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Lecture Summary – Rambam Hilchos Talmud Torah, Chapter 5

Introduction to the Chapter

The previous chapters dealt with the essential obligation (chiyuv) of Talmud Torah, laws of teaching children, teaching students, the meturgeman (translator), and laws of the beis hamidrash. Chapter 5 primarily discusses kavod rabo (honoring one’s teacher).

Structure of Sefer HaMitzvos and Hilchos Talmud Torah: The Rambam, in his introduction to Hilchos Talmud Torah, enumerated two mitzvos: (1) Talmud Torah, (2) to honor one’s teachers and those who know Torah. Chapter 5 is melamdav – the honor due to one’s own teacher. Chapter 6 is yodav – the honor due to any talmid chacham in general.

The difference between kavod rabo and kavod talmid chacham in general: In Sefer HaMitzvos, the Rambam already brought several aspects of honoring talmidei chachamim – (a) one should cleave to talmidei chachamim in order to learn from them the straight path, (b) a person is influenced by his environment, therefore he should associate with talmidei chachamim, (c) part of acquiring Torah is looking up to a talmid chacham. But here in Chapter 5 we’re talking about something else – a personal connection to one’s own teacher. Just as kibud av (honoring one’s father) is not because the father is just any father, but because he is your father, so too kavod harav is not because he is just any important Jew, but because he is your teacher who brought you to chayei olam haba (eternal life). The order in the Rambam goes from the personal to the general: first kavod rabo (Chapter 5), then kavod talmid chacham in general (Chapter 6).

Halacha 1 – Kavod Rabo More Than His Father

The Rambam’s Words:

“Just as a person is commanded in honoring his father and fearing him, so too he is obligated in honoring his teacher and fearing him, and his teacher more than his father. For his father brought him to the life of this world, but his teacher who taught him wisdom brought him to the life of the World to Come.”

Explanation:

Just as one is commanded in honor and fear of one’s father, so too one is obligated in honor and fear of one’s teacher – and even more than one’s father. The father brought him to chayei olam hazeh (the life of this world), but the teacher who taught him wisdom brought him to chayei olam haba (the life of the World to Come).

Novel Points:

1) The kal vachomer (a fortiori argument) from kibud av to kavod harav: The foundation of kavod harav is a kal vachomer from kibud av. Why must one honor a father? Because he gave you life. A teacher also gives you life – but a higher type of life: chayei haneshama (life of the soul), chayei hadaas (life of knowledge). The body dies, but the knowledge one acquires remains for olam haba. This fits with the Rambam’s approach in other places regarding the nature of olam haba.

2) Note that the laws of kibud av appear later in the Rambam: The Rambam refers here to kibud av v’eim (honoring father and mother), but the actual laws appear later in Hilchos Mamrim, which is at the end of the Rambam. In the enumeration of mitzvos of Hilchos Talmud Torah, kibud av hasn’t yet appeared.

3) Question on the kal vachomer – a father who taught him basics: Even a father who is not a talmid chacham, if he fulfilled the mitzvah of chinuch (education) – taught alef-beis, Chumash, basic learning – he also brought him to chayei olam haba! The father gave him both – chayei olam hazeh and chayei olam haba. So what is the kal vachomer of the teacher over the father? A possible answer: “Torah tziva lanu Moshe” and such basics are just mitzvos, not the wisdom that brings to chayei olam haba – because the Rambam is speaking of chochmas haTorah which is more than mitzvos, of understanding, of reasoning. But if the father actually taught him Torah, it remains difficult.

The Rambam’s Words (continued):

“And how so? If he sees his father’s lost object and his teacher’s lost object – his teacher’s takes precedence over his father’s. If his father and his teacher are carrying a burden – he puts down his teacher’s and then his father’s. If his father and his teacher were captured – he redeems his teacher and then redeems his father. But if his father was a talmid chacham – he redeems his father first.”

Explanation:

Three practical applications: (1) returning a lost object – the teacher’s comes first, (2) unloading a burden – the teacher’s comes first, (3) redeeming captives – redeem the teacher first. But if the father is a talmid chacham, the father comes first.

Novel Points:

4) Question: Why does the Rambam say “talmid chacham” and not “rabo”? In the Gemara it says “his father who is his teacher” – that the father is also his teacher. But the Rambam writes only “if his father was a talmid chacham” – even if he is not his teacher, just a regular talmid chacham. The explanation could be: if the father is a talmid chacham, he certainly taught the student various things, he is “somewhat of a teacher,” therefore he also brought him to chayei olam haba. But a father who knows nothing at all taught him nothing.

5) The distinction between “talmid chacham” and “chacham”: The Rambam uses here the term “talmid chacham” regarding the father, but in other places he uses “chacham.” It’s not clear what the distinction is. If “talmid chacham” is a lower level than “chacham,” then the Rambam is saying: even if the father is only a talmid chacham (not a complete chacham), he already takes precedence – kal vachomer if he is a chacham.

6) Comparison with Hilchos Gezeila V’Aveida: The Rambam in Hilchos Gezeila V’Aveida says it slightly differently: if the teacher is a rabo muvhak (the student learned most of his wisdom from him), the teacher comes first. But if the teacher is not a rabo muvhak, and the father is also a talmid chacham who also taught him, his father’s lost object comes first.

The Rambam’s Words (continued):

“And there is no greater honor than kavod harav, and no greater fear than mora harav. The Sages said: Mora rabcha k’mora shamayim (fear of your teacher should be like fear of Heaven).”

Explanation:

There is no greater honor than kavod harav, and no greater fear than mora harav. Chazal say: fear of your teacher should be like fear of Heaven.

Novel Points:

7) How do we interpret “k’mora shamayim”? It can’t literally be like fear of Heaven, because fear of the Almighty is on an entirely different level. The explanation is: mora harav is the highest fear on earth – higher than all other people. “K’mora shamayim” means: the closest to fear of Heaven, the highest honor that exists between people.

8) Question: What about mora melech (fear of a king)? If mora harav is the highest, what about a king? The answer: A king is feared naturally (just as one fears a non-Jewish king too), but it’s not a mitzvah of fear in the same way. The Rambam has language in Hilchos Mamrim / Hilchos Deos that the king is the greatest, even more than beis din – but that’s a separate category.

The Rambam’s Words (continued):

“Therefore they said: One who disputes his teacher is like one who disputes the Divine Presence… And anyone who quarrels with his teacher is like one who quarrels with the Divine Presence, as it says ‘when they contended against Hashem’… ‘that the Children of Israel contended with Hashem’… ‘your complaints are not against us but against Hashem’… Anyone who thinks critically about his teacher is as if he thinks critically about the Divine Presence, as it says ‘and the people spoke against God and against Moshe’.”

Explanation:

A series of statements from Chazal that equate the teacher with the Shechinah: disputing one’s teacher = disputing the Shechinah; quarreling with one’s teacher = quarreling with the Shechinah; thinking critically about one’s teacher = thinking critically about the Shechinah. The verses all come from places where the Jewish people complained about Moshe Rabbeinu, and the verse considers it as against the Almighty.

Novel Points:

9) Distinction between “cholek,” “oseh meriva,” and “meharher” – three levels:

“Cholek al rabo” – according to the Rema this doesn’t mean he’s yelling at the teacher, but he makes his own faction, his own shiur. The word “cholek” comes from the language of “chaluka” – division. He divides the community, he makes his own division. Even if he doesn’t make a scene, even if he doesn’t run away – but he has his own followers, this is already “cholek al rabo.”

“Oseh meriva” – this is more “within the house,” he stirs something up against his teacher, he makes strife and quarrel in a practical way.

“Meharher achar rabo” – this is internal, he has critical thoughts against the teacher.

10) Why does the equation between teacher and Shechinah make sense? With Moshe Rabbeinu it’s understandable – he had a direct connection with the Almighty, everything was “al pi Hashem,” therefore when one has complaints against him, one is automatically disputing the Shechinah. But to apply this also to every teacher is “a next level”. The answer: The teacher represents to you the wisdom, the understanding, the Torah. When you argue with the one who brought down the wisdom to you, you’re arguing with the wisdom itself – which is the Almighty’s Torah. The teacher also acts “al pi Hashem” – not everything he does, but the wisdom he teaches is the Almighty’s Torah, the same Torah. Therefore cholek al rabo = cholek al haShechinah.

11) Precision in the verse “and the people spoke against God and against Moshe”: Seemingly one could say the verse means two separate things – they spoke against God and against Moshe. But from the juxtaposition of the verse we see that it’s one thing – rabo and Shechinah are together, because speaking against the teacher is speaking against the Shechinah.

[Digression: Kavod Rabo vs. Kavod Admor / Rosh Yeshiva]

12) Practical question regarding Admorim: In today’s times there is a reality where people honor the Admor / Rosh Yeshiva much more than the maggid shiur who actually taught them Torah. According to halacha this is a problem: mora rabcha k’mora shamayim applies to the one who literally taught you Torah, not the one who is the “king” of the community. One could argue that the Admor has a status of king with many laws, but he is not your rabo if he didn’t teach you Torah. The maggid shiur who learned with you every day – he is your teacher.

A story with Rav Menachem Zemba zt”l: In Ger, a Jew knew Rav Menachem Zemba, a prince of Torah, and said about him “that Mendel picks up the bench” – because everyone is nullified before the Rebbe (the Gerrer Rebbe). But in halacha this is not correct.

13) Practical point about kavod talmid chacham: When people want to fulfill kavod talmidei chachamim, they look for a great famous person and try to get in. But every such person surely has a friend from yeshiva who is already today a talmid chacham, and he “is desperate for a dollar” – no one pays attention to him. It’s much greater to fulfill kavod talmid chacham when one engages with such a person, than when one goes to the famous ones. (This already belongs to Chapter 6, not Chapter 5.)

14) Story from the Kotzker Rebbe: The Kotzker Rebbe went to visit his old melamed who taught him alef-beis / Chumash. He said: the teacher of Gemara said many false explanations, but the teacher of alef-beis is according to all opinions a true teacher – and one must have more respect for him. According to the Rambam this wouldn’t be a question, because “chayei olam haba” means specifically the understanding, the teacher who taught wisdom – not the teacher who taught how to make a beracha or how to say Hebrew. The Rambam speaks of chochmas haTorah which is more than mitzvos.

Halacha 2 – Cholek al Rabo = Making One’s Own Yeshiva

The Rambam’s Words:

“This one who establishes for himself a study hall and sits and expounds and teaches to all who ask – even at the end of the world and his teacher at the end of the world – it is forbidden for him to teach until his teacher dies, unless he received permission from his teacher.”

Explanation:

The Rambam defines “cholek al rabo”: one who makes himself his own beis hamidrash, sits down and expounds and teaches – without permission from his teacher, as long as the teacher lives, even if the teacher is in another country. He has declared himself “a teacher during his teacher’s lifetime” without permission.

Novel Points:

1) The term “cholek” doesn’t mean fighting – but dividing: The word “cholek” in the language of the Sages comes from “chaluka” – division. He divides the community, he splits the shiur in half. He makes himself a separate division. Even if he doesn’t make a dispute, even if he just has his own followers – this is already “cholek al rabo,” because he should have gone to his teacher.

2) Distinction between ruling and “disrespect” / ownership: There are two types of “cholek al rabo”:

Ruling – a halachic dispute, where one says “I hold differently.”

Protesting in the teacher’s beis hamidrash – this is not just a halachic dispute, but a matter of ownership and authority, of disrespect to the teacher’s leadership. Standing up in the teacher’s shul and saying “stop doing what you’re doing” – this is much more cholek al rabo than just ruling.

3) Rabo muvhak vs. a teacher who is somewhat a colleague: All these laws seemingly speak of a rabo muvhak. The Shulchan Aruch makes distinctions between a rabo muvhak and a teacher who is more on the same level (a “somewhat colleague”). In our times it’s not clear if it’s relevant, because “there’s no such thing as a teacher” in the classic sense.

Halacha 2 (continued) – Forbidden to Rule Before One’s Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“And it is forbidden for a person to rule before his teacher ever. Anyone who rules halacha before his teacher is liable to death.”

Explanation:

After the law of “cholek” (making one’s own yeshiva), the Rambam brings a worse thing: to rule before one’s teacher – when he doesn’t go away, but in the teacher’s own beis hamidrash he rules on questions. “Chayav mita” doesn’t mean they actually kill him – it’s one of the “chayavei misos” that they don’t kill, but it means worthy of death, it’s very severe.

Novel Points:

1) “Before his teacher” – not literally in his presence, but in his place: “Before his teacher” seemingly doesn’t necessarily mean when the teacher is standing before him, but when he is in the teacher’s place – in the teacher’s sphere of influence.

2) The measure of twelve mil:

The Rambam’s Words: “If there was between him and his teacher twelve mil” – it is permitted to answer.

When he is twelve mil away from his teacher (a measure of techum derabanan), it is permitted to rule. The reason: when it’s far enough, it’s clear that the reason he’s answering is not because he considers himself better, but simply a service – the person has a question and he can’t get to the teacher.

3) What does “hora’ah” mean – the distinction between hora’ah and yedi’ah: The Shulchan Aruch and commentators add: “Hora’ah” means when one must use intellect and judgment – a decision. But if an am ha’aretz simply doesn’t know what it says, anyone can tell him “this is what it says in Shulchan Aruch” – this is just a matter of knowledge, not hora’ah. Hora’ah is when one needs someone to decide.

4) A proof against the distinction between “hora’ah” and “yedi’ah”: From the law of separating from prohibition (see below) one can bring a proof that the distinction is not so simple. Because the Rambam says clearly: the person doesn’t know, or he’s wicked – this is not a case of decision-making, but of separation. Therefore one needs the principle of “we don’t divide honor from the teacher” to permit it. This shows that even saying what it says can fall into the prohibition of ruling before one’s teacher.

Halacha 2 (continued) – To Separate from Prohibition Even Before One’s Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“When a person does something forbidden… or because of a wicked person… one must separate him… even before his teacher, even though they don’t give him permission… in any place where there is chilul Hashem (desecration of God’s name) we don’t divide honor from the teacher.”

Explanation:

When someone does something forbidden – either because he doesn’t know, or because he’s wicked – one must separate him, even before one’s teacher, even without permission. The principle: in any place where there is chilul Hashem we don’t divide honor from the teacher – the Almighty’s honor is more important than the teacher’s honor.

Novel Points:

1) The reason – kavod Hashem precedes kavod harav: The teacher’s honor is very sacred, but if a Jew commits a transgression, this is a matter of kavod Hashem, not a matter of the teacher’s honor. The Almighty is more important than the teacher.

2) Perhaps this is not a flaw in the teacher at all: One could say that separating from prohibition is not a flaw in the teacher at all – because you’re not here to rule, you’re here simply to remove a transgression. The Rambam means to say: even in a manner that could bother the teacher – even if it looks like you made a decision before him – but here there is the matter of a place of chilul Hashem.

3) Distinction between “hora’ah” and “cholek al rabo” in this context: Perhaps separating from prohibition is a different type of thing than ruling. Ruling is one thing, but standing up in the teacher’s shul and saying “stop doing what you’re doing in the middle” – this is a matter of ownership, of authority. This is much more cholek al rabo than just hora’ah, because one is taking over the teacher’s authority in his own place.

Halacha 2 (continued) – To Establish Oneself for Hora’ah

The Rambam’s Words:

“But if one wants to establish himself for hora’ah and to sit and expound to all who ask – even at the end of the world and his teacher at the end of the world, it is forbidden for him to teach until his teacher dies, unless he received permission from his teacher.”

Explanation:

The distinction between an occasional hora’ah (where there are leniencies like twelve mil, chilul Hashem, something well-known) – and establishing oneself in hora’ah. For establishing oneself – “I’m making my own company” – it’s forbidden even if he’s very far from his teacher, until his teacher dies, unless he receives permission.

Novel Points:

1) The leniencies only apply to an occasional hora’ah: All the solutions we learned (twelve mil, chilul Hashem, something well-known) – this is only when it’s occasional, a one-time question. But to establish oneself for hora’ah – to set oneself up as a posek for everyone – is forbidden even at the end of the world, until his teacher dies or he receives permission.

Halacha 2 (end) / Halacha 3 – A Student Who Hasn’t Reached Hora’ah and Rules / A Sage Who Has Reached Hora’ah and Doesn’t Rule

The Rambam’s Words:

“And any student who hasn’t reached hora’ah and rules – behold he is a fool, wicked, and arrogant. And about him it is said ‘for she has cast down many wounded’.”

“And so too a sage who has reached hora’ah and doesn’t rule – behold he withholds Torah and places stumbling blocks before the blind. And about them it is said ‘and mighty are all her slain’.”

“These small students who haven’t increased in Torah as is proper… but because they are arrogant before the common people… and they jump and sit at the head to judge and rule in Israel – they are the ones who increase dispute, and they are the ones who destroy the world, and they are the ones who extinguish the lamp of Torah, and they are the ones who ruin the vineyard of Hashem of Hosts. And about them Solomon said in his wisdom ‘Catch for us the foxes, the small foxes that ruin the vineyards, for our vineyards are in blossom’.”

Explanation:

Two extremes: (a) whoever rules when he’s not worthy – is a fool, wicked, and arrogant; (b) whoever is worthy and doesn’t rule – withholds Torah. Both are harmful.

Novel Points:

1) Why three descriptions – fool, wicked, and arrogant – and whether it’s all together or one of the three: A “very good explanation” is that there are three separate scenarios:

Fool – he doesn’t know that he hasn’t reached hora’ah. He convinces himself that he already can.

Arrogant – he actually knows he hasn’t arrived, but he convinces himself through arrogance that he has arrived.

Wicked – he knows clearly he’s not worthy, and he does it anyway.

2) “For she has cast down many wounded” – why does the Rambam bring a verse about a promiscuous woman: The verse comes from Proverbs (7:26) which simply speaks about a promiscuous woman. This fits very well, because wisdom is called your true wife (like “say to wisdom, you are my sister”), and the promiscuous woman is false wisdom. A person who sells false wisdom is like the promiscuous woman – he makes people stumble.

3) “Many wounded she has cast down” – also by being stringent, not just lenient: One understands that if he is lenient improperly, he casts down wounded because he makes people transgress prohibitions. But also one who is stringent is “many wounded she has cast down” – because:

– The person develops hatred toward Torah from excessive stringencies.

– He stops asking questions, because he always gets stringencies.

– Thereby he causes other Jews to stumble.

4) Another interpretation of “many wounded she has cast down”: Perhaps “wounded she has cast down” also means on himself – because we learned earlier that such a person is chayav mita, so he is as if a “suicide” – he brings upon himself the punishment.

5) A sage who has reached hora’ah and doesn’t rule – “and mighty are all her slain”: The second part of the verse applies to the sage who is worthy of hora’ah but doesn’t rule. He withholds Torah – he holds back Torah from Jews. “Places stumbling blocks before the blind” – the Rambam is probably thinking of “before the blind do not place a stumbling block,” because he could have helped people know what they need to do, and he doesn’t do it. Either way you’re caught – whether you rule when you’re not worthy, or you don’t rule when you are worthy.

6) “Small students” – who are they: The Rambam describes them: “who haven’t increased in Torah as is proper… and behold they haven’t learned anything” – they haven’t learned enough, haven’t served enough. “But because they are arrogant before the common people” – they just want to become great. “And they jump and sit at the head” – a commoner jumps to the head.

7) “They increase dispute” – why do they make dispute: A person always seeks to have a shiur, to have someone who finally listens, who doesn’t seek to become great. If there’s already someone who knows – one doesn’t need to make another yeshiva. But the commoner who jumps to the head needs a lot of honor, he needs to be the teacher, and when there aren’t enough followers, he opens a new yeshiva, a new beis hamidrash – and thereby he just makes more factions and dispute.

8) “Extinguish the lamp of Torah” – why is this extinguishing the lamp of Torah: Torah is beautiful and bright when all who represent Torah are important, respected people with beauty and brightness. But when Torah scholars conduct themselves with thievery, dragging money, making disputes – they extinguish the lamp of Torah. (The Rambam used the language “extinguish the lamp of Torah” also about a talmid chacham who makes his Torah an ax to dig with.)

9) The Rambam’s purpose – to restore kavod haTorah: Why does the Rambam write this whole sharp thing? He wants to restore kavod haTorah. When people say “talmidei chachamim increase peace in the world” is a joke because “where there are two talmidei chachamim they fight” – the Rambam answers: No, he’s not a talmid chacham, he’s a “small student”. The Rambam wants to make clear that the one who makes dispute is not a talmid chacham at all – he’s the “liar worthy of death.” People shouldn’t say “ah, the talmid chacham” – but “you’re talking about the rebels.”

10) “Small foxes ruin the vineyards, for our vineyards are in blossom” – explanation of the parable (Song of Songs 2:15):

“Small foxes” – little foxes, cunning fellows.

“Ruin the vineyards” – they damage the Holy One’s field (= the world of Torah).

“For our vineyards are in blossom” – semadar are grapes that haven’t yet grown. Perhaps it means the destroyers themselves are the semadar – they haven’t yet fully grown (haven’t reached hora’ah).

Another explanation: When a true talmid chacham comes, he would “serve good grapes” – blessed fruits of peace, halacha in depth. But now the small students come, rule, and throw out grapes that aren’t fit to eat – false rulings.

Halacha 4 – Forbidden for a Student to Call His Teacher by Name

The Rambam’s Words:

“It is forbidden for a student to call his teacher by his name, even not in his presence… and he should not mention his name in his presence. And even to call others whose name is like his teacher’s name, in the way he does with his father’s name, but he should change their names, even after his death. When are these words said? With a distinctive name, that all who hear know it is so-and-so.”

Explanation:

A student may not call his teacher by name, even not in his presence. One says “my teacher and master” or “my father my teacher” or “our teacher so-and-so” – but not the name alone. Even another person who has the same name as the teacher, one may not call by name – because it looks like one is saying the teacher’s name (a matter of maris ayin – appearance). This is exactly like with kibud av. But this is only with a “distinctive name” – an unusual name where everyone will know one means the teacher. With a common name there is no prohibition.

Novel Points:

1) Even with a title one may not: Can one say “Rabbi Moshe”? No – we learned earlier that the meturgeman says “our teacher so-and-so” (not the name), and so one conducts oneself – “our holy teacher” but not the name. A student of Rabbi Moshe may not say “Rabbi Moshe” – so it says here.

2) Proof from Chassidic practices: Among the sharp Chassidim one never says the Rebbe’s name – “they will never say ‘Rabbi so-and-so’, they will understand it’s a great shame.” One only says “the Rebbe.” But among “phony people” who don’t truly have a teacher, but they took some person and pretend he’s their teacher – they conduct themselves with all the laws “even with a speck” (=with exaggeration). But among the true Chassidim it’s a natural thing – “it’s easy for them because they have no trouble” – i.e. when one has a true teacher, this is “one commanded and doing” – it comes naturally.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Greeting One’s Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“And he should not give greetings to his teacher, or return greetings to him, in the way that friends give and return to each other. Rather he should bow before him, and honor him with honor, ‘peace upon you, my teacher’. And if his teacher gave him greetings, he should return to him ‘peace upon you, my teacher and master’.”

Explanation:

When one greets the teacher, one should not do it like one does with a friend – a pat on the back, a friendly greeting – but with reverence, with a bow. When the teacher gives greetings, one answers with an additional word: “peace upon you, my teacher and master” – like the rule that one answers with more than one receives (“shalom aleichem” – “aleichem shalom”; “Shabbat shalom” – “Shabbat shalom u’mevorach”). The point is: one adds another drop of respect when returning greetings.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Removing Tefillin, Reclining, Prayer Before One’s Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“And so he should not remove tefillin before his teacher.”

Explanation:

One should not remove tefillin in front of the teacher.

Novel Points:

Tefillin as a garment of reverence: Tefillin is a garment of reverence – like a hat used to be. In a respectful situation one goes with tefillin, and one should not remove it in front of the teacher.

The Rambam’s Words:

“And he should not recline, but sit as one standing before the king.”

Explanation:

One should not recline in front of the teacher, but sit with respect – as one stands before a king.

Novel Points:

Practical application for Pesach: This has a practical application for Pesach – that sometimes a student doesn’t need reclining, because it’s not appropriate to recline in front of the teacher.

The Rambam’s Words:

“And he should not pray before his teacher, nor behind his teacher… but he should distance himself behind him, he should not be aligned opposite his back.”

Explanation:

One should not pray in front of the teacher, not in his back, not at his side. One should move away a bit – one gives space to the teacher. But also not directly behind him.

Novel Points:

The logic of each position:

Not in front – it’s not respectful.

Not at the side – because then one is equal with him.

Not directly behind him – it shouldn’t look like one is praying to the teacher.

Where then? – Somewhere below (further back), but not right under him.

Therefore they used to place the teacher’s seat up high – no one would be in front of them, and one would give enough space.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Bathhouse, Teacher’s Place, Deciding His Words

The Rambam’s Words:

“And he should not enter with his teacher to the bathhouse. And he should not sit in his teacher’s place. And he should not decide his words in his presence.”

Explanation:

One may not enter with the teacher into the bathhouse. One may not sit in the teacher’s place. And one should not decide the teacher’s words in his presence.

Novel Points:

1) What does “decide his words” mean? This doesn’t just mean when the teacher has a doubt and the student decides – even to say “yes, the teacher says well” is not appropriate. It’s not your job to confirm or deny the teacher’s words.

2) May a student disagree with the teacher? From the Gra in Shulchan Aruch (Hilchos Talmud Torah, kavod rabo) it emerges that the main prohibition is “in his presence” – in front of the teacher. But not in his presence one may argue with the teacher, one may even decide differently. A person doesn’t have to rule everything the teacher said. Proof: the Rema himself brings his father’s opinion and says “I hold differently” – because it’s not in his presence. It’s a matter of respect, not a matter of belief in everything the teacher says.

3) But in learning with the teacher? Seemingly one may even in front of the teacher speak, but in a respectful way – as one does in a learning situation when one brings a Tosafos that implies differently. But from the Rambam’s language it sounds like it’s not permitted at all in his presence.

4) The difference between teachers of old and today’s teachers: Our teachers are not the type of teachers the Rambam speaks of here. Today both learn – the teacher and the student – from the book. But if one had a true teacher who could say “I take it from Har Sinai” – like the Chasam Sofer – it would be different. Part of why we don’t conduct ourselves with all these laws is because we don’t have true teachers in the classic sense. But that’s why these laws stand – so that one should respect teachers more.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Sitting, Standing, Leaving from One’s Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“And he should not sit before him until he tells him to sit. And he should not stand before him until he tells him to stand, or until he takes permission to stand.”

Explanation:

One should not sit down in front of the teacher until the teacher tells him to sit. Also not stand up until the teacher tells him to stand or he asks permission.

The Rambam’s Words:

“When he departs from his teacher, he should not turn his back to him but his face toward his face.”

Explanation:

When one leaves the teacher, one should not immediately turn with one’s back to the teacher, but leave with one’s face toward the teacher.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Standing Before One’s Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“He is obligated to stand before his teacher from when he sees him from a distance of as far as the eye can see, until he is hidden from his eyes and he no longer sees him, then he may sit.”

Explanation:

One is obligated to stand for the teacher from when one can already see him from a distance, until when one can no longer see him – not just his face, but his entire body. Only then may one sit down.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Greeting One’s Teacher on the Festival

The Rambam’s Words:

“A person is obligated to greet his teacher on the festival.”

Explanation:

There is an obligation to go greet the teacher on Yom Tov.

Novel Points:

1) This is a law of honor, not just learning: Although on Yom Tov one must learn half the day, this is not the matter here – it’s a law of kavod harav, like all the other laws in this chapter.

2) Practical application for Yom Kippur: Even on Yom Kippur, when one may not wash, one may enter water (a lake) because one must go greet one’s teacher on the festival – it’s a great obligation.

Halacha 4 (continued) – We Don’t Divide Honor to a Student Before the Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“We don’t divide honor to a student before the teacher, unless it is the teacher’s way to honor him.”

Explanation:

One may not give honor to another student in front of the teacher – because this is a diminution of honor to the teacher. Only if the teacher himself used to give honor to that student, then it is permitted – because this is the will of the teacher.

Halacha 4 (continued) – Service to the Teacher, Slave’s Work

The Rambam’s Words:

“All work that a slave does for his master, a student does for his teacher. And if it was a place where they recognize him and he didn’t have tefillin, and he is concerned lest they say he is a slave, he doesn’t put on his shoe or remove it.”

Explanation:

A student should conduct himself like a slave for his teacher – all work that a slave does. But if he is in a place where people know him, and he’s not wearing tefillin (which would show he’s a Jew and not a slave), and people might think he’s a slave – then he should not put on or remove the teacher’s shoe (because this is specifically slave’s work that could harm his marriage prospects).

Novel Points:

1) Tefillin as a sign that he’s not a slave: When the student goes with tefillin, one sees proof that he’s a free man and not a slave, and then he may do all work.

2) [Digression: Story about a Rebbe who didn’t let Chassidim come with the Four Species:] It’s told about a certain Rebbe who didn’t let his Chassidim come with the Four Species to the beis hamidrash during his prayers. Seemingly this is the opposite of the law – the Rebbe wanted them to be seen as “slaves” (serving the Rebbe), and if they would have come with a holy object people would have thought they’re not slaves.

Halacha 4 (continued) – One Who Prevents His Student from Serving Him

The Rambam’s Words:

“And anyone who prevents his student from serving him, prevents from him kindness, and removes from him fear of Heaven.”

Explanation:

A teacher who wants to be “an extra nice teacher” and doesn’t let his student serve him – he prevents from the student kindness (the opportunity to do a mitzvah) and he takes away fear of Heaven.

Novel Points:

Service to the teacher is a benefit for the student: It’s a benefit for the student that he humbles himself before the teacher – through this he acquires more Torah. It helps the student as much as it helps the teacher. The foundation is “fear of your teacher like fear of Heaven” – through service to the teacher one builds fear of Heaven.

Halacha 4 (end) – One Who Belittles His Teacher’s Honor / Causes the Shechinah to Depart

The Rambam’s Words:

“Any student who belittles any matter of his teacher’s honor, causes the Shechinah to depart from Israel.”

Explanation:

A student who belittles one of the laws of kavod rabo, causes the Shechinah to depart from the Jewish people.

Novel Points:

This connects with what we learned earlier – that kavod harav is kavod haShechinah, and that belittling kavod harav takes away fear of Heaven. The teacher represents the Shechinah – therefore, when one belittles the teacher’s honor, this is automatically belittling the Shechinah, and this causes the Shechinah to depart.

Saw His Teacher Transgressing Words of Torah

The Rambam’s Words:

“If he saw his teacher transgressing words of Torah…”

Explanation:

If a student sees that the teacher is transgressing words of Torah – he forgot something, he needs a correction – he must remind him, but in a respectful way.

Novel Points:

A practical example: when a shamash reminds a Torah he heard, he says it in the language “this is how the Rebbe taught us” – in order not to embarrass the teacher, but to remind him respectfully. In books one sees the language “a midrash brought in my teacher’s book” – which can be connected with this matter of reminding things in the teacher’s name.

Should Not Say Something He Didn’t Hear from His Teacher

The Rambam’s Words:

“And he should not say something he didn’t hear from his teacher, until he says in whose name he said it.”

Explanation:

He should not say something he didn’t hear from his teacher, without saying from whom he heard it.

Novel Points:

Why does the Rambam place this here in the laws of kavod harav? This is seemingly a general law of “one who says something in the name of the one who said it”? The answer: Because we said earlier that everything should be said “this is how my teacher taught me,” when the student says something that is not in the teacher’s name, people will think he’s saying it still in the teacher’s name. Therefore he must make clear from whom it comes – in order not to spread false statements in the teacher’s name. This is a matter of kavod harav, not just a matter of truth.

Another explanation: Perhaps the Rambam means when he speaks before the teacher, he should say “I heard this from Rabbi so-and-so” (another teacher).

When His Teacher Died – Tearing

The Rambam’s Words:

“And if his teacher died – he tears all his garments until he reveals his heart, and he never mends it.”

Explanation:

When the rabo muvhak dies, the student tears all his garments until he uncovers the heart, and one never mends it.

Halacha 13 – Rabo Muvhak: Definition

The Rambam’s Words:

“When are these words said? With his rabo muvhak, who taught him most of his wisdom.”

Explanation:

All the strict laws of kavod harav only apply to a rabo muvhak – the teacher who taught him most of his wisdom.

Novel Points:

1) What does “most of his wisdom” mean? – Two approaches:

Approach A (simple meaning in Rambam): “Most of his wisdom” means literally – most things you know, you know from the teacher. A few things you know from this one, a few from that one, but most of your knowledge comes from him.

Approach B (Rema): “Most of his wisdom” doesn’t mean quantity of information, but the teacher who taught you to understand – proper intellect, how to think, how to make reasoning, how to compare one matter to another. He didn’t teach you many explanations, but he taught you forms of learning.

2) “His wisdom” means Talmud, not Mikra and Mishna: From the Gemara in Moed Katan: “his wisdom” means Talmud – that is, the teacher must teach understanding, making reasoning, comparing one matter to another. Mikra and Mishna is the world of the Tannaim, this is not the “wisdom” that makes one a rabo muvhak. The teacher is an educator in reasoning – he learns with the student for years until the student understands on his own.

3) Critique of the modern application of these laws: All the laws of kavod harav come from a world where there were no books – the teacher truly taught things. In our time, when one can learn everything from books, the situation is different. The person who thinks one must bring the Shulchan Aruch on all the laws of kavod harav in our time – it’s not simple, because the Shulchan Aruch speaks of a different situation.

4) Practical application: “Three months” is not enough: An argument like “I didn’t learn most things from him, but the way I learn I got from him” – in short, you learned from him three months – this is not enough. From Chapter 4 we learned that “the essence of Torah” – this is the wisdom. Knowing all of Mikra and all of Mishna is basic; the wisdom-level is harder, and this one must learn from a teacher.

Halacha 13 (continued) – Talmid Chaver

The Rambam’s Words:

“But if he didn’t learn from him most of his wisdom, behold he is a talmid chaver, and he is not obligated in his honor in all these matters. But he stands before him and tears for him as he tears for all the dead for whom he mourns.”

Explanation:

If one didn’t learn from him most of his wisdom, he is a talmid chaver – more on one level. One is not obligated with all the strict laws of honor, but one must stand for him, and one tears keri’ah for him like for one of the seven relatives – but not keri’ah that is not mended (like for a rabo muvhak).

Halacha 13 (continued) – Even One Thing

The Rambam’s Words:

“Even if he only learned from him one thing, whether small or great… he stands before him and tears for him.”

Explanation:

Even if one only learned from him one thing – small or great – one must stand for him and tear keri’ah.

Novel Points:

1) What does “one thing” mean? “A great thing about words of Torah” doesn’t mean he once repeated a Chasam Sofer during davening. It means one learned something with him, something “somewhat important” – a real learning.

2) Practical question: Chassidim and their Rebbe: What about all the Chassidim who have a Rebbe who is just a Rebbe because his father was a Rebbe – do they tear keri’ah? And on the other hand, one who actually learns every week from a Rav in the beis hamidrash at shalosh seudos Torah – does he already tear keri’ah? This remains a practical question.

Halacha 13 (continued) – A Talmid Chacham Greater Than Him in Wisdom

The Rambam’s Words:

“And so too a talmid chacham whose character people are pleased with… speaks before one who is greater than him in wisdom.”

Explanation:

Even one from whom one learned nothing, but he is great in wisdom – one must have respect for him. A talmid chacham whose character is proper, when he speaks before one who is greater than him in wisdom, he must conduct himself with respect.

Novel Points:

1) What does “whose character people are pleased with” mean? His character is very proper, he has a kind of completeness, good character.

2) What does “speaks before one who is greater than him in wisdom” mean? He listens to him differently – he wants to hear from him differently than asking from just any person. He shows that the other knows a bit better than him. He doesn’t challenge him. One may challenge – but one must first listen.

3) The Shelah HaKadosh – one may argue, but not become “nasty”: One may argue about my teacher, but not become “nasty” (not disrespectful). Why is he your teacher? Because something he knows that you don’t know – listen to him first. One may argue, one doesn’t have to accept everything, but first after one listens.

4) This applies to anyone who is greater than him – not just rabo muvhak: This is conducted even with anyone who is greater than him in wisdom, not just with his rabo muvhak.

5) A condition to be able to learn – not just honor: Besides the matter of kavod talmidei chachamim, this is a great condition to be able to learn. When a person hears something and he’s already thinking quickly how he’ll knock it down, he doesn’t even listen so well. One must first “digest” what the other is saying with complete integrity, and only then think how it fits with your teachings. There’s a “loophole” that people have – when everything they hear, they immediately fit it to some teaching they already heard once. This way one doesn’t become wiser, because one is just collecting onto the existing teaching. But put everything aside and listen fully – this is being properly aligned.

6) What does “properly aligned” mean? “Properly aligned” doesn’t necessarily mean good character – it can be his views are already aligned. What he knows he puts aside, now he can hear new things. The language “aligns the truth” (from Derech HaMitzvah) means precise – he is precise in his understanding.

Halacha 14 – The Teacher Who Forgave His Honor

The Rambam’s Words (Rema):

“And the rabo muvhak who forgave his honor in all these matters, whether for all his students or for one of them, behold it is forgiven. And the student must still respect his teacher even though he forgave.”

Explanation:

A rabo muvhak can forgive his honor – for all students or for one. But even after forgiveness, the student must still respect the teacher.

Novel Points:

1) What does “forgiveness” mean practically? Forgiving means the teacher can say “from today onward one may interrupt during the shiur,” or “you don’t need to stand for me,” and the like.

2) Distinction between “kavod” and “hiddur”: There is kavod and there is hiddur. The teacher can forgive kavod, but hiddur remains. This means: even when the teacher forgives, one may not conduct oneself toward him like a friend – one must still have respect.

3) Why doesn’t forgiveness help completely? If the teacher says “sit” (forgives standing), and the student doesn’t follow and stands up – he is conducting disgrace, he’s not normal. But one must still find other ways to respect. The teacher’s forgiveness on one thing doesn’t mean there’s no longer any law of honor – other laws of hiddur remain. One can’t make a “gezeira shava” and say all laws of honor fall away.

4) What does “hiddur” mean? Hiddur is as one sees – something one sees and shows respect. It’s a kind of “let oneself still respect” – and on this there is no forgiveness.

Halacha 13 (end) – The Teacher Must Honor the Student

The Rambam’s Words:

“Just as students are obligated in the teacher’s honor, so too the teacher must honor his students and bring them close. Thus the Sages said: Let the honor of your student be as dear to you as your own.”

“And a person must be careful with his students and love them, for they are the children who benefit in this world and in the World to Come.”

Explanation:

Just as students are obligated in kavod harav, so too the teacher must honor his students and bring them close. The honor of your students should be as dear to you as the honor of your friends – if someone disgraces your friends, you’ll be very upset, so you should care about the honor of your students. The teacher must be careful with his students and love them, because they are like children who benefit him in this world (they serve him) and also in the World to Come.

Novel Points:

1) The turning point of Chapter 5 – from kavod harav to kavod hatalmid: The dramatic shift in Chapter 5: until now the Rambam explained how strong and how strict the student must honor the teacher. Now “the Rambam turns out the rope” – the teacher may not just, he must honor the student. This is a remarkable structure: the chapter begins with kavod harav and ends with kavod hatalmid.

2) Student as “his father’s father for the life of the World to Come” – a kal vachomer: The Rambam says that students are “the children who benefit for the World to Come.” Just as we learned at the beginning of the chapter that the teacher is “his father for the life of the World to Come” for the student, so too conversely – the student makes the teacher a “father in the World to Come.” Every father loves his children because they make him a father of chayei olam hazeh. So a kal vachomer: the teacher must love his students because they make him a father in olam haba – which is an even greater virtue.

3) Question: Can a student of a fallen teacher have olam haba? If the teacher “became fallen” (fell away), can the student still have olam haba? Reference to the Gemara of Rabbi Meir and Acher (Elisha ben Avuya) – where Rabbi Meir continued to learn from Acher even after he fell away. This shows that yes, a student can certainly have olam haba even when the teacher is fallen.

“I Learned Much Wisdom from My Teachers, More from My Colleagues, and from My Students More Than All”

The Rambam’s Words:

“Students broaden the teacher’s mind and broaden his heart. The Sages said: I learned much wisdom from my teachers, and from my colleagues more than my teachers, and from my students more than all.”

Explanation:

Students make the teacher wiser – he has to whom to teach, they broaden his heart. The Sages said: I learned from my friends more than from my teachers, and from my students more than everyone.

Novel Points:

1) A contradiction to kavod harav? The statement “and from my students more than all” goes somewhat against everything we learned about kavod harav. If one learns from friends and students more than from teachers, why are friends and students less important?

2) Answer – one learns from friends only after one has already learned from the teacher: Every extreme statement must be understood in context. One only learns from friends after one has already learned the wisdom from the teacher. An am ha’aretz learns nothing from friends. But once one is already a talmid chacham – one has already learned from the teacher – now one can begin learning from everyone. One begins to value small, weak things that one wouldn’t have noticed before.

3) “A small tree ignites the large one” – Rabbi Yochanan’s parable: Just as a small piece of wood can ignite a large tree, so a small student sharpens the teacher – a small student can sharpen the teacher’s wisdom. “Until he brings out from him through his questions glorious wisdom” – through the student’s questions the teacher can bring out glorious wisdom in practice.

4) How does the student bring out glorious wisdom? The student asks “difficult questions” – questions that force the teacher to think deeper. The teacher already knew the wisdom in potential, but the student actualizes it – he brings out the wisdom from potential to actuality. Without the student’s questions the teacher would never have brought out the glorious wisdom. This connects with what we learned earlier – “the teacher should not be strict” – the teacher may not be strict about questions. This is not just a law of patience, but a practical necessity: through the questions glorious wisdom emerges.

5) “What is your request, up to half the kingdom”: Just as the king says “what is your request, up to half the kingdom,” so the student’s question can bring “up to half the kingdom” – a question has the power to open great gates of wisdom.

6) The great arc of Chapter 5: We began by learning that one must honor the teacher, and at the end we learned that the teacher must also honor the student. This gives a balanced picture of the teacher-student relationship – both sides have obligations to each other.


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Rambam Hilchos Talmud Torah Chapter 5 – Honor of One’s Teacher

Introduction to Chapter 5

Good, we are learning Rambam Hilchos Talmud Torah Chapter 5.

We have already learned about the essential law of Talmud Torah, the obligation to teach children, after that we learned a bit about the laws of teaching students. Yesterday we learned how a rebbe teaches students, how the meturgeman (translator) transmits the Torah from the rebbe, and so forth, a bit about the laws of what one may do in the beis hamedrash (study hall).

Here we continue, this chapter speaks primarily about kavod rabo (honor of one’s teacher).

The Structure of Hilchos Talmud Torah: Two Mitzvos

It is seemingly… one must see internally whether he brings the halacha here or only in the next chapter.

Seemingly, we learned in the introduction at the beginning that there are in Hilchos Talmud Torah two mitzvos, yes?

There is the mitzvah of Talmud Torah and the mitzvah of “to honor his teachers and those who teach him.”

Yes.

So basically Chapter 5 is “to honor his teachers” – it doesn’t mean his teachers, but rather the one who teaches you, that’s one level of obligation.

Ah, this chapter is about his teachers, I mean the next chapter is about those who teach him, because the next chapter is about honor of a talmid chacham (Torah scholar).

But regarding his teachers I mean, you’ll read here how I interpret it, it means here an honor that a person must have for his rebbe, a certain level of honor. After that there is another level of honor that must be for every talmid chacham, that is in the next chapter.

The Difference Between Honor of One’s Teacher and Honor of a Talmid Chacham

Ah, it’s interesting, because in Sefer HaMitzvos we already had several times the matter of honoring another type regarding what we speak about honor of talmidei chachamim (Torah scholars).

There is the matter of honor of a talmid chacham because he is the one who teaches the straight path, that you should cleave – not honor, but rather cleave to talmidei chachamim to learn from them.

After that there is the thing that a person is influenced by his environment, therefore he should associate with talmidei chachamim.

Here we learn another thing: that in order to acquire Torah, a part of the mitzvah of Talmud Torah is that one should look up to a talmid chacham, only this way does one become a talmid chacham.

Okay, but now we’re speaking of your rebbe specifically.

Your rebbe has a special obligation.

A talmid chacham who is your rebbe, yes.

It turns out that if the rebbe is not a talmid chacham, that’s a second problem, why one may not have him. If he is more of a talmid chacham than you, he can already be your rebbe.

But now we’re speaking of rebbe muvhak (primary teacher), we’ll see, there are two levels of rebbe.

But now one can speak of the topic of the rebbe, of your rebbe, whom one must honor.

Halacha 1: Honor of One’s Teacher More Than One’s Father

Let’s begin. The Rambam says:

Just as a person is commanded regarding honor of his father and fear of him, as everyone knows, there is indeed a mitzvah of kibud av (honoring father), “ish imo v’aviv tira’u” (each man shall fear his mother and father), one must, one is commanded regarding honor and fear of the father. This mitzvah we haven’t yet learned. It’s interesting, it hasn’t yet been in the count of mitzvos. I mean Hilchos Kibud Av appears only at the end of the Rambam, Hilchos Mamrim (Laws of Rebels).

So is he obligated in honor of his teacher and fear of him. The same way he is obligated in the honor of his teacher and in the fear, in the awe of his teacher.

And not only that, not only is it like the father, but in a way even more, and his teacher more than his father. The obligation to honor a rebbe is even more than honoring the father.

He will already see regarding which halachos it is relevant, and why? For his father brought him to life in this world, one must honor a father because the father gave you life, because the father made you exist in this world. But his teacher who taught him wisdom brought him to life in the World to Come. The rebbe who taught you wisdom, is what brings you to life in the World to Come, he makes you have wisdom, and only wisdom remains in the World to Come, yes? The body dies. What remains in the World to Come? The knowledge that one acquires. Yes, this is already the same Rambam.

The Definition of Honor of One’s Teacher: Similar to Honoring Father, Not Like Honor of Tzaddikim

Yes. It’s interesting, he also says here that the definition is similar to honoring father. It’s not like what we learned earlier that one must honor tzaddikim (righteous people), chasidim (pious people), because they are similar to the Shechinah (Divine Presence), but rather because they are your rebbe. Just as the father, not because he is a father, but because he is your father. Here we speak of your rebbe, it’s a very personal connection, because he brought you to life in the World to Come.

Besides the fact that one must honor him because he is an important Jew in Klal Yisrael (the Jewish people), he is important to you. It goes backwards. First one must honor your rebbe, then the Rambam will say that not only your rebbe, but other people’s rebbes one must also. A different type.

This is the greatest respect that you say, it’s like kibud av, and it’s about the kal vachomer (logical inference). I mean, there will perhaps be other sources, we’ll see that the Rambam also brings a verse. But there must also be a kal vachomer, why must one honor a father? Because he gave you life. A rebbe also gives you life! What kind of life? Not that kind of life, life of the body, but rather life of the soul, life of knowledge.

Laws of Priority: Teacher Takes Precedence Over Father

Very well. The Rambam says, And how is the halacha? If he sees a lost object of his father and a lost object of his teacher, he sees a lost object, and there is the lost object of his father and the lost object of his teacher. Now the question, whom should he give priority? Whom should he first save? Whose money? Returning his teacher’s lost object takes precedence over that of his father, he is first commanded to deal with the lost object of his teacher before the lost object of his father. For the same reason that we learned, because the rebbe is the one who brings him to life in the World to Come.

Another case, his father and his teacher are carrying a burden, his father and his teacher are carrying a package. There is a mitzvah of unloading, of helping. Who comes first? He unloads his teacher’s and afterwards his father’s, he should help first the rebbe to take down the package, and afterwards the father.

His father and his teacher were captured, there is a mitzvah of pidyon shevuyim (redeeming captives). The question is, who comes first? There is a law of priority. Also here, he redeems his teacher, first one redeems the rebbe, and afterwards he redeems his father.

When the Father is a Talmid Chacham

The Rambam says, this is all when his father was not at all his teacher. But if his father was a talmid chacham, if the father is a talmid chacham – he doesn’t say that he must be his teacher, in general, if the father is a talmid chacham.

But seemingly the reason is because the father also brought him to life in the World to Come. It’s a good question, I don’t know. But the Rambam doesn’t say “if his father was his teacher,” the Gemara indeed says “his father his teacher,” but here he means, the Rambam says it that even if he’s not his teacher, even if he’s just a talmid chacham. But I say that the kal shekol (all the more so)… let’s go with the… one can learn that the reason is because the father is a talmid chacham, therefore more honor comes to him. But simply, more than logic, one can say that when the father also brought him to life in the World to Come, then he redeems his father first.

Question: A Father Who Taught Basics

And one must think about this, that even a father who is not a talmid chacham, but if the father taught him the basics, as the halacha, the Torah commanded, and the father taught him such a thing, the father gave him both. Even if the rebbe brought him more, the rebbe gave him more, but the father gave him both. One must think, it’s a good question, because if the father fulfilled the mitzvah of chinuch (education), and the father taught him exactly lulav, and the father taught him basic learning, he also brought him to life in the World to Come. It’s a question on the kal vachomer.

Exactly lulav is perhaps only a mitzvah, not Torah. Not that is what brings to life in the World to Come. But what you say, you’re speaking presumably with a bit of an edge.

Perhaps indeed that, perhaps because of that indeed that is the explanation. For that it says if he is a talmid chacham, that means, a father who is a talmid chacham, even if he’s not your rebbe, he taught you just like that, he’s a bit of a rebbe, he certainly taught you various things. One who speaks with you about what one speaks about, is a father who can’t do anything at all, he didn’t teach you anything at all. But it’s indeed a problem here.

When the Father is a Chacham

So if the father taught you, redemption of his father first. So seemingly the same thing should be regarding action and work, or in wisdom, if he is a talmid chacham. Then, ah, talmid chacham is clear that he’s not a rebbe, because he’s only a student, and a student is not at all a rebbe, one must be a chacham (wise person) to be a rebbe. And if he is indeed a chacham, fine he teaches you.

If he is already equal to his teacher, if the father is a chacham, even if he’s not as much a chacham as the rebbe, he still comes first regarding work, because the work of his father and afterwards the work of his teacher. Also the same regarding action also.

Discussion: The Distinction Between “Talmid Chacham” and “Chacham”

No, seemingly all these things are the same. I don’t see that this should be the distinction. It doesn’t seem that the distinction is this, that this is a talmid chacham or he is a chacham. Talmid chacham is fine, I don’t know, something doesn’t sit right with me here at all about the distinction. Why should he say in one place talmid chacham and in one place chacham?

Certainly, but what’s the point? Why… if he makes a kal vachomer, if even a talmid chacham the law is so, then kal vachomer if he is indeed a chacham. So something is missing for me. I don’t understand the two halachos. Do you understand what I’m saying here?

Perhaps he must indeed have pidyon shevuyim, not regarding work? I don’t know, not clear.

Comparison with Hilchos Gezeilah Va’Aveidah

He brings that in Hilchos Gezeilah Va’Aveidah (Laws of Theft and Lost Objects) the Rambam says the halacha, and he says it a bit differently. He says that if his rebbe is the rebbe muvhak, the father comes first. But if the rebbe is not a rebbe muvhak, and the father is himself a chacham, comes… it says that if the rebbe is a rebbe muvhak, the simple meaning is that he learned all Torah from that rebbe, not from the father. But if the rebbe is not a rebbe muvhak, and the father is also a talmid chacham, and he also learned from the rebbe, then the lost object of his father comes first.

Fear of Your Teacher Like Fear of Heaven

The Rambam continues, and there is no honor greater than honor of the teacher, and no fear greater than fear of the teacher. No one must one honor more, the greatest honor that a person must give must be given to the rebbe. And of whom must one have the most fear, is the fear of the teacher. As the Sages say, fear of your teacher like fear of Heaven.

Regarding fear of the rebbe the Rambam interprets, it doesn’t mean, it can’t be like fear of Heaven, because the fear of the Almighty is indeed a different level entirely. Rather it means that it is the highest, like fear of Heaven, higher than all on earth. Yes, that’s how he interprets it, no? That’s the greatest honor.

Question: What About a King?

What about a king or something else? I mean, what is then? A king there is no mitzvah to have fear. A king one presumably has fear, because nature says so. Of a non-Jew one also has fear. I remember that the Rambam does indeed have some language, in Hilchos Mamrim, in Hilchos Deos, about a nasi (prince), like that. That the king is the greatest, has even more than the beis din, or some such language.

Practical Question: Honor of the Admor vs. Honor of the Maggid Shiur

Yes, I actually think, that the people who live nowadays where there is a rebbe, such an Admor shlita, whom one honors much more than the rebbe who taught him Torah, yes. It’s a big question, because there is indeed a law that fear of your teacher is like fear of Heaven. Or do you respect more the rebbe who is just because he is the king? You can say that he has a law of king, he has many laws, but your rebbe he is not.

It could be that you can say there like that the maggidei shiurim (lecturers) are all both students of the great rebbe. Like you think of a rosh yeshiva (head of yeshiva), there are maggidei shiurim. Yes, the maggid shiur is perhaps more, you learned with him more, but the rosh yeshiva gives the talks and he is the… it’s the same question. Because that one is also a chacham, respect comes to him, but not the same respect for a rebbe. The respect that you must have for a rebbe, that means literally, the one who taught you Torah, not the one who it says in the halacha.

Story of Rabbi Menachem Zemba

As I heard about Rabbi Menachem Zemba, I don’t know if it’s true, he said that in Ger a Jew knew Rabbi Menachem Zemba, and he said, “Mendel lifts up the bench.” He is a prince of Torah, but that’s how it is, that everyone is nullified before the rebbe. But indeed in halacha one must know how it works. It’s not sustained.

Honor of a Talmid Chacham: A Practical Point

Just so, I always have something that I think, that when people want to fulfill the mitzvah of honor of talmidei chachamim and the like, one seeks a great famous person and one struggles to get in. Every such person certainly had a young man who learned with him in yeshiva, who is certainly his age, who is already today a talmid chacham, and he’s desperate for a dollar, he’s desperate for someone to look at him. It’s much greater to fulfill the mitzvah of honor of a talmid chacham when you follow up with him than when you go to the famous ones. But that’s the next chapter. Now we’re still speaking of your rebbe. Your rebbe is indeed gratitude.

It’s more like a personal thing.

Story of the Kotzker Rebbe

There is a story, the Kotzker Rebbe went to visit his old town where he grew up, perhaps in Kotzk or in Tomashov, and he went to visit a rebbe who taught him, his teacher of alef-beis, of Chumash. He said, the rebbe of Gemara, he said many false explanations, but the rebbe of alef-beis is a real rebbe, certainly according to all opinions a real rebbe, and one must have more respect for him. But what happened

Rambam Hilchos Talmud Torah Chapter 5 – Honor of One’s Teacher (Continued)

Halacha 1 (Continued) – “Therefore they said… his honor is like the Shechinah”

But indeed in halacha one must know how it works. I didn’t sustain it.

Digression: Honor of Talmidei Chachamim – The Great and the Small

Just so, I always have something that I think, that when people want to fulfill the mitzvah of honor of talmidei chachamim and the like, one seeks a great famous person and one struggles to get in. Every such person certainly had a young man who learned with him in yeshiva who is approximately his age, who is already today a talmid chacham, and he’s desperate for a dollar, he’s desperate for someone to look at him. It’s much greater to fulfill the mitzvah of honor of a talmid chacham when you still follow up with him than when you go to the famous ones. But that’s an external paragraph.

The Rebbe Who Teaches Personal Things

Now we’re still speaking of your rebbe, your rebbe is divided in essence, he means more like personal things. There is a story, the Kotzker Rebbe went to visit his old town, where he grew up, perhaps in Kotzk or in Tomashov, and he went to visit his rebbe who taught him, his teacher of alef-beis and Chumash. The rebbe of Gemara, he said, the rebbe said many false explanations, he’s not… but the rebbe of alef-beis is a real rebbe, certainly according to all opinions a real rebbe, one must have more respect for him.

But that’s what I thought, that the father is the one who teaches the Modeh Ani with the basic basics, one must know.

Precision: The Rebbe Who Teaches Wisdom

Something is not clear here, the precision one says like this, you say indeed that in other places he sees it differently. No, that can, according to the Rambam himself it won’t be a question, because life in the World to Come means literally the knowledge, the rebbe who taught him wisdom, not the rebbe who taught him how one makes a blessing and how one says Hebrew. That’s certain, because he speaks the whole time about wisdom. He speaks indeed about wisdom of Torah which is more than mitzvos. I’m speaking about this, about the matter, however you want to call it. Okay.

The Words of the Rambam

He continues, therefore they said, for this is what Chazal (our Sages) say. So. The “therefore” he means to say about this matter of the great honor of the teacher. Yes? Yes.

His honor is like the Shechina (Divine Presence)

His honor is like the Shechina. It’s inclusive, “One who disputes his rabbi is like one who disputes the Shechina.” It’s one thing, someone who argues with his rabbi, he is disputing the Shechina. Yes. Yes. It’s as if he’s arguing with the Shechina. Yes.

“And anyone who makes a quarrel with his rabbi”, like someone makes a fight, he doesn’t fight with him directly. Cholek (disputes) perhaps means he goes to set himself up separately… There is in halacha, the Rema brings this, cholek al rabo (disputes his rabbi), oseh meriva (makes a quarrel) I don’t know, but cholek the Rema says that he makes his own party, he makes his own shiur (class).

What is meriva? I thought, cholek means he makes a rebellion, he fights against him. Oseh meriva means like under the table, he turns something against his rabbi, “like one who makes a quarrel with the Shechina.”

The verses that the Rambam brings

“As it says ‘when they contended against Hashem’”, when the Jews had complaints against Moshe Rabbeinu, they contended against Moshe Rabbeinu, it says “when they contended against Hashem,” they make strife and quarrel against the Almighty.

And the same thing “that the children of Israel contended with Hashem”.

And also further, “and in all the evil deeds that they quarrel with the Shechina, as it says ‘your complaints are not against us’”. Moshe Rabbeinu answers, by Korach I think? Or by the incident of the quail? I mean the incident of the quail, yes. “Your complaints are not against us”. Yes, it’s by the quail, very good. “But against Hashem”. “Hashem heard,” yes yes.

“Anyone who grumbles after his rabbi is as if he grumbles after the Shechina, as it says ‘and the people spoke against God and against Moshe’”. When there the Jews were grumbling against Moshe Rabbeinu, it was viewed as if they were grumbling against the Almighty Himself.

Precision: one thing or two things?

They pose, “as if they are like Moshe.” Apparently one could say they did two things, but from the juxtaposition of the verse we see that they meant one thing, his rabbi and the Shechina.

Explanation: Why is the rabbi like the Shechina?

The simple meaning is straightforward. By Moshe Rabbeinu one understands, Moshe Rabbeinu had a direct connection with the Almighty, he did everything according to Hashem’s word, therefore when one has complaints against him, one is disputing the Shechina. But to apply this also to your rabbi is already a bit of a next level. Here we’re talking about such a type of rabbi that people think that everything he does is according to Hashem’s word. Apparently this is by Moshe, no, not necessarily.

In a certain sense, every rabbi is… What’s the meaning? People, I didn’t get from Pesach, I already know, Pesach Torah scrolls, that a rabbi has a Pesach rabbi’s a Shechina. It’s very simple. Who represents to you the wisdom, the knowledge, the Torah? The rabbi. If you are arguing with the one who brought down to you the wisdom.

No, I say, but by all these verses the simple meaning is that they apparently complained against Moshe Rabbeinu, who did everything literally directly according to Hashem’s word. But a rabbi is also one who acts according to Hashem’s word. Not everything he does, but the wisdom that he teaches is the Almighty’s Torah, the same Torah.

Discussion: Disputing one’s rabbi in learning or in other matters?

Don’t we always say this, that you think that we say that a student of a rabbi must be like he isn’t? We’re still talking about how he does the learning, how he goes against his rabbi’s learning. We’re not talking here when it concerns who knows what, he’s fighting over a building. Ah, then that one is a servant, because the person who represents this must be respected in such a way.

What is this cholek al rabo? What does cholek al rabo mean? What he said that it is cholek al haShechina (disputing the Shechina).

Halacha 2 – “Cholek al rabo” = Making one’s own yeshiva

The words of the Rambam

He says, the Rambam, “This is one who established for himself a study hall”, he makes himself his own beit midrash, his own place for learning, “and sits and expounds and teaches”, he makes his own shiur, “and sits and expounds and teaches,” he sits down and he expounds and he teaches, “not during his rabbi’s time and his rabbi is alive, even if his rabbi is in an overseas country”. Even in another country, as long as the rabbi lives, and if you make yourself independent, become a rabbi during his lifetime, become a rabbi during the lifetime of your rabbi without permission, this is called cholek al rabo.

Explanation: The language “cholek” – dividing, not arguing

It’s very interesting, “cholek” in the language of the Sages always means from the language of… I saw that machlokes (dispute) is translated in a… from the language of “faction”… like to be cholek, “yachloку,” to divide something in half. Or to divide, yes, not from the language of arguing, not from the language of someone going away. He doesn’t make a machlokes by going away. He divides the community, he divides the shiur in half. Or he makes himself a separate division, something like that, he separates himself, he makes his own, he doesn’t run away from the other one, even if he doesn’t make any noise, he has his own chassidim, this is also cholek al rabo. He should have gone to his rabbi, I know.

“And it is forbidden for a person to rule in the presence of his rabbi forever”

Ah, good, “and it is forbidden for a person to rule in the presence of his rabbi forever”, and further. So this, cholek al rabo means that he makes himself his own yeshiva, even if the rabbi isn’t here, he’s in another place, but he declared himself a rabbi during his rabbi’s lifetime.

After this there is a worse thing, this is to rule in the presence of his rabbi. “And it is forbidden for a person to rule in the presence of his rabbi”, this is when he doesn’t go away. In the rabbi’s beit midrash he decides questions. “And it is forbidden for a person to rule in the presence of his rabbi forever,” and one may not be a moreh (teacher/decisor). “In the presence of his rabbi” apparently doesn’t mean when in his face, but when in the rabbi’s place. I’ll say how soon.

“Anyone who rules halacha in the presence of his rabbi is liable to death”. One who rules halacha in the presence of his rabbi is liable to death. What death? What is this liable to death from where? Yes, this is one of those liable to death that we don’t execute. It doesn’t mean that he is liable to death, it doesn’t mean that we execute him. It actually says that Shmuel… about Shmuel and about other people, but liable to death means that it’s very sharp, it’s very strict. That’s the simple meaning. It doesn’t mean that we should God forbid… because he is worthy of death, worthy of death is liable to death.

It could be, because there can only be one rabbi at a time, and we’re not now going to execute the rabbi because you disputed.

Halacha 2 (continued) – The measure of twelve mil

What does “in the presence of his rabbi” mean?

What does in the presence of his rabbi mean? Ah, there is a way, we must also have local halachic decisors. So what is the boundary, until where may one yes? From how far away?

He says like this, “If there is between him and his rabbi twelve mil”, if it’s far enough, twelve mil, twelve mil is a measure of techum derabbanan (rabbinic boundary), yes. Fine, it’s far enough, that it’s clear that the reason why he answers is not because he considers himself better, but simply a service, because the person has a question and he can’t come to the rabbi, fine it’s permitted to answer.

Discussion: “A matter of halacha” specifically?

It could be one asks a matter of halacha specifically, because this is a concern, but for example someone asks him a way from here to learn, it’s expected to come to the rabbi. It could be, a matter of halacha is something that the person needs to know now. Yes, but it could also be the opposite, that just saying Torah with permission, doesn’t mean only… the rabbi is the authority, you tell him a halacha, you tell him just a vort (Torah thought) in our parlance, and that’s not what we’re talking about. Except in certain places where this is the whole authority, I don’t know. But… yes… right? Yes.

And the rabbi isn’t here, it’s twelve mil, one can’t even travel. Twelve mil, that one can travel, should we say “go travel to the rabbi.” But further than that. Yes.

Distinction between “ruling” and “knowledge”

In Shulchan Aruch and the commentaries they add that we’re talking in a manner when a decision is needed here. If an am ha’aretz (ignoramus) simply doesn’t know what it says, anyone may tell him, “such and such is written in Shulchan Aruch.” This is just a matter of knowledge. Ruling means when one needs someone who should use his mind, his judgment, this means deciding in the presence of his rabbi. Saying what it says one may.

Halacha 2 (continued) – To separate from prohibition even in the presence of his rabbi

The words of the Rambam

195. Ah, further, but even in the presence of his rabbi it is permitted to rule. If one sees someone transgressing a prohibition, one wants to separate him from a prohibition, then one may even in the presence of his rabbi.

Someone says like this, “When a person does a prohibited act”, when a Jew does a prohibited act, a person does a prohibited act, because he doesn’t know, “or because of wickedness”, or because he’s wicked and he does it intentionally, “one must separate him”, one must do the mitzvah of rebuke, to separate him, or the mitzvah of lifnei iver (before the blind), one must tell him this is forbidden. “Even in the presence of his rabbi”, even in the presence of his rabbi, “even though they don’t give him permission”, even if the rabbi didn’t give him permission.

Why? Because this is a desecration of Hashem’s name when a person does a sin publicly, it’s not good that we speak publicly. Oy, desecration of Hashem’s name, “in any place where there is desecration of Hashem’s name”, he doesn’t mean, he doesn’t take his own Torah, he takes this. “In any place where there is desecration of Hashem’s name, we don’t accord honor to the rabbi”, then it’s not the time to give honor to the rabbi. That is, the Almighty is more important than the rabbi. The rabbi’s honor is very holy, but when a Jew does a sin, this is a matter of honor of Hashem’s name, not a matter of honor of the rabbi.

Explanation: Perhaps this isn’t a flaw in the rabbi at all

And in general, here one could say that it’s not a flaw in the rabbi at all, not because we don’t accord honor to the rabbi, but in general it doesn’t mean any flaw in the rabbi, because you’re not here to decide, you’re here simply to remove a sin. He means to say in a manner even in a manner let’s say that it could indeed bother the rabbi, it means as if you made a decision in his presence, but there is the matter of a place of desecration of Hashem’s name.

Discussion: A proof against the distinction between “ruling” and “knowledge”

Perhaps from here is a proof that your distinction that you repeated isn’t so correct, because it appears that here regarding the separation from halacha isn’t a ruling, it appears from a halacha that he simply doesn’t know, because he says clearly he doesn’t know, or because of wickedness. He doesn’t say because a decision is needed, one can decide differently. No, he asks on Shabbos, and he does things that this goes into the category of a certain Shabbos prohibition, and one must actually ask the rabbi, will give him the right not to. Because according to you this is a matter of desecration of Hashem’s name, it’s said that one must go with your ruling. Why should that one go with your ruling at all? He says, “Aha, you say so, I say differently.”

Answer: This is a different type of thing than deciding

This could be this is a different type of thing than deciding. Deciding is one thing, but this is a matter of ownership of authority. In the rabbi’s shul to stand up and give a sermon, “stop doing what you’re holding in the middle of doing.” This isn’t, this is much more a cholek al rabo, not exactly a cholek, but it’s more a matter of disrespect than deciding. Therefore, here is even where there doesn’t need to be any judgment, it’s the leadership. To protest where that one is leadership, the rabbi can tolerate him. It’s not your job. The rabbi didn’t see it in the beit midrash. Not your job to protest in the beit midrash. Not to protest God forbid to permit a second type of prohibition. To protest such a displayed thing.

All these things we’re apparently talking about when the rabbi is clearly his rabbi, his primary rabbi. Because the Shulchan Aruch makes distinctions between a primary rabbi and a rabbi who is a bit of a colleague, someone who is more elevated than him, but they are the same level. This law is from rabbi, it’s not clear that it applies in our times, because there isn’t such a thing as rabbi, but this we will see.

He says further, “we’re speaking about teachers.” This is if it’s a matter of desecration of Hashem’s name, stop that someone is doing a sin, one may yes say, “in a matter that became publicized.” But in general, both permissions, both the one that is twelve mil, all these things, all these solutions, is when it’s made an incident, but “to establish oneself for ruling and to sit and expound to every questioner”, is tremendous, even “at the end of the world and his rabbi at the end of the world, it is forbidden for him to rule until his rabbi dies”, even if it’s very far. On a permanent basis, I become, I make myself my own company, I’m already great, I can already on my own, this one may not do. One may not “until his rabbi dies, unless he took permission from his rabbi”. Only if one received permission from his rabbi, then he may, but without permission one cannot at all.

Innovation: Even after his rabbi dies – not everyone may become a rabbi

He says further, what if the rabbi did die? Yes, do you think that now it becomes a lawless world, and everyone may become a rabbi? He says, “Not everyone whose rabbi died” he is already at the level, he can already learn enough. He doesn’t say what the measure is, but yes.

But look, here comes a whole… here comes very simply, one must already almost come to translate. Here comes a very sharp… a whole piece of a story.

Halachot 7-9 – A student who hasn’t reached the level of ruling and rules / A sage who has reached the level of ruling and doesn’t rule

Rambam: A student who hasn’t reached the level of ruling – a fool, wicked, and arrogant

Yes, so the Rambam, “And any student who hasn’t reached the level of ruling and rules”, a student who hasn’t reached the level, and he’s still not worthy to be a teacher of halacha, and he does decide, “behold he is a fool, wicked, and arrogant”.

He has three levels, he is a fool, wicked, and arrogant. It could be that it’s one of the three. Or he decides thus because he’s a fool, he doesn’t know that he hasn’t yet reached the level of ruling. Or he knows that he hasn’t reached the level of ruling, and he’s wicked because he does it anyway. Or he’s arrogant, he hasn’t reached the level of ruling, but he convinces himself that he has reached the level of ruling, because he’s a great baal gaavah (arrogant person). I mean all three together. No, but it could be, it’s a whole good explanation. Because there are three things, a fool means because he doesn’t know what it means to have reached the level of ruling, he convinces himself. Or he convinces himself because he’s arrogant, or he does know and he’s wicked.

Oy. Umm…

“For she has cast down many wounded” – the verse about a promiscuous woman

“And about him it is said ‘for she has cast down many wounded’”, but such a one who… who… who causes other Jews to stumble with incorrect halachot, casts down wounded, he causes other Jews to stumble, like… it’s a language he causes other Jews to stumble with sins, apparently. And he’s going to say now the other half of the verse. But the verse speaks of… the simple meaning speaks of what? Of a promiscuous woman, of a married woman who is promiscuous, it’s interesting. But here it’s very good, because wisdom is called your true wife, and the promiscuous woman is always the false wisdom. It’s a person who sells false wisdom, like the promiscuous woman.

And “she has cast down many wounded”, he makes people. I think, if he is lenient, one understands that he casts down many wounded, because… because he gives out leniencies that aren’t sustained, he makes Jews with prohibitions. But if he is only stringent… let’s say, he becomes a judge, this is… I mean, if a Torah scholar who hasn’t reached the level of ruling, usually he’ll be stringent, because that’s easier. But he still casts down wounded, because the person, first of all he’ll get a hatred for Torah, and he’ll stop asking halachic rulings, because he always comes stringent, yes? They are “she has cast down many wounded”.

Okay. And it could be another reason he “casts down many wounded”, because he is liable to death we learned earlier. So he is I himself, he is a suicide. Okay.

“And numerous are all her slain” – A sage who has reached the level of ruling and doesn’t rule

Rambam Hilchos Talmud Torah Chapter 5 – Honor of the Teacher (Continued)

But I need to learn the other half. “Bechayei chacham shagah l’hora’ah”. Ah, now a person thinks, you know what, I’m never going to pasken, I won’t get myself into these troubles, but it doesn’t help. You’re caught. Either way. “Chacham shagah l’hora’ah”, if you’re a humble person who doesn’t come to give hora’ah, you’re doing a terrible wrong. “Harei zeh monei Torah”, preventing Torah, preventing Torah from Jews, “nosein michsholos lifnei ha’ivrim”. He is also, because the people won’t have anyone to ask, so the second one who doesn’t either. He’s placing stumbling blocks before the blind, the language of the Rambam is thinking here presumably from “v’lifnei iveir lo sitein michshol”, because those who could help people should know what they need to do.

And on whom does the second part of the verse stand, “va’atzumim kol harugeiha”? Who is meant by the “rabim chalalim hipilah”? The student who hasn’t reached the level of hora’ah. It’s not standing, what, we don’t mention any names here, what does it mean here someone.

“Talmidim Ketanim” – Hedyot Kofetz Barosh

“Eilu hatalmidim haketanim shelo higi’u l’Torah k’ra’ui”, the little rabbis who come up, and they don’t learn Torah as it should be. “V’harei hem lo lamdu klum”, they haven’t learned enough. They haven’t learned enough. They haven’t been meshamesh. Yesterday we learned that in order to become a talmid chacham one needs to learn very much. He didn’t do that. “Ela mipnei shemisgaim b’einei ha’am”, they are contentious people, they just want to become great. “V’koftzim v’yoshvim barosh”, they are a hedyot kofetz barosh, which appears a few times, yes. Hedyot kofetz barosh, very good, yes. “V’koftzim v’yoshvim barosh ladin ul’horos b’Yisrael”, to pasken.

“Hem Hamarbim Hamachloket” – Why They Create Dispute

“Hem hamarbim hamachloket”, they increase dispute. Why? Because it will bother the serious talmidei chachamim, there will be a dispute. No, not because of that. Because this is what the person does. He’s constantly seeking to have a shiur, to have someone who is finally heard, who doesn’t seek to aggrandize himself. If there’s already someone who knows, he doesn’t try to make another yeshiva so he can also have a yeshiva. But the person who is a hedyot kofetz barosh, he wants constantly, he needs to be the rabbi who will be honored, if there aren’t enough positions, he opens a new yeshiva, he makes a new beis medrash etc. etc. He increases dispute, they said, he just makes more factions.

“Mechablin Ner HaTorah” – Why This Extinguishes the Light of Torah

“V’hem machrivim es ha’olam, v’hem mechablin ner haTorah”. I mean mechablin ner haTorah he also said about a talmid chacham who makes his Torah a spade to dig with. “Me’or hadas” – it’s very beautiful, because Torah is beautiful and bright when all who represent Torah are respected, respected people, people who have a beauty, a brightness. But if Torah scholars conduct themselves, they steal and they take money from people and make disputes…

And the sad thing is that the one who does this is not a talmid chacham at all. He’s the liar who deserves death. People say, “Ah, the talmid chacham”. No, you’re not talking about a talmid chacham, you’re talking about the rebels. That’s why the Rambam writes it. Why does the Rambam write this whole sharp thing? What does he want from us? He wants to restore kavod haTorah.

I want to say about this, you have a complaint, you see that the talmidei chachamim are… I saw someone said, yes, he has pleasure that Chazal had a sense of humor, what does it say “talmidei chachamim marbim shalom ba’olam”. Meanwhile, where there are two talmidei chachamim, they fight. He says, no. Says the Rambam, no, he’s not a talmid chacham, he’s a talmid katan. He’s not a talmid chacham, he’s a talmid katan. What are all these things?

“Shu’alim Ketanim Mechablin Kramim” – Explanation of the Parable

“Va’aleihem amar Shlomo b’chochmaso… ah, they are mechablin kerem Hashem Tzevakos”. They are destroying, they damage the Almighty’s field. The Almighty’s field is like the field of the people of Torah. “Va’aleihem amar Shlomo b’chochmaso ‘echzu lanu shu’alim shu’alim ketanim’”. Little foxes. Foxes means such cunning fellows. “Mechablin kramim, uchramenu smadar” – when the fields have perhaps fruits that are already grown. But the smadar, the grapes that aren’t yet grown…

Perhaps one can say that the destroyers are the smadar, they haven’t yet become complete… “Mechablin kramim” – ah, they make it so one can’t eat good grapes. When it comes when a talmid chacham, he would serve good grapes, because he would give blessed fruits of peace. Yes, he would give, he would explain the halacha in depth. But now, they come, they pasken, and they throw as if there are only grapes that aren’t fit for eating. Yes, actually interesting. Okay. Yes.

Summary: The Rambam’s Purpose – Restoring Kavod HaTorah

He says, so until now we’ve learned, how much have we learned, about the great virtue of kavod rabo, and that one may not quarrel with him, and whoever does, becomes a rabbi himself. Actually interesting that it comes in here, this is the order. Whoever does, becomes a rabbi himself, but will you be fit for hora’ah, you won’t be fit for hora’ah. He says here, perhaps he’s also speaking here about kavod rabo, because the one who isn’t fit for hora’ah, he causes the world to be disrespectful of the talmidei chachamim, it will be a chilul Hashem.

He causes the amei ha’aretz to say, the halachos say the amei ha’aretz, more who is called yes… Everything that it says there what one needs to know, to be able to become a dayan, to be able to become a rav. Eh, the commentator says in Sanhedrin. Yes, but I don’t know if the Tosafos say the same thing. He needs to have from a rabbi yadon yadin, therefore it doesn’t mean, okay, therefore it’s a mitzvah. Ah, perhaps yes, there it says in Tosafos, he should be fit to sit in a beis din Sanhedrin, and such things.

Halacha 10 – A Student May Not Call His Teacher by Name

So the Rambam continues with the matters of kavod rabo. He says, it’s forbidden for a student to call his teacher by name, even not in his presence. You may not call by name. One must say, “my teacher and rabbi so-and-so”. One must say, not say, not say, with a title one can yes have a rabbi, rabbi, Rabbi Moshe? We don’t say it that way, because we learned that the translator says “Rabbeinu ploni”, but he doesn’t say, he says “avi mori” or “Rabbeinu ploni”. This is also how we conduct ourselves today, we say “Rabbeinu HaKadosh”, but the one who is truly our rabbi, we say “Rabbeinu HaKadosh”, and so on, we don’t say their names.

A student of Rabbi Moshe, he doesn’t say “Rabbi Moshe”? For example, a student may not say “Rabbi Moshe”? A student may not, so it says here. So it says here, I can’t interpret. Wait, “v’lo yikra shemo shel rabo bifanav”. I see, by the great Chassidim, for example, you know how you can see how accurate a rabbi must truly be? By the phony people who don’t truly have a rabbi, but they’ve taken some person and they make themselves that it’s their rabbi, they conduct themselves with all the halachos even with a smudge over. But you see, that the sharp Chassidim never say the rabbi’s name. They will never say “Rabbi ploni”. They will understand that it’s a great shame. I say “Rabbi Baruch is my rabbi”? No, “the Rebbe”.

Further says the…

What is not easy for them because they don’t have any disaster. Yes, one commanded and does. He says further, “v’lo yazkir shemo bifanav”. One may not mention his name in his presence.

Rambam Hilchos Talmud Torah Chapter 5 – Honor of the Teacher (Continued)

Halacha 10 – Not Mentioning His Name in His Presence

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yazkir shemo bifanav, va’afilu likro la’acherim sheshmam k’shem rabo, k’derech she’oseh b’shem aviv, ela yeshaneh shemam, va’afilu l’achar moso. Bameh devarim amurim? B’shem pla’i, shekol hashomei’a yodei’a shehu ploni.”

Explanation:

He says here that if the rabbi has a certain name, and there comes another who has the same name, Chaim Klein, whatever the rabbi’s name is, one may not say that person’s name, because it looks like one is saying the rabbi’s name. It’s a matter of maris ayin, it’s not respectful. Just like with a father one also may not say, if someone is called like the father, you may not call that person’s name, but you must change the name, call that person a bit differently.

Says the Rambam, “Bameh devarim amurim? B’shem pla’i, shekol hashomei’a yodei’a shehu ploni.” Because then they will think one means the rabbi, because one says the same name. But if the rabbi has a very general name, then there’s no prohibition.

Remark: “The Rebbe” – The Chassidic Conduct

By the phony people who don’t truly have a rabbi, but they’ve taken some person and he makes himself that he’s a rabbi, they conduct themselves with all the halachos even with a dirty one over, but you see that the sharp Chassidim never say the rabbi’s name. They will never say Rabbi ploni, they will understand that it’s a great shame to say Rabbi Baruch is my rabbi… No, the Rebbe.

Halacha 10 (Continued) – Greeting One’s Teacher

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yitein shalom l’rabo, o yachzir lo shalom, k’derech shenosnim hare’im u’machzirim zeh lazeh. Ela shocheh lefanav, umechabdo b’chavod, ‘shalom alecha rabbi’. V’im nasan lo rabo shalom, yachzir lo ‘shalom alecha rabbi u’mori’.”

Explanation:

When he gives greetings to the rabbi, he shouldn’t do it like one does with any friend, I don’t know, such a slap on the back, some such friendliness, but he should do it with fear and respect. “Ela shocheh lefanav, umechabdo b’chavod, ‘shalom alecha rabbi’. V’im nasan lo rabo shalom, yachzir lo ‘shalom alecha rabbi u’mori’.”

Why when returning must one say an extra word? Like one says “shalom aleichem”, and one answers “aleichem shalom”, one adds a word. “Shabbat shalom”, “Shabbat shalom u’mevorach”. I don’t know, that’s just courtesy I think. The point is, it shouldn’t return shalom aleichem and make a life. It adds another drop of respect, so I think. Yes.

Halacha 11 – Removing Tefillin, Reclining, Prayer Before One’s Teacher

Rambam’s Words:

“V’chein lo yachlatz tefillin bifnei rabo.”

Explanation:

He says further, “v’chein lo yachlatz tefillin bifnei rabo”, one shouldn’t remove tefillin in front of the rabbi. What is the matter of removing tefillin? Why is this not respectful? Yes, because in a respectful situation one goes with tefillin, if it’s like removing today a hat. Not exactly. Tefillin is a garment of fear and respect, one shouldn’t remove it in front of the rabbi. Very good.

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yaseiv, ela yosheiv k’omed lifnei hamelech.”

Explanation:

“V’lo yaseiv”, and one shouldn’t recline in front of the rabbi. “Ela yosheiv k’omed lifnei hamelech”, rather one sits as we learned earlier that once people would stand, but today one sits, but at least this sitting should be with derech eretz, not sitting very strongly reclined. One sees that this is a halacha even on Pesach, that sometimes the rabbi, he doesn’t need haseivah, because it’s not fitting to recline in front of the rabbi. Very good.

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yispaleil lifnei rabo, v’lo achar rabo… ela yisrachek l’acharav, lo yihyeh mechuvan keneged achorav.”

Explanation:

“V’lo yispaleil lifnei rabo”, one shouldn’t pray in front of the rabbi, “v’lo achar rabo”, and not behind the rabbi. How should one pray? A person prays with his rabbi, how should he pray? Not in front, not on the side, and not behind. “Ela yisrachek l’acharav”, he should distance himself a bit, one gives a bit of space to the rabbi. One shouldn’t be right next to him, not right in front, right behind. “Lo yihyeh mechuvan keneged achorav”, he shouldn’t be completely aligned behind him. This is also a matter of derech eretz, or it shouldn’t look like one is praying to the rabbi. It depends which side. Very good. Behind one shouldn’t be aligned kenegdo from behind. Not be behind the rabbi so it looks like one is praying to the rabbi. Not be in front of the rabbi because it’s not derech eretz. Not on the side because you’re equal with him. But where? Somewhere below, but not from below. Not right under him. That’s the explanation, so I think. Very good.

Therefore they used to place the rabbis on the top, yes, no one should be in front of them, and one should give enough space. But also not under them. Okay, one gives a bit of space. Ah, you mean directly below. Okay. There are Jews, yes.

Halacha 11 (Continued) – Bathhouse, Rabbi’s Place, Deciding His Words

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yikanes im rabo l’merchatz.”

Explanation:

He says further, “v’lo yikanes im rabo l’merchatz”, one may not enter with the rabbi into the bathhouse. This is also not respectful.

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yeisheiv bimkom rabo, v’lo yachri’a devarav bifanav.”

Explanation:

The halacha says further, “v’lo yeisheiv bimkom rabo”, one may not sit in the rabbi’s place, “v’lo yachri’a devarav bifanav”, and when the rabbi speaks, and for example the rabbi has a doubt, he shouldn’t decide the rabbi’s doubt. Yes, that’s what isn’t. Or even say that he’s right. Even he doesn’t have a doubt. He shouldn’t say “yes, the rabbi knows, the rabbi says well.” Not your job to say that the rabbi says well or not.

Discussion: May a Student Disagree with the Rabbi?

Aha. But l’heter, what he shouldn’t do, if he has a different reasoning than the rabbi, apparently there’s a way how he may say it. He shouldn’t say it in a manner… What? I see, he brings an answer from the Rema. He asked the Rema the question of the practical halacha. He says “yachri’a devarav” means because it’s a reasoning, but one can say differently, he shouldn’t say differently. He should rather take the rabbi’s reasoning, because the rabbi understands better. No, not necessarily because he understands better. It would be a law in Talmud Torah. I mean now also the student, but now it’s even from kavod rabo. It’s not derech eretz. When the rabbi says one can say this way, you say one can say differently. No, but if he has some objection to the rabbi, apparently he needs to find a refined way to say it. No, look not, look at the next piece. The “yachri’a” means my inclination. No, “yachri’a” means that his opinion leans, and my opinion leans differently, and now he means to explain his error. No, but I’m saying what may he yes, when he has a proof different from the rabbi’s approach. It doesn’t say here what he may. I don’t know how to tell you.

He says, he brings from the Gra in Shulchan Aruch, Hilchos Talmud Torah, kavod rabo, that one may not do it in his presence. If one argues with the rabbi, it shouldn’t be in his presence. One may argue with the rabbi, one may even decide. A person doesn’t have to pasken everything the rabbi said. He brings here the Rema himself brings his father’s approach and says, “I hold differently.” Because it’s not in his presence. It’s a matter of derech eretz. It’s not a matter of having faith in everything the rabbi says, but on practical halachos that we learned.

I’m saying that apparently one may even speak in front of the rabbi too, but it’s in a refined way. But what should the rabbi do with this and that Tosafos that implies differently? There’s a way of speaking with the rabbi in learning. Here it sounds like not. I don’t know how to tell you. It could be that here we’re talking about a different type of rabbi. We don’t have rabbis, because we and the rabbi learn from the book. But if there’s a true rabbi, we don’t grasp that it makes sense, because our rabbis aren’t the type of rabbis we’re going to see soon. If someone has a rabbi where the rabbi can tell him “I take it from Har Sinai”, like the Chasam Sofer who can pass it to me, he would be right. No, you’re obligated, but all this honor is more than we conduct ourselves even with our rabbis, except as he says, except for the person who is one with two houses. And part of this is because we don’t have true rabbis, but another part of this is, one doesn’t have true rabbis, therefore these halachos stand, so that one should respect the rabbis more.

Halacha 12 – Sitting, Standing, Leaving from One’s Teacher

Rambam’s Words:

“V’lo yeisheiv lefanav ad sheyomar lo sheiv. V’lo ya’amod lefanav ad sheyomar lo amod, o ad shetol reshus la’amod.”

Explanation:

Yes, further. “V’lo yeisheiv lefanav ad sheyomar lo sheiv”. He shouldn’t sit down in front of his rabbi until the rabbi tells him to sit. “V’lo ya’amod lefanav ad sheyomar lo amod, o ad shetol reshus la’amod”. And also not stand up, until the rabbi tells him to stand up, or he asks permission that he may stand up.

Rambam’s Words:

“Ksheniftar merabo, lo yachzir lo achorav ela panav keneged panav.”

Explanation:

Further, “ksheniftar merabo, lo yachzir lo achorav ela panav keneged panav”. When he leaves from his rabbi, he shouldn’t immediately turn around and go with his back to the rabbi, but he should turn around and walk out with his face toward the rabbi.

Halacha 13 – Standing Before One’s Teacher

Rambam’s Words:

“One is obligated to stand before his teacher from when he sees him from a distance, as far as the eye can see, until he is hidden from his eyes and he no longer sees him, and then he may sit.”

Explanation:

He continues, the law of standing before one’s teacher. “Standing before one’s teacher” – perhaps you can make a chapter. “One is obligated to stand before his teacher from when he sees him from a distance, as far as the eye can see, until he is hidden from his eyes and he no longer sees him.” When he sees the teacher from as far as when one can already see him, until when one can no longer see him. “And he no longer sees him” means not only that you cannot see his face, but you cannot see his body, “and then he may sit.” Only after that should he sit down.

Law 13 (Continued) – Greeting One’s Teacher on the Festival

Rambam’s Words:

“A person is obligated to greet his teacher on the festival.”

Explanation:

Further, a law, “A person is obligated to greet his teacher on the festival.” There is an obligation for a person to go on Yom Tov to greet his teacher. It could be that this has to do with the fact that on Yom Tov one must learn half the day. Okay, on Shabbos there is also an obligation to learn. No, this is honor. Everything you see here is honor, the order of conduct, how one conducts oneself with honor toward the teacher. And on Yom Kippur there are even laws that even though one may not wash, one may enter into water, into a lake, because one must go to greet one’s teacher on the festival. It is a great obligation.

Law 14 – Honor of a Student Before the Teacher

Rambam’s Words:

“One does not give honor to a student in the presence of the teacher, unless it is the teacher’s way to honor him.”

Explanation:

He continues, “One does not give honor to a student in the presence of the teacher.” One may not give honor to another student in front of the teacher, because this is also a matter of being in the presence of the teacher. “Unless it is the teacher’s way”, unless it is the way of honor, but if the teacher himself gives honor to that student, then that is the will of the teacher.

Law 14 (Continued) – Service to the Teacher, Slave’s Tasks

Rambam’s Words:

“All tasks that a slave performs for his master, a student performs for his teacher. And if it was a place where they recognize him and he did not have tefillin, and he is concerned lest they say he is a slave, he does not put on his shoe nor remove it.”

Explanation:

He continues, “All tasks that a slave performs for his master, a student performs for his teacher.” It is an obligation or it is a mitzvah, it is a matter. He will explain the paragraph. He continues, “And if it was a place where they recognize him and he did not have tefillin”, a teacher, a student does all tasks, he does, he should conduct himself like a slave. But, he says, if a person comes together with the teacher to a place, and people see, people should see how he honors his teacher, he does things for him, he carries, he transports, and people think he is a slave, people will not want to arrange marriages with him. If he wears tefillin, then one sees on him proof that he is not a slave. “And if it was a place where they recognize him and he did not have tefillin”, he does not wear tefillin, “and he is concerned lest they say he is a slave”, that people should think he is a slave, “he does not put on his shoe nor remove it”, then he should not in front of the teacher put on shoes or take off his shoes. This is like a task that only a slave does.

Observation: A Story with a Rebbe and the Four Species

I heard that there was a certain rebbe who did not allow his chassidim to come with the four species into the beis medrash during his davening. Apparently this is the matter, that one should see that they are slaves, and that they should indeed be able to continue to take off his shoes. Because if they themselves come with tefillin or with a holy object, people will think they are not slaves.

Law 14 (Continued) – One Who Prevents His Student from Serving Him

Rambam’s Words:

“And anyone who prevents his student from serving him, prevents from him kindness, and removes from him fear of Heaven.”

Explanation:

He continues the law, “And anyone who prevents his student from serving him”, someone wants to be an extra nice teacher, he doesn’t want to let his student serve him, “prevents from him kindness”, he prevents from his student kindness, he prevents from his student the opportunity to do a mitzvah. It is a favor for the student that he humbles himself before the teacher, that he acquires more Torah. It doesn’t only help the teacher, it helps the student as much as it helps the teacher. “And removes from him fear of Heaven”, he takes away fear of Heaven, as we learned earlier, “Fear of your teacher is like fear of Heaven.”

Law 14 (End) – One Who Belittles His Teacher’s Honor

Rambam’s Words:

“And any student who belittles any matter of his teacher’s honor…”

Explanation:

The Rambam continues, “And any student who belittles any matter of his teacher’s honor”, I taught him that it is honor of the Divine Presence, and also because it takes away Jerusalem, as we said. But it takes away Jerusalem, as the teacher says with the Divine Presence.

Rambam Laws of Torah Study Chapter 5 – Honor of One’s Teacher (Continued)

Law 12 (Continued) – One Who Belittles His Teacher’s Honor Causes the Divine Presence to Depart

The Rambam continues, “Any student who belittles any matter of his teacher’s honor, causes the Divine Presence to depart from Israel”, a student who belittles the matter of the laws of honor of his teacher, causes the Divine Presence to leave the Jewish people.

Ah, such a sharp thing, why? This is a further… as we learned earlier that it is honor of the Divine Presence, and also that it takes away fear of Heaven, as we said. The Rambam continues, the teacher and the Divine Presence go together, not that they go together, the teacher represents the Divine Presence. Very good.

Law 15 – If He Saw His Teacher Transgressing Words of Torah

Further he says, “If he saw his teacher transgressing words of Torah”, ah, we learned earlier that one may not decide halacha in the presence of one’s teacher, but what happens if one sees the teacher transgressing words of Torah? He sees he is not learning, he sees he needs to make a correction, he sees that the teacher forgot or didn’t say something.

I have the same thing, I have my attendant, my servant before me, when he mentions some Torah that he heard, he should say, “If I may, I heard from our teacher,” that’s how the teacher taught us. Okay.

One sees sometimes in books, they bring a midrash quoted in the book of my teacher. It could be that this is the matter.

Law 15 (Continued) – He Should Not Say Something He Did Not Hear from His Teacher

“And he should not say something he did not hear from his teacher, until he says in whose name he said it”, he should not say something he did not hear from his teacher, if yes, he should say from whom he heard it.

What does this mean? It is a matter that he should not transmit false statements in the name of the teacher. This is obvious. This is not a matter of honor. Because if it was said now that everything should be said “this is how the teacher taught me,” when he says something else that is not in the name of the teacher, people will think he is still saying it in the name of the teacher, he must say clearly from whom it comes, like the law of “one who says something in the name of the one who said it,” so there should be no errors.

Okay, but the Rambam places it here, because here is how… something doesn’t seem right to me. Perhaps he means when he speaks of the teacher, if he says yes before the teacher, he tells him, “I heard from our teacher, another teacher, from Rabbi Yankel, from Rabbi so-and-so”? Yes. I don’t know clearly…

Law 15 (End) – When One’s Teacher Passes Away

And if he passes away, when his teacher dies, he tears all his garments until he exposes his heart, and he never mends it. This is all how he conducts himself. This from law 10 until here was the order of how a student conducts himself toward his teacher.

Law 16 – Primary Teacher: Definition

These matters are said regarding one’s primary teacher. What does a teacher mean? The Rambam says, “In what case are these things said? Regarding one’s primary teacher.” What does primary mean? “From whom he learned most of his wisdom.”

What Does “Most of His Wisdom” Mean?

What does most of his wisdom mean? I think here he means most things that you know, you know from this teacher. That’s what he means. The Rema says, what does most of his wisdom mean? It means the teacher who taught you to understand, proper intellect, and to understand things. Not a lot of information or a lot of… Let’s learn what it says here.

What does most of his wisdom mean? A primary teacher is not that one. A primary teacher that is written here is most things that you know… most of his wisdom, but it is not necessarily in quantity, because the person taught you to understand, the person taught you to think, he taught you intellect, he taught you forms. He didn’t teach you many explanations.

“His Wisdom” Means Talmud, Not Scripture and Mishnah

“But if he did not learn from him most of his wisdom”, he is not his primary teacher. All these Shulchan Aruchs that you bring, I hold that one must bring the Shulchan Aruch, because the person who thinks one must bring the Shulchan Aruch in our time, it is not a mitzvah, because the Shulchan Aruch speaks of a different situation. All these Talmuds speak in a completely different world of a student with a teacher, where the teacher truly taught things. The world didn’t yet have books.

Most of his wisdom means literally, everything, most things that you know. Some things you know from that one, some things you know from that one, but most things you know, you know from him.

“But if he did not learn from him most of his wisdom, this is a student-colleague”, and he is not his primary student, but a student-colleague, and they are more on one level. “He is obligated in his honor in all these matters”, one is not obligated with such a strong level of honor, but there are still certain laws of honor, such as “standing before him”, one must stand before him, “and tearing for him”, one must tear keriah, “just as one tears for all the dead that one mourns for them”, he receives a law like one of the seven close relatives for whom one must tear keriah, but not a tear that is not mended.

Until When Is He Called a Teacher?

He continues, until when is he called a teacher? That his wisdom, he brings the Gemara in Moed Katan, his wisdom means a student, because a sage doesn’t mean Scripture and Mishnah, Scripture and Mishnah is the world of the Tannaim. The teacher today is a student, he must teach and understand and be able to make reasoning and be able to compare one matter to another, etc.

No, I don’t think so. One teaches it, one must do it several times with him, there is no secret in this, there is no foundation of logic. He must say, be able to do, and begin to feel. He is an educator in reasoning. One who is an educator in reasoning, he does reasoning with him for years, for years he learns with him until he understands on his own. Okay.

Practical Difference: “Three Months” Is Not Enough

But in short, it must… What does it mean a teacher who is not primary? One must learn more than one must learn in all Scripture and Mishnah. Just to be clear, people, when one says today “he is like a community,” I did not learn most things from him, but the way I learn I got from him. In short, you learned with him three months.

No, we learned chapter 4, we learned that the essence of Torah, that is wisdom. In other words, knowing all Scripture and all Mishnah is easier than that. That is basic. If one speaks of that level, true.

Law 17 – Even One Thing

Further he says, what does it mean a teacher who is not primary? He says, “Even if he only learned from him one thing, whether small or great”, even if he only learned from him one thing, a small thing, but in any case he must stand before him and tear for him, one must tear keriah for him.

What Does “One Thing” Mean?

This is even less than a student-colleague. This is a great wonder, because the simple meaning is that the law understands that everyone, every two friends, learns something one from the other. You are certainly my primary teacher, but such a level is certain. The small thing, great thing, I am a world for you, I am a Torah scholar. So, what does it mean a teacher who is not primary?

No, I’m speaking here of keriah. One tears keriah more for friends. A student from whom one learned something. I think every Jew in shul must know what “a great thing in words of Torah” means. It doesn’t mean that he once repeated a Chasam Sofer during davening. No, you learned something with him, something. I learned from him something, something important.

Discussion: Chassidim and Their Rebbe

What about all the chassidim who have a rebbe, who is just a rebbe because his father was a rebbe, do they tear keriah? And you actually learned from a rav in your beis medrash, every week you learn from him Shalosh Seudos Torah, do you tear keriah for him?

But why must one tear keriah? What is the question? No, this is a law. Let’s not argue about a law. I am a friend with you, “whatever,” is a different “situation.” But here you have a rav, a maggid shiur here in shul, he teaches the laws of Pesach before Pesach. Why must one tear keriah for him? Yes.

Law 17 (Continued) – A Torah Scholar Greater Than Him in Wisdom

The Baraisa says, “And similarly a Torah scholar with whom people are pleased.” No, wait. All these things are, when there is a “level” of a primary teacher, and there is a teacher from whom one learned something, and there is a “level” of a teacher from whom one didn’t learn anything at all, but someone who is great in wisdom one must have for him some respect.

The Gemara says, “A Torah scholar with whom people are pleased” – a Torah scholar whose character traits are very refined, he has a kind of completeness, he has good character. So what? So one “speaking before one who is greater than him in wisdom”, even if he did not learn from him, he protests.

What Does “Speaking Before One Who Is Greater Than Him in Wisdom” Mean?

“One sage speaking before one who is greater than him in wisdom.” What is the meaning? He hears from him differently. Differently than saying, he will want to hear from him differently than asking from me. Differently shows that the other one knows a bit better than you. He doesn’t challenge him. Challenging one may do.

I think this is also the meaning of the Shelah HaKadosh who struggled a bit, it means, I may argue with my teacher, not become angry. You are with your teacher. Your teacher is something… why is he your teacher? Because he knows something you don’t know. First of all, hear him out. You may argue, but try, you don’t have to accept everything he says. The same thing, that this applies even to everyone who is greater than him, not only his primary teacher.

A Condition to Be Able to Learn

I think that besides the matter of honor of Torah scholars, it is apparently a great condition to be able to learn. Because when a person hears something and he already thinks quickly of how he will refute it, he doesn’t even hear it out so well. First “digest” what the other one says with complete integrity. Only then you must think how it fits with your Torah that you already know.

This is what you say, the one who is engaged with intentions. I’m not saying, I have Torah biases, a person who comes to my shiur, I’m not saying one must believe everything I say, I myself don’t believe everything I say. But there are people who don’t grasp that one may listen. Presumably if you come to my shiur, I have something you need to buy. At least I have prepared the topic more than you prepared. It will be heard after I transmit the thing to you.

No, it’s a loophole that people have, when everything they hear, ah, it fits with some Torah I already heard once, he doesn’t become much wiser, because he only collects onto his existing Torah. But put everything aside and listen fully, this is engaged with intentions. And becoming wise well, one doesn’t have to be so great. A young man prepared a shiur in honor of Purim on the topic, he is now a good student, he will know the topic.

What Does “With Intentions” Mean?

Very good. So the engaged with intentions is there, one doesn’t have to think specifically that he has good character traits, it could be his views are already directed. What he knows he puts aside, now he can hear new things. I think with intentions means yes views, because with intentions is the language of the way of the mitzvah, remember, directing toward the truth, it’s like precise.

Law 18 – The Teacher Who Forgoes His Honor

There is a Rema, the primary teacher, what happens if someone did not follow, he was not regular, he did not give honor to the teacher. I think he can forgive his honor.

The Rema says, “And the primary teacher who forgoes his honor in all these matters, whether for all his students or for one of them, it is forgiven. And the student must honor his teacher even though he forgave.”

Distinction Between “Honor” and “Respect”

I think here the laws, not everyone can forgive his honor. I think forgiving means to say that he can say from today and onward, one may interrupt during the shiur, yes, or you don’t need to stand before me, and the like.

But it doesn’t help, because “even though he forgave, the student is obligated to respect him, and the student must respect his teacher even though he forgave.” Perhaps the respect means something that is less than honor? You see that there is respect and honor. Meaning to say, it doesn’t mean that because the teacher forgave one may conduct oneself toward him like a friend. One must still have respect.

No, it must be this way, because if the rebbe says “sit,” and he doesn’t listen, he stands up, he is conducting himself with disgrace, he is not regular. One must still find other ways to be mehadder (show honor), he shouldn’t now make a gezeira shava (logical inference), that just as the rebbe said one doesn’t need to stand up, there is no longer any din kavod (law of honor). What the rav commands he is mochel (forgives), but other dinei hiddur (laws of showing honor) still exist.

He brings here on the side, it appears hiddur is as we will see. Just as they will soon go see by kima (standing), they will see that there is a level called kima, there is hiddur. So hiddur, I mean, one must still be mehadder, and that doesn’t help, on that there is no mechila (forgiveness) at all. Now we will learn it. But you know, now we have learned how strong and how strict

Rambam Hilchot Talmud Torah Chapter 5 – The Rebbe’s Forgiveness and Honor of the Student

The Rebbe’s Forgiveness – The Boundaries of Mechila

Not thoroughly. He says, he must still be mehadder to the rebbe in other ways. He shouldn’t now make a gezeira shava, that just as the rebbe said one doesn’t need to stand up, and no longer do any dinei kavod, that the rebbe will say he is mochel. But the other dinei hiddur still exist.

He brings here on the side, he says that hiddur is as we will soon go see, kima is a hiddur. There are hiddurim. Such hiddurim, he means one must still be mehadder, and that doesn’t help, on that there is no mechila at all.

Halacha 19 – The Rebbe Must Honor the Student

The Turning Point of Chapter 5

Now we will learn it. Until now we have learned how strong and how strict it is that the talmid (student) must honor his rebbe. Now the Rambam turns around the rope and he says that the rebbe may also honor the talmid, not only may he, he must.

Even though he forgives, he is obligated to honor him. Yes. The Rambam says further, “Just as the students are obligated in honor of the rebbe, so the rebbe must honor his students and draw them close.” He must honor his students and be mekarev (draw close) them. “Thus the Sages said, ‘Let the honor of your student be as dear to you as that of your friend.’” You must honor your students as you honor your friends. Or more literally translated, the honor of your students should be as dear to you as your friends. That means, if someone disgraces your friends, you will be so strongly disturbed, you should care about their honor.

Students Are “The Children Who Give Pleasure in This World and the World to Come”

“And a person must be careful with his students and love them, for they are the children who give him pleasure in this world and in the world to come.” They are the children who give him pleasure in this world, they serve him, as we learned earlier, they do things for him, and in the world to come, because the rebbe is his father for the life of the world to come, but also the student is his rebbe’s father for the life of the world to come.

He will bring out a Gemara that it cannot be that from a rebbe who became corrupt, it cannot be that the student should have the world to come? Do you have another Gemara about Rabbi Meir and Acher? Rabbi Meir and Acher, very good. Yes, but it can be very good, because as we learned at the beginning of the chapter that a student is a kal vachomer (logical inference) from a rebbe, because he brings him to the life of the world to come. Well, obviously, every father loves his children because he makes him a father of the life of this world. So it’s a kal vachomer one must love his students because they make him a father in the world to come.

Halacha 20 – Students Make the Rebbe Wiser

“I Have Learned Much Wisdom from My Friends More Than from My Teachers, and from My Students More Than from All”

He also says, students are massive in the wisdom of the rebbe, they make the rebbe become wiser, because he has to whom to teach, they broaden his heart. The Sages say, thus the Sages have told us, “I have learned much wisdom from my friends more than from my teachers,” I learned from my friends more than from my teachers. It’s very interesting. “And from my students more than from all.”

This statement goes a bit against everything that was learned about the honor of the rebbe. If so, friends are no less important, students are no less important. One can say that every statement that is extreme, it could be that one only learns from friends after one has learned the wisdom from the teachers. The fact is, if one is an am ha’aretz (ignoramus), one learns nothing from friends. Once one is already a talmid chacham (Torah scholar), one has learned from the teachers, now one can begin learning from everyone. One begins to value small weak things.

“A Small Tree Ignites the Large One” – Rabbi Yochanan’s Parable

Rabbi Yochanan said in other words that a student-friend, one must indeed respect the student-friend. He writes that “a small tree ignites the large one,” you shouldn’t think what can the small student do for the rebbe? Just as a small piece of wood can ignite a large tree, “so a small student sharpens the rebbe,” a small student can sharpen the rebbe’s wisdom, “until he brings out from him through his questions glorious wisdom.”

He can extract from his questions, through the questions of the student the rebbe can bring out in practice glorious wisdom. He means to say that a student, a small student, when he asks questions, the rebbe understands better to give over what he understands? He understands it better. The rebbe himself understands it better, because the student asks him such foolish questions, and he says, “Didn’t we learn yesterday that the rebbe may not, lo yakpid melamed (the teacher should not be strict)?”

So afterwards he will extract from himself, how does the glorious wisdom come? The rebbe already knew it in potential, but he brings it to actuality, he brings out glorious wisdom from the rebbe through the student.

“What Is Your Request, Up to Half the Kingdom”

Just as when she learns that the king says, “What is your request, up to half the kingdom,” the question of the student can bring up to half the kingdom.

Summary – The Arc of Chapter 5

As it says in Chapter 5, it’s very interesting, we learned that one must honor the rebbe, and at the end we learned that the rebbe must also honor the student.

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