kinds of ethics.
Utilitarianism is Bentham's *shitta* [approach/system], the thing that Nietzsche really liked to make fun of always. And which is that, of course, we don't have happiness in the real way, in the Aristotelian way, which is the definition of the human being, the best kind of human that he could be, because there's no such thing as the best of anything.
But this thing that people were talking about seems to still exist, right? This is what I call the remnant *shitta*, or the *shiraim shitta* [the remnants/leftovers approach]. In other words, people still feel happy sometimes, and sometimes don't feel happy, or they feel pleasure sometimes, or sometimes don't feel pleasure. So therefore, we say, what is good? Pleasure. That still exists. Feeling happy. An internal sensation.
Something in analogy to a sensation, not a sensation, a physical, like a perceptive sensation, which is another problem, but something, an internal sensation, an emotion. What did they call it? A feeling. There's another word that they used to use, people. A passion, a feeling, all this kind. That's what David Hume said, reasons are the slave of the passions. Remember, this is how we got to this.
There's still passions, I still want things in the sense of like some want arises in me somehow—it's mysterious what this even means because it can't be explained—but it's a feeling, it exists. You'd say it's subjective but it's something that exists and therefore that is what you end up saying.
So what is good? Even if you want to make this into somehow sound good, so just being about your own feelings of happiness and pleasure sounds really evil, although some people just bite the bullet and say that. If you want to be nicer you say everyone's happiness—for some reason I should care about everyone else, I don't know why—but we still have this *mesorah* [tradition] that happiness has, ethics has something to do with other people also.
So we've got to pretend that it's also about everyone being happy, but in the end, everyone being a hedonist, right? Everyone, hedonist—I don't mean claiming that happiness is the good, because most things are the good. A really even weirder kind of hedonist than ancient hedonist, right?
Ancient hedonist still believes in something called the good, it's just that human good is the final pleasure. A modern hedonist says, there's no such thing as good. I know that this makes me feel good. People literally say this all day. If you go in any yeshiva, you hear people saying this, I hear even people pretending to say this in a good way, right? So therefore, if Torah makes you feel good, you should learn Torah.
So, subjectivity. Sometimes it's called subjectivity. This is one solution. Of course, this is a remnant solution, is what I'm saying. It only has any moral forms because people still, the old people also spoke about feeling good and being happy. But they meant being happy in an objective way. And now being happy changes its meaning from being the best kind of human being to being someone that has certain feelings.
And then we get the question of, how's it called, in this little experiment about, what if I just have a machine that injects drugs to you all day that makes you feel pleasure? Is that what you mean? And the utilitarians...
Student: The dopamine problem.
Instructor: Yeah. The utilitarians have tied themselves up enough to figure out why that would not be good. Some of them have answers to this, but this is what you end up with.
Okay. Now, the other *shitta*, that's one *shitta*, that's a gorgeous *shitta*, no one really holds of it. Everyone understands that that's not really ethics. I think that everyone does. It's not just for a few weirdos.
Student: Not a scam. Just pursuing what feels good.
Instructor: It comes with an altruist twist that tries to...
Student: Altruism is this weird thing which says, you should keep other people feeling good. But why is that better than me feeling good? It's not really...
Instructor: That's where altruism comes in, of course. Ancient ethics is not altruistic enough.
Student: Well, you stack it with... It has to be modular. You stack it with something, ultimately.
Instructor: Okay, so you end up saying that there's some... What you end up saying is that there's a sentiment—that was the word I was looking for—moral sentiment, right? There's a sentiment that says that I feel good when you feel good. That turns out to be ethics. Ethics is just one more feeling. That's really what, that's what's called emotivism, right?
Student: Emotivism, yeah.
Instructor: Okay, but that's basically the modern theory. Or one English theory, okay? Like Nietzsche used to say, nobody wants to be happy, only Englishmen want to be happy. Okay, but he means this kind of habit, you were imposed like this very specific idea of what feels good to you, what's called sometimes conscience, right?
And our teacher Elizabeth Anscombe wrote in her very important article in Modern Moral Philosophy that, again, someone called Joseph Bishop, Butler, I don't remember, that was all about conscience. If you meet certain modern people, like Rav Hirsch, some Jews, in a certain period, everyone's very talk about this inner conscience, which is also one interpretation of this inner thing. Like, everyone knows internally what's good.
And then Freud said, yeah, that's your mother's voice. But anyways, and she says, well, seriously? I know people that internally really want to kill everyone. That's not a very good, like, they just all imagine that everyone just automatically has this sense of ethics. That's not what, not real, not true.
But that's, but really, that's just one more feeling. There's no reason to think that that's true. And you're really not sure this is like, this is games. Like, you could say it nicely in a book that you know people that want to murder.
Student: No, there are people who are murdering. Right, even the murderers, like, when Ted Bundy was interviewed, like, he knew that it's not good, right? Even the guy that wants to, he knows, he has an internal compass about what it is.
Instructor: I don't think that's true, but I'm not going to get into that right now. My point is more important. The more important point is, that's just one more feeling. There's no reason to think that that feeling is more important than any other feelings. Only, again, there's a feeling that doesn't tell you what good is.
Student: No, but one second, hold on. I think we're also confusing the word feelings here. There's two feelings that are going on. Feeling here means a sensation. That's all it could mean. That's what it means in this *shitta*. Right, and there's like a feeling like, you know...
Instructor: It's the same thing. That's what it is. There isn't, there isn't another kind of feeling. That's what I'm trying to say. There's a thought, right? Thoughts are about things. But if there's no such a thing as goodness then your thought is not about anything. So it turns out to be a feeling, right? The difference between a thought and a feeling is that a thought is about something and a feeling is not about anything.
Student: Why is the thought of me not hurting you...
Instructor: Let's not argue now because I'm trying to understand what you're saying. You understand what I'm saying, but now let's move on.
Student: No.
Instructor: Okay, if you don't, then come after the *shiur* [lecture] and ask. Okay. First adaptation. Okay. Now, because I'm just going to end up explaining to you at length, but I don't have time for that. It's very simple. What I have to say is like this.
The other *shitta* is what we call... What's the other *shitta*? Maybe this is something like what you're saying, I'm not sure. But the other *shitta* is what we call the deontology, okay? Okay, the deontology is obedience of the moral law. Okay, that's what counts, and that's what Litvaks [Lithuanian-style Orthodox Jews] say.
The first *shitta* is no *yid* [Jew] really says. Maybe there's some weird Jew that says that. Like, from Jew, I mean, like, religious person. But the other *shitta* is basically what every Litvak says.
Student: Well, chassidim [Hasidic Jews] sometimes say hedonism. They just say your real feeling is Hashem [God]. But I don't know if that counts anymore. Because that sounds very much closer to the objective happiness in the end.
Instructor: But it might be, in some sense. Some chassidim, I know some people that interpret chassidim that way. But I don't think it's a classic interpretation, so I don't know. It's an interesting question. And I wonder if... Yeah, it's very complicated. Okay.
But the other *shitta* is to say that there's some... This also doesn't have a source, and also ends up relying on something like what you're describing, that they're closer to whether you're describing it. Not a feeling that makes me feel... I feel fuzzy inside, but something like I feel outside something. I feel something imposing on me.
It still ends up being this kind of a feeling, but—that's a criticism of Kantianism, that it's also a kind of emotivism—but it has to be something, in some sense, from the outside, or something like Kant says, you give your own law. But a law is by definition something stronger than you. And you have some kind of idea or obedience to a law, which doesn't say anything.
The law is not saying anything. The law is not the fact. In the old way, the law is only the fact that this is good. You might not know it, so I'm letting you know that this is the good way to be a human being. And in this way, that's not such a thing as good people or good anything, but there's such a thing as acting in a good way.
Now, what this does, and the second way is really mostly where I'm heading. What this does is, where is the medicine at? What this does mostly is that it makes the relation between the action and the goodness of it very far, right?
Because remember, if there's just things that have ends, then there's good things and good actions and bad actions. Good actions are the ones that lead the thing to the end, and bad actions are the ones that destroy it. It's very simple. It's the *din* [law/judgment] in the action, it's not a *din* in the intention.
But if there's no such a thing, but we have some kind of idea, like a very general idea, something like following the moral law, or going against your base feelings is the good, right? Doing things for the purpose of following the law, and not for the purpose of being happy, right?
If that's the Kantian kind of *shitta*, that says that the goodness of moral action is in following some kind of recognition of a moral law, of a moral truth, or a moral goodness, which is not connected with what you want, it's not connected with what you think, and so on. It's connected with some kind of obedience to a moral law. It ends up being a kind of obedience.
Student: As to society?
Instructor: Society? No, not society. Society is just one more person. A lot of people. It's a God. It ends up being God. It ends up being God. I can't say explicitly that this is God. God is this... One of the reasons that he [Kant] believes in God is because he feels that there's a moral law. And God, there's no way to explain that it's not a God. There's ways of doing this atheistically also, but it ends up being something like a God.
Now...
Student: But is there a way to, like, challenge this if, like, you live, let's say, in Africa, there's one type of way...
Instructor: Not where... Not where...
Instructor: As to society? No, not society. Society is just one more person, a lot of people. It's a God. It ends up being God. It ends up being God. You can't say that this is God. God is this, so one of the reasons that he believes in God is because he feels that there's a moral law. And God, there's no way to explain that it's not a God. There's ways of doing this atheistically also, but it ends up being something like a God.
But is there a way to challenge this? If you live in Africa, there's one type of way to do that? I'm not worried about this right now. There's different problems. Those are different problems. Those are problems. All these *shittas* [philosophical positions/systems] are going to have these kind of problems. I'm trying to get at the form of the *shittas*.
What I'm trying to get at here is that now, if you have this idea of what good is, and this is what every *Litvak* [Lithuanian-style Orthodox Jew], like in many *sifrei mussar* [ethical/moral instruction texts], I think, what good is, then your connection with it, the way in which your action is good, becomes something very internal.
What do I mean internal? When I mean internal, I mean precisely this thing that humans have and doesn't really exist in the world. Remember, according to this *shitta*, there is something humans have, which is subjectivity, or being about, the ability to be about something, the ability to be towards something, the ability to want, we could say. Now we call this word wanting. The ability to want or to desire.
Desire was always a specifically human way of being towards something. But now humans are the only things that are towards something. So now desire or intention is this very specific and weird and inexplicable in some sense, human kind of thing, maybe this is a human separate soul that can do it, that can be about something else, that can be wanting some other thing that doesn't really exist. Now, the wanting doesn't either exist, it's only like a mental fact, it's only something internal.
And now this turns out to be the only thing that can make you good. Because just doing something, if you do a good thing for the wrong reasons, it's not even *shelo lishma* [not for its own sake]. Remember, the whole thing of *mitoch shelo lishma ba lishma* [from doing it not for its own sake, one comes to do it for its own sake] doesn't really work in this *shitta*. It's become very hard to explain. And you'll notice that a lot of people have a big problem explaining it. While the Rabbah thought that this is simple and the most obvious moral factor is. Right?
Why? Because according to this *nusach shitta* [version of the philosophical position], the only thing that makes things good is the way in which you intend being good by it. That's what the goodness consists of. The intending being good, the intending of being this universal moral law, or intending to be a universal rule, all kind of formulations of this same thing.
But the only way in which what you're doing is connected to that, which your act is connected, is in this internal state, almost a feeling, might be more than a feeling if you want to say it that way, but it's just a feeling, a feeling that I'm doing a good thing. Because besides your feelings, and we don't have explanation for feelings, because feelings is this weird human thing nothing else has. There's no feelings in the universe, right? The universe doesn't care about you, you know this statement? The universe doesn't have feelings, only humans have feelings, right? Only humans have aboutness, only humans have intentionality. Now, according to this *shitta*.
Therefore, the only way something can be good, only humans can be morally good, right? There's nothing, there's no way of saying that something is good or bad in a real way, only humans. And now specifically human intention, which is this weird, inexplicable magic thing that humans obviously still have, even after the theory doesn't make sense, they still have it, right?
So now we end up with something very weird. We end up with this theory that, what is here said by *Sefer HaTanya* [foundational Chabad Chassidic text], that the only place where God is, the only good thing, is the intention to be good. It's a kind of empty intention because, or we can say it's not empty because it's obedience to the moral law. But that's the intention, the intender. Right, but there's no, the link between the law and you doesn't exist, right? Because that's in your mind. The link is also in your mind, for sure, according to God, right?
So the only thing that's really good is entirely in the human heart, and the human mind, and the human intention, human soul, however you want to call it.
And now, firstly, this makes everything much worse. Like I said, the *mitoch shelo lishma* stops making sense. Or it becomes much bigger, but the effort than it used to be, right?
Because the Rambam did explain as the normal way of human training. *Mitoch shelo lishma* means you do the thing as a training level where you do the thing but you don't entirely know why. You're doing it for the wrong why but you're still doing a good thing. You're still a good person. Your actions are still good. They're really good. They're really good because they're doing the good thing. They're doing the kind of things a good person would have done.
Are they fully good? No, because you're in what we call your internality and not good because in other words you don't know why it's good. So you don't do it for the sake of itself. You learn for the sake of money, but learning is still really good, because goodness is still a property of real things. So learning is still really good. It's you, you that are missing some part of the goodness. Your mind doesn't understand it. So you don't mean the learning, you mean something else, but that doesn't make it entirely not good.
Versus according to the new *shitta*, that when you learn for the sake of something else, that's totally worthless, like the Kotzker [the Kotzker Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Morgenstern of Kotzk] could have said. It's entirely worthless. It might be worth in some weird way, all the *chassidish seforim* [Chassidic texts] start with this assumption, if you read any *chassidish* text, you see, they all say, well, I've heard that but it doesn't happen. They all say this very weird statement. They say, well, our experience shows that it doesn't work. We need to add something to this. Because all the *Litvaks* never got to *lishma* [doing it for its own sake]. That's what they say. And therefore, we have to ask, see this, and all kinds of things. But it doesn't work.
This statement arises because of the destruction of the understanding that it always works. According to the theory of habituation, being basic moral training, it always works, because once you, I mean, I can't say always, there might still be this problem where sometimes people stay by that stage always, but it works.
Firstly, it's still really good. It's not that the goodness of the Besht [the Baal Shem Tov, founder of Chassidism] is only like Besht says, it'll become Besht, it'll be *ma lishma lishma* [elevating the shelo lishma to lishma], you know these stories of Besht? I mean, you can interpret that in the correct way, I'm not saying, but I'm explaining that there's really goodness in being, in being pretend a good person, because goodness is a property of things.
That good person is not a fully good person, he's still a halfway good person, because you could say his heart is not good, only his actions are good. But actions are really good. They're really the ones that make a good person into a good person. That's what's in the action, not in the person.
But if you understand that there's no such thing as goodness in actions, there's only goodness in the human heart because actions by themselves don't have an end. They can't have a *kavana* [intention].
Now *kavana* becomes, now the word *kavana* is very weird. It has a new interpretation of modernity than it had ever before.
*Kavana*, if you read any ancient text, any medieval text about *kavana*, you'll see that *kavana* is a *din* [law/legal category] and an action. *Kavana* is a description of what you're doing. It's not a description of your internal state.
How do I know this? You'll read every *sugya* [Talmudic topic/discussion] of *mitzvos tzrichos kavana* [whether commandments require intention] and you'll see that there's no *shitta* that the whole is different than this. I'm making a real statement so you can argue with me. But this is how most of the *kashas* [questions/difficulties] about the *sugya* of *mitzvos tzrichos kavana* and the same thing about *melacha machsheves asra Torah* [the Torah forbade purposeful labor—a principle in Shabbos law], there's no, none of these are about your internal state. They're all about what the action is.
Because what explains an action of course your internal state is part of it when there's human actions. Humans act by internal states. I'm not saying internal states don't exist. I think that the goodness is not totally, is not contingent only on that, like it is in eternity.
The goodness is that this is a good thing, because it's for a good purpose.
Student: And it's also incomplete independently, right, on the flip side, you have good intentions with no action.
Instructor: Exactly. Good intentions are the opposite. Exactly. According to the... Of course. Of course, good intentions which are only in an eternal state, and are not directed toward action, which is not a thing that even makes sense in the old system, which somehow makes sense in the new ones, because it's always in some way like this. Because then goodness is an eternal thing, it's just a feeling, or just kind of a disposition, or like an overcoming of your own egoism, or things like that, those are entirely eternal things.
Overcoming your egoism, which is what people in modernity think is what makes good actions good, is entirely an eternal thing. Nobody cares if you get to look at the overcoming egoism or for egoistic purposes, right? It's the action that cares.
Therefore, when you read ancient descriptions of *shelo lishma*, it always has a different, there's always a description of the action that is different, and I think always, also almost always, it's actually different. Someone who learns *shelo lishma* is learning in a different way than someone who's learning *lishma*. It's not just he has a different thing in his mind.
It's true that the reason he acts in a different way is because he doesn't understand the goodness of learning. So the difference is very simple. For example, someone who learned *shelo lishma* is not for the purpose of learning or maybe if learning itself is a purpose towards another purpose, doesn't matter, towards that, he's going to only learn as long as he gets money and the other one is going to stop learning, right? The moment he doesn't get money, you're honored for it. So there's a real difference in the action, you can see the difference in what he's doing. It's not only a difference in his head.
The *chassidish* interpretation of *shelo lishma* is entirely in your head. Because according to them, if you're learning for your own pleasure, for example, in other words, because you recognize yourself that it's good, that's also *shelo lishma*. Because they end up with this entirely outside giving of purposes to the world, where the world is empty of purpose not only God gives it purpose, but He doesn't really give it even, right? It's only purposeful in the sense that it's what God likes, which is why that's either a pantheism or a *hagshama* [corporealization/anthropomorphism of God], or a physical God, a human-like God, understand what I'm saying?
Very simple, very simple *shtikl toeles* [bit of practical application/purpose].
And therefore, for example, we learned last week, the Rambam of that. That talks about how you could be *oved Hashem* [serving God] with everything you do if you eat in order to learn, basically.
Now, people think that this means that when you eat, you have to think certain thoughts. It's nothing to do with that. It's not about your state of mind while you're eating. In other words, the intention, *kavana*, in the ancient world, is the answer to the question why you're doing it. It's not the answer to the question what is in your head while you're doing it. You understand the difference? That's a very one-line difference.
In modern days, *kavana* and *mussar seforim*, *lashma*, *kavana*, all these nice words mean, what is in your head while you're doing it? And in the Rambam it means, why are you doing it? What's the answer to the question why you're doing it?
What is in your head the whole day? Sometimes last week I called it, what is in your head the whole day? But it does not mean your head ever. It's the answer to the question.
This was the answer to Reb Chaim's *stira* [contradiction] on the Rambam. It's the answer to a lot of things.
Student: So the answer to why now we've been clapping before *Megillah* [the Book of Esther, read on Purim], everyone should have a mind to be *yotzei* [fulfill the obligation].
Instructor: Exactly. That's nonsense. The *stira* of Reb Chaim. Of course, the Chazon Ish is trying to say this but he doesn't have a way to say it. I don't know if it's a true answer. I think there's a simpler answer to that, I'm just saying, it sounds a lot of things.
Like you're saying, there's no such thing as you go to *shul* [synagogue] while you're reading the *Megillah*, because the *mitzvah* [commandment] is *laining* [reading] the *Megillah*. What do you mean I should have it in my mind? What should I have in my mind? Intention is not about having it in your mind. Of course you could go and have it in your mind, but that's just the word. It actually makes it quite small in a way. It makes it weird.
No, it takes time.
Just to be clear, what is in your mind is very important. Your mind is an important organ. And what you're thinking at every moment is an important thing to focus on, but not because of the *din* of *kavana*, because of a whole different reason, because your mind is in action in itself. You could have the good *kavana* *shalom* [intention, peace/completeness—transcript cuts off here]
Instructor: Like you're saying, there's lots of things. As you go to shul [synagogue], why are you reading the Megillah [the scroll of Esther]? Because the message is lying in the Megillah. What do you mean I should have it in my mind? What should I have in my mind? The intention is not about having it in your mind. Of course you could go and have it in your mind. But that's just the word. It makes it weird.
No, it takes time. Just to be clear. What is in your mind is very important. Your mind is an important organ. What you're thinking at every moment is an important thing to focus on. But not because of the din [law/category] of kavana [intention]. Because of a whole different reason. Because your mind is an action in itself.
You could have the good kavana shelo lishma [intention not for its own sake]. You could have kavana as Rashash [acronym for Rabbi Shalom Sharabi] al di Shema [on the Shema prayer]. Because what you have in your—because the reason you're doing it is not because it's good, but because of some other reason. It's like the Baal Shem Tov with the shofar [ram's horn blown on Rosh Hashanah]. Maybe, I don't know. You shouldn't have any kavana. Right? The kavana is just—yeah, I don't know, it's complicated. What's going on in those stories, I don't know what you understand. We'll have to go through the whole thing.
This is very simple. So this is very simple. So now we understand both why in the olden days, lishma [for its own sake] is a din [category] in the maaseh [action]. Lishma is a din in the maaseh. Lishma is a din in the maaseh. There's stam maaseh [plain action], and there's lishma, and there's shelo lishma [not for its own sake].
Of course, since humans act with their heads, have something with your head, but it's not a din in what's in your head.
And this is why, of course, modern people, not only can't imagine God resting anywhere besides their head, they can't imagine any goodness, which is really what they mean, besides for in their intention, which is a very weird thing, because it's kind of useless, and it leads to this weird thing.
Everyone wants to be good. No, you don't want to be good. Wanting means wanting to do. What does that even mean? But if all goodness is in something, that somehow makes sense. It still doesn't entirely make sense. But that's why they end up thinking like that, because they must think like that.
Now, I'm showing you why they're forced to think like that, because of their thought that there's no goodness in the real world, in the external world. So therefore, goodness has to be—so it can't be totally what you do, because that's an external thing, and that's not really good. So it has to be what you do, and therefore it has to be that even if you do it, if you want to do something good and you never do anything good, you're still a good guy.
Student: So how would you know much of it? That's what I've discussed many times. In my theory, it means—even if you can conceptually divide them, you still have a correlation problem, right? One second. That's what you're saying, right? Meaning, even if I can somehow separate the intention from the action, I still need some sort of correlation.
Instructor: Obviously, you have to at least say you don't want it enough or something. That's what I would say, or that's what other people say. I mean, even other people would say this, right?
Student: Other people, yeah, they say something, but I'm saying that their theory forces them to say that the goodness is entirely in the internal state and not in the actual state, which is why they end up saying these funny things, exactly, and then they end up with this, because this is a question for them also, they agree that this is a question, and they make up their question, and I'm using that question to show that the whole thing is absurd, but they would say, I have to say this, and they have to find an answer, exactly, that they're not crazy, they're crazy.
Instructor: The main puzzle piece missing and the reason causing all this weirdness and the whole machlokes [dispute] of Nefesh HaChaim and Tanya or whatever it is—well, lishma is all caused by the loss of lishma in the real world. Since people stop believing that the world is lishma, they start, they end up pigeonholed into one of these two options: either all lishma is in your head, or everything is because God said so, which is basically Nefesh HaChaim's shitta [approach/position]. Understand?
Now when you say it's on your head, then you end up with different problems. So therefore you have to say that your head is also God, all kinds of things. But that's the basic story.
Just means—very simple—according to my theory, if a person has an actual disposition to doing things—doesn't mean that I'm sitting in my room and thinking of good thoughts. That's not what it means. It's like the Gemara [Talmud] says, in other words, if I'm a kind of person that does tzedakah [charity] every year, but this year I have no money in my pocket, so for this year I'm still a good person. But at some point I'm not being a good person. By the way, because I'm really a doer of good, right? You really are a doer.
Student: Or just there's something external stopping you, blocking you. So you're still considered a good person. If I was never a doer, I wouldn't be a doer.
Instructor: Exactly. You can't say, even Aristotle, there's a machlokes [dispute] on this. Aristotle goes so far to say, if you never had money, you're never a baal tzedakah [charitable person]. If you once had money, and today you don't have money, then we can say—that's what the Torah has to promise you to have money. Because otherwise you can't do mitzvos [commandments]. You can't be a baal tzedakah. You need a body. That's what Zalman [the Vilna Gaon] said, you need a body to do mitzvos. Otherwise you could want to do mitzvah, that wanting is not interesting.
That's the big chalek [difference/distinction] and this is, I think, the reasoning why all this, why this machlokes, all the things that we discussed. And that's Moshe Rabbeinu's [Moses our teacher's] answer to the malachim [angels], yesh bichem [do you have among you] this, yesh bichem that, in other words, you have to be able to do it.
That goes to a different discussion, because there is goods for a soul without a body, just different activities. It's very interesting, when we say, these two things don't necessarily connect. That's why there is an ancient, like I said, father [dispute]. Father wasn't, I mean, and there isn't anything like I'm saying that's how many people think. Because what happens is, the question of what is good for a soul without a body is also to do something.
We're very confused. We think that souls without bodies can't do anything. They do things. It's like thinking, or knowing, or maybe even wanting, or kind of things like that, which is a doing. The goodness of the soul without a guf [body] is not that he is choleim [dreaming], as if he's a man with a hand, but he's choleim in the flesh. In the flesh. He's in the flesh. That's also a maaseh [action]. For a soul, it's a maaseh. Maybe for a body, it's like a maaseh. For a soul, it's like a maaseh. That's its activity.
The goodness of everything is a kind of activity. It's just that it's not your kind of activity. So it's not, we don't, if you want to look for the kind of thing, that's why this is weird. This is weird. Everyone will also tell you that what's in your head is very important. What's in your head is very important. Not in your head, in your mind. It's very important because those are the kind of things the soul as a soul or the thinker as a thinker, the human as a human in the real sense is doing. Not because that's an internal thing. It's an external thing. It's a maaseh. Machshavah k'maaseh [thought is like action]. Machshavah k'maaseh because that's what it does. It doesn't want anything else.
For a body, just thinking, thinking has two meanings. Thinking here has two different meanings, right? Thinking means thinking to and thinking that, right? Or thinking a, right? Thinking to just means planning. That's just thinking roots and therefore, that kind of thing doesn't make sense without a maaseh. But thinking of things that thought that ends with the thinking, that's why, for example, according to the ancient thought, thinking thought about things that are temporary it doesn't count as thinking, right?
Thinking about maaseh, it doesn't have a maalah [virtue/elevated status] of thinking. The whole maalah of machshavah [thought], like the Tanya says, the maalah of machshavah, that's the big advice, which is just a rip-off of Aristotle, is only true for thought about true things. It doesn't work for halacha [Jewish law], that's the Tanya's big mistake, from the perspective of Aristotle. It doesn't work from the perspective of halacha. There's an answer to this mistake, I'm not saying it's a mistake, I'm just saying from this perspective it's a mistake.
You can't say, I'm thinking about what to do with tzedakah al pi [according to] Tur [the Arba'ah Turim, a major code of Jewish law], then you're thinking about shechting [ritual slaughter] chickens properly, then it's only good, like Mashiach [Messiah] have said. How can it be that the thinking about shechting chickens properly is better than the shechting chickens properly itself? It can't be better. It's worse. I mean, maybe it's better in some sense because it's organizing it. It's giving it a form. It's giving it the correct answer to that question. But it's not better.
The only thing that is better is thinking that can actually end by thinking. That's called the Shema [the central Jewish prayer affirming God's unity]. That's why Torah al pi Shema [Torah for its own sake] is the only way to learn Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism/esoteric Torah]. If you learn nigleh [revealed/exoteric Torah], you're never learning Torah al pi Shema. Because it never has the maalah of machshavah. It's always subservient or anything since forever, Torah lishma only means learning nistar [hidden/esoteric Torah]. Because those are the only things that they end with knowing. Their point is to know them. Because as much as whatever every Taz [acronym for Turei Zahav, a major halakhic commentary] and every Bach [acronym for Bayit Chadash, another major halakhic commentary], it's only a little maaseh of what's in the loch [hole/case].
Student: That's what you mean?
Instructor: Yeah. Like I said, there's complications in this. But yeah, the Taz is only about, at least from the perspective of it being practical wisdom, it's only about what to do when this case happens. And therefore, it's about things that are happening.
If you learn it and you're not planning, for example, what's atar [place] lishma, what's the biggest lishma, lam lishma amalat [not for its own sake] l'masat [for the sake of]? If you learn and you're not planning to do what you're learning, that one, from that perspective, will be lishma. It's a little counterintuitive to what you think.
Student: No, no, from this, in the level of maaseh and the level of how we level the maaseh it's true, because that's a bluff, that's what I said last week, that's called, that's called he's not learning internally, he's learning externally, that's called—
Instructor: The meaning of that kind of learning, the meaning, the why. Why do we learn not to speak lashon hara [evil speech/gossip]? Not to speak lashon hara. If you learn about it, and you speak lashon hara, you're mosif al hachet [adding to the sin]. You're just saying the words, but you're not really learning. That's what it means. But that's not the maalah of learning for itself. That's not shelo lishma on the real high level. There's two different meanings.
Student: So if you're learning about lashon hara, is that shelo lishma?
Instructor: What?
Student: Is that shelo lishma?
Instructor: Mosif al hachet it's called. It's not the same thing as shelo lishma. That's what I'm asking. In this state we could call it—it is—it's a different meaning of—for that—no, because that's the exact problem. That's what, that's what, that's the discussion. There's no—someone who learns without planning to do it, there's the—which is a different thing—learning about the good leads people to do good. That's an interesting fact about human nature. If you learn a lot of halacha, you stop being—if you don't plan to—that just has to do with—
Student: Mashir [influences] on Friday?
Instructor: Because we are influenced a lot by what we think. But, okay, but that's a different thing. But if you learn like a Doeg [Doeg HaEdomi, a biblical villain who used Torah knowledge for evil], like a Doeg, like a toif [error], like that's when I mosif al hachet, then no, then there's no mitoch shelo lishma [from not for its own sake to for its own sake], then it's making you worse. You're becoming a daat [knowledge], mathless, I'm a novice kind of person, because you're finding out all the tricks of the world without planning to not do them. You're actually becoming a worse person.
The Rosh Hashanah [Jewish New Year] is when you learn things that are just theory, or even in this sense, you don't yet plan to do it like we say the Murshid al-Maghzir al-Mutafsans [unclear reference], and slowly, for example, I tell you you should learn Kabbalah. You say, why should I learn Kabbalah? I tell you, you'll become a mekubal [kabbalist/practitioner of Kabbalah]. Okay, I make sense. A mekubal is a good point of reference. I'll learn Kabbalah. Then, slowly you learn Kabbalah, and you realize that learning Kabbalah is better than being a mekubal. Perhaps, because it's taki geshmak [really delightful/genuinely good]. That's lishma, and that happens all the time. I see that.
By the way, that happens. It's not avodas Hashem [service of God], it happens naturally, because you start to think that it's good. People that started learning Kabbalah because they thought it was going to be cool, and then they started actually liking it. That happens to everything. Because you start seeing the goodness, that's why we keep on explaining. You think that it's a bad thing, then you have to do it for yourself, and then you do it for your own money. That's the problem. That's why it's not a very good plan to learn Kabbalah in order to become a mekubal.
Student: But a bad thing is about the feelings.
Instructor: No, not in that sense. Of course not. In the sense of seeing the good, seeing how it's really good. That's why it's a bad plan. Someone who wants to learn how to become a—he has to actively work that way because otherwise he might start liking it even when he doesn't make money. Many people, you know, I know so many people that started to get into learning, they thought it's going to be a good business.
Instructor:
That's the problem. That's why it's not a very good plan to learn Kabbalah [Qabula: Jewish mystical tradition] in order to become a Mekabel [professional Kabbalist/spiritual practitioner]. Bokishmak [Yiddish: nonsense] is about the feelings. No, not in that sense. Of course not. In the sense of seeing the good. Seeing how it's really good. That's why it's a bad plan.
If someone wants to learn how to become a Mekabel, he has to actively work that way because otherwise he might start liking it even when he doesn't make money. Many people, you know so many, I know so many people that started getting into learning. They thought it was going to be a good business. It's going to be a good business. It turns out he just likes it. And then he stopped making money out of it because he doesn't do the parts which make you money, right?
Something that really happens. It's a very normal thing, this. It's not a magic. But anyway, that's not related to Rashi. That's just to answer these questions.
Instructor:
The mind. I'm from Galazan [unclear reference]. Every oldest one would say this Torah [teaching], that that Pirim [Purim: Jewish holiday commemorating the events of the Book of Esther] means that the Gezonis [chitzoniyus: externality, the physical/outer dimension] is also the Primaeus [pnimiyus: internality, the spiritual/inner dimension]. Right? Remember?
It's an old hand, I guess it's just for him. Because Peter [Purim] was going to say it off the gift. I don't think it's true, but like Hanukkah [Chanukah: Jewish holiday commemorating the rededication of the Temple], it was about the Kema Mitzvahs [kiyum hamitzvos: fulfillment of the commandments]. That Peter [Purim] was just about existing. Stimmt [Yiddish: correct]? That's what they talk about.
And we learn that the gift [guf: body] from the Yid [Jew] is also Heilig [Yiddish: holy]. Now you understand what this means, according to my new chat [shitta: approach/system].
Instructor:
It means the Primaeus [pnimiyus] is the Gezonis [chitzoniyus]. There's no faith [unclear]. This whole wanting is that's what people call [pnimiyus] is really what [machshove lachutz: external thought/intention].
You have a very [strong feeling] when you learn [Torah], it's that's [intense], you're so [farkocht: Yiddish: deeply immersed/emotionally absorbed] and you love it so much and you want it so much, but you're not planning to do it. Like most people, they're so [emotionally involved] but they're not really planning to do it. They're planning to do something with a whole different state of mind than being [in that emotional state]. Two things [with no shaychis: no connection to each other]. So that's, that's, that's [the distinction].
But that's what Yavonim [Yevonim: the Greeks] said. What's the witz [Yiddish: point/essence] of Pirim [Purim]? I want to tell you, nobody has Dwaikus [dveikus: spiritual attachment/cleaving to God] on Pirim [Purim]. Everybody has Dwaikus [dveikus] at Bluffing [unclear], or doesn't have Pirim [Purim].
Instructor:
Pirim [Purim] has Antarim [tantzen: Yiddish: dancing], and we have Meshlichmuris [mishloach manos: sending gifts of food to friends], and we have Tzachogs [unclear: possibly referring to the feast/seudah], and that's Lamas [l'matah: below, in the physical realm]. That's the whole point, at least from the beginning [at least in the bein adam l'chaveiro dimension: interpersonal relationships]. That's the whole point.
Instructor:
Like the Rambam [Maimonides] says, the ik simcha [ikkar simcha: the essential joy], the Rambam says, means literally [l'sameach lev aniyim v'yesomim: to gladden the hearts of the poor and orphans]. That's what makes, that's what happiness is. Happiness means being a good human being.
Whether you feel it or not, this is [a kleine problem: Yiddish: a small issue], but that's not the point. Happiness is not a feeling, happiness is a fact. And if you smite [be a mensch to] other people, that's what happiness is.
Instructor:
So in a while, everyone should give money to their local Matan al-Aviyaynim [matanos l'evyonim: gifts to the poor—a Purim mitzvah], and that's a new Hasidic Shad [unclear: possibly referring to an old Chassidic teaching about giving personally/aleine], and Shain [everyone] should have a happy Yom Tov [Jewish holiday].
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Each shiur is essentially an entire book compressed to its core insight (*nekuda hachiddush*). The analogy: a scholar has an insight (in the shower), finds sources, builds an argument, publishes after years, gets reviewed, and eventually the core insight is reduced to five lines in an encyclopedia. These shiurim start with the summary. Anyone could expand any single shiur into a full book, but since nobody reads full books anyway, the compressed version comes first.
Today's shiur is a "new book" that continues the previous two weeks' discussions. The realization (arrived at on Sunday, "in the shower") is that everything discussed so far is connected.
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The central problem is the relationship between pnimiyus (interiority) and chitzoniyus (exteriority) — a topic everyone invokes (especially around Purim) but few define clearly.
- On one hand: The Rambam's approach seems very *external* — focused on actions. The Chasidic reading of the Rambam is a misreading; the Rambam is genuinely about externals/actions.
- On the other hand: The Rambam was not a "modern Litvak" who reduces Judaism to mechanical performance. The framework here emphasizes *being a person*, not being a machine that produces outputs — which sounds like an *inner* thing.
The core question: What is the *nekuda* (essential point) of a Jew / a good person? Is it inside or outside? Is this a chicken-or-egg problem (where do you start?) or a definitional problem (what *is* goodness)?
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Last week's main point was that there is a genuine question about what it means to be "good on the inside." There are two different things that "being good on the inside" could mean. (This is flagged as a *droshe* — a more homiletical framing — before returning to "reality.")
A *shmuess* (talk) on Shabbos about the Mishkan claimed it needed to be *liphnai v'lifnim* (inward), citing a Torah from an *Acharon* that this means *lishmah* (for its own sake / with good intentions), requiring *nidvas halev* (generosity of heart). This is a total misreading of Rashi — "no *shaychus*" (no connection). The conclusion that the *Hashraas HaShechina* (Divine Presence) rests not in the physical structure but in the *lev* (heart) doesn't answer the question but makes it worse: Why is your heart better than a building? Nobody explains this. Yet there is "something Jewish" behind the intuition — it's just unclear what it actually means.
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What does it mean in plain English when people say the *pnimiyus* of a Yid, the *nidvas halev*, the inner self?
"Internal" means that nothing *outside* of "you" makes you good or bad — it's the "you" that makes you good. Analogy: a talented person forced into a police uniform who is bad at being a cop isn't a bad *person* — they have 150 other talents (comedian, writer, musician). The "external" is the uniform/role that doesn't match who they really are.
1. A uniform is not chitzoniyus in the relevant sense — it's just a mismatch, not an inside/outside distinction. Saying you're "really" a musician rather than a policeman is just saying your talents lie elsewhere.
2. Talents are not "you" in some deep inner sense — they are things *about* you, possibly Aristotelian "accidents." (The student pushes back, suggesting talents *constitute* the person like ingredients make a cake, which is why every person is unique. This is flagged as "somewhat wrong" but not pursued.)
3. Both roles involve external action — Being a musician is something you *do* with your body; people hear it. If no one hears your music, you're "like a tree falling in the forest." The supposed "inner" musical self is just an *ability* — and an ability to do *what*? To play music, which is an action. "Being good *be'etzem*" (essentially/inherently) collapses into nothing without the doing.
4. The table analogy: A table used to block a door is being *misused*: it's ill-suited for that purpose, its shape and structure don't match the function. Similarly, a person whose talents don't fit their role will struggle and suffer. This is real and true, but it's just the concept of proper function vs. misuse — not pnimiyus vs. chitzoniyus.
When people say "internally every Yid is good" or "every human is good inside," what do they actually mean? Do they mean people have good dispositions? Some do, some don't. Do they mean humans *as such* have good dispositions? What would that even mean? The common intuition about inner goodness has not yet been given coherent content. A false answer (inner = matching your predispositions/talents) has been cleared away.
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The proposal that pnimiyus/chitzoniyus maps onto what a thing truly is (its nature/purpose) versus what it can be used for but isn't suited for is a "true vort" (valid point) but not an explanation of the pnimiyus/chitzoniyus distinction people invoke. "Humans are good at humaning" is either trivially true or meaningless — it doesn't make someone a *good* human. The concepts of lishmah, good intention, good ratzon (will) — these are not the same as the suitedness point. They're something else entirely. The drasha about inner goodness remains practically unintelligible — "give me a mashal, what should I *do* because of your drasha?"
A student raises the point about seeing someone "limping" and being able to fix it — why not correct the person giving the drasha? This connects to mitzvas tochacha but is deferred as a separate, complicated discussion. A shiur was given on this topic in Monsey on Rosh Chodesh, dealing with a different brayta. [Flagged to be revisited later.]
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A foundational *yesod* (principle): It can't be that everyone before a certain date was crazy, nor that everyone after that date is crazy. Something puzzling happened — whether in 1772 or 1992 or whenever "modernity" struck — that caused people to start thinking in new ways. The pnimiyus/chitzoniyus discourse is an example: people have been saying these drashos for ~400 years, but going back further, nobody says them. The earlier sources (when read carefully, "simply") don't actually support this reading, even though people retroject it into them. The task is to understand both what these drashos mean to the people saying them and what historical/conceptual shift made them start seeming meaningful.
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A student offers a more sophisticated attempt: the world of thoughts is fundamentally different from the world of things (raw material, external objects). If your basic ontological model is built around "things in the world," then thoughts don't fit that model. You need to find a model for thoughts that can't be reduced to things. This forces you to posit a thinker — someone the thoughts "belong to." This thinker must be radically distant from the world of things. The easiest move: whoever the thoughts belong to — that's "you," the inner self. This creates the inner/outer distinction: the thinker (inner, pnimiyus) vs. the world of things (outer, chitzoniyus).
This is promising — "we're going somewhere" — but the student has jumped one step ahead in the planned progression. The *state of the question* must first be fully established before moving to explanations.
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"A kop ken men nisht ibershteln" — you can't give someone a new head. You can give someone tools, objects, help — but not a new way of seeing the world. A rebbe can do that, but not in a day, month, or year. To make the question about pnimiyus even *intelligible* to the drasha-giver would require breaking enormous amounts of conceptual ice.
The classic Indian parable: blind men each touch one part of an elephant and describe it differently (tail = fuzzy rope, trunk = pipe, leg = pillar). Each speaks truth *from their perspective*. The sighted person sees the whole elephant. Perspectivism means people's partial views are *partially right*, not simply wrong. Philosophy's purpose is to open your eyes — to see what truly is. And if you see what truly is, you must *by definition* be able to explain everyone else's mistakes.
Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas (questions in Talmudic law) are always *good* kashas — unanswerable if you accept all his (often unstated) assumptions. You can't "answer" them with a fuzzy teretz (forced resolution). The real resolution is to dissolve the question — to show that the underlying assumptions create a world where the question arises, but reality is "something entirely different," so the kasha either doesn't start or doesn't end. Reb Nachman's principle: there's no world in which both the kasha is a good kasha *and* the teretz is a good teretz. One of them has to give.
If your philosophy doesn't explain why everyone else is "crazy" — and in precisely *what way* they're crazy — then your understanding is deficient. A true understanding of the world must account for others' errors, not just assert its own correctness. Seeing the full picture necessarily includes explaining the partial pictures and why they mislead.
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A book aimed at teenagers to defend Yiddishkeit argues: If there is a God → He created the world for a reason → everything has meaning. If not → nothing has meaning → no reason to go to yeshiva. This is 100% right in content but inverted in logical order.
A humorous dream about a government "Ministry of Meaning" (Misrad HaMashmaut) that dispatches trucks of meaning to places lacking it. Communists want equal distribution of meaning; capitalists want meaning allocated by merit. This connects to the real contemporary phenomenon of the "meaning crisis" — a widespread sense that life lacks meaning.
It's not "if God exists, then meaning exists." It's "if meaning exists, then God exists." Meaning is not something God *adds* to a meaningless world. Rather, meaning (what-for-ness / tachlis) is intrinsic to the nature of things, and from that, one arrives at God.
This traces to Socrates and Avraham Avinu: the insight that you cannot explain what something *is* without explaining what it is *for*. A table cannot be understood without reference to what tables are for. This is teleology — but the preferred term is "meaning," defined as identical: meaning = what something is for.
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- The tachlis (end/goal/completion) of a thing is more definitional of what it is than its material composition, its efficient cause, or its current state.
- For living things especially, form, end, and essence converge — what a living thing *is*, what it's *for*, and what it's *becoming* are the same.
- Theology (what God is / the ultimate for-ness), physics (what things are), and ethics (bringing things to their completion) are the same kind of inquiry.
- David Hume's "is/ought" distinction (the so-called naturalistic fallacy) is nonsense in this framework, because "ought" is simply the completion of "is."
- Sefer Mishlei (Proverbs) equates knowledge with goodness — not because knowing facts makes you moral, but because truly knowing what something is includes knowing its proper completion/functioning. "Being good" and "acting well" are the same thing.
The existence of ends in nature does not automatically tell you what those ends are. Francis Bacon committed the fallacy of conflating the *existence* of teleology with *knowing* what the ends are. Real science, properly understood, is the investigation of what each thing is *for*. The Rambam's introduction to Perush HaMishnah about Shlomo HaMelech: when Scripture says Solomon "knew every tree," it means he knew what every tree was *for* — its telos. This is the same kind of knowledge as knowing Torah, which is "knowing the good for everything." If the good is causally prior to the partial existence of things that tend toward it, that's what "Torah is the entirety of the world" means.
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An important caveat: this is not merely a historical event. The anti-teleological impulse has always existed — it is what Avraham Avinu fought against (Avodah Zarah / idolatry). The *yetzer hara* (evil inclination) is precisely this tendency to see things otherwise. Reducing this to mere *hishtalshelus* (historical development), as if it were only a contingent cultural shift, must be avoided.
Nevertheless, the historical version:
- Francis Bacon (*Novum Organum* — "new science") and later David Hume and others declared that there are no "fors" in the world (*ein ba'olam tachlis*).
- The world has causes but not meanings. They redefined "cause" to exclude teleological/final causation.
- The practical difference: instead of explaining a tree as something tending toward being a full tree (its nature is its trajectory toward completion), they say a tree is merely what happens when various forces push matter into a certain configuration. There is no "being a tree" as a real category — just the accidental result of mechanical forces.
- This is not a natural way of understanding things — most ordinary people naturally think in terms of ends in nature and only get "hacked" out of it by science education.
The modern obsession with history as explanation is a direct consequence of denying final and formal causes. If the only real cause is efficient/material cause ("where something came from"), then explaining anything just means tracing its history. The correct view: what something *is* is explained by where it's *going to* (its end), not where it came from.
The thinkers being criticized are smarter than this presentation makes them sound. There are real reasons they arrived at their positions, which must be studied seriously. But this is "just the review of the book, not the book."
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If there are no final causes in nature, theology is radically constrained to only a few possible positions:
The "intelligent designer" of the Intelligent Design movement is not the God of Judaism. It is, at best, a *nous*, a *malach*, a *sefirah* — an intelligence, but not "the One." If nature has no inherent ends, then the only way to get purpose into the world is to posit an external mind that *imposes* purposes on things from outside — the way a carpenter imposes table-ness on wood (wood has wood-ness inherently; tables do not). This makes God into a being with plans "the way we have plans," which is *hagshama* (corporealization of God). Such a God also *needs* things (the world serves Him), which means He is not truly God. Yeshiva students who worship an intelligent designer are worshiping a false God with a body.
Given the denial of immanent ends in nature, there are exactly three possible theological positions in modernity:
1. Deism — God is the great watchmaker (Newton's position). God made the world but the world runs by itself through mechanical/efficient causes alone. A variant is Deism plus miracles — God is the watchmaker who occasionally *breaks* the watch to intervene. This is what "most modern Orthodox people believe" — a "very weird *shita*."
2. Atheism — No God at all (and "many religious people are also" effectively atheists).
3. Pantheism — God *is* the world itself (*Chassidus*, in a reductive characterization acknowledged as oversimplified). Everything is God. But if understood materially, this raises the question of whether this God is material.
Every modern religious person (besides the speaker, half-jokingly) falls into one of these three categories. All three are consequences of denying teleology in nature.
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If things and actions in the world don't have inherent ends, then no action has meaning by itself. You cannot look at an action or a thing and derive from *what it is* what it is *for*. This is "the basic opinion of all modern people" (also equated with "what the *yetzer hara* holds" and "what the *satan* held from the first day").
There is a glaring anomaly: human beings have intentions. This is the Cartesian exception — everything is "extension" (matter in motion) except for the human mind, which has the strange property called *intentionality*: the capacity to be *about* something else, to *mean* something, to be *directed toward* something.
Analysis of intentionality:
- Intention = being about something else / being toward something else. When I want something, my mental state is *about* that thing. When I plan, I am directed *toward* a future state.
- This is unintelligible in the modern physical picture. You cannot see "aboutness." It cannot be explained by pushing causes (efficient) or pulling causes (material). It can only be explained by formal or final causation — which is precisely what was denied.
- Final causation just IS this: being toward something else, aiming at something else in a real way.
- The future state I aim at doesn't yet exist, so it can't be *pushing* me. It exists "only in my head."
The famous mind-body problem in Cartesian philosophy is not some independent puzzle — it is a direct consequence of denying intentionality/teleology in external things. Once nature is stripped of all "aboutness" and "directedness," the only place intentionality survives is in the human mind, and then the relationship between mind (essentially teleological) and body (defined as non-teleological) becomes inexplicable.
In the Aristotelian framework, the human good was simply the best way for a human to be — the fullness or completeness of humanity, called *eudaimonia*. The human good was not categorically different from any other good — just as the good of a tree is to be a fully realized tree, the good of a human is to be a fully realized human.
Once teleology is denied, this concept of the human good is lost. "The best" is not a real category in nature anymore. What remains are two possibilities:
1. Remnants (*shirayim*) of the old concept — fragments of the idea of happiness/flourishing, but without the metaphysical grounding.
2. Something that in some sense exceeds what existed before — teased but not yet fully explained.
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There are only two ethical systems in classic modernity: utilitarianism and deontology. The third option — virtue ethics — is the correct one, but it is not a modern invention; it is the original Aristotelian framework that modernity abandoned.
The Core Move: Even after denying an objective human telos, people still *feel* happy or unhappy, still experience pleasure and pain. So utilitarianism (Bentham's position, which Nietzsche loved to mock) says: the good is pleasure/feeling happy. This is what survives after the destruction of objective happiness — a subjective, internal sensation.
The Degradation of "Happiness": In the Aristotelian framework, happiness (*eudaimonia*) meant being the best kind of human being — an objective state. In the utilitarian framework, happiness is reduced to having certain feelings. The word is the same, but the meaning has been hollowed out.
The Altruistic Twist and Its Weakness: Pure hedonism sounds obviously inadequate, so utilitarianism adds: you should care about *everyone's* happiness. But why should I care about other people's feelings? There's no principled reason within the system. The altruistic element is borrowed from an older moral tradition (*mesorah*) but has no grounding in the utilitarian framework itself.
The Nozick Experience Machine Problem: If happiness is just feeling good, then a machine that injects drugs to produce constant pleasure should be the ultimate good. Utilitarians have "tied themselves in knots" trying to explain why this wouldn't be good.
Modern Hedonism Is Stranger Than Ancient Hedonism: Ancient hedonists (like Epicureans) still believed in something called "the good" — they just identified it with pleasure. Modern hedonists deny that there is such a thing as "the good" at all; they only know that certain things make them *feel* good. This language ("it makes me feel good") is pervasive — even heard in *yeshivas*, where people say "if Torah makes you feel good, you should learn Torah." This is pure subjectivism.
Moral Sentiment as "Just One More Feeling": The attempt to ground ethics in moral sentiment — a special feeling, a moral sense or conscience, that tells us what is right (Hume and the British tradition) — reduces all moral claims to expressions of feeling. Ethics becomes: "I feel good when you feel good." This is emotivism.
Anscombe's Critique of Conscience: Elizabeth Anscombe's article "Modern Moral Philosophy" critiques the concept of conscience (associated with Joseph Butler and others). The idea that everyone has an inner moral compass that automatically tells them what's good is simply false — she knows people who internally want to kill everyone. This "conscience" talk was widespread in a certain period, including among Jewish thinkers like Rav Hirsch.
The Feeling vs. Thought Distinction: In this framework, there is no real distinction between a moral "feeling" and a moral "thought": a thought is *about* something, but if there is no such thing as objective goodness, then a moral "thought" is not about anything real, and therefore collapses into a mere feeling. Feelings, by definition, are not about anything — they are just internal states. So moral sentiment, no matter how dressed up, is just one more feeling among others, with no reason to privilege it over any other feeling.
A student challenges the claim that moral intuitions are "just feelings," suggesting a meaningful distinction between a sensation and a moral intuition. This is firmly rejected within the modern framework: if there is no objective goodness for a thought to be *about*, then what seems like a moral thought is really just a feeling. The student's point has some force but extended discussion is deferred.
A student raises the point that even murderers like Ted Bundy seem to "know" that what they're doing is wrong — suggesting a universal moral compass. Skepticism is expressed ("I don't think that's true"), but the main argument is more important: even if such a feeling exists universally, it's still just one more feeling with no privileged epistemic status.
The Core Structure: Deontology — obedience to the moral law — is Kant's position. Unlike utilitarianism, it does not ground ethics in feelings or pleasure but in recognition of and obedience to a moral law independent of what you want or feel.
Mapping onto Jewish Communities:
- Utilitarianism: No serious *frum* person really holds this.
- Deontology: This is essentially what every Litvak says — ethics as obedience to law/commandment.
- Chasidim: Sometimes sound hedonistic ("your real feeling is Hashem"), but this may actually be closer to objective happiness (the Aristotelian view) rather than modern hedonism — an interesting but unresolved question.
The Kantian System: Moral rules are absolute, universal, and derived from pure reason. The test is universalizability — "what would happen if everybody did it?" You can't rationally will a world where everyone lies, because you yourself want to live in a world of truth-telling. Therefore lying is wrong. This is not relative to culture, geography, or circumstance — reason is reason everywhere.
The Relationship Between Action and Goodness Becomes Distant: In the old teleological framework, the connection between action and goodness was direct and simple — good actions lead a thing toward its natural end, bad actions destroy it. The *din* (legal/moral status) is in the action itself, not in the intention. In the Kantian framework, with no natural ends, the goodness of an action becomes about the intention behind it — acting for the sake of the moral law, not for happiness or desire. This makes the relationship between action and goodness much more distant and abstract.
Deontology Ultimately Points to God: A moral law that imposes itself from outside, not reducible to feelings or desires, with absolute authority — this ends up being God. Kant himself was a Christian and believed in God partly because of the felt reality of the moral law. There are atheistic versions, but they end up positing something functionally equivalent to God.
Criticism: Deontology Is Also a Kind of Emotivism: Despite claiming to be about reason and law rather than feeling, it also ends up being a kind of emotivism — because the "recognition" of the moral law, the sense of obligation, is itself experienced as a kind of feeling (something imposing on you from outside). A different *kind* of feeling than the warm fuzzy feeling of utilitarianism, but still ultimately a feeling.
A question about whether the source of moral obligation in the Kantian framework is society is dismissed — society is just more people. The obligation must come from something transcendent. A question about cultural relativism ("if you live in Africa...") is deferred as a separate problem afflicting all systems.
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Drawing out the central implication of the post-teleological ethical framework for religious life:
- If goodness is defined as obedience to the moral law (or God's will), then the connection between action and goodness is entirely internal — it resides in human subjectivity, intentionality, desire, "aboutness."
- In the post-teleological world, humans are the *only* things that have intentionality or "aboutness." The universe has no feelings, no purposes, no directedness. Only humans have this "weird, inexplicable, magic thing."
- Therefore, the only thing that can be morally good is the human intention to be good. The act itself, divorced from intention, has no moral weight.
- This is what certain Chassidic systems took as *pashut* (obvious): the only place where God is, or the only good thing, is the intention to be good. It's a "kind of empty intention" — obedience to the moral law — but the link between the law and the person exists only in the mind.
Key formulation: "The only thing that's really good is entirely in the human heart, and the human mind, and the human intention, human soul."
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- *Mitoch shelo lishma ba lishma* ("from doing it not for its own sake, one comes to do it for its own sake") is, for the Rambam, the normal process of moral training/habituation.
- Someone who learns Torah for money is still doing something really good, because goodness is a property of the action itself (learning Torah is objectively good). The person is incomplete — his mind doesn't grasp why it's good, so he doesn't do it *lishma* — but the action retains real goodness.
- It's a *din* (legal/ontological property) in the action, not only in the person.
- The transition from shelo lishma to lishma is natural and expected through habituation.
- Once actions have no inherent goodness and goodness resides only in intention, then doing a good thing for the wrong reason is totally worthless — as the Kotzker Rebbe said.
- The Chassidic literature consistently opens with a puzzling claim: "We've heard that *mitoch shelo lishma ba lishma*, but it doesn't work. Our experience shows the Litvaks never got to lishma." Therefore Chassidus must be added.
- This claim arises precisely because the underlying theory that made it work (teleological ethics, habituation) was destroyed. Once goodness is only internal, there's no mechanism by which external practice naturally leads to internal transformation.
- The Besht's approach — that when you eventually reach lishma, you retroactively elevate (*ma'aleh*) the shelo lishma — is a different framework entirely from the Rambam's, where the shelo lishma was already genuinely good in itself.
- In the ancient/medieval understanding: Someone learning shelo lishma is *actually learning differently*. He learns only as long as he gets paid; when the money stops, he stops. The difference is visible in the action, not just in the head.
- In the Chassidic interpretation: Shelo lishma is *entirely in your head*. Even learning for your own pleasure, or because you personally recognize it as good, counts as shelo lishma — because the only true lishma is doing it purely because God wills it, with no personal stake.
- This leads to a world where purpose is entirely externally imposed by God onto an inherently purposeless world. The world is "entirely empty of purpose; only God gives it purpose, but He doesn't really give it even" — it's purposeful only in the sense that God likes it.
Theological consequence flagged: This framework is either pantheism, *hagshama* (anthropomorphism/corporealization of God), or a "human-like God" — because it requires God to have preferences in a way that mirrors human subjectivity.
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A bold, sweeping claim open to challenge:
- Kavana is a *din* in the action — a description of *what you are doing*, not a description of your internal mental state.
- This resolves most difficulties in the sugya of *mitzvos tzrichos kavana* (whether commandments require intention) and in *melacha machsheves asra Torah* (purposeful labor in Shabbos law).
- Kavana answers the question: "Why are you doing it?" — not "What is in your head while you're doing it?"
- It's about the overall direction and purpose of your life and actions ("what's in your head the whole day"), not about what you're consciously thinking at each microsecond.
- In most Chassidic sefarim, kavana, lishma, and related terms mean: what is in your head while you're doing it — your conscious mental state at the moment of action.
- This leads to practices like the announcement before Megilla reading that "everyone should have in mind to be *yotzei*" (fulfill the obligation) — which is somewhat absurd. If you came to shul to hear the Megilla, what else would you be doing it for? The question "what should I have in my mind?" only arises if kavana is about momentary mental content rather than the purpose of the action.
- The Rambam's teaching that all your deeds should be for the sake of Heaven (e.g., eating in order to have strength to learn) is not about thinking certain thoughts while eating.
- It's about the *reason* you eat — the answer to "why are you doing this?" — which is a fact about the structure of your life, not about your mental state at the dinner table.
- This distinction resolves "Reb Chaim's *stira* (contradiction) in the Rambam" and many other difficulties.
- The Chazon Ish tried to articulate something similar but lacked the conceptual framework.
What is in your mind is very important — but not because of the *din* of kavana. Rather, because your mind is an action in itself. Thinking is itself a form of doing. The importance of mental focus is real, but it derives from a different source than the halakhic category of kavana. These are two separate reasons, and conflating them distorts both.
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The three categories restated:
- Stam maaseh — a plain, unreflective action
- Lishma — an action done for its proper purpose (a quality of the act)
- Shelo lishma — an action done for an improper purpose (also a quality of the act)
Since humans act with their minds, kavana is naturally involved — but it is not an independent *din* in what's in your head.
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Modern people cannot imagine goodness residing anywhere other than in intention. Having lost the belief that the external world has real goodness (teleological goodness), they are forced to locate all goodness internally. This leads to absurdities:
- "Everyone wants to be good" — but wanting to be good is meaningless if goodness is only in wanting. Wanting means wanting to do.
- If goodness is entirely internal, then someone who *wants* to do good but never actually does anything good is still considered a "good person" — which is strange.
This is not mere confusion but a forced conclusion: once you deny goodness in the external/real world, you *must* locate it in the internal state.
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The dispute between the Nefesh HaChaim and the Tanya (or their respective traditions) about what *lishma* means is a direct consequence of the loss of teleological thinking — the loss of the belief that the world itself is *lishma* (purposeful).
Once that belief is gone, you are pigeonholed into one of two options:
1. All lishma is in your head (the Tanya-type position) — goodness is in the internal/spiritual state.
2. Everything is because God said so (the Nefesh HaChaim-type position) — goodness is in obedience to divine command, basically a deontological framework.
If you go with option 1 (all in your head), you face further problems and end up having to say "your head is also God" and similar mystical moves. But the root cause of the entire machlokes is the same: the disappearance of real-world teleological goodness.
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The famous dictum that "God joins a good thought to a deed" does not mean that sitting in your room having good thoughts counts as action. Rather:
- It refers to a person who has an actual disposition to doing good — a habitual doer — who is externally prevented from acting (the Gemara's case of *ne'enas v'lo asah* — forced/prevented and didn't do it).
- Such a person is still considered good because they really are a doer; something external just blocked them.
- But this has limits: if you were never a doer, you can't claim credit for good thoughts. And even a former doer will eventually lose the status if they remain inactive long enough.
There is a *machlokes* between Aristotle and Plato on this point. Aristotle would say: if you never had money, you were never a *baal tzedakah* — you can't be generous if you never had the means. Only if you once had money and now don't can the principle apply.
This is why the Rambam says the Torah must promise material prosperity — because without resources (including a body), you can't actually perform mitzvos. The Vilna Gaon said the same: you need a body to do mitzvos; merely wanting to do them without a body is "not interesting."
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Even a disembodied soul does things — thinking, knowing, perhaps wanting — and these are genuine activities (*maaseh*) for the soul. The goodness of a *neshamah* without a *guf* is not that it dreams or passively exists; it acts through thought.
This is why machshavah k'maaseh ("thought is like action") applies: for the soul *as soul*, thought is its action. It's not an "internal" thing in the modern sense — it's the soul's external doing, its proper activity.
The Rambam and others who emphasize the importance of what's "in your mind" are not endorsing the modern internalist view. They are saying that for the mind qua mind, thinking is doing — it is the activity proper to that kind of being.
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A crucial distinction:
1. Thinking to (planning) — Instrumental; directed toward future action. This kind of thinking doesn't make sense without a maaseh that follows. It's just preparation.
2. Thinking of (contemplation) — Thought that ends with the thinking itself. It is its own completion. This is the kind of thinking that has intrinsic value.
Important corollary from ancient thought: Thinking about temporary/practical things doesn't count as the elevated form of thinking. Thinking about *maaseh* (practical matters) doesn't have the *maalah* (virtue) of true contemplation.
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A bold claim: Torah lishma in the highest sense — learning Torah for its own sake — only applies to Kabbalah (nistar/esoteric Torah), not to *nigleh* (revealed/halakhic Torah).
Reasoning:
- Nigleh (halakhic learning — e.g., the Taz, the Bach) is always subservient to practice. It's practical wisdom: what to do when a certain case arises. It's "thinking to" — instrumental.
- Even the greatest halakhic analysis is only valuable *l'halacha* — for the sake of knowing what to do.
- Nistar/Kabbalah, by contrast, consists of things whose point is to know them. The knowledge is the end. This is "thinking of" — contemplation that completes itself. That is genuine *lishma*.
This is what "every book" says and what the Rambam implies — Torah lishma in the fullest sense means learning things that are theory, whose value is in the knowing itself.
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From the perspective of practical Torah, if you learn halakha and don't plan to do what you're learning, that is a form of shelo lishma — "learning externally," a bluff. The paradigm case is Doeg HaEdomi, of whom it's said *darsha, mosif al hachet* — he expounded Torah but it added to his sin. Learning the "tricks of the world" (halakhic knowledge) without planning to follow them makes you worse, not better — a *da'as l'umos* type, sophisticated in knowledge but corrupt in practice.
There is a separate principle that the "light" within Torah naturally draws a person back to good, even without explicit intention. This is an interesting fact about human nature — immersion in halakhic learning tends to make you more careful about halakha, even if you didn't start with that plan. But this is a different mechanism from lishma; it's a natural psychological effect. And it doesn't work in the Doeg case — when someone actively learns without any orientation toward practice, the *mitoch shelo lishma* principle doesn't apply, and learning makes them worse.
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A vivid illustration of how *lishma* develops naturally:
- Someone starts learning Kabbalah because they think it will be "cool" or make them a professional *mekubal* (a good career move).
- Through the process of learning, they begin to see the actual goodness of what they're studying.
- They realize that learning Kabbalah is better than being a mekubal — the learning itself is *taki geshmak* (genuinely delightful/good).
- This is *lishma* — and it happens naturally, not through forced *avodas Hashem*, because you genuinely start seeing the good.
A student asks whether *geshmak* is just a feeling. Emphatically no (*chas v'shalom*) — it means seeing the real good, not having a pleasant emotional experience.
Someone who wants to learn Torah purely instrumentally (for business, for *revach*) and not become genuinely engaged has to actively resist the natural pull toward lishma — because otherwise they'll start actually liking it and doing it for its own sake. Many people who started learning as a business proposition ended up genuinely drawn in.
Someone who begins learning Torah or Kabbalah with the *shelo lishma* motivation of making money often finds that the learning itself becomes compelling — they start to genuinely love it (*lishma*) and then ironically stop making money because they abandon the commercially viable activities. A perfectly natural, non-magical illustration of how *shelo lishma* leads to *lishma*.
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The tachlis (ultimate point) of the entire series of arguments: Purim.
The well-known Chassidic teaching that Purim represents the idea that chitzoniyus is also pnimiyus — the body (*guf*) is also holy (*heilig*), not just the soul (*neshomo*). Chanukah was about the *kiyum hamitzvos* (fulfillment of commandments) — a spiritual fight, an inner battle. Purim was about mere existence (*just about existing*).
- What people conventionally call pnimiyus — intense inner feeling, spiritual desire, being *farkocht* (deeply immersed emotionally) — is actually what Torah calls machshove lachutz (external thought/intention).
- Having passionate feelings about Torah, wanting it desperately, feeling spiritual ecstasy — but not actually planning to do anything — is the epitome of externality, not internality.
- Planning to actually do something is an entirely different mental state than being emotionally immersed. The two have *no shaychis* (no connection) to each other.
- This emotional-spiritual intensity without action is what Chanukah represents: "*mitzvah l'horos ha'lecht*" — a fight, a struggle in the realm of spiritual illumination. And this is what the Yevonim (Greeks) represent — the valorization of inner experience detached from concrete action.
- Purim is *tretten l'matah* — stepping downward into the physical, the concrete.
- The mitzvos of Purim are: dancing (*tantzen*), giving *mishloach manos*, having a feast (*essen*), being *l'matah* (below, in the physical world).
- Nobody has dveikus on Purim — and if someone claims they do, either it's nothing real, or they don't have Purim.
- At least in the dimension of *bein adam l'chaveiro* (interpersonal), this is the entire point. (There is also a *bein adam lamakom* dimension.)
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The Rambam says the ikker simcha (essential joy) is *l'sameach lev aniyim v'yesomim* — to gladden the hearts of the poor and orphans. This is the Torah's definition of happiness: being a good human being.
Key formulation: "Happiness is not a feeling, happiness is a fact." Whether you *feel* happy is a *kleine problem* (small issue). If you are a *mensch*, you will likely feel it too — but that's secondary. The ontological reality of happiness consists in actually doing good for others, not in experiencing a subjective emotional state.
This is the final crystallization of the entire argument: true pnimiyus is the maaseh itself, the concrete act of goodness — not the inner feeling, not the kavana as mental state, not the spiritual ecstasy.
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Everyone should give *matanos l'evyonim* (gifts to the poor), give to their local fund, and — invoking an old Chassidic teaching — everyone should give personally (*aleine*), not just through intermediaries. A happy Yom Tov to all.
Instructor: Noor Aboy Sa'ib, good evening. I want to tell you a shiur [Torah lecture] today. You know how it goes. How do people write a book? Like a big scientist, big academic writes a book. It goes like this. He has some plates one day in the bathroom, in the shower. And then he finds some Arma Qaymas, some sources tied to it. And then he makes a parish based on that and three other books. And then he has a whole book. It takes him two years to write. Another year to get approved to the approval and then it goes to the approval that approves it and then the publisher publishes it and then the book gets published and then it gets reviewed if it's Zohar [worthy] and gets reviewed by two people and then the guy that writes the encyclopedia reads the book or asks his child to read the book for him and makes a little summary of the book and says they can show the book in five lines and that's what everyone knows and then the book stays on the shelf, right? That's how it works.
So I realized that every shiur of mine is really a whole book. It's just that it's already to slap over the review, the chiddush [novel insight]. If you want, you can go and work it out into a whole book, but it's a shiur that's out, because nobody's going to read the whole book anyways, so I might as well just start by the summary. And the chiddush, the chiddush. But it's true. Every shiur is, almost every shiur you can make a whole book about.
So today I have a new book to write. New is Godless. Of course, it's a continuation of the last week and the last two weeks that we were talking about the chiddush. And I realized today, yesterday, someday in the shower or somewhere, and realize that's all connected.
Remember that we're talking about some problem like this. Where's Luzzy that doesn't understand the problem? Can we solve this problem a little? We're talking about a problem about, that I call the problem of the inside-outside, right? The pnimiyus [interiority] and the chitzoniyus [exteriority]. Everyone knows that Purim is about someone, something, even the pnimiyus or the chitzoniyus, I don't remember. Anyway, those are the words that everyone likes to talk about all the time.
[Brief interruption about heating]
It's cold? Turn this on, it makes it warm faster. And everyone knows this is, plug it in over here under or somewhere and it's going to make it a little warm faster. No, right here there's a plug under me.
Student: Yeah, but that's going to bother you.
Instructor: Okay, so you, no, don't do it there, don't do it there, it's going to scratch the system. Over there.
Student: How far is it?
Instructor: Actually, it's not going to crash. Same anyway. That piece is going to crash, it's not, it's not, okay, yeah, that's anyways, we're warm, it's very warm.
So what am I saying? We're discussing this nasegyeh [topic] that's called pnimiyus v'chitzoniyus [inner and outer]. And the ulam [question] is very tzemesht [pressing], especially Rabbal Luzer, that was here last week and didn't come show up today. What are we tzemesht? That, tzad echad [on one hand], we're going with chit tzerambam [according to the Rambam], we're trying to teach the Rambam to chit [according to his approach].
On the one hand, it seems like the Rambam's shiit [position] is very external. It's all about actions, like, and you already told me, there's a Peser Rambam [interpretation of Rambam] that the Chassidim misread and so on. But Lama Yisrael [nevertheless], that's how I understand it.
Tzad She'eri [on the other hand], the Rambam was Chas Shalom [God forbid], not a matter of Litvak [modern Lithuanian-style rationalist]. Of course, this is the problem, that we're stuck a little bit, okay? In Tzad She'eri, we're about inner being a person. We're not about being a machine that produces things, we're about a person that produces being a person, a kind of person, which sounds like an inner thing.
So what is the ikr [essence]? What's the nekudah [point] of the id [Jew]? What's the nekudah of the good person? Is it inside or is it outside? The ulim [question] is very tawisht [confusing] about this. Not only about the chicken or the egg, it's about what is the definition? What does it mean to be a good person?
Now, last week we got into this nekudah, that there seems to be also a sha'ala [question], this was my ikr thing last week, but I want to give you more context for it. Maybe we'll understand better what's going on. We got into this nekudah that there's a shaila. What does it mean to be good on the inside? What does it even mean?
And I will tell you right now, there's two things that means. I'm saying too much of a derusha [homiletical discourse]. We'll get back to reality soon. There's two different things that it means.
What does it mean? Everyone in all the battles should have come and seen him and say, you should know, even if you're wearing a mask, you're good on the inside. What does this mean that you're good on the inside? What does it mean? What does that mean? But I'm serious now. I hear all these ruches [talks].
I went to shul on Shabbos. Someone gave a whole shmuel [talk] about the mishka [Mishkan/Tabernacle], not to believe the shmi. And that's a... That means it has to be the shmah [lishmah: for its own sake], which means it has to have good intentions. Total misreading of the Rashi. Don't tell them. I didn't tell them. I should have seen this. I'm not telling you who said it. It's total, total. The Rashi doesn't mean the shmah. No. And in any case, and therefore, it has to be and this whole about the heart that makes the mishkan, because Hashem [God] is not in the na'isim [physical things], it's in the leiv [heart].
They already heard Mashiach Friday that doesn't answer the kasha [question], it makes the kasha worse. Why is your leiv better than a building? Nobody knows. That's what this guy is thinking. There's some intuition behind this, I just don't know what it means.
What are we talking about when we say this midbas al-leiv [matter of the heart], the rots in al-leiv, the pnimiyus [interiority] of the idwaan [Jew]? What do you mean? Could you tell me in English what does this mean? Does anyone know what it means? Do you know what it means?
Student: Yeah, what does it mean?
Instructor: It means that we don't use the external. That's a microphone. The external. What is external versus internal? What do they think words mean?
Student: It means nothing outside of the you is what makes the you good or bad. It's the you that makes you good.
Instructor: Okay. That's what it means. Could you elaborate? Spell it out. Tell me what this means. Of a different language and words that make sense to me. What is this you?
Student: Yeah, so let's say I'm a very talented person, right? And I wear a police uniform, right? So a person can say, you're a bad cop, right? So now you're a bad person. Let's say, right? Let's say. In other words, the uniform is now telling me what I'm supposed to be, right? And let's say I'm bad at being a cop, right? So now I'm bad me. Not bad me. I have 150 good talents. I can be the best comedian. I can be the best writer. I can be whatever, whatever, you have a police officer, you can't get a police officer, right? So what people are saying, so this doesn't fit in with the English me. And the way that people see the me is because the Hitzonis [externality] of the uniform.
Instructor: That's not Hitzonis, that's more like...
Student: Yeah, the uniform is telling you what I am, I'm not that.
Instructor: So in other words, wait, but being a musician or whatever you think you really are, it's also a uniform. All you're saying is that you're acting in the wrong way for what you are, not in, I don't know what this mysterious you is, in a very simple sense, my talents lie in playing music, not in being a policeman, now talents are a thing, it's not you, it's something about you, right, it's an accident of the you, we could say, something about you.
Student: No, I don't know if it's an accident, I think all the talents actually make you up.
Instructor: When I say accident, I mean, it was still an accident, right, not a car accident.
Student: No, I know, I'm talking directly to Aristotle, actually, from all you cheat him, in the past, I actually thought about this recently, I think the thing that makes up a human is all his talents.
Instructor: Okay, let's say, and therefore...
Student: The ingredients that make up a cake versus lemonade, right? This is what makes up the movement, and that's why there's no same human, the same, because everyone has different ingredients, different talents.
Instructor: But that's somewhat wrong, but we're not going to get into this. We're just saying, I'm just trying to understand what you mean when you say, so the inner, when you say the inner, you mean the thing that matches with your predispositions better. That's what you mean. That's not inner. There's nothing more internal about this. It's not inside you. Both of these are actions.
Actually, being a musician is something you do with your body, with your people hear it. If you're a musician and nobody hears it, you're almost like a tree that falls in the forest and nobody saw it falling or heard it falling. You're Beizim [essentially] good at it. What does that mean? Good at what? You mean like a gun? Good at what? You're Beizim good at what? Exactly. You're Beizim good at what?
Student: At playing music.
Instructor: That's something that you're doing. The being good, which you're calling Beizim, is nothing. I don't understand. It's just an ability. Be musical. So when you're sleeping, you're also a musician? If not.
Student: Okay, and what's the point of that?
Instructor: To have musical dreams.
Instructor: Okay, then you're doing something in your dream. Let's say a dream is something, or not. That's a different question.
What I'm trying to get at is, what you're talking about is just a person who is doing the wrong thing. Like, I'll give you an emotion, because people are confusing. Tables are simpler to talk about. I like talking about tables. All philosophers like talking about tables. You know why? Because they get their class by a table, usually, actually. That's why. Or a chair. You'll notice the philosophers love talking about tables and chairs. It's because the most obvious physical object in their vicinity. They're never outside. They never see anything besides a table and chair, like classroom people.
So anyways, if I would be like on a wall, I would say a tree. Or if I would be a normal person, I would say a human. But humans are too complicated to talk about because a lot of things. But anyways, so if let's, for example, I'm explaining what you mean when you say it's a premise. When you're saying it's not a premise, just say it's not internal. It's...
This is a very nice table, and it's the correct table for giving my class at, let's just say. If I'll use it just to block the door, that is mostly not using it as a table. It's using it as a piece of wood, which is kind of a strong piece of wood. It blocks the door. It might even do that well. It might not do that well, because it's not strong enough to block the door. But it might even do that well, but it's still not what you're calling the premise, because it's sort of misused. It's mismatched. It's meant, you see, for blocking the door, I wouldn't have this square shape, and I wouldn't have the feet that it has. It wouldn't be organized, so there's something mismatched or not symmetrical, like it doesn't fit when you try to, right?
Student: Yeah, it's ill-suited for blocking the door, although it can be used for that, but yeah.
Instructor: And the same way a person whose talents don't lie and being a policeman will be not doing it well, or will struggle, will suffer because the kind of person he is doesn't fit very well into the policeman uniform. That's very nice and true thing, but I don't see what this has got to do with that just saying what a thing is versus what it's for, what a thing is for, which is what it is or one important part of what it is versus what it's not for but in some sense it's possible to be used for, but it's not for that.
But when people say you should know that internally every human is good, or if human is good, what do they mean? Do they mean that? What does that even mean? You have good dispositions? Well, I don't know. Some people have good ones, some people have bad ones. Humans as such have good dispositions. What does that even mean?
Instructor: When we speak of good and bad, obviously we're speaking after there's good and bad humans, right? It doesn't even make sense to say everyone is bad and good when you mean to say, well, humans are good at humaning. Well, yeah, I guess they should be good at humaning, or at least should be possible to be good at humaning, but that doesn't make them good humans. What are you even saying? It doesn't seem to mean that.
I agree that that vort [insight/interpretation], what you're saying is a true vort. I don't think it matches very well to this prioritization of the interior. I don't see that that's what someone's saying when he says you have to have a good meaning well or have a good intention or have a good will—those are not the same thing as what you're saying, right? That's something else.
So what does it mean? Do you know what it means? I really wanted to go out there at the end and ask him, "Can you tell me what should I do because of your drasha [sermon]?" Like, what do you mean? But I realized that it would not be nice, so I didn't. And I'm thinking about this all week—what does this mean? And then I discovered what it means.
Student: Maybe you'd be very nice. Might have been very nice.
Instructor: It's true, it's hard to know. It's a new year, I don't know it very well yet, so I don't know. I have to learn it more.
Student: No, it's like you see a person that's limping and you can fix it.
Instructor: That's true, but that's a different shmuess [discussion]. So we'll talk about that, because you're not eternally good or you are eternally good—why I don't do that?
Student: No, no, it's true. It has to do with the mitzvah [commandment].
Instructor: It's a very complicated discussion. I had a sheet about this in Monsey. I don't know, I didn't send you the sheet, but we'll talk about that—different brayta [Talmudic teaching]. Not the one that I'm talking about right now. That's champagne. We'll talk about it again, because it's very important. Remind me if I don't. Write down your notes that I should and should.
Now, I want to say something else. So I'm wondering—now, you remember that one of the [principles] is that everything has to make sense, including all the nonsense. I don't know if you already know this. We say that it can't be that all the people until 1992 were crazy. It also can't be that people since 1992 are crazy.
We're always trying to understand what is the—there's some puzzle here. Something very weird happened to close all the people since 1772 or 1992, whenever that happened, whenever what we call modernity happened to them. Whenever that is, we have to understand what is this—there's some puzzle, something very weird.
Student: You must come to my problem. The first time I hear that, I'm hearing about the internality, externality.
Instructor: Yeah, so for some reason, to most people, this Yid [Jew] that said that drush [sermon] bar shasid [in the Chassidic style]—it's not his fault. It's a few hundred years that people are saying this drush. He repeated someone's drush. And if you go back even a few hundred years more than that, nobody says this drush. Of course, people read that into it. But when you actually read it, you see that it's always somehow that that [refers to something else], right? It's a [different concept].
So now, it doesn't really work. It doesn't really read very simply. If you learn how to read things simply, you'll see that it doesn't read simply in any of the earlier sources. Why? He's taught us about the inner will and things like that.
Student: Oh, like in the Dalai Lama game?
Student: I think there's a problem that the world of thoughts is very different than the world of things, which may prompt you to assume that, or try to, I guess, figure out a little bit more about the thinker, right? But the thinker, if it can't be characterized in terms of, I guess, the external world or the world of things, you sort of have to make it into something else.
Instructor: Okay, so how—I kind of maybe—so explain what you mean.
Student: When I hear someone thinks that it doesn't make sense to me, I should do what?
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: So this is something that I tried to think about for a little bit and I don't [have] it so clear myself, but I think that when you have—if you have a certain concept of what things in the world are, right, let's call it just raw material, right, and then you have this world of thoughts that you have to...
Instructor: It doesn't match to that.
Student: Yeah, that you have to find—people are saying all kinds of things that you don't know what they're trying to do. You have to find a model for, right? Thoughts doesn't fit into the model of the world of things. You have to, besides reconciling thoughts, you also have to, or maybe you have to collapse that into some kind of thinker, right? I would say, this thinker has to be something like very distant from the world of things. And almost entirely non-participating, which makes you make it into a full type of thing. So then you end up with like, the easiest way to do this is, okay, so whoever is the thinker of all these thoughts is the you, right? That would be you, whoever this thought belongs to, the thought of the chair, whatever that thought of the chair belongs to.
Instructor: But how did you get to the thought? Wait, so you're explaining why people say this. You're answering my question. So wait, let me finish my reason why we have to answer this question. I don't know if that's a good reason, but that's what I thought.
Student: No, no, we're getting somewhere. We're getting somewhere. I agree. I think you jumped one step ahead in my ma'aloch [progression] of my shiur [lecture].
Do you understand my question? We're still up to this level of state of the question. So I hear all these torahs [teachings]. People have been saying these torahs for some time now. They have not been saying them forever. And it seems to mean something to them. I don't know exactly what. I think it's hard to spell out exactly what. Inherently, we'll try to explain that, and I also have to explain what happened that this started to seem to make sense to people, right?
In other words, like you said—I never said it like this, it's true. It's still true that nobody is meshugah [crazy]. Nobody is meshugah in the sense that—that's why there are people who are meshugah. Only make a reason why I can't go to that person, because I have to—in Chabad they say I can't give a guy another head. You can give a guy a hand, a shovel, a lot of things. You can't give a guy another head, which would mean the way in which he sees the world.
You could do that—that's what a rabbi does—but not in a day, not in a month, not in a year. So in order for him to make—to my question to even make sense to that person, I would need to break a lot of ice, to open a lot of things for him to be able to see the world from the way where I'm coming from.
Now my thing where I'm coming from is that you have to be able to see the world—first, we're going to get into what you're saying, but first, before that, I thought you were saying this—the world the way it is, and then why, from different people's perspectives, they get stuck in different ways.
Like, for example, if I—you know, you remember the story of the blind people and the elephant, right? Very famous story that explains perspectivism, right? Very Indian mashal [parable] of elephant. Remember the story?
Student: You don't remember the ma'aseh [story]? The stomping?
Instructor: But I know why it's about an elephant, but the same reason they philosophize it about a table.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: There's an ultimate Indian mashal about an elephant. There are a bunch of blind men that they're surrounding an elephant. Now they don't know what an elephant is, they've never seen an elephant, they were blind from birth. So one guy says, standing by its tail, and says, "This is a thing with a long and fuzzy tail." The other guy standing by its nose says, "This is some kind of long pipe." The other guy standing by his photo is like, "This is a big fat pillar," and so on. And the other guy is—some guy can see it, but they can only see one end of it. They say, "This is a big gray mass."
So, everyone is saying the truth. Then comes one guy who can see and says, "This is an elephant. You just saw the tail, and you saw the head, and you saw the nose, and you saw the foot," right?
This is a good explanation of why perspective is a meaning. When people speak things from their perspective, it's partial because they're blind to what they're really seeing. They don't even know that they're seeing an elephant. But if you—what we're looking for always is to open your eyes, right? That's what philosophy is for. That's what thought is for. To really see what is, right?
And then if you see what is, you will have to, by definition, be able to explain everyone's mistakes.
This is also something that we learn from Aristotle. Aristotle always says, nobody makes mistakes. People only are partially right. Especially smart people. There are some crazy people that can somehow make real mistakes. That would be a big question. But usually people, the reason they say something is because they're looking at something from a perspective.
And now when we're talking—this is a physical mashal—but we're talking conceptual things. Because their way their concepts are constructed, forcing them to see things from a certain perspective that leads them to certain problems, right? Certain aporia [philosophical puzzles], certain puzzles which cannot be resolved from their perspectives.
Like Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas [questions], right? All the Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas are right. Everyone knows Reb Akiva Eiger has a good kasha [question]—not all of his kashas, by the way, but a big large percentage of them—they're good kashas. But what they show is that Reb Akiva Eiger didn't understand anything. Chas v'shalom [God forbid], Reb Akiva Eiger. You understand what I'm saying, right? Numbers.
But Reb Akiva Eiger's kashas are always a good kashas. It's like a very big kashas. It's always, if you accept all of his assumptions, of which there are always a lot that he doesn't even sometimes realize or doesn't spell out, his question, you can't budge it. You can't move it. You can make up a funny teretz [answer] like some acharonim [later authorities] do, but that's—everyone understands it's not a good [answer].
The real answer, you have to dissolve it. In other words, you have to show why, where we got to this, and why none of this means any of it. The reality is something entirely different. Then the kasha doesn't start. It's like the kasha either doesn't start or doesn't end. There's no world, right? There's no world in which the kasha is a good kasha and the teretz is a good teretz. That's not what I'm trying to get at.
What I'm trying to get at is that when we see the full picture, we're also explaining the mistakes. Very important to decide. If your philosophy doesn't explain why everyone else is crazy, and precisely in what way they're crazy, that's a bad understanding, because then you're not understanding the world.
And you also understand why he doesn't see more, because there's someone blocking it, for some reason there's a piece of meat on the other side that makes you only see the foot, and so on. Right? *Stimmt* [Yiddish: correct]?
Now, in the same way, we have to explain what is it that causes everyone to see only—to see this—some internal kind of you or will. I think usually it boils down to will, some kind of wanting, some kind of internal state of mind, feeling, something in the person. And then they identify this as all the good, or the main good thing, and they think that the *Shechinah* [Divine Presence] can be showered on it even, it's such a good thing.
And for me, none of this makes any sense, because firstly, I don't even know what that is. Also, if it is, I think it's incoherent, because wanting to do something, me, to do something. You got what I'm saying?
So I have the story, I'll tell you the secret. And at least I don't know anyone else that explained this so well as me before. Doesn't mean anything, but people did explain it, not in the Jewish context, but people did explain it. And what's his name? Charles Taylor probably explained more or less this, and other people. So people did explain it, but not enough for us to make sense.
So we're going to do it right now, and this is a new book that we're going to write, a new movement in *Yiddishkeit* [Judaism/Jewish practice] that's going to resolve all the problems because of this basic thing.
Student: You remember, from a long time ago, all the way before...
Instructor: Yeah, but then you need a specific model, right? For how this...
Student: What I was trying to explain was not this set the stage for that model.
Instructor: Yeah, you were explaining why this...
Student: Why this specific model exists.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, we're going to get to it, we're going to get to it. We're not entirely in your way, but I'll get to it, yeah.
Student: That's Kant, what you were trying to explain. Why we get this, yeah. The shift.
Instructor: Mm-hmm. The Copernican Revolution.
So let's start somewhere simpler for my purposes. I hope what you're trying to say. You'll remember the old story, very old story, which is hard to even tell the people nowadays because they're never always going to misinterpret the first part of it. But I hope that everyone that listened to enough of our classes and knows enough of what we're teaching knows already this.
You already know, today I saw, today I saw a book, one of these books that's written for teenagers that are not very smart, but a little smart, to defend *Yiddishkeit* to them. If you're a little bit smart, then you right away see that it's fallacious arguments mostly. But for people that are a little smart, maybe it helps. If you're very dumb, then you don't need the book. So I'm not sure who the book is for.
But anyways, with this book, it's explained, and what he explains is true, but also because of Nebuchadnezzar's blindness, he can't explain it correctly. Explain that everything in the world depends on one thing. If there is a God. And if there is a God, then things have a purpose.
Also something that you have to help me. I had a dream this morning about that there's going to be a—you heard? You heard that there's a meaning crisis? You're not on YouTube enough. There's a meaning crisis. Did you hear of it? There's many crises, like a *Shidduch* [matchmaking] crisis, the leaders crisis, whatever crisis, there's a meaning crisis, there's a lack of meaning in the world, meaning.
Student: Meaning, oh, oh, oh. Meaning, because everyone's always having meetings.
Instructor: No, they're always having meetings, that's because of the meaning crisis.
There's a meaning crisis, did you hear of it? So I had a dream that the government set up an office of meaning, and they're going to give out meaning to everyone. Everyone, the communists said everyone should have the equal amount of meaning, and the capitalists said, no, everyone should have as much meaning as they deserve, and so on. That's going to be the new ministry, ministry of meaning. *Misrad HaMashmaut* [Hebrew: Ministry of Meaning].
Student: *Misrad HaMashmaut*, exactly.
Instructor: And they're giving out, and wherever they find some place with not enough meaning, they send a big truck with meaning.
So, this is what I dreamt in the morning. Who gets all the good dreams, like, in the morning? The good dreams are always like that before you wake up, when you're halfway asleep and halfway awake. And I couldn't figure out, like, how are they're going to give out the meaning? That was, I woke up with the question, like, is it going to be a supernatural? Does this mean, like, they're going to somehow give meaning to things? Or is this, like, some physical way? I couldn't figure out how the story continues. That's a meaning. A meaning. *Misrad HaMeaning* [Ministry of Meaning]. Giving out meaning. *Misrad HaMashmaut*.
Okay. Of course, you've got to allow a lot of forms.
Okay. Now, *b'kitzur* [in short], there's a meaning crisis. And this *Yid* [Jew] said that... Why do all the *Yidden* [Jews] that shouldn't speak in this tone? Can you explain it to me? I don't know. Go on YouTube. All the *Yidden* that shouldn't speak, they all speak like this.
And this *Yid* said that everything depends on one question. If there's a God, and if there's a God, then He created the world for a reason, and therefore everything has a meaning. And if not, then nothing has a meaning, and then therefore you don't have to go to yeshiva tomorrow morning. That's basically this guy's delusion and he wrote 900 pages about it somehow.
Now this is right, 100 percent, that it's backwards, right? Not if there's a God, then meaning. If there's a meaning, there's a God. Or one way of saying it, right?
What do I mean by that? In the olden days everyone understood—I mean not everyone, this was discovered by Socrates and maybe Avraham [Avinu]—that's what. That it doesn't make sense to talk about the world without explaining what it's for. Any natural thing. Not because it's a God that gives it meaning. Because to explain what something is, you need to explain what it's for. Remember?
This is called by the fancy Latin—fake Latin, fake Greek word—teleology. But we're not going to say that word because it doesn't help us. We're going to say the word meaning. Meaning is the same exact thing, right? What is the meaning of something? What it's for.
You cannot explain a table without explaining what tables are for. That's just what it is. And therefore, the what-for-ness of things, which we call the *tachlis* [purpose/end/goal], or the end, or the completion, or all kinds of words that we call this thing, the goal, is more what they are than what they're made out of and what made them into what they are, and what they are right now, and so on. *Nachon* [correct]?
Remember this? Right? Everyone knows about this very basic stuff. This is the fourth cause of Aristotle, and also something, what?
Student: And the first one.
Instructor: The first and the second and the first. Yeah, one of the four causes, famous four causes. But the important thing is that this is what defines most definitive of what a thing is, for sure for a living thing. A living thing is the kind of thing for which their form and their end and their—and their—what they are, are the same thing.
Okay, now in short, remember everyone remembers this, okay?
And now according to that is the important thing. Rather going to that, for example, the important thing that this does is that theology, or what God is, or the for-ness that everything is for—that's one definition of God—and what is physics, what things are, just science, and ethics, which is making things into what they are, having everything complete, achieve its completion, are the same kind of thing, right?
What everyone know or heard, you probably heard of David Hume who said that there's something later called the naturalistic fallacy, is does not imply ought, that's nonsense. Because ought is just the completion of the is.
There is a science, that's why in *Sefer Mishlei* [Book of Proverbs], knowledge equals goodness. Remember? And nobody understands that nowadays, because they think that knowledge is knowing what things are, and goodness is being good. What's that got to do anything with that? No. Goodness is just things being completely what they are, working well, right? Or we say in different languages, the good and the well are the same thing. The being good and acting well are the same thing for everything. *Nachon* [correct], everyone knows this. *Hakdama, hakdama chashiva, k'tzara keleh* [Introduction, important introduction, short and complete].
Then, and this is a historical story, but it's not really a historical story, that's why we should stop saying it as a historical story. Although it's true that this history happened, but it's also not true that this is only a historical thing. There were always people that didn't understand this. That's the *Avodah Zarah* [idolatry], that *Avodah Zarah*, when you had to burn their books, you have to understand that's also what they thought.
It's not a new, like, some *goyim* [non-Jews] came. It's very, it's a very, there's another kind of, he called it the *yetzer* [inclination], the things otherwise. Then take out the whole historicism out of our story, because otherwise we get into historicism, that's for sure.
So, but there's, one way of saying the story is historically, I don't like it, but we're going to say it like this right now.
Later came other people, *iver oysham* [may their name be blotted out], Francis Bacon, with his *Novum Organum* [New Organon], new science, and later other people, David Hume, very famously, and other, other, other people, and they said there isn't any "for"s in the world. *Ein ba'olam tachlis* [There is no purpose in the world]. The world doesn't have a meaning. The world has a cause but not a meaning.
Or they redefined the word cause to not include the word meaning, which is a very weird thing to do, but that's what they did. Remember?
And what would be the difference? And, wait, the difference is that we don't explain things by what they're for, we explain things by what pushed them into where they are. Instead of saying that a tree is something that's trying to be a tree—trying not in a human sense, right? When we said we're trying, right away you assume that there's a thinker in there, a separate soul or something that thinks. No, a tree is the kind of thing that tends towards being a full tree. That's what it means to be a tree. You cannot understand the tree.
Now they say, no, a tree is just what happens to be when there's all these forces pushing the tree into being a tree, into something, into nothing, because there's no being, no such thing as being a tree.
Okay, that was, that's the other *shita* [approach/system]. And it's actually not a natural way.
Most people do think that there are ends in nature, just get hacked into their head by their science teacher that's the most you think. But normal people still speak of ends in nature. Of course, it's complicated. What kind of ends? What are the ends?
Every time this is what one of the big fallacies that that book, for example, makes. The fact that there are ends doesn't mean that the end is to learn the Mori Toys for us. No, Jarek, it's only two things. Then we have to do real science, find out what the end of everything is. That is the true science, as the Rambam [Maimonides] explains in he knew every tree, no, he knew what every tree was for, which is what knowing every tree was, which is why it's the same kind of knowledge as knowing the Torah [the Jewish Bible/Law], which is knowing the good for everything.
Okay, now, but in any case, and if the good is causally prior to the partial existence of things, which tends toward the good, that's what Torah means. But anyways, way. That would be like a more platonic way of saying things. The point is now we're going way too fast. I have to go back to my mode of saying it.
Instructor: So basically it has causes without purpose. Exactly. There are pushes without purpose. Purpose is not a real thing. Now...
Student: And cause just means where it comes from.
Instructor: Exactly. Or it's history.
That's the *oimek* [depth/essence] of why everything turns into history. Because cause explaining just means where it's from. Don't explain what it is and where it's going to, that's why I'm against history, because I'm for where things are going to, or what they are, which is, what they are is explained by where they're going to, and not where they come from, because where they come from is true, it's not like I deny that reality, just that I deny that being the most important thing, fact about things, the most explanatory fact about things. And I think that is obvious to everyone that thought for five seconds and stopped being brainwashed.
Now, but this is just me doing rhetoric, of course, there's real, these people are smarter than I am, than I'm pretending now, and there are reasons this is why they thought all these things and you gotta learn this very seriously I'm just doing a short overview for my book this is just a review of the book remember this is not the book now.
Now if there are no causes in nature then then God becomes a different kind of God very important theology looks very different right then we get into the question something called intelligent designer which is really a *Shein Dalet* [Shin-Dalet: demon/false deity] intelligent designer is *Metat* [possibly referring to Metatron, an angelic figure] it's not God not our God you know.
Have you ever heard that the Jews are pro-intelligence design, that's not true. There is an intelligent designer for the world, but he's a *sheen dalit* [demon]. Okay, not a *sheen dalit*. You could call it a *noose* [nous: Greek philosophical term for intellect/mind], a *malach* [angel], a *sefirah* [divine emanation in Kabbalistic thought], intelligence. Not God. Not the one. Very important. Yeah, it's the same idea. Relative to God, everything is *sheen dalit*. So, you understand? If you worship that, you're worshiping a false god.
Rabbi, all the people who worship an intelligent designer are worshiping a false god who has a body. Because they imagine him as having plans the way that we have plans and they imagine the world having meaning in a fake way. Not inherently there are no imminent ends world by itself isn't for anything. That's what they say.
We need a God to make it for something like an artificial thing like a table isn't doesn't have in itself the tableness that it has. What wood has woodness in it tables only have tables by imposition by people that make them into tables then those who think of nature the world is has only external causes and God is some kind of mind outside the world that gives it purposes you understand what I'm saying? It doesn't really give it purposes even it's only serving him in some way which means that God means things which means that their God is a fake God. Okay, very simple. I'm not going this is only a summary so if you don't understand it come to a different sheet there's not a sheet on theology but you should just know that this is what makes the God this, therefore, says all of it.
This is also the reason why there's only two options in modernity. Either you can be a deist or a pantheist, or a *Magashen* [one who corporealizes God]. These are only three options. That's the reality. There's either deists, people that think that basically there's no God in the world.
There's only God that, like the watchmaker, emotionally made the watch, but then the watch, so to speak, works by itself, because they don't understand any kind or other kind of cause, a formal cause or a final cause. The watchmaker's only an efficient cause, right? He only put the piece of the watch together. He didn't invent idea of watches, and he doesn't do one of the four watches, okay? But, God is a great matchmaker, that's Newton's *shitta* [position/approach], or one deist *shitta*, not Isaac Newton.
Or if you say that deism plus miracles, which means God sometimes breaks the watch. That's what most modern Orthodox people believe. Deism plus God is a watchmaker that sometimes intervenes to break the watch. Very weird *shitta*, but that's one option. I'm giving a very short of *Yeshiklali* [general overview].
Second *shita* is atheism, no god, or something like that.
Third *shita* is pantheism, *chassidus* [Hasidic thought]. God is the new watch itself. Okay, those are the three *shitas* that are possible according to, yeah, sort of. Those are the three *shitas* possible according to, more complicated, more complicated. But also *chassidus* is more complicated. I'm doing a great reduction over here.
But those are the three *shitas* possible according to the theory that there are no ends in nature. Those are the three kinds of theology, and you can know that every modern religious person, besides for me, is one of these three things. Either a deist, or a deist plus miracles, which is a weird kind of deist, or an atheist, which are many religious people are also, or a pantheist. No, that's the options. A pantheist just collapses everything. There's everything. There's only God, and that's fine. That's fine. But he understands it in a material way, which means it's also a big question material and what's going on. But okay, let's not get into this.
Now, what do I, now, a third thing, this is *Dilchis* [perhaps: *Darchei*—ways of] theology that happens. What happens to ethics? This is where we ought to get to today. Of course, everything is connected. But what happens to ethics? What happens to the good? To the human good?
Here, there's something very weird. Why there's something very weird? Like, Shmuel, you noticed. Here, there's something very weird. Because, Because, and give me one of these seltzer things, yeah. Here, there's something very weird. Why? Explain to me why.
Because if things, or activities, things in the world, things in the world don't have ends, they don't have meaning. No actions have meaning by themselves. In other words, if you look at an action or you look at a thing, you cannot explain from what it is what it's for. This is the basic opinion of all modern people. Or if the *etzadot* [perhaps: *yetzer hara*—evil inclination], let's forget saying *etzadot*, I'm going to stop, we're going to flip the word. This is what the *etzadot* holds. The *sultan* [Satan], from the first day he holds like this.
And therefore, but, we have this weird thing called human beings. Very weird thing, like the card said, humans are an exception. Everything is extension besides for mind. The mind, or the human mind, there's only human mind according to him, maybe God's mind. There's no human mind besides for that. And he, that mind, has this weird thing called intentions.
Now, an intention is something that does not follow the laws of physics. I'm not even talking about free will and all these things. Intentions don't make sense in the physical picture that we just discussed. Right? Intention means a thing being about another, something that is about another thing. Make sense? When I want something or mean means I mean something, am I about something else?
Now, that doesn't exist. Only in the old *Shiddur* [system/approach] that all things are about something else, or about their own final state or something like that. But nothing is about something else, everything is just what it is. Being about something else is not a physical thing, you can't see it. You can't explain it by a pushing cause or a pulling cause. It can only be explained by a kind of formal cause or by a kind of final cause. Make sense?
Because literally what a final cause is, being towards something else, being about something else. Aiming at something else in a real way. Obviously humans do this. This is a weird straight. Obviously human minds do this. We form intentions, and we act, we make plans, we act towards other things, or at least we think we act towards other things. Whether we act towards other things, that's going to be the *Mechlerikas* [point of dispute]. But we think that we act towards other things. We have dreams, we have plans, we have goals, we have aims, we have what we call wants and wills and desires and wishes. All of these things, they all break down, boil down, at least they all have the attribute of being about other things, or not even about, they're towards other things, right? Towards things in the future, towards even myself in the future, right? And myself in the future doesn't exist, so it can't be that myself in the future is pushing me towards that, because it doesn't exist. It only exists in my head.
So we end up with this very weird situation, right? Very famously called the mind-body problem in Cartesianism. But, and Descartes knew that this is what caused the problem, he didn't invent it. This is very clear, there's not some conspiracy theory on inventing. The mind-body problem came to be because of the denial of intention in real things, in external things, right? Now, *Stimmt* [correct/does it make sense]? Makes sense? The story is correct.
So, therefore, something very interesting happened. Something very interesting happened. So, there's basically only two solutions to this problem. Or, again, there's two or three solutions. I don't have very clearly what the three solutions would be. But something like this.
So, what is the human good? In the olden days, the human good was not different than any other good, right? The human good is the best way for a human to be. The complete way, the fullness of humanity, what we call you, the *harmonia* [harmony], happiness, which is just the best way for a human to be.
Since there's no such thing as the best in the reality, so it can't be about, can't be that. That, we lose that ability. Now, we are left with all kinds of other things that are, some of them are like *shiraim* [remnants] of that, and some of them, that's one way of being left, like with what's left over from happiness, without happiness meaning this. Or, we end up with something even more than we had before in some sense. Let me explain.
So one thing, this is basically the two kinds of ethics that exist in modernity. Now you understand something very interesting. You've probably heard that there's only two kinds of ethics.
Okay? The third one is virtuosic ethics [virtue ethics], which is the correct one. But in classic modernity, there's only two kinds of ethics, right? If you don't know this, you should take a crash course somewhere. In any case, there's two kinds of ethics.
Utilitarianism is Bentham's *shitta* [approach/system], the thing that Nietzsche really liked to make fun of always. And which is that, of course, we don't have happiness in the real way, in the Aristotelian way, which is the definition of the human being, the best kind of human that he could be, because there's no such thing as the best of anything.
But this thing that people were talking about seems to still exist, right? This is what I call the remnant *shitta*, or the *shiraim shitta* [the remnants/leftovers approach]. In other words, people still feel happy sometimes, and sometimes don't feel happy, or they feel pleasure sometimes, or sometimes don't feel pleasure. So therefore, we say, what is good? Pleasure. That still exists. Feeling happy. An internal sensation.
Something in analogy to a sensation, not a sensation, a physical, like a perceptive sensation, which is another problem, but something, an internal sensation, an emotion. What did they call it? A feeling. There's another word that they used to use, people. A passion, a feeling, all this kind. That's what David Hume said, reasons are the slave of the passions. Remember, this is how we got to this.
There's still passions, I still want things in the sense of like some want arises in me somehow—it's mysterious what this even means because it can't be explained—but it's a feeling, it exists. You'd say it's subjective but it's something that exists and therefore that is what you end up saying.
So what is good? Even if you want to make this into somehow sound good, so just being about your own feelings of happiness and pleasure sounds really evil, although some people just bite the bullet and say that. If you want to be nicer you say everyone's happiness—for some reason I should care about everyone else, I don't know why—but we still have this *mesorah* [tradition] that happiness has, ethics has something to do with other people also.
So we've got to pretend that it's also about everyone being happy, but in the end, everyone being a hedonist, right? Everyone, hedonist—I don't mean claiming that happiness is the good, because most things are the good. A really even weirder kind of hedonist than ancient hedonist, right?
Ancient hedonist still believes in something called the good, it's just that human good is the final pleasure. A modern hedonist says, there's no such thing as good. I know that this makes me feel good. People literally say this all day. If you go in any yeshiva, you hear people saying this, I hear even people pretending to say this in a good way, right? So therefore, if Torah makes you feel good, you should learn Torah.
So, subjectivity. Sometimes it's called subjectivity. This is one solution. Of course, this is a remnant solution, is what I'm saying. It only has any moral forms because people still, the old people also spoke about feeling good and being happy. But they meant being happy in an objective way. And now being happy changes its meaning from being the best kind of human being to being someone that has certain feelings.
And then we get the question of, how's it called, in this little experiment about, what if I just have a machine that injects drugs to you all day that makes you feel pleasure? Is that what you mean? And the utilitarians...
Student: The dopamine problem.
Instructor: Yeah. The utilitarians have tied themselves up enough to figure out why that would not be good. Some of them have answers to this, but this is what you end up with.
Okay. Now, the other *shitta*, that's one *shitta*, that's a gorgeous *shitta*, no one really holds of it. Everyone understands that that's not really ethics. I think that everyone does. It's not just for a few weirdos.
Student: Not a scam. Just pursuing what feels good.
Instructor: It comes with an altruist twist that tries to...
Student: Altruism is this weird thing which says, you should keep other people feeling good. But why is that better than me feeling good? It's not really...
Instructor: That's where altruism comes in, of course. Ancient ethics is not altruistic enough.
Student: Well, you stack it with... It has to be modular. You stack it with something, ultimately.
Instructor: Okay, so you end up saying that there's some... What you end up saying is that there's a sentiment—that was the word I was looking for—moral sentiment, right? There's a sentiment that says that I feel good when you feel good. That turns out to be ethics. Ethics is just one more feeling. That's really what, that's what's called emotivism, right?
Student: Emotivism, yeah.
Instructor: Okay, but that's basically the modern theory. Or one English theory, okay? Like Nietzsche used to say, nobody wants to be happy, only Englishmen want to be happy. Okay, but he means this kind of habit, you were imposed like this very specific idea of what feels good to you, what's called sometimes conscience, right?
And our teacher Elizabeth Anscombe wrote in her very important article in Modern Moral Philosophy that, again, someone called Joseph Bishop, Butler, I don't remember, that was all about conscience. If you meet certain modern people, like Rav Hirsch, some Jews, in a certain period, everyone's very talk about this inner conscience, which is also one interpretation of this inner thing. Like, everyone knows internally what's good.
And then Freud said, yeah, that's your mother's voice. But anyways, and she says, well, seriously? I know people that internally really want to kill everyone. That's not a very good, like, they just all imagine that everyone just automatically has this sense of ethics. That's not what, not real, not true.
But that's, but really, that's just one more feeling. There's no reason to think that that's true. And you're really not sure this is like, this is games. Like, you could say it nicely in a book that you know people that want to murder.
Student: No, there are people who are murdering. Right, even the murderers, like, when Ted Bundy was interviewed, like, he knew that it's not good, right? Even the guy that wants to, he knows, he has an internal compass about what it is.
Instructor: I don't think that's true, but I'm not going to get into that right now. My point is more important. The more important point is, that's just one more feeling. There's no reason to think that that feeling is more important than any other feelings. Only, again, there's a feeling that doesn't tell you what good is.
Student: No, but one second, hold on. I think we're also confusing the word feelings here. There's two feelings that are going on. Feeling here means a sensation. That's all it could mean. That's what it means in this *shitta*. Right, and there's like a feeling like, you know...
Instructor: It's the same thing. That's what it is. There isn't, there isn't another kind of feeling. That's what I'm trying to say. There's a thought, right? Thoughts are about things. But if there's no such a thing as goodness then your thought is not about anything. So it turns out to be a feeling, right? The difference between a thought and a feeling is that a thought is about something and a feeling is not about anything.
Student: Why is the thought of me not hurting you...
Instructor: Let's not argue now because I'm trying to understand what you're saying. You understand what I'm saying, but now let's move on.
Student: No.
Instructor: Okay, if you don't, then come after the *shiur* [lecture] and ask. Okay. First adaptation. Okay. Now, because I'm just going to end up explaining to you at length, but I don't have time for that. It's very simple. What I have to say is like this.
The other *shitta* is what we call... What's the other *shitta*? Maybe this is something like what you're saying, I'm not sure. But the other *shitta* is what we call the deontology, okay? Okay, the deontology is obedience of the moral law. Okay, that's what counts, and that's what Litvaks [Lithuanian-style Orthodox Jews] say.
The first *shitta* is no *yid* [Jew] really says. Maybe there's some weird Jew that says that. Like, from Jew, I mean, like, religious person. But the other *shitta* is basically what every Litvak says.
Student: Well, chassidim [Hasidic Jews] sometimes say hedonism. They just say your real feeling is Hashem [God]. But I don't know if that counts anymore. Because that sounds very much closer to the objective happiness in the end.
Instructor: But it might be, in some sense. Some chassidim, I know some people that interpret chassidim that way. But I don't think it's a classic interpretation, so I don't know. It's an interesting question. And I wonder if... Yeah, it's very complicated. Okay.
But the other *shitta* is to say that there's some... This also doesn't have a source, and also ends up relying on something like what you're describing, that they're closer to whether you're describing it. Not a feeling that makes me feel... I feel fuzzy inside, but something like I feel outside something. I feel something imposing on me.
It still ends up being this kind of a feeling, but—that's a criticism of Kantianism, that it's also a kind of emotivism—but it has to be something, in some sense, from the outside, or something like Kant says, you give your own law. But a law is by definition something stronger than you. And you have some kind of idea or obedience to a law, which doesn't say anything.
The law is not saying anything. The law is not the fact. In the old way, the law is only the fact that this is good. You might not know it, so I'm letting you know that this is the good way to be a human being. And in this way, that's not such a thing as good people or good anything, but there's such a thing as acting in a good way.
Now, what this does, and the second way is really mostly where I'm heading. What this does is, where is the medicine at? What this does mostly is that it makes the relation between the action and the goodness of it very far, right?
Because remember, if there's just things that have ends, then there's good things and good actions and bad actions. Good actions are the ones that lead the thing to the end, and bad actions are the ones that destroy it. It's very simple. It's the *din* [law/judgment] in the action, it's not a *din* in the intention.
But if there's no such a thing, but we have some kind of idea, like a very general idea, something like following the moral law, or going against your base feelings is the good, right? Doing things for the purpose of following the law, and not for the purpose of being happy, right?
If that's the Kantian kind of *shitta*, that says that the goodness of moral action is in following some kind of recognition of a moral law, of a moral truth, or a moral goodness, which is not connected with what you want, it's not connected with what you think, and so on. It's connected with some kind of obedience to a moral law. It ends up being a kind of obedience.
Student: As to society?
Instructor: Society? No, not society. Society is just one more person. A lot of people. It's a God. It ends up being God. It ends up being God. I can't say explicitly that this is God. God is this... One of the reasons that he [Kant] believes in God is because he feels that there's a moral law. And God, there's no way to explain that it's not a God. There's ways of doing this atheistically also, but it ends up being something like a God.
Now...
Student: But is there a way to, like, challenge this if, like, you live, let's say, in Africa, there's one type of way...
Instructor: Not where... Not where...
Instructor: As to society? No, not society. Society is just one more person, a lot of people. It's a God. It ends up being God. It ends up being God. You can't say that this is God. God is this, so one of the reasons that he believes in God is because he feels that there's a moral law. And God, there's no way to explain that it's not a God. There's ways of doing this atheistically also, but it ends up being something like a God.
But is there a way to challenge this? If you live in Africa, there's one type of way to do that? I'm not worried about this right now. There's different problems. Those are different problems. Those are problems. All these *shittas* [philosophical positions/systems] are going to have these kind of problems. I'm trying to get at the form of the *shittas*.
What I'm trying to get at here is that now, if you have this idea of what good is, and this is what every *Litvak* [Lithuanian-style Orthodox Jew], like in many *sifrei mussar* [ethical/moral instruction texts], I think, what good is, then your connection with it, the way in which your action is good, becomes something very internal.
What do I mean internal? When I mean internal, I mean precisely this thing that humans have and doesn't really exist in the world. Remember, according to this *shitta*, there is something humans have, which is subjectivity, or being about, the ability to be about something, the ability to be towards something, the ability to want, we could say. Now we call this word wanting. The ability to want or to desire.
Desire was always a specifically human way of being towards something. But now humans are the only things that are towards something. So now desire or intention is this very specific and weird and inexplicable in some sense, human kind of thing, maybe this is a human separate soul that can do it, that can be about something else, that can be wanting some other thing that doesn't really exist. Now, the wanting doesn't either exist, it's only like a mental fact, it's only something internal.
And now this turns out to be the only thing that can make you good. Because just doing something, if you do a good thing for the wrong reasons, it's not even *shelo lishma* [not for its own sake]. Remember, the whole thing of *mitoch shelo lishma ba lishma* [from doing it not for its own sake, one comes to do it for its own sake] doesn't really work in this *shitta*. It's become very hard to explain. And you'll notice that a lot of people have a big problem explaining it. While the Rabbah thought that this is simple and the most obvious moral factor is. Right?
Why? Because according to this *nusach shitta* [version of the philosophical position], the only thing that makes things good is the way in which you intend being good by it. That's what the goodness consists of. The intending being good, the intending of being this universal moral law, or intending to be a universal rule, all kind of formulations of this same thing.
But the only way in which what you're doing is connected to that, which your act is connected, is in this internal state, almost a feeling, might be more than a feeling if you want to say it that way, but it's just a feeling, a feeling that I'm doing a good thing. Because besides your feelings, and we don't have explanation for feelings, because feelings is this weird human thing nothing else has. There's no feelings in the universe, right? The universe doesn't care about you, you know this statement? The universe doesn't have feelings, only humans have feelings, right? Only humans have aboutness, only humans have intentionality. Now, according to this *shitta*.
Therefore, the only way something can be good, only humans can be morally good, right? There's nothing, there's no way of saying that something is good or bad in a real way, only humans. And now specifically human intention, which is this weird, inexplicable magic thing that humans obviously still have, even after the theory doesn't make sense, they still have it, right?
So now we end up with something very weird. We end up with this theory that, what is here said by *Sefer HaTanya* [foundational Chabad Chassidic text], that the only place where God is, the only good thing, is the intention to be good. It's a kind of empty intention because, or we can say it's not empty because it's obedience to the moral law. But that's the intention, the intender. Right, but there's no, the link between the law and you doesn't exist, right? Because that's in your mind. The link is also in your mind, for sure, according to God, right?
So the only thing that's really good is entirely in the human heart, and the human mind, and the human intention, human soul, however you want to call it.
And now, firstly, this makes everything much worse. Like I said, the *mitoch shelo lishma* stops making sense. Or it becomes much bigger, but the effort than it used to be, right?
Because the Rambam did explain as the normal way of human training. *Mitoch shelo lishma* means you do the thing as a training level where you do the thing but you don't entirely know why. You're doing it for the wrong why but you're still doing a good thing. You're still a good person. Your actions are still good. They're really good. They're really good because they're doing the good thing. They're doing the kind of things a good person would have done.
Are they fully good? No, because you're in what we call your internality and not good because in other words you don't know why it's good. So you don't do it for the sake of itself. You learn for the sake of money, but learning is still really good, because goodness is still a property of real things. So learning is still really good. It's you, you that are missing some part of the goodness. Your mind doesn't understand it. So you don't mean the learning, you mean something else, but that doesn't make it entirely not good.
Versus according to the new *shitta*, that when you learn for the sake of something else, that's totally worthless, like the Kotzker [the Kotzker Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Morgenstern of Kotzk] could have said. It's entirely worthless. It might be worth in some weird way, all the *chassidish seforim* [Chassidic texts] start with this assumption, if you read any *chassidish* text, you see, they all say, well, I've heard that but it doesn't happen. They all say this very weird statement. They say, well, our experience shows that it doesn't work. We need to add something to this. Because all the *Litvaks* never got to *lishma* [doing it for its own sake]. That's what they say. And therefore, we have to ask, see this, and all kinds of things. But it doesn't work.
This statement arises because of the destruction of the understanding that it always works. According to the theory of habituation, being basic moral training, it always works, because once you, I mean, I can't say always, there might still be this problem where sometimes people stay by that stage always, but it works.
Firstly, it's still really good. It's not that the goodness of the Besht [the Baal Shem Tov, founder of Chassidism] is only like Besht says, it'll become Besht, it'll be *ma lishma lishma* [elevating the shelo lishma to lishma], you know these stories of Besht? I mean, you can interpret that in the correct way, I'm not saying, but I'm explaining that there's really goodness in being, in being pretend a good person, because goodness is a property of things.
That good person is not a fully good person, he's still a halfway good person, because you could say his heart is not good, only his actions are good. But actions are really good. They're really the ones that make a good person into a good person. That's what's in the action, not in the person.
But if you understand that there's no such thing as goodness in actions, there's only goodness in the human heart because actions by themselves don't have an end. They can't have a *kavana* [intention].
Now *kavana* becomes, now the word *kavana* is very weird. It has a new interpretation of modernity than it had ever before.
*Kavana*, if you read any ancient text, any medieval text about *kavana*, you'll see that *kavana* is a *din* [law/legal category] and an action. *Kavana* is a description of what you're doing. It's not a description of your internal state.
How do I know this? You'll read every *sugya* [Talmudic topic/discussion] of *mitzvos tzrichos kavana* [whether commandments require intention] and you'll see that there's no *shitta* that the whole is different than this. I'm making a real statement so you can argue with me. But this is how most of the *kashas* [questions/difficulties] about the *sugya* of *mitzvos tzrichos kavana* and the same thing about *melacha machsheves asra Torah* [the Torah forbade purposeful labor—a principle in Shabbos law], there's no, none of these are about your internal state. They're all about what the action is.
Because what explains an action of course your internal state is part of it when there's human actions. Humans act by internal states. I'm not saying internal states don't exist. I think that the goodness is not totally, is not contingent only on that, like it is in eternity.
The goodness is that this is a good thing, because it's for a good purpose.
Student: And it's also incomplete independently, right, on the flip side, you have good intentions with no action.
Instructor: Exactly. Good intentions are the opposite. Exactly. According to the... Of course. Of course, good intentions which are only in an eternal state, and are not directed toward action, which is not a thing that even makes sense in the old system, which somehow makes sense in the new ones, because it's always in some way like this. Because then goodness is an eternal thing, it's just a feeling, or just kind of a disposition, or like an overcoming of your own egoism, or things like that, those are entirely eternal things.
Overcoming your egoism, which is what people in modernity think is what makes good actions good, is entirely an eternal thing. Nobody cares if you get to look at the overcoming egoism or for egoistic purposes, right? It's the action that cares.
Therefore, when you read ancient descriptions of *shelo lishma*, it always has a different, there's always a description of the action that is different, and I think always, also almost always, it's actually different. Someone who learns *shelo lishma* is learning in a different way than someone who's learning *lishma*. It's not just he has a different thing in his mind.
It's true that the reason he acts in a different way is because he doesn't understand the goodness of learning. So the difference is very simple. For example, someone who learned *shelo lishma* is not for the purpose of learning or maybe if learning itself is a purpose towards another purpose, doesn't matter, towards that, he's going to only learn as long as he gets money and the other one is going to stop learning, right? The moment he doesn't get money, you're honored for it. So there's a real difference in the action, you can see the difference in what he's doing. It's not only a difference in his head.
The *chassidish* interpretation of *shelo lishma* is entirely in your head. Because according to them, if you're learning for your own pleasure, for example, in other words, because you recognize yourself that it's good, that's also *shelo lishma*. Because they end up with this entirely outside giving of purposes to the world, where the world is empty of purpose not only God gives it purpose, but He doesn't really give it even, right? It's only purposeful in the sense that it's what God likes, which is why that's either a pantheism or a *hagshama* [corporealization/anthropomorphism of God], or a physical God, a human-like God, understand what I'm saying?
Very simple, very simple *shtikl toeles* [bit of practical application/purpose].
And therefore, for example, we learned last week, the Rambam of that. That talks about how you could be *oved Hashem* [serving God] with everything you do if you eat in order to learn, basically.
Now, people think that this means that when you eat, you have to think certain thoughts. It's nothing to do with that. It's not about your state of mind while you're eating. In other words, the intention, *kavana*, in the ancient world, is the answer to the question why you're doing it. It's not the answer to the question what is in your head while you're doing it. You understand the difference? That's a very one-line difference.
In modern days, *kavana* and *mussar seforim*, *lashma*, *kavana*, all these nice words mean, what is in your head while you're doing it? And in the Rambam it means, why are you doing it? What's the answer to the question why you're doing it?
What is in your head the whole day? Sometimes last week I called it, what is in your head the whole day? But it does not mean your head ever. It's the answer to the question.
This was the answer to Reb Chaim's *stira* [contradiction] on the Rambam. It's the answer to a lot of things.
Student: So the answer to why now we've been clapping before *Megillah* [the Book of Esther, read on Purim], everyone should have a mind to be *yotzei* [fulfill the obligation].
Instructor: Exactly. That's nonsense. The *stira* of Reb Chaim. Of course, the Chazon Ish is trying to say this but he doesn't have a way to say it. I don't know if it's a true answer. I think there's a simpler answer to that, I'm just saying, it sounds a lot of things.
Like you're saying, there's no such thing as you go to *shul* [synagogue] while you're reading the *Megillah*, because the *mitzvah* [commandment] is *laining* [reading] the *Megillah*. What do you mean I should have it in my mind? What should I have in my mind? Intention is not about having it in your mind. Of course you could go and have it in your mind, but that's just the word. It actually makes it quite small in a way. It makes it weird.
No, it takes time.
Just to be clear, what is in your mind is very important. Your mind is an important organ. And what you're thinking at every moment is an important thing to focus on, but not because of the *din* of *kavana*, because of a whole different reason, because your mind is in action in itself. You could have the good *kavana* *shalom* [intention, peace/completeness—transcript cuts off here]
Instructor: Like you're saying, there's lots of things. As you go to shul [synagogue], why are you reading the Megillah [the scroll of Esther]? Because the message is lying in the Megillah. What do you mean I should have it in my mind? What should I have in my mind? The intention is not about having it in your mind. Of course you could go and have it in your mind. But that's just the word. It makes it weird.
No, it takes time. Just to be clear. What is in your mind is very important. Your mind is an important organ. What you're thinking at every moment is an important thing to focus on. But not because of the din [law/category] of kavana [intention]. Because of a whole different reason. Because your mind is an action in itself.
You could have the good kavana shelo lishma [intention not for its own sake]. You could have kavana as Rashash [acronym for Rabbi Shalom Sharabi] al di Shema [on the Shema prayer]. Because what you have in your—because the reason you're doing it is not because it's good, but because of some other reason. It's like the Baal Shem Tov with the shofar [ram's horn blown on Rosh Hashanah]. Maybe, I don't know. You shouldn't have any kavana. Right? The kavana is just—yeah, I don't know, it's complicated. What's going on in those stories, I don't know what you understand. We'll have to go through the whole thing.
This is very simple. So this is very simple. So now we understand both why in the olden days, lishma [for its own sake] is a din [category] in the maaseh [action]. Lishma is a din in the maaseh. Lishma is a din in the maaseh. There's stam maaseh [plain action], and there's lishma, and there's shelo lishma [not for its own sake].
Of course, since humans act with their heads, have something with your head, but it's not a din in what's in your head.
And this is why, of course, modern people, not only can't imagine God resting anywhere besides their head, they can't imagine any goodness, which is really what they mean, besides for in their intention, which is a very weird thing, because it's kind of useless, and it leads to this weird thing.
Everyone wants to be good. No, you don't want to be good. Wanting means wanting to do. What does that even mean? But if all goodness is in something, that somehow makes sense. It still doesn't entirely make sense. But that's why they end up thinking like that, because they must think like that.
Now, I'm showing you why they're forced to think like that, because of their thought that there's no goodness in the real world, in the external world. So therefore, goodness has to be—so it can't be totally what you do, because that's an external thing, and that's not really good. So it has to be what you do, and therefore it has to be that even if you do it, if you want to do something good and you never do anything good, you're still a good guy.
Student: So how would you know much of it? That's what I've discussed many times. In my theory, it means—even if you can conceptually divide them, you still have a correlation problem, right? One second. That's what you're saying, right? Meaning, even if I can somehow separate the intention from the action, I still need some sort of correlation.
Instructor: Obviously, you have to at least say you don't want it enough or something. That's what I would say, or that's what other people say. I mean, even other people would say this, right?
Student: Other people, yeah, they say something, but I'm saying that their theory forces them to say that the goodness is entirely in the internal state and not in the actual state, which is why they end up saying these funny things, exactly, and then they end up with this, because this is a question for them also, they agree that this is a question, and they make up their question, and I'm using that question to show that the whole thing is absurd, but they would say, I have to say this, and they have to find an answer, exactly, that they're not crazy, they're crazy.
Instructor: The main puzzle piece missing and the reason causing all this weirdness and the whole machlokes [dispute] of Nefesh HaChaim and Tanya or whatever it is—well, lishma is all caused by the loss of lishma in the real world. Since people stop believing that the world is lishma, they start, they end up pigeonholed into one of these two options: either all lishma is in your head, or everything is because God said so, which is basically Nefesh HaChaim's shitta [approach/position]. Understand?
Now when you say it's on your head, then you end up with different problems. So therefore you have to say that your head is also God, all kinds of things. But that's the basic story.
Just means—very simple—according to my theory, if a person has an actual disposition to doing things—doesn't mean that I'm sitting in my room and thinking of good thoughts. That's not what it means. It's like the Gemara [Talmud] says, in other words, if I'm a kind of person that does tzedakah [charity] every year, but this year I have no money in my pocket, so for this year I'm still a good person. But at some point I'm not being a good person. By the way, because I'm really a doer of good, right? You really are a doer.
Student: Or just there's something external stopping you, blocking you. So you're still considered a good person. If I was never a doer, I wouldn't be a doer.
Instructor: Exactly. You can't say, even Aristotle, there's a machlokes [dispute] on this. Aristotle goes so far to say, if you never had money, you're never a baal tzedakah [charitable person]. If you once had money, and today you don't have money, then we can say—that's what the Torah has to promise you to have money. Because otherwise you can't do mitzvos [commandments]. You can't be a baal tzedakah. You need a body. That's what Zalman [the Vilna Gaon] said, you need a body to do mitzvos. Otherwise you could want to do mitzvah, that wanting is not interesting.
That's the big chalek [difference/distinction] and this is, I think, the reasoning why all this, why this machlokes, all the things that we discussed. And that's Moshe Rabbeinu's [Moses our teacher's] answer to the malachim [angels], yesh bichem [do you have among you] this, yesh bichem that, in other words, you have to be able to do it.
That goes to a different discussion, because there is goods for a soul without a body, just different activities. It's very interesting, when we say, these two things don't necessarily connect. That's why there is an ancient, like I said, father [dispute]. Father wasn't, I mean, and there isn't anything like I'm saying that's how many people think. Because what happens is, the question of what is good for a soul without a body is also to do something.
We're very confused. We think that souls without bodies can't do anything. They do things. It's like thinking, or knowing, or maybe even wanting, or kind of things like that, which is a doing. The goodness of the soul without a guf [body] is not that he is choleim [dreaming], as if he's a man with a hand, but he's choleim in the flesh. In the flesh. He's in the flesh. That's also a maaseh [action]. For a soul, it's a maaseh. Maybe for a body, it's like a maaseh. For a soul, it's like a maaseh. That's its activity.
The goodness of everything is a kind of activity. It's just that it's not your kind of activity. So it's not, we don't, if you want to look for the kind of thing, that's why this is weird. This is weird. Everyone will also tell you that what's in your head is very important. What's in your head is very important. Not in your head, in your mind. It's very important because those are the kind of things the soul as a soul or the thinker as a thinker, the human as a human in the real sense is doing. Not because that's an internal thing. It's an external thing. It's a maaseh. Machshavah k'maaseh [thought is like action]. Machshavah k'maaseh because that's what it does. It doesn't want anything else.
For a body, just thinking, thinking has two meanings. Thinking here has two different meanings, right? Thinking means thinking to and thinking that, right? Or thinking a, right? Thinking to just means planning. That's just thinking roots and therefore, that kind of thing doesn't make sense without a maaseh. But thinking of things that thought that ends with the thinking, that's why, for example, according to the ancient thought, thinking thought about things that are temporary it doesn't count as thinking, right?
Thinking about maaseh, it doesn't have a maalah [virtue/elevated status] of thinking. The whole maalah of machshavah [thought], like the Tanya says, the maalah of machshavah, that's the big advice, which is just a rip-off of Aristotle, is only true for thought about true things. It doesn't work for halacha [Jewish law], that's the Tanya's big mistake, from the perspective of Aristotle. It doesn't work from the perspective of halacha. There's an answer to this mistake, I'm not saying it's a mistake, I'm just saying from this perspective it's a mistake.
You can't say, I'm thinking about what to do with tzedakah al pi [according to] Tur [the Arba'ah Turim, a major code of Jewish law], then you're thinking about shechting [ritual slaughter] chickens properly, then it's only good, like Mashiach [Messiah] have said. How can it be that the thinking about shechting chickens properly is better than the shechting chickens properly itself? It can't be better. It's worse. I mean, maybe it's better in some sense because it's organizing it. It's giving it a form. It's giving it the correct answer to that question. But it's not better.
The only thing that is better is thinking that can actually end by thinking. That's called the Shema [the central Jewish prayer affirming God's unity]. That's why Torah al pi Shema [Torah for its own sake] is the only way to learn Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism/esoteric Torah]. If you learn nigleh [revealed/exoteric Torah], you're never learning Torah al pi Shema. Because it never has the maalah of machshavah. It's always subservient or anything since forever, Torah lishma only means learning nistar [hidden/esoteric Torah]. Because those are the only things that they end with knowing. Their point is to know them. Because as much as whatever every Taz [acronym for Turei Zahav, a major halakhic commentary] and every Bach [acronym for Bayit Chadash, another major halakhic commentary], it's only a little maaseh of what's in the loch [hole/case].
Student: That's what you mean?
Instructor: Yeah. Like I said, there's complications in this. But yeah, the Taz is only about, at least from the perspective of it being practical wisdom, it's only about what to do when this case happens. And therefore, it's about things that are happening.
If you learn it and you're not planning, for example, what's atar [place] lishma, what's the biggest lishma, lam lishma amalat [not for its own sake] l'masat [for the sake of]? If you learn and you're not planning to do what you're learning, that one, from that perspective, will be lishma. It's a little counterintuitive to what you think.
Student: No, no, from this, in the level of maaseh and the level of how we level the maaseh it's true, because that's a bluff, that's what I said last week, that's called, that's called he's not learning internally, he's learning externally, that's called—
Instructor: The meaning of that kind of learning, the meaning, the why. Why do we learn not to speak lashon hara [evil speech/gossip]? Not to speak lashon hara. If you learn about it, and you speak lashon hara, you're mosif al hachet [adding to the sin]. You're just saying the words, but you're not really learning. That's what it means. But that's not the maalah of learning for itself. That's not shelo lishma on the real high level. There's two different meanings.
Student: So if you're learning about lashon hara, is that shelo lishma?
Instructor: What?
Student: Is that shelo lishma?
Instructor: Mosif al hachet it's called. It's not the same thing as shelo lishma. That's what I'm asking. In this state we could call it—it is—it's a different meaning of—for that—no, because that's the exact problem. That's what, that's what, that's the discussion. There's no—someone who learns without planning to do it, there's the—which is a different thing—learning about the good leads people to do good. That's an interesting fact about human nature. If you learn a lot of halacha, you stop being—if you don't plan to—that just has to do with—
Student: Mashir [influences] on Friday?
Instructor: Because we are influenced a lot by what we think. But, okay, but that's a different thing. But if you learn like a Doeg [Doeg HaEdomi, a biblical villain who used Torah knowledge for evil], like a Doeg, like a toif [error], like that's when I mosif al hachet, then no, then there's no mitoch shelo lishma [from not for its own sake to for its own sake], then it's making you worse. You're becoming a daat [knowledge], mathless, I'm a novice kind of person, because you're finding out all the tricks of the world without planning to not do them. You're actually becoming a worse person.
The Rosh Hashanah [Jewish New Year] is when you learn things that are just theory, or even in this sense, you don't yet plan to do it like we say the Murshid al-Maghzir al-Mutafsans [unclear reference], and slowly, for example, I tell you you should learn Kabbalah. You say, why should I learn Kabbalah? I tell you, you'll become a mekubal [kabbalist/practitioner of Kabbalah]. Okay, I make sense. A mekubal is a good point of reference. I'll learn Kabbalah. Then, slowly you learn Kabbalah, and you realize that learning Kabbalah is better than being a mekubal. Perhaps, because it's taki geshmak [really delightful/genuinely good]. That's lishma, and that happens all the time. I see that.
By the way, that happens. It's not avodas Hashem [service of God], it happens naturally, because you start to think that it's good. People that started learning Kabbalah because they thought it was going to be cool, and then they started actually liking it. That happens to everything. Because you start seeing the goodness, that's why we keep on explaining. You think that it's a bad thing, then you have to do it for yourself, and then you do it for your own money. That's the problem. That's why it's not a very good plan to learn Kabbalah in order to become a mekubal.
Student: But a bad thing is about the feelings.
Instructor: No, not in that sense. Of course not. In the sense of seeing the good, seeing how it's really good. That's why it's a bad plan. Someone who wants to learn how to become a—he has to actively work that way because otherwise he might start liking it even when he doesn't make money. Many people, you know, I know so many people that started to get into learning, they thought it's going to be a good business.
Instructor:
That's the problem. That's why it's not a very good plan to learn Kabbalah [Qabula: Jewish mystical tradition] in order to become a Mekabel [professional Kabbalist/spiritual practitioner]. Bokishmak [Yiddish: nonsense] is about the feelings. No, not in that sense. Of course not. In the sense of seeing the good. Seeing how it's really good. That's why it's a bad plan.
If someone wants to learn how to become a Mekabel, he has to actively work that way because otherwise he might start liking it even when he doesn't make money. Many people, you know so many, I know so many people that started getting into learning. They thought it was going to be a good business. It's going to be a good business. It turns out he just likes it. And then he stopped making money out of it because he doesn't do the parts which make you money, right?
Something that really happens. It's a very normal thing, this. It's not a magic. But anyway, that's not related to Rashi. That's just to answer these questions.
Instructor:
The mind. I'm from Galazan [unclear reference]. Every oldest one would say this Torah [teaching], that that Pirim [Purim: Jewish holiday commemorating the events of the Book of Esther] means that the Gezonis [chitzoniyus: externality, the physical/outer dimension] is also the Primaeus [pnimiyus: internality, the spiritual/inner dimension]. Right? Remember?
It's an old hand, I guess it's just for him. Because Peter [Purim] was going to say it off the gift. I don't think it's true, but like Hanukkah [Chanukah: Jewish holiday commemorating the rededication of the Temple], it was about the Kema Mitzvahs [kiyum hamitzvos: fulfillment of the commandments]. That Peter [Purim] was just about existing. Stimmt [Yiddish: correct]? That's what they talk about.
And we learn that the gift [guf: body] from the Yid [Jew] is also Heilig [Yiddish: holy]. Now you understand what this means, according to my new chat [shitta: approach/system].
Instructor:
It means the Primaeus [pnimiyus] is the Gezonis [chitzoniyus]. There's no faith [unclear]. This whole wanting is that's what people call [pnimiyus] is really what [machshove lachutz: external thought/intention].
You have a very [strong feeling] when you learn [Torah], it's that's [intense], you're so [farkocht: Yiddish: deeply immersed/emotionally absorbed] and you love it so much and you want it so much, but you're not planning to do it. Like most people, they're so [emotionally involved] but they're not really planning to do it. They're planning to do something with a whole different state of mind than being [in that emotional state]. Two things [with no shaychis: no connection to each other]. So that's, that's, that's [the distinction].
But that's what Yavonim [Yevonim: the Greeks] said. What's the witz [Yiddish: point/essence] of Pirim [Purim]? I want to tell you, nobody has Dwaikus [dveikus: spiritual attachment/cleaving to God] on Pirim [Purim]. Everybody has Dwaikus [dveikus] at Bluffing [unclear], or doesn't have Pirim [Purim].
Instructor:
Pirim [Purim] has Antarim [tantzen: Yiddish: dancing], and we have Meshlichmuris [mishloach manos: sending gifts of food to friends], and we have Tzachogs [unclear: possibly referring to the feast/seudah], and that's Lamas [l'matah: below, in the physical realm]. That's the whole point, at least from the beginning [at least in the bein adam l'chaveiro dimension: interpersonal relationships]. That's the whole point.
Instructor:
Like the Rambam [Maimonides] says, the ik simcha [ikkar simcha: the essential joy], the Rambam says, means literally [l'sameach lev aniyim v'yesomim: to gladden the hearts of the poor and orphans]. That's what makes, that's what happiness is. Happiness means being a good human being.
Whether you feel it or not, this is [a kleine problem: Yiddish: a small issue], but that's not the point. Happiness is not a feeling, happiness is a fact. And if you smite [be a mensch to] other people, that's what happiness is.
Instructor:
So in a while, everyone should give money to their local Matan al-Aviyaynim [matanos l'evyonim: gifts to the poor—a Purim mitzvah], and that's a new Hasidic Shad [unclear: possibly referring to an old Chassidic teaching about giving personally/aleine], and Shain [everyone] should have a happy Yom Tov [Jewish holiday].
This lecture examines the fundamental shift in Jewish ideals from the classical emphasis on Torah study and mitzvah observance (the Talmid Chacham ideal) to modern movements that prioritize internal states—Chassidus's focus on dveykus (cleaving to God) and the Mussar movement's emphasis on middos (character traits). The Chazon Ish emerges as a rare modern thinker who recognized that halacha contains far more sophisticated understanding of human nature and reality than simplistic ethical frameworks, though he struggled to articulate this insight without resorting to divine command theory. The core argument is that traditional Jewish law accounts for vastly more complexity and variables in human behavior than contemporary approaches that reduce everything to feelings, biases, or therapeutic categories—making halacha more intellectually serious than modern alternatives, not because of its divine origin, but because it represents millennia of careful thinking about actual human situations.
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שיעור זה ממשיך חקירה קודמת של תזה היסטורית: לפני תנועות מודרניות מסוימות, התפיסה היהודית השלטת (ובאופן רחב יותר המערבית) קבעה שלהיות אדם טוב פירושו לטפח מעשים וידע נכונים, ולא בעיקר רגשות נכונים. תובנה זו מיוחסת בחלקה לרבי אברהם ישעיה קרליץ (החזון איש), שפרקיו התיאולוגיים ב*אמונה ובטחון* ניסו לנסח את התפיסה הקדם-בעל שם טובית / קדם-קאנטיאנית / קדם-הומיאנית הזו של מה שעושה אדם טוב.
לאידיאל הקלאסי יש שני קטבים: חכמה (תורה/חכמה) ומעשה (מצוות/מעשים טובים), המכונים בחז”ל חכמה ומעשה. האידיאל הוא שניהם ביחד, אם כי קיימים ויכוחים פנימיים על מי מהם עיקרי. זו התפיסה המוסכמת והבלתי שנויה במחלוקת של כל המסורת היהודית עד לנקודת שבירה היסטורית מסוימת.
החזון איש ממסגר את האדם האידיאלי כתלמיד חכם — מי שמוקדש ללימוד תורה.
תלמיד שואל האם זה מוציא נביא או פילוסוף. העניין מורכב יותר מתווית פשוטה — “תלמיד חכם” עשוי לכלול נבואה ופילוסופיה. האם החזון איש היה מסכים (ייתכן שהתכוון דווקא להלכה) נשאר פתוח.
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מצוירת מקבילה מבנית מפורשת: האידיאל האריסטוטלי של מידות אינטלקטואליות ומעשיות הוא “אותו דבר” כמו תורה ומצוות — שונה בתוכן הספציפי של מה נחשב לאינטלקט ומה נחשב למעשה טוב, אך חולק את אותה מסגרת מבנית: אדם טוב הוא מי שמחזיק בידע/חכמה ומבצע מעשים טובים.
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הבעל שם טוב ותנועת החסידות מציגים אידיאל חדש: האדם הטוב ביותר הוא זה שמשיג דבקות (התדבקות באלוקים). זה במפורש לא תורה ומצוות. תורה ומצוות עשויות להיות אינסטרומנטליות — הכנות או דרכים לקראת דבקות — אך הדבקות עצמה היא המטרה. זו שבירה ברורה ומודעת מהקונצנזוס הקודם, למרות שהחסידים עוסקים באפולוגטיקה נרחבת כדי להכחיש זאת (למשל, מציאת תקדימים במקורות מוקדמים יותר לצדיקים שאינם למדנים).
המהלך החסידי הנפוץ של ציטוט דמויות מוקדמות יותר שהיו צדיקים מבלי להיות למדנים הוא “הסחת דעת” ו”אפולוגטיקה מוזרה”. החסידים אולי צודקים מהותית, אך השבירה בלתי ניתנת להכחשה.
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תלמידיו של רבי ישראל סלנטר מציגים אידיאל חדש נוסף: האדם הטוב ביותר הוא בעל מידות טובות — מענטש. הם מורידים במפורש את העדיפות של ידע תורני ואפילו שמירת מצוות ביחס לשיפור האופי. חלק מאנשי המוסר מדגישים גם יראת שמים. אך גם זה אידיאל שונה ביסודו ממסגרת התורה-והמצוות הקלאסית.
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המסגור החסידי שהעולם מתחלק לחסידים ומתנגדים נדחה. במקום זאת, הוא מתחלק ל:
1. יהודים רגילים/מיושנים (למשל, החתם סופר) — שפשוט מחזיקים בתפיסה הקלאסית.
2. חסידים — תנועה חדשה.
3. מתנגדים (למשל, רבי חיים מוולוז’ין) — גם תנועה חדשה, ריאקטיבית (“נגד” — השם עצמו מרמז על התנגדות ולא על זהות חיובית עצמאית).
החתם סופר מצוטט כדוגמה למי שלא היה לא חסיד ולא מתנגד אלא פשוט “אלטער איד”.
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הטיעון הוא בעיקר מבני, לא היסטורי. קודמים לחסידות ולמוסר קיימים (למשל, חובות הלבבות אולי אמר דברים דומים). תקדימים כאלה אינם מטרידים כי הטענה היא על מבנה הרעיונות, לא על חידוש כרונולוגי קפדני. רעיונות עולים ויורדים בפופולריות, אך הבעיה המבנית היא מה שחשוב.
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שתי התנועות המודרניות (חסידות ומוסר) הן תגובות לאותו משבר: המסגרת המיושנת — שבה טוב הוא תכונה אמיתית של אנשים ופעילויות בעולם — הפכה לבלתי מובנת או בלתי ניתנת לחיות. הסיבות כוללות את אובדן הטלאולוגיה וגורמים נוספים. אנשים הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים לראות, לומר, לחיות או להאמין שטוב הוא מאפיין אובייקטיבי של העולם.
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המטאפורה של סולם יעקב לוכדת את המצב המבני: הסולם מייצג את הקשר בין העולם לאלוקים — המלאכים שהופכים את המציאות לאחדות קוהרנטית ומובנת המקשרת שמים וארץ. “אף אחד לא מאמין במלאכים יותר” — המנגנון המשלב בין אלוקים לעולם אבד.
ברגע שהמסגרת הקלאסית קורסת, מספר אפשרויות מתעוררות:
ה”קו השטוח” — פשוט תעשה מה שאתה רוצה. מכיוון שהקהל “מעמיד פנים שהוא דתי”, זה נשלל.
דבקות היא באופן רדיקלי פנימית — היא נותנת עדיפות ליחסים הסובייקטיביים עם אלוקים על חשבון הקוהרנטיות והערך של העולם.
תנועת המוסר מחפשת שלמות בתוך העולם (אופי, מענטשליכקייט) אך באופן שהוא גם בסופו של דבר פנימי — בפועל, אנשי המוסר נוטים להעריך את האדם ש*מרגיש* אמפתיה על פני האדם ש*בפועל גייס כסף*. הטענה הפרובוקטיבית: בעלי המוסר לא באמת מאמינים באלוקים — הם למעשה נטשו את הקוטב האלוהי של הסולם.
ציווי אלוהי מועלה בהיסוס כאלטרנטיבה פוטנציאלית שנמנעת גם ממלכודות החסידות וגם מהמוסר, אם כי מיקומו המדויק בסכמה נותר לא ברור.
תלמיד מבחין שהחוט המשותף בכל העמדות הללו הוא שאף אחת מהן לא מאמינה בטוב אמיתי ומהותי כלשהו. אם טוב קיים בכלל, הוא יכול רק להיות מוטל מבחוץ (אלוקים ציווה זאת), לא להתגלות כמהותי. זה מתחבר לכלאם (*חכמת הכלאם*) — המסורת התיאולוגית האסלאמית ששוללת באופן דומה טבעים מהותיים בדברים.
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הביקורת המרכזית על כל העמדות שלאחר הקריסה: הן חד-ממדיות. כל אחת תופסת היבט אחד של החיים (דבקות, שיפור עצמי מוסרי, ציווי אלוהי) והופכת אותו לכלל, ובכך:
– שוללת את העושר והשונות של החיים.
– מתייחסת לכל ממד אחר כרע או לא רלוונטי.
– הופכת כמו “שולחן העומד על רגל אחת” (מזכירה את שלינג) — מטבעה לא יציבה.
זו הבעיה הגדולה האמיתית עם השינוי המודרני: לא שכל הדגש בודד שגוי כשלעצמו, אלא שכל אחד הופך לטוטאליטרי.
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מעט מאוד אנשים הצליחו לנסח התנגדות אמיתית למסגרות החד-ממדיות הללו. הקושי מוגבר כי תפיסת העולם שבתוכה הם חייבים לעבוד היא עצמה הגורמת לבעיות. ההתנגדות לא אומרת “אתה טועה” אלא “אתה רק חלק מהסיפור” — וזה קשה יותר לטעון באופן דרמטי. זו המשימה הנצחית של החכמה: להראות כיצד כל עמדה נתונה היא רק חלקית.
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אלה שמנסים להחיות את התמונה העתיקה והעשירה יותר עומדים בפני דילמה כואבת:
אתה מאבד הרבה מהתוכן. אנשים בסופו של דבר שוכחים מה אבד ומטעים את התרגום במקור. הרמב”ם מוצע כדוגמה פרדיגמטית: אנשים אומרים שהוא תרגם את המחשבה היהודית לשפה פילוסופית יוונית-מוסלמית כסוג של *ירידת הצדיק*. אנשים אז מסיקים שאם אתה לא חושב בשפה הפילוסופית הזו, הרמב”ם לא רלוונטי. רב קוק מצוטט כאומר שדברים מסוימים, ברגע ש*כפסה*, אין צורך להדליק מחדש כי הם היו רק תרגומים הקשריים. דברים רבים שאנשים מאמינים שהם “יהדות אמיתית” הם למעשה התאמות בדיעבד — דרכים שבהן מישהו ניסה לדבר בשפת הקהל שלו.
להפוך למתנגד תמידי — זה שתמיד נגד הכל. זה גם חד-ממדי וגם רע: זה לא מתחשב למה אנשים באמת הם כמו שהם, מבטל אותם ככופרים, וגורם לך לאבד קשר עם אנשים. “להיות מתנגד הוא כשלעצמו דרך חיים… וזו לא דרך טובה לחיות.”
אף אחת מהאפשרויות. תפסיק לתרגם למסגרות ש”מטופשות”, לא שלמות ומעוותות, רק בגלל שכולם חושבים כך. “זו לא סיבה מספיק טובה.”
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המושג הסוציולוגי של דאיזם טיפולי מוסרי (המיוחס לסוציולוגים של הדת האמריקאית) מתאר את מערכת האמונות דה-פקטו של רוב האמריקאים ללא קשר לעדה:
– אלוקים קיים אך לא באמת מעורב בעולם.
– הוא בעיקר גורם לך להרגיש טוב עם עצמך.
– הוא רוצה שתהיה “אדם טוב” (לתת צדקה, לעזור לשכן — דברים בסיסיים).
הספר “קתולי, פרוטסטנטי, יהודי” מצוטט: כל שלוש הקבוצות באמריקה בעצם מאמינות בזה; הן פשוט “שרות שירים שונים בכנסיות שלהן.”
גרסאות יהודיות של התאמה זו כוללות:
– קירוב חב”ד (ברמת התוכן) מאופיין בחלקו כ”כוח החשיבה החיובית” בארזה מחדש.
– “איש הבטחון” (*בטחון שבועי*): *טראכט גוט וועט זיין גוט* (“חשוב טוב וזה יהיה טוב”) מזוהה בעצם כ“חיוביות רעילה” — תכונה אמריקאית מאוד לבושה בשפה חסידית. תלמיד דוחף בחזרה על כנות; הנקודה המבנית נשמרת: “אתה יכול למצוא שאופרה מאמינה באותו דבר.”
– ברסלב — ה”שיטה האמריקאית” היא: הכל טוב, השם אוהב אותך, הוא צריך אותך, אל תהיה *מתייאש*.
כל זה הוא “דילול גדול” — לא לגמרי שקר (יש מקורות), אך מציג פרוסה זעירה ככלל היהדות.
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להפוך אנשים לטובים במסגרת הקיימת שלהם הוא באמת קשה ובאמת בעל ערך. לשמור על *שבע מצוות בני נח* — לפרנס משפחות, לא לגנוב, לא להרוג — זה “הישג גדול”. תלמיד שואל אם זה “רף נמוך”. בהחלט לא: “ברירת המחדל היא משהו הרבה יותר גרוע.” כל הקלישאות בעולם עדיפות על האלטרנטיבה. זה לא זלזול — זו עבודה אמיתית. אבל זה גם לא התמונה המלאה, והשיעור מכוון לאלה שמחפשים משהו מעבר לרמה זו.
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חוסר שביעות הרצון מהגישות המדוללות הללו אינו נעוץ בנאמנות ילדותית למסורת (*בתור ילד*) — “התורה אומרת אחרת, אז אתה טועה.” וזה גם לא בעיקר ההבחנה שגישה זו מובילה להיפוך שיטתי של ערכי התורה שבו השופט הסופי הופך להיות “מערכת העיתונות של הניו יורק טיימס.”
במקום זאת, הביקורת היא בתור גוי — כאדם חושב. הבעיה היסודית היא שכל תפיסת העולם שבתוכה אנשים אלה פועלים אינה רצינית. היא לכל הפחות לא שלמה, וכנראה גרועה יותר.
הרפלקס המודרני של שליחת כל ילד בעייתי למטפל ממחיש את האשמה ב”לא רצינית”. האנושות חינכה ילדים במשך אלפי שנים בלי מטפלים. האתגר: לבקש ממנהלי בתי ספר סטטיסטיקות הצלחה ממשיות מהתערבויות טיפוליות. גישות אלה לא באמת פותרות את הבעיות שהן טוענות שהן מטפלות בהן.
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הפרויקט הוא אישי וקהילתי במובן צר: לאנשים שרוצים לחשוב ברצינות, להיות מסוגלים לעשות זאת במסגרת יהודית באופן רציני באמת. היהדות תשרוד בצורה מושלמת עם אנשים שמלמדים קלישאות — זה כבר חיובי נטו.
נגד אלה שמפעילים סמכות רבנית (*”הרב אמר…”*) לתמיכה בתפיסת העולם הלא-רצינית: הרב ניסה לעזור לך, לא לאשר את הטיפשות שלך. גם אם הרבנים עצמם לא מבינים לגמרי את האלטרנטיבה, הם מייצגים משהו הרבה יותר עתיק ומנוסה מהנחות עכשוויות. זו היוריסטיקה שמרנית: אם רוב בני האדם במשך 3,000 שנה האמינו במשהו, זה לפחות שווה עיסוק רציני, גם אם הם טעו.
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אנשים שדוחים את המודרניות אך לא יכולים לנסח *למה* או *מה* לא בסדר. הם פשוט “האק קאפ”. שימושיים חברתית במידה שזה יוצר מרחב לאי-קבלה אוטומטית של רוח הזמן, אך לא מהותיים אינטלקטואלית. אין להם אפילו שאלות — רק צעקות, וזה לא טיעון.
מספר קטן מאוד שבאמת חושבים ומנסים לנסח מה לא בסדר. בהקשר היהודי כמעט אין מי שבאמת טוב בזה. כמה קתולים ואפילו כמה מ”האויבים שלנו” (אנשים שרוצים שנמות) יש להם תיאוריות שלמות וקוהרנטיות יותר של העולם מכל הוגה יהודי ידוע. ליהודים יש יותר *ערך* (תורה, מסורת) מכל אחד, אך חסרה להם תפיסת עולם רצינית ומנוסחת.
סוג 1 — הריאקציונרים: אנשים שאומרים “פשוט תעשה מה שתמיד עשינו” ו”הכל בחוץ רע”. הם לא באמת עושים מה שתמיד נעשה, והם לא יכולים להסביר מה “בחוץ” אומר או מה “רע” אומר. המחשה: “סבתא רבתא שלי לא נהגה כי לא היו מכוניות בעיירה שלה, אבל אני חושב שגם אשתי לא צריכה לנהוג מאותה סיבה.”
סוג 2 — היהודים ה”חכמים” (ה”טיפשים”): המתוחכמים שהגיעו למסקנה שאתיקת התורה מתיישרת בצורה מושלמת עם מאמרי המערכת של הניו יורק טיימס. גרסה קיימת כעת שמיישרת את התורה עם שמרנות בסגנון ברייטבארט — גם ריאקציונרית ושטחית, אם כי לא לגמרי טיפשית.
הביקורת העמוקה ביותר מכוונת לאלה הנחשבים לאינטלקטואלים יהודיים רציניים. למרות התחכום שלהם, כל אחד מהם מקבל כל מחויבות אנטי-מטאפיזית של תפיסת העולם המודרנית. הם רק מנסים לעבוד *בתוכה*. הם לא מאתגרים את היסודות שלה.
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אבחנה קונקרטית: האם אתה מאמין במלאכים (*מלאכים*)?
– אף הוגה יהודי קדם-מודרני *לא* מאמין במלאכים.
– אף הוגה יהודי מודרני *כן*.
– אם אנג’לולוגיה היא חלק חשוב מהיהדות שלך, אתה “יהודי עתיק”.
– *מקובלים* מודרניים נדחים כ”בכלל לא מקובלים” — הם מצמצמים הכל לפסיכולוגיה, וזה שטות.
– מלאכים אינם פסיכולוגיה. הם לא רק מצבים פנימיים או חלקים מהנשמה.
– מלאכים הם ישויות ביניים — שליחים מאלוקים לאדם ומהאדם לאלוקים (מתייחס לסימפוזיון על תפקי
ד ה*דיימונים* כמתווכים).
– מלאכים הם חיצוניים למוח. יש להם קיום עצמאי. הם גדולים מהפרט וקיימים לפני ובאופן עצמאי מהאדם.
– מחשבה קיימת *בגללך*. מלאך הוא משהו שאתה עשוי להתקיים *בגללו* — הוא קודם לך ואינו נוצר על ידי התודעה שלך.
– הרמב”ם מאמין במלאכים — ולא חושב שהם דברים בראש שלך. גם כשהוא מזהה אותם כשכלים, הם ישויות אמיתיות שבלעדיהן העולם לא הגיוני.
– הם לא אלוקים, והם לא אנחנו חושבים על אלוקים. הם תופסים מרחב אונטולוגי אמצעי אמיתי.
– הם לא נעלמים כשאתה עוצם עיניים — הם נמשכים גם אם אתה מת.
– פרטים פיזיים (כנפיים וכו’) הם משניים ושנויים במחלוקת; הנקודה האונטולוגית היא מה שחשוב.
אם אין ישויות מתווכות אמיתיות בין אלוקים לעולם, אז כל הארכיטקטורה המטאפיזית היהודית הקלאסית קורסת. העובדה שאף הוגה יהודי מודרני לא שומר על אמונה ב*מלאכים* אמיתיים מוכיחה שכל העולם האינטלקטואלי היהודי המודרני — שמאל, ימין, ריאקציונרי, מתוחכם — כבר ויתר על המשחק למחויבויות האנטי-מטאפיזיות של המודרניות.
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– סוג 1 (יהודים פרומים): אומרים שהם מאמינים במלאכים אך אין להם קשר חוויתי או אינטלקטואלי איתם. אליהו הנביא לא בא אליהם כי “הוא לא אוהב לדבר עם *משוגעים*.”
– סוג 2 (יהודים מודרניים/חילוניים): אליהו לא בא אליהם כי הם לא מאמינים בו, מה שהופך את הגעתו לבלתי אפשרית לוגית.
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המטרה היא ליצור בית ספר של אנשים שבאמת מאמינים במלאכים — לא בגלל “שכתוב כך בתורה”. נעשה הבחנה חדה בין להאמין בדבר ולהאמין בטקסט שמזכיר את הדבר. עולם בית יעקב “מאמין ב*שדים*” רק בגלל שהגמרא אומרת כך — אבל אם מישהו היה טוען שהוא בפועל *ראה* שד, כולם היו צוחקים. זה מוכיח שהם לא באמת מאמינים בשדים; הם מאמינים בסמכות הגמרא. באופן דומה, “להאמין במלאכים כי זו מצווה להאמין” הוא אחד מ”הפתרונות המודרניים המוזרים” שמצמצם הכל לחובה טקסטואלית. זה לא מספיק.
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החזון איש מזוהה כאחד האנשים היחידים במאה השנים האחרונות שבאמת עסק בפעילות של חשיבה. עם זאת, בהיותו פרום, הוא גם “לכן משוגע” — כלומר החשיבה שלו היא לסירוגין: שורה אחת של מחשבה אמיתית ואחריה נסיגה ל”כתוב בהיילגע תורה.”
הקושי טמון בהבחנה מתי החזון איש באמת חושב לעומת שימוש בקיצור דרך של סמכות. לפעמים מה שנראה כמו פנייה גרידא לסמכות עשוי להכיל מחשבה שהקורא לא תפס. ספרו (*אמונה ובטחון*) הוא לא שלם, לא מפותח — הוא מזהה בעיות אמיתיות אך אז “סוגר אותן עם איזה אני מאמין מוזר.” גם בהלכה, החזון איש לעתים קרובות יש לו תובנה מבריקה אך אז “קופץ” — הטיעון שלו יכול ללכת לשני הכיוונים והוא לא שם לב, או שהוא לא ממשיך עד הסוף.
ישיבות לא מלמדות חשיבה. הן מלמדות אותך לסדר מחשבות של אנשים אחרים בסדר הנכון (*הכי דידס*). החזון איש בפועל משתמש בספרים ובסמכות ככלי מחשבה, לא רק כמקורות לחזור עליהם. הוא מנסה לחשוב עד שהוא מסכים עם מה שהטקסט אומר, או עד שהוא מאמין בזה — והוא דן בשיטה זו במפורש.
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תלמיד מעלה את המשך חכמה כדוגמה נגדית אפשרית. המשך חכמה אומר “*פשטים* טובים מאוד”, אבל פשטים אינם חשיבה. הוא חכם, בעל השכלה רחבה, ונוגע בבעיות אמיתיות שאף אחד אחר לא נוגע בהן — אבל אין ראיה ל*חשיבה* אמיתית בעבודתו.
קריטריון מפתח: המשך חכמה אף פעם לא אומר “*צריך עיון*” על עניין בסיסי, מעורר תמיהה באמת. הוא אף פעם לא מראה את עצמו תקוע. לעומת זאת, מורה נבוכים (מדריך הרמב”ם) כן חושב — מעיד על כך שאלות פתוחות, רגעי היסוס (*מגמגם*), ומתחים בלתי פתורים. הרמב”ם לפעמים “כבד פה וכבד לשון” — נאבק באמת.
הוגה שעוטף כל שיעור בצורה מושלמת — מתחיל עם 17 שאלות ועונה על כל 17 — הוא בלפן. הוגה אמיתי יהיה לו לפחות שאלה אחת שהוא באמת לא יכול לענות עליה. הדפוס של החזון איש — שורה אחת של מחשבה אמיתית ואחריה שורה שלא באמת עונה עליה — הוא עצמו סימן לאותנטיות. הוא כעס על עצמו ונסוג לאני מאמין.
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מורים שחושבים לשורה אחת ואז נסוגים לסמכות הם לא פשוט משקרים לעצמם. הם פרומים, הם מפחדים — אבל יש גם חכמה מסוימת בזה, כי אנשים שלוקחים מחשבה אחת ו”פשוט רצים איתה” דרך כל המסקנות שלה הם לעתים קרובות חד-ממדיים וטיפשים.
בלוגרים רציונליסטים מצוטטים כדוגמאות: היה להם “מחשבה אחת או רבע מחשבה” ועקבו אחרי כל מסקנה ממנה. אבל “חכמה בסיסית היא שיש צד אחר.” כשהוגה פרום אומר “זה נראה נכון כשורת חשיבה אמיתית, אבל כתוב בתורה [אחרת],” הפרשנות הנדיבה: “אני לא הראשון שחושב בעולם; משה רבינו גם חשב; אז לעת עתה אני פשוט אמשיך הלאה.”
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תלמיד מאתגר את ההעדפה של העתיק על המודרני. התגובה: “חס ושלום” — העתיקים מודגשים רק בגלל שהתלמידים כל כך תקועים בהנחות מודרניות שצריך “האק א קאפ” כדי לעקור אותם. זה עניין של איזון, לא דחייה אמיתית של המודרניות. הוגים מודרניים הם “מאוד רציניים”, אבל כל הטיעונים שלהם כבר נמצאים באפלטון. הם לא המציאו טיעונים חדשים; הם לקחו צד אחד ורצו איתו. המסגור עתיק-מול-מודרני הוא “לא באמת המסגור הטוב ביותר” וכנראה צריך להיות נטוש — אבל זה הכרחי פרגמטית בהתחשב בכמה קשה לתקשר את הרעיונות האלה.
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המסגור ההיסטורי (מעקב אחר רעיונות דרך תקופות ותנועות) הוא לא הדרך האידיאלית להציג את הרעיונות האלה. כל הטיעונים היסודיים כבר היו קיימים בעת העתיקה — באפלטון, בנרטיב של התורה עצמה (טיעוני השטן לאדם הראשון), ולאורך טקסטים עתיקים. הוגים מודרניים (דקארט וכו’) מוצגים באופן שגרתי על ידי אקדמאים כמי שצפו על ידי קודמים. הנרטיב ההיסטורי הוא רק פיגום פדגוגי — מסגרת שאנשים כבר יש להם בראש — שעוזרת לתלמידים לתפוס מה קורה.
אקדמאים מודרניים משחקים כל הזמן את המשחק של הצגה שרעיונות שלכאורה חדשניים צפו מאות שנים קודם לכן, ומה שנכתב הוא רק שבריר ממה שנחשב ונאמר בחברות שלמות.
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החזון איש מציג רגעים של בהירות יוצאת דופן בחשיבה, אך אז חוזר מעת לעת לעמדות ברירת מחדל — לא בגלל שהוא טיפש, אלא בגלל שאפילו הוגים אמיתיים נמשכים בחזרה על ידי כוח המשיכה של הסביבה שלהם. זה ממוסגר כיצר הטוב “מתעורר” ומפריע לבהירות של יצר הרע (היפוך של המסגור הרגיל). אנשים רבים ש”חושבים בעצמם” באמת רק חוזרים על מה שהניו יורק טיימס רוצה שהם יחשבו, או שהם רק קונטרריאנים שבאופן רפלקסיבי לוקחים את העמדה ההפוכה. אף אחד מהם אינו מחשבה רצינית. *הפוליטיקה* של אריסטו על עבדות — שלושה פרקים עם טיעונים חזקים משני הצדדים — ממחיש שאם אתה חושב שאחד מהצדדים “ברור”, אתה לא חושב ברצינות.
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1. חסרה לו התמונה העתיקה המלאה. למרות הבריקות שלו, לחזון איש אין גישה או שליטה במסגרת האינטלקטואלית העתיקה השלמה. זה מוביל לתסכול גלוי בכתביו — הוא לא יכול להסביר הכל באופן מלא כי חסרים חלקים.
2. התיקונים שלו לשימור אמונות ישנות חלשים. כשהחזון איש מנסה לטלאי את הפערים במסגרת שלו כדי לשמור על עמדות מסורתיות, הפתרונות הם “מאוד טיפשיים”. המושג של ציווי (ציווי אלוהי) מסומן כהגרוע ביותר מהתיקונים האלה — מנגנון גס שמופעל כדי להחזיק דברים ביחד שלא עומד בביקורת רצינית.
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ההנחה המודרנית המרכזית: מה שחשוב הוא רק מה שבלב שלך. הביטוי התלמודי *רחמנא ליבא בעי* (“אלוקים רוצה את הלב”) נתפס כטקסט הוכחה כי הוא מתאים בצורה מושלמת להטיות מודרניות. זה לא רציני — לקחת הצהרה בת שלוש מילים ולקרוא לתוכה את כל ההנחות של המודרניות.
– החסידים טוענים: יש לנו את הלב הטוב ביותר, אז אנחנו מנצחים.
– בעלי המוסר טוענים: יש לנו הבנה שונה ומעודנת יותר של הלב, אבל אותו מהלך בסיסי — פנימיות היא מה שחשוב.
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הרומן של חיים גראדע *הישיבה* מוצג כטקסט מפתח להבנת תפיסת העולם של החזון איש. גראדע היה *חברותא* וחבר של החזון איש, וסופר מוכשר. החזון איש עצמו לא היה סופר טוב — הוא לא יכול היה לתאר דמויות ביעילות או להעביר את החזון שלו בצורה ספרותית. גראדע, לעומת זאת, יכול היה, והרומן שלו מתאר (תחת שם בדוי) את החזון איש ואת האנשים השונים סביבו עם הרעיונות הרדיקליים המתחרים שלהם על מה מהווה אדם טוב. הרומן מראה את החזון איש מנסה להחזיק במשהו עתיק מאוד תוך הכרה שהוא הרבה יותר מתוחכם ממה שבני דורו מציעים.
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אם אתה באמת קורא *שמועסן* של מוסר, הם אומרים כלום במשך עמודים שלמים. הם “פשטניים בצורה מטורפת”, חוזרים על עצמם, ומשעממים באופן משמעותי עמוק. ובכל זאת בעלי המוסר רואים את עצמם כאנשים החכמים והעמוקים ביותר בחיים — טוענים להבין את האנושות בעוד ש*ראשי הישיבה* רק חוזרים על אביי ורבא.
כל בעל מוסר “ששווה משהו” מאמין שהוא פיצח את הקוד של האדם. הגרסה המודרנית נקראת תורת הנפש (פסיכולוגיה של הנשמה). לאנשים האלה יש “חצי מרבע של תיאוריה” והם כל כך מתרשמים ממנה שהם כותבים כאילו גילו הכל. הם טוענים “להבין אנשים” אך מבינים כמעט כלום.
החזון איש — המחזיק גם במוח מהיר וגם באומץ אינטלקטואלי (שני המרכיבים החיוניים למחשבה רצינית) — מקשיב למאסטרים של המוסר האלה ומוצא אותם חסרים. ה”אלטער” מסביר איך אנשים מרמים את עצמם, אז כותב 14 כרכים על הטעיה עצמית, ותגובת החזון איש היא: “אוקיי, ועכשיו מה? מה אתה באמת אומר לי? ואתה לא מרמה את עצמך בזמן שאתה כותב את כל זה?”
השך על חושן משפט מכיל הבנה של האנושות “10,000 מייל יותר עמוקה” מהבנת אדוני המוסר של *נגיעות* (הטיה/אינטרס עצמי). חושן משפט הוא *כולו על* אנשים שמטעים את עצמם — מחלוקות על קודש מול חול, דיני *שוחד*, עדות ותביעות מתחרות. למסורת ההלכתית יש מודל הרבה יותר מתוחכם ומפורט של הטבע האנושי מאשר לבעל המוסר שרואה את עצמו נעלה על הלכה “גרידא”.
זה מתחבר למושג של נבל ברשות התורה: בעל המוסר חושב שהלכה היא לנמוכים רוחנית, בעוד ש*הוא* יש לו הבנה אמיתית. אבל בפועל, כשאתה באמת מתעסק עם *משגיח* מוסר במחלוקת אמיתית, הוא מתברר כ”הבחור הכי טיפש” וה”רשע הכי צדקני” — פשטני, יהיר, ובלי העומק שהוא טוען.
זו פתולוגיה רחבה יותר — אנשים שמאמינים שפיצחו את הקוד של הטבע האנושי. חלקם באמת גילו משהו; דמויות המוסר הנדונות “אפילו לא גילו בסיסי” — החוט נחתך.
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אופן הלימוד המובהק של החזון איש: הוא מבלה שעות מדי יום בקריאת תוספות, רמב”ם, שך — טקסטים משפטיים מורכבים. הוא לומד הלכה למעשה, לא באופן הבריסקאי של הפיכת הכל לפילוסופיה מופשטת. הוא קורא הלכה כפירוש על המצב האנושי — לא רק “מה הפסק” אלא מה זה מגלה על המורכבות של יחסים אנושיים. יורה דעה וחושן משפט בפרט נכנסים ל*קישקעס* (קרביים) של מה זה אומר להיות אדם. חיוני: אתה אף פעם לא יוצא מסוגיה כמו שנכנסת — לפחות עם החזון איש. תהליך הלימוד באמת משנה את ההבנה שלך, בניגוד לרוב האנשים שפשוט מאשרים את ההטיות הקיימות שלהם מראש.
כשהחזון איש מיישם גישה זו לנושאים כמו *ציצית* (*בין אדם למקום*), זה הופך “קצת מבלבל”, ויש שאלה האם המגבלה הזו נובעת מרקע חסידי. אבל למשפט בין אישי ואזרחי, העומק בלתי ניתן להכחשה.
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לפני שפותח ספר כלשהו, הוא כבר יודע מה ה*פסק* צריך להיות. יש לו *שכל הישר*, מבין את ה*דעת* (רוח החוק), ומוצא את התשובה שמתאימה. האנשים האלה בדרך כלל הגיוניים, לפחות לאלה שחושבים באופן דומה.
גישה זו אומרת שאפשרות 1 היא רק הקרנת ההטיות שלך על התורה. השיטה הנכונה היא שתהיה לך אין תפיסה מוקדמת — אתה פותח את השולחן ערוך ופוסק לפי מה שכתוב, נקודה.
– כמובן שאתה נכנס עם דעה — אחרת אתה לא אדם. וכמובן שסמכות טקסטואלית חשובה — אתה לא יכול פשוט לעקוף את הפוסקים.
– אבל אף אחד מאלה לא מה שלימוד באמת הוא. אם זה היה רק אפשרות 1, רב חכם יכול היה פשוט להכריז על הפסק שלו ולבקש ממישהו לכתוב תשובה אחר כך. אם זה היה רק אפשרות 2, אתה יכול לחפש את הערות השוליים בפסקי תשובות ולסיים.
– הנקודה האמיתית של לימוד: אתה נכנס עם האינטואיציה שלך (סברא), ואז הגמרא מראה לך שהיא גם שקלה את הרעיון שלך — אבל אז זווית שנייה, שלישית, רביעית. אחרי שעברת את הסוגיה עם תוספות, יש לך ארבע עשרה דרכים שונות לחשוב, לא ארבע עשרה סמכויות לשקול. המוח שלך נפתח באמת.
– התוצאה: “עכשיו אני באמת לא יודע מה לעשות” — ו*זה* כשחשיבה אמיתית מתחילה, כי אתה חייב לנווט במורכבות אמיתית.
אנשים טועים וחושבים שסברות (טיעונים ל
וגיים/אינטואיציות) הן “דברים בראש שלך”. הן תיאורים של המציאות. כל שיטה במסורת מתאימה לזווית אמיתית על המציאות שפספסת בגלל הביטחון הראשוני שלך. החזון איש קורא את כל ההיסטוריה של השיח ההלכתי בדרך זו: כל דעה מלמדת אותו משהו על המציאות. אין לו “אמונה פשוטה” בכל אחרון — אם מישהו טועה, הוא אומר זאת. אבל הסמכויות שהוא סומך עליהן גורמות לו לחשוב, והוא יוצא מהסוגיה עם הבנה יותר מתוחכמת, לא יותר מבולבלת. לעומת זאת, אנשים רבים מתחילים עם תיאוריה טובה ומסיימים מבולבלים כי הם מערימים סמכויות מבלי לשלב אותן.
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אנשים ש”מזלזלים” בלימוד מניחים שהמודל היחיד של לימוד הוא המודל המבוסס על סמכות (אפשרות 2). לכן הם מסיקים: “אנחנו לא צריכים את זה; אנחנו פשוט אנשים טובים.” התגובה: “אתם לא אנשים טובים.” אתם לא מבינים שבריר ממה שגורם לאדם לתפקד בהשוואה למה שהשולחן ערוך מבין. השולחן ערוך פשוט טוב יותר.
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יש הטיה אישית לתחושה ש*בין אדם לחברו* לא באמת חשוב כל כך. אבל אותו טיעון חל שם.
אנשים חושבים שהם יודעים מה זה שבת: “אתה נח.” אבל אם לוחצים עליהם להגדיר מנוחה, הם לא יכולים. הלכות שבת מכילות הבנה פי ארבעה עשר יותר עמוקה ומסובכת של מהי מנוחה — כזו שמתאימה למציאות. ההלכה שואלת: מה אנשים בפועל עושים כשהם עובדים? כשהם נחים? כשהם חושבים שהם נחים אבל באמת עובדים בראש שלהם? מסקנה: להלכה יש תפיסה הרבה יותר מתוחכמת של המציאות מ”כל העולמות האלה, כל ספרי החסידות ביחד.”
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אנשים קוראים את האר”י ורואים תיאורים טכניים של 17,000 רמות של עולם היצירה. הם מוצאים את זה משעמם. אז הם פונים לרמח”ל או דמויות דומות שאומרות: “זה הכל משל. הנמשל הוא: תהיה אדם טוב. חסד פירושו שאלוקים עושה דברים שאתה אוהב; דין פירושו שאלוקים עושה דברים שאתה לא אוהב. האר”י רק סיבך את זה.”
“אני לא יודע אם מסגרת המשל-נמשל שלך נכונה, אבל אני יודע דבר אחד — האר”י היה הרבה יותר חכם ממך.” לתיאוריה של העולם של הפשטנים יש שניים או שלושה משתנים. לתיאוריה של האר”י יש 17 מיליון משתנים. הוא פשוט הרבה יותר קרוב למורכבות של המציאות בפועל. גם אם תקוות “תיאוריית הכל” היא לצמצם דברים לחמישה עקרונות, לפרט אותם דורש מיליוני משתנים. אתה לא יכול לחשב את העולם האמיתי בלעדיהם. הפשטנים חושבים שהם החכמים והאר”י היה הטכנאי הנאיבי. “אתה פשוט טיפש. אתה מפשט עד כדי כך שזה אפילו לא מעניין.” הסתייגות: אולי 17,000 המשתנים הספציפיים של האר”י הם כולם פנטזיה והמשתנים האמיתיים שונים — אבל השיטה שלו לגשת למציאות עם רמת התחכום הזו היא הרבה יותר מעולה.
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מה שהחזון איש בפועל אומר: “אתה אפיקורס. אתה חושב שאתה הולך עם השכל שלך, אבל התורה אומרת את ההיפך מהשכל שלך.” מה שהחזון איש באמת מתכוון: “אתה טיפש.” אין לו סבלנות להסביר *למה* השכל שלך בסיסי, אז הוא פשוט קורא לך אפיקורס. “זה הרבה יותר גרוע להיות טיפש מאשר להיות אפיקורס.”
הביקורת האמיתית של החזון איש על המוסר: הם גילו את המושג של נגיעה (הטיה אישית) וחשבו שמצאו את המפתח להכל. “כן, לאנשים יש נגיעה, תודה רבה. זה הכל? זה מסביר הכל? לא, זה מסביר כמעט כלום.” כשאנשים בגיל מסוים מגלים מושג פשוט בפעם הראשונה, הם חושבים שגילו את העולם. אדם צעיר שומע את זה ואומר, “אוקיי, ואז מה?” — וכל העניין נשרף.
ספר (אולי ספר מודרני על הטיה קוגניטיבית) נמצא מעניין אך לא יכול היה לבנות חיים סביבו. אפילו פסיכולוגים מקצועיים שבילו 30 שנה בלימוד הטיה הגיעו לתיאוריות שגם התבררו כשגויות. הלכה, שכולם שמחים לדחות כלא מתוחכמת, בפועל מכילה חשיבה הרבה יותר עמוקה על העניינים האלה.
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החזון איש אומר: “ההלכה היא מה שאלוקים רוצה ממך.” ההתנגדות: “מה? מאיפה אתה מביא את זה? למה אתה בכלל צריך את זה?” הלכה היא פשוט תוצר של אנשים שחשבו יותר זמן ויותר ברצינות על המקרים האלה ממה שאתה עשית. אתה לא צריך את הטענה התיאולוגית כדי להצדיק את הסמכות של ההלכה. כשהחזון איש עושה את המהלך התיאולוגי הזה, הוא עוסק בדמגוגיה — וכאן הדרכים מתפצלות.
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קטע ספציפי מהחזון איש (*פרק ד’, הלכה ה’*) ממחיש נקודה רחבה יותר על אחדות המידות:
החזון איש מתאר מקרה נפוץ: אדם שרואה את עצמו כ*צדיק* גדול מכיר שיש לו בעיות *בין אדם לחברו* (מידות רעות), אבל מאמין שלפחות יש לו *יראת שמים* אמיתית. מקרה המבחן: האיש הזה נקרא ל*עלייה לתורה*, אבל מסרב לעלות כי העלייה המוצעת אינה מכובדת מספיק — הוא מקבל רק *שלישי* או יותר.
ביקורת החזון איש: הגמרא קובעת במפורש (*”ואויבי ה’ יכלו”*) שמי שנקרא לעלייה ומסרב הוא *מבזה דבר ה’*. כבוד התורה עולה על כבוד אישי. האיש הזה לגמרי תחת שלטון היצר הרע (*תחת שלטון היצר הרע*). הדתיות הנראית שלו — קניית המצה היקרה ביותר וכו’ — היא רק הרגל, לא *יראת שמים* אמיתית. ברגע שמתעורר כל קונפליקט אמיתי בין האגו שלו לבין חובה הלכתית, האגו מנצח.
המטרה העמוקה יותר: החזון איש תוקף את הטענה הסטנדרטית של המוסר שאנשים יכולים להיות *מושלמים* ב*בין אדם למקום* בעוד שהם חסרים ב*בין אדם לחברו*. הוא טוען שהדיכוטומיה הזו שקרית — האדם שנכשל בין אישית גם חסר *יראת שמים* אמיתית. המידות מאוחדות.
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החזון איש מציג את המקרה כדיכוטומיה נקייה: ההלכה אומרת בבירור שאתה חייב לעלות; האיש לא עולה; לכן חסרה לו *יראת שמים*. אבל ההלכה לא כל כך ברורה. זו בדיוק הנקודה על טבע ההלכה: היא המערכת המשפטית הכי לא דוגמטית שאפשר לדמיין. תמיד יש הסתייגויות, חריגים ושיקולים מצביים.
עליונות ההלכה טמונה בתשומת הלב שלה למורכבות ולפרטים של מצבים אמיתיים, לא בהיותה מערכת פורמליסטית נוקשה. החזון איש עצמו מבין זאת בעבודה ההלכתית בפועל שלו, אך כשהוא טוען פולמוסית נגד דמויות מסוג המוסר, הוא נסוג לרטוריקה של “ההלכה בבירור נגדך.”
מה אם האיש באמת הוא אדם *חשוב* שכבודו קשור לתורה? מה אם להיקרא לעלייה הלא נכונה בפועל מעלה שאלה הלכתית לגיטימית על *כבוד התורה*? זה באמת אפשרי שהפסק ההלכתי הנכון הוא שאדם כזה לא צריך לעלות — ש*כבוד התורה* שלו דורש להמתין לעלייה המתאימה.
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תמיכה טקסטואלית מרכזית באה מהרמב”ם, הבנויה סביב הגמרא המפורסמת במסכת נדרים:
*”מפני מה תלמידי חכמים אינם מצויין לצאת תלמידי חכמים מבניהם?”* — למה בניהם של תלמידי חכמים לא הופכים לתלמידי חכמים?
תשובה (רב יהודה בשם רב): *”שלא ברכו בתורה תחילה”* — כי הם לא “ברכו בתורה תחילה.”
פרשנות 1 (הרבי והחבר של הרמב”ם):
תלמידי חכמים התרשלו בלהיות *עולה לתורה* — הם חשבו שיש להם דברים טובים יותר לעשות (ללמוד משניות, גמרא), היו חסרי סבלנות ללכת לבימה, נשארו בבית וכו’. *הזלזול* הזה בתורה גרם לכך שבניהם לא הפכו לתלמידי חכמים. זה מתיישר עם עמדת החזון איש.
פרשנות 2 (השקפת הרמב”ם עצמו — “פאנקט פאכערט” / בדיוק ההיפך):
*”שלא ברכו בתורה תחילה”* פירושו שהם לא לקחו את העלייה הראשונה. ההלכה היא שכהן קורא ראשון, אבל זה חל רק כשכולם בעלי מעמד תורני שווה, או כולם *עמי הארץ*. כשיש *תלמיד חכם* אמיתי שהוא *ישראל* והכהן הוא *עם הארץ*, ה*תלמיד חכם* צריך לעלות ראשון. הרמב”ם מצטט את הנוהג של רב, שהיה עולה לפני הכהן בישיבה שלו, מה שמוכיח ש*”גדול התורה יותר מן הכהונה והמלכות.”* ובניו של רב הפכו ל*תלמידי חכמים*.
מסקנת הרמב”ם: אם *תלמיד חכם* מתכופף ל*כהן עם הארץ* ומקבל עלייה מאוחרת יותר (כמו *שלישי*), הוא מלמד במרומז את בניו שלהיות כהן חשוב יותר מתלמידות תורה. אל תתפלא כשהילדים לא הופכים לתלמידי חכמים.
הפשט של הרמב”ם הוא בדיוק ההיפך מעמדת החזון איש. לפי הרמב”ם, הבעיה אינה שהתלמיד חכם סירב עלייה מתוך יהירות — הבעיה היא שהוא קיבל עלייה פחותה מתוך ענווה כוזבת או כניעה, ובכך השפיל את כבוד התורה.
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*הלכה למעשה*, עמדת הרמב”ם לא יושמה במלואה — כהנים עדיין מקבלים את העלייה הראשונה. העניין נותר לא מוכרע (*לא ברור*). כלל המשנה של *דרכי שלום* מספק סיבה מעשית: בלי סדר קבוע מבוסס על כהונה, כל שבוע היה מתדרדר למריבות על מי הוא התלמיד חכם הגדול יותר. מערכת הכהנים נמנעת מזה — כולם יודעים שהכהן לא מקבל את העלייה בגלל המלומדות שלו.
המחשות הלכתיות נוספות של מורכבות ושיקול דעת מובנים:
– גבאי הסנהדרין יכול לפעול כראות עיניו — תחום בעלי הדעה.
– יש הלכה של “עושה השם” — של מי משתחווה ראשון לפני התורה.
– יש הלכה של “ומקום מטעי תחילה” — של דעת מי בפועל נכונה.
– תשובה לרמב”ם (המוזכרת דרך האגודה) ממחישה עוד יותר את המורכבות השכבתית הזו.
כל אלה מראים שבתוך ההלכה עצמה, יש עקרונות מתחרים שדורשים שיפוט, לא רק יישום כללים.
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דפוס חוזר: הפרקטיקה וההבנה ההלכתית בפועל של החזון איש היא מתוחכמת ורגישה להקשר. אבל הרטוריקה הפולמוסית שלו נגד המוסר והדתיות הפשטנית מסתמכת על הצגת ההלכה כמערכת ברורה ופורמליסטית שמניבה תשובות חד-משמעיות. זה יוצר מתח: התחכום ההלכתי שהחזון איש מגלם בעבודתו האמיתית סותר את השימוש הרטורי שהוא עושה בהלכה בטיעוני ביקורת המוסר שלו. סיפור העלייה הוא המחשה מושלמת: החזון איש מציג את זה כמקרה פתוח וסגור, אבל חקירה הלכתית רצינית (כולל תשובת הרמב”ם) מראה שהמסקנה ההפוכה לפחות ניתנת להגנה באותה מידה.
כשאתה משתמש בהלכה כרכב למוסר, אתה הופך הכל לגרוע יותר, כי:
– המוסר מניח שטוב הוא פשוט וברור.
– אנשים מניחים שההלכה צריכה לכן גם להיות פשוטה וברורה.
– אבל הלכה אינה ברורה — היא עמוקה מורכבת, רב-שכבתית ותלויית הקשר.
הדבר היחיד שיכול באמת לנווט במורכבות הזו הוא שכל הישר, או חכמה מעשית, או — בשימוש במונח האריסטוטלי — פרונזיס. ההלכה עצמה לא מייצרת אוטומטית את היכולת הזו; היא דורשת סוג של שיפוט שמתעלה על ציות לכללים.
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סתירה פנימית מתמשכת במחשבת החזון איש מופיעה בהקשרים רבים:
– מצד אחד, החזון איש מבין עמוקות שהלכה היא “נתונה למרא דהלכה” — היא לא מערכת כללים נוקשה אלא משהו שמופקד בשיפוט של הפוסק ההלכתי.
– מצד שני, כשהחזון איש מאמין שמשהו *הוא* ההלכה המוחלטת, הוא מתייחס לכל מי שלא מסכים כגובל באפיקורסות, כאילו הכלל היה ברור מאליו ומחייב בלי מרחב פרשני.
אכן יש עקרון הלכתי של הקשבה לבית הדין ול”שופט אשר יהיה בימים ההם”, אבל מי נחשב לשופט הסמכותי הזה הוא עצמו שאלה אנתרופולוגית/סוציולוגית, לא הלכתית מוכרעת.
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הטיעון הנכון נגד המוסר הוא לא ש”הלכה היא דבר ה’ והמוסר לא.” זה “דבר מאוד טיפשי.” הטיעון האמיתי צריך להיות:
– לתנועת המוסר: אתם חושבים שטוב הוא פשוט, שוכן ברצון ובמוח. אבל העולם הרבה יותר מסובך מזה.
– טוב הוא במעשים האמיתיים, שחייבים להתאים למה שהמוח אומר — אבל המוח עצמו מורכב יותר ממה שהמוסר מכיר. הוא כולל לא רק רצון אלא הבנה, הבחנה ושיפוט הקשרי.
– הלכה, כשמבינים אותה נכון, *היא* על העיסוק העשיר והמורכב יותר הזה עם המציאות. אז החזון איש צודק במהות — הלכה עדיפה על מוסר פשטני — אבל טועה בניסוח שלו.
לחזון איש חסרה השפה הפילוסופית לבטא את התובנה הזו, או אולי היו לו מחויבויות תיאולוגיות שמנעו ממנו לומר את זה. אז במקום לטעון מהמורכבות של המציאות וטבע הטוב, הוא נסוג לטענה ש“השם עשה את זה טוב” — שהלכה עדיפה פשוט כי היא רצון ה’ (רצון השם).
הניסוח הזה לא רק חלש פילוסופית אלא אפילו שגוי במונחים ההלכתיים שלו עצמו, מכיוון שיש עקרון הלכתי מוכר (א”צד”) ששיקולים מסוימים הם דוחים הלכה — הם עוקפים כללים הלכתיים קפדניים. אז אפילו בתוך המערכת ההלכתית, הטענה שהלכה היא תמיד המילה הסופית והפשוטה אינה ברת קיימא.
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סיפור שמסופר על החזון איש: מישהו דיווח שלמדן גדול אמר משהו שסותר פסק הלכתי מסוים. החזון איש הגיב (ביידיש): “הוא אכן גדול, אבל התורה אפילו גדולה יותר” (*איז טאקע זיי זיי גרויס, אבער די תורה איז נאך גרעסער*).
אולי כשהחזון איש מפעיל “רצון השם,” מה שהוא *באמת* מתכוון — ברמה העמוקה ביותר שלו — הוא שהמציאות של אלוקים היא הרבה יותר מורכבת ומתוחכמת מכל מוח אנושי יכול לתפוס. “נאך גרעסער” — אפילו גדולה יותר מהאינטלקט האנושי הגדול ביותר. החזון איש אולי *הבין באינטואיציה* בדיוק מה שנטען לאורך כל השיעור הזה (שהמציאות והטוב מורכבים יותר ממה שהמוסר מאפשר), אבל ביטא את זה בקיצור תיאולוגי (“רצון השם”) ולא בשפה פילוסופית.
תלמיד דוחף בחזרה, מציע שייחוס כל זה ל”רצון השם” הוא קריאת מסגרת פילוסופית לתוך החזון איש. התגובה: “אני חושב שרצון השם חכם יותר אפילו מזה” — כלומר המושג של החזון איש עצמו על רצון אלוהי עשוי להיות עשיר יותר מכל ניסוח פילוסופי בודד. זה מוכ
ר כמה שזה בדיוק מה שהחזון איש עצמו חשב על העניינים האלה.
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1. הקונצנזוס הקלאסי קבע שהאדם הטוב מוגדר על ידי תורה ומצוות (חכמה ומעשה) — חכמה ומעשים טובים ביחד.
2. קריסת הטלאולוגיה והריאליזם המוסרי שברה את סולם יעקב — המבנה המשלב בין אלוקים לעולם — ויצרה תגובות חד-ממדיות: חסידות (אלוקים בלי עולם), מוסר (עולם בלי אלוקים), ניהיליזם, או ציווי אלוהי.
3. המוסר הוא פשטני — הוא מצמצם טוב לרצון וכוונה, משטח את המורכבות של המציאות המוסרית וההלכתית. העוסקים בו טוענים להבין את הטבע האנושי אך מחזיקים רק בשבריר מהתובנה המוטמעת בספרות ההלכתית.
4. הלכה, כשמבינים אותה נכון, היא עשירה ומורכבת — היא דורשת פרונזיס/שכל הישר, לא ציות לכללים, ומכילה מודל הרבה יותר עמוק של הטבע האנושי מכל טקסט מוסר.
5. החזון איש צדק במהות שהלכה עדיפה על מוסר כמדריך לחיים הטובים.
6. אבל החזון איש טעה בניסוח — הסתמכותו על “רצון השם” כהצדקה, במקום טיעון מהמורכבות של המציאות והטוב, החלישה את עמדתו ואפילו סתרה עקרונות הלכתיים.
7. האירוניה העמוקה ביותר: החזון איש אולי הבין את כל זה באינטואיציה אך חסרה לו — או בחר לא להשתמש — בשפה כדי לומר את זה כראוי. התורה היא “נאך גרעסער” — אפילו גדולה יותר — מכל ניסוח, כולל שלו עצמו.
מרצה: תן לי לראות אם הרב, איך קוראים לו, רוצה לשמוע. הדף הזה הוא חקירה של משהו שהתחלנו כאן. אמרת שזה בארף, אני חושב. זה היה עניין של לייקווד. הדף האחרון כאן שנתן את התיאוריה ההיסטורית של איך כולם התחילו את הדבר, העיקר הוא להרגיש טוב, שיהיו לך הרגשות הנכונים, אמרתי שנראה שרבי קרליץ כתב ספר בשם *חזון איש* [מתייחס לרבי אברהם ישעיה קרליץ, הידוע על שם שם ספרו]. בסוף, הוא כתב כמה פרקים על הרעיונות שלו על תיאולוגיה, שנקראים *אמונה ובטחון ועוד* – זה באמת *אמונה ובטחון ומוסר*, אני לא יודע למה הם דילגו על המילה האחרונה – זה על הנושאים. אני לא יודע איך הוא קרא לזה.
ושמתי לב שהוא ניסה לבטא את התיאוריה שלפני הבעל שם טוב, או לפני עמנואל קאנט, או לפני דייוויד יום – אותו רעיון – תיאוריה של איך להיות אדם טוב. זה מה שאמרתי, זוכר?
עכשיו, מה שאתה אומר, מה שאמרת לי היום, ומה שאני אומר, זה שזה מאוד חשוב לשים לב לזה. וזה משהו שאתה צריך לשים לב אליו. וזו דרך נוספת לומר את אותו הדבר שדיברנו עליו אז. דיברנו על פרט אחד שלו, או על מקרה אחד שלו.
מרצה: איך יש את זה – בוא נגיד את זה בדרך שה*חזון איש* היה אומר את זה, או בדרך שהליטאי היה אומר את זה – שיש גרסה ישנה על מה זה אדם טוב, שזה אותו דבר כמו מה זה יהודי טוב, נכון? מי הוא האדם האידיאלי?
כל המסורת היהודית, עד נקודה מסוימת, כולם מסכימים על זה, או כמעט כולם מסכימים על זה. אני חושב שזה יותר מסובך מזה, אבל בסדר, כולם מסכימים על זה. והאדם האידיאלי הזה נקרא – הממ – הוא אמר שזה נקרא *תלמיד חכם*.
ה*חזון איש* – כולם ידעו עד הבעל שם טוב, או הבעל סלנטר [רבי ישראל סלנטר, מייסד תנועת המוסר] – כולם ידעו שהבחור הכי גדול בסביבה הוא *תלמיד חכם*. זה מה שכתוב בגמרא, במדרש, בכל מקום.
תלמיד: *חכם*?
מרצה: כן, *תלמיד חכם* זה מוזר… אנחנו יכולים ללכת ל*שיין* [אולי מתייחס למקור ספציפי] ואני אגלה על זה.
תלמיד: לא *נביא*?
מרצה: לא הרבה דברים. לא, אני לא יודע. לכן אמרתי שזה יותר מסובך כשאתה מתחיל לומר, לא פילוסוף, לא *נביא*. אני לא בטוח שזה נכון, כי זה אולי כולל את הדברים האלה. מה שלא זה איזה אירוע.
יש לך, מאוד ברור, אני חושב שאי אפשר לערער על זה ואני לא חושב שיש אפילו ויכוח על זה. אתה יכול לשאול משהו אחר. אתה יכול לומר, *תלמיד חכם*, או *תלמיד חכם* יהיה גם זה, או שיש עוד סוג של יהודי טוב, אדם טוב, שהוא *בעל מעשים*.
מרצה: או שאתה עושה תורה או שאתה עושה מצוות. זה שני הדברים. או תורה או מצוות. נקרא בחז”ל בדרך כלל *חכמה ומעשה*. או שאתה עושה תורה, לומד תורה, *חכמה* – אתה יכול לכלול *נבואה* ופילוסופיה והכל בזה אם אתה באמת רוצה. אני לא חושב *תלמיד חכם* – אם כי ה*חזון איש* אולי, כן, חושב שזה מסובך – ואו מצוה, מישהו שעושה מצוות.
זה מה שכל יהודי אי פעם חשב שזה אדם טוב. ובאופן אידיאלי שניהם, אבל בסדר, לפעמים אנשים מדגישים את זה, לפעמים הם מדגישים את זה, בסדר.
מרצה: עכשיו, פתאום בא הבעל שם טוב [מייסד החסידות], או באים *בעלי מוסר*, תנועת המוסר, כביכול, והם מגיעים עם אידיאלים חדשים של מה זה אדם טוב. מאוד מפורשות, לא האידיאל הזה.
הם אומרים, לא, אדם טוב, מה החסידים אומרים? מי הוא אדם טוב? מישהו שיש לו *דבקות*. זה מה שהחסידים אומרים. אם אין לך *דבקות*, אתה יכול לעשות כמה שאתה רוצה. לא אכפת לנו ממך. זה מה שהם אומרים, מאוד מפורשות. והם מאוד מודעים, למעשה, לזה, שהם הולכים נגד מה שכולם עד לפניהם ואחריהם, כאילו, לא חשבו ככה.
מרצה: [החתם סופר] היה יהודי ישן. הוא לא היה *מתנגד*. אתה רואה, זה לא אומר להיות *מתנגד*. זה מאוד ברור. לחסידים יש את הדבר המוזר הזה שהעולם מתחלק לחסידים ו*מתנגדים*, אבל הוא לא. הוא מתחלק לאנשים רגילים וחסידים ו*מתנגדים*. *מתנגד* זה גם משוגע, כאילו הוא כבר נגד.
תלמיד: נגד.
מרצה: *מתנגד* זה עוד… זו כזו…
תלמיד: עוד סוג חדש של דבר, נכון?
מרצה: זו כזו מילה רעה.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אתה קיים כדי ללכת נגדנו.
תלמיד: נכון.
מרצה: אז יש ישן, פשוט יהדות מיושנת, או אתיקה מיושנת, שהיא, אדם טוב הוא מישהו שעושה תורה ומצוות, באופן אידיאלי שניהם. של, אולי תורה יותר ממצוות, אולי מצוה יותר מתורה, יש דיונים על זה, אבל זה מה שזה.
מרצה: אז בא הבעל שם טוב, והם אומרים, לא, אדם טוב, אדם אידיאלי, האדם הכי טוב, הוא זה שיש לו *דבקות*. מי יודע מה זה *דבקות*, אבל זה משהו שזה לא תורה ומצוות, זה בטוח. כן, תורה ומצוות מובילות לזה, תורה ומצוות הן בשביל זה, כל מיני *נשתתיק לך*, תורה, אבל זה לא זה.
באותה דרך, בדרך דומה בא, בדרך דומה בא, אם מישהו שנולד אצל חסידים יש לו *סמגדוס* כשאני אומר את זה, אבל זה בגלל שהם מאוד רגילים לכל אלה מסוג זה, זה כאילו, לכן, אין שום דבר יותר ברור מזה, שחסידים מגיעים עם דרך חדשה להגדיר מי הוא האדם הכי טוב.
והם אפילו מודים בזה, זה רק שחסידים מאוד רגילים לאפולוגטיקה מוזרה. הם כאילו, כן, אבל היה איזה *צדיק* פעם אנחנו יכולים למצוא במשנה שהיה, לא ידע איך ללמוד, אבל עדיין *צדיק* וכן הלאה. זה הכל הסחת דעת. אני לא יכול להיכנס לזה, אבל זה מאוד ברור, ולא יכול להיות שום דבר יותר ברור מזה.
עכשיו, הם אולי צודקים, תראה, הם אולי לא טועים, אבל זו שבירה מאוד ברורה.
מרצה: באותה דרך, או בדרך שונה, אבל בדרך דומה, ה*תלמידים* של רבי סלנטר, רבי ישראל סלנטר, ועוד כמה סלנטרים, הם באו ואמרו שלא אכפת להם אם אתה לא לומד, לא אכפת להם אם אתה עושה מצוות, אכפת להם ממשהו חדש שנקרא להיות מענטש. זה עניין ה*בעל מוסר*.
לא אכפת לנו מזה. כלומר, כמובן שאכפת לנו. כמובן שאכפת לנו. אבל בסופו של דבר, את מי אנחנו מכבדים? את מי אנחנו חושבים שהוא האדם האידיאלי שמקבל שבחים? מישהו שהוא מענטש, שיש לו *מידות* טובות, מתנהג כמו מענטש. והם באים עם כל הסיפורים האלה, שלימוד זה לא מספיק, בלה בלה בלה, אתה צריך להיות בעל *מידות*.
הם מתכוונים שיש לו *יראת שמים*. אפילו משהו שה*בעל מוסר* בעצם כן מדגישים. לפחות חלקם, הם אומרים, *יראת שמים* ויש לו *מידות* טובות. בסדר. אבל זה עדיין סיפור מאוד שונה מהסיפור הישן על מישהו ש- זו העובדה, בסדר?
מרצה: עכשיו, כמובן, יש כמו אנשים כמו [לא ברור] שבאים ומנסים לומר מאוד, כאילו, עכשיו, אז עכשיו, בוא, בוא, בוא, בוא נסביר את זה. זה הסיפור.
עכשיו, בגרסה שלי, הדבר החדש הזה, ואלה שתי תנועות מודרניות, נכון? אולי יש, כולם אומרים שיש להם קודמים, יש תנועות פרה-מודרניות שאומרות דברים דומים. אני לא יודע, אולי כן, אולי לא, וזה לא באמת [מעניין] אותי כי אני לא באמת מאמין שזה סיפור היסטורי. אני פשוט באמת נותן סיפור מבני. יש רעיונות על זה. זה לא רק עובדה היסטורית.
אם כי, רעיונות כן נעשים יותר ופחות פופולריים לאורך ההיסטוריה, אבל זה לא על זה. אתה תמצא מישהו, ה*חובות הלבבות* אולי אמר את זה. אוקיי, אז הוא אותה בעיה. אני לא מכחיש שאולי היו אנשים לפני שאמרו דברים דומים.
מרצה: אבל מה שחשוב זה שאנחנו צריכים להבין את שתי התנועות המודרניות האלה. אני נותן את זה בגרסה המודרנית, התגלמות של סוג הבעיה הזה, כתגובות לאותה סוגיה, שהיא שהדרך המיושנת של כאילו אדם טוב, מישהו עושה תורה ומצוות, זו הגרסה היהודית של זה, נכון, או הגרסה העתיקה של זה.
מרצה: אני לא יודע איך דיברנו. איך אריסטו אמר, לא תורה ומצוות? שיש לו סגולות אינטלקטואליות ומעשיות, נכון? אותו דבר. אותו דבר עם פרטים קצת שונים על מה השכל ומה המעשים הטובים, אבל אותו רעיון.
מרצה: ועכשיו, מכיוון שמסיבות שונות, אנשים הפסיקו להבין את זה, הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים לומר את זה, הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים לחיות את זה, הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים להאמין בזה. אחת הסיבות שדיברנו עליה קשורה לטלאולוגיה וכן הלאה. אבל אני חושב שיש אפילו יותר סיבות. לכן, זו סיבה אחת מאוד בסיסית. להפסיק לראות טוב כדבר אמיתי, משהו שאינו תכונה של אנשים או פעילויות בעולם.
מרצה: אז לכן, אנחנו בסופו של דבר תקועים ומחפשים איזו דרך חדשה. עכשיו, או שאתה יכול להיות אידיאליסט. זה האמיתי, כאילו, הקו השטוח כאן, כאילו ברירת המחדל האמיתית עכשיו. אתה יכול להיות איזה בחור שחושב שהוא יודע מה הוא עושה, שהוא יכול לעשות מה שהוא רוצה. זו אופציה אחת, כמובן. מכיוון שכולנו מעמידים פנים שאנחנו דתיים, זו לא אופציה. אז אנחנו צריכים למצוא פתרון אחר.
מרצה: אז אחד הפתרונות היה לומר *דבקות*, מה שזה לא אומר, שזה בהחלט לא אותו דבר. זה משהו מאוד פנימי, נכון? כל הביקורת שיש לי על פנימיות יתר חלה על זה.
מרצה: או משהו גם, במובן מסוים, פנימי. אבל בכל מקרה, אני חושב שאנחנו גם נתקעים בעיקר בפנימיות, אפילו כשהם מדברים על להיות מענטש. לפחות האנשים שאני מכיר שעובדים במסורת שלהם בעיקר בסופו של דבר חושבים שהבחור שמרגיש, יש לו אמפתיה למישהו הוא *צדיק* יותר גדול מהבחור שבאמת מגייס כסף בשבילו.
אז הם נראים שבסופו של דבר מגיעים למקום מאוד דומה, אבל עם דברים שונים. הם לא באמת מאמינים באלוהים. זו ה*מלכות* המאוד שונה. תראה אותם, אנשים אחרים, נכון?
מרצה: מכיוון שדרך מאוד מוזרה נוספת לומר את זה היא הדרך הישנה מאוד שאמרנו את זה פעם על הסולם שנשבר, נכון? סולם יעקב. סולם יעקב נשבר, מה שאומר שאין יותר *מלאכים*. אף אחד לא מאמין ב*מלאכים*, נכון? יש סימן לזה, מה שאומר שאין שום דבר שגורם לעולם ולאלוהים לעבוד ביחד כסוג של יחידה, כסוג של דבר קוהרנטי, מובן.
מרצה: אז עכשיו, יש לך בעצם, או שאתה יכול להיות כלום, זה מה שאמרתי, או שאתה יכול להיצמד לאלוהים בכל זאת, אז אתה הורס את העולם, זו החסידות, או שאתה יכול להיצמד לעולם, איזו שלמות שניתן למצוא באיזו דרך מוזרה פנימית בעולם, ולהרוס את אלוהים, שזה מה שה*בעלי מוסר* עושים, הם לא באמת מאמינים באלוהים.
מרצה: או שאתה יכול למצוא דרך שלישית שהיא הרעיון של ציווי אלוהי שאני לא בטוח איזה אחד זה, זה אחד מאלה.
תלמיד: נראה לי שאנשים, החוט המשותף שאתה אומר, הם לא מאמינים בשום טוב אמיתי. הם לא מאמינים, הם לא נראים שמאמינים בשום מהות אמיתית בזה.
מרצה: כן, אין שום דבר שקיים. שום דבר לא קיים. אין, זה פשוט, הם מכורים, משהו כזה. כאילו, הם לא, אין שום…
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן. נכון. לכן, אם יש טוב, זה יכול להיות רק מוטל מבחוץ, שאלוהים נתן לזה משמעות, או אלוהים אמר לך לעשות. זה לא אומר…
מרצה: כן, כן. *חכמת הכלאם* זה זה, בדיוק, במובן מסוים. זה הסיפור. זה בא כסיפור הבסיסי שיש לנו.
עכשיו, חזרה למקום שבו אני נמצא. יש אנשים מסוימים שמאוד מנסים לומר לאנשים, כולם תקועים במעגלים שלהם, נתקעים כי יש להם כמות מאוד מוגבלת של אופציות ותמונה מאוד מוגבלת, מבט מאוד מוגבל על העולם, ולכן נתקעים באחת מהקיצוניות האלה.
כאילו, הכל רק על *דבקות*. אני לא רק אומר ש*דבקות* היא דבר רע, אבל אתה סוג של מכחיש, אתה הופך להיות כמו *מתנגד לעולם*, אתה הופך להיות כמו מה ששלינג אמר, אתה לא יכול לקבל שולחן שעומד על רגל אחת, הוא הולך ליפול מהר מאוד. באותה דרך עם להיות *מתנגד*, דברים כאלה. כולם הופכים לדברים קטנים מדי, דברים שלא באמת מקיפים את העושר והשונות של החיים.
זו הביקורת הגדולה האמיתית של אחת הבעיות הגדולות עם סוג הדבר הזה היא שהם הופכים מאוד חד-ממדיים, כאילו הכל הופך להיות על זה, ואז כל ממד אחר הוא רע, לא המקרה, בדרך כלל. זה בדרך כלל מה שקורה. ונראה, אם נגיע לזה, נראה בדיוק למה זה קורה, אבל זה מה שקורה.
ועכשיו, כמה אנשים, מעט מאוד אנשים, בעצם הצליחו לבטא התנגדות לזה. זה מאוד קשה לבטא התנגדות, במיוחד כשאתה עובד בתוך מבנה עולם, השקפת עולם, שהיא כבר הגורם לרוב הבעיות האלה. זו הבעיה.
תלמיד: גם, מה שרק אמרת, כי זה לא שהם בהכרח טועים, אבל הם חד-ממדיים. אז מה שאתה הולך לומר זה, לא, יש יותר. והם כאילו, זה יותר קשה להמציא את זה.
מרצה: כן, זה בעצם עושה את זה יותר קל, כי אז אנחנו חוזרים למה שהחכמה תמיד עשתה, שזה למצוא איך מה שאתה אומר הוא רק חלק מהסיפור. יש דרכים, אבל אתה צריך לעשות הרבה עבודה.
אז כמו שאמרתי, אנחנו יכולים לראות את כל הדרכים האלה כמנסות לשמור בחיים או להחיות מחדש, לעשות לכל מה שהסיפור העתיק הוא, מה שהסיפור האמיתי הוא, אבל יש קושי מאוד גדול מכיוון שלרוב האנשים אין אפילו את המילים שבתוכן אתה יכול לדבר את זה. אז אתה בסופו של דבר או מתרגם את עצמך אליהם ואז מאבד הרבה, או נלחם איתם, שזה גם דבר מאוד בעייתי, נכון?
כדי להיות מאוד ברור, להילחם עם העולם זה גם לא דרך מושלמת לחיות. כאילו להיות זה שתמיד מסביר שהכל מושחת והכל להיות *מתנגד* זה בעצמו דרך חיים, להיות זה שנגד כולם. וזו לא דרך טובה לחיות. זה בדרך כלל רע. בדרך כלל, גם, כי זה חד-ממדי, גם, כי זה לא באמת מתחשב באיך אנשים באמת הם ולמה הם באמת הם כמו שהם. אתה פשוט מבטל אותם באמירה, אה, אתה אחד מהאנשים המודרניים האלה. אתה כופר. זו לא דרך אמיתית להבין מה האדם הזה. ולכן, אתה מאבד קשר עם אנשים. יש הרבה רעות בזה. זה בעצמו לא דרך מאוד שימושית לחיות.
אז אתה צריך להחליט מה לעשות. יש לי בעצם מאוד מוזר…
אז עכשיו, כל ה*צדיקים* בעצם, כולם שלא רוצים פשוט להיכנע לניהיליזם, מחפשים דרך לפתור את הבעיה הזו. רובם עושים, כלומר, יש כל כך הרבה דרכים להתמודד עם זה.
אבל, אחד הדברים שהם עושים זה לנסות לדבר בשפה החדשה ואז אתה מאבד הרבה ויש אנשים שאפילו שוכחים. כמו שאנשים לא מבינים כמה, אנשים אומרים את זה על הרמב”ם, נכון, באופן מפורסם, ובמובן מסוים זה נכון, ובמובן אחר זה לא נכון כי אנשים חושבים את זה רק כדי להבין מה שקרה, אבל במובן מסוים, אתה יודע, אנשים אומרים את זה, אתה יודע, כשהרמב”ם תרגם, זה מה שהם אומרים, זה לא נכון, אבל הם אומרים שהרמב”ם תרגם את המחשבה היהודית לשפה של הפילוסופיה היוונית המוסלמית, וזה היה שלו עשיית יריד הצדיק, נכון? זה היה יריד הצדיק שיורד לקליפות כדי להציל את האנשים האחרים.
אבל אם אין לך את הבעיה הזאת, אז אנשים יכולים להגיע למסקנה. לכן, אם אתה לא חושב בשפה או מדבר פילוסופיה יוונית, אז אין לך שימוש ברמב”ם. כמו שהרב קוק אמר, כפסה אין צריך להדליקה. יש כמה מצוות שאם הן כפסה, אנחנו לא צריכים להדליק אותן מחדש, כי זה בכל מקרה היה רק דרך לדבר בשפה של כמה אנשים.
זה לא תיאור נכון של מה שהרמב”ם עשה, אבל זה עדיין מבנה אמיתי. אם אתה עושה את זה, אני חושב שהרבה אנשים לא מבינים כמה מהדברים שהם מאמינים. כמו, זה היהדות האמיתית. זה לא. זו הדרך האמיתית שבה איזה בחור ניסה להיות מחזיר בתשובה, אתה רוצה לדבר אליך בשפה שלך. אבל מישהו שאין לו את זה, זה אפילו יותר טוב. ואז, זו אופציה אחת. בסדר?
אנחנו לא מנסים, אנחנו מנסים לא לעשות את האופציה הזאת. זה שלי, הדבר שלי זה להפסיק לעשות את זה, כי, בעיקר לא מסיבות יהודיות, נכון? בעיקר כי השיטות האלה הן מטופשות. למה שננסה לדחוף את עצמנו לדרכים מאוד טיפשיות ודרכים מאוד לא שלמות של הבנת העולם רק בגלל שכולם חושבים ככה. זו לא סיבה מספיק טובה.
תלמיד: למה אתה מתכוון? למה לא צריך לדבר בשפה שאנחנו מדברים?
מורה: כן, כמו שיש אופציה. יש אופציה כזאת.
היום כולם מאמינים, זוכרים במה אנשים אמריקאים מאמינים? היה סוציולוג שאמר שכל האנשים באמריקה, לא משנה מאיזו דת הם, מאמינים במשהו שנקרא דאיזם טיפולי מוסרי. מה זה אומר? הם מאמינים באלוקים שלא באמת מעורב בעולם. הוא בעיקר גורם לך להרגיש טוב עם עצמך, והוא הופך אותך לאדם טוב. הוא הופך אותך לאדם טוב איך? אני לא יודע. הוא מאמין שאתה אדם טוב, לפחות.
תלמיד: כן. הוא גורם לך לחשוב שאתה אדם טוב.
מורה: אני לא יודע. אני לא יודע. תן צדקה. לפעמים עזור לשכן שלך. דברים בסיסיים. זה מה שכולם, בעצם, באמריקה מאמינים. ואם אתה מסתכל על כל ה… ואחד הספרים שנכתבו נקרא קתולי, פרוטסטנטי, יהודי, נכון? שלושת סוגי האנשים הדתיים באמריקה, כולם בעצם מאמינים בזה. הם רק שרים שירים שונים בכנסיות שלהם. ולפעמים הם אפילו לא שרים שירים שונים. אבל בעצם, זה כל מה שכולם מאמינים.
ואז אחד הדברים שהרבה רבנים עושים, ובכל גרסה, כמו שאתה יכול להגיד, בא ואמר לך שכוח החשיבה החיובית, וואו, חצי מחב”ד זה זה. חצי מחב”ד, כמו קירוב, כשהם מגיעים לתוכן. אני לא מדבר על המצוות או דברים כאלה. כמו הבחור הזה של ביטחון, הבחור של ביטחון, הבחור של ביטחון.
תלמיד: בחור הביטחון, אז בחור הביטחון הוא מאוד אמריקאי, זה נקרא חיוביות רעילה, תכונה אמריקאית מאוד.
מורה: כן, אתה מכיר את בחור הביטחון, הם שמים את זה בדפים. ביטחון שבועי, זה מה שזה.
תלמיד: לא, לא, זה לא רדיקלי, זה שונה, לא רדיקלי. הוא רק אומר, הוא רק מדבר על זה. הוא לא רדיקלי.
מורה: זה מה שהוא מנסה להגיד, הוא אומר שהוא מאמין בחיוביות רעילה.
תלמיד: אפשרי, אבל אני חושב שהוא יותר כן.
מורה: בסדר, הוא בחור ממש דתי. פעם חשבתי מה שאתה אומר, אני פשוט, קראתי את זה, אני כמו, זה פשוט חילוני.
תלמיד: כן, כל זה, זה כוח החשיבה החיובית. אתה יכול למצוא שאופרה מאמינה באותו דבר.
מורה: והרבה אחרים, בעצם כולם באמריקה מאמינים בזה. היא לא בסביבה יותר, לא משנה. אני לא יודע. כל האנשים האלה, כלומר, עכשיו יש דברים חדשים שמוכנים. אבל זה משהו שעדיין מאוד מקובל. ולכן, זה מה שאתה מלמד. ואתה אומר שזו היהדות. זה לא לא יהדות. כלומר, כן, אני בטוח שיש כמה מקורות לזה וקצת נכון. אבל זה דילול מאוד גדול.
וזה דבר מאוד גדול אז זה דבר אחד שאתה יכול לעשות או שאתה יכול אפילו אנשים חושבים שזה כל היידישקייט?
תלמיד: לנסות לעצב את זה ככל היידישקייט? רעיון אחד או סוף היידישקייט?
מורה: מה אמרנו, אל תהיה מתייאש, זוכר? בעצם זה. זה בעצם מה שהגילוי של יידישקייט, כן. לא מתייאש, זה כמו להיות קשה על עצמך. עכשיו אתה אומר, טראכט גוט וועט זיין גוט, זה הכל אחד, זה תלוי, זה שונה משאר. האמון האמריקאי הוא שהכל טוב, השם אוהב אותך, והוא צריך אותך, וכל זה. אבל ילדים, זה רק סוף של ספק.
אני לא מדבר עליך. אתה לא הלקוחות לסוגים האלה של דברים בכל מקרה אי פעם, אז אתה אפילו לא מבין את זה. אבל יש דרכים יותר מתוחכמות לעשות את זה שכן נדבקות אליך. דרכים קצת יותר מתוחכמות. ובכל דור, ובכל קבוצת אנשים, מה שהם באמת מאמינים בעצם, או באיזה מסגרת שהם באמת מאמינים.
דרך אגב, זה דבר מאוד גדול להפוך אנשים לאנשים טובים בתוך המסגרת שלהם כי זה מספיק קשה. זה מספיק קשה פשוט להמשיך להיות אנשים טובים נורמליים שמפרנסים את המשפחות שלהם ולא גונבים ולא הורגים. ופחות או יותר, זה מספיק קשה. זה הישג גדול אם אתה יכול לעשות את זה. אני לא כאן כדי לבזות מישהו שעושה את זה. אני חושב שזו עבודה אמיתית.
תלמיד: זה נחשב רף נמוך, בכל זאת?
מורה: לא, זה לא רף נמוך. אני חושב שזה הרבה. אני חושב שזה הרבה. אני חושב שזה הרבה. אני לא חושב ש, כמו שאמרתי, אתה צריך לזכור שברירת המחדל היא משהו הרבה יותר גרוע מזה. כל הקלישאות בעולם טובות יותר ממה שהם עושים בברוקלין, בסדר? אני לא יודע איפה זה עכשיו, כמו, מרכז היפסטרים, לא משנה. כל זה, כל זה, זה עדיין, זה הישג גדול, זה הרבה, אני לא חושב שזה מעט.
ושנית, כי אני חושב שיש ביקורת אמיתית שצריך להעלות, לא בגלל שירשנו את המסורת הזאת שאומרת דברים אחרים וכן הלאה. לא, לא, לא בגלל, תראה, אם אתה עוקב אחרי זה, אתה בסופו של דבר אומר שחצי מהדברים האמיתיים בתורה הם—אתה בסופו של דבר שהכל הוא בעיה, וכל הדברים בתורה שאמורים להיות טובים הם באמת רעים, וכל הדברים שנאמר שהם רעים הם באמת טובים, ולמה אנחנו בסופו של דבר עושים כל דרשה זה על פרשנות מחדש של מה שהתורה אומרת שהוא טוב. באמת התכוונתי לומר שזה רע. כשהתורה אומרת שמשהו רע, היא באמת התכוונה לומר שזה טוב. ומי אמר לנו מה באמת הולך להיות רע באמת? מערכת המערכת של הניו יורק טיימס.
אז, זה—אני אפילו לא אומר את זה, זה משהו שאני אומר לפעמים, אבל זה לא, אני אפילו לא אומר את זה. אפילו זה עדיין טוב יותר מלהיות אדם נורא שכבר מלא, אבל אני אומר משהו אחר. מה שאני אומר זה שבתור גוי, לא בתור ילד, מאוד חשוב, בתור גוי, בתור גוי שאוהב לחשוב באופן ביקורתי, או אפילו זו מילה שהם גנבו מאיתנו, אבל שאוהב לחשוב, תפיסת העולם הבסיסית הזאת שבתוכה כל האנשים האלה עובדים—היא מאוד מטופשת, לפחות לא שלמה. זה אפילו יותר גרוע מזה, אבל זה לפחות לא שלם. וזה לא רציני. זה בעצם לא רציני.
אני נותן לך את כל הסיבות למה אני חושב שזה לא רציני, אבל זה בעצם לא רציני. כלומר, זה מה שאני עושה כל שבוע. אני נותן לך את הסיבות למה אני חושב שזה לא רציני. זה לא רציני. אז, תשכח אם התורה אומרת את זה, או אם זה תואם, או שזה לא מתאים לתורה, התורה מתאימה לזה, התורה לא מתאימה לתורה. נכון? תשכח את השאלה.
האם הפתרון לכל שאלה שעולה בחינוך של הילדים שלך צריך להיות שיש מטפל שיודע את התשובה? חוץ מזה שזה לא טוב, אתה יודע, יש לנו ניסיון בחינוך של ילדים ובני נוער ומבוגרים כמו 5,000 שנה או כמה זמן, ואיכשהו הצלחנו לחיות בלי כל האנשים האלה. זה טיעון אחד מטופש. אבל חוץ מזה, זה פשוט לא רציני. הם לא באמת פותרים שום דבר.
אתה צריך להתקשר ל—זה לא הקטע הזה, בכל מקרה, נכון? אתה צריך להתקשר לבית הספר, למנהל, שכל פעם שיש לו ילד בעייתי שנשלח למטפל, אז אתה צריך לבקש מהם את כמה ילדים המטפל הזה באמת עזר. הם נותנים לך מספרים. כמו מתוך 70 אנשים שהיו להם בעיות, הם ראו את זה. אני לא מנסה לעזור. אתה עשוי להיות מנותק לרגע.
בסדר. עכשיו אתה נותן שאלות אחרות. אני רק אומר שהילדים לא רציניים. זה בעצם לא רציני. זו הבעיה העיקרית. אז יש לי בעיה אחרת שפשוט לא רצינית. האנשים האלה אף פעם לא באמת חשבו על מה הן בעיות אמיתיות, אף פעם לא חשבו על מה הפתרונות יכולים להיות. זה פשוט לא רציני.
אבל זו בעיה שיש לי עם המענטש שלנו. לכן, לאן נכנסתי לכל זה? לכן, ועכשיו יש לי ערימה של אנשים שאומרים, ובכן אפילו אם זה לא רציני, אבל הרב אמר, הרב לא אמר את זה, ניסיתי לעזור לך. אל תהיה כל כך מטופש, אל תהיה כל כך לא רציני, ובואו ננסה להקשיב כשהרב מהקק עליך. אולי הוא מנסה להגיד משהו יותר טוב אז. מה דעתך שתקשיב לרב כשהם מהקקים? כמובן, הם גם לא באמת מבינים, אבל לפחות הם מייצגים משהו שהוא כמו הרבה יותר ישן מהמחשבות שלך, נכון?
כלומר, זו כמו אחת האינטואיציות השמרניות הבסיסיות, כמו משהו שרוב האנשים ביקום חשבו במשך 3,000 השנים האחרונות, כנראה שהם אמרו משהו. הם היו משוגעים, אולי. אבל זה כנראה שווה לחשוב על מה שהם אמרו. זה רק היוריסטיקה אחת, לא באמת טיעון.
אבל הנקודה שלי היא יותר שמאחר וזה לא רציני, כמו שאתה רואה שזה לא רציני, צריכה להיות דרך להציג את הדרך הרצינית הזאת, לא בגלל הצורך של היהדות. היהדות לא צריכה את זה. היהדות תשרוד מאוד טוב עם כל האנשים המטופשים שמלמדים קלישאות. וזה כבר טוב. אני יכול לחשוב על דברים יותר גרועים מזה. אז זו לא הבעיה שלי. אני לא כאן כדי להציל את היהדות. היא הולכת לשרת אותנו הרבה יותר טוב עם האנשים האחרים האלה. אני פשוט כאן, בשבילי ובשביל האנשים כמוני שמנסים להיות רציניים, מנסים לקיים מחשבות רציניות, להיות מסוגל לעשות את זה בצורה רצינית. זה הכל.
עכשיו, חוזרים לחזניש הקדוש. עכשיו, אנחנו מוצאים שבתוך האנשים שעומדים נגד העולם, יש סוגים שונים.
עכשיו אלה שלא באמת יודעים למה ומה, והם פשוט מדברים, בסדר. הם עשויים להיות מועילים במובן מסוים, פשוט על ידי יצירת מרחב כדי כמו, לא לקבל אוטומטית מה שזה לא יהיה.
תלמיד: כן, כמו שאלות בלי תשובות, בעצם?
מורה: אין להם אפילו שאלות. כי הם אפילו לא יכולים להסביר לך מה לא בסדר עם העולם. הם יכולים רק כמו לצעוק, וזה אפילו לא טיעון. זה שימושי קצת חברתית, אבל לא יותר מזה.
אבל אז, יש כמה אנשים מעניינים מאוד, אנשים, מעט מאוד מהם, שבאמת כן חושבים. יש אנשים כאלה שהם בעצם כן חושבים. והם כן מנסים לנסח מה לא בסדר עם העולם, או מנסים לפחות לתת את הגרסה האלטרנטיבית שלהם איך הדברים צריכים להיות הגיוניים.
אני לא יודע. בהקשר היהודי, אין בעצם אף אחד שבאמת טוב בזה. הם עשויים להיות כמו קתולים ואנשים כאלה. אפילו, כן, בואו לא ניכנס ללשון הרע הזה על העדן. בכל מקרה, אפילו כמה מהאויבים שלנו יש להם יותר טוב, תיאוריות יותר שלמות של העולם ושל מה שקורה מאשר לכל אחד מאיתנו. זה ברוך. יש לנו יותר ערך מכל אויב אחר. אויב זה פשוט אנשים שרוצים אותנו מתים. זה קל להיות. זו הגדרה הפשוטה.
אבל אפילו לכמה מהם יש הבנות יותר שלמות של איך הכל עובד, למרות שעשויות להיות להם הטעיות ובעיות משלהם. אבל יש להם איזושהי הבנה של מה שקורה, שבעצם אף אחד בהקשר היהודי לא אומר. זה מאוד מוזר.
היהודים שאנחנו מכירים, יש רק שני סוגים. אחד מהם הוא האנשים הריאקציונרים, אנשים שהם כמו, פשוט תעשה מה שתמיד עשינו. והם לא עושים מה שתמיד עשו, אבל זו בעיה אחרת. והכל בחוץ רע. הם לא באמת יודעים מה החוץ אומר ומה רע אומר וכן הלאה. אלה סוג אחד של אנשים.
תלמיד: למה הם נקראים ריאקציונרים?
מורה: כי הם פשוט מגיבים נגד המודרניות או נגד מה שזה לא יהיה.
תלמיד: אה, הם נגד ה, כן.
מורה: כן. כמו, אני לא יודע, סבתא רבתא שלי לא נהגה כי לא היו מכוניות בעיירה שלה, אבל אני חושב שהאישה שלי גם לא צריכה לנהוג מאותה סיבה. אלה האנשים. ואם אתה שואל אותם למה, הם מתחילים לומר, הם פשוט אפילו לא אומרים את זה. אז, זו רק גרסה אחת.
ואז יש את האנשים החכמים. אנחנו קוראים להם האנשים המטופשים. כולם חושבים שכל השיעור שלי כבר פי שלושה יותר מתקדם, אז אנחנו כבר תומכים בזה. אבל כולם חושבים שאלה היהודים המטופשים.
אז יש את היהודים החכמים, כמו כל ה—מי? מי היהודים החכמים? המתוחכמים, נכון? אלה שגילו שהאתיקה של התורה היא בדיוק האלטרואיזם של הניו יורק טיימס. זה סוג אחד. יש אפילו כאלה שעכשיו, עכשיו שיש לנו, כמו, ברייטברט או כמה מהגילויים שזה בעצם זה, וזה לא דבר מאוד מטופש. זה גם ריאקציוני ומאוד לא עמוק בדרך כלל, אבל זה דבר אחד אחר.
ואז יש את כל אלה, כמו, אנשים מתוחכמים ש, בכל מיני דרכים שונות, עדיין 100% האנשים שהם הוגים. אני לא יודע את מי אתה מכיר ומה אתה קורא וכן הלאה, אבל עד כמה שאני יכול לדעת, כולם בעצם מקבלים כל מחויבות מטאפיזית בודדת של התיאוריה המטופשת הזאת. הם פשוט מנסים לעבוד בתוכה. מחויבויות לא-מטאפיזיות, אנטי-מטאפיזיות, נכון?
במילים אחרות, האם אתה מכיר הוגה יהודי מודרני שמאמין במלאכים? כי אני לא מכיר הוגה אחד פרה-מודרני שלא. זה שלי, שלי, שלי סימן. אם אתה, אנגלולוגיה היא חלק חשוב מהיהדות שלך, אז אתה יהודי עתיק. אם זה לא, אם יש לך ילד כשהוא שואל במקום מלאכים, אנחנו יכולים לשקול אותך. אבל חוץ מזה, אין בעצם יהודי מודרני.
המודרניים הם לגמרי לא מקובלים. הם לא באמת מאמינים בקיום של אף אחד מהדברים האלה. הם פשוט חושבים שזה הכל פסיכולוגיה, וזה שטויות. אז אין מחשבה יהודית מודרנית שמאמינה במלאכים.
תלמיד: אז לכן, הם כולם לא רציניים. כשאתה מאמין במלאכים, מה אתה מתכוון בזה? אני מנסה לדעת.
מורה: לא, בדיוק, כי פסיכולוגיה יכולה גם להיות דבר אמיתי, נכון?
תלמיד: לא, מה שאני אומר, אני באמת רק רוצה הגדרה.
מורה: לא מספיק מלאכים אמיתיים.
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא. זה כל האנשים המתוחכמים משכנעים את עצמם שזה שטויות. מלאכים הם ישויות ביניים. האם אתה מאמין בסיבתיות? האם אתה מאמין בסיבתיות, בעצם? זה נמשל אחד. כשברטון אומר את זה, הוא מתכוון לזה.
תלמיד: לא, כשאני אומר מלאכים, אני מתכוון מלאכים. מלאכים ממש. מלאכים ממש, כמו שכתוב בסימפוזיון שליחים מאלוקים לאדם ומאדם לאלוקים.
מורה: מה זה אומר?
תלמיד: אה כשאתה אומר שליח מה שליח אומר?
מורה: אני חושב עם כנפיים.
תלמיד: אז לא עם כנפיים?
תלמיד: כן, כמובן, פסיכולוגיה במובן של משהו שנמצא רק בתוכי, בוודאי.
המורה: כן, בטח. כן. משהו בין… אתה מתכוון שזה מגיע אליי בצורה כזו?
תלמיד: לא, לא. זה אולי מגיע דרך זה. אף אחד לא חולק על זה. אבל זה משהו אמיתי. משהו חיצוני לנשמה שלך. כן. זה מה שמלאך הוא. מלאך הוא לא חלק מהנשמה שלך.
המורה: האם מחשבה היא גם… רגע. מחשבה היא גם חלק… בוא נמשיך הלאה. אני רק תוהה אם אתה אומר, האם זה אותו דבר כמו מחשבה?
תלמיד: לא. כשאתה אומר מחשבה, בדרך כלל אתה חושב על משהו שקיים בגללך. לא קיים… אולי אתה קיים בגללו. לא בגלל שהוא קיים לפניך. גדול ממך. חיצוני למוח. יש לו קיום עצמאי. זה מלאך. אחרת זה לא מלאך. לא עושה את מה שמלאך צריך לעשות.
אז, כל מי שמאמין במלאכים, שהרמב”ם מאמין במלאכים, הוא לא חושב שמלאכים הם דברים בראש שלך. אני רק תוהה מה האמונה הזאת.
המורה: מהי הישות הזאת? ניכנס לדיון. כשנעסוק במלאכולוגיה, אז נתחיל לקיים דיונים מה הם. אבל עכשיו אין לך בכלל מקום לדבר כזה בעולם שלך. אתה מבין את הבעיה שלי?
הבעיה שלי היא לא שאתה לא חושב שלמלאכים יש כנפיים, ואני אומר שאין להם כנפיים. לא, הם פשוט שכלים. בסדר. אבל כשאני אומר שכלים, אתה חושב על משהו בראש שלך. זה לא משהו בראש שלך, זה איזה דבר אמיתי. משהו שהעולם לא הגיוני בלעדיו. וזה לא אלוהים וזה לא אנחנו חושבים על אלוהים. בסדר? משהו בין שני הדברים האלה. בסדר? באמצע, במרכז.
וגם לא במחשבות שלנו, שזה העולם שלנו. נכון. לא תלוי במחשבות שלך. הכל יכול להיכנס למחשבות שלך. מחשבות אנושיות הן דבר מוזר ומשונה שיכול איכשהו לגעת בהכל. אבל לא רק בגלל המחשבות שלך. בסדר?
למה אני אומר את זה? הדברים האלה חושבים בעצמם, בלעדיך.
תלמיד: כן, כמובן.
המורה: נכון. דברים שלא נעלמים כשאתה עוצם את העיניים. זוכר? לא, לא קשור אליך בכלל, גם אם אתה מת, זה עדיין קיים, זה… שוב, אנחנו יכולים להיכנס לדיונים. אולי, אולי זה צריך אותך כדי לתת לו מזון כדי להמשיך לחיות. אני לא יודע. אתה מבין? אנחנו יכולים לקיים דיונים. אבל הקיום של מרחב בעולם לסוג כזה של יצור, אתה מבין על מה אני מדבר? זה משהו שאיבדנו, שאין לנו.
עכשיו, למה אני אומר את כל זה? כי זה הסוג השני של יהודי, שלא מאמין במלאכים.
תלמיד: אה, טוב מאוד. אז הוא מבין.
המורה: אז יש רק שני סוגים אלה של יהודים. היהודים שאומרים שהם מאמינים במלאכים, אבל הם לא יודעים מה מלאכים הם. הם מעולם לא ראו אף אחד מהם. אף מלאך לא ידבר איתם כי הם טיפשים מדי בשבילם. וכן, אתה יודע? אתה יודע למה היחיד שלא בא לפרומע אידן? כי הוא לא אוהב לדבר עם משוגעים. האחרים, הוא לא בא כי הם לא מאמינים בו. יהיה מאוד קשה לו לבוא. אבל לפרומע אידן הוא לא בא כי הם משוגעים. אז עם מי הוא צריך לדבר? רק איתי, בעצם.
עכשיו, זו בדיחה מאוד מאוד עמוקה. אז זה בית יעקב, אז אין לנו אף אחד, נכון? בעצם אין לנו את זה.
אז עכשיו, מה יש לנו, אז זה מצב מאוד עצוב, ואנחנו כאן כדי לפתור את המצב. זו הקונספירציה שלי. אנחנו הולכים לפתור את המצב וליצור כל בית ספר שלם של אנשים שמאמינים במלאכים. סיום. לא בגלל שאם תאמין זה יתחיל את ה…
אם אתה שואל כותב, אמרתי לך הרבה פעמים. אם פיטר ובלייקווד, כולם מאמינים בשדים. למה? כי הם לא מאמינים בשדים. הם מאמינים בגמרא. הם מאמינים שהם חייבים לומר את זה כי זה כתוב בגמרא ואנחנו לא עוברים על הגמרא. בסדר.
ואתה רוצה שהם יגידו, אם אתה זוכר, אמרת פעם שהשקר הכי גדול שהם לא מאמינים בשדים הוא כי מישהו אומר, רק ראיתי שד. כולם צוחקים עליך. אף אחד לא מאמין לך. נכון. כי הם לא מאמינים בשדים. אמרתי את זה הרבה זמן. אני חושב שאתה צריך לומר שאתה מאמין בשדים. אתה אף פעם לא נכנסת לסמטה האפלה ההיא כמו, אוי אלוהים…
זה אחד הפתרונות, נכון? זה אחד הפתרונות, פתרונות מודרניים מוזרים של לומר שהכל עוסק בטקסט וזה אומר את המצווה, זה חיוב וכן הלאה. אז הילדים אמרו, זה המשל.
עכשיו, מה אנחנו הולכים לעשות, איך אנחנו הולכים לעשות את זה, אני לא יודע למה אני אומר את זה, אבל מה שאנחנו הולכים לעשות או אחד הדברים שאנחנו יכולים לעשות הוא שיש כמה מאוד, אז מכל היהודים בעולם, כל היהודים שחיים בהר, חייבים להיות יותר. אני חושב, אני לא יודע. זה לא יכול להיות. אולי יש מעט מאוד יהודים והמעט יהודים לא באמת מבינים. אני לא יודע למה יש כל כך מעט יהודים שבכלל מנסים לעשות את זה? אני לא יודע למה. או אולי יש, אין, זה פשוט משיגן. אני לא בטוח.
אז, אנחנו צריכים לנסות למצוא כמה אנשים שיש להם מספיק אומץ ומספיק מחשבה עצמאית, הם בעצם פשוט חושבים בעצמם, ומסוגלים לספר לנו איך לחשוב על העולם ואיך להתמודד עם זה.
עכשיו, אני חושב שזה [החזון איש] היה אחד האנשים היחידים שבאמת חשבו כמו במאה השנים האחרונות. כמובן שהוא גם היה פרום וגם לכן משוגע. אז כשאתה קורא את זה, לפעמים כמו שורה אחת הוא חושב ואז השורה הבאה הוא פשוט אומר, ואתה צריך לדעת, זו מילה גדולה, זה קשה לי לדעת כי אני לא יודע בעצמי. אולי לפעמים כשאני חושב שהוא פשוט אומר את זה, הוא באמת חושב, אני פשוט לא הבנתי את המחשבה. כי כי זה אחד הקיצורים שאנשים תמיד משתמשים, כמו אפילו אני. אני אומר, כמו שנאמר, אתה חייב להאמין בזה. זו לא סיבה לאף אחד להקשיב למה שאני אומר. אבל זה קיצור דרך שאנשים שיש להם סמכות ושרגילים לעולם של סמכות ודיבור בסמכות עושים תמיד. אז זה מאוד קשה להבין מתי הם עושים את זה.
אבל מה שאתה יכול לשים לב, אני חושב, זה שהוא מנסה מאוד קשה, והוא כתב את הספר הקטן הזה שהוא מאוד לא שלם ומאוד לא מפותח. אני חושב שזה מאוד… הרבה מהדברים שהוא עושה הם כאלה, לא רק בהלכה, גם יש לו את הבעיה הזאת. אבל זה מאוד לא מפותח, ויש הרבה דברים שבהם הוא שם לב לבעיה האמיתית ואז פשוט סוגר את זה עם איזה, כמו, אני מאמין מוזר. אבל…
תלמיד: אני מתכוון, האם זה לא הדבר שלו לא ללכת על אמת בכמה בתי ספר?
המורה: כן, אבל בדרך כלל גם אין לו מספיק. זה כמו, הוא לעתים קרובות מאוד מבין משהו טוב מאוד ואז נתקע איפשהו. או כמו, הטיעון שלו יכול ללכת לשני הכיוונים, והוא אפילו לא מבין שאותה מחשבה טובה שיש לו למעשה מוכיחה גם את הצד השני באותה מידה שהיא מוכיחה את שלו, דברים כאלה. הוא פשוט נראה מאוד, מאוד מהיר לקפוץ מזה. אני אתן לך דוגמה, דוגמה מאוד קונקרטית שמצאתי בשבוע שעבר על מה שהוא קורא כאן.
אבל דבר אחד שהוא עושה שרוב האנשים לא עושים הוא באמת לחשוב. כמו שהוא באמת מנסה לעשות את הפעילות הזאת שנקראת חשיבה. וישיבות לא מלמדות אותך לחשוב. הן מלמדות אותך לעשות מה שחקירה עושה, לערבב חבורה של מחשבות שיש לאנשים אחרים ולשים את זה בסדר הנכון. הוא באמת חושב לפעמים. הוא משתמש בספרים. הוא מסתכל לחשוב, הוא משתמש בסמכות כדי לחשוב, אבל הוא לא רק חוזר על מה שהסמכות עושה. הוא חושב. הוא מנסה גם לזהות. הוא מנסה לחשוב עד שהוא מסכים עם מה שכתוב או עד שהוא מאמין בזה. בסדר? והוא מדבר על זה במפורש בספר הקטן שלו, אני חושב.
אז, ולכן זה מאוד יקר ערך, יקר ערך ביותר רק בגלל זה. אולי יש עוד אנשים שעשו את זה. אני לא חושב שיש אנשים אחרים כי, כמו שאמרתי, או שהם משוגעים שפשוט אומרים, שטייען אלעגאטויד והולכים לגן עדן אם הם לא מאמינים, מה שזה לא יהיה, או שהם… הם פשוט כבר קיבלו עליהם את עול כל מה שהפרופסור של הלימוד שלהם מאמין. והם פשוט מנסים לגרום למשהו לעבוד בתוך זה.
תלמיד: האם [המשך חכמה] לא…?
המורה: לא, אני לא מתכוון שאתה צריך לבוא ל… אתה לא מוצא שהוא חושב כמו ב…
תלמיד: אני לא יודע. אני לא מוצא אותו חושב.
המורה: באמת? הוא אומר פשטים טובים מאוד…
תלמיד: פשטים זה לא חשיבה.
המורה: לא, הוא לא. זה לפחות לא מגולה. הייתה לו מחשבה. אני לא יכול לומר שהם לא חשבו.
תלמיד: לא, אבל זה מאוד קשה לדעת אם מישהו טועה.
המורה: זה אחד הסודות. אני חושב שהוא חשב שזו בעיה אמיתית. זה יכול להיות, אבל זה יכול להיות לא. כי הוא חכם והוא קרא הרבה דברים. אבל אתה לא יודע, עד כמה שקראתי את הספר שלו, לא מצאתי אותו אף פעם חושב. אתה לא יכול להוכיח את זה. זה לא אפשרי. אם אתה יכול לקרוא מרדכי בצורה מאוד טקסטואלית, אתה תוכל לקרוא לזה מלכודת.
תלמיד: לא, מרדכי היה מאוד מפורש.
המורה: כן, זה נכון. גם, משך חכמה בעצם טועה ברוב ההשקפות. אבל זה שונה.
תלמיד: מה ההוכחה שלבוביץ אהב את זה?
המורה: אז, לא, הוא גם מאוד מודרני בחשיבה שלו והוא אף פעם לא חושב את זה עד הסוף. רוב הדברים שאנשים יודעים עליו שהוא אומר, הוא מאוד תקוע בדיכוטומיות מסוימות. אבל אני לא יכול להיכנס לזה. זה לא, אתה לא יכול להוכיח שמישהו חשב את זה. זה דבר מאוד חשוב. אף אחד לא יכול להוכיח אם מישהו אחר חשב. זה סוד. אתה יכול פשוט לומר, אתה יכול לכתוב את אותו הדבר בלי לחשוב.
תלמיד: כן, כמובן.
המורה: המורה נבוכים באמת הוא ספר שכן חושב. ובמובן הזה, הוא שונה מרוב האחרים, אפילו הראשונים, כי רוב מהם לא עושים חשיבה. לא ראיתי אף אחד אחר.
תלמיד: כן. יש אחרים שחושבים.
המורה: אני יודע. אני יודע על מה אתה מדבר, יש אחרים. אבל המורה נבוכים עושה, עושה הרבה, עושה חשיבה וכמובן, אחת הדרכים לראות את זה היא שיש לו שאלות פתוחות, נכון? לפעמים הוא מגמגם. לפעמים הוא כמו משה רבינו. לפעמים הוא כבד פה וכבד לשון.
עכשיו יש אנשים שהם תמיד כל שיעור שהם אומרים הוא ארוז יפה ומסתיים ותמיד אתה יודע הוא מתחיל עם 17 קושיות על הפסוק ובסוף הוא סיים הוא סיים את כל 17 הקושיות זה בלוף אולי יש קושיא אחת זו בעצם לא אני לא יודע זה מראה לך שהוא מאוד אחרת אתה אומר תורה יפה בסדר אין בעיה זה הפוך אז משך חכמה לעולם לא יעמוד עם צריך עיון כמו צריך עיון זה דבר בסיסי כמו זה אני מבולבל מזה וזה מאוד קשה בעצם זה כל הספר.
הוא לא בגלוי, אבל אני חושב שזה מאוד, הנושאים של המחשבות שלו הרבה יותר ברורים מכל אחד אחר, מה שמראה שלפחות לשורה אחת, כן, מסביר כמה קשה לשאול שאלות. אלע’זאלי לא, כמובן שהוא לא, אבל אני חושב שכשאתה קורא אותו חושב על דברים בסיסיים, אתה תשים לב שלשורה אחת הוא חשב, ואז השורה הבאה לא באמת עונה על המחשבה ההיא, מה שאומר שהוא כעס על עצמו והוא כמו…
הוא כמו, אני לא יודע. זה, אני יודע את זה, אני יודע שיש לי בעצם הרבה מורים שפועלים בצורה כזו, ואני מכבד אותם מאוד. כי הם לא משקרים לעצמם. הם כן משקרים. הם כן, הם פרומים. הם מפחדים מ, וזה לא רק סוג פרומי. יש גם חכמה מסוימת. כי האנשים האחרים שהם כמו, לוקחים מחשבה אחת ואז פשוט רצים איתה הם ממש טיפשים. הם גם חד ממדיים.
אתה יודע, רוב האנשים שאתה מכיר, כותבים בלוגים על כמה הם רציונליסטים. בעצם יש להם מחשבה אחת, או רבע מחשבה בחייהם. והם פשוט כמו, עוקבים אחרי כל המסקנות מזה. אבל זה לא מאוד חכם כמו חכמה בסיסית היא שיש צד אחר לזה אז אם מישהו אומר טוב הצליל הזה נראה נכון ויש לו שורה של חשיבה אמיתית ואז הוא כמו אז בסדר אז הוא טפח לי מתורגמן אומר בסדר אבל אני לא הראשון לחשוב בעולם הרבה מכל או מי שחשב גם גם מעכשיו אני פשוט אמשיך הלאה נכון.
תלמיד: אבל נראה שאתה עושה את אותו דבר עם העתיק מול המודרני כמו שאתה לא רואה כל כך כמו המודרני, מתוך הוגים רציניים.
המורה: לא, זה לא נכון. זה רק בגלל שאתם אנשים כל כך שאני צריך לפרוץ מספיק כדי להוציא את זה. מה היו קווי האיזון? כן, זה פשוט איזון. אני לא בטוח. הם מאוד רציניים. לא רק שהם מאוד רציניים, כל הטיעונים שלהם כבר אומרים אפלטון. אומרים אפלטון? כן. הם לא ממש המציאו טיעונים חדשים. הם פשוט עשו בדיוק את זה. פשוט לקחו צד אחד של הטיעון. הם ממשיכים איתו.
אז זה למה אמרתי בהתחלה של השיעור, ההתחלה הזאת של הסיפור היא לא באמת המסגור הכי טוב. אני צריך להפסיק לעשות את זה. אבל זה מספיק קשה לגרום לאנשים להבין מה אני אומר שאנחנו הולכים לעשות את זה עם האחיזה הזאת.
המורה: אבל אם אני עושה את זה בלעדיו, אתה באמת תשתגע. אבל זה באמת, כל התיאוריות האלה שוות לנצח שלהן. כמו הסולטן, כמו שאמרתי לך, הסולטן שדיבר עם אדם הראשון כבר אמר את כל הטיעונים האלה. זה לא יותר. פרויד ויונג והכל היה שונה. כן, כל זה. באמת? כן. אם אתה באמת קורא טקסטים עתיקים, אתה תמצא אותם, את כל הטיעונים. ואם אתה קורא כמה כמו אקדמאים מודרניים, הם תמיד עושים את זה. כמו, אה, אנשים אומרים שדקארט המציא את זה. אבל באמת, זה איזה בחור מלפני 1,000 שנה. זה מה שיש לנו. זה מה שיש לנו. כן, זה רק אלה שנכתבו. זו חברה שלמה של אנשים שחשבו על זה כל הזמן, אבל גם זה. נכון.
אז שום דבר לא באמת חדש. או לתאר דברים היסטורית זו לא הדרך הטובה ביותר, אבל אני עושה את זה בצורה הזאת כי זו לפחות מסגרת שיש לאנשים בראש שלפחות עוזרת לך להיות מסוגל לתפוס מה קורה. אבל זה מאוד חשוב. אני לא עושה את זה טוב מאוד. אני תמיד מנסה לסיים שיעורים בצורה שזה גורם לזה להיראות כאילו זה סגור.
אבל זה הסימן. הסימן הוא כשאתה רואה אותו חושב בצורה מאוד ברורה ואז פתאום, לאן נעלמה הבהירות שלו? אה, הוא התעורר. אוקיי, אין בעיה, הבנתי. אז זה מה שאני חושב עליו. ואני חושב, זה הדבר הכללי ששמתי לב אליו, שיש לו מחשבות מאוד ברורות, ואז גם אין לו, כברירת מחדל, כשהוא חושב, והרבה אנשים שאני מכיר חושבים שהם חושבים בעצמם, אבל הם באמת רק חוזרים לעצמם על מה שהניו יורק טיימס רוצה שתחשוב. כי זה באופן טבעי, או כברירת מחדל, מה שאנשים בסופו של דבר חושבים. או אם אתה ההפך, אתה אומר הכל הפוך. עבדות היא טובה. עבדות היא רעה. אני לא יודע.
אריסטו כתב שלושה פרקים על האם עבדות היא טובה או רעה. יש טיעונים טובים משני הצדדים כבר בספר הזה, הפוליטיקה, ואפילו בספרים עתיקים יותר. אז, אם אתה מחליט על אחד מ-, אם זה ברור לך צד אחד או השני, אז אתה לא רציני. אז, זה העניין.
עכשיו, הבעיה עם החזון איש היא שני דברים שאני לא באמת צריך לעשות זה שאני צריך להגיד לכם כמה דברים שהוא אומר ולהראות לכם את זה, אבל הדבר הכללי, הבעיה שיש לי היא שתי בעיות.
אחת היא שאין לו באמת את התמונה המלאה, התמונה העתיקה המלאה. עדיין חסר לו הרבה. הוא בסופו של דבר נהיה מאוד מתוסכל. הוא עדיין נהיה מתוסכל כי אין לו את התמונה המלאה. אין לו, הוא לא באמת יכול להסביר הכל בצורה המלאה. זה דבר אחד.
והדבר השני הוא שהאחיזות שהוא משתמש בהן כדי להחזיק את האמונות הישנות שלו הן מאוד טיפשיות. אז, הכי טיפשית היא הרעיון הזה של צִוּוּי, של מצוות ה’.
כי, למשל, וחוזרים, עכשיו אנחנו הולכים לחזור למקום שממנו באנו, וננסה להמשיך קצת, אבל אנחנו יכולים לחזור למקום שממנו באנו. מאיפה באנו זה שיש את האמונה המודרנית הזו שמה שחשוב זה רק מה שבלב שלך, נכון? זה מה שזה אומר, נכון? זה חייב להיות שזה אומר את זה, נכון? זה מה שאנחנו חושבים, ויש אפילו משפט בן שלוש מילים מחז״ל שברור שמתאים לכל ההטיות שלנו, שאומר רַחֲמָנָא לִבָּא בָּעֵי, נכון? זו לא דרך חשיבה רצינית, ברור, אבל—
אז יש לנו את הלבבות הכי טובים, או הגרסה השונה של מה זה לב, אבל אותו רעיון, נכון?
ועכשיו בא החזון איש והוא מסתכל על האנשים האלה ויש את הספר הזה, ספר מפורסם, כתב, איך קוראים לו, החבר של החזון איש, מה?
תלמיד: ישיבה.
מרצה: ישיבה. והרבה אנשים אמרו שאם אתה רוצה להבין את החזון איש, הוא עושה עבודה קצת יותר טובה בהסבר הדמויות שהוא נלחם איתן. כי החזון איש הוא לא סופר טוב במיוחד. הוא מנסה להיות סופר, אבל הוא לא טוב במיוחד בתיאור דמויות ודברים כאלה. הוא היה סופר. הוא היה החבר שלו. הוא היה החַבְרוּסָא שלו, חיים גראדע. והוא כתב ספר או שניים על, בעצם על החזון איש. הוא לא אומר את שמו. הוא קורא לו משהו אחר, אבל זה בעצם עליו ועל הדמויות סביבו ועל הדרכים השונות לחיות את החיים.
ואחד הדברים שאתה רואה זה איך החזון איש חי בעולם הזה. והוא פשוט חי עם כל האנשים האלה עם רעיונות רדיקליים שונים או תפיסות שונות של מה זה אדם טוב. והוא מאוד מנסה להחזיק בדבר העתיק הזה. אבל הוא גם חושב שזה הרבה יותר מתוחכם. וזה הדבר החשוב.
הוא מבין, וזה, נתתי שיעור מאוד חשוב בשבוע שעבר. אתם צריכים להקשיב לו. זה [התייחסות לא ברורה], אבל אתם צריכים להקשיב לו, כי אני לא יכול לחזור על אותו דבר שנתתי שם.
תלמיד: כן, התחלתי להקשיב לו.
מרצה: שאתה שם לב, אם אתה מספיק חכם, רוב האנשים לא מספיק חכמים אפילו להגיע לשלב הראשון, והם כל כך נרגשים מהשלב הראשון, שהם אף פעם לא ממשיכים הלאה. אבל אם אתה שם לב, אם אתה קורא את כל העניינים האלה, את כל האנשים האלה, נכון, אתה קורא חֲסִידוּת, או שאתה קורא מוּסָר, או שאתה קורא, מה עוד אנשים קוראים? אף אחד פה לא קורא כלום, אז.
בכל מקרה, אם אתה קורא חסידות, אתה קורא את ה-, ואתה שם לב בשלב מסוים שכל האנשים האלה הם פשטניים בצורה מטורפת, הם חוזרתיים ומשעממים, בצורה מאוד משמעותית. כמו הסְפָרִים שאתה פותח על מדף המוסר, אחד משְׁמוּעָסֶן המוסר, הם לא אומרים כלום במשך עמודים על גבי עמודים והם רואים את עצמם כאנשים הכי חכמים, הכי נבונים, הכי אמיתיים על פני כדור הארץ של הקב”ה, נכון? מה קורה פה?
והם כאילו, אנחנו, הישיבות, הם פשוט מדברים, הם פשוט מדברים, הם אוהבים את זה, אנחנו כאילו, אנחנו לא מבינים את האנושות, נכון? זה מה שבַּעֲלֵי מוּסָר טוענים, נכון? כולם, כל בעל מוסר אחד ששווה משהו, אני לא הולך לתת שמות פה, נכון, לכולם יש את המחשבה הזו שאנחנו הבנו, אנחנו מבינים את האדם.
ובימינו, זה נקרא משהו אחר, תּוֹרַת הַנֶּפֶשׁ, אתה קורא את התיאוריות של הבחור. הוא לא מבין כלום. יש לו כמו חצי מרבע של תיאוריה. והוא כאילו, וואו, הוא כל כך מתרשם מזה. זה כמו עכשיו, נכון, אותו רעיון. הוא פסיכולוג. הוא מבין אנשים. הוא מבין אנשים.
ואז החזון איש מסתכל על האנשים האלה, והוא כאילו, הוא מאוד חכם, החזון איש, אתם צריכים להבין. הוא בחור מאוד מוכשר. והמוח שלו עובד מהר יותר מרוב האנשים. והוא מוכן לחשוב. שני מרכיבים מאוד חשובים שצריכים כדי שמשהו יהיה הגיוני. אתה צריך גם מוח מהיר, כי לוקח לך נצח להגיע למחשבה. זה פשוט הולך לקחת הרבה, ואתה צריך הרבה אומץ, אתה צריך באמת לחשוב.
והוא מקשיב לאנשים האלה, והוא מקשיב לשְׁמוּעָסֶן ולתורה של בלה בלה בלה, והוא מסביר לך איך אנשים מרמים את עצמם לפעמים. ואז הוא כותב 14 כרכים על איך אנשים מרמים את עצמם. ואתה מקשיב לזה, ואתה כאילו, כן, אוקיי, ועכשיו, לאן אתה מגיע עם זה? כאילו, מה אתה מנסה להגיד לי? והוא כאילו, כן, אתה צריך תמיד לזכור שאנשים מרמים את עצמם, אוקיי? ונראה לי שאתה מרמה את עצמך די טוב בזמן שאתה עושה את כל זה. אתה לא באמת עברת. זה לא רק טיעון של כאילו, אה, אתה אותו דבר.
הטיעון הוא שחוֹשֶׁן מִשְׁפָּט, תראה, למדתי חושן משפט עם שַׁ״ךְ וקְצוֹת. אני רוצה להגיד לך משהו. ההבנה של האנושות שיש בשך של חושן משפט היא 10,000 מייל יותר עמוקה מההבנה שלך של נְגִיעוּת. הם ממש כתבו 14 כרכים על חושן משפט נגיעות, חושן משפט שׁוֹחַד, מה שלא יהיה, לא מדויק. אבל דברים כאלה. כל חושן משפט הוא על אנשים שמטעים את עצמם, נכון? אני חושב שזה קנוניה. אתה חושב שזה קנוניה. מה אנחנו עושים?
וקורה שחושן משפט נראה שיש לו הבנה הרבה יותר מתוחכמת ומפורטת של האנושות מאשר לבעל מוסר, שחושב שהוא כל כך הרבה יותר חכם מהֲלָכָה, זה בשביל נָבָל בִּרְשׁוּת הַתּוֹרָה, זה אחד עם התורה. יש לי הבנה. ואז הוא אומר, טוב, הייתי בתורה איתך, בעל מוסר. הכל טוב. כי אתה הולך ל—
ויש סיפור. סיפרתי לכם את הסיפור. אני לא הולך לקרוא את הסיפורים. זה לא משנה. כשאתה הולך לתורה עם בעל מוסר, בכל פעם, יש לך בישיבה שלך את המַשְׁגִּיחִים האלה שהם בעלי מוסר, יש לך ויכוח איתו. הוא הבחור הכי טיפש, לא רק טיפש, הוא הרָשָׁע הכי צדקני שאתה יכול לחשוב עליו, והוא איזה—הוא היה רשע ממש טוב, כאילו, אתה נהנה מהסימנים הברזליים שלו וזה. הוא טיפש, הוא כאילו פשטני, והבחור מסתובב כאילו הוא הבין את האנושות. ואף אחד אחר לא הבין את האנושות.
ויש משהו מאוד מצחיק פה. המחלה הכללית של אנשים שחושבים שהם גילו את הטבע האנושי. נכון, נכון. חלקם אכן גילו משהו. האנשים האלה לא גילו משהו. לא, אני לא, אני לא צוחק על זה. בחייך, אני הולך להגיע לזה.
החזון איש הוא הבחור הזה שמבלה שעות ושעות כל יום בקריאה, אתה יודע, תּוֹסָפוֹת, רַמְבַּ״ם ושכים ודברים מסובכים האלה והוא לומד הֲלָכָה לְמַעֲשֶׂה, נכון? זה לא בְּרִיסְקֶר שהופך הכל לפילוסופיה. הוא קורא את זה כפירוש על המצב האנושי, נכון? מה אתה עושה? לא רק מה אתה עושה במובן של הפְּסַק, זה הרבה יותר עמוק מזה, נכון?
הלכה היא באמת על החיים במובן הרבה יותר עמוק ממה שמוסר הוא, נכון? אם אתה לומד על הלכה בדרך ההלכה, נכון? זה לא תיאורטי. זה על המורכבות של יחסים אנושיים, כשאני לא מדבר על צִיצִית, אני חושב שהוא נתקע כשהוא מדבר על זה בדרך הזו. אני חושב שזה קצת מבלבל. אם כי אולי אני זה שטועה, כי אני מוגבל פה מ[רקע חסידי]. אבל תחשוב על היום האחר, תחשוב על יוֹרֶה דֵּעָה, חושן משפט. אלה דברים, באמת נכנסים לקִישְׁקֶעס של מה זה אומר להיות בן אדם.
וזה אף פעם, ואתה אף פעם, והדבר החשוב הוא שאתה אף פעם לא יוצא מהדרך שנכנסת בה, לפחות מ[גישת החזון איש], נכון? הרבה אנשים, הם פשוט מסיימים עם אותן הטיות. אבל הוא לא, כי לא רק כי אנשים חושבים שזה מאוד חשוב, מי שלומד או דברים כאלה צריך להבין. אבל אנשים שיש להם סיפור כזה.
יש שני סוגים של [פוסקים]. אחד מהם, מתי שהוא, לפני שהוא אפילו פתח איזה ספר, הוא כבר יודע מה הפסק הולך להיות. הוא רק צריך לגלות את זה, נכון? ולמה? כי יש לו בסיס—יש לו הבנה של הדברים האלה. יש לו הבנה של מה שאתה צריך, והוא נותן לך את זה. אין בעיה. בדרך כלל האנשים האלה הגיוניים, או לפחות עבור האנשים שחושבים בדרכים דומות להם, נכון?
אז יש את האנשים, הלִיטְוָאקִים אומרים שזה נראה שקרי, נכון? שאתה פשוט שם את ההטיות שלך בתורה. לא, הדרך הנכונה היא שאתה לא יודע מה זה הלכה, ואתה שואל את התורה, אתה מסתכל בשֻׁלְחָן עָרוּךְ, ואתה פּוֹסֵק מה ששולחן ערוך אומר, זה מה שאנשים חושבים על השך, שתי אופציות. וזו מושג מאוד טוב של הסיפור, אלה שתי האופציות שאנשים חושבים עליהן באופן כללי על האנושות.
עכשיו אני חושב שהחזון איש מלמד אופציה שלישית, ואני תמיד מנסה ללמד אופציה שלישית. ואופציה שלישית היא כזו. כמובן, יש לי דעה על מה שצריך להיות לפני שאני קורא את זה. אחרת, אני לא יודע אדם. וכמובן, סמכות הטקסט היא אחת.
כן, זה נכון. סמכות היא חשובה. אנחנו לא יכולים ללכת נגד מישהו שאומר בבירור בכל הפרסים וכן הלאה. יש מילה לטינית לזה. וכן הלאה וכן הלאה. אוקיי.
אבל עכשיו הדבר העיקרי שאנחנו עושים כשאנחנו לומדים הוא לא אחד משני הדברים האלה. לגבי הדבר הראשון, פשוט נעשה מה שרבי משהו עושה ופשוט נגיד את הפסק. ואם יש לו זמן, נכתוב תשובה בשבילו כי הוא מספיק חכם לכתוב תשובה. אם אתה עושה את הדבר השני, גם אתה פשוט שואל את ההערות התחתונות של פסקי תשובות ועושה מה שזה לא יהיה. שני הדברים האלה לא גורמים לך ללמוד.
מה המטרה של הלימוד? המטרה של הלימוד היא שאתה חושב שאתה כל כך חכם, ויש לך את האינטואיציה הזו, את הסְבָרָא הזו של מה הֲלָכָה צריכה להיות, ואז אתה פותח את הגמרא, ואתה אומר שהגמרא גם חשבה על מה שחשבת לשנייה אחת, ובפעם הבאה הם חשבו על הדבר השני, ובפעם השלישית הם חשבו על הדבר השלישי, והם מסיימים את הסוגיא עם הסברא השלישית, יש לך 14 דרכים שונות לחשוב.
לא 14 דרכים שונות שהרמב”ם אומר, אז מה אני צריך לעשות? הוא בעצם פתח דרך אחרת. הוא אמר, רגע, אתה יכול לחשוב על זה מזווית אחרת? ועכשיו אתה כאילו, רגע, עכשיו אני באמת לא יודע מה לעשות. עכשיו אתה צריך בעצם לספור, להבין עם—כל הזוויות האלה הן פשוט מורכבות של המציאות, נכון? הן לא סברות.
כשאנשים חושבים שסברות הן דברים בראש שלך, זו אותה בעיה, נכון? סברות הן לא דברים בראש שלך. סברות הן תיאורים של המציאות, נכון?
מישהו, מה היה ה—נכון? הוא [צד אחד במחלוקת], והבחור השני רוצה להיות הרב גם כן, וכמובן שהוא צודק, כי, אוקיי, אבל חשבת על דרך אחרת לתאר את הסיפור הזה שבו הבחור השני צודק? חשבת על דרך שלישית, ורביעית, וחמישית?
זו הדרך שהחזון איש קורא הלכה, והוא קורא את כל ההיסטוריה של החוק בדרך הזו, והוא מנסה ללמוד מכל אחד. אם הוא לא מסכים עם חלק, הוא אומר—אבל הוא לא מישהו שמאמין [באמונה פשוטה בסמכויות]. אם הוא טועה, הוא טועה, אין בעיה, אבל בדרך כלל האנשים שהוא סומך עליהם מספיק כדי לגרום לו לחשוב, נכון? הם גורמים לו לחשוב.
והוא אף פעם לא יוצא מהסוגיא עם ההטיה שנכנס איתה. גם אם הוא כן, הוא עכשיו הרבה יותר מתוחכם לגבי זה. הוא עכשיו מבין את המציאות הרבה יותר ברור, הרבה יותר טוב. לא יותר גרוע.
הרבה אנשים, הם מתחילים עם תיאוריה טובה ואז הם מסיימים מבולבלים לגמרי כי הם שמו את כל האמיננסים [סמכויות] האלה, את כל הקתרסיס [אולי: קטגוריות/הבחנות] האלה. יש לו הבנה ברורה כי במציאות, כל שִׁיטָה היא בגלל נקודת מבט מסוימת של המציאות שפספסת כי היית כל כך חכם וידעת איך זה.
עכשיו, זה מאוד בסיסי לכל מי שבאמת יודע איך ללמוד אי פעם. אבל רוב האנשים לא עושים את זה. ובמיוחד האנשים האלה שמִזַּבְלָן [מזלזלים ב]לימוד, הם כאילו, וואו, הם לומדים אנשים שפשוט—כי הם חושבים שהדרך היחידה ללמוד תהיה ללמוד בדרך הסמכות. ולכן, הם כאילו, לא, אבל אנחנו פשוט אנשים טובים.
אתם לא אנשים טובים. אתם מבינים רבע או בערך רבע אחוז ממה שגורם לאדם לתקתק כשהשולחן ערוך מבין. אז השולחן ערוך הוא פשוט הרבה יותר טוב.
דרך אגב, אני נותן את המשל הזה כי – כי יש לי את המחשבה הפרוטסטנטית הזאת, תמיד, שבין אדם לחברו, זה לא באמת משנה. אבל במובן מסוים, זה אותו דבר, נכון?
כמו, אני יודע איך לשמור שבת. אתה נח. בסדר? האם אתה באמת יודע מה זה מנוחה? אתה יכול לעשות מה שסוקרטס נהג לעשות לאנשים ולנסות לגרום להם להגיד לך מה זה מנוחה, ותבחין שהם לא יודעים.
האם הלכות שבת יודעות? אני לא יודע. בהלכות שבת, לפחות, יש הבנה מסובכת פי 14 של מה זה מנוחה שיש לה קשר למציאות.
עכשיו, האם אנחנו מיישמים את המציאות נכון? האם אנחנו מבינים את ההלכה נכון? והאם העולם שונה? אלו כולן שאלות לגיטימיות. אבל בהחלט יש תיאוריה הרבה יותר מתוחכמת של מה זה אומר המנוחה. ולא רק מה זה אומר – זה לא אומר במובן שאני יכול לתת שיקול הדעת ולהסביר לך. לא. להבין את המציאות האמיתית.
מה קורה? תסתכל סביב. מה אנשים עושים כשהם עובדים? מה הם עושים כשהם נחים? מי נח? מי עובד? מה יגרום לך לעבוד גם אם אתה חושב שאתה נח? אבל בתוך הראש שלך אתה עובד. זו נקודה אחרת. אני לא יודע. דברים כאלה.
תבחין שלהלכה יש נקודת מבט הרבה יותר מתוחכמת על המציאות מכל העולמות האחרים האלה. כל החסידות האלה עובדות ביחד.
לכן, למשל, אני רוצה לתת לכם דוגמה שקרובה אלי, כי אני חושב שזה נכון. אנשים קוראים כתבי אר”י. בסדר? זה הצל שלי מטירה, אבל אני לא חוזר על זה.
אבל אנשים קוראים כתבי אר”י. ואז הכל היה טכני. הוא מתאר את 17,000 הרמות של עולם היצירה. בסדר? ועכשיו לכל מי שיש לו 17,000 רמות יש קומבינטוריקה עם 17,000 מיני אלה. מסתבר כמה? נכון? ואנשים כאילו, טוב, זה משעמם.
מה הם עושים? הם הולכים למקובלים שלהם. אנשים כמוהו [הרמח”ל]. הם אומרים, אה, האריז”ל זה רק משל. הנמשל הוא שהוא צריך להיות בחור טוב. אה, הנמשל הוא שלפעמים לאלוקים יש חסד, ולפעמים הוא עושה דברים שאתה אוהב. זה נקרא חסד. לפעמים הוא עושה דין, שזה אומר שהוא עושה דברים שאני לא אוהב. והאריז”ל רק סיבך את זה עם משל, בגלל תיאוריית הרמב”ם של חזיונות הנבואה.
ואני מסתכל על הבחור הזה ואני אומר לך, אני לא יודע אם המשל לנמשל שלך טוב, אבל אני רוצה להגיד לך דבר אחד, שהוא הרבה יותר חכם, הרבה יותר חכם ממך. כי התיאוריה שלך על העולם יש לה שלושה משתנים. יש רק שני משתנים. והתיאוריה האמיתית של העולם יש לה 17 מיליון משתנים. זה פשוט הרבה יותר קרוב למציאות.
המציאות שאנחנו יודעים עליה, כולה, כמובן, התקווה הגדולה של, כמו, תיאוריות של הכל ש, כמו, מצמצמות הכל לחמישה עקרונות ואיכשהו זה יסביר הכל. והאריז”ל לא חולק על זה. אבל אז אנחנו צריכים לפרט את זה ומסתבר שזה עשרת אלפים אלף משתנים. זו לא הדרך לחשב את העולם האמיתי בלי כל המיליוני משתנים האלה.
אז אתה פשוט טיפש. אתה פשוט מפשט הכל עד כדי כך שזה אפילו לא מעניין במובן מסוים. כמו, אה, בשביל זה היינו צריכים קבלה כדי להגיד לנו שיש חסד וגבורה בעולם? וואו, מדהים. אני כל כך מתרשם. ואתה משוכנע שאתה החכם והוא היה הטיפש.
עכשיו שוב, אולי התמונה הזאת היא כולה פנטזיה והמשתנים האמיתיים של 17,000 הם אחרים. אין לי הוכחה להגיד את זה. אבל הדרך שבה הוא ניגש לזה היא הרבה יותר מתוחכמת מכל אחד אחר, מכל האנשים האלה שהם כל כך חכמים, הם חושבים שיש להם ענין.
אז זה אותו טיעון שהייתי עושה במובן הזה. וזה אחד הדברים הגדולים של החזון איש. והוא מתחיל להראות לך. הבעיה היא שאני חושב שהבעיה שלו היא שכשהוא מגיע להגיד את זה, הוא לא אומר את זה כמו – אני עושה עבודה הרבה יותר טובה לתאר מה הייתי צריך להגיד ממה שהוא באמת אמר.
כי מה שהוא אמר היה, אתה אפיקורוס. אתה חושב שאתה הולך עם השכל שלך, אבל זה ההפך מהשכל שלך. ובגלל שאין לו סבלנות להסביר לך למה השכל שלך הוא די בסיסי, הוא פשוט אומר את זה.
אבל מה שהוא באמת מתכוון להגיד הוא שאתה טיפש, לא שאתה אפיקורוס. זה הרבה יותר גרוע להיות טיפש מאשר להיות אפיקורוס בכל מקרה. חשבת שלא רק שאתה טיפש, אתה בחור משעמם.
כמו, אתה מבין את האנושות כי הבנת שזה בא מהנגיעות. כמו, המוסר כל כך גאה בזה. כמו, אתה מבין שהתחלנו שם. משם אנחנו באים. כמו, כן, לאנשים יש את הנגיעות. תודה רבה. זה הכל? זה מסביר הכל? לא, זה לא מסביר כלום. זה מסביר משהו.
אבל אתה לוקח, כמו, דבר קטן אחד ומיישם אותו על הכל בצורה ממש מוזרה. כמובן, אז [החזון איש] מדבר על הנגיעות ותוקף אותם במפורש ואומר דברים מאוד מצחיקים. ואולי זו הסיבה שזה נכשל, דרך אגב, זה שכאשר מבוגרים – כשאנשים שיש להם בכירות מסוימת מגלים דבר פשוט כזה בפעם הראשונה. זה אמא, היא חושבת על העולם ואז הם מדברים עם בחור צעיר והם כאילו, בסדר. ואז הוא זז כמו, מה עכשיו, מה עוד? וזה פשוט נשרף מזה. יכול להיות.
תלמיד: כן, יש משהו בכל הסרטים האלה. אני חושב שזה אותו דבר שאתה מדבר עליו. אני קורא מה שמישהו אומר על ההטיה ואני כאילו, מה שאתה רוצה. והם כאילו, מה שאתה רוצה, זה מאוד טוב. אני כאילו, סיימנו. כמו שלא הייתי מסוגל לבנות את החיים שלי סביב זה.
מרצה: אולי אם הייתי פסיכולוג שבזבז 30 שנה בלימוד הטיות הגעתי לתיאוריה יותר מתוחכמת של הטיה אנושית מאשר על המוסר. ומסתבר שהתיאוריה הזאת הייתה גם שגויה.
הנקודה היא שההלכה הזאת שכולנו שמחים ללעוג לה, כאילו היא לא רצינית. עכשיו שוב, החזון איש כאן זה איפה שאני לא מסכים איתו, כי הוא נתקע.
הוא אומר, כמו, הלכה זה מה שאלוקים רוצה ממך. מה? מאיפה אתה מגיע לזה? למה אתה צריך את זה בכלל? אתה לא צריך את זה. הלכה זה פשוט אנשים חשבו יותר זמן ובצורה יותר רצינית על המקרים האלה ממה שאתה עשית. למה אתה צריך יותר מזה? מאיפה זה בא בכלל? אולי זה גם צריך לבוא מאלוקים. אני מבין. אבל אתה לא צריך להגיע לשלב הזה.
כשהוא מגיע לזה, הוא פשוט עושה הרבה דמגוגיה, כמו, לעתים קרובות מאוד.
אני רוצה לתת לכם דוגמה אחת ואני אסיים. אני רוצה להראות לכם איפה אפשר להתווכח עם החזון איש. ואנחנו, הייתי עושה אותו דבר – אני לא יכול לחשוב שהחזון איש עושה את זה לו, אז זה כאן בספר הקדוש, יש כאן סיפור, איפה זה?
הוא מדבר על – אני חייב להגיד לכם ששכחתי איפה זה. הוא מדבר על יהודי שחושב שיש לו מידות טובות אבל הוא לא מקשיב להלכה. איפה זה? זוכרים איפה זה? אני חייב למצוא את זה אני לא יכול להגיד את זה בצורה טובה כי זה יהיה – תופס אותי. חשבתי שזה היה כאן.
אה, כן, כאן. הוא מדבר על הרעיון שהוא מנסה להגיע למשהו. אני לא הולך להיכנס בדיוק לאן הוא נמצא. ואולי צריך להיות עוד שיעור על זה. כי זה באמת מה שאני רוצה לדבר עליו. וחזרתי על ההדגמה הזאת שוב. הוא אומר –
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וזה על אחדות המידות, אבל אני הולך להגיע לזה. אבל הוא נותן דוגמה. אני רוצה לתת לכם דוגמה. אני רוצה להגיד לכם שהוא לא הולך להאמין שזה לא נכון.
הוא אומר שהבחור הזה חושב שהוא כזה צדיק, הוא מבין שיש לו בעיה שלפעמים יש לו מידות רעות, אבל הוא חושב שלפחות יראת שמים – זה מה שהם הולכים להשתמש בתור טענה.
והוא אומר, השנה, זה הסיפור שהוא ראה. קרה שקראו לו לעלות לתורה. אמרו, כן, אני שלישי. ולא הלכתי לעלייה. למה לא? כי הוא חשוב. ולא שואלים אותו לקבל את הו’, איזה עלייה שזה היה. הוא הולך רק לשלישי, אז הוא לא הלך.
אז אתה חושב, אני צדיק, אם הרבונו של עולם רוצה משהו ממנו, אני תמיד נותן לו את זה. מנטש, לפעמים אני לא אגיד את זה, אני גאה. אתה לא אדם רציני, בכלל, אתה בכלל, אתה חושב שהכל אתה פשוט עושה עם יראת השמים שלך.
זו דרשת החזון איש. זו באמת דרשת מוסר סטנדרטית במובן מסוים, אבל זה מגיע, אני מנסה להשתמש בזה למשהו יותר עמוק מזה, אבל אני לא יכול להגיע לזה.
עכשיו, אני רוצה להגיד לך, החזון איש, שזה נראה מאוד, הוא נראה, הוא נראה כאילו מקים את הדיכוטומיה הברורה הזאת, כאילו אם הבחור היה עוקב אחרי העלייה וכמובן היה עולה, כי זה דבר מאוד רע לקרוא לעלייה לתורה ולא לעלות, מכיוון שהוא דואג רק לכבוד שלו, לכן הוא לא עולה, וזה שימוש שזו הוכחה, נקודה מאוד גדולה על הבחור הזה שהוא חושב שהוא ירא שמים, הוא לא ירא שמים.
אני מתכוון, מעולם לא היו לך קונפליקטים עם יראת שמים. אתה חושב שאתה כל כך פרום, אתה חושב שבמובן הזה, אתה זו הנקודה החשובה באמת. אתה חושב שאתה לא אדם שכי אתה רואה שכשזה מגיע לקנות מצה, הוא מוציא הכי הרבה כסף. הוא אמר, כן, כי הוא רגיל לזה. אבל באמת, אם יש לך איזו בעיה קטנה שכן מפריעה לך, פתאום, אין לך שום יראת שמים. לא רק שאתה לא בעל מידות, אבל אין לזה יראת שמים גם.
מה שהוא אומר זה שזה לא נכון להגיד שאנשים משולמים אבל לא בעלי מידות. הוא אמר שהבחור הזה לא משולם גם. בעל מידות גם. זו באמת המטרה שלו עם הסיפור הזה. בסדר? זה המעשה של החזון איש.
עכשיו אני, אני הקטן, יש לי בעיה. מה הבעיה שלי? שאני, כי, עכשיו הוא חושב, הדרך של החזון איש להגיד את זה היא שיראת שמים היא אחת מאותן מילים מדויקות, אם אכפת לך מעצמך. ומסתבר שאין לך את המידה של יראת שמים גם, יש לך משהו אחר, נכון? זה מה שהחזון איש מסביר שזה.
בעיה, מה ההסבר שלי? יש לי הסבר אחר. מה ההסבר שלי למה הלכה יותר רצינית ממוסר? שלהלכה יש הרבה יותר פרטים, נכון? הלכה לוקחת בחשבון הרבה יותר מורכבויות של מצבים.
לכן אין דבר כזה. לכולם יש את הרטוריקה הזאת על הלכה שהיא המערכת הברורה שאומרת לך תמיד מה לעשות. הלכה היא הדבר הכי רחוק מלהגיד לך תמיד מה לעשות. למדת פעם הלכה? יש הרבה צד ביחיד שלא יודע. בדרך כלל אתה עושה ככה, אבל לפעמים. אבל אם זה היה יום שלישי אחרי חלמא…
ואז, הלכה היא המערכת המשפטית הכי לא דוגמטית שאתה יכול לחשוב עליה. תמיד יש דרך לצאת. לא שתמיד יש דרך לצאת כי זה לא רציני, כי זה כן רציני, כי המציאות היא ככה. נכון?
לא החזון איש, כל האנשים האלה שיש להם את הרטוריקה הזאת על לעקוב אחרי הלכה, הם נתקעים עם זה. הלכה היא יותר מדי חופשית במציאות בשבילם, לא חופשית, אני לא אומר חופשית, יותר מדי אמיתית. ולכן היא בעצם מתאימה לגמרי, היא צריכה להתאים לפחות לגמרי למציאות.
אבל להם, הלכה היא המערכת הפורמליסטית הזאת. החזון איש מבין שהלכה היא לא ככה. אבל הוא עדיין משתמש באותה רטוריקה כי בגלל זה החזון איש הוא כך וכך. אני חושב שהחזון איש מבין מאוד טוב שהלכה היא לא ככה. הוא חי ככה. הוא לומד הלכה ככה. אבל אז כשהוא צריך להתווכח על זה עם האנשים שהוא מתווכח איתם, הוא בסופו של דבר נתקע ואומר, טוב, הלכה היא כמו פשט.
אבל בעצם, מסתבר, אם אתה באמת חושב על ללמוד קצת, אתה מגלה שהשאלה המדויקת הזאת, מה אתה עושה כשאתה חשוב, מישהו שהכבוד שלו, האמת היא שהכבוד של כל אחד חשוב. אבל אם הכבוד שלך קשור לכבוד התורה. ואתה נתפס בעלייה, זו לא העלייה הנכונה. מה אתה עושה?
כי המשנה נראה שיש לה הלכה מאוד ברורה. ההלכה אומרת שאתה צריך ללכת, אבל אם אתה שייגעץ, אז אתה לא הולך. ואתה שייגעץ, אתה באמת שייגעץ.
עכשיו, אני, זה כמו, לא, אני לא כל כך בטוח בזה. וזה עולם הרמב”ם. יש לי סמכות בצד שלי. אני חושב שזה אפשרי שאתה לא צריך ללכת. אמרתי, כמובן, זה מדבר על הבחור שצריך ללכת. טוב אתה מעולם, אתה יודע, מעולם לא עשית קימתא, אתה מעולם הלכה עובדת שזה מדבר על מישהו שזה, הוא מצא בחור והוא ראוי לעלייה הזאת, זה לא באמת, הוא מעריך יתר על המידה איזו עלייה הוא ראוי בעצם.
אז אז, אבל אם אתה באמת אדם שראוי לעלייה אחרת, אולי זה, אולי האדם הזה צודק שהוא, אתה לא צריך ללכת, אתה לא צריך כל כך לא נכון. ואיך אני יודע? ראיתי את זה. מצאתי את זה. בגלל זה התחלתי לחשוב על זה, אבל זה מאוד מעניין.
כולם יודעים שזה אומר במסכת סנהדרין. זה אומר, יש שני דברים שאומרים את אותה תשובה. מה שאתה שומע זה אומר, “מפני מה תלמידי חכמים אינם מצויין לצאת תלמידי חכמים מבניהם”. אתה זוכר את זה? מה זה אומר? אתה יודע מה זה אומר? זה ההפך ממה שאני מנסה להגיד על זה. וכל התורה שכולם יודעים. אבל זה מה שזה אומר.
אז, הרמב”ם, עכשיו אם אתה מסתכל בראשונים, זה אחד מה, עוד אחד מהדברים הגדולים שלי. כשאתה באמת קורא את הראשונים, אתה רואה שרוב הדברים המצחיקים האלה שיש כל כך הרבה כמו, יש באמת הבנה בסיסית שאתה לא צריך את כל השריטות האלה בשביל. אבל בכל מקרה, הרמב”ם כתב מכתב למישהו, או תשובה, והוא אמר להם שני פשטים שהוא שמע, שני פשטים על המאמר הזה, אחד שהוא שמע, ואחד שהוא חושב, שהוא ההפך ממה שהוא שמע לגמרי הוא מקבל מה שמיוחד בזה ומה הם שני הפשטים האלה.
הפרשנות הראשונה (הרבי של הרמב”ם)
אני אגיד לכם שהרמב”ם אמר שאמרו להם שהוא שסוג ההלכה הזה זה הפשט שאני עומד לומר לו פירושו מה זה מדבר על הפעם הזו הכהנים שקרא להם קודם לתורה אבל אני האישה הם בדרך כלל חושבים שיש להם דברים טובים יותר לעשות בזמנם מאשר לקרוא בתורה כי אז הם יכולים להיות תלמידי חכמים אז הם לא עולים לתורה, או שהם עולים, הם לא סבלניים ללכת לבימה לקרוא, הם יושבים בבית והם לא עולים לתורה, מאחר והיה עולה לתורה והילדים לא באים לתלמידי חכמים.
זה מה שהרבי שלו אמר את הפשט, הרבי של הרמב”ם. אז זה, אגב, זה בצד של החזון איש.
פירוש שני (דעת הרמב”ם עצמו — “פאנקט פכערט”)
אז הרמב”ם אמר, הוא חושב שהפשט הוא בפכערט [להיפך]. הוא חושב שהפשט הוא בפכערט. מה זאת אומרת בפכערט? שעלו באחרונה בתחילה [שלא עלו ראשונים], תחילה [ראשון] פירושו שהם לא לקחו את העלייה הראשונה.
ההלכה אומרת, הכהן קורא ראשון, וזה כשזה עמי הארץ, כל עמי הארץ, כל תלמידי החכמים, רב, כהן, כהן הוא עם הארץ. נכון?
הכהן אומר, אם יש תלמיד חכם, זה הכהן, ועמי הארץ הוא, תלמיד חכם הוא ישראל [יהודי רגיל, לא כהן], ועמי הארץ הוא כהן, הדין הוא, אומר הרמ”א [לא ברור אם מתייחס לרמב”ם או לסמכות אחרת], שתלמיד חכם צריך לעלות ראשון. זה הדין.
חלק מהאחרים היו כך, שהמים של הראשון [ראשון], ולא היה, הם אמרו, הם היו. האם אין משנה על זה? כן. המשנה. זה אומר במשנה, זה על כשהנתור הוא תלמיד חכם, כשזה עמי הארץ. כשזה דרכי שלום, זה אומר במשנה, כשזה דרכי שלום.
אבל זה הכל כשהם שניהם באותה רמה בתורה. הרמב”ם אומר, אם כולם תלמידי חכמים, רב לא היה צפוי. רב היה עולה בקור [עלה ראשון], תמיד, מזיק שבע [לא ברור] לפחות. כשהוא היה, כל מי שהכיר בו כסמכות הגדולה ביותר היה עולה ראשון.
ולכן הוא הראה לכולם שהתורה חשובה יותר. כי עולה לתורה זה שם של מלך המלכות. וזה חידור תלמיד חכם. אבל אם אתה עולה אחר כך, אתה עולה בשלישי, למה? כי אתה חושב שסוג זה של עם הארץ טוב ממך ולא מצפה שהילדים שלך יהיו תלמידי חכמים, הם הולכים לחשוב שלהיות כהן זה יותר טוב.
אז הרמב”ם אמר זה בפכערט [להיפך], שהמאמר הוא לא זה שהולך להשיג את הטוב יותר. ביד הלכה למעשה, זה טוב יותר היום. הלכה למעשה, הסיבה שהשלישי עדיין לא נשרף היא כי עדיין הכהן היה עולה. זה מה שאני אומר.
תלמיד: אני פשוט כמו, הגמרא אומרת, קראו לי האם אחיה ב…
מורה: בדיוק. אתה מצפה שזה יבוא מהסנהדרין [מסכת סנהדרין] דווקא?
תלמיד: זה מחובר לסנהדרין דווקא.
מורה: כאן הוא מדבר על דבר אחר שזה אומר, ובנין [בנים], שהבנים של תלמיד חכם לא יוצאים מתלמיד חכם. זה בסדר, אבל זה אותו דבר. כלומר, הם מביאים לך את אותו פשט באותה גמרא. מה אתה חושב? כן, כמובן.
יש לנו כל כך הרבה דרכים שבהן תלמידי החכמים לא מקבלים את הכבוד. הבריסקר רב [רב מבריסק] מקבל את הכבוד, הכהנים וכן הלאה, וזה גורם לתלמידי החכמים לא להיות עם הכוח שלהם ואז, נכון? ומי שלי [אשם]? תלמיד חכם עצמו, נכון? כי הוא לא היה צריך ללכת כשקראו לו לשלישי ורק הלך כשקראו לו לשלישי, נכון?
אז מה אני מראה לך? עכשיו, אני לא יודע אם הפשט הזה מעשי וכן הלאה. אתה אומר שכבר לימדת את זה. הגיע הזמן לשלי להתחיל את המלכות שלו. אבל זה לא באמת מעשי, נכון? הלכה תהיה יותר רצינית. רואה? הלכה היא תמיד יותר רצינית ממה שאני עושה, נכון?
אני הולך כמו, תגיד, שער הקדושה. זה תקווה [תקוה]. אבל למה ישראל, אה, למה ישראל לא עובד ככה כי העולם יותר מסובך. אוקיי, אז היא תראה את הסטטוס, נכון?
אז אני, ואני אפילו לא יכול להסביר למה. והם לא אומרים שזה לא התנצלות להלכה. זו מציאות. היא תראה את הסטטוס, זו מציאות. כן, אנחנו צריכים לעבור הביתה, לעבור הביתה.
אוקיי, אבל העניין הוא שלאותו בחור יש, אנחנו הולכים להיות ברפיקינה [לא ברור] מעכשיו, אתה יודע? זו בעיה. אה, והמשנה אומרת נידה כשון [לא ברור], נכון? כמו שמשה אמר, המשנה אומרת נידה כשון, נכון? כי אחרת כולם, כל שבוע הולך להיות קרב מי הולך להיות בחוקי תלמיד חכם. הכהן, כולם יודעים שהוא לא תלמיד חכם. אנחנו פשוט מקבלים את זה כי זה כהן וכן הלאה. אוקיי.
ואז אנחנו צוחקים. אבל זה רק אני מראה לך שזה לא פשוט. זה ההיפך. ואתה משתמש בהלכה למוסר שלך, אתה הופך הכל לגרוע יותר. כי הלכה היא זה, אתה מבין מה אני אומר? הוא אמר שזה צריך להיות על מוסר או איזה מקום שזה צריך להיות הלכה.
כמו שמשה אמר, המשנה אומרת מדרכי השלום [מדרכי שלום: למען השלום], נכון? כי אחרת כולם, כל שבוע הולך להיות קרב—מי הולך להיות טעם תוכחים [תלמיד חכם: תלמיד חכם]? חוקים, הכהן, כולם יודעים שזה לא טעם תוכחים, אנחנו פשוט מקבלים את זה כי זה כהן וכן הלאה.
אוקיי, וכך בכל מקרה זה—אבל זה רק אני מראה לך שזה לא פשוט, זה ההיפך.
ואתה משתמש בהלכה [דין יהודי] למוסר שלך, אתה הופך הכל לגרוע יותר, כי הלכה—אתה מבין מה אני אומר? הוא אמר, אתה צריך להיות, לפי רוב המילים, פשטני, אתה צריך להיות הלכה, כי הלכה היא ברורה.
לא, הלכה היא לא ברורה.
במילים אחרות, מה שאתה צריך להיות זה משהו שנקרא—איך אתה עושה את זה—משהו שנקרא חכמה מעשית לישו [פרונזיס: חכמה מעשית אריסטוטלית]. זה הדבר היחיד שבאמת הולך לעזור. וההלכה לא נותנת לך את זה גם כן.
או ללמוד הלכה, אפילו בדרך של החזניש [החזון איש]—אתה רואה את החזניש עצמו, וזה באמת מוזר שהחזניש נכנס, לא רק במקרה הזה, במקרים רבים הוא נכנס לאותו דבר.
ומצד אחד, הוא מבין מאוד טוב איך ההלכה ניתנת לדעת של ההלכים [פוסקי הלכה]. זה לא כמו כללים.
ואז כשהוא חושב שמשהו הוא הכלל, הוא ההלכה, אז הוא חושב שכולם האחרים זה בגלל שהם לא חושבים על הלכה ברצינות.
כמובן, זה נכון שיש חלק אחד של הלכה שזה רשימת הנשיא, ה—מי שהוא השייך [שופט], צריך להיות—אבל זו שאלה אחרת. זו שאלה פוליטית. מי השייך?
אבל בכל מקרה, זו בעיה כללית.
אבל מה שאני מראה לך זה שתמיד יש הלכה שהיא פקעת [נפסקה/נקבעה]. ובאמת, הרב אולי גם, עם הגבאי דסנהדרין [מנהל הסנהדרין], הם יכולים לעשות מה שהם רוצים כפי שהם רואים לנכון, נכון? זה בעלי רואה [אנשי שיקול דעת/דיסקרציה].
תלמיד: אם שתי [שולחן ערוך: קוד של דין יהודי] עשה את זה…
מורה: כן, זה במפורש נגד ההלכה. אני אומר אפילו בתוך [בתוך] ההלכה. הוא אומר שיש הלכה של עושה והשם [מי משתחווה ראשון לפני התורה], של משיקונל תו ליקרית [התייחסות לא ברורה]. יש גם הלכה של מבח מתור אתצלב [שדעתו נכונה], של מי הנכון…
זה דבר אמיתי. ההלכה, אם אתה לומד הלכה, אם אתה התשובה [תשובה] הזו של סנהדרין בעל [התייחסות לא ברורה], זו תשובה של האסקן פשט נאגודה [אגודה], אבל אוקיי.
זה מראה לך הרבה יותר מורכבות של המציאות מזה.
והסיבה—זו הסיבה שאני חושב שהסיבה שאנחנו צריכים לומר שהלכה טובה יותר ממוסר היא לא בגלל שהלכה היא בהשם [מאת אלוהים/מהשם] או מוסר הוא לא בהשם—זה דבר מאוד טיפשי, כי ניש [החזון איש] אומר את זה כי זה שלו—זו הסיבה שהוא אומר, תגיד את זה.
כי אין לו דרך להסביר איך העולם מסובך ואיך הטוב הוא בדברים האמיתיים. במקום לומר את זה, הוא אומר שהשם עשה את זה טוב. זו בעיה גדולה.
אם הוא היה כמוני, הוא היה אומר: אתה מוסר, אתה טיפש. אתה חושב שהטוב הוא במוח שלך, והטוב הוא משהו כל כך פשוט. העולם יותר מסובך. הטוב הוא משהו על המעשים שלך—כמובן שהם צריכים להיות בהתאם למה שהמוח אומר, אבל המוח יותר מסובך ממה שאתה חושב. זה לא רק על הרצון שלך, זה על ההבנה שלך וכן הלאה.
ואז, כמובן שהלכה היא על זה. הוא צודק.
אבל מאחר שאין לו שפה לומר את זה, או אולי יש לו התחייבויות תיאולוגיות לא לומר את זה—אני לא יודע—הוא בסופו של דבר אומר משהו מאוד טיפשי, שאפילו שגוי הלכתית, כי יש גם צד [צד/היבט] שהבחור הזה צודק.
אוקיי, הלכה. זה סוף השיעור [שיעור] היום.
זה ששאל אותם—אני חושב שהסיפור הזה עליו, תקע [אכן], שאלו אותו: תקשיב, החכם הגדול הזה אמר משהו, וזה כנגדה [נגד זה], מה שזה לא יהיה, משהו. והוא כמו—במילים אחרות, ואולי כשהוא משתמש ברצון השם [רצון האלוהים], זה אומר שאלוהים הוא הרבה יותר מסובך, נכון? הרבה יותר מתוחכם ומסובך מהמוח שלך. אבל זה לא גרסים [התייחסות לא ברורה].
תלמיד: אולי, במילים אחרות, זה מאוד מצחיק שאתה אומר, מהעובדה שהוא אומר רצון השם, הוא מתכוון לכל הדברים האלה שאתה אומר.
מורה: אני חושב, אולי הנקודה היא שהשם חכם יותר אפילו מהם. נכון, נכון, זה מה שאני אומר, כי זה בדיוק מה שהחלמיש [החזון איש] חשב על הדברים האלה.
האם נשתוק?
תלמיד: כן, אני מניח.
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שיעור זה ממשיך חקירה קודמת של תזה היסטורית: לפני תנועות מודרניות מסוימות, התפיסה היהודית השלטת (ובאופן רחב יותר המערבית) קבעה שלהיות אדם טוב פירושו לטפח מעשים וידע נכונים, ולא בעיקר רגשות נכונים. תובנה זו מיוחסת בחלקה לרבי אברהם ישעיה קרליץ (החזון איש), שפרקיו התיאולוגיים ב*אמונה ובטחון* ניסו לנסח את התפיסה הקדם-בעל שם טובית / קדם-קאנטיאנית / קדם-הומיאנית הזו של מה שעושה אדם טוב.
לאידיאל הקלאסי יש שני קטבים: חכמה (תורה/חכמה) ומעשה (מצוות/מעשים טובים), המכונים בחז”ל חכמה ומעשה. האידיאל הוא שניהם ביחד, אם כי קיימים ויכוחים פנימיים על מי מהם עיקרי. זו התפיסה המוסכמת והבלתי שנויה במחלוקת של כל המסורת היהודית עד לנקודת שבירה היסטורית מסוימת.
החזון איש ממסגר את האדם האידיאלי כתלמיד חכם — מי שמוקדש ללימוד תורה.
תלמיד שואל האם זה מוציא נביא או פילוסוף. העניין מורכב יותר מתווית פשוטה — “תלמיד חכם” עשוי לכלול נבואה ופילוסופיה. האם החזון איש היה מסכים (ייתכן שהתכוון דווקא להלכה) נשאר פתוח.
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מצוירת מקבילה מבנית מפורשת: האידיאל האריסטוטלי של מידות אינטלקטואליות ומעשיות הוא “אותו דבר” כמו תורה ומצוות — שונה בתוכן הספציפי של מה נחשב לאינטלקט ומה נחשב למעשה טוב, אך חולק את אותה מסגרת מבנית: אדם טוב הוא מי שמחזיק בידע/חכמה ומבצע מעשים טובים.
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הבעל שם טוב ותנועת החסידות מציגים אידיאל חדש: האדם הטוב ביותר הוא זה שמשיג דבקות (התדבקות באלוקים). זה במפורש לא תורה ומצוות. תורה ומצוות עשויות להיות אינסטרומנטליות — הכנות או דרכים לקראת דבקות — אך הדבקות עצמה היא המטרה. זו שבירה ברורה ומודעת מהקונצנזוס הקודם, למרות שהחסידים עוסקים באפולוגטיקה נרחבת כדי להכחיש זאת (למשל, מציאת תקדימים במקורות מוקדמים יותר לצדיקים שאינם למדנים).
המהלך החסידי הנפוץ של ציטוט דמויות מוקדמות יותר שהיו צדיקים מבלי להיות למדנים הוא “הסחת דעת” ו”אפולוגטיקה מוזרה”. החסידים אולי צודקים מהותית, אך השבירה בלתי ניתנת להכחשה.
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תלמידיו של רבי ישראל סלנטר מציגים אידיאל חדש נוסף: האדם הטוב ביותר הוא בעל מידות טובות — מענטש. הם מורידים במפורש את העדיפות של ידע תורני ואפילו שמירת מצוות ביחס לשיפור האופי. חלק מאנשי המוסר מדגישים גם יראת שמים. אך גם זה אידיאל שונה ביסודו ממסגרת התורה-והמצוות הקלאסית.
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המסגור החסידי שהעולם מתחלק לחסידים ומתנגדים נדחה. במקום זאת, הוא מתחלק ל:
1. יהודים רגילים/מיושנים (למשל, החתם סופר) — שפשוט מחזיקים בתפיסה הקלאסית.
2. חסידים — תנועה חדשה.
3. מתנגדים (למשל, רבי חיים מוולוז’ין) — גם תנועה חדשה, ריאקטיבית (“נגד” — השם עצמו מרמז על התנגדות ולא על זהות חיובית עצמאית).
החתם סופר מצוטט כדוגמה למי שלא היה לא חסיד ולא מתנגד אלא פשוט “אלטער איד”.
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הטיעון הוא בעיקר מבני, לא היסטורי. קודמים לחסידות ולמוסר קיימים (למשל, חובות הלבבות אולי אמר דברים דומים). תקדימים כאלה אינם מטרידים כי הטענה היא על מבנה הרעיונות, לא על חידוש כרונולוגי קפדני. רעיונות עולים ויורדים בפופולריות, אך הבעיה המבנית היא מה שחשוב.
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שתי התנועות המודרניות (חסידות ומוסר) הן תגובות לאותו משבר: המסגרת המיושנת — שבה טוב הוא תכונה אמיתית של אנשים ופעילויות בעולם — הפכה לבלתי מובנת או בלתי ניתנת לחיות. הסיבות כוללות את אובדן הטלאולוגיה וגורמים נוספים. אנשים הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים לראות, לומר, לחיות או להאמין שטוב הוא מאפיין אובייקטיבי של העולם.
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המטאפורה של סולם יעקב לוכדת את המצב המבני: הסולם מייצג את הקשר בין העולם לאלוקים — המלאכים שהופכים את המציאות לאחדות קוהרנטית ומובנת המקשרת שמים וארץ. “אף אחד לא מאמין במלאכים יותר” — המנגנון המשלב בין אלוקים לעולם אבד.
ברגע שהמסגרת הקלאסית קורסת, מספר אפשרויות מתעוררות:
ה”קו השטוח” — פשוט תעשה מה שאתה רוצה. מכיוון שהקהל “מעמיד פנים שהוא דתי”, זה נשלל.
דבקות היא באופן רדיקלי פנימית — היא נותנת עדיפות ליחסים הסובייקטיביים עם אלוקים על חשבון הקוהרנטיות והערך של העולם.
תנועת המוסר מחפשת שלמות בתוך העולם (אופי, מענטשליכקייט) אך באופן שהוא גם בסופו של דבר פנימי — בפועל, אנשי המוסר נוטים להעריך את האדם ש*מרגיש* אמפתיה על פני האדם ש*בפועל גייס כסף*. הטענה הפרובוקטיבית: בעלי המוסר לא באמת מאמינים באלוקים — הם למעשה נטשו את הקוטב האלוהי של הסולם.
ציווי אלוהי מועלה בהיסוס כאלטרנטיבה פוטנציאלית שנמנעת גם ממלכודות החסידות וגם מהמוסר, אם כי מיקומו המדויק בסכמה נותר לא ברור.
תלמיד מבחין שהחוט המשותף בכל העמדות הללו הוא שאף אחת מהן לא מאמינה בטוב אמיתי ומהותי כלשהו. אם טוב קיים בכלל, הוא יכול רק להיות מוטל מבחוץ (אלוקים ציווה זאת), לא להתגלות כמהותי. זה מתחבר לכלאם (*חכמת הכלאם*) — המסורת התיאולוגית האסלאמית ששוללת באופן דומה טבעים מהותיים בדברים.
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הביקורת המרכזית על כל העמדות שלאחר הקריסה: הן חד-ממדיות. כל אחת תופסת היבט אחד של החיים (דבקות, שיפור עצמי מוסרי, ציווי אלוהי) והופכת אותו לכלל, ובכך:
– שוללת את העושר והשונות של החיים.
– מתייחסת לכל ממד אחר כרע או לא רלוונטי.
– הופכת כמו “שולחן העומד על רגל אחת” (מזכירה את שלינג) — מטבעה לא יציבה.
זו הבעיה הגדולה האמיתית עם השינוי המודרני: לא שכל הדגש בודד שגוי כשלעצמו, אלא שכל אחד הופך לטוטאליטרי.
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מעט מאוד אנשים הצליחו לנסח התנגדות אמיתית למסגרות החד-ממדיות הללו. הקושי מוגבר כי תפיסת העולם שבתוכה הם חייבים לעבוד היא עצמה הגורמת לבעיות. ההתנגדות לא אומרת “אתה טועה” אלא “אתה רק חלק מהסיפור” — וזה קשה יותר לטעון באופן דרמטי. זו המשימה הנצחית של החכמה: להראות כיצד כל עמדה נתונה היא רק חלקית.
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אלה שמנסים להחיות את התמונה העתיקה והעשירה יותר עומדים בפני דילמה כואבת:
אתה מאבד הרבה מהתוכן. אנשים בסופו של דבר שוכחים מה אבד ומטעים את התרגום במקור. הרמב”ם מוצע כדוגמה פרדיגמטית: אנשים אומרים שהוא תרגם את המחשבה היהודית לשפה פילוסופית יוונית-מוסלמית כסוג של *ירידת הצדיק*. אנשים אז מסיקים שאם אתה לא חושב בשפה הפילוסופית הזו, הרמב”ם לא רלוונטי. רב קוק מצוטט כאומר שדברים מסוימים, ברגע ש*כפסה*, אין צורך להדליק מחדש כי הם היו רק תרגומים הקשריים. דברים רבים שאנשים מאמינים שהם “יהדות אמיתית” הם למעשה התאמות בדיעבד — דרכים שבהן מישהו ניסה לדבר בשפת הקהל שלו.
להפוך למתנגד תמידי — זה שתמיד נגד הכל. זה גם חד-ממדי וגם רע: זה לא מתחשב למה אנשים באמת הם כמו שהם, מבטל אותם ככופרים, וגורם לך לאבד קשר עם אנשים. “להיות מתנגד הוא כשלעצמו דרך חיים… וזו לא דרך טובה לחיות.”
אף אחת מהאפשרויות. תפסיק לתרגם למסגרות ש”מטופשות”, לא שלמות ומעוותות, רק בגלל שכולם חושבים כך. “זו לא סיבה מספיק טובה.”
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המושג הסוציולוגי של דאיזם טיפולי מוסרי (המיוחס לסוציולוגים של הדת האמריקאית) מתאר את מערכת האמונות דה-פקטו של רוב האמריקאים ללא קשר לעדה:
– אלוקים קיים אך לא באמת מעורב בעולם.
– הוא בעיקר גורם לך להרגיש טוב עם עצמך.
– הוא רוצה שתהיה “אדם טוב” (לתת צדקה, לעזור לשכן — דברים בסיסיים).
הספר “קתולי, פרוטסטנטי, יהודי” מצוטט: כל שלוש הקבוצות באמריקה בעצם מאמינות בזה; הן פשוט “שרות שירים שונים בכנסיות שלהן.”
גרסאות יהודיות של התאמה זו כוללות:
– קירוב חב”ד (ברמת התוכן) מאופיין בחלקו כ”כוח החשיבה החיובית” בארזה מחדש.
– “איש הבטחון” (*בטחון שבועי*): *טראכט גוט וועט זיין גוט* (“חשוב טוב וזה יהיה טוב”) מזוהה בעצם כ“חיוביות רעילה” — תכונה אמריקאית מאוד לבושה בשפה חסידית. תלמיד דוחף בחזרה על כנות; הנקודה המבנית נשמרת: “אתה יכול למצוא שאופרה מאמינה באותו דבר.”
– ברסלב — ה”שיטה האמריקאית” היא: הכל טוב, השם אוהב אותך, הוא צריך אותך, אל תהיה *מתייאש*.
כל זה הוא “דילול גדול” — לא לגמרי שקר (יש מקורות), אך מציג פרוסה זעירה ככלל היהדות.
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להפוך אנשים לטובים במסגרת הקיימת שלהם הוא באמת קשה ובאמת בעל ערך. לשמור על *שבע מצוות בני נח* — לפרנס משפחות, לא לגנוב, לא להרוג — זה “הישג גדול”. תלמיד שואל אם זה “רף נמוך”. בהחלט לא: “ברירת המחדל היא משהו הרבה יותר גרוע.” כל הקלישאות בעולם עדיפות על האלטרנטיבה. זה לא זלזול — זו עבודה אמיתית. אבל זה גם לא התמונה המלאה, והשיעור מכוון לאלה שמחפשים משהו מעבר לרמה זו.
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חוסר שביעות הרצון מהגישות המדוללות הללו אינו נעוץ בנאמנות ילדותית למסורת (*בתור ילד*) — “התורה אומרת אחרת, אז אתה טועה.” וזה גם לא בעיקר ההבחנה שגישה זו מובילה להיפוך שיטתי של ערכי התורה שבו השופט הסופי הופך להיות “מערכת העיתונות של הניו יורק טיימס.”
במקום זאת, הביקורת היא בתור גוי — כאדם חושב. הבעיה היסודית היא שכל תפיסת העולם שבתוכה אנשים אלה פועלים אינה רצינית. היא לכל הפחות לא שלמה, וכנראה גרועה יותר.
הרפלקס המודרני של שליחת כל ילד בעייתי למטפל ממחיש את האשמה ב”לא רצינית”. האנושות חינכה ילדים במשך אלפי שנים בלי מטפלים. האתגר: לבקש ממנהלי בתי ספר סטטיסטיקות הצלחה ממשיות מהתערבויות טיפוליות. גישות אלה לא באמת פותרות את הבעיות שהן טוענות שהן מטפלות בהן.
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הפרויקט הוא אישי וקהילתי במובן צר: לאנשים שרוצים לחשוב ברצינות, להיות מסוגלים לעשות זאת במסגרת יהודית באופן רציני באמת. היהדות תשרוד בצורה מושלמת עם אנשים שמלמדים קלישאות — זה כבר חיובי נטו.
נגד אלה שמפעילים סמכות רבנית (*”הרב אמר…”*) לתמיכה בתפיסת העולם הלא-רצינית: הרב ניסה לעזור לך, לא לאשר את הטיפשות שלך. גם אם הרבנים עצמם לא מבינים לגמרי את האלטרנטיבה, הם מייצגים משהו הרבה יותר עתיק ומנוסה מהנחות עכשוויות. זו היוריסטיקה שמרנית: אם רוב בני האדם במשך 3,000 שנה האמינו במשהו, זה לפחות שווה עיסוק רציני, גם אם הם טעו.
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אנשים שדוחים את המודרניות אך לא יכולים לנסח *למה* או *מה* לא בסדר. הם פשוט “האק קאפ”. שימושיים חברתית במידה שזה יוצר מרחב לאי-קבלה אוטומטית של רוח הזמן, אך לא מהותיים אינטלקטואלית. אין להם אפילו שאלות — רק צעקות, וזה לא טיעון.
מספר קטן מאוד שבאמת חושבים ומנסים לנסח מה לא בסדר. בהקשר היהודי כמעט אין מי שבאמת טוב בזה. כמה קתולים ואפילו כמה מ”האויבים שלנו” (אנשים שרוצים שנמות) יש להם תיאוריות שלמות וקוהרנטיות יותר של העולם מכל הוגה יהודי ידוע. ליהודים יש יותר *ערך* (תורה, מסורת) מכל אחד, אך חסרה להם תפיסת עולם רצינית ומנוסחת.
סוג 1 — הריאקציונרים: אנשים שאומרים “פשוט תעשה מה שתמיד עשינו” ו”הכל בחוץ רע”. הם לא באמת עושים מה שתמיד נעשה, והם לא יכולים להסביר מה “בחוץ” אומר או מה “רע” אומר. המחשה: “סבתא רבתא שלי לא נהגה כי לא היו מכוניות בעיירה שלה, אבל אני חושב שגם אשתי לא צריכה לנהוג מאותה סיבה.”
סוג 2 — היהודים ה”חכמים” (ה”טיפשים”): המתוחכמים שהגיעו למסקנה שאתיקת התורה מתיישרת בצורה מושלמת עם מאמרי המערכת של הניו יורק טיימס. גרסה קיימת כעת שמיישרת את התורה עם שמרנות בסגנון ברייטבארט — גם ריאקציונרית ושטחית, אם כי לא לגמרי טיפשית.
הביקורת העמוקה ביותר מכוונת לאלה הנחשבים לאינטלקטואלים יהודיים רציניים. למרות התחכום שלהם, כל אחד מהם מקבל כל מחויבות אנטי-מטאפיזית של תפיסת העולם המודרנית. הם רק מנסים לעבוד *בתוכה*. הם לא מאתגרים את היסודות שלה.
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אבחנה קונקרטית: האם אתה מאמין במלאכים (*מלאכים*)?
– אף הוגה יהודי קדם-מודרני *לא* מאמין במלאכים.
– אף הוגה יהודי מודרני *כן*.
– אם אנג’לולוגיה היא חלק חשוב מהיהדות שלך, אתה “יהודי עתיק”.
– *מקובלים* מודרניים נדחים כ”בכלל לא מקובלים” — הם מצמצמים הכל לפסיכולוגיה, וזה שטות.
– מלאכים אינם פסיכולוגיה. הם לא רק מצבים פנימיים או חלקים מהנשמה.
– מלאכים הם ישויות ביניים — שליחים מאלוקים לאדם ומהאדם לאלוקים (מתייחס לסימפוזיון על תפקי
ד ה*דיימונים* כמתווכים).
– מלאכים הם חיצוניים למוח. יש להם קיום עצמאי. הם גדולים מהפרט וקיימים לפני ובאופן עצמאי מהאדם.
– מחשבה קיימת *בגללך*. מלאך הוא משהו שאתה עשוי להתקיים *בגללו* — הוא קודם לך ואינו נוצר על ידי התודעה שלך.
– הרמב”ם מאמין במלאכים — ולא חושב שהם דברים בראש שלך. גם כשהוא מזהה אותם כשכלים, הם ישויות אמיתיות שבלעדיהן העולם לא הגיוני.
– הם לא אלוקים, והם לא אנחנו חושבים על אלוקים. הם תופסים מרחב אונטולוגי אמצעי אמיתי.
– הם לא נעלמים כשאתה עוצם עיניים — הם נמשכים גם אם אתה מת.
– פרטים פיזיים (כנפיים וכו’) הם משניים ושנויים במחלוקת; הנקודה האונטולוגית היא מה שחשוב.
אם אין ישויות מתווכות אמיתיות בין אלוקים לעולם, אז כל הארכיטקטורה המטאפיזית היהודית הקלאסית קורסת. העובדה שאף הוגה יהודי מודרני לא שומר על אמונה ב*מלאכים* אמיתיים מוכיחה שכל העולם האינטלקטואלי היהודי המודרני — שמאל, ימין, ריאקציונרי, מתוחכם — כבר ויתר על המשחק למחויבויות האנטי-מטאפיזיות של המודרניות.
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– סוג 1 (יהודים פרומים): אומרים שהם מאמינים במלאכים אך אין להם קשר חוויתי או אינטלקטואלי איתם. אליהו הנביא לא בא אליהם כי “הוא לא אוהב לדבר עם *משוגעים*.”
– סוג 2 (יהודים מודרניים/חילוניים): אליהו לא בא אליהם כי הם לא מאמינים בו, מה שהופך את הגעתו לבלתי אפשרית לוגית.
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המטרה היא ליצור בית ספר של אנשים שבאמת מאמינים במלאכים — לא בגלל “שכתוב כך בתורה”. נעשה הבחנה חדה בין להאמין בדבר ולהאמין בטקסט שמזכיר את הדבר. עולם בית יעקב “מאמין ב*שדים*” רק בגלל שהגמרא אומרת כך — אבל אם מישהו היה טוען שהוא בפועל *ראה* שד, כולם היו צוחקים. זה מוכיח שהם לא באמת מאמינים בשדים; הם מאמינים בסמכות הגמרא. באופן דומה, “להאמין במלאכים כי זו מצווה להאמין” הוא אחד מ”הפתרונות המודרניים המוזרים” שמצמצם הכל לחובה טקסטואלית. זה לא מספיק.
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החזון איש מזוהה כאחד האנשים היחידים במאה השנים האחרונות שבאמת עסק בפעילות של חשיבה. עם זאת, בהיותו פרום, הוא גם “לכן משוגע” — כלומר החשיבה שלו היא לסירוגין: שורה אחת של מחשבה אמיתית ואחריה נסיגה ל”כתוב בהיילגע תורה.”
הקושי טמון בהבחנה מתי החזון איש באמת חושב לעומת שימוש בקיצור דרך של סמכות. לפעמים מה שנראה כמו פנייה גרידא לסמכות עשוי להכיל מחשבה שהקורא לא תפס. ספרו (*אמונה ובטחון*) הוא לא שלם, לא מפותח — הוא מזהה בעיות אמיתיות אך אז “סוגר אותן עם איזה אני מאמין מוזר.” גם בהלכה, החזון איש לעתים קרובות יש לו תובנה מבריקה אך אז “קופץ” — הטיעון שלו יכול ללכת לשני הכיוונים והוא לא שם לב, או שהוא לא ממשיך עד הסוף.
ישיבות לא מלמדות חשיבה. הן מלמדות אותך לסדר מחשבות של אנשים אחרים בסדר הנכון (*הכי דידס*). החזון איש בפועל משתמש בספרים ובסמכות ככלי מחשבה, לא רק כמקורות לחזור עליהם. הוא מנסה לחשוב עד שהוא מסכים עם מה שהטקסט אומר, או עד שהוא מאמין בזה — והוא דן בשיטה זו במפורש.
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תלמיד מעלה את המשך חכמה כדוגמה נגדית אפשרית. המשך חכמה אומר “*פשטים* טובים מאוד”, אבל פשטים אינם חשיבה. הוא חכם, בעל השכלה רחבה, ונוגע בבעיות אמיתיות שאף אחד אחר לא נוגע בהן — אבל אין ראיה ל*חשיבה* אמיתית בעבודתו.
קריטריון מפתח: המשך חכמה אף פעם לא אומר “*צריך עיון*” על עניין בסיסי, מעורר תמיהה באמת. הוא אף פעם לא מראה את עצמו תקוע. לעומת זאת, מורה נבוכים (מדריך הרמב”ם) כן חושב — מעיד על כך שאלות פתוחות, רגעי היסוס (*מגמגם*), ומתחים בלתי פתורים. הרמב”ם לפעמים “כבד פה וכבד לשון” — נאבק באמת.
הוגה שעוטף כל שיעור בצורה מושלמת — מתחיל עם 17 שאלות ועונה על כל 17 — הוא בלפן. הוגה אמיתי יהיה לו לפחות שאלה אחת שהוא באמת לא יכול לענות עליה. הדפוס של החזון איש — שורה אחת של מחשבה אמיתית ואחריה שורה שלא באמת עונה עליה — הוא עצמו סימן לאותנטיות. הוא כעס על עצמו ונסוג לאני מאמין.
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מורים שחושבים לשורה אחת ואז נסוגים לסמכות הם לא פשוט משקרים לעצמם. הם פרומים, הם מפחדים — אבל יש גם חכמה מסוימת בזה, כי אנשים שלוקחים מחשבה אחת ו”פשוט רצים איתה” דרך כל המסקנות שלה הם לעתים קרובות חד-ממדיים וטיפשים.
בלוגרים רציונליסטים מצוטטים כדוגמאות: היה להם “מחשבה אחת או רבע מחשבה” ועקבו אחרי כל מסקנה ממנה. אבל “חכמה בסיסית היא שיש צד אחר.” כשהוגה פרום אומר “זה נראה נכון כשורת חשיבה אמיתית, אבל כתוב בתורה [אחרת],” הפרשנות הנדיבה: “אני לא הראשון שחושב בעולם; משה רבינו גם חשב; אז לעת עתה אני פשוט אמשיך הלאה.”
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תלמיד מאתגר את ההעדפה של העתיק על המודרני. התגובה: “חס ושלום” — העתיקים מודגשים רק בגלל שהתלמידים כל כך תקועים בהנחות מודרניות שצריך “האק א קאפ” כדי לעקור אותם. זה עניין של איזון, לא דחייה אמיתית של המודרניות. הוגים מודרניים הם “מאוד רציניים”, אבל כל הטיעונים שלהם כבר נמצאים באפלטון. הם לא המציאו טיעונים חדשים; הם לקחו צד אחד ורצו איתו. המסגור עתיק-מול-מודרני הוא “לא באמת המסגור הטוב ביותר” וכנראה צריך להיות נטוש — אבל זה הכרחי פרגמטית בהתחשב בכמה קשה לתקשר את הרעיונות האלה.
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המסגור ההיסטורי (מעקב אחר רעיונות דרך תקופות ותנועות) הוא לא הדרך האידיאלית להציג את הרעיונות האלה. כל הטיעונים היסודיים כבר היו קיימים בעת העתיקה — באפלטון, בנרטיב של התורה עצמה (טיעוני השטן לאדם הראשון), ולאורך טקסטים עתיקים. הוגים מודרניים (דקארט וכו’) מוצגים באופן שגרתי על ידי אקדמאים כמי שצפו על ידי קודמים. הנרטיב ההיסטורי הוא רק פיגום פדגוגי — מסגרת שאנשים כבר יש להם בראש — שעוזרת לתלמידים לתפוס מה קורה.
אקדמאים מודרניים משחקים כל הזמן את המשחק של הצגה שרעיונות שלכאורה חדשניים צפו מאות שנים קודם לכן, ומה שנכתב הוא רק שבריר ממה שנחשב ונאמר בחברות שלמות.
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החזון איש מציג רגעים של בהירות יוצאת דופן בחשיבה, אך אז חוזר מעת לעת לעמדות ברירת מחדל — לא בגלל שהוא טיפש, אלא בגלל שאפילו הוגים אמיתיים נמשכים בחזרה על ידי כוח המשיכה של הסביבה שלהם. זה ממוסגר כיצר הטוב “מתעורר” ומפריע לבהירות של יצר הרע (היפוך של המסגור הרגיל). אנשים רבים ש”חושבים בעצמם” באמת רק חוזרים על מה שהניו יורק טיימס רוצה שהם יחשבו, או שהם רק קונטרריאנים שבאופן רפלקסיבי לוקחים את העמדה ההפוכה. אף אחד מהם אינו מחשבה רצינית. *הפוליטיקה* של אריסטו על עבדות — שלושה פרקים עם טיעונים חזקים משני הצדדים — ממחיש שאם אתה חושב שאחד מהצדדים “ברור”, אתה לא חושב ברצינות.
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1. חסרה לו התמונה העתיקה המלאה. למרות הבריקות שלו, לחזון איש אין גישה או שליטה במסגרת האינטלקטואלית העתיקה השלמה. זה מוביל לתסכול גלוי בכתביו — הוא לא יכול להסביר הכל באופן מלא כי חסרים חלקים.
2. התיקונים שלו לשימור אמונות ישנות חלשים. כשהחזון איש מנסה לטלאי את הפערים במסגרת שלו כדי לשמור על עמדות מסורתיות, הפתרונות הם “מאוד טיפשיים”. המושג של ציווי (ציווי אלוהי) מסומן כהגרוע ביותר מהתיקונים האלה — מנגנון גס שמופעל כדי להחזיק דברים ביחד שלא עומד בביקורת רצינית.
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ההנחה המודרנית המרכזית: מה שחשוב הוא רק מה שבלב שלך. הביטוי התלמודי *רחמנא ליבא בעי* (“אלוקים רוצה את הלב”) נתפס כטקסט הוכחה כי הוא מתאים בצורה מושלמת להטיות מודרניות. זה לא רציני — לקחת הצהרה בת שלוש מילים ולקרוא לתוכה את כל ההנחות של המודרניות.
– החסידים טוענים: יש לנו את הלב הטוב ביותר, אז אנחנו מנצחים.
– בעלי המוסר טוענים: יש לנו הבנה שונה ומעודנת יותר של הלב, אבל אותו מהלך בסיסי — פנימיות היא מה שחשוב.
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הרומן של חיים גראדע *הישיבה* מוצג כטקסט מפתח להבנת תפיסת העולם של החזון איש. גראדע היה *חברותא* וחבר של החזון איש, וסופר מוכשר. החזון איש עצמו לא היה סופר טוב — הוא לא יכול היה לתאר דמויות ביעילות או להעביר את החזון שלו בצורה ספרותית. גראדע, לעומת זאת, יכול היה, והרומן שלו מתאר (תחת שם בדוי) את החזון איש ואת האנשים השונים סביבו עם הרעיונות הרדיקליים המתחרים שלהם על מה מהווה אדם טוב. הרומן מראה את החזון איש מנסה להחזיק במשהו עתיק מאוד תוך הכרה שהוא הרבה יותר מתוחכם ממה שבני דורו מציעים.
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אם אתה באמת קורא *שמועסן* של מוסר, הם אומרים כלום במשך עמודים שלמים. הם “פשטניים בצורה מטורפת”, חוזרים על עצמם, ומשעממים באופן משמעותי עמוק. ובכל זאת בעלי המוסר רואים את עצמם כאנשים החכמים והעמוקים ביותר בחיים — טוענים להבין את האנושות בעוד ש*ראשי הישיבה* רק חוזרים על אביי ורבא.
כל בעל מוסר “ששווה משהו” מאמין שהוא פיצח את הקוד של האדם. הגרסה המודרנית נקראת תורת הנפש (פסיכולוגיה של הנשמה). לאנשים האלה יש “חצי מרבע של תיאוריה” והם כל כך מתרשמים ממנה שהם כותבים כאילו גילו הכל. הם טוענים “להבין אנשים” אך מבינים כמעט כלום.
החזון איש — המחזיק גם במוח מהיר וגם באומץ אינטלקטואלי (שני המרכיבים החיוניים למחשבה רצינית) — מקשיב למאסטרים של המוסר האלה ומוצא אותם חסרים. ה”אלטער” מסביר איך אנשים מרמים את עצמם, אז כותב 14 כרכים על הטעיה עצמית, ותגובת החזון איש היא: “אוקיי, ועכשיו מה? מה אתה באמת אומר לי? ואתה לא מרמה את עצמך בזמן שאתה כותב את כל זה?”
השך על חושן משפט מכיל הבנה של האנושות “10,000 מייל יותר עמוקה” מהבנת אדוני המוסר של *נגיעות* (הטיה/אינטרס עצמי). חושן משפט הוא *כולו על* אנשים שמטעים את עצמם — מחלוקות על קודש מול חול, דיני *שוחד*, עדות ותביעות מתחרות. למסורת ההלכתית יש מודל הרבה יותר מתוחכם ומפורט של הטבע האנושי מאשר לבעל המוסר שרואה את עצמו נעלה על הלכה “גרידא”.
זה מתחבר למושג של נבל ברשות התורה: בעל המוסר חושב שהלכה היא לנמוכים רוחנית, בעוד ש*הוא* יש לו הבנה אמיתית. אבל בפועל, כשאתה באמת מתעסק עם *משגיח* מוסר במחלוקת אמיתית, הוא מתברר כ”הבחור הכי טיפש” וה”רשע הכי צדקני” — פשטני, יהיר, ובלי העומק שהוא טוען.
זו פתולוגיה רחבה יותר — אנשים שמאמינים שפיצחו את הקוד של הטבע האנושי. חלקם באמת גילו משהו; דמויות המוסר הנדונות “אפילו לא גילו בסיסי” — החוט נחתך.
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אופן הלימוד המובהק של החזון איש: הוא מבלה שעות מדי יום בקריאת תוספות, רמב”ם, שך — טקסטים משפטיים מורכבים. הוא לומד הלכה למעשה, לא באופן הבריסקאי של הפיכת הכל לפילוסופיה מופשטת. הוא קורא הלכה כפירוש על המצב האנושי — לא רק “מה הפסק” אלא מה זה מגלה על המורכבות של יחסים אנושיים. יורה דעה וחושן משפט בפרט נכנסים ל*קישקעס* (קרביים) של מה זה אומר להיות אדם. חיוני: אתה אף פעם לא יוצא מסוגיה כמו שנכנסת — לפחות עם החזון איש. תהליך הלימוד באמת משנה את ההבנה שלך, בניגוד לרוב האנשים שפשוט מאשרים את ההטיות הקיימות שלהם מראש.
כשהחזון איש מיישם גישה זו לנושאים כמו *ציצית* (*בין אדם למקום*), זה הופך “קצת מבלבל”, ויש שאלה האם המגבלה הזו נובעת מרקע חסידי. אבל למשפט בין אישי ואזרחי, העומק בלתי ניתן להכחשה.
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לפני שפותח ספר כלשהו, הוא כבר יודע מה ה*פסק* צריך להיות. יש לו *שכל הישר*, מבין את ה*דעת* (רוח החוק), ומוצא את התשובה שמתאימה. האנשים האלה בדרך כלל הגיוניים, לפחות לאלה שחושבים באופן דומה.
גישה זו אומרת שאפשרות 1 היא רק הקרנת ההטיות שלך על התורה. השיטה הנכונה היא שתהיה לך אין תפיסה מוקדמת — אתה פותח את השולחן ערוך ופוסק לפי מה שכתוב, נקודה.
– כמובן שאתה נכנס עם דעה — אחרת אתה לא אדם. וכמובן שסמכות טקסטואלית חשובה — אתה לא יכול פשוט לעקוף את הפוסקים.
– אבל אף אחד מאלה לא מה שלימוד באמת הוא. אם זה היה רק אפשרות 1, רב חכם יכול היה פשוט להכריז על הפסק שלו ולבקש ממישהו לכתוב תשובה אחר כך. אם זה היה רק אפשרות 2, אתה יכול לחפש את הערות השוליים בפסקי תשובות ולסיים.
– הנקודה האמיתית של לימוד: אתה נכנס עם האינטואיציה שלך (סברא), ואז הגמרא מראה לך שהיא גם שקלה את הרעיון שלך — אבל אז זווית שנייה, שלישית, רביעית. אחרי שעברת את הסוגיה עם תוספות, יש לך ארבע עשרה דרכים שונות לחשוב, לא ארבע עשרה סמכויות לשקול. המוח שלך נפתח באמת.
– התוצאה: “עכשיו אני באמת לא יודע מה לעשות” — ו*זה* כשחשיבה אמיתית מתחילה, כי אתה חייב לנווט במורכבות אמיתית.
אנשים טועים וחושבים שסברות (טיעונים ל
וגיים/אינטואיציות) הן “דברים בראש שלך”. הן תיאורים של המציאות. כל שיטה במסורת מתאימה לזווית אמיתית על המציאות שפספסת בגלל הביטחון הראשוני שלך. החזון איש קורא את כל ההיסטוריה של השיח ההלכתי בדרך זו: כל דעה מלמדת אותו משהו על המציאות. אין לו “אמונה פשוטה” בכל אחרון — אם מישהו טועה, הוא אומר זאת. אבל הסמכויות שהוא סומך עליהן גורמות לו לחשוב, והוא יוצא מהסוגיה עם הבנה יותר מתוחכמת, לא יותר מבולבלת. לעומת זאת, אנשים רבים מתחילים עם תיאוריה טובה ומסיימים מבולבלים כי הם מערימים סמכויות מבלי לשלב אותן.
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אנשים ש”מזלזלים” בלימוד מניחים שהמודל היחיד של לימוד הוא המודל המבוסס על סמכות (אפשרות 2). לכן הם מסיקים: “אנחנו לא צריכים את זה; אנחנו פשוט אנשים טובים.” התגובה: “אתם לא אנשים טובים.” אתם לא מבינים שבריר ממה שגורם לאדם לתפקד בהשוואה למה שהשולחן ערוך מבין. השולחן ערוך פשוט טוב יותר.
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יש הטיה אישית לתחושה ש*בין אדם לחברו* לא באמת חשוב כל כך. אבל אותו טיעון חל שם.
אנשים חושבים שהם יודעים מה זה שבת: “אתה נח.” אבל אם לוחצים עליהם להגדיר מנוחה, הם לא יכולים. הלכות שבת מכילות הבנה פי ארבעה עשר יותר עמוקה ומסובכת של מהי מנוחה — כזו שמתאימה למציאות. ההלכה שואלת: מה אנשים בפועל עושים כשהם עובדים? כשהם נחים? כשהם חושבים שהם נחים אבל באמת עובדים בראש שלהם? מסקנה: להלכה יש תפיסה הרבה יותר מתוחכמת של המציאות מ”כל העולמות האלה, כל ספרי החסידות ביחד.”
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אנשים קוראים את האר”י ורואים תיאורים טכניים של 17,000 רמות של עולם היצירה. הם מוצאים את זה משעמם. אז הם פונים לרמח”ל או דמויות דומות שאומרות: “זה הכל משל. הנמשל הוא: תהיה אדם טוב. חסד פירושו שאלוקים עושה דברים שאתה אוהב; דין פירושו שאלוקים עושה דברים שאתה לא אוהב. האר”י רק סיבך את זה.”
“אני לא יודע אם מסגרת המשל-נמשל שלך נכונה, אבל אני יודע דבר אחד — האר”י היה הרבה יותר חכם ממך.” לתיאוריה של העולם של הפשטנים יש שניים או שלושה משתנים. לתיאוריה של האר”י יש 17 מיליון משתנים. הוא פשוט הרבה יותר קרוב למורכבות של המציאות בפועל. גם אם תקוות “תיאוריית הכל” היא לצמצם דברים לחמישה עקרונות, לפרט אותם דורש מיליוני משתנים. אתה לא יכול לחשב את העולם האמיתי בלעדיהם. הפשטנים חושבים שהם החכמים והאר”י היה הטכנאי הנאיבי. “אתה פשוט טיפש. אתה מפשט עד כדי כך שזה אפילו לא מעניין.” הסתייגות: אולי 17,000 המשתנים הספציפיים של האר”י הם כולם פנטזיה והמשתנים האמיתיים שונים — אבל השיטה שלו לגשת למציאות עם רמת התחכום הזו היא הרבה יותר מעולה.
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מה שהחזון איש בפועל אומר: “אתה אפיקורס. אתה חושב שאתה הולך עם השכל שלך, אבל התורה אומרת את ההיפך מהשכל שלך.” מה שהחזון איש באמת מתכוון: “אתה טיפש.” אין לו סבלנות להסביר *למה* השכל שלך בסיסי, אז הוא פשוט קורא לך אפיקורס. “זה הרבה יותר גרוע להיות טיפש מאשר להיות אפיקורס.”
הביקורת האמיתית של החזון איש על המוסר: הם גילו את המושג של נגיעה (הטיה אישית) וחשבו שמצאו את המפתח להכל. “כן, לאנשים יש נגיעה, תודה רבה. זה הכל? זה מסביר הכל? לא, זה מסביר כמעט כלום.” כשאנשים בגיל מסוים מגלים מושג פשוט בפעם הראשונה, הם חושבים שגילו את העולם. אדם צעיר שומע את זה ואומר, “אוקיי, ואז מה?” — וכל העניין נשרף.
ספר (אולי ספר מודרני על הטיה קוגניטיבית) נמצא מעניין אך לא יכול היה לבנות חיים סביבו. אפילו פסיכולוגים מקצועיים שבילו 30 שנה בלימוד הטיה הגיעו לתיאוריות שגם התבררו כשגויות. הלכה, שכולם שמחים לדחות כלא מתוחכמת, בפועל מכילה חשיבה הרבה יותר עמוקה על העניינים האלה.
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החזון איש אומר: “ההלכה היא מה שאלוקים רוצה ממך.” ההתנגדות: “מה? מאיפה אתה מביא את זה? למה אתה בכלל צריך את זה?” הלכה היא פשוט תוצר של אנשים שחשבו יותר זמן ויותר ברצינות על המקרים האלה ממה שאתה עשית. אתה לא צריך את הטענה התיאולוגית כדי להצדיק את הסמכות של ההלכה. כשהחזון איש עושה את המהלך התיאולוגי הזה, הוא עוסק בדמגוגיה — וכאן הדרכים מתפצלות.
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קטע ספציפי מהחזון איש (*פרק ד’, הלכה ה’*) ממחיש נקודה רחבה יותר על אחדות המידות:
החזון איש מתאר מקרה נפוץ: אדם שרואה את עצמו כ*צדיק* גדול מכיר שיש לו בעיות *בין אדם לחברו* (מידות רעות), אבל מאמין שלפחות יש לו *יראת שמים* אמיתית. מקרה המבחן: האיש הזה נקרא ל*עלייה לתורה*, אבל מסרב לעלות כי העלייה המוצעת אינה מכובדת מספיק — הוא מקבל רק *שלישי* או יותר.
ביקורת החזון איש: הגמרא קובעת במפורש (*”ואויבי ה’ יכלו”*) שמי שנקרא לעלייה ומסרב הוא *מבזה דבר ה’*. כבוד התורה עולה על כבוד אישי. האיש הזה לגמרי תחת שלטון היצר הרע (*תחת שלטון היצר הרע*). הדתיות הנראית שלו — קניית המצה היקרה ביותר וכו’ — היא רק הרגל, לא *יראת שמים* אמיתית. ברגע שמתעורר כל קונפליקט אמיתי בין האגו שלו לבין חובה הלכתית, האגו מנצח.
המטרה העמוקה יותר: החזון איש תוקף את הטענה הסטנדרטית של המוסר שאנשים יכולים להיות *מושלמים* ב*בין אדם למקום* בעוד שהם חסרים ב*בין אדם לחברו*. הוא טוען שהדיכוטומיה הזו שקרית — האדם שנכשל בין אישית גם חסר *יראת שמים* אמיתית. המידות מאוחדות.
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החזון איש מציג את המקרה כדיכוטומיה נקייה: ההלכה אומרת בבירור שאתה חייב לעלות; האיש לא עולה; לכן חסרה לו *יראת שמים*. אבל ההלכה לא כל כך ברורה. זו בדיוק הנקודה על טבע ההלכה: היא המערכת המשפטית הכי לא דוגמטית שאפשר לדמיין. תמיד יש הסתייגויות, חריגים ושיקולים מצביים.
עליונות ההלכה טמונה בתשומת הלב שלה למורכבות ולפרטים של מצבים אמיתיים, לא בהיותה מערכת פורמליסטית נוקשה. החזון איש עצמו מבין זאת בעבודה ההלכתית בפועל שלו, אך כשהוא טוען פולמוסית נגד דמויות מסוג המוסר, הוא נסוג לרטוריקה של “ההלכה בבירור נגדך.”
מה אם האיש באמת הוא אדם *חשוב* שכבודו קשור לתורה? מה אם להיקרא לעלייה הלא נכונה בפועל מעלה שאלה הלכתית לגיטימית על *כבוד התורה*? זה באמת אפשרי שהפסק ההלכתי הנכון הוא שאדם כזה לא צריך לעלות — ש*כבוד התורה* שלו דורש להמתין לעלייה המתאימה.
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תמיכה טקסטואלית מרכזית באה מהרמב”ם, הבנויה סביב הגמרא המפורסמת במסכת נדרים:
*”מפני מה תלמידי חכמים אינם מצויין לצאת תלמידי חכמים מבניהם?”* — למה בניהם של תלמידי חכמים לא הופכים לתלמידי חכמים?
תשובה (רב יהודה בשם רב): *”שלא ברכו בתורה תחילה”* — כי הם לא “ברכו בתורה תחילה.”
פרשנות 1 (הרבי והחבר של הרמב”ם):
תלמידי חכמים התרשלו בלהיות *עולה לתורה* — הם חשבו שיש להם דברים טובים יותר לעשות (ללמוד משניות, גמרא), היו חסרי סבלנות ללכת לבימה, נשארו בבית וכו’. *הזלזול* הזה בתורה גרם לכך שבניהם לא הפכו לתלמידי חכמים. זה מתיישר עם עמדת החזון איש.
פרשנות 2 (השקפת הרמב”ם עצמו — “פאנקט פאכערט” / בדיוק ההיפך):
*”שלא ברכו בתורה תחילה”* פירושו שהם לא לקחו את העלייה הראשונה. ההלכה היא שכהן קורא ראשון, אבל זה חל רק כשכולם בעלי מעמד תורני שווה, או כולם *עמי הארץ*. כשיש *תלמיד חכם* אמיתי שהוא *ישראל* והכהן הוא *עם הארץ*, ה*תלמיד חכם* צריך לעלות ראשון. הרמב”ם מצטט את הנוהג של רב, שהיה עולה לפני הכהן בישיבה שלו, מה שמוכיח ש*”גדול התורה יותר מן הכהונה והמלכות.”* ובניו של רב הפכו ל*תלמידי חכמים*.
מסקנת הרמב”ם: אם *תלמיד חכם* מתכופף ל*כהן עם הארץ* ומקבל עלייה מאוחרת יותר (כמו *שלישי*), הוא מלמד במרומז את בניו שלהיות כהן חשוב יותר מתלמידות תורה. אל תתפלא כשהילדים לא הופכים לתלמידי חכמים.
הפשט של הרמב”ם הוא בדיוק ההיפך מעמדת החזון איש. לפי הרמב”ם, הבעיה אינה שהתלמיד חכם סירב עלייה מתוך יהירות — הבעיה היא שהוא קיבל עלייה פחותה מתוך ענווה כוזבת או כניעה, ובכך השפיל את כבוד התורה.
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*הלכה למעשה*, עמדת הרמב”ם לא יושמה במלואה — כהנים עדיין מקבלים את העלייה הראשונה. העניין נותר לא מוכרע (*לא ברור*). כלל המשנה של *דרכי שלום* מספק סיבה מעשית: בלי סדר קבוע מבוסס על כהונה, כל שבוע היה מתדרדר למריבות על מי הוא התלמיד חכם הגדול יותר. מערכת הכהנים נמנעת מזה — כולם יודעים שהכהן לא מקבל את העלייה בגלל המלומדות שלו.
המחשות הלכתיות נוספות של מורכבות ושיקול דעת מובנים:
– גבאי הסנהדרין יכול לפעול כראות עיניו — תחום בעלי הדעה.
– יש הלכה של “עושה השם” — של מי משתחווה ראשון לפני התורה.
– יש הלכה של “ומקום מטעי תחילה” — של דעת מי בפועל נכונה.
– תשובה לרמב”ם (המוזכרת דרך האגודה) ממחישה עוד יותר את המורכבות השכבתית הזו.
כל אלה מראים שבתוך ההלכה עצמה, יש עקרונות מתחרים שדורשים שיפוט, לא רק יישום כללים.
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דפוס חוזר: הפרקטיקה וההבנה ההלכתית בפועל של החזון איש היא מתוחכמת ורגישה להקשר. אבל הרטוריקה הפולמוסית שלו נגד המוסר והדתיות הפשטנית מסתמכת על הצגת ההלכה כמערכת ברורה ופורמליסטית שמניבה תשובות חד-משמעיות. זה יוצר מתח: התחכום ההלכתי שהחזון איש מגלם בעבודתו האמיתית סותר את השימוש הרטורי שהוא עושה בהלכה בטיעוני ביקורת המוסר שלו. סיפור העלייה הוא המחשה מושלמת: החזון איש מציג את זה כמקרה פתוח וסגור, אבל חקירה הלכתית רצינית (כולל תשובת הרמב”ם) מראה שהמסקנה ההפוכה לפחות ניתנת להגנה באותה מידה.
כשאתה משתמש בהלכה כרכב למוסר, אתה הופך הכל לגרוע יותר, כי:
– המוסר מניח שטוב הוא פשוט וברור.
– אנשים מניחים שההלכה צריכה לכן גם להיות פשוטה וברורה.
– אבל הלכה אינה ברורה — היא עמוקה מורכבת, רב-שכבתית ותלויית הקשר.
הדבר היחיד שיכול באמת לנווט במורכבות הזו הוא שכל הישר, או חכמה מעשית, או — בשימוש במונח האריסטוטלי — פרונזיס. ההלכה עצמה לא מייצרת אוטומטית את היכולת הזו; היא דורשת סוג של שיפוט שמתעלה על ציות לכללים.
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סתירה פנימית מתמשכת במחשבת החזון איש מופיעה בהקשרים רבים:
– מצד אחד, החזון איש מבין עמוקות שהלכה היא “נתונה למרא דהלכה” — היא לא מערכת כללים נוקשה אלא משהו שמופקד בשיפוט של הפוסק ההלכתי.
– מצד שני, כשהחזון איש מאמין שמשהו *הוא* ההלכה המוחלטת, הוא מתייחס לכל מי שלא מסכים כגובל באפיקורסות, כאילו הכלל היה ברור מאליו ומחייב בלי מרחב פרשני.
אכן יש עקרון הלכתי של הקשבה לבית הדין ול”שופט אשר יהיה בימים ההם”, אבל מי נחשב לשופט הסמכותי הזה הוא עצמו שאלה אנתרופולוגית/סוציולוגית, לא הלכתית מוכרעת.
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הטיעון הנכון נגד המוסר הוא לא ש”הלכה היא דבר ה’ והמוסר לא.” זה “דבר מאוד טיפשי.” הטיעון האמיתי צריך להיות:
– לתנועת המוסר: אתם חושבים שטוב הוא פשוט, שוכן ברצון ובמוח. אבל העולם הרבה יותר מסובך מזה.
– טוב הוא במעשים האמיתיים, שחייבים להתאים למה שהמוח אומר — אבל המוח עצמו מורכב יותר ממה שהמוסר מכיר. הוא כולל לא רק רצון אלא הבנה, הבחנה ושיפוט הקשרי.
– הלכה, כשמבינים אותה נכון, *היא* על העיסוק העשיר והמורכב יותר הזה עם המציאות. אז החזון איש צודק במהות — הלכה עדיפה על מוסר פשטני — אבל טועה בניסוח שלו.
לחזון איש חסרה השפה הפילוסופית לבטא את התובנה הזו, או אולי היו לו מחויבויות תיאולוגיות שמנעו ממנו לומר את זה. אז במקום לטעון מהמורכבות של המציאות וטבע הטוב, הוא נסוג לטענה ש“השם עשה את זה טוב” — שהלכה עדיפה פשוט כי היא רצון ה’ (רצון השם).
הניסוח הזה לא רק חלש פילוסופית אלא אפילו שגוי במונחים ההלכתיים שלו עצמו, מכיוון שיש עקרון הלכתי מוכר (א”צד”) ששיקולים מסוימים הם דוחים הלכה — הם עוקפים כללים הלכתיים קפדניים. אז אפילו בתוך המערכת ההלכתית, הטענה שהלכה היא תמיד המילה הסופית והפשוטה אינה ברת קיימא.
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סיפור שמסופר על החזון איש: מישהו דיווח שלמדן גדול אמר משהו שסותר פסק הלכתי מסוים. החזון איש הגיב (ביידיש): “הוא אכן גדול, אבל התורה אפילו גדולה יותר” (*איז טאקע זיי זיי גרויס, אבער די תורה איז נאך גרעסער*).
אולי כשהחזון איש מפעיל “רצון השם,” מה שהוא *באמת* מתכוון — ברמה העמוקה ביותר שלו — הוא שהמציאות של אלוקים היא הרבה יותר מורכבת ומתוחכמת מכל מוח אנושי יכול לתפוס. “נאך גרעסער” — אפילו גדולה יותר מהאינטלקט האנושי הגדול ביותר. החזון איש אולי *הבין באינטואיציה* בדיוק מה שנטען לאורך כל השיעור הזה (שהמציאות והטוב מורכבים יותר ממה שהמוסר מאפשר), אבל ביטא את זה בקיצור תיאולוגי (“רצון השם”) ולא בשפה פילוסופית.
תלמיד דוחף בחזרה, מציע שייחוס כל זה ל”רצון השם” הוא קריאת מסגרת פילוסופית לתוך החזון איש. התגובה: “אני חושב שרצון השם חכם יותר אפילו מזה” — כלומר המושג של החזון איש עצמו על רצון אלוהי עשוי להיות עשיר יותר מכל ניסוח פילוסופי בודד. זה מוכ
ר כמה שזה בדיוק מה שהחזון איש עצמו חשב על העניינים האלה.
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1. הקונצנזוס הקלאסי קבע שהאדם הטוב מוגדר על ידי תורה ומצוות (חכמה ומעשה) — חכמה ומעשים טובים ביחד.
2. קריסת הטלאולוגיה והריאליזם המוסרי שברה את סולם יעקב — המבנה המשלב בין אלוקים לעולם — ויצרה תגובות חד-ממדיות: חסידות (אלוקים בלי עולם), מוסר (עולם בלי אלוקים), ניהיליזם, או ציווי אלוהי.
3. המוסר הוא פשטני — הוא מצמצם טוב לרצון וכוונה, משטח את המורכבות של המציאות המוסרית וההלכתית. העוסקים בו טוענים להבין את הטבע האנושי אך מחזיקים רק בשבריר מהתובנה המוטמעת בספרות ההלכתית.
4. הלכה, כשמבינים אותה נכון, היא עשירה ומורכבת — היא דורשת פרונזיס/שכל הישר, לא ציות לכללים, ומכילה מודל הרבה יותר עמוק של הטבע האנושי מכל טקסט מוסר.
5. החזון איש צדק במהות שהלכה עדיפה על מוסר כמדריך לחיים הטובים.
6. אבל החזון איש טעה בניסוח — הסתמכותו על “רצון השם” כהצדקה, במקום טיעון מהמורכבות של המציאות והטוב, החלישה את עמדתו ואפילו סתרה עקרונות הלכתיים.
7. האירוניה העמוקה ביותר: החזון איש אולי הבין את כל זה באינטואיציה אך חסרה לו — או בחר לא להשתמש — בשפה כדי לומר את זה כראוי. התורה היא “נאך גרעסער” — אפילו גדולה יותר — מכל ניסוח, כולל שלו עצמו.
מרצה: תן לי לראות אם הרב, איך קוראים לו, רוצה לשמוע. הדף הזה הוא חקירה של משהו שהתחלנו כאן. אמרת שזה בארף, אני חושב. זה היה עניין של לייקווד. הדף האחרון כאן שנתן את התיאוריה ההיסטורית של איך כולם התחילו את הדבר, העיקר הוא להרגיש טוב, שיהיו לך הרגשות הנכונים, אמרתי שנראה שרבי קרליץ כתב ספר בשם *חזון איש* [מתייחס לרבי אברהם ישעיה קרליץ, הידוע על שם שם ספרו]. בסוף, הוא כתב כמה פרקים על הרעיונות שלו על תיאולוגיה, שנקראים *אמונה ובטחון ועוד* – זה באמת *אמונה ובטחון ומוסר*, אני לא יודע למה הם דילגו על המילה האחרונה – זה על הנושאים. אני לא יודע איך הוא קרא לזה.
ושמתי לב שהוא ניסה לבטא את התיאוריה שלפני הבעל שם טוב, או לפני עמנואל קאנט, או לפני דייוויד יום – אותו רעיון – תיאוריה של איך להיות אדם טוב. זה מה שאמרתי, זוכר?
עכשיו, מה שאתה אומר, מה שאמרת לי היום, ומה שאני אומר, זה שזה מאוד חשוב לשים לב לזה. וזה משהו שאתה צריך לשים לב אליו. וזו דרך נוספת לומר את אותו הדבר שדיברנו עליו אז. דיברנו על פרט אחד שלו, או על מקרה אחד שלו.
מרצה: איך יש את זה – בוא נגיד את זה בדרך שה*חזון איש* היה אומר את זה, או בדרך שהליטאי היה אומר את זה – שיש גרסה ישנה על מה זה אדם טוב, שזה אותו דבר כמו מה זה יהודי טוב, נכון? מי הוא האדם האידיאלי?
כל המסורת היהודית, עד נקודה מסוימת, כולם מסכימים על זה, או כמעט כולם מסכימים על זה. אני חושב שזה יותר מסובך מזה, אבל בסדר, כולם מסכימים על זה. והאדם האידיאלי הזה נקרא – הממ – הוא אמר שזה נקרא *תלמיד חכם*.
ה*חזון איש* – כולם ידעו עד הבעל שם טוב, או הבעל סלנטר [רבי ישראל סלנטר, מייסד תנועת המוסר] – כולם ידעו שהבחור הכי גדול בסביבה הוא *תלמיד חכם*. זה מה שכתוב בגמרא, במדרש, בכל מקום.
תלמיד: *חכם*?
מרצה: כן, *תלמיד חכם* זה מוזר… אנחנו יכולים ללכת ל*שיין* [אולי מתייחס למקור ספציפי] ואני אגלה על זה.
תלמיד: לא *נביא*?
מרצה: לא הרבה דברים. לא, אני לא יודע. לכן אמרתי שזה יותר מסובך כשאתה מתחיל לומר, לא פילוסוף, לא *נביא*. אני לא בטוח שזה נכון, כי זה אולי כולל את הדברים האלה. מה שלא זה איזה אירוע.
יש לך, מאוד ברור, אני חושב שאי אפשר לערער על זה ואני לא חושב שיש אפילו ויכוח על זה. אתה יכול לשאול משהו אחר. אתה יכול לומר, *תלמיד חכם*, או *תלמיד חכם* יהיה גם זה, או שיש עוד סוג של יהודי טוב, אדם טוב, שהוא *בעל מעשים*.
מרצה: או שאתה עושה תורה או שאתה עושה מצוות. זה שני הדברים. או תורה או מצוות. נקרא בחז”ל בדרך כלל *חכמה ומעשה*. או שאתה עושה תורה, לומד תורה, *חכמה* – אתה יכול לכלול *נבואה* ופילוסופיה והכל בזה אם אתה באמת רוצה. אני לא חושב *תלמיד חכם* – אם כי ה*חזון איש* אולי, כן, חושב שזה מסובך – ואו מצוה, מישהו שעושה מצוות.
זה מה שכל יהודי אי פעם חשב שזה אדם טוב. ובאופן אידיאלי שניהם, אבל בסדר, לפעמים אנשים מדגישים את זה, לפעמים הם מדגישים את זה, בסדר.
מרצה: עכשיו, פתאום בא הבעל שם טוב [מייסד החסידות], או באים *בעלי מוסר*, תנועת המוסר, כביכול, והם מגיעים עם אידיאלים חדשים של מה זה אדם טוב. מאוד מפורשות, לא האידיאל הזה.
הם אומרים, לא, אדם טוב, מה החסידים אומרים? מי הוא אדם טוב? מישהו שיש לו *דבקות*. זה מה שהחסידים אומרים. אם אין לך *דבקות*, אתה יכול לעשות כמה שאתה רוצה. לא אכפת לנו ממך. זה מה שהם אומרים, מאוד מפורשות. והם מאוד מודעים, למעשה, לזה, שהם הולכים נגד מה שכולם עד לפניהם ואחריהם, כאילו, לא חשבו ככה.
מרצה: [החתם סופר] היה יהודי ישן. הוא לא היה *מתנגד*. אתה רואה, זה לא אומר להיות *מתנגד*. זה מאוד ברור. לחסידים יש את הדבר המוזר הזה שהעולם מתחלק לחסידים ו*מתנגדים*, אבל הוא לא. הוא מתחלק לאנשים רגילים וחסידים ו*מתנגדים*. *מתנגד* זה גם משוגע, כאילו הוא כבר נגד.
תלמיד: נגד.
מרצה: *מתנגד* זה עוד… זו כזו…
תלמיד: עוד סוג חדש של דבר, נכון?
מרצה: זו כזו מילה רעה.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אתה קיים כדי ללכת נגדנו.
תלמיד: נכון.
מרצה: אז יש ישן, פשוט יהדות מיושנת, או אתיקה מיושנת, שהיא, אדם טוב הוא מישהו שעושה תורה ומצוות, באופן אידיאלי שניהם. של, אולי תורה יותר ממצוות, אולי מצוה יותר מתורה, יש דיונים על זה, אבל זה מה שזה.
מרצה: אז בא הבעל שם טוב, והם אומרים, לא, אדם טוב, אדם אידיאלי, האדם הכי טוב, הוא זה שיש לו *דבקות*. מי יודע מה זה *דבקות*, אבל זה משהו שזה לא תורה ומצוות, זה בטוח. כן, תורה ומצוות מובילות לזה, תורה ומצוות הן בשביל זה, כל מיני *נשתתיק לך*, תורה, אבל זה לא זה.
באותה דרך, בדרך דומה בא, בדרך דומה בא, אם מישהו שנולד אצל חסידים יש לו *סמגדוס* כשאני אומר את זה, אבל זה בגלל שהם מאוד רגילים לכל אלה מסוג זה, זה כאילו, לכן, אין שום דבר יותר ברור מזה, שחסידים מגיעים עם דרך חדשה להגדיר מי הוא האדם הכי טוב.
והם אפילו מודים בזה, זה רק שחסידים מאוד רגילים לאפולוגטיקה מוזרה. הם כאילו, כן, אבל היה איזה *צדיק* פעם אנחנו יכולים למצוא במשנה שהיה, לא ידע איך ללמוד, אבל עדיין *צדיק* וכן הלאה. זה הכל הסחת דעת. אני לא יכול להיכנס לזה, אבל זה מאוד ברור, ולא יכול להיות שום דבר יותר ברור מזה.
עכשיו, הם אולי צודקים, תראה, הם אולי לא טועים, אבל זו שבירה מאוד ברורה.
מרצה: באותה דרך, או בדרך שונה, אבל בדרך דומה, ה*תלמידים* של רבי סלנטר, רבי ישראל סלנטר, ועוד כמה סלנטרים, הם באו ואמרו שלא אכפת להם אם אתה לא לומד, לא אכפת להם אם אתה עושה מצוות, אכפת להם ממשהו חדש שנקרא להיות מענטש. זה עניין ה*בעל מוסר*.
לא אכפת לנו מזה. כלומר, כמובן שאכפת לנו. כמובן שאכפת לנו. אבל בסופו של דבר, את מי אנחנו מכבדים? את מי אנחנו חושבים שהוא האדם האידיאלי שמקבל שבחים? מישהו שהוא מענטש, שיש לו *מידות* טובות, מתנהג כמו מענטש. והם באים עם כל הסיפורים האלה, שלימוד זה לא מספיק, בלה בלה בלה, אתה צריך להיות בעל *מידות*.
הם מתכוונים שיש לו *יראת שמים*. אפילו משהו שה*בעל מוסר* בעצם כן מדגישים. לפחות חלקם, הם אומרים, *יראת שמים* ויש לו *מידות* טובות. בסדר. אבל זה עדיין סיפור מאוד שונה מהסיפור הישן על מישהו ש- זו העובדה, בסדר?
מרצה: עכשיו, כמובן, יש כמו אנשים כמו [לא ברור] שבאים ומנסים לומר מאוד, כאילו, עכשיו, אז עכשיו, בוא, בוא, בוא, בוא נסביר את זה. זה הסיפור.
עכשיו, בגרסה שלי, הדבר החדש הזה, ואלה שתי תנועות מודרניות, נכון? אולי יש, כולם אומרים שיש להם קודמים, יש תנועות פרה-מודרניות שאומרות דברים דומים. אני לא יודע, אולי כן, אולי לא, וזה לא באמת [מעניין] אותי כי אני לא באמת מאמין שזה סיפור היסטורי. אני פשוט באמת נותן סיפור מבני. יש רעיונות על זה. זה לא רק עובדה היסטורית.
אם כי, רעיונות כן נעשים יותר ופחות פופולריים לאורך ההיסטוריה, אבל זה לא על זה. אתה תמצא מישהו, ה*חובות הלבבות* אולי אמר את זה. אוקיי, אז הוא אותה בעיה. אני לא מכחיש שאולי היו אנשים לפני שאמרו דברים דומים.
מרצה: אבל מה שחשוב זה שאנחנו צריכים להבין את שתי התנועות המודרניות האלה. אני נותן את זה בגרסה המודרנית, התגלמות של סוג הבעיה הזה, כתגובות לאותה סוגיה, שהיא שהדרך המיושנת של כאילו אדם טוב, מישהו עושה תורה ומצוות, זו הגרסה היהודית של זה, נכון, או הגרסה העתיקה של זה.
מרצה: אני לא יודע איך דיברנו. איך אריסטו אמר, לא תורה ומצוות? שיש לו סגולות אינטלקטואליות ומעשיות, נכון? אותו דבר. אותו דבר עם פרטים קצת שונים על מה השכל ומה המעשים הטובים, אבל אותו רעיון.
מרצה: ועכשיו, מכיוון שמסיבות שונות, אנשים הפסיקו להבין את זה, הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים לומר את זה, הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים לחיות את זה, הפסיקו להיות מסוגלים להאמין בזה. אחת הסיבות שדיברנו עליה קשורה לטלאולוגיה וכן הלאה. אבל אני חושב שיש אפילו יותר סיבות. לכן, זו סיבה אחת מאוד בסיסית. להפסיק לראות טוב כדבר אמיתי, משהו שאינו תכונה של אנשים או פעילויות בעולם.
מרצה: אז לכן, אנחנו בסופו של דבר תקועים ומחפשים איזו דרך חדשה. עכשיו, או שאתה יכול להיות אידיאליסט. זה האמיתי, כאילו, הקו השטוח כאן, כאילו ברירת המחדל האמיתית עכשיו. אתה יכול להיות איזה בחור שחושב שהוא יודע מה הוא עושה, שהוא יכול לעשות מה שהוא רוצה. זו אופציה אחת, כמובן. מכיוון שכולנו מעמידים פנים שאנחנו דתיים, זו לא אופציה. אז אנחנו צריכים למצוא פתרון אחר.
מרצה: אז אחד הפתרונות היה לומר *דבקות*, מה שזה לא אומר, שזה בהחלט לא אותו דבר. זה משהו מאוד פנימי, נכון? כל הביקורת שיש לי על פנימיות יתר חלה על זה.
מרצה: או משהו גם, במובן מסוים, פנימי. אבל בכל מקרה, אני חושב שאנחנו גם נתקעים בעיקר בפנימיות, אפילו כשהם מדברים על להיות מענטש. לפחות האנשים שאני מכיר שעובדים במסורת שלהם בעיקר בסופו של דבר חושבים שהבחור שמרגיש, יש לו אמפתיה למישהו הוא *צדיק* יותר גדול מהבחור שבאמת מגייס כסף בשבילו.
אז הם נראים שבסופו של דבר מגיעים למקום מאוד דומה, אבל עם דברים שונים. הם לא באמת מאמינים באלוהים. זו ה*מלכות* המאוד שונה. תראה אותם, אנשים אחרים, נכון?
מרצה: מכיוון שדרך מאוד מוזרה נוספת לומר את זה היא הדרך הישנה מאוד שאמרנו את זה פעם על הסולם שנשבר, נכון? סולם יעקב. סולם יעקב נשבר, מה שאומר שאין יותר *מלאכים*. אף אחד לא מאמין ב*מלאכים*, נכון? יש סימן לזה, מה שאומר שאין שום דבר שגורם לעולם ולאלוהים לעבוד ביחד כסוג של יחידה, כסוג של דבר קוהרנטי, מובן.
מרצה: אז עכשיו, יש לך בעצם, או שאתה יכול להיות כלום, זה מה שאמרתי, או שאתה יכול להיצמד לאלוהים בכל זאת, אז אתה הורס את העולם, זו החסידות, או שאתה יכול להיצמד לעולם, איזו שלמות שניתן למצוא באיזו דרך מוזרה פנימית בעולם, ולהרוס את אלוהים, שזה מה שה*בעלי מוסר* עושים, הם לא באמת מאמינים באלוהים.
מרצה: או שאתה יכול למצוא דרך שלישית שהיא הרעיון של ציווי אלוהי שאני לא בטוח איזה אחד זה, זה אחד מאלה.
תלמיד: נראה לי שאנשים, החוט המשותף שאתה אומר, הם לא מאמינים בשום טוב אמיתי. הם לא מאמינים, הם לא נראים שמאמינים בשום מהות אמיתית בזה.
מרצה: כן, אין שום דבר שקיים. שום דבר לא קיים. אין, זה פשוט, הם מכורים, משהו כזה. כאילו, הם לא, אין שום…
תלמיד: כן, כן, כן. נכון. לכן, אם יש טוב, זה יכול להיות רק מוטל מבחוץ, שאלוהים נתן לזה משמעות, או אלוהים אמר לך לעשות. זה לא אומר…
מרצה: כן, כן. *חכמת הכלאם* זה זה, בדיוק, במובן מסוים. זה הסיפור. זה בא כסיפור הבסיסי שיש לנו.
עכשיו, חזרה למקום שבו אני נמצא. יש אנשים מסוימים שמאוד מנסים לומר לאנשים, כולם תקועים במעגלים שלהם, נתקעים כי יש להם כמות מאוד מוגבלת של אופציות ותמונה מאוד מוגבלת, מבט מאוד מוגבל על העולם, ולכן נתקעים באחת מהקיצוניות האלה.
כאילו, הכל רק על *דבקות*. אני לא רק אומר ש*דבקות* היא דבר רע, אבל אתה סוג של מכחיש, אתה הופך להיות כמו *מתנגד לעולם*, אתה הופך להיות כמו מה ששלינג אמר, אתה לא יכול לקבל שולחן שעומד על רגל אחת, הוא הולך ליפול מהר מאוד. באותה דרך עם להיות *מתנגד*, דברים כאלה. כולם הופכים לדברים קטנים מדי, דברים שלא באמת מקיפים את העושר והשונות של החיים.
זו הביקורת הגדולה האמיתית של אחת הבעיות הגדולות עם סוג הדבר הזה היא שהם הופכים מאוד חד-ממדיים, כאילו הכל הופך להיות על זה, ואז כל ממד אחר הוא רע, לא המקרה, בדרך כלל. זה בדרך כלל מה שקורה. ונראה, אם נגיע לזה, נראה בדיוק למה זה קורה, אבל זה מה שקורה.
ועכשיו, כמה אנשים, מעט מאוד אנשים, בעצם הצליחו לבטא התנגדות לזה. זה מאוד קשה לבטא התנגדות, במיוחד כשאתה עובד בתוך מבנה עולם, השקפת עולם, שהיא כבר הגורם לרוב הבעיות האלה. זו הבעיה.
תלמיד: גם, מה שרק אמרת, כי זה לא שהם בהכרח טועים, אבל הם חד-ממדיים. אז מה שאתה הולך לומר זה, לא, יש יותר. והם כאילו, זה יותר קשה להמציא את זה.
מרצה: כן, זה בעצם עושה את זה יותר קל, כי אז אנחנו חוזרים למה שהחכמה תמיד עשתה, שזה למצוא איך מה שאתה אומר הוא רק חלק מהסיפור. יש דרכים, אבל אתה צריך לעשות הרבה עבודה.
אז כמו שאמרתי, אנחנו יכולים לראות את כל הדרכים האלה כמנסות לשמור בחיים או להחיות מחדש, לעשות לכל מה שהסיפור העתיק הוא, מה שהסיפור האמיתי הוא, אבל יש קושי מאוד גדול מכיוון שלרוב האנשים אין אפילו את המילים שבתוכן אתה יכול לדבר את זה. אז אתה בסופו של דבר או מתרגם את עצמך אליהם ואז מאבד הרבה, או נלחם איתם, שזה גם דבר מאוד בעייתי, נכון?
כדי להיות מאוד ברור, להילחם עם העולם זה גם לא דרך מושלמת לחיות. כאילו להיות זה שתמיד מסביר שהכל מושחת והכל להיות *מתנגד* זה בעצמו דרך חיים, להיות זה שנגד כולם. וזו לא דרך טובה לחיות. זה בדרך כלל רע. בדרך כלל, גם, כי זה חד-ממדי, גם, כי זה לא באמת מתחשב באיך אנשים באמת הם ולמה הם באמת הם כמו שהם. אתה פשוט מבטל אותם באמירה, אה, אתה אחד מהאנשים המודרניים האלה. אתה כופר. זו לא דרך אמיתית להבין מה האדם הזה. ולכן, אתה מאבד קשר עם אנשים. יש הרבה רעות בזה. זה בעצמו לא דרך מאוד שימושית לחיות.
אז אתה צריך להחליט מה לעשות. יש לי בעצם מאוד מוזר…
אז עכשיו, כל ה*צדיקים* בעצם, כולם שלא רוצים פשוט להיכנע לניהיליזם, מחפשים דרך לפתור את הבעיה הזו. רובם עושים, כלומר, יש כל כך הרבה דרכים להתמודד עם זה.
אבל, אחד הדברים שהם עושים זה לנסות לדבר בשפה החדשה ואז אתה מאבד הרבה ויש אנשים שאפילו שוכחים. כמו שאנשים לא מבינים כמה, אנשים אומרים את זה על הרמב”ם, נכון, באופן מפורסם, ובמובן מסוים זה נכון, ובמובן אחר זה לא נכון כי אנשים חושבים את זה רק כדי להבין מה שקרה, אבל במובן מסוים, אתה יודע, אנשים אומרים את זה, אתה יודע, כשהרמב”ם תרגם, זה מה שהם אומרים, זה לא נכון, אבל הם אומרים שהרמב”ם תרגם את המחשבה היהודית לשפה של הפילוסופיה היוונית המוסלמית, וזה היה שלו עשיית יריד הצדיק, נכון? זה היה יריד הצדיק שיורד לקליפות כדי להציל את האנשים האחרים.
אבל אם אין לך את הבעיה הזאת, אז אנשים יכולים להגיע למסקנה. לכן, אם אתה לא חושב בשפה או מדבר פילוסופיה יוונית, אז אין לך שימוש ברמב”ם. כמו שהרב קוק אמר, כפסה אין צריך להדליקה. יש כמה מצוות שאם הן כפסה, אנחנו לא צריכים להדליק אותן מחדש, כי זה בכל מקרה היה רק דרך לדבר בשפה של כמה אנשים.
זה לא תיאור נכון של מה שהרמב”ם עשה, אבל זה עדיין מבנה אמיתי. אם אתה עושה את זה, אני חושב שהרבה אנשים לא מבינים כמה מהדברים שהם מאמינים. כמו, זה היהדות האמיתית. זה לא. זו הדרך האמיתית שבה איזה בחור ניסה להיות מחזיר בתשובה, אתה רוצה לדבר אליך בשפה שלך. אבל מישהו שאין לו את זה, זה אפילו יותר טוב. ואז, זו אופציה אחת. בסדר?
אנחנו לא מנסים, אנחנו מנסים לא לעשות את האופציה הזאת. זה שלי, הדבר שלי זה להפסיק לעשות את זה, כי, בעיקר לא מסיבות יהודיות, נכון? בעיקר כי השיטות האלה הן מטופשות. למה שננסה לדחוף את עצמנו לדרכים מאוד טיפשיות ודרכים מאוד לא שלמות של הבנת העולם רק בגלל שכולם חושבים ככה. זו לא סיבה מספיק טובה.
תלמיד: למה אתה מתכוון? למה לא צריך לדבר בשפה שאנחנו מדברים?
מורה: כן, כמו שיש אופציה. יש אופציה כזאת.
היום כולם מאמינים, זוכרים במה אנשים אמריקאים מאמינים? היה סוציולוג שאמר שכל האנשים באמריקה, לא משנה מאיזו דת הם, מאמינים במשהו שנקרא דאיזם טיפולי מוסרי. מה זה אומר? הם מאמינים באלוקים שלא באמת מעורב בעולם. הוא בעיקר גורם לך להרגיש טוב עם עצמך, והוא הופך אותך לאדם טוב. הוא הופך אותך לאדם טוב איך? אני לא יודע. הוא מאמין שאתה אדם טוב, לפחות.
תלמיד: כן. הוא גורם לך לחשוב שאתה אדם טוב.
מורה: אני לא יודע. אני לא יודע. תן צדקה. לפעמים עזור לשכן שלך. דברים בסיסיים. זה מה שכולם, בעצם, באמריקה מאמינים. ואם אתה מסתכל על כל ה… ואחד הספרים שנכתבו נקרא קתולי, פרוטסטנטי, יהודי, נכון? שלושת סוגי האנשים הדתיים באמריקה, כולם בעצם מאמינים בזה. הם רק שרים שירים שונים בכנסיות שלהם. ולפעמים הם אפילו לא שרים שירים שונים. אבל בעצם, זה כל מה שכולם מאמינים.
ואז אחד הדברים שהרבה רבנים עושים, ובכל גרסה, כמו שאתה יכול להגיד, בא ואמר לך שכוח החשיבה החיובית, וואו, חצי מחב”ד זה זה. חצי מחב”ד, כמו קירוב, כשהם מגיעים לתוכן. אני לא מדבר על המצוות או דברים כאלה. כמו הבחור הזה של ביטחון, הבחור של ביטחון, הבחור של ביטחון.
תלמיד: בחור הביטחון, אז בחור הביטחון הוא מאוד אמריקאי, זה נקרא חיוביות רעילה, תכונה אמריקאית מאוד.
מורה: כן, אתה מכיר את בחור הביטחון, הם שמים את זה בדפים. ביטחון שבועי, זה מה שזה.
תלמיד: לא, לא, זה לא רדיקלי, זה שונה, לא רדיקלי. הוא רק אומר, הוא רק מדבר על זה. הוא לא רדיקלי.
מורה: זה מה שהוא מנסה להגיד, הוא אומר שהוא מאמין בחיוביות רעילה.
תלמיד: אפשרי, אבל אני חושב שהוא יותר כן.
מורה: בסדר, הוא בחור ממש דתי. פעם חשבתי מה שאתה אומר, אני פשוט, קראתי את זה, אני כמו, זה פשוט חילוני.
תלמיד: כן, כל זה, זה כוח החשיבה החיובית. אתה יכול למצוא שאופרה מאמינה באותו דבר.
מורה: והרבה אחרים, בעצם כולם באמריקה מאמינים בזה. היא לא בסביבה יותר, לא משנה. אני לא יודע. כל האנשים האלה, כלומר, עכשיו יש דברים חדשים שמוכנים. אבל זה משהו שעדיין מאוד מקובל. ולכן, זה מה שאתה מלמד. ואתה אומר שזו היהדות. זה לא לא יהדות. כלומר, כן, אני בטוח שיש כמה מקורות לזה וקצת נכון. אבל זה דילול מאוד גדול.
וזה דבר מאוד גדול אז זה דבר אחד שאתה יכול לעשות או שאתה יכול אפילו אנשים חושבים שזה כל היידישקייט?
תלמיד: לנסות לעצב את זה ככל היידישקייט? רעיון אחד או סוף היידישקייט?
מורה: מה אמרנו, אל תהיה מתייאש, זוכר? בעצם זה. זה בעצם מה שהגילוי של יידישקייט, כן. לא מתייאש, זה כמו להיות קשה על עצמך. עכשיו אתה אומר, טראכט גוט וועט זיין גוט, זה הכל אחד, זה תלוי, זה שונה משאר. האמון האמריקאי הוא שהכל טוב, השם אוהב אותך, והוא צריך אותך, וכל זה. אבל ילדים, זה רק סוף של ספק.
אני לא מדבר עליך. אתה לא הלקוחות לסוגים האלה של דברים בכל מקרה אי פעם, אז אתה אפילו לא מבין את זה. אבל יש דרכים יותר מתוחכמות לעשות את זה שכן נדבקות אליך. דרכים קצת יותר מתוחכמות. ובכל דור, ובכל קבוצת אנשים, מה שהם באמת מאמינים בעצם, או באיזה מסגרת שהם באמת מאמינים.
דרך אגב, זה דבר מאוד גדול להפוך אנשים לאנשים טובים בתוך המסגרת שלהם כי זה מספיק קשה. זה מספיק קשה פשוט להמשיך להיות אנשים טובים נורמליים שמפרנסים את המשפחות שלהם ולא גונבים ולא הורגים. ופחות או יותר, זה מספיק קשה. זה הישג גדול אם אתה יכול לעשות את זה. אני לא כאן כדי לבזות מישהו שעושה את זה. אני חושב שזו עבודה אמיתית.
תלמיד: זה נחשב רף נמוך, בכל זאת?
מורה: לא, זה לא רף נמוך. אני חושב שזה הרבה. אני חושב שזה הרבה. אני חושב שזה הרבה. אני לא חושב ש, כמו שאמרתי, אתה צריך לזכור שברירת המחדל היא משהו הרבה יותר גרוע מזה. כל הקלישאות בעולם טובות יותר ממה שהם עושים בברוקלין, בסדר? אני לא יודע איפה זה עכשיו, כמו, מרכז היפסטרים, לא משנה. כל זה, כל זה, זה עדיין, זה הישג גדול, זה הרבה, אני לא חושב שזה מעט.
ושנית, כי אני חושב שיש ביקורת אמיתית שצריך להעלות, לא בגלל שירשנו את המסורת הזאת שאומרת דברים אחרים וכן הלאה. לא, לא, לא בגלל, תראה, אם אתה עוקב אחרי זה, אתה בסופו של דבר אומר שחצי מהדברים האמיתיים בתורה הם—אתה בסופו של דבר שהכל הוא בעיה, וכל הדברים בתורה שאמורים להיות טובים הם באמת רעים, וכל הדברים שנאמר שהם רעים הם באמת טובים, ולמה אנחנו בסופו של דבר עושים כל דרשה זה על פרשנות מחדש של מה שהתורה אומרת שהוא טוב. באמת התכוונתי לומר שזה רע. כשהתורה אומרת שמשהו רע, היא באמת התכוונה לומר שזה טוב. ומי אמר לנו מה באמת הולך להיות רע באמת? מערכת המערכת של הניו יורק טיימס.
אז, זה—אני אפילו לא אומר את זה, זה משהו שאני אומר לפעמים, אבל זה לא, אני אפילו לא אומר את זה. אפילו זה עדיין טוב יותר מלהיות אדם נורא שכבר מלא, אבל אני אומר משהו אחר. מה שאני אומר זה שבתור גוי, לא בתור ילד, מאוד חשוב, בתור גוי, בתור גוי שאוהב לחשוב באופן ביקורתי, או אפילו זו מילה שהם גנבו מאיתנו, אבל שאוהב לחשוב, תפיסת העולם הבסיסית הזאת שבתוכה כל האנשים האלה עובדים—היא מאוד מטופשת, לפחות לא שלמה. זה אפילו יותר גרוע מזה, אבל זה לפחות לא שלם. וזה לא רציני. זה בעצם לא רציני.
אני נותן לך את כל הסיבות למה אני חושב שזה לא רציני, אבל זה בעצם לא רציני. כלומר, זה מה שאני עושה כל שבוע. אני נותן לך את הסיבות למה אני חושב שזה לא רציני. זה לא רציני. אז, תשכח אם התורה אומרת את זה, או אם זה תואם, או שזה לא מתאים לתורה, התורה מתאימה לזה, התורה לא מתאימה לתורה. נכון? תשכח את השאלה.
האם הפתרון לכל שאלה שעולה בחינוך של הילדים שלך צריך להיות שיש מטפל שיודע את התשובה? חוץ מזה שזה לא טוב, אתה יודע, יש לנו ניסיון בחינוך של ילדים ובני נוער ומבוגרים כמו 5,000 שנה או כמה זמן, ואיכשהו הצלחנו לחיות בלי כל האנשים האלה. זה טיעון אחד מטופש. אבל חוץ מזה, זה פשוט לא רציני. הם לא באמת פותרים שום דבר.
אתה צריך להתקשר ל—זה לא הקטע הזה, בכל מקרה, נכון? אתה צריך להתקשר לבית הספר, למנהל, שכל פעם שיש לו ילד בעייתי שנשלח למטפל, אז אתה צריך לבקש מהם את כמה ילדים המטפל הזה באמת עזר. הם נותנים לך מספרים. כמו מתוך 70 אנשים שהיו להם בעיות, הם ראו את זה. אני לא מנסה לעזור. אתה עשוי להיות מנותק לרגע.
בסדר. עכשיו אתה נותן שאלות אחרות. אני רק אומר שהילדים לא רציניים. זה בעצם לא רציני. זו הבעיה העיקרית. אז יש לי בעיה אחרת שפשוט לא רצינית. האנשים האלה אף פעם לא באמת חשבו על מה הן בעיות אמיתיות, אף פעם לא חשבו על מה הפתרונות יכולים להיות. זה פשוט לא רציני.
אבל זו בעיה שיש לי עם המענטש שלנו. לכן, לאן נכנסתי לכל זה? לכן, ועכשיו יש לי ערימה של אנשים שאומרים, ובכן אפילו אם זה לא רציני, אבל הרב אמר, הרב לא אמר את זה, ניסיתי לעזור לך. אל תהיה כל כך מטופש, אל תהיה כל כך לא רציני, ובואו ננסה להקשיב כשהרב מהקק עליך. אולי הוא מנסה להגיד משהו יותר טוב אז. מה דעתך שתקשיב לרב כשהם מהקקים? כמובן, הם גם לא באמת מבינים, אבל לפחות הם מייצגים משהו שהוא כמו הרבה יותר ישן מהמחשבות שלך, נכון?
כלומר, זו כמו אחת האינטואיציות השמרניות הבסיסיות, כמו משהו שרוב האנשים ביקום חשבו במשך 3,000 השנים האחרונות, כנראה שהם אמרו משהו. הם היו משוגעים, אולי. אבל זה כנראה שווה לחשוב על מה שהם אמרו. זה רק היוריסטיקה אחת, לא באמת טיעון.
אבל הנקודה שלי היא יותר שמאחר וזה לא רציני, כמו שאתה רואה שזה לא רציני, צריכה להיות דרך להציג את הדרך הרצינית הזאת, לא בגלל הצורך של היהדות. היהדות לא צריכה את זה. היהדות תשרוד מאוד טוב עם כל האנשים המטופשים שמלמדים קלישאות. וזה כבר טוב. אני יכול לחשוב על דברים יותר גרועים מזה. אז זו לא הבעיה שלי. אני לא כאן כדי להציל את היהדות. היא הולכת לשרת אותנו הרבה יותר טוב עם האנשים האחרים האלה. אני פשוט כאן, בשבילי ובשביל האנשים כמוני שמנסים להיות רציניים, מנסים לקיים מחשבות רציניות, להיות מסוגל לעשות את זה בצורה רצינית. זה הכל.
עכשיו, חוזרים לחזניש הקדוש. עכשיו, אנחנו מוצאים שבתוך האנשים שעומדים נגד העולם, יש סוגים שונים.
עכשיו אלה שלא באמת יודעים למה ומה, והם פשוט מדברים, בסדר. הם עשויים להיות מועילים במובן מסוים, פשוט על ידי יצירת מרחב כדי כמו, לא לקבל אוטומטית מה שזה לא יהיה.
תלמיד: כן, כמו שאלות בלי תשובות, בעצם?
מורה: אין להם אפילו שאלות. כי הם אפילו לא יכולים להסביר לך מה לא בסדר עם העולם. הם יכולים רק כמו לצעוק, וזה אפילו לא טיעון. זה שימושי קצת חברתית, אבל לא יותר מזה.
אבל אז, יש כמה אנשים מעניינים מאוד, אנשים, מעט מאוד מהם, שבאמת כן חושבים. יש אנשים כאלה שהם בעצם כן חושבים. והם כן מנסים לנסח מה לא בסדר עם העולם, או מנסים לפחות לתת את הגרסה האלטרנטיבית שלהם איך הדברים צריכים להיות הגיוניים.
אני לא יודע. בהקשר היהודי, אין בעצם אף אחד שבאמת טוב בזה. הם עשויים להיות כמו קתולים ואנשים כאלה. אפילו, כן, בואו לא ניכנס ללשון הרע הזה על העדן. בכל מקרה, אפילו כמה מהאויבים שלנו יש להם יותר טוב, תיאוריות יותר שלמות של העולם ושל מה שקורה מאשר לכל אחד מאיתנו. זה ברוך. יש לנו יותר ערך מכל אויב אחר. אויב זה פשוט אנשים שרוצים אותנו מתים. זה קל להיות. זו הגדרה הפשוטה.
אבל אפילו לכמה מהם יש הבנות יותר שלמות של איך הכל עובד, למרות שעשויות להיות להם הטעיות ובעיות משלהם. אבל יש להם איזושהי הבנה של מה שקורה, שבעצם אף אחד בהקשר היהודי לא אומר. זה מאוד מוזר.
היהודים שאנחנו מכירים, יש רק שני סוגים. אחד מהם הוא האנשים הריאקציונרים, אנשים שהם כמו, פשוט תעשה מה שתמיד עשינו. והם לא עושים מה שתמיד עשו, אבל זו בעיה אחרת. והכל בחוץ רע. הם לא באמת יודעים מה החוץ אומר ומה רע אומר וכן הלאה. אלה סוג אחד של אנשים.
תלמיד: למה הם נקראים ריאקציונרים?
מורה: כי הם פשוט מגיבים נגד המודרניות או נגד מה שזה לא יהיה.
תלמיד: אה, הם נגד ה, כן.
מורה: כן. כמו, אני לא יודע, סבתא רבתא שלי לא נהגה כי לא היו מכוניות בעיירה שלה, אבל אני חושב שהאישה שלי גם לא צריכה לנהוג מאותה סיבה. אלה האנשים. ואם אתה שואל אותם למה, הם מתחילים לומר, הם פשוט אפילו לא אומרים את זה. אז, זו רק גרסה אחת.
ואז יש את האנשים החכמים. אנחנו קוראים להם האנשים המטופשים. כולם חושבים שכל השיעור שלי כבר פי שלושה יותר מתקדם, אז אנחנו כבר תומכים בזה. אבל כולם חושבים שאלה היהודים המטופשים.
אז יש את היהודים החכמים, כמו כל ה—מי? מי היהודים החכמים? המתוחכמים, נכון? אלה שגילו שהאתיקה של התורה היא בדיוק האלטרואיזם של הניו יורק טיימס. זה סוג אחד. יש אפילו כאלה שעכשיו, עכשיו שיש לנו, כמו, ברייטברט או כמה מהגילויים שזה בעצם זה, וזה לא דבר מאוד מטופש. זה גם ריאקציוני ומאוד לא עמוק בדרך כלל, אבל זה דבר אחד אחר.
ואז יש את כל אלה, כמו, אנשים מתוחכמים ש, בכל מיני דרכים שונות, עדיין 100% האנשים שהם הוגים. אני לא יודע את מי אתה מכיר ומה אתה קורא וכן הלאה, אבל עד כמה שאני יכול לדעת, כולם בעצם מקבלים כל מחויבות מטאפיזית בודדת של התיאוריה המטופשת הזאת. הם פשוט מנסים לעבוד בתוכה. מחויבויות לא-מטאפיזיות, אנטי-מטאפיזיות, נכון?
במילים אחרות, האם אתה מכיר הוגה יהודי מודרני שמאמין במלאכים? כי אני לא מכיר הוגה אחד פרה-מודרני שלא. זה שלי, שלי, שלי סימן. אם אתה, אנגלולוגיה היא חלק חשוב מהיהדות שלך, אז אתה יהודי עתיק. אם זה לא, אם יש לך ילד כשהוא שואל במקום מלאכים, אנחנו יכולים לשקול אותך. אבל חוץ מזה, אין בעצם יהודי מודרני.
המודרניים הם לגמרי לא מקובלים. הם לא באמת מאמינים בקיום של אף אחד מהדברים האלה. הם פשוט חושבים שזה הכל פסיכולוגיה, וזה שטויות. אז אין מחשבה יהודית מודרנית שמאמינה במלאכים.
תלמיד: אז לכן, הם כולם לא רציניים. כשאתה מאמין במלאכים, מה אתה מתכוון בזה? אני מנסה לדעת.
מורה: לא, בדיוק, כי פסיכולוגיה יכולה גם להיות דבר אמיתי, נכון?
תלמיד: לא, מה שאני אומר, אני באמת רק רוצה הגדרה.
מורה: לא מספיק מלאכים אמיתיים.
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא. זה כל האנשים המתוחכמים משכנעים את עצמם שזה שטויות. מלאכים הם ישויות ביניים. האם אתה מאמין בסיבתיות? האם אתה מאמין בסיבתיות, בעצם? זה נמשל אחד. כשברטון אומר את זה, הוא מתכוון לזה.
תלמיד: לא, כשאני אומר מלאכים, אני מתכוון מלאכים. מלאכים ממש. מלאכים ממש, כמו שכתוב בסימפוזיון שליחים מאלוקים לאדם ומאדם לאלוקים.
מורה: מה זה אומר?
תלמיד: אה כשאתה אומר שליח מה שליח אומר?
מורה: אני חושב עם כנפיים.
תלמיד: אז לא עם כנפיים?
תלמיד: כן, כמובן, פסיכולוגיה במובן של משהו שנמצא רק בתוכי, בוודאי.
המורה: כן, בטח. כן. משהו בין… אתה מתכוון שזה מגיע אליי בצורה כזו?
תלמיד: לא, לא. זה אולי מגיע דרך זה. אף אחד לא חולק על זה. אבל זה משהו אמיתי. משהו חיצוני לנשמה שלך. כן. זה מה שמלאך הוא. מלאך הוא לא חלק מהנשמה שלך.
המורה: האם מחשבה היא גם… רגע. מחשבה היא גם חלק… בוא נמשיך הלאה. אני רק תוהה אם אתה אומר, האם זה אותו דבר כמו מחשבה?
תלמיד: לא. כשאתה אומר מחשבה, בדרך כלל אתה חושב על משהו שקיים בגללך. לא קיים… אולי אתה קיים בגללו. לא בגלל שהוא קיים לפניך. גדול ממך. חיצוני למוח. יש לו קיום עצמאי. זה מלאך. אחרת זה לא מלאך. לא עושה את מה שמלאך צריך לעשות.
אז, כל מי שמאמין במלאכים, שהרמב”ם מאמין במלאכים, הוא לא חושב שמלאכים הם דברים בראש שלך. אני רק תוהה מה האמונה הזאת.
המורה: מהי הישות הזאת? ניכנס לדיון. כשנעסוק במלאכולוגיה, אז נתחיל לקיים דיונים מה הם. אבל עכשיו אין לך בכלל מקום לדבר כזה בעולם שלך. אתה מבין את הבעיה שלי?
הבעיה שלי היא לא שאתה לא חושב שלמלאכים יש כנפיים, ואני אומר שאין להם כנפיים. לא, הם פשוט שכלים. בסדר. אבל כשאני אומר שכלים, אתה חושב על משהו בראש שלך. זה לא משהו בראש שלך, זה איזה דבר אמיתי. משהו שהעולם לא הגיוני בלעדיו. וזה לא אלוהים וזה לא אנחנו חושבים על אלוהים. בסדר? משהו בין שני הדברים האלה. בסדר? באמצע, במרכז.
וגם לא במחשבות שלנו, שזה העולם שלנו. נכון. לא תלוי במחשבות שלך. הכל יכול להיכנס למחשבות שלך. מחשבות אנושיות הן דבר מוזר ומשונה שיכול איכשהו לגעת בהכל. אבל לא רק בגלל המחשבות שלך. בסדר?
למה אני אומר את זה? הדברים האלה חושבים בעצמם, בלעדיך.
תלמיד: כן, כמובן.
המורה: נכון. דברים שלא נעלמים כשאתה עוצם את העיניים. זוכר? לא, לא קשור אליך בכלל, גם אם אתה מת, זה עדיין קיים, זה… שוב, אנחנו יכולים להיכנס לדיונים. אולי, אולי זה צריך אותך כדי לתת לו מזון כדי להמשיך לחיות. אני לא יודע. אתה מבין? אנחנו יכולים לקיים דיונים. אבל הקיום של מרחב בעולם לסוג כזה של יצור, אתה מבין על מה אני מדבר? זה משהו שאיבדנו, שאין לנו.
עכשיו, למה אני אומר את כל זה? כי זה הסוג השני של יהודי, שלא מאמין במלאכים.
תלמיד: אה, טוב מאוד. אז הוא מבין.
המורה: אז יש רק שני סוגים אלה של יהודים. היהודים שאומרים שהם מאמינים במלאכים, אבל הם לא יודעים מה מלאכים הם. הם מעולם לא ראו אף אחד מהם. אף מלאך לא ידבר איתם כי הם טיפשים מדי בשבילם. וכן, אתה יודע? אתה יודע למה היחיד שלא בא לפרומע אידן? כי הוא לא אוהב לדבר עם משוגעים. האחרים, הוא לא בא כי הם לא מאמינים בו. יהיה מאוד קשה לו לבוא. אבל לפרומע אידן הוא לא בא כי הם משוגעים. אז עם מי הוא צריך לדבר? רק איתי, בעצם.
עכשיו, זו בדיחה מאוד מאוד עמוקה. אז זה בית יעקב, אז אין לנו אף אחד, נכון? בעצם אין לנו את זה.
אז עכשיו, מה יש לנו, אז זה מצב מאוד עצוב, ואנחנו כאן כדי לפתור את המצב. זו הקונספירציה שלי. אנחנו הולכים לפתור את המצב וליצור כל בית ספר שלם של אנשים שמאמינים במלאכים. סיום. לא בגלל שאם תאמין זה יתחיל את ה…
אם אתה שואל כותב, אמרתי לך הרבה פעמים. אם פיטר ובלייקווד, כולם מאמינים בשדים. למה? כי הם לא מאמינים בשדים. הם מאמינים בגמרא. הם מאמינים שהם חייבים לומר את זה כי זה כתוב בגמרא ואנחנו לא עוברים על הגמרא. בסדר.
ואתה רוצה שהם יגידו, אם אתה זוכר, אמרת פעם שהשקר הכי גדול שהם לא מאמינים בשדים הוא כי מישהו אומר, רק ראיתי שד. כולם צוחקים עליך. אף אחד לא מאמין לך. נכון. כי הם לא מאמינים בשדים. אמרתי את זה הרבה זמן. אני חושב שאתה צריך לומר שאתה מאמין בשדים. אתה אף פעם לא נכנסת לסמטה האפלה ההיא כמו, אוי אלוהים…
זה אחד הפתרונות, נכון? זה אחד הפתרונות, פתרונות מודרניים מוזרים של לומר שהכל עוסק בטקסט וזה אומר את המצווה, זה חיוב וכן הלאה. אז הילדים אמרו, זה המשל.
עכשיו, מה אנחנו הולכים לעשות, איך אנחנו הולכים לעשות את זה, אני לא יודע למה אני אומר את זה, אבל מה שאנחנו הולכים לעשות או אחד הדברים שאנחנו יכולים לעשות הוא שיש כמה מאוד, אז מכל היהודים בעולם, כל היהודים שחיים בהר, חייבים להיות יותר. אני חושב, אני לא יודע. זה לא יכול להיות. אולי יש מעט מאוד יהודים והמעט יהודים לא באמת מבינים. אני לא יודע למה יש כל כך מעט יהודים שבכלל מנסים לעשות את זה? אני לא יודע למה. או אולי יש, אין, זה פשוט משיגן. אני לא בטוח.
אז, אנחנו צריכים לנסות למצוא כמה אנשים שיש להם מספיק אומץ ומספיק מחשבה עצמאית, הם בעצם פשוט חושבים בעצמם, ומסוגלים לספר לנו איך לחשוב על העולם ואיך להתמודד עם זה.
עכשיו, אני חושב שזה [החזון איש] היה אחד האנשים היחידים שבאמת חשבו כמו במאה השנים האחרונות. כמובן שהוא גם היה פרום וגם לכן משוגע. אז כשאתה קורא את זה, לפעמים כמו שורה אחת הוא חושב ואז השורה הבאה הוא פשוט אומר, ואתה צריך לדעת, זו מילה גדולה, זה קשה לי לדעת כי אני לא יודע בעצמי. אולי לפעמים כשאני חושב שהוא פשוט אומר את זה, הוא באמת חושב, אני פשוט לא הבנתי את המחשבה. כי כי זה אחד הקיצורים שאנשים תמיד משתמשים, כמו אפילו אני. אני אומר, כמו שנאמר, אתה חייב להאמין בזה. זו לא סיבה לאף אחד להקשיב למה שאני אומר. אבל זה קיצור דרך שאנשים שיש להם סמכות ושרגילים לעולם של סמכות ודיבור בסמכות עושים תמיד. אז זה מאוד קשה להבין מתי הם עושים את זה.
אבל מה שאתה יכול לשים לב, אני חושב, זה שהוא מנסה מאוד קשה, והוא כתב את הספר הקטן הזה שהוא מאוד לא שלם ומאוד לא מפותח. אני חושב שזה מאוד… הרבה מהדברים שהוא עושה הם כאלה, לא רק בהלכה, גם יש לו את הבעיה הזאת. אבל זה מאוד לא מפותח, ויש הרבה דברים שבהם הוא שם לב לבעיה האמיתית ואז פשוט סוגר את זה עם איזה, כמו, אני מאמין מוזר. אבל…
תלמיד: אני מתכוון, האם זה לא הדבר שלו לא ללכת על אמת בכמה בתי ספר?
המורה: כן, אבל בדרך כלל גם אין לו מספיק. זה כמו, הוא לעתים קרובות מאוד מבין משהו טוב מאוד ואז נתקע איפשהו. או כמו, הטיעון שלו יכול ללכת לשני הכיוונים, והוא אפילו לא מבין שאותה מחשבה טובה שיש לו למעשה מוכיחה גם את הצד השני באותה מידה שהיא מוכיחה את שלו, דברים כאלה. הוא פשוט נראה מאוד, מאוד מהיר לקפוץ מזה. אני אתן לך דוגמה, דוגמה מאוד קונקרטית שמצאתי בשבוע שעבר על מה שהוא קורא כאן.
אבל דבר אחד שהוא עושה שרוב האנשים לא עושים הוא באמת לחשוב. כמו שהוא באמת מנסה לעשות את הפעילות הזאת שנקראת חשיבה. וישיבות לא מלמדות אותך לחשוב. הן מלמדות אותך לעשות מה שחקירה עושה, לערבב חבורה של מחשבות שיש לאנשים אחרים ולשים את זה בסדר הנכון. הוא באמת חושב לפעמים. הוא משתמש בספרים. הוא מסתכל לחשוב, הוא משתמש בסמכות כדי לחשוב, אבל הוא לא רק חוזר על מה שהסמכות עושה. הוא חושב. הוא מנסה גם לזהות. הוא מנסה לחשוב עד שהוא מסכים עם מה שכתוב או עד שהוא מאמין בזה. בסדר? והוא מדבר על זה במפורש בספר הקטן שלו, אני חושב.
אז, ולכן זה מאוד יקר ערך, יקר ערך ביותר רק בגלל זה. אולי יש עוד אנשים שעשו את זה. אני לא חושב שיש אנשים אחרים כי, כמו שאמרתי, או שהם משוגעים שפשוט אומרים, שטייען אלעגאטויד והולכים לגן עדן אם הם לא מאמינים, מה שזה לא יהיה, או שהם… הם פשוט כבר קיבלו עליהם את עול כל מה שהפרופסור של הלימוד שלהם מאמין. והם פשוט מנסים לגרום למשהו לעבוד בתוך זה.
תלמיד: האם [המשך חכמה] לא…?
המורה: לא, אני לא מתכוון שאתה צריך לבוא ל… אתה לא מוצא שהוא חושב כמו ב…
תלמיד: אני לא יודע. אני לא מוצא אותו חושב.
המורה: באמת? הוא אומר פשטים טובים מאוד…
תלמיד: פשטים זה לא חשיבה.
המורה: לא, הוא לא. זה לפחות לא מגולה. הייתה לו מחשבה. אני לא יכול לומר שהם לא חשבו.
תלמיד: לא, אבל זה מאוד קשה לדעת אם מישהו טועה.
המורה: זה אחד הסודות. אני חושב שהוא חשב שזו בעיה אמיתית. זה יכול להיות, אבל זה יכול להיות לא. כי הוא חכם והוא קרא הרבה דברים. אבל אתה לא יודע, עד כמה שקראתי את הספר שלו, לא מצאתי אותו אף פעם חושב. אתה לא יכול להוכיח את זה. זה לא אפשרי. אם אתה יכול לקרוא מרדכי בצורה מאוד טקסטואלית, אתה תוכל לקרוא לזה מלכודת.
תלמיד: לא, מרדכי היה מאוד מפורש.
המורה: כן, זה נכון. גם, משך חכמה בעצם טועה ברוב ההשקפות. אבל זה שונה.
תלמיד: מה ההוכחה שלבוביץ אהב את זה?
המורה: אז, לא, הוא גם מאוד מודרני בחשיבה שלו והוא אף פעם לא חושב את זה עד הסוף. רוב הדברים שאנשים יודעים עליו שהוא אומר, הוא מאוד תקוע בדיכוטומיות מסוימות. אבל אני לא יכול להיכנס לזה. זה לא, אתה לא יכול להוכיח שמישהו חשב את זה. זה דבר מאוד חשוב. אף אחד לא יכול להוכיח אם מישהו אחר חשב. זה סוד. אתה יכול פשוט לומר, אתה יכול לכתוב את אותו הדבר בלי לחשוב.
תלמיד: כן, כמובן.
המורה: המורה נבוכים באמת הוא ספר שכן חושב. ובמובן הזה, הוא שונה מרוב האחרים, אפילו הראשונים, כי רוב מהם לא עושים חשיבה. לא ראיתי אף אחד אחר.
תלמיד: כן. יש אחרים שחושבים.
המורה: אני יודע. אני יודע על מה אתה מדבר, יש אחרים. אבל המורה נבוכים עושה, עושה הרבה, עושה חשיבה וכמובן, אחת הדרכים לראות את זה היא שיש לו שאלות פתוחות, נכון? לפעמים הוא מגמגם. לפעמים הוא כמו משה רבינו. לפעמים הוא כבד פה וכבד לשון.
עכשיו יש אנשים שהם תמיד כל שיעור שהם אומרים הוא ארוז יפה ומסתיים ותמיד אתה יודע הוא מתחיל עם 17 קושיות על הפסוק ובסוף הוא סיים הוא סיים את כל 17 הקושיות זה בלוף אולי יש קושיא אחת זו בעצם לא אני לא יודע זה מראה לך שהוא מאוד אחרת אתה אומר תורה יפה בסדר אין בעיה זה הפוך אז משך חכמה לעולם לא יעמוד עם צריך עיון כמו צריך עיון זה דבר בסיסי כמו זה אני מבולבל מזה וזה מאוד קשה בעצם זה כל הספר.
הוא לא בגלוי, אבל אני חושב שזה מאוד, הנושאים של המחשבות שלו הרבה יותר ברורים מכל אחד אחר, מה שמראה שלפחות לשורה אחת, כן, מסביר כמה קשה לשאול שאלות. אלע’זאלי לא, כמובן שהוא לא, אבל אני חושב שכשאתה קורא אותו חושב על דברים בסיסיים, אתה תשים לב שלשורה אחת הוא חשב, ואז השורה הבאה לא באמת עונה על המחשבה ההיא, מה שאומר שהוא כעס על עצמו והוא כמו…
הוא כמו, אני לא יודע. זה, אני יודע את זה, אני יודע שיש לי בעצם הרבה מורים שפועלים בצורה כזו, ואני מכבד אותם מאוד. כי הם לא משקרים לעצמם. הם כן משקרים. הם כן, הם פרומים. הם מפחדים מ, וזה לא רק סוג פרומי. יש גם חכמה מסוימת. כי האנשים האחרים שהם כמו, לוקחים מחשבה אחת ואז פשוט רצים איתה הם ממש טיפשים. הם גם חד ממדיים.
אתה יודע, רוב האנשים שאתה מכיר, כותבים בלוגים על כמה הם רציונליסטים. בעצם יש להם מחשבה אחת, או רבע מחשבה בחייהם. והם פשוט כמו, עוקבים אחרי כל המסקנות מזה. אבל זה לא מאוד חכם כמו חכמה בסיסית היא שיש צד אחר לזה אז אם מישהו אומר טוב הצליל הזה נראה נכון ויש לו שורה של חשיבה אמיתית ואז הוא כמו אז בסדר אז הוא טפח לי מתורגמן אומר בסדר אבל אני לא הראשון לחשוב בעולם הרבה מכל או מי שחשב גם גם מעכשיו אני פשוט אמשיך הלאה נכון.
תלמיד: אבל נראה שאתה עושה את אותו דבר עם העתיק מול המודרני כמו שאתה לא רואה כל כך כמו המודרני, מתוך הוגים רציניים.
המורה: לא, זה לא נכון. זה רק בגלל שאתם אנשים כל כך שאני צריך לפרוץ מספיק כדי להוציא את זה. מה היו קווי האיזון? כן, זה פשוט איזון. אני לא בטוח. הם מאוד רציניים. לא רק שהם מאוד רציניים, כל הטיעונים שלהם כבר אומרים אפלטון. אומרים אפלטון? כן. הם לא ממש המציאו טיעונים חדשים. הם פשוט עשו בדיוק את זה. פשוט לקחו צד אחד של הטיעון. הם ממשיכים איתו.
אז זה למה אמרתי בהתחלה של השיעור, ההתחלה הזאת של הסיפור היא לא באמת המסגור הכי טוב. אני צריך להפסיק לעשות את זה. אבל זה מספיק קשה לגרום לאנשים להבין מה אני אומר שאנחנו הולכים לעשות את זה עם האחיזה הזאת.
המורה: אבל אם אני עושה את זה בלעדיו, אתה באמת תשתגע. אבל זה באמת, כל התיאוריות האלה שוות לנצח שלהן. כמו הסולטן, כמו שאמרתי לך, הסולטן שדיבר עם אדם הראשון כבר אמר את כל הטיעונים האלה. זה לא יותר. פרויד ויונג והכל היה שונה. כן, כל זה. באמת? כן. אם אתה באמת קורא טקסטים עתיקים, אתה תמצא אותם, את כל הטיעונים. ואם אתה קורא כמה כמו אקדמאים מודרניים, הם תמיד עושים את זה. כמו, אה, אנשים אומרים שדקארט המציא את זה. אבל באמת, זה איזה בחור מלפני 1,000 שנה. זה מה שיש לנו. זה מה שיש לנו. כן, זה רק אלה שנכתבו. זו חברה שלמה של אנשים שחשבו על זה כל הזמן, אבל גם זה. נכון.
אז שום דבר לא באמת חדש. או לתאר דברים היסטורית זו לא הדרך הטובה ביותר, אבל אני עושה את זה בצורה הזאת כי זו לפחות מסגרת שיש לאנשים בראש שלפחות עוזרת לך להיות מסוגל לתפוס מה קורה. אבל זה מאוד חשוב. אני לא עושה את זה טוב מאוד. אני תמיד מנסה לסיים שיעורים בצורה שזה גורם לזה להיראות כאילו זה סגור.
אבל זה הסימן. הסימן הוא כשאתה רואה אותו חושב בצורה מאוד ברורה ואז פתאום, לאן נעלמה הבהירות שלו? אה, הוא התעורר. אוקיי, אין בעיה, הבנתי. אז זה מה שאני חושב עליו. ואני חושב, זה הדבר הכללי ששמתי לב אליו, שיש לו מחשבות מאוד ברורות, ואז גם אין לו, כברירת מחדל, כשהוא חושב, והרבה אנשים שאני מכיר חושבים שהם חושבים בעצמם, אבל הם באמת רק חוזרים לעצמם על מה שהניו יורק טיימס רוצה שתחשוב. כי זה באופן טבעי, או כברירת מחדל, מה שאנשים בסופו של דבר חושבים. או אם אתה ההפך, אתה אומר הכל הפוך. עבדות היא טובה. עבדות היא רעה. אני לא יודע.
אריסטו כתב שלושה פרקים על האם עבדות היא טובה או רעה. יש טיעונים טובים משני הצדדים כבר בספר הזה, הפוליטיקה, ואפילו בספרים עתיקים יותר. אז, אם אתה מחליט על אחד מ-, אם זה ברור לך צד אחד או השני, אז אתה לא רציני. אז, זה העניין.
עכשיו, הבעיה עם החזון איש היא שני דברים שאני לא באמת צריך לעשות זה שאני צריך להגיד לכם כמה דברים שהוא אומר ולהראות לכם את זה, אבל הדבר הכללי, הבעיה שיש לי היא שתי בעיות.
אחת היא שאין לו באמת את התמונה המלאה, התמונה העתיקה המלאה. עדיין חסר לו הרבה. הוא בסופו של דבר נהיה מאוד מתוסכל. הוא עדיין נהיה מתוסכל כי אין לו את התמונה המלאה. אין לו, הוא לא באמת יכול להסביר הכל בצורה המלאה. זה דבר אחד.
והדבר השני הוא שהאחיזות שהוא משתמש בהן כדי להחזיק את האמונות הישנות שלו הן מאוד טיפשיות. אז, הכי טיפשית היא הרעיון הזה של צִוּוּי, של מצוות ה’.
כי, למשל, וחוזרים, עכשיו אנחנו הולכים לחזור למקום שממנו באנו, וננסה להמשיך קצת, אבל אנחנו יכולים לחזור למקום שממנו באנו. מאיפה באנו זה שיש את האמונה המודרנית הזו שמה שחשוב זה רק מה שבלב שלך, נכון? זה מה שזה אומר, נכון? זה חייב להיות שזה אומר את זה, נכון? זה מה שאנחנו חושבים, ויש אפילו משפט בן שלוש מילים מחז״ל שברור שמתאים לכל ההטיות שלנו, שאומר רַחֲמָנָא לִבָּא בָּעֵי, נכון? זו לא דרך חשיבה רצינית, ברור, אבל—
אז יש לנו את הלבבות הכי טובים, או הגרסה השונה של מה זה לב, אבל אותו רעיון, נכון?
ועכשיו בא החזון איש והוא מסתכל על האנשים האלה ויש את הספר הזה, ספר מפורסם, כתב, איך קוראים לו, החבר של החזון איש, מה?
תלמיד: ישיבה.
מרצה: ישיבה. והרבה אנשים אמרו שאם אתה רוצה להבין את החזון איש, הוא עושה עבודה קצת יותר טובה בהסבר הדמויות שהוא נלחם איתן. כי החזון איש הוא לא סופר טוב במיוחד. הוא מנסה להיות סופר, אבל הוא לא טוב במיוחד בתיאור דמויות ודברים כאלה. הוא היה סופר. הוא היה החבר שלו. הוא היה החַבְרוּסָא שלו, חיים גראדע. והוא כתב ספר או שניים על, בעצם על החזון איש. הוא לא אומר את שמו. הוא קורא לו משהו אחר, אבל זה בעצם עליו ועל הדמויות סביבו ועל הדרכים השונות לחיות את החיים.
ואחד הדברים שאתה רואה זה איך החזון איש חי בעולם הזה. והוא פשוט חי עם כל האנשים האלה עם רעיונות רדיקליים שונים או תפיסות שונות של מה זה אדם טוב. והוא מאוד מנסה להחזיק בדבר העתיק הזה. אבל הוא גם חושב שזה הרבה יותר מתוחכם. וזה הדבר החשוב.
הוא מבין, וזה, נתתי שיעור מאוד חשוב בשבוע שעבר. אתם צריכים להקשיב לו. זה [התייחסות לא ברורה], אבל אתם צריכים להקשיב לו, כי אני לא יכול לחזור על אותו דבר שנתתי שם.
תלמיד: כן, התחלתי להקשיב לו.
מרצה: שאתה שם לב, אם אתה מספיק חכם, רוב האנשים לא מספיק חכמים אפילו להגיע לשלב הראשון, והם כל כך נרגשים מהשלב הראשון, שהם אף פעם לא ממשיכים הלאה. אבל אם אתה שם לב, אם אתה קורא את כל העניינים האלה, את כל האנשים האלה, נכון, אתה קורא חֲסִידוּת, או שאתה קורא מוּסָר, או שאתה קורא, מה עוד אנשים קוראים? אף אחד פה לא קורא כלום, אז.
בכל מקרה, אם אתה קורא חסידות, אתה קורא את ה-, ואתה שם לב בשלב מסוים שכל האנשים האלה הם פשטניים בצורה מטורפת, הם חוזרתיים ומשעממים, בצורה מאוד משמעותית. כמו הסְפָרִים שאתה פותח על מדף המוסר, אחד משְׁמוּעָסֶן המוסר, הם לא אומרים כלום במשך עמודים על גבי עמודים והם רואים את עצמם כאנשים הכי חכמים, הכי נבונים, הכי אמיתיים על פני כדור הארץ של הקב”ה, נכון? מה קורה פה?
והם כאילו, אנחנו, הישיבות, הם פשוט מדברים, הם פשוט מדברים, הם אוהבים את זה, אנחנו כאילו, אנחנו לא מבינים את האנושות, נכון? זה מה שבַּעֲלֵי מוּסָר טוענים, נכון? כולם, כל בעל מוסר אחד ששווה משהו, אני לא הולך לתת שמות פה, נכון, לכולם יש את המחשבה הזו שאנחנו הבנו, אנחנו מבינים את האדם.
ובימינו, זה נקרא משהו אחר, תּוֹרַת הַנֶּפֶשׁ, אתה קורא את התיאוריות של הבחור. הוא לא מבין כלום. יש לו כמו חצי מרבע של תיאוריה. והוא כאילו, וואו, הוא כל כך מתרשם מזה. זה כמו עכשיו, נכון, אותו רעיון. הוא פסיכולוג. הוא מבין אנשים. הוא מבין אנשים.
ואז החזון איש מסתכל על האנשים האלה, והוא כאילו, הוא מאוד חכם, החזון איש, אתם צריכים להבין. הוא בחור מאוד מוכשר. והמוח שלו עובד מהר יותר מרוב האנשים. והוא מוכן לחשוב. שני מרכיבים מאוד חשובים שצריכים כדי שמשהו יהיה הגיוני. אתה צריך גם מוח מהיר, כי לוקח לך נצח להגיע למחשבה. זה פשוט הולך לקחת הרבה, ואתה צריך הרבה אומץ, אתה צריך באמת לחשוב.
והוא מקשיב לאנשים האלה, והוא מקשיב לשְׁמוּעָסֶן ולתורה של בלה בלה בלה, והוא מסביר לך איך אנשים מרמים את עצמם לפעמים. ואז הוא כותב 14 כרכים על איך אנשים מרמים את עצמם. ואתה מקשיב לזה, ואתה כאילו, כן, אוקיי, ועכשיו, לאן אתה מגיע עם זה? כאילו, מה אתה מנסה להגיד לי? והוא כאילו, כן, אתה צריך תמיד לזכור שאנשים מרמים את עצמם, אוקיי? ונראה לי שאתה מרמה את עצמך די טוב בזמן שאתה עושה את כל זה. אתה לא באמת עברת. זה לא רק טיעון של כאילו, אה, אתה אותו דבר.
הטיעון הוא שחוֹשֶׁן מִשְׁפָּט, תראה, למדתי חושן משפט עם שַׁ״ךְ וקְצוֹת. אני רוצה להגיד לך משהו. ההבנה של האנושות שיש בשך של חושן משפט היא 10,000 מייל יותר עמוקה מההבנה שלך של נְגִיעוּת. הם ממש כתבו 14 כרכים על חושן משפט נגיעות, חושן משפט שׁוֹחַד, מה שלא יהיה, לא מדויק. אבל דברים כאלה. כל חושן משפט הוא על אנשים שמטעים את עצמם, נכון? אני חושב שזה קנוניה. אתה חושב שזה קנוניה. מה אנחנו עושים?
וקורה שחושן משפט נראה שיש לו הבנה הרבה יותר מתוחכמת ומפורטת של האנושות מאשר לבעל מוסר, שחושב שהוא כל כך הרבה יותר חכם מהֲלָכָה, זה בשביל נָבָל בִּרְשׁוּת הַתּוֹרָה, זה אחד עם התורה. יש לי הבנה. ואז הוא אומר, טוב, הייתי בתורה איתך, בעל מוסר. הכל טוב. כי אתה הולך ל—
ויש סיפור. סיפרתי לכם את הסיפור. אני לא הולך לקרוא את הסיפורים. זה לא משנה. כשאתה הולך לתורה עם בעל מוסר, בכל פעם, יש לך בישיבה שלך את המַשְׁגִּיחִים האלה שהם בעלי מוסר, יש לך ויכוח איתו. הוא הבחור הכי טיפש, לא רק טיפש, הוא הרָשָׁע הכי צדקני שאתה יכול לחשוב עליו, והוא איזה—הוא היה רשע ממש טוב, כאילו, אתה נהנה מהסימנים הברזליים שלו וזה. הוא טיפש, הוא כאילו פשטני, והבחור מסתובב כאילו הוא הבין את האנושות. ואף אחד אחר לא הבין את האנושות.
ויש משהו מאוד מצחיק פה. המחלה הכללית של אנשים שחושבים שהם גילו את הטבע האנושי. נכון, נכון. חלקם אכן גילו משהו. האנשים האלה לא גילו משהו. לא, אני לא, אני לא צוחק על זה. בחייך, אני הולך להגיע לזה.
החזון איש הוא הבחור הזה שמבלה שעות ושעות כל יום בקריאה, אתה יודע, תּוֹסָפוֹת, רַמְבַּ״ם ושכים ודברים מסובכים האלה והוא לומד הֲלָכָה לְמַעֲשֶׂה, נכון? זה לא בְּרִיסְקֶר שהופך הכל לפילוסופיה. הוא קורא את זה כפירוש על המצב האנושי, נכון? מה אתה עושה? לא רק מה אתה עושה במובן של הפְּסַק, זה הרבה יותר עמוק מזה, נכון?
הלכה היא באמת על החיים במובן הרבה יותר עמוק ממה שמוסר הוא, נכון? אם אתה לומד על הלכה בדרך ההלכה, נכון? זה לא תיאורטי. זה על המורכבות של יחסים אנושיים, כשאני לא מדבר על צִיצִית, אני חושב שהוא נתקע כשהוא מדבר על זה בדרך הזו. אני חושב שזה קצת מבלבל. אם כי אולי אני זה שטועה, כי אני מוגבל פה מ[רקע חסידי]. אבל תחשוב על היום האחר, תחשוב על יוֹרֶה דֵּעָה, חושן משפט. אלה דברים, באמת נכנסים לקִישְׁקֶעס של מה זה אומר להיות בן אדם.
וזה אף פעם, ואתה אף פעם, והדבר החשוב הוא שאתה אף פעם לא יוצא מהדרך שנכנסת בה, לפחות מ[גישת החזון איש], נכון? הרבה אנשים, הם פשוט מסיימים עם אותן הטיות. אבל הוא לא, כי לא רק כי אנשים חושבים שזה מאוד חשוב, מי שלומד או דברים כאלה צריך להבין. אבל אנשים שיש להם סיפור כזה.
יש שני סוגים של [פוסקים]. אחד מהם, מתי שהוא, לפני שהוא אפילו פתח איזה ספר, הוא כבר יודע מה הפסק הולך להיות. הוא רק צריך לגלות את זה, נכון? ולמה? כי יש לו בסיס—יש לו הבנה של הדברים האלה. יש לו הבנה של מה שאתה צריך, והוא נותן לך את זה. אין בעיה. בדרך כלל האנשים האלה הגיוניים, או לפחות עבור האנשים שחושבים בדרכים דומות להם, נכון?
אז יש את האנשים, הלִיטְוָאקִים אומרים שזה נראה שקרי, נכון? שאתה פשוט שם את ההטיות שלך בתורה. לא, הדרך הנכונה היא שאתה לא יודע מה זה הלכה, ואתה שואל את התורה, אתה מסתכל בשֻׁלְחָן עָרוּךְ, ואתה פּוֹסֵק מה ששולחן ערוך אומר, זה מה שאנשים חושבים על השך, שתי אופציות. וזו מושג מאוד טוב של הסיפור, אלה שתי האופציות שאנשים חושבים עליהן באופן כללי על האנושות.
עכשיו אני חושב שהחזון איש מלמד אופציה שלישית, ואני תמיד מנסה ללמד אופציה שלישית. ואופציה שלישית היא כזו. כמובן, יש לי דעה על מה שצריך להיות לפני שאני קורא את זה. אחרת, אני לא יודע אדם. וכמובן, סמכות הטקסט היא אחת.
כן, זה נכון. סמכות היא חשובה. אנחנו לא יכולים ללכת נגד מישהו שאומר בבירור בכל הפרסים וכן הלאה. יש מילה לטינית לזה. וכן הלאה וכן הלאה. אוקיי.
אבל עכשיו הדבר העיקרי שאנחנו עושים כשאנחנו לומדים הוא לא אחד משני הדברים האלה. לגבי הדבר הראשון, פשוט נעשה מה שרבי משהו עושה ופשוט נגיד את הפסק. ואם יש לו זמן, נכתוב תשובה בשבילו כי הוא מספיק חכם לכתוב תשובה. אם אתה עושה את הדבר השני, גם אתה פשוט שואל את ההערות התחתונות של פסקי תשובות ועושה מה שזה לא יהיה. שני הדברים האלה לא גורמים לך ללמוד.
מה המטרה של הלימוד? המטרה של הלימוד היא שאתה חושב שאתה כל כך חכם, ויש לך את האינטואיציה הזו, את הסְבָרָא הזו של מה הֲלָכָה צריכה להיות, ואז אתה פותח את הגמרא, ואתה אומר שהגמרא גם חשבה על מה שחשבת לשנייה אחת, ובפעם הבאה הם חשבו על הדבר השני, ובפעם השלישית הם חשבו על הדבר השלישי, והם מסיימים את הסוגיא עם הסברא השלישית, יש לך 14 דרכים שונות לחשוב.
לא 14 דרכים שונות שהרמב”ם אומר, אז מה אני צריך לעשות? הוא בעצם פתח דרך אחרת. הוא אמר, רגע, אתה יכול לחשוב על זה מזווית אחרת? ועכשיו אתה כאילו, רגע, עכשיו אני באמת לא יודע מה לעשות. עכשיו אתה צריך בעצם לספור, להבין עם—כל הזוויות האלה הן פשוט מורכבות של המציאות, נכון? הן לא סברות.
כשאנשים חושבים שסברות הן דברים בראש שלך, זו אותה בעיה, נכון? סברות הן לא דברים בראש שלך. סברות הן תיאורים של המציאות, נכון?
מישהו, מה היה ה—נכון? הוא [צד אחד במחלוקת], והבחור השני רוצה להיות הרב גם כן, וכמובן שהוא צודק, כי, אוקיי, אבל חשבת על דרך אחרת לתאר את הסיפור הזה שבו הבחור השני צודק? חשבת על דרך שלישית, ורביעית, וחמישית?
זו הדרך שהחזון איש קורא הלכה, והוא קורא את כל ההיסטוריה של החוק בדרך הזו, והוא מנסה ללמוד מכל אחד. אם הוא לא מסכים עם חלק, הוא אומר—אבל הוא לא מישהו שמאמין [באמונה פשוטה בסמכויות]. אם הוא טועה, הוא טועה, אין בעיה, אבל בדרך כלל האנשים שהוא סומך עליהם מספיק כדי לגרום לו לחשוב, נכון? הם גורמים לו לחשוב.
והוא אף פעם לא יוצא מהסוגיא עם ההטיה שנכנס איתה. גם אם הוא כן, הוא עכשיו הרבה יותר מתוחכם לגבי זה. הוא עכשיו מבין את המציאות הרבה יותר ברור, הרבה יותר טוב. לא יותר גרוע.
הרבה אנשים, הם מתחילים עם תיאוריה טובה ואז הם מסיימים מבולבלים לגמרי כי הם שמו את כל האמיננסים [סמכויות] האלה, את כל הקתרסיס [אולי: קטגוריות/הבחנות] האלה. יש לו הבנה ברורה כי במציאות, כל שִׁיטָה היא בגלל נקודת מבט מסוימת של המציאות שפספסת כי היית כל כך חכם וידעת איך זה.
עכשיו, זה מאוד בסיסי לכל מי שבאמת יודע איך ללמוד אי פעם. אבל רוב האנשים לא עושים את זה. ובמיוחד האנשים האלה שמִזַּבְלָן [מזלזלים ב]לימוד, הם כאילו, וואו, הם לומדים אנשים שפשוט—כי הם חושבים שהדרך היחידה ללמוד תהיה ללמוד בדרך הסמכות. ולכן, הם כאילו, לא, אבל אנחנו פשוט אנשים טובים.
אתם לא אנשים טובים. אתם מבינים רבע או בערך רבע אחוז ממה שגורם לאדם לתקתק כשהשולחן ערוך מבין. אז השולחן ערוך הוא פשוט הרבה יותר טוב.
דרך אגב, אני נותן את המשל הזה כי – כי יש לי את המחשבה הפרוטסטנטית הזאת, תמיד, שבין אדם לחברו, זה לא באמת משנה. אבל במובן מסוים, זה אותו דבר, נכון?
כמו, אני יודע איך לשמור שבת. אתה נח. בסדר? האם אתה באמת יודע מה זה מנוחה? אתה יכול לעשות מה שסוקרטס נהג לעשות לאנשים ולנסות לגרום להם להגיד לך מה זה מנוחה, ותבחין שהם לא יודעים.
האם הלכות שבת יודעות? אני לא יודע. בהלכות שבת, לפחות, יש הבנה מסובכת פי 14 של מה זה מנוחה שיש לה קשר למציאות.
עכשיו, האם אנחנו מיישמים את המציאות נכון? האם אנחנו מבינים את ההלכה נכון? והאם העולם שונה? אלו כולן שאלות לגיטימיות. אבל בהחלט יש תיאוריה הרבה יותר מתוחכמת של מה זה אומר המנוחה. ולא רק מה זה אומר – זה לא אומר במובן שאני יכול לתת שיקול הדעת ולהסביר לך. לא. להבין את המציאות האמיתית.
מה קורה? תסתכל סביב. מה אנשים עושים כשהם עובדים? מה הם עושים כשהם נחים? מי נח? מי עובד? מה יגרום לך לעבוד גם אם אתה חושב שאתה נח? אבל בתוך הראש שלך אתה עובד. זו נקודה אחרת. אני לא יודע. דברים כאלה.
תבחין שלהלכה יש נקודת מבט הרבה יותר מתוחכמת על המציאות מכל העולמות האחרים האלה. כל החסידות האלה עובדות ביחד.
לכן, למשל, אני רוצה לתת לכם דוגמה שקרובה אלי, כי אני חושב שזה נכון. אנשים קוראים כתבי אר”י. בסדר? זה הצל שלי מטירה, אבל אני לא חוזר על זה.
אבל אנשים קוראים כתבי אר”י. ואז הכל היה טכני. הוא מתאר את 17,000 הרמות של עולם היצירה. בסדר? ועכשיו לכל מי שיש לו 17,000 רמות יש קומבינטוריקה עם 17,000 מיני אלה. מסתבר כמה? נכון? ואנשים כאילו, טוב, זה משעמם.
מה הם עושים? הם הולכים למקובלים שלהם. אנשים כמוהו [הרמח”ל]. הם אומרים, אה, האריז”ל זה רק משל. הנמשל הוא שהוא צריך להיות בחור טוב. אה, הנמשל הוא שלפעמים לאלוקים יש חסד, ולפעמים הוא עושה דברים שאתה אוהב. זה נקרא חסד. לפעמים הוא עושה דין, שזה אומר שהוא עושה דברים שאני לא אוהב. והאריז”ל רק סיבך את זה עם משל, בגלל תיאוריית הרמב”ם של חזיונות הנבואה.
ואני מסתכל על הבחור הזה ואני אומר לך, אני לא יודע אם המשל לנמשל שלך טוב, אבל אני רוצה להגיד לך דבר אחד, שהוא הרבה יותר חכם, הרבה יותר חכם ממך. כי התיאוריה שלך על העולם יש לה שלושה משתנים. יש רק שני משתנים. והתיאוריה האמיתית של העולם יש לה 17 מיליון משתנים. זה פשוט הרבה יותר קרוב למציאות.
המציאות שאנחנו יודעים עליה, כולה, כמובן, התקווה הגדולה של, כמו, תיאוריות של הכל ש, כמו, מצמצמות הכל לחמישה עקרונות ואיכשהו זה יסביר הכל. והאריז”ל לא חולק על זה. אבל אז אנחנו צריכים לפרט את זה ומסתבר שזה עשרת אלפים אלף משתנים. זו לא הדרך לחשב את העולם האמיתי בלי כל המיליוני משתנים האלה.
אז אתה פשוט טיפש. אתה פשוט מפשט הכל עד כדי כך שזה אפילו לא מעניין במובן מסוים. כמו, אה, בשביל זה היינו צריכים קבלה כדי להגיד לנו שיש חסד וגבורה בעולם? וואו, מדהים. אני כל כך מתרשם. ואתה משוכנע שאתה החכם והוא היה הטיפש.
עכשיו שוב, אולי התמונה הזאת היא כולה פנטזיה והמשתנים האמיתיים של 17,000 הם אחרים. אין לי הוכחה להגיד את זה. אבל הדרך שבה הוא ניגש לזה היא הרבה יותר מתוחכמת מכל אחד אחר, מכל האנשים האלה שהם כל כך חכמים, הם חושבים שיש להם ענין.
אז זה אותו טיעון שהייתי עושה במובן הזה. וזה אחד הדברים הגדולים של החזון איש. והוא מתחיל להראות לך. הבעיה היא שאני חושב שהבעיה שלו היא שכשהוא מגיע להגיד את זה, הוא לא אומר את זה כמו – אני עושה עבודה הרבה יותר טובה לתאר מה הייתי צריך להגיד ממה שהוא באמת אמר.
כי מה שהוא אמר היה, אתה אפיקורוס. אתה חושב שאתה הולך עם השכל שלך, אבל זה ההפך מהשכל שלך. ובגלל שאין לו סבלנות להסביר לך למה השכל שלך הוא די בסיסי, הוא פשוט אומר את זה.
אבל מה שהוא באמת מתכוון להגיד הוא שאתה טיפש, לא שאתה אפיקורוס. זה הרבה יותר גרוע להיות טיפש מאשר להיות אפיקורוס בכל מקרה. חשבת שלא רק שאתה טיפש, אתה בחור משעמם.
כמו, אתה מבין את האנושות כי הבנת שזה בא מהנגיעות. כמו, המוסר כל כך גאה בזה. כמו, אתה מבין שהתחלנו שם. משם אנחנו באים. כמו, כן, לאנשים יש את הנגיעות. תודה רבה. זה הכל? זה מסביר הכל? לא, זה לא מסביר כלום. זה מסביר משהו.
אבל אתה לוקח, כמו, דבר קטן אחד ומיישם אותו על הכל בצורה ממש מוזרה. כמובן, אז [החזון איש] מדבר על הנגיעות ותוקף אותם במפורש ואומר דברים מאוד מצחיקים. ואולי זו הסיבה שזה נכשל, דרך אגב, זה שכאשר מבוגרים – כשאנשים שיש להם בכירות מסוימת מגלים דבר פשוט כזה בפעם הראשונה. זה אמא, היא חושבת על העולם ואז הם מדברים עם בחור צעיר והם כאילו, בסדר. ואז הוא זז כמו, מה עכשיו, מה עוד? וזה פשוט נשרף מזה. יכול להיות.
תלמיד: כן, יש משהו בכל הסרטים האלה. אני חושב שזה אותו דבר שאתה מדבר עליו. אני קורא מה שמישהו אומר על ההטיה ואני כאילו, מה שאתה רוצה. והם כאילו, מה שאתה רוצה, זה מאוד טוב. אני כאילו, סיימנו. כמו שלא הייתי מסוגל לבנות את החיים שלי סביב זה.
מרצה: אולי אם הייתי פסיכולוג שבזבז 30 שנה בלימוד הטיות הגעתי לתיאוריה יותר מתוחכמת של הטיה אנושית מאשר על המוסר. ומסתבר שהתיאוריה הזאת הייתה גם שגויה.
הנקודה היא שההלכה הזאת שכולנו שמחים ללעוג לה, כאילו היא לא רצינית. עכשיו שוב, החזון איש כאן זה איפה שאני לא מסכים איתו, כי הוא נתקע.
הוא אומר, כמו, הלכה זה מה שאלוקים רוצה ממך. מה? מאיפה אתה מגיע לזה? למה אתה צריך את זה בכלל? אתה לא צריך את זה. הלכה זה פשוט אנשים חשבו יותר זמן ובצורה יותר רצינית על המקרים האלה ממה שאתה עשית. למה אתה צריך יותר מזה? מאיפה זה בא בכלל? אולי זה גם צריך לבוא מאלוקים. אני מבין. אבל אתה לא צריך להגיע לשלב הזה.
כשהוא מגיע לזה, הוא פשוט עושה הרבה דמגוגיה, כמו, לעתים קרובות מאוד.
אני רוצה לתת לכם דוגמה אחת ואני אסיים. אני רוצה להראות לכם איפה אפשר להתווכח עם החזון איש. ואנחנו, הייתי עושה אותו דבר – אני לא יכול לחשוב שהחזון איש עושה את זה לו, אז זה כאן בספר הקדוש, יש כאן סיפור, איפה זה?
הוא מדבר על – אני חייב להגיד לכם ששכחתי איפה זה. הוא מדבר על יהודי שחושב שיש לו מידות טובות אבל הוא לא מקשיב להלכה. איפה זה? זוכרים איפה זה? אני חייב למצוא את זה אני לא יכול להגיד את זה בצורה טובה כי זה יהיה – תופס אותי. חשבתי שזה היה כאן.
אה, כן, כאן. הוא מדבר על הרעיון שהוא מנסה להגיע למשהו. אני לא הולך להיכנס בדיוק לאן הוא נמצא. ואולי צריך להיות עוד שיעור על זה. כי זה באמת מה שאני רוצה לדבר עליו. וחזרתי על ההדגמה הזאת שוב. הוא אומר –
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וזה על אחדות המידות, אבל אני הולך להגיע לזה. אבל הוא נותן דוגמה. אני רוצה לתת לכם דוגמה. אני רוצה להגיד לכם שהוא לא הולך להאמין שזה לא נכון.
הוא אומר שהבחור הזה חושב שהוא כזה צדיק, הוא מבין שיש לו בעיה שלפעמים יש לו מידות רעות, אבל הוא חושב שלפחות יראת שמים – זה מה שהם הולכים להשתמש בתור טענה.
והוא אומר, השנה, זה הסיפור שהוא ראה. קרה שקראו לו לעלות לתורה. אמרו, כן, אני שלישי. ולא הלכתי לעלייה. למה לא? כי הוא חשוב. ולא שואלים אותו לקבל את הו’, איזה עלייה שזה היה. הוא הולך רק לשלישי, אז הוא לא הלך.
אז אתה חושב, אני צדיק, אם הרבונו של עולם רוצה משהו ממנו, אני תמיד נותן לו את זה. מנטש, לפעמים אני לא אגיד את זה, אני גאה. אתה לא אדם רציני, בכלל, אתה בכלל, אתה חושב שהכל אתה פשוט עושה עם יראת השמים שלך.
זו דרשת החזון איש. זו באמת דרשת מוסר סטנדרטית במובן מסוים, אבל זה מגיע, אני מנסה להשתמש בזה למשהו יותר עמוק מזה, אבל אני לא יכול להגיע לזה.
עכשיו, אני רוצה להגיד לך, החזון איש, שזה נראה מאוד, הוא נראה, הוא נראה כאילו מקים את הדיכוטומיה הברורה הזאת, כאילו אם הבחור היה עוקב אחרי העלייה וכמובן היה עולה, כי זה דבר מאוד רע לקרוא לעלייה לתורה ולא לעלות, מכיוון שהוא דואג רק לכבוד שלו, לכן הוא לא עולה, וזה שימוש שזו הוכחה, נקודה מאוד גדולה על הבחור הזה שהוא חושב שהוא ירא שמים, הוא לא ירא שמים.
אני מתכוון, מעולם לא היו לך קונפליקטים עם יראת שמים. אתה חושב שאתה כל כך פרום, אתה חושב שבמובן הזה, אתה זו הנקודה החשובה באמת. אתה חושב שאתה לא אדם שכי אתה רואה שכשזה מגיע לקנות מצה, הוא מוציא הכי הרבה כסף. הוא אמר, כן, כי הוא רגיל לזה. אבל באמת, אם יש לך איזו בעיה קטנה שכן מפריעה לך, פתאום, אין לך שום יראת שמים. לא רק שאתה לא בעל מידות, אבל אין לזה יראת שמים גם.
מה שהוא אומר זה שזה לא נכון להגיד שאנשים משולמים אבל לא בעלי מידות. הוא אמר שהבחור הזה לא משולם גם. בעל מידות גם. זו באמת המטרה שלו עם הסיפור הזה. בסדר? זה המעשה של החזון איש.
עכשיו אני, אני הקטן, יש לי בעיה. מה הבעיה שלי? שאני, כי, עכשיו הוא חושב, הדרך של החזון איש להגיד את זה היא שיראת שמים היא אחת מאותן מילים מדויקות, אם אכפת לך מעצמך. ומסתבר שאין לך את המידה של יראת שמים גם, יש לך משהו אחר, נכון? זה מה שהחזון איש מסביר שזה.
בעיה, מה ההסבר שלי? יש לי הסבר אחר. מה ההסבר שלי למה הלכה יותר רצינית ממוסר? שלהלכה יש הרבה יותר פרטים, נכון? הלכה לוקחת בחשבון הרבה יותר מורכבויות של מצבים.
לכן אין דבר כזה. לכולם יש את הרטוריקה הזאת על הלכה שהיא המערכת הברורה שאומרת לך תמיד מה לעשות. הלכה היא הדבר הכי רחוק מלהגיד לך תמיד מה לעשות. למדת פעם הלכה? יש הרבה צד ביחיד שלא יודע. בדרך כלל אתה עושה ככה, אבל לפעמים. אבל אם זה היה יום שלישי אחרי חלמא…
ואז, הלכה היא המערכת המשפטית הכי לא דוגמטית שאתה יכול לחשוב עליה. תמיד יש דרך לצאת. לא שתמיד יש דרך לצאת כי זה לא רציני, כי זה כן רציני, כי המציאות היא ככה. נכון?
לא החזון איש, כל האנשים האלה שיש להם את הרטוריקה הזאת על לעקוב אחרי הלכה, הם נתקעים עם זה. הלכה היא יותר מדי חופשית במציאות בשבילם, לא חופשית, אני לא אומר חופשית, יותר מדי אמיתית. ולכן היא בעצם מתאימה לגמרי, היא צריכה להתאים לפחות לגמרי למציאות.
אבל להם, הלכה היא המערכת הפורמליסטית הזאת. החזון איש מבין שהלכה היא לא ככה. אבל הוא עדיין משתמש באותה רטוריקה כי בגלל זה החזון איש הוא כך וכך. אני חושב שהחזון איש מבין מאוד טוב שהלכה היא לא ככה. הוא חי ככה. הוא לומד הלכה ככה. אבל אז כשהוא צריך להתווכח על זה עם האנשים שהוא מתווכח איתם, הוא בסופו של דבר נתקע ואומר, טוב, הלכה היא כמו פשט.
אבל בעצם, מסתבר, אם אתה באמת חושב על ללמוד קצת, אתה מגלה שהשאלה המדויקת הזאת, מה אתה עושה כשאתה חשוב, מישהו שהכבוד שלו, האמת היא שהכבוד של כל אחד חשוב. אבל אם הכבוד שלך קשור לכבוד התורה. ואתה נתפס בעלייה, זו לא העלייה הנכונה. מה אתה עושה?
כי המשנה נראה שיש לה הלכה מאוד ברורה. ההלכה אומרת שאתה צריך ללכת, אבל אם אתה שייגעץ, אז אתה לא הולך. ואתה שייגעץ, אתה באמת שייגעץ.
עכשיו, אני, זה כמו, לא, אני לא כל כך בטוח בזה. וזה עולם הרמב”ם. יש לי סמכות בצד שלי. אני חושב שזה אפשרי שאתה לא צריך ללכת. אמרתי, כמובן, זה מדבר על הבחור שצריך ללכת. טוב אתה מעולם, אתה יודע, מעולם לא עשית קימתא, אתה מעולם הלכה עובדת שזה מדבר על מישהו שזה, הוא מצא בחור והוא ראוי לעלייה הזאת, זה לא באמת, הוא מעריך יתר על המידה איזו עלייה הוא ראוי בעצם.
אז אז, אבל אם אתה באמת אדם שראוי לעלייה אחרת, אולי זה, אולי האדם הזה צודק שהוא, אתה לא צריך ללכת, אתה לא צריך כל כך לא נכון. ואיך אני יודע? ראיתי את זה. מצאתי את זה. בגלל זה התחלתי לחשוב על זה, אבל זה מאוד מעניין.
כולם יודעים שזה אומר במסכת סנהדרין. זה אומר, יש שני דברים שאומרים את אותה תשובה. מה שאתה שומע זה אומר, “מפני מה תלמידי חכמים אינם מצויין לצאת תלמידי חכמים מבניהם”. אתה זוכר את זה? מה זה אומר? אתה יודע מה זה אומר? זה ההפך ממה שאני מנסה להגיד על זה. וכל התורה שכולם יודעים. אבל זה מה שזה אומר.
אז, הרמב”ם, עכשיו אם אתה מסתכל בראשונים, זה אחד מה, עוד אחד מהדברים הגדולים שלי. כשאתה באמת קורא את הראשונים, אתה רואה שרוב הדברים המצחיקים האלה שיש כל כך הרבה כמו, יש באמת הבנה בסיסית שאתה לא צריך את כל השריטות האלה בשביל. אבל בכל מקרה, הרמב”ם כתב מכתב למישהו, או תשובה, והוא אמר להם שני פשטים שהוא שמע, שני פשטים על המאמר הזה, אחד שהוא שמע, ואחד שהוא חושב, שהוא ההפך ממה שהוא שמע לגמרי הוא מקבל מה שמיוחד בזה ומה הם שני הפשטים האלה.
הפרשנות הראשונה (הרבי של הרמב”ם)
אני אגיד לכם שהרמב”ם אמר שאמרו להם שהוא שסוג ההלכה הזה זה הפשט שאני עומד לומר לו פירושו מה זה מדבר על הפעם הזו הכהנים שקרא להם קודם לתורה אבל אני האישה הם בדרך כלל חושבים שיש להם דברים טובים יותר לעשות בזמנם מאשר לקרוא בתורה כי אז הם יכולים להיות תלמידי חכמים אז הם לא עולים לתורה, או שהם עולים, הם לא סבלניים ללכת לבימה לקרוא, הם יושבים בבית והם לא עולים לתורה, מאחר והיה עולה לתורה והילדים לא באים לתלמידי חכמים.
זה מה שהרבי שלו אמר את הפשט, הרבי של הרמב”ם. אז זה, אגב, זה בצד של החזון איש.
פירוש שני (דעת הרמב”ם עצמו — “פאנקט פכערט”)
אז הרמב”ם אמר, הוא חושב שהפשט הוא בפכערט [להיפך]. הוא חושב שהפשט הוא בפכערט. מה זאת אומרת בפכערט? שעלו באחרונה בתחילה [שלא עלו ראשונים], תחילה [ראשון] פירושו שהם לא לקחו את העלייה הראשונה.
ההלכה אומרת, הכהן קורא ראשון, וזה כשזה עמי הארץ, כל עמי הארץ, כל תלמידי החכמים, רב, כהן, כהן הוא עם הארץ. נכון?
הכהן אומר, אם יש תלמיד חכם, זה הכהן, ועמי הארץ הוא, תלמיד חכם הוא ישראל [יהודי רגיל, לא כהן], ועמי הארץ הוא כהן, הדין הוא, אומר הרמ”א [לא ברור אם מתייחס לרמב”ם או לסמכות אחרת], שתלמיד חכם צריך לעלות ראשון. זה הדין.
חלק מהאחרים היו כך, שהמים של הראשון [ראשון], ולא היה, הם אמרו, הם היו. האם אין משנה על זה? כן. המשנה. זה אומר במשנה, זה על כשהנתור הוא תלמיד חכם, כשזה עמי הארץ. כשזה דרכי שלום, זה אומר במשנה, כשזה דרכי שלום.
אבל זה הכל כשהם שניהם באותה רמה בתורה. הרמב”ם אומר, אם כולם תלמידי חכמים, רב לא היה צפוי. רב היה עולה בקור [עלה ראשון], תמיד, מזיק שבע [לא ברור] לפחות. כשהוא היה, כל מי שהכיר בו כסמכות הגדולה ביותר היה עולה ראשון.
ולכן הוא הראה לכולם שהתורה חשובה יותר. כי עולה לתורה זה שם של מלך המלכות. וזה חידור תלמיד חכם. אבל אם אתה עולה אחר כך, אתה עולה בשלישי, למה? כי אתה חושב שסוג זה של עם הארץ טוב ממך ולא מצפה שהילדים שלך יהיו תלמידי חכמים, הם הולכים לחשוב שלהיות כהן זה יותר טוב.
אז הרמב”ם אמר זה בפכערט [להיפך], שהמאמר הוא לא זה שהולך להשיג את הטוב יותר. ביד הלכה למעשה, זה טוב יותר היום. הלכה למעשה, הסיבה שהשלישי עדיין לא נשרף היא כי עדיין הכהן היה עולה. זה מה שאני אומר.
תלמיד: אני פשוט כמו, הגמרא אומרת, קראו לי האם אחיה ב…
מורה: בדיוק. אתה מצפה שזה יבוא מהסנהדרין [מסכת סנהדרין] דווקא?
תלמיד: זה מחובר לסנהדרין דווקא.
מורה: כאן הוא מדבר על דבר אחר שזה אומר, ובנין [בנים], שהבנים של תלמיד חכם לא יוצאים מתלמיד חכם. זה בסדר, אבל זה אותו דבר. כלומר, הם מביאים לך את אותו פשט באותה גמרא. מה אתה חושב? כן, כמובן.
יש לנו כל כך הרבה דרכים שבהן תלמידי החכמים לא מקבלים את הכבוד. הבריסקר רב [רב מבריסק] מקבל את הכבוד, הכהנים וכן הלאה, וזה גורם לתלמידי החכמים לא להיות עם הכוח שלהם ואז, נכון? ומי שלי [אשם]? תלמיד חכם עצמו, נכון? כי הוא לא היה צריך ללכת כשקראו לו לשלישי ורק הלך כשקראו לו לשלישי, נכון?
אז מה אני מראה לך? עכשיו, אני לא יודע אם הפשט הזה מעשי וכן הלאה. אתה אומר שכבר לימדת את זה. הגיע הזמן לשלי להתחיל את המלכות שלו. אבל זה לא באמת מעשי, נכון? הלכה תהיה יותר רצינית. רואה? הלכה היא תמיד יותר רצינית ממה שאני עושה, נכון?
אני הולך כמו, תגיד, שער הקדושה. זה תקווה [תקוה]. אבל למה ישראל, אה, למה ישראל לא עובד ככה כי העולם יותר מסובך. אוקיי, אז היא תראה את הסטטוס, נכון?
אז אני, ואני אפילו לא יכול להסביר למה. והם לא אומרים שזה לא התנצלות להלכה. זו מציאות. היא תראה את הסטטוס, זו מציאות. כן, אנחנו צריכים לעבור הביתה, לעבור הביתה.
אוקיי, אבל העניין הוא שלאותו בחור יש, אנחנו הולכים להיות ברפיקינה [לא ברור] מעכשיו, אתה יודע? זו בעיה. אה, והמשנה אומרת נידה כשון [לא ברור], נכון? כמו שמשה אמר, המשנה אומרת נידה כשון, נכון? כי אחרת כולם, כל שבוע הולך להיות קרב מי הולך להיות בחוקי תלמיד חכם. הכהן, כולם יודעים שהוא לא תלמיד חכם. אנחנו פשוט מקבלים את זה כי זה כהן וכן הלאה. אוקיי.
ואז אנחנו צוחקים. אבל זה רק אני מראה לך שזה לא פשוט. זה ההיפך. ואתה משתמש בהלכה למוסר שלך, אתה הופך הכל לגרוע יותר. כי הלכה היא זה, אתה מבין מה אני אומר? הוא אמר שזה צריך להיות על מוסר או איזה מקום שזה צריך להיות הלכה.
כמו שמשה אמר, המשנה אומרת מדרכי השלום [מדרכי שלום: למען השלום], נכון? כי אחרת כולם, כל שבוע הולך להיות קרב—מי הולך להיות טעם תוכחים [תלמיד חכם: תלמיד חכם]? חוקים, הכהן, כולם יודעים שזה לא טעם תוכחים, אנחנו פשוט מקבלים את זה כי זה כהן וכן הלאה.
אוקיי, וכך בכל מקרה זה—אבל זה רק אני מראה לך שזה לא פשוט, זה ההיפך.
ואתה משתמש בהלכה [דין יהודי] למוסר שלך, אתה הופך הכל לגרוע יותר, כי הלכה—אתה מבין מה אני אומר? הוא אמר, אתה צריך להיות, לפי רוב המילים, פשטני, אתה צריך להיות הלכה, כי הלכה היא ברורה.
לא, הלכה היא לא ברורה.
במילים אחרות, מה שאתה צריך להיות זה משהו שנקרא—איך אתה עושה את זה—משהו שנקרא חכמה מעשית לישו [פרונזיס: חכמה מעשית אריסטוטלית]. זה הדבר היחיד שבאמת הולך לעזור. וההלכה לא נותנת לך את זה גם כן.
או ללמוד הלכה, אפילו בדרך של החזניש [החזון איש]—אתה רואה את החזניש עצמו, וזה באמת מוזר שהחזניש נכנס, לא רק במקרה הזה, במקרים רבים הוא נכנס לאותו דבר.
ומצד אחד, הוא מבין מאוד טוב איך ההלכה ניתנת לדעת של ההלכים [פוסקי הלכה]. זה לא כמו כללים.
ואז כשהוא חושב שמשהו הוא הכלל, הוא ההלכה, אז הוא חושב שכולם האחרים זה בגלל שהם לא חושבים על הלכה ברצינות.
כמובן, זה נכון שיש חלק אחד של הלכה שזה רשימת הנשיא, ה—מי שהוא השייך [שופט], צריך להיות—אבל זו שאלה אחרת. זו שאלה פוליטית. מי השייך?
אבל בכל מקרה, זו בעיה כללית.
אבל מה שאני מראה לך זה שתמיד יש הלכה שהיא פקעת [נפסקה/נקבעה]. ובאמת, הרב אולי גם, עם הגבאי דסנהדרין [מנהל הסנהדרין], הם יכולים לעשות מה שהם רוצים כפי שהם רואים לנכון, נכון? זה בעלי רואה [אנשי שיקול דעת/דיסקרציה].
תלמיד: אם שתי [שולחן ערוך: קוד של דין יהודי] עשה את זה…
מורה: כן, זה במפורש נגד ההלכה. אני אומר אפילו בתוך [בתוך] ההלכה. הוא אומר שיש הלכה של עושה והשם [מי משתחווה ראשון לפני התורה], של משיקונל תו ליקרית [התייחסות לא ברורה]. יש גם הלכה של מבח מתור אתצלב [שדעתו נכונה], של מי הנכון…
זה דבר אמיתי. ההלכה, אם אתה לומד הלכה, אם אתה התשובה [תשובה] הזו של סנהדרין בעל [התייחסות לא ברורה], זו תשובה של האסקן פשט נאגודה [אגודה], אבל אוקיי.
זה מראה לך הרבה יותר מורכבות של המציאות מזה.
והסיבה—זו הסיבה שאני חושב שהסיבה שאנחנו צריכים לומר שהלכה טובה יותר ממוסר היא לא בגלל שהלכה היא בהשם [מאת אלוהים/מהשם] או מוסר הוא לא בהשם—זה דבר מאוד טיפשי, כי ניש [החזון איש] אומר את זה כי זה שלו—זו הסיבה שהוא אומר, תגיד את זה.
כי אין לו דרך להסביר איך העולם מסובך ואיך הטוב הוא בדברים האמיתיים. במקום לומר את זה, הוא אומר שהשם עשה את זה טוב. זו בעיה גדולה.
אם הוא היה כמוני, הוא היה אומר: אתה מוסר, אתה טיפש. אתה חושב שהטוב הוא במוח שלך, והטוב הוא משהו כל כך פשוט. העולם יותר מסובך. הטוב הוא משהו על המעשים שלך—כמובן שהם צריכים להיות בהתאם למה שהמוח אומר, אבל המוח יותר מסובך ממה שאתה חושב. זה לא רק על הרצון שלך, זה על ההבנה שלך וכן הלאה.
ואז, כמובן שהלכה היא על זה. הוא צודק.
אבל מאחר שאין לו שפה לומר את זה, או אולי יש לו התחייבויות תיאולוגיות לא לומר את זה—אני לא יודע—הוא בסופו של דבר אומר משהו מאוד טיפשי, שאפילו שגוי הלכתית, כי יש גם צד [צד/היבט] שהבחור הזה צודק.
אוקיי, הלכה. זה סוף השיעור [שיעור] היום.
זה ששאל אותם—אני חושב שהסיפור הזה עליו, תקע [אכן], שאלו אותו: תקשיב, החכם הגדול הזה אמר משהו, וזה כנגדה [נגד זה], מה שזה לא יהיה, משהו. והוא כמו—במילים אחרות, ואולי כשהוא משתמש ברצון השם [רצון האלוהים], זה אומר שאלוהים הוא הרבה יותר מסובך, נכון? הרבה יותר מתוחכם ומסובך מהמוח שלך. אבל זה לא גרסים [התייחסות לא ברורה].
תלמיד: אולי, במילים אחרות, זה מאוד מצחיק שאתה אומר, מהעובדה שהוא אומר רצון השם, הוא מתכוון לכל הדברים האלה שאתה אומר.
מורה: אני חושב, אולי הנקודה היא שהשם חכם יותר אפילו מהם. נכון, נכון, זה מה שאני אומר, כי זה בדיוק מה שהחלמיש [החזון איש] חשב על הדברים האלה.
האם נשתוק?
תלמיד: כן, אני מניח.
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This shiur continues a prior exploration of a historical thesis: before certain modern movements, the dominant Jewish (and broadly Western) view held that being a good person meant cultivating correct actions and knowledge, not primarily correct feelings. This insight is attributed partly to Rabbi Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz (the Chazon Ish), whose theological chapters in *Emunah Bitachon* attempted to articulate this pre-Baal Shem Tov / pre-Kantian / pre-Humean conception of what makes a good person.
The classical ideal has two poles: Chochmah (Torah/wisdom) and Maaseh (Mitzvos/good deeds), referred to in Chazal as Chochmah u’Maaseh. The ideal is both together, though internal debates exist about which is primary. This is the settled, undisputed view of all Jewish tradition up to a certain historical breaking point.
The Chazon Ish frames the ideal person as a Talmid Chacham — someone devoted to Torah learning.
A student raises whether this excludes a Navi (prophet) or philosopher. The matter is more complicated than a simple label — “Talmid Chacham” might encompass prophecy and philosophy. Whether the Chazon Ish would agree (he may have meant specifically halacha) is left open.
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A structural parallel is explicitly drawn: Aristotle’s ideal of intellectual and practical virtues is “the same thing” as Torah and Mitzvos — differing in the specific content of what counts as intellect and what counts as good action, but sharing the same structural framework: a good person is one who possesses knowledge/wisdom and performs good deeds.
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The Baal Shem Tov and the Chassidic movement introduce a new ideal: the best person is the one who achieves dveykus (cleaving/attachment to God). This is explicitly not Torah and Mitzvos. Torah and Mitzvos may be instrumental — preparations for or paths toward dveykus — but dveykus itself is the goal. This is a clear, conscious break from the prior consensus, even though Chassidim engage in extensive apologetics to deny this (e.g., finding precedents in earlier sources for non-learned tzaddikim).
The common Chassidic move of citing earlier figures who were righteous without being learned is a “distraction” and “weird apologetics.” The Chassidim might be right substantively, but the break is undeniable.
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The talmidim of Rav Yisrael Salanter introduce yet another new ideal: the best person is one with good middos (character traits) — a mensch. They explicitly de-prioritize Torah knowledge and even Mitzvos observance relative to character refinement. Some Mussar figures also emphasize yiras Shamayim (fear of Heaven). But this too is a fundamentally different ideal from the classical Torah-and-Mitzvos framework.
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The Chassidic framing that the world divides into Chassidim and Misnagdim is rejected. Rather, it divides into:
1. Normal/old-fashioned Jews (e.g., the Chasam Sofer) — who simply hold the classical view.
2. Chassidim — a new movement.
3. Misnagdim (e.g., Reb Chaim Volozhiner) — also a new, reactive movement (“against” — the very name implies opposition rather than an independent positive identity).
The Chasam Sofer is cited as an example of someone who was neither Chassid nor Misnagid but simply an “old Yid.”
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The argument is primarily structural, not historical. Precursors to both Chassidus and Mussar exist (e.g., Chovos HaLevavos may have said similar things). Such precedents are not troubling because the claim is about the structure of ideas, not about strict chronological novelty. Ideas rise and fall in popularity, but the structural problem is what matters.
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Both modern movements (Chassidus and Mussar) are responses to the same crisis: the old-fashioned framework — where goodness is a real property of persons and activities in the world — became unintelligible or unlivable. Reasons include the loss of teleology and additional factors. People stopped being able to see, say, live, or believe that goodness is an objective feature of the world.
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The metaphor of Jacob’s ladder captures the structural condition: the ladder represents the connection between the world and God — the malachim (angels) that make reality a coherent, intelligible unity linking heaven and earth. “Nobody believes in malachim anymore” — the integrating mechanism between God and world has been lost.
Once the classical framework collapses, several options emerge:
The “flat line” — just do whatever you want. Since the audience is “pretending to be religious,” this is ruled out.
Dveykus is radically internal — it prioritizes the subjective relationship with God at the expense of the world’s coherence and value.
The Mussar movement seeks perfection within the world (character, menschlichkeit) but in a way that is also ultimately internal — in practice, Mussar people tend to value the person who *feels* empathy over the person who *actually raises money*. The provocative claim: the Baalei Mussar don’t really believe in God — they have effectively abandoned the divine pole of the ladder.
Divine command is tentatively raised as a potential alternative that avoids both the Chassidic and Mussar pitfalls, though its exact placement in the schema remains uncertain.
A student observes that the common thread across all these positions is that none of them believe in any real, substantive goodness. If goodness exists at all, it can only be imposed from the outside (God commanded it), not discovered as inherent. This connects to Kalam (*chochmat ha-kalam*) — the Islamic theological tradition that similarly denies inherent natures in things.
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The central critique of all post-collapse positions: they are one-dimensional. Each seizes on one aspect of life (dveikus, moral self-improvement, divine command) and makes it the totality, thereby:
– Denying the richness and variability of life.
– Treating every other dimension as evil or irrelevant.
– Becoming like “a table standing on one leg” (invoking Schelling) — inherently unstable.
This is the real big problem with the modern shift: not that any single emphasis is wrong per se, but that each becomes totalizing.
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Very few people have managed to articulate a genuine opposition to these one-dimensional frameworks. The difficulty is compounded because the worldview within which they must work is itself the cause of the problems. The opposition isn’t saying “you’re wrong” but rather “you’re only part of the story” — which is harder to argue dramatically. This is the perennial task of wisdom: showing how any given position is only partial.
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Those who try to revive the ancient, richer picture face a painful dilemma:
You lose much of the content. People eventually forget what was lost and mistake the translation for the original. The Rambam is offered as the paradigmatic example: people say he translated Jewish thought into Greek-Muslim philosophical language as a kind of *yeridat ha-tzaddik*. People then conclude that if you don’t think in that philosophical language, the Rambam is irrelevant. Rav Kook is cited as saying some things, once extinguished (*kafsa*), need not be reignited because they were only contextual translations. Many things people believe are “true Judaism” are actually bedi’eved accommodations — ways someone tried to speak in the language of their audience.
Become a perpetual *misnaged* — the one who is always against everything. This is also one-dimensional and also evil: it doesn’t account for why people really are the way they are, dismisses them as heretics, and causes you to lose touch with people. “Being a misnaged is in itself a way of life… and it’s not a good way to live.”
Neither option. Stop translating into frameworks that are “silly,” incomplete, and distorting, just because everyone thinks that way. “That’s not a good enough reason.”
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The sociological concept of Moral Therapeutic Deism (attributed to sociologists of American religion) describes the de facto belief system of most Americans regardless of denomination:
– God exists but isn’t really involved in the world.
– He mostly makes you feel good about yourself.
– He wants you to be a “good person” (give charity, help your neighbor — basic things).
The book “Catholic, Protestant, Jew” is cited: all three groups in America essentially believe this; they just “sing different songs in their churches.”
Jewish versions of this accommodation include:
– Chabad outreach (at the content level) partly characterized as the “power of positive thinking” repackaged.
– The “Bitachon guy” (*Bitachon Weekly*): *tracht gut vet zein gut* (“think good and it will be good”) identified as essentially “toxic positivity” — a very American trait dressed in Chassidic language. A student pushes back on sincerity; the structural point is maintained: “You could find Oprah believes in the same thing.”
– Breslov — the “American shitta” being: everything is good, Hashem loves you, He needs you, don’t be *misyayesh* (despairing).
All of this is a “great watering down” — not entirely false (there are sources), but presenting a tiny slice as the whole of Yiddishkeit.
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Making people good within their existing framework is genuinely hard and genuinely valuable. Keeping *sheva mitzvot bnei Noach* — providing for families, not stealing, not killing — is “a great achievement.” A student asks if this is a “low bar.” Emphatically no: “The default is something much worse.” All the clichés in the world are better than the alternative. This is not denigration — it’s real work. But it is also not the full picture, and the class is aimed at those seeking something beyond this level.
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The dissatisfaction with these watered-down approaches is not rooted in childish loyalty to tradition (*betor yeled*) — “the Torah says otherwise, so you’re wrong.” Nor is it primarily the observation that this approach leads to systematic inversion of Torah values where the ultimate arbiter becomes “the New York Times editorial board.”
Rather, the critique is betor goy — as a thinking person. The fundamental problem is that the entire worldview within which these people operate is not serious. It is at minimum incomplete, and likely worse.
The modern reflex of sending every problematic child to a therapist illustrates the “not serious” charge. Humanity educated children for thousands of years without therapists. The challenge: ask school administrators for actual success statistics from therapeutic interventions. These approaches don’t actually solve the problems they claim to address.
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The project is personal and communal in a narrow sense: for people who want to think seriously, to be able to do so within a Jewish framework in a genuinely serious way. Judaism will survive perfectly well with people teaching clichés — that’s already a net positive.
Against those who invoke rabbinic authority (*”the Rav said…”*) in support of the non-serious worldview: the Rav was trying to help you, not endorse your silliness. Even if the rabbis themselves don’t fully understand the alternative, they represent something far older and more tested than contemporary assumptions. This is a conservative heuristic: if most humans for 3,000 years believed something, it’s at least worth serious engagement, even if they were wrong.
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People who reject modernity but cannot articulate *why* or *what* is wrong. They just “hack kopp.” Socially useful insofar as it creates space for non-automatic acceptance of the zeitgeist, but not intellectually substantive. They don’t even have questions — just screaming, which is not an argument.
A very small number who actually think and try to articulate what is wrong. In the Jewish context there are basically none who are really good at this. Some Catholics and even some of “our enemies” (people who want us dead) have more complete and coherent theories of the world than any Jewish thinker known. Jews possess more *value* (Torah, tradition) than anyone, yet lack a serious, articulated worldview.
Kind 1 — The Reactionaries: People who say “just do whatever we’ve always done” and “everything outside is bad.” They don’t actually do what was always done, and they can’t explain what “outside” means or what “bad” means. Illustration: “My great-grandmother didn’t drive because there were no cars in her town, but I think my wife shouldn’t drive either for the same reason.”
Kind 2 — The “Smart” Jews (the “dumb people”): The sophisticated ones who have concluded that Torah ethics perfectly aligns with New York Times editorials. A variant now exists that aligns Torah with Breitbart-style conservatism — also reactionary and shallow, though not entirely stupid.
The deepest critique targets those regarded as serious Jewish intellectuals. Despite their sophistication, every single one of them accepts every anti-metaphysical commitment of the modern worldview. They merely try to work *within* it. They do not challenge its foundations.
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A concrete diagnostic: Do you believe in angels (*malachim*)?
– No pre-modern Jewish thinker does *not* believe in angels.
– No modern Jewish thinker *does*.
– If angelology is an important part of your Judaism, you are an “ancient Jew.”
– Modern *mekubalim* (kabbalists) are dismissed as “totally not mekubalim” — they reduce everything to psychology, which is nonsense.
– Angels are not psychology. They are not merely internal states or parts of one’s soul.
– Angels are intermediate beings — messengers from God to man and from man to God (referencing the Symposium on the role of *daimones* as intermediaries).
– Angels are external to the mind. They have independent existence. They are greater than the individual and exist prior to and independently of the person.
– A thought exists *because of you*. An angel is something you might exist *because of* — it precedes you and is not generated by your consciousness.
– The Rambam believes in malachim — and does not think they are things in your head. Even identifying them as intellects, they are real entities without which the world doesn’t make sense.
– They are not God, and they are not us thinking about God. They occupy a genuine ontological middle space.
– They don’t go away when you close your eyes — they persist even if you die.
– Physical details (wings, etc.) are secondary and debatable; the ontological point is what matters.
If there are no real intermediary beings between God and the world, then the entire classical Jewish metaphysical architecture collapses. The fact that no modern Jewish thinker maintains belief in genuine *malachim* proves that the entire modern Jewish intellectual world — left, right, reactionary, sophisticated — has already conceded the game to modernity’s anti-metaphysical commitments.
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– Type 1 (Frum Jews): Say they believe in angels but have no experiential or intellectual contact with them. Eliyahu HaNavi doesn’t come to them because “he doesn’t like to talk to *meshugaim*.”
– Type 2 (Modern/Secular Jews): Eliyahu doesn’t come to them because they don’t believe in him, making his arrival logically impossible.
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The goal is to create a school of people who genuinely believe in angels — not because “it says so in the Torah.” A sharp distinction is drawn between believing in a thing and believing in the text that mentions the thing. The Beis Yaakov world “believes in *shedim*” only because the Gemara says so — but if someone claimed to have actually *seen* a shed, everyone would laugh. This proves they don’t really believe in shedim; they believe in the Gemara’s authority. Similarly, “believing in angels because it’s a mitzvah to believe” is one of the “weird modern solutions” that reduces everything to textual obligation. This is insufficient.
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The Chazon Ish is identified as one of the only people in the last hundred years who actually engaged in the activity of thinking. However, being Frum, he was also “therefore meshuga” — meaning his thinking is intermittent: one line of genuine thought followed by a retreat into “it says in the heilige Torah.”
The difficulty lies in distinguishing when the Chazon Ish is genuinely thinking versus using a shortcut of authority. Sometimes what looks like a mere appeal to authority might contain a thought the reader hasn’t grasped. His book (*Emunah U’Bitachon*) is incomplete, not fleshed out — he identifies real problems but then “closes them with some weird Ani Ma’amin.” In Halacha too, the Chazon Ish often has a brilliant insight but then “jumps off” — his argument could go both ways and he doesn’t notice, or he doesn’t follow through.
Yeshivas don’t teach thinking. They teach you to arrange other people’s thoughts in the right order (*haki didas*). The Chazon Ish actually uses books and authority as instruments of thought, not merely as sources to repeat. He tries to think until he agrees with what the text says, or until he believes it — and he discusses this method explicitly.
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A student raises the Meshech Chochma as a possible counter-example. The Meshech Chochma says “very good *pshatim*,” but pshatim are not thinking. He is smart, well-read, and touches real problems no one else touches — but there is no evidence of genuine *thinking* in his work.
Key criterion: The Meshech Chochma never says “*tzarich iyun*” on a basic, genuinely puzzling matter. He never shows himself to be stuck. By contrast, the Moreh Nevuchim (Rambam’s Guide) does think — evidenced by open questions, moments of hesitation (*megamgem*), and unresolved tensions. The Rambam is sometimes “heavy of mouth and heavy of tongue” — genuinely struggling.
A thinker who wraps every shiur perfectly — starts with 17 questions and answers all 17 — is a bluffer. A real thinker will have at least one question they genuinely can’t answer. The Chazon Ish’s pattern — one line of genuine thought followed by a line that doesn’t actually answer it — is itself a sign of authenticity. He got upset at himself and retreated to Ani Ma’amin.
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Teachers who think for one line and then retreat to authority are not simply lying to themselves. They are Frum, they are afraid — but there is also a certain wisdom in this, because people who take one thought and “just run with it” through all its conclusions are often one-dimensional and dumb.
Rationalist bloggers are cited as examples: they had “one thought or a quarter of a thought” and followed every conclusion from it. But “basic wisdom is that there’s another side.” When a Frum thinker says “this seems correct as a line of real thinking, but it says in the Torah [otherwise],” the charitable interpretation: “I’m not the first one to think in the world; Moshe Rabbeinu thought also; so for now I’ll just move on.”
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A student challenges the privileging of the ancient over the modern. The response: “Chas v’shalom” — the ancients are emphasized only because the students are so stuck in modern assumptions that it takes “hacking a kopp” to dislodge them. It’s a matter of balance, not genuine dismissal of modernity. Modern thinkers are “very serious,” but all their arguments are already in Plato. They didn’t invent new arguments; they took one side and ran with it. The ancient-vs-modern framing is “not really the best framing” and should probably be abandoned — but it’s pragmatically necessary given how hard it is to communicate these ideas.
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The historical framing (tracing ideas through periods and movements) is not the ideal way to present these ideas. All the fundamental arguments already existed in antiquity — in Plato, in the Torah’s own narrative (the Satan’s arguments to Adam HaRishon), and throughout ancient texts. Modern thinkers (Descartes, etc.) are routinely shown by academics to have been anticipated by predecessors. The historical narrative is merely a pedagogical scaffold — a framework people already have in their heads — that helps students grasp what’s going on.
Modern academics constantly play the game of showing that supposedly novel ideas were anticipated centuries earlier, and what was written down is only a fraction of what was thought and said in entire societies.
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The Chazon Ish displays moments of extraordinary clarity in thinking, but then periodically lapses back into default positions — not because he’s stupid, but because even genuine thinkers are pulled back by their environment’s gravitational force. This is framed as the Yetzer HaTov “waking up” and disrupting the Yetzer HaRa’s clarity (an inversion of the usual framing). Many people who “think for themselves” are really just repeating what the New York Times wants them to think, or are mere contrarians who reflexively take the opposite position. Neither is serious thought. Aristotle’s *Politics* on slavery — three chapters with strong arguments on both sides — illustrates that if you think either side is “obvious,” you’re not thinking seriously.
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1. He lacks the full ancient picture. Despite his brilliance, the Chazon Ish doesn’t have access to or command of the complete ancient intellectual framework. This leads to visible frustration in his writings — he can’t fully account for everything because pieces are missing.
2. His kludges to preserve old beliefs are weak. When the Chazon Ish tries to patch the gaps in his framework to maintain traditional positions, the solutions are “very dumb.” The concept of tzivui (divine command) is singled out as the worst of these kludges — a crude mechanism invoked to hold things together that doesn’t withstand serious scrutiny.
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The central modern assumption: what matters is only what’s in your heart. The Talmudic phrase *Rachmana liba ba’ei* (“God wants the heart”) is seized upon as proof-text because it perfectly matches modern biases. This is unserious — taking a three-word statement and reading all of modernity’s assumptions into it.
– The Chassidim claim: we have the best heart, so we win.
– The Ba’alei Mussar claim: we have a different, more refined understanding of the heart, but the same basic move — interiority is what counts.
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Chaim Grade’s novel *The Yeshiva* is introduced as a key text for understanding the Chazon Ish’s worldview. Grade was the Chazon Ish’s *chavrusa* and friend, and a gifted novelist. The Chazon Ish himself was not a good writer — he couldn’t effectively describe characters or convey his vision in literary form. Grade, however, could, and his novel depicts (under a pseudonym) the Chazon Ish and the various people around him with their competing radical ideas about what constitutes a good person. The novel shows the Chazon Ish trying to hold on to something very ancient while recognizing it is far more sophisticated than what his contemporaries offer.
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If you actually read Mussar *shmuessen* (ethical discourses), they say nothing for pages on end. They are “crazily simplistic,” repetitive, and boring in a deeply significant way. Yet the Ba’alei Mussar consider themselves the wisest, most profound people alive — claiming to understand humanity while the *Roshei Yeshiva* merely repeat Abaye and Rava.
Every Ba’al Mussar “worth anything” believes he has cracked the code of the human being. The modern version is called Toras Hanefesh (psychology of the soul). These people have “half of a quarter of a theory” and are so impressed by it that they write as if they’ve discovered everything. They claim to “get people” but understand almost nothing.
The Chazon Ish — possessing both a quick mind and intellectual courage (the two essential ingredients for serious thought) — listens to these Mussar masters and finds them wanting. The “Alter” explains how people fool themselves, then writes 14 volumes about self-deception, and the Chazon Ish’s reaction is: “Okay, and now what? What are you actually telling me? And aren’t you fooling yourself while writing all this?”
The Shach on Choshen Mishpat contains an understanding of humanity “10,000 miles deeper” than the Mussar masters’ understanding of *negius* (bias/self-interest). Choshen Mishpat is *entirely about* people deluding themselves — disputes over kodesh vs. chol, the laws of bribery (*shochad*), testimony, and competing claims. The halachic tradition has a far more sophisticated and detailed model of human nature than the Ba’al Mussar who considers himself superior to “mere” halacha.
This connects to the concept of Naval BiRshus HaTorah: the Ba’al Mussar thinks halacha is for spiritual lowlifes, while *he* has true understanding. But in practice, when you actually engage with a Mussar *mashgiach* in a real dispute, he turns out to be “the stupidest guy” and “the most self-righteous rasha” — simplistic, arrogant, and without the depth he claims.
This is a broader pathology — people who believe they’ve cracked the code of human nature. Some genuinely did discover something; the Mussar figures under discussion “didn’t even discover basic” — the thread is cut off.
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The Chazon Ish’s distinctive mode of Torah study: he spends hours daily reading Tosafos, Rambam, Shach — complex legal texts. He learns halacha lema’aseh (practical law), not in the Brisker mode of turning everything into abstract philosophy. He reads halacha as commentary on the human condition — not just “what’s the ruling” but what does this reveal about the complexity of human relations. Yoreh Deah and Choshen Mishpat in particular get into the *kishkas* (guts) of what it means to be human. Crucially: you never come out of a sugya the way you went in — at least with the Chazon Ish. The learning process genuinely transforms your understanding, unlike most people who simply confirm their pre-existing biases.
When the Chazon Ish applies this approach to topics like *tzitzis* (ritual fringes — *bein adam lamakom*), it becomes “a little confusing,” and there is a question whether this limitation is due to a Chassidic background. But for interpersonal and civil law, the depth is undeniable.
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Before opening any book, he already knows what the *psak* should be. He has *seichel hayosher* (straight common sense), understands the *da’as* (the spirit of the law), and finds the answer that matches. These people usually make sense, at least to those who think similarly.
This approach says Option 1 is just projecting your biases onto Torah. The correct method is to have no preconception — you open the Shulchan Aruch and rule according to what it says, full stop.
– Of course you come in with an opinion — otherwise you’re not a person. And of course textual authority matters — you can’t simply override the Poskim.
– But neither of these is what learning actually is. If it were just Option 1, a smart rabbi could just announce his psak and have someone write a teshuvah afterward. If it were just Option 2, you could look up the footnotes in Piskei Teshuvot and be done.
– The real point of learning: You enter with your intuition (svara), and then the Gemara shows you that it also considered your idea — but then a second angle, a third, a fourth. After going through the sugya with Tosafot, you have fourteen different ways to think, not fourteen authorities to weigh. Your mind has been genuinely opened.
– The result: “Now I really don’t know what to do” — and *that* is when real thinking begins, because you must navigate genuine complexity.
People mistakenly think sevarot (logical arguments/intuitions) are “things in your head.” They are descriptions of reality. Each shittah (legal position) in the tradition corresponds to a real angle on reality that you missed because of your initial confidence. The Chazon Ish reads the entire history of halachic discourse this way: each opinion teaches him something about reality. He doesn’t have “emunah peshutah” (simple faith) in every Acharon — if someone is wrong, he says so. But the authorities he trusts make him think, and he emerges from the sugya with a more sophisticated understanding, not a more confused one. By contrast, many people start with a good theory and end up confused because they pile on authorities without integrating them.
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People who are “mizalez” (dismissive) of learning assume the only model of learning is the authority-based model (Option 2). They therefore conclude: “We don’t need that; we’re just good people.” The retort: “You’re not good people.” You don’t understand a fraction of what makes a person tick compared to what the Shulchan Aruch understands. The Shulchan Aruch is simply better.
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There is a personal bias toward feeling that *bein adam l’chaveiro* (interpersonal law) doesn’t really matter as much. But the same argument applies there.
People think they know what Shabbos is: “You rest.” But if pressed to define rest, they can’t. Hilchos Shabbos contains a fourteen-fold deeper, more complicated understanding of what rest is — one that corresponds to reality. The halacha asks: What are people actually doing when they work? When they rest? When they think they’re resting but are really working in their heads? Conclusion: Halacha has a far more sophisticated view of reality than “all these olamos, all these Chassidus books together.”
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People read the Arizal and see technical descriptions of 17,000 levels of Olam HaYetzirah. They find it boring. So they turn to the Ramchal or similar figures who say: “It’s all a mashal. The nimshal is: be a good person. Chesed means God does things you like; din means God does things you don’t like. The Arizal was just complicating this.”
“I don’t know if your mashal-nimshal framework is correct, but I know one thing — the Arizal was much smarter than you.” The simplifiers’ theory of the world has two or three variables. The Arizal’s theory has 17 million variables. He is simply much closer to the complexity of actual reality. Even if the “theory of everything” hope is to reduce things to five principles, spelling those out requires millions of variables. You can’t calculate the real world without them. The simplifiers think they’re the smart ones and the Arizal was the naive technician. “You’re just stupid. You’re simplifying to the point where it’s not even interesting.” Caveat: Maybe the Arizal’s specific 17,000 variables are all fantasy and the real variables are different — but his method of approaching reality with that level of sophistication is far superior.
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What the Chazon Ish actually says: “You’re an apikores. You think you’re going with your sechel, but the Torah says the opposite of your sechel.” What the Chazon Ish really means: “You’re dumb.” He doesn’t have the patience to explain *why* your sechel is basic, so he just calls you an apikores. “It’s much worse to be dumb than to be an apikores.”
The Chazon Ish’s real critique of Mussar: they discovered the concept of negiah (personal bias) and thought they’d found the key to everything. “Yeah, people have negiah, thank you very much. Is that all? Does that explain everything? No, it explains almost nothing.” When people of a certain seniority discover a simple concept for the first time, they think they’ve discovered the world. A younger person hears it and says, “Okay, and then what?” — and the whole thing burns out.
A sefer (possibly a modern book on cognitive bias) was found interesting but couldn’t structure a life around. Even professional psychologists who spent 30 years studying bias came up with theories that also turned out to be wrong. Halacha, which everyone is happy to dismiss as unsophisticated, actually contains far deeper thinking about these matters.
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The Chazon Ish says: “The halacha is what God wants from you.” The objection: “What? Where do you get that? Why do you even need that?” Halacha is simply the product of people who thought longer and more seriously about these cases than you did. You don’t need the theological claim to justify halacha’s authority. When the Chazon Ish makes this theological move, he engages in demagoguery — and this is where the paths diverge.
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A specific passage from the Chazon Ish (*Perek Daled, Halacha Hey*) illustrates a broader point about the unity of the virtues:
The Chazon Ish describes a common occurrence: a man who considers himself a great *tzaddik* acknowledges he has problems *bein adam lachavero* (bad *middot*), but believes he at least has genuine *yirat shamayim*. The test case: this man is called up for an *aliyah la-Torah*, but refuses to go up because the aliyah offered is not prestigious enough — he only accepts *shlishi* or higher.
The Chazon Ish’s critique: The Gemara states explicitly (*”v’oyvei Hashem yichlu”*) that someone called for an aliyah who refuses is *mevazeh devar Hashem*. The Torah’s honor supersedes personal honor. This man is entirely under the dominion of the yetzer hara (*tachat shilton ha-yetzer hara*). His apparent religiosity — buying the most expensive matzah, etc. — is mere habit (*hergel*), not genuine *yirat shamayim*. The moment any real conflict arises between his ego and halachic obligation, the ego wins.
The deeper goal: The Chazon Ish attacks the standard mussar claim that people can be *mushlam* (perfected) in *bein adam la-Makom* while deficient in *bein adam la-chavero*. He argues this bifurcation is false — the person who fails interpersonally also lacks genuine *yirat shamayim*. The virtues are unified.
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The Chazon Ish presents the case as a clean dichotomy: halacha clearly says you must go up; the man doesn’t go up; therefore he lacks *yirat shamayim*. But the halacha is not so clear. This is precisely the point about the nature of halacha: it is the most non-dogmatic legal system imaginable. There are always qualifications, exceptions, and situational considerations.
Halacha’s superiority lies in its attention to the complexity and details of real situations, not in its being a rigid formalistic system. The Chazon Ish himself understands this in his actual halachic work, but when arguing polemically against mussar-type figures, he falls back on the rhetoric of “the halacha is clearly against you.”
What if the man genuinely is a *chashuv* person whose honor is connected to Torah? What if being called for the wrong aliyah actually does raise a legitimate halachic question about *kvod ha-Torah*? It is genuinely possible that the correct halachic ruling is that such a person should not go up — that his *kvod ha-Torah* requires waiting for the appropriate aliyah.
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A major textual support comes from the Rambam, built around the famous Gemara in Masechet Nedarim:
*”Mipnei mah talmidei chachamim einam metzuyin latzeit talmidei chachamim mi-bneihem?”* — Why don’t the children of Torah scholars become Torah scholars?
Answer (Rav Yehuda in the name of Rav): *”She-lo birchu ba-Torah techila”* — because they didn’t “bless the Torah first.”
Interpretation 1 (The Rambam’s Rebbe and Chaver):
Torah scholars were negligent about being *oleh la-Torah* — they thought they had better things to do (learning Mishnayot, Gemara), were too impatient to go to the bimah, stayed home, etc. This *zilzul* (disrespect) of the Torah caused their children not to become scholars. This aligns with the Chazon Ish’s position.
Interpretation 2 (The Rambam’s Own View — “Pankt Fakhert” / Exactly the Opposite):
*”She-lo birchu ba-Torah techila”* means they didn’t take the first aliyah. The halacha is that a *Kohen* reads first, but this applies only when all are of equal Torah stature, or all are *amei ha’aretz*. When there is a genuine *talmid chacham* who is a *Yisrael* and the *Kohen* is an *am ha’aretz*, the *talmid chacham* should go up first. The Rambam cites the practice of Rav, who would go up before the Kohen in his yeshiva, demonstrating that *”gadol ha-Torah yoter min ha-kehuna v’ha-malchut.”* And Rav’s children became *talmidei chachamim*.
The Rambam’s conclusion: If a *talmid chacham* defers to a *Kohen am ha’aretz* and accepts a later aliyah (like *shlishi*), he is implicitly teaching his children that being a Kohen matters more than Torah scholarship. Don’t be surprised when the children don’t become scholars.
The Rambam’s pshat is exactly the opposite of the Chazon Ish’s position. According to the Rambam, the problem is not that the scholar refused an aliyah out of arrogance — the problem is that he accepted a lesser aliyah out of false humility or deference, thereby degrading Torah’s honor.
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*Halacha lema’aseh*, the Rambam’s position hasn’t been fully implemented — Kohanim still get the first aliyah. The matter remains unresolved (*lo berur*). The Mishnah’s rule of *darkei shalom* (ways of peace) provides a practical reason: without a fixed order based on Kehuna, every week would devolve into fights about who is the greater *talmid chacham*. The Kohen system avoids this — everyone knows the Kohen isn’t getting the aliyah because of his scholarship.
Additional halachic illustrations of built-in complexity and discretion:
– The Gabbai of the Sanhedrin can act as they see fit — the domain of the Baalei De’ah.
– There is a Halacha of “Oseh HaShem” — of who bows first before the Torah.
– There is a Halacha of “Umkom Mato’i Techilah” — of whose opinion is actually correct.
– A Teshuvah to the Rambam (referenced via the Agudah) further illustrates this layered complexity.
All of these show that within Halacha itself, there are competing principles that require judgment, not mere rule-application.
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A recurring pattern: the Chazon Ish’s actual halachic practice and understanding is sophisticated and context-sensitive. But his polemical rhetoric against mussar and simplistic religiosity relies on presenting halacha as a clear, formalistic system that yields unambiguous answers. This creates a tension: the very halachic sophistication the Chazon Ish embodies in his real work contradicts the rhetorical use he makes of halacha in his mussar-critique arguments. The aliyah story is a perfect illustration: the Chazon Ish presents it as an open-and-shut case, but a serious halachic investigation (including the Rambam’s teshuva) shows the opposite conclusion is at least equally defensible.
When you use Halacha as a vehicle for Mussar, you make everything worse, because:
– Mussar assumes goodness is simple and clear.
– People assume Halacha should therefore also be simple and clear.
– But Halacha is not clear — it is deeply complex, multi-layered, and context-dependent.
The only thing that can truly navigate this complexity is Sechel HaYashar (straight/sound reasoning), or practical wisdom, or — using the Aristotelian term — Phronesis. Halacha itself does not automatically produce this capacity; it requires a kind of judgment that transcends rule-following.
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A persistent internal contradiction in the Chazon Ish’s thought appears across many contexts:
– On one hand, the Chazon Ish deeply understands that Halacha is “given to the Mareh D’Halacha” — it is not a set of rigid rules but something entrusted to the judgment of the halachic decisor.
– On the other hand, when the Chazon Ish believes something *is* the definitive Halacha, he treats anyone who disagrees as bordering on Apikorsus, as if the rule were self-evident and binding without interpretive latitude.
There is indeed a halachic principle of listening to the Beis Din and the “Shofet asher yihyeh bayamim hahem” (the judge of your generation), but who counts as that authoritative judge is itself an anthropological/sociological question, not a settled halachic one.
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The proper argument against Mussar is not that “Halacha is Dvar HaShem and Mussar is not.” That is “a very silly thing.” The real argument should be:
– To the Mussar movement: You think goodness is simple, residing in the will and in the mind. But the world is far more complicated than that.
– Goodness is in the real actions, which must accord with what the mind says — but the mind itself is more complicated than Mussar acknowledges. It involves not just will but understanding, discernment, and contextual judgment.
– Halacha, properly understood, *is* about that richer, more complex engagement with reality. So the Chazon Ish is right in substance — Halacha is superior to simplistic Mussar — but wrong in his articulation.
The Chazon Ish lacked the philosophical language to express this insight, or perhaps had theological commitments that prevented him from saying it. So instead of arguing from the complexity of reality and the nature of goodness, he fell back on the claim that “HaShem made it good” — that Halacha is superior simply because it is Ratzon HaShem (God’s will).
This formulation is not only philosophically weak but even wrong on its own halachic terms, since there is a recognized halachic principle (a “Tzad”) that certain considerations are Dochei Halacha — they override strict halachic rules. So even within the halachic system, the claim that Halacha is always the final, simple word is untenable.
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A story told about the Chazon Ish: Someone reported that a great Lamdan had said something contradicting a particular halachic ruling. The Chazon Ish responded (in Yiddish): “He is indeed great, but the Torah is even greater” (*Iz takke zei zei grois, ober di Torah iz noch gresser*).
Perhaps when the Chazon Ish invokes “Ratzon HaShem,” what he *really* means — at his deepest level — is that God’s reality is far more complex and sophisticated than any human mind can capture. “Noch gresser” — even greater than the greatest human intellect. The Chazon Ish may have *intuited* exactly what has been argued throughout this shiur (that reality and goodness are more complex than Mussar allows), but expressed it in theological shorthand (“Ratzon HaShem”) rather than in philosophical language.
A student pushes back, suggesting that attributing all this to “Ratzon HaShem” is reading a philosophical framework into the Chazon Ish. The response: “I think Ratzon HaShem is smarter than even that” — meaning the Chazon Ish’s own concept of divine will may be richer than any single philosophical articulation. This is acknowledged as being precisely what the Chazon Ish himself thought about these matters.
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1. The classical consensus held that the good person is defined by Torah and Mitzvos (Chochmah u’Maaseh) — wisdom and good deeds together.
2. The collapse of teleology and moral realism broke Jacob’s ladder — the integrating structure between God and world — producing one-dimensional responses: Chassidus (God without world), Mussar (world without God), nihilism, or divine command.
3. Mussar is simplistic — it reduces goodness to will and intention, flattening the complexity of moral and halachic reality. Its practitioners claim to understand human nature but possess only a fraction of the insight embedded in halachic literature.
4. Halacha, properly understood, is rich and complex — it requires Phronesis/Sechel HaYashar, not rule-following, and contains a far deeper model of human nature than any Mussar text.
5. The Chazon Ish was right in substance that Halacha is superior to Mussar as a guide to the good life.
6. But the Chazon Ish was wrong in formulation — his reliance on “Ratzon HaShem” as the justification, rather than an argument from the complexity of reality and goodness, weakened his position and even contradicted halachic principles.
7. The deepest irony: the Chazon Ish may have understood all of this intuitively but lacked — or chose not to use — the language to say it properly. The Torah is “noch gresser” — even greater — than any articulation, including his own.
Instructor: Let me see if the rabbi, what’s his name, wants to hear. This sheet is an exploration of something that we started in here. You said that it’s a barf, I think. It was a Lakewood thing. The last sheet here that gave the historical theory of how everyone started the thing, the main thing is to feel good, have the correct feelings, I said that it seems like Rabbi Karelitz wrote a book called *Chazon Ish* [referring to Rabbi Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz, known by his work’s title]. In the back, he wrote a few chapters about his ideas about theology, called *Emunah Bitachon V’od* [Faith, Trust, and More] — it’s really *Emunah Bitachon V’Mussar* [Faith, Trust, and Ethics], I don’t know why they skipped the last word — that’s about the subjects. I don’t know what he called it.
And I noticed that he was trying to express the pre-Baal Shem Tov, or pre-Immanuel Kant, or pre-David Hume — same idea — theory of how to be a good person. That’s what I said, remember?
Now, what you were saying, what you were telling me back today is, and what I say is, that it’s very important to notice this. And this is something you should notice. And this is another way of saying the same thing that we discussed then. We discussed one detail of it, or one instance of it.
Instructor: How there is this — let’s say it in the way the *Chazon Ish* would say it, or the way the Litvak [Lithuanian Orthodox Jew] would say it — which is that there’s an old version about what a good person is, which is the same thing about what a good Yid [Jew] is, right? Who is the ideal person?
All the Jewish tradition, up to a certain point, all agree on it, or almost all agree on it. I think it’s more complicated than that, but okay, everyone agrees on it. And that ideal person is called a — hmm — he said it’s called a *Talmid Chacham* [Torah scholar, literally “wise student”].
The *Chazon Ish* — everyone knew until the Baal Shem Tov, or the Baal Salanter [Rabbi Yisrael Salanter, founder of the Mussar movement] — everyone knew that the greatest guy around is a *Talmid Chacham*. That’s what it says in the Gemara [Talmud], in the Midrash [rabbinic homiletical literature], everywhere.
Student: A *Chacham* [wise person]?
Instructor: Yeah, a *Talmid Chacham* is a weird… we could go to the *Shein* [possibly referring to a specific text or source] and I’ll find out about that.
Student: Not a *Navi* [prophet]?
Instructor: Not a lot of things. No, I don’t know. That’s why I said it’s more complicated when you start saying, not a philosopher, not a *Navi*. I’m not sure that that’s correct, because that might include those things. What’s not is some event.
You have, very clearly, I think that this can’t be disputed and I don’t think there’s even a debate about it. You could ask something else. You could say, *Talmid Chacham*, or *Talmid Chacham* would also be that, or there’s another kind of good Yid, good person, which is a *Baal Maisim* [person of good deeds].
Instructor: Either you do Torah or you do mitzvos [commandments]. That’s the two things. Either Torah or mitzvos. Called in Chazal [the Sages] generally *Chochmah u’Maaseh* [Wisdom and Action]. Either you do Torah, learn Torah, *Chochmah* [wisdom] — you can include *Nevuah* [prophecy] and philosophy and everything in that if you really want. I don’t think *Talmid Chacham* — although the *Chazon Ish* might, yes, think that’s complicated — and or mitzvah, someone who does mitzvos.
That is what every Yid ever thought is a good person. And ideally both, but okay, sometimes people emphasize this, sometimes they emphasize that, okay.
Instructor: Now, suddenly comes the Baal Shem Tov [founder of Chassidism], or comes *Baalei Mussar* [practitioners of the Mussar movement], the Mussar Movement, so-called, and they come up with new ideals of what is a good person. Very explicitly, not this ideal.
They say, no, a good person, what does the Chassidim say? Who is a good person? Someone who has *dveykus* [cleaving/attachment to God]. That’s what the Chassidim say. If you don’t have *dveykus*, you can do as much as you want. We don’t care about you. That’s what they say, very explicitly. And they’re very conscious, actually, of this, that they’re going against what everyone until before them and after them, like, didn’t think that.
Instructor: [The Chasam Sofer] was an old Yid. He wasn’t a *Misnaged* [opponent of Chassidism]. You see, this doesn’t mean being a *Misnaged*. It’s very clear. The Chassidim have this weird thing that the world divides into Chassidim and *Misnagdim*, but it doesn’t. It divides into normal people and Chassidim and *Misnagdim*. *Misnaged* is also a weirdo, like he’s already against.
Student: Against.
Instructor: *Misnaged* is another… it’s such a…
Student: Another new kind of thing, right?
Instructor: It’s such a mean word.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: You exist to go against us.
Student: Right.
Instructor: So there’s old, just old-fashioned Judaism, or old-fashioned ethics, which is, a good person is someone who does Torah and mitzvos, ideally both. Of, maybe Torah is more than mitzvos, maybe mitzvah is more than Torah, there’s discussions about this, but that’s what it is.
Instructor: Then comes the Baal Shem Tov, and they say, no, a good person, an ideal person, the best person, is the one who has *dveykus*. Who knows what *dveykus* is, but it’s something that’s not Torah mitzvos, that’s for sure. Yeah, Torah mitzvos lead to that, Torah mitzvos are for that, all kinds of *nashtatik lech* [possibly “we’ll say to you” in Yiddish], Torah, but it’s not that.
Same way, in a similar way comes, in a similar way comes, if anyone that was born by Chassidim has a *smagdus* [possibly “smugness” or a Yiddish term] when I say this, but it’s because they’re very used to all these that kind of, it’s like, therefore, there’s nothing more clear than this, that Chassidim come up with a new way of defining who is the best person.
And they even admit it, it’s just Chassidim are very used to weird apologetics. They’re like, yeah, but there was some *Tzaddik* [righteous person] once we could find in the Mishnah [earliest codification of Jewish oral law] that was, didn’t know how to learn, but is still a *Tzaddik* and so on. This is all a distraction. I can’t get into this, but it’s very clear, and there can’t be anything more clear than this.
Now, they might be right, see, they might not be wrong, but it’s a very clear break.
Instructor: The same way, or a different way, but in a similar way, the *Talmidim* [students] of Rabbi Salanter, Rabbi Israel Salanter, and some other Salanters, they came and said that they don’t care if you’re not a learner, they don’t care if you do mitzvos, they care about something new called being a mensch [decent person]. That’s the *Baal Mussar* thing.
We don’t care about it. I mean, of course we care. Of course we care. But in the end, who do we respect? Who do we think is the ideal person who gets praised? Someone who’s a mensch, who has good *middos* [character traits], acts like a mensch. And they come with all these stories, that learning is not enough, blah blah blah, you have to have *middos*.
They mean that he has *yiras Shamayim* [fear of Heaven]. Even something the *Baal Mussar* actually do emphasize. Some of them at least, they say, *yiras Shamayim* and has good *middos*. Okay. But it’s still a very different story than the old story about someone who — that’s the fact, okay?
Instructor: Now, of course, there’s like people like [unclear] who come and try to say very, like, now, so now, let’s, let’s, let’s, let’s explain this. That’s the story.
Now, in my, in my version, this new thing, and these are both modern movements, right? There might be, they all say they have precursors, there are pre-modern movements that say similar things. I don’t know, maybe yes, maybe not, and I’m not really [concerned] by that because I don’t really believe that this is a historical story. I’m just really giving a structural story. There’s ideas about this. It’s not just a historical fact.
Although, ideas do get more and less popular throughout history, but that’s not about that. You’ll find someone, the *Chovos HaLevavos* [Duties of the Hearts, medieval Jewish ethical work] maybe said that. OK, so he’s the same problem. I’m not denying that there might have been people before that said similar things.
Instructor: But what’s important is that we have to understand both of these modern movements. I’m giving it in the modern version, instantiation of this kind of problem, as responses to the same issue, which is that the old fashioned way of like a good person, someone does Torah mitzvos, that’s the Jewish version of it, right, or the ancient version of it.
Instructor: I don’t know how we were discussed. How did Aristotle say, don’t Torah mitzvos? Having intellectual and practical virtues, right? The same thing. The same thing with slightly different details about what the intellect is and what the good actions are, but the same idea.
Instructor: And now, since for various reasons, people stopped understanding that, stopped being able to say that, stopped being able to live that, stopped being able to believe that. One of the reasons we discussed has to do with teleology and so on. But I think there’s even more reasons. Therefore, that’s one very basic reason. Stop seeing goodness as a real thing, something that isn’t a property of people or activities in the world.
Instructor: So therefore, we end up being stuck and looking for some new way. Now, either you could be an idealist. That’s the real, like, flat line here, like the real default now. You could be some guy that thinks that he knows what he’s doing, that he can do whatever he wants. That’s one option, of course. Since we’re all pretending to be religious, that’s not an option. So we have to find a different solution.
Instructor: So one of the solutions was to say *dveykus*, whatever that means, which is definitely not the same thing. It’s something very internal, right? All the criticism that I have of over-internality applies to that.
Instructor: Or something also, in some way, internal. But in any case, I think we also get up mostly stuck in internals, even when they talk about being a mensch. At least the people that I know that are working in their tradition mostly end up thinking that the guy that feels, has empathy with someone is a bigger *tzaddik* than the guy that actually raises money for him.
So they seem to end up in a very similar place, but with different things. They don’t really believe in God. That’s the very different *malchus* [kingship/sovereignty]. See them, other people, right?
Instructor: Since another very weird way of saying this is the very old way that we said this once about the ladder being broken, right? Jacob’s ladder. Jacob’s ladder broke, which means there’s no *malchim* [angels] anymore. Nobody believes in *malchim*, right? There’s a sign of this, which means there’s nothing that makes the world and God work together as some kind of unit, as some kind of coherent, intelligible thing.
Instructor: So now, you have basically, either you could be a nothing, that’s what I said, or you could cling to God anyways, then you destroy the world, that’s Chassidus, or you could cling to the world, whichever perfection can be found in some weird way internally in the world, and destroy God, which is what the *Baalei Mussar* do, they don’t really believe in a God.
Instructor: Or you could find a third way which is the idea of divine command which I’m not sure which one it is, it’s one of these.
Student: It seems to me that people, the common thread that you’re saying, they don’t believe in any real goodness. They don’t believe, they don’t seem to believe in any real substance in it.
Instructor: Yeah, there’s nothing that exists. Nothing exists. There’s no, it’s just, they’re addicts, whatever, something like that. Like, they’re not, there’s no…
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Right. Therefore, if there’s a goodness, it could be only imposed from the outside, that God gave it a meaning, or God told you to do. It doesn’t mean…
Instructor: Yeah, yeah. *Chochmat ha-Kalam* [Islamic theological philosophy/dialectical theology] is this, exactly, in some way. This is the story. That comes as the basic story that we have.
Now, back to where I am. There are certain people that very much are trying to tell the people, they’re all stuck in their own circles, getting stuck because they have this very limited amount of options and very limited picture, very limited view of the world, and therefore get stuck in one of these extremities.
Like, everything is just about *dveikus* [cleaving to God]. I’m not only saying that *dveikus* is a bad thing, but you sort of deny, you become like a *misnaged l’olam* [perpetual opponent], you become like what Schelling said, you can’t have a table standing on one leg, it’s going to fall very quickly. The same way with being a *misnaged* [opponent, particularly of Chassidism], things like that. They all become very too small things, things that don’t really encompass the richness and variability of life.
That’s the real big criticism of one of the big problems with this kind of thing is they become very one-dimensional, like everything becomes about that, and then every other dimension is evil, not the case, usually. That’s usually what happens. And we’ll see, if we’ll get to it, we’ll see exactly why this happens, but that’s what happens.
And now, some people, very few people, actually managed to articulate an opposition to this. It’s very hard to articulate an opposition, especially when you’re working within a world structure, a worldview, which is already the cause of most of these problems. This is the problem.
Student: Also, what you just said, because it’s not that they’re necessarily wrong, but they’re one dimensional. So what you’re going to say is, no, there’s more. And they’re like, it’s harder to make that up.
Instructor: Yeah, that actually makes it easier, because then we’re back to what wisdom has always been doing, which is finding how what you’re saying is only part of the story. There’s ways, but you have to do a lot of work.
So like I said, we could see all of these ways as trying to keep alive or to re-make alive, make to whatever the ancient story is, whatever the true story is, but having a very hard time since most people don’t even have the words within which you can speak it. So you end up either translating yourself into them and then losing a lot, or fighting with them, which is also a very big problematic thing, right?
To be very clear, to fight with the world is also not a perfect way of living. Like to be the one that is always explaining everything is corrupt and everything being a *misnaged* is in itself a way of life, being the one who is against everyone. And it’s not a good way to live. It’s generally evil. Generally, also, because it’s one-dimensional, also, because it doesn’t actually account for how people really are and why they really are the way they are. You just dismiss them by saying, oh, you’re one of these modern people. You’re a heretic. That’s not a real way of understanding what that person is. And therefore, you lose touch with people. There’s a lot of evils in that. It’s itself not a very useful way of living.
So you have to decide what to do. I actually have a very weird…
So now, all the *tzaddikim* [righteous people] basically, everyone who doesn’t want to just submit to nihilism, is looking for a way to solve this problem. Most of them do, I mean, there’s so many ways to deal with it.
But, one of the things they do is to try to speak in the new language and then you lose a lot and some people even forget. Like people don’t realize how much of, people say this about the Rambam [Maimonides], right, famously, and in some sense it’s true, and in other sense it’s not true because people think this only to understand whatever happened, but in some sense, you know, people say this, you know, when the Rambam translated, that’s what they say, it’s not true, but they say the Rambam translated Jewish thoughts into the language of Greek Muslim philosophy, and that was his doing the *yeridat ha-tzaddik* [descent of the righteous one], right? It was *yeridat ha-tzaddik* who goes into the *klippot* [husks/forces of evil] in order to save the other people.
But if you don’t have this problem, then people can make a conclusion. Therefore, if you don’t think the language or speak Greek philosophy, then you have no use of the Rambam. Like Rav Kook [Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook] said, *kafsa ein tzarich l’hadlika* [once extinguished, there’s no need to rekindle it]. There’s some *mitzvot* [commandments] that if they’re *kafsa* [extinguished], we don’t have to reignite them, because it was anyway just a way of speaking in a language of some people.
This is not a correct account of what the Rambam did, but it’s still a true structure. If you do that, I think many people don’t realize how much of the things that they believe. Like, this is the true Judaism. It’s not. This is the true way in which some guy tried to be *machzir b’teshuvah* [bring back in repentance], you want to speak to you in your language. But someone doesn’t have that, it’s even better. And then, that’s one option. Okay?
We’re not trying to, we’re trying not to do that option. That’s my, my thing is to stop doing that, because, mostly not for Jewish reasons, right? Mostly because those *shitot* [approaches/methods] are silly. Why would we try to push ourselves into very stupid ways and very incomplete ways of understanding the world just because everyone thinks that way. That’s not a good enough reason.
Student: What do you refer to? Why we shouldn’t talk in the language that we’re talking?
Instructor: Yeah, like there’s an option. There’s an option like this.
Nowadays everyone believes, remember what do American people believe in? There was a sociologist who said all the people in America, no matter what religion they are, believe in something called moral therapeutic deism. What does that mean? They believe in a God who’s not really involved in the world. He mostly makes you feel good about yourself, and he makes you a good person. He makes you a good person how? I don’t know. He believes that you’re a good person, at least.
Student: Yeah. He makes you think that you’re a good person.
Instructor: I don’t know. I don’t know. Give *tzedakah* [charity]. Sometimes help your neighbor. Basic things. That’s what everyone, basically, in America believes. And if you look at all the… and one of the books written was called *Catholic, Protestant, Jew*, right? The three kind of religious people in America, they all basically believe this. They just sing different songs in their churches. And sometimes they don’t even sing different songs. But basically, that’s all they all believe.
And then one of the things that many rabbis do, and every version, like you could say, came and told you that the power of positive thinking, wow, half of Chabad is this. Half of Chabad, like outreach, when they get to the content. I’m not talking about the *mitzvot* or things like that. Like that *Bitachon* [trust/faith in God] guy, the *Bitachon* guy, the *Bitachon* guy.
Student: *Bitachon* guy, so *Bitachon* guy is a very American, it’s called toxic positivity, a very American trait.
Instructor: Yeah, you know the *Bitachon* guy, they put it in the sheets. *Bitachon Weekly*, that’s what it is.
Student: No, no, that’s not radical, that’s different, not radical. He just says, he just talks about it. He’s not radical.
Instructor: That’s what he’s trying to say, he’s saying that he believes in toxic positivity.
Student: Possible, but I think that he’s more sincere.
Instructor: Okay, he’s a really religious guy. I used to think what you’re saying, I just, I read it, I’m like, this is just secular.
Student: Yeah, all of this, it’s the power of positive thinking. You could find Oprah believes in the same thing.
Instructor: And many other, basically everyone in America believes in that. She’s not around anymore, whatever. I don’t know. All these people, I mean, now there’s new things that’s ready. But this is something still very much accepted. And therefore, that’s what you teach. And you say this is Judaism. It’s not not Judaism. I mean, yeah, I’m sure there’s some sources for that and somewhat true. But it’s a very great watering down.
And it’s a very great thing so that’s one thing you could do or you could even people think that’s the whole *Yiddishkeit* [Judaism]?
Student: Try to design it as the whole *Yiddishkeit*? One idea or end of *Yiddishkeit*?
Instructor: What did we say, don’t be *misyayesh* [despairing], remember? Basically that. That’s basically what the revelation of *Yiddishkeit*, yeah. Not *misyayesh*, it’s like to be hard on yourself. Now you’re saying, *tracht gut vet zein gut* [think good and it will be good], this is all one, it depends, it’s different from the rest of us. The American trust is that everything is good, Hashem loves you, and He needs you, and all of this. But kids, this is just an end of doubt.
I’m not talking about you. You’re not the customers for these kinds of things anyways ever, so you don’t even understand it. But there’s more sophisticated ways of doing it that do stick to you. Slightly more sophisticated ways. And every generation, and every group of people, whatever they really believe basically, or whichever framework they really believe.
By the way, it’s a very great thing to make people good people within their framework because it’s hard enough. It’s hard enough to just keep on being normally good people that provide for their families and don’t steal and don’t kill. And more or less, it’s hard enough. It’s a great achievement if you can do that. I’m not here to denigrate anyone that’s doing that. I think that’s real work.
Student: Is that considered a low bar, though?
Instructor: No, it’s not a low bar. I think it’s a lot. I think it’s a lot. I think it’s a lot. I don’t think that, as I said, you have to remember that the default is something much worse than that. All the clichés in the world are better than whatever they’re doing in Brooklyn, okay? I don’t know where it’s now, like, hipster central, whatever. All of that is, all of that is, it’s still, it’s a great achievement, it’s a lot, I don’t think it’s a little.
And secondly, because I think that there is a real criticism to be made, not because we’ve inherited this tradition that says other things and so on. No, no, not because, look, if you follow that, you end up saying that half of the real things in the Torah are—you end up having everything being a problem, and all the things in the Torah were good are really bad, and all the things that are said are bad are really good, and why we end up making every sermon is about reinterpreting what the Torah says is good. I really meant to say that it’s bad. When the Torah says something is bad, it really meant to say that it’s good. And who told us what is really going to run is really bad? The New York Times editorial board.
So, that’s—I’m not even saying that, that’s something I say sometimes, but that’s not, I’m not even saying that. Even that is still better than being a horrible person which already full, but I’m saying something different. What I’m saying is that *betor goy* [as a thinking person], not *betor yeled* [as a child], very important, *betor goy*, *betor guy* [as a person] that likes to think critically, or even that is a word that they’ve stolen from us, but that likes to think, this basic worldview within which all these people are working—it’s very silly, at least incomplete. It’s even worse than that, but it’s at least incomplete. And it’s not serious. It’s very basically not serious.
I give you all the reasons why I think it’s not serious, but it’s basically not serious. I mean, that’s what I do every week. I give you the reasons why I think it’s not serious. It’s not serious. So, forget about if the Torah says it, or if it matches, or it doesn’t fit in the Torah, the Torah fits into it, the Torah doesn’t fit in the Torah. Right? Forget about the question.
Should the solution to every question that comes up in the education of your children be that there’s a therapist that knows the answer? Besides for that not being well, you know, we have experienced education of children and teenagers and adults for like 5,000 years or however long, and somehow we’ve managed to live without all these people. That’s one silly argument. But besides for that, it’s just not serious. They don’t actually solve anything.
You should call the—this is not that rant, anyways, right? You should call the school, the *menahel* [principal], that every time he has a problematic kid sent to a therapist, then you should ask them for the how many kids that therapist actually helped. They give you numbers. Like out of the 70 people that had problems, they saw it. I’m not trying to help. You might be off for a minute.
Okay. Now you’re giving other questions. I’m just saying the kids are not serious. It’s basically not serious. That’s the main problem. So I have a different problem that’s just not serious. These people never really thought about what real problems are, never thought of what solutions might be. It’s just not serious.
But that’s a problem that I have with our *mensch* [person/people]. Therefore, where did I get into all of this? Therefore, and now I have a pile of people that say, well even if it’s not serious, but the Rav said, the Rav didn’t say that, I was trying to help you. Don’t be so silly, don’t be so not serious, and let’s try to listen to when the Rav *hacks on you* [criticizes you]. Maybe he’s trying to say something better then. How about you listen to the Rav when they’re *hacking* [criticizing]? Of course, they don’t really understand either, but at least they’re representing something that’s like much older than your thoughts, right?
I mean, that’s like one of the basic conservative intuitions, like something that most people in the universe thought for the past 3,000 years, probably they said something. They were crazy, maybe. But it’s probably worth to think about what they said. That’s just one heuristic, not really an argument.
But my point is more that since this is not serious, like you see that it’s not serious, there should be a way to present this serious way, not because of the need of the Judaism. Judaism doesn’t need it. Judaism will survive very well with all the silly people teaching clichés. And that’s already good. I can think of worse things than that. So that’s not my problem. I’m not here to save Judaism. It’s going to serve us much better with those other people. I’m just here to, for me and the people like me that are trying to be serious, trying to have serious thoughts, to be able to do that in a serious way. That’s all.
Now, going back to the *Holy Chazanish* [unclear reference]. Now, we find that within the people that are standing against the world, there are various kinds.
Now those who don’t really know why and what, and they’re just talking, okay. They might be helpful in some sense, just by creating space to like, not automatically accept whatever it is.
Student: Yeah, like questions without answers, basically?
Instructor: They don’t even have questions. Because they can’t even explain to you what’s wrong with the world. They can only like scream, which is not even an argument. It’s socially somewhat useful, but not more than that.
But then, there’s some very interesting people, people, very few of them, that actually do think. There are such people that they actually do think. And they do try to articulate what is wrong with the world, or try to at least give their alternative version of how things should make sense.
I don’t know. In the Jewish context, there’s basically none that are really good at it. They might be like Catholics and people like that. Even, yeah, let’s not get into this *lashon hara* [evil speech] on the *Eden* [unclear]. Anyways, even some of our enemies have better, more complete theories of the world and of what’s going on than any of us do. That’s *baruch* [blessed/unfortunate]. We have more value than any other enemy. Enemy is just people that want us dead. It’s easy to be. That’s the simple definition.
But even some of them have more complete understandings of how everything works, though they might have their own fallacies and problems. But they do have some understanding of what’s going on, which basically no one in the Jewish context says. It’s very weird.
The Jews that we know, there’s only two kinds. One of them is the reactionary people, people who are like, just do whatever we’ve always done. And they’re not doing whatever they’ve always done, but that’s a different problem. And everything outside is bad. They don’t really know what the outside means and what bad means and so on. Those are the one kind of people.
Student: Why are they called reactionary?
Instructor: Because they’re just reacting against modernity or against whatever it is.
Student: Oh, they’re against the, yeah.
Instructor: Yeah. Like, I don’t know, my great grandmother didn’t drive because there were no cars in her town, but I think my wife shouldn’t drive either for the same reason. Those are the people. And if you ask them why, they start saying, they just don’t even say it. Then, that’s just one version.
And then there’s the smart people. We call them the dumb people. Everyone thinks that my whole *shiur* [lesson] is already three times more advanced, so we’re already supporting that. But everyone thinks that those are the dumb Jews.
Then there’s the smart Jews, like all the—who? Who’s the smart Jews? The sophisticated ones, right? The ones who discovered that the Torah’s ethics is precisely New York Times’ altruism. That’s one kind. There’s even ones that now, now that we have, like, Breitbart or some of the discoveries that is actually that, which is not a very dumb thing. It’s also reactionary and very not deep usually, but that’s one other thing.
And then there’s all these, like, sophisticated people that, in all kinds of various ways, still 100% the people that are thinkers. I don’t know who you know and who you read and so on, but as far as I can tell, all of them basically accept every single metaphysical commitment of this nonsense theory. They just try to work within it. Non-metaphysical, anti-metaphysical commitments, right?
In other words, do you know of a modern Jewish thinker that believes in angels? Because I don’t know of one pre-modern thinker that doesn’t. That’s my, my, my *siman* [sign]. If you, angelology is an important part of your Judaism, then you’re an ancient Jew. If it’s not, if you have a kid when he asks instead of angels, we could consider you. But other than that, there’s no modern Jewish basically.
The modern are totally not *mekubalim* [kabbalists]. They don’t really believe in the existence of any of these things. They just think it’s all psychology, which is nonsense. So there’s no modern Jewish thinking that believes in angels.
Student: So therefore, they’re all not serious. When you believe in angels, what do you mean by that? I’m trying to know.
Instructor: No, exactly, because psychology could also be a real thing, right?
Student: No, what I’m saying, I really just want a definition.
Instructor: Not enough real angels.
Student: No, no, no. This is all the sophisticated people convince themselves it’s nonsense. Angels are intermediate beings. Do you believe in causation? Do you believe in causation, basically? That’s one *nimshal* [analogy/application]. When Burton says that, he means that.
Student: No, when I say angels, I mean *malachim* [angels]. *Malachim mamash* [actual angels]. *Malachim mamash*, like it says in the symposium messengers from God to man and from man to God.
Instructor: What does that mean?
Student: Oh when you say messenger what does messenger mean?
Instructor: I think with wings.
Student: So not with wings?
Instructor: I don’t know that’s a different question there’s a lot of wings there’s God listen there is God there is God psychology or—
Student: Yeah of course psychology meaning something that’s only in me for sure.
Instructor: Yeah, sure. Yeah. Something between… You mean it comes to me in that way?
Student: No, no. It might come through that. Nobody disputes that. But it’s something real. Something external to your soul. Yeah. That’s what an angel is. An angel is not a part of your soul.
Instructor: Is a thought also… Hold on. A thought is also part… Let’s move on. I’m just wondering if you’re saying, is it the same thing as a thought?
Student: No. When you say a thought, usually you think something that exists because of you. Not exists… Maybe you exist because of it. Not because it exists before you. Greater than you. External to the mind. Has an independent existence. That’s an angel. Otherwise that’s not an angel. Doesn’t do what an angel has to do.
So, anyone that believes in *malachim*, that *Rambam* [Maimonides] believes in *malachim*, he doesn’t think *malachim* are things in your head. I’m just wondering what this belief is.
Instructor: What is this entity? We’ll get into discussion. When we’ll do angelology, then we’ll start having discussions what they are. But now you don’t even have room for such a thing in your world. Do you understand my problem?
My problem is not that you don’t think *maluchim* [malachim: angels] do have wings, and I’m saying they don’t have wings. No, they’re just intellects. Okay. But when I say intellects, you think something in your head. It’s not something in your head, it’s some real thing. Something that the world doesn’t make sense without. And it’s not God and it’s not us thinking about God. Okay? Something in between those two things. Okay? In between, in the central.
And also not in our thoughts, which is our world. Right. Not dependent on your thoughts. Everything can come in your thoughts. Human thoughts are straight, this crazy weird thing that can somehow touch everything. But not only about, because of your thoughts. Okay?
Why am I saying this? Those things think by themselves, those without you.
Student: Yeah, of course.
Instructor: Right. Things that don’t go away when you close your eyes. Remember? No, don’t not going to do with you at all, even if you’re dead, it’s still, it’s existing, it’s… Again, we can get into discussions. Maybe, maybe it needs you to give it food to continue to live. I don’t know. You understand? We can have discussions. But the existence of a space in the world for such a kind of being, you understand what I’m talking about? That’s something that we lost, that we don’t have.
Now, why am I saying any of this? Because that’s the second type of Jew, that doesn’t believe in the angels.
Student: Oh, very good. So, it gets it.
Instructor: So, there’s only these two kinds of Jews. The Jews that say they believe in angels, but they don’t know what angels are. They’ve never seen any of them. No angels will talk to them because they’re too stupid for them. And, yeah, you know? You know why the only one who doesn’t come to the *Fremi Eden* [Frum Yidden: Orthodox Jews]? Because he doesn’t like to talk to *Mishigun* [meshugaim: crazy people]. The other guys, he doesn’t come because they don’t believe in him. It would be very hard for him to come. But the *Fremi Eden* doesn’t come because the *Mishigun*. So, who should he talk to? Only to me, basically.
Now, this is a very very deep joke. So, this is the *Bayat* [Beis Yaakov: a religious educational movement], so we don’t have any one, right? We basically don’t have that.
So now, what we do have, so this is a very sad situation, and we’re here to solve the situation. This is my conspiracy. We’re going to solve the situation and create this whole school of people that believe in angels. Finished. Not because if you believe it will start the…
If you ask a writer, I’ve told you many times. If Peter and the Lakewood, everyone believes in *Chayadim* [shedim: demons]. Why? Because they don’t believe in *Chayadim*. They believe in the *Gemurah* [Gemara: Talmud]. They believe they have to say it because it says in the *Gemurah* and we don’t pass on that grammar. OK.
And you want them to say, if you remember, you said once that the biggest lie that they don’t believe in *Chayadim* is because someone says, I just saw a shade. Everyone laughs at you. No one believes you. Right. Because they don’t believe in *Chayadim*. I’ve said this for a long time. I think you should say you believe in *Chayadim*. You never walked into that dark alley like, oh my god…
That’s one of the solutions, right? That’s one of the solutions, weird modern solutions of saying that everything is about the text and it says the mitzvah, it’s a *khir* [chiyuv: obligation] and so on. So the kids said, this is the *mahal* [mashal: parable/analogy].
Now, what we’re going to do, how we’re going to do this, I don’t know why I’m saying this, but what we’re going to do or one of the things we can do is that there are some very, so out of all the Jews in the world, all the Jews living in the mountain, there must be more. I’m thinking, I don’t know. It can’t be. Maybe there’s very few Jews and the few Jews don’t really realize. I don’t know why there’s so few Jews even trying to do this? I don’t know why. Or maybe there are, there aren’t, it’s just Michigan. I’m not sure.
So, we have to try to find a few people that have enough courage and enough independent thought, they basically just think for themselves, and are able to tell us how to think about the world and how to go about this.
Now, I think that this [the Chazon Ish] was one of the only people that actually thought in like the last 100 years. Of course he was also a *frum* [religiously observant] and also therefore *Mashiach* [meshuga: crazy]. So when you read it, sometimes like for one line he’s thinking and then the next line he’s just saying, and you have to know, this is a big word, it’s hard for me to know because I don’t know myself. Maybe sometimes when I think he’s just saying that, he’s really thinking, I just didn’t get the thought. Because because it’s one of the shortcuts people always use, like even me. I say, as it says, you have to believe it. That’s not a reason for anyone to listen to what I’m saying. But that’s a shortcut that people that have authority and that are used to the world of authority and speaking in authority do always. So it’s very hard to understand when they’re doing it.
But what you could notice, I think, is that he is trying very hard, and he wrote this little book that’s very incomplete and very not fleshed out. I think it’s a very… Many of the things he does are like this, not only in *Alecha* [Halacha: Jewish law], also he has this problem. But it’s very not fleshed out, and there’s a lot of things where he noticed the real problem and then just closes it with some weird, like, an *imam* [Ani Ma’amin: “I believe” – statement of faith]. But…
Student: I mean, isn’t it his thing to not go for verity in some schools?
Instructor: Yeah, but he also usually doesn’t have enough. It’s like, he very often realizes something very good and then gets stuck somewhere. Or like, his argument could go both ways, and he doesn’t even realize that the same good thought that he has actually proves the other side also just as much as it proves his, things like that. He just seems to be very, very quick to jump off that. I’ll give you an example, a very concrete example that I found last week about what he reads here.
But one thing he does that most people don’t do is actually think. Like he actually tries to do this activity called thinking. And yeshivas don’t teach you to think. They teach you to do what *Chachikdi* [chakira: analytical inquiry] does, to mix up a bunch of thoughts that other people have and put it in the right order. He actually thinks sometimes. He uses books. He looks to think, he uses authority to think, but he doesn’t only repeat what the authority does. He thinks. He tries to also identify. He tries to think until he agrees with what it says or until he believes it. Okay? And he talks about this explicitly in his little book, I think.
So, and therefore it’s very valuable, extremely valuable just for this. Maybe there’s some other people that did this. I don’t think there’s other people because, like I said, either they’re *Mishigom* who just say, *shtetn alegatoid* [standing on the Gemara] and go to heaven if they don’t believe, whatever, or they’re… They’re just already accepted upon themselves the yoke of everything that whoever is the professor of their study believes. And they’re just trying to make something work within that.
Student: Didn’t [the Meshech Chochma]…?
Instructor: No, I don’t mean that you should come to the… You don’t find that he thinks like in the…
Student: I don’t know. I don’t find him thinking.
Instructor: Really? He says very good [pshatim: interpretations]…
Student: [Pshatim] are not thinking.
Instructor: No, he’s not. It’s at least not revealed. He had a thought. I can’t say they didn’t think.
Student: No, but it’s very hard to know if someone’s wrong.
Instructor: It’s one of the secrets. I think he thought it was real problems. That could be, but that could be not. Because he’s smart and he read a lot of things. But you don’t know, as far as I’ve read his book, I haven’t found him ever thinking. You can’t prove this. It’s not possible. If you could read *Mordechai* [a medieval Talmudic commentary] in a very textual way, you’d be able to call this a trap.
Student: No, *Mordechai* was very explicit.
Instructor: Yeah, that’s true. Also, *Mesh Chachma* [Meshech Chochma] is basically wrong in most of the *Ashgafas* [hashkafos: philosophical/theological perspectives]. But that’s different.
Student: What’s the proof that Lebowitz liked it?
Instructor: So, no, he’s also very modern in his thinking and he doesn’t ever think through it. Most of the things that people know of him he’s saying, he’s very stuck in certain dichotomies. But I can’t get into this. It’s not, you can’t prove that someone thought that. It’s a very important thing. Nobody could prove if someone else thought. It’s a secret. You could just say, you could write the same without thinking.
Student: Yeah, of course.
Instructor: The *Moinu L’Vechem* [Moreh Nevuchim: Maimonides’ Guide for the Perplexed] actually is a book that does think. And in that sense, it’s different than most other, even the *Shainim* [Rishonim: early medieval authorities], because most of them don’t do thinking. I haven’t seen any other ones.
Student: Yeah. There are other ones that think.
Instructor: I know. I know when you’re talking about that, there are other ones. But the *Moinu L’Vechem* doesn’t, does a lot of, does thinking and, obviously, one of the ways to see it is that he has open questions, right? Sometimes he’s *Megamkem* [megamgem: hesitant, stammering]. Sometimes he’s like Moshe Rabbeinu [Moses our teacher]. Sometimes he’s *Chabad Per, Chabad Leshem* [heavy of mouth and heavy of tongue – referring to Moses’s speech impediment].
Now some people they always every *shaykh* [shiur: Torah lecture] they say is beautifully wrapped and finishes and ever you know he starts with 17 *kashas* [kushyos: questions] on the *post* [posuk: verse] and at the end he finished he finished all 17 *kashas* that’s a bluff maybe there’s one *kasha* this one actually no I don’t know that shows you that he’s very otherwise you’re saying a nice Torah okay no problem it’s backwards so *Meshach* [Meshech Chochma] will never stand with *Tzarechim* [tzarich iyun: requires further study] like *Tzarechim* is a basic thing like this I’m puzzled by this and it’s very hard actually that’s the whole book.
He doesn’t openly, but I think it’s very, his themes of his thoughts are way more obvious than anyone else’s, which shows that at least for one line, yeah, explains how hard it is to ask questions. *Ghazalij* [Al-Ghazali: medieval Islamic philosopher] doesn’t, of course he doesn’t, but I think that when you read him thinking about basic stuff, you’ll notice that for one line he thought, and then the next line doesn’t actually answer that thought, which means that he got upset at himself and he’s like…
He’s like, I don’t know. That’s, I know that, I know I actually have many teachers that act in that way, and I respect them very much. Because they’re not lying to themselves. They do lie. They do, they are *frooms* [frum: religiously observant]. They’re afraid of, and that’s not only *froom* kind. There’s also a certain wisdom. Because the other people that are like, take one thought and then just run with it are seriously dumb. They’re one dimensional also.
You know, most of the people that you know, write blogs about how rationalist they are. They basically have one thought, or a quarter of a thought in their life. And they just like, follow through all of them, all the conclusions from that. But that’s not very smart like basic wisdom is to there’s another side of that so if someone says well this sound seems to be correct and he has a line of that real thinking and then he’s like so okay so he tapped to me interpreter saying okay but I’m not the first one to think in the world much of any or whoever thought also also from now I’ll just move on right.
Student: But it seems that you do the same thing with the ancient versus the modern like you don’t see so much like the modern, out of serious thinkers.
Instructor: No, it’s not true. It’s just because you people are so that I have to hack enough to get it out. What were the balance lines? Yeah, it’s just balance. I’m not sure. They’re very serious. Not only are they very serious, all their arguments are already saying Plato. Saying Plato? Yeah. They didn’t really invent any new arguments. They just did exactly that. Just take one side of the argument. They’re on with it.
So that’s why I said in the beginning of the sheet, this start of the story is not really the best framing. I should stop doing it. But it’s hard enough to get people to understand what I’m saying we’re going to do it with this clutch of this.
Instructor: But if I do it without it, you’ll really go crazy. But it’s really, all these theories are worth their forever. Like the sultan, like I told you, the sultan that spoke to the Adam HaRishon [Adam: the first human being] already said all those arguments. It’s not anymore. Freud and Jung and everything was different. Yeah, all of it. Really? Yeah. If you actually read ancient texts, you’ll find them, all the arguments. And if you read some like modern academics, they’re always doing this. Like, oh, people say Descartes invented this. But really, it’s some guy from 1,000 years before. This is what we have. This is what we have. Yeah, that’s only the ones written down. It’s a whole society of people who thought about all the time, but also that. Correct.
So nothing is really new. Or describing things historically is not the best way, but I’m doing this this way because it’s at least a framework that people have in their head that at least helps you to be able to grasp what’s going on. But that’s very important. I don’t do it very well. I always attempt to finish up shiurim [Torah classes] in a way that it makes it seem like it’s closed up.
But that’s the sign. The sign is when you see him thinking very clearly and then suddenly, where did his clarity go? Oh, he woke up. Okay, no problem, I get it. So that’s what I think about him. And I think, that’s the general thing that I noticed, that he has these very clear thoughts, and then also does not, by default, when he thinks, and many people that I know think that they think for themselves, but they really just repeat themselves what the New York Times wants you to think. Because that’s naturally, or by default, what people end up thinking. Or if you’re the opposite, you say everything the opposite. Slavery is good. Slavery is bad. I don’t know.
Aristotle wrote three chapters about if slavery is good or bad. There are good arguments on both sides already in that book, The Politics, and even more ancient books. So, if you decide one of, if it’s obvious to you one or the other side, then you’re not serious. So, that’s the thing.
Now, the problem with the Chazon Ish is two things that I shouldn’t really do is I should tell you some things that he says and to show this to you, but the general thing, problem I have is two problems.
One is that he doesn’t really have the full picture, the full ancient picture. He’s still missing a lot. He ends up getting very frustrated. He’s still getting frustrated because he doesn’t have the full picture. He doesn’t have, he can’t really account for everything in the full way. That’s one thing.
And the second thing is that the clutches that he uses to hold up his old beliefs are very dumb. So, the dumbest one being this idea of tzivui [צִוּוּי: divine command], of God’s commands.
Because, for example, and get back, now we’re going to back to where we came from, and we’ll try to continue a little bit, but we can go back where we came from. Where we came from is that there’s this modern belief that what matters is only what’s in your heart, right? That’s what it means, right? It must mean that, right? That’s what we think, and there’s even a three-word statement from Chazal [חז״ל: the Sages] that obviously matches all our biases, that says Rachmana liba ba’ei [רַחֲמָנָא לִבָּא בָּעֵי: “God wants the heart”], right? That’s not a serious way of thinking, obviously, but—
So we have the best hearts, or the different version of what a heart is, but same idea, right?
And now comes the Chazon Ish and he’s looking at these people and there’s this book, famous book, wrote, what’s it called, the Chazon Ish’s friend, what?
Student: Yeshiva.
Instructor: Yeshiva. And many people have said that if you want to understand the Chazon Ish, he does a somewhat better job of explaining the characters that he’s fighting with. Because the Chazon Ish is not a very good writer. He tries to be a writer, but he’s not very good at describing characters and stuff like that. He was a novelist. He was his friend. He was his chavrusa [חַבְרוּסָא: study partner], Chaim Grade. And he wrote a book or two about, basically about the Chazon Ish. He doesn’t say his name. He calls him something else, but it’s basically about him and the characters around him and how the different ways of living life.
And one of the things you see is how the Chazon Ish is living in this world. And he’s just living with all these people with different radical ideas or different concepts of what a good person is. And he’s very much trying to hold on to this very ancient thing. But he also thinks that it’s a lot more sophisticated. And this is the important thing.
He realizes, and this is, I gave a very important class last week. You should listen to it. It’s [unclear reference], but you should listen to it, because I can’t repeat the same that I gave there.
Student: Yeah, I started listening to it.
Instructor: That you notice, if you’re smart enough, most people are not smart enough to even get to the first step, and they’re so excited about the first step, they never move on. But if you notice, if you read all these matters, all these people, right, you read Chassidus [חֲסִידוּת: Hasidic teachings], or you read Mussar [מוּסָר: ethical/character development teachings], or you read, what else do people read? Nobody here reads anything, so.
Anyways, if you read Chassidus, you read the, and you notice at some point that all these people are crazily simplistic, they’re repetitive and boring, in a very significant way. Like the sefarim [סְפָרִים: books] you open on the Mussar shelf, one of the Mussar shmussen [מוּסָר שְׁמוּעָסֶן: ethical discourses], they say nothing for pages on end and they consider themselves the smartest, wisest, truest people on God’s given earth, right? What is going on here?
And they’re like, we, the Yeshivas, they’re just talking, they’re just talking, they love this, we’re like, we don’t understand humanity, right? That’s what the Ba’alei Mussar [בַּעֲלֵי מוּסָר: masters of ethical teachings] claim, right? All of them, every single Ba’al Mussar worth anything, I’m not going to give names here, right, they all have this thought that we got, we understand the human being.
And nowadays, it’s called something else, Toras Hanefesh [תּוֹרַת הַנֶּפֶשׁ: psychology/teachings of the soul], you read the guy’s theories. He doesn’t understand nothing. He has like a half of a quarter of a theory. And he’s like, wow, he’s so impressed by it. It’s like now, right, the same idea. He’s a psychologist. He gets people. He gets people.
And then the Chazon Ish is looking at these people, and he’s like, he’s very smart, Chazon Ish, you have to realize. He’s a really talented guy. And his mind works quicker than most people. And he’s ready to think. Two very important ingredients they need for anything to make sense. You have to both have a quick mind, because it takes you forever to get to a thought. It’s just going to take a very long, and you have to have a lot of courage, you have to actually think.
And he’s listening to these people, and he’s listening to the shmoozen [שְׁמוּעָסֶן: ethical discourses] and the Torah of blah blah blah, and he’s explaining to you how people fool themselves sometimes. And then he writes 14 volumes about how people fool themselves. And you’re listening to this, and you’re like, yeah, okay, and now, what are you getting to with this? Like, what are you trying to tell me? And he’s like, yeah, you should always remember that people fool themselves, okay? And it seems to me that you’re fooling yourself pretty well while you’re doing all of this. You didn’t really get past. This is not just an argument of like, oh, you’re the same thing.
The argument is that Choshen Mishpat [חוֹשֶׁן מִשְׁפָּט: the section of Jewish law dealing with civil and monetary matters], look, I learned Choshen Mishpat with Shach [שַׁ״ךְ: Rabbi Shabbetai HaKohen, major 17th-century commentator] and Ketzos [קְצוֹת הַחוֹשֶׁן: “Ketzos HaChoshen,” major 18th-century commentary]. I want to tell you something. The understanding of humanity that’s in the Shach of Choshen Mishpat is 10,000 miles deeper than your understanding of negius [נְגִיעוּת: bias/self-interest]. They literally wrote 14 volumes about Choshen Mishpat negius, Choshen Mishpat shochad [שׁוֹחַד: bribery], whatever, not exact. But things like that. The whole Choshen Mishpat is about people deluding themselves, right? I think that’s collusion. You think it’s collusion. What do we do?
And it happens to be that Choshen Mishpat seems to have a much more sophisticated and detailed understanding of humanity than the Ba’al Mussar, who thinks he’s so much smarter than halacha [הֲלָכָה: Jewish law], that’s for naval birshus haTorah [נָבָל בִּרְשׁוּת הַתּוֹרָה: “a scoundrel with the Torah’s permission” – someone who technically follows the law but violates its spirit], that one with the Torah. I have understanding. And then he says, well, I’ve been to the Torah with you, Ba’al Mussar. It is all good. Because you’re going to—
And there’s a story. I told you the story. I’m not going to read the stories. It doesn’t matter. When you go to the Torah with Ba’al Mussar, any time, you have in your yeshiva those mashgichim [מַשְׁגִּיחִים: spiritual supervisors] who are Ba’alei Mussar, you have an argument with him. He’s the stupidest guy, not only stupid, he’s the most self-righteous rasha [רָשָׁע: wicked person] that you can think of, and he’s some—he would be a real good rasha, like, you enjoy his iron signs and that. He’s stupid, he’s like simplistic, and the guy walks around as if he figured out humanity. And nobody else figured out humanity.
And there’s something very funny here. The general sickness of people who think they’ve discovered human nature. Right, true. Some of them did discover something. These people didn’t discover something. No, I’m not, I’m not kidding about that. Come on, I’m going to get at it.
The Chazon Ish is this guy that spends hours and hours every day reading, you know, Tosafos [תּוֹסָפוֹת: medieval Talmudic commentaries], Rambam [רַמְבַּ״ם: Maimonides] and Shachs and these complicated things and he learns halacha lemaaseh [הֲלָכָה לְמַעֲשֶׂה: practical Jewish law], right? It’s not a Brisker [בְּרִיסְקֶר: referring to the Brisker analytical method] that makes everything into philosophy. He reads it as commentary on human condition, right? What do you do? Not only what do you do in the sense of the psak [פְּסַק: halachic ruling], it’s much deeper than that, right?
Halacha is really about life in a much deeper sense than Mussar is, right? If you learn about halacha in the halacha way, right? It’s not theoretical. It’s about the complexity of human relations, when I’m not talking about tzitzis [צִיצִית: ritual fringes], I think that he gets stuck when he talks about in this way. I think it’s a little confusing. Although maybe I’m the one wrong, because I’m limited here from [Chassidish background]. But think about the other day, think about Yoreh Deah [יוֹרֶה דֵּעָה: section of Jewish law dealing with ritual matters], Choshen Mishpat. These are things, really getting into the kishkes [קִישְׁקֶעס: Yiddish – guts/innards] of what it means to be a human being.
And it’s never, and you never, and the important thing is you never come out of the way you went into it, at least from the [Chazon Ish’s approach], right? Many people, they just end up with the same biases. But he doesn’t, because not only because people think that this is very important, whoever learns or things like that should realize. But people that have this story like this.
There’s two kinds of [poskim – halachic decisors]. One of them, whenever, before he even opened any book, he knows already what the psak is going to be. He just has to find it out, right? And why? Because he has a basic—he has an understanding of those things. He has an understanding of what you need, and he gives it to you. No problem. Usually those people make a lot of sense, or at least for the people that think in similar ways to them, right?
Then there’s the people, the Litvaks [לִיטְוָאקִים: Lithuanian Jews, referring to the non-Hasidic Orthodox tradition] say that seems false, right? That you’re just putting your own biases in the Torah. No, the correct way is that you don’t know what halacha is, and you ask the Torah, you look in the Shulchan Aruch [שֻׁלְחָן עָרוּךְ: the authoritative code of Jewish law], and you pasken [פּוֹסְקִים: rule] what the Shulchan Aruch says, that’s what people think of the Shach, two options. And this is a very good notion of the story, these are the two options that people think of in general about humanity.
Now I think the Chazon Ish teaches a third option, and I always try to teach a third option. And third option is like this. Of course, I have an opinion about what should be before I read it. Otherwise, I don’t know a person. And of course, authority of the text is one.
Yeah, it’s true. Authority is important. We can’t go against somebody that says clearly in all the Persian and so on. There’s a Latin word for this. And so on and so on. Okay.
But now the main thing that we’re doing when we’re learning is not either of these two things. For the first thing, we’ll just do what Rabbi Something does and just say the psak [halachic ruling]. And if he has time, write a teshuva [responsum/halachic essay] for him because he’s smart enough to write a teshuva. If you’re doing the second thing, also you just ask the bottom notes of Piskei Teshuvos [a contemporary halachic reference work] and do whatever it is. Both of these things don’t make you learn.
What’s the point of learning? The point of learning is that you think you’re so smart, and you have this intuition, this svara [logical reasoning/understanding] of what halacha [Jewish law] should be, and then you open up the Gemara [Talmud], and you say the Gemara also thought of what you thought for one second, and the next time they thought of the second thing, and the third time they thought of the third thing, and they finish the sugya [Talmudic passage/topic] with the third svara, you have 14 different ways to think.
Not 14 different ways that the Rambam [Maimonides] says, so what should I do? He actually opened up a different way. He said, wait, could you think about it from a different angle? And now you’re like, wait, now I really don’t know what to do. Now you have to actually count, figure out with—all these angles are just complexity of reality, right? They’re not svaros [plural of svara].
When people think that svaros are things in your head, that’s the same problem, right? Svaros are not things in your head. Svaros are descriptions of reality, right?
Someone, what was the—right? He’s [one party in a dispute], and the other guy wants to be the Rav [rabbi/halachic authority] also, and of course he’s right, because, okay, but did you think about another way of describing this story in which the other guy is right? Did you think of a third way, and a fourth way, and a fifth way?
That’s the way the Chazon Ish [Rabbi Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz, 1878-1953] reads halacha, and he reads the whole history of the law in this way, and he tries to learn from each one. If he doesn’t agree with some, he says—but he’s not someone that believes [in simple faith in authorities]. If he’s wrong, he’s wrong, no problem, but usually the people that he trusts enough to make him think, right? They’re making him think.
And he never comes out of the sugya with the bias that he went in. Even if he does, he’s now much more sophisticated about it. He now understands the reality a lot clearer, a lot better. Not worse.
Many people, they start off with a good theory and then they end up all confused because they put in all these eminences [authorities], all these katharsis [possibly: categories/distinctions]. He has a clear understanding because in the reality, every shita [legal position/opinion] is because of a certain viewpoint of reality that you missed because you were so smart and you knew how it is.
Now, this is very basic to anyone that actually knows how to learn ever. But most people don’t do it. And especially those people that are mizavlan [dismissive of] learning, they’re like, wow, they’re learning people that just—because they think that the only way to learn would be to learn in the authority way. And therefore, they’re like, no, but we’re just good people.
You’re not good people. You understand a quarter or about a quarter of a percent of what it makes a person tick when the Shulchan Aruch [the Code of Jewish Law] understands. So the Shulchan Aruch is just a lot better.
By the way, I give this mashal [parable/example] for—because I do have this, like, Protestant thought, always, that bein adam l’chaveiro [interpersonal law/ethics], it doesn’t really matter. But in a certain sense, it’s the same thing, right?
Like, I know how to keep Shabbos [the Sabbath]. You rest. All right? Do you really know what rest is? You can do what Socrates used to do to people and try to make them tell you what rest is, and you’ll notice that they don’t know.
Does Hilchos Shabbos [the laws of Shabbos] know? I don’t know. In Hilchos Shabbos, at least, there’s a 14-fold more complicated understanding of what rest is that has something to do with the reality.
Now, are we applying the reality correctly? Do we understand halacha correctly? And is the world different? Those are all legitimate questions. But it definitely has a much more sophisticated theory of what means the rest. And not only what means—that not means in the sense that I could give a shikel teyit [a logical argument] and explain to you. No. Understanding the actual reality.
What happens? Look around. What are people doing when they work? What are they doing when they rest? Which ones are resting? Which ones are working? What would cause you to work even if you think you’re resting? But within your head you’re working. That’s another point. I don’t know. Things like that.
You’ll notice that halacha has a lot more sophisticated viewpoint on reality than all these other olamos [worlds/spiritual systems]. All these Chassidus [Hasidic teachings] work together.
That’s why, for example, I want to give you an example that’s close to me, because I think this is true. People read Kisvei Ari [the writings of the Arizal, Rabbi Isaac Luria, 1534-1572]. Okay? This is my shade from Tira [possibly: my example from the Arizal], but I’m not repeating it.
But people read Kisvei Ari. And then it was all technical. He’s describing the 17,000 levels of Olam HaYetzirah [the World of Formation in Kabbalistic cosmology]. Okay? And now everyone who’s 17,000 levels has combinatorics with 17,000 kinds of those. Turns out how many? Right? And people are like, well, this is boring.
What do they do? They go to their mekabalim [Kabbalists]. People like him [the Ramchal, Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto]. They say, oh, the Arizal is just a mashal [parable/metaphor]. The nimshal [the lesson/meaning of the parable] is that he should be a good guy. Oh, the nimshal is that sometimes God has chesed [kindness], and sometimes he does things that you like. That’s called chesed. Sometimes he does din [judgment/strict justice], which means he does things that I don’t like. And the Arizal was just complicating this with a mashal, because of the Rambam’s theory of visions of prophecy.
And I look at this guy and I tell you, I don’t know if your mashal l’nimshal [parable-to-meaning framework] is good, but I want to tell you one thing, that he’s a lot smarter, much smarter than you. Because your theory of the world has three variables. There’s only two variables. And the real theory of the world has 17 million variables. It’s just much more close to reality.
The reality that we know about, all of it, of course, the great hope of the, like, theories of everything that, like, reduce everything to five principles and somehow that will explain everything. And Arizal doesn’t disagree with that. But then we have to spell that out and it turns out it’s a ten-thousand-thousand-variables. That isn’t the way of calculating the real world without all these millions of variables.
So you’re just stupid. You’re just simplifying everything all the way to an extent where it’s not even interesting in some sense. Like, oh, that’s why we needed Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism] to tell us that there’s chesed and gevurah [strength/judgment] in the world? Wow, amazing. I’m so impressed. And you’re convinced that you’re the smart guy and he was the dumb guy.
Now again, maybe that picture is all fantasy and the actual 17,000 variables are different ones. I don’t have a proof to say that. But the way in which he’s going about it is a lot more sophisticated than anyone else, than all these people that are so smart, they think they have an inyan [a concept/understanding].
So that’s the same argument that I would make in that sense. And this is one of the Chazon Ish’s big things. And he’s starting to show you. The problem is that I think that his problem is that when he gets into saying this, he doesn’t say it like—I’m doing much better job of describing what I should have said than what he actually said.
Because what he said was, you’re an apikoros [heretic]. You think that you’re going with your sechel [intellect/reason], but it’s the opposite of your sechel. And because he doesn’t have patience to explain to you why your sechel is kind of basic, he just says that.
But what he really means to say is you’re dumb, not you’re an apikoros. It’s much worse to be dumb than to be an apikoros anyway. You thought that not only you’re dumb, you’re a dull guy.
Like, you figure out humanity because you figured out this comes from the negios [biases/personal interests]. Like, Mussar [the Jewish ethical/character development movement] is so proud of it. Like, you realize that we started there. That’s where we’re coming from. Like, yeah, people have the negios. Thank you very much. Is that all of it? Does that explain everything? No, it doesn’t explain nothing. It explains something.
But you’re taking, like, one little thing and applying it to everything in a really weird way. Of course, then [the Chazon Ish] talks about the negios and explicitly attacks them and says very funny things. And maybe that’s why it fails, by the way, is that when older—when people who are a certain seniority discover a simple thing like that for the first time. It’s mom, she’s thinking about the world and then they talk to a young guy and they’re like, okay. And then he moves like, what now, what else? And it just like burns out of it. Could be.
Student: Yeah, there’s something in all these movies. I think the same you’re talking about. I read whatever someone’s saying about the bias and I’m like, whatever you want. And they’re like, whatever, it’s very good. I’m like, we’re done. Like I wouldn’t be able to structure my life around it.
Instructor: Maybe if I was a psychologist who wasted 30 years studying biases came up with a more sophisticated theory of human bias than about the Mussar. And it turned out that theory was wrong also.
The point is that this halacha that we’re all happy to make fun of, as if it’s not serious. Now again, the Chazon Ish here is where I’m disagreeing with him, because he gets stuck.
He says, like, halacha is what God wants from you. What? Where do you get to that? Why do you need that even? You don’t need that. Halacha is just people thought for longer time and in a more serious way about these cases than you did. Why do you need more than that? Where does it come from in general? Maybe it also has to come from God. I get it. But you don’t have to get to this stage.
When he gets to it, he’s just doing a lot of demagoguery, like, very often.
I want to give you one example and I’ll finish. I want to show you where you could argue with the Chazon Ish. And we are, I would do the same—I can’t think the Chazon Ish does it to him, so it’s over here in the Sefer HaKadosh [the holy book], there’s a story over here, where is it?
He talks about—I have to tell you I forgot where it is. He talks about a Yid [Jew] that thinks he has good middos [character traits] but he doesn’t listen to the halacha. Where is it? Remember where it is? I have to find that I can’t say it in the well-to-done because that’s gonna be—gets me. I thought I was here.
Oh, yeah, here. He talks about the concept that he’s trying to get at something. I’m not going to get into exactly where he is. And maybe there’d have to be another shiur [class/lesson] about this. Because that’s really what I want to talk about. And I repeated that demo again. He says—
[Text ends mid-thought]
And this is about the unity of the virtues, but I’m going to get to it. But he gives an example. I want to give you an example. I want to tell you that he’s not going to believe it wrong.
He says that this guy thinks he’s such a *tzaddik* [righteous person], he understands that he has a problem with sometimes he has bad *middos* [character traits], but he thinks that at least *Yirat Shamayim* [fear of Heaven] — that’s what they’re going to use as a *tayna* [claim/argument].
And he says, this year, this is the story that he saw. It happened that they called him to be *oleh la-Torah* [called up to the Torah]. They said, yeah, I’m *shlishi* [the third aliyah]. And I didn’t go to *aliyah* [Torah reading honor]. Why not? Because he’s *chashuv* [important/distinguished]. And doesn’t ask him to get the *vav* [sixth aliyah], whatever *aliyah* was. He only goes for *shlishi* [third], so he didn’t go.
So you think, I’m a *tzaddik*, if the *Ribono Shel Olam* [Master of the Universe] wants something from him, I’m always giving it to him. A *mentsh* [person], sometimes I won’t say it, I’m proud. You’re not a serious person, *b’chlal* [at all], you’re *b’chlal*, you think that everything you’re just doing with your *Yirat Shamayim* [fear of Heaven].
That’s Chaznish [the Chazon Ish’s] *drasha* [homiletical teaching]. It’s really a standard *mussar drasha* [ethical teaching] in some sense, but it gets, I’m trying to use it for something deeper than that, but I can’t get it to it.
Now, I want to tell you, the Chaznish, that it seems very, he seems to be, he seems to like set up this like very clear dichotomy, like if the guy would follow the *aliyah* and of course it’d be *oleh* [go up], because it’s a very bad thing to call the *aliyah la-Torah* not *oleh*, since he only cares about his own *kavod* [honor], therefore he is not *oleh*, and this is a use that’s a proof, a very big point about this guy that he thinks he’s *Yerei Shamayim* [God-fearing], he’s not *Yerei Shamayim*.
I mean, you never had any conflicts with *Yirat Shamayim*. You think you’re so *frum* [religiously observant], you think that in that sense, you’re that’s the really important point. You think that you’re not a person that because you see that when it comes to buying *matzah* [unleavened bread for Passover], he spends the most money. He said, yeah, because he’s used to that. But really, if you have any little problem that does bother you, suddenly, you don’t have any *Yirat Shamayim*. Not only you’re not *baal middos* [master of good character], but this has no *Yirat Shamayim* either.
What is saying is that it’s not true about to say that people are *mushlam* [perfected] but not *baal middos* [master of good character]. He said that that guy is not *mushlam* but either. *Baal middos* either. That’s really his goal with this story. Okay? That’s the Chaznish’s *ma’aseh* [story/example].
Now me, *Ani HaKatan* [I, the small one/humble one], I have a *baya* [problem]. What’s my *baya*? That I, because, now he thinks, Chaznish’s way of saying this is that *Yirat Shamayim* is one of those exact words, if you care about yourself. And it turns out that you don’t have the *middah* [character trait] of *Yirat Shamayim* either, you have something else, right? That’s what the Chaznish is explaining it to be.
*Baya* [problem], what’s my explanation? I have a different explanation. What’s my explanation for why *halacha* [Jewish law] is more serious than *mussar* [ethics/character development]? That *halacha* has a lot more details, right? *Halacha* takes into account a lot more complexities of situations.
That’s why there’s no such a thing. Everyone has this rhetoric about *halacha* being the clear-cut system that tells you always what to do. *Halacha* is the furthest thing from telling you always what to do. Have you ever learned *halacha*? There’s a lot of *tzad b’yachid* [one side/aspect] who doesn’t know. Usually you do this, but sometimes. But if it was Tuesday after *chalama* [unclear reference]…
And then, *halacha* is the most non-dogmatic legal system that you can think of. There’s always a way out. Not that there’s always a way out because it’s not serious, because it is serious, because reality is like this. Right?
Not the Chaznish, all these people that have this rhetoric about following *halacha*, they get stuck with this. *Halacha* is way too free in reality for them, not free, I’m not saying free, way too real. And therefore it actually conforms entirely, it should conform at least entirely to reality.
But to them, *halacha* is this like formalistic system. The Chaznish understands that *halacha* is not like that. But he’s still using the same rhetoric because that’s why the Chaznish is so-and-so. I think the Chaznish understands very well that *halacha* is not like that. He lives like that. He learns *halacha* like that. But then when he has to argue this with the people that he argues with, he ends up stuck and saying, well, *halacha* is like *pshat* [straightforward/simple].
But actually, it turns out, if you actually think about learn a little bit, you find out that this exact question, what do you do when you’re a *chashuv* [important person], someone whose honor, the truth is that anyone’s honor is important. But if your honor is connected to *kavod ha-Torah* [honor of the Torah]. And you get caught in *aliyah*, that’s not the correct *aliyah*. What do you do?
Because Mishnish [the Mishnah] seems to have a very clear *halacha*. The *halacha* says that you should go, but if you’re a *sheigetz* [derogatory term, here used ironically], then you don’t go. And you’re a *sheigetz*, you’re really a *sheigetz*.
Now, me, it’s like, no, I’m not so sure about this. And this is the *Rambam* [Maimonides] world. I have an authority on my side. I think that it’s possible that you should not go. I said, of course, that’s talking about the guy who should go. Well you never, you know, never done a *kimta* [unclear], you never *halacha* works that’s talking about someone that it is, he found a guy and he deserves this *aliyah*, it’s not really, he’s overestimating which *aliyah* he deserves basically.
So then, but if you’re really a person that deserves a different *aliyah*, maybe it’s, maybe that person is right that he’s, you should not go, you should not so wrong. And how do I know? I saw this. I found this. That’s why I started thinking about it, but it’s very interesting.
Everyone knows it says in the *Masechet Sanhedrin* [Tractate Sanhedrin]. It says, there’s two things that says the same answer. What you hear it says, *”Mipnei mah talmidei chachamim einam metzuyin latzeit talmidei chachamim mi-bneihem”* [Why don’t the children of Torah scholars become Torah scholars?]. You remember this? What does it mean? You know what it means? That’s the opposite of what I’m trying to say about this. And all the Torah that everyone knows. But that’s what it means.
So, the *Rambam*, now if you look in the *Rishonim* [early medieval commentators], this is one of the, another one of my big things. When you actually read the *Rishonim*, you see that most of these funny things that there’s so many like, there’s really a basic understanding that you don’t need all these scratches for. But anyways, the *Rambam* wrote a letter to someone, or a *teshuva* [responsum/halachic answer], and he told them two *pshatim* [interpretations] that he heard, two *pshatim* about this *ma’amar* [saying], one that he heard, and one that he thinks, which is the opposite of what he heard absolutely is *mekabel* [accepts] what special is that and what are these two *pshatim*.
First Interpretation (The Rambam’s Rebbe)
I’ll tell you the *Rambam* said that they were told that he’s that the kind of *halacha* that’s the *pshat* I’m about to tell him means what has this is talking about this time the *kohanim* [priests] that he called up earlier to *Torah* but I’m the woman they usually think that they’re better things to do in their time then read in the *Torah* because then they can become *talmidei chachamim* [Torah scholars] so they’re not *oleh la-Torah* [going up to the Torah], or they’re some *oleh*, they’re not patient to go to the *bimah* [platform] read, they sit at home and they’re not *oleh la-Torah*, since there was *oleh la-Torah* and the kids don’t come to *talmidei chachamim*.
That’s what his *Rebbe* told the *pshat*, the *Rambam’s* *Rebbe*. So that’s, by the way, that’s on the Chaznisha’s side.
Second Interpretation (The Rambam’s Own View — “Pankt Fakhert”)
Then the *Rambam* said, he thinks that the *pshat* is *b’fakhert* [the opposite]. He thinks the *pshat* is *b’fakhert*. What do you mean *b’fakhert*? *She-alohi ba-akha b’tcholet* [they didn’t go up first], *tcholet* [first] means they didn’t take the first *aliyah*.
The *halacha* said, the *Kohen korei rishon* [the Kohen reads first], and that’s when it’s the *amei ha’aretz* [ignorant people], all the *amei ha’aretz*, all the *talmidei chachamim*, *rav*, *Kohen*, *Kohen* is *am ha’aretz*. Right?
The *Kohen* says, if there’s *talmid chacham* [Torah scholar], that’s the *Kohen*, and the *amei ha’aretz* is a, *talmid chacham* is a *Yisrael* [regular Jew, not a Kohen], and the *amei ha’aretz* is a *Kohen*, the *din* [law] is, says the *Ramah* [unclear if referring to Rambam or another authority], that *talmid chacham* has to be *oleh* first. That’s the *din*.
Some of the others were like this, that the water of the *rishon* [first], and there was no, they said, they were. Isn’t there *Mishnah* about this? Yeah. The *Mishnah*. It says in the *Mishnah*, it’s about when the *Natwar* is *talmid chacham*, when it’s *amei ha’aretz*. When it’s *darkei shalom* [ways of peace], it says in the *Mishnah*, when it’s *darkei shalom*.
But that’s all when they’re both the same level in Torah. The *Rambam* says, if everyone is *talmid chacham*, *Rav* was not expected. *Rav* was *oleh b’kor* [went up first], always, *mezik sheva* [unclear] at least. When he was the, everyone that recognized him as the greatest authority was *oleh rishon* [went up first].
And therefore he showed everyone that Torah is more important. Because *oleh la-Torah* is the name of the King of *Malchus* [kingship]. And it’s *chidvar talmid chacham* [the matter of the Torah scholar]. But if you’re *oleh* later, you’re *oleh* by *shleshi* [third], why? Because you think that this kind of *amei ha’aretz* is better than you and don’t expect your children to be *talmidei chachamim*, they’re going to think that being a *Kohen* is better.
So the *Rambam* said is *b’fakhert* [the opposite], that the *ma’amar* [saying] is not the one that is going to gain the better. In the hand of *halacha lema’aseh* [practical halacha], it is better today. *Halacha lema’aseh*, the reason why the *shleshi* still wasn’t burnt is because still the *Kohen* was *oleh*. That’s what I’m saying.
Student: I was just like, the *Gemara* [Talmud] says, call me shall I live in the…
Instructor: Exactly. Do you expect it to come from the *Sanhedrin* [Tractate Sanhedrin] specifically?
Student: It’s connected to the *Sanhedrin* specifically.
Instructor: Here he’s talking about the different thing that it says, and *Benin* [children], that the children of *talmid chacham* don’t come out of *talmid chacham*. It’s fine, but it’s the same thing. I mean, they bring you the same *pshat* in that *Gemara*. What do you think? Yeah, of course.
We have so many ways in which the *talmidei chachamim* are not getting the honor. The *Brisker Rav* [Rabbi from Brisk] is getting the honor, the *Kohanim* and so on, and that causes the *talmidei chachamim* not to have their power and then, right? And who is *shalei* [at fault]? *Talmid chacham* himself, right? Because he should have not went when they called him for *shleshi* and only went when they called him for *shleshi*, right?
So what do I show you? Now, I don’t know if this *pshat* is practical and so on. You’re saying you already taught this. It’s time for *shalei* to start his kinship. But it’s not really practical, right? *Halacha* would be more serious. See? *Halacha* is always more serious than I do, right?
I go like, say, *Sha’ar Kedushah* [Gate of Holiness]. This is *Takwa* [piety]. But *Lama Yisrael* [why Israel], oh, *Lama Yisrael* doesn’t work like this because the world is more complicated. Okay, then she’ll see the status, right?
So I’m, and I can’t even explain why. And they don’t say it’s not apologetic for *halacha*. It’s reality. She’ll see the status, it’s reality. Yeah, we have to move home, move home.
Okay, but the matter is that that guy has a, we’re gonna be in *rafiqinah* [unclear] from now on, you know? It’s a problem. Oh, and the *Mishnah* says *nidah kashon* [unclear], right? Like Moshe said, *Mishnah* says *nidah kashon*, right? Because otherwise everyone, every week is gonna be a fight who’s gonna be at *talmid chacham* laws. The *Kohen*, everyone knows he’s not at *talmid chacham*. We’re just getting it because it’s a *Kohen* and so on. Okay.
And then we laugh. But that’s just me showing you that it’s not simple. It’s the opposite. And you use *halacha* for your *mussar*, you make everything worse. Because *halacha* is that, you understand what I’m saying? He said it should be about *mussar* or some place that it should be *halacha*.
Like Moshe said, Mishnah says *Middak Hashon* [Midarkei Shalom: for the sake of peace], right? Because otherwise everyone, every week is going to be a fight—who’s going to be a *Ta’am Tochim* [Talmid Chacham: Torah scholar]? Laws, the Kohen, everyone knows it’s not a *Ta’am Tochim*, we’re just getting it because it’s a Kohen and so on.
Okay, and so anyway that—but that’s just me showing you that it’s not simple, it’s the opposite.
And you use *Halacha* [Jewish law] for your Mussar, you make everything worse, because Halacha—you understand what I’m saying? He said, you should be, by most words, simplistic, you should be halacha, because halacha is clear.
No, halacha is not clear.
In other words, what you have to have is something called—how do you do it—something called practical wisdom for Jesus [Phronesis: Aristotelian practical wisdom]. That’s the only thing that’s really going to help. And that halacha doesn’t give you that either.
Or learning halacha, even in the Chaznish [Chazon Ish] way—you see the Chaznish himself, and it’s really weird that Chaznish gets, not only in this case, in many cases he gets into the same thing.
And on the one hand, he understands very well how halakhah is given to the mind of the halakhim [halachic decisors]. It’s not like rules.
And then when he thinks something is the rule, is the halakhah, then he thinks that everyone else is that because they don’t think halakhah seriously.
Of course, it’s true that there’s one part of halakhah that’s the list of the president, the—whoever’s the *shaykh* [judge], there should be a—but that’s another question. That’s a political question. Who’s the *shaykh*?
But in any case, that’s a general problem.
But what I’m showing you is that there’s always a halakhah that has been *faqeet* [decided/ruled]. And really, the rabbi might also, with the *Gabbai d’Sanhedrin* [administrator of the Sanhedrin], they can do whatever they want as they see fit, right? That’s the *baalei ru’eh* [people of judgment/discretion].
Student: If a *sh’tai* [Shulchan Aruch: Code of Jewish Law] did that…
Instructor: Yeah, that’s explicitly going against the halacha. I’m saying even *betach* [within] the halacha. He’s saying there’s a halacha of *Oseh v’HaShem* [who bows first before the Torah], of *Mishikonel to l’ikrit* [unclear reference]. There’s also a halacha of *Mavach Mator Etchelav* [whose opinion is correct], of who is the correct…
That’s a real thing. The halacha, if you learn halacha, if you’re this *teshuvah* [responsum] of *Sanhedrin Ba’al* [unclear reference], that’s a *teshuvah* of the *Esken Pshat Naaguda* [Agudah], but okay.
It shows you a lot more complexity of reality than this.
And the reason—that’s why I think the reason why we should say that halacha is better than mussar is not because halacha is *b’Hashem* [by God/from God] or mussar is not *b’Hashem*—that’s a very silly thing, because *nish* [the Chazon Ish] says that because that’s his own—that’s why he says, say that.
Because he doesn’t have a way of explaining how the world is complicated and how the goodness is in the real things. Instead of saying that, he says Hashem made it good. That’s a big problem.
If he would have been like me, he would have said: You are mussar, you are silly. You think that goodness is in your mind, and goodness is something so simple. The world is more complicated. The goodness is something about your actions—of course they have to be in accordance with what the mind says, but the mind is more complicated than what you think. It’s not only about your will, it’s about your understanding and so on.
And then, of course halacha is about that. He’s right.
But since he doesn’t have a language to say that, or maybe he has theological commitments not to say that—I don’t know—he ends up saying something very silly, which is even wrong halakhically, because there’s also a *tzad* [side/aspect] that guy is right.
Okay, halacha. That’s the end of the *shiur* [lesson] today.
The one that asked them—I think this story on him, *takke* [indeed], they asked him: Listen, this big *kamchokim* [great scholar] said something, and it’s *knegedah* [against it], whatever, something. And he’s like—in other words, and maybe when he uses *Ratzon Hashem* [the will of God], it means God is much more complicated, right? Much more sophisticated and complicated than your mind. But it’s not *Gerasim* [unclear reference].
Student: Maybe, in other words, it’s very funny that you’re saying, by the fact that he says *Ratzon Hashem*, he means all these things that you’re saying.
Instructor: I think, maybe the point is that Hashem is smarter even than them. Right, right, that’s what I’m saying, because that’s exactly what the Chalmish [Chazon Ish] thought about these things.
Shall we shut up?
Student: Yeah, I guess.
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This shiur continues a prior exploration of a historical thesis: before certain modern movements, the dominant Jewish (and broadly Western) view held that being a good person meant cultivating correct actions and knowledge, not primarily correct feelings. This insight is attributed partly to Rabbi Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz (the Chazon Ish), whose theological chapters in *Emunah Bitachon* attempted to articulate this pre-Baal Shem Tov / pre-Kantian / pre-Humean conception of what makes a good person.
The classical ideal has two poles: Chochmah (Torah/wisdom) and Maaseh (Mitzvos/good deeds), referred to in Chazal as Chochmah u’Maaseh. The ideal is both together, though internal debates exist about which is primary. This is the settled, undisputed view of all Jewish tradition up to a certain historical breaking point.
The Chazon Ish frames the ideal person as a Talmid Chacham — someone devoted to Torah learning.
A student raises whether this excludes a Navi (prophet) or philosopher. The matter is more complicated than a simple label — “Talmid Chacham” might encompass prophecy and philosophy. Whether the Chazon Ish would agree (he may have meant specifically halacha) is left open.
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A structural parallel is explicitly drawn: Aristotle’s ideal of intellectual and practical virtues is “the same thing” as Torah and Mitzvos — differing in the specific content of what counts as intellect and what counts as good action, but sharing the same structural framework: a good person is one who possesses knowledge/wisdom and performs good deeds.
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The Baal Shem Tov and the Chassidic movement introduce a new ideal: the best person is the one who achieves dveykus (cleaving/attachment to God). This is explicitly not Torah and Mitzvos. Torah and Mitzvos may be instrumental — preparations for or paths toward dveykus — but dveykus itself is the goal. This is a clear, conscious break from the prior consensus, even though Chassidim engage in extensive apologetics to deny this (e.g., finding precedents in earlier sources for non-learned tzaddikim).
The common Chassidic move of citing earlier figures who were righteous without being learned is a “distraction” and “weird apologetics.” The Chassidim might be right substantively, but the break is undeniable.
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The talmidim of Rav Yisrael Salanter introduce yet another new ideal: the best person is one with good middos (character traits) — a mensch. They explicitly de-prioritize Torah knowledge and even Mitzvos observance relative to character refinement. Some Mussar figures also emphasize yiras Shamayim (fear of Heaven). But this too is a fundamentally different ideal from the classical Torah-and-Mitzvos framework.
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The Chassidic framing that the world divides into Chassidim and Misnagdim is rejected. Rather, it divides into:
1. Normal/old-fashioned Jews (e.g., the Chasam Sofer) — who simply hold the classical view.
2. Chassidim — a new movement.
3. Misnagdim (e.g., Reb Chaim Volozhiner) — also a new, reactive movement (“against” — the very name implies opposition rather than an independent positive identity).
The Chasam Sofer is cited as an example of someone who was neither Chassid nor Misnagid but simply an “old Yid.”
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The argument is primarily structural, not historical. Precursors to both Chassidus and Mussar exist (e.g., Chovos HaLevavos may have said similar things). Such precedents are not troubling because the claim is about the structure of ideas, not about strict chronological novelty. Ideas rise and fall in popularity, but the structural problem is what matters.
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Both modern movements (Chassidus and Mussar) are responses to the same crisis: the old-fashioned framework — where goodness is a real property of persons and activities in the world — became unintelligible or unlivable. Reasons include the loss of teleology and additional factors. People stopped being able to see, say, live, or believe that goodness is an objective feature of the world.
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The metaphor of Jacob’s ladder captures the structural condition: the ladder represents the connection between the world and God — the malachim (angels) that make reality a coherent, intelligible unity linking heaven and earth. “Nobody believes in malachim anymore” — the integrating mechanism between God and world has been lost.
Once the classical framework collapses, several options emerge:
The “flat line” — just do whatever you want. Since the audience is “pretending to be religious,” this is ruled out.
Dveykus is radically internal — it prioritizes the subjective relationship with God at the expense of the world’s coherence and value.
The Mussar movement seeks perfection within the world (character, menschlichkeit) but in a way that is also ultimately internal — in practice, Mussar people tend to value the person who *feels* empathy over the person who *actually raises money*. The provocative claim: the Baalei Mussar don’t really believe in God — they have effectively abandoned the divine pole of the ladder.
Divine command is tentatively raised as a potential alternative that avoids both the Chassidic and Mussar pitfalls, though its exact placement in the schema remains uncertain.
A student observes that the common thread across all these positions is that none of them believe in any real, substantive goodness. If goodness exists at all, it can only be imposed from the outside (God commanded it), not discovered as inherent. This connects to Kalam (*chochmat ha-kalam*) — the Islamic theological tradition that similarly denies inherent natures in things.
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The central critique of all post-collapse positions: they are one-dimensional. Each seizes on one aspect of life (dveikus, moral self-improvement, divine command) and makes it the totality, thereby:
– Denying the richness and variability of life.
– Treating every other dimension as evil or irrelevant.
– Becoming like “a table standing on one leg” (invoking Schelling) — inherently unstable.
This is the real big problem with the modern shift: not that any single emphasis is wrong per se, but that each becomes totalizing.
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Very few people have managed to articulate a genuine opposition to these one-dimensional frameworks. The difficulty is compounded because the worldview within which they must work is itself the cause of the problems. The opposition isn’t saying “you’re wrong” but rather “you’re only part of the story” — which is harder to argue dramatically. This is the perennial task of wisdom: showing how any given position is only partial.
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Those who try to revive the ancient, richer picture face a painful dilemma:
You lose much of the content. People eventually forget what was lost and mistake the translation for the original. The Rambam is offered as the paradigmatic example: people say he translated Jewish thought into Greek-Muslim philosophical language as a kind of *yeridat ha-tzaddik*. People then conclude that if you don’t think in that philosophical language, the Rambam is irrelevant. Rav Kook is cited as saying some things, once extinguished (*kafsa*), need not be reignited because they were only contextual translations. Many things people believe are “true Judaism” are actually bedi’eved accommodations — ways someone tried to speak in the language of their audience.
Become a perpetual *misnaged* — the one who is always against everything. This is also one-dimensional and also evil: it doesn’t account for why people really are the way they are, dismisses them as heretics, and causes you to lose touch with people. “Being a misnaged is in itself a way of life… and it’s not a good way to live.”
Neither option. Stop translating into frameworks that are “silly,” incomplete, and distorting, just because everyone thinks that way. “That’s not a good enough reason.”
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The sociological concept of Moral Therapeutic Deism (attributed to sociologists of American religion) describes the de facto belief system of most Americans regardless of denomination:
– God exists but isn’t really involved in the world.
– He mostly makes you feel good about yourself.
– He wants you to be a “good person” (give charity, help your neighbor — basic things).
The book “Catholic, Protestant, Jew” is cited: all three groups in America essentially believe this; they just “sing different songs in their churches.”
Jewish versions of this accommodation include:
– Chabad outreach (at the content level) partly characterized as the “power of positive thinking” repackaged.
– The “Bitachon guy” (*Bitachon Weekly*): *tracht gut vet zein gut* (“think good and it will be good”) identified as essentially “toxic positivity” — a very American trait dressed in Chassidic language. A student pushes back on sincerity; the structural point is maintained: “You could find Oprah believes in the same thing.”
– Breslov — the “American shitta” being: everything is good, Hashem loves you, He needs you, don’t be *misyayesh* (despairing).
All of this is a “great watering down” — not entirely false (there are sources), but presenting a tiny slice as the whole of Yiddishkeit.
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Making people good within their existing framework is genuinely hard and genuinely valuable. Keeping *sheva mitzvot bnei Noach* — providing for families, not stealing, not killing — is “a great achievement.” A student asks if this is a “low bar.” Emphatically no: “The default is something much worse.” All the clichés in the world are better than the alternative. This is not denigration — it’s real work. But it is also not the full picture, and the class is aimed at those seeking something beyond this level.
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The dissatisfaction with these watered-down approaches is not rooted in childish loyalty to tradition (*betor yeled*) — “the Torah says otherwise, so you’re wrong.” Nor is it primarily the observation that this approach leads to systematic inversion of Torah values where the ultimate arbiter becomes “the New York Times editorial board.”
Rather, the critique is betor goy — as a thinking person. The fundamental problem is that the entire worldview within which these people operate is not serious. It is at minimum incomplete, and likely worse.
The modern reflex of sending every problematic child to a therapist illustrates the “not serious” charge. Humanity educated children for thousands of years without therapists. The challenge: ask school administrators for actual success statistics from therapeutic interventions. These approaches don’t actually solve the problems they claim to address.
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The project is personal and communal in a narrow sense: for people who want to think seriously, to be able to do so within a Jewish framework in a genuinely serious way. Judaism will survive perfectly well with people teaching clichés — that’s already a net positive.
Against those who invoke rabbinic authority (*”the Rav said…”*) in support of the non-serious worldview: the Rav was trying to help you, not endorse your silliness. Even if the rabbis themselves don’t fully understand the alternative, they represent something far older and more tested than contemporary assumptions. This is a conservative heuristic: if most humans for 3,000 years believed something, it’s at least worth serious engagement, even if they were wrong.
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People who reject modernity but cannot articulate *why* or *what* is wrong. They just “hack kopp.” Socially useful insofar as it creates space for non-automatic acceptance of the zeitgeist, but not intellectually substantive. They don’t even have questions — just screaming, which is not an argument.
A very small number who actually think and try to articulate what is wrong. In the Jewish context there are basically none who are really good at this. Some Catholics and even some of “our enemies” (people who want us dead) have more complete and coherent theories of the world than any Jewish thinker known. Jews possess more *value* (Torah, tradition) than anyone, yet lack a serious, articulated worldview.
Kind 1 — The Reactionaries: People who say “just do whatever we’ve always done” and “everything outside is bad.” They don’t actually do what was always done, and they can’t explain what “outside” means or what “bad” means. Illustration: “My great-grandmother didn’t drive because there were no cars in her town, but I think my wife shouldn’t drive either for the same reason.”
Kind 2 — The “Smart” Jews (the “dumb people”): The sophisticated ones who have concluded that Torah ethics perfectly aligns with New York Times editorials. A variant now exists that aligns Torah with Breitbart-style conservatism — also reactionary and shallow, though not entirely stupid.
The deepest critique targets those regarded as serious Jewish intellectuals. Despite their sophistication, every single one of them accepts every anti-metaphysical commitment of the modern worldview. They merely try to work *within* it. They do not challenge its foundations.
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A concrete diagnostic: Do you believe in angels (*malachim*)?
– No pre-modern Jewish thinker does *not* believe in angels.
– No modern Jewish thinker *does*.
– If angelology is an important part of your Judaism, you are an “ancient Jew.”
– Modern *mekubalim* (kabbalists) are dismissed as “totally not mekubalim” — they reduce everything to psychology, which is nonsense.
– Angels are not psychology. They are not merely internal states or parts of one’s soul.
– Angels are intermediate beings — messengers from God to man and from man to God (referencing the Symposium on the role of *daimones* as intermediaries).
– Angels are external to the mind. They have independent existence. They are greater than the individual and exist prior to and independently of the person.
– A thought exists *because of you*. An angel is something you might exist *because of* — it precedes you and is not generated by your consciousness.
– The Rambam believes in malachim — and does not think they are things in your head. Even identifying them as intellects, they are real entities without which the world doesn’t make sense.
– They are not God, and they are not us thinking about God. They occupy a genuine ontological middle space.
– They don’t go away when you close your eyes — they persist even if you die.
– Physical details (wings, etc.) are secondary and debatable; the ontological point is what matters.
If there are no real intermediary beings between God and the world, then the entire classical Jewish metaphysical architecture collapses. The fact that no modern Jewish thinker maintains belief in genuine *malachim* proves that the entire modern Jewish intellectual world — left, right, reactionary, sophisticated — has already conceded the game to modernity’s anti-metaphysical commitments.
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– Type 1 (Frum Jews): Say they believe in angels but have no experiential or intellectual contact with them. Eliyahu HaNavi doesn’t come to them because “he doesn’t like to talk to *meshugaim*.”
– Type 2 (Modern/Secular Jews): Eliyahu doesn’t come to them because they don’t believe in him, making his arrival logically impossible.
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The goal is to create a school of people who genuinely believe in angels — not because “it says so in the Torah.” A sharp distinction is drawn between believing in a thing and believing in the text that mentions the thing. The Beis Yaakov world “believes in *shedim*” only because the Gemara says so — but if someone claimed to have actually *seen* a shed, everyone would laugh. This proves they don’t really believe in shedim; they believe in the Gemara’s authority. Similarly, “believing in angels because it’s a mitzvah to believe” is one of the “weird modern solutions” that reduces everything to textual obligation. This is insufficient.
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The Chazon Ish is identified as one of the only people in the last hundred years who actually engaged in the activity of thinking. However, being Frum, he was also “therefore meshuga” — meaning his thinking is intermittent: one line of genuine thought followed by a retreat into “it says in the heilige Torah.”
The difficulty lies in distinguishing when the Chazon Ish is genuinely thinking versus using a shortcut of authority. Sometimes what looks like a mere appeal to authority might contain a thought the reader hasn’t grasped. His book (*Emunah U’Bitachon*) is incomplete, not fleshed out — he identifies real problems but then “closes them with some weird Ani Ma’amin.” In Halacha too, the Chazon Ish often has a brilliant insight but then “jumps off” — his argument could go both ways and he doesn’t notice, or he doesn’t follow through.
Yeshivas don’t teach thinking. They teach you to arrange other people’s thoughts in the right order (*haki didas*). The Chazon Ish actually uses books and authority as instruments of thought, not merely as sources to repeat. He tries to think until he agrees with what the text says, or until he believes it — and he discusses this method explicitly.
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A student raises the Meshech Chochma as a possible counter-example. The Meshech Chochma says “very good *pshatim*,” but pshatim are not thinking. He is smart, well-read, and touches real problems no one else touches — but there is no evidence of genuine *thinking* in his work.
Key criterion: The Meshech Chochma never says “*tzarich iyun*” on a basic, genuinely puzzling matter. He never shows himself to be stuck. By contrast, the Moreh Nevuchim (Rambam’s Guide) does think — evidenced by open questions, moments of hesitation (*megamgem*), and unresolved tensions. The Rambam is sometimes “heavy of mouth and heavy of tongue” — genuinely struggling.
A thinker who wraps every shiur perfectly — starts with 17 questions and answers all 17 — is a bluffer. A real thinker will have at least one question they genuinely can’t answer. The Chazon Ish’s pattern — one line of genuine thought followed by a line that doesn’t actually answer it — is itself a sign of authenticity. He got upset at himself and retreated to Ani Ma’amin.
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Teachers who think for one line and then retreat to authority are not simply lying to themselves. They are Frum, they are afraid — but there is also a certain wisdom in this, because people who take one thought and “just run with it” through all its conclusions are often one-dimensional and dumb.
Rationalist bloggers are cited as examples: they had “one thought or a quarter of a thought” and followed every conclusion from it. But “basic wisdom is that there’s another side.” When a Frum thinker says “this seems correct as a line of real thinking, but it says in the Torah [otherwise],” the charitable interpretation: “I’m not the first one to think in the world; Moshe Rabbeinu thought also; so for now I’ll just move on.”
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A student challenges the privileging of the ancient over the modern. The response: “Chas v’shalom” — the ancients are emphasized only because the students are so stuck in modern assumptions that it takes “hacking a kopp” to dislodge them. It’s a matter of balance, not genuine dismissal of modernity. Modern thinkers are “very serious,” but all their arguments are already in Plato. They didn’t invent new arguments; they took one side and ran with it. The ancient-vs-modern framing is “not really the best framing” and should probably be abandoned — but it’s pragmatically necessary given how hard it is to communicate these ideas.
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The historical framing (tracing ideas through periods and movements) is not the ideal way to present these ideas. All the fundamental arguments already existed in antiquity — in Plato, in the Torah’s own narrative (the Satan’s arguments to Adam HaRishon), and throughout ancient texts. Modern thinkers (Descartes, etc.) are routinely shown by academics to have been anticipated by predecessors. The historical narrative is merely a pedagogical scaffold — a framework people already have in their heads — that helps students grasp what’s going on.
Modern academics constantly play the game of showing that supposedly novel ideas were anticipated centuries earlier, and what was written down is only a fraction of what was thought and said in entire societies.
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The Chazon Ish displays moments of extraordinary clarity in thinking, but then periodically lapses back into default positions — not because he’s stupid, but because even genuine thinkers are pulled back by their environment’s gravitational force. This is framed as the Yetzer HaTov “waking up” and disrupting the Yetzer HaRa’s clarity (an inversion of the usual framing). Many people who “think for themselves” are really just repeating what the New York Times wants them to think, or are mere contrarians who reflexively take the opposite position. Neither is serious thought. Aristotle’s *Politics* on slavery — three chapters with strong arguments on both sides — illustrates that if you think either side is “obvious,” you’re not thinking seriously.
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1. He lacks the full ancient picture. Despite his brilliance, the Chazon Ish doesn’t have access to or command of the complete ancient intellectual framework. This leads to visible frustration in his writings — he can’t fully account for everything because pieces are missing.
2. His kludges to preserve old beliefs are weak. When the Chazon Ish tries to patch the gaps in his framework to maintain traditional positions, the solutions are “very dumb.” The concept of tzivui (divine command) is singled out as the worst of these kludges — a crude mechanism invoked to hold things together that doesn’t withstand serious scrutiny.
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The central modern assumption: what matters is only what’s in your heart. The Talmudic phrase *Rachmana liba ba’ei* (“God wants the heart”) is seized upon as proof-text because it perfectly matches modern biases. This is unserious — taking a three-word statement and reading all of modernity’s assumptions into it.
– The Chassidim claim: we have the best heart, so we win.
– The Ba’alei Mussar claim: we have a different, more refined understanding of the heart, but the same basic move — interiority is what counts.
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Chaim Grade’s novel *The Yeshiva* is introduced as a key text for understanding the Chazon Ish’s worldview. Grade was the Chazon Ish’s *chavrusa* and friend, and a gifted novelist. The Chazon Ish himself was not a good writer — he couldn’t effectively describe characters or convey his vision in literary form. Grade, however, could, and his novel depicts (under a pseudonym) the Chazon Ish and the various people around him with their competing radical ideas about what constitutes a good person. The novel shows the Chazon Ish trying to hold on to something very ancient while recognizing it is far more sophisticated than what his contemporaries offer.
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If you actually read Mussar *shmuessen* (ethical discourses), they say nothing for pages on end. They are “crazily simplistic,” repetitive, and boring in a deeply significant way. Yet the Ba’alei Mussar consider themselves the wisest, most profound people alive — claiming to understand humanity while the *Roshei Yeshiva* merely repeat Abaye and Rava.
Every Ba’al Mussar “worth anything” believes he has cracked the code of the human being. The modern version is called Toras Hanefesh (psychology of the soul). These people have “half of a quarter of a theory” and are so impressed by it that they write as if they’ve discovered everything. They claim to “get people” but understand almost nothing.
The Chazon Ish — possessing both a quick mind and intellectual courage (the two essential ingredients for serious thought) — listens to these Mussar masters and finds them wanting. The “Alter” explains how people fool themselves, then writes 14 volumes about self-deception, and the Chazon Ish’s reaction is: “Okay, and now what? What are you actually telling me? And aren’t you fooling yourself while writing all this?”
The Shach on Choshen Mishpat contains an understanding of humanity “10,000 miles deeper” than the Mussar masters’ understanding of *negius* (bias/self-interest). Choshen Mishpat is *entirely about* people deluding themselves — disputes over kodesh vs. chol, the laws of bribery (*shochad*), testimony, and competing claims. The halachic tradition has a far more sophisticated and detailed model of human nature than the Ba’al Mussar who considers himself superior to “mere” halacha.
This connects to the concept of Naval BiRshus HaTorah: the Ba’al Mussar thinks halacha is for spiritual lowlifes, while *he* has true understanding. But in practice, when you actually engage with a Mussar *mashgiach* in a real dispute, he turns out to be “the stupidest guy” and “the most self-righteous rasha” — simplistic, arrogant, and without the depth he claims.
This is a broader pathology — people who believe they’ve cracked the code of human nature. Some genuinely did discover something; the Mussar figures under discussion “didn’t even discover basic” — the thread is cut off.
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The Chazon Ish’s distinctive mode of Torah study: he spends hours daily reading Tosafos, Rambam, Shach — complex legal texts. He learns halacha lema’aseh (practical law), not in the Brisker mode of turning everything into abstract philosophy. He reads halacha as commentary on the human condition — not just “what’s the ruling” but what does this reveal about the complexity of human relations. Yoreh Deah and Choshen Mishpat in particular get into the *kishkas* (guts) of what it means to be human. Crucially: you never come out of a sugya the way you went in — at least with the Chazon Ish. The learning process genuinely transforms your understanding, unlike most people who simply confirm their pre-existing biases.
When the Chazon Ish applies this approach to topics like *tzitzis* (ritual fringes — *bein adam lamakom*), it becomes “a little confusing,” and there is a question whether this limitation is due to a Chassidic background. But for interpersonal and civil law, the depth is undeniable.
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Before opening any book, he already knows what the *psak* should be. He has *seichel hayosher* (straight common sense), understands the *da’as* (the spirit of the law), and finds the answer that matches. These people usually make sense, at least to those who think similarly.
This approach says Option 1 is just projecting your biases onto Torah. The correct method is to have no preconception — you open the Shulchan Aruch and rule according to what it says, full stop.
– Of course you come in with an opinion — otherwise you’re not a person. And of course textual authority matters — you can’t simply override the Poskim.
– But neither of these is what learning actually is. If it were just Option 1, a smart rabbi could just announce his psak and have someone write a teshuvah afterward. If it were just Option 2, you could look up the footnotes in Piskei Teshuvot and be done.
– The real point of learning: You enter with your intuition (svara), and then the Gemara shows you that it also considered your idea — but then a second angle, a third, a fourth. After going through the sugya with Tosafot, you have fourteen different ways to think, not fourteen authorities to weigh. Your mind has been genuinely opened.
– The result: “Now I really don’t know what to do” — and *that* is when real thinking begins, because you must navigate genuine complexity.
People mistakenly think sevarot (logical arguments/intuitions) are “things in your head.” They are descriptions of reality. Each shittah (legal position) in the tradition corresponds to a real angle on reality that you missed because of your initial confidence. The Chazon Ish reads the entire history of halachic discourse this way: each opinion teaches him something about reality. He doesn’t have “emunah peshutah” (simple faith) in every Acharon — if someone is wrong, he says so. But the authorities he trusts make him think, and he emerges from the sugya with a more sophisticated understanding, not a more confused one. By contrast, many people start with a good theory and end up confused because they pile on authorities without integrating them.
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People who are “mizalez” (dismissive) of learning assume the only model of learning is the authority-based model (Option 2). They therefore conclude: “We don’t need that; we’re just good people.” The retort: “You’re not good people.” You don’t understand a fraction of what makes a person tick compared to what the Shulchan Aruch understands. The Shulchan Aruch is simply better.
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There is a personal bias toward feeling that *bein adam l’chaveiro* (interpersonal law) doesn’t really matter as much. But the same argument applies there.
People think they know what Shabbos is: “You rest.” But if pressed to define rest, they can’t. Hilchos Shabbos contains a fourteen-fold deeper, more complicated understanding of what rest is — one that corresponds to reality. The halacha asks: What are people actually doing when they work? When they rest? When they think they’re resting but are really working in their heads? Conclusion: Halacha has a far more sophisticated view of reality than “all these olamos, all these Chassidus books together.”
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People read the Arizal and see technical descriptions of 17,000 levels of Olam HaYetzirah. They find it boring. So they turn to the Ramchal or similar figures who say: “It’s all a mashal. The nimshal is: be a good person. Chesed means God does things you like; din means God does things you don’t like. The Arizal was just complicating this.”
“I don’t know if your mashal-nimshal framework is correct, but I know one thing — the Arizal was much smarter than you.” The simplifiers’ theory of the world has two or three variables. The Arizal’s theory has 17 million variables. He is simply much closer to the complexity of actual reality. Even if the “theory of everything” hope is to reduce things to five principles, spelling those out requires millions of variables. You can’t calculate the real world without them. The simplifiers think they’re the smart ones and the Arizal was the naive technician. “You’re just stupid. You’re simplifying to the point where it’s not even interesting.” Caveat: Maybe the Arizal’s specific 17,000 variables are all fantasy and the real variables are different — but his method of approaching reality with that level of sophistication is far superior.
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What the Chazon Ish actually says: “You’re an apikores. You think you’re going with your sechel, but the Torah says the opposite of your sechel.” What the Chazon Ish really means: “You’re dumb.” He doesn’t have the patience to explain *why* your sechel is basic, so he just calls you an apikores. “It’s much worse to be dumb than to be an apikores.”
The Chazon Ish’s real critique of Mussar: they discovered the concept of negiah (personal bias) and thought they’d found the key to everything. “Yeah, people have negiah, thank you very much. Is that all? Does that explain everything? No, it explains almost nothing.” When people of a certain seniority discover a simple concept for the first time, they think they’ve discovered the world. A younger person hears it and says, “Okay, and then what?” — and the whole thing burns out.
A sefer (possibly a modern book on cognitive bias) was found interesting but couldn’t structure a life around. Even professional psychologists who spent 30 years studying bias came up with theories that also turned out to be wrong. Halacha, which everyone is happy to dismiss as unsophisticated, actually contains far deeper thinking about these matters.
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The Chazon Ish says: “The halacha is what God wants from you.” The objection: “What? Where do you get that? Why do you even need that?” Halacha is simply the product of people who thought longer and more seriously about these cases than you did. You don’t need the theological claim to justify halacha’s authority. When the Chazon Ish makes this theological move, he engages in demagoguery — and this is where the paths diverge.
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A specific passage from the Chazon Ish (*Perek Daled, Halacha Hey*) illustrates a broader point about the unity of the virtues:
The Chazon Ish describes a common occurrence: a man who considers himself a great *tzaddik* acknowledges he has problems *bein adam lachavero* (bad *middot*), but believes he at least has genuine *yirat shamayim*. The test case: this man is called up for an *aliyah la-Torah*, but refuses to go up because the aliyah offered is not prestigious enough — he only accepts *shlishi* or higher.
The Chazon Ish’s critique: The Gemara states explicitly (*”v’oyvei Hashem yichlu”*) that someone called for an aliyah who refuses is *mevazeh devar Hashem*. The Torah’s honor supersedes personal honor. This man is entirely under the dominion of the yetzer hara (*tachat shilton ha-yetzer hara*). His apparent religiosity — buying the most expensive matzah, etc. — is mere habit (*hergel*), not genuine *yirat shamayim*. The moment any real conflict arises between his ego and halachic obligation, the ego wins.
The deeper goal: The Chazon Ish attacks the standard mussar claim that people can be *mushlam* (perfected) in *bein adam la-Makom* while deficient in *bein adam la-chavero*. He argues this bifurcation is false — the person who fails interpersonally also lacks genuine *yirat shamayim*. The virtues are unified.
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The Chazon Ish presents the case as a clean dichotomy: halacha clearly says you must go up; the man doesn’t go up; therefore he lacks *yirat shamayim*. But the halacha is not so clear. This is precisely the point about the nature of halacha: it is the most non-dogmatic legal system imaginable. There are always qualifications, exceptions, and situational considerations.
Halacha’s superiority lies in its attention to the complexity and details of real situations, not in its being a rigid formalistic system. The Chazon Ish himself understands this in his actual halachic work, but when arguing polemically against mussar-type figures, he falls back on the rhetoric of “the halacha is clearly against you.”
What if the man genuinely is a *chashuv* person whose honor is connected to Torah? What if being called for the wrong aliyah actually does raise a legitimate halachic question about *kvod ha-Torah*? It is genuinely possible that the correct halachic ruling is that such a person should not go up — that his *kvod ha-Torah* requires waiting for the appropriate aliyah.
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A major textual support comes from the Rambam, built around the famous Gemara in Masechet Nedarim:
*”Mipnei mah talmidei chachamim einam metzuyin latzeit talmidei chachamim mi-bneihem?”* — Why don’t the children of Torah scholars become Torah scholars?
Answer (Rav Yehuda in the name of Rav): *”She-lo birchu ba-Torah techila”* — because they didn’t “bless the Torah first.”
Interpretation 1 (The Rambam’s Rebbe and Chaver):
Torah scholars were negligent about being *oleh la-Torah* — they thought they had better things to do (learning Mishnayot, Gemara), were too impatient to go to the bimah, stayed home, etc. This *zilzul* (disrespect) of the Torah caused their children not to become scholars. This aligns with the Chazon Ish’s position.
Interpretation 2 (The Rambam’s Own View — “Pankt Fakhert” / Exactly the Opposite):
*”She-lo birchu ba-Torah techila”* means they didn’t take the first aliyah. The halacha is that a *Kohen* reads first, but this applies only when all are of equal Torah stature, or all are *amei ha’aretz*. When there is a genuine *talmid chacham* who is a *Yisrael* and the *Kohen* is an *am ha’aretz*, the *talmid chacham* should go up first. The Rambam cites the practice of Rav, who would go up before the Kohen in his yeshiva, demonstrating that *”gadol ha-Torah yoter min ha-kehuna v’ha-malchut.”* And Rav’s children became *talmidei chachamim*.
The Rambam’s conclusion: If a *talmid chacham* defers to a *Kohen am ha’aretz* and accepts a later aliyah (like *shlishi*), he is implicitly teaching his children that being a Kohen matters more than Torah scholarship. Don’t be surprised when the children don’t become scholars.
The Rambam’s pshat is exactly the opposite of the Chazon Ish’s position. According to the Rambam, the problem is not that the scholar refused an aliyah out of arrogance — the problem is that he accepted a lesser aliyah out of false humility or deference, thereby degrading Torah’s honor.
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*Halacha lema’aseh*, the Rambam’s position hasn’t been fully implemented — Kohanim still get the first aliyah. The matter remains unresolved (*lo berur*). The Mishnah’s rule of *darkei shalom* (ways of peace) provides a practical reason: without a fixed order based on Kehuna, every week would devolve into fights about who is the greater *talmid chacham*. The Kohen system avoids this — everyone knows the Kohen isn’t getting the aliyah because of his scholarship.
Additional halachic illustrations of built-in complexity and discretion:
– The Gabbai of the Sanhedrin can act as they see fit — the domain of the Baalei De’ah.
– There is a Halacha of “Oseh HaShem” — of who bows first before the Torah.
– There is a Halacha of “Umkom Mato’i Techilah” — of whose opinion is actually correct.
– A Teshuvah to the Rambam (referenced via the Agudah) further illustrates this layered complexity.
All of these show that within Halacha itself, there are competing principles that require judgment, not mere rule-application.
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A recurring pattern: the Chazon Ish’s actual halachic practice and understanding is sophisticated and context-sensitive. But his polemical rhetoric against mussar and simplistic religiosity relies on presenting halacha as a clear, formalistic system that yields unambiguous answers. This creates a tension: the very halachic sophistication the Chazon Ish embodies in his real work contradicts the rhetorical use he makes of halacha in his mussar-critique arguments. The aliyah story is a perfect illustration: the Chazon Ish presents it as an open-and-shut case, but a serious halachic investigation (including the Rambam’s teshuva) shows the opposite conclusion is at least equally defensible.
When you use Halacha as a vehicle for Mussar, you make everything worse, because:
– Mussar assumes goodness is simple and clear.
– People assume Halacha should therefore also be simple and clear.
– But Halacha is not clear — it is deeply complex, multi-layered, and context-dependent.
The only thing that can truly navigate this complexity is Sechel HaYashar (straight/sound reasoning), or practical wisdom, or — using the Aristotelian term — Phronesis. Halacha itself does not automatically produce this capacity; it requires a kind of judgment that transcends rule-following.
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A persistent internal contradiction in the Chazon Ish’s thought appears across many contexts:
– On one hand, the Chazon Ish deeply understands that Halacha is “given to the Mareh D’Halacha” — it is not a set of rigid rules but something entrusted to the judgment of the halachic decisor.
– On the other hand, when the Chazon Ish believes something *is* the definitive Halacha, he treats anyone who disagrees as bordering on Apikorsus, as if the rule were self-evident and binding without interpretive latitude.
There is indeed a halachic principle of listening to the Beis Din and the “Shofet asher yihyeh bayamim hahem” (the judge of your generation), but who counts as that authoritative judge is itself an anthropological/sociological question, not a settled halachic one.
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The proper argument against Mussar is not that “Halacha is Dvar HaShem and Mussar is not.” That is “a very silly thing.” The real argument should be:
– To the Mussar movement: You think goodness is simple, residing in the will and in the mind. But the world is far more complicated than that.
– Goodness is in the real actions, which must accord with what the mind says — but the mind itself is more complicated than Mussar acknowledges. It involves not just will but understanding, discernment, and contextual judgment.
– Halacha, properly understood, *is* about that richer, more complex engagement with reality. So the Chazon Ish is right in substance — Halacha is superior to simplistic Mussar — but wrong in his articulation.
The Chazon Ish lacked the philosophical language to express this insight, or perhaps had theological commitments that prevented him from saying it. So instead of arguing from the complexity of reality and the nature of goodness, he fell back on the claim that “HaShem made it good” — that Halacha is superior simply because it is Ratzon HaShem (God’s will).
This formulation is not only philosophically weak but even wrong on its own halachic terms, since there is a recognized halachic principle (a “Tzad”) that certain considerations are Dochei Halacha — they override strict halachic rules. So even within the halachic system, the claim that Halacha is always the final, simple word is untenable.
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A story told about the Chazon Ish: Someone reported that a great Lamdan had said something contradicting a particular halachic ruling. The Chazon Ish responded (in Yiddish): “He is indeed great, but the Torah is even greater” (*Iz takke zei zei grois, ober di Torah iz noch gresser*).
Perhaps when the Chazon Ish invokes “Ratzon HaShem,” what he *really* means — at his deepest level — is that God’s reality is far more complex and sophisticated than any human mind can capture. “Noch gresser” — even greater than the greatest human intellect. The Chazon Ish may have *intuited* exactly what has been argued throughout this shiur (that reality and goodness are more complex than Mussar allows), but expressed it in theological shorthand (“Ratzon HaShem”) rather than in philosophical language.
A student pushes back, suggesting that attributing all this to “Ratzon HaShem” is reading a philosophical framework into the Chazon Ish. The response: “I think Ratzon HaShem is smarter than even that” — meaning the Chazon Ish’s own concept of divine will may be richer than any single philosophical articulation. This is acknowledged as being precisely what the Chazon Ish himself thought about these matters.
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1. The classical consensus held that the good person is defined by Torah and Mitzvos (Chochmah u’Maaseh) — wisdom and good deeds together.
2. The collapse of teleology and moral realism broke Jacob’s ladder — the integrating structure between God and world — producing one-dimensional responses: Chassidus (God without world), Mussar (world without God), nihilism, or divine command.
3. Mussar is simplistic — it reduces goodness to will and intention, flattening the complexity of moral and halachic reality. Its practitioners claim to understand human nature but possess only a fraction of the insight embedded in halachic literature.
4. Halacha, properly understood, is rich and complex — it requires Phronesis/Sechel HaYashar, not rule-following, and contains a far deeper model of human nature than any Mussar text.
5. The Chazon Ish was right in substance that Halacha is superior to Mussar as a guide to the good life.
6. But the Chazon Ish was wrong in formulation — his reliance on “Ratzon HaShem” as the justification, rather than an argument from the complexity of reality and goodness, weakened his position and even contradicted halachic principles.
7. The deepest irony: the Chazon Ish may have understood all of this intuitively but lacked — or chose not to use — the language to say it properly. The Torah is “noch gresser” — even greater — than any articulation, including his own.
Instructor: Let me see if the rabbi, what’s his name, wants to hear. This sheet is an exploration of something that we started in here. You said that it’s a barf, I think. It was a Lakewood thing. The last sheet here that gave the historical theory of how everyone started the thing, the main thing is to feel good, have the correct feelings, I said that it seems like Rabbi Karelitz wrote a book called *Chazon Ish* [referring to Rabbi Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz, known by his work’s title]. In the back, he wrote a few chapters about his ideas about theology, called *Emunah Bitachon V’od* [Faith, Trust, and More] — it’s really *Emunah Bitachon V’Mussar* [Faith, Trust, and Ethics], I don’t know why they skipped the last word — that’s about the subjects. I don’t know what he called it.
And I noticed that he was trying to express the pre-Baal Shem Tov, or pre-Immanuel Kant, or pre-David Hume — same idea — theory of how to be a good person. That’s what I said, remember?
Now, what you were saying, what you were telling me back today is, and what I say is, that it’s very important to notice this. And this is something you should notice. And this is another way of saying the same thing that we discussed then. We discussed one detail of it, or one instance of it.
Instructor: How there is this — let’s say it in the way the *Chazon Ish* would say it, or the way the Litvak [Lithuanian Orthodox Jew] would say it — which is that there’s an old version about what a good person is, which is the same thing about what a good Yid [Jew] is, right? Who is the ideal person?
All the Jewish tradition, up to a certain point, all agree on it, or almost all agree on it. I think it’s more complicated than that, but okay, everyone agrees on it. And that ideal person is called a — hmm — he said it’s called a *Talmid Chacham* [Torah scholar, literally “wise student”].
The *Chazon Ish* — everyone knew until the Baal Shem Tov, or the Baal Salanter [Rabbi Yisrael Salanter, founder of the Mussar movement] — everyone knew that the greatest guy around is a *Talmid Chacham*. That’s what it says in the Gemara [Talmud], in the Midrash [rabbinic homiletical literature], everywhere.
Student: A *Chacham* [wise person]?
Instructor: Yeah, a *Talmid Chacham* is a weird… we could go to the *Shein* [possibly referring to a specific text or source] and I’ll find out about that.
Student: Not a *Navi* [prophet]?
Instructor: Not a lot of things. No, I don’t know. That’s why I said it’s more complicated when you start saying, not a philosopher, not a *Navi*. I’m not sure that that’s correct, because that might include those things. What’s not is some event.
You have, very clearly, I think that this can’t be disputed and I don’t think there’s even a debate about it. You could ask something else. You could say, *Talmid Chacham*, or *Talmid Chacham* would also be that, or there’s another kind of good Yid, good person, which is a *Baal Maisim* [person of good deeds].
Instructor: Either you do Torah or you do mitzvos [commandments]. That’s the two things. Either Torah or mitzvos. Called in Chazal [the Sages] generally *Chochmah u’Maaseh* [Wisdom and Action]. Either you do Torah, learn Torah, *Chochmah* [wisdom] — you can include *Nevuah* [prophecy] and philosophy and everything in that if you really want. I don’t think *Talmid Chacham* — although the *Chazon Ish* might, yes, think that’s complicated — and or mitzvah, someone who does mitzvos.
That is what every Yid ever thought is a good person. And ideally both, but okay, sometimes people emphasize this, sometimes they emphasize that, okay.
Instructor: Now, suddenly comes the Baal Shem Tov [founder of Chassidism], or comes *Baalei Mussar* [practitioners of the Mussar movement], the Mussar Movement, so-called, and they come up with new ideals of what is a good person. Very explicitly, not this ideal.
They say, no, a good person, what does the Chassidim say? Who is a good person? Someone who has *dveykus* [cleaving/attachment to God]. That’s what the Chassidim say. If you don’t have *dveykus*, you can do as much as you want. We don’t care about you. That’s what they say, very explicitly. And they’re very conscious, actually, of this, that they’re going against what everyone until before them and after them, like, didn’t think that.
Instructor: [The Chasam Sofer] was an old Yid. He wasn’t a *Misnaged* [opponent of Chassidism]. You see, this doesn’t mean being a *Misnaged*. It’s very clear. The Chassidim have this weird thing that the world divides into Chassidim and *Misnagdim*, but it doesn’t. It divides into normal people and Chassidim and *Misnagdim*. *Misnaged* is also a weirdo, like he’s already against.
Student: Against.
Instructor: *Misnaged* is another… it’s such a…
Student: Another new kind of thing, right?
Instructor: It’s such a mean word.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: You exist to go against us.
Student: Right.
Instructor: So there’s old, just old-fashioned Judaism, or old-fashioned ethics, which is, a good person is someone who does Torah and mitzvos, ideally both. Of, maybe Torah is more than mitzvos, maybe mitzvah is more than Torah, there’s discussions about this, but that’s what it is.
Instructor: Then comes the Baal Shem Tov, and they say, no, a good person, an ideal person, the best person, is the one who has *dveykus*. Who knows what *dveykus* is, but it’s something that’s not Torah mitzvos, that’s for sure. Yeah, Torah mitzvos lead to that, Torah mitzvos are for that, all kinds of *nashtatik lech* [possibly “we’ll say to you” in Yiddish], Torah, but it’s not that.
Same way, in a similar way comes, in a similar way comes, if anyone that was born by Chassidim has a *smagdus* [possibly “smugness” or a Yiddish term] when I say this, but it’s because they’re very used to all these that kind of, it’s like, therefore, there’s nothing more clear than this, that Chassidim come up with a new way of defining who is the best person.
And they even admit it, it’s just Chassidim are very used to weird apologetics. They’re like, yeah, but there was some *Tzaddik* [righteous person] once we could find in the Mishnah [earliest codification of Jewish oral law] that was, didn’t know how to learn, but is still a *Tzaddik* and so on. This is all a distraction. I can’t get into this, but it’s very clear, and there can’t be anything more clear than this.
Now, they might be right, see, they might not be wrong, but it’s a very clear break.
Instructor: The same way, or a different way, but in a similar way, the *Talmidim* [students] of Rabbi Salanter, Rabbi Israel Salanter, and some other Salanters, they came and said that they don’t care if you’re not a learner, they don’t care if you do mitzvos, they care about something new called being a mensch [decent person]. That’s the *Baal Mussar* thing.
We don’t care about it. I mean, of course we care. Of course we care. But in the end, who do we respect? Who do we think is the ideal person who gets praised? Someone who’s a mensch, who has good *middos* [character traits], acts like a mensch. And they come with all these stories, that learning is not enough, blah blah blah, you have to have *middos*.
They mean that he has *yiras Shamayim* [fear of Heaven]. Even something the *Baal Mussar* actually do emphasize. Some of them at least, they say, *yiras Shamayim* and has good *middos*. Okay. But it’s still a very different story than the old story about someone who — that’s the fact, okay?
Instructor: Now, of course, there’s like people like [unclear] who come and try to say very, like, now, so now, let’s, let’s, let’s, let’s explain this. That’s the story.
Now, in my, in my version, this new thing, and these are both modern movements, right? There might be, they all say they have precursors, there are pre-modern movements that say similar things. I don’t know, maybe yes, maybe not, and I’m not really [concerned] by that because I don’t really believe that this is a historical story. I’m just really giving a structural story. There’s ideas about this. It’s not just a historical fact.
Although, ideas do get more and less popular throughout history, but that’s not about that. You’ll find someone, the *Chovos HaLevavos* [Duties of the Hearts, medieval Jewish ethical work] maybe said that. OK, so he’s the same problem. I’m not denying that there might have been people before that said similar things.
Instructor: But what’s important is that we have to understand both of these modern movements. I’m giving it in the modern version, instantiation of this kind of problem, as responses to the same issue, which is that the old fashioned way of like a good person, someone does Torah mitzvos, that’s the Jewish version of it, right, or the ancient version of it.
Instructor: I don’t know how we were discussed. How did Aristotle say, don’t Torah mitzvos? Having intellectual and practical virtues, right? The same thing. The same thing with slightly different details about what the intellect is and what the good actions are, but the same idea.
Instructor: And now, since for various reasons, people stopped understanding that, stopped being able to say that, stopped being able to live that, stopped being able to believe that. One of the reasons we discussed has to do with teleology and so on. But I think there’s even more reasons. Therefore, that’s one very basic reason. Stop seeing goodness as a real thing, something that isn’t a property of people or activities in the world.
Instructor: So therefore, we end up being stuck and looking for some new way. Now, either you could be an idealist. That’s the real, like, flat line here, like the real default now. You could be some guy that thinks that he knows what he’s doing, that he can do whatever he wants. That’s one option, of course. Since we’re all pretending to be religious, that’s not an option. So we have to find a different solution.
Instructor: So one of the solutions was to say *dveykus*, whatever that means, which is definitely not the same thing. It’s something very internal, right? All the criticism that I have of over-internality applies to that.
Instructor: Or something also, in some way, internal. But in any case, I think we also get up mostly stuck in internals, even when they talk about being a mensch. At least the people that I know that are working in their tradition mostly end up thinking that the guy that feels, has empathy with someone is a bigger *tzaddik* than the guy that actually raises money for him.
So they seem to end up in a very similar place, but with different things. They don’t really believe in God. That’s the very different *malchus* [kingship/sovereignty]. See them, other people, right?
Instructor: Since another very weird way of saying this is the very old way that we said this once about the ladder being broken, right? Jacob’s ladder. Jacob’s ladder broke, which means there’s no *malchim* [angels] anymore. Nobody believes in *malchim*, right? There’s a sign of this, which means there’s nothing that makes the world and God work together as some kind of unit, as some kind of coherent, intelligible thing.
Instructor: So now, you have basically, either you could be a nothing, that’s what I said, or you could cling to God anyways, then you destroy the world, that’s Chassidus, or you could cling to the world, whichever perfection can be found in some weird way internally in the world, and destroy God, which is what the *Baalei Mussar* do, they don’t really believe in a God.
Instructor: Or you could find a third way which is the idea of divine command which I’m not sure which one it is, it’s one of these.
Student: It seems to me that people, the common thread that you’re saying, they don’t believe in any real goodness. They don’t believe, they don’t seem to believe in any real substance in it.
Instructor: Yeah, there’s nothing that exists. Nothing exists. There’s no, it’s just, they’re addicts, whatever, something like that. Like, they’re not, there’s no…
Student: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Right. Therefore, if there’s a goodness, it could be only imposed from the outside, that God gave it a meaning, or God told you to do. It doesn’t mean…
Instructor: Yeah, yeah. *Chochmat ha-Kalam* [Islamic theological philosophy/dialectical theology] is this, exactly, in some way. This is the story. That comes as the basic story that we have.
Now, back to where I am. There are certain people that very much are trying to tell the people, they’re all stuck in their own circles, getting stuck because they have this very limited amount of options and very limited picture, very limited view of the world, and therefore get stuck in one of these extremities.
Like, everything is just about *dveikus* [cleaving to God]. I’m not only saying that *dveikus* is a bad thing, but you sort of deny, you become like a *misnaged l’olam* [perpetual opponent], you become like what Schelling said, you can’t have a table standing on one leg, it’s going to fall very quickly. The same way with being a *misnaged* [opponent, particularly of Chassidism], things like that. They all become very too small things, things that don’t really encompass the richness and variability of life.
That’s the real big criticism of one of the big problems with this kind of thing is they become very one-dimensional, like everything becomes about that, and then every other dimension is evil, not the case, usually. That’s usually what happens. And we’ll see, if we’ll get to it, we’ll see exactly why this happens, but that’s what happens.
And now, some people, very few people, actually managed to articulate an opposition to this. It’s very hard to articulate an opposition, especially when you’re working within a world structure, a worldview, which is already the cause of most of these problems. This is the problem.
Student: Also, what you just said, because it’s not that they’re necessarily wrong, but they’re one dimensional. So what you’re going to say is, no, there’s more. And they’re like, it’s harder to make that up.
Instructor: Yeah, that actually makes it easier, because then we’re back to what wisdom has always been doing, which is finding how what you’re saying is only part of the story. There’s ways, but you have to do a lot of work.
So like I said, we could see all of these ways as trying to keep alive or to re-make alive, make to whatever the ancient story is, whatever the true story is, but having a very hard time since most people don’t even have the words within which you can speak it. So you end up either translating yourself into them and then losing a lot, or fighting with them, which is also a very big problematic thing, right?
To be very clear, to fight with the world is also not a perfect way of living. Like to be the one that is always explaining everything is corrupt and everything being a *misnaged* is in itself a way of life, being the one who is against everyone. And it’s not a good way to live. It’s generally evil. Generally, also, because it’s one-dimensional, also, because it doesn’t actually account for how people really are and why they really are the way they are. You just dismiss them by saying, oh, you’re one of these modern people. You’re a heretic. That’s not a real way of understanding what that person is. And therefore, you lose touch with people. There’s a lot of evils in that. It’s itself not a very useful way of living.
So you have to decide what to do. I actually have a very weird…
So now, all the *tzaddikim* [righteous people] basically, everyone who doesn’t want to just submit to nihilism, is looking for a way to solve this problem. Most of them do, I mean, there’s so many ways to deal with it.
But, one of the things they do is to try to speak in the new language and then you lose a lot and some people even forget. Like people don’t realize how much of, people say this about the Rambam [Maimonides], right, famously, and in some sense it’s true, and in other sense it’s not true because people think this only to understand whatever happened, but in some sense, you know, people say this, you know, when the Rambam translated, that’s what they say, it’s not true, but they say the Rambam translated Jewish thoughts into the language of Greek Muslim philosophy, and that was his doing the *yeridat ha-tzaddik* [descent of the righteous one], right? It was *yeridat ha-tzaddik* who goes into the *klippot* [husks/forces of evil] in order to save the other people.
But if you don’t have this problem, then people can make a conclusion. Therefore, if you don’t think the language or speak Greek philosophy, then you have no use of the Rambam. Like Rav Kook [Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook] said, *kafsa ein tzarich l’hadlika* [once extinguished, there’s no need to rekindle it]. There’s some *mitzvot* [commandments] that if they’re *kafsa* [extinguished], we don’t have to reignite them, because it was anyway just a way of speaking in a language of some people.
This is not a correct account of what the Rambam did, but it’s still a true structure. If you do that, I think many people don’t realize how much of the things that they believe. Like, this is the true Judaism. It’s not. This is the true way in which some guy tried to be *machzir b’teshuvah* [bring back in repentance], you want to speak to you in your language. But someone doesn’t have that, it’s even better. And then, that’s one option. Okay?
We’re not trying to, we’re trying not to do that option. That’s my, my thing is to stop doing that, because, mostly not for Jewish reasons, right? Mostly because those *shitot* [approaches/methods] are silly. Why would we try to push ourselves into very stupid ways and very incomplete ways of understanding the world just because everyone thinks that way. That’s not a good enough reason.
Student: What do you refer to? Why we shouldn’t talk in the language that we’re talking?
Instructor: Yeah, like there’s an option. There’s an option like this.
Nowadays everyone believes, remember what do American people believe in? There was a sociologist who said all the people in America, no matter what religion they are, believe in something called moral therapeutic deism. What does that mean? They believe in a God who’s not really involved in the world. He mostly makes you feel good about yourself, and he makes you a good person. He makes you a good person how? I don’t know. He believes that you’re a good person, at least.
Student: Yeah. He makes you think that you’re a good person.
Instructor: I don’t know. I don’t know. Give *tzedakah* [charity]. Sometimes help your neighbor. Basic things. That’s what everyone, basically, in America believes. And if you look at all the… and one of the books written was called *Catholic, Protestant, Jew*, right? The three kind of religious people in America, they all basically believe this. They just sing different songs in their churches. And sometimes they don’t even sing different songs. But basically, that’s all they all believe.
And then one of the things that many rabbis do, and every version, like you could say, came and told you that the power of positive thinking, wow, half of Chabad is this. Half of Chabad, like outreach, when they get to the content. I’m not talking about the *mitzvot* or things like that. Like that *Bitachon* [trust/faith in God] guy, the *Bitachon* guy, the *Bitachon* guy.
Student: *Bitachon* guy, so *Bitachon* guy is a very American, it’s called toxic positivity, a very American trait.
Instructor: Yeah, you know the *Bitachon* guy, they put it in the sheets. *Bitachon Weekly*, that’s what it is.
Student: No, no, that’s not radical, that’s different, not radical. He just says, he just talks about it. He’s not radical.
Instructor: That’s what he’s trying to say, he’s saying that he believes in toxic positivity.
Student: Possible, but I think that he’s more sincere.
Instructor: Okay, he’s a really religious guy. I used to think what you’re saying, I just, I read it, I’m like, this is just secular.
Student: Yeah, all of this, it’s the power of positive thinking. You could find Oprah believes in the same thing.
Instructor: And many other, basically everyone in America believes in that. She’s not around anymore, whatever. I don’t know. All these people, I mean, now there’s new things that’s ready. But this is something still very much accepted. And therefore, that’s what you teach. And you say this is Judaism. It’s not not Judaism. I mean, yeah, I’m sure there’s some sources for that and somewhat true. But it’s a very great watering down.
And it’s a very great thing so that’s one thing you could do or you could even people think that’s the whole *Yiddishkeit* [Judaism]?
Student: Try to design it as the whole *Yiddishkeit*? One idea or end of *Yiddishkeit*?
Instructor: What did we say, don’t be *misyayesh* [despairing], remember? Basically that. That’s basically what the revelation of *Yiddishkeit*, yeah. Not *misyayesh*, it’s like to be hard on yourself. Now you’re saying, *tracht gut vet zein gut* [think good and it will be good], this is all one, it depends, it’s different from the rest of us. The American trust is that everything is good, Hashem loves you, and He needs you, and all of this. But kids, this is just an end of doubt.
I’m not talking about you. You’re not the customers for these kinds of things anyways ever, so you don’t even understand it. But there’s more sophisticated ways of doing it that do stick to you. Slightly more sophisticated ways. And every generation, and every group of people, whatever they really believe basically, or whichever framework they really believe.
By the way, it’s a very great thing to make people good people within their framework because it’s hard enough. It’s hard enough to just keep on being normally good people that provide for their families and don’t steal and don’t kill. And more or less, it’s hard enough. It’s a great achievement if you can do that. I’m not here to denigrate anyone that’s doing that. I think that’s real work.
Student: Is that considered a low bar, though?
Instructor: No, it’s not a low bar. I think it’s a lot. I think it’s a lot. I think it’s a lot. I don’t think that, as I said, you have to remember that the default is something much worse than that. All the clichés in the world are better than whatever they’re doing in Brooklyn, okay? I don’t know where it’s now, like, hipster central, whatever. All of that is, all of that is, it’s still, it’s a great achievement, it’s a lot, I don’t think it’s a little.
And secondly, because I think that there is a real criticism to be made, not because we’ve inherited this tradition that says other things and so on. No, no, not because, look, if you follow that, you end up saying that half of the real things in the Torah are—you end up having everything being a problem, and all the things in the Torah were good are really bad, and all the things that are said are bad are really good, and why we end up making every sermon is about reinterpreting what the Torah says is good. I really meant to say that it’s bad. When the Torah says something is bad, it really meant to say that it’s good. And who told us what is really going to run is really bad? The New York Times editorial board.
So, that’s—I’m not even saying that, that’s something I say sometimes, but that’s not, I’m not even saying that. Even that is still better than being a horrible person which already full, but I’m saying something different. What I’m saying is that *betor goy* [as a thinking person], not *betor yeled* [as a child], very important, *betor goy*, *betor guy* [as a person] that likes to think critically, or even that is a word that they’ve stolen from us, but that likes to think, this basic worldview within which all these people are working—it’s very silly, at least incomplete. It’s even worse than that, but it’s at least incomplete. And it’s not serious. It’s very basically not serious.
I give you all the reasons why I think it’s not serious, but it’s basically not serious. I mean, that’s what I do every week. I give you the reasons why I think it’s not serious. It’s not serious. So, forget about if the Torah says it, or if it matches, or it doesn’t fit in the Torah, the Torah fits into it, the Torah doesn’t fit in the Torah. Right? Forget about the question.
Should the solution to every question that comes up in the education of your children be that there’s a therapist that knows the answer? Besides for that not being well, you know, we have experienced education of children and teenagers and adults for like 5,000 years or however long, and somehow we’ve managed to live without all these people. That’s one silly argument. But besides for that, it’s just not serious. They don’t actually solve anything.
You should call the—this is not that rant, anyways, right? You should call the school, the *menahel* [principal], that every time he has a problematic kid sent to a therapist, then you should ask them for the how many kids that therapist actually helped. They give you numbers. Like out of the 70 people that had problems, they saw it. I’m not trying to help. You might be off for a minute.
Okay. Now you’re giving other questions. I’m just saying the kids are not serious. It’s basically not serious. That’s the main problem. So I have a different problem that’s just not serious. These people never really thought about what real problems are, never thought of what solutions might be. It’s just not serious.
But that’s a problem that I have with our *mensch* [person/people]. Therefore, where did I get into all of this? Therefore, and now I have a pile of people that say, well even if it’s not serious, but the Rav said, the Rav didn’t say that, I was trying to help you. Don’t be so silly, don’t be so not serious, and let’s try to listen to when the Rav *hacks on you* [criticizes you]. Maybe he’s trying to say something better then. How about you listen to the Rav when they’re *hacking* [criticizing]? Of course, they don’t really understand either, but at least they’re representing something that’s like much older than your thoughts, right?
I mean, that’s like one of the basic conservative intuitions, like something that most people in the universe thought for the past 3,000 years, probably they said something. They were crazy, maybe. But it’s probably worth to think about what they said. That’s just one heuristic, not really an argument.
But my point is more that since this is not serious, like you see that it’s not serious, there should be a way to present this serious way, not because of the need of the Judaism. Judaism doesn’t need it. Judaism will survive very well with all the silly people teaching clichés. And that’s already good. I can think of worse things than that. So that’s not my problem. I’m not here to save Judaism. It’s going to serve us much better with those other people. I’m just here to, for me and the people like me that are trying to be serious, trying to have serious thoughts, to be able to do that in a serious way. That’s all.
Now, going back to the *Holy Chazanish* [unclear reference]. Now, we find that within the people that are standing against the world, there are various kinds.
Now those who don’t really know why and what, and they’re just talking, okay. They might be helpful in some sense, just by creating space to like, not automatically accept whatever it is.
Student: Yeah, like questions without answers, basically?
Instructor: They don’t even have questions. Because they can’t even explain to you what’s wrong with the world. They can only like scream, which is not even an argument. It’s socially somewhat useful, but not more than that.
But then, there’s some very interesting people, people, very few of them, that actually do think. There are such people that they actually do think. And they do try to articulate what is wrong with the world, or try to at least give their alternative version of how things should make sense.
I don’t know. In the Jewish context, there’s basically none that are really good at it. They might be like Catholics and people like that. Even, yeah, let’s not get into this *lashon hara* [evil speech] on the *Eden* [unclear]. Anyways, even some of our enemies have better, more complete theories of the world and of what’s going on than any of us do. That’s *baruch* [blessed/unfortunate]. We have more value than any other enemy. Enemy is just people that want us dead. It’s easy to be. That’s the simple definition.
But even some of them have more complete understandings of how everything works, though they might have their own fallacies and problems. But they do have some understanding of what’s going on, which basically no one in the Jewish context says. It’s very weird.
The Jews that we know, there’s only two kinds. One of them is the reactionary people, people who are like, just do whatever we’ve always done. And they’re not doing whatever they’ve always done, but that’s a different problem. And everything outside is bad. They don’t really know what the outside means and what bad means and so on. Those are the one kind of people.
Student: Why are they called reactionary?
Instructor: Because they’re just reacting against modernity or against whatever it is.
Student: Oh, they’re against the, yeah.
Instructor: Yeah. Like, I don’t know, my great grandmother didn’t drive because there were no cars in her town, but I think my wife shouldn’t drive either for the same reason. Those are the people. And if you ask them why, they start saying, they just don’t even say it. Then, that’s just one version.
And then there’s the smart people. We call them the dumb people. Everyone thinks that my whole *shiur* [lesson] is already three times more advanced, so we’re already supporting that. But everyone thinks that those are the dumb Jews.
Then there’s the smart Jews, like all the—who? Who’s the smart Jews? The sophisticated ones, right? The ones who discovered that the Torah’s ethics is precisely New York Times’ altruism. That’s one kind. There’s even ones that now, now that we have, like, Breitbart or some of the discoveries that is actually that, which is not a very dumb thing. It’s also reactionary and very not deep usually, but that’s one other thing.
And then there’s all these, like, sophisticated people that, in all kinds of various ways, still 100% the people that are thinkers. I don’t know who you know and who you read and so on, but as far as I can tell, all of them basically accept every single metaphysical commitment of this nonsense theory. They just try to work within it. Non-metaphysical, anti-metaphysical commitments, right?
In other words, do you know of a modern Jewish thinker that believes in angels? Because I don’t know of one pre-modern thinker that doesn’t. That’s my, my, my *siman* [sign]. If you, angelology is an important part of your Judaism, then you’re an ancient Jew. If it’s not, if you have a kid when he asks instead of angels, we could consider you. But other than that, there’s no modern Jewish basically.
The modern are totally not *mekubalim* [kabbalists]. They don’t really believe in the existence of any of these things. They just think it’s all psychology, which is nonsense. So there’s no modern Jewish thinking that believes in angels.
Student: So therefore, they’re all not serious. When you believe in angels, what do you mean by that? I’m trying to know.
Instructor: No, exactly, because psychology could also be a real thing, right?
Student: No, what I’m saying, I really just want a definition.
Instructor: Not enough real angels.
Student: No, no, no. This is all the sophisticated people convince themselves it’s nonsense. Angels are intermediate beings. Do you believe in causation? Do you believe in causation, basically? That’s one *nimshal* [analogy/application]. When Burton says that, he means that.
Student: No, when I say angels, I mean *malachim* [angels]. *Malachim mamash* [actual angels]. *Malachim mamash*, like it says in the symposium messengers from God to man and from man to God.
Instructor: What does that mean?
Student: Oh when you say messenger what does messenger mean?
Instructor: I think with wings.
Student: So not with wings?
Instructor: I don’t know that’s a different question there’s a lot of wings there’s God listen there is God there is God psychology or—
Student: Yeah of course psychology meaning something that’s only in me for sure.
Instructor: Yeah, sure. Yeah. Something between… You mean it comes to me in that way?
Student: No, no. It might come through that. Nobody disputes that. But it’s something real. Something external to your soul. Yeah. That’s what an angel is. An angel is not a part of your soul.
Instructor: Is a thought also… Hold on. A thought is also part… Let’s move on. I’m just wondering if you’re saying, is it the same thing as a thought?
Student: No. When you say a thought, usually you think something that exists because of you. Not exists… Maybe you exist because of it. Not because it exists before you. Greater than you. External to the mind. Has an independent existence. That’s an angel. Otherwise that’s not an angel. Doesn’t do what an angel has to do.
So, anyone that believes in *malachim*, that *Rambam* [Maimonides] believes in *malachim*, he doesn’t think *malachim* are things in your head. I’m just wondering what this belief is.
Instructor: What is this entity? We’ll get into discussion. When we’ll do angelology, then we’ll start having discussions what they are. But now you don’t even have room for such a thing in your world. Do you understand my problem?
My problem is not that you don’t think *maluchim* [malachim: angels] do have wings, and I’m saying they don’t have wings. No, they’re just intellects. Okay. But when I say intellects, you think something in your head. It’s not something in your head, it’s some real thing. Something that the world doesn’t make sense without. And it’s not God and it’s not us thinking about God. Okay? Something in between those two things. Okay? In between, in the central.
And also not in our thoughts, which is our world. Right. Not dependent on your thoughts. Everything can come in your thoughts. Human thoughts are straight, this crazy weird thing that can somehow touch everything. But not only about, because of your thoughts. Okay?
Why am I saying this? Those things think by themselves, those without you.
Student: Yeah, of course.
Instructor: Right. Things that don’t go away when you close your eyes. Remember? No, don’t not going to do with you at all, even if you’re dead, it’s still, it’s existing, it’s… Again, we can get into discussions. Maybe, maybe it needs you to give it food to continue to live. I don’t know. You understand? We can have discussions. But the existence of a space in the world for such a kind of being, you understand what I’m talking about? That’s something that we lost, that we don’t have.
Now, why am I saying any of this? Because that’s the second type of Jew, that doesn’t believe in the angels.
Student: Oh, very good. So, it gets it.
Instructor: So, there’s only these two kinds of Jews. The Jews that say they believe in angels, but they don’t know what angels are. They’ve never seen any of them. No angels will talk to them because they’re too stupid for them. And, yeah, you know? You know why the only one who doesn’t come to the *Fremi Eden* [Frum Yidden: Orthodox Jews]? Because he doesn’t like to talk to *Mishigun* [meshugaim: crazy people]. The other guys, he doesn’t come because they don’t believe in him. It would be very hard for him to come. But the *Fremi Eden* doesn’t come because the *Mishigun*. So, who should he talk to? Only to me, basically.
Now, this is a very very deep joke. So, this is the *Bayat* [Beis Yaakov: a religious educational movement], so we don’t have any one, right? We basically don’t have that.
So now, what we do have, so this is a very sad situation, and we’re here to solve the situation. This is my conspiracy. We’re going to solve the situation and create this whole school of people that believe in angels. Finished. Not because if you believe it will start the…
If you ask a writer, I’ve told you many times. If Peter and the Lakewood, everyone believes in *Chayadim* [shedim: demons]. Why? Because they don’t believe in *Chayadim*. They believe in the *Gemurah* [Gemara: Talmud]. They believe they have to say it because it says in the *Gemurah* and we don’t pass on that grammar. OK.
And you want them to say, if you remember, you said once that the biggest lie that they don’t believe in *Chayadim* is because someone says, I just saw a shade. Everyone laughs at you. No one believes you. Right. Because they don’t believe in *Chayadim*. I’ve said this for a long time. I think you should say you believe in *Chayadim*. You never walked into that dark alley like, oh my god…
That’s one of the solutions, right? That’s one of the solutions, weird modern solutions of saying that everything is about the text and it says the mitzvah, it’s a *khir* [chiyuv: obligation] and so on. So the kids said, this is the *mahal* [mashal: parable/analogy].
Now, what we’re going to do, how we’re going to do this, I don’t know why I’m saying this, but what we’re going to do or one of the things we can do is that there are some very, so out of all the Jews in the world, all the Jews living in the mountain, there must be more. I’m thinking, I don’t know. It can’t be. Maybe there’s very few Jews and the few Jews don’t really realize. I don’t know why there’s so few Jews even trying to do this? I don’t know why. Or maybe there are, there aren’t, it’s just Michigan. I’m not sure.
So, we have to try to find a few people that have enough courage and enough independent thought, they basically just think for themselves, and are able to tell us how to think about the world and how to go about this.
Now, I think that this [the Chazon Ish] was one of the only people that actually thought in like the last 100 years. Of course he was also a *frum* [religiously observant] and also therefore *Mashiach* [meshuga: crazy]. So when you read it, sometimes like for one line he’s thinking and then the next line he’s just saying, and you have to know, this is a big word, it’s hard for me to know because I don’t know myself. Maybe sometimes when I think he’s just saying that, he’s really thinking, I just didn’t get the thought. Because because it’s one of the shortcuts people always use, like even me. I say, as it says, you have to believe it. That’s not a reason for anyone to listen to what I’m saying. But that’s a shortcut that people that have authority and that are used to the world of authority and speaking in authority do always. So it’s very hard to understand when they’re doing it.
But what you could notice, I think, is that he is trying very hard, and he wrote this little book that’s very incomplete and very not fleshed out. I think it’s a very… Many of the things he does are like this, not only in *Alecha* [Halacha: Jewish law], also he has this problem. But it’s very not fleshed out, and there’s a lot of things where he noticed the real problem and then just closes it with some weird, like, an *imam* [Ani Ma’amin: “I believe” – statement of faith]. But…
Student: I mean, isn’t it his thing to not go for verity in some schools?
Instructor: Yeah, but he also usually doesn’t have enough. It’s like, he very often realizes something very good and then gets stuck somewhere. Or like, his argument could go both ways, and he doesn’t even realize that the same good thought that he has actually proves the other side also just as much as it proves his, things like that. He just seems to be very, very quick to jump off that. I’ll give you an example, a very concrete example that I found last week about what he reads here.
But one thing he does that most people don’t do is actually think. Like he actually tries to do this activity called thinking. And yeshivas don’t teach you to think. They teach you to do what *Chachikdi* [chakira: analytical inquiry] does, to mix up a bunch of thoughts that other people have and put it in the right order. He actually thinks sometimes. He uses books. He looks to think, he uses authority to think, but he doesn’t only repeat what the authority does. He thinks. He tries to also identify. He tries to think until he agrees with what it says or until he believes it. Okay? And he talks about this explicitly in his little book, I think.
So, and therefore it’s very valuable, extremely valuable just for this. Maybe there’s some other people that did this. I don’t think there’s other people because, like I said, either they’re *Mishigom* who just say, *shtetn alegatoid* [standing on the Gemara] and go to heaven if they don’t believe, whatever, or they’re… They’re just already accepted upon themselves the yoke of everything that whoever is the professor of their study believes. And they’re just trying to make something work within that.
Student: Didn’t [the Meshech Chochma]…?
Instructor: No, I don’t mean that you should come to the… You don’t find that he thinks like in the…
Student: I don’t know. I don’t find him thinking.
Instructor: Really? He says very good [pshatim: interpretations]…
Student: [Pshatim] are not thinking.
Instructor: No, he’s not. It’s at least not revealed. He had a thought. I can’t say they didn’t think.
Student: No, but it’s very hard to know if someone’s wrong.
Instructor: It’s one of the secrets. I think he thought it was real problems. That could be, but that could be not. Because he’s smart and he read a lot of things. But you don’t know, as far as I’ve read his book, I haven’t found him ever thinking. You can’t prove this. It’s not possible. If you could read *Mordechai* [a medieval Talmudic commentary] in a very textual way, you’d be able to call this a trap.
Student: No, *Mordechai* was very explicit.
Instructor: Yeah, that’s true. Also, *Mesh Chachma* [Meshech Chochma] is basically wrong in most of the *Ashgafas* [hashkafos: philosophical/theological perspectives]. But that’s different.
Student: What’s the proof that Lebowitz liked it?
Instructor: So, no, he’s also very modern in his thinking and he doesn’t ever think through it. Most of the things that people know of him he’s saying, he’s very stuck in certain dichotomies. But I can’t get into this. It’s not, you can’t prove that someone thought that. It’s a very important thing. Nobody could prove if someone else thought. It’s a secret. You could just say, you could write the same without thinking.
Student: Yeah, of course.
Instructor: The *Moinu L’Vechem* [Moreh Nevuchim: Maimonides’ Guide for the Perplexed] actually is a book that does think. And in that sense, it’s different than most other, even the *Shainim* [Rishonim: early medieval authorities], because most of them don’t do thinking. I haven’t seen any other ones.
Student: Yeah. There are other ones that think.
Instructor: I know. I know when you’re talking about that, there are other ones. But the *Moinu L’Vechem* doesn’t, does a lot of, does thinking and, obviously, one of the ways to see it is that he has open questions, right? Sometimes he’s *Megamkem* [megamgem: hesitant, stammering]. Sometimes he’s like Moshe Rabbeinu [Moses our teacher]. Sometimes he’s *Chabad Per, Chabad Leshem* [heavy of mouth and heavy of tongue – referring to Moses’s speech impediment].
Now some people they always every *shaykh* [shiur: Torah lecture] they say is beautifully wrapped and finishes and ever you know he starts with 17 *kashas* [kushyos: questions] on the *post* [posuk: verse] and at the end he finished he finished all 17 *kashas* that’s a bluff maybe there’s one *kasha* this one actually no I don’t know that shows you that he’s very otherwise you’re saying a nice Torah okay no problem it’s backwards so *Meshach* [Meshech Chochma] will never stand with *Tzarechim* [tzarich iyun: requires further study] like *Tzarechim* is a basic thing like this I’m puzzled by this and it’s very hard actually that’s the whole book.
He doesn’t openly, but I think it’s very, his themes of his thoughts are way more obvious than anyone else’s, which shows that at least for one line, yeah, explains how hard it is to ask questions. *Ghazalij* [Al-Ghazali: medieval Islamic philosopher] doesn’t, of course he doesn’t, but I think that when you read him thinking about basic stuff, you’ll notice that for one line he thought, and then the next line doesn’t actually answer that thought, which means that he got upset at himself and he’s like…
He’s like, I don’t know. That’s, I know that, I know I actually have many teachers that act in that way, and I respect them very much. Because they’re not lying to themselves. They do lie. They do, they are *frooms* [frum: religiously observant]. They’re afraid of, and that’s not only *froom* kind. There’s also a certain wisdom. Because the other people that are like, take one thought and then just run with it are seriously dumb. They’re one dimensional also.
You know, most of the people that you know, write blogs about how rationalist they are. They basically have one thought, or a quarter of a thought in their life. And they just like, follow through all of them, all the conclusions from that. But that’s not very smart like basic wisdom is to there’s another side of that so if someone says well this sound seems to be correct and he has a line of that real thinking and then he’s like so okay so he tapped to me interpreter saying okay but I’m not the first one to think in the world much of any or whoever thought also also from now I’ll just move on right.
Student: But it seems that you do the same thing with the ancient versus the modern like you don’t see so much like the modern, out of serious thinkers.
Instructor: No, it’s not true. It’s just because you people are so that I have to hack enough to get it out. What were the balance lines? Yeah, it’s just balance. I’m not sure. They’re very serious. Not only are they very serious, all their arguments are already saying Plato. Saying Plato? Yeah. They didn’t really invent any new arguments. They just did exactly that. Just take one side of the argument. They’re on with it.
So that’s why I said in the beginning of the sheet, this start of the story is not really the best framing. I should stop doing it. But it’s hard enough to get people to understand what I’m saying we’re going to do it with this clutch of this.
Instructor: But if I do it without it, you’ll really go crazy. But it’s really, all these theories are worth their forever. Like the sultan, like I told you, the sultan that spoke to the Adam HaRishon [Adam: the first human being] already said all those arguments. It’s not anymore. Freud and Jung and everything was different. Yeah, all of it. Really? Yeah. If you actually read ancient texts, you’ll find them, all the arguments. And if you read some like modern academics, they’re always doing this. Like, oh, people say Descartes invented this. But really, it’s some guy from 1,000 years before. This is what we have. This is what we have. Yeah, that’s only the ones written down. It’s a whole society of people who thought about all the time, but also that. Correct.
So nothing is really new. Or describing things historically is not the best way, but I’m doing this this way because it’s at least a framework that people have in their head that at least helps you to be able to grasp what’s going on. But that’s very important. I don’t do it very well. I always attempt to finish up shiurim [Torah classes] in a way that it makes it seem like it’s closed up.
But that’s the sign. The sign is when you see him thinking very clearly and then suddenly, where did his clarity go? Oh, he woke up. Okay, no problem, I get it. So that’s what I think about him. And I think, that’s the general thing that I noticed, that he has these very clear thoughts, and then also does not, by default, when he thinks, and many people that I know think that they think for themselves, but they really just repeat themselves what the New York Times wants you to think. Because that’s naturally, or by default, what people end up thinking. Or if you’re the opposite, you say everything the opposite. Slavery is good. Slavery is bad. I don’t know.
Aristotle wrote three chapters about if slavery is good or bad. There are good arguments on both sides already in that book, The Politics, and even more ancient books. So, if you decide one of, if it’s obvious to you one or the other side, then you’re not serious. So, that’s the thing.
Now, the problem with the Chazon Ish is two things that I shouldn’t really do is I should tell you some things that he says and to show this to you, but the general thing, problem I have is two problems.
One is that he doesn’t really have the full picture, the full ancient picture. He’s still missing a lot. He ends up getting very frustrated. He’s still getting frustrated because he doesn’t have the full picture. He doesn’t have, he can’t really account for everything in the full way. That’s one thing.
And the second thing is that the clutches that he uses to hold up his old beliefs are very dumb. So, the dumbest one being this idea of tzivui [צִוּוּי: divine command], of God’s commands.
Because, for example, and get back, now we’re going to back to where we came from, and we’ll try to continue a little bit, but we can go back where we came from. Where we came from is that there’s this modern belief that what matters is only what’s in your heart, right? That’s what it means, right? It must mean that, right? That’s what we think, and there’s even a three-word statement from Chazal [חז״ל: the Sages] that obviously matches all our biases, that says Rachmana liba ba’ei [רַחֲמָנָא לִבָּא בָּעֵי: “God wants the heart”], right? That’s not a serious way of thinking, obviously, but—
So we have the best hearts, or the different version of what a heart is, but same idea, right?
And now comes the Chazon Ish and he’s looking at these people and there’s this book, famous book, wrote, what’s it called, the Chazon Ish’s friend, what?
Student: Yeshiva.
Instructor: Yeshiva. And many people have said that if you want to understand the Chazon Ish, he does a somewhat better job of explaining the characters that he’s fighting with. Because the Chazon Ish is not a very good writer. He tries to be a writer, but he’s not very good at describing characters and stuff like that. He was a novelist. He was his friend. He was his chavrusa [חַבְרוּסָא: study partner], Chaim Grade. And he wrote a book or two about, basically about the Chazon Ish. He doesn’t say his name. He calls him something else, but it’s basically about him and the characters around him and how the different ways of living life.
And one of the things you see is how the Chazon Ish is living in this world. And he’s just living with all these people with different radical ideas or different concepts of what a good person is. And he’s very much trying to hold on to this very ancient thing. But he also thinks that it’s a lot more sophisticated. And this is the important thing.
He realizes, and this is, I gave a very important class last week. You should listen to it. It’s [unclear reference], but you should listen to it, because I can’t repeat the same that I gave there.
Student: Yeah, I started listening to it.
Instructor: That you notice, if you’re smart enough, most people are not smart enough to even get to the first step, and they’re so excited about the first step, they never move on. But if you notice, if you read all these matters, all these people, right, you read Chassidus [חֲסִידוּת: Hasidic teachings], or you read Mussar [מוּסָר: ethical/character development teachings], or you read, what else do people read? Nobody here reads anything, so.
Anyways, if you read Chassidus, you read the, and you notice at some point that all these people are crazily simplistic, they’re repetitive and boring, in a very significant way. Like the sefarim [סְפָרִים: books] you open on the Mussar shelf, one of the Mussar shmussen [מוּסָר שְׁמוּעָסֶן: ethical discourses], they say nothing for pages on end and they consider themselves the smartest, wisest, truest people on God’s given earth, right? What is going on here?
And they’re like, we, the Yeshivas, they’re just talking, they’re just talking, they love this, we’re like, we don’t understand humanity, right? That’s what the Ba’alei Mussar [בַּעֲלֵי מוּסָר: masters of ethical teachings] claim, right? All of them, every single Ba’al Mussar worth anything, I’m not going to give names here, right, they all have this thought that we got, we understand the human being.
And nowadays, it’s called something else, Toras Hanefesh [תּוֹרַת הַנֶּפֶשׁ: psychology/teachings of the soul], you read the guy’s theories. He doesn’t understand nothing. He has like a half of a quarter of a theory. And he’s like, wow, he’s so impressed by it. It’s like now, right, the same idea. He’s a psychologist. He gets people. He gets people.
And then the Chazon Ish is looking at these people, and he’s like, he’s very smart, Chazon Ish, you have to realize. He’s a really talented guy. And his mind works quicker than most people. And he’s ready to think. Two very important ingredients they need for anything to make sense. You have to both have a quick mind, because it takes you forever to get to a thought. It’s just going to take a very long, and you have to have a lot of courage, you have to actually think.
And he’s listening to these people, and he’s listening to the shmoozen [שְׁמוּעָסֶן: ethical discourses] and the Torah of blah blah blah, and he’s explaining to you how people fool themselves sometimes. And then he writes 14 volumes about how people fool themselves. And you’re listening to this, and you’re like, yeah, okay, and now, what are you getting to with this? Like, what are you trying to tell me? And he’s like, yeah, you should always remember that people fool themselves, okay? And it seems to me that you’re fooling yourself pretty well while you’re doing all of this. You didn’t really get past. This is not just an argument of like, oh, you’re the same thing.
The argument is that Choshen Mishpat [חוֹשֶׁן מִשְׁפָּט: the section of Jewish law dealing with civil and monetary matters], look, I learned Choshen Mishpat with Shach [שַׁ״ךְ: Rabbi Shabbetai HaKohen, major 17th-century commentator] and Ketzos [קְצוֹת הַחוֹשֶׁן: “Ketzos HaChoshen,” major 18th-century commentary]. I want to tell you something. The understanding of humanity that’s in the Shach of Choshen Mishpat is 10,000 miles deeper than your understanding of negius [נְגִיעוּת: bias/self-interest]. They literally wrote 14 volumes about Choshen Mishpat negius, Choshen Mishpat shochad [שׁוֹחַד: bribery], whatever, not exact. But things like that. The whole Choshen Mishpat is about people deluding themselves, right? I think that’s collusion. You think it’s collusion. What do we do?
And it happens to be that Choshen Mishpat seems to have a much more sophisticated and detailed understanding of humanity than the Ba’al Mussar, who thinks he’s so much smarter than halacha [הֲלָכָה: Jewish law], that’s for naval birshus haTorah [נָבָל בִּרְשׁוּת הַתּוֹרָה: “a scoundrel with the Torah’s permission” – someone who technically follows the law but violates its spirit], that one with the Torah. I have understanding. And then he says, well, I’ve been to the Torah with you, Ba’al Mussar. It is all good. Because you’re going to—
And there’s a story. I told you the story. I’m not going to read the stories. It doesn’t matter. When you go to the Torah with Ba’al Mussar, any time, you have in your yeshiva those mashgichim [מַשְׁגִּיחִים: spiritual supervisors] who are Ba’alei Mussar, you have an argument with him. He’s the stupidest guy, not only stupid, he’s the most self-righteous rasha [רָשָׁע: wicked person] that you can think of, and he’s some—he would be a real good rasha, like, you enjoy his iron signs and that. He’s stupid, he’s like simplistic, and the guy walks around as if he figured out humanity. And nobody else figured out humanity.
And there’s something very funny here. The general sickness of people who think they’ve discovered human nature. Right, true. Some of them did discover something. These people didn’t discover something. No, I’m not, I’m not kidding about that. Come on, I’m going to get at it.
The Chazon Ish is this guy that spends hours and hours every day reading, you know, Tosafos [תּוֹסָפוֹת: medieval Talmudic commentaries], Rambam [רַמְבַּ״ם: Maimonides] and Shachs and these complicated things and he learns halacha lemaaseh [הֲלָכָה לְמַעֲשֶׂה: practical Jewish law], right? It’s not a Brisker [בְּרִיסְקֶר: referring to the Brisker analytical method] that makes everything into philosophy. He reads it as commentary on human condition, right? What do you do? Not only what do you do in the sense of the psak [פְּסַק: halachic ruling], it’s much deeper than that, right?
Halacha is really about life in a much deeper sense than Mussar is, right? If you learn about halacha in the halacha way, right? It’s not theoretical. It’s about the complexity of human relations, when I’m not talking about tzitzis [צִיצִית: ritual fringes], I think that he gets stuck when he talks about in this way. I think it’s a little confusing. Although maybe I’m the one wrong, because I’m limited here from [Chassidish background]. But think about the other day, think about Yoreh Deah [יוֹרֶה דֵּעָה: section of Jewish law dealing with ritual matters], Choshen Mishpat. These are things, really getting into the kishkes [קִישְׁקֶעס: Yiddish – guts/innards] of what it means to be a human being.
And it’s never, and you never, and the important thing is you never come out of the way you went into it, at least from the [Chazon Ish’s approach], right? Many people, they just end up with the same biases. But he doesn’t, because not only because people think that this is very important, whoever learns or things like that should realize. But people that have this story like this.
There’s two kinds of [poskim – halachic decisors]. One of them, whenever, before he even opened any book, he knows already what the psak is going to be. He just has to find it out, right? And why? Because he has a basic—he has an understanding of those things. He has an understanding of what you need, and he gives it to you. No problem. Usually those people make a lot of sense, or at least for the people that think in similar ways to them, right?
Then there’s the people, the Litvaks [לִיטְוָאקִים: Lithuanian Jews, referring to the non-Hasidic Orthodox tradition] say that seems false, right? That you’re just putting your own biases in the Torah. No, the correct way is that you don’t know what halacha is, and you ask the Torah, you look in the Shulchan Aruch [שֻׁלְחָן עָרוּךְ: the authoritative code of Jewish law], and you pasken [פּוֹסְקִים: rule] what the Shulchan Aruch says, that’s what people think of the Shach, two options. And this is a very good notion of the story, these are the two options that people think of in general about humanity.
Now I think the Chazon Ish teaches a third option, and I always try to teach a third option. And third option is like this. Of course, I have an opinion about what should be before I read it. Otherwise, I don’t know a person. And of course, authority of the text is one.
Yeah, it’s true. Authority is important. We can’t go against somebody that says clearly in all the Persian and so on. There’s a Latin word for this. And so on and so on. Okay.
But now the main thing that we’re doing when we’re learning is not either of these two things. For the first thing, we’ll just do what Rabbi Something does and just say the psak [halachic ruling]. And if he has time, write a teshuva [responsum/halachic essay] for him because he’s smart enough to write a teshuva. If you’re doing the second thing, also you just ask the bottom notes of Piskei Teshuvos [a contemporary halachic reference work] and do whatever it is. Both of these things don’t make you learn.
What’s the point of learning? The point of learning is that you think you’re so smart, and you have this intuition, this svara [logical reasoning/understanding] of what halacha [Jewish law] should be, and then you open up the Gemara [Talmud], and you say the Gemara also thought of what you thought for one second, and the next time they thought of the second thing, and the third time they thought of the third thing, and they finish the sugya [Talmudic passage/topic] with the third svara, you have 14 different ways to think.
Not 14 different ways that the Rambam [Maimonides] says, so what should I do? He actually opened up a different way. He said, wait, could you think about it from a different angle? And now you’re like, wait, now I really don’t know what to do. Now you have to actually count, figure out with—all these angles are just complexity of reality, right? They’re not svaros [plural of svara].
When people think that svaros are things in your head, that’s the same problem, right? Svaros are not things in your head. Svaros are descriptions of reality, right?
Someone, what was the—right? He’s [one party in a dispute], and the other guy wants to be the Rav [rabbi/halachic authority] also, and of course he’s right, because, okay, but did you think about another way of describing this story in which the other guy is right? Did you think of a third way, and a fourth way, and a fifth way?
That’s the way the Chazon Ish [Rabbi Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz, 1878-1953] reads halacha, and he reads the whole history of the law in this way, and he tries to learn from each one. If he doesn’t agree with some, he says—but he’s not someone that believes [in simple faith in authorities]. If he’s wrong, he’s wrong, no problem, but usually the people that he trusts enough to make him think, right? They’re making him think.
And he never comes out of the sugya with the bias that he went in. Even if he does, he’s now much more sophisticated about it. He now understands the reality a lot clearer, a lot better. Not worse.
Many people, they start off with a good theory and then they end up all confused because they put in all these eminences [authorities], all these katharsis [possibly: categories/distinctions]. He has a clear understanding because in the reality, every shita [legal position/opinion] is because of a certain viewpoint of reality that you missed because you were so smart and you knew how it is.
Now, this is very basic to anyone that actually knows how to learn ever. But most people don’t do it. And especially those people that are mizavlan [dismissive of] learning, they’re like, wow, they’re learning people that just—because they think that the only way to learn would be to learn in the authority way. And therefore, they’re like, no, but we’re just good people.
You’re not good people. You understand a quarter or about a quarter of a percent of what it makes a person tick when the Shulchan Aruch [the Code of Jewish Law] understands. So the Shulchan Aruch is just a lot better.
By the way, I give this mashal [parable/example] for—because I do have this, like, Protestant thought, always, that bein adam l’chaveiro [interpersonal law/ethics], it doesn’t really matter. But in a certain sense, it’s the same thing, right?
Like, I know how to keep Shabbos [the Sabbath]. You rest. All right? Do you really know what rest is? You can do what Socrates used to do to people and try to make them tell you what rest is, and you’ll notice that they don’t know.
Does Hilchos Shabbos [the laws of Shabbos] know? I don’t know. In Hilchos Shabbos, at least, there’s a 14-fold more complicated understanding of what rest is that has something to do with the reality.
Now, are we applying the reality correctly? Do we understand halacha correctly? And is the world different? Those are all legitimate questions. But it definitely has a much more sophisticated theory of what means the rest. And not only what means—that not means in the sense that I could give a shikel teyit [a logical argument] and explain to you. No. Understanding the actual reality.
What happens? Look around. What are people doing when they work? What are they doing when they rest? Which ones are resting? Which ones are working? What would cause you to work even if you think you’re resting? But within your head you’re working. That’s another point. I don’t know. Things like that.
You’ll notice that halacha has a lot more sophisticated viewpoint on reality than all these other olamos [worlds/spiritual systems]. All these Chassidus [Hasidic teachings] work together.
That’s why, for example, I want to give you an example that’s close to me, because I think this is true. People read Kisvei Ari [the writings of the Arizal, Rabbi Isaac Luria, 1534-1572]. Okay? This is my shade from Tira [possibly: my example from the Arizal], but I’m not repeating it.
But people read Kisvei Ari. And then it was all technical. He’s describing the 17,000 levels of Olam HaYetzirah [the World of Formation in Kabbalistic cosmology]. Okay? And now everyone who’s 17,000 levels has combinatorics with 17,000 kinds of those. Turns out how many? Right? And people are like, well, this is boring.
What do they do? They go to their mekabalim [Kabbalists]. People like him [the Ramchal, Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto]. They say, oh, the Arizal is just a mashal [parable/metaphor]. The nimshal [the lesson/meaning of the parable] is that he should be a good guy. Oh, the nimshal is that sometimes God has chesed [kindness], and sometimes he does things that you like. That’s called chesed. Sometimes he does din [judgment/strict justice], which means he does things that I don’t like. And the Arizal was just complicating this with a mashal, because of the Rambam’s theory of visions of prophecy.
And I look at this guy and I tell you, I don’t know if your mashal l’nimshal [parable-to-meaning framework] is good, but I want to tell you one thing, that he’s a lot smarter, much smarter than you. Because your theory of the world has three variables. There’s only two variables. And the real theory of the world has 17 million variables. It’s just much more close to reality.
The reality that we know about, all of it, of course, the great hope of the, like, theories of everything that, like, reduce everything to five principles and somehow that will explain everything. And Arizal doesn’t disagree with that. But then we have to spell that out and it turns out it’s a ten-thousand-thousand-variables. That isn’t the way of calculating the real world without all these millions of variables.
So you’re just stupid. You’re just simplifying everything all the way to an extent where it’s not even interesting in some sense. Like, oh, that’s why we needed Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism] to tell us that there’s chesed and gevurah [strength/judgment] in the world? Wow, amazing. I’m so impressed. And you’re convinced that you’re the smart guy and he was the dumb guy.
Now again, maybe that picture is all fantasy and the actual 17,000 variables are different ones. I don’t have a proof to say that. But the way in which he’s going about it is a lot more sophisticated than anyone else, than all these people that are so smart, they think they have an inyan [a concept/understanding].
So that’s the same argument that I would make in that sense. And this is one of the Chazon Ish’s big things. And he’s starting to show you. The problem is that I think that his problem is that when he gets into saying this, he doesn’t say it like—I’m doing much better job of describing what I should have said than what he actually said.
Because what he said was, you’re an apikoros [heretic]. You think that you’re going with your sechel [intellect/reason], but it’s the opposite of your sechel. And because he doesn’t have patience to explain to you why your sechel is kind of basic, he just says that.
But what he really means to say is you’re dumb, not you’re an apikoros. It’s much worse to be dumb than to be an apikoros anyway. You thought that not only you’re dumb, you’re a dull guy.
Like, you figure out humanity because you figured out this comes from the negios [biases/personal interests]. Like, Mussar [the Jewish ethical/character development movement] is so proud of it. Like, you realize that we started there. That’s where we’re coming from. Like, yeah, people have the negios. Thank you very much. Is that all of it? Does that explain everything? No, it doesn’t explain nothing. It explains something.
But you’re taking, like, one little thing and applying it to everything in a really weird way. Of course, then [the Chazon Ish] talks about the negios and explicitly attacks them and says very funny things. And maybe that’s why it fails, by the way, is that when older—when people who are a certain seniority discover a simple thing like that for the first time. It’s mom, she’s thinking about the world and then they talk to a young guy and they’re like, okay. And then he moves like, what now, what else? And it just like burns out of it. Could be.
Student: Yeah, there’s something in all these movies. I think the same you’re talking about. I read whatever someone’s saying about the bias and I’m like, whatever you want. And they’re like, whatever, it’s very good. I’m like, we’re done. Like I wouldn’t be able to structure my life around it.
Instructor: Maybe if I was a psychologist who wasted 30 years studying biases came up with a more sophisticated theory of human bias than about the Mussar. And it turned out that theory was wrong also.
The point is that this halacha that we’re all happy to make fun of, as if it’s not serious. Now again, the Chazon Ish here is where I’m disagreeing with him, because he gets stuck.
He says, like, halacha is what God wants from you. What? Where do you get to that? Why do you need that even? You don’t need that. Halacha is just people thought for longer time and in a more serious way about these cases than you did. Why do you need more than that? Where does it come from in general? Maybe it also has to come from God. I get it. But you don’t have to get to this stage.
When he gets to it, he’s just doing a lot of demagoguery, like, very often.
I want to give you one example and I’ll finish. I want to show you where you could argue with the Chazon Ish. And we are, I would do the same—I can’t think the Chazon Ish does it to him, so it’s over here in the Sefer HaKadosh [the holy book], there’s a story over here, where is it?
He talks about—I have to tell you I forgot where it is. He talks about a Yid [Jew] that thinks he has good middos [character traits] but he doesn’t listen to the halacha. Where is it? Remember where it is? I have to find that I can’t say it in the well-to-done because that’s gonna be—gets me. I thought I was here.
Oh, yeah, here. He talks about the concept that he’s trying to get at something. I’m not going to get into exactly where he is. And maybe there’d have to be another shiur [class/lesson] about this. Because that’s really what I want to talk about. And I repeated that demo again. He says—
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And this is about the unity of the virtues, but I’m going to get to it. But he gives an example. I want to give you an example. I want to tell you that he’s not going to believe it wrong.
He says that this guy thinks he’s such a *tzaddik* [righteous person], he understands that he has a problem with sometimes he has bad *middos* [character traits], but he thinks that at least *Yirat Shamayim* [fear of Heaven] — that’s what they’re going to use as a *tayna* [claim/argument].
And he says, this year, this is the story that he saw. It happened that they called him to be *oleh la-Torah* [called up to the Torah]. They said, yeah, I’m *shlishi* [the third aliyah]. And I didn’t go to *aliyah* [Torah reading honor]. Why not? Because he’s *chashuv* [important/distinguished]. And doesn’t ask him to get the *vav* [sixth aliyah], whatever *aliyah* was. He only goes for *shlishi* [third], so he didn’t go.
So you think, I’m a *tzaddik*, if the *Ribono Shel Olam* [Master of the Universe] wants something from him, I’m always giving it to him. A *mentsh* [person], sometimes I won’t say it, I’m proud. You’re not a serious person, *b’chlal* [at all], you’re *b’chlal*, you think that everything you’re just doing with your *Yirat Shamayim* [fear of Heaven].
That’s Chaznish [the Chazon Ish’s] *drasha* [homiletical teaching]. It’s really a standard *mussar drasha* [ethical teaching] in some sense, but it gets, I’m trying to use it for something deeper than that, but I can’t get it to it.
Now, I want to tell you, the Chaznish, that it seems very, he seems to be, he seems to like set up this like very clear dichotomy, like if the guy would follow the *aliyah* and of course it’d be *oleh* [go up], because it’s a very bad thing to call the *aliyah la-Torah* not *oleh*, since he only cares about his own *kavod* [honor], therefore he is not *oleh*, and this is a use that’s a proof, a very big point about this guy that he thinks he’s *Yerei Shamayim* [God-fearing], he’s not *Yerei Shamayim*.
I mean, you never had any conflicts with *Yirat Shamayim*. You think you’re so *frum* [religiously observant], you think that in that sense, you’re that’s the really important point. You think that you’re not a person that because you see that when it comes to buying *matzah* [unleavened bread for Passover], he spends the most money. He said, yeah, because he’s used to that. But really, if you have any little problem that does bother you, suddenly, you don’t have any *Yirat Shamayim*. Not only you’re not *baal middos* [master of good character], but this has no *Yirat Shamayim* either.
What is saying is that it’s not true about to say that people are *mushlam* [perfected] but not *baal middos* [master of good character]. He said that that guy is not *mushlam* but either. *Baal middos* either. That’s really his goal with this story. Okay? That’s the Chaznish’s *ma’aseh* [story/example].
Now me, *Ani HaKatan* [I, the small one/humble one], I have a *baya* [problem]. What’s my *baya*? That I, because, now he thinks, Chaznish’s way of saying this is that *Yirat Shamayim* is one of those exact words, if you care about yourself. And it turns out that you don’t have the *middah* [character trait] of *Yirat Shamayim* either, you have something else, right? That’s what the Chaznish is explaining it to be.
*Baya* [problem], what’s my explanation? I have a different explanation. What’s my explanation for why *halacha* [Jewish law] is more serious than *mussar* [ethics/character development]? That *halacha* has a lot more details, right? *Halacha* takes into account a lot more complexities of situations.
That’s why there’s no such a thing. Everyone has this rhetoric about *halacha* being the clear-cut system that tells you always what to do. *Halacha* is the furthest thing from telling you always what to do. Have you ever learned *halacha*? There’s a lot of *tzad b’yachid* [one side/aspect] who doesn’t know. Usually you do this, but sometimes. But if it was Tuesday after *chalama* [unclear reference]…
And then, *halacha* is the most non-dogmatic legal system that you can think of. There’s always a way out. Not that there’s always a way out because it’s not serious, because it is serious, because reality is like this. Right?
Not the Chaznish, all these people that have this rhetoric about following *halacha*, they get stuck with this. *Halacha* is way too free in reality for them, not free, I’m not saying free, way too real. And therefore it actually conforms entirely, it should conform at least entirely to reality.
But to them, *halacha* is this like formalistic system. The Chaznish understands that *halacha* is not like that. But he’s still using the same rhetoric because that’s why the Chaznish is so-and-so. I think the Chaznish understands very well that *halacha* is not like that. He lives like that. He learns *halacha* like that. But then when he has to argue this with the people that he argues with, he ends up stuck and saying, well, *halacha* is like *pshat* [straightforward/simple].
But actually, it turns out, if you actually think about learn a little bit, you find out that this exact question, what do you do when you’re a *chashuv* [important person], someone whose honor, the truth is that anyone’s honor is important. But if your honor is connected to *kavod ha-Torah* [honor of the Torah]. And you get caught in *aliyah*, that’s not the correct *aliyah*. What do you do?
Because Mishnish [the Mishnah] seems to have a very clear *halacha*. The *halacha* says that you should go, but if you’re a *sheigetz* [derogatory term, here used ironically], then you don’t go. And you’re a *sheigetz*, you’re really a *sheigetz*.
Now, me, it’s like, no, I’m not so sure about this. And this is the *Rambam* [Maimonides] world. I have an authority on my side. I think that it’s possible that you should not go. I said, of course, that’s talking about the guy who should go. Well you never, you know, never done a *kimta* [unclear], you never *halacha* works that’s talking about someone that it is, he found a guy and he deserves this *aliyah*, it’s not really, he’s overestimating which *aliyah* he deserves basically.
So then, but if you’re really a person that deserves a different *aliyah*, maybe it’s, maybe that person is right that he’s, you should not go, you should not so wrong. And how do I know? I saw this. I found this. That’s why I started thinking about it, but it’s very interesting.
Everyone knows it says in the *Masechet Sanhedrin* [Tractate Sanhedrin]. It says, there’s two things that says the same answer. What you hear it says, *”Mipnei mah talmidei chachamim einam metzuyin latzeit talmidei chachamim mi-bneihem”* [Why don’t the children of Torah scholars become Torah scholars?]. You remember this? What does it mean? You know what it means? That’s the opposite of what I’m trying to say about this. And all the Torah that everyone knows. But that’s what it means.
So, the *Rambam*, now if you look in the *Rishonim* [early medieval commentators], this is one of the, another one of my big things. When you actually read the *Rishonim*, you see that most of these funny things that there’s so many like, there’s really a basic understanding that you don’t need all these scratches for. But anyways, the *Rambam* wrote a letter to someone, or a *teshuva* [responsum/halachic answer], and he told them two *pshatim* [interpretations] that he heard, two *pshatim* about this *ma’amar* [saying], one that he heard, and one that he thinks, which is the opposite of what he heard absolutely is *mekabel* [accepts] what special is that and what are these two *pshatim*.
First Interpretation (The Rambam’s Rebbe)
I’ll tell you the *Rambam* said that they were told that he’s that the kind of *halacha* that’s the *pshat* I’m about to tell him means what has this is talking about this time the *kohanim* [priests] that he called up earlier to *Torah* but I’m the woman they usually think that they’re better things to do in their time then read in the *Torah* because then they can become *talmidei chachamim* [Torah scholars] so they’re not *oleh la-Torah* [going up to the Torah], or they’re some *oleh*, they’re not patient to go to the *bimah* [platform] read, they sit at home and they’re not *oleh la-Torah*, since there was *oleh la-Torah* and the kids don’t come to *talmidei chachamim*.
That’s what his *Rebbe* told the *pshat*, the *Rambam’s* *Rebbe*. So that’s, by the way, that’s on the Chaznisha’s side.
Second Interpretation (The Rambam’s Own View — “Pankt Fakhert”)
Then the *Rambam* said, he thinks that the *pshat* is *b’fakhert* [the opposite]. He thinks the *pshat* is *b’fakhert*. What do you mean *b’fakhert*? *She-alohi ba-akha b’tcholet* [they didn’t go up first], *tcholet* [first] means they didn’t take the first *aliyah*.
The *halacha* said, the *Kohen korei rishon* [the Kohen reads first], and that’s when it’s the *amei ha’aretz* [ignorant people], all the *amei ha’aretz*, all the *talmidei chachamim*, *rav*, *Kohen*, *Kohen* is *am ha’aretz*. Right?
The *Kohen* says, if there’s *talmid chacham* [Torah scholar], that’s the *Kohen*, and the *amei ha’aretz* is a, *talmid chacham* is a *Yisrael* [regular Jew, not a Kohen], and the *amei ha’aretz* is a *Kohen*, the *din* [law] is, says the *Ramah* [unclear if referring to Rambam or another authority], that *talmid chacham* has to be *oleh* first. That’s the *din*.
Some of the others were like this, that the water of the *rishon* [first], and there was no, they said, they were. Isn’t there *Mishnah* about this? Yeah. The *Mishnah*. It says in the *Mishnah*, it’s about when the *Natwar* is *talmid chacham*, when it’s *amei ha’aretz*. When it’s *darkei shalom* [ways of peace], it says in the *Mishnah*, when it’s *darkei shalom*.
But that’s all when they’re both the same level in Torah. The *Rambam* says, if everyone is *talmid chacham*, *Rav* was not expected. *Rav* was *oleh b’kor* [went up first], always, *mezik sheva* [unclear] at least. When he was the, everyone that recognized him as the greatest authority was *oleh rishon* [went up first].
And therefore he showed everyone that Torah is more important. Because *oleh la-Torah* is the name of the King of *Malchus* [kingship]. And it’s *chidvar talmid chacham* [the matter of the Torah scholar]. But if you’re *oleh* later, you’re *oleh* by *shleshi* [third], why? Because you think that this kind of *amei ha’aretz* is better than you and don’t expect your children to be *talmidei chachamim*, they’re going to think that being a *Kohen* is better.
So the *Rambam* said is *b’fakhert* [the opposite], that the *ma’amar* [saying] is not the one that is going to gain the better. In the hand of *halacha lema’aseh* [practical halacha], it is better today. *Halacha lema’aseh*, the reason why the *shleshi* still wasn’t burnt is because still the *Kohen* was *oleh*. That’s what I’m saying.
Student: I was just like, the *Gemara* [Talmud] says, call me shall I live in the…
Instructor: Exactly. Do you expect it to come from the *Sanhedrin* [Tractate Sanhedrin] specifically?
Student: It’s connected to the *Sanhedrin* specifically.
Instructor: Here he’s talking about the different thing that it says, and *Benin* [children], that the children of *talmid chacham* don’t come out of *talmid chacham*. It’s fine, but it’s the same thing. I mean, they bring you the same *pshat* in that *Gemara*. What do you think? Yeah, of course.
We have so many ways in which the *talmidei chachamim* are not getting the honor. The *Brisker Rav* [Rabbi from Brisk] is getting the honor, the *Kohanim* and so on, and that causes the *talmidei chachamim* not to have their power and then, right? And who is *shalei* [at fault]? *Talmid chacham* himself, right? Because he should have not went when they called him for *shleshi* and only went when they called him for *shleshi*, right?
So what do I show you? Now, I don’t know if this *pshat* is practical and so on. You’re saying you already taught this. It’s time for *shalei* to start his kinship. But it’s not really practical, right? *Halacha* would be more serious. See? *Halacha* is always more serious than I do, right?
I go like, say, *Sha’ar Kedushah* [Gate of Holiness]. This is *Takwa* [piety]. But *Lama Yisrael* [why Israel], oh, *Lama Yisrael* doesn’t work like this because the world is more complicated. Okay, then she’ll see the status, right?
So I’m, and I can’t even explain why. And they don’t say it’s not apologetic for *halacha*. It’s reality. She’ll see the status, it’s reality. Yeah, we have to move home, move home.
Okay, but the matter is that that guy has a, we’re gonna be in *rafiqinah* [unclear] from now on, you know? It’s a problem. Oh, and the *Mishnah* says *nidah kashon* [unclear], right? Like Moshe said, *Mishnah* says *nidah kashon*, right? Because otherwise everyone, every week is gonna be a fight who’s gonna be at *talmid chacham* laws. The *Kohen*, everyone knows he’s not at *talmid chacham*. We’re just getting it because it’s a *Kohen* and so on. Okay.
And then we laugh. But that’s just me showing you that it’s not simple. It’s the opposite. And you use *halacha* for your *mussar*, you make everything worse. Because *halacha* is that, you understand what I’m saying? He said it should be about *mussar* or some place that it should be *halacha*.
Like Moshe said, Mishnah says *Middak Hashon* [Midarkei Shalom: for the sake of peace], right? Because otherwise everyone, every week is going to be a fight—who’s going to be a *Ta’am Tochim* [Talmid Chacham: Torah scholar]? Laws, the Kohen, everyone knows it’s not a *Ta’am Tochim*, we’re just getting it because it’s a Kohen and so on.
Okay, and so anyway that—but that’s just me showing you that it’s not simple, it’s the opposite.
And you use *Halacha* [Jewish law] for your Mussar, you make everything worse, because Halacha—you understand what I’m saying? He said, you should be, by most words, simplistic, you should be halacha, because halacha is clear.
No, halacha is not clear.
In other words, what you have to have is something called—how do you do it—something called practical wisdom for Jesus [Phronesis: Aristotelian practical wisdom]. That’s the only thing that’s really going to help. And that halacha doesn’t give you that either.
Or learning halacha, even in the Chaznish [Chazon Ish] way—you see the Chaznish himself, and it’s really weird that Chaznish gets, not only in this case, in many cases he gets into the same thing.
And on the one hand, he understands very well how halakhah is given to the mind of the halakhim [halachic decisors]. It’s not like rules.
And then when he thinks something is the rule, is the halakhah, then he thinks that everyone else is that because they don’t think halakhah seriously.
Of course, it’s true that there’s one part of halakhah that’s the list of the president, the—whoever’s the *shaykh* [judge], there should be a—but that’s another question. That’s a political question. Who’s the *shaykh*?
But in any case, that’s a general problem.
But what I’m showing you is that there’s always a halakhah that has been *faqeet* [decided/ruled]. And really, the rabbi might also, with the *Gabbai d’Sanhedrin* [administrator of the Sanhedrin], they can do whatever they want as they see fit, right? That’s the *baalei ru’eh* [people of judgment/discretion].
Student: If a *sh’tai* [Shulchan Aruch: Code of Jewish Law] did that…
Instructor: Yeah, that’s explicitly going against the halacha. I’m saying even *betach* [within] the halacha. He’s saying there’s a halacha of *Oseh v’HaShem* [who bows first before the Torah], of *Mishikonel to l’ikrit* [unclear reference]. There’s also a halacha of *Mavach Mator Etchelav* [whose opinion is correct], of who is the correct…
That’s a real thing. The halacha, if you learn halacha, if you’re this *teshuvah* [responsum] of *Sanhedrin Ba’al* [unclear reference], that’s a *teshuvah* of the *Esken Pshat Naaguda* [Agudah], but okay.
It shows you a lot more complexity of reality than this.
And the reason—that’s why I think the reason why we should say that halacha is better than mussar is not because halacha is *b’Hashem* [by God/from God] or mussar is not *b’Hashem*—that’s a very silly thing, because *nish* [the Chazon Ish] says that because that’s his own—that’s why he says, say that.
Because he doesn’t have a way of explaining how the world is complicated and how the goodness is in the real things. Instead of saying that, he says Hashem made it good. That’s a big problem.
If he would have been like me, he would have said: You are mussar, you are silly. You think that goodness is in your mind, and goodness is something so simple. The world is more complicated. The goodness is something about your actions—of course they have to be in accordance with what the mind says, but the mind is more complicated than what you think. It’s not only about your will, it’s about your understanding and so on.
And then, of course halacha is about that. He’s right.
But since he doesn’t have a language to say that, or maybe he has theological commitments not to say that—I don’t know—he ends up saying something very silly, which is even wrong halakhically, because there’s also a *tzad* [side/aspect] that guy is right.
Okay, halacha. That’s the end of the *shiur* [lesson] today.
The one that asked them—I think this story on him, *takke* [indeed], they asked him: Listen, this big *kamchokim* [great scholar] said something, and it’s *knegedah* [against it], whatever, something. And he’s like—in other words, and maybe when he uses *Ratzon Hashem* [the will of God], it means God is much more complicated, right? Much more sophisticated and complicated than your mind. But it’s not *Gerasim* [unclear reference].
Student: Maybe, in other words, it’s very funny that you’re saying, by the fact that he says *Ratzon Hashem*, he means all these things that you’re saying.
Instructor: I think, maybe the point is that Hashem is smarter even than them. Right, right, that’s what I’m saying, because that’s exactly what the Chalmish [Chazon Ish] thought about these things.
Shall we shut up?
Student: Yeah, I guess.
Religious questioning follows predictable stages: initial rejection of obvious absurdities, attempts to connect with those who've left observance, and eventual recognition that the "simple" religious person may understand something deeper than both the skeptic and the one who left. The fundamental challenge is that meaning-systems are built in layers over time—like technology built from sand to silicon to AI—and cannot be reconstructed through rational argument alone. Most people who leave Orthodox Judaism get stuck asking surface-level questions about dinosaurs or biblical criticism, while the real philosophical work requires years of lived experience that can't be compressed into a single conversation or apologetic argument.
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בני אדם הם מסוג הדברים ש*לומדים*. אלה המצליחים מגיעים לפריצות דרך—הבנה כלשהי של איך הדברים נראים, איך הם צריכים להיות, ומה הם אומרים. דרך תהליך זה, הם *גדלים*.
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כשאדם גדל, הוא *עובר דרך* הדברים שהניעו במקור את חקירתו. זה כמו לחפור מנהרה—דוחף עפר, מניח קורות, עושה לבנים מבוץ—מתקדם צעד אחר צעד. בסופו של דבר, אתה פורץ אל "הארמון". ברגע שהגעת, לא אכפת לך יותר מהעפר. הבוץ, מכניקת המנהרה—אלה היו רק התהליך. האדם שהגיע לא רוצה לשמוע על בוץ לעולם. השאלות שפעם כילו את כל עולמך נראות כעת טריוויאליות מנקודת המבט של מי שפרץ.
מישהו שגדל בחסידות חב"ד מתייסר על השאלה האם "הרבי" בטקסטים חסידיים פירושו ממש הרבי או משהו אחר, האם זו כפירה, וכו'. זה מרגיש כמו הדרמה הכי גדולה בחייו. אבל אם הוא בסופו של דבר פורץ, הוא מבין: יש 7 מiliard אנשים, בעיות אמיתיות בעולם, וכל הוויכוח הזה אפילו לא היה שאלה טובה—"פשוט בלגן כזה". השאלות הקודמות לא רק נענו; הן *עלו למדרגה גבוהה יותר*.
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הטענה שבני אדם הם "מסוג הדברים שלומדים" היא *חידוש* שצריך *להאמין בו*—זה לא תמיד נצפה. לפי התצפית (למשל, קריאת החדשות), בני אדם הם "מסוג הדברים שמוצאים דרכים חדשות להיות משוגעים כל יום". הם לא משתפרים. הם לא לומדים. רק *מעטים* מבני האדם באמת לומדים.
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משל הגמרא: תולעת שחיה בתוך גרגר חיטה חושבת שיש לה חיים טובים—היא לא יודעת שהיא לכודה בתוך גרגר. (מוזכר בהקשר לנבוכדנצר.) אנשים אלה—התקועים בנוחות—*חושבים שהם האנשים הטובים*, ורבים מאיתנו מאמינים בזה לגביהם גם כן. תפסיקו להאמין בזה. הם לא האנשים הטובים. הם פשוט תולעים בתבואה.
טיפוס מסוים בליקווד: הולך למקווה בזמן, תופס את המנין הראשון, הכל מסודר ויציב. אתה אפילו לא יכול לומר "נבך" כי האדם מאושר. ברכת רבי נחמן לחסיד חלה: "אני אוהב אותך מאוד—הברכה שלי היא שעוד 10,000 שנה תבין את הבדיחות שלי." אולי אחרי המוות, גן עדן, וגלגול טוב יותר, הם יתחילו להבין.
הטיפוס השני הוא האדם שלומד גמרא, שמע שזה אמור להיות מבריק, אבל מוצא שזה לא הגיוני—ושואל "מה קורה?" זה גם האדם שאומר:
- אף אחד לא יודע אם יש אלוקים.
- אם יש אלוקים, אף אחד לא יודע אם הוא נתן את התורה.
- מבקרי המקרא אומרים שהיו ארבעה מחברים של התורה, לא משה אחד.
- העולם מאוד עתיק. יש דינוזאורים.
אלה "העפר"—החומר שאתה דוחף דרכו בדרך לארמון. הם מרגישים עצומים כשאתה במנהרה, אבל מנקודת המבט של מישהו שפרץ, הם נשמעים כמו "האם לצבוע את העולם לבן או אפור?"
אלה שמכחישים שדינוזאורים קיימים כי הרב שלהם אמר כך הם פשוט לא בשיחה בכלל ("בכלל לא")—אפילו לא טיפוס-שני השואל, פשוט לגמרי מחוץ למסגרת הלמידה.
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הניסוח האורתודוקסי המקובל של *תכלית הבריאה* אינו רק שגוי אלא אבסורדי על פניו:
- הטענה שאלוקים ברא יקום בן 13-15 מiliard שנה, עם 8 מiliard אנשים, דינוזאורים וכו', כדי שמספר קטן של גברים בליקווד ילמדו עקיבא איגר או ילמדו רש"י—זה מגוחך באופן מובהק.
- זה לא *קושיא* על השיטה—זה *צחוק שבצחוק*, כלומר זה אפילו לא מגיע לרמה של ביקורת רצינית.
- "שגוי יהיה מחמאה"—שגוי מרמז שיש נקודה שחלקית לא נכונה; לזה אפילו אין נקודה. זה דומה לפסיכוזה או סכיזופרניה.
ריף הומוריסטי קצר על אי הוודאות של מספרי האוכלוסייה העולמית—נתוני מפקד אפריקאיים לא אמינים, תחזיות האוכלוסייה של פול ארליך—ממוסגר כתיאוריית קונספירציה חדשה.
האבסורד מתרחב לחומרות קיצוניות סביב מצה וחמץ בפסח—הרעיון שכל היקום נברא כדי שאנשים יתעסקו בשאלה האם המצה שלהם קרובה מדי לחמץ. הזוהר מלמד שמצה וחמץ חולקים את אותן אותיות—אבל הפרקטיקה האובססיבית מחמיצה את הנקודה לגמרי.
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איך אתה יודע שהספר (התורה) אמיתי? כי 600,000 איש היו עדים להר סיני. איך אתה יודע ש-600,000 איש היו עדים? כי הספר אומר כך. זה היגיון מעגלי, ומבוגרים צריכים להפסיק לחזור על זה באופן לא ביקורתי.
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הרטוריקה של ההנהגה האורתודוקסית—לקרוא לתלמידי ישיבה *נזר הבריאה*—מכוונת ישירות:
- בן 16 שקרא רק שישה עמודים של גמרא ולומד שקידושין הוא קנין אישות ולא קנין בועלות נאמר לו שהוא תכלית כל הבריאה.
- זה מתרחב לטענה שתלמידי ישיבה שעושים "את הדבר האמיתי" צריכים להרגיש גאים בזמן שחיילים מקריבים את חייהם כדי להגן עליהם. זה ממש מה שמלמדים, וזה בבירור מטורף.
סטייה הומוריסטית על יוטיוב ששואל האם סרטונים מיועדים לילדים, מציין שסימון "לילדים" משבית את תכונת המיני-פלייר—הדרך של יוטיוב "להגן על ילדים".
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כל מה שנאמר עד כה הוא *מוסכם* על הקהל. כל מי שצפה בתוכן קודם ועדיין חושב שהשקפה המקובלת הגיונית צריך "לחשוב מחדש על כל חייו וחיי סבו". הרב סליפקין ואחרים מעלים את הביקורות האלה כבר שנים—הנקודה שלהם מוכרת, אבל "כבר הבנו את זה, אנחנו בני ארבע עשרה".
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הבעיה האמיתית, החדשה, אינה האבסורד של השקפת העולם המסורתית (שהיא מוסכמת), אלא מה קורה לאנשים שבאים מהעולם הזה ומבינים שהוא אבסורדי. "אני ואתה והוא... פחות או יותר באנו משם." כשאנשים מבינים את האבסורד, "כל מיני דברים מעניינים, כל מיני דברים מצחיקים קורים." סדרות טלוויזיה ישראליות תיעדו את התופעה הזו.
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הרב שלמה קוצ'ינסקי היה *יונגערמאן* בישיבה. אחרי רצח רבין, הוא התחיל לשאול האם *יידישקייט* גורם לאנשים לרצוח ראשי ממשלה. הוא עבר דרך "כל התחנות" של ספק ושאלות, בסופו של דבר עזב את העולם האורתודוקסי כדי להיות פרופסור, ו—בטוויסט אירוני—בחר ללמוד ישיבות ליטאיות באופן אקדמי לדוקטורט שלו. המחקר האקדמי הזה יכול היה להיעשות ב*בית המדרש* עצמו.
קוצ'ינסקי פגש יפני שבא לירושלים ללמוד חכמה יהודית. כשקוצ'ינסקי ניסה להסביר את ההבחנות הפנימיות בין יהודים דתיים (חרדים, דתיים וכו'), היפני היה מבולבל לחלוטין. מנקודת מבט חיצונית, המחלוקות הפנימיות העזות (כיפה לבנה מול כיפה כחולה, איזה רבי נכון) נראות אבסורדיות כמו שבט מרוחק שנלחם על כמה קצוות לשים על חנית. המחלוקות האלה אינן על המציאות; הן משחקים פרוכיאליים שטועים למשמעות קוסמית.
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הסוג הראשון פשוט דוחה הכל מתוך אכזבה או בורות—כפירה גסה, לא רפלקטיבית. אין שום דבר ראוי להערכה בשלב הזה. למרות שאולי יש גרעין של אמת בהכרה בבעיות, זה לא משהו לשאוף אליו. לומר "הלוואי ולא ידעתי" או "בורות הייתה טובה יותר" מושווה לרצון להיות "קבור בעפר"—לבחור במקדש מבלי לבחון את התולעת בפנים.
הסוג השני מכיר שכל השיטה של פרקטיקה דתית מפורטת ומחלוקת היא שיגעון ("סדרי משיגעס") ורוצה לעקוף את זה למשהו יותר ישיר או אותנטי.
הסוג השלישי הולך רחוק יותר: העולם לא נברא כדי שפשוט "תלמד" (לימוד תורה כמטרה בפני עצמה)—זה ברור. אבל גם, העולם לא נברא רק כדי *לתקוף* את האנשים הדתיים. גם "יהדות רציונליסטית" אינה התשובה (מתוארת כ"שטויות עוד יותר גדולות"). האדם הזה אומר: אנחנו צריכים באמת להבין בשביל מה העולם נברא. רוב האנשים לא יכולים באמת *לחיות* מהמצפון הביקורתי הזה לבדו—אתה לא יכול לקיים חיים רק על שלילה ושאלות.
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- האם הצמצום היה מילולי או מטפורי?
- האם הגר"א צדק או הבעל התניא?
- בדיוק כמה אנשים היו בהר סיני—600,000 או 500,000?
- האם בן-גוריון היה שליח אלוקי או חילוני רשע?
- ה"בעיה היהודית" / "בעיית היידיש"—דילמה היסטורית אמיתית: האם יהודים צריכים לשמור על נפרדות כשזה הוביל לרדיפות במשך 2,000 שנה? או למצוא פתרון אחר? המוחות הגדולים ביותר התמודדו עם זה במשך 200 שנה בלי פתרון.
- אלה שמצמצמים את זה לסיסמאות דתיות מפלגתיות (מסגור סאטמר מול ציוני-דתי) "מתווכחים באיזה צד של העפר לדחוף" בזמן שמנסים לחפור דרך הר כדי להגיע לארמון.
- האפיקורסים (כופרים/חילונים) לפחות התעסקו במציאות: מרקס הציע פתרון, אחרים הציעו פתרונות—אלה היו ניסיונות רציניים להתמודד עם שאלות אמיתיות, גם אם פגומים.
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כן, הרבי שלך אולי היה טיפש, השיטה אולי שבורה—אבל האם אתה יודע למה נבראת? האם אתה יודע את משמעות החיים? זו שאלה רצינית באמת, אמיתית באמת—לא משחק תיאולוגי מזויף. וגם בלי להיות מסוגל *להוכיח* את זה בצורה קפדנית לכל אתאיסט, להיות "בחור ישיבה" (להקדיש את עצמך ללימוד/מחשבה תורנית רצינית) זה עדיין "דבר די טוב לעשות עם הזמן שלך".
תלמיד מאתגר: האם אנחנו לא שואלים את אותה שאלה כמו בחור הישיבה? השאלה זהה אבל ה*מסגור* וה*בגרות* שונים. השפה מקשה להבדיל, אבל ההבחנה אמיתית.
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האדם בשלב השלישי מתמודד עם בעיה חברתית: אין להם קהילה שנותרה. אפשרות אחת לחברות מופיעה:
להתיידד עם ה-OTDs (יצאו מהדרך / אלה שעזבו את הדת): הם נראים כמו אנשים נורמליים, מעוגנים, שחיים בעולם האמיתי, לא ב"לה לה לנד". האדם בשלב השלישי חושב: אולי נוכל ללמוד אחד מהשני, לעבוד על דברים ביחד—מכיוון שאף אחד לא מאמין במערכת הישנה, אולי הם יכולים לגלות באופן שיתופי איך לחיות בצורה משמעותית. חשיבה וחקירה הופכים לפרויקט המשותף.
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כשאתה פוגש מישהו שיצא OTD, התגובה הכנה אינה לנסות להחזיר אותו אלא לפגוש אותו היכן שהוא נמצא: "אתה לא מאמין בכלום? תודה רבה, גם אני לא." מנקודת ההתחלה המשותפת הזו, חשיבה, למידה, והבנת דברים היא עצמה פרויקט חיים ראוי.
אנקדוטה מחבר שחשב בהתחלה שהרבי מקוצק היה דמות "פרום עם חן" קונבנציונלית—רגשי, בוכה על אמונה. אבל אז החבר הבין: הרבי היה אפיקורס גדול יותר מאנשי ה-OTD עצמם. זה בדיוק *למה* הוא בכה—כי הוא ראה דרך החסידויות המקובלות והתמודד עם אותו ריק. הרבי הגיע לנקודת המשבר ("כל זה לא שקעטין") בגיל 15, בעוד שאדם ה-OTD הטיפוסי מגיע לשם בגיל 35 אחרי שעבר את כל תהליך העזיבה.
חיי OTD לא מציעים יעד אינטלקטואלי או קיומי מהותי:
- זיכרונות OTD הם "לא ספרות טובה, לא פילוסופיה טובה, לא חיים טובים"
- תוכניות כמו Footsteps נותנות לך תעודה, אבל אז מה?
- אחרי 10 שנים של מסע ה-OTD, אתה מתמודד עם אותה שאלה: "עכשיו מה אתה עושה עם החיים שלך?"
ארגונים כמו הילל בודקים מתקשרים כדי לוודא שהם באמת OTD. מכיוון שהם מחלקים כסף לחינוך, אנשים פרומים יכולים בקלות לתמרן את המערכת על ידי טענה שהם מתאימים לקריטריונים תוך שמירה על שמירת מצוות. זה מוביל לתרחיש קומי שבו "כל האנשים שמקבלים כסף הולכים להיות רק בחורים פרומים".
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קשת נרטיבית של סוג מסוים של רבי/מורה:
1. הוא מבין שפרומקייט קונבנציונלי חלול
2. הוא מחליט להתעסק עם אנשי OTD, חושב שהם צריכים את עזרתו
3. הוא מגלה שהם לא צריכים טיפול—הוא צריך טיפול גם
4. ההסברה שלו לא באמת עובדת
5. הוא מחליט שהחיים הטובים זה עדיין ללכת לבית הכנסת בשבת
6. הוא הולך לבית הכנסת ולא מוצא שם אנשי OTD (כי יש להם מקומות "טובים יותר" להיות בליל שישי)
חילופי דברים הומוריסטיים על השאלה האם מוזיקה וריקודים של ברסלב טובים יותר מגלילה אינסופית בליל שישי (פסק דין: כן, באופן שולי). דיון על השאלה האם ללכת למועדונים הוא חלופה אמיתית. התייחסות לדמות (דוד גרוסמן) שעושה הסברה במועדונים—שזו רק דרך להצדיק ללכת למועדונים בעצמך. רוב האנשים שמנסים לעשות הסברה לשמירת מצוות במסגרות מועדונים נכשלים.
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דמות הרבי בסופו של דבר שוקלת מחדש: אולי האדם שנותן את הדרשה על הנזיר אינו תמים כפי שהניחו. אולי חסר לו שפה מתוחכמת—לא קרא פילוסופיה או ספרות—אבל הגיע לאותן מסקנות קיומיות דרך האידיום שלו. אם שמו סולובייצ'יק, הוא יכול לנסח את זה באלגנטיות; אחרת, הוא "בוכה ונותן דרשות" כאופן הביטוי הטוב ביותר שעומד לרשותו. הוא עושה מה שהאפיקורס המתוחכם רצה לעשות בכל מקרה—לחיות בצורה משמעותית בתוך המסורת.
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טענה פרובוקטיבית: בחורי ישיבה בדרך כלל "גדולים יותר" (נועזים יותר אינטלקטואלית) מאנשי OTD. ההיגיון:
- אנשי OTD *תקועים*: הם יכולים רק לבדוק שאלות (*קושיות*) שמאמתות את בחירות החיים שכבר עשו על ידי עזיבה
- לבחורי ישיבה
בחורי ישיבה יש את בחירות החיים שלהם נעשות עבורם על ידי המערכת, אז באופן פרדוקסלי הם חופשיים לשאול כל שאלה שהם רוצים
- הם מבטאים את הספקות שלהם בשפה מקודדת חסידית: "אין הוכחה שאלוקים קיים, אבל יש לנו אמונה פשוטה" (שזו באמת דרך מתוחכמת לומר "אני אפיקורס")
- או שהם אומרים "אין לי חיות בתפילה"—שזה באמת אומר משהו עמוק יותר
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כבחור צעיר בחודש אלול, הדובר אמר שהוא לא רוצה לעשות תשובה. בחור אחר לא יכול היה להבין את זה—אם אתה מאמין בגיהנום על אי-חזרה בתשובה, למה לא? הדובר ניסה לנסח משהו יותר יסודי: כל "משחק" התשובה בעייתי אם אתה לא באמת מאמין במסגרת שכר ועונש.
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רוב האנשים הפרומים, אם לוחצים עליהם בכנות, לא באמת מאמינים במערכת העסקאית של שכר/עונש (בהשוואה לכרטיסי ארקייד). הם אומרים שכן ב"דרכים מצחיקות", אבל אי הנוחות מורגשת. רק ה"צדיקים הגדולים" ששכנעו את עצמם לחלוטין באמת מחזיקים באמונה הזו.
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כשמישהו אומר "אני רוצה להתקרב להשם", זה עצמו עדות שהם לא באמת מאמינים. אנשים שבאמת מאמינים לא ממסגרים את זה כרצון "להתקרב"—יש מרחק מרומז שחושף את המלאכותיות של הרגש.
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העולם הליטאי הוא דוגמה: ברגע שהם התחילו לאמץ את השפה של "קירבה להשם", הם במקביל נטשו אמונות מסורתיות מהותיות. האם מישהו מהם עדיין מאמין ב*תחיית המתים*? הם לא—וזו אפילו לא *כפירה*. המושג הפך כל כך רחוק מהמציאות החיה שהוא נרשם כאבסורדי, "מעבר לכל העניין".
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אם אתה מכריח אדם דתי לנסח את האמונות שלו בשפה פשוטה, שיחתית—בלי ז'רגון דתי או מסגור טקסי—הם לא יכולים לעשות את זה. דוגמה: "אתה מאמין שהאלוקים שברא את העולם חושב שאם אתה שם את הקופסאות האלה, והן מרובעות לחלוטין, הוא נותן לך חיים טובים, ואם לא, ישר לגיהנום?" אף אחד לא יכול לומר את זה באופן טבעי בלי להתכווץ, להתפתל, או לצחקק. זה מבחן גלאי שקר לא פורמלי.
- על תפילה: ככל שמישהו מצחקק או מזיז את עצמו באי נוחות יותר כשהוא מסביר למה הוא מתפלל, כך הוא פחות באמת מאמין שזה עובד. באופן אמפירי, תפילה ואי-תפילה מניבות אותן תוצאות—אותו "אחוז" של תוצאות.
- על עוצמה פרפורמטיבית: ככל שהביצוע הפיזי מפורט יותר (התנדנדות, לחיצת הפנים, מחוות דרמטיות), כך זה מסמן יותר בלוף או הסתרה במקום שכנוע אמיתי.
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לעצור ברמזור אדום הוא מעשה אמיתי, בעל השלכות—מכוניות עלולות לפגוע בך. אף אחד לא מבצע כבוד דרמטי ברמזור אדום—הם פשוט עוצרים. אבל עם מצה, יש טקס מפורט. האסימטריה הזו חושפת שהמעשה הטקסי "מזויף" במובן שהוא לא נושא את אותה מציאות מיידית, מורגשת. דברים אמיתיים לא דורשים דגש פרפורמטיבי.
הרחבה: כל מצווה שנעשית עם *גרטל* (חגורה טקסית) או תלבושת מפורטת חשודה. המצוות שנעשות באופן מזדמן—כמו בניית סוכה בחולצת טריקו—הן האותנטיות. הבחור בלבוש רבני מלא שמצטלם בזמן "בניית" סוכה לא באמת בנה אותה. הבחור בחולצת הטריקו כן.
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כל מורה שפונה לאנשים "נורמליים" (לא שומרי מצוות או שומרים באופן רופף) עושה בעצם את אותו דבר כמו מישהו שעושה הסברה ל-OTDs. ההבדל היחיד הוא שאנשים "נורמליים" בריאים יותר רגשית וקל יותר לעסוק איתם, בעוד ש-OTDs לעתים קרובות נושאים טראומה—התעללות, משפחות שבורות, גירושין, בעיות משמורת—שמקשה על שיחה פרודוקטיבית הרבה יותר.
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זו הבעיה הקשה ביותר בחינוך/הסברה דתית:
- נקודת התחלה: מנקודת מבט של "אדם נורמלי", פרקטיקות דתיות נראות אבסורדיות—ברית מילה, טקסי קבורה וכו'. חב"דניקים טובים בהכרה בזה מראש ("אם הייתי אומר לך ששבט בפפואה גינאה החדשה עושה את זה, היית אומר *נבך*").
- נקודת סיום: קיים הסבר אמיתי שבו *ברית מילה* באמת מקרבת אותך להשם, שבו הטקסים נושאים משמעות עמוקה.
- הבעיה: איך אתה עובר מאחד לשני *באותה שיחה, באותו טון קול*? יש מעבר מורגש ברגיסטרים—כשמסבירים את האבסורד, הטון מזדמן וקומי; כשנותנים את ה*שיעור* על משמעות, זה עובר לכבוד. הקול שמחזיק את שניהם בו זמנית לא ניתן למצוא.
זה אולי האתגר הפדגוגי והפילוסופי היסודי: להעביר אמת דתית בלי (א) גרסת הסטנד-אפ שלועגת להכל, או (ב) השיעור הכבוד הסטנדרטי שמתעלם מהאבסורד.
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משתתף מציע שהגישה הקלה ביותר היא להראות לאנשים שהדחייה שלהם את הדת—מה שהם מדמיינים כאורח חיים חילוני "ברירת מחדל"—היא עצמה בחירה, ושאלתית באותה מידה כמו החיים הדתיים שהם עזבו.
- הגמביט של גזענות: לדחות טקסים דתיים כ"פרימיטיביים" תוך קבלת חיים מערביים חילוניים כ"נורמליים" היא עצמה צורה של שוביניזם תרבותי או אפילו גזענות. "כל הבעיה שלך עם יהדות מבוססת על גזענות"—זה מוכר כ"משחק" רטורי אבל יש לו פוטנציאל.
- הריקנות של החלופה: אם מישהו עוזב את היהדות כי סיפור "600,000 בהר סיני" לא מסתדר, מה הם בוחרים במקום? "מר גולל אינסופית", "מר סוחר מניות שעובד 19 שעות ביום וחושב שזה חיים." ברירת המחדל החילונית לא מעוגנת יותר רציונלית או משמעותית מהחיים הדתיים שנדחים.
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נניח שמישהו מסיק שהתוכנית המסורתית לא עומדת. מה אז?
- החלופות—להיות *עם הארץ*, גולל אינסופי, סוחר מניות—שאלתיות באותה מידה.
- טענת נגד מתלמיד: להצביע על פגמים במערכות אחרות אינו תשובה לבעיות הפנימיות של *המערכת הזו*. זה טיעון שלילי, לא חיובי.
- אנלוגיית ה"פצעון": המערכת הנוכחית עונה על שאלה אחת ופותחת מאה—אבל החלופה (עזיבת המערכת) עשויה לענות על שאלה אחת תוך *הרס* של מאה תשובות מוסדרות. זה כמו למצוא פצעון על היד שלך ולהחליט לקטוע את היד—רק כדי לגלות שאתה צריך את היד שלך להרבה דברים אחרים.
האדם ההיפותטי לא *החליט* לעזוב—הוא באמת חושב. המסגור הזה מתקבל, אבל חשד נשאר כלפי אנשים ש"פתאום" נוטשים את המסגרת.
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מה שבאמת קורה בפועל: ללמוד מה הזוהר אומר על *ברית מילה*, לתת *מהלך* (גישה פרשנית) כדי להסביר את זה, לנסות להבין את זה. השאלה של התלמיד (שברית מילה נראית "משוגעת") לגיטימית. אבל הגשר הנרטיבי—הסיפור הקוהרנטי שמוביל מהשאלה הגולמית, המטרידה ("למה לחתוך תינוק?") למשמעות ברמה הגבוהה יותר שהזוהר דן בה—לא ניתן לספק בביטחון.
תלמיד מציע: לשמור על כל מה שיפה ביהדות—גפילטע פיש, שבת, קהילה—ופשוט למחוק ברית מילה. תגובה: גפילטע פיש גרוע יותר מברית מילה ("לפחות למילה יש משמעות; גפילטע פיש הוא פשוט שבטי"). זו שאלה ספציפית, לגיטימית אבל לא השאלה שמטופלת. לומר "גם לשבט האחר יש פרקטיקות מוזרות" זו לא תשובה אמיתית—זו התחמקות. "אני מסכים איתך" (אלץ איז א משל — "הכל משל")—זו לא אפולוגטיקה.
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למרות ההסכמה עם כוח השאלה: יש משמעות, סיבה, *שכל*, אמת בדיון של הזוהר על ברית מילה. הדיון ברמה הגבוהה יותר הזו הוא עצמו גרסה מוגברת של שאלת התלמיד—לא דחייה שלה, אלא עיסוק בה בשכבה אחרת.
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כל ההישגים האנושיים—טכנולוגיה, שפה, מחשבה, תרבות—בנויים בשכבות, כל אחת על גבי השנייה.
- בבסיס: ביטים מתהפכים דרך שערי לוגיקה.
- מעל זה: קוד מכונה, שכבות רשת (רשמית 7, באמת יותר), קוד ברמה גבוהה יותר, וכן הלאה—אלפי שכבות.
- בראש: משתמש שמנהל שיחה עם AI דרך חתיכת זכוכית.
- אנחנו יכולים לדון באופן אינטליגנטי בשכבה העליונה ("קופסה שחורה" / הפשטה) בלי להבין כל שכבה מתחתיה.
עם זאת, אתה לא יכול *לשחזר* את המערכת מהשכבה העליונה לבדה. אם נזרק על אי בודד, לדעת "איך להשתמש במחשב" חסר תועלת—תצטרך לגלות מחדש סיליקון, לוגיקה (אריסטו), לוגיקה סימבולית פורמלית (הוגים מימי הביניים), הרעיון של מימוש לוגיקה במעגלים, וכן הלאה. אתה לא יכול לתת סיפור קוהרנטי של איך להגיע ממציאות בסיסית לשכבה העליונה. היסטוריות של מחשוב נותנות סקירות ברמה העליונה, אבל אף אחד לא יכול באמת לשחזר את הדרך.
תרבויות, אידיאולוגיות, והשקפות עולם דתיות עובדות באותה דרך—בנויות שכבה על שכבה מנקודת התחלה כלשהי (בין אם "אי בודד" או אלוקים שנותן לאדם ידע). גם אם אלוקים נתן לאדם את כל הידע, עדיין לקח לאנושות זמן לעבוד דרך השכבות. חפצים של שכבות נמוכות יותר "דולפים" לשכבות גבוהות יותר—יוצרים תכונות מוזרות, לכאורה בלתי מוסברות.
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כשאנשים עוברים את משבר השאלות:
- ממבט חיצוני, כל המערכת נראית כמו שטות—"אתה לא יכול לדבר עם חתיכת זכוכית ולקבל תשובות."
- אז הם מנפצים את המערכת (אנלוגיה: לנפץ אייפון במאה שערים במדורת החמץ כי "אייפונים טרפים").
- אחרי פסח, הם מבינים: רגע, המכשיר באמת פתר בעיות אמיתיות.
- אז הם עשויים לגלות מחדש באופן אורגני *למה* דברים מסוימים היו שימושיים—דרך החוויה שלהם עצמם של צורך בחישוב, צורך בכלים, צורך שהמריצה תהיה בגודל הנכון.
- הפואנטה: "הבחור שנתן לי מחשבון לא היה רק שמאן מוזר שמשחק במספרים"—השכבות המופשטות, לכאורה חסרות הטעם, מתגלות כחיוניות באופן מעשי.
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חזור ל"גן עדן"—עירום, מתחיל מאפס. לאנשים יש ילדים. יש להם רעיונות שהם רוצים להעביר לילדים האלה. איך אתה באמת מעביר את השקפת העולם שלך לדור הבא?
- "אני אכתוב ספר"—אבל מיליוני מילים נכתבו וילדים לא קראו אותן. פרופסורים כותבים ספרים שמנים שילדיהם לא יודעים את השמות שלהם. כתיבה אינה הדרך.
- אתה צריך סמן פיזי, מגולם—אתה עשוי לשקול לעשות חתך באוזן של הילד שלך (מה שהופך אותך ל"המוזר"), אבל אז אתה מבחין שלערלה של יילוד יש עור עודף שלא משרת מטרה ברורה—"אפשר גם לחתוך את זה."
- זו תיאוריה של מקור ברית מילה: היא התעוררה כפתרון לבעיה היסודית של יצירה ושימור של תרבות. זה ספקולטיבי ("סתם סיפור שהמצאתי") אבל התיאור הסביר ביותר.
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- עדות אמפירית: אנשים בקליפורניה ניסו ליצור תרבויות נגד במשך חמישים השנים האחרונות—"כולן נכשלו." הנכדים שלהם או לא קיימים או נמצאים בגרסה שלישית, שונה מהכת המקורית.
- בעיית כללים שנראים שרירותיים: תרבות דורשת פרקטיקות ספציפיות, לפעמים לכאורה שרירותיות. פרקטיקות תרבותיות פונקציונליות הן תמיד "מעלות הרחק" ממשהו שנראה לא רציונלי, ואתה לא יכול לבנות תרבות בלי לקבל את זה.
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אפשר, באופן עקרוני, לעקוב אחר כל פרקטיקה תרבותית (כמו ברית מילה) לאורך כל הדרך דרך כל שכבה של ה"OSI" (המודל השכבתי), להראות איך היא מצטמצמת לרצון/צורך בסיסי. אבל:
- זה לא מעשי—בדיוק כפי שאתה לא בונה מחדש מחשב מחול בכל פעם שאתה משתמש בו, אתה לא גוזר מחדש כל פרקטיקה תרבותית מעקרונות ראשונים בכל פעם.
- מדיטציה של דקארט מוזכרת: לפרק דבר אחד בחייך ולהרכיב אותו מחדש הוא תרגיל בעל ערך, אם כי דקארט עשה את זה "בדרך מוזרה."
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כשאנשים באמת עושים את התרגיל הזה של פירוק ושיחזור, הם בדרך כלל בסופו של דבר מחזירים את אמונתם—במיוחד "אמונת חכמים". הם מבינים:
- הם כנראה לא יכולים ליצור משהו טוב יותר מהמערכת התרבותית הקיימת.
- אם הם יכלו לשפר אותה, זה יהיה "עוד תיקון אחד"—שזה בדיוק מה שרבנים תמיד עשו: הוספה, הסרה, או התאמת כללים בתוך המסורת.
- דוגמה של פאה: מצוות תורה שחוזרת שלוש או ארבע פעמים, ובכל זאת הרבנים למעשה ביטלו אותה כי "זה לא עובד" בנסיבות שהשתנו. זה מתועד בשולחן ערוך. המסורת תמיד עשתה סוג זה של התאמה פרגמטית.
- השלכה לברית מילה: אם אתה חושב שזה לא עובד, בסדר—"אתה צריך לעשות את העבודה" של להראות את זה, והמערכת יכולה להכיל שינוי. אבל דחייה מזדמנת אינה מספיקה.
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הצדקה רציונלית בכל רמה אינה מספיקה כדי לשכנע מישהו שלא חי דרך החוויות הרלוונטיות.
- סיפור ברית המילה שסופר למעלה הוא "במידה מסוימת בזבוז זמן"—לא כי הוא שגוי, אלא כי הוא לא שלם (התיאור האמיתי "ממשיך מעבר לזה"), ובפועל, תמיד מתחילים משכבה גבוהה יותר, בדיוק כפי שכותבים Python במקום C, או שואלים את ChatGPT במקום לקודד ידנית. אתה רק חופר למטה לשכבות נמוכות יותר כשמשהו נשבר או שאתה צריך לתקן באגים.
- תלמידים שבאים ללמוד "את התהליך" מרגישים מרומים אם אתה לא נותן להם את הגזירה המלאה.
- אבל לעבור דרך "כל הטעויות המצחיקות שיש לכולם כל הזמן" הוא בזבוז זמן עצום.
- תלות בנתיב: תכונות רבות של מערכות קיימות (מחשבים, תרבויות) קיימות בגלל בחירות היסטוריות שרירותיות—אולי אפילו "מבוססות על אסטרולוגיה." הן עובדות, אבל לא ניתן להצדיק אותן באופן מלא בכל רמה. לנסות לבנות מחדש מאפס הוא "לא שווה את המאמץ."
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האדם שהסיק "אין אלוקים" והכיר שההוכחות של הרבי שלו היו טיפשיות (למשל, הטענה של רב אלחנן וסרמן שאף אדם חכם לא מכחיש את אלוקים, שהיא "פשוט שגויה")—האדם הזה לא ניתן להחזיר בטיעונים לאמונה, אפילו עם תשובות טובות.
- **"סיפור צ
ריך לקרות להם"**—הם צריכים לגדול, לעבור חוויות חיים שמביאות אותם למקום שבו הטיעונים הופכים משמעותיים.
- הערכת הקהל של הנרטיב של ברית המילה עובדת רק כי "אתם כבר עברתם את זה לפני שש שנים או משהו כזה."
- האם אתה יכול לשכנע מישהו שיש "חומרים בעולם"? שיש "אדם בעולם"? כנראה שלא ברמה הכי בסיסית—אתה אפילו לא יכול לגרום למישהו לראות את הבעיה.
- המשימה האמיתית היא לגרום למישהו להעריך "את גודל הבעיה שתרבות אמורה לפתור."
- אולי אתה צריך רק "סיפור אחד או שניים של ברית מילה" כדי להמחיש את הדפוס—לא תיאור ממצה.
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נקודת מבט של "חייזר ממאדים" על חיים חילוניים עכשוויים:
- אנשים מבלים ~6.5 שעות ביום בהסתכלות על "קופסת זכוכית" (טלפון/מסך), צופים באחרים עושים "משימות קטנות הדרגתיות" במשך עשר שניות בכל פעם.
- זו הגדרת ברירת המחדל של רוב האנשים לפנאי: "אני רק צריך להירגע."
- השאלה הרטורית: "קיווינו להגיע לכאן?" האם זו נקודת הסיום האידיאלית של הציוויליזציה האנושית? "משהו אולי השתבש" במצב האנושי.
- הנקודה אינה לגנות אלא לעורר סקרנות: "אולי יש דרך אחרת לחיות את החיים שלך."
הטיעון הזה מיד מערער את עצמו:
- אתה לא יכול לתת את הדרשה הזו לאנשי OTD—הם לא יקבלו אותה.
- אתה יכול לתת אותה רק ל"החברה הפרומה" או לאנשים שכבר יציבים.
- "קודם אתה צריך להיות יציב"—נאמר בדגש.
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רב ישראל סלנטר, מייסד תנועת המוסר, היה דמות מודרנית להפליא:
- הוא יצר תוכניות לכל דבר—לימוד תורה במקום העבודה, פרויקטים של הנדסה חברתית.
- הוא היה הראשון לפתח תוכניות מובנות ל*בעלי בתים*.
- בסופו של דבר הוא התנגש עם יותר מדי אנשים בעולם הפרום, היה לו בן שהפך חילוני (רופא/מתמטיקאי בפריז או בגרמניה), וויתר על הקהילה הפרומה.
- הוא פנה לעבוד עם היהודים ה*פריי* (חילוניים) לחלוטין במקום.
- ה*משל* שלו: סוס בורח שיורד במורד—אתה לא עוצר אותו באמצע הנפילה; אתה מחכה בתחתית ועובד איתו אחרי שהוא נחת.
- הגישה הזו לא באמת עבדה גם עבור סלנטר.
מטרה: להמחיש שהבעיה של למי ללמד ואיך היא עתיקה ולא פתורה—לא הפרומים ולא הפריים הם קהל קל.
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אנשים בשלב הפעיל של שאלות על הכל (למשל, "הרבי שלי אמר שסמארטפונים *טרפים* אבל הם נראים כיפיים") נמצאים במצב הרסני גרידא—הם קורעים מבנים שקריים אבל עדיין לא בונים כלום. הם "הורסים דברים מזויפים", שזה לגיטימי, אבל אתה לא יכול לעבוד באופן פרודוקטיבי עם מישהו בשלב הזה. אין תשובה מהירה לתת להם.
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בני אדם חיים בזמן. הבנה לא ניתנת לדחיסה.
- אתה יכול לקרוא ספר שמכיל טיעון מלא בחמש שעות, אבל לחיות דרך הטיעון הזה לוקח חיים שלמים.
- *קושיא* שלוקחת 20 דקות לנסח עשויה לדרוש שנתיים כדי לשבת איתה כראוי.
- אדם ה-OTD בעצם "לומד *שטיקל תורה* ארוך מאוד"—הם נמצאים באמצע שאלה לגיטימית. היתה להם ה*קושיא*; בסופו של דבר הם עשויים להגיע ל*תירוץ* או ל*קושיא* טובה יותר.
- הוראת הרבי מקוצק: דוד המלך כתב תהילים על פני 70 שנה, לא בשעה. אתה יכול לקרוא את זה בשעה, אבל אתה לא יכול *לעשות* את זה בשעה.
טענה מרכזית: חוויית ה-OTD היא תהליך תקף, ממושך בזמן של שאלות—לא פתולוגיה אלא שלב בלמידה אמיתית.
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- אתה לא יכול לדבר עם אנשים במשבר בצורה דחוסה, תיאורטית. אתה יכול רק להיות שם—נוכח בסוף התהליך שלהם, זמין כשהם חוזרים.
- בעיית האמינות בלתי עבירה: איך מישהו שלובש חולצה לבנה (מסמל זהות פרומה) יכול לטעון שהוא *אפיקורס* אמיתי ולהיות מהימן על ידי מישהו שבאמת עזב? אדם ה-OTD רואה בצדק את האדם הפרום כ"בלוף."
- אתה לא יכול להיות בו זמנית באופן אמין OTD, חכם, ופרום. זה לא אפשרי. כל מה שאתה יכול לעשות הוא להיות נוכח.
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גאווה היא הסיבה המרכזית לניתוק בין יהודים פרומים לספקות שלהם עצמם:
- אף אחד לא רוצה להיות "בחור ה-OTD" כי בעולם הפרום, OTD = לוזר.
- אז כשמישהו עובד דרך הספקות שלו וחוזר לשמירת מצוות, הם מעמידים פנים שזה מעולם לא קרה וממשיכים לדבר שפה פרומה—מוחקים את המסע שלהם.
- זו *גאווה*: להעמיד פנים שמעולם לא היית ב*מצרים*, מעולם לא היית עובד עבודה זרה, מעולם לא היתה לך נקודת המבט של תרח.
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כל ליל הסדר ממוסגר מחדש כתרופה נגד הגאווה הזו:
מצה מייצגת את המצב שלפני-לחם, שלפני-תחכום—עוני, פשטות. אכילתה מדי שנה היא מעשה של ענווה: "אתה חושב שאתה כזה *חכם*? אתה פשוט טיפש כמו כולם." זו *הכרת הטוב* דרך השפלה עצמית.
אנחנו שואלים ארבע *קושיות*—כל הסדר מובנה סביב שאלות. ליל פסח אינו לילה של *אמונה* אלא לילה של *אפיקורסות*. אתה לא יכול להיות מאמין אמיתי אם מעולם לא היית *אפיקורס*. — בתחילה עובדי עבודה זרה היו אבותינו.
הפסוק כי ישאלכם בניכם מה העבודה הזאת לכם אינו מטבעו כפרני בטקסט עצמו—זו שאלה ישרה עם תשובה ישרה (זבח פסח הוא). החכמים המציאו את הקריאה שזו שאלת ה*רשע*. הם בחרו לקרוא את השאלה בלי התשובה—והכירו שהשאלה טובה יותר מהתשובה.
מה העבודה הזאת לכם — "מה לעזאזל אנחנו עושים?" — היא השאלה העמוקה, הכנה ביותר. אין לנו תשובה אמיתית לרשע. הקהה את שיניו אינו *תירוץ*; זו הודאה בתבוסה. אולי משיח יביא תשובה. בכל שנה בפסח אנחנו מכירים שלרשע, אין לנו תשובה—ואנחנו מבלים את כל הלילה בהיותנו *אפיקורסים*.
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באופן מעשי, אתה מרחיב את *בית המדרש* על ידי קריאה לאנשים הפרומים—כי יש להם תקווה. הם עשויים להבין "איזה *אפיקורסים* גדולים הם באמת"—והם יציבים מספיק כדי ללמד להם משהו.
הם מקבלים *שיעור* פעם בשנה כדי להראות "אני אפילו יותר *פריי* מהם." הם "*שווחים* (חלשים) *אפיקורסים*"—הם מאמינים באופן לא ביקורתי בוודאויות מוסריות שהומצאו לאחרונה (למשל, "גזענות היא החטא הכי גדול שהומצא אי פעם"). יש להם דוגמות משלהם שלא נבדקו. אפשר להציע קצת אמינות, אבל זה לא באמת פותר את הבעיה.
אתה יותר קשה לאדם פרום מאשר לאדם פריי עם ההוראה הזו. אדם פריי שומע את זה וזה לא הופך את חייו—הם כבר בעולם שלהם. אדם פרום—נשוי, עם ילדים, עם אישה שנראית בצורה מסוימת, שבנה חיים שלמים על הנחות מסוימות—אם אתה אומר להם "אתה חי בטעות קטלנית", אתה ממש עינית את חייהם. זו הסיבה שה*שיעור* הזה בדרך כלל לא ניתן—"רק ביוטיוב." לא לאנשים פרומים באופן אישי, לא במהירות. לאט, בזהירות, צעד אחר צעד—כן. מהר ומערער יציבות—לא.
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מאזין מעלה את הרעיון שההוראה הזו היא "שכבה ארבע"—שהם עברו דרך טיפוסי אנשים אחד עד שלוש. מעבר לכל שאלות היהדות (שהן "רמת עניין שתיים"), יש בעיות עמוקות יותר, יותר יסודיות:
- לא רק "איך לפרנס את עצמך" (דאגות מעשיות)
- אלא משהו כמו: "אנחנו לא באמת מבינים איך שפה עובדת."
זה נשאר כמחווה לקראת רמה אפילו יותר יסודית של שאלות פילוסופיות שיורדת מתחת לספק דתי אל מבנה המשמעות, התקשורת, וההבנה עצמה.
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תוכן שמתחיל עם "בעיות יהדות רציונליסטית טיפשיות" (למשל, וו פרובוקטיביים על ביוגרפיות של ארטסקרול) מקבל הרבה צפיות. תסכול מרכזי: כשנקודה פילוסופית מהותית באמת נעשית—למשל, שביוגרפיות של ארטסקרול עשויות להיות "יותר אמיתיות" מביוגרפיות ביקורתיות במובן מסוים—אף אחד לא מתעסק עם הטיעון. אנשים לוחצים על הוו אבל אפילו לא רושמים שיש טיעון שנעשה. זה כמעט בלתי אפשרי מבחינה מעשית לגרום לרוב האנשים להתעסק עם נימוק פילוסופי אמיתי.
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ה*מקובלים* (אלה שמשתתפים בשיעורי קבלה) הם האנשים בעולם היהודי שבאמת רוצים לדעת "מה דברים הם." ניגוד: קהל ה-OTD בדרך כלל *לא* אכפת להם ממה דברים הם באופן יסודי—יש חריגים, אבל זה לא הנורמה.
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השאלה של *מעשה בראשית*: האם זה מיועד מילולית (*כפשוטו*) או לא? השאלה הזו לבדה אולי לא מובילה לעניין אמיתי במה העולם הוא. עם זאת: *מעשה בראשית* קיים כי אנשים ניסו להבין מה העולם הוא—אז זה *צריך* להוביל לשם בסופו של דבר.
שאלה מבנית מרכזית: האם עוברים מתיאולוגיה לפילוסופיה, או להיפך?
תיאור אפשרי: אדם מתחיל לרצות לדעת מה דברים הם → נאמר לו שהתשובה נמצאת בתורה (למשל, ה*לוחות*, ה*שני לוחות הברית*) → אז מוסח על ידי שאלות עובדתיות/היסטוריות (האם ה*לוחות* באמת היו ספיר? האם ספיר יכול להיות כל כך גדול?) → נתקע בשאלות הטנגנציאליות האלה → בסופו של דבר מוצא דרך חזרה לרצון הפילוסופי המקורי לדעת מה דברים באמת הם. זה "תיאור סביר של כמה אנשים"—סוג של היסטוריה אינטלקטואלית שבה סקרנות פילוסופית אמיתית מקבלת עיכוב דרך פרטים תיאולוגיים לפני שחוזרת לאובייקט האמיתי שלה.
אנשים רבים נראים מעוניינים באמת האם ה*לוחות* היו ממש ספיר—שזה קצת מוטעה. הגנה חלקית: אפילו האנשים האלה "טובים יותר" מספקנים טהורים כי אכפת להם מה*לוחות* ב"דרך אמיתית"—לא בגלל הספיר אלא כי הם חשים שאיזו אמת שוכנת בהם.
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בקיצור, שאלות בצד, אנחנו עושים טוב. *נרצה*. השיעור מסתיים.
המרצה:
לפני שהם בכלל התחילו לעשות את מדינת ישראל, אתה התחלת את זה כן, אז מה זה אומר? לא, דיברנו על נושא חשוב מאוד ויזואלי. אבל אני יכול רק להגיד שזו הבעיה עם יהודים שהם יכולים כאילו אם אתה אומר שמועה אז אתה לא יכול פשוט כאילו להשאיר את הבעיה. אני חייב כאילו לומר וורט, וזה מה שאני הולך לעשות. אני אגיד לכם את הוורט או אולי אנחנו לא צריכים לעשות את זה, אולי אנחנו צריכים פשוט לקחת את הכוח להשיג בעיה היא שבני אדם הם מסוג הדברים שלומדים דברים.
מעניין, תהליך מאוד מעניין ומרתק שבו אתה לומד דברים, בתקווה. המצליחים, אלה שהשיגו משהו, שהגיעו להבנה כלשהי או לתובנה כלשהי או לפריצת דרך כלשהי, פריצת דרך אישית—אני לא מתכוון בהכרח שהם גילו את כוח המשיכה—איזושהי הבנה של איך הדברים הם ואיך הדברים צריכים להיות ומה הם אומרים, הם גדלים.
ומה שקורה כשהם גדלים זה שהם עוברים דרך הדברים שגרמו להם להגיע לשם. אז, אם אני מאוד מבולבל ויש לי חבורה של שאלות מטופשות, שחשבתי שהן שאלות נהדרות, הן היו שאלות נהדרות. כי הדרך שבה ראיתי את חיי, או הדרך שבה ראיתי את המציאות, או הדרך שבה ראיתי הכל חסרה ניואנס—לא ניואנס, חודשים—חסרה מציאות, זה היה איכשהו כמו להגיע, אנחנו מגששים לקראת זה מאיזה קצה מוזר.
ואז סוף סוף אתה פורץ דרך, אתה מוצא את הארמון, כמו שאתה חופר דרך משהו וכמו דוחף עפר פה ודוחף עפר שם וזה מפריע לך וזה מפריע לך. וסוף סוף אתה פרצת דרך המנהרה והגעת לארמון.
אז אז בדרך כלל מה שקורה זה שאתה מפסיק לדאוג מאוד לגבי העפר במנהרה. זה פשוט זה חלק מהתהליך כמו איזה בחור שחפר עפר ודרך מנהרה וקודם כמו עפר היה כל החיים להבין לדחוף את החתיכה הזו של הפחד שלהם ואז אם אתה שם כמו קורה אתה יכול להתקדם צעד אחד כי המנהרה לא קורסת מאחוריך ואז אתה מבין איך כאילו לעשות את הבוץ רטוב ולעשות ממנו לבנה כך שאתה יכול איכשהו לבצע את התהליך הזה של עשיית מנהרה ויציאה ואז סוף סוף כשאתה יוצא מהמנהרה, אתה לא רוצה לשמוע על בוץ לשארית חייך. זה הרגשי.
אותו דבר בסיסי קורה עם אנשים. זה מה שקורה עם אנשים. הם מתחילים עם כמה שאלות. עכשיו, הם מתחילים עם כמה שאלות, ואז סוף סוף, והם חושבים שהשאלות האלה הן מאוד, מאוד אמיתיות, כמו מאוד גדולות, אבל אלה הן כמו, אתה יודע מה זה כל כך מצחיק אבל ככה זה כמו אם מישהו שהגיע שהגיע לאיפשהו חושב אחורה על דברים מסוימים כאילו שהיו כאילו שהיו כל העולם שלו אז כאילו זה היה כל כך מז'ורי כאילו זה כאילו דרמה מז'ורית כאילו אתה יודע זה כמו דרמה מז'ורית של מישהו שנולד כאילו במנדל הייגרטאון.
כמו רגע אבל זה אומר בספרים החסידיים שהרבי הוא הדרך שדרכה אנחנו נוגעים. האם זה באמת אומר מנדל? או אולי זה אומר סורול. שמעתי את ההירא כפירא. אחיו הוא גראדא הצדיק. והוא הצדיק. וכאילו באמת, האם זה באמת החתך? אתה יודע, אנשים לא יודעים את האישטיזם. בתקווה. האם זה באמת מה שהאדמו"ר הזקן התכוון? או אולי הוא התכוון למשהו קצת שונה. והוא כאילו די מודאג לגבי זה. וזה כאילו עניין שלם.
ואם מישהו בתקווה, בוא נגיד, אני לא יודע הרבה אנשים שהצליחו לעבור את זה, אבל כמה אנשים כן. בוא נגיד מישהו בתקווה מבין את התשובה. אני לא אומר שהוא הופך לאות חסיד או כן חסיד. זה לא הדיון כאן. הוא מבין משהו כמו: רגע, יש עולם שלם. יש כמו 7 מיליארד אנשים בו. ויש כמו נושאים אמיתיים, כמו שאלות אמיתיות. פשוט כמו, אתה יודע, אני אפילו לא יודע מה השאלות האמיתיות בהקשר הזה. אבל כמו יש דברים אמיתיים שקורים. יש הכל אחר וכאילו כל הדיון הזה הוא כאילו אפילו לא שאלה טובה. זה אפילו לא כאילו אתה יודע זה איפה שהתחלתי אז בואו בואו נכבד את השאלה הטובה. זה אפילו לא זה. זה פשוט כזה בלגן.
עכשיו כמובן הוא יכול לדבר כמובן אה זה לא אני שמחמיר את הדברים על ידי נתינת כל המשווה הזה. לא, אל תיתן משל מנטלי. תן משל טוב. אתה רואה את הבעיה? אתה רואה את הבעיה? זו אותה בעיה.
לעניני זה ככה. אנחנו צריכים לעשות עוד הקדמה אחת. לעניני זה ככה. יש כמה אנשים שאין להם בעיות ואין להם פתרונות ולא לומדים כלום.
אמרתי שבני אדם הם מסוג הדברים שלומדים. זה החידוש הגדול. אתה צריך להאמין בזה. זה לא משהו שאנחנו תמיד רואים.
בני אדם הם גם מסוג הדברים שבאט. הדבר הכי מצחיק הוא בן אדם. השבוע מישהו בא אלי עם שאלה, למה מישהו מתנהג ככה? אמרתי לו, אין לי מושג. להגיד לך, יש דבר, כמו יש חיות מצחיקות, יש קופים שיש להם דרך מצחיקה לעשות דברים, ויש איזה עטלף מוזר שתלוי הפוך, ואל תשאל אף אחד למה. בני אדם הם מסוג הדבר הכי מצחיק. אף אחד לא יודע למה הם עושים את הדברים שהם עושים. לא הגיוני.
אז באותה דרך, למה הגעתי להגיד את זה? בני אדם הם מאוד מצחיקים והם לא באמת דברים שלומדים. יש רק כמה בני אדם שלומדים. בני האדם, ללכת לפי תצפית, הם מסוג הדברים שמוצאים עוד דרכים חדשות להיות משוגעים כל יום. הם לא לומדים כלום. הם לא משתפרים. זו איזושהי תצפית שאתה בהחלט יכול לעשות מקריאת החדשות ובסדר אתה רוצה שאני אדבר על עכו"ם אני לא יודע איך לעשות את זה באמת לדבר על זה תמיד אמיתי לדבר על זה.
הנקודה שלי היא לעשות חבורה כשנראה שיש להם חיים טובים בכל העולם שלהם, כמו התולעת שבתוך השרין שלא יודעת שהיא בשרין, אתה יודע? המשל של הבבא. אתה מכיר את המשל הזה? המשל של הבבא יש תולעת שבתוך השרין שיש לה חיים טובים. זה האחד, זה נבוכדנצר.
והאנשים האלה, עכשיו, אני רוצה להגיד משהו מאוד חשוב. האנשים האלה, הם חושבים שהם מהאנשים הטובים מסיבה כלשהי. והרבה מאיתנו מאמינים בזה מסיבה כלשהי. זה דבר מאוד מצחיק. מספר אחת: תפסיקו להאמין בזה. בסדר. הם לא האנשים הטובים. הם פשוט כמו תולעים בדבש או מה שזה לא יהיה, בתבואה. זה הכל. תולעת בתבואה. זה לאן תולעים הולכות. אני לא יודע. משהו. אני לא יודע. מה זה? תולעת בתבואה.
האנשים שסובלים דתית. כן. אנשים דתיים. תמיד יש להם את התשובות לכל דבר. כל החיים שלהם זה רק על ללכת למקווה בזמן ויש להם את המנין הראשון של תפילה ואני לא אותו בחור, נכון? אני יודע בליקווד יש כזו כוורא זה החידוש של ליקווד יש את הכוורא האלה בליקווד הוא הולך למקווה ויש לו את המנין הראשון והילדים אומרים כמו ברצינות נבוך, אני אפילו לא יכול להגיד נבוך כי הוא שמח.
אלה סוג אחד של בחורים, בסדר. עכשיו הסוג הזה של בחורים, כמו רבי נחמן פעם אמר לחסיד שלו, אמר לו, אני אוהב אותך מאוד, אני רוצה לתת לך ברכה. ברכה היא שעשרת אלפים שנה אחרי אתה תבין את הבדיחות שלי.
אז זה סוג הברכה שאתה יכול לתת לבחורים האלה. אני מקווה שתבין את האברות שלי בעוד עשרת אלפים שנה אחרי שאתה הולך למות וללכת לגן עדן ולהיוולד בגלגול חיסליש טוב יותר, אולי. זה המצב. לא אומר שככה זה רחוק. אז זה סוג אחד של בחור.
עכשיו הסוג הזה של בחור, עכשיו, בסדר, טוב, אז יש עוד סוג של בחור. זה הדזך. שהוא לומד דגימור ואומר ששמע שדגימור הוא מאוד חכם, אבל זה לא הגיוני, אז מה קורה? זה הסוג השני של בחור, נכון? יש כזה סוג של בחור.
והסוג הזה של בחור גם, כמו, כש, לפעמים, עכשיו, הנה, זה למה, כשאני אומר דברים, אני חושב עליהם, ואז אני הולך להגיע לסיפור אחר מזה שבאת איתו. אבל יש הרבה מהבחורים האלה, כביכול, זה מה שאתם אנשים אומרים לי. אה, כמוני. כמו, תתעורר. אף אחד לא יודע אם יש אלוקים. אם יש אלוקים, הם לא יודעים אם הוא נתן את התורה.
כשאני אומר את השאלות האלה, אני נשמע כל כך טיפש. כמו, האם אנחנו צריכים לצבוע את העולם לבן או אפור? כמו, למה זה הדבר? אבל בכל מקרה, מסיבה כלשהי, זה כאילו העפר. זה מה שאני מגיע אליו.
ובאמת, אתה יודע, שמבקרי המקרא אמרו שהיו ארבעה משה רבנו, לא רק הוא ניצח וזה עושה את הדברים יותר גרועים—זה עושה את זה יותר טוב—ארבעה בחורים הסכימו פחות או יותר על אותו רעיון. אבל בכל מקרה, מסיבה כלשהי זו כביכול בעיה גדולה.
ומה עוד? אני לא יודע. מה כל הבעיות שיש לכולם? אני כאן עושה חוזק מזה. אני לא מתכוון לעשות את זה. חלק מהן בעיות דתיות וחלק מהן פשוט בעיות בסיסיות של העולם. העולם מאוד ישן אבל סקרן. אה שכחתי, נכון יש דינוזאורים.
כן, יש דינוזאורים. אנחנו כאן עושים חוזק. אנחנו לא עושים חוזק. מה שאנחנו מנסים לתאר זה, אתה יודע, מה אנחנו מנסים לתאר? שאם אתה לא אוהב את זה, אם אתה חושב שאין דינוזאור, אז אתה לא הולך להזדקק לרפואה שלמה ולוזאד לובא, אולי יהיה לך את זה. בסדר. כי אתה פשוט בטוח. לא יכול להיות. הרב שלך אמר לך שאין דינוזאורים.
אני לא נכנס לזה. הבחור הזה הוא בכלל, כן. הבחור הזה הוא בכלל לא.
בסדר? אתה שואל? הבחור ש... עכשיו, אז יש... אז יש אנשים אחרים שדואגים לגבי כל הבעיות האלה. וזה באמת מפריע להם. בסדר? ואלה לא אזכור. אתה יכול לדבר איתם, נכון? כמו, שלום, אתה בן אדם. אתה חי בעולם הזה. כן, מה קורה?
באמת, איך הבחור אומר, "באמת, זו הסיבה שאלוקים עשה את העולם לפני 15 מיליארד שנה" — אני מצטער, מתי שזה — "וגם ש-13 בחורים בליקווד צריכים ללמוד, זה התכלית של הכל"? כשאתה אומר את זה ואתה לא מתפוצץ מצחוק, נכון? אני לא מדבר על אחרי שאתה בא לשיעור שלי ואתה מבין שזה נכון. שלום, אתה באמת — אתה אפילו לא מבין שאתה אומר משהו. זו לא קושיא על זה. אתה צריך להבין את זה.
האם מותר לי להגיד עבא קרסס? כן, השיעור הזה הוא להגיד עבא קרסס. אתה צריך לקבל את זה. זה לא כאילו יש קושיא על זה, נכון? זה צחוק שבצחוק.
אם אתה מתחיל לשעשע את השאלה, "כן, אולי תכלית הבריאה היתה ש-500 בחורים ב-BMG צריכים ללמוד רש"י" — בגלל זה אלוקים ברא דינוזאורים? אה רגע, אין דינוזאורים. העולם קצת יותר קטן. אבל אפילו העולם, לפי 6,000 שנה, ועם רק הקרנף — אין דינוזאורים, כי יש הבדל גדול. אלוקים לא יכול לברוא דינוזאורים. הוא יכול רק לברוא...
זו הסיבה שיש כרגע בערך 8 או 7 מיליון אנשים בעולם, תלוי במי אתה מאמין. או אולי רק אחד — אף אחד לא יודע. אף אחד לא יודע כמה אנשים באמת יש. חבורה של מדינות באפריקה אומרות שיש להן מיליון אנשים — אף אחד מעולם לא פגש אותם. בכל מקרה, תיאוריית קונספירציה חדשה: אולי זו הסיבה שלא התמלאנו יתר על המידה — המפקדים הם לא שקר. מי יודע?
תלמיד: הבחור שמת, המספרים שלו הם...
מרצה: אה, אתה מתכוון לפול ארליך? משהו כזה. כן.
אז כן, הקיצוב, מה שאני מנסה להגיד הוא: אתה פותח את הדבר, יש 8 מיליארד אנשים בעולם, והנקודה של כל זה היא שאנחנו צריכים לשרוף את המצות שלנו ולוודא שאין אפילו חשש חמץ ואפילו לא חשש מצה בזה. מצה, אתה יודע, מצה היא מאוד קרובה לחמץ. אתה צריך לוודא שהמצה שלך היא אפילו לא מצה. אם זה מצה, אז זה ממש... כל עוד זה אומר, מצה וחמץ הם אותן אותיות — זה רק הבדל קטן. אתה יודע, במציאות, זה מאוד קרוב.
אז בגלל זה העולם נברא. ואם יש לך ספק על זה, זה נבוך. נבוך, אתה לא יודע. נבוך. אם כשאתה אומר את זה ואתה מבוגר אנושי ואתה לא מתפוצץ מצחוק או בוכה — כי יש בחורים עם זקנים ארוכים שבאמת חיים את החיים שלהם על בסיס הפנטזיה הזו — אז, איך אתם בחורים אומרים, אנחנו אפילו לא מדברים עליכם.
תלמיד: אתה משכיל, כולם משכילים. אני חייב להיות משוגע.
מרצה: אני לא משכיל. אני חושב שאתה לוקח אותם ל — אתה לוקח אותם בערך הנקוב.
תלמיד: לא, לא, הם מאמינים בזה 100 אחוז.
מרצה: כן, כן. לא, אנחנו איפשהו פשוט לומדים לווגאס.
תלמיד: אז אז הם אומרים, "לא, לא, לא, הם מלמדים את הילדים שלהם..."
מרצה: זה מגוחך. זה לא רק — זה לא שגוי. זה אפילו לא — אם "שגוי" היה מחמאה לזה. "שגוי" אומר שיש איזושהי נקודה, שיש איזה — "שגוי" הוא פשוט חלקית נכון. יש נקודה, אבל אתה — זה לא... אני לא אומר שזו האמת, אבל הדרך שבה זה מובן והדרך שבה אנשים מדברים על זה, זה לא — "שגוי" היה מחמאה שזה לא ראוי לה. זה לא שגוי. זה משוגע. זה סכיזופרני. זה פסיכוטי.
שלום, אתה יודע מה? אלוקים ברא את העולם כדי שאני צריך לרקוד שלוש פעמים אחורה כל בוקר על הרגל השמאלית שלי. זה הגיוני באותה מידה.
תלמיד: אה, כי יש לך ספר. הספר אומר את זה.
מרצה: כן, ואתה יודע על הספר הזה כי — אה, כי 600,000 אנשים חשבו... היו לי עוד 600 אנשים שראו את זה. כי זה לא — הספר להיות אמיתי. תתבגרו, אנשים. מבוגרים ממשיכים לחזור על השטויות האלה. אתם צריכים להתבגר. אני לא אומר שאתם מבינים — אני לא צריך לפנפיסיקל כאן. זו הנקודה, בסדר?
ועכשיו המציאות היא שבמדינה הזו שנקראת ליקווד, או בכל מקום שבו אנשים עם כיפות שחורות מתכנסים, רוב הדיונים הם ברמה הזו — שזה אפילו לא שטויות. זה... אני לא אומר שאם אתה חושב שיש איזושהי אמת ואתה יכול לעשות משל ולספר את זה לילדים שלך, בסדר. אבל אנחנו מדברים על מבוגרים עכשיו.
אף ילד לא צריך לצפות. אני הולך לכתוב את זה על הסרטון הזה. כל פעם שאני מעלה סרטון, יוטיוב שואל אותי אם זה לילדים, ואני תמיד אומר שזה לא. כי אם זה לילדים, הם לא נותנים לך... כן, מסיבה כלשהי הם לא נותנים שאתה עשית את המיני-פלייר. זה הגדול — עושה הבדל.
בכל מקרה, יוטיוב מגן על הילדים מהמיני-פלייר. אל תשאל אותי. אני לא יודע. יש לך יוטיוב.
תלמיד: שזו הבעיה העיקרית של רוב האנשים עם הפלטפורמה.
מרצה: אני לא יודע. המיני-פלייר, זו הבעיה. אתה לא יכול להקשיב לזה ברקע. אני הלשנתי. בכל מקרה.
תלמיד: יכולה להיות בעיה בעצם עם החזן והשיעור במכונית.
מרצה:
הוא עבר את כל התחנות שאפשר לעבור על סמך הקושיא הזאת. ואז, ולבסוף הוא החליט שהוא הולך להיות מלמד, לבוא לאוניברסיטה. כמובן, מה הוא הולך ללמוד? הישיבות הליטאיות.
הלו. בגלל זה צריך ללכת לאוניברסיטה לעשות דוקטורט על הישיבות.
בכל מקרה, זה כל כך, אז בכל מקרה ואז הוא אמר שיום אחד הוא היה באוניברסיטה עומד שם ליד הקפה ויש בחור מיפן שבא - באתי לראות שהדאגה תבוא ולבי יראה ברגש קולי כמו שהטבח אמר כשפתחו את האוניברסיטה העברית יכול לראות וכשלישי אז הם הולכים מיפן באו לחקור את החכמה היהודית בירושלים ובאוניברסיטה העברית, אני חושב.
והבחור הזה הוא בחור מיפן. והוא דיבר איתו על משהו. הוא הבחור שלא יכול לאכול. לא, לא, יש הרבה בחורים מיפן. והבחור היה כאילו מדבר איתו, והוא ניסה להסביר לו, אתה יודע, חרדים ודתיים, וכמו כל העולם כנראה לא יודע. והבחור הזה מיפן, והוא מסתכל עליו כאילו, הא?
לא רק שהבחור הזה היה מיפן, הוא חשב - אני לא יודע מה היה הדבר של הבחור הזה - אבל הבעיה הגדולה הזאת, היא ענקית: האם צריך להיות כיפה לבנה או כיפה כחולה או כיפה אדומה? מה?
תדמיין שאתה הולך לקבוצת אנשים באי סנטינל והם מנהלים מחלוקת ענקית אם צריך לשים שני קצוות על החנית שלהם או קצה אחד, והם כאילו מחרימים אחד את השני בגלל זה, וכאילו יש איזה - כאילו זה לא אמיתי. כל העניין הזה, תתעורר. זה לא על זה העולם.
אז אתה מבין דברים כאלה, שלא מחליטים להיות בודהיסט. לפחות, לפחות, אתה יודע, הם מדברים על המציאות, לא על כאילו אם הטריסקר שבע מפנוביץ' זה או זה. על זה העולם. זה מה שהם חושבים עכשיו.
מרצה:
זה מאוד חשוב נכון. אז שנה ראשונה, ראשית יש שלב של דחיפה ה - בוא, אני לא חושב עליהם, אנחנו לא הולכים לקרוא לזה דחיפה ה-תחתון הטיפשי ובכי. אוקיי, זה שלב מספר אחד או סוג אחד של אדם. אין שום דבר טוב בזה, להיות מאוד - אחרי זה אין שום דבר טוב בזה. יש טוב בכל ובכל השלבים האלה, יש משהו טוב במובן של שיש בזה איזשהו אמת, אבל אין מה להסתכל למעלה בזה. אנחנו צריכים לזכור את זה: שום דבר טוב בזה.
כשאתה אומר שיש משהו טוב בזה, אתה עובר על ה - אני אגיד לכל החברים שלי כל אומר, "הלוואי והייתי טיפש." אתה הבחור שנקבר ב - אם אתה אומר, "וואו, לא הייתי צריך לדעת, זה היה יותר טוב," זה טוב. כמובן שזה מראה לך את המציאות. תודה רבה. מה אתה רוצה לחיות בקודש בלי תולעת?
אוקיי, זה מספר אחת.
מרצה:
אז יש סוג שני של בחור שהוא כאילו, "הלו, זה כל-צדרית משיגעס וניתפלל אקשא." זה הסוג השני של בחור. אוקיי? טוב מאוד.
מרצה:
עכשיו, מתברר שיש סוג שלישי של בחור. בסדר? הסוג השלישי של בחור, מה הסוג השלישי של בחור שאיכשהו הבין שזה מאוד - ברור, זה מאוד חשוב לציין - הסוג השלישי של בחור אומר ברור שהעולם לא נברא כדי שתלמד. אני אפילו לא צריך לדבר על זה. אני מרגיש טיפש לדבר על זה עכשיו.
ואז מה הוא אומר? מה הוא אומר? העולם גם לא נברא כדי לתקוף את האנשים. זה גם - לא, אנחנו צריכים להבין בשביל מה העולם נברא. גם יהדות רציונליסטית היא שטות עוד יותר גדולה. אוקיי? אל תגיד לאף אחד. זה בערך ככה. אנחנו לא כאן כדי לעשות כאילו טיפולוגיות של קבוצות מנסים להגיע אליהם.
זה מה שהוא אומר, כאילו תקשיב, אתה החלומי אתה מבין את זה. כן, אני מתכוון תודה רבה. וגם יש - אתה לא יכול לחיות את כל החיים שלך מהמצפון הזה. לא רק שאתה לא יכול לחיות את החיים שלך, אני חושב שכולם מבינים שאתה לא יכול לחיות את החיים שלך. כן, בדיוק. אבל רוב האנשים הם ככה כי הם - אוקיי, אנחנו הולכים לדבר על אלה ספציפיים, אני רק מנסה לתת סיפור.
מרצה:
וגם, יש בעיות אמיתיות. יש בעיות אמיתיות. אתה יודע שאפילו, דרך אגב, אפילו במובן של בעיות יהודיות, כמו הבעיה היהודית, זו בעיה אמיתית. הבעיה היידישית. זו בעיה אמיתית. היסטורית, זו לא בעיה היסטורית - זו לא בעיה מטפיזית. אבל זו בעיה היסטורית, זו אמיתית, אוקיי?
השאלה של הצמצום כפשוטו, זה מזויף. אף אחד, זה לא משנה. זה משנה רק אם אכפת לך מהאמת על אלוקים, אבל כל זה כאילו כל הישיבה מאוד מודאגת אם הגאון מווילנא צדק או אם הבעל התניא צדק - אתה משחק, משחק, אני לא יודע מה. אתה משחק עם מקלות. זה לא אמיתי - זה לא האמיתי איפה הבעיות האמיתיות.
שאלה טובה: האם אלוקים נתן את התורה בהר סיני או לא? כמה אנשים היו שם? 600,000? 500,000? 999? זה לא אמיתי. זה לא עושה שום הבדל לאף אחד. אתה יודע מה עושה הבדל במציאות? כיהודי, אפילו כיהודי זה לא עושה הבדל.
מרצה:
אתה יודע מה עושה הבדל כיהודי? יש נושאים אמיתיים. כמו, האם אנחנו צריכים לסגור את העניין הזה של הפרדה יהודית? כי נראה שזה פשוט גורם לנו להיהרג במשך 2,000 שנה. או שאנחנו צריכים למצוא פתרון אחר? זה נושא אמיתי. שאלה אמיתית. המוחות הגדולים ביותר היו בזה במשך 200 שנה. הם לא מצאו פתרון.
אבל אתה סאטמרי. אתה מצווה. באמת, זה שגחה פרקטית. זה לא קשור לשום דבר. אתה מבין מה אני אומר? הבעיה שלי לא הייתה אם האמנו שבן-גוריון היה שליח של השגחה או שהוא היה רשע שניסה לעשות את המדינה זכותים כדי להביא לנו כלישול.
אתם אנשים פשוט מסתכלים - אתם ממש מגיעים לארמון מהעפר מאחוריו כי אתם צריכים לחפור דרך ההר כדי להגיע אליו ואתם מתווכחים באיזה צד של עפר לדחוף.
מרצה:
כן, וגם האפיקורסים, פשוט הייתה להם פתרון לזה. האנשים האלה - הם מחוברים למציאות בצורה טובה לחזור כמו. כן, כמו היה לך פתרון אחי. כן, הצעתי את הפתרון. מרקס הציע את הפתרון. אני מתכוון בספר הזה על ה - וכן הלאה. זו שאלה אמיתית.
אתה בא לזה מכזה בלגן מצחיק. אתה אפילו לא - אתה אפילו לא מבין. הבעיה היא אם הם לומדים תורה, אז הם לא יוכלו ל - או בחור הצבא, זה הדיקי הגדול, כמו שרב צויודה אמר. אתם אנשים כל כך רחוקים מהמציאות שזה אפילו לא מצחיק.
אז אתה מבין את זה וזה - כל העניין של להיות יידיש זה רק תאונה היסטורית. לגברים, זו בעיה אפילו יותר גדולה. נכון? לא הייתי צריך לצאת מאפריקה עם הניאנדרטלים שם. בכל מקרה, לא.
מרצה:
אז, ואז אתה מבין את זה, אתה יודע, כן, כמובן שהרבי שלך היה טיפש, אבל אתה יודע למה נבראת? אתה יודע מה משמעות החיים? מה הנזר הבריאה? זו למעשה שאלה רצינית. זה למעשה מאוד אמיתי.
וזה למעשה גם נכון שאפילו אם אין לך, כאילו, יש, כאילו, סוג כזה של שובוניצחות, כאילו אני יכול להוכיח לכל אתאיסט שאני צריך להיות בחור ישיבה - אפילו אם זה שטות, אתה עדיין צריך להיות בחור ישיבה. עדיין דבר די טוב לעשות עם הזמן שלך.
אלא אם כן אני מורשה להגיד את זה כאן כבר - עם הרמה הזאת של בגרות, כן.
תלמיד:
אני יכול לשאול אותך משהו? למה אנחנו מדברים בצורך? למה זו שאלה מאוד חשובה? למה? במילים אחרות, אנחנו באמת שואלים את אותה שאלה כמו הבחור הזה או הישיבה שואלת כי אנחנו או -
מרצה:
רגע, רגע, רגע, רגע, רגע, רגע. השאלה שלי היא, אנחנו מתחילים עם אותה הנחת יסוד -
תלמיד:
לא, לא, לא, אני לא מתכוון לזה. אני לא מתכוון לזה.
מרצה:
לא, אני לא מתכוון לזה, אני לא מתכוון לזה. אני לא מתכוון לזה. אני לא מתכוון לזה. למה זו בעיה רצינית? במילים אחרות, למה זו בעיה רצינית? למה נבראתי, או נולדתי, או כאן? אולי בדרך טובה יותר, בדרך טובה יותר, בטוב יותר, בדיוק, בדרך טובה יותר, אבל אני אומר את זה בדרך הזאת.
אוקיי, אז צריך להיות לך הקושיא שלך. אז צריך להיות לך הקושיא שלך. אוקיי, יש דרך טובה יותר לענות על זה. וקשה להבדיל בשפה. זו בעיה אחרת. אבל זה מאוד אמיתי. כל הדברים האלה מאוד אמיתיים.
מרצה:
ועכשיו, ועכשיו, יש לנו בעיה חדשה. אוקיי, עכשיו מה הבעיה החדשה? שאין לנו יותר חברים שנשארו.
כי אתה יכול להיות - עכשיו יש כאילו שתי אפשרויות. האנשים שמגיעים לשלב השלישי הזה, יש להם כאילו שתי אפשרויות האלה של עם מי להיות חברים.
מרצה:
ראשית הם חושבים, אני צריך להיות חברים עם כל היוצאים בשאלה. כי אלה הם הנורמליים שהוזכרו. הם לא משוגעים, הם לא חיים ב, כמו לה לה לנד יהיה שוואך. הם חיים בעולם האמיתי.
עכשיו אני צריך לחשוב שאני קצת יותר חכם מהם. אוקיי, אולי אני יכול ללמד אותם, אולי הם יכולים ללמד אותי משהו, אולי נוכל לעבוד על דברים ביחד. כי אני חושב שהיוצא בשאלה השלישי, זה דבר טוב להיות ממשהו כזה, נכון? זה כאילו אתה לא מאמין בשום דבר, תודה רבה. גם אני לא. ועכשיו אוקיי, אז עכשיו בואו נעשה משהו עם - בואו נעשה משהו עם החיים שלנו. כמו בואו, אתה יודע, החשיבה הזאת היא למעשה דרך די מגניבה לעשות משהו עם החיים שלך, של להבין דברים.
מרצה:
אז זה מה שאתה חושב בהתחלה. אתה גם יודע שקורה להיות שגיליתי סוף סוף. אתה יודע מה אתה מגלה? יש לי חבר שאמר לי, תמיד חשבנו, נבוכדנצר [כנראה מתייחס לרבי מקוצק, הידוע בגישתו האינטנסיבית והבלתי מתפשרת], הרבי חסר שורה. זה הולך להיות מה שאתה רוצה להגיד עליו. הוא, נבוכדנצר, היה אחד מהתולעים האלה בצ'יין אנשים [פרום עם חן: אדוק בצורה קונבנציונלית עם חום/חן]. הוא היה בוכה ומדבר על אמונה וכל הדברים והכל. ונבוכדנצר, אבל איפה הבחור החכם שגילינו שברצינות והוא אמר את זה ואז פעם אחת הוא הבין שהמאסטר מקוצק הוא חי בפנטזיה השטן היה אפיקורס. אה, זה היה אפיקורס יותר גדול ממני. בגלל זה הוא בכה כל כך הרבה כי אני אראה את זה כי זה לא האלה ואז הוא ניסה להבין כאילו אוקיי מה אני עושה מעכשיו והוא עשה מה שאני עושה.
ואז אתה אומר את זה לחברים היוצאים בשאלה שלך. אתה כאילו, אתה יודע, אני חושב שזה היה פשוט אפיקורס כמונו. רק הוא הבין את זה. מה אתה הולך לעשות עם החיים שלך? לשבת כל היום לצפות, לקרוא זיכרונות של יוצאים בשאלה? בחייך, הם אפילו לא טובים בספרות. יש ספרות טובה יותר מזה. הם לא פילוסופיה טובה. הם לא ספרות טובה. הם לא חיים טובים. אין מה לעשות אחרי שאתה יוצא בשאלה.
מרצה:
אני רוצה להתקרב להקב"ה. אז אתה יודע שהוא מלא שטויות. כי אנשים שמאמינים לא רוצים להתקרב להקב"ה. יש פה חידוש גדול, וזה מאוד פשוט. כל הליטאים האלה, כשכל הליטאים כבר התחילו לדבר על להיות קרוב להקב"ה, נכון? כמעט כולם, מישהו מהם עדיין מדבר על שכר ועונש? מישהו מהם מאמין בתחיית המתים? אני אומר, כמובן שהם לא כופרים, כי הם מבינים שזה אפילו לא כפירה. זה שטות. כמו שאמרתי, זה אפילו לא בדיחה. זה מעבר לכל העניין. זה כמו משהו - זה מיושן ולא רלוונטי. זה מה שזה. זה כל כך רחוק מהמציאות, כל העניין הזה. לכן אני שואל. אבל למה לא? כי אם אתה באמת מדבר איתם כמו בן אדם רגיל, אתה אומר להם, אתה אומר, אתה בא ואתה חוזר, אתה הולך, אתה כאילו, למה אתה מניח תפילין? אה, כי האלוקים שברא את העולם, כשהוא ברא אותו כאן, פתאום, והוא חושב שאם אנחנו מניחים את הקופסאות האלה, אם זה מרובע לגמרי, אם זה קצת מלבני, אז הוא נותן לך חיים טובים, ואם לא, זה גיהנום, ישר לגיהנום.
אני מבטיח לך, אם אתה גורם לבחור להגיד את זה בצורה פשוטה ורגילה כזאת, כמו שאני מדבר איתך, הם לא יכולים. לכן הם מתחילים להגיד - בכל פעם שמישהו מתחיל לעשות - מתחיל לעוות את הפנים שלו כשהוא אומר משהו, אז הוא משקר, נכון? מבחן גלאי שקר בסיסי. למה אתה מתפלל? למה אתה מתפלל כשיש לך בעיה? זה נקרא גלאי שקר, נכון? הדבר הזה עם העיניים, שאמר, אומר, הכשן כפרן, זה לא משנה לך, תפילה. אבל תפילה, נכון? כי בן אדם רגיל, ככל שמישהו מצחקק יותר בתפילה, כך הוא פחות מאמין בזה. זה לא הופך אותו ליותר - אני כאילו, אמרתי לאנשים, עשיתי מבחן: אם זה עובד יותר טוב מתפילין, כשאתה צועק, או כשאתה פשוט מדבר רגיל, זה לא משנה. שניהם מקבלים תשובה באותה מידה, באותו אחוז. כאילו, תחשוב על זה. אם אתה מאמין - אני בעצם מאמין בזה, אבל זה דיון אחר.
מרצה:
ואני כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון? כאילו למה אתה - מה אתה עושה? מה שאתה עושה זה להיות נגד השטות הזאת, נכון? כאילו, הלו, זה מגוחך. כן, ברצינות. כשהשטיק מתחיל, זה אחד. ואתה הולך ככה [מחווה]. ככל שאתה הולך ככה יותר, כך אתה יותר מתחזה. לא מתחזה - אני אפילו לא אומר שאתה מתחזה. אתה חי במשהו מוזר - אוקיי, אתה מסתיר, כן, או מה שזה לא יהיה. זה לא רציני. לא המציאות. כאילו, אתה לא - כשאתה יודע שאף אחד לא - אני מגיע קצת מאוחר לרמזור אדום. כאילו, הם לא עוצרים ברמזור. אבל עכשיו - טוב, זה שונה, הילד. אבל אפילו הבחורים שכן עוצרים ברמזור, הם לא עושים ככה [עושה מחווה מוגזמת]. "אלוהים, תראה אם הם עוצרים ברמזור!" נכון? "תראה, אני מסכן נפש!" הם פשוט עוצרים ברמזור בגלל האיום שאולי יבואו מכוניות, נכון?
אבל כשאתה אוכל מצה, אתה אוכל מצה, נכון? בקיום מצווה. אכילת מצה על אכילת מצה. למה? כי אכילת מצה היא דבר מזויף, ומשהו - רמזור הוא דבר אמיתי. אתה לא צריך ללכת ככה: "אה, רמזור! רמזור! כן, קראתי את המכתב! עצור! זה על פי דין!" או שאתה הולך דווקא, כי אתה לא על פי דין. מה שזה לא יהיה. וכל זה, יש משהו. אני רק מנסה להסביר לך למה, אם אתה באמת יודע איך אנשים הם, אתה תבין שכולם לא - בגללם. כולם מבינים שכל העניין הזה מאוד מצחיק.
מרצה:
ולכן, כל בחור שמלמד לבחורים רגילים - כאילו, קח כל דוגמה, כל מורה שמלמד לאנשים פרומים - הוא עושה בדיוק את אותו הדבר שאתה מתכנן לעשות ל-OTD. ההבדל היחיד הוא שהאנשים האלה קצת יותר בריאים רגשית, וקל יותר לדבר איתם. ה-OTD בדרך כלל עברו התעללות או מה שזה לא יהיה, ועכשיו - תכא, אני חושב שהם לא עברו, וזה שובר אותך כאדם. אתה מקולקל, והתגרשת, ויש לך את הילדים פה, גרים ב - אוטומטית, זה מאוד קשה לגרום למשהו לעבוד במצב הזה.
תלמיד:
אני רק רוצה - אני רק רוצה להגיד משהו. כאילו, אני לא חושב שזה חייב - המשל חייב להיות הרמזור מול - אפילו בתוך מצוות, הבחור שקיבל את הגרטל אף פעם לא נותן לך את הכסף. זה נכון גם.
מרצה:
זה נכון! היה לי - כל מצווה שאתה עושה עם גרטל היא מזויפת. המצוות שאתה עושה בלי גרטל, אלה אלה שהן מצוות אמיתיות, נכון? כמו בניית סוכה. אתה מדבר על הסוכה. אתה יודע, האנשים שכשאתה רואה תמונה של הרבי בונה סוכה עם הגרטל שלו - אתה יודע שהוא לא בנה סוכה, בסדר? הכל טוב. זה פרק. אנחנו חיים למעלה, מה שזה לא יהיה. אתה יכול לבנות את הדבר הזה.
תלמיד:
אני חושב מי שבונה - האיש שבאמת עושה את המצות, הבחור עם החולצה. הבחור עם הגרטל, אני לא יודע מה הוא עושה שם, אבל לא כ -
מרצה:
בחזרה לזה, זה גורם לזה - הוא עושה את המצה הזאת והיה על פי - הוא מציג את המצה שלו והיה על פי השף. שמידט, מה? כן, תעשה את זה לשמה. בכוונת - אף אחד לא יודע איך זה, אז אנחנו יודעים שאנחנו צריכים להתקיים, נכון? אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר - אתה כבר יודע את ההסבר שלי על המצה הזאת. אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר זה שזה נאפה בשביל - כי האנשים שכתבו את זה היו אותו הדבר, כי - אוקיי, עכשיו זה לא באמת מתחיל. אז ההיפך הוא בבעיה שלא יזיק. זה בשביל הזהירות שלך.
מרצה:
מה אתה עושה אחרי שאתה עובר את כל קורס הילל או איך שזה נקרא, ה-Footsteps האמריקאי? יש להם קורס שלם מה-OTD שלך. פעם היה קורס. אז הם הבינו שזה אפילו לא - עכשיו אוקיי, ברוך השם, קיבלתי את התעודה שלי.
היה מישהו שהתלונן על הילל, שכשאתה מתקשר אליהם, הם שואלים אותך, אתה באמת OTD? כאילו, אתה בכלל כבר יצאת? לא, אנחנו לא מקבלים אותך. כי אולי אתה סתם בלפן. ואני חשבתי, בדיוק, הם לא טובים.
תלמיד:
ואני חשבתי -
מרצה:
לא בדיוק. אבל הנקודה היא, לא, בוא נסביר, בוא נבין למה הם צריכים לעשות את זה. לא, לא כי הם צריכים לרגל. גם לא, כי נגיד יש להם ארגון, הם נותנים כסף לאנשים ללכת ללמוד. עכשיו, כל בחור פרום יכול לבוא ולהגיד -
תלמיד:
הייתי צריך לקחת את הכסף שלהם.
מרצה:
בדיוק. כל בחור פרום יכול לבוא. תראה, הנה הדוח מאנשים שהיו מהגוטיקה. הייתי בחור. אני עדיין. מה ההבדל? אני מתאים לקריטריונים שלכם. אז הם צריכים למצוא דרך לצאת. אז, אתה יודע, האנשים הפרומים מאוד טובים בניצול הארגונים שמציעים להם. אז בקרוב, כל האנשים שמקבלים כסף מה-Footsteps הזה הולכים להיות רק בחורים פרומים.
תלמיד:
הילדים אומרים, להיפך, זה אפליה, אבל אתה רק נותן את ה -
מרצה:
אה, אתה רוצה שאנשים פרומים ידעו אנגלית? אוקיי, אז מה מפריע לך שהוא עדיין פרום? אה, אתה רוצה להיות בטוח? אה, אתה עדיין מיסיונר.
בכל מקרה, אז נגיד הצלחת, התקבלת לכל התוכנית והכל, ואז אחרי שאתה מסיים אותה, אחרי 10 שנים או כמה זמן שזה לוקח, ואתה כאילו, אוקיי, עכשיו מה אתה עושה עם החיים שלך? נכון? מסתבר שזה המקום שבו הרבי התחיל. העניין הוא, אתה מגיע בגיל 35, איפה שהרבי היה כשהוא היה בן 15. הוא גם הבין שכל זה לא שווה כלום. והוא היה כאילו, אוקיי, מה אנחנו עושים? אז, אני הולך להיות רבי.
תלמיד:
למה החלטת על זה?
מרצה:
כי זה הרבי שלי, זה הרבי שלי, זה מה שאתה עושה. מה הבעיה הגדולה?
לא, אבל יש יותר רציני - אני אומר הכל בצורה לצנית, אבל יש דרך רצינית להבין את כל זה.
מרצה:
ואז הרבי הזה, כמו שאמרתי, הוא חושב שהוא צריך לדבר עם חברת ה-OTD. ואז הוא מתחיל לעשות את זה והוא מבין שהם לא צריכים טיפול. הם לא צריכים את הטיפול שלו. הוא גם היה צריך טיפול, אבל איכשהו אולי זה הטיפול שלו, מה שזה לא יהיה. וזה לא באמת עובד. זה מה שהוא הבין. סיפור אמיתי. זה קרה להרבה אנשים שאני מכיר.
ואז הוא הבין, אוקיי, אבל החלטתי שהחיים הטובים זה בערך ללכת לבית כנסת בשבת וכן הלאה. והוא הולך לבית כנסת והוא לא מוצא שום OTD, כי הם לא חושבים שיש להם מקום טוב יותר ללכת אליו בערב שישי. עם אוכל יותר גרוע ושירים יותר גרועים. וריקודים יותר גרועים.
תלמיד:
בעצם, אני לא יודע. אם הוא מקבל את זה - הריקודים בבית כנסת די גרועים.
מרצה:
מה?
תלמיד:
הריקודים בבית כנסת די גרועים.
מרצה:
כן, קשה להיות יותר גרוע, נכון? אם אתה הולך לבית כנסת ברסלב -
תלמיד:
לא, הוא הולך לבית כנסת ברסלב. עדיין מוזיקה גרועה, הא?
מרצה:
יותר גלילה אפלה. אפילו יותר גרוע. גלילה אפלה היא עדיין - מוזיקת ברסלב עדיין יותר טובה מגלילה אפלה בערב שישי. אוקיי, זה מה שרובנו מדמיינים בטוח. נכון, נכון?
תלמיד:
ללכת למועדון. אני לא חושב שאנשים עושים את זה.
מרצה:
אפילו לא ללכת למועדון. אני לא מאמין. אני לא יודע. כמה אנשים כן, אבל אני לא חושב - אף אחד בעולם, אבל -
תלמיד:
כן, הילדים אמרו, אבל ההמון במועדון ברסלב, כולם מדברים על אמונה פשוטה והם כולם אוהבים את השם והם תודה לך השם וכל זה. והוא כאילו, אתם אנשים, אני לא בטוח, אתם מהקבוצה הראשונה או השנייה או השלישית?
מרצה:
הוא לא בטוח. אבל לאט לאט הוא מבין שהקבוצה השנייה היא אותו הדבר כמו האחרונה. למה לא? איך זה? אוקיי, עכשיו זו תשובה אחת לשאלות של האנשים שלך. סיפור אמיתי.
מרצה:
ולכן, אז הוא מבין - אני אגיד לך טיעון למה האנשים שלך אומרים שאנחנו צריכים ללכת למועדון. אנחנו צריכים להיות כמו דוד גרוסמן שהולך למועדונים וגורם לאנשים ללכת למועדון. אתה יודע למה הוא עושה את זה? כי איך אחרת הוא יכול ללכת למועדון?
אז, אין לי מושג, אני לא יודע, אבל אני מדמיין, כאילו, זה כיף, אתה יודע, איך אתה הולך ללכת למועדון?
תלמיד:
מה כל כך מצחיק? כאילו, אתה לא רוצה ללכת למועדון?
מרצה:
כמה אנשים אוהבים את זה, לא כולם אוהבים את זה. כמה אנשים אוהבים את זה, מסיבה כלשהי. כמה אנשים לא אוהבים את זה. כמה אנשים אוהבים את זה. אנשים שיותר חברתיים ואקסטרוברטים, הם אוהבים את זה.
תלמיד:
אז, הילד אמר, ואתה יכול להיות ככה, אתה יכול לעשות את זה במועדון, אבל אתה לא יכול באמת לתת להם שלוש או יותר.
מרצה:
אני לא יודע. רוב האנשים שאני מכיר שמנסים לעשות את זה נכשלים.
מרצה:
אז אז הוא אומר, הוא עושה את השיפוט הזה. הוא אומר, תראה, האדמו"ר הזקן, הוא היה אפיקורס והוא בעצם הבין את זה. ואז הוא חושב, רגע, הבחור שנותן את הדרשה הזאת על הנזיר עבריא, אתה חושב שהוא באמת קונה את זה? הוא באמת כל כך טיפש כמו שחשבתי. אולי אני זה שהייתי טיפש. אולי הוא הבין משהו.
הוא כנראה חסר שפה והוא לא מאוד מתוחכם. הוא לא קרא הרבה ספרות או פילוסופיה או משהו. אם השם שלו הוא סולוביצ'יק אז הוא כן יודע איך לבטא את זה יפה, ולכן זה שווה משהו. אבל אחרת הוא פשוט לא יודע - אין לו שפה. הם לא קוראים כלום. אין לו הרבה ניסיון חיים. לא יודע היסטוריה. לא יודע פילוסופיה. לא יודע ספרות. לא יודע כלום. אבל זו הדרך הכי טובה שלו לעשות את זה.
אז הוא אמר הוא בוכה והוא נותן דרשות על הנזיר עבריא ומסתבר שהוא עושה מה שאני רוצה שהוא יעשה. אז אתה הולך, אתה הופך למורה, ואז אתה מלמד את כולם על הנזיר עבריא וזה מה שרצית לעשות בכל מקרה.
מרצה:
ואתה מפסיק לפנטז שחברת ה-OTD יותר חכמים או גדולים מבחורי הישיבה. הם אותו הדבר. ואם אתה באמת מתחיל לדבר עם בחורי ישיבה, אתה תגלה שהם אותו הדבר. דיברתי עם בחורי ישיבה ועם חברת OTD. בדרך כלל בחורי ישיבה גדולים יותר.
בדרך כלל. אתה יודע למה? כי ב-OTD אתה לא תקוע - אתה רק מורשה לקבל את הקושיות שמובילות לתשובה שעשית את בחירות החיים שלך על בסיסן. אבל אם אתה בחור ישיבה, אז כל בחירות החיים שלך נעשות בשבילך. אתה מורשה לקבל כל קושיות שאתה רוצה.
כמובן, כמה מהם מפחדים מהרבי שלהם. כמה מהם, הם חושבים שאם הם יגידו את זה בגלוי, הם אומרים את זה בדרכים חסידיות. אתה יודע איך אומרים בשפה חסידית? יש דרכים להגיד את זה, נכון?
תלמיד:
איך מישהו אומר - שאלת אותי, מישהו שאל אותי, כן, זו דרך אחת, זה מה שקם אמר.
מרצה:
יש, אתה אמרת, כן, אתה אומר, תראה, אין הוכחה שאלוקים קיים, אבל יש לנו אמונה פשוטה בכל זאת, כי אתה אפיקורס. אחד הקרבות הגדולים שלי.
תלמיד:
נכון. אבל זו כבר אידיאולוגיה.
מרצה:
או מה שאתה עושה זה אתה אומר, אין לי חיות בתפילה. כלומר, אין לך חיות בתפילה.
סיפור אמיתי. הייתי בחור קטן, ואני מניח שהייתי אפיקורס. אני לא יודע. חשבתי שאני מאוד פרום. והיה לי, זה היה חודש אלול, או משהו כזה, אז אמרתי שאני לא רוצה לעשות תשובה.
והיה הבחור הבא הזה ליד והוא אמר, מה אתה מתכוון? לא ידעתי מה לענות. כאילו, אתה מאמין שאתה הולך לגיהנום אם אתה לא עושה - אם אתה לא משיג תשובה.
ו, אה, מה אני צריך להגיד? כן, לא. אז, אה, קשה לך להגיד. אז אתה עושה - אתה מבין שמישהו נכשל, אבל לא הבנת מה אמרתי. אבל ניסיתי להיות כן. כן, כל יום אנחנו עושים את זה, אנחנו מעמידים פנים וכן הלאה.
מה אתה מתכוון? כל פעם שאתה מניח תפילין, אתה מקבל כרטיס. וכל פעם שאתה לא, אתה מקבל כרטיס לגיהנום. ברור, אם אתה לא מאמין בזה, אז אני מבין, אבל אתה מאמין בזה, נכון? אולי אני לא. מה זה בכלל אומר? נכון?
מרצה:
אז זה בסיסי, נכון? ואתה שומע אנשים אומרים שהם לא מאמינים בשכר ועונש. גרניש, אבל הם אומרים לא סוגים של דרכים מצחיקות, אבל זה לא מסובך. הם מאמינים בטוקנים שאתה מקבל. אם אתה שואל אותו, אני בעצם מאמין - אני בעצם לא משחק במשחקי ארקייד, דרך אגב, שלא נותנים לך הרבה כרטיסים. זה מה שהבחור עושה. אתה צריך לשחק במשחקי ארקייד שהם גם כיף וגם נותנים לך הרבה דברים. אז אולי הם רואים את הסימן כי אני לא -
תלמיד:
לא, אם אני מדמיין, אני לא יודע, הבחור הזה היה כמו ליטווק, הוא לא הבין מה רציתי. כאילו ניסיתי להסביר, יש בעיה עם כל משחק התשובה הזה. והוא היה כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה:
אבל אני בעצם חושב שאם אתה עושה את זה לרוב האנשים, התרגיל הזה, הם ירגישו לא נוח, כי הם לא באמת מאמינים בזה. חוץ מהצדיקים הגדולים, כמו שכבר שכנעו את עצמם. זה מה שאני חושב. אתה הולך ללייקווד, הולך ל...
מרצה:
אני רוצה להתקרב להשם. אז אתה יודע שהוא מלא שטויות. כי אנשים שמאמינים לא רוצים להתקרב להשם. יש חידוש גדול, וזה מאוד פשוט. כל הליטאים האלה, כשכל הליטאים כבר התחילו לדבר על להיות קרוב להשם, נכון? כמעט כולם, מישהו מהם עדיין מדבר על שכר ועונש? מישהו מהם מאמין בתחיית המתים? אני אומר, כמובן שהם לא כופרים, כי הם מבינים שזה אפילו לא כפירה. זה שטות. כמו שאמרתי, זה אפילו לא בדיחה. זה מעבר לכל העניין. זה כמו משהו - זה מיושן ולא רלוונטי. זה מה שזה. זה כל כך רחוק מהמציאות, כל העניין הזה. לכן אני שואל. אבל למה לא? כי אם אתה באמת מדבר איתם כמו בן אדם רגיל, אתה אומר להם, אתה אומר, אתה בא ואתה חוזר, אתה הולך, אתה כאילו, למה אתה מניח תפילין? אה, כי האלוקים שברא את העולם, כשהוא ברא אותו כאן, פתאום, והוא חושב שאם אנחנו מניחים את הקופסאות האלה, אם זה מרובע לגמרי, אם זה קצת מלבני, אז הוא נותן לך חיים טובים, ואם לא, זה גיהנום, ישר לגיהנום.
אני מבטיח לך, אם אתה גורם לבחור להגיד את זה בצורה פשוטה ורגילה כזאת, כמו שאני מדבר איתך, הם לא יכולים. לכן הם מתחילים להגיד - בכל פעם שמישהו מתחיל לעשות - מתחיל לעוות את הפנים שלו כשהוא אומר משהו, אז הוא משקר, נכון? מבחן גלאי שקר בסיסי. למה אתה מתפלל? למה אתה מתפלל כשיש לך בעיה? זה נקרא גלאי שקר, נכון? הדבר הזה עם העיניים, שאמר, אומר, הכשן כפרן, זה לא משנה לך, תפילה. אבל תפילה, נכון? כי בן אדם רגיל, ככל שמישהו מצחקק יותר בתפילה, כך הוא פחות מאמין בזה. זה לא הופך אותו ליותר - אני כאילו, אמרתי לאנשים, עשיתי מבחן: אם זה עובד יותר טוב מתפילין, כשאתה צועק, או כשאתה פשוט מדבר רגיל, זה לא משנה. שניהם מקבלים תשובה באותה מידה, באותו אחוז. כאילו, תחשוב על זה. אם אתה מאמין - אני בעצם מאמין בזה, אבל זה דיון אחר.
מרצה:
ואני כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון? כאילו למה אתה - מה אתה עושה? מה שאתה עושה זה להיות נגד השטות הזאת, נכון? כאילו, הלו, זה מגוחך. כן, ברצינות. כשהשטיק מתחיל, זה אחד. ואתה הולך ככה [מחווה]. ככל שאתה הולך ככה יותר, כך אתה יותר מתחזה. לא מתחזה - אני אפילו לא אומר שאתה מתחזה. אתה חי במשהו מוזר - אוקיי, אתה מסתיר, כן, או מה שזה לא יהיה. זה לא רציני. לא המציאות. כאילו, אתה לא - כשאתה יודע שאף אחד לא - אני מגיע קצת מאוחר לרמזור אדום. כאילו, הם לא עוצרים ברמזור. אבל עכשיו - טוב, זה שונה, הילד. אבל אפילו הבחורים שכן עוצרים ברמזור, הם לא עושים ככה [עושה מחווה מוגזמת]. "אלוהים, תראה אם הם עוצרים ברמזור!" נכון? "תראה, אני מסכן נפש!" הם פשוט עוצרים ברמזור בגלל האיום שאולי יבואו מכוניות, נכון?
אבל כשאתה אוכל מצה, אתה אוכל מצה, נכון? בקיום מצווה. אכילת מצה על אכילת מצה. למה? כי אכילת מצה היא דבר מזויף, ומשהו - רמזור הוא דבר אמיתי. אתה לא צריך ללכת ככה: "אה, רמזור! רמזור! כן, קראתי את המכתב! עצור! זה על פי דין!" או שאתה הולך דווקא, כי אתה לא על פי דין. מה שזה לא יהיה. וכל זה, יש משהו. אני רק מנסה להסביר לך למה, אם אתה באמת יודע איך אנשים הם, אתה תבין שכולם לא - בגללם. כולם מבינים שכל העניין הזה מאוד מצחיק.
מרצה:
ולכן, כל בחור שמלמד לבחורים רגילים - כאילו, קח כל דוגמה, כל מורה שמלמד לאנשים פרומים - הוא עושה בדיוק את אותו הדבר שאתה מתכנן לעשות ל-OTD. ההבדל היחיד הוא שהאנשים האלה קצת יותר בריאים רגשית, וקל יותר לדבר איתם. ה-OTD בדרך כלל עברו התעללות או מה שזה לא יהיה, ועכשיו - תכא, אני חושב שהם לא עברו, וזה שובר אותך כאדם. אתה מקולקל, והתגרשת, ויש לך את הילדים פה, גרים ב - אוטומטית, זה מאוד קשה לגרום למשהו לעבוד במצב הזה.
תלמיד:
אני רק רוצה - אני רק רוצה להגיד משהו. כאילו, אני לא חושב שזה חייב - המשל חייב להיות הרמזור מול - אפילו בתוך מצוות, הבחור שקיבל את הגרטל אף פעם לא נותן לך את הכסף. זה נכון גם.
מרצה:
זה נכון! היה לי - כל מצווה שאתה עושה עם גרטל היא מזויפת. המצוות שאתה עושה בלי גרטל, אלה אלה שהן מצוות אמיתיות, נכון? כמו בניית סוכה. אתה מדבר על הסוכה. אתה יודע, האנשים שכשאתה רואה תמונה של הרבי בונה סוכה עם הגרטל שלו - אתה יודע שהוא לא בנה סוכה, בסדר? הכל טוב. זה פרק. אנחנו חיים למעלה, מה שזה לא יהיה. אתה יכול לבנות את הדבר הזה.
תלמיד:
אני חושב מי שבונה - האיש שבאמת עושה את המצות, הבחור עם החולצה. הבחור עם הגרטל, אני לא יודע מה הוא עושה שם, אבל לא כ -
מרצה:
בחזרה לזה, זה גורם לזה - הוא עושה את המצה הזאת והיה על פי - הוא מציג את המצה שלו והיה על פי השף. שמידט, מה? כן, תעשה את זה לשמה. בכוונת - אף אחד לא יודע איך זה, אז אנחנו יודעים שאנחנו צריכים להתקיים, נכון? אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר - אתה כבר יודע את ההסבר שלי על המצה הזאת. אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר זה שזה נאפה בשביל - כי האנשים שכתבו את זה היו אותו הדבר, כי - אוקיי, עכשיו זה לא באמת מתחיל. אז ההיפך הוא בבעיה שלא יזיק. זה בשביל הזהירות שלך.
מרצה: אני לא יודע. אני לא יודע. זה קשה. אני לא יודע את התשובה. אני לא יודע את התשובה, כי אני יכול לתת לך את הגרסה הזאת של סטנד-אפ קומדיה, ואני יכול לתת לך את מה שאנחנו בדרך כלל עושים. זה מאוד קשה לי לתת לך את הדבר שבאמצע. איך אנחנו נותנים את זה? איך אנחנו מתחילים מנקודת המבט של הבחור שמסביר לך שהמילה הזאת שלא הגיונית היא נכונה, אבל אתה צריך לעשות את המילה הזאת? לא בגלל, נכון? איך אתה עובר מאחד - כאילו, איך אתה מגשר בין הדברים האלה, נכון? זה הכי קשה. זה מאוד עדין - איך אתה יכול, איך יכול להיות שיחה שמתחילה ממאוד - מה שאני קורא פרספקטיבה של אדם נורמלי? זה כמו, אה, לחתוך חתיכה מה- הלו, אנחנו עדיין בפרהיסטוריה? מה קורה איתכם, נכון?
מרצה: האנשים היחידים שאומרים את זה - אתם יודעים מי אוהב להגיד את זה, חבר'ה? החב"דניקים. חב"דניקים כולם מסבירים איך זה לא הגיוני. אתה הולך לחב"ד לברית, וזה לא גבר, זה לא גבר, זה לא גבר, מה שלא יהיה. ואז אתה שם את זה באדמה בכוס עם עפר. אם היית מספר - אם הייתי מספר לך מה אנחנו עושים על שבט בפפואה גינאה החדשה, היית אומר, כמו, נבוך. נכון?
אז אנחנו יכולים להתחיל מנקודת המבט הזאת. ואז, אני חושב שזה נכון. אבל אני אומר שבאמצע אז, יש הסבר שאומר שברית מילה היא - אני לא יודע, איך היינו אומרים את זה? זה באמת הדבר שמקרב אותך להשם, וכן הלאה. וזה נכון באותה צורה שזה נכון. בלי - ראית שפשוט החלפתי טונים, נכון? כי כשאני נותן לך שיעור על ברית מילה, יש שלוש פעמים ברית מילה, ואני יכול להסביר לך איך זה הגיוני, ואז אני מסביר איך זה הגיוני, וכן הלאה. ועכשיו פתאום אני מדבר בטון הקול הזה.
אז איך אנחנו מביאים מכמו, אוקיי, אז זה צירוף? פריימן? ושוין, הבנו. אין בעיה. הבנתי. לא, אני עדיין חושב שזה לא הגיוני. מה? גם לגביך, שלגבי ריידער? כן, כן. אבל איך אתה מסביר, איך אתה מדבר על זה? אתה יכול לדבר על זה? אני יכול לתת לך את זה באותה דקה? אתה נותן לנו דקה, שתי דקות, אנחנו ניתן לך את העולם, כל הדרך מ-OTD עד מעבר לדרך.
תלמיד: לא, אבל אני חושב שהגדול - לי, לפחות, הגדול, או הדרך הכי קלה לגשת לזה היא על ידי הסבר לאנשים שחוסר הבחירה שלהם הוא גם בחירה במובן מסוים. או לפחות מה שהם מדמיינים כאורח חיים דיפולטיבי הוא מפוקפק באותה מידה כמו זה שהם אוהבים.
מרצה: אוקיי, נוכל לעשות את זה. אבל האם זה בכלל - כמו, בוא - אני היה - אני יכול לעשות את זה. ודרך אגב, נוכל לעשות את זה? נוכל לעשות כמו, אוקיי, אז האנשים השבטיים שם הם - או מה אתה באמת חושב שהם? הם בעצם בעלי חיים. כאילו, אתה גזען. אתה יותר גרוע ממה שחשבתי. אתה לא גזען. הבעיה הגדולה עם היהדות היא שהם גזענים. אבל כל הבעיה האמיתית שלך עם היהדות מבוססת על גזענות.
אתה יכול לשחק את המשחקים האלה, נכון? לא, לא, לא, אבל אני צריך להגיד, בוא נגיד, נכון, אז מישהו מחליט, אוקיי, אתה יודע, התוכנית הזאת, הסיפור של 600,000, לא ממש עובד. וואו, אז, אוקיי, אז עכשיו מה, נכון? אז עכשיו אתה אומר, אני הולך להיות אמלגמטור. מי זה אמלגמטור בשבילך? מר דומסקרולר, נכון? או כל חיים אתיים אחרים שקיימים. מר סוחר המניות שעובד 19 שעות ביום וחושב שזה חיים.
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה לא עונה על המשיגעת שלנו. זה יותר כמו תגובה שלילית. לא, לא, לא. זה יותר כמו שאלה של כמו, אוקיי, אז גילית שהשקף הזה לא הגיוני. זה לא תשובה לשום דבר. כן. רגע. האלטרנטיבה הזאת עונה על שאלה אחת ופותחת מאה ששוקטות או לפחות יש דרך להתחיל לפתור אותן.
מרצה: אז השאלה האחת איכשהו, מצאת פצעון על היד שלך, ואז החלטת שהפתרון הוא לקחת ידית, נכון? אבל, אה-אה, נראה שאתה צריך יד לכמה דברים אחרים, נכון?
תלמיד: לא, לא, אני לא חושב, בוא נגיד שהוא לא החליט על שום דבר, בוא נגיד שהוא באמת רק חושב על זה.
מרצה: כן, כן, הוא חושב על זה, בטוח, אני רק אומר. הוא עדיין לא ייתן לילד שלו. אני חושד ב-, כמו, אני הולך להיות עדיין. אה, רגע, אבל בוא נבין את הבעיה שלי. אני חושד באנשים שפתאום, כמו...
מרצה: טוב מאוד, אבל תן לי לחזור על הבעיה שלי. הבעיה שלי היא שאני חושב שהנכון - מה שאני עושה, נכון? זה מה שאני בעצם עושה בשיעור שלי: מה שאני עושה זה שאני לומד מה הזוהר אומר על ברית מילה ואני נותן לך מהלך להסביר מה זה שהזוהר יכול להתכוון לגבי ברית מילה, מנסה להבין את זה או מנסה לתת לך את הסיפור של זה, מה שזה לא יהיה, נכון? זה מה שאני עושה, נכון? מושכלים דברים כאלה, זה מה שאני עושה. במילים אחרות, אבל אני חושב שזה הגיוני בדיוק כמו השאלה שלך של זה - שזה מטורף. אבל מה שאני לא בטוח זה שאני יכול לתת לך את הסיפור שמוביל מאחד לשני, כי אני יכול לעשות את כל הדברים האלה שאתה דן בהם, כמו כן, השאלה שלך - אתה באמת יכול להוכיח את השאלה הזאת? יכול להיות לך רעיון טוב יותר? כל מיני דברים כאלה.
ודרך אגב, מה רע בלהיות שבטי ופגאני, אחי?
תלמיד: אה, כי זה אומר בשולחן ערוך שאתה לא יכול להיות עובד עבודה זרה.
מרצה: אנחנו נכנסים ללולאה, נכון? אז למה אנחנו אומרים את כל הדברים המצחיקים האלה? למה אתה לא יכול להגיד, אוקיי, תמחק מילה והיהדות יפה - אתה מסנן דגים ואלס יפה. תמחק מילה, המפורסם - זהו. דג גפילטע הרבה יותר גרוע מברית מילה, דרך אגב. לפחות למילה יש משמעות. תמחק, תמשיך לאכול דגים ולשמור שבת וכל מה שמשמח אותך ביהדות. מילה גורמת לתינוק לבכות, תפסיק את זה.
אני לא יודע, אתה מבין מה אני שואל? זו שאלה ספציפית.
תלמיד: זו לא הייתה השאלה שלי. זו לא השאלה שהייתה לי.
מרצה: תיצור מערכת, מערכת חדר כזאת. לא להגיד שזה תירוץ להגיד שזו לא הנקודה. זה לא - אני לא מנסה לנהל דיון. אלס איז א משל. אלס איז א משל. כל מה שאני מנסה להגיד זה שאני שואל איתך. אני שואל איתך. אני שואל איתך. זו הסיבה שאני לא - זה לא נכון. זה יהיה כמו התנצלות נחמדה. אתה אומר מי כפה - בוא נפסיק את זה, אין בעיה, זה גם - אבל הוא אומר שזה גם בחירה.
אבל מה שאני מנסה - הבעיה שלי היא לא זה. הבעיה שלי היא משהו אחר. הבעיה שלי היא שאני כן חושב שיש משמעות, סיבה, שכל, אמת בדיון בסוגיא הזאת של ברית מילה מהזוהר הקדוש. באמת יש. וכל מה שזה, מה שאני מאמין זה שכל מה שזה, זה כמו דיון ברמה גבוהה יותר של השאלה שלך. כלומר, זו הבעיה.
מרצה: אני הולך לתת לך שטיקל תיאוריה. תן לי לתת לך שטיקל תיאוריה. שאולי, אני לא מתכוון לתת תיאוריה, אני מתכוון לנסות להאיר מה הבעיה. יש לי תיאוריה כזאת. איך - ובכן, אלוהים, אני לא צריך לעשות הכל יותר מסובך מזה.
התיאוריה שלי היא כזאת: כל ההישגים האנושיים, כל הדיונים האנושיים, כל השיח האנושי, אפילו כל הטכנולוגיה האנושית מבוססים, גג-גג-גג, נכון? מבוססים רמה אחת על הרמה האחרת, אוקיי?
אם יש לך מחשב ואתה מדבר ל-AI והוא עונה לך, ברמה הבסיסית יש רק ביטים שמתהפכים עם שערי לוגיקה, וזה 17,000 - אני אפילו לא יודע כמה רמות רחוק מהשיחה שלך עם הצ'אט, נכון? אם אתה לא יודע כלום על איך זה עובד, זה צריך להיות ברור לך אפילו ב- רק בשכבת הרשת, רק שבע שכבות אמורות רשמית, ויש באמת אפילו יותר, אוקיי? וזה רק חלק קטן אחד ממה שקורה, אוקיי?
עכשיו אנחנו יכולים לדבר בצורה אינטליגנטית על השכבה האחרונה ומה שהטכנולוגים קוראים "קופסה שחורה", נכון? או להפשיט את כל הסיבוך מאחורי זה, כל הלכלוך מתחתיו. לא אכפת לנו. עכשיו אם ביטים באמת נכונים או אם שערי הלוגיקה או אם קוד המכונה שרץ על גבי זה מריץ קוד ברמה גבוהה יותר על עוד יותר גבוה וכן הלאה - לא אכפת לנו מכל זה. כל מה שאכפת לנו זה השיחה המופשטת מאוד הזאת, שזה מה שאני בעצם עושה, אוקיי? ככה זה כדי - זה לא אומר שאני יכול להגיע לשם מכאן, נכון?
אם אני הולך - אתה מבין מה אני אומר? כל ההישגים האנושיים, אפילו טכנולוגיה ושפה ומחשבה ותרבות, כולם עובדים באותה צורה. כולם בנויים אחד על גבי השני. ולכן נוכל לנהל שיחה אינטליגנטית על השכבה העליונה או הממשק שאני אפילו - אפילו לא השכבה, אולי רק על הממשק, איך אני מתממשק עם דבר אחר שנבנה בשביל זה תוך התעלמות מהשאר.
מצד שני, אני לא יכול להגיע משם לשם, נכון? במילים אחרות, אם אתה משליך אותי על אי בודד ואני כמו, "אני יודע הכל על מחשבים. אני יושב ליד המחשב הזה כל היום. זה צריך להיות פשוט ליצור מחשב." צ'אט, תבנה מחשב. צ'אט יכול לתת לך הוראות לבנות מחשב אם כבר יש לך מחשב עם חוות שרתים איפשהו באריזונה לתת לך את הדבר הזה, נכון? אבל אם אתה על אי בודד, אין צ'אט, לא יכול להיות מחשב, נכון? אז אתה חוזר למציאות הבסיסית.
ואז אתה צריך לחפור באי כדי למצוא סיליקון. אלוהים אדירים, אתה צריך הרבה יותר מזה, נכון? אתה צריך:
- אריסטו לגלות לוגיקה קודם, אתה מבין, נכון?
- ואתה צריך איזה מוזר מימי הביניים לסווג כל מיני לוגיקה, כמו מה זה "וגם", "או", "x-or"
- כל הדברים האלה הם בעצם מתמטיקה ולוגיקה
- ואתה צריך כמה אנשים מוזרים אחרים מאוחר יותר לפורמל את זה לסמלים
- ואז איזה בחור להחליט שנוכל לעשות את הסמלים האלה חומריים במחשבים
- וכן הלאה וכן הלאה
אני רק מספר לך כמה מהשלבים שאני יודע עליהם, אוקיי? מה שאומר שאם מישהו הולך לשים את עצמו במצב של האי הבודד, מה אם אתה עובד קדימה, אתה צריך להתחיל במקום אחר, נכון?
תלמיד: וכן, בדיוק, אולי בעצם אתה מתחיל במקום שלהם.
מרצה: ואני אפילו לא יכול לתת לך סיפור קוהרנטי של איך אתה מגיע למה שקראנו - היסטוריות של מחשוב, הם יכולים לתת לך כמו סקירה כללית מאוד עליונה של איך זה קרה, אבל אני בהחלט לא יכול ליצור את זה בשבילך, נכון?
עכשיו, בצורה דומה, תרבויות ואפילו תפיסות עולם - לא רק תרבויות, אפילו כמו האידיאולוגיות של התרבויות האלה - עובדות בצורה דומה. הן אולי התחילו, הן בבירור חייבות להיות התחילו על אי בודד איפשהו, או איך שאתה חושב שהאנושות התחילה. אולי זה התחיל עם אלוהים שנתן לאדם את התורה ואת כל הידע שנתן לך התחלה טובה. אוקיי. אבל באותו זמן, הוא חייב היה לתת להם גם איך חכמה עובדת. ועדיין לקח לנו זמן להבין את זה, נכון? אז זה לא קורה.
בכל מקרה, ואז לאט לאט בנינו את כל הדברים האלה, ויש כמה ממצאים של הרמה התחתונה שדולפים דרך. יש כל מיני דברים מצחיקים שקורים. אני חושב שהרעיון של חיפוש מעריב הוא כמו דבר מאוד מוזר לאנשים.
תלמיד: רגע, אתה בעצם צריך להיות...
מרצה: כן, כמו הבחור הזה שעושה את המכונה.
תלמיד: כן, אתה צריך GPU.
מרצה: אז, ועכשיו, בוא נהיה ברורים, כשאנשים עוברים דרך סוג השלבים האלה שדיברנו עליהם, הם עושים את זה בצורה מאוד מסוימת, נכון? אתה כמו, "כל הדבר הזה הוא שטויות." מנקודת מבט חיצונית, זה לא הגיוני. אתה לא יכול לדבר עם חתיכת זכוכית ולקבל תשובות, נכון? אתה יכול, אבל זה לא מסביר את עצמו. זה מטורף. מה שמסביר את זה הוא משהו מאוד ארוך.
אז אז אתה הולך כמו, "ובכן, זה שטויות, תשבור את המחשב שלי, אני הולך לקרוא מעליק בדימן ולשים פטיש על האייפון שלי," כי אייפונים הם טרף, ולרסק אותו באש החמץ, ואז אחרי פסח אתה מבין, "רגע, מסתבר שזה כן פתר כמה בעיות."
ואתה אולי אפילו, כמו איכשהו, במצב הספציפי שלך, עובר דרך כמה מהשלבים שבהם אתה מבין שמחשבים מועילים. כמו, אתה יודע, "אני צריך, אני רוצה להביא מים מהבאר ולכן אני צריך לבנות מריצה ואני כבר יודע על גלגלים. דיברנו על זה פעם. ועכשיו אני צריך לדעת כמה גדול הגלגל צריך להיות לצרכים שלי. זה גדול מדי. ברור שהכי גדול זה הכי טוב אבל לא, זה לא, כי אז פשוט יהיה לי גלגל לשלפ ואני הולך לשלפ את המשקל של הגלגל ואני יכול להביא מים דרך מהמים. אז איך אני הולך להבין את זה? רגע, אני צריך משהו שנקרא חישוב?"
חישוב, המצאה גדולה. אנחנו יכולים לחשב את זה. ומחשבים יכולים לעזור לי עם זה. אני כמו, "רגע, הבחור שנתן לי מחשבון לא היה רק שמאן מוזר ששיחק עם מספרים. זה בעצם סוג הדבר שאמר לי כמה גדול לעשות את המריצה שלי. וואו."
אז דברים כאלה קורים. זה רגשי. דברים כאלה קורים לאנשים בסוג התהליך הזה. הם כמו, "רגע, הברית מילה הזאת בעצם, רגע, אה, אני יכול לדבר על הברית מילה. אני יכול לדבר על הברית מילה."
מרצה: אני יכול לדבר על הברית מילה, אני חושב, כמו שאמרת, אוקיי, בוא נחזור עירומים לגן עדן ובוא נראה מה אנשים עושים. אה, יש להם ילדים. אה רגע, יש לי רעיונות מסוימים בראש שלי שאני רוצה ללמד את הילדים שלי. איך אני הולך לעשות את זה? זה לא דרש מברית מילה. זה אתה צריך באמת לדמיין את עצמך עושה את זה. כמו מה אני הולך לעשות?
"אני יודע, אתה כנראה יודע, אני הולך לכתוב ספר," נכון? יש לי חדשות בשבילך. יש לי הרבה ספרים. הילדים שלי לא קוראים אף אחד מהם. כתבתי אפילו יותר. כתבתי כמו 10 מיליון מילים בחיים שלי או משהו כזה. אף אחד מהילדים שלי לא קורא אותם. זו לא הדרך. אפילו אם זו הדרך -
אני יודע, אתה כנראה יודע שאני הולך לכתוב ספר, נכון? יש לי את זה בשבילך, יש לי הרבה ספרים, הילדים שלי לא קוראים אף אחד מהם. כתבתי אפילו יותר, כתבתי כמו 10 מיליון מילים בחיים שלי או משהו כזה, אבל אף אחד מהילדים שלי לא קורא אותם. זו לא הדרך. או אפילו אם זו הדרך, זו לא רק הדרך, לא עובד, תנסה את זה. פרופסורים רבים כתבו ספרים שמנים והילדים שלהם אפילו לא יודעים את השמות שלהם. תנסה את זה, אולי ייקח לך זמן רב מאוד.
אז אתה אומר, אני צריך להמציא משהו. אתה אולי באמת תיקח סכין ותעשה חתך באוזן של הילד שלך כי זה מה שהם היו חושבים. אולי כדאי לנו לעשות חתך באוזן שלך. כן, אני האבא של המוזר שחתך את אוזן הילד שלו. אז אתה אולי באמת תסתכל על תינוק שזה עתה נולד ותראה, רגע, לפין שלו יש חתיכת עור נוספת הזאת שלא נראה שהיא עושה משהו. אפשר גם לחתוך את זו.
זה לא ממה שזה עשוי. אני לא יודע. רק נתתי לך תיאוריה. טוב, אני מנסה להראות לך. ואז אתה אומר אוקיי, הרגע סיפרתי לך סיפור ארוך מאוד שאתה צריך להבין שאני פה רק כדי לפתור בעיה מסוימת. זו אחת התיאוריות, יכולות להיות תיאוריות אחרות, אבל אני חושב שזו הכי הגיונית.
וזו יצירת תרבות בסיסית, שזו כמו בעיה אנושית בסיסית. זה בעצם מאוד קשה. זה לא ממש דבר פשוט. אנשים - אני מכיר כמה אנשים בקליפורניה שניסו לעשות את זה בשנים האחרונות, כולם נכשלו ליצור תרבות, תרבות נגדית. בעצם כולם נכשלו. אף אחד מהם לא - אין להם - אין להם איינקלאך, או אם יש להם, הם בגרסה שלישית של הכת, אחרת. זו בעצם בעיה מאוד קשה.
אמרת את זה לפני כמה שנים שאתה מדבר על לשים שלט בשבילך בפסח שתזכור - תזכור נכון? כן, נגיד כמו 24 מעלות הרחק, הרחק ממה שאתה מנסה כנראה ראוי. נסה להיפטר מזה, אל תשתמש בזה. 25 מעלות הרחק. זה הגיוני, זה הגיוני מה שאתה אומר.
אבל בכל מקרה, מה שאני מנסה להראות לך זה שאני מנסה לתת לך את כל התיאוריה הזו כדי לגרום לך לראות שזה באמת - כי תרבות, עכשיו בשלב מסוים אחרי שאוכל לעבור על כל זה עד שאגיע לצד, אני אקח אותך - אני, אין לי מוכן עדיין עכשיו, אבל נוכל בערך לעשות את זה. מה? כן, נוכל לעבור על כל הרמות של טכנולוגיה או של שיח או של מחשבה, ונוכל לראות איך זה באמת רק זה.
עכשיו, אבל זה מה שבעצם קורה לאנשים, ובעצם כולם צריכים לפרק דבר אחד בחיים שלהם ולהרכיב אותו בחזרה כמו שדקארט אמר, ולראות איך זה קרה. זו הייתה המדיטציה של דקארט. זה לא תרגול רע, למרות שהוא עשה את זה בצורה מוזרה. זה לא תרגול רע. אתה צריך לעשות את זה.
ואז אתה אומר, רגע. ואז בדרך כלל מה שקורה, מה שאנשים מגיעים אליו זה להחזיר את האמונה שלהם, נכון? את - ואת האמונה האמיתית שלהם, כמו מה שאני קורא אמונת חכמים. כמו, רגע, הדבר הזה של להיות תרבות עם כל מיני כללים ורעיונות שנראים שרירותיים. אני לא בטוח שאני באמת יכול ליצור משהו טוב יותר מזה. או אם אוכל, זה יהיה כמו עוד תיקון אחד. כמו, לעשות עוד תקנה אחת. אוקיי, תודה רבה. זה מה שכל הרבנים עושים כבר לנצח. מוסיפים עוד תקנה אחת לתורה. או מורידים עוד דבר אחד. או משנים דבר אחד. אתה בעצם באותו מקום כמו כולם. יש לך רעיון טוב יותר.
אתה רוצה לקחת ארוחת עדות? אין בעיה. מה הרבנים עשו? האם שמת פאה בסוף השדה שלך השבוע? הקציר הזה? כן, פאה, מצווה בתורה. זה אומר שלוש אוארבע פעמים בתורה. אתה עושה את זה? אתה יודע שאנחנו לא עושים את זה יותר? ביטלנו את המצווה. זה לא עובד. זה לא עובד. אנחנו עושים את זה כבר לנצח. אין בעיה. אתה חושב שזה לא עובד? אתה צריך לעשות את העבודה. אל תגיד סתם שזה לא עובד. אין בעיה. נפסיק את זה. בוא נעשה מילה. ננסה. תתחיל שם. אני רק אומר, זה - אין - בעצם, בעצם תגיע לזה.
עכשיו האם אוכל לעבור על כל זה כל הזמן? לא. זה מגוחך כמו לעבור על כל - כל מחול עד ללחם חלה בכל פעם. אבל כל הסיפור שלי שנתתי לך עכשיו - אבל זה אני, בוא נגיד הסיפור שלי פשוט המצאתי, נכון? אל תאמין לזה. רגע.
מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך, הבעיה עם זה היא שזה קצת בזבוז זמן. כלומר, לא בזבוז זמן. קודם כל, אתה יכול לעשות את זה קצת, אבל יש משהו - אפילו מה שעשיתי עכשיו זה לא מספיק, נכון? כי אני לא באמת רוצה להיתקע ברמה הזו של הסבר ברית מילה שסיפרתי לך. במילים אחרות, אני חושב שזה לא מספיק, אני חושב שזה לא נכון. זה ממשיך מעבר לזה. ואני בדרך כלל מתחיל ממקום יותר מאוחר.
וזה בדיוק כמו כשאני כותב קוד. אני לא - עכשיו אמרו פשוט תבקש מהצ'אט לעשות את זה כי למה שאהיה טיפש, כל כך טיפש לכתוב את זה בעצמי? או אפילו לפני זה, אני כותב פייתון. אני לא כותב - אני אפילו לא כותב C כי למי יש זמן לזה? אני יכול להגיד למחשב מה לעשות. למה שאצטרך - למי אכפת איך - איך זה עובד? מישהו אחר - זו העבודה של מישהו אחר, נכון? כלומר אם אני לא סומך על הבחור, היה לי דרך טובה יותר. תמיד יש כמו - כמו כשאתה מגלה שאני לא יכול - אה רגע, אני צריך לחפור למטה לשכבה נמוכה יותר כדי להבין משהו. אין בעיה, אני אעשה את זה.
אם מישהו בא לבית ספר לדעת את התהליך ואם אתה לא נותן להם את התהליך אז הם מרגישים כמו היי מה קורה פה, נכון? אני מבין אז לכן - אז לכן אנחנו צריכים לעשות בית ספר? לא, טוב זה מגניב.
לכן מה שאני מנסה לתאר זה שזה נהיה מאוד קשה וכאילו אתה רוצה שאבזבז את הזמן שלי לעבור על כל הטעויות המצחיקות שיש לכולם כל הזמן וכאילו להמשיך לדון בהן? ורק כדי להיות ברור, זה אפילו לא נכון. כמו לחזור לדוגמה של המחשב שלי, יכולנו להמציא מחשבים שעובדים אחרת והם אולי היו מסתיימים טוב יותר. אני לא יודע. היו כמה בחירות שרירותיות שנעשו בדרך, שנקראות תלות במסלול. עכשיו אנחנו תקועים בדרך מסוימת של דברים שעובדים בגלל כמה בחירות שנעשו במהלך הדרך, אולי אפילו נעשו באסטרולוגיה, אני אפילו לא יודע. בסדר?
ועכשיו אתה בא אליי ואני אומר לך למה המחשב שלי עובד ככה ואני אומר לך בגלל אסטרולוגיה ואתה אומר זה מטורף, בוא נעשה אחד טוב יותר. וזה כמו, כן, נסה. לא שווה את המאמץ. אני לא יכול לענות על כל השאלות האלה בשלב מסוים. העובדה שהמציאות והתרבות והכל בנוי שכבה על שכבה - כן, זה נכון, טוב מאוד. אבל זה לא הכל - לא - אין הוכחה בכל שכבה. יש סיפור, זה מה שאני חושב. אם אתה עובר דרך הסיפור, וזה למה עשיתי מה שאני באמת חושב זה שאם אתה חוזר לסיפור שלי שהוא לא כל כך משל, זה ענין של הבחור שהוא אוט"ד ואמון באנשים האלה.
הוא מבין שכל האנשים האלה שהם אוט"ד, הם פשוט צריכים להתבגר. סיפור צריך לקרות להם. מה שאני מתכוון זה שאתה לא יכול - אני לא חושב שאתה יכול - זו האמת. אני לא חושב שאתה יכול ללכת לבחור שהוא בשלב הזה שכביכול כמו אה אין - אין - אין אלוקים. לא, אה, תודה רבה. ואתה יודע שלרב שלי לא הייתה הוכחה טובה. ההוכחה שלו הייתה מגוחכת. רבי אלחנן וסרמן אמר לנו שאף אדם חכם לא מכחיש את אלוקים. זה פשוט לא נכון.
אז עכשיו מה אני עושה? אני לא יכול בעצם להגיד לבחור הזה להאמין באלוקים, גם אם יש לי פתרון, גם אם יש לי את התשובה הנקראת הזו. אני לא חושב שאוכל. אם אני - כמו כמה - כשהעובדה שאתה יושב פה ואתה כל כך מרוצה מה[שיעור] שלי זה בגלל שכבר עברת את זה לפני שש שנים או משהו כזה.
האם אתה יכול לשכנע אותו שיש חומרים בעולם? בטח, אפילו פחות, אפילו פחות, אפילו פחות. האם יש אדם? אתה יכול לשכנע אותו שיש אדם בעולם? כנראה שלא, נכון? אני אפילו לא יכול לגרום לו לראות את הבעיה הזו. זה כנראה יותר קל להתחיל. איך אני בכלל גורם לו לראות את הבעיה הזו? לי, זה יותר -
דברים אחרים? לא, יש אנשים שלא מבינים את גודל הבעיה, הבעיות שתרבויות מקוות לפתור, נכון?
אז אני יכול להסביר לו כל פרט בודד שהתרבות מקווה לפתור, נכון? אני יכול להגיד, תראה, אתה יודע, אני יכול לעשות את ברית המילה. אני רק צריך לעשות סיפור אחד או שניים של ברית מילה כאלה. אני לא חושב שיש כל כך הרבה. כמו, האם יש כל כך הרבה יותר? אתה צריך לדמות את זה פעם אחת. אני לא חושב, בכנות, אם אני - רק כדי להיות ברור, אני, המחשבה אוט"ד, מקשיב לדרשה הזו שהתרשמת ממנה מאוד מסיבה כלשהי על ברית מילה היה כמו, תודה רבה על האפולוגטיקה השלושים שלך שאני שמעתי. זה לא מדבר, זה לא אומר לך כלום. זה רק אומר משהו לך אם אתה בעצם מנסה לעשות דברים כאלה.
לא, אבל תן לי - כמו, רק - אתה צריך לעשות את זה. לא, רק כדי להמחיש את זה לשנייה.
אם אתה ניגש למישהו, ואני חושב שזה ניסוי שמצאתי לפחות קצת מעיד, אתה ניגש למישהו, אוקיי, אדם מחליט לחיות אורח חיים אלטרנטיבי, אוקיי, אז החלטת, אתה יודע, וזו הבדיחה שלי, חילוניות 2025 חייבת להיות האופציה הטובה ביותר, אתה יודע, לכל העולמות האפשריים, אוקיי?
אתה חושב שיש - כמו, אתה חושב שיש בעיות עם חילוניות 2025 אם אתה חייזר שבא ממאדים רק לשתי שניות? טוב, יש לך אנשים שמסתכלים על קופסת זכוכית כל היום. אוקיי, האם הם כמו פותרים את בעיות העולם בקופסת הזכוכית? לא, הם בעצם בעיקר צופים באנשים במשך עשר שניות בכל פעם, אוכלים חתיכת אוכל. או משחקים משחק. או משחקים משחק שאתה לא משחק.
אוקיי, מעניין. כמה זמן אנשים מקדישים לזה? טוב, נראה שאנשים מקדישים בערך שש וחצי שעות ביום בימים אלה לצפות באנשים אחרים עושים משימות קטנות ומצטברות. אוקיי, אתה חושב שמשהו אולי השתבש? אולי. במצב האנושי, אתה חושב שמשהו אולי היה מעט הפוך. או שזה אידיאלי? כלומר, קיווינו להגיע לכאן? קיווינו להגיע למקום שבו אנחנו מסתכלים על קופסת זכוכית וצופים עשר שניות בכל פעם? זו הייתה כמו מטרת הסוף?
כי אם אתה שואל אנשים, זה ברירת המחדל שלהם. הם מתרסקים על הספה. סוף סוף, אין לי עבודה. יש לי מספיק כסף בבנק. סוף סוף, אני יכול להסתכל על קופסת הזכוכית ולצפות באנשים עשר שניות בכל פעם. זו ההגדרה של פנאי של רוב האנשים. אני רק צריך להירגע. משהו אולי השתבש. עכשיו, לפחות בוא נהיה סקרנים לגבי זה לשתי שניות. אולי יש דרך אחרת לחיות את החיים שלך.
אבל אתה חושב, למי אנחנו הולכים לתת את הדרשה הזו? אני לא חושב שאתה יכול לתת את זה לבחורי אוט"ד. במילים אחרות, אני חושב שאתה יכול לתת את הדרשה הזו רק ל - אתה יודע את המשל של רב ישראל סלנטר? לא, קודם אתה צריך להיות יציב, אני רציני.
רב ישראל סלנטר היה כל חייו מנסה לפתור את הבעיות של היהדות, אתה יודע את זה? זה יפה, יש לו הרבה תוכניות שונות. הוא היה בעל המחשבה הראשון של תוכניות. ואז, הוא היה בחור ממש מודרני.
מרצה: אולי יש דרך אחרת לחיות את החיים שלך? אבל אתה חושב, למי אנחנו הולכים לתת את הדרשה הזו? אני לא חושב שאתה יכול לתת את זה לבחורי אוט"ד. במילים אחרות, אני ממשיך לחשוב שאתה יכול לתת את הדרשה הזו רק ל... אתה יודע את המשל של רבי ישראל סלנטר? לא, קודם אתה צריך להיות יציב, אני רציני.
רבי ישראל סלנטר היה כל חייו מנסה לפתור את הבעיות של היהדות, אתה יודע את זה? היו לו הרבה תוכניות שונות. הוא היה תוכנית בעל הבית הראשונה. ואז, הוא היה בחור ממש מודרני, כמו ממש מודרני, עבודה מודרנית. אתה יודע על חומר הלימוד במקום העבודה? הוא היה הראשון. כן, היו לו תוכניות לכל דבר ופתרונות והוא התכוון לעשות את כל פרויקטי ההנדסה החברתית האלה וכן הלאה.
ואז, בשלב מסוים, הוא נכנס לריב עם יותר מדי אנשים והיה לו ילד בפריז, אני חושב, והבן שלו היה רופא, ליפקין, היה מתמטיקאי או משהו. וקודם הוא נסע לגרמניה או לאן שזה לא יהיה והוא אמר, והם ויתרו על הבחורים הפרומים. הוא הולך לעבוד על הבחורים הפריי לגמרי אולי. והוא אמר, המשל הוא, כשיש סוס שאתה יודע, זה סוס בורח רץ במורד גבעה, אתה לא עוצר אותו באמצע הגבעה. אתה קופץ לסוף, ואז אחרי שהוא נפל אתה מתקן אותו, או אתה עוצר אותו שם, דברים כאלה. הוא אמר הבחורים הפרומים האלה, הם באמצע כמו, אין מה לעשות. אני הולך לדבר עם הבחורים שכבר נפלו. הם מחפשים דרך, אולי נעבוד איתם. אני לא חושב שזה עובד גם לו, אבל זה דברים אחרים. נראה שהוא היה יותר מוכן. אני חושב שהוא חי בגרמניה לזמן מה. אבל זה, לא, אבל במילים אחרות, כשמישהו נמצא בשלב הזה שאנחנו כמו, אני צריך לשאול הכל.
רגע, הרב שלי אמר לי שסמארטפון זה טרף, אבל נראה שזה די כיף. מה אני אגיד לו? טוב, אין, אין דרך לענות על השאלה הזו. האם יש דרך להגיד, בעצם הם פשוט הורסים? הם לא בעצם כמו יוצרים.
תלמיד: אני מניח שזה, זה, זה, זה או הורס דברים מזויפים. הם לא טועים. הם חזקים, אבל הם פשוט הורסים.
מרצה: כן, אז אתה צריך להרוס כמו, הם פשוט הורסים. זה מאוד קשה לעבוד.
אני אתן לך דרך אחרת להגיד את זה. בני אדם חיים בזמן. דברים לוקחים זמן. זמן זה לא הזמן שלוקח לקרוא טיעון בפרק של ספר. אם אני או מישהו יכתוב כמו ספר עם כמו, לתת לך את כל הסיפור וכמו הוכחה לכל שלב, זה אולי ייקח לך חמש שעות לקרוא את הספר הזה. אבל לעשות את זה ייקח חיים שלמים. ואין דרך, אין דרך לקצר את זה. לוקח זמן להבין דברים.
להיות עם השאלה, כמו, כמו, בוא נגיד ככה, בוא נגיד ככה. אני פוסק לאלה, כי כל אלה הם פשוט כמו, זה דף ארוך, נכון? אם אני נותן דף ארוך מאוד, יש לי את הקושיא הזו, את הענין הזה, אני נותן לך את כל הדף ב-45 דקות, נכון? אבל זו לא דרך אמיתית להיות עם קושיא. ב-20 דקות ואז אתה כבר מרוצה? ברצינות, אתה צריך להיות עם זה שנתיים.
הבחור האוט"ד, הוא פשוט לומד שטיקל תורה ארוך מאוד. הוא כמו, הוא עם הבחור הזה, הוא שואל קושיא ולומד. אני רציני. לא, אני חושב שיש לו תשובה לזמן ארוך מאוד. זה אותו דבר. יש לו קושיא, ועכשיו, לאט, אז יהיה לו תירוץ, או יהיה לו קושיא טובה יותר, אני לא יודע. אין, אין שום דבר רע בזה.
למה אני לא יכול לתת שיעור בקצרה? כמו שהקוצקר אמר, המלך כתב לו בשבעים שנה, לא בשעה. אתה יכול לקרוא את זה בשעה, אבל אתה לא יכול לעשות את זה בשעה, ואנחנו כולנו על לעשות את זה, לעשות את זה. אתה צריך לבלות כמה שנים לשאול קושיא.
כל מה שאני יכול לחשוב עליו, החלק היחיד שאני רוצה לומר בצד היום הוא הבעיה האמיתית. אז זה מה שאני חושב בתיאוריה שלי של ניסיון, שהיא ממש כלום, כאילו אני בן חמש שניות, זה פשוט שאתה לא יכול לדבר עם אנשים בצורה כזאת.
מה שאתה רוצה, מה שאתה מנסה לעשות, ואולי אתה יכול לעשות את זה, אתם אנשים יכולים לעשות את זה, זה שקודם כל אתה יכול להיות שם בסוף, בסוף הדבר. כאילו אתה יודע משהו, לך, לך לכל הדברים. כשאתה גומר, תחזור. אנשים אמרו, אנשים אומרים את זה אפילו, אתה לא צריך להגיד את זה, אתה פשוט מנצח את זה. זה דבר אחד.
ואז כאילו, משהו כמו, טוב האם הבחור הזה יבטח בי שאני באמת אפיקורוס בדיוק כמוהו? לא, הוא לא יבטח בי. למה שהוא יבטח בי? אני לובש חולצה לבנה. אני אפילו לא מאמין בחולצה הלבנה. גם אם אני מאמין באלוקים, בטוח לא מאמין בחולצה הלבנה, אבל אני לובש אותה. אז אני פשוט בלוף, נבזה. למה שתדבר איתי? הוא צודק.
ומה אתה הולך להגיד לו? אתה רוצה שתהיה לי אמינות בתור מספיק OTD ומספיק חכם ומספיק בשבילו? איך זה אמור לעבוד? זה לא אפשרי. אתה יכול פשוט להיות שם.
אני חושב שהדבר העיקרי שאני חושב עליו, זה מה שההצבעה שלי על הכותרת היא, זה שסיבה אחת למה הניתוק הזה קורה לפעמים היא בגלל שאנשים עוסקים בגאוה. כמוני, כאילו, אתה כאילו, רגע, אף אחד לא רוצה להיות הבחור ה-OTD כי OTD זה פשוט שם למפסיד, נכון? כאן, אולי אם אתה הולך למקום אחר שבו OTD הוא המנצח, אני אפילו לא יודע שיש מקום כזה, אבל ממש כאן זה פשוט שם למפסיד.
אז, ואתה גם לא רוצה להיות המפסיד הקודם. אתה לא רוצה להגיד שהייתי מפסיד. זה גם לא טוב. אז נגיד שאתה מוצא איזו סיבה למה לא להיות OTD, אז אתה מעמיד פנים שזה מעולם לא קרה. אתה מתחיל לדבר שפה זרה.
זו הסיבה שכל שנה אנחנו עושים סדר. זה מה שקרה לעם היהודי. קודם היינו במצרים. הבנו את העולם האמיתי, מה שנקרא העולם האמיתי, עם כל ה... ואז הבנו שיש תרי"ג מצוות. עבדנו על זה כמה אלפי שנים. סוף סוף הגענו לכאן לשלב שבו אנחנו יכולים ללמוד רב חיים כל היום בלייקווד.
ואנחנו לא באמת רוצים לדבר על העובדה שבעצם אנחנו חושבים שלתרח היה פואנטה. משם אנחנו באים. זה כביכול. אומר הרמב"ם הקדוש. זו הסיבה שפעם בשנה אנחנו אוכלים מצה. מה זה מצה? מצה שבכה, מצה. כמו לפני שהמצאנו לחם, אכלנו מצה. כשאתה עני, אין לך כסף, אתה אוכל מצה. אבל זה לא טוב.
אתה צריך להעריך את זה. אתה צריך להיות בעל הכרת הטוב, מה שאומר שאתה צריך להיות פחות מלא בעצמך. אז אתה צריך, פעם בשנה אתה צריך לאכול מצה כדי להראות כאילו, אתה חושב שאתה כזה חכם? אתה פשוט טיפש כמו כולם.
זו הסיבה שאנחנו שואלים ארבע קושיות. וזו הסיבה שאני נותן את כל הדף הזה שמסביר איך תרח הוא ממש צודק, אפילו לא צודק, כאילו, רק לאנשים נורמליים. כי אחרת אנחנו שוכחים. אחרת אנחנו הופכים לשנאיד הזה. כאילו אתה יודע מה זה שנאיד? כשאתה הופך לבן 60, אתה סולח לעצמך. אתה חטא נעורים, ואז אתה, אני זוכר מה עשית בנעוריך.
אז כל המצווה של פסח היא לא להיות הבחור הזה. כן, יש לי ארבע קושיות, אין לי מושג. אנחנו אפילו מבינים, אנחנו בעצם זה. זה מדהים.
אמרתי את זה הרבה פעמים. כשהחכמים, כשהמדרש אומר שהם מזכירים את זה, זה לא אומר בפסח שזה פסוק כל כך יפה. והחכמים היו כאילו, רגע, אני יכול לקרוא את זה בלי התשובה. זו שאלה טובה יותר מהתשובה, נכון? מה לעזאזל אנחנו עושים? אה, מה זה אומר, נכון?
אין לנו תירוץ לרשע. יהיה לנו תירוץ לרשע, אולי. וזו הסיבה שכל שנה בפסח אנחנו אומרים את הרשע, אין לנו תירוץ ל, אני מניח שאתה יודע, יש לנו... ויש לנו לילה שלם של להיות אפיקורסים.
תלמיד: אז חוץ מה, אני חושב שזה ליל אפיקורסות, כי אתה לא יכול להיות מאמין אם אתה אף פעם לא אפיקורס.
מורה: אה, טוב מאוד, זה תירוץ. זה כאילו, אוקיי, אנחנו כאן. זה מאוד תירוץ. אני לא יודע אם זה תירוץ.
תלמיד: כן, אני לא אוהב את זה. זו עצלות, כאילו, אני לא רוצה לשנות את ה...
מורה: לא, לא, אני חושב שזו קריאה להסתכל עמוק יותר.
תלמיד: כן, כן, טוב מאוד. הקושיא היא הכי טובה עם התירוץ.
מורה: 100%. אני לא חושב שהמטרה היא ל... המטרה היא פשוט לא להגיע לשאננות שקרית. זה המשל.
אז המשל, איך אנחנו עושים את המסר הזה גדול יותר? על ידי קריאה לבחורים הפרומים. כי יש להם תקווה. תפסיקו את זה כי הם עלולים להבין מה שזה היה לוקח קורס שהם באמת, והם מספיק נורמליים שנוכל ללמד אותם משהו.
האנשים שצודקים, אני נותן להם פעם, אני נותן להם פעם בשנה דף כדי להסביר להם שאני אפילו יותר פריי מהם. הם אפיקורסים שבחים כי הם מאמינים שגזענות היא החטא הכי גדול שהומצא אי פעם, והם כל כך מוזרים. הם מאמינים במשהו שהומצא לפני חמש דקות, החטא הזה. בכל מקרה, אתה צריך להאמין בזה, אבל כאילו למה? וכן הלאה.
ואולי הם ייתנו קצת אמינות, אבל אני לא חושב שאתה באמת יכול לפתור את הבעיה. לפחות אני לא רואה איך.
אבל אני חושב, אז אני חושב שאתה יותר קשה לאדם פרום מאשר לאדם פריי. כי העובדה שאתה לא צודק בעולם הזה, מה שאתה הולך להגיד, לא ממש רע לעולם הזה, אבל לא בצורה רעה. במילים אחרות, זה לא מגיע הביתה כאילו, אוי אלוהים, מה הוא בדיוק אמר? אני חייב להפוך פרום שוב.
אוקיי, אוקיי. הוא אומר שהוא אוכל דג ולא שוקולד. אתה מבין למה אני מתכוון? אתה מבין למה אני מתכוון? אז הוא עושה את זה והוא נשוי ויש לו ילדים והוא מוכן לדבר איתם והאישה תמיד בחוץ שם. אתה מבין למה אני מתכוון? היא נראית כמו, ופתאום אתה כאילו משהו, הוא עושה טעות, אבל זהו. הוא כאילו, וואו. ואם אתה באמת נותן את זה להסביר לו, נכון, אתה כאילו, הוא ממש, אתה פשוט עינית את חייו.
זו הסיבה שאנחנו לא עושים את זה. רק ביוטיוב.
תלמיד: אני אומר, אבל אם אתה רוצה את זה... אולי אנחנו לא צריכים לשים את השיעור קורא רמז.
מורה: לא, אתה אומר שאנחנו צריכים להביא אנשים פרומים לכאן, נכון? אני לא עושה את זה. זה מה שאתה מדבר עליו. אם אתה הולך להסביר לי את זה לאט מאוד ככה...
תלמיד: לאט מאוד.
מורה: אנחנו יכולים לעשות מה שאתה רוצה. אני לא עושה את זה. אני לא עושה את זה בדרך כלל צו שיעור. אני לא אומר את השיעור הזה. השיעור הזה הוא ל-OTD. כמונו.
תלמיד: אני חושב שהשכבה הרביעית הזו... עברנו על סוגי אנשים אחד עד שלוש. מי הבחור הרביעי?
מורה: יש ארבע וחמש שהם כאילו... שהם... לא, הם בעצם... כאילו, מעבר לכל זה?
תלמיד: לא, כן, הם, כאילו, הגיעו להבנה ש, קודם כל, בעצם, חוץ מהשאלות של היהדות, שזה, כאילו, אני הייתי אומר, רמת עניין שתיים, כאילו, יש בעיות ברמת עניין אחת.
מורה: אה, כמו איך לפרנס את עצמך?
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא, לא, לא, אנחנו לא באמת מבינים איך שפה עובדת.
מורה: זה נכון. נכון? אני חושב שיש מספיק אנשים שם בחוץ שהם, ברגע הנכון... אבל אתה מבין, מה שאתה אומר זה משהו שאני לא יודע איך לעשות בכלל. במילים אחרות, אתה מבין, כלומר, אני עושה את זה, אבל אתה מבין שאם יש פתיח—
כאילו, מה הפוסטים שאני כותב שמקבלים הרבה צפיות? כשזה מתחיל עם הבעיות המטופשות האלה של יהדות רציונלית. כאילו, "אה, אתה יודע שאני בעצם יכול..." ואז אם אני בעצם אי פעם עושה נקודה, אף אחד לא אוהב את זה.
כאילו, האם חשבת ש, כן, אתם כולכם מאוד חכמים, אתם חושבים שביוגרפיות של ארטסקרול מזויפות, אבל אתם יודעים שיש דרך שבה הן יותר אמיתיות מהביוגרפיות הביקורתיות שלכם? אנשים פותחים את הפוסט כי זה אומר משהו על ארטסקרול, ואז הם קוראים את זה והם אפילו לא מבינים שיש טיעון.
אולי אני צודק, אולי אני טועה. אף אחד אפילו... זה בעצם לא אפשרי להביא אנשים לשם. כאילו, עם מי אתה יכול לדבר?
יש אנשים שנוטים פילוסופית. הם רוצים לדעת מה דברים הם. אוקיי. אתה יודע מי האנשים האלה בעולם היהודי? המקובלים. הבחורי ישיבה שהולכים לשיעורי מקובלים. אלה הם אלה.
לא הבחורים ה-OTD. בדרך כלל לא אכפת להם ממה דברים הם. חלק מהם כן. זה פשוט קורה להיות. לא כמו... אתה מבין?
הכוכב, כאילו, היה ה, האם מעשה בראשית כפשוטו או לא? אני לא יודע שום דרך של זה שמוביל לעניין אמיתי במה העולם הוא. זה יכול להוביל, אני מניח, שמעשה בראשית הוא על מה העולם הוא. זה הגיוני שזה צריך, נכון? בסופו של דבר, למה יש לנו מעשה בראשית? כי אנשים ניסו להבין מה העולם הוא. זה סוג של ספק.
תלמיד: אני חושב שהתהליך הזה קורה ליותר אנשים ממה שאתה אולי נותן קרדיט. תראה, בעצם, זה היה סוג של שלי, אתה יודע, אתה עובר מתיאולוגיה לפילוסופיה בסופו של דבר. אתה חייב.
מורה: אבל האם זה, האם זה אותו דבר או שזה להיפך? כאילו אולי האדם שרוצה לדעת מה דברים הם, וזה מתחיל עם זה, ואז אומרים לו, טוב, דברים הם לוחות. זה מה שדברים, זה הדבר, הזך.
והוא כאילו, אז הוא מתחיל לתהות על זה, ואז הוא מוסח מהדרך על ידי כל השאלות האלה. רגע, האם הלוחות היו עשויים מספיר? רגע, האם זה בכלל הגיוני? אין כל כך גדול ספ... רגע, ואם אתה... מה שזה לא יהיה, כל אלה... אני לא יודע.
ואז אתה מוסח מהדרך ואז אתה נתקע ואז אתה סוף סוף מוצא דרך לחזור למה שבאמת רצית ולגלות. אני חושב שזה תיאור סביר של כמה אנשים. זה כמו היסטוריה, באמת. זה לעומת...
אבל הרבה אנשים נראים מעוניינים בעצם אם הלוחות היו באמת מספיר.
תלמיד: נתקע זה מטורף.
מורה: אני יודע, אני מבין למה כי האנשים המצחיקים שמדברים על הנזר הקודש אמרו להם את זה אבל הם לא שומעים את זה אפילו האנשים האלה טובים יותר כי אכפת להם מזה בדרך האמיתית אכפת להם מהלוחות לא בגלל שהם היו ספיר אלא בגלל שיש בהם איזו אמת אבל זהו.
בקיצור, שאלות בצד, אנחנו עושים טוב. נרצה.
טוב, אתה יכול לסגור את הדבר שלי. תודה.
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בני אדם הם מסוג הדברים ש*לומדים*. אלה המצליחים מגיעים לפריצות דרך—הבנה כלשהי של איך הדברים נראים, איך הם צריכים להיות, ומה הם אומרים. דרך תהליך זה, הם *גדלים*.
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כשאדם גדל, הוא *עובר דרך* הדברים שהניעו במקור את חקירתו. זה כמו לחפור מנהרה—דוחף עפר, מניח קורות, עושה לבנים מבוץ—מתקדם צעד אחר צעד. בסופו של דבר, אתה פורץ אל "הארמון". ברגע שהגעת, לא אכפת לך יותר מהעפר. הבוץ, מכניקת המנהרה—אלה היו רק התהליך. האדם שהגיע לא רוצה לשמוע על בוץ לעולם. השאלות שפעם כילו את כל עולמך נראות כעת טריוויאליות מנקודת המבט של מי שפרץ.
מישהו שגדל בחסידות חב"ד מתייסר על השאלה האם "הרבי" בטקסטים חסידיים פירושו ממש הרבי או משהו אחר, האם זו כפירה, וכו'. זה מרגיש כמו הדרמה הכי גדולה בחייו. אבל אם הוא בסופו של דבר פורץ, הוא מבין: יש 7 מiliard אנשים, בעיות אמיתיות בעולם, וכל הוויכוח הזה אפילו לא היה שאלה טובה—"פשוט בלגן כזה". השאלות הקודמות לא רק נענו; הן *עלו למדרגה גבוהה יותר*.
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הטענה שבני אדם הם "מסוג הדברים שלומדים" היא *חידוש* שצריך *להאמין בו*—זה לא תמיד נצפה. לפי התצפית (למשל, קריאת החדשות), בני אדם הם "מסוג הדברים שמוצאים דרכים חדשות להיות משוגעים כל יום". הם לא משתפרים. הם לא לומדים. רק *מעטים* מבני האדם באמת לומדים.
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משל הגמרא: תולעת שחיה בתוך גרגר חיטה חושבת שיש לה חיים טובים—היא לא יודעת שהיא לכודה בתוך גרגר. (מוזכר בהקשר לנבוכדנצר.) אנשים אלה—התקועים בנוחות—*חושבים שהם האנשים הטובים*, ורבים מאיתנו מאמינים בזה לגביהם גם כן. תפסיקו להאמין בזה. הם לא האנשים הטובים. הם פשוט תולעים בתבואה.
טיפוס מסוים בליקווד: הולך למקווה בזמן, תופס את המנין הראשון, הכל מסודר ויציב. אתה אפילו לא יכול לומר "נבך" כי האדם מאושר. ברכת רבי נחמן לחסיד חלה: "אני אוהב אותך מאוד—הברכה שלי היא שעוד 10,000 שנה תבין את הבדיחות שלי." אולי אחרי המוות, גן עדן, וגלגול טוב יותר, הם יתחילו להבין.
הטיפוס השני הוא האדם שלומד גמרא, שמע שזה אמור להיות מבריק, אבל מוצא שזה לא הגיוני—ושואל "מה קורה?" זה גם האדם שאומר:
- אף אחד לא יודע אם יש אלוקים.
- אם יש אלוקים, אף אחד לא יודע אם הוא נתן את התורה.
- מבקרי המקרא אומרים שהיו ארבעה מחברים של התורה, לא משה אחד.
- העולם מאוד עתיק. יש דינוזאורים.
אלה "העפר"—החומר שאתה דוחף דרכו בדרך לארמון. הם מרגישים עצומים כשאתה במנהרה, אבל מנקודת המבט של מישהו שפרץ, הם נשמעים כמו "האם לצבוע את העולם לבן או אפור?"
אלה שמכחישים שדינוזאורים קיימים כי הרב שלהם אמר כך הם פשוט לא בשיחה בכלל ("בכלל לא")—אפילו לא טיפוס-שני השואל, פשוט לגמרי מחוץ למסגרת הלמידה.
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הניסוח האורתודוקסי המקובל של *תכלית הבריאה* אינו רק שגוי אלא אבסורדי על פניו:
- הטענה שאלוקים ברא יקום בן 13-15 מiliard שנה, עם 8 מiliard אנשים, דינוזאורים וכו', כדי שמספר קטן של גברים בליקווד ילמדו עקיבא איגר או ילמדו רש"י—זה מגוחך באופן מובהק.
- זה לא *קושיא* על השיטה—זה *צחוק שבצחוק*, כלומר זה אפילו לא מגיע לרמה של ביקורת רצינית.
- "שגוי יהיה מחמאה"—שגוי מרמז שיש נקודה שחלקית לא נכונה; לזה אפילו אין נקודה. זה דומה לפסיכוזה או סכיזופרניה.
ריף הומוריסטי קצר על אי הוודאות של מספרי האוכלוסייה העולמית—נתוני מפקד אפריקאיים לא אמינים, תחזיות האוכלוסייה של פול ארליך—ממוסגר כתיאוריית קונספירציה חדשה.
האבסורד מתרחב לחומרות קיצוניות סביב מצה וחמץ בפסח—הרעיון שכל היקום נברא כדי שאנשים יתעסקו בשאלה האם המצה שלהם קרובה מדי לחמץ. הזוהר מלמד שמצה וחמץ חולקים את אותן אותיות—אבל הפרקטיקה האובססיבית מחמיצה את הנקודה לגמרי.
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איך אתה יודע שהספר (התורה) אמיתי? כי 600,000 איש היו עדים להר סיני. איך אתה יודע ש-600,000 איש היו עדים? כי הספר אומר כך. זה היגיון מעגלי, ומבוגרים צריכים להפסיק לחזור על זה באופן לא ביקורתי.
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הרטוריקה של ההנהגה האורתודוקסית—לקרוא לתלמידי ישיבה *נזר הבריאה*—מכוונת ישירות:
- בן 16 שקרא רק שישה עמודים של גמרא ולומד שקידושין הוא קנין אישות ולא קנין בועלות נאמר לו שהוא תכלית כל הבריאה.
- זה מתרחב לטענה שתלמידי ישיבה שעושים "את הדבר האמיתי" צריכים להרגיש גאים בזמן שחיילים מקריבים את חייהם כדי להגן עליהם. זה ממש מה שמלמדים, וזה בבירור מטורף.
סטייה הומוריסטית על יוטיוב ששואל האם סרטונים מיועדים לילדים, מציין שסימון "לילדים" משבית את תכונת המיני-פלייר—הדרך של יוטיוב "להגן על ילדים".
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כל מה שנאמר עד כה הוא *מוסכם* על הקהל. כל מי שצפה בתוכן קודם ועדיין חושב שהשקפה המקובלת הגיונית צריך "לחשוב מחדש על כל חייו וחיי סבו". הרב סליפקין ואחרים מעלים את הביקורות האלה כבר שנים—הנקודה שלהם מוכרת, אבל "כבר הבנו את זה, אנחנו בני ארבע עשרה".
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הבעיה האמיתית, החדשה, אינה האבסורד של השקפת העולם המסורתית (שהיא מוסכמת), אלא מה קורה לאנשים שבאים מהעולם הזה ומבינים שהוא אבסורדי. "אני ואתה והוא... פחות או יותר באנו משם." כשאנשים מבינים את האבסורד, "כל מיני דברים מעניינים, כל מיני דברים מצחיקים קורים." סדרות טלוויזיה ישראליות תיעדו את התופעה הזו.
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הרב שלמה קוצ'ינסקי היה *יונגערמאן* בישיבה. אחרי רצח רבין, הוא התחיל לשאול האם *יידישקייט* גורם לאנשים לרצוח ראשי ממשלה. הוא עבר דרך "כל התחנות" של ספק ושאלות, בסופו של דבר עזב את העולם האורתודוקסי כדי להיות פרופסור, ו—בטוויסט אירוני—בחר ללמוד ישיבות ליטאיות באופן אקדמי לדוקטורט שלו. המחקר האקדמי הזה יכול היה להיעשות ב*בית המדרש* עצמו.
קוצ'ינסקי פגש יפני שבא לירושלים ללמוד חכמה יהודית. כשקוצ'ינסקי ניסה להסביר את ההבחנות הפנימיות בין יהודים דתיים (חרדים, דתיים וכו'), היפני היה מבולבל לחלוטין. מנקודת מבט חיצונית, המחלוקות הפנימיות העזות (כיפה לבנה מול כיפה כחולה, איזה רבי נכון) נראות אבסורדיות כמו שבט מרוחק שנלחם על כמה קצוות לשים על חנית. המחלוקות האלה אינן על המציאות; הן משחקים פרוכיאליים שטועים למשמעות קוסמית.
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הסוג הראשון פשוט דוחה הכל מתוך אכזבה או בורות—כפירה גסה, לא רפלקטיבית. אין שום דבר ראוי להערכה בשלב הזה. למרות שאולי יש גרעין של אמת בהכרה בבעיות, זה לא משהו לשאוף אליו. לומר "הלוואי ולא ידעתי" או "בורות הייתה טובה יותר" מושווה לרצון להיות "קבור בעפר"—לבחור במקדש מבלי לבחון את התולעת בפנים.
הסוג השני מכיר שכל השיטה של פרקטיקה דתית מפורטת ומחלוקת היא שיגעון ("סדרי משיגעס") ורוצה לעקוף את זה למשהו יותר ישיר או אותנטי.
הסוג השלישי הולך רחוק יותר: העולם לא נברא כדי שפשוט "תלמד" (לימוד תורה כמטרה בפני עצמה)—זה ברור. אבל גם, העולם לא נברא רק כדי *לתקוף* את האנשים הדתיים. גם "יהדות רציונליסטית" אינה התשובה (מתוארת כ"שטויות עוד יותר גדולות"). האדם הזה אומר: אנחנו צריכים באמת להבין בשביל מה העולם נברא. רוב האנשים לא יכולים באמת *לחיות* מהמצפון הביקורתי הזה לבדו—אתה לא יכול לקיים חיים רק על שלילה ושאלות.
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- האם הצמצום היה מילולי או מטפורי?
- האם הגר"א צדק או הבעל התניא?
- בדיוק כמה אנשים היו בהר סיני—600,000 או 500,000?
- האם בן-גוריון היה שליח אלוקי או חילוני רשע?
- ה"בעיה היהודית" / "בעיית היידיש"—דילמה היסטורית אמיתית: האם יהודים צריכים לשמור על נפרדות כשזה הוביל לרדיפות במשך 2,000 שנה? או למצוא פתרון אחר? המוחות הגדולים ביותר התמודדו עם זה במשך 200 שנה בלי פתרון.
- אלה שמצמצמים את זה לסיסמאות דתיות מפלגתיות (מסגור סאטמר מול ציוני-דתי) "מתווכחים באיזה צד של העפר לדחוף" בזמן שמנסים לחפור דרך הר כדי להגיע לארמון.
- האפיקורסים (כופרים/חילונים) לפחות התעסקו במציאות: מרקס הציע פתרון, אחרים הציעו פתרונות—אלה היו ניסיונות רציניים להתמודד עם שאלות אמיתיות, גם אם פגומים.
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כן, הרבי שלך אולי היה טיפש, השיטה אולי שבורה—אבל האם אתה יודע למה נבראת? האם אתה יודע את משמעות החיים? זו שאלה רצינית באמת, אמיתית באמת—לא משחק תיאולוגי מזויף. וגם בלי להיות מסוגל *להוכיח* את זה בצורה קפדנית לכל אתאיסט, להיות "בחור ישיבה" (להקדיש את עצמך ללימוד/מחשבה תורנית רצינית) זה עדיין "דבר די טוב לעשות עם הזמן שלך".
תלמיד מאתגר: האם אנחנו לא שואלים את אותה שאלה כמו בחור הישיבה? השאלה זהה אבל ה*מסגור* וה*בגרות* שונים. השפה מקשה להבדיל, אבל ההבחנה אמיתית.
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האדם בשלב השלישי מתמודד עם בעיה חברתית: אין להם קהילה שנותרה. אפשרות אחת לחברות מופיעה:
להתיידד עם ה-OTDs (יצאו מהדרך / אלה שעזבו את הדת): הם נראים כמו אנשים נורמליים, מעוגנים, שחיים בעולם האמיתי, לא ב"לה לה לנד". האדם בשלב השלישי חושב: אולי נוכל ללמוד אחד מהשני, לעבוד על דברים ביחד—מכיוון שאף אחד לא מאמין במערכת הישנה, אולי הם יכולים לגלות באופן שיתופי איך לחיות בצורה משמעותית. חשיבה וחקירה הופכים לפרויקט המשותף.
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כשאתה פוגש מישהו שיצא OTD, התגובה הכנה אינה לנסות להחזיר אותו אלא לפגוש אותו היכן שהוא נמצא: "אתה לא מאמין בכלום? תודה רבה, גם אני לא." מנקודת ההתחלה המשותפת הזו, חשיבה, למידה, והבנת דברים היא עצמה פרויקט חיים ראוי.
אנקדוטה מחבר שחשב בהתחלה שהרבי מקוצק היה דמות "פרום עם חן" קונבנציונלית—רגשי, בוכה על אמונה. אבל אז החבר הבין: הרבי היה אפיקורס גדול יותר מאנשי ה-OTD עצמם. זה בדיוק *למה* הוא בכה—כי הוא ראה דרך החסידויות המקובלות והתמודד עם אותו ריק. הרבי הגיע לנקודת המשבר ("כל זה לא שקעטין") בגיל 15, בעוד שאדם ה-OTD הטיפוסי מגיע לשם בגיל 35 אחרי שעבר את כל תהליך העזיבה.
חיי OTD לא מציעים יעד אינטלקטואלי או קיומי מהותי:
- זיכרונות OTD הם "לא ספרות טובה, לא פילוסופיה טובה, לא חיים טובים"
- תוכניות כמו Footsteps נותנות לך תעודה, אבל אז מה?
- אחרי 10 שנים של מסע ה-OTD, אתה מתמודד עם אותה שאלה: "עכשיו מה אתה עושה עם החיים שלך?"
ארגונים כמו הילל בודקים מתקשרים כדי לוודא שהם באמת OTD. מכיוון שהם מחלקים כסף לחינוך, אנשים פרומים יכולים בקלות לתמרן את המערכת על ידי טענה שהם מתאימים לקריטריונים תוך שמירה על שמירת מצוות. זה מוביל לתרחיש קומי שבו "כל האנשים שמקבלים כסף הולכים להיות רק בחורים פרומים".
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קשת נרטיבית של סוג מסוים של רבי/מורה:
1. הוא מבין שפרומקייט קונבנציונלי חלול
2. הוא מחליט להתעסק עם אנשי OTD, חושב שהם צריכים את עזרתו
3. הוא מגלה שהם לא צריכים טיפול—הוא צריך טיפול גם
4. ההסברה שלו לא באמת עובדת
5. הוא מחליט שהחיים הטובים זה עדיין ללכת לבית הכנסת בשבת
6. הוא הולך לבית הכנסת ולא מוצא שם אנשי OTD (כי יש להם מקומות "טובים יותר" להיות בליל שישי)
חילופי דברים הומוריסטיים על השאלה האם מוזיקה וריקודים של ברסלב טובים יותר מגלילה אינסופית בליל שישי (פסק דין: כן, באופן שולי). דיון על השאלה האם ללכת למועדונים הוא חלופה אמיתית. התייחסות לדמות (דוד גרוסמן) שעושה הסברה במועדונים—שזו רק דרך להצדיק ללכת למועדונים בעצמך. רוב האנשים שמנסים לעשות הסברה לשמירת מצוות במסגרות מועדונים נכשלים.
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דמות הרבי בסופו של דבר שוקלת מחדש: אולי האדם שנותן את הדרשה על הנזיר אינו תמים כפי שהניחו. אולי חסר לו שפה מתוחכמת—לא קרא פילוסופיה או ספרות—אבל הגיע לאותן מסקנות קיומיות דרך האידיום שלו. אם שמו סולובייצ'יק, הוא יכול לנסח את זה באלגנטיות; אחרת, הוא "בוכה ונותן דרשות" כאופן הביטוי הטוב ביותר שעומד לרשותו. הוא עושה מה שהאפיקורס המתוחכם רצה לעשות בכל מקרה—לחיות בצורה משמעותית בתוך המסורת.
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טענה פרובוקטיבית: בחורי ישיבה בדרך כלל "גדולים יותר" (נועזים יותר אינטלקטואלית) מאנשי OTD. ההיגיון:
- אנשי OTD *תקועים*: הם יכולים רק לבדוק שאלות (*קושיות*) שמאמתות את בחירות החיים שכבר עשו על ידי עזיבה
- לבחורי ישיבה
בחורי ישיבה יש את בחירות החיים שלהם נעשות עבורם על ידי המערכת, אז באופן פרדוקסלי הם חופשיים לשאול כל שאלה שהם רוצים
- הם מבטאים את הספקות שלהם בשפה מקודדת חסידית: "אין הוכחה שאלוקים קיים, אבל יש לנו אמונה פשוטה" (שזו באמת דרך מתוחכמת לומר "אני אפיקורס")
- או שהם אומרים "אין לי חיות בתפילה"—שזה באמת אומר משהו עמוק יותר
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כבחור צעיר בחודש אלול, הדובר אמר שהוא לא רוצה לעשות תשובה. בחור אחר לא יכול היה להבין את זה—אם אתה מאמין בגיהנום על אי-חזרה בתשובה, למה לא? הדובר ניסה לנסח משהו יותר יסודי: כל "משחק" התשובה בעייתי אם אתה לא באמת מאמין במסגרת שכר ועונש.
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רוב האנשים הפרומים, אם לוחצים עליהם בכנות, לא באמת מאמינים במערכת העסקאית של שכר/עונש (בהשוואה לכרטיסי ארקייד). הם אומרים שכן ב"דרכים מצחיקות", אבל אי הנוחות מורגשת. רק ה"צדיקים הגדולים" ששכנעו את עצמם לחלוטין באמת מחזיקים באמונה הזו.
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כשמישהו אומר "אני רוצה להתקרב להשם", זה עצמו עדות שהם לא באמת מאמינים. אנשים שבאמת מאמינים לא ממסגרים את זה כרצון "להתקרב"—יש מרחק מרומז שחושף את המלאכותיות של הרגש.
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העולם הליטאי הוא דוגמה: ברגע שהם התחילו לאמץ את השפה של "קירבה להשם", הם במקביל נטשו אמונות מסורתיות מהותיות. האם מישהו מהם עדיין מאמין ב*תחיית המתים*? הם לא—וזו אפילו לא *כפירה*. המושג הפך כל כך רחוק מהמציאות החיה שהוא נרשם כאבסורדי, "מעבר לכל העניין".
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אם אתה מכריח אדם דתי לנסח את האמונות שלו בשפה פשוטה, שיחתית—בלי ז'רגון דתי או מסגור טקסי—הם לא יכולים לעשות את זה. דוגמה: "אתה מאמין שהאלוקים שברא את העולם חושב שאם אתה שם את הקופסאות האלה, והן מרובעות לחלוטין, הוא נותן לך חיים טובים, ואם לא, ישר לגיהנום?" אף אחד לא יכול לומר את זה באופן טבעי בלי להתכווץ, להתפתל, או לצחקק. זה מבחן גלאי שקר לא פורמלי.
- על תפילה: ככל שמישהו מצחקק או מזיז את עצמו באי נוחות יותר כשהוא מסביר למה הוא מתפלל, כך הוא פחות באמת מאמין שזה עובד. באופן אמפירי, תפילה ואי-תפילה מניבות אותן תוצאות—אותו "אחוז" של תוצאות.
- על עוצמה פרפורמטיבית: ככל שהביצוע הפיזי מפורט יותר (התנדנדות, לחיצת הפנים, מחוות דרמטיות), כך זה מסמן יותר בלוף או הסתרה במקום שכנוע אמיתי.
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לעצור ברמזור אדום הוא מעשה אמיתי, בעל השלכות—מכוניות עלולות לפגוע בך. אף אחד לא מבצע כבוד דרמטי ברמזור אדום—הם פשוט עוצרים. אבל עם מצה, יש טקס מפורט. האסימטריה הזו חושפת שהמעשה הטקסי "מזויף" במובן שהוא לא נושא את אותה מציאות מיידית, מורגשת. דברים אמיתיים לא דורשים דגש פרפורמטיבי.
הרחבה: כל מצווה שנעשית עם *גרטל* (חגורה טקסית) או תלבושת מפורטת חשודה. המצוות שנעשות באופן מזדמן—כמו בניית סוכה בחולצת טריקו—הן האותנטיות. הבחור בלבוש רבני מלא שמצטלם בזמן "בניית" סוכה לא באמת בנה אותה. הבחור בחולצת הטריקו כן.
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כל מורה שפונה לאנשים "נורמליים" (לא שומרי מצוות או שומרים באופן רופף) עושה בעצם את אותו דבר כמו מישהו שעושה הסברה ל-OTDs. ההבדל היחיד הוא שאנשים "נורמליים" בריאים יותר רגשית וקל יותר לעסוק איתם, בעוד ש-OTDs לעתים קרובות נושאים טראומה—התעללות, משפחות שבורות, גירושין, בעיות משמורת—שמקשה על שיחה פרודוקטיבית הרבה יותר.
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זו הבעיה הקשה ביותר בחינוך/הסברה דתית:
- נקודת התחלה: מנקודת מבט של "אדם נורמלי", פרקטיקות דתיות נראות אבסורדיות—ברית מילה, טקסי קבורה וכו'. חב"דניקים טובים בהכרה בזה מראש ("אם הייתי אומר לך ששבט בפפואה גינאה החדשה עושה את זה, היית אומר *נבך*").
- נקודת סיום: קיים הסבר אמיתי שבו *ברית מילה* באמת מקרבת אותך להשם, שבו הטקסים נושאים משמעות עמוקה.
- הבעיה: איך אתה עובר מאחד לשני *באותה שיחה, באותו טון קול*? יש מעבר מורגש ברגיסטרים—כשמסבירים את האבסורד, הטון מזדמן וקומי; כשנותנים את ה*שיעור* על משמעות, זה עובר לכבוד. הקול שמחזיק את שניהם בו זמנית לא ניתן למצוא.
זה אולי האתגר הפדגוגי והפילוסופי היסודי: להעביר אמת דתית בלי (א) גרסת הסטנד-אפ שלועגת להכל, או (ב) השיעור הכבוד הסטנדרטי שמתעלם מהאבסורד.
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משתתף מציע שהגישה הקלה ביותר היא להראות לאנשים שהדחייה שלהם את הדת—מה שהם מדמיינים כאורח חיים חילוני "ברירת מחדל"—היא עצמה בחירה, ושאלתית באותה מידה כמו החיים הדתיים שהם עזבו.
- הגמביט של גזענות: לדחות טקסים דתיים כ"פרימיטיביים" תוך קבלת חיים מערביים חילוניים כ"נורמליים" היא עצמה צורה של שוביניזם תרבותי או אפילו גזענות. "כל הבעיה שלך עם יהדות מבוססת על גזענות"—זה מוכר כ"משחק" רטורי אבל יש לו פוטנציאל.
- הריקנות של החלופה: אם מישהו עוזב את היהדות כי סיפור "600,000 בהר סיני" לא מסתדר, מה הם בוחרים במקום? "מר גולל אינסופית", "מר סוחר מניות שעובד 19 שעות ביום וחושב שזה חיים." ברירת המחדל החילונית לא מעוגנת יותר רציונלית או משמעותית מהחיים הדתיים שנדחים.
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נניח שמישהו מסיק שהתוכנית המסורתית לא עומדת. מה אז?
- החלופות—להיות *עם הארץ*, גולל אינסופי, סוחר מניות—שאלתיות באותה מידה.
- טענת נגד מתלמיד: להצביע על פגמים במערכות אחרות אינו תשובה לבעיות הפנימיות של *המערכת הזו*. זה טיעון שלילי, לא חיובי.
- אנלוגיית ה"פצעון": המערכת הנוכחית עונה על שאלה אחת ופותחת מאה—אבל החלופה (עזיבת המערכת) עשויה לענות על שאלה אחת תוך *הרס* של מאה תשובות מוסדרות. זה כמו למצוא פצעון על היד שלך ולהחליט לקטוע את היד—רק כדי לגלות שאתה צריך את היד שלך להרבה דברים אחרים.
האדם ההיפותטי לא *החליט* לעזוב—הוא באמת חושב. המסגור הזה מתקבל, אבל חשד נשאר כלפי אנשים ש"פתאום" נוטשים את המסגרת.
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מה שבאמת קורה בפועל: ללמוד מה הזוהר אומר על *ברית מילה*, לתת *מהלך* (גישה פרשנית) כדי להסביר את זה, לנסות להבין את זה. השאלה של התלמיד (שברית מילה נראית "משוגעת") לגיטימית. אבל הגשר הנרטיבי—הסיפור הקוהרנטי שמוביל מהשאלה הגולמית, המטרידה ("למה לחתוך תינוק?") למשמעות ברמה הגבוהה יותר שהזוהר דן בה—לא ניתן לספק בביטחון.
תלמיד מציע: לשמור על כל מה שיפה ביהדות—גפילטע פיש, שבת, קהילה—ופשוט למחוק ברית מילה. תגובה: גפילטע פיש גרוע יותר מברית מילה ("לפחות למילה יש משמעות; גפילטע פיש הוא פשוט שבטי"). זו שאלה ספציפית, לגיטימית אבל לא השאלה שמטופלת. לומר "גם לשבט האחר יש פרקטיקות מוזרות" זו לא תשובה אמיתית—זו התחמקות. "אני מסכים איתך" (אלץ איז א משל — "הכל משל")—זו לא אפולוגטיקה.
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למרות ההסכמה עם כוח השאלה: יש משמעות, סיבה, *שכל*, אמת בדיון של הזוהר על ברית מילה. הדיון ברמה הגבוהה יותר הזו הוא עצמו גרסה מוגברת של שאלת התלמיד—לא דחייה שלה, אלא עיסוק בה בשכבה אחרת.
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כל ההישגים האנושיים—טכנולוגיה, שפה, מחשבה, תרבות—בנויים בשכבות, כל אחת על גבי השנייה.
- בבסיס: ביטים מתהפכים דרך שערי לוגיקה.
- מעל זה: קוד מכונה, שכבות רשת (רשמית 7, באמת יותר), קוד ברמה גבוהה יותר, וכן הלאה—אלפי שכבות.
- בראש: משתמש שמנהל שיחה עם AI דרך חתיכת זכוכית.
- אנחנו יכולים לדון באופן אינטליגנטי בשכבה העליונה ("קופסה שחורה" / הפשטה) בלי להבין כל שכבה מתחתיה.
עם זאת, אתה לא יכול *לשחזר* את המערכת מהשכבה העליונה לבדה. אם נזרק על אי בודד, לדעת "איך להשתמש במחשב" חסר תועלת—תצטרך לגלות מחדש סיליקון, לוגיקה (אריסטו), לוגיקה סימבולית פורמלית (הוגים מימי הביניים), הרעיון של מימוש לוגיקה במעגלים, וכן הלאה. אתה לא יכול לתת סיפור קוהרנטי של איך להגיע ממציאות בסיסית לשכבה העליונה. היסטוריות של מחשוב נותנות סקירות ברמה העליונה, אבל אף אחד לא יכול באמת לשחזר את הדרך.
תרבויות, אידיאולוגיות, והשקפות עולם דתיות עובדות באותה דרך—בנויות שכבה על שכבה מנקודת התחלה כלשהי (בין אם "אי בודד" או אלוקים שנותן לאדם ידע). גם אם אלוקים נתן לאדם את כל הידע, עדיין לקח לאנושות זמן לעבוד דרך השכבות. חפצים של שכבות נמוכות יותר "דולפים" לשכבות גבוהות יותר—יוצרים תכונות מוזרות, לכאורה בלתי מוסברות.
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כשאנשים עוברים את משבר השאלות:
- ממבט חיצוני, כל המערכת נראית כמו שטות—"אתה לא יכול לדבר עם חתיכת זכוכית ולקבל תשובות."
- אז הם מנפצים את המערכת (אנלוגיה: לנפץ אייפון במאה שערים במדורת החמץ כי "אייפונים טרפים").
- אחרי פסח, הם מבינים: רגע, המכשיר באמת פתר בעיות אמיתיות.
- אז הם עשויים לגלות מחדש באופן אורגני *למה* דברים מסוימים היו שימושיים—דרך החוויה שלהם עצמם של צורך בחישוב, צורך בכלים, צורך שהמריצה תהיה בגודל הנכון.
- הפואנטה: "הבחור שנתן לי מחשבון לא היה רק שמאן מוזר שמשחק במספרים"—השכבות המופשטות, לכאורה חסרות הטעם, מתגלות כחיוניות באופן מעשי.
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חזור ל"גן עדן"—עירום, מתחיל מאפס. לאנשים יש ילדים. יש להם רעיונות שהם רוצים להעביר לילדים האלה. איך אתה באמת מעביר את השקפת העולם שלך לדור הבא?
- "אני אכתוב ספר"—אבל מיליוני מילים נכתבו וילדים לא קראו אותן. פרופסורים כותבים ספרים שמנים שילדיהם לא יודעים את השמות שלהם. כתיבה אינה הדרך.
- אתה צריך סמן פיזי, מגולם—אתה עשוי לשקול לעשות חתך באוזן של הילד שלך (מה שהופך אותך ל"המוזר"), אבל אז אתה מבחין שלערלה של יילוד יש עור עודף שלא משרת מטרה ברורה—"אפשר גם לחתוך את זה."
- זו תיאוריה של מקור ברית מילה: היא התעוררה כפתרון לבעיה היסודית של יצירה ושימור של תרבות. זה ספקולטיבי ("סתם סיפור שהמצאתי") אבל התיאור הסביר ביותר.
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- עדות אמפירית: אנשים בקליפורניה ניסו ליצור תרבויות נגד במשך חמישים השנים האחרונות—"כולן נכשלו." הנכדים שלהם או לא קיימים או נמצאים בגרסה שלישית, שונה מהכת המקורית.
- בעיית כללים שנראים שרירותיים: תרבות דורשת פרקטיקות ספציפיות, לפעמים לכאורה שרירותיות. פרקטיקות תרבותיות פונקציונליות הן תמיד "מעלות הרחק" ממשהו שנראה לא רציונלי, ואתה לא יכול לבנות תרבות בלי לקבל את זה.
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אפשר, באופן עקרוני, לעקוב אחר כל פרקטיקה תרבותית (כמו ברית מילה) לאורך כל הדרך דרך כל שכבה של ה"OSI" (המודל השכבתי), להראות איך היא מצטמצמת לרצון/צורך בסיסי. אבל:
- זה לא מעשי—בדיוק כפי שאתה לא בונה מחדש מחשב מחול בכל פעם שאתה משתמש בו, אתה לא גוזר מחדש כל פרקטיקה תרבותית מעקרונות ראשונים בכל פעם.
- מדיטציה של דקארט מוזכרת: לפרק דבר אחד בחייך ולהרכיב אותו מחדש הוא תרגיל בעל ערך, אם כי דקארט עשה את זה "בדרך מוזרה."
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כשאנשים באמת עושים את התרגיל הזה של פירוק ושיחזור, הם בדרך כלל בסופו של דבר מחזירים את אמונתם—במיוחד "אמונת חכמים". הם מבינים:
- הם כנראה לא יכולים ליצור משהו טוב יותר מהמערכת התרבותית הקיימת.
- אם הם יכלו לשפר אותה, זה יהיה "עוד תיקון אחד"—שזה בדיוק מה שרבנים תמיד עשו: הוספה, הסרה, או התאמת כללים בתוך המסורת.
- דוגמה של פאה: מצוות תורה שחוזרת שלוש או ארבע פעמים, ובכל זאת הרבנים למעשה ביטלו אותה כי "זה לא עובד" בנסיבות שהשתנו. זה מתועד בשולחן ערוך. המסורת תמיד עשתה סוג זה של התאמה פרגמטית.
- השלכה לברית מילה: אם אתה חושב שזה לא עובד, בסדר—"אתה צריך לעשות את העבודה" של להראות את זה, והמערכת יכולה להכיל שינוי. אבל דחייה מזדמנת אינה מספיקה.
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הצדקה רציונלית בכל רמה אינה מספיקה כדי לשכנע מישהו שלא חי דרך החוויות הרלוונטיות.
- סיפור ברית המילה שסופר למעלה הוא "במידה מסוימת בזבוז זמן"—לא כי הוא שגוי, אלא כי הוא לא שלם (התיאור האמיתי "ממשיך מעבר לזה"), ובפועל, תמיד מתחילים משכבה גבוהה יותר, בדיוק כפי שכותבים Python במקום C, או שואלים את ChatGPT במקום לקודד ידנית. אתה רק חופר למטה לשכבות נמוכות יותר כשמשהו נשבר או שאתה צריך לתקן באגים.
- תלמידים שבאים ללמוד "את התהליך" מרגישים מרומים אם אתה לא נותן להם את הגזירה המלאה.
- אבל לעבור דרך "כל הטעויות המצחיקות שיש לכולם כל הזמן" הוא בזבוז זמן עצום.
- תלות בנתיב: תכונות רבות של מערכות קיימות (מחשבים, תרבויות) קיימות בגלל בחירות היסטוריות שרירותיות—אולי אפילו "מבוססות על אסטרולוגיה." הן עובדות, אבל לא ניתן להצדיק אותן באופן מלא בכל רמה. לנסות לבנות מחדש מאפס הוא "לא שווה את המאמץ."
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האדם שהסיק "אין אלוקים" והכיר שההוכחות של הרבי שלו היו טיפשיות (למשל, הטענה של רב אלחנן וסרמן שאף אדם חכם לא מכחיש את אלוקים, שהיא "פשוט שגויה")—האדם הזה לא ניתן להחזיר בטיעונים לאמונה, אפילו עם תשובות טובות.
- **"סיפור צ
ריך לקרות להם"**—הם צריכים לגדול, לעבור חוויות חיים שמביאות אותם למקום שבו הטיעונים הופכים משמעותיים.
- הערכת הקהל של הנרטיב של ברית המילה עובדת רק כי "אתם כבר עברתם את זה לפני שש שנים או משהו כזה."
- האם אתה יכול לשכנע מישהו שיש "חומרים בעולם"? שיש "אדם בעולם"? כנראה שלא ברמה הכי בסיסית—אתה אפילו לא יכול לגרום למישהו לראות את הבעיה.
- המשימה האמיתית היא לגרום למישהו להעריך "את גודל הבעיה שתרבות אמורה לפתור."
- אולי אתה צריך רק "סיפור אחד או שניים של ברית מילה" כדי להמחיש את הדפוס—לא תיאור ממצה.
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נקודת מבט של "חייזר ממאדים" על חיים חילוניים עכשוויים:
- אנשים מבלים ~6.5 שעות ביום בהסתכלות על "קופסת זכוכית" (טלפון/מסך), צופים באחרים עושים "משימות קטנות הדרגתיות" במשך עשר שניות בכל פעם.
- זו הגדרת ברירת המחדל של רוב האנשים לפנאי: "אני רק צריך להירגע."
- השאלה הרטורית: "קיווינו להגיע לכאן?" האם זו נקודת הסיום האידיאלית של הציוויליזציה האנושית? "משהו אולי השתבש" במצב האנושי.
- הנקודה אינה לגנות אלא לעורר סקרנות: "אולי יש דרך אחרת לחיות את החיים שלך."
הטיעון הזה מיד מערער את עצמו:
- אתה לא יכול לתת את הדרשה הזו לאנשי OTD—הם לא יקבלו אותה.
- אתה יכול לתת אותה רק ל"החברה הפרומה" או לאנשים שכבר יציבים.
- "קודם אתה צריך להיות יציב"—נאמר בדגש.
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רב ישראל סלנטר, מייסד תנועת המוסר, היה דמות מודרנית להפליא:
- הוא יצר תוכניות לכל דבר—לימוד תורה במקום העבודה, פרויקטים של הנדסה חברתית.
- הוא היה הראשון לפתח תוכניות מובנות ל*בעלי בתים*.
- בסופו של דבר הוא התנגש עם יותר מדי אנשים בעולם הפרום, היה לו בן שהפך חילוני (רופא/מתמטיקאי בפריז או בגרמניה), וויתר על הקהילה הפרומה.
- הוא פנה לעבוד עם היהודים ה*פריי* (חילוניים) לחלוטין במקום.
- ה*משל* שלו: סוס בורח שיורד במורד—אתה לא עוצר אותו באמצע הנפילה; אתה מחכה בתחתית ועובד איתו אחרי שהוא נחת.
- הגישה הזו לא באמת עבדה גם עבור סלנטר.
מטרה: להמחיש שהבעיה של למי ללמד ואיך היא עתיקה ולא פתורה—לא הפרומים ולא הפריים הם קהל קל.
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אנשים בשלב הפעיל של שאלות על הכל (למשל, "הרבי שלי אמר שסמארטפונים *טרפים* אבל הם נראים כיפיים") נמצאים במצב הרסני גרידא—הם קורעים מבנים שקריים אבל עדיין לא בונים כלום. הם "הורסים דברים מזויפים", שזה לגיטימי, אבל אתה לא יכול לעבוד באופן פרודוקטיבי עם מישהו בשלב הזה. אין תשובה מהירה לתת להם.
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בני אדם חיים בזמן. הבנה לא ניתנת לדחיסה.
- אתה יכול לקרוא ספר שמכיל טיעון מלא בחמש שעות, אבל לחיות דרך הטיעון הזה לוקח חיים שלמים.
- *קושיא* שלוקחת 20 דקות לנסח עשויה לדרוש שנתיים כדי לשבת איתה כראוי.
- אדם ה-OTD בעצם "לומד *שטיקל תורה* ארוך מאוד"—הם נמצאים באמצע שאלה לגיטימית. היתה להם ה*קושיא*; בסופו של דבר הם עשויים להגיע ל*תירוץ* או ל*קושיא* טובה יותר.
- הוראת הרבי מקוצק: דוד המלך כתב תהילים על פני 70 שנה, לא בשעה. אתה יכול לקרוא את זה בשעה, אבל אתה לא יכול *לעשות* את זה בשעה.
טענה מרכזית: חוויית ה-OTD היא תהליך תקף, ממושך בזמן של שאלות—לא פתולוגיה אלא שלב בלמידה אמיתית.
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- אתה לא יכול לדבר עם אנשים במשבר בצורה דחוסה, תיאורטית. אתה יכול רק להיות שם—נוכח בסוף התהליך שלהם, זמין כשהם חוזרים.
- בעיית האמינות בלתי עבירה: איך מישהו שלובש חולצה לבנה (מסמל זהות פרומה) יכול לטעון שהוא *אפיקורס* אמיתי ולהיות מהימן על ידי מישהו שבאמת עזב? אדם ה-OTD רואה בצדק את האדם הפרום כ"בלוף."
- אתה לא יכול להיות בו זמנית באופן אמין OTD, חכם, ופרום. זה לא אפשרי. כל מה שאתה יכול לעשות הוא להיות נוכח.
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גאווה היא הסיבה המרכזית לניתוק בין יהודים פרומים לספקות שלהם עצמם:
- אף אחד לא רוצה להיות "בחור ה-OTD" כי בעולם הפרום, OTD = לוזר.
- אז כשמישהו עובד דרך הספקות שלו וחוזר לשמירת מצוות, הם מעמידים פנים שזה מעולם לא קרה וממשיכים לדבר שפה פרומה—מוחקים את המסע שלהם.
- זו *גאווה*: להעמיד פנים שמעולם לא היית ב*מצרים*, מעולם לא היית עובד עבודה זרה, מעולם לא היתה לך נקודת המבט של תרח.
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כל ליל הסדר ממוסגר מחדש כתרופה נגד הגאווה הזו:
מצה מייצגת את המצב שלפני-לחם, שלפני-תחכום—עוני, פשטות. אכילתה מדי שנה היא מעשה של ענווה: "אתה חושב שאתה כזה *חכם*? אתה פשוט טיפש כמו כולם." זו *הכרת הטוב* דרך השפלה עצמית.
אנחנו שואלים ארבע *קושיות*—כל הסדר מובנה סביב שאלות. ליל פסח אינו לילה של *אמונה* אלא לילה של *אפיקורסות*. אתה לא יכול להיות מאמין אמיתי אם מעולם לא היית *אפיקורס*. — בתחילה עובדי עבודה זרה היו אבותינו.
הפסוק כי ישאלכם בניכם מה העבודה הזאת לכם אינו מטבעו כפרני בטקסט עצמו—זו שאלה ישרה עם תשובה ישרה (זבח פסח הוא). החכמים המציאו את הקריאה שזו שאלת ה*רשע*. הם בחרו לקרוא את השאלה בלי התשובה—והכירו שהשאלה טובה יותר מהתשובה.
מה העבודה הזאת לכם — "מה לעזאזל אנחנו עושים?" — היא השאלה העמוקה, הכנה ביותר. אין לנו תשובה אמיתית לרשע. הקהה את שיניו אינו *תירוץ*; זו הודאה בתבוסה. אולי משיח יביא תשובה. בכל שנה בפסח אנחנו מכירים שלרשע, אין לנו תשובה—ואנחנו מבלים את כל הלילה בהיותנו *אפיקורסים*.
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באופן מעשי, אתה מרחיב את *בית המדרש* על ידי קריאה לאנשים הפרומים—כי יש להם תקווה. הם עשויים להבין "איזה *אפיקורסים* גדולים הם באמת"—והם יציבים מספיק כדי ללמד להם משהו.
הם מקבלים *שיעור* פעם בשנה כדי להראות "אני אפילו יותר *פריי* מהם." הם "*שווחים* (חלשים) *אפיקורסים*"—הם מאמינים באופן לא ביקורתי בוודאויות מוסריות שהומצאו לאחרונה (למשל, "גזענות היא החטא הכי גדול שהומצא אי פעם"). יש להם דוגמות משלהם שלא נבדקו. אפשר להציע קצת אמינות, אבל זה לא באמת פותר את הבעיה.
אתה יותר קשה לאדם פרום מאשר לאדם פריי עם ההוראה הזו. אדם פריי שומע את זה וזה לא הופך את חייו—הם כבר בעולם שלהם. אדם פרום—נשוי, עם ילדים, עם אישה שנראית בצורה מסוימת, שבנה חיים שלמים על הנחות מסוימות—אם אתה אומר להם "אתה חי בטעות קטלנית", אתה ממש עינית את חייהם. זו הסיבה שה*שיעור* הזה בדרך כלל לא ניתן—"רק ביוטיוב." לא לאנשים פרומים באופן אישי, לא במהירות. לאט, בזהירות, צעד אחר צעד—כן. מהר ומערער יציבות—לא.
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מאזין מעלה את הרעיון שההוראה הזו היא "שכבה ארבע"—שהם עברו דרך טיפוסי אנשים אחד עד שלוש. מעבר לכל שאלות היהדות (שהן "רמת עניין שתיים"), יש בעיות עמוקות יותר, יותר יסודיות:
- לא רק "איך לפרנס את עצמך" (דאגות מעשיות)
- אלא משהו כמו: "אנחנו לא באמת מבינים איך שפה עובדת."
זה נשאר כמחווה לקראת רמה אפילו יותר יסודית של שאלות פילוסופיות שיורדת מתחת לספק דתי אל מבנה המשמעות, התקשורת, וההבנה עצמה.
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תוכן שמתחיל עם "בעיות יהדות רציונליסטית טיפשיות" (למשל, וו פרובוקטיביים על ביוגרפיות של ארטסקרול) מקבל הרבה צפיות. תסכול מרכזי: כשנקודה פילוסופית מהותית באמת נעשית—למשל, שביוגרפיות של ארטסקרול עשויות להיות "יותר אמיתיות" מביוגרפיות ביקורתיות במובן מסוים—אף אחד לא מתעסק עם הטיעון. אנשים לוחצים על הוו אבל אפילו לא רושמים שיש טיעון שנעשה. זה כמעט בלתי אפשרי מבחינה מעשית לגרום לרוב האנשים להתעסק עם נימוק פילוסופי אמיתי.
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ה*מקובלים* (אלה שמשתתפים בשיעורי קבלה) הם האנשים בעולם היהודי שבאמת רוצים לדעת "מה דברים הם." ניגוד: קהל ה-OTD בדרך כלל *לא* אכפת להם ממה דברים הם באופן יסודי—יש חריגים, אבל זה לא הנורמה.
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השאלה של *מעשה בראשית*: האם זה מיועד מילולית (*כפשוטו*) או לא? השאלה הזו לבדה אולי לא מובילה לעניין אמיתי במה העולם הוא. עם זאת: *מעשה בראשית* קיים כי אנשים ניסו להבין מה העולם הוא—אז זה *צריך* להוביל לשם בסופו של דבר.
שאלה מבנית מרכזית: האם עוברים מתיאולוגיה לפילוסופיה, או להיפך?
תיאור אפשרי: אדם מתחיל לרצות לדעת מה דברים הם → נאמר לו שהתשובה נמצאת בתורה (למשל, ה*לוחות*, ה*שני לוחות הברית*) → אז מוסח על ידי שאלות עובדתיות/היסטוריות (האם ה*לוחות* באמת היו ספיר? האם ספיר יכול להיות כל כך גדול?) → נתקע בשאלות הטנגנציאליות האלה → בסופו של דבר מוצא דרך חזרה לרצון הפילוסופי המקורי לדעת מה דברים באמת הם. זה "תיאור סביר של כמה אנשים"—סוג של היסטוריה אינטלקטואלית שבה סקרנות פילוסופית אמיתית מקבלת עיכוב דרך פרטים תיאולוגיים לפני שחוזרת לאובייקט האמיתי שלה.
אנשים רבים נראים מעוניינים באמת האם ה*לוחות* היו ממש ספיר—שזה קצת מוטעה. הגנה חלקית: אפילו האנשים האלה "טובים יותר" מספקנים טהורים כי אכפת להם מה*לוחות* ב"דרך אמיתית"—לא בגלל הספיר אלא כי הם חשים שאיזו אמת שוכנת בהם.
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בקיצור, שאלות בצד, אנחנו עושים טוב. *נרצה*. השיעור מסתיים.
המרצה:
לפני שהם בכלל התחילו לעשות את מדינת ישראל, אתה התחלת את זה כן, אז מה זה אומר? לא, דיברנו על נושא חשוב מאוד ויזואלי. אבל אני יכול רק להגיד שזו הבעיה עם יהודים שהם יכולים כאילו אם אתה אומר שמועה אז אתה לא יכול פשוט כאילו להשאיר את הבעיה. אני חייב כאילו לומר וורט, וזה מה שאני הולך לעשות. אני אגיד לכם את הוורט או אולי אנחנו לא צריכים לעשות את זה, אולי אנחנו צריכים פשוט לקחת את הכוח להשיג בעיה היא שבני אדם הם מסוג הדברים שלומדים דברים.
מעניין, תהליך מאוד מעניין ומרתק שבו אתה לומד דברים, בתקווה. המצליחים, אלה שהשיגו משהו, שהגיעו להבנה כלשהי או לתובנה כלשהי או לפריצת דרך כלשהי, פריצת דרך אישית—אני לא מתכוון בהכרח שהם גילו את כוח המשיכה—איזושהי הבנה של איך הדברים הם ואיך הדברים צריכים להיות ומה הם אומרים, הם גדלים.
ומה שקורה כשהם גדלים זה שהם עוברים דרך הדברים שגרמו להם להגיע לשם. אז, אם אני מאוד מבולבל ויש לי חבורה של שאלות מטופשות, שחשבתי שהן שאלות נהדרות, הן היו שאלות נהדרות. כי הדרך שבה ראיתי את חיי, או הדרך שבה ראיתי את המציאות, או הדרך שבה ראיתי הכל חסרה ניואנס—לא ניואנס, חודשים—חסרה מציאות, זה היה איכשהו כמו להגיע, אנחנו מגששים לקראת זה מאיזה קצה מוזר.
ואז סוף סוף אתה פורץ דרך, אתה מוצא את הארמון, כמו שאתה חופר דרך משהו וכמו דוחף עפר פה ודוחף עפר שם וזה מפריע לך וזה מפריע לך. וסוף סוף אתה פרצת דרך המנהרה והגעת לארמון.
אז אז בדרך כלל מה שקורה זה שאתה מפסיק לדאוג מאוד לגבי העפר במנהרה. זה פשוט זה חלק מהתהליך כמו איזה בחור שחפר עפר ודרך מנהרה וקודם כמו עפר היה כל החיים להבין לדחוף את החתיכה הזו של הפחד שלהם ואז אם אתה שם כמו קורה אתה יכול להתקדם צעד אחד כי המנהרה לא קורסת מאחוריך ואז אתה מבין איך כאילו לעשות את הבוץ רטוב ולעשות ממנו לבנה כך שאתה יכול איכשהו לבצע את התהליך הזה של עשיית מנהרה ויציאה ואז סוף סוף כשאתה יוצא מהמנהרה, אתה לא רוצה לשמוע על בוץ לשארית חייך. זה הרגשי.
אותו דבר בסיסי קורה עם אנשים. זה מה שקורה עם אנשים. הם מתחילים עם כמה שאלות. עכשיו, הם מתחילים עם כמה שאלות, ואז סוף סוף, והם חושבים שהשאלות האלה הן מאוד, מאוד אמיתיות, כמו מאוד גדולות, אבל אלה הן כמו, אתה יודע מה זה כל כך מצחיק אבל ככה זה כמו אם מישהו שהגיע שהגיע לאיפשהו חושב אחורה על דברים מסוימים כאילו שהיו כאילו שהיו כל העולם שלו אז כאילו זה היה כל כך מז'ורי כאילו זה כאילו דרמה מז'ורית כאילו אתה יודע זה כמו דרמה מז'ורית של מישהו שנולד כאילו במנדל הייגרטאון.
כמו רגע אבל זה אומר בספרים החסידיים שהרבי הוא הדרך שדרכה אנחנו נוגעים. האם זה באמת אומר מנדל? או אולי זה אומר סורול. שמעתי את ההירא כפירא. אחיו הוא גראדא הצדיק. והוא הצדיק. וכאילו באמת, האם זה באמת החתך? אתה יודע, אנשים לא יודעים את האישטיזם. בתקווה. האם זה באמת מה שהאדמו"ר הזקן התכוון? או אולי הוא התכוון למשהו קצת שונה. והוא כאילו די מודאג לגבי זה. וזה כאילו עניין שלם.
ואם מישהו בתקווה, בוא נגיד, אני לא יודע הרבה אנשים שהצליחו לעבור את זה, אבל כמה אנשים כן. בוא נגיד מישהו בתקווה מבין את התשובה. אני לא אומר שהוא הופך לאות חסיד או כן חסיד. זה לא הדיון כאן. הוא מבין משהו כמו: רגע, יש עולם שלם. יש כמו 7 מיליארד אנשים בו. ויש כמו נושאים אמיתיים, כמו שאלות אמיתיות. פשוט כמו, אתה יודע, אני אפילו לא יודע מה השאלות האמיתיות בהקשר הזה. אבל כמו יש דברים אמיתיים שקורים. יש הכל אחר וכאילו כל הדיון הזה הוא כאילו אפילו לא שאלה טובה. זה אפילו לא כאילו אתה יודע זה איפה שהתחלתי אז בואו בואו נכבד את השאלה הטובה. זה אפילו לא זה. זה פשוט כזה בלגן.
עכשיו כמובן הוא יכול לדבר כמובן אה זה לא אני שמחמיר את הדברים על ידי נתינת כל המשווה הזה. לא, אל תיתן משל מנטלי. תן משל טוב. אתה רואה את הבעיה? אתה רואה את הבעיה? זו אותה בעיה.
לעניני זה ככה. אנחנו צריכים לעשות עוד הקדמה אחת. לעניני זה ככה. יש כמה אנשים שאין להם בעיות ואין להם פתרונות ולא לומדים כלום.
אמרתי שבני אדם הם מסוג הדברים שלומדים. זה החידוש הגדול. אתה צריך להאמין בזה. זה לא משהו שאנחנו תמיד רואים.
בני אדם הם גם מסוג הדברים שבאט. הדבר הכי מצחיק הוא בן אדם. השבוע מישהו בא אלי עם שאלה, למה מישהו מתנהג ככה? אמרתי לו, אין לי מושג. להגיד לך, יש דבר, כמו יש חיות מצחיקות, יש קופים שיש להם דרך מצחיקה לעשות דברים, ויש איזה עטלף מוזר שתלוי הפוך, ואל תשאל אף אחד למה. בני אדם הם מסוג הדבר הכי מצחיק. אף אחד לא יודע למה הם עושים את הדברים שהם עושים. לא הגיוני.
אז באותה דרך, למה הגעתי להגיד את זה? בני אדם הם מאוד מצחיקים והם לא באמת דברים שלומדים. יש רק כמה בני אדם שלומדים. בני האדם, ללכת לפי תצפית, הם מסוג הדברים שמוצאים עוד דרכים חדשות להיות משוגעים כל יום. הם לא לומדים כלום. הם לא משתפרים. זו איזושהי תצפית שאתה בהחלט יכול לעשות מקריאת החדשות ובסדר אתה רוצה שאני אדבר על עכו"ם אני לא יודע איך לעשות את זה באמת לדבר על זה תמיד אמיתי לדבר על זה.
הנקודה שלי היא לעשות חבורה כשנראה שיש להם חיים טובים בכל העולם שלהם, כמו התולעת שבתוך השרין שלא יודעת שהיא בשרין, אתה יודע? המשל של הבבא. אתה מכיר את המשל הזה? המשל של הבבא יש תולעת שבתוך השרין שיש לה חיים טובים. זה האחד, זה נבוכדנצר.
והאנשים האלה, עכשיו, אני רוצה להגיד משהו מאוד חשוב. האנשים האלה, הם חושבים שהם מהאנשים הטובים מסיבה כלשהי. והרבה מאיתנו מאמינים בזה מסיבה כלשהי. זה דבר מאוד מצחיק. מספר אחת: תפסיקו להאמין בזה. בסדר. הם לא האנשים הטובים. הם פשוט כמו תולעים בדבש או מה שזה לא יהיה, בתבואה. זה הכל. תולעת בתבואה. זה לאן תולעים הולכות. אני לא יודע. משהו. אני לא יודע. מה זה? תולעת בתבואה.
האנשים שסובלים דתית. כן. אנשים דתיים. תמיד יש להם את התשובות לכל דבר. כל החיים שלהם זה רק על ללכת למקווה בזמן ויש להם את המנין הראשון של תפילה ואני לא אותו בחור, נכון? אני יודע בליקווד יש כזו כוורא זה החידוש של ליקווד יש את הכוורא האלה בליקווד הוא הולך למקווה ויש לו את המנין הראשון והילדים אומרים כמו ברצינות נבוך, אני אפילו לא יכול להגיד נבוך כי הוא שמח.
אלה סוג אחד של בחורים, בסדר. עכשיו הסוג הזה של בחורים, כמו רבי נחמן פעם אמר לחסיד שלו, אמר לו, אני אוהב אותך מאוד, אני רוצה לתת לך ברכה. ברכה היא שעשרת אלפים שנה אחרי אתה תבין את הבדיחות שלי.
אז זה סוג הברכה שאתה יכול לתת לבחורים האלה. אני מקווה שתבין את האברות שלי בעוד עשרת אלפים שנה אחרי שאתה הולך למות וללכת לגן עדן ולהיוולד בגלגול חיסליש טוב יותר, אולי. זה המצב. לא אומר שככה זה רחוק. אז זה סוג אחד של בחור.
עכשיו הסוג הזה של בחור, עכשיו, בסדר, טוב, אז יש עוד סוג של בחור. זה הדזך. שהוא לומד דגימור ואומר ששמע שדגימור הוא מאוד חכם, אבל זה לא הגיוני, אז מה קורה? זה הסוג השני של בחור, נכון? יש כזה סוג של בחור.
והסוג הזה של בחור גם, כמו, כש, לפעמים, עכשיו, הנה, זה למה, כשאני אומר דברים, אני חושב עליהם, ואז אני הולך להגיע לסיפור אחר מזה שבאת איתו. אבל יש הרבה מהבחורים האלה, כביכול, זה מה שאתם אנשים אומרים לי. אה, כמוני. כמו, תתעורר. אף אחד לא יודע אם יש אלוקים. אם יש אלוקים, הם לא יודעים אם הוא נתן את התורה.
כשאני אומר את השאלות האלה, אני נשמע כל כך טיפש. כמו, האם אנחנו צריכים לצבוע את העולם לבן או אפור? כמו, למה זה הדבר? אבל בכל מקרה, מסיבה כלשהי, זה כאילו העפר. זה מה שאני מגיע אליו.
ובאמת, אתה יודע, שמבקרי המקרא אמרו שהיו ארבעה משה רבנו, לא רק הוא ניצח וזה עושה את הדברים יותר גרועים—זה עושה את זה יותר טוב—ארבעה בחורים הסכימו פחות או יותר על אותו רעיון. אבל בכל מקרה, מסיבה כלשהי זו כביכול בעיה גדולה.
ומה עוד? אני לא יודע. מה כל הבעיות שיש לכולם? אני כאן עושה חוזק מזה. אני לא מתכוון לעשות את זה. חלק מהן בעיות דתיות וחלק מהן פשוט בעיות בסיסיות של העולם. העולם מאוד ישן אבל סקרן. אה שכחתי, נכון יש דינוזאורים.
כן, יש דינוזאורים. אנחנו כאן עושים חוזק. אנחנו לא עושים חוזק. מה שאנחנו מנסים לתאר זה, אתה יודע, מה אנחנו מנסים לתאר? שאם אתה לא אוהב את זה, אם אתה חושב שאין דינוזאור, אז אתה לא הולך להזדקק לרפואה שלמה ולוזאד לובא, אולי יהיה לך את זה. בסדר. כי אתה פשוט בטוח. לא יכול להיות. הרב שלך אמר לך שאין דינוזאורים.
אני לא נכנס לזה. הבחור הזה הוא בכלל, כן. הבחור הזה הוא בכלל לא.
בסדר? אתה שואל? הבחור ש... עכשיו, אז יש... אז יש אנשים אחרים שדואגים לגבי כל הבעיות האלה. וזה באמת מפריע להם. בסדר? ואלה לא אזכור. אתה יכול לדבר איתם, נכון? כמו, שלום, אתה בן אדם. אתה חי בעולם הזה. כן, מה קורה?
באמת, איך הבחור אומר, "באמת, זו הסיבה שאלוקים עשה את העולם לפני 15 מיליארד שנה" — אני מצטער, מתי שזה — "וגם ש-13 בחורים בליקווד צריכים ללמוד, זה התכלית של הכל"? כשאתה אומר את זה ואתה לא מתפוצץ מצחוק, נכון? אני לא מדבר על אחרי שאתה בא לשיעור שלי ואתה מבין שזה נכון. שלום, אתה באמת — אתה אפילו לא מבין שאתה אומר משהו. זו לא קושיא על זה. אתה צריך להבין את זה.
האם מותר לי להגיד עבא קרסס? כן, השיעור הזה הוא להגיד עבא קרסס. אתה צריך לקבל את זה. זה לא כאילו יש קושיא על זה, נכון? זה צחוק שבצחוק.
אם אתה מתחיל לשעשע את השאלה, "כן, אולי תכלית הבריאה היתה ש-500 בחורים ב-BMG צריכים ללמוד רש"י" — בגלל זה אלוקים ברא דינוזאורים? אה רגע, אין דינוזאורים. העולם קצת יותר קטן. אבל אפילו העולם, לפי 6,000 שנה, ועם רק הקרנף — אין דינוזאורים, כי יש הבדל גדול. אלוקים לא יכול לברוא דינוזאורים. הוא יכול רק לברוא...
זו הסיבה שיש כרגע בערך 8 או 7 מיליון אנשים בעולם, תלוי במי אתה מאמין. או אולי רק אחד — אף אחד לא יודע. אף אחד לא יודע כמה אנשים באמת יש. חבורה של מדינות באפריקה אומרות שיש להן מיליון אנשים — אף אחד מעולם לא פגש אותם. בכל מקרה, תיאוריית קונספירציה חדשה: אולי זו הסיבה שלא התמלאנו יתר על המידה — המפקדים הם לא שקר. מי יודע?
תלמיד: הבחור שמת, המספרים שלו הם...
מרצה: אה, אתה מתכוון לפול ארליך? משהו כזה. כן.
אז כן, הקיצוב, מה שאני מנסה להגיד הוא: אתה פותח את הדבר, יש 8 מיליארד אנשים בעולם, והנקודה של כל זה היא שאנחנו צריכים לשרוף את המצות שלנו ולוודא שאין אפילו חשש חמץ ואפילו לא חשש מצה בזה. מצה, אתה יודע, מצה היא מאוד קרובה לחמץ. אתה צריך לוודא שהמצה שלך היא אפילו לא מצה. אם זה מצה, אז זה ממש... כל עוד זה אומר, מצה וחמץ הם אותן אותיות — זה רק הבדל קטן. אתה יודע, במציאות, זה מאוד קרוב.
אז בגלל זה העולם נברא. ואם יש לך ספק על זה, זה נבוך. נבוך, אתה לא יודע. נבוך. אם כשאתה אומר את זה ואתה מבוגר אנושי ואתה לא מתפוצץ מצחוק או בוכה — כי יש בחורים עם זקנים ארוכים שבאמת חיים את החיים שלהם על בסיס הפנטזיה הזו — אז, איך אתם בחורים אומרים, אנחנו אפילו לא מדברים עליכם.
תלמיד: אתה משכיל, כולם משכילים. אני חייב להיות משוגע.
מרצה: אני לא משכיל. אני חושב שאתה לוקח אותם ל — אתה לוקח אותם בערך הנקוב.
תלמיד: לא, לא, הם מאמינים בזה 100 אחוז.
מרצה: כן, כן. לא, אנחנו איפשהו פשוט לומדים לווגאס.
תלמיד: אז אז הם אומרים, "לא, לא, לא, הם מלמדים את הילדים שלהם..."
מרצה: זה מגוחך. זה לא רק — זה לא שגוי. זה אפילו לא — אם "שגוי" היה מחמאה לזה. "שגוי" אומר שיש איזושהי נקודה, שיש איזה — "שגוי" הוא פשוט חלקית נכון. יש נקודה, אבל אתה — זה לא... אני לא אומר שזו האמת, אבל הדרך שבה זה מובן והדרך שבה אנשים מדברים על זה, זה לא — "שגוי" היה מחמאה שזה לא ראוי לה. זה לא שגוי. זה משוגע. זה סכיזופרני. זה פסיכוטי.
שלום, אתה יודע מה? אלוקים ברא את העולם כדי שאני צריך לרקוד שלוש פעמים אחורה כל בוקר על הרגל השמאלית שלי. זה הגיוני באותה מידה.
תלמיד: אה, כי יש לך ספר. הספר אומר את זה.
מרצה: כן, ואתה יודע על הספר הזה כי — אה, כי 600,000 אנשים חשבו... היו לי עוד 600 אנשים שראו את זה. כי זה לא — הספר להיות אמיתי. תתבגרו, אנשים. מבוגרים ממשיכים לחזור על השטויות האלה. אתם צריכים להתבגר. אני לא אומר שאתם מבינים — אני לא צריך לפנפיסיקל כאן. זו הנקודה, בסדר?
ועכשיו המציאות היא שבמדינה הזו שנקראת ליקווד, או בכל מקום שבו אנשים עם כיפות שחורות מתכנסים, רוב הדיונים הם ברמה הזו — שזה אפילו לא שטויות. זה... אני לא אומר שאם אתה חושב שיש איזושהי אמת ואתה יכול לעשות משל ולספר את זה לילדים שלך, בסדר. אבל אנחנו מדברים על מבוגרים עכשיו.
אף ילד לא צריך לצפות. אני הולך לכתוב את זה על הסרטון הזה. כל פעם שאני מעלה סרטון, יוטיוב שואל אותי אם זה לילדים, ואני תמיד אומר שזה לא. כי אם זה לילדים, הם לא נותנים לך... כן, מסיבה כלשהי הם לא נותנים שאתה עשית את המיני-פלייר. זה הגדול — עושה הבדל.
בכל מקרה, יוטיוב מגן על הילדים מהמיני-פלייר. אל תשאל אותי. אני לא יודע. יש לך יוטיוב.
תלמיד: שזו הבעיה העיקרית של רוב האנשים עם הפלטפורמה.
מרצה: אני לא יודע. המיני-פלייר, זו הבעיה. אתה לא יכול להקשיב לזה ברקע. אני הלשנתי. בכל מקרה.
תלמיד: יכולה להיות בעיה בעצם עם החזן והשיעור במכונית.
מרצה:
הוא עבר את כל התחנות שאפשר לעבור על סמך הקושיא הזאת. ואז, ולבסוף הוא החליט שהוא הולך להיות מלמד, לבוא לאוניברסיטה. כמובן, מה הוא הולך ללמוד? הישיבות הליטאיות.
הלו. בגלל זה צריך ללכת לאוניברסיטה לעשות דוקטורט על הישיבות.
בכל מקרה, זה כל כך, אז בכל מקרה ואז הוא אמר שיום אחד הוא היה באוניברסיטה עומד שם ליד הקפה ויש בחור מיפן שבא - באתי לראות שהדאגה תבוא ולבי יראה ברגש קולי כמו שהטבח אמר כשפתחו את האוניברסיטה העברית יכול לראות וכשלישי אז הם הולכים מיפן באו לחקור את החכמה היהודית בירושלים ובאוניברסיטה העברית, אני חושב.
והבחור הזה הוא בחור מיפן. והוא דיבר איתו על משהו. הוא הבחור שלא יכול לאכול. לא, לא, יש הרבה בחורים מיפן. והבחור היה כאילו מדבר איתו, והוא ניסה להסביר לו, אתה יודע, חרדים ודתיים, וכמו כל העולם כנראה לא יודע. והבחור הזה מיפן, והוא מסתכל עליו כאילו, הא?
לא רק שהבחור הזה היה מיפן, הוא חשב - אני לא יודע מה היה הדבר של הבחור הזה - אבל הבעיה הגדולה הזאת, היא ענקית: האם צריך להיות כיפה לבנה או כיפה כחולה או כיפה אדומה? מה?
תדמיין שאתה הולך לקבוצת אנשים באי סנטינל והם מנהלים מחלוקת ענקית אם צריך לשים שני קצוות על החנית שלהם או קצה אחד, והם כאילו מחרימים אחד את השני בגלל זה, וכאילו יש איזה - כאילו זה לא אמיתי. כל העניין הזה, תתעורר. זה לא על זה העולם.
אז אתה מבין דברים כאלה, שלא מחליטים להיות בודהיסט. לפחות, לפחות, אתה יודע, הם מדברים על המציאות, לא על כאילו אם הטריסקר שבע מפנוביץ' זה או זה. על זה העולם. זה מה שהם חושבים עכשיו.
מרצה:
זה מאוד חשוב נכון. אז שנה ראשונה, ראשית יש שלב של דחיפה ה - בוא, אני לא חושב עליהם, אנחנו לא הולכים לקרוא לזה דחיפה ה-תחתון הטיפשי ובכי. אוקיי, זה שלב מספר אחד או סוג אחד של אדם. אין שום דבר טוב בזה, להיות מאוד - אחרי זה אין שום דבר טוב בזה. יש טוב בכל ובכל השלבים האלה, יש משהו טוב במובן של שיש בזה איזשהו אמת, אבל אין מה להסתכל למעלה בזה. אנחנו צריכים לזכור את זה: שום דבר טוב בזה.
כשאתה אומר שיש משהו טוב בזה, אתה עובר על ה - אני אגיד לכל החברים שלי כל אומר, "הלוואי והייתי טיפש." אתה הבחור שנקבר ב - אם אתה אומר, "וואו, לא הייתי צריך לדעת, זה היה יותר טוב," זה טוב. כמובן שזה מראה לך את המציאות. תודה רבה. מה אתה רוצה לחיות בקודש בלי תולעת?
אוקיי, זה מספר אחת.
מרצה:
אז יש סוג שני של בחור שהוא כאילו, "הלו, זה כל-צדרית משיגעס וניתפלל אקשא." זה הסוג השני של בחור. אוקיי? טוב מאוד.
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עכשיו, מתברר שיש סוג שלישי של בחור. בסדר? הסוג השלישי של בחור, מה הסוג השלישי של בחור שאיכשהו הבין שזה מאוד - ברור, זה מאוד חשוב לציין - הסוג השלישי של בחור אומר ברור שהעולם לא נברא כדי שתלמד. אני אפילו לא צריך לדבר על זה. אני מרגיש טיפש לדבר על זה עכשיו.
ואז מה הוא אומר? מה הוא אומר? העולם גם לא נברא כדי לתקוף את האנשים. זה גם - לא, אנחנו צריכים להבין בשביל מה העולם נברא. גם יהדות רציונליסטית היא שטות עוד יותר גדולה. אוקיי? אל תגיד לאף אחד. זה בערך ככה. אנחנו לא כאן כדי לעשות כאילו טיפולוגיות של קבוצות מנסים להגיע אליהם.
זה מה שהוא אומר, כאילו תקשיב, אתה החלומי אתה מבין את זה. כן, אני מתכוון תודה רבה. וגם יש - אתה לא יכול לחיות את כל החיים שלך מהמצפון הזה. לא רק שאתה לא יכול לחיות את החיים שלך, אני חושב שכולם מבינים שאתה לא יכול לחיות את החיים שלך. כן, בדיוק. אבל רוב האנשים הם ככה כי הם - אוקיי, אנחנו הולכים לדבר על אלה ספציפיים, אני רק מנסה לתת סיפור.
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וגם, יש בעיות אמיתיות. יש בעיות אמיתיות. אתה יודע שאפילו, דרך אגב, אפילו במובן של בעיות יהודיות, כמו הבעיה היהודית, זו בעיה אמיתית. הבעיה היידישית. זו בעיה אמיתית. היסטורית, זו לא בעיה היסטורית - זו לא בעיה מטפיזית. אבל זו בעיה היסטורית, זו אמיתית, אוקיי?
השאלה של הצמצום כפשוטו, זה מזויף. אף אחד, זה לא משנה. זה משנה רק אם אכפת לך מהאמת על אלוקים, אבל כל זה כאילו כל הישיבה מאוד מודאגת אם הגאון מווילנא צדק או אם הבעל התניא צדק - אתה משחק, משחק, אני לא יודע מה. אתה משחק עם מקלות. זה לא אמיתי - זה לא האמיתי איפה הבעיות האמיתיות.
שאלה טובה: האם אלוקים נתן את התורה בהר סיני או לא? כמה אנשים היו שם? 600,000? 500,000? 999? זה לא אמיתי. זה לא עושה שום הבדל לאף אחד. אתה יודע מה עושה הבדל במציאות? כיהודי, אפילו כיהודי זה לא עושה הבדל.
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אתה יודע מה עושה הבדל כיהודי? יש נושאים אמיתיים. כמו, האם אנחנו צריכים לסגור את העניין הזה של הפרדה יהודית? כי נראה שזה פשוט גורם לנו להיהרג במשך 2,000 שנה. או שאנחנו צריכים למצוא פתרון אחר? זה נושא אמיתי. שאלה אמיתית. המוחות הגדולים ביותר היו בזה במשך 200 שנה. הם לא מצאו פתרון.
אבל אתה סאטמרי. אתה מצווה. באמת, זה שגחה פרקטית. זה לא קשור לשום דבר. אתה מבין מה אני אומר? הבעיה שלי לא הייתה אם האמנו שבן-גוריון היה שליח של השגחה או שהוא היה רשע שניסה לעשות את המדינה זכותים כדי להביא לנו כלישול.
אתם אנשים פשוט מסתכלים - אתם ממש מגיעים לארמון מהעפר מאחוריו כי אתם צריכים לחפור דרך ההר כדי להגיע אליו ואתם מתווכחים באיזה צד של עפר לדחוף.
מרצה:
כן, וגם האפיקורסים, פשוט הייתה להם פתרון לזה. האנשים האלה - הם מחוברים למציאות בצורה טובה לחזור כמו. כן, כמו היה לך פתרון אחי. כן, הצעתי את הפתרון. מרקס הציע את הפתרון. אני מתכוון בספר הזה על ה - וכן הלאה. זו שאלה אמיתית.
אתה בא לזה מכזה בלגן מצחיק. אתה אפילו לא - אתה אפילו לא מבין. הבעיה היא אם הם לומדים תורה, אז הם לא יוכלו ל - או בחור הצבא, זה הדיקי הגדול, כמו שרב צויודה אמר. אתם אנשים כל כך רחוקים מהמציאות שזה אפילו לא מצחיק.
אז אתה מבין את זה וזה - כל העניין של להיות יידיש זה רק תאונה היסטורית. לגברים, זו בעיה אפילו יותר גדולה. נכון? לא הייתי צריך לצאת מאפריקה עם הניאנדרטלים שם. בכל מקרה, לא.
מרצה:
אז, ואז אתה מבין את זה, אתה יודע, כן, כמובן שהרבי שלך היה טיפש, אבל אתה יודע למה נבראת? אתה יודע מה משמעות החיים? מה הנזר הבריאה? זו למעשה שאלה רצינית. זה למעשה מאוד אמיתי.
וזה למעשה גם נכון שאפילו אם אין לך, כאילו, יש, כאילו, סוג כזה של שובוניצחות, כאילו אני יכול להוכיח לכל אתאיסט שאני צריך להיות בחור ישיבה - אפילו אם זה שטות, אתה עדיין צריך להיות בחור ישיבה. עדיין דבר די טוב לעשות עם הזמן שלך.
אלא אם כן אני מורשה להגיד את זה כאן כבר - עם הרמה הזאת של בגרות, כן.
תלמיד:
אני יכול לשאול אותך משהו? למה אנחנו מדברים בצורך? למה זו שאלה מאוד חשובה? למה? במילים אחרות, אנחנו באמת שואלים את אותה שאלה כמו הבחור הזה או הישיבה שואלת כי אנחנו או -
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רגע, רגע, רגע, רגע, רגע, רגע. השאלה שלי היא, אנחנו מתחילים עם אותה הנחת יסוד -
תלמיד:
לא, לא, לא, אני לא מתכוון לזה. אני לא מתכוון לזה.
מרצה:
לא, אני לא מתכוון לזה, אני לא מתכוון לזה. אני לא מתכוון לזה. אני לא מתכוון לזה. למה זו בעיה רצינית? במילים אחרות, למה זו בעיה רצינית? למה נבראתי, או נולדתי, או כאן? אולי בדרך טובה יותר, בדרך טובה יותר, בטוב יותר, בדיוק, בדרך טובה יותר, אבל אני אומר את זה בדרך הזאת.
אוקיי, אז צריך להיות לך הקושיא שלך. אז צריך להיות לך הקושיא שלך. אוקיי, יש דרך טובה יותר לענות על זה. וקשה להבדיל בשפה. זו בעיה אחרת. אבל זה מאוד אמיתי. כל הדברים האלה מאוד אמיתיים.
מרצה:
ועכשיו, ועכשיו, יש לנו בעיה חדשה. אוקיי, עכשיו מה הבעיה החדשה? שאין לנו יותר חברים שנשארו.
כי אתה יכול להיות - עכשיו יש כאילו שתי אפשרויות. האנשים שמגיעים לשלב השלישי הזה, יש להם כאילו שתי אפשרויות האלה של עם מי להיות חברים.
מרצה:
ראשית הם חושבים, אני צריך להיות חברים עם כל היוצאים בשאלה. כי אלה הם הנורמליים שהוזכרו. הם לא משוגעים, הם לא חיים ב, כמו לה לה לנד יהיה שוואך. הם חיים בעולם האמיתי.
עכשיו אני צריך לחשוב שאני קצת יותר חכם מהם. אוקיי, אולי אני יכול ללמד אותם, אולי הם יכולים ללמד אותי משהו, אולי נוכל לעבוד על דברים ביחד. כי אני חושב שהיוצא בשאלה השלישי, זה דבר טוב להיות ממשהו כזה, נכון? זה כאילו אתה לא מאמין בשום דבר, תודה רבה. גם אני לא. ועכשיו אוקיי, אז עכשיו בואו נעשה משהו עם - בואו נעשה משהו עם החיים שלנו. כמו בואו, אתה יודע, החשיבה הזאת היא למעשה דרך די מגניבה לעשות משהו עם החיים שלך, של להבין דברים.
מרצה:
אז זה מה שאתה חושב בהתחלה. אתה גם יודע שקורה להיות שגיליתי סוף סוף. אתה יודע מה אתה מגלה? יש לי חבר שאמר לי, תמיד חשבנו, נבוכדנצר [כנראה מתייחס לרבי מקוצק, הידוע בגישתו האינטנסיבית והבלתי מתפשרת], הרבי חסר שורה. זה הולך להיות מה שאתה רוצה להגיד עליו. הוא, נבוכדנצר, היה אחד מהתולעים האלה בצ'יין אנשים [פרום עם חן: אדוק בצורה קונבנציונלית עם חום/חן]. הוא היה בוכה ומדבר על אמונה וכל הדברים והכל. ונבוכדנצר, אבל איפה הבחור החכם שגילינו שברצינות והוא אמר את זה ואז פעם אחת הוא הבין שהמאסטר מקוצק הוא חי בפנטזיה השטן היה אפיקורס. אה, זה היה אפיקורס יותר גדול ממני. בגלל זה הוא בכה כל כך הרבה כי אני אראה את זה כי זה לא האלה ואז הוא ניסה להבין כאילו אוקיי מה אני עושה מעכשיו והוא עשה מה שאני עושה.
ואז אתה אומר את זה לחברים היוצאים בשאלה שלך. אתה כאילו, אתה יודע, אני חושב שזה היה פשוט אפיקורס כמונו. רק הוא הבין את זה. מה אתה הולך לעשות עם החיים שלך? לשבת כל היום לצפות, לקרוא זיכרונות של יוצאים בשאלה? בחייך, הם אפילו לא טובים בספרות. יש ספרות טובה יותר מזה. הם לא פילוסופיה טובה. הם לא ספרות טובה. הם לא חיים טובים. אין מה לעשות אחרי שאתה יוצא בשאלה.
מרצה:
אני רוצה להתקרב להקב"ה. אז אתה יודע שהוא מלא שטויות. כי אנשים שמאמינים לא רוצים להתקרב להקב"ה. יש פה חידוש גדול, וזה מאוד פשוט. כל הליטאים האלה, כשכל הליטאים כבר התחילו לדבר על להיות קרוב להקב"ה, נכון? כמעט כולם, מישהו מהם עדיין מדבר על שכר ועונש? מישהו מהם מאמין בתחיית המתים? אני אומר, כמובן שהם לא כופרים, כי הם מבינים שזה אפילו לא כפירה. זה שטות. כמו שאמרתי, זה אפילו לא בדיחה. זה מעבר לכל העניין. זה כמו משהו - זה מיושן ולא רלוונטי. זה מה שזה. זה כל כך רחוק מהמציאות, כל העניין הזה. לכן אני שואל. אבל למה לא? כי אם אתה באמת מדבר איתם כמו בן אדם רגיל, אתה אומר להם, אתה אומר, אתה בא ואתה חוזר, אתה הולך, אתה כאילו, למה אתה מניח תפילין? אה, כי האלוקים שברא את העולם, כשהוא ברא אותו כאן, פתאום, והוא חושב שאם אנחנו מניחים את הקופסאות האלה, אם זה מרובע לגמרי, אם זה קצת מלבני, אז הוא נותן לך חיים טובים, ואם לא, זה גיהנום, ישר לגיהנום.
אני מבטיח לך, אם אתה גורם לבחור להגיד את זה בצורה פשוטה ורגילה כזאת, כמו שאני מדבר איתך, הם לא יכולים. לכן הם מתחילים להגיד - בכל פעם שמישהו מתחיל לעשות - מתחיל לעוות את הפנים שלו כשהוא אומר משהו, אז הוא משקר, נכון? מבחן גלאי שקר בסיסי. למה אתה מתפלל? למה אתה מתפלל כשיש לך בעיה? זה נקרא גלאי שקר, נכון? הדבר הזה עם העיניים, שאמר, אומר, הכשן כפרן, זה לא משנה לך, תפילה. אבל תפילה, נכון? כי בן אדם רגיל, ככל שמישהו מצחקק יותר בתפילה, כך הוא פחות מאמין בזה. זה לא הופך אותו ליותר - אני כאילו, אמרתי לאנשים, עשיתי מבחן: אם זה עובד יותר טוב מתפילין, כשאתה צועק, או כשאתה פשוט מדבר רגיל, זה לא משנה. שניהם מקבלים תשובה באותה מידה, באותו אחוז. כאילו, תחשוב על זה. אם אתה מאמין - אני בעצם מאמין בזה, אבל זה דיון אחר.
מרצה:
ואני כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון? כאילו למה אתה - מה אתה עושה? מה שאתה עושה זה להיות נגד השטות הזאת, נכון? כאילו, הלו, זה מגוחך. כן, ברצינות. כשהשטיק מתחיל, זה אחד. ואתה הולך ככה [מחווה]. ככל שאתה הולך ככה יותר, כך אתה יותר מתחזה. לא מתחזה - אני אפילו לא אומר שאתה מתחזה. אתה חי במשהו מוזר - אוקיי, אתה מסתיר, כן, או מה שזה לא יהיה. זה לא רציני. לא המציאות. כאילו, אתה לא - כשאתה יודע שאף אחד לא - אני מגיע קצת מאוחר לרמזור אדום. כאילו, הם לא עוצרים ברמזור. אבל עכשיו - טוב, זה שונה, הילד. אבל אפילו הבחורים שכן עוצרים ברמזור, הם לא עושים ככה [עושה מחווה מוגזמת]. "אלוהים, תראה אם הם עוצרים ברמזור!" נכון? "תראה, אני מסכן נפש!" הם פשוט עוצרים ברמזור בגלל האיום שאולי יבואו מכוניות, נכון?
אבל כשאתה אוכל מצה, אתה אוכל מצה, נכון? בקיום מצווה. אכילת מצה על אכילת מצה. למה? כי אכילת מצה היא דבר מזויף, ומשהו - רמזור הוא דבר אמיתי. אתה לא צריך ללכת ככה: "אה, רמזור! רמזור! כן, קראתי את המכתב! עצור! זה על פי דין!" או שאתה הולך דווקא, כי אתה לא על פי דין. מה שזה לא יהיה. וכל זה, יש משהו. אני רק מנסה להסביר לך למה, אם אתה באמת יודע איך אנשים הם, אתה תבין שכולם לא - בגללם. כולם מבינים שכל העניין הזה מאוד מצחיק.
מרצה:
ולכן, כל בחור שמלמד לבחורים רגילים - כאילו, קח כל דוגמה, כל מורה שמלמד לאנשים פרומים - הוא עושה בדיוק את אותו הדבר שאתה מתכנן לעשות ל-OTD. ההבדל היחיד הוא שהאנשים האלה קצת יותר בריאים רגשית, וקל יותר לדבר איתם. ה-OTD בדרך כלל עברו התעללות או מה שזה לא יהיה, ועכשיו - תכא, אני חושב שהם לא עברו, וזה שובר אותך כאדם. אתה מקולקל, והתגרשת, ויש לך את הילדים פה, גרים ב - אוטומטית, זה מאוד קשה לגרום למשהו לעבוד במצב הזה.
תלמיד:
אני רק רוצה - אני רק רוצה להגיד משהו. כאילו, אני לא חושב שזה חייב - המשל חייב להיות הרמזור מול - אפילו בתוך מצוות, הבחור שקיבל את הגרטל אף פעם לא נותן לך את הכסף. זה נכון גם.
מרצה:
זה נכון! היה לי - כל מצווה שאתה עושה עם גרטל היא מזויפת. המצוות שאתה עושה בלי גרטל, אלה אלה שהן מצוות אמיתיות, נכון? כמו בניית סוכה. אתה מדבר על הסוכה. אתה יודע, האנשים שכשאתה רואה תמונה של הרבי בונה סוכה עם הגרטל שלו - אתה יודע שהוא לא בנה סוכה, בסדר? הכל טוב. זה פרק. אנחנו חיים למעלה, מה שזה לא יהיה. אתה יכול לבנות את הדבר הזה.
תלמיד:
אני חושב מי שבונה - האיש שבאמת עושה את המצות, הבחור עם החולצה. הבחור עם הגרטל, אני לא יודע מה הוא עושה שם, אבל לא כ -
מרצה:
בחזרה לזה, זה גורם לזה - הוא עושה את המצה הזאת והיה על פי - הוא מציג את המצה שלו והיה על פי השף. שמידט, מה? כן, תעשה את זה לשמה. בכוונת - אף אחד לא יודע איך זה, אז אנחנו יודעים שאנחנו צריכים להתקיים, נכון? אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר - אתה כבר יודע את ההסבר שלי על המצה הזאת. אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר זה שזה נאפה בשביל - כי האנשים שכתבו את זה היו אותו הדבר, כי - אוקיי, עכשיו זה לא באמת מתחיל. אז ההיפך הוא בבעיה שלא יזיק. זה בשביל הזהירות שלך.
מרצה:
מה אתה עושה אחרי שאתה עובר את כל קורס הילל או איך שזה נקרא, ה-Footsteps האמריקאי? יש להם קורס שלם מה-OTD שלך. פעם היה קורס. אז הם הבינו שזה אפילו לא - עכשיו אוקיי, ברוך השם, קיבלתי את התעודה שלי.
היה מישהו שהתלונן על הילל, שכשאתה מתקשר אליהם, הם שואלים אותך, אתה באמת OTD? כאילו, אתה בכלל כבר יצאת? לא, אנחנו לא מקבלים אותך. כי אולי אתה סתם בלפן. ואני חשבתי, בדיוק, הם לא טובים.
תלמיד:
ואני חשבתי -
מרצה:
לא בדיוק. אבל הנקודה היא, לא, בוא נסביר, בוא נבין למה הם צריכים לעשות את זה. לא, לא כי הם צריכים לרגל. גם לא, כי נגיד יש להם ארגון, הם נותנים כסף לאנשים ללכת ללמוד. עכשיו, כל בחור פרום יכול לבוא ולהגיד -
תלמיד:
הייתי צריך לקחת את הכסף שלהם.
מרצה:
בדיוק. כל בחור פרום יכול לבוא. תראה, הנה הדוח מאנשים שהיו מהגוטיקה. הייתי בחור. אני עדיין. מה ההבדל? אני מתאים לקריטריונים שלכם. אז הם צריכים למצוא דרך לצאת. אז, אתה יודע, האנשים הפרומים מאוד טובים בניצול הארגונים שמציעים להם. אז בקרוב, כל האנשים שמקבלים כסף מה-Footsteps הזה הולכים להיות רק בחורים פרומים.
תלמיד:
הילדים אומרים, להיפך, זה אפליה, אבל אתה רק נותן את ה -
מרצה:
אה, אתה רוצה שאנשים פרומים ידעו אנגלית? אוקיי, אז מה מפריע לך שהוא עדיין פרום? אה, אתה רוצה להיות בטוח? אה, אתה עדיין מיסיונר.
בכל מקרה, אז נגיד הצלחת, התקבלת לכל התוכנית והכל, ואז אחרי שאתה מסיים אותה, אחרי 10 שנים או כמה זמן שזה לוקח, ואתה כאילו, אוקיי, עכשיו מה אתה עושה עם החיים שלך? נכון? מסתבר שזה המקום שבו הרבי התחיל. העניין הוא, אתה מגיע בגיל 35, איפה שהרבי היה כשהוא היה בן 15. הוא גם הבין שכל זה לא שווה כלום. והוא היה כאילו, אוקיי, מה אנחנו עושים? אז, אני הולך להיות רבי.
תלמיד:
למה החלטת על זה?
מרצה:
כי זה הרבי שלי, זה הרבי שלי, זה מה שאתה עושה. מה הבעיה הגדולה?
לא, אבל יש יותר רציני - אני אומר הכל בצורה לצנית, אבל יש דרך רצינית להבין את כל זה.
מרצה:
ואז הרבי הזה, כמו שאמרתי, הוא חושב שהוא צריך לדבר עם חברת ה-OTD. ואז הוא מתחיל לעשות את זה והוא מבין שהם לא צריכים טיפול. הם לא צריכים את הטיפול שלו. הוא גם היה צריך טיפול, אבל איכשהו אולי זה הטיפול שלו, מה שזה לא יהיה. וזה לא באמת עובד. זה מה שהוא הבין. סיפור אמיתי. זה קרה להרבה אנשים שאני מכיר.
ואז הוא הבין, אוקיי, אבל החלטתי שהחיים הטובים זה בערך ללכת לבית כנסת בשבת וכן הלאה. והוא הולך לבית כנסת והוא לא מוצא שום OTD, כי הם לא חושבים שיש להם מקום טוב יותר ללכת אליו בערב שישי. עם אוכל יותר גרוע ושירים יותר גרועים. וריקודים יותר גרועים.
תלמיד:
בעצם, אני לא יודע. אם הוא מקבל את זה - הריקודים בבית כנסת די גרועים.
מרצה:
מה?
תלמיד:
הריקודים בבית כנסת די גרועים.
מרצה:
כן, קשה להיות יותר גרוע, נכון? אם אתה הולך לבית כנסת ברסלב -
תלמיד:
לא, הוא הולך לבית כנסת ברסלב. עדיין מוזיקה גרועה, הא?
מרצה:
יותר גלילה אפלה. אפילו יותר גרוע. גלילה אפלה היא עדיין - מוזיקת ברסלב עדיין יותר טובה מגלילה אפלה בערב שישי. אוקיי, זה מה שרובנו מדמיינים בטוח. נכון, נכון?
תלמיד:
ללכת למועדון. אני לא חושב שאנשים עושים את זה.
מרצה:
אפילו לא ללכת למועדון. אני לא מאמין. אני לא יודע. כמה אנשים כן, אבל אני לא חושב - אף אחד בעולם, אבל -
תלמיד:
כן, הילדים אמרו, אבל ההמון במועדון ברסלב, כולם מדברים על אמונה פשוטה והם כולם אוהבים את השם והם תודה לך השם וכל זה. והוא כאילו, אתם אנשים, אני לא בטוח, אתם מהקבוצה הראשונה או השנייה או השלישית?
מרצה:
הוא לא בטוח. אבל לאט לאט הוא מבין שהקבוצה השנייה היא אותו הדבר כמו האחרונה. למה לא? איך זה? אוקיי, עכשיו זו תשובה אחת לשאלות של האנשים שלך. סיפור אמיתי.
מרצה:
ולכן, אז הוא מבין - אני אגיד לך טיעון למה האנשים שלך אומרים שאנחנו צריכים ללכת למועדון. אנחנו צריכים להיות כמו דוד גרוסמן שהולך למועדונים וגורם לאנשים ללכת למועדון. אתה יודע למה הוא עושה את זה? כי איך אחרת הוא יכול ללכת למועדון?
אז, אין לי מושג, אני לא יודע, אבל אני מדמיין, כאילו, זה כיף, אתה יודע, איך אתה הולך ללכת למועדון?
תלמיד:
מה כל כך מצחיק? כאילו, אתה לא רוצה ללכת למועדון?
מרצה:
כמה אנשים אוהבים את זה, לא כולם אוהבים את זה. כמה אנשים אוהבים את זה, מסיבה כלשהי. כמה אנשים לא אוהבים את זה. כמה אנשים אוהבים את זה. אנשים שיותר חברתיים ואקסטרוברטים, הם אוהבים את זה.
תלמיד:
אז, הילד אמר, ואתה יכול להיות ככה, אתה יכול לעשות את זה במועדון, אבל אתה לא יכול באמת לתת להם שלוש או יותר.
מרצה:
אני לא יודע. רוב האנשים שאני מכיר שמנסים לעשות את זה נכשלים.
מרצה:
אז אז הוא אומר, הוא עושה את השיפוט הזה. הוא אומר, תראה, האדמו"ר הזקן, הוא היה אפיקורס והוא בעצם הבין את זה. ואז הוא חושב, רגע, הבחור שנותן את הדרשה הזאת על הנזיר עבריא, אתה חושב שהוא באמת קונה את זה? הוא באמת כל כך טיפש כמו שחשבתי. אולי אני זה שהייתי טיפש. אולי הוא הבין משהו.
הוא כנראה חסר שפה והוא לא מאוד מתוחכם. הוא לא קרא הרבה ספרות או פילוסופיה או משהו. אם השם שלו הוא סולוביצ'יק אז הוא כן יודע איך לבטא את זה יפה, ולכן זה שווה משהו. אבל אחרת הוא פשוט לא יודע - אין לו שפה. הם לא קוראים כלום. אין לו הרבה ניסיון חיים. לא יודע היסטוריה. לא יודע פילוסופיה. לא יודע ספרות. לא יודע כלום. אבל זו הדרך הכי טובה שלו לעשות את זה.
אז הוא אמר הוא בוכה והוא נותן דרשות על הנזיר עבריא ומסתבר שהוא עושה מה שאני רוצה שהוא יעשה. אז אתה הולך, אתה הופך למורה, ואז אתה מלמד את כולם על הנזיר עבריא וזה מה שרצית לעשות בכל מקרה.
מרצה:
ואתה מפסיק לפנטז שחברת ה-OTD יותר חכמים או גדולים מבחורי הישיבה. הם אותו הדבר. ואם אתה באמת מתחיל לדבר עם בחורי ישיבה, אתה תגלה שהם אותו הדבר. דיברתי עם בחורי ישיבה ועם חברת OTD. בדרך כלל בחורי ישיבה גדולים יותר.
בדרך כלל. אתה יודע למה? כי ב-OTD אתה לא תקוע - אתה רק מורשה לקבל את הקושיות שמובילות לתשובה שעשית את בחירות החיים שלך על בסיסן. אבל אם אתה בחור ישיבה, אז כל בחירות החיים שלך נעשות בשבילך. אתה מורשה לקבל כל קושיות שאתה רוצה.
כמובן, כמה מהם מפחדים מהרבי שלהם. כמה מהם, הם חושבים שאם הם יגידו את זה בגלוי, הם אומרים את זה בדרכים חסידיות. אתה יודע איך אומרים בשפה חסידית? יש דרכים להגיד את זה, נכון?
תלמיד:
איך מישהו אומר - שאלת אותי, מישהו שאל אותי, כן, זו דרך אחת, זה מה שקם אמר.
מרצה:
יש, אתה אמרת, כן, אתה אומר, תראה, אין הוכחה שאלוקים קיים, אבל יש לנו אמונה פשוטה בכל זאת, כי אתה אפיקורס. אחד הקרבות הגדולים שלי.
תלמיד:
נכון. אבל זו כבר אידיאולוגיה.
מרצה:
או מה שאתה עושה זה אתה אומר, אין לי חיות בתפילה. כלומר, אין לך חיות בתפילה.
סיפור אמיתי. הייתי בחור קטן, ואני מניח שהייתי אפיקורס. אני לא יודע. חשבתי שאני מאוד פרום. והיה לי, זה היה חודש אלול, או משהו כזה, אז אמרתי שאני לא רוצה לעשות תשובה.
והיה הבחור הבא הזה ליד והוא אמר, מה אתה מתכוון? לא ידעתי מה לענות. כאילו, אתה מאמין שאתה הולך לגיהנום אם אתה לא עושה - אם אתה לא משיג תשובה.
ו, אה, מה אני צריך להגיד? כן, לא. אז, אה, קשה לך להגיד. אז אתה עושה - אתה מבין שמישהו נכשל, אבל לא הבנת מה אמרתי. אבל ניסיתי להיות כן. כן, כל יום אנחנו עושים את זה, אנחנו מעמידים פנים וכן הלאה.
מה אתה מתכוון? כל פעם שאתה מניח תפילין, אתה מקבל כרטיס. וכל פעם שאתה לא, אתה מקבל כרטיס לגיהנום. ברור, אם אתה לא מאמין בזה, אז אני מבין, אבל אתה מאמין בזה, נכון? אולי אני לא. מה זה בכלל אומר? נכון?
מרצה:
אז זה בסיסי, נכון? ואתה שומע אנשים אומרים שהם לא מאמינים בשכר ועונש. גרניש, אבל הם אומרים לא סוגים של דרכים מצחיקות, אבל זה לא מסובך. הם מאמינים בטוקנים שאתה מקבל. אם אתה שואל אותו, אני בעצם מאמין - אני בעצם לא משחק במשחקי ארקייד, דרך אגב, שלא נותנים לך הרבה כרטיסים. זה מה שהבחור עושה. אתה צריך לשחק במשחקי ארקייד שהם גם כיף וגם נותנים לך הרבה דברים. אז אולי הם רואים את הסימן כי אני לא -
תלמיד:
לא, אם אני מדמיין, אני לא יודע, הבחור הזה היה כמו ליטווק, הוא לא הבין מה רציתי. כאילו ניסיתי להסביר, יש בעיה עם כל משחק התשובה הזה. והוא היה כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה:
אבל אני בעצם חושב שאם אתה עושה את זה לרוב האנשים, התרגיל הזה, הם ירגישו לא נוח, כי הם לא באמת מאמינים בזה. חוץ מהצדיקים הגדולים, כמו שכבר שכנעו את עצמם. זה מה שאני חושב. אתה הולך ללייקווד, הולך ל...
מרצה:
אני רוצה להתקרב להשם. אז אתה יודע שהוא מלא שטויות. כי אנשים שמאמינים לא רוצים להתקרב להשם. יש חידוש גדול, וזה מאוד פשוט. כל הליטאים האלה, כשכל הליטאים כבר התחילו לדבר על להיות קרוב להשם, נכון? כמעט כולם, מישהו מהם עדיין מדבר על שכר ועונש? מישהו מהם מאמין בתחיית המתים? אני אומר, כמובן שהם לא כופרים, כי הם מבינים שזה אפילו לא כפירה. זה שטות. כמו שאמרתי, זה אפילו לא בדיחה. זה מעבר לכל העניין. זה כמו משהו - זה מיושן ולא רלוונטי. זה מה שזה. זה כל כך רחוק מהמציאות, כל העניין הזה. לכן אני שואל. אבל למה לא? כי אם אתה באמת מדבר איתם כמו בן אדם רגיל, אתה אומר להם, אתה אומר, אתה בא ואתה חוזר, אתה הולך, אתה כאילו, למה אתה מניח תפילין? אה, כי האלוקים שברא את העולם, כשהוא ברא אותו כאן, פתאום, והוא חושב שאם אנחנו מניחים את הקופסאות האלה, אם זה מרובע לגמרי, אם זה קצת מלבני, אז הוא נותן לך חיים טובים, ואם לא, זה גיהנום, ישר לגיהנום.
אני מבטיח לך, אם אתה גורם לבחור להגיד את זה בצורה פשוטה ורגילה כזאת, כמו שאני מדבר איתך, הם לא יכולים. לכן הם מתחילים להגיד - בכל פעם שמישהו מתחיל לעשות - מתחיל לעוות את הפנים שלו כשהוא אומר משהו, אז הוא משקר, נכון? מבחן גלאי שקר בסיסי. למה אתה מתפלל? למה אתה מתפלל כשיש לך בעיה? זה נקרא גלאי שקר, נכון? הדבר הזה עם העיניים, שאמר, אומר, הכשן כפרן, זה לא משנה לך, תפילה. אבל תפילה, נכון? כי בן אדם רגיל, ככל שמישהו מצחקק יותר בתפילה, כך הוא פחות מאמין בזה. זה לא הופך אותו ליותר - אני כאילו, אמרתי לאנשים, עשיתי מבחן: אם זה עובד יותר טוב מתפילין, כשאתה צועק, או כשאתה פשוט מדבר רגיל, זה לא משנה. שניהם מקבלים תשובה באותה מידה, באותו אחוז. כאילו, תחשוב על זה. אם אתה מאמין - אני בעצם מאמין בזה, אבל זה דיון אחר.
מרצה:
ואני כאילו, מה אתה מתכוון? כאילו למה אתה - מה אתה עושה? מה שאתה עושה זה להיות נגד השטות הזאת, נכון? כאילו, הלו, זה מגוחך. כן, ברצינות. כשהשטיק מתחיל, זה אחד. ואתה הולך ככה [מחווה]. ככל שאתה הולך ככה יותר, כך אתה יותר מתחזה. לא מתחזה - אני אפילו לא אומר שאתה מתחזה. אתה חי במשהו מוזר - אוקיי, אתה מסתיר, כן, או מה שזה לא יהיה. זה לא רציני. לא המציאות. כאילו, אתה לא - כשאתה יודע שאף אחד לא - אני מגיע קצת מאוחר לרמזור אדום. כאילו, הם לא עוצרים ברמזור. אבל עכשיו - טוב, זה שונה, הילד. אבל אפילו הבחורים שכן עוצרים ברמזור, הם לא עושים ככה [עושה מחווה מוגזמת]. "אלוהים, תראה אם הם עוצרים ברמזור!" נכון? "תראה, אני מסכן נפש!" הם פשוט עוצרים ברמזור בגלל האיום שאולי יבואו מכוניות, נכון?
אבל כשאתה אוכל מצה, אתה אוכל מצה, נכון? בקיום מצווה. אכילת מצה על אכילת מצה. למה? כי אכילת מצה היא דבר מזויף, ומשהו - רמזור הוא דבר אמיתי. אתה לא צריך ללכת ככה: "אה, רמזור! רמזור! כן, קראתי את המכתב! עצור! זה על פי דין!" או שאתה הולך דווקא, כי אתה לא על פי דין. מה שזה לא יהיה. וכל זה, יש משהו. אני רק מנסה להסביר לך למה, אם אתה באמת יודע איך אנשים הם, אתה תבין שכולם לא - בגללם. כולם מבינים שכל העניין הזה מאוד מצחיק.
מרצה:
ולכן, כל בחור שמלמד לבחורים רגילים - כאילו, קח כל דוגמה, כל מורה שמלמד לאנשים פרומים - הוא עושה בדיוק את אותו הדבר שאתה מתכנן לעשות ל-OTD. ההבדל היחיד הוא שהאנשים האלה קצת יותר בריאים רגשית, וקל יותר לדבר איתם. ה-OTD בדרך כלל עברו התעללות או מה שזה לא יהיה, ועכשיו - תכא, אני חושב שהם לא עברו, וזה שובר אותך כאדם. אתה מקולקל, והתגרשת, ויש לך את הילדים פה, גרים ב - אוטומטית, זה מאוד קשה לגרום למשהו לעבוד במצב הזה.
תלמיד:
אני רק רוצה - אני רק רוצה להגיד משהו. כאילו, אני לא חושב שזה חייב - המשל חייב להיות הרמזור מול - אפילו בתוך מצוות, הבחור שקיבל את הגרטל אף פעם לא נותן לך את הכסף. זה נכון גם.
מרצה:
זה נכון! היה לי - כל מצווה שאתה עושה עם גרטל היא מזויפת. המצוות שאתה עושה בלי גרטל, אלה אלה שהן מצוות אמיתיות, נכון? כמו בניית סוכה. אתה מדבר על הסוכה. אתה יודע, האנשים שכשאתה רואה תמונה של הרבי בונה סוכה עם הגרטל שלו - אתה יודע שהוא לא בנה סוכה, בסדר? הכל טוב. זה פרק. אנחנו חיים למעלה, מה שזה לא יהיה. אתה יכול לבנות את הדבר הזה.
תלמיד:
אני חושב מי שבונה - האיש שבאמת עושה את המצות, הבחור עם החולצה. הבחור עם הגרטל, אני לא יודע מה הוא עושה שם, אבל לא כ -
מרצה:
בחזרה לזה, זה גורם לזה - הוא עושה את המצה הזאת והיה על פי - הוא מציג את המצה שלו והיה על פי השף. שמידט, מה? כן, תעשה את זה לשמה. בכוונת - אף אחד לא יודע איך זה, אז אנחנו יודעים שאנחנו צריכים להתקיים, נכון? אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר - אתה כבר יודע את ההסבר שלי על המצה הזאת. אוקיי, כל מה שזה אומר זה שזה נאפה בשביל - כי האנשים שכתבו את זה היו אותו הדבר, כי - אוקיי, עכשיו זה לא באמת מתחיל. אז ההיפך הוא בבעיה שלא יזיק. זה בשביל הזהירות שלך.
מרצה: אני לא יודע. אני לא יודע. זה קשה. אני לא יודע את התשובה. אני לא יודע את התשובה, כי אני יכול לתת לך את הגרסה הזאת של סטנד-אפ קומדיה, ואני יכול לתת לך את מה שאנחנו בדרך כלל עושים. זה מאוד קשה לי לתת לך את הדבר שבאמצע. איך אנחנו נותנים את זה? איך אנחנו מתחילים מנקודת המבט של הבחור שמסביר לך שהמילה הזאת שלא הגיונית היא נכונה, אבל אתה צריך לעשות את המילה הזאת? לא בגלל, נכון? איך אתה עובר מאחד - כאילו, איך אתה מגשר בין הדברים האלה, נכון? זה הכי קשה. זה מאוד עדין - איך אתה יכול, איך יכול להיות שיחה שמתחילה ממאוד - מה שאני קורא פרספקטיבה של אדם נורמלי? זה כמו, אה, לחתוך חתיכה מה- הלו, אנחנו עדיין בפרהיסטוריה? מה קורה איתכם, נכון?
מרצה: האנשים היחידים שאומרים את זה - אתם יודעים מי אוהב להגיד את זה, חבר'ה? החב"דניקים. חב"דניקים כולם מסבירים איך זה לא הגיוני. אתה הולך לחב"ד לברית, וזה לא גבר, זה לא גבר, זה לא גבר, מה שלא יהיה. ואז אתה שם את זה באדמה בכוס עם עפר. אם היית מספר - אם הייתי מספר לך מה אנחנו עושים על שבט בפפואה גינאה החדשה, היית אומר, כמו, נבוך. נכון?
אז אנחנו יכולים להתחיל מנקודת המבט הזאת. ואז, אני חושב שזה נכון. אבל אני אומר שבאמצע אז, יש הסבר שאומר שברית מילה היא - אני לא יודע, איך היינו אומרים את זה? זה באמת הדבר שמקרב אותך להשם, וכן הלאה. וזה נכון באותה צורה שזה נכון. בלי - ראית שפשוט החלפתי טונים, נכון? כי כשאני נותן לך שיעור על ברית מילה, יש שלוש פעמים ברית מילה, ואני יכול להסביר לך איך זה הגיוני, ואז אני מסביר איך זה הגיוני, וכן הלאה. ועכשיו פתאום אני מדבר בטון הקול הזה.
אז איך אנחנו מביאים מכמו, אוקיי, אז זה צירוף? פריימן? ושוין, הבנו. אין בעיה. הבנתי. לא, אני עדיין חושב שזה לא הגיוני. מה? גם לגביך, שלגבי ריידער? כן, כן. אבל איך אתה מסביר, איך אתה מדבר על זה? אתה יכול לדבר על זה? אני יכול לתת לך את זה באותה דקה? אתה נותן לנו דקה, שתי דקות, אנחנו ניתן לך את העולם, כל הדרך מ-OTD עד מעבר לדרך.
תלמיד: לא, אבל אני חושב שהגדול - לי, לפחות, הגדול, או הדרך הכי קלה לגשת לזה היא על ידי הסבר לאנשים שחוסר הבחירה שלהם הוא גם בחירה במובן מסוים. או לפחות מה שהם מדמיינים כאורח חיים דיפולטיבי הוא מפוקפק באותה מידה כמו זה שהם אוהבים.
מרצה: אוקיי, נוכל לעשות את זה. אבל האם זה בכלל - כמו, בוא - אני היה - אני יכול לעשות את זה. ודרך אגב, נוכל לעשות את זה? נוכל לעשות כמו, אוקיי, אז האנשים השבטיים שם הם - או מה אתה באמת חושב שהם? הם בעצם בעלי חיים. כאילו, אתה גזען. אתה יותר גרוע ממה שחשבתי. אתה לא גזען. הבעיה הגדולה עם היהדות היא שהם גזענים. אבל כל הבעיה האמיתית שלך עם היהדות מבוססת על גזענות.
אתה יכול לשחק את המשחקים האלה, נכון? לא, לא, לא, אבל אני צריך להגיד, בוא נגיד, נכון, אז מישהו מחליט, אוקיי, אתה יודע, התוכנית הזאת, הסיפור של 600,000, לא ממש עובד. וואו, אז, אוקיי, אז עכשיו מה, נכון? אז עכשיו אתה אומר, אני הולך להיות אמלגמטור. מי זה אמלגמטור בשבילך? מר דומסקרולר, נכון? או כל חיים אתיים אחרים שקיימים. מר סוחר המניות שעובד 19 שעות ביום וחושב שזה חיים.
תלמיד: כן, אבל זה לא עונה על המשיגעת שלנו. זה יותר כמו תגובה שלילית. לא, לא, לא. זה יותר כמו שאלה של כמו, אוקיי, אז גילית שהשקף הזה לא הגיוני. זה לא תשובה לשום דבר. כן. רגע. האלטרנטיבה הזאת עונה על שאלה אחת ופותחת מאה ששוקטות או לפחות יש דרך להתחיל לפתור אותן.
מרצה: אז השאלה האחת איכשהו, מצאת פצעון על היד שלך, ואז החלטת שהפתרון הוא לקחת ידית, נכון? אבל, אה-אה, נראה שאתה צריך יד לכמה דברים אחרים, נכון?
תלמיד: לא, לא, אני לא חושב, בוא נגיד שהוא לא החליט על שום דבר, בוא נגיד שהוא באמת רק חושב על זה.
מרצה: כן, כן, הוא חושב על זה, בטוח, אני רק אומר. הוא עדיין לא ייתן לילד שלו. אני חושד ב-, כמו, אני הולך להיות עדיין. אה, רגע, אבל בוא נבין את הבעיה שלי. אני חושד באנשים שפתאום, כמו...
מרצה: טוב מאוד, אבל תן לי לחזור על הבעיה שלי. הבעיה שלי היא שאני חושב שהנכון - מה שאני עושה, נכון? זה מה שאני בעצם עושה בשיעור שלי: מה שאני עושה זה שאני לומד מה הזוהר אומר על ברית מילה ואני נותן לך מהלך להסביר מה זה שהזוהר יכול להתכוון לגבי ברית מילה, מנסה להבין את זה או מנסה לתת לך את הסיפור של זה, מה שזה לא יהיה, נכון? זה מה שאני עושה, נכון? מושכלים דברים כאלה, זה מה שאני עושה. במילים אחרות, אבל אני חושב שזה הגיוני בדיוק כמו השאלה שלך של זה - שזה מטורף. אבל מה שאני לא בטוח זה שאני יכול לתת לך את הסיפור שמוביל מאחד לשני, כי אני יכול לעשות את כל הדברים האלה שאתה דן בהם, כמו כן, השאלה שלך - אתה באמת יכול להוכיח את השאלה הזאת? יכול להיות לך רעיון טוב יותר? כל מיני דברים כאלה.
ודרך אגב, מה רע בלהיות שבטי ופגאני, אחי?
תלמיד: אה, כי זה אומר בשולחן ערוך שאתה לא יכול להיות עובד עבודה זרה.
מרצה: אנחנו נכנסים ללולאה, נכון? אז למה אנחנו אומרים את כל הדברים המצחיקים האלה? למה אתה לא יכול להגיד, אוקיי, תמחק מילה והיהדות יפה - אתה מסנן דגים ואלס יפה. תמחק מילה, המפורסם - זהו. דג גפילטע הרבה יותר גרוע מברית מילה, דרך אגב. לפחות למילה יש משמעות. תמחק, תמשיך לאכול דגים ולשמור שבת וכל מה שמשמח אותך ביהדות. מילה גורמת לתינוק לבכות, תפסיק את זה.
אני לא יודע, אתה מבין מה אני שואל? זו שאלה ספציפית.
תלמיד: זו לא הייתה השאלה שלי. זו לא השאלה שהייתה לי.
מרצה: תיצור מערכת, מערכת חדר כזאת. לא להגיד שזה תירוץ להגיד שזו לא הנקודה. זה לא - אני לא מנסה לנהל דיון. אלס איז א משל. אלס איז א משל. כל מה שאני מנסה להגיד זה שאני שואל איתך. אני שואל איתך. אני שואל איתך. זו הסיבה שאני לא - זה לא נכון. זה יהיה כמו התנצלות נחמדה. אתה אומר מי כפה - בוא נפסיק את זה, אין בעיה, זה גם - אבל הוא אומר שזה גם בחירה.
אבל מה שאני מנסה - הבעיה שלי היא לא זה. הבעיה שלי היא משהו אחר. הבעיה שלי היא שאני כן חושב שיש משמעות, סיבה, שכל, אמת בדיון בסוגיא הזאת של ברית מילה מהזוהר הקדוש. באמת יש. וכל מה שזה, מה שאני מאמין זה שכל מה שזה, זה כמו דיון ברמה גבוהה יותר של השאלה שלך. כלומר, זו הבעיה.
מרצה: אני הולך לתת לך שטיקל תיאוריה. תן לי לתת לך שטיקל תיאוריה. שאולי, אני לא מתכוון לתת תיאוריה, אני מתכוון לנסות להאיר מה הבעיה. יש לי תיאוריה כזאת. איך - ובכן, אלוהים, אני לא צריך לעשות הכל יותר מסובך מזה.
התיאוריה שלי היא כזאת: כל ההישגים האנושיים, כל הדיונים האנושיים, כל השיח האנושי, אפילו כל הטכנולוגיה האנושית מבוססים, גג-גג-גג, נכון? מבוססים רמה אחת על הרמה האחרת, אוקיי?
אם יש לך מחשב ואתה מדבר ל-AI והוא עונה לך, ברמה הבסיסית יש רק ביטים שמתהפכים עם שערי לוגיקה, וזה 17,000 - אני אפילו לא יודע כמה רמות רחוק מהשיחה שלך עם הצ'אט, נכון? אם אתה לא יודע כלום על איך זה עובד, זה צריך להיות ברור לך אפילו ב- רק בשכבת הרשת, רק שבע שכבות אמורות רשמית, ויש באמת אפילו יותר, אוקיי? וזה רק חלק קטן אחד ממה שקורה, אוקיי?
עכשיו אנחנו יכולים לדבר בצורה אינטליגנטית על השכבה האחרונה ומה שהטכנולוגים קוראים "קופסה שחורה", נכון? או להפשיט את כל הסיבוך מאחורי זה, כל הלכלוך מתחתיו. לא אכפת לנו. עכשיו אם ביטים באמת נכונים או אם שערי הלוגיקה או אם קוד המכונה שרץ על גבי זה מריץ קוד ברמה גבוהה יותר על עוד יותר גבוה וכן הלאה - לא אכפת לנו מכל זה. כל מה שאכפת לנו זה השיחה המופשטת מאוד הזאת, שזה מה שאני בעצם עושה, אוקיי? ככה זה כדי - זה לא אומר שאני יכול להגיע לשם מכאן, נכון?
אם אני הולך - אתה מבין מה אני אומר? כל ההישגים האנושיים, אפילו טכנולוגיה ושפה ומחשבה ותרבות, כולם עובדים באותה צורה. כולם בנויים אחד על גבי השני. ולכן נוכל לנהל שיחה אינטליגנטית על השכבה העליונה או הממשק שאני אפילו - אפילו לא השכבה, אולי רק על הממשק, איך אני מתממשק עם דבר אחר שנבנה בשביל זה תוך התעלמות מהשאר.
מצד שני, אני לא יכול להגיע משם לשם, נכון? במילים אחרות, אם אתה משליך אותי על אי בודד ואני כמו, "אני יודע הכל על מחשבים. אני יושב ליד המחשב הזה כל היום. זה צריך להיות פשוט ליצור מחשב." צ'אט, תבנה מחשב. צ'אט יכול לתת לך הוראות לבנות מחשב אם כבר יש לך מחשב עם חוות שרתים איפשהו באריזונה לתת לך את הדבר הזה, נכון? אבל אם אתה על אי בודד, אין צ'אט, לא יכול להיות מחשב, נכון? אז אתה חוזר למציאות הבסיסית.
ואז אתה צריך לחפור באי כדי למצוא סיליקון. אלוהים אדירים, אתה צריך הרבה יותר מזה, נכון? אתה צריך:
- אריסטו לגלות לוגיקה קודם, אתה מבין, נכון?
- ואתה צריך איזה מוזר מימי הביניים לסווג כל מיני לוגיקה, כמו מה זה "וגם", "או", "x-or"
- כל הדברים האלה הם בעצם מתמטיקה ולוגיקה
- ואתה צריך כמה אנשים מוזרים אחרים מאוחר יותר לפורמל את זה לסמלים
- ואז איזה בחור להחליט שנוכל לעשות את הסמלים האלה חומריים במחשבים
- וכן הלאה וכן הלאה
אני רק מספר לך כמה מהשלבים שאני יודע עליהם, אוקיי? מה שאומר שאם מישהו הולך לשים את עצמו במצב של האי הבודד, מה אם אתה עובד קדימה, אתה צריך להתחיל במקום אחר, נכון?
תלמיד: וכן, בדיוק, אולי בעצם אתה מתחיל במקום שלהם.
מרצה: ואני אפילו לא יכול לתת לך סיפור קוהרנטי של איך אתה מגיע למה שקראנו - היסטוריות של מחשוב, הם יכולים לתת לך כמו סקירה כללית מאוד עליונה של איך זה קרה, אבל אני בהחלט לא יכול ליצור את זה בשבילך, נכון?
עכשיו, בצורה דומה, תרבויות ואפילו תפיסות עולם - לא רק תרבויות, אפילו כמו האידיאולוגיות של התרבויות האלה - עובדות בצורה דומה. הן אולי התחילו, הן בבירור חייבות להיות התחילו על אי בודד איפשהו, או איך שאתה חושב שהאנושות התחילה. אולי זה התחיל עם אלוהים שנתן לאדם את התורה ואת כל הידע שנתן לך התחלה טובה. אוקיי. אבל באותו זמן, הוא חייב היה לתת להם גם איך חכמה עובדת. ועדיין לקח לנו זמן להבין את זה, נכון? אז זה לא קורה.
בכל מקרה, ואז לאט לאט בנינו את כל הדברים האלה, ויש כמה ממצאים של הרמה התחתונה שדולפים דרך. יש כל מיני דברים מצחיקים שקורים. אני חושב שהרעיון של חיפוש מעריב הוא כמו דבר מאוד מוזר לאנשים.
תלמיד: רגע, אתה בעצם צריך להיות...
מרצה: כן, כמו הבחור הזה שעושה את המכונה.
תלמיד: כן, אתה צריך GPU.
מרצה: אז, ועכשיו, בוא נהיה ברורים, כשאנשים עוברים דרך סוג השלבים האלה שדיברנו עליהם, הם עושים את זה בצורה מאוד מסוימת, נכון? אתה כמו, "כל הדבר הזה הוא שטויות." מנקודת מבט חיצונית, זה לא הגיוני. אתה לא יכול לדבר עם חתיכת זכוכית ולקבל תשובות, נכון? אתה יכול, אבל זה לא מסביר את עצמו. זה מטורף. מה שמסביר את זה הוא משהו מאוד ארוך.
אז אז אתה הולך כמו, "ובכן, זה שטויות, תשבור את המחשב שלי, אני הולך לקרוא מעליק בדימן ולשים פטיש על האייפון שלי," כי אייפונים הם טרף, ולרסק אותו באש החמץ, ואז אחרי פסח אתה מבין, "רגע, מסתבר שזה כן פתר כמה בעיות."
ואתה אולי אפילו, כמו איכשהו, במצב הספציפי שלך, עובר דרך כמה מהשלבים שבהם אתה מבין שמחשבים מועילים. כמו, אתה יודע, "אני צריך, אני רוצה להביא מים מהבאר ולכן אני צריך לבנות מריצה ואני כבר יודע על גלגלים. דיברנו על זה פעם. ועכשיו אני צריך לדעת כמה גדול הגלגל צריך להיות לצרכים שלי. זה גדול מדי. ברור שהכי גדול זה הכי טוב אבל לא, זה לא, כי אז פשוט יהיה לי גלגל לשלפ ואני הולך לשלפ את המשקל של הגלגל ואני יכול להביא מים דרך מהמים. אז איך אני הולך להבין את זה? רגע, אני צריך משהו שנקרא חישוב?"
חישוב, המצאה גדולה. אנחנו יכולים לחשב את זה. ומחשבים יכולים לעזור לי עם זה. אני כמו, "רגע, הבחור שנתן לי מחשבון לא היה רק שמאן מוזר ששיחק עם מספרים. זה בעצם סוג הדבר שאמר לי כמה גדול לעשות את המריצה שלי. וואו."
אז דברים כאלה קורים. זה רגשי. דברים כאלה קורים לאנשים בסוג התהליך הזה. הם כמו, "רגע, הברית מילה הזאת בעצם, רגע, אה, אני יכול לדבר על הברית מילה. אני יכול לדבר על הברית מילה."
מרצה: אני יכול לדבר על הברית מילה, אני חושב, כמו שאמרת, אוקיי, בוא נחזור עירומים לגן עדן ובוא נראה מה אנשים עושים. אה, יש להם ילדים. אה רגע, יש לי רעיונות מסוימים בראש שלי שאני רוצה ללמד את הילדים שלי. איך אני הולך לעשות את זה? זה לא דרש מברית מילה. זה אתה צריך באמת לדמיין את עצמך עושה את זה. כמו מה אני הולך לעשות?
"אני יודע, אתה כנראה יודע, אני הולך לכתוב ספר," נכון? יש לי חדשות בשבילך. יש לי הרבה ספרים. הילדים שלי לא קוראים אף אחד מהם. כתבתי אפילו יותר. כתבתי כמו 10 מיליון מילים בחיים שלי או משהו כזה. אף אחד מהילדים שלי לא קורא אותם. זו לא הדרך. אפילו אם זו הדרך -
אני יודע, אתה כנראה יודע שאני הולך לכתוב ספר, נכון? יש לי את זה בשבילך, יש לי הרבה ספרים, הילדים שלי לא קוראים אף אחד מהם. כתבתי אפילו יותר, כתבתי כמו 10 מיליון מילים בחיים שלי או משהו כזה, אבל אף אחד מהילדים שלי לא קורא אותם. זו לא הדרך. או אפילו אם זו הדרך, זו לא רק הדרך, לא עובד, תנסה את זה. פרופסורים רבים כתבו ספרים שמנים והילדים שלהם אפילו לא יודעים את השמות שלהם. תנסה את זה, אולי ייקח לך זמן רב מאוד.
אז אתה אומר, אני צריך להמציא משהו. אתה אולי באמת תיקח סכין ותעשה חתך באוזן של הילד שלך כי זה מה שהם היו חושבים. אולי כדאי לנו לעשות חתך באוזן שלך. כן, אני האבא של המוזר שחתך את אוזן הילד שלו. אז אתה אולי באמת תסתכל על תינוק שזה עתה נולד ותראה, רגע, לפין שלו יש חתיכת עור נוספת הזאת שלא נראה שהיא עושה משהו. אפשר גם לחתוך את זו.
זה לא ממה שזה עשוי. אני לא יודע. רק נתתי לך תיאוריה. טוב, אני מנסה להראות לך. ואז אתה אומר אוקיי, הרגע סיפרתי לך סיפור ארוך מאוד שאתה צריך להבין שאני פה רק כדי לפתור בעיה מסוימת. זו אחת התיאוריות, יכולות להיות תיאוריות אחרות, אבל אני חושב שזו הכי הגיונית.
וזו יצירת תרבות בסיסית, שזו כמו בעיה אנושית בסיסית. זה בעצם מאוד קשה. זה לא ממש דבר פשוט. אנשים - אני מכיר כמה אנשים בקליפורניה שניסו לעשות את זה בשנים האחרונות, כולם נכשלו ליצור תרבות, תרבות נגדית. בעצם כולם נכשלו. אף אחד מהם לא - אין להם - אין להם איינקלאך, או אם יש להם, הם בגרסה שלישית של הכת, אחרת. זו בעצם בעיה מאוד קשה.
אמרת את זה לפני כמה שנים שאתה מדבר על לשים שלט בשבילך בפסח שתזכור - תזכור נכון? כן, נגיד כמו 24 מעלות הרחק, הרחק ממה שאתה מנסה כנראה ראוי. נסה להיפטר מזה, אל תשתמש בזה. 25 מעלות הרחק. זה הגיוני, זה הגיוני מה שאתה אומר.
אבל בכל מקרה, מה שאני מנסה להראות לך זה שאני מנסה לתת לך את כל התיאוריה הזו כדי לגרום לך לראות שזה באמת - כי תרבות, עכשיו בשלב מסוים אחרי שאוכל לעבור על כל זה עד שאגיע לצד, אני אקח אותך - אני, אין לי מוכן עדיין עכשיו, אבל נוכל בערך לעשות את זה. מה? כן, נוכל לעבור על כל הרמות של טכנולוגיה או של שיח או של מחשבה, ונוכל לראות איך זה באמת רק זה.
עכשיו, אבל זה מה שבעצם קורה לאנשים, ובעצם כולם צריכים לפרק דבר אחד בחיים שלהם ולהרכיב אותו בחזרה כמו שדקארט אמר, ולראות איך זה קרה. זו הייתה המדיטציה של דקארט. זה לא תרגול רע, למרות שהוא עשה את זה בצורה מוזרה. זה לא תרגול רע. אתה צריך לעשות את זה.
ואז אתה אומר, רגע. ואז בדרך כלל מה שקורה, מה שאנשים מגיעים אליו זה להחזיר את האמונה שלהם, נכון? את - ואת האמונה האמיתית שלהם, כמו מה שאני קורא אמונת חכמים. כמו, רגע, הדבר הזה של להיות תרבות עם כל מיני כללים ורעיונות שנראים שרירותיים. אני לא בטוח שאני באמת יכול ליצור משהו טוב יותר מזה. או אם אוכל, זה יהיה כמו עוד תיקון אחד. כמו, לעשות עוד תקנה אחת. אוקיי, תודה רבה. זה מה שכל הרבנים עושים כבר לנצח. מוסיפים עוד תקנה אחת לתורה. או מורידים עוד דבר אחד. או משנים דבר אחד. אתה בעצם באותו מקום כמו כולם. יש לך רעיון טוב יותר.
אתה רוצה לקחת ארוחת עדות? אין בעיה. מה הרבנים עשו? האם שמת פאה בסוף השדה שלך השבוע? הקציר הזה? כן, פאה, מצווה בתורה. זה אומר שלוש אוארבע פעמים בתורה. אתה עושה את זה? אתה יודע שאנחנו לא עושים את זה יותר? ביטלנו את המצווה. זה לא עובד. זה לא עובד. אנחנו עושים את זה כבר לנצח. אין בעיה. אתה חושב שזה לא עובד? אתה צריך לעשות את העבודה. אל תגיד סתם שזה לא עובד. אין בעיה. נפסיק את זה. בוא נעשה מילה. ננסה. תתחיל שם. אני רק אומר, זה - אין - בעצם, בעצם תגיע לזה.
עכשיו האם אוכל לעבור על כל זה כל הזמן? לא. זה מגוחך כמו לעבור על כל - כל מחול עד ללחם חלה בכל פעם. אבל כל הסיפור שלי שנתתי לך עכשיו - אבל זה אני, בוא נגיד הסיפור שלי פשוט המצאתי, נכון? אל תאמין לזה. רגע.
מה שאני מנסה להגיד לך, הבעיה עם זה היא שזה קצת בזבוז זמן. כלומר, לא בזבוז זמן. קודם כל, אתה יכול לעשות את זה קצת, אבל יש משהו - אפילו מה שעשיתי עכשיו זה לא מספיק, נכון? כי אני לא באמת רוצה להיתקע ברמה הזו של הסבר ברית מילה שסיפרתי לך. במילים אחרות, אני חושב שזה לא מספיק, אני חושב שזה לא נכון. זה ממשיך מעבר לזה. ואני בדרך כלל מתחיל ממקום יותר מאוחר.
וזה בדיוק כמו כשאני כותב קוד. אני לא - עכשיו אמרו פשוט תבקש מהצ'אט לעשות את זה כי למה שאהיה טיפש, כל כך טיפש לכתוב את זה בעצמי? או אפילו לפני זה, אני כותב פייתון. אני לא כותב - אני אפילו לא כותב C כי למי יש זמן לזה? אני יכול להגיד למחשב מה לעשות. למה שאצטרך - למי אכפת איך - איך זה עובד? מישהו אחר - זו העבודה של מישהו אחר, נכון? כלומר אם אני לא סומך על הבחור, היה לי דרך טובה יותר. תמיד יש כמו - כמו כשאתה מגלה שאני לא יכול - אה רגע, אני צריך לחפור למטה לשכבה נמוכה יותר כדי להבין משהו. אין בעיה, אני אעשה את זה.
אם מישהו בא לבית ספר לדעת את התהליך ואם אתה לא נותן להם את התהליך אז הם מרגישים כמו היי מה קורה פה, נכון? אני מבין אז לכן - אז לכן אנחנו צריכים לעשות בית ספר? לא, טוב זה מגניב.
לכן מה שאני מנסה לתאר זה שזה נהיה מאוד קשה וכאילו אתה רוצה שאבזבז את הזמן שלי לעבור על כל הטעויות המצחיקות שיש לכולם כל הזמן וכאילו להמשיך לדון בהן? ורק כדי להיות ברור, זה אפילו לא נכון. כמו לחזור לדוגמה של המחשב שלי, יכולנו להמציא מחשבים שעובדים אחרת והם אולי היו מסתיימים טוב יותר. אני לא יודע. היו כמה בחירות שרירותיות שנעשו בדרך, שנקראות תלות במסלול. עכשיו אנחנו תקועים בדרך מסוימת של דברים שעובדים בגלל כמה בחירות שנעשו במהלך הדרך, אולי אפילו נעשו באסטרולוגיה, אני אפילו לא יודע. בסדר?
ועכשיו אתה בא אליי ואני אומר לך למה המחשב שלי עובד ככה ואני אומר לך בגלל אסטרולוגיה ואתה אומר זה מטורף, בוא נעשה אחד טוב יותר. וזה כמו, כן, נסה. לא שווה את המאמץ. אני לא יכול לענות על כל השאלות האלה בשלב מסוים. העובדה שהמציאות והתרבות והכל בנוי שכבה על שכבה - כן, זה נכון, טוב מאוד. אבל זה לא הכל - לא - אין הוכחה בכל שכבה. יש סיפור, זה מה שאני חושב. אם אתה עובר דרך הסיפור, וזה למה עשיתי מה שאני באמת חושב זה שאם אתה חוזר לסיפור שלי שהוא לא כל כך משל, זה ענין של הבחור שהוא אוט"ד ואמון באנשים האלה.
הוא מבין שכל האנשים האלה שהם אוט"ד, הם פשוט צריכים להתבגר. סיפור צריך לקרות להם. מה שאני מתכוון זה שאתה לא יכול - אני לא חושב שאתה יכול - זו האמת. אני לא חושב שאתה יכול ללכת לבחור שהוא בשלב הזה שכביכול כמו אה אין - אין - אין אלוקים. לא, אה, תודה רבה. ואתה יודע שלרב שלי לא הייתה הוכחה טובה. ההוכחה שלו הייתה מגוחכת. רבי אלחנן וסרמן אמר לנו שאף אדם חכם לא מכחיש את אלוקים. זה פשוט לא נכון.
אז עכשיו מה אני עושה? אני לא יכול בעצם להגיד לבחור הזה להאמין באלוקים, גם אם יש לי פתרון, גם אם יש לי את התשובה הנקראת הזו. אני לא חושב שאוכל. אם אני - כמו כמה - כשהעובדה שאתה יושב פה ואתה כל כך מרוצה מה[שיעור] שלי זה בגלל שכבר עברת את זה לפני שש שנים או משהו כזה.
האם אתה יכול לשכנע אותו שיש חומרים בעולם? בטח, אפילו פחות, אפילו פחות, אפילו פחות. האם יש אדם? אתה יכול לשכנע אותו שיש אדם בעולם? כנראה שלא, נכון? אני אפילו לא יכול לגרום לו לראות את הבעיה הזו. זה כנראה יותר קל להתחיל. איך אני בכלל גורם לו לראות את הבעיה הזו? לי, זה יותר -
דברים אחרים? לא, יש אנשים שלא מבינים את גודל הבעיה, הבעיות שתרבויות מקוות לפתור, נכון?
אז אני יכול להסביר לו כל פרט בודד שהתרבות מקווה לפתור, נכון? אני יכול להגיד, תראה, אתה יודע, אני יכול לעשות את ברית המילה. אני רק צריך לעשות סיפור אחד או שניים של ברית מילה כאלה. אני לא חושב שיש כל כך הרבה. כמו, האם יש כל כך הרבה יותר? אתה צריך לדמות את זה פעם אחת. אני לא חושב, בכנות, אם אני - רק כדי להיות ברור, אני, המחשבה אוט"ד, מקשיב לדרשה הזו שהתרשמת ממנה מאוד מסיבה כלשהי על ברית מילה היה כמו, תודה רבה על האפולוגטיקה השלושים שלך שאני שמעתי. זה לא מדבר, זה לא אומר לך כלום. זה רק אומר משהו לך אם אתה בעצם מנסה לעשות דברים כאלה.
לא, אבל תן לי - כמו, רק - אתה צריך לעשות את זה. לא, רק כדי להמחיש את זה לשנייה.
אם אתה ניגש למישהו, ואני חושב שזה ניסוי שמצאתי לפחות קצת מעיד, אתה ניגש למישהו, אוקיי, אדם מחליט לחיות אורח חיים אלטרנטיבי, אוקיי, אז החלטת, אתה יודע, וזו הבדיחה שלי, חילוניות 2025 חייבת להיות האופציה הטובה ביותר, אתה יודע, לכל העולמות האפשריים, אוקיי?
אתה חושב שיש - כמו, אתה חושב שיש בעיות עם חילוניות 2025 אם אתה חייזר שבא ממאדים רק לשתי שניות? טוב, יש לך אנשים שמסתכלים על קופסת זכוכית כל היום. אוקיי, האם הם כמו פותרים את בעיות העולם בקופסת הזכוכית? לא, הם בעצם בעיקר צופים באנשים במשך עשר שניות בכל פעם, אוכלים חתיכת אוכל. או משחקים משחק. או משחקים משחק שאתה לא משחק.
אוקיי, מעניין. כמה זמן אנשים מקדישים לזה? טוב, נראה שאנשים מקדישים בערך שש וחצי שעות ביום בימים אלה לצפות באנשים אחרים עושים משימות קטנות ומצטברות. אוקיי, אתה חושב שמשהו אולי השתבש? אולי. במצב האנושי, אתה חושב שמשהו אולי היה מעט הפוך. או שזה אידיאלי? כלומר, קיווינו להגיע לכאן? קיווינו להגיע למקום שבו אנחנו מסתכלים על קופסת זכוכית וצופים עשר שניות בכל פעם? זו הייתה כמו מטרת הסוף?
כי אם אתה שואל אנשים, זה ברירת המחדל שלהם. הם מתרסקים על הספה. סוף סוף, אין לי עבודה. יש לי מספיק כסף בבנק. סוף סוף, אני יכול להסתכל על קופסת הזכוכית ולצפות באנשים עשר שניות בכל פעם. זו ההגדרה של פנאי של רוב האנשים. אני רק צריך להירגע. משהו אולי השתבש. עכשיו, לפחות בוא נהיה סקרנים לגבי זה לשתי שניות. אולי יש דרך אחרת לחיות את החיים שלך.
אבל אתה חושב, למי אנחנו הולכים לתת את הדרשה הזו? אני לא חושב שאתה יכול לתת את זה לבחורי אוט"ד. במילים אחרות, אני חושב שאתה יכול לתת את הדרשה הזו רק ל - אתה יודע את המשל של רב ישראל סלנטר? לא, קודם אתה צריך להיות יציב, אני רציני.
רב ישראל סלנטר היה כל חייו מנסה לפתור את הבעיות של היהדות, אתה יודע את זה? זה יפה, יש לו הרבה תוכניות שונות. הוא היה בעל המחשבה הראשון של תוכניות. ואז, הוא היה בחור ממש מודרני.
מרצה: אולי יש דרך אחרת לחיות את החיים שלך? אבל אתה חושב, למי אנחנו הולכים לתת את הדרשה הזו? אני לא חושב שאתה יכול לתת את זה לבחורי אוט"ד. במילים אחרות, אני ממשיך לחשוב שאתה יכול לתת את הדרשה הזו רק ל... אתה יודע את המשל של רבי ישראל סלנטר? לא, קודם אתה צריך להיות יציב, אני רציני.
רבי ישראל סלנטר היה כל חייו מנסה לפתור את הבעיות של היהדות, אתה יודע את זה? היו לו הרבה תוכניות שונות. הוא היה תוכנית בעל הבית הראשונה. ואז, הוא היה בחור ממש מודרני, כמו ממש מודרני, עבודה מודרנית. אתה יודע על חומר הלימוד במקום העבודה? הוא היה הראשון. כן, היו לו תוכניות לכל דבר ופתרונות והוא התכוון לעשות את כל פרויקטי ההנדסה החברתית האלה וכן הלאה.
ואז, בשלב מסוים, הוא נכנס לריב עם יותר מדי אנשים והיה לו ילד בפריז, אני חושב, והבן שלו היה רופא, ליפקין, היה מתמטיקאי או משהו. וקודם הוא נסע לגרמניה או לאן שזה לא יהיה והוא אמר, והם ויתרו על הבחורים הפרומים. הוא הולך לעבוד על הבחורים הפריי לגמרי אולי. והוא אמר, המשל הוא, כשיש סוס שאתה יודע, זה סוס בורח רץ במורד גבעה, אתה לא עוצר אותו באמצע הגבעה. אתה קופץ לסוף, ואז אחרי שהוא נפל אתה מתקן אותו, או אתה עוצר אותו שם, דברים כאלה. הוא אמר הבחורים הפרומים האלה, הם באמצע כמו, אין מה לעשות. אני הולך לדבר עם הבחורים שכבר נפלו. הם מחפשים דרך, אולי נעבוד איתם. אני לא חושב שזה עובד גם לו, אבל זה דברים אחרים. נראה שהוא היה יותר מוכן. אני חושב שהוא חי בגרמניה לזמן מה. אבל זה, לא, אבל במילים אחרות, כשמישהו נמצא בשלב הזה שאנחנו כמו, אני צריך לשאול הכל.
רגע, הרב שלי אמר לי שסמארטפון זה טרף, אבל נראה שזה די כיף. מה אני אגיד לו? טוב, אין, אין דרך לענות על השאלה הזו. האם יש דרך להגיד, בעצם הם פשוט הורסים? הם לא בעצם כמו יוצרים.
תלמיד: אני מניח שזה, זה, זה, זה או הורס דברים מזויפים. הם לא טועים. הם חזקים, אבל הם פשוט הורסים.
מרצה: כן, אז אתה צריך להרוס כמו, הם פשוט הורסים. זה מאוד קשה לעבוד.
אני אתן לך דרך אחרת להגיד את זה. בני אדם חיים בזמן. דברים לוקחים זמן. זמן זה לא הזמן שלוקח לקרוא טיעון בפרק של ספר. אם אני או מישהו יכתוב כמו ספר עם כמו, לתת לך את כל הסיפור וכמו הוכחה לכל שלב, זה אולי ייקח לך חמש שעות לקרוא את הספר הזה. אבל לעשות את זה ייקח חיים שלמים. ואין דרך, אין דרך לקצר את זה. לוקח זמן להבין דברים.
להיות עם השאלה, כמו, כמו, בוא נגיד ככה, בוא נגיד ככה. אני פוסק לאלה, כי כל אלה הם פשוט כמו, זה דף ארוך, נכון? אם אני נותן דף ארוך מאוד, יש לי את הקושיא הזו, את הענין הזה, אני נותן לך את כל הדף ב-45 דקות, נכון? אבל זו לא דרך אמיתית להיות עם קושיא. ב-20 דקות ואז אתה כבר מרוצה? ברצינות, אתה צריך להיות עם זה שנתיים.
הבחור האוט"ד, הוא פשוט לומד שטיקל תורה ארוך מאוד. הוא כמו, הוא עם הבחור הזה, הוא שואל קושיא ולומד. אני רציני. לא, אני חושב שיש לו תשובה לזמן ארוך מאוד. זה אותו דבר. יש לו קושיא, ועכשיו, לאט, אז יהיה לו תירוץ, או יהיה לו קושיא טובה יותר, אני לא יודע. אין, אין שום דבר רע בזה.
למה אני לא יכול לתת שיעור בקצרה? כמו שהקוצקר אמר, המלך כתב לו בשבעים שנה, לא בשעה. אתה יכול לקרוא את זה בשעה, אבל אתה לא יכול לעשות את זה בשעה, ואנחנו כולנו על לעשות את זה, לעשות את זה. אתה צריך לבלות כמה שנים לשאול קושיא.
כל מה שאני יכול לחשוב עליו, החלק היחיד שאני רוצה לומר בצד היום הוא הבעיה האמיתית. אז זה מה שאני חושב בתיאוריה שלי של ניסיון, שהיא ממש כלום, כאילו אני בן חמש שניות, זה פשוט שאתה לא יכול לדבר עם אנשים בצורה כזאת.
מה שאתה רוצה, מה שאתה מנסה לעשות, ואולי אתה יכול לעשות את זה, אתם אנשים יכולים לעשות את זה, זה שקודם כל אתה יכול להיות שם בסוף, בסוף הדבר. כאילו אתה יודע משהו, לך, לך לכל הדברים. כשאתה גומר, תחזור. אנשים אמרו, אנשים אומרים את זה אפילו, אתה לא צריך להגיד את זה, אתה פשוט מנצח את זה. זה דבר אחד.
ואז כאילו, משהו כמו, טוב האם הבחור הזה יבטח בי שאני באמת אפיקורוס בדיוק כמוהו? לא, הוא לא יבטח בי. למה שהוא יבטח בי? אני לובש חולצה לבנה. אני אפילו לא מאמין בחולצה הלבנה. גם אם אני מאמין באלוקים, בטוח לא מאמין בחולצה הלבנה, אבל אני לובש אותה. אז אני פשוט בלוף, נבזה. למה שתדבר איתי? הוא צודק.
ומה אתה הולך להגיד לו? אתה רוצה שתהיה לי אמינות בתור מספיק OTD ומספיק חכם ומספיק בשבילו? איך זה אמור לעבוד? זה לא אפשרי. אתה יכול פשוט להיות שם.
אני חושב שהדבר העיקרי שאני חושב עליו, זה מה שההצבעה שלי על הכותרת היא, זה שסיבה אחת למה הניתוק הזה קורה לפעמים היא בגלל שאנשים עוסקים בגאוה. כמוני, כאילו, אתה כאילו, רגע, אף אחד לא רוצה להיות הבחור ה-OTD כי OTD זה פשוט שם למפסיד, נכון? כאן, אולי אם אתה הולך למקום אחר שבו OTD הוא המנצח, אני אפילו לא יודע שיש מקום כזה, אבל ממש כאן זה פשוט שם למפסיד.
אז, ואתה גם לא רוצה להיות המפסיד הקודם. אתה לא רוצה להגיד שהייתי מפסיד. זה גם לא טוב. אז נגיד שאתה מוצא איזו סיבה למה לא להיות OTD, אז אתה מעמיד פנים שזה מעולם לא קרה. אתה מתחיל לדבר שפה זרה.
זו הסיבה שכל שנה אנחנו עושים סדר. זה מה שקרה לעם היהודי. קודם היינו במצרים. הבנו את העולם האמיתי, מה שנקרא העולם האמיתי, עם כל ה... ואז הבנו שיש תרי"ג מצוות. עבדנו על זה כמה אלפי שנים. סוף סוף הגענו לכאן לשלב שבו אנחנו יכולים ללמוד רב חיים כל היום בלייקווד.
ואנחנו לא באמת רוצים לדבר על העובדה שבעצם אנחנו חושבים שלתרח היה פואנטה. משם אנחנו באים. זה כביכול. אומר הרמב"ם הקדוש. זו הסיבה שפעם בשנה אנחנו אוכלים מצה. מה זה מצה? מצה שבכה, מצה. כמו לפני שהמצאנו לחם, אכלנו מצה. כשאתה עני, אין לך כסף, אתה אוכל מצה. אבל זה לא טוב.
אתה צריך להעריך את זה. אתה צריך להיות בעל הכרת הטוב, מה שאומר שאתה צריך להיות פחות מלא בעצמך. אז אתה צריך, פעם בשנה אתה צריך לאכול מצה כדי להראות כאילו, אתה חושב שאתה כזה חכם? אתה פשוט טיפש כמו כולם.
זו הסיבה שאנחנו שואלים ארבע קושיות. וזו הסיבה שאני נותן את כל הדף הזה שמסביר איך תרח הוא ממש צודק, אפילו לא צודק, כאילו, רק לאנשים נורמליים. כי אחרת אנחנו שוכחים. אחרת אנחנו הופכים לשנאיד הזה. כאילו אתה יודע מה זה שנאיד? כשאתה הופך לבן 60, אתה סולח לעצמך. אתה חטא נעורים, ואז אתה, אני זוכר מה עשית בנעוריך.
אז כל המצווה של פסח היא לא להיות הבחור הזה. כן, יש לי ארבע קושיות, אין לי מושג. אנחנו אפילו מבינים, אנחנו בעצם זה. זה מדהים.
אמרתי את זה הרבה פעמים. כשהחכמים, כשהמדרש אומר שהם מזכירים את זה, זה לא אומר בפסח שזה פסוק כל כך יפה. והחכמים היו כאילו, רגע, אני יכול לקרוא את זה בלי התשובה. זו שאלה טובה יותר מהתשובה, נכון? מה לעזאזל אנחנו עושים? אה, מה זה אומר, נכון?
אין לנו תירוץ לרשע. יהיה לנו תירוץ לרשע, אולי. וזו הסיבה שכל שנה בפסח אנחנו אומרים את הרשע, אין לנו תירוץ ל, אני מניח שאתה יודע, יש לנו... ויש לנו לילה שלם של להיות אפיקורסים.
תלמיד: אז חוץ מה, אני חושב שזה ליל אפיקורסות, כי אתה לא יכול להיות מאמין אם אתה אף פעם לא אפיקורס.
מורה: אה, טוב מאוד, זה תירוץ. זה כאילו, אוקיי, אנחנו כאן. זה מאוד תירוץ. אני לא יודע אם זה תירוץ.
תלמיד: כן, אני לא אוהב את זה. זו עצלות, כאילו, אני לא רוצה לשנות את ה...
מורה: לא, לא, אני חושב שזו קריאה להסתכל עמוק יותר.
תלמיד: כן, כן, טוב מאוד. הקושיא היא הכי טובה עם התירוץ.
מורה: 100%. אני לא חושב שהמטרה היא ל... המטרה היא פשוט לא להגיע לשאננות שקרית. זה המשל.
אז המשל, איך אנחנו עושים את המסר הזה גדול יותר? על ידי קריאה לבחורים הפרומים. כי יש להם תקווה. תפסיקו את זה כי הם עלולים להבין מה שזה היה לוקח קורס שהם באמת, והם מספיק נורמליים שנוכל ללמד אותם משהו.
האנשים שצודקים, אני נותן להם פעם, אני נותן להם פעם בשנה דף כדי להסביר להם שאני אפילו יותר פריי מהם. הם אפיקורסים שבחים כי הם מאמינים שגזענות היא החטא הכי גדול שהומצא אי פעם, והם כל כך מוזרים. הם מאמינים במשהו שהומצא לפני חמש דקות, החטא הזה. בכל מקרה, אתה צריך להאמין בזה, אבל כאילו למה? וכן הלאה.
ואולי הם ייתנו קצת אמינות, אבל אני לא חושב שאתה באמת יכול לפתור את הבעיה. לפחות אני לא רואה איך.
אבל אני חושב, אז אני חושב שאתה יותר קשה לאדם פרום מאשר לאדם פריי. כי העובדה שאתה לא צודק בעולם הזה, מה שאתה הולך להגיד, לא ממש רע לעולם הזה, אבל לא בצורה רעה. במילים אחרות, זה לא מגיע הביתה כאילו, אוי אלוהים, מה הוא בדיוק אמר? אני חייב להפוך פרום שוב.
אוקיי, אוקיי. הוא אומר שהוא אוכל דג ולא שוקולד. אתה מבין למה אני מתכוון? אתה מבין למה אני מתכוון? אז הוא עושה את זה והוא נשוי ויש לו ילדים והוא מוכן לדבר איתם והאישה תמיד בחוץ שם. אתה מבין למה אני מתכוון? היא נראית כמו, ופתאום אתה כאילו משהו, הוא עושה טעות, אבל זהו. הוא כאילו, וואו. ואם אתה באמת נותן את זה להסביר לו, נכון, אתה כאילו, הוא ממש, אתה פשוט עינית את חייו.
זו הסיבה שאנחנו לא עושים את זה. רק ביוטיוב.
תלמיד: אני אומר, אבל אם אתה רוצה את זה... אולי אנחנו לא צריכים לשים את השיעור קורא רמז.
מורה: לא, אתה אומר שאנחנו צריכים להביא אנשים פרומים לכאן, נכון? אני לא עושה את זה. זה מה שאתה מדבר עליו. אם אתה הולך להסביר לי את זה לאט מאוד ככה...
תלמיד: לאט מאוד.
מורה: אנחנו יכולים לעשות מה שאתה רוצה. אני לא עושה את זה. אני לא עושה את זה בדרך כלל צו שיעור. אני לא אומר את השיעור הזה. השיעור הזה הוא ל-OTD. כמונו.
תלמיד: אני חושב שהשכבה הרביעית הזו... עברנו על סוגי אנשים אחד עד שלוש. מי הבחור הרביעי?
מורה: יש ארבע וחמש שהם כאילו... שהם... לא, הם בעצם... כאילו, מעבר לכל זה?
תלמיד: לא, כן, הם, כאילו, הגיעו להבנה ש, קודם כל, בעצם, חוץ מהשאלות של היהדות, שזה, כאילו, אני הייתי אומר, רמת עניין שתיים, כאילו, יש בעיות ברמת עניין אחת.
מורה: אה, כמו איך לפרנס את עצמך?
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא, לא, לא, אנחנו לא באמת מבינים איך שפה עובדת.
מורה: זה נכון. נכון? אני חושב שיש מספיק אנשים שם בחוץ שהם, ברגע הנכון... אבל אתה מבין, מה שאתה אומר זה משהו שאני לא יודע איך לעשות בכלל. במילים אחרות, אתה מבין, כלומר, אני עושה את זה, אבל אתה מבין שאם יש פתיח—
כאילו, מה הפוסטים שאני כותב שמקבלים הרבה צפיות? כשזה מתחיל עם הבעיות המטופשות האלה של יהדות רציונלית. כאילו, "אה, אתה יודע שאני בעצם יכול..." ואז אם אני בעצם אי פעם עושה נקודה, אף אחד לא אוהב את זה.
כאילו, האם חשבת ש, כן, אתם כולכם מאוד חכמים, אתם חושבים שביוגרפיות של ארטסקרול מזויפות, אבל אתם יודעים שיש דרך שבה הן יותר אמיתיות מהביוגרפיות הביקורתיות שלכם? אנשים פותחים את הפוסט כי זה אומר משהו על ארטסקרול, ואז הם קוראים את זה והם אפילו לא מבינים שיש טיעון.
אולי אני צודק, אולי אני טועה. אף אחד אפילו... זה בעצם לא אפשרי להביא אנשים לשם. כאילו, עם מי אתה יכול לדבר?
יש אנשים שנוטים פילוסופית. הם רוצים לדעת מה דברים הם. אוקיי. אתה יודע מי האנשים האלה בעולם היהודי? המקובלים. הבחורי ישיבה שהולכים לשיעורי מקובלים. אלה הם אלה.
לא הבחורים ה-OTD. בדרך כלל לא אכפת להם ממה דברים הם. חלק מהם כן. זה פשוט קורה להיות. לא כמו... אתה מבין?
הכוכב, כאילו, היה ה, האם מעשה בראשית כפשוטו או לא? אני לא יודע שום דרך של זה שמוביל לעניין אמיתי במה העולם הוא. זה יכול להוביל, אני מניח, שמעשה בראשית הוא על מה העולם הוא. זה הגיוני שזה צריך, נכון? בסופו של דבר, למה יש לנו מעשה בראשית? כי אנשים ניסו להבין מה העולם הוא. זה סוג של ספק.
תלמיד: אני חושב שהתהליך הזה קורה ליותר אנשים ממה שאתה אולי נותן קרדיט. תראה, בעצם, זה היה סוג של שלי, אתה יודע, אתה עובר מתיאולוגיה לפילוסופיה בסופו של דבר. אתה חייב.
מורה: אבל האם זה, האם זה אותו דבר או שזה להיפך? כאילו אולי האדם שרוצה לדעת מה דברים הם, וזה מתחיל עם זה, ואז אומרים לו, טוב, דברים הם לוחות. זה מה שדברים, זה הדבר, הזך.
והוא כאילו, אז הוא מתחיל לתהות על זה, ואז הוא מוסח מהדרך על ידי כל השאלות האלה. רגע, האם הלוחות היו עשויים מספיר? רגע, האם זה בכלל הגיוני? אין כל כך גדול ספ... רגע, ואם אתה... מה שזה לא יהיה, כל אלה... אני לא יודע.
ואז אתה מוסח מהדרך ואז אתה נתקע ואז אתה סוף סוף מוצא דרך לחזור למה שבאמת רצית ולגלות. אני חושב שזה תיאור סביר של כמה אנשים. זה כמו היסטוריה, באמת. זה לעומת...
אבל הרבה אנשים נראים מעוניינים בעצם אם הלוחות היו באמת מספיר.
תלמיד: נתקע זה מטורף.
מורה: אני יודע, אני מבין למה כי האנשים המצחיקים שמדברים על הנזר הקודש אמרו להם את זה אבל הם לא שומעים את זה אפילו האנשים האלה טובים יותר כי אכפת להם מזה בדרך האמיתית אכפת להם מהלוחות לא בגלל שהם היו ספיר אלא בגלל שיש בהם איזו אמת אבל זהו.
בקיצור, שאלות בצד, אנחנו עושים טוב. נרצה.
טוב, אתה יכול לסגור את הדבר שלי. תודה.
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Human beings are the kind of things that *learn*. The successful ones achieve breakthroughs—some understanding of how things are, how they should be, and what they mean. Through this process, they *grow*.
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When a person grows, they *pass through* the things that originally drove their inquiry. This is like digging through a tunnel—pushing dirt, placing beams, making bricks from mud—bootstrapping forward step by step. Eventually, you break through into "the palace." Once you arrive, you no longer care about the dirt. The mud, the tunnel mechanics—these were just the process. The person who has arrived doesn't want to hear about mud ever again. The questions that once consumed your entire world now look trivial from the vantage point of having broken through.
Someone raised in Chabad Hasidism agonizes over whether "the Rebbe" in Hasidic texts literally means the Rebbe or something else, whether this is heresy, etc. This feels like the biggest drama of their life. But if they eventually break through, they realize: there are 7 billion people, real issues in the world, and this entire debate wasn't even a good question—"just such a mess." The earlier questions weren't merely answered; they were *transcended*.
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The claim that humans are "the kind of things that learn" is a *chiddush* (novel claim) you have to *believe in*—it's not always observable. By observation (e.g., reading the news), humans are "the kind of things that find more new ways to be crazy every day." They don't get better. They don't learn. Only *a few* human beings actually learn.
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The Gemara's metaphor: a worm living inside a grain of wheat thinks it's having a good life—it doesn't know it's trapped inside a grain. (Referenced in connection with Nebuchadnezzar.) These people—the comfortably stuck—*think they are the good people*, and many of us believe that about them too. Stop believing that. They're not the good people. They're just worms in the grain.
A certain type in Lakewood: goes to mikveh on time, catches the first minyan, everything is orderly and settled. You can't even say "nebach" (pity) because the person is happy. Rebbe Nachman's blessing to a chassid applies: "I like you very much—my bracha is that 10,000 years from now you'll understand my jokes." Maybe after death, Gan Eden, and a better reincarnation, they'll begin to understand.
The second type is the person who learns Gemara, heard it's supposed to be brilliant, but finds it makes no sense—and asks "what's going on?" This is also the person who says:
- Nobody knows if there's a God.
- If there's a God, nobody knows if He gave the Torah.
- Bible critics say there were four authors of the Torah, not one Moses.
- The world is very old. There are dinosaurs.
These are "the dirt"—the material you push through on the way to the palace. They feel enormous when you're in the tunnel, but from the perspective of someone who has broken through, they sound like "should we paint the world white or gray?"
Those who deny dinosaurs exist because their rabbi said so are simply not in the conversation at all ("b'chhlal not")—not even the type-two questioner, just entirely outside the framework of learning.
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The conventional Orthodox articulation of *tachlis habria* (the purpose of creation) is not merely wrong but absurd on its face:
- The claim that God created a universe 13–15 billion years old, with 8 billion people, dinosaurs, etc., so that a small number of men in Lakewood should study Akiva Eiger or learn Rashi—this is self-evidently laughable.
- This isn't a *kasha* (a question/difficulty) on the system—it's a *tzhok shebetzhok* (a joke within a joke), meaning it doesn't even rise to the level of deserving serious critique.
- "Wrong would be a compliment"—wrong implies there's a point that's partially off; this doesn't even have a point. It's comparable to psychosis or schizophrenia.
A brief humorous riff on the uncertainty of global population numbers—African census data being unreliable, Paul Ehrlich's population predictions—framed as a new conspiracy theory.
The absurdity extends to extreme *chumros* (stringencies) around matzah and chametz on Pesach—the idea that the entire universe was created so people should obsess over whether their matzah might be too close to chametz. The Zohar teaches that matzah and chametz share the same letters—but the obsessive practice misses the point entirely.
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How do you know the book (Torah) is true? Because 600,000 people witnessed Sinai. How do you know 600,000 people witnessed it? Because the book says so. This is circular reasoning, and adults need to stop repeating it uncritically.
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The rhetoric of Orthodox leadership—calling yeshiva students the *nezer habria* (crown of creation)—is targeted directly:
- A 16-year-old who has read only six pages of Gemara and is learning that *Kiddushin* is a *kinyan ishos* not a *kinyan bo'alus* is told he is the purpose of all creation.
- This extends to the claim that yeshiva students doing "the real thing" should feel proud while soldiers sacrifice their lives to protect them. This is literally what's being taught, and it is obviously insane.
A humorous digression about YouTube asking whether videos are for children, noting that marking them "for children" disables the miniplayer feature—YouTube's way of "protecting children."
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Everything stated so far is *muskam* (agreed upon) by the audience. Anyone who has watched previous content and still thinks the conventional view makes sense needs to "rethink his whole life and his grandfather's life." Rabbi Slifkin and others have been making these critiques for years—their point is acknowledged, but "we figured it out already, we're fourteen."
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The real, new problem is not the absurdity of the traditional worldview (which is settled), but what happens to people who come from that world and realize it's absurd. "Me and you and him... more or less came from there." When people realize the absurdity, "all kinds of interesting things, all kinds of funny things happen." Israeli television series have documented this phenomenon.
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Rabbi Shlomo Kotschinsky was a *yungerman* (young married man) in yeshiva. After Rabin's assassination, he began questioning whether *Yiddishkeit* causes people to murder prime ministers. He traveled through "all the stops" of doubt and questioning, eventually left the Orthodox world to become a professor, and—in an ironic twist—chose to study Litvish Yeshivos academically for his doctorate. This academic study could have been done in the *beis medrash* itself.
Kotschinsky met a Japanese man who had come to Jerusalem to study Jewish wisdom. When Kotschinsky tried to explain the internal distinctions among religious Jews (charedim, datim, etc.), the Japanese man was utterly baffled. From an outside perspective, the fierce internal controversies (white kippah vs. blue kippah, which Rebbe is correct) look as absurd as a remote tribe fighting over how many edges to put on a spear. These disputes are not about reality; they are parochial games mistaken for cosmic significance.
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The first kind of person simply rejects everything out of disillusionment or ignorance—a crude, unreflective apostasy. There is nothing admirable about this stage. While there may be a grain of truth in recognizing problems, it is not something to aspire to. Saying "I wish I didn't know" or "ignorance was better" is compared to wanting to be "buried in the dirt"—choosing a shrine without examining the worm inside.
The second kind of person recognizes that the entire system of elaborate religious practice and disputation is madness ("Sidrei Mishigas") and wants to bypass it for something more direct or authentic.
The third kind of person goes further: the world wasn't created so you should just "learn" (Torah study as an end in itself)—that's obvious. But also, the world wasn't created merely to *attack* the religious people either. Nor is "rationalist Judaism" the answer (described as "even bigger nonsense"). This person says: we need to genuinely figure out what the world was created for. Most people can't actually *live* from this critical conscience alone—you can't sustain a life purely on negation and questioning.
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- Was the Tzimtzum literal or metaphorical?
- Was the Vilna Gaon right or the Baal HaTanya?
- Exactly how many people were at Sinai—600,000 or 500,000?
- Was Ben-Gurion a divine agent or a wicked secularizer?
- The "Jewish problem" / "Yiddish problem"—a genuine historical dilemma: Should Jews maintain separateness when it has led to persecution for 2,000 years? Or find another solution? The greatest minds have wrestled with this for 200 years without resolution.
- Those who reduce this to partisan religious slogans (Satmar vs. Religious Zionist framings) are "arguing which side of dirt to push" while trying to dig through a mountain to reach a palace.
- The apikorsim (heretics/secularists) at least engaged with reality: Marx proposed a solution, others proposed solutions—these were serious attempts at addressing real questions, even if flawed.
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Yes, your Rebbe may have been foolish, the system may be broken—but do you know why you were created? Do you know the meaning of life? This is a genuinely serious, genuinely real question—not a fake theological game. And even without being able to *prove* it rigorously to every atheist, becoming a "yeshiva guy" (dedicating oneself to serious Torah study/thought) is still "a pretty good thing to do with your time."
A student challenges: aren't we asking the same question as the yeshiva boy? The question is the same but the *framing* and *maturity* are different. The language makes it hard to differentiate, but the distinction is real.
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The person at Stage Three faces a social problem: they have no community left. One option for companionship emerges:
Befriend the OTDs (Off the Derech / those who left religion): They seem like normal, grounded people living in the real world, not in "La La Land." The Stage Three person thinks: maybe we can learn from each other, work things out together—since neither believes in the old system, perhaps they can collaboratively figure out how to live meaningfully. Thinking and inquiry become the shared project.
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When you encounter someone who has gone OTD, the honest response isn't to missionize them back but to meet them where they are: "You don't believe in anything? Thank you very much, I don't either." From that shared starting point, thinking, learning, and figuring things out is itself a worthwhile life project.
An anecdote from a friend who initially thought the Kotzker Rebbe was a conventional "frum with chein" figure—emotional, crying about emunah. But then the friend realized: the Rebbe was a bigger apikorus than the OTD people themselves. That's precisely *why* he was crying—because he saw through the conventional pieties and was grappling with the same void. The Rebbe arrived at the crisis point ("all this is not shkaiten") at age 15, whereas the typical OTD person arrives there at 35 after going through the whole departure process.
OTD life offers no substantive intellectual or existential destination:
- OTD memoirs are "not good literature, not good philosophy, not good life"
- Programs like Footsteps give you a certificate, but then what?
- After 10 years of the OTD journey, you face the same question: "Now what do you do with your life?"
Organizations like Hillel screen callers to verify they're genuinely OTD. Since they distribute money for education, frum people could easily game the system by claiming to fit the criteria while remaining observant. This leads to a comic scenario where "all the people getting money are going to be only frum guys."
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A narrative arc of a certain type of rebbe/teacher:
1. He realizes conventional frumkeit is hollow
2. He decides to engage with OTD people, thinking they need his help
3. He discovers they don't need therapy—he needs therapy too
4. His outreach doesn't actually work
5. He decides the good life is still going to shul on Shabbos
6. He goes to shul and finds no OTD people there (because they have "better" places to be on Friday night)
A humorous exchange about whether Breslov music and dancing are better than doom scrolling on Friday night (verdict: yes, marginally). Discussion of whether going to clubs is a real alternative. Reference to a figure (Dovid Grossman) who does outreach in clubs—which is just a way to justify going to clubs yourself. Most people who try to do mitzvah observance outreach in club settings fail.
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The rebbe figure eventually reconsiders: maybe the person giving the drasha about the Nazir (Nazirite) isn't as naive as assumed. Maybe he lacks sophisticated language—hasn't read philosophy or literature—but has arrived at the same existential conclusions through his own idiom. If his name is Soloveitchik, he can articulate it elegantly; otherwise, he "cries and gives drashas" as his best available mode of expression. He's doing what the sophisticated apikorus wanted to do anyway—living meaningfully within the tradition.
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A provocative claim: Yeshiva bochurim are typically "bigger" (more intellectually daring) than OTD people. The reasoning:
- OTD people are *stuck*: they can only entertain questions (*kashas*) that validate the life choices they've already made by leaving
- Yeshiva bochurim have their life choices made for them by the system, so paradoxically they are free to ask any question they want
- They express their doubts in Chassidish coded language: "There's no proof God exists, but we have emunah pshutah" (which is really a sophisticated way of saying "I'm an apikorus")
- Or they say "I don't have chiyus (vitality) in davening"—which is really saying something deeper
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As a young bochur during Chodesh Elul (the month of repentance), the speaker said he didn't want to do teshuvah. A fellow bochur couldn't comprehend this—if you believe in hell for not repenting, why wouldn't you? The speaker was trying to articulate something more fundamental: the entire teshuvah "game" is problematic if you don't actually believe in the reward-and-punishment (schar v'onesh) framework.
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Most frum people, if pressed honestly, don't really believe in the transactional reward/punishment system (compared to arcade tickets). They say they do in "funny ways," but the discomfort is palpable. Only the "big tzaddikim" who have fully convinced themselves truly hold this belief.
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When someone says "I want to come close to Hashem," that itself is evidence they don't truly believe. People who genuinely believe don't frame it as a desire to "come close"—there's an inherent distance implied that reveals the artificiality of the sentiment.
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The Litvish world is an example: once they started adopting the language of "closeness to Hashem," they simultaneously abandoned substantive traditional beliefs. Do any of them still believe in *Techias HaMeisim* (Resurrection of the Dead)? They don't—and this isn't even *kfira* (heresy). The concept has become so remote from lived reality that it registers as absurd, "beyond the whole thing."
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If you force a religious person to articulate their beliefs in plain, conversational language—without religious jargon or ritualized framing—they cannot do it. Example: "You believe the God who created the world thinks that if you put on these boxes, and they're perfectly square, He gives you a good life, and if not, straight to hell?" No one can say this naturally without flinching, squirming, or chuckling. This is an informal lie detector test.
- On davening (prayer): The more someone chuckles or shifts uncomfortably when explaining why they pray, the less they actually believe it works. Empirically, prayer and non-prayer yield the same results—same "percentage rate" of outcomes.
- On performative intensity: The more elaborate the physical performance (swaying, squeezing the face, dramatic gestures), the more it signals bluffing or masking rather than genuine conviction.
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Stopping at a red light is a real, consequential act—cars might hit you. Nobody performs dramatic reverence at a red light—they just stop. But with matzah, there's elaborate ceremony. This asymmetry reveals that the ritual act is "fake" in the sense that it doesn't carry the same immediate, felt reality. Real things don't require performative emphasis.
Extension: Any mitzvah done with a *gartel* (ceremonial belt) or elaborate costume is suspect. The mitzvahs done casually—like building a sukkah in a t-shirt—are the authentic ones. The guy in full rabbinic garb posing for a photo while "building" a sukkah didn't actually build it. The guy in the t-shirt did.
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Any teacher addressing "normal" (non-observant or loosely observant) people is doing essentially the same thing as someone doing outreach to OTDs. The only difference is that "normal" people are more emotionally healthy and easier to engage, whereas OTDs often carry trauma—molestation, broken families, divorce, custody issues—that makes productive conversation much harder.
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This is the hardest problem in religious education/outreach:
- Starting point: From a "normal person perspective," religious practices look absurd—circumcision, burial rituals, etc. Lubavitchers are good at acknowledging this upfront ("if I told you a tribe in Papua New Guinea did this, you'd say *nebuch*").
- Endpoint: There exists a genuine explanation where *bris milah* truly makes you close to Hashem, where the rituals carry deep meaning.
- The problem: How do you get from one to the other *in the same conversation, in the same tone of voice*? There's a noticeable switch in registers—when explaining the absurdity, the tone is casual and comedic; when giving the *shiur* on meaning, it shifts into reverence. The voice that holds both simultaneously cannot be found.
This is perhaps the fundamental pedagogical and philosophical challenge: delivering religious truth without either (a) the stand-up comedy version that mocks everything, or (b) the standard reverent shiur that ignores the absurdity.
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A participant suggests that the easiest approach is showing people that their rejection of religion—what they imagine as a "default" secular lifestyle—is itself a choice, and equally questionable as the religious life they left.
- The racism gambit: Dismissing religious rituals as "primitive" while accepting secular Western life as "normal" is itself a form of cultural chauvinism or even racism. "Your whole problem with Judaism is based on racism"—this is acknowledged as a rhetorical "game" but has potential.
- The emptiness of the alternative: If someone leaves Judaism because the "600,000 at Sinai" story doesn't track, what do they actually choose instead? "Mr. Doomscroller," "Mr. Stock Trader working 19 hours a day thinking that's a life." The secular default is no more rationally grounded or meaningful than the religious life being rejected.
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Suppose someone concludes that the traditional program doesn't hold up. What then?
- The alternatives—becoming an *am ha'aretz*, a doomscroller, a stock trader—are equally questionable.
- Counter-argument from a student: Pointing out flaws in other systems isn't an answer to the internal problems of *this* system. It's a negative argument, not a positive one.
- The "pimple" analogy: The current system answers one question and opens a hundred—but the alternative (leaving the system) may answer one question while *destroying* a hundred settled answers. It's like finding a pimple on your hand and deciding to amputate the hand—only to discover you need your hand for many other things.
The hypothetical person hasn't *decided* to leave—they're genuinely thinking. This framing is accepted, but suspicion remains toward people who "all of a sudden" abandon the framework.
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What actually happens in practice: studying what the Zohar says about *bris milah*, giving a *mahalach* (interpretive approach) to explain it, trying to make sense of it. The student's question (that bris milah seems "crazy") is legitimate. But the narrative bridge—the coherent story that leads from the raw, disturbing question ("why cut a baby?") to the higher-level meaning the Zohar discusses—cannot be confidently provided.
A student proposes: keep everything beautiful about Judaism—gefilte fish, Shabbos, community—and simply delete bris milah. Response: gefilte fish is worse than bris milah ("at least milah has meaning; gefilte fish is just tribal"). This is a specific, legitimate question but not the question being addressed. Saying "the other tribe also has weird practices" is not a real answer—it's a cop-out. "I agree with you" (אלס איז א משל — "everything is a mashal")—this is not apologetics.
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Despite agreeing with the force of the question: there is a meaning, a reason, a *sechel* (logic), a truth in the Zohar's discussion of bris milah. That higher-level discussion is itself a more elevated version of the student's question—not a dismissal of it, but an engagement with it at a different layer.
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All human achievements—technology, language, thought, culture—are built in layers, each one on top of the other.
- At the base: bits flipping through logic gates.
- Above that: machine code, network layers (officially 7, really more), higher-level code, and so on—thousands of layers.
- At the top: a user having a conversation with AI through a piece of glass.
- We can intelligently discuss the top layer ("black box" / abstraction) without understanding every layer beneath it.
However, you cannot *reconstruct* the system from the top layer alone. If dropped on a desert island, knowing "how to use a computer" is useless—you'd need to rediscover silicon, logic (Aristotle), formal symbolic logic (medieval thinkers), the idea of materializing logic in circuits, and so on. You cannot give a coherent story of how to get from base reality to the top layer. Histories of computing give top-level overviews, but no one can actually recreate the path.
Cultures, ideologies, and religious worldviews work the same way—built up layer upon layer from some starting point (whether a "desert island" or God giving Adam knowledge). Even if God gave Adam all knowledge, it still took humanity time to work through the layers. Artifacts of lower levels "leak through" into higher levels—creating strange, seemingly inexplicable features.
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When people go through the crisis of questioning:
- From an outside view, the whole system looks like nonsense—"you can't talk to a piece of glass and get answers."
- So they smash the system (analogy: smashing an iPhone in Me'ah She'arim at the Chametz bonfire because "iPhones are treif").
- After Pesach, they realize: wait, the device actually solved real problems.
- Then they may organically rediscover *why* certain things were useful—through their own experience of needing calculation, needing tools, needing the wheelbarrow to be the right size.
- The punchline: "The guy who gave me a calculator wasn't just a weird shaman playing with numbers"—the abstract, seemingly pointless layers turn out to be practically essential.
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Go back to the "Garden of Eden"—naked, starting from scratch. People have children. They have ideas they want to transmit to those children. How do you actually transmit your worldview to the next generation?
- "I'll write a book"—but millions of words have been written and children haven't read them. Professors write fat books their kids don't know the names of. Writing is not the way.
- You need a physical, embodied marker—you might consider making a cut on your child's ear (making you "the weirdo"), but then you notice a newborn's foreskin seems to have extra skin that doesn't serve an obvious purpose—"might as well cut that one."
- This is a theory of bris milah's origin: it arose as a solution to the fundamental problem of creating and sustaining a culture. This is speculative ("stam a story I made up") but the most reasonable account.
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- Empirical evidence: People in California have tried to create countercultures over the last fifty years—"all of them failed." Their grandchildren either don't exist or are in a third, different version of the original cult.
- The problem of arbitrary-seeming rules: Culture requires specific, sometimes seemingly arbitrary practices. Functional cultural practices are always "degrees away" from something that looks irrational, and you can't build culture without accepting that.
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One could, in principle, trace any cultural practice (like bris milah) all the way down through every layer of the "OSI" (the layered model), showing how it reduces to basic desire/need. But:
- This is impractical—just as you don't rebuild a computer from sand every time you use it, you don't re-derive every cultural practice from first principles each time.
- Descartes' meditation is invoked: taking apart one thing in your life and reassembling it is a valuable exercise, though Descartes did it "in a weird way."
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When people actually do this exercise of deconstruction and reconstruction, they typically end up regaining their faith—specifically "emunos chachamim" (trust in the sages). They realize:
- They probably can't create something better than the existing cultural system.
- If they could improve it, it would be "one more tikkun" (one more fix)—which is exactly what rabbis have always done: adding, removing, or adjusting rules within the tradition.
- Example of pe'ah: A Torah commandment repeated three or four times, yet the rabbis effectively canceled it because "it doesn't work" in changed circumstances. This is recorded in the Shulchan Aruch. The tradition has always done this kind of pragmatic adjustment.
- Implication for bris milah: If you think it doesn't work, fine—"you have to do the work" of showing that, and the system can accommodate change. But casual dismissal is insufficient.
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Rational justification at each level is insufficient to convince someone who hasn't lived through the relevant experiences.
- The bris milah story told above is "somewhat of a waste of time"—not because it's wrong, but because it's incomplete (the real account "continues beyond that"), and in practice, one always starts from a higher layer, just as one writes Python rather than C, or asks ChatGPT rather than coding manually. You only dig down to lower layers when something breaks or you need to debug.
- Students who come to learn "the process" feel cheated if you don't give them the full derivation.
- But going through "all the funny mistakes everyone has all the time" is an enormous waste of time.
- Path dependence: Many features of existing systems (computers, cultures) exist due to arbitrary historical choices—possibly even "based on astrology." They work, but they can't be fully justified at every level. Trying to rebuild from scratch is "not worth the effort."
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The person who has concluded "there's no God" and recognized that their rebbe's proofs were silly (e.g., Rav Elchonon Wasserman's claim that no smart person denies God, which is "just wrong")—this person cannot be argued back into belief, even with good answers.
- "A story has to happen to them"—they need to grow up, to have life experiences that bring them to a place where the arguments become meaningful.
- The audience's appreciation of the bris milah narrative only works because "you already passed that six years ago or whatever."
- Can you convince someone that there are "substances in the world"? That there's "a human in the world"? Probably not at the most basic level—you can't even get someone to see the problem.
- The real task is getting someone to appreciate "the magnitude of the problem that culture is supposed to solve."
- You might only need "one or two bris milah stories" to illustrate the pattern—not an exhaustive account.
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An "alien from Mars" perspective on contemporary secular life:
- People spend ~6.5 hours a day looking at a "glass box" (phone/screen), watching others do "small incremental tasks" for ten seconds at a time.
- This is most people's default definition of leisure: "I just need to relax."
- The rhetorical question: "Were we hoping to get here?" Is this the ideal endpoint of human civilization? "Something might have gone wrong" in the human condition.
- The point is not to condemn but to provoke curiosity: "Maybe there's a different way to live your life."
This argument immediately undercuts itself:
- You can't give this drasha to OTD people—they won't receive it.
- You can only give it to "the frumme chevra" (the already-religious community) or to people who are already stable.
- "First you have to be stable"—stated emphatically.
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Reb Yisrael Salanter, founder of the Mussar movement, was a remarkably modern figure:
- He created programs for everything—workplace Torah learning, social engineering projects.
- He was the first to develop structured programs for *baalei batim* (laypeople).
- Eventually he clashed with too many people in the frum world, had a son who became secular (a doctor/mathematician in Paris or Germany), and gave up on the frum community.
- He turned to working with the completely *frei* (secular) Jews instead.
- His *mashal* (parable): a runaway horse going downhill—you don't stop it mid-fall; you wait at the bottom and work with it after it has landed.
- This approach didn't really work out for Salanter either.
Purpose: To illustrate that the problem of whom to teach and how is ancient and unsolved—neither the frum nor the frei are easy audiences.
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People in the active phase of questioning everything (e.g., "my Rebbe said smartphones are *treif* but they seem fun") are in a purely destructive mode—they are tearing down false constructs but not yet building anything. They are "destroying fake things," which is legitimate, but you cannot productively work with someone in that phase. There is no quick answer to give them.
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Human beings live in time. Understanding cannot be compressed.
- You can read a book containing a full argument in five hours, but to live through that argument takes a lifetime.
- A *kasha* (question) that takes 20 minutes to articulate may require two years to properly sit with.
- The OTD person is essentially "learning a very long *shtikel Torah*"—they are in the middle of a legitimate question. They had the *kasha*; eventually they may arrive at a *teretz* (answer) or a better *kasha*.
- The Kotzker Rebbe's teaching: Dovid HaMelech wrote Tehillim over 70 years, not in an hour. You can read it in an hour, but you cannot *make* it in an hour.
Key claim: The OTD experience is a valid, time-extended process of questioning—not a pathology but a stage in genuine learning.
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- You cannot talk to people in crisis in a compressed, theoretical way. You can only be there—present at the end of their process, available when they come back.
- The credibility problem is insurmountable: How can someone wearing a white shirt (signifying frum identity) claim to be a genuine *apikoros* and be trusted by someone who has actually left? The OTD person rightly sees the frum person as a "bluff."
- You cannot simultaneously be credibly OTD, smart, and frum. It's not possible. All you can do is be present.
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Pride is the core reason for the disconnect between frum Jews and their own doubts:
- Nobody wants to be the "OTD guy" because in the frum world, OTD = loser.
- So when someone works through their doubts and returns to observance, they pretend it never happened and resume speaking frum language—erasing their journey.
- This is *gaavah*: pretending you were never in *Mitzrayim*, never an idolater, never had Terach's perspective.
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The entire Pesach Seder is reframed as the antidote to this pride:
Matzah represents the pre-bread, pre-sophistication state—poverty, simplicity. Eating it annually is an act of humility: "You think you're such a *chacham*? You're just as stupid as everyone else." This is *hakaras hatov* (gratitude) through self-deflation.
We ask four *kashas*—the whole Seder is structured around questioning. Pesach night is not a night of *emunah* (faith) but a night of *apikorsus* (heresy). You cannot be a true believer if you were never an *apikoros*. — בתחילה עובדי עבודה זרה היו אבותינו ("In the beginning, our ancestors were idol worshippers").
The *posuk* כי ישאלכם בניכם מה העבודה הזאת לכם ("When your children ask, 'What is this service to you?'") is not inherently heretical in the text itself—it's a straightforward question with a straightforward answer (זבח פסח הוא). The Chachamim invented the reading that this is the *rasha's* question. They chose to read the question without the answer—and recognized that the question is better than the answer.
מה העבודה הזאת לכם — "What in the world are we doing?" — is the deepest, most honest question. We have no real answer for the rasha. הקהה את שיניו ("Blunt his teeth") is not a *teretz*; it's an admission of defeat. Perhaps Moshiach will bring an answer. Every year on Pesach we acknowledge that for the rasha, we have no answer—and we spend the whole night being *apikorsim*.
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Practically, you expand the *Beis Medrash* by calling the frum people—because they have hope. They might realize "what big *apikorsim* they really are"—and they're stable enough to be taught something.
They get a *shiur* once a year to show "I'm even more *frei* than them." They are "*shvach* (weak) *apikorsim*"—they believe uncritically in recently invented moral certainties (e.g., "racism is the biggest sin ever invented"). They have their own unexamined dogmas. Some credibility can be offered, but this doesn't truly solve the problem.
You are meaner to a frum person than to a frei person with this teaching. A frei person hears it and it doesn't upend their life—they're already in their world. A frum person—married, with kids, with a wife who looks a certain way, who has built an entire life on certain assumptions—if you tell them "you're living in a fatal error," you have literally tortured their life. That's why this *shiur* isn't normally given—"only on YouTube." Not to frum people in person, not quickly. Slowly, carefully, step by step—yes. Fast and destabilizing—no.
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A listener raises the idea that this teaching is "layer four"—that they've gone through person types one through three. Beyond all the Judaism questions (which are "interest level two"), there are deeper, more fundamental problems:
- Not just "how to support yourself" (practical concerns)
- But something like: "We don't actually understand how language works."
This is left as a gesture toward an even more foundational level of philosophical questioning that goes beneath religious doubt into the structure of meaning, communication, and understanding itself.
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Content that begins with "silly rational Judaism problems" (e.g., provocative hooks about Artscroll biographies) gets lots of views. Key frustration: When a substantive philosophical point is actually made—e.g., that Artscroll biographies might be "more true" than critical biographies in a certain sense—nobody engages with the argument. People click for the hook but don't even register that there's an argument being made. It is practically impossible to get most people to engage with genuine philosophical reasoning.
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The *mekubalim* (Kabbalists/those attending Kabbalah classes) are the people in the Jewish world who genuinely want to know "what things are." Contrast: The OTD crowd generally does *not* care about what things fundamentally are—some exceptions exist, but it's not the norm.
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The question of *Ma'aseh Bereishis* (the Creation narrative): is it meant literally (*kipshuto*) or not? This question alone may not lead to genuine interest in what the world is. However: *Ma'aseh Bereishis* exists because people were trying to figure out what the world is—so it *should* lead there eventually.
Key structural question: Does one move from theology to philosophy, or the other way around?
Possible account: A person starts wanting to know what things are → is told the answer is in Torah (e.g., the *Luchos*, the *Shnei Luchos HaBris*) → then gets sidetracked by factual/historical questions (Were the *luchos* really sapphire? Can sapphire be that large?) → gets stuck in those tangential questions → eventually finds a way back to the original philosophical desire to know what things truly are. This is "a reasonable account of some people"—a kind of intellectual history where genuine philosophical curiosity gets detoured through theological specifics before returning to its real object.
Many people seem genuinely interested in whether the *luchos* were literally sapphire—which is somewhat misguided. Partial defense: Even those people are "better" than pure skeptics because they care about the *luchos* in a "real way"—not because of the sapphire but because they sense some truth resides in them.
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In short, questions aside, we're doing well. *Nirtzeh*. Class ends.
Instructor:
Before they even start making the State of Israel, you started it yeah, so what does that mean? No, we were discussing an issue very important visual. But I could only say this is the problem with Jews that they can like if you say a she then you can't just like have it the problem. I have to like say a vort [a Torah insight or teaching], and that's what I'm gonna do. I tell you the vort and or maybe we shouldn't do it, maybe we should just take the power to achieve a problem is that human beings are the kind of things that learn things.
Interesting, very interesting and fascinating process where you learn things, hopefully. The successful ones, the ones that achieved something, that got to some understanding or some insight or some breakthrough, personal breakthrough—I don't mean necessarily that they discovered gravity—some kind of understanding of how things are and how things should be and what they mean, they grow.
And what happens when they grow is that they pass through the things that caused them to go there. So, if I'm very confused and I have a bunch of silly questions, which I thought were great questions, they were great questions. Because the way in which I saw my life, or the way in which I saw reality, or the way in which I saw everything was lacking nuance—not nuance, months—lacking reality, it was somehow like getting, we're grappling towards it from some weird end.
And then finally you break through, you find the palace, like you're digging through something and like pushing dirt here and pushing dirt there and that's bothering you and that's bothering you. And finally you broke through the tunnel and you got into the palace.
So then usually what happens is you stop caring very much about the dirt in the tunnel. That's just that's part of the process like some guy was digging dirt and through a tunnel and first like dirt was a whole life figure out push this piece of their fear and then if you put like a beam you could move forward one step because the tunnel doesn't collapse behind you and then you figure out how to like make the mud wet and make it into a brick so you could somehow bootstrap this process of making a tunnel and getting out and then finally when you get out of the tunnel, you don't want to hear about mud for the rest of your life. This is the emotional.
The same basic thing happens with people. This is what happens with people. They start off with some questions. Now, they start off with some questions, and then finally, and they think that those questions are very, very real, like very big, but these are like, you know what it's so funny but this is how it is like if someone who has arrived that gotten to somewhere thinks back to certain like things that he was like where his whole world then like I was so major like this like this major drama like gosh you know it's like major drama of someone who was born in like Mendel Hagertown [a Chabad Hasidic community].
Like wait but it says in the Siddish Sforum [Hasidic texts] that the Rebbe is the way through which we touch. Does it really mean Mandel? Or maybe it means Surul. I heard the Hira Kfira [heresy]. His brother is Grada the Tzadik [the righteous one]. And he is the Tzadik. And like really, is that really the cut? You know, people don't know the Ishtism. Hopefully. Is that really what the Old Rebbe meant? Or maybe he meant something slightly different. And he's like fairly worried about this. And it's like a whole thing.
And if someone hopefully, let's say, I don't know many people that managed to get through that, but some people do. Let's say someone hopefully figures out the answer. I'm not saying he becomes Os chuset [Chabad Hasid] or yes chuset [non-Chabad Hasid]. That's not the discussion here. He figures out something like: Wait, there's a whole world. There's like 7 billion people in it. And there are like real issues, like real questions. Just like, you know, I don't even know what the real questions are in this context. But like there's real things going on. There's everything else and like this whole discussion is like not even a good question. It's not even like you know this is where I started so let's let's honor the good question. It's not even that. It's just such a mess.
Now of course he can talk of course oh this is not me making things worse by giving all this mishuvah [comparison]. No, don't give a mental haggel [mental comparison]. Give a good mushal [parable/analogy]. You see the problem? You see the problem? That's the same problem.
L'inani [in my opinion] is like this. We have to make one more akduma [preliminary point]. L'inani is like this. There are some people who don't have problems and don't have solutions and don't learn anything.
I said that human beings are the kind of things that learn. That is the big chidish [novel insight]. You have to believe in it. It's not something that we always see.
Human beings are also the kind of things that bat [are crazy/confused]. The funniest kind of thing is a human being. This week someone came to me with a question, why is someone acting that way? I told him, I have no idea. To tell you, there's a thing, like there's funny animals, there's monkeys that have this funny way of doing things, and there's some weird bat that hangs upside down, and don't ask anyone why. Human beings are the funniest kind of thing. Nobody knows why they do the things they do. Makes no sense.
So in the same way, why did I get to say this? Human beings are very funny and they're not actually things that learn. There's only a few human beings that learn. The human beings, to go by observation, are the kind of things that find more new ways to be crazy every day. They don't learn anything. They don't get better. That's some observation that you could definitely make from reading the news and okay you want me to talk to Achlis [non-Jews/the nations] I don't know how to do that really talk about that always real talk about that.
My point is do a bunch when they seem to have a good life in their whole world, like the worm that's in the shrine that doesn't know that he's in the shrine, you know? The Babacha Mushal [the parable from the Gemara]. You know this Mushal? The Babacha Mushal have a worm that's in the shrine that he's having a good life. That's the one, that Nebuchadnezzar [the Babylonian king].
And those people, now, I want to say something very important. Those people, they think that they are from the good people for some reason. And many of us believe that for some reason. That's a very funny thing. Number one: Stop believing that. Okay. They're not the good people. They're just like worms in the honey or whatever, in the grain. That's all. A worm in a grain. That's where worms go. I don't know. Something. I don't know. What's this? A worm in a grain.
The people that are religiously sucking. Yeah. Religious people. They always have the answers to everything. Their whole life is just about going to the mikveh [ritual bath] in time and having the first month of filah [first minyan/prayer service] and I'm not the same guy, right? I know in Likud [Lakewood, the major yeshiva community] there's such kevra [group/crowd] that's the chidish [novelty] of Likud there's those kevra in Likud he goes to the mikveh and he has the first month and the kids say like seriously nebuch [pitifully], I can't even say nebuch because he's happy.
Those are one kind of guys, okay. Now those kind of guys, like Reb Nachman [Rebbe Nachman of Breslov] once told his Eid [Hasid/follower], told him, I like you very much, I want to give you a brucha [blessing]. A brucha is that 10,000 years after you understand my jokes.
So that's the kind of brucha that you can give to those guys. I hope you understand my avirus [my words/teachings] in 10,000 years after you're going to die and go to Ganeid [Gan Eden: Paradise] and be born in a better Gilgal Chaislish [gilgul: reincarnation], maybe. That's the situation. Not saying that's how far it is. So that's one kind of guy.
Now that kind of guy, now, okay, well, then there's another kind of guy. That's the Dezakh [unclear reference, possibly "the one who asks"]. That he learns Digimur [Gemara: Talmud] and he says he heard that Digimur is very smart, but it doesn't make any sense, so what's going on? That's the second kind of guy, right? There's such a kind of guy.
And that kind of guy also, like, when, sometimes, now, here, this is why, when I say things, I think about them, and then I'm going to come up with a different story than the one you came in with. But there's many of those guys, supposedly, that's what you people are telling me. Oh, like me. Like, wake up. Nobody knows if there's a God. If there's a God, they don't know if he gave the Torah.
When I say these questions, I sound like so stupid. Like, should we paint the world white or gray? Like, why is that the thing? But anyways, for some reason, that's like the dirt. That's what I'm getting at.
And really, you know, that the Bible critics said that there were four Moshe Rabbanis [four authors of the Torah attributed to Moses], not only he won and that makes things worse—it makes it better—four guys agreed more or less on the same idea. But anyways, for some reason this is supposedly a big problem.
And what else? I don't know. What are all the problems that everyone has? I'm here making khoizik [mockery] of it. I don't mean to do that. Some of them are religious problems and some of them are just basic problems of the world. The world's very old but curious. Oh I forgot, right there's dinosaurs.
Yeah, there's dinosaurs. We're here making choizik. We're not making choizik. What we're trying to describe is that, you know, what are we trying to describe? That if you don't like this, if you think that there's no dinosaur, then you're not going to need a rafia shalama [complete healing] and lozad lova [unclear Yiddish phrase], maybe you'll have it. Okay. Because you're just sure. There can't be. Your rabbi told you that there's no dinosaurs.
I'm not getting into it. That guy is b'chalal [at all], yeah. That guy is b'chalal not.
All right? You're asking? The guy that... Now, then there's... Then there's other people who are worried about all these problems. And it really bothers them. Okay? And those are not a mention. You can talk to them, right? Like, hello, you're a human being. You live in this world. Yeah, what's going on?
Really, how'd the guy say, "Really, this is why God made the world 15 billion years ago" — I'm sorry, whenever — "and also that 13 guys in Lakewood should study, that's the *tachlis* [purpose] of everything"? When you say this and you don't burst out laughing, right? I'm not talking about after you come to my *shiur* [class/lecture] and you understand that it's true. Hello, you really — you don't even realize that you're saying something. It's not a *kasha* [question/difficulty] on it. You have to realize this.
Am I allowed to say *abba karsas* [Aramaic: heresy/apostasy]? Yeah, this *shiur* is for saying *abba karsas*. You have to have that. It's not like there's a *kasha* on this, right? This is a *tzhok shebetzhok* [Hebrew: a joke within a joke].
If you start entertaining the question, "Yeah, maybe the *tachlis habria* [purpose of creation] was that 500 guys in BMG [Beth Medrash Govoha, the Lakewood yeshiva] should learn Rashi" — that's why God created dinosaurs? Oh wait, there's no dinosaurs. The world's a little smaller. But even the world, according to 6,000 years old, and with the only rhinoceros — there's no dinosaurs, because there's a big difference. God can't create dinosaurs. He can only create...
That's why there is right now about 8 or 7 million people in the world, depending on who you believe. Or maybe only one — nobody knows. Nobody knows how many people actually are. A bunch of countries in Africa say that they have a million people — nobody ever met them. Anyways, new conspiracy theory: maybe that's why we didn't overpopulate — the census are not a lie. Who knows?
Student: The guy who died, his numbers are...
Instructor: Oh, you mean Paul Ehrlich? Something like that. Yeah.
So yeah, the *kitzev* [essence/point], what I'm trying to say is: You open the thing, there's 8 billion people in the world, and the point of all of it is that we should burn our *matzahs* [unleavened bread for Passover] and make sure that there's not even a *chash chometz* [suspicion of leavened bread] and not even a *chash matzah* in it. *Matzah*, you know, *matzah* is very close to *chometz* [leavened bread]. You have to make sure that your *matzah* is not even *matzah*. If it's *matzah*, then it's *mamash* [really/actually]... As long as it says, *matzah* and *chometz* are the same letters — it's just a little difference. You know, in reality, it's very close.
So that's why the world was created. And if you have a *safek* [doubt] on that, it's *nebuch* [pitiable]. *Nebuch*, you don't know. *Nebuch*. If when you say this and you're a human adult and you don't either burst out laughing or crying — because there's guys with long beards that actually live their life based on that fantasy — then, how do you guys say, we don't even talk about you.
Student: You *maskil* [enlightened one/heretic], everyone is *maskil*. I gotta be nuts.
Instructor: I'm not *maskil*. I think you're taking them to — you're taking them on face value.
Student: No, no, they believe in it 100 percent.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah. No, we're somewhere just learning for Vegas.
Student: So then they say, "No, no, no, they teach their children..."
Instructor: It's laughable. It's not only — it's not wrong. It's not even — if "wrong" would be a compliment for it. "Wrong" means that there's some point, that there's some — "wrong" is just partial right. There's a point, but you're — it's not... I'm not saying that that's the truth, but the way it's understood and the way people talk about it, it's not — "wrong" would be a compliment that it doesn't deserve. It's not wrong. It's nuts. It's schizophrenic. It's psychotic.
Hello, you know what? God created the world so I should dance three times backwards every morning on my left leg. It makes as much sense.
Student: Oh, because you have a book. The book says it.
Instructor: Yeah, and you know about this book because — oh, because 600,000 people thought... I had another 600 people saw it. Because it doesn't — the book be real. Grow up, people. Adults are keeping on repeating these nonsense. You should grow up. I'm not saying that you understand — I don't have to *fanfisical* [?] over here. This is the point, okay?
And now the reality is that in this state called Lakewood, or anywhere where people with black hats congregate, most of the discussions are at that level — that it's not even nonsense. It's... I'm not saying that if you think that there's some truth and you could make a *mushal* [parable/analogy] and tell this to your children, okay. But we're talking about adults now.
No children should watch. I'm gonna write this on this video. Every time I upload a video, YouTube asked me if it's for children, and I always say that it's not. Because if it's for children, they don't let you... Yeah, for some reason they don't let that you did the mini-player. That's the big — make a difference.
Anyways, YouTube is protecting the children from the mini-players. Don't ask me. I don't know. You have YouTube.
Student: Which is most people's major issue with the platform.
Instructor: I don't know. The mini-player, that's the problem. You can't listen to it in the background. I snitched. Anyways.
Student: There could be a problem actually with the *chazzan* [cantor] and the *shiur* in the car.
Instructor: Oh, there? The *chazzan* and the *shiur* in the car. So, no, I'm not going to — it's not for children, no problem. You have to make it not, but children can't see it. You have to be the opposite. Gets it?
You understand the *baya* [problem]? Sure, that's the basic *baya*. Now what happened? Now this is everyone *alt kahn* [old Cohen] is *muskam* [agreed upon/settled], and everyone that ever watched one of my YouTubes — and if someone watched it and thought that we think that that makes sense, then he never does and you should — you should do *tshuvah* [repentance] and he should rethink his whole life and his grandfather's life. You know, what's going on?
But now there's a new problem, right? We *maskil*, right? Now there's a new problem, a new problem, a new problem, that this is where we came from — me and you and him and Jan, more or less came from there. And then, what happens when you realize this, is all kinds of interesting things. All kinds of funny things happen. There's a television series about it now. Anyways, and those helped me tell my story. Whenever I make it too abstracting, it helped me.
So, no, no, no, there's different television. Israeli television keeps on making making videos about this.
So, what's the *baya*? The *baya* is that after 25 years of throwing around that *mushal* of, "Seriously, you're a guy that believes that there's no dinosaurs because your rabbi told you, and he's the must-be-really-smartest-guy-ever, and all the people, all the scientists are just stupid because they believe in dinosaurs. Must be — he's stupid, right? And my *rebbe*, he's the..." — seriously? What do you mean?
The so-called leader of the black hat shoes writes letters talking about for 16-year-old kids sitting in a room somewhere reading some ancient — some not ancient, some whatever. Hello? Who is this? What's the difference? I'm not giving names today. I am, but I'm not trying to get into fights with people. It doesn't make any sense.
These people are living in La La Land. Not even La La Land. La La Land was good given. I don't know what happened. What's the *nezer habria* [crown of creation]? A 16-year-old boy that doesn't really — that read only 6 *blatt Gemara* [pages of Talmud] in his life, and his *rebbe* explaining him that a *kiddushin* [Jewish marriage] is a *kinyan ishah* [acquisition of a woman] — it's not a *kinyan ba'alus* [acquisition of ownership] — and that's what the world was created for. You're the *nezer habria*.
You should be proud of that guy, because you're doing the real thing. If you're in a situation where there's a war and there's other people who are sacrificing their life just to protect you, you should be proud. That's literally what's being taught to everyone. This is not the normal. In the end of the day, hello, I'm allowed to express — this is nuts, right? Obviously nuts.
Rabbi Slifkin and Rabbi whatever keep on saying every week that it's nuts. Hello, that's also — we figured it out already. We're 14. Fine, thank you very much.
Okay, but that's the point. Now, but did it become less nuts? Did it become less nuts? But what happened is that, I'll tell you what happened.
I have a friend, he's named Kotschinsky. It was *Ayid* [?], and he told me — I hope you can understand the *ma'aseh* [story/incident]. You don't know him, okay? He told me a *ma'aseh* that he was a young man in yeshiva, and then Rabin was killed, and he started to think that maybe *Yiddishkeit* [Judaism/Jewish way of life] causes people to murder prime ministers. And he gets it. He traveled along all the stops that you could make based on that *kasha* [question]. And then, and finally decided he's gonna become a *melamed* [teacher]... *She* [he] become professor university. Of course, what's he going to study? The Litvish yeshivas.
Hello, that's why you have to go to university to make a doctorate about the yeshivas, man. Anyways, it's very interesting, but that you could do in this *mesivta* [yeshiva high school]. So any case...
Instructor:
He traveled along all the stops that you could make based on that cache. And then, and finally he decided he's going to come to my elementary, come to university. Of course, what's he going to study? The Litvish yeshivas [Lithuanian-style traditional Jewish academies]. Hello. That's why you have to go to university to make a doctorate about the yeshivas.
Anyways, it's like so any case and then he said that one day he was in the university stable over there by the coffee and there's a guy from Japan came to—I came to state the care that the going will come and my heart see on the rainy my voice off like the cook said when they opened the Hebrew University can see and as a third so they go from Japan came to the story the Jewish wisdom in Jerusalem and the Hebrew University, I think.
And this guy is a guy from Japan. And he was talking to him about something. He's the guy that can't eat. No, no, there's a lot of guys from Japan. And the guy was like talking to him, and he was trying to explain to him, you know, charedim [ultra-Orthodox Jews] and datim [religious Jews], and like a whole world class probably doesn't know. And this guy is from Japan, and he's looking at him like, huh?
Not only this guy was from Japan, he was thinking—I don't know what that guy's thing was—but this big problem, it's huge: should it be a white kippah [yarmulke/skullcap] or a blue kippah or a red kippah? What?
Imagine you go to the group of people in the Sentinel Island and they're having a huge controversy if they should put two edges on their spear or one edge, and they're like being machrim [excommunicating] each other because of this, and like there's some—like it's not real. This whole thing, wake up. This is not what the world is about.
So you realize things like that, that don't decide to become a Buddhist. At least, at least, you know, they're talking about reality, not about like if the Trisker Shiva of Panovic [a specific Hasidic rebbe] is it or that. That's what the world is about. That's what they think right now.
Instructor:
This is very important right. So first year, first there's a step of a push the—let's come, I don't think of them, we're not gonna call it a push T the stupid bottom and a crying. Okay, that's step number one or one kind of person. There's nothing good about that, to be very—after that there's nothing good about that. There's good in every and all these stages, there's something good in the sense of there being some truth in it, but there's nothing to look up in that. We should remember this: nothing good about it.
When you say that is something good about it, you're being over on the—I'll tell all of my friends every say, "I wish I was stupid." You're the guy that was buried in the—if you say, "Wow, I shouldn't have known, it was better," that's good. Of course it shows you the reality. Thank you very much. What do you want to live in a shrine without a worm?
Okay, that's number one.
Instructor:
Then there's a second kind of guy that is like, "Hello, this is Al-Sidrait Mishigas [all of it is nonsense] and Nishtafila Akasha [let's pray to God directly]." That's the second kind of guy. Okay? Very good.
Instructor:
Now, turns out that there's a third kind of guy. All right? The third kind of guy, what's the third kind of guy that somehow figured out that this is very—obviously, it's very important to note—the third kind of guy says obviously the world wasn't created so you should learn. I don't even have to talk about this. I feel stupid talking about it now.
And then what does he say? What does he say? The world also wasn't created to attack the people. That's also—no, we have to figure out what the world was created for. Also rationalist Judaism is even bigger nonsense. Okay? Don't tell anyone. It's sort of that. We're not here to make like typologies of groups are trying to get at them.
That's what he says, like listen, you the dreamiest you figure this out. Yeah, I mean thank you very much. And also there is—you can't live your whole life from that conscience. Not only can't you live your life, I think everyone understands you can't live your life. Yeah, exactly. But most people are like that because they—okay, we're going to talk about these specific, I'm just trying to give a story.
Instructor:
And also, there are real problems. There are real problems. Do you know that even, by the way, even as in the sense of Jewish problems, like the Jewish problem, that's a real problem. The Yiddish problem. That's a real problem. Historically, it's not a historical problem—it's not a metaphysical problem. But it's a historical problem, it's a real one, okay?
The question of the Tzimtzum Kapshita [the theological dispute about whether God's contraction was literal or metaphorical], that's fake. Nobody, it doesn't matter. It matters only if you care about the truth about God, but this whole like all the yeshiva being very worried if the Vilna Gaon [the Gaon of Vilna, 18th century Lithuanian Torah scholar] was right or if the Baal HaTanya [founder of Chabad Hasidism] was right—you're playing, playing, I don't know what. You're playing with sticks. It's not a real—that's not the real where the real problems are.
Good question: did God give the Torah on the Mount Sinai or not? How many people were there? 600,000? 500,000? 999? That's not real. That doesn't make any difference to anyone. You know what makes a difference in reality? As a Jew, even as a Jew it makes no difference.
Instructor:
You know what makes a difference as a Jew? There are real issues. Like, should we close down this Jewish separateness thing? Because it seems to just be getting us killed for the past 2,000 years. Or should we figure out some other solution? That's a real issue. Real question. Greatest minds have been in it for 200 years. They didn't find a solution.
But you're a Satmarit [Satmar Hasid]. You're a mitzvah. Really, it's a Shgacha practice [divine providence practice]. That doesn't have to do with anything. You realize what I'm saying? My problem wasn't if we believed that the Ben-Gurion [David Ben-Gurion, first Prime Minister of Israel] was a shaliach of the Shgacha [agent of divine providence] or he was a rasha [wicked person] that was trying to make the Medina Zechetim [the State of Israel] to bring us Kalisul [destruction].
You people are just looking—you're literally getting at a palace from the dirt behind it because you have to dig through the mountain to get to it and you're arguing which side of dirt to push.
Instructor:
Yeah, and also the apikorsim [heretics/apostates], they just had a solution for it. These people are—they're connected with the reality in a good way to back like. Yeah, like you had a solution man. Yeah, I proposed the solution. Marx [Karl Marx] proposed the solution. I mean in this book on the—and so on. This is a real question.
You're coming at it from such a funny mess. You're not even—you don't even understand. The problem is if they learn the Torah, then they're not going to be able to—or the army guy, that's the big dicky one, like Rav Tzuyuda said. You people are so far from reality that it's not even funny.
So you understand that and that's—the whole thing of being Yiddish is only a historical accident. For men, it's an even bigger problem. Right? I should have never went out of Africa with the Neanderthals over there. Anyways, no.
Instructor:
So, and then you realize that, you know, yeah, of course your Rebbe was dumb, but do you know why you were created? Do you know what the meaning of life is? What the Nazar Avri [possibly: the Nazir's vow, or a reference to a specific concept] is? That's actually a serious question. It's actually very real.
And it's actually also true that even if you don't, like, have, like, this kind of Shuvonitzachas [possibly: proofs/demonstrations], like I could prove it to every atheist that I should become a yeshiva guy—even if that's nonsense, you still should become a yeshiva guy. Still pretty good thing to do with your time.
Unless I'm allowed to say this here already—with that level of maturity, yeah.
Student:
Can I ask you something? Why do we talk in need? Why is that a very important question? Why? In other words, we're really asking the same question as that boy or the yeshiva is asking because we're having either—
Instructor:
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. My question is, we're starting with the same premise—
Student:
No, no, no, I don't mean that. I don't mean that.
Instructor:
No, I don't mean that, I don't mean that. I don't mean that. I don't mean that. Why is it a serious problem? In other words, why is it a serious problem? Why I was created, or born, or here? Maybe in a better way, in a better way, in a better, exactly, in a better way, but I'm saying it in this way.
Okay, so you should have your kasha [question/difficulty]. So you should have your kasha. Okay, there's a better way of answering that. And it's hard to differentiate in language. That's another issue. But it's very real. All these things are very real.
Instructor:
And now, and now, we have a new issue. Okay, now what's the new issue? That we don't have any friends anymore left.
Because you could be—now there's kind of two options. The people that get to this third stage, they have these kind of two options of who to be friends with.
Instructor:
First they think, I should be friends with all the OTDs [Off the Derech: those who left Orthodox Judaism]. Because those are the normal mentioned. They're not meshuggah [crazy], they're not living in, like La La Land would be a shvach [weak/inadequate term]. They're living in the real world.
Now I got to think that I'm a little smarter than them. Okay, maybe I could teach them, maybe they could teach me something, maybe we could work things out together. Because I think that the third OTD, it's a good thing to be from something like that, right? It's like you don't believe in anything, thank you very much. I don't either. And now okay, so now let's do something with—let's do something with our life. Like let's, you know, that thinking is actually a pretty cool way of doing something with your life, of figuring out things.
Instructor:
So that's what you think first. Do you also know that happens to be that I figured out finally. You know what you figure out? I have a friend who told me, we always thought, Nebuchadnezzar [likely referring to the Kotzker Rebbe, known for his intense, uncompromising approach], the rabbi is missing a line. It's going to be whatever you want to say about him. He, Nebuchadnezzar, was one of these vermin in the chine people [frum with chein: conventionally pious with warmth/charm]. He was crying and talking about emunah [faith] and stuff and everything. And Nebuchadnezzar, but where is the smart guy that we figured out that seriously and he said that and then one time he realized the Kotzker master he was living in a fantasy the devil was a apikorus [heretic/skeptic]. Oh, that was a bigger Epicurus [apikorus] than me. That's why he was crying so much because I'll see this because it's not the goddess and then he was trying to figure out like okay what do I do from now and he was doing what I'm doing.
And then you tell that to your OTD [Off the Derech: those who have left religious observance] friends. You're like, you know, I think that was just an Epicurus like us. Just he realized that. What are you going to do with your life? Sit all day watching, reading OTD memoirs? Come on, they're not even good in literature. There's better literature than that. They're not good philosophy. They're not good literature. They're not good life. There's nothing to do after you're OTD.
Instructor:
What do you do after you go through the whole Hillel course or what's it called, the America Footsteps? They have a whole course out of your OTD. There used to be a course. Then they realized that doesn't even—now okay, Baruch Hashem [thank God], I got my certificate.
There was someone complaining about Hillel, that when you call them, they ask of you, are you really OTD? Like, are you even an old avarice [unclear term, possibly "off already"]? No, we don't accept you. Because maybe you're just a bluffer. And I was thinking, exactly, they're not good.
Student:
And I was thinking—
Instructor:
Not exactly. But the point is, no, let's explain, let's understand why they have to do this. No, not because they have to spy. Also, no, because let's say they have an organization, they give out money for people to go to school. Now, any frum guy could come and say—
Student:
I should have taken their money.
Instructor:
Exactly. Any frum guy could come. Look, here's the report from people that were from the Gotika [unclear reference]. I was from guy. I'm still. What's the difference? I fit your criteria. So they have to get a way out. So, you know, the frum people are very good at using out the organizations that are offering them. So soon, all the people getting money from this Hefer [Footsteps] are going to be only frum guys.
Student:
The kids say, Levas [on the contrary], it's discrimination, but you only give the—
Instructor:
Oh, you want it frum people to know the English? Okay, so what's it bother you that he's still frum? Oh, you want to be confidant? Ah, you're still a missionary.
Anyways, so let's say you succeeded, you got accepted to the whole program and everything, and then after you finish it, after 10 years or however long it takes, and you're like, okay, now what do you do with your life? Right? Turns out that that's where the Rebbe started. The tip is, you arrive at 35, where the Rebbe was when he was 15. He also realized that all this is not shkaiten [unclear, possibly "worth anything"]. And he was like, okay, what do we do? Salam [so then], I'm going to become a Rebbe.
Student:
Why did you decide that?
Instructor:
Because it's my Rebbe, it's my Rebbe, that's what you do. What's the big problem?
No, but there's a more serious—I'm saying everything in a latunist [joking/ironic] way, but there's a serious way of understanding all of this.
Instructor:
And then this Rebbe, like I said, he thinks that he should talk with the OTD chevra [group/community]. And then he starts doing that and he realizes they don't need therapy. They don't need his treatment. He also needed therapy, but somehow maybe this is his therapy, whatever it is. And it doesn't actually work. That's what he realized. True story. It happened to many people that I know.
And then he realized, okay, but I decided that the good life is to sort of go to shul on Shabbos [Sabbath] and so on. And he goes to shul and he doesn't find any OTD, because they don't think that they have a better place to go on Friday night. With worse food and worse songs. And worse dances.
Student:
Actually, I don't know. If he gets it—the dances in shul are pretty bad.
Instructor:
What?
Student:
The dances in shul are pretty bad.
Instructor:
Yeah, it's hard to be worse, right? If you go to Breslov shul—
Student:
No, he goes to Breslov shul. Still bad music, huh?
Instructor:
More doom scrolling. Even worse. Doom scrolling is still—Breslov music is still better than doom scrolling Friday night. Okay, that's what most of us imagine for sure. True, right?
Student:
Going to the club. I don't think people are doing that.
Instructor:
Not even going to the club. I don't believe. I don't know. Some people are, but I don't think—nobody in the world, but—
Student:
Yeah, the kids said, but the mass in the Breslov club, everyone is talking about emunah pshuta [simple faith] and they all love Hashem [God] and they thank you Hashem and all of that. And he's like, you people, I'm not sure, are you from the first group or the second group or the third group?
Instructor:
He's not sure. But slowly he figures out that the second group is the same as the last. Why not? How is that? Okay, now that's one answer to your people's questions. A true story.
Instructor:
And therefore, then he realizes—I'll tell you an argument for why your people are saying that we should go to the club. We should be like it's a Dovid Grossman [unclear reference, possibly someone who does outreach in secular settings] who goes to the clubs and makes people go to the club. You know why he does that? Because how else can he go to a club?
So, I have no idea, I don't know, but I'm imagining, like, it's fun, you know, how are you going to go to a club?
Student:
What's so funny? Like, you don't want to go to a club?
Instructor:
Some people like it, not everyone likes it. Some people like it, for some reason. Some people don't like it. Some people like it. People that are more social and extroverted, they like it.
Student:
So, the kid said, and you could be like that, you could do that in the club, but you can't actually give them three or more [unclear reference, possibly to mitzvos/commandments].
Instructor:
I don't know. Most people that I know that try to do that fail.
Instructor:
So then he says, he makes this judgment. He says, look, the Alter Rebbe [the first/old Rebbe], he was an apikorus and he's actually figured this out. And then he thinks, wait, the guy giving that drasha [sermon/discourse] about the Nazir Abria [the Nazirite, from Numbers 6], you think he really buys it? He's really as stupid as I thought. Maybe I'm the one that was stupid. Maybe he figured out something.
He probably is missing language and he's not very sophisticated. He didn't read a lot of literature or philosophy or anything. If his name is Soloveitchik then he does know how to express it nicely, and that's why it's worth something. But otherwise it just doesn't know—it doesn't have language. They don't read anything. Doesn't have much life experience. Doesn't know history. Doesn't know philosophy. Doesn't know literature. Doesn't know nothing. But this is his best way of doing it.
So he said he cries and he gives drashas about the Nazir Abria and turns out he's doing what I want him to do. So you go, you become a teacher, and then you teach everyone about the Nazir Abria and that's what you wanted to do anyways.
Instructor:
And you stop with fantasizing that the OTD chevra are smarter or bigger than the yeshiva bochurim [yeshiva students]. They're the same. And if you actually start talking to yeshiva bochurim, you'll find that they're the same. I've spoken to yeshiva bochurim and to OTD chevra. Usually yeshiva bochurim are bigger.
Usually. You know why? Because in OTD you're not stuck—you're only allowed to have the kashas [questions/difficulties] that lead to the answer that you made your life choices based on. But if you're yeshiva bochurim, then all your life choices are made for you. You're allowed to have whatever kashas you want.
Of course, some of them are afraid of their Rebbe. Some of them, they think that if they say it openly, they say it in Chassidish ways. You know how you say they have in Chassidish language? There's ways to say it, right?
Student:
How does someone say—you asked me, someone asked me, yeah, that's one way, that's what Kam [unclear] said.
Instructor:
There's, you said, yeah, you say, look, there's no proof that there's God exists, but we have emunah pshuta anyways, because you're an Epicurus. One of my big fights.
Student:
Right. But this is already an ideology.
Instructor:
Or what you do is you say, I don't have chiyus [vitality/enthusiasm] in davening [prayer]. I mean, you don't have chiyus in davening.
True story. I was a little bochur [young yeshiva student], and I guess that I was an Epicurus. I don't know. I thought I was very frum. And I was having, was it Chodesh Elul [the month of Elul, the month of repentance before Rosh Hashanah], or something like that, so I was saying that I don't want to do teshuvah [repentance].
And there was this like next bochur next to me and he was saying, what do you mean? I didn't know what to answer. Like, you believe that you're going to go to hell if you don't do—if you don't achieve [teshuvah].
And, uh, what should I say? Yeah, no. So, oh, it's hard for you to say. So you do—you understand that someone is nikshil [stumbles/fails], but you didn't understand what I was saying. But I was trying to be honest. Yeah, every day we do it, we pretend and so on.
What do you mean? Every time you put on tefillin [phylacteries], you get a ticket. And every time you don't, you get a ticket to hell. Obviously, if you don't believe in that, then I understand, but you believe in it, right? Maybe I don't. What does it even mean? Right?
Instructor:
So this is basic, right? And you hear people saying that they don't believe in schar v'onesh [reward and punishment]. Garnish [nothing], but they say no kinds of funny ways, but it's not complicated. They believe in the tokens that you get. If you ask him, I actually believe—I actually don't play the arcades, by the way, that don't give you a lot of tickets. That's what the guy do. You should play the arcades that are both fun and give you a lot of things. So maybe they see the mark because I don't—
Student:
No, if I imagine, I don't know, that guy was like a Litvak [Lithuanian-style yeshiva student], he didn't understand what I wanted. Like I was trying to explain, there's a problem with this whole teshuvah game. And he was like, what do you mean?
Instructor:
But I actually think that if you do it to most people, this exercise, they will feel uncomfortable, because they don't really believe in that. Besides for like the big tzaddikim [righteous people], like that already convinced themselves. That's what I think. You go in Lakewood [major yeshiva community in New Jersey], go to...
Instructor: I want to come close to Hashem [God]. Then you know he's full of it. Because people that believe don't want to come close to Hashem. There's a big chiddush [novel insight], and it's very simple. All these Litvaks [Lithuanian-style Orthodox Jews], when all the Litvaks already started talking about being close to Hashem, right? Almost all of them, any of them, still talking about *Schar V'Onesh* [reward and punishment]? Do any of them believe in *Techiyas HaMeisim* [resurrection of the dead]? I say, of course they're not *kofrim* [heretics], because they realize it's not even *kfira* [heresy]. It's nonsense. Like I was saying, it's not even a joke. It's beyond the whole thing. It's like some—it's stale and dated. It's whatever. It's so far from the reality, the whole thing. That's why I'm asking. But why not? Because if you actually talk to them like a normal guy, you sell them, you say, you come and you come back, you go, you like, why do you put on tefillin [phylacteries]? Oh, because the God that created the world, when He created it out here, suddenly, and He thinks that if we put on these boxes, if it's perfectly square, if it's a little rectangle, then He gives you a good life, and if not, it's *Gehinnom* [hell], straight to hell.
I promise you, if you get the guy to say it in this simple, normal way, like me talking to you, they can't. That's why they start saying—whenever someone starts making—start squeezing his face when he says something, then he's lying, right? Basic lie detector test. Why do you daven [pray]? Why do you daven when you have a problem? That's called lie detector, right? That thing with your eyes, that was saying, saying, *hakshan kaparan* [atonement for sins], that makes no difference to you, davening. But davening, right? Because a normal guy, the more someone chuckles by davening, the less he believes in it. That doesn't make him more of a—I'm like, I told people, I made a test: if it works better than tefillin, when you *shrei* [scream/cry out], or when you just speak normally, it makes no difference. Both of them get answered equally, at the same percentage rate. Like, think about it. If you believe—I actually believe in it, but that's a different discussion.
Instructor: And I'm like, what do you mean? Like, why are you—what are you doing? What you're doing is being against this nonsense, right? Like, hello, it's ridiculous. Yeah, seriously. When the *shtick* [act/performance] comes on, that's one. And you go like this [gestures]. The more you go like this, the more you're bluffing. Not bluffing—I'm not even saying you're bluffing. You're living in a weird—okay, you're masking, yeah, or whatever. It's not serious. Not the reality. Like, you don't—when you know that nobody's—I'm coming a little late to a red light. Like, they don't stop at the red light. But now—well, that's different, the kid. But even the guys that do stop at the red light, they don't do like [makes exaggerated gesture]. "Lloyd, see if they stop by the red light!" Right? "Look, I'm *meshaneh nefesh* [endangering my soul]!" They just stop at the red light to the threat that there might be cars coming, right?
But when you eat matzah [unleavened bread eaten on Passover], you're eating matzah, right? *B'kiyum mitzvah* [in fulfillment of the commandment]. *Achilat matzah al achilat matzah* [eating matzah for the sake of eating matzah]. Why? Because the *achilat matzah* is a fake thing, and something—red light is a real thing. You don't have to go like this: "Ah, red light! Red light! Yes, I read the letter! Stop! It's *al pi din* [according to the law]!" Or you go *davka* [specifically/deliberately], because you're not *al pi din*. Whatever it is. And all this, there's something. I'm just trying to explain to you why, if you actually know how people are, you'll realize that everyone's not—because of them. Everyone realizes that this whole thing is very funny.
Instructor: And therefore, any guy that teaches to normal guys—like, take any example, any teacher that teaches to the *frum* [religiously observant] people—he's doing the same exact thing that you're planning to do to OTDs [Off The Derech: people who left Orthodox Judaism]. The only difference is that these people are a little more emotionally healthy, and it's easier to talk to them. The OTDs usually were molested or whatever, and now—*takeh* [indeed], I think they weren't, and it breaks you as a person. You're messed up, and you got divorced, and you have the kids here, living in the—automatically, it's very hard to get anything working in that situation.
Student: I just want to—I just want to say something. Like, I don't think it has to—the *mashal* [parable/analogy] has to be the red light versus—even within mitzvos, the guy that got the *gartel* [ceremonial belt worn during prayer] never gives you the money. It's true also.
Instructor: It's true! I've had—any mitzvah that you do with a *gartel* is fake. The mitzvos that you do without a *gartel*, that's the ones that are real mitzvos, right? Like building a sukkah [temporary dwelling for the holiday of Sukkot]. You're talking about the sukkah. You know, the people that when you see a picture of the rebbe building a sukkah with his *gartel*—you know he didn't build a sukkah, all right? It's all good. That's a *pisode* [episode]. We live on the top, whatever. You can build this thing.
Student: I think who is building—the man who is actually making the matzahs, the guy with the t-shirt. The guy with the *gartel*, I don't know what he's doing there, but not as—
Instructor: Back to this, that makes it—he's doing this *matzah* and was *al pi* [according to]—he's presenting his *matzah* and was *al pi* the *shef* [chef]. *Shemidt*, what? Yeah, make this *lishmah* [for the sake of the commandment]. *B'kavanas* [with intention]—nobody knows how it is, so we know that we have to *exis* [exist], right? Okay, that all that means—you already know my *hesber* [explanation/understanding] on this *matzah*. Okay, all it means is that it was baked for—because the people that wrote that were the same, because—okay, now it doesn't really start. So the *hepech* [opposite] is in the problem that won't hurt. It's for your caution.
Student: But another thing, another way to say this would be that there's a real—this is a real problem now. But even if we say this, that it's—then it's still true that once you realize, the answer becomes very hard to explain. Explain even how the answer answers the question, or how we get from here to there. It's very hard.
Instructor: I don't know. I don't know. It's hard. I don't know the answer. I don't know the answer, because I could give you this version of a stand-up comedy, and I could give you what we usually do. It's very hard for me to give you the thing in between. How do we give it? How do we start from the standpoint that the guy explaining to you that this *milah* [circumcision] that makes no sense is right, but you should make up this *milah*? Not because, right? How do you get from one—like, how do you bridge those things, right? It's the hardest. It's a very fine—how could you, how could there be a conversation which starts from a very—what I'm calling normal person perspective? It's like, ah, cutting off the piece from the—hello, are we in the prehistory still? What is going on with you guys, right?
Instructor: The only people that say that—you know who likes to say this, guys? The Lubavitchers [Chabad Hasidim]. Lubavitchers all explain how it makes no sense. You go to Lubavitch for *bris* [circumcision ceremony], and it's not a man, it's not a man, it's not a man, whatever. And then you put it in the ground in a cup with earth. If you would tell—if I would tell you what we do about like a tribe in Papua New Guinea, you would say, like, *nebuch* [pitiful/unfortunate]. Right?
So we could start from that standpoint. And then, I think that it's true. But I'm saying that in between then, there's an explanation that says that *bris milah* [circumcial covenant] is—I don't know, how would we say it? It's truly the thing that makes you close to Hashem, and so on. And that's true in the same way that's true. Without—you saw that I just switched tones, right? Because when I give you a *shiur* [lecture] on *bris milah*, there's three times *bris milah*, and I can explain to you how it makes sense, and then I explain how it makes sense, and so on. And now suddenly I'm speaking in this tone of voice.
So how do we bring from like, okay, so this is *tziruf* [combination/formation]? *Framen* [frame it]? And *shoin* [already/enough], we get it. No problem. I get it. No, I still think it makes no sense. What? Both about you, that about a *reider* [speaker/orator]? Yeah, yeah. But how do you explain, how do you talk about it? Could you talk about it? Could I give it to you in the same minute? You give us one, two minutes, we'll give you the world, all the way from OTD to over the *derech* [path/way].
Student: No, but I think that the biggest—to me, at least, the biggest, or the easiest way to approach it is by explaining to people that their lack of choice is also a choice in some sense. Or at least what they imagine as a default lifestyle is equally questionable as the one that they love.
Instructor: Okay, we could do that. But is that even—like, let's—I would—I can do this. And by the way, could we do that? Could we do like, okay, so the tribal people over there are—or what do you really think they are? They're basically animals. Like, you're racist. You're worse than I thought. You're not a racist. The big problem with Judaism is that they're racist. But your whole real problem with Judaism is based on racism.
You could play these games, right? No, no, no, but I need to say, let's say, right, so someone decides, okay, you know, this program, this 600,000 story [the traditional account of 600,000 Israelites at Mount Sinai], doesn't really track. Whoa, so, okay, so now what, right? So now you say, I'm gonna be an *amalgamator* [one who amalgamates/combines]. Who's an *amalgamator* to you? Mr. Doomscroller, right? Or whatever other ethical life that exists. Mr. Stock Trader who works 19 hours a day and thinks that that's a life.
Student: Yeah, but that's not answering our *mishigasana* [craziness]. It's more of like a negative response. No, no, no. It's more of like a question of like, okay, so you figured out that this slide doesn't make sense. It's not an answer to anything. Yeah. Wait a second. This alternative answers one question and opens up a hundred that are settled or at least have a way to start settling them.
Instructor: So the one question somehow, you found a pimple on your hand, and so you decided that the solution is to take a handle, right? But, uh-oh, it looks like you need a hand for some other things, right?
Student: No, no, I don't think, let's say he didn't decide on anything, let's say he's really just thinking about that.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, he's thinking about it, for sure, I'm just saying. He's going to still not let his kid. I'm suspicious of, like, I'm going to be still. Oh, wait, but let's understand my problem. I'm suspicious of people who all of a sudden, like...
Instructor: Very good, but let me repeat my problem. My problem is that I think that the correct—what I do, right? This is what I actually do in my *shiur* [Torah class]: what I do is that I study what the Zohar says about *bris milah* [covenant of circumcision] and I give you a *mahalach* [interpretive approach/method] to explain what is that the Zohar could mean about *bris milah*, try to make sense of it or try to give you the story of it, whatever it is, right? That's what I do, right? *Muskin* [concepts/ideas] things like that, that's what I do. In other words, but I think that it makes just as much sense as your question of that—that it's crazy. But what I'm not sure is that I could give you the story that leads from one to the other, because I could do all these things that you're discussing, like yeah, your question—could you actually prove this question? Could you have a better idea? All kinds of things like that.
And by the way, what's wrong with being tribal and pagan, man?
Student: Oh, because it says in the *Shulchan Aruch* [Code of Jewish Law] you can't be *oved avodah zarah* [worship idolatry].
Instructor: We're getting a loop, right? So why are we saying all these funny things? Why can't you say, okay, delete *milah* [circumcision] and Judaism is beautiful—you filter fish and *alles* [everything] is beautiful. Delete *milah*, the famous—that's it. *Gefilte* fish is much worse than *bris milah*, by the way. At least *milah* has meaning. Delete, continue eating fish and keeping Shabbos and everything that makes you happy about Judaism. *Milah* makes a baby cry, stop it.
I don't know, you understand what I'm asking? That's a specific question.
Student: That wasn't my question. That's not the question that I had though.
Instructor: Create a system, such a *cheder* [Jewish elementary school] system. Not to say it's a cop-out to say that's not the point. It's not—I'm not trying to have a discussion. *Alles iz a moshel* [everything is a parable/metaphor]. *Alles iz a moshel*. All I'm trying to say is that I am asking with you. I am asking with you. I am asking with you. That's why I'm not—it's not correct. It would be like nice apologetic. You're saying who forced—let's stop it, no problem, that's also—but he's saying that's also a choice.
But what I'm trying to—my problem is not that. My problem is something else. My problem is that I do think that there's a meaning, a reason, a *sechel* [logic/intellect], a truth in discussing this *sugya* [topic/subject] of *bris milah* from the Zohar *haKadosh* [the holy Zohar]. There really is. And all that is, what I believe is that all that is, is like a higher level discussion of your question. Meaning to say, this is the problem.
Instructor: I'm going to give you a *shtickle* [little piece of] theory. Let me give you a *shtickle* theory. Which maybe, I don't mean to give a theory, I mean to try to enlighten what the problem is. I have a theory like this. How do—well, gosh, I shouldn't make everything more complicated than that.
My theory is like this: All human achievements, all human discussions, all human discourses, all human technology even are based, *gag-gag-gag* [layer upon layer upon layer], right? Based one level on the other level, okay?
If you have a computer and you talk to AI and it answers you, at the base level there's only bits flipping with logic gates, and that is 17,000—I don't even know how many levels away from your discussion with the chat, right? If you don't know anything about how it works, it should be obvious to you even in the—only in the network layer, just seven supposed layers officially, and there's really even more, okay? And that's only one little part of what's going on, okay?
Now we can intelligently talk about the last layer and what the technologists call "black box," right? Or abstract away all the complication behind that, all the dirt under it. We don't care. Now if bits are really true or if the logic gates or if the machine code that's running on top of that is running some higher level code on even higher level and so on—we don't care about all of that. All we care about is this very abstracted conversation, which is what I'm actually doing, okay? That's how it is in order to—that doesn't mean that I can get there here, right?
If I go—you understand what I'm saying? All human achievements, even technology and language and thought and culture, all work the same way. They're all built up one on top of the other. And so we could have an intelligent conversation about the top layer or the interface that I even—not even the layer, maybe only about the interface, how I'm interfacing with some other thing that is built for that while ignoring the rest.
On the other hand, I cannot get from there to there, right? In other words, if you drop me on a desert island and I'm like, "I know all about computers. I sit at that computer all day. It should be simple to create a computer." Chat, build a computer. Chat can give you instructions to build a computer if you already have a computer with a server farm somewhere in Arizona to give you that thing, right? But if you're on a desert island, there's no chat, can't be computer, right? Then you're back at base reality.
And then you've got to dig in the island to find silicon. Oh my God, you need so much more than that, right? You need:
- Aristotle to discover logic first, you realize, right?
- And you need some medieval weirdo to classify all kinds of logic, like what is an "and," an "or," an "x-or"
- All these things are basically math and logic
- And you need some other weird later people to formalize it into symbols
- And then some guy to decide that we could make these symbols material in computers
- And so on and so on
I'm just telling you some of the steps that I know about, okay? Which means that if someone is going to put himself in the situation of the desert island, what if you work ahead, you should start somewhere else, right?
Student: And yeah, exactly, maybe basically you're starting their own place.
Instructor: And I can't even give you a coherent story of how you get to what we read—histories of computing, they can give you like very top level overview of how it happened, but I definitely can't create it for you, right?
Now, in a similar way, cultures and even worldviews—not only cultures, even like the ideologies of those cultures—work in a similar way. They might have started, they obviously must have started on a desert island somewhere, or however you think humanity started. Maybe it started with God giving *Adam* the *Torah* and all the knowledge that gave you a head start. Okay. But at the same time, he must have given them also how *chochmah* [wisdom] works. And it still took us time to figure it out, right? So it doesn't happen.
In any case, and then slowly we built up all these things, and there's some artifacts of the lower level leaking through. There's all kinds of funny things going on. I think that the idea of having a *Maariv* [evening prayer service] search is like a very weird thing for people.
Student: Wait a second, you actually have to have...
Instructor: Yeah, like this guy that makes the machine.
Student: Yeah, you need a GPU.
Instructor: So, and now, let's just be clear, when people go through this kind of stages that we discussed, they're doing it in a very certain way, right? You're like, "This whole thing is nonsense." From an outside view, it makes no sense. You can't talk to a piece of glass and get answers, right? You could, but it doesn't explain itself. It's nuts. What explains it is something very long.
So then you go like, "Well, this is nonsense, break my computer, I'm going to call *Maalik Bidiman* [burn the leaven] and put a hammer on my iPhone," because iPhones are *treif* [non-kosher], and smash it in the *chametz* [leavened bread] fire, and then after Pesach you realize, "Wait, turns out it did solve some problems."
And you might even, like somehow, in your specific situation, go through some of the phases where you realize that computers are helpful. Like, you know, "I've got to, I want to get water from the well and therefore I need to build a wheelbarrow and I know already about wheels. We discussed that once. And now I need to know how big the wheel should be for my needs. It's too big. Obviously the biggest is the best but no, it's not, because then I will just have a wheel to *schlep* [drag/carry] and I'm going to *schlep* the weight of the wheel and I can have water through from the water. So how am I going to figure this out? Wait, I need something called calculation?"
Calculation, major invention. We could calculate that. And computers could help me with that. I'm like, "Wait, the guy that gave me a calculator wasn't just a weird shaman playing with numbers. That's actually the kind of thing that told me how big to make my wheelbarrow. Wow."
So things like that happen. This is emotional. Things like that happen to people in that kind of process. They're like, "Wait, this *bris milah* actually, wait, oh, I could talk about the *bris milah*. I could talk about the *bris milah*."
Instructor: I could talk about the *bris milah*, I think, like you said, okay, let's go back naked to the Garden of Eden and let's see what do people do. Oh, they have children. Oh wait, I have certain ideas in my head that I want to teach my children. How am I going to do that? This is not a *drash* [homiletical interpretation] from *bris milah*. This is you have to really imagine yourself doing this. Like what am I going to do?
"I know, you probably know, I'm going to write a book," right? I have news for you. I have a bunch of books. My kids don't read any of them. I wrote even more. I wrote like 10 million words in my life or something like that. None of my kids read them. That's not the way. Even if it is the way—
I know, you probably know that I'm going to write a book, right? I have this for you, I have a bunch of books, my kids don't read any of them. I wrote even more, I wrote like 10 million words in my life or something like that, but none of my kids read them. That's not the way. Or even if it is the way, that's not only the way, doesn't work, you try it out. Many professors have written fat books and their kids don't even know the names of them. You try it out, might take you a very long time.
So then you're like, I have to figure something out. You actually might take a knife and make a cut on your kid's ear because that's what they would have thought. Maybe we should make a cut on your ear. Like, yeah, I'm the father of the weirdo that cut his kid's ear. Then you might actually look at a newborn baby and see, wait, his penis has this extra piece of skin that doesn't seem to do anything. Might as well cut that one.
This is not what it's made of. I don't know. I just gave you a theory. Well, I'm trying to show you. And then you're like okay I just made you a very long story that you should realize I'm just here to solve a certain problem. This is one of the theories, it might be other theories, but I think it's the most reasonable one.
And it's the basic creating a culture, which is like a basic human problem. It's very hard actually. It's not actually a simple thing. People—I know a bunch of people in California that tried to do it in the last few of the years, they all failed to create a culture, counterculture. Like basically all of them failed. None of their—they don't have—they don't have grandchildren [*einiklach*], or if they do, they're in a third version of the cult, different one. Like it's actually a very hard problem.
You said this a few years ago that you're talking about putting up a sign for you on Pesach that remember—remember that's right? Yeah, let's say like 24 degrees away, away from what you're trying to probably deserve. Go try to get rid of that, don't use it. 25 degrees away. It makes sense, it makes sense what you're saying.
But in any case, what I'm trying to show you is this is me trying to give you this whole theory to get you to see that it's really to—because culture, now at some point after I could go through all of that until I get to the side, I will take you—me, I don't have a ready yet right now, but we could sort of do that. What? Yeah, we could go through the whole all the levels of technology or of discourse or of thought, and we could see how it's really only that.
Now, but this is what actually happens to people, and actually everyone should like take apart one thing in their life and put it back together like Descartes said, and see how it happened. That was Descartes' meditation. It's not a bad practice, although he did it in a weird way. It's not a bad practice. You have to do that.
And then you're like, wait. And then usually what happens, what people end up is regaining their faith, right? Their—and their really faith, like their what I call the *emunos chachamim* [faith in the sages]. Like, wait, this thing of having a culture with all kinds of seemingly arbitrary rules and ideas. I'm not sure that I could actually create something better than that. Or if I could, it would be like one more fix. Like, make one more *takkanah* [rabbinic enactment]. Okay, thank you very much. That's what all the *Rabbonim* [rabbis] have been doing forever. Adding one more *takkanah* to the Torah. Or taking off one more thing. Or changing one thing. You're basically in the same place as everyone else. You have a better idea.
You want to take a witness meal? No problem. What did the *Rabbonim* do? Did you put *pe'ah* [corner of the field left for the poor] in the end of your field this week? This harvest? Yeah, *pe'ah*, *mitzvah* [commandment] in the Torah. It says three or four times in the Torah. Do you make it? Do you know that we don't do it anymore? We cancel the *mitzvah*. It doesn't work. It doesn't work. We've been doing this forever. No problem. You think it doesn't work? You have to do the work. Don't just say it doesn't work. No problem. We'll stop it. Let's make *mitzitzah* [circumcision]. We'll try. Start there. I'm just saying, this is—there's not—basically, basically you'll get to that.
Now could I go through all of this all the time? No. It's as silly as going through the whole—the whole from sand all the way to *challah* [braided bread] every time. But my whole story that I gave you now—but it's me, let's tell my story just made up, right? Don't believe it. Wait.
What I'm trying to tell you is, the problem with this is that it's somewhat of a waste of time. Meaning to say, not a waste of time. Firstly, you could do it a little bit, but there's something—even what I did now is not enough, right? Because I don't really want to be stuck at this level of explaining *bris milah* [circumcision] that I told you. In other words, I think it's not enough, I think it's wrong. It continues beyond that. And I usually start from somewhere later.
And that's just like when I write code. I don't—now they said just ask the chat to do it because why would I be stupid, so stupid to write it myself? Or even before that, I write Python. I don't write—I don't even write C because who has time for that? I could tell the computer what to do. Why would I have to like—who cares how to—how it works? Someone else—that someone else's job, right? I mean if I don't trust the guy, I've had a better way. There's always like—like when you figure out I can't have—oh wait, I have to dig down to a lower layer to figure something out. No problem, I will do that.
Out if someone came to a school to know the process and if you don't give them the process then they feel like hey what's going on here, right? I get so therefore—so therefore we should make a school? No, well that's cool.
Therefore what I'm trying to describe is that it becomes very hard and like you want me to waste my time to go through all the funny mistakes that everyone has all the time and like keep on discussing them? And just to be clear, it's not even true. Like to go back to my computer example, we could have invented computers that work differently and they might have ended up better. I don't know. There were some arbitrary choices made upon the way, called path dependence. Now we're stuck in a certain way of things working because of some choices made during the way, maybe even made some astrology, I don't even know. Okay?
And now you come to me and I tell you why is my computer working this way and I tell you because of astrology and you're like that's nuts, let's make a better one. And it's like, yeah, try. Not worth the effort. I can't answer all these questions at some point. The fact that the reality and culture and everything is built up level upon level—yeah, it's true, very good. But is not all—doesn't—there's no proof at each level. There is a story, that's what I think. If you go through the story, and that's why I did what I really think is that if you go back to my story which is not so much of a *mashal* [parable], it's an *inyan* [matter] of the guy that's OTD [off the derech/path] and trust of those people.
He realizes is that all those people that are OTD, they just need to grow up. A story has to happen to them. What I mean is you can't—I don't think you could—that's the truth. I don't think you could go to the guy that's at this like stage that's so to speak of like ah there's—there's a—there's no God. No, oh, thank you very much. And you know that my rabbi didn't have a good proof. His proof was silly. Rabbi Elchonon Wasserman told us that no smart person denies God. That's like just wrong.
So now what do I do? I can't actually tell this guy to believe in God, even if I have a solution, even if I have this so-called answer. I don't think I could. If I—like some—when the fact that you sitting here and you're so happy with my [teaching] is because you already passed that six years ago or whatever.
Could you convince him that there are substances in the world? For sure, even less, even less so, even less so. Is there a human? Can you convince him that there's a human in the world? Probably not, right? I can't even get him to see that problem. It's probably easier to get started. How do I even get to see this problem, though? To me, it's more—
Other things? No, some people don't understand the magnitude of the problem, the problems that cultures hope to solve, right?
So I can explain to him every single detail that the culture hopes to solve, right? I could say, look, you know, I could do the *bris milah*. I only need to do one or two *bris milah* stories like that. I don't think it's that many. Like, is it that many more? You have to simulate that once. I don't think, honestly, if I—just to be clear, me, the thought OTD, listening to this *derusha* [sermon/lecture] that you were very impressed with for some reason about *bris milah* would like, thank you very much for your next thirtieth apologetics that I heard. It doesn't talk, it doesn't tell you anything. It only means something to you if you actually try to do things like this.
No, but let me give a—like, just a—you have to do it. No, just to illustrate it for a second.
If you go over to someone, and I think this is an experiment that I found at least somewhat telling, you go to someone, okay, a person decides to live an alternative lifestyle, okay, so you decided, you know, and this is my joke, 2025 secularism must be the best option, you know, for all possible worlds, okay?
Do you think there's any—like, do you think there's any issues with 2025 secularism if you're an alien coming from Mars just for two seconds? Well, you have people looking at a glass box all day. Okay, are they like solving the world's problems in the glass box? No, they're mostly actually watching people for 10 seconds at a time, eat a piece of food. Or play a game. Or play a game that you're not playing.
Okay, interesting. How much time do people dedicate to this? Well, it looks like people are dedicating around six and a half hours a day these days to watching other people do small incremental tasks. Okay, do you think something might have gone wrong? Possibly. In the human condition, do you think something might have been slightly averse. Or is this ideal? Meaning, were we hoping to get here? Were we hoping to get to a place where we look at a glass box and watch 10 seconds at a time? Was that like the end goal?
Because if you ask people, that's their default. They crash on the couch. Finally, I don't have work. I have enough money in the bank. Finally, I get to look at the glass box and watch people with 10 seconds at a time. That's most people's definition of leisure. I just need to relax. Something might have gone wrong. Now, at least let's get curious about it for two seconds. Maybe there's a different way to live your life.
But do you think, who are we going to give this *derusha* to? I don't think you can give it to OTD guys. In other words, I think you can only give this *derusha* to—you know the *mashal* of Reb Yisrael Salanter? No, first you have to be stable, I'm serious.
Reb Yisrael Salanter was his whole life trying to solve Judaism's problems, you know that? It's beautiful, he has many different plans. He was the first *ba'al machshava* [master of Jewish thought] of programs. And then, he was a real modern guy.
Instructor: Maybe there's a different way to live your life? But do you think, who are we going to give this *drosha* [discourse/teaching] to? I don't think you can give it to OTD [Off the Derech: those who have left Orthodox observance] guys. In other words, I keep thinking you can only give this *drosha* to... You know the *mashal* [parable] of Rabbi Yisrael Salanter? No, first you have to be stable, I'm serious.
Rabbi Yisrael Salanter was his whole life trying to solve Judaism's problems, you know that? He had many different plans. He was the first *baal habayis* [layperson] program. And then, he was a real modern guy, like a real modern, modern job. You know about the learning material in the workplace? He was the first one. Yeah, he had programs for everything and solutions and he was going to do all these social engineering projects and so on.
And then, at some point, he got into a fight with too many people and he had a kid in Paris, I think, and his son was a doctor, Lipkin, was a mathematician or something. And first he went to Germany or wherever and he said, and they gave up on the *frum* [religiously observant] guys. He's going to work on the totally *frei* [secular/non-observant] guys maybe. And he said, the *mashal* is, when there's a horse that you know, it's a runaway horse running down a hill, you don't stop it in the middle of the hill. You jump to the end, and then after it fell you fix it, or you stop it over there, things like that. He said these *frum* guys, they're in the middle of like, there's nothing to do. I'm going to talk to the guys that already fell down. They're looking for a way, maybe we'll work with them. I don't think that works out either for him, but that's different stuff. You seem to have been more set up. I think you've been living in Germany for a while. But this, no, but in other words, when someone is in this like stage we're like, I have to question everything.
Wait, my rabbi told me that a smartphone is *treif* [non-kosher/forbidden], but it seems to be kind of fun. What am I going to tell him? Well, there isn't, there's not a way to answer that question. Is there some way of saying, basically they're just being destructive? They're not actually being like creative.
Student: I guess it's, it's a, it's, it's either destroying fake things. They're not wrong. They're strong, but they're just destroying.
Instructor: Yeah, so you need to destroy like, they're just destroying. It's very hard to work.
I'll give you a different way of saying this. Human beings live in time. Things take time. Time is not the time that it takes to read an argument in a chapter of a book. If me or someone will write like a book with like, give you the whole story and like a proof for every step, it might take you five hours to read that book. But to do it would take a lifetime. And there isn't a way, there isn't a way to shorten that. It takes time to understand things.
To have the question, like, like, let's say like this, let's say this. I'm *posek* [halachic decisor] to these, because all these are just like, it's a long sheet, right? If I give a very long sheet, I have this *kasha* [question], this *meil* [topic], I give you the whole sheet in 45 minutes, right? But that's not a real way to have a *kasha*. In 20 minutes and then you're already happy? Seriously, you gotta have it for two years.
The OTD guy is, he's just learning a very long *shtikel Torah* [piece of Torah learning]. He's like, he's having this guy, he's asking a *kasha* and learning. I'm serious. No, I think he has an answer for a very long time. It's the same thing. He's having a *kasha*, and now, slowly, then he's going to have a *teretz* [answer], or he'll have a better *kasha*, I don't know. There's not, there's nothing wrong with that.
Why can't I give a *shiur* [class/lecture] *b'ketzara* [in brief]? Like the Kotzker [Rebbe] said, the *melech* [king, referring to Dovid HaMelech] wrote to him in 70 years, not in an hour. You could read it in an hour, but you can't make it in an hour, and we're all about making it, doing it. You have to spend a few years asking a *kasha*.
All I can think of, the only part that I want to say on the side today is the real problem. So that's what I think in my theory of experience is, which is very nothing, like I'm five seconds old, is that it's just that you can't talk with people in that kind of way.
What you want, what you are trying to do, and maybe you can do it, you people can do it, is that firstly you could be there at the end of the, at the end of the thing. Like you know something, go, go to all the things. When you're done, come back. People have said, people say that even, you don't have to say it, you just beat it. That's one thing.
And then like, something like, well will that guy trust me that I really am just as *apikoros* [heretic] as him? No, he will not trust me. Why should he trust me? I'm wearing a white shirt. I don't even believe in the white shirt. Even if I believe in God, definitely don't believe in the white shirt, but I'm wearing it. So I'm just a bluff, a low-life. Why would you talk to me? He's right.
And what are you gonna tell him? You want me to have credibility as being enough OTD and enough smart and enough for him? How is this supposed to work? It's not possible. You could just be there.
I think that the main thing that I think of it, that's what my vote on the title is, is that one reason that why this disconnect happens sometimes is because people are about *gaavah* [pride]. Like me, like, you're like, wait, nobody wants to be the OTD guy because OTD is just a name for loser, right? In here, maybe if you go to somewhere else where OTD is the winner, I don't even know there's such a place, but right here just the name for loser.
So, and you also don't want to be the previous loser. You don't want to say that I was a loser. That's also not good. So let's say you figure out some reason why not to be OTD, then you pretend it never happened. You start speaking a foreign language.
That's why every year we make a Seder. This is what happened to the Jewish people. First we were in *Mitzrayim* [Egypt]. We understood the real world, the so-called real world, with all the... And then we realized that there's 613 *mitzvos* [commandments]. We worked on it for a few thousand years. We finally got here to the stage where we could learn Reb Chaim [Brisker] all day in Lakewood.
And we don't really want to talk about the fact that basically we think that Terach [Avraham's idolatrous father] had a point. That's where we're coming from. That's *kaveyachol* [so to speak]. Says the Holy Rambam [Maimonides]. That's why once a year we eat *matzah* [unleavened bread]. What's *matzah*? *Matzah shebecha* [bread of poverty], *matzah*. Like before we invented bread, we ate *matzah*. When you're poor, you don't have money, you eat *matzah*. But that's not good.
You have to appreciate it. You have to have a *hakoras hatov* [gratitude], which means you have to be less full of yourself. So you have to, once a year you have to eat *matzah* to show like, you think you're such a *chacham* [wise person]? You're just as stupid as everyone else.
That's why we ask four *kashas* [questions]. And that's why I give this whole sheet explaining how Terach is *mamash* [literally] right, not even right, like, to only normal people. Because otherwise we forget. Otherwise we become this *shaneid* [arrogant person]. Like you know what's a *shaneid*? When you become 60, you forgive yourself. You're a *chatez neidim* [sinner in your youth], and then you, I remember what you did in your youth.
So the whole *mitzvah* [commandment] of Pesach is to not be that guy. Yeah, I have four *kashas*, I have no idea. We even understand, we basically are this. It's amazing.
I've said this many times. When the *chachamim* [sages], when the *medrash* [Midrash] says they mention it, it doesn't say in the Pesach that it's a such a nice *posuk* [verse]. And the *chachamim* were like, wait, I could read it without the answer. It's a better question than the answer, right? What in the world are we doing? Oh, what does that mean, right?
We don't have a *teretz* for the *rasha* [wicked son]. We'll have a *teretz* for the *rasha*, maybe. And that's why every year in Pesach we say the *rasha*, we don't have a *teretz* for, I guess you know, we have... And we have a whole night of being *apikorsim* [heretics].
Student: So other than the, I think that's a night of *apikorsus*, because you can't be a *ma'amin* [believer] if you're never *apikoros*.
Instructor: Oh, very good, that's a *teretz*. It's like, okay, we're here. That's very *teretz*. I don't know if that's a *teretz*.
Student: Yeah, I don't like that. It's laziness, like, I don't want to change my...
Instructor: No, no, I think it's a call to look deeper.
Student: Yeah, yeah, very good. The *kasha* is best with the *teretz*.
Instructor: 100%. I don't think the goal is to... The goal is just not to get false complacency. That's the *mashal*.
So the *mashal*, how do we make this message bigger? By calling the *frum* guys. Because they have hope. Stop this because they might realize what that would pick up a course they really are, and they're normal enough that we could teach them something.
The people that are right, I give them once, I give them once a year a sheet to explain them that I'm even more *frei* than them. They're *shvach* [weak] *apikorsim* because they believe that racism is the biggest sin to be invented since ever, and they're so weird. They're believing something that was invented five minutes ago, this sin. Anyways, you should believe in it, but like why? And so on.
And maybe they'll give some credibility, but I don't think you could actually solve the problem. At least I don't see how.
But I think, so I think you're being meaner to a *frum* person than the *frei* person. Because the fact that you're not right in this world, whatever you're going to say, not really bad for this world, but not in a mean way. In other words, it doesn't come home like, oh my gosh, what did he just say? I have to become *frum* again.
Okay, okay. He says that he's eating fish and not chocolate. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? So he's doing that and he's married and he's kids and he's ready to talk to them and the wife is always out there. You know what I'm saying? She looks like, and all of a sudden you're like something, he makes a mistake, but that's it. He's like, whoa. And if you really give it to explain to him, right, you're like, he literally, you just tortured his life.
That's why we don't do that. Only on YouTube.
Student: I'm saying, but if you want that... Maybe we shouldn't put the *shiur* call allusion.
Instructor: No, you're saying we should get *frum* people here, right? I don't do that. That's what you're talking about. If you're going to explain it to me very slowly like this...
Student: Very slowly.
Instructor: We can do whatever you want. I don't do that. I don't usually do this *tzu* [to] *shiur*. I don't say this *shiur*. This *shiur* is for the OTD. Like us.
Student: I think this layer four... We went through person types one through three. Who's the fourth guy?
Instructor: There are four and five that are like... That are... No, they're actually... Like, beyond all of this?
Student: No, yeah, they, like, came to the realization that, first of all, actually, besides for the Judaism questions, which is, like, I'd say, interest level two, like, there's interest level one problems.
Instructor: Ah, like how to support yourself?
Student: No, no, no, no, no, no, we don't actually understand how language works.
Instructor: That's true. Right? I think that there's enough people out there that are, during the right moment... But you realize, what you're saying is something that I don't know how to do at all. In other words, you realize, I mean, I do it, but you realize that if there's a hook—
Like, what are the posts that I write that get a lot of views? When it's starting off with this silly rational Judaism problems. Like, "Ah, do you know that I could actually..." And then if I actually ever make a point, nobody likes that.
Like, did you think that, yeah, you're all very smart, you think that Artscroll biographies are fake, but do you know that there's a way in which they're more true than your critical biographies? People open the post because it says something about Artscroll, and then they read it and they don't even realize that there's an argument.
Maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong. Nobody even... It's actually not possible to get people to there. Like, who can you talk to?
There are people that are philosophically inclined. They want to know what things are. Okay. You know who those people are in the Jewish world? The *mekubalim* [Kabbalists/those studying Kabbalah]. The *yeshiva bochurim* [yeshiva students] going to *mekubalim* classes. Those are the ones.
Not the OTD [Off the Derech: those who have left Orthodox observance] guys. They don't care usually about what things are. Some of them do. It just happens to be. Not as... You understand?
The *kochav* [star/point], like, was the, is *Ma'aseh Bereishis* [the Account of Creation] *kipshuto* [according to its plain meaning] or not? I don't know any way of that leading to a real interest in what the world is. It could lead, I guess, that *Ma'aseh Bereishis* is about what the world is. It makes sense that it should, right? Eventually, why do we have *Ma'aseh Bereishis*? Because people were trying to figure out what the world is. That's sort of doubting.
Student: I think that that process happens for more people than you might be giving credit for. Look, basically, that was sort of my, you know, you move from theology to philosophy eventually. You have to.
Instructor: But does that, is that the same thing or is it the other way around? Like maybe the person that wants to know what things are, and it starts with that, and then he's told, well, things are *luchos* [the Tablets]. That's what things, that's the thing, the *zach* [the thing/essence].
And he's like, then he starts wondering about that, and then he gets sidetracked by all these questions. Wait, were the *luchos* made out of sapphire? Wait, does that even make sense? There's not such big sapph... Wait, and if you... Whatever, all these... I don't know.
And then you get sidetracked and then you get stuck and then you finally find some way to get back to what you really wanted and find out. I think that that's a reasonable account of some people. It's like history, really. It's versus...
But many people seem to be interested actually in if the *luchos* were really of sapphire.
Student: Stuck is crazy.
Instructor: I know, I understand why because the funny people talking about the *Nezer HaKodesh* [a reference to a specific Torah commentary] told them that but they don't hear it even those people are better because they care about it in the real way they care about the *luchos* not because they were sapphire but because they have some truth in them but that's it.
*Bekitzur* [in short], *she'alos b'tzad* [questions aside], we're doing well. *Nirtzeh* [that's it/we're done].
Well, you can close my thing. Thank you.
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Human beings are the kind of things that *learn*. The successful ones achieve breakthroughs—some understanding of how things are, how they should be, and what they mean. Through this process, they *grow*.
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When a person grows, they *pass through* the things that originally drove their inquiry. This is like digging through a tunnel—pushing dirt, placing beams, making bricks from mud—bootstrapping forward step by step. Eventually, you break through into "the palace." Once you arrive, you no longer care about the dirt. The mud, the tunnel mechanics—these were just the process. The person who has arrived doesn't want to hear about mud ever again. The questions that once consumed your entire world now look trivial from the vantage point of having broken through.
Someone raised in Chabad Hasidism agonizes over whether "the Rebbe" in Hasidic texts literally means the Rebbe or something else, whether this is heresy, etc. This feels like the biggest drama of their life. But if they eventually break through, they realize: there are 7 billion people, real issues in the world, and this entire debate wasn't even a good question—"just such a mess." The earlier questions weren't merely answered; they were *transcended*.
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The claim that humans are "the kind of things that learn" is a *chiddush* (novel claim) you have to *believe in*—it's not always observable. By observation (e.g., reading the news), humans are "the kind of things that find more new ways to be crazy every day." They don't get better. They don't learn. Only *a few* human beings actually learn.
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The Gemara's metaphor: a worm living inside a grain of wheat thinks it's having a good life—it doesn't know it's trapped inside a grain. (Referenced in connection with Nebuchadnezzar.) These people—the comfortably stuck—*think they are the good people*, and many of us believe that about them too. Stop believing that. They're not the good people. They're just worms in the grain.
A certain type in Lakewood: goes to mikveh on time, catches the first minyan, everything is orderly and settled. You can't even say "nebach" (pity) because the person is happy. Rebbe Nachman's blessing to a chassid applies: "I like you very much—my bracha is that 10,000 years from now you'll understand my jokes." Maybe after death, Gan Eden, and a better reincarnation, they'll begin to understand.
The second type is the person who learns Gemara, heard it's supposed to be brilliant, but finds it makes no sense—and asks "what's going on?" This is also the person who says:
- Nobody knows if there's a God.
- If there's a God, nobody knows if He gave the Torah.
- Bible critics say there were four authors of the Torah, not one Moses.
- The world is very old. There are dinosaurs.
These are "the dirt"—the material you push through on the way to the palace. They feel enormous when you're in the tunnel, but from the perspective of someone who has broken through, they sound like "should we paint the world white or gray?"
Those who deny dinosaurs exist because their rabbi said so are simply not in the conversation at all ("b'chhlal not")—not even the type-two questioner, just entirely outside the framework of learning.
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The conventional Orthodox articulation of *tachlis habria* (the purpose of creation) is not merely wrong but absurd on its face:
- The claim that God created a universe 13–15 billion years old, with 8 billion people, dinosaurs, etc., so that a small number of men in Lakewood should study Akiva Eiger or learn Rashi—this is self-evidently laughable.
- This isn't a *kasha* (a question/difficulty) on the system—it's a *tzhok shebetzhok* (a joke within a joke), meaning it doesn't even rise to the level of deserving serious critique.
- "Wrong would be a compliment"—wrong implies there's a point that's partially off; this doesn't even have a point. It's comparable to psychosis or schizophrenia.
A brief humorous riff on the uncertainty of global population numbers—African census data being unreliable, Paul Ehrlich's population predictions—framed as a new conspiracy theory.
The absurdity extends to extreme *chumros* (stringencies) around matzah and chametz on Pesach—the idea that the entire universe was created so people should obsess over whether their matzah might be too close to chametz. The Zohar teaches that matzah and chametz share the same letters—but the obsessive practice misses the point entirely.
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How do you know the book (Torah) is true? Because 600,000 people witnessed Sinai. How do you know 600,000 people witnessed it? Because the book says so. This is circular reasoning, and adults need to stop repeating it uncritically.
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The rhetoric of Orthodox leadership—calling yeshiva students the *nezer habria* (crown of creation)—is targeted directly:
- A 16-year-old who has read only six pages of Gemara and is learning that *Kiddushin* is a *kinyan ishos* not a *kinyan bo'alus* is told he is the purpose of all creation.
- This extends to the claim that yeshiva students doing "the real thing" should feel proud while soldiers sacrifice their lives to protect them. This is literally what's being taught, and it is obviously insane.
A humorous digression about YouTube asking whether videos are for children, noting that marking them "for children" disables the miniplayer feature—YouTube's way of "protecting children."
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Everything stated so far is *muskam* (agreed upon) by the audience. Anyone who has watched previous content and still thinks the conventional view makes sense needs to "rethink his whole life and his grandfather's life." Rabbi Slifkin and others have been making these critiques for years—their point is acknowledged, but "we figured it out already, we're fourteen."
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The real, new problem is not the absurdity of the traditional worldview (which is settled), but what happens to people who come from that world and realize it's absurd. "Me and you and him... more or less came from there." When people realize the absurdity, "all kinds of interesting things, all kinds of funny things happen." Israeli television series have documented this phenomenon.
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Rabbi Shlomo Kotschinsky was a *yungerman* (young married man) in yeshiva. After Rabin's assassination, he began questioning whether *Yiddishkeit* causes people to murder prime ministers. He traveled through "all the stops" of doubt and questioning, eventually left the Orthodox world to become a professor, and—in an ironic twist—chose to study Litvish Yeshivos academically for his doctorate. This academic study could have been done in the *beis medrash* itself.
Kotschinsky met a Japanese man who had come to Jerusalem to study Jewish wisdom. When Kotschinsky tried to explain the internal distinctions among religious Jews (charedim, datim, etc.), the Japanese man was utterly baffled. From an outside perspective, the fierce internal controversies (white kippah vs. blue kippah, which Rebbe is correct) look as absurd as a remote tribe fighting over how many edges to put on a spear. These disputes are not about reality; they are parochial games mistaken for cosmic significance.
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The first kind of person simply rejects everything out of disillusionment or ignorance—a crude, unreflective apostasy. There is nothing admirable about this stage. While there may be a grain of truth in recognizing problems, it is not something to aspire to. Saying "I wish I didn't know" or "ignorance was better" is compared to wanting to be "buried in the dirt"—choosing a shrine without examining the worm inside.
The second kind of person recognizes that the entire system of elaborate religious practice and disputation is madness ("Sidrei Mishigas") and wants to bypass it for something more direct or authentic.
The third kind of person goes further: the world wasn't created so you should just "learn" (Torah study as an end in itself)—that's obvious. But also, the world wasn't created merely to *attack* the religious people either. Nor is "rationalist Judaism" the answer (described as "even bigger nonsense"). This person says: we need to genuinely figure out what the world was created for. Most people can't actually *live* from this critical conscience alone—you can't sustain a life purely on negation and questioning.
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- Was the Tzimtzum literal or metaphorical?
- Was the Vilna Gaon right or the Baal HaTanya?
- Exactly how many people were at Sinai—600,000 or 500,000?
- Was Ben-Gurion a divine agent or a wicked secularizer?
- The "Jewish problem" / "Yiddish problem"—a genuine historical dilemma: Should Jews maintain separateness when it has led to persecution for 2,000 years? Or find another solution? The greatest minds have wrestled with this for 200 years without resolution.
- Those who reduce this to partisan religious slogans (Satmar vs. Religious Zionist framings) are "arguing which side of dirt to push" while trying to dig through a mountain to reach a palace.
- The apikorsim (heretics/secularists) at least engaged with reality: Marx proposed a solution, others proposed solutions—these were serious attempts at addressing real questions, even if flawed.
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Yes, your Rebbe may have been foolish, the system may be broken—but do you know why you were created? Do you know the meaning of life? This is a genuinely serious, genuinely real question—not a fake theological game. And even without being able to *prove* it rigorously to every atheist, becoming a "yeshiva guy" (dedicating oneself to serious Torah study/thought) is still "a pretty good thing to do with your time."
A student challenges: aren't we asking the same question as the yeshiva boy? The question is the same but the *framing* and *maturity* are different. The language makes it hard to differentiate, but the distinction is real.
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The person at Stage Three faces a social problem: they have no community left. One option for companionship emerges:
Befriend the OTDs (Off the Derech / those who left religion): They seem like normal, grounded people living in the real world, not in "La La Land." The Stage Three person thinks: maybe we can learn from each other, work things out together—since neither believes in the old system, perhaps they can collaboratively figure out how to live meaningfully. Thinking and inquiry become the shared project.
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When you encounter someone who has gone OTD, the honest response isn't to missionize them back but to meet them where they are: "You don't believe in anything? Thank you very much, I don't either." From that shared starting point, thinking, learning, and figuring things out is itself a worthwhile life project.
An anecdote from a friend who initially thought the Kotzker Rebbe was a conventional "frum with chein" figure—emotional, crying about emunah. But then the friend realized: the Rebbe was a bigger apikorus than the OTD people themselves. That's precisely *why* he was crying—because he saw through the conventional pieties and was grappling with the same void. The Rebbe arrived at the crisis point ("all this is not shkaiten") at age 15, whereas the typical OTD person arrives there at 35 after going through the whole departure process.
OTD life offers no substantive intellectual or existential destination:
- OTD memoirs are "not good literature, not good philosophy, not good life"
- Programs like Footsteps give you a certificate, but then what?
- After 10 years of the OTD journey, you face the same question: "Now what do you do with your life?"
Organizations like Hillel screen callers to verify they're genuinely OTD. Since they distribute money for education, frum people could easily game the system by claiming to fit the criteria while remaining observant. This leads to a comic scenario where "all the people getting money are going to be only frum guys."
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A narrative arc of a certain type of rebbe/teacher:
1. He realizes conventional frumkeit is hollow
2. He decides to engage with OTD people, thinking they need his help
3. He discovers they don't need therapy—he needs therapy too
4. His outreach doesn't actually work
5. He decides the good life is still going to shul on Shabbos
6. He goes to shul and finds no OTD people there (because they have "better" places to be on Friday night)
A humorous exchange about whether Breslov music and dancing are better than doom scrolling on Friday night (verdict: yes, marginally). Discussion of whether going to clubs is a real alternative. Reference to a figure (Dovid Grossman) who does outreach in clubs—which is just a way to justify going to clubs yourself. Most people who try to do mitzvah observance outreach in club settings fail.
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The rebbe figure eventually reconsiders: maybe the person giving the drasha about the Nazir (Nazirite) isn't as naive as assumed. Maybe he lacks sophisticated language—hasn't read philosophy or literature—but has arrived at the same existential conclusions through his own idiom. If his name is Soloveitchik, he can articulate it elegantly; otherwise, he "cries and gives drashas" as his best available mode of expression. He's doing what the sophisticated apikorus wanted to do anyway—living meaningfully within the tradition.
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A provocative claim: Yeshiva bochurim are typically "bigger" (more intellectually daring) than OTD people. The reasoning:
- OTD people are *stuck*: they can only entertain questions (*kashas*) that validate the life choices they've already made by leaving
- Yeshiva bochurim have their life choices made for them by the system, so paradoxically they are free to ask any question they want
- They express their doubts in Chassidish coded language: "There's no proof God exists, but we have emunah pshutah" (which is really a sophisticated way of saying "I'm an apikorus")
- Or they say "I don't have chiyus (vitality) in davening"—which is really saying something deeper
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As a young bochur during Chodesh Elul (the month of repentance), the speaker said he didn't want to do teshuvah. A fellow bochur couldn't comprehend this—if you believe in hell for not repenting, why wouldn't you? The speaker was trying to articulate something more fundamental: the entire teshuvah "game" is problematic if you don't actually believe in the reward-and-punishment (schar v'onesh) framework.
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Most frum people, if pressed honestly, don't really believe in the transactional reward/punishment system (compared to arcade tickets). They say they do in "funny ways," but the discomfort is palpable. Only the "big tzaddikim" who have fully convinced themselves truly hold this belief.
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When someone says "I want to come close to Hashem," that itself is evidence they don't truly believe. People who genuinely believe don't frame it as a desire to "come close"—there's an inherent distance implied that reveals the artificiality of the sentiment.
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The Litvish world is an example: once they started adopting the language of "closeness to Hashem," they simultaneously abandoned substantive traditional beliefs. Do any of them still believe in *Techias HaMeisim* (Resurrection of the Dead)? They don't—and this isn't even *kfira* (heresy). The concept has become so remote from lived reality that it registers as absurd, "beyond the whole thing."
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If you force a religious person to articulate their beliefs in plain, conversational language—without religious jargon or ritualized framing—they cannot do it. Example: "You believe the God who created the world thinks that if you put on these boxes, and they're perfectly square, He gives you a good life, and if not, straight to hell?" No one can say this naturally without flinching, squirming, or chuckling. This is an informal lie detector test.
- On davening (prayer): The more someone chuckles or shifts uncomfortably when explaining why they pray, the less they actually believe it works. Empirically, prayer and non-prayer yield the same results—same "percentage rate" of outcomes.
- On performative intensity: The more elaborate the physical performance (swaying, squeezing the face, dramatic gestures), the more it signals bluffing or masking rather than genuine conviction.
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Stopping at a red light is a real, consequential act—cars might hit you. Nobody performs dramatic reverence at a red light—they just stop. But with matzah, there's elaborate ceremony. This asymmetry reveals that the ritual act is "fake" in the sense that it doesn't carry the same immediate, felt reality. Real things don't require performative emphasis.
Extension: Any mitzvah done with a *gartel* (ceremonial belt) or elaborate costume is suspect. The mitzvahs done casually—like building a sukkah in a t-shirt—are the authentic ones. The guy in full rabbinic garb posing for a photo while "building" a sukkah didn't actually build it. The guy in the t-shirt did.
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Any teacher addressing "normal" (non-observant or loosely observant) people is doing essentially the same thing as someone doing outreach to OTDs. The only difference is that "normal" people are more emotionally healthy and easier to engage, whereas OTDs often carry trauma—molestation, broken families, divorce, custody issues—that makes productive conversation much harder.
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This is the hardest problem in religious education/outreach:
- Starting point: From a "normal person perspective," religious practices look absurd—circumcision, burial rituals, etc. Lubavitchers are good at acknowledging this upfront ("if I told you a tribe in Papua New Guinea did this, you'd say *nebuch*").
- Endpoint: There exists a genuine explanation where *bris milah* truly makes you close to Hashem, where the rituals carry deep meaning.
- The problem: How do you get from one to the other *in the same conversation, in the same tone of voice*? There's a noticeable switch in registers—when explaining the absurdity, the tone is casual and comedic; when giving the *shiur* on meaning, it shifts into reverence. The voice that holds both simultaneously cannot be found.
This is perhaps the fundamental pedagogical and philosophical challenge: delivering religious truth without either (a) the stand-up comedy version that mocks everything, or (b) the standard reverent shiur that ignores the absurdity.
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A participant suggests that the easiest approach is showing people that their rejection of religion—what they imagine as a "default" secular lifestyle—is itself a choice, and equally questionable as the religious life they left.
- The racism gambit: Dismissing religious rituals as "primitive" while accepting secular Western life as "normal" is itself a form of cultural chauvinism or even racism. "Your whole problem with Judaism is based on racism"—this is acknowledged as a rhetorical "game" but has potential.
- The emptiness of the alternative: If someone leaves Judaism because the "600,000 at Sinai" story doesn't track, what do they actually choose instead? "Mr. Doomscroller," "Mr. Stock Trader working 19 hours a day thinking that's a life." The secular default is no more rationally grounded or meaningful than the religious life being rejected.
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Suppose someone concludes that the traditional program doesn't hold up. What then?
- The alternatives—becoming an *am ha'aretz*, a doomscroller, a stock trader—are equally questionable.
- Counter-argument from a student: Pointing out flaws in other systems isn't an answer to the internal problems of *this* system. It's a negative argument, not a positive one.
- The "pimple" analogy: The current system answers one question and opens a hundred—but the alternative (leaving the system) may answer one question while *destroying* a hundred settled answers. It's like finding a pimple on your hand and deciding to amputate the hand—only to discover you need your hand for many other things.
The hypothetical person hasn't *decided* to leave—they're genuinely thinking. This framing is accepted, but suspicion remains toward people who "all of a sudden" abandon the framework.
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What actually happens in practice: studying what the Zohar says about *bris milah*, giving a *mahalach* (interpretive approach) to explain it, trying to make sense of it. The student's question (that bris milah seems "crazy") is legitimate. But the narrative bridge—the coherent story that leads from the raw, disturbing question ("why cut a baby?") to the higher-level meaning the Zohar discusses—cannot be confidently provided.
A student proposes: keep everything beautiful about Judaism—gefilte fish, Shabbos, community—and simply delete bris milah. Response: gefilte fish is worse than bris milah ("at least milah has meaning; gefilte fish is just tribal"). This is a specific, legitimate question but not the question being addressed. Saying "the other tribe also has weird practices" is not a real answer—it's a cop-out. "I agree with you" (אלס איז א משל — "everything is a mashal")—this is not apologetics.
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Despite agreeing with the force of the question: there is a meaning, a reason, a *sechel* (logic), a truth in the Zohar's discussion of bris milah. That higher-level discussion is itself a more elevated version of the student's question—not a dismissal of it, but an engagement with it at a different layer.
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All human achievements—technology, language, thought, culture—are built in layers, each one on top of the other.
- At the base: bits flipping through logic gates.
- Above that: machine code, network layers (officially 7, really more), higher-level code, and so on—thousands of layers.
- At the top: a user having a conversation with AI through a piece of glass.
- We can intelligently discuss the top layer ("black box" / abstraction) without understanding every layer beneath it.
However, you cannot *reconstruct* the system from the top layer alone. If dropped on a desert island, knowing "how to use a computer" is useless—you'd need to rediscover silicon, logic (Aristotle), formal symbolic logic (medieval thinkers), the idea of materializing logic in circuits, and so on. You cannot give a coherent story of how to get from base reality to the top layer. Histories of computing give top-level overviews, but no one can actually recreate the path.
Cultures, ideologies, and religious worldviews work the same way—built up layer upon layer from some starting point (whether a "desert island" or God giving Adam knowledge). Even if God gave Adam all knowledge, it still took humanity time to work through the layers. Artifacts of lower levels "leak through" into higher levels—creating strange, seemingly inexplicable features.
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When people go through the crisis of questioning:
- From an outside view, the whole system looks like nonsense—"you can't talk to a piece of glass and get answers."
- So they smash the system (analogy: smashing an iPhone in Me'ah She'arim at the Chametz bonfire because "iPhones are treif").
- After Pesach, they realize: wait, the device actually solved real problems.
- Then they may organically rediscover *why* certain things were useful—through their own experience of needing calculation, needing tools, needing the wheelbarrow to be the right size.
- The punchline: "The guy who gave me a calculator wasn't just a weird shaman playing with numbers"—the abstract, seemingly pointless layers turn out to be practically essential.
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Go back to the "Garden of Eden"—naked, starting from scratch. People have children. They have ideas they want to transmit to those children. How do you actually transmit your worldview to the next generation?
- "I'll write a book"—but millions of words have been written and children haven't read them. Professors write fat books their kids don't know the names of. Writing is not the way.
- You need a physical, embodied marker—you might consider making a cut on your child's ear (making you "the weirdo"), but then you notice a newborn's foreskin seems to have extra skin that doesn't serve an obvious purpose—"might as well cut that one."
- This is a theory of bris milah's origin: it arose as a solution to the fundamental problem of creating and sustaining a culture. This is speculative ("stam a story I made up") but the most reasonable account.
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- Empirical evidence: People in California have tried to create countercultures over the last fifty years—"all of them failed." Their grandchildren either don't exist or are in a third, different version of the original cult.
- The problem of arbitrary-seeming rules: Culture requires specific, sometimes seemingly arbitrary practices. Functional cultural practices are always "degrees away" from something that looks irrational, and you can't build culture without accepting that.
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One could, in principle, trace any cultural practice (like bris milah) all the way down through every layer of the "OSI" (the layered model), showing how it reduces to basic desire/need. But:
- This is impractical—just as you don't rebuild a computer from sand every time you use it, you don't re-derive every cultural practice from first principles each time.
- Descartes' meditation is invoked: taking apart one thing in your life and reassembling it is a valuable exercise, though Descartes did it "in a weird way."
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When people actually do this exercise of deconstruction and reconstruction, they typically end up regaining their faith—specifically "emunos chachamim" (trust in the sages). They realize:
- They probably can't create something better than the existing cultural system.
- If they could improve it, it would be "one more tikkun" (one more fix)—which is exactly what rabbis have always done: adding, removing, or adjusting rules within the tradition.
- Example of pe'ah: A Torah commandment repeated three or four times, yet the rabbis effectively canceled it because "it doesn't work" in changed circumstances. This is recorded in the Shulchan Aruch. The tradition has always done this kind of pragmatic adjustment.
- Implication for bris milah: If you think it doesn't work, fine—"you have to do the work" of showing that, and the system can accommodate change. But casual dismissal is insufficient.
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Rational justification at each level is insufficient to convince someone who hasn't lived through the relevant experiences.
- The bris milah story told above is "somewhat of a waste of time"—not because it's wrong, but because it's incomplete (the real account "continues beyond that"), and in practice, one always starts from a higher layer, just as one writes Python rather than C, or asks ChatGPT rather than coding manually. You only dig down to lower layers when something breaks or you need to debug.
- Students who come to learn "the process" feel cheated if you don't give them the full derivation.
- But going through "all the funny mistakes everyone has all the time" is an enormous waste of time.
- Path dependence: Many features of existing systems (computers, cultures) exist due to arbitrary historical choices—possibly even "based on astrology." They work, but they can't be fully justified at every level. Trying to rebuild from scratch is "not worth the effort."
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The person who has concluded "there's no God" and recognized that their rebbe's proofs were silly (e.g., Rav Elchonon Wasserman's claim that no smart person denies God, which is "just wrong")—this person cannot be argued back into belief, even with good answers.
- "A story has to happen to them"—they need to grow up, to have life experiences that bring them to a place where the arguments become meaningful.
- The audience's appreciation of the bris milah narrative only works because "you already passed that six years ago or whatever."
- Can you convince someone that there are "substances in the world"? That there's "a human in the world"? Probably not at the most basic level—you can't even get someone to see the problem.
- The real task is getting someone to appreciate "the magnitude of the problem that culture is supposed to solve."
- You might only need "one or two bris milah stories" to illustrate the pattern—not an exhaustive account.
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An "alien from Mars" perspective on contemporary secular life:
- People spend ~6.5 hours a day looking at a "glass box" (phone/screen), watching others do "small incremental tasks" for ten seconds at a time.
- This is most people's default definition of leisure: "I just need to relax."
- The rhetorical question: "Were we hoping to get here?" Is this the ideal endpoint of human civilization? "Something might have gone wrong" in the human condition.
- The point is not to condemn but to provoke curiosity: "Maybe there's a different way to live your life."
This argument immediately undercuts itself:
- You can't give this drasha to OTD people—they won't receive it.
- You can only give it to "the frumme chevra" (the already-religious community) or to people who are already stable.
- "First you have to be stable"—stated emphatically.
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Reb Yisrael Salanter, founder of the Mussar movement, was a remarkably modern figure:
- He created programs for everything—workplace Torah learning, social engineering projects.
- He was the first to develop structured programs for *baalei batim* (laypeople).
- Eventually he clashed with too many people in the frum world, had a son who became secular (a doctor/mathematician in Paris or Germany), and gave up on the frum community.
- He turned to working with the completely *frei* (secular) Jews instead.
- His *mashal* (parable): a runaway horse going downhill—you don't stop it mid-fall; you wait at the bottom and work with it after it has landed.
- This approach didn't really work out for Salanter either.
Purpose: To illustrate that the problem of whom to teach and how is ancient and unsolved—neither the frum nor the frei are easy audiences.
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People in the active phase of questioning everything (e.g., "my Rebbe said smartphones are *treif* but they seem fun") are in a purely destructive mode—they are tearing down false constructs but not yet building anything. They are "destroying fake things," which is legitimate, but you cannot productively work with someone in that phase. There is no quick answer to give them.
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Human beings live in time. Understanding cannot be compressed.
- You can read a book containing a full argument in five hours, but to live through that argument takes a lifetime.
- A *kasha* (question) that takes 20 minutes to articulate may require two years to properly sit with.
- The OTD person is essentially "learning a very long *shtikel Torah*"—they are in the middle of a legitimate question. They had the *kasha*; eventually they may arrive at a *teretz* (answer) or a better *kasha*.
- The Kotzker Rebbe's teaching: Dovid HaMelech wrote Tehillim over 70 years, not in an hour. You can read it in an hour, but you cannot *make* it in an hour.
Key claim: The OTD experience is a valid, time-extended process of questioning—not a pathology but a stage in genuine learning.
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- You cannot talk to people in crisis in a compressed, theoretical way. You can only be there—present at the end of their process, available when they come back.
- The credibility problem is insurmountable: How can someone wearing a white shirt (signifying frum identity) claim to be a genuine *apikoros* and be trusted by someone who has actually left? The OTD person rightly sees the frum person as a "bluff."
- You cannot simultaneously be credibly OTD, smart, and frum. It's not possible. All you can do is be present.
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Pride is the core reason for the disconnect between frum Jews and their own doubts:
- Nobody wants to be the "OTD guy" because in the frum world, OTD = loser.
- So when someone works through their doubts and returns to observance, they pretend it never happened and resume speaking frum language—erasing their journey.
- This is *gaavah*: pretending you were never in *Mitzrayim*, never an idolater, never had Terach's perspective.
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The entire Pesach Seder is reframed as the antidote to this pride:
Matzah represents the pre-bread, pre-sophistication state—poverty, simplicity. Eating it annually is an act of humility: "You think you're such a *chacham*? You're just as stupid as everyone else." This is *hakaras hatov* (gratitude) through self-deflation.
We ask four *kashas*—the whole Seder is structured around questioning. Pesach night is not a night of *emunah* (faith) but a night of *apikorsus* (heresy). You cannot be a true believer if you were never an *apikoros*. — בתחילה עובדי עבודה זרה היו אבותינו ("In the beginning, our ancestors were idol worshippers").
The *posuk* כי ישאלכם בניכם מה העבודה הזאת לכם ("When your children ask, 'What is this service to you?'") is not inherently heretical in the text itself—it's a straightforward question with a straightforward answer (זבח פסח הוא). The Chachamim invented the reading that this is the *rasha's* question. They chose to read the question without the answer—and recognized that the question is better than the answer.
מה העבודה הזאת לכם — "What in the world are we doing?" — is the deepest, most honest question. We have no real answer for the rasha. הקהה את שיניו ("Blunt his teeth") is not a *teretz*; it's an admission of defeat. Perhaps Moshiach will bring an answer. Every year on Pesach we acknowledge that for the rasha, we have no answer—and we spend the whole night being *apikorsim*.
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Practically, you expand the *Beis Medrash* by calling the frum people—because they have hope. They might realize "what big *apikorsim* they really are"—and they're stable enough to be taught something.
They get a *shiur* once a year to show "I'm even more *frei* than them." They are "*shvach* (weak) *apikorsim*"—they believe uncritically in recently invented moral certainties (e.g., "racism is the biggest sin ever invented"). They have their own unexamined dogmas. Some credibility can be offered, but this doesn't truly solve the problem.
You are meaner to a frum person than to a frei person with this teaching. A frei person hears it and it doesn't upend their life—they're already in their world. A frum person—married, with kids, with a wife who looks a certain way, who has built an entire life on certain assumptions—if you tell them "you're living in a fatal error," you have literally tortured their life. That's why this *shiur* isn't normally given—"only on YouTube." Not to frum people in person, not quickly. Slowly, carefully, step by step—yes. Fast and destabilizing—no.
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A listener raises the idea that this teaching is "layer four"—that they've gone through person types one through three. Beyond all the Judaism questions (which are "interest level two"), there are deeper, more fundamental problems:
- Not just "how to support yourself" (practical concerns)
- But something like: "We don't actually understand how language works."
This is left as a gesture toward an even more foundational level of philosophical questioning that goes beneath religious doubt into the structure of meaning, communication, and understanding itself.
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Content that begins with "silly rational Judaism problems" (e.g., provocative hooks about Artscroll biographies) gets lots of views. Key frustration: When a substantive philosophical point is actually made—e.g., that Artscroll biographies might be "more true" than critical biographies in a certain sense—nobody engages with the argument. People click for the hook but don't even register that there's an argument being made. It is practically impossible to get most people to engage with genuine philosophical reasoning.
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The *mekubalim* (Kabbalists/those attending Kabbalah classes) are the people in the Jewish world who genuinely want to know "what things are." Contrast: The OTD crowd generally does *not* care about what things fundamentally are—some exceptions exist, but it's not the norm.
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The question of *Ma'aseh Bereishis* (the Creation narrative): is it meant literally (*kipshuto*) or not? This question alone may not lead to genuine interest in what the world is. However: *Ma'aseh Bereishis* exists because people were trying to figure out what the world is—so it *should* lead there eventually.
Key structural question: Does one move from theology to philosophy, or the other way around?
Possible account: A person starts wanting to know what things are → is told the answer is in Torah (e.g., the *Luchos*, the *Shnei Luchos HaBris*) → then gets sidetracked by factual/historical questions (Were the *luchos* really sapphire? Can sapphire be that large?) → gets stuck in those tangential questions → eventually finds a way back to the original philosophical desire to know what things truly are. This is "a reasonable account of some people"—a kind of intellectual history where genuine philosophical curiosity gets detoured through theological specifics before returning to its real object.
Many people seem genuinely interested in whether the *luchos* were literally sapphire—which is somewhat misguided. Partial defense: Even those people are "better" than pure skeptics because they care about the *luchos* in a "real way"—not because of the sapphire but because they sense some truth resides in them.
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In short, questions aside, we're doing well. *Nirtzeh*. Class ends.
Instructor:
Before they even start making the State of Israel, you started it yeah, so what does that mean? No, we were discussing an issue very important visual. But I could only say this is the problem with Jews that they can like if you say a she then you can't just like have it the problem. I have to like say a vort [a Torah insight or teaching], and that's what I'm gonna do. I tell you the vort and or maybe we shouldn't do it, maybe we should just take the power to achieve a problem is that human beings are the kind of things that learn things.
Interesting, very interesting and fascinating process where you learn things, hopefully. The successful ones, the ones that achieved something, that got to some understanding or some insight or some breakthrough, personal breakthrough—I don't mean necessarily that they discovered gravity—some kind of understanding of how things are and how things should be and what they mean, they grow.
And what happens when they grow is that they pass through the things that caused them to go there. So, if I'm very confused and I have a bunch of silly questions, which I thought were great questions, they were great questions. Because the way in which I saw my life, or the way in which I saw reality, or the way in which I saw everything was lacking nuance—not nuance, months—lacking reality, it was somehow like getting, we're grappling towards it from some weird end.
And then finally you break through, you find the palace, like you're digging through something and like pushing dirt here and pushing dirt there and that's bothering you and that's bothering you. And finally you broke through the tunnel and you got into the palace.
So then usually what happens is you stop caring very much about the dirt in the tunnel. That's just that's part of the process like some guy was digging dirt and through a tunnel and first like dirt was a whole life figure out push this piece of their fear and then if you put like a beam you could move forward one step because the tunnel doesn't collapse behind you and then you figure out how to like make the mud wet and make it into a brick so you could somehow bootstrap this process of making a tunnel and getting out and then finally when you get out of the tunnel, you don't want to hear about mud for the rest of your life. This is the emotional.
The same basic thing happens with people. This is what happens with people. They start off with some questions. Now, they start off with some questions, and then finally, and they think that those questions are very, very real, like very big, but these are like, you know what it's so funny but this is how it is like if someone who has arrived that gotten to somewhere thinks back to certain like things that he was like where his whole world then like I was so major like this like this major drama like gosh you know it's like major drama of someone who was born in like Mendel Hagertown [a Chabad Hasidic community].
Like wait but it says in the Siddish Sforum [Hasidic texts] that the Rebbe is the way through which we touch. Does it really mean Mandel? Or maybe it means Surul. I heard the Hira Kfira [heresy]. His brother is Grada the Tzadik [the righteous one]. And he is the Tzadik. And like really, is that really the cut? You know, people don't know the Ishtism. Hopefully. Is that really what the Old Rebbe meant? Or maybe he meant something slightly different. And he's like fairly worried about this. And it's like a whole thing.
And if someone hopefully, let's say, I don't know many people that managed to get through that, but some people do. Let's say someone hopefully figures out the answer. I'm not saying he becomes Os chuset [Chabad Hasid] or yes chuset [non-Chabad Hasid]. That's not the discussion here. He figures out something like: Wait, there's a whole world. There's like 7 billion people in it. And there are like real issues, like real questions. Just like, you know, I don't even know what the real questions are in this context. But like there's real things going on. There's everything else and like this whole discussion is like not even a good question. It's not even like you know this is where I started so let's let's honor the good question. It's not even that. It's just such a mess.
Now of course he can talk of course oh this is not me making things worse by giving all this mishuvah [comparison]. No, don't give a mental haggel [mental comparison]. Give a good mushal [parable/analogy]. You see the problem? You see the problem? That's the same problem.
L'inani [in my opinion] is like this. We have to make one more akduma [preliminary point]. L'inani is like this. There are some people who don't have problems and don't have solutions and don't learn anything.
I said that human beings are the kind of things that learn. That is the big chidish [novel insight]. You have to believe in it. It's not something that we always see.
Human beings are also the kind of things that bat [are crazy/confused]. The funniest kind of thing is a human being. This week someone came to me with a question, why is someone acting that way? I told him, I have no idea. To tell you, there's a thing, like there's funny animals, there's monkeys that have this funny way of doing things, and there's some weird bat that hangs upside down, and don't ask anyone why. Human beings are the funniest kind of thing. Nobody knows why they do the things they do. Makes no sense.
So in the same way, why did I get to say this? Human beings are very funny and they're not actually things that learn. There's only a few human beings that learn. The human beings, to go by observation, are the kind of things that find more new ways to be crazy every day. They don't learn anything. They don't get better. That's some observation that you could definitely make from reading the news and okay you want me to talk to Achlis [non-Jews/the nations] I don't know how to do that really talk about that always real talk about that.
My point is do a bunch when they seem to have a good life in their whole world, like the worm that's in the shrine that doesn't know that he's in the shrine, you know? The Babacha Mushal [the parable from the Gemara]. You know this Mushal? The Babacha Mushal have a worm that's in the shrine that he's having a good life. That's the one, that Nebuchadnezzar [the Babylonian king].
And those people, now, I want to say something very important. Those people, they think that they are from the good people for some reason. And many of us believe that for some reason. That's a very funny thing. Number one: Stop believing that. Okay. They're not the good people. They're just like worms in the honey or whatever, in the grain. That's all. A worm in a grain. That's where worms go. I don't know. Something. I don't know. What's this? A worm in a grain.
The people that are religiously sucking. Yeah. Religious people. They always have the answers to everything. Their whole life is just about going to the mikveh [ritual bath] in time and having the first month of filah [first minyan/prayer service] and I'm not the same guy, right? I know in Likud [Lakewood, the major yeshiva community] there's such kevra [group/crowd] that's the chidish [novelty] of Likud there's those kevra in Likud he goes to the mikveh and he has the first month and the kids say like seriously nebuch [pitifully], I can't even say nebuch because he's happy.
Those are one kind of guys, okay. Now those kind of guys, like Reb Nachman [Rebbe Nachman of Breslov] once told his Eid [Hasid/follower], told him, I like you very much, I want to give you a brucha [blessing]. A brucha is that 10,000 years after you understand my jokes.
So that's the kind of brucha that you can give to those guys. I hope you understand my avirus [my words/teachings] in 10,000 years after you're going to die and go to Ganeid [Gan Eden: Paradise] and be born in a better Gilgal Chaislish [gilgul: reincarnation], maybe. That's the situation. Not saying that's how far it is. So that's one kind of guy.
Now that kind of guy, now, okay, well, then there's another kind of guy. That's the Dezakh [unclear reference, possibly "the one who asks"]. That he learns Digimur [Gemara: Talmud] and he says he heard that Digimur is very smart, but it doesn't make any sense, so what's going on? That's the second kind of guy, right? There's such a kind of guy.
And that kind of guy also, like, when, sometimes, now, here, this is why, when I say things, I think about them, and then I'm going to come up with a different story than the one you came in with. But there's many of those guys, supposedly, that's what you people are telling me. Oh, like me. Like, wake up. Nobody knows if there's a God. If there's a God, they don't know if he gave the Torah.
When I say these questions, I sound like so stupid. Like, should we paint the world white or gray? Like, why is that the thing? But anyways, for some reason, that's like the dirt. That's what I'm getting at.
And really, you know, that the Bible critics said that there were four Moshe Rabbanis [four authors of the Torah attributed to Moses], not only he won and that makes things worse—it makes it better—four guys agreed more or less on the same idea. But anyways, for some reason this is supposedly a big problem.
And what else? I don't know. What are all the problems that everyone has? I'm here making khoizik [mockery] of it. I don't mean to do that. Some of them are religious problems and some of them are just basic problems of the world. The world's very old but curious. Oh I forgot, right there's dinosaurs.
Yeah, there's dinosaurs. We're here making choizik. We're not making choizik. What we're trying to describe is that, you know, what are we trying to describe? That if you don't like this, if you think that there's no dinosaur, then you're not going to need a rafia shalama [complete healing] and lozad lova [unclear Yiddish phrase], maybe you'll have it. Okay. Because you're just sure. There can't be. Your rabbi told you that there's no dinosaurs.
I'm not getting into it. That guy is b'chalal [at all], yeah. That guy is b'chalal not.
All right? You're asking? The guy that... Now, then there's... Then there's other people who are worried about all these problems. And it really bothers them. Okay? And those are not a mention. You can talk to them, right? Like, hello, you're a human being. You live in this world. Yeah, what's going on?
Really, how'd the guy say, "Really, this is why God made the world 15 billion years ago" — I'm sorry, whenever — "and also that 13 guys in Lakewood should study, that's the *tachlis* [purpose] of everything"? When you say this and you don't burst out laughing, right? I'm not talking about after you come to my *shiur* [class/lecture] and you understand that it's true. Hello, you really — you don't even realize that you're saying something. It's not a *kasha* [question/difficulty] on it. You have to realize this.
Am I allowed to say *abba karsas* [Aramaic: heresy/apostasy]? Yeah, this *shiur* is for saying *abba karsas*. You have to have that. It's not like there's a *kasha* on this, right? This is a *tzhok shebetzhok* [Hebrew: a joke within a joke].
If you start entertaining the question, "Yeah, maybe the *tachlis habria* [purpose of creation] was that 500 guys in BMG [Beth Medrash Govoha, the Lakewood yeshiva] should learn Rashi" — that's why God created dinosaurs? Oh wait, there's no dinosaurs. The world's a little smaller. But even the world, according to 6,000 years old, and with the only rhinoceros — there's no dinosaurs, because there's a big difference. God can't create dinosaurs. He can only create...
That's why there is right now about 8 or 7 million people in the world, depending on who you believe. Or maybe only one — nobody knows. Nobody knows how many people actually are. A bunch of countries in Africa say that they have a million people — nobody ever met them. Anyways, new conspiracy theory: maybe that's why we didn't overpopulate — the census are not a lie. Who knows?
Student: The guy who died, his numbers are...
Instructor: Oh, you mean Paul Ehrlich? Something like that. Yeah.
So yeah, the *kitzev* [essence/point], what I'm trying to say is: You open the thing, there's 8 billion people in the world, and the point of all of it is that we should burn our *matzahs* [unleavened bread for Passover] and make sure that there's not even a *chash chometz* [suspicion of leavened bread] and not even a *chash matzah* in it. *Matzah*, you know, *matzah* is very close to *chometz* [leavened bread]. You have to make sure that your *matzah* is not even *matzah*. If it's *matzah*, then it's *mamash* [really/actually]... As long as it says, *matzah* and *chometz* are the same letters — it's just a little difference. You know, in reality, it's very close.
So that's why the world was created. And if you have a *safek* [doubt] on that, it's *nebuch* [pitiable]. *Nebuch*, you don't know. *Nebuch*. If when you say this and you're a human adult and you don't either burst out laughing or crying — because there's guys with long beards that actually live their life based on that fantasy — then, how do you guys say, we don't even talk about you.
Student: You *maskil* [enlightened one/heretic], everyone is *maskil*. I gotta be nuts.
Instructor: I'm not *maskil*. I think you're taking them to — you're taking them on face value.
Student: No, no, they believe in it 100 percent.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah. No, we're somewhere just learning for Vegas.
Student: So then they say, "No, no, no, they teach their children..."
Instructor: It's laughable. It's not only — it's not wrong. It's not even — if "wrong" would be a compliment for it. "Wrong" means that there's some point, that there's some — "wrong" is just partial right. There's a point, but you're — it's not... I'm not saying that that's the truth, but the way it's understood and the way people talk about it, it's not — "wrong" would be a compliment that it doesn't deserve. It's not wrong. It's nuts. It's schizophrenic. It's psychotic.
Hello, you know what? God created the world so I should dance three times backwards every morning on my left leg. It makes as much sense.
Student: Oh, because you have a book. The book says it.
Instructor: Yeah, and you know about this book because — oh, because 600,000 people thought... I had another 600 people saw it. Because it doesn't — the book be real. Grow up, people. Adults are keeping on repeating these nonsense. You should grow up. I'm not saying that you understand — I don't have to *fanfisical* [?] over here. This is the point, okay?
And now the reality is that in this state called Lakewood, or anywhere where people with black hats congregate, most of the discussions are at that level — that it's not even nonsense. It's... I'm not saying that if you think that there's some truth and you could make a *mushal* [parable/analogy] and tell this to your children, okay. But we're talking about adults now.
No children should watch. I'm gonna write this on this video. Every time I upload a video, YouTube asked me if it's for children, and I always say that it's not. Because if it's for children, they don't let you... Yeah, for some reason they don't let that you did the mini-player. That's the big — make a difference.
Anyways, YouTube is protecting the children from the mini-players. Don't ask me. I don't know. You have YouTube.
Student: Which is most people's major issue with the platform.
Instructor: I don't know. The mini-player, that's the problem. You can't listen to it in the background. I snitched. Anyways.
Student: There could be a problem actually with the *chazzan* [cantor] and the *shiur* in the car.
Instructor: Oh, there? The *chazzan* and the *shiur* in the car. So, no, I'm not going to — it's not for children, no problem. You have to make it not, but children can't see it. You have to be the opposite. Gets it?
You understand the *baya* [problem]? Sure, that's the basic *baya*. Now what happened? Now this is everyone *alt kahn* [old Cohen] is *muskam* [agreed upon/settled], and everyone that ever watched one of my YouTubes — and if someone watched it and thought that we think that that makes sense, then he never does and you should — you should do *tshuvah* [repentance] and he should rethink his whole life and his grandfather's life. You know, what's going on?
But now there's a new problem, right? We *maskil*, right? Now there's a new problem, a new problem, a new problem, that this is where we came from — me and you and him and Jan, more or less came from there. And then, what happens when you realize this, is all kinds of interesting things. All kinds of funny things happen. There's a television series about it now. Anyways, and those helped me tell my story. Whenever I make it too abstracting, it helped me.
So, no, no, no, there's different television. Israeli television keeps on making making videos about this.
So, what's the *baya*? The *baya* is that after 25 years of throwing around that *mushal* of, "Seriously, you're a guy that believes that there's no dinosaurs because your rabbi told you, and he's the must-be-really-smartest-guy-ever, and all the people, all the scientists are just stupid because they believe in dinosaurs. Must be — he's stupid, right? And my *rebbe*, he's the..." — seriously? What do you mean?
The so-called leader of the black hat shoes writes letters talking about for 16-year-old kids sitting in a room somewhere reading some ancient — some not ancient, some whatever. Hello? Who is this? What's the difference? I'm not giving names today. I am, but I'm not trying to get into fights with people. It doesn't make any sense.
These people are living in La La Land. Not even La La Land. La La Land was good given. I don't know what happened. What's the *nezer habria* [crown of creation]? A 16-year-old boy that doesn't really — that read only 6 *blatt Gemara* [pages of Talmud] in his life, and his *rebbe* explaining him that a *kiddushin* [Jewish marriage] is a *kinyan ishah* [acquisition of a woman] — it's not a *kinyan ba'alus* [acquisition of ownership] — and that's what the world was created for. You're the *nezer habria*.
You should be proud of that guy, because you're doing the real thing. If you're in a situation where there's a war and there's other people who are sacrificing their life just to protect you, you should be proud. That's literally what's being taught to everyone. This is not the normal. In the end of the day, hello, I'm allowed to express — this is nuts, right? Obviously nuts.
Rabbi Slifkin and Rabbi whatever keep on saying every week that it's nuts. Hello, that's also — we figured it out already. We're 14. Fine, thank you very much.
Okay, but that's the point. Now, but did it become less nuts? Did it become less nuts? But what happened is that, I'll tell you what happened.
I have a friend, he's named Kotschinsky. It was *Ayid* [?], and he told me — I hope you can understand the *ma'aseh* [story/incident]. You don't know him, okay? He told me a *ma'aseh* that he was a young man in yeshiva, and then Rabin was killed, and he started to think that maybe *Yiddishkeit* [Judaism/Jewish way of life] causes people to murder prime ministers. And he gets it. He traveled along all the stops that you could make based on that *kasha* [question]. And then, and finally decided he's gonna become a *melamed* [teacher]... *She* [he] become professor university. Of course, what's he going to study? The Litvish yeshivas.
Hello, that's why you have to go to university to make a doctorate about the yeshivas, man. Anyways, it's very interesting, but that you could do in this *mesivta* [yeshiva high school]. So any case...
Instructor:
He traveled along all the stops that you could make based on that cache. And then, and finally he decided he's going to come to my elementary, come to university. Of course, what's he going to study? The Litvish yeshivas [Lithuanian-style traditional Jewish academies]. Hello. That's why you have to go to university to make a doctorate about the yeshivas.
Anyways, it's like so any case and then he said that one day he was in the university stable over there by the coffee and there's a guy from Japan came to—I came to state the care that the going will come and my heart see on the rainy my voice off like the cook said when they opened the Hebrew University can see and as a third so they go from Japan came to the story the Jewish wisdom in Jerusalem and the Hebrew University, I think.
And this guy is a guy from Japan. And he was talking to him about something. He's the guy that can't eat. No, no, there's a lot of guys from Japan. And the guy was like talking to him, and he was trying to explain to him, you know, charedim [ultra-Orthodox Jews] and datim [religious Jews], and like a whole world class probably doesn't know. And this guy is from Japan, and he's looking at him like, huh?
Not only this guy was from Japan, he was thinking—I don't know what that guy's thing was—but this big problem, it's huge: should it be a white kippah [yarmulke/skullcap] or a blue kippah or a red kippah? What?
Imagine you go to the group of people in the Sentinel Island and they're having a huge controversy if they should put two edges on their spear or one edge, and they're like being machrim [excommunicating] each other because of this, and like there's some—like it's not real. This whole thing, wake up. This is not what the world is about.
So you realize things like that, that don't decide to become a Buddhist. At least, at least, you know, they're talking about reality, not about like if the Trisker Shiva of Panovic [a specific Hasidic rebbe] is it or that. That's what the world is about. That's what they think right now.
Instructor:
This is very important right. So first year, first there's a step of a push the—let's come, I don't think of them, we're not gonna call it a push T the stupid bottom and a crying. Okay, that's step number one or one kind of person. There's nothing good about that, to be very—after that there's nothing good about that. There's good in every and all these stages, there's something good in the sense of there being some truth in it, but there's nothing to look up in that. We should remember this: nothing good about it.
When you say that is something good about it, you're being over on the—I'll tell all of my friends every say, "I wish I was stupid." You're the guy that was buried in the—if you say, "Wow, I shouldn't have known, it was better," that's good. Of course it shows you the reality. Thank you very much. What do you want to live in a shrine without a worm?
Okay, that's number one.
Instructor:
Then there's a second kind of guy that is like, "Hello, this is Al-Sidrait Mishigas [all of it is nonsense] and Nishtafila Akasha [let's pray to God directly]." That's the second kind of guy. Okay? Very good.
Instructor:
Now, turns out that there's a third kind of guy. All right? The third kind of guy, what's the third kind of guy that somehow figured out that this is very—obviously, it's very important to note—the third kind of guy says obviously the world wasn't created so you should learn. I don't even have to talk about this. I feel stupid talking about it now.
And then what does he say? What does he say? The world also wasn't created to attack the people. That's also—no, we have to figure out what the world was created for. Also rationalist Judaism is even bigger nonsense. Okay? Don't tell anyone. It's sort of that. We're not here to make like typologies of groups are trying to get at them.
That's what he says, like listen, you the dreamiest you figure this out. Yeah, I mean thank you very much. And also there is—you can't live your whole life from that conscience. Not only can't you live your life, I think everyone understands you can't live your life. Yeah, exactly. But most people are like that because they—okay, we're going to talk about these specific, I'm just trying to give a story.
Instructor:
And also, there are real problems. There are real problems. Do you know that even, by the way, even as in the sense of Jewish problems, like the Jewish problem, that's a real problem. The Yiddish problem. That's a real problem. Historically, it's not a historical problem—it's not a metaphysical problem. But it's a historical problem, it's a real one, okay?
The question of the Tzimtzum Kapshita [the theological dispute about whether God's contraction was literal or metaphorical], that's fake. Nobody, it doesn't matter. It matters only if you care about the truth about God, but this whole like all the yeshiva being very worried if the Vilna Gaon [the Gaon of Vilna, 18th century Lithuanian Torah scholar] was right or if the Baal HaTanya [founder of Chabad Hasidism] was right—you're playing, playing, I don't know what. You're playing with sticks. It's not a real—that's not the real where the real problems are.
Good question: did God give the Torah on the Mount Sinai or not? How many people were there? 600,000? 500,000? 999? That's not real. That doesn't make any difference to anyone. You know what makes a difference in reality? As a Jew, even as a Jew it makes no difference.
Instructor:
You know what makes a difference as a Jew? There are real issues. Like, should we close down this Jewish separateness thing? Because it seems to just be getting us killed for the past 2,000 years. Or should we figure out some other solution? That's a real issue. Real question. Greatest minds have been in it for 200 years. They didn't find a solution.
But you're a Satmarit [Satmar Hasid]. You're a mitzvah. Really, it's a Shgacha practice [divine providence practice]. That doesn't have to do with anything. You realize what I'm saying? My problem wasn't if we believed that the Ben-Gurion [David Ben-Gurion, first Prime Minister of Israel] was a shaliach of the Shgacha [agent of divine providence] or he was a rasha [wicked person] that was trying to make the Medina Zechetim [the State of Israel] to bring us Kalisul [destruction].
You people are just looking—you're literally getting at a palace from the dirt behind it because you have to dig through the mountain to get to it and you're arguing which side of dirt to push.
Instructor:
Yeah, and also the apikorsim [heretics/apostates], they just had a solution for it. These people are—they're connected with the reality in a good way to back like. Yeah, like you had a solution man. Yeah, I proposed the solution. Marx [Karl Marx] proposed the solution. I mean in this book on the—and so on. This is a real question.
You're coming at it from such a funny mess. You're not even—you don't even understand. The problem is if they learn the Torah, then they're not going to be able to—or the army guy, that's the big dicky one, like Rav Tzuyuda said. You people are so far from reality that it's not even funny.
So you understand that and that's—the whole thing of being Yiddish is only a historical accident. For men, it's an even bigger problem. Right? I should have never went out of Africa with the Neanderthals over there. Anyways, no.
Instructor:
So, and then you realize that, you know, yeah, of course your Rebbe was dumb, but do you know why you were created? Do you know what the meaning of life is? What the Nazar Avri [possibly: the Nazir's vow, or a reference to a specific concept] is? That's actually a serious question. It's actually very real.
And it's actually also true that even if you don't, like, have, like, this kind of Shuvonitzachas [possibly: proofs/demonstrations], like I could prove it to every atheist that I should become a yeshiva guy—even if that's nonsense, you still should become a yeshiva guy. Still pretty good thing to do with your time.
Unless I'm allowed to say this here already—with that level of maturity, yeah.
Student:
Can I ask you something? Why do we talk in need? Why is that a very important question? Why? In other words, we're really asking the same question as that boy or the yeshiva is asking because we're having either—
Instructor:
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. My question is, we're starting with the same premise—
Student:
No, no, no, I don't mean that. I don't mean that.
Instructor:
No, I don't mean that, I don't mean that. I don't mean that. I don't mean that. Why is it a serious problem? In other words, why is it a serious problem? Why I was created, or born, or here? Maybe in a better way, in a better way, in a better, exactly, in a better way, but I'm saying it in this way.
Okay, so you should have your kasha [question/difficulty]. So you should have your kasha. Okay, there's a better way of answering that. And it's hard to differentiate in language. That's another issue. But it's very real. All these things are very real.
Instructor:
And now, and now, we have a new issue. Okay, now what's the new issue? That we don't have any friends anymore left.
Because you could be—now there's kind of two options. The people that get to this third stage, they have these kind of two options of who to be friends with.
Instructor:
First they think, I should be friends with all the OTDs [Off the Derech: those who left Orthodox Judaism]. Because those are the normal mentioned. They're not meshuggah [crazy], they're not living in, like La La Land would be a shvach [weak/inadequate term]. They're living in the real world.
Now I got to think that I'm a little smarter than them. Okay, maybe I could teach them, maybe they could teach me something, maybe we could work things out together. Because I think that the third OTD, it's a good thing to be from something like that, right? It's like you don't believe in anything, thank you very much. I don't either. And now okay, so now let's do something with—let's do something with our life. Like let's, you know, that thinking is actually a pretty cool way of doing something with your life, of figuring out things.
Instructor:
So that's what you think first. Do you also know that happens to be that I figured out finally. You know what you figure out? I have a friend who told me, we always thought, Nebuchadnezzar [likely referring to the Kotzker Rebbe, known for his intense, uncompromising approach], the rabbi is missing a line. It's going to be whatever you want to say about him. He, Nebuchadnezzar, was one of these vermin in the chine people [frum with chein: conventionally pious with warmth/charm]. He was crying and talking about emunah [faith] and stuff and everything. And Nebuchadnezzar, but where is the smart guy that we figured out that seriously and he said that and then one time he realized the Kotzker master he was living in a fantasy the devil was a apikorus [heretic/skeptic]. Oh, that was a bigger Epicurus [apikorus] than me. That's why he was crying so much because I'll see this because it's not the goddess and then he was trying to figure out like okay what do I do from now and he was doing what I'm doing.
And then you tell that to your OTD [Off the Derech: those who have left religious observance] friends. You're like, you know, I think that was just an Epicurus like us. Just he realized that. What are you going to do with your life? Sit all day watching, reading OTD memoirs? Come on, they're not even good in literature. There's better literature than that. They're not good philosophy. They're not good literature. They're not good life. There's nothing to do after you're OTD.
Instructor:
What do you do after you go through the whole Hillel course or what's it called, the America Footsteps? They have a whole course out of your OTD. There used to be a course. Then they realized that doesn't even—now okay, Baruch Hashem [thank God], I got my certificate.
There was someone complaining about Hillel, that when you call them, they ask of you, are you really OTD? Like, are you even an old avarice [unclear term, possibly "off already"]? No, we don't accept you. Because maybe you're just a bluffer. And I was thinking, exactly, they're not good.
Student:
And I was thinking—
Instructor:
Not exactly. But the point is, no, let's explain, let's understand why they have to do this. No, not because they have to spy. Also, no, because let's say they have an organization, they give out money for people to go to school. Now, any frum guy could come and say—
Student:
I should have taken their money.
Instructor:
Exactly. Any frum guy could come. Look, here's the report from people that were from the Gotika [unclear reference]. I was from guy. I'm still. What's the difference? I fit your criteria. So they have to get a way out. So, you know, the frum people are very good at using out the organizations that are offering them. So soon, all the people getting money from this Hefer [Footsteps] are going to be only frum guys.
Student:
The kids say, Levas [on the contrary], it's discrimination, but you only give the—
Instructor:
Oh, you want it frum people to know the English? Okay, so what's it bother you that he's still frum? Oh, you want to be confidant? Ah, you're still a missionary.
Anyways, so let's say you succeeded, you got accepted to the whole program and everything, and then after you finish it, after 10 years or however long it takes, and you're like, okay, now what do you do with your life? Right? Turns out that that's where the Rebbe started. The tip is, you arrive at 35, where the Rebbe was when he was 15. He also realized that all this is not shkaiten [unclear, possibly "worth anything"]. And he was like, okay, what do we do? Salam [so then], I'm going to become a Rebbe.
Student:
Why did you decide that?
Instructor:
Because it's my Rebbe, it's my Rebbe, that's what you do. What's the big problem?
No, but there's a more serious—I'm saying everything in a latunist [joking/ironic] way, but there's a serious way of understanding all of this.
Instructor:
And then this Rebbe, like I said, he thinks that he should talk with the OTD chevra [group/community]. And then he starts doing that and he realizes they don't need therapy. They don't need his treatment. He also needed therapy, but somehow maybe this is his therapy, whatever it is. And it doesn't actually work. That's what he realized. True story. It happened to many people that I know.
And then he realized, okay, but I decided that the good life is to sort of go to shul on Shabbos [Sabbath] and so on. And he goes to shul and he doesn't find any OTD, because they don't think that they have a better place to go on Friday night. With worse food and worse songs. And worse dances.
Student:
Actually, I don't know. If he gets it—the dances in shul are pretty bad.
Instructor:
What?
Student:
The dances in shul are pretty bad.
Instructor:
Yeah, it's hard to be worse, right? If you go to Breslov shul—
Student:
No, he goes to Breslov shul. Still bad music, huh?
Instructor:
More doom scrolling. Even worse. Doom scrolling is still—Breslov music is still better than doom scrolling Friday night. Okay, that's what most of us imagine for sure. True, right?
Student:
Going to the club. I don't think people are doing that.
Instructor:
Not even going to the club. I don't believe. I don't know. Some people are, but I don't think—nobody in the world, but—
Student:
Yeah, the kids said, but the mass in the Breslov club, everyone is talking about emunah pshuta [simple faith] and they all love Hashem [God] and they thank you Hashem and all of that. And he's like, you people, I'm not sure, are you from the first group or the second group or the third group?
Instructor:
He's not sure. But slowly he figures out that the second group is the same as the last. Why not? How is that? Okay, now that's one answer to your people's questions. A true story.
Instructor:
And therefore, then he realizes—I'll tell you an argument for why your people are saying that we should go to the club. We should be like it's a Dovid Grossman [unclear reference, possibly someone who does outreach in secular settings] who goes to the clubs and makes people go to the club. You know why he does that? Because how else can he go to a club?
So, I have no idea, I don't know, but I'm imagining, like, it's fun, you know, how are you going to go to a club?
Student:
What's so funny? Like, you don't want to go to a club?
Instructor:
Some people like it, not everyone likes it. Some people like it, for some reason. Some people don't like it. Some people like it. People that are more social and extroverted, they like it.
Student:
So, the kid said, and you could be like that, you could do that in the club, but you can't actually give them three or more [unclear reference, possibly to mitzvos/commandments].
Instructor:
I don't know. Most people that I know that try to do that fail.
Instructor:
So then he says, he makes this judgment. He says, look, the Alter Rebbe [the first/old Rebbe], he was an apikorus and he's actually figured this out. And then he thinks, wait, the guy giving that drasha [sermon/discourse] about the Nazir Abria [the Nazirite, from Numbers 6], you think he really buys it? He's really as stupid as I thought. Maybe I'm the one that was stupid. Maybe he figured out something.
He probably is missing language and he's not very sophisticated. He didn't read a lot of literature or philosophy or anything. If his name is Soloveitchik then he does know how to express it nicely, and that's why it's worth something. But otherwise it just doesn't know—it doesn't have language. They don't read anything. Doesn't have much life experience. Doesn't know history. Doesn't know philosophy. Doesn't know literature. Doesn't know nothing. But this is his best way of doing it.
So he said he cries and he gives drashas about the Nazir Abria and turns out he's doing what I want him to do. So you go, you become a teacher, and then you teach everyone about the Nazir Abria and that's what you wanted to do anyways.
Instructor:
And you stop with fantasizing that the OTD chevra are smarter or bigger than the yeshiva bochurim [yeshiva students]. They're the same. And if you actually start talking to yeshiva bochurim, you'll find that they're the same. I've spoken to yeshiva bochurim and to OTD chevra. Usually yeshiva bochurim are bigger.
Usually. You know why? Because in OTD you're not stuck—you're only allowed to have the kashas [questions/difficulties] that lead to the answer that you made your life choices based on. But if you're yeshiva bochurim, then all your life choices are made for you. You're allowed to have whatever kashas you want.
Of course, some of them are afraid of their Rebbe. Some of them, they think that if they say it openly, they say it in Chassidish ways. You know how you say they have in Chassidish language? There's ways to say it, right?
Student:
How does someone say—you asked me, someone asked me, yeah, that's one way, that's what Kam [unclear] said.
Instructor:
There's, you said, yeah, you say, look, there's no proof that there's God exists, but we have emunah pshuta anyways, because you're an Epicurus. One of my big fights.
Student:
Right. But this is already an ideology.
Instructor:
Or what you do is you say, I don't have chiyus [vitality/enthusiasm] in davening [prayer]. I mean, you don't have chiyus in davening.
True story. I was a little bochur [young yeshiva student], and I guess that I was an Epicurus. I don't know. I thought I was very frum. And I was having, was it Chodesh Elul [the month of Elul, the month of repentance before Rosh Hashanah], or something like that, so I was saying that I don't want to do teshuvah [repentance].
And there was this like next bochur next to me and he was saying, what do you mean? I didn't know what to answer. Like, you believe that you're going to go to hell if you don't do—if you don't achieve [teshuvah].
And, uh, what should I say? Yeah, no. So, oh, it's hard for you to say. So you do—you understand that someone is nikshil [stumbles/fails], but you didn't understand what I was saying. But I was trying to be honest. Yeah, every day we do it, we pretend and so on.
What do you mean? Every time you put on tefillin [phylacteries], you get a ticket. And every time you don't, you get a ticket to hell. Obviously, if you don't believe in that, then I understand, but you believe in it, right? Maybe I don't. What does it even mean? Right?
Instructor:
So this is basic, right? And you hear people saying that they don't believe in schar v'onesh [reward and punishment]. Garnish [nothing], but they say no kinds of funny ways, but it's not complicated. They believe in the tokens that you get. If you ask him, I actually believe—I actually don't play the arcades, by the way, that don't give you a lot of tickets. That's what the guy do. You should play the arcades that are both fun and give you a lot of things. So maybe they see the mark because I don't—
Student:
No, if I imagine, I don't know, that guy was like a Litvak [Lithuanian-style yeshiva student], he didn't understand what I wanted. Like I was trying to explain, there's a problem with this whole teshuvah game. And he was like, what do you mean?
Instructor:
But I actually think that if you do it to most people, this exercise, they will feel uncomfortable, because they don't really believe in that. Besides for like the big tzaddikim [righteous people], like that already convinced themselves. That's what I think. You go in Lakewood [major yeshiva community in New Jersey], go to...
Instructor: I want to come close to Hashem [God]. Then you know he's full of it. Because people that believe don't want to come close to Hashem. There's a big chiddush [novel insight], and it's very simple. All these Litvaks [Lithuanian-style Orthodox Jews], when all the Litvaks already started talking about being close to Hashem, right? Almost all of them, any of them, still talking about *Schar V'Onesh* [reward and punishment]? Do any of them believe in *Techiyas HaMeisim* [resurrection of the dead]? I say, of course they're not *kofrim* [heretics], because they realize it's not even *kfira* [heresy]. It's nonsense. Like I was saying, it's not even a joke. It's beyond the whole thing. It's like some—it's stale and dated. It's whatever. It's so far from the reality, the whole thing. That's why I'm asking. But why not? Because if you actually talk to them like a normal guy, you sell them, you say, you come and you come back, you go, you like, why do you put on tefillin [phylacteries]? Oh, because the God that created the world, when He created it out here, suddenly, and He thinks that if we put on these boxes, if it's perfectly square, if it's a little rectangle, then He gives you a good life, and if not, it's *Gehinnom* [hell], straight to hell.
I promise you, if you get the guy to say it in this simple, normal way, like me talking to you, they can't. That's why they start saying—whenever someone starts making—start squeezing his face when he says something, then he's lying, right? Basic lie detector test. Why do you daven [pray]? Why do you daven when you have a problem? That's called lie detector, right? That thing with your eyes, that was saying, saying, *hakshan kaparan* [atonement for sins], that makes no difference to you, davening. But davening, right? Because a normal guy, the more someone chuckles by davening, the less he believes in it. That doesn't make him more of a—I'm like, I told people, I made a test: if it works better than tefillin, when you *shrei* [scream/cry out], or when you just speak normally, it makes no difference. Both of them get answered equally, at the same percentage rate. Like, think about it. If you believe—I actually believe in it, but that's a different discussion.
Instructor: And I'm like, what do you mean? Like, why are you—what are you doing? What you're doing is being against this nonsense, right? Like, hello, it's ridiculous. Yeah, seriously. When the *shtick* [act/performance] comes on, that's one. And you go like this [gestures]. The more you go like this, the more you're bluffing. Not bluffing—I'm not even saying you're bluffing. You're living in a weird—okay, you're masking, yeah, or whatever. It's not serious. Not the reality. Like, you don't—when you know that nobody's—I'm coming a little late to a red light. Like, they don't stop at the red light. But now—well, that's different, the kid. But even the guys that do stop at the red light, they don't do like [makes exaggerated gesture]. "Lloyd, see if they stop by the red light!" Right? "Look, I'm *meshaneh nefesh* [endangering my soul]!" They just stop at the red light to the threat that there might be cars coming, right?
But when you eat matzah [unleavened bread eaten on Passover], you're eating matzah, right? *B'kiyum mitzvah* [in fulfillment of the commandment]. *Achilat matzah al achilat matzah* [eating matzah for the sake of eating matzah]. Why? Because the *achilat matzah* is a fake thing, and something—red light is a real thing. You don't have to go like this: "Ah, red light! Red light! Yes, I read the letter! Stop! It's *al pi din* [according to the law]!" Or you go *davka* [specifically/deliberately], because you're not *al pi din*. Whatever it is. And all this, there's something. I'm just trying to explain to you why, if you actually know how people are, you'll realize that everyone's not—because of them. Everyone realizes that this whole thing is very funny.
Instructor: And therefore, any guy that teaches to normal guys—like, take any example, any teacher that teaches to the *frum* [religiously observant] people—he's doing the same exact thing that you're planning to do to OTDs [Off The Derech: people who left Orthodox Judaism]. The only difference is that these people are a little more emotionally healthy, and it's easier to talk to them. The OTDs usually were molested or whatever, and now—*takeh* [indeed], I think they weren't, and it breaks you as a person. You're messed up, and you got divorced, and you have the kids here, living in the—automatically, it's very hard to get anything working in that situation.
Student: I just want to—I just want to say something. Like, I don't think it has to—the *mashal* [parable/analogy] has to be the red light versus—even within mitzvos, the guy that got the *gartel* [ceremonial belt worn during prayer] never gives you the money. It's true also.
Instructor: It's true! I've had—any mitzvah that you do with a *gartel* is fake. The mitzvos that you do without a *gartel*, that's the ones that are real mitzvos, right? Like building a sukkah [temporary dwelling for the holiday of Sukkot]. You're talking about the sukkah. You know, the people that when you see a picture of the rebbe building a sukkah with his *gartel*—you know he didn't build a sukkah, all right? It's all good. That's a *pisode* [episode]. We live on the top, whatever. You can build this thing.
Student: I think who is building—the man who is actually making the matzahs, the guy with the t-shirt. The guy with the *gartel*, I don't know what he's doing there, but not as—
Instructor: Back to this, that makes it—he's doing this *matzah* and was *al pi* [according to]—he's presenting his *matzah* and was *al pi* the *shef* [chef]. *Shemidt*, what? Yeah, make this *lishmah* [for the sake of the commandment]. *B'kavanas* [with intention]—nobody knows how it is, so we know that we have to *exis* [exist], right? Okay, that all that means—you already know my *hesber* [explanation/understanding] on this *matzah*. Okay, all it means is that it was baked for—because the people that wrote that were the same, because—okay, now it doesn't really start. So the *hepech* [opposite] is in the problem that won't hurt. It's for your caution.
Student: But another thing, another way to say this would be that there's a real—this is a real problem now. But even if we say this, that it's—then it's still true that once you realize, the answer becomes very hard to explain. Explain even how the answer answers the question, or how we get from here to there. It's very hard.
Instructor: I don't know. I don't know. It's hard. I don't know the answer. I don't know the answer, because I could give you this version of a stand-up comedy, and I could give you what we usually do. It's very hard for me to give you the thing in between. How do we give it? How do we start from the standpoint that the guy explaining to you that this *milah* [circumcision] that makes no sense is right, but you should make up this *milah*? Not because, right? How do you get from one—like, how do you bridge those things, right? It's the hardest. It's a very fine—how could you, how could there be a conversation which starts from a very—what I'm calling normal person perspective? It's like, ah, cutting off the piece from the—hello, are we in the prehistory still? What is going on with you guys, right?
Instructor: The only people that say that—you know who likes to say this, guys? The Lubavitchers [Chabad Hasidim]. Lubavitchers all explain how it makes no sense. You go to Lubavitch for *bris* [circumcision ceremony], and it's not a man, it's not a man, it's not a man, whatever. And then you put it in the ground in a cup with earth. If you would tell—if I would tell you what we do about like a tribe in Papua New Guinea, you would say, like, *nebuch* [pitiful/unfortunate]. Right?
So we could start from that standpoint. And then, I think that it's true. But I'm saying that in between then, there's an explanation that says that *bris milah* [circumcial covenant] is—I don't know, how would we say it? It's truly the thing that makes you close to Hashem, and so on. And that's true in the same way that's true. Without—you saw that I just switched tones, right? Because when I give you a *shiur* [lecture] on *bris milah*, there's three times *bris milah*, and I can explain to you how it makes sense, and then I explain how it makes sense, and so on. And now suddenly I'm speaking in this tone of voice.
So how do we bring from like, okay, so this is *tziruf* [combination/formation]? *Framen* [frame it]? And *shoin* [already/enough], we get it. No problem. I get it. No, I still think it makes no sense. What? Both about you, that about a *reider* [speaker/orator]? Yeah, yeah. But how do you explain, how do you talk about it? Could you talk about it? Could I give it to you in the same minute? You give us one, two minutes, we'll give you the world, all the way from OTD to over the *derech* [path/way].
Student: No, but I think that the biggest—to me, at least, the biggest, or the easiest way to approach it is by explaining to people that their lack of choice is also a choice in some sense. Or at least what they imagine as a default lifestyle is equally questionable as the one that they love.
Instructor: Okay, we could do that. But is that even—like, let's—I would—I can do this. And by the way, could we do that? Could we do like, okay, so the tribal people over there are—or what do you really think they are? They're basically animals. Like, you're racist. You're worse than I thought. You're not a racist. The big problem with Judaism is that they're racist. But your whole real problem with Judaism is based on racism.
You could play these games, right? No, no, no, but I need to say, let's say, right, so someone decides, okay, you know, this program, this 600,000 story [the traditional account of 600,000 Israelites at Mount Sinai], doesn't really track. Whoa, so, okay, so now what, right? So now you say, I'm gonna be an *amalgamator* [one who amalgamates/combines]. Who's an *amalgamator* to you? Mr. Doomscroller, right? Or whatever other ethical life that exists. Mr. Stock Trader who works 19 hours a day and thinks that that's a life.
Student: Yeah, but that's not answering our *mishigasana* [craziness]. It's more of like a negative response. No, no, no. It's more of like a question of like, okay, so you figured out that this slide doesn't make sense. It's not an answer to anything. Yeah. Wait a second. This alternative answers one question and opens up a hundred that are settled or at least have a way to start settling them.
Instructor: So the one question somehow, you found a pimple on your hand, and so you decided that the solution is to take a handle, right? But, uh-oh, it looks like you need a hand for some other things, right?
Student: No, no, I don't think, let's say he didn't decide on anything, let's say he's really just thinking about that.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, he's thinking about it, for sure, I'm just saying. He's going to still not let his kid. I'm suspicious of, like, I'm going to be still. Oh, wait, but let's understand my problem. I'm suspicious of people who all of a sudden, like...
Instructor: Very good, but let me repeat my problem. My problem is that I think that the correct—what I do, right? This is what I actually do in my *shiur* [Torah class]: what I do is that I study what the Zohar says about *bris milah* [covenant of circumcision] and I give you a *mahalach* [interpretive approach/method] to explain what is that the Zohar could mean about *bris milah*, try to make sense of it or try to give you the story of it, whatever it is, right? That's what I do, right? *Muskin* [concepts/ideas] things like that, that's what I do. In other words, but I think that it makes just as much sense as your question of that—that it's crazy. But what I'm not sure is that I could give you the story that leads from one to the other, because I could do all these things that you're discussing, like yeah, your question—could you actually prove this question? Could you have a better idea? All kinds of things like that.
And by the way, what's wrong with being tribal and pagan, man?
Student: Oh, because it says in the *Shulchan Aruch* [Code of Jewish Law] you can't be *oved avodah zarah* [worship idolatry].
Instructor: We're getting a loop, right? So why are we saying all these funny things? Why can't you say, okay, delete *milah* [circumcision] and Judaism is beautiful—you filter fish and *alles* [everything] is beautiful. Delete *milah*, the famous—that's it. *Gefilte* fish is much worse than *bris milah*, by the way. At least *milah* has meaning. Delete, continue eating fish and keeping Shabbos and everything that makes you happy about Judaism. *Milah* makes a baby cry, stop it.
I don't know, you understand what I'm asking? That's a specific question.
Student: That wasn't my question. That's not the question that I had though.
Instructor: Create a system, such a *cheder* [Jewish elementary school] system. Not to say it's a cop-out to say that's not the point. It's not—I'm not trying to have a discussion. *Alles iz a moshel* [everything is a parable/metaphor]. *Alles iz a moshel*. All I'm trying to say is that I am asking with you. I am asking with you. I am asking with you. That's why I'm not—it's not correct. It would be like nice apologetic. You're saying who forced—let's stop it, no problem, that's also—but he's saying that's also a choice.
But what I'm trying to—my problem is not that. My problem is something else. My problem is that I do think that there's a meaning, a reason, a *sechel* [logic/intellect], a truth in discussing this *sugya* [topic/subject] of *bris milah* from the Zohar *haKadosh* [the holy Zohar]. There really is. And all that is, what I believe is that all that is, is like a higher level discussion of your question. Meaning to say, this is the problem.
Instructor: I'm going to give you a *shtickle* [little piece of] theory. Let me give you a *shtickle* theory. Which maybe, I don't mean to give a theory, I mean to try to enlighten what the problem is. I have a theory like this. How do—well, gosh, I shouldn't make everything more complicated than that.
My theory is like this: All human achievements, all human discussions, all human discourses, all human technology even are based, *gag-gag-gag* [layer upon layer upon layer], right? Based one level on the other level, okay?
If you have a computer and you talk to AI and it answers you, at the base level there's only bits flipping with logic gates, and that is 17,000—I don't even know how many levels away from your discussion with the chat, right? If you don't know anything about how it works, it should be obvious to you even in the—only in the network layer, just seven supposed layers officially, and there's really even more, okay? And that's only one little part of what's going on, okay?
Now we can intelligently talk about the last layer and what the technologists call "black box," right? Or abstract away all the complication behind that, all the dirt under it. We don't care. Now if bits are really true or if the logic gates or if the machine code that's running on top of that is running some higher level code on even higher level and so on—we don't care about all of that. All we care about is this very abstracted conversation, which is what I'm actually doing, okay? That's how it is in order to—that doesn't mean that I can get there here, right?
If I go—you understand what I'm saying? All human achievements, even technology and language and thought and culture, all work the same way. They're all built up one on top of the other. And so we could have an intelligent conversation about the top layer or the interface that I even—not even the layer, maybe only about the interface, how I'm interfacing with some other thing that is built for that while ignoring the rest.
On the other hand, I cannot get from there to there, right? In other words, if you drop me on a desert island and I'm like, "I know all about computers. I sit at that computer all day. It should be simple to create a computer." Chat, build a computer. Chat can give you instructions to build a computer if you already have a computer with a server farm somewhere in Arizona to give you that thing, right? But if you're on a desert island, there's no chat, can't be computer, right? Then you're back at base reality.
And then you've got to dig in the island to find silicon. Oh my God, you need so much more than that, right? You need:
- Aristotle to discover logic first, you realize, right?
- And you need some medieval weirdo to classify all kinds of logic, like what is an "and," an "or," an "x-or"
- All these things are basically math and logic
- And you need some other weird later people to formalize it into symbols
- And then some guy to decide that we could make these symbols material in computers
- And so on and so on
I'm just telling you some of the steps that I know about, okay? Which means that if someone is going to put himself in the situation of the desert island, what if you work ahead, you should start somewhere else, right?
Student: And yeah, exactly, maybe basically you're starting their own place.
Instructor: And I can't even give you a coherent story of how you get to what we read—histories of computing, they can give you like very top level overview of how it happened, but I definitely can't create it for you, right?
Now, in a similar way, cultures and even worldviews—not only cultures, even like the ideologies of those cultures—work in a similar way. They might have started, they obviously must have started on a desert island somewhere, or however you think humanity started. Maybe it started with God giving *Adam* the *Torah* and all the knowledge that gave you a head start. Okay. But at the same time, he must have given them also how *chochmah* [wisdom] works. And it still took us time to figure it out, right? So it doesn't happen.
In any case, and then slowly we built up all these things, and there's some artifacts of the lower level leaking through. There's all kinds of funny things going on. I think that the idea of having a *Maariv* [evening prayer service] search is like a very weird thing for people.
Student: Wait a second, you actually have to have...
Instructor: Yeah, like this guy that makes the machine.
Student: Yeah, you need a GPU.
Instructor: So, and now, let's just be clear, when people go through this kind of stages that we discussed, they're doing it in a very certain way, right? You're like, "This whole thing is nonsense." From an outside view, it makes no sense. You can't talk to a piece of glass and get answers, right? You could, but it doesn't explain itself. It's nuts. What explains it is something very long.
So then you go like, "Well, this is nonsense, break my computer, I'm going to call *Maalik Bidiman* [burn the leaven] and put a hammer on my iPhone," because iPhones are *treif* [non-kosher], and smash it in the *chametz* [leavened bread] fire, and then after Pesach you realize, "Wait, turns out it did solve some problems."
And you might even, like somehow, in your specific situation, go through some of the phases where you realize that computers are helpful. Like, you know, "I've got to, I want to get water from the well and therefore I need to build a wheelbarrow and I know already about wheels. We discussed that once. And now I need to know how big the wheel should be for my needs. It's too big. Obviously the biggest is the best but no, it's not, because then I will just have a wheel to *schlep* [drag/carry] and I'm going to *schlep* the weight of the wheel and I can have water through from the water. So how am I going to figure this out? Wait, I need something called calculation?"
Calculation, major invention. We could calculate that. And computers could help me with that. I'm like, "Wait, the guy that gave me a calculator wasn't just a weird shaman playing with numbers. That's actually the kind of thing that told me how big to make my wheelbarrow. Wow."
So things like that happen. This is emotional. Things like that happen to people in that kind of process. They're like, "Wait, this *bris milah* actually, wait, oh, I could talk about the *bris milah*. I could talk about the *bris milah*."
Instructor: I could talk about the *bris milah*, I think, like you said, okay, let's go back naked to the Garden of Eden and let's see what do people do. Oh, they have children. Oh wait, I have certain ideas in my head that I want to teach my children. How am I going to do that? This is not a *drash* [homiletical interpretation] from *bris milah*. This is you have to really imagine yourself doing this. Like what am I going to do?
"I know, you probably know, I'm going to write a book," right? I have news for you. I have a bunch of books. My kids don't read any of them. I wrote even more. I wrote like 10 million words in my life or something like that. None of my kids read them. That's not the way. Even if it is the way—
I know, you probably know that I'm going to write a book, right? I have this for you, I have a bunch of books, my kids don't read any of them. I wrote even more, I wrote like 10 million words in my life or something like that, but none of my kids read them. That's not the way. Or even if it is the way, that's not only the way, doesn't work, you try it out. Many professors have written fat books and their kids don't even know the names of them. You try it out, might take you a very long time.
So then you're like, I have to figure something out. You actually might take a knife and make a cut on your kid's ear because that's what they would have thought. Maybe we should make a cut on your ear. Like, yeah, I'm the father of the weirdo that cut his kid's ear. Then you might actually look at a newborn baby and see, wait, his penis has this extra piece of skin that doesn't seem to do anything. Might as well cut that one.
This is not what it's made of. I don't know. I just gave you a theory. Well, I'm trying to show you. And then you're like okay I just made you a very long story that you should realize I'm just here to solve a certain problem. This is one of the theories, it might be other theories, but I think it's the most reasonable one.
And it's the basic creating a culture, which is like a basic human problem. It's very hard actually. It's not actually a simple thing. People—I know a bunch of people in California that tried to do it in the last few of the years, they all failed to create a culture, counterculture. Like basically all of them failed. None of their—they don't have—they don't have grandchildren [*einiklach*], or if they do, they're in a third version of the cult, different one. Like it's actually a very hard problem.
You said this a few years ago that you're talking about putting up a sign for you on Pesach that remember—remember that's right? Yeah, let's say like 24 degrees away, away from what you're trying to probably deserve. Go try to get rid of that, don't use it. 25 degrees away. It makes sense, it makes sense what you're saying.
But in any case, what I'm trying to show you is this is me trying to give you this whole theory to get you to see that it's really to—because culture, now at some point after I could go through all of that until I get to the side, I will take you—me, I don't have a ready yet right now, but we could sort of do that. What? Yeah, we could go through the whole all the levels of technology or of discourse or of thought, and we could see how it's really only that.
Now, but this is what actually happens to people, and actually everyone should like take apart one thing in their life and put it back together like Descartes said, and see how it happened. That was Descartes' meditation. It's not a bad practice, although he did it in a weird way. It's not a bad practice. You have to do that.
And then you're like, wait. And then usually what happens, what people end up is regaining their faith, right? Their—and their really faith, like their what I call the *emunos chachamim* [faith in the sages]. Like, wait, this thing of having a culture with all kinds of seemingly arbitrary rules and ideas. I'm not sure that I could actually create something better than that. Or if I could, it would be like one more fix. Like, make one more *takkanah* [rabbinic enactment]. Okay, thank you very much. That's what all the *Rabbonim* [rabbis] have been doing forever. Adding one more *takkanah* to the Torah. Or taking off one more thing. Or changing one thing. You're basically in the same place as everyone else. You have a better idea.
You want to take a witness meal? No problem. What did the *Rabbonim* do? Did you put *pe'ah* [corner of the field left for the poor] in the end of your field this week? This harvest? Yeah, *pe'ah*, *mitzvah* [commandment] in the Torah. It says three or four times in the Torah. Do you make it? Do you know that we don't do it anymore? We cancel the *mitzvah*. It doesn't work. It doesn't work. We've been doing this forever. No problem. You think it doesn't work? You have to do the work. Don't just say it doesn't work. No problem. We'll stop it. Let's make *mitzitzah* [circumcision]. We'll try. Start there. I'm just saying, this is—there's not—basically, basically you'll get to that.
Now could I go through all of this all the time? No. It's as silly as going through the whole—the whole from sand all the way to *challah* [braided bread] every time. But my whole story that I gave you now—but it's me, let's tell my story just made up, right? Don't believe it. Wait.
What I'm trying to tell you is, the problem with this is that it's somewhat of a waste of time. Meaning to say, not a waste of time. Firstly, you could do it a little bit, but there's something—even what I did now is not enough, right? Because I don't really want to be stuck at this level of explaining *bris milah* [circumcision] that I told you. In other words, I think it's not enough, I think it's wrong. It continues beyond that. And I usually start from somewhere later.
And that's just like when I write code. I don't—now they said just ask the chat to do it because why would I be stupid, so stupid to write it myself? Or even before that, I write Python. I don't write—I don't even write C because who has time for that? I could tell the computer what to do. Why would I have to like—who cares how to—how it works? Someone else—that someone else's job, right? I mean if I don't trust the guy, I've had a better way. There's always like—like when you figure out I can't have—oh wait, I have to dig down to a lower layer to figure something out. No problem, I will do that.
Out if someone came to a school to know the process and if you don't give them the process then they feel like hey what's going on here, right? I get so therefore—so therefore we should make a school? No, well that's cool.
Therefore what I'm trying to describe is that it becomes very hard and like you want me to waste my time to go through all the funny mistakes that everyone has all the time and like keep on discussing them? And just to be clear, it's not even true. Like to go back to my computer example, we could have invented computers that work differently and they might have ended up better. I don't know. There were some arbitrary choices made upon the way, called path dependence. Now we're stuck in a certain way of things working because of some choices made during the way, maybe even made some astrology, I don't even know. Okay?
And now you come to me and I tell you why is my computer working this way and I tell you because of astrology and you're like that's nuts, let's make a better one. And it's like, yeah, try. Not worth the effort. I can't answer all these questions at some point. The fact that the reality and culture and everything is built up level upon level—yeah, it's true, very good. But is not all—doesn't—there's no proof at each level. There is a story, that's what I think. If you go through the story, and that's why I did what I really think is that if you go back to my story which is not so much of a *mashal* [parable], it's an *inyan* [matter] of the guy that's OTD [off the derech/path] and trust of those people.
He realizes is that all those people that are OTD, they just need to grow up. A story has to happen to them. What I mean is you can't—I don't think you could—that's the truth. I don't think you could go to the guy that's at this like stage that's so to speak of like ah there's—there's a—there's no God. No, oh, thank you very much. And you know that my rabbi didn't have a good proof. His proof was silly. Rabbi Elchonon Wasserman told us that no smart person denies God. That's like just wrong.
So now what do I do? I can't actually tell this guy to believe in God, even if I have a solution, even if I have this so-called answer. I don't think I could. If I—like some—when the fact that you sitting here and you're so happy with my [teaching] is because you already passed that six years ago or whatever.
Could you convince him that there are substances in the world? For sure, even less, even less so, even less so. Is there a human? Can you convince him that there's a human in the world? Probably not, right? I can't even get him to see that problem. It's probably easier to get started. How do I even get to see this problem, though? To me, it's more—
Other things? No, some people don't understand the magnitude of the problem, the problems that cultures hope to solve, right?
So I can explain to him every single detail that the culture hopes to solve, right? I could say, look, you know, I could do the *bris milah*. I only need to do one or two *bris milah* stories like that. I don't think it's that many. Like, is it that many more? You have to simulate that once. I don't think, honestly, if I—just to be clear, me, the thought OTD, listening to this *derusha* [sermon/lecture] that you were very impressed with for some reason about *bris milah* would like, thank you very much for your next thirtieth apologetics that I heard. It doesn't talk, it doesn't tell you anything. It only means something to you if you actually try to do things like this.
No, but let me give a—like, just a—you have to do it. No, just to illustrate it for a second.
If you go over to someone, and I think this is an experiment that I found at least somewhat telling, you go to someone, okay, a person decides to live an alternative lifestyle, okay, so you decided, you know, and this is my joke, 2025 secularism must be the best option, you know, for all possible worlds, okay?
Do you think there's any—like, do you think there's any issues with 2025 secularism if you're an alien coming from Mars just for two seconds? Well, you have people looking at a glass box all day. Okay, are they like solving the world's problems in the glass box? No, they're mostly actually watching people for 10 seconds at a time, eat a piece of food. Or play a game. Or play a game that you're not playing.
Okay, interesting. How much time do people dedicate to this? Well, it looks like people are dedicating around six and a half hours a day these days to watching other people do small incremental tasks. Okay, do you think something might have gone wrong? Possibly. In the human condition, do you think something might have been slightly averse. Or is this ideal? Meaning, were we hoping to get here? Were we hoping to get to a place where we look at a glass box and watch 10 seconds at a time? Was that like the end goal?
Because if you ask people, that's their default. They crash on the couch. Finally, I don't have work. I have enough money in the bank. Finally, I get to look at the glass box and watch people with 10 seconds at a time. That's most people's definition of leisure. I just need to relax. Something might have gone wrong. Now, at least let's get curious about it for two seconds. Maybe there's a different way to live your life.
But do you think, who are we going to give this *derusha* to? I don't think you can give it to OTD guys. In other words, I think you can only give this *derusha* to—you know the *mashal* of Reb Yisrael Salanter? No, first you have to be stable, I'm serious.
Reb Yisrael Salanter was his whole life trying to solve Judaism's problems, you know that? It's beautiful, he has many different plans. He was the first *ba'al machshava* [master of Jewish thought] of programs. And then, he was a real modern guy.
Instructor: Maybe there's a different way to live your life? But do you think, who are we going to give this *drosha* [discourse/teaching] to? I don't think you can give it to OTD [Off the Derech: those who have left Orthodox observance] guys. In other words, I keep thinking you can only give this *drosha* to... You know the *mashal* [parable] of Rabbi Yisrael Salanter? No, first you have to be stable, I'm serious.
Rabbi Yisrael Salanter was his whole life trying to solve Judaism's problems, you know that? He had many different plans. He was the first *baal habayis* [layperson] program. And then, he was a real modern guy, like a real modern, modern job. You know about the learning material in the workplace? He was the first one. Yeah, he had programs for everything and solutions and he was going to do all these social engineering projects and so on.
And then, at some point, he got into a fight with too many people and he had a kid in Paris, I think, and his son was a doctor, Lipkin, was a mathematician or something. And first he went to Germany or wherever and he said, and they gave up on the *frum* [religiously observant] guys. He's going to work on the totally *frei* [secular/non-observant] guys maybe. And he said, the *mashal* is, when there's a horse that you know, it's a runaway horse running down a hill, you don't stop it in the middle of the hill. You jump to the end, and then after it fell you fix it, or you stop it over there, things like that. He said these *frum* guys, they're in the middle of like, there's nothing to do. I'm going to talk to the guys that already fell down. They're looking for a way, maybe we'll work with them. I don't think that works out either for him, but that's different stuff. You seem to have been more set up. I think you've been living in Germany for a while. But this, no, but in other words, when someone is in this like stage we're like, I have to question everything.
Wait, my rabbi told me that a smartphone is *treif* [non-kosher/forbidden], but it seems to be kind of fun. What am I going to tell him? Well, there isn't, there's not a way to answer that question. Is there some way of saying, basically they're just being destructive? They're not actually being like creative.
Student: I guess it's, it's a, it's, it's either destroying fake things. They're not wrong. They're strong, but they're just destroying.
Instructor: Yeah, so you need to destroy like, they're just destroying. It's very hard to work.
I'll give you a different way of saying this. Human beings live in time. Things take time. Time is not the time that it takes to read an argument in a chapter of a book. If me or someone will write like a book with like, give you the whole story and like a proof for every step, it might take you five hours to read that book. But to do it would take a lifetime. And there isn't a way, there isn't a way to shorten that. It takes time to understand things.
To have the question, like, like, let's say like this, let's say this. I'm *posek* [halachic decisor] to these, because all these are just like, it's a long sheet, right? If I give a very long sheet, I have this *kasha* [question], this *meil* [topic], I give you the whole sheet in 45 minutes, right? But that's not a real way to have a *kasha*. In 20 minutes and then you're already happy? Seriously, you gotta have it for two years.
The OTD guy is, he's just learning a very long *shtikel Torah* [piece of Torah learning]. He's like, he's having this guy, he's asking a *kasha* and learning. I'm serious. No, I think he has an answer for a very long time. It's the same thing. He's having a *kasha*, and now, slowly, then he's going to have a *teretz* [answer], or he'll have a better *kasha*, I don't know. There's not, there's nothing wrong with that.
Why can't I give a *shiur* [class/lecture] *b'ketzara* [in brief]? Like the Kotzker [Rebbe] said, the *melech* [king, referring to Dovid HaMelech] wrote to him in 70 years, not in an hour. You could read it in an hour, but you can't make it in an hour, and we're all about making it, doing it. You have to spend a few years asking a *kasha*.
All I can think of, the only part that I want to say on the side today is the real problem. So that's what I think in my theory of experience is, which is very nothing, like I'm five seconds old, is that it's just that you can't talk with people in that kind of way.
What you want, what you are trying to do, and maybe you can do it, you people can do it, is that firstly you could be there at the end of the, at the end of the thing. Like you know something, go, go to all the things. When you're done, come back. People have said, people say that even, you don't have to say it, you just beat it. That's one thing.
And then like, something like, well will that guy trust me that I really am just as *apikoros* [heretic] as him? No, he will not trust me. Why should he trust me? I'm wearing a white shirt. I don't even believe in the white shirt. Even if I believe in God, definitely don't believe in the white shirt, but I'm wearing it. So I'm just a bluff, a low-life. Why would you talk to me? He's right.
And what are you gonna tell him? You want me to have credibility as being enough OTD and enough smart and enough for him? How is this supposed to work? It's not possible. You could just be there.
I think that the main thing that I think of it, that's what my vote on the title is, is that one reason that why this disconnect happens sometimes is because people are about *gaavah* [pride]. Like me, like, you're like, wait, nobody wants to be the OTD guy because OTD is just a name for loser, right? In here, maybe if you go to somewhere else where OTD is the winner, I don't even know there's such a place, but right here just the name for loser.
So, and you also don't want to be the previous loser. You don't want to say that I was a loser. That's also not good. So let's say you figure out some reason why not to be OTD, then you pretend it never happened. You start speaking a foreign language.
That's why every year we make a Seder. This is what happened to the Jewish people. First we were in *Mitzrayim* [Egypt]. We understood the real world, the so-called real world, with all the... And then we realized that there's 613 *mitzvos* [commandments]. We worked on it for a few thousand years. We finally got here to the stage where we could learn Reb Chaim [Brisker] all day in Lakewood.
And we don't really want to talk about the fact that basically we think that Terach [Avraham's idolatrous father] had a point. That's where we're coming from. That's *kaveyachol* [so to speak]. Says the Holy Rambam [Maimonides]. That's why once a year we eat *matzah* [unleavened bread]. What's *matzah*? *Matzah shebecha* [bread of poverty], *matzah*. Like before we invented bread, we ate *matzah*. When you're poor, you don't have money, you eat *matzah*. But that's not good.
You have to appreciate it. You have to have a *hakoras hatov* [gratitude], which means you have to be less full of yourself. So you have to, once a year you have to eat *matzah* to show like, you think you're such a *chacham* [wise person]? You're just as stupid as everyone else.
That's why we ask four *kashas* [questions]. And that's why I give this whole sheet explaining how Terach is *mamash* [literally] right, not even right, like, to only normal people. Because otherwise we forget. Otherwise we become this *shaneid* [arrogant person]. Like you know what's a *shaneid*? When you become 60, you forgive yourself. You're a *chatez neidim* [sinner in your youth], and then you, I remember what you did in your youth.
So the whole *mitzvah* [commandment] of Pesach is to not be that guy. Yeah, I have four *kashas*, I have no idea. We even understand, we basically are this. It's amazing.
I've said this many times. When the *chachamim* [sages], when the *medrash* [Midrash] says they mention it, it doesn't say in the Pesach that it's a such a nice *posuk* [verse]. And the *chachamim* were like, wait, I could read it without the answer. It's a better question than the answer, right? What in the world are we doing? Oh, what does that mean, right?
We don't have a *teretz* for the *rasha* [wicked son]. We'll have a *teretz* for the *rasha*, maybe. And that's why every year in Pesach we say the *rasha*, we don't have a *teretz* for, I guess you know, we have... And we have a whole night of being *apikorsim* [heretics].
Student: So other than the, I think that's a night of *apikorsus*, because you can't be a *ma'amin* [believer] if you're never *apikoros*.
Instructor: Oh, very good, that's a *teretz*. It's like, okay, we're here. That's very *teretz*. I don't know if that's a *teretz*.
Student: Yeah, I don't like that. It's laziness, like, I don't want to change my...
Instructor: No, no, I think it's a call to look deeper.
Student: Yeah, yeah, very good. The *kasha* is best with the *teretz*.
Instructor: 100%. I don't think the goal is to... The goal is just not to get false complacency. That's the *mashal*.
So the *mashal*, how do we make this message bigger? By calling the *frum* guys. Because they have hope. Stop this because they might realize what that would pick up a course they really are, and they're normal enough that we could teach them something.
The people that are right, I give them once, I give them once a year a sheet to explain them that I'm even more *frei* than them. They're *shvach* [weak] *apikorsim* because they believe that racism is the biggest sin to be invented since ever, and they're so weird. They're believing something that was invented five minutes ago, this sin. Anyways, you should believe in it, but like why? And so on.
And maybe they'll give some credibility, but I don't think you could actually solve the problem. At least I don't see how.
But I think, so I think you're being meaner to a *frum* person than the *frei* person. Because the fact that you're not right in this world, whatever you're going to say, not really bad for this world, but not in a mean way. In other words, it doesn't come home like, oh my gosh, what did he just say? I have to become *frum* again.
Okay, okay. He says that he's eating fish and not chocolate. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? So he's doing that and he's married and he's kids and he's ready to talk to them and the wife is always out there. You know what I'm saying? She looks like, and all of a sudden you're like something, he makes a mistake, but that's it. He's like, whoa. And if you really give it to explain to him, right, you're like, he literally, you just tortured his life.
That's why we don't do that. Only on YouTube.
Student: I'm saying, but if you want that... Maybe we shouldn't put the *shiur* call allusion.
Instructor: No, you're saying we should get *frum* people here, right? I don't do that. That's what you're talking about. If you're going to explain it to me very slowly like this...
Student: Very slowly.
Instructor: We can do whatever you want. I don't do that. I don't usually do this *tzu* [to] *shiur*. I don't say this *shiur*. This *shiur* is for the OTD. Like us.
Student: I think this layer four... We went through person types one through three. Who's the fourth guy?
Instructor: There are four and five that are like... That are... No, they're actually... Like, beyond all of this?
Student: No, yeah, they, like, came to the realization that, first of all, actually, besides for the Judaism questions, which is, like, I'd say, interest level two, like, there's interest level one problems.
Instructor: Ah, like how to support yourself?
Student: No, no, no, no, no, no, we don't actually understand how language works.
Instructor: That's true. Right? I think that there's enough people out there that are, during the right moment... But you realize, what you're saying is something that I don't know how to do at all. In other words, you realize, I mean, I do it, but you realize that if there's a hook—
Like, what are the posts that I write that get a lot of views? When it's starting off with this silly rational Judaism problems. Like, "Ah, do you know that I could actually..." And then if I actually ever make a point, nobody likes that.
Like, did you think that, yeah, you're all very smart, you think that Artscroll biographies are fake, but do you know that there's a way in which they're more true than your critical biographies? People open the post because it says something about Artscroll, and then they read it and they don't even realize that there's an argument.
Maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong. Nobody even... It's actually not possible to get people to there. Like, who can you talk to?
There are people that are philosophically inclined. They want to know what things are. Okay. You know who those people are in the Jewish world? The *mekubalim* [Kabbalists/those studying Kabbalah]. The *yeshiva bochurim* [yeshiva students] going to *mekubalim* classes. Those are the ones.
Not the OTD [Off the Derech: those who have left Orthodox observance] guys. They don't care usually about what things are. Some of them do. It just happens to be. Not as... You understand?
The *kochav* [star/point], like, was the, is *Ma'aseh Bereishis* [the Account of Creation] *kipshuto* [according to its plain meaning] or not? I don't know any way of that leading to a real interest in what the world is. It could lead, I guess, that *Ma'aseh Bereishis* is about what the world is. It makes sense that it should, right? Eventually, why do we have *Ma'aseh Bereishis*? Because people were trying to figure out what the world is. That's sort of doubting.
Student: I think that that process happens for more people than you might be giving credit for. Look, basically, that was sort of my, you know, you move from theology to philosophy eventually. You have to.
Instructor: But does that, is that the same thing or is it the other way around? Like maybe the person that wants to know what things are, and it starts with that, and then he's told, well, things are *luchos* [the Tablets]. That's what things, that's the thing, the *zach* [the thing/essence].
And he's like, then he starts wondering about that, and then he gets sidetracked by all these questions. Wait, were the *luchos* made out of sapphire? Wait, does that even make sense? There's not such big sapph... Wait, and if you... Whatever, all these... I don't know.
And then you get sidetracked and then you get stuck and then you finally find some way to get back to what you really wanted and find out. I think that that's a reasonable account of some people. It's like history, really. It's versus...
But many people seem to be interested actually in if the *luchos* were really of sapphire.
Student: Stuck is crazy.
Instructor: I know, I understand why because the funny people talking about the *Nezer HaKodesh* [a reference to a specific Torah commentary] told them that but they don't hear it even those people are better because they care about it in the real way they care about the *luchos* not because they were sapphire but because they have some truth in them but that's it.
*Bekitzur* [in short], *she'alos b'tzad* [questions aside], we're doing well. *Nirtzeh* [that's it/we're done].
Well, you can close my thing. Thank you.
This lecture addresses the question of why Jews should remain Jewish rather than assimilate, examining Leo Strauss's argument that assimilation fails because one can only be a "Jewish Jew" or a "Gentile-ish Jew." The instructor challenges the counter-argument that multi-generational assimilation could eventually succeed, introducing the concept that parental influence naturally extends only four generations and exploring how Abraham's covenant and the Akeidah (binding of Isaac) represent a commitment to transcend this natural limit by accepting exile and suffering for the sake of a messianic future beyond one's great-grandchildren. The discussion grapples with whether one should sacrifice present well-being for distant descendants and how Abraham's choice established the Jewish pattern of non-assimilation despite persecution.
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זהו המשך של השיעור מהשבוע שעבר (שנמסר ביידיש). השאלה המרכזית מאותו מפגש:
– השאלה המרכזית (מ״פיטר”): למה אדם צריך להישאר יהודי?
– התשובה הבסיסית שניתנה אז: אין באמת אלטרנטיבה אמיתית — אתה יכול להיות רק *יידישע ייד* (יהודי יהודי) או *גוישע ייד* (יהודי גויי). מכיוון שלהיות יהודי גויי זה קיום עצוב ובלתי קוהרנטי, עדיף להיות יהודי יהודי.
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תשובה זו מבוססת על ההרצאה של ליאו שטראוס *”למה אנחנו עדיין יהודים”*, שסוקרת “פתרונות” אפשריים לבעיה היהודית:
– אפשרות: התבוללות (רצח עצמי תרבותי): תפסיק להיות יהודי, דבר אנגלית, תהיה “אנשים נורמליים”.
– השיקול של הרצל: הרצל אפילו שקל המרת דת המונית לנצרות — לא בגלל שהיה משוגע, אלא כי הוא *עבד לוגית על האפשרויות*. היושר האינטלקטואלי שלו ראוי להגנה: “אתה המשוגע שמעולם לא שקל את האפשרות הזו”.
– למה הרצל דחה את זה: אתה לא יכול באמת להפוך ללא-יהודי. אתה הופך ל*גוי יהודי* — יצור שונא עצמו, לימינלי. אז הרצל הגיע למסקנה שעדיף להישאר יהודי.
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התנגדות רצינית למסקנה של שטראוס/הרצל:
– ההתנגדות: גם אם *הדור הראשון* של המתבוללים סובל כ״גויים יהודיים” מביכים, אחרי כמה דורות (ארבעה, חמישה, עשרה), הצאצאים ישכחו לחלוטין את מוצאם היהודי. “הבעיה היהודית” נפתרת כך *לצאצאיך*.
– בניסוח פורמלי: אם אכפת לך יותר מהצאצאים שלך מאשר מעצמך, האם לא כדאי להתבולל עכשיו, לסבול כאב לטווח קצר, ולהעניק להם הקלה לטווח ארוך מרדיפות (מסעות צלב, פוגרומים, להיות “הורגי ישו”, וכו׳)?
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תלמיד מעלה את המציאות ההיסטורית של הרדיפות (מסעות צלב, נאצים, עינויים, מוות). הבהרה חשובה:
– הנזק של להיות יהודי בעולם עוין הוא לא רק חומרי (אלימות, מוות) אלא גם רוחני/מוסרי — אנשים לא משגשגים כשהם במצב של רדיפה והשפלה.
– להיפך, “החיים הטובים” שמוותרים עליהם בהתבוללות הם לא רק נוחות חומרית אלא כוללים טובות מוסריות, אינטלקטואליות ורוחניות — חיים של שמירת מצוות, של להיות טוב מוסרית במסגרת שלך.
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הדילמה מתחדדת לשאלת טרייד-אוף פילוסופית כללית:
– האם כדאי להרוס את חייך (מוסרית, רוחנית) כדי שנכדי-נכדיך יימנעו ממערכת מסוימת של בעיות?
– הפיכת התרחיש כדי להסיר הטיה רגשית: האם היית אומר ל*נוצרי* נרדף פשוט להפסיק להיות נוצרי למען צאצאיו? רובם היו אומרים כן — מה שמגלה שההתנגדות להתבוללות עשויה לנבוע מהתקשרות רגשית ולא מטיעון רציונלי.
– תלמיד מסכים עם ההתבוללות, והדחייה: “אתה מתנהג בטוח מאוד בצד אחד כי אתה חושב שהסכמה עם הצד *השני* [כלומר, להישאר יהודי] היא רק הטיה — אבל הצד התומך בהתבוללות גם הוא לא נכון באופן ברור.“
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אנשים רבים, מודעים להטיה שלהם (דתית, לאומית, שבטית), מתקנים יתר על המידה. הם חושבים: “אני מאמין ב-X רק בגלל שזה הצד *שלי*, אז כנראה X שגוי”. הם מדמיינים שבשאילת השאלה “מה אם הייתי פלסטיני?” או “מה אם הייתי הצד השני?” הם משיגים אובייקטיביות — “נקודת מבט מהאין”.
תיקון יתר זה הוא בעצמו טעות. מודעות להטיה אינה מניבה אוטומטית אמת. הרמב״ם דאג מהטיה שבטית, כן — אבל *ההיפוך* של הטיה שבטית אינו בהירות.
– אנלוגיית שבשבת הרוח: *שבשבת רוח שבורה* שמצביעה באופן עקבי לכיוון הלא נכון עדיין שימושית (פשוט תהפוך אותה). אבל רוב הטעויות אינן *היפוכים שיטתיים* — הן אקראיות. אז פשוט להפוך את העמדה המוטה שלך לא מביא אותך לאמת.
– המחשות הומוריסטיות: “שאל בעל הבית ועשה את ההיפך = דעת תורה”; “שאל ליטבק ועשה את ההיפך”.
– הפתיחה של *אנה קרנינה* של טולסטוי (“כל המשפחות המאושרות מאושרות באותו אופן; כל המשפחות האומללות אומללות בדרכים שונות”) ממחישה רעיון אריסטוטלי.
– הטיעון של אריסטו: יש דרכים רבות להיות רע ומעט דרכים להיות טוב — אחד מטיעוניו לדוקטרינת האמצע.
– שורשים פיתגוראיים: אריסטו ייחס זאת לפיתגוראים, שקישרו את האחד עם הטוב ואת הרבים/המגוון/הלא שווה עם הרע. אפילו מספרים אי-זוגיים (המקושרים לאחדות) היו טובים, ומספרים זוגיים (*זוגות*, המרמזים על כפילות) היו רעים.
– הנקודה הלוגית המרכזית: מכיוון שיש הרבה יותר דרכים להיות טועה מאשר להיות צודק, לעשות את *ההיפך* של משהו טיפשי סטטיסטית סביר יותר להיות דבר טיפשי *אחר* מאשר הדבר הנכון.
> כפי שציינו אריסטו, רבי נחמן מברסלב וטולסטוי: יש רק אמת אחת אבל דרכים רבות לטעות. היפוך תשובה שגויה אחת לא מבטיח שתפגע באחת הנכונה — סביר שפשוט תנחת על תשובה שגויה *אחרת*.
התלמיד שאומר “אני מוטה כלפי יהדות, לכן ההתבוללות כנראה נכונה” עושה בדיוק את הטעות הזו. הכרה בהטיה שלך כלפי להישאר יהודי לא הופכת את המקרה להתבוללות לחזק יותר. אסטרטגיית ה״היפוך” לא מבהירה כלום — היא לא ממיסה את השאלה האמיתית; היא רק מניחה שהסיבה היחידה שמישהו מחזיק בעמדה היא בגלל באיזה “צד” הוא נמצא. יש כאן שאלה מהותית אמיתית, והיפוך פרספקטיבות לא גורם לה להיעלם. יש לבחון את השאלה לגופה.
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זה לא ברור שמישהו צריך להחמיר את חייו כדי שחיי נכד-נכדו יהיו טובים יותר. התבוללות לא עובדת בדור אחד — הדור הראשון סובל, והתועלת מצטברת רק לצאצאים מאוחרים יותר. זו לא אמונה יהודית ייחודית; זו חוויה אנושית כללית (מהגרים אומרים בדרך כלל “אני עושה את זה למען הילדים שלי”). אבל לעשות זאת למען *ילדים* זה דבר אחד; לעשות זאת למען *נכדי-נכדים* זה דבר אחר לגמרי — החישוב המוסרי הופך להיות הרבה פחות ברור.
אם האדם חייב להפוך לאדם רע כדי שנכדיו בסופו של דבר יהיו “טובים” (כלומר, מתבוללים בהצלחה), אז ההקרבה כנראה לא מוצדקת. זה מסומן כשיקול רציני, לא כנקודה מוכרעת.
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נקודת המוצא של ליאו שטראוס (*הוא אמינא* — ההנחה הראשונית שיש לבחון): יהודים יכולים להתבולל, אבל מכיוון שזה לא יעבוד בדור אחד, הם לא צריכים. למה בכלל הוצעה ההתבוללות: כדי לפתור את “הבעיה היהודית” — שכולם שונאים את היהודים, מה שמוביל לרדיפות, התעללות והרג. גם אם לא נגרם נזק פיזי, להיות שנוא אוניברסלית זה בעצמו רע — זו הנחה חזקה.
אם כולם שונאים אותך, זה כנראה סימן שמשהו לא בסדר *איתך*, לא רק עם כולם. זה מאתגר את ההבנה העצמית היהודית הנפוצה ש״כולם שונאים אותנו אבל אנחנו הטובים ביותר”. הבנה עצמית זו לא בהכרח שקרית, אבל היא צריכה לתת לאדם עצירה — זו לא אמונת ברירת מחדל יציבה או סבירה.
– תלמיד: האם ההיפך נכון — אם כולם אוהבים אותך, זה אומר שאתה טוב?
– תשובה: לא הוכחה, אבל זה סימן. שנאה אוניברסלית היא סימן שמשהו לא בסדר; אישור אוניברסלי אינו הוכחה לטוב, אבל זה גם לא סיבה לדאגה. פופולריות מתפקדת כראיה משמעותית, לא “סרט מדידה” מוחלט.
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למה אנשים טובים באמת — אנשים שעושים דברים טובים יותר — יהיו שנואים? זה רעיון מוזר. אם אתה באמת עושה דברים טובים יותר, מי יתנגד לזה?
– “אתה עושה את זה גרוע יותר לאנשים רעים”: אבל אז האם אתה באמת עושה דברים *טובים יותר* בסך הכל? וגם עונש אמור להיות *טוב* לאדם הרע (רפורמטיבי), לא רק מזיק.
– “אנשים רעים מקנאים באנשים טובים”: אם אדם טוב מעורר קנאה, משהו לא בסדר בגישה של האדם הטוב.
– “אנשים רעים שונאים את מה שטוב להם”: האנלוגיה של סוקרטס לרופא — חולים כמעט אף פעם לא שונאים רופאים, גם כשרופאים כופים דרישות לא נעימות (דיאטות, הפסקת עישון). אנשים אולי לא *מקשיבים*, אבל הם לא *שונאים* את הרופא. זה מצביע על כך שאנשים מועילים באמת לא שנואים באופן טבעי.
אנחנו נוחים מדי עם הנרטיב “אנחנו שנואים כי אנחנו צודקים”. נוחות זו חשודה ומסוכנת. רוב האנשים למעשה *שמחים* להיות מתוקנים ברוב התחומים. אם מתעוררת שנאה, המורה נושא באחריות משמעותית.
> ### סטייה צדדית: הרפובליקה של אפלטון על שנאת פילוסופים
> אפלטון טען שאנשים שונאים פילוסופים כי רוב הפילוסופים שהם פוגשים הם באמת אנשים רעים — שנאה על ידי אסוציאציה, מקרה של “אובייקט מוטעה”.
מסקנה מעשית: אם אתה גורם לאנשים לשנוא אותך, אתה נכשל בהוראה. להיות צודק חסר משמעות אם אתה לא יכול להעביר אמת. אפשרויות:
– אל תלמד עד שאנשים מוכנים.
– מצא שיטות “חתרניות” כך שאנשים לא יבינו שאתה מאתגר אותם עד שיהיה מאוחר מדי.
– שמור שתיקה במקום לעורר שנאה שלא משיגה כלום.
אנחנו מורגלים ל״רעיון מוזר” — הרעיון שלהיות צודק אומר שכדאי לצפות לשנאה אוניברסלית. זה אולי שטויות אגוצנטריות. אם הצדיקים שנואים, התגובה הנכונה עשויה להיות *תשובה* (חזרה בתשובה/בדיקה עצמית), לא חיזוק עצמי. אנחנו חיים בבורות עמוקה לגבי הטוב, האמת, היפה — אנחנו מנווטים לפי *סימנים*. התנגדות אוניברסלית היא סימן מרכזי שמשהו עשוי להיות לא בסדר.
אדם לא צריך בהכרח להיות שנוא על ידי כולם; אדם צריך לצפות להיות אהוב על ידי רוב האנשים.
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בני אדם צריכים בני אדם אחרים: לבתי ספר, עסקים, נישואין, שיתוף פעולה. להיות מודר מהחברה מנתק אותך מ-~90% מהטובות האנושיות.
דוגמה היסטורית קונקרטית: אוניברסיטאות אירופיות גילו תרופות למחלות, אבל יהודים לא יכלו להיכנס בלי להתנצר.
טיעון ההתבוללות (נלקח ברצינות): אם להישאר יהודי אומר להיות מודר מלתרום לקידום האנושות (למשל, לרפא סרטן), אז אתה שותף לאובדן הזה. אתה לא יכול פשוט להגיד “הם הרעים” — גם אתה נכשל לעשות טוב.
גם אם אתה מתנצר, *אתה* לא תתקבל — תסומן כ״נוצרי חדש” ולא יסמכו עליך (כמו באינקוויזיציה הספרדית). רק *נכדי-נכדיך* יתקבלו באופן מלא (אפילו הקטגוריות הגזעיות של היטלר הכירו בנקודת חיתוך זו ב-~4 דורות).
זה מחדש את השאלה הקודמת: כמה יותר גרועים צריכים להיות חייך כדי שנכדי-נכדיך ישגשגו?
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תובנה מרכזית: האדם שאתה כביכול מציל (נכד-נכד-הנכד) הוא בדיוק האדם שאיתו אין לך יותר קשר אמיתי.
תמיכה מקראית: שמות — ה׳ פוקד עוון אבות על בנים על שלשים ועל רבעים.
פירוש רש״י: רחמי אב מגיעים רק כ-3-4 דורות. מעבר לזה, הקשר הרגשי והמעשי מתמוסס.
אתה וילדיך/נכדיך חולקים מאה שנה, עולם, חיים. נכדי-נכדים חיים בעולם שונה ביסודו. למטרות מעשיות, נכד-נכד-הנכד שלך הוא לא באמת “שלך” — אתה לא חולק איתם חיים.
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חובות לצאצאים מבוססות על חיים משותפים — קשר ממשי, חי. יש לך חובות לילדיך כי אתה חולק איתם חיים; אותו דבר חל על הורים וסבים וסבתות. אבל עד שאתה מגיע לסבא-רבא-רבא (או נכד-נכד-נכד), הקשר למעשה אפס:
– אתה לא חולק חיים, עולם, או חוויות אמיתיות איתם.
– החלק הגנטי/יחסי מדולל (למשל, “הוא רק בעלים על 1/128 ממני”).
– לכן, אין לך חובה מוסרית *ספציפית* לצאצאים רחוקים *כצאצאיך*.
מסקנה: זה יהיה מוזר לומר שאתה צריך לעשות משהו במיוחד כדי שאנשים שאין לך קשר מוסרי אמיתי איתם ייהנו.
הטיעון מושרש ברעיון שחובות מוסריות עוקבות אחר קרבה — רמות של דאגה שמקרינות החוצה מהעצמי. להיות אדם טוב אומר לדאוג לילדיך, נכדיך, ואולי נכדי-נכדיך. מעבר לזה, הדאגה הופכת מופשטת ואוניברסלית (“אזרח העולם”/קוסמופוליטי), לא מכוונת ספציפית ל*שושלת* שלך.
אם אכפת לך מהעולם ברמה הקוסמופוליטית, הפתרון לבעיות האנושות הוא אוניברסלי, לא אתני/משפחתי:
– הבעיה היהודית (הישרדות יהודית) — נפתרת על ידי עבודה ברמה הפרטיקולרית/משפחתית.
– הבעיה האנושית — נפתרת על ידי עבודה ברמה האוניברסלית (למשל, “הם צריכים להפסיק להרוג את היהודים”).
אתה *יכול* לעבוד ברמה האוניברסלית מעבר לדור הרביעי, אבל אתה לא יכול למסגר את זה כחובה *לילדיך* באותה נקודה.
> ### אתגר תלמיד ודיאלוג
> תלמיד דוחף בחזרה: האם זה אומר שכדאי לדאוג יותר לבחור בעיר הסמוכה מאשר לנכד-נכד-הנכד שלך?
אולי כן — האדם הקרוב חולק יותר מהחיים והעולם האמיתיים שלך. לדאוג ל״בחורים אקראיים” מבוסס על אנושות משותפת, שהיא אמיתית אבל מופשטת. לדאוג לנכדים *כנכדים* (לא רק כבני אדם) דורש חיים משותפים ממשיים — עולם משפחתי משותף, מגע אמיתי, קשר אמיתי. לחלוק תקופה היסטורית הוא מעניין רק באופן מינימלי (“ראיינו אישה בת 106 — הכל השתנה”).
הבחנה מרכזית: “לחלוק עולם” אומר לחלוק את עולם המש
פחה (קשר אמיתי, אינטימי), לא רק לחיות באותה תקופה.
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לאברהם הייתה תוכנית — לתקן משהו לכל העולם (או לפחות למשפחתו), אבל *הכלי* לביצוע התוכנית הזו היה משפחתו/עמו (עם הוא “פשוט גרסה גדולה יותר של משפחה”). התוכנית דרשה ילדים ביולוגיים — כשאברהם לא יכול היה להביא ילדים, התוכנית הייתה מאוימת. זה לא עובד בלי צאצאים.
מתוך השיעור של השבוע הקודם:
– כשאדם מרגיל תכונות טובות, ההרגלים האלה הופכים לטבע שני — מתואר כ*שכר* של מעשים טובים.
– אותו תהליך פועל בין דורות: ילדים מקבלים את ההרגלים המצטברים של הוריהם (טובים ורעים) “בחינם” — דרך חינוך, חיים במשק הבית, ואולי גנטיקה.
– הורים רואים את ההרגלים הרעים שלהם משתקפים בלי מודעות עצמית בילדיהם (מכיוון שההורה עדיין רואה את עצמו כ״בוחר”, בעוד שהילד פשוט *יש לו* את ההרגל כמנהג משפחתי).
התוכנית של אברהם הייתה למנף את ההעברה הבין-דורית הזו — לטפח ולהחדיר לאט הרגלים טובים לאורך דורות, לעבוד עם המנגנונים הביולוגיים והחברתיים של הטבע האנושי.
> ### סטייה צדדית: למה לא תלמידים במקום ילדים?
> תלמיד שואל: למה אברהם לא יכול היה להשתמש בתלמידים? המדרש אומר שתלמידים טובים יותר מילדים, אבל זה *מדרש*, לא *פשט*. אם אתה רוצה לעבוד עם הטבע האנושי ביעילות, כדאי לעבוד קרוב ככל האפשר לביולוגיה. “יצחק לא יכול היה להתחתן עם המדרש” — כלומר, המציאות המעשית דורשת משפחה ביולוגית.
כל מהפכה שהולכת נגד המשפחה צפויה להיכשל או לייצר השלכות לא מכוונות. שינוי חברתי יעיל משתמש בטבע האנושי כפי שהוא, לא כפי שהיינו רוצים שיהיה (מפנה למקיאוולי: פוליטיקה יעילה דורשת תיאור ריאליסטי של הטבע האנושי). לכן, הכלי של משפחה, ביולוגיה ושושלת הוא הכלי האמין ביותר לשינוי מוסרי/חברתי לטווח ארוך.
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אברהם הבין שבלי ילדים, כל התוכנית קורסת. פנייתו לה׳ (בפרשת לך לך) מתפרשת לא כבקשת תפילה אלא כרגע של התמודדות קיומית — הכרה (חשש) שהתוכנית נכשלת. אברהם אומר: “הבטחת לי שכר, אבל אין לי אפילו ילדים” — כלומר התוכנית שנקבעה אלוהית (לך לך, תתברך, יהיו לך צאצאים) לא התממשה.
מהלך פרשני מרכזי: כשהתורה אומרת “ה׳ הבטיח לו”, זה אומר *זו הייתה התוכנית* — זה היה אמור לעבוד *באופן טבעי*, לא דרך התערבות נסית. גם אם ה׳ בעצמו אומר לך משהו, להסתמך על קסם במקום על תהליכים טבעיים זו תוכנית גרועה. ה׳ ברא את הטבע כדי שדברים יעבדו דרכו. אם התוכנית שלך היא “ה׳ יעקוף את הטבע שלו כדי להציל אותי”, אתה פועל בצורה פגומה ביסודה.
> הערת צד/הבהרה: זה דוחה טענה שנאמרה בשבוע הקודם שהטיעון היה שאברהם “טבעיל הכל”. זו לא בדיוק הנקודה — אלא, צריך להבין *איך ה׳ באמת עובד* (דרך הטבע). הקריאה האלטרנטיבית מסומנת כדרוש, לא פשט.
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לאברהם הייתה בהתחלה השקפה נאיבית — הוא האמין שהכל יסתדר בצורה מושלמת. הנאיביות הזו הייתה *הכרחית*: לו אברהם הבין מההתחלה כמה קשה התהליך יהיה, הוא מעולם לא היה מתחיל. ה׳ אז תיקן את הבנת אברהם, והראה לו שהוא עשה טעות בסיסית לגבי איך תהליכים ציוויליזציוניים כאלה עובדים.
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המעבר של אברהם מאור כשדים/חרן לכנען מוסבר אסטרטגית:
– בחרן, כולם הכירו אותו כ״הבן החוצפן של תרח” ששבר את גטשקעלאך של אביו — אף אחד לא לקח אותו ברצינות.
– משנה מקום משנה מזל — על ידי מעבר, הוא יכול היה להמציא את עצמו מחדש.
– במקום החדש, הוא הציג את עצמו כמייסד של דת חדשה (ויקרא שם בשם ה׳ א-ל עולם).
– הוא התחיל לצבור חסידים.
> ### סטייה צדדית: המשמעות של “גטשקע”
> טנגנטה הומוריסטית ארוכה על תרגום המילה היידישית גטשקע (מונח מזלזל מעט לפסל/צלמית קטן). “אליל” באנגלית נושא יותר מדי הוד — גטשקע הוא משהו קטן ומגוחך. “פסל” גם הוא מפואר מדי. הצעות שונות (בובות, פסלים) נדחות. אנקדוטה על מועדון האלק בשדרות קנדי משותפת. הנקודה: האלילים של תרח לא היו “אלילים” מפוארים — הם היו גטשקעלאך פתטיים.
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המזבח שאברהם בנה מתפרש מחדש: זה לא היה רק ערימת אבנים במדבר. מזבח הוא מבנה קבוע — הוא מייצג קומפלקס מוסדי שלם: ישיבה/אקדמיה, מרכז מקדש/פולחן, מרכז הכנסת אורחים (כמו “בית חב״ד”). אברהם הקים תשתית ציוויליזציונית מלאה להוראת דתו ולתרגול הכנסת אורחים.
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סדום מוצגת כראי אידיאולוגי מנוגד של אברהם — ציוויליזציה מתחרה חדשה עם תוכנית שונה בתכלית:
– מודל אברהם: חסד, הכנסת אורחים, הסברה פתוחה בצמתים, הוראת דת לכולם.
– מודל סדום: חברה ספרטנית — אין רחמים, אין חמלה לחלשים, מריטוקרטיה קפדנית, הסתמכות עצמית, חוסר רחמים (“אנחנו שותים דמעות ליברליות”).
שתיהן היו חברות חדשות עם חזונות מתחרים לציוויליזציה.
עזיבת לוט את אברהם והתיישבותו בסדום מדרמטת את המתח. לוט אמר “אין מקום לי כאן” ונמשך לסדום, והפך לאריסטוקרט שם (יושב בשער סדום). זה מקביל לדינמיקה של בכור שנדונה קודם — השאפתן שפורש.
המבחן הגדול של סדום הגיע כשהם מרדו בכדרלעומר (אולי אותו יריב שאברהם ברח ממנו). הסדומים האמינו שהחברה הקשוחה והבלתי סלחנית שלהם יכולה להביס את האימפריה הזו — אבל הם לא יכלו. אברהם, עם רק 318 איש, הצליח היכן שסדום נכשלה, והציל אותם רק בגלל שאחיינו לוט היה שם במקרה.
זו הייתה ההשפלה הגדולה ביותר של סדום: הציוויליזציה היריבה שנבנתה על חסד והכנסת אורחים הוכיחה עצמה כעדיפה צבאית על זו שנבנתה על חוסר רחמים.
אחרי ההצלה, לפי חוקי המלחמה, הכל — אנשי סדום, רכוש, נשים, ילדים — שייכים לאברהם כמנצח. (אנלוגיה: זה אותו היגיון שבו ארץ ישראל שייכת לה׳ אחרי יציאת מצרים.)
מלך סדום ניסה תמרון דיפלומטי לשמירת כבוד: הוא הציע לאברהם את הרכוש/הכסף אם אברהם יחזיר את האנשים. זה היה בלוף — המלך לא היה במצב “לתת” כלום, מכיוון שהכל כבר שייך לאברהם מכוח כיבוש. המלך העמיד פנים שהוא מנהל משא ומתן מעמדת שוויון כדי לשמר את כבודו.
אברהם ראה דרך התחבולה. אם המלך היה אומר “אנחנו עבדיך, עשה מה שתרצה” (כניעה ללא תנאי), אברהם היה מנצח לגמרי. אבל למלך היה מלכיצדק (הכהן) לצדו שהפעיל משהו כמו “חוק בינלאומי”, אז אברהם החליט להתרחק מכל העניין — לא לקחת כלום — במקום להיות מוצג כנהנה מהסדר דיפלומטי שעיוות את האמת. הוא סירב להתערב, מתוך הכרה שלקבל כל דבר יאפשר למלך סדום לטעון מאוחר יותר, אני העשרתי את אברהם — ובכך לערער את עצמאות אברהם ואת שלמות הפרויקט הציוויליזציוני שלו. הוא התנה רק שבעלי בריתו עדיין יקבלו את חלקם, מכיוון שהוא לא יכול היה לכפות את העקרונות שלו עליהם.
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המשבר התיאולוגי-מעשי המרכזי של חיי אברהם:
– התוכנית המקורית: לבוא לכנען, להקים משפחה צדקת, לבנות כוח (היו לו 318 לוחמים שהביסו את האימפריה הגדולה ביותר של התקופה), ולחיות כקהילה צדקת גדלה ומתקיימת.
– התוכנית פושטת רגל:
– אין לו ילדים משלו (עם שרה).
– ניסיונות לירושה חלופית לא עבדו.
– ישמעאל היה “תוכנית ב'”, אבל נכשל — ישמעאל לא הפך ל*מענטש*. ביולוגיה חשובה (50% DNA מהאם — הגר לא הייתה *צדקת*), לאנשים יש בחירה חופשית, וישמעאל נשלח עם אמו, לא גדל ישירות על ידי אברהם.
– אותו דפוס חוזר מאוחר יותר עם עשו (בנו של יצחק).
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זהו הטיעון הפילוסופי המרכזי:
– ההשפעה האמיתית של אדם על צאצאים מוגבלת לכל היותר ארבעה דורות, ובפועל לעתים קרובות רק אחד או שניים.
– אפילו ההורה/המורה הטוב ביותר לא יכול באמת לעצב נכדי-נכדים. באותה נקודה, הדמות המקורית הופכת להפשטה רחוקה, לא להשפעה חיה.
העיקרון מתרחב מעבר למשפחה: גם מורים מתמודדים עם המגבלה הזו.
– אנחנו קוראים למשה רבינו “רבנו לעשרת אלפים דור” — אבל מה זה באמת אומר? “אני לא זוכה לדבר איתו”. אין דבר כזה להיות מורה אמיתי לאורך אלפי שנים בשום מובן פשוט.
– ביקורת עכשווית חדה: כשאנשים אומרים “הרבי מעולם לא מת — התורה שלו עדיין חיה, אז זה ממשיך לנצח” — זה בלוף. זה עובד בערך דור וחצי. האנשים שאמרו את זה גם מתים, מבלי להבין שהטענה שלהם הייתה “נבואת שקר מזויפת”. הדור הבא יורש *מסורה* של לומר את זה, ו״אז כולנו חיים בשקר”.
– הודאה כנה: “אני לא באמת יודע שיש פתרון אמיתי לבעיה הזו.” כל דור כנראה צריך מורים חיים משלו. אבל חייב להיות *משהו יותר* — איזושהי אסטרטגיה שהמסורת פיתחה.
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פרשנות מחודשת רצינית של ברית בין הבתרים (בראשית ט״ו):
– מסר ה׳ לאברהם: התוכנית שלך לחיות באושר ועושר בכנען עם ילדים ונכדים היא שטות — כי נכדי-נכדיך לא באמת יזכרו מי היה אברהם, או אם כן, זה יהיה ב״איזו דרך מוזרה מזויפת”.
– התוכנית מעולם לא הייתה בת קיימא. אברהם חי 24-25 שנה על בסיסה, אבל היא מעולם לא הייתה אמיתית.
– ה׳ מציע תוכנית אחרת — כזו שלא מובנת לגמרי, אבל ש*לכל הפחות* אומרת: אתה לא יכול להסתמך על הצלת נכדי-נכדיך דרך השפעה אישית ישירה.
– 400 שנות העבדות שנבאו בברית = ארבעה מחזורים של ארבעה דורות (100 שנה ≈ טווח הזיכרון החי של קבוצה אחת; ×4 = הנקודה שבה אף אחד לא זוכר את האנשים שזכרו את האנשים שזכרו את המקור).
– זה ממופה על הפסוק ודור רביעי ישובו הנה — אותו היגיון שהטווח של אדם לא מתרחב מעבר לצעד הרביעי.
– מחיר ה׳ לתוכנית שבאמת עובדת: בדיוק לאותם ארבעה דורות (הטווח שאברהם לא יכול לשלוט בו), צאצאיו יחוו את ההיפך המוחלט של חלומו — עבדות לעם זר עם כוח מוחלט על ילדיו.
– אחרי זה, מחזור יתחיל שפותר איכשהו את בעיית ההעברה הבין-דורית.
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מה שבא עכשיו הוא בניגוד לכל התזה של השיעור (שהורים לא צריכים להשקיע יתר על המידה בילדים כי ההשפעה דועכת עד הדור הרביעי). קריאה נגדית מוצגת כעת:
– הסיבה האמיתית שיהודים לא מתבוללים אינה המנגנון הטרגי של ליאו שטראוס (מעמד מנוכר תמידי), אלא האמונה שעד הדור הרביעי, משיח יבוא.
– ההיגיון: למה לא פשוט להפוך לעם רגיל? כי זה לא יחזיק מעמד — עד הדור הרביעי, משיח מגיע. זה מה שה׳ אמר לאברהם אבינו.
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פרדוקס:
– ההשפעה/המורשת שלך רק באמת מתחילה לפעול (או הופכת הכרחית) בדור הרביעי — בדיוק כשההשפעה ההורית הטבעית מתה.
– הגרסה “השלילית”: הבעיה (התבוללות, אובדן זהות) רק באמת מתחילה בדור הרביעי.
– הגרסה “החיובית” (נאמרת בחוסר ודאות מוודה): אברהם עבד על משהו שתוכנן לשרוד מעבר למהלך הטבעי של השפעה דורית אנושית — משהו שמחזיק מעמד מעבר לאופק נכד-הנכד.
– הודאה כנה: “אין לי פתרון. אני רק עושה את הבעיה חיה כדי שתוכל לספוג אותה.”
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התחברות למדרש שנדון בשיעור קודם (אם לא צורם מכרם):
– אברהם אבינו הוא ה״מקור” שמכר את היהודים לסבל. הייתה לו בחירה: ילדיו הולכים לגיהנום, או שהם סובלים בעולם הזה תחת האומות. הוא בחר באחרון.
– שכבה חדשה נוספת: אברהם בחר בזה בדיוק בגלל בעיית הדור הרביעי. הוא ניסה ליצור משהו שמחזיק מעמד מעבר לדור הרביעי, שבו זה “מתחיל באמת לעבוד”. הסבל בגלות הוא המחיר של הפרויקט הזה.
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בראש השנה אנחנו מפעילים זכור לנו עקידת יצחק — זכור את העקידה למעננו. אבל השיעור בדיוק קבע שסבים לא חשובים אחרי כמה דורות. אז למה מעשה אברהם לפני אלפי שנים צריך לחשוב לנו? זו אותה בעיה בניסוח מחדש.
הרמב״ם מתייחס לבעיה התיאולוגית ש״ניסיון” מרמז שה׳ לא יודע את התוצאה:
– ניסיון לא אומר “מבחן” — זה אומר פרסום (מהשורש “נס” = דגל/סימן). העקידה היא סיפור מפורסם שממנו אנחנו לומדים שני דברים:
1. נביאים בטוחים לחלוטין בנבואתם. אף אדם נורמלי וטוב לא היה הורג את בנו אלא אם כן בטוח לחלוטין שה׳ ציווה על כך. זה מבסס את מציאות הנבואה *לנביא* (לא בהכרח לאף אחד אחר). מכיוון שנבואה היא יסודית לדת, ואברהם ייסד דת, זה קריטי.
2. הרצינות של אהבת ה׳. אברהם היה זקן, רצה נואשות ילד, סוף סוף היה לו אחד, ואז היה מוכן להקריב אותו — לא ברגע של תשוקה אלא אחרי שלושה ימים של התלבטות. זה מראה את עומק אהבת ה׳, נעשה לא לשכר אלא אך ורק מאהבה.
הרמב״ם אומר שאנחנו עוקבים אחרי דעותיו האמיתיות של אברהם וגם מחקים את מעשיו. העקידה היא הדוגמה העליונה. אבל אנחנו לא מבצעים עקידה ממש. כל הנקודה היא שזה לא בוצע. אז מה זה אומר “לחקות” אותה?
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הטענה הפרשנית המרכזית:
– העקידה היא בעצם אותו דבר כמו ברית בין הבתרים (הברית בין הבתרים, שבה נאמר לאברהם שצאצאיו יסבלו 400 שנה בגלות).
– העקידה היא משל לבחירת אברהם בגלות לילדיו.
– אברהם ניסה לפתור בעיה שחורגת מאופק ארבעת הדורות. כדי ליצור משהו ששורד מעבר לדעיכה הטבעית של השפעה הורית (מעבר לדור הרביעי), הוא היה צריך **להקריב
את רווחת ארבעת הדורות הראשונים**.
– זה אומר: לחשוב מעבר לילדיך דורש נכונות לא לדאוג לדורות המיידיים — מסומל בנכונות לשחוט את בנו.
– מילולית: אברהם לא שחט את יצחק, אבל הוא כן גרם ליצחק ללכת לגלות, ליעקב לסבול, ובסופו של דבר — נאמר בחדות — אברהם גרם לששת המיליונים להיהרג על ידי היטלר. זה מה שהמדרש מתכוון.
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– למה אברהם גרם לכל הסבל הזה? כי הוא ניסה ליצור משהו ששורד את סוף התהליך הדורי הטבעי.
– זה מתחבר לתכלית/מטרת הנבואה ולגבול האינסופי של אהבת ה׳, שזה מה שמשיח מייצג.
– הפרויקט היהודי שואף למשהו שבו אתה לא דואג לעצמך או אפילו לילדיך — כי אם אתה עובד רק במסגרת של ילדיך, אתה לא תשרוד את הדור החמישי.
– שתי דרכים למסגר את אותו רעיון:
1. אל תדאג לילדיך כי כדאי לדאוג לעצמך (התזה המוקדמת של השיעור).
2. אל תדאג לילדיך כי אתה דואג למשהו שחורג מכל זה — ולכן מחזיק מעמד עד הדור החמישי ומעבר לו, שבו באה הישועה.
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אברהם לא באמת שחט את בנו. התוכן האמיתי: אברהם גרם לצאצאיו ללכת למצרים (עבדות). המבחן הוא: אם אתם סוג האנשים שיכולים לשרוד את מצרים, אז הפרויקט של אברהם — הברית האברהמית — יכול להתחיל לתפקד.
חיבור לשיעור קודם: הפרויקט האברהמי עובד רק אם אתה מפסיק לחשוב על היום ומחר — אם אתה יכול לדמיין מעבר למיידי.
פשט חדש:
– הציווי המלאכי אל תשלח ידך אל הנער (בראשית כב:יב) אינו רק הפסקת המבחן — זו הגאולה כבר.
– המלאך השני שמדבר מייצג את הבטחת הגאולה: כי הרבה ארבה את זרעך.
– הרגע של להיאמר להפסיק — הרגע של להרים את הראש ומעבר להקרבה — הוא עצמו הרגע הגואל.
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בחצי רצינות: “כדאי להאשים את אבותינו שתקעו אותנו בזה” — כלומר, על התחייבות דורות עתידיים לדרך של סבל וסיבולת.
הצידוק שלהם: הם האמינו שמשיח יבוא אחרי — אבל לא להם אישית.
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מה שנקרא “הסוד” של משיח:
– אנקדוטה: יהודי זקן בא ל״מרדכאים” ושאל מתי משיח יבוא. התשובה: “לא בימי, או בימי ילדי, או בימי נכדי.”
– העיקרון: כל מי שבאמת חושב שמשיח יבוא בחייו לא הבין מה זה משיח.
– משיח הוא, בהגדרה, הדבר שבא אחרי שנכדך או נכד-נכדך מת — הוא בעצם טרנס-דורי, מעבר לאופק של כל פרט.
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תלמיד מעלה קושי: איך האבות יכלו לקבל נבואה שלכאורה ציוותה עליהם להקריב או לסכן את ילדיהם?
– זו בדיוק השאלה של עקידת יצחק.
– תשובה (חלקית): הנבואה עצמה מעניקה את הזכות. אם ה׳ מצווה דרך נבואה, הסמכות הנבואית ההיא עוקפת חשיבה מוסרית רגילה — “מי נתן לך את הזכות? הנבואה נתנה לך את הזכות.”
– ברמה השנייה של הבנת הנבואה, אין הסבר מלא לאיך זה עובד מכנית. הנבואה היא כל כך ברורה באופן מוחלט למי שמקבל אותה שלנביא אין ברירה — היא מציגה את עצמה כאמת מוחלטת. אבל ה*מנגנון* שבו הוודאות הזו פועלת נשאר לא מוסבר.
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סיפור העקידה הוא בסופו של דבר הסיפור של יהודים שמסרבים להתבולל, ובכך גורמים לנכדי-נכדיהם לסבול או להיוושע. הדרך היחידה לעבוד עם משהו שחורג ממגבלות תהליך סופי היא לעבוד מעבר לו — לחרוג ממנו לחלוטין. זו המשמעות האמיתית של מסירות נפש: לא רק לסכן חיים אחד, אלא לחרוג ממסגרת של חיים אחד, משפחה אחת, אפילו דור אחד. המטרה של עם ישראל אינה ניתנת לצמצום להיות “המשפחה” או “הילדים של” כל דור מסוים.
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השיעור נסגר בכנות:
– “אין לי פתרון. אני רק אומר לכם את הבעיה.”
– המנגנון שבו הפרויקט של אברהם באמת עובד מעבר לדור הרביעי לא ניתן להסבר.
– תשובת הרמב״ם היא שהנבואה היא כל כך ברורה באופן מוחלט לנביא שאין לו ברירה — הוא יודע שזה אמת. אבל זה לא מהווה הסבר של *איך* זה עובד.
– מעמד השאלה נשאר: האבות קיבלו נבואה שדרשה מהם, למעשה, להקריב את ילדיהם — לבחור במטרה טרנסצנדנטית לטווח ארוך על פני רווחה דורית מיידית. המנגנון שבו זה באמת מייצר ישועה נשאר לא מוסבר.
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1. למה להיות יהודי? → כי האלטרנטיבה (להיות “יהודי גויי”) אינה קוהרנטית (שטראוס).
2. אבל התבוללות רב-דורית? → אחרי מספיק דורות, הבעיה נעלמת. האם זה לא שווה את העלות לטווח קצר?
3. אזהרה מתודולוגית: היפוך הטיפשות אינו חכמה — הכרה בהטיה כלפי יהדות לא הופכת את ההתבוללות לנכונה.
4. מחיר להיות שנוא: שנאה אוניברסלית היא סימן אבחוני, לא אות כבוד. אנשים טובים לא צריכים לצפות להיות שנואים. הנרטיב “אנחנו שנואים כי אנחנו צודקים” מאותגר.
5. חובות מוסריות פוחתות עם מרחק דורי: אתה לא חולק חיים אמיתיים עם נכדי-נכדים. חובות עוקבות אחר קרבה.
6. תוכנית אברהם: להשתמש במשפחה/ביולוגיה ככלי לשינוי ציוויליזציוני דרך הרגלה בין-דורית.
7. משבר התוכנית: לאברהם אין ילדים; תחליפים נכשלים; השפעה מוגבלת ל-~4 דורות.
8. ברית בין הבתרים: ה׳ אומר לאברהם שהתוכנית מעולם לא הייתה בת קיימא כפי שנתפסה. תוכנית חדשה דורשת 400 שנות סבל — בדיוק הטווח שאברהם לא יכול לשלוט בו.
9. העקידה כפרדיגמה: נכונות אברהם להקריב את יצחק = נכונותו לשלוח את צאצאיו לגלות. העקידה והברית הם אותו אירוע.
10. משיח כאופק הטרנס-דורי: משיח בהגדרה בא *אחרי* שנכדי-נכדיך מתים. הפרויקט היהודי דורש דאגה למשהו מעבר לחיי כל פרט.
11. לא נפתר: המנגנון שבו זה באמת עובד נשאר לא מוסבר. הבעיה נעשית חיה, לא נפתרת.
מרצה: אוקיי. טוב? מצוין. אז ככה. קודם כל אני צריך לומר המשך חשוב לשיעור של שבוע שעבר, שבאמת הוקלט ביידיש, אבל כולכם יודעים יידיש ממילא. וזה היה ככה, ואני מסביר לכם גם את התשובה לשאלה שלכם. זוכרים שהייתה לכם שאלה? הייתה לכם שאלה ש—זוכרים שהייתה לנו שאלה על פיטר—למה אנחנו צריכים להיות יהודים ומה הייתה התשובה שדנו בה אז. ושזו שהתשובה הבסיסית היא שאין ברירה אחרת, כי אתה יכול להיות רק יהודי יהודי או יהודי גויי, ועדיף להיות יהודי יהודי. זה מאוד עצוב להיות יהודי גויי, נכון? זוכרים? סיכום נכון?
אז הייתה שאלה ככה, אז יכולנו אפילו להסביר את התשובה קצת יותר טוב.
מרצה: והסברנו, זה מה שליאו שטראוס אמר במאמר שלו שנקרא “למה אנחנו עדיין יהודים”. יש הרצאה שליאו שטראוס נתן והיא נקראת “למה אנחנו עדיין יהודים”. והוא אמר שיש כמה פתרונות לבעיה היהודית. אחד מהם הוא רצח עם, נכון? רצח עם תרבותי, רצח עם עצמי, נכון? שנקרא התבוללות, נכון? רצח עם תרבותי עצמי. בואו, בואו פשוט נפסיק לעשות את זה. תהיו אנשים נורמליים. אני אגיד את זה באנגלית: תהיו אנשים נורמליים.
והתשובה לזה, הציונים שקלו את התשובה הזאת. אתם יודעים, כל היהודים הפרומים מאוד מוזרים, כי הרצל, הוא חשב להיות—מה דעתכם שנמיר את כל היהודים לנצרות בשלב מסוים? ולכן זה אומר שהוא באמת היה שליח סודי? לא, הוא עבר על האפשרויות ההגיוניות וראה מה עובד. מה רע בזה? אתה המוזר שמעולם לא שקל את האפשרות הזאת. אתה צריך לשקול אותה, נכון?
אז הוא הבין שזו לא אפשרות ריאלית. למה לא? כי אתה לא יכול להיות גוי. אתה יכול להיות גוי יהודי או יהודי יהודי, איך שאנחנו אומרים את זה. וזה מאוד—אתה אמרת כך. לכן הוא הבין שאתה צריך להישאר יהודי.
אבל הנקודה שלי היא, שהאפשרות הזאת לא באמת סבירה.
מרצה: אבל עכשיו יש שאלה על זה. זה *כן* סביר, נכון? כי אם אתה הופך לגוי, ואז לדור אחד אתה הולך להיות גוי שגוי, גוי יהודי, סליחה, ואתה הולך להיות יצור מאוד מוזר, יהודי שונא עצמו. ואז, אחרי דור אחד, שני דורות, שלושה,ארבעה, חמישה, בשלב מסוים הילדים שלך לא יזכרו שהיה להם סבא יהודי. וזהו. ובכן, פתרת את הבעיה.
אז כל מי שאכפת לו מהילדים יותר מאשר מעצמו צריך לעשות את זה. נכון? אני שואל? הגיוני.
תלמיד: דורות.
מרצה: כן, בוא נגיד עשרה. אתה חושב שזה טיעון טוב? אני רוצה לשאול אותך אם אתה חושב שזה טיעון טוב. מה אתה חושב? אתה חושב שזה טיעון טוב?
תלמיד: מה המטרה של הטיעון?
מרצה: להיות יהודי אומר שאתה זה שהרג את ישו, ואז זה לא מצב טוב להיות בו. אז לכן אתה הולך להיות—אתה הולך להיפגע ולהיות מוכה.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: נפגע ומוכה. ורק כדי להיות ברור, נפגע ומוכה—זו לא רק בעיה חומרית, זו גם בעיה רוחנית, נכון? אנשים לא מצליחים טוב כשהם… זה לא נורמלי, לא מצב טוב להיות בו.
אז לכן הפתרון—אתה יכול, אתה יודע, להתגייר לנצרות, אולי זו דרך אחת להתבולל, או אולי אתה לא צריך לעשות את זה, כי הגויים באירופה לא נוצרים יותר, אז אתה צריך פשוט להתגייר לנצרות תרבותית, שנקראת להיות אוטד. יש לך כמה פעמים, כמו מה שאמרנו בשיעור, שאתה פשוט—אתה בסדר עם השאלות, זה בסדר.
תלמיד: כן, אוקיי.
מרצה: הטיעון, הבעיה הייתה שאנחנו רוב הזמן אנחנו במצוקה הזאת. בוא נדבר על המצוקה הזאת. נדבר על הסיפור הזה.
מרצה: אני שואל אותך שאלה על הטיעון הזה. תשכח מזה. אנחנו יכולים להכליל את השאלה הזאת, נכון? אם אני במצב שבו אני יכול לעשות את החיים שלי לא הרבה יותר טובים, מעט יותר טובים, אבל החיים של נכדי הרחוקים יהיו לגמרי פתורים בעיה מסוימת—אז האם אני צריך לעשות את זה? האם הדבר הנכון לעשות את זה? אתה חושב כמובן. למה?
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: הסבר.
בוא נהפוך את זה. אין לנו שום קשר רגשי לזה. בוא נגיד הבחור הנוצרי הזה תמיד מוכה על ידי היהודים או על ידי המוסלמים או מה שזה לא יהיה. היית אומר לו, אוקיי, פשוט תהיה אוסט-נוצרי, פשוט תהיה עם הארץ. וככה, אולי אתה עדיין הולך להיות כמו אלה, קצת נפגע פה ושם. אבל שלושה דורות, אתה בחור חסר אנוכיות, נכון? אתה מעוניין ש… לעזאזל, אתה אפילו אנוכי, נכון? אתה מעוניין שלילדים שלך יהיו חיים בעולם הזה, לנכדים שלך. כן, כמובן, כולם אומרים לשני. כלומר, אני, התרי״ג, עם הזכר, עם כל הנוצרים. היית אומר את זה.
לבחור הנוצרי, בטח, נכון? פשוט לעשות את זה, מחובר ליהדות שלי, מה שזה לא יהיה, אז אז יש לי את המחשבות המוזרות והגדולות האלה. אני לא חושב.
תלמיד: אוקיי, אז אז, אני לא יודע. אני לא חושב.
מרצה: ראשית, כדי להיות ברור, זה לא דבר ללא עלות. אם זה ללא עלות, אז למה לא? לא ללא עלות, נכון? יש עלות לך, נכון? אתה כל כך בטוח שאתה צריך לשלם כל עלות, אז נכד הרחוק שלך—רגע, לוקח לפחותארבעה דורות. אז נכד הרחוק שלך צריך שיהיו לו חיים טובים יותר, ואתה משלם כל עלות, אתה תהרוס את החיים שלך באיזו מידה שאתה רוצה בגלל זה. האם זה נכון? מה הטיעון שלך? אתה מוותר על החיים שלך, אז אתה נהדר. אתה הורס את החיים שלך. יהיו לך חיים ממש עצובים ומבולגנים, גם לנכד הרחוק שלך צריכים להיות חיים מעט יותר טובים. זה החילוף שאתה בדיוק אמרת שאתה צריך לעשות.
תלמיד: אנחנו כאן בבית ספר נחמד והם פשוט היו רגועים ואנחנו חושבים על דברים, אבל אתה רק חושב על זה שאמרת לי שאנחנו אומרים שזה בא דרך הבלוקים ורוצח את כולכם ומה שזה לא יהיה. אני חושב שיש—כן, יש את המחשבה הזאת כמו, זה די בסדר לוותר על החיים הגשמקים האלה, או איזה סוג של קורבן זה בהשוואה לעינויים אמיתיים ומוות וכל זה? אתה מוותר על חיים טובים בשביל זה.
מרצה: איזה חיים טובים?
תלמיד: ובכן, זה חיים טובים עכשיו. אתה חי חיים טובים. אתה חי…
מרצה: כן, עכשיו. אבל אז אנחנו לא מדברים על התבוללות. שוב, תזכור שכל פעם שאנחנו אומרים חיים טובים, אנחנו כוללים מוסרית טוב, כי אין באמת דבר כזה לדון בטוב חומרי בלי טוב מוסרי או טוב רוחני. יש איזה טוב מוסרי או טוב אינטלקטואלי או טוב רוחני שאנחנו מדברים עליו גם. זה צריך להיות התבוננות. יש חילופין. זה מעט פחות. הם מעולם לא הרגו מישהו שהיה טוב מוסרית בעולם של אריסטו, נכון? הם הרגו אנשים שהיו נסתרים, ששמרו את תורת ישו. בדרך שלהם, זו הייתה הדרך שלהם להיות טובים. אתה רוצה שהם יוותרו. הם צריכים להיות רעים. במילים אחרות, לנכדים הרחוקים שלהם צריך להיות סיכוי להיות שונים, שיהיו להם בעיות שונות, בעצם, נכון?
אתה מתנהג כאילו אתה מאוד בטוח. אני לא יודע. אתה מאוד בטוח בצד אחד כי אתה חושב שכי אתה הסכמת עם הצד השני, כי אם יש לך נגיעות, לכן הצד השני מאוד ברור. זה לא מאוד ברור. לא מאוד ברור.
תלמיד: לא, אני רק מבהיר את זה ככה.
מרצה: לא, אתה לא. אתה בעצם מוסיף ערפל בכך שאתה עושה את זה.
תלמיד: אוקיי, איך?
מרצה: זו שאלה אחרת לגמרי. צד אחר לגמרי. אבל אתה צריך לדעת, ראית את זה. שמואלי, אם מישהו—יש טיעון שהולך ככה, טיעון מאוד חשוב. זה כבר כתוב באחד הכתבים שלי שכתבתי ושלחתי בתחילת השנה, אני חושב, או בשנה שעברה, כשניסיתי לעשות את המאמר השבועי שלי.
זה אמר ככה: הרבה אנשים חושבים שכשהם תומכים בצד שלהם, כביכול, בדת או בלאומיות או משהו כזה, שבו יש צד קבוצתי מאוד ברור—אז הם אומרים, ובכן, אני רק מסכים לזה כי זה הצד שלי, ואני אקבל כל טיעון רע בשבילו, נכון? אני לא מודאג מדברים כאלה, למשל. ולכן הם אומרים שכנראה רוב הדברים שאני מאמין או שאני מסכים איתם כשהם טוענים לצד הזה הם רק בגלל ההטיה המאוד חזקה הזאת שיש לי כלפיו.
והם מדברים על זה הרבה, על הבעיה הזאת, והם חושבים שלדבר על הבעיה הזאת הרבה ולומר “ובכן, מה אם היית פלסטיני, מה היית חושב?”—שזה נותן להם בהירות מחשבה, שזה נותן להם ראייה ברורה לא מוטה משום מקום, נכון, מאובייקטיביות על המציאות. ואני חושב ברצינות רבה, ברצינות רבה, שזה לא נכון.
במילים אחרות, כי אתה זוכר, אליעזר יודקובסקי אמר, “הפוך מטומטמות אינו חכמה”, נכון? הוא אמר, אם יש שבשבת—אתה יודע מה זה שבשבת? בוא נקבל מאליעזר יודקובסקי. אוקיי, מה זה? שבשבת, כמו התרנגול הזה, התרנגול הזה על גג הבית שאומר לך לאיזה כיוון הרוח נושבת, נכון?
אבל אם יש לך אחד שבור, הוא עדיין שימושי. כי שבור פשוט אומר שמה שהוא אומר מערב, זה באמת מזרח. וכשהוא אומר מזרח, זה באמת מערב. אז שבשבת הפוך הוא באמת שימושי כמו אחד נכון. כמו הבחור ההוא שאמר, “איך אתה יודע שזה דעת תורה? זה שם, זה ההפך מזה.” “מה איתם?” אז אתה שואל את בעל הבית, והוא אומר לך את זה, ואתה עושה את ההפך, נכון? זה—או כמו ליטווק. בחור פעם אמר, “אם אני לא יודע מה לעשות, כן, בוא נעשה בדיוק את זה.”
זה היה נכון אם העולם—אם הפוך מטומטמות היה חכמה. הבעיה היא שזה לא עובד ככה. למה? זוכר מה אריסטו אמר? יש רק אמת אחת, ויש הרבה, הרבה דרכים לטעות. זוכר מה טולסטוי אמר, נכון? יש דרך אחת להיות מאושר והרבה, הרבה דרכים להיות עצוב. זוכר? זוכר?
מרצה: לאילו התייחסויות אני הולך לגרום לכם לדעת? איך זה הולך לעבוד? כל המשפחות המאושרות מאושרות באותה דרך. כל המשפחות האומללות אומללות בדרכים שונות. זו ההתחלה של אנה קרנינה. אחד משורות הפתיחה המפורסמות ביותר בספרות. אתה צריך לדעת על זה.
בכל מקרה, אבל זה הכל מבוסס על המחשבה הבסיסית הזאת מאריסטו. שיש הרבה דרכים להיות רע ולא הרבה דרכים להיות טוב. זה היה אחד הטיעונים שלו למה הטוב צריך להיות הדרך האמצעית. זוכר?
ואריסטו אמר שזו מחשבה פיתגוראית, כי הפיתגוראים אמרו שהאחד הוא בצד של הטוב, והרבים והמגוונים והלא שווים וכן הלאה, והזוגי, כי אי-זוגי הוא אחד וזוגי הוא שניים, אז מספרים זוגיים הם הרעים לפי פיתגורס. אז אלה הם הצד של הרע.
תלמיד: זוגות.
מרצה: כן, זוגות. דיברנו על זה. אני יודע. לא איתך? מישהו? כן, זוגות, בדיוק. זוגות הם רעים, כי זוגות אומר שיש שניים, יש דואליות. דואליות היא רעה.
מרצה: אז כי לפחות יש לפחות שתי דרכים להיות רע אין לעולם משהו בגלל זה רק כדי לחזור בגלל זה כשמישהו אומר אומר לך משהו טיפשי לעשות את ההפך מזה הוא מאוד כמו יותר סביר שיהיה עוד דבר טיפשי מאשר להיות הדבר הנכון המתמטיקה עובדת.
לכן כשאתה אומר אני מוטה בכך שאני מאמין בצד שלי של הסיפור לכן אני צריך להיות לא מוטה ולתת הרבה משקל לפחות לא לומר להאמין אף אחד לא אומר אני פשוט הולך להאמין אבל אני הולך לתת הרבה דרך לצד השני של הסיפור, שיש לזה יותר סיכויים להיות טיפשות מאשר יש לזה להיות אמת. מאוד חשוב, זה נכון. תחשוב על זה ותגיד, אני לא הולך להתווכח איתך על זה כי אתה לא מבין. אז אני אומר לך את זה.
תלמיד: אני ספקטרום, זה משולש. אני מסכים, אבל אני לא חושב שבמקרה הזה זה ככה.
מרצה: לא, אני רק אומר לך שעשית את הטיעון הזה. במקום לעשות טיעון ממשי למה זה יותר טוב, אמרת, תן לי לתת לך את הסיפור ההפוך או סיפור אחר וכשאתה עושה כל פעם שמישהו עושה את זה אני צריך להניח שהם עושים את זה יותר מבולבל במקום יותר או פשוט מבולבל כמו במקום להבהיר משהו כי אני לא רואה איך אתה מבהיר משהו.
אני יכול לראות יש שאלה כאן מה לעשות והוא אמר ובכן היית בבירור לא לא הייתי בבירור תהיה אותה שאלה או יש אותה שאלה של לא עצרת שום דבר בהיפוך הסיפור כלום אני מבין את זה ואתה לא אמרת מה אתה לא פתרת יש שאלה אמיתית ואתה העמדת פנים שזו לא שאלה אמיתית ואמרת שזו לא שאלה אמיתית כי אם היית בצד השני היית אומר את ההפך וזה לא נכון יש שאלה אמיתית ואותה שאלה אמיתית לא עשית את השאלה האמיתית פחות.
לפעמים מישהו מסתכל על השאלה בצורה הלא נכונה ואתה נותן לו דוגמה הפוכה או משהו ואתה רואה שכולם מסכימים עם זה אבל זה לא נכון שכולם מסכימים עם זה אתה פשוט עשית את ההנחה הזאת כי עשית את ההנחה המאוד חזקה שהסיבה שמישהו יסכים עם הצד השני היא כי הם בצד הזה אבל זה לא נכון יש שאלה אמיתית אז להפוך איזה צד אתה לא פותר בעיקר שום דבר ולא פותר שום דבר כאן גם.
מרצה: אז בוא נחזור לאן שאנחנו זה לא פותר שום דבר כאן גם זה לא ברור בכלל שמישהו צריך לעשות את החיים שלו גרועים יותר כי הנכד הרחוק שלו שצריך להיות טוב יותר בכל דרך זה מאוד לא ברור.
תלמיד: למה זה גרוע יותר בשבילו?
מרצה: זה גרוע יותר זו הייתה השאלה אה הנחנו שוב הנחנו שזה גרוע יותר אם אתה חושב שזה לא שווה זו שאלה אחרת זה יהיה טוב יותר גם בשבילך. אנחנו אומרים שזה הולך להיות גרוע יותר בשבילך, אבל לנכד הרחוק שלך יהיה טוב יותר. אלה היו העובדות של השאלה שהצבנו. העובדה הזאת לא הייתה השאלה. העובדה הזאת הייתה פשוט עובדת הרקע שאנחנו מניחים כדי שהשאלה הזאת בכלל תתחיל.
אמרנו, יהיו לך חיים רעים כי התבוללות לא באמת עובדת בדור אחד. שום התבוללות לא עושה. זה פשוט איך הטבע האנושי. אני לא חושב שזה משהו שיהודים מאמינים בו במיוחד. כולם מאמינים בזה. אתה יודע אנשים שהולכים למדינה אחרת רבים לעתים קרובות מסכימים שהם עושים הם עושים את החיים גרועים יותר לעצמם הם עושים אני עושה את זה בשביל הילדים שלי נכון.
אוקיי אז לעשות את זה בשביל הילדים שלך זה דבר אחד אבל אם אתה עושה את זה בשביל הנכדים הרחוקים שלך זה דבר אחר ואפילו לעשות את זה בשביל הילדים שלך זה לא באמת פשוט כמו כמו שזה נראה מסיבות רבות שאנחנו יכולים לדבר עליהן אם אתה חושב אם אתה רוצה ואם אני לא חושב שזה אני לא חושב שזו שאלה פשוטה אם אתה צריך.
מרצה: לי השאלה הראשונה היא במצב כזה האם האדם צריך להפוך לאדם רע כדי שהנכדים שלו יהיו טובים אם הוא בעצם הופך לאדם רע אז הוא כנראה לא צריך בכלל אני מסכים הם פשוט מנסים אני מנסה אני מנסה לחשוב על השאלה.
תלמיד: כן למה זה מה זה שווה אתה מתחיל עם ליאו שטראוס שוב בוא נכנס.
מרצה: הגעתי לשאלה אחרת כן נכון התחלת עם ליאו שטראוס שאומר שנייטרלי מה שכולכם אמרתם, שאנחנו יכולים להתבולל, אבל אנחנו לא נעבוד בדור אחד, ולכן אנחנו לא צריכים. ובעצם, אני לא זוכר אם הוא אמר, אבל בוא ניקח את הסיפור הזה. אתה אומר בעצם, ואתה לא צריך.
עכשיו, השאלה שלי אליך היא, מה הנושא שהוא אמר, בוא נתבולל? במילים אחרות, למה זה שיש דקה?
המרצה: מה זו הבעיה היהודית?
התלמיד: שכולם שונאים אותנו.
המרצה: אני חושב שזו בעצם הבעיה. ואין תועלת. כאילו, אני הבחור שכולם שונאים. זה לא מצב טוב. זה מה שאמרתי. ואנחנו מקבלים מכות, נכון? אנחנו נפגעים, אנחנו נהרגים. זה רע. זה רע. אם כולם פשוט שונאים אותנו, אז שום דבר לא קורה.
התלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא. זה אומר שאנחנו נפגעים.
המרצה: לא, לא, זה רע. זה רע גם אם שום דבר לא קורה. זה רע. רק כדי להבהיר, להוסיף חלקים של פגיעה, הם לא הולכים לפתור את הבעיה שלך. אז זה לא קורבן. במילים אחרות, אוקיי, אז כולם שונאים אותי, בסדר.
התלמיד: לא, זה לא. אתה חושב שזה בסדר. זה לא בסדר.
המרצה: זה לא בסדר. זה לא בסדר. למה? זה לא בסדר. אני עושה את ההנחה הזאת. אני לא יכול לתת את זה. זה דף רביעי. זה לא בסדר. זה לא בסדר.
המרצה: דרך אגב, אם הם שונאים אותך, זה כנראה בגלל שיש משהו לא בסדר איתך. בואו נהיה ריאליים. בדרך כלל אנשים שונאים משהו שפוגע בהם או איכשהו משהו לא בסדר איתך. למה שתהיה הבחור שכולם שונאים? משהו לא בסדר. זה סימן שמשהו השתבש, נכון? כולם מסכימים עם זה.
התלמיד: אני חושב שרוב העולם ישנא את הטיפוס הפילוסופי, אבל אין שום דבר לא בסדר איתם.
המרצה: דרך אגב, בהחלט יש משהו לא בסדר איתם. הפילוסוף הראשון שנקרא אפלטון או סוקרטס כתב ספר שמדבר על הבעיה הזאת. אולי יותר מספר אחד שמדבר על הבעיה הזאת. הוא חשב שזו בעיה. אוקיי?
אם כולם שונאים אותך, אתה כנראה לא טוב כמו שאתה חושב שאתה. כן, אני חושב שאנחנו מאוד רגילים לזה. אנחנו רגילים מדי לרעיון הזה שכולם שונאים אותנו ואנחנו הכי טובים. אני לא חושב שזו אמונה יציבה הגיונית. זה יכול להיות נכון. אני לא אומר שזה בלתי אפשרי שזה צריך להיות המצב, אבל זה צריך לגרום לך לעצור ולחשוב.
התלמיד: האם ההיפך גם נכון? אם כולם אוהבים אותך, אז אתה טוב?
המרצה: לא, לא הוכחה, אבל זה לא סיבה לדאגה. כלומר, אולי אם זה כן, אם יש לך מחשבה מעוותת מאוד שכולם טועים, אז אם כולם אוהבים אותך, אז שוב, אבל זו שוב בעיית הטיפשות ההפוכה, נכון?
התלמיד: זה כן, אבל זה גם קצת מראה שזה לא סרט המדידה.
המרצה: לא, זה לא. אף אחד לא אמר שזה כן, אבל זה סימן.
התלמיד: זה?
המרצה: כן, די בטוח שזה כן. אני חושב שאם אתה חושב שזה לא סימן, יש משהו לא בסדר איתך.
התלמיד: לא. עכשיו אתה אומר…
המרצה: לא, אני עושה עליך לחץ פסיכולוגי. עכשיו אתה אומר, כאילו, לעזאזל, כמה זה נמוך.
התלמיד: לא, לא, לא. אני מדבר על…
המרצה: כן, זו לא עובדה. אני מתחיל משם. ב… אוקיי, בואו נחזור למקום שהיינו. אני צריך לומר דף, נכון? אז, אמרתי שיש הנחה שאומרת ש…
המרצה: האם אנשים טובים שנואים על ידי אנשים רעים? או לא בדרך כלל? לא, למה שאנשים טובים יהיו שנואים? זה רעיון כל כך מוזר.
התלמיד: אתה אנשים טובים זה למה?
המרצה: לא, אנשים טובים זה אומר אנשים שעושים דברים טובים יותר, נכון?
התלמיד: כן.
המרצה: אוקיי, אז אם אתה עושה דברים טובים יותר למה שמישהו יהיה נגד זה?
התלמיד: אתה עושה את זה גרוע יותר לאנשים הרעים.
המרצה: אז אתה לא באמת עושה דברים טובים יותר. אז אתה לא באמת עושה דברים טובים יותר, נכון? אתה עושה אנשים רעים גרועים יותר. האם אתה עושה את האנשים הרעים גרועים יותר או טובים יותר? דברים טובים יותר עבורם או גרועים יותר עבורם? אלו שתי שאלות שונות. טוב מאוד. אפילו עונש אמור להיות טוב לאנשים הרעים, לא לאנשים הרעים.
התלמיד: אני יכול לדמיין את האדם הרע שונא.
המרצה: כן, זה עוד אחד מהתירוצים שאתה אומר. אני יכול להיות קנאי. הוא מקנא באדם טוב. הוא עושה הכל טוב סביבו. אני לא חושב שזה נכון. אני חושב שאם אדם טוב גורם לך לקנא, משהו לא בסדר עם האדם הטוב.
התלמיד: האם היית אומר שאדם רע הוא מישהו ששונא מה שאולי טוב עבורו?
המרצה: זה מוזר, אבל. כאילו, כי אתה צריך לחשוב על ה… אתה זוכר את זכריה… עכשיו אני פשוט חוזר על סוג הטיעונים של זכריה. אבל אם אתה זוכר, כמו, חולים כמעט אף פעם לא שונאים רופאים, גם כשהרופאים עושים דברים שהם שונאים. נכון?
כי רופאים הם אנשים שמנסים לעשות אותך יותר בריא, שזה סוג של דבר טוב. והרופא עשוי להגיד לך שאתה צריך לקחת… גם אם הרופא מעצבן אותך מאוד, אתה צריך ללכת על דיאטה ואתה צריך להפסיק לעשן ולהפסיק לעשות את כל השטויות שאתה עושה והבחור אומר, תודה רבה ואז הוא לא מקשיב. אבל מעט מאוד אנשים מסתובבים ושונאים רופאים חוץ משר הבריאות שלנו או משהו כזה. אבל זה מאוד מוזר… רוב האנשים, גם הוא לא אוהב את זה. הוא פשוט אומר, אוקיי, מה שתרצה. נכון?
אז זה לא ברור… אנחנו מאוד רגילים לרעיונות מוזרים מאוד. אנחנו צריכים לצאת מהרגלי החשיבה המוזרים האלה. אנחנו מאוד רגילים לחשוב שאם אתה צודק, אתה צריך לצפות שכולם ישנאו אותך. למה? למה זה? אולי אתה טיפש. מה קורה פה?
התלמיד: לא, אני לא חושב שאתה בהכרח שנוא על ידי כולם. אני חושב שאתה צריך להיות אהוב על ידי רוב האנשים.
המרצה: [ממשיך לחלק הבא]
המרצה: בדיוק. גם אני לא מבין את זה. ובכן, לא רק על ידי אדם רע. אני פשוט אתן לך את הדוגמה של רופא. רופאים עוסקים בלעשות אנשים רעים טובים יותר, בדרכים כואבות לעתים קרובות, על ידי היותם נגדך, ואף אחד לא שונא אותם. נכון.
התלמיד: מה שאני חושב שהוא שונה ברפואה זה שאתה סומך על הרופא.
המרצה: אז למה שלא תוכל לגרום לאנשים לסמוך עליך? אתה לא כל כך חכם אחרי הכל, נכון?
התלמיד: אני לא מאמין שהאמת קרובה יותר להישג ידם מאשר הם…
המרצה: אתה לא יכול ללמד?
התלמיד: לא, הייתי אומר שזה יותר בהישג ידם מאשר… כולם מסכימים מה זה בריאות?
המרצה: אני חושב שאנשים סומכים על רופאים כי הם לא מאמינים שהם יודעים את התשובה.
התלמיד: הנושא הוא שאדם רע עשוי לחשוב שהוא יודע את התשובה.
המרצה: אני יכול לראות מישהו שונא או מזלזל ברופא מסוים שהוא מאמין שהוא חסר אחריות כמו שיש להם הבדל דעות איתו. אני חושב שהוא מאמין שהוא איש מקצוע רפואי מוסמך.
התלמיד: אוקיי, אז אתה אומר שזה יותר קשה ללמד.
המרצה: זה לא צריך להיות בלתי אפשרי.
התלמיד: לא, לא, לא, אתה צריך…
המרצה: שאתה מורה רע.
התלמיד: אוקיי.
המרצה: זה מה שהוראה היא, נכון?
התלמיד: כן, אבל עד אז אתה שנוא. עד שאתה כותב את השש.
המרצה: זה צריך להיות צפוי. אולי אתה צריך להיות שנוא אם אתה עושה עבודה גרועה בהוראה.
התלמיד: בתקווה היו כמה אנשים ששנאו את סוקרטס לפני שהם פגשו אותו.
המרצה: אולי כי הוא היה מורה רע.
התלמיד: או אולי כי הם עשו התאמת דפוס שלו למורים רעים.
המרצה: זה הטיעון שאפלטון בעצם עושה ב*המדינה*. הוא אמר שאנשים שונאים פילוסופים כי רוב הפילוסופים שהם פוגשים הם בעצם אנשים רעים.
התלמיד: זו דרך אחת ש, כן, דרך אחת שאתה יכול לשנוא מישהו על ידי אסוציאציה.
המרצה: אוקיי, אז עכשיו זה לא לשנוא אותי. אני אומר למישהו אחר שטעית בי.
התלמיד: אוקיי, עדיין דרך.
המרצה: והם צודקים לשנוא אותי במובן הזה, נכון? הם פשוט טעו באובייקט, כמו טעו…
התלמיד: אוקיי, אבל אז…
המרצה: אוקיי, כל מה שאני מגיע אליו הוא שאנחנו נוחים מדי עם הרעיון שבגלל שאנחנו צודקים, אנחנו שנואים. אתה לא צריך להיות כל כך נוח עם זה. יש משהו מאוד מוזר עם זה, ואני לא חושב שזה בדרך כלל המקרה. אני חושב שברוב המקרים אנשים די שמחים שאנשים יתקנו אותם וכן הלאה אם יש כמה אזורים מוזרים שבהם זה לא המקרה אתה צריך להבין למה וגם אתה צריך להבין איך להיות מורה טוב יותר כי אין טעם להיות צודק.
אולי האמת—אולי הסיבה שאנשים לפעמים שונאים אנשים שצודקים היא כי לאנשים האלה יש אחריות ללמד אותם והם עושים את ההיפך מללמד אותם. הם גורמים להם לשנוא אותם. והתפקיד שלהם צריך להיות לאהוב אותם. ואתה אומר, ובכן, בינתיים, הם הולכים לשנוא אותם. כמובן, בינתיים, אל תלמד אותם. מי ביקש ממך לנסות ללמד משהו בלתי אפשרי? הטעם בזה. למי עזרת עכשיו? איך עשית משהו טוב יותר?
אולי אתה צריך להישמר בסוד. אולי אתה פשוט צריך לסגור את הפה ולחכות שהאנשים יהיו מוכנים. או אולי אתה צריך להבין איזו דרך מוזרה וחתרנית ללמד שאנשים לא מבינים שאתה נגדם עד שזה מאוחר מדי. אני לא יודע. אלו שאלות אמיתיות.
המרצה: למה היותך שנוא זה כזה סיפור בוגימן? כלומר, במובן מסוים, אנחנו צריכים לעשות את זה גם בדרך האחרת. כלומר, אם אנחנו מגלים שצדיקים שנואים, יש סיכוי טוב שאנחנו פשוט צריכים לשים אותם בשו.
התלמיד: כן, זה הטיעון שלי.
המרצה: כנראה, תראה, אנחנו חיים בעולם שבו אנחנו לא יודעים הרבה. אנחנו לא יודעים הרבה על מה זה טוב, על מה לחיות, מה זה אמת, דרך מה זה יפה, איך לחיות, נכון? אנחנו חיים מסימנים. אתה לא יכול להתעלם מסימן מאוד משמעותי, שהוא, כולם נגדך, אתה צריך לפחות לקחת את זה כטיעון רציני.
וחוץ מזה שזה טיעון רציני שאתה צריך לחשוב שאולי אתה עושה משהו לא בסדר, זה גם מכשול רציני להתקדמות בכל דבר, לחיים טובים, רק כדי להבהיר. לא רק בגלל שהם הולכים… כלומר, גם בגלל זה.
המרצה: כמו חלק גדול מאנושי—בני אדם, הדרך שבני אדם עובדים היא כמו שיתוף פעולה עם בני אדם אחרים. ואם הם לא הולכים לתת לך להיכנס לבתי הספר שלהם ולא הולכים לעשות איתך עסקים, אני לא הולך לשתף איתך פעולה, אנחנו לא הולכים להתחתן איתך או שאתה לא הולך להתחתן איתם, אז יהיה לך יותר קשה לעשות את סוג השגשוג האנושי שבני אדם עושים. בני אדם צריכים בני אדם אחרים כדי לחיות, נכון?
אתה יכול לומר, ובכן, אני הולך לחיות לבד. אוקיי, אז זה אומר שאתה מנתק את עצמך מ-90% מהטוב של האנושות, נכון?
המרצה: כמו הדרך המאוד קונקרטית לומר את זה היא: באירופה באוניברסיטאות שלנו אנחנו מגלים את התרופה לסרטן. לצערנו הם לא מקבלים אותך לאוניברסיטה אם אתה לא מתגייר לנצרות. לכן אתה מאוד נחמד—טוב אתה—בכך שאתה לא אדם טוב ולא מגלה את התרופה לסרטן, נכון?
לכן התשובה היא שאתה צריך להתגייר לנצרות. זה הטיעון להתבוללות. זה טיעון מאוד רציני. ולומר, ובכן, הם הבחורים הרעים המוזרים. אוקיי, אז הם כן, אבל אתה גם בחור רע עכשיו. אתה צריך לרפא סרטן ובינתיים אתה בסדר.
התלמיד: לחשוב על אני מניח זהיר. כלומר זה גם דבר טוב לעשות אולי זה יכול פשוט לעשות את זה אז למה שלא תתן להם להיכנס לנושא.
המרצה: אותה, אותה בעיה.
התלמיד: אני לא נותן לזה יכול להישאר כאן אוקיי אז.
המרצה: או המגדל הזה שאחת התשובות היו—דנו או אחד הטיעונים שדנו היה שאתה לא יכול לעשות את זה כי זה לא הולך לעבוד. עשוי לעבוד לנכדי הנכדים שלך. ולכן הגענו לשאלה שהיא: כמה יותר גרוע הוא צריך להיות כדי שלנכדי הנכדים שלך יהיה טוב יותר? אתה חושב שזה מאוד ברור שאתה צריך להיות גרוע יותר, אבל אני לא חושב שזה…
התלמיד: אבל לפני כן רק הבהרת שזה לא כל כך חיובי שאנחנו נעשים גרועים יותר, כי אנחנו אלה ש, נגיד, הולכים נגד מציאת סרטן.
המרצה: כן, כן, כן, זו הבעיה. אבל עכשיו אתה לא הולך—ההמשך של הטיעון הזה יהיה שנכד הנכד שלך יתחיל למצוא תרופה לסרטן, לא אתה, כי הם עדיין לא הולכים לתת לך להיכנס לאוניברסיטה שלהם כי הם הולכים לומר, כן, אתה, איך קוראים לזה? אתה נוצרי חדש, נכון? אנחנו לא ממש סומכים על הנוצרים החדשים. נכון?
זה הסיפור של האינקוויזיציה הספרדית, נכון? אנחנו לא סומכים על הבחורים האלה שהתגיירו אתמול כדי לקבל עבודה באוניברסיטה. אנחנו יודעים בדיוק למה הם התגיירו. הם לא קונים אותנו, נכון? לנכדי הנכדים שלהם נסמוך כי אפילו היטלר מסכים שהם לא יהודים יותר. נכון?
דרך אגב, כמה יותר גרוע אני צריך לעשות את החיים שלי כדי להציל את נכד הנכד שלי מהיטלר?
התלמיד: אינסופית גרוע יותר.
המרצה: כן? אני לא יודע. אתה יכול לשאול… איך קוראים לו? אתה יכול לשאול את בנת׳ם לחשב את שנות איכות החיים או משהו ולהבין איזה אחד נותן לך יותר נקודות תועלתניות.
התלמיד: האם יש הבדל בין ילד לנכד נכד?
המרצה: כן, יש הבדל.
התלמיד: כן, יש הבדל, אני מסכים.
המרצה: אבל אנחנו מניחים שזה נכד הנכד שלך, מאוד בכוונה, או מאוד ריאליסטית, נכון? ולמקרה שאנחנו שוקלים.
התלמיד: לא הולך לפתור את הבעיות של הילד שלך גם.
המרצה: אני חושב שיש כאן לולאה מאוד מעניינת, שהיא שאתה רק הולך להיות מסוגל להציל את האנשים שאין לך חובה אליהם יותר.
התלמיד: אני חושב שזה עשוי לפתור את הבעיה.
המרצה: למה?
התלמיד: כי מי האדם שאתה מתכנן להציל? בדיוק זה שאין לו יחסים אליך יותר, נכון?
המרצה: מה ה—התורה אומרת פוקד עון אבות על בנים על שלשים ועל רבעים, נכון? שזו דרך לומר נכדים הם נכדי נכדים, נכון? זה אומר, סבא לא ממש אכפת לו מנכדי נכדי הנכדים. אם למישהו אי פעם היה סבא סבא, יש לך? אתה צריך לדעת את זה.
יש לך סבא סבא?
התלמיד: לא?
המרצה: תסתכל מסביב, מה? אני מכיר כמה אנשים שיש להם נכדי נכדי נכדים. הם לא ממש אכפת להם מהם. אוקיי, זה רחוק מדי ממך. זה כמו ילדי נכדי הנכדים שלך. ברצינות, אתה עשוי—אתה בן 90 עד שזה מגיע, נכון? אתה כמו בדרך החוצה, נכון? הם בדרך פנימה, נכון? וזה לא כמו ממש—זה לא הולך לעבוד. כן, זה מגניב. שוב, אתה יכול לקבל תמונה יפה מזה. אני חושב שקראתי מאמר בטיימס על זה, אבל לא הרבה יותר, נכון?
כי הבחור הזה הולך לגדול בעולם שונה ממך. זו בעצם הנקודה, נכון? הנקודה היא אני והילדים שלי, הנכדים שלי, לפעמים נכדי הנכדים שלי חולקים עולם. אנחנו חולקים מאה, כמו שאנחנו חולקים חיים במובן מסוים. נכדי נכדי הנכדים שלי, נכדי נכדי נכדי הנכדים שלי, אנחנו לא חיים באותו עולם. למטרות מעשיות, אני לא הסבא סבא שלו. אני לא ההורה שלו.
וגם היטלר הבין את זה, נכון? זוכר? זה היה הכלל שלו, פחות או יותר.
התלמיד: לא, זה היה משהו כמו ארבע או חמש.
המרצה: בכל מקרה, זה אותו רעיון, נכון? בשלב מסוים, אתה מפסיק.
התלמיד: בדיוק. הוא כמו, אני אנסה להרוג אותך.
המרצה: כן, בכל מקרה, אתה מבין את הנקודה שלי, נכון? אז אני חושב שזה יהיה מאוד… עכשיו, זה תלוי מה התיאוריה שלך של חובה מוסרית, נכון? אבל התיאוריה שלי תהיה מבוססת על יחסים ממשיים.
המרצה: יש לך חובה כלפי ילדיך דווקא משום שהם חולקים איתך חיים ואתה אחראי עליהם וכן הלאה. זו הסיבה שיש לך חובה כלפיהם, נכון? אתה צריך לדאוג לאביך, לסבא שלך וכן הלאה וגם להיפך כי אתה חולק איתם חיים. סבא רבא רבא שלי, אני לא יודע, יש לי צוואה [חובה] לסבא רבא רבא שלי לעשות משהו. אז הוא לא מדבר איתי. לא אכפת לי. אם הוא השאיר לי כסף, אולי. אחרת לא אכפת לי. אני לא חולק שום – אין לי שום חובה אמיתית כלפיו, נכון? יש לי חובה כלפי אנשים אחרים בדיוק כמו בדור שלו בדיוק כמו שיש לי כלפיו, פחות או יותר. יש לי גם כל כך הרבה שמתדללים, נכון? הוא גם רק בעלים של 1/128 ממני, נכון? בשלב הזה לא ממש מעניין.
אז לכן אין לי חובה כלפיו. אז עכשיו זה יהיה מאוד מוזר להגיד שאתה צריך לעשות משהו כדי שדווקא האנשים שאיתם אתה מפסיק להיות בקשר מוסרי יהיה להם חיים טובים יותר.
המרצה: יש לי המשך מדהים לזה. לא חוזי. כלומה, זה מבוסס על המחשבה שיש לך חובה כלפי, כמו קרבה, נכון? כמו רמות של דאגה, נכון? סדר האהבה, כמו שסגן הנשיא שלנו אמר, נכון?
תלמיד: כן, אבל הדברים האלה צריכים, חלק מהם זה שהדברים האלה צריכים לצאת ממך בהיותך אדם טוב, נכון?
המרצה: כן, אדם טוב הוא מישהו שדואג לילדיו ולנכדיו ולנינים שלו. אתה דואג לכל העולם באיזשהו מובן מופשט או באיזשהו מובן אמיתי. אתה הופך לאזרח העולם, נכון, קוסמופוליטי, אבל לא ספציפית לנכדיך.
עכשיו, אם אתה דואג לעולם, הפתרון לבעיות העולם הוא לא שהיהודים יפסיקו להתקיים. זה הפתרון לבעיות היהודים. הפתרון לבעיות העולם הוא שהם יפסיקו להרוג את היהודים. אז אתה עובד ברמה אוניברסלית. אני מסכים שאתה יכול לעבוד ברמה אוניברסלית, ברמה הקוסמופוליטית, ברמה הלאומית, מעבר לדור הרביעי שלך אבל לא ברמה שלך. זו לא חובה כלפי ילדיך בשלב הזה.
וגם, כן, מי שיבוא להלוויה שלך אתה צריך לדאוג לו. מי שלא יבוא כי הם יהיו תינוקות או שאתה תהיה מת לפני שהם בזה, לפני שהם נולדים – למה שתעזור להם? לא למה שאתה לא צריך, כאילו אין לך שום חובה ספציפית כלפיהם.
תלמיד: יש לך יותר חובה כלפי הבחור שגר בעיר הסמוכה?
המרצה: לא, ככל שאתה הולך רחוק יותר מהשולחן, גם יש לי פחות חובה.
תלמיד: מה? אפילו לא שמעת.
המרצה: אה. לא.
תלמיד: לא, יש לך פחות חובה כלפי [נין נין שלך], מאשר כלפי הבחור שגר עכשיו בעיר הסמוכה?
המרצה: אני לא יודע.
תלמיד: [לא ברור] להבין שאלה אחרת למה—
המרצה: למה? כי כבן אדם איך שאתה אומר זה כאילו אנחנו דואגים לחברה סביבנו מה שלא יהיה, נכון? נראה שאתה תעקוב אחרי הטיעון הזה זה שאנחנו צריכים לדאוג לבחור השכן, בטח השכן, אבל הבחור, אפילו בפעם הבאה, יותר מנין נין שלך.
תלמיד: אולי. אני לא יודע. זה נראה כמו שאלה מוזרה, אבל למה אתה מקבל את זה?
המרצה: כי זה מה שנובע מהטיעון שלך.
תלמיד: אוקיי, ולכן, אוקיי, אני לא יודע, אבל אני לא רואה מה הבעיה, ואם כן—
המרצה: אם לא, אז אני לא מבין את כל העניין. אם כן, אז אוקיי, אז אתה אומר חידוש גדול מאוד, שאדם צריך לדאוג יותר לבחור אקראי—
תלמיד: אני לא יודע בוודאות אבל אני לא רואה מה תהיה בעיה למה שאני צריך לדאוג לבחור אקראי. אני לא חושב שאתה צריך לדאוג לבחורים אקראיים בכלל. למה שתדאג לבחורים אקראיים? אתה מתכוון לבני אדם? יפה מאוד. אנחנו חולקים משהו שנקרא אנושות. במידה שזה רלוונטי אני צריך לדאוג ל— אני לא— אני לא רואה אדום— אני לא יודע. אבל אני אדם יותר כשאתה ואתה ביקשת ממני לדאוג לנכדים שלי כנכדים שלי, לא כבני אדם, נכון?
המרצה: בדיוק אמרתי לך כבני אדם יש לי תוכניות טובות יותר לפתור בעיות גזעניות אנושיות, נכון? עכשיו אנחנו פותרים את הבעיה היהודית, לא את הבעיה האנושית, נכון?
תלמיד: למה לא? כמובן שאני לא— אז הם בני אדם אז אנחנו חולקים אנושות אנחנו כן חולקים—
המרצה: אתה לא חולק איתם חיים, אתה לא חולק איתם עולם, אתה לא חולק איתם שום דבר, בצורה אנושית, יש לך דעות ויש לך חוויות.
תלמיד: לא, לא, אלה דברים שונים. כשאני אומר עולם, אני מתכוון לעולם של משפחה, לא עולם שחי באותה תקופה. זה לא מאוד מעניין, וקצת מעניין, אבל לא כל כך מעניין, אני לא חושב. יש קשרים אמיתיים, נכון? יש מגע אמיתי. אם אני במשפחה עם מישהו, אני חולק חיים בצורה מאוד אמיתית. אם אני חולק חיים בצורה מופשטת שנינו נקרא את אותו עיתון באותו יום, אוקיי, אני מניח שיש איזה קשר שם. אני לא יודע כמה.
ראיינו כמו אישה שהייתה בת 106 ושאלו אותה מה השתנה? הכל. כן, זה לא אותו עולם. כן, הכל. מה נשאר אותו דבר?
העניין הוא שאני רוצה להגיע למשהו. אני רוצה להגיד משהו מעניין כאן. אני הולך להגיע לאיזשהו מקום.
המרצה: יש [אדם]—שמו היה אברהם, שמעתם עליו? שם המשפחה היה אבינו. והייתה לו תוכנית, זה מה שהרמב״ם אומר לפחות. הייתה לו תוכנית לעשות משהו למי? למי אתה רוצה לעשות משהו? אני לא בטוח או לכל העולם או לפחות למשפחה שלו. אוקיי, אני לא בטוח. אני חושב שלכל העולם הולכים למספר [לפי הרמב״ם]. אבל זה כלל עבודה עם הכלי של המשפחה שלו, אוקיי? או שאנחנו קוראים לזה עם שזה רק גרסה גדולה יותר של משפחה.
אבל תקשיבו לסיפור. ואז התברר שלא היו לו ילדים והוא החליט מסיבה כלשהי והוא חשב שאי קיום ילדים הורס את התוכנית. זה לא עובד. זה הורס את התוכנית. הדרך שהתוכנית שלו הייתה אמורה לעבוד הייתה על ידי קיום ילדים.
ומאז, זוכרים מהשיעור של השבוע שעבר בבורו פארק, שבדיוק כמו כשאדם עושה, מרגיל את עצמו, הוא יוצר בעצמו הרגלים שלפעמים אומרים שהם השכר של מעשיו הטובים. הם כבר לא בחירה. הם כבר השכר. הם כבר השכר.
באותו אופן, זה קורה גם בין דורות, נכון? אם אתה מאמן את המשפחה שלך בצורה מסוימת, הילדים שלך, על ידי קבלת החינוך שלך, לא רק לפי גיל, אולי גם על ידי קבלת הגנים שלך, אבל כנראה בעיקר על ידי מגורים בבית שלך, מקבלים את הדברים שעבדת עליהם בחינם. נכון?
אז הורים מאוד כועסים על הילדים שלהם, כי הם מראים להם איך כל ההרגלים הרעים שצברת הם פשוט מקבלים בחינם. גם הטובים, אבל על אלה אתה שמח. הם גם שמים לב לכמה רעים שאתה תעמיד פנים שאין לך כי אתה תמיד רואה את עצמך כאדם שבוחר. אז אין לי הרגל רע של תמיד לאכול יותר מדי. אני פשוט הבחור שבמקרה עושה את זה. מתברר שכבר יש לך את זה והילדים שלך מנסים אותך—הם פשוט עושים את זה לא מתוך בחירה, פשוט זה מה שהמשמעות במשפחה שלנו, בסדר?
אז האברהם הזה, התוכנית שלו הייתה לעבוד עם המערכת הזו, חלק רחוק של הטבע האנושי. ומאז שהוא זיהה חבורה שלמה של בעיות עם הטבע האנושי והחליט שהוא גדל עם וכן הלאה, הוא הבין שהוא החליט שיהיו האנשים האלה, המשפחה הזו שלאט לאט תבחר ותחסן, נכון? תרגיל הרגלים, הרגלים טובים בילדיו. לצערו זה עובד רק אם יש לך ילדים.
תלמיד: מה עם תלמידים? נראה שלא באמת האמנת באלה. זו שאלה טובה למה, אבל אני חושב כי אם אתה חושב על עבודה עם הטבע האנושי אתה צריך לנסות לעבוד קרוב ככל האפשר לביולוגיה, אני חושב.
המרצה: אתה יודע שכולם חושבים שתלמידים טובים יותר מילדים. זה אומר במדרש. אבל זה עניין רק—זה לא פשט, אתה יודע. כמו, יצחק לא יכול היה להתחתן עם המדרש. כן?
כן, אם אתה רוצה באמת לעבוד, אתה צריך לעבוד עם ביולוגיה. זה תמיד רעיון טוב. ככל שאתה יכול ללכת ולא ללכת נגד הביולוגיה, אתה צריך. כלל כללי של שינוי חברתי, מהפכות חברתיות. אם המהפכה שלך, בכל פעם שמישהו אומר, יש לנו מהפכה, זה הולך להיות נגד המשפחה, זה כנראה לא הולך לעבוד. או שזה הולך לעבוד, אבל זה הולך לעשות את ההיפך ממה שאתה חושב שאתה עושה וכן הלאה.
אם יש לך מהפכה, אנחנו הולכים להשתמש בכל חלק של הטבע האנושי כמו שהוא, לא כמו שאנחנו חושבים שהוא צריך להיות, נכון? כמו שמקיאוולי אמר, אתה לא יכול להיות פוליטיקאי יעיל אם אתה מדבר על הטבע האנושי תמיד איך שהוא צריך להיות, נכון? אתה מתאר את הטבע שלך כמו שהוא ומשתמש בזה. זה כנראה יעלה את הסיכויים שלך להצלחה. הגיוני? כולם מסכימים, אוקיי?
לכן אתה כנראה צריך להשתמש בדבר הזה שנקרא משפחה, ביולוגיה, שושלת, נכון? הגיוני?
אני מניח, אוקיי. חשבתי שכולכם לא מסכימים עם זה, אבל אני לא סבלני להבין להסביר לכם למה אתם לא, הדרך שאנחנו לא מסכימים. אז נשמע כמו הדרך שסיפרתי לכם את זה, אתם מסכימים, אז בואו נמשיך הלאה.
המרצה: אז בואו נמשיך הלאה. בכל מקרה, מאז שזו הייתה התוכנית, הוא הבין שאין לו ילדים, זה לא הולך לעבוד. אז הוא בא לאלוקים, שזה אומר מה? לדבר עם אלוקים לא אומר, היי, אתה יכול לפתור את הבעיות שלי, מה דעתך שתפתור את זו? זה אומר, האמת היא, כל התוכנית הזו מתפרקת, נכון?
והוא אמר לאלוקים, אבל פשוט עזב תראה בסדר הוא אמר הבטחת לי שכר אבל זה חדשות מזויפות לא קורה אין לי אפילו ילדים אלוקים אומר שזו הייתה התוכנית שלו כמובן אני הייתי התוכנית הזו הוא עובד כל חייו בשביל זה אני הולך להיות השכר שלו נכון זה אומר לך לך ויהיו לך ילדים וכן הלאה, נכון?
כלומר הוא עשה את הבעיה המקיאוולית. מה אתה מתכוון לבעיה? כשזה אומר שאלוקים הבטיח לו את זה, זה אומר שזו הייתה התוכנית, נכון? זו לא הייתה התוכנית קסם, אלוקים היה הולך לעשות את זה, זה היה הולך לעבוד באופן טבעי, נכון? אם אתה מסתמך על קסם, אפילו אם אלוקים בעצמו אומר לך, לא תוכנית טובה. אפילו אלוקים בעצמו עשה את הטבע כך שדברים יעבדו, נכון? אם התוכנית שלך היא שאלוקים הולך להציל אותך מהעולם שהוא עשה, אתה עובד בצורה מאוד מבולגנת.
תלמיד: זה בגלל שאנשים אמרו בשבוע שעבר שאני מאי הופ שתב [אני אולי התרגלתי] ואני רק עשיתי הכל טבעי. אני לא חושב שזה נכון. אני חושב שאתה צריך להבין איך אלוקים באמת עובד.
המרצה: אבל חנשן סקרה [עניין אחר] לדרשה ההיא. לא, זה שונה. זו דרשה שלישית. דרשה חמישית. אנחנו עד רשימה ארוכה של דרשות אחרות.
הנקודה היא, הוא בא ואמר, זה לא עובד. והנה בן ביתי יורש אותי, נכון? התלמיד שלי או המנהל שלי, מה שזה בדיוק אומר, הוא הולך לרשת הכל והוא הולך לעשות מה שהוא רוצה בכנות זו לא הולכת להיות התוכנית שלי זה לא השכר שלי בסדר אז מה השם אמר אמר לו מה זה אומר נכון או שאנחנו קוראים את זה אז הוא חשב שחשבנו שהתוכנית הזו הוא הבין שמישהו אמר לו שהוא לא הבין את התהליך נכון הוא עשה טעות בסיסית.
עכשיו סוג הדברים האלה עובדים עד הרגע הזה היה לו אחד מאוד תמים הוא כנראה היה צריך להיות כזה כי אם לא היה לו את זה הוא לעולם לא היה מתחיל את הצמחים מלכתחילה הוא באמת האמין שזה הכל הולך להסתדר בצורה מושלמת לחיות באושר ועושר עד סוף ימיהם הולך ללכת ולשרוף הומנואידים מה שלא יהיה לשבור את הגטשקעס של אביו איך אומרים גטשקע [געטשקע: יידיש לפסל/אליל] באנגלית?
תלמיד: כן אלילים גטשקע נושקת אלילים נכון תגיד את זה למישהו אחר.
המרצה: זה לא אותו דבר. זה לא אומר אותו דבר. זה תרגום גרוע. גטשקע. מה?
תלמיד: אמריקן איידול זה אמריקן גטשקע?
המרצה: טראכטעראן [תחשוב על זה]. הו אלוהים. איך זה נקרא? זה נקרא מילה שיש לה שתי משמעויות. אליל הוא תחושה של גרנדיוזיות שלגטשקע אין. בדיוק. יש הבדלים. אליל זה דבר טוב. זה נשמע יותר טוב מגטשקע, בטח. האמת היא שלא היו אלילים. היו כמה גטשקעס שנשארו, אתה יודע?
תלמיד: פסלים.
המרצה: פסלים גם כל כך גרנדיוזיים גטשקע זה גטשקע פסל זה פסל זה לא גטשקע גטשקע פסל לא כל פסל זה גטשקע זה נכון זה כמו אחי שלי פעם היה שם פעם היה המועדון שם ליד בית ההורים שלי וקנדי בילווארד [קנדי בולווארד] והיינו קוראים לזה הגטשקע עם הצבי הגדול מועדון האלק [Elk Club] אבל זה לא גטשקע זה פשוט פסל של צבי אין גטשקע שם.
המרצה: אני מניח שאתה יודע שהוא הולך לשבור את הגטשקעס זה תרגום חמוד אבל זה לא תרגום נכון אז הילדים אמרו שהוא הולך לעשות את זה ואז הוא הולך להתחיל לשכנע את כולם שהוא צודק ואז הוא הולך לעבור דירה כי זה לא מקום טוב לגדל את הילדים שלך בשכונה הזו במקום או מאיפה שהוא בא הוא קרא לזה הם מקום טוב הם הולכים ללכת למקום חדש שבו אף אחד לא יודע מי הוא הוא הולך להמציא את עצמו מחדש נכון אתה יכול להגיד לכולם מי אתה ואני יכול להגיד אני הבן של תטא אני אומר אני אברהם המייסד של הדת החדשה והם לא היו צוחקים עליו כן אני יודע אנחנו יודעים אנחנו יודעים בדיוק איפה אתה הילדים אבל הבן של דאטא נכון זו הסיבה שאתה צריך לעבור דירה כי יש לך סיפור חדש נכון מי אתה אה אתה הקוסם ששבר את הכן ואז היו לך ויכוחים גם ויש לי תוכנית עכשיו אתה הולך לשנות את העולם כן בטח.
זה לא היה אמור לעבוד. אז הוא הלך למקום חדש, והוא הציג את עצמו, כולם אומרים פוצק [טיפש/פשוט]. והוא הציג את עצמו, אני הבחור שיוצר את הדת החדשה. אה, תוכנית מעניינת. התחיל לעבוד, נכון? הוא התחיל להשיג חסידים. ו, אבל התוכנית האמיתית שלו הייתה ש, כמו שאמרתי בהתחלה, התוכנית שלו לא הייתה רק לאפשר לחסידים, החסידים נחוצים, אתה יודע, לשלם עבור המשפחה. אבל, אני לא יודע למה. אבל, התוכנית שלו, והתוכנית שלו הייתה ליצור משפחה, נכון?
הוא במקרה היה נגד זה. מי היה נגד זה? אברהם. הוא לא רצה שאף אחד יגיד, אני אתן לו עסקה. לא, לא המתנגדים. היום של המתנגדים, זוכרים את כל הסיפור של סדום. סדום היה המתנגד העיקרי של אברהם, נכון? הוא בא ל, היה נמרוד, מי שלא יהיה, אני לא יודע, מי שלא יהיה, הוא לא אומר את שמו באמת בכותרת, מי שהבחור היה שהיה נגד אברהם, הוא ברח ממנו, הוא הלך לכנען, נכון?
אז הוא הלך בתעלה והוא עשה את הדבר שלו, עין, והוא אומר בדיוק את המיקום. הוא יצר את זה במזבח, נכון? מזבח פשוט אומר, נכון? מה במזבח? הוא אפילו הראה מזבח. הוא היה מדמיין, כאילו, הוא ברח מ, כאילו, אנחנו מוצאים את זה, הוא הולך לישראל, איזה קופסה אקראית של סלעים במדבר במזבח. זה לא מה שזה אומר, נכון?
בוא נעשה הסכם שלום. תן לי את כל היהודים נפש [נפשות חיות], את כל היצורים החיים, תחזיר לי את כל הנשים והילדים והעבדים שלי. אני אהיה כל כך נחמד אליך, אני אתן לך את הכסף.
הלו? מי נתן לך את הנשים והילדים כדי להחזיר לי? למה שאני אחזיר אותם לך? על מה אתה משלם לي?
זה היה בלוף מתחילה ועד סוף. ואברם הבין את התחבולה. הוא לא מעוניין להילחם איתו, ואברם הבין שזה היה הוא מנסה להציל את כבודו, ולומר, “אה, באמת הכל שייך לי, אני כל כך נחמד, אני נותן לך קצת כסף.”
אם הוא היה אומר, “הכל שייך לך, אז אנחנו העבדים שלך, תעשה איתנו מה שאתה רוצה” – כניעה ללא תנאי – אז אברם היה מנצח. אבל הוא הבין בסוף שיש לו כהן בצד שלו, הם אומרים, אתה יודע, זה לא נחמד, אתה לא יכול פשוט לקחת את כל הדברים שלהם, יש חוק בינלאומי.
אז אברם אמר, תשכח מזה, קדימה, ממשיכים הלאה. אל תהיה הבחור שעשה כהונה נחמדה ותן לי את הכסף, תן לי את הרכוש. קח את כל העניין. ופלטס, מבינים את הסיפור?
אז זה לא – זה למה זה לא סטייר. ולכן הוא אמר, אבל על פי שיפוט חבריו הוא לא יכול להיות ממוסגר, נכון? בעלי בריתו, הם עדיין צריכים לקבל מה שהם רוצים.
אוקיי, עכשיו ממשיכים הלאה.
והנקודה היא שהוא הבין שזה – זו הייתה התוכנית שלו. עכשיו זה לא עבד. התוכנית לא עבדה בכלל. לא היו לו ילדים. אם אין לך ילדים, התוכנית לא עובדת.
הוא ניסה עם שניים מהילדים, לא עבד. ניסה עם ישמעאל, זו באמת הייתה תוכנית ב׳ שלו. אבל ברור שגם זה לא עבד טוב במיוחד. הוא ניסה, נכון? הוא ניסה. השם אמר לו, נכון? מה זה אומר, הוא אמר להשם? אולי ישמעאל והשם אמר לא. מה זה אומר?
הוא ניסה ללמד את ישמעאל להיות איש. ישמעאל לא רוצה להיות איש. עניין התיאולוגיה לא עובד כל כך טוב כמו… טוב, זה תלוי במי אתה. יש שני – 50% מה-DNA של האדם זה האישה, נכון? צריך לבחור את האישה בחוכמה. והגר הזו ממצרים לא הייתה כזו צדקת. אז זה לא עבד.
לאנשים יש גם בחירה משלהם, אבל גם הרבה קשור לאב, נכון? הוא בדרך של שמואל עם אמו, לא בעצמו, נכון? אז זה לא עבד טוב במיוחד.
אז עכשיו הוא תקוע. התוכנית שלו פושטת רגל, קרובה לפשיטת רגל. אז הוא הבין, או השם אמר לו, לא הבנת איך המשחק הזה משוחק. באמת חשבת שזה הולך לעבוד. הם הולכים להגיע לכאן. אתה הולך להקים משפחה. כולם הולכים להיות צדיקים וטהורים. ועכשיו לאף אחד לא יהיו בעיות. אז אתה פשוט הולך לחיות בארץ החדשה הזו. אתה הולך להיות חזק, נכון?
יש לך צבא. יש לך 318 משפחה בתוך הצבא שלך, נכון? טוב, חזק יותר מצבא האימפריה הגדולה ביותר באותם זמנים. לאף אחד לא היה צבא גדול במיוחד. והם היו אמיצים והם היו צעירים והם היו כולם עבודה. הם היו מאוד מצליחים. הם רדפו כל הדרך מחברון לדמשק, זה די רחוק. בלילה אחד. אני לא יודע איך הם עשו את זה. זה חברון משרי. זה נחמד… לוקח בערך חמש שעות נסיעה.
בכל מקרה, אז…
בקיצור מעשה, השם אמר להם… זה נקרא פרשת ברית בין הבתרים. הוא אמר להם, זה לא עובד ככה. זו לא המציאות. אני אסביר לך למה.
מרצה: למה? אתה יודע למה? אני לא באמת יודע. אתה יודע?
הסיבה היא כי יש גבול למה שאתה יכול לעשות עם הילדים שלך. הרגע הסברנו את הגבול הזה. יש גבול אמיתי. ההשפעה של אנשים על הילדים שלהם מאוד מוגבלת. יש גבול במובנים רבים. אחד מהם גילית עם ישמעאל. יכולות להיות לך הכוונות הכי טובות ואז הבן שלך פשוט אומר, “טאטי [אבא], יש לי תוכניות משלי לחיים.” זה גבול אחד. אותו סיפור עם מה?
תלמיד: אני עדיין כועס.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: זה הכעס שלך?
מרצה: גבול שני, אבל הגבול החשוב יותר שאנחנו מדברים עליו כאן.
תלמיד: חשבתי שזה מה שאני…
מרצה: חשבתי שאתה אומר?
תלמיד: כן, חשבתי ככה.
מרצה: ו?
תלמיד: זה לא…
מרצה: זה לא היה ה…
תלמיד: זה מה שתמיד חשבתי שזה.
מרצה: זה לא מה שהולך לעבוד.
תלמיד: לא, אבל יש בעיה גדולה יותר.
מרצה: הבעיה הגדולה יותר היא, זוכרים שההשפעה של אדם, גם אם יש לך משפחה טובה, הכי טובה, אתה מוגבל לארבעה דורות לכל היותר. וזה במצב טוב מאוד, נכון? רוב האנשים מוגבלים לדור אחד או שניים. אתה לא באמת יכול ללמד יותר משני דורות, נכון? כלומר, אתה לא יכול להשפיע בצורה אמיתית, נכון? אתה זוכר את זה.
דרך אגב, זה נכון גם למורים, נכון? רגע, בואו נעבוד על משהו. אתה לא יכול – יש בעיה אמיתית. אני נותן לכם דרש כאן. אני מצטער, אתם יכולים ללכת לברטון בשביל הסוג הזה של דרשות, אבל זה מה שאני עושה עכשיו. אני מנסה לדבר על בעיות אמיתיות, אבל. וזה, אוקיי.
בכל מקרה, זה המשך מהגיליון שלי של פסח. אם זה נמסר, תבינו את זה. אם יש לכם שאלות, אתם יכולים להתקשר אלי ונעשה את זה לעבוד באמת. אבל זה לא עובד בצורה אמיתית.
זו מגבלה גם למורים, נכון? אני חושב שיש – לאנשים יש יוהרה גדולה. כאילו, לאנשים יש הערכות יתר מטורפות של מה שבני אדם מסוגלים לעשות, אוקיי?
מה היה צריך להיווצר עם המורה שלנו ל-10,000 דורות? מה? אין דבר כזה להיות מורה ל-10,000 דורות. מה קורה? אנחנו קוראים לבחור הזה שחי לפני 3,000 שנה המורה שלנו. מה זה בכלל אומר? אין דבר כזה.
תלמיד: לא, שא [הרבי].
מרצה: לא, זה אני.
תלמיד: אבל אני לא יכול לדבר איתו.
מרצה: אוקיי, עכשיו יש בעיה גדולה. אז למה יש להם את הדבר הזה – לעולם, זה לעולם לא עובד כשאתה צריך את זה. כאילו, שמעת פעם מישהו משתמש בזה במקרה שזה שימושי? זה לא שימושי. רק אתה רק מבין שזה לא – זה קשה.
תלמיד: כן, זה קשה למכוניות החדשות אין את זה. אתה לא צריך לעשות את זה. אתה פשוט מצפצף ציוץ רגיל.
מרצה: לא כל כך קל שוב, הא? זה הבית שלי שאני לוחץ עושה לך חנייה אתה שוכח כל כך הרבה, אוקיי.
בכל מקרה, משל, להראות לכם הנקודה היא שיש לי שאלה אמיתית כאן. שאלה מאוד אמיתית. שאלה מאוד אמיתית. זה לא הגיוני. אתה יודע, אנשים אומרים, אה, הם לעולם לא מתו, אבל זה מזרי מאחורי השירותים הזה עדיין חי, לכן זה צריך להמשיך לנצח ככה. זה בלוף. אתה יכול להמשיך בערך דור וחצי ככה, אתה יכול.
והדבר העצוב הוא שאנשים שאמרו את זה, גם הם מתים. אז הם לא מבינים שהתוכנית שלהם תמיד הייתה נבואת שקר מזויפת. ואז הדור הבא או דור וחצי אחר כך הם אלה שתקועים. ואז כבר יש לנו מסורה שזה מה שאנחנו אומרים, ואז כולנו חיים בשקר. אני מדבר על דברים מאוד ספציפיים עכשיו, אבל בכל מקרה, זו בעיה אמיתית.
אה, זה גם – אני בעצם לא יודע שיש פתרון אמיתי לבעיה הזו. אני בעצם חושב שכל דור צריך להיות לו מורים משלו. זו האמת האמיתית. אבל גם, חייב להיות משהו יותר מזה. לפחות אנחנו חיים בעולם שעזר לנו לפתור את הבעיה הזו או איכשהו חשב אסטרטגיה עם זה. אבל אני נותן לכם שוט על פרשת ברית בין הבתרים בשוט מאוד רציני.
אז אני אחשוב ככה. אז השם אמר לאברם, אתה צריך להבין שהבעיה המדויקת שלך, אתה צריך קודם לפתור את הבעיה הזו. התוכנית המתוכננת יפה שלך לחיות באושר ועושר בארץ כנען עם הילדים והנכדים שלך היא שטות. כי תחשוב על הנינים שלך. האם הם יזכרו מי היה אברהם? אם הם יזכרו, זה יהיה באיזו דרך מוזרה ומזויפת.
אז אל – זו לא תוכנית טובה. זו מעולם לא הייתה תוכנית טובה. אני יודע שאתה חי כבר 70 שנה על בסיס התוכנית הזו או כמה שזה. הולך לחג׳ בעוד 20 שנה. זו לא תוכנית אמיתית. כמה זמן הוא חי על בסיס התוכנית הזו? 25 שנה, נכון? 24 בערך. זו לא תוכנית אמיתית. אתה צריך לחשוב על תוכנית טובה יותר.
אז הוא אמר ככה, תראה מה אני מציע. יש הרבה דימויים בסיפור הזה וזה קשה לפרש והמדרש יש לו כל מיני דרכים לקרוא את זה, אבל כולם מנסים לקרוא את סוג הבעיה הזו לתוכו. במקום יש לי תוכנית חדשה. אתה הולך לצטרך לעשות משהו שטוב יותר מזה. אני לא יודע מה הפתרון דרך אגב. אין לי מושג.
אבל אני כן יודע שמה שזה אומר זה כרוך בכך לא לתת לאנשים להציל את הנינים שלהם. כמו תחילת הכבשים זה בטוח אומר את זה.
היום טרי ואמר תראה מה הולך לקרות. אני אגיד לך מה הולך לקרות. אני אגיד לך יודע משהו, תן לי רק לתת לך את המחיר. המחיר עבור מה – התוכנית שהולכת לעבוד שלא הבנת עכשיו – שיש לה מחיר. המחיר הוא ככה: במשך ארבעה דורות, או בגרסה אחרת של אותו סיפור אמר 400 שנה. 400 שנה אומר ארבע פעמים ארבעה דורות, נכון? אותו מבנה, נכון? 100 שנה זה כמו כמות האנשים שחיים כאן, ואז ארבע פעמים זה כשאף אחד לא זוכר את האנשים שזוכרים את האנשים שזוכרים שזוכרים את האנשים שזוכרים שזוכרים שזוכרים את האנשים שזוכרים. זה מה שהשם עושה, נכון? מבינים?
זה מה ש-400 שנה אומר. כמובן, זה למה הקושיא הייתה 400 שנה. 400 שנה זו קושיא מזויפת. ה-400 שנה מתאימות ל, באותו קטע זה אומר, דור רביעי, נכון? דור רביעי ישובו הנה. האם זה אומר? הכל עובד עם ההיגיון הזה, שהטווח של אדם לא מתרחב מעבר לשלב הרביעי.
אז השם אמר, תראה, אתה חושב על השלב שאחרי זה, נכון? זה באמת – למה שאתה באמת מנסה להגיע – בדיוק הדור החמישי הוא זה או הדור הרביעי הוא מתי שאתה מנסה לפתור. אז המחיר עבור זה הוא שזה במשך שלושה דורות – במשך ארבעה דורות אתה הולך להיות בדיוק ההפך ממצב שאתה מדמיין. אנחנו הולכים להיות עבד לאומה אש שהולכת לעשות מה שהם רוצים עם הילדים שלך.
ואז יהיה לנו מחזור שהולך לפתור איכשהו. זה היה השידור מהשבוע שעבר. אבל עכשיו אני מוסיף משהו חדש מאוד.
מרצה: ובכן, זה סותר את כל הגיליון. זה סותר, בדיוק. זה מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו. אני מגיע לזה. זה סותר את כל הגיליון. זה סותר את כל הגיליון.
הדרך לגרום לזה לעבוד תהיה לומר משהו כמו שהסיבה האמיתית שזו הדרך האמיתית – הסיבה האמיתית שהיהודים לא מתבוללים היא לא בגלל הדבר הטרגי של ליאו שטראוס, אלא בגלל שאנחנו מאמינים שבדור הרביעי משיח כבר יבוא. נכון? למה שלא אתבולל ואהיה גוי? כי זה לא יעבוד היום, בסדר, אבל זה יעבוד בעודארבעה דורות. לא, מה אתה רוצה? נכון? זה מה שזה מנסה לחיות במיני [?], והדור הרביעי יקבל בברכה – זה מה שזה אומר. זה בדיוק מה שזה אומר.
זה בדיוק – כלומר, אני רק לחתוך – עכשיו אני ממלא אותך על החלק הראשון של זה. טוב, כן, זה רק מתחיל בדור הרביעי זה השלילי. כן, כן, יש לך – אני לא יודע, אין לי פתרון. אני עושה – הפכתי את זה לכל הסיפור הזה כדי שתבלע את זה קצת.
אבל זו הבעיה. זה רק מתחיל בדור הרביעי, באמת. הבנת?
ועכשיו, זה באמת – במילים אחרות, אני חושב שהדרך לומר את זה, הדרך היפה לומר את זה, שאני לא לגמרי מאמין בה, תהיה לומר שהוא באמת עובד על משהו שנועד לשרוד את המהלך הטבעי של בני אדם, אתה יודע, מאבדים את השפעתם ויש להם נכדי נכדים שהם לא באמת מכירים.
אבל אני לא יודע איך להסביר את זה, אז אני רק אומר את זה.
אבל הנקודה תהיה שעכשיו התשובה היא, מי אמר לנו לסבול בזמנים האלה כשאנחנו במחזורים של 400 שנה האלה? התשובה היא אברהם אבינו.
עכשיו תבין משהו מאוד מעניין. הפרק הזה – לא אמרתי את זה, אפילו לא כתבתי את זה, אז אני צריך לומר את זה – ותבין, אז זה מה שאמרנו בשבוע שעבר.
המדרש אומר: למה עם ישראל סובל? כי המקור שלהם מכר אותם. מי המקור שלנו? אברהם אבינו. אברהם אבינו גרם לנו לסבול. זו אשמתו. כל אשמתו. כי הייתה לו בחירה: או שהילדים שלו הולכים לגיהנום או שהם סובלים בעולם הזה תחת האומות, והוא בחר בזה.
דנו בזה בשיעור. נתתי הסבר יפה לעניין הזה. אבל הנקודה היא שאברהם אבינו בחר את החיים האלה בשבילנו.
אבל עכשיו אני מוסיף לך: מה שהוא בחר – אולי בחיים אחד יכולת היה – מה שהוא בחר היה בדיוק בגלל הדבר הזה שהוא מנסה ליצור משהו שנמשך אחרי הדור הרביעי או שמתחיל באמת לעבוד אז.
עכשיו, עכשיו יש לי דבר חדש, דבר חדש שאני צריך לספר לך. כן, אני לא יודע, אני לא – אני אסיים עם החלק שלי ואתה תלך לישון ותגיד לי אם יש לך הזדמנות טובה יותר.
עכשיו, מה שאני אומר הוא ככה. אתה זוכר את סיפור העקדה שאנחנו קוראים בראש השנה? והוא אומר, בסדר, זה – חם ולכולם כמו, כן, פעם היה איש זקן שרצה לשחוט את הילד הצעיר שלו. בסדר, מה אתה בשביל החיים שלי? אה, היית הסבא שלי? רק דיברנו שסבים לא משנים, נכון, אחרי איזה סיכוי.
מה הסיפור של אברהם להיות הסבא שלנו? זו גם אותה בעיה, נכון?
אז אני רוצה לספר לך את הפשט. הרמב״ם אומר ככה. הרמב״ם אומר: זה לא היה הנסיון של אבחר [?]. זכור, לרמב״ם יש בעיה עם הנסיון. הנסיון נראה שאומר שאלוקים יודע משהו והוא מגלה. זה לא הגיוני.
אז, לכן, הרמב״ם אומר: לא, הנסיון לא אומר – הנסיון אומר האדם, הפרסום של משהו. נס. כמו, מלש [?] ונס, נכון? זה גם מה שנס אומר. זו גם התשובה לכל השאלות שיש לכם אנשים, שדברים צריכים להיות נס. כמובן, הם צריכים להיות נס.
עכשיו, ומה – עכשיו, לכן, בכל פעם שזה אומר בנסיון זה אומר שאנחנו לומדים משהו מסיפור מאוד פומבי, סיפור מאוד מפורסם. מה אנחנו לומדים מסיפור העקדה?
זה אומר שיש שני דברים.
דבר אחד שאנחנו לומדים הוא שנביאים מאוד בטוחים בנבואה, כי אף אחד לא יהיה מוכן להרוג את בנו אם הוא לא היה מאוד בטוח שזה אלוקים מדבר אליו. הוא מניח שאנשים לא – די נחמדים, אולי כמה אנשים אפילו ישכחו, אבל אנשים נורמליים לא ראויים לכל דבר. הוא היה בחור טוב. זוכר? בסדר, תקשיב, זה החלק השני של הסיפור שלי. רק תראה את שני הדברים האלה.
אז בכל מקרה, זה מלמד אותך את הנבואה, ומכיוון שנבואה היא יסודית לדת, אז זה אברהם אבינו היה מייסד הדת – מלמד אותנו שנבואה היא מאוד אמיתית לנביא. אגב, זה איפה שמישהו יודע – אנחנו לא יודעים את זה עדיין. איפה שהנביא הוא מאוד אמיתי. בסדר?
דבר שני שהוא מלמד את המורים הוא כמה רציני – יש לי סאש [?], אני מפספס – זה מה שזה אומר ומתאר כמה קשה היה לאברהם אבינו לעשות את העקדה הזאת, והוא נתן את כל זה בשביל אברהם אבינו. בזה תקרא את זה. מה שהוא אומר, הוא מתאר – תדמיין שאתה צריך לקרוא את זה. תביא לי – אני צריך לספר לך, אני אוהב ביאס [?], לא את האמיתי. כן, זה זה שאני אולי אשאל אחרי החדש שלי. עוד אחד אני שומר אותו תמיד כאן. ואתה רואה שם, אני אספר – מה שאני כמעט בחוץ.
אז כאן זה אומר ככה. הפתרון הזה – איזו פרשה אמרתי שזה? אה, טוב מאוד, צדקתי.
זה אומר ככה: אבל – והוא אומר, מתחיל לדבר על – פתאום כאן מדבר על הנוף – הדבר הראשון שהוא אמר שאנחנו לומדים הוא כמה אדם צריך לעשות בשביל אהבת ה׳, לא בשביל – לא קשה ראשון בשביל אהבת ה׳.
אז הוא אומר, ואז הוא אומר זה מדבר על אולי הוא אמר את זה – איך אתה עושה – יש לה עוד – אברהם אבינו, זה כמו שזה היה נכון שזה – מה צריך – כשזה שאני אומר נכון, האם זה עושה את זה אדנה [?], כמו שזה פלסטיק. מה שהוא אומר, מנסה להסביר לך מה הסיפור באמת – למה זה – למה הסיפור מסופר על אברהם אבינו?
הוא אומר: הוא התחיל ללמד את היחוד, נכון, אחרי שם ונבואה, ולעזוב – להשאיר את הדעה הזאת, הידיעה הזאת תמיד, ורק להגביל עניין אחר, נכון, למשוך אנשים אליו. כמו שנאמר, ובדיוק כמו שאנחנו עוקבים אחרי הדעות האמיתיות שלו, הידע האמיתי שלו, אנחנו גם עוקבים אחרי הדברים הנלקחים ממעשיו. אנחנו גם – אנחנו מחקים את הידע והמעשים של אברהם. זה מה שהרמב״ם אומר.
קל שכן זאת ספולה, קל חיים עדס [?] של עקידת יצחק, שהוא, בזה, הוא הראה את האמיתות של הנבואה וכמה רצינית אהבת ה׳.
אז הוא אומר משהו מאוד מוזר. אנחנו צריכים לחקות את העקדה. נכון? כי אם כל ההיגיון של העקדה של היסטוריון הוא לעשות משהו מפורסם, לפרסם משהו, והוא אומר במיוחד, לא לחתום על מישהו, לא לחתום על איזה זקן אקראי – כמו שהוא מתאר קודם כמה חשוב זה היה, הוא לא היה הכל, הוא אומר.
היה אדם שהיה מאוד זקן והוא באמת רצה ילד והוא רצה שיהיה לו עם מצאצאיו, ויש לו את הילד הזה שהוא זקן וכל כך קשה, והוא הרג אותו אחרי שלושה ימים. לא כשהוא היה בתשוקה. זה מה שזה אומר, לקח שלושה ימים. אתה לא צריך לחשוב, הוא הלך שלושה ימים, היה לו הרבה זמן לחשוב על זה.
אז, אנחנו לומדים – וזה מה שאנחנו לומדים מ – כי אנחנו צריכים לחקות את הפעילויות שלו. אנחנו לומדים מהמעשים שלו בדיוק כמו שאנחנו לומדים מהלימודים שלו, מהמחשבות שלו. מה קורה כאן? מאוד מוזר. אתה עושה את העקדה? מה קורה כאן? כל הנקודה של העקדה היא שאתה לא צריך לעשות את זה בכל מקרה. אבל מה קורה?
אז אני מבין שזה מה שהוא מתכוון לומר. מה שהוא מתכוון לומר הוא – אני לא יודע אם השם מתכוון לומר את זה, אבל זה תמונת מצב. מה שהוא מתכוון לומר הוא שזה מה שאנחנו מדברים עליו כשאנחנו אומרים את זכות העקדה. זכות העקדה פשוט אומרת –
זה אומר שבעשיית העקדה הזאת, ובאמת העקדה היא אותו דבר כמו ברית בין הבתרים. אברהם אבינו מלמד, בוחר גלות לילדיו – זה מה שהעקדה היא רגשית או תמונה עבור, כי אברהם אבינו אומר, וזה מה שאמרתי לך לשאלה שלך:
אברהם אבינו, בגלל שהוא מנסה לפתור בעיה מאוד רצינית, שחורגת מכמות הדאגה שיש לך לילדים שלך, כי הוא מנסה לפתור את זה לדור החמישי, נכון – זה דרש ממנו לא לדאוג לארבעת הדורות הראשונים. זה דרש ממנו לחשוב רחוק יותר מזה.
ואם דרשתי ממנו – לשחוט את בנו שלו – טוב, הוא אולי לא ממש שחט את המתנה, אבל הוא כן גרם – זה קשה ללכת בגלות, או יעקב, או איפה שזה היה. הוא כן גרם – לא היטלר להרוג את כל ששת מליון היהודים – היה אברהם אבינו גרם שילדים להם הוד [?] על. זה מה שהמדרש הוא.
למה הוא קרא לזה ככה? כי הוא ניסה לחשוב מעבר לזה. הוא ניסה ליצור משהו ששורד את סוף התהליך הטבעי של הורים משפיעים ויוצרים את ילדיהם.
אז זה חלק – וזה באמת סוף הנבואה. זה מה שהוא אמר. זו הנבואה של אברהם אבינו, הגבול, הגבול האינסופי של אהבת ה׳, שזה מה שהמשיח אמור להיות, שזה מה שעם ישראל מנסה לכוון אליו, הוא סוג הדבר שאתה לא אכפת לך מעצמך או מהילדים שלך.
כי אם אתה הולך לעבוד עם הילדים שלך, אתה לא הולך לשרוד את הדור החמישי.
אז אמרתי שאתה לא צריך לדאוג לילדים שלך כי אתה צריך לדאוג לעצמך. דרך אחרת לומר את זה היא שאתה לא צריך לדאוג לילדים שלך כי אתה מנסה לדאוג למשהו שחורג מכל זה, ולכן נמשך חמישה דורות. ואז בדור החמישי, הם ניצלים.
זה התירוץ שיש לי לומר. לא פתרתי שום בעיות. רק הבהרתי את הבעיות מאוד.
וזה הסיפור של העקדה. סיפור העקדה הוא הסיפור של היהודים שמסרבים להתבולל וגורמים לנכדי הנכדים שלהם לקבל בעיות או להיוושע.
חתוך את זה לרמה השנייה – אני לא מסביר את זה. זה למה העולם אמר שזה מה שמראה שהנבואה היא כל כך חזקה. זה נראה כל כך ברור לאדם שעושה את זה שאין לו שום בחירה. זו האמת.
אין לי הסבר איך זה אמור לעבוד. אמרתי לך שאני לא יודע. אין לי הסבר איך זה עובד.
תלמיד: זה התנועות [?] של הקושיא שלך, שהם תמיד מקבלים את הנבואה להרוג את הילדים שלהם.
מרצה: [לא נרשמה תשובה ברורה]
מרצה: מבחינה מעשית, אין תרגול. אמא הולכת ושוחטת את בנה. לא, לא שחטנו את בנם. זה משל. הבחור הזה הוא משל.
לא, אני אומר, אז… הוא גרם לבנו ללכת למצרים. אם הייתם סוג האנשים שיכולים לשרוד את מצרים, אז הדבר של אברהם אבינו יכול היה להתחיל לעבוד.
זה חוזר לשיעור הקודם שלנו, לשיעור שלנו משנה שעברה, מהשבוע שעבר. זה רק יכול היה להתחיל לעבוד אם אתה מפסיק לחשוב על היום ומחר. אם אתה יכול לדמיין את הספר הזה, אם אתה יכול – זה נראה טוב לאור הנושא איש.
כן, זו הגאולה, נכון? זה המייל הבא של בוא. ואני חושב שמה שהמייל הבא אמר, “צא משם,” זה אחרי, נכון?
בכל מקרה, אין לי מוצק – הבעיה רק אמרתי לך שזה נראה להיות הסיפור של הצוערים. זה חם הולך לצ׳אט החדש שלי.
מרצה: אני חושב שזו עבודה טובה מאוד ואנחנו צריכים להאשים את אבותינו שתקעו אותנו בזה. והסיבה שהם עשו את זה הייתה כי הם האמינו שמשיח יבוא אחרי – אחרי זה, אבל לא להם.
לפעמים זה היה – היה יהודי זקן שבא למרדכיים [כנראה: רבי או סמכות תורנית], והוא שאל אותו, “מתי היא תבוא?” [מתי משיח יבוא?]
הוא אמר, “לא בימי או בילדי או בנכדי.”
זה הסוד. אם מישהו באמת חושב שאני – משיח הולך לבוא בימיו, הוא לא קיבל שייק אחד. המשיח שלו הוא הדבר שבא אחרי שנכד הנכד שלך מת.
מרצה: אין לי תא [פתרון]. לא, זה לא – לא, אני לא מתכוון לזה. בסדר, אני לא יכול – אין לי פתרון. אני רק אספר לך את הבעיה. אולי, אני לא יודע.
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זהו המשך של השיעור מהשבוע שעבר (שנמסר ביידיש). השאלה המרכזית מאותו מפגש:
– השאלה המרכזית (מ״פיטר”): למה אדם צריך להישאר יהודי?
– התשובה הבסיסית שניתנה אז: אין באמת אלטרנטיבה אמיתית — אתה יכול להיות רק *יידישע ייד* (יהודי יהודי) או *גוישע ייד* (יהודי גויי). מכיוון שלהיות יהודי גויי זה קיום עצוב ובלתי קוהרנטי, עדיף להיות יהודי יהודי.
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תשובה זו מבוססת על ההרצאה של ליאו שטראוס *”למה אנחנו עדיין יהודים”*, שסוקרת “פתרונות” אפשריים לבעיה היהודית:
– אפשרות: התבוללות (רצח עצמי תרבותי): תפסיק להיות יהודי, דבר אנגלית, תהיה “אנשים נורמליים”.
– השיקול של הרצל: הרצל אפילו שקל המרת דת המונית לנצרות — לא בגלל שהיה משוגע, אלא כי הוא *עבד לוגית על האפשרויות*. היושר האינטלקטואלי שלו ראוי להגנה: “אתה המשוגע שמעולם לא שקל את האפשרות הזו”.
– למה הרצל דחה את זה: אתה לא יכול באמת להפוך ללא-יהודי. אתה הופך ל*גוי יהודי* — יצור שונא עצמו, לימינלי. אז הרצל הגיע למסקנה שעדיף להישאר יהודי.
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התנגדות רצינית למסקנה של שטראוס/הרצל:
– ההתנגדות: גם אם *הדור הראשון* של המתבוללים סובל כ״גויים יהודיים” מביכים, אחרי כמה דורות (ארבעה, חמישה, עשרה), הצאצאים ישכחו לחלוטין את מוצאם היהודי. “הבעיה היהודית” נפתרת כך *לצאצאיך*.
– בניסוח פורמלי: אם אכפת לך יותר מהצאצאים שלך מאשר מעצמך, האם לא כדאי להתבולל עכשיו, לסבול כאב לטווח קצר, ולהעניק להם הקלה לטווח ארוך מרדיפות (מסעות צלב, פוגרומים, להיות “הורגי ישו”, וכו׳)?
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תלמיד מעלה את המציאות ההיסטורית של הרדיפות (מסעות צלב, נאצים, עינויים, מוות). הבהרה חשובה:
– הנזק של להיות יהודי בעולם עוין הוא לא רק חומרי (אלימות, מוות) אלא גם רוחני/מוסרי — אנשים לא משגשגים כשהם במצב של רדיפה והשפלה.
– להיפך, “החיים הטובים” שמוותרים עליהם בהתבוללות הם לא רק נוחות חומרית אלא כוללים טובות מוסריות, אינטלקטואליות ורוחניות — חיים של שמירת מצוות, של להיות טוב מוסרית במסגרת שלך.
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הדילמה מתחדדת לשאלת טרייד-אוף פילוסופית כללית:
– האם כדאי להרוס את חייך (מוסרית, רוחנית) כדי שנכדי-נכדיך יימנעו ממערכת מסוימת של בעיות?
– הפיכת התרחיש כדי להסיר הטיה רגשית: האם היית אומר ל*נוצרי* נרדף פשוט להפסיק להיות נוצרי למען צאצאיו? רובם היו אומרים כן — מה שמגלה שההתנגדות להתבוללות עשויה לנבוע מהתקשרות רגשית ולא מטיעון רציונלי.
– תלמיד מסכים עם ההתבוללות, והדחייה: “אתה מתנהג בטוח מאוד בצד אחד כי אתה חושב שהסכמה עם הצד *השני* [כלומר, להישאר יהודי] היא רק הטיה — אבל הצד התומך בהתבוללות גם הוא לא נכון באופן ברור.“
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אנשים רבים, מודעים להטיה שלהם (דתית, לאומית, שבטית), מתקנים יתר על המידה. הם חושבים: “אני מאמין ב-X רק בגלל שזה הצד *שלי*, אז כנראה X שגוי”. הם מדמיינים שבשאילת השאלה “מה אם הייתי פלסטיני?” או “מה אם הייתי הצד השני?” הם משיגים אובייקטיביות — “נקודת מבט מהאין”.
תיקון יתר זה הוא בעצמו טעות. מודעות להטיה אינה מניבה אוטומטית אמת. הרמב״ם דאג מהטיה שבטית, כן — אבל *ההיפוך* של הטיה שבטית אינו בהירות.
– אנלוגיית שבשבת הרוח: *שבשבת רוח שבורה* שמצביעה באופן עקבי לכיוון הלא נכון עדיין שימושית (פשוט תהפוך אותה). אבל רוב הטעויות אינן *היפוכים שיטתיים* — הן אקראיות. אז פשוט להפוך את העמדה המוטה שלך לא מביא אותך לאמת.
– המחשות הומוריסטיות: “שאל בעל הבית ועשה את ההיפך = דעת תורה”; “שאל ליטבק ועשה את ההיפך”.
– הפתיחה של *אנה קרנינה* של טולסטוי (“כל המשפחות המאושרות מאושרות באותו אופן; כל המשפחות האומללות אומללות בדרכים שונות”) ממחישה רעיון אריסטוטלי.
– הטיעון של אריסטו: יש דרכים רבות להיות רע ומעט דרכים להיות טוב — אחד מטיעוניו לדוקטרינת האמצע.
– שורשים פיתגוראיים: אריסטו ייחס זאת לפיתגוראים, שקישרו את האחד עם הטוב ואת הרבים/המגוון/הלא שווה עם הרע. אפילו מספרים אי-זוגיים (המקושרים לאחדות) היו טובים, ומספרים זוגיים (*זוגות*, המרמזים על כפילות) היו רעים.
– הנקודה הלוגית המרכזית: מכיוון שיש הרבה יותר דרכים להיות טועה מאשר להיות צודק, לעשות את *ההיפך* של משהו טיפשי סטטיסטית סביר יותר להיות דבר טיפשי *אחר* מאשר הדבר הנכון.
> כפי שציינו אריסטו, רבי נחמן מברסלב וטולסטוי: יש רק אמת אחת אבל דרכים רבות לטעות. היפוך תשובה שגויה אחת לא מבטיח שתפגע באחת הנכונה — סביר שפשוט תנחת על תשובה שגויה *אחרת*.
התלמיד שאומר “אני מוטה כלפי יהדות, לכן ההתבוללות כנראה נכונה” עושה בדיוק את הטעות הזו. הכרה בהטיה שלך כלפי להישאר יהודי לא הופכת את המקרה להתבוללות לחזק יותר. אסטרטגיית ה״היפוך” לא מבהירה כלום — היא לא ממיסה את השאלה האמיתית; היא רק מניחה שהסיבה היחידה שמישהו מחזיק בעמדה היא בגלל באיזה “צד” הוא נמצא. יש כאן שאלה מהותית אמיתית, והיפוך פרספקטיבות לא גורם לה להיעלם. יש לבחון את השאלה לגופה.
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זה לא ברור שמישהו צריך להחמיר את חייו כדי שחיי נכד-נכדו יהיו טובים יותר. התבוללות לא עובדת בדור אחד — הדור הראשון סובל, והתועלת מצטברת רק לצאצאים מאוחרים יותר. זו לא אמונה יהודית ייחודית; זו חוויה אנושית כללית (מהגרים אומרים בדרך כלל “אני עושה את זה למען הילדים שלי”). אבל לעשות זאת למען *ילדים* זה דבר אחד; לעשות זאת למען *נכדי-נכדים* זה דבר אחר לגמרי — החישוב המוסרי הופך להיות הרבה פחות ברור.
אם האדם חייב להפוך לאדם רע כדי שנכדיו בסופו של דבר יהיו “טובים” (כלומר, מתבוללים בהצלחה), אז ההקרבה כנראה לא מוצדקת. זה מסומן כשיקול רציני, לא כנקודה מוכרעת.
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נקודת המוצא של ליאו שטראוס (*הוא אמינא* — ההנחה הראשונית שיש לבחון): יהודים יכולים להתבולל, אבל מכיוון שזה לא יעבוד בדור אחד, הם לא צריכים. למה בכלל הוצעה ההתבוללות: כדי לפתור את “הבעיה היהודית” — שכולם שונאים את היהודים, מה שמוביל לרדיפות, התעללות והרג. גם אם לא נגרם נזק פיזי, להיות שנוא אוניברסלית זה בעצמו רע — זו הנחה חזקה.
אם כולם שונאים אותך, זה כנראה סימן שמשהו לא בסדר *איתך*, לא רק עם כולם. זה מאתגר את ההבנה העצמית היהודית הנפוצה ש״כולם שונאים אותנו אבל אנחנו הטובים ביותר”. הבנה עצמית זו לא בהכרח שקרית, אבל היא צריכה לתת לאדם עצירה — זו לא אמונת ברירת מחדל יציבה או סבירה.
– תלמיד: האם ההיפך נכון — אם כולם אוהבים אותך, זה אומר שאתה טוב?
– תשובה: לא הוכחה, אבל זה סימן. שנאה אוניברסלית היא סימן שמשהו לא בסדר; אישור אוניברסלי אינו הוכחה לטוב, אבל זה גם לא סיבה לדאגה. פופולריות מתפקדת כראיה משמעותית, לא “סרט מדידה” מוחלט.
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למה אנשים טובים באמת — אנשים שעושים דברים טובים יותר — יהיו שנואים? זה רעיון מוזר. אם אתה באמת עושה דברים טובים יותר, מי יתנגד לזה?
– “אתה עושה את זה גרוע יותר לאנשים רעים”: אבל אז האם אתה באמת עושה דברים *טובים יותר* בסך הכל? וגם עונש אמור להיות *טוב* לאדם הרע (רפורמטיבי), לא רק מזיק.
– “אנשים רעים מקנאים באנשים טובים”: אם אדם טוב מעורר קנאה, משהו לא בסדר בגישה של האדם הטוב.
– “אנשים רעים שונאים את מה שטוב להם”: האנלוגיה של סוקרטס לרופא — חולים כמעט אף פעם לא שונאים רופאים, גם כשרופאים כופים דרישות לא נעימות (דיאטות, הפסקת עישון). אנשים אולי לא *מקשיבים*, אבל הם לא *שונאים* את הרופא. זה מצביע על כך שאנשים מועילים באמת לא שנואים באופן טבעי.
אנחנו נוחים מדי עם הנרטיב “אנחנו שנואים כי אנחנו צודקים”. נוחות זו חשודה ומסוכנת. רוב האנשים למעשה *שמחים* להיות מתוקנים ברוב התחומים. אם מתעוררת שנאה, המורה נושא באחריות משמעותית.
> ### סטייה צדדית: הרפובליקה של אפלטון על שנאת פילוסופים
> אפלטון טען שאנשים שונאים פילוסופים כי רוב הפילוסופים שהם פוגשים הם באמת אנשים רעים — שנאה על ידי אסוציאציה, מקרה של “אובייקט מוטעה”.
מסקנה מעשית: אם אתה גורם לאנשים לשנוא אותך, אתה נכשל בהוראה. להיות צודק חסר משמעות אם אתה לא יכול להעביר אמת. אפשרויות:
– אל תלמד עד שאנשים מוכנים.
– מצא שיטות “חתרניות” כך שאנשים לא יבינו שאתה מאתגר אותם עד שיהיה מאוחר מדי.
– שמור שתיקה במקום לעורר שנאה שלא משיגה כלום.
אנחנו מורגלים ל״רעיון מוזר” — הרעיון שלהיות צודק אומר שכדאי לצפות לשנאה אוניברסלית. זה אולי שטויות אגוצנטריות. אם הצדיקים שנואים, התגובה הנכונה עשויה להיות *תשובה* (חזרה בתשובה/בדיקה עצמית), לא חיזוק עצמי. אנחנו חיים בבורות עמוקה לגבי הטוב, האמת, היפה — אנחנו מנווטים לפי *סימנים*. התנגדות אוניברסלית היא סימן מרכזי שמשהו עשוי להיות לא בסדר.
אדם לא צריך בהכרח להיות שנוא על ידי כולם; אדם צריך לצפות להיות אהוב על ידי רוב האנשים.
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בני אדם צריכים בני אדם אחרים: לבתי ספר, עסקים, נישואין, שיתוף פעולה. להיות מודר מהחברה מנתק אותך מ-~90% מהטובות האנושיות.
דוגמה היסטורית קונקרטית: אוניברסיטאות אירופיות גילו תרופות למחלות, אבל יהודים לא יכלו להיכנס בלי להתנצר.
טיעון ההתבוללות (נלקח ברצינות): אם להישאר יהודי אומר להיות מודר מלתרום לקידום האנושות (למשל, לרפא סרטן), אז אתה שותף לאובדן הזה. אתה לא יכול פשוט להגיד “הם הרעים” — גם אתה נכשל לעשות טוב.
גם אם אתה מתנצר, *אתה* לא תתקבל — תסומן כ״נוצרי חדש” ולא יסמכו עליך (כמו באינקוויזיציה הספרדית). רק *נכדי-נכדיך* יתקבלו באופן מלא (אפילו הקטגוריות הגזעיות של היטלר הכירו בנקודת חיתוך זו ב-~4 דורות).
זה מחדש את השאלה הקודמת: כמה יותר גרועים צריכים להיות חייך כדי שנכדי-נכדיך ישגשגו?
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תובנה מרכזית: האדם שאתה כביכול מציל (נכד-נכד-הנכד) הוא בדיוק האדם שאיתו אין לך יותר קשר אמיתי.
תמיכה מקראית: שמות — ה׳ פוקד עוון אבות על בנים על שלשים ועל רבעים.
פירוש רש״י: רחמי אב מגיעים רק כ-3-4 דורות. מעבר לזה, הקשר הרגשי והמעשי מתמוסס.
אתה וילדיך/נכדיך חולקים מאה שנה, עולם, חיים. נכדי-נכדים חיים בעולם שונה ביסודו. למטרות מעשיות, נכד-נכד-הנכד שלך הוא לא באמת “שלך” — אתה לא חולק איתם חיים.
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חובות לצאצאים מבוססות על חיים משותפים — קשר ממשי, חי. יש לך חובות לילדיך כי אתה חולק איתם חיים; אותו דבר חל על הורים וסבים וסבתות. אבל עד שאתה מגיע לסבא-רבא-רבא (או נכד-נכד-נכד), הקשר למעשה אפס:
– אתה לא חולק חיים, עולם, או חוויות אמיתיות איתם.
– החלק הגנטי/יחסי מדולל (למשל, “הוא רק בעלים על 1/128 ממני”).
– לכן, אין לך חובה מוסרית *ספציפית* לצאצאים רחוקים *כצאצאיך*.
מסקנה: זה יהיה מוזר לומר שאתה צריך לעשות משהו במיוחד כדי שאנשים שאין לך קשר מוסרי אמיתי איתם ייהנו.
הטיעון מושרש ברעיון שחובות מוסריות עוקבות אחר קרבה — רמות של דאגה שמקרינות החוצה מהעצמי. להיות אדם טוב אומר לדאוג לילדיך, נכדיך, ואולי נכדי-נכדיך. מעבר לזה, הדאגה הופכת מופשטת ואוניברסלית (“אזרח העולם”/קוסמופוליטי), לא מכוונת ספציפית ל*שושלת* שלך.
אם אכפת לך מהעולם ברמה הקוסמופוליטית, הפתרון לבעיות האנושות הוא אוניברסלי, לא אתני/משפחתי:
– הבעיה היהודית (הישרדות יהודית) — נפתרת על ידי עבודה ברמה הפרטיקולרית/משפחתית.
– הבעיה האנושית — נפתרת על ידי עבודה ברמה האוניברסלית (למשל, “הם צריכים להפסיק להרוג את היהודים”).
אתה *יכול* לעבוד ברמה האוניברסלית מעבר לדור הרביעי, אבל אתה לא יכול למסגר את זה כחובה *לילדיך* באותה נקודה.
> ### אתגר תלמיד ודיאלוג
> תלמיד דוחף בחזרה: האם זה אומר שכדאי לדאוג יותר לבחור בעיר הסמוכה מאשר לנכד-נכד-הנכד שלך?
אולי כן — האדם הקרוב חולק יותר מהחיים והעולם האמיתיים שלך. לדאוג ל״בחורים אקראיים” מבוסס על אנושות משותפת, שהיא אמיתית אבל מופשטת. לדאוג לנכדים *כנכדים* (לא רק כבני אדם) דורש חיים משותפים ממשיים — עולם משפחתי משותף, מגע אמיתי, קשר אמיתי. לחלוק תקופה היסטורית הוא מעניין רק באופן מינימלי (“ראיינו אישה בת 106 — הכל השתנה”).
הבחנה מרכזית: “לחלוק עולם” אומר לחלוק את עולם המש
פחה (קשר אמיתי, אינטימי), לא רק לחיות באותה תקופה.
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לאברהם הייתה תוכנית — לתקן משהו לכל העולם (או לפחות למשפחתו), אבל *הכלי* לביצוע התוכנית הזו היה משפחתו/עמו (עם הוא “פשוט גרסה גדולה יותר של משפחה”). התוכנית דרשה ילדים ביולוגיים — כשאברהם לא יכול היה להביא ילדים, התוכנית הייתה מאוימת. זה לא עובד בלי צאצאים.
מתוך השיעור של השבוע הקודם:
– כשאדם מרגיל תכונות טובות, ההרגלים האלה הופכים לטבע שני — מתואר כ*שכר* של מעשים טובים.
– אותו תהליך פועל בין דורות: ילדים מקבלים את ההרגלים המצטברים של הוריהם (טובים ורעים) “בחינם” — דרך חינוך, חיים במשק הבית, ואולי גנטיקה.
– הורים רואים את ההרגלים הרעים שלהם משתקפים בלי מודעות עצמית בילדיהם (מכיוון שההורה עדיין רואה את עצמו כ״בוחר”, בעוד שהילד פשוט *יש לו* את ההרגל כמנהג משפחתי).
התוכנית של אברהם הייתה למנף את ההעברה הבין-דורית הזו — לטפח ולהחדיר לאט הרגלים טובים לאורך דורות, לעבוד עם המנגנונים הביולוגיים והחברתיים של הטבע האנושי.
> ### סטייה צדדית: למה לא תלמידים במקום ילדים?
> תלמיד שואל: למה אברהם לא יכול היה להשתמש בתלמידים? המדרש אומר שתלמידים טובים יותר מילדים, אבל זה *מדרש*, לא *פשט*. אם אתה רוצה לעבוד עם הטבע האנושי ביעילות, כדאי לעבוד קרוב ככל האפשר לביולוגיה. “יצחק לא יכול היה להתחתן עם המדרש” — כלומר, המציאות המעשית דורשת משפחה ביולוגית.
כל מהפכה שהולכת נגד המשפחה צפויה להיכשל או לייצר השלכות לא מכוונות. שינוי חברתי יעיל משתמש בטבע האנושי כפי שהוא, לא כפי שהיינו רוצים שיהיה (מפנה למקיאוולי: פוליטיקה יעילה דורשת תיאור ריאליסטי של הטבע האנושי). לכן, הכלי של משפחה, ביולוגיה ושושלת הוא הכלי האמין ביותר לשינוי מוסרי/חברתי לטווח ארוך.
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אברהם הבין שבלי ילדים, כל התוכנית קורסת. פנייתו לה׳ (בפרשת לך לך) מתפרשת לא כבקשת תפילה אלא כרגע של התמודדות קיומית — הכרה (חשש) שהתוכנית נכשלת. אברהם אומר: “הבטחת לי שכר, אבל אין לי אפילו ילדים” — כלומר התוכנית שנקבעה אלוהית (לך לך, תתברך, יהיו לך צאצאים) לא התממשה.
מהלך פרשני מרכזי: כשהתורה אומרת “ה׳ הבטיח לו”, זה אומר *זו הייתה התוכנית* — זה היה אמור לעבוד *באופן טבעי*, לא דרך התערבות נסית. גם אם ה׳ בעצמו אומר לך משהו, להסתמך על קסם במקום על תהליכים טבעיים זו תוכנית גרועה. ה׳ ברא את הטבע כדי שדברים יעבדו דרכו. אם התוכנית שלך היא “ה׳ יעקוף את הטבע שלו כדי להציל אותי”, אתה פועל בצורה פגומה ביסודה.
> הערת צד/הבהרה: זה דוחה טענה שנאמרה בשבוע הקודם שהטיעון היה שאברהם “טבעיל הכל”. זו לא בדיוק הנקודה — אלא, צריך להבין *איך ה׳ באמת עובד* (דרך הטבע). הקריאה האלטרנטיבית מסומנת כדרוש, לא פשט.
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לאברהם הייתה בהתחלה השקפה נאיבית — הוא האמין שהכל יסתדר בצורה מושלמת. הנאיביות הזו הייתה *הכרחית*: לו אברהם הבין מההתחלה כמה קשה התהליך יהיה, הוא מעולם לא היה מתחיל. ה׳ אז תיקן את הבנת אברהם, והראה לו שהוא עשה טעות בסיסית לגבי איך תהליכים ציוויליזציוניים כאלה עובדים.
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המעבר של אברהם מאור כשדים/חרן לכנען מוסבר אסטרטגית:
– בחרן, כולם הכירו אותו כ״הבן החוצפן של תרח” ששבר את גטשקעלאך של אביו — אף אחד לא לקח אותו ברצינות.
– משנה מקום משנה מזל — על ידי מעבר, הוא יכול היה להמציא את עצמו מחדש.
– במקום החדש, הוא הציג את עצמו כמייסד של דת חדשה (ויקרא שם בשם ה׳ א-ל עולם).
– הוא התחיל לצבור חסידים.
> ### סטייה צדדית: המשמעות של “גטשקע”
> טנגנטה הומוריסטית ארוכה על תרגום המילה היידישית גטשקע (מונח מזלזל מעט לפסל/צלמית קטן). “אליל” באנגלית נושא יותר מדי הוד — גטשקע הוא משהו קטן ומגוחך. “פסל” גם הוא מפואר מדי. הצעות שונות (בובות, פסלים) נדחות. אנקדוטה על מועדון האלק בשדרות קנדי משותפת. הנקודה: האלילים של תרח לא היו “אלילים” מפוארים — הם היו גטשקעלאך פתטיים.
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המזבח שאברהם בנה מתפרש מחדש: זה לא היה רק ערימת אבנים במדבר. מזבח הוא מבנה קבוע — הוא מייצג קומפלקס מוסדי שלם: ישיבה/אקדמיה, מרכז מקדש/פולחן, מרכז הכנסת אורחים (כמו “בית חב״ד”). אברהם הקים תשתית ציוויליזציונית מלאה להוראת דתו ולתרגול הכנסת אורחים.
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סדום מוצגת כראי אידיאולוגי מנוגד של אברהם — ציוויליזציה מתחרה חדשה עם תוכנית שונה בתכלית:
– מודל אברהם: חסד, הכנסת אורחים, הסברה פתוחה בצמתים, הוראת דת לכולם.
– מודל סדום: חברה ספרטנית — אין רחמים, אין חמלה לחלשים, מריטוקרטיה קפדנית, הסתמכות עצמית, חוסר רחמים (“אנחנו שותים דמעות ליברליות”).
שתיהן היו חברות חדשות עם חזונות מתחרים לציוויליזציה.
עזיבת לוט את אברהם והתיישבותו בסדום מדרמטת את המתח. לוט אמר “אין מקום לי כאן” ונמשך לסדום, והפך לאריסטוקרט שם (יושב בשער סדום). זה מקביל לדינמיקה של בכור שנדונה קודם — השאפתן שפורש.
המבחן הגדול של סדום הגיע כשהם מרדו בכדרלעומר (אולי אותו יריב שאברהם ברח ממנו). הסדומים האמינו שהחברה הקשוחה והבלתי סלחנית שלהם יכולה להביס את האימפריה הזו — אבל הם לא יכלו. אברהם, עם רק 318 איש, הצליח היכן שסדום נכשלה, והציל אותם רק בגלל שאחיינו לוט היה שם במקרה.
זו הייתה ההשפלה הגדולה ביותר של סדום: הציוויליזציה היריבה שנבנתה על חסד והכנסת אורחים הוכיחה עצמה כעדיפה צבאית על זו שנבנתה על חוסר רחמים.
אחרי ההצלה, לפי חוקי המלחמה, הכל — אנשי סדום, רכוש, נשים, ילדים — שייכים לאברהם כמנצח. (אנלוגיה: זה אותו היגיון שבו ארץ ישראל שייכת לה׳ אחרי יציאת מצרים.)
מלך סדום ניסה תמרון דיפלומטי לשמירת כבוד: הוא הציע לאברהם את הרכוש/הכסף אם אברהם יחזיר את האנשים. זה היה בלוף — המלך לא היה במצב “לתת” כלום, מכיוון שהכל כבר שייך לאברהם מכוח כיבוש. המלך העמיד פנים שהוא מנהל משא ומתן מעמדת שוויון כדי לשמר את כבודו.
אברהם ראה דרך התחבולה. אם המלך היה אומר “אנחנו עבדיך, עשה מה שתרצה” (כניעה ללא תנאי), אברהם היה מנצח לגמרי. אבל למלך היה מלכיצדק (הכהן) לצדו שהפעיל משהו כמו “חוק בינלאומי”, אז אברהם החליט להתרחק מכל העניין — לא לקחת כלום — במקום להיות מוצג כנהנה מהסדר דיפלומטי שעיוות את האמת. הוא סירב להתערב, מתוך הכרה שלקבל כל דבר יאפשר למלך סדום לטעון מאוחר יותר, אני העשרתי את אברהם — ובכך לערער את עצמאות אברהם ואת שלמות הפרויקט הציוויליזציוני שלו. הוא התנה רק שבעלי בריתו עדיין יקבלו את חלקם, מכיוון שהוא לא יכול היה לכפות את העקרונות שלו עליהם.
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המשבר התיאולוגי-מעשי המרכזי של חיי אברהם:
– התוכנית המקורית: לבוא לכנען, להקים משפחה צדקת, לבנות כוח (היו לו 318 לוחמים שהביסו את האימפריה הגדולה ביותר של התקופה), ולחיות כקהילה צדקת גדלה ומתקיימת.
– התוכנית פושטת רגל:
– אין לו ילדים משלו (עם שרה).
– ניסיונות לירושה חלופית לא עבדו.
– ישמעאל היה “תוכנית ב'”, אבל נכשל — ישמעאל לא הפך ל*מענטש*. ביולוגיה חשובה (50% DNA מהאם — הגר לא הייתה *צדקת*), לאנשים יש בחירה חופשית, וישמעאל נשלח עם אמו, לא גדל ישירות על ידי אברהם.
– אותו דפוס חוזר מאוחר יותר עם עשו (בנו של יצחק).
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זהו הטיעון הפילוסופי המרכזי:
– ההשפעה האמיתית של אדם על צאצאים מוגבלת לכל היותר ארבעה דורות, ובפועל לעתים קרובות רק אחד או שניים.
– אפילו ההורה/המורה הטוב ביותר לא יכול באמת לעצב נכדי-נכדים. באותה נקודה, הדמות המקורית הופכת להפשטה רחוקה, לא להשפעה חיה.
העיקרון מתרחב מעבר למשפחה: גם מורים מתמודדים עם המגבלה הזו.
– אנחנו קוראים למשה רבינו “רבנו לעשרת אלפים דור” — אבל מה זה באמת אומר? “אני לא זוכה לדבר איתו”. אין דבר כזה להיות מורה אמיתי לאורך אלפי שנים בשום מובן פשוט.
– ביקורת עכשווית חדה: כשאנשים אומרים “הרבי מעולם לא מת — התורה שלו עדיין חיה, אז זה ממשיך לנצח” — זה בלוף. זה עובד בערך דור וחצי. האנשים שאמרו את זה גם מתים, מבלי להבין שהטענה שלהם הייתה “נבואת שקר מזויפת”. הדור הבא יורש *מסורה* של לומר את זה, ו״אז כולנו חיים בשקר”.
– הודאה כנה: “אני לא באמת יודע שיש פתרון אמיתי לבעיה הזו.” כל דור כנראה צריך מורים חיים משלו. אבל חייב להיות *משהו יותר* — איזושהי אסטרטגיה שהמסורת פיתחה.
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פרשנות מחודשת רצינית של ברית בין הבתרים (בראשית ט״ו):
– מסר ה׳ לאברהם: התוכנית שלך לחיות באושר ועושר בכנען עם ילדים ונכדים היא שטות — כי נכדי-נכדיך לא באמת יזכרו מי היה אברהם, או אם כן, זה יהיה ב״איזו דרך מוזרה מזויפת”.
– התוכנית מעולם לא הייתה בת קיימא. אברהם חי 24-25 שנה על בסיסה, אבל היא מעולם לא הייתה אמיתית.
– ה׳ מציע תוכנית אחרת — כזו שלא מובנת לגמרי, אבל ש*לכל הפחות* אומרת: אתה לא יכול להסתמך על הצלת נכדי-נכדיך דרך השפעה אישית ישירה.
– 400 שנות העבדות שנבאו בברית = ארבעה מחזורים של ארבעה דורות (100 שנה ≈ טווח הזיכרון החי של קבוצה אחת; ×4 = הנקודה שבה אף אחד לא זוכר את האנשים שזכרו את האנשים שזכרו את המקור).
– זה ממופה על הפסוק ודור רביעי ישובו הנה — אותו היגיון שהטווח של אדם לא מתרחב מעבר לצעד הרביעי.
– מחיר ה׳ לתוכנית שבאמת עובדת: בדיוק לאותם ארבעה דורות (הטווח שאברהם לא יכול לשלוט בו), צאצאיו יחוו את ההיפך המוחלט של חלומו — עבדות לעם זר עם כוח מוחלט על ילדיו.
– אחרי זה, מחזור יתחיל שפותר איכשהו את בעיית ההעברה הבין-דורית.
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מה שבא עכשיו הוא בניגוד לכל התזה של השיעור (שהורים לא צריכים להשקיע יתר על המידה בילדים כי ההשפעה דועכת עד הדור הרביעי). קריאה נגדית מוצגת כעת:
– הסיבה האמיתית שיהודים לא מתבוללים אינה המנגנון הטרגי של ליאו שטראוס (מעמד מנוכר תמידי), אלא האמונה שעד הדור הרביעי, משיח יבוא.
– ההיגיון: למה לא פשוט להפוך לעם רגיל? כי זה לא יחזיק מעמד — עד הדור הרביעי, משיח מגיע. זה מה שה׳ אמר לאברהם אבינו.
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פרדוקס:
– ההשפעה/המורשת שלך רק באמת מתחילה לפעול (או הופכת הכרחית) בדור הרביעי — בדיוק כשההשפעה ההורית הטבעית מתה.
– הגרסה “השלילית”: הבעיה (התבוללות, אובדן זהות) רק באמת מתחילה בדור הרביעי.
– הגרסה “החיובית” (נאמרת בחוסר ודאות מוודה): אברהם עבד על משהו שתוכנן לשרוד מעבר למהלך הטבעי של השפעה דורית אנושית — משהו שמחזיק מעמד מעבר לאופק נכד-הנכד.
– הודאה כנה: “אין לי פתרון. אני רק עושה את הבעיה חיה כדי שתוכל לספוג אותה.”
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התחברות למדרש שנדון בשיעור קודם (אם לא צורם מכרם):
– אברהם אבינו הוא ה״מקור” שמכר את היהודים לסבל. הייתה לו בחירה: ילדיו הולכים לגיהנום, או שהם סובלים בעולם הזה תחת האומות. הוא בחר באחרון.
– שכבה חדשה נוספת: אברהם בחר בזה בדיוק בגלל בעיית הדור הרביעי. הוא ניסה ליצור משהו שמחזיק מעמד מעבר לדור הרביעי, שבו זה “מתחיל באמת לעבוד”. הסבל בגלות הוא המחיר של הפרויקט הזה.
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בראש השנה אנחנו מפעילים זכור לנו עקידת יצחק — זכור את העקידה למעננו. אבל השיעור בדיוק קבע שסבים לא חשובים אחרי כמה דורות. אז למה מעשה אברהם לפני אלפי שנים צריך לחשוב לנו? זו אותה בעיה בניסוח מחדש.
הרמב״ם מתייחס לבעיה התיאולוגית ש״ניסיון” מרמז שה׳ לא יודע את התוצאה:
– ניסיון לא אומר “מבחן” — זה אומר פרסום (מהשורש “נס” = דגל/סימן). העקידה היא סיפור מפורסם שממנו אנחנו לומדים שני דברים:
1. נביאים בטוחים לחלוטין בנבואתם. אף אדם נורמלי וטוב לא היה הורג את בנו אלא אם כן בטוח לחלוטין שה׳ ציווה על כך. זה מבסס את מציאות הנבואה *לנביא* (לא בהכרח לאף אחד אחר). מכיוון שנבואה היא יסודית לדת, ואברהם ייסד דת, זה קריטי.
2. הרצינות של אהבת ה׳. אברהם היה זקן, רצה נואשות ילד, סוף סוף היה לו אחד, ואז היה מוכן להקריב אותו — לא ברגע של תשוקה אלא אחרי שלושה ימים של התלבטות. זה מראה את עומק אהבת ה׳, נעשה לא לשכר אלא אך ורק מאהבה.
הרמב״ם אומר שאנחנו עוקבים אחרי דעותיו האמיתיות של אברהם וגם מחקים את מעשיו. העקידה היא הדוגמה העליונה. אבל אנחנו לא מבצעים עקידה ממש. כל הנקודה היא שזה לא בוצע. אז מה זה אומר “לחקות” אותה?
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הטענה הפרשנית המרכזית:
– העקידה היא בעצם אותו דבר כמו ברית בין הבתרים (הברית בין הבתרים, שבה נאמר לאברהם שצאצאיו יסבלו 400 שנה בגלות).
– העקידה היא משל לבחירת אברהם בגלות לילדיו.
– אברהם ניסה לפתור בעיה שחורגת מאופק ארבעת הדורות. כדי ליצור משהו ששורד מעבר לדעיכה הטבעית של השפעה הורית (מעבר לדור הרביעי), הוא היה צריך **להקריב
את רווחת ארבעת הדורות הראשונים**.
– זה אומר: לחשוב מעבר לילדיך דורש נכונות לא לדאוג לדורות המיידיים — מסומל בנכונות לשחוט את בנו.
– מילולית: אברהם לא שחט את יצחק, אבל הוא כן גרם ליצחק ללכת לגלות, ליעקב לסבול, ובסופו של דבר — נאמר בחדות — אברהם גרם לששת המיליונים להיהרג על ידי היטלר. זה מה שהמדרש מתכוון.
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– למה אברהם גרם לכל הסבל הזה? כי הוא ניסה ליצור משהו ששורד את סוף התהליך הדורי הטבעי.
– זה מתחבר לתכלית/מטרת הנבואה ולגבול האינסופי של אהבת ה׳, שזה מה שמשיח מייצג.
– הפרויקט היהודי שואף למשהו שבו אתה לא דואג לעצמך או אפילו לילדיך — כי אם אתה עובד רק במסגרת של ילדיך, אתה לא תשרוד את הדור החמישי.
– שתי דרכים למסגר את אותו רעיון:
1. אל תדאג לילדיך כי כדאי לדאוג לעצמך (התזה המוקדמת של השיעור).
2. אל תדאג לילדיך כי אתה דואג למשהו שחורג מכל זה — ולכן מחזיק מעמד עד הדור החמישי ומעבר לו, שבו באה הישועה.
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אברהם לא באמת שחט את בנו. התוכן האמיתי: אברהם גרם לצאצאיו ללכת למצרים (עבדות). המבחן הוא: אם אתם סוג האנשים שיכולים לשרוד את מצרים, אז הפרויקט של אברהם — הברית האברהמית — יכול להתחיל לתפקד.
חיבור לשיעור קודם: הפרויקט האברהמי עובד רק אם אתה מפסיק לחשוב על היום ומחר — אם אתה יכול לדמיין מעבר למיידי.
פשט חדש:
– הציווי המלאכי אל תשלח ידך אל הנער (בראשית כב:יב) אינו רק הפסקת המבחן — זו הגאולה כבר.
– המלאך השני שמדבר מייצג את הבטחת הגאולה: כי הרבה ארבה את זרעך.
– הרגע של להיאמר להפסיק — הרגע של להרים את הראש ומעבר להקרבה — הוא עצמו הרגע הגואל.
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בחצי רצינות: “כדאי להאשים את אבותינו שתקעו אותנו בזה” — כלומר, על התחייבות דורות עתידיים לדרך של סבל וסיבולת.
הצידוק שלהם: הם האמינו שמשיח יבוא אחרי — אבל לא להם אישית.
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מה שנקרא “הסוד” של משיח:
– אנקדוטה: יהודי זקן בא ל״מרדכאים” ושאל מתי משיח יבוא. התשובה: “לא בימי, או בימי ילדי, או בימי נכדי.”
– העיקרון: כל מי שבאמת חושב שמשיח יבוא בחייו לא הבין מה זה משיח.
– משיח הוא, בהגדרה, הדבר שבא אחרי שנכדך או נכד-נכדך מת — הוא בעצם טרנס-דורי, מעבר לאופק של כל פרט.
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תלמיד מעלה קושי: איך האבות יכלו לקבל נבואה שלכאורה ציוותה עליהם להקריב או לסכן את ילדיהם?
– זו בדיוק השאלה של עקידת יצחק.
– תשובה (חלקית): הנבואה עצמה מעניקה את הזכות. אם ה׳ מצווה דרך נבואה, הסמכות הנבואית ההיא עוקפת חשיבה מוסרית רגילה — “מי נתן לך את הזכות? הנבואה נתנה לך את הזכות.”
– ברמה השנייה של הבנת הנבואה, אין הסבר מלא לאיך זה עובד מכנית. הנבואה היא כל כך ברורה באופן מוחלט למי שמקבל אותה שלנביא אין ברירה — היא מציגה את עצמה כאמת מוחלטת. אבל ה*מנגנון* שבו הוודאות הזו פועלת נשאר לא מוסבר.
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סיפור העקידה הוא בסופו של דבר הסיפור של יהודים שמסרבים להתבולל, ובכך גורמים לנכדי-נכדיהם לסבול או להיוושע. הדרך היחידה לעבוד עם משהו שחורג ממגבלות תהליך סופי היא לעבוד מעבר לו — לחרוג ממנו לחלוטין. זו המשמעות האמיתית של מסירות נפש: לא רק לסכן חיים אחד, אלא לחרוג ממסגרת של חיים אחד, משפחה אחת, אפילו דור אחד. המטרה של עם ישראל אינה ניתנת לצמצום להיות “המשפחה” או “הילדים של” כל דור מסוים.
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השיעור נסגר בכנות:
– “אין לי פתרון. אני רק אומר לכם את הבעיה.”
– המנגנון שבו הפרויקט של אברהם באמת עובד מעבר לדור הרביעי לא ניתן להסבר.
– תשובת הרמב״ם היא שהנבואה היא כל כך ברורה באופן מוחלט לנביא שאין לו ברירה — הוא יודע שזה אמת. אבל זה לא מהווה הסבר של *איך* זה עובד.
– מעמד השאלה נשאר: האבות קיבלו נבואה שדרשה מהם, למעשה, להקריב את ילדיהם — לבחור במטרה טרנסצנדנטית לטווח ארוך על פני רווחה דורית מיידית. המנגנון שבו זה באמת מייצר ישועה נשאר לא מוסבר.
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1. למה להיות יהודי? → כי האלטרנטיבה (להיות “יהודי גויי”) אינה קוהרנטית (שטראוס).
2. אבל התבוללות רב-דורית? → אחרי מספיק דורות, הבעיה נעלמת. האם זה לא שווה את העלות לטווח קצר?
3. אזהרה מתודולוגית: היפוך הטיפשות אינו חכמה — הכרה בהטיה כלפי יהדות לא הופכת את ההתבוללות לנכונה.
4. מחיר להיות שנוא: שנאה אוניברסלית היא סימן אבחוני, לא אות כבוד. אנשים טובים לא צריכים לצפות להיות שנואים. הנרטיב “אנחנו שנואים כי אנחנו צודקים” מאותגר.
5. חובות מוסריות פוחתות עם מרחק דורי: אתה לא חולק חיים אמיתיים עם נכדי-נכדים. חובות עוקבות אחר קרבה.
6. תוכנית אברהם: להשתמש במשפחה/ביולוגיה ככלי לשינוי ציוויליזציוני דרך הרגלה בין-דורית.
7. משבר התוכנית: לאברהם אין ילדים; תחליפים נכשלים; השפעה מוגבלת ל-~4 דורות.
8. ברית בין הבתרים: ה׳ אומר לאברהם שהתוכנית מעולם לא הייתה בת קיימא כפי שנתפסה. תוכנית חדשה דורשת 400 שנות סבל — בדיוק הטווח שאברהם לא יכול לשלוט בו.
9. העקידה כפרדיגמה: נכונות אברהם להקריב את יצחק = נכונותו לשלוח את צאצאיו לגלות. העקידה והברית הם אותו אירוע.
10. משיח כאופק הטרנס-דורי: משיח בהגדרה בא *אחרי* שנכדי-נכדיך מתים. הפרויקט היהודי דורש דאגה למשהו מעבר לחיי כל פרט.
11. לא נפתר: המנגנון שבו זה באמת עובד נשאר לא מוסבר. הבעיה נעשית חיה, לא נפתרת.
מרצה: אוקיי. טוב? מצוין. אז ככה. קודם כל אני צריך לומר המשך חשוב לשיעור של שבוע שעבר, שבאמת הוקלט ביידיש, אבל כולכם יודעים יידיש ממילא. וזה היה ככה, ואני מסביר לכם גם את התשובה לשאלה שלכם. זוכרים שהייתה לכם שאלה? הייתה לכם שאלה ש—זוכרים שהייתה לנו שאלה על פיטר—למה אנחנו צריכים להיות יהודים ומה הייתה התשובה שדנו בה אז. ושזו שהתשובה הבסיסית היא שאין ברירה אחרת, כי אתה יכול להיות רק יהודי יהודי או יהודי גויי, ועדיף להיות יהודי יהודי. זה מאוד עצוב להיות יהודי גויי, נכון? זוכרים? סיכום נכון?
אז הייתה שאלה ככה, אז יכולנו אפילו להסביר את התשובה קצת יותר טוב.
מרצה: והסברנו, זה מה שליאו שטראוס אמר במאמר שלו שנקרא “למה אנחנו עדיין יהודים”. יש הרצאה שליאו שטראוס נתן והיא נקראת “למה אנחנו עדיין יהודים”. והוא אמר שיש כמה פתרונות לבעיה היהודית. אחד מהם הוא רצח עם, נכון? רצח עם תרבותי, רצח עם עצמי, נכון? שנקרא התבוללות, נכון? רצח עם תרבותי עצמי. בואו, בואו פשוט נפסיק לעשות את זה. תהיו אנשים נורמליים. אני אגיד את זה באנגלית: תהיו אנשים נורמליים.
והתשובה לזה, הציונים שקלו את התשובה הזאת. אתם יודעים, כל היהודים הפרומים מאוד מוזרים, כי הרצל, הוא חשב להיות—מה דעתכם שנמיר את כל היהודים לנצרות בשלב מסוים? ולכן זה אומר שהוא באמת היה שליח סודי? לא, הוא עבר על האפשרויות ההגיוניות וראה מה עובד. מה רע בזה? אתה המוזר שמעולם לא שקל את האפשרות הזאת. אתה צריך לשקול אותה, נכון?
אז הוא הבין שזו לא אפשרות ריאלית. למה לא? כי אתה לא יכול להיות גוי. אתה יכול להיות גוי יהודי או יהודי יהודי, איך שאנחנו אומרים את זה. וזה מאוד—אתה אמרת כך. לכן הוא הבין שאתה צריך להישאר יהודי.
אבל הנקודה שלי היא, שהאפשרות הזאת לא באמת סבירה.
מרצה: אבל עכשיו יש שאלה על זה. זה *כן* סביר, נכון? כי אם אתה הופך לגוי, ואז לדור אחד אתה הולך להיות גוי שגוי, גוי יהודי, סליחה, ואתה הולך להיות יצור מאוד מוזר, יהודי שונא עצמו. ואז, אחרי דור אחד, שני דורות, שלושה,ארבעה, חמישה, בשלב מסוים הילדים שלך לא יזכרו שהיה להם סבא יהודי. וזהו. ובכן, פתרת את הבעיה.
אז כל מי שאכפת לו מהילדים יותר מאשר מעצמו צריך לעשות את זה. נכון? אני שואל? הגיוני.
תלמיד: דורות.
מרצה: כן, בוא נגיד עשרה. אתה חושב שזה טיעון טוב? אני רוצה לשאול אותך אם אתה חושב שזה טיעון טוב. מה אתה חושב? אתה חושב שזה טיעון טוב?
תלמיד: מה המטרה של הטיעון?
מרצה: להיות יהודי אומר שאתה זה שהרג את ישו, ואז זה לא מצב טוב להיות בו. אז לכן אתה הולך להיות—אתה הולך להיפגע ולהיות מוכה.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: נפגע ומוכה. ורק כדי להיות ברור, נפגע ומוכה—זו לא רק בעיה חומרית, זו גם בעיה רוחנית, נכון? אנשים לא מצליחים טוב כשהם… זה לא נורמלי, לא מצב טוב להיות בו.
אז לכן הפתרון—אתה יכול, אתה יודע, להתגייר לנצרות, אולי זו דרך אחת להתבולל, או אולי אתה לא צריך לעשות את זה, כי הגויים באירופה לא נוצרים יותר, אז אתה צריך פשוט להתגייר לנצרות תרבותית, שנקראת להיות אוטד. יש לך כמה פעמים, כמו מה שאמרנו בשיעור, שאתה פשוט—אתה בסדר עם השאלות, זה בסדר.
תלמיד: כן, אוקיי.
מרצה: הטיעון, הבעיה הייתה שאנחנו רוב הזמן אנחנו במצוקה הזאת. בוא נדבר על המצוקה הזאת. נדבר על הסיפור הזה.
מרצה: אני שואל אותך שאלה על הטיעון הזה. תשכח מזה. אנחנו יכולים להכליל את השאלה הזאת, נכון? אם אני במצב שבו אני יכול לעשות את החיים שלי לא הרבה יותר טובים, מעט יותר טובים, אבל החיים של נכדי הרחוקים יהיו לגמרי פתורים בעיה מסוימת—אז האם אני צריך לעשות את זה? האם הדבר הנכון לעשות את זה? אתה חושב כמובן. למה?
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: הסבר.
בוא נהפוך את זה. אין לנו שום קשר רגשי לזה. בוא נגיד הבחור הנוצרי הזה תמיד מוכה על ידי היהודים או על ידי המוסלמים או מה שזה לא יהיה. היית אומר לו, אוקיי, פשוט תהיה אוסט-נוצרי, פשוט תהיה עם הארץ. וככה, אולי אתה עדיין הולך להיות כמו אלה, קצת נפגע פה ושם. אבל שלושה דורות, אתה בחור חסר אנוכיות, נכון? אתה מעוניין ש… לעזאזל, אתה אפילו אנוכי, נכון? אתה מעוניין שלילדים שלך יהיו חיים בעולם הזה, לנכדים שלך. כן, כמובן, כולם אומרים לשני. כלומר, אני, התרי״ג, עם הזכר, עם כל הנוצרים. היית אומר את זה.
לבחור הנוצרי, בטח, נכון? פשוט לעשות את זה, מחובר ליהדות שלי, מה שזה לא יהיה, אז אז יש לי את המחשבות המוזרות והגדולות האלה. אני לא חושב.
תלמיד: אוקיי, אז אז, אני לא יודע. אני לא חושב.
מרצה: ראשית, כדי להיות ברור, זה לא דבר ללא עלות. אם זה ללא עלות, אז למה לא? לא ללא עלות, נכון? יש עלות לך, נכון? אתה כל כך בטוח שאתה צריך לשלם כל עלות, אז נכד הרחוק שלך—רגע, לוקח לפחותארבעה דורות. אז נכד הרחוק שלך צריך שיהיו לו חיים טובים יותר, ואתה משלם כל עלות, אתה תהרוס את החיים שלך באיזו מידה שאתה רוצה בגלל זה. האם זה נכון? מה הטיעון שלך? אתה מוותר על החיים שלך, אז אתה נהדר. אתה הורס את החיים שלך. יהיו לך חיים ממש עצובים ומבולגנים, גם לנכד הרחוק שלך צריכים להיות חיים מעט יותר טובים. זה החילוף שאתה בדיוק אמרת שאתה צריך לעשות.
תלמיד: אנחנו כאן בבית ספר נחמד והם פשוט היו רגועים ואנחנו חושבים על דברים, אבל אתה רק חושב על זה שאמרת לי שאנחנו אומרים שזה בא דרך הבלוקים ורוצח את כולכם ומה שזה לא יהיה. אני חושב שיש—כן, יש את המחשבה הזאת כמו, זה די בסדר לוותר על החיים הגשמקים האלה, או איזה סוג של קורבן זה בהשוואה לעינויים אמיתיים ומוות וכל זה? אתה מוותר על חיים טובים בשביל זה.
מרצה: איזה חיים טובים?
תלמיד: ובכן, זה חיים טובים עכשיו. אתה חי חיים טובים. אתה חי…
מרצה: כן, עכשיו. אבל אז אנחנו לא מדברים על התבוללות. שוב, תזכור שכל פעם שאנחנו אומרים חיים טובים, אנחנו כוללים מוסרית טוב, כי אין באמת דבר כזה לדון בטוב חומרי בלי טוב מוסרי או טוב רוחני. יש איזה טוב מוסרי או טוב אינטלקטואלי או טוב רוחני שאנחנו מדברים עליו גם. זה צריך להיות התבוננות. יש חילופין. זה מעט פחות. הם מעולם לא הרגו מישהו שהיה טוב מוסרית בעולם של אריסטו, נכון? הם הרגו אנשים שהיו נסתרים, ששמרו את תורת ישו. בדרך שלהם, זו הייתה הדרך שלהם להיות טובים. אתה רוצה שהם יוותרו. הם צריכים להיות רעים. במילים אחרות, לנכדים הרחוקים שלהם צריך להיות סיכוי להיות שונים, שיהיו להם בעיות שונות, בעצם, נכון?
אתה מתנהג כאילו אתה מאוד בטוח. אני לא יודע. אתה מאוד בטוח בצד אחד כי אתה חושב שכי אתה הסכמת עם הצד השני, כי אם יש לך נגיעות, לכן הצד השני מאוד ברור. זה לא מאוד ברור. לא מאוד ברור.
תלמיד: לא, אני רק מבהיר את זה ככה.
מרצה: לא, אתה לא. אתה בעצם מוסיף ערפל בכך שאתה עושה את זה.
תלמיד: אוקיי, איך?
מרצה: זו שאלה אחרת לגמרי. צד אחר לגמרי. אבל אתה צריך לדעת, ראית את זה. שמואלי, אם מישהו—יש טיעון שהולך ככה, טיעון מאוד חשוב. זה כבר כתוב באחד הכתבים שלי שכתבתי ושלחתי בתחילת השנה, אני חושב, או בשנה שעברה, כשניסיתי לעשות את המאמר השבועי שלי.
זה אמר ככה: הרבה אנשים חושבים שכשהם תומכים בצד שלהם, כביכול, בדת או בלאומיות או משהו כזה, שבו יש צד קבוצתי מאוד ברור—אז הם אומרים, ובכן, אני רק מסכים לזה כי זה הצד שלי, ואני אקבל כל טיעון רע בשבילו, נכון? אני לא מודאג מדברים כאלה, למשל. ולכן הם אומרים שכנראה רוב הדברים שאני מאמין או שאני מסכים איתם כשהם טוענים לצד הזה הם רק בגלל ההטיה המאוד חזקה הזאת שיש לי כלפיו.
והם מדברים על זה הרבה, על הבעיה הזאת, והם חושבים שלדבר על הבעיה הזאת הרבה ולומר “ובכן, מה אם היית פלסטיני, מה היית חושב?”—שזה נותן להם בהירות מחשבה, שזה נותן להם ראייה ברורה לא מוטה משום מקום, נכון, מאובייקטיביות על המציאות. ואני חושב ברצינות רבה, ברצינות רבה, שזה לא נכון.
במילים אחרות, כי אתה זוכר, אליעזר יודקובסקי אמר, “הפוך מטומטמות אינו חכמה”, נכון? הוא אמר, אם יש שבשבת—אתה יודע מה זה שבשבת? בוא נקבל מאליעזר יודקובסקי. אוקיי, מה זה? שבשבת, כמו התרנגול הזה, התרנגול הזה על גג הבית שאומר לך לאיזה כיוון הרוח נושבת, נכון?
אבל אם יש לך אחד שבור, הוא עדיין שימושי. כי שבור פשוט אומר שמה שהוא אומר מערב, זה באמת מזרח. וכשהוא אומר מזרח, זה באמת מערב. אז שבשבת הפוך הוא באמת שימושי כמו אחד נכון. כמו הבחור ההוא שאמר, “איך אתה יודע שזה דעת תורה? זה שם, זה ההפך מזה.” “מה איתם?” אז אתה שואל את בעל הבית, והוא אומר לך את זה, ואתה עושה את ההפך, נכון? זה—או כמו ליטווק. בחור פעם אמר, “אם אני לא יודע מה לעשות, כן, בוא נעשה בדיוק את זה.”
זה היה נכון אם העולם—אם הפוך מטומטמות היה חכמה. הבעיה היא שזה לא עובד ככה. למה? זוכר מה אריסטו אמר? יש רק אמת אחת, ויש הרבה, הרבה דרכים לטעות. זוכר מה טולסטוי אמר, נכון? יש דרך אחת להיות מאושר והרבה, הרבה דרכים להיות עצוב. זוכר? זוכר?
מרצה: לאילו התייחסויות אני הולך לגרום לכם לדעת? איך זה הולך לעבוד? כל המשפחות המאושרות מאושרות באותה דרך. כל המשפחות האומללות אומללות בדרכים שונות. זו ההתחלה של אנה קרנינה. אחד משורות הפתיחה המפורסמות ביותר בספרות. אתה צריך לדעת על זה.
בכל מקרה, אבל זה הכל מבוסס על המחשבה הבסיסית הזאת מאריסטו. שיש הרבה דרכים להיות רע ולא הרבה דרכים להיות טוב. זה היה אחד הטיעונים שלו למה הטוב צריך להיות הדרך האמצעית. זוכר?
ואריסטו אמר שזו מחשבה פיתגוראית, כי הפיתגוראים אמרו שהאחד הוא בצד של הטוב, והרבים והמגוונים והלא שווים וכן הלאה, והזוגי, כי אי-זוגי הוא אחד וזוגי הוא שניים, אז מספרים זוגיים הם הרעים לפי פיתגורס. אז אלה הם הצד של הרע.
תלמיד: זוגות.
מרצה: כן, זוגות. דיברנו על זה. אני יודע. לא איתך? מישהו? כן, זוגות, בדיוק. זוגות הם רעים, כי זוגות אומר שיש שניים, יש דואליות. דואליות היא רעה.
מרצה: אז כי לפחות יש לפחות שתי דרכים להיות רע אין לעולם משהו בגלל זה רק כדי לחזור בגלל זה כשמישהו אומר אומר לך משהו טיפשי לעשות את ההפך מזה הוא מאוד כמו יותר סביר שיהיה עוד דבר טיפשי מאשר להיות הדבר הנכון המתמטיקה עובדת.
לכן כשאתה אומר אני מוטה בכך שאני מאמין בצד שלי של הסיפור לכן אני צריך להיות לא מוטה ולתת הרבה משקל לפחות לא לומר להאמין אף אחד לא אומר אני פשוט הולך להאמין אבל אני הולך לתת הרבה דרך לצד השני של הסיפור, שיש לזה יותר סיכויים להיות טיפשות מאשר יש לזה להיות אמת. מאוד חשוב, זה נכון. תחשוב על זה ותגיד, אני לא הולך להתווכח איתך על זה כי אתה לא מבין. אז אני אומר לך את זה.
תלמיד: אני ספקטרום, זה משולש. אני מסכים, אבל אני לא חושב שבמקרה הזה זה ככה.
מרצה: לא, אני רק אומר לך שעשית את הטיעון הזה. במקום לעשות טיעון ממשי למה זה יותר טוב, אמרת, תן לי לתת לך את הסיפור ההפוך או סיפור אחר וכשאתה עושה כל פעם שמישהו עושה את זה אני צריך להניח שהם עושים את זה יותר מבולבל במקום יותר או פשוט מבולבל כמו במקום להבהיר משהו כי אני לא רואה איך אתה מבהיר משהו.
אני יכול לראות יש שאלה כאן מה לעשות והוא אמר ובכן היית בבירור לא לא הייתי בבירור תהיה אותה שאלה או יש אותה שאלה של לא עצרת שום דבר בהיפוך הסיפור כלום אני מבין את זה ואתה לא אמרת מה אתה לא פתרת יש שאלה אמיתית ואתה העמדת פנים שזו לא שאלה אמיתית ואמרת שזו לא שאלה אמיתית כי אם היית בצד השני היית אומר את ההפך וזה לא נכון יש שאלה אמיתית ואותה שאלה אמיתית לא עשית את השאלה האמיתית פחות.
לפעמים מישהו מסתכל על השאלה בצורה הלא נכונה ואתה נותן לו דוגמה הפוכה או משהו ואתה רואה שכולם מסכימים עם זה אבל זה לא נכון שכולם מסכימים עם זה אתה פשוט עשית את ההנחה הזאת כי עשית את ההנחה המאוד חזקה שהסיבה שמישהו יסכים עם הצד השני היא כי הם בצד הזה אבל זה לא נכון יש שאלה אמיתית אז להפוך איזה צד אתה לא פותר בעיקר שום דבר ולא פותר שום דבר כאן גם.
מרצה: אז בוא נחזור לאן שאנחנו זה לא פותר שום דבר כאן גם זה לא ברור בכלל שמישהו צריך לעשות את החיים שלו גרועים יותר כי הנכד הרחוק שלו שצריך להיות טוב יותר בכל דרך זה מאוד לא ברור.
תלמיד: למה זה גרוע יותר בשבילו?
מרצה: זה גרוע יותר זו הייתה השאלה אה הנחנו שוב הנחנו שזה גרוע יותר אם אתה חושב שזה לא שווה זו שאלה אחרת זה יהיה טוב יותר גם בשבילך. אנחנו אומרים שזה הולך להיות גרוע יותר בשבילך, אבל לנכד הרחוק שלך יהיה טוב יותר. אלה היו העובדות של השאלה שהצבנו. העובדה הזאת לא הייתה השאלה. העובדה הזאת הייתה פשוט עובדת הרקע שאנחנו מניחים כדי שהשאלה הזאת בכלל תתחיל.
אמרנו, יהיו לך חיים רעים כי התבוללות לא באמת עובדת בדור אחד. שום התבוללות לא עושה. זה פשוט איך הטבע האנושי. אני לא חושב שזה משהו שיהודים מאמינים בו במיוחד. כולם מאמינים בזה. אתה יודע אנשים שהולכים למדינה אחרת רבים לעתים קרובות מסכימים שהם עושים הם עושים את החיים גרועים יותר לעצמם הם עושים אני עושה את זה בשביל הילדים שלי נכון.
אוקיי אז לעשות את זה בשביל הילדים שלך זה דבר אחד אבל אם אתה עושה את זה בשביל הנכדים הרחוקים שלך זה דבר אחר ואפילו לעשות את זה בשביל הילדים שלך זה לא באמת פשוט כמו כמו שזה נראה מסיבות רבות שאנחנו יכולים לדבר עליהן אם אתה חושב אם אתה רוצה ואם אני לא חושב שזה אני לא חושב שזו שאלה פשוטה אם אתה צריך.
מרצה: לי השאלה הראשונה היא במצב כזה האם האדם צריך להפוך לאדם רע כדי שהנכדים שלו יהיו טובים אם הוא בעצם הופך לאדם רע אז הוא כנראה לא צריך בכלל אני מסכים הם פשוט מנסים אני מנסה אני מנסה לחשוב על השאלה.
תלמיד: כן למה זה מה זה שווה אתה מתחיל עם ליאו שטראוס שוב בוא נכנס.
מרצה: הגעתי לשאלה אחרת כן נכון התחלת עם ליאו שטראוס שאומר שנייטרלי מה שכולכם אמרתם, שאנחנו יכולים להתבולל, אבל אנחנו לא נעבוד בדור אחד, ולכן אנחנו לא צריכים. ובעצם, אני לא זוכר אם הוא אמר, אבל בוא ניקח את הסיפור הזה. אתה אומר בעצם, ואתה לא צריך.
עכשיו, השאלה שלי אליך היא, מה הנושא שהוא אמר, בוא נתבולל? במילים אחרות, למה זה שיש דקה?
המרצה: מה זו הבעיה היהודית?
התלמיד: שכולם שונאים אותנו.
המרצה: אני חושב שזו בעצם הבעיה. ואין תועלת. כאילו, אני הבחור שכולם שונאים. זה לא מצב טוב. זה מה שאמרתי. ואנחנו מקבלים מכות, נכון? אנחנו נפגעים, אנחנו נהרגים. זה רע. זה רע. אם כולם פשוט שונאים אותנו, אז שום דבר לא קורה.
התלמיד: לא, לא, לא, לא. זה אומר שאנחנו נפגעים.
המרצה: לא, לא, זה רע. זה רע גם אם שום דבר לא קורה. זה רע. רק כדי להבהיר, להוסיף חלקים של פגיעה, הם לא הולכים לפתור את הבעיה שלך. אז זה לא קורבן. במילים אחרות, אוקיי, אז כולם שונאים אותי, בסדר.
התלמיד: לא, זה לא. אתה חושב שזה בסדר. זה לא בסדר.
המרצה: זה לא בסדר. זה לא בסדר. למה? זה לא בסדר. אני עושה את ההנחה הזאת. אני לא יכול לתת את זה. זה דף רביעי. זה לא בסדר. זה לא בסדר.
המרצה: דרך אגב, אם הם שונאים אותך, זה כנראה בגלל שיש משהו לא בסדר איתך. בואו נהיה ריאליים. בדרך כלל אנשים שונאים משהו שפוגע בהם או איכשהו משהו לא בסדר איתך. למה שתהיה הבחור שכולם שונאים? משהו לא בסדר. זה סימן שמשהו השתבש, נכון? כולם מסכימים עם זה.
התלמיד: אני חושב שרוב העולם ישנא את הטיפוס הפילוסופי, אבל אין שום דבר לא בסדר איתם.
המרצה: דרך אגב, בהחלט יש משהו לא בסדר איתם. הפילוסוף הראשון שנקרא אפלטון או סוקרטס כתב ספר שמדבר על הבעיה הזאת. אולי יותר מספר אחד שמדבר על הבעיה הזאת. הוא חשב שזו בעיה. אוקיי?
אם כולם שונאים אותך, אתה כנראה לא טוב כמו שאתה חושב שאתה. כן, אני חושב שאנחנו מאוד רגילים לזה. אנחנו רגילים מדי לרעיון הזה שכולם שונאים אותנו ואנחנו הכי טובים. אני לא חושב שזו אמונה יציבה הגיונית. זה יכול להיות נכון. אני לא אומר שזה בלתי אפשרי שזה צריך להיות המצב, אבל זה צריך לגרום לך לעצור ולחשוב.
התלמיד: האם ההיפך גם נכון? אם כולם אוהבים אותך, אז אתה טוב?
המרצה: לא, לא הוכחה, אבל זה לא סיבה לדאגה. כלומר, אולי אם זה כן, אם יש לך מחשבה מעוותת מאוד שכולם טועים, אז אם כולם אוהבים אותך, אז שוב, אבל זו שוב בעיית הטיפשות ההפוכה, נכון?
התלמיד: זה כן, אבל זה גם קצת מראה שזה לא סרט המדידה.
המרצה: לא, זה לא. אף אחד לא אמר שזה כן, אבל זה סימן.
התלמיד: זה?
המרצה: כן, די בטוח שזה כן. אני חושב שאם אתה חושב שזה לא סימן, יש משהו לא בסדר איתך.
התלמיד: לא. עכשיו אתה אומר…
המרצה: לא, אני עושה עליך לחץ פסיכולוגי. עכשיו אתה אומר, כאילו, לעזאזל, כמה זה נמוך.
התלמיד: לא, לא, לא. אני מדבר על…
המרצה: כן, זו לא עובדה. אני מתחיל משם. ב… אוקיי, בואו נחזור למקום שהיינו. אני צריך לומר דף, נכון? אז, אמרתי שיש הנחה שאומרת ש…
המרצה: האם אנשים טובים שנואים על ידי אנשים רעים? או לא בדרך כלל? לא, למה שאנשים טובים יהיו שנואים? זה רעיון כל כך מוזר.
התלמיד: אתה אנשים טובים זה למה?
המרצה: לא, אנשים טובים זה אומר אנשים שעושים דברים טובים יותר, נכון?
התלמיד: כן.
המרצה: אוקיי, אז אם אתה עושה דברים טובים יותר למה שמישהו יהיה נגד זה?
התלמיד: אתה עושה את זה גרוע יותר לאנשים הרעים.
המרצה: אז אתה לא באמת עושה דברים טובים יותר. אז אתה לא באמת עושה דברים טובים יותר, נכון? אתה עושה אנשים רעים גרועים יותר. האם אתה עושה את האנשים הרעים גרועים יותר או טובים יותר? דברים טובים יותר עבורם או גרועים יותר עבורם? אלו שתי שאלות שונות. טוב מאוד. אפילו עונש אמור להיות טוב לאנשים הרעים, לא לאנשים הרעים.
התלמיד: אני יכול לדמיין את האדם הרע שונא.
המרצה: כן, זה עוד אחד מהתירוצים שאתה אומר. אני יכול להיות קנאי. הוא מקנא באדם טוב. הוא עושה הכל טוב סביבו. אני לא חושב שזה נכון. אני חושב שאם אדם טוב גורם לך לקנא, משהו לא בסדר עם האדם הטוב.
התלמיד: האם היית אומר שאדם רע הוא מישהו ששונא מה שאולי טוב עבורו?
המרצה: זה מוזר, אבל. כאילו, כי אתה צריך לחשוב על ה… אתה זוכר את זכריה… עכשיו אני פשוט חוזר על סוג הטיעונים של זכריה. אבל אם אתה זוכר, כמו, חולים כמעט אף פעם לא שונאים רופאים, גם כשהרופאים עושים דברים שהם שונאים. נכון?
כי רופאים הם אנשים שמנסים לעשות אותך יותר בריא, שזה סוג של דבר טוב. והרופא עשוי להגיד לך שאתה צריך לקחת… גם אם הרופא מעצבן אותך מאוד, אתה צריך ללכת על דיאטה ואתה צריך להפסיק לעשן ולהפסיק לעשות את כל השטויות שאתה עושה והבחור אומר, תודה רבה ואז הוא לא מקשיב. אבל מעט מאוד אנשים מסתובבים ושונאים רופאים חוץ משר הבריאות שלנו או משהו כזה. אבל זה מאוד מוזר… רוב האנשים, גם הוא לא אוהב את זה. הוא פשוט אומר, אוקיי, מה שתרצה. נכון?
אז זה לא ברור… אנחנו מאוד רגילים לרעיונות מוזרים מאוד. אנחנו צריכים לצאת מהרגלי החשיבה המוזרים האלה. אנחנו מאוד רגילים לחשוב שאם אתה צודק, אתה צריך לצפות שכולם ישנאו אותך. למה? למה זה? אולי אתה טיפש. מה קורה פה?
התלמיד: לא, אני לא חושב שאתה בהכרח שנוא על ידי כולם. אני חושב שאתה צריך להיות אהוב על ידי רוב האנשים.
המרצה: [ממשיך לחלק הבא]
המרצה: בדיוק. גם אני לא מבין את זה. ובכן, לא רק על ידי אדם רע. אני פשוט אתן לך את הדוגמה של רופא. רופאים עוסקים בלעשות אנשים רעים טובים יותר, בדרכים כואבות לעתים קרובות, על ידי היותם נגדך, ואף אחד לא שונא אותם. נכון.
התלמיד: מה שאני חושב שהוא שונה ברפואה זה שאתה סומך על הרופא.
המרצה: אז למה שלא תוכל לגרום לאנשים לסמוך עליך? אתה לא כל כך חכם אחרי הכל, נכון?
התלמיד: אני לא מאמין שהאמת קרובה יותר להישג ידם מאשר הם…
המרצה: אתה לא יכול ללמד?
התלמיד: לא, הייתי אומר שזה יותר בהישג ידם מאשר… כולם מסכימים מה זה בריאות?
המרצה: אני חושב שאנשים סומכים על רופאים כי הם לא מאמינים שהם יודעים את התשובה.
התלמיד: הנושא הוא שאדם רע עשוי לחשוב שהוא יודע את התשובה.
המרצה: אני יכול לראות מישהו שונא או מזלזל ברופא מסוים שהוא מאמין שהוא חסר אחריות כמו שיש להם הבדל דעות איתו. אני חושב שהוא מאמין שהוא איש מקצוע רפואי מוסמך.
התלמיד: אוקיי, אז אתה אומר שזה יותר קשה ללמד.
המרצה: זה לא צריך להיות בלתי אפשרי.
התלמיד: לא, לא, לא, אתה צריך…
המרצה: שאתה מורה רע.
התלמיד: אוקיי.
המרצה: זה מה שהוראה היא, נכון?
התלמיד: כן, אבל עד אז אתה שנוא. עד שאתה כותב את השש.
המרצה: זה צריך להיות צפוי. אולי אתה צריך להיות שנוא אם אתה עושה עבודה גרועה בהוראה.
התלמיד: בתקווה היו כמה אנשים ששנאו את סוקרטס לפני שהם פגשו אותו.
המרצה: אולי כי הוא היה מורה רע.
התלמיד: או אולי כי הם עשו התאמת דפוס שלו למורים רעים.
המרצה: זה הטיעון שאפלטון בעצם עושה ב*המדינה*. הוא אמר שאנשים שונאים פילוסופים כי רוב הפילוסופים שהם פוגשים הם בעצם אנשים רעים.
התלמיד: זו דרך אחת ש, כן, דרך אחת שאתה יכול לשנוא מישהו על ידי אסוציאציה.
המרצה: אוקיי, אז עכשיו זה לא לשנוא אותי. אני אומר למישהו אחר שטעית בי.
התלמיד: אוקיי, עדיין דרך.
המרצה: והם צודקים לשנוא אותי במובן הזה, נכון? הם פשוט טעו באובייקט, כמו טעו…
התלמיד: אוקיי, אבל אז…
המרצה: אוקיי, כל מה שאני מגיע אליו הוא שאנחנו נוחים מדי עם הרעיון שבגלל שאנחנו צודקים, אנחנו שנואים. אתה לא צריך להיות כל כך נוח עם זה. יש משהו מאוד מוזר עם זה, ואני לא חושב שזה בדרך כלל המקרה. אני חושב שברוב המקרים אנשים די שמחים שאנשים יתקנו אותם וכן הלאה אם יש כמה אזורים מוזרים שבהם זה לא המקרה אתה צריך להבין למה וגם אתה צריך להבין איך להיות מורה טוב יותר כי אין טעם להיות צודק.
אולי האמת—אולי הסיבה שאנשים לפעמים שונאים אנשים שצודקים היא כי לאנשים האלה יש אחריות ללמד אותם והם עושים את ההיפך מללמד אותם. הם גורמים להם לשנוא אותם. והתפקיד שלהם צריך להיות לאהוב אותם. ואתה אומר, ובכן, בינתיים, הם הולכים לשנוא אותם. כמובן, בינתיים, אל תלמד אותם. מי ביקש ממך לנסות ללמד משהו בלתי אפשרי? הטעם בזה. למי עזרת עכשיו? איך עשית משהו טוב יותר?
אולי אתה צריך להישמר בסוד. אולי אתה פשוט צריך לסגור את הפה ולחכות שהאנשים יהיו מוכנים. או אולי אתה צריך להבין איזו דרך מוזרה וחתרנית ללמד שאנשים לא מבינים שאתה נגדם עד שזה מאוחר מדי. אני לא יודע. אלו שאלות אמיתיות.
המרצה: למה היותך שנוא זה כזה סיפור בוגימן? כלומר, במובן מסוים, אנחנו צריכים לעשות את זה גם בדרך האחרת. כלומר, אם אנחנו מגלים שצדיקים שנואים, יש סיכוי טוב שאנחנו פשוט צריכים לשים אותם בשו.
התלמיד: כן, זה הטיעון שלי.
המרצה: כנראה, תראה, אנחנו חיים בעולם שבו אנחנו לא יודעים הרבה. אנחנו לא יודעים הרבה על מה זה טוב, על מה לחיות, מה זה אמת, דרך מה זה יפה, איך לחיות, נכון? אנחנו חיים מסימנים. אתה לא יכול להתעלם מסימן מאוד משמעותי, שהוא, כולם נגדך, אתה צריך לפחות לקחת את זה כטיעון רציני.
וחוץ מזה שזה טיעון רציני שאתה צריך לחשוב שאולי אתה עושה משהו לא בסדר, זה גם מכשול רציני להתקדמות בכל דבר, לחיים טובים, רק כדי להבהיר. לא רק בגלל שהם הולכים… כלומר, גם בגלל זה.
המרצה: כמו חלק גדול מאנושי—בני אדם, הדרך שבני אדם עובדים היא כמו שיתוף פעולה עם בני אדם אחרים. ואם הם לא הולכים לתת לך להיכנס לבתי הספר שלהם ולא הולכים לעשות איתך עסקים, אני לא הולך לשתף איתך פעולה, אנחנו לא הולכים להתחתן איתך או שאתה לא הולך להתחתן איתם, אז יהיה לך יותר קשה לעשות את סוג השגשוג האנושי שבני אדם עושים. בני אדם צריכים בני אדם אחרים כדי לחיות, נכון?
אתה יכול לומר, ובכן, אני הולך לחיות לבד. אוקיי, אז זה אומר שאתה מנתק את עצמך מ-90% מהטוב של האנושות, נכון?
המרצה: כמו הדרך המאוד קונקרטית לומר את זה היא: באירופה באוניברסיטאות שלנו אנחנו מגלים את התרופה לסרטן. לצערנו הם לא מקבלים אותך לאוניברסיטה אם אתה לא מתגייר לנצרות. לכן אתה מאוד נחמד—טוב אתה—בכך שאתה לא אדם טוב ולא מגלה את התרופה לסרטן, נכון?
לכן התשובה היא שאתה צריך להתגייר לנצרות. זה הטיעון להתבוללות. זה טיעון מאוד רציני. ולומר, ובכן, הם הבחורים הרעים המוזרים. אוקיי, אז הם כן, אבל אתה גם בחור רע עכשיו. אתה צריך לרפא סרטן ובינתיים אתה בסדר.
התלמיד: לחשוב על אני מניח זהיר. כלומר זה גם דבר טוב לעשות אולי זה יכול פשוט לעשות את זה אז למה שלא תתן להם להיכנס לנושא.
המרצה: אותה, אותה בעיה.
התלמיד: אני לא נותן לזה יכול להישאר כאן אוקיי אז.
המרצה: או המגדל הזה שאחת התשובות היו—דנו או אחד הטיעונים שדנו היה שאתה לא יכול לעשות את זה כי זה לא הולך לעבוד. עשוי לעבוד לנכדי הנכדים שלך. ולכן הגענו לשאלה שהיא: כמה יותר גרוע הוא צריך להיות כדי שלנכדי הנכדים שלך יהיה טוב יותר? אתה חושב שזה מאוד ברור שאתה צריך להיות גרוע יותר, אבל אני לא חושב שזה…
התלמיד: אבל לפני כן רק הבהרת שזה לא כל כך חיובי שאנחנו נעשים גרועים יותר, כי אנחנו אלה ש, נגיד, הולכים נגד מציאת סרטן.
המרצה: כן, כן, כן, זו הבעיה. אבל עכשיו אתה לא הולך—ההמשך של הטיעון הזה יהיה שנכד הנכד שלך יתחיל למצוא תרופה לסרטן, לא אתה, כי הם עדיין לא הולכים לתת לך להיכנס לאוניברסיטה שלהם כי הם הולכים לומר, כן, אתה, איך קוראים לזה? אתה נוצרי חדש, נכון? אנחנו לא ממש סומכים על הנוצרים החדשים. נכון?
זה הסיפור של האינקוויזיציה הספרדית, נכון? אנחנו לא סומכים על הבחורים האלה שהתגיירו אתמול כדי לקבל עבודה באוניברסיטה. אנחנו יודעים בדיוק למה הם התגיירו. הם לא קונים אותנו, נכון? לנכדי הנכדים שלהם נסמוך כי אפילו היטלר מסכים שהם לא יהודים יותר. נכון?
דרך אגב, כמה יותר גרוע אני צריך לעשות את החיים שלי כדי להציל את נכד הנכד שלי מהיטלר?
התלמיד: אינסופית גרוע יותר.
המרצה: כן? אני לא יודע. אתה יכול לשאול… איך קוראים לו? אתה יכול לשאול את בנת׳ם לחשב את שנות איכות החיים או משהו ולהבין איזה אחד נותן לך יותר נקודות תועלתניות.
התלמיד: האם יש הבדל בין ילד לנכד נכד?
המרצה: כן, יש הבדל.
התלמיד: כן, יש הבדל, אני מסכים.
המרצה: אבל אנחנו מניחים שזה נכד הנכד שלך, מאוד בכוונה, או מאוד ריאליסטית, נכון? ולמקרה שאנחנו שוקלים.
התלמיד: לא הולך לפתור את הבעיות של הילד שלך גם.
המרצה: אני חושב שיש כאן לולאה מאוד מעניינת, שהיא שאתה רק הולך להיות מסוגל להציל את האנשים שאין לך חובה אליהם יותר.
התלמיד: אני חושב שזה עשוי לפתור את הבעיה.
המרצה: למה?
התלמיד: כי מי האדם שאתה מתכנן להציל? בדיוק זה שאין לו יחסים אליך יותר, נכון?
המרצה: מה ה—התורה אומרת פוקד עון אבות על בנים על שלשים ועל רבעים, נכון? שזו דרך לומר נכדים הם נכדי נכדים, נכון? זה אומר, סבא לא ממש אכפת לו מנכדי נכדי הנכדים. אם למישהו אי פעם היה סבא סבא, יש לך? אתה צריך לדעת את זה.
יש לך סבא סבא?
התלמיד: לא?
המרצה: תסתכל מסביב, מה? אני מכיר כמה אנשים שיש להם נכדי נכדי נכדים. הם לא ממש אכפת להם מהם. אוקיי, זה רחוק מדי ממך. זה כמו ילדי נכדי הנכדים שלך. ברצינות, אתה עשוי—אתה בן 90 עד שזה מגיע, נכון? אתה כמו בדרך החוצה, נכון? הם בדרך פנימה, נכון? וזה לא כמו ממש—זה לא הולך לעבוד. כן, זה מגניב. שוב, אתה יכול לקבל תמונה יפה מזה. אני חושב שקראתי מאמר בטיימס על זה, אבל לא הרבה יותר, נכון?
כי הבחור הזה הולך לגדול בעולם שונה ממך. זו בעצם הנקודה, נכון? הנקודה היא אני והילדים שלי, הנכדים שלי, לפעמים נכדי הנכדים שלי חולקים עולם. אנחנו חולקים מאה, כמו שאנחנו חולקים חיים במובן מסוים. נכדי נכדי הנכדים שלי, נכדי נכדי נכדי הנכדים שלי, אנחנו לא חיים באותו עולם. למטרות מעשיות, אני לא הסבא סבא שלו. אני לא ההורה שלו.
וגם היטלר הבין את זה, נכון? זוכר? זה היה הכלל שלו, פחות או יותר.
התלמיד: לא, זה היה משהו כמו ארבע או חמש.
המרצה: בכל מקרה, זה אותו רעיון, נכון? בשלב מסוים, אתה מפסיק.
התלמיד: בדיוק. הוא כמו, אני אנסה להרוג אותך.
המרצה: כן, בכל מקרה, אתה מבין את הנקודה שלי, נכון? אז אני חושב שזה יהיה מאוד… עכשיו, זה תלוי מה התיאוריה שלך של חובה מוסרית, נכון? אבל התיאוריה שלי תהיה מבוססת על יחסים ממשיים.
המרצה: יש לך חובה כלפי ילדיך דווקא משום שהם חולקים איתך חיים ואתה אחראי עליהם וכן הלאה. זו הסיבה שיש לך חובה כלפיהם, נכון? אתה צריך לדאוג לאביך, לסבא שלך וכן הלאה וגם להיפך כי אתה חולק איתם חיים. סבא רבא רבא שלי, אני לא יודע, יש לי צוואה [חובה] לסבא רבא רבא שלי לעשות משהו. אז הוא לא מדבר איתי. לא אכפת לי. אם הוא השאיר לי כסף, אולי. אחרת לא אכפת לי. אני לא חולק שום – אין לי שום חובה אמיתית כלפיו, נכון? יש לי חובה כלפי אנשים אחרים בדיוק כמו בדור שלו בדיוק כמו שיש לי כלפיו, פחות או יותר. יש לי גם כל כך הרבה שמתדללים, נכון? הוא גם רק בעלים של 1/128 ממני, נכון? בשלב הזה לא ממש מעניין.
אז לכן אין לי חובה כלפיו. אז עכשיו זה יהיה מאוד מוזר להגיד שאתה צריך לעשות משהו כדי שדווקא האנשים שאיתם אתה מפסיק להיות בקשר מוסרי יהיה להם חיים טובים יותר.
המרצה: יש לי המשך מדהים לזה. לא חוזי. כלומה, זה מבוסס על המחשבה שיש לך חובה כלפי, כמו קרבה, נכון? כמו רמות של דאגה, נכון? סדר האהבה, כמו שסגן הנשיא שלנו אמר, נכון?
תלמיד: כן, אבל הדברים האלה צריכים, חלק מהם זה שהדברים האלה צריכים לצאת ממך בהיותך אדם טוב, נכון?
המרצה: כן, אדם טוב הוא מישהו שדואג לילדיו ולנכדיו ולנינים שלו. אתה דואג לכל העולם באיזשהו מובן מופשט או באיזשהו מובן אמיתי. אתה הופך לאזרח העולם, נכון, קוסמופוליטי, אבל לא ספציפית לנכדיך.
עכשיו, אם אתה דואג לעולם, הפתרון לבעיות העולם הוא לא שהיהודים יפסיקו להתקיים. זה הפתרון לבעיות היהודים. הפתרון לבעיות העולם הוא שהם יפסיקו להרוג את היהודים. אז אתה עובד ברמה אוניברסלית. אני מסכים שאתה יכול לעבוד ברמה אוניברסלית, ברמה הקוסמופוליטית, ברמה הלאומית, מעבר לדור הרביעי שלך אבל לא ברמה שלך. זו לא חובה כלפי ילדיך בשלב הזה.
וגם, כן, מי שיבוא להלוויה שלך אתה צריך לדאוג לו. מי שלא יבוא כי הם יהיו תינוקות או שאתה תהיה מת לפני שהם בזה, לפני שהם נולדים – למה שתעזור להם? לא למה שאתה לא צריך, כאילו אין לך שום חובה ספציפית כלפיהם.
תלמיד: יש לך יותר חובה כלפי הבחור שגר בעיר הסמוכה?
המרצה: לא, ככל שאתה הולך רחוק יותר מהשולחן, גם יש לי פחות חובה.
תלמיד: מה? אפילו לא שמעת.
המרצה: אה. לא.
תלמיד: לא, יש לך פחות חובה כלפי [נין נין שלך], מאשר כלפי הבחור שגר עכשיו בעיר הסמוכה?
המרצה: אני לא יודע.
תלמיד: [לא ברור] להבין שאלה אחרת למה—
המרצה: למה? כי כבן אדם איך שאתה אומר זה כאילו אנחנו דואגים לחברה סביבנו מה שלא יהיה, נכון? נראה שאתה תעקוב אחרי הטיעון הזה זה שאנחנו צריכים לדאוג לבחור השכן, בטח השכן, אבל הבחור, אפילו בפעם הבאה, יותר מנין נין שלך.
תלמיד: אולי. אני לא יודע. זה נראה כמו שאלה מוזרה, אבל למה אתה מקבל את זה?
המרצה: כי זה מה שנובע מהטיעון שלך.
תלמיד: אוקיי, ולכן, אוקיי, אני לא יודע, אבל אני לא רואה מה הבעיה, ואם כן—
המרצה: אם לא, אז אני לא מבין את כל העניין. אם כן, אז אוקיי, אז אתה אומר חידוש גדול מאוד, שאדם צריך לדאוג יותר לבחור אקראי—
תלמיד: אני לא יודע בוודאות אבל אני לא רואה מה תהיה בעיה למה שאני צריך לדאוג לבחור אקראי. אני לא חושב שאתה צריך לדאוג לבחורים אקראיים בכלל. למה שתדאג לבחורים אקראיים? אתה מתכוון לבני אדם? יפה מאוד. אנחנו חולקים משהו שנקרא אנושות. במידה שזה רלוונטי אני צריך לדאוג ל— אני לא— אני לא רואה אדום— אני לא יודע. אבל אני אדם יותר כשאתה ואתה ביקשת ממני לדאוג לנכדים שלי כנכדים שלי, לא כבני אדם, נכון?
המרצה: בדיוק אמרתי לך כבני אדם יש לי תוכניות טובות יותר לפתור בעיות גזעניות אנושיות, נכון? עכשיו אנחנו פותרים את הבעיה היהודית, לא את הבעיה האנושית, נכון?
תלמיד: למה לא? כמובן שאני לא— אז הם בני אדם אז אנחנו חולקים אנושות אנחנו כן חולקים—
המרצה: אתה לא חולק איתם חיים, אתה לא חולק איתם עולם, אתה לא חולק איתם שום דבר, בצורה אנושית, יש לך דעות ויש לך חוויות.
תלמיד: לא, לא, אלה דברים שונים. כשאני אומר עולם, אני מתכוון לעולם של משפחה, לא עולם שחי באותה תקופה. זה לא מאוד מעניין, וקצת מעניין, אבל לא כל כך מעניין, אני לא חושב. יש קשרים אמיתיים, נכון? יש מגע אמיתי. אם אני במשפחה עם מישהו, אני חולק חיים בצורה מאוד אמיתית. אם אני חולק חיים בצורה מופשטת שנינו נקרא את אותו עיתון באותו יום, אוקיי, אני מניח שיש איזה קשר שם. אני לא יודע כמה.
ראיינו כמו אישה שהייתה בת 106 ושאלו אותה מה השתנה? הכל. כן, זה לא אותו עולם. כן, הכל. מה נשאר אותו דבר?
העניין הוא שאני רוצה להגיע למשהו. אני רוצה להגיד משהו מעניין כאן. אני הולך להגיע לאיזשהו מקום.
המרצה: יש [אדם]—שמו היה אברהם, שמעתם עליו? שם המשפחה היה אבינו. והייתה לו תוכנית, זה מה שהרמב״ם אומר לפחות. הייתה לו תוכנית לעשות משהו למי? למי אתה רוצה לעשות משהו? אני לא בטוח או לכל העולם או לפחות למשפחה שלו. אוקיי, אני לא בטוח. אני חושב שלכל העולם הולכים למספר [לפי הרמב״ם]. אבל זה כלל עבודה עם הכלי של המשפחה שלו, אוקיי? או שאנחנו קוראים לזה עם שזה רק גרסה גדולה יותר של משפחה.
אבל תקשיבו לסיפור. ואז התברר שלא היו לו ילדים והוא החליט מסיבה כלשהי והוא חשב שאי קיום ילדים הורס את התוכנית. זה לא עובד. זה הורס את התוכנית. הדרך שהתוכנית שלו הייתה אמורה לעבוד הייתה על ידי קיום ילדים.
ומאז, זוכרים מהשיעור של השבוע שעבר בבורו פארק, שבדיוק כמו כשאדם עושה, מרגיל את עצמו, הוא יוצר בעצמו הרגלים שלפעמים אומרים שהם השכר של מעשיו הטובים. הם כבר לא בחירה. הם כבר השכר. הם כבר השכר.
באותו אופן, זה קורה גם בין דורות, נכון? אם אתה מאמן את המשפחה שלך בצורה מסוימת, הילדים שלך, על ידי קבלת החינוך שלך, לא רק לפי גיל, אולי גם על ידי קבלת הגנים שלך, אבל כנראה בעיקר על ידי מגורים בבית שלך, מקבלים את הדברים שעבדת עליהם בחינם. נכון?
אז הורים מאוד כועסים על הילדים שלהם, כי הם מראים להם איך כל ההרגלים הרעים שצברת הם פשוט מקבלים בחינם. גם הטובים, אבל על אלה אתה שמח. הם גם שמים לב לכמה רעים שאתה תעמיד פנים שאין לך כי אתה תמיד רואה את עצמך כאדם שבוחר. אז אין לי הרגל רע של תמיד לאכול יותר מדי. אני פשוט הבחור שבמקרה עושה את זה. מתברר שכבר יש לך את זה והילדים שלך מנסים אותך—הם פשוט עושים את זה לא מתוך בחירה, פשוט זה מה שהמשמעות במשפחה שלנו, בסדר?
אז האברהם הזה, התוכנית שלו הייתה לעבוד עם המערכת הזו, חלק רחוק של הטבע האנושי. ומאז שהוא זיהה חבורה שלמה של בעיות עם הטבע האנושי והחליט שהוא גדל עם וכן הלאה, הוא הבין שהוא החליט שיהיו האנשים האלה, המשפחה הזו שלאט לאט תבחר ותחסן, נכון? תרגיל הרגלים, הרגלים טובים בילדיו. לצערו זה עובד רק אם יש לך ילדים.
תלמיד: מה עם תלמידים? נראה שלא באמת האמנת באלה. זו שאלה טובה למה, אבל אני חושב כי אם אתה חושב על עבודה עם הטבע האנושי אתה צריך לנסות לעבוד קרוב ככל האפשר לביולוגיה, אני חושב.
המרצה: אתה יודע שכולם חושבים שתלמידים טובים יותר מילדים. זה אומר במדרש. אבל זה עניין רק—זה לא פשט, אתה יודע. כמו, יצחק לא יכול היה להתחתן עם המדרש. כן?
כן, אם אתה רוצה באמת לעבוד, אתה צריך לעבוד עם ביולוגיה. זה תמיד רעיון טוב. ככל שאתה יכול ללכת ולא ללכת נגד הביולוגיה, אתה צריך. כלל כללי של שינוי חברתי, מהפכות חברתיות. אם המהפכה שלך, בכל פעם שמישהו אומר, יש לנו מהפכה, זה הולך להיות נגד המשפחה, זה כנראה לא הולך לעבוד. או שזה הולך לעבוד, אבל זה הולך לעשות את ההיפך ממה שאתה חושב שאתה עושה וכן הלאה.
אם יש לך מהפכה, אנחנו הולכים להשתמש בכל חלק של הטבע האנושי כמו שהוא, לא כמו שאנחנו חושבים שהוא צריך להיות, נכון? כמו שמקיאוולי אמר, אתה לא יכול להיות פוליטיקאי יעיל אם אתה מדבר על הטבע האנושי תמיד איך שהוא צריך להיות, נכון? אתה מתאר את הטבע שלך כמו שהוא ומשתמש בזה. זה כנראה יעלה את הסיכויים שלך להצלחה. הגיוני? כולם מסכימים, אוקיי?
לכן אתה כנראה צריך להשתמש בדבר הזה שנקרא משפחה, ביולוגיה, שושלת, נכון? הגיוני?
אני מניח, אוקיי. חשבתי שכולכם לא מסכימים עם זה, אבל אני לא סבלני להבין להסביר לכם למה אתם לא, הדרך שאנחנו לא מסכימים. אז נשמע כמו הדרך שסיפרתי לכם את זה, אתם מסכימים, אז בואו נמשיך הלאה.
המרצה: אז בואו נמשיך הלאה. בכל מקרה, מאז שזו הייתה התוכנית, הוא הבין שאין לו ילדים, זה לא הולך לעבוד. אז הוא בא לאלוקים, שזה אומר מה? לדבר עם אלוקים לא אומר, היי, אתה יכול לפתור את הבעיות שלי, מה דעתך שתפתור את זו? זה אומר, האמת היא, כל התוכנית הזו מתפרקת, נכון?
והוא אמר לאלוקים, אבל פשוט עזב תראה בסדר הוא אמר הבטחת לי שכר אבל זה חדשות מזויפות לא קורה אין לי אפילו ילדים אלוקים אומר שזו הייתה התוכנית שלו כמובן אני הייתי התוכנית הזו הוא עובד כל חייו בשביל זה אני הולך להיות השכר שלו נכון זה אומר לך לך ויהיו לך ילדים וכן הלאה, נכון?
כלומר הוא עשה את הבעיה המקיאוולית. מה אתה מתכוון לבעיה? כשזה אומר שאלוקים הבטיח לו את זה, זה אומר שזו הייתה התוכנית, נכון? זו לא הייתה התוכנית קסם, אלוקים היה הולך לעשות את זה, זה היה הולך לעבוד באופן טבעי, נכון? אם אתה מסתמך על קסם, אפילו אם אלוקים בעצמו אומר לך, לא תוכנית טובה. אפילו אלוקים בעצמו עשה את הטבע כך שדברים יעבדו, נכון? אם התוכנית שלך היא שאלוקים הולך להציל אותך מהעולם שהוא עשה, אתה עובד בצורה מאוד מבולגנת.
תלמיד: זה בגלל שאנשים אמרו בשבוע שעבר שאני מאי הופ שתב [אני אולי התרגלתי] ואני רק עשיתי הכל טבעי. אני לא חושב שזה נכון. אני חושב שאתה צריך להבין איך אלוקים באמת עובד.
המרצה: אבל חנשן סקרה [עניין אחר] לדרשה ההיא. לא, זה שונה. זו דרשה שלישית. דרשה חמישית. אנחנו עד רשימה ארוכה של דרשות אחרות.
הנקודה היא, הוא בא ואמר, זה לא עובד. והנה בן ביתי יורש אותי, נכון? התלמיד שלי או המנהל שלי, מה שזה בדיוק אומר, הוא הולך לרשת הכל והוא הולך לעשות מה שהוא רוצה בכנות זו לא הולכת להיות התוכנית שלי זה לא השכר שלי בסדר אז מה השם אמר אמר לו מה זה אומר נכון או שאנחנו קוראים את זה אז הוא חשב שחשבנו שהתוכנית הזו הוא הבין שמישהו אמר לו שהוא לא הבין את התהליך נכון הוא עשה טעות בסיסית.
עכשיו סוג הדברים האלה עובדים עד הרגע הזה היה לו אחד מאוד תמים הוא כנראה היה צריך להיות כזה כי אם לא היה לו את זה הוא לעולם לא היה מתחיל את הצמחים מלכתחילה הוא באמת האמין שזה הכל הולך להסתדר בצורה מושלמת לחיות באושר ועושר עד סוף ימיהם הולך ללכת ולשרוף הומנואידים מה שלא יהיה לשבור את הגטשקעס של אביו איך אומרים גטשקע [געטשקע: יידיש לפסל/אליל] באנגלית?
תלמיד: כן אלילים גטשקע נושקת אלילים נכון תגיד את זה למישהו אחר.
המרצה: זה לא אותו דבר. זה לא אומר אותו דבר. זה תרגום גרוע. גטשקע. מה?
תלמיד: אמריקן איידול זה אמריקן גטשקע?
המרצה: טראכטעראן [תחשוב על זה]. הו אלוהים. איך זה נקרא? זה נקרא מילה שיש לה שתי משמעויות. אליל הוא תחושה של גרנדיוזיות שלגטשקע אין. בדיוק. יש הבדלים. אליל זה דבר טוב. זה נשמע יותר טוב מגטשקע, בטח. האמת היא שלא היו אלילים. היו כמה גטשקעס שנשארו, אתה יודע?
תלמיד: פסלים.
המרצה: פסלים גם כל כך גרנדיוזיים גטשקע זה גטשקע פסל זה פסל זה לא גטשקע גטשקע פסל לא כל פסל זה גטשקע זה נכון זה כמו אחי שלי פעם היה שם פעם היה המועדון שם ליד בית ההורים שלי וקנדי בילווארד [קנדי בולווארד] והיינו קוראים לזה הגטשקע עם הצבי הגדול מועדון האלק [Elk Club] אבל זה לא גטשקע זה פשוט פסל של צבי אין גטשקע שם.
המרצה: אני מניח שאתה יודע שהוא הולך לשבור את הגטשקעס זה תרגום חמוד אבל זה לא תרגום נכון אז הילדים אמרו שהוא הולך לעשות את זה ואז הוא הולך להתחיל לשכנע את כולם שהוא צודק ואז הוא הולך לעבור דירה כי זה לא מקום טוב לגדל את הילדים שלך בשכונה הזו במקום או מאיפה שהוא בא הוא קרא לזה הם מקום טוב הם הולכים ללכת למקום חדש שבו אף אחד לא יודע מי הוא הוא הולך להמציא את עצמו מחדש נכון אתה יכול להגיד לכולם מי אתה ואני יכול להגיד אני הבן של תטא אני אומר אני אברהם המייסד של הדת החדשה והם לא היו צוחקים עליו כן אני יודע אנחנו יודעים אנחנו יודעים בדיוק איפה אתה הילדים אבל הבן של דאטא נכון זו הסיבה שאתה צריך לעבור דירה כי יש לך סיפור חדש נכון מי אתה אה אתה הקוסם ששבר את הכן ואז היו לך ויכוחים גם ויש לי תוכנית עכשיו אתה הולך לשנות את העולם כן בטח.
זה לא היה אמור לעבוד. אז הוא הלך למקום חדש, והוא הציג את עצמו, כולם אומרים פוצק [טיפש/פשוט]. והוא הציג את עצמו, אני הבחור שיוצר את הדת החדשה. אה, תוכנית מעניינת. התחיל לעבוד, נכון? הוא התחיל להשיג חסידים. ו, אבל התוכנית האמיתית שלו הייתה ש, כמו שאמרתי בהתחלה, התוכנית שלו לא הייתה רק לאפשר לחסידים, החסידים נחוצים, אתה יודע, לשלם עבור המשפחה. אבל, אני לא יודע למה. אבל, התוכנית שלו, והתוכנית שלו הייתה ליצור משפחה, נכון?
הוא במקרה היה נגד זה. מי היה נגד זה? אברהם. הוא לא רצה שאף אחד יגיד, אני אתן לו עסקה. לא, לא המתנגדים. היום של המתנגדים, זוכרים את כל הסיפור של סדום. סדום היה המתנגד העיקרי של אברהם, נכון? הוא בא ל, היה נמרוד, מי שלא יהיה, אני לא יודע, מי שלא יהיה, הוא לא אומר את שמו באמת בכותרת, מי שהבחור היה שהיה נגד אברהם, הוא ברח ממנו, הוא הלך לכנען, נכון?
אז הוא הלך בתעלה והוא עשה את הדבר שלו, עין, והוא אומר בדיוק את המיקום. הוא יצר את זה במזבח, נכון? מזבח פשוט אומר, נכון? מה במזבח? הוא אפילו הראה מזבח. הוא היה מדמיין, כאילו, הוא ברח מ, כאילו, אנחנו מוצאים את זה, הוא הולך לישראל, איזה קופסה אקראית של סלעים במדבר במזבח. זה לא מה שזה אומר, נכון?
בוא נעשה הסכם שלום. תן לי את כל היהודים נפש [נפשות חיות], את כל היצורים החיים, תחזיר לי את כל הנשים והילדים והעבדים שלי. אני אהיה כל כך נחמד אליך, אני אתן לך את הכסף.
הלו? מי נתן לך את הנשים והילדים כדי להחזיר לי? למה שאני אחזיר אותם לך? על מה אתה משלם לي?
זה היה בלוף מתחילה ועד סוף. ואברם הבין את התחבולה. הוא לא מעוניין להילחם איתו, ואברם הבין שזה היה הוא מנסה להציל את כבודו, ולומר, “אה, באמת הכל שייך לי, אני כל כך נחמד, אני נותן לך קצת כסף.”
אם הוא היה אומר, “הכל שייך לך, אז אנחנו העבדים שלך, תעשה איתנו מה שאתה רוצה” – כניעה ללא תנאי – אז אברם היה מנצח. אבל הוא הבין בסוף שיש לו כהן בצד שלו, הם אומרים, אתה יודע, זה לא נחמד, אתה לא יכול פשוט לקחת את כל הדברים שלהם, יש חוק בינלאומי.
אז אברם אמר, תשכח מזה, קדימה, ממשיכים הלאה. אל תהיה הבחור שעשה כהונה נחמדה ותן לי את הכסף, תן לי את הרכוש. קח את כל העניין. ופלטס, מבינים את הסיפור?
אז זה לא – זה למה זה לא סטייר. ולכן הוא אמר, אבל על פי שיפוט חבריו הוא לא יכול להיות ממוסגר, נכון? בעלי בריתו, הם עדיין צריכים לקבל מה שהם רוצים.
אוקיי, עכשיו ממשיכים הלאה.
והנקודה היא שהוא הבין שזה – זו הייתה התוכנית שלו. עכשיו זה לא עבד. התוכנית לא עבדה בכלל. לא היו לו ילדים. אם אין לך ילדים, התוכנית לא עובדת.
הוא ניסה עם שניים מהילדים, לא עבד. ניסה עם ישמעאל, זו באמת הייתה תוכנית ב׳ שלו. אבל ברור שגם זה לא עבד טוב במיוחד. הוא ניסה, נכון? הוא ניסה. השם אמר לו, נכון? מה זה אומר, הוא אמר להשם? אולי ישמעאל והשם אמר לא. מה זה אומר?
הוא ניסה ללמד את ישמעאל להיות איש. ישמעאל לא רוצה להיות איש. עניין התיאולוגיה לא עובד כל כך טוב כמו… טוב, זה תלוי במי אתה. יש שני – 50% מה-DNA של האדם זה האישה, נכון? צריך לבחור את האישה בחוכמה. והגר הזו ממצרים לא הייתה כזו צדקת. אז זה לא עבד.
לאנשים יש גם בחירה משלהם, אבל גם הרבה קשור לאב, נכון? הוא בדרך של שמואל עם אמו, לא בעצמו, נכון? אז זה לא עבד טוב במיוחד.
אז עכשיו הוא תקוע. התוכנית שלו פושטת רגל, קרובה לפשיטת רגל. אז הוא הבין, או השם אמר לו, לא הבנת איך המשחק הזה משוחק. באמת חשבת שזה הולך לעבוד. הם הולכים להגיע לכאן. אתה הולך להקים משפחה. כולם הולכים להיות צדיקים וטהורים. ועכשיו לאף אחד לא יהיו בעיות. אז אתה פשוט הולך לחיות בארץ החדשה הזו. אתה הולך להיות חזק, נכון?
יש לך צבא. יש לך 318 משפחה בתוך הצבא שלך, נכון? טוב, חזק יותר מצבא האימפריה הגדולה ביותר באותם זמנים. לאף אחד לא היה צבא גדול במיוחד. והם היו אמיצים והם היו צעירים והם היו כולם עבודה. הם היו מאוד מצליחים. הם רדפו כל הדרך מחברון לדמשק, זה די רחוק. בלילה אחד. אני לא יודע איך הם עשו את זה. זה חברון משרי. זה נחמד… לוקח בערך חמש שעות נסיעה.
בכל מקרה, אז…
בקיצור מעשה, השם אמר להם… זה נקרא פרשת ברית בין הבתרים. הוא אמר להם, זה לא עובד ככה. זו לא המציאות. אני אסביר לך למה.
מרצה: למה? אתה יודע למה? אני לא באמת יודע. אתה יודע?
הסיבה היא כי יש גבול למה שאתה יכול לעשות עם הילדים שלך. הרגע הסברנו את הגבול הזה. יש גבול אמיתי. ההשפעה של אנשים על הילדים שלהם מאוד מוגבלת. יש גבול במובנים רבים. אחד מהם גילית עם ישמעאל. יכולות להיות לך הכוונות הכי טובות ואז הבן שלך פשוט אומר, “טאטי [אבא], יש לי תוכניות משלי לחיים.” זה גבול אחד. אותו סיפור עם מה?
תלמיד: אני עדיין כועס.
מרצה: מה?
תלמיד: זה הכעס שלך?
מרצה: גבול שני, אבל הגבול החשוב יותר שאנחנו מדברים עליו כאן.
תלמיד: חשבתי שזה מה שאני…
מרצה: חשבתי שאתה אומר?
תלמיד: כן, חשבתי ככה.
מרצה: ו?
תלמיד: זה לא…
מרצה: זה לא היה ה…
תלמיד: זה מה שתמיד חשבתי שזה.
מרצה: זה לא מה שהולך לעבוד.
תלמיד: לא, אבל יש בעיה גדולה יותר.
מרצה: הבעיה הגדולה יותר היא, זוכרים שההשפעה של אדם, גם אם יש לך משפחה טובה, הכי טובה, אתה מוגבל לארבעה דורות לכל היותר. וזה במצב טוב מאוד, נכון? רוב האנשים מוגבלים לדור אחד או שניים. אתה לא באמת יכול ללמד יותר משני דורות, נכון? כלומר, אתה לא יכול להשפיע בצורה אמיתית, נכון? אתה זוכר את זה.
דרך אגב, זה נכון גם למורים, נכון? רגע, בואו נעבוד על משהו. אתה לא יכול – יש בעיה אמיתית. אני נותן לכם דרש כאן. אני מצטער, אתם יכולים ללכת לברטון בשביל הסוג הזה של דרשות, אבל זה מה שאני עושה עכשיו. אני מנסה לדבר על בעיות אמיתיות, אבל. וזה, אוקיי.
בכל מקרה, זה המשך מהגיליון שלי של פסח. אם זה נמסר, תבינו את זה. אם יש לכם שאלות, אתם יכולים להתקשר אלי ונעשה את זה לעבוד באמת. אבל זה לא עובד בצורה אמיתית.
זו מגבלה גם למורים, נכון? אני חושב שיש – לאנשים יש יוהרה גדולה. כאילו, לאנשים יש הערכות יתר מטורפות של מה שבני אדם מסוגלים לעשות, אוקיי?
מה היה צריך להיווצר עם המורה שלנו ל-10,000 דורות? מה? אין דבר כזה להיות מורה ל-10,000 דורות. מה קורה? אנחנו קוראים לבחור הזה שחי לפני 3,000 שנה המורה שלנו. מה זה בכלל אומר? אין דבר כזה.
תלמיד: לא, שא [הרבי].
מרצה: לא, זה אני.
תלמיד: אבל אני לא יכול לדבר איתו.
מרצה: אוקיי, עכשיו יש בעיה גדולה. אז למה יש להם את הדבר הזה – לעולם, זה לעולם לא עובד כשאתה צריך את זה. כאילו, שמעת פעם מישהו משתמש בזה במקרה שזה שימושי? זה לא שימושי. רק אתה רק מבין שזה לא – זה קשה.
תלמיד: כן, זה קשה למכוניות החדשות אין את זה. אתה לא צריך לעשות את זה. אתה פשוט מצפצף ציוץ רגיל.
מרצה: לא כל כך קל שוב, הא? זה הבית שלי שאני לוחץ עושה לך חנייה אתה שוכח כל כך הרבה, אוקיי.
בכל מקרה, משל, להראות לכם הנקודה היא שיש לי שאלה אמיתית כאן. שאלה מאוד אמיתית. שאלה מאוד אמיתית. זה לא הגיוני. אתה יודע, אנשים אומרים, אה, הם לעולם לא מתו, אבל זה מזרי מאחורי השירותים הזה עדיין חי, לכן זה צריך להמשיך לנצח ככה. זה בלוף. אתה יכול להמשיך בערך דור וחצי ככה, אתה יכול.
והדבר העצוב הוא שאנשים שאמרו את זה, גם הם מתים. אז הם לא מבינים שהתוכנית שלהם תמיד הייתה נבואת שקר מזויפת. ואז הדור הבא או דור וחצי אחר כך הם אלה שתקועים. ואז כבר יש לנו מסורה שזה מה שאנחנו אומרים, ואז כולנו חיים בשקר. אני מדבר על דברים מאוד ספציפיים עכשיו, אבל בכל מקרה, זו בעיה אמיתית.
אה, זה גם – אני בעצם לא יודע שיש פתרון אמיתי לבעיה הזו. אני בעצם חושב שכל דור צריך להיות לו מורים משלו. זו האמת האמיתית. אבל גם, חייב להיות משהו יותר מזה. לפחות אנחנו חיים בעולם שעזר לנו לפתור את הבעיה הזו או איכשהו חשב אסטרטגיה עם זה. אבל אני נותן לכם שוט על פרשת ברית בין הבתרים בשוט מאוד רציני.
אז אני אחשוב ככה. אז השם אמר לאברם, אתה צריך להבין שהבעיה המדויקת שלך, אתה צריך קודם לפתור את הבעיה הזו. התוכנית המתוכננת יפה שלך לחיות באושר ועושר בארץ כנען עם הילדים והנכדים שלך היא שטות. כי תחשוב על הנינים שלך. האם הם יזכרו מי היה אברהם? אם הם יזכרו, זה יהיה באיזו דרך מוזרה ומזויפת.
אז אל – זו לא תוכנית טובה. זו מעולם לא הייתה תוכנית טובה. אני יודע שאתה חי כבר 70 שנה על בסיס התוכנית הזו או כמה שזה. הולך לחג׳ בעוד 20 שנה. זו לא תוכנית אמיתית. כמה זמן הוא חי על בסיס התוכנית הזו? 25 שנה, נכון? 24 בערך. זו לא תוכנית אמיתית. אתה צריך לחשוב על תוכנית טובה יותר.
אז הוא אמר ככה, תראה מה אני מציע. יש הרבה דימויים בסיפור הזה וזה קשה לפרש והמדרש יש לו כל מיני דרכים לקרוא את זה, אבל כולם מנסים לקרוא את סוג הבעיה הזו לתוכו. במקום יש לי תוכנית חדשה. אתה הולך לצטרך לעשות משהו שטוב יותר מזה. אני לא יודע מה הפתרון דרך אגב. אין לי מושג.
אבל אני כן יודע שמה שזה אומר זה כרוך בכך לא לתת לאנשים להציל את הנינים שלהם. כמו תחילת הכבשים זה בטוח אומר את זה.
היום טרי ואמר תראה מה הולך לקרות. אני אגיד לך מה הולך לקרות. אני אגיד לך יודע משהו, תן לי רק לתת לך את המחיר. המחיר עבור מה – התוכנית שהולכת לעבוד שלא הבנת עכשיו – שיש לה מחיר. המחיר הוא ככה: במשך ארבעה דורות, או בגרסה אחרת של אותו סיפור אמר 400 שנה. 400 שנה אומר ארבע פעמים ארבעה דורות, נכון? אותו מבנה, נכון? 100 שנה זה כמו כמות האנשים שחיים כאן, ואז ארבע פעמים זה כשאף אחד לא זוכר את האנשים שזוכרים את האנשים שזוכרים שזוכרים את האנשים שזוכרים שזוכרים שזוכרים את האנשים שזוכרים. זה מה שהשם עושה, נכון? מבינים?
זה מה ש-400 שנה אומר. כמובן, זה למה הקושיא הייתה 400 שנה. 400 שנה זו קושיא מזויפת. ה-400 שנה מתאימות ל, באותו קטע זה אומר, דור רביעי, נכון? דור רביעי ישובו הנה. האם זה אומר? הכל עובד עם ההיגיון הזה, שהטווח של אדם לא מתרחב מעבר לשלב הרביעי.
אז השם אמר, תראה, אתה חושב על השלב שאחרי זה, נכון? זה באמת – למה שאתה באמת מנסה להגיע – בדיוק הדור החמישי הוא זה או הדור הרביעי הוא מתי שאתה מנסה לפתור. אז המחיר עבור זה הוא שזה במשך שלושה דורות – במשך ארבעה דורות אתה הולך להיות בדיוק ההפך ממצב שאתה מדמיין. אנחנו הולכים להיות עבד לאומה אש שהולכת לעשות מה שהם רוצים עם הילדים שלך.
ואז יהיה לנו מחזור שהולך לפתור איכשהו. זה היה השידור מהשבוע שעבר. אבל עכשיו אני מוסיף משהו חדש מאוד.
מרצה: ובכן, זה סותר את כל הגיליון. זה סותר, בדיוק. זה מה שאני מנסה להגיע אליו. אני מגיע לזה. זה סותר את כל הגיליון. זה סותר את כל הגיליון.
הדרך לגרום לזה לעבוד תהיה לומר משהו כמו שהסיבה האמיתית שזו הדרך האמיתית – הסיבה האמיתית שהיהודים לא מתבוללים היא לא בגלל הדבר הטרגי של ליאו שטראוס, אלא בגלל שאנחנו מאמינים שבדור הרביעי משיח כבר יבוא. נכון? למה שלא אתבולל ואהיה גוי? כי זה לא יעבוד היום, בסדר, אבל זה יעבוד בעודארבעה דורות. לא, מה אתה רוצה? נכון? זה מה שזה מנסה לחיות במיני [?], והדור הרביעי יקבל בברכה – זה מה שזה אומר. זה בדיוק מה שזה אומר.
זה בדיוק – כלומר, אני רק לחתוך – עכשיו אני ממלא אותך על החלק הראשון של זה. טוב, כן, זה רק מתחיל בדור הרביעי זה השלילי. כן, כן, יש לך – אני לא יודע, אין לי פתרון. אני עושה – הפכתי את זה לכל הסיפור הזה כדי שתבלע את זה קצת.
אבל זו הבעיה. זה רק מתחיל בדור הרביעי, באמת. הבנת?
ועכשיו, זה באמת – במילים אחרות, אני חושב שהדרך לומר את זה, הדרך היפה לומר את זה, שאני לא לגמרי מאמין בה, תהיה לומר שהוא באמת עובד על משהו שנועד לשרוד את המהלך הטבעי של בני אדם, אתה יודע, מאבדים את השפעתם ויש להם נכדי נכדים שהם לא באמת מכירים.
אבל אני לא יודע איך להסביר את זה, אז אני רק אומר את זה.
אבל הנקודה תהיה שעכשיו התשובה היא, מי אמר לנו לסבול בזמנים האלה כשאנחנו במחזורים של 400 שנה האלה? התשובה היא אברהם אבינו.
עכשיו תבין משהו מאוד מעניין. הפרק הזה – לא אמרתי את זה, אפילו לא כתבתי את זה, אז אני צריך לומר את זה – ותבין, אז זה מה שאמרנו בשבוע שעבר.
המדרש אומר: למה עם ישראל סובל? כי המקור שלהם מכר אותם. מי המקור שלנו? אברהם אבינו. אברהם אבינו גרם לנו לסבול. זו אשמתו. כל אשמתו. כי הייתה לו בחירה: או שהילדים שלו הולכים לגיהנום או שהם סובלים בעולם הזה תחת האומות, והוא בחר בזה.
דנו בזה בשיעור. נתתי הסבר יפה לעניין הזה. אבל הנקודה היא שאברהם אבינו בחר את החיים האלה בשבילנו.
אבל עכשיו אני מוסיף לך: מה שהוא בחר – אולי בחיים אחד יכולת היה – מה שהוא בחר היה בדיוק בגלל הדבר הזה שהוא מנסה ליצור משהו שנמשך אחרי הדור הרביעי או שמתחיל באמת לעבוד אז.
עכשיו, עכשיו יש לי דבר חדש, דבר חדש שאני צריך לספר לך. כן, אני לא יודע, אני לא – אני אסיים עם החלק שלי ואתה תלך לישון ותגיד לי אם יש לך הזדמנות טובה יותר.
עכשיו, מה שאני אומר הוא ככה. אתה זוכר את סיפור העקדה שאנחנו קוראים בראש השנה? והוא אומר, בסדר, זה – חם ולכולם כמו, כן, פעם היה איש זקן שרצה לשחוט את הילד הצעיר שלו. בסדר, מה אתה בשביל החיים שלי? אה, היית הסבא שלי? רק דיברנו שסבים לא משנים, נכון, אחרי איזה סיכוי.
מה הסיפור של אברהם להיות הסבא שלנו? זו גם אותה בעיה, נכון?
אז אני רוצה לספר לך את הפשט. הרמב״ם אומר ככה. הרמב״ם אומר: זה לא היה הנסיון של אבחר [?]. זכור, לרמב״ם יש בעיה עם הנסיון. הנסיון נראה שאומר שאלוקים יודע משהו והוא מגלה. זה לא הגיוני.
אז, לכן, הרמב״ם אומר: לא, הנסיון לא אומר – הנסיון אומר האדם, הפרסום של משהו. נס. כמו, מלש [?] ונס, נכון? זה גם מה שנס אומר. זו גם התשובה לכל השאלות שיש לכם אנשים, שדברים צריכים להיות נס. כמובן, הם צריכים להיות נס.
עכשיו, ומה – עכשיו, לכן, בכל פעם שזה אומר בנסיון זה אומר שאנחנו לומדים משהו מסיפור מאוד פומבי, סיפור מאוד מפורסם. מה אנחנו לומדים מסיפור העקדה?
זה אומר שיש שני דברים.
דבר אחד שאנחנו לומדים הוא שנביאים מאוד בטוחים בנבואה, כי אף אחד לא יהיה מוכן להרוג את בנו אם הוא לא היה מאוד בטוח שזה אלוקים מדבר אליו. הוא מניח שאנשים לא – די נחמדים, אולי כמה אנשים אפילו ישכחו, אבל אנשים נורמליים לא ראויים לכל דבר. הוא היה בחור טוב. זוכר? בסדר, תקשיב, זה החלק השני של הסיפור שלי. רק תראה את שני הדברים האלה.
אז בכל מקרה, זה מלמד אותך את הנבואה, ומכיוון שנבואה היא יסודית לדת, אז זה אברהם אבינו היה מייסד הדת – מלמד אותנו שנבואה היא מאוד אמיתית לנביא. אגב, זה איפה שמישהו יודע – אנחנו לא יודעים את זה עדיין. איפה שהנביא הוא מאוד אמיתי. בסדר?
דבר שני שהוא מלמד את המורים הוא כמה רציני – יש לי סאש [?], אני מפספס – זה מה שזה אומר ומתאר כמה קשה היה לאברהם אבינו לעשות את העקדה הזאת, והוא נתן את כל זה בשביל אברהם אבינו. בזה תקרא את זה. מה שהוא אומר, הוא מתאר – תדמיין שאתה צריך לקרוא את זה. תביא לי – אני צריך לספר לך, אני אוהב ביאס [?], לא את האמיתי. כן, זה זה שאני אולי אשאל אחרי החדש שלי. עוד אחד אני שומר אותו תמיד כאן. ואתה רואה שם, אני אספר – מה שאני כמעט בחוץ.
אז כאן זה אומר ככה. הפתרון הזה – איזו פרשה אמרתי שזה? אה, טוב מאוד, צדקתי.
זה אומר ככה: אבל – והוא אומר, מתחיל לדבר על – פתאום כאן מדבר על הנוף – הדבר הראשון שהוא אמר שאנחנו לומדים הוא כמה אדם צריך לעשות בשביל אהבת ה׳, לא בשביל – לא קשה ראשון בשביל אהבת ה׳.
אז הוא אומר, ואז הוא אומר זה מדבר על אולי הוא אמר את זה – איך אתה עושה – יש לה עוד – אברהם אבינו, זה כמו שזה היה נכון שזה – מה צריך – כשזה שאני אומר נכון, האם זה עושה את זה אדנה [?], כמו שזה פלסטיק. מה שהוא אומר, מנסה להסביר לך מה הסיפור באמת – למה זה – למה הסיפור מסופר על אברהם אבינו?
הוא אומר: הוא התחיל ללמד את היחוד, נכון, אחרי שם ונבואה, ולעזוב – להשאיר את הדעה הזאת, הידיעה הזאת תמיד, ורק להגביל עניין אחר, נכון, למשוך אנשים אליו. כמו שנאמר, ובדיוק כמו שאנחנו עוקבים אחרי הדעות האמיתיות שלו, הידע האמיתי שלו, אנחנו גם עוקבים אחרי הדברים הנלקחים ממעשיו. אנחנו גם – אנחנו מחקים את הידע והמעשים של אברהם. זה מה שהרמב״ם אומר.
קל שכן זאת ספולה, קל חיים עדס [?] של עקידת יצחק, שהוא, בזה, הוא הראה את האמיתות של הנבואה וכמה רצינית אהבת ה׳.
אז הוא אומר משהו מאוד מוזר. אנחנו צריכים לחקות את העקדה. נכון? כי אם כל ההיגיון של העקדה של היסטוריון הוא לעשות משהו מפורסם, לפרסם משהו, והוא אומר במיוחד, לא לחתום על מישהו, לא לחתום על איזה זקן אקראי – כמו שהוא מתאר קודם כמה חשוב זה היה, הוא לא היה הכל, הוא אומר.
היה אדם שהיה מאוד זקן והוא באמת רצה ילד והוא רצה שיהיה לו עם מצאצאיו, ויש לו את הילד הזה שהוא זקן וכל כך קשה, והוא הרג אותו אחרי שלושה ימים. לא כשהוא היה בתשוקה. זה מה שזה אומר, לקח שלושה ימים. אתה לא צריך לחשוב, הוא הלך שלושה ימים, היה לו הרבה זמן לחשוב על זה.
אז, אנחנו לומדים – וזה מה שאנחנו לומדים מ – כי אנחנו צריכים לחקות את הפעילויות שלו. אנחנו לומדים מהמעשים שלו בדיוק כמו שאנחנו לומדים מהלימודים שלו, מהמחשבות שלו. מה קורה כאן? מאוד מוזר. אתה עושה את העקדה? מה קורה כאן? כל הנקודה של העקדה היא שאתה לא צריך לעשות את זה בכל מקרה. אבל מה קורה?
אז אני מבין שזה מה שהוא מתכוון לומר. מה שהוא מתכוון לומר הוא – אני לא יודע אם השם מתכוון לומר את זה, אבל זה תמונת מצב. מה שהוא מתכוון לומר הוא שזה מה שאנחנו מדברים עליו כשאנחנו אומרים את זכות העקדה. זכות העקדה פשוט אומרת –
זה אומר שבעשיית העקדה הזאת, ובאמת העקדה היא אותו דבר כמו ברית בין הבתרים. אברהם אבינו מלמד, בוחר גלות לילדיו – זה מה שהעקדה היא רגשית או תמונה עבור, כי אברהם אבינו אומר, וזה מה שאמרתי לך לשאלה שלך:
אברהם אבינו, בגלל שהוא מנסה לפתור בעיה מאוד רצינית, שחורגת מכמות הדאגה שיש לך לילדים שלך, כי הוא מנסה לפתור את זה לדור החמישי, נכון – זה דרש ממנו לא לדאוג לארבעת הדורות הראשונים. זה דרש ממנו לחשוב רחוק יותר מזה.
ואם דרשתי ממנו – לשחוט את בנו שלו – טוב, הוא אולי לא ממש שחט את המתנה, אבל הוא כן גרם – זה קשה ללכת בגלות, או יעקב, או איפה שזה היה. הוא כן גרם – לא היטלר להרוג את כל ששת מליון היהודים – היה אברהם אבינו גרם שילדים להם הוד [?] על. זה מה שהמדרש הוא.
למה הוא קרא לזה ככה? כי הוא ניסה לחשוב מעבר לזה. הוא ניסה ליצור משהו ששורד את סוף התהליך הטבעי של הורים משפיעים ויוצרים את ילדיהם.
אז זה חלק – וזה באמת סוף הנבואה. זה מה שהוא אמר. זו הנבואה של אברהם אבינו, הגבול, הגבול האינסופי של אהבת ה׳, שזה מה שהמשיח אמור להיות, שזה מה שעם ישראל מנסה לכוון אליו, הוא סוג הדבר שאתה לא אכפת לך מעצמך או מהילדים שלך.
כי אם אתה הולך לעבוד עם הילדים שלך, אתה לא הולך לשרוד את הדור החמישי.
אז אמרתי שאתה לא צריך לדאוג לילדים שלך כי אתה צריך לדאוג לעצמך. דרך אחרת לומר את זה היא שאתה לא צריך לדאוג לילדים שלך כי אתה מנסה לדאוג למשהו שחורג מכל זה, ולכן נמשך חמישה דורות. ואז בדור החמישי, הם ניצלים.
זה התירוץ שיש לי לומר. לא פתרתי שום בעיות. רק הבהרתי את הבעיות מאוד.
וזה הסיפור של העקדה. סיפור העקדה הוא הסיפור של היהודים שמסרבים להתבולל וגורמים לנכדי הנכדים שלהם לקבל בעיות או להיוושע.
חתוך את זה לרמה השנייה – אני לא מסביר את זה. זה למה העולם אמר שזה מה שמראה שהנבואה היא כל כך חזקה. זה נראה כל כך ברור לאדם שעושה את זה שאין לו שום בחירה. זו האמת.
אין לי הסבר איך זה אמור לעבוד. אמרתי לך שאני לא יודע. אין לי הסבר איך זה עובד.
תלמיד: זה התנועות [?] של הקושיא שלך, שהם תמיד מקבלים את הנבואה להרוג את הילדים שלהם.
מרצה: [לא נרשמה תשובה ברורה]
מרצה: מבחינה מעשית, אין תרגול. אמא הולכת ושוחטת את בנה. לא, לא שחטנו את בנם. זה משל. הבחור הזה הוא משל.
לא, אני אומר, אז… הוא גרם לבנו ללכת למצרים. אם הייתם סוג האנשים שיכולים לשרוד את מצרים, אז הדבר של אברהם אבינו יכול היה להתחיל לעבוד.
זה חוזר לשיעור הקודם שלנו, לשיעור שלנו משנה שעברה, מהשבוע שעבר. זה רק יכול היה להתחיל לעבוד אם אתה מפסיק לחשוב על היום ומחר. אם אתה יכול לדמיין את הספר הזה, אם אתה יכול – זה נראה טוב לאור הנושא איש.
כן, זו הגאולה, נכון? זה המייל הבא של בוא. ואני חושב שמה שהמייל הבא אמר, “צא משם,” זה אחרי, נכון?
בכל מקרה, אין לי מוצק – הבעיה רק אמרתי לך שזה נראה להיות הסיפור של הצוערים. זה חם הולך לצ׳אט החדש שלי.
מרצה: אני חושב שזו עבודה טובה מאוד ואנחנו צריכים להאשים את אבותינו שתקעו אותנו בזה. והסיבה שהם עשו את זה הייתה כי הם האמינו שמשיח יבוא אחרי – אחרי זה, אבל לא להם.
לפעמים זה היה – היה יהודי זקן שבא למרדכיים [כנראה: רבי או סמכות תורנית], והוא שאל אותו, “מתי היא תבוא?” [מתי משיח יבוא?]
הוא אמר, “לא בימי או בילדי או בנכדי.”
זה הסוד. אם מישהו באמת חושב שאני – משיח הולך לבוא בימיו, הוא לא קיבל שייק אחד. המשיח שלו הוא הדבר שבא אחרי שנכד הנכד שלך מת.
מרצה: אין לי תא [פתרון]. לא, זה לא – לא, אני לא מתכוון לזה. בסדר, אני לא יכול – אין לי פתרון. אני רק אספר לך את הבעיה. אולי, אני לא יודע.
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This is a continuation (המשך) of last week’s class (delivered in Yiddish). The central question from that session:
– Core Question (from “Peter”): Why should one remain Jewish?
– Basic Answer Given Last Time: There is no real alternative — you can only be a *Jewish Jew* (יידישע ייד) or a *Gentile-ish Jew* (גוישע ייד). Since being a Gentile-ish Jew is a sad, incoherent existence, you might as well be a Jewish Jew.
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This answer is grounded in Leo Strauss’s lecture *”Why Are We Still Jews,”* which surveys possible “solutions” to the Jewish problem:
– Option: Assimilation (Self-Cultural Genocide): Stop being Jewish, speak English, become “normal people.”
– Herzl’s Consideration: Herzl even considered mass conversion to Christianity — not because he was crazy, but because he was *logically working through the options*. His intellectual honesty deserves defense: “You’re the weirdo that never considered this option.”
– Why Herzl Rejected It: You can’t truly become a non-Jew. You become a *Jewish gentile* — a self-hating, liminal creature. So Herzl concluded one might as well stay Jewish.
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A serious objection to the Strauss/Herzl conclusion:
– The Objection: Even if the *first generation* of assimilators suffers as awkward “Jewish gentiles,” after several generations (four, five, ten), descendants will forget their Jewish origins entirely. The “Jewish problem” is thereby *solved* for one’s progeny.
– Formalized: If you care more about your descendants than yourself, shouldn’t you assimilate now, endure short-term pain, and grant them long-term relief from persecution (Crusades, pogroms, being “Christ-killers,” etc.)?
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A student raises the historical reality of persecution (Crusades, Nazis, torture, death). Important clarification:
– The harm of being Jewish in a hostile world is not only material (violence, death) but also spiritual/moral — people don’t flourish when they are in a persecuted, degraded position.
– Conversely, “the good life” one gives up by assimilating is not only material comfort but includes moral, intellectual, and spiritual goods — the life of keeping mitzvot, of being morally good in one’s own framework.
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The dilemma sharpened into a general philosophical trade-off question:
– Should you ruin your own life (morally, spiritually) so that your great-great-grandchildren avoid a certain set of problems?
– Flipping the scenario to remove emotional bias: Would you tell a persecuted *Christian* to just stop being Christian for the sake of his descendants? Most would say yes — which reveals that resistance to assimilation may stem from emotional attachment rather than rational argument.
– A student agrees with assimilation, and the pushback: “You’re acting very sure of one side because you think agreeing with the *other* side [i.e., staying Jewish] is just bias — but the pro-assimilation side is not obviously correct either.“
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Many people, aware of their own bias (religious, nationalist, tribal), overcorrect. They think: “I only believe X because it’s *my* side, so probably X is wrong.” They imagine that by asking “What if I were a Palestinian?” or “What if I were the other side?” they achieve objectivity — a “view from nowhere.”
This overcorrection is itself a mistake. Awareness of bias does not automatically yield truth. The Rambam worried about tribal bias, yes — but the *reverse* of tribal bias is not clarity.
– Weather Vane Analogy: A *broken* weather vane that consistently points the wrong way is still useful (just reverse it). But most errors are not *systematic reversals* — they are random. So simply inverting your biased position does not land you on the truth.
– Humorous Illustrations: “Ask a בעל הבית and do the opposite = דעת תורה”; “Ask a Litvak and do the opposite.”
– Tolstoy’s *Anna Karenina* opening (“All happy families are happy in the same way; all unhappy families are unhappy in different ways”) illustrates an Aristotelian idea.
– Aristotle’s argument: There are many ways to be bad and few ways to be good — one of his arguments for the doctrine of the mean.
– Pythagorean roots: Aristotle attributed this to the Pythagoreans, who associated the One with the good and the Many/varied/unequal with the bad. Even odd numbers (associated with unity) were good, and even numbers (*zugos*, implying duality) were bad.
– Core logical point: Because there are many more ways to be wrong than to be right, doing the *opposite* of something stupid is statistically more likely to be *another* stupid thing than the correct thing.
> As Aristotle, Rabbi Nachman of Breslov, and Tolstoy all noted: there is only one truth but many ways to be wrong. Inverting one wrong answer doesn’t guarantee you hit the single correct one — it likely just lands you on a *different* wrong answer.
The student who says “I’m biased toward Judaism, therefore assimilation is probably right” is committing exactly this error. Recognizing your bias toward staying Jewish does not make the case for assimilation any stronger. The “reversal” strategy does not clarify anything — it doesn’t dissolve the real question; it just assumes the only reason someone holds a position is because of which “side” they’re on. There is a genuine substantive question here, and flipping perspectives doesn’t make it go away. The question must be evaluated on its own merits.
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It is not obvious that someone should make their own life worse so that a great-grandchild’s life will be better. Assimilation doesn’t work in one generation — the first generation suffers, and the benefit only accrues to later descendants. This isn’t a uniquely Jewish belief; it’s a general human experience (immigrants commonly say “I’m doing it for my kids”). But doing it for *children* is one thing; doing it for *great-great-grandchildren* is quite another — the moral calculus becomes much less clear.
If the person must become a bad person in order for their grandchildren to eventually be “good” (i.e., successfully assimilated), then the sacrifice is probably not justified. This is flagged as a serious consideration, not a settled point.
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Leo Strauss’s starting point (*hava amina* — the initial assumption to be examined): Jews could assimilate, but since it won’t work in one generation, they shouldn’t. Why assimilation was proposed at all: To solve “the Jewish problem” — that everyone hates the Jews, leading to persecution, abuse, and killing. Even if no physical harm results, being universally hated is itself bad — this is stated as a strong assumption.
If everyone hates you, it’s probably a sign that something is wrong with *you*, not just with everyone else. This challenges the common Jewish self-understanding that “everyone hates us but we’re the best.” This self-understanding isn’t necessarily false, but it should give one pause — it’s not a stable or reasonable default belief.
– Student: Is the reverse true — if everyone likes you, does that mean you’re good?
– Response: Not proof, but it’s a sign. Universal hatred is a sign something is wrong; universal approval isn’t proof of goodness, but it’s not a cause for concern either. Popularity functions as meaningful evidence, not a definitive “measuring tape.”
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Why would genuinely good people — people who make things better — be hated? That’s a strange idea. If you’re truly making things better, who would oppose that?
– “You’re making it worse for bad people”: But then are you really making things *better* overall? And even punishment is supposed to be *good* for the bad person (reformative), not just harmful.
– “Bad people are jealous of good people”: If a good person provokes jealousy, something is wrong with the good person’s approach.
– “Bad people hate what’s good for them”: Socrates’ analogy of the doctor — patients almost never hate doctors, even when doctors impose unpleasant requirements (diets, quitting smoking). People may not *listen*, but they don’t *hate* the doctor. This suggests that genuinely beneficial people are not naturally hated.
We are far too comfortable with the narrative “we are hated because we are right.” This comfort is suspicious and dangerous. Most people are actually *happy* to be corrected in most domains. If hatred arises, the teacher bears significant responsibility.
> ### Side Digression: Plato’s Republic on Hatred of Philosophers
> Plato argued people hate philosophers because most philosophers they encounter are genuinely bad people — hatred by association, a case of “mistaken object.”
Practical upshot: If you’re making people hate you, you’re failing at teaching. Being right is pointless if you can’t transmit truth. Options:
– Don’t teach until people are ready.
– Find “subversive” methods so people don’t realize you’re challenging them until it’s too late.
– Keep silent rather than provoke hatred that accomplishes nothing.
We are habituated to a “weird idea” — the notion that being right means you should expect universal hatred. This is potentially self-serving nonsense. If the righteous (*tzaddikim*) are hated, the proper response might be *teshuvah* (repentance/self-examination), not self-congratulation. We live in deep ignorance about the good, the true, the beautiful — we navigate by *signs*. Universal opposition is a major sign that something may be wrong.
One shouldn’t necessarily be hated by everybody; one should expect to be liked by most people.
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Humans need other humans: for schools, business, marriage, collaboration. Being excluded from society cuts you off from ~90% of human goods.
Concrete historical example: European universities were discovering cures for diseases, but Jews couldn’t enter without converting to Christianity.
The assimilation argument (taken seriously): If staying Jewish means being excluded from contributing to humanity’s progress (e.g., curing cancer), then you’re complicit in that loss. You can’t simply say “they’re the bad guys” — you’re also failing to do good.
Even if you convert, *you* won’t be accepted — you’ll be labeled a “New Christian” and distrusted (as in the Spanish Inquisition). Only your *great-grandchildren* will be fully accepted (even Hitler’s racial categories acknowledged this cutoff at ~4 generations).
This regenerates the earlier question: How much worse should your life become so that your great-grandchildren can flourish?
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Key insight: The person you’re supposedly saving (the great-great-grandchild) is precisely the person with whom you no longer have a real relationship.
Biblical support: Exodus — God visits the sins of fathers upon children “to the third and fourth generation” (*pokeid avon avot al banim al shileshim v’al ribe’im*).
Rashi’s comment: A father’s compassion (*rachamei av*) extends only about 3–4 generations. Beyond that, the emotional and practical bond dissolves.
You and your children/grandchildren share a century, a world, a life. Great-great-grandchildren live in a fundamentally different world. For practical purposes, your great-great-grandchild is not really “yours” — you don’t share a life with them.
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Obligations to descendants are grounded in shared life — actual, lived connection. You have obligations to your children because you share a life with them; the same applies to parents and grandparents. But by the time you reach a great-great-great-grandfather (or great-great-great-grandchild), the connection is effectively nil:
– You don’t share a life, a world, or real experiences with them.
– The genetic/relational share is diluted (e.g., “he only owns 1/128th of me”).
– Therefore, you have no *specific* moral obligation to distant descendants *as your descendants*.
Conclusion: It would be strange to say you should do something specifically so that people you have no real moral connection with will benefit.
The argument is rooted in the idea that moral obligations track closeness — levels of care radiating outward from the self. Being a good person means caring about your children, grandchildren, and perhaps great-grandchildren. Beyond that, care becomes abstract and universal (“citizen of the world”/cosmopolitan), not specifically directed at *your* lineage.
If you care about the world at the cosmopolitan level, the solution to humanity’s problems is universal, not ethnic/familial:
– The Jewish problem (Jewish survival) — solved by working on the particular/family level.
– The human problem — solved by working on the universal level (e.g., “they should stop killing the Jews”).
You *can* work on the universal level beyond the fourth generation, but you cannot frame it as an obligation *to your children* at that point.
> ### Student Challenge and Dialogue
> A student pushes back: Does this mean you should care more about the guy in the next town over than about your great-great-grandchild?
Possibly yes — the person nearby shares more of your actual life and world. Caring about “random guys” is grounded in shared humanity, which is real but abstract. Caring about grandchildren *as grandchildren* (not merely as humans) requires actual shared life — shared family world, real touch, real connection. Sharing a historical period is only minimally interesting (“they interviewed a 106-year-old woman — everything changed”).
Key distinction: “Sharing a world” means sharing the world of a family (real, intimate connection), not merely living in the same time period.
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Abraham had a plan — to fix something for the whole world (or at least his family), but the *tool* for executing this plan was his family/nation (a nation being “just a bigger version of family”). The plan required biological children — when Abraham couldn’t have children, the plan was threatened. It doesn’t work without descendants.
Drawing on the previous week’s class:
– When a person habituates good traits, those habits become second nature — described as the *s’char* (reward) of good actions.
– This same process operates between generations: children receive their parents’ accumulated habits (good and bad) “for free” — through education, living in the household, and possibly genetics.
– Parents see their own bad habits reflected unselfconsciously in their children (since the parent still views themselves as “choosing,” while the child simply *has* the habit as family custom/*minhag*).
Abraham’s plan was to leverage this intergenerational transmission — to slowly cultivate and inoculate good habits across generations, working with human nature’s biological and social mechanisms.
> ### Side Digression: Why Not Students Instead of Children?
> A student asks: why couldn’t Abraham use students? The *midrash* says students are better than children, but that’s *midrash*, not *pshat* (plain meaning). If you want to work with human nature effectively, you should work as closely to biology as possible. “Yitzchak couldn’t marry the midrash” — i.e., practical reality requires biological family.
Any revolution that goes against the family is likely to fail or produce unintended consequences. Effective social change uses human nature as it is, not as we wish it to be (invoking Machiavelli: effective politics requires describing human nature realistically). Therefore, the tool of family, biology, and lineage is the most reliable vehicle for long-term moral/social transformation.
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Abraham realized that without children, the entire plan collapses. His turning to God (in Parshat Lekh Lekha) is interpreted not as a prayer request but as a moment of existential reckoning — an acknowledgment (hashash) that the plan is failing. Abraham says: “You promised me reward, but I don’t even have children” — meaning the divinely-ordained plan (go forth, be blessed, have descendants) was not materializing.
Key interpretive move: When the Torah says “God promised him,” this means *that was the plan* — it was supposed to work *naturally*, not through miraculous intervention. Even if God Himself tells you something, relying on magic rather than natural processes is a bad plan. God created nature so that things should work through it. If your plan is “God will override His own nature to save me,” you are operating in a fundamentally flawed way.
> Side note/clarification: This pushes back against a claim made the previous week that the argument was that Abraham “naturalized everything.” That’s not quite the point — rather, one must understand *how God actually works* (through nature). The alternative reading is labeled a drush (homiletical interpretation), not the pshat (plain meaning).
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Abraham originally had a naïve view — he believed everything would work out perfectly. This naïveté was *necessary*: had Abraham understood from the start how difficult the process would be, he never would have begun. God then corrected Abraham’s understanding, showing him he had made a basic mistake about how such civilizational processes work.
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Abraham’s move from Ur Kasdim/Haran to Canaan is explained strategically:
– In Haran, everyone knew him as “the chutzpadik son of Terach” who broke his father’s idols — no one took him seriously.
– משנה מקום משנה מזל (change your place, change your fortune) — by relocating, he could reinvent himself.
– In the new place, he introduced himself as the founder of a new religion (“Vayikra sham b’shem Hashem El Olam“).
– He began gaining followers (chasidim).
> ### Side Digression: The Meaning of “Getchke”
> A lengthy humorous tangent about translating the Yiddish word getchke (a diminutive, somewhat contemptuous term for an idol/figurine). “Idol” in English carries too much grandeur — a getchke is something small and ridiculous. “Statue” is also too grandiose. Various suggestions (dolls, statues) are rejected. An anecdote about the Elk Club on Kennedy Blvd is shared. The point: Terach’s idols weren’t grand “idols” — they were pathetic getchkelach.
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The mizbeach (altar) Abraham built is reinterpreted: it wasn’t just a heap of rocks in the desert. A mizbeach is a permanent structure — it represents an entire institutional complex: a yeshiva/academy, a temple/worship center, a hospitality center (like a “Chabad house”). Abraham set up a full civilizational infrastructure for teaching his religion and practicing hachnasas orchim (hospitality).
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Sodom is introduced as Abraham’s ideological mirror-opposite — a competing new civilization with a radically different plan:
– Abraham’s model: Kindness, hospitality, open outreach at crossroads, teaching religion to all.
– Sodom’s model: A Spartan society — no mercy, no compassion for the weak, strict meritocracy, self-sufficiency, ruthlessness (“we drink liberal tears”).
Both were new societies with competing visions for civilization.
Lot’s departure from Abraham and settlement in Sodom dramatizes the tension. Lot said “there’s no room for me here” and gravitated toward Sodom, becoming an aristocrat there (yoshev b’sha’ar Sedom). This parallels the bechor (firstborn) dynamic discussed earlier — the ambitious one who breaks away.
Sodom’s great test came when they rebelled against Chedorlaomer (possibly the same adversary Abraham had fled). The Sodomites believed their tough, unforgiving society could defeat this empire — but they couldn’t. Abraham, with only 318 men, succeeded where Sodom failed, saving them only because his nephew Lot happened to be there.
This was Sodom’s greatest humiliation: the rival civilization built on kindness and hospitality proved militarily superior to the one built on ruthlessness.
After the rescue, by the laws of war, everything — Sodom’s people, property, women, children — belonged to Abraham as the victor. (Analogy: this is the same logic by which Israel belongs to God after the Exodus.)
The King of Sodom attempted a face-saving diplomatic maneuver: he offered Abraham the property/money if Abraham would return the people. This was a bluff — the king was in no position to “give” anything, since it all already belonged to Abraham by right of conquest. The king was pretending to negotiate from a position of equality to preserve his honor.
Abraham saw through the trick. If the King had said “we are your slaves, do what you will” (unconditional surrender), Abraham would have won outright. But the King had Malkitzedek (the priest) on his side invoking something like “international law,” so Abraham decided to walk away from the whole thing — take nothing — rather than be cast as the beneficiary of a diplomatic arrangement that distorted the truth. He refused to engage, recognizing that accepting anything would allow the King of Sodom to later claim, “אני העשרתי את אברהם” (“I made Abraham rich”) — thus undermining Abraham’s independence and the integrity of his civilizational project. He stipulated only that his allies still receive their share, since he couldn’t impose his own principles on them.
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The core theological-practical crisis of Abraham’s life:
– The original plan: Come to Canaan, establish a righteous family, build strength (he had 318 warriors who defeated the greatest empire of the age), and live as a growing, self-sustaining righteous community.
– The plan is bankrupt:
– He has no children of his own (with Sarah).
– Attempts at surrogate succession didn’t work.
– Ishmael was “Plan B,” but failed — Ishmael wouldn’t become a *mentch*. Biology matters (50% DNA from the mother — Hagar wasn’t a *tzadeikes*), people have free choice, and Ishmael was sent away with his mother, not raised directly by Abraham.
– The same pattern repeats later with Eisav (Yitzchak’s son).
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This is the central philosophical argument:
– A person’s real influence on descendants is limited to at most four generations, and practically often only one or two.
– Even the best parent/teacher cannot truly shape great-grandchildren. By that point, the original figure becomes a distant abstraction, not a living influence.
The principle extends beyond family: teachers also face this limit.
– We call Moshe Rabbeinu “our teacher for 10,000 generations” — but what does that actually mean? “I don’t get to talk to him.” There is no such thing as being a real teacher across thousands of years in any straightforward sense.
– Sharp contemporary critique: When people say “the Rebbe never died — his Torah is still alive, so it continues forever” — this is a bluff. It works for about one and a half generations. The people who said it also die, never realizing their claim was a “fake false prophecy.” The next generation inherits a *masorah* (tradition) of saying this, and “then we’re all living in a lie.”
– Honest admission: “I don’t actually know that there’s a real solution to this problem.” Each generation probably needs its own living teachers. But there must be *something more* — some strategy the tradition has developed.
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A serious reinterpretation of the Bris Bein HaBesarim (Genesis 15):
– God’s message to Abraham: Your plan of living happily ever after in Canaan with children and grandchildren is nonsense — because your great-grandchildren won’t truly remember who Abraham was, or if they do, it will be in “some weird fake way.”
– The plan was never viable. Abraham lived 24–25 years based on it, but it was never real.
– God proposes a different plan — one not fully understood, but which *at minimum* means: you cannot rely on saving your great-grandchildren through direct personal influence.
– The 400 years of slavery prophesied in the Bris = four cycles of four generations (100 years ≈ the living memory span of one cohort; ×4 = the point where no one remembers the people who remembered the people who remembered the original).
– This maps onto the verse “the fourth generation shall return here” (דור רביעי ישובו הנה) — the same logic that a person’s reach doesn’t extend past the fourth step.
– God’s price for the plan that actually works: For precisely those four generations (the span Abraham cannot control), his descendants will experience the exact opposite of his dream — slavery to a foreign nation with total power over his children.
– After that, a cycle will begin that somehow solves the problem of intergenerational transmission.
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What follows is contrary to the entire lecture’s thesis (that parents shouldn’t over-invest in children because influence fades by the fourth generation). A counter-reading is now introduced:
– The real reason Jews don’t assimilate is not Leo Strauss’s tragic mechanism (perpetual outsider status), but rather the belief that by the fourth generation, Mashiach will come.
– The logic: Why not just become a regular nation? Because it won’t last — by the fourth generation, Mashiach arrives. This is what Hashem told Avraham Avinu.
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A paradox:
– Your influence/legacy only truly begins to operate (or become necessary) in the fourth generation — precisely when natural parental influence dies out.
– The “negative” version: the problem (assimilation, loss of identity) only truly starts at the fourth generation.
– The “positive” version (stated with admitted uncertainty): Abraham was working on something designed to survive beyond the natural course of human generational influence — something that outlasts the great-grandchild horizon.
– Honest admission: “I don’t have a solution. I’m just making the problem vivid so you can absorb it.”
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Connecting to a Midrash discussed in a previous shiur (אם לא צורם מכרם):
– Avraham Avinu is the “source” who sold the Jews into suffering. He had a choice: his children go to Gehinnom, or they suffer in this world under the nations. He chose the latter.
– New layer added: Abraham chose this precisely because of the fourth-generation problem. He was trying to create something that lasts past the fourth generation, where it “starts really working.” The suffering in galus is the cost of that project.
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On Rosh Hashanah we invoke זכור לנו עקידת יצחק — remember the Akeidah for our sake. But the lecture just established that grandparents don’t matter after a few generations. So why should Abraham’s act thousands of years ago matter to us? This is the same problem restated.
The Rambam addresses the theological problem that “nisayon” (test) implies God doesn’t know the outcome:
– Nisayon doesn’t mean “test” — it means publicization (from the root “nes” = banner/sign). The Akeidah is a famous story from which we learn two things:
1. Prophets are absolutely certain of their prophecy. No normal, good person would kill their son unless utterly certain God commanded it. This establishes the reality of prophecy *for the prophet* (not necessarily for anyone else). Since prophecy is foundational to religion, and Abraham founded religion, this is critical.
2. The seriousness of Ahavas Hashem (love of God). Abraham was old, desperately wanted a child, finally had one, and then was willing to sacrifice him — not in a moment of passion but after three days of deliberation. This shows the depth of love of God, done not for reward but purely for love.
The Rambam says we follow Abraham’s true opinions and also imitate his actions. The Akeidah is the supreme example. But we don’t literally perform an Akeidah. The whole point is that it wasn’t carried out. So what does “imitating” it mean?
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The central interpretive claim:
– The Akeidah is essentially the same thing as the Bris Bein HaBesarim (the Covenant Between the Parts, where Abraham was told his descendants would suffer 400 years in exile).
– The Akeidah is a mashal (metaphor/image) for Abraham choosing galus for his children.
– Abraham was trying to solve a problem that transcends the four-generation horizon. To create something that survives past the natural decay of parental influence (past the fourth generation), he had to sacrifice the welfare of the first four generations.
– This means: thinking beyond your children requires a willingness to not care about the immediate generations — symbolized by the willingness to slaughter his own son.
– Literally: Abraham didn’t slaughter Yitzchak, but he did cause Yitzchak to go into galus, Yaakov to suffer, and ultimately — stated starkly — Abraham caused the six million to be killed by Hitler. That is what the Midrash means.
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– Why did Abraham cause all this suffering? Because he was trying to create something that survives the end of the natural generational process.
– This connects to the end/purpose of prophecy and to the infinite limit of Ahavas Hashem, which is what Mashiach represents.
– The Jewish project aims at something where you don’t care about yourself or even your children — because if you work only within the framework of your children, you won’t survive the fifth generation.
– Two ways to frame the same idea:
1. Don’t care about your children because you should care about yourself (the lecture’s earlier thesis).
2. Don’t care about your children because you’re caring about something that transcends all of that — and therefore lasts to the fifth generation and beyond, where salvation comes.
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Abraham did not actually slaughter his son. The real content: Abraham made his descendants go into Mitzrayim (Egypt/slavery). The test is: if you are the kind of people who can survive Mitzrayim, then Abraham’s project — the Abrahamic covenant — can begin to function.
Connection to prior shiur: The Abrahamic project only works if you stop thinking about today and tomorrow — if you can envision beyond the immediate.
A new pshat (interpretation):
– The angelic command “Do not stretch out your hand against the boy” (Genesis 22:12) is not merely the cessation of the test — it is the geulah (redemption) already.
– The second angel who speaks represents the redemptive promise: “I will greatly multiply your seed” (כי הרבה ארבה זרעך).
– The moment of being told to stop — the moment of looking up and beyond the sacrifice — is itself the redemptive moment.
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Half-seriously: “We should blame our forefathers for sticking us in this” — i.e., for committing future generations to a path of suffering and endurance.
Their justification: they believed Moshiach would come after — but not to them personally.
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What is called “the secret” of Moshiach:
– An anecdote: An old Jew came to “the Mordechaim” and asked when Moshiach would come. The answer: “Not in my days, or my children’s, or my grandchildren’s.”
– The principle: Anyone who truly thinks Moshiach will come in his own lifetime has not understood what Moshiach is.
– Moshiach is, by definition, the thing that comes after your grandchild or great-grandchild dies — it is essentially trans-generational, beyond any individual’s horizon.
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A student raises a difficulty: How could the Avos (patriarchs) receive a prophecy that seemingly commanded them to sacrifice or endanger their children?
– This is precisely the question of the Akeidas Yitzchak.
– Answer (partial): Prophecy itself grants the right. If God commands through prophecy, that prophetic authority overrides normal moral reasoning — “Who gave you the right? Prophecy gave you the right.”
– On the second level of understanding prophecy, there is no full explanation for how it works mechanistically. Prophecy is so overwhelmingly clear to the one who receives it that the prophet has no choice — it presents itself as absolute truth. But the *mechanism* by which this certainty operates remains unexplained.
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The Akeidah story is ultimately the story of Jews refusing to assimilate, thereby causing their great-grandchildren either to suffer or to be saved. The only way to work with something that transcends the limitations of a finite process is to work past it — to go beyond it entirely. This is the true meaning of mesiras nefesh (self-sacrifice): not merely risking one life, but transcending the framework of one life, one family, even one generation. The purpose of the Jewish people is not reducible to being “the family” or “the children of” any particular generation.
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The lecture closes candidly:
– “I don’t have a solution. I just tell you the problem.”
– The mechanism by which Abraham’s project actually works past the fourth generation cannot be explained.
– The Rambam’s answer is that prophecy is so overwhelmingly clear to the prophet that he has no choice — he knows it’s true. But this doesn’t constitute an explanation of *how* it works.
– The status of the question remains: The avos received prophecy that required them to, in effect, sacrifice their children — choosing long-term transcendent purpose over immediate generational welfare. The mechanism by which this actually produces salvation remains unexplained.
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1. Why be Jewish? → Because the alternative (being a “Gentile-ish Jew”) is incoherent (Strauss).
2. But multi-generational assimilation? → After enough generations, the problem disappears. Isn’t that worth the short-term cost?
3. Methodological warning: Reverse stupidity is not intelligence — recognizing bias toward Judaism doesn’t make assimilation correct.
4. The cost of being hated: Universal hatred is a diagnostic sign, not a badge of honor. Good people shouldn’t expect to be hated. The “we’re hated because we’re right” narrative is challenged.
5. Moral obligations diminish with generational distance: You share no real life with great-great-grandchildren. Obligations track closeness.
6. Abraham’s plan: Use family/biology as the vehicle for civilizational change through intergenerational habituation.
7. The plan’s crisis: Abraham has no children; surrogates fail; influence is limited to ~4 generations.
8. The Bris Bein HaBesarim: God tells Abraham the plan was never viable as conceived. A new plan requires 400 years of suffering — precisely the span Abraham cannot control.
9. The Akeidah as paradigm: Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice Isaac = his willingness to send his descendants into galus. The Akeidah and the Bris are the same event.
10. Mashiach as the trans-generational horizon: Mashiach by definition comes *after* your great-grandchildren die. The Jewish project requires caring about something beyond any individual’s lifetime.
11. Unresolved: The mechanism by which this actually works remains unexplained. The problem is made vivid, not solved.
Instructor: Okay. Good? Perfect. So like this. First I have to say important המשך [hamshach: continuation] to last week’s shiur [class/lecture], which was really recorded in Yiddish, but you all know Yiddish anyways. And it was like this, and I’m explaining to you also the answer to your question. Remember that you had a question? You had a question that—remember we had a question on Peter—why we should be Jewish and what was the answer that we discussed then. And that it’s that the basic answer is that there’s no other choice, because you can only be a Yiddish [Jewish] Yid or a Goyish [Gentile-ish] Yid, and you might as well be a Yiddish Yid. It’s very sad to be a Goyish Yid, right? Remember? Correct summary?
Then there was a sha’aleh [question] like this, so we could even explain the answer a little better.
Instructor: And we explained, that’s what Leo Strauss said in his article called “Why We Are Still Jews.” There’s a lecture that Leo Strauss gave and it’s called “Why We Are Still Jews.” And he said that there’s a few solutions to the Jewish problem. One of them is genocide, right? Cultural genocide, self-genocide, right? Which is called assimilation, right? Self-cultural genocide. Come on, let’s just stop doing this. Become a normal man. I’ll say it in English: Become normal people.
And the answer to that, the Zionists considered this answer. You know, all the frum [religiously observant] Jews are very weird, because Herzl, he thought of becoming—how about we convert all the Jews to Christianity at one point? And therefore that means that he was really a secret messenger? No, he was going through the logical options and seeing what worked. What’s wrong with that? You’re the weirdo that never considered this option. You should consider it, right?
Then he realized that it’s not a realistic option. Why not? Because you can’t become a goy [non-Jew]. You can become a Jewish goy or a Jewish Jew, however we say it. And that’s very—you said so. Therefore he realized that you have to stay Jewish.
But my point is, that option is not really reasonable.
Instructor: But now there’s a question on this. It *is* reasonable, right? Because if you become a goy, and then for one generation you’re going to be a goy shegoy [a gentile who is gentile-ish], a Yiddish goy, sorry, and you’re going to be a very weird creature, a self-hating Jew. And then, after one generation, two generations, three, four, five, at some point your children won’t remember that they had a Jewish grandfather. And that’s all. Well, you have solved the problem.
So anyone that cares more about the children than about himself should do that. True? Am I asking? Makes sense.
Student: Generations.
Instructor: Yeah, let’s say ten. You think it’s a good argument? I want to ask you if you think it’s a good argument. What do you think? You think it’s a good argument?
Student: What’s the goal of the argument?
Instructor: To be Jewish means that you’re the one that killed Christ, and then it’s not a good situation to be. So therefore you’re going to be—you’re going to be hurt and abused.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Hurt and abused. And just to be clear, hurt and abused—it’s not only a material problem, it’s also a spiritual problem, right? People don’t do well when they’re… It’s not normal, not a good situation to be in.
So therefore the solution—you could, you know, convert to Christianity, might be one way of assimilating, or maybe you shouldn’t do that, because the goyim [non-Jews] in Europe are not Christian anymore, so you should just convert to cultural Christianity, which is called being OTD [Off The Derech: no longer religiously observant]. You have some times, like what we said in the shiur, where you’re just—you’re okay with the questions, it’s fine.
Student: Yes, okay.
Instructor: The argument, the problem was that we’re most of the time we’re in this predicament. Let’s talk about this predicament. We’ll talk about that story.
Instructor: I’m asking you a question about this argument. Forget about this. We could generalize this question, right? If I’m in a situation where I could make my life not much better, slightly better, but my great-great-grandchildren’s life will be entirely solved a certain problem—so should I do it? Is the correct thing to do that? You think of course. Why?
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: Explain.
Let’s flip it around with this. We don’t have any emotional attachment to this. Let’s say this Christian guy always gets abused by the Jews or by the Muslims or whatever. Would you tell him, okay, just be an ost-Christian [former Christian], just become an am ha’aretz [ignoramus/common person]. And like this, maybe you’re still going to be like those, a bit hurt here and there. But three generations, you’re a selfless guy, right? You’re interested in… Fuck it, you’re selfish even, right? You’re interested that your children should have a life in this world, your grandchildren. Yeah, of course, everyone tells the other. Meaning, me, the Taryag [613 commandments], with the zecher [memory], with all the Christians. You would say that.
For the Christian guy, sure, right? Just doing this, attached to my Judaism, whatever, so then I have these weird, big-easy thoughts. I don’t think.
Student: Okay, so then, I don’t know. I don’t think.
Instructor: First, to be clear, it’s not a costless thing. If it’s costless, then why not? Not costless, right? There’s a cost to you, right? You’re so sure that you should pay any cost, so your great-great-great-grandchild—wait, takes at least four generations. So your great-great-grandchild should have a better life, and you’re paying any cost, you’ll ruin your life to whichever extent you want because of that. Is that correct? What’s your argument? You’re giving up your life, so you’re great. You’re ruining your life. You’re going to have a really sad, messed up life, also your great-great-grandchild should have a slightly better life. That’s the trade that you just said you should do.
Student: We’re here in a nice school and they were just chillin’ and we’re thinking about things, and but you’re only thinking about that you told me about we say it’s coming through the blocks and murdering all of you and whatever. I think there’s—yes, there’s that thought like, it’s pretty okay to give up on this geshmak [pleasant/enjoyable] life, or what type of sacrifice is it compared to real torture and death and all that? You’re giving up a good life for that.
Instructor: What good life?
Student: Well, it’s a good life now. You’re living a good life. You’re living a…
Instructor: Yeah, now. But then we’re not talking about assimilating. Again, remember that whenever we say good life, we are including morally good, because there isn’t really such a thing as discussing material good without moral good or spiritual good. There’s some moral good or intellectual good or spiritual good that we’re talking about also. That should be a contemplation. There’s a trade-off. It’s slightly less. They never killed someone that was morally good in Aristotle’s world, right? They killed people that were hidden, that kept the Torah of Jesus. In their way, that was their way for being good. You want them to give up. They should be bad. In other words, their great-grandchildren should have a chance at being different, having different problems, basically, right?
You’re acting like you’re very sure. I don’t know. You’re very sure of one side because you think that because you were agreeing with the other side, because if you have negi’us [bias/vested interest], therefore the other side is very clear. It’s not very clear. Not very clear.
Student: No, I’m just defogging it that way.
Instructor: No, you’re not. You’re actually adding fog by doing that.
Student: Okay, how?
Instructor: This is a whole other sha’aleh. A whole other side. But you should know, you saw this. Shmueli, if someone—there’s an argument that goes like this, a very important argument. It’s written about already in one of my writings that I wrote and sent in the beginning of the year, I think, or last year, when I was trying to make my weekly ma’amar [essay/discourse].
It said like this: Many people think that when they support their own side, so to speak, in religion or nationalism or something like that, where there’s a very clear group side—so they say, well, I’m only agreeing to this because it’s my side, and I’ll accept any bad argument for it, right? I’m not worried about things like this, for example. And therefore they say that probably most of the things that I believe or that I agree with when they’re arguing to this side are just because of that very strong bias that I have towards it.
And they talk about this a lot, about this problem, and they think that talking about this problem a lot and saying “well, what if you would have been a Palestinian, what would you have thought?”—that that gives them clarity of thought, that gives them an unbiased clear view from nowhere, right, from objectivity on the reality. And I think very seriously, very seriously, that that’s not correct.
In other words, because you remember, Eliezer Yudkowsky said, “Reverse stupidity is not intelligence,” right? He said, if there’s a weather vane—you know what’s a weather vane? Let’s get from Eliezer Yudkowsky. Okay, what’s that? A weather vane, like this chicken, this rooster on the top of the house that tells you which way the wind is blowing, right?
But if you have a broken one, it’s still useful. Because broken just means that whatever it says west, it’s really east. And when it says east, it’s really west. So reverse weather vane is really as useful as a correct one. Like that guy that said, “How do you know that’s da’as Torah [Torah knowledge/wisdom]? That’s there, is the opposite of that.” “What about them?” So you ask about the ba’al habayis [homeowner/layperson], and he tells you that, and you do the opposite, right? That’s—or like a Litvak [Lithuanian Jew]. A guy once said, “If I don’t know what to do, yes, let’s fucking do exactly that.”
That would have been true if the world—if reverse stupidity would have been intelligence. The problem is that it doesn’t work like that. Why? Remember what Aristotle said? There’s only one truth, and there’s many, many ways to be wrong. Remember what Tolstoy said, right? There’s one way to be happy and many, many ways to be sad. Remember? Remember?
Instructor: Which references am I going to make you know? How is this going to work? All happy families are happy in the same way. All unhappy families are unhappy in different ways. That’s the beginning of Anna Karenina. One of the most famous opening lines in literature. You should know about it.
Anyways, but that’s all based on this basic thought from Aristotle. That there’s many ways to be bad and not many ways to be good. That was one of his arguments for why the good should be the middle way. Remember?
And Aristotle said that this is a Pythagorean thought, because the Pythagoreans said that the one is on the side of the good, and the many and the varied and the unequal and so on, and the even, because odd is one and even is two, so even numbers are the bad ones according to Pythagoras. So those are the side of the bad.
Student: Zygus [zugos: Greek term meaning “yoked” or “paired,” referring to even numbers].
Instructor: Yeah, Zygus. We talked about this. I know. Not with you? Someone? Yeah, Zygus, exactly. Zygus are bad, because Zygus means that there’s two, there’s duality. Duality is bad.
Instructor: So because at least there’s at least two ways to be bad there’s never something because of this just to go back because of this when someone says tell you something stupid doing the opposite of that is very like is more likely to be another stupid thing than to be the correct thing stemmed math works out.
Therefore when you say I am biased by believing my side of the story therefore I should be not biased and give a lot of weight at least not saying believing nobody says I’m just gonna believe but I’m gonna give a lot of way to the other side of the story, that has more chances of being stupidity than it has of being truth. Very important, this is true. Think about it and say, I’m not going to argue with you about this because you don’t realize. So I’m telling it to you.
Student: I’m a spectrum, it’s a triangle. I agree, but I don’t think in this instance it’s that way.
Instructor: No, I’m just telling you that you made that argument. Instead of making an actual argument why it’s better, you said, let me give you the opposite story or a different story and when you do whenever someone does that I have to assume that they’re making it more confused instead of more or just as confused instead of clarifying anything because I don’t see how you clarify anything.
I could see there’s a question here what to do and he said well you would have obviously no I would not have obviously there would be the same question or there’s the same question of you didn’t stop anything by reversing the story nothing I get it and you didn’t say what you you didn’t solve there’s a real question and you pretended that it’s not a real question and you said it’s not a real question because if you would have been on the other side you would have said the opposite which is not correct there is a real question and the same real question you didn’t make the real question less.
Sometimes someone is looking at the question the wrong way and you give them an opposite example or something and you see that everyone agrees that one but it’s not true that everyone agrees with that you just made that assumption because you made the very strong assumption that the reason why someone would agree with the other side is because they’re on that side but that’s not correct there’s a real question so reversing which side you’re on doesn’t solve mostly any anything and doesn’t solve anything here either.
Instructor: So let’s go back to where we are it doesn’t solve anything here either it’s not obvious at all that someone should make their life worse because their great-grandchild that should be better in any way is that very not obvious.
Student: Why is it worse for him?
Instructor: It’s worse that was the question oh we were assuming again we were assuming that it’s worse if you think it’s not worth that’s a different question it’s be better for you too. We’re saying it’s going to be worse for you, but for your great-grandchild you’ll be better. That was the facts of the question that we laid out. That fact wasn’t the question. That fact was just the background fact that we’re assuming for this question to even begin.
We said, you’re going to have a bad life because assimilation doesn’t actually work in one generation. No assimilation does. That’s just how human nature is. I don’t think this is something that Jews believe specifically. Everyone believes that. You know people that go to a different country many often agree that they’re having they’re making life worse for themselves they’re doing I’m doing it for my kids right.
Okay so doing it for your children is one thing but if you’re doing it for your great great grandchildren is another thing and even doing it for your children is not actually as simple as as it seems to be for many reasons which we could talk about if you think if you want to and if I don’t think this is I don’t think this is a simple question if you should.
Instructor: To me the the first question is such a situation does the person need to become a bad person in order for their grandchildren to be good if he’s actually becoming a bad person then he probably shouldn’t at all I agree they’re just trying to I’m trying I’m trying to think about the question.
Student: Yeah why does it what does it equal you start off with Leo Strauss again let’s go in.
Instructor: I was getting to a different question yes right you started with Leo Strauss saying that neutral what you all said, that we could assimilate, but we will not work in one generation, and therefore we shouldn’t. And basically, I don’t remember if he said, but let’s take this story. You’re saying basically, and you shouldn’t.
Now, my question to you is, what is the issue that he said, let’s assimilate? In other words, why is that to have a minute?
Student: Because we’re going to solve the Jewish problem.
Instructor: What’s the Jewish problem?
Student: That everyone hates us.
Instructor: I think that’s basically the problem. And there’s no use. Like, I’m being the guy that everyone hates. It’s not a good situation. That’s what I said. And we get abused, right? We get hurt, we get killed. It’s bad. It’s bad. If everyone just hates us, then nothing ever happens.
Student: No, no, no, no. It means that we get hurt.
Instructor: No, no, it’s bad. It’s bad even if nothing happens. It’s bad. Just to be clear, adding parts of hurt, they’re not going to solve your problem. So then it’s not a sacrifice. In other words, okay, so everyone hates me, fine.
Student: No, it’s not. You think that it’s fine. It’s not fine.
Instructor: It’s not fine. It’s not fine. Why? It’s not fine. I’m making this assumption. I can’t give it. That’s a fourth sheet. It’s not fine. It’s not fine.
Instructor: By the way, if they hate you, it’s probably because there’s something wrong with you. Let’s be real. Usually people hate something that’s hurting them or somehow something is wrong with you. Why would you be that guy that everyone hates? Something is wrong. It’s a sign that something went wrong, right? Everyone agrees with that.
Student: I think most of the world would hate the philosopher type, but there’s nothing wrong with them.
Instructor: By the way, there is definitely something wrong with them. The first philosopher called Plato or Socrates wrote a book to talking about this problem. Maybe more than one book talking about this problem. He thought it was a problem. Okay?
If you’re if everyone hates you you’re probably not as good as you think you are. Yeah, I think we’re very used to this. We’re way too used to this idea that everyone hates us and we’re the best. I don’t think that’s a reasonable stable stable belief. It might be true. I’m not saying it’s impossible that should be the case, but it should cause you to stop and think.
Student: Is the reverse true also? If everyone likes you, then you’re good?
Instructor: No, not a proof, but it’s not a reason to be concerned. I mean, maybe if it is, if you have a very perverse thought that everyone is wrong, so if everyone likes you, then again, but that’s again the reverse stupidity problem, right?
Student: It is, but it’s also a little bit showing that that’s not the measuring tape.
Instructor: No, it’s not. Nobody said it is, but it’s a sign.
Student: Is it?
Instructor: Yeah, pretty sure it is. I think that if you think it’s not a sign, there’s something wrong with you.
Student: No. Now you’re saying…
Instructor: No, I’m doing psychological pressure on you. Now you’re saying, like, fuck, how low it is.
Student: No, no, no. I’m talking about…
Instructor: Yeah, it’s not a fact. I’m starting from there. In… Okay, let’s get back to where we were. I have to say a sheet, right? So, I was saying that there’s an assumption that says that…
Instructor: Are good people hated by bad people? Or not usually? No, why should good people be hated? That’s such a weird idea.
Student: You good people are why?
Instructor: No good people means people that make things better right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Okay so if you’re making things better why would anyone be against that?
Student: You’re making it worse for the bad people.
Instructor: So you’re not actually making things better. So you’re not actually making things better are you? You’re making bad people worse. Are you making the bad people worse or better? Things better for them or worse for them? Those are two different questions. Very good. Even punishment is supposed to be good for the bad people, not the bad people.
Student: I can imagine the bad person hating.
Instructor: Yeah, that’s another one of the excuses that you’re saying. I can be jealous. He’s jealous of a good person. He makes everything good around him. I don’t think that’s correct. I think that if a good person makes you jealous, something wrong with the good person.
Student: Would you say that a bad person is someone who hates what might be good for them?
Instructor: It’s weird, though. Like, because you have to think of the… You remember Zachary’s… Now I’m just repeating Zachary’s kind of arguments. But if you remember, like, patients almost never hate doctors, even when the doctors do things that they hate. Right?
Because doctors are people that try to make you more healthy, which is a kind of good thing. And the doctor might tell you you’ve got to take a… Even if the doctor gets you very annoyed, you have to go on a diet and you have to stop smoking and stop doing all the nonsense that you’re doing and the guy says, thank you very much and then he doesn’t listen. But very few people go around hating doctors besides for our health secretary or whatever. But it’s a very weird… Most people, even he doesn’t like it. He’s just saying, okay, whatever. Right?
So it’s not obviously… We’re very used to very weird ideas. We have to get out of these weird habits of thought. We’re very used to thinking that if you’re right, you should expect everyone to hate you. Why? Why would that? Maybe you’re stupid. What’s going on here?
Student: No, I don’t think you’re necessarily hated by everybody. I think you should be liked by most people.
Instructor: [Continues to next section]
Instructor: Exactly. I don’t understand that either. Well, not only by a bad person. I’ll just give you the example of a doctor. Doctors are about making bad people better, by hurtful ways often, by being against you, and nobody hates them. Right.
Student: What I think is different about medicine is that you trust the doctor.
Instructor: So why couldn’t you get the people to trust you? You’re not all that smart after all, are you?
Student: I don’t believe that the truth is closer to their reach than they…
Instructor: You can’t teach?
Student: No, I’d say it’s more in their reach than… Everyone agrees that what health is?
Instructor: I think people trust doctors because they don’t believe that they know the answer.
Student: The issue is that a bad person might think that he knows the answer.
Instructor: I can see somebody hating or despising a certain doctor that he believes is as irresponsible as they have a difference of opinion than him. I think he believes he’s a qualified medical professional.
Student: Okay, so you’re saying that it’s harder to teach.
Instructor: It shouldn’t be impossible.
Student: No, no, no, you have to…
Instructor: That you’re a bad teacher.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: That’s what teaching is, right?
Student: Yeah, but until then you’re hated. Until you write the Shesh [possibly referring to *Shulchan Aruch*, the authoritative code of Jewish law].
Instructor: It should be expected. Maybe you should be hated if you’re doing a bad job at teaching.
Student: Hopefully there are some people who hated Socrates before they met him.
Instructor: Maybe because he was a bad teacher.
Student: Or maybe because they were pattern matching him to bad teachers.
Instructor: This is the argument that Plato actually makes in the *Republic* [Plato’s foundational work on justice and the ideal state]. He said that people hate philosophers because most of the philosophers they meet are actually bad people.
Student: It’s one way that, yeah, one way you can hate somebody by association.
Instructor: Okay, so now that’s not hating me. I’m saying to someone else that you were mistaken for me.
Student: Okay, still a way.
Instructor: And they’re right for hating me in that sense, right? They just have mistaken object, like mistaken…
Student: Okay, but then…
Instructor: Okay, all I’m getting at is that we’re way too comfortable with the idea that because we’re right, we’re hated. You should not be so comfortable with it. There’s something very weird with that, and I don’t think it’s generally the case. I think that in most cases people are pretty happy for people to correct them and so on if there’s some weird areas in which this is not the case you should figure out why and also you should figure out how to be a better teacher because there’s no point in being right.
Maybe the true—maybe the reason people sometimes hate people who are right is because those people have responsibility to teach them and they’re doing the opposite of teaching them. They’re making them hate them. And their job should be to love them. And you say, well, in between, they’re going to hate them. Of course, in between, don’t teach them. Who asked you to try to teach something impossible? The point of that. Who did you help now? How did you make anything better?
Maybe you should be kept a secret. Maybe you should just close your mouth and wait for the people to be ready. Or maybe you should figure out some weird, subversive way to teach that people don’t realize that you’re against them until it’s too late. I don’t know. These are real questions.
Instructor: Why is being hated such a bogeyman story? Meaning, in a certain sense, we should do this the other way also. Meaning, if we find out that *tzaddikim* [righteous people] are hated, there’s a good chance that we should just put them in a *shoe* [possibly *cherem*, excommunication, or a colloquial term for isolation/punishment].
Student: Yeah, that’s my argument.
Instructor: Probably, look, we’re living in a world where we don’t know much. We don’t know much about what is good, about what to live, what is true, through what is beautiful, how to live, right? We’re living off signs. You can’t disregard a very major sign, which is, everyone is against you, you should at least take that as a serious argument.
And besides for it being a serious argument that you should think that maybe you’re doing something wrong, it’s also a serious hindrance to making progress in anything, to having a good life, just to be clear. Not only because they’re going to… I mean, also because of that.
Instructor: Like a big part of human—humans, the way humans work is like cooperation with other humans. And if they’re not going to let you into their schools and not going to do business with you, I’m not going to cooperate with you, we’re not going to marry with you or you’re not going to marry with them, then you’re going to have a harder time doing the kind of human flourishing that humans do. Humans need other humans to live, right?
You can say, well, I’m going to live by myself. Okay, so that means you’re cutting yourself off from 90% of the good of humanity, right?
Instructor: Like the very concrete way of saying this is: in Europe in our universities we’re discovering the cure for cancer. Unfortunately they don’t accept you into university if you don’t convert to Christianity. Therefore you’re being very nice—good you—by not being a good person and not discovering the cure for cancer, right?
Therefore the answer is you should convert to Christianity. This is the argument for assimilation. It’s a very serious argument. And say, well, they’re the weird bad guys. Okay, so they are, but you’re also a bad guy now. You should be curing cancer and meanwhile you’re fine.
Student: For think of I guess cautious. I mean that’s also a good thing to do maybe that could just do that so why don’t you let them into issue.
Instructor: Same, same problem.
Student: I’m not let it can stay here okay so.
Instructor: Or this tower that one of the answers were—we were discussing or one of the arguments were discussing was that you cannot do it because this is not gonna work. Might work for your great grandchildren. And therefore we got to a question which is: how much worse should he become in order for your great-grandchildren to be better? You think it’s very obvious that you should become worse, but I don’t think it’s…
Student: But before you just made it clear that it’s not so positive that we’re becoming worse, because we’re the ones that are, let’s say, going against finding cancer.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that’s the problem. But right now you’re not going to—the continuation of that argument would be that your great grandchild will start finding a cure for cancer, not you, because they’re still not going to let you into their university because they’re going to say, yeah, you’re a, how’s it called? You’re a new Christian, right? We don’t really trust the new Christians. Right?
That’s the story of the Spanish Inquisition, right? We don’t trust these guys that converted yesterday in order to get a job in the university. We know exactly why they converted. They’re not buying us, right? Their great-grandchildren we’ll trust because even Hitler agrees that they’re not Jewish anymore. Right?
By the way, how much worse should I make my life to save my great-grandchild from Hitler?
Student: Infinitely worse.
Instructor: Yeah? I don’t know. You can ask… What’s his name? You could ask Bentham [Jeremy Bentham, founder of utilitarianism] to calculate the quality of life years or something and figure out which one gives you more utilitarian points.
Student: Is there a difference between child and great-grandchild?
Instructor: Yes, there’s a difference.
Student: Yeah, there’s a difference, I agree.
Instructor: But we’re assuming that it’s your great-grandchild, very purposely, or very realistically, right? And for the case that we’re considering.
Student: Not going to solve your child’s problems either.
Instructor: I think that there’s a very interesting loop here, which is that you’re only going to be able to save the people you don’t have an obligation to anymore.
Student: I’m thinking that this might solve the problem.
Instructor: Why?
Student: Because who is the person you’re planning to save? Precisely the one who has no relationship to you anymore, right?
Instructor: What’s the—the Torah says God remembers the father’s sins for three or four generations, right? [*Pokeid avon avot al banim al shileshim v’al ribe’im* – Exodus 34:7] Which is a way of saying grandchildren are great-grandchildren, right? It says, a grandfather doesn’t really care about the great-great-grandchildren. If anyone’s ever had a great-great-grandfather, have you? You should know that.
Do you have a great-great-grandfather?
Student: No?
Instructor: Look around, what? I know some people who have great-great-grandchildren. They don’t really care for them. Okay, it’s way too far from you. It’s like your great-grandchildren’s children. Seriously, you might—you’re 90 by the time it comes around, right? You’re like on the way out, right? They’re on the way in, right? And it’s not like really—it’s not going to work. Yeah, it’s cool. Again, you can get a nice picture out of it. I think I read an article in the Times about it, but not much more, right?
Because that guy is going to grow up in a different world than you. That’s basically the point, right? The point is me and my children, my grandchildren, sometimes my great-grandchildren share a world. We share a century, like we share a life in some sense. My great-great-grandchildren, my great-great-great-grandchildren, we don’t live in the same world. For practical purposes, I’m not his great-grandfather. I’m not his parent.
And even Hitler understood this, right? Remember? That was his rule, more or less.
Student: No, it was something like four or five.
Instructor: In any case, it’s the same idea, right? At some point, you stop.
Student: Exactly. He’s like, I’ll try to kill you.
Instructor: Yeah, anyways, you get my point, right? So I think that it would be very… Now, it depends what your theory of moral obligation is, right? But my theory would be based on actual relationships.
Instructor: You have an obligation to your children precisely because they share a life with you and you’re responsible for them and so on. That’s why you have an obligation to them, right? You should care about your father, your grandfather, and so on and the other way around because you share a life with them. Your great-great-great-grandfather, I don’t know, I have a tzavul [obligation] for my great-great-great-grandfather to do something. So, he doesn’t talk to me. I don’t care. If he left me money, maybe. Otherwise I don’t care. I don’t share any—I don’t have any real obligation to him, right? I have obligation to other people just as much in his generation just as much as I have to him, more or less. I also have so many that get diluted, right? He also only owns 1/128th of me, right? At that point not really interesting.
So therefore I don’t have obligation to him. So now it would be very weird to say you should do something in order that the precise people who you stop having a moral connection with should have a better life.
Instructor: I have a very amazing follow-up to this. Not contractarian. I mean, it’s based on the thought that you have obligation to, like closeness, right? Like levels of care, right? Order of love, like our vice president said, right?
Student: Yeah, but these things should, part of them is that these things should come forth from you being a good person, right?
Instructor: Yeah, a good person is someone who cares about his children and his grandchildren and his great-grandchildren. You care about the whole world in some abstract sense or in some real sense. You become a citizen of the world, right, cosmopolitan, but not specifically your grandchildren.
Now, if you care about the world, the solution to the world’s problem is not for the Jews to stop existing. That’s the solution to the Jews’ problems. The solution to the world’s problem is that they should stop killing the Jews. Then you work on a universal level. I agree that you could work on a universal level, on the cosmopolitan level, national level, beyond your fourth generation but not on the your level. It’s not an obligation to your children at this point.
And also, yeah, the one who will come to your funeral you should take care of them. The one who won’t come because they’ll be babies or you’re gonna be dead before they’re at it, before they’re born—why would you help them? Not why you shouldn’t, like you don’t have any specific obligation to them.
Student: Do you have more of an obligation to the guy that lives in the next town over?
Instructor: No, the further you walk from the table, also I have less obligation.
Student: What? You didn’t even hear.
Instructor: Oh. No.
Student: No, do you have less of an obligation to your [great-great-grandchild], than to the guy that lives right now in the next town over?
Instructor: I don’t know.
Student: [Inaudible] figure out different question why—
Instructor: Why? Because as a human however you’re saying it’s like we care about the society around us whatever, right? It would seem that you would follow this argument is that we should care about the guy next door, for sure next door, but the guy, even the next time over, more than your great-great-grandchild.
Student: Possibly. I don’t know. It seems like a weird question, but why are you getting that?
Instructor: Because that’s what follows from your argument.
Student: Okay, and therefore, okay, I don’t know, but I don’t see what’s the problem, and if yes—
Instructor: If no, then I don’t understand the whole thing. If yes, then okay, so you’re saying a very big chiddush [novel insight], that a person should care more about a random guy—
Student: I don’t know for sure but I don’t see what would be a problem for why should I care about a random guy. I don’t think you should care about random guys at all. Why would you care about random guys? You mean fellow humans? Very nice. We share something called humanity. To the extent that that’s relevant I should care about—I don’t—I don’t see red—I don’t know. But me man more when you and you asked me to care about my grandchildren as my grandchildren, not as humans, right?
Instructor: Just told you as humans I have this better plans for solving human racist problems, right? Now we’re selling the Jewish problem, not the human problem, right?
Student: Why not? Of course I do not—so they’re human so we share humanity we do share—
Instructor: You don’t share a life with them, you don’t share a world with them, you don’t share anything with them, in a human way, you have views and you have experiences.
Student: No, no, these are different things. When I say a world, I mean the world of a family, not a world living in the same period. That’s not very interesting, and some little interesting, but not that interesting, I don’t think. There’s real connections, right? There’s real touch. If I’m in a family with someone, I share a life in a very real way. If I share a life in an abstract way we’ll both read the same newspaper on the same day, okay, I guess there’s some connection there. I don’t know how much.
They interviewed like a woman who was like 106 and they asked her like what changed? Everything. Yeah, it’s not the same world. Yeah, everything. What stayed the same?
The thing is I want to get to something. I want to say something interesting thing here. I’m gonna get to somewhere.
Instructor: There’s [a person]—his name was Abraham, heard of him? The last name was Avinu [our father]. And he had a plan, that’s what the Rambam [Maimonides] says at least. He had a plan to do something for who? Who do you want to do something for? I’m not sure either for the whole world or at least for his family. Okay, I’m not sure. I think for the whole world are going to the number [according to the Rambam]. But it entailed working by that with the tool of his family, okay? Or we call it a nation which is just a bigger version of family.
But listen to the story. And then turned out that he wasn’t having any children and he decided for some reason and he thought that not having children destroys the plan. It doesn’t work. It destroys the plan. The way his plan was going to work was by having children.
And since, remember from last week’s class in Boro Park, that just like when a person does, habituates himself, he creates habits in himself which are sometimes said to be the reward of his good actions. They’re not anymore a choice. They’re already the reward. They’re the s’char [reward] already.
In the same way, this happens between generations also, right? If you train your family in a certain way, your children, by receiving your education, not only by age, maybe also by receiving your genes, but probably mostly by living in your house, receive your things that you worked on for free. True?
So parents are very upset at their children, because they show them how all the bad habits that you accumulated they just get for free. The good ones too, but those you’re happy with. They also notice some bad ones that you will pretend that you don’t have because you always see yourself as a person who chooses. So I don’t have the bad habit of always overeating. I am just the guy that happens to be doing that. It turns out that you already have that and your children’s trying you—they’re just doing it not by choice, just by this is what the meaning in our family is, all right?
So this Abraham, his plan was to work with this system, distant part of human nature. And since he identified a whole bunch of issues with human nature and decided he grew up with and so on, he realized he decided it’s going to have these people, this family which will slowly pick and inoculate, right? Habituate habits, good habits in his children. Unfortunately it only works if you have children.
Student: What about students? Seems like you didn’t really believe in those. It’s a good question why, but I think because if you think of working with human nature you should try to work as closely to biology as possible, I think.
Instructor: You know that everyone thinks that students are better than children. It says in the midrash [rabbinic commentary]. But that’s a matter just—that’s not pshat [the plain meaning], you know. Like, Yitzchak [Isaac] couldn’t marry the midrash. Yeah?
Yeah, if you want to actually work, you should work with biology. It’s always a good idea. As much as you can go and not go against biology, you should. General rule of social change, social revolutions. If your revolution, any time someone says, we’re having a revolution, it’s going to be against the family, that’s probably not going to work. Or it’s going to work, but it’s going to do the opposite than what you think you’re doing and so on.
If you’re having a revolution, we’re going to use every part of human nature the way it is, not the way we think it should be, right? Like Machiavelli said, you can’t be an effective politician if you’re talking about human nature always how it should be, right? You describe your nature as it is and use that. That’s going to probably raise your chances of success. Make sense? Everyone’s masking, okay?
Therefore you should probably use this thing called family, biology, lineage, right? Make sense?
I guess, okay. I thought you all don’t agree with this, but I’m not a patient to figure out to explain to you why you don’t, the way that we don’t agree. So sounds like the way I just told it to you, you agree, so let’s move on.
Instructor: So let’s move on. Anyway, since this was the plan, he realized that he doesn’t have children, it’s not going to work. So he came to God, which means what? Speaking to God doesn’t mean, hey, you could solve my problems, how about you solve this one? It means, the truth is, this whole plan is falling apart, right?
And he said to God, but just left look all right he said you’ve promised me reward but that is fake news not happening I don’t even have children God means that was his plan of course I was this plan he’s working his whole life for this I was gonna be his reward right it says lack of over at [לך לך: “go forth” – the opening words of God’s command to Abraham] and you will have children and so on, right?
Meaning he did the Machiavellian problem. What do you mean the problem? When it says that God promised him that, it means that that was the plan, right? It wasn’t the plan magic, God was going to do it, it was going to work naturally, right? If you’re relying on magic, even if God himself tells you, not a good plan. Even God himself made nature so things would work, right? If your plan is God is going to save you from the world he made, you’re working in a very messed up way.
Student: This is because people said last week that I may hope shatav [I may have naturalized] and I’ve only made everything naturalized. I don’t think that’s true. I think you have to understand how God actually works.
Instructor: But chanshan sakre [a different matter] for that drusha [homiletical interpretation]. No, that’s different. That’s a third drusha. A fifth drusha. We’re up to a long list of other drushas.
The point is, he came and he said, this is not working. V’heneh v’embeisi ereshoysi [והנה בן ביתי יורש אותי: “and behold, my steward will inherit me”], right? My student or my manager, whatever exactly it means, he’s going to inherit everything and he’s going to do whatever he wants frankly is not going to be my plan this is not my reward all right so what did Hashem [God] say told him what this means is right or we’re reading it so he thought we thought this plan he realized some told him that he didn’t understand the process correctly he was making a basic mistake.
Now these kind of things work up until this moment he had a very naive one he probably had to have that because if he wouldn’t have had that he would never have started the plants to begin with he really believed that this is all going to work out perfectly live happily ever after going to go and burn humanoids whatever break his father’s uh catch this over there how do you say getch [געטשקע: Yiddish for idol/figurine] in english?
Student: Yeah idols getch kisses idols right tell them tell that to someone else.
Instructor: It’s not the same thing. It doesn’t mean the same thing. It’s a bad translation. A gechke. What?
Student: American idol is American gechke?
Instructor: Trachteraan [think about it]. Oh my goodness. What is it called? It’s called a word that has two meanings. Idol is a sense of grandiosity that gechke doesn’t have. Exactly. There’s differences. Idol is a good thing. It sounds better than gechke, for sure. The truth of it weren’t idols. There were a couple of gechke left, you know?
Student: Statues.
Instructor: Statues also so grandiose a gechke is a gechke a statue is a statue it’s not a gechke a gechke a statue not every statue is a gechke that’s true is that like my brother there used to be there used to be the club over there next to my parents house and Kennedy Bilvard [Kennedy Boulevard] and we used to call it the gechke with the big deer the L club [Elk Club] but it’s not a gechke it’s just a statue of a deer no gechke going on there.
Instructor: I guess you know he’s going to break the catch kiss that’s a cute mistranslation but it’s not a translation right so the kids said he was gonna do that and then he was gonna start convincing everyone that he’s right and then he’s gonna move away because this is not a good place to raise your children in this hood on place or wherever he came from he caused it they’re a good place they’re up they’re going to go to a new place where nobody knows who he is he’s going to reinvent himself right you can tell everyone who are you and i can say i’m the son of theta i’m saying i’m abraham the founder of the new religion and couldn’t they all laugh at him yeah i know we know we know exactly where you are the kids but the son of data right that’s why you have to move away because you have a new story right who are you ah you’re the magician that broke the yeah and then you had arguments also and i have a plan now you’re going to change the world yeah sure.
That wasn’t that to work. So he went to a new place, and he introduced himself, everyone that says a putzik [a fool/simpleton]. And he introduced himself, I’m the guy creating the new religion. Ah, interesting plan. Started to work, right? He started getting chassidim [followers/disciples]. And, but his real plan was that, like I said in the beginning, his plan wasn’t just to allow the chassidim, the chassidim are needed, you know, to pay for the family. But, I don’t know why. But, his plan, and his plan was to create a family, right?
He happened to have been against that. Who was against that? Avraham. He didn’t want anyone to say, I’ll give him a deal. No, not the misnagdim [opponents]. The day of misnagdim, remember the whole story of Saddam [Sodom]. Saddam was the primary misnagdim of Avraham, right? He came to, there was Nimrod, whoever, I don’t know, whoever, he doesn’t say his name really in the title, whatever the guy was that was against Avraham, he ran away from him, he went to Canaan, right?
Then he went in the canal and he was making his own thing, an eye, and he says exactly the location. He created it in Mezbech [מזבח: altar], right? Mezbech just means, right? What’s in Mezbech? He even showed Mezbech. He would imagine, like, he ran from, like, we find it, he go to Israel, some random box of rocks in the desert in Mezbech. That’s not what it means, right?
Mezbech is a permanent structure. Mezbech means he set up a temple, right? That’s really what it means, right? Mezbech means literally an altar, but he set up, it means there’s a whole culture, Like, he set up his yeshiva [academy], his academy, his temple, his worship center, his Abraham’s hospitality suite, right? Where they did the Echad HaZarchim [הכנסת אורחים: hospitality to guests] and Chabad House. And they taught everyone about Yiddishkeit [Judaism]. Abraham, of course. Right? That’s what he did, right? And that’s who he was.
Now, Saddam, they were the exact people that had a different plan for civilization, right? They also had a new city, somehow. They had their own rules. They were like Sparta, you know? They’re going to have their own very successful city. But they had the exact opposite plan. They were there always just to snag them [misnagdim: opponents]. That’s why Lloyd [Lot], that’s the whole story with Lloyd. That’s the drama with him, right?
Lloyd said, oh, there’s no room for me here. Okay, you know what? Somehow I ended up in Sadaim [Sodom]. And then it turns out that they needed Avram to save them, which is a very great humiliation, right? Groyser Lloyd [great Lot], Groyser, this is the story of the Ben Rusha [the wicked son], right? Same story, right? Groyser Lloyd was like, look, there’s no room for us. You know something? I’ll expand on my own. But yeah, that’s Sadaim. Go away.
And turns out to become friendly with the king of Sodom obviously he was aristocrat and so on he was Yosef Bashar Sodom [יושב בשער סדום: sitting in the gate of Sodom – indicating a position of authority] and then turns out before that already turns out that they got these great upstarts who got into a fight with Kedarlah Omer [Chedorlaomer] maybe the guy that Abraham was in a fight with too but in any case he was much stronger than them.
And they thought they were going to be able to stand up to him where the new and revised palace we have this great city where we don’t have Rachmaninoffs [compassion], we do everything in a Spartan way, we treat everyone, we make sure to treat everyone by what they deserve, we don’t give, we have Rachmaninoffs on the weak people, we don’t live with, you know, we drink liberal tears, we take care that everyone should be strong and unforgiving, and we’re definitely going to be able to win this guy from the East who thinks that he can own everyone, right, this empire.
Turns out they couldn’t. Who could? Abraham with his 318 strong army he was able to save Sodom from Kedah [Chedorlaomer] by chance because it happens to be his nephew was there and also Sodom had their greatest moment of humiliation because Avram’s whole plan they were like two competing new societies which were going to make their new plan.
Avram’s plan was we’re going to be nice we’re going to create these hospitality centers centers on the ways, on every crossroad. And we’re going to teach people our religion. And Saddam was teaching that their religion, not in the crossroad, in the established cities. And we’re going to do everything over there. And it turns out that Avram saved Saddam. And the king of Saddam was trying to save his honor. He’s pretending to be nice, like giving a favor.
And really, now everything, by the laws of war, everything belongs to him. Sodom and his wives and his children and his property belongs to Avram now, right? That’s called matzah mazut ishliyam [מצא מזות שלהם: found their spoils], right? If someone else is attacked by some other king and you save them, who does everything belong to now? To you. Thank you very much. To the Savior. That’s why it belongs to God, right? He saved us from Egypt. Now it belongs to him. Basic logic of war.
And this king of Sodom he’s making a peace deal with hafidom like the like the palestinians make what they eat you know let’s make a peace deal you give me all the netfish [נפש: souls/people] all the all the living things all the give me back all my women and children and slaves i’ll be so nice to you i’ll give you the money hello who gave you the women and children to give back to me why should i give them back to you what are you paying me for that that was a bluffer from beginning to end.
And i haven’t realized the trick he’s not interested in fighting with him i haven’t Sadd [Sodom] realized that this was him pretending to save his honor, and he said, Ah!
Let’s make a peace deal. You give me all the *yidn ephesh* [living souls], all the living things, give me back all my women and children and slaves. I’ll be so nice to you, I’ll give you the money.
Hello? Who gave you the women and children to give back to me? Why should I give them back to you? What are you paying me for that?
That was a bluff from beginning to end. And Avram realized the trick. He’s not interested in fighting with him, and Avram realized that this was him pretending to save his honor, and say, “Oh, really everything belongs to me, I’m being so nice, I’m giving you some money.”
If he would say, “Everything belongs to you, then we’re your slaves, do whatever you want with us” — unconditional surrender — then Avram would win. But he realized at the end he has this priest on his side, they’re saying, you know, it’s not nice, you can’t just take all their stuff, there’s international law.
So Avram said, forget about it, move on, moving on. Don’t be the guy that made a nice priestry and let me have the money, let me have the property. Take the whole thing. And plats, understand the story?
So that’s not — that’s why it’s not a steer. And that’s why he said, but on the judgment of his friends he can’t be framed, right? His allies, they still have to get whatever they want.
Okay, now moving on.
And the point is that he realized that this — this was his plan. Now it was not working. The plan wasn’t working at all. He didn’t have any children. If you don’t have children, the plan doesn’t work.
He tried to have with two of the children, didn’t work. Tried to have with Ishmael, that was really his plan B. But obviously, that wasn’t working out very well either. He tried, right? He tried. Hashem told him, right? What does it mean, he told Hashem? Maybe Ishmael and Hashem said no. What does that mean?
He tried teaching Ishmael to be a man. Ishmael doesn’t want to be a man. The theology thing doesn’t work out as well as… Well, it depends on who you are. There’s two — 50% of the person’s DNA is the wife, right? You’ve got to choose your wife wisely. And this Huggard [Hagar] from Egypt wasn’t such a *tzadeikes* [righteous woman]. So, it didn’t work out.
People also have their own choice, but also a lot is to do with the father, right? He’s in the way of Shmuel with his mother, not himself, right? So, it didn’t work out very well.
So, now he’s stuck. His plan is bankrupt, close to bankruptcy. So he realized, or Hashem told him, you didn’t understand how this game is played. You really thought this is going to work. They’re going to get here. You’re going to set up a family. They’re all going to be *tzaddikim v’toirem* [righteous and pure]. And now nobody’s going to have any issues. Then you’re just going to live in this new land. You’re going to be strong, right?
You have an army. You have 318 family within your army, right? Well, stronger than the biggest empire’s army in those times. Nobody had a very big army. And they were courageous and they were young and they were all labor. They were very successful. They’re chased all the way from Khefrem to Damascus, it’s pretty far. In one night. I don’t know how they did it. That’s Khefrem from Sary. It’s a nice… It takes like five hours to drive.
Anyways, so…
In *kitzra maaseh* [in short], Hashem told them… This is called the *Bris Bein HaBesarim* episode. He told them, this doesn’t work out like this. This is not how the reality is. I’ll explain you why.
Instructor: Why? Do you know why? I don’t really know. Do you know?
The reason is because there’s a limit to what you can do with your children. We just explained this limit. There’s a real limit. People’s influence on their children is very limited. There’s a limit in many ways. One of them you found out with Ishmael. You can have the best intentions and then your son just says, “Tati [Father], I’ve got my own plans for life.” That’s one limit. Same story with what?
Student: I’m still upset.
Instructor: What?
Student: That’s your upset?
Instructor: Second limit, but the more important limit that we’re about here.
Student: I thought that’s what I…
Instructor: I thought you were saying?
Student: Yeah, I thought so.
Instructor: And?
Student: That’s not…
Instructor: That wasn’t the…
Student: That’s what I always thought it was.
Instructor: That’s not what’s gonna work.
Student: No, but there’s a bigger problem.
Instructor: The bigger problem is, remember that a person’s influence, even if you have a good family, the best one, you’re limited to four generations at most. And that’s in a very good state, right? Most people are limited to one or two generations. You can’t actually teach more than two generations, right? I mean, you can’t influence in a real way, right? You remember this.
By the way, this is true for teachers too, right? Wait, let’s work on something. You can’t — there’s a real problem. I’m giving you a *drash* [sermon/teaching] here. I’m sorry, you could go Burton for this these kind of *drashas*, but this is what I’m doing now. I’m trying to talk about real problems, though. And this is, okay.
Anyways, this is *amshach* [continuation] from my sheet of Paisach [Passover]. If it’s delivered, figure it out. If you have questions, you can call me and we’ll make it work for real. But it’s not working in a real way.
This is a limitation for teachers also, right? I think there’s — people have great hubris. Like, people have crazy overestimations of what humans are capable of, okay?
What should have been created with our teacher for 10,000 generations? What? There’s no such thing as being a teacher for 10,000 generations. What’s going on? We call this guy that lived 3,000 years our teacher. What does that even mean? There’s no such a thing.
Student: No, Sha [the Rebbe].
Instructor: No, it’s me.
Student: But I don’t get to talk to him.
Instructor: Okay, now there’s a big problem. So why they have this thing — never, it never works when you need it. Like, you ever heard someone using this one that case when it’s useful? It’s not useful. Only you only realize that it’s not — it’s tough.
Student: Yeah, it’s tough to the new cars don’t have it. You don’t have to do that. You just beep a regular beep.
Instructor: Not so that easy again, huh? That’s my home that I click does you park you forget so much, okay.
Anyways, *mashal* [parable/example], show you is point is I have a real question here. A very real question. Very real question. It doesn’t make sense. You know, people say, uh, they never died, but it’s *mazari* [unclear reference] behind this toilet is still alive, therefore it needs to go on forever like this. This is a bluff. You could go on for about one and a half generation like this, you could.
And the sad thing is that people that said this, they also die. So they don’t realize that their plan was always a fake false prophecy. And then the next generation or one and a half generations later are the one stuck. And then we already have a *misogyny* [likely *mesorah*: tradition] that this is what we say, and then we’re all living in a lie. I’m talking about very specific things now, but any case, it’s true, true problem.
Oh, it’s also — I don’t actually know that there’s a real solution to this problem. I actually think that each generation needs to have their own teachers. That’s the true truth. But also, there must be something more than that. At least we’re living in a world that’s helped us solve this problem or somehow thought a strategy with this. But I’m giving you a shot on the *Bris Bein HaBesarim* episode in a very serious shot.
So I’ll think like this. So Hashem told Avram, you have to understand that your precise problem, you have to first solve this problem. Your nicely planned of living happily ever after in *Eretz Canaan* [the Land of Canaan] with your children and grandchildren is nonsense. Because think about your great-grandchildren. Will they remember who Abraham was? If they will, they’ll be in some weird, fake way.
So don’t — this is not a good plan. It was never a good plan. I know that you’ve been living for 70 years based on this plan or however long. Going to the Hajj in 20 years. It’s not a real plan. How long was he living based on this plan? 25 years, right? 24 for. This is not a real plan. You got to think of a better plan.
So he said like this, look what I propose. There’s a lot of the imagery in that story and it’s hard to interpret and the *Medrash* [Midrash: rabbinic commentary] has all kinds of ways of reading it, but they’re all trying to read this kind a problem into it. Instead I have a new plan. You’re gonna have to do something that’s better than that. I don’t know what the solution is by the way. I have no idea.
But I do know that what it means it entails not letting people save their great grandchildren. Like the beginning of the sheep it for sure means that.
Today fresh and said look what’s gonna happen. I’ll tell you what’s gonna happen. I’ll tell you know something, let me just give you the price. The price for the what — the plan that is going to work that you didn’t realize now — that has a price. The price is like this: for four generations, or in a different version of the same story said 400 years. 400 years means four times four generations, right? We’re the same structure, right? 100 years is like the amount of people that’s here alive, and then four times that when nobody remembers the people that remember the people that remember that remember the people that remember that remember that remember the people that remember. That’s what the Hashem does, right? Understand?
That’s what 400 years means. Of course, that’s why the *kasha* [question/difficulty] was 400 years. 400 years is a fake *kasha*. The 400 years corresponds to, in the same passage it says, fourth generation, right? *Dor revi yeshuva ha’ina* [the fourth generation shall return here]. Does it say? It’s all working with this logic, that a person’s reach doesn’t extend past the fourth step.
So Hashem said, look, you’re thinking about the stage past that, right? That’s your real — what you’re really trying to get at — precisely the fifth generation is the one the or the fourth generation is when you’re trying to solve. So the price for that is that’s for three generations — for four generations you are going to be the precise opposite of a situation you’re imagining. We’re going to be a slave to a fire nation who’s going to do whatever they want with your children.
And then we’re going to have a cycle that’s going to solve somehow. That was the webcast from last week. But now I’m adding to something very new.
Instructor: Well, this is contrary to the whole sheet. It’s contrary, exactly. That’s what I’m trying to get at. I’m getting to this. This is contrary to the whole sheet. It’s contrary to the whole sheet.
The way to make it work would be to say something like that the real reason this is the true pathway—the real reason why the Jews don’t assimilate is not because of Leo Strauss’s tragic thing, but because we believe that by the fourth generation *Mashiach* [Messiah] will have come already. Right? Why shouldn’t I assimilate and become a *goy* [non-Jew]? Because it’s not going to work today, okay, but it’s going to work in four generations. No, what do you want? Right? That’s what that’s trying to live in a *mini* [?], and the fourth generation will welcome—this is what it means. This is exactly what it means.
This is exactly—I mean, I’m just to cut—now I’m filling you in on the first part of that. Well, yeah, it only starts in the fourth generation is the negative. Yeah, yeah, you have—I don’t know, I don’t have solution. I’m making—I made it into this whole story so you should swallow it a little bit.
But this is the problem. It only starts in the fourth generation, really. You got it?
And now, this is really—in other words, I think the way to say this, the nice way to say this, which I don’t entirely believe, would be to say that he’s really working on something that is meant to survive the natural course of humans, you know, losing their influence and having great, great grandchildren who they don’t really know.
But I don’t know how to explain that, so I’m just saying that.
But the point would be that now the answer is, who told us to be suffering in these when we’re in those 400 year cycles? The answer is Avraham Avinu [Abraham our forefather].
Now you’ll realize something very interesting. This chapter—I didn’t say it, I didn’t even write it, so I have to say it—and you’ll realize, so that’s what we said last week.
The *Midrash* [rabbinic commentary] says: Why are the Jewish people suffering? Because their source sold them out. Who’s our source? Avraham Avinu. Avraham Avinu caused us to suffer. It’s his fault. All his fault. Because he had a choice: either that his children go to *Gehinnom* [purgatory/hell] or that they suffer in this world under the nations, and he chose this one.
We discussed this in the *shiur* [class]. I gave a nice explanation of this matter. But the point is Avraham Avinu chose this life for us.
But now I’m adding it to you: what he chose it—maybe in one life you could have—what he chose was precisely because of this thing that he’s trying to create something that lasts past the fourth generation or that starts really working then.
Now, now I have a new thing, a new thing that I have to tell you. Yeah, I don’t know, I don’t—I’m gonna finish with my part and you’re gonna go to sleep and tell me if you have a better shot.
Now, what I’m saying is like this. You remember the story of the *Akeidah* [the binding of Isaac] that we read on Rosh Hashanah [the Jewish New Year]? And he says, okay, this—it’s hot and everyone’s like, yeah, it was once an old guy that wanted to shaft his young kid. Okay, what you are for my life? Oh, you were my grandfather? We just discussed grandparents don’t matter, right, after some chance.
What is the story of Avraham being our grandfather? It’s also the same problem, right?
So I want to tell you the *pshat* [straightforward interpretation]. The Rambam [Maimonides] says like this. The Rambam says: That wasn’t the sign of *Avachar* [?]. Remember, the Rambam has a problem with the sign. The sign seems to mean that God knows something and he finds out. It doesn’t make any sense.
So, therefore, the Rambam says: No, the sign doesn’t mean—the sign means the person, the publicization of something. *Nes* [miracle/sign]. Like, *Melesh* [?] and *Nes*, right? That’s also what *Nes* means. That’s also the answer of all the questions that you people have, that things should be a *Nes*. Of course, they should be a *Nes*.
Now, and what’s—now, therefore, whenever it says in the sign it means that we learn something from a very public story, a very famous story. What do we learn from the story of the *Akeidah*?
It says there are two things.
One thing we learn is that prophets are very sure of prophecy, because nobody would be ready to kill their son if he wasn’t very sure that it was God talking to him. He assumes that people aren’t—pretty nice, maybe some people would even forget, but normal people don’t deserve everything. He was a good guy. Remember? Okay, listen, this is the second part of my story. Just see that these two things.
So anyways, it teaches you the prophecy, and since prophecy is foundational to religion, so this is Avraham Avinu was the founder of religion—teaches us that prophecy is very real for the prophet. By the way, that’s where anyone knows—we don’t know that yet. Where the prophet is very real. Okay?
Second thing he tells the teachers off is how serious—I have a *sash* [?], I miss—that’s what it says and describes how hard it was for Avraham Avinu to do that *Akeidah*, and he gave all that away for Avraham Avinu. In this you’ll read it. What he says, he describes—imagine you have to read it. Bring me a—I have to tell you, I like *bias* [?], not the real one. Yeah, this is the one I might ask after my new one. Another one I keep it always here. And you see over there, I’m gonna tell—what I’m almost out.
So over here it says like this. This solution—which *parsha* [Torah portion] did I say it is? Oh, very good, I was right.
It says like this: But—and he says, starts talking about—suddenly here talk about the *view*—the first thing he said we learn is how much a person should do for *Ahavas Hashem* [love of God], not for—not first hard for *Ahavas Hashem*.
So he says, and then he says it talks about perhaps he said this—how you do—she has any other—Avraham Avinu, it’s like it was correct that this—what should—when it’s that I’m say is correct, does that make it *Edna’s* [?], like it’s plastic. What he’s saying, trying to explain you what the story is really—why it’s—why is the story told about Avraham Avinu?
He says: He started to teach the *yichud* [unity of God], right, after *Shem* [Noah’s son] and prophecy, and to leave—to leave over this opinion, this knowledge always, and to just limit another matter, right, to attract people to him. As it says, and just like we follow his true opinions, his true knowledge, we also follow the things taken from his action. We also—we imitate Avraham’s knowledge and his actions. That’s what the Rambam says.
The *Kol Sheken Zoi Sapula* [all the more so], the *Kal Chayim Ades* [?] of the *Akeidah Tzitzak* [?], which he, by that, he showed the truthness of prophecy and how serious *Ahavas Hashem* is.
So he’s saying something very weird. We have to imitate the *Akeidah*. Right? Because if the whole logic of the *Akeidah* of an historian is to make something famous, to publicize something, and he says especially, not to stamp someone, not to stamp some random old guy—like he describes earlier how important it was, he wasn’t all, he says.
There was a person that was very old and he really wanted a child and he wanted that he should have a nation out of his descendants, and he has this child that is old and so hard, and he killed him after three days. Not when he was in a passion. That’s what it says, it took three days. You shouldn’t think, he was walking for three days, he had a lot of time to think about it.
So, we learn—and this is what we learn from—because we have to imitate his activities. We learn from his actions just like we learn from his teachings, from his thoughts. What is going on here? Very weird. Do you do the *Akeidah*? What’s going on here? The whole point of the *Akeidah* is that you shouldn’t do it anyways. But what is going on?
So I realize that this is what he means to say. What he means to say is—I don’t know if the noun means to say it, but it’s a snapshot. What he means to say is that that’s what we talk about when we say the *zechus* [merit] of the *Akeidah*. The *zechus* of the *Akeidah* just means—
That means that by doing this *Akeidah*, and really the *Akeidah* is the same thing as the *Bris Bein HaBesarim* [Covenant Between the Parts]. Avraham Avinu teaching, choosing *galus* [exile] for his children—that’s what the *Akeidah* is emotional for or an image for, because Avraham Avinu is saying, and this is what I was telling you for your question:
Avraham Avinu, because of him trying to solve a very serious problem, which transcends the amount of care that you have for your children, because he’s trying to solve it for the fifth generation, right—that required him to not care about the first four generations. It required him to think further than that.
And if I required him to—check his own son—well, he might have not literally shocked the gift, but he did cause—it’s hard to go in *galus*, or Yaakov, or wherever it was. He did cause—not Hitler to kill all the six million Jews—was Avraham Avinu cause that kids to them a *hood* [?] on. That’s what the *Midrash* is.
Why did he call it that? Because he was trying to think past that. He was trying to create something that survives the end of the natural process of parents influencing and creating their children.
So it’s part—and this is really the end of prophecy. This is what he said. This is what the prophecy of Avraham Avinu, the limit, the infinite limit of *Ahavas Hashem*, which is what the *Mashiach* is supposed to be, which is what the Jewish people are trying to aim at, is the kind of thing that you don’t care about yourself or about your children.
Because if you’re going to work with your children, you’re not going to survive the fifth generation.
So I said that you shouldn’t care about your children because you should care about yourself. Another way of saying it is you shouldn’t care about your children because you’re trying to care about something that transcends all of that, and therefore lasts the five generations. And then in the fifth generation, they get saved.
That’s the *teirutz* [answer] that I have to say. I didn’t solve any problems. I just made the problems very clear.
And that’s the story of the *Akeidah*. The story of the *Akeidah* is the story of the Jews refusing to assimilate and causing their great-grandchildren to have problems or to be saved.
Cut it to the second level—I don’t explain it. That’s why the *olam* [world/people] said that’s what shows that prophecy is so strong. It seems to be so clear to the person that’s doing it that he doesn’t have any choice. That is the truth.
I don’t have an explanation for how it’s supposed to work. I told you I don’t know. I don’t have an explanation for how it works.
Student: That’s the *tenuos* [?] of your *kasha* [question], that they always receive the prophecy to kill their children.
Instructor: [No clear response recorded]
Instructor: Practically speaking, there’s no practice. A mom go and shecht [ritually slaughter] their son. No, we didn’t shecht their son. That’s a mashal [parable/paradigmatic model]. That guy is a mashal.
No, I’m saying, so… He made his son go on Mitzrayim [Egypt/slavery]. If you were the kind of people that could survive Mitzrayim, then Avraham Avinu’s [Abraham our forefather’s] thing could start working.
That goes back to our previous, our shiur [Torah lesson] from last year, from last week. It only could start working if you stop thinking about today and tomorrow. If you could envision out this book, if you can — this look up good in the light of issue man.
Yeah, that’s the gala [redemption], right? That’s the next mile of coming. And I think what the next mile of said, “Get out there,” is it after, right?
Anyways, I don’t have solid — the problem just told you that this is seems to be the story of the cadets. It’s hot going to my new chat.
Instructor: I think it’s a very good job and we should blame our forefathers for stucking us in this. And the reason they did it was because they believe that Moshiach [the Messiah] will come after — after that, but not to them.
Sometimes it was — there was an old Yid [Jew] that came to the Mordechaim [likely: a Rebbe or Torah authority], and he asked him, “When she has any come?” [When will Moshiach come?]
He said, “Not in my days or my children or my grandchildren.”
That’s the secret. If anyone really thinks I’m — Moshiach’s gonna come in his days, he didn’t get one shake. His Moshiach is the thing that comes after your grandchild, great-grandchild dies.
Instructor: I don’t have a cell [solution]. No, it’s not — no, I don’t mean that. Okay, I can’t — I don’t have a solution. I’ll just tell you the problem. Maybe, I don’t know.
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This is a continuation (המשך) of last week’s class (delivered in Yiddish). The central question from that session:
– Core Question (from “Peter”): Why should one remain Jewish?
– Basic Answer Given Last Time: There is no real alternative — you can only be a *Jewish Jew* (יידישע ייד) or a *Gentile-ish Jew* (גוישע ייד). Since being a Gentile-ish Jew is a sad, incoherent existence, you might as well be a Jewish Jew.
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This answer is grounded in Leo Strauss’s lecture *”Why Are We Still Jews,”* which surveys possible “solutions” to the Jewish problem:
– Option: Assimilation (Self-Cultural Genocide): Stop being Jewish, speak English, become “normal people.”
– Herzl’s Consideration: Herzl even considered mass conversion to Christianity — not because he was crazy, but because he was *logically working through the options*. His intellectual honesty deserves defense: “You’re the weirdo that never considered this option.”
– Why Herzl Rejected It: You can’t truly become a non-Jew. You become a *Jewish gentile* — a self-hating, liminal creature. So Herzl concluded one might as well stay Jewish.
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A serious objection to the Strauss/Herzl conclusion:
– The Objection: Even if the *first generation* of assimilators suffers as awkward “Jewish gentiles,” after several generations (four, five, ten), descendants will forget their Jewish origins entirely. The “Jewish problem” is thereby *solved* for one’s progeny.
– Formalized: If you care more about your descendants than yourself, shouldn’t you assimilate now, endure short-term pain, and grant them long-term relief from persecution (Crusades, pogroms, being “Christ-killers,” etc.)?
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A student raises the historical reality of persecution (Crusades, Nazis, torture, death). Important clarification:
– The harm of being Jewish in a hostile world is not only material (violence, death) but also spiritual/moral — people don’t flourish when they are in a persecuted, degraded position.
– Conversely, “the good life” one gives up by assimilating is not only material comfort but includes moral, intellectual, and spiritual goods — the life of keeping mitzvot, of being morally good in one’s own framework.
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The dilemma sharpened into a general philosophical trade-off question:
– Should you ruin your own life (morally, spiritually) so that your great-great-grandchildren avoid a certain set of problems?
– Flipping the scenario to remove emotional bias: Would you tell a persecuted *Christian* to just stop being Christian for the sake of his descendants? Most would say yes — which reveals that resistance to assimilation may stem from emotional attachment rather than rational argument.
– A student agrees with assimilation, and the pushback: “You’re acting very sure of one side because you think agreeing with the *other* side [i.e., staying Jewish] is just bias — but the pro-assimilation side is not obviously correct either.“
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Many people, aware of their own bias (religious, nationalist, tribal), overcorrect. They think: “I only believe X because it’s *my* side, so probably X is wrong.” They imagine that by asking “What if I were a Palestinian?” or “What if I were the other side?” they achieve objectivity — a “view from nowhere.”
This overcorrection is itself a mistake. Awareness of bias does not automatically yield truth. The Rambam worried about tribal bias, yes — but the *reverse* of tribal bias is not clarity.
– Weather Vane Analogy: A *broken* weather vane that consistently points the wrong way is still useful (just reverse it). But most errors are not *systematic reversals* — they are random. So simply inverting your biased position does not land you on the truth.
– Humorous Illustrations: “Ask a בעל הבית and do the opposite = דעת תורה”; “Ask a Litvak and do the opposite.”
– Tolstoy’s *Anna Karenina* opening (“All happy families are happy in the same way; all unhappy families are unhappy in different ways”) illustrates an Aristotelian idea.
– Aristotle’s argument: There are many ways to be bad and few ways to be good — one of his arguments for the doctrine of the mean.
– Pythagorean roots: Aristotle attributed this to the Pythagoreans, who associated the One with the good and the Many/varied/unequal with the bad. Even odd numbers (associated with unity) were good, and even numbers (*zugos*, implying duality) were bad.
– Core logical point: Because there are many more ways to be wrong than to be right, doing the *opposite* of something stupid is statistically more likely to be *another* stupid thing than the correct thing.
> As Aristotle, Rabbi Nachman of Breslov, and Tolstoy all noted: there is only one truth but many ways to be wrong. Inverting one wrong answer doesn’t guarantee you hit the single correct one — it likely just lands you on a *different* wrong answer.
The student who says “I’m biased toward Judaism, therefore assimilation is probably right” is committing exactly this error. Recognizing your bias toward staying Jewish does not make the case for assimilation any stronger. The “reversal” strategy does not clarify anything — it doesn’t dissolve the real question; it just assumes the only reason someone holds a position is because of which “side” they’re on. There is a genuine substantive question here, and flipping perspectives doesn’t make it go away. The question must be evaluated on its own merits.
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It is not obvious that someone should make their own life worse so that a great-grandchild’s life will be better. Assimilation doesn’t work in one generation — the first generation suffers, and the benefit only accrues to later descendants. This isn’t a uniquely Jewish belief; it’s a general human experience (immigrants commonly say “I’m doing it for my kids”). But doing it for *children* is one thing; doing it for *great-great-grandchildren* is quite another — the moral calculus becomes much less clear.
If the person must become a bad person in order for their grandchildren to eventually be “good” (i.e., successfully assimilated), then the sacrifice is probably not justified. This is flagged as a serious consideration, not a settled point.
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Leo Strauss’s starting point (*hava amina* — the initial assumption to be examined): Jews could assimilate, but since it won’t work in one generation, they shouldn’t. Why assimilation was proposed at all: To solve “the Jewish problem” — that everyone hates the Jews, leading to persecution, abuse, and killing. Even if no physical harm results, being universally hated is itself bad — this is stated as a strong assumption.
If everyone hates you, it’s probably a sign that something is wrong with *you*, not just with everyone else. This challenges the common Jewish self-understanding that “everyone hates us but we’re the best.” This self-understanding isn’t necessarily false, but it should give one pause — it’s not a stable or reasonable default belief.
– Student: Is the reverse true — if everyone likes you, does that mean you’re good?
– Response: Not proof, but it’s a sign. Universal hatred is a sign something is wrong; universal approval isn’t proof of goodness, but it’s not a cause for concern either. Popularity functions as meaningful evidence, not a definitive “measuring tape.”
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Why would genuinely good people — people who make things better — be hated? That’s a strange idea. If you’re truly making things better, who would oppose that?
– “You’re making it worse for bad people”: But then are you really making things *better* overall? And even punishment is supposed to be *good* for the bad person (reformative), not just harmful.
– “Bad people are jealous of good people”: If a good person provokes jealousy, something is wrong with the good person’s approach.
– “Bad people hate what’s good for them”: Socrates’ analogy of the doctor — patients almost never hate doctors, even when doctors impose unpleasant requirements (diets, quitting smoking). People may not *listen*, but they don’t *hate* the doctor. This suggests that genuinely beneficial people are not naturally hated.
We are far too comfortable with the narrative “we are hated because we are right.” This comfort is suspicious and dangerous. Most people are actually *happy* to be corrected in most domains. If hatred arises, the teacher bears significant responsibility.
> ### Side Digression: Plato’s Republic on Hatred of Philosophers
> Plato argued people hate philosophers because most philosophers they encounter are genuinely bad people — hatred by association, a case of “mistaken object.”
Practical upshot: If you’re making people hate you, you’re failing at teaching. Being right is pointless if you can’t transmit truth. Options:
– Don’t teach until people are ready.
– Find “subversive” methods so people don’t realize you’re challenging them until it’s too late.
– Keep silent rather than provoke hatred that accomplishes nothing.
We are habituated to a “weird idea” — the notion that being right means you should expect universal hatred. This is potentially self-serving nonsense. If the righteous (*tzaddikim*) are hated, the proper response might be *teshuvah* (repentance/self-examination), not self-congratulation. We live in deep ignorance about the good, the true, the beautiful — we navigate by *signs*. Universal opposition is a major sign that something may be wrong.
One shouldn’t necessarily be hated by everybody; one should expect to be liked by most people.
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Humans need other humans: for schools, business, marriage, collaboration. Being excluded from society cuts you off from ~90% of human goods.
Concrete historical example: European universities were discovering cures for diseases, but Jews couldn’t enter without converting to Christianity.
The assimilation argument (taken seriously): If staying Jewish means being excluded from contributing to humanity’s progress (e.g., curing cancer), then you’re complicit in that loss. You can’t simply say “they’re the bad guys” — you’re also failing to do good.
Even if you convert, *you* won’t be accepted — you’ll be labeled a “New Christian” and distrusted (as in the Spanish Inquisition). Only your *great-grandchildren* will be fully accepted (even Hitler’s racial categories acknowledged this cutoff at ~4 generations).
This regenerates the earlier question: How much worse should your life become so that your great-grandchildren can flourish?
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Key insight: The person you’re supposedly saving (the great-great-grandchild) is precisely the person with whom you no longer have a real relationship.
Biblical support: Exodus — God visits the sins of fathers upon children “to the third and fourth generation” (*pokeid avon avot al banim al shileshim v’al ribe’im*).
Rashi’s comment: A father’s compassion (*rachamei av*) extends only about 3–4 generations. Beyond that, the emotional and practical bond dissolves.
You and your children/grandchildren share a century, a world, a life. Great-great-grandchildren live in a fundamentally different world. For practical purposes, your great-great-grandchild is not really “yours” — you don’t share a life with them.
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Obligations to descendants are grounded in shared life — actual, lived connection. You have obligations to your children because you share a life with them; the same applies to parents and grandparents. But by the time you reach a great-great-great-grandfather (or great-great-great-grandchild), the connection is effectively nil:
– You don’t share a life, a world, or real experiences with them.
– The genetic/relational share is diluted (e.g., “he only owns 1/128th of me”).
– Therefore, you have no *specific* moral obligation to distant descendants *as your descendants*.
Conclusion: It would be strange to say you should do something specifically so that people you have no real moral connection with will benefit.
The argument is rooted in the idea that moral obligations track closeness — levels of care radiating outward from the self. Being a good person means caring about your children, grandchildren, and perhaps great-grandchildren. Beyond that, care becomes abstract and universal (“citizen of the world”/cosmopolitan), not specifically directed at *your* lineage.
If you care about the world at the cosmopolitan level, the solution to humanity’s problems is universal, not ethnic/familial:
– The Jewish problem (Jewish survival) — solved by working on the particular/family level.
– The human problem — solved by working on the universal level (e.g., “they should stop killing the Jews”).
You *can* work on the universal level beyond the fourth generation, but you cannot frame it as an obligation *to your children* at that point.
> ### Student Challenge and Dialogue
> A student pushes back: Does this mean you should care more about the guy in the next town over than about your great-great-grandchild?
Possibly yes — the person nearby shares more of your actual life and world. Caring about “random guys” is grounded in shared humanity, which is real but abstract. Caring about grandchildren *as grandchildren* (not merely as humans) requires actual shared life — shared family world, real touch, real connection. Sharing a historical period is only minimally interesting (“they interviewed a 106-year-old woman — everything changed”).
Key distinction: “Sharing a world” means sharing the world of a family (real, intimate connection), not merely living in the same time period.
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Abraham had a plan — to fix something for the whole world (or at least his family), but the *tool* for executing this plan was his family/nation (a nation being “just a bigger version of family”). The plan required biological children — when Abraham couldn’t have children, the plan was threatened. It doesn’t work without descendants.
Drawing on the previous week’s class:
– When a person habituates good traits, those habits become second nature — described as the *s’char* (reward) of good actions.
– This same process operates between generations: children receive their parents’ accumulated habits (good and bad) “for free” — through education, living in the household, and possibly genetics.
– Parents see their own bad habits reflected unselfconsciously in their children (since the parent still views themselves as “choosing,” while the child simply *has* the habit as family custom/*minhag*).
Abraham’s plan was to leverage this intergenerational transmission — to slowly cultivate and inoculate good habits across generations, working with human nature’s biological and social mechanisms.
> ### Side Digression: Why Not Students Instead of Children?
> A student asks: why couldn’t Abraham use students? The *midrash* says students are better than children, but that’s *midrash*, not *pshat* (plain meaning). If you want to work with human nature effectively, you should work as closely to biology as possible. “Yitzchak couldn’t marry the midrash” — i.e., practical reality requires biological family.
Any revolution that goes against the family is likely to fail or produce unintended consequences. Effective social change uses human nature as it is, not as we wish it to be (invoking Machiavelli: effective politics requires describing human nature realistically). Therefore, the tool of family, biology, and lineage is the most reliable vehicle for long-term moral/social transformation.
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Abraham realized that without children, the entire plan collapses. His turning to God (in Parshat Lekh Lekha) is interpreted not as a prayer request but as a moment of existential reckoning — an acknowledgment (hashash) that the plan is failing. Abraham says: “You promised me reward, but I don’t even have children” — meaning the divinely-ordained plan (go forth, be blessed, have descendants) was not materializing.
Key interpretive move: When the Torah says “God promised him,” this means *that was the plan* — it was supposed to work *naturally*, not through miraculous intervention. Even if God Himself tells you something, relying on magic rather than natural processes is a bad plan. God created nature so that things should work through it. If your plan is “God will override His own nature to save me,” you are operating in a fundamentally flawed way.
> Side note/clarification: This pushes back against a claim made the previous week that the argument was that Abraham “naturalized everything.” That’s not quite the point — rather, one must understand *how God actually works* (through nature). The alternative reading is labeled a drush (homiletical interpretation), not the pshat (plain meaning).
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Abraham originally had a naïve view — he believed everything would work out perfectly. This naïveté was *necessary*: had Abraham understood from the start how difficult the process would be, he never would have begun. God then corrected Abraham’s understanding, showing him he had made a basic mistake about how such civilizational processes work.
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Abraham’s move from Ur Kasdim/Haran to Canaan is explained strategically:
– In Haran, everyone knew him as “the chutzpadik son of Terach” who broke his father’s idols — no one took him seriously.
– משנה מקום משנה מזל (change your place, change your fortune) — by relocating, he could reinvent himself.
– In the new place, he introduced himself as the founder of a new religion (“Vayikra sham b’shem Hashem El Olam“).
– He began gaining followers (chasidim).
> ### Side Digression: The Meaning of “Getchke”
> A lengthy humorous tangent about translating the Yiddish word getchke (a diminutive, somewhat contemptuous term for an idol/figurine). “Idol” in English carries too much grandeur — a getchke is something small and ridiculous. “Statue” is also too grandiose. Various suggestions (dolls, statues) are rejected. An anecdote about the Elk Club on Kennedy Blvd is shared. The point: Terach’s idols weren’t grand “idols” — they were pathetic getchkelach.
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The mizbeach (altar) Abraham built is reinterpreted: it wasn’t just a heap of rocks in the desert. A mizbeach is a permanent structure — it represents an entire institutional complex: a yeshiva/academy, a temple/worship center, a hospitality center (like a “Chabad house”). Abraham set up a full civilizational infrastructure for teaching his religion and practicing hachnasas orchim (hospitality).
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Sodom is introduced as Abraham’s ideological mirror-opposite — a competing new civilization with a radically different plan:
– Abraham’s model: Kindness, hospitality, open outreach at crossroads, teaching religion to all.
– Sodom’s model: A Spartan society — no mercy, no compassion for the weak, strict meritocracy, self-sufficiency, ruthlessness (“we drink liberal tears”).
Both were new societies with competing visions for civilization.
Lot’s departure from Abraham and settlement in Sodom dramatizes the tension. Lot said “there’s no room for me here” and gravitated toward Sodom, becoming an aristocrat there (yoshev b’sha’ar Sedom). This parallels the bechor (firstborn) dynamic discussed earlier — the ambitious one who breaks away.
Sodom’s great test came when they rebelled against Chedorlaomer (possibly the same adversary Abraham had fled). The Sodomites believed their tough, unforgiving society could defeat this empire — but they couldn’t. Abraham, with only 318 men, succeeded where Sodom failed, saving them only because his nephew Lot happened to be there.
This was Sodom’s greatest humiliation: the rival civilization built on kindness and hospitality proved militarily superior to the one built on ruthlessness.
After the rescue, by the laws of war, everything — Sodom’s people, property, women, children — belonged to Abraham as the victor. (Analogy: this is the same logic by which Israel belongs to God after the Exodus.)
The King of Sodom attempted a face-saving diplomatic maneuver: he offered Abraham the property/money if Abraham would return the people. This was a bluff — the king was in no position to “give” anything, since it all already belonged to Abraham by right of conquest. The king was pretending to negotiate from a position of equality to preserve his honor.
Abraham saw through the trick. If the King had said “we are your slaves, do what you will” (unconditional surrender), Abraham would have won outright. But the King had Malkitzedek (the priest) on his side invoking something like “international law,” so Abraham decided to walk away from the whole thing — take nothing — rather than be cast as the beneficiary of a diplomatic arrangement that distorted the truth. He refused to engage, recognizing that accepting anything would allow the King of Sodom to later claim, “אני העשרתי את אברהם” (“I made Abraham rich”) — thus undermining Abraham’s independence and the integrity of his civilizational project. He stipulated only that his allies still receive their share, since he couldn’t impose his own principles on them.
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The core theological-practical crisis of Abraham’s life:
– The original plan: Come to Canaan, establish a righteous family, build strength (he had 318 warriors who defeated the greatest empire of the age), and live as a growing, self-sustaining righteous community.
– The plan is bankrupt:
– He has no children of his own (with Sarah).
– Attempts at surrogate succession didn’t work.
– Ishmael was “Plan B,” but failed — Ishmael wouldn’t become a *mentch*. Biology matters (50% DNA from the mother — Hagar wasn’t a *tzadeikes*), people have free choice, and Ishmael was sent away with his mother, not raised directly by Abraham.
– The same pattern repeats later with Eisav (Yitzchak’s son).
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This is the central philosophical argument:
– A person’s real influence on descendants is limited to at most four generations, and practically often only one or two.
– Even the best parent/teacher cannot truly shape great-grandchildren. By that point, the original figure becomes a distant abstraction, not a living influence.
The principle extends beyond family: teachers also face this limit.
– We call Moshe Rabbeinu “our teacher for 10,000 generations” — but what does that actually mean? “I don’t get to talk to him.” There is no such thing as being a real teacher across thousands of years in any straightforward sense.
– Sharp contemporary critique: When people say “the Rebbe never died — his Torah is still alive, so it continues forever” — this is a bluff. It works for about one and a half generations. The people who said it also die, never realizing their claim was a “fake false prophecy.” The next generation inherits a *masorah* (tradition) of saying this, and “then we’re all living in a lie.”
– Honest admission: “I don’t actually know that there’s a real solution to this problem.” Each generation probably needs its own living teachers. But there must be *something more* — some strategy the tradition has developed.
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A serious reinterpretation of the Bris Bein HaBesarim (Genesis 15):
– God’s message to Abraham: Your plan of living happily ever after in Canaan with children and grandchildren is nonsense — because your great-grandchildren won’t truly remember who Abraham was, or if they do, it will be in “some weird fake way.”
– The plan was never viable. Abraham lived 24–25 years based on it, but it was never real.
– God proposes a different plan — one not fully understood, but which *at minimum* means: you cannot rely on saving your great-grandchildren through direct personal influence.
– The 400 years of slavery prophesied in the Bris = four cycles of four generations (100 years ≈ the living memory span of one cohort; ×4 = the point where no one remembers the people who remembered the people who remembered the original).
– This maps onto the verse “the fourth generation shall return here” (דור רביעי ישובו הנה) — the same logic that a person’s reach doesn’t extend past the fourth step.
– God’s price for the plan that actually works: For precisely those four generations (the span Abraham cannot control), his descendants will experience the exact opposite of his dream — slavery to a foreign nation with total power over his children.
– After that, a cycle will begin that somehow solves the problem of intergenerational transmission.
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What follows is contrary to the entire lecture’s thesis (that parents shouldn’t over-invest in children because influence fades by the fourth generation). A counter-reading is now introduced:
– The real reason Jews don’t assimilate is not Leo Strauss’s tragic mechanism (perpetual outsider status), but rather the belief that by the fourth generation, Mashiach will come.
– The logic: Why not just become a regular nation? Because it won’t last — by the fourth generation, Mashiach arrives. This is what Hashem told Avraham Avinu.
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A paradox:
– Your influence/legacy only truly begins to operate (or become necessary) in the fourth generation — precisely when natural parental influence dies out.
– The “negative” version: the problem (assimilation, loss of identity) only truly starts at the fourth generation.
– The “positive” version (stated with admitted uncertainty): Abraham was working on something designed to survive beyond the natural course of human generational influence — something that outlasts the great-grandchild horizon.
– Honest admission: “I don’t have a solution. I’m just making the problem vivid so you can absorb it.”
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Connecting to a Midrash discussed in a previous shiur (אם לא צורם מכרם):
– Avraham Avinu is the “source” who sold the Jews into suffering. He had a choice: his children go to Gehinnom, or they suffer in this world under the nations. He chose the latter.
– New layer added: Abraham chose this precisely because of the fourth-generation problem. He was trying to create something that lasts past the fourth generation, where it “starts really working.” The suffering in galus is the cost of that project.
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On Rosh Hashanah we invoke זכור לנו עקידת יצחק — remember the Akeidah for our sake. But the lecture just established that grandparents don’t matter after a few generations. So why should Abraham’s act thousands of years ago matter to us? This is the same problem restated.
The Rambam addresses the theological problem that “nisayon” (test) implies God doesn’t know the outcome:
– Nisayon doesn’t mean “test” — it means publicization (from the root “nes” = banner/sign). The Akeidah is a famous story from which we learn two things:
1. Prophets are absolutely certain of their prophecy. No normal, good person would kill their son unless utterly certain God commanded it. This establishes the reality of prophecy *for the prophet* (not necessarily for anyone else). Since prophecy is foundational to religion, and Abraham founded religion, this is critical.
2. The seriousness of Ahavas Hashem (love of God). Abraham was old, desperately wanted a child, finally had one, and then was willing to sacrifice him — not in a moment of passion but after three days of deliberation. This shows the depth of love of God, done not for reward but purely for love.
The Rambam says we follow Abraham’s true opinions and also imitate his actions. The Akeidah is the supreme example. But we don’t literally perform an Akeidah. The whole point is that it wasn’t carried out. So what does “imitating” it mean?
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The central interpretive claim:
– The Akeidah is essentially the same thing as the Bris Bein HaBesarim (the Covenant Between the Parts, where Abraham was told his descendants would suffer 400 years in exile).
– The Akeidah is a mashal (metaphor/image) for Abraham choosing galus for his children.
– Abraham was trying to solve a problem that transcends the four-generation horizon. To create something that survives past the natural decay of parental influence (past the fourth generation), he had to sacrifice the welfare of the first four generations.
– This means: thinking beyond your children requires a willingness to not care about the immediate generations — symbolized by the willingness to slaughter his own son.
– Literally: Abraham didn’t slaughter Yitzchak, but he did cause Yitzchak to go into galus, Yaakov to suffer, and ultimately — stated starkly — Abraham caused the six million to be killed by Hitler. That is what the Midrash means.
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– Why did Abraham cause all this suffering? Because he was trying to create something that survives the end of the natural generational process.
– This connects to the end/purpose of prophecy and to the infinite limit of Ahavas Hashem, which is what Mashiach represents.
– The Jewish project aims at something where you don’t care about yourself or even your children — because if you work only within the framework of your children, you won’t survive the fifth generation.
– Two ways to frame the same idea:
1. Don’t care about your children because you should care about yourself (the lecture’s earlier thesis).
2. Don’t care about your children because you’re caring about something that transcends all of that — and therefore lasts to the fifth generation and beyond, where salvation comes.
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Abraham did not actually slaughter his son. The real content: Abraham made his descendants go into Mitzrayim (Egypt/slavery). The test is: if you are the kind of people who can survive Mitzrayim, then Abraham’s project — the Abrahamic covenant — can begin to function.
Connection to prior shiur: The Abrahamic project only works if you stop thinking about today and tomorrow — if you can envision beyond the immediate.
A new pshat (interpretation):
– The angelic command “Do not stretch out your hand against the boy” (Genesis 22:12) is not merely the cessation of the test — it is the geulah (redemption) already.
– The second angel who speaks represents the redemptive promise: “I will greatly multiply your seed” (כי הרבה ארבה זרעך).
– The moment of being told to stop — the moment of looking up and beyond the sacrifice — is itself the redemptive moment.
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Half-seriously: “We should blame our forefathers for sticking us in this” — i.e., for committing future generations to a path of suffering and endurance.
Their justification: they believed Moshiach would come after — but not to them personally.
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What is called “the secret” of Moshiach:
– An anecdote: An old Jew came to “the Mordechaim” and asked when Moshiach would come. The answer: “Not in my days, or my children’s, or my grandchildren’s.”
– The principle: Anyone who truly thinks Moshiach will come in his own lifetime has not understood what Moshiach is.
– Moshiach is, by definition, the thing that comes after your grandchild or great-grandchild dies — it is essentially trans-generational, beyond any individual’s horizon.
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A student raises a difficulty: How could the Avos (patriarchs) receive a prophecy that seemingly commanded them to sacrifice or endanger their children?
– This is precisely the question of the Akeidas Yitzchak.
– Answer (partial): Prophecy itself grants the right. If God commands through prophecy, that prophetic authority overrides normal moral reasoning — “Who gave you the right? Prophecy gave you the right.”
– On the second level of understanding prophecy, there is no full explanation for how it works mechanistically. Prophecy is so overwhelmingly clear to the one who receives it that the prophet has no choice — it presents itself as absolute truth. But the *mechanism* by which this certainty operates remains unexplained.
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The Akeidah story is ultimately the story of Jews refusing to assimilate, thereby causing their great-grandchildren either to suffer or to be saved. The only way to work with something that transcends the limitations of a finite process is to work past it — to go beyond it entirely. This is the true meaning of mesiras nefesh (self-sacrifice): not merely risking one life, but transcending the framework of one life, one family, even one generation. The purpose of the Jewish people is not reducible to being “the family” or “the children of” any particular generation.
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The lecture closes candidly:
– “I don’t have a solution. I just tell you the problem.”
– The mechanism by which Abraham’s project actually works past the fourth generation cannot be explained.
– The Rambam’s answer is that prophecy is so overwhelmingly clear to the prophet that he has no choice — he knows it’s true. But this doesn’t constitute an explanation of *how* it works.
– The status of the question remains: The avos received prophecy that required them to, in effect, sacrifice their children — choosing long-term transcendent purpose over immediate generational welfare. The mechanism by which this actually produces salvation remains unexplained.
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1. Why be Jewish? → Because the alternative (being a “Gentile-ish Jew”) is incoherent (Strauss).
2. But multi-generational assimilation? → After enough generations, the problem disappears. Isn’t that worth the short-term cost?
3. Methodological warning: Reverse stupidity is not intelligence — recognizing bias toward Judaism doesn’t make assimilation correct.
4. The cost of being hated: Universal hatred is a diagnostic sign, not a badge of honor. Good people shouldn’t expect to be hated. The “we’re hated because we’re right” narrative is challenged.
5. Moral obligations diminish with generational distance: You share no real life with great-great-grandchildren. Obligations track closeness.
6. Abraham’s plan: Use family/biology as the vehicle for civilizational change through intergenerational habituation.
7. The plan’s crisis: Abraham has no children; surrogates fail; influence is limited to ~4 generations.
8. The Bris Bein HaBesarim: God tells Abraham the plan was never viable as conceived. A new plan requires 400 years of suffering — precisely the span Abraham cannot control.
9. The Akeidah as paradigm: Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice Isaac = his willingness to send his descendants into galus. The Akeidah and the Bris are the same event.
10. Mashiach as the trans-generational horizon: Mashiach by definition comes *after* your great-grandchildren die. The Jewish project requires caring about something beyond any individual’s lifetime.
11. Unresolved: The mechanism by which this actually works remains unexplained. The problem is made vivid, not solved.
Instructor: Okay. Good? Perfect. So like this. First I have to say important המשך [hamshach: continuation] to last week’s shiur [class/lecture], which was really recorded in Yiddish, but you all know Yiddish anyways. And it was like this, and I’m explaining to you also the answer to your question. Remember that you had a question? You had a question that—remember we had a question on Peter—why we should be Jewish and what was the answer that we discussed then. And that it’s that the basic answer is that there’s no other choice, because you can only be a Yiddish [Jewish] Yid or a Goyish [Gentile-ish] Yid, and you might as well be a Yiddish Yid. It’s very sad to be a Goyish Yid, right? Remember? Correct summary?
Then there was a sha’aleh [question] like this, so we could even explain the answer a little better.
Instructor: And we explained, that’s what Leo Strauss said in his article called “Why We Are Still Jews.” There’s a lecture that Leo Strauss gave and it’s called “Why We Are Still Jews.” And he said that there’s a few solutions to the Jewish problem. One of them is genocide, right? Cultural genocide, self-genocide, right? Which is called assimilation, right? Self-cultural genocide. Come on, let’s just stop doing this. Become a normal man. I’ll say it in English: Become normal people.
And the answer to that, the Zionists considered this answer. You know, all the frum [religiously observant] Jews are very weird, because Herzl, he thought of becoming—how about we convert all the Jews to Christianity at one point? And therefore that means that he was really a secret messenger? No, he was going through the logical options and seeing what worked. What’s wrong with that? You’re the weirdo that never considered this option. You should consider it, right?
Then he realized that it’s not a realistic option. Why not? Because you can’t become a goy [non-Jew]. You can become a Jewish goy or a Jewish Jew, however we say it. And that’s very—you said so. Therefore he realized that you have to stay Jewish.
But my point is, that option is not really reasonable.
Instructor: But now there’s a question on this. It *is* reasonable, right? Because if you become a goy, and then for one generation you’re going to be a goy shegoy [a gentile who is gentile-ish], a Yiddish goy, sorry, and you’re going to be a very weird creature, a self-hating Jew. And then, after one generation, two generations, three, four, five, at some point your children won’t remember that they had a Jewish grandfather. And that’s all. Well, you have solved the problem.
So anyone that cares more about the children than about himself should do that. True? Am I asking? Makes sense.
Student: Generations.
Instructor: Yeah, let’s say ten. You think it’s a good argument? I want to ask you if you think it’s a good argument. What do you think? You think it’s a good argument?
Student: What’s the goal of the argument?
Instructor: To be Jewish means that you’re the one that killed Christ, and then it’s not a good situation to be. So therefore you’re going to be—you’re going to be hurt and abused.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Hurt and abused. And just to be clear, hurt and abused—it’s not only a material problem, it’s also a spiritual problem, right? People don’t do well when they’re… It’s not normal, not a good situation to be in.
So therefore the solution—you could, you know, convert to Christianity, might be one way of assimilating, or maybe you shouldn’t do that, because the goyim [non-Jews] in Europe are not Christian anymore, so you should just convert to cultural Christianity, which is called being OTD [Off The Derech: no longer religiously observant]. You have some times, like what we said in the shiur, where you’re just—you’re okay with the questions, it’s fine.
Student: Yes, okay.
Instructor: The argument, the problem was that we’re most of the time we’re in this predicament. Let’s talk about this predicament. We’ll talk about that story.
Instructor: I’m asking you a question about this argument. Forget about this. We could generalize this question, right? If I’m in a situation where I could make my life not much better, slightly better, but my great-great-grandchildren’s life will be entirely solved a certain problem—so should I do it? Is the correct thing to do that? You think of course. Why?
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: Explain.
Let’s flip it around with this. We don’t have any emotional attachment to this. Let’s say this Christian guy always gets abused by the Jews or by the Muslims or whatever. Would you tell him, okay, just be an ost-Christian [former Christian], just become an am ha’aretz [ignoramus/common person]. And like this, maybe you’re still going to be like those, a bit hurt here and there. But three generations, you’re a selfless guy, right? You’re interested in… Fuck it, you’re selfish even, right? You’re interested that your children should have a life in this world, your grandchildren. Yeah, of course, everyone tells the other. Meaning, me, the Taryag [613 commandments], with the zecher [memory], with all the Christians. You would say that.
For the Christian guy, sure, right? Just doing this, attached to my Judaism, whatever, so then I have these weird, big-easy thoughts. I don’t think.
Student: Okay, so then, I don’t know. I don’t think.
Instructor: First, to be clear, it’s not a costless thing. If it’s costless, then why not? Not costless, right? There’s a cost to you, right? You’re so sure that you should pay any cost, so your great-great-great-grandchild—wait, takes at least four generations. So your great-great-grandchild should have a better life, and you’re paying any cost, you’ll ruin your life to whichever extent you want because of that. Is that correct? What’s your argument? You’re giving up your life, so you’re great. You’re ruining your life. You’re going to have a really sad, messed up life, also your great-great-grandchild should have a slightly better life. That’s the trade that you just said you should do.
Student: We’re here in a nice school and they were just chillin’ and we’re thinking about things, and but you’re only thinking about that you told me about we say it’s coming through the blocks and murdering all of you and whatever. I think there’s—yes, there’s that thought like, it’s pretty okay to give up on this geshmak [pleasant/enjoyable] life, or what type of sacrifice is it compared to real torture and death and all that? You’re giving up a good life for that.
Instructor: What good life?
Student: Well, it’s a good life now. You’re living a good life. You’re living a…
Instructor: Yeah, now. But then we’re not talking about assimilating. Again, remember that whenever we say good life, we are including morally good, because there isn’t really such a thing as discussing material good without moral good or spiritual good. There’s some moral good or intellectual good or spiritual good that we’re talking about also. That should be a contemplation. There’s a trade-off. It’s slightly less. They never killed someone that was morally good in Aristotle’s world, right? They killed people that were hidden, that kept the Torah of Jesus. In their way, that was their way for being good. You want them to give up. They should be bad. In other words, their great-grandchildren should have a chance at being different, having different problems, basically, right?
You’re acting like you’re very sure. I don’t know. You’re very sure of one side because you think that because you were agreeing with the other side, because if you have negi’us [bias/vested interest], therefore the other side is very clear. It’s not very clear. Not very clear.
Student: No, I’m just defogging it that way.
Instructor: No, you’re not. You’re actually adding fog by doing that.
Student: Okay, how?
Instructor: This is a whole other sha’aleh. A whole other side. But you should know, you saw this. Shmueli, if someone—there’s an argument that goes like this, a very important argument. It’s written about already in one of my writings that I wrote and sent in the beginning of the year, I think, or last year, when I was trying to make my weekly ma’amar [essay/discourse].
It said like this: Many people think that when they support their own side, so to speak, in religion or nationalism or something like that, where there’s a very clear group side—so they say, well, I’m only agreeing to this because it’s my side, and I’ll accept any bad argument for it, right? I’m not worried about things like this, for example. And therefore they say that probably most of the things that I believe or that I agree with when they’re arguing to this side are just because of that very strong bias that I have towards it.
And they talk about this a lot, about this problem, and they think that talking about this problem a lot and saying “well, what if you would have been a Palestinian, what would you have thought?”—that that gives them clarity of thought, that gives them an unbiased clear view from nowhere, right, from objectivity on the reality. And I think very seriously, very seriously, that that’s not correct.
In other words, because you remember, Eliezer Yudkowsky said, “Reverse stupidity is not intelligence,” right? He said, if there’s a weather vane—you know what’s a weather vane? Let’s get from Eliezer Yudkowsky. Okay, what’s that? A weather vane, like this chicken, this rooster on the top of the house that tells you which way the wind is blowing, right?
But if you have a broken one, it’s still useful. Because broken just means that whatever it says west, it’s really east. And when it says east, it’s really west. So reverse weather vane is really as useful as a correct one. Like that guy that said, “How do you know that’s da’as Torah [Torah knowledge/wisdom]? That’s there, is the opposite of that.” “What about them?” So you ask about the ba’al habayis [homeowner/layperson], and he tells you that, and you do the opposite, right? That’s—or like a Litvak [Lithuanian Jew]. A guy once said, “If I don’t know what to do, yes, let’s fucking do exactly that.”
That would have been true if the world—if reverse stupidity would have been intelligence. The problem is that it doesn’t work like that. Why? Remember what Aristotle said? There’s only one truth, and there’s many, many ways to be wrong. Remember what Tolstoy said, right? There’s one way to be happy and many, many ways to be sad. Remember? Remember?
Instructor: Which references am I going to make you know? How is this going to work? All happy families are happy in the same way. All unhappy families are unhappy in different ways. That’s the beginning of Anna Karenina. One of the most famous opening lines in literature. You should know about it.
Anyways, but that’s all based on this basic thought from Aristotle. That there’s many ways to be bad and not many ways to be good. That was one of his arguments for why the good should be the middle way. Remember?
And Aristotle said that this is a Pythagorean thought, because the Pythagoreans said that the one is on the side of the good, and the many and the varied and the unequal and so on, and the even, because odd is one and even is two, so even numbers are the bad ones according to Pythagoras. So those are the side of the bad.
Student: Zygus [zugos: Greek term meaning “yoked” or “paired,” referring to even numbers].
Instructor: Yeah, Zygus. We talked about this. I know. Not with you? Someone? Yeah, Zygus, exactly. Zygus are bad, because Zygus means that there’s two, there’s duality. Duality is bad.
Instructor: So because at least there’s at least two ways to be bad there’s never something because of this just to go back because of this when someone says tell you something stupid doing the opposite of that is very like is more likely to be another stupid thing than to be the correct thing stemmed math works out.
Therefore when you say I am biased by believing my side of the story therefore I should be not biased and give a lot of weight at least not saying believing nobody says I’m just gonna believe but I’m gonna give a lot of way to the other side of the story, that has more chances of being stupidity than it has of being truth. Very important, this is true. Think about it and say, I’m not going to argue with you about this because you don’t realize. So I’m telling it to you.
Student: I’m a spectrum, it’s a triangle. I agree, but I don’t think in this instance it’s that way.
Instructor: No, I’m just telling you that you made that argument. Instead of making an actual argument why it’s better, you said, let me give you the opposite story or a different story and when you do whenever someone does that I have to assume that they’re making it more confused instead of more or just as confused instead of clarifying anything because I don’t see how you clarify anything.
I could see there’s a question here what to do and he said well you would have obviously no I would not have obviously there would be the same question or there’s the same question of you didn’t stop anything by reversing the story nothing I get it and you didn’t say what you you didn’t solve there’s a real question and you pretended that it’s not a real question and you said it’s not a real question because if you would have been on the other side you would have said the opposite which is not correct there is a real question and the same real question you didn’t make the real question less.
Sometimes someone is looking at the question the wrong way and you give them an opposite example or something and you see that everyone agrees that one but it’s not true that everyone agrees with that you just made that assumption because you made the very strong assumption that the reason why someone would agree with the other side is because they’re on that side but that’s not correct there’s a real question so reversing which side you’re on doesn’t solve mostly any anything and doesn’t solve anything here either.
Instructor: So let’s go back to where we are it doesn’t solve anything here either it’s not obvious at all that someone should make their life worse because their great-grandchild that should be better in any way is that very not obvious.
Student: Why is it worse for him?
Instructor: It’s worse that was the question oh we were assuming again we were assuming that it’s worse if you think it’s not worth that’s a different question it’s be better for you too. We’re saying it’s going to be worse for you, but for your great-grandchild you’ll be better. That was the facts of the question that we laid out. That fact wasn’t the question. That fact was just the background fact that we’re assuming for this question to even begin.
We said, you’re going to have a bad life because assimilation doesn’t actually work in one generation. No assimilation does. That’s just how human nature is. I don’t think this is something that Jews believe specifically. Everyone believes that. You know people that go to a different country many often agree that they’re having they’re making life worse for themselves they’re doing I’m doing it for my kids right.
Okay so doing it for your children is one thing but if you’re doing it for your great great grandchildren is another thing and even doing it for your children is not actually as simple as as it seems to be for many reasons which we could talk about if you think if you want to and if I don’t think this is I don’t think this is a simple question if you should.
Instructor: To me the the first question is such a situation does the person need to become a bad person in order for their grandchildren to be good if he’s actually becoming a bad person then he probably shouldn’t at all I agree they’re just trying to I’m trying I’m trying to think about the question.
Student: Yeah why does it what does it equal you start off with Leo Strauss again let’s go in.
Instructor: I was getting to a different question yes right you started with Leo Strauss saying that neutral what you all said, that we could assimilate, but we will not work in one generation, and therefore we shouldn’t. And basically, I don’t remember if he said, but let’s take this story. You’re saying basically, and you shouldn’t.
Now, my question to you is, what is the issue that he said, let’s assimilate? In other words, why is that to have a minute?
Student: Because we’re going to solve the Jewish problem.
Instructor: What’s the Jewish problem?
Student: That everyone hates us.
Instructor: I think that’s basically the problem. And there’s no use. Like, I’m being the guy that everyone hates. It’s not a good situation. That’s what I said. And we get abused, right? We get hurt, we get killed. It’s bad. It’s bad. If everyone just hates us, then nothing ever happens.
Student: No, no, no, no. It means that we get hurt.
Instructor: No, no, it’s bad. It’s bad even if nothing happens. It’s bad. Just to be clear, adding parts of hurt, they’re not going to solve your problem. So then it’s not a sacrifice. In other words, okay, so everyone hates me, fine.
Student: No, it’s not. You think that it’s fine. It’s not fine.
Instructor: It’s not fine. It’s not fine. Why? It’s not fine. I’m making this assumption. I can’t give it. That’s a fourth sheet. It’s not fine. It’s not fine.
Instructor: By the way, if they hate you, it’s probably because there’s something wrong with you. Let’s be real. Usually people hate something that’s hurting them or somehow something is wrong with you. Why would you be that guy that everyone hates? Something is wrong. It’s a sign that something went wrong, right? Everyone agrees with that.
Student: I think most of the world would hate the philosopher type, but there’s nothing wrong with them.
Instructor: By the way, there is definitely something wrong with them. The first philosopher called Plato or Socrates wrote a book to talking about this problem. Maybe more than one book talking about this problem. He thought it was a problem. Okay?
If you’re if everyone hates you you’re probably not as good as you think you are. Yeah, I think we’re very used to this. We’re way too used to this idea that everyone hates us and we’re the best. I don’t think that’s a reasonable stable stable belief. It might be true. I’m not saying it’s impossible that should be the case, but it should cause you to stop and think.
Student: Is the reverse true also? If everyone likes you, then you’re good?
Instructor: No, not a proof, but it’s not a reason to be concerned. I mean, maybe if it is, if you have a very perverse thought that everyone is wrong, so if everyone likes you, then again, but that’s again the reverse stupidity problem, right?
Student: It is, but it’s also a little bit showing that that’s not the measuring tape.
Instructor: No, it’s not. Nobody said it is, but it’s a sign.
Student: Is it?
Instructor: Yeah, pretty sure it is. I think that if you think it’s not a sign, there’s something wrong with you.
Student: No. Now you’re saying…
Instructor: No, I’m doing psychological pressure on you. Now you’re saying, like, fuck, how low it is.
Student: No, no, no. I’m talking about…
Instructor: Yeah, it’s not a fact. I’m starting from there. In… Okay, let’s get back to where we were. I have to say a sheet, right? So, I was saying that there’s an assumption that says that…
Instructor: Are good people hated by bad people? Or not usually? No, why should good people be hated? That’s such a weird idea.
Student: You good people are why?
Instructor: No good people means people that make things better right?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Okay so if you’re making things better why would anyone be against that?
Student: You’re making it worse for the bad people.
Instructor: So you’re not actually making things better. So you’re not actually making things better are you? You’re making bad people worse. Are you making the bad people worse or better? Things better for them or worse for them? Those are two different questions. Very good. Even punishment is supposed to be good for the bad people, not the bad people.
Student: I can imagine the bad person hating.
Instructor: Yeah, that’s another one of the excuses that you’re saying. I can be jealous. He’s jealous of a good person. He makes everything good around him. I don’t think that’s correct. I think that if a good person makes you jealous, something wrong with the good person.
Student: Would you say that a bad person is someone who hates what might be good for them?
Instructor: It’s weird, though. Like, because you have to think of the… You remember Zachary’s… Now I’m just repeating Zachary’s kind of arguments. But if you remember, like, patients almost never hate doctors, even when the doctors do things that they hate. Right?
Because doctors are people that try to make you more healthy, which is a kind of good thing. And the doctor might tell you you’ve got to take a… Even if the doctor gets you very annoyed, you have to go on a diet and you have to stop smoking and stop doing all the nonsense that you’re doing and the guy says, thank you very much and then he doesn’t listen. But very few people go around hating doctors besides for our health secretary or whatever. But it’s a very weird… Most people, even he doesn’t like it. He’s just saying, okay, whatever. Right?
So it’s not obviously… We’re very used to very weird ideas. We have to get out of these weird habits of thought. We’re very used to thinking that if you’re right, you should expect everyone to hate you. Why? Why would that? Maybe you’re stupid. What’s going on here?
Student: No, I don’t think you’re necessarily hated by everybody. I think you should be liked by most people.
Instructor: [Continues to next section]
Instructor: Exactly. I don’t understand that either. Well, not only by a bad person. I’ll just give you the example of a doctor. Doctors are about making bad people better, by hurtful ways often, by being against you, and nobody hates them. Right.
Student: What I think is different about medicine is that you trust the doctor.
Instructor: So why couldn’t you get the people to trust you? You’re not all that smart after all, are you?
Student: I don’t believe that the truth is closer to their reach than they…
Instructor: You can’t teach?
Student: No, I’d say it’s more in their reach than… Everyone agrees that what health is?
Instructor: I think people trust doctors because they don’t believe that they know the answer.
Student: The issue is that a bad person might think that he knows the answer.
Instructor: I can see somebody hating or despising a certain doctor that he believes is as irresponsible as they have a difference of opinion than him. I think he believes he’s a qualified medical professional.
Student: Okay, so you’re saying that it’s harder to teach.
Instructor: It shouldn’t be impossible.
Student: No, no, no, you have to…
Instructor: That you’re a bad teacher.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: That’s what teaching is, right?
Student: Yeah, but until then you’re hated. Until you write the Shesh [possibly referring to *Shulchan Aruch*, the authoritative code of Jewish law].
Instructor: It should be expected. Maybe you should be hated if you’re doing a bad job at teaching.
Student: Hopefully there are some people who hated Socrates before they met him.
Instructor: Maybe because he was a bad teacher.
Student: Or maybe because they were pattern matching him to bad teachers.
Instructor: This is the argument that Plato actually makes in the *Republic* [Plato’s foundational work on justice and the ideal state]. He said that people hate philosophers because most of the philosophers they meet are actually bad people.
Student: It’s one way that, yeah, one way you can hate somebody by association.
Instructor: Okay, so now that’s not hating me. I’m saying to someone else that you were mistaken for me.
Student: Okay, still a way.
Instructor: And they’re right for hating me in that sense, right? They just have mistaken object, like mistaken…
Student: Okay, but then…
Instructor: Okay, all I’m getting at is that we’re way too comfortable with the idea that because we’re right, we’re hated. You should not be so comfortable with it. There’s something very weird with that, and I don’t think it’s generally the case. I think that in most cases people are pretty happy for people to correct them and so on if there’s some weird areas in which this is not the case you should figure out why and also you should figure out how to be a better teacher because there’s no point in being right.
Maybe the true—maybe the reason people sometimes hate people who are right is because those people have responsibility to teach them and they’re doing the opposite of teaching them. They’re making them hate them. And their job should be to love them. And you say, well, in between, they’re going to hate them. Of course, in between, don’t teach them. Who asked you to try to teach something impossible? The point of that. Who did you help now? How did you make anything better?
Maybe you should be kept a secret. Maybe you should just close your mouth and wait for the people to be ready. Or maybe you should figure out some weird, subversive way to teach that people don’t realize that you’re against them until it’s too late. I don’t know. These are real questions.
Instructor: Why is being hated such a bogeyman story? Meaning, in a certain sense, we should do this the other way also. Meaning, if we find out that *tzaddikim* [righteous people] are hated, there’s a good chance that we should just put them in a *shoe* [possibly *cherem*, excommunication, or a colloquial term for isolation/punishment].
Student: Yeah, that’s my argument.
Instructor: Probably, look, we’re living in a world where we don’t know much. We don’t know much about what is good, about what to live, what is true, through what is beautiful, how to live, right? We’re living off signs. You can’t disregard a very major sign, which is, everyone is against you, you should at least take that as a serious argument.
And besides for it being a serious argument that you should think that maybe you’re doing something wrong, it’s also a serious hindrance to making progress in anything, to having a good life, just to be clear. Not only because they’re going to… I mean, also because of that.
Instructor: Like a big part of human—humans, the way humans work is like cooperation with other humans. And if they’re not going to let you into their schools and not going to do business with you, I’m not going to cooperate with you, we’re not going to marry with you or you’re not going to marry with them, then you’re going to have a harder time doing the kind of human flourishing that humans do. Humans need other humans to live, right?
You can say, well, I’m going to live by myself. Okay, so that means you’re cutting yourself off from 90% of the good of humanity, right?
Instructor: Like the very concrete way of saying this is: in Europe in our universities we’re discovering the cure for cancer. Unfortunately they don’t accept you into university if you don’t convert to Christianity. Therefore you’re being very nice—good you—by not being a good person and not discovering the cure for cancer, right?
Therefore the answer is you should convert to Christianity. This is the argument for assimilation. It’s a very serious argument. And say, well, they’re the weird bad guys. Okay, so they are, but you’re also a bad guy now. You should be curing cancer and meanwhile you’re fine.
Student: For think of I guess cautious. I mean that’s also a good thing to do maybe that could just do that so why don’t you let them into issue.
Instructor: Same, same problem.
Student: I’m not let it can stay here okay so.
Instructor: Or this tower that one of the answers were—we were discussing or one of the arguments were discussing was that you cannot do it because this is not gonna work. Might work for your great grandchildren. And therefore we got to a question which is: how much worse should he become in order for your great-grandchildren to be better? You think it’s very obvious that you should become worse, but I don’t think it’s…
Student: But before you just made it clear that it’s not so positive that we’re becoming worse, because we’re the ones that are, let’s say, going against finding cancer.
Instructor: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that’s the problem. But right now you’re not going to—the continuation of that argument would be that your great grandchild will start finding a cure for cancer, not you, because they’re still not going to let you into their university because they’re going to say, yeah, you’re a, how’s it called? You’re a new Christian, right? We don’t really trust the new Christians. Right?
That’s the story of the Spanish Inquisition, right? We don’t trust these guys that converted yesterday in order to get a job in the university. We know exactly why they converted. They’re not buying us, right? Their great-grandchildren we’ll trust because even Hitler agrees that they’re not Jewish anymore. Right?
By the way, how much worse should I make my life to save my great-grandchild from Hitler?
Student: Infinitely worse.
Instructor: Yeah? I don’t know. You can ask… What’s his name? You could ask Bentham [Jeremy Bentham, founder of utilitarianism] to calculate the quality of life years or something and figure out which one gives you more utilitarian points.
Student: Is there a difference between child and great-grandchild?
Instructor: Yes, there’s a difference.
Student: Yeah, there’s a difference, I agree.
Instructor: But we’re assuming that it’s your great-grandchild, very purposely, or very realistically, right? And for the case that we’re considering.
Student: Not going to solve your child’s problems either.
Instructor: I think that there’s a very interesting loop here, which is that you’re only going to be able to save the people you don’t have an obligation to anymore.
Student: I’m thinking that this might solve the problem.
Instructor: Why?
Student: Because who is the person you’re planning to save? Precisely the one who has no relationship to you anymore, right?
Instructor: What’s the—the Torah says God remembers the father’s sins for three or four generations, right? [*Pokeid avon avot al banim al shileshim v’al ribe’im* – Exodus 34:7] Which is a way of saying grandchildren are great-grandchildren, right? It says, a grandfather doesn’t really care about the great-great-grandchildren. If anyone’s ever had a great-great-grandfather, have you? You should know that.
Do you have a great-great-grandfather?
Student: No?
Instructor: Look around, what? I know some people who have great-great-grandchildren. They don’t really care for them. Okay, it’s way too far from you. It’s like your great-grandchildren’s children. Seriously, you might—you’re 90 by the time it comes around, right? You’re like on the way out, right? They’re on the way in, right? And it’s not like really—it’s not going to work. Yeah, it’s cool. Again, you can get a nice picture out of it. I think I read an article in the Times about it, but not much more, right?
Because that guy is going to grow up in a different world than you. That’s basically the point, right? The point is me and my children, my grandchildren, sometimes my great-grandchildren share a world. We share a century, like we share a life in some sense. My great-great-grandchildren, my great-great-great-grandchildren, we don’t live in the same world. For practical purposes, I’m not his great-grandfather. I’m not his parent.
And even Hitler understood this, right? Remember? That was his rule, more or less.
Student: No, it was something like four or five.
Instructor: In any case, it’s the same idea, right? At some point, you stop.
Student: Exactly. He’s like, I’ll try to kill you.
Instructor: Yeah, anyways, you get my point, right? So I think that it would be very… Now, it depends what your theory of moral obligation is, right? But my theory would be based on actual relationships.
Instructor: You have an obligation to your children precisely because they share a life with you and you’re responsible for them and so on. That’s why you have an obligation to them, right? You should care about your father, your grandfather, and so on and the other way around because you share a life with them. Your great-great-great-grandfather, I don’t know, I have a tzavul [obligation] for my great-great-great-grandfather to do something. So, he doesn’t talk to me. I don’t care. If he left me money, maybe. Otherwise I don’t care. I don’t share any—I don’t have any real obligation to him, right? I have obligation to other people just as much in his generation just as much as I have to him, more or less. I also have so many that get diluted, right? He also only owns 1/128th of me, right? At that point not really interesting.
So therefore I don’t have obligation to him. So now it would be very weird to say you should do something in order that the precise people who you stop having a moral connection with should have a better life.
Instructor: I have a very amazing follow-up to this. Not contractarian. I mean, it’s based on the thought that you have obligation to, like closeness, right? Like levels of care, right? Order of love, like our vice president said, right?
Student: Yeah, but these things should, part of them is that these things should come forth from you being a good person, right?
Instructor: Yeah, a good person is someone who cares about his children and his grandchildren and his great-grandchildren. You care about the whole world in some abstract sense or in some real sense. You become a citizen of the world, right, cosmopolitan, but not specifically your grandchildren.
Now, if you care about the world, the solution to the world’s problem is not for the Jews to stop existing. That’s the solution to the Jews’ problems. The solution to the world’s problem is that they should stop killing the Jews. Then you work on a universal level. I agree that you could work on a universal level, on the cosmopolitan level, national level, beyond your fourth generation but not on the your level. It’s not an obligation to your children at this point.
And also, yeah, the one who will come to your funeral you should take care of them. The one who won’t come because they’ll be babies or you’re gonna be dead before they’re at it, before they’re born—why would you help them? Not why you shouldn’t, like you don’t have any specific obligation to them.
Student: Do you have more of an obligation to the guy that lives in the next town over?
Instructor: No, the further you walk from the table, also I have less obligation.
Student: What? You didn’t even hear.
Instructor: Oh. No.
Student: No, do you have less of an obligation to your [great-great-grandchild], than to the guy that lives right now in the next town over?
Instructor: I don’t know.
Student: [Inaudible] figure out different question why—
Instructor: Why? Because as a human however you’re saying it’s like we care about the society around us whatever, right? It would seem that you would follow this argument is that we should care about the guy next door, for sure next door, but the guy, even the next time over, more than your great-great-grandchild.
Student: Possibly. I don’t know. It seems like a weird question, but why are you getting that?
Instructor: Because that’s what follows from your argument.
Student: Okay, and therefore, okay, I don’t know, but I don’t see what’s the problem, and if yes—
Instructor: If no, then I don’t understand the whole thing. If yes, then okay, so you’re saying a very big chiddush [novel insight], that a person should care more about a random guy—
Student: I don’t know for sure but I don’t see what would be a problem for why should I care about a random guy. I don’t think you should care about random guys at all. Why would you care about random guys? You mean fellow humans? Very nice. We share something called humanity. To the extent that that’s relevant I should care about—I don’t—I don’t see red—I don’t know. But me man more when you and you asked me to care about my grandchildren as my grandchildren, not as humans, right?
Instructor: Just told you as humans I have this better plans for solving human racist problems, right? Now we’re selling the Jewish problem, not the human problem, right?
Student: Why not? Of course I do not—so they’re human so we share humanity we do share—
Instructor: You don’t share a life with them, you don’t share a world with them, you don’t share anything with them, in a human way, you have views and you have experiences.
Student: No, no, these are different things. When I say a world, I mean the world of a family, not a world living in the same period. That’s not very interesting, and some little interesting, but not that interesting, I don’t think. There’s real connections, right? There’s real touch. If I’m in a family with someone, I share a life in a very real way. If I share a life in an abstract way we’ll both read the same newspaper on the same day, okay, I guess there’s some connection there. I don’t know how much.
They interviewed like a woman who was like 106 and they asked her like what changed? Everything. Yeah, it’s not the same world. Yeah, everything. What stayed the same?
The thing is I want to get to something. I want to say something interesting thing here. I’m gonna get to somewhere.
Instructor: There’s [a person]—his name was Abraham, heard of him? The last name was Avinu [our father]. And he had a plan, that’s what the Rambam [Maimonides] says at least. He had a plan to do something for who? Who do you want to do something for? I’m not sure either for the whole world or at least for his family. Okay, I’m not sure. I think for the whole world are going to the number [according to the Rambam]. But it entailed working by that with the tool of his family, okay? Or we call it a nation which is just a bigger version of family.
But listen to the story. And then turned out that he wasn’t having any children and he decided for some reason and he thought that not having children destroys the plan. It doesn’t work. It destroys the plan. The way his plan was going to work was by having children.
And since, remember from last week’s class in Boro Park, that just like when a person does, habituates himself, he creates habits in himself which are sometimes said to be the reward of his good actions. They’re not anymore a choice. They’re already the reward. They’re the s’char [reward] already.
In the same way, this happens between generations also, right? If you train your family in a certain way, your children, by receiving your education, not only by age, maybe also by receiving your genes, but probably mostly by living in your house, receive your things that you worked on for free. True?
So parents are very upset at their children, because they show them how all the bad habits that you accumulated they just get for free. The good ones too, but those you’re happy with. They also notice some bad ones that you will pretend that you don’t have because you always see yourself as a person who chooses. So I don’t have the bad habit of always overeating. I am just the guy that happens to be doing that. It turns out that you already have that and your children’s trying you—they’re just doing it not by choice, just by this is what the meaning in our family is, all right?
So this Abraham, his plan was to work with this system, distant part of human nature. And since he identified a whole bunch of issues with human nature and decided he grew up with and so on, he realized he decided it’s going to have these people, this family which will slowly pick and inoculate, right? Habituate habits, good habits in his children. Unfortunately it only works if you have children.
Student: What about students? Seems like you didn’t really believe in those. It’s a good question why, but I think because if you think of working with human nature you should try to work as closely to biology as possible, I think.
Instructor: You know that everyone thinks that students are better than children. It says in the midrash [rabbinic commentary]. But that’s a matter just—that’s not pshat [the plain meaning], you know. Like, Yitzchak [Isaac] couldn’t marry the midrash. Yeah?
Yeah, if you want to actually work, you should work with biology. It’s always a good idea. As much as you can go and not go against biology, you should. General rule of social change, social revolutions. If your revolution, any time someone says, we’re having a revolution, it’s going to be against the family, that’s probably not going to work. Or it’s going to work, but it’s going to do the opposite than what you think you’re doing and so on.
If you’re having a revolution, we’re going to use every part of human nature the way it is, not the way we think it should be, right? Like Machiavelli said, you can’t be an effective politician if you’re talking about human nature always how it should be, right? You describe your nature as it is and use that. That’s going to probably raise your chances of success. Make sense? Everyone’s masking, okay?
Therefore you should probably use this thing called family, biology, lineage, right? Make sense?
I guess, okay. I thought you all don’t agree with this, but I’m not a patient to figure out to explain to you why you don’t, the way that we don’t agree. So sounds like the way I just told it to you, you agree, so let’s move on.
Instructor: So let’s move on. Anyway, since this was the plan, he realized that he doesn’t have children, it’s not going to work. So he came to God, which means what? Speaking to God doesn’t mean, hey, you could solve my problems, how about you solve this one? It means, the truth is, this whole plan is falling apart, right?
And he said to God, but just left look all right he said you’ve promised me reward but that is fake news not happening I don’t even have children God means that was his plan of course I was this plan he’s working his whole life for this I was gonna be his reward right it says lack of over at [לך לך: “go forth” – the opening words of God’s command to Abraham] and you will have children and so on, right?
Meaning he did the Machiavellian problem. What do you mean the problem? When it says that God promised him that, it means that that was the plan, right? It wasn’t the plan magic, God was going to do it, it was going to work naturally, right? If you’re relying on magic, even if God himself tells you, not a good plan. Even God himself made nature so things would work, right? If your plan is God is going to save you from the world he made, you’re working in a very messed up way.
Student: This is because people said last week that I may hope shatav [I may have naturalized] and I’ve only made everything naturalized. I don’t think that’s true. I think you have to understand how God actually works.
Instructor: But chanshan sakre [a different matter] for that drusha [homiletical interpretation]. No, that’s different. That’s a third drusha. A fifth drusha. We’re up to a long list of other drushas.
The point is, he came and he said, this is not working. V’heneh v’embeisi ereshoysi [והנה בן ביתי יורש אותי: “and behold, my steward will inherit me”], right? My student or my manager, whatever exactly it means, he’s going to inherit everything and he’s going to do whatever he wants frankly is not going to be my plan this is not my reward all right so what did Hashem [God] say told him what this means is right or we’re reading it so he thought we thought this plan he realized some told him that he didn’t understand the process correctly he was making a basic mistake.
Now these kind of things work up until this moment he had a very naive one he probably had to have that because if he wouldn’t have had that he would never have started the plants to begin with he really believed that this is all going to work out perfectly live happily ever after going to go and burn humanoids whatever break his father’s uh catch this over there how do you say getch [געטשקע: Yiddish for idol/figurine] in english?
Student: Yeah idols getch kisses idols right tell them tell that to someone else.
Instructor: It’s not the same thing. It doesn’t mean the same thing. It’s a bad translation. A gechke. What?
Student: American idol is American gechke?
Instructor: Trachteraan [think about it]. Oh my goodness. What is it called? It’s called a word that has two meanings. Idol is a sense of grandiosity that gechke doesn’t have. Exactly. There’s differences. Idol is a good thing. It sounds better than gechke, for sure. The truth of it weren’t idols. There were a couple of gechke left, you know?
Student: Statues.
Instructor: Statues also so grandiose a gechke is a gechke a statue is a statue it’s not a gechke a gechke a statue not every statue is a gechke that’s true is that like my brother there used to be there used to be the club over there next to my parents house and Kennedy Bilvard [Kennedy Boulevard] and we used to call it the gechke with the big deer the L club [Elk Club] but it’s not a gechke it’s just a statue of a deer no gechke going on there.
Instructor: I guess you know he’s going to break the catch kiss that’s a cute mistranslation but it’s not a translation right so the kids said he was gonna do that and then he was gonna start convincing everyone that he’s right and then he’s gonna move away because this is not a good place to raise your children in this hood on place or wherever he came from he caused it they’re a good place they’re up they’re going to go to a new place where nobody knows who he is he’s going to reinvent himself right you can tell everyone who are you and i can say i’m the son of theta i’m saying i’m abraham the founder of the new religion and couldn’t they all laugh at him yeah i know we know we know exactly where you are the kids but the son of data right that’s why you have to move away because you have a new story right who are you ah you’re the magician that broke the yeah and then you had arguments also and i have a plan now you’re going to change the world yeah sure.
That wasn’t that to work. So he went to a new place, and he introduced himself, everyone that says a putzik [a fool/simpleton]. And he introduced himself, I’m the guy creating the new religion. Ah, interesting plan. Started to work, right? He started getting chassidim [followers/disciples]. And, but his real plan was that, like I said in the beginning, his plan wasn’t just to allow the chassidim, the chassidim are needed, you know, to pay for the family. But, I don’t know why. But, his plan, and his plan was to create a family, right?
He happened to have been against that. Who was against that? Avraham. He didn’t want anyone to say, I’ll give him a deal. No, not the misnagdim [opponents]. The day of misnagdim, remember the whole story of Saddam [Sodom]. Saddam was the primary misnagdim of Avraham, right? He came to, there was Nimrod, whoever, I don’t know, whoever, he doesn’t say his name really in the title, whatever the guy was that was against Avraham, he ran away from him, he went to Canaan, right?
Then he went in the canal and he was making his own thing, an eye, and he says exactly the location. He created it in Mezbech [מזבח: altar], right? Mezbech just means, right? What’s in Mezbech? He even showed Mezbech. He would imagine, like, he ran from, like, we find it, he go to Israel, some random box of rocks in the desert in Mezbech. That’s not what it means, right?
Mezbech is a permanent structure. Mezbech means he set up a temple, right? That’s really what it means, right? Mezbech means literally an altar, but he set up, it means there’s a whole culture, Like, he set up his yeshiva [academy], his academy, his temple, his worship center, his Abraham’s hospitality suite, right? Where they did the Echad HaZarchim [הכנסת אורחים: hospitality to guests] and Chabad House. And they taught everyone about Yiddishkeit [Judaism]. Abraham, of course. Right? That’s what he did, right? And that’s who he was.
Now, Saddam, they were the exact people that had a different plan for civilization, right? They also had a new city, somehow. They had their own rules. They were like Sparta, you know? They’re going to have their own very successful city. But they had the exact opposite plan. They were there always just to snag them [misnagdim: opponents]. That’s why Lloyd [Lot], that’s the whole story with Lloyd. That’s the drama with him, right?
Lloyd said, oh, there’s no room for me here. Okay, you know what? Somehow I ended up in Sadaim [Sodom]. And then it turns out that they needed Avram to save them, which is a very great humiliation, right? Groyser Lloyd [great Lot], Groyser, this is the story of the Ben Rusha [the wicked son], right? Same story, right? Groyser Lloyd was like, look, there’s no room for us. You know something? I’ll expand on my own. But yeah, that’s Sadaim. Go away.
And turns out to become friendly with the king of Sodom obviously he was aristocrat and so on he was Yosef Bashar Sodom [יושב בשער סדום: sitting in the gate of Sodom – indicating a position of authority] and then turns out before that already turns out that they got these great upstarts who got into a fight with Kedarlah Omer [Chedorlaomer] maybe the guy that Abraham was in a fight with too but in any case he was much stronger than them.
And they thought they were going to be able to stand up to him where the new and revised palace we have this great city where we don’t have Rachmaninoffs [compassion], we do everything in a Spartan way, we treat everyone, we make sure to treat everyone by what they deserve, we don’t give, we have Rachmaninoffs on the weak people, we don’t live with, you know, we drink liberal tears, we take care that everyone should be strong and unforgiving, and we’re definitely going to be able to win this guy from the East who thinks that he can own everyone, right, this empire.
Turns out they couldn’t. Who could? Abraham with his 318 strong army he was able to save Sodom from Kedah [Chedorlaomer] by chance because it happens to be his nephew was there and also Sodom had their greatest moment of humiliation because Avram’s whole plan they were like two competing new societies which were going to make their new plan.
Avram’s plan was we’re going to be nice we’re going to create these hospitality centers centers on the ways, on every crossroad. And we’re going to teach people our religion. And Saddam was teaching that their religion, not in the crossroad, in the established cities. And we’re going to do everything over there. And it turns out that Avram saved Saddam. And the king of Saddam was trying to save his honor. He’s pretending to be nice, like giving a favor.
And really, now everything, by the laws of war, everything belongs to him. Sodom and his wives and his children and his property belongs to Avram now, right? That’s called matzah mazut ishliyam [מצא מזות שלהם: found their spoils], right? If someone else is attacked by some other king and you save them, who does everything belong to now? To you. Thank you very much. To the Savior. That’s why it belongs to God, right? He saved us from Egypt. Now it belongs to him. Basic logic of war.
And this king of Sodom he’s making a peace deal with hafidom like the like the palestinians make what they eat you know let’s make a peace deal you give me all the netfish [נפש: souls/people] all the all the living things all the give me back all my women and children and slaves i’ll be so nice to you i’ll give you the money hello who gave you the women and children to give back to me why should i give them back to you what are you paying me for that that was a bluffer from beginning to end.
And i haven’t realized the trick he’s not interested in fighting with him i haven’t Sadd [Sodom] realized that this was him pretending to save his honor, and he said, Ah!
Let’s make a peace deal. You give me all the *yidn ephesh* [living souls], all the living things, give me back all my women and children and slaves. I’ll be so nice to you, I’ll give you the money.
Hello? Who gave you the women and children to give back to me? Why should I give them back to you? What are you paying me for that?
That was a bluff from beginning to end. And Avram realized the trick. He’s not interested in fighting with him, and Avram realized that this was him pretending to save his honor, and say, “Oh, really everything belongs to me, I’m being so nice, I’m giving you some money.”
If he would say, “Everything belongs to you, then we’re your slaves, do whatever you want with us” — unconditional surrender — then Avram would win. But he realized at the end he has this priest on his side, they’re saying, you know, it’s not nice, you can’t just take all their stuff, there’s international law.
So Avram said, forget about it, move on, moving on. Don’t be the guy that made a nice priestry and let me have the money, let me have the property. Take the whole thing. And plats, understand the story?
So that’s not — that’s why it’s not a steer. And that’s why he said, but on the judgment of his friends he can’t be framed, right? His allies, they still have to get whatever they want.
Okay, now moving on.
And the point is that he realized that this — this was his plan. Now it was not working. The plan wasn’t working at all. He didn’t have any children. If you don’t have children, the plan doesn’t work.
He tried to have with two of the children, didn’t work. Tried to have with Ishmael, that was really his plan B. But obviously, that wasn’t working out very well either. He tried, right? He tried. Hashem told him, right? What does it mean, he told Hashem? Maybe Ishmael and Hashem said no. What does that mean?
He tried teaching Ishmael to be a man. Ishmael doesn’t want to be a man. The theology thing doesn’t work out as well as… Well, it depends on who you are. There’s two — 50% of the person’s DNA is the wife, right? You’ve got to choose your wife wisely. And this Huggard [Hagar] from Egypt wasn’t such a *tzadeikes* [righteous woman]. So, it didn’t work out.
People also have their own choice, but also a lot is to do with the father, right? He’s in the way of Shmuel with his mother, not himself, right? So, it didn’t work out very well.
So, now he’s stuck. His plan is bankrupt, close to bankruptcy. So he realized, or Hashem told him, you didn’t understand how this game is played. You really thought this is going to work. They’re going to get here. You’re going to set up a family. They’re all going to be *tzaddikim v’toirem* [righteous and pure]. And now nobody’s going to have any issues. Then you’re just going to live in this new land. You’re going to be strong, right?
You have an army. You have 318 family within your army, right? Well, stronger than the biggest empire’s army in those times. Nobody had a very big army. And they were courageous and they were young and they were all labor. They were very successful. They’re chased all the way from Khefrem to Damascus, it’s pretty far. In one night. I don’t know how they did it. That’s Khefrem from Sary. It’s a nice… It takes like five hours to drive.
Anyways, so…
In *kitzra maaseh* [in short], Hashem told them… This is called the *Bris Bein HaBesarim* episode. He told them, this doesn’t work out like this. This is not how the reality is. I’ll explain you why.
Instructor: Why? Do you know why? I don’t really know. Do you know?
The reason is because there’s a limit to what you can do with your children. We just explained this limit. There’s a real limit. People’s influence on their children is very limited. There’s a limit in many ways. One of them you found out with Ishmael. You can have the best intentions and then your son just says, “Tati [Father], I’ve got my own plans for life.” That’s one limit. Same story with what?
Student: I’m still upset.
Instructor: What?
Student: That’s your upset?
Instructor: Second limit, but the more important limit that we’re about here.
Student: I thought that’s what I…
Instructor: I thought you were saying?
Student: Yeah, I thought so.
Instructor: And?
Student: That’s not…
Instructor: That wasn’t the…
Student: That’s what I always thought it was.
Instructor: That’s not what’s gonna work.
Student: No, but there’s a bigger problem.
Instructor: The bigger problem is, remember that a person’s influence, even if you have a good family, the best one, you’re limited to four generations at most. And that’s in a very good state, right? Most people are limited to one or two generations. You can’t actually teach more than two generations, right? I mean, you can’t influence in a real way, right? You remember this.
By the way, this is true for teachers too, right? Wait, let’s work on something. You can’t — there’s a real problem. I’m giving you a *drash* [sermon/teaching] here. I’m sorry, you could go Burton for this these kind of *drashas*, but this is what I’m doing now. I’m trying to talk about real problems, though. And this is, okay.
Anyways, this is *amshach* [continuation] from my sheet of Paisach [Passover]. If it’s delivered, figure it out. If you have questions, you can call me and we’ll make it work for real. But it’s not working in a real way.
This is a limitation for teachers also, right? I think there’s — people have great hubris. Like, people have crazy overestimations of what humans are capable of, okay?
What should have been created with our teacher for 10,000 generations? What? There’s no such thing as being a teacher for 10,000 generations. What’s going on? We call this guy that lived 3,000 years our teacher. What does that even mean? There’s no such a thing.
Student: No, Sha [the Rebbe].
Instructor: No, it’s me.
Student: But I don’t get to talk to him.
Instructor: Okay, now there’s a big problem. So why they have this thing — never, it never works when you need it. Like, you ever heard someone using this one that case when it’s useful? It’s not useful. Only you only realize that it’s not — it’s tough.
Student: Yeah, it’s tough to the new cars don’t have it. You don’t have to do that. You just beep a regular beep.
Instructor: Not so that easy again, huh? That’s my home that I click does you park you forget so much, okay.
Anyways, *mashal* [parable/example], show you is point is I have a real question here. A very real question. Very real question. It doesn’t make sense. You know, people say, uh, they never died, but it’s *mazari* [unclear reference] behind this toilet is still alive, therefore it needs to go on forever like this. This is a bluff. You could go on for about one and a half generation like this, you could.
And the sad thing is that people that said this, they also die. So they don’t realize that their plan was always a fake false prophecy. And then the next generation or one and a half generations later are the one stuck. And then we already have a *misogyny* [likely *mesorah*: tradition] that this is what we say, and then we’re all living in a lie. I’m talking about very specific things now, but any case, it’s true, true problem.
Oh, it’s also — I don’t actually know that there’s a real solution to this problem. I actually think that each generation needs to have their own teachers. That’s the true truth. But also, there must be something more than that. At least we’re living in a world that’s helped us solve this problem or somehow thought a strategy with this. But I’m giving you a shot on the *Bris Bein HaBesarim* episode in a very serious shot.
So I’ll think like this. So Hashem told Avram, you have to understand that your precise problem, you have to first solve this problem. Your nicely planned of living happily ever after in *Eretz Canaan* [the Land of Canaan] with your children and grandchildren is nonsense. Because think about your great-grandchildren. Will they remember who Abraham was? If they will, they’ll be in some weird, fake way.
So don’t — this is not a good plan. It was never a good plan. I know that you’ve been living for 70 years based on this plan or however long. Going to the Hajj in 20 years. It’s not a real plan. How long was he living based on this plan? 25 years, right? 24 for. This is not a real plan. You got to think of a better plan.
So he said like this, look what I propose. There’s a lot of the imagery in that story and it’s hard to interpret and the *Medrash* [Midrash: rabbinic commentary] has all kinds of ways of reading it, but they’re all trying to read this kind a problem into it. Instead I have a new plan. You’re gonna have to do something that’s better than that. I don’t know what the solution is by the way. I have no idea.
But I do know that what it means it entails not letting people save their great grandchildren. Like the beginning of the sheep it for sure means that.
Today fresh and said look what’s gonna happen. I’ll tell you what’s gonna happen. I’ll tell you know something, let me just give you the price. The price for the what — the plan that is going to work that you didn’t realize now — that has a price. The price is like this: for four generations, or in a different version of the same story said 400 years. 400 years means four times four generations, right? We’re the same structure, right? 100 years is like the amount of people that’s here alive, and then four times that when nobody remembers the people that remember the people that remember that remember the people that remember that remember that remember the people that remember. That’s what the Hashem does, right? Understand?
That’s what 400 years means. Of course, that’s why the *kasha* [question/difficulty] was 400 years. 400 years is a fake *kasha*. The 400 years corresponds to, in the same passage it says, fourth generation, right? *Dor revi yeshuva ha’ina* [the fourth generation shall return here]. Does it say? It’s all working with this logic, that a person’s reach doesn’t extend past the fourth step.
So Hashem said, look, you’re thinking about the stage past that, right? That’s your real — what you’re really trying to get at — precisely the fifth generation is the one the or the fourth generation is when you’re trying to solve. So the price for that is that’s for three generations — for four generations you are going to be the precise opposite of a situation you’re imagining. We’re going to be a slave to a fire nation who’s going to do whatever they want with your children.
And then we’re going to have a cycle that’s going to solve somehow. That was the webcast from last week. But now I’m adding to something very new.
Instructor: Well, this is contrary to the whole sheet. It’s contrary, exactly. That’s what I’m trying to get at. I’m getting to this. This is contrary to the whole sheet. It’s contrary to the whole sheet.
The way to make it work would be to say something like that the real reason this is the true pathway—the real reason why the Jews don’t assimilate is not because of Leo Strauss’s tragic thing, but because we believe that by the fourth generation *Mashiach* [Messiah] will have come already. Right? Why shouldn’t I assimilate and become a *goy* [non-Jew]? Because it’s not going to work today, okay, but it’s going to work in four generations. No, what do you want? Right? That’s what that’s trying to live in a *mini* [?], and the fourth generation will welcome—this is what it means. This is exactly what it means.
This is exactly—I mean, I’m just to cut—now I’m filling you in on the first part of that. Well, yeah, it only starts in the fourth generation is the negative. Yeah, yeah, you have—I don’t know, I don’t have solution. I’m making—I made it into this whole story so you should swallow it a little bit.
But this is the problem. It only starts in the fourth generation, really. You got it?
And now, this is really—in other words, I think the way to say this, the nice way to say this, which I don’t entirely believe, would be to say that he’s really working on something that is meant to survive the natural course of humans, you know, losing their influence and having great, great grandchildren who they don’t really know.
But I don’t know how to explain that, so I’m just saying that.
But the point would be that now the answer is, who told us to be suffering in these when we’re in those 400 year cycles? The answer is Avraham Avinu [Abraham our forefather].
Now you’ll realize something very interesting. This chapter—I didn’t say it, I didn’t even write it, so I have to say it—and you’ll realize, so that’s what we said last week.
The *Midrash* [rabbinic commentary] says: Why are the Jewish people suffering? Because their source sold them out. Who’s our source? Avraham Avinu. Avraham Avinu caused us to suffer. It’s his fault. All his fault. Because he had a choice: either that his children go to *Gehinnom* [purgatory/hell] or that they suffer in this world under the nations, and he chose this one.
We discussed this in the *shiur* [class]. I gave a nice explanation of this matter. But the point is Avraham Avinu chose this life for us.
But now I’m adding it to you: what he chose it—maybe in one life you could have—what he chose was precisely because of this thing that he’s trying to create something that lasts past the fourth generation or that starts really working then.
Now, now I have a new thing, a new thing that I have to tell you. Yeah, I don’t know, I don’t—I’m gonna finish with my part and you’re gonna go to sleep and tell me if you have a better shot.
Now, what I’m saying is like this. You remember the story of the *Akeidah* [the binding of Isaac] that we read on Rosh Hashanah [the Jewish New Year]? And he says, okay, this—it’s hot and everyone’s like, yeah, it was once an old guy that wanted to shaft his young kid. Okay, what you are for my life? Oh, you were my grandfather? We just discussed grandparents don’t matter, right, after some chance.
What is the story of Avraham being our grandfather? It’s also the same problem, right?
So I want to tell you the *pshat* [straightforward interpretation]. The Rambam [Maimonides] says like this. The Rambam says: That wasn’t the sign of *Avachar* [?]. Remember, the Rambam has a problem with the sign. The sign seems to mean that God knows something and he finds out. It doesn’t make any sense.
So, therefore, the Rambam says: No, the sign doesn’t mean—the sign means the person, the publicization of something. *Nes* [miracle/sign]. Like, *Melesh* [?] and *Nes*, right? That’s also what *Nes* means. That’s also the answer of all the questions that you people have, that things should be a *Nes*. Of course, they should be a *Nes*.
Now, and what’s—now, therefore, whenever it says in the sign it means that we learn something from a very public story, a very famous story. What do we learn from the story of the *Akeidah*?
It says there are two things.
One thing we learn is that prophets are very sure of prophecy, because nobody would be ready to kill their son if he wasn’t very sure that it was God talking to him. He assumes that people aren’t—pretty nice, maybe some people would even forget, but normal people don’t deserve everything. He was a good guy. Remember? Okay, listen, this is the second part of my story. Just see that these two things.
So anyways, it teaches you the prophecy, and since prophecy is foundational to religion, so this is Avraham Avinu was the founder of religion—teaches us that prophecy is very real for the prophet. By the way, that’s where anyone knows—we don’t know that yet. Where the prophet is very real. Okay?
Second thing he tells the teachers off is how serious—I have a *sash* [?], I miss—that’s what it says and describes how hard it was for Avraham Avinu to do that *Akeidah*, and he gave all that away for Avraham Avinu. In this you’ll read it. What he says, he describes—imagine you have to read it. Bring me a—I have to tell you, I like *bias* [?], not the real one. Yeah, this is the one I might ask after my new one. Another one I keep it always here. And you see over there, I’m gonna tell—what I’m almost out.
So over here it says like this. This solution—which *parsha* [Torah portion] did I say it is? Oh, very good, I was right.
It says like this: But—and he says, starts talking about—suddenly here talk about the *view*—the first thing he said we learn is how much a person should do for *Ahavas Hashem* [love of God], not for—not first hard for *Ahavas Hashem*.
So he says, and then he says it talks about perhaps he said this—how you do—she has any other—Avraham Avinu, it’s like it was correct that this—what should—when it’s that I’m say is correct, does that make it *Edna’s* [?], like it’s plastic. What he’s saying, trying to explain you what the story is really—why it’s—why is the story told about Avraham Avinu?
He says: He started to teach the *yichud* [unity of God], right, after *Shem* [Noah’s son] and prophecy, and to leave—to leave over this opinion, this knowledge always, and to just limit another matter, right, to attract people to him. As it says, and just like we follow his true opinions, his true knowledge, we also follow the things taken from his action. We also—we imitate Avraham’s knowledge and his actions. That’s what the Rambam says.
The *Kol Sheken Zoi Sapula* [all the more so], the *Kal Chayim Ades* [?] of the *Akeidah Tzitzak* [?], which he, by that, he showed the truthness of prophecy and how serious *Ahavas Hashem* is.
So he’s saying something very weird. We have to imitate the *Akeidah*. Right? Because if the whole logic of the *Akeidah* of an historian is to make something famous, to publicize something, and he says especially, not to stamp someone, not to stamp some random old guy—like he describes earlier how important it was, he wasn’t all, he says.
There was a person that was very old and he really wanted a child and he wanted that he should have a nation out of his descendants, and he has this child that is old and so hard, and he killed him after three days. Not when he was in a passion. That’s what it says, it took three days. You shouldn’t think, he was walking for three days, he had a lot of time to think about it.
So, we learn—and this is what we learn from—because we have to imitate his activities. We learn from his actions just like we learn from his teachings, from his thoughts. What is going on here? Very weird. Do you do the *Akeidah*? What’s going on here? The whole point of the *Akeidah* is that you shouldn’t do it anyways. But what is going on?
So I realize that this is what he means to say. What he means to say is—I don’t know if the noun means to say it, but it’s a snapshot. What he means to say is that that’s what we talk about when we say the *zechus* [merit] of the *Akeidah*. The *zechus* of the *Akeidah* just means—
That means that by doing this *Akeidah*, and really the *Akeidah* is the same thing as the *Bris Bein HaBesarim* [Covenant Between the Parts]. Avraham Avinu teaching, choosing *galus* [exile] for his children—that’s what the *Akeidah* is emotional for or an image for, because Avraham Avinu is saying, and this is what I was telling you for your question:
Avraham Avinu, because of him trying to solve a very serious problem, which transcends the amount of care that you have for your children, because he’s trying to solve it for the fifth generation, right—that required him to not care about the first four generations. It required him to think further than that.
And if I required him to—check his own son—well, he might have not literally shocked the gift, but he did cause—it’s hard to go in *galus*, or Yaakov, or wherever it was. He did cause—not Hitler to kill all the six million Jews—was Avraham Avinu cause that kids to them a *hood* [?] on. That’s what the *Midrash* is.
Why did he call it that? Because he was trying to think past that. He was trying to create something that survives the end of the natural process of parents influencing and creating their children.
So it’s part—and this is really the end of prophecy. This is what he said. This is what the prophecy of Avraham Avinu, the limit, the infinite limit of *Ahavas Hashem*, which is what the *Mashiach* is supposed to be, which is what the Jewish people are trying to aim at, is the kind of thing that you don’t care about yourself or about your children.
Because if you’re going to work with your children, you’re not going to survive the fifth generation.
So I said that you shouldn’t care about your children because you should care about yourself. Another way of saying it is you shouldn’t care about your children because you’re trying to care about something that transcends all of that, and therefore lasts the five generations. And then in the fifth generation, they get saved.
That’s the *teirutz* [answer] that I have to say. I didn’t solve any problems. I just made the problems very clear.
And that’s the story of the *Akeidah*. The story of the *Akeidah* is the story of the Jews refusing to assimilate and causing their great-grandchildren to have problems or to be saved.
Cut it to the second level—I don’t explain it. That’s why the *olam* [world/people] said that’s what shows that prophecy is so strong. It seems to be so clear to the person that’s doing it that he doesn’t have any choice. That is the truth.
I don’t have an explanation for how it’s supposed to work. I told you I don’t know. I don’t have an explanation for how it works.
Student: That’s the *tenuos* [?] of your *kasha* [question], that they always receive the prophecy to kill their children.
Instructor: [No clear response recorded]
Instructor: Practically speaking, there’s no practice. A mom go and shecht [ritually slaughter] their son. No, we didn’t shecht their son. That’s a mashal [parable/paradigmatic model]. That guy is a mashal.
No, I’m saying, so… He made his son go on Mitzrayim [Egypt/slavery]. If you were the kind of people that could survive Mitzrayim, then Avraham Avinu’s [Abraham our forefather’s] thing could start working.
That goes back to our previous, our shiur [Torah lesson] from last year, from last week. It only could start working if you stop thinking about today and tomorrow. If you could envision out this book, if you can — this look up good in the light of issue man.
Yeah, that’s the gala [redemption], right? That’s the next mile of coming. And I think what the next mile of said, “Get out there,” is it after, right?
Anyways, I don’t have solid — the problem just told you that this is seems to be the story of the cadets. It’s hot going to my new chat.
Instructor: I think it’s a very good job and we should blame our forefathers for stucking us in this. And the reason they did it was because they believe that Moshiach [the Messiah] will come after — after that, but not to them.
Sometimes it was — there was an old Yid [Jew] that came to the Mordechaim [likely: a Rebbe or Torah authority], and he asked him, “When she has any come?” [When will Moshiach come?]
He said, “Not in my days or my children or my grandchildren.”
That’s the secret. If anyone really thinks I’m — Moshiach’s gonna come in his days, he didn’t get one shake. His Moshiach is the thing that comes after your grandchild, great-grandchild dies.
Instructor: I don’t have a cell [solution]. No, it’s not — no, I don’t mean that. Okay, I can’t — I don’t have a solution. I’ll just tell you the problem. Maybe, I don’t know.
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[Side Digression] A professor (a Williamsburger) who gives tests to students claims that modern philosophers (Derrida, Kant, etc.) have good tests/critiques against the simple, rational classical philosophies (Socrates, Plato), and that those “fail.” The professor is a “chaver l’de’ah” – he agrees with the maggid shiur.
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– Chapters 1-3 (previous zman): The main topic was derech ha’emtza’i – this is the good.
– Two main areas where derech ha’emtza’i is relevant: (1) in the pe’ulot (actions) of a person, (2) in the middot that lead to the actions.
– Now (Chapter 4): The Rambam gives dugma’ot – a list of nine middot, and for each one he shows what is the middle path and what are the two bad extremes.
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The Rambam’s list of nine middot is not a “Shulchan Aruch” of middot. He doesn’t write “elu hen ha’middot, lo pachot v’lo yoter.” It is only illustration of the principle of derech ha’emtza’i – he shows that for each middah the middle path makes sense.
– If one of the nine is missing – it does not mean that one is a bad person.
– It is not the case that whoever has all nine is a good person, and whoever is missing one is proportionally worse.
Because the general principle – derech ha’emtza’i – includes much more than nine middot. One can make thousands of middot. No place – not by the Rambam and not by Aristotle – gives a clear, complete list.
One takes middot that people are already familiar with (from Chazal, mussar sefarim, culture, from father) – and one shows that for each one the correct definition = derech ha’emtza’i.
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The Rambam himself has at least four such lists, and none matches the other:
– Context: Which chelek ha’nefesh do middot belong to (chelek ha’mit’orer).
– He writes explicitly: “ma’alot zeh ha’chelek rabot me’od” – very many!
– List of nine: zehirut, edinut, tzedek, savlanut, anavah, histapkut, gevurah, emunah – “v’zulatam” (= and others).
– More official treatment of good middot.
– Also nine parts, but not the same nine as in Chapter 2.
– “De’ot ha’rabeh yesh l’chol echad” – very many.
– He goes through four at length (ba’al cheimah, ba’al ta’avah, ba’al nefesh rechavah, nasog).
– Afterward a few more with just a name, and ends with “v’chol kayotza bahen” – there are more.
– Afterward further: “v’chen she’ar ha’de’ot” (halachah 4) – again open.
– Refuat ha’middot.
– He brings new middot that don’t appear in Chapter 1, for example: shetikah (“seyag l’chochmah shetikah”).
– More middot that aren’t in the previous lists.
No list matches the other. This proves that the lists are not meant to be definitive – they are only examples.
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Perhaps the list of taryag mitzvot is also not authentic?
No – by mitzvot the list is authentic, by middot not. Why?
– By mitzvot: It makes a nafka minah whether something is on the list – one can have a doubt whether something is a mitzvah or not, and this has halachic consequences.
– By middot: It makes no nafka minah whether one divides a middah into two or makes two into one. The real definition of good middot is: in everything go b’derech ha’emtza’i. That is the klal, not any list.
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[Side Digression]
– Orchot Tzaddikim – has 28 she’arim (some are opposites: sha’ar ha’ga’avah / sha’ar ha’anavah). No one knows who wrote it (perhaps a woman?).
– Chovot Ha’levavot – also has a list of middot.
– Yud Gimmel Middot Ha’rachamim – another well-known list.
– Other mussar sefarim – also with their own lists.
None of these lists is definitive – this strengthens the main claim.
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By the Greeks there was a very accepted list of four main good middot (from Plato’s “Republic”):
1. Temperance / Sophrosyne (σωφροσύνη) – perishut (moderation)
2. Courage – ometz / gevurah
3. Wisdom – chochmah
4. Justice – tzedek (righteousness)
[Side Digression about chochmah:] A talmid asks whether chochmah is a kisharon (talent) that one receives or not. Chochmah is not kisharon – kisharon is “capacity”, but chochmah is something that one learns and does. The Rambam says explicitly in Hilchot Teshuvah: “kol echad yachol lihiyot chacham o sachal” – it is a choice. Chazal and pesukim also say so.
The early Christians adopted Plato’s four middot as “b’derech ha’teva”, and added three “theological virtues”: Faith (emunah), Hope (bitachon/tikvah), Charity (chesed/ahavah – lifnim mishurat ha’din, not just tzedek/righteousness).
Mishnayot have various lists (“az panim l’gehinnom”, “kinat sofrim tarbeh chochmah”, “yehi beitcha patuach l’revachah” etc.), but by Jews there is not accepted one fixed list like by the Greeks.
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Aristotle taught that a good list must have two conditions:
– Exhaustive – it must include everything that exists, not “tana v’shiyar”.
– Properly divided – one shouldn’t be able to say “why didn’t you divide it differently?”
None of the known lists of middot fulfills the two criteria. One must understand: what connects and what divides one middah from another?
A strong claim (connected with the Chazon Ish and tzaddikim):
> Perhaps there is no such thing as “many middot” – all good middot come down to one thing: conducting oneself correctly / according to the measure of wisdom / according to what it should be. And all bad middot come down to one thing: conducting oneself according to the yetzer hara / according to what is convenient.
Rabbeinu Yonah: “kol ha’mitzvot hen torat chacham, v’chol ha’aveirot hen torat tipesh” – chacham/tipesh, tzaddik/rasha, frum/nar. Everything is one division.
If I am a good person, I already know that one must honor father, not eat too much, be a good friend, etc. I already know a thousand details. What do I do with making rules like “middat ha’ka’as”, “middat ha’ga’avah”, “middat ha’anavah”? What does it help me? One cannot teach people to be good by only saying “this is called such and such.” Better to say simply: “You should conduct yourself correctly, and that’s it.”
This remains as an open question – the shiur will continue to discuss why the Rambam (and others) hold that lists of middot are nevertheless useful/important.
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Middot is a practical thing, not a theoretical one. One doesn’t learn middot from “Torahs” (shiurim/sefarim) alone – one must see it b’fo’el mamash.
– Rules about middot (like “don’t be a ba’al ka’as”) are too abstract – it is a “higher level of hafsha’ah” that doesn’t help enough.
– What does help: seeing how a person doesn’t get angry at the right time, in the right way – then one can learn that this leads to a better life.
– The “derech ha’emtza’i” is only a theory – “halachah l’ma’aseh one must see it.”
What does one accomplish by calling it “ka’as”, “ta’avah”, “ga’avah”? It is not the exact thing one sees in life – it is “something in between” between the abstract theory and the concrete action.
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This is the answer to the previous question – therefore one needs categories of middot:
– Without a word for a middah, one doesn’t notice it. One cannot identify it, not in oneself and not in others.
– A person can have many good middot, but in one area (for example ka’as) be very bad – and as long as he doesn’t have a name for the thing, he doesn’t catch himself.
– A thief who doesn’t know he is a thief – he and his environment don’t catch on, because they don’t have the concept clear.
– Entire cultures can be missing a word for a certain good middah – and therefore they cannot feel it, and it is “very hard to be b’kevi’ut by that person.”
In every Jewish list of middot many good middot are missing. And because we don’t speak about a thing “as a middah,” we completely lack catching that this is something one can do.
When one has the word, one can also understand that there is a “too much” and a “too little”: one is a “lecker” / shakran (false courtesy = too much), one is just grob (too little courtesy). Without the word it is very hard to speak about it, hard to be masig, hard to be mechanech.
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The Rambam does speak about courage, Rav Aharon Kotler also – but the ba’alei mussar don’t like to speak about courage. It is a legitimate middah – not “just being a wild animal,” but knowing how to take risks in the right way.
[Note]: This is not the best example, because most people know what courage is – they just say “it’s not a Jewish thing.”
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Courtesy = proper conduct how one behaves with a stranger (not a friend, not an enemy, not someone one is mekarev). Examples: not pushing in line, holding the door for the person behind you, giving a wave when someone backs out of parking.
[Side Note]: Compare with “farginnen” – a Yiddish word that other cultures don’t have (a “reverse example” – we have a word they lack).
[Lively Discussion] The talmidim react:
– Claim from talmidim: Courtesy is false – a goy smiles, says “I will call you,” and has you in the ground. It’s “means nothing.”
– Answer: That is not courtesy – that is chanufah/flattery.
– In English there exist two separate words: “courtesy” and “flattery” – which means that the culture distinguishes between them.
– Chanufah/flattery = the lecker who says “yes, I’ll call you” and doesn’t call. That is false.
– Courtesy = one can say courteously no: “Thank you so much for your interest, it’s not a right time for us now.” – this is clear no, not any lie, not any chanufah.
– The one who doesn’t understand the distinction calls everything “chanufah” – and that is precisely the problem of missing words.
Jews have a tendency to see courtesy as falsehood – “this is the approach of the true Jews, they hold that this is false.” The word “nimus” exists in sefarim, but “when we say nimus, it looks to us like a false thing.” Jews are not so nimusig (half-humorously).
[Side Digression]: “It’s called chillul Hashem” – but when one speaks about nimus only in the context of chillul Hashem, the independent value of courtesy is missing.
[Side Digression]: Examples of false courtesy:
– “Hippies who make a hug for every stranger” – that is not courtesy, that is “something an aveirah lishmah.”
– “Please, come into our kehillah” – false courtesy that is “completely the opposite.”
– American culture is perhaps “a bit too much” courtesy – but that is the extreme, not the essence.
Courtesy is a ma’aseh derech eretz – a practical conduct, not a great virtue, but a proper thing.
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The Mishnah “hevei mekabel et kol ha’adam b’sever panim yafot” has two approaches: one that puts the accent on “mekabel et kol ha’adam” (openness to every person), and one that puts the accent on “b’sever panim yafot” (the manner how one encounters – a kind of courtesy). A second tanna says “b’simchah” (= genuine inner joy). The Rambam speaks about this in Chapter 7.
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[An Interesting Sociological Digression] Many middot in the modern world have to do with how one treats strangers – and Jews haven’t developed this:
– By Jews: If he is a Jew – he is a “brother”; if he is from another Chassidut – he is almost an “enemy”. There is no category of a neutral stranger.
– The liberal world has developed middot for how one treats a “citizen” – someone with whom one has no personal connection, but one shares with him the public space.
– Avraham Avinu’s hachnasat orchim (which the Arabs in the Middle East still hold strongly) is a middah toward strangers, but it makes the stranger “tachat chasuti” – he already belongs to you, you are his guardian/protector.
– The liberal middah is different: the other is a citizen with equal rights – not “yours”, but one who deserves respect simply because he exists in the same space.
– Practical consequence: “Therefore Jews cannot go on the subway” – no courtesy, no respect for the stranger.
The law says: at yellow lights one may drive. The good middah says: at yellow lights one stops – not because one must, but because humanity demands it. “What do I have with the other person?” – that is the point: one needs certain humanity even to people with whom one has no connection.
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[Interactive Discussion] A talmid asks: what is the middah that says one doesn’t hit the other person?
– One doesn’t know what to call it. A talmid says: “I teach it to my small children – don’t hit!” – but what is the name of the middah? Not just “one may not”, but what kind of middah stands behind it?
– The distinction: “not hitting” is not the same middah as “giving a loan when a brother asks” – but both are middot. One can make a list of actions (mitzvot/aveirot), but the middah is the inner character trait that stands behind it.
When a brother calls and asks for a loan – one doesn’t say “let’s look in Mishnah Berurah”. One says: “I’ll help you what I can.” Where does this come from? – From a middah. Nedivut = how one conducts oneself with one’s money: “my money is not just to lie in pocket, but it’s for work – by me, by the other person, in investment.” The Rambam gives a name: “nedivut” – but we didn’t know about this until one learns it.
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Benefit #1: There is a benefit from learning – middot is not only theoretical, one must be margilized. And one can better be margilized when one knows the word – this is how people who take results work.
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An important dispute between the Rambam’s approach and other approaches (mekubalim, Tanya/Admor HaZaken):
– The Rambam doesn’t go in the approach that comes now.
– The Tanya (Admor HaZaken) and other sefarim go another way.
Foundation: There are three chalakim of the nefesh (as the Rambam learned in Chapters 1-2):
1. Ta’avah (desire/appetite)
2. Ka’as / chelek ha’mit’orer (anger/spiritedness)
3. Seichel (intellect)
Each chelek ha’nefesh has its own middah:
1. Against ta’avah → perishut (restraining oneself, control over ta’avah)
2. Against ka’as/hit’orerut → courage/mut (conducting oneself with courage in the right way)
3. Against seichel → (not elaborated here)
The fourth middah = kelalut (a general middah that contains everything) = tzedek.
[An Interesting Chassidic Digression]
Rav Saadiah Gaon says: three chalakim of the nefesh = ta’avah, ka’as, seichel. But “ka’as” is a translation problem – it actually means hit’orerut (arousal/spiritedness).
The main chiddush: “all Jews who serve Hashem with hit’orerut are ba’alei ka’as” – because it is the same power! The same inner energy that makes ka’as also makes hitlahavut in avodat Hashem.
[Chassidic Distinction] (from “Ish Botzei’a” and others):
Hitlahavut contains two completely opposite things: “eish u’mayim”
– Ahavah k’rishpei eish – serving Hashem with passion/cheshek (fire) – this comes from ka’as/hit’orerut, the koach ha’mit’orer
– Ahavah k’mayim – serving Hashem with a calm, flowing love (water) – this comes from cheshek/ta’avah, an attraction, an attraction
Cheshek ≠ hitlahavut – these are not the same thing, though both are forms of serving Hashem with intensity. Many Chassidim think that ahavah with fire is the same thing – but it’s exactly the opposite. It’s a different feeling, comes from a different place.
Kina’ut comes from yirah/ka’as, not from ahavah. “Kinah” literally means ka’as (Rashi says so). This is an important distinction – hit’orerut in avodat Hashem that looks like passion is actually a form of ka’as/kina’ut.
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Tzedek means honesty in business – not stealing, paying what one owes, tzedek b’mishpat.
Tzedek means “litein l’chol echad mah she’ra’ui lo” – giving each thing what is fitting for it. This applies also to oneself: each power in the nefesh should receive its proper place – ka’as when one needs ka’as, simchah when one needs simchah, ta’avah when one needs ta’avah.
Tzidkut = the coordination of all middot – that each thing receives its proper place. Therefore “tzaddik” is the main name for a good person – a “just” person.
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Plato, Rav Tzadok, mekubalim, Sha’arei Kedushah, Tanya – all go with the same foundation: one first divides the chalakim of the nefesh (4 yesodot: eish, mayim, ruach, afar), and then shows which middot belong to which part:
– Eish → ka’as
– Mayim → ta’avah
– Ruach → ga’avah
– Afar → atzlut
Sefirot-model (Kabbalah/Chassidut): seven sefirot, or three kavim (yamin/smol/emtza = ahavah/yirah/tiferet). The Ba’al Shem Tov always goes with the point: everything a person does – either you’re attracted, or aversion, or in between.
The advantage of this way: one gets an exhaustive list – a complete list with a proper division, because it comes from the structure of the nefesh itself.
The Rambam doesn’t work this way!
– The Rambam does begin with chalakim of the nefesh (in Shemonah Perakim), but he says that all middot belong in one part (the koach ha’mit’orer/appetitive part).
– He gives a long list of middot with “k’hai gavna” / “kayotza bo” – without dividing them according to different chalakim of the nefesh.
– By the Rambam, the division of middot doesn’t work through chalakim of the nefesh – he doesn’t have a systematic division where each chelek ha’nefesh has its specific middot.
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Does the knowledge of the structure (4 yesodot, 7 sefirot) actually help a person improve his middot?
– Middot is an “inyan sheb’ma’aseh” – one doesn’t fulfill with knowledge, but with doing.
– “Has it ever helped anyone in avodat Hashem the teachings that ga’avah is from yeshut ha’atzmi and ta’avah from yeshut ha’guf?”
– “When I tell you that ka’as is a koach ha’eish – what do you understand from it? It’s just a word, a list.”
Sefirat Ha’omer as a concrete example:
– There are many sefarim that make a “journey” of Sefirat Ha’omer – each day a sefirah/middah to work on.
– “Do you know anyone who did this and became a better person from it? I don’t.”
– Practical problems: The first week is Chol HaMoed Pesach (one is busy with other things).
– Another problem: Most people don’t know the difference between netzach and hod – “it could certainly be the same both.”
– Talmid: “It doesn’t have to help practically – it’s good to know” (knowledge has intrinsic value).
– Answer: “You remember though – middot is not a learning that one learns. It must help something.”
– Talmid: “It can’t hurt to know.”
– Answer: “It can’t hurt, but we work so hard to figure out what is the structure – what is the difference?”
– Talmid: A structure helps many people.
– Answer: Admits that “to have a structure helps very much for many people” – but skeptical whether this specific structure (4 yesodot, 7 sefirot) does anything more than a general description.
– Ma’alot in inyan (intellectual virtues): There the point is to know – for example, learning a sugya in Gemara to know where a halachah comes from. There “knowing” has its own value.
– Ma’alot in middot (character virtues): There the point is to do – only knowing is not enough. The mashal of “4 yesodot” or “7 sefirot” is “just a description b’alma” – does a mashal help a person?
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The system of dividing middot according to the kochot ha’nefesh (seven sefirot against seven kochot) is a beautiful piece of Torah – it’s correct, it’s exhaustive, it’s clear and systematic. But l’ma’aseh – it helps very little. When I have ka’as, what helps me to know that this is “the second middah”? When I have ta’avah, l’mai nafka minah that this is “the first middah”? It makes no practical difference.
The custom “today is the week of gevurah, one must work on ka’as” – how does that work? Ka’as comes when an opportunity comes – one cannot “practice” ka’as-control on a schedule.
The Ba’al Shem Tov explained the kavanot “al pi pnimiyut” – “chesed” = ahavat Hashem, “gevurah” = yirat Hashem. For a remez it’s good, but practically? – unclear.
This is exactly Aristotle’s critique of Plato. Aristotle said that Plato said two pieces of Torah, but he doesn’t see what it helps a person to become better. Maybe it’s true – but he doesn’t see what it helps.
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Someone wants to become a mechanic. He goes to a course: motorcycles, cars, SUVs, vans, trucks – each one with its advantages and disadvantages, practically how it works, how to fix. This helps – it is very useful.
Now a philosopher comes and says: let’s make a klal. A car is a “mechanized box on wheels.” Now he divides: two wheels (motorcycle, bike) vs. more than two wheels. Then another division: with motor vs. without motor. Everything fits in, it’s conclusive, exhaustive, clear.
The mechanic needs to know: which screw fits for which car. He needs the sixteen main types of screws that are used in most cars and trucks. He needs a practical list, not a theoretical taxonomy.
When one goes into a hardware store or a website – people have worked years to make the sections fit practically, not according to abstract categories. “All screws that are…” – that is waste of time, because the world doesn’t work that way.
[Side Digression] A personal example: every person spends hours organizing wires (cables) at home – everything in boxes, orderly. And it doesn’t help – l’ma’aseh one only needs two-three wires for smartphones. The time one spends on organizing is more expensive than just searching around each time.
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Aristotle divided practically: the ten most common middot that people struggle with – ka’as, ga’avah, courage, ta’avah, etc. Not according to theoretical structure of the nefesh, but according to what one encounters in the world. Each one – practically how it works, not in which box it belongs.
– Way A: Divide according to sevara – how it fits theoretically (Plato/Kabbalah)
– Way B: Divide according to the subject – what belongs together in practice (Aristotle/Rambam)
The second way mekarev rechokim u’merachek krovim – things that are theoretically far can be practically close, and vice versa.
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An approach (connected with the Ba’al HaSulam): Everything a person has is either attraction or aversion. Good children, beautiful wife, good food, respect – everything is “chesed”, everything is “taking.” The advice: You take so much? Give a little – give tzedakah, get up early, give away from your sleep.
“Rebbe Leben, this is all very abstract, it’s not helping me.” It’s true that there exists a “middat ha’ratzon/cheshek” – a person who is missing the koach of wanting (physically/chemically) cannot want anything. But this doesn’t help practically.
Let’s describe things as one sees them in olam hazeh. There is a subject called money. Money and furniture – both cost money, both are things people want. Theoretically they are the same thing. Practically – money is one thing and furniture is a second thing.
Key point: Middot work with hergalim. Hergalim don’t work with seichel (seichel understands everything at once). Hergalim work with practicing. I cannot practice “wanting money” and “wanting furniture” at the same time – they are two separate middot, two separate relationships.
[Side Digression] A personal example: My relationship with cash in pocket is different than with money in credit card, which is different than with money in bank account. For many people it’s harder to give cash. He himself is the opposite – in the digital age, when he sees money in bank account he sends it to anyone, but cash in pocket – “take it, it’s a piece of paper.”
The point: Even within “money” itself there are different middot/relationships – which proves that one must speak about middot practically-specifically, not abstractly-theoretically.
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> “People are not inconsistent – you just have to know what they’re built of”
A person who gives away cash easily but credit card with difficulty – this is not a contradiction. These are two separate middot that work according to different practical objects.
A person who invites 20 guests every week (costs ~$1,000 a week) – the same person you call him erev Pesach and ask $500 for a campaign, and he says “I don’t have.” This is not hypocrisy – hachnasat orchim and money-giving are two separate middot. One is a middah he has developed (that’s how his parents showed him), the other – not.
[Side Digression] Today when one gives tzedakah through the phone, children don’t see it – one doesn’t see how one takes out money from pocket, gives it to a poor person. This is a real chinuch problem, because middot work with how the chitzoniyut looks, not with abstract pnimiyut.
> “The thing that divides the middot is the practical differences in the world”
In the nefesh there is perhaps one koach of giving – but the hergashim have to do with the objects that you deal with. Therefore:
– Hachnasat orchim = one middah
– Money giving = a different middah
– Each needs separate work
– Aristotle says: giving large nedavot is a different middah than giving small nedavot (magnificence vs. liberality)
– Rambam says: kamtzanut has two middot – kamtzanut for oneself (saves from oneself) and kamtzanut for others (doesn’t give to others)
– This is all the same money – but practically they are different pe’ulot with different ways how it’s good/bad
> “The one who gives $100,000 at once doesn’t do the same thing as you when you give $10 – it’s simply a different pe’ulah”
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According to the practical approach there are tens of thousands of middot – because every new object/situation creates a new middah. This has no beautiful structure – one can always add another one, always divide a bit more.
It is much closer to what middot are truly made to teach you. Middot are a davar ma’aseh – the closer to ma’aseh, the more useful.
A ba’al mussar who gives a specific shiur – for example, halachot how to be good to your roommate in yeshivah – the one who goes to that shiur is l’ma’aseh much better than the one who hears an abstract Chassidic Torah that “a person is everything for Hashem.” The second is more true in a certain sense, but less useful.
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[Side Digression – “I like to talk about cars, a strange thing”]
A practical mechanic – almost every time a car comes in it’s a bit different. But he can still say: “al pi rov, this model car has such a problem.” He works with klalim on a middle level:
– Too abstract (a minivan is “as high as it is wide” – like a tanker) = no information, doesn’t help the mechanic at all
– Too specific (every car is different, one can learn nothing) = also not practical
– Middle level (all minivans have such issues, all motorcycles have such issues) = this is useful
> “Without any klalim one cannot give oneself advice – but speaking in an abstract manner doesn’t look like it helps”
One needs klalim – but practical klalim, not abstract ones. To say “two middot of chesed and one middah of gevurah” – this will help you nothing. To say specific halachot how to deal with a specific situation – this helps.
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> “I wonder for whom the books are written… I have no idea whom this has helped”
But certainly people wanted something with it – there are many sefarim that say such Torahs, “they wanted something.”
> “I have no way to speak with these people, because they don’t live anymore. Yet… it’s too much to say that the whole thing is ignorance”
A possible answer: Even if it doesn’t help to become a better person – to know what he is, is also something. Knowledge is its own value.
Comparison with modern personality systems:
> “There are four types of people, there are five thousand types of people… and what shall I do with it? It doesn’t help me at all”
“Are you an introvert or an extrovert?” – “I don’t know, it depends in the morning or afternoon.”
[Side Digression] A source that speaks to the point: Previously each person had his shoresh neshamah – one needs to learn Kabbalah, one Mishnayot, etc. But today, when Mashiach is in the world, you must do everything. Perhaps this is the problem – we no longer have the structure of clear types.
> “It makes you think you understand things. I don’t think it actually makes you understand anything.”
Abstract categorization of middot gives a feeling of understanding, but not a real understanding that helps practically.
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[Brief Digression] The Yalkut Reuveni says that previously each person had his specific part, but in ikveta d’Meshicha one must do everything – so also says the Ba’al HaTanya. “I don’t agree with all these things” – the approach is not accepted.
A talmid tries to defend the sefirot-system. Answer: “It’s like saying that a wild animal is Type 6” – the labeling doesn’t really help understand. The talmid makes a distinction – he’s talking about good middot, not enneagram-types. The distinction is accepted but the position remains.
Way A – According to Kochot Ha’nefesh (Sefirot/Nefesh-Structure):
– Advantage: It is exhaustive – there is no addition or omission, everything fits in. One cannot make an eighth middah – only chesed sheb’gevurah, chesed sheb’chesed sheb’gevurah, but it remains in the system.
– Disadvantage: It is not so helpful l’ma’aseh (the motorcycle mashal).
Way B – According to Practical Objects/Subjects:
– Disadvantage: There will always be “v’od” at the end of the list – it’s not closed; every period one may need to change because people categorize differently.
– Advantage: This is how one actually lives with good middot – it’s practical.
The fundamental distinction between both ways:
– Way A: The definition of middot is ba’nefesh – one defines a middah according to which koach ha’nefesh it comes from.
– Way B: The definition of middot is ba’noseih (in the object) – according to the thing they are about, the type of pe’ulah they concern.
Concrete mashal: Middat ha’ta’avah is not “the koach of wanting things” (that would be a nefesh-definition). Middat ha’ta’avah is the type of middah that has to do with ta’anugei ha’guf. The difference between one who wants money and one who wants food is not a difference in koach ha’nefesh (both “want”) – it is a difference in subject, and therefore they are two separate middot.
Ka’as is not one middah – it’s different how a father has ka’as, how a young boy, how a bachur, how a rebbe with talmidim. This is “the same middah” according to Way A, but l’ma’aseh they are different middot because the subject (the context, the pe’ulah, the relationship) is different.
The Rambam always goes with the second way – middot are defined according to practical subjects. Also the Torah itself – in Chumash it’s “it’s all about actual things, it never gives you these nice structures, almost never.” The Torah speaks of concrete actions and situations, not of abstract nefesh-structures.
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| Point | Content |
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| Klal | Derech ha’emtza’i is the principle – not any specific list |
| Lists | Are only examples/illustrations – Rambam himself has 4+ different lists that don’t match |
| Distinction from Mitzvot | By mitzvot the list is authentic (nafka minah); by middot not |
| Power of Words | Without a word for a middah, one doesn’t notice it – therefore one needs categories |
| Courtesy | A concrete example of a middah that lacks a name in Jewish culture |
| Two Ways to Divide Middot | (A) According to kochot ha’nefesh (exhaustive but not practical) vs. (B) According to practical subjects (not exhaustive but practical) |
| The Rambam’s Approach | Goes with Way B – middot are defined according to subject/pe’ulah, not according to nefesh-structure |
| The Torah | Also speaks of concrete actions, not of abstract structures |
| Practical Conclusion | Middot work with hergalim, hergalim work with practicing – therefore one needs practical klalim on a middle level, not too abstract and not too specific |
And we’re learning this way. I don’t know what we’re learning, I want to know. I’ll just say this, someone spoke lashon hara [lashon hara: forbidden negative speech about others], who should I start with? No, I heard lashon hara. Yesterday I heard a professor, I don’t know exactly what he is, he’s from Williamsburg, he’s deep into the students, he gives a test. He says like this, he says that the students basically, he says that modern philosophy, Derrida [Derrida: Jacques Derrida, French postmodern philosopher] with Kant [Kant: Immanuel Kant, German philosopher], all these folks, they have very good tests on the plain common sense philosophies, Socrates [Socrates: Greek philosopher] and Plato [Plato: Greek philosopher], they all fail. He says that one must learn such a twisted world, is he as old as me? I’m just saying that you know him, he’s truly a chaver l’deah [chaver l’deah: one who agrees with my opinion].
Okay, I want to say where we’re holding and where we need to go further. We’ve learned, we’re holding in Chapter 4, I just want to try. The first chapter for us was the topic of the derech ha’emtza’i [derech ha’emtza’i: the middle path], that’s the good thing. We spoke about how there are two main places where the derech ha’emtza’i is chal [chal: applicable], in the pe’ulos [pe’ulos: actions, deeds] of a person and in the midos [midos: character traits] of a person which bring about the pe’ulos. That was the subject of the previous time.
And now we’re learning, the Rambam [Rambam: Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, Maimonides], the way the Rambam presents it, he says, he gives dugmaos [dugmaos: examples]. He says for example [lemashel: for example], and he gives a whole list of nine dugmaos where he says for each good middah that can be, what is the middle and what are the two extremes that are not good, yes?
So we want to do this, I’m not sure if this is as if the true point of what he’s doing, but I want to do it anyway, and learn about each one of the nine things, what is the matter with them. That’s what I want to do. Agreed?
So the first thing on the Rambam’s list, we spoke about the topic of perishus [perishus: modesty, abstinence from desires], what is the meaning, and should there have been a shiur about this? A halachah [halachah: Jewish law]? Not that shiur further. Rather, the Shabbos I’ve already been a few times, but… Parshas Kedoshim [Parshas Kedoshim: the Torah portion that speaks about holiness]? Yes, Parshas Kedoshim.
Okay, here is what I’m going… No, what’s written in my comments here on the page, did I ever say it? I don’t think so. In any case, I have a deeper thing to speak about, or to leave that, or to be me’orer [me’orer: awaken] to speak about.
So, the Rambam has a list of nine things, but apparently [lechaorah: at first glance], I say that this is not the subject, and apparently, the reason why he brings this list is only in order [kedei: in order] to give him an example on the topic of derech ha’emtza’i. I want to show you that it makes sense by each one of these things to say that the middle, that’s correct, and the two sides are equally bad one as the other. That is apparently the structure of the chapter, that’s what he does, he doesn’t say here we will paint out what are the good character traits [mahem hamidos hatovos: what are the good character traits]. Understand?
What is the nafka minah [nafka minah: practical difference] of the chakirah [chakirah: investigation] that I’m saying? The nafka minah is, that if one is missing it doesn’t mean anything. Not that the Rambam wrote a Shulchan Aruch [Shulchan Aruch: code of Jewish law] here, and the truth is nowhere. What he says, these are the list of good midos, on this you must work, this is yotzei [yotzei: fulfills] all the list of nine midos, he’s a good person, and whoever not, whoever is missing one of them or two of them is such and such a bad person, this is not stated.
Why not? Because there is the davar klali [davar klali: general principle] which is called derech ha’emtza’i, which truly includes much more than these nine midos. One can make thousands of midos. I don’t know how many one can make. There is no place where the Rambam gives a clear list. Not only by the Rambam, I mean it’s also not by Aristotle [Aristotle: Greek philosopher]. One doesn’t give a clear list. This is the main character traits [ikar hamidos: the main character traits]? That you have here a list – the list goes exactly opposite.
In other words, here now someone is makir [makir: familiar with] certain good midos. This is a Jew who learned from his father. Chazal [Chazal: Chazkeinu zichronam livrachah, our Sages of blessed memory] heard about certain good midos. In mussar sefarim [mussar sefarim: ethical books], it’s not a chiddush [chiddush: novelty] that a person has ideas of good midos, every person every culture has ideas of their good midos. What one does with this list is one goes through a bunch of them, and one shows that each one of them the correct hagdarah [hagdarah: definition] of it is derech ha’emtza’i.
Right?
Student: Nevertheless [v’im kol zeh: nevertheless], there is still something of a chiddush from these lists. Do you want to say that we don’t need to do all of them definitively?
Maggid Shiur: One must perhaps yes, say only a list, not pshat [pshat: simple meaning] that there is a definitive list. Just as it is with taryag mitzvos [taryag mitzvos: the 613 commandments] and the Ten Commandments. Can there be another twenty? Can be another twenty. It can be that the list is not davka [davka: specifically] the most important, it’s the ones that come first to mind, that one remembers immediately, and he uses it almost as [kim’at b’soras: almost as] an example. Let this also be in Hilchos Deos [Hilchos Deos: Laws of Character Traits, a section in the Rambam’s Mishneh Torah].
The Rambam himself has these four such lists that I know of. Two in Shemonah Perakim [Shemonah Perakim: the Rambam’s Eight Chapters, an introduction to Pirkei Avos].
Student: Two? Which two? And how else?
Maggid Shiur: Chapter 2. And in Chapter 2 it says… I don’t think, what is the subject of Chapter 2?
Student: In which part of the nefesh [nefesh: soul] are the midos found.
Maggid Shiur: And there, when he comes to that part, he says… the virtuous character traits [hama’alos hamidos: the virtuous character traits], like… yes, Chapter 2 is in Chapter 1 and perhaps I’m making a mistake. Chapter 1. Yes, Chapter 1, sorry. In Chapter 1, no. Sorry, how is the list? Sorry, Chapter 2, Chapter 2, I didn’t make a mistake. Chapter 1 says something similar. A third list. Not this one.
The list of good midos is in Chapter 2, because there he speaks of each part of the soul how it has virtues and deficiencies [ma’alos v’chesronos: virtues and deficiencies]. And he says that the virtuous character traits they belong to the emotional part [chelek hamisorer: the part of the soul that is aroused by emotions]. And he gives a list, and he says this is the language, the virtues of this part are very many [ma’alos zeh hachelek rabos me’od: the virtues of this part are very many], here there are very many virtues.
Student: Virtuous character traits yes, there are intellectual virtues [ma’alos sichliyo: intellectual virtues] which is a separate thing.
Maggid Shiur: He speaks here of virtuous character traits, like carefulness, and refinement, and justice, and patience, and humility, and contentment, and courage, and faith, and others [k’zehirus, v’adinus, v’tzedek, v’savlanus, v’anavah, v’histapaikus, u’gevurah, ve’emunah, v’zulasam: like carefulness, and refinement, and justice, and patience, and humility, and contentment, and courage, and faith, and others]. This is a list of nine parts. And afterwards he says clearly and there are many, rabos me’od, not only these. This is only an example. And he also states clearly with “and others” [v’zulasam: and others], that there are more.
And the same thing is in Chapter 4, where he more officially speaks about how the good midos are. And here it’s a bit more a complicated list, because he also makes a list of nine derech eretz [derech eretz: proper conduct]. You can check in the end of the week it says which is in which. You can see, it doesn’t say here, no, it doesn’t say here what I would have needed. It does say. You can see, you have here also a list of nine parts, and you can check which he missed, which he took out one of them. Figure out, I don’t know, perhaps one can learn something from this, but I believe that the main point is certainly that it’s not a difference, because he doesn’t go through simply a list, everything is only the examples, and both of them are not a list, like “these are the character traits, no less and no more” [elu hen hamidos, lo pachot v’lo yoser: these are the character traits, no less and no more]. It’s only the examples, and the first chapter he puts many times an example so one should understand, and the second chapter, sorry, so one should understand that this is the sort of things that belong to the practical part [chelek hama’aseh: the practical part], and the fourth chapter is altogether [sach hakol: altogether] an example with more details [peratim: details] to show how each one of them can be explained [mesbir zein: explain] with a derech ha’emtza’i. Right?
So until this day [ad hayom hazeh: until this day] one doesn’t know what is the correct list of all character traits.
Another place, where are the two lists that are in Shemonah Perakim? Two more lists are in… Mishneh Torah [Mishneh Torah: the Rambam’s main law code], Hilchos Deos. Where is Mishneh Torah here? Hilchos Deos, it also says in Chapter 1. What does it say here in Chapter 1 of Hilchos Deos? It’s very special. It says, Hilchos Deos, yes, “there are many character traits for each and every person” [deos harbeh yesh l’chol echad v’echad mibnei adam: there are many opinions/character traits for each and every person], very many of them. “Deos” also means character traits, generally [biderech klal: generally] he goes through a list. Here is also a short list a bit, he goes through four of them he brings out at length [be’arichus: at length], and afterwards he says “and so in this way all the rest of the character traits” [v’chen al derech zo she’ar kol hadeos: and so in this way all the rest of the opinions]. He goes like this, he first explains at length a hot-tempered person [ba’al cheimah: one with anger] and a lustful person [ba’al ta’avah: one with desires] and an ambitious person [ba’al nefesh rechavah: one with a broad soul, ambitious] and withdrawn [nasog: withdrawn] at length what it means, afterwards he gives a few more only with a name, praised and wretched [mehulal v’anan: praised and wretched] etc. etc. etc., and all similar ones [v’chol kayotzei bahen: and all similar ones]. So he becomes shorter with his words for each one, and it’s still not exhaustive, he says “and more etc. etc.” [v’od etc. etc.: and more and so forth]. What is this etc. etc.? No one knows.
And the same thing as the fourth list that I said. Afterwards the Rambam says, the mitzvah is that he should go in the middle path [derech ha’emtza’i: the middle path] in every character trait, and he also gives the Gemara [Gemara: Talmud] how, how for example [keitzad lemashel: how for example], and afterwards it says further “and so the rest of the character traits” in law 4. The same thing, there are already as it were [kiv’yachol: as it were] two lists. Afterwards there is a third list, perhaps even, I’ll see how I’ll mark it [metzayen zein: mark], in Chapter 2 where he goes through the healing of character traits [refuas hamidos: healing of character traits], and he says that there are such character traits and there are such character traits, and he brings there a few more midos. He says that there is another middah that doesn’t appear in the previous midos, the middah of silence [shetikah: silence], “a fence for wisdom is silence” [seyag lechochmah shetikah: a fence for wisdom is silence]. And I don’t know if this is also a matter of commandment [davar hamitzvah: a matter of commandment] apparently also, and a few more midos that he goes through in Chapter 2 also, there is a bit of a list.
None of these lists are the same as any other ones. What do we learn from this? That the lists are not real.
Student: But the list of the taryag mitzvos is indeed real, he does say…
Maggid Shiur: No, but the mitzvos, the mitzvos…
Student: Perhaps the whole mitzvos list is not real?
Maggid Shiur: No, the mitzvos list is real, I’ll tell you why. Because what is the proof [re’ayah: proof]? What is there? Apparently I can have a whole doubt [safek: doubt] in a mitzvah, whether it’s indeed a mitzvah or it’s not a mitzvah, whether one must remove a mitzvah. It makes a difference if a mitzvah is on the list. Here it doesn’t make any difference, not any thing. The midos you can divide into two midos. What’s the practical difference [lemai nafka minah: what’s the practical difference]? Here there is no nafka minah. It’s a real nafka minah, I’ll tell you more what the nafka minah is, but there is a nafka minah, it’s a real thing. The lists are not real. Why aren’t they real? Because the true definition of midos is on every thing to go in the middle path [biderech ha’emtza’i]. And biderech ha’emtza’i means many all kinds of [kol minei: all kinds of] correct things in every topic. Right?
So the list of midos is not as real as it is today. This is not God forbid [chas v’shalom: God forbid], Orchos Tzaddikim [Orchos Tzaddikim: Paths of the Righteous, a classical mussar book] also has a list of midos, yes? Perhaps he has twenty-five, I don’t know what his number is. How many chapters are there in Orchos Tzaddikim? Who wrote it? No one knows who wrote it.
Student: A woman.
Student: I heard that a woman wrote it.
Maggid Shiur: Who? Who?
Student: I heard that a woman wrote it.
Maggid Shiur: A woman? But I don’t know, ah, it could be that a woman wrote it, but…
Student: Do you learn it?
Maggid Shiur: It’s a nice little book. Yes? Yes. There are twenty-eight gates [she’arim: chapters]. A part of them are one the opposite [hipuch: opposite] of the other, the gate of pride [sha’ar haga’avah: the gate of pride], the gate of humility [sha’ar ha’anavah: the gate of humility], etc. But a big list, a long list of midos. There are other such books. There are books of midos that were a…
Student: Orchos Tzaddikim is a certain way of midos?
Maggid Shiur: Yes, that’s already thirteen or more. Yes, there is the list of thirteen character traits [yud gimmel midos: thirteen character traits] of knowledge. They learned a shiur in the thirteen attributes of mercy [yud gimmel midos harachamim: the thirteen attributes of mercy], right? One must also think about this for a few shiurim. Because none of the lists were…
Maggid Shiur:
So the list of character traits is not as real as it sounds. Chovos HaLevavos [Chovos HaLevavos: Duties of the Heart, an 11th-century Jewish ethical work], Orchos Tzaddikim [Orchos Tzaddikim: Paths of the Righteous, a medieval Jewish ethical work] also has a list of midos, yes? Perhaps he has twenty-eight, something like that number. Certainly there is in Orchos Tzaddikim. Who wrote it? No one knows who wrote it.
Student:
Who? A woman?
Maggid Shiur:
A weak idea, it could already be a woman. Do you learn it? It’s nice books already. Yes? Yes.
There are twenty-eight gates. A part of them are one the opposite of the other, the gate of pride [sha’ar haga’avah], the gate of humility [sha’ar ha’anavah], and so on [v’chuli: and so on]. But a big one has a long list of midos. There are other such books, books of character traits [sifrei midos]. There was a… an older one, there’s another big way of midos. Yes, there are thirteen or more. Yes, there is the list of thirteen character traits of… of… of knowledge. I once learned a shiur about the thirteen attributes, right? One must also think about a simple one. But none of the lists is a real list. So, one must understand these things. Okay, that’s first of all [kodem kol]. Right?
This is my opinion about this, about the two extremes. Yes. So, why isn’t there a normal list? Like taryag mitzvos [613 commandments], twenty character traits. It would have been much more normal. Yes. So… the rabbis had lists, the philosophers had lists, the ma’aleh masu made lists, they made lists for the gentiles, all kinds of things. Yes.
So let’s understand, I want to tell you the question, I’m making here source references, I’m giving a structure, I want to make the question. What is the practical difference? The practical difference is like this, let’s understand an important thing.
Lecturer:
There is also an accepted list, among Jews it’s not so accepted, the Greeks had a very accepted list of four, four main good character traits which are called… this is classic, called “Four cardinal virtues,” which is Plato’s list. One always goes with this list, sometimes he also adds ten or so, but the main list that appears in the book “The Republic” [Plato’s Republic] is… four traits. Which four traits must a person have? Everyone must remember…
Student:
No, no, that’s something else.
Lecturer:
The ancient Greeks, it’s brought in many early rabbinic authorities, I don’t remember which ones, said that there are four main good character traits. Four main good ones, we’ll talk about this.
The first is, these are character traits, in English it goes “temperance,” okay? We’ll go talk about this, or “sophrosyne” in Greek, abstinence/moderation. We’ll talk about this. “Sophrosyne” is the language of abstinence, says the Rambam. And… what are you doing?
Student:
No, there are those who say there’s a difference.
Lecturer:
Now, fine.
“Courage,” bravery, strength/courage.
Lecturer:
“Wisdom.” Wisdom, wisdom. Certainly wisdom is a good trait, to conduct oneself with wisdom, and also to have wisdom, certainly. The Rambam, soon we’ll see.
And…
Student:
If you are a wise person, it says in the Book of Proverbs, it’s full of this.
Lecturer:
Either you get it or not.
Student:
No, no, wisdom is not talent/ability.
Lecturer:
One must conduct oneself with talent, certainly. One learns, one learns to be wise. It’s not that… either you’re smart or not. No, nonsense. Either you come with… or you have the talent. Talent and wisdom are not the same thing. Okay?
Student:
And don’t you need to have the talent?
Lecturer:
No. But you need to have talent for everything. Even to be an arrogant person one needs to have talent. For everything one needs to have talent. Talent means the “capacity.” Not everyone can… everyone gets… okay, I’m telling you a fact. The first thing that comes in, look in Chazal, it says thousands of times that it’s a virtue to be wise. It’s not… wisdom is a virtue. A virtue that you get.
Student:
No, a virtue that one does.
Lecturer:
You can get this. Chazal say this. Oy, oy, wise. Because the Rambam says explicitly in the laws, it says explicitly in the Laws of Repentance, remember? “Everyone can be wise or foolish.” Free choice. It says in the chapters on free choice. And it’s not a novelty in the Rambam, there are verses like this. A person must be wise. Okay, anyway, I said here a list.
Lecturer:
The fourth good trait is justice, righteousness/justice, to be a righteous person. Must be a righteous person, wise, strong, and wealthy. So said the ancient Greeks. There are other good traits that Plato talks about a lot, which is being a good friend, wise, strong, and wealthy.
Lecturer:
The other list, let your house be open wide. In the Mishnah there are various such lists. “The brazen-faced go to Gehinnom, the shame-faced to the Garden of Eden.” “Jealousy among scholars increases wisdom.” There are many different lists. Anyway, this is very accepted.
Lecturer:
As I said, the early Christians said that this is according to nature. But from the perspective of religion there are three more traits called Faith, Hope, and Charity. These are the “three theological virtues,” so it’s accepted among the Christians. Faith – faith, Hope – hope, I don’t know, trust, and Charity – love, giving, beyond the letter of the law essentially. Not justice, which means one gives what is right, but kindness. This is what they said, this will come out, I already know, hosting a kohen and the righteous.
And among the Jews such a thing is not accepted. Interesting, another important thing, soon we’ll talk about this, humility and honor.
Lecturer:
But what I want to say with all these things is, that there are different lists of good character traits, different accepted lists. I can perhaps take the list of Rabbi Pinchas ben Yair, think about this soon too. Different lists of good character traits. Everyone agrees that a person must have different good character traits.
What is the important thing when one makes such a list? The important thing is to understand on what the list is built. I now said an interesting novelty, an interesting observation, that with the Rambam’s list there is never a real list.
Lecturer:
In other words, 613 commandments, Aristotle taught that a good list must be “exhaustive,” it must include everything that exists, and what is the other thing? It must be divided correctly. Yes? Nothing should be missing, one shouldn’t be able to come tomorrow and say “what did the teacher leave out and leave out.” If there is “left out and left out,” it’s a weak list. A list must start from the general principle, and it must divide the principle correctly, so that one shouldn’t be able to say tomorrow why didn’t you divide it differently, yes? So apparently this is the law/rule of a good list. The law of a good list must include everything that exists in the topic. Someone makes a list of what he needs to buy for Shabbos, he needs to buy everything, and he shouldn’t miss anything.
Lecturer:
All these lists also don’t work like this. There was, and they must first of all establish, how one hits all the traits, all the good traits, one by one, not missing one. And the second is, how one divides it in the right way. How does one make a division that this is not just a list thrown into the world, but one must divide it in the right way. What divides? In other words, what makes… we’ll go talk, the Rambam will talk about different traits, there is a trait of… what is the list of traits here? It says here, you have here a trait of stinginess, and there is also a trait of generosity. He has two traits, or two or three traits that have to do with money. And we need to understand what connects, what divides the traits? What does one mean when one says that a trait is different from the other trait? This we already started to talk about in the previous term, the investigation, right?
Lecturer:
We need to understand at all that there is a strong claim that says that there is no such thing as many traits. As the Chazon Ish didn’t claim, as righteous people loved to claim, I remember. Why? Because good character traits means that he should conduct himself as is right. To conduct according to the measure of wisdom, according to what it should be, according to what is right. It comes out that there is only one trait, to conduct oneself according to what is right. And there is one bad trait, he can conduct himself not as is right, that he should conduct himself according to the evil inclination, let’s say, according to what is convenient for him, according to what the inclination tells him is right, not as is truly right.
Lecturer:
What did Rabbeinu Yonah say? “All the commandments are the teaching of the wise, and all the transgressions are the teaching of the fool.” Yes, wise and foolish, yes, righteous and wicked. There is a good one and there is a bad one. There is a pious one and there is a fool. And so on. But specifically when one talks about character traits, what is the practical difference that the bad thing he does is the trait of anger or it’s the trait of… it’s not a sin? It’s a sin, and one must know by which names the sins. It’s not a practical difference. But he does a sin, he does a transgression, he does a transgression. It’s not a practical difference if he does a transgression of robbery or he does a transgression of theft. The trait of anger, comes from the trait of pride, and I mean even the trait of pride, why should one talk about this at all? Okay, what does it help me?
Lecturer:
Do you understand the question? It’s a waste of time to make all these lists of traits, it will help me nothing. What do I have to make a long list? I tell everyone, you should conduct yourself properly and that’s it.
Student:
Yes, but it’s impossible.
Lecturer:
I can grab onto one trait. What will help to give one trait? Let’s say, someone never heard of the trait. Let’s say someone never heard of the concept, perhaps there are such people? Never heard of the thing that there is a list of traits, different good traits, bad traits. He knows that one must be a person, one must conduct oneself properly. What does it mean how to conduct oneself properly? I’ll tell you, I know a thousand things: the father one must honor, and to friends one must be good friends, and when one eats one must eat not too much and not too little. At every second there is another trait. What do I have from making from this such general traits? The trait of desire, the trait of pride, the trait of anger, the trait of humility. What do I have from this? I wouldn’t have known that these things are good things? I would have known. I would have known. I’m a good person, I do all these things. What do I do with making a list of traits? Or at all with saying even one of them?
Student:
I can’t teach people to be good, but I tell them, this means such and such.
Lecturer:
This is… It’s not working, my recorder. It says recording. It says, I don’t see the green… No, my audio doesn’t work. The recorder became, audio doesn’t work. The green what? It’s not connected to the camera. It’s connected in the wrong place or something. I don’t know, something is wrong. I’m afraid we won’t have a lecture. No, it’s bullshit.
Ah, what? No, it’s connected to the wrong thing, or my thing is not turned on, or something. I don’t know, all kinds of things are… You see that it doesn’t make any red… You see that it doesn’t make any red… You see that it doesn’t make any red… The green is your bar that goes up and down? No, on the… on the camera. That’s the receiver. No, no, it’s not plugged in the right place. I plugged it in the wrong place. Take this. Yes. Should it be such a thing? Should it be wider?
Instructor: Do you see that it doesn’t make any red and any green, the bar that goes up and down? Well, without the… without the… without the camera. That’s the receiver. No no no, it’s not plugged in the right place, it’s in the wrong place. This?
Student: Yes.
Instructor: What should I bring? I’m looking what’s going on there. Don’t know. Finally you have what you need to work on.
Student: So I need to know. So I need to know. What does one have from making an extra trait of knowing what the camera is.
Instructor: I need to grasp the point, I need to say an important thing. Okay, so this is a very serious question. What does one have from the whole thing, one thing one should be able to explain.
Student: Okay, I help fully, make such general rules. Instead of saying one must be a person, one says be humble, and don’t be arrogant, not angry, not desirous.
Instructor: What? You’re focused on the bad things. The Rambam also takes, says anger, I don’t know what he says there. One must base it on certain measures, on certain people, base on certain measures, on certain examples. And no examples from another point when you don’t have any sense of the middle path, one must… the middle path is only a theory. In practice one must see it.
So let’s understand, here I agree that character traits is a matter of practical action. A matter of practical action one doesn’t learn from any Torah. One must see it.
Student: Honestly, one must see it, right?
Instructor: Yes. One must be able to see.
Student: Well, the question is like this, I agree, but so one must see it completely in actual practice. Can you tell me about general character traits, it also won’t help me so much. Right? What will help me to see how that one doesn’t get upset or does get upset, at the right time, in the right manner, in the right way. Then I can learn that this is a good thing, or I saw that this leads to a better life, I saw that this is a good thing.
Instructor: True.
Student: The question is about the thing in between, right? What do I have from calling it the trait of anger? What do I do with dividing the traits in this manner, and calling this anger and this desire and this pride and so on? It’s not the exact thing I see, it’s a bit a higher level of abstraction, right? It’s something in between.
Instructor: But you can see from him to learn very good things, and other things he is very angry. As long as he doesn’t have a name for the thing of anger, and he hasn’t yet grasped that this is… because he has so many other good traits, and other things he is good, and here he is very strongly upset.
So if you don’t have a word, so this is a general thing, like if you don’t have words for things, you don’t notice them, right? We only see things that we have words for them. This is a principle. A very strong principle. Or we don’t understand, we can’t, we don’t understand, I don’t mean we can’t give a lecture, we don’t understand how to conduct ourselves without calling the thing a word.
Instructor: It can be for example, let’s say an important thing. It can be for example that there are different people, we talked last week in the lecture about this, that often there is a person who is a thief and he doesn’t grasp that he’s a thief, and the environment doesn’t grasp that he’s a thief, true? He’s a murderer and he doesn’t grasp that he’s a murderer. It can even be whole cultures that they don’t have a word for a certain good trait, and they can’t feel it. It’s very hard, at least, perhaps he has it a bit by mistake, by chance by error he got it from somewhere, but it’s very hard for the person to have the thing consistently, because he doesn’t have a word.
I can think of the Gemara, by the way, not just that. I mean that we Jews, I love when people criticize the Jews, right? I mean that by us Jews, we have different lists of character traits (middos), like the list of middos that the Rambam brings, everyone knows, and I hold that in every list many good middos are missing. And because we don’t have them in the list, not just a list, but the reasons why we should conduct ourselves this way, and the reasons why we shouldn’t conduct ourselves this way, and so on, it goes perhaps both ways, but when we don’t have it and we don’t talk about the thing as a middah, we completely lack the ability to grasp that this is something that can be done. You can think of the Gemara, right? No, it’s a good example.
Instructor: Courage we already talked about, when we talked that there are many times, courage is something that the Rambam does talk about, I talked about this, and Rav Aharon Kotler talks about this, but the baalei mussar don’t like to talk about courage. Now, I would have thought that courage means, it’s appropriate to talk about it, because there is a middah of derech hametzuah shebo [the middle path within it], yes? It doesn’t mean just being an animal, it means, yes, there is a proper middah of not knowing how to take risks, and how to put oneself in danger in the right way, is something that must be discussed. But we don’t, yes, we don’t talk about it, it’s not a good example that I know. I say courage, most people know what it is, they just say it’s not a Jewish thing.
Instructor: And I thought of something that we don’t know at all what it is, because we don’t have a word for it. For example.
Student: For example?
Instructor: I know, I have a year and a half, I need to fill out forms.
Student: What?
Instructor: This is for shiurim that I’m giving.
Student: What?
Instructor: It’s not.
Student: Ah, it’s not?
Instructor: It is, yes?
Student: Ah, that’s an interesting thing to say.
Instructor: I know if it’s a good trait or a bad trait. But there is a middah called courtesy in English. Do you understand it?
Student: What does courtesy mean?
Instructor: Courtesy, everyone knows courtesy. Courtesy means a way how a person behaves with a stranger. Like we have a middah called farginnen [being happy for others’ success] that other people don’t know about farginnen?
Student: It’s an opposite middah.
Instructor: It’s an opposite example. It’s not yet good enough. I can say an eidel (refined person), for example.
Student: I’ll say to be good to be eidel, I know what it means.
Instructor: I mean it’s refined. It’s yours. It’s one eidel, I mean it’s tznius (modesty), a conduct. It’s also a sort of tznius.
No, courtesy is eidel. No, courtesy means a certain, a proper way how one conducts oneself with strangers. With a friend you don’t have courtesy, with a friend you’re a friend. With an enemy you have, I don’t know what, hatred, whatever, you have to relate to him. Courtesy is this, that when you go to the bank and someone is standing alone, you don’t push him. Yes? You know that Jews aren’t so polite.
Student: It’s called chillul Hashem [desecration of God’s name], it’s a whole other topic.
Instructor: Yes? Courtesy means that when you go into the store, you hold the door for the one who is after you. Yes? It’s not a middah, it’s not chesed (kindness), he didn’t need to have chesed, he can very well hold the door himself. It’s simply a proper conduct how one behaves with a stranger. Not with a friend, not one of your children, not someone you’re being mekarev (bringing close), that you want to show him how good the Jews are.
I didn’t say that there aren’t any sources in the Torah for such a thing.
Student: No, no, I wouldn’t call it gaavah (pride). I wouldn’t call it gaavah.
Instructor: No, except that you’re being mekarev such a thing, with courtesy indeed.
Student: Courtesy. Need no, need no nimus (politeness)?
Instructor: The sefarim have the expression nimus, but when we say nimus, it looks to us like a false thing.
Student: No, there is such a middah.
Instructor: It’s false.
Student: It’s not, it looks to us false, because it’s actually, I don’t mean the friend. I can be very courteous to you, and I have you in the ground. It doesn’t concern me, I don’t care if you die tomorrow in the next minute. What does it have to do with falsehood?
Instructor: That’s nice, that this is the shitah (approach) of the Jews. The Jews hold, the real Jews, that they know that they hold that this is false, they know that it’s false. It has no virtue. A non-Jew, a non-Jew, a certain culture, the European culture is very into courtesy. By the way, in the East it’s not so. What is the virtue?
Student: You want the virtue to be? This is a shiur on courtesy?
Instructor: I’ll tell you in reality. An example. Non-Jews come, and he can be the biggest piece of garbage, he smiles, everything is courtesy. Next day, “I will call you,” and he has you in the ground. Meaning, it’s a falsehood, it’s worth nothing. It’s not a good middah.
Student: Okay, it looks very good, it’s a dispute.
Instructor: I don’t agree that it doesn’t exist by Klal Yisrael at all. It could be that it’s chanufah (flattery).
Student: Ah, very good. Wait, wait, let’s stop. Very good. There is a thing called chanufah. How do you say chanufah in English? Flattery, right? Flattery. Everyone understands that flattery and courtesy… It could be that the extreme in America is to be a bit more courteous. I admit to you. It could be that the American non-Jews, the custom of America, is to be a bit too… not… at some point you have to say, you want me to hold that I shouldn’t call you back?
Instructor: No, tell me, I won’t call you back.
Student: No, see, what this is in the Rambam’s way of thinking, what you’re saying now, is the bad extreme (ketzuniyus hara) of this. Courtesy, in other words, means how one conducts oneself toward a stranger. Not like the Galician Jews, first the speech goes in, ah, I want to wish you a good month. No, this is even how one speaks to a normal person. Not a hug. A hug is already too much. And also that’s a fake… and the hippies make a hug for every stranger. That’s not courtesy, that’s something like an aveirah lishmah [a transgression for the sake of heaven — ironic usage]. The non-Jews make… how do we say, please come into our holy congregation, which brings the Nazis on. That’s false courtesy, because it’s completely the opposite.
And what is proper courtesy? Not the same thing as chanufah. Yes, now it’s not even chanufah, you know what it is now. Chanufah means flattery. Everyone understands in English the two words. When you have two words, it means that the culture distinguishes between the two things. Flattery is the one who says, the lecker (licker/flatterer), “Yes, I’ll call you,” and when he doesn’t call, he says, “Yes, yes, I saw you…” That’s not courtesy. Courtesy means, you can say courteously no, yes? You can say, “Thank you for the offer, and you said, “Thank you so much for your interest, it’s not a right time for us now.” You said, that’s very clearly no. There’s no doubt that tomorrow won’t be the time, right? You understand it yourself. But it’s not a lie, and it’s not chanufah. Chanufah is the one who doesn’t understand the difference, he says that this is chanufah.
Instructor: Courtesy is a maaseh derech eretz [proper conduct]. When someone backs out in a parking lot, you give him a wave. That’s a certain courteousness. Yes, but I hear, it’s not a tremendous virtue to have. It’s a tremendous virtue, I don’t know that.
Student: What?
Instructor: There is a contradiction. There is one Mishnah “greet with a pleasant countenance” (sever panim yafos), and there is a second Mishnah “greet with joy” (b’simchah). These are the two approaches in Judaism. One accepts suffering with joy (mekabel yissurim b’simchah), and one says “sever panim yafos”. Tomorrow, tomorrow, there will be an approach. These are two Tannaim [Mishnaic sages], one says this and one says that. The Rambam talks about this in chapter one, Mishnah one. True, but we’ll do chapter one faster.
Instructor: Yes, but what… I hear, but it’s indeed a tremendous virtue to have. It’s a tremendous virtue. I don’t know that. I only know… what?
Yes, there is presumably, there is one Mishnah that says “Greet every person with a pleasant countenance” (Hevei mekabel es kol ha’adam b’sever panim yafos – Pirkei Avos/Ethics of the Fathers 1:15), and there are two approaches in Judaism. One is “mekabel es kol ha’adam”, and one weighs in “b’sever panim yafos”. This is the second pleasure. One says this is not yet enough. The Rambam [Maimonides] talks about this in chapter seven in the Mishnah.
True, yes, true. But we only make it like something called “sever panim yafos” is to… usually when we count how much to… sever panim yafos… yes, good morning.
In short, I’m just bringing it out, that when you have a word for something, you grasp that there is such a middah, and for this there is a proper way of the middah. There is one who is just a lecker (flatterer), one is just a liar, one is just bad, that’s the opposite, he has too little courtesy, one has too much false courtesy. But there is such a middah, and as long as you don’t have the word, it’s very hard to talk about it, very hard to grasp at all what one is talking about, very hard to educate.
For example, even you see, you see that people do this, you say, “Ah, they are chanfanim [flatterers/hypocrites].” No, they’re not chanfanim. Some are chanfanim, but some are educating themselves to the middah.
This is an example. I mean that there are many Jewish middos that it’s become that we don’t have, and so on. Come, give us a few real middos.
Student: Respect? Middos are all such small things.
Instructor: Say respect. The middah of respect doesn’t exist today among Jews.
Student: There is a middas derech eretz [proper conduct/respect] for older people, there is kavod habriyos [respect for human dignity].
Instructor: Derech eretz, politeness.
Student: Yes, but…
Instructor: There is a certain kavod habriyos, but because it’s a difficult…
Instructor: Courtesy is a strange middah. I think a lot about this for other Jews. There are many middos in today’s world that have to do with how we act toward strangers. Jews don’t have such a big concept of a stranger.
Student: No, it’s a real thing.
Instructor: If he’s a Jew, he’s a brother. If he’s a Jew from the other Chassidus, he’s his enemy (soneh). But… and in the liberal world… I mean, sometimes today’s world – once it was, today’s world is very strongly built on various good middos how one behaves toward strangers.
In the old world, the Jews, the frum Jews, the heimishe Jews are a bit old-fashioned in this part, they don’t really have the middos. For example hachnasos orchim [hospitality to guests] that Avraham Avinu [Abraham our forefather] founded, the Arabs in the Middle East are still very strong in the line of hachnasos orchim. Hachnasos orchim is a sort of middah, but hachnasos orchim is already more than that. Hachnasos orchim is that you came to me, now you belong to me, I have to even protect you, I have to be your guardian (shomer), because you belong to me. You are already under my protection (tachas chasusi), you are under my protection.
This is a sort of middah how one behaves with strangers, but this is already a middah that makes the stranger into a person under your authority (ish tachas shiltoncha). The liberal middah is that he’s a citizen, how one behaves toward a second citizen, not he who is there together with you, your friend, holds everything and body. This is the other middah, therefore the Jews can’t go on the subway, you understand? No courtesy, nothing. This is already first.
Yes yes, all these middos, that courtesy is just one example, there are many middos, and there is an argument to be had which is the right one and which not, I already know, one can argue about this. I’m just bringing out that here are middos, it’s a whole conduct (hanhagah), everyone agrees that one can be too much, it can be too cold, it can be too hot, it can be too warm, too cold, too bad and so on. But there is a whole world (olam) in middos that one is educated to be a good person.
There are middos, you know also in everything, there are middos in law. The law says that at yellow lights we may drive, all Chassidic Jews understand that one must drive faster. But what does the good middah say? The good middah says at yellow lights one stops, because this is not… what do I have with the other? What should the second one be? Nothing should happen to him, no problem, but one wants to beat who arrives first. This requires a certain humanity, we call it humanity sometimes. Yes, because it’s a courtesy.
In short, all these middos that perhaps we don’t have a word for, and there is a big question in middos whether there is such a thing as middos for a stranger, for someone that I simply don’t have some connection with him, I don’t owe him anything. Simply, I am healthy and my friend is healthy (ani bari v’chaveri bari – i.e., we have no connection). And I come to my space and he comes to his space, and we don’t mix out. This is something given. Okay, how we will come to see given. This was just an example to explain one benefit, a certain aspect that the benefit is from the middos, from what one must write.
Student: By what do you think rather a general rule? Say that yes, one is a person.
Instructor: Ah, that’s not actions. It’s the halachah itself, everyone waits itself, it’s a mitzvah. I don’t tag a word now. A middah’s sorry’s sorry’s. No one will know. It’s usually three levels there. A general. Middos says. I need a middah why one doesn’t hit the other in the world to take in. What is that middah called? I know, I know a middah? I don’t see that it’s making it coming. What is the middah called? It’s good for cans, perhaps living. Cans?
Student: No, I teach it to my small children. You need a… I teach it to my small children.
Instructor: No, I’m asking a good question.
Student: I teach it to my small children. One doesn’t hit! Don’t hit! What is first comes a father. What will father do, nothing. I don’t know, but don’t push. Leave calmly, talk with the other. What is the middah called?
Instructor: Wise is a middah. Okay, wise is already the general factor. Wise is everything. Be a good person, why should you hit. It’s the goes… Where is a middah? I’ll tell him it. There’s a… what is there a middah is a middah? Where… is the thing that a middah is it certain. You have a middah that you don’t hit. If the other takes something, you don’t hit. What do you do? Either you do nothing, or you call it in the Torah, or you’re most of it. It says, a hundred thousand middos. True? That’s what I’m doing. Once a hundred thousand?
Student: No. Would tell you that you seven times seven? Have you ever heard, don’t cross the lines? But it’s a reason for. That’s the conclusion of the middah? You mean a middah?
Instructor: No. What does a middah mean? You tell me everything came? I don’t know, I tell you, I don’t know which middah it is not to hit the brother. I know that I shouldn’t hit him, not hit more not. What?
Student: No, I don’t even want to call it a middah. There is another middah which is when he asks me for a loan, I give him a loan. It’s not the same thing, did you hear?
One shouldn’t have money sitting by oneself, not so that it should help someone else. Maybe that’s a middah. Wait, that’s a middah. How do I conduct myself with my money? My money isn’t just to come and lie in a pocket, rather it’s for work, and it should circulate by me, by someone else, in another business, in an investment. Okay, that’s also a middah, though, right? But what is this middah called? The Rambam [Maimonides] gives a name for each middah. He says it’s one of the middos, correct? Nedivus [generosity], there’s a name for it. But we didn’t know about this.
Instructor: I’m trying to get at something, something is being revealed here. So I want to tell you a second thing. So we’ve revealed one thing, we’ve revealed that there’s a to’eles [benefit] from learning, a benefit from learning, and also becoming habituated. Middos is not a subject of theoretical learning, it’s a subject of becoming habituated. And one can become better habituated when one knows what a word is. This is how people who get results work. That’s one thing.
The second interesting principle is, and this is a dispute. Here the Rambam doesn’t go with this approach, and let’s just mention it. There’s an interesting important dispute, perhaps among the mekubalim [Kabbalists]. The Tanya [foundational work of Chabad Chassidus], for example, goes a different way. There are sefarim [books] that go – there’s literally a dispute about this.
Rebbe Reb Pinchas’l said that he can explain why there’s a list of middos. He claimed that he has an explanation for it. What is his explanation? He said, one goes with the objections to the four middos that they mentioned. They showed him that there’s a critique of the objections, that four middos was accepted that there are four good middos. He claimed that you have an answer, he has an explanation for why there are four middos. The answer is, because there is the nefesh [soul], we learned in chapter one, chapter two, that there are three chelkei hanefesh [parts of the soul]. The Rambam divided it into three parts. There they went to this, in a slightly different way. There are three chelkei hanefesh, as the Rambam said, and consequently each middah belongs to one part. When you ask me why we say there are four middos, it’s because there are three, each chelek hanefesh has its middah, and the fourth is the kelallus [the general/comprehensive one].
Yes, and how does it go? He says this: a person has three parts in his nefesh, or three nefashos [souls], or not nefashos but parts, however one should say it.
The First Part – Ta’avah: The first part is called ta’avah [desire/appetite], that’s what it’s called. The middah against it is prishus [abstinence/self-restraint], holding oneself back, having control over the ta’avah.
The Second Part – Ka’as/Chelek HaMis’orer: The second chelek hanefesh that a person has is what the Rambam calls the chelek hamis’orer [the spirited/emotional part]. By the Rambam, ta’avah also belongs there, but he divided it. That is, Admor HaZaken [the Alter Rebbe: Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, author of the Tanya] calls it ka’as [anger], or those who know what this is, the chassidim know what this is. The chelek hamis’orer, the main middah that belongs to it is ka’as, that’s what he usually calls it. And there’s another middah there, which is the middah that has to do with that, courage. Courage means, you conduct yourself with your courage in the right way. Ka’as is a sharp courage, think about it. It’s a funny translation, it’s a problem, but that’s how we learned it.
Rav Saadia Gaon [10th century Jewish philosopher] says that there are three, so he says, there are three chelkei hanefesh: ta’avah, ka’as, and seichel [intellect/reason]. Ka’as is a translation. What does ka’as mean? It’s the same thing as his’orerus [arousal/spiritedness], think about it.
Haven’t you heard recently from Rabbi Nosson Dovid? All Jews who serve the Almighty with his’orerus are ba’alei ka’as [masters of anger/spiritedness]. That’s how it goes, it’s the same koach [power/force]. Not exactly the same, but approximately the same.
A person who serves the Almighty with cheishek [passion/desire]. Cheishek is not the same thing. It’s very interesting, the Chassidic Jews don’t know, but those who do know, those who think too much about it, we spoke about this last week, the Yeshivishe and the others who held, they said that you serve the Almighty with hislahavus [enthusiasm/fervor].
Hislahavus is two completely opposite things. There’s eish umayim [fire and water], ahavah kireshpei eish [love like fiery flames – from Song of Songs 8:6], ahavah kamayim [love like water]. One serves the Almighty with passion, with cheishek, and it’s not the same thing as one who serves the Almighty with hislahavus.
Maggid Shiur [Lecturer]:
All Jews who serve the Almighty with his’orerus are ba’alei ka’as. All. That’s the same chiyus [vitality], that’s approximately the same koach. Not exactly the same, but approximately the same.
A person who serves the Almighty with cheishek – cheishek is not the same thing. It’s very interesting. The Chassidic Jews don’t know. They do know, if you think a bit we’ll speak about this this week, the Yeshivishe and others who held that one must serve the Almighty with his’orerus. But there are two completely opposite types of his’orerus. That is, fire and water, and Lubavitch says ahavah kireshpei eish, ahavah kamayim.
One who serves the Almighty with passion, with cheishek, is not the same thing as one who serves the Almighty with his’orerus. It’s two different things, with ka’as, with a boil. Yes, a boil, it’s the midas ha’eish [the trait of fire]. It’s not ahavah [love].
People, many chassidim think that ahavah with a boil is the same thing. It’s exactly the opposite thing. It’s a different feeling, it’s a different type of thing. It doesn’t come from the same place.
Why do I understand it differently? Someone who is alive, everything by him is alive, but it’s not the same thing. A passion, a drive, a teshukah [longing], a… what do you call it in English? A lust, an eros, an attraction, he’s attracted, and someone who is ignited. They’re two different things.
What makes him ignited? Because this is important, because this is ka’as. The midas haka’as means “this is very important, this is very relevant.” That’s a different type of thing. One must do something here. One must do something. It’s not the same thing.
Kana’us [zealotry] comes from yirah [fear], comes from ka’as. Kana’us… we spoke about his’orerus. His’orerus is spoken with a bit of ka’as, that’s the kana’us. Kana’us doesn’t come from ahavah. No. It can be in the pnimiyus [inner dimension], but kana’us comes from ka’as. Kana’us is kin’ah literally means ka’as. I think that Rashi [Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the primary medieval Torah commentator] says so later.
Maggid Shiur:
Anyway, that’s the second middah. Then there’s the third middah, which is called… what did we call the third thing? Chochmah [wisdom]. Chochmah is the chochmah, seichel, koach, the further good middah of the da’as [knowledge], of the seichel, is called chochmah.
Then there’s the fourth middah, which is called tzedek [justice]. What this means is a tzaddik [righteous person]. We usually call a good person, whether in lashon hakodesh [Hebrew], or in whatever. The main word that we call, it’s very interesting, this is discussed in the Devarim [Deuteronomy]. We can call a good person one way – a chacham [wise person], and another way is to call him a tzaddik.
Tzaddik means a righteous one, from the language of tzedek. What does tzedek have to do with it? Tzedek is a middah. What does this have to do with tzedek? They used to say tzedek has to do with when one does business, there’s no tzeduki bamishpat [perverting justice], he doesn’t steal, he pays when he’s obligated and the like.
Yes, he says, Plato [the ancient Greek philosopher], and it also says in all the Chassidic sefarim the Torah, and the Rambam, I think Plato is the first, perhaps there’s an earlier one who said the Torah, he says that tzedek one must also use with oneself.
What does justice mean? Justice means that one gives each thing mah shera’ui lo, lisein lechol echad mah shera’ui lo [to give each thing what is fitting for it]. Yes, whom you owe you must pay, whom you must do pidyon shevuyim [redeeming captives] you must do pidyon shevuyim, you do business with Jews in merchandise and so on.
The same thing, midas hatzedek [the trait of justice], which is the kelallus of being a good person, means that each koach in the nefesh should receive what is coming to it. The midas haka’as one should use when one needs to have it, the midas hasimchah [trait of joy] when one needs to have it, the midas hata’avah when one needs to have it, and in a general way, the coordination of all these middos, that each thing gets its place, that is tzidkus [righteousness], and that is the main name of a good person is called a just person, a tzaddik, and that is the midas hatzedek. That’s how the four good middos come out. So he wrote in the Sefer HaMedinah [Plato’s Republic].
Maggid Shiur:
And others, in similar ways, which Chazal [our Sages, of blessed memory] mentioned, in the same structure, one can perhaps have more details, but in the same structure one can see for example in the sefer, that is, which sefer has such structures? Shaarei Kedushah [Gates of Holiness, by Rabbi Chaim Vital], or the Tanya which brings from the Shaarei Kedushah, perhaps other sefarim that go this way, I don’t remember which others. Which mussar sefarim does the world learn? I don’t know.
Anyway, in Tanya and in Shaarei Kedushah it says that there are different middos tovos vera’os [good and bad traits], yes, the Shaarei Kedushah is very busy with proper middos, and he says that how does one make the middos? That there are four yesodos [elements], okay, it’s a little different structure, a different way, but there are four yesodos, eish, mayim, ruach, afar [fire, water, wind, earth], and the nefesh also has derech meshal [by way of example], not literally four yesodos, and each one of them has certain middos ra’os [bad traits] that belong to them, yes, eish has to do with ka’as, and mayim with ta’avah, as will be said next, and ruach with ga’avah [pride], and what’s the other one, afar with atzlus [laziness], whatever it is, and above there are four yesodos, there are four divisions, the nefesh is divided into such meshalim [analogies], the structure of the idea of middos.
There are different chelkei hanefesh, there’s an approaching koach, there’s an approaching part, there’s an avoiding part, and so on. And one divides the middos, perhaps two middos for each one, two parts of it, and the like. But the way that he gets to his list of middos is by dividing the soul and giving for each soul, what are the middos tovos of each chelek hanefesh.
And it’s true, it’s very good that we learned, the four yesodos, I didn’t say it, we learned that what this goes, good, there’s something that he actually made, but the way how he made it that it works well, that his chelek haga’avah [part of pride] works well, the simple meaning is that these are the middos, what we call midas haka’as, midas a proper ka’as, is the koach ha’oseh [the active force] that a person does what his task is, he does it properly, and so on for each koach. This is a very old way of dividing the middos according to the chelkei hanefesh, right? So said Rabbi Tzadok [Rabbi Tzadok HaKohen of Lublin], Plato, and so all the chachmei hamekubalim [the kabbalistic sages] used this thing.
The Rambam doesn’t do this, and I noticed that the Rambam doesn’t do this, true? He does something very similar, he begins with the chelkei hanefesh, and then he says, where are the middos? All belong in one part, and a long list of nine, and he doesn’t tell you a list, a long list of kechai gavna [of this type], of kiyotza bo [similar to this], everything belongs in one part.
And he doesn’t say, in this part there are so many divisions, that each one is a middah. By the Rambam’s middos it doesn’t work with the chelkei hanefesh. The division of middos is not by chelkei hanefesh, which then you would have an exhaustive list, right? Not only an exhaustive list, also the proper division of the list, right?
It’s not such a list that there’s no difference, what there are more chelkei hanefesh than the three or four. What you make next, there are ten chelkei hanefesh, other mekubalim had calculations, for example, a chochmah, if you have seven middos, you have seven sefiros [the seven sefirot], yes? There was also a bit different from the four yesodos idea, but it’s the same idea.
More or less, everything can be divided, either it’s ahavah, or it’s yirah, or it’s tiferes [beauty/harmony], and that’s basically all the middos. And the Baal Shem Tov [founder of Chassidus] always goes with the point, and it’s homologous in it, because a person, everything he does, either you’re attracted to it, or you have aversion to it, or you’re against it. That’s more or less the kav ha’emtza and kav hasmol [the middle line and the left line], or you’re something in between, which is kav ha’emtza.
And there’s more, there aren’t more middos, because there can’t be more, because this is comprehensive, I made a division of everything that exists, I can make more details, but I can’t truly make more middos. This is the way of dividing middos according to the structure of the nefesh.
The Rambam, I see, doesn’t work this way, and there are, I see, a few reasons why he doesn’t work this way. And when I mean to say he doesn’t work this way, I mean perhaps that I need to think, is there a difference that one can’t say this, because there’s a difference to me that it’s wrong. I think it’s more that the claim is there a bit explicitly, and Aristotle perhaps one needs to think about this, but it could be that the claim is, what’s wrong with the Torah? It’s a part, what’s wrong?
Maggid Shiur:
And they learned that this piece of Torah helped somewhat, that ga’avah is from yeshus ha’atzmi [self-existence] and ta’avah is from yeshus haguf [bodily existence]. Has anyone ever been helped in avodas Hashem [service of God] by these teachings? I’m curious.
Student:
It’s just knowledge, it doesn’t have to help practically. It’s good to know.
Maggid Shiur:
You remember, middos is not a learning that one learns, you don’t fulfill with the knowing, you only fulfill with the doing. It must help something.
Student:
I understand, but it can’t hurt to know something.
Maggid Shiur:
It can’t hurt, but we work so hard to figure out what is the structure, what is a difference?
Student:
Counting seven sefiros, one must work. Sefiros don’t drink water, they become dry.
Maggid Shiur:
That’s what I’m saying, it’s not helping. Okay, one shouldn’t drink cola, because cola is not a ta’avah. But it’s really a good piece of Torah this.
But aside for that, I’m asking a serious question, does this help anyone? Does this help you to have a good middah? You say to me, I don’t know what this middah is. Okay, come I’ll help you, there are three sefiros. Consequently you can clarify everything.
Student:
I don’t know, it’s possible that it helps people in some way. Because as we spoke earlier, to have a structure helps very much for many people.
Maggid Shiur:
I mean, sefiras ha’omer [counting of the Omer], yes, it says in sefarim that one should actually see each day something of a sefirah. Yes? Do you know someone who… I have many books here today, you go in the bookstores to see, the… what’s it called? The process, the train, the journey of sefiras ha’omer, and he says on each day there’s a sefer… they printed it, just through a sefer from some Satmar Chassidic young man a sefer. You know that the Bnei Yissaschar [classic Chassidic work] collected from that sefer. Yes, the Bnei Yissaschar collected from an earlier sefer.
Do you know someone who did that? I don’t know. I’m talking about sefira, sefira. I don’t know anyone who should tell me afterwards “I did that, and I’m very happy for that person.” I don’t know which people. Do you know one?
In general, the seven weeks of sefira doesn’t work, because one of the first weeks is just Chol HaMoed Pesach, and the second week, whatever, it doesn’t really work.
Student:
But, learning a sugya in Gemara to know from where the source of the halacha comes from, did that help him something?
Maggid Shiur:
No, that’s subject matter, that’s a level in subject matter. Now we’re talking about levels in character traits. Levels in subject matter, the point is to know. There’s also a subject to know from where it comes.
Student:
Could be, could be, but now we’re not talking about that. Let’s say, now let’s learn the whole thing.
Maggid Shiur:
I agree, the main thing is that, but it’s also good to know from where it comes. From where does it come? That’s what I hear now.
Student:
Which part of… when I tell you, do you understand something better when I tell you that it’s a koach ha’eish [power of fire]? I don’t see what you understand something. It’s just a list, just a word.
Maggid Shiur:
I hear, you can mean it a little better from life.
Student:
But that’s already not at all the whole four things. That the four yesodos [elements] was always a parable. Everyone agrees that there’s no fire in the soul, right? But today it’s much more… okay, so… there’s a big issue.
Maggid Shiur:
So that doesn’t help. So that doesn’t help. It’s a stereotype that one should use it for other things, is a better thing. For example. I agree. But does the list help me something?
In general, every power that a person has, he has it from the good.
Student:
I agree. But that’s a general thing. That still doesn’t help that I have a list.
Maggid Shiur:
The Creator says this applies to every middah, if it’s lacking. What if, imagine, I want to have a truly effective sefiras ha’omer. Would they have said, imagine, what if there were eight sefiros? Or seven, I don’t know, seven, four, five. What difference does something make? Not only does it not make a difference, but most people don’t know the difference between netzach and hod. It could certainly be the same both.
In general, that it should be a list and organize a person, he knows what to work on during sefira, that doesn’t help. I don’t know if that helps. The sefiros will tell it to a person, like it tells a person that you have a body and soul. I just want to know, does describing merely a parable help a person? That’s a question of what does a person mean. I want to understand what a person means. A person is so many things that he has a yetzer hara.
Student:
I hear. But the details, well, again, when I… the previous previous discussion I tell you that one who errs must stand, now you understand what you need to do. But when the clearest thought is you need to…
Maggid Shiur:
Will that help? I don’t know, I don’t see that it helps. The question is, I didn’t say that it doesn’t help. When I tell a person that you want to cause, I want to understand what a person means. A person is such a kind of thing that he has a yetzer hara. But the details, again, the previous thing I said I understood, I explained, I tell you that there is such a thing as a middah, now you understand what that does.
But the general, the beautiful structure, what is the advantage, let’s understand, the advantage of this sort of structure of dividing the middos according to the structure of the soul, that’s a very beautiful piece of Torah. It fits very well, I can’t say. Here doesn’t come any “but,” there’s no “yoke of the middos,” because that’s a yoke upon the middos, right? And there’s no “maybe count it differently,” no, there are seven, a person has seven sefiros corresponding to the seven powers of the soul, there are no others.
But, on the other hand, regarding practical application, it helps a lot less. I don’t see what it helps. When I have anger, I need to know that this is the second middah? What practical difference does it make? When I have a desire, that’s the first middah? What practical difference does it make? What difference does it make? It seems to be less useful than people pretend it is.
A person needs to work, he needs to go do exercise for half an hour in the morning, he needs to work on my anger. Yes, doesn’t work like that. Anger is when there comes exactly an opportunity, one can’t contain the anger. One needs to practice the point. Today is not the week of gevurah, and one doesn’t need to be angry.
There were people who used to do that, work that way. I know people did that. I don’t know what’s wrong with those people. I don’t know, I don’t understand those people.
There’s one who said that the Ba’al Shem Tov says that one must explain the kavanos according to the inner dimension, according to the soul. So, when it says in the siddur “chesed,” he writes in “ahavas Hashem.” When it says “gevurah,” he writes in “yiras Hashem.” And really, like really, that’s what he does. Does it work? I don’t know. There’s a very nice piece of Torah. For a hint it’s good. There’s a hint, there are three things, one needs to talk about three things, okay. But practically? I don’t know.
Anyway, this criticism is Aristotle’s criticism. He said that Plato said two pieces of Torah, but he doesn’t see what it helps. He doesn’t see what it helps. Could be it’s true, he doesn’t see what it’s true. He doesn’t see what it helps for a person to become better.
Let’s say another parable, right? Remember, we’re always thinking of middos and the analogy of crafts, right? The parable of character improvement and the parable of certain crafts that are a craft, right? An art, one does something, one makes something, yes?
Let’s say someone comes and he says, “Gentlemen, you have people, a mechanic, I want to become a mechanic, okay? I want to become a mechanic.” So what do you learn? You go learn to fix motorcycles, cars, SUVs, vans, trucks, each one with its advantages and with its deficiencies, yes?
Let me finish my parable. So if I go to a course, you go to a course to fix motorcycles, a motorcycle has two wheels, and the engine lies here, and it works like this, and if this breaks, you do that, and so on. That helps me. Tomorrow there will be a class on big trucks, the day after on small trucks. Each thing, I show you how it looks and how it works. I understand, it’s very useful. Do you understand what I’m saying?
One class, all that we fix what is broken. That’s true, but it doesn’t help me. Because those are very small details. I tell you, load the truck, a tractor trailer needs to have such and such, needs to have a hundred PSI in the tires, and a small truck needs to have sixty, and a small one needs to have fifty. You got information that’s helping you. It’s structured, it’s the structure of the organization. Just to say each time what to do doesn’t help me, but the structure… listen.
But just that someone comes and he says like this, “Gentlemen, I want to make you a general principle.” And he’s not philosophical, he’s just, it’s too random. It’s a long list, and always he’s going to have as if, because always one thinks up a new sort of car.
So I’ll tell you that that’s true. Let’s not do that way, let’s… it’s an exhaustive list, I can’t give you an exhaustive list. Always, you say the course, we’ve already gone through everything. You tell him, “You know what, there are still a few more.” They already had to learn figures themselves in the Talmud themselves, yes?
And a philosopher came, and he says, “Let’s make even as if, let’s make order. One can’t divide the stringencies and doubts, that’s not relevant to talk about. I have a plan, gentlemen, there’s a principle. Let’s make a principle. The principle is, what is the meaning of a machine, a car? A car is a mechanized box on wheels. That’s the principle, that’s the genus, right? With the division. Wonderful. That’s a principle.
Now, you can divide it in a wonderfully clear way. One can say, there are things that have two wheels, and there are things that have four wheels. You know what? No. There are things that have more than two wheels, and there are things that have two wheels. What made the principle better? Yes? A motorcycle and a bike, both are two wheels. And a tractor-trailer and a pickup truck, an airplane also has who knows how many wheels, they all fit into the other category.
Now, that’s a clear category. It’s a better category than the previous one, right? Because two and more than two, everything fits in. Two boxes, nothing falls out of the two boxes. Everything fits in. It’s conclusive, it’s exhaustive, everything fits in.
Afterwards I’ll make another division, and I’ll say, now, from those that have two wheels, there are such that one must push oneself, and there are such that push themselves. Those that one must push oneself is called a bike, or a… a… a glider plane, or a… I don’t know what, a hardware… or something else. And those that push themselves is called a tank, or a… or a car, or a scooter, a motor scooter, yes? And I’ll make another division in this, and I’ll say, everything is just wonderfully clear.
It won’t help me the mechanic much. It can help someone who wants to make charts in the world, it will help him.
Because almost no one… even I go fill orders for screws for the… I need to have a list, I’m in a mechanic shop, I need to have the right screw for each sort of car. I need to have a display. It won’t help that I store this. I need to have a list of the sixteen main sorts. In most, sometimes it happens that someone comes into the shop with a funny thing, one needs to order it a special order. You need to have the sixteen main sort of screws that are used in most cars and most trucks. That helps me.
When I go into a hardware store, I want to go to the section where I’ll find it. Yeah, you have to go in the section, it’s useless. Today they’ve set up the stores much better, right? Because the sections… you go into the website, people have worked so many years to make the sections fit, right? All screws that are… is so much of a waste of time, because the world doesn’t work that way.
That’s a bit Aristo, that’s by me. But in practice, you can sit a whole hour and write out a list. I have my whole demonstration, when I’m home all my things, I made a whole order. I have all my wires, this wire goes in this box, that wire there, every person spends a few hours on this, and it doesn’t help.
In practice one needs to have there another two wires. Here, two smartphones that people have, those two wires one needs, sometimes one needs a third. Once I said a logical argument, that the time that you organized the wires, let’s say your hour is worth a hundred dollars, I don’t know how much today, and that one comes in, each time one needs from this to search around again. It’s cheaper than to make order in the wires, okay?
That’s the practical way, the practical way of thinking, right? Now, he presents middos in a practical way. Here yes, he has a certain categorization that helps for practically. The categorization always goes with such a majority, which says let’s take the ten most common things, and I’ll explain each one of them practically how it works, not theoretically in which box it belongs, that doesn’t make a difference. Practically how it works, not like that.
Aristotle divided this. He says like this, I said this, the ten most common middos that people struggle with: anger, pride, courage, desire and so on. I can’t exactly from memory all of them. That’s learning in a practical science, I don’t know how.
Now he learns basically practical law. Now I want to say another thing, another way how to divide it. Not to divide according to the logic how it fits, but to divide according to the subject and what it belongs to. In other words, this will make many things, this will bring close the distant and distance the close. In other words like this, there’s one who goes to the extreme, and says such sorts of things, and you want to realize it’s very much less helpful than you usually think, or one can divide it that way.
That’s the argument. And he says, I repeated what I told you, everything that people have is either an attraction or an aversion. Okay, what do you want? Ah, I have a long list. Good children, a beautiful wife, good food, and to have respect in the shiur, and I have a long list. Ultimately that’s a chesed, all things that I want. What don’t I want? To be unhappy, no illnesses, okay, what is a ladder of character traits, one should educate. I want, I have paint, this grabs me, I want, I want, yes, that’s all things.
That’s very nice. Even let’s work on the trait of will, because with all wants, it’s true, I must have some hardware, some software in my body, in my soul, that makes me able to want, yes? You can see a person, a person who is deficient with a certain chemical, he doesn’t want anything. What do you want? I don’t want anything. Indeed, it’s true physically, it’s not even not true, it’s true that there is such a middah in the soul that’s called the trait of will, or the trait of desire, the trait of desire, there is such a middah of wanting, of desire, of having, and there’s one who is missing that, he’s missing everything. He won’t be able not about this, not about that, not about that. True.
But I want to have, I want to have the choice, I want to have the choice to fix the body, talking about fixing the soul, right? You tell me, I want to work on the trait of… give more charity. He comes and says, come, more charity, that which you don’t give charity, that comes because you want your money too much. Want your money a little less, you’ll give more charity. Because you are, you are like the Ba’al HaSulam, you’re taking, right? This is like a very huge generalization of everything. You take to yourself, you are attracted, you grab, you take all the time. You take so much? Give a little. Give what else to give? Wow, it’s so undefined. Give charity. Know what else? Give away for the Almighty a little of your sleep. Get up early and learn. You also sleep about that.
I tell him, Rebbe Leben, this is all very abstract, it’s not helping me.
Let’s describe things as they’re seen in this world. How do I see in this world? There’s a subject that’s called money. You know what I mean money? Everyone knows. What’s the difference between money and furniture? Both are the same thing, both cost money, both are things that people want, theoretically. Practically, money is one thing and furniture is a second thing.
And you remember that middos work with hergalim [habits]. Hergalim don’t work with the koach hasechel [power of intellect], sechel [intellect] understands everything at once. Hergalim work with, exactly with practicing, right? I can’t practice wanting money and wanting furniture at the same time. They have some connection, but they’re two different things.
There’s a middah, there’s a relationship, I have a relationship with money. Derech agav [incidentally], I already gave the teshuvah [answer] once about the tablets. The first time, my relationship with the money that’s in my pocket is a different relationship than the one that’s in my credit card. Different from how much money I have in my bank account. Have you noticed that?
It’s much harder to give money, each person according to his middah, the money when I have cash. I’m the opposite, because I was born in the digital age. When I see money in the bank account, I send it to anyone. But cash in my pocket, I know this is a piece of paper, take it.
Instructor:
There’s a middah that you have a relationship, I have a relationship with money. The relationship, derech agav, I already gave the shiur once about the tablets.
The relationship with money that’s in my pocket is a different relationship than the one that’s in my credit card, and a different one that’s in my bank account. Have you noticed? Yes. It’s much harder to give money, each person according to his middah.
But the money when I have cash, I’m the opposite because I was born in the digital age, when I see money in the bank account I send it to anyone. But cash in my pocket, you know, you need a piece of paper? Take it. I don’t know what you do with it. Yes, you need it?
Normal people are the opposite, right? The people who were born before and got used to it, they make us, yes, cash, I don’t know, what do I do with this? Ah, there’s a number standing, the number goes down, it’s terrible. Yes?
But what’s going on here, intellectually there’s no difference, it’s intellectual. My account also went down the same amount, the same thing, right? But my nefesh, that’s what I need to give the middos. The middos come in the chelek hamisorer and the chelek hata’avos shebanefesh. Each one looks different. Green dollars look one way, and credit cards in general where you borrow money now from the bank and pay it next month look a second way, and cash in the bank looks a third way, and stocks look a fourth way, and investments look a fourth way. Each of these have their own middos.
Before this, there are people, says the Kli Yakar, that people aren’t consistent. People are very consistent, you just have to know what they’re built of, right? There’s a person who gives away cash very easily, but very hard to give away credit cards, I don’t know, and so on.
He loves very much to do hachnasas orchim. Do you know what it costs to do hachnasas orchim? There are people who love very much to have guests. Every week they have twenty guests. To have twenty guests for a Shabbos meal costs about a thousand dollars a week. At least. Depends what you give them, meat and good wine, it’s very expensive. I made the calculation, I called guests for Shabbos before Pesach, I think I paid only five hundred dollars. I’m not a better person, I gave normal wine, because I said that it’s Shabbos before the seder, I need the four cups, and so on.
That same person calls me erev Pesach, maybe you’ll pay 500 dollars for my campaign. 500 dollars – it’s not money. I don’t have 500 dollars that I give for your campaign. That’s one difference.
There’s another difference in reality. Some difference exists – that it goes through the credit card, I don’t know what difference it is. A real difference is, that this is a middah – I have a middah – how my parents showed me or…, we call guests on yom tov? Okay, we call guests. Guests cost money? Okay, we pay money?
The middah of giving money, is also a big problem today that people give all tzedakah on the phone and the children don’t see it, and it’s very hard to be mechanech, is a big problem. Why is it a problem? A real problem… You don’t see any action, you don’t see how it takes out money from the pocket, you give it to a poor person. It’s a real problem. People do it who have children. Look, I press a button, and the money goes. I don’t know.
It’s a serious problem. Why is it a serious problem? I think that it’s a real problem. Why is it a real problem? Because middos of a person work with the way that the reality, the chitzoniyus looks divided, not how the pnimiyus is divided. What in the nefesh there’s one middah of giving? No difference, let’s say. But the hergashim that you have, they have to do with the objects, they have to do with the things that you deal with. I have a middah of inviting guests, and the middah of giving money is a different middah and needs to work on that separately.
Okay, I’ve now gone to a very big resolution. According to this there are tens of thousands of middos. But even in a macroscopic way, it could be, the Rambam derech agav when you look at his list, is two or three middos, the Aristotle three the Rambam has two middos about money. The Aristotle says that there’s one middah that’s called giving large donations, and another middah that’s called giving small donations.
It’s the cultural context of the difference that can go into another time, but what I want to bring out is, it doesn’t make a drop of sense. Everything is the same money. But it’s different, the truth is that it’s different. The one who is a big wealthy person and he gives a hundred thousand dollars at once, he doesn’t do the same thing as you do when you give 10 dollars. Not that it’s relative to his, it’s simply a different action. It comes to the same koach banefesh perhaps, but it’s a different action. It has different ways how it’s good. Different ways how it’s bad. Practically, you need to know how to conduct yourself with this. A person who becomes a wealthy person, he doesn’t know how to give big things, he actually doesn’t know how to give small things. Big things is a different place, it’s a different middah tovah.
Or the same thing, the Rambam says that the middah of stinginess is two middos of stinginess. There’s the midas hakamtzanus for himself, and there’s for others. For himself he’s stingy with himself, and for others he gives generously. There’s the opposite. Both are the same thing, both are the thing of stinginess with money, the thing of holding your money for yourself, or for a second person not for yourself, or for a poor person, what for a poor person? A poor person is praise.
But you see that the thing that divides the middos is the practical differences in the world. There’s a middah of chairs and a middah of tables. Both are wood and both are furniture? A different middah. This is a very different way of defining the middos, and it has a disadvantage that it doesn’t have a very nice structure, so you can always add another one, you can always divide a bit more and differently. Is this thinking for something that hasn’t been laid out and hasn’t been seen? It’s true, in some sense there’s less.
On the other hand, the advantage of it is that it’s much closer to what middos are really made to teach you. Middos are made to teach you such a specific thing, and since middos are a davar ma’aseh, as we always say, it’s a thing that the closer to ma’aseh it is, the more useful it is.
If I speak a whole shiur… the ba’alei mussar do these sorts of things, they figure out a whole shiur about the middah of giving for the… like in yeshiva, I don’t know, about the middah of being happy for your friend who is your roommate, a whole shiur halachos about this. The one who went to that shiur was practically much better to his roommate, if he did it, than the one who said such an abstract shiur, a Chassidic sefer says that a person is everything for the Almighty, and in general, who… Yes, it’s very nice, it doesn’t come down practically. It doesn’t come down practically because you’re dealing with a very abstract, much more abstract level. It’s more true in a certain way, but it’s less useful in another way. Maybe there are people who react differently? It could be.
Maybe there are people who react differently? It could be. I only know that there are many who need… This is a particular shiur. It’s particular. Given particular examples, but it brought out a point, it brought out a true point in the thing. You need to grasp the point.
I’m not saying that you need to give every… look, there are levels in everything. I’m not saying I’m going to make a billion middos, it won’t be useful. You can’t speak without generalizations. Every time it can be different. Every day, maybe the halachah was only for yesterday, not for today. Without rules you can’t give yourself any advice.
But the rules that you said are strong rules. Yes, but it’s still very particular. It’s still not that he said a shiur that two middos of chesed and one middah of gevurah will help you nothing. I’m not saying that was the level, but this was a shiur that was entirely in the process of saying that you need to notice the practical things.
In practical life, how much such a structure… That’s what I’m saying. It’s not like… You don’t go to my mechanic, for example. I love to talk about cars for some reason, I don’t know why. Such a strange thing. I love cars, I’ll tell you.
Anyways, you don’t go to the mechanic, right? The practical mechanic, certainly every time that a person comes to his store, almost every time it’s a bit different, right? There aren’t two problems in cars that are exactly the same. Right? You ask the mechanic, he tells you “generally speaking, this model car has such a thing.” Not every time, every time is a bit different. Today it was… If you live in a wet place it’s like this, and when they put salt on the road it damages certain hazards to the car like this, and in places where it’s warm it damages other hazards to the car, and if you drive fast, if you drive fast, if you drive wild, each person has his way how his car breaks. And each car exactly is made that the car has such a problem.
So you can’t learn anything, you need to sit and ask the rav again every time? No. The model car, the type of car, minivan, usually all minivans, even the three types of minivans, all of them have roughly the same structure. I’m saying a way, you can’t make a minivan in a million ways, you can make it ten ways. All have these sorts of issues, these sorts of problems. You learn something. Something it taught you. I didn’t say that each one is exactly.
If I would say that a minivan is such a type of car that’s roughly as high as it is wide, that’s not information. You know what else is as high as it is wide? A tanker. That’s also not… You don’t know what is a minivan. What’s the function? It could even be that the physics when you make it you need to calculate something similarly, yes? I don’t know, because both are such a square, not like a low car that’s more like a rectangle, but this is such a square. Okay, the air resistance is similar, when you do the air dynamics you need to do similarly. Also the airplane. But practically, the mechanic won’t be able to help himself with this.
But the rules that the mechanic will hopefully learn, yes, he will give certain rules. All minivans should have such issues, and all motorcycles should have such issues. Do you understand what I’m saying? So I don’t think it’s a contradiction. It must be that you need to speak with rules.
But speaking in an abstract way doesn’t look like it helps. Maybe there are people who like that, I don’t know.
I’m really here still, I wonder how these books are written for, the teachings, that the seven sefiros times seven… I have no idea what this helped. I am missing something, because certainly there are many sefarim that say these sorts of teachings, and they help. They wanted something. I mean, it spoke to flesh and blood, people did it. Can you explain to me? Yes, seven sefiros every week, yes? What? Can you do this? What is this thing?
Understand what it is? Yes, I understand, because I have no way to speak with these people, because they don’t live anymore. Still, it’s too much to say that the whole thing is ignorance. But, what’s underneath this? Even if it doesn’t help to become a better person, to know what he is. You know, things that I learn, I understand that I’m not connected. Knowing is also something.
It’s like the people who should bring with the enneagram like the colors. Yes, it’s the same thing. By the way, it’s true, I don’t understand those things either. There are four types of people, there are five thousand types of people. They found two ways how you can divide people. Okay, and what shall I do with it? It doesn’t help me at all. You’re an introvert or an extrovert? I don’t know, it depends in the morning or afternoon. I don’t have such a thing in my life. Maybe I am a weirdo who’s not like that.
Maybe sometimes what the Baal HaTanya says, the Baal HaTanya says that the Baal Shem Tov said about his rebbe, the Baal HaTanya, that it says in sefarim that sometimes each person has his shoresh neshamah, and according to that should be his avodah, one needs to learn Kabbalah, because from that world one needs to learn Mishnayos, because from that world one needs to learn this, and so on. He says, as if they take like we’re already normal people. But today, he says, is the Mashiach in the world, he’s not here anymore, you need to do everything. So said the Baal HaTanya. Maybe that’s the problem, that we’re too not, I don’t have the structure, I don’t have all the things. I only told him.
It’s fair, I think that people who like to put this, I don’t know what it helps them. It makes you think you understand things. I don’t think it actually makes you understand anything.
Instructor: One needs to learn Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism] because he’s from that world, one needs to learn Mishnayos [the Oral Law] because he’s from that world, and so on. Says the Yalkut Reuveni [a kabbalistic anthology], “in those times when people were normal”. But today, he says, is in the ikvesa d’meshicha [the era immediately preceding the Messiah], you don’t need to be selective, you need to do everything. So says the Baal HaTanya [Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, founder of Chabad]. Maybe that’s the reason, I’ll say first, I don’t agree with all these things. I don’t agree.
Student: Fair, I mean, how much does this put? I don’t know what it helps them. It makes you think you understand things, I don’t think it actually makes you understand anything.
Instructor: Why not? It’s a chiddush [novel insight].
Student: It’s like knowing another derech yashar [straight path].
Instructor: It’s like speaking lashon hara [evil speech/gossip].
It’s like saying that a chayah ra’ah [wild beast] is type 6. What does it mean a chayah ra’ah has no connection whatsoever to type 6. I don’t know, something is missing for me here.
Student: Okay, but it’s not exactly the same criticism. I’m talking here about middos tovos [good character traits].
Instructor: We said two things. Again, I said two things. One is the numbering, the explanation what the hundred number means, or to say that this comes from that.
Student: No, no, that’s not what I’m talking about. That’s what I’m saying now, that’s not important. The important thing is that there’s two ways.
Instructor: The sum total of the second half of the shiur (lesson), the first half we spoke about a different way. The second half, the sum total is, that there are two ways how to divide middos (character traits).
There’s one way which ends up with something exhaustive, there’s no addition, no addition or remainder, because this is the entire division in the soul, and that’s how it divides itself. You can add more details, but you can’t change it, you can’t make an eighth middah (trait). You can make chesed within gevurah (kindness within strength), but you can’t make an eighth middah. You can make chesed within chesed within gevurah (kindness within kindness within strength), but it still fits. And that’s the advantage of being organized, and being exhaustive, and being correctly divided.
However, but it has the disadvantage that it’s not so helpful, like my parable of the motorcycle.
There’s another way that has a disadvantage that there will always be “and more” at the end of the list, and it could be that every era one will need to change it because people think a bit differently and categorize things differently and so forth. But it has an advantage that this is how one actually lives in practice with the good middos. In practice, you need to speak, and one even needs to speak about another middah, each one unlimited. As soon as one speaks, but no more shiur, another time it was an advantage.
All of the things that we learn are really things like this. A rebbe also has the topic of midas hakaaas (the trait of anger), it’s not exactly the same thing, how a father has midas hakaaas and how a young boy and how a bachur (young man). It’s the same middah, but it’s a middah how one conducts oneself with the students, it’s a middah how one conducts oneself with the middah.
The distinction is, the analytical distinction is, that this type of middos, their definition is not in the soul. The love of middos is not in the soul. Their definition is in the subject, the object, the thing that they are about, the type of action that they are about.
The midas hataavah (trait of desire/lust) is the type of middah that has to do with all physical pleasures, not the middah of wanting things. It has nothing to do with the middah of wanting things. Nothing to do. From wanting I love money, and that is a different middah. The whole distinction is, you want regarding money and the other one wants regarding food.
Do you understand the distinction of my analysis? This is the analytical distinction. And I have satisfaction that you’re asking, because I think it’s usually more helpful this way, at least so, the Rambam (Maimonides) always goes with this way, also the Torah always goes with this way.
When one looks in Chumash (the Five Books of Moses), it’s all about actual things, it never gives you these nice structures, almost never.
And courage is still Chumash vayachkimu chachamim (they became wise). But I can’t those languages not want they are friend. Because one can always this way, that one can also say that it’s more practical.
Okay, you want to…
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[Side Digression] A professor (a Williamsburger) who gives tests to students claims that modern philosophers (Derrida, Kant, etc.) have good tests/critiques against the simple, rational classical philosophies (Socrates, Plato), and that those “fail.” The professor is a “chaver l’de’ah” – he agrees with the maggid shiur.
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– Chapters 1-3 (previous zman): The main topic was derech ha’emtza’i – this is the good.
– Two main areas where derech ha’emtza’i is relevant: (1) in the pe’ulot (actions) of a person, (2) in the middot that lead to the actions.
– Now (Chapter 4): The Rambam gives dugma’ot – a list of nine middot, and for each one he shows what is the middle path and what are the two bad extremes.
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The Rambam’s list of nine middot is not a “Shulchan Aruch” of middot. He doesn’t write “elu hen ha’middot, lo pachot v’lo yoter.” It is only illustration of the principle of derech ha’emtza’i – he shows that for each middah the middle path makes sense.
– If one of the nine is missing – it does not mean that one is a bad person.
– It is not the case that whoever has all nine is a good person, and whoever is missing one is proportionally worse.
Because the general principle – derech ha’emtza’i – includes much more than nine middot. One can make thousands of middot. No place – not by the Rambam and not by Aristotle – gives a clear, complete list.
One takes middot that people are already familiar with (from Chazal, mussar sefarim, culture, from father) – and one shows that for each one the correct definition = derech ha’emtza’i.
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The Rambam himself has at least four such lists, and none matches the other:
– Context: Which chelek ha’nefesh do middot belong to (chelek ha’mit’orer).
– He writes explicitly: “ma’alot zeh ha’chelek rabot me’od” – very many!
– List of nine: zehirut, edinut, tzedek, savlanut, anavah, histapkut, gevurah, emunah – “v’zulatam” (= and others).
– More official treatment of good middot.
– Also nine parts, but not the same nine as in Chapter 2.
– “De’ot ha’rabeh yesh l’chol echad” – very many.
– He goes through four at length (ba’al cheimah, ba’al ta’avah, ba’al nefesh rechavah, nasog).
– Afterward a few more with just a name, and ends with “v’chol kayotza bahen” – there are more.
– Afterward further: “v’chen she’ar ha’de’ot” (halachah 4) – again open.
– Refuat ha’middot.
– He brings new middot that don’t appear in Chapter 1, for example: shetikah (“seyag l’chochmah shetikah”).
– More middot that aren’t in the previous lists.
No list matches the other. This proves that the lists are not meant to be definitive – they are only examples.
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Perhaps the list of taryag mitzvot is also not authentic?
No – by mitzvot the list is authentic, by middot not. Why?
– By mitzvot: It makes a nafka minah whether something is on the list – one can have a doubt whether something is a mitzvah or not, and this has halachic consequences.
– By middot: It makes no nafka minah whether one divides a middah into two or makes two into one. The real definition of good middot is: in everything go b’derech ha’emtza’i. That is the klal, not any list.
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[Side Digression]
– Orchot Tzaddikim – has 28 she’arim (some are opposites: sha’ar ha’ga’avah / sha’ar ha’anavah). No one knows who wrote it (perhaps a woman?).
– Chovot Ha’levavot – also has a list of middot.
– Yud Gimmel Middot Ha’rachamim – another well-known list.
– Other mussar sefarim – also with their own lists.
None of these lists is definitive – this strengthens the main claim.
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By the Greeks there was a very accepted list of four main good middot (from Plato’s “Republic”):
1. Temperance / Sophrosyne (σωφροσύνη) – perishut (moderation)
2. Courage – ometz / gevurah
3. Wisdom – chochmah
4. Justice – tzedek (righteousness)
[Side Digression about chochmah:] A talmid asks whether chochmah is a kisharon (talent) that one receives or not. Chochmah is not kisharon – kisharon is “capacity”, but chochmah is something that one learns and does. The Rambam says explicitly in Hilchot Teshuvah: “kol echad yachol lihiyot chacham o sachal” – it is a choice. Chazal and pesukim also say so.
The early Christians adopted Plato’s four middot as “b’derech ha’teva”, and added three “theological virtues”: Faith (emunah), Hope (bitachon/tikvah), Charity (chesed/ahavah – lifnim mishurat ha’din, not just tzedek/righteousness).
Mishnayot have various lists (“az panim l’gehinnom”, “kinat sofrim tarbeh chochmah”, “yehi beitcha patuach l’revachah” etc.), but by Jews there is not accepted one fixed list like by the Greeks.
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Aristotle taught that a good list must have two conditions:
– Exhaustive – it must include everything that exists, not “tana v’shiyar”.
– Properly divided – one shouldn’t be able to say “why didn’t you divide it differently?”
None of the known lists of middot fulfills the two criteria. One must understand: what connects and what divides one middah from another?
A strong claim (connected with the Chazon Ish and tzaddikim):
> Perhaps there is no such thing as “many middot” – all good middot come down to one thing: conducting oneself correctly / according to the measure of wisdom / according to what it should be. And all bad middot come down to one thing: conducting oneself according to the yetzer hara / according to what is convenient.
Rabbeinu Yonah: “kol ha’mitzvot hen torat chacham, v’chol ha’aveirot hen torat tipesh” – chacham/tipesh, tzaddik/rasha, frum/nar. Everything is one division.
If I am a good person, I already know that one must honor father, not eat too much, be a good friend, etc. I already know a thousand details. What do I do with making rules like “middat ha’ka’as”, “middat ha’ga’avah”, “middat ha’anavah”? What does it help me? One cannot teach people to be good by only saying “this is called such and such.” Better to say simply: “You should conduct yourself correctly, and that’s it.”
This remains as an open question – the shiur will continue to discuss why the Rambam (and others) hold that lists of middot are nevertheless useful/important.
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Middot is a practical thing, not a theoretical one. One doesn’t learn middot from “Torahs” (shiurim/sefarim) alone – one must see it b’fo’el mamash.
– Rules about middot (like “don’t be a ba’al ka’as”) are too abstract – it is a “higher level of hafsha’ah” that doesn’t help enough.
– What does help: seeing how a person doesn’t get angry at the right time, in the right way – then one can learn that this leads to a better life.
– The “derech ha’emtza’i” is only a theory – “halachah l’ma’aseh one must see it.”
What does one accomplish by calling it “ka’as”, “ta’avah”, “ga’avah”? It is not the exact thing one sees in life – it is “something in between” between the abstract theory and the concrete action.
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This is the answer to the previous question – therefore one needs categories of middot:
– Without a word for a middah, one doesn’t notice it. One cannot identify it, not in oneself and not in others.
– A person can have many good middot, but in one area (for example ka’as) be very bad – and as long as he doesn’t have a name for the thing, he doesn’t catch himself.
– A thief who doesn’t know he is a thief – he and his environment don’t catch on, because they don’t have the concept clear.
– Entire cultures can be missing a word for a certain good middah – and therefore they cannot feel it, and it is “very hard to be b’kevi’ut by that person.”
In every Jewish list of middot many good middot are missing. And because we don’t speak about a thing “as a middah,” we completely lack catching that this is something one can do.
When one has the word, one can also understand that there is a “too much” and a “too little”: one is a “lecker” / shakran (false courtesy = too much), one is just grob (too little courtesy). Without the word it is very hard to speak about it, hard to be masig, hard to be mechanech.
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The Rambam does speak about courage, Rav Aharon Kotler also – but the ba’alei mussar don’t like to speak about courage. It is a legitimate middah – not “just being a wild animal,” but knowing how to take risks in the right way.
[Note]: This is not the best example, because most people know what courage is – they just say “it’s not a Jewish thing.”
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Courtesy = proper conduct how one behaves with a stranger (not a friend, not an enemy, not someone one is mekarev). Examples: not pushing in line, holding the door for the person behind you, giving a wave when someone backs out of parking.
[Side Note]: Compare with “farginnen” – a Yiddish word that other cultures don’t have (a “reverse example” – we have a word they lack).
[Lively Discussion] The talmidim react:
– Claim from talmidim: Courtesy is false – a goy smiles, says “I will call you,” and has you in the ground. It’s “means nothing.”
– Answer: That is not courtesy – that is chanufah/flattery.
– In English there exist two separate words: “courtesy” and “flattery” – which means that the culture distinguishes between them.
– Chanufah/flattery = the lecker who says “yes, I’ll call you” and doesn’t call. That is false.
– Courtesy = one can say courteously no: “Thank you so much for your interest, it’s not a right time for us now.” – this is clear no, not any lie, not any chanufah.
– The one who doesn’t understand the distinction calls everything “chanufah” – and that is precisely the problem of missing words.
Jews have a tendency to see courtesy as falsehood – “this is the approach of the true Jews, they hold that this is false.” The word “nimus” exists in sefarim, but “when we say nimus, it looks to us like a false thing.” Jews are not so nimusig (half-humorously).
[Side Digression]: “It’s called chillul Hashem” – but when one speaks about nimus only in the context of chillul Hashem, the independent value of courtesy is missing.
[Side Digression]: Examples of false courtesy:
– “Hippies who make a hug for every stranger” – that is not courtesy, that is “something an aveirah lishmah.”
– “Please, come into our kehillah” – false courtesy that is “completely the opposite.”
– American culture is perhaps “a bit too much” courtesy – but that is the extreme, not the essence.
Courtesy is a ma’aseh derech eretz – a practical conduct, not a great virtue, but a proper thing.
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The Mishnah “hevei mekabel et kol ha’adam b’sever panim yafot” has two approaches: one that puts the accent on “mekabel et kol ha’adam” (openness to every person), and one that puts the accent on “b’sever panim yafot” (the manner how one encounters – a kind of courtesy). A second tanna says “b’simchah” (= genuine inner joy). The Rambam speaks about this in Chapter 7.
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[An Interesting Sociological Digression] Many middot in the modern world have to do with how one treats strangers – and Jews haven’t developed this:
– By Jews: If he is a Jew – he is a “brother”; if he is from another Chassidut – he is almost an “enemy”. There is no category of a neutral stranger.
– The liberal world has developed middot for how one treats a “citizen” – someone with whom one has no personal connection, but one shares with him the public space.
– Avraham Avinu’s hachnasat orchim (which the Arabs in the Middle East still hold strongly) is a middah toward strangers, but it makes the stranger “tachat chasuti” – he already belongs to you, you are his guardian/protector.
– The liberal middah is different: the other is a citizen with equal rights – not “yours”, but one who deserves respect simply because he exists in the same space.
– Practical consequence: “Therefore Jews cannot go on the subway” – no courtesy, no respect for the stranger.
The law says: at yellow lights one may drive. The good middah says: at yellow lights one stops – not because one must, but because humanity demands it. “What do I have with the other person?” – that is the point: one needs certain humanity even to people with whom one has no connection.
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[Interactive Discussion] A talmid asks: what is the middah that says one doesn’t hit the other person?
– One doesn’t know what to call it. A talmid says: “I teach it to my small children – don’t hit!” – but what is the name of the middah? Not just “one may not”, but what kind of middah stands behind it?
– The distinction: “not hitting” is not the same middah as “giving a loan when a brother asks” – but both are middot. One can make a list of actions (mitzvot/aveirot), but the middah is the inner character trait that stands behind it.
When a brother calls and asks for a loan – one doesn’t say “let’s look in Mishnah Berurah”. One says: “I’ll help you what I can.” Where does this come from? – From a middah. Nedivut = how one conducts oneself with one’s money: “my money is not just to lie in pocket, but it’s for work – by me, by the other person, in investment.” The Rambam gives a name: “nedivut” – but we didn’t know about this until one learns it.
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Benefit #1: There is a benefit from learning – middot is not only theoretical, one must be margilized. And one can better be margilized when one knows the word – this is how people who take results work.
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An important dispute between the Rambam’s approach and other approaches (mekubalim, Tanya/Admor HaZaken):
– The Rambam doesn’t go in the approach that comes now.
– The Tanya (Admor HaZaken) and other sefarim go another way.
Foundation: There are three chalakim of the nefesh (as the Rambam learned in Chapters 1-2):
1. Ta’avah (desire/appetite)
2. Ka’as / chelek ha’mit’orer (anger/spiritedness)
3. Seichel (intellect)
Each chelek ha’nefesh has its own middah:
1. Against ta’avah → perishut (restraining oneself, control over ta’avah)
2. Against ka’as/hit’orerut → courage/mut (conducting oneself with courage in the right way)
3. Against seichel → (not elaborated here)
The fourth middah = kelalut (a general middah that contains everything) = tzedek.
[An Interesting Chassidic Digression]
Rav Saadiah Gaon says: three chalakim of the nefesh = ta’avah, ka’as, seichel. But “ka’as” is a translation problem – it actually means hit’orerut (arousal/spiritedness).
The main chiddush: “all Jews who serve Hashem with hit’orerut are ba’alei ka’as” – because it is the same power! The same inner energy that makes ka’as also makes hitlahavut in avodat Hashem.
[Chassidic Distinction] (from “Ish Botzei’a” and others):
Hitlahavut contains two completely opposite things: “eish u’mayim”
– Ahavah k’rishpei eish – serving Hashem with passion/cheshek (fire) – this comes from ka’as/hit’orerut, the koach ha’mit’orer
– Ahavah k’mayim – serving Hashem with a calm, flowing love (water) – this comes from cheshek/ta’avah, an attraction, an attraction
Cheshek ≠ hitlahavut – these are not the same thing, though both are forms of serving Hashem with intensity. Many Chassidim think that ahavah with fire is the same thing – but it’s exactly the opposite. It’s a different feeling, comes from a different place.
Kina’ut comes from yirah/ka’as, not from ahavah. “Kinah” literally means ka’as (Rashi says so). This is an important distinction – hit’orerut in avodat Hashem that looks like passion is actually a form of ka’as/kina’ut.
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Tzedek means honesty in business – not stealing, paying what one owes, tzedek b’mishpat.
Tzedek means “litein l’chol echad mah she’ra’ui lo” – giving each thing what is fitting for it. This applies also to oneself: each power in the nefesh should receive its proper place – ka’as when one needs ka’as, simchah when one needs simchah, ta’avah when one needs ta’avah.
Tzidkut = the coordination of all middot – that each thing receives its proper place. Therefore “tzaddik” is the main name for a good person – a “just” person.
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Plato, Rav Tzadok, mekubalim, Sha’arei Kedushah, Tanya – all go with the same foundation: one first divides the chalakim of the nefesh (4 yesodot: eish, mayim, ruach, afar), and then shows which middot belong to which part:
– Eish → ka’as
– Mayim → ta’avah
– Ruach → ga’avah
– Afar → atzlut
Sefirot-model (Kabbalah/Chassidut): seven sefirot, or three kavim (yamin/smol/emtza = ahavah/yirah/tiferet). The Ba’al Shem Tov always goes with the point: everything a person does – either you’re attracted, or aversion, or in between.
The advantage of this way: one gets an exhaustive list – a complete list with a proper division, because it comes from the structure of the nefesh itself.
The Rambam doesn’t work this way!
– The Rambam does begin with chalakim of the nefesh (in Shemonah Perakim), but he says that all middot belong in one part (the koach ha’mit’orer/appetitive part).
– He gives a long list of middot with “k’hai gavna” / “kayotza bo” – without dividing them according to different chalakim of the nefesh.
– By the Rambam, the division of middot doesn’t work through chalakim of the nefesh – he doesn’t have a systematic division where each chelek ha’nefesh has its specific middot.
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Does the knowledge of the structure (4 yesodot, 7 sefirot) actually help a person improve his middot?
– Middot is an “inyan sheb’ma’aseh” – one doesn’t fulfill with knowledge, but with doing.
– “Has it ever helped anyone in avodat Hashem the teachings that ga’avah is from yeshut ha’atzmi and ta’avah from yeshut ha’guf?”
– “When I tell you that ka’as is a koach ha’eish – what do you understand from it? It’s just a word, a list.”
Sefirat Ha’omer as a concrete example:
– There are many sefarim that make a “journey” of Sefirat Ha’omer – each day a sefirah/middah to work on.
– “Do you know anyone who did this and became a better person from it? I don’t.”
– Practical problems: The first week is Chol HaMoed Pesach (one is busy with other things).
– Another problem: Most people don’t know the difference between netzach and hod – “it could certainly be the same both.”
– Talmid: “It doesn’t have to help practically – it’s good to know” (knowledge has intrinsic value).
– Answer: “You remember though – middot is not a learning that one learns. It must help something.”
– Talmid: “It can’t hurt to know.”
– Answer: “It can’t hurt, but we work so hard to figure out what is the structure – what is the difference?”
– Talmid: A structure helps many people.
– Answer: Admits that “to have a structure helps very much for many people” – but skeptical whether this specific structure (4 yesodot, 7 sefirot) does anything more than a general description.
– Ma’alot in inyan (intellectual virtues): There the point is to know – for example, learning a sugya in Gemara to know where a halachah comes from. There “knowing” has its own value.
– Ma’alot in middot (character virtues): There the point is to do – only knowing is not enough. The mashal of “4 yesodot” or “7 sefirot” is “just a description b’alma” – does a mashal help a person?
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The system of dividing middot according to the kochot ha’nefesh (seven sefirot against seven kochot) is a beautiful piece of Torah – it’s correct, it’s exhaustive, it’s clear and systematic. But l’ma’aseh – it helps very little. When I have ka’as, what helps me to know that this is “the second middah”? When I have ta’avah, l’mai nafka minah that this is “the first middah”? It makes no practical difference.
The custom “today is the week of gevurah, one must work on ka’as” – how does that work? Ka’as comes when an opportunity comes – one cannot “practice” ka’as-control on a schedule.
The Ba’al Shem Tov explained the kavanot “al pi pnimiyut” – “chesed” = ahavat Hashem, “gevurah” = yirat Hashem. For a remez it’s good, but practically? – unclear.
This is exactly Aristotle’s critique of Plato. Aristotle said that Plato said two pieces of Torah, but he doesn’t see what it helps a person to become better. Maybe it’s true – but he doesn’t see what it helps.
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Someone wants to become a mechanic. He goes to a course: motorcycles, cars, SUVs, vans, trucks – each one with its advantages and disadvantages, practically how it works, how to fix. This helps – it is very useful.
Now a philosopher comes and says: let’s make a klal. A car is a “mechanized box on wheels.” Now he divides: two wheels (motorcycle, bike) vs. more than two wheels. Then another division: with motor vs. without motor. Everything fits in, it’s conclusive, exhaustive, clear.
The mechanic needs to know: which screw fits for which car. He needs the sixteen main types of screws that are used in most cars and trucks. He needs a practical list, not a theoretical taxonomy.
When one goes into a hardware store or a website – people have worked years to make the sections fit practically, not according to abstract categories. “All screws that are…” – that is waste of time, because the world doesn’t work that way.
[Side Digression] A personal example: every person spends hours organizing wires (cables) at home – everything in boxes, orderly. And it doesn’t help – l’ma’aseh one only needs two-three wires for smartphones. The time one spends on organizing is more expensive than just searching around each time.
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Aristotle divided practically: the ten most common middot that people struggle with – ka’as, ga’avah, courage, ta’avah, etc. Not according to theoretical structure of the nefesh, but according to what one encounters in the world. Each one – practically how it works, not in which box it belongs.
– Way A: Divide according to sevara – how it fits theoretically (Plato/Kabbalah)
– Way B: Divide according to the subject – what belongs together in practice (Aristotle/Rambam)
The second way mekarev rechokim u’merachek krovim – things that are theoretically far can be practically close, and vice versa.
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An approach (connected with the Ba’al HaSulam): Everything a person has is either attraction or aversion. Good children, beautiful wife, good food, respect – everything is “chesed”, everything is “taking.” The advice: You take so much? Give a little – give tzedakah, get up early, give away from your sleep.
“Rebbe Leben, this is all very abstract, it’s not helping me.” It’s true that there exists a “middat ha’ratzon/cheshek” – a person who is missing the koach of wanting (physically/chemically) cannot want anything. But this doesn’t help practically.
Let’s describe things as one sees them in olam hazeh. There is a subject called money. Money and furniture – both cost money, both are things people want. Theoretically they are the same thing. Practically – money is one thing and furniture is a second thing.
Key point: Middot work with hergalim. Hergalim don’t work with seichel (seichel understands everything at once). Hergalim work with practicing. I cannot practice “wanting money” and “wanting furniture” at the same time – they are two separate middot, two separate relationships.
[Side Digression] A personal example: My relationship with cash in pocket is different than with money in credit card, which is different than with money in bank account. For many people it’s harder to give cash. He himself is the opposite – in the digital age, when he sees money in bank account he sends it to anyone, but cash in pocket – “take it, it’s a piece of paper.”
The point: Even within “money” itself there are different middot/relationships – which proves that one must speak about middot practically-specifically, not abstractly-theoretically.
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> “People are not inconsistent – you just have to know what they’re built of”
A person who gives away cash easily but credit card with difficulty – this is not a contradiction. These are two separate middot that work according to different practical objects.
A person who invites 20 guests every week (costs ~$1,000 a week) – the same person you call him erev Pesach and ask $500 for a campaign, and he says “I don’t have.” This is not hypocrisy – hachnasat orchim and money-giving are two separate middot. One is a middah he has developed (that’s how his parents showed him), the other – not.
[Side Digression] Today when one gives tzedakah through the phone, children don’t see it – one doesn’t see how one takes out money from pocket, gives it to a poor person. This is a real chinuch problem, because middot work with how the chitzoniyut looks, not with abstract pnimiyut.
> “The thing that divides the middot is the practical differences in the world”
In the nefesh there is perhaps one koach of giving – but the hergashim have to do with the objects that you deal with. Therefore:
– Hachnasat orchim = one middah
– Money giving = a different middah
– Each needs separate work
– Aristotle says: giving large nedavot is a different middah than giving small nedavot (magnificence vs. liberality)
– Rambam says: kamtzanut has two middot – kamtzanut for oneself (saves from oneself) and kamtzanut for others (doesn’t give to others)
– This is all the same money – but practically they are different pe’ulot with different ways how it’s good/bad
> “The one who gives $100,000 at once doesn’t do the same thing as you when you give $10 – it’s simply a different pe’ulah”
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According to the practical approach there are tens of thousands of middot – because every new object/situation creates a new middah. This has no beautiful structure – one can always add another one, always divide a bit more.
It is much closer to what middot are truly made to teach you. Middot are a davar ma’aseh – the closer to ma’aseh, the more useful.
A ba’al mussar who gives a specific shiur – for example, halachot how to be good to your roommate in yeshivah – the one who goes to that shiur is l’ma’aseh much better than the one who hears an abstract Chassidic Torah that “a person is everything for Hashem.” The second is more true in a certain sense, but less useful.
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[Side Digression – “I like to talk about cars, a strange thing”]
A practical mechanic – almost every time a car comes in it’s a bit different. But he can still say: “al pi rov, this model car has such a problem.” He works with klalim on a middle level:
– Too abstract (a minivan is “as high as it is wide” – like a tanker) = no information, doesn’t help the mechanic at all
– Too specific (every car is different, one can learn nothing) = also not practical
– Middle level (all minivans have such issues, all motorcycles have such issues) = this is useful
> “Without any klalim one cannot give oneself advice – but speaking in an abstract manner doesn’t look like it helps”
One needs klalim – but practical klalim, not abstract ones. To say “two middot of chesed and one middah of gevurah” – this will help you nothing. To say specific halachot how to deal with a specific situation – this helps.
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> “I wonder for whom the books are written… I have no idea whom this has helped”
But certainly people wanted something with it – there are many sefarim that say such Torahs, “they wanted something.”
> “I have no way to speak with these people, because they don’t live anymore. Yet… it’s too much to say that the whole thing is ignorance”
A possible answer: Even if it doesn’t help to become a better person – to know what he is, is also something. Knowledge is its own value.
Comparison with modern personality systems:
> “There are four types of people, there are five thousand types of people… and what shall I do with it? It doesn’t help me at all”
“Are you an introvert or an extrovert?” – “I don’t know, it depends in the morning or afternoon.”
[Side Digression] A source that speaks to the point: Previously each person had his shoresh neshamah – one needs to learn Kabbalah, one Mishnayot, etc. But today, when Mashiach is in the world, you must do everything. Perhaps this is the problem – we no longer have the structure of clear types.
> “It makes you think you understand things. I don’t think it actually makes you understand anything.”
Abstract categorization of middot gives a feeling of understanding, but not a real understanding that helps practically.
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[Brief Digression] The Yalkut Reuveni says that previously each person had his specific part, but in ikveta d’Meshicha one must do everything – so also says the Ba’al HaTanya. “I don’t agree with all these things” – the approach is not accepted.
A talmid tries to defend the sefirot-system. Answer: “It’s like saying that a wild animal is Type 6” – the labeling doesn’t really help understand. The talmid makes a distinction – he’s talking about good middot, not enneagram-types. The distinction is accepted but the position remains.
Way A – According to Kochot Ha’nefesh (Sefirot/Nefesh-Structure):
– Advantage: It is exhaustive – there is no addition or omission, everything fits in. One cannot make an eighth middah – only chesed sheb’gevurah, chesed sheb’chesed sheb’gevurah, but it remains in the system.
– Disadvantage: It is not so helpful l’ma’aseh (the motorcycle mashal).
Way B – According to Practical Objects/Subjects:
– Disadvantage: There will always be “v’od” at the end of the list – it’s not closed; every period one may need to change because people categorize differently.
– Advantage: This is how one actually lives with good middot – it’s practical.
The fundamental distinction between both ways:
– Way A: The definition of middot is ba’nefesh – one defines a middah according to which koach ha’nefesh it comes from.
– Way B: The definition of middot is ba’noseih (in the object) – according to the thing they are about, the type of pe’ulah they concern.
Concrete mashal: Middat ha’ta’avah is not “the koach of wanting things” (that would be a nefesh-definition). Middat ha’ta’avah is the type of middah that has to do with ta’anugei ha’guf. The difference between one who wants money and one who wants food is not a difference in koach ha’nefesh (both “want”) – it is a difference in subject, and therefore they are two separate middot.
Ka’as is not one middah – it’s different how a father has ka’as, how a young boy, how a bachur, how a rebbe with talmidim. This is “the same middah” according to Way A, but l’ma’aseh they are different middot because the subject (the context, the pe’ulah, the relationship) is different.
The Rambam always goes with the second way – middot are defined according to practical subjects. Also the Torah itself – in Chumash it’s “it’s all about actual things, it never gives you these nice structures, almost never.” The Torah speaks of concrete actions and situations, not of abstract nefesh-structures.
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| Point | Content |
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| Klal | Derech ha’emtza’i is the principle – not any specific list |
| Lists | Are only examples/illustrations – Rambam himself has 4+ different lists that don’t match |
| Distinction from Mitzvot | By mitzvot the list is authentic (nafka minah); by middot not |
| Power of Words | Without a word for a middah, one doesn’t notice it – therefore one needs categories |
| Courtesy | A concrete example of a middah that lacks a name in Jewish culture |
| Two Ways to Divide Middot | (A) According to kochot ha’nefesh (exhaustive but not practical) vs. (B) According to practical subjects (not exhaustive but practical) |
| The Rambam’s Approach | Goes with Way B – middot are defined according to subject/pe’ulah, not according to nefesh-structure |
| The Torah | Also speaks of concrete actions, not of abstract structures |
| Practical Conclusion | Middot work with hergalim, hergalim work with practicing – therefore one needs practical klalim on a middle level, not too abstract and not too specific |
And we’re learning this way. I don’t know what we’re learning, I want to know. I’ll just say this, someone spoke lashon hara [lashon hara: forbidden negative speech about others], who should I start with? No, I heard lashon hara. Yesterday I heard a professor, I don’t know exactly what he is, he’s from Williamsburg, he’s deep into the students, he gives a test. He says like this, he says that the students basically, he says that modern philosophy, Derrida [Derrida: Jacques Derrida, French postmodern philosopher] with Kant [Kant: Immanuel Kant, German philosopher], all these folks, they have very good tests on the plain common sense philosophies, Socrates [Socrates: Greek philosopher] and Plato [Plato: Greek philosopher], they all fail. He says that one must learn such a twisted world, is he as old as me? I’m just saying that you know him, he’s truly a chaver l’deah [chaver l’deah: one who agrees with my opinion].
Okay, I want to say where we’re holding and where we need to go further. We’ve learned, we’re holding in Chapter 4, I just want to try. The first chapter for us was the topic of the derech ha’emtza’i [derech ha’emtza’i: the middle path], that’s the good thing. We spoke about how there are two main places where the derech ha’emtza’i is chal [chal: applicable], in the pe’ulos [pe’ulos: actions, deeds] of a person and in the midos [midos: character traits] of a person which bring about the pe’ulos. That was the subject of the previous time.
And now we’re learning, the Rambam [Rambam: Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, Maimonides], the way the Rambam presents it, he says, he gives dugmaos [dugmaos: examples]. He says for example [lemashel: for example], and he gives a whole list of nine dugmaos where he says for each good middah that can be, what is the middle and what are the two extremes that are not good, yes?
So we want to do this, I’m not sure if this is as if the true point of what he’s doing, but I want to do it anyway, and learn about each one of the nine things, what is the matter with them. That’s what I want to do. Agreed?
So the first thing on the Rambam’s list, we spoke about the topic of perishus [perishus: modesty, abstinence from desires], what is the meaning, and should there have been a shiur about this? A halachah [halachah: Jewish law]? Not that shiur further. Rather, the Shabbos I’ve already been a few times, but… Parshas Kedoshim [Parshas Kedoshim: the Torah portion that speaks about holiness]? Yes, Parshas Kedoshim.
Okay, here is what I’m going… No, what’s written in my comments here on the page, did I ever say it? I don’t think so. In any case, I have a deeper thing to speak about, or to leave that, or to be me’orer [me’orer: awaken] to speak about.
So, the Rambam has a list of nine things, but apparently [lechaorah: at first glance], I say that this is not the subject, and apparently, the reason why he brings this list is only in order [kedei: in order] to give him an example on the topic of derech ha’emtza’i. I want to show you that it makes sense by each one of these things to say that the middle, that’s correct, and the two sides are equally bad one as the other. That is apparently the structure of the chapter, that’s what he does, he doesn’t say here we will paint out what are the good character traits [mahem hamidos hatovos: what are the good character traits]. Understand?
What is the nafka minah [nafka minah: practical difference] of the chakirah [chakirah: investigation] that I’m saying? The nafka minah is, that if one is missing it doesn’t mean anything. Not that the Rambam wrote a Shulchan Aruch [Shulchan Aruch: code of Jewish law] here, and the truth is nowhere. What he says, these are the list of good midos, on this you must work, this is yotzei [yotzei: fulfills] all the list of nine midos, he’s a good person, and whoever not, whoever is missing one of them or two of them is such and such a bad person, this is not stated.
Why not? Because there is the davar klali [davar klali: general principle] which is called derech ha’emtza’i, which truly includes much more than these nine midos. One can make thousands of midos. I don’t know how many one can make. There is no place where the Rambam gives a clear list. Not only by the Rambam, I mean it’s also not by Aristotle [Aristotle: Greek philosopher]. One doesn’t give a clear list. This is the main character traits [ikar hamidos: the main character traits]? That you have here a list – the list goes exactly opposite.
In other words, here now someone is makir [makir: familiar with] certain good midos. This is a Jew who learned from his father. Chazal [Chazal: Chazkeinu zichronam livrachah, our Sages of blessed memory] heard about certain good midos. In mussar sefarim [mussar sefarim: ethical books], it’s not a chiddush [chiddush: novelty] that a person has ideas of good midos, every person every culture has ideas of their good midos. What one does with this list is one goes through a bunch of them, and one shows that each one of them the correct hagdarah [hagdarah: definition] of it is derech ha’emtza’i.
Right?
Student: Nevertheless [v’im kol zeh: nevertheless], there is still something of a chiddush from these lists. Do you want to say that we don’t need to do all of them definitively?
Maggid Shiur: One must perhaps yes, say only a list, not pshat [pshat: simple meaning] that there is a definitive list. Just as it is with taryag mitzvos [taryag mitzvos: the 613 commandments] and the Ten Commandments. Can there be another twenty? Can be another twenty. It can be that the list is not davka [davka: specifically] the most important, it’s the ones that come first to mind, that one remembers immediately, and he uses it almost as [kim’at b’soras: almost as] an example. Let this also be in Hilchos Deos [Hilchos Deos: Laws of Character Traits, a section in the Rambam’s Mishneh Torah].
The Rambam himself has these four such lists that I know of. Two in Shemonah Perakim [Shemonah Perakim: the Rambam’s Eight Chapters, an introduction to Pirkei Avos].
Student: Two? Which two? And how else?
Maggid Shiur: Chapter 2. And in Chapter 2 it says… I don’t think, what is the subject of Chapter 2?
Student: In which part of the nefesh [nefesh: soul] are the midos found.
Maggid Shiur: And there, when he comes to that part, he says… the virtuous character traits [hama’alos hamidos: the virtuous character traits], like… yes, Chapter 2 is in Chapter 1 and perhaps I’m making a mistake. Chapter 1. Yes, Chapter 1, sorry. In Chapter 1, no. Sorry, how is the list? Sorry, Chapter 2, Chapter 2, I didn’t make a mistake. Chapter 1 says something similar. A third list. Not this one.
The list of good midos is in Chapter 2, because there he speaks of each part of the soul how it has virtues and deficiencies [ma’alos v’chesronos: virtues and deficiencies]. And he says that the virtuous character traits they belong to the emotional part [chelek hamisorer: the part of the soul that is aroused by emotions]. And he gives a list, and he says this is the language, the virtues of this part are very many [ma’alos zeh hachelek rabos me’od: the virtues of this part are very many], here there are very many virtues.
Student: Virtuous character traits yes, there are intellectual virtues [ma’alos sichliyo: intellectual virtues] which is a separate thing.
Maggid Shiur: He speaks here of virtuous character traits, like carefulness, and refinement, and justice, and patience, and humility, and contentment, and courage, and faith, and others [k’zehirus, v’adinus, v’tzedek, v’savlanus, v’anavah, v’histapaikus, u’gevurah, ve’emunah, v’zulasam: like carefulness, and refinement, and justice, and patience, and humility, and contentment, and courage, and faith, and others]. This is a list of nine parts. And afterwards he says clearly and there are many, rabos me’od, not only these. This is only an example. And he also states clearly with “and others” [v’zulasam: and others], that there are more.
And the same thing is in Chapter 4, where he more officially speaks about how the good midos are. And here it’s a bit more a complicated list, because he also makes a list of nine derech eretz [derech eretz: proper conduct]. You can check in the end of the week it says which is in which. You can see, it doesn’t say here, no, it doesn’t say here what I would have needed. It does say. You can see, you have here also a list of nine parts, and you can check which he missed, which he took out one of them. Figure out, I don’t know, perhaps one can learn something from this, but I believe that the main point is certainly that it’s not a difference, because he doesn’t go through simply a list, everything is only the examples, and both of them are not a list, like “these are the character traits, no less and no more” [elu hen hamidos, lo pachot v’lo yoser: these are the character traits, no less and no more]. It’s only the examples, and the first chapter he puts many times an example so one should understand, and the second chapter, sorry, so one should understand that this is the sort of things that belong to the practical part [chelek hama’aseh: the practical part], and the fourth chapter is altogether [sach hakol: altogether] an example with more details [peratim: details] to show how each one of them can be explained [mesbir zein: explain] with a derech ha’emtza’i. Right?
So until this day [ad hayom hazeh: until this day] one doesn’t know what is the correct list of all character traits.
Another place, where are the two lists that are in Shemonah Perakim? Two more lists are in… Mishneh Torah [Mishneh Torah: the Rambam’s main law code], Hilchos Deos. Where is Mishneh Torah here? Hilchos Deos, it also says in Chapter 1. What does it say here in Chapter 1 of Hilchos Deos? It’s very special. It says, Hilchos Deos, yes, “there are many character traits for each and every person” [deos harbeh yesh l’chol echad v’echad mibnei adam: there are many opinions/character traits for each and every person], very many of them. “Deos” also means character traits, generally [biderech klal: generally] he goes through a list. Here is also a short list a bit, he goes through four of them he brings out at length [be’arichus: at length], and afterwards he says “and so in this way all the rest of the character traits” [v’chen al derech zo she’ar kol hadeos: and so in this way all the rest of the opinions]. He goes like this, he first explains at length a hot-tempered person [ba’al cheimah: one with anger] and a lustful person [ba’al ta’avah: one with desires] and an ambitious person [ba’al nefesh rechavah: one with a broad soul, ambitious] and withdrawn [nasog: withdrawn] at length what it means, afterwards he gives a few more only with a name, praised and wretched [mehulal v’anan: praised and wretched] etc. etc. etc., and all similar ones [v’chol kayotzei bahen: and all similar ones]. So he becomes shorter with his words for each one, and it’s still not exhaustive, he says “and more etc. etc.” [v’od etc. etc.: and more and so forth]. What is this etc. etc.? No one knows.
And the same thing as the fourth list that I said. Afterwards the Rambam says, the mitzvah is that he should go in the middle path [derech ha’emtza’i: the middle path] in every character trait, and he also gives the Gemara [Gemara: Talmud] how, how for example [keitzad lemashel: how for example], and afterwards it says further “and so the rest of the character traits” in law 4. The same thing, there are already as it were [kiv’yachol: as it were] two lists. Afterwards there is a third list, perhaps even, I’ll see how I’ll mark it [metzayen zein: mark], in Chapter 2 where he goes through the healing of character traits [refuas hamidos: healing of character traits], and he says that there are such character traits and there are such character traits, and he brings there a few more midos. He says that there is another middah that doesn’t appear in the previous midos, the middah of silence [shetikah: silence], “a fence for wisdom is silence” [seyag lechochmah shetikah: a fence for wisdom is silence]. And I don’t know if this is also a matter of commandment [davar hamitzvah: a matter of commandment] apparently also, and a few more midos that he goes through in Chapter 2 also, there is a bit of a list.
None of these lists are the same as any other ones. What do we learn from this? That the lists are not real.
Student: But the list of the taryag mitzvos is indeed real, he does say…
Maggid Shiur: No, but the mitzvos, the mitzvos…
Student: Perhaps the whole mitzvos list is not real?
Maggid Shiur: No, the mitzvos list is real, I’ll tell you why. Because what is the proof [re’ayah: proof]? What is there? Apparently I can have a whole doubt [safek: doubt] in a mitzvah, whether it’s indeed a mitzvah or it’s not a mitzvah, whether one must remove a mitzvah. It makes a difference if a mitzvah is on the list. Here it doesn’t make any difference, not any thing. The midos you can divide into two midos. What’s the practical difference [lemai nafka minah: what’s the practical difference]? Here there is no nafka minah. It’s a real nafka minah, I’ll tell you more what the nafka minah is, but there is a nafka minah, it’s a real thing. The lists are not real. Why aren’t they real? Because the true definition of midos is on every thing to go in the middle path [biderech ha’emtza’i]. And biderech ha’emtza’i means many all kinds of [kol minei: all kinds of] correct things in every topic. Right?
So the list of midos is not as real as it is today. This is not God forbid [chas v’shalom: God forbid], Orchos Tzaddikim [Orchos Tzaddikim: Paths of the Righteous, a classical mussar book] also has a list of midos, yes? Perhaps he has twenty-five, I don’t know what his number is. How many chapters are there in Orchos Tzaddikim? Who wrote it? No one knows who wrote it.
Student: A woman.
Student: I heard that a woman wrote it.
Maggid Shiur: Who? Who?
Student: I heard that a woman wrote it.
Maggid Shiur: A woman? But I don’t know, ah, it could be that a woman wrote it, but…
Student: Do you learn it?
Maggid Shiur: It’s a nice little book. Yes? Yes. There are twenty-eight gates [she’arim: chapters]. A part of them are one the opposite [hipuch: opposite] of the other, the gate of pride [sha’ar haga’avah: the gate of pride], the gate of humility [sha’ar ha’anavah: the gate of humility], etc. But a big list, a long list of midos. There are other such books. There are books of midos that were a…
Student: Orchos Tzaddikim is a certain way of midos?
Maggid Shiur: Yes, that’s already thirteen or more. Yes, there is the list of thirteen character traits [yud gimmel midos: thirteen character traits] of knowledge. They learned a shiur in the thirteen attributes of mercy [yud gimmel midos harachamim: the thirteen attributes of mercy], right? One must also think about this for a few shiurim. Because none of the lists were…
Maggid Shiur:
So the list of character traits is not as real as it sounds. Chovos HaLevavos [Chovos HaLevavos: Duties of the Heart, an 11th-century Jewish ethical work], Orchos Tzaddikim [Orchos Tzaddikim: Paths of the Righteous, a medieval Jewish ethical work] also has a list of midos, yes? Perhaps he has twenty-eight, something like that number. Certainly there is in Orchos Tzaddikim. Who wrote it? No one knows who wrote it.
Student:
Who? A woman?
Maggid Shiur:
A weak idea, it could already be a woman. Do you learn it? It’s nice books already. Yes? Yes.
There are twenty-eight gates. A part of them are one the opposite of the other, the gate of pride [sha’ar haga’avah], the gate of humility [sha’ar ha’anavah], and so on [v’chuli: and so on]. But a big one has a long list of midos. There are other such books, books of character traits [sifrei midos]. There was a… an older one, there’s another big way of midos. Yes, there are thirteen or more. Yes, there is the list of thirteen character traits of… of… of knowledge. I once learned a shiur about the thirteen attributes, right? One must also think about a simple one. But none of the lists is a real list. So, one must understand these things. Okay, that’s first of all [kodem kol]. Right?
This is my opinion about this, about the two extremes. Yes. So, why isn’t there a normal list? Like taryag mitzvos [613 commandments], twenty character traits. It would have been much more normal. Yes. So… the rabbis had lists, the philosophers had lists, the ma’aleh masu made lists, they made lists for the gentiles, all kinds of things. Yes.
So let’s understand, I want to tell you the question, I’m making here source references, I’m giving a structure, I want to make the question. What is the practical difference? The practical difference is like this, let’s understand an important thing.
Lecturer:
There is also an accepted list, among Jews it’s not so accepted, the Greeks had a very accepted list of four, four main good character traits which are called… this is classic, called “Four cardinal virtues,” which is Plato’s list. One always goes with this list, sometimes he also adds ten or so, but the main list that appears in the book “The Republic” [Plato’s Republic] is… four traits. Which four traits must a person have? Everyone must remember…
Student:
No, no, that’s something else.
Lecturer:
The ancient Greeks, it’s brought in many early rabbinic authorities, I don’t remember which ones, said that there are four main good character traits. Four main good ones, we’ll talk about this.
The first is, these are character traits, in English it goes “temperance,” okay? We’ll go talk about this, or “sophrosyne” in Greek, abstinence/moderation. We’ll talk about this. “Sophrosyne” is the language of abstinence, says the Rambam. And… what are you doing?
Student:
No, there are those who say there’s a difference.
Lecturer:
Now, fine.
“Courage,” bravery, strength/courage.
Lecturer:
“Wisdom.” Wisdom, wisdom. Certainly wisdom is a good trait, to conduct oneself with wisdom, and also to have wisdom, certainly. The Rambam, soon we’ll see.
And…
Student:
If you are a wise person, it says in the Book of Proverbs, it’s full of this.
Lecturer:
Either you get it or not.
Student:
No, no, wisdom is not talent/ability.
Lecturer:
One must conduct oneself with talent, certainly. One learns, one learns to be wise. It’s not that… either you’re smart or not. No, nonsense. Either you come with… or you have the talent. Talent and wisdom are not the same thing. Okay?
Student:
And don’t you need to have the talent?
Lecturer:
No. But you need to have talent for everything. Even to be an arrogant person one needs to have talent. For everything one needs to have talent. Talent means the “capacity.” Not everyone can… everyone gets… okay, I’m telling you a fact. The first thing that comes in, look in Chazal, it says thousands of times that it’s a virtue to be wise. It’s not… wisdom is a virtue. A virtue that you get.
Student:
No, a virtue that one does.
Lecturer:
You can get this. Chazal say this. Oy, oy, wise. Because the Rambam says explicitly in the laws, it says explicitly in the Laws of Repentance, remember? “Everyone can be wise or foolish.” Free choice. It says in the chapters on free choice. And it’s not a novelty in the Rambam, there are verses like this. A person must be wise. Okay, anyway, I said here a list.
Lecturer:
The fourth good trait is justice, righteousness/justice, to be a righteous person. Must be a righteous person, wise, strong, and wealthy. So said the ancient Greeks. There are other good traits that Plato talks about a lot, which is being a good friend, wise, strong, and wealthy.
Lecturer:
The other list, let your house be open wide. In the Mishnah there are various such lists. “The brazen-faced go to Gehinnom, the shame-faced to the Garden of Eden.” “Jealousy among scholars increases wisdom.” There are many different lists. Anyway, this is very accepted.
Lecturer:
As I said, the early Christians said that this is according to nature. But from the perspective of religion there are three more traits called Faith, Hope, and Charity. These are the “three theological virtues,” so it’s accepted among the Christians. Faith – faith, Hope – hope, I don’t know, trust, and Charity – love, giving, beyond the letter of the law essentially. Not justice, which means one gives what is right, but kindness. This is what they said, this will come out, I already know, hosting a kohen and the righteous.
And among the Jews such a thing is not accepted. Interesting, another important thing, soon we’ll talk about this, humility and honor.
Lecturer:
But what I want to say with all these things is, that there are different lists of good character traits, different accepted lists. I can perhaps take the list of Rabbi Pinchas ben Yair, think about this soon too. Different lists of good character traits. Everyone agrees that a person must have different good character traits.
What is the important thing when one makes such a list? The important thing is to understand on what the list is built. I now said an interesting novelty, an interesting observation, that with the Rambam’s list there is never a real list.
Lecturer:
In other words, 613 commandments, Aristotle taught that a good list must be “exhaustive,” it must include everything that exists, and what is the other thing? It must be divided correctly. Yes? Nothing should be missing, one shouldn’t be able to come tomorrow and say “what did the teacher leave out and leave out.” If there is “left out and left out,” it’s a weak list. A list must start from the general principle, and it must divide the principle correctly, so that one shouldn’t be able to say tomorrow why didn’t you divide it differently, yes? So apparently this is the law/rule of a good list. The law of a good list must include everything that exists in the topic. Someone makes a list of what he needs to buy for Shabbos, he needs to buy everything, and he shouldn’t miss anything.
Lecturer:
All these lists also don’t work like this. There was, and they must first of all establish, how one hits all the traits, all the good traits, one by one, not missing one. And the second is, how one divides it in the right way. How does one make a division that this is not just a list thrown into the world, but one must divide it in the right way. What divides? In other words, what makes… we’ll go talk, the Rambam will talk about different traits, there is a trait of… what is the list of traits here? It says here, you have here a trait of stinginess, and there is also a trait of generosity. He has two traits, or two or three traits that have to do with money. And we need to understand what connects, what divides the traits? What does one mean when one says that a trait is different from the other trait? This we already started to talk about in the previous term, the investigation, right?
Lecturer:
We need to understand at all that there is a strong claim that says that there is no such thing as many traits. As the Chazon Ish didn’t claim, as righteous people loved to claim, I remember. Why? Because good character traits means that he should conduct himself as is right. To conduct according to the measure of wisdom, according to what it should be, according to what is right. It comes out that there is only one trait, to conduct oneself according to what is right. And there is one bad trait, he can conduct himself not as is right, that he should conduct himself according to the evil inclination, let’s say, according to what is convenient for him, according to what the inclination tells him is right, not as is truly right.
Lecturer:
What did Rabbeinu Yonah say? “All the commandments are the teaching of the wise, and all the transgressions are the teaching of the fool.” Yes, wise and foolish, yes, righteous and wicked. There is a good one and there is a bad one. There is a pious one and there is a fool. And so on. But specifically when one talks about character traits, what is the practical difference that the bad thing he does is the trait of anger or it’s the trait of… it’s not a sin? It’s a sin, and one must know by which names the sins. It’s not a practical difference. But he does a sin, he does a transgression, he does a transgression. It’s not a practical difference if he does a transgression of robbery or he does a transgression of theft. The trait of anger, comes from the trait of pride, and I mean even the trait of pride, why should one talk about this at all? Okay, what does it help me?
Lecturer:
Do you understand the question? It’s a waste of time to make all these lists of traits, it will help me nothing. What do I have to make a long list? I tell everyone, you should conduct yourself properly and that’s it.
Student:
Yes, but it’s impossible.
Lecturer:
I can grab onto one trait. What will help to give one trait? Let’s say, someone never heard of the trait. Let’s say someone never heard of the concept, perhaps there are such people? Never heard of the thing that there is a list of traits, different good traits, bad traits. He knows that one must be a person, one must conduct oneself properly. What does it mean how to conduct oneself properly? I’ll tell you, I know a thousand things: the father one must honor, and to friends one must be good friends, and when one eats one must eat not too much and not too little. At every second there is another trait. What do I have from making from this such general traits? The trait of desire, the trait of pride, the trait of anger, the trait of humility. What do I have from this? I wouldn’t have known that these things are good things? I would have known. I would have known. I’m a good person, I do all these things. What do I do with making a list of traits? Or at all with saying even one of them?
Student:
I can’t teach people to be good, but I tell them, this means such and such.
Lecturer:
This is… It’s not working, my recorder. It says recording. It says, I don’t see the green… No, my audio doesn’t work. The recorder became, audio doesn’t work. The green what? It’s not connected to the camera. It’s connected in the wrong place or something. I don’t know, something is wrong. I’m afraid we won’t have a lecture. No, it’s bullshit.
Ah, what? No, it’s connected to the wrong thing, or my thing is not turned on, or something. I don’t know, all kinds of things are… You see that it doesn’t make any red… You see that it doesn’t make any red… You see that it doesn’t make any red… The green is your bar that goes up and down? No, on the… on the camera. That’s the receiver. No, no, it’s not plugged in the right place. I plugged it in the wrong place. Take this. Yes. Should it be such a thing? Should it be wider?
Instructor: Do you see that it doesn’t make any red and any green, the bar that goes up and down? Well, without the… without the… without the camera. That’s the receiver. No no no, it’s not plugged in the right place, it’s in the wrong place. This?
Student: Yes.
Instructor: What should I bring? I’m looking what’s going on there. Don’t know. Finally you have what you need to work on.
Student: So I need to know. So I need to know. What does one have from making an extra trait of knowing what the camera is.
Instructor: I need to grasp the point, I need to say an important thing. Okay, so this is a very serious question. What does one have from the whole thing, one thing one should be able to explain.
Student: Okay, I help fully, make such general rules. Instead of saying one must be a person, one says be humble, and don’t be arrogant, not angry, not desirous.
Instructor: What? You’re focused on the bad things. The Rambam also takes, says anger, I don’t know what he says there. One must base it on certain measures, on certain people, base on certain measures, on certain examples. And no examples from another point when you don’t have any sense of the middle path, one must… the middle path is only a theory. In practice one must see it.
So let’s understand, here I agree that character traits is a matter of practical action. A matter of practical action one doesn’t learn from any Torah. One must see it.
Student: Honestly, one must see it, right?
Instructor: Yes. One must be able to see.
Student: Well, the question is like this, I agree, but so one must see it completely in actual practice. Can you tell me about general character traits, it also won’t help me so much. Right? What will help me to see how that one doesn’t get upset or does get upset, at the right time, in the right manner, in the right way. Then I can learn that this is a good thing, or I saw that this leads to a better life, I saw that this is a good thing.
Instructor: True.
Student: The question is about the thing in between, right? What do I have from calling it the trait of anger? What do I do with dividing the traits in this manner, and calling this anger and this desire and this pride and so on? It’s not the exact thing I see, it’s a bit a higher level of abstraction, right? It’s something in between.
Instructor: But you can see from him to learn very good things, and other things he is very angry. As long as he doesn’t have a name for the thing of anger, and he hasn’t yet grasped that this is… because he has so many other good traits, and other things he is good, and here he is very strongly upset.
So if you don’t have a word, so this is a general thing, like if you don’t have words for things, you don’t notice them, right? We only see things that we have words for them. This is a principle. A very strong principle. Or we don’t understand, we can’t, we don’t understand, I don’t mean we can’t give a lecture, we don’t understand how to conduct ourselves without calling the thing a word.
Instructor: It can be for example, let’s say an important thing. It can be for example that there are different people, we talked last week in the lecture about this, that often there is a person who is a thief and he doesn’t grasp that he’s a thief, and the environment doesn’t grasp that he’s a thief, true? He’s a murderer and he doesn’t grasp that he’s a murderer. It can even be whole cultures that they don’t have a word for a certain good trait, and they can’t feel it. It’s very hard, at least, perhaps he has it a bit by mistake, by chance by error he got it from somewhere, but it’s very hard for the person to have the thing consistently, because he doesn’t have a word.
I can think of the Gemara, by the way, not just that. I mean that we Jews, I love when people criticize the Jews, right? I mean that by us Jews, we have different lists of character traits (middos), like the list of middos that the Rambam brings, everyone knows, and I hold that in every list many good middos are missing. And because we don’t have them in the list, not just a list, but the reasons why we should conduct ourselves this way, and the reasons why we shouldn’t conduct ourselves this way, and so on, it goes perhaps both ways, but when we don’t have it and we don’t talk about the thing as a middah, we completely lack the ability to grasp that this is something that can be done. You can think of the Gemara, right? No, it’s a good example.
Instructor: Courage we already talked about, when we talked that there are many times, courage is something that the Rambam does talk about, I talked about this, and Rav Aharon Kotler talks about this, but the baalei mussar don’t like to talk about courage. Now, I would have thought that courage means, it’s appropriate to talk about it, because there is a middah of derech hametzuah shebo [the middle path within it], yes? It doesn’t mean just being an animal, it means, yes, there is a proper middah of not knowing how to take risks, and how to put oneself in danger in the right way, is something that must be discussed. But we don’t, yes, we don’t talk about it, it’s not a good example that I know. I say courage, most people know what it is, they just say it’s not a Jewish thing.
Instructor: And I thought of something that we don’t know at all what it is, because we don’t have a word for it. For example.
Student: For example?
Instructor: I know, I have a year and a half, I need to fill out forms.
Student: What?
Instructor: This is for shiurim that I’m giving.
Student: What?
Instructor: It’s not.
Student: Ah, it’s not?
Instructor: It is, yes?
Student: Ah, that’s an interesting thing to say.
Instructor: I know if it’s a good trait or a bad trait. But there is a middah called courtesy in English. Do you understand it?
Student: What does courtesy mean?
Instructor: Courtesy, everyone knows courtesy. Courtesy means a way how a person behaves with a stranger. Like we have a middah called farginnen [being happy for others’ success] that other people don’t know about farginnen?
Student: It’s an opposite middah.
Instructor: It’s an opposite example. It’s not yet good enough. I can say an eidel (refined person), for example.
Student: I’ll say to be good to be eidel, I know what it means.
Instructor: I mean it’s refined. It’s yours. It’s one eidel, I mean it’s tznius (modesty), a conduct. It’s also a sort of tznius.
No, courtesy is eidel. No, courtesy means a certain, a proper way how one conducts oneself with strangers. With a friend you don’t have courtesy, with a friend you’re a friend. With an enemy you have, I don’t know what, hatred, whatever, you have to relate to him. Courtesy is this, that when you go to the bank and someone is standing alone, you don’t push him. Yes? You know that Jews aren’t so polite.
Student: It’s called chillul Hashem [desecration of God’s name], it’s a whole other topic.
Instructor: Yes? Courtesy means that when you go into the store, you hold the door for the one who is after you. Yes? It’s not a middah, it’s not chesed (kindness), he didn’t need to have chesed, he can very well hold the door himself. It’s simply a proper conduct how one behaves with a stranger. Not with a friend, not one of your children, not someone you’re being mekarev (bringing close), that you want to show him how good the Jews are.
I didn’t say that there aren’t any sources in the Torah for such a thing.
Student: No, no, I wouldn’t call it gaavah (pride). I wouldn’t call it gaavah.
Instructor: No, except that you’re being mekarev such a thing, with courtesy indeed.
Student: Courtesy. Need no, need no nimus (politeness)?
Instructor: The sefarim have the expression nimus, but when we say nimus, it looks to us like a false thing.
Student: No, there is such a middah.
Instructor: It’s false.
Student: It’s not, it looks to us false, because it’s actually, I don’t mean the friend. I can be very courteous to you, and I have you in the ground. It doesn’t concern me, I don’t care if you die tomorrow in the next minute. What does it have to do with falsehood?
Instructor: That’s nice, that this is the shitah (approach) of the Jews. The Jews hold, the real Jews, that they know that they hold that this is false, they know that it’s false. It has no virtue. A non-Jew, a non-Jew, a certain culture, the European culture is very into courtesy. By the way, in the East it’s not so. What is the virtue?
Student: You want the virtue to be? This is a shiur on courtesy?
Instructor: I’ll tell you in reality. An example. Non-Jews come, and he can be the biggest piece of garbage, he smiles, everything is courtesy. Next day, “I will call you,” and he has you in the ground. Meaning, it’s a falsehood, it’s worth nothing. It’s not a good middah.
Student: Okay, it looks very good, it’s a dispute.
Instructor: I don’t agree that it doesn’t exist by Klal Yisrael at all. It could be that it’s chanufah (flattery).
Student: Ah, very good. Wait, wait, let’s stop. Very good. There is a thing called chanufah. How do you say chanufah in English? Flattery, right? Flattery. Everyone understands that flattery and courtesy… It could be that the extreme in America is to be a bit more courteous. I admit to you. It could be that the American non-Jews, the custom of America, is to be a bit too… not… at some point you have to say, you want me to hold that I shouldn’t call you back?
Instructor: No, tell me, I won’t call you back.
Student: No, see, what this is in the Rambam’s way of thinking, what you’re saying now, is the bad extreme (ketzuniyus hara) of this. Courtesy, in other words, means how one conducts oneself toward a stranger. Not like the Galician Jews, first the speech goes in, ah, I want to wish you a good month. No, this is even how one speaks to a normal person. Not a hug. A hug is already too much. And also that’s a fake… and the hippies make a hug for every stranger. That’s not courtesy, that’s something like an aveirah lishmah [a transgression for the sake of heaven — ironic usage]. The non-Jews make… how do we say, please come into our holy congregation, which brings the Nazis on. That’s false courtesy, because it’s completely the opposite.
And what is proper courtesy? Not the same thing as chanufah. Yes, now it’s not even chanufah, you know what it is now. Chanufah means flattery. Everyone understands in English the two words. When you have two words, it means that the culture distinguishes between the two things. Flattery is the one who says, the lecker (licker/flatterer), “Yes, I’ll call you,” and when he doesn’t call, he says, “Yes, yes, I saw you…” That’s not courtesy. Courtesy means, you can say courteously no, yes? You can say, “Thank you for the offer, and you said, “Thank you so much for your interest, it’s not a right time for us now.” You said, that’s very clearly no. There’s no doubt that tomorrow won’t be the time, right? You understand it yourself. But it’s not a lie, and it’s not chanufah. Chanufah is the one who doesn’t understand the difference, he says that this is chanufah.
Instructor: Courtesy is a maaseh derech eretz [proper conduct]. When someone backs out in a parking lot, you give him a wave. That’s a certain courteousness. Yes, but I hear, it’s not a tremendous virtue to have. It’s a tremendous virtue, I don’t know that.
Student: What?
Instructor: There is a contradiction. There is one Mishnah “greet with a pleasant countenance” (sever panim yafos), and there is a second Mishnah “greet with joy” (b’simchah). These are the two approaches in Judaism. One accepts suffering with joy (mekabel yissurim b’simchah), and one says “sever panim yafos”. Tomorrow, tomorrow, there will be an approach. These are two Tannaim [Mishnaic sages], one says this and one says that. The Rambam talks about this in chapter one, Mishnah one. True, but we’ll do chapter one faster.
Instructor: Yes, but what… I hear, but it’s indeed a tremendous virtue to have. It’s a tremendous virtue. I don’t know that. I only know… what?
Yes, there is presumably, there is one Mishnah that says “Greet every person with a pleasant countenance” (Hevei mekabel es kol ha’adam b’sever panim yafos – Pirkei Avos/Ethics of the Fathers 1:15), and there are two approaches in Judaism. One is “mekabel es kol ha’adam”, and one weighs in “b’sever panim yafos”. This is the second pleasure. One says this is not yet enough. The Rambam [Maimonides] talks about this in chapter seven in the Mishnah.
True, yes, true. But we only make it like something called “sever panim yafos” is to… usually when we count how much to… sever panim yafos… yes, good morning.
In short, I’m just bringing it out, that when you have a word for something, you grasp that there is such a middah, and for this there is a proper way of the middah. There is one who is just a lecker (flatterer), one is just a liar, one is just bad, that’s the opposite, he has too little courtesy, one has too much false courtesy. But there is such a middah, and as long as you don’t have the word, it’s very hard to talk about it, very hard to grasp at all what one is talking about, very hard to educate.
For example, even you see, you see that people do this, you say, “Ah, they are chanfanim [flatterers/hypocrites].” No, they’re not chanfanim. Some are chanfanim, but some are educating themselves to the middah.
This is an example. I mean that there are many Jewish middos that it’s become that we don’t have, and so on. Come, give us a few real middos.
Student: Respect? Middos are all such small things.
Instructor: Say respect. The middah of respect doesn’t exist today among Jews.
Student: There is a middas derech eretz [proper conduct/respect] for older people, there is kavod habriyos [respect for human dignity].
Instructor: Derech eretz, politeness.
Student: Yes, but…
Instructor: There is a certain kavod habriyos, but because it’s a difficult…
Instructor: Courtesy is a strange middah. I think a lot about this for other Jews. There are many middos in today’s world that have to do with how we act toward strangers. Jews don’t have such a big concept of a stranger.
Student: No, it’s a real thing.
Instructor: If he’s a Jew, he’s a brother. If he’s a Jew from the other Chassidus, he’s his enemy (soneh). But… and in the liberal world… I mean, sometimes today’s world – once it was, today’s world is very strongly built on various good middos how one behaves toward strangers.
In the old world, the Jews, the frum Jews, the heimishe Jews are a bit old-fashioned in this part, they don’t really have the middos. For example hachnasos orchim [hospitality to guests] that Avraham Avinu [Abraham our forefather] founded, the Arabs in the Middle East are still very strong in the line of hachnasos orchim. Hachnasos orchim is a sort of middah, but hachnasos orchim is already more than that. Hachnasos orchim is that you came to me, now you belong to me, I have to even protect you, I have to be your guardian (shomer), because you belong to me. You are already under my protection (tachas chasusi), you are under my protection.
This is a sort of middah how one behaves with strangers, but this is already a middah that makes the stranger into a person under your authority (ish tachas shiltoncha). The liberal middah is that he’s a citizen, how one behaves toward a second citizen, not he who is there together with you, your friend, holds everything and body. This is the other middah, therefore the Jews can’t go on the subway, you understand? No courtesy, nothing. This is already first.
Yes yes, all these middos, that courtesy is just one example, there are many middos, and there is an argument to be had which is the right one and which not, I already know, one can argue about this. I’m just bringing out that here are middos, it’s a whole conduct (hanhagah), everyone agrees that one can be too much, it can be too cold, it can be too hot, it can be too warm, too cold, too bad and so on. But there is a whole world (olam) in middos that one is educated to be a good person.
There are middos, you know also in everything, there are middos in law. The law says that at yellow lights we may drive, all Chassidic Jews understand that one must drive faster. But what does the good middah say? The good middah says at yellow lights one stops, because this is not… what do I have with the other? What should the second one be? Nothing should happen to him, no problem, but one wants to beat who arrives first. This requires a certain humanity, we call it humanity sometimes. Yes, because it’s a courtesy.
In short, all these middos that perhaps we don’t have a word for, and there is a big question in middos whether there is such a thing as middos for a stranger, for someone that I simply don’t have some connection with him, I don’t owe him anything. Simply, I am healthy and my friend is healthy (ani bari v’chaveri bari – i.e., we have no connection). And I come to my space and he comes to his space, and we don’t mix out. This is something given. Okay, how we will come to see given. This was just an example to explain one benefit, a certain aspect that the benefit is from the middos, from what one must write.
Student: By what do you think rather a general rule? Say that yes, one is a person.
Instructor: Ah, that’s not actions. It’s the halachah itself, everyone waits itself, it’s a mitzvah. I don’t tag a word now. A middah’s sorry’s sorry’s. No one will know. It’s usually three levels there. A general. Middos says. I need a middah why one doesn’t hit the other in the world to take in. What is that middah called? I know, I know a middah? I don’t see that it’s making it coming. What is the middah called? It’s good for cans, perhaps living. Cans?
Student: No, I teach it to my small children. You need a… I teach it to my small children.
Instructor: No, I’m asking a good question.
Student: I teach it to my small children. One doesn’t hit! Don’t hit! What is first comes a father. What will father do, nothing. I don’t know, but don’t push. Leave calmly, talk with the other. What is the middah called?
Instructor: Wise is a middah. Okay, wise is already the general factor. Wise is everything. Be a good person, why should you hit. It’s the goes… Where is a middah? I’ll tell him it. There’s a… what is there a middah is a middah? Where… is the thing that a middah is it certain. You have a middah that you don’t hit. If the other takes something, you don’t hit. What do you do? Either you do nothing, or you call it in the Torah, or you’re most of it. It says, a hundred thousand middos. True? That’s what I’m doing. Once a hundred thousand?
Student: No. Would tell you that you seven times seven? Have you ever heard, don’t cross the lines? But it’s a reason for. That’s the conclusion of the middah? You mean a middah?
Instructor: No. What does a middah mean? You tell me everything came? I don’t know, I tell you, I don’t know which middah it is not to hit the brother. I know that I shouldn’t hit him, not hit more not. What?
Student: No, I don’t even want to call it a middah. There is another middah which is when he asks me for a loan, I give him a loan. It’s not the same thing, did you hear?
One shouldn’t have money sitting by oneself, not so that it should help someone else. Maybe that’s a middah. Wait, that’s a middah. How do I conduct myself with my money? My money isn’t just to come and lie in a pocket, rather it’s for work, and it should circulate by me, by someone else, in another business, in an investment. Okay, that’s also a middah, though, right? But what is this middah called? The Rambam [Maimonides] gives a name for each middah. He says it’s one of the middos, correct? Nedivus [generosity], there’s a name for it. But we didn’t know about this.
Instructor: I’m trying to get at something, something is being revealed here. So I want to tell you a second thing. So we’ve revealed one thing, we’ve revealed that there’s a to’eles [benefit] from learning, a benefit from learning, and also becoming habituated. Middos is not a subject of theoretical learning, it’s a subject of becoming habituated. And one can become better habituated when one knows what a word is. This is how people who get results work. That’s one thing.
The second interesting principle is, and this is a dispute. Here the Rambam doesn’t go with this approach, and let’s just mention it. There’s an interesting important dispute, perhaps among the mekubalim [Kabbalists]. The Tanya [foundational work of Chabad Chassidus], for example, goes a different way. There are sefarim [books] that go – there’s literally a dispute about this.
Rebbe Reb Pinchas’l said that he can explain why there’s a list of middos. He claimed that he has an explanation for it. What is his explanation? He said, one goes with the objections to the four middos that they mentioned. They showed him that there’s a critique of the objections, that four middos was accepted that there are four good middos. He claimed that you have an answer, he has an explanation for why there are four middos. The answer is, because there is the nefesh [soul], we learned in chapter one, chapter two, that there are three chelkei hanefesh [parts of the soul]. The Rambam divided it into three parts. There they went to this, in a slightly different way. There are three chelkei hanefesh, as the Rambam said, and consequently each middah belongs to one part. When you ask me why we say there are four middos, it’s because there are three, each chelek hanefesh has its middah, and the fourth is the kelallus [the general/comprehensive one].
Yes, and how does it go? He says this: a person has three parts in his nefesh, or three nefashos [souls], or not nefashos but parts, however one should say it.
The First Part – Ta’avah: The first part is called ta’avah [desire/appetite], that’s what it’s called. The middah against it is prishus [abstinence/self-restraint], holding oneself back, having control over the ta’avah.
The Second Part – Ka’as/Chelek HaMis’orer: The second chelek hanefesh that a person has is what the Rambam calls the chelek hamis’orer [the spirited/emotional part]. By the Rambam, ta’avah also belongs there, but he divided it. That is, Admor HaZaken [the Alter Rebbe: Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, author of the Tanya] calls it ka’as [anger], or those who know what this is, the chassidim know what this is. The chelek hamis’orer, the main middah that belongs to it is ka’as, that’s what he usually calls it. And there’s another middah there, which is the middah that has to do with that, courage. Courage means, you conduct yourself with your courage in the right way. Ka’as is a sharp courage, think about it. It’s a funny translation, it’s a problem, but that’s how we learned it.
Rav Saadia Gaon [10th century Jewish philosopher] says that there are three, so he says, there are three chelkei hanefesh: ta’avah, ka’as, and seichel [intellect/reason]. Ka’as is a translation. What does ka’as mean? It’s the same thing as his’orerus [arousal/spiritedness], think about it.
Haven’t you heard recently from Rabbi Nosson Dovid? All Jews who serve the Almighty with his’orerus are ba’alei ka’as [masters of anger/spiritedness]. That’s how it goes, it’s the same koach [power/force]. Not exactly the same, but approximately the same.
A person who serves the Almighty with cheishek [passion/desire]. Cheishek is not the same thing. It’s very interesting, the Chassidic Jews don’t know, but those who do know, those who think too much about it, we spoke about this last week, the Yeshivishe and the others who held, they said that you serve the Almighty with hislahavus [enthusiasm/fervor].
Hislahavus is two completely opposite things. There’s eish umayim [fire and water], ahavah kireshpei eish [love like fiery flames – from Song of Songs 8:6], ahavah kamayim [love like water]. One serves the Almighty with passion, with cheishek, and it’s not the same thing as one who serves the Almighty with hislahavus.
Maggid Shiur [Lecturer]:
All Jews who serve the Almighty with his’orerus are ba’alei ka’as. All. That’s the same chiyus [vitality], that’s approximately the same koach. Not exactly the same, but approximately the same.
A person who serves the Almighty with cheishek – cheishek is not the same thing. It’s very interesting. The Chassidic Jews don’t know. They do know, if you think a bit we’ll speak about this this week, the Yeshivishe and others who held that one must serve the Almighty with his’orerus. But there are two completely opposite types of his’orerus. That is, fire and water, and Lubavitch says ahavah kireshpei eish, ahavah kamayim.
One who serves the Almighty with passion, with cheishek, is not the same thing as one who serves the Almighty with his’orerus. It’s two different things, with ka’as, with a boil. Yes, a boil, it’s the midas ha’eish [the trait of fire]. It’s not ahavah [love].
People, many chassidim think that ahavah with a boil is the same thing. It’s exactly the opposite thing. It’s a different feeling, it’s a different type of thing. It doesn’t come from the same place.
Why do I understand it differently? Someone who is alive, everything by him is alive, but it’s not the same thing. A passion, a drive, a teshukah [longing], a… what do you call it in English? A lust, an eros, an attraction, he’s attracted, and someone who is ignited. They’re two different things.
What makes him ignited? Because this is important, because this is ka’as. The midas haka’as means “this is very important, this is very relevant.” That’s a different type of thing. One must do something here. One must do something. It’s not the same thing.
Kana’us [zealotry] comes from yirah [fear], comes from ka’as. Kana’us… we spoke about his’orerus. His’orerus is spoken with a bit of ka’as, that’s the kana’us. Kana’us doesn’t come from ahavah. No. It can be in the pnimiyus [inner dimension], but kana’us comes from ka’as. Kana’us is kin’ah literally means ka’as. I think that Rashi [Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, the primary medieval Torah commentator] says so later.
Maggid Shiur:
Anyway, that’s the second middah. Then there’s the third middah, which is called… what did we call the third thing? Chochmah [wisdom]. Chochmah is the chochmah, seichel, koach, the further good middah of the da’as [knowledge], of the seichel, is called chochmah.
Then there’s the fourth middah, which is called tzedek [justice]. What this means is a tzaddik [righteous person]. We usually call a good person, whether in lashon hakodesh [Hebrew], or in whatever. The main word that we call, it’s very interesting, this is discussed in the Devarim [Deuteronomy]. We can call a good person one way – a chacham [wise person], and another way is to call him a tzaddik.
Tzaddik means a righteous one, from the language of tzedek. What does tzedek have to do with it? Tzedek is a middah. What does this have to do with tzedek? They used to say tzedek has to do with when one does business, there’s no tzeduki bamishpat [perverting justice], he doesn’t steal, he pays when he’s obligated and the like.
Yes, he says, Plato [the ancient Greek philosopher], and it also says in all the Chassidic sefarim the Torah, and the Rambam, I think Plato is the first, perhaps there’s an earlier one who said the Torah, he says that tzedek one must also use with oneself.
What does justice mean? Justice means that one gives each thing mah shera’ui lo, lisein lechol echad mah shera’ui lo [to give each thing what is fitting for it]. Yes, whom you owe you must pay, whom you must do pidyon shevuyim [redeeming captives] you must do pidyon shevuyim, you do business with Jews in merchandise and so on.
The same thing, midas hatzedek [the trait of justice], which is the kelallus of being a good person, means that each koach in the nefesh should receive what is coming to it. The midas haka’as one should use when one needs to have it, the midas hasimchah [trait of joy] when one needs to have it, the midas hata’avah when one needs to have it, and in a general way, the coordination of all these middos, that each thing gets its place, that is tzidkus [righteousness], and that is the main name of a good person is called a just person, a tzaddik, and that is the midas hatzedek. That’s how the four good middos come out. So he wrote in the Sefer HaMedinah [Plato’s Republic].
Maggid Shiur:
And others, in similar ways, which Chazal [our Sages, of blessed memory] mentioned, in the same structure, one can perhaps have more details, but in the same structure one can see for example in the sefer, that is, which sefer has such structures? Shaarei Kedushah [Gates of Holiness, by Rabbi Chaim Vital], or the Tanya which brings from the Shaarei Kedushah, perhaps other sefarim that go this way, I don’t remember which others. Which mussar sefarim does the world learn? I don’t know.
Anyway, in Tanya and in Shaarei Kedushah it says that there are different middos tovos vera’os [good and bad traits], yes, the Shaarei Kedushah is very busy with proper middos, and he says that how does one make the middos? That there are four yesodos [elements], okay, it’s a little different structure, a different way, but there are four yesodos, eish, mayim, ruach, afar [fire, water, wind, earth], and the nefesh also has derech meshal [by way of example], not literally four yesodos, and each one of them has certain middos ra’os [bad traits] that belong to them, yes, eish has to do with ka’as, and mayim with ta’avah, as will be said next, and ruach with ga’avah [pride], and what’s the other one, afar with atzlus [laziness], whatever it is, and above there are four yesodos, there are four divisions, the nefesh is divided into such meshalim [analogies], the structure of the idea of middos.
There are different chelkei hanefesh, there’s an approaching koach, there’s an approaching part, there’s an avoiding part, and so on. And one divides the middos, perhaps two middos for each one, two parts of it, and the like. But the way that he gets to his list of middos is by dividing the soul and giving for each soul, what are the middos tovos of each chelek hanefesh.
And it’s true, it’s very good that we learned, the four yesodos, I didn’t say it, we learned that what this goes, good, there’s something that he actually made, but the way how he made it that it works well, that his chelek haga’avah [part of pride] works well, the simple meaning is that these are the middos, what we call midas haka’as, midas a proper ka’as, is the koach ha’oseh [the active force] that a person does what his task is, he does it properly, and so on for each koach. This is a very old way of dividing the middos according to the chelkei hanefesh, right? So said Rabbi Tzadok [Rabbi Tzadok HaKohen of Lublin], Plato, and so all the chachmei hamekubalim [the kabbalistic sages] used this thing.
The Rambam doesn’t do this, and I noticed that the Rambam doesn’t do this, true? He does something very similar, he begins with the chelkei hanefesh, and then he says, where are the middos? All belong in one part, and a long list of nine, and he doesn’t tell you a list, a long list of kechai gavna [of this type], of kiyotza bo [similar to this], everything belongs in one part.
And he doesn’t say, in this part there are so many divisions, that each one is a middah. By the Rambam’s middos it doesn’t work with the chelkei hanefesh. The division of middos is not by chelkei hanefesh, which then you would have an exhaustive list, right? Not only an exhaustive list, also the proper division of the list, right?
It’s not such a list that there’s no difference, what there are more chelkei hanefesh than the three or four. What you make next, there are ten chelkei hanefesh, other mekubalim had calculations, for example, a chochmah, if you have seven middos, you have seven sefiros [the seven sefirot], yes? There was also a bit different from the four yesodos idea, but it’s the same idea.
More or less, everything can be divided, either it’s ahavah, or it’s yirah, or it’s tiferes [beauty/harmony], and that’s basically all the middos. And the Baal Shem Tov [founder of Chassidus] always goes with the point, and it’s homologous in it, because a person, everything he does, either you’re attracted to it, or you have aversion to it, or you’re against it. That’s more or less the kav ha’emtza and kav hasmol [the middle line and the left line], or you’re something in between, which is kav ha’emtza.
And there’s more, there aren’t more middos, because there can’t be more, because this is comprehensive, I made a division of everything that exists, I can make more details, but I can’t truly make more middos. This is the way of dividing middos according to the structure of the nefesh.
The Rambam, I see, doesn’t work this way, and there are, I see, a few reasons why he doesn’t work this way. And when I mean to say he doesn’t work this way, I mean perhaps that I need to think, is there a difference that one can’t say this, because there’s a difference to me that it’s wrong. I think it’s more that the claim is there a bit explicitly, and Aristotle perhaps one needs to think about this, but it could be that the claim is, what’s wrong with the Torah? It’s a part, what’s wrong?
Maggid Shiur:
And they learned that this piece of Torah helped somewhat, that ga’avah is from yeshus ha’atzmi [self-existence] and ta’avah is from yeshus haguf [bodily existence]. Has anyone ever been helped in avodas Hashem [service of God] by these teachings? I’m curious.
Student:
It’s just knowledge, it doesn’t have to help practically. It’s good to know.
Maggid Shiur:
You remember, middos is not a learning that one learns, you don’t fulfill with the knowing, you only fulfill with the doing. It must help something.
Student:
I understand, but it can’t hurt to know something.
Maggid Shiur:
It can’t hurt, but we work so hard to figure out what is the structure, what is a difference?
Student:
Counting seven sefiros, one must work. Sefiros don’t drink water, they become dry.
Maggid Shiur:
That’s what I’m saying, it’s not helping. Okay, one shouldn’t drink cola, because cola is not a ta’avah. But it’s really a good piece of Torah this.
But aside for that, I’m asking a serious question, does this help anyone? Does this help you to have a good middah? You say to me, I don’t know what this middah is. Okay, come I’ll help you, there are three sefiros. Consequently you can clarify everything.
Student:
I don’t know, it’s possible that it helps people in some way. Because as we spoke earlier, to have a structure helps very much for many people.
Maggid Shiur:
I mean, sefiras ha’omer [counting of the Omer], yes, it says in sefarim that one should actually see each day something of a sefirah. Yes? Do you know someone who… I have many books here today, you go in the bookstores to see, the… what’s it called? The process, the train, the journey of sefiras ha’omer, and he says on each day there’s a sefer… they printed it, just through a sefer from some Satmar Chassidic young man a sefer. You know that the Bnei Yissaschar [classic Chassidic work] collected from that sefer. Yes, the Bnei Yissaschar collected from an earlier sefer.
Do you know someone who did that? I don’t know. I’m talking about sefira, sefira. I don’t know anyone who should tell me afterwards “I did that, and I’m very happy for that person.” I don’t know which people. Do you know one?
In general, the seven weeks of sefira doesn’t work, because one of the first weeks is just Chol HaMoed Pesach, and the second week, whatever, it doesn’t really work.
Student:
But, learning a sugya in Gemara to know from where the source of the halacha comes from, did that help him something?
Maggid Shiur:
No, that’s subject matter, that’s a level in subject matter. Now we’re talking about levels in character traits. Levels in subject matter, the point is to know. There’s also a subject to know from where it comes.
Student:
Could be, could be, but now we’re not talking about that. Let’s say, now let’s learn the whole thing.
Maggid Shiur:
I agree, the main thing is that, but it’s also good to know from where it comes. From where does it come? That’s what I hear now.
Student:
Which part of… when I tell you, do you understand something better when I tell you that it’s a koach ha’eish [power of fire]? I don’t see what you understand something. It’s just a list, just a word.
Maggid Shiur:
I hear, you can mean it a little better from life.
Student:
But that’s already not at all the whole four things. That the four yesodos [elements] was always a parable. Everyone agrees that there’s no fire in the soul, right? But today it’s much more… okay, so… there’s a big issue.
Maggid Shiur:
So that doesn’t help. So that doesn’t help. It’s a stereotype that one should use it for other things, is a better thing. For example. I agree. But does the list help me something?
In general, every power that a person has, he has it from the good.
Student:
I agree. But that’s a general thing. That still doesn’t help that I have a list.
Maggid Shiur:
The Creator says this applies to every middah, if it’s lacking. What if, imagine, I want to have a truly effective sefiras ha’omer. Would they have said, imagine, what if there were eight sefiros? Or seven, I don’t know, seven, four, five. What difference does something make? Not only does it not make a difference, but most people don’t know the difference between netzach and hod. It could certainly be the same both.
In general, that it should be a list and organize a person, he knows what to work on during sefira, that doesn’t help. I don’t know if that helps. The sefiros will tell it to a person, like it tells a person that you have a body and soul. I just want to know, does describing merely a parable help a person? That’s a question of what does a person mean. I want to understand what a person means. A person is so many things that he has a yetzer hara.
Student:
I hear. But the details, well, again, when I… the previous previous discussion I tell you that one who errs must stand, now you understand what you need to do. But when the clearest thought is you need to…
Maggid Shiur:
Will that help? I don’t know, I don’t see that it helps. The question is, I didn’t say that it doesn’t help. When I tell a person that you want to cause, I want to understand what a person means. A person is such a kind of thing that he has a yetzer hara. But the details, again, the previous thing I said I understood, I explained, I tell you that there is such a thing as a middah, now you understand what that does.
But the general, the beautiful structure, what is the advantage, let’s understand, the advantage of this sort of structure of dividing the middos according to the structure of the soul, that’s a very beautiful piece of Torah. It fits very well, I can’t say. Here doesn’t come any “but,” there’s no “yoke of the middos,” because that’s a yoke upon the middos, right? And there’s no “maybe count it differently,” no, there are seven, a person has seven sefiros corresponding to the seven powers of the soul, there are no others.
But, on the other hand, regarding practical application, it helps a lot less. I don’t see what it helps. When I have anger, I need to know that this is the second middah? What practical difference does it make? When I have a desire, that’s the first middah? What practical difference does it make? What difference does it make? It seems to be less useful than people pretend it is.
A person needs to work, he needs to go do exercise for half an hour in the morning, he needs to work on my anger. Yes, doesn’t work like that. Anger is when there comes exactly an opportunity, one can’t contain the anger. One needs to practice the point. Today is not the week of gevurah, and one doesn’t need to be angry.
There were people who used to do that, work that way. I know people did that. I don’t know what’s wrong with those people. I don’t know, I don’t understand those people.
There’s one who said that the Ba’al Shem Tov says that one must explain the kavanos according to the inner dimension, according to the soul. So, when it says in the siddur “chesed,” he writes in “ahavas Hashem.” When it says “gevurah,” he writes in “yiras Hashem.” And really, like really, that’s what he does. Does it work? I don’t know. There’s a very nice piece of Torah. For a hint it’s good. There’s a hint, there are three things, one needs to talk about three things, okay. But practically? I don’t know.
Anyway, this criticism is Aristotle’s criticism. He said that Plato said two pieces of Torah, but he doesn’t see what it helps. He doesn’t see what it helps. Could be it’s true, he doesn’t see what it’s true. He doesn’t see what it helps for a person to become better.
Let’s say another parable, right? Remember, we’re always thinking of middos and the analogy of crafts, right? The parable of character improvement and the parable of certain crafts that are a craft, right? An art, one does something, one makes something, yes?
Let’s say someone comes and he says, “Gentlemen, you have people, a mechanic, I want to become a mechanic, okay? I want to become a mechanic.” So what do you learn? You go learn to fix motorcycles, cars, SUVs, vans, trucks, each one with its advantages and with its deficiencies, yes?
Let me finish my parable. So if I go to a course, you go to a course to fix motorcycles, a motorcycle has two wheels, and the engine lies here, and it works like this, and if this breaks, you do that, and so on. That helps me. Tomorrow there will be a class on big trucks, the day after on small trucks. Each thing, I show you how it looks and how it works. I understand, it’s very useful. Do you understand what I’m saying?
One class, all that we fix what is broken. That’s true, but it doesn’t help me. Because those are very small details. I tell you, load the truck, a tractor trailer needs to have such and such, needs to have a hundred PSI in the tires, and a small truck needs to have sixty, and a small one needs to have fifty. You got information that’s helping you. It’s structured, it’s the structure of the organization. Just to say each time what to do doesn’t help me, but the structure… listen.
But just that someone comes and he says like this, “Gentlemen, I want to make you a general principle.” And he’s not philosophical, he’s just, it’s too random. It’s a long list, and always he’s going to have as if, because always one thinks up a new sort of car.
So I’ll tell you that that’s true. Let’s not do that way, let’s… it’s an exhaustive list, I can’t give you an exhaustive list. Always, you say the course, we’ve already gone through everything. You tell him, “You know what, there are still a few more.” They already had to learn figures themselves in the Talmud themselves, yes?
And a philosopher came, and he says, “Let’s make even as if, let’s make order. One can’t divide the stringencies and doubts, that’s not relevant to talk about. I have a plan, gentlemen, there’s a principle. Let’s make a principle. The principle is, what is the meaning of a machine, a car? A car is a mechanized box on wheels. That’s the principle, that’s the genus, right? With the division. Wonderful. That’s a principle.
Now, you can divide it in a wonderfully clear way. One can say, there are things that have two wheels, and there are things that have four wheels. You know what? No. There are things that have more than two wheels, and there are things that have two wheels. What made the principle better? Yes? A motorcycle and a bike, both are two wheels. And a tractor-trailer and a pickup truck, an airplane also has who knows how many wheels, they all fit into the other category.
Now, that’s a clear category. It’s a better category than the previous one, right? Because two and more than two, everything fits in. Two boxes, nothing falls out of the two boxes. Everything fits in. It’s conclusive, it’s exhaustive, everything fits in.
Afterwards I’ll make another division, and I’ll say, now, from those that have two wheels, there are such that one must push oneself, and there are such that push themselves. Those that one must push oneself is called a bike, or a… a… a glider plane, or a… I don’t know what, a hardware… or something else. And those that push themselves is called a tank, or a… or a car, or a scooter, a motor scooter, yes? And I’ll make another division in this, and I’ll say, everything is just wonderfully clear.
It won’t help me the mechanic much. It can help someone who wants to make charts in the world, it will help him.
Because almost no one… even I go fill orders for screws for the… I need to have a list, I’m in a mechanic shop, I need to have the right screw for each sort of car. I need to have a display. It won’t help that I store this. I need to have a list of the sixteen main sorts. In most, sometimes it happens that someone comes into the shop with a funny thing, one needs to order it a special order. You need to have the sixteen main sort of screws that are used in most cars and most trucks. That helps me.
When I go into a hardware store, I want to go to the section where I’ll find it. Yeah, you have to go in the section, it’s useless. Today they’ve set up the stores much better, right? Because the sections… you go into the website, people have worked so many years to make the sections fit, right? All screws that are… is so much of a waste of time, because the world doesn’t work that way.
That’s a bit Aristo, that’s by me. But in practice, you can sit a whole hour and write out a list. I have my whole demonstration, when I’m home all my things, I made a whole order. I have all my wires, this wire goes in this box, that wire there, every person spends a few hours on this, and it doesn’t help.
In practice one needs to have there another two wires. Here, two smartphones that people have, those two wires one needs, sometimes one needs a third. Once I said a logical argument, that the time that you organized the wires, let’s say your hour is worth a hundred dollars, I don’t know how much today, and that one comes in, each time one needs from this to search around again. It’s cheaper than to make order in the wires, okay?
That’s the practical way, the practical way of thinking, right? Now, he presents middos in a practical way. Here yes, he has a certain categorization that helps for practically. The categorization always goes with such a majority, which says let’s take the ten most common things, and I’ll explain each one of them practically how it works, not theoretically in which box it belongs, that doesn’t make a difference. Practically how it works, not like that.
Aristotle divided this. He says like this, I said this, the ten most common middos that people struggle with: anger, pride, courage, desire and so on. I can’t exactly from memory all of them. That’s learning in a practical science, I don’t know how.
Now he learns basically practical law. Now I want to say another thing, another way how to divide it. Not to divide according to the logic how it fits, but to divide according to the subject and what it belongs to. In other words, this will make many things, this will bring close the distant and distance the close. In other words like this, there’s one who goes to the extreme, and says such sorts of things, and you want to realize it’s very much less helpful than you usually think, or one can divide it that way.
That’s the argument. And he says, I repeated what I told you, everything that people have is either an attraction or an aversion. Okay, what do you want? Ah, I have a long list. Good children, a beautiful wife, good food, and to have respect in the shiur, and I have a long list. Ultimately that’s a chesed, all things that I want. What don’t I want? To be unhappy, no illnesses, okay, what is a ladder of character traits, one should educate. I want, I have paint, this grabs me, I want, I want, yes, that’s all things.
That’s very nice. Even let’s work on the trait of will, because with all wants, it’s true, I must have some hardware, some software in my body, in my soul, that makes me able to want, yes? You can see a person, a person who is deficient with a certain chemical, he doesn’t want anything. What do you want? I don’t want anything. Indeed, it’s true physically, it’s not even not true, it’s true that there is such a middah in the soul that’s called the trait of will, or the trait of desire, the trait of desire, there is such a middah of wanting, of desire, of having, and there’s one who is missing that, he’s missing everything. He won’t be able not about this, not about that, not about that. True.
But I want to have, I want to have the choice, I want to have the choice to fix the body, talking about fixing the soul, right? You tell me, I want to work on the trait of… give more charity. He comes and says, come, more charity, that which you don’t give charity, that comes because you want your money too much. Want your money a little less, you’ll give more charity. Because you are, you are like the Ba’al HaSulam, you’re taking, right? This is like a very huge generalization of everything. You take to yourself, you are attracted, you grab, you take all the time. You take so much? Give a little. Give what else to give? Wow, it’s so undefined. Give charity. Know what else? Give away for the Almighty a little of your sleep. Get up early and learn. You also sleep about that.
I tell him, Rebbe Leben, this is all very abstract, it’s not helping me.
Let’s describe things as they’re seen in this world. How do I see in this world? There’s a subject that’s called money. You know what I mean money? Everyone knows. What’s the difference between money and furniture? Both are the same thing, both cost money, both are things that people want, theoretically. Practically, money is one thing and furniture is a second thing.
And you remember that middos work with hergalim [habits]. Hergalim don’t work with the koach hasechel [power of intellect], sechel [intellect] understands everything at once. Hergalim work with, exactly with practicing, right? I can’t practice wanting money and wanting furniture at the same time. They have some connection, but they’re two different things.
There’s a middah, there’s a relationship, I have a relationship with money. Derech agav [incidentally], I already gave the teshuvah [answer] once about the tablets. The first time, my relationship with the money that’s in my pocket is a different relationship than the one that’s in my credit card. Different from how much money I have in my bank account. Have you noticed that?
It’s much harder to give money, each person according to his middah, the money when I have cash. I’m the opposite, because I was born in the digital age. When I see money in the bank account, I send it to anyone. But cash in my pocket, I know this is a piece of paper, take it.
Instructor:
There’s a middah that you have a relationship, I have a relationship with money. The relationship, derech agav, I already gave the shiur once about the tablets.
The relationship with money that’s in my pocket is a different relationship than the one that’s in my credit card, and a different one that’s in my bank account. Have you noticed? Yes. It’s much harder to give money, each person according to his middah.
But the money when I have cash, I’m the opposite because I was born in the digital age, when I see money in the bank account I send it to anyone. But cash in my pocket, you know, you need a piece of paper? Take it. I don’t know what you do with it. Yes, you need it?
Normal people are the opposite, right? The people who were born before and got used to it, they make us, yes, cash, I don’t know, what do I do with this? Ah, there’s a number standing, the number goes down, it’s terrible. Yes?
But what’s going on here, intellectually there’s no difference, it’s intellectual. My account also went down the same amount, the same thing, right? But my nefesh, that’s what I need to give the middos. The middos come in the chelek hamisorer and the chelek hata’avos shebanefesh. Each one looks different. Green dollars look one way, and credit cards in general where you borrow money now from the bank and pay it next month look a second way, and cash in the bank looks a third way, and stocks look a fourth way, and investments look a fourth way. Each of these have their own middos.
Before this, there are people, says the Kli Yakar, that people aren’t consistent. People are very consistent, you just have to know what they’re built of, right? There’s a person who gives away cash very easily, but very hard to give away credit cards, I don’t know, and so on.
He loves very much to do hachnasas orchim. Do you know what it costs to do hachnasas orchim? There are people who love very much to have guests. Every week they have twenty guests. To have twenty guests for a Shabbos meal costs about a thousand dollars a week. At least. Depends what you give them, meat and good wine, it’s very expensive. I made the calculation, I called guests for Shabbos before Pesach, I think I paid only five hundred dollars. I’m not a better person, I gave normal wine, because I said that it’s Shabbos before the seder, I need the four cups, and so on.
That same person calls me erev Pesach, maybe you’ll pay 500 dollars for my campaign. 500 dollars – it’s not money. I don’t have 500 dollars that I give for your campaign. That’s one difference.
There’s another difference in reality. Some difference exists – that it goes through the credit card, I don’t know what difference it is. A real difference is, that this is a middah – I have a middah – how my parents showed me or…, we call guests on yom tov? Okay, we call guests. Guests cost money? Okay, we pay money?
The middah of giving money, is also a big problem today that people give all tzedakah on the phone and the children don’t see it, and it’s very hard to be mechanech, is a big problem. Why is it a problem? A real problem… You don’t see any action, you don’t see how it takes out money from the pocket, you give it to a poor person. It’s a real problem. People do it who have children. Look, I press a button, and the money goes. I don’t know.
It’s a serious problem. Why is it a serious problem? I think that it’s a real problem. Why is it a real problem? Because middos of a person work with the way that the reality, the chitzoniyus looks divided, not how the pnimiyus is divided. What in the nefesh there’s one middah of giving? No difference, let’s say. But the hergashim that you have, they have to do with the objects, they have to do with the things that you deal with. I have a middah of inviting guests, and the middah of giving money is a different middah and needs to work on that separately.
Okay, I’ve now gone to a very big resolution. According to this there are tens of thousands of middos. But even in a macroscopic way, it could be, the Rambam derech agav when you look at his list, is two or three middos, the Aristotle three the Rambam has two middos about money. The Aristotle says that there’s one middah that’s called giving large donations, and another middah that’s called giving small donations.
It’s the cultural context of the difference that can go into another time, but what I want to bring out is, it doesn’t make a drop of sense. Everything is the same money. But it’s different, the truth is that it’s different. The one who is a big wealthy person and he gives a hundred thousand dollars at once, he doesn’t do the same thing as you do when you give 10 dollars. Not that it’s relative to his, it’s simply a different action. It comes to the same koach banefesh perhaps, but it’s a different action. It has different ways how it’s good. Different ways how it’s bad. Practically, you need to know how to conduct yourself with this. A person who becomes a wealthy person, he doesn’t know how to give big things, he actually doesn’t know how to give small things. Big things is a different place, it’s a different middah tovah.
Or the same thing, the Rambam says that the middah of stinginess is two middos of stinginess. There’s the midas hakamtzanus for himself, and there’s for others. For himself he’s stingy with himself, and for others he gives generously. There’s the opposite. Both are the same thing, both are the thing of stinginess with money, the thing of holding your money for yourself, or for a second person not for yourself, or for a poor person, what for a poor person? A poor person is praise.
But you see that the thing that divides the middos is the practical differences in the world. There’s a middah of chairs and a middah of tables. Both are wood and both are furniture? A different middah. This is a very different way of defining the middos, and it has a disadvantage that it doesn’t have a very nice structure, so you can always add another one, you can always divide a bit more and differently. Is this thinking for something that hasn’t been laid out and hasn’t been seen? It’s true, in some sense there’s less.
On the other hand, the advantage of it is that it’s much closer to what middos are really made to teach you. Middos are made to teach you such a specific thing, and since middos are a davar ma’aseh, as we always say, it’s a thing that the closer to ma’aseh it is, the more useful it is.
If I speak a whole shiur… the ba’alei mussar do these sorts of things, they figure out a whole shiur about the middah of giving for the… like in yeshiva, I don’t know, about the middah of being happy for your friend who is your roommate, a whole shiur halachos about this. The one who went to that shiur was practically much better to his roommate, if he did it, than the one who said such an abstract shiur, a Chassidic sefer says that a person is everything for the Almighty, and in general, who… Yes, it’s very nice, it doesn’t come down practically. It doesn’t come down practically because you’re dealing with a very abstract, much more abstract level. It’s more true in a certain way, but it’s less useful in another way. Maybe there are people who react differently? It could be.
Maybe there are people who react differently? It could be. I only know that there are many who need… This is a particular shiur. It’s particular. Given particular examples, but it brought out a point, it brought out a true point in the thing. You need to grasp the point.
I’m not saying that you need to give every… look, there are levels in everything. I’m not saying I’m going to make a billion middos, it won’t be useful. You can’t speak without generalizations. Every time it can be different. Every day, maybe the halachah was only for yesterday, not for today. Without rules you can’t give yourself any advice.
But the rules that you said are strong rules. Yes, but it’s still very particular. It’s still not that he said a shiur that two middos of chesed and one middah of gevurah will help you nothing. I’m not saying that was the level, but this was a shiur that was entirely in the process of saying that you need to notice the practical things.
In practical life, how much such a structure… That’s what I’m saying. It’s not like… You don’t go to my mechanic, for example. I love to talk about cars for some reason, I don’t know why. Such a strange thing. I love cars, I’ll tell you.
Anyways, you don’t go to the mechanic, right? The practical mechanic, certainly every time that a person comes to his store, almost every time it’s a bit different, right? There aren’t two problems in cars that are exactly the same. Right? You ask the mechanic, he tells you “generally speaking, this model car has such a thing.” Not every time, every time is a bit different. Today it was… If you live in a wet place it’s like this, and when they put salt on the road it damages certain hazards to the car like this, and in places where it’s warm it damages other hazards to the car, and if you drive fast, if you drive fast, if you drive wild, each person has his way how his car breaks. And each car exactly is made that the car has such a problem.
So you can’t learn anything, you need to sit and ask the rav again every time? No. The model car, the type of car, minivan, usually all minivans, even the three types of minivans, all of them have roughly the same structure. I’m saying a way, you can’t make a minivan in a million ways, you can make it ten ways. All have these sorts of issues, these sorts of problems. You learn something. Something it taught you. I didn’t say that each one is exactly.
If I would say that a minivan is such a type of car that’s roughly as high as it is wide, that’s not information. You know what else is as high as it is wide? A tanker. That’s also not… You don’t know what is a minivan. What’s the function? It could even be that the physics when you make it you need to calculate something similarly, yes? I don’t know, because both are such a square, not like a low car that’s more like a rectangle, but this is such a square. Okay, the air resistance is similar, when you do the air dynamics you need to do similarly. Also the airplane. But practically, the mechanic won’t be able to help himself with this.
But the rules that the mechanic will hopefully learn, yes, he will give certain rules. All minivans should have such issues, and all motorcycles should have such issues. Do you understand what I’m saying? So I don’t think it’s a contradiction. It must be that you need to speak with rules.
But speaking in an abstract way doesn’t look like it helps. Maybe there are people who like that, I don’t know.
I’m really here still, I wonder how these books are written for, the teachings, that the seven sefiros times seven… I have no idea what this helped. I am missing something, because certainly there are many sefarim that say these sorts of teachings, and they help. They wanted something. I mean, it spoke to flesh and blood, people did it. Can you explain to me? Yes, seven sefiros every week, yes? What? Can you do this? What is this thing?
Understand what it is? Yes, I understand, because I have no way to speak with these people, because they don’t live anymore. Still, it’s too much to say that the whole thing is ignorance. But, what’s underneath this? Even if it doesn’t help to become a better person, to know what he is. You know, things that I learn, I understand that I’m not connected. Knowing is also something.
It’s like the people who should bring with the enneagram like the colors. Yes, it’s the same thing. By the way, it’s true, I don’t understand those things either. There are four types of people, there are five thousand types of people. They found two ways how you can divide people. Okay, and what shall I do with it? It doesn’t help me at all. You’re an introvert or an extrovert? I don’t know, it depends in the morning or afternoon. I don’t have such a thing in my life. Maybe I am a weirdo who’s not like that.
Maybe sometimes what the Baal HaTanya says, the Baal HaTanya says that the Baal Shem Tov said about his rebbe, the Baal HaTanya, that it says in sefarim that sometimes each person has his shoresh neshamah, and according to that should be his avodah, one needs to learn Kabbalah, because from that world one needs to learn Mishnayos, because from that world one needs to learn this, and so on. He says, as if they take like we’re already normal people. But today, he says, is the Mashiach in the world, he’s not here anymore, you need to do everything. So said the Baal HaTanya. Maybe that’s the problem, that we’re too not, I don’t have the structure, I don’t have all the things. I only told him.
It’s fair, I think that people who like to put this, I don’t know what it helps them. It makes you think you understand things. I don’t think it actually makes you understand anything.
Instructor: One needs to learn Kabbalah [Jewish mysticism] because he’s from that world, one needs to learn Mishnayos [the Oral Law] because he’s from that world, and so on. Says the Yalkut Reuveni [a kabbalistic anthology], “in those times when people were normal”. But today, he says, is in the ikvesa d’meshicha [the era immediately preceding the Messiah], you don’t need to be selective, you need to do everything. So says the Baal HaTanya [Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, founder of Chabad]. Maybe that’s the reason, I’ll say first, I don’t agree with all these things. I don’t agree.
Student: Fair, I mean, how much does this put? I don’t know what it helps them. It makes you think you understand things, I don’t think it actually makes you understand anything.
Instructor: Why not? It’s a chiddush [novel insight].
Student: It’s like knowing another derech yashar [straight path].
Instructor: It’s like speaking lashon hara [evil speech/gossip].
It’s like saying that a chayah ra’ah [wild beast] is type 6. What does it mean a chayah ra’ah has no connection whatsoever to type 6. I don’t know, something is missing for me here.
Student: Okay, but it’s not exactly the same criticism. I’m talking here about middos tovos [good character traits].
Instructor: We said two things. Again, I said two things. One is the numbering, the explanation what the hundred number means, or to say that this comes from that.
Student: No, no, that’s not what I’m talking about. That’s what I’m saying now, that’s not important. The important thing is that there’s two ways.
Instructor: The sum total of the second half of the shiur (lesson), the first half we spoke about a different way. The second half, the sum total is, that there are two ways how to divide middos (character traits).
There’s one way which ends up with something exhaustive, there’s no addition, no addition or remainder, because this is the entire division in the soul, and that’s how it divides itself. You can add more details, but you can’t change it, you can’t make an eighth middah (trait). You can make chesed within gevurah (kindness within strength), but you can’t make an eighth middah. You can make chesed within chesed within gevurah (kindness within kindness within strength), but it still fits. And that’s the advantage of being organized, and being exhaustive, and being correctly divided.
However, but it has the disadvantage that it’s not so helpful, like my parable of the motorcycle.
There’s another way that has a disadvantage that there will always be “and more” at the end of the list, and it could be that every era one will need to change it because people think a bit differently and categorize things differently and so forth. But it has an advantage that this is how one actually lives in practice with the good middos. In practice, you need to speak, and one even needs to speak about another middah, each one unlimited. As soon as one speaks, but no more shiur, another time it was an advantage.
All of the things that we learn are really things like this. A rebbe also has the topic of midas hakaaas (the trait of anger), it’s not exactly the same thing, how a father has midas hakaaas and how a young boy and how a bachur (young man). It’s the same middah, but it’s a middah how one conducts oneself with the students, it’s a middah how one conducts oneself with the middah.
The distinction is, the analytical distinction is, that this type of middos, their definition is not in the soul. The love of middos is not in the soul. Their definition is in the subject, the object, the thing that they are about, the type of action that they are about.
The midas hataavah (trait of desire/lust) is the type of middah that has to do with all physical pleasures, not the middah of wanting things. It has nothing to do with the middah of wanting things. Nothing to do. From wanting I love money, and that is a different middah. The whole distinction is, you want regarding money and the other one wants regarding food.
Do you understand the distinction of my analysis? This is the analytical distinction. And I have satisfaction that you’re asking, because I think it’s usually more helpful this way, at least so, the Rambam (Maimonides) always goes with this way, also the Torah always goes with this way.
When one looks in Chumash (the Five Books of Moses), it’s all about actual things, it never gives you these nice structures, almost never.
And courage is still Chumash vayachkimu chachamim (they became wise). But I can’t those languages not want they are friend. Because one can always this way, that one can also say that it’s more practical.
Okay, you want to…
This lesson examines why character development (middos) must precede Torah learning and investigates the fundamental question of which virtues are most essential. The discussion reveals that creating a definitive list of virtues is both practically difficult and theoretically problematic, since any single virtue pursued correctly necessarily implies and requires all others—you cannot have complete kindness, humility, or truth-seeking without the full complement of other virtues. The unity of virtues means that while naming specific character traits helps us notice and cultivate them, genuine virtue exists only in the context of the whole person, not as isolated qualities that can be developed independently.
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השיעור נפתח בשאלה פרובוקטיבית: מהו הדבר החשוב ביותר בעולם? שאלה זו מנוסחת מחדש בצורה מדויקת יותר: מהי המידה הראשונה שיש ללמד ילד כדי שיהפוך למענטש?
ההנחה: ילדים נולדים ללא מידות טובות — או עם מידות רעות/לא מעוצבות — וכל מפעל החינוך היהודי (חדר) עוסק ביסודו בעיצוב אופי: להפוך למענטש.
סטייה הומוריסטית: הסיבה שיהודים לא מאמינים באבולוציה היא שאנחנו צופים בקופים זמן רב והם עדיין לא הפכו למענטשן. ההתנגדות המקובלת מתהפכת — אנשים אומרים שאבולוציה הופכת את האדם לקטן מדי, אבל למעשה היא הופכת את האדם לגדול מדי, כי היא טוענת שאפילו קוף יכול בסופו של דבר להפוך למענטש. זה מתחבר לנושא משיעורים קודמים: לאנשים יש ציפיות לא ריאליות לגבי קנה המידה הזמני של מחזורים קוסמיים וטבעיים.
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מידות טובות הן תנאי מוקדם ללימוד תורה. זה מבוסס על הרמב״ם (הלכות תלמוד תורה): תלמיד שאינו הגון אין מלמדין אותו תורה. התגובה הנכונה היא לומר לו לעשות תשובה תחילה.
נותנים את השיעור בכל מקרה. האדם עם המידות הרעות פשוט לא יבין — זו גזירת מן השמים. האמת אינה נגישה למי שאופיו לא מוכן לה. זה דומה לפסח שהוא “בליבך” — אם אתה לא באמת רוצה להבין, לא תבין.
– תלמיד שאינו הגון = מי שיש לו מידות רעות (חסרון באופי) — זה המחסום האמיתי.
– תלמיד שעשה מעשה רע = מי שעשה מעשה רע — זה פשוט יותר: פשוט תפסיק לעשות זאת.
מידות רעות גרועות יותר כי הן הופכות אדם לבלתי מסוגל לקבל אמת, ומזיק לאחרים.
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השאלה המרכזית של השיעור: מהו בעצם תכנית הלימודים של המידות שהחינוך היהודי מעניק לאדם? אילו תכונות התרבות שלנו רואה כחיוניות לסוג האדם שאנחנו מנסים ליצור?
– סבלנות — מקובל.
– אומץ — לפחות במידה מסוימת.
– קשב — אולי.
זה הופך לוויכוח מיני משמעותי:
– מחלוקת גדולה: אריסטו רואה בסקרנות מידה; אוגוסטינוס רואה בה יצר הרע.
– סקרנות היא נמוכה בסולם בבית המדרש.
– הבחנה מרכזית: סקרנות כתמיהה (מונעת יראת כבוד) לעומת סקרנות כצבירה חסרת מטרה של עובדות (ללא סדר חשיבות).
– סקרנות חסרת מטרה מבוקרת כאפשרית להיות:
1. צורה של רכילות (למשל, רוב ההיסטוריה היא רכילות).
2. צבירת עושר אינטלקטואלי — אגירת עובדות כמו כסף, ללא מטרה משנה.
3. מתכבד בקלון חברו — שימוש בידע כדי להרגיש עדיף על אחרים (למשל, לדעת שרב יונתן אייבשיץ היה לכאורה חסיד שבתי צבי, מה שגורם לך להרגיש טוב יותר ממנו).
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הטיעון מכוון למה שנחשב בבירור למידה היסודית: ענווה.
ענווה ממוסגרת כמידה אינטלקטואלית — במיוחד, פתיחות להקשיב.
– גאווה — ההיפך מענווה.
– כעס — נדון באמביוולנטיות מסוימת. הרמב״ם מתנגד לו בתוקף. הסיבה: כעס אומר שאתה איבדת את דעתך — אתה לא יכול לחשוב בבהירות.
– כבוד (תאוות כבוד) — לא כל כך נורא כשלעצמו, אלא אם כן זה מוביל לרצון שהדעה שלך תנצח על האמת. ההתנגשות הזו היא מה שהופך אותו להרסני.
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הטיעון מגיע לשיא במה שנחשב ליבת המידה האמיתית ללימוד:
– עניין באמת = התפשטות הגשמיות כפי שמתואר בספר הקדושה.
– ביטול היש: לא לרצות ש*הקבוצה שלך* תהיה צודקת — לרצות שהאמת תהיה צודקת. לא לדאוג לצד שלך, לדת שלך, לאומה שלך, או לאגו שלך — רק למה שהוא.
– זה מזוהה כמסירות נפש — מסירת עצמך למציאות.
– רוב האנשים, כולל המרצה והתלמידים, יכולים להשיג זאת רק דרך קומפרטמנטליזציה.
זה מקושר במפורש לאקסטזה אפלטונית (ekstasis) — האמת היא מחוץ לך, גדולה יותר מהרצונות, הדעות והנטיות שלך. התפשטות הגשמיות נאמרה על זה תחילה במסורת הפילוסופית.
– אנשים שמכריזים בקול רם שהם רוצים אמת הם לעתים קרובות אלה שרוצים להשתמש בה לאינטרסים שלהם.
– מחויבות אמיתית לאמת יש לה מחיר: לכל הפחות, הזמן שלך (ערבי רביעי); ברצינות רבה יותר, הרצון שלך לנוחות.
– הטענה הנפוצה שאנשים “נוחים” להאמין במה שהאמינו אתמול מאותגרת — אין שום דבר באמת נוח בזה.
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אנשים אומרים בדרך כלל שהם “נוחים” להמשיך להאמין במה שהם כבר מאמינים ולכן מתנגדים לשנות את דעתם. גישה זו נראית יותר כמו עצלות מאשר נוחות אמיתית. אפשר להיות *יותר* לא נוח בחשד שההיצמדות של האדם לאמונות קיימות *מסתירה* את האמת מאשר להחזיק באמונות האלה. אי הנוחות של הונאה עצמית פוטנציאלית עולה על הנוחות של הסטטוס קוו.
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העמדה הנפוצה של אנשים שמכריזים שהם “מחפשים אמת” (למשל, אנשים שאומרים שהרבי שלהם לא נותן להם אמת והם רוצים למצוא אותה בעצמם) מאותגרת כחוצפה: “אולי האמת לא רוצה אותך. איך אתה יודע שאתה ראוי לה? מה אתה עושה בשבילה?”
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אהבת האמת ממוסגרת מחדש: היא לא תחושה או רצון אלא תרגול — מידה אינטלקטואלית שמתחילה ומסתיימת בפעילות ממושמעת. התרגול מורכב מסוג מסוים של שיח: לעולם לא להסתפק ב״זה מה שאנחנו חייבים להאמין”, לעולם לא לוותר כי משהו קשה לחשוב עליו, תמיד לנסות למצוא דרך לדבר על קשיים.
זה נבדל מסתם הסבר של מה שמישהו אחר אמר (שזה בעל ערך אבל אינו חיפוש אמת אלא אם כן נעשה בציפייה שזה יגלה יותר מציאות).
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העיקרון האריסטוטלי המרכזי מאתיקה ניקומאכית, ספר א׳, פרק ו׳: אריסטו אומר שהוא יחלוק על אפלטון כי, ככל שאוהבים את החברים והמורים, חובת (אדיקות) הפילוסוף היא לאהוב את האמת יותר מחברים. זה מהדהד משהו שסוקרטס/אפלטון גם אמר.
הסתייגות קריטית: זה לא אומר “אל תאהב את החברים שלך.” זה אומר: תחילה אתה חייב לאהוב את החברים שלך, ואז, כפילוסוף, אתה חייב לאהוב את האמת אפילו יותר. אהבת החברים היא תנאי מוקדם, לא משהו שצריך להיזרק.
מנוסח מחדש במונחי לימוד יהודי: “אל תאהב רק את ה*חכם*; אהב את ה*חכמה* יותר מה*חכם*.”
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זה הטיעון האתי המרכזי של החלק האמצעי של השיעור:
– הטענה לאהוב אמת היא טענה מוסרית על איזה סוג אדם אתה — היא מבדילה אותך מרוב האנשים שלא אוהבים אמת בשום דרך משמעותית.
– הרבה אוהבי אמת מוצהרים מקבלים את “אהבת האמת” שלהם בחינם כי חסרות להם *מידות* טובות. הם לא באמת אוהבים את החברים שלהם, המשפחה שלהם, או הקהילה שלהם. לאדם כזה, “לאהוב אמת יותר מחברים” לא עולה כלום כי הוא מעולם לא אהב אף אחד מלכתחילה.
– אדם כזה אינו אוהב אמת אלא רק אגואיסט שלא יכול לראות מעבר לאף שלו. הוא מטעה את הקונטרריאניזם והתפקוד החברתי הלקוי שלו לאומץ פילוסופי.
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חלק מאהבת ההורים והקהילה שלך כולל קבלה — או לפחות כבוד — לדעותיהם. זה מרכיב של אהבה בנית ונאמנות חברתית.
מודרניות וחברות ליברליות פגעו בהבנה זו של נאמנות חברתית, אבל נקודה זו במפורש לא נמשכת הלאה.
חברות כוללת מטבעה מידה של הסכמה: “אתה לא יכול להיות חבר שלי ולומר שכל מה שאתה חושב הוא שטויות.” רוב האנשים חווים אי הסכמה עם האמונות שלהם כצורה של חוסר כבוד. אפשר לתת לאנשים חום ונדיבות תוך כדי אי הסכמה איתם, אבל רוב האנשים לא יכולים להפריד בין השניים.
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לפילוסוף יש נאמנות ל“אלוהים גבוה יותר,” אמת גבוהה יותר שמתעלה על קשרים חברתיים. זה מה שמצדיק אי הסכמה פילוסופית.
אבל אפילו לזה יש גבולות: חובת הפילוסוף לא להסכים עובדת הכי טוב בין פילוסופים עמיתים. ללכת הביתה ולא להסכים עם האמא שלך אולי לא חובת הפילוסוף. אפילו לפילוסוף יש חובה מוסרית למשפחתו — להסכים איתם כלפי חוץ (או לפחות לא לתקוף את האמונות שלהם). “מה אכפת להם מה אתה חושב בליבך?” המשפחה דואגת לכבוד ולסולידריות, לא להסתייגויות פילוסופיות פנימיות.
אדם שאומר “אני *איש אמת*” ולכן נלחם עם אמו, אשתו וילדיו הוא לא איש אמת — הוא אגואיסט טהור, *שייגעץ*.
מבקרים הם לעתים קרובות אנשים נוראים לא בגלל שביקורת היא רעה, אלא בגלל שלמבקרים רבים חסרות המידות החברתיות (אהבת חברים, משפחה, קהילה) שהיו הופכות את חיפוש האמת שלהם ל*יקר* ולכן ל*משמעותי*. בלי המידות האלה, ההתנגדות שלהם היא זולה — רק התנהגות אנטי-חברתית מחופשת לפילוסופיה.
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העיקרון ממחיש עם העקידה: התורה מדגישה “*אשר אהבת*” — “אשר אהבת” — בדיוק כדי להראות שאברהם באמת אהב את יצחק.
הוראת רבי חסידי: אלוהים עצמו מעיד שאברהם אוהב את יצחק. אם אברהם לא היה אוהב את יצחק, הקרבן לא היה הישג גדול. זה בדיוק *בגלל* שהוא אוהב את יצחק שהנכונות להקריב אותו היא משמעותית. זה מקביל לטיעון על אמת: לאהוב אמת יותר מהחברים שלך משמעותי רק אם אתה באמת אוהב את החברים שלך תחילה.
במדרש, כשאלוהים אומר “בנך,” אברהם שואל “איזה? גם ישמעאל?” — מראה שאהבתו משתרעת על שני הבנים.
החובות הלבבות מצוטט לעיקרון: בכל פעם שמישהו אומר “אני אוהב את שניהם באופן שווה,” אתה יודע שהוא משקר. עם זאת, ההלכה היא שאסור לגלות (*מודה*) איזה ילד אוהבים יותר — *לעולם יהא אדם מודה על האמת* מיושם כאן בצורה מנואנסת. כנות לגבי העדפות פנימיות קיימת, אבל נדרשת שיקול דעת.
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הדימוי הפופולרי של אברהם כילד ששבר את אלילי אביו מבוקר. גם אם הסיפור הזה קרה, זה לא בהכרח היה *לשמה*. אברהם לא היה “מותר” לעשות את זה — זה לא היה המעשה המופתי שאנשים מדמיינים. הסיבה האמיתית שאנחנו חוזרים לאברהם היא בדיוק בגלל שאהבת האמת שלו הייתה אמיתית ומושרשת עמוקות באופיו, לא פרפורמטיבית.
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הבחנה פילוסופית מרכזית:
– מחשבה היא משהו שאתה עושה — תהליך אקטיבי של חשיבה ברגע הנוכחי.
– דעה היא משהו שאתה יש לך — עמדה מאוחסנת, מעוצבת מראש.
כשמישהו שואל “מה אתה חושב על זה?”, רוב האנשים משמיעים “הקלטה” של מסקנות עבר במקום לעסוק בחשיבה טרייה. חשיבה אמיתית דורשת *ישוב הדעת* ופתיחות — ה״סט והסטינג” הנכון. רוב מה שאנשים מביעים אינם אפילו מחשבות אלא זיקוקים של מחשבות עבר או דברים שאחרים אמרו להם. מעורבות אינטלקטואלית אמיתית (חשיבה) היא נדירה ודורשת מאמץ מכוון.
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אהבת האמת היא *מידה* אחת. אבל מהן שאר המידות החיוניות שאדם צריך? זה משיק את החקירה העיקרית של המחצית השנייה של השיעור.
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תמיהה אמיתית: למה לא קיימת רשימה פשוטה וידועה של המידות האנושיות החיוניות — אנלוגית ל*עשרת הדברות*? כשמישהו מת, ה*מספיד* עובר על רשימת מידות כדי למצוא אילו מהן המת הדגים — אבל מהי באמת הרשימה הזו? אף אחד לא יכול להציג אחת בקלות.
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הכיתה נלחצת לנקוב בשלוש המידות העליונות — לא מידות אינטלקטואליות, אלא המידות המוסריות היסודיות שצריך לפני להתקרב לחכמה. הרציונל: אם אתה לא אדם טוב תחילה, המידות האינטלקטואליות שלך כביכול יהיו מזויפות.
– אומץ — מוכר אבל מוסט במהירות. “למה? הצדק את זה.”
– יושר — הוזכר.
– ענווה — הוזכרה.
– נדיבות/חסד — הוזכרו.
– פרישות/מתינות — הוצע כמידה ישיבתית מרכזית.
– עקביות — הוצעה.
– זריזות — הועלתה אבל התלמיד לא יכול להגדיר אותה בבירור.
אילו מידות ישיבות באמת מדגישות? הכיתה מתקשה לענות. זה עצמו מדהים ומעיד — אנשים עוברים שנים של חינוך ישיבתי בלי רשימה ברורה וניתנת לניסוח של מידות ליבה.
לעולם ה*שידוכים* יש שלושה קריטריונים סמויים משלו: (1) האם הוא לומד טוב? (2) האם יש לו *מידות טובות*? (3) האם יש לו כסף? זה מוצג בצורה הומוריסטית במקצת אבל גם ביקורתית.
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כשאנשים אומרים *מידות טובות*, מה הם באמת מתכוונים?
– מתינות (*לא מפונק יתר על המידה*) — מזוהה כמשמעות עיקרית. זו המידה הראשונה שמוצמדת.
– חסד — הוצע, אבל מאותגר. מה “חסד” באמת אומר? האם זה אותו דבר כמו להיות מועיל? ההבחנה חשובה: חסד הוא מעורפל ו״יכול להיות מחובר לכל דבר,” בעוד להיות מועיל (*עזוב תעזוב עמו* — החובה לעזור כשאתה רואה חסרון שאתה יכול למלא) הוא יותר קונקרטי ומכוון פעולה.
– ענווה — גם הוזכרה.
השאלה המרכזית, שעדיין פתוחה, ממוסגרת: איפה הרשימה הזו של מידות חיוניות? מה קורה עם העובדה שהיא לא נראית קיימת בצורה ברורה? להפוך לאדם טוב דורש את כל התכונות האלה, אבל המסורת (או לפחות החינוך הנפוץ) לא העבירה מסגרת ברורה וניתנת לשינון — וזו בעיה רצינית ששווה לחקור.
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הצעות נוספות מהכיתה:
– תקווה
– חיוביות
– התמדה — מסומנת כ״חשובה יותר
מכמעט כל דבר”
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אם קורא את הטקסטים הרלוונטיים (שמונה פרקים, הלכות דעות), מוצאים רשימות מרובות של מידות, והן אינן עקביות זו עם זו:
– שמונה פרקים, פרק ב׳ לעומת פרק ד׳: אותה רשימה מופיעה פעמיים אבל משתנה בין שתי ההופעות — הרמב״ם כנראה “שכח את הרשימה הקודמת שלו,” מסיר פריט אחד ומוסיף אחר.
– הלכות דעות, פרק א׳: רשימה שלישית.
– הלכות דעות, פרק ב׳: מעין רשימה רביעית.
נקודה מרכזית (מסומנת “בעיא” — בעיה): הרשימות אינן עקביות. זו קושיה פילוסופית אמיתית, לא רק סקרנות טקסטואלית.
מסורות מסוימות יש להן רשימות הרבה יותר ברורות ומאורגנות — למשל, חובות הלבבות, שבמלואו מתפקד כמעין רשימה של מידות.
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למרות חוסר העקביות, שיטת התכנסות מוצעת: להסתכל על מה שממשיך להופיע על פני רשימות שונות, תשובות של אנשים שונים, והזדמנויות שונות של הרהור.
– אם סוקרים אנשים רבים, או שואלים את עצמך שוב ושוב לאורך זמן, מידות מסוימות יחזרו. הפריטים החוזרים האלה הם ככל הנראה אלה שחשובים יותר, בסיסיים יותר, מרכזיים יותר, או נחוצים יותר.
– שיקול נגדי: אפשר גם שהמידות שאתה *לא* מזכיר הן בדיוק אלה שאתה הכי צריך — כי היעדרן בלתי נראה לך.
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הבחנה בין גישות מלמטה למעלה (אמפירית) ומלמעלה למטה (רציונלית):
– להסתכל על מה שאנשים טובים עושים — לצפות בהתנהגותם ולנסות לסווג אותה ל״קופסאות קטנות” (קטגוריות של נטייה).
– להסתכל על מה שמשתבש — לצפות בכישלונות ולהבין איזה עודף או חסרון הם מייצגים.
– זה מבולגן אבל אולי השיטה הטובה ביותר הזמינה.
– להתחיל מעיקרון כללי כלשהו (למשל, “מהו אדם טוב?” או “מהם בני אדם?”) ולנסות לגזור את המידות הספציפיות מזה.
– האתגר: איך עוברים מהטענה הכללית ביותר (“אדם טוב הוא מי שטוב בלהיות אדם”) לרשימה ספציפית של מידות מסוימות?
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חילופי דברים דיאלקטיים מתמשכים חוקרים האם אפשר להסיק את המידות הספציפיות:
– יכולות להיות טכנית מידות בלתי מוגבלות — אבל לא כל דבר יכול להיות מידה. מידות הן קטגוריות של נטייה אנושית, לא תכונות שרירותיות. השאלה היא איך למנות את הקטגוריות האלה.
– *חייבים* לעשות את זה אמפירית — להתחיל עם מה שבני אדם עושים, ואז להבין איך הם יכולים לעשות את זה טוב.
– אבל האם יש דרכים אחרות?
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תלמיד מציע לארגן מידות לפי אילו מידות הן תנאי מוקדם למידות אחרות — מבנה היררכי/סולמי. זה מפורט בזהירות:
– זו באמת דרך לארגן מידות, עדיין לא למנות אותן. ההבחנה חשובה.
– ההיררכיה היא למעשה סידור של פעילויות, לא ישירות של מידות:
– הפעילות הטובה/הגבוהה ביותר היא התבוננות/חשיבה (הדבר הטוב בעצמו, לא רק אינסטרומנטלי).
– מידות של חשיבה: איך לחשוב טוב, לחשוב נכון — אלה קטגוריה אחת.
– אבל כדי לחשוב, צריך תנאים מוקדמים (למשל, קיום חומרי/כסף), אז המידה של להרוויח כסף נכון היא קודמת זמנית אבל פחות חשובה ממידה אינטלקטואלית.
תובנה מרכזית: ההיררכיה לא נוצרת על ידי מניית מידות תחילה — היא נוצרת על ידי הסתכלות על המציאות ושאילת מה נחוץ למה. המבנה הארגוני בא ממבנה הפעילות האנושית ומטרותיה, לא ממניין עצמאי של מידות.
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הסידור האריסטוטלי של טובות/מידות לפי למה הן מובילות (היררכיית המטרות) אולי *נכון*, אבל הוא לא באמת עוזר ליצור רשימה של מידות. הסיבה: דברים מסוימים טובים רק כי הם משרתים שלב מסוים, לא כי הם תורמים למטרה הסופית ישירות.
דוגמה להמחשה: כדי להיות *תלמיד חכם*, צריך כסף; כדי להתחתן, צריך *גוטע מידות*. אבל ה*מידות* שהופכות אותך לנישואין הן טובות *לנישואין*, לא ישירות טובות *ללימוד*. כל שלב יש לו מידות נדרשות משלו. אז רשימת המידות אינה רשימה של שלבים, ולא רשימה של מה שנחוץ ל*שלב הבא* — היא רשימה של מה שנחוץ *בכל שלב מסוים*.
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גישה שלישית ליצירת רשימה מלאה בנויה על ההבחנה בין מידה אינטלקטואלית ומידת אופי:
– מידות אינטלקטואליות שייכות לשכל/מוח.
– מידות אופי שייכות לנפש התאווה/הרצון.
– אפשר לחלק עוד יותר לכמה כוחות או יכולות שיש לאדם.
– אם יש לך רשימה מלאה של חלקי האדם, אתה יכול ליצור רשימה מלאה של מידות על ידי הקצאת מידות לכל חלק.
נקודה מתודולוגית מרכזית (מלמעלה למטה לעומת מלמטה למעלה): התחלה מלמעלה (קטגוריות רחבות) נותנת לך רשימה שהיא לפחות *באופן כללי* מלאה — חלוקות משנה יכולות להתווסף אבל הקטגוריות ברמה העליונה כבר כוללות הכל. התחלה מלמטה (חלוקות משנה מסוימות שנצפו) מסתכנת בחוסר שלמות כי אתה רק לוכד מה שאתה במקרה שם לב אליו.
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1. אמפירית/מלמטה למעלה: לצפות באנשים, לאסוף רשימות, לקוות ששום דבר חשוב לא יחמיץ.
2. אריסטוטלית/טלאולוגית: לסדר מידות לפי היררכיית הטובות/מטרות; לזהות אילו מידות נחוצות בכל רמה או שלב.
3. שיטת חלקי-הנפש: למנות את כל חלקי הנפש (או הגוף, או החברה), ואז לקבוע את המידות המתאימות לכל חלק. זה מניב לפחות רשימה *באופן כללי* מלאה גם אם לא כל פרט משני נלכד.
*הערה: שיטות 2 ו-3 חופפות במקצת, שכן החלק הגבוה ביותר (המוח) יכול להיות גם המטרה הסופית וגם חלק ספציפי עם מידות משלו.*
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פגם יסודי בגישה המבוססת על חלקים: יכולות להיות מידות שלא שייכות לאף חלק בודד, אלא לאדם השלם, או ליחסים בין חלקים.
– אפשר למנות את כל חלקי השולחן (רגליים, משטח, ברגים, פינות, צבע) ולציין מה הופך כל חלק לטוב (רגליים חזקות, צבע מבריק, פינות מדויקות, וכו׳).
– אבל קיום כל החלקים המצוינים לא נותן לך שולחן טוב — זה נותן לך “חבורה של חלקים” (“זה IKEA”).
– שולחן עם הרגל החזקה ביותר האפשרית אבל משטח זעיר ולא מתאים הוא “איזה מפלצת מוזרה,” לא שולחן טוב.
– העיצוב, ההתאמה ביחד, הפרופורציונליות של חלקים זה לזה — אלה תכונות של ה*שלם*, לא של אף חלק בודד.
מסקנה: “זה למעשה מאוד טיפשי רק למנות חלקים. אתה חייב לדבר על הדבר השלם.”
נמשכת אנלוגיה לנוהג ב*גימטריה* של הוספת *כולל* (הוספת אחד למילה כשלמות). *רב פינקוס* מצוטט: בדיוק כמו שמילה היא יותר מסכום ערכי האותיות שלה, דבר הוא יותר מסכום חלקיו — צריך לתת דין וחשבון לשלם.
הערה ביקורתית עצמית: נוהג ה*כולל* שנוי במחלוקת — מכיוון שמוסיפים אותו רק כשצד אחד לא תואם, זה נראה כמו “רמאות.” אם תמיד היית מוסיף אחד להכל, זה לא היה עושה הבדל. האנלוגיה מוודה כלא מושלמת אבל הנקודה הבסיסית עומדת.
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הנקודה הפילוסופית העמוקה יותר: המידה האמיתית היחידה היא של השלם, כי מידות אינן תכונות של ידיים, רגליים, או אפילו תשוקות ספציפיות — הן תכונות של אנשים. אנשים אינם ניתנים לצמצום לחלקיהם. מידות הן *של אנשים*.
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מידות שייכות לאנשים שלמים, לא ליכולות מבודדות. בדיוק כמו שבריאות של יד אומרת שהיד מתפקדת טוב *בתוך הגוף השלם*, כך גם מידה כמו חסד נחשבת למידה אמיתית רק כשהיא משולבת עם האדם השלם.
“יותר מדי חסד” אינו באמת עודף של חסד כשלעצמו — זה אומר חסד שמתנגש עם ממדים אחרים של האנושיות של האדם או עם האנושיות של אנשים אחרים. כל מידה בודדת, שנרדפת בבידוד, הופכת מעוותת.
השלכה: אם אנחנו צריכים “מידות של השלם,” אז במובן מסוים כל מידות-החלקים כפופות למידה המקיפה של להיות אדם טוב ומשולב. אפשר לטעון שצריך פשוט לוותר על מידות-החלקים לגמרי.
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אם אנחנו נוטשים מידות-חלקים ופשוט אומרים “תהיה אדם טוב,” אין לנו *מאיפה להתחיל*. אין נקודת התחלה ניתנת לבידוד להבנה או טיפוח מידה.
פתרון המתח: אפשר להתחיל עם *כל מידה בודדת* (למשל, חסד), אבל אם רודפים אחריה באופן מלא ונכון, היא *בהכרח מרמזת על כל האחרות*. חסד שלם דורש חכמה, אומץ, צדק, וכו׳ — אחרת הוא הופך מעוות. זה אנלוגי למשל השולחן: רגל נכונה היא כזו שמתאימה נכון לשולחן השלם.
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העיקרון ההוליסטי ממחיש דרך מסגרת ה*מצוות*:
הנוסח של *לשם יחוד*: הוא אומר “ותרי״ג *מצוות* הכלולות בה” — כי אי אפשר לקיים כראוי אפילו *מצווה* אחת בלי לערב אחרות.
– כדי להניח *תפילין* כראוי, צריך *גוף נקי* (טהרה גופנית ונפשית) — זו כבר *מצווה* אחרת (מחשבות נכונות).
– ה*פרשיות* בתוך ה*תפילין* מכילות תוכן שחייב להיות משמעותי למניח.
– בעיית שבת: אם האדם הזה לא שומר שבת, הוא היה מניח *תפילין* בשבת — אבל זה לא נכון, שכן *תפילין* הוא *אות* ושבת כבר *אות*, מה שהופך את זה למיותר/סותר. אז הוא חייב לשמור שבת גם כן.
– הוא גם חייב לומר *קריאת שמע*, כי הגמרא אומרת שמי שמניח *תפילין* בלי לקרוא *שמע* הוא כמו מעיד עדות שקר (ולהיפך).
– הוא חייב ללמד תורה לילדיו (כפי שנאמר בפרשיות ה*תפילין*: *ולימדתם אותם את בניכם*).
– ואם הוא מלמד תורה בלי לקיים אותה, הוא שקרן — אז הוא חייב לשמור את כל התורה.
– מסקנה: *מצווה* אחת, שנעשית נכון ובשלמות, מייצרת את החיוב של כל האחרות.
הרוגצ׳ובר צדק שאסור לצמצם את ההפיכה ליהודי ל״הנח *תפילין*” — אבל האמת העמוקה יותר היא שהנחת *תפילין* באופן מלא *כן* אומרת כל השאר. חצי-*תפילין* אינם *תפילין* אמיתיים.
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כל *מידה* עובדת באותה דרך: אתה לא צריך למנות את כולן, כי עשיית כל אחת נכון כבר מרמזת על כל השאר. אבל אם אתה דוחף *מידה* אחת לקיצוניות בלי לדאוג לאחרות, אתה הופך קיצוני ונכשל אפילו באותה אחת.
– מהי ענווה? הענווה שנדונה קודם הייתה מידה *אינטלקטואלית* (פתיחות, הכרה שאתה עלול לטעות).
– איך ענווה אינטלקטואלית מתחברת לנפש התאווה (הממד התאווני/רגשי)? היא כן מתחברת, אבל דורשת עוד כמה שלבים להראות.
– בעיית ענווה מוגזמת: “אולי מישהו אחר צודק” שנלקח לקיצוניות הופך: “אני אף פעם לא יודע כלום.” זו לא ענווה — זה להיות *שמטה*, חלש נפשית במקום פתוח נפשית.
– אדם כזה נותן לאחרים לגנוב ממנו ומחבריו כי הוא “לא יודע מי צודק.”
– חיים וכל ה*מידות* תלויים בידיעה; אי אפשר לתפקד בלי ידיעה בטוחה כלשהי.
– ענווה דורשת מידה נגדית: משהו כמו אומץ או *עזות*. הכמות הנכונה של ענווה דורשת גם את התכונה ההפוכה במידה נכונה.
– איך יודעים את הכמות הנכונה? צריך ללמוד *חושן משפט* — כפי שנדון ב*שיעור* קודם מה*חזון איש* — כדי לדעת מי באמת צודק במחלוקות.
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התובנה ההוליסטית הזו היא נקודה אמיתית — כל מידה מרמזת על כל האחרות; אי אפשר לבודד אחת בלי השאר. אבל זו לא תשובה מלאה לשאלה היסודית.
– אף אחד לא יכול לתת רשימה סופית של ה*מידות* הטובות והרעות.
– אפילו לפי *שיטות* ספציפיות (למשל, ברסלב, שמדגישה *אמונת חכמים* ו*תמימות*): תגיד לי את הרשימה האמיתית!
– התנגדות המשנה: מישהו עלול לומר “למשנה יש רשימה.” זה נדחה כהתחמקות (*דרייינג מיר א קאפ*): לומר “יש משנה” לא עוזר אם האדם לא יכול למעשה לנסח מהי הרשימה והאם כל פריט באמת טוב או רע בכל הנסיבות. “דע את המשנה” אינו אותו דבר כמו רשימה ברורה וניתנת לשימוש.
– התסכול נשאר: הנקודה ההוליסטית מסבירה *למה* רשימות אינן מספיקות (כי כל מידה תלויה בהקשר ומחוברת), אבל היא לא פותרת את הצורך המעשי בהדרכה על מה המידות באמת הן.
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כשנשאלים לנקוב במידות החשובות ביותר, תלמידי ישיבה מצטטים מקורות — במיוחד את המשנה והמסילת ישרים והסולם המפורסם:
> זהירות, זריזות, נקיות, פרישות, טהרה, חסידות, ענווה, יראת חטא, קדושה
זה לא באמת עונה על השאלה. השאלה הייתה: *מי הוא האדם הטוב? מהי התמונה שלך של בחור טוב?* תגובה עם ציטוט מגלה שה״מידה” המוערכת ביותר בתרבות הישיבה היא היכולת לצטט משנה — שזו עצמה מעין מידה, אבל לא עיסוק מהותי בשאלה. ציטוט במקום חשיבה הוא “לא מעניין.”
אפילו המסילת ישרים עצמו הוא *חקירה* במה המונחים האלה אומרים — אף אחד לא באמת יודע את התוכן שלהם רק מהרשימה. הרשימה לבדה לא מעבירה מידע אמיתי.
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הבעיה משתרעת מעבר לתלמידי ישיבה:
– לרמב״ם אין באמת רשימה קבועה.
– לאריסטו אין רשימה קבועה — הוא משנה אותה בין ספרים ופרקים. זה בגלל שאריסטו הוא הוגה “מלמטה למעלה” שסוקר מידות בולטות אמפירית במקום לגזור אותן ממערכת.
– לאפלטון יש רשימות — “רשימות נכונות, כי הוא בחור מלמעלה למטה.”
חוסר היכולת הזה לייצר רשימה סופית מתואר כמעצבן באמת (*קשה*).
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הפתרון (*תירוץ*) למעצבנות הזו הוא דוקטרינת אחדות המידות:
– אתה לא באמת צריך רשימה נכונה ומלאה.
– רשימה מלאה אולי חשובה ל*לימוד התורה* (לימוד תורה כתרגיל אינטלקטואלי), אבל לא להפיכה לאדם טוב.
– כל רשימה סבירה של מידות בולטות שאתה צופה באנשים שאתה מעריץ תכלול באופן סמוי את כל המידות — כי אם לא, אתה מתאר אדם רע או לא מאוזן (“משוגע”).
– כשאדם צדיק מפורסם במידה מסוימת אחת, זה בדרך כלל אומר שהם הגזימו את המידה הזו — וזו למעשה הייתה **החולש
ה** שלהם, נקודת חוסר האיזון שלהם.
– דוגמה: “הוא היה כזה מסמיד — בקיצור, הוא אף פעם לא עזר לאשתו.”
– שבח של מידה בודדת במישהו לעתים קרובות מסמן את העיוות שלה במקום את השלמות שלה.
– האדם הטוב באמת — זה שעליו אנשים אומרים בהלוויה “לא היה בו שום דבר מיוחד, הוא פשוט היה בחור טוב” — הוא זה שיש לו את כל המידות במידה נכונה, אז אף אחת לא בולטת.
– אפילו להיות מורד חייב להיעשות בכמות הנכונה, לצד להיות קונפורמיסט בכמות הנכונה.
– האדם שעושה את שניהם נכון נתפס פשוט כ״בחור טוב” — אף אחד לא שם לב למרד או לקונפורמיות.
קושיא ידועה על דמות הידועה במיוחד במידת *אמת* מועלית. היא ממחישה את הנקודה הכללית: רוב האנשים אינם שלמים או מאוזנים.
תלמיד מציע ש״מידה ספציפית” של אדם אולי לא אומרת המידה היחידה שלו אלא נקודת הכניסה שלו — הדרך שלו לגשת לכל המידות האחרות. זה מתקבל כאפשרי: אם לוקחים כל מידה בודדת ברצינות ולא משתמשים בה כרישיון להזניח כל השאר, היא יכולה להוביל אותך לכל הדברים הטובים. סיפור התפילין מוזכר — התחייבות לעולם לא לשקר אילצה מישהו להפוך ליהודי שלם.
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תלמיד שואל האם מתכון האיזון של הרמב״ם אומר שהרגלה לאיזון במידה אחת גורמת לכל השאר ליפול למקומו.
1. שכלול מידה אחת דורש ידיעה של כל השאר — אי אפשר לשכלל *ענווה* בלי לדעת איך לשפוט מצבים נכון, מה שכולל את כל התחומים האחרים של החיים.
2. כישורים בדרך כלל לא עוברים טוב בין תחומים — להיות מעולה בגמרא לא הופך אותך למעולה במדע או בעבודה; אינטואיציות הן ספציפיות לתחום.
3. אותו דבר כנראה חל על מידות: שיפוט מוסרי הוא ספציפי לתחום ולא עובר אוטומטית.
יש אי הסכמה אישית עם עמדת “אחדות המידות” שהוצגה זה עתה:
– ככל שהרשימה שלך של מידות בעלות שם ארוכה יותר, כך יותר טוב — כי מתן שמות לדברים הוא אחת הדרכים שבהן אנחנו שמים לב איך צריך לפעול.
– צריך מילים כמו *ענו* (ענוו) ו*עז* (עז) כדי לזהות מה אתה עושה ברגע — “זה מאוד קשה להבין את זה בלי שיש לך מילה לזה.”
– עם זאת, רשימה ארוכה לא פותרת את הבעיה של איזו מידה ליישם מתי.
– ואי אפשר פשוט לומר “תהיה אדם טוב ותבין את זה” — צריך אוצר מילים ספציפי.
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מושג האיזון של הרמב״ם לא אומר להיות “מתון” במובן הפוליטי — “המתון שאף אחד אף פעם לא פגש.” זה אומר להיות הכמות הנכונה בכל מצב, שזה תקן הרבה יותר קשה ופחות פורמולרי.
האם מציאת “הכמות הנכונה” היא עצמה כישור ניתן להעברה נשאר שאלה פתוחה. החשד הוא שזה לא ניתן להעברה בקלות, אם כי אולי יש העברה מסוימת — במיוחד בהקשר של ה*פרישה* ושלבי התפתחות המידות — אבל זה נדחה לדיון עתידי.
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– אחדות המידות מציעה שאתה לא צריך רשימה כי כל המידות מחוברות וכל מידה אמיתית מרמזת על כל האחרות.
– אבל מעשית, מתן שמות והבחנה בין מידות חשובים מאוד למודעות עצמית מוסרית.
– האדם בעל המידות באמת יש לו את כל המידות באיזון, וזו הסיבה שהם נראים לא יוצאי דופן — “פשוט בחור טוב” — בעוד האדם המפורסם במידה אחת הוא כנראה לא מאוזן.
– האם שיפוט מוסרי ואיזון הם כישורים ניתנים להעברה בין תחומים נשאר שאלה פתוחה וחשובה.
– אהבת האמת — המידה שהשיקה את כל החקירה — היא עצמה משמעותית רק כשהיא עולה במשהו: כשהיא דורשת עקיפה של אהבה אמיתית של חברים, משפחה וקהילה. אלה שטוענים לאהוב אמת אבל חסרים להם הקשרים והמידות החברתיות האלה אינם מחפשי אמת אלא אגואיסטים.
המרצה: כן, זה הדף. אוקיי, הדף הוא כזה. מה הדבר החשוב ביותר בעולם? זו שאלה מוזרה. אוקיי, מהי המידה הראשונה שצריך להיות לך כדי להיות מנטש [אדם של יושרה וכבוד]?
כשיש לך ילד קטן וכולם יודעים שבנים נולדים בלי שום מידות או רק עם מידות רעות או עם מידות לא מעוצבות – תלוי באיזו מסגור אתה מעדיף – ואז אנחנו הולכים לחדר ומתחילים ללמד אותך איך להיות מנטש, נכון? אני רוצה שתהיה מנטש, נכון?
היום אמרתי למישהו שאני חושב שהסיבה שהיהודים לא מאמינים באבולוציה היא כי אנחנו צופים בקופים כל כך הרבה זמן – יכולתי להזכיר את אותם שדים של הקופים – והם עדיין לא הפכו למנטשן. זה נראה לא סביר.
אבולוציוניסטים באמת מאמינים בשיבה [כנראה: בשינוי על פני תקופות זמן עצומות], כאילו אתה יכול להיות קוף במשך מליון שנים ואז אתה מדבר עם אדם. אני לא יודע. זה נשמע לא סביר. זה לא נשמע ריאליסטי. הקופים שאני מכיר – קוף נוילד, קוף אומלס – לא קורה. הם לא הופכים למנטש, לעולם לא.
אבל האירי שזה יותר במידנהם [התייחסות לא ברורה], הוא חושב שאתה יכול להפוך לקוף אחרי מליון שנים, אתה יכול להפוך למנטש. אבל בכל מקרה, לא רק היהודים לא מאמינים בזה בגלל זה, הם טוענים שהם לא מאמינים במהפכה [אבולוציה] כי זה עושה את בני האדם קטנים מדי. זה ההיפך – זה עושה את בני האדם גדולים מדי. זה אומר שאפילו אם אתה קוף אתה יכול להפוך למנטש אחרי כמות מסוימת של שנים. זה צעד הבא מאוד ברור.
אבל אני מניח שאנשים רוצים שהכל יקרה מהר מאוד. זה חוזר לשיעורים הקודמים שלנו – איך לאנשים יש ציפיות לא ריאליסטיות על המחזורים של היקום.
המרצה: בכל מקרה, זה לא השמועה שלנו [הנושא]. אנחנו חוזרים לנקודה. הנקודה שלנו היא: מהי המידה הראשונה? אנחנו מלמדים ילד דבר ראשון זה שצריך להיות לך מידות טובות. אם אין לך מידות טובות, אנחנו לא מלמדים אותך כלום.
זה שיעור אחר, נכון? למה אנחנו לא מלמדים אותך כלום אם יש לך מידות רעות? למה אנחנו לא מלמדים אותך כלום אם יש לך מידות רעות? אנחנו לא מלמדים הרבה תורה.
כתוב ברמב״ם, מישהו בא לשיעור שלי ואני רואה שיש תלמיד [תלמיד שאינו ראוי], מה אני עושה? אני מחכה. אתה צריך להגיד לו שצריך לעשות את שני הפרקים הראשונים של תשובה ואז אתה יכול לבוא לשיעור.
ומה אנחנו עושים אם יש מישהו כזה והוא בא לשיעור בכל זאת? אתה לא יודע מה אנחנו עושים? זה מבחן על כל השיעורים הקודמים שלי.
אוקיי. התשובה היא שאנחנו אומרים את השיעור בכל זאת. והבחור שיש לו מידות רעות לא הולך להבין את השיעור. זה גזירה. זה שמירת פסח. שמירת פסח היא בלב שלך. אם אתה לא רוצה להבין, אתה לא מבין.
או אם לא אכפת לך מספיק – זו גם החוויה שלי – אתה יכול להמציא שיעור שלם אחר שהוא חושב שאמרתי. אבל אז לא ברור כמה זה אשמתי, או אולי זה קצת, אבל זו לא הבעיה שלי.
אז זו הנקודה: צריך להיות לך מידות טובות. אז מהן המידות שאנחנו אומרים לך להשיג? אם הוא בא ואומר מה עשיתי לא בסדר, אתה אומר, “ובכן, אכלת חסר [עשית משהו לא בסדר].” זו לא הנקודה, נכון?
אז מה זה? איזה סוג של בעיה יכולה להיות? מידות רעות – אלו הבעיות. זה רק כמה, לא כמה, הוא הפסיק לעשות את זה, או שהוא לא עשה את זה. ובכן, שעין שלח [לא ברור: אולי “מי שעשה מעשה רע”] אומר שיש לו מידות רעות, נכון?
מישהו שיש לו מידות רעות:
– אסור להראות לו את האמת
– גם לא יכול להראות לו את האמת
– וגם גורם נזק לכולם
יש הרבה דברים רעים בזה.
המרצה: אז השאלה שלי, השאלה המעניינת שלי היא: מהי הרשימה של מידות רעות שיש לנו, או מידות טובות, שהן ההיפך מהרעות, שאנחנו אומרים לך שאנחנו מוסרים לך – בוא לבוא לבית המדרש שלנו, בוא לתרבות שלנו, נכון? אנחנו מחנכים אותך. מה החינוך שלנו? מהי הרשימה של מידות שצריך להיות לך? שאלה חשובה מאוד, נכון?
אתה יודע מה הייתה הרשימה?
תלמיד: סבלנות.
המרצה: סבלנות. אוקיי.
תלמיד: אומץ.
המרצה: אומץ, לפחות כמות מסוימת. אוקיי.
תלמיד: קשב.
המרצה: קשב, אם זו מידה. מידות הן מה שאנחנו – זה ההיפך, נכון? הדברים, התכונות שאנחנו חושבים שהן חשובות לכל סוג של אדם שאנחנו מנסים ליצור. אלו המידות, נכון?
תלמיד: כמו לאהוב את האמת יותר מהדעה שלך.
המרצה: אה, אלו מהשיעור שלי. אוקיי, זה מה ששאלנו.
תלמיד: לא, כן, אני מניח שאני צריך להתחיל איפשהו, אחי.
המרצה: ובשביל להיות בחור טוב בחברה, מהן המידות?
תלמיד: האם סקרנות – האם סקרנות היא מידה?
המרצה: כן, זה קצת יותר מדי. לוקאס, זה ציטוט של מי ומי – כמו אריסטו ואוגוסטינוס או משהו כזה. אוגוסטינוס אומר שסקרנות היא התשובה לאיך להתמודד עם היצר הרע, ואריסטו נראה שחושב שסקרנות היא התשובה לאיך להתמודד עם המידות.
אז זו שאלה טובה מאוד: איזה סוג של חברה אתה אוהב? האם אנחנו מחזיקים בסקרנות בבית המדרש שלנו? אני לא חושב כך. נמוך בסולם. תלוי במה אתה מתכוון בסקרנות.
תלמיד: דבר מספר אחד. למה אתה מתכוון בסקרנות?
המרצה: לא עד כמה שעשיתי את זה. סקרנות במובן שאתה רוצה לדעת את האמת או סקרנות – תמיהה. אתה לא צריך לדעת דבר אקראי. אתה ואני שומעים על איזה אדם סקרן, אני חושב על כמו, “הייתי סקרן כמה רגליים יש לזחל.” נכון.
תלמיד: אוקיי. בתמיהה. הייתי סקרן. אתה יודע, מה למטה? כמו, אוקיי.
המרצה: הסקרנות בשבילי היא חיפוש אחר חיפוש אחר דברים שאין להם ארגון בסדר של [אין סדר חשיבות].
תלמיד: לא, אבל אני חושב שדיברת על זה פעם. הוא מדבר על משהו אחר.
המרצה: נכון. אתה מדבר על שני דברים שונים.
תלמיד: כן. דיברת על זה פעם. כן. אבל דיברת על זה פעם בשיעור. כמו שזה נקרא סקרנות.
המרצה: נכון. זה משהו כמו – אני חושב שזה או צורה של רכילות, אני לא יודע איך אומרים רכילות, רכילות, כמו לאהוב רכילות. כמו רוב ספרי היסטוריה הם רכילות, בשבילי, ואני אוהב את זה. זו הסיבה שאני קורא אותם, כי כולם, בני אדם אוהבים רכילות. אבל זה מה שזה מסתכם בו.
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תלמיד: מה עם לתעדף דברים מפתיעים?
המרצה: זה לא משהו שהולך להשפיע על השינוי באופי שלך.
תלמיד: כן, בדיוק.
המרצה: או שזה מצב של מתכבד בקלון חבירו. זה הכל עליך לדעת שאתה בחור חכם. אתה יודע את העסק ואת הפעולה [הסיפור] כמו גם את הפרק של הצביניק [חסיד שבתאי צבי], אבל אתה לא. אתה טוב יותר ממנו. אתה לא. אז זה חל עליך, אוקיי? אז אתה תהיה טוב יותר ממנו.
בכל מקרה.
המרצה: כן, אז זה אחד. אוקיי, אבל מהן המידות היותר בסיסיות? אנחנו מתחילים עם בחורים, אין מידות שהן הכרחיות להתקדמות אינטלקטואלית, כי אנחנו כביכול מנסים לעשות את זה. אבל כשאתה מלמד את הילדים שלך, מה אנחנו מלמדים אותם?
תלמיד: אני חושב שאנחנו לא יכולים לקפוץ, אני חושב שגם אנחנו לא יכולים לקפוץ.
המרצה: תודה רבה. אתה יודע שאני מנסה להגיע לשם, אבל אני מחפש דרך להגיע לשם. אתה מרמה. אתה כמו הצ׳אט שיודע מה אני רוצה להגיד.
תלמיד: ענוה?
המרצה: למידה אינטלקטואלית? בשבילנו, כן. סוג של ענוה, שאומרת פתיחות להקשיב.
מהם הדברים הגרועים ביותר?
תלמיד: אה, כעס.
המרצה: כעס?
תלמיד: כן, כעס.
המרצה: למה? אני לא יודע למה הייתי כל כך נגד כעס, בכנות.
תלמיד: מה האל שאתה כועס עליו?
המרצה: אה, כי אני חושב שזה כאילו איבדת את השכל, אז.
תלמיד: כן, בדיוק.
המרצה: לא, אני לא מדבר על זה. זה לא אומר כעס על המשנה ההיא.
תלמיד: מה אני יכול להתכוון לפחות הרמב״ם אמר –
המרצה: לא, הרמב״ם אומר שזה נגד כעס, זה נכון. אבל אני לא יודע אם יש את זה –
תלמיד: כן, שום דבר לא מכוסה.
המרצה: כן, מה זה אומר כמו – כמו חלק מהאלה, נכון? אני מניח שזה אותו דבר. אני לא רואה שזה דבר כל כך רע בכנות.
תלמיד: אוקיי, עכשיו אנחנו הולכים לדעות שלי.
המרצה: אה, כי אז זה היה אז היה מתנגש ברצון –
תלמיד: אוקיי, אוקיי, על האמת.
המרצה: אוקיי, זה מה שהוא אמר.
תלמיד: כן, נדיבות.
המרצה: רק כדי להיות ברור, אבל זה דבר אחד. זה דבר אחד מאוד חשוב. כל הלימוד, לימוד אומר שיש לך עניין באמת, שבעצם אומר במיוחד גשמיות אומר, נכון? כלומר, כתוב בספר הקדושה שזה מה שזה אומר, נכון?
ובכן, זה אחד הדברים שזה אומר. זה כמו, כן, זה היה קצת כמו, כן, אבל אני לא רוצה להיות צודק. אני רוצה שהאמת תהיה צודקת, נכון?
פשוט להיות מעוניין באינטלקט אומר לא לדאוג לעצמך או למפלגה שלך או לדת שלך או לאומה שלך או לכל דבר – רק לאמת, למה שקיים. זה אומר שאתה מסור, אתה נותן את עצמך למה שקיים. ואז זה מסירות נפש.
רוב האנשים לא באמת מוכנים לזה, אפילו אנחנו. אנחנו רק מצליחים לחיות על ידי חלוקה למדורים. זה מה שאתה מדבר עליו, במיוחד הפשטת הגשמיות והכתובים.
תלמיד: לא, כן, אולי במובן מסוים ראשון. אני לא יודע.
המרצה: אנחנו קופצים כאן כי אנחנו מנסים להתמודד.
תלמיד: זה היגיון אחד.
המרצה: כן, זה בהחלט נקודה אחת. אז אני אמור – עכשיו אני הולך לעשות את כל הצ׳אט הזה צ׳אט של אפלטון, כמו אקסטזיס [יציאה מעצמך], שאומר נאמר על זה ראשון.
האמת היא מחוץ לך, נכון? היא גדולה יותר מהרצונות שלך – אתה במובן של לא במובן של היכולת שלך לתפוס את האמת, אבל במובן של הרצונות שלך והדעות שלך, ההטיות שלך, כל מיני הדברים האלה – ורצון לדעת את האמת.
כשמישהו אומר, אתה יודע, כשמישהו בא ואומר, “אני רוצה לדעת את האמת,” מי יהיה להם את הרצון לדעת את האמת? אוי אלוהים, אתה רוצה לדעת את האמת? אלו הם אלה שרוצים להשתמש בזה למשהו, לאינטרסים שלהם.
תלמיד: כן, אני מניח.
המרצה: מי רוצה לדעת את האמת? כמה אתה רוצה לשלם על זה? מה אתה משלם בערבי רביעי? אה, דברים ראשונים. קודם כל אתה צריך לבוא כל רביעי ולוותר על הזמן שלך.
אבל ברצינות יותר, אתה צריך לוותר על הרצון שלך לנוחות. אנשים מסיבה כלשהי טוענים שהם נוחים ומאמינים בדברים שאין לנו מושג מה כל כך נוח בזה, אבל –
המרצה: שמעת אנשים אומרים את זה? “נוח לי להאמין במה שהאמנתי אתמול, אז אני לא רוצה לשנות את דעתי.” שמעת אנשים אומרים את זה?
תלמיד: כן.
המרצה: זה בטוח סוג של כן. גם לי אין מה כל כך נוח בזה. זה כמו, זה פשוט, זה עצלות, אני מניח, אבל כמו נוחות, אני לא יודע. לי יותר נוח לגלות כמו איך הדברים באמת, אני לא יודע. מה לא בסדר בזה? בעיקר אני לא יודע, אבל אוקיי. אני לא יודע אם אתה צריך להיות יותר נוח בזה. אתה בסדר להיות לא נוח כל עוד האמת הולכת לבוא יחד עם זה.
תלמיד: כן, אני לא יודע. זה בסדר.
המרצה: או שיותר לא נוח לך לא לדעת את האמת מאשר להאמין במה שאמרת אתמול. זה לא נוח. אז אתה מעמיד פנים שאתה יודע את האמת, אבל זה לא…
תלמיד: לא, כלומר…
המרצה: בשבילי, גם נוח להמשיך להאמין במה שאני כבר מאמין, אבל אפילו יותר לא נוח להאמין שהמסירות שלי לזה מסתירה ממני את האמת.
תלמיד: אוקיי.
המרצה: אני פשוט חווה אי נוחות גדולה.
תלמיד: כן, זה פשוט משחק מילים עכשיו.
המרצה: אני לא יודע, אתה מכיר אנשים שמסתובבים ואומרים שהם מחפשים את האמת? הרבי לא נותן להם את האמת, הם רוצים לדעת את האמת, זה הדבר שלך? אנשים אומרים דברים כאלה?
נראה לי שזה מאוד, איך קוראים לזה? זה מאוד חצוף להגיד שאתה רוצה את האמת. ראשית, אולי האמת לא רוצה אותך. איך אתה יודע שאתה ראוי לה? מה אתה עושה בשבילה? איך האמת תרצה אותך? אתה רוצה את האמת? אתה רוצה?
אבל אתה רואה, זה עכשיו אני מדבר על זה כאילו זו כמו מידה, כאילו זה כמו רצון. זה לא באמת רצון. זה תרגול, נכון? יש תרגול לזה. כמו שאנחנו אומרים, הכל, אפילו טקסים אינטלקטואליים מתחילים ומסתיימים עם תרגול, נכון? יש תרגול.
התרגול של חיפוש אמת הוא סוג כזה של שיח, סוג כזה של דיון שבו אנחנו אף פעם לא אומרים, “אה, ובכן, זה מה שאנחנו צריכים להאמין.” או שאנחנו אף פעם לא אומרים, כמו, “זה נראה קשה מדי לחשוב עליו.” אוקיי, אם זה קשה לחשוב עליו, אז אנחנו תקועים. בואו ננסה למצוא דרך לחשוב על זה או לדבר על זה. אבל זה תרגול, נכון? זה לא, אני צריך להגיד ככה? לא אומר כמו שאתה לא רוצה את זה – מה אתה עושה? אתה מתרגל את החיפוש של אמת או מתרגל את ההסבר של מה שמישהו אחר אמר, שזה דבר נחמד לעשות, אבל זה לא חיפוש אמת אלא אם כן אתה עושה את זה כי אתה חושב שזה הולך לחשוף יותר מציאות לך. אוקיי, זה בכל מקרה זו מידה אחת, מידה מאוד חשובה.
אבל אהבת אמת – אהבת האמת יותר מעצמך, אהבת האמת יותר מהמורים שלך, יותר מהחברים שלך, נכון? זוכר? אם אתה לא אוהב את החבר שלך, אתה רואה? עכשיו אתה מבין סיבה אחת למה הרבה מהמבקרים הם האנשים הגרועים ביותר. אתה מבין למה? יש סיבה אחת, לפעמים. לא בכל המקרים, אבל יש סיבה למה. למה מבקרים הם האנשים הגרועים ביותר?
כי זוכר אריסטו אמר בתחילת האתיקה, בספר 1, פרק 6, שאנחנו הולכים לא להסכים עם אפלטון, למרות שזה כמו טיפוס במעלה הגבעה לא להסכים איתו. למה? כי ככל שאנחנו אוהבים את החברים שלנו, את המורים שלנו – הוא קורא לכולם חברים, סוגים של אהבה. פיליה [φιλία: מונח יווני לידידות/אהבה], אתה חייב לאהוב – זו החובה או החסידות של פילוסופים לאהוב את האמת יותר מהחברים שלהם.
זה משהו שאפלטון אמר גם, או סוקרטס אמר, אומר את זה על הדבר הזה. מה שזה אומר הוא קודם כל אתה צריך לאהוב את החברים שלך ואז אתה – אתה אוהב את החבר שלך. אם אתה פילוסוף, אם אתה איזה אדם, אז אתה כנראה צריך פשוט לאהוב את החבר שלך. אתה אפילו לא יודע מה אומר לאהוב אמת. אבל אם אתה פילוסוף, אומר שיש לך אהבה לחכמה, יש לך אהבה לאמת, אז החובה שלך, אולי כולל החובה שלך לחברים שלך, היא לאהוב את זה יותר.
אז אל תגיד שאנחנו הולכים להגן על הדעה הזו כי זו דעה של החברים שלנו אם זה לא הגיוני לנו, אם אתה לא מבין את זה. אנחנו הולכים לתקוף את זה, אנחנו הולכים להכחיש את זה.
תלמיד: אולי רק פילוסופים צריכים לאהוב את החברים שלהם?
המרצה: לא, כולם אמורים לאהוב את החברים שלהם.
תלמיד: למה ככה עצה שזה חלק מאין חבר אחד?
המרצה: לא, לא, זה – יש סוג כזה של אהבה. כמובן שהפילוסופים אוהבים להגיד שהם היחידים שבאמת אוהבים את החברים שלהם, אבל כולם צריכים לאהוב את החברים שלהם. ופילוסופים צריכים לאהוב גם את האמת יותר מהחברים שלהם – לא לא לאהוב את החברים שלהם. אמרתי שזה לא נובע, זה לא נובע.
כלומר, אל תאהב רק את החכם, אהב את החכמה יותר מהחכם. זה בעצם איך שהייתי אומר מה שהוא אומר.
תלמיד: אבל אם החברים לא חכמים, אז אין המשכיות.
מרצה: מה זה אומר לאהוב את החברים שלך? אל תאהב אותם כמו את אשתך, אהוב אותם כמו שאתה אוהב את האמת, כמו עם שייכות. נכון?
תלמיד: לא, יש שנאים על עשק, אבל רגע, יש שנאים על עשק, לא?
מרצה: לשם הייתי הולך, נכון?
יש הרבה אנשים שמתהפכים, שטוענים שהם אוהבים את האמת והם אומרים שזה קל להם לאהוב את האמת. הם לא מבינים שלטעון שאתה אוהב את האמת זה לטעון משהו על הערך המוסרי שלך ועל איזה סוג אדם אתה. אתה מייחד את עצמך כאדם מרוב האנשים האחרים שלא אוהבים את האמת בשום דרך משמעותית.
והאנשים האלה אומרים, “מה אתה מתכוון? אבל הבחור הזה זה כל החברה שלי. כולם חיים בשקר. כולם מאמינים בכל מיני שטויות. ואני הראשון או האחרון שגילה את זה. ולכן אני הולך, אני לא יודע, לכתוב בלוגים באינטרנט נגדם, וכן הלאה.”
והבחור הזה, הוא חושב שהוא קיבל את אהבת האמת הזו בחינם. הסיבה שזה בחינם היא כי אין לו מידות טובות. הוא פשוט שונא את אשתו. הוא לא אוהב את החברים שלו. לכן, בשבילו, אין חכמה לאהוב אמת יותר מהחברים שלו, כי הוא בן אדם נוראי מלכתחילה. הוא פשוט אגואיסט גדול שאפילו לא רואה מעבר לאף שלו.
אם אתה בחור שלא רואה מעבר לאף שלך, ואתה קורא לזה לאהוב את האמת שלך יותר מלאהוב את החברים שלך, אתה לא בחור שאוהב אמת יותר מלאהוב את החברים שלו – אתה פשוט אדם נוראי. ואני זכיתי להכיר הרבה אנשים שכאלה. הם מתיימרים להיות אלה שאוהבים את האמת, אבל באמת הם פשוט אלה שלא יכולים לראות מעבר לאף שלהם.
ולכן, כל מחשבה שיש לו, בניגוד לכל דבר שמישהו אחר אמר לו – לאהוב את החברים שלך זה גם לקבל את המחשבות שלהם. אולי לא כאמת, כי אתה לא יודע מה זה אמת, אבל את הדעות שלהם. חלק מאהבת בנים, חלק מהנאמנות שלך לחברה שלך. זה מאוד חשוב. אני חושב שהמודרניות הרסה את זה על ידי יצירת חברות שהן ליברליות וכן הלאה – אנחנו לא צריכים להיכנס לזה.
אבל במציאות, חלק מהנאמנות לחברים שלך זה להסכים עם הדעות שלהם. ואתה יודע, בתוך רוב הגבולות, זה פשוט מה שידידות דורשת. אתה לא יכול להיות החבר שלי ולהגיד, “כל מה שאתה חושב זה שטויות.” אני אהיה מאוד כועס עליך. לא אני. כי אני בחור משוגע. ואיכשהו מצאתי דרך לתת לך קוגל בזמן שאתה אומר את זה. אבל רוב האנשים, זה כל העניין. זה מה שאנחנו צריכים לתת קוגל, יש לך.
אבל רוב האנשים, זה כמו, “למה אתה אוכל את הקוגל שלי אם אתה לא מכבד את האמונות שלי?” ולכן, האנשים שעושים אוי נגד זה הם בדרך כלל אנשים רעים. וזו מעשה רע לעשות, אפילו כפילוסוף.
הפילוסוף, הנאמנות שלו היא לאלוהים גבוה יותר. יש לו אמת גבוהה יותר, ערך גבוה יותר שמעבר לזה, ואיך זה עובד בתוך אנשים אחרים בחברה, אתה צודק. זה עובד הרבה יותר טוב כשהוא לא מסכים עם החברים הפילוסופים שלו. אם הוא הולך לא להסכים עם אמא שלו, זה אולי אפילו לא החובה של פילוסוף. אתה מבין?
יכול להיות שאפילו מישהו שהוא פילוסוף, החסידות שלו לחובה שלו ל – אני משתמש בחסידות כחובה למשהו, נכון? החובה שלו למשפחה שלו היא להסכים איתם. לא להסכים איתם באמת, אלא להגיד שהוא מסכים איתם. זה מה שאכפת להם ממילא. מה אכפת להם מה אתה חושב בלב שלך? זה לא הגיוני. אבל זו חובה אמיתית. זה מוסרי. אחרת, אתה אדם נוראי.
איזה סוג של אדם טוב אתה? כאילו אני יכול לתת לך – אני לא יודע על מי אתה רוצה שאדבר עכשיו – אבל איזה סוג של אדם אתה אם אתה כמו, “אני איש אמת, אני על האמת ולכן אמא שלי, אשתי, הילדים שלי…” זה לא איש אמת, זה פשוט שייגעץ. וזו אחת הסיבות שמבקרים הם לעתים קרובות אנשים נוראיים. לא תמיד, אבל לפעמים. חלקם הם פשוט אנשים שלא עברו סוציאליזציה. אין להם את המעלות החברתיות. הם לא אוהבים את החברים שלהם. ולכן זה מאוד קל להם להגיד הפוך. אבל אין להם את אהבת האמת שחורגת מזה.
מה שזה אומר – מה שזה אומר אני מאוד אוהב אותך, זה דבר אמיתי. ונכון, אם אברהם היה פשוט בחור שלא אכפת לו מהילדים שלו, סוג כזה של עקידה היה מעניין, נכון? זה מה שזה אומר. אני חוזר להגיד שלכן זה אומר בפסוק, “איפה אנחנו יכולים למצוא עד גדול יותר, הוכחה גדולה יותר שמישהו אוהב את הבן שלו, אם אלוהים עצמו אומר שאתה אוהב אותו?” התורה אומרת, “אתה אוהב את יצחק.” והילד הזה אתה צריך להיות כועס – אם הוא היה פשוט בחור, זה לא היה חכמה. הוא לא באמת אוהב אותו. אם הוא אוהב את יצחק, אז זו חכמה.
תלמיד: לא, אבל הוא כן אוהב אותו.
מרצה: כן, ואתה יודע מה מעניין? אברהם אומר – אברהם אומר דברים במדרש. זה אומר במדרש, במדרש, בכל פעם שמישהו אומר “אני אוהב את שניהם באותה מידה,” אתה יודע שהוא משקר, נכון?
מרצה: אני חושב כך. מה אתה הכי אוהב?
תלמיד: שניהם.
מרצה: אוקיי, אתה מתכוון להגיד שאתה לא אומר לי את האמת. אתה לא צריך להגיד לי את התשובה. אני לא אומר שזה אולי לא נכון להגיד את תשובת האמת. כלומר, אני אגיד לכל אחד, אפילו לעצמך, אני אגיד לי מי מכל אחד מכם אתה אוהב יותר. אבל זה תמיד נכון שמישהו אוהב את הילדים שלו יותר. ילד אחד או השני.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: או אולי כמעט תמיד נכון. אלא אם כן אתה פשוט לא אוהב, וזה תירוץ אחד.
הגיע הזמן פשוט… חובות הלבבות אומר שזה לא היה כזה ניסיון אם אברהם לא היה עושה את העקידה בלי אהבה. כלומר, כמו מה שאתה אומר, האהבה לאמת יותר מהאהבה לחברים.
תלמיד: כן, בטוח.
מרצה: אם הוא היה בחור רע…
מצאתי את זה מדהים כשהוא אמר משהו כזה.
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: אתה בבירור מחליף את האהבה לילד שלך באהבה לאמת ועכשיו אתה אומר שכן יש לך אבל זה שלי אנחנו לפעמים לכן אנחנו ממשיכים לדבר על אברהם אבינו למטרה הזו נכון כי לאנשים יש את זה כמו תנור דמיוני אתה יודע כמו הבחור שאו הולך מסביב לחנות האבא הזה של האבא אני שובר את השבירה של הגאטשקעס שאולי קרה אבל היה נעשה לא לשמה לא היה מותר לעשות לא לתת לזה לעשות את זה נכון אז אז ילד זה זה מידה אבל זה כמו זה דבר גדול של מישהו לטעון לעצמו לאהוב את האמת אנחנו יכולים לדבר על התרגול שלכן זה קל למה התרגול של של חיפוש אחר אמת אחרת כשאני לומד כלום לא אומר שאתה זה לא דעה נכון.
מה ההבדל? הבדל אחד גדול בין דעה למחשבה. חשבתי משהו שאתה עושה, דעה משהו שיש לך, נכון? בכל פעם שמישהו שואל אותך שאלה אתה יכול להגיד כמו מה אתה חושב על זה, אתה מתכוון להגיד שאני צריך לחשוב איתך עכשיו על זה או שאתה מתכוון להגיד שאני צריך לתת לך הקלטה של מה שחשבתי על זה אתמול? זה מה שרוב האנשים עושים.
בדרך כלל אין לי דעה על זה. אוקיי בוא נלמד על זה. אבל זה דורש את הדורש את הסט והסטינג מוכן דורש את הנושא של ישוב הדעת דורש את הפתיחות להיות מסוגל לעשות את זה. עכשיו בדרך כלל אתה פשוט אומר אפילו לא מחשבות כמו הזיקוק של מחשבות שהיו לך בעבר או שמישהו אמר לך בעבר.
אוקיי, זו מידה אחת.
מהן המידות האחרות שאנחנו צריכים להיות בכלל כבני אדם? למה אין לנו, אתה רואה זה באמת מוזר, למה אין לנו כמו רשימה מאוד בסיסית של כמו אלה הדברים שאתה צריך לעשות? נדיבות?
תלמיד: אף אחד לא יודע.
מרצה: יש כמו ספר זה דברים, לא? מה אתה אומר כשמישהו מת כמו אתה עובר על רשימת המעלות ואתה מוצא איזה אחת הוא עשה נכון להספד שלו? מה הן אלה? מה הרשימה?
תלמיד: אני לא יודע.
מרצה: מה רע בנדיבות?
תלמיד: אני לא אומר שזה רע עם זה דבר אחד טוב.
מרצה: בכנות?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אוקיי. אוקיי, בוא ננסה להקל על החיים. מהן שלוש העליונות?
תלמיד: לסיים?
מרצה: מהן שלוש העליונות?
תלמיד: לא, לאינטלקטואלי…
מרצה: לא, לדבר האינטלקטואלי.
תלמיד: ענווה?
מרצה: לפני מה שאנחנו צריכים ספציפית כדי להגיע לחכמה שבשירה. כי זכור, זה מה שאמרתי. אם אתה לא אדם טוב ואתה בא לחכמה, רוב המעלות האינטלקטואליות שלך כביכול הן מזויפות גם, נכון? אז קודם, להיות אדם טוב. מהם שלושת הדברים העליונים שאתה צריך לעשות?
תלמיד: גבורה היא מידה שם.
מרצה: למה?
תלמיד: ובכן…
מרצה: אני לא יודע. אני הולך לגרום לך להצדיק דברים עכשיו. מהן שלוש המעלות העליונות? ללייקווד, להאוול, אני לא יודע מה, איזה שזה.
תלמיד: זה פשוט אומר לעשות הכל בדרך הנכונה.
מרצה: הכל פשוט אומר הכל בדרך הנכונה. אנחנו מנסים לדבר ביותר פירוט מזה, נכון? מהן שלוש המעלות העליונות? אתה יכול ללמוד הרבה על אדם או חברה על ידי שאלת השאלה הזו להם. אני לא יודע אם תשאל אותם ישירות, הם בדרך כלל משקרים, אבל תגלה. מהם שלושת הדברים העליונים שאנשים משובחים או מואשמים עליהם בכיתה שלך?
תלמיד: ובכן כדבר רע הרע הוא לפחות הפוך מהטוב נכון.
מרצה: בניו יורק טיימס מהם שלושת הדברים הטובים והרעים העליונים?
תלמיד: אני העבודה הטובה יותר וזה עבודה טובה יותר לחומרני ומחפש הנאה.
מרצה: זה הדבר הטוב?
תלמיד: לא דבר טוב, זה דבר רע.
מרצה: אני הולך לעשות את זה לך לפי רוב האנשים. כלומר רוב האנשים זו לא מעלה, זה כמו אפיון של כמו מה הן מעלות כמו סוגים של אנשים נכון או חלקים ספציפיים של סוגים של אנשים נכון.
בסדר, אוקיי. כולכם הלכתם לישיבה ואז ישיבה מה מה הלא זה עדיין ושם ישיבה על שלוש המעלות העליונות שנידונו.
תלמיד: אני לא יודע.
מרצה: אני פשוט הולך לתת יושר, יושר, ענווה, ונדיבות, הימנעות. זה נכון או שאתה פשוט אומר?
תלמיד: אה אתה פשוט מרכיב רשימה אתה לא מקליט.
מרצה: למה אלה שלושה יהיו שלושת הדברים העליונים?
תלמיד: הייתי אומר הימנעות.
מרצה: והישיבה או כאן בישיבה?
תלמיד: אוקיי, מספר אחת, מספר שתיים, עקביות. אוקיי, מספר שלוש, הימנעות שוב.
מרצה: זה היה אותו אחד שכבר אמרתי את זה.
תלמיד: ובית בדרייב העליון עם הצעצוע הזה אבל זה מה שאני עושה.
מרצה: איך אתה אומר את הסיבות שלו באנגלית? אני לא יודע מה זה אומר.
תלמיד: מה זה אומר?
מרצה: אני מסביר מה אתה מתכוון מספיק כדי להיות לך מילה אתה יכול פשוט להגיד מה אתה מתכוון זה בסדר.
מהן שלוש המידות הטובות העליונות? המכשיר הזה התמזג לך תרגיל בית. אנחנו הולכים לוותר על דפי שיעורי בית וכולם צריכים לעשות סיעור מוחות על זה. זה לא מוזר שלאף אחד אין תשובה כאן? אתה יודע מה אני אומר את זה עשיתי את זה סליחה אנחנו לא לומדים על זה ושהיא.
תלמיד: על מה אתה לומד?
מרצה: ובכן אתה לא לומד על זה אבל זה כל מה שהם עושים אולי לא במפורש בדרך של כמו לתת לך את כל זה לשנן אוקיי אבל אתה עושה כמו הם כן מוסרים סוג של חיים שבעצם יכולים להיות מוגדרים באיזושהי דרך כזו.
מה שלושת הדברים העליונים שהם אומרים לבחור במידע השידוך? אני יודע את שלושת הדברים העליונים האלה. איך אתה אומר טכע כברה במישהו אמיתי לא מזויף? זה משהו שהם מחזיקים בישיבה?
תלמיד: ובכן זה לא הציור של הישיבה אבל כלומר יכול להיות שהם מטיפים לזה.
מרצה: הם עושים יכול להיות אני לא ממש בטוח שזה ייקרא משהו כמו הלכתי בימינו לא הישיבות שהלכתי אליהן אבל אולי חלק עושים אני לא יודע לתת את היתרון של הספק אולי אבל בישיבה הם מחזיקים משלושה דברים חסד חסד זה בטוח בעולם השידוכים זה אומר האם הוא לומד טוב האם יש לו עסק והאם יש לו כסף.
יש משהו אחר שהשדכנים לא יודעים?
תלמיד: זה כל כך מצחיק.
מרצה: עם השירות הזה, מה זה אומר?
תלמיד: זו שאלה טובה.
מרצה: כי זו הייתה שאלת מלכודת עכשיו. זה מפנק יתר על המידה. מה המילה לזה? מה זה מתכוון מפנק?
תלמיד: זה מפנק.
מרצה: מה זה? איך אתה אומר את זה בשדכנות? אנגלית, לא אכפת לי. אנגלית מתינות.
אז מתינות היא מספר אחת. אז כן חסד אני לא יודע כמו חסד כמו מוכן לעשות אתה שואל אותי אישית אני אומר אני וענווה.
תלמיד: זה החסד שלי, חסד זה מוכן לעשות למישהו אחר טובה לא רק רק למישהו אחר להיות טוב לעצמך לפתח לעשות טוב לא טוב בטוב של אריסטו אבל כמו שיש לזה להיות יותר אותם סוג של דברים.
מרצה: כן מה שאתה רואה אלה הם בקרוב אתה יכול ממש על היקר שלך אבל אתה חושב מה זה למעלה אז אני חושב היה הוא חם כן העולם שלי אין מחשבות על זה חסד לא תגיד לי מה הייתה המחשבה על חסד חסד אתה יכול לחבר את זה לכל דבר בשבילך נכון כי על מה אתה מדבר זה משהו כמו עוזר להיות מועיל, נכון? לא אותו דבר כמו חסד.
תלמיד: נכון. אולי זה מה שאתה מתכוון. אני מועיל.
מרצה: כן.
תלמיד: ומה היא אמרה שזה היה הוא פשוט אמר דברים אקראיים.
מרצה: כן, פשוט זרקתי את זה החוצה. מה באמת הדברים? וואו, אוקיי?
אז יש לי הרבה דיונים כאן הרבה תורות להגיד אבל אני שואל ככה. ראשית, יש שאלה רצינית, איפה הרשימה הזו או מה קורה עם הרשימה הזו? אתה זוכר שלהיות אדם טוב בעצם אומר כל הדברים האלה.
מרצה: יש למישהו רשימה? רשימה מלאה של כל הדברים הטובים והדברים הרעים? לא הדברים הטובים, המעלות הטובות והמעלות הרעות, וההפך ממעלות, נכון? הרזילות.
תלמיד: תקווה.
מרצה: לא בדיוק מה שאתה מתכוון.
תלמיד: שימוריות.
תלמיד: התמדה.
מרצה: התמדה, זהו, מה שאומר שזה מאוד חשוב אם אתה כמעט כל דבר.
מרצה: אז אנחנו יכולים לקרוא קצת אם אתה רוצה, או שאני יכול לדבר איתך על מה שדברים אומרים בספרים. אם אתה קורא את הספרים שאנחנו קוראים, כמו שמונה פרקים, תמצא שיש רשימות שונות של הדברים האלה, רשימות שונות. אני תוהה אם קראת את שמונה פרקים והלכות דעות, או אם קראת, מה עוד כדאי לקרוא לרשימות כאלה? כל דבר שתקרא, תמצא שיש להם רשימות שונות.
ודבר אחד שתמצאו במיוחד במקומות כמו הרמב״ם הוא שאין להם רשימה, לא רשימה ברורה במיוחד, אם אתם שמים לב לזה. ואם אכפת לכם ממראה מקומות, אתם יכולים לעיין בהלכות דעות פרק ב׳ ופרק ד׳, שם יש את אותה רשימה פעמיים והיא משתנה ביניהם. הוא שכח את הרשימה הקודמת שלו. הוא הוציא דבר אחד והוסיף משהו אחר או משהו כזה. אתם יכולים לעיין בהלכות דעות פרק א׳ שם יש רשימה שלישית, או הלכות דעות פרק ב׳ שם יש מעין רשימה רביעית. ואתם רואים שהרשימות לא עקביות.
זו בעיה אחת. ואם אני שואל אתכם, יש לי כל כך הרבה רשימות שונות ואני לא יודע מה קורה.
תלמיד: נשמע מעניין.
מרצה: יש כמה מסורות עם רשימות הרבה יותר טובות, הרבה יותר בהירות לגבי מה הרשימה שלהם של דברים טובים ורעים. אפילו ספר כמו חובות הלבבות הוא בכללותו מעין רשימה של מידות טובות, נכון? זו בעיה אחת.
מרצה: דבר מעניין אחד שאנחנו יכולים להשתמש בו כאן מהרשימות האלה הוא לשים לב שיש מכנים משותפים, דברים שממשיכים לצוץ. אז אם אני אעשה סוג כזה של סקר או סוג כזה של דיון עם יותר אנשים ובאמת אתפלא מה קורה, מה הופך להיות הדברים שאנשים ממשיכים לומר, או אם אתה שואל את עצמך חמש פעמים בשבוע או חמש פעמים, תראה מה הרשימה שלך של מידות טובות. וכמובן, חלק מהן הולכות להשתנות וחלק מהן לא ישתנו. חלק מהן ימשיכו לעלות שוב ושוב. וככה אתה מגלה אילו הן אלה שיותר חשובות, או יותר בסיסיות, או יותר מרכזיות, או יותר נחוצות. נכון? מובן?
או אולי אלה שאתה לא מדבר עליהן, אלה הן אלה שאתה צריך, ואנחנו לא מדברים עליהן כי זה גם אפשרי, נכון?
מרצה: יהיו גם הרבה דרכים שונות להחליט לעשות רשימה כזאת, נכון? דרך אחת תהיה מה שאמרתי לכם עכשיו. בואו ננסה לחשוב על אחד הדברים הבולטים ביותר, מה הדברים הכי ברורים, מה הדברים שהכי בולטים לכם כשאתם מסתכלים על אנשים ומסתכלים על מה שאתם מנסים ללמד אותם, ואתם מוצאים שזו הרשימה.
דרך יותר רציונלית תהיה איכשהו להבין איך לעשות את הרשימה הזאת, נכון? איך הייתם, מה תהיה הדרך הנכונה לעשות רשימה כזאת? אני לא יודע. אתם יכולים לחשוב על כמה דרכים נכונות? מה הדרך הנכונה לעשות רשימה בכלל?
תלמיד: מה נדרש בשבילה.
מרצה: מה נדרש לאחת.
תלמיד: לשלב הבא.
מרצה: מה עוצר, מה הן עצירות, מה אתה מתכוון בשלבים?
תלמיד: שלבים שלה. זה השלב, הרשימה הזאת היא השלב לפני המידות האינטלקטואליות, נכון?
מרצה: זהו, אני לא יודע. או אם אין לך את אלה אז אתה לא יכול להגיע לזה, נכון?
תלמיד: בסדר.
מרצה: נגיד. אז אז תצטרך להבין כמו מה נדרש, אבל זה לא הדבר היחיד, זו לא הדרך היחידה, אתה יודע, אני יכול לעשות את הרשימה, נכון? רק כדי להיות ברור מה, תסתכל על מה שאנשים טובים עושים, תסתכל על מה שאנשים עושים. זו תהיה הדרך הראשונה. זה נראה כמו דרך מאוד מבולגנת לעשות דברים. אולי זו הדרך הטובה ביותר, אבל זו דרך מבולגנת. בואו ננסה, בואו ננסה כמו לשים את כל הדברים שהם עושים או את הדרכים שהם פועלים לתוך כמו קופסאות קטנות. ואתה יכול לעשות את ההיפך, אתה יכול לראות מה משתבש בעולם ולהבין מה זה עודף של.
תלמיד: כן, כן, נוכל לעשות את זה גם.
מרצה: אבל צריכות להיות גם כמו דרכים יותר רציונליות לעשות דברים, נכון? כמו דרכים יותר מלמעלה למטה לעשות דברים. זו תהיה דרך אחרת להסתכל על הפרטים קודם, נכון? להתחיל מלמטה. או הדרכים להתחיל מלמעלה.
תלמיד: אני לא אוהב את מה שאתה אומר, מה המהלך הבא, כי כמו זה לא כל מה שעושה את ה, בהנחה קודם כל אתה כבר שם הנחה שלמה.
מרצה: מה טוב באנשים?
תלמיד: כן, כן, אני מבין את זה, אבל זה כמו, אז איך אנחנו מתחילים?
מרצה: ואז אתה פשוט יכול לומר מה טוב באנשים זה להיות אנשים טובים. מה הם אנשים? כן, כן. זה הדבר הכי כללי. עכשיו אנחנו מדברים על משהו הרבה יותר ספציפי, נכון? אנחנו מדברים על רשימות ספציפיות של דרכים, דרכים מאוד ספציפיות שבהן אנשים טובים ורעים. אז איך היינו מגיעים משם לכאן? יש דרך? איך היינו מגיעים ממה שאתה אומר, למשל? מה?
תלמיד: איך להגיע ממידה למידות?
מרצה: כן. יש דרך לעשות את זה?
תלמיד: דבר כמו שאנחנו אומרים אדם טוב, מישהו שטוב בלהיות אדם.
מרצה: בסדר, ואיך אנחנו מגיעים מזה לרשימה שלך מקודם? כלומר יכולות להיות טכנית מידות בלתי מוגבלות, נכון?
תלמיד: למה?
מרצה: כי מה שמידה היא, שמשהו הוא דרך הזהב, כלומר זה מכוון אדם למטרה שלו.
תלמיד: אני הולך אלי בכל זאת.
מרצה: לא, דרך הזהב היא רק דרך לתת לך מבנה למידות, אבל זה לא אומר לך אילו הן.
תלמיד: לא, נכון, זה מה שהתכוונתי, שכל דבר יכול להיות מידה.
מרצה: אז עכשיו אנחנו מדברים על אילו הן.
תלמיד: לא, לא כל דבר יכול להיות מידה. אלה קטגוריות של נטייה אנושית.
מרצה: בסדר, אז איך אנחנו הולכים לרשום את הקטגוריות האלה? אנחנו הולכים ליצור את הרשימה שלנו.
תלמיד: אתה צריך לעשות את זה אמפירית.
מרצה: אני צריך?
תלמיד: אני חושב כן.
מרצה: כן, אתה צריך להתחיל במה שבני אדם עושים, ואז להבין איך הם יכולים לעשות את זה טוב. איך אחרת היינו עושים את זה?
מרצה: איך אחרת היינו עושים את זה? אני יכול לחשוב על דרכים אחרות לעשות את זה. מה תהיה דרך אחרת?
תלמיד: כן, כלומר, מה כבר חשבו, כבר על דרך אחרת?
מרצה: לא, הבעיה עם זה תהיה משהו כמו, כמו רק כדי להיות ברור, מה שאתה כבר, מה שאתה עושה זה כבר רשימה של מידות, נכון? אתה רק מדבר על איך לחלק את הרשימה הזאת, נכון? במילים אחרות, אם אתה, אתה כבר אמרת לי תשובה ואז, כן, אני באמת עדיין לפני התשובה הזאת, נכון? זו הבעיה הראשונה, לא בעיה. זה פשוט שלב כלשהו שצריך להיבנות.
מרצה: כמו שאמרת לי, יש מידות שמובילות למידות אחרות. ואנחנו קוראים לאלה גבוהות יותר מסיבה כלשהי או קרובות יותר למטרה הסופית האמיתית, נכון? בסדר, אז זו דרך אחת לארגן אותן כבר. לפני שאתה עושה את השלב הבא שלך, אתה קופץ מהר מאוד, נכון? דרך אחת לארגן אותן היא לומר משהו כמו, יש את המטרה הטובה ביותר, הטובה ביותר במובן הדבר שיותר דברים מובילים אליו או יותר מטרה, ויש מעין סולם או כמו מדרגה להגיע לשם, נכון? וזו דרך אחת לארגן את המידות כבר.
אנחנו יכולים לקרוא לזה, במובן של, זה לא רק ארגון המידות, רק כדי להיות ברור, זה באמת ארגון של מה אנחנו באמת מארגנים כאן? הפעילויות, הדברים שאתה עושה. אם מישהו אומר משהו כמו הדבר הטוב ביותר לעשות במובן של הדבר שהוא טוב בעצמו או שהוא יותר טוב בעצמו מדברים אחרים. דברים אחרים טובים כי הם מובילים לזה, וזה לא טוב כי זה מוביל לדברים אחרים.
הדבר הטוב ביותר לעשות הוא לחשוב, להרהר, נכון? כדי להרהר אתה צריך לרשום כמה דברים, אתה צריך להיות בעל ענווה. אז, הנה דרך לסדר את המידות, הנה דרך לארגן אותן לפי סוג הפעילויות שהן עוסקות בהן, נכון? הפעילות הטובה ביותר היא חשיבה ויש כמה מידות של חשיבה, איך לחשוב טוב, איך לחשוב נכון, מה נדרש לחשיבה, לחשיבה נכונה וכן הלאה. אלה יהיו סוג אחד של מידות. עדיין לא דנו איך לחתוך אותן, נכון?
אבל אז כדי לחשוב אתה צריך קודם להיות בעל כסף, בסדר, כמות מסוימת של כסף. אז לכן האומנות והמידה של עשיית כמות מסוימת של כסף נכון קודמת לזה בזמן ופחות חשובה מזה בחשיבות. אז אתה כבר נתת לי דרך לארגן את זה, למרות שלא לרשום את זה, כי נראה שמה שאתה רושם זה לא לגמרי המידות, אלא ההיררכיה שלך, כביכול, לא נוצרת על ידי רישום מידות, היא נוצרת על ידי הסתכלות על המציאות ואמירה, מה נדרש כדי שזה יעבוד?
מרצה: ואז כשאתה אומר לי מה טוב זה מה שמוביל לזה, זה אולי נכון, אבל זה לא עוזר לי לעשות רשימה, נכון? ויכול גם להיות שיש דברים שטובים רק בגלל שלב אחד, לא בגלל השלב הבא, נכון?
כדי להיות תלמיד חכם, אתה צריך להיות בעל כסף, בסדר? אתה צריך להתחתן. זה שלב אחד במשנה או מה שזה לא יהיה, ואז אתה מתחתן, אתה צריך להיות בעל מידות טובות, כי אחרת אף אחד לא רוצה להתחתן איתך. מה שעושה את זה שיש לך את סוג המידות הטובות שעושות אותך חומר נישואין טוב זה שהן טובות לנישואין, לא שהן טובות ללימוד.
רק לשרעידא, מכיוון שיש לנו גופים ויש לנו את הצרכים האלה וכן הלאה, אז חיים טובים כוללים להתחתן ולהיות בעל המידות שחלות על נישואין, ולכן כאן בשביל אז להיות מסוגל לחשוב. אז נוכל לארגן את המידות אם אתה רוצה בדרך הזו, על ידי מעין מה נדרש בשלב הזה, מה נדרש בשלב ההוא, והשלבים מאורגנים לוגית לפי מה טוב יותר.
אבל אנחנו לא באמת מקבלים רשימה מהשלבים. הרשימה היא לא רשימה של שלבים, וזו גם לא רשימה של מה נדרש לבא. זו רשימה של מה נדרש לזה. אתה מבין מה אני אומר?
מרצה: יש דרך אחרת לסדר אותן, שהיא בעצם זה, אבל בדרך קצת שונה, שהיא כבר עשינו את זה, נכון? כמו כשדנו במושג של מידה אינטלקטואלית מול מידת אופי ודברים כאלה, נכון? שזה מה? זה מחלק אותן—אני הולך לומר לכם את התשובה הייתם צריכים לדעת את זה, הייתם צריכים להבין את זה בעצמכם—זה מחלק אותן לפי הדברים שהן עוסקות בהם, לפי חלקי הנפש שהן עוסקות בהם או חלקי האדם שהן עוסקות בהם, נכון?
אנחנו אומרים מידות אינטלקטואליות הן המידות של האינטלקט או של המוח או השכל. ומידות האופי הן אלה של הנפש המתאווה, זוכרים? נפש התאווה, משהו כזה. אז זה היה, ואם אתה רוצה, אתה יכול לחלק את זה לכמה סוגים של דברים שזה עושה, שאנחנו יכולים לומר כביכול שהם חלקים שונים שלו, כוחות שונים שלו. ואז יהיה לנו דרך להיות בעלי מעין רשימה שלמה אם אתה יודע את הרשימה השלמה של חלקי האדם אתה יכול פשוט ליצור רשימה שלמה של המידות על ידי עשיית זה.
תלמיד: ובכן זה הגיוני.
מרצה: לא, לא, או לא?
תלמיד: אבל לא, כי לדברים האלה יש חלוקות משנה וחלוקות משנה.
מרצה: כלומר, האם אתה—אבל תאוות חלות על עצמן אפילו לחוויה. אבל כשאני עושה—רק להיות מאוד ברור—כשאני עושה חלוקות משנה, אתה רואה, כמו, יש—תלוי במה אתה מחפש כשאתה מחפש רשימה שלמה. דרך אחת להיות שלם היא לפחות מה שאני אומר כבר כולל הכל בתוכו. ואם חלוקות משנה לא מפריעות לי, אתה יכול לחלק למשנה כמה שאתה רוצה, עדיין יש לי רשימה שלמה. אם אתה מתחיל מלמטה, אז אתה מסיים עם רשימה לא שלמה, כי אתה פשוט התחלת מהחלוקות המשנה הנמוכות ביותר שבמקרה שמת לב אליהן. אם אני מתחיל מלמעלה, יש לי רשימה טובה יותר, כי אני יכול לחלק למשנה, אבל עדיין יש לי את הכלל ברמה העליונה, שכולל הכל.
זו תהיה דרך שונה לעשות את זה, דרך מאוד שונה לעשות את זה, נכון?
מרצה: אני רוצה לומר לכם סיבה אחת למה זה לא הולך להספיק, וזו הולכת להיות בעיה. בינתיים, יש לנו שלוש דרכים לעשות את הרשימה הזאת:
1. דרך אחת היא לעשות את דרך המחקר האמפירי ולהסתכל על כל האנשים ולעשות רשימות ולקוות שאנחנו לא מפספסים שום דבר חשוב, הדרך לגמרי מלמטה למעלה.
2. דרך אחרת תהיה לעשות את הדרך של עדי, שהיא לסדר אותן לפי סדר הטובות, אז לדבר על מה נדרש או אולי מה מסוים, בכל שלב כפי שאנחנו קוראים לזה, או כל רמה או כל מדרגה יצטרך מידות מסוימות כדי לגרום לזה לעבוד טוב.
3. הדרך השלישית תהיה, שהיא קצת קרובה לדרך השנייה, כי הדרך השנייה, לפעמים אומרים, להיות כמו הדבר הטוב ביותר זה לפעול עם השכל שלך. אז החלק הזה הוא גם מטרת הסוף, גם הדבר הטוב ביותר, אבל זו גם המידה של חלק ספציפי. ואז פשוט נרשום את כל חלקי הנפש, כל חלקי הגוף, כל חלקי החברה, ונקצה או נבין מה המידות בשביל זה. אולי נצטרך לחלק אותן למשנה, אבל לפחות יהיה לנו רשימה מלאה—רשימה מלאה, או רשימה כללית מלאה, גם אם אין לנו את כל הרשימות המלאות במיוחד, נכון?
זו הייתה הדרך השלישית לעשות דברים.
מרצה: הבעיה עם הדרך השלישית היא מה? הבעיה היא שכולם עייפים ורוצים לישון. אבל חוץ מזה, כן, יש מידה של שינה מספיק. מאוד חשוב.
הבעיה עם זה היא, מה עם המידות האלה שלא של חלק? אז נצטרך להוסיף עוד דברים. אולי יש מידות על יחסים של חלקים, על כל הדבר.
תלמיד: אני רק אמרתי את זה.
מרצה: אני רק אמרתי שאולי יש לך את זה. אתה יכול לעשות רשימה של מידות על ידי רישום כל החלקים ואז לומר מה טוב לכל חלק ואז יש לנו רשימה מלאה. אבל זה נראה מאוד ברור שזה לא נכון כי—מה אם הם די בטוחים שיש מידות ששייכות לכל הדבר או לפחות תיווך בין החלקים או ליחס בין זה—
תלמיד: לא, אני צריך לחשוב מה לא בסדר עם זה רגשי משהו שעוסק במאורגן.
מרצה: ובכן, אני יכול לתת לך את המשל של השולחן שלי, נכון? זוכרים את המשל של השולחן? כמה חלקים יש לשולחן? כמה מעלות יש לשולחן—תתחיל לרשום אותן. בואו נעשה את אותו משחק. אתה נגד זה? אני שואל אותך. רשום את זה. אתה נגד זה? תתחיל לעשות את זה ובואו נראה.
תלמיד: יציבות.
מרצה: ובכן, זה צריך להיות—לא, אנחנו פשוט צריכים לעשות את זה. הדרך לעשות את זה היא לחתוך את זה לחלקים ולהסתכל על כל חלק, נכון? טוב מאוד. אז זה צריך להיות עשוי מ—
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, זה המקורי.
מרצה: הצבע צריך להיות מבריק, הרגליים צריכות להיות חזקות, החיתוכים צריכים להיות ישרים, ה—אני לא יודע אילו חלקים אחרים—צריכים להיות מדויקים, הפינות צריכות להיות מיושרות וכן הלאה, נכון? אלה—כשאנחנו מסיימים לרשום את כל ה—הברגים צריכים להיות עשויים מחודדים וחזקים וכן הלאה, נכון?
עכשיו אנחנו מסיימים את כל זה. יש לי שולחן טוב? יש לי חבורה של חלקים, נכון? זה איקאה, נכון? עכשיו אתה צריך לבוא ולהרכיב את זה, נכון?
עכשיו אני לא רק הולך לשים מעשה ממשי של הרכבה, גם מעשה התכנון או היצירה שלו אומר לחשוב על איך כל הדברים האלה הולכים להתאים ביחד. אם יש לך מאוד חזק כמו—זה הלילה למשל, היא הרגל החזקה ביותר שיכולה להיות, אבל השולחן, החלק העליון, המדף העליון של השולחן אפילו יותר חזק, אפילו יותר כבד, יותר, אפילו יותר כבד ממנו, או החלק העליון עדיין, זה—אני יכול להיות בעל בעיה אסתטית או כמו בעיה פונקציונלית. המדרגה העליונה מאוד קטנה, אז יש לך את הרגל החזקה ביותר כי אתה הולך להזדקק לדבר החזק ביותר האפשרי, אבל החלק העליון שלך כמו זעיר, זה כמו קיסם. אז אין לך באמת שולחן, יש לך איזה מפלצת מוזרה, נכון?
אז זה בעצם מאוד טיפשי לרשום חלקים. אתה צריך לדבר על כל הדבר.
מורה: אוקיי, אבל זו לא מילה, נכון? אתה צריך לעשות את כל המילה, גם. אחרת, זה לא עובד. זו תורה ששמעתי מרב פינקוס פעם.
תלמיד: אה, אז אז זה יהיה כל הכוללים [רבים של כולל], טוב.
מורה: לא, כי הכולל קיבל מה-מה [משהו] או משהו.
תלמיד: לא, אבל רק החישוב זה מה שהכולל הוא. זה היה היחיד שפיצחתי. כל השאר זה שרק המעשה [שטויות].
מורה: הבעיה היא, כשאתה עושה גימטריה עם כולל, אתה תמיד מרמה, כי הסיבה שאתה עושה את זה היא כי הצד השני הוא בלי כולל.
תלמיד: אולי. זו לא גימטריה. תחשוב על זה. זה טיפשי. אתה תמיד צריך כולל שחוזר לאותו מקום. הפעם היחידה שאנחנו צריכים כולל היא כשאתה משתמש באחד ולא בשני, וזו הבעיה עם זה. אם אתה פשוט מוסיף אחד לכל דבר, זה לא עושה שום הבדל. אז ילדים סביבנו, כל עוד אתה עקבי, אז אתה לא מעוניין. הבעיה עם הכולל היא תמיד כשזה לא באמת עובד.
מורה: בכל מקרה, זו הסיבה שזה לא מספיק.
מורה: אתה אולי צריך לשאול, ומעלות של השלם, או היחסים בין כל מיני חלקים, וכן הלאה. ואז מישהו אולי אפילו יבוא ויגיד שזו המעלה היחידה. כי זה מה, תזכור, מעלות הן לא של ידיים ושל רגליים ואפילו לא של רצונות וצרכים ספציפיים. של מה הן? של מה הן?
תלמיד: אנשים.
מורה: אנשים, יפה מאוד. האם אנשים הם ידיים? לא, אנשים הם.
מורה: בכל מקרה, זו הסיבה שזה לא מספיק. אתה אולי צריך לשאול על מעלות של השלם או על היחסים בין כל מיני חלקים וכן הלאה. ואז מישהו אולי אפילו יבוא ויגיד שזו המעלה היחידה, כי זה מה—תזכור, מעלות הן לא של ידיים ושל רגליים ואפילו לא של רצונות וצרכים ספציפיים. של מה הן? של מה הן?
תלמיד: אנשים.
מורה: אנשים, הנה זה. האם אנשים הם ידיים? לא, אנשים הם אנשים. אז אין מעלה שבאמת נחשבת אלא אם היא חלק מהשלם. אלא אם היא נספרת או מובנת בהקשר של האדם השלם. נכון? אוקיי. מובן?
תלמיד: כן.
מורה: לא. האם זה נכון? אין דבר כזה חסד. כי, כמו שאנחנו אומרים, אתה יכול להיות טוב מדי. נכון? ומה זה בכלל אומר “טוב מדי”?
טוב מדי פשוט אומר שהחסד שלך מתנגש עם חלקים אחרים של האנושיות שלך, נכון? או עם חלקים אחרים של האנושיות של אנשים אחרים. וזו הסיבה שזה לא טוב. זו דרך לומר כאילו, אתה לא יכול רק להיות בעל ידיים בריאות, כי ידיים בריאות אומר ידיים שעובדות טוב עם שאר הגוף. ובאותה דרך אתה לא יכול להיות בעל חסד בריא בלי שיהיה לך כל חלק אחר של המעלה שלך מיושר.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מורה: אז אם אנחנו מבינים שאנחנו צריכים מעלות של השלם, אנחנו יכולים באותה מידה לוותר על כל מעלות החלק, במובן מסוים, כי כולן כפופות לזו האחת. אבל מצד שני, לא, מה הצד השני?
תלמיד: הצד השני, אין שום דרך לגשת לזה בשום דרך שאנחנו יכולים לבודד משהו כדי להבין אותו. אתה עדיין חוזר לשם. פשוט אדם טוב.
מורה: כן, נכון. זו הבעיה.
תלמיד: כלומר, הבעיה היא שאין לך מאיפה להתחיל.
מורה: בדיוק.
מורה: אוקיי, אז מה אם אני אדם חסד? עכשיו ממה מורכב חסד שלם? חסד שהוא… אוקיי, אז בואו לא נגיד רק שאנחנו אדם טוב. בואו ניתן לך מידה אחת: חסד. יפה מאוד, זה חלק. כדי להיות חסד לחלוטין, מה הבעיה עם אנשים להיות חסד?
תלמיד: יפה מאוד.
מורה: אז מה? כדי להיות חסד לחלוטין, מה אנחנו צריכים?
תלמיד: כל השאר.
מורה: תודה רבה. אז אם יש לך בעיה איתי שאני אומר דברים שהם כלליים מדי, אני יכול פשוט לספר לך כל דוגמה. אבל כל דוגמה, אם אתה חושב עליה מספיק, אם אתה עושה אותה מספיק, אומרת גם כל השאר. נכון? אפילו במשל של השולחן, לגמרי ככה.
תלמיד: כן, אם אתה חושב—אם אתה רוצה לחשוב ככה, אולי.
מורה: כן, כי רגל רגילה אומרת רגל שמתאימה נכון איתו, בדיוק. אז מספיק לי לספר לך דבר אחד. נכון?
זו הסיבה שכשאנחנו אומרים לשם יחוד, זה אומר [הביטוי על תרי״ג המצוות שנכללות], כי אתה לא יכול לעשות אפילו מצווה אחת בלי לערב מצוות אחרות. כי אם אתה עושה, אז אתה מוזר. כי אין מצווה לעשות רק את המצווה הזו. אם מצווה היא חלק מהחיים ומשהו שבאמת שימושי לבן אדם.
מורה: בסדר, אני אספר לך משל. האם זה—האם הוא זה שפספסתי את הסרט הזה? אוקיי, לא אכפת לו מאף אחד מהם. זה פשוט—פשוט רצה לצאת לסרט. אוקיי. עכשיו יש לי שאלה בשבילך. זהו. אנחנו גורמים לכולם להיות מאוד בתוך מצוות של הנחת תפילין, נכון? עכשיו עדיין יש—על ידי—אני מחליט מה שאמר יש ביאור. כי כשאתה מניח את התפילין הנכון—זה לא נכון.
לתפילין יש משמעות. אני מניח תפילין אומר שאתה צריך להיות בעל כוונות נכונות. אז זה לא רק להניח אותם. אז זה גוף נקי. אתה צריך להיות בעל טהרת גופך וטהרת מחשבתך. אם אתה מניח תפילין וחושב על עבודה זרה, אתה כנראה לא הופך את זה לתפילין או אולי אתה עושה משהו אפילו רע. ושלם. אולי יוצא בדיעבד, אבל התפילין האידיאליות זה לא זה, נכון?
אז זה מרבה. סדר שונה מהתפילין שכבר יש לך צריך להיות לך מצווה נוספת של חבר שפן [מחשבות נכונות] וכרך [נכון] מחשבות, נכון?
לא רק—וגם כמובן אם אתה חושב על זה לא הגיוני, העובדה שהתפילין אולי אפילו לא אומרות כלום. עכשיו יש לי עוד דבר בשבילך. השנה הם רק מניחים תפילין. האם אתה צריך להניח תפילין בשבת?
תלמיד: מה הדרך הנכונה להניח את התפילין?
מורה: בשבת אתה לא מניח את התפילין. אבל אם אתה לא שומר שבת הדרך הנכונה להניח את התפילין היא בשבת. אבל זה לא שקיטה [דרך נכונה], זו לא הדרך הנכונה להניח את התפילין. אז, זה תקוע.
האיש הזה שמניח רק את המצוות של הנחת תפילין… אתה אוהב דוגמאות, אני נותן לך דוגמאות. האיש הזה שעושה רק את המצוות של הנחת תפילין, הוא צריך להתחיל להניח, לשמור שבת גם. כי אחרת, הוא מוזר. הוא מניח את התפילין בשבת כי השבת היא האות וזה לא הגיוני.
ואם אתה רוצה לשמור שבת, לא, אני אפילו לא צריך ללכת ככה. מה עוד הוא צריך לעשות? ראשית, הוא צריך לעלין קריאת שמע, כי אני יכול היה קריאת שמע, אבל לא יכולתי, אז הייתי צריך לנער. וגם, אני אצטרך ללמד את הילדים את התורה, כי זה אומר בתורה [בפרשיות התפילין], ואם אתה מלמד את התורה, אתה לא הולך לקבל את זה, אתה תצטרך לעשות את כל התורה, לא רק את התורה.
נכון? כי זה הוא—אני עשיתי מצווה אחת מייצרת את כולן. זה באמת כך.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מורה: נכון? זה לא תפילין, נכון? אז אתה יכול—אנחנו לא צריכים לדבר במקום. ההיגיון היה נכון שאנחנו לא צריכים לומר שאנחנו באים—מה זה אומר, להניח תפילין? אבל אנחנו לא—תפילין אומר כל השאר גם. אחרת הם עושים חצי תפילין. אוקיי, חצי תפילין, גם לא. אבל אנחנו רוצים של התפילין השלמות, נכון?
אותו דבר קורה עם כל מידה. אתה בסופו של דבר לא צריך לדבר על כולן כי מספיק לדבר על אחת. אבל אם אתה עושה את האחת הזו נכון, היא כבר כוללת—מרמזת—בעצם את כולן. אלא אם אתה לא—כמו דברים שאנחנו יכולים פשוט לעשות, לדחוף את המידה הזו עד הסוף ובלי לדאוג לגבי האחרות, מה שפשוט אומר שאתה הולך להיות קיצוני ואז אתה לא הולך לעשות את זה.
אז זו ענווה. אני פשוט—בואו ניקח ענווה באמצע. בואו נגיד ענווה. איך ענווה… אני לא יודע מה זה ענווה.
תלמיד: מה?
מורה: קודם אתה צריך לספר לי מה זה. ולמה זה טוב.
תלמיד: חשבתי שכבר היית מספיק על זה.
מורה: אוקיי, מה זה?
תלמיד: אני לא יודע. בואו נלך שוב. בואו נלך עם… איזה אחד בטוח שאתה מסכים איתו? כי אני לא רוצה להיכנס לכל חור הארנב עם ענווה.
מורה: כל הנקודה היא שאתה תמיד נכנס לחורי ארנבים. זה מה שאני מקווה.
תלמיד: אוקיי.
מורה: לא, כמו איך ענווה—
תלמיד: ענווה, בואו נגיד…
מורה: כמובן שכן. אמרתי לך על חסד.
תלמיד: מה שאתה קורא ענווה זה כמו…
מורה: ענווה, ובכן, הענווה שדיברנו עליה קודם הייתה רק מידה אינטלקטואלית. אני לא מדבר על אלה. אלה גם ככה, אבל נצטרך לחבר את זה לכל…
תלמיד: אה, אז זה לא קשור ל…
מורה: לא, זה כן קשור, אבל ניקח עוד כמה צעדים. כמובן שכן. מה אתה מתכוון שזה לא? כמובן שכן.
תלמיד: זה כן, אוקיי, אז זו השאלה שלי. אני אפילו לא יודע איך זה כן, אבל.
מורה: איך זה מתחבר למה?
תלמיד: לנפש המתאווה.
מורה: למה?
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מורה: ובכן, ענווה היא על…
תלמיד: לא, הענווה שלך שדיברת עליה הייתה סוג של הרגל אינטלקטואלי. היא לא שייכת לתאווה.
מורה: זו לא הנקודה. אז איך אתה לא יכול להיות בעל זה נכון בלי להיות בעל האחרות נכון? וזה בגלל מה שאנחנו כבר יודעים.
אתה לא יכול—אתה לא יכול ללמוד בלי להיות בעל מידות טובות, נכון? אז אתה סוג של אדם לא אחד אומר נכון. אז אתה מה שקראנו—מה אמרת שאתה קורא למידה? אתה לא יכול—אתה לא חושב שהם—אתה יודע הכל בחור שיהיה באותה מידה ענווה אם כמו אתה—אז זה כל למה לא עזרת למקרה של עכשיו אני הבחור אתה יודע לא יכול לעשות כלום זה מאוד טוב בית זה עושה אולי הבחור השני צודק.
ענווה אומרת אולי מישהו אחר צודק. אז לכן אתה אפילו לא יכול ללמוד כלום. דרך אגב, אפילו בלימוד חייבת להיות מידה הפוכה שנקראת משהו כמו אומץ או עזות. בואו נגיד, בואו נקרא לזה ככה. זה דבר מוזר. בואו נקרא לזה ככה לעת עתה. יש מידה הפוכה כמו, “אה, אז אני אף פעם לא יודע כלום כי אני גם אף פעם לא יודע.”
תלמיד: יפה מאוד.
מורה: אז אני גם אף פעם לא יודע כלום. ידע, דרך אגב, עובד—החיים שלנו חיים על ידע. כל המידות שלנו חיות על ידע. נכון? האם אני יכול לדעת? יש כמה—כמו שאמרת, יש כמה גדולים מספיק מהם שנותנים לכל אחד לגנוב מהם ומהחברים שלהם ומכולם אחרים כי הם לא יודעים מי צודק בכל מקרה כי הם כל כך פתוחים, נכון? אז הם סוג של ענווה לא פתוחים—הם כמו חלשי דעת, נכון? אבל זו לא ענווה. זה פשוט זה—אולי אתה יכול לקרוא לזה קיצון של קיצון של מידת ענווה שזו לא ענווה יותר. זה פשוט להיות—כן, פראייר, בדיוק.
אז אתה צריך להיות בעל הכמות הנכונה של ענווה, מה שאומר שאתה גם צריך להיות בעל מידה אחרת שהיא הפוכה—אתה יכול לקרוא לזה ככה, אולי. או הכמות הנכונה. אבל איך אתה יודע מה הכמות הנכונה? אתה צריך ללמוד חושן משפט, כמו שדיברנו לפני כמה שבועות מחושן משפט, לדעת מי צודק ברוב המריבות. רואה, אמרתי לך זה חושן משפט. וכן הלאה וכן הלאה.
זה לא תירוץ אמיתי, כמו לכל הקושיות שאמרתי, אבל זו נקודה נכונה. כמו, לאיזה קושיות זה לא תירוץ? בואו נעשה את כל הקושיות ובואו נראה. מה הייתי רוצה לשאול בהתחלת השיעור?
אני מאוד מוטרד מהרעיון הזה. אני אספר לך מה זה כן עונה וכמה זה לא עונה. אני מאוד מוטרד מהשאלה ששאלתי היום. טכנית שאלתי שאלות שונות, אבל למעשה שאלתי את השאלה הזו.
מאוד מוטרד מהעובדה שאף אחד לא יכול לתת לי את הרשימה של הטובים והרעים לפי שיטת ברסלב. לא אכפת לי—תגיד לי שכקט [כך וכך] דבר. אתה יכול לספר לי דברים מסוימים ברסלב שם במשך דקה ובמשך שתי דקות רגיל ממוצע הוא יכול לעשות.
תלמיד: הוא יכול?
מורה: המצוות והרשימה—אל תגיד לי—תגיד לי למשנה יש רשימה, תגיד לי את הרשימה. אבל זה פשוט דרייינג מיר א קופ [מסובב לי את הראש], למשנה יש רשימה, אתה יודע, זה כמו, האם זה יכול להיות דבר טוב או דבר רע, זה לא באמת דבר טוב. תגיד לי את הרשימה, תגיד לי את הרשימה.
“אה, בחור רגיל יודע את המשנה.” הוא לא יודע את המשנה, אם הוא אומר שיש משנה, זה לא עוזר. מה הוא אומר? דווקא, תגיד לי את הרשימה, תדע את המשנה.
מורה: אל תגיד לי שלמשנה יש רשימה. זה מה שהם היו אומרים לך. אבל זה פשוט טריינג מי א קאמפ. למשנה יש רשימה. אתה יודע, זה כמו, אתה יכול לספר לי שלמשנה יש רשימה? תגיד לי את הרשימה. הוא לא יודע את המשנה. הוא לא יודע את המשנה. אם הוא אומר שיש משנה בסביבה, זה לא עוזר. הוא יודע שלמשנה יש רשימה. מה הוא אומר? תגיד לי את הרשימה. לא, המסילת [מסילת ישרים: “נתיב הישרים,” טקסט אתי יהודי מהמאה ה-18 מאת רבי משה חיים לוצאטו]. מה איזה, איזה? תן, תן את שלושת הראשונים. אתה לא תדע מה.
זו הייתה דרך אחת לשאול את השאלה. אז בישיבה שלך, זה הדבר שהם בעיקר מדגישים, איזה מהם הכי חשובים. מה שאני מתכוון לומר הוא, אתה אומר לי, לא, לא, אנשים שמצטטים במקום לענות, אתה לא מעוניין. במילים אחרות, אתה אומר לי ככה, המעלה הכי חשובה היא להיות מסוגל לצטט. אני מסכים עם זה. זו אחת המעלות הכי חשובות בישיבה. במקום לחשוב, לצטט. במקום לענות על השאלות שלי, לצטט עלי. אין בעיה. זה מה שעשית. אבל לא עניתי על השאלה שלי, נכון?
אתה אפילו לא מדבר איתי. כל עוד זה כמו המסילת, הייתי שואל אותך שאלה, נכון? יפה מאוד. שלום. אף אחד לא יודע. אף אחד אפילו לא יודע מה הדברים האלה, נכון? זה יראה להם כחקירה מה זה אומר. אף אחד לא יודע. זו לא תשובה לשאלה שלי, נכון? אני אומר לך שמעלה היא פשוט דרך לומר מי הוא הבחור הטוב, נכון? מה התמונה שלך של בחור טוב? ואתה אומר לי מסילת. תציין את המסילת. אז התמונה שלך של בחור טוב היא מישהו שאומר, תציין את המסילת. אני חושב שזה נכון, אבל לא אמרת לי שום, יש יותר מידע. אולי יש מידה כזו אחת שעשתה את הקר תציין במשנה. אין בעיה, אין בעיה. אז המידה נקראת להיות מסוגל לצטט משנה. מה זה משנה? האם יש משהו אחר טוב בחיים? תילחם על זה. לא, אוקיי, אין בעיה.
מה עם חסד? לא על תציין משנה?
אה, אז זה שתי מידות כבר. לדעת את המסילת, אני עושה חסד. בכל מקרה, הוא רצה שאספר לך על הקושיא בקרדיטים.
אז הייתי מוטרד מחוסר היכולת של אנשים לתת לי את הרשימה הזו. לא רק שאנשים צריכים לראות אם הם לא יכולים לתת לי את הרשימה הזו, או אם יש להם רשימה שהיא מאוד מוזרה, ולא רק אנשים על השולחן שלי לא יכולים לתת לי את הרשימה הזו, או אולי הם יכלו, אבל הם מאוד עייפים, אלא גם האנשים שאנחנו קוראים את הספר שלהם לא יכולים לתת לנו את הרשימה.
האם לרמב״ם [רמב״ם: רבי משה בן מימון, פילוסוף יהודי מהמאה ה-12] יש רשימה? לא באמת. האם לאריסטו יש רשימה? גם לא באמת. גם הוא משנה את הרשימה בין ספריו ובין פרקיו. האם לאפלטון יש רשימה? כן. לאפלטון יש רשימות לכל דבר. רשימות נכונות, כי הוא מסוג האנשים שעובדים מלמעלה למטה. אבל אריסטו הוא יותר מסוג האנשים שעובדים מלמטה למעלה. זה הפשוט פשט [פשוט פשט: הסבר פשוט וישיר] למה אין לו רשימה. כי הוא מחזיק במהלוכה [מהלוכה: גישה, שיטה] של שמואלי של פשוט להסתכל מסביב. תגידו לי את הבולטות ביותר, יכול להיות שיש כאלה שפספסתי, אז נדבר על זה בפעם הבאה.
זה די מעצבן. העצבנות הזו היא משהו שנקרא אחדות המידות, שהובלתי אתכם אליה בדרך אחת עכשיו.
אני רק אומר שאנחנו לא באמת צריכים רשימה, זה לא חשוב שתהיה לנו הרשימה המלאה הנכונה. אולי זה חשוב לשטוק לחתורה [שטוק לחתורה: למען לימוד התורה], אבל זה לא חשוב כדי להיות אדם טוב, כי כל סוג של רשימה, שתמיד בוחרת כמה מהמידות הבולטות ביותר שאנחנו רואים באנשים שאנחנו אוהבים ומחזיקים יקרים, תצטרך בעצם לכלול את כולן. אחרת, הוא מתאר אנשים רעים.
תלמיד: כן. הוא לא יודע את זה? הוא כן. הוא כן. יש לו שונות. זה לא כמו. זה ההיפך. בגלל זה, יש לו. הרשימות שלו הן רק קטגוריות. הן לא באמת רשימות. הן לא סוג כזה של רשימות. או בכל פעם שהוא מדבר על מידה אחת, הוא מנסה להסביר שהמידה הזו היא באמת רק ידיעה, ולכן הכל הוא רק דבר אחד, שנקרא ידיעה. זה שונה. רק היסטוריה.
מרצה: מה שאני אומר לכם הוא שבמציאות, גם אם נסתכל על זה כדרך של, תראו, תנו לי את שלוש המידות המובילות של האנשים שאתם מחזיקים מהם, בסופו של דבר אתה צריך לתאר או שאתה בסופו של דבר מרמז על הכל, כולל כמה מאלה שאין לנו אפילו שם בשבילן. כן, כי לא דנו בהן בהרחבה, אבל הן מיישמות הכל. אחרת זה סוג של משוגעים.
זו הסיבה שכל צדיק [צדיק: אדם צדיק] שיש לו מה, מידה אחת שהוא ידוע בה, בדרך כלל זה אומר שהוא הגזים במידה הזו וזה היה בעצם הדבר שהוא גם היה רע בו. רק רע בו, אולי. הצדיק האמיתי, האנשים שבלוויה [לוויה: הלוויה], אנשים אומרים, אני לא יודע, אין שום דבר מיוחד בו, הוא פשוט בחור טוב. אלה שהם המוזרים, הוא היה ממש מסמיד [מסמיד: לומד תורה חרוץ], ואני, אני יכול להגיד, שלאג מענש [שלאג מענש: מילולית “אדם מוכה”, מישהו מדוכא], נכון? או שהוא היה כזה מסמיד כי הוא אף פעם לא עזר לאשתו. אתה מבין?
אתה כבר יודע את זה כי בדרך כלל כשאנשים משבחים מידה, הם מתכוונים לומר את ההגזמה שלה, שזה לא טוב. במילים אחרות, אין להם את המידה האחרת של לעזור לאשתך או את השכל [שכל: חכמה, הגיון] שאומר לך כמה, וכן הלאה. ואולי אותו דבר עם הבחור שהוא מורד. אתה צריך שמורד יהיה מורד בכמות הנכונה וגם יהיה קונפורמיסט בכמות הנכונה. והבחור שעושה את זה נכון, אף אחד לא מבין שהוא מורד או קונפורמיסט. הוא פשוט בחור טוב. אתה מתחיל זה השיעור [שיעור: שיעור, לימוד] שלי להיום. זה יותר ממספיק.
תלמיד: זו קושיא מפורסמת שהעולם שואל. אני חושב שאחד ממאסטרים של שחר, הוא אמר שהיה לו את הדבר של אמת [אמת: אמת]. הוא אמר, מה אתה מתכוון, מה עם כל המידות האחרות?
מרצה: ככה הוא הולך להגיד את זה. זה נכון, אבל זה בגלל שרוב האנשים לא אנשים שלמים. רוב האנשים לא מאוזנים. לרוב האנשים אין את הדברים השונים.
תלמיד: אתה אומר בעולם הזה, בסוג כזה של דבר גם?
מרצה: אני לא יודע מה זה אומר. מה זה אומר? נגיד יש דבר כזה.
תלמיד: לא, אני בעצם חושב שזה יכול להיות ההיפך. זה יכול להיות לפעמים שמישהו אומר, מה המידה הספציפית של האדם הזה? זה יכול להיות, מה הדרך שלו להגיע לכל המידות האחרות?
מרצה: זה, נכון? כמו איך הוא נכנס לכולן? תגיד אני הולך להתמקד כמו, האם זה סיפור כמו שסיפרו לבחור פשוט לעולם לא להגיד שקר או משהו כזה ופתאום, כמו שסיפרתי לכם את הסיפור עם התפילין [תפילין: תפילין, חפצי פולחן שלובשים בתפילה], אתה פתאום צריך להיות יהודי [יהודי: יהודי] שלם בגלל זה. וזה נכון. אם אתה לוקח כל מידה ולוקח אותה ברצינות, אתה לא חושב שאתה, לפעמים אנשים כמו שהם עושים את המצווה [מצווה: מצווה, מעשה טוב] שלהם מצווה אחת וזה רישיון לעשות כל דבר אחר בצורה לא נכונה. אתה לא יכול לעשות את זה. אבל אם אתה מקבל את זה כחלק מלהיות אדם טוב, אז זה כן מוביל אותך לכל הדברים הטובים.
תלמיד: האם המתכון של הרמב״ם לאיזון, נכון, האם זה, איך אני אומר את זה ב, האם זה מתאים למה שאתה אומר? כלומר שכשאני מרגיל את עצמי לאיזון באחת, נגיד מידה, כל השאר יפלו למקומם איפה שמצאתי?
מרצה: אני לא יודע איפה אני הופך לאדם מאוזן. אם יש משהו שנקרא לא איזון במידה הספציפית, אם אתה מדבר על הדעה [דעה: ידע, הבנה], אתה יכול לדבר על לא חכמה מעשית או משהו שהם אולי, אבל זה לא ברור שאתה יכול כמו לתרגל את זה בצורה מופשטת. אני לא יודע. זו שאלה נהדרת. לא, הוא לא יודע מידע כמו שאלה אם זה עובד. אני יודע שכל מה שאתה צריך לעשות זה, כן, אבל לא, אבל זה לא, לא נכון כי השלמות של מידה אחת אומרת לדעת איך שאר העולם עובד, אומרת לדעת איך לפעול ובכל דבר אחר. אתה לא יכול לעשות את זה ואתה יכול להיות אחרי, כן, כן.
אתה יכול להגיד אני הולך להיות רק הבעלים של סדר של משהו בין מושל ובין מה שאתה קורא לזה, עניין פושאובר. אבל זה אומר שאתה צריך לדעת איך לשפוט מצבים נכון. עכשיו יכול להיות שהמידה הזו של עבודה, אני לא יודע. אני בעצם נוטה לחשוב שלא, או קו החשיבה שאנחנו עובדים איתו בדרך כלל נוטה לחשוב שזה מאוד קשה שכמו שיפוט לא עובר. כמו שיש את כל השאלות האלה, האם כישורים עוברים? אם יש לך כישור בדבר אחד, האם יש לך את השני? וכך אני אומר שזו שאלה כמו לגבי שני ילדים לא, כן, כמו האם ההעברה? כמו אני טוב בלימוד גמרא [גמרא: טקסט תלמודי], אני גם אני נראה טוב בלימוד מדע. בדרך כלל זה לא עובד טוב כמו שהיית מצפה שזה יעבד. זה עובד במובן של שיש לך את הכישרון האמיתי ודברים כאלה. זה לא עובד כל כך טוב מי שנהדרים בלימוד כשהם הולכים לעבודה בדרך כלל. אוקיי, זה בגלל שזה כישרונות שונים שנדרשים בעבודה. אבל גם אם אתה הולך לעבודה שדומה, כמו ללמוד תחום ידע אחר, לעתים קרובות מאוד זה לא עובד כי האינטואיציות שאתה מקבל הן מאוד ספציפיות. הן קשורות לתחום שאתה נמצא בו.
בדרך כלל אני חושב שאותו דבר עובד למידות. בעצם, זו הסיבה שאני כן חושב שאתה צריך רשימה ארוכה. אני לא מסתיר עם השיעור שלי היום, באופן אישי. אני חושב שככל שהרשימה שלך ארוכה יותר, כך אתה הולך להיות טוב יותר, כי לתת שמות לדברים זו אחת הדרכים שבהן אנחנו שמים לב איך אנחנו צריכים לפעול. כמו כמובן אז אתה צריך להבין איזו מידה ליישם באיזה זמן. זה אף פעם לא הולך לסחוט החוצה. אנחנו פותרים שיש כמו רשימה ארוכה. אבל הנקודה היא שאתה לא יכול פשוט להגיד תהיה אדם טוב ופשוט תבין. אתה צריך שיהיה כמו שם. רגע, עכשיו אני עושה, עכשיו, עכשיו אני אחד מהם. עכשיו אני עושה טוב דברים [דברים: דברים, מילים]. אתה צריך שיהיה לך מילה בשביל זה. זה מאוד קשה להבין שאתה באמצע לעשות את זה, שאתה עושה שם. אתה צודק. אני כבר אגיד את השיעור על זה, כן.
אבל אז אני לא יודע אם יש כמו משהו, אתה צריך לזכור כשהרמב״ם אומר תהיה מאוזן, זה לא אומר תהיה סוג של מתון, נכון? הבחור שכל הפוליטיקאים מנסים לדבר איתו תמיד, המתון שאף אחד אף פעם לא פגש, נכון? זה לא אומר תהיה זה, כמו לעולם לא יותר מדי של שום דבר. זה אומר תהיה הנכון. אז זה לא ברור שלמצוא את הנכון זה כמו כישור שניתן להעברה. אולי יש תיאוריה שזה כן, אבל אני חושב שזו תהיה השאלה.
תלמיד: זה תרגול שאתה יכול, יש איזושהי העברה אחרי, אחרי לדבר עליך יכול לסגור אם אתה רוצה.
מרצה: אני צריך לחשוב על, רציתי להמשיך על הפרישה [פרישה: הפרדה, הימנעות]. רק יש את הדרך שבה ניתן להעברה, כמו להתגבר, יש משהו, משהו כזה. בוא נדבר על הדבר הכללי. מה שאני לא יכול, אני אצטרך לחשוב על זה בנפרד, כמו היחס בין שלבים שונים של מידה עם איפה שאותו סוג של דבר שייך. אוקיי, תחזיק את זה רוסי אחר.
תלמיד: כמו חלק אמיץ?
מרצה: מה השעה?
תלמיד: שלוש.
מרצה: אין בעיה. זה 11:17.
אוקיי וזה מוקדם, מאוחר, נכון, זמן נכון לחלוטין. איזה אחד? אנחנו לא יודעים. נצטרך לדעת ביחס למה, הא?
אם אתה רוצה תשובה, זה הסיפור. אוקיי.
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השיעור נפתח בשאלה פרובוקטיבית: מהו הדבר החשוב ביותר בעולם? שאלה זו מנוסחת מחדש בצורה מדויקת יותר: מהי המידה הראשונה שיש ללמד ילד כדי שיהפוך למענטש?
ההנחה: ילדים נולדים ללא מידות טובות — או עם מידות רעות/לא מעוצבות — וכל מפעל החינוך היהודי (חדר) עוסק ביסודו בעיצוב אופי: להפוך למענטש.
סטייה הומוריסטית: הסיבה שיהודים לא מאמינים באבולוציה היא שאנחנו צופים בקופים זמן רב והם עדיין לא הפכו למענטשן. ההתנגדות המקובלת מתהפכת — אנשים אומרים שאבולוציה הופכת את האדם לקטן מדי, אבל למעשה היא הופכת את האדם לגדול מדי, כי היא טוענת שאפילו קוף יכול בסופו של דבר להפוך למענטש. זה מתחבר לנושא משיעורים קודמים: לאנשים יש ציפיות לא ריאליות לגבי קנה המידה הזמני של מחזורים קוסמיים וטבעיים.
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מידות טובות הן תנאי מוקדם ללימוד תורה. זה מבוסס על הרמב״ם (הלכות תלמוד תורה): תלמיד שאינו הגון אין מלמדין אותו תורה. התגובה הנכונה היא לומר לו לעשות תשובה תחילה.
נותנים את השיעור בכל מקרה. האדם עם המידות הרעות פשוט לא יבין — זו גזירת מן השמים. האמת אינה נגישה למי שאופיו לא מוכן לה. זה דומה לפסח שהוא “בליבך” — אם אתה לא באמת רוצה להבין, לא תבין.
– תלמיד שאינו הגון = מי שיש לו מידות רעות (חסרון באופי) — זה המחסום האמיתי.
– תלמיד שעשה מעשה רע = מי שעשה מעשה רע — זה פשוט יותר: פשוט תפסיק לעשות זאת.
מידות רעות גרועות יותר כי הן הופכות אדם לבלתי מסוגל לקבל אמת, ומזיק לאחרים.
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השאלה המרכזית של השיעור: מהו בעצם תכנית הלימודים של המידות שהחינוך היהודי מעניק לאדם? אילו תכונות התרבות שלנו רואה כחיוניות לסוג האדם שאנחנו מנסים ליצור?
– סבלנות — מקובל.
– אומץ — לפחות במידה מסוימת.
– קשב — אולי.
זה הופך לוויכוח מיני משמעותי:
– מחלוקת גדולה: אריסטו רואה בסקרנות מידה; אוגוסטינוס רואה בה יצר הרע.
– סקרנות היא נמוכה בסולם בבית המדרש.
– הבחנה מרכזית: סקרנות כתמיהה (מונעת יראת כבוד) לעומת סקרנות כצבירה חסרת מטרה של עובדות (ללא סדר חשיבות).
– סקרנות חסרת מטרה מבוקרת כאפשרית להיות:
1. צורה של רכילות (למשל, רוב ההיסטוריה היא רכילות).
2. צבירת עושר אינטלקטואלי — אגירת עובדות כמו כסף, ללא מטרה משנה.
3. מתכבד בקלון חברו — שימוש בידע כדי להרגיש עדיף על אחרים (למשל, לדעת שרב יונתן אייבשיץ היה לכאורה חסיד שבתי צבי, מה שגורם לך להרגיש טוב יותר ממנו).
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הטיעון מכוון למה שנחשב בבירור למידה היסודית: ענווה.
ענווה ממוסגרת כמידה אינטלקטואלית — במיוחד, פתיחות להקשיב.
– גאווה — ההיפך מענווה.
– כעס — נדון באמביוולנטיות מסוימת. הרמב״ם מתנגד לו בתוקף. הסיבה: כעס אומר שאתה איבדת את דעתך — אתה לא יכול לחשוב בבהירות.
– כבוד (תאוות כבוד) — לא כל כך נורא כשלעצמו, אלא אם כן זה מוביל לרצון שהדעה שלך תנצח על האמת. ההתנגשות הזו היא מה שהופך אותו להרסני.
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הטיעון מגיע לשיא במה שנחשב ליבת המידה האמיתית ללימוד:
– עניין באמת = התפשטות הגשמיות כפי שמתואר בספר הקדושה.
– ביטול היש: לא לרצות ש*הקבוצה שלך* תהיה צודקת — לרצות שהאמת תהיה צודקת. לא לדאוג לצד שלך, לדת שלך, לאומה שלך, או לאגו שלך — רק למה שהוא.
– זה מזוהה כמסירות נפש — מסירת עצמך למציאות.
– רוב האנשים, כולל המרצה והתלמידים, יכולים להשיג זאת רק דרך קומפרטמנטליזציה.
זה מקושר במפורש לאקסטזה אפלטונית (ekstasis) — האמת היא מחוץ לך, גדולה יותר מהרצונות, הדעות והנטיות שלך. התפשטות הגשמיות נאמרה על זה תחילה במסורת הפילוסופית.
– אנשים שמכריזים בקול רם שהם רוצים אמת הם לעתים קרובות אלה שרוצים להשתמש בה לאינטרסים שלהם.
– מחויבות אמיתית לאמת יש לה מחיר: לכל הפחות, הזמן שלך (ערבי רביעי); ברצינות רבה יותר, הרצון שלך לנוחות.
– הטענה הנפוצה שאנשים “נוחים” להאמין במה שהאמינו אתמול מאותגרת — אין שום דבר באמת נוח בזה.
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אנשים אומרים בדרך כלל שהם “נוחים” להמשיך להאמין במה שהם כבר מאמינים ולכן מתנגדים לשנות את דעתם. גישה זו נראית יותר כמו עצלות מאשר נוחות אמיתית. אפשר להיות *יותר* לא נוח בחשד שההיצמדות של האדם לאמונות קיימות *מסתירה* את האמת מאשר להחזיק באמונות האלה. אי הנוחות של הונאה עצמית פוטנציאלית עולה על הנוחות של הסטטוס קוו.
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העמדה הנפוצה של אנשים שמכריזים שהם “מחפשים אמת” (למשל, אנשים שאומרים שהרבי שלהם לא נותן להם אמת והם רוצים למצוא אותה בעצמם) מאותגרת כחוצפה: “אולי האמת לא רוצה אותך. איך אתה יודע שאתה ראוי לה? מה אתה עושה בשבילה?”
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אהבת האמת ממוסגרת מחדש: היא לא תחושה או רצון אלא תרגול — מידה אינטלקטואלית שמתחילה ומסתיימת בפעילות ממושמעת. התרגול מורכב מסוג מסוים של שיח: לעולם לא להסתפק ב״זה מה שאנחנו חייבים להאמין”, לעולם לא לוותר כי משהו קשה לחשוב עליו, תמיד לנסות למצוא דרך לדבר על קשיים.
זה נבדל מסתם הסבר של מה שמישהו אחר אמר (שזה בעל ערך אבל אינו חיפוש אמת אלא אם כן נעשה בציפייה שזה יגלה יותר מציאות).
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העיקרון האריסטוטלי המרכזי מאתיקה ניקומאכית, ספר א׳, פרק ו׳: אריסטו אומר שהוא יחלוק על אפלטון כי, ככל שאוהבים את החברים והמורים, חובת (אדיקות) הפילוסוף היא לאהוב את האמת יותר מחברים. זה מהדהד משהו שסוקרטס/אפלטון גם אמר.
הסתייגות קריטית: זה לא אומר “אל תאהב את החברים שלך.” זה אומר: תחילה אתה חייב לאהוב את החברים שלך, ואז, כפילוסוף, אתה חייב לאהוב את האמת אפילו יותר. אהבת החברים היא תנאי מוקדם, לא משהו שצריך להיזרק.
מנוסח מחדש במונחי לימוד יהודי: “אל תאהב רק את ה*חכם*; אהב את ה*חכמה* יותר מה*חכם*.”
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זה הטיעון האתי המרכזי של החלק האמצעי של השיעור:
– הטענה לאהוב אמת היא טענה מוסרית על איזה סוג אדם אתה — היא מבדילה אותך מרוב האנשים שלא אוהבים אמת בשום דרך משמעותית.
– הרבה אוהבי אמת מוצהרים מקבלים את “אהבת האמת” שלהם בחינם כי חסרות להם *מידות* טובות. הם לא באמת אוהבים את החברים שלהם, המשפחה שלהם, או הקהילה שלהם. לאדם כזה, “לאהוב אמת יותר מחברים” לא עולה כלום כי הוא מעולם לא אהב אף אחד מלכתחילה.
– אדם כזה אינו אוהב אמת אלא רק אגואיסט שלא יכול לראות מעבר לאף שלו. הוא מטעה את הקונטרריאניזם והתפקוד החברתי הלקוי שלו לאומץ פילוסופי.
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חלק מאהבת ההורים והקהילה שלך כולל קבלה — או לפחות כבוד — לדעותיהם. זה מרכיב של אהבה בנית ונאמנות חברתית.
מודרניות וחברות ליברליות פגעו בהבנה זו של נאמנות חברתית, אבל נקודה זו במפורש לא נמשכת הלאה.
חברות כוללת מטבעה מידה של הסכמה: “אתה לא יכול להיות חבר שלי ולומר שכל מה שאתה חושב הוא שטויות.” רוב האנשים חווים אי הסכמה עם האמונות שלהם כצורה של חוסר כבוד. אפשר לתת לאנשים חום ונדיבות תוך כדי אי הסכמה איתם, אבל רוב האנשים לא יכולים להפריד בין השניים.
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לפילוסוף יש נאמנות ל“אלוהים גבוה יותר,” אמת גבוהה יותר שמתעלה על קשרים חברתיים. זה מה שמצדיק אי הסכמה פילוסופית.
אבל אפילו לזה יש גבולות: חובת הפילוסוף לא להסכים עובדת הכי טוב בין פילוסופים עמיתים. ללכת הביתה ולא להסכים עם האמא שלך אולי לא חובת הפילוסוף. אפילו לפילוסוף יש חובה מוסרית למשפחתו — להסכים איתם כלפי חוץ (או לפחות לא לתקוף את האמונות שלהם). “מה אכפת להם מה אתה חושב בליבך?” המשפחה דואגת לכבוד ולסולידריות, לא להסתייגויות פילוסופיות פנימיות.
אדם שאומר “אני *איש אמת*” ולכן נלחם עם אמו, אשתו וילדיו הוא לא איש אמת — הוא אגואיסט טהור, *שייגעץ*.
מבקרים הם לעתים קרובות אנשים נוראים לא בגלל שביקורת היא רעה, אלא בגלל שלמבקרים רבים חסרות המידות החברתיות (אהבת חברים, משפחה, קהילה) שהיו הופכות את חיפוש האמת שלהם ל*יקר* ולכן ל*משמעותי*. בלי המידות האלה, ההתנגדות שלהם היא זולה — רק התנהגות אנטי-חברתית מחופשת לפילוסופיה.
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העיקרון ממחיש עם העקידה: התורה מדגישה “*אשר אהבת*” — “אשר אהבת” — בדיוק כדי להראות שאברהם באמת אהב את יצחק.
הוראת רבי חסידי: אלוהים עצמו מעיד שאברהם אוהב את יצחק. אם אברהם לא היה אוהב את יצחק, הקרבן לא היה הישג גדול. זה בדיוק *בגלל* שהוא אוהב את יצחק שהנכונות להקריב אותו היא משמעותית. זה מקביל לטיעון על אמת: לאהוב אמת יותר מהחברים שלך משמעותי רק אם אתה באמת אוהב את החברים שלך תחילה.
במדרש, כשאלוהים אומר “בנך,” אברהם שואל “איזה? גם ישמעאל?” — מראה שאהבתו משתרעת על שני הבנים.
החובות הלבבות מצוטט לעיקרון: בכל פעם שמישהו אומר “אני אוהב את שניהם באופן שווה,” אתה יודע שהוא משקר. עם זאת, ההלכה היא שאסור לגלות (*מודה*) איזה ילד אוהבים יותר — *לעולם יהא אדם מודה על האמת* מיושם כאן בצורה מנואנסת. כנות לגבי העדפות פנימיות קיימת, אבל נדרשת שיקול דעת.
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הדימוי הפופולרי של אברהם כילד ששבר את אלילי אביו מבוקר. גם אם הסיפור הזה קרה, זה לא בהכרח היה *לשמה*. אברהם לא היה “מותר” לעשות את זה — זה לא היה המעשה המופתי שאנשים מדמיינים. הסיבה האמיתית שאנחנו חוזרים לאברהם היא בדיוק בגלל שאהבת האמת שלו הייתה אמיתית ומושרשת עמוקות באופיו, לא פרפורמטיבית.
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הבחנה פילוסופית מרכזית:
– מחשבה היא משהו שאתה עושה — תהליך אקטיבי של חשיבה ברגע הנוכחי.
– דעה היא משהו שאתה יש לך — עמדה מאוחסנת, מעוצבת מראש.
כשמישהו שואל “מה אתה חושב על זה?”, רוב האנשים משמיעים “הקלטה” של מסקנות עבר במקום לעסוק בחשיבה טרייה. חשיבה אמיתית דורשת *ישוב הדעת* ופתיחות — ה״סט והסטינג” הנכון. רוב מה שאנשים מביעים אינם אפילו מחשבות אלא זיקוקים של מחשבות עבר או דברים שאחרים אמרו להם. מעורבות אינטלקטואלית אמיתית (חשיבה) היא נדירה ודורשת מאמץ מכוון.
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אהבת האמת היא *מידה* אחת. אבל מהן שאר המידות החיוניות שאדם צריך? זה משיק את החקירה העיקרית של המחצית השנייה של השיעור.
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תמיהה אמיתית: למה לא קיימת רשימה פשוטה וידועה של המידות האנושיות החיוניות — אנלוגית ל*עשרת הדברות*? כשמישהו מת, ה*מספיד* עובר על רשימת מידות כדי למצוא אילו מהן המת הדגים — אבל מהי באמת הרשימה הזו? אף אחד לא יכול להציג אחת בקלות.
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הכיתה נלחצת לנקוב בשלוש המידות העליונות — לא מידות אינטלקטואליות, אלא המידות המוסריות היסודיות שצריך לפני להתקרב לחכמה. הרציונל: אם אתה לא אדם טוב תחילה, המידות האינטלקטואליות שלך כביכול יהיו מזויפות.
– אומץ — מוכר אבל מוסט במהירות. “למה? הצדק את זה.”
– יושר — הוזכר.
– ענווה — הוזכרה.
– נדיבות/חסד — הוזכרו.
– פרישות/מתינות — הוצע כמידה ישיבתית מרכזית.
– עקביות — הוצעה.
– זריזות — הועלתה אבל התלמיד לא יכול להגדיר אותה בבירור.
אילו מידות ישיבות באמת מדגישות? הכיתה מתקשה לענות. זה עצמו מדהים ומעיד — אנשים עוברים שנים של חינוך ישיבתי בלי רשימה ברורה וניתנת לניסוח של מידות ליבה.
לעולם ה*שידוכים* יש שלושה קריטריונים סמויים משלו: (1) האם הוא לומד טוב? (2) האם יש לו *מידות טובות*? (3) האם יש לו כסף? זה מוצג בצורה הומוריסטית במקצת אבל גם ביקורתית.
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כשאנשים אומרים *מידות טובות*, מה הם באמת מתכוונים?
– מתינות (*לא מפונק יתר על המידה*) — מזוהה כמשמעות עיקרית. זו המידה הראשונה שמוצמדת.
– חסד — הוצע, אבל מאותגר. מה “חסד” באמת אומר? האם זה אותו דבר כמו להיות מועיל? ההבחנה חשובה: חסד הוא מעורפל ו״יכול להיות מחובר לכל דבר,” בעוד להיות מועיל (*עזוב תעזוב עמו* — החובה לעזור כשאתה רואה חסרון שאתה יכול למלא) הוא יותר קונקרטי ומכוון פעולה.
– ענווה — גם הוזכרה.
השאלה המרכזית, שעדיין פתוחה, ממוסגרת: איפה הרשימה הזו של מידות חיוניות? מה קורה עם העובדה שהיא לא נראית קיימת בצורה ברורה? להפוך לאדם טוב דורש את כל התכונות האלה, אבל המסורת (או לפחות החינוך הנפוץ) לא העבירה מסגרת ברורה וניתנת לשינון — וזו בעיה רצינית ששווה לחקור.
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הצעות נוספות מהכיתה:
– תקווה
– חיוביות
– התמדה — מסומנת כ״חשובה יותר
מכמעט כל דבר”
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אם קורא את הטקסטים הרלוונטיים (שמונה פרקים, הלכות דעות), מוצאים רשימות מרובות של מידות, והן אינן עקביות זו עם זו:
– שמונה פרקים, פרק ב׳ לעומת פרק ד׳: אותה רשימה מופיעה פעמיים אבל משתנה בין שתי ההופעות — הרמב״ם כנראה “שכח את הרשימה הקודמת שלו,” מסיר פריט אחד ומוסיף אחר.
– הלכות דעות, פרק א׳: רשימה שלישית.
– הלכות דעות, פרק ב׳: מעין רשימה רביעית.
נקודה מרכזית (מסומנת “בעיא” — בעיה): הרשימות אינן עקביות. זו קושיה פילוסופית אמיתית, לא רק סקרנות טקסטואלית.
מסורות מסוימות יש להן רשימות הרבה יותר ברורות ומאורגנות — למשל, חובות הלבבות, שבמלואו מתפקד כמעין רשימה של מידות.
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למרות חוסר העקביות, שיטת התכנסות מוצעת: להסתכל על מה שממשיך להופיע על פני רשימות שונות, תשובות של אנשים שונים, והזדמנויות שונות של הרהור.
– אם סוקרים אנשים רבים, או שואלים את עצמך שוב ושוב לאורך זמן, מידות מסוימות יחזרו. הפריטים החוזרים האלה הם ככל הנראה אלה שחשובים יותר, בסיסיים יותר, מרכזיים יותר, או נחוצים יותר.
– שיקול נגדי: אפשר גם שהמידות שאתה *לא* מזכיר הן בדיוק אלה שאתה הכי צריך — כי היעדרן בלתי נראה לך.
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הבחנה בין גישות מלמטה למעלה (אמפירית) ומלמעלה למטה (רציונלית):
– להסתכל על מה שאנשים טובים עושים — לצפות בהתנהגותם ולנסות לסווג אותה ל״קופסאות קטנות” (קטגוריות של נטייה).
– להסתכל על מה שמשתבש — לצפות בכישלונות ולהבין איזה עודף או חסרון הם מייצגים.
– זה מבולגן אבל אולי השיטה הטובה ביותר הזמינה.
– להתחיל מעיקרון כללי כלשהו (למשל, “מהו אדם טוב?” או “מהם בני אדם?”) ולנסות לגזור את המידות הספציפיות מזה.
– האתגר: איך עוברים מהטענה הכללית ביותר (“אדם טוב הוא מי שטוב בלהיות אדם”) לרשימה ספציפית של מידות מסוימות?
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חילופי דברים דיאלקטיים מתמשכים חוקרים האם אפשר להסיק את המידות הספציפיות:
– יכולות להיות טכנית מידות בלתי מוגבלות — אבל לא כל דבר יכול להיות מידה. מידות הן קטגוריות של נטייה אנושית, לא תכונות שרירותיות. השאלה היא איך למנות את הקטגוריות האלה.
– *חייבים* לעשות את זה אמפירית — להתחיל עם מה שבני אדם עושים, ואז להבין איך הם יכולים לעשות את זה טוב.
– אבל האם יש דרכים אחרות?
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תלמיד מציע לארגן מידות לפי אילו מידות הן תנאי מוקדם למידות אחרות — מבנה היררכי/סולמי. זה מפורט בזהירות:
– זו באמת דרך לארגן מידות, עדיין לא למנות אותן. ההבחנה חשובה.
– ההיררכיה היא למעשה סידור של פעילויות, לא ישירות של מידות:
– הפעילות הטובה/הגבוהה ביותר היא התבוננות/חשיבה (הדבר הטוב בעצמו, לא רק אינסטרומנטלי).
– מידות של חשיבה: איך לחשוב טוב, לחשוב נכון — אלה קטגוריה אחת.
– אבל כדי לחשוב, צריך תנאים מוקדמים (למשל, קיום חומרי/כסף), אז המידה של להרוויח כסף נכון היא קודמת זמנית אבל פחות חשובה ממידה אינטלקטואלית.
תובנה מרכזית: ההיררכיה לא נוצרת על ידי מניית מידות תחילה — היא נוצרת על ידי הסתכלות על המציאות ושאילת מה נחוץ למה. המבנה הארגוני בא ממבנה הפעילות האנושית ומטרותיה, לא ממניין עצמאי של מידות.
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הסידור האריסטוטלי של טובות/מידות לפי למה הן מובילות (היררכיית המטרות) אולי *נכון*, אבל הוא לא באמת עוזר ליצור רשימה של מידות. הסיבה: דברים מסוימים טובים רק כי הם משרתים שלב מסוים, לא כי הם תורמים למטרה הסופית ישירות.
דוגמה להמחשה: כדי להיות *תלמיד חכם*, צריך כסף; כדי להתחתן, צריך *גוטע מידות*. אבל ה*מידות* שהופכות אותך לנישואין הן טובות *לנישואין*, לא ישירות טובות *ללימוד*. כל שלב יש לו מידות נדרשות משלו. אז רשימת המידות אינה רשימה של שלבים, ולא רשימה של מה שנחוץ ל*שלב הבא* — היא רשימה של מה שנחוץ *בכל שלב מסוים*.
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גישה שלישית ליצירת רשימה מלאה בנויה על ההבחנה בין מידה אינטלקטואלית ומידת אופי:
– מידות אינטלקטואליות שייכות לשכל/מוח.
– מידות אופי שייכות לנפש התאווה/הרצון.
– אפשר לחלק עוד יותר לכמה כוחות או יכולות שיש לאדם.
– אם יש לך רשימה מלאה של חלקי האדם, אתה יכול ליצור רשימה מלאה של מידות על ידי הקצאת מידות לכל חלק.
נקודה מתודולוגית מרכזית (מלמעלה למטה לעומת מלמטה למעלה): התחלה מלמעלה (קטגוריות רחבות) נותנת לך רשימה שהיא לפחות *באופן כללי* מלאה — חלוקות משנה יכולות להתווסף אבל הקטגוריות ברמה העליונה כבר כוללות הכל. התחלה מלמטה (חלוקות משנה מסוימות שנצפו) מסתכנת בחוסר שלמות כי אתה רק לוכד מה שאתה במקרה שם לב אליו.
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1. אמפירית/מלמטה למעלה: לצפות באנשים, לאסוף רשימות, לקוות ששום דבר חשוב לא יחמיץ.
2. אריסטוטלית/טלאולוגית: לסדר מידות לפי היררכיית הטובות/מטרות; לזהות אילו מידות נחוצות בכל רמה או שלב.
3. שיטת חלקי-הנפש: למנות את כל חלקי הנפש (או הגוף, או החברה), ואז לקבוע את המידות המתאימות לכל חלק. זה מניב לפחות רשימה *באופן כללי* מלאה גם אם לא כל פרט משני נלכד.
*הערה: שיטות 2 ו-3 חופפות במקצת, שכן החלק הגבוה ביותר (המוח) יכול להיות גם המטרה הסופית וגם חלק ספציפי עם מידות משלו.*
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פגם יסודי בגישה המבוססת על חלקים: יכולות להיות מידות שלא שייכות לאף חלק בודד, אלא לאדם השלם, או ליחסים בין חלקים.
– אפשר למנות את כל חלקי השולחן (רגליים, משטח, ברגים, פינות, צבע) ולציין מה הופך כל חלק לטוב (רגליים חזקות, צבע מבריק, פינות מדויקות, וכו׳).
– אבל קיום כל החלקים המצוינים לא נותן לך שולחן טוב — זה נותן לך “חבורה של חלקים” (“זה IKEA”).
– שולחן עם הרגל החזקה ביותר האפשרית אבל משטח זעיר ולא מתאים הוא “איזה מפלצת מוזרה,” לא שולחן טוב.
– העיצוב, ההתאמה ביחד, הפרופורציונליות של חלקים זה לזה — אלה תכונות של ה*שלם*, לא של אף חלק בודד.
מסקנה: “זה למעשה מאוד טיפשי רק למנות חלקים. אתה חייב לדבר על הדבר השלם.”
נמשכת אנלוגיה לנוהג ב*גימטריה* של הוספת *כולל* (הוספת אחד למילה כשלמות). *רב פינקוס* מצוטט: בדיוק כמו שמילה היא יותר מסכום ערכי האותיות שלה, דבר הוא יותר מסכום חלקיו — צריך לתת דין וחשבון לשלם.
הערה ביקורתית עצמית: נוהג ה*כולל* שנוי במחלוקת — מכיוון שמוסיפים אותו רק כשצד אחד לא תואם, זה נראה כמו “רמאות.” אם תמיד היית מוסיף אחד להכל, זה לא היה עושה הבדל. האנלוגיה מוודה כלא מושלמת אבל הנקודה הבסיסית עומדת.
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הנקודה הפילוסופית העמוקה יותר: המידה האמיתית היחידה היא של השלם, כי מידות אינן תכונות של ידיים, רגליים, או אפילו תשוקות ספציפיות — הן תכונות של אנשים. אנשים אינם ניתנים לצמצום לחלקיהם. מידות הן *של אנשים*.
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מידות שייכות לאנשים שלמים, לא ליכולות מבודדות. בדיוק כמו שבריאות של יד אומרת שהיד מתפקדת טוב *בתוך הגוף השלם*, כך גם מידה כמו חסד נחשבת למידה אמיתית רק כשהיא משולבת עם האדם השלם.
“יותר מדי חסד” אינו באמת עודף של חסד כשלעצמו — זה אומר חסד שמתנגש עם ממדים אחרים של האנושיות של האדם או עם האנושיות של אנשים אחרים. כל מידה בודדת, שנרדפת בבידוד, הופכת מעוותת.
השלכה: אם אנחנו צריכים “מידות של השלם,” אז במובן מסוים כל מידות-החלקים כפופות למידה המקיפה של להיות אדם טוב ומשולב. אפשר לטעון שצריך פשוט לוותר על מידות-החלקים לגמרי.
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אם אנחנו נוטשים מידות-חלקים ופשוט אומרים “תהיה אדם טוב,” אין לנו *מאיפה להתחיל*. אין נקודת התחלה ניתנת לבידוד להבנה או טיפוח מידה.
פתרון המתח: אפשר להתחיל עם *כל מידה בודדת* (למשל, חסד), אבל אם רודפים אחריה באופן מלא ונכון, היא *בהכרח מרמזת על כל האחרות*. חסד שלם דורש חכמה, אומץ, צדק, וכו׳ — אחרת הוא הופך מעוות. זה אנלוגי למשל השולחן: רגל נכונה היא כזו שמתאימה נכון לשולחן השלם.
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העיקרון ההוליסטי ממחיש דרך מסגרת ה*מצוות*:
הנוסח של *לשם יחוד*: הוא אומר “ותרי״ג *מצוות* הכלולות בה” — כי אי אפשר לקיים כראוי אפילו *מצווה* אחת בלי לערב אחרות.
– כדי להניח *תפילין* כראוי, צריך *גוף נקי* (טהרה גופנית ונפשית) — זו כבר *מצווה* אחרת (מחשבות נכונות).
– ה*פרשיות* בתוך ה*תפילין* מכילות תוכן שחייב להיות משמעותי למניח.
– בעיית שבת: אם האדם הזה לא שומר שבת, הוא היה מניח *תפילין* בשבת — אבל זה לא נכון, שכן *תפילין* הוא *אות* ושבת כבר *אות*, מה שהופך את זה למיותר/סותר. אז הוא חייב לשמור שבת גם כן.
– הוא גם חייב לומר *קריאת שמע*, כי הגמרא אומרת שמי שמניח *תפילין* בלי לקרוא *שמע* הוא כמו מעיד עדות שקר (ולהיפך).
– הוא חייב ללמד תורה לילדיו (כפי שנאמר בפרשיות ה*תפילין*: *ולימדתם אותם את בניכם*).
– ואם הוא מלמד תורה בלי לקיים אותה, הוא שקרן — אז הוא חייב לשמור את כל התורה.
– מסקנה: *מצווה* אחת, שנעשית נכון ובשלמות, מייצרת את החיוב של כל האחרות.
הרוגצ׳ובר צדק שאסור לצמצם את ההפיכה ליהודי ל״הנח *תפילין*” — אבל האמת העמוקה יותר היא שהנחת *תפילין* באופן מלא *כן* אומרת כל השאר. חצי-*תפילין* אינם *תפילין* אמיתיים.
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כל *מידה* עובדת באותה דרך: אתה לא צריך למנות את כולן, כי עשיית כל אחת נכון כבר מרמזת על כל השאר. אבל אם אתה דוחף *מידה* אחת לקיצוניות בלי לדאוג לאחרות, אתה הופך קיצוני ונכשל אפילו באותה אחת.
– מהי ענווה? הענווה שנדונה קודם הייתה מידה *אינטלקטואלית* (פתיחות, הכרה שאתה עלול לטעות).
– איך ענווה אינטלקטואלית מתחברת לנפש התאווה (הממד התאווני/רגשי)? היא כן מתחברת, אבל דורשת עוד כמה שלבים להראות.
– בעיית ענווה מוגזמת: “אולי מישהו אחר צודק” שנלקח לקיצוניות הופך: “אני אף פעם לא יודע כלום.” זו לא ענווה — זה להיות *שמטה*, חלש נפשית במקום פתוח נפשית.
– אדם כזה נותן לאחרים לגנוב ממנו ומחבריו כי הוא “לא יודע מי צודק.”
– חיים וכל ה*מידות* תלויים בידיעה; אי אפשר לתפקד בלי ידיעה בטוחה כלשהי.
– ענווה דורשת מידה נגדית: משהו כמו אומץ או *עזות*. הכמות הנכונה של ענווה דורשת גם את התכונה ההפוכה במידה נכונה.
– איך יודעים את הכמות הנכונה? צריך ללמוד *חושן משפט* — כפי שנדון ב*שיעור* קודם מה*חזון איש* — כדי לדעת מי באמת צודק במחלוקות.
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התובנה ההוליסטית הזו היא נקודה אמיתית — כל מידה מרמזת על כל האחרות; אי אפשר לבודד אחת בלי השאר. אבל זו לא תשובה מלאה לשאלה היסודית.
– אף אחד לא יכול לתת רשימה סופית של ה*מידות* הטובות והרעות.
– אפילו לפי *שיטות* ספציפיות (למשל, ברסלב, שמדגישה *אמונת חכמים* ו*תמימות*): תגיד לי את הרשימה האמיתית!
– התנגדות המשנה: מישהו עלול לומר “למשנה יש רשימה.” זה נדחה כהתחמקות (*דרייינג מיר א קאפ*): לומר “יש משנה” לא עוזר אם האדם לא יכול למעשה לנסח מהי הרשימה והאם כל פריט באמת טוב או רע בכל הנסיבות. “דע את המשנה” אינו אותו דבר כמו רשימה ברורה וניתנת לשימוש.
– התסכול נשאר: הנקודה ההוליסטית מסבירה *למה* רשימות אינן מספיקות (כי כל מידה תלויה בהקשר ומחוברת), אבל היא לא פותרת את הצורך המעשי בהדרכה על מה המידות באמת הן.
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כשנשאלים לנקוב במידות החשובות ביותר, תלמידי ישיבה מצטטים מקורות — במיוחד את המשנה והמסילת ישרים והסולם המפורסם:
> זהירות, זריזות, נקיות, פרישות, טהרה, חסידות, ענווה, יראת חטא, קדושה
זה לא באמת עונה על השאלה. השאלה הייתה: *מי הוא האדם הטוב? מהי התמונה שלך של בחור טוב?* תגובה עם ציטוט מגלה שה״מידה” המוערכת ביותר בתרבות הישיבה היא היכולת לצטט משנה — שזו עצמה מעין מידה, אבל לא עיסוק מהותי בשאלה. ציטוט במקום חשיבה הוא “לא מעניין.”
אפילו המסילת ישרים עצמו הוא *חקירה* במה המונחים האלה אומרים — אף אחד לא באמת יודע את התוכן שלהם רק מהרשימה. הרשימה לבדה לא מעבירה מידע אמיתי.
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הבעיה משתרעת מעבר לתלמידי ישיבה:
– לרמב״ם אין באמת רשימה קבועה.
– לאריסטו אין רשימה קבועה — הוא משנה אותה בין ספרים ופרקים. זה בגלל שאריסטו הוא הוגה “מלמטה למעלה” שסוקר מידות בולטות אמפירית במקום לגזור אותן ממערכת.
– לאפלטון יש רשימות — “רשימות נכונות, כי הוא בחור מלמעלה למטה.”
חוסר היכולת הזה לייצר רשימה סופית מתואר כמעצבן באמת (*קשה*).
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הפתרון (*תירוץ*) למעצבנות הזו הוא דוקטרינת אחדות המידות:
– אתה לא באמת צריך רשימה נכונה ומלאה.
– רשימה מלאה אולי חשובה ל*לימוד התורה* (לימוד תורה כתרגיל אינטלקטואלי), אבל לא להפיכה לאדם טוב.
– כל רשימה סבירה של מידות בולטות שאתה צופה באנשים שאתה מעריץ תכלול באופן סמוי את כל המידות — כי אם לא, אתה מתאר אדם רע או לא מאוזן (“משוגע”).
– כשאדם צדיק מפורסם במידה מסוימת אחת, זה בדרך כלל אומר שהם הגזימו את המידה הזו — וזו למעשה הייתה **החולש
ה** שלהם, נקודת חוסר האיזון שלהם.
– דוגמה: “הוא היה כזה מסמיד — בקיצור, הוא אף פעם לא עזר לאשתו.”
– שבח של מידה בודדת במישהו לעתים קרובות מסמן את העיוות שלה במקום את השלמות שלה.
– האדם הטוב באמת — זה שעליו אנשים אומרים בהלוויה “לא היה בו שום דבר מיוחד, הוא פשוט היה בחור טוב” — הוא זה שיש לו את כל המידות במידה נכונה, אז אף אחת לא בולטת.
– אפילו להיות מורד חייב להיעשות בכמות הנכונה, לצד להיות קונפורמיסט בכמות הנכונה.
– האדם שעושה את שניהם נכון נתפס פשוט כ״בחור טוב” — אף אחד לא שם לב למרד או לקונפורמיות.
קושיא ידועה על דמות הידועה במיוחד במידת *אמת* מועלית. היא ממחישה את הנקודה הכללית: רוב האנשים אינם שלמים או מאוזנים.
תלמיד מציע ש״מידה ספציפית” של אדם אולי לא אומרת המידה היחידה שלו אלא נקודת הכניסה שלו — הדרך שלו לגשת לכל המידות האחרות. זה מתקבל כאפשרי: אם לוקחים כל מידה בודדת ברצינות ולא משתמשים בה כרישיון להזניח כל השאר, היא יכולה להוביל אותך לכל הדברים הטובים. סיפור התפילין מוזכר — התחייבות לעולם לא לשקר אילצה מישהו להפוך ליהודי שלם.
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תלמיד שואל האם מתכון האיזון של הרמב״ם אומר שהרגלה לאיזון במידה אחת גורמת לכל השאר ליפול למקומו.
1. שכלול מידה אחת דורש ידיעה של כל השאר — אי אפשר לשכלל *ענווה* בלי לדעת איך לשפוט מצבים נכון, מה שכולל את כל התחומים האחרים של החיים.
2. כישורים בדרך כלל לא עוברים טוב בין תחומים — להיות מעולה בגמרא לא הופך אותך למעולה במדע או בעבודה; אינטואיציות הן ספציפיות לתחום.
3. אותו דבר כנראה חל על מידות: שיפוט מוסרי הוא ספציפי לתחום ולא עובר אוטומטית.
יש אי הסכמה אישית עם עמדת “אחדות המידות” שהוצגה זה עתה:
– ככל שהרשימה שלך של מידות בעלות שם ארוכה יותר, כך יותר טוב — כי מתן שמות לדברים הוא אחת הדרכים שבהן אנחנו שמים לב איך צריך לפעול.
– צריך מילים כמו *ענו* (ענוו) ו*עז* (עז) כדי לזהות מה אתה עושה ברגע — “זה מאוד קשה להבין את זה בלי שיש לך מילה לזה.”
– עם זאת, רשימה ארוכה לא פותרת את הבעיה של איזו מידה ליישם מתי.
– ואי אפשר פשוט לומר “תהיה אדם טוב ותבין את זה” — צריך אוצר מילים ספציפי.
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מושג האיזון של הרמב״ם לא אומר להיות “מתון” במובן הפוליטי — “המתון שאף אחד אף פעם לא פגש.” זה אומר להיות הכמות הנכונה בכל מצב, שזה תקן הרבה יותר קשה ופחות פורמולרי.
האם מציאת “הכמות הנכונה” היא עצמה כישור ניתן להעברה נשאר שאלה פתוחה. החשד הוא שזה לא ניתן להעברה בקלות, אם כי אולי יש העברה מסוימת — במיוחד בהקשר של ה*פרישה* ושלבי התפתחות המידות — אבל זה נדחה לדיון עתידי.
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– אחדות המידות מציעה שאתה לא צריך רשימה כי כל המידות מחוברות וכל מידה אמיתית מרמזת על כל האחרות.
– אבל מעשית, מתן שמות והבחנה בין מידות חשובים מאוד למודעות עצמית מוסרית.
– האדם בעל המידות באמת יש לו את כל המידות באיזון, וזו הסיבה שהם נראים לא יוצאי דופן — “פשוט בחור טוב” — בעוד האדם המפורסם במידה אחת הוא כנראה לא מאוזן.
– האם שיפוט מוסרי ואיזון הם כישורים ניתנים להעברה בין תחומים נשאר שאלה פתוחה וחשובה.
– אהבת האמת — המידה שהשיקה את כל החקירה — היא עצמה משמעותית רק כשהיא עולה במשהו: כשהיא דורשת עקיפה של אהבה אמיתית של חברים, משפחה וקהילה. אלה שטוענים לאהוב אמת אבל חסרים להם הקשרים והמידות החברתיות האלה אינם מחפשי אמת אלא אגואיסטים.
המרצה: כן, זה הדף. אוקיי, הדף הוא כזה. מה הדבר החשוב ביותר בעולם? זו שאלה מוזרה. אוקיי, מהי המידה הראשונה שצריך להיות לך כדי להיות מנטש [אדם של יושרה וכבוד]?
כשיש לך ילד קטן וכולם יודעים שבנים נולדים בלי שום מידות או רק עם מידות רעות או עם מידות לא מעוצבות – תלוי באיזו מסגור אתה מעדיף – ואז אנחנו הולכים לחדר ומתחילים ללמד אותך איך להיות מנטש, נכון? אני רוצה שתהיה מנטש, נכון?
היום אמרתי למישהו שאני חושב שהסיבה שהיהודים לא מאמינים באבולוציה היא כי אנחנו צופים בקופים כל כך הרבה זמן – יכולתי להזכיר את אותם שדים של הקופים – והם עדיין לא הפכו למנטשן. זה נראה לא סביר.
אבולוציוניסטים באמת מאמינים בשיבה [כנראה: בשינוי על פני תקופות זמן עצומות], כאילו אתה יכול להיות קוף במשך מליון שנים ואז אתה מדבר עם אדם. אני לא יודע. זה נשמע לא סביר. זה לא נשמע ריאליסטי. הקופים שאני מכיר – קוף נוילד, קוף אומלס – לא קורה. הם לא הופכים למנטש, לעולם לא.
אבל האירי שזה יותר במידנהם [התייחסות לא ברורה], הוא חושב שאתה יכול להפוך לקוף אחרי מליון שנים, אתה יכול להפוך למנטש. אבל בכל מקרה, לא רק היהודים לא מאמינים בזה בגלל זה, הם טוענים שהם לא מאמינים במהפכה [אבולוציה] כי זה עושה את בני האדם קטנים מדי. זה ההיפך – זה עושה את בני האדם גדולים מדי. זה אומר שאפילו אם אתה קוף אתה יכול להפוך למנטש אחרי כמות מסוימת של שנים. זה צעד הבא מאוד ברור.
אבל אני מניח שאנשים רוצים שהכל יקרה מהר מאוד. זה חוזר לשיעורים הקודמים שלנו – איך לאנשים יש ציפיות לא ריאליסטיות על המחזורים של היקום.
המרצה: בכל מקרה, זה לא השמועה שלנו [הנושא]. אנחנו חוזרים לנקודה. הנקודה שלנו היא: מהי המידה הראשונה? אנחנו מלמדים ילד דבר ראשון זה שצריך להיות לך מידות טובות. אם אין לך מידות טובות, אנחנו לא מלמדים אותך כלום.
זה שיעור אחר, נכון? למה אנחנו לא מלמדים אותך כלום אם יש לך מידות רעות? למה אנחנו לא מלמדים אותך כלום אם יש לך מידות רעות? אנחנו לא מלמדים הרבה תורה.
כתוב ברמב״ם, מישהו בא לשיעור שלי ואני רואה שיש תלמיד [תלמיד שאינו ראוי], מה אני עושה? אני מחכה. אתה צריך להגיד לו שצריך לעשות את שני הפרקים הראשונים של תשובה ואז אתה יכול לבוא לשיעור.
ומה אנחנו עושים אם יש מישהו כזה והוא בא לשיעור בכל זאת? אתה לא יודע מה אנחנו עושים? זה מבחן על כל השיעורים הקודמים שלי.
אוקיי. התשובה היא שאנחנו אומרים את השיעור בכל זאת. והבחור שיש לו מידות רעות לא הולך להבין את השיעור. זה גזירה. זה שמירת פסח. שמירת פסח היא בלב שלך. אם אתה לא רוצה להבין, אתה לא מבין.
או אם לא אכפת לך מספיק – זו גם החוויה שלי – אתה יכול להמציא שיעור שלם אחר שהוא חושב שאמרתי. אבל אז לא ברור כמה זה אשמתי, או אולי זה קצת, אבל זו לא הבעיה שלי.
אז זו הנקודה: צריך להיות לך מידות טובות. אז מהן המידות שאנחנו אומרים לך להשיג? אם הוא בא ואומר מה עשיתי לא בסדר, אתה אומר, “ובכן, אכלת חסר [עשית משהו לא בסדר].” זו לא הנקודה, נכון?
אז מה זה? איזה סוג של בעיה יכולה להיות? מידות רעות – אלו הבעיות. זה רק כמה, לא כמה, הוא הפסיק לעשות את זה, או שהוא לא עשה את זה. ובכן, שעין שלח [לא ברור: אולי “מי שעשה מעשה רע”] אומר שיש לו מידות רעות, נכון?
מישהו שיש לו מידות רעות:
– אסור להראות לו את האמת
– גם לא יכול להראות לו את האמת
– וגם גורם נזק לכולם
יש הרבה דברים רעים בזה.
המרצה: אז השאלה שלי, השאלה המעניינת שלי היא: מהי הרשימה של מידות רעות שיש לנו, או מידות טובות, שהן ההיפך מהרעות, שאנחנו אומרים לך שאנחנו מוסרים לך – בוא לבוא לבית המדרש שלנו, בוא לתרבות שלנו, נכון? אנחנו מחנכים אותך. מה החינוך שלנו? מהי הרשימה של מידות שצריך להיות לך? שאלה חשובה מאוד, נכון?
אתה יודע מה הייתה הרשימה?
תלמיד: סבלנות.
המרצה: סבלנות. אוקיי.
תלמיד: אומץ.
המרצה: אומץ, לפחות כמות מסוימת. אוקיי.
תלמיד: קשב.
המרצה: קשב, אם זו מידה. מידות הן מה שאנחנו – זה ההיפך, נכון? הדברים, התכונות שאנחנו חושבים שהן חשובות לכל סוג של אדם שאנחנו מנסים ליצור. אלו המידות, נכון?
תלמיד: כמו לאהוב את האמת יותר מהדעה שלך.
המרצה: אה, אלו מהשיעור שלי. אוקיי, זה מה ששאלנו.
תלמיד: לא, כן, אני מניח שאני צריך להתחיל איפשהו, אחי.
המרצה: ובשביל להיות בחור טוב בחברה, מהן המידות?
תלמיד: האם סקרנות – האם סקרנות היא מידה?
המרצה: כן, זה קצת יותר מדי. לוקאס, זה ציטוט של מי ומי – כמו אריסטו ואוגוסטינוס או משהו כזה. אוגוסטינוס אומר שסקרנות היא התשובה לאיך להתמודד עם היצר הרע, ואריסטו נראה שחושב שסקרנות היא התשובה לאיך להתמודד עם המידות.
אז זו שאלה טובה מאוד: איזה סוג של חברה אתה אוהב? האם אנחנו מחזיקים בסקרנות בבית המדרש שלנו? אני לא חושב כך. נמוך בסולם. תלוי במה אתה מתכוון בסקרנות.
תלמיד: דבר מספר אחד. למה אתה מתכוון בסקרנות?
המרצה: לא עד כמה שעשיתי את זה. סקרנות במובן שאתה רוצה לדעת את האמת או סקרנות – תמיהה. אתה לא צריך לדעת דבר אקראי. אתה ואני שומעים על איזה אדם סקרן, אני חושב על כמו, “הייתי סקרן כמה רגליים יש לזחל.” נכון.
תלמיד: אוקיי. בתמיהה. הייתי סקרן. אתה יודע, מה למטה? כמו, אוקיי.
המרצה: הסקרנות בשבילי היא חיפוש אחר חיפוש אחר דברים שאין להם ארגון בסדר של [אין סדר חשיבות].
תלמיד: לא, אבל אני חושב שדיברת על זה פעם. הוא מדבר על משהו אחר.
המרצה: נכון. אתה מדבר על שני דברים שונים.
תלמיד: כן. דיברת על זה פעם. כן. אבל דיברת על זה פעם בשיעור. כמו שזה נקרא סקרנות.
המרצה: נכון. זה משהו כמו – אני חושב שזה או צורה של רכילות, אני לא יודע איך אומרים רכילות, רכילות, כמו לאהוב רכילות. כמו רוב ספרי היסטוריה הם רכילות, בשבילי, ואני אוהב את זה. זו הסיבה שאני קורא אותם, כי כולם, בני אדם אוהבים רכילות. אבל זה מה שזה מסתכם בו.
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תלמיד: מה עם לתעדף דברים מפתיעים?
המרצה: זה לא משהו שהולך להשפיע על השינוי באופי שלך.
תלמיד: כן, בדיוק.
המרצה: או שזה מצב של מתכבד בקלון חבירו. זה הכל עליך לדעת שאתה בחור חכם. אתה יודע את העסק ואת הפעולה [הסיפור] כמו גם את הפרק של הצביניק [חסיד שבתאי צבי], אבל אתה לא. אתה טוב יותר ממנו. אתה לא. אז זה חל עליך, אוקיי? אז אתה תהיה טוב יותר ממנו.
בכל מקרה.
המרצה: כן, אז זה אחד. אוקיי, אבל מהן המידות היותר בסיסיות? אנחנו מתחילים עם בחורים, אין מידות שהן הכרחיות להתקדמות אינטלקטואלית, כי אנחנו כביכול מנסים לעשות את זה. אבל כשאתה מלמד את הילדים שלך, מה אנחנו מלמדים אותם?
תלמיד: אני חושב שאנחנו לא יכולים לקפוץ, אני חושב שגם אנחנו לא יכולים לקפוץ.
המרצה: תודה רבה. אתה יודע שאני מנסה להגיע לשם, אבל אני מחפש דרך להגיע לשם. אתה מרמה. אתה כמו הצ׳אט שיודע מה אני רוצה להגיד.
תלמיד: ענוה?
המרצה: למידה אינטלקטואלית? בשבילנו, כן. סוג של ענוה, שאומרת פתיחות להקשיב.
מהם הדברים הגרועים ביותר?
תלמיד: אה, כעס.
המרצה: כעס?
תלמיד: כן, כעס.
המרצה: למה? אני לא יודע למה הייתי כל כך נגד כעס, בכנות.
תלמיד: מה האל שאתה כועס עליו?
המרצה: אה, כי אני חושב שזה כאילו איבדת את השכל, אז.
תלמיד: כן, בדיוק.
המרצה: לא, אני לא מדבר על זה. זה לא אומר כעס על המשנה ההיא.
תלמיד: מה אני יכול להתכוון לפחות הרמב״ם אמר –
המרצה: לא, הרמב״ם אומר שזה נגד כעס, זה נכון. אבל אני לא יודע אם יש את זה –
תלמיד: כן, שום דבר לא מכוסה.
המרצה: כן, מה זה אומר כמו – כמו חלק מהאלה, נכון? אני מניח שזה אותו דבר. אני לא רואה שזה דבר כל כך רע בכנות.
תלמיד: אוקיי, עכשיו אנחנו הולכים לדעות שלי.
המרצה: אה, כי אז זה היה אז היה מתנגש ברצון –
תלמיד: אוקיי, אוקיי, על האמת.
המרצה: אוקיי, זה מה שהוא אמר.
תלמיד: כן, נדיבות.
המרצה: רק כדי להיות ברור, אבל זה דבר אחד. זה דבר אחד מאוד חשוב. כל הלימוד, לימוד אומר שיש לך עניין באמת, שבעצם אומר במיוחד גשמיות אומר, נכון? כלומר, כתוב בספר הקדושה שזה מה שזה אומר, נכון?
ובכן, זה אחד הדברים שזה אומר. זה כמו, כן, זה היה קצת כמו, כן, אבל אני לא רוצה להיות צודק. אני רוצה שהאמת תהיה צודקת, נכון?
פשוט להיות מעוניין באינטלקט אומר לא לדאוג לעצמך או למפלגה שלך או לדת שלך או לאומה שלך או לכל דבר – רק לאמת, למה שקיים. זה אומר שאתה מסור, אתה נותן את עצמך למה שקיים. ואז זה מסירות נפש.
רוב האנשים לא באמת מוכנים לזה, אפילו אנחנו. אנחנו רק מצליחים לחיות על ידי חלוקה למדורים. זה מה שאתה מדבר עליו, במיוחד הפשטת הגשמיות והכתובים.
תלמיד: לא, כן, אולי במובן מסוים ראשון. אני לא יודע.
המרצה: אנחנו קופצים כאן כי אנחנו מנסים להתמודד.
תלמיד: זה היגיון אחד.
המרצה: כן, זה בהחלט נקודה אחת. אז אני אמור – עכשיו אני הולך לעשות את כל הצ׳אט הזה צ׳אט של אפלטון, כמו אקסטזיס [יציאה מעצמך], שאומר נאמר על זה ראשון.
האמת היא מחוץ לך, נכון? היא גדולה יותר מהרצונות שלך – אתה במובן של לא במובן של היכולת שלך לתפוס את האמת, אבל במובן של הרצונות שלך והדעות שלך, ההטיות שלך, כל מיני הדברים האלה – ורצון לדעת את האמת.
כשמישהו אומר, אתה יודע, כשמישהו בא ואומר, “אני רוצה לדעת את האמת,” מי יהיה להם את הרצון לדעת את האמת? אוי אלוהים, אתה רוצה לדעת את האמת? אלו הם אלה שרוצים להשתמש בזה למשהו, לאינטרסים שלהם.
תלמיד: כן, אני מניח.
המרצה: מי רוצה לדעת את האמת? כמה אתה רוצה לשלם על זה? מה אתה משלם בערבי רביעי? אה, דברים ראשונים. קודם כל אתה צריך לבוא כל רביעי ולוותר על הזמן שלך.
אבל ברצינות יותר, אתה צריך לוותר על הרצון שלך לנוחות. אנשים מסיבה כלשהי טוענים שהם נוחים ומאמינים בדברים שאין לנו מושג מה כל כך נוח בזה, אבל –
המרצה: שמעת אנשים אומרים את זה? “נוח לי להאמין במה שהאמנתי אתמול, אז אני לא רוצה לשנות את דעתי.” שמעת אנשים אומרים את זה?
תלמיד: כן.
המרצה: זה בטוח סוג של כן. גם לי אין מה כל כך נוח בזה. זה כמו, זה פשוט, זה עצלות, אני מניח, אבל כמו נוחות, אני לא יודע. לי יותר נוח לגלות כמו איך הדברים באמת, אני לא יודע. מה לא בסדר בזה? בעיקר אני לא יודע, אבל אוקיי. אני לא יודע אם אתה צריך להיות יותר נוח בזה. אתה בסדר להיות לא נוח כל עוד האמת הולכת לבוא יחד עם זה.
תלמיד: כן, אני לא יודע. זה בסדר.
המרצה: או שיותר לא נוח לך לא לדעת את האמת מאשר להאמין במה שאמרת אתמול. זה לא נוח. אז אתה מעמיד פנים שאתה יודע את האמת, אבל זה לא…
תלמיד: לא, כלומר…
המרצה: בשבילי, גם נוח להמשיך להאמין במה שאני כבר מאמין, אבל אפילו יותר לא נוח להאמין שהמסירות שלי לזה מסתירה ממני את האמת.
תלמיד: אוקיי.
המרצה: אני פשוט חווה אי נוחות גדולה.
תלמיד: כן, זה פשוט משחק מילים עכשיו.
המרצה: אני לא יודע, אתה מכיר אנשים שמסתובבים ואומרים שהם מחפשים את האמת? הרבי לא נותן להם את האמת, הם רוצים לדעת את האמת, זה הדבר שלך? אנשים אומרים דברים כאלה?
נראה לי שזה מאוד, איך קוראים לזה? זה מאוד חצוף להגיד שאתה רוצה את האמת. ראשית, אולי האמת לא רוצה אותך. איך אתה יודע שאתה ראוי לה? מה אתה עושה בשבילה? איך האמת תרצה אותך? אתה רוצה את האמת? אתה רוצה?
אבל אתה רואה, זה עכשיו אני מדבר על זה כאילו זו כמו מידה, כאילו זה כמו רצון. זה לא באמת רצון. זה תרגול, נכון? יש תרגול לזה. כמו שאנחנו אומרים, הכל, אפילו טקסים אינטלקטואליים מתחילים ומסתיימים עם תרגול, נכון? יש תרגול.
התרגול של חיפוש אמת הוא סוג כזה של שיח, סוג כזה של דיון שבו אנחנו אף פעם לא אומרים, “אה, ובכן, זה מה שאנחנו צריכים להאמין.” או שאנחנו אף פעם לא אומרים, כמו, “זה נראה קשה מדי לחשוב עליו.” אוקיי, אם זה קשה לחשוב עליו, אז אנחנו תקועים. בואו ננסה למצוא דרך לחשוב על זה או לדבר על זה. אבל זה תרגול, נכון? זה לא, אני צריך להגיד ככה? לא אומר כמו שאתה לא רוצה את זה – מה אתה עושה? אתה מתרגל את החיפוש של אמת או מתרגל את ההסבר של מה שמישהו אחר אמר, שזה דבר נחמד לעשות, אבל זה לא חיפוש אמת אלא אם כן אתה עושה את זה כי אתה חושב שזה הולך לחשוף יותר מציאות לך. אוקיי, זה בכל מקרה זו מידה אחת, מידה מאוד חשובה.
אבל אהבת אמת – אהבת האמת יותר מעצמך, אהבת האמת יותר מהמורים שלך, יותר מהחברים שלך, נכון? זוכר? אם אתה לא אוהב את החבר שלך, אתה רואה? עכשיו אתה מבין סיבה אחת למה הרבה מהמבקרים הם האנשים הגרועים ביותר. אתה מבין למה? יש סיבה אחת, לפעמים. לא בכל המקרים, אבל יש סיבה למה. למה מבקרים הם האנשים הגרועים ביותר?
כי זוכר אריסטו אמר בתחילת האתיקה, בספר 1, פרק 6, שאנחנו הולכים לא להסכים עם אפלטון, למרות שזה כמו טיפוס במעלה הגבעה לא להסכים איתו. למה? כי ככל שאנחנו אוהבים את החברים שלנו, את המורים שלנו – הוא קורא לכולם חברים, סוגים של אהבה. פיליה [φιλία: מונח יווני לידידות/אהבה], אתה חייב לאהוב – זו החובה או החסידות של פילוסופים לאהוב את האמת יותר מהחברים שלהם.
זה משהו שאפלטון אמר גם, או סוקרטס אמר, אומר את זה על הדבר הזה. מה שזה אומר הוא קודם כל אתה צריך לאהוב את החברים שלך ואז אתה – אתה אוהב את החבר שלך. אם אתה פילוסוף, אם אתה איזה אדם, אז אתה כנראה צריך פשוט לאהוב את החבר שלך. אתה אפילו לא יודע מה אומר לאהוב אמת. אבל אם אתה פילוסוף, אומר שיש לך אהבה לחכמה, יש לך אהבה לאמת, אז החובה שלך, אולי כולל החובה שלך לחברים שלך, היא לאהוב את זה יותר.
אז אל תגיד שאנחנו הולכים להגן על הדעה הזו כי זו דעה של החברים שלנו אם זה לא הגיוני לנו, אם אתה לא מבין את זה. אנחנו הולכים לתקוף את זה, אנחנו הולכים להכחיש את זה.
תלמיד: אולי רק פילוסופים צריכים לאהוב את החברים שלהם?
המרצה: לא, כולם אמורים לאהוב את החברים שלהם.
תלמיד: למה ככה עצה שזה חלק מאין חבר אחד?
המרצה: לא, לא, זה – יש סוג כזה של אהבה. כמובן שהפילוסופים אוהבים להגיד שהם היחידים שבאמת אוהבים את החברים שלהם, אבל כולם צריכים לאהוב את החברים שלהם. ופילוסופים צריכים לאהוב גם את האמת יותר מהחברים שלהם – לא לא לאהוב את החברים שלהם. אמרתי שזה לא נובע, זה לא נובע.
כלומר, אל תאהב רק את החכם, אהב את החכמה יותר מהחכם. זה בעצם איך שהייתי אומר מה שהוא אומר.
תלמיד: אבל אם החברים לא חכמים, אז אין המשכיות.
מרצה: מה זה אומר לאהוב את החברים שלך? אל תאהב אותם כמו את אשתך, אהוב אותם כמו שאתה אוהב את האמת, כמו עם שייכות. נכון?
תלמיד: לא, יש שנאים על עשק, אבל רגע, יש שנאים על עשק, לא?
מרצה: לשם הייתי הולך, נכון?
יש הרבה אנשים שמתהפכים, שטוענים שהם אוהבים את האמת והם אומרים שזה קל להם לאהוב את האמת. הם לא מבינים שלטעון שאתה אוהב את האמת זה לטעון משהו על הערך המוסרי שלך ועל איזה סוג אדם אתה. אתה מייחד את עצמך כאדם מרוב האנשים האחרים שלא אוהבים את האמת בשום דרך משמעותית.
והאנשים האלה אומרים, “מה אתה מתכוון? אבל הבחור הזה זה כל החברה שלי. כולם חיים בשקר. כולם מאמינים בכל מיני שטויות. ואני הראשון או האחרון שגילה את זה. ולכן אני הולך, אני לא יודע, לכתוב בלוגים באינטרנט נגדם, וכן הלאה.”
והבחור הזה, הוא חושב שהוא קיבל את אהבת האמת הזו בחינם. הסיבה שזה בחינם היא כי אין לו מידות טובות. הוא פשוט שונא את אשתו. הוא לא אוהב את החברים שלו. לכן, בשבילו, אין חכמה לאהוב אמת יותר מהחברים שלו, כי הוא בן אדם נוראי מלכתחילה. הוא פשוט אגואיסט גדול שאפילו לא רואה מעבר לאף שלו.
אם אתה בחור שלא רואה מעבר לאף שלך, ואתה קורא לזה לאהוב את האמת שלך יותר מלאהוב את החברים שלך, אתה לא בחור שאוהב אמת יותר מלאהוב את החברים שלו – אתה פשוט אדם נוראי. ואני זכיתי להכיר הרבה אנשים שכאלה. הם מתיימרים להיות אלה שאוהבים את האמת, אבל באמת הם פשוט אלה שלא יכולים לראות מעבר לאף שלהם.
ולכן, כל מחשבה שיש לו, בניגוד לכל דבר שמישהו אחר אמר לו – לאהוב את החברים שלך זה גם לקבל את המחשבות שלהם. אולי לא כאמת, כי אתה לא יודע מה זה אמת, אבל את הדעות שלהם. חלק מאהבת בנים, חלק מהנאמנות שלך לחברה שלך. זה מאוד חשוב. אני חושב שהמודרניות הרסה את זה על ידי יצירת חברות שהן ליברליות וכן הלאה – אנחנו לא צריכים להיכנס לזה.
אבל במציאות, חלק מהנאמנות לחברים שלך זה להסכים עם הדעות שלהם. ואתה יודע, בתוך רוב הגבולות, זה פשוט מה שידידות דורשת. אתה לא יכול להיות החבר שלי ולהגיד, “כל מה שאתה חושב זה שטויות.” אני אהיה מאוד כועס עליך. לא אני. כי אני בחור משוגע. ואיכשהו מצאתי דרך לתת לך קוגל בזמן שאתה אומר את זה. אבל רוב האנשים, זה כל העניין. זה מה שאנחנו צריכים לתת קוגל, יש לך.
אבל רוב האנשים, זה כמו, “למה אתה אוכל את הקוגל שלי אם אתה לא מכבד את האמונות שלי?” ולכן, האנשים שעושים אוי נגד זה הם בדרך כלל אנשים רעים. וזו מעשה רע לעשות, אפילו כפילוסוף.
הפילוסוף, הנאמנות שלו היא לאלוהים גבוה יותר. יש לו אמת גבוהה יותר, ערך גבוה יותר שמעבר לזה, ואיך זה עובד בתוך אנשים אחרים בחברה, אתה צודק. זה עובד הרבה יותר טוב כשהוא לא מסכים עם החברים הפילוסופים שלו. אם הוא הולך לא להסכים עם אמא שלו, זה אולי אפילו לא החובה של פילוסוף. אתה מבין?
יכול להיות שאפילו מישהו שהוא פילוסוף, החסידות שלו לחובה שלו ל – אני משתמש בחסידות כחובה למשהו, נכון? החובה שלו למשפחה שלו היא להסכים איתם. לא להסכים איתם באמת, אלא להגיד שהוא מסכים איתם. זה מה שאכפת להם ממילא. מה אכפת להם מה אתה חושב בלב שלך? זה לא הגיוני. אבל זו חובה אמיתית. זה מוסרי. אחרת, אתה אדם נוראי.
איזה סוג של אדם טוב אתה? כאילו אני יכול לתת לך – אני לא יודע על מי אתה רוצה שאדבר עכשיו – אבל איזה סוג של אדם אתה אם אתה כמו, “אני איש אמת, אני על האמת ולכן אמא שלי, אשתי, הילדים שלי…” זה לא איש אמת, זה פשוט שייגעץ. וזו אחת הסיבות שמבקרים הם לעתים קרובות אנשים נוראיים. לא תמיד, אבל לפעמים. חלקם הם פשוט אנשים שלא עברו סוציאליזציה. אין להם את המעלות החברתיות. הם לא אוהבים את החברים שלהם. ולכן זה מאוד קל להם להגיד הפוך. אבל אין להם את אהבת האמת שחורגת מזה.
מה שזה אומר – מה שזה אומר אני מאוד אוהב אותך, זה דבר אמיתי. ונכון, אם אברהם היה פשוט בחור שלא אכפת לו מהילדים שלו, סוג כזה של עקידה היה מעניין, נכון? זה מה שזה אומר. אני חוזר להגיד שלכן זה אומר בפסוק, “איפה אנחנו יכולים למצוא עד גדול יותר, הוכחה גדולה יותר שמישהו אוהב את הבן שלו, אם אלוהים עצמו אומר שאתה אוהב אותו?” התורה אומרת, “אתה אוהב את יצחק.” והילד הזה אתה צריך להיות כועס – אם הוא היה פשוט בחור, זה לא היה חכמה. הוא לא באמת אוהב אותו. אם הוא אוהב את יצחק, אז זו חכמה.
תלמיד: לא, אבל הוא כן אוהב אותו.
מרצה: כן, ואתה יודע מה מעניין? אברהם אומר – אברהם אומר דברים במדרש. זה אומר במדרש, במדרש, בכל פעם שמישהו אומר “אני אוהב את שניהם באותה מידה,” אתה יודע שהוא משקר, נכון?
מרצה: אני חושב כך. מה אתה הכי אוהב?
תלמיד: שניהם.
מרצה: אוקיי, אתה מתכוון להגיד שאתה לא אומר לי את האמת. אתה לא צריך להגיד לי את התשובה. אני לא אומר שזה אולי לא נכון להגיד את תשובת האמת. כלומר, אני אגיד לכל אחד, אפילו לעצמך, אני אגיד לי מי מכל אחד מכם אתה אוהב יותר. אבל זה תמיד נכון שמישהו אוהב את הילדים שלו יותר. ילד אחד או השני.
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: או אולי כמעט תמיד נכון. אלא אם כן אתה פשוט לא אוהב, וזה תירוץ אחד.
הגיע הזמן פשוט… חובות הלבבות אומר שזה לא היה כזה ניסיון אם אברהם לא היה עושה את העקידה בלי אהבה. כלומר, כמו מה שאתה אומר, האהבה לאמת יותר מהאהבה לחברים.
תלמיד: כן, בטוח.
מרצה: אם הוא היה בחור רע…
מצאתי את זה מדהים כשהוא אמר משהו כזה.
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מרצה: אתה בבירור מחליף את האהבה לילד שלך באהבה לאמת ועכשיו אתה אומר שכן יש לך אבל זה שלי אנחנו לפעמים לכן אנחנו ממשיכים לדבר על אברהם אבינו למטרה הזו נכון כי לאנשים יש את זה כמו תנור דמיוני אתה יודע כמו הבחור שאו הולך מסביב לחנות האבא הזה של האבא אני שובר את השבירה של הגאטשקעס שאולי קרה אבל היה נעשה לא לשמה לא היה מותר לעשות לא לתת לזה לעשות את זה נכון אז אז ילד זה זה מידה אבל זה כמו זה דבר גדול של מישהו לטעון לעצמו לאהוב את האמת אנחנו יכולים לדבר על התרגול שלכן זה קל למה התרגול של של חיפוש אחר אמת אחרת כשאני לומד כלום לא אומר שאתה זה לא דעה נכון.
מה ההבדל? הבדל אחד גדול בין דעה למחשבה. חשבתי משהו שאתה עושה, דעה משהו שיש לך, נכון? בכל פעם שמישהו שואל אותך שאלה אתה יכול להגיד כמו מה אתה חושב על זה, אתה מתכוון להגיד שאני צריך לחשוב איתך עכשיו על זה או שאתה מתכוון להגיד שאני צריך לתת לך הקלטה של מה שחשבתי על זה אתמול? זה מה שרוב האנשים עושים.
בדרך כלל אין לי דעה על זה. אוקיי בוא נלמד על זה. אבל זה דורש את הדורש את הסט והסטינג מוכן דורש את הנושא של ישוב הדעת דורש את הפתיחות להיות מסוגל לעשות את זה. עכשיו בדרך כלל אתה פשוט אומר אפילו לא מחשבות כמו הזיקוק של מחשבות שהיו לך בעבר או שמישהו אמר לך בעבר.
אוקיי, זו מידה אחת.
מהן המידות האחרות שאנחנו צריכים להיות בכלל כבני אדם? למה אין לנו, אתה רואה זה באמת מוזר, למה אין לנו כמו רשימה מאוד בסיסית של כמו אלה הדברים שאתה צריך לעשות? נדיבות?
תלמיד: אף אחד לא יודע.
מרצה: יש כמו ספר זה דברים, לא? מה אתה אומר כשמישהו מת כמו אתה עובר על רשימת המעלות ואתה מוצא איזה אחת הוא עשה נכון להספד שלו? מה הן אלה? מה הרשימה?
תלמיד: אני לא יודע.
מרצה: מה רע בנדיבות?
תלמיד: אני לא אומר שזה רע עם זה דבר אחד טוב.
מרצה: בכנות?
תלמיד: כן.
מרצה: אוקיי. אוקיי, בוא ננסה להקל על החיים. מהן שלוש העליונות?
תלמיד: לסיים?
מרצה: מהן שלוש העליונות?
תלמיד: לא, לאינטלקטואלי…
מרצה: לא, לדבר האינטלקטואלי.
תלמיד: ענווה?
מרצה: לפני מה שאנחנו צריכים ספציפית כדי להגיע לחכמה שבשירה. כי זכור, זה מה שאמרתי. אם אתה לא אדם טוב ואתה בא לחכמה, רוב המעלות האינטלקטואליות שלך כביכול הן מזויפות גם, נכון? אז קודם, להיות אדם טוב. מהם שלושת הדברים העליונים שאתה צריך לעשות?
תלמיד: גבורה היא מידה שם.
מרצה: למה?
תלמיד: ובכן…
מרצה: אני לא יודע. אני הולך לגרום לך להצדיק דברים עכשיו. מהן שלוש המעלות העליונות? ללייקווד, להאוול, אני לא יודע מה, איזה שזה.
תלמיד: זה פשוט אומר לעשות הכל בדרך הנכונה.
מרצה: הכל פשוט אומר הכל בדרך הנכונה. אנחנו מנסים לדבר ביותר פירוט מזה, נכון? מהן שלוש המעלות העליונות? אתה יכול ללמוד הרבה על אדם או חברה על ידי שאלת השאלה הזו להם. אני לא יודע אם תשאל אותם ישירות, הם בדרך כלל משקרים, אבל תגלה. מהם שלושת הדברים העליונים שאנשים משובחים או מואשמים עליהם בכיתה שלך?
תלמיד: ובכן כדבר רע הרע הוא לפחות הפוך מהטוב נכון.
מרצה: בניו יורק טיימס מהם שלושת הדברים הטובים והרעים העליונים?
תלמיד: אני העבודה הטובה יותר וזה עבודה טובה יותר לחומרני ומחפש הנאה.
מרצה: זה הדבר הטוב?
תלמיד: לא דבר טוב, זה דבר רע.
מרצה: אני הולך לעשות את זה לך לפי רוב האנשים. כלומר רוב האנשים זו לא מעלה, זה כמו אפיון של כמו מה הן מעלות כמו סוגים של אנשים נכון או חלקים ספציפיים של סוגים של אנשים נכון.
בסדר, אוקיי. כולכם הלכתם לישיבה ואז ישיבה מה מה הלא זה עדיין ושם ישיבה על שלוש המעלות העליונות שנידונו.
תלמיד: אני לא יודע.
מרצה: אני פשוט הולך לתת יושר, יושר, ענווה, ונדיבות, הימנעות. זה נכון או שאתה פשוט אומר?
תלמיד: אה אתה פשוט מרכיב רשימה אתה לא מקליט.
מרצה: למה אלה שלושה יהיו שלושת הדברים העליונים?
תלמיד: הייתי אומר הימנעות.
מרצה: והישיבה או כאן בישיבה?
תלמיד: אוקיי, מספר אחת, מספר שתיים, עקביות. אוקיי, מספר שלוש, הימנעות שוב.
מרצה: זה היה אותו אחד שכבר אמרתי את זה.
תלמיד: ובית בדרייב העליון עם הצעצוע הזה אבל זה מה שאני עושה.
מרצה: איך אתה אומר את הסיבות שלו באנגלית? אני לא יודע מה זה אומר.
תלמיד: מה זה אומר?
מרצה: אני מסביר מה אתה מתכוון מספיק כדי להיות לך מילה אתה יכול פשוט להגיד מה אתה מתכוון זה בסדר.
מהן שלוש המידות הטובות העליונות? המכשיר הזה התמזג לך תרגיל בית. אנחנו הולכים לוותר על דפי שיעורי בית וכולם צריכים לעשות סיעור מוחות על זה. זה לא מוזר שלאף אחד אין תשובה כאן? אתה יודע מה אני אומר את זה עשיתי את זה סליחה אנחנו לא לומדים על זה ושהיא.
תלמיד: על מה אתה לומד?
מרצה: ובכן אתה לא לומד על זה אבל זה כל מה שהם עושים אולי לא במפורש בדרך של כמו לתת לך את כל זה לשנן אוקיי אבל אתה עושה כמו הם כן מוסרים סוג של חיים שבעצם יכולים להיות מוגדרים באיזושהי דרך כזו.
מה שלושת הדברים העליונים שהם אומרים לבחור במידע השידוך? אני יודע את שלושת הדברים העליונים האלה. איך אתה אומר טכע כברה במישהו אמיתי לא מזויף? זה משהו שהם מחזיקים בישיבה?
תלמיד: ובכן זה לא הציור של הישיבה אבל כלומר יכול להיות שהם מטיפים לזה.
מרצה: הם עושים יכול להיות אני לא ממש בטוח שזה ייקרא משהו כמו הלכתי בימינו לא הישיבות שהלכתי אליהן אבל אולי חלק עושים אני לא יודע לתת את היתרון של הספק אולי אבל בישיבה הם מחזיקים משלושה דברים חסד חסד זה בטוח בעולם השידוכים זה אומר האם הוא לומד טוב האם יש לו עסק והאם יש לו כסף.
יש משהו אחר שהשדכנים לא יודעים?
תלמיד: זה כל כך מצחיק.
מרצה: עם השירות הזה, מה זה אומר?
תלמיד: זו שאלה טובה.
מרצה: כי זו הייתה שאלת מלכודת עכשיו. זה מפנק יתר על המידה. מה המילה לזה? מה זה מתכוון מפנק?
תלמיד: זה מפנק.
מרצה: מה זה? איך אתה אומר את זה בשדכנות? אנגלית, לא אכפת לי. אנגלית מתינות.
אז מתינות היא מספר אחת. אז כן חסד אני לא יודע כמו חסד כמו מוכן לעשות אתה שואל אותי אישית אני אומר אני וענווה.
תלמיד: זה החסד שלי, חסד זה מוכן לעשות למישהו אחר טובה לא רק רק למישהו אחר להיות טוב לעצמך לפתח לעשות טוב לא טוב בטוב של אריסטו אבל כמו שיש לזה להיות יותר אותם סוג של דברים.
מרצה: כן מה שאתה רואה אלה הם בקרוב אתה יכול ממש על היקר שלך אבל אתה חושב מה זה למעלה אז אני חושב היה הוא חם כן העולם שלי אין מחשבות על זה חסד לא תגיד לי מה הייתה המחשבה על חסד חסד אתה יכול לחבר את זה לכל דבר בשבילך נכון כי על מה אתה מדבר זה משהו כמו עוזר להיות מועיל, נכון? לא אותו דבר כמו חסד.
תלמיד: נכון. אולי זה מה שאתה מתכוון. אני מועיל.
מרצה: כן.
תלמיד: ומה היא אמרה שזה היה הוא פשוט אמר דברים אקראיים.
מרצה: כן, פשוט זרקתי את זה החוצה. מה באמת הדברים? וואו, אוקיי?
אז יש לי הרבה דיונים כאן הרבה תורות להגיד אבל אני שואל ככה. ראשית, יש שאלה רצינית, איפה הרשימה הזו או מה קורה עם הרשימה הזו? אתה זוכר שלהיות אדם טוב בעצם אומר כל הדברים האלה.
מרצה: יש למישהו רשימה? רשימה מלאה של כל הדברים הטובים והדברים הרעים? לא הדברים הטובים, המעלות הטובות והמעלות הרעות, וההפך ממעלות, נכון? הרזילות.
תלמיד: תקווה.
מרצה: לא בדיוק מה שאתה מתכוון.
תלמיד: שימוריות.
תלמיד: התמדה.
מרצה: התמדה, זהו, מה שאומר שזה מאוד חשוב אם אתה כמעט כל דבר.
מרצה: אז אנחנו יכולים לקרוא קצת אם אתה רוצה, או שאני יכול לדבר איתך על מה שדברים אומרים בספרים. אם אתה קורא את הספרים שאנחנו קוראים, כמו שמונה פרקים, תמצא שיש רשימות שונות של הדברים האלה, רשימות שונות. אני תוהה אם קראת את שמונה פרקים והלכות דעות, או אם קראת, מה עוד כדאי לקרוא לרשימות כאלה? כל דבר שתקרא, תמצא שיש להם רשימות שונות.
ודבר אחד שתמצאו במיוחד במקומות כמו הרמב״ם הוא שאין להם רשימה, לא רשימה ברורה במיוחד, אם אתם שמים לב לזה. ואם אכפת לכם ממראה מקומות, אתם יכולים לעיין בהלכות דעות פרק ב׳ ופרק ד׳, שם יש את אותה רשימה פעמיים והיא משתנה ביניהם. הוא שכח את הרשימה הקודמת שלו. הוא הוציא דבר אחד והוסיף משהו אחר או משהו כזה. אתם יכולים לעיין בהלכות דעות פרק א׳ שם יש רשימה שלישית, או הלכות דעות פרק ב׳ שם יש מעין רשימה רביעית. ואתם רואים שהרשימות לא עקביות.
זו בעיה אחת. ואם אני שואל אתכם, יש לי כל כך הרבה רשימות שונות ואני לא יודע מה קורה.
תלמיד: נשמע מעניין.
מרצה: יש כמה מסורות עם רשימות הרבה יותר טובות, הרבה יותר בהירות לגבי מה הרשימה שלהם של דברים טובים ורעים. אפילו ספר כמו חובות הלבבות הוא בכללותו מעין רשימה של מידות טובות, נכון? זו בעיה אחת.
מרצה: דבר מעניין אחד שאנחנו יכולים להשתמש בו כאן מהרשימות האלה הוא לשים לב שיש מכנים משותפים, דברים שממשיכים לצוץ. אז אם אני אעשה סוג כזה של סקר או סוג כזה של דיון עם יותר אנשים ובאמת אתפלא מה קורה, מה הופך להיות הדברים שאנשים ממשיכים לומר, או אם אתה שואל את עצמך חמש פעמים בשבוע או חמש פעמים, תראה מה הרשימה שלך של מידות טובות. וכמובן, חלק מהן הולכות להשתנות וחלק מהן לא ישתנו. חלק מהן ימשיכו לעלות שוב ושוב. וככה אתה מגלה אילו הן אלה שיותר חשובות, או יותר בסיסיות, או יותר מרכזיות, או יותר נחוצות. נכון? מובן?
או אולי אלה שאתה לא מדבר עליהן, אלה הן אלה שאתה צריך, ואנחנו לא מדברים עליהן כי זה גם אפשרי, נכון?
מרצה: יהיו גם הרבה דרכים שונות להחליט לעשות רשימה כזאת, נכון? דרך אחת תהיה מה שאמרתי לכם עכשיו. בואו ננסה לחשוב על אחד הדברים הבולטים ביותר, מה הדברים הכי ברורים, מה הדברים שהכי בולטים לכם כשאתם מסתכלים על אנשים ומסתכלים על מה שאתם מנסים ללמד אותם, ואתם מוצאים שזו הרשימה.
דרך יותר רציונלית תהיה איכשהו להבין איך לעשות את הרשימה הזאת, נכון? איך הייתם, מה תהיה הדרך הנכונה לעשות רשימה כזאת? אני לא יודע. אתם יכולים לחשוב על כמה דרכים נכונות? מה הדרך הנכונה לעשות רשימה בכלל?
תלמיד: מה נדרש בשבילה.
מרצה: מה נדרש לאחת.
תלמיד: לשלב הבא.
מרצה: מה עוצר, מה הן עצירות, מה אתה מתכוון בשלבים?
תלמיד: שלבים שלה. זה השלב, הרשימה הזאת היא השלב לפני המידות האינטלקטואליות, נכון?
מרצה: זהו, אני לא יודע. או אם אין לך את אלה אז אתה לא יכול להגיע לזה, נכון?
תלמיד: בסדר.
מרצה: נגיד. אז אז תצטרך להבין כמו מה נדרש, אבל זה לא הדבר היחיד, זו לא הדרך היחידה, אתה יודע, אני יכול לעשות את הרשימה, נכון? רק כדי להיות ברור מה, תסתכל על מה שאנשים טובים עושים, תסתכל על מה שאנשים עושים. זו תהיה הדרך הראשונה. זה נראה כמו דרך מאוד מבולגנת לעשות דברים. אולי זו הדרך הטובה ביותר, אבל זו דרך מבולגנת. בואו ננסה, בואו ננסה כמו לשים את כל הדברים שהם עושים או את הדרכים שהם פועלים לתוך כמו קופסאות קטנות. ואתה יכול לעשות את ההיפך, אתה יכול לראות מה משתבש בעולם ולהבין מה זה עודף של.
תלמיד: כן, כן, נוכל לעשות את זה גם.
מרצה: אבל צריכות להיות גם כמו דרכים יותר רציונליות לעשות דברים, נכון? כמו דרכים יותר מלמעלה למטה לעשות דברים. זו תהיה דרך אחרת להסתכל על הפרטים קודם, נכון? להתחיל מלמטה. או הדרכים להתחיל מלמעלה.
תלמיד: אני לא אוהב את מה שאתה אומר, מה המהלך הבא, כי כמו זה לא כל מה שעושה את ה, בהנחה קודם כל אתה כבר שם הנחה שלמה.
מרצה: מה טוב באנשים?
תלמיד: כן, כן, אני מבין את זה, אבל זה כמו, אז איך אנחנו מתחילים?
מרצה: ואז אתה פשוט יכול לומר מה טוב באנשים זה להיות אנשים טובים. מה הם אנשים? כן, כן. זה הדבר הכי כללי. עכשיו אנחנו מדברים על משהו הרבה יותר ספציפי, נכון? אנחנו מדברים על רשימות ספציפיות של דרכים, דרכים מאוד ספציפיות שבהן אנשים טובים ורעים. אז איך היינו מגיעים משם לכאן? יש דרך? איך היינו מגיעים ממה שאתה אומר, למשל? מה?
תלמיד: איך להגיע ממידה למידות?
מרצה: כן. יש דרך לעשות את זה?
תלמיד: דבר כמו שאנחנו אומרים אדם טוב, מישהו שטוב בלהיות אדם.
מרצה: בסדר, ואיך אנחנו מגיעים מזה לרשימה שלך מקודם? כלומר יכולות להיות טכנית מידות בלתי מוגבלות, נכון?
תלמיד: למה?
מרצה: כי מה שמידה היא, שמשהו הוא דרך הזהב, כלומר זה מכוון אדם למטרה שלו.
תלמיד: אני הולך אלי בכל זאת.
מרצה: לא, דרך הזהב היא רק דרך לתת לך מבנה למידות, אבל זה לא אומר לך אילו הן.
תלמיד: לא, נכון, זה מה שהתכוונתי, שכל דבר יכול להיות מידה.
מרצה: אז עכשיו אנחנו מדברים על אילו הן.
תלמיד: לא, לא כל דבר יכול להיות מידה. אלה קטגוריות של נטייה אנושית.
מרצה: בסדר, אז איך אנחנו הולכים לרשום את הקטגוריות האלה? אנחנו הולכים ליצור את הרשימה שלנו.
תלמיד: אתה צריך לעשות את זה אמפירית.
מרצה: אני צריך?
תלמיד: אני חושב כן.
מרצה: כן, אתה צריך להתחיל במה שבני אדם עושים, ואז להבין איך הם יכולים לעשות את זה טוב. איך אחרת היינו עושים את זה?
מרצה: איך אחרת היינו עושים את זה? אני יכול לחשוב על דרכים אחרות לעשות את זה. מה תהיה דרך אחרת?
תלמיד: כן, כלומר, מה כבר חשבו, כבר על דרך אחרת?
מרצה: לא, הבעיה עם זה תהיה משהו כמו, כמו רק כדי להיות ברור, מה שאתה כבר, מה שאתה עושה זה כבר רשימה של מידות, נכון? אתה רק מדבר על איך לחלק את הרשימה הזאת, נכון? במילים אחרות, אם אתה, אתה כבר אמרת לי תשובה ואז, כן, אני באמת עדיין לפני התשובה הזאת, נכון? זו הבעיה הראשונה, לא בעיה. זה פשוט שלב כלשהו שצריך להיבנות.
מרצה: כמו שאמרת לי, יש מידות שמובילות למידות אחרות. ואנחנו קוראים לאלה גבוהות יותר מסיבה כלשהי או קרובות יותר למטרה הסופית האמיתית, נכון? בסדר, אז זו דרך אחת לארגן אותן כבר. לפני שאתה עושה את השלב הבא שלך, אתה קופץ מהר מאוד, נכון? דרך אחת לארגן אותן היא לומר משהו כמו, יש את המטרה הטובה ביותר, הטובה ביותר במובן הדבר שיותר דברים מובילים אליו או יותר מטרה, ויש מעין סולם או כמו מדרגה להגיע לשם, נכון? וזו דרך אחת לארגן את המידות כבר.
אנחנו יכולים לקרוא לזה, במובן של, זה לא רק ארגון המידות, רק כדי להיות ברור, זה באמת ארגון של מה אנחנו באמת מארגנים כאן? הפעילויות, הדברים שאתה עושה. אם מישהו אומר משהו כמו הדבר הטוב ביותר לעשות במובן של הדבר שהוא טוב בעצמו או שהוא יותר טוב בעצמו מדברים אחרים. דברים אחרים טובים כי הם מובילים לזה, וזה לא טוב כי זה מוביל לדברים אחרים.
הדבר הטוב ביותר לעשות הוא לחשוב, להרהר, נכון? כדי להרהר אתה צריך לרשום כמה דברים, אתה צריך להיות בעל ענווה. אז, הנה דרך לסדר את המידות, הנה דרך לארגן אותן לפי סוג הפעילויות שהן עוסקות בהן, נכון? הפעילות הטובה ביותר היא חשיבה ויש כמה מידות של חשיבה, איך לחשוב טוב, איך לחשוב נכון, מה נדרש לחשיבה, לחשיבה נכונה וכן הלאה. אלה יהיו סוג אחד של מידות. עדיין לא דנו איך לחתוך אותן, נכון?
אבל אז כדי לחשוב אתה צריך קודם להיות בעל כסף, בסדר, כמות מסוימת של כסף. אז לכן האומנות והמידה של עשיית כמות מסוימת של כסף נכון קודמת לזה בזמן ופחות חשובה מזה בחשיבות. אז אתה כבר נתת לי דרך לארגן את זה, למרות שלא לרשום את זה, כי נראה שמה שאתה רושם זה לא לגמרי המידות, אלא ההיררכיה שלך, כביכול, לא נוצרת על ידי רישום מידות, היא נוצרת על ידי הסתכלות על המציאות ואמירה, מה נדרש כדי שזה יעבוד?
מרצה: ואז כשאתה אומר לי מה טוב זה מה שמוביל לזה, זה אולי נכון, אבל זה לא עוזר לי לעשות רשימה, נכון? ויכול גם להיות שיש דברים שטובים רק בגלל שלב אחד, לא בגלל השלב הבא, נכון?
כדי להיות תלמיד חכם, אתה צריך להיות בעל כסף, בסדר? אתה צריך להתחתן. זה שלב אחד במשנה או מה שזה לא יהיה, ואז אתה מתחתן, אתה צריך להיות בעל מידות טובות, כי אחרת אף אחד לא רוצה להתחתן איתך. מה שעושה את זה שיש לך את סוג המידות הטובות שעושות אותך חומר נישואין טוב זה שהן טובות לנישואין, לא שהן טובות ללימוד.
רק לשרעידא, מכיוון שיש לנו גופים ויש לנו את הצרכים האלה וכן הלאה, אז חיים טובים כוללים להתחתן ולהיות בעל המידות שחלות על נישואין, ולכן כאן בשביל אז להיות מסוגל לחשוב. אז נוכל לארגן את המידות אם אתה רוצה בדרך הזו, על ידי מעין מה נדרש בשלב הזה, מה נדרש בשלב ההוא, והשלבים מאורגנים לוגית לפי מה טוב יותר.
אבל אנחנו לא באמת מקבלים רשימה מהשלבים. הרשימה היא לא רשימה של שלבים, וזו גם לא רשימה של מה נדרש לבא. זו רשימה של מה נדרש לזה. אתה מבין מה אני אומר?
מרצה: יש דרך אחרת לסדר אותן, שהיא בעצם זה, אבל בדרך קצת שונה, שהיא כבר עשינו את זה, נכון? כמו כשדנו במושג של מידה אינטלקטואלית מול מידת אופי ודברים כאלה, נכון? שזה מה? זה מחלק אותן—אני הולך לומר לכם את התשובה הייתם צריכים לדעת את זה, הייתם צריכים להבין את זה בעצמכם—זה מחלק אותן לפי הדברים שהן עוסקות בהם, לפי חלקי הנפש שהן עוסקות בהם או חלקי האדם שהן עוסקות בהם, נכון?
אנחנו אומרים מידות אינטלקטואליות הן המידות של האינטלקט או של המוח או השכל. ומידות האופי הן אלה של הנפש המתאווה, זוכרים? נפש התאווה, משהו כזה. אז זה היה, ואם אתה רוצה, אתה יכול לחלק את זה לכמה סוגים של דברים שזה עושה, שאנחנו יכולים לומר כביכול שהם חלקים שונים שלו, כוחות שונים שלו. ואז יהיה לנו דרך להיות בעלי מעין רשימה שלמה אם אתה יודע את הרשימה השלמה של חלקי האדם אתה יכול פשוט ליצור רשימה שלמה של המידות על ידי עשיית זה.
תלמיד: ובכן זה הגיוני.
מרצה: לא, לא, או לא?
תלמיד: אבל לא, כי לדברים האלה יש חלוקות משנה וחלוקות משנה.
מרצה: כלומר, האם אתה—אבל תאוות חלות על עצמן אפילו לחוויה. אבל כשאני עושה—רק להיות מאוד ברור—כשאני עושה חלוקות משנה, אתה רואה, כמו, יש—תלוי במה אתה מחפש כשאתה מחפש רשימה שלמה. דרך אחת להיות שלם היא לפחות מה שאני אומר כבר כולל הכל בתוכו. ואם חלוקות משנה לא מפריעות לי, אתה יכול לחלק למשנה כמה שאתה רוצה, עדיין יש לי רשימה שלמה. אם אתה מתחיל מלמטה, אז אתה מסיים עם רשימה לא שלמה, כי אתה פשוט התחלת מהחלוקות המשנה הנמוכות ביותר שבמקרה שמת לב אליהן. אם אני מתחיל מלמעלה, יש לי רשימה טובה יותר, כי אני יכול לחלק למשנה, אבל עדיין יש לי את הכלל ברמה העליונה, שכולל הכל.
זו תהיה דרך שונה לעשות את זה, דרך מאוד שונה לעשות את זה, נכון?
מרצה: אני רוצה לומר לכם סיבה אחת למה זה לא הולך להספיק, וזו הולכת להיות בעיה. בינתיים, יש לנו שלוש דרכים לעשות את הרשימה הזאת:
1. דרך אחת היא לעשות את דרך המחקר האמפירי ולהסתכל על כל האנשים ולעשות רשימות ולקוות שאנחנו לא מפספסים שום דבר חשוב, הדרך לגמרי מלמטה למעלה.
2. דרך אחרת תהיה לעשות את הדרך של עדי, שהיא לסדר אותן לפי סדר הטובות, אז לדבר על מה נדרש או אולי מה מסוים, בכל שלב כפי שאנחנו קוראים לזה, או כל רמה או כל מדרגה יצטרך מידות מסוימות כדי לגרום לזה לעבוד טוב.
3. הדרך השלישית תהיה, שהיא קצת קרובה לדרך השנייה, כי הדרך השנייה, לפעמים אומרים, להיות כמו הדבר הטוב ביותר זה לפעול עם השכל שלך. אז החלק הזה הוא גם מטרת הסוף, גם הדבר הטוב ביותר, אבל זו גם המידה של חלק ספציפי. ואז פשוט נרשום את כל חלקי הנפש, כל חלקי הגוף, כל חלקי החברה, ונקצה או נבין מה המידות בשביל זה. אולי נצטרך לחלק אותן למשנה, אבל לפחות יהיה לנו רשימה מלאה—רשימה מלאה, או רשימה כללית מלאה, גם אם אין לנו את כל הרשימות המלאות במיוחד, נכון?
זו הייתה הדרך השלישית לעשות דברים.
מרצה: הבעיה עם הדרך השלישית היא מה? הבעיה היא שכולם עייפים ורוצים לישון. אבל חוץ מזה, כן, יש מידה של שינה מספיק. מאוד חשוב.
הבעיה עם זה היא, מה עם המידות האלה שלא של חלק? אז נצטרך להוסיף עוד דברים. אולי יש מידות על יחסים של חלקים, על כל הדבר.
תלמיד: אני רק אמרתי את זה.
מרצה: אני רק אמרתי שאולי יש לך את זה. אתה יכול לעשות רשימה של מידות על ידי רישום כל החלקים ואז לומר מה טוב לכל חלק ואז יש לנו רשימה מלאה. אבל זה נראה מאוד ברור שזה לא נכון כי—מה אם הם די בטוחים שיש מידות ששייכות לכל הדבר או לפחות תיווך בין החלקים או ליחס בין זה—
תלמיד: לא, אני צריך לחשוב מה לא בסדר עם זה רגשי משהו שעוסק במאורגן.
מרצה: ובכן, אני יכול לתת לך את המשל של השולחן שלי, נכון? זוכרים את המשל של השולחן? כמה חלקים יש לשולחן? כמה מעלות יש לשולחן—תתחיל לרשום אותן. בואו נעשה את אותו משחק. אתה נגד זה? אני שואל אותך. רשום את זה. אתה נגד זה? תתחיל לעשות את זה ובואו נראה.
תלמיד: יציבות.
מרצה: ובכן, זה צריך להיות—לא, אנחנו פשוט צריכים לעשות את זה. הדרך לעשות את זה היא לחתוך את זה לחלקים ולהסתכל על כל חלק, נכון? טוב מאוד. אז זה צריך להיות עשוי מ—
תלמיד: לא, לא, לא, זה המקורי.
מרצה: הצבע צריך להיות מבריק, הרגליים צריכות להיות חזקות, החיתוכים צריכים להיות ישרים, ה—אני לא יודע אילו חלקים אחרים—צריכים להיות מדויקים, הפינות צריכות להיות מיושרות וכן הלאה, נכון? אלה—כשאנחנו מסיימים לרשום את כל ה—הברגים צריכים להיות עשויים מחודדים וחזקים וכן הלאה, נכון?
עכשיו אנחנו מסיימים את כל זה. יש לי שולחן טוב? יש לי חבורה של חלקים, נכון? זה איקאה, נכון? עכשיו אתה צריך לבוא ולהרכיב את זה, נכון?
עכשיו אני לא רק הולך לשים מעשה ממשי של הרכבה, גם מעשה התכנון או היצירה שלו אומר לחשוב על איך כל הדברים האלה הולכים להתאים ביחד. אם יש לך מאוד חזק כמו—זה הלילה למשל, היא הרגל החזקה ביותר שיכולה להיות, אבל השולחן, החלק העליון, המדף העליון של השולחן אפילו יותר חזק, אפילו יותר כבד, יותר, אפילו יותר כבד ממנו, או החלק העליון עדיין, זה—אני יכול להיות בעל בעיה אסתטית או כמו בעיה פונקציונלית. המדרגה העליונה מאוד קטנה, אז יש לך את הרגל החזקה ביותר כי אתה הולך להזדקק לדבר החזק ביותר האפשרי, אבל החלק העליון שלך כמו זעיר, זה כמו קיסם. אז אין לך באמת שולחן, יש לך איזה מפלצת מוזרה, נכון?
אז זה בעצם מאוד טיפשי לרשום חלקים. אתה צריך לדבר על כל הדבר.
מורה: אוקיי, אבל זו לא מילה, נכון? אתה צריך לעשות את כל המילה, גם. אחרת, זה לא עובד. זו תורה ששמעתי מרב פינקוס פעם.
תלמיד: אה, אז אז זה יהיה כל הכוללים [רבים של כולל], טוב.
מורה: לא, כי הכולל קיבל מה-מה [משהו] או משהו.
תלמיד: לא, אבל רק החישוב זה מה שהכולל הוא. זה היה היחיד שפיצחתי. כל השאר זה שרק המעשה [שטויות].
מורה: הבעיה היא, כשאתה עושה גימטריה עם כולל, אתה תמיד מרמה, כי הסיבה שאתה עושה את זה היא כי הצד השני הוא בלי כולל.
תלמיד: אולי. זו לא גימטריה. תחשוב על זה. זה טיפשי. אתה תמיד צריך כולל שחוזר לאותו מקום. הפעם היחידה שאנחנו צריכים כולל היא כשאתה משתמש באחד ולא בשני, וזו הבעיה עם זה. אם אתה פשוט מוסיף אחד לכל דבר, זה לא עושה שום הבדל. אז ילדים סביבנו, כל עוד אתה עקבי, אז אתה לא מעוניין. הבעיה עם הכולל היא תמיד כשזה לא באמת עובד.
מורה: בכל מקרה, זו הסיבה שזה לא מספיק.
מורה: אתה אולי צריך לשאול, ומעלות של השלם, או היחסים בין כל מיני חלקים, וכן הלאה. ואז מישהו אולי אפילו יבוא ויגיד שזו המעלה היחידה. כי זה מה, תזכור, מעלות הן לא של ידיים ושל רגליים ואפילו לא של רצונות וצרכים ספציפיים. של מה הן? של מה הן?
תלמיד: אנשים.
מורה: אנשים, יפה מאוד. האם אנשים הם ידיים? לא, אנשים הם.
מורה: בכל מקרה, זו הסיבה שזה לא מספיק. אתה אולי צריך לשאול על מעלות של השלם או על היחסים בין כל מיני חלקים וכן הלאה. ואז מישהו אולי אפילו יבוא ויגיד שזו המעלה היחידה, כי זה מה—תזכור, מעלות הן לא של ידיים ושל רגליים ואפילו לא של רצונות וצרכים ספציפיים. של מה הן? של מה הן?
תלמיד: אנשים.
מורה: אנשים, הנה זה. האם אנשים הם ידיים? לא, אנשים הם אנשים. אז אין מעלה שבאמת נחשבת אלא אם היא חלק מהשלם. אלא אם היא נספרת או מובנת בהקשר של האדם השלם. נכון? אוקיי. מובן?
תלמיד: כן.
מורה: לא. האם זה נכון? אין דבר כזה חסד. כי, כמו שאנחנו אומרים, אתה יכול להיות טוב מדי. נכון? ומה זה בכלל אומר “טוב מדי”?
טוב מדי פשוט אומר שהחסד שלך מתנגש עם חלקים אחרים של האנושיות שלך, נכון? או עם חלקים אחרים של האנושיות של אנשים אחרים. וזו הסיבה שזה לא טוב. זו דרך לומר כאילו, אתה לא יכול רק להיות בעל ידיים בריאות, כי ידיים בריאות אומר ידיים שעובדות טוב עם שאר הגוף. ובאותה דרך אתה לא יכול להיות בעל חסד בריא בלי שיהיה לך כל חלק אחר של המעלה שלך מיושר.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מורה: אז אם אנחנו מבינים שאנחנו צריכים מעלות של השלם, אנחנו יכולים באותה מידה לוותר על כל מעלות החלק, במובן מסוים, כי כולן כפופות לזו האחת. אבל מצד שני, לא, מה הצד השני?
תלמיד: הצד השני, אין שום דרך לגשת לזה בשום דרך שאנחנו יכולים לבודד משהו כדי להבין אותו. אתה עדיין חוזר לשם. פשוט אדם טוב.
מורה: כן, נכון. זו הבעיה.
תלמיד: כלומר, הבעיה היא שאין לך מאיפה להתחיל.
מורה: בדיוק.
מורה: אוקיי, אז מה אם אני אדם חסד? עכשיו ממה מורכב חסד שלם? חסד שהוא… אוקיי, אז בואו לא נגיד רק שאנחנו אדם טוב. בואו ניתן לך מידה אחת: חסד. יפה מאוד, זה חלק. כדי להיות חסד לחלוטין, מה הבעיה עם אנשים להיות חסד?
תלמיד: יפה מאוד.
מורה: אז מה? כדי להיות חסד לחלוטין, מה אנחנו צריכים?
תלמיד: כל השאר.
מורה: תודה רבה. אז אם יש לך בעיה איתי שאני אומר דברים שהם כלליים מדי, אני יכול פשוט לספר לך כל דוגמה. אבל כל דוגמה, אם אתה חושב עליה מספיק, אם אתה עושה אותה מספיק, אומרת גם כל השאר. נכון? אפילו במשל של השולחן, לגמרי ככה.
תלמיד: כן, אם אתה חושב—אם אתה רוצה לחשוב ככה, אולי.
מורה: כן, כי רגל רגילה אומרת רגל שמתאימה נכון איתו, בדיוק. אז מספיק לי לספר לך דבר אחד. נכון?
זו הסיבה שכשאנחנו אומרים לשם יחוד, זה אומר [הביטוי על תרי״ג המצוות שנכללות], כי אתה לא יכול לעשות אפילו מצווה אחת בלי לערב מצוות אחרות. כי אם אתה עושה, אז אתה מוזר. כי אין מצווה לעשות רק את המצווה הזו. אם מצווה היא חלק מהחיים ומשהו שבאמת שימושי לבן אדם.
מורה: בסדר, אני אספר לך משל. האם זה—האם הוא זה שפספסתי את הסרט הזה? אוקיי, לא אכפת לו מאף אחד מהם. זה פשוט—פשוט רצה לצאת לסרט. אוקיי. עכשיו יש לי שאלה בשבילך. זהו. אנחנו גורמים לכולם להיות מאוד בתוך מצוות של הנחת תפילין, נכון? עכשיו עדיין יש—על ידי—אני מחליט מה שאמר יש ביאור. כי כשאתה מניח את התפילין הנכון—זה לא נכון.
לתפילין יש משמעות. אני מניח תפילין אומר שאתה צריך להיות בעל כוונות נכונות. אז זה לא רק להניח אותם. אז זה גוף נקי. אתה צריך להיות בעל טהרת גופך וטהרת מחשבתך. אם אתה מניח תפילין וחושב על עבודה זרה, אתה כנראה לא הופך את זה לתפילין או אולי אתה עושה משהו אפילו רע. ושלם. אולי יוצא בדיעבד, אבל התפילין האידיאליות זה לא זה, נכון?
אז זה מרבה. סדר שונה מהתפילין שכבר יש לך צריך להיות לך מצווה נוספת של חבר שפן [מחשבות נכונות] וכרך [נכון] מחשבות, נכון?
לא רק—וגם כמובן אם אתה חושב על זה לא הגיוני, העובדה שהתפילין אולי אפילו לא אומרות כלום. עכשיו יש לי עוד דבר בשבילך. השנה הם רק מניחים תפילין. האם אתה צריך להניח תפילין בשבת?
תלמיד: מה הדרך הנכונה להניח את התפילין?
מורה: בשבת אתה לא מניח את התפילין. אבל אם אתה לא שומר שבת הדרך הנכונה להניח את התפילין היא בשבת. אבל זה לא שקיטה [דרך נכונה], זו לא הדרך הנכונה להניח את התפילין. אז, זה תקוע.
האיש הזה שמניח רק את המצוות של הנחת תפילין… אתה אוהב דוגמאות, אני נותן לך דוגמאות. האיש הזה שעושה רק את המצוות של הנחת תפילין, הוא צריך להתחיל להניח, לשמור שבת גם. כי אחרת, הוא מוזר. הוא מניח את התפילין בשבת כי השבת היא האות וזה לא הגיוני.
ואם אתה רוצה לשמור שבת, לא, אני אפילו לא צריך ללכת ככה. מה עוד הוא צריך לעשות? ראשית, הוא צריך לעלין קריאת שמע, כי אני יכול היה קריאת שמע, אבל לא יכולתי, אז הייתי צריך לנער. וגם, אני אצטרך ללמד את הילדים את התורה, כי זה אומר בתורה [בפרשיות התפילין], ואם אתה מלמד את התורה, אתה לא הולך לקבל את זה, אתה תצטרך לעשות את כל התורה, לא רק את התורה.
נכון? כי זה הוא—אני עשיתי מצווה אחת מייצרת את כולן. זה באמת כך.
תלמיד: בדיוק.
מורה: נכון? זה לא תפילין, נכון? אז אתה יכול—אנחנו לא צריכים לדבר במקום. ההיגיון היה נכון שאנחנו לא צריכים לומר שאנחנו באים—מה זה אומר, להניח תפילין? אבל אנחנו לא—תפילין אומר כל השאר גם. אחרת הם עושים חצי תפילין. אוקיי, חצי תפילין, גם לא. אבל אנחנו רוצים של התפילין השלמות, נכון?
אותו דבר קורה עם כל מידה. אתה בסופו של דבר לא צריך לדבר על כולן כי מספיק לדבר על אחת. אבל אם אתה עושה את האחת הזו נכון, היא כבר כוללת—מרמזת—בעצם את כולן. אלא אם אתה לא—כמו דברים שאנחנו יכולים פשוט לעשות, לדחוף את המידה הזו עד הסוף ובלי לדאוג לגבי האחרות, מה שפשוט אומר שאתה הולך להיות קיצוני ואז אתה לא הולך לעשות את זה.
אז זו ענווה. אני פשוט—בואו ניקח ענווה באמצע. בואו נגיד ענווה. איך ענווה… אני לא יודע מה זה ענווה.
תלמיד: מה?
מורה: קודם אתה צריך לספר לי מה זה. ולמה זה טוב.
תלמיד: חשבתי שכבר היית מספיק על זה.
מורה: אוקיי, מה זה?
תלמיד: אני לא יודע. בואו נלך שוב. בואו נלך עם… איזה אחד בטוח שאתה מסכים איתו? כי אני לא רוצה להיכנס לכל חור הארנב עם ענווה.
מורה: כל הנקודה היא שאתה תמיד נכנס לחורי ארנבים. זה מה שאני מקווה.
תלמיד: אוקיי.
מורה: לא, כמו איך ענווה—
תלמיד: ענווה, בואו נגיד…
מורה: כמובן שכן. אמרתי לך על חסד.
תלמיד: מה שאתה קורא ענווה זה כמו…
מורה: ענווה, ובכן, הענווה שדיברנו עליה קודם הייתה רק מידה אינטלקטואלית. אני לא מדבר על אלה. אלה גם ככה, אבל נצטרך לחבר את זה לכל…
תלמיד: אה, אז זה לא קשור ל…
מורה: לא, זה כן קשור, אבל ניקח עוד כמה צעדים. כמובן שכן. מה אתה מתכוון שזה לא? כמובן שכן.
תלמיד: זה כן, אוקיי, אז זו השאלה שלי. אני אפילו לא יודע איך זה כן, אבל.
מורה: איך זה מתחבר למה?
תלמיד: לנפש המתאווה.
מורה: למה?
תלמיד: מה אתה מתכוון?
מורה: ובכן, ענווה היא על…
תלמיד: לא, הענווה שלך שדיברת עליה הייתה סוג של הרגל אינטלקטואלי. היא לא שייכת לתאווה.
מורה: זו לא הנקודה. אז איך אתה לא יכול להיות בעל זה נכון בלי להיות בעל האחרות נכון? וזה בגלל מה שאנחנו כבר יודעים.
אתה לא יכול—אתה לא יכול ללמוד בלי להיות בעל מידות טובות, נכון? אז אתה סוג של אדם לא אחד אומר נכון. אז אתה מה שקראנו—מה אמרת שאתה קורא למידה? אתה לא יכול—אתה לא חושב שהם—אתה יודע הכל בחור שיהיה באותה מידה ענווה אם כמו אתה—אז זה כל למה לא עזרת למקרה של עכשיו אני הבחור אתה יודע לא יכול לעשות כלום זה מאוד טוב בית זה עושה אולי הבחור השני צודק.
ענווה אומרת אולי מישהו אחר צודק. אז לכן אתה אפילו לא יכול ללמוד כלום. דרך אגב, אפילו בלימוד חייבת להיות מידה הפוכה שנקראת משהו כמו אומץ או עזות. בואו נגיד, בואו נקרא לזה ככה. זה דבר מוזר. בואו נקרא לזה ככה לעת עתה. יש מידה הפוכה כמו, “אה, אז אני אף פעם לא יודע כלום כי אני גם אף פעם לא יודע.”
תלמיד: יפה מאוד.
מורה: אז אני גם אף פעם לא יודע כלום. ידע, דרך אגב, עובד—החיים שלנו חיים על ידע. כל המידות שלנו חיות על ידע. נכון? האם אני יכול לדעת? יש כמה—כמו שאמרת, יש כמה גדולים מספיק מהם שנותנים לכל אחד לגנוב מהם ומהחברים שלהם ומכולם אחרים כי הם לא יודעים מי צודק בכל מקרה כי הם כל כך פתוחים, נכון? אז הם סוג של ענווה לא פתוחים—הם כמו חלשי דעת, נכון? אבל זו לא ענווה. זה פשוט זה—אולי אתה יכול לקרוא לזה קיצון של קיצון של מידת ענווה שזו לא ענווה יותר. זה פשוט להיות—כן, פראייר, בדיוק.
אז אתה צריך להיות בעל הכמות הנכונה של ענווה, מה שאומר שאתה גם צריך להיות בעל מידה אחרת שהיא הפוכה—אתה יכול לקרוא לזה ככה, אולי. או הכמות הנכונה. אבל איך אתה יודע מה הכמות הנכונה? אתה צריך ללמוד חושן משפט, כמו שדיברנו לפני כמה שבועות מחושן משפט, לדעת מי צודק ברוב המריבות. רואה, אמרתי לך זה חושן משפט. וכן הלאה וכן הלאה.
זה לא תירוץ אמיתי, כמו לכל הקושיות שאמרתי, אבל זו נקודה נכונה. כמו, לאיזה קושיות זה לא תירוץ? בואו נעשה את כל הקושיות ובואו נראה. מה הייתי רוצה לשאול בהתחלת השיעור?
אני מאוד מוטרד מהרעיון הזה. אני אספר לך מה זה כן עונה וכמה זה לא עונה. אני מאוד מוטרד מהשאלה ששאלתי היום. טכנית שאלתי שאלות שונות, אבל למעשה שאלתי את השאלה הזו.
מאוד מוטרד מהעובדה שאף אחד לא יכול לתת לי את הרשימה של הטובים והרעים לפי שיטת ברסלב. לא אכפת לי—תגיד לי שכקט [כך וכך] דבר. אתה יכול לספר לי דברים מסוימים ברסלב שם במשך דקה ובמשך שתי דקות רגיל ממוצע הוא יכול לעשות.
תלמיד: הוא יכול?
מורה: המצוות והרשימה—אל תגיד לי—תגיד לי למשנה יש רשימה, תגיד לי את הרשימה. אבל זה פשוט דרייינג מיר א קופ [מסובב לי את הראש], למשנה יש רשימה, אתה יודע, זה כמו, האם זה יכול להיות דבר טוב או דבר רע, זה לא באמת דבר טוב. תגיד לי את הרשימה, תגיד לי את הרשימה.
“אה, בחור רגיל יודע את המשנה.” הוא לא יודע את המשנה, אם הוא אומר שיש משנה, זה לא עוזר. מה הוא אומר? דווקא, תגיד לי את הרשימה, תדע את המשנה.
מורה: אל תגיד לי שלמשנה יש רשימה. זה מה שהם היו אומרים לך. אבל זה פשוט טריינג מי א קאמפ. למשנה יש רשימה. אתה יודע, זה כמו, אתה יכול לספר לי שלמשנה יש רשימה? תגיד לי את הרשימה. הוא לא יודע את המשנה. הוא לא יודע את המשנה. אם הוא אומר שיש משנה בסביבה, זה לא עוזר. הוא יודע שלמשנה יש רשימה. מה הוא אומר? תגיד לי את הרשימה. לא, המסילת [מסילת ישרים: “נתיב הישרים,” טקסט אתי יהודי מהמאה ה-18 מאת רבי משה חיים לוצאטו]. מה איזה, איזה? תן, תן את שלושת הראשונים. אתה לא תדע מה.
זו הייתה דרך אחת לשאול את השאלה. אז בישיבה שלך, זה הדבר שהם בעיקר מדגישים, איזה מהם הכי חשובים. מה שאני מתכוון לומר הוא, אתה אומר לי, לא, לא, אנשים שמצטטים במקום לענות, אתה לא מעוניין. במילים אחרות, אתה אומר לי ככה, המעלה הכי חשובה היא להיות מסוגל לצטט. אני מסכים עם זה. זו אחת המעלות הכי חשובות בישיבה. במקום לחשוב, לצטט. במקום לענות על השאלות שלי, לצטט עלי. אין בעיה. זה מה שעשית. אבל לא עניתי על השאלה שלי, נכון?
אתה אפילו לא מדבר איתי. כל עוד זה כמו המסילת, הייתי שואל אותך שאלה, נכון? יפה מאוד. שלום. אף אחד לא יודע. אף אחד אפילו לא יודע מה הדברים האלה, נכון? זה יראה להם כחקירה מה זה אומר. אף אחד לא יודע. זו לא תשובה לשאלה שלי, נכון? אני אומר לך שמעלה היא פשוט דרך לומר מי הוא הבחור הטוב, נכון? מה התמונה שלך של בחור טוב? ואתה אומר לי מסילת. תציין את המסילת. אז התמונה שלך של בחור טוב היא מישהו שאומר, תציין את המסילת. אני חושב שזה נכון, אבל לא אמרת לי שום, יש יותר מידע. אולי יש מידה כזו אחת שעשתה את הקר תציין במשנה. אין בעיה, אין בעיה. אז המידה נקראת להיות מסוגל לצטט משנה. מה זה משנה? האם יש משהו אחר טוב בחיים? תילחם על זה. לא, אוקיי, אין בעיה.
מה עם חסד? לא על תציין משנה?
אה, אז זה שתי מידות כבר. לדעת את המסילת, אני עושה חסד. בכל מקרה, הוא רצה שאספר לך על הקושיא בקרדיטים.
אז הייתי מוטרד מחוסר היכולת של אנשים לתת לי את הרשימה הזו. לא רק שאנשים צריכים לראות אם הם לא יכולים לתת לי את הרשימה הזו, או אם יש להם רשימה שהיא מאוד מוזרה, ולא רק אנשים על השולחן שלי לא יכולים לתת לי את הרשימה הזו, או אולי הם יכלו, אבל הם מאוד עייפים, אלא גם האנשים שאנחנו קוראים את הספר שלהם לא יכולים לתת לנו את הרשימה.
האם לרמב״ם [רמב״ם: רבי משה בן מימון, פילוסוף יהודי מהמאה ה-12] יש רשימה? לא באמת. האם לאריסטו יש רשימה? גם לא באמת. גם הוא משנה את הרשימה בין ספריו ובין פרקיו. האם לאפלטון יש רשימה? כן. לאפלטון יש רשימות לכל דבר. רשימות נכונות, כי הוא מסוג האנשים שעובדים מלמעלה למטה. אבל אריסטו הוא יותר מסוג האנשים שעובדים מלמטה למעלה. זה הפשוט פשט [פשוט פשט: הסבר פשוט וישיר] למה אין לו רשימה. כי הוא מחזיק במהלוכה [מהלוכה: גישה, שיטה] של שמואלי של פשוט להסתכל מסביב. תגידו לי את הבולטות ביותר, יכול להיות שיש כאלה שפספסתי, אז נדבר על זה בפעם הבאה.
זה די מעצבן. העצבנות הזו היא משהו שנקרא אחדות המידות, שהובלתי אתכם אליה בדרך אחת עכשיו.
אני רק אומר שאנחנו לא באמת צריכים רשימה, זה לא חשוב שתהיה לנו הרשימה המלאה הנכונה. אולי זה חשוב לשטוק לחתורה [שטוק לחתורה: למען לימוד התורה], אבל זה לא חשוב כדי להיות אדם טוב, כי כל סוג של רשימה, שתמיד בוחרת כמה מהמידות הבולטות ביותר שאנחנו רואים באנשים שאנחנו אוהבים ומחזיקים יקרים, תצטרך בעצם לכלול את כולן. אחרת, הוא מתאר אנשים רעים.
תלמיד: כן. הוא לא יודע את זה? הוא כן. הוא כן. יש לו שונות. זה לא כמו. זה ההיפך. בגלל זה, יש לו. הרשימות שלו הן רק קטגוריות. הן לא באמת רשימות. הן לא סוג כזה של רשימות. או בכל פעם שהוא מדבר על מידה אחת, הוא מנסה להסביר שהמידה הזו היא באמת רק ידיעה, ולכן הכל הוא רק דבר אחד, שנקרא ידיעה. זה שונה. רק היסטוריה.
מרצה: מה שאני אומר לכם הוא שבמציאות, גם אם נסתכל על זה כדרך של, תראו, תנו לי את שלוש המידות המובילות של האנשים שאתם מחזיקים מהם, בסופו של דבר אתה צריך לתאר או שאתה בסופו של דבר מרמז על הכל, כולל כמה מאלה שאין לנו אפילו שם בשבילן. כן, כי לא דנו בהן בהרחבה, אבל הן מיישמות הכל. אחרת זה סוג של משוגעים.
זו הסיבה שכל צדיק [צדיק: אדם צדיק] שיש לו מה, מידה אחת שהוא ידוע בה, בדרך כלל זה אומר שהוא הגזים במידה הזו וזה היה בעצם הדבר שהוא גם היה רע בו. רק רע בו, אולי. הצדיק האמיתי, האנשים שבלוויה [לוויה: הלוויה], אנשים אומרים, אני לא יודע, אין שום דבר מיוחד בו, הוא פשוט בחור טוב. אלה שהם המוזרים, הוא היה ממש מסמיד [מסמיד: לומד תורה חרוץ], ואני, אני יכול להגיד, שלאג מענש [שלאג מענש: מילולית “אדם מוכה”, מישהו מדוכא], נכון? או שהוא היה כזה מסמיד כי הוא אף פעם לא עזר לאשתו. אתה מבין?
אתה כבר יודע את זה כי בדרך כלל כשאנשים משבחים מידה, הם מתכוונים לומר את ההגזמה שלה, שזה לא טוב. במילים אחרות, אין להם את המידה האחרת של לעזור לאשתך או את השכל [שכל: חכמה, הגיון] שאומר לך כמה, וכן הלאה. ואולי אותו דבר עם הבחור שהוא מורד. אתה צריך שמורד יהיה מורד בכמות הנכונה וגם יהיה קונפורמיסט בכמות הנכונה. והבחור שעושה את זה נכון, אף אחד לא מבין שהוא מורד או קונפורמיסט. הוא פשוט בחור טוב. אתה מתחיל זה השיעור [שיעור: שיעור, לימוד] שלי להיום. זה יותר ממספיק.
תלמיד: זו קושיא מפורסמת שהעולם שואל. אני חושב שאחד ממאסטרים של שחר, הוא אמר שהיה לו את הדבר של אמת [אמת: אמת]. הוא אמר, מה אתה מתכוון, מה עם כל המידות האחרות?
מרצה: ככה הוא הולך להגיד את זה. זה נכון, אבל זה בגלל שרוב האנשים לא אנשים שלמים. רוב האנשים לא מאוזנים. לרוב האנשים אין את הדברים השונים.
תלמיד: אתה אומר בעולם הזה, בסוג כזה של דבר גם?
מרצה: אני לא יודע מה זה אומר. מה זה אומר? נגיד יש דבר כזה.
תלמיד: לא, אני בעצם חושב שזה יכול להיות ההיפך. זה יכול להיות לפעמים שמישהו אומר, מה המידה הספציפית של האדם הזה? זה יכול להיות, מה הדרך שלו להגיע לכל המידות האחרות?
מרצה: זה, נכון? כמו איך הוא נכנס לכולן? תגיד אני הולך להתמקד כמו, האם זה סיפור כמו שסיפרו לבחור פשוט לעולם לא להגיד שקר או משהו כזה ופתאום, כמו שסיפרתי לכם את הסיפור עם התפילין [תפילין: תפילין, חפצי פולחן שלובשים בתפילה], אתה פתאום צריך להיות יהודי [יהודי: יהודי] שלם בגלל זה. וזה נכון. אם אתה לוקח כל מידה ולוקח אותה ברצינות, אתה לא חושב שאתה, לפעמים אנשים כמו שהם עושים את המצווה [מצווה: מצווה, מעשה טוב] שלהם מצווה אחת וזה רישיון לעשות כל דבר אחר בצורה לא נכונה. אתה לא יכול לעשות את זה. אבל אם אתה מקבל את זה כחלק מלהיות אדם טוב, אז זה כן מוביל אותך לכל הדברים הטובים.
תלמיד: האם המתכון של הרמב״ם לאיזון, נכון, האם זה, איך אני אומר את זה ב, האם זה מתאים למה שאתה אומר? כלומר שכשאני מרגיל את עצמי לאיזון באחת, נגיד מידה, כל השאר יפלו למקומם איפה שמצאתי?
מרצה: אני לא יודע איפה אני הופך לאדם מאוזן. אם יש משהו שנקרא לא איזון במידה הספציפית, אם אתה מדבר על הדעה [דעה: ידע, הבנה], אתה יכול לדבר על לא חכמה מעשית או משהו שהם אולי, אבל זה לא ברור שאתה יכול כמו לתרגל את זה בצורה מופשטת. אני לא יודע. זו שאלה נהדרת. לא, הוא לא יודע מידע כמו שאלה אם זה עובד. אני יודע שכל מה שאתה צריך לעשות זה, כן, אבל לא, אבל זה לא, לא נכון כי השלמות של מידה אחת אומרת לדעת איך שאר העולם עובד, אומרת לדעת איך לפעול ובכל דבר אחר. אתה לא יכול לעשות את זה ואתה יכול להיות אחרי, כן, כן.
אתה יכול להגיד אני הולך להיות רק הבעלים של סדר של משהו בין מושל ובין מה שאתה קורא לזה, עניין פושאובר. אבל זה אומר שאתה צריך לדעת איך לשפוט מצבים נכון. עכשיו יכול להיות שהמידה הזו של עבודה, אני לא יודע. אני בעצם נוטה לחשוב שלא, או קו החשיבה שאנחנו עובדים איתו בדרך כלל נוטה לחשוב שזה מאוד קשה שכמו שיפוט לא עובר. כמו שיש את כל השאלות האלה, האם כישורים עוברים? אם יש לך כישור בדבר אחד, האם יש לך את השני? וכך אני אומר שזו שאלה כמו לגבי שני ילדים לא, כן, כמו האם ההעברה? כמו אני טוב בלימוד גמרא [גמרא: טקסט תלמודי], אני גם אני נראה טוב בלימוד מדע. בדרך כלל זה לא עובד טוב כמו שהיית מצפה שזה יעבד. זה עובד במובן של שיש לך את הכישרון האמיתי ודברים כאלה. זה לא עובד כל כך טוב מי שנהדרים בלימוד כשהם הולכים לעבודה בדרך כלל. אוקיי, זה בגלל שזה כישרונות שונים שנדרשים בעבודה. אבל גם אם אתה הולך לעבודה שדומה, כמו ללמוד תחום ידע אחר, לעתים קרובות מאוד זה לא עובד כי האינטואיציות שאתה מקבל הן מאוד ספציפיות. הן קשורות לתחום שאתה נמצא בו.
בדרך כלל אני חושב שאותו דבר עובד למידות. בעצם, זו הסיבה שאני כן חושב שאתה צריך רשימה ארוכה. אני לא מסתיר עם השיעור שלי היום, באופן אישי. אני חושב שככל שהרשימה שלך ארוכה יותר, כך אתה הולך להיות טוב יותר, כי לתת שמות לדברים זו אחת הדרכים שבהן אנחנו שמים לב איך אנחנו צריכים לפעול. כמו כמובן אז אתה צריך להבין איזו מידה ליישם באיזה זמן. זה אף פעם לא הולך לסחוט החוצה. אנחנו פותרים שיש כמו רשימה ארוכה. אבל הנקודה היא שאתה לא יכול פשוט להגיד תהיה אדם טוב ופשוט תבין. אתה צריך שיהיה כמו שם. רגע, עכשיו אני עושה, עכשיו, עכשיו אני אחד מהם. עכשיו אני עושה טוב דברים [דברים: דברים, מילים]. אתה צריך שיהיה לך מילה בשביל זה. זה מאוד קשה להבין שאתה באמצע לעשות את זה, שאתה עושה שם. אתה צודק. אני כבר אגיד את השיעור על זה, כן.
אבל אז אני לא יודע אם יש כמו משהו, אתה צריך לזכור כשהרמב״ם אומר תהיה מאוזן, זה לא אומר תהיה סוג של מתון, נכון? הבחור שכל הפוליטיקאים מנסים לדבר איתו תמיד, המתון שאף אחד אף פעם לא פגש, נכון? זה לא אומר תהיה זה, כמו לעולם לא יותר מדי של שום דבר. זה אומר תהיה הנכון. אז זה לא ברור שלמצוא את הנכון זה כמו כישור שניתן להעברה. אולי יש תיאוריה שזה כן, אבל אני חושב שזו תהיה השאלה.
תלמיד: זה תרגול שאתה יכול, יש איזושהי העברה אחרי, אחרי לדבר עליך יכול לסגור אם אתה רוצה.
מרצה: אני צריך לחשוב על, רציתי להמשיך על הפרישה [פרישה: הפרדה, הימנעות]. רק יש את הדרך שבה ניתן להעברה, כמו להתגבר, יש משהו, משהו כזה. בוא נדבר על הדבר הכללי. מה שאני לא יכול, אני אצטרך לחשוב על זה בנפרד, כמו היחס בין שלבים שונים של מידה עם איפה שאותו סוג של דבר שייך. אוקיי, תחזיק את זה רוסי אחר.
תלמיד: כמו חלק אמיץ?
מרצה: מה השעה?
תלמיד: שלוש.
מרצה: אין בעיה. זה 11:17.
אוקיי וזה מוקדם, מאוחר, נכון, זמן נכון לחלוטין. איזה אחד? אנחנו לא יודעים. נצטרך לדעת ביחס למה, הא?
אם אתה רוצה תשובה, זה הסיפור. אוקיי.
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The shiur opens with a provocative framing question: What is the most important thing in the world? This is immediately recast more precisely: What is the first virtue (middah) a child must be taught in order to become a mentsh?
The premise: children are born without good middos — or with bad/unformed ones — and the entire project of Jewish education (cheider) is fundamentally about character formation: becoming a mentsh.
A humorous tangent: the reason Jews don’t believe in evolution is that we’ve been watching monkeys for a long time and they haven’t become mentshn yet. The common objection is flipped — people say evolution makes humans too small, but actually it makes humans too big, because it claims even a monkey can eventually become a mentsh. This connects to a theme from previous classes: people have unrealistic expectations about the timescales of cosmic and natural cycles.
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Good middos are a prerequisite for Torah learning. This is grounded in the Rambam (Hilchos Talmud Torah): a talmid she’eino hagun (an unfit student) should not be taught Torah. The proper response is to tell him to do teshuvah first.
You give the shiur regardless. The person with bad middos simply won’t understand — it’s a gezeiras min hashamayim (heavenly decree). The truth is inaccessible to someone whose character isn’t prepared for it. This is likened to Pesach being “in your heart” — if you don’t genuinely want to understand, you won’t.
– Talmid she’eino hagun = someone with bad middos (character deficiency) — this is the real barrier.
– Talmid she’asah ma’aseh ra = someone who did a bad act — that’s simpler: just stop doing it.
Bad middos are worse because they make a person unable to receive truth, and harmful to others.
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The central question of the shiur: What is the actual curriculum of middos (virtues) that Jewish education hands a person? What qualities does our culture consider essential for the kind of person we’re trying to create?
– Patience — accepted.
– Courage — at least a certain amount.
– Attentiveness — possibly.
This becomes a substantive mini-debate:
– Big machlokes: Aristotle sees curiosity as a virtue; Augustine sees it as the yetzer hara.
– Curiosity is low on the totem pole in the beis medrash.
– Key distinction: Curiosity as wonder (awe-driven) vs. curiosity as aimless accumulation of facts (no order of importance).
– Aimless curiosity is critiqued as potentially being:
1. A form of rechilus/gossip (e.g., most history is gossip).
2. Accumulation of intellectual riches — hoarding facts like money, with no transformative purpose.
3. Miskabeid b’kelon chaveiro — using knowledge to feel superior to others (e.g., knowing that Rav Yonasan Eibeschutz was allegedly a Shabbetai Tzvi follower, making you feel better than him).
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The argument steers toward what is clearly considered the foundational virtue: humility (anivus).
Humility is framed as an intellectual virtue — specifically, an openness to listen.
– Ga’avah (arrogance) — the opposite of humility.
– Ka’as (anger) — discussed with some ambivalence. The Rambam is strongly against it. The reason: anger means you’ve lost your mind — you can’t think clearly.
– Kavod (desire for honor) — not so terrible on its own, unless it leads to wanting your opinion to triumph over the truth. That collision is what makes it destructive.
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The argument culminates in what is considered the real core virtue for learning:
– Interest in truth = hispashtus ha-gashmiyus (stripping away materiality/physicality) as described in Sefer HaKedushah.
– Bitul ha-yesh (nullification of the self): Not wanting *your group* to be right — wanting the truth to be right. Not caring about your party, religion, nation, or ego — only about what is.
– This is identified as mesirus nefesh (self-sacrifice) — giving yourself over to reality.
– Most people, including the speaker and students, can only achieve this through compartmentalization.
This is explicitly linked to Platonic ecstasy (ekstasis) — the truth is outside of you, bigger than your wants, opinions, and biases. Hispashtus ha-gashmiyus was said about this first in the philosophical tradition.
– People who loudly proclaim they want truth are often the ones who want to use it for their own interests.
– Real commitment to truth has a cost: at minimum, your time (Wednesday nights); more seriously, your desire for comfort.
– The common claim that people are “comfortable” believing what they believed yesterday is challenged — there is nothing genuinely comfortable about that.
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People commonly say they are “comfortable” continuing to believe what they already believe and therefore resist changing their minds. This attitude seems more like laziness than genuine comfort. One can be *more* uncomfortable suspecting that one’s attachment to existing beliefs is *hiding* the truth than one would be in simply holding onto those beliefs. The discomfort of potential self-deception outweighs the comfort of the status quo.
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The common posture of people who declare they are “searching for truth” (e.g., people who say their rebbe doesn’t give them truth and they want to find it themselves) is challenged as audacious: “Maybe the truth doesn’t want you. How do you know you’re worthy of it? What do you do for it?”
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The love of truth is reframed: it is not a feeling or a want but a practice — an intellectual virtue that begins and ends in disciplined activity. The practice consists in a specific kind of discourse: never settling for “that’s just what we have to believe,” never giving up because something is hard to think about, always trying to find a way to talk through difficulties.
This is distinguished from merely explaining what someone else said (which is valuable but is not truth-seeking unless done with the expectation that it will reveal more reality).
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The key Aristotelian principle from Nicomachean Ethics, Book I, Chapter 6: Aristotle says he will disagree with Plato because, as much as one loves one’s friends and teachers, the duty (piety) of a philosopher is to love truth more than friends. This echoes something Socrates/Plato also said.
Critical qualification: This does NOT mean “don’t love your friends.” It means: first you must love your friends, and then, as a philosopher, you must love truth even more. The love of friends is a prerequisite, not something to be discarded.
Reformulated in Jewish-learning terms: “Don’t only love the *chacham* (wise person); love the *chochmah* (wisdom) more than the *chacham*.”
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This is the central ethical argument of the shiur’s middle section:
– The claim to love truth is a moral claim about what kind of person you are — it sets you apart from most people who do not love truth in any significant way.
– Many self-proclaimed truth-lovers get their “love of truth” for free because they lack good *middos*. They don’t actually love their friends, their family, or their community. For such a person, “loving truth more than friends” costs nothing because they never loved anyone to begin with.
– Such a person is not a truth-lover but merely an egoist who cannot see past his own nose. He mistakes his contrarianism and social dysfunction for philosophical courage.
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Part of loving your parents and your community includes accepting — or at least respecting — their opinions. This is an element of filial love and social allegiance.
Modernity and liberal societies have damaged this understanding of social allegiance, but this point is explicitly not pursued further.
Friendship inherently involves a degree of agreement: “You can’t be my friend and say everything you think is nonsense.” Most people experience disagreement with their beliefs as a form of disrespect. It is possible to give people warmth and generosity while disagreeing with them, but most people cannot separate the two.
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The philosopher has allegiance to a “higher God,” a higher truth that transcends social bonds. This is what justifies philosophical disagreement.
But even this has limits: The philosopher’s duty to disagree works best among fellow philosophers. Going home and disagreeing with one’s mother may not be the philosopher’s duty. Even a philosopher has a moral duty to his family — to outwardly agree with them (or at least not attack their beliefs). “What do they care what you think in your heart?” The family cares about respect and solidarity, not about inner philosophical reservations.
A person who says “I’m an *ish emes* (man of truth)” and therefore fights with his mother, wife, and children is not a man of truth — he is a pure egoist, a *shaigetz* (boor).
Critics are often horrible people not because criticism is bad, but because many critics lack the social virtues (love of friends, family, community) that would make their truth-seeking *costly* and therefore *meaningful*. Without those virtues, their opposition is cheap — just antisocial behavior dressed up as philosophy.
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The principle is illustrated with the Akeidah: The Torah emphasizes “*asher ahavta*” — “whom you love” — precisely to show that Abraham genuinely loved Isaac.
A Chassidic Rebbe’s teaching: God Himself testifies that Abraham loves Isaac. If Abraham didn’t love Isaac, the sacrifice would be no great feat. It is precisely *because* he loves Isaac that the willingness to sacrifice him is meaningful. This parallels the argument about truth: loving truth more than your friends only means something if you genuinely love your friends first.
In a Midrash, when God says “your son,” Abraham asks “Which one? Also Ishmael?” — showing his love extends to both sons.
The Chovos Halevavos is cited for the principle: whenever someone says “I love both equally,” you know he is lying. However, the halacha is that one should never reveal (*modeh*) which child one loves more — *l’olam y’hei adam modeh al ha’emet* is applied here in a nuanced way. Honesty about inner preferences exists, but discretion is required.
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The popular image of Avraham as the boy who smashed his father’s idols is critiqued. Even if that story happened, it wasn’t necessarily *lishmah* (for its own sake / for the sake of truth). Avraham wasn’t “allowed” to do that — it wasn’t the exemplary act people imagine. The real reason we keep returning to Avraham is precisely because his love of truth was genuine and deeply embedded in his character, not performative.
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A key philosophical distinction:
– A thought is something you do — an active process of thinking in the present moment.
– An opinion is something you have — a stored, pre-formed position.
When someone asks “What do you think about this?”, most people replay a “tape recording” of past conclusions rather than actually engaging in fresh thinking. Real thinking requires *yishuv hadaat* (settled mind) and openness — the right “set and setting.” Most of what people express are not even thoughts but distillations of past thoughts or things others told them. Genuine intellectual engagement (thinking) is rare and requires deliberate effort.
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Love of truth is one *middah* (character trait/virtue). But what are the other essential virtues a person needs? This launches the major inquiry of the shiur’s second half.
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A genuine puzzlement: why doesn’t there exist a simple, well-known list of the essential human virtues — analogous to the *Aseret HaDibrot* (Ten Commandments)? When someone dies, the eulogizer (*hesped*) goes through a list of virtues to find which ones the deceased exemplified — but what is that list? Nobody can readily produce one.
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The class is pressed to name the top three virtues — not intellectual virtues, but the foundational moral virtues one needs before approaching wisdom (*chochmah she-be-shira*). The rationale: if you’re not a good person first, your supposed intellectual virtues will be fake.
– Courage — acknowledged but set aside quickly. “Why? Justify it.”
– Honesty — mentioned.
– Humility — mentioned.
– Generosity/Kindness — mentioned.
– Abstinence/Temperance — suggested as a major yeshiva virtue.
– Consistency — suggested.
– Zrizus (diligence/alacrity) — raised but the student can’t clearly define it.
What virtues do yeshivas actually emphasize? The class struggles to answer. This is itself remarkable and telling — people go through years of yeshiva education without a clear, articulable list of core virtues.
The *shidduch* (matchmaking) world has its own implicit top three criteria: (1) Does he learn well? (2) Does he have *middos tovos* (good character)? (3) Does he have money? This is presented somewhat humorously but also critically.
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When people say *middos tovos*, what do they actually mean?
– Temperance (*not over-indulgent*) — identified as a primary meaning. This is the first virtue pinned down.
– Kindness/Chesed — suggested, but challenged. What does “kindness” really mean? Is it the same as being helpful? The distinction matters: kindness is vague and “could be plugged into anything,” whereas being helpful (*azov taazov imo* — the obligation to help when you see a deficiency you can fill) is more concrete and action-oriented.
– Humility — also mentioned.
The central, still-open question is framed: Where is this list of essential virtues? What’s going on with the fact that it doesn’t seem to exist in a clear form? Becoming a good person requires all of these traits, yet the tradition (or at least common education) has not transmitted a clear, memorizable framework — and this is a serious problem worth investigating.
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Further suggestions from the class:
– Hope
– Positivity
– Perseverance — singled out as “more important than almost anything”
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If one reads the relevant texts (Shemonah Perakim, Hilchos De’os), one finds multiple lists of virtues, and they are not consistent with each other:
– Shemonah Perakim, Chapter 2 vs. Chapter 4: The same list appears twice but changes between the two occurrences — the Rambam apparently “forgot his previous list,” removing one item and adding another.
– Hilchos De’os, Chapter 1: A third list.
– Hilchos De’os, Chapter 2: A sort of fourth list.
Key point (labeled “ba’aya” — a problem): The lists are inconsistent. This is a genuine philosophical difficulty, not merely a textual curiosity.
Some traditions have much clearer, more organized lists — e.g., the Chovos Halevavos, which in its entirety functions as a kind of list of virtues.
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Despite the inconsistency, a method of convergence is proposed: look at what keeps appearing across different lists, different people’s answers, and different occasions of reflection.
– If you survey many people, or ask yourself repeatedly over time, certain virtues will recur. Those recurring items are likely the ones that are more important, more basic, more central, or more needed.
– Counter-consideration: It’s also possible that the virtues you *don’t* mention are precisely the ones you most need — because their absence is invisible to you.
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A distinction between bottom-up (empirical) and top-down (rational) approaches:
– Look at what good people do — observe their behavior and try to categorize it into “little boxes” (categories of disposition).
– Look at what goes wrong — observe failures and figure out what excess or deficiency they represent.
– This is messy but possibly the best available method.
– Start from some general principle (e.g., “What is a good person?” or “What are human beings?”) and try to derive the specific virtues from that.
– The challenge: how do you get from the most general claim (“a good person is someone good at being a person”) to a specific list of particular virtues?
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A sustained dialectical exchange explores whether one can deduce the specific virtues:
– There could be technically unlimited virtues — but not anything can be a virtue. Virtues are categories of human disposition, not arbitrary traits. The question is how to enumerate those categories.
– One *has* to do it empirically — start with what human beings do, then figure out how they can do it well.
– But are there other ways?
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A student proposes organizing virtues by which virtues are prerequisites for other virtues — a hierarchical/ladder structure. This is unpacked carefully:
– This is really a way of organizing virtues, not yet of listing them. The distinction matters.
– The hierarchy is actually an ordering of activities, not directly of virtues:
– The best/highest activity is contemplation/thinking (the thing good in itself, not merely instrumental).
– Virtues of thinking: how to think well, think correctly — these are one category.
– But to think, you need prerequisites (e.g., material sustenance/money), so the virtue of earning money correctly is temporally prior but less important than intellectual virtue.
Key insight: The hierarchy is not generated by listing virtues first — it’s generated by looking at reality and asking what is needed for what. The organizational structure comes from the structure of human activity and its ends, not from an independent enumeration of virtues.
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The Aristotelian ordering of goods/virtues by what they lead to (the hierarchy of ends) may be *true*, but it doesn’t actually help generate a list of virtues. The reason: some things are good only because they serve a particular step, not because they contribute to the ultimate end directly.
Illustrative example: To be a *Talmid Chacham* (Torah scholar), you need money; to get married, you need *Gute Middos* (good character traits). But the *Middos* that make you marriageable are good *for marriage*, not directly good *for learning*. Each step has its own requisite virtues. So the list of virtues is not a list of steps, nor a list of what’s needed for the *next* step — it’s a list of what’s needed *at each particular step*.
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A third approach to generating a complete list builds on the distinction between intellectual virtue and character virtue:
– Intellectual virtues belong to the intellect/mind.
– Character virtues belong to the appetitive/desiring soul.
– One could subdivide further into as many powers or faculties as the person has.
– If you have a complete list of the parts of the person, you can generate a complete list of virtues by assigning virtues to each part.
Key methodological point (top-down vs. bottom-up): Starting from the top (broad categories) gives you a list that is at least *generally* complete — subdivisions can be added but the top-level categories already include everything. Starting from the bottom (particular observed subdivisions) risks incompleteness because you only capture what you happen to notice.
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1. Empirical/bottom-up: Observe people, compile lists, hope nothing important is missed.
2. Aristotelian/teleological: Order virtues by the hierarchy of goods/ends; identify what virtues are needed at each level or step.
3. Parts-of-the-soul method: List all parts of the soul (or body, or society), then determine the virtues proper to each part. This yields at least a *generally* full list even if not every sub-particular is captured.
*Note: Methods 2 and 3 overlap somewhat, since the highest part (the mind) can be both the ultimate end AND a specific part with its own virtues.*
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A fundamental flaw in the parts-based approach: there may be virtues that do not belong to any single part, but rather to the whole person, or to the relations between parts.
– You can list all the parts of a table (legs, surface, screws, corners, paint) and specify what makes each part good (strong legs, shiny paint, precise corners, etc.).
– But having all excellent parts does not give you a good table — it gives you “a bunch of parts” (“That’s IKEA”).
– A table with the strongest possible leg but a tiny, mismatched top is “some weird monster,” not a good table.
– The design, the fitting-together, the proportionality of parts to each other — these are qualities of the *whole*, not of any individual part.
Conclusion: “It is actually very silly to just list parts. You have to talk about the whole thing.”
An analogy is drawn to the practice in *gematria* (numerological Torah interpretation) of adding a *kollel* (adding one for the word as a whole). *Rav Pinkus* is cited: just as a word is more than the sum of its letter-values, a thing is more than the sum of its parts — you need to account for the whole.
Self-critical aside: The *kollel* practice is debated — since you only add it when one side doesn’t match, it seems like “cheating.” If you always added one to everything, it would make no difference. The analogy is conceded as imperfect but the underlying point stands.
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The deeper philosophical point: the only real virtue is of the whole, because virtues are not properties of hands, feet, or even specific desires — they are properties of people. People are not reducible to their parts. Virtues are *of persons*.
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Virtues belong to whole persons, not to isolated faculties. Just as health of a hand means the hand functions well *within the whole body*, so too a virtue like kindness only counts as genuine virtue when it is integrated with the whole person.
“Too much kindness” is not really an excess of kindness per se — it means kindness that conflicts with other dimensions of one’s humanity or with other people’s humanity. Any single virtue, pursued in isolation, becomes distorted.
Implication: If we need “virtues of the whole,” then in some sense all part-virtues are subservient to the overarching virtue of being a good, integrated person. One might argue we should just drop the part-virtues entirely.
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If we abandon part-virtues and just say “be a good person,” we have *nowhere to begin*. There is no isolable starting point for understanding or cultivating virtue.
Resolution of the tension: You can start with *any single virtue* (e.g., kindness), but if you pursue it fully and correctly, it *necessarily implies all the others*. Complete kindness requires wisdom, courage, justice, etc. — otherwise it becomes distorted. This is analogous to the table *mashal*: a proper leg is one that fits correctly with the whole table.
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The holistic principle is illustrated through the framework of *mitzvos*:
The formula of *Leshem Yichud*: It says “and the 613 *mitzvos* included within it” — because you cannot properly perform even one *mitzvah* without involving others.
– To put on *tefillin* properly, you need *Guf Naki* (bodily and mental purity) — that’s already another *mitzvah* (correct thoughts).
– The *parshios* (passages) inside the *tefillin* contain content that must be meaningful to the wearer.
– Shabbos problem: If this person doesn’t keep Shabbos, he would put on *tefillin* on Shabbos — but that’s incorrect, since *tefillin* is an *os* (sign) and Shabbos is already an *os*, making it redundant/contradictory. So he must keep Shabbos too.
– He must also say *Krias Shema*, because the Gemara says one who puts on *tefillin* without reading *Shema* is like bearing false witness (and vice versa).
– He must teach Torah to his children (as stated in the *tefillin* passages: *v’limadtem osam es bneichem*).
– And if he teaches Torah without fulfilling it, he’s a liar — so he must keep the entire Torah.
– Conclusion: One *mitzvah*, done correctly and completely, generates the obligation of all the others.
The Rogatchover was right that we shouldn’t reduce becoming a Jew to “put on *tefillin*” — but the deeper truth is that putting on *tefillin* fully *does* mean everything else. Half-*tefillin* is not real *tefillin*.
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Every *middah* works the same way: You don’t need to enumerate all of them, because doing any one correctly already implies all the rest. But if you push one *middah* to the extreme without caring about the others, you become extreme and fail even at that one.
– What is humility? The humility discussed earlier was an *intellectual* virtue (openness, recognizing you might be wrong).
– How does intellectual humility connect to the desire soul (the appetitive/emotional dimension)? It does connect, but requires several more steps to show.
– The problem of excessive humility: “Maybe someone else is right” taken to the extreme becomes: “I never know anything.” This is not humility — it’s being a *shmatta* (pushover), weak-minded rather than open-minded.
– Such a person lets others steal from them and their friends because they “don’t know who’s right.”
– Life and all *middos* depend on knowledge; you can’t function without some confident knowledge.
– Humility requires a counter-virtue: Something like courage or *azus* (boldness). The correct amount of humility requires also having the opposite quality in proper measure.
– How do you know the correct amount? You have to learn *Choshen Mishpat* (monetary/civil law) — as discussed in a previous *shiur* from the *Chazon Ish* — to know who is actually right in disputes.
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This holistic insight is a true point — each virtue implies all others; you can’t isolate one without the rest. But it is NOT a full answer to the fundamental question.
– Nobody can give a definitive list of the good *middos* and the bad ones.
– Even according to specific *shitos* (e.g., Breslov, which emphasizes *emunas chachamim* and *temimus*): Tell me the actual list!
– The Mishnah objection: Someone might say “the Mishnah has a list.” This is rejected as evasive (*dreiying mir a kup*): saying “there’s a Mishnah” doesn’t help if the person can’t actually articulate what the list is and whether each item is truly good or bad in all circumstances. “Know the Mishnah” is not the same as having a clear, usable list.
– The frustration remains: the holistic point explains *why* lists are inadequate (because every virtue is context-dependent and interconnected), but it doesn’t resolve the practical need for guidance on what the virtues actually are.
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When asked to name the most important virtues, yeshiva students quote sources — specifically the Mishna and Mesillat Yesharim’s famous ladder:
> זהירות, זריזות, נקיות, פרישות, טהרה, חסידות, ענווה, יראת חטא, קדושה
This is not actually answering the question. The question was: *Who is the good person? What is your picture of a good guy?* Responding with a quotation reveals that the most valued “virtue” in yeshiva culture is the ability to quote a Mishna — which is itself a kind of midda, but not a substantive engagement with the question. Quoting instead of thinking is “not interesting.”
Even the Mesillat Yesharim itself is a *chakira* (investigation) into what these terms mean — nobody actually knows their content just from the list. The list alone conveys no real information.
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The problem extends beyond yeshiva students:
– The Rambam doesn’t really have a fixed list.
– Aristotle doesn’t have a fixed list either — he changes it between books and chapters. This is because Aristotle is a “bottom-up” thinker who surveys salient virtues empirically rather than deducing them from a system.
– Plato does have lists — “correct lists, because he’s a top-down kind of guy.”
This inability to produce a definitive list is described as genuinely annoying (*kasha*).
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The resolution (*teretz*) to this annoyance is the doctrine of the unity of the virtues:
– You don’t actually need a correct, complete list.
– A complete list might matter for *limmud haTorah* (Torah study as an intellectual exercise), but not for becoming a good person.
– Any reasonable list of salient virtues you observe in people you admire will implicitly include all the virtues — because if it doesn’t, you’re describing a bad or unbalanced person (“a weirdo”).
– When a righteous person is famous for one particular virtue, it usually means they exaggerated that virtue — and that was actually their weakness, their point of imbalance.
– Example: “He was such a masmid — in short, he never helped his wife.”
– Praising a single virtue in someone often signals its distortion rather than its perfection.
– The truly good person — the one about whom people say at the levaya “there was nothing special, he was just a good guy” — is the one who has all the virtues in proper measure, so no single one stands out.
– Even being a rebel must be done in the correct amount, alongside being a conformist in the correct amount.
– The person who does both correctly is simply perceived as “a good guy” — nobody notices the rebellion or the conformity.
A well-known question about a figure known specifically for the midda of *emes* (truth) is raised. It illustrates the general point: most people are not complete or balanced.
A student suggests that a person’s “specific midda” might not mean their only virtue but rather their entry point — their way of accessing all the other virtues. This is accepted as possible: if you take any single virtue seriously and don’t use it as license to neglect everything else, it can lead you to all the good things. The tefillin story is referenced — committing to never lying forced someone to become a complete Jew.
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A student asks whether the Rambam’s recipe for balance means that habituating oneself to balance in one virtue causes everything else to fall into place.
1. Perfecting one midda requires knowledge of everything else — you can’t perfect *anava* (humility) without knowing how to judge situations correctly, which involves all other domains of life.
2. Skills generally don’t transfer well across domains — being great at Gemara doesn’t make you great at science or at a job; intuitions are domain-specific.
3. The same likely applies to midos: moral judgment is domain-specific and doesn’t automatically carry over.
There is a personal disagreement with the “unity of virtues” position just presented:
– The longer your list of named virtues, the better — because naming things is one of the ways we notice how we should act.
– You need words like *anav* (humble) and *az* (bold) to recognize what you’re doing in the moment — “it’s very hard to realize that without having a word for it.”
– However, having a long list doesn’t resolve the problem of which midda to apply when.
– And you can’t just say “be a good person and figure it out” — you need specific vocabulary.
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The Rambam’s concept of balance does not mean being a “moderate” in the political sense — “the moderate that nobody ever met.” It means being the correct amount in each situation, which is a much harder and less formulaic standard.
Whether finding “the correct amount” is itself a transferable skill remains an open question. The suspicion is that it is not easily transferable, though there may be some transfer — particularly in the context of the *Prishah* (separation/abstinence) and stages of virtue development — but this is deferred to a future discussion.
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– Unity of virtues suggests you don’t need a list because all virtues are interconnected and any genuine virtue implies all the others.
– But practically, naming and distinguishing virtues matters enormously for moral self-awareness.
– The truly virtuous person has all the virtues in balance, which is why they appear unremarkable — “just a good guy” — while the person famous for one virtue is likely unbalanced.
– Whether moral judgment and balance are transferable skills across domains remains an open and important question.
– The love of truth — the virtue that launched the entire inquiry — is itself only meaningful when it costs something: when it requires overriding genuine love of friends, family, and community. Those who claim to love truth but lack these social bonds and virtues are not truth-seekers but egoists.
Instructor: Yeah, this is the sheet. Okay, the sheet is like this. What’s the most important thing in the world? That’s a weird question. Okay, what’s the first virtue you gotta have not to become a mentsh [mensch: a person of integrity and honor]?
When you have a little boy and everyone knows that boys are born without any middos [character traits] or with only bad ones or with unformed ones—depending on which framing you like better—and then we go to cheider [traditional Jewish elementary school] and we start teaching you how to become a mentsh, right? I want you to be a mensch, right?
Today I told someone that I think that the reason why the Yidden [Jews] don’t believe in evolution is because we’re watching the monkeys for so long—I could have mentioned those fiends of the monkeys—and they didn’t become menschen yet. It seems unreasonable.
Evolutionists really believe in Shiva [presumably: in transformation over vast time periods], like you could be a monkey for a million years and then you talk to a person. I don’t know. It sounds unreasonable. It doesn’t sound realistic. The monkeys that I know—monkey noiled, monkey umless—not happening. They’re not becoming mentsh, never.
But the Irish that’s more in Midnham [unclear reference], he thinks that you could become a monkey after a million years, you could become a mentsh. But anyways, not only the Yidden don’t believe it because of this, they claim they don’t believe in the revolution [evolution] because it’s making humans too small. It’s the opposite—it’s making humans too big. It’s saying that even if you are a monkey you could become a mentsh after a certain amount of years. That’s a very obvious next step.
But I guess people want everything to take very fast. That goes back to our previous classes—how people have unrealistic expectations on the cycles of the universe.
Instructor: In any case, that’s not our shmiss [topic]. We’re back to the nekudah [main point]. Our nekudah is: What’s the first middas [character trait]? We teach a child first thing is you have to have good middos. If you don’t have good middos, we don’t teach you anything.
That’s another shiur [lesson], right? Why don’t we teach you anything if you have bad middos? Why don’t we teach you anything if you have bad middos? We don’t teach many Torah.
It says in the Rambam [Maimonides], someone comes to my shiur and I see there’s Talmud [a student who is unfit], what do I do? I wait. You have to tell him to have to do the first two of Teshuvah [repentance] and then you can come to the shiur.
And what do we do if there’s someone like that and he comes to the shiur anyways? You don’t know what we do? This is a test on all my previous shiurim [lessons].
Okay. The answer is that we say the shiur anyways. And the guy that has bad mood [middos] is not going to understand the shiur. It’s excited [a gezeirah: a decree]. That’s the Shemra Pesach [the guarding of Pesach]. Shemra Pesach is in your heart. If you don’t want to understand, you don’t understand.
Or if you don’t care enough—that’s my experience also—you can make up a whole different shiur that he thinks that I said. But then it’s not clear how much it’s my fault, or maybe it is a little bit, but it’s not my problem.
So that’s the point: you have to have good middos. So what are the middos that we tell you to get? If he comes and says what did I do wrong, you say, “Well, you ate chaser [you did something wrong].” That’s not the point, right?
So what is this? What kind of problem could there be? Bad middos—those are the problems. That’s just how much, not how much, he stopped doing it, or he didn’t do it. Well, Shain Shalach [unclear: possibly “one who did a bad act”] means he has bad middos, right?
Someone who has bad middos:
– Not allowed to be shown the truth
– Also can’t be shown the truth
– And also causes harm to everyone
There’s a lot of bad things about that.
Instructor: So my question, my interesting question is: What is the list of bad middos that we have, or good middos, which are the opposite of the bad ones, that we tell you we hand you—come to come into our smadrish [beis medrash: house of study], come into our culture, right? We educate you. What’s our education? What is our list of medicine [middos] you gotta have? Very important question, right?
You know what was the list?
Student: Patience.
Instructor: Patience. Okay.
Student: Courage.
Instructor: Courage, certain math at least [a certain amount at least]. Okay.
Student: Attentiveness.
Instructor: Attentiveness, if that’s a virtue. Virtues are what we—it’s the opposite, right? The things, the qualities that we think are important for whatever kind of person we’re trying to create. Those are the virtues, right?
Student: Like the truth better than your opinion.
Instructor: Oh, those are from my class. Okay, that’s what we asked.
Student: No, yeah, I guess I have to start somewhere, man.
Instructor: And for some being a good guy in society, what are the virtues?
Student: Is curiosity—it’s curiosity a virtue?
Instructor: Yeah, it’s a bit much. Lucas, that’s a quote who and who—like Aristotle and Augustine or something like that. Augustine says that curiosity is the answer to how to alliance [the yetzer hara: evil inclination], and Aristotle seems to think that curiosity is the answer to how to alliance [virtue].
So that’s a very good question: What kind of society do you like? Do we hold of curiosity in our madrash [beis medrash]? I don’t think so. Low on the totem pole. Depends on what you mean by curiosity.
Student: Number one thing. What do you mean by curiosity?
Instructor: Not as far as I’ve done that. Curiosity meaning you want to know the truth or curiosity—wonder. You don’t have to know a random thing. You and I hear of some curious person, I think of like, “I was curious like how many legs a caterpillar has.” Right.
Student: Okay. In wonder. I was curious. You know, what’s down? Like, okay.
Instructor: The curiosity to me is a search for a search for things that has no organization in order of [no order of importance].
Student: No, but I think you spoke about that once. He’s talking about something else.
Instructor: Right. You’re talking about two different things.
Student: Yeah. You spoke about that once. Yeah. But you spoke about that once in a shiur. Like that’s called curiosity.
Instructor: Right. That’s something like—I think it’s either a form of a Rechilis [gossip], I don’t know how you say Rechilis, gossip, like liking gossip. Like most Testerish Yerim [history books] about gossip, going to me, and I like it. That’s why I read them, because everyone, human beings like gossip. But that’s what it amounts to.
Or it’s a kind of accumulation of riches, like I have so—I have $20 in my back [pocket].
Student: How about prioritizing surprising things?
Instructor: It’s not something that’s going to affect the change of your character.
Student: Yeah, exactly.
Instructor: Or it’s a Muska with Bekler Havayrei [miskabeid b’kelon chaveiro: honoring oneself through the disgrace of one’s fellow] situation. It’s all about you knowing that you’re a smart guy. You know the business and the action [the story] as well as the chapter of the Tzvinik [Shabbetai Tzvi follower], but you’re not. You’re better than him. You’re not. So that applies to you, okay? Then you’ll be better than him.
Anyways.
Instructor: Yeah, so that’s one. Okay, but what are the more basic virtues? We’re getting guys started, no virtues that are necessary for intellectual progress, because we’re supposedly trying to do that. But when you teach your children, what do we teach them?
Student: I think we can’t jump, I think we also can’t jump.
Instructor: Thank you very much. You know that I’m trying to get there, but I’m looking for a way to get there. You’re cheating. You’re like the chat that knows what I want to say.
Student: Humility?
Instructor: For intellectual virtue? For us, yeah. A kind of humility, which means an openness to listen.
What are the worst things?
Student: Oh, anger.
Instructor: Anger?
Student: Yeah, anger.
Instructor: Why? I don’t know why I was so against anger, honestly.
Student: What’s the God that you’re angry at?
Instructor: Oh, because I think it’s like you lost a mind, then.
Student: Yeah, exactly.
Instructor: No, I’m not talking about that. It doesn’t say Kass [anger] on that Mishnah [teaching].
Student: What can I mean at least the Rambam said—
Instructor: No, the Rambam says it’s against kass [anger], that’s true. But I don’t know if there’s that—
Student: Yeah, nothing covered.
Instructor: Yeah, what does it mean like—like some of the ones on, right? I guess it’s the same thing. I don’t see that that’s such a bad thing honestly.
Student: Okay, now we’re going to my opinions.
Instructor: Oh, because then it would then would bump into wanting—
Student: Okay, okay, over the truth.
Instructor: Okay, that’s what he said.
Student: Yeah, generosity.
Instructor: Just to be clear, but that’s one thing. That’s one very important thing. All of learning, learning means having an interest in the truth, which basically means especially gash [gashmiyus: physicality/materiality] means, right? I mean, it says in school meditation [Sefer HaKedushah: the Book of Holiness] that’s what it means, right?
Well, that’s one of the things it means. It’s like, yes, it was a bit like, yes, but I don’t want to be right. I want the truth to be right, right?
Just being interested in intellect means not caring about yourself or about your part [party] or about your religion or about your nation or anything—only about the truth, about what is. It means that you’re dedicated, you’re giving yourself over to what is. And then that’s pesiris neifis [mesirus nefesh: self-sacrifice].
Most people are not really ready for that, even us. We only manage to live by compartmentalizing. That’s what you’re talking about, especially the gospels [hispashtus ha-gashmiyus: stripping away physicality] and the scriptures.
Student: No, yeah, maybe in some sense first. I don’t know.
Instructor: We’re jumping around here because we’re trying to grapple.
Student: It’s one reasoning.
Instructor: Yeah, it’s definitely one point. Then I’m supposed to—now I’m going to make all this chat this Plato’s chat, like ecstasy [ekstasis: standing outside oneself], which means was said about this first.
The truth is outside of you, right? It’s bigger than your wants—you in the sense of not in the sense of your capacity to grasp the truth, but in the sense of your wants and your opinions, your biases, all these kinds of things—and wanting to know the truth.
When someone says, you know, when someone comes and says, “I want to know the truth,” who will they have that want to know the truth? Oh gosh, you want to know the truth? These are the ones wanting to use it for something, for their own interests.
Student: Yeah, I guess.
Instructor: Who wants to know the truth? How much do you want to pay for it? What do you pay on Wednesday nights? Ah, first things. First you have to come every Wednesday and give away your time.
But more seriously, you have to give away your desire for like comfort. People for some reason claim that they’re comfortable and believing the things that we have no idea what’s so comfortable about that, but—
Instructor: You heard the people saying this? “I’m comfortable believing what I believed yesterday, so I don’t want to change my mind.” You heard people saying that?
Student: Yes.
Instructor: It’s for sure kind of yes. I also don’t have what’s so comfortable about it. It’s like, it’s just, it’s laziness, I guess, but like comfortability, I don’t know. I’m more comfortable finding out like how things are really, I don’t know. What’s wrong about that? Mostly I don’t know, but okay. I don’t know if you have to have more comfortable in that. You’re okay being not comfortable as long as the truth is going to come along with it.
Student: Yeah, I don’t know. It’s okay.
Instructor: Or you’re more uncomfortable not knowing the truth than believing what you said yesterday. It’s uncomfortable. So you’re pretending to know the truth, but that’s not…
Student: No, meaning…
Instructor: For me, it’s also comfortable to continue believing what I already believe, but it’s even more uncomfortable to believe that my devotion to that is hiding the truth from me.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: I’m just having a great discomfort.
Student: Yeah, it’s just a game of words now.
Instructor: I don’t know, do you know people that go around saying that they’re looking for the truth? The Rebbe doesn’t give them the truth, they want to know the truth, is that your thing? People say that stuff?
It seems to me to be a very great, like, how do you call it? It’s very audacious to say that you want the truth. Firstly, maybe the truth doesn’t want you. How do you know you’re worthy of it? What do you do for it? How would the truth want you? You want the truth? You do?
But you see, this is now I’m talking about it as if it’s like a middah [character trait], as if it’s like a want. It’s not really a want. It’s a practice, right? There’s a practice to this. Like we say, everything, even intellectual rituals begin and end with a practice, right? There’s a practice.
The practice of search for truth is this kind of discourse, this kind of discussion where we never say, “Oh, well, that’s what we’ve got to believe.” Or we never say, like, “It seems to be too hard to think about.” Okay, if it’s hard to think about, then we’re stuck. Let’s try to find a way to think about it or to talk about it. But it’s a practice, right? It’s not a, should I say so? Not saying like you don’t want it—what do you do? You practice the search of truth or the practice the explanation of what someone else said, which is a nice thing to do, but it’s not searching for truth unless you’re doing that because you think that that’s going to reveal more reality to you. Okay, that’s anyways that’s one middah [character trait], very important middah.
But love of truth—love of the truth more than yourself, love of the truth more than your teachers, more than your friends, right? Remember? If you don’t love your friend, you see? Now you understand one reason why many of the critics are the worst people. You understand why? There’s one reason, sometimes. Not all of the cases, but there’s a reason why. Why are critics the worst people?
Because remember Aristotle said in the beginning of the Ethics, in Book 1, Chapter 6, that we are going to disagree with Plato, even though it’s like an uphill climb to disagree with him. Why? Because as much as we love our friends, our teachers—he calls everyone friends, kinds of love. Philia [φιλία: Greek term for friendship/love], you must love—it is the duty or the piety of philosophers to love the truth more than their friends.
That’s something that Plato said also, or Socrates said, says that about that thing. What this means is first you gotta love your friends and then you’ll—you love your friend. If you’re a philosopher, if you’re some person, then you should probably just love your friend. You don’t even know what loving truth means. But if you’re a philosopher, means you have a love for wisdom, you have a love for truth, then your duty, maybe including your duty to your friends, is to love that more.
So don’t say we’re going to defend this opinion because it’s an opinion of our friends if it doesn’t make sense to us, if you don’t understand it. We’re going to hack on it, we’re going to deny it.
Student: Maybe only philosophers have to love their friends?
Instructor: No, everyone is supposed to love their friends.
Student: Why that way advice that’s part of there’s no one friend?
Instructor: No, no, that’s—there’s such a kind of love. Of course the philosophers like to say that they’re the only one that really like their friends, but everyone should love their friends. And philosophers should love also the truth more than their friends—not not love their friends. I said it doesn’t follow, it doesn’t follow.
Meaning, don’t only love the Chochem [חכם: wise person], love the Chochmeh [חכמה: wisdom] more than the Chochem. That’s basically how I would say what he’s saying.
Student: But if the friends are not Chochmem [wise people], then there’s no continuation.
Instructor: What does loving your friends mean? Don’t love them as your wife, love them as you love the truth, like with Shaykhs [שייכות: connection/relevance]. Right?
Student: No, there’s Shanaim al-Ashaykh [שנאים על עשק: hatred based on oppression], but wait, there’s Shanaim al-Ashaykh, isn’t there?
Instructor: That’s where I was going, right?
There’s many people that turn, that claim to love the truth and they say it’s easy for them to love the truth. They don’t realize that claiming to love the truth is making a claim on your moral worth and what kind of person you are. You’re setting yourself apart as a person from most other people who do not love the truth in any significant way.
And those people say, “What do you mean? But this guy’s my whole society. Everyone is living in falsehood. They all believe all kind of nonsense. And I’m the first one or the last one that discovered this. And therefore I’m going to, I don’t know, write blogs on the internet against them, and so on.”
And this guy, he thinks that he’s got this love of truth for free. The reason he’s for free is because he doesn’t have good middos [character traits]. He just hates his wife. He doesn’t love his friends. Therefore, for him, there’s no chachma [חכמה: wisdom] to love truth more than his friends, because he’s a horrible human being to begin with. He’s just a great egoist who doesn’t even see past his own nose.
If you’re a guy who doesn’t see past your own nose, and you call that loving your truth more than loving your friends, you’re not a guy that loves truth more than loving his friends—you’re just a horrible person. And I’ve been zoicheh [זוכה: privileged/merited] to know many people that are like that. They pretend to be the ones that love the truth, but really they’re just ones that cannot see past their own nose.
And therefore, whatever thought he has, as opposed to anything that anyone else told him—loving your friends means also accepting their thoughts. Maybe not as truth, because you don’t know what truth is, but their opinions. Part of filial love, part of your allegiance to your society. This is very important. I think that modernity has ruined this by creating societies that are liberal and so on—we shouldn’t get into this.
But in reality, part of allegiance to your friends is agreeing to their opinions. And you know, within most limits, that’s just what friendship requires. You can’t be my friend and say, “Everything you think is nonsense.” I’m going to be very upset at you. Not me. Because I’m a crazy guy. And somehow I have figured out a way to give you kugel [a warm dish; metaphorically: warmth/generosity] while you say that. But most people, that’s the whole thing. That’s what we have to give kugel, you have.
But most people, that’s like, “Why are you eating my kugel if you don’t respect my beliefs?” And therefore, the people that do woe against that are usually bad people. And it’s a bad act to do, even as a philosopher.
The philosopher, his allegiance is to a higher God. He has a higher truth, a higher value that’s beyond that, and how that works within other people in society, you’re right. It works much better when he disagrees with his philosopher friends. If he’s going to go and disagree with his mother, that might not even be the duty of a philosopher. You understand?
It might be that even someone who is a philosopher, his piety to his duty to—I’m using piety as duty to something, right? His duty to his family is to agree with them. Not to agree with them for real, but to say that he agrees with them. That’s what they care about anyways. What do they care what you think in your heart? It doesn’t make any sense. But that’s a real duty. That’s moral. Otherwise, you’re a horrible person.
What kind of a good person are you? Like I can give you—I don’t know who you want me to talk about now—but like what kind of a person are you if you’re like, “I’m an ish emes [איש אמת: man of truth], I’m about the truth and therefore my mother, my wife, my children…” That’s not ish emes, it’s just a shaigetz [שייגעץ: Yiddish term for a boor/uncouth person]. And that’s one of the reasons why critics are often horrible people. Not always, but sometimes. Some of them are just the people that haven’t been socialized. They don’t have the social virtues. They don’t like their friends. And therefore it’s very easy for them to say opposite. But they don’t have the love of truth which goes beyond that.
Which it says—which says I do very much love you, that’s a real thing. And right, if Avraham [Abraham] would be just a guy that doesn’t care for his children, that kind of Akeidah [עקידה: the Binding of Isaac] would be interesting, right? That’s what it says. I’m going back to saying that’s why it says in the Pasuk [פסוק: verse], “Where can we find a greater witness, a greater proof that someone loves his son, if God himself says you love him?” The Torah says, “You love Yitzchak [Isaac].” And this kid you should be mad—if he was just a guy, he wouldn’t be a chachma [חכמה: wisdom/feat]. He doesn’t really love him. If he loves Yitzchak, then it’s a chachma.
Student: No, but he does love him.
Instructor: Yeah, and you know what’s interesting? Avraham says—Avraham says things in a Midrash [מדרש: rabbinic commentary]. It says in a Midrash, in a Midrash, whenever someone says “I love both equally,” you know he’s lying, right?
Instructor: I think so. What do you like best?
Student: Both.
Instructor: Okay, you mean to say you’re not telling me the truth. You don’t have to tell me the answer. I’m not saying it might be wrong to say the truth answer. I mean, I’ll tell anyone, even yourself, I’ll tell me which of each of you you like more. But it’s always true that someone likes their children more. One child or the other.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Or maybe almost always true. Unless you just don’t love, which is one excuse.
It’s time to just… The *Chovot HaLevavot* [Duties of the Heart, an 11th-century Jewish ethical work by Bahya ibn Paquda] says that it wouldn’t have been such a *nisayon* [test/trial] if Avraham wouldn’t have did the *Akeidah* [the Binding of Isaac] without love. Meaning, like what you’re saying, the love for truth more than the love for friends.
Student: Yeah, for sure.
Instructor: If he would be a bad guy…
I found that astounding when he said something like that.
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: You’re obviously trading the love for your kid for the love for truth and now that you’re saying that yeah you have but that’s mine we sometimes that’s why we keep on talking about *Avraham Avinu* [Abraham our Father] for this purpose right because people have this like imaginary stove of you know as the guy that or going around this father’s father store I’m breaking the breaking the *gatchkes* [idols/trinkets] which might have happened but was *naaseh lo lashma* [was not done for its own sake] was not allowed to do not let it do that right so then a kid is that this is a *middah* [character trait/virtue] but this is like it’s a great thing of someone to claim to himself to love the truth we could talk about the practice that’s why it’s easy to what the practice of of searching for truth otherwise when I am learning nothing means that you it’s not an opinion right.
What’s the difference? One big difference in an opinion and a thought. I thought something you do, an opinion something you have, right? Whenever someone asks you a question you could say like what do you think about this, you mean to say I should think with you now about it or you mean to say I should give you a tape recording of what I thought about it yesterday? That’s what most people do.
Usually I don’t have an opinion about it. Okay let’s learn about it. But that requires the requires this set and setting ready requires the issue of *yishuv hadaat* [settled mind/mental composure] requires the openness to be able to do that. Now usually you’re just saying not even thoughts like the distillation of thoughts that you had in the past or that someone told you in the past.
Okay, this is one *middah*.
What are the other *middos* [character traits/virtues] that we need to have in general as a human being? Why don’t we have, you see this is really weird, why don’t we have like a very basic list of like these are the things that you need to do? Generosity?
Student: Nobody knows.
Instructor: There’s like a *sefer zeh devoros* [such a book of things], isn’t there? What do you say on when someone dies like you go through the list of virtues and you find which one he did right for his *hesped* [eulogy]? What are those? What are the list?
Student: I don’t know.
Instructor: What’s wrong with generosity?
Student: I’m not saying that’s wrong with that one good thing.
Instructor: Honestly?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Okay. Okay, let’s try to make life easier. What are the top three?
Student: Finish?
Instructor: What are the top three?
Student: No, for intellectual…
Instructor: No, for the intellectual thing.
Student: Humbleness?
Instructor: Before what we need specifically to come to *chochmah she-be-shira* [wisdom in poetry/song]. Because remember, that’s what I was saying. If you’re not a good person and you come to the *chochmah*, most of your supposed intellectual virtues are fake also, right? So first, being a good person. What are the three top things that you need to do?
Student: *Gevurah* [courage/strength] is a *middah* [virtue] there.
Instructor: Why?
Student: Well…
Instructor: I don’t know. I’m going to make you justify things now. What are the three top virtues? For Lakewood, for Howell, I don’t know what, whichever.
Student: It just means doing everything in the right way.
Instructor: Everything just means everything in the right way. We’re trying to speak in more detail than that, right? What are the three top virtues? You can learn a lot about a person or a society by asking them this question. I don’t know if you’ll ask them directly, they usually lie, but you’ll find out. What are the three top things people are praised or blamed for in your classroom?
Student: Well as a bad thing the bad is least opposite of the good right.
Instructor: In the New York Times what are the three top good and bad things?
Student: I’m the better work and this better work for materialistic and pleasure-seeking.
Instructor: That’s the good thing?
Student: Not a good thing, that’s a bad thing.
Instructor: I’m going to do it to you according to most people. I mean most people that’s not a virtue, that’s like a characterization of like what are virtues like kinds of people right or specific parts of kinds of people right.
All right, okay. You all went to yeshiva and then yeshiva what what *halo* [behold] that’s still and there yeshiva over the three top virtues discussed.
Student: I don’t know.
Instructor: I’m just gonna give honesty, honesty, humbleness, and generosity, abstinence. Is that true or you just saying?
Student: Oh you just make up a list you’re not recording.
Instructor: Why would those be three be the three like top things?
Student: I would say abstinence.
Instructor: And the yeshiva or in here in the yeshiva?
Student: Okay, number one, number two, consistency. Okay, number three, abstinence again.
Instructor: That was the same one I already said it.
Student: And *beis* [second] in the top drive with this toy but this is what I do.
Instructor: How do you say his reasons in English? I don’t know what it is mean.
Student: What does it mean?
Instructor: I explain what you mean enough to have a word you can just say what you mean that’s fine.
What are the three top *middos tovos* [good character traits]? This device meshed go do homework. We’re gonna give up homework sheets and everyone should brainstorm about it. Isn’t it weird that nobody has an answer here? You know what I say this I did it sorry we don’t learn about this and she.
Student: What do you learn about?
Instructor: Well you don’t learn about it but it’s all they do maybe not explicitly in the way of like giving you all this to memorize okay but you do like they do give over kind of life which basically can be defined in some such a way.
What’s the top three things that they tell the guy by the *shidduch* [matchmaking] information? I know those top three things. How do you say *teche kebare* [unclear Yiddish/Hebrew term] in somebody’s real not fake? Is that something they hold up in the yeshiva?
Student: Well that’s not the yeshiva’s portray but I mean could be they preach it.
Instructor: They do could be I don’t know I’m not really sure it would be called something like I went to nowadays not the yeshivas I went to but maybe some do I don’t know to give the benefit of the doubt maybe but in yeshiva they hold of three things kindness kindness is for sure in the in the *shidduch* world it says does he learn well does he have business and does he have money.
Is there anything else that the *shadchanim* [matchmakers] don’t know?
Student: That’s so funny.
Instructor: With this service, what does it mean?
Student: That’s a good question.
Instructor: Because that was a trick question now. It’s overindulgent. What’s the word for that? What’s meant indulgent?
Student: It’s indulgent.
Instructor: What is that? How do you say it in *shadchanus* [matchmaking]? English, I don’t care. English temperance.
So temperance is number one. So yeah kindness I don’t know like *chesed* [kindness/loving-kindness] like ready to do you’re asking me personally I tell I and humility.
Student: This is my kindness, kindness is ready to do someone else favor not only only someone else to be kind to yourself to develop to the to do good not good in Aristotle’s good but as it has it be more those type of things.
Instructor: Yeah whatever you see these are soon you can *mamash* [really/actually] on your dear but you think what’s it up so I think was he hot yeah my world no thoughts about this kindness no tell me what was the thought about kindness kindness you could plug it into anything for you right because what you’re talking about is something like helping being helpful, right? Not the same thing as kindness.
Student: That’s right. Maybe that’s what you mean. I’m being helpful.
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: And what she said that it was he was just saying random stuff.
Instructor: Yeah, I was just throwing it out there. What is really the things? Wow, okay?
So I have a lot of discussions here a lot of *Torahs* [teachings] to say but I’m asked like this. Firstly, there’s a serious question, where’s this list or what’s going on with this list? You remember that to become a good person basically means all these things.
Instructor: Does anyone have a list? A complete list of all the good things and the bad things? Not the good things, the good virtues and the bad virtues, and the opposite of virtues, right? The vices.
Student: Hope.
Instructor: Not exactly what you mean.
Student: Preservativity.
Student: Perseverance.
Instructor: Perseverance, that’s it, which means it’s very important that if you’re almost anything.
Instructor: So we could read a little bit if you want, or I could talk to you about what things say in the books. If you read the books that we’re reading, like the eight chapters [*Shemonah Perakim*, Maimonides’ introduction to Ethics of the Fathers], you’ll find there’s various lists of these things, various lists. I wonder if you read the *Shemonah Perakim* and *Hilchos De’os* [Laws of Character Traits, from Maimonides’ *Mishneh Torah*], or if you read, what else should you read for such lists? Anything you will read, you will find that they have various lists.
And one thing you’ll find specifically in places like the Rambam [Maimonides] is that they do not have a list, not a very clear list, if you notice that. And if you care about *mar mikomos* [checking sources], you could look in *Hilchos De’os* Perek [Chapter] Beis and Perek Dalet, where there’s the same list twice and it changes in between. He forgot his previous list. He took out one thing and added something else or something like that. You could look at *Hilchos De’os* Perek Alef where there’s a third list, or *Hilchos De’os* Perek Beis where there’s sort of a fourth list. And you see that the lists are not consistent.
That’s one problem. And if I ask you, I’ve got so many different lists and I don’t know what’s going on.
Student: Sounds interesting.
Instructor: There are some traditions with much better lists, much more clarity about what their list of good and bad things are. Even a book like the *Chovos Halevavos* [Duties of the Heart, by Rabbeinu Bachya ibn Paquda] is in its entirety kind of a list of virtues, right? That is one problem.
Instructor: One interesting thing that we can use here from these lists is to notice that there are commonalities, things that keep on popping up. So if I will do this kind of survey or kind of discussion with more people and really wonder what happens, what becomes the things that people keep on saying, or if you ask yourself five times a week or five times, see what your list of virtues are. And of course, some of them are going to change and some of them won’t change. Some of them will keep on coming up again and again. And that’s how you find out which are the ones that are more important, or more basic, or more central, or more needed. Right? Make sense?
Or maybe the ones that you don’t talk about, those are the ones that you need, and we don’t talk about them because it’s also possible, right?
Instructor: There will also be many different ways of deciding to make such a list, right? One way would be what I just told you. Let’s try to think of one of the most salient things, what are the things that are most obvious, what are the things that most pop out to you when you look at people and look at what you’re trying to teach them, and you find this is the list.
A more rational way would be somehow to figure out how to make this list, right? How would you, what would be the correct way to make such a list? I don’t know. Can you think of some correct ways? What is the correct way to make a list anyways?
Student: What’s needed for it.
Instructor: What’s needed for one.
Student: For the next step.
Instructor: What stops, what are stops, what do you mean by steps?
Student: Steps of it. It’s the step, this list is the step before the intellectual virtues, right?
Instructor: That’s it, I don’t know. Or if you don’t have these then you can’t get to that, right?
Student: Okay.
Instructor: Let’s say. So then you would have to figure out like what is needed, but it’s not the only thing, it’s not the only way, you know, I can make the list, right? Just to be clear what, look at what good people do, look at what people do. That would be the first way. It seems like a very messy way to do things. Maybe it’s the best way, but it’s a messy way. Let’s try to, let’s try to like put all the things they do or the ways they act into like little boxes. And you can do the inverse, you can see what goes wrong in the world and figure out what it’s an excess of.
Student: Yeah, yeah, we could do that also.
Instructor: But there should also be like more rational ways of doing things, right? Like more top-down ways of doing things. That would be another way of looking at the particulars first, right? Starting from the bottom. Or the ways of starting from the top.
Student: I don’t like what you’re saying, what is the next move, because like that’s not all that makes the, assuming firstly you’re already put in a whole assumption.
Instructor: What’s good about people?
Student: Yeah, yeah, I get that, but that’s like, so how do we start?
Instructor: And then you could just say what’s good about people is being good people. What are people? Yeah, yeah. That’s the most general thing. Now we’re talking about something a lot more specific, right? We’re talking about specific lists of ways, very specific ways in which people are good and bad. So how would you get from there to here? Is there a way? How would we get from what you’re saying, for example? What?
Student: How to get from virtue to the virtues?
Instructor: Yeah. Is there a way to do that?
Student: Thing like we say a good person, someone that’s good at personning.
Instructor: Okay, and how do we get from that on your list before? I mean there could be technically unlimited virtues, right?
Student: Why?
Instructor: Because what virtue is, that something is a golden mean, meaning it orients a person towards his purpose.
Student: I go to me though.
Instructor: No, a golden mean is just a way of giving you a structure for the virtues, but it doesn’t tell you which ones they are.
Student: No, right, that’s what I meant, that anything could be a virtue.
Instructor: So now we’re talking about which ones they are.
Student: No, not anything could be a virtue. These are categories of human disposition.
Instructor: Okay, so how are we going to list these categories? We’re going to generate our list.
Student: You have to do it empirically.
Instructor: I have to?
Student: I think so.
Instructor: Yeah, you have to start at what human beings do, and then figure out how they can do that well. How else would we do it?
Instructor: How else would we do it? I can think of other ways to do it. What would be another way?
Student: Yeah, I mean, what’s already thought, already of another way?
Instructor: No, the problem with that would be something like, like just to be clear, what you’re already, what you’re doing is already a list of virtues, right? You’re just talking about how to subdivide that list, right? In other words, if you’re, you already told me an answer and then, yeah, I’m really still before that answer, right? That’s the first problem, not a problem. It’s just some step that has to be built up.
Instructor: Like you told me, there are virtues that lead to other virtues. And we call these higher for some reason or closer to the real end goal, right? Okay, so that’s one way of organizing them already. Before you kind of do your next step, you jump very quickly, right? One way of organizing them is to say something like, there is the best end, best meaning the thing that more things lead to or more of an end, and there’s sort of a ladder or like a step to get there, right? And that’s one way of organizing the virtues already.
We could call it, in the sense of, it’s not only organizing the virtues, just to be clear, it’s really organizing what are we really organizing here? The activities, the things that you do. If someone says something like the best thing to do in the sense of the thing that is good in itself or it’s more good in itself than other things. Other things are good because they lead to that, and that’s not good because it leads to other things.
The best thing to do is to think, contemplate, right? In order to contemplate you need to list some things, you need to have humility. So, here’s a way of ordering the virtues, here’s a way of organizing them by the kind of activities that they’re about, right? The best activity is thinking and there are some virtues of thinking, how to think well, how to think correctly, what is needed to think, for thinking correctly and so on. Those would be one kind of virtues. We didn’t yet discuss how to cut those up, right?
But then in order to think you need to first have money, okay, a certain amount of money. So therefore the art and the virtue of making a certain amount of money correctly is prior to that in time and less important than that in importance. So you already gave me a way of organizing it, although not of listing it, because it seems like what you’re listing is not entirely the virtues, but your hierarchy, so to speak, is not created by listing virtues, it’s created by looking at the reality and saying, what is needed in order for this to work?
Instructor: And then when you tell me what is good is what leads to that, that might be true, but that doesn’t help me make a list, right? And there also might be things that are only good because of one step, not because of the next step, right?
In order to be a *Talmid Chacham* [Torah scholar], you have to have money, okay? You have to get married. That’s one step in the Mishnah or whatever, and then you get married, you have to have good *middos* [character traits], because otherwise nobody wants to marry you. What makes having the kind of good *middos* that makes you marriage material good is that they’re good for marriage, not that they’re good for learning.
Just *lesheraida* [for its own sake], since we have bodies and we have these needs and so on, so having a good life includes getting married and having the virtues that apply to marriage, and therefore here for then being able to think. So we could organize the virtues if you want this way, by sort of like what is needed at this step, what is needed at that step, and the steps being organized logically by what is better.
But we don’t really get a list out of the steps. The list is not a list of steps, and it’s also not a list of what is needed for the next. It’s a list of what is needed for this one. You get what I’m saying?
Instructor: There’s another way of ordering them, which is basically this, but in a slightly different way, which is we already did that, right? Like when we discussed the concept of intellectual virtue versus character virtue and things like that, right? Which is what? It’s dividing them—I’m going to tell you the answer you should have known it, you should have figured it out yourself—it’s dividing them by the things they’re about, by the parts of the soul they’re about or the parts of the person they’re about, right?
We say intellectual virtues are the virtues of the intellect or of the brain or the mind. And character virtues are the ones of the desiring soul, remember? Appetite of soul, something like that. So this was, and if you want, you can divide that into as many kind of things that it does, which we could sort of say are different parts of it, different powers of it. And then we would have a way of having sort of a complete list if you know the complete list of the parts of the person you can just generate a complete list of the virtues by doing that.
Student: Well that makes sense.
Instructor: No, no, or not?
Student: But no, because these things have subdivisions and subdivisions.
Instructor: Meaning, do you—but desires apply themselves to the even experience. But when I do—just be very clear—when I do subdivisions, you see, like, there’s—depends what you’re looking for when you look for a complete list. One way of being complete is at least whatever I say already includes everything in it. And if subdivisions don’t bother me, you can subdivide as much as you want, I still have a complete list. If you start in the bottom, then you end up with an incomplete list, because you just started from the lowest subdivisions that you happen to notice. If I start from the top, I have a better list, because I could subdivide it, but I still have the top-level rule, which includes everything.
That would be a different way of doing it, a very different way of doing it, right?
Instructor: I want to tell you one reason why it’s not going to be enough, and it’s going to be a *ba’ayah* [problem]. Meanwhile, we have three ways of doing this list:
1. One way is to do the empirical research kind of way and like look at all the people and make lists and hope that we don’t miss anything important, the totally bottom-up kind of way.
2. Another way would be to do Adi’s way, which is to order them by the order of goods, then talk about what is needed or maybe what certain, at each stage as we call it, or each level or each step would be needing certain virtues to make it work well.
3. The third way would be, which is somewhat close to the second way, because the second way, sometimes it’s said, to be like the best thing is to act with your mind. So that part is also the end goal, also the best thing, but it’s also the virtue of a specific part. And then we would just list all the parts of the soul, all the parts of the body, all the parts of the society, and assign or figure out what the virtues are for that. Maybe we could need to subdivide them, but at least we’ll have a full list—a full list, or a generally full list, even if we don’t have all the particularly full lists, right?
That was the third way to do things.
Instructor: The *ba’ayah* with the third way is what? The *ba’ayah* is that everyone is tired and wants to sleep. But besides that, yeah, there’s a virtue of sleeping enough. Very important.
The *ba’ayah* with this is, what are these virtues that are not of a part? Then we’ll have to add more things. Maybe there’s virtues about relations of parts, about the whole thing.
Student: I just said that.
Instructor: I just said that you might have that. You might make a list of virtues by listing all the parts and then saying what is good for each part and then we have a full list. But that seems to be very obviously wrong because—what if they’re pretty sure there are virtues that belong to the whole thing or at least mediation between the parts or to the relation between this—
Student: No, I need to think what’s wrong with this emotional something that is about organized.
Instructor: Well, I could give you the *mashal* [analogy] of my table, right? Remember the *mashal* of the table? How many parts does the table have? How many *ma’alos* [qualities/virtues] does the table—start listing them. Let’s do the same game. Are you against it? I’m asking you. List it. Are you against it? Start doing it and let’s see.
Student: Sturdiness.
Instructor: Well, it needs to be—no, we just have to do it. The way to do it is to cut it up into parts and look at each part, right? Very good. So it needs to be made out of—
Student: No, no, no, that’s the original.
Instructor: The paint needs to be shiny, the legs have to be strong, the cuts need to be straight, the—I don’t know what other parts—have to be precise, the corners have to be aligned and so on, right? Those are—when we finish listing all the—the screws have to be made as pointy and strong and so on, right?
Now we finish all of that. Do I have a good table? I have a bunch of parts, right? That’s IKEA, right? Now you have to come out and put it together, right?
Now I’m not going to just put an actual act of going together, also the act of designing it or creating it means thinking of how all these things are going to fit together. If you have a very strong like—it’s *halaila* [for example], is the strongest leg it can possibly be, but the table, the top, the top shelf of the table is even stronger, even heavier, more, even heavier than it, or the top still, it’s—I can have like an aesthetic problem or like a functional problem. The top step is very small, so you’ve got the strongest leg because you’re going to need the strongest thing possible, but your top is like tiny, it’s like a toothpick. Then you don’t really have a table, you have some weird monster, right?
So it’s actually very silly to list parts. You got to talk about the whole thing.
Student: That’s we have a *kollel* [adding one for the whole in gematria], right? I don’t want to do all the math and make a *kollel*. Why? Because, like, yeah, I have a word I’ve wanted to.
Instructor: Okay, but that’s not a word, right? You’ve got to do the whole word, too. Otherwise, it doesn’t work. That’s a Torah that I heard from Rav Pincus once.
Student: Ah, so then it would be all *kollelim* [plural of kollel], good.
Instructor: No, because the *kollel* got a *meh-meh* [something] or something.
Student: No, but only the math is that’s what the *kollel* is. It was the only one that I cracked. All the other ones are *shrak ha-ma’aseh* [nonsense].
Instructor: The problem is, when you’re making *gematria* with a *kollel*, you’re always cheating, because the reason you do it is because the other side is without a *kollel*.
Student: Perhaps. This is not a *gematria*. Think about it. It’s dumb. You always need a *kollel* that’s back in the same place. The only time we need a *kollel* is when you’re using one and not the other, and that’s the problem with it. If you just add one to everything, it doesn’t make any difference. So kids around us, as long as you’re consistent, then you’re not interested. The problem with the *kollel* is always when it doesn’t really work.
Instructor: Anyways, that’s why this is not enough.
Instructor: You might have to ask, and virtues of the whole, or the relations between all kinds of parts, and so on. And then someone might even come and say that that’s the only virtue. Because that’s what, remember, virtues are not of hands and of feet and of even specific wants and needs. What are they of? What are they of?
Student: People.
Instructor: People, very good. Are people hands? No, people are.
Instructor: Anyways, that’s why this is not enough. You might have to ask about virtues of the whole or the relations between all kinds of parts and so on. And then someone might even come and say that that’s the only virtue, because that’s what—remember, virtues are not of hands and of feet and of even specific wants and needs. What are they of? What are they of?
Student: People.
Instructor: People, there you go. Are people hands? No, people are people. So there’s no virtue that really counts unless it’s part of the whole. Unless it’s counted or understood in the context of the whole person. Right? Okay. Make sense?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: No. Is that true? There isn’t such a thing as kindness. Because, like we say, you can be too kind. Right? And what does “too kind” even mean?
Too kind just means that your kindness conflicts with your other parts of your humanity, right? Or with other parts of other people’s humanity. And that’s why it’s not good. It’s a way of saying like, you can’t only have healthy hands, because healthy hands means hands that work well with the rest of the body. And same way you can’t have healthy kindness without having any other part of your virtue in alignment.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: So if we understand that we need virtues of the whole, we might as well drop all the part virtues, in some sense, because they’re all subservient to this one. But on the other hand, no, what’s the other hand?
Student: The other hand, there’s no way to approach it in any way that we can isolate something to understand it. You’re still going back there. Just a good person.
Instructor: Yeah, right. That’s the problem.
Student: I mean, the problem is that you have nowhere to begin.
Instructor: Exactly.
Instructor: Okay, so what if I’m a kind person? Now what does complete kindness consist of? Kindness that’s… Okay, so let’s not just say we’re a good person. Let’s give you one virtue: kindness. Very good, that’s a part. To be completely kind, what’s the problem with people to be kind?
Student: Very good.
Instructor: So what? In order to be fully kind, what do we need?
Student: Everything else.
Instructor: Thank you very much. So if you have a problem with me telling things that are too general, I could just tell you any example. But any example, if you think about it enough, if you do it enough, means everything else also. Right? Even in the *mashal* [parable/analogy] of the table, totally like that.
Student: Yeah, if you think—if you want to think that way, maybe.
Instructor: Yeah, because a normal leg means a leg that fits correctly with it, exactly. So it’s enough for me to tell you one thing. Right?
That’s why when we say *Leshem Yichud* [the formula recited before performing a mitzvah], it says [the phrase about the 613 mitzvos being included], because you can’t do even one *mitzvah* [commandment] without involving other *mitzvos*. Because if you do, then you’re a weirdo. Because there’s no *mitzvah* to do just that *mitzvah*. If a *mitzvah* is a part of life and something that actually is useful for a human being.
Instructor: All right, I’ll tell you a *mashal*. Does this—was he that I missed that film? Okay, doesn’t care about any of them. It’s just—just wanted to go out film. Okay. Now I have a question for you. That’s it. We get everyone to be very into *mitzvos* of putting on *tefillin* [phylacteries], right? Now there’s still—by—I decide whatever said there’s a *biyur* [clarification]. Because when you put up the *tefillin* the correct—it’s not correct.
Some *tefillin* has a meaning. I’m putting out *tefillin* means you have to have correct *kavanos* [intentions]. So it’s not just putting it on. So it’s *Guf Naki* [bodily purity]. You have to have purity of your body and purity of your mind. If you’re putting on *tefillin* and thinking of an *avodah zarah* [idolatry], you’re probably not making it into a *tefillin* or maybe you’re doing something even bad. And complete. Maybe a *yotzei b’dieved* [fulfilling the obligation after the fact], but the ideal *tefillin* is not that, right?
So it’s *merambah* [expanding]. A different order from the *tefillin* you already have to have another *mitzvah* of *chavar shafan* [proper thoughts] and *karek* [correct] thoughts, right?
Not only—and also of course if you think of that doesn’t make any sense, the fact that the *tefillin* might not even mean anything. Now I have another thing for you. This year they’re only putting out *tefillin*. Should you put out *tefillin* on *Shabbos* [the Sabbath]?
Student: What is the correct way of putting out the *tefillin*?
Instructor: *Shabbos* you don’t put out the *tefillin*. But if you don’t keep *Shabbos* the correct way of putting out the *tefillin* is *Shabbos*. But that’s not a *shkite* [correct way], that’s not the correct way of putting out the *tefillin*. So, it’s stuck.
This guy that’s putting it only in the *mitzvos* of putting out *tefillin*… You like examples, I’m giving you examples. This guy that’s only doing the *mitzvos* of putting out *tefillin*, he’s got to start putting out, keeping *Shabbos* also. Because otherwise, he’s a weirdo. He’s putting out the *tefillin* on *Shabbos* because the *Shabbos* are the *os* [sign] and it doesn’t make any sense.
And if you want to keep *Shabbos*, no, I don’t even have to go like that. What else does he have to do? Firstly, he has to *alein Krias Shema* [recite the Shema], because I could have *Krias Shema*, but I couldn’t, so I had to shake. And also, I’m going to have to teach the children the Torah, because it says in the Torah [in the tefillin passages], and if you teach the Torah, you’re not going to get it, you’re going to have to do the whole Torah, not just the Torah.
Right? Because it’s him—I did one *mitzvah* generates all of them. It really does.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: Right? That’s not *tefillin*, right? So you could—we don’t have to talk instead. The logic was right that we shouldn’t say we’re coming—what does that mean, put on *tefillin*? But we’re not—*tefillin* means everything else also. Otherwise they’re doing a half *tefillin*. Okay, half a *tefillin*, neither. But we want of the whole *tefillin*, right?
The same thing goes with every *middah* [character trait]. You end up not having to talk about all of them because it’s enough to talk about one. But if you do that one correctly, it already includes—implies—basically all of them. Unless you’re not—like things that we could just do, push this *middah* all the way to the end and without caring about the other ones, which just means you’re going to be extreme and then you’re not going to do it.
So that’s a humility. I’ll just—let’s take *anavah* [humility] in the middle. Let’s say humility. How humility… I don’t know what humility is.
Student: What?
Instructor: First you have to tell me what it is. And why it’s good.
Student: I thought you were already enough on that one.
Instructor: Okay, what is it?
Student: I don’t know. Let’s go again. Let’s go with… Which one is for sure that you agree with? Because I don’t want to get into the whole rabbit hole with humility.
Instructor: The whole point is you always get into rabbit holes. That’s what I hope is.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: No, like how does humility—
Student: Humility, let’s say…
Instructor: Of course it does. I told you about kindness.
Student: What you’re calling humility is like a…
Instructor: Humility, well, the humility that we talked about before was just an intellectual virtue. I’m not talking about those. Those are also like this, but we’ll have to connect that to the whole…
Student: Ah, so it doesn’t have to do with…
Instructor: No, it does have to do, but we’ll take a few more steps. Of course it does. What do you mean it doesn’t? Of course it does.
Student: It does, okay, so then that’s what I’m asking. That’s the question. I don’t even know how it does, though.
Instructor: How does connect to what?
Student: To the *nefesh ha’mitaveh* [desire soul].
Instructor: To the what?
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: Well, humility is about…
Student: No, your humility that you talked about was a kind of intellectual habit. It doesn’t belong to desire.
Instructor: That’s not the point. So how you can’t have that correctly without having the other ones correctly? And it’s because of what we already know.
You can’t—you can’t learn without having good *middos*, right? So you’re a kind of person not one mean correct. So you are what we called—what did you say you call the *middah*? Can you not—you don’t think they—you know everything guy would that be equally humility if like you—so that’s all why didn’t you help the case of now I’m the guy you know can’t do anything that’s very good home it does maybe the other guy is right.
Humility says maybe someone else is right. So therefore you can’t even learn anything. By the way, even in learning there must be an opposite middle which is called something like courage or *azus* [boldness]. Let’s say, let’s call it like that. It’s a weird thing. Let’s call it like that for now. There’s an opposite middle like, “Oh, so I never know anything because I also never know.”
Student: Very good.
Instructor: So I also never know anything. Knowledge, by the way, works—our life lives on knowledge. All our *middos* live on knowledge. Right? Can I know? There’s some—like you said, there’s some big enough of them that let anyone steal from them and from their friends and from everyone else because they don’t know who’s right anyway because they’re so open-minded, right? So they’re kind of humility not open-minded—they’re like weak-minded, right? But that’s not humility. That’s just that—maybe you could call extreme of an extreme of *middah* humility which is not humility anymore. It’s just being a—yeah, pushover, exactly.
So you gotta have the correct amount of humility, which means you also have to have another middle which is opposite—you could call it that way, maybe. Or the correct amount. But how do you know what’s the correct amount? You have to learn *Choshen Mishpat* [the section of Jewish law dealing with monetary and civil matters], like we discussed a few weeks ago from *Choshen Mishpat*, to know who’s right in most fights. See, I’ve told you it’s *Choshen Mishpat*. And so on and so forth.
This is not a real *teirutz* [answer], like to all the *kashas* [questions/difficulties] that I said, but it’s a true point. Like, to which *kashas* is it not a *teirutz*? Let’s do all the *kashas* and let’s see. What would I want to ask in the beginning of the *shiur* [lesson]?
I’m very bothered by this idea. I’ll tell you what it does answer and how much it doesn’t answer. I’m very bothered by the question that I asked today. Technically I asked different questions, but practically I asked this question.
Very bothered by the fact that nobody can give me the list of the good and the bad ones according to *shittas* [the approach/system of] Breslov. I don’t care—tell me that *keket* [such and such] thing. You can tell me certain things Breslov there for about a minute and about two minutes a regular average he could do.
Student: He could?
Instructor: The *mitzvos* and the list—don’t tell me—tell me the *Mishnah* has a list, tell me the list. But that’s just *dreiying mir a kup* [spinning my head around/confusing me], the *Mishnah* has a list, you know, it’s like, can this be a good thing or a bad thing, that’s not really a good thing. Tell me the list, tell me the list.
“Oh, a regular guy knows the *Mishnah*.” He doesn’t know the *Mishnah*, if he says there’s a *Mishnah*, it doesn’t help. What does he say? *Davka* [specifically], tell me the list, know the *Mishnah*.
Instructor: Don’t tell me the Mishnah has a list. That’s what they would tell you. But that’s just trying me a comp. The Mishnah has a list. You know, it’s like, can you tell me the Mishnah has a list? Tell me the list. He doesn’t know the Mishnah. He doesn’t know the Mishnah. If he says there’s a Mishnah around, it doesn’t help. He knows that the Mishnah has a list. What does he say? Tell me the list. No, the Mesillat [Mesillat Yesharim: “Path of the Upright,” an 18th-century Jewish ethical text by Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto]. What’s which, which? Give, give the top three. You wouldn’t know what.
That was one way of asking the question. So in your yeshiva [yeshiva: traditional Jewish academy focused on Torah study], that’s the thing that they mostly emphasize, which one of them are the most important. What I mean to say is, you’re telling me, no, no, people that quote instead of answering, you’re not interested. In other words, you’re saying to me like this, the most important virtue is being able to quote. I agree with that. That’s one of the most important virtues in yeshiva. Instead of thinking, quoting. Instead of answering my questions, quoting at me. No problem. That’s what you did. You didn’t answer my question though, right?
You’re not even talking with me. As long as it’s like the Mesillat, I’d ask you a question, right? Very good. Hello. Nobody knows. Nobody even knows what these things are, right? This will show them as a chakira [chakira: investigation, inquiry] what it means. Nobody knows. That’s not an answer to my question, right? I’m telling you that virtue is just a way of saying who is the good guy, right? What is your picture of a good guy? And you tell me a Mesillat. State the Mesillat. So your picture of a good guy is someone that says, state the Mesillat. I think that’s true, but you didn’t tell me any, have more information. Maybe there’s such a middah [middah: character trait, virtue] one made the cold state in Mishnah. No problem, no problem. So the middah is called being able to quote a Mishnah. What’s that matter? Is there anything else good in life? Fight for that. No, okay, no problem.
What about chesed [chesed: loving-kindness, compassion]? Not about state Mishnah?
Oh, so it’s two middos [middos: plural of middah] already. Knowing the Mesillat, I’m doing a chesed. Anyways, he wanted me to tell you about the kasha [kasha: difficulty, problem] in the credits.
So I was bothered by the inability of people to give me this list. Not only do people need to see if they can’t give me this list, or if they have a list that’s very weird, and not only people on my table can’t give me this list, or maybe they couldn’t, but they’re very tired, but also the people that we read their book can’t give us the list.
Does Rambam [Rambam: Rabbi Moses Maimonides, 12th-century Jewish philosopher] have a list? Not really. Does Aristotle have a list? Also not really. He also changes the list between his books and between his chapters. Does Plato have a list? Yes. Plato has lists for everything. Correct lists, because he’s a top-down kind of guy. But Aristotle’s more of a bottom-up kind of guy. That’s one that’s the pushut pshat [pushut pshat: simple, straightforward explanation] why he doesn’t have a list. Because he holds on to Shmueli’s mahalocha [mahalocha: approach, method] of just looking around. Tell me the most salient ones, might be some that I missed, so we’ll talk about that next time.
That’s kind of annoying. This annoyance is something called unity of the virtues, which I’ve led you to in one way now.
I’m just saying that we don’t really have to have a list, it’s not important to have the correct complete list. It might be important for shtuk l’chtoireh [shtuk l’chtoireh: for the sake of Torah study], but it’s not important for becoming a good person, because any kind of list, which is always picking out some of the most salient virtues that we see in the people that we like and we hold dear to the people, is going to have to basically include all of them. Otherwise, he’s describing bad people.
Student: Yeah. He doesn’t know it? He does. He does. He has different. It’s not like. It’s the opposite. Because of that, he has. His lists are just categorizations. They’re not really lists. They’re not this kind of lists. Or whenever he talks about one virtue, he tries to explain that that virtue is really just knowledge, and therefore everything is only one thing, which is called knowledge. It’s different. Just history.
Instructor: What I’m telling you is that in reality, even if we look at it as a way of like, look, give me the top three middos of the people that you hold of, you end up having to describe or you end up implying everything, including some of this that we don’t even have a name for. Yes, because we didn’t discuss them at length, but they’re applying everything. Otherwise it’s kind of weirdos.
That’s why every tzaddik [tzaddik: righteous person] that has what, one middah that he’s known for, usually it means that he exaggerated that middah and that was actually the thing that he was also bad at. Only bad at, maybe. The real tzaddik, the people that by the levaya [levaya: funeral], people say, I don’t know, there’s nothing special about him, he’s just like a good guy. The ones that are the weird ones, he was mama’s shmir [masmid: diligent Torah scholar], and I’m, I could say, a shlug mensh [shlug mensh: literally “beaten person,” someone downtrodden], right? Or he was such a masmid because he never helped his wife. You understand?
You already know that because usually when people praise a virtue, they mean to say the exaggeration of it, which is not good. In other words, they don’t have the other middah of helping your wife or the seichel [seichel: wisdom, common sense] that tells you how much, and so on. And maybe the same thing with the guy that’s a rebel. You have to have a rebel be a rebel in the correct amount and also be a conformist in the correct amount. And the guy that does that correctly, nobody realizes that he’s a rebel or a conformist. He’s just a good guy. You start that’s my sheet [sheet: lesson, teaching] for today. It’s more than enough.
Student: This is famous culture that the world asks. I think one of Shachar’s masters, he said that he had the thing of emes [emes: truth]. He said, what do you mean, what’s with all the other middos?
Instructor: This is how he’s going to say it. That’s true, but that’s because most people are not complete people. Most people are not balanced. Most people don’t have the different things.
Student: You’re saying in that world, in that type of thing also?
Instructor: I don’t know what that means. What does it mean? Let’s say there’s such a thing.
Student: No, I actually think that could mean the opposite. It could mean sometimes that someone says, what’s that person’s specific middah? It could mean, what’s his way of getting all the other middos?
Instructor: This, right? Like how does he get into all of them? Say I’m gonna focus like, is this story like they told the guy just never say a lie or something like that and suddenly, like I told you the story with this tefillin [tefillin: phylacteries, ritual objects worn during prayer], you suddenly have to become a whole Yid [Yid: Jew] because of that. And it’s true. If you take any virtue and take it seriously, you don’t think that you’re, sometimes people like they make their mitzvah [mitzvah: commandment, good deed] one mitzvah and that’s licensed to do everything else wrongly. You can’t do that. But if you accept it as being a part of being a good person, then it does lead you to all the good things.
Student: Is the Rambam’s recipe for balance, right, is that, how do I put this in a, does that correspond to what you’re saying? Meaning to say that when I habituate myself to balance in that one, let’s say virtue, everything else will fall into place where I found?
Instructor: I don’t know where I become a balanced person. If there’s something called not balance in the specific virtue, if you talk about the deah [deah: knowledge, understanding], you could talk about not practical wisdom or something that they may be, but it’s not clear that you could like practice that in the abstract. I don’t know. That’s a great question. No, he doesn’t know information like question if that works. I know that all you need to do is, yeah, but no, but that’s not, not true because the perfection of one middah means knowing how the rest of the world works, means knowing how to act and everything else. You can’t do that and you could be after, yeah, yeah.
You could say I’m gonna be just the owner of an order of mean something between a governor and a, and a what do you call this, matter pushover. But that means you have to know how to judge situations correctly. Now it could be that this middah of job, I don’t know. I actually tend to think that not, or the line of thinking that we work with usually tend to think that it’s very hard that like judgment doesn’t carry over. Like there’s all these questions, do skills carry over? If you have a skill that one thing, do you have the second? And so I’m saying it was a question like as for both children not, yeah, like does the transfer? Like I’m good at learning a Gemara [Gemara: Talmudic text], I’m also me look good at learning science. Usually it doesn’t work out as well as you would expect it to work. It works in the sense of you have the real talent and things like that. She doesn’t work as well who are great at learning when they go to a job usually. Okay, that’s because it’s different talents needed in the job. But even if you go to a job that’s similar, like learning a different area of knowledge, very often it doesn’t work because the intuitions that you gain are very specific. They’re related to the domain that you’re into.
Usually I think that the same thing works for middos. Actually, that’s why I do think that you do have to long list. I’m not masking with my sheet today, personally. I think that the longer your list is, the better you’re going to be, because naming things is one of the ways which we notice how we should act. Like of course then you have to figure out which middah to apply at which time. That’s never going to squeeze out. We resolve having like a long list. But the point is you can’t just say be a good person and just figure out. You need to have like a name. Wait, now I’m doing, now, now I’m being one of them. Now I’m thumbing good devarim [devarim: things, words]. You have to have a word for that. It’s very hard to realize that you’re in the middle of doing that, that you’re doing there. You’re right. I will hit the sheet already about that, yeah.
But so I don’t know if there’s like something, you have to remember when Rambam says be balanced, it doesn’t mean be a kind of moderate, right? The guy that all the politicians are trying to talk to always, the moderate that nobody ever met, right? It doesn’t mean be that, like never too much of anything. It means be the correct. So it’s not clear that finding the correct is like a transferable skill. There might be a theory that it is, but I think that would be the question.
Student: It’s a practice that you can, there is some transfer after, after talk about you could close if you want.
Instructor: I have to think about, I wanted to continue about the Prishah [Prishah: separation, abstinence]. Just there is the way in which transferable, like overcoming, there is something, something like that. Let’s talk about the general thing. What I can’t, I’m gonna have to think about that separately, like the relation between different stages of virtue with where the same kind of thing pertains. Okay, hold it different Russian.
Student: Like an intrepidious part?
Instructor: What time is it?
Student: Three.
Instructor: No problem. It’s 11:17.
Okay and that’s early, late, right, perfectly correct time. Which one? We don’t know. We’ll have to know relative to what, huh?
If you’d like an answer, that’s the story. Okay.
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The shiur opens with a provocative framing question: What is the most important thing in the world? This is immediately recast more precisely: What is the first virtue (middah) a child must be taught in order to become a mentsh?
The premise: children are born without good middos — or with bad/unformed ones — and the entire project of Jewish education (cheider) is fundamentally about character formation: becoming a mentsh.
A humorous tangent: the reason Jews don’t believe in evolution is that we’ve been watching monkeys for a long time and they haven’t become mentshn yet. The common objection is flipped — people say evolution makes humans too small, but actually it makes humans too big, because it claims even a monkey can eventually become a mentsh. This connects to a theme from previous classes: people have unrealistic expectations about the timescales of cosmic and natural cycles.
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Good middos are a prerequisite for Torah learning. This is grounded in the Rambam (Hilchos Talmud Torah): a talmid she’eino hagun (an unfit student) should not be taught Torah. The proper response is to tell him to do teshuvah first.
You give the shiur regardless. The person with bad middos simply won’t understand — it’s a gezeiras min hashamayim (heavenly decree). The truth is inaccessible to someone whose character isn’t prepared for it. This is likened to Pesach being “in your heart” — if you don’t genuinely want to understand, you won’t.
– Talmid she’eino hagun = someone with bad middos (character deficiency) — this is the real barrier.
– Talmid she’asah ma’aseh ra = someone who did a bad act — that’s simpler: just stop doing it.
Bad middos are worse because they make a person unable to receive truth, and harmful to others.
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The central question of the shiur: What is the actual curriculum of middos (virtues) that Jewish education hands a person? What qualities does our culture consider essential for the kind of person we’re trying to create?
– Patience — accepted.
– Courage — at least a certain amount.
– Attentiveness — possibly.
This becomes a substantive mini-debate:
– Big machlokes: Aristotle sees curiosity as a virtue; Augustine sees it as the yetzer hara.
– Curiosity is low on the totem pole in the beis medrash.
– Key distinction: Curiosity as wonder (awe-driven) vs. curiosity as aimless accumulation of facts (no order of importance).
– Aimless curiosity is critiqued as potentially being:
1. A form of rechilus/gossip (e.g., most history is gossip).
2. Accumulation of intellectual riches — hoarding facts like money, with no transformative purpose.
3. Miskabeid b’kelon chaveiro — using knowledge to feel superior to others (e.g., knowing that Rav Yonasan Eibeschutz was allegedly a Shabbetai Tzvi follower, making you feel better than him).
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The argument steers toward what is clearly considered the foundational virtue: humility (anivus).
Humility is framed as an intellectual virtue — specifically, an openness to listen.
– Ga’avah (arrogance) — the opposite of humility.
– Ka’as (anger) — discussed with some ambivalence. The Rambam is strongly against it. The reason: anger means you’ve lost your mind — you can’t think clearly.
– Kavod (desire for honor) — not so terrible on its own, unless it leads to wanting your opinion to triumph over the truth. That collision is what makes it destructive.
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The argument culminates in what is considered the real core virtue for learning:
– Interest in truth = hispashtus ha-gashmiyus (stripping away materiality/physicality) as described in Sefer HaKedushah.
– Bitul ha-yesh (nullification of the self): Not wanting *your group* to be right — wanting the truth to be right. Not caring about your party, religion, nation, or ego — only about what is.
– This is identified as mesirus nefesh (self-sacrifice) — giving yourself over to reality.
– Most people, including the speaker and students, can only achieve this through compartmentalization.
This is explicitly linked to Platonic ecstasy (ekstasis) — the truth is outside of you, bigger than your wants, opinions, and biases. Hispashtus ha-gashmiyus was said about this first in the philosophical tradition.
– People who loudly proclaim they want truth are often the ones who want to use it for their own interests.
– Real commitment to truth has a cost: at minimum, your time (Wednesday nights); more seriously, your desire for comfort.
– The common claim that people are “comfortable” believing what they believed yesterday is challenged — there is nothing genuinely comfortable about that.
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People commonly say they are “comfortable” continuing to believe what they already believe and therefore resist changing their minds. This attitude seems more like laziness than genuine comfort. One can be *more* uncomfortable suspecting that one’s attachment to existing beliefs is *hiding* the truth than one would be in simply holding onto those beliefs. The discomfort of potential self-deception outweighs the comfort of the status quo.
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The common posture of people who declare they are “searching for truth” (e.g., people who say their rebbe doesn’t give them truth and they want to find it themselves) is challenged as audacious: “Maybe the truth doesn’t want you. How do you know you’re worthy of it? What do you do for it?”
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The love of truth is reframed: it is not a feeling or a want but a practice — an intellectual virtue that begins and ends in disciplined activity. The practice consists in a specific kind of discourse: never settling for “that’s just what we have to believe,” never giving up because something is hard to think about, always trying to find a way to talk through difficulties.
This is distinguished from merely explaining what someone else said (which is valuable but is not truth-seeking unless done with the expectation that it will reveal more reality).
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The key Aristotelian principle from Nicomachean Ethics, Book I, Chapter 6: Aristotle says he will disagree with Plato because, as much as one loves one’s friends and teachers, the duty (piety) of a philosopher is to love truth more than friends. This echoes something Socrates/Plato also said.
Critical qualification: This does NOT mean “don’t love your friends.” It means: first you must love your friends, and then, as a philosopher, you must love truth even more. The love of friends is a prerequisite, not something to be discarded.
Reformulated in Jewish-learning terms: “Don’t only love the *chacham* (wise person); love the *chochmah* (wisdom) more than the *chacham*.”
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This is the central ethical argument of the shiur’s middle section:
– The claim to love truth is a moral claim about what kind of person you are — it sets you apart from most people who do not love truth in any significant way.
– Many self-proclaimed truth-lovers get their “love of truth” for free because they lack good *middos*. They don’t actually love their friends, their family, or their community. For such a person, “loving truth more than friends” costs nothing because they never loved anyone to begin with.
– Such a person is not a truth-lover but merely an egoist who cannot see past his own nose. He mistakes his contrarianism and social dysfunction for philosophical courage.
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Part of loving your parents and your community includes accepting — or at least respecting — their opinions. This is an element of filial love and social allegiance.
Modernity and liberal societies have damaged this understanding of social allegiance, but this point is explicitly not pursued further.
Friendship inherently involves a degree of agreement: “You can’t be my friend and say everything you think is nonsense.” Most people experience disagreement with their beliefs as a form of disrespect. It is possible to give people warmth and generosity while disagreeing with them, but most people cannot separate the two.
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The philosopher has allegiance to a “higher God,” a higher truth that transcends social bonds. This is what justifies philosophical disagreement.
But even this has limits: The philosopher’s duty to disagree works best among fellow philosophers. Going home and disagreeing with one’s mother may not be the philosopher’s duty. Even a philosopher has a moral duty to his family — to outwardly agree with them (or at least not attack their beliefs). “What do they care what you think in your heart?” The family cares about respect and solidarity, not about inner philosophical reservations.
A person who says “I’m an *ish emes* (man of truth)” and therefore fights with his mother, wife, and children is not a man of truth — he is a pure egoist, a *shaigetz* (boor).
Critics are often horrible people not because criticism is bad, but because many critics lack the social virtues (love of friends, family, community) that would make their truth-seeking *costly* and therefore *meaningful*. Without those virtues, their opposition is cheap — just antisocial behavior dressed up as philosophy.
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The principle is illustrated with the Akeidah: The Torah emphasizes “*asher ahavta*” — “whom you love” — precisely to show that Abraham genuinely loved Isaac.
A Chassidic Rebbe’s teaching: God Himself testifies that Abraham loves Isaac. If Abraham didn’t love Isaac, the sacrifice would be no great feat. It is precisely *because* he loves Isaac that the willingness to sacrifice him is meaningful. This parallels the argument about truth: loving truth more than your friends only means something if you genuinely love your friends first.
In a Midrash, when God says “your son,” Abraham asks “Which one? Also Ishmael?” — showing his love extends to both sons.
The Chovos Halevavos is cited for the principle: whenever someone says “I love both equally,” you know he is lying. However, the halacha is that one should never reveal (*modeh*) which child one loves more — *l’olam y’hei adam modeh al ha’emet* is applied here in a nuanced way. Honesty about inner preferences exists, but discretion is required.
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The popular image of Avraham as the boy who smashed his father’s idols is critiqued. Even if that story happened, it wasn’t necessarily *lishmah* (for its own sake / for the sake of truth). Avraham wasn’t “allowed” to do that — it wasn’t the exemplary act people imagine. The real reason we keep returning to Avraham is precisely because his love of truth was genuine and deeply embedded in his character, not performative.
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A key philosophical distinction:
– A thought is something you do — an active process of thinking in the present moment.
– An opinion is something you have — a stored, pre-formed position.
When someone asks “What do you think about this?”, most people replay a “tape recording” of past conclusions rather than actually engaging in fresh thinking. Real thinking requires *yishuv hadaat* (settled mind) and openness — the right “set and setting.” Most of what people express are not even thoughts but distillations of past thoughts or things others told them. Genuine intellectual engagement (thinking) is rare and requires deliberate effort.
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Love of truth is one *middah* (character trait/virtue). But what are the other essential virtues a person needs? This launches the major inquiry of the shiur’s second half.
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A genuine puzzlement: why doesn’t there exist a simple, well-known list of the essential human virtues — analogous to the *Aseret HaDibrot* (Ten Commandments)? When someone dies, the eulogizer (*hesped*) goes through a list of virtues to find which ones the deceased exemplified — but what is that list? Nobody can readily produce one.
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The class is pressed to name the top three virtues — not intellectual virtues, but the foundational moral virtues one needs before approaching wisdom (*chochmah she-be-shira*). The rationale: if you’re not a good person first, your supposed intellectual virtues will be fake.
– Courage — acknowledged but set aside quickly. “Why? Justify it.”
– Honesty — mentioned.
– Humility — mentioned.
– Generosity/Kindness — mentioned.
– Abstinence/Temperance — suggested as a major yeshiva virtue.
– Consistency — suggested.
– Zrizus (diligence/alacrity) — raised but the student can’t clearly define it.
What virtues do yeshivas actually emphasize? The class struggles to answer. This is itself remarkable and telling — people go through years of yeshiva education without a clear, articulable list of core virtues.
The *shidduch* (matchmaking) world has its own implicit top three criteria: (1) Does he learn well? (2) Does he have *middos tovos* (good character)? (3) Does he have money? This is presented somewhat humorously but also critically.
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When people say *middos tovos*, what do they actually mean?
– Temperance (*not over-indulgent*) — identified as a primary meaning. This is the first virtue pinned down.
– Kindness/Chesed — suggested, but challenged. What does “kindness” really mean? Is it the same as being helpful? The distinction matters: kindness is vague and “could be plugged into anything,” whereas being helpful (*azov taazov imo* — the obligation to help when you see a deficiency you can fill) is more concrete and action-oriented.
– Humility — also mentioned.
The central, still-open question is framed: Where is this list of essential virtues? What’s going on with the fact that it doesn’t seem to exist in a clear form? Becoming a good person requires all of these traits, yet the tradition (or at least common education) has not transmitted a clear, memorizable framework — and this is a serious problem worth investigating.
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Further suggestions from the class:
– Hope
– Positivity
– Perseverance — singled out as “more important than almost anything”
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If one reads the relevant texts (Shemonah Perakim, Hilchos De’os), one finds multiple lists of virtues, and they are not consistent with each other:
– Shemonah Perakim, Chapter 2 vs. Chapter 4: The same list appears twice but changes between the two occurrences — the Rambam apparently “forgot his previous list,” removing one item and adding another.
– Hilchos De’os, Chapter 1: A third list.
– Hilchos De’os, Chapter 2: A sort of fourth list.
Key point (labeled “ba’aya” — a problem): The lists are inconsistent. This is a genuine philosophical difficulty, not merely a textual curiosity.
Some traditions have much clearer, more organized lists — e.g., the Chovos Halevavos, which in its entirety functions as a kind of list of virtues.
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Despite the inconsistency, a method of convergence is proposed: look at what keeps appearing across different lists, different people’s answers, and different occasions of reflection.
– If you survey many people, or ask yourself repeatedly over time, certain virtues will recur. Those recurring items are likely the ones that are more important, more basic, more central, or more needed.
– Counter-consideration: It’s also possible that the virtues you *don’t* mention are precisely the ones you most need — because their absence is invisible to you.
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A distinction between bottom-up (empirical) and top-down (rational) approaches:
– Look at what good people do — observe their behavior and try to categorize it into “little boxes” (categories of disposition).
– Look at what goes wrong — observe failures and figure out what excess or deficiency they represent.
– This is messy but possibly the best available method.
– Start from some general principle (e.g., “What is a good person?” or “What are human beings?”) and try to derive the specific virtues from that.
– The challenge: how do you get from the most general claim (“a good person is someone good at being a person”) to a specific list of particular virtues?
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A sustained dialectical exchange explores whether one can deduce the specific virtues:
– There could be technically unlimited virtues — but not anything can be a virtue. Virtues are categories of human disposition, not arbitrary traits. The question is how to enumerate those categories.
– One *has* to do it empirically — start with what human beings do, then figure out how they can do it well.
– But are there other ways?
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A student proposes organizing virtues by which virtues are prerequisites for other virtues — a hierarchical/ladder structure. This is unpacked carefully:
– This is really a way of organizing virtues, not yet of listing them. The distinction matters.
– The hierarchy is actually an ordering of activities, not directly of virtues:
– The best/highest activity is contemplation/thinking (the thing good in itself, not merely instrumental).
– Virtues of thinking: how to think well, think correctly — these are one category.
– But to think, you need prerequisites (e.g., material sustenance/money), so the virtue of earning money correctly is temporally prior but less important than intellectual virtue.
Key insight: The hierarchy is not generated by listing virtues first — it’s generated by looking at reality and asking what is needed for what. The organizational structure comes from the structure of human activity and its ends, not from an independent enumeration of virtues.
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The Aristotelian ordering of goods/virtues by what they lead to (the hierarchy of ends) may be *true*, but it doesn’t actually help generate a list of virtues. The reason: some things are good only because they serve a particular step, not because they contribute to the ultimate end directly.
Illustrative example: To be a *Talmid Chacham* (Torah scholar), you need money; to get married, you need *Gute Middos* (good character traits). But the *Middos* that make you marriageable are good *for marriage*, not directly good *for learning*. Each step has its own requisite virtues. So the list of virtues is not a list of steps, nor a list of what’s needed for the *next* step — it’s a list of what’s needed *at each particular step*.
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A third approach to generating a complete list builds on the distinction between intellectual virtue and character virtue:
– Intellectual virtues belong to the intellect/mind.
– Character virtues belong to the appetitive/desiring soul.
– One could subdivide further into as many powers or faculties as the person has.
– If you have a complete list of the parts of the person, you can generate a complete list of virtues by assigning virtues to each part.
Key methodological point (top-down vs. bottom-up): Starting from the top (broad categories) gives you a list that is at least *generally* complete — subdivisions can be added but the top-level categories already include everything. Starting from the bottom (particular observed subdivisions) risks incompleteness because you only capture what you happen to notice.
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1. Empirical/bottom-up: Observe people, compile lists, hope nothing important is missed.
2. Aristotelian/teleological: Order virtues by the hierarchy of goods/ends; identify what virtues are needed at each level or step.
3. Parts-of-the-soul method: List all parts of the soul (or body, or society), then determine the virtues proper to each part. This yields at least a *generally* full list even if not every sub-particular is captured.
*Note: Methods 2 and 3 overlap somewhat, since the highest part (the mind) can be both the ultimate end AND a specific part with its own virtues.*
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A fundamental flaw in the parts-based approach: there may be virtues that do not belong to any single part, but rather to the whole person, or to the relations between parts.
– You can list all the parts of a table (legs, surface, screws, corners, paint) and specify what makes each part good (strong legs, shiny paint, precise corners, etc.).
– But having all excellent parts does not give you a good table — it gives you “a bunch of parts” (“That’s IKEA”).
– A table with the strongest possible leg but a tiny, mismatched top is “some weird monster,” not a good table.
– The design, the fitting-together, the proportionality of parts to each other — these are qualities of the *whole*, not of any individual part.
Conclusion: “It is actually very silly to just list parts. You have to talk about the whole thing.”
An analogy is drawn to the practice in *gematria* (numerological Torah interpretation) of adding a *kollel* (adding one for the word as a whole). *Rav Pinkus* is cited: just as a word is more than the sum of its letter-values, a thing is more than the sum of its parts — you need to account for the whole.
Self-critical aside: The *kollel* practice is debated — since you only add it when one side doesn’t match, it seems like “cheating.” If you always added one to everything, it would make no difference. The analogy is conceded as imperfect but the underlying point stands.
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The deeper philosophical point: the only real virtue is of the whole, because virtues are not properties of hands, feet, or even specific desires — they are properties of people. People are not reducible to their parts. Virtues are *of persons*.
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Virtues belong to whole persons, not to isolated faculties. Just as health of a hand means the hand functions well *within the whole body*, so too a virtue like kindness only counts as genuine virtue when it is integrated with the whole person.
“Too much kindness” is not really an excess of kindness per se — it means kindness that conflicts with other dimensions of one’s humanity or with other people’s humanity. Any single virtue, pursued in isolation, becomes distorted.
Implication: If we need “virtues of the whole,” then in some sense all part-virtues are subservient to the overarching virtue of being a good, integrated person. One might argue we should just drop the part-virtues entirely.
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If we abandon part-virtues and just say “be a good person,” we have *nowhere to begin*. There is no isolable starting point for understanding or cultivating virtue.
Resolution of the tension: You can start with *any single virtue* (e.g., kindness), but if you pursue it fully and correctly, it *necessarily implies all the others*. Complete kindness requires wisdom, courage, justice, etc. — otherwise it becomes distorted. This is analogous to the table *mashal*: a proper leg is one that fits correctly with the whole table.
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The holistic principle is illustrated through the framework of *mitzvos*:
The formula of *Leshem Yichud*: It says “and the 613 *mitzvos* included within it” — because you cannot properly perform even one *mitzvah* without involving others.
– To put on *tefillin* properly, you need *Guf Naki* (bodily and mental purity) — that’s already another *mitzvah* (correct thoughts).
– The *parshios* (passages) inside the *tefillin* contain content that must be meaningful to the wearer.
– Shabbos problem: If this person doesn’t keep Shabbos, he would put on *tefillin* on Shabbos — but that’s incorrect, since *tefillin* is an *os* (sign) and Shabbos is already an *os*, making it redundant/contradictory. So he must keep Shabbos too.
– He must also say *Krias Shema*, because the Gemara says one who puts on *tefillin* without reading *Shema* is like bearing false witness (and vice versa).
– He must teach Torah to his children (as stated in the *tefillin* passages: *v’limadtem osam es bneichem*).
– And if he teaches Torah without fulfilling it, he’s a liar — so he must keep the entire Torah.
– Conclusion: One *mitzvah*, done correctly and completely, generates the obligation of all the others.
The Rogatchover was right that we shouldn’t reduce becoming a Jew to “put on *tefillin*” — but the deeper truth is that putting on *tefillin* fully *does* mean everything else. Half-*tefillin* is not real *tefillin*.
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Every *middah* works the same way: You don’t need to enumerate all of them, because doing any one correctly already implies all the rest. But if you push one *middah* to the extreme without caring about the others, you become extreme and fail even at that one.
– What is humility? The humility discussed earlier was an *intellectual* virtue (openness, recognizing you might be wrong).
– How does intellectual humility connect to the desire soul (the appetitive/emotional dimension)? It does connect, but requires several more steps to show.
– The problem of excessive humility: “Maybe someone else is right” taken to the extreme becomes: “I never know anything.” This is not humility — it’s being a *shmatta* (pushover), weak-minded rather than open-minded.
– Such a person lets others steal from them and their friends because they “don’t know who’s right.”
– Life and all *middos* depend on knowledge; you can’t function without some confident knowledge.
– Humility requires a counter-virtue: Something like courage or *azus* (boldness). The correct amount of humility requires also having the opposite quality in proper measure.
– How do you know the correct amount? You have to learn *Choshen Mishpat* (monetary/civil law) — as discussed in a previous *shiur* from the *Chazon Ish* — to know who is actually right in disputes.
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This holistic insight is a true point — each virtue implies all others; you can’t isolate one without the rest. But it is NOT a full answer to the fundamental question.
– Nobody can give a definitive list of the good *middos* and the bad ones.
– Even according to specific *shitos* (e.g., Breslov, which emphasizes *emunas chachamim* and *temimus*): Tell me the actual list!
– The Mishnah objection: Someone might say “the Mishnah has a list.” This is rejected as evasive (*dreiying mir a kup*): saying “there’s a Mishnah” doesn’t help if the person can’t actually articulate what the list is and whether each item is truly good or bad in all circumstances. “Know the Mishnah” is not the same as having a clear, usable list.
– The frustration remains: the holistic point explains *why* lists are inadequate (because every virtue is context-dependent and interconnected), but it doesn’t resolve the practical need for guidance on what the virtues actually are.
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When asked to name the most important virtues, yeshiva students quote sources — specifically the Mishna and Mesillat Yesharim’s famous ladder:
> זהירות, זריזות, נקיות, פרישות, טהרה, חסידות, ענווה, יראת חטא, קדושה
This is not actually answering the question. The question was: *Who is the good person? What is your picture of a good guy?* Responding with a quotation reveals that the most valued “virtue” in yeshiva culture is the ability to quote a Mishna — which is itself a kind of midda, but not a substantive engagement with the question. Quoting instead of thinking is “not interesting.”
Even the Mesillat Yesharim itself is a *chakira* (investigation) into what these terms mean — nobody actually knows their content just from the list. The list alone conveys no real information.
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The problem extends beyond yeshiva students:
– The Rambam doesn’t really have a fixed list.
– Aristotle doesn’t have a fixed list either — he changes it between books and chapters. This is because Aristotle is a “bottom-up” thinker who surveys salient virtues empirically rather than deducing them from a system.
– Plato does have lists — “correct lists, because he’s a top-down kind of guy.”
This inability to produce a definitive list is described as genuinely annoying (*kasha*).
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The resolution (*teretz*) to this annoyance is the doctrine of the unity of the virtues:
– You don’t actually need a correct, complete list.
– A complete list might matter for *limmud haTorah* (Torah study as an intellectual exercise), but not for becoming a good person.
– Any reasonable list of salient virtues you observe in people you admire will implicitly include all the virtues — because if it doesn’t, you’re describing a bad or unbalanced person (“a weirdo”).
– When a righteous person is famous for one particular virtue, it usually means they exaggerated that virtue — and that was actually their weakness, their point of imbalance.
– Example: “He was such a masmid — in short, he never helped his wife.”
– Praising a single virtue in someone often signals its distortion rather than its perfection.
– The truly good person — the one about whom people say at the levaya “there was nothing special, he was just a good guy” — is the one who has all the virtues in proper measure, so no single one stands out.
– Even being a rebel must be done in the correct amount, alongside being a conformist in the correct amount.
– The person who does both correctly is simply perceived as “a good guy” — nobody notices the rebellion or the conformity.
A well-known question about a figure known specifically for the midda of *emes* (truth) is raised. It illustrates the general point: most people are not complete or balanced.
A student suggests that a person’s “specific midda” might not mean their only virtue but rather their entry point — their way of accessing all the other virtues. This is accepted as possible: if you take any single virtue seriously and don’t use it as license to neglect everything else, it can lead you to all the good things. The tefillin story is referenced — committing to never lying forced someone to become a complete Jew.
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A student asks whether the Rambam’s recipe for balance means that habituating oneself to balance in one virtue causes everything else to fall into place.
1. Perfecting one midda requires knowledge of everything else — you can’t perfect *anava* (humility) without knowing how to judge situations correctly, which involves all other domains of life.
2. Skills generally don’t transfer well across domains — being great at Gemara doesn’t make you great at science or at a job; intuitions are domain-specific.
3. The same likely applies to midos: moral judgment is domain-specific and doesn’t automatically carry over.
There is a personal disagreement with the “unity of virtues” position just presented:
– The longer your list of named virtues, the better — because naming things is one of the ways we notice how we should act.
– You need words like *anav* (humble) and *az* (bold) to recognize what you’re doing in the moment — “it’s very hard to realize that without having a word for it.”
– However, having a long list doesn’t resolve the problem of which midda to apply when.
– And you can’t just say “be a good person and figure it out” — you need specific vocabulary.
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The Rambam’s concept of balance does not mean being a “moderate” in the political sense — “the moderate that nobody ever met.” It means being the correct amount in each situation, which is a much harder and less formulaic standard.
Whether finding “the correct amount” is itself a transferable skill remains an open question. The suspicion is that it is not easily transferable, though there may be some transfer — particularly in the context of the *Prishah* (separation/abstinence) and stages of virtue development — but this is deferred to a future discussion.
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– Unity of virtues suggests you don’t need a list because all virtues are interconnected and any genuine virtue implies all the others.
– But practically, naming and distinguishing virtues matters enormously for moral self-awareness.
– The truly virtuous person has all the virtues in balance, which is why they appear unremarkable — “just a good guy” — while the person famous for one virtue is likely unbalanced.
– Whether moral judgment and balance are transferable skills across domains remains an open and important question.
– The love of truth — the virtue that launched the entire inquiry — is itself only meaningful when it costs something: when it requires overriding genuine love of friends, family, and community. Those who claim to love truth but lack these social bonds and virtues are not truth-seekers but egoists.
Instructor: Yeah, this is the sheet. Okay, the sheet is like this. What’s the most important thing in the world? That’s a weird question. Okay, what’s the first virtue you gotta have not to become a mentsh [mensch: a person of integrity and honor]?
When you have a little boy and everyone knows that boys are born without any middos [character traits] or with only bad ones or with unformed ones—depending on which framing you like better—and then we go to cheider [traditional Jewish elementary school] and we start teaching you how to become a mentsh, right? I want you to be a mensch, right?
Today I told someone that I think that the reason why the Yidden [Jews] don’t believe in evolution is because we’re watching the monkeys for so long—I could have mentioned those fiends of the monkeys—and they didn’t become menschen yet. It seems unreasonable.
Evolutionists really believe in Shiva [presumably: in transformation over vast time periods], like you could be a monkey for a million years and then you talk to a person. I don’t know. It sounds unreasonable. It doesn’t sound realistic. The monkeys that I know—monkey noiled, monkey umless—not happening. They’re not becoming mentsh, never.
But the Irish that’s more in Midnham [unclear reference], he thinks that you could become a monkey after a million years, you could become a mentsh. But anyways, not only the Yidden don’t believe it because of this, they claim they don’t believe in the revolution [evolution] because it’s making humans too small. It’s the opposite—it’s making humans too big. It’s saying that even if you are a monkey you could become a mentsh after a certain amount of years. That’s a very obvious next step.
But I guess people want everything to take very fast. That goes back to our previous classes—how people have unrealistic expectations on the cycles of the universe.
Instructor: In any case, that’s not our shmiss [topic]. We’re back to the nekudah [main point]. Our nekudah is: What’s the first middas [character trait]? We teach a child first thing is you have to have good middos. If you don’t have good middos, we don’t teach you anything.
That’s another shiur [lesson], right? Why don’t we teach you anything if you have bad middos? Why don’t we teach you anything if you have bad middos? We don’t teach many Torah.
It says in the Rambam [Maimonides], someone comes to my shiur and I see there’s Talmud [a student who is unfit], what do I do? I wait. You have to tell him to have to do the first two of Teshuvah [repentance] and then you can come to the shiur.
And what do we do if there’s someone like that and he comes to the shiur anyways? You don’t know what we do? This is a test on all my previous shiurim [lessons].
Okay. The answer is that we say the shiur anyways. And the guy that has bad mood [middos] is not going to understand the shiur. It’s excited [a gezeirah: a decree]. That’s the Shemra Pesach [the guarding of Pesach]. Shemra Pesach is in your heart. If you don’t want to understand, you don’t understand.
Or if you don’t care enough—that’s my experience also—you can make up a whole different shiur that he thinks that I said. But then it’s not clear how much it’s my fault, or maybe it is a little bit, but it’s not my problem.
So that’s the point: you have to have good middos. So what are the middos that we tell you to get? If he comes and says what did I do wrong, you say, “Well, you ate chaser [you did something wrong].” That’s not the point, right?
So what is this? What kind of problem could there be? Bad middos—those are the problems. That’s just how much, not how much, he stopped doing it, or he didn’t do it. Well, Shain Shalach [unclear: possibly “one who did a bad act”] means he has bad middos, right?
Someone who has bad middos:
– Not allowed to be shown the truth
– Also can’t be shown the truth
– And also causes harm to everyone
There’s a lot of bad things about that.
Instructor: So my question, my interesting question is: What is the list of bad middos that we have, or good middos, which are the opposite of the bad ones, that we tell you we hand you—come to come into our smadrish [beis medrash: house of study], come into our culture, right? We educate you. What’s our education? What is our list of medicine [middos] you gotta have? Very important question, right?
You know what was the list?
Student: Patience.
Instructor: Patience. Okay.
Student: Courage.
Instructor: Courage, certain math at least [a certain amount at least]. Okay.
Student: Attentiveness.
Instructor: Attentiveness, if that’s a virtue. Virtues are what we—it’s the opposite, right? The things, the qualities that we think are important for whatever kind of person we’re trying to create. Those are the virtues, right?
Student: Like the truth better than your opinion.
Instructor: Oh, those are from my class. Okay, that’s what we asked.
Student: No, yeah, I guess I have to start somewhere, man.
Instructor: And for some being a good guy in society, what are the virtues?
Student: Is curiosity—it’s curiosity a virtue?
Instructor: Yeah, it’s a bit much. Lucas, that’s a quote who and who—like Aristotle and Augustine or something like that. Augustine says that curiosity is the answer to how to alliance [the yetzer hara: evil inclination], and Aristotle seems to think that curiosity is the answer to how to alliance [virtue].
So that’s a very good question: What kind of society do you like? Do we hold of curiosity in our madrash [beis medrash]? I don’t think so. Low on the totem pole. Depends on what you mean by curiosity.
Student: Number one thing. What do you mean by curiosity?
Instructor: Not as far as I’ve done that. Curiosity meaning you want to know the truth or curiosity—wonder. You don’t have to know a random thing. You and I hear of some curious person, I think of like, “I was curious like how many legs a caterpillar has.” Right.
Student: Okay. In wonder. I was curious. You know, what’s down? Like, okay.
Instructor: The curiosity to me is a search for a search for things that has no organization in order of [no order of importance].
Student: No, but I think you spoke about that once. He’s talking about something else.
Instructor: Right. You’re talking about two different things.
Student: Yeah. You spoke about that once. Yeah. But you spoke about that once in a shiur. Like that’s called curiosity.
Instructor: Right. That’s something like—I think it’s either a form of a Rechilis [gossip], I don’t know how you say Rechilis, gossip, like liking gossip. Like most Testerish Yerim [history books] about gossip, going to me, and I like it. That’s why I read them, because everyone, human beings like gossip. But that’s what it amounts to.
Or it’s a kind of accumulation of riches, like I have so—I have $20 in my back [pocket].
Student: How about prioritizing surprising things?
Instructor: It’s not something that’s going to affect the change of your character.
Student: Yeah, exactly.
Instructor: Or it’s a Muska with Bekler Havayrei [miskabeid b’kelon chaveiro: honoring oneself through the disgrace of one’s fellow] situation. It’s all about you knowing that you’re a smart guy. You know the business and the action [the story] as well as the chapter of the Tzvinik [Shabbetai Tzvi follower], but you’re not. You’re better than him. You’re not. So that applies to you, okay? Then you’ll be better than him.
Anyways.
Instructor: Yeah, so that’s one. Okay, but what are the more basic virtues? We’re getting guys started, no virtues that are necessary for intellectual progress, because we’re supposedly trying to do that. But when you teach your children, what do we teach them?
Student: I think we can’t jump, I think we also can’t jump.
Instructor: Thank you very much. You know that I’m trying to get there, but I’m looking for a way to get there. You’re cheating. You’re like the chat that knows what I want to say.
Student: Humility?
Instructor: For intellectual virtue? For us, yeah. A kind of humility, which means an openness to listen.
What are the worst things?
Student: Oh, anger.
Instructor: Anger?
Student: Yeah, anger.
Instructor: Why? I don’t know why I was so against anger, honestly.
Student: What’s the God that you’re angry at?
Instructor: Oh, because I think it’s like you lost a mind, then.
Student: Yeah, exactly.
Instructor: No, I’m not talking about that. It doesn’t say Kass [anger] on that Mishnah [teaching].
Student: What can I mean at least the Rambam said—
Instructor: No, the Rambam says it’s against kass [anger], that’s true. But I don’t know if there’s that—
Student: Yeah, nothing covered.
Instructor: Yeah, what does it mean like—like some of the ones on, right? I guess it’s the same thing. I don’t see that that’s such a bad thing honestly.
Student: Okay, now we’re going to my opinions.
Instructor: Oh, because then it would then would bump into wanting—
Student: Okay, okay, over the truth.
Instructor: Okay, that’s what he said.
Student: Yeah, generosity.
Instructor: Just to be clear, but that’s one thing. That’s one very important thing. All of learning, learning means having an interest in the truth, which basically means especially gash [gashmiyus: physicality/materiality] means, right? I mean, it says in school meditation [Sefer HaKedushah: the Book of Holiness] that’s what it means, right?
Well, that’s one of the things it means. It’s like, yes, it was a bit like, yes, but I don’t want to be right. I want the truth to be right, right?
Just being interested in intellect means not caring about yourself or about your part [party] or about your religion or about your nation or anything—only about the truth, about what is. It means that you’re dedicated, you’re giving yourself over to what is. And then that’s pesiris neifis [mesirus nefesh: self-sacrifice].
Most people are not really ready for that, even us. We only manage to live by compartmentalizing. That’s what you’re talking about, especially the gospels [hispashtus ha-gashmiyus: stripping away physicality] and the scriptures.
Student: No, yeah, maybe in some sense first. I don’t know.
Instructor: We’re jumping around here because we’re trying to grapple.
Student: It’s one reasoning.
Instructor: Yeah, it’s definitely one point. Then I’m supposed to—now I’m going to make all this chat this Plato’s chat, like ecstasy [ekstasis: standing outside oneself], which means was said about this first.
The truth is outside of you, right? It’s bigger than your wants—you in the sense of not in the sense of your capacity to grasp the truth, but in the sense of your wants and your opinions, your biases, all these kinds of things—and wanting to know the truth.
When someone says, you know, when someone comes and says, “I want to know the truth,” who will they have that want to know the truth? Oh gosh, you want to know the truth? These are the ones wanting to use it for something, for their own interests.
Student: Yeah, I guess.
Instructor: Who wants to know the truth? How much do you want to pay for it? What do you pay on Wednesday nights? Ah, first things. First you have to come every Wednesday and give away your time.
But more seriously, you have to give away your desire for like comfort. People for some reason claim that they’re comfortable and believing the things that we have no idea what’s so comfortable about that, but—
Instructor: You heard the people saying this? “I’m comfortable believing what I believed yesterday, so I don’t want to change my mind.” You heard people saying that?
Student: Yes.
Instructor: It’s for sure kind of yes. I also don’t have what’s so comfortable about it. It’s like, it’s just, it’s laziness, I guess, but like comfortability, I don’t know. I’m more comfortable finding out like how things are really, I don’t know. What’s wrong about that? Mostly I don’t know, but okay. I don’t know if you have to have more comfortable in that. You’re okay being not comfortable as long as the truth is going to come along with it.
Student: Yeah, I don’t know. It’s okay.
Instructor: Or you’re more uncomfortable not knowing the truth than believing what you said yesterday. It’s uncomfortable. So you’re pretending to know the truth, but that’s not…
Student: No, meaning…
Instructor: For me, it’s also comfortable to continue believing what I already believe, but it’s even more uncomfortable to believe that my devotion to that is hiding the truth from me.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: I’m just having a great discomfort.
Student: Yeah, it’s just a game of words now.
Instructor: I don’t know, do you know people that go around saying that they’re looking for the truth? The Rebbe doesn’t give them the truth, they want to know the truth, is that your thing? People say that stuff?
It seems to me to be a very great, like, how do you call it? It’s very audacious to say that you want the truth. Firstly, maybe the truth doesn’t want you. How do you know you’re worthy of it? What do you do for it? How would the truth want you? You want the truth? You do?
But you see, this is now I’m talking about it as if it’s like a middah [character trait], as if it’s like a want. It’s not really a want. It’s a practice, right? There’s a practice to this. Like we say, everything, even intellectual rituals begin and end with a practice, right? There’s a practice.
The practice of search for truth is this kind of discourse, this kind of discussion where we never say, “Oh, well, that’s what we’ve got to believe.” Or we never say, like, “It seems to be too hard to think about.” Okay, if it’s hard to think about, then we’re stuck. Let’s try to find a way to think about it or to talk about it. But it’s a practice, right? It’s not a, should I say so? Not saying like you don’t want it—what do you do? You practice the search of truth or the practice the explanation of what someone else said, which is a nice thing to do, but it’s not searching for truth unless you’re doing that because you think that that’s going to reveal more reality to you. Okay, that’s anyways that’s one middah [character trait], very important middah.
But love of truth—love of the truth more than yourself, love of the truth more than your teachers, more than your friends, right? Remember? If you don’t love your friend, you see? Now you understand one reason why many of the critics are the worst people. You understand why? There’s one reason, sometimes. Not all of the cases, but there’s a reason why. Why are critics the worst people?
Because remember Aristotle said in the beginning of the Ethics, in Book 1, Chapter 6, that we are going to disagree with Plato, even though it’s like an uphill climb to disagree with him. Why? Because as much as we love our friends, our teachers—he calls everyone friends, kinds of love. Philia [φιλία: Greek term for friendship/love], you must love—it is the duty or the piety of philosophers to love the truth more than their friends.
That’s something that Plato said also, or Socrates said, says that about that thing. What this means is first you gotta love your friends and then you’ll—you love your friend. If you’re a philosopher, if you’re some person, then you should probably just love your friend. You don’t even know what loving truth means. But if you’re a philosopher, means you have a love for wisdom, you have a love for truth, then your duty, maybe including your duty to your friends, is to love that more.
So don’t say we’re going to defend this opinion because it’s an opinion of our friends if it doesn’t make sense to us, if you don’t understand it. We’re going to hack on it, we’re going to deny it.
Student: Maybe only philosophers have to love their friends?
Instructor: No, everyone is supposed to love their friends.
Student: Why that way advice that’s part of there’s no one friend?
Instructor: No, no, that’s—there’s such a kind of love. Of course the philosophers like to say that they’re the only one that really like their friends, but everyone should love their friends. And philosophers should love also the truth more than their friends—not not love their friends. I said it doesn’t follow, it doesn’t follow.
Meaning, don’t only love the Chochem [חכם: wise person], love the Chochmeh [חכמה: wisdom] more than the Chochem. That’s basically how I would say what he’s saying.
Student: But if the friends are not Chochmem [wise people], then there’s no continuation.
Instructor: What does loving your friends mean? Don’t love them as your wife, love them as you love the truth, like with Shaykhs [שייכות: connection/relevance]. Right?
Student: No, there’s Shanaim al-Ashaykh [שנאים על עשק: hatred based on oppression], but wait, there’s Shanaim al-Ashaykh, isn’t there?
Instructor: That’s where I was going, right?
There’s many people that turn, that claim to love the truth and they say it’s easy for them to love the truth. They don’t realize that claiming to love the truth is making a claim on your moral worth and what kind of person you are. You’re setting yourself apart as a person from most other people who do not love the truth in any significant way.
And those people say, “What do you mean? But this guy’s my whole society. Everyone is living in falsehood. They all believe all kind of nonsense. And I’m the first one or the last one that discovered this. And therefore I’m going to, I don’t know, write blogs on the internet against them, and so on.”
And this guy, he thinks that he’s got this love of truth for free. The reason he’s for free is because he doesn’t have good middos [character traits]. He just hates his wife. He doesn’t love his friends. Therefore, for him, there’s no chachma [חכמה: wisdom] to love truth more than his friends, because he’s a horrible human being to begin with. He’s just a great egoist who doesn’t even see past his own nose.
If you’re a guy who doesn’t see past your own nose, and you call that loving your truth more than loving your friends, you’re not a guy that loves truth more than loving his friends—you’re just a horrible person. And I’ve been zoicheh [זוכה: privileged/merited] to know many people that are like that. They pretend to be the ones that love the truth, but really they’re just ones that cannot see past their own nose.
And therefore, whatever thought he has, as opposed to anything that anyone else told him—loving your friends means also accepting their thoughts. Maybe not as truth, because you don’t know what truth is, but their opinions. Part of filial love, part of your allegiance to your society. This is very important. I think that modernity has ruined this by creating societies that are liberal and so on—we shouldn’t get into this.
But in reality, part of allegiance to your friends is agreeing to their opinions. And you know, within most limits, that’s just what friendship requires. You can’t be my friend and say, “Everything you think is nonsense.” I’m going to be very upset at you. Not me. Because I’m a crazy guy. And somehow I have figured out a way to give you kugel [a warm dish; metaphorically: warmth/generosity] while you say that. But most people, that’s the whole thing. That’s what we have to give kugel, you have.
But most people, that’s like, “Why are you eating my kugel if you don’t respect my beliefs?” And therefore, the people that do woe against that are usually bad people. And it’s a bad act to do, even as a philosopher.
The philosopher, his allegiance is to a higher God. He has a higher truth, a higher value that’s beyond that, and how that works within other people in society, you’re right. It works much better when he disagrees with his philosopher friends. If he’s going to go and disagree with his mother, that might not even be the duty of a philosopher. You understand?
It might be that even someone who is a philosopher, his piety to his duty to—I’m using piety as duty to something, right? His duty to his family is to agree with them. Not to agree with them for real, but to say that he agrees with them. That’s what they care about anyways. What do they care what you think in your heart? It doesn’t make any sense. But that’s a real duty. That’s moral. Otherwise, you’re a horrible person.
What kind of a good person are you? Like I can give you—I don’t know who you want me to talk about now—but like what kind of a person are you if you’re like, “I’m an ish emes [איש אמת: man of truth], I’m about the truth and therefore my mother, my wife, my children…” That’s not ish emes, it’s just a shaigetz [שייגעץ: Yiddish term for a boor/uncouth person]. And that’s one of the reasons why critics are often horrible people. Not always, but sometimes. Some of them are just the people that haven’t been socialized. They don’t have the social virtues. They don’t like their friends. And therefore it’s very easy for them to say opposite. But they don’t have the love of truth which goes beyond that.
Which it says—which says I do very much love you, that’s a real thing. And right, if Avraham [Abraham] would be just a guy that doesn’t care for his children, that kind of Akeidah [עקידה: the Binding of Isaac] would be interesting, right? That’s what it says. I’m going back to saying that’s why it says in the Pasuk [פסוק: verse], “Where can we find a greater witness, a greater proof that someone loves his son, if God himself says you love him?” The Torah says, “You love Yitzchak [Isaac].” And this kid you should be mad—if he was just a guy, he wouldn’t be a chachma [חכמה: wisdom/feat]. He doesn’t really love him. If he loves Yitzchak, then it’s a chachma.
Student: No, but he does love him.
Instructor: Yeah, and you know what’s interesting? Avraham says—Avraham says things in a Midrash [מדרש: rabbinic commentary]. It says in a Midrash, in a Midrash, whenever someone says “I love both equally,” you know he’s lying, right?
Instructor: I think so. What do you like best?
Student: Both.
Instructor: Okay, you mean to say you’re not telling me the truth. You don’t have to tell me the answer. I’m not saying it might be wrong to say the truth answer. I mean, I’ll tell anyone, even yourself, I’ll tell me which of each of you you like more. But it’s always true that someone likes their children more. One child or the other.
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Or maybe almost always true. Unless you just don’t love, which is one excuse.
It’s time to just… The *Chovot HaLevavot* [Duties of the Heart, an 11th-century Jewish ethical work by Bahya ibn Paquda] says that it wouldn’t have been such a *nisayon* [test/trial] if Avraham wouldn’t have did the *Akeidah* [the Binding of Isaac] without love. Meaning, like what you’re saying, the love for truth more than the love for friends.
Student: Yeah, for sure.
Instructor: If he would be a bad guy…
I found that astounding when he said something like that.
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: You’re obviously trading the love for your kid for the love for truth and now that you’re saying that yeah you have but that’s mine we sometimes that’s why we keep on talking about *Avraham Avinu* [Abraham our Father] for this purpose right because people have this like imaginary stove of you know as the guy that or going around this father’s father store I’m breaking the breaking the *gatchkes* [idols/trinkets] which might have happened but was *naaseh lo lashma* [was not done for its own sake] was not allowed to do not let it do that right so then a kid is that this is a *middah* [character trait/virtue] but this is like it’s a great thing of someone to claim to himself to love the truth we could talk about the practice that’s why it’s easy to what the practice of of searching for truth otherwise when I am learning nothing means that you it’s not an opinion right.
What’s the difference? One big difference in an opinion and a thought. I thought something you do, an opinion something you have, right? Whenever someone asks you a question you could say like what do you think about this, you mean to say I should think with you now about it or you mean to say I should give you a tape recording of what I thought about it yesterday? That’s what most people do.
Usually I don’t have an opinion about it. Okay let’s learn about it. But that requires the requires this set and setting ready requires the issue of *yishuv hadaat* [settled mind/mental composure] requires the openness to be able to do that. Now usually you’re just saying not even thoughts like the distillation of thoughts that you had in the past or that someone told you in the past.
Okay, this is one *middah*.
What are the other *middos* [character traits/virtues] that we need to have in general as a human being? Why don’t we have, you see this is really weird, why don’t we have like a very basic list of like these are the things that you need to do? Generosity?
Student: Nobody knows.
Instructor: There’s like a *sefer zeh devoros* [such a book of things], isn’t there? What do you say on when someone dies like you go through the list of virtues and you find which one he did right for his *hesped* [eulogy]? What are those? What are the list?
Student: I don’t know.
Instructor: What’s wrong with generosity?
Student: I’m not saying that’s wrong with that one good thing.
Instructor: Honestly?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: Okay. Okay, let’s try to make life easier. What are the top three?
Student: Finish?
Instructor: What are the top three?
Student: No, for intellectual…
Instructor: No, for the intellectual thing.
Student: Humbleness?
Instructor: Before what we need specifically to come to *chochmah she-be-shira* [wisdom in poetry/song]. Because remember, that’s what I was saying. If you’re not a good person and you come to the *chochmah*, most of your supposed intellectual virtues are fake also, right? So first, being a good person. What are the three top things that you need to do?
Student: *Gevurah* [courage/strength] is a *middah* [virtue] there.
Instructor: Why?
Student: Well…
Instructor: I don’t know. I’m going to make you justify things now. What are the three top virtues? For Lakewood, for Howell, I don’t know what, whichever.
Student: It just means doing everything in the right way.
Instructor: Everything just means everything in the right way. We’re trying to speak in more detail than that, right? What are the three top virtues? You can learn a lot about a person or a society by asking them this question. I don’t know if you’ll ask them directly, they usually lie, but you’ll find out. What are the three top things people are praised or blamed for in your classroom?
Student: Well as a bad thing the bad is least opposite of the good right.
Instructor: In the New York Times what are the three top good and bad things?
Student: I’m the better work and this better work for materialistic and pleasure-seeking.
Instructor: That’s the good thing?
Student: Not a good thing, that’s a bad thing.
Instructor: I’m going to do it to you according to most people. I mean most people that’s not a virtue, that’s like a characterization of like what are virtues like kinds of people right or specific parts of kinds of people right.
All right, okay. You all went to yeshiva and then yeshiva what what *halo* [behold] that’s still and there yeshiva over the three top virtues discussed.
Student: I don’t know.
Instructor: I’m just gonna give honesty, honesty, humbleness, and generosity, abstinence. Is that true or you just saying?
Student: Oh you just make up a list you’re not recording.
Instructor: Why would those be three be the three like top things?
Student: I would say abstinence.
Instructor: And the yeshiva or in here in the yeshiva?
Student: Okay, number one, number two, consistency. Okay, number three, abstinence again.
Instructor: That was the same one I already said it.
Student: And *beis* [second] in the top drive with this toy but this is what I do.
Instructor: How do you say his reasons in English? I don’t know what it is mean.
Student: What does it mean?
Instructor: I explain what you mean enough to have a word you can just say what you mean that’s fine.
What are the three top *middos tovos* [good character traits]? This device meshed go do homework. We’re gonna give up homework sheets and everyone should brainstorm about it. Isn’t it weird that nobody has an answer here? You know what I say this I did it sorry we don’t learn about this and she.
Student: What do you learn about?
Instructor: Well you don’t learn about it but it’s all they do maybe not explicitly in the way of like giving you all this to memorize okay but you do like they do give over kind of life which basically can be defined in some such a way.
What’s the top three things that they tell the guy by the *shidduch* [matchmaking] information? I know those top three things. How do you say *teche kebare* [unclear Yiddish/Hebrew term] in somebody’s real not fake? Is that something they hold up in the yeshiva?
Student: Well that’s not the yeshiva’s portray but I mean could be they preach it.
Instructor: They do could be I don’t know I’m not really sure it would be called something like I went to nowadays not the yeshivas I went to but maybe some do I don’t know to give the benefit of the doubt maybe but in yeshiva they hold of three things kindness kindness is for sure in the in the *shidduch* world it says does he learn well does he have business and does he have money.
Is there anything else that the *shadchanim* [matchmakers] don’t know?
Student: That’s so funny.
Instructor: With this service, what does it mean?
Student: That’s a good question.
Instructor: Because that was a trick question now. It’s overindulgent. What’s the word for that? What’s meant indulgent?
Student: It’s indulgent.
Instructor: What is that? How do you say it in *shadchanus* [matchmaking]? English, I don’t care. English temperance.
So temperance is number one. So yeah kindness I don’t know like *chesed* [kindness/loving-kindness] like ready to do you’re asking me personally I tell I and humility.
Student: This is my kindness, kindness is ready to do someone else favor not only only someone else to be kind to yourself to develop to the to do good not good in Aristotle’s good but as it has it be more those type of things.
Instructor: Yeah whatever you see these are soon you can *mamash* [really/actually] on your dear but you think what’s it up so I think was he hot yeah my world no thoughts about this kindness no tell me what was the thought about kindness kindness you could plug it into anything for you right because what you’re talking about is something like helping being helpful, right? Not the same thing as kindness.
Student: That’s right. Maybe that’s what you mean. I’m being helpful.
Instructor: Yeah.
Student: And what she said that it was he was just saying random stuff.
Instructor: Yeah, I was just throwing it out there. What is really the things? Wow, okay?
So I have a lot of discussions here a lot of *Torahs* [teachings] to say but I’m asked like this. Firstly, there’s a serious question, where’s this list or what’s going on with this list? You remember that to become a good person basically means all these things.
Instructor: Does anyone have a list? A complete list of all the good things and the bad things? Not the good things, the good virtues and the bad virtues, and the opposite of virtues, right? The vices.
Student: Hope.
Instructor: Not exactly what you mean.
Student: Preservativity.
Student: Perseverance.
Instructor: Perseverance, that’s it, which means it’s very important that if you’re almost anything.
Instructor: So we could read a little bit if you want, or I could talk to you about what things say in the books. If you read the books that we’re reading, like the eight chapters [*Shemonah Perakim*, Maimonides’ introduction to Ethics of the Fathers], you’ll find there’s various lists of these things, various lists. I wonder if you read the *Shemonah Perakim* and *Hilchos De’os* [Laws of Character Traits, from Maimonides’ *Mishneh Torah*], or if you read, what else should you read for such lists? Anything you will read, you will find that they have various lists.
And one thing you’ll find specifically in places like the Rambam [Maimonides] is that they do not have a list, not a very clear list, if you notice that. And if you care about *mar mikomos* [checking sources], you could look in *Hilchos De’os* Perek [Chapter] Beis and Perek Dalet, where there’s the same list twice and it changes in between. He forgot his previous list. He took out one thing and added something else or something like that. You could look at *Hilchos De’os* Perek Alef where there’s a third list, or *Hilchos De’os* Perek Beis where there’s sort of a fourth list. And you see that the lists are not consistent.
That’s one problem. And if I ask you, I’ve got so many different lists and I don’t know what’s going on.
Student: Sounds interesting.
Instructor: There are some traditions with much better lists, much more clarity about what their list of good and bad things are. Even a book like the *Chovos Halevavos* [Duties of the Heart, by Rabbeinu Bachya ibn Paquda] is in its entirety kind of a list of virtues, right? That is one problem.
Instructor: One interesting thing that we can use here from these lists is to notice that there are commonalities, things that keep on popping up. So if I will do this kind of survey or kind of discussion with more people and really wonder what happens, what becomes the things that people keep on saying, or if you ask yourself five times a week or five times, see what your list of virtues are. And of course, some of them are going to change and some of them won’t change. Some of them will keep on coming up again and again. And that’s how you find out which are the ones that are more important, or more basic, or more central, or more needed. Right? Make sense?
Or maybe the ones that you don’t talk about, those are the ones that you need, and we don’t talk about them because it’s also possible, right?
Instructor: There will also be many different ways of deciding to make such a list, right? One way would be what I just told you. Let’s try to think of one of the most salient things, what are the things that are most obvious, what are the things that most pop out to you when you look at people and look at what you’re trying to teach them, and you find this is the list.
A more rational way would be somehow to figure out how to make this list, right? How would you, what would be the correct way to make such a list? I don’t know. Can you think of some correct ways? What is the correct way to make a list anyways?
Student: What’s needed for it.
Instructor: What’s needed for one.
Student: For the next step.
Instructor: What stops, what are stops, what do you mean by steps?
Student: Steps of it. It’s the step, this list is the step before the intellectual virtues, right?
Instructor: That’s it, I don’t know. Or if you don’t have these then you can’t get to that, right?
Student: Okay.
Instructor: Let’s say. So then you would have to figure out like what is needed, but it’s not the only thing, it’s not the only way, you know, I can make the list, right? Just to be clear what, look at what good people do, look at what people do. That would be the first way. It seems like a very messy way to do things. Maybe it’s the best way, but it’s a messy way. Let’s try to, let’s try to like put all the things they do or the ways they act into like little boxes. And you can do the inverse, you can see what goes wrong in the world and figure out what it’s an excess of.
Student: Yeah, yeah, we could do that also.
Instructor: But there should also be like more rational ways of doing things, right? Like more top-down ways of doing things. That would be another way of looking at the particulars first, right? Starting from the bottom. Or the ways of starting from the top.
Student: I don’t like what you’re saying, what is the next move, because like that’s not all that makes the, assuming firstly you’re already put in a whole assumption.
Instructor: What’s good about people?
Student: Yeah, yeah, I get that, but that’s like, so how do we start?
Instructor: And then you could just say what’s good about people is being good people. What are people? Yeah, yeah. That’s the most general thing. Now we’re talking about something a lot more specific, right? We’re talking about specific lists of ways, very specific ways in which people are good and bad. So how would you get from there to here? Is there a way? How would we get from what you’re saying, for example? What?
Student: How to get from virtue to the virtues?
Instructor: Yeah. Is there a way to do that?
Student: Thing like we say a good person, someone that’s good at personning.
Instructor: Okay, and how do we get from that on your list before? I mean there could be technically unlimited virtues, right?
Student: Why?
Instructor: Because what virtue is, that something is a golden mean, meaning it orients a person towards his purpose.
Student: I go to me though.
Instructor: No, a golden mean is just a way of giving you a structure for the virtues, but it doesn’t tell you which ones they are.
Student: No, right, that’s what I meant, that anything could be a virtue.
Instructor: So now we’re talking about which ones they are.
Student: No, not anything could be a virtue. These are categories of human disposition.
Instructor: Okay, so how are we going to list these categories? We’re going to generate our list.
Student: You have to do it empirically.
Instructor: I have to?
Student: I think so.
Instructor: Yeah, you have to start at what human beings do, and then figure out how they can do that well. How else would we do it?
Instructor: How else would we do it? I can think of other ways to do it. What would be another way?
Student: Yeah, I mean, what’s already thought, already of another way?
Instructor: No, the problem with that would be something like, like just to be clear, what you’re already, what you’re doing is already a list of virtues, right? You’re just talking about how to subdivide that list, right? In other words, if you’re, you already told me an answer and then, yeah, I’m really still before that answer, right? That’s the first problem, not a problem. It’s just some step that has to be built up.
Instructor: Like you told me, there are virtues that lead to other virtues. And we call these higher for some reason or closer to the real end goal, right? Okay, so that’s one way of organizing them already. Before you kind of do your next step, you jump very quickly, right? One way of organizing them is to say something like, there is the best end, best meaning the thing that more things lead to or more of an end, and there’s sort of a ladder or like a step to get there, right? And that’s one way of organizing the virtues already.
We could call it, in the sense of, it’s not only organizing the virtues, just to be clear, it’s really organizing what are we really organizing here? The activities, the things that you do. If someone says something like the best thing to do in the sense of the thing that is good in itself or it’s more good in itself than other things. Other things are good because they lead to that, and that’s not good because it leads to other things.
The best thing to do is to think, contemplate, right? In order to contemplate you need to list some things, you need to have humility. So, here’s a way of ordering the virtues, here’s a way of organizing them by the kind of activities that they’re about, right? The best activity is thinking and there are some virtues of thinking, how to think well, how to think correctly, what is needed to think, for thinking correctly and so on. Those would be one kind of virtues. We didn’t yet discuss how to cut those up, right?
But then in order to think you need to first have money, okay, a certain amount of money. So therefore the art and the virtue of making a certain amount of money correctly is prior to that in time and less important than that in importance. So you already gave me a way of organizing it, although not of listing it, because it seems like what you’re listing is not entirely the virtues, but your hierarchy, so to speak, is not created by listing virtues, it’s created by looking at the reality and saying, what is needed in order for this to work?
Instructor: And then when you tell me what is good is what leads to that, that might be true, but that doesn’t help me make a list, right? And there also might be things that are only good because of one step, not because of the next step, right?
In order to be a *Talmid Chacham* [Torah scholar], you have to have money, okay? You have to get married. That’s one step in the Mishnah or whatever, and then you get married, you have to have good *middos* [character traits], because otherwise nobody wants to marry you. What makes having the kind of good *middos* that makes you marriage material good is that they’re good for marriage, not that they’re good for learning.
Just *lesheraida* [for its own sake], since we have bodies and we have these needs and so on, so having a good life includes getting married and having the virtues that apply to marriage, and therefore here for then being able to think. So we could organize the virtues if you want this way, by sort of like what is needed at this step, what is needed at that step, and the steps being organized logically by what is better.
But we don’t really get a list out of the steps. The list is not a list of steps, and it’s also not a list of what is needed for the next. It’s a list of what is needed for this one. You get what I’m saying?
Instructor: There’s another way of ordering them, which is basically this, but in a slightly different way, which is we already did that, right? Like when we discussed the concept of intellectual virtue versus character virtue and things like that, right? Which is what? It’s dividing them—I’m going to tell you the answer you should have known it, you should have figured it out yourself—it’s dividing them by the things they’re about, by the parts of the soul they’re about or the parts of the person they’re about, right?
We say intellectual virtues are the virtues of the intellect or of the brain or the mind. And character virtues are the ones of the desiring soul, remember? Appetite of soul, something like that. So this was, and if you want, you can divide that into as many kind of things that it does, which we could sort of say are different parts of it, different powers of it. And then we would have a way of having sort of a complete list if you know the complete list of the parts of the person you can just generate a complete list of the virtues by doing that.
Student: Well that makes sense.
Instructor: No, no, or not?
Student: But no, because these things have subdivisions and subdivisions.
Instructor: Meaning, do you—but desires apply themselves to the even experience. But when I do—just be very clear—when I do subdivisions, you see, like, there’s—depends what you’re looking for when you look for a complete list. One way of being complete is at least whatever I say already includes everything in it. And if subdivisions don’t bother me, you can subdivide as much as you want, I still have a complete list. If you start in the bottom, then you end up with an incomplete list, because you just started from the lowest subdivisions that you happen to notice. If I start from the top, I have a better list, because I could subdivide it, but I still have the top-level rule, which includes everything.
That would be a different way of doing it, a very different way of doing it, right?
Instructor: I want to tell you one reason why it’s not going to be enough, and it’s going to be a *ba’ayah* [problem]. Meanwhile, we have three ways of doing this list:
1. One way is to do the empirical research kind of way and like look at all the people and make lists and hope that we don’t miss anything important, the totally bottom-up kind of way.
2. Another way would be to do Adi’s way, which is to order them by the order of goods, then talk about what is needed or maybe what certain, at each stage as we call it, or each level or each step would be needing certain virtues to make it work well.
3. The third way would be, which is somewhat close to the second way, because the second way, sometimes it’s said, to be like the best thing is to act with your mind. So that part is also the end goal, also the best thing, but it’s also the virtue of a specific part. And then we would just list all the parts of the soul, all the parts of the body, all the parts of the society, and assign or figure out what the virtues are for that. Maybe we could need to subdivide them, but at least we’ll have a full list—a full list, or a generally full list, even if we don’t have all the particularly full lists, right?
That was the third way to do things.
Instructor: The *ba’ayah* with the third way is what? The *ba’ayah* is that everyone is tired and wants to sleep. But besides that, yeah, there’s a virtue of sleeping enough. Very important.
The *ba’ayah* with this is, what are these virtues that are not of a part? Then we’ll have to add more things. Maybe there’s virtues about relations of parts, about the whole thing.
Student: I just said that.
Instructor: I just said that you might have that. You might make a list of virtues by listing all the parts and then saying what is good for each part and then we have a full list. But that seems to be very obviously wrong because—what if they’re pretty sure there are virtues that belong to the whole thing or at least mediation between the parts or to the relation between this—
Student: No, I need to think what’s wrong with this emotional something that is about organized.
Instructor: Well, I could give you the *mashal* [analogy] of my table, right? Remember the *mashal* of the table? How many parts does the table have? How many *ma’alos* [qualities/virtues] does the table—start listing them. Let’s do the same game. Are you against it? I’m asking you. List it. Are you against it? Start doing it and let’s see.
Student: Sturdiness.
Instructor: Well, it needs to be—no, we just have to do it. The way to do it is to cut it up into parts and look at each part, right? Very good. So it needs to be made out of—
Student: No, no, no, that’s the original.
Instructor: The paint needs to be shiny, the legs have to be strong, the cuts need to be straight, the—I don’t know what other parts—have to be precise, the corners have to be aligned and so on, right? Those are—when we finish listing all the—the screws have to be made as pointy and strong and so on, right?
Now we finish all of that. Do I have a good table? I have a bunch of parts, right? That’s IKEA, right? Now you have to come out and put it together, right?
Now I’m not going to just put an actual act of going together, also the act of designing it or creating it means thinking of how all these things are going to fit together. If you have a very strong like—it’s *halaila* [for example], is the strongest leg it can possibly be, but the table, the top, the top shelf of the table is even stronger, even heavier, more, even heavier than it, or the top still, it’s—I can have like an aesthetic problem or like a functional problem. The top step is very small, so you’ve got the strongest leg because you’re going to need the strongest thing possible, but your top is like tiny, it’s like a toothpick. Then you don’t really have a table, you have some weird monster, right?
So it’s actually very silly to list parts. You got to talk about the whole thing.
Student: That’s we have a *kollel* [adding one for the whole in gematria], right? I don’t want to do all the math and make a *kollel*. Why? Because, like, yeah, I have a word I’ve wanted to.
Instructor: Okay, but that’s not a word, right? You’ve got to do the whole word, too. Otherwise, it doesn’t work. That’s a Torah that I heard from Rav Pincus once.
Student: Ah, so then it would be all *kollelim* [plural of kollel], good.
Instructor: No, because the *kollel* got a *meh-meh* [something] or something.
Student: No, but only the math is that’s what the *kollel* is. It was the only one that I cracked. All the other ones are *shrak ha-ma’aseh* [nonsense].
Instructor: The problem is, when you’re making *gematria* with a *kollel*, you’re always cheating, because the reason you do it is because the other side is without a *kollel*.
Student: Perhaps. This is not a *gematria*. Think about it. It’s dumb. You always need a *kollel* that’s back in the same place. The only time we need a *kollel* is when you’re using one and not the other, and that’s the problem with it. If you just add one to everything, it doesn’t make any difference. So kids around us, as long as you’re consistent, then you’re not interested. The problem with the *kollel* is always when it doesn’t really work.
Instructor: Anyways, that’s why this is not enough.
Instructor: You might have to ask, and virtues of the whole, or the relations between all kinds of parts, and so on. And then someone might even come and say that that’s the only virtue. Because that’s what, remember, virtues are not of hands and of feet and of even specific wants and needs. What are they of? What are they of?
Student: People.
Instructor: People, very good. Are people hands? No, people are.
Instructor: Anyways, that’s why this is not enough. You might have to ask about virtues of the whole or the relations between all kinds of parts and so on. And then someone might even come and say that that’s the only virtue, because that’s what—remember, virtues are not of hands and of feet and of even specific wants and needs. What are they of? What are they of?
Student: People.
Instructor: People, there you go. Are people hands? No, people are people. So there’s no virtue that really counts unless it’s part of the whole. Unless it’s counted or understood in the context of the whole person. Right? Okay. Make sense?
Student: Yeah.
Instructor: No. Is that true? There isn’t such a thing as kindness. Because, like we say, you can be too kind. Right? And what does “too kind” even mean?
Too kind just means that your kindness conflicts with your other parts of your humanity, right? Or with other parts of other people’s humanity. And that’s why it’s not good. It’s a way of saying like, you can’t only have healthy hands, because healthy hands means hands that work well with the rest of the body. And same way you can’t have healthy kindness without having any other part of your virtue in alignment.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: So if we understand that we need virtues of the whole, we might as well drop all the part virtues, in some sense, because they’re all subservient to this one. But on the other hand, no, what’s the other hand?
Student: The other hand, there’s no way to approach it in any way that we can isolate something to understand it. You’re still going back there. Just a good person.
Instructor: Yeah, right. That’s the problem.
Student: I mean, the problem is that you have nowhere to begin.
Instructor: Exactly.
Instructor: Okay, so what if I’m a kind person? Now what does complete kindness consist of? Kindness that’s… Okay, so let’s not just say we’re a good person. Let’s give you one virtue: kindness. Very good, that’s a part. To be completely kind, what’s the problem with people to be kind?
Student: Very good.
Instructor: So what? In order to be fully kind, what do we need?
Student: Everything else.
Instructor: Thank you very much. So if you have a problem with me telling things that are too general, I could just tell you any example. But any example, if you think about it enough, if you do it enough, means everything else also. Right? Even in the *mashal* [parable/analogy] of the table, totally like that.
Student: Yeah, if you think—if you want to think that way, maybe.
Instructor: Yeah, because a normal leg means a leg that fits correctly with it, exactly. So it’s enough for me to tell you one thing. Right?
That’s why when we say *Leshem Yichud* [the formula recited before performing a mitzvah], it says [the phrase about the 613 mitzvos being included], because you can’t do even one *mitzvah* [commandment] without involving other *mitzvos*. Because if you do, then you’re a weirdo. Because there’s no *mitzvah* to do just that *mitzvah*. If a *mitzvah* is a part of life and something that actually is useful for a human being.
Instructor: All right, I’ll tell you a *mashal*. Does this—was he that I missed that film? Okay, doesn’t care about any of them. It’s just—just wanted to go out film. Okay. Now I have a question for you. That’s it. We get everyone to be very into *mitzvos* of putting on *tefillin* [phylacteries], right? Now there’s still—by—I decide whatever said there’s a *biyur* [clarification]. Because when you put up the *tefillin* the correct—it’s not correct.
Some *tefillin* has a meaning. I’m putting out *tefillin* means you have to have correct *kavanos* [intentions]. So it’s not just putting it on. So it’s *Guf Naki* [bodily purity]. You have to have purity of your body and purity of your mind. If you’re putting on *tefillin* and thinking of an *avodah zarah* [idolatry], you’re probably not making it into a *tefillin* or maybe you’re doing something even bad. And complete. Maybe a *yotzei b’dieved* [fulfilling the obligation after the fact], but the ideal *tefillin* is not that, right?
So it’s *merambah* [expanding]. A different order from the *tefillin* you already have to have another *mitzvah* of *chavar shafan* [proper thoughts] and *karek* [correct] thoughts, right?
Not only—and also of course if you think of that doesn’t make any sense, the fact that the *tefillin* might not even mean anything. Now I have another thing for you. This year they’re only putting out *tefillin*. Should you put out *tefillin* on *Shabbos* [the Sabbath]?
Student: What is the correct way of putting out the *tefillin*?
Instructor: *Shabbos* you don’t put out the *tefillin*. But if you don’t keep *Shabbos* the correct way of putting out the *tefillin* is *Shabbos*. But that’s not a *shkite* [correct way], that’s not the correct way of putting out the *tefillin*. So, it’s stuck.
This guy that’s putting it only in the *mitzvos* of putting out *tefillin*… You like examples, I’m giving you examples. This guy that’s only doing the *mitzvos* of putting out *tefillin*, he’s got to start putting out, keeping *Shabbos* also. Because otherwise, he’s a weirdo. He’s putting out the *tefillin* on *Shabbos* because the *Shabbos* are the *os* [sign] and it doesn’t make any sense.
And if you want to keep *Shabbos*, no, I don’t even have to go like that. What else does he have to do? Firstly, he has to *alein Krias Shema* [recite the Shema], because I could have *Krias Shema*, but I couldn’t, so I had to shake. And also, I’m going to have to teach the children the Torah, because it says in the Torah [in the tefillin passages], and if you teach the Torah, you’re not going to get it, you’re going to have to do the whole Torah, not just the Torah.
Right? Because it’s him—I did one *mitzvah* generates all of them. It really does.
Student: Exactly.
Instructor: Right? That’s not *tefillin*, right? So you could—we don’t have to talk instead. The logic was right that we shouldn’t say we’re coming—what does that mean, put on *tefillin*? But we’re not—*tefillin* means everything else also. Otherwise they’re doing a half *tefillin*. Okay, half a *tefillin*, neither. But we want of the whole *tefillin*, right?
The same thing goes with every *middah* [character trait]. You end up not having to talk about all of them because it’s enough to talk about one. But if you do that one correctly, it already includes—implies—basically all of them. Unless you’re not—like things that we could just do, push this *middah* all the way to the end and without caring about the other ones, which just means you’re going to be extreme and then you’re not going to do it.
So that’s a humility. I’ll just—let’s take *anavah* [humility] in the middle. Let’s say humility. How humility… I don’t know what humility is.
Student: What?
Instructor: First you have to tell me what it is. And why it’s good.
Student: I thought you were already enough on that one.
Instructor: Okay, what is it?
Student: I don’t know. Let’s go again. Let’s go with… Which one is for sure that you agree with? Because I don’t want to get into the whole rabbit hole with humility.
Instructor: The whole point is you always get into rabbit holes. That’s what I hope is.
Student: Okay.
Instructor: No, like how does humility—
Student: Humility, let’s say…
Instructor: Of course it does. I told you about kindness.
Student: What you’re calling humility is like a…
Instructor: Humility, well, the humility that we talked about before was just an intellectual virtue. I’m not talking about those. Those are also like this, but we’ll have to connect that to the whole…
Student: Ah, so it doesn’t have to do with…
Instructor: No, it does have to do, but we’ll take a few more steps. Of course it does. What do you mean it doesn’t? Of course it does.
Student: It does, okay, so then that’s what I’m asking. That’s the question. I don’t even know how it does, though.
Instructor: How does connect to what?
Student: To the *nefesh ha’mitaveh* [desire soul].
Instructor: To the what?
Student: What do you mean?
Instructor: Well, humility is about…
Student: No, your humility that you talked about was a kind of intellectual habit. It doesn’t belong to desire.
Instructor: That’s not the point. So how you can’t have that correctly without having the other ones correctly? And it’s because of what we already know.
You can’t—you can’t learn without having good *middos*, right? So you’re a kind of person not one mean correct. So you are what we called—what did you say you call the *middah*? Can you not—you don’t think they—you know everything guy would that be equally humility if like you—so that’s all why didn’t you help the case of now I’m the guy you know can’t do anything that’s very good home it does maybe the other guy is right.
Humility says maybe someone else is right. So therefore you can’t even learn anything. By the way, even in learning there must be an opposite middle which is called something like courage or *azus* [boldness]. Let’s say, let’s call it like that. It’s a weird thing. Let’s call it like that for now. There’s an opposite middle like, “Oh, so I never know anything because I also never know.”
Student: Very good.
Instructor: So I also never know anything. Knowledge, by the way, works—our life lives on knowledge. All our *middos* live on knowledge. Right? Can I know? There’s some—like you said, there’s some big enough of them that let anyone steal from them and from their friends and from everyone else because they don’t know who’s right anyway because they’re so open-minded, right? So they’re kind of humility not open-minded—they’re like weak-minded, right? But that’s not humility. That’s just that—maybe you could call extreme of an extreme of *middah* humility which is not humility anymore. It’s just being a—yeah, pushover, exactly.
So you gotta have the correct amount of humility, which means you also have to have another middle which is opposite—you could call it that way, maybe. Or the correct amount. But how do you know what’s the correct amount? You have to learn *Choshen Mishpat* [the section of Jewish law dealing with monetary and civil matters], like we discussed a few weeks ago from *Choshen Mishpat*, to know who’s right in most fights. See, I’ve told you it’s *Choshen Mishpat*. And so on and so forth.
This is not a real *teirutz* [answer], like to all the *kashas* [questions/difficulties] that I said, but it’s a true point. Like, to which *kashas* is it not a *teirutz*? Let’s do all the *kashas* and let’s see. What would I want to ask in the beginning of the *shiur* [lesson]?
I’m very bothered by this idea. I’ll tell you what it does answer and how much it doesn’t answer. I’m very bothered by the question that I asked today. Technically I asked different questions, but practically I asked this question.
Very bothered by the fact that nobody can give me the list of the good and the bad ones according to *shittas* [the approach/system of] Breslov. I don’t care—tell me that *keket* [such and such] thing. You can tell me certain things Breslov there for about a minute and about two minutes a regular average he could do.
Student: He could?
Instructor: The *mitzvos* and the list—don’t tell me—tell me the *Mishnah* has a list, tell me the list. But that’s just *dreiying mir a kup* [spinning my head around/confusing me], the *Mishnah* has a list, you know, it’s like, can this be a good thing or a bad thing, that’s not really a good thing. Tell me the list, tell me the list.
“Oh, a regular guy knows the *Mishnah*.” He doesn’t know the *Mishnah*, if he says there’s a *Mishnah*, it doesn’t help. What does he say? *Davka* [specifically], tell me the list, know the *Mishnah*.
Instructor: Don’t tell me the Mishnah has a list. That’s what they would tell you. But that’s just trying me a comp. The Mishnah has a list. You know, it’s like, can you tell me the Mishnah has a list? Tell me the list. He doesn’t know the Mishnah. He doesn’t know the Mishnah. If he says there’s a Mishnah around, it doesn’t help. He knows that the Mishnah has a list. What does he say? Tell me the list. No, the Mesillat [Mesillat Yesharim: “Path of the Upright,” an 18th-century Jewish ethical text by Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto]. What’s which, which? Give, give the top three. You wouldn’t know what.
That was one way of asking the question. So in your yeshiva [yeshiva: traditional Jewish academy focused on Torah study], that’s the thing that they mostly emphasize, which one of them are the most important. What I mean to say is, you’re telling me, no, no, people that quote instead of answering, you’re not interested. In other words, you’re saying to me like this, the most important virtue is being able to quote. I agree with that. That’s one of the most important virtues in yeshiva. Instead of thinking, quoting. Instead of answering my questions, quoting at me. No problem. That’s what you did. You didn’t answer my question though, right?
You’re not even talking with me. As long as it’s like the Mesillat, I’d ask you a question, right? Very good. Hello. Nobody knows. Nobody even knows what these things are, right? This will show them as a chakira [chakira: investigation, inquiry] what it means. Nobody knows. That’s not an answer to my question, right? I’m telling you that virtue is just a way of saying who is the good guy, right? What is your picture of a good guy? And you tell me a Mesillat. State the Mesillat. So your picture of a good guy is someone that says, state the Mesillat. I think that’s true, but you didn’t tell me any, have more information. Maybe there’s such a middah [middah: character trait, virtue] one made the cold state in Mishnah. No problem, no problem. So the middah is called being able to quote a Mishnah. What’s that matter? Is there anything else good in life? Fight for that. No, okay, no problem.
What about chesed [chesed: loving-kindness, compassion]? Not about state Mishnah?
Oh, so it’s two middos [middos: plural of middah] already. Knowing the Mesillat, I’m doing a chesed. Anyways, he wanted me to tell you about the kasha [kasha: difficulty, problem] in the credits.
So I was bothered by the inability of people to give me this list. Not only do people need to see if they can’t give me this list, or if they have a list that’s very weird, and not only people on my table can’t give me this list, or maybe they couldn’t, but they’re very tired, but also the people that we read their book can’t give us the list.
Does Rambam [Rambam: Rabbi Moses Maimonides, 12th-century Jewish philosopher] have a list? Not really. Does Aristotle have a list? Also not really. He also changes the list between his books and between his chapters. Does Plato have a list? Yes. Plato has lists for everything. Correct lists, because he’s a top-down kind of guy. But Aristotle’s more of a bottom-up kind of guy. That’s one that’s the pushut pshat [pushut pshat: simple, straightforward explanation] why he doesn’t have a list. Because he holds on to Shmueli’s mahalocha [mahalocha: approach, method] of just looking around. Tell me the most salient ones, might be some that I missed, so we’ll talk about that next time.
That’s kind of annoying. This annoyance is something called unity of the virtues, which I’ve led you to in one way now.
I’m just saying that we don’t really have to have a list, it’s not important to have the correct complete list. It might be important for shtuk l’chtoireh [shtuk l’chtoireh: for the sake of Torah study], but it’s not important for becoming a good person, because any kind of list, which is always picking out some of the most salient virtues that we see in the people that we like and we hold dear to the people, is going to have to basically include all of them. Otherwise, he’s describing bad people.
Student: Yeah. He doesn’t know it? He does. He does. He has different. It’s not like. It’s the opposite. Because of that, he has. His lists are just categorizations. They’re not really lists. They’re not this kind of lists. Or whenever he talks about one virtue, he tries to explain that that virtue is really just knowledge, and therefore everything is only one thing, which is called knowledge. It’s different. Just history.
Instructor: What I’m telling you is that in reality, even if we look at it as a way of like, look, give me the top three middos of the people that you hold of, you end up having to describe or you end up implying everything, including some of this that we don’t even have a name for. Yes, because we didn’t discuss them at length, but they’re applying everything. Otherwise it’s kind of weirdos.
That’s why every tzaddik [tzaddik: righteous person] that has what, one middah that he’s known for, usually it means that he exaggerated that middah and that was actually the thing that he was also bad at. Only bad at, maybe. The real tzaddik, the people that by the levaya [levaya: funeral], people say, I don’t know, there’s nothing special about him, he’s just like a good guy. The ones that are the weird ones, he was mama’s shmir [masmid: diligent Torah scholar], and I’m, I could say, a shlug mensh [shlug mensh: literally “beaten person,” someone downtrodden], right? Or he was such a masmid because he never helped his wife. You understand?
You already know that because usually when people praise a virtue, they mean to say the exaggeration of it, which is not good. In other words, they don’t have the other middah of helping your wife or the seichel [seichel: wisdom, common sense] that tells you how much, and so on. And maybe the same thing with the guy that’s a rebel. You have to have a rebel be a rebel in the correct amount and also be a conformist in the correct amount. And the guy that does that correctly, nobody realizes that he’s a rebel or a conformist. He’s just a good guy. You start that’s my sheet [sheet: lesson, teaching] for today. It’s more than enough.
Student: This is famous culture that the world asks. I think one of Shachar’s masters, he said that he had the thing of emes [emes: truth]. He said, what do you mean, what’s with all the other middos?
Instructor: This is how he’s going to say it. That’s true, but that’s because most people are not complete people. Most people are not balanced. Most people don’t have the different things.
Student: You’re saying in that world, in that type of thing also?
Instructor: I don’t know what that means. What does it mean? Let’s say there’s such a thing.
Student: No, I actually think that could mean the opposite. It could mean sometimes that someone says, what’s that person’s specific middah? It could mean, what’s his way of getting all the other middos?
Instructor: This, right? Like how does he get into all of them? Say I’m gonna focus like, is this story like they told the guy just never say a lie or something like that and suddenly, like I told you the story with this tefillin [tefillin: phylacteries, ritual objects worn during prayer], you suddenly have to become a whole Yid [Yid: Jew] because of that. And it’s true. If you take any virtue and take it seriously, you don’t think that you’re, sometimes people like they make their mitzvah [mitzvah: commandment, good deed] one mitzvah and that’s licensed to do everything else wrongly. You can’t do that. But if you accept it as being a part of being a good person, then it does lead you to all the good things.
Student: Is the Rambam’s recipe for balance, right, is that, how do I put this in a, does that correspond to what you’re saying? Meaning to say that when I habituate myself to balance in that one, let’s say virtue, everything else will fall into place where I found?
Instructor: I don’t know where I become a balanced person. If there’s something called not balance in the specific virtue, if you talk about the deah [deah: knowledge, understanding], you could talk about not practical wisdom or something that they may be, but it’s not clear that you could like practice that in the abstract. I don’t know. That’s a great question. No, he doesn’t know information like question if that works. I know that all you need to do is, yeah, but no, but that’s not, not true because the perfection of one middah means knowing how the rest of the world works, means knowing how to act and everything else. You can’t do that and you could be after, yeah, yeah.
You could say I’m gonna be just the owner of an order of mean something between a governor and a, and a what do you call this, matter pushover. But that means you have to know how to judge situations correctly. Now it could be that this middah of job, I don’t know. I actually tend to think that not, or the line of thinking that we work with usually tend to think that it’s very hard that like judgment doesn’t carry over. Like there’s all these questions, do skills carry over? If you have a skill that one thing, do you have the second? And so I’m saying it was a question like as for both children not, yeah, like does the transfer? Like I’m good at learning a Gemara [Gemara: Talmudic text], I’m also me look good at learning science. Usually it doesn’t work out as well as you would expect it to work. It works in the sense of you have the real talent and things like that. She doesn’t work as well who are great at learning when they go to a job usually. Okay, that’s because it’s different talents needed in the job. But even if you go to a job that’s similar, like learning a different area of knowledge, very often it doesn’t work because the intuitions that you gain are very specific. They’re related to the domain that you’re into.
Usually I think that the same thing works for middos. Actually, that’s why I do think that you do have to long list. I’m not masking with my sheet today, personally. I think that the longer your list is, the better you’re going to be, because naming things is one of the ways which we notice how we should act. Like of course then you have to figure out which middah to apply at which time. That’s never going to squeeze out. We resolve having like a long list. But the point is you can’t just say be a good person and just figure out. You need to have like a name. Wait, now I’m doing, now, now I’m being one of them. Now I’m thumbing good devarim [devarim: things, words]. You have to have a word for that. It’s very hard to realize that you’re in the middle of doing that, that you’re doing there. You’re right. I will hit the sheet already about that, yeah.
But so I don’t know if there’s like something, you have to remember when Rambam says be balanced, it doesn’t mean be a kind of moderate, right? The guy that all the politicians are trying to talk to always, the moderate that nobody ever met, right? It doesn’t mean be that, like never too much of anything. It means be the correct. So it’s not clear that finding the correct is like a transferable skill. There might be a theory that it is, but I think that would be the question.
Student: It’s a practice that you can, there is some transfer after, after talk about you could close if you want.
Instructor: I have to think about, I wanted to continue about the Prishah [Prishah: separation, abstinence]. Just there is the way in which transferable, like overcoming, there is something, something like that. Let’s talk about the general thing. What I can’t, I’m gonna have to think about that separately, like the relation between different stages of virtue with where the same kind of thing pertains. Okay, hold it different Russian.
Student: Like an intrepidious part?
Instructor: What time is it?
Student: Three.
Instructor: No problem. It’s 11:17.
Okay and that’s early, late, right, perfectly correct time. Which one? We don’t know. We’ll have to know relative to what, huh?
If you’d like an answer, that’s the story. Okay.